What would you do if a good friend of your owed you money?
468630
A) be sure they knew it was a loan. They might not be aware of it.\n\nB) Talk it over with your friend, in a "Hey, money is getting kind of tight for me right now, how are things for you guys? Would it be possible for you to say, start floating me 50 bucks a paycheck or something? It would really help me out."\n\nC) Remember, there is no way to not sound like a jerk. Because that depends entirely on what kind of people they are. Also, a good rule of thumb when loaning out money, is to never actually expect to see it again. Try, yeah. But don't be surprised when it never appears again.
622290
hey right now someone owes me $100 and someone else owes me $250. Im just going to take both as a loss. But Karma will surly come and handle it for you. You will be blessed in other ways.
717578
Bow out gracefully, stop paying for anything and leave them to each other.  Then go find some new friends.
630090
tell the bank so they can make a record of the mistake b/c karma is a bitch, it will always come back to you. besides you never know if the money you are spend is someone bill money...
264912
You owe her nothing!. She wasn't being a good friend in the first place if she could not agree to your payment plan, and also bad mouthing you to your other friends. Tell her to sell the dress to get her money back. Don't give her one cent for it!. They say..'you always can tell who your true friends are'.
652277
You have to sue the person that owes you the money.  After you win the case, then you can try to collect it from them.  It cannot be done over the internet.
322431
U help ur friend but don't tell the other one that is mad at u and so everyone is happy. When u help pay for ur friend that is not pissed off at u pretend that she got the money to pay from her parents or something so ur other PO'd friend will not get madder. Good luck! Email me if u need more help.
528280
Aaahhh!The majority of money matters between friends is based on supposition. I suppose my friend won't mind if I can't pay when I said I would. Or, I suppose my friend will realize that I need the money back immediately and pay me back in a timely manner. Here's a good one: I suppose my friend will realize all the favors I've done and won't expect repayment. I suppose I've answered your question.
425182
i will not consider this till my pocket allows. I will like to give him/her the best, i can. \n\nThe money can be earned again and again, but friends can't be. Whether they are there for you, otherwise not. No other option.
878732
Set up some sort of payment arrangement with your friend. But first find out how much you can do without. Make sure you stick with what you are going to pay him and don't give him a song and dance about being broke. Keep a ledger of what you paid and how much. Also get him to sign or initial it even if he says it's not necessary. Once you are done, don't borrow anymore. I'm assuming you want to keep this friend.
103588
She went back to him for money? I think that shows her character. I would MOVE ON. If you have told her your intentions and how you feel, yet she hasn't made any indication that she wants to be more than friends with you...you have to give up. Everyone will move on and It Will Be Okay.
1148253
You do not have to pay his fines because you were not in a rational state of mind when you offered. If your boyfriend is really your friend and cares about you he should not press you on it. He should take up his responsibilities and pay off the fines HE accrued on his own. HE is an adult. You could compromise and in a sober state of mind offer to pay a [small] part of the fines to help him out.
627501
Know your reasons,and make sure they are FACT. Do not end a friendship over miscommunication. It is the hardest thing to try to earn back.If the friend really did a dirty deed, remember then, he or she was not ever a real FRIEND to begin with.FRIENDS are people you can trust with your life and the lives of your children. You give unto others' and they in return will give back to you without question in some way!
1120128
Turn it in to the police and it may ultimately be yours anyway.  Than you won't have to deal with the guilt.  Don't worry about the IRS; found money is not taxable income so the IRS won't get their piece.
1045643
My bestfriend and I have known each other since 7th grade, however, we wern't really friends till 11th.  We have had our rough patches, but no matter what is going on we would always be there for one an other.  Recently I needed to borrow a faily large amount of money for a settlement on an old debt.  She let me have the money (my family would not do this for me), since I have paid her back.  I think that people may have bad expirances with so called friends because one trys to take advantage of the other.  We would never do this to each other, it is far more importaint to me that she is always a part of my life.  She has been my bestfriend for 10 years and I don't plan on that ever changing.
910155
You can either write a letter to the person staing all the fee's owed and say that you have submitted a copy of this letter to an attorney for small claims, a good scare should get them to take you seriously. You should know that when you give a person money you shouldn't expect it back unless it was in writing and signed.
930211
it seems like your friend is not really appreciating the real you, only the money you have. when a friend is like this, it hurts, because i know from experience. this friend of yours is a definite user. she only gives you phone calls when she needs an extra 20.00$ for a pair of cool shoes, or a ride to the mall. does this sound familiar? than you've definitely got a friend who is a user on your hands. talk to your friend, heart-to-heart, and explain that she is using you and your feelings have been really hurt by it, but you may still want to be her friend, especially if things work out well between you two. if she understand sand stops the nonsense, than you'll probably stay friends. if not, don't deal with it. tell her that you can't really be good pals anymore until she changes her ways- for good. those kind of friends don't last anyway!