What make guys attracted to certain girls? Got problem here...almost all guys that I close to seem to want?
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Maybe you're not good looking, but you are sexy! maybe your curves turn them on or your eyes.\nI understand it could be quite upsetting. Find a way to take advantage of it.
79987
Let me tell you this...as a 'guy' guys only go after girls who they like!!!!! they wouldn't approach someone they didn't like unless its for somekind of advantage.
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Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.
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Your right, not all guys r like that but the majority is. And even though u say your not all about the looks, it is scientifically proven that males have it built in them to be attracted to a women just by how she looks. Not saying that all men are like this but think about how many men cheat on their mates every day. Basically men are generally driven by wut they see and girls are driven by how they feel. You c it in ppls actions all the time. Oh and don't worry I'm not ragging on the boys cuz some girls can be players too.
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ok girl...i don't know about other guys,but personally the first thing that attracts me in a girl is her eyes...coz no matter how much the girl's physical apperiance changed,the look in her eyes remains the same and doesn't change a bit..love lasts forever too...same think about the look of the girl's eyes...\ni'm not saying that other things are not important,but the most impotant one is what i've mentioned to u..\nby the way i'm 19 male..\nu can im me not on my massenger if u want...\nwoondedlover@yahoo.com
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I have the same problem with guys. I don't know why it happenes, but it really sucks. I know when i don't pay attention to some guys it's because i'm not attracted to them in that way. But when i am attracted to other guys, they just walk all over me and don't give me the time of day. I think the reason why the girls u dont want attention from is that you are really being yourself. I mean 110% urself. And the girls that u do want the attention from, ur not being urself. Maybe ur being shy or an a**. Idk... the only thing i can say is always be yourself...... no matter what.
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I don't understand that either.  Is he attracted to ever girl he meets? no.  So what makes him think that a gay guy is going to be attracted to every guy he meets?  Tell him to stop flattering himself; he's not that hot! :P
224225
Hmm...I find that most girls are attracted to a guy's personality. If he has confidence in himself, girls would generally feel more comfortable around him.
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I respect girls who try new things and go outside their comfort zone.\n\nAny girl who goes after what she wants will be attractive, because she is likely to be happier, more confident, and more driven, in my mind at least.\n\nDo it and don't worry about what guys like.
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Gets lonely, doesn't it? Slow down and think about what you REALLY want in a guy. I bet the ones you have are all different and exciting in their own ways (mine were), but wouldn't it be nice to find just one that has ALL the qualities you enjoy? It's difficult, but it can be done. It may even mean you find someone entirely new (I did).
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Maybe because you're beauty, more guys are getting attracted to you. This will definately attact the Jack---es, where as before you had men interested in true love. No, I'm not telling you to get ugly, just that the guy will be harder to find, and will have to love you for you, and you'll have to love him for him. Maybe you're biting on looks too when you look for a guy, then find out his personality is not so good. Can't tell with the amount of info, but keep trying!!!
289751
may be she is attracted to other guys also, just be more with her, and let her know how much you love, so that she can pick you from the list of the guys if she sees.
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Every person has his or her own idea of beauty. I have a good friend who is attracted to very large women. Personally, I am very attracted to bookish, quiet, intelligent women who many guys may not look at twice. Yes, many guys chase after the Barbie dolls.... but not all guys do. More important than your looks is your attitude about yourself, and your openess to being accepted by a good man who sees the beauty on your inside and out. I bet one day it happens for you!
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If I feel like I'm seeking someone and there aren't any choices that may be good enough, then there isn't any choice to be attached. I haven't met any guys recently whom I was very attracted to. It was like I was looking for something I knew it was not gonna be there, because that's what they are and they can't be changed. So, I wouldn't want to settle for less if they didn't seem good enough for me.
610704
Each guy has a different idea of the type of girl he is attracted too... Some guys like tomboyish girls... Some like eye candy... Some like down-to-earth girls... Every guy is different...
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Fawning can resemble desperation, which is a major turnoff for me. I am intrigued by a man who acts like he doesn't need a woman but yet he is paying extra attention to me. This makes me think he might like me more than just any girl (crazy isn't it!). Keep me guessing, to a certain extent, and my desire level rises.
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Just continue to be "hot" and hopefully he will be more interested in you than other girls.  If not, his loss ... there are tons of guys out there to like :)