I feel that my friend is hiding something that affects me. She denies when I ask her casualy, what can I do?
457840
Just let it go. It will come out eventually. She's not going to tell you if she doenst want to.
983484
I don't know but I think you should ask her "Did you need to tell me something else?" If the answer is no then ask "Did you need to ask me something ?" Tell her that these awkward silences give the feeling that something is being left unsaid and you would like to know what it is.
686596
She made her feelings clear.\nYou didn't want to hear it, but she is not leading you around.\nListen to her!\nBe content you still have her company on some basis and if it gets impossible, go away.
461723
you should just be honest with them, give them hints that you don't want to be there friends start hanging out with other friends and leave her alone then she won't or she will get tired of being ignored then she might just leave you alone. or tell her in person or a note what ever you feel comfortable doing...goodluck
930120
You could try talking to her and let her know that you are concerned about your friendship.   If she is really into this guy then it might be hard to get her to see your point of view.  But I think you should definitely talk to her.  Good Luck!!
1002746
If she is being deceitful behind your back then she is not a true friend. A true friend would be there for you and accept you for who you are and not make fun of you for your choice.\n\ni would tell her but in a slightly confintational manner, show her that you are proud of who you are AND tell her that you know she is being deceitful behind your back and tell her that is she was a true friend she would not be doing that. \n\nIf she at first rejects you and then later on wants to be friends again, tell her that she has to earn your respect back\n\nbest of luck to you
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
855816
i would tell her....you having these feelings and holding it in is already changing your friendship more than you realize, but be carefull how you go about it coz sometimes nothing good can come out friendships evolving into more espeacialy if she doesnt feel the same.\n\nid suggest a strait forward conversation with your friend.    \n                                goodluck!
755538
try and be subtle and not hurt her feelings when you talk to her about it, the last thing you want to do is ruin your friendship with her.\nif she is a true friend she might listen to you, but i really do feel that all you can do is tell her gently how you feel, and if she choses to do nothing about it, then all you can do is sit back and wait until she comes to you for help.\n\ngood luck with it
265463
Oh boy!! That's a touchy one.  First thing I would do is start off by letting her know that she is your friend and you don't want anything to come between you.  Sit her down and let her know you want to talk to her.  Then tell her you are her friend and you don't want anything to come between you and her.  Then tell her what has been happening. The tough parts are not coming across as a threat and letting her know you are sincere and really am talking to her about this because you value her as a friend.
319821
talk to her,as in y is she nt comfortable confronting to people directly about the problem she has with them..ask her if she fears gettin in to a fight,if so then convince her that confronting and sorting out things with friends is a small as well as a healthy issue at the same time ,which would nt break a stronger relation like friendship or any other relation..
202139
Wow, that's a tricky one!  I'd say confront her about it.  If it makes you upset, you need to let her know.  It's not like you need a "right" to be upset... if you're upset, then you're upset, so be real with yourself and with your friend.  If she's a true friend, she'll understand and back off.  And if she acts the fool and tells u you have no right to be upset, she's prolly not the kind of friend you want.  There are no laws or rules governing this sort of thing... you just need to keep people in your life that respect you the way you want to be respected.  The last thing you wanna do is seal your lips, because she needs to know it's not cool with you before it goes any further, and give her a chance to decide how much your friendship means to her before it's too late.
280868
You can only tell her that you think it's wrong and just stay away. The things that you say she's going to do are dangerous not just for herself but for you as well. Let her make her own mistakes and be there for her when she realizes it's a mistake. Just remember you can't change people and if she pushes you to join her in a shoplift or drug related activity you can get into just as much trouble as she could and that she's not being a true friend. You're a good person to worry about your friend the way you do unfortunatley she's going to have to figure this out for herself. You've already told her how you feel and that's all you can do.
764420
Tell her just like you told us.....  I like to leave the light on because.....  We do have some expectations of privacy....  It's always best to be honest and straightforward.  Do not tap dance around the issues.  Just be pleasant and respectful and hopefully she will understand.
1187200
be as honest  with her as you have been with us...\nit may hurt for a moment..but in the end you discover a great friendship blooming out of your truthfulness...\n\nnot telling her, and avoiding her, will only lead to hurt for her and you.\nher, because she will always wonder why?\nand you, because you are carrying a secret, that would cause no harm to share...{guilt}
196232
I have that same problem, and have come to realize that she is probably waiting for you to answer that question for her.  She may  not want to pry and make you feel like she is overbearing.  You should actually talk to her about that, in a manner that is'nt accusing or defensive.  If you don't get the answers that you need, then say what feels right.
779552
Talk to her. That's the best way to sort it out. Ask her if she's really interested in your friendship. Who knows? Maybe there's something bugging both of you and all you have to do is come clean and compromise.\n\nGood luck!