If you cheated on your boyfriend/girlfriend would tell him or keep it a secreat?
472755
I comepletely agree with " if you're going to cheat on someone don't be in the relationship." But if you do cheat, I think you should be completely honest with the person and then hand the reins over to them because now it's their decision if they still want to be with you. But some people truly believe in "What they don't know, wont hurt them" but the fact is that enventually they do know and you are a worse person for not only being a cheater but a liar.
95558
The girls answer is "Yes we would definitly tell" and "Yes we would want you to tell us"  I mean I could dump him then he could be with the person he's tryin to get with behind my back no strings.  Well wouldn't you want to know if your partner was cheating or trying to cheat?
240952
If it were me (which it's not) I would keep my mouth shut.  But you just have to think about what you would do if you were in her shoes.  Would you want someone to tell you or what?  Women generally have a "gut feeling" when their man has been cheating, so it's possible that she already knows and just doesn't want to admit it to herself.  Talking to him is definantly a good idea.  But why would he cheat and then ask her to move with him.  Maybe you can plant a guilt trip on him and he'll tell her.  But I think it's his place to spill the beans!  Good Luck!
712001
I would believe her but like if he ever called you. dont bring it up at first let him know you still love him then when the conversation is cool like yall talkin alot stuff. then just ask him question about cheating not towards him but just to see how he reacts. now if he still dont answer your call then he is embrassed to talk to you and know that you know he cheated on you.
916982
i cheated once on my girlfriend when i was younger. I got caught and she was furious. I decided that it really isnt the best thing in the world and that it was stupid and immature to do. It was one of my biggest mistakes ever. I guess when you do it, you figure, your not going to get caught and that even if you do, whats the worst that could happen?
645595
At some point you're going to have to face what you did, I mean were there other people who saw who could tell your man, or do you think this person you kissed will take it personally. I understand what happened, we all have done some stupid stuff drunk. I would talk to the guy you kissed, no matter how uncomfortable it maybe, the last thing you need is this guy thinking it meant something and harassing you, you need to draw the line and say it was a mistake (who knows maybe he thinks it was a mistake too). As for your man, it's up to you whether you tell him, although IF there is even the SLIGHTEST possibility he will find out from other means then YOU need to be the one to tell him if you hope to stay with him, he will think more of your honesty if you come out with it than he will your dishonesty if he finds out through someone else. ALTHOUGH IF there is NO possibility he will find out I would say keep it to yourself, there's no need to drag your guilt out and punish him, believe me I know my boyfriend told me about some girl he had sex with then afterward he said, I feel SO much better for getting that off my chest, yeah well then I felt horrible and I wasn't the one who had done anything wrong!
836656
Take this info with you to the grave.  Don't tell your girlfriends.  If he suspects and questions you, deny it.  That's what a man would do.\n\nWhy would you want to break your boyfriend's heart by telling him, just to relieve your "guilt"?   That would be very selfish of you.   It was just sex, nothing more.  There's no reason to feel guilty, everyone cheats, eventually.  The only reason you feel "guilty" is because you accept society's brainwashing about monogamy.  It doesn't exist among 96% of other mammals, and humans do not show a strong predeliction towards it, either.  Deal with it.  Accept it, revel in it, but don't tell it.  \n\nIt was bad enough telling all of us about it.   \n\n( way to go! )
43078
Well it depends on if you are...repentant about the mistake you made.  if you are, yes. you should. he'll find out someday and it's better to come from you with a real face of repentance than for him to find out and ruin your relationship because of it. \nIf you aren't repentant and you could care less if your b/f knew, then tell him and break up with him.  'cause if you 'cheated' on him, whats the point in being HIS     friend?
270846
I'd tell him. He knows I still love him and we like teasing each other, but it's different with each couple.
282037
i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new
1126069
If the real reason is just to let people know and not to gain anything yourself, most of the time I would say it was okay.  I trusted someone for years, with my deepest secrets only to find out they were telling everyone.  No one was nice enough to tell me what she was doing behind my back.  I would have appreciated the honesty.
627065
Absolutely but make sure your information is correct and also be prepared for them to be in denial.  A lot of people don't believe that THEIR partner could possibly cheat but you wouldn't be a true friend if you didn't try.  When it comes to things like this always put yourself in their shoes.  Wouldn't you expect them to tell you if the situation were reversed?  It would worse if they found out later from someone else and found out that you knew and didn't tell them.
470272
If you loved her you wouldnt have cheated on her?
782958
If my boyfriend cheated on me, by sleeping with someone, I wouldn't forgive him at all.  No matter who they slept with.  I would actually, cut his d**k off, glue it to his forehead, and call him a d**khead.
135389
really depends if you want to keep ur relationship, is best to keep it to yourself. Some truths are best untold. Unless you've decide to bring ur relationship to higher level of trust, then find the right time to confess... be ready to get hurt, but its worth it~ she'll understand... after dat, make sure u stop doing it again... Ur Choice =)
641383
right now i would have to say no but i honestly don't know how i would feel if put in the situation with certain circumstances. anybody here cannot say they absolutely would not. it's been proven that 60% of men and 40% of women have cheated. and that's only those that chose to admit it.
196498
You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.