I feel so bad about this, am I a bad person?..?
470020
I dont think anybody at that party thought that ur behaviour was bad. u were just confused abt picking up the child. and people probably must hv forgotten abt it now.if u r still upset u can probably make it up to some other kid  by being kind to him or her or playing with them etc
379929
You know, I'm myself have done this a time or two now that you've made me think about it.  Its wrong and I should stop doing it. I just get so frusterated as people ignorance sometimes that it leaks out.  I'll try to be more aware of it.  Thank you for your question, its made me think about myself and how I can be a better person.  \n\n*hugs*
1142729
why are you feeling this way???  if the situation is that the person left you, do you think they are feeling this way.. probably not.life is about living and learning. yes I'm sure you are feeling bad but it is not a life or death situation. and if that's the case check yourself into a hospital.
457543
Why do you want to compare yourself and feel bad.\n\nGet over it. You are Just absolutely fine. You would be definetely perfect for that one person, you find.
36468
Im feeling like that right now with my  girl friend.\nand ive felt like this before just ask him whats going on and if its another girl dump his sorry ass
448876
I feel bad for you. Get some self esteem and find a guy that really respects you. This guy's using you.
922500
When you feel yourself get cynical and resentful I suggest a trip over to 'Polls and Surveys' for some light entertainment. Get away from this for a while to lighten up. Take care!
54441
Ultimately you have to follow your feelings...what else can you do...?? Your bro's fiance is wrong for making you feel bad...not very understanding. Were you trying to make anyone feel bad...?? No...!! So the only thing is not being able to explain your feelings well enough for all to understand. You don't sound like a bad person.
63403
YES!  I've let others hurt my feelings and make me doubt myself.  I've learned though that, it's up to me to allow that to hurt me or not.  I am responsible for my own feelings about myself and shouldn't let others make me feel bad or doubt myself.  I must love myself and not let anyone else shake that!\nI don't want anyone else to feel that way about themselves because of something I have said so, I try my best to be supportive instead of belittling or insensitive.
154334
ouch...  sorry.\n\nWhy does my mind get blinded by worldliness?  (groan) I agree... but I feel bad and small now.
324387
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
787562
firs i gotta ask you why would you do such a thing its sick and it shows your a bad person (if you plss care to tell me my e-mail is tiffymarie1@yahoo.com)&#92;\n\nyou should tell her because maybe your conscience isn't as disturbing now but someday your life will turn into a living hell\n\nthis coming fro a worried voice ( Tiffy)
805828
i'm basically an honest person myself, but get over it. if you don't like cheating, avoid it.  but some things are just not worth worrying about and feeling guilty about for too long. just reading your letter tells me that you must be a very honest person. and also very young and too idealistic. a mistake like that shouldn't make you hate yourself as much as you do. it also doesn't undo all the good things you've been and done in the past.  as long as you strive to be a better person, you should be okay. but you should also enjoy yourself more and loosen up.
144325
I used to be just like that. You have to realize that you have to please yourself before you can really please anyone else. Don't go through your life regreting what you did not do and resenting someone else because of the choices that you yourself made. Try it slowly at first and see how it works for you. You will be surpised at how much better you will feel. Take baby steps. The world was not made in a day.
839376
These feelings that you are having toward her are going to keep building and building; if you don't go ahead and discuss them with her, you might lose your cool one day and really go off on her and say things that maybe you did not mean to and cannot be taken back.  It sounds to me that she is indeed taking you for granted and will continue to do so until you tell her how you feel.  Some people do not realize that they do this to others until it is brought to their attention.  Then again, on the other hand, some people are just like that and down right rude.  If I were you, I would tell her exactly how I felt about everything, but try to do it in a nice way.  From the sound of the narrative you wrote with your question, it seems as you are a good person and would handle this way.  Hopefully, once you confront her, she will see the "error" of her ways and change her attitude.  If she doesn't, at least then you will know that you tried and you will not fell bad when you tell her no the next time she wants something from you.  Good luck.
673501
I feel sorry for you.My advice is, identify the reason why she did it,also ask your self I am faithful and am I the person who she feels comfortable and secure?After you answer these questions, you can decide.If there is any weakness on your side,(I am not talking about the sexual thing) you better forgive her from the bottom of your heart and leave peacefully.
648613
The best way to handle this is to say, yes, I did this, yes it was wrong, if that's what you believe, which you must if you feel guilty, and then realize that people make mistakes. If you can apologize and rectify it, do so. If not, well, people are human. Only God is perfect.