Why do some married people get tired of each other?
470971
Because that person that you are married to might have did something to hurt you or you did something to hurt that person and it'll come to that point were it makes you tired of each other.
31980
According to the latest research there are 7 main reasons:\n\nPoor communication\nFinancial problems\nA lack of commitment to the marriage\nA dramatic change in priorities\nInfidelity\nFailed expectations or unmet needs\nAddictions and substance abuse and Physical, sexual or emotional abuse\n\nLack of conflict resolution skills although not a reason certainly contributes.\n\nEvery case is different as every couple has unique triggers an stresses, but in general the above reasons would give most folks a run for the money to stay together.
183072
you loose everyone eventually even yourself over time. they have issues because they feel like these love marriages are destroying their cultural purity.
727556
I honestly believe that the reason there are so many divorces is because people get married when they are in the "honeymoon phase" of their relationship, have a fairtale wedding, and then expect a fairytale wedding.\nPeople need to realize that true love is when you love a person completely, including their faults.  \nI think people expect their partner to change or something to happen once they get married, or many times they don't even know their partner's irritating habbits.\nI think it is important to realize no matter how much you love someone and how great your relationship is, when you live with someone you see everything about them, and it isn't always what a person expects.\n\nA relationship obviously changes throughout the years a couple is together.  People change and mature and things that were important to us as children get put on the back burner.\nDoes that mean a relationship is better or worse?   No.
395829
The judge can get tired of you. It's commonly done with children.  Some famous people have been married over a dozen times (some because their husbands/wives died).
250863
i know far more unhappy married men than happy married men.  i do know some happy married guys though - and there's no rhyme or reason to which guys end up happy and which don't.  it seems pretty random.
155764
that happens in marriages alot...its more of a tension breaker to get things out in the open and get closer.
374663
The men I have spoken to feel alienated and rejected both mentally and physically from their wives.  Apparently sex once or twice a year is considered normal for this stage/age of marriage.  Loneliness would probably be the best way to explain it.  They feel that they can fulfill their needs while still maintaining the quid pro quo of the marriage and family.\n\nWrong as it sounds that is what they tell me.  They actually feel like they are sacrificing their own happiness to maintain the responsibilities they have for family.  They see an affair or usually casual sex as a necessary evil.  Most have no intention of ever leaving their wives and they make that perfectly clear.  To them  a marriage that is tolerable is better than divorce.
63148
a lot of couples have this problem and it can be caused from a variety of reasons from medical to physiological/phycological. Some folks just grow weary of the same thing over and over again and become bored with it. Each individual case would have to be looked at for its own merits. A blanket answer is not going to help you with your question or anyone else on this site.Problems like this can be helped with professional counseling if both people are willing to go.
565596
The only reason I can think of is that they love the person so much that they cant imagine living without them. Marriage isn't for the faint hearted it requires open communication, commitment and flexibility. To share your life with someone, accepting their faults as well as their good traits, to be committed to making their life as full of love and happiness as you can so that in return they will do the same for you isn't always easy but the reward of being with that someone special is awesome....
1183149
They just start taking things for granted I guess. They have forgotten how important the little things in life are. They just assume that the other knows how they feel why show or say it. All I can say is that after ten years of marriage it is the little things we do for each other that matters the most. While they might know how we feel it is still needed to be said and shown on a regular basis
84702
Most people are just not content. Pain and simple. If a married guy looks your way and you catch him , he will someday cheat on you.
1172426
I'm there with ya. Its because we are good to people and they want to use you. You should be me cause I have one person I am coming close to hating and its a family member by marriage. It is also because some people drive others to that conclusion and it is a natural emotion.
1128447
I think that the reason that people cheat on each other is that they forget why they craved each other in the first place.  Lust is lost in bills, kids, stress, traffic.  Couples forget to say thanks, to hold hands, to appreciate that both have commited to the same end.  Turn off the tv and just chat about anything stupid you feel like, just no talking about bills, kids, stress, traffic..............................
1118112
Really, there is never a good reason for the other person that is being cheated on but, sometimes, when a person is all alone in the marriage, being ignored and traeted badly by the other person, then they cheat, they do this to feel love again, to feel needed. Sometimes, things just happen, even if they were trying not to happen.
313885
Married couples fight. It happens. One thing you need to do is never go to bed angry at each other. I don't know why you had a fight and I don't want to know. You guys have to find a way to have a civil conversation without losing your tempers. I love my wife and I respect her as woman as well. I am nothing without her. I wish you luck
1067329
Everyone goes through mood swings.  Guys aren't the only ones who are rude and mean - women do it too.  The key is communication between eachother so you know how eachother is feeling.  If your husband is just mean and grumpy for no good reason he might be dealing with some things inside of him that he isn't willing to share with you.  Either way, if it bothers you and you can't talk it out - there is nothing wrong with getting into marriage counseling.