this guy flirts with me but he flirts with alot of other girls as well, how do i know who he likes for real?
468457
he is just playing the field - do you want that kinda attention - obviously he is will not be exclusive to you - even if you have him
549943
You did not mention your age or his.  It just might be that he is not to sure how to take the flirting.  \nInstead of asking him if he likes someone else when that person comes around ask him why he likes to watch her and what is it about her he is interested in.\nThen ask him in a suttle way what he likes about you.  \nTell him what you like about him as well.
920176
If he knows you like him, and he asks other girls out other than you, then that means that he doesn't like you back as more than a friend.  \nIt's not comfortable to tell people who like you that the feeling isn't mutual, so he hasn't said anything.  He's hoping you'll "get the hint" and stop coming on to him.
46842
Sounds like he's really flirting with you.  Does he talk to you about other girls?  If so, then you're probably just a "buddy".  If not, then he's probably into you.  Depending on how well you know the guy, meaning his personality, you might already have other clues as to whether or not he likes you.  Does he let you pick out the movie?  Does he listen to what you say, not just sit there with a blank look on his face?  The face lighting up thing is a give-away, but be careful, friends will often tell you what YOU want to hear.  FYI guys are not always primitive, depending on your personality maybe he wants you to make the first move.  Guys sometimes like a "sure thing" too (nothing dirty is implied by that).  Another thing, why would he go to the trouble of faking flirting with you?  Does he get something out of "fake" flirting???  If all else fails, be direct, ask him if he thinks you're girlfriend material.  Depending on how he answers the question, you'll know.
347802
Pysical contact is always a sign of flirting and i figure you liked it (hopefully). the best way to tell if he's flirting with you or just being flirty is to see how he is around other females. If its normal behavior dont think much about it. If its out of the box for him...i'd take that as a sign that he might be feelin you.. If all else fails just ask.. "Whats up wit you?"
228976
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
590536
Trust me, you'll know. If he flirts with you a lot, most likely he likes you, unless he's just messing with your mind. If he plays around with you and all that, he might like you.
432430
I think the reason he's acting this way is that he likes you.. he really really likes you, and has romantic feelings towards you.  By talking about other girls, he's trying to make you jealous.  i think that you should just give him time to come around and realize how much he misses your friendship.  or, you should be straightforward with him and tell him that you value your friendship, and you don't like him romantically (just so you don't give him any false hope).
996386
chill out  you are being paranoyed you should ask him if he likes you or if he likes other girls if he likes you just ask him out if he says no just say "can we be friends?" and let the relationship grow from there and sooner or later you will go out with him
1062693
my dear you must let him know you exist first. be sure that he knows that. then show your interest in him just a little flirt not something flashy. laugh at his jokes, show interest in the things you are sure he likes, talk to him and listen everybody likes people that listen. dress sexy but make sure you don't look slutty. sorry for that but guys like girls that are sexy by nature, not fake.
148391
You could ask him. You could ask a friend of his. You could have a friend of yours ask him or his friend. You can also tell (usually) by the way he acts around you. The sillier he acts, the more he likes you.
211314
If you go to the same school....I know this sounds weird...But look at him as much as possible. I have this problem, but its not so bad anymore. I saw him talking to his friends and flirting with other girls and then I realized that he isnt worth my time. Maybe your guy SEEMS nice, but trust me, there's a jerk somewhere inside him...
95652
if he hasnt told youhe likes another girl maybe your just paranoid but if you can prove he likes this other chick then dump him before he trys to go for the  other chick
414751
maybe, but if he's willing to admit there are other girls in his life proceed with caution!  keep it casual and let him know you're interested but stay busy.
817063
Explain to him that you are flattered by the attention he is showing you and you are pleased that he likes you so much because you feel the same way, but you know he has a girlfriend, and until that changes and he's "single" again, the flirting has to stop.  He'll respect the fact that you don't want to break up a relationship or get him into trouble with his girlfriend, and you aren't putting any pressure on him - you're merely being honest.  Always take the high road.  If he is being honest with you, and he wants to pursue a relationship with you, he will move on from his current relationship.  If he doesn't, you'll know that his flirting was just that and nothing more.  Good luck!
565261
How to tell if he likes you \n(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).\n\nA lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.\n\nHe might start talking loudly in your presence or start treating you as one of the guys. (Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it's one of the most common and strongest signals!) \nHe might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you. \nThen again, he could behave like a real Casanova, praising you for no apparent reason and straining hard to hold a sustained intelligent conversation (often ending in him asking for your phone number or for a date) \nIf he is acting more flirtatious toward you than toward other people at the same event \nIf his friends are paying attention to you when he isn't around (often a clue that this guy talked to his or her friends about you). \nIf he always seems to be around (especially if you get the "instinct" that he's there because of you) \nIf he is smiling while listening to you, and seems to be listening especially "actively" \nIf he seems to look into your eyes a little longer than normally. \nIf he remembers stuff you said before and brings it up again (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past ) - shows he's interested in you \nTesting Your Suspicions: \nIf you think a guy likes you (trust your gut instinct, girls) but you can't be totally sure, try this: Give him your best smile. If he smiles back, or his face suddenly lights up, tah dah! He likes you. If he starts sweating and looks all flustered, he likes you even more. If his smile is the polite kind, or if he frowns or looks away, that's a bad sign that maybe he isn't interested in you after all.\n\nHow To Tell If He Likes You As A Friend Or Something More:\n\nIt's all in how he looks at you. If he looks at you in the eyes, he likes you as a friend. If he looks at your lips, he can't wait to kiss you!\n\nAnd if you can't wait until he asks you out, ask him out! Guys appreciate it when girls ask them up and set up the date and give them a break from setting up all the dates. He'll appreciate you even more if the date is fun and unique!
485234
It seems as though this guy likes you, and he is flirting with you immensely...It could be possible that he has liked you all along but in thinking that you never felt the same way..kinda moved on with his life and eventually  wound up dating. As it seems as though u guys are getting closer, his feelings are probably surfacing once more..My take on it..is to go with the flow, and see where it goes...don'y let himhaving a g/f stop u right now..my b/f for two yrs had a g/f when we met and I had a b/f, but things were menat to be different, and we a rebothe happy we made the decision to be with each other. So don't rule out anything..If u like him also..go for it..But if at any point you find he's simply a sleezebal, who doesn't genuinely like you but just wants to cheat...don't go a step furthur...but it sounds like something could be happening here.