If someone has a mid-life crises while playing hide & seek, does he automatically lose because he can't find h
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good one..*wound* ..right on!\n\nhe's IT!!..lol:) \n\nthx
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If they want to find you as well you'll find them by coincidence, but if they don't you won't find them..\n\nNote:\nDo not ever care about those who don't care about you.
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one time I lost my brother's dog playing texas hold em...I was dog-sitting and I told my brother that he ran away...
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I'm in my 50s, so many, including two best friends.  I lost one at the age of 41 to heart failure related to diabetes and one at 52 due to uterine cancer.  You expect to lose those older than you, but it is hard to lose those younger.  It is  also hard to lose a friend as it really makes you realize your own mortality and how short and precious life is.
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maybe they don't want to be found...
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If the communication lines have been strained to a point that there is none at all, or a constant line of negative from both sides. One or both decide that there is no time for the other. One is cheating,lying, and show no signs of stopping. Refusal to seek out mediation/help,to find the problem, and or a soulution. So,...if you have lost Faith, Trust, Comfort,while the big pit of total loneliness has taken ahold of you, it's time to cut your losses, and take your lessons in life else where!
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While it may appear to you that since life dows exist which in itself is a mystery, mankind relies upon logic. When he cannot reason out the answers, determain, a formula to exctact and solve questions, discover a sep by step sequince he is then lost. When we are confused by controversy and we cannot find a conventional means to resolve our questions we become lost and will not accept what is put before us.
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Hmmmm, I know a bunch of high chair tyrants who are well into adulthood chronilogically, but damn, if I don't think I'm talking to a little kid.  I think they get stuck in the place where they missed out, and never fully develop.  It's sort of like scar tissue that builds up to close in the open wound.  You may be able to cover up the hole, but the mark remains.  If someone disrupts the scab, it can break open again -- hence, a person can compensate for the loss, but methinks he will be reminded of that hole in his world for a very, very long time - perhaps to the point where he goes back and looks at his life map, and figures out where he left himself/got lost.
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You answered your own question----they run out, they act desperate.  Leading a 'normal' life doesn't have you running in desperation for an escape of drugs.  They can think it's okay, but so does an alcoholic, a gambler etc.  The drugs will eventually eat away at their lives.  Hiding an addiction always does--it's time they woke up and faced life as themselves-not behind the mask of something that make them feel good for a while.
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Someone will find you and it won't turn out well. Most runaways end up in terrible situations as prostitutes and drug addicts. Some are murdered and never found. Do you want to live on the streets and eat out of trash cans? \nThose kids are called The Children of the Night. Don't do it.
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It depends entirely on the circumstances. And, who is doing the searching.
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Yes, if you don't use it, you will lose it....I don't know about loose it, but lose it, yeah.
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Not sure... sometimes lost items are right in front of our noses....\n\nBut if you happen to find your marbles, please let me know so i can go there and look for some money that i just cant figure out where it went!!    :P
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Can you make quick decisions when you are in a crunch? Or do you need time to reason out all of your options and come to a conclusion?\nPeople who think on their feet are the former. They can improvise when they need to, even when they are backed into a corner.
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From your picture I would say that you would be dead if you lost half of what your friend lost.  Instead, work on becoming fit and healthy.  Run, do yoga/pilates, and lift some weights (low weight, lots of reps).  Killer bodies attract people, not a number on a scale.
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maybe he doesn't want you to find him...K
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Depends on what happened - sudden illness might be a good excuse not to get mad, however I doubt it is the problem here- no reason to keep serious matters from your mate, esp if they involve selling the house to get out of debt that was hidden or otherwise lied about. Deception of any sort is a LIE and this is the ultimate deception if not outright betrayal of the mate.\n\nYes it would bother me. The usual reasons - gambling, drugs, etc., for this type of problem indicate that the mate would drag you down like a rock around a drowning person's neck. If the money was spent on an adulterous affair, that is bad also! \n\nYou'd never have anything - peace, security, trust (in your mate), as long as you were with this person, not even a home. You would have to wake up day to day not knowing what disaster awaited you. Even your health would suffer - the stress of the situation, no money for medical insurance or medical care because of mate's financial fiascoes - would make the situation a hell on earth.\n\nI'd rather live alone. If children are involved, the insecure environment would not be something good for them, not to mention the arguing etc that goes with it.