My friends are gay should i ditch them?
456319
You want to ditch your friends because they are gay?? Then that other girl is right, you don't deserve friends like that. They came out to you, which is not an easy thing for anyone to do, and you are thinkin of ditching them??? I hope they ditch you!
965823
Why do you have to do anything?  What does sexual orientation have to do with friendship.  If you care for this person as a friend, I don't see the problem.  I have gay friends, and it has never come between the friendship we share.  If it's something troublesome to you, talk it over with them, I'm sure they would appreciate your honesty.
619796
no... u should keep ur friends.. juss talk to them bout wut u find annoying
970796
Honey, they are not worth having as your friend if they care that much about how you look. Sounds like that is what they base their decision on and that is not worth it. Find some new people you would like to hang out with and be happy! You shouldnt have to change yourself to make others happy.
260713
Yes it is bad what u should do is sit that friend down and ket them know that you cqan befriend them and other people at the same time. You should never make a friend feel left out. Take all of them out oneday and see if they are a ggod pair then u all can hang out together. Just remember you cant please everybody just be yourself and Im sure you will find a true friend.
465131
You may not be gay, but your actions have now opened a can of worms.  If your friend is a true friend, she wouldn't be spreading rumors.  The best thing you can do is to talk to her and try to straighten it out.  If that doesn't work and the rumors persist, there isn't much you can do except to ignore them.  Ever hear the phrase "The lady doth protest to much"?  The more you try to deny something, the more people will believe it's the truth.\n\nGood luck.
357174
no...i have some gay friends...i mean i dont think its right but, i dont think it should be against the law
670208
Honestly, this sounds mean, but spend less time with straight men.\n\nMy friend Justin spends all his time with straight men, mostly through his frat.  They know he is gay, and they're fine with it.  However because he only hangs out with straight men, he only falls in love with straight men because they are his only availible pool.  Then he bemoans to me that he is in love with yet another straight male.   It is like a self defeating cylce.\n\nGet out and spend more time with the homos would be my advice.  Get involved in a political campaign, volunteer at a gay community center, or find a gay club of some kind.  Go to the gay bars.  Make new gay friends online.  You can still keep all your straight friends (and I am in no way trying to get you to ditch them) but you need to widen that availible pool.  The best way to make good relationships in to make good friends who can introduce you to hot gay guys :-)
477296
Yes. If you're not sure if someone is gay or not - they're gay. Me, you'd know right away I'm no homo. When you dump him get yourself checked out to make sure he didn't give you some homo disease (like AIDS) and if you're clean give me a call (seems like you're pretty easy and I like that in a chick).
812286
If you are really his friend you can mention that you are open minded enough to not care if someone is gay or straight without putting your friend on the spot by asking him if he is gay. If he is in fact gay (and you don't know if he is or isn't) he will tell you when he is comfortable enough to tell you. Just let him know that he can tell you anything and you will stay friends with him because of the person he is, not because of who he likes.
781793
You should not break their relationship being a friend.  Meet other boys. You will find some one of your liking.
831628
i dont think a person should be judged on weather they r gay or not personally i could never do it but i have gay friends and they r like ne other human being except they get critized for something they cant control just be there for ur frind and dont let ne thing ne body else says influnance u
433010
It depends on what thing you liked that they ditched you for. If they ditched you for what you believe in (such as a religion), then it would seem that you would need to agree to disagree. If they ditched you for something that wasn't so personal, then you should find a way to compromise. maybe you could give or take a little, so you and your 'friend' could get along better.
802096
If maces is really your friend and you want to continue being friends with him although he is gay then you should let him know that whatever he does with his personal life is not your business and that you will continue to be his friend.\nIf you don't want him to 'hit on' you in that way, let him know as well.\nIf however, you feel that you cannot under any circumstances continue being friends with Maces then you should part with him amicably and move on!
342639
I know this is a difficult time for you, but just tell them.  If he or she is truly your friend - they will accept you and love you as they already do.  If not, then they were never really your friend anyway and you are better off without them.\n\nComing out is one of the hardest and anguishing experiences anyone can go through.  I was rejected by ALL my childhood "friends", even the 2 I fooled around with during our "experimental" stages, one of which is also gay, but closeted.\n\nDo not despair!  You will make new friends.  People who will accept you for who and what you are - regardless of your sexuality, colour of your skin or religion.  \n\nThis is the 21st century and people just need to get over their phobias and prejudices.  Life is too short.  Live each day like it's your last.  Have fun and enjoy it.  Just remember to always treat and respect yourself, others and especially nature - the same exact way you want to be treated and respected and all will be well.  And don't forget - just LIVE, LIVE, LIVE!
1025580
Stay away from them.  Make other friends.  Live your life with virtue.  If they are joking about you - no one would believe them if you are living a good life.
132427
They really aren't your friends. Ditch them and find people who can be real.