What do women really want? (i'd ask that only women answer)?
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I'm answering this from the viewpoint that your question is really what do women want from men....a man who has a job, doesn't live with his mother, has a vehicle, auto insurance and the means to drive it, no hidden families elsewhere, no criminal record involving felonies, a good communicator, respectful of older people, kind to children and animals, intelligent, and a sense of humor. In case you didn't notice, none of these involved physical traits. It depends on the age of the woman questioned. I'm in my mid-thirties and brunette.
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simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
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No comment! \nWell, OK, your legs talked me into it! \nI just like a person for who they are in their heart. Women not need to do anything un-natural to their bodies to gain my interest. I just want a person who is real and not lie to me. BUT, I also respect what a person wants for themselves, so, if it what a woman want to do who am I to put her down. I will encourage her and be there as a friend/whatever.\nDavid makes a good point. From his perspective it is a gift from God for those who need it!
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No. Girls don't know what they want yet. Women do.
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LOVE! that is the only thing a girl wants is love and respect, if you watch what your doing you can keep a girl forever and i can help you with that one other thing do not act imature mature girls hate that..
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I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
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Well, different guys look for different things.  It's really hard to narrow it down to things that guys tend to want in general, but I'll try.\n\nFirst, I think they want the girl to take them for who they are.  I also think they like girls who try to look nice, but at the same time, don't obsess over it.\n\nFor myself, I tend to like women who are gentle and tend to be at least somewhat soft-spoken, because that matches my personality.
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We look for women who are smart, sure of themselves, confident, and who are only interested in us for who we are and the love we have for them.  We don't want a girl who has no purpose in life or thinks that money is something you spend just because you have it.
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I would say that the other answers are okay to a point but, do not be fooled to think all women want a guy with money only because believe me a real woman wants it all and when I say all I mean, the whole nine yards:\nMoney is not number one but, since it has been said let's just start there;\nA Sense of Humor is needed to make her smile & laugh;\nA Brain, because all women are not dumb blondes(just a figure of speech, no disrepect attended to blondes).\nA Great Lover, He don't have to be a superman or anything, just need to know what she likes.\nPatiences,Strong, & Gentle,  All of those speak for them selves.\nLooks, Well Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so that will never be the same for anyone.\nHave Goals in Life, A Man who knows what he wants and know how to get there, is always a plus, But behind ever Good Man there is a Great woman, don't believe me look it up.\nNow that is what I say is the ideal man for most if not all women.
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not me i love to be able to have a proper conversation ..instead of what would you like to do tonight?\nresponse) i dont mind what do you want to do...me) no im asking you so you decide..etc see thats what its normally like for us guys....im not saying women are stupid though so dont start blasting me!
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Being a guy what interests me in a woman is if she is honest, has great looking eyes, a nice smile and enjoys having fun. I think that the most important thing is what is on the inside of a person, not what they look like on the outside. Some men go for all the looks in a woman, is that really going to make them happy??? Honesty, a good sense of humor, someone that you can talk to that to me is what interest me in a woman
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i think that questios depends on what kind of men they is. If those who wants to have a family its 90~100% they want a women who is honest and loving over beauty. But if those who are just wan for fun... is to be 0~10% that they wan those kinds...cause they prefer look and beauty... :P
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Personally, I'm not shallow. Sure, a nice body isa  great addition, but I could never like a mean hot girl. I want personality. I want opinions, I want a sense of humor, I want a general kindness and a defensive attitude for everything she cares for. I'd like a girl who was strong, resilent and able to get back on her feet if life throws her.
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Every individual wants different things.  I'm in that age range so I can say that each of my friends and I all talk about different things we like in a man, so you can't bunch all women up into one group.  You have to take the time to get to know the woman you are interested in and learn about her desires, goals and interests, its the only real way to find out:  learn from the woman herself.
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I know I shouldn't answer this like this but Hey I'm a guy and I have needs,wants,and desires.\nHowever,to answer to your question I don't know but I wouldn't mind finding it out personally,if you know what I mean.
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I want a woman that is comfortable in EITHER role.\n\nOne that feels like she can INITIATE... or be WOOED.  (or the old.... "coax me")
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What a girl wants is up to that girl and only her. Everyone is diffrent, and we all want diffrent things. The best way to find out is ask specific questions, and most importantly listen to the answers. The biggest problem a couple has is the block of comunication. I can tell you a couple things that all people want tho, both male and female. Love, respect, susport, security, and friendship. Good luck.