What do you do if your new boyfriend has a secret and he wont tell you what it is?
465037
Well if i had a  new boyfriend who had a secret i would try honestly to ask him what exactly it was and he didnt want to say simply get on with life far more important things to think about especially nowadays than ever
297305
u shouldn't have told. it's a trust issue. now he knows that he can't trust u that's why he broke up with u.
888966
If you feel you need to have him investigated and can't trust what he tells you......\n\nfind a new boyfriend.\n\nCut your losses and move on.
247081
wow thats tough. i think you should tell him yourself because if people find out then rumors will start.. and if its a good reaction or not .. at least you let him know u still love him & hopefully da reaction is good!
479545
I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
265771
Not unless he wants to keep it a secret between you two.
685632
If he trusts you or not he has no right entering into your private accounts. You need to stop bein a wuss and tell him yourself. Its a form of controll that you need to address. If you cant tell him then why should we. Hes the one whom you have to see and it should be you to tell him that he sucks azz for invading your privacy...Unless your scared and that my dear is a whole nnother problem...
784486
Have you tried ,"You have got to tell me the truth if you want us to stay together...I want us to be happy in our relationship". Sometimes it's better to sit down and talk rather than starting your own Secret Agent business. Surely he's got some interest in you if you've been seeing each other for over a year and a half now...so a chat is worth a try. If you'll still be in doubt, then i suggest you think twice about this relationship. If he's lying to you, he's not feeling happy or comfortable with you. Regarding background information, try one of these > talk to his past girlfriends/find out his favorite sites/hang out in the usual pub he goes to....Eye spy is a dirty game so you need to be careful if he does nothing wrong and catches you spying on him. You need to think about whether he will keep on trusting you or not....if he's not a bad guy..
682673
divorce your ex! duh! and tell your new man quick- otherwise he'll think you were trying to hide it from him.
547504
Ask someone who is rough and tough to approach him to tell him not to make this sort of remarks in future. Let that guy tell him you are no longer his and tell him to stay out of your life. In the meantime, get closer to your new boyfriend for as long as it is neccessary. Use whatever means to avoid him.
749415
Yeah, sounds a bit fishy. Being a guy I would say he is hiding something, maybe he has another bird on the go. look most guys, trust me, if not all guys want one thing and not necessarily from one place. do some investigating, surprise him and see if you can find anything. sorry if it seems harsh but I know the signs\nI tell you what, if you have any suspicions like he's said something that sounds odd let me know and I'll interpret it based on personal experience.
328846
Are you interested in your friends boyfriend? or Has he made a pass at you and you want her to know what a jerk he is? Because if you are wanting to tell her because you are planning on getting with him, I want you to know you have crossed the wrong line here. Girlfriends have a code, and no man, can destroy that between us!!!
795994
you should be honest with him because you would want to know if you were in his position,and if you tell him and he freaks out and don't want to date you anymore than it wasn't meant to be anyway. plus, he's probably going to find out soon or later and it's best if it's from you. good luck
99385
It's not ok if he doesn't tell me.  My guy is not interested in that anyway.  I would feel most comfortable if I went with him.
154722
It will depend on how open you are with your new girlfriend.  Keeping secrets about your relationship with your ex can make things tight when your new girlfriend finds out.  Be up front and honest with her, and openly tell her when you two spend time together and what you do together so that she isn't questioning in her mind what you two are up to {it's only human to do so, even if you trust the person} and it shouldn't be a problem.  Honesty is the best policy, and if she can't handle that, then I would look for another girl, or examine your friendship with your ex to make sure it is a healthy one, and one you should keep in the context it's at.  Good Luck! :)
322786
Cheetah, if your man's friend tried to get at you and it was (uninvited).  you have no other choice but to tell your man. You have no commitment with his friend, no loyalty to his friend, that is owed to you man ! By not telling him, you and your boyfriends partner form a pact. you and he have a secret that you share from your man.  Your man is the only one out of the loop.  If you know your man's partner is like that... you should let your boyfriend know so he can know about his boy. Why, because you now know his intent and his feelings for you.  Think about it ?
142260
yes you should be mad for not telling you, think about it. if he didnt tell you that thing being so small and simple and something that he didnt even initiate then image what hes NOT telling you! keep asking and be persistant