what do you do when life is getting really chaotic?
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take some time out for yourself doing things you enjoy like shopping, enjoying nature, doing a hobby, go to a spa or just hang out with the girls. try not to think about school and let your fiance know how you feel about the phone problems because you need to work things out, no matter how small they might seem. good luck hun!
1021126
no matter how much you plan, organize and control there is something that will not go as expected.\n\nif you are too worried about what is going to go wrong you won't be able to enjoy your day.  the most important thing you should remember is that you are marrying the one you love...bask in the moment, smile and enjoy yourself.  if you can't do that you will only remember the worst that happened.
279046
You make life what you want of it. There are always going to be hard times but you move on and get over it. There is a lot more easier times in life than hard one just look forward to have a chance to do the things you want to do in life.\n\nHave a good day
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Wrestle your life back into your control. Find your purpose and get busy with it. Do not isolate yourself from friends, call them "now" and get some plans in action. Talk to your friends about a new job for you. Probably one of them, could hook you up where they work, or at least, tell you about something you might enjoy doing that you have not thought about. Embrace life and life will reward you for your efforts. GO!!!
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Don't worry about it. Big changes in life are always scary, but I'm sure you'll find that everything will go much better than you think it will.\nJust be yourself and don't worry about it now.
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Nope everyone breaks down at times. Life aint easy. We have all had our share of bad times. If this is a real bad problem seek counselling and good luck xxxxxxxxx.
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Take 3 deep breaths, and stop running about like a chicken with no head.\n\nIf this is how chaotic your life is, and you've tried slowing down but you get nowhere, then you need to find some alternative measures!\n\nLittle notebook never helped me, I scribbled heaps of junk everywhere for different things in my life ie shopping, to do, what to bring with me to work the next day, the GREAT idea and so on.\n\nSometimes I wouldn't see this book, and the more I added the more messy it became.\n\nGet a palm notebook... it really helps! Especially when you hook it up to your PC and everything is syncronised!\n\nSet goals as to when you are to achieve them!
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Situation Normal: All Fucked Up
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Life isn't fair sometimes,, but try to cope
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Get out and meet some new people. Take a class, join a club, try a new hobby, join a gym, etc...\nAnything to help take your mind off your troubles.
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I talk to my man. I cry. I try and figure out what is bothering me. I check to see if my problems are immediate, if they are, I take steps to correct them. If they are not, I tell myself "you are ok." I think of something happy. I go on yahoo answers and look for questions that spark my mind and remind me I'm just a human with foibles just like everyone else. \n\nI hear that other people take a walk or go for a drive. I cant' drive and where I live is very hilly so I dont like walking around here. I try not to eat when I am down becuase for me that can get out of hand. If you do not have that problem, try a little something.\n\nIn general, make sure you are meeting your personal needs. Eat a decent meal, get plenty of rest and exercise. Take a hot bath or shower, light a candle and do other self soothing activities. Make a date or go out with friends. \n\nChoose OK! ;)
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Good grief, cherish it!!  Don't worry about what might or might not happen!  I think in this stressful, sometimes negative world we dwell too much on the bad days! Good ones happen too!  Tonight, write down why today was so great.  Then next time you have a bad one, look at what you wrote down and remember it with affection!  Life isn't so bad!
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you need to change your perspectiveon the drama. focus on any positive no matter how small and make it bigger so that the stresses seem less. get lost in a good book film or music.
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Make what happens fit your reasons.  Life is 90% how you react to it.
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Relax and enjoy .Things never go right all the time ,so enjoy it every time it does for as long as it does.
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Let him know how you feel if things remain this way get out while you can. If he loves you he will change his ways. Things will only get worse if you done deal with them now.
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I think that everyone at least once in their life falls on some bad luck. \n\nIf you really are in a jam and are feeling overwhelmed then I would suggest going to your local Social Services department to ask for help. If you qualify, they can point you to a number of programs that can help you manage the money you do have better and give you assistance. They even offer job training through other county and state agencies.\n\nYou can also consider contacting your local church or religious organization for help. They often can be of great assistance. I have even heard of them helping people make a mortgage or car payment if they are in dire need.