boyfriend has a habit that is ruining us..?
467217
You have every right ot be upset with him.  You are under a lot of stress right now, with your Mom being ill and having to travel back and forth, that is a pretty good strain on anyone.  Then to have to deal with this on top of that.  He has betrayed your trust and if you can't see it in you to let it go, then I would suggest ending the relationship.  I don't think I personally could let it go.  If he can't keep it in his pants for the short time you are gone then he's the one with the problem.  He would have a bigger problem if he were mine.
969304
Yes!\nIt's disgusting!\nI actually somehow managed to get my last boyfriend to stop doing it ... wish I could remember how.
953749
Your boyfriend is probably dysmorphic. Sufferers can find all kinds of body defects or imperfections when there actually is no problem at all. And yes, this syndrome is a variation of obsessive compulsive disorder.\n\nhttp://www.ncpamd.com/body_dysmorphic_disorder.htm
1176933
wait, let him tell you first.  the person who says it first looses control in the relationship.  plus it freaks guys out, he will start acting wierd
1110439
threating to stop having sex with him, show him some pictures of mouth cancer, or maybe ask him which of your nasty habits he would like you to stop and you both can watch each other suffer as your quitting the habits. sincerely dr. phil
118233
your behavior seems very irresponsible.  look at yourself.  take responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your actions.  Learn from your mistakes in this relationship
152126
There is nothing wrong or missing from you. You need to talk to him and make it extremely clear that you don't like that behavior. If he refuses (or just doesn't) change then look into couples counselling.
1028622
well your on again- off again boyfriend seems to have personal issues to work out. my advice to you would to be GET OUT KNOW!!! this option is still good because you stated you have been seeing him for a few months. it seems he has a pattern and it will continue. who knows why these things keep coming up, maybe its another girl, maybe he likes to play games, or maybe bad luck. my main point is none of this is productive for you it just brings you stress, and probably causes you alot of sadness. explain to him how you feel, and remain friends with him. if sometime down the road he can get his life together maybe you can  rekindle what you use to have.
290151
Try n be calm and tell him to stop without giving him the pleasure of knowing he is upsetting u. If it continues pick your time and place and say something that would really embarrass him... something in the lines of 'You cant even get a h**d on so wat are u playing at boy'? or even better say 'you probably wud be better off giving yourself a w*nk dont you think'. Be assertive!  Gud luck
246391
HE NEEDS COUNSELING ON HOW TO CONTROL HIS PROBLEM, PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING. I'M SORRY BUT THAT'S JUST SICK TO HAVE TO BE AROUND THAT ALL THE TIME. I'M NOT BEING MEAN AGAINST HIM, BUT I'M SURE THAT YOU CAN AGREE THAT IT ISN'T A NORMAL THING FOR ANYONE TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH.  HE DEFINETELY NEEDS TO GET IT UNDER CONTROL, AND I THINK THE ONLY WAY IS TO TALK TO A PROFESSIONAL ABOUT IT.  I STILL DON'T THINK THAT'LL GUARANTEE THAT HIS HORMONES WILL ALLOW HIM TO DO THAT THOUGH BUT GOOD LUCK!
753937
How long have you been together, and living together?  Did this just start, or has it been an ongoing problem?  I would ask him what's going on and suggest counseling if it's bad enough to start affecting your everyday lives!  Good luck!
465121
Oh my gosh girl, if you have to stop being good to be with him then leave his sorry butt and don't look back.  School is more important than any guys and the sex part, please wait until you are married!  I wish I had.  Sounds like he thinks you make him look bad by being good, don't ever stop!
832116
I would talk to him. You are not just being selfish and while it all starts out innocent and may stay that way it is obviously affecting your relationship. Why does he put himself in potentially dangerous situations that could eventually ruin what you two have??? Ask him. Tell him how you feel.\nGood luck!!!
762633
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
859328
Your boyfriend has an addiction; one that is just as strong as an addiction to drugs, smoking, or alcohol. He will have to recognize that what is going on is an addiction and you will have to help him through it. If your boyfriend decides he wants to quit his addiction, there will mostly likely be relapses; you should be prepared for such.
591018
No, your concerns are gunuine..  Your boyfriend might already have an addiction...  Talk to him and let him know your concerns, especially for his health.  If he does not want to make a change, then let him go...  YOU CAN'T HELP THOSE WHO WON'T HELP THEMSELVES...\n\nMy boyfriend used to drink  a lot when he was younger, now he has a liver disease and only has a certain amount of time to live..\n\nYou care for him, but he has to care for himself before he can care and make a change for someone else...  I'm not saying don't be there for him as a friend, if he needs it, but don't waist your time either on something and someone that you know is only going to be a road of heartache...\n\nThe Lord in time will bless you with someone special...\n\nGOOD LUCK!
706426
Get rid of your boyfriend, not your friends!  He's too controlling and that will create major problems for you later!