How bad is it to have followed my lust and had sex with ex's second cousin?
469749
they both sound like losers, damn, you got a DUI because of that bullshit girl. let it go. both of them
236538
I haven't.\nBut if you have, and that other person is major, you needn't feel ashamed of that, because you aren't to blame.\nEven if you're hot, even if you were teasing the other person, then it was the other person that should have told you that it was wrong.\nAnd why is it wrong? Because you are taken advantage of. Sex should be done between two consenting ADULTS, or at least people in their late teens, not preteens.\nOK?
1090898
Sure why not, whore yourself around, get that good old slutty reputation out there.\n\nEx's are ex's for a reason remember that.
834177
i've had sex with several of my EX girlfriends much later after we had broken up.  i think once you've had sex with someone its easy to feel comfortable enough to go back and sex again. even if it's just a one nightstand with an ex. most of the time the ex is the one asking for it not me.
1174044
This has to be the 5th time I have answered this question.  I was 11...but the reasons behind it were not bad at all.  We did it out of love and not lust.  It's strange when I hear other people's stories.
100268
Okay, I know first hand that love hurts. No matter what happened in your last relationship if it is meant to be then it is meant to be. All you really need to do is pray to God forgiveness for ALL of your sins and mean everyword. Just ask God for his help. That is what I did and i'm married with a set of Twin boys! things WILL work out for the best. And don't degrade yourself into having sex with all of those guys. And i have something personal to tell you also. When you have sex alot with other men you can accually lose some sensation in your vagina. So i encurage you to seek in answers from the Lord our Savior!!!! Good Luck and God Bless you!!!!!!!
852768
I think you might not want to because they might be the same and he just wants so booty..so i would check him out first....and i don't think you should worry about your ex because you caught him with another girl when you guys were still together!
365936
He's sorry alright...sorry he got caught. Your cousin can do better than him. And hell no I wouldn't go back with a cheater.
632148
the question is how you feel about that part of her, because nothing you say or do will undo her past.  if you can handle that part of her and any trouble it may cause between you, good luck to you.  if you know right now that you hate it and that it will cause trouble (and the fact that you're asking this implies you're not quite ok with it) then i would really think twice.\n\nbut in either case, talk this out with her; both your feelings about her past and her feelings.
842505
do u know B I T C H u r total into this sex thing sometime u say u love ur cousin sometime u say ur boyfriend ejacutale in 1 mins and sometime u ask what to do when ur father or bother hugs u. u know u have a very dirty mind thats why u ask all this f u c k i n g questions. u r a bad person and u know this very well. now go ahed and abuse the truth by reporting it as a abuse report. because thruth always dark
102336
i want to f*ck my gf's cousin she is hot
691847
Your uncle is what is called a seductionist pediophile. He victemized you. No child at the age of six has a sexual preference either way and would naturally be attracted to same sex playmates such as other boys...just as girls would gravitate toward other girls though opposite sex playmates do well together too...the issue is that children, unless introduced by visual or physical stimulous are completely unaware of the sexual biology of the body. The hormons, the genital development and the general knowledge of the purpose of those genitalia are NOT previlant. The truth is that you associate sexual pleasure and your sexuality with what your uncle did and said to you. He was an authority figure and in turn blamed you for his gross misconduct in violating for several years a young child and a member of his own family. If the sick bastard is still around I would expose him for what he is so he cannot victemize any other children and also press charges. As well, you should seek couceling further so that you can begin to heal inwardly and come to the understanding you cannot be responsible for the abuse you suffered. Sorry to get on my soap box about this but this is what I do for a living as a social worker..or did until I had children of my own and am now home with them..by which..because of all the material I've studied..my children get babysat by NO ONE else but me and their father. EVER! God bless you. Please get help. Love in Christ, ~J~  <>< P.S. God made you perfect and whole as He intended you at your birth. You were a child influenced and conditioned by the very people that should have been there to protect and nurture you. God loves you and understands..seek Him and He will guide and direct your paths beyond this circumstance and you will be better for it. Pray and study the Bible. Healing in abundance just right there.
317276
I would tell someone that I was molested. I'm still not able to tell anyone. Everyday I wonder if he will hurt someone else, but I am afraid about what my family (parents etc.) will think. It was by a cousin.  My husband is the only one that knows. It has been 26 years. I'm not a prostitute, stripper, drug addict; so I don't think it had that much of an impact. I still don't like the fact that it happened.
893255
Your big mistake was telling your gf  that it was your ex that taught you how to tongue kiss, and maybe you shouldn't of told her you couldn't eat for nine months after she broke up with you...or maybe it was the fact that you told your sex life with your ex ''to the women your suppose to love'' this women has never had a relationship with another male before you '' not even a kiss'' yet you took it upon yourself to hurt her as a women and wife to be...yeah from your suppose to be soul mate...no wonder i get angry with you...let the ppl answer your question with all the truth ''over and out''
538191
I've done this, did it a couple of times, actually... Never worked.\n\nI did have one friend who kept doing it to one of her ex's. However, she would constantly sleep with him again, and then assume the relationship was back on. Don't get me wrong, he's a good guy, but he's not going to turn down sex, especially since he didn't know what was going on through her head. If he did, he never would have slept with her. \n\nNow, if you're not in communication with the ex, and you try this, keep in mind that you may not like what you see. That happened to me, and I'm not proud to say that I crawled into a bottle immediately afterwards. \n\nBut hey, it can be interesting, so why not try it! Just bring along a friend to share in your joy or pain. And let them drive.
680465
Why would you want him back after he has had another girl???  You should have more respect for yourself than that!!! And, if this girl is such a whore, wouldn't you be afraid of getting a disease after he has slept with her?\n\nI really think you should move on.  There are many many guys out there who will love you and not break up with you for someone else. Sex is going to feel great all the time... But even better with someone you really love and who loves you just as much.  Be smart...sometimes you have to use your brain and not your heart.  Good luck!
421763
younger or older it doesn't matter it alll depends on the person. You can't let your two bad experiences ruin your whole perspection of younger men. Some are actual okay. I say you talk to that ice piece of eye candy and see how that goes. Remember Stella had to take a chance to get her groove back.