i love my ex but he don't want to be with me he just want to be friends wat should i do?
474285
You should respect his wishes and get on with your life. That sounds tough, but if he does love you, he'll come back once he realises you've moved on. If he doesn't, it would never have worked anyway...
155353
thay may just be trying to keep your feeling from being hert  after all he is a ex tell your friend how you feel about it all .the good times you had and the bad thing .and then move on
681756
Just let him know that for now you just want to be friends.  take it slow...and by that i mean don't rush into a relationship. so many girls think they have to be going with someone all the time...in any relationship you should be friends first....give it a few months...it it's meant to be, it's meant to be...you'll know...just take it slow..
201018
give him a chance to breathe and think on your relationship. if you want him in your life you have to be mature enough to let him decide if he wants to be with you; if you're bringing drama to the relationship and he broke up with you because of it, at this point you have to let him decide if he REALLY wants to be with you. I was in a relationship like yours and he decided to come back to me. I always have to be careful of his feelings due to our past but if your gut wants to be with you let him. if he doesn't let him go, it'll only help the both of you in the long run...
891005
Honestly if you still love ur ex dont cheat the new person out of finding someone that loves them entirely. I mean would you want someone to treat you with half of their time and attention cause that is what you will really be doing especially if you start hangin with your ex and you have the feelings still. You will cheat. I would honestly break up up with the new person to prevent hurting them and dont run back to your ex because there was obviously some isues as to why you guys broke up in the first place. So just stay single you can still talk to your ex and communicate to solve the problem and then maybe try being together or you have to decide that you guys are better as friends and thats its. That way when you are with someone else and your ex wants to hang out it will be as friends and you dont diss your friends. I speak cause I have been there and done that. Trust me. make sure that you are completely over your ex though, otherwise you will be in a world of hurt
325773
Seems to me that he still cares for his ex. He probably really does like you but hes confused. If i were you i'd just show him a good time when he is with you and what it could be like to be with you. But if you focus to much on him you'll get depressed and in order for him to fall in love with you, you need to love yourself first. I'd just let him be and as mush as it kills you give him all the advice you can give. Everything takes time and if youre patient and it is meant to be then it'll happen. If you focus to much on being with him then it'll just push him away and he won't want to be with you. If you truelly care about him just be his friend and give him time.
481226
If you do not want to get back with your ex then you should not be involved with him and his present partner as just a "FRIEND".\nThat may be the root of the problems that they are having that send him running to you for "ADVISE".\nHe feels comfortable with you because the two of you have history and he maybe testing the Waters to find out if you are willing to forgo a friendship and try a relationship once again.\nThe best thing you can do is steer clear of constant contact with them as a couple.
636790
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy,treat yourself well,stay away from your ex,and move on,my friend.Best wishes:)
305678
Well, you clearly are not a good friend are you? We can all see that because you hurt your boyFRIEND, so can you honestly blame him? \n\nAdditionally, why do you want to be friends with your ex? Just because you used to date doesn't mean that when you break up, you will be friends. It doesn't always work that way, and given that you have hurt him, you can hardly expect to continue to be on good terms.\n\nI strongly suggest that you stop any efforts to befriend him, move on and try to be kinder to your next significant other.
69872
I've had this situation 4 months ago. We've just talked about it.. I frankly said, that i don't love him. He offered me to be friends. So we are very good friends right now. But I feel that i'm more than just a freind for him...Sometimes i think that it would be nice if we were together but can't do it right now, 'cause i broke up with my ex-bf yesterday. And i don't want to lose my friend.. It's up to a person :)
675332
well i kinda had the same problem... i always say keep ur friends close but keep ur ex's even closer... he shld know ur x is ur friend and that he shldnt control who u hang with or who u talk to.. tell him that ..
869758
he seems like an asshole.  avoid him and perhaps your friend should avoid him as well.  since he is an ex, he has no reason to have contact with you, let alone your friend.
884723
This one is going to be difficult, so let's see if I can help.\n\nFirst, your ex.  Now, I take it he's your ex for a reason.  Ask yourself, is there a chance for a relationship with him?  And, if there is, would things end up differently if you two got back together?  If you answered "no" to either question, then rule him out.\n\nSecond, your guy friend.  This is even trickier because if you do chose to pursue a relationship with him, it could end up being either being the best thing you ever had, or ending your friendship.  Does he feel the same about you?  If he does, then you may lose him if you don't date him.\n\nI hope this helps a bit.  Sorry I could not be more of a help.
281811
Maybe he is still friends with your ex.  Now that the big head is thinking again he may have some remorse.  He may have really just been trying to get his leg over as well.  If he doesn't call you, move on.  There are to many guys out there that would give you a bell after.  Go give one of them a try.  All the best.
535577
Just sit down with him and tell him everything.I think that he should know how you feel before he finds someone else.If you want to be with him,tell him that you want to be more than friends.
211089
He has to want to get back with you.  His reasons for not wanting to be with you may not be in your control.  The best thing you can do is to make your life something wonderful and hope that he realizes what he has lost and wants to be a part of it.
264511
just be completely honest with your feelings. It will hurt him either way.\n\nDon't lead him on thinking that nothing will change and that you guys will still be friends, because thats what my ex did when she broke up with me, and it hurt a lot, but it hurts even still today because I still am hoping that what she told me was true, that we are still friends and that I can still talk to her, but its not.  however when she told me I couldn't ever loose hope.  I miss her a lot, and I still love her, and having to hold onto something that I know isn't true hurts the most\n\nSo just be 100% honest, don't try to make him feel better about the situation, because it just makes it that much harder in the future.