why dont guys like big girls guys only!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
473601
I appreciate your question. It really comes down to taste buds. truly, it is no more rational than that. Of course, society greatly influences our tastes. There used to be a time when curvier women were very socially desirable. Sadly, we live in the post-Kate Moss age. Personally, if I had to choose, I would prefer a woman with curves over a woman who is very thin. You should also know, body type is only one of several very important characteristics that make a woman attractive. But we will leave those thoughts for another question.
295401
Every person has his or her own idea of beauty. I have a good friend who is attracted to very large women. Personally, I am very attracted to bookish, quiet, intelligent women who many guys may not look at twice. Yes, many guys chase after the Barbie dolls.... but not all guys do. More important than your looks is your attitude about yourself, and your openess to being accepted by a good man who sees the beauty on your inside and out. I bet one day it happens for you!
213666
Why don't you just ask him out.  If he really likes you, he's not going to obsess about you being bigger.  At least I think you were trying to spell obese, I'm not sure.  I started to really develop an attraction to this one woman who is a little on the heavier side.  You know what I liked about her?  She has a lot of confidence and can charm the pants off of you.  It didn't work out, but it didn't have anything to do with her being a little overweight.  I could care less about that.  It didn't work out because she must not like me that much as I tried calling her and she never called me back.
1124207
Every guy has his own fantasy and likes. It's not compulsory that all guys love slim or hour-glass figure. I know of some guys who love a little chubby body.\n\n  If you meant to ask this question for moulding yourself into a shape that all guys love, that's unnecessary. A person who loves you, would love you for what you are, not what he wants you to be. ;)
569366
Big girls are just as pretty as skinny girls.But personally meat is better.More cushion for the pushing!!!!!!!LOL
523245
u can't call all those guys that goes out with hot chicks with big boobs and butt a good guy... they mite enjoy seeing those things..and forgot to know the person deeply before hanging out together, so they wont endup having a long relationship.. anyway, sometimes people that do not have big boobs and butt should be glad cause those guys that will approach them will be those that are not kind of flirting..:)
79987
Let me tell you this...as a 'guy' guys only go after girls who they like!!!!! they wouldn't approach someone they didn't like unless its for somekind of advantage.
352111
You dont need to change, guys will like u just the way you are. I think that girls who say that guys prefer more girly girls are stupid. Girls that are used to hanging out with guys are usually the ones that are better at flirting, communicating, and having a good time. Guys dont want a girl whos all prissy and stuckup.
262744
Most guys like petite breasts if that's what you are worried about.  Big breasts are over-rated. So don't worry about it.
367369
For some guys all it takes are large breasts, but those guys are worthles.\n\nIf you are looking for a good guy, they appreciate intelligenc, a sense of humor, a girl that is spotaaneous and adventurous.  Also it's nice when the woman takes charge.  Some women like the man to make all the decisions, but some men, like myself, hope that the woman will take the initiative once in a while.
991980
I love guys with big butts, ma boyfriend has i nice one dat i luv it so much! And i grab his butt wheneva i want! I bet theres more gurls out there that likes guys with big butts! Have with it and da butt!
1031489
I dont' think white guys like anyone with a big butt. They want their version of perfection, blonde, big boobs, small waist, medium butt, perfect legs. Men of color, any color, usually are much more appreciative of all woman, all sizes and shapes. That is my opinion.
823055
Boys love girls w/ big racks for some reason..no girl knows why..just ignore those immature jerks and look for a guy who appreciates you for who you are.
212261
Guys like anything that will please them sexually. Big boobs are one of them. But those are the guys who will not respect you.
789324
You just need to widen your circle honey that's all! \n\nAnd don't generalise what men like you might be surprised to learn that some men like big thighs and other guys like smaller boobs - it's a matter of preference!!!!!!
350110
I think that men can be attracted to you at first sight.  There are men that prefer big women and would see the immediate attraction.  It is sad to say that people are so quick to judge by the outer cover, but it really happens a lot and doesn't give the real person a chance to shine.
436284
Most guys I know arent pickey, especially when drugs or alcohol is envolved. But some guys are more pickey and only get with skinny girls or bigger girls.  Its preference.  I know a few guys that are down right rude to bigger girls cause they like thin girls. My brother will poke literally any girl with a vagina, no matter if she's 400 pounds or 90 pounds. He's definatly a man-whore.  Right now hes with 2 girls, and niether one knows of the other.  I don't think thats right.  I personaly dont car if she's big or small, as long as she's of age ,(18+ ),(I'm 24),pretty, and most of all has a good attitude.  I hate snobby stuck-upgirls, and girls with any form of bad attitude.  On most first dates it is taboo to talk about having kids oneday, but I took this girl to the local amusement park. Everytime there was akid in front of us, she would say how she hated/HATED kids, and whisper things in my ear about throwing them over fences and stuff.  I would like to have kids one day.  Regardless I didn't say anything to her but then it got to me towards the middle of the day and I told her I had to go home.  She ended up meeting some friends that day and got a ride home.  But she had a real bad  attitude. The worst part is we worked together, and her mom was my boss. Crap that was bad, I had to quit a week later. Sorry I keep rambling on Im tired bye now.