Is it possible to get BACK with your GIRLFRIEND after YEARSof being APART?
462832
Generally speaking if your relationship didn't work before it won't work in round 2.  Old feelings, problems, resentments and other issues will creep in and ruin things.\nThere are over 7 billion people in the world...roughly 50% of them are the opposite sex.  You can and will find someone else.  Just move on.
1102978
Well, first of all it depends on what u did to make her leave...or if you pushed her away.......it is possible that there is no help.....it really depends on the circumstances surrounding the break up....\n\nbut if u really love this girl...and deep down inside she really loves u, then there is still a chance.....\n\ntake into consideration what she likes and enjoys.....what are her needs and wants......u have to begin there becuase there is where u make a difference....\n\nonce u have identified that.....come up wit som creative ways to capture her heart.....women enjoy romance and that is the entrance into our hearts......come up with ways to romance her back into you life.....\n\ni can tell u what to do, but i can offer you ways to stimulate ure thinking so that you can come up with ways to get her back...afterall, if u have taken the time out to get to know her...u will know how to win her back.....\n\nagain, providing that u didnt push her away considering the circumstances....\n\nhope that helps\n\nSincere
141126
Firstly, I personally believe you can never completely stop loving someone if you truely loved them once. So yes, in my opinion it is possible for you to get some of your old feelings back when you meet your ex again. I guess if that happens, then you have to weigh up your options and decide what is best for you and what direction to take.
938608
yea u are going back as a rebound for each other.. im doing it myself.. I miss mine like crazy, but we arent together for several reasons, but when we see each other we have sex and its always better everytime!!! Wish i could give u better advise,but i guess u can say i need the advice myself.. good luck to u
226334
You really need to sit down with her and have a total heart to heart chat.  No games just complete honesty.  Are the problems that caused you to break up been fixed now?  If not they need fixed before even thinking of going back.  Ive seen people who truly do love each other but for some reason they just cannot get along outside of the bedroom.  I feel for u and my heart goes out to you but you need to also think of your own emotional well being in this.  Good luck to u
341317
AS in you broke up and are getting back together? \n\nAbsolutley NOT. Things have changed and you have to accept it....you relationship will NOT be the same.
913285
If the two of you were broke up at the time, there is no need to question her activities.  If you are really starting over, focus on the future, not the past.
813799
Well I am guessing you mean after you get back together.\n\nIf you are only broken up for a little while and are not serious with anyone else during the brake then usually no. Unless they specify that they want to "start over" in that case yes.\n\nIf you break up for a long while and find someone else and get serious with them then decide that you want to get back together with the other person... that is usually concidered starting over. So in that case you would change it.\n\nOnly change it after talk to the other person first. You don't want to get confused.
776856
think about the reasons you spilt up.   if you got back together it could all repeat it self  i would stick with the new girlfriend never go backwards move forward   good luck
257813
There is a reason why you split, just cause he is going away is not a reason to get back together.  The details you are giving are slim,  how long were you together, was there ever any talk of marriage, how old are the 2 of you.\n\nI would say, stay in touch, but move foward with your life not backwards...
1047945
The relationship ended for a reason.  Has that reason changed?  In my opinion you want her back because you don't think she is obtainable.  If you got her back you would dump her shortly after you got her.  So why don't you do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.  You will fall in love again and you will forget about your ex g/f I can guarantee it.
103519
You have to rediscover yourself. After three years, you have become so entwined in each others lives, it's like losing part of yourself.  Spend time with YOU before moving on.
300208
Ok this kinda situation is not that rare... I can't tell you what to do, you'll have to decide that for yourself.  i would suggest thinking of how bad it hurt when she left.  Then how longit was before she called/ spole with you.  Its the little things in life that lead to the big picture.  Think of the little things in the past that made the relationship stronger and compare them to those that pushed you apart.  Asses the nature of the issues that came between you both.  Finally, know that the world is full of beautiful women, there's one around every turn.  Don't let the fact that they may not always be around blur your vision of what will make YOU happy.  Hope this helps,\nHang in there brotha'\nSean
364602
It is normal to want to get back w/ your ex. However, you should only get back w/ him only if you want to.  Don't let him pressure you into it. There are a lot things you have to take into consideration...i.e. like why did you all separate, can u trust him, and is the relationship worth trying again? Whatever you do, don't rush to make decisions, take things slowly, and remember ur happiness is most important. Good Luck.
860895
Isn't the distance grounds enough for a divorce?what is your reason for coming back in.?the reason you have given here is not enough.\nmove on with your life.your absence is abandonment.
240763
It's not a good idea but it's a great idea. I think it's important for you to get back with your ex because you have to do it for your kids and their own future. But if the two of you argued a lot then it's better to have seperate kids with you because when a couple argue and there's kids involved they will affected mentally and physically. But it's still up to you, it's your decision.
332558
2 out of ten!why do that,do you want to go back to your same problems again when you were still together?thats crazy