Do you think giving up on someone you love, who does not love you, is good or bad?
460823
I think it is GREAT! U should never allow yourself to be subjected to subpar treatment. and chances are, if u are all in love and the other person isn't, u will end up feeling alot of hurt and disappointment. if you have feelings for someone and the feelings are not mutual, u should move on and find someone who feels the same as u.
642988
well it depends on how much you love him or her because if thats all it takes for you 2 leave him or her it ain't  real beause in love your suppose to be able to go throgh everything together the good bad and wrost, or theree are people who just can't take there heart been broken a leave the person.
441845
When you love someone unconditionally, you take the good the bad and the ugly. You love them for who they are reguardless of what they do. I don't really think there is a huge difference in the two because either way if you REALLY love someone, a part of you always will even if you go seperate ways at some point and you guys marry other people
172705
yes..i have ..one regert..there was a boy..who is behind me for two years..i never loved him..after relation of three months i told him..this..but he still want to continue as friend..then love happened to me..n i had a break up after six months...this guy then helped me out ..laid a hand for me..i thought i must give a chance to this relation...so i given..literally..we hanged around..i always said him i love u bt i never felt him...n the day i again fall in love..i left him without reason...he runs behind me..again but this time to say final good bye....i personally feels i done bad..i used him..wen i needed..n may be becoz of that today my husband left me without reason...
52746
having been there & done that......SEVERAL times, I currently have to say\nYes.  Once you've had your heart ripped out & stomped on a few times, you can come to terms with the fact that it's just part of life.  \n\nAnd one thing I know for certain:  \n\nI can love him, and I can want him, but I don't need him, and I will survive.
691568
It's not up to someone else to decide--it's your call.  Make the decision, yes I'm over you or no, I still want to give it a shot but stick with whichever it is.  And remember, if it was that great you'd still be together.
580203
Well i love someone but i will get married with someone i dont love. This is a big sacrifice for me, but i dont want to make sacrifice but i ma helpless, i cant do anything.\nThis is my life.... full of sacrifices...\n\nIs this same with you... tell me something more about your life.. email me on sam_kel2004@yahoo.com
35684
i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
370008
For a minute I thought I was reading my journal...take it from me..I've been there...and I did give up...I gave up on looking for something that's just not there. We talked and I told him it just seemed to good to be true...but that's just it it is too good and you have to realize you are worth all the devotion he is giving you. He sounds like he may really be a good guy and if you keeping flipping out..he will leave..my man almost left me and we were in the same predicament, living together and he did everything right but b/c I had been hurt before I looked for the stuff my ex used to do and never found it...STOP IT!! before you lose the man that may really be for you!!! good luck and take my advice sweetie!!
1069701
dont ever give up ur love one...its not giving up its just giving time to each other to know urself more.....hope it helps you....gudluck..
477892
If you think giving up life is good then give up. Yes you can rest a while and start another attemt only if you are convinced that you are right.
282934
I wonder how many people have been in your position and let it go, always wondering if it was the right thing to do? I say GO FOR IT!! What the hell do you have to lose? If it doesn't work or he's spoken for, then let it go - but at least you tried. If you find him and he feels the same way you do... wellll....
792330
A lot of people will probably tell you to move on and that there are more fish in the sea. But I fell in love with the older friend of a cousin and for 3 years I loved him as much as I could in a "friend way" ( he knew the whole time how I felt about him and always told me that he only cared for me as a friend and that I should go look for someone who could love me the way I wanted and needed to be loved. I am very stubborn and wouldn't give up. About 3 years into our close friendship I decided to co on a date with another guy. When my friend realized that I might not always be there he did some serious thinking.. We've been together for 2  and a half years and married for 1. So my advice is that you really truly care about this guy then dint give up. But do play a little hard to get. Make him work for it a bit.
558655
Of course. To stay with someone who loves you out of a sense of obligation is not fair to the one who loves you. No matter how much they might hurt.
967455
If you love him, then you're not using him. If you juist have him around because he's caring and generous then you are. I don't think he's so afriad of losing you as he is a sweet natured man who loves you and appreciate you enough to treat you like a queen. How lucky you are!!
1104303
Wow your question is deep. I agree that you must daily make the choice to stay and make things work with your loved one, but also if you really love them, the "loving" part shouldn't be that much work. Unfortunately, many people give up on their relationships these days because "the grass is always greener" and you never know until afterwards if you made the right choice.
424887
Keep on loving he or she. The love we give is the love we kept. Being deeply loved by someone gives her/him strength, deeply love somebody gives you courage.\nKeep rollin! Be patient. No pain no gain, you will appreciated more if you get somebody that is not easy to get, rather than just anybody.