Why is it so hard to get along with bi-polar people?
468705
I know someone whom I'm sure is bi-polar, one day she's so happy and nice, the next she depressed and nasty. The reason it's so hard to get along with someone like this, is because you don't know which way they'll be on any given day- it's hard to determine how they'll feel and act so you don't know how to act towards them in the first place. The person doesn't even know how she will be on any given day- you really just need to support her and give her space when she needs it. I know sometimes these people feel guilty after they've acted a certain way so just show he love and forgiveness.
1156982
1 + 1 = 2 and yes people are as messed up as they seem. I have a theory as to why. I think people are so messed up because they wont stop and look in the mirror. They can not realize their own faults or admit to them in any way. So they walk around picking out the faults of those around them and beat them in the ground with them. They try to make them feel as low and petty as they themselfs feel. That way some how they can feel better about themselfs, like they are better than you. So, there is no way they are the scum of the universe, they are better than you, in their own minds. Thus creating a visious cycle of negetivity pain from one person to the next. Another reason people are messed up in lack of comunication. I say apples are green you hear stawberries are red. How can we ever be on the same page when we precieve things so differently. When you don't understand something you get frustrated and frustration leads to anger. So how are we ever suppose to listen when we are closed minded and to angery to hear.
755612
They cannot help that they are bipolar.  But they have to be responsible for taking their medications everyday.  They also have to participate in counseling.\n\nFeel sorry?  Manipulation?  That's on YOU, not them.  Only you can control how you feel and react.
930255
They are very rude to others. They have no patience with children and spouse,\nThey have no tolerance with persons who are calm and in a good mood..\n\nThey will continue this way until two things happen. They meet up with someone who is in the same  mood as they are in who will challenge\ntheir attitude.Or they meet someone with a lot of Faith who will tell them, perhaps, that God loves them so there is no need to be angry with the World.
844346
IF YOU HAVE TO BE WORRIED ABOUT WHAT THEY WILL THINK...well then think about who they are and the mistakes they have made...Bipolar is a chemical imbalance, chances are these people that you are worried about just made stupid choices. Bipolar is NOT A CHOICE.\nI share it with anyone who needs a friend.  I have gone to jails, talke to kids in recovery, and spoken with people who will never undrstand.  I DON'T CARE,,,,people who judge are ususally suffering from their own problems. There is no longer a stigma to BiPolar, or any other mental illness.  You have don the bravest thing that can be done YOU HAVE ADMITTED IT.  Now move forward and the best therapy is helping and talking to others. You take care and understand NO MATTER WHAT anybody else has to say, you are doing great you are dealing with it.
526176
Some people who are bipolar are like that when they are in the manic phase.And some people are just naturally CHATTY!
414083
Ok, why don't we deviate from copying and pasting answers from websites and I'll give this a shot from scratch and explain it to you in plain English.\n\nA bipolar disorder is basically having a good and evil side to one person and they pull and tear at each other.  One minute you might be smiling and happy, and a few minutes later you are crabby and down in the dumps and mad at the world.\n\nOne minute you might be happy with one person and the next you are mad at them.  Part of you is tugging to be a happy person and the other side of you is saying no, I am crabby and mad and don't want to be happy.\n\nIt's almost like having two different personalities.  The person has severe mood swings that are usually uncontrollable and go from one extreme to the other.
179297
Everyone is uptight because they are trying to cram too much into too little time. It's stress, and I doubt it is going to get any better. That doesn't mean they can't be nicer, because pretty much everyone is in the same boat. The only thing you can do is try to set an example. Maybe if you are kind and patient it will make someone's day easier, and because of that, they will be a little nicer to soemeone else.
743454
A lot of people are ignorant to the realities of these types of illnesses. Some people are willing to be educated, some think they already know it all despite the fact that they actually know nothing about the issue. I've been living with bipolar (and other problems) for my entire life. Some people are supportive, some are infuriatingly misinformed. The fact is, bipolar disorder is a very real illness with significant symptoms that effects many aspects of a person's life. It is not an excuse for bad behavior, but it is an explanation. It can be very isolating and feel very lonely, but you are not alone.\n\nYou might want to look into online support groups. I happen to be the co-moderator of one on yahoogroups.com.  If you go there and do a search for bipolar support, you will find a lot of listings. I have found the support online to far exceed anything I've found offline. It really helps to reach out and connect with other people who really 'get it'. \n\nBipolar can not be cured (at least, not at this time), it is not going to go away. It requires understanding and the continued management of symptoms. Whatever you do, do not buy into what your friends are saying and the attitude they have about this.
677611
I admire them because the majority don't recognize or admit to being bi-polar.  A person who is mostly manic thrives on the energy they have and won't seek help or don't want to admit to a problem.  Most bi-polar individuals seek help and get a diagnosis when in a depressive state. Or they get diagnoses due to drug/alcohol problems because of self-medicating.  So- my first impression would be one of admiration because it is a hard illness to deal with and if they are seeking treatment that's a good thing and deserve a lot of respect.
687746
I know alot of people that are bi-polar. I am an addict and I go to NA meetings every night. I have now been clean for 15 months and counting. a lot of the addict there are bi-polar. they do take prescriptions for bi-polar and they really seem to help ALONG WITH THE MEETINGS. Maybe your friend should try meetings. you can look them up on-line. some also welcome supporting family and friends.
1107438
I am so sorry that you are facing intolerance in a time when you need all the support you can get.  It's unfortunate, but some societies aren't used to dealing with mental disorders.  Some bury the disorders or dismiss them as someone trying to get attention.  I don't know much about Taiwan, but here in the USA, Manic/Depressive Disorder (or Bipolar Disorder) is also misunderstood sometimes.  Perhaps there is some kind of support group in your area that would be able to help you deal with all the adversity you are facing.\nGood luck.  I'll pray for you.
621218
It just has too..... my mom suffers from bi-polar and i hope that things will get better. Over the last ten years she has made some great progress. I have bi-polar tendencies, and it can get better if you have a good therapist who can analyze and work through it with you. It just ahs to get better!!!!!!!!!
617614
i think it is because as a person that is living with mental health instead of making mental health my life;...........people as a mass norm,know how they want to deal with everyday people.no challenges not bumps,but to talk with some with a mental health issue we are unsure of the way we are reacted to a mentally challenged person.crazy as sounds you talk to more people with mental issue then ya know.good luck finding your answer.you "DID"just interact with a mentally crazy person......p.s.we can be the most fun at a party too.lol
51802
especially when they refuse to get checked out for diagnosis- when they wont acknowledge that they have a problem.  They will tell you it is you thats got issues, instead of them.\n\nUmm are you married?  Maybe you are just in her face too much!?  Most likely she aint Bi-polar, shes just over you!
1041078
I am not sure what you mean by "here", but you have to be a little crazy to get along in life.  I am sure most people would agree with me that we all have a little craziness in us, so enjoy life and accept people for what they are.
678243
Bipolar has made my life very difficult, even with medication.