I'm goin to kick out my ex and her baby?
458364
Most of the answers are pretty hostile to you, but I won't be.  \nIf you offered a place to your ex and her baby, you seem like a generous and kind person.  You had compassion on her especially if she was living out of her car. Why does that compassion have to stop if you want to be involved with somebody else?  Is there anybody else she can depend on? What was the agreement you had with her when she moved in?  Temporary til she found a place, or indefinte?\n \nA single mother and child needs stability and security, and if you aren't willing or able anymore to provide that for her, then hopefully you will help her make other arrangements.   The old flame may or may not work out, but it really shows your character as to how you handle the situation.
1175843
No but if you run into my ex will you kick his @ss for me and pick up all of my belongings too !
221953
3 years and she wants to kick you out. Hmmm! What did you do? Or what didn't do?
112689
well i dont think u can forget about her cuz u got a kid wit her. but just let her know u dont want a relationship with her and that ur just gonna be there for the baby and that is it watever relationship yall had is gone. but just because u dont want her no more dont miss out on your babys life. stay for the baby cause the baby does not deserve it.
1151080
Dump her and call me baby, I can handle it.
796513
Think she only wants you back because she knows your a respectable guy and you will help her raise her baby.  Sorry guy I would say no!
63410
Kick him to the street... You're gonna have problems in your relationship with his ex still around...
712070
i'd wait till you have your baby give it a couple of months then get her by her throat and have a nice quiet word in her ear along the lines of you slapper leave my bloke alone he aint interested go near him again and i will re arrange your face. Failing that ignoring her ( which i know is gonna be sooo hard) and showing the world how happy you and your b/f are will in the end wind her up and she should eventually back off.
1127824
If you can prove to a court that she is an unfit mother than the baby is yours.  The court doesn't care about you or the mother.  They want the best for the child, If I was you the only way to win is to play dirty.  Get a private investigator he'll help you more then a lawyer will.  Have him dig up some dirt and use it against her.  Believe me I'm a woman that child is nothing but a pawn to her.  She kept her from you probably claiming she was some one else's.  That guy probably got smart you were her plan B.  Find out why you didn't know of her for those two years and why all of the sudden she's asking you for child support.  Oh and she can't deny you visitation, you pay child support she can't as much as take that child out of state lines without letting you know.  Boy read up on your right or she'll play you like a fool. Good Luck
913730
It really depends on the situation at hand. Are you and the soon to be ex getting along? If so, perhaps you can work on all the paperwork together. If you can keep lawyers out of it, you save money and a lot of other crap that goes along with it b/c some lawyers really encourage playing games that just stir the proverbial pot.
3408
The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
576835
I'm so sorry you are going through this.\nIf it were me, I would call the ex and his wife, letting them know you want to come for graduation. ask to speak to your child and get their input.. If the child wants you there, then go.. stay some distance from the ex and his wife.. \nwrite a letter to the judge asking to go to this event.. Don't break any laws or restraining orders, going to jail is not worth it. It may seem to be , but its not.\nI don't get along with my ex. and he is the one who chooses not to be in his kids lives...\nNot sure why you no longer have the kids, but you only graduate from high school once... try to go about this the legal way...\nI hope this helps and again I'm sorry you have to experience this..I wish you luck.....
260676
get an attorney quick before he moves funds out and make sure you get the alimony and child support you need
181863
File a petition with the court to relinquish your parental rights.\nThat dosen't sound like a good idea though.
975253
being abused by your mate is unacceptable. your best bet is to get your child and leave. it doesn't matter if she is a woman and you are a man it isn't right that she is being abusive to anyone. please go. if need be use the check to get a new start. i am not sure of how much money it is compared to us dollars...but you can not stay with her in that environment.\ngood luck my friend.
92085
She proved to you that she did not love you when you were away. Your best friend also proved that he could not be trusted. You know once you take her back and if you move in together that you are also responsible for the raising of the child. In my opinion you would be better off to find someone else for you. She has already screwed around on you once and by being with her you will feel that evry day when seeing their baby.
854835
You might want to think that about that before you do anything permanent. Perhaps you can draw up legal papers so that you don't deal with your ex at all, she can drop your kid off at the police station, for example and you can do the same without ever seeing her. I grew up without a dad and it was extremely painful. Please think of the child first.