I love someone but can't find her. what should i do?
458797
Marry a frog and have lots of tadpoles.
498995
I am in a similar relationship, but I know she's the one, the circumstances are just tough for us.. being so far away. Test your love.. while he's away, take space and see how you really feel without him. At first no matter what, it will be so hard.. but it will get better. Then.. the test comes.. after not having him in your life much, have a long talk and see how it feels. I lost her because I doubted someone so great could love me.. but after she gave up on me.. I realized how much she really does love me.. and slowly I am gaining back her trust, and she has all of mine.
120143
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
504360
If you've never spoken to her, then proposing marriage is going to make her run off. You need to start a bit more slowly than that - try saying "Hello" first. You can't proclaim your love for someone that soon or she'll get you busted for harassment or stalking. But if she doesn't "love" you in return, marriage is out of the question - right now, you have a crush. That's it.
89975
Why should she miss anyone who in the first place wasnt hers? Just think of him as someone she meets in a dream. Advise her to go for reality. There are tons of men out there and the right one will come along one day, just be patient. Its not the looks that only count, but the heart, that she should be looking for.If he is not meant to be hers, theres no point brooding over that,its not worth it, tell her.
248398
Let her go.  If she comes back to you -- then give it a go.\n\nFear is a strong emotion.  You can't find it dude.
776306
What can you do???There is nothing you can do..If she doesn't try why should you..If he doesn't seem interested then you shouldn't bother..Tell her to move on and she will find the right person someone who loves her for who she is..
1142191
I think you should be "logistically" close.  Then take it from there.  She may still love you.  Maybe she got lonely and needed companionship, but still loves you too.  If you communicated that well, once you are with her face to face, it should come easily and soon you will know how she feels and where you stand.  Get your butt to Tuscan  and see her.  Love like that doesn't come along every day.  It would be awful to let it slip through your fingers without a second chance.
697908
hold on dude youll get her eventually..........i live out of state from my gf that i have dating since high school and its wicked hard...i miss her so much...i dont get to see her nearly as much as i would like....im going crazy...i see her everywhere i go....but on the bright side when i do see her its wonderful!!!  we always have a wonderful time (mega sex) and its enough to keep us in love.....\n\ndont stop talking!!!! talk to her as much as you can....you dont get to see her so take advantage of whatever you can get!!!\n\nyoull regret it big time if you try to just forget her....
741468
Well maybe you loved her and you didn't even noticed it before,and now you are truly feeling for it,but there is only one thing you can do,go talk to her about because we never know,what if she loved you but never said anything?Maybe she gave up on you and found somebody else...Good luck
1183728
Youve never seen each other? Hmmm well it would seem you are long overdue to meet the girl you love. You should prolly come up with a way to meet for the weekend and go from there, u know? And of course I agree with Beauty tell her your having these feelings and its time for you guys to move to the next step OR move on with your lives. Good Luck and I hope you get all you want in life sweety either way. God Bless
56004
I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
308907
Yes, tell her how you feel,simply,without a word about not being able to live without her.Ask her how she feels about you. But if she does not feel the same way,remember that she is your first love(is she?),you are apparently a young man,and you have a whole life ahead of you. You may find that there will be someone later on who means just as much or more to you. Life is too wonderful to spend it longing for a lost love. You will never forget her,but you will find you CAN have a good and happy life even if she is not in it. If it is meant to be,you will be together,but if not,let yourself cry,grieve for a lost love,but remind yourself that life really does go on,and something new and wonderful is waiting for you.
432070
What you can do is be happy that she is happy in another relationship, and move on. It may hurt, but that is the only choice you have. She is not going to come back to you right now because she is with someone, and unless your personality has changed signifigantly in that time, she will not be interested in you anymore. It sucks. Most people have a long list of people that they had to break up with before finding the one and they all hurt.
753216
Oh Gosh, yes! Don't worry too much about finding someone. Love is like a butterfly, when you chase it constantly it always seems to fly away from you. And as soon as you just stop chasing it, it comes and lands on your shoulder.\n\nGood luck!
277681
Stop searching for your soul mate and you will find her. When you are looking for someone you will never find them. I stopped looking and WHAM there he was. (we are still together) Good luck. Yes true love exists.
190745
dont waste your time on this girl and move on with your life. there is someone out there for you, you just havnt met her yet. think positively and gain some self confidence an eventually you will find her.