When someones partner cheats on them, why are they more angry and want to hit the stranger?
470966
it's just a natural human instict. you look for someone to lash out at because your heart can't understand that you have been betrayed. It's so much easier to attack the person who took your place. \nwhich is bizarre but it happens. Now if the little bi**h KNEW that was my husband and/or was a good friend of mine, she DESERVES an @ss whooping.
101153
Everytime somebody does something like cheating it springs form an inperfection they prcieve in themselves. Usually fear of a stable relationship is because the people dont feel they are capable of holding up their end.
229535
Yes, I had a crappy boyfriend in the past who beat me often. I'd try to leave, but he'd find me again. Why it happened....cuz he was a jerk and couldn't control his temper I guess.\nHe finally got his payback--my bestfriend at the time beat him down, and he packed up and moved. Never heard from him again! Yippee!!! ;0)
301100
Jealousy is about YOU, not your partner, unless they have done something to give you a concrete reason to mistrust them. YOU have to gain enough confidence in yourself to imagine you've got it goin' on, and there is no way they are going to cheat on you, or dump you, for someone else.
716221
Some folks get to feeling really sorry for themselves and think that the world has ended because they had a disagreement with their partners.  Fact of life is thought that we are going to have arguments with mates, friends etc. throughout our lives.  A lot of people believe that this form of self abuse will prove their love and devotion to the other and that they will accept them back after this.  Majority of time if partner does return to relationship it is because of guilt of some other foolish believe that only they can act as Savior to this person. Live is not meant to go as we want all the time and the sooner people realize this the less of this type of behaviour will be occurring.
123947
Um... this works the same way as the heterosexual relationships I guess: you confront him, you ask him why he did that, you slap him and leave him. Nobody deserves a second chance when they cheat on you, regardless of what their sexual orientation is. You deserve better. Leave him.
84702
Most people are just not content. Pain and simple. If a married guy looks your way and you catch him , he will someday cheat on you.
502179
I dont want to sound rude, but if they are all doing it, then maybe you need to look into yourself and work out why, there is no one reason why a person cheats on another, all we can do is change our own attitudes toward it so that it doesnt continue to happen. \n\nIs it possible that you have low self esteem and they are picking up on that? If not i suggest you do a little soul searching and come up with answer for yourself, i'll bet there is one there, but you dont want to face it. \n\nGood luck - nobody can help you, but you on this one.
177709
Well, did her ex say something to piss you off, or do you just have anger issues? It can be irritating to think of the past relationships of our mates, but just because he dated her doesn't mean he deserves a beating.
602771
I'm sure men/women have their excuses for why they cheat, some are loneliness, temptation, not getting what they want at home.  They are all just lame excuses for doing something wrong, though.  They should deal with the real problem and not cheat and hurt other people.
993013
very likely, most people who cheat or are sneaky will occasionally try to project this trait onto the other partner to take away any feelings of what they are doing wrong and to make it look like you the other partner is just crazy and the one actuallly doing the wrong.
1177842
When you hurt the one that you love, emotions are highly involved on both sides.  Both you and the person you are hurting will be affected in one way or another, and like all similar situations, there will be serious consequences to follow.  When dealing with a stranger, however, there is no history and/or very little (if any) emotions involved at all.  Sure you may insult a stranger in one situation, and anger may ensue on one or both sides because of your actions.  Nevertheless, for the most part, they will not carry that with them for the rest of their life (and perhaps not even the rest of the day for that matter).
1139144
Usually because they have been hurt before and when they see signs of a previous bad relationship they get doggish because they can't control your actions; feeling like you are going to play him or something!
185182
people cheat for many reasons \nsome cheat because they want more\nsome people cheat for sex\nsome people cheat for emotionally reason \nsome people cheat because they just cant help it na dthe list goes on
788504
The other partner will get sick of it...no matter how patient and the person in need of reassurance will never get enough of what they want...it puts alot of stress on the relationship...plus its annoying
983975
Cheating is selfish and cowardly. Cowardly because the person doing the cheating does not have the courage to face his/her partner to tell them how they feel.
453195
They have low self esteem,have the illusion that they can change him,or are comfortable in the relationship they are in or at least they feel it is easier to stay with the jerk than be alone.\n\nI don't want a loser or abuser at all,just not sure where the good guys are.