When a guy is a virgin, and has sex for the first time, does it EVER hurt him? even a little?
461085
Only if he gets carried away and does it for about 6 hours.  Not likely!
43292
my first time hurt, but i was real tense..lol...\nbut after that it didnt hurt anymore!
595411
I agree with Lovebug.  Sorry honey.  If he wanted to call you or write you or see you, wild horses wouldn't keep him away.\n\nIt sucks that it was your first time, but don't listen to those unkind Christians telling you your virginity was a "precious flower you can never get back."  What a load of crap.  The first time you experience sex with someone who respects and adores you will be a "first" to remember- and the fact that you broke a bit of biological tissue last weekend won't take away from the magic when that happens.  \nBe mad, cry, talk to your best friend or mom or priest or shrink or mentor or whoever it is you go to.  Just remember to forgive yourself.  You were younger last weekend than you are now.  If you had known then what you know now, you would have acted differently.  Forgive yourself- because there's nothing to forgive but youth.  Being disappointed, being taken advantage of- this is a part of growing up.  Remember, all experiences have the potential to make you stronger or weaker.  Choose to become stronger from what you've learned.  \n\nAlso- don't talk too much to others at college or in your social circle, because as you've seen just on this forum, people can be cruel, and you don't want this story to follow you around once you've grown beyond it.
936886
It's normal to be nervous! God knows that I was. But it's not as bad as all my friends tried to make it out to be! The first time he enters, it's going to hurt a little bit, but after a couple of minutes, it's fine... Or it was for me... Just try to relax, have fun, but make sure it's with someone special and not just a one night fling. That will make it much more memorable for you!  So relax, have fun, but also, be safe!! Cheers!!
1170063
Well if she bleeds that means she was really a virgin and shes fresh meat. from my experience guys like that because they know that they were the FIRST to enter...
268134
NO! virgin is someone whose never had sex. and sex is something that happens between (at least) 2 people.\n\nbut it might tear your hymen, if that's what you're worried about
1154308
Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
215361
It hurts very bad the first time. He doesn't have to go deep the head is the biggest part. He does need to be very gentle and easy so that he doesn't hurt you too badly.
664892
Are you saying she's a virgin? If so, you have to take it slow and easy. There's no way for it not to hurt the first time.
1048174
This all depends on the individual, the first sexual encounter will differ from woman to woman, there could be pain and bleeding, but there might not be. Best idea is to take it nice and slow. It may still hurt many times afterwards, as it does take awhile for the body to get used to the act. There is also a high chance of getting a yeast infection or bladder infection after the first sexual encounter. I would say the best idea would be to go to the doctors after and get a physical done. She should not be embarassed about her age and her virginity. I myself lost it when I was 21, it is nothing to be ashamed of. Losing your virginity is a very serious thing, not to be taken lightly.
548898
thats a good question...i wish someone answered that question for me when I lost mine... I can say that that sounds about right, regardless its gonna hurt and your bound to bleed, but i quess anything bigger would be worse.. trust me hun sex is not all its made out to be!!!! if i could go back in time.. i would still be a virgin (and im 24). Good LUck!!! and if your under the age of 18, WAIT!!!, TRUST ME YOUR NOT MISSING MUCH!!!
97001
It's different for each person.  I assume by your avitar that you are female.  If that is the case, it will probably hurt the first time, maybe the first few times.  \n\nI would recommend waiting until you are married, it is definitely worth the wait!  It's also nice to know that your first is someone who is planning on sticking around.
926916
I lost my virginity at age 15? As you can tell, it didn't mean much to me. I wanted the guy to love me, so I did it. No, I definitely did not have an orgrasm during sex the first time. Almost all women don't their first time, and I know alot of girls who have never had one during penetration. They might've faked it .....  I definitely regret it. I wasn't with the right guy, and I knew it. I would consider waiting, I know I wish I did.  By the time my true love came around (he was a virgin), I had already had sex with someone else. =(  It's not that it's bad to have sex. You just want to make sure that it's the right person, and that you wont regret it later on. I know I was so eager to lose my virginity, and I was like oh, I wont regret it, and yet I do. If you decide to, make sure he's gentle and cares about you enough to stop if you ask him to. I have a friend who told me that the guy she did it with, just went at it, without caring that it hurt her "like hell." Best of luck, sweetie.
181851
If you have the right guy for the first time, and he's gentle, it shouldn't hurt at all.\nIf it hurts, then he needs to know and not make something happen that's not going to.
830166
No, if he is a virgin he is probably nervous and feeling guilty. If he is feeling guilty he may not be able to get off.
176687
You aren't a virgin any longer when your himen is broken, this happens by having intercourse. You will usually blead a little afterwards, nothing too bad though. If the guy just sticks it in and then pulls it out once, I don't consider that sex.
1067538
I'm not a guy, but I have to speak up here.  I think that down the road, you will regret having sex for the first time with someone who means nothing to you.  However, I suspect you don't believe that now.  My advice, if you go through with it, is use a CONDOM!