isit possible toremain friends withan ex who turns out tobe adog,ordoes he really not care andso you move on?
473372
Why would you wont to be friends with them? Unless you still wont to f**** them?  Be honest about it.  You people kill me with this Sh**!
772878
I actually ended a long friendship with my former best friend a few years ago because our personalities clashed.  He was constantly flirting and kissing girls even though he had a girl who was working her tail off making ends meet for the two of them.  One clear example was when I visited him from out of town with my then girlfriend, he took us to a bar and spent the entire time flirting with one of his co-workers.  He just left us sitting on a windowsill.  \n\nWe've reconciled, but part of me still remembers what he did to not only us, but to his girl. I've lost some trust with him.
36671
no..once you care about someone you always will..I try to remain friends but it doesnt always work out for me though but I still try..Lisa http://www.freewebs.com/lisabreedlove72/
148718
out of respect don't mess with a friends ex unless u talk to him first off and see how he feels about it...if hes cool with it go for it but if hes not comfortable with the whole idea then if u really consider him a friend u will respect that.
563851
Let me understand this...he is your "friend" and you don't know his last name? Huh? I know all of my friends last names! I think you should forget this so-called friend.
832471
THIS PERSON MUST NO TAHVE BEEN YOUR BEST FRIEND B/C IF THEY WERE , THEY WOULD NOT HAVE DUMPED YOU FOR SOME OTHER FRIEND !!
595805
He was never your friend. Why shopuld you care for someone who says he doesn't care for your friendship.\n\nIF YOU HAVE BEEN HONEST, i GUESS THE LEAST YOU CAN ASK FOR IS HONESTY.\n\nAppreciate yourself and try to talk to him first, if things definitely will not work out let him go and be happy on your own... Actually he is the one that will have lost a friend, not you, understand? :)
680546
he just wants to do something with you, and you know what it is!... so its up to you... dont trust your exbf's friends... ever...
570574
Well, depending on whether you're still friends with your ex-bf. If he's someone you wouldn't like to hurt, I wouldn't touch his friend quite yet ^_-
528983
I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
383008
Definitely HERS.  Your ex is just that - your EX.  He no longer has any responsibility to you and doesn't have to answer to you (even though he should no better).  But your "friend" should DEFINITELY know better.  That is just something you DO NOT do to your friends.  She should have come to you and explained the situation and told you that she really likes this guy and asked you if it would bother you if she dated him.  Instead, she snuck around behind your back like a coward.  That is not friend, honey.  Get rid of both of them.\n\nAs for kicking someone's ass - it's so not worth it.
347781
forget said friend & move on
488114
It depends on the situation. If you were still dating him when they got together, that's messed up and that's not a friend. But if it was an ex boyfriend, I think that's okay. As long as she comes and talks to you first about it. Not asking for permission, just letting you know what her feelings are. That's a true friend. I don't see anything wrong with friends dating other friends exs but they have to remember that friends come first
765532
Sadly and embarrassingly enough - I know that situation and have been on the girl side. I loved my new bf and just could bear the fact that my ex is just not noticing and forgetting me. Stupid enough I have been to start calling him and even meeting with him saying that I want his friendship. But really I just wanted him to be mine again even though I didn't really need him!!!\n\nBe careful women are fools!! It might not be the same situation, but based on what you said and what I've had it really looks like it!
478448
Does "ex" not break it down enough? why waste your precious time calling him if hes no going to call you?
592660
What a mess!  Tell your friend, she deserves to know.If you talked about your ex around your friend. She'll know to drop him, because she'll know what kind of guy he is. You won't lose a friend, but she'll need you to be there.
561546
NO, don't be friends with the ex. ESPECIALLY if he's being an a*ss