HELP!!! i need help getting a boyfriend what should I do??? HURRY!!p.s im in 7th grade just 2 tell u?
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cool im in 8th so ill help u out DONT DATE IN 7TH GRADE WHEN U GET TO HIGH SCHOOL THAT IS WHEN THE BOYS COME A ROLLIN IN!!!!!!!!
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Wow, the answers on here are really great! Try joining some co-ed clubs if there are some available. Even if you just get some exposure to new people, maybe you can meet someone you like. This may sound a little old fashioned, but some girls meet boys (that may go to other schools) if they go to church or the local arcade, or the mall. \n\nAsk your friends, and thank your lucky stars that you have gotten some really great answers right here already! (NOT THE SUICIDE SUGGESTION!) but anything I could say to you besides "broaden your horizons" would only be a repeat...You could also try community organizations, or working with volunteers that help with projects in your community! I think when the time is right, you will find a boyfriend, in the meantime just have a lot of friends, and you do not have to be lonely, there are people in your community that you could help, and learn something at the same time (maybe even meet someone, summer is on the way!). \n\nIf we could just order a man from a catalog, many of them would probably be returned for one reason or another, it's hard to know when you are young what you really want. So the choices are not good where you are, look elsewhere! When the time is right, you will meet someone that you DO like, and he will like you too!\nHave fun!\nruthie~
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hey im 15 too, so i know what your talking about. I like girls that I can talk to, and that i can see something happening between us. If you just want a boyfriend in general and its not really that you like someone, then i say that you just get involved a little more with the group, and make your self noticed. stand out as an individual. once you find a guy in specific, just try to be friends at first, then make him want you. maybe we should talk later and you can give me more details, send me an e-mail and we can get in touch.
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The best advice I can give is: Be yourself!!!!!  Don't worry what others think of you. Boyfriends will come with time. You won't get anymore homework than you can handle. It's a huge step in your life. You will make so many changes in your life and this is just the beginning. Do your best with your schoolwork and prioritize. School is more important than boys and going out with friends.(even though it doesn't seem that way now). You will see that when you get older!  \n\nGood luck with this transition and all others!!
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I am 13.How old are you?I want a boyfriend.
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You say that as though you are ancient! I would not worry about not having a boyfriend at the moment. You are still young, after all. Even shy girls find a guy in the end so don't worry about being left on the shelf - your time will come!\n\nTo prepare yourself for a future of dating, get to know yourself. Know your likes and dislikes. Think about how you feel about things. It will sound strange but if you give everyday situations some thought and know how you feel about things, that is a great way to maintain a conversation - with a boy or a girl. Practice your conversational skills. Think about the facade you present to others. Maybe boys don't hit on you because you are so pretty. So maybe you should think about how you make yourself more approachable.\n\nAn engaging personality is worth more than looks. If you can work on your self confidence as well as your conversational skills, you are more likely to hook a boy's attention - and maintain it.\n\nGood luck!
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Middle School, huh???  You sound like your going thru the "change", not going into 6th grade.....\n\nNever mind, I digress.\n\nDump the boyfriend;  Why tie yourself down to one guy when you have a whole new school full of guys to choose from???  Of course, they are all middle school guys, so not a single one of them is going to ask you out.  Sorry.  They're too busy with their videogames and other boy-type things.  The only guys that are going to ask you out now are all old enough to go to jail for asking you out.\n\nAs far as the friends thing goes;  it's a whole new school, make a bunch of new friends.  Everybody there is just as nervous as you, so all of you have something in common.
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There is no rush for a boyfriend...enjoy your friendships first and you will know when you are ready for one!
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No!!! Do NOT be a boyfriend stealer!! No, no, no! Bad girl! Find your own guy. Be a true friend and just walk away from that right now!
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Just go slow.  You have lots of time to grow up and figure things out.  Don't give into pressure to have a boyfriend.  The right time will come.  Concentrate on school work and doing the right things.
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NO! I am 12 and I have a boyfriend. Infact, my first boyfriend was when I was 8. So, GO FOR IT! :)
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Sweet heart, I do not think you should have a boyfriend, you do not need one. You are very very young and you should be having lot's of fun with your friends. Why would you want to have a boyfriend who is only going to give you headaches???! There is enough time for everything in life, when you get a little older you will have a boy friend! When you decide to have one then you will probably stop hanging out with your friends and you will not even get the chance to meet other guy's and become their friends until you actually find the one that is "Perfect" for you!!! HAVE FUN, DO NOT COPY EVERY ONE ELSE, DO NOT GET A BOYFRIEND, BELIEVE ME!!! Good Luck!!!!!
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Just wait, concentrate on school, and have fun with your friends. Soon enough you'll find a good bf. :)
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dont do a damn thing! you said you have a boyfriend so dont do anything...unless of course you wanna wind up single and known around school as the little easy girl who broke up two friends!
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you don't go out and look for a boyfriend...when the right guy comes in your life, it'll happen....but take your time so you get a Good boyfriend...
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OK  First you find the boy you really like. then act normal go up and talk to him! It may sound stupid but that's how I got my boyfriend cause he started to like me when he got to know me and I talked to him!
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first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!