what do you do if you cheat on you boy friend?
463447
learn fro this experience\n\nBe true to your self\n\n\nBrake it off with your boyfriend. \nStart anew Everyone deserves to be treated with honesty, you have broken respect  for your relationship.
176460
Cheating is NOT OK...the fact that he did that too you in the first place is soooo not cool. I'm surprised you didn't do away with him then! The thing is if you didn't do anything about it when it happened...he's probably thinkin sweet i'll do it again...unless he's really genuine. Just ask yourself...If he's hurt me this much this soon, whats to come in the future...? And what might come in the future is heartbreak...and you don't want that. If you break up with him now, you can do it on good terms, and possibly hold up a descent friendship!! Just pretect your heart...good luck!!!
144810
i don’t cheat cheat my self if i am with you i am with you (i look but i never touch)\n\nAllot guys don’t have control their feelings enough so think before they act specially at a younger age, they don’t realize that their actions will hurt those they love but there are those who do it just because they are jerks and think they can get away with it.\n\nif he cheated on you and you forgave him he is most likely to do it again so be careful. if he cheats on you make him see how upset this makes you but don’t let him back in your life too easy make him show you he is worthy of you and that he wont cheat.\n\nwhat good is a relationship if is based on lies.
196498
You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.
52133
Trust is a hard thing to earn after someone cheats on you. Trust him if you feel like he hasn't cheated, but don't be blind. If it is true love it will all work out as long as you are both willing to work at the relationship. As for your "friend" maybe she is jealous of your relationship, I don't know, but keep your guard up as to what she tells you about your BF.
1146047
I would stay with the one I love now. I would dump my other boyfriend but i would not tell him i cheated on him, i would just say i want to date other people or something. What he doesn't know won't hurt him. If you tell him the truth, it would always haunt you and him and make it difficult to ever be friends if you want that. When the trust is gone, its hard to get it back.
355737
Why would you even need to ask? If you caught him and you know he lied about it, then it should be obvious what you should do, unless you want to stay with a lying cheat that you will not be able to trust. Honesty and trust are the basis of any good relationship and he destroyed them both. Don't you think you deserve a lot better than him? I sure do!\n\nS.S.
1133565
don't always believe guys who are telling you that your bf fooled around cause true friends don't tell sometimes guys say that cause they want you but if you truly feel he cheated then there is a 99% chance he did. look for little signs like he tries kissing different, and see how they act around each other people always tell on themselves that way. and if they act strange then leave men are replace able
306204
Sorry but you don't cheap on anyone that you supposedly love.  Spare him the heartache again if he knows that you cheated.  Put yourself in his shoes, cuz I know you wouldn't like it if he cheated on you.  Move on.....
1147913
Wake up.  Don't you watch the show Cheaters?\nThat's what he's doing to you. Don't fall for it.\nHe doesn't care how you feel about things.\nThat's a big sign that things are over. If he loved\nyou,  he wouldn't hurt you by living with other\nwomen. I bet he and his male friends got a big\nlaugh off of that one.
529335
yeah, stay with him. nice guys are cheaters and liars. have a nice life.
1056299
I say you choose.  Either leave your boyfriend and be with the other man, or stop seeing the other man and be with your boyfriend.  It is not fair to either of you, especially him for you to go on having a sham of a relationship.\n   You have to grow up here and make a real choice.  You are treading in dangerous territory and you can only hurt yourself and your boyfriend continuing on the path you are on.\n   Ask yourself why you are cheating, and decide if it can be fixed so you no longer want to.  Or, is it just a selfish need to be with two different men?  Only you can decide, unless he finds out and dumps you because of your cheating ways.  \n   Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
1003263
he's cheating.  and he's lying to your face about it.  dump him.
1041332
wake up,he cheated on you so why have him back.chances are you will never fully trust him ever again.time to move on girl
1116146
Well if your bf's cheating with your bestfriend, whats the difference if you do it????? hehe
43078
Well it depends on if you are...repentant about the mistake you made.  if you are, yes. you should. he'll find out someday and it's better to come from you with a real face of repentance than for him to find out and ruin your relationship because of it. \nIf you aren't repentant and you could care less if your b/f knew, then tell him and break up with him.  'cause if you 'cheated' on him, whats the point in being HIS     friend?
527787
Its simple, just BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND before you really hurt him.  As you can probably tell, something like this happened to me.  My ex cheated on me then broke up with me(on the same day that one of my friends died) and I felt like shit for a really long time.  So if you care about your boyfriend you'll let him go and just dont tell him about the other guy.