Are ALL traditions good, fair or right? tradtions about any thing?
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Tradition is a connection, respect and acknowlodgment of where you came from or your past.  \n\nie if you like and respect your past/heritage then do it!  If you don't care at all, even in regards to family then don't.
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as long as you both feel as winners ,yes its good!but marriage is all built on how much you try to be a winner and also make him to feel same!for me,although it was tough as we have too many differences,specially different cultures,it was very good!we fight,get sad,love,respect,share,laugh and ... looking at same thing and seeing differences is not matter but careing about similarities is the secret of a good marriage!
507776
The traditions that our family has built up over the years.  the colors, the music, the emphasis on good will and giving to others, the smells of the tree, gingerbread, fires in the fireplace, and the wamr comfort of being at home with family.
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treat everyone equally
870917
I think it is wonderful your friend wants to wear a sari for a Christmas dinner. Not only is it completely appropriate, but could even be perceived by some to be charming (think about a Scottish man wearing a traditional kilt - this is viewed as charming my many). It is vital that we remember to appreciate cultural traditions for peoples who now live in America. What better time to do this than at the holidays!
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i think its fine, if the couple are happy with it,,,, there are many jobs/roles that a family has need for,,,,, it doesnt matter who does what, as long as it gets done and no one feels pressured or limited to just role
361628
Good is a relative term. Fair and just, yes, I think it was fair and just. Politicians should uphold the laws, not get involved in illegal activity.
921507
Many of the customs were borrowed from Pagan traditions.  It does not mean Xmas and Easter are pagan holidays.  Where did you get this stuff??\n\nYou can celebrate anything you want.  It's a free country.
144100
You like what you like...and there is nothing wrong with that. Don't make it out to be a bad thing, as long as your happy who cares what other ppl think...best of luck
509022
same as any other group of ppl. some are good, some arent so good. christianity started out with the best of intentions, but theres always going to be flaws with stuff like that.
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It is Politically Correct to only say that everybody is perfect and no one does anything wrong.\n\noops! I don't think I answered what you were asking! I'm soo sorry! I kind of have a headache, and I guess I didn't REALLY read the last part. Should I delete my answer then?
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G'day Adellmarie,\n\nThank you for your question.\n\nThat is good to know.\n\nRegards
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Sadly, there is no equivilant that is older.  Anyway, traditions have to start somewhere.  And Christmas was started to distract people from Winter Solstice Celebrations.\n\nPatty "Fabricated in the 60's, too" Surrey
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Correct. Fair is subjective. I guess I would prefer to know something without any doubt and work on people's feelings later.
380762
Sure, its okay! Whats wrong with it?! Be who or what you want to be and to hell with what anyone thinks! :)
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how can a sensible and reasonable person can question on frndship for being right or wrong..its always right and infact proper and necessary for two neighbouring countries to b frnds.......
997057
They are not mutually exclusive, I send a e-mail every Christmas to my family you could say that is my tradition yet it is in the form of modern technology...I also can make my grandmas recipes in a microwave... so you see where I am going here. Traditions are rituals we do to feel connected to someone/thing.  You can speed these things up with modernizations though.