How to love without fear?
460654
I dont think there is a real explination for making a marriage work forever, unless you are an angel or something... Just love, and stay true to the other person and yourself.
830655
First step would be to learn that love has nothing to do with how you feel or how you can make a woman feel. Actions speak louder than words buddy.\n\nExtravagant gifts and etc., dont impress people as much as simple expressions of love like listening when a girl needs to talk and sharing her problems without wanting to hear you're advice on how to fix it. \n\nFind out the things she enjoys, for example when I was 18 I met a girl named Kim. I had her brother go into her room and find out what kind of perfume she used. I then got her some for her birthday and she absolutely loved it. You see, simple things like that!
198082
All life is a risk. It's ok to be afraid. Courage is being afraid and doing the scary thing anyway. Write down all the possible reactions you could get, and then write down ways you can deal with them. \n\nIt wasn't love, but last year I was going to dinner with my neighbor and her daughter's family. I was very afraid they would say something mean to me. So I thought, ok, the worst that could happen is they could yell at me and tell me I was a bad person. I figured that I would just leave the restaurant if that happened. \n\nI went and we had a nice time and all of us were freindly. Take the risk, you might just make a love connection!
72809
The first thing you need to do if you don't already is to learn to love yourself, and care for yourself. If you cannot do that , then why would anyone else? So you can attract a person who loves you by becoming more of a loving person yourself. There are great bonuses to this method.
1073699
I beg to disagree!I believe girls are not afraid of love but of what this love would bring.\nHope u find A GIRL WHO HAD THE COURAGE TO FACE HER FEARS.\nThere are soooo many out there waiting for Mr. Right.(Iknow!)\nGood luck!
459944
Love and pain come hand in hand. You can't avoid it. Allow yourself to fall, it's the whole point of "falling" in love. They will catch you if they love you in return. It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. It's the only way to live. Push your fear aside and give it your all.
1123262
Ability to love and express love unconditionally
801124
start within yourself. love yourself first.
886620
Before you can love and be loved by others, you need to love yourself.  When you are comfortable with yourself, you relax more, and it shows.  People are more likely to want to be around someone who is comfortable and confident.  Your size or how you look doesn't matter at all - it's your attitude.\n\nGo for walks and enjoy the outdoors by yourself.  Read books.  Write stories and draw.  Learn a new hobby that is best enjoyed alone.  Go on dates with yourself, even!  Basically, you need to enjoy yourself and be comfortable being alone before you can have friends.  Once you find out you don't need them, they'll start falling into your lap.  (Then you have a totally different problem because you want to be alone but people won't stop bugging you!)\n\nHope this helps.  I spent a good part of my life friendless, and only recently learned that being alone is totally OK.  It was the most important lesson I've ever learned.
1175789
Not being loved.  I think deep down, that is everybodies fear.  By nature humans are social creatures and being loved in the one thing that every body on this earth wants or strives for.
454814
There is nothing to fear,but fear itself.I'm sure you have heard that saying. What you need to do is sit down and figure out what it is that you are really afraid of and why. You need to learn to love yourself and realize that you can be your own best friend and that you would never leave you,now would you. Being alone is most likely what you are really afraid of. There are some people and I personally know a few,that just cannot stand to be alone. I used to be one of them.Then one day I had to face one of my worst fears,a person very close to me died and I was then truly alone. It was during the pain of the experience that I learned alot about myself and I found that even without this person in my life,that I was o.k. I started exploring the many different things in life that I always wanted to do or learn to do and started doing them. Life can be a great adventure if you let it be,but fear of the unknown or fear itself stops one from growing and sometimes living life to the fullist.During that time in my life I learned to like ME.The person inside of this body,the inner voice I sometimes hear,my conscience,myself.I learned to like ME.Then I wasn't afraid of anyone leaving me or abandoning me because I was always going to be there for myself,even if everyone else in my life were gone.Because "ME"goes everywhere I do. I now enjoy what I call quiet time when no-one else is around. It gives you time to think about things you'd like to create,explore and maybe even places you'd like to visit right by yourself.Even though you are alone there are always new people to meet. Putting all your eggs in one basket or totally depending on someone else for your happiness is never a good idea. Another person can always leave you for one reason or another and not always by choice. So learn to love yourself and your spirit and you will see that the fear of abandonment will leave you forever.
249891
Just tell him that you love him. Why you are thinking that he will be scared?
339825
Wait until there is a moment where you are alone in a non intimate place and just tell the truth..  you have nothing to lose and life is too short.  You will know when someone loves you.. a persons eyes are the windows to their soul..  I believe in love, without love what purpose would there be in living..?
580619
love is not a feeling, Love does not hurt, Love is not proud,Love is not jealous, Love is patient. Love is something that's real.  Read it in the Bible.
899521
Spend time together and don't worry about how you look around each other, how you talk and sound around each other or whether you feel stupid when you're with each other.  And just because you don't show public display of affection doesn't mean you don't love each other.  You just feel like being nice to the rest of the world and saving us from a disgusting scene.  I save my stuff for when I'm not in public. (wink, wink)
15530
Love is not a feeling, it is an act, wherein you overcome laziness or fear to do something for a person, be it you or another. Thus love requires effort and/or courage. The fuzzy feeling you feel is not necessarily love, when you feel you can overcome inertia or handle your fears and do something for someone, then you have love.
55713
Ok!!!!  Trying loving yourself first.  Life is nothing if you don't love yourself....then you will have someone to love.