How do you get your fella of 6 years to propose.?
461966
Maybe this would be a good time for one of those "Where are we going with this relationship talks." Obviously you have plans for a future with this guy. Take some time to have a one-on-one with your fella about his plans for the future. Maybe he wants to be in a certain place in life before he makes the commitment to you, or perhaps his plans aren't quite the same as yours, OR he could just not know that you want to marry him. \n\nWhen you do talk to him, remember that it could be a bit of a touchy subject with him... don't make a big deal about it, but make sure that you two have some time alone that sufficient to have this conversation. Also, try your best to avoid sentences that start with "You..." these can be interpretted as accusations. Another thing you should try to avoid are the words "always" and "never".\n\nGood luck, and I wish best for you and your boyfriend.
788395
The next time that he brings it up just tell him point blank you are not ready yet, and if he would just relax a little about it maybe you will feel more comfortable getting married in the future. Just be sure to let him know that you do not want to loose what the 2 of you have now.
446559
realize him that you love by indirect means.look trendier,smart,and show that u have everything what he wants.Then at some day say him to help you in some work then slowly slowly propose  him.
258313
Make sure she knows how much she means to you.  If it's by a poem, card or letter.  That would melt me.  Take her out to a nice dinner and give her an anniversary ring.  Ive been married 6 years and would love one of those!
297512
First, talk to her about marriage if you haven't already, so that she knows you're thinking about it, too. Then, pick a day you want to propose, and tell her to clear everything so that she can spend the whole day with you.\n\nIf you don't mind spending money, you can get really creative. Throughout the day, make her think she's about to get proposed to, but don't. i.e. bend down to tie your shoe, except really tie your shoe; take her to a game, and put a message on the big screen that says "I love you", rather than "Will you marry me?"; etc.\n\nAfter all that, she'll be kind of upset but kind of amused, because she knows you're gonna propose, but you're building up her anticipation. Then, at the end of the day, do something nowhere near that romantic, and propose then.
556096
Before proposing u need to realize whether u want really engaged with her or not, if yes then first u let her know abt u if the same thing she feels then u straightly propose her by ur bottom of heart.i think she will agree.All the best.
300311
proposal of marriage should be something personal... take her to someplace special for the two of you... make it a memorable event that she will remember and look on with joy forever.  I have helped many of my male friends propose... this one happened about three years ago on easter... my best friend led her on a scavenger hunt for plastic easter eggs.... in each one was a clue to where another one would be.... things like where we first met, first kissed, first date... and at the last place he stepped out with an egg and opened it showing the ring... he asked her if she was ready to place all of her eggs in the same basket.  She said yes... crying with tears of joy.
970236
At this point, my perfect proposal would be, "Hey honey, lets go to Reno this weekend and get married!!"\n\nWe have been together 10.5 years and it is like come on, lets just do it! We know we will and we aren't offically engaged, but it is just a matter of time.\n\nI of course would love like a romantic dinner out and he propose that way!
715565
He obviously understands your feelings, and you understand his, now is there room for both of you to compromise.  Maybe set a date for a few years from now or just get engaged and not set a date yet.  I don't think it would be fair to either of you if only one of you made concessions.  It wounds like you are the one doing it now.  Talk to him about a compromise.
458693
i believe that you can do anything. it might be a Little awkward to see you on bended knee, but everyone does there own thing right. are you saying this because you want your man to propose to you? if this is the case and he hasn't done it yet Probably means he isn't ready or he thinks your not ready yet, or something else is going on. also depends on how long you have been together. i know its a custom in my family to live with your significant other for 4 full seasons at least before you propose to him/her. this might be the same for him as well. all you can really do is lightly bring up the subject to him and see where it goes.
34962
Incredible simple - BY TELLING HIM!\n\nMy wife and i, we met on the internet and where friends for 6 month, that she asked when do we get married?? :)))\n\nSo, just be straight and tell him.
206374
Ok first it sounds like you are too young to be proposing.  How old are you?  It sounds like you need to date before trying to get married... which is what a proposal is.  Just take it easy and talk to her.  If she wont talk to you then find someone else... but dont propose right away!  get to know them really good first.  Just date and have fun.  You will know when you have found the right person.
687083
I was engaged to my husband for four years.  We have now been happily married for almost 10.  We took our time, because there were children involved and we didn't want to put them through divorce again.  However... we were sure we wanted to be together and married from the moment he gave me the ring.  Maybe you should give the ring back and tell him to propose again when he is sure!  If you love him and hold out hope, you two could keep dating.  This would just make it very clear to him that he needs to "poop or get off the pot".  Give him a little time, some men tend to need a little kick in the butt.  GOOD LUCK!
727506
Oh, poor guy... Just listen to what you're saying: you're basically TRYING TO MAKE HIM marry you. With that kind of attitude, I don't think that guy will marry you without doubting himself whether this relationship will work. If you try to push him here, what else does he have to expect, once you're married and live together? He won't have a second of freedom to breathe - that's what you're telling him.\nDon't get frustrated. If he doesn't propose just yet - he's got a reason to do that. Either he is trying to make a surprise for you, or maybe, he is still trying to figure out how will this whole marriage thing work. If you think he's not really planning to propose - then why in the world do you insist on him to do that? If he does plan to propose and waits for the right moment, you're pushing that moment farther and farther away, because you're thinking about it all the time, and he can't propose to you by surprise if that's all you think about. Maybe, he's been carrying a ring in his pocket for weeks now. But when you two meet.... "Hi, honey, when are you going to propose to me?" -" Oh, yea, I was just going to do that..." Sweet surprise, isn't it? Give him time and space, let him get ready. It's a big step in both of your lives. And it's not every day you get married.\nBtw... Me and my gf have known each other for almost 3 years. And yet I still haven't proposed to her (even though we too talked about marriage many times). We are still figuring out each other, trying to understand the relationship better and soften out sharp egdes, which have a potential of ruining our relationship. Once we both think we've got to know each other well enough, then we'll start making plans of a wedding. Until then, we enjoy each others' company and get to know ourselves really well. One thing neither of us wants to happen is to find some really bad surprise about another person when we're already married. Way too many relationships brake up because they started too quickly. If people in those relationships would get to know each other before dating - maybe they'd never want to date another person and save tons of nerves and time.
681139
six years is a long time to be wondering. its hard to tell by just looking at someones eyes if they love you or not. if they havnt said it to you in six years i would think they dont love you. if you want to be sure, tell this person how you feel. good luck.
1099160
SHOULD?????\nDo u think there is any should for proposing even if u are together for 2 yrs?!?!?!?!\nI have another idea if u are ready for proposing why u dont propose him?????\nAnd always know there is no should for marriage ...and if he is not ready for that never want him to do that .....people get married by a mistake and rouine their both lives ..\njust do it when both are ready for
312105
If you feel you love her.Start by asking her to marry you, then be engaged for about a year, If your still happy and in love after that start planning!