after how long flirting with a girl should a guy ask her to be his girlfriend?
470069
ask to hang out...spend more time for her...then ask her out to be your girlfriend...but u don't need to rush things
469076
Well, the flirting is a good start on your part, and a good sign on his. Try and move the conversation around to his girlfriend to see is he has moved on. If not, put your arm around him or on him etc SYMPATHETICALLY. If he likes this, you can do it more often. Ask pertinant questions. Some males are wimps and like the women to be in control. If he has already done stuff like this though, its time to let him take the driving seat. Remember though, go with your heart, but you may have a better relationship if you are just friends.
1112485
My rule of thumb, is never to date anyone that works with you, unless they are in a different dept., or you don't see them during your everday.  Because if it doesn't workout it can backfire.  I think the time frame for being in the friend category is anything past 3 flirting sessions.  Then I would wonder does this guys have b.alls enough to ask me out?  I guess not, then I would move on and just be friendly with you.  I hope it works out for you, step it up a notch.  Don't worry if she says no, there are many other girls.
24214
answer all of these questions \n1. does she flirt?\n2. do you feel like y'all have known eachother 4ever?\n3. is she close and ready to help u through any shituation? \n\nif u can answer these 3 questions then yoe if not try to strenghthen ur relationship w/ her
407129
From what you have said it seems to be great just take what she is saying as a precaution for you . It will happen soon enough just give it time and she will open up to you even more. You have gain her trust so everything is basically like clock work she is going to be yours now the thing is when it does happen how far are you going to go. Miss might  just  want a one night stand she might want something more serious so when it all happen you better be what you pro tray to be a nice guy  or it will just be another GOOD THING GONE BAD SO BECAREFUL HOPE I HAVE HELP GOOD LUCK
215550
It depends on what you want...\n\nIt depends on how close YOU are to this friend, and how much you value her friendship (not to be confused with how close she says she is to you, and she obviously doesn't value your friendship extremely highly).\n\nIt depends on how you feel about this guy.  It depends on how he responds to her advances.  It depends on how much you would care if it went too far.  It depends on if you're worried about it going too far.  It depends on what too far is to you.\n\nI doubt if you're the threesome kind of girl, so I'll pass those "it depends ifs".\n\nSince you focus on HER hitting on HIM, it sounds like you're okay with his response, and because that's a fairly stressful situation for a relationship, I'd guess you love him.  Just my guess.\n\nWhich brings it down to her...\n\nObviously some of these answers would be more appropriate and likely than others...\n- Tell her in a joking way "cool it a little bit"\n- Tell her in a joking way "nice try, but he's mine"\n- Tell her in a serious way to please stop\n- Give her an ultimatum to prove her friendship - "leave my man alone"\n- When you catch her in the act, tell her to get a life meanly\n- When you catch her in the act, snuggle up to him in a sexy way and purr at her "this one's mine, you're going to have to get your own, honey"\n- Find her a boyfriend\n- When you catch her in the act, start a chick fight\n- Your boyfriend could file a restraining order\n- You could ask her exactly what she thinks she's going to get out of the situation\n- You could film her in action and play the clip at a party of all your mutual friends except that she's not invited\n- You could film her in action and play the clip at a party of all your mutual friends, including her\n(to make the filming thing work, it would have to be at a party or something where the camera was out from the beginning and everything was being filmed, if you and your boyfriend try to set it up, it won't work)\n\nWhether or not she SAYS she wouldn't do anything to hurt you... the fact is that most women would be at least somewhat hurt by repeated behavior like this.  So using conventional wisdom, she's lying.\n\nBut again, it all comes down to what YOU want.\n\nDecide if you want to do something about it or not.  Maybe things are okay like they are, or maybe she's got to stop.
592453
i would say to be the coolest and nicest person. always keep it real at all times. never tell any stupid jokes cause that a girls number one turn off. be constant to the communication. but dont overdue it. talk about each other and make jokes off it that way the girl feels good talking to you. but if you just want to take her to bed then you are not going to do it in 7 days. unless she is a hoe. sorry!
659675
John...\nu r trying to know, wether the girl is in th romantic moo or not..then what is the greatness of you if she is already in the romantic mood..you try to get her in to the mood.\nSay some good jokes...then good jokes to adult jokes (gradually), then you can observe that ,if she is enjoing the jokes and sharing some similar with you...you can proceed...  have a nice day.......HANUMAN
213019
Depends upon guy to guy.\nSome like and others not. No universal rule on this.\nBUt believe me most guy dont like gals who r flirting in nature, they just use her and after that dump her.
259836
There is no way to know within 5 minutes.  Both of you are still nervous, getting comfortable takes time.  I usually don't know until a couple hours later.  See how you interact with her, how she reacts to your jokes, a slight touch on her arm, how her body language is.  Give it more than 5 minutes!:)
690148
Well don't worry what people think, first of all. And if you like her, go for it! Just remember that if things don't go well, you might ruin the friendship. So depending on how long you two have been flirting, you may want to wait a while.
690162
It depends on her age?\nIf you are in your teenage years then i dont think that it is taking things too fast.  But if she is not ready yet and this guy likes her that much she should ask him to wait a bit longer and he should respect her wishes.  Good luck.x.
786298
Well, I  guess this is pretty true for most women. Girls don't like guys to think that they're too easy to get. Most women like to be chased. But I think that after a certain period most women stop playing hard to get and just start a normal relationship with some guy. Of course this period may vary.....sometimes it might be 3-4 weeks but it can even last months. It really depends.
397367
Yes. Women need to feel desired. You can't just flirt and get right to the point that you want to @#$# her!! Have some game!! If you 'win' her over don't you think you will eventually get it anyway? Timing is everything. If you flirt with a self respecting woman (not a whore who will drop it like it's hot for a french fry)then yes, she will NEED not want, but NEED you to show her that you desire all of her including her mind, her conversation, as well as her body.
580282
My God girl go for it. That is exactly what I went through and now I've never been so happy.  I had been curious since I was 13 though.\n\nThe fact you flirt is cool but you know that you shouldn't take it any further if it isn't completely amicable. There are two other people in the equation.\n\nI always felt more comfortable with my partner than anyone else but the timing is also an issue. My advice is if you are comfortable with chicks don't change.
602612
It depends on what type of guy he is!?! Does he flirt alot?!?! My friend made the mistake of going out with one guy everytime he asked her (which was 4 times) and he thought he could get her back everytime he asked!If the guy is nice and if you still like him alot go for it but make sure he knows you wont always be this forgiving! But if he's a player tell him to his face that he's a jackass!!!!
962602
just start by asking her casually to the movies. then when you guys are together at the movies ask her to be your girlfriend. good luck ! =]