Do you think an older woman would play a younger man just like many younger women do?
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Sorry to hear the situation you are in. I hate to say it, but somebody IS getting hurt. Just because her husband doesnt know YET doesnt mean it wont kill him inside when he finds out. \n\nAs for you, I think she is just using you...she would have left her husband long before you came around if she didnt want to stay. Her man is probably just not fufilling her needs, either emotionally or sexually...you filled that void for her, but I am betting you are not as important to her as he is. What will likely happen is she will eventually leave you all together and go back to him.\n\nI am sorry if this sounds brutal, but sometimes it is hard to see the truth when you are IN the situation. I dont think she is trying to play games with you nor is she trying to hurt anybody...just trying to fill a painful void with a caring man. If it were not you, it would be someone else. I really hope you dont get hurt here and sever this relationship; there IS a good, SINGLE woman out there for you who will want ONLY you. Not all of us play games. Take care\n\n------------------------------------------------------------\nYou are very welcome ;) Good luck in finding a nice woman!\n------------------------------------------------------------\nOh! That makes it SO hard. I thought I had the one too, not that long ago. I was with him for 2 and 1/2 years and even was engaged to him and trying to have children. I found out that since the day we met, he had been lying to me consistantly and had even created a profile on a dating web site days before he purposed to me.  \n\nLike my ex, this woman is telling you all the things you want to hear and you are completely devoted to her. The fact that you have to question it means your head is trying to tell you it is wrong, but your heart is arguing. You are trying to find some execuse for her actions, some way to beleive she cares for you as much as you for her. Trust me, your heart is making you lie to yourself, dont get caught in this trap! She doesnt really care for you...only herself, or she wouldnt be hurting the people she is SUPPOSED to be caring about (her husband OR you). Tell her you love her too much to play second string to her husband...you NEED to communicate here. Give her an ultimatim; say him or you. That is how you will find out the truth. I know you dont want to pressure her, but if she loved you, it SHOULD NOT have even been a necessity. It is time for the games to stop.\n\nYour heart is invested here and you will get hurt one way or the other...only you can decide how much. Even if she DOES decide to leave her husband (which I doubt) she will likely cheat on you in a few years (once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater). The longer you are with her the more pain you are going to suffer! I feel it would be best if you broke it off and NEVER spoke to her again...then you can tend to your broken heart. Trust me...I know your pain. I wanted to kill myself when I left my man, but things will get brighter and you will see this woman DOES NOT deserve you! There WILL be someone better for you. Heal your heart and give it time. You CAN make it through this.\n------------------------------------------------------------\nI know :p Thanks. I wouldnt say that I know a lot...I have only been in one relationship. What I do know is based on a few things; that one relationship gave me more experience than I could ever have wanted, friends and their experiences and watching WAY to many talk shows :p My personality helps too, I guess...I am empathetic, can see all sides and I have really high morals. Ultimatly, you need to do what you feel is right and try not to let your heart rule you (as you would be supprised what you can convince yourself of just to follow your emotions). I really hope things work out for you! So many men are players and it is good to see one that goes against the rule!\n-----------------------------------------------------------\nYou are very welcome. I would be happy to provide my two cents on an
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i am almost 31...and i can honestly tell you that i feel more confident,  more beautiful and more lovable as i get older.  i have dealt with my shit,  i have been there and done it,  and i dont want to play games.  i am at the point where if the right guy comes along,  i am ready to have a lifelong love with him.  the other sweet thing that benefits the man when they have an older woman is....sexual prime for a woman begins at 30....and trust me....if you want a woman who feels the way you did as a teenage boy in the sex department, that is the way to go....
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What a question! Being an older guy myself, I'd say yeah, but you need to show him how serious you are. You wouldn't believe the number of younger women who are after me. Go for it.
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I think we need more information 'bout the guy to give you a better answer. I think guys act different depending in how old they are.
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Yes.  Women would take over the man's role.
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she likes older men, they're more mature.
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Good luck, old man. Hate to say it, but "old man" usually makes women 20-30yrs old think "creepy old man".
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Well women do mature faster, so that may be the issue! I think by the time you reach your 20s, he may change his tune, he will be a bit older.....and a bit more mature!
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I am telling you this from experience and from my heart. Go with an older man. I am 34 and dating a man who is 20 years my senior. I have never been happier in my life than I am right now. The maturity factor trumps everthing else. They know how to treat a woman like a woman and not a girl. There is respect present in their personalities that isn't there in younger men. And the sex is incredible. Trust me, I wouldn't tell you this if it were not true. If you have your eye on an older man, go for it.
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It's not nesessarliy the age  but about acting like a man..  when my bf acts like a 2 yr old i tell him i want a man not a boy  and he's 33..LOL
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Love your spelling. When you say older, what do you mean? If a younger woman approached me, I would be skeptical of her motives. She would have to be an intellectual equal for me to consider her more than a booty call. What kind of dates would you both feel comfortable on? If he is seen out with you, what are others going to say? Is he married? Will people tell? There's some pressure here.
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Age doesn't necessarily make someone better. You can be older and limited in experience, or younger and very experienced. It varies from person to person. I wouldn't jump to conclusions with that kind of assumption. I speak from personal experience! A case in point would be that some older women like to make love to younger men. It is not necessarily because they are better lovers than older men, but because they make the woman feel younger(he may also have more stamina than an older man, but will probably drop his "deposit" sooner as well). Also, younger women like older men, because he makes her feel mature, and she likes to brag to her girl friends that she is with a grown man. Even if it sounds lame, that is what I have heard some women say!
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Men do. They are the ones that have to make all the moves. Well some women except them too. Things may have changed for the younger people. In all men have it harder.
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probably...no offense but older guys know how to get girls to do things..
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If there's a connection, there's a connection! It doesn't matter the age difference, or who's older.\n\nPersonally, i have a preference for older men - i like the whole 'being protected' thing and somehow i can't really see a younger man offering as much comfort!\n\nBut to each her/his own - it all depends on what you want out of the relationship, and whether the other person is ready and able to give it to you. \n\nMaybe ask yourself what the younger man wants from you? If you can tell he's serious about the relationship and not just wanting a "trophy older woman", then by all means :)
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Older men seem to know how to make a woman or lady feel more comfortable due to his experience with women.  It is just the same, when men say, they like older women.
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Absolutely YES! One of my friend loves a women wo is 4 years older than him.\nHe is an independent man ( not mother complex type) and love with her.\nAnd she is not very beautiful, just an ordinary girl.\nIn my country there are 1 selebrity which very handsome married a women 12 years older than him and 9sorry) not pretty. Now they have 1 child and a happy life.\nMe, myself no problem with that or seeing man love older women.