i have a boyfriend but have cheated on him 4 times he hasent found out yet but im scared he will wot shall i d
465746
if you have cheated on him 4 times you absolutely deserve to be dumped... and personally I dont think you'll even care, you appear to have no heart anyways...
749634
Maybe hes the one whos cheating thats why he keeps asking cuz he feels guilty.You should ask him.*
1106763
Yes. Make sure you tell him in a way that he is not threatened. Tell him because you love him and want him to know this from you. That other guy could show up at anytime. Something could happen and it could come out. He should know. But first, you get him aside and tell him that you have never loved anybody or trusted anybody like you do him. And that you are afraid of losing his love, but you are more afraid of hurting him with a lie. That love is based on truth and trust. You must trust him. Ask him if you can trust him to still love you after you tell him something hard from your past. If he says he does not want to know about your past, then shut up. That is fine.\n\nBest of luck. BTW, I doubt that HE was a virgin when you first got together, either. And yes, fair is fair.
377668
The question isn't whether or not it was cheating what you should ask yourself is what's the possibility that someone else might tell him what happen.  If you tell him he might forgive you but I doubt it but if he hear it from someone else you can forget it.  You can tell him I said if he is a good man meaning secure and confident he should believe you and let it go.
263781
Two wrongs don't make a right!!!! However, if he was to think you had cheated on him and you got his reaction then maybe it would knock him down a notch or two. Unfortunately 90% of the time once a cheater always a cheater....not always but most of the time...One thing is for sure you may forgive but you will never forget and it will always be in the back of your mind!! Good Luck!
9234
gurl i think you love him and if you do then forgive and forget and yea its gonna be hard but then again if you dont think you can do it then move on to find someone better because if he would have loved you then he wouldnt have cheated on you, so he is not to much of a boyfriend
552181
he is just afraid tht yooh will cheat and mabie he has been in a past relationship tht didnt work and she might hav cheated on him so he probably doesnt want it to happen again and he is just afraid it will or mabie he is just scared to loose yooh and just really cares wht yooh do and wht could happen if he doesnt check on yooh every once in a while
25099
I can imagine how you feel. But, it's not worth murder. I'm glad my friends, family & I have a rule: "Can't touch what 1 of us has already had." Besides if he was a bad boyfriend she'll find out for herself. Time will tell the tale.\n\nSeriously get over it though.
435783
He made his decision long time ago. He cheated on you, let him prove that he wants to be wtih you. But what you should be asking yourself is can you get past his cheating and never bring it up can you forgive him and will you get past this and be in a healthy meaningful relationship. You owe it to yourself and to him.
63945
It is not hard.  The lack of trust could be that he has done something that violated her trust.  I had a friend who accused everyone one of his girlfriends of cheating, but he was the one who cheated.\n\nSometimes it could be that he was hurt by a girlfriend that cheated on him.  Either way, you are a different person from his past girlfriends and he should not be so mistrusting.
922624
Stop stressing yourself if you don't have proof. If you haven't seen him do it don't worry. Keep your head up cause what happens in the dark ALWAYS come to the light. Believe that, just don't think about it all the time cause then you will start to trip on things that he does and he might not even be cheating. So get the proof first please. Don't give yourself gray hair over a guy that you don't even know if its forever.
1116340
Being someone that has cheated in the past I can honestly tell you it could go either way. I did before, but will never do it again. On the other hand I have had a boyfriend cheat, say it wouldn't happen again & it did. So I guess it depends on the person &/or relationship.
732407
Hi, I think the only way to really know is to look into your heart and go with what you are feeling.  If you cant trust your partner then maybe you shouldnt be with that person.  I know its hard, but until they give you a reason NOT to trust them, try to trust their word.  Its miserable when you dont trust your partner, so just believe they have been faithful until you find out differently.  You might find that they have been faithful all along.  Good luck to ya, Debi
529123
the first thing you need in a relationship is honesty and the ability to trust, and it looks like your boyfriend has broken these, explain to him that you need to trust him and that he must be honest in future or your relationship cannot proceed any further. good luk hun
804574
I have cheated everytime I am with someone. I think its because I haven't found someone who I CANT cheat on! When I do find this person I think that I will NEVER cheat again!!! BUT I will say I have NEVER BEEN CAUGHT!!! So NO ONE HAS been hurt!
751551
I agree with RaRa. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Who needs to worry everytime you are not with him that he may be up to no good? Be with someone you can trust!
289193
Well, all sorts of issues going on here.  For one, were you snooping around, looking for stuff, do you not trust him, has he cheated on you before?  Basically there is a trust issue here, but i'm not on the guys side, he should also be open if he's being invited to girl's parties, and he has alot of girls numbers that you don't know?  Not a good sign.  Figure out if you guys still trust each other, if not, after 4 years, get out, do your own thing, learn to trust.