I slept with my best friends husband, am I a bad person?
467150
Yes your a bad bad person, you home wreaker.  Just like that country sone says, she's gonna kick your pretty little ass.
973491
I am sorry. I really feel bad but my advice is leave the dog there for a while and when you can find a good place you can take her with you. And about your husband he is a jerk and you shouldn't care about him. Move on in your life and I am sure there are thousands of men out there who will respect a loyal and loving women like you. Don't let anybody hurt your self esteem, not even yourself. YOU ARE A WONDERFUL WOMEN WHO DOESN'T NEED  A S*H*I*T LIKE YOUR HUSBAND TO LIVE.
374212
One and I married him. I think that I regret not sleeping with other people before I got married, he had slept with other people before we got together and I feel sometimes like I missed out on something, but I would never do anything now...
861055
From what you described, I think it was the only choice.  And why should you feel guilty?  She's the one sleeping with other guys.  Sounds like you fell for a ho.  She did you a favor. Get on with your life and never look back.
632219
As far as your "good friend" DO NOT LET YOUR MAN GO TO HER HOUSE WITH OUT YOU.  That is your friend not his, I can see if it was his friend.  There have been to many instances when matters like that turn into infidelity.  Be careful with this one.  If I was you I wouldn't allow it, and if he puts up a fight, then he is sleeping with her or if he continues to go without you knowing, he is cheating.  After all she is your friend and he should have female friends of his own.  Another thing, is everything going good between you two?  If there is some fighting and bad vibes I wouldn't allow him to go run to her.  Me and my man had a dicussion the other day about this subject. Something happened between him and his best friends girl, before us.  She came on to him when he was visiting with out his friend.  He left when she tried and he told his friend about it.  His friend did not believe him of course, she called her man before he did.  They use to hang out together and go out so it thought it was okay to go over to her house and wait for his friend to get there.  So you see where this is going you just don't let things like this happen, and you don't put yourself in that kind of predictement.  Not to say that everybody is like that but you don't want to take that chance with your man and your friend.  What we both agreed on is when you are in a relationship and you make friends with with your partners best friend who happens to be the opposite sex neither one of you should be hanging out with that person without your mate around it is not cool, it's some what tachy, and disrespectful, even when you are married.  I mean you have to have a very legit reason to go to your man's male friend house alone, and the same goes for him.  We leave that for the for married people who have established strong trust in each other and their friends.  Couples who have been married for years and their friends play a big part in their life.  Other than that, giiirrrl you better stop that s*** quick!  But sorry to say love, it already sounds like your man is doing your friend so start preparing to kick both of there a***** and dump his loser a**.  Move on and take my advice don't allow your man to see your girlfriends without you.  Just keep your girlfriends at a distance until you find out what kind of man you are dealing with, PERIOD!  Good luck and much love.  If you need to chat later feel free to contact me.
134613
Tell him you are sorry and that you will never do that kind of a thing again. Never involve yourself with married people. Think about it this way. What if someone else interfered in you blissful marriage and spoilt it. Ask for her forgiveness and stay clear from such entanglements.
272952
my husband left me for my best friend f**ked her and I took him back what's a kiss.
868396
Ok, this is going to sound absolutely weird. I am very confused.\nAbout 4 years ago , I was a school cleaner, married with an abusive husband. A new male teacher came to the school where I was working and we started a very close friendship. In 2004 I left my husband after many fights , I could not take anymore. This male teacher help me through me hard times and we became even closer. We started sleeping together which resulted in me falling pregnant (I lost a girl at 27 weeks of my pregnancy, she lived for 5 hours) Anyway, up until 2 weeks ago , we were still sleeping with each other. But all this time he says he loves me but just wants to be friends. Due to financial problems I have moved into his house. I have my own room and he says he no longer wants to sleep together. I love him very much, but like you I am confused.\nNow I will get to the point, it is obvious that you like this man, just ask him what he wants out of you, meaning a friendship or a relationship. I do not want to see you get hurt sweetie.
654496
my husband did... he dated one of my friends first, not really a best friend and they broke up like 4 months before we started dating. I caused a big fight between me and the girl, not really him. I think there are special circumstances. Like would you have respect for the girl's friend if she cheated on you and that's how you broke up? Me and this girl are friends again and obviously i married my husband so things worked out fine.
1064582
First I want everyone to know that this was a long time ago and I changed myself drastically because of this screw up. I slept with my best friends crush the night of their first date. I regretted it instantly but decided to keep it to myself and no harm would have came from it, but someone found out and my best friend and I, well.....lets just say were not friends anymore.
682009
sorry to say but uve made ur bed now u gotta sleep in it.  I done the same thing last year me and my ex were going through a rough patch and i used that as an excuse to cheat i feltbad afterwards but my ex ended up finding out and even though we got back together we were never the same we could never find that spark we had in the beginning so we ended it.  It was very sad but were still friends just wish i hadnt made the mistake
242233
I think you did the right thing.  Even though it took a while I can understand that at first you didn't want to jeopardize the friendship that you two had formed.  It is good that you finally told him how you feel because, well, life is about taking risks.  And you don't want to be harboring the thoughts about WHAT would have happened had you expressed your true feelings.  I hope you are feeling positively about your decision because you should be.  Stay Blessed.
975215
you didnt do anything wrong, it was good that you were honest about your feelings. he is your best friend, and best friends are suppose to care about each other. you might want to have a talk with him, maybe there is something wrong going on in his life that he hasnt told you. but if he is a bad friend in other ways, you might want to stop hanging out with him so much.
1135901
No its not wrong! I was with my husband 10 yrs and had 2 lovely kids,we got married then within 18 mth of the marrage he slept with 2 others and moved out! He said he felt diffrent since we married and to tell you the truth so did I! we are working through stuff but we both agree that we wished we had left things the way we were! If you's are happy why take a chance and spoil things? Good luck to the both of you!!
51936
I remember all of my ex's.  Some for the good, some for the bad but I remember them all.  Thats not to say I have slept around alot but I have been married 3x.  One of which I am still best friends w/ to this very day.
1024304
oh darlin...i'm so sorry for what you are going through.  my husband is not that bad, i don't think...you just need to know for yourself that it happened.  give yourself the power by leaving and knowing that he has cheated.  leave him wondering why you left and if you left just because he cheated on you.  whatever you do, don't put up with that anymore...give yourself that much respect and it will help you down the line when things get hard.  good luck!
450349
YES! This is a no go area, if you are calling this person your "best" friend rather than just a friend you already should know that this person is not like other people you hang out with. It will be gone forever and you will have a relationship, and there is no taking it back. It's about self control and being honest to yourself, if you want a best friend steer clear of that, if al lyou want is sex or a relationship then think hard about the friends you make because it can be a world of hurt