Could my heart forgive her?
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One can forgive, but they cannot always forget. It seems like it may is time to move on if you have attempted to address the issue to no avail. \nThere is someone better out there that will treat you as you deserve to be treated.
175553
maybe, but i dont like her that much
634945
That is awful, there is no room for that. You are precious in God's eyes, and love is what God offers to you. I would go up to the person that has hurt you, and tell her that you forgive her for all the mean things she has done to you. A gentle answer turns away wrath, so forgive her, and I would talk to the counselor as well. You should not be treating like that, but do tell her that you forgive her, I bet it will be something if you tell her that.
673958
You should forgive her BUT speak to her and try and find out way she says nasty things, she probally has deeper problems and is taking her anger out on you
164438
Forgiveness is one of the most often misunderstood things in the world, but the answer to your question is yes, abolutely!\nNo matter what someone has done, you can forgive (and must forgive them, if you want to be forgiven yourself).\nForgiveness does not mean that what a person did was right, or make it OK, it simply means that you release them from the obligation to make it right to you.\nForgiveness does not mean that (in some cases) legal proceedings will not happen (or should not happen).\nForgiving a person does not mean that you trust them again, in fact, in some cases this would be the height of foolishness (such as a person who has abused you in some way).
730573
forgive yourself and forgive her....then you will be at peace
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You can forgive but you will never forget!  Trust me, I've tried.
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if i loved this person and really cared about her yes i would after all i would know what i was getting into and i couldnt blame no one on this matter my answer would be yes?
366889
When something similar happened to me, I tried to forgive but I could not forget. I ended up having to leave him for my own sanity. That level of betrayal is unforgivable.It sucks but you don't seem to be able to move on with her so maybe you so move without her.
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She might start to trust you again, to some degree, but it will never be like it was before you treated.  She will never be able to say, "I know he would never betray me like that."  because you did.
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yes, because i could understand if she had trust issues because of past things. alot of ppl do. and if he really loved her then he should be able to forgive her. they just need to sit down and have a real conversation on this matter. she needs to explain why she has trust issuses and tell him it is not him. but things in the past. he doesnt forgive her hes not worth it. (vote me best answer plz)
306299
it'll take a bit of time cos its a betrayal of trust but i would think that thats forgivable. especially cos you do seem real sorry
53864
Yes.  Maybe later than sooner but yes.  Even the real BIG things.  My mother told me once, if I can't forgive, how do I expect God to forgive me.  That pretty much grounds my decisions.  It may take a long time.  It doesn't have to be instant but, it does have to happen.  And once you forgive them.  DROP IT.  Have you ever made a mistake and someone reminded you over and over and over and over and . . . it gets old.  Take your time and your space to work things out for you.  Don't be manipulative, it's not worth it (it may be a bit fun but not worth it).  Good Luck
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It would depend on if I loved them. Do I still want a future with this person? Was the affair due to neglect on my part of the relationship? Was it an affair of the heart or just "sex"? \nRegardless, I would forgive them. Not for thier benefit, but for my own. Forgiving does not mean "forgetting"...it just means I will choose to not hold the offense against the person in the future. Whether pain resurfaces due to memory of the offense, my pride or my anger.  By my choice to forgive and exercising it, I will not only preserve my integrity and character, but possibily save a relationship that was challenged at a weak moment.\n\nWhatever choice you make in regards as to how to respond when you are on the receiving end, remember that ALL of us need a second chance at some point in our lives.
230797
Yes for most people. Giving someone else a second chance also says a lot about yourself. Some things simply cannot be forgiven, but they tend to be things of a violent nature. Try to forgive and forget when posible.
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you should say that you are sorry........ you think about it alot because you really have a good heart and it never hurts to apologise when we do something wrong.  You need to apologise for her but you also need to apologise for yourself........
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yes, forgive him/her if he/she is sory of what she/he did...\n\nif God forgives us for every day we do wrong (sin), so we too...