is it possible for me to stop doing sex with anyother men? i m married now.?
468958
you are going to end up cheating\nher is why\nyou got married WAY too young\nmost who get married as young as you do will end up in divorce ( like 65% ), you are feeling like you left out things in your life ( like sex, sex and partying and more sex ).. ever seen those girls gone wild videos, wanna know WHY they do what they do ( and yes they have sex.. ), so one day when they find some poor sap of a guy who is tame, and settle down with, they had there share of wild sex and hubby is a dead lay in bed, but they do not care, they have a house now, a car etc.. a nice lifestyle,.. maybe they do the pool boy or whomever on the side.. all the while being a soccer mom. you are suffering from the same fate, you should get married about 28 to 34 or so.. to early and you still have that itch.
95946
Hey Nene\nYou don't 'do' sexual immorality, mate ! You happen to become 'sexually immoral', if you do not restrict your physical relationships to your legally wedded spouse, or trusting lover - and go and seek your pleasures from other, and others' partners !
144664
Stick to your vows.  It's okay to be attracted to other people but you're married so just don't act on the attraction!
1179880
yeah...i say talk to a doctor and see if there is anyway to "heal" it...and in the mean time, stop having rough sex, or any sex at all, you might be ruining your chances for kids at any time in the future
722366
Let me impart some advice to not so much you especially as your husband...See a doctor man!! That's the remedy.
1090797
Unfortunatly I have been having an affair. I know its wrong and I shouldn't be doing it but my husband just doesn't satisfy me in the bedroom. I've talked to him about it and he is just unwilling to change how things are done in the bedroom.
61436
If you did it in a new position and you went deeper than usual then yes, that is a very good possibility.  Is it near time for your period? You don't seem very experienced in sex.  How old are you?   WHY, OH WHY are you having unprotected sex?  Are you married?  You are just being plain stupid if you are not.\nI'm not being mean but I am trying to make a point to you.\nIf you are worried about anything at all please go to a doctor and get his opinion and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.\nThank goodness I have been married for many years and don't have to worry about all this.\nGood luck!  I hope everything is ok.
461533
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
920163
My oppinion is that you are a few of the smart loyal and honest men out there and I applaud you for your well train of thought and consideration. I do not feel anyone should look down on you just because you have considered things that for others it doesn't even cross their mind. Continue your great way of thought simply because so many of us fall under pressure especially when being tempted with sex, and drugs. I was also a virgin when I got married and so many friends told me I'd regret it but I've been married for a year and the thought of cheating on my husband because I never had anyone before him never crosses my mind. Not to mention the great respect I got and continue to get from my husband everytime we make love!  I'm sure you will find somone someday who is going to also appriciate your well thought in life! Good luck and God bless
809991
although sex is pleasurable....continue to do what you wanna do! if you guys are comfortable without sex then so be it! just continue being happy in your marriage! don't let other people tell you about YOUR marriage! YOU and HIM are married not everyone else, so their comments on YOUR MARRIAGE shouldn't matter.
445857
Well Zain boy, it seems you have married to hide your sexual reality. You probably done that to go with the flow of your society. \n\nIn my opinion, you have chosen to conceal your needs not to be outed. Therefore you should honor your commitment. \n\nThink about your wife and kids. What fault is it of theirs that you should cheat on them simply to satisfy your desire? How would you feel if your wife cheated on you?\n\nBe a man and honor your marriage and family.
1096476
You should stop acting like a sex slave. If you are not in the mood...Don't do it! Are you a partner or property?
258711
no, leave other peoples man alone there are plenty out there. and you don't want this one either because if he is doing this to his wife now, then u wont b the last. he is one big loser for cheating on his wife now.  and if you married this guy what kind of friend would u b called?? put yourself in the other person shoes, IT HURTS AND NOBODY SHOULD GO THRU THIS THAT WAS WRONG OF BOTH OF U. REAL FRIENDS DON'T TOUCH.
128981
I am unsure why you do this. Is is not healthy for you. Maybe you are making love or doing floorplay with the wrong sex. Find yourself and see who you are. Maybe you are thinking you like men but really you don't Be honest to yourself and maybe good things will arrouse you sooner than later. You seem to have a lot of sexual problems. See a doctor or councler and they might beable to help you. For get about sex all together. Go without any for 6 months and then try again.
56091
Stop having sex w him, tell him you whant to wait untill you get married, he will ether marry you, cheat on you or dump you, but something will happen I say in 1 month or so..
298650
try not having sex till you are married. and then learn your ovulation cycle as well as use condoms. \nor you can just have your man pull out every time. \nI've learned my ovulation cycle and been active for over 2 years with no baby... I still use condoms though
388699
I faked it before I met my husband because I had never had one. Then I met my husband, had multiples in one shot, and now I expect it. I tell him that he isn't done till I am, because I'm not going to waste my time having sex if it isn't good. If I was not married, and dating different men, if they weren't getting me to where I wanted--the O-- the I would tell them to stop, and not waste my time. Now that I know what I was missing, I'm hooked, and I'll be damned if I'm going to give it up. I got lucky tho, I never has sex with my hubby-even quickies-without at least 3 or 4. He wears me out. I love it, he has turned me into such a sex feined!