how do i let one of my best friends i like her more than just a friend ?
467198
if ya'll are at your house watching tv when a commercial\ncomes up turn to her and tell her you've been meaning to tell her how you feel about her take a nice breath and tell\nher. good luck
190513
talk to your friend.  If she knew that you liked him before she did it, she either is playing a game with you or really does not respect you.  Either way, you cannot trust her and therefore she is not really your friend.  If she did not know, let it go and in the future tell her when you like someone.
782752
Well you're in a good position b/c most good relationships start with good friendship... but @ the same time, it might be hard for her to adjust to the fact that u really like her b/c she thinks of u more as a friend and she's probably never been in a situation like that. Just give it some time... if you two are really good friends then u dont have anything to worry about! =)
1081572
well you decide what you want to do. yur friends shouldnt pressure you into something you dont feel like yur ready. my suggestion is that you tell her that you like her because it's alwayz better to tell someone you like rather than hiding it inside, but on the other hand you can do that if you want to. dont regret it.
26786
This is an easy one. I've being on the same boat so here goes. Tell this person straight up, that you like them as a friend but it stops there. Let her know that your not uncomftearble with her prefence but you still don't want her to cross the line with u, or it would ruin the friendship. \n\nIf she really values your friendship then she will learn to respect it and not cross the line. If she does then you know that respecting your feelings is the last thing on her mind and you shouldn't even bother having a friend like that. \n\nGood luck...
948047
Show her that you have feelings for her. Make the other chick get the stepping.
669061
you can not force some one to like you in that way. What kind of relationship would it be if you had to force her to like you? Be her friend. I know that you want more, but if she just wants to be friends, then i guess that is a start. Maybe in time she will see that you are a good guy, nice, & funny, & want more. Hang in there.
262995
You have to get to know her first. Know more about her, her likes and dislikes. Become really close with her, and then when your relationship is developing, slowly tell her that you enjoy being around her, talking with her and all, also tell her that she makes you feel good. She will start getting hints that you like her, and then you go ahead and tell her, and use the other guys idea too, flowers and a card. Good Luck With you, and Hope you have a nice relationship.\nSincerely,\nYour Friend...
819239
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
510543
I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
1157124
If he truly is your best friend as you say then you will do the right thing.  Let her down easy and tell her that your friendship is more valuable than some girl.
1044340
Tell her how you feel and what you want. If she feels the same, great. If she doesn't, though it may hurt, move on. It is not worth it to hold on for weeks, months, years for something that isn't going to happen. You may end up missing out on the real good stuff by standing in as your best friend's back up boy.\n\nYou said it yourself, she is your best friend. That may be all she will ever be.
577013
well, I really appreciate your kind heart..\nalthough there's no chance to prevent her hurting feeling...\nbut I believe, it's much much better you tell her the truth, that you can only keep her as a friend, than act like you're her someone special...\ncause it will be more hurts...\nbe brave.
439683
Tell her how your feeling and that you don't want to harm your excellent friendship, but tell her
192592
ask your friend about how much she likes him and tell her that you like each other and if she gets mad at you then she is not a true friend so after that ask him whitch one of you guys does he like more if he likes you then go with him if he likes her more then go what you thick is right
1063941
Unfortunately for the two best friends that girl can not be forced into liking either one of them if she doesn't, you're gonna have to let them move on. As for helping the girl hook up with the other guy, if you dont have a problem helping her than go for it.....i hope everything works out