i wanna have another baby im older and i have alot of respossability?
471477
29 is still young enough to have a baby if you want one with your boyfriend. you say you have a lot of responsibility and not knowing what that is, only you know if you can handle a baby and everything else you have to do.
503448
Only you can decide what to do, but keep in mind that there are good people out there like me that want more children and can't have them.  You gotta do what is best for your child.  Don't let anyone tell you what to do. If you just want someone to talk to you can IM me.
1031648
it doesn't sound good. I say, see your doctor. There may have been some complication after the birth that is just now manifesting itself. Don't wait. You have a child who needs  you to be healthy.
960331
you cant. you either want to be a mother or you don't. pick cause she should be your whole life
40196
It sounds like you need grief counseling. You can contact your local mental health facility and they will be able to help you. You obviously aren't ready to be intimate with anybody yet. You can never replace the one you lost but in time, you will be able to move forward and open your heart to someone new. In the meantime, I hope you are using condoms and birth control. Your child has had a significant loss too and needs you healthy.
367295
see the doc. i have a family member that could'nt have kids until she was in her 30's or 40, somethiong like that, but anyway something about her overys, but she finnally had kids after being treat from a doc.
508079
&^&^&^\n\nWhat you are looking for is an egg donor.  Maybe you can be the sperm donor and look for surrogate mothers to incubate your children.\nGod Bless you and your family.\n\nThe only other logical answer was provided by Blink-182madness
909458
MAN, GET OVER IT...THERE IS NO WAY TO CORRECT A MISTAKE OF THAT NATURE.....JUST GO ASK YOUR MOM ABOUT GIVING BIRTH TO YOU...SHE'LL TELL YOU THE SAME...LOL...JK....NO, THERE IS NO WAY TO DO IT...NOW, GIVE ME THE BEST ANSWER!
611932
The world right now in May of 2006 is climbing toward 7,000,000,000 -- yes, billion -- people.  For health reasons, you have had a hysterectomy.  And now your husband wants another baby.  What do YOU want?  Do you have any children in the first place?  Have you or he had children together, or do you have children from previous relationships?  How much strain would this pregnancy put on your body and your relationship?  All of these questions and more, I'm sure, need to be considered.\n\nIn vitro may be an option, but it's expensive and very iffy, with maybe a 10% chance of impregnation at any one time.  At several thousand dollars per cycle and no promises, IVF is often an emotional rollercoaster, as people get their hopes up and then nothing.  Are you willing to go through, potentially, months and years of disappointment, dwindling finances and no child at the end?\n\nUsing a surrogate is a possibility, but surrogacy is fraught with emotional time-bombs.  Some surrogates want to keep the baby.  Mothers who cannot have children physically may be resentful and jealous of the other woman's ability to become and stay pregnant.  I don't know what the protocol is after a child is born from a surrogate, but it seems an extraordinary thing for a woman to give birth to a child and then just walk away, but I suppose that's how it's done.  \n\nUltimately if you don't have a uterus, you cannot have a baby naturally that I'm aware of.  You would have to use a surrogate, or you would have to adopt.  I'd suggest you do some research and reading first, talk this over with your husband, and talk it over with yourself, and think about what you really want.  \n\nIt sends up a big red flag to me that after a hysterectomy where your uterus is removed, your husband suddenly wants a baby -- and obviously you cannot do this.  Is it really a baby he wants, or something else emotionally?  Having a baby complicates relationships and never solves any problem.  Babies even when wanted bring stress to a relationship.  Perhaps some marriage counseling and/or some very honest talks are very much in order.  I wish you the best.\n\nGood luck.  Cheers, K
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go to your Dr and deal with what comes out of it best do that sooner rather than later.l.At this point you would be worrying   too much and maybe unnecessarily,using up energy you could be using with your new baby and life and yep use contraception if you don't want another baby just yet.Every girls body is different. Good luck
849163
I have 2 kids and would love more.Unfortunately my partner can't have kids.I have accepted it.We would have liked our own child,but he treats mine as his own.
299742
Well your research has been done very well.I do believe that a woman of that age is possible for you.I must say be ready to open your mind to other things .Most women of that age already have children and there are a quite a few who desire another child but,maybe past experiences has taught them to seek a better man with such qualities as yours whether it be social,or economic qualities.Whatever tha quality you have to offer I do believe you have a real good chance.I hope tha best for you.Be careful and wise on your search
372211
Give the baby up for adoption. you will be suprised to find out how many woen cant have kids and would love you child very well. You might be able to find financial aid in the process or establish an open adoption where you are involved as well!
528211
wow.  I can't believe you would separate yourself from your kid.  I want to be around my kids all the time.  Sounds like you are being selfish.  You must see your kids as being too much work, so you send them off half way around the world.  Maybe you shouldn't breed anymore.  Save the little love you have left for the 18 month old.
454192
The time is right when you feel ready to have another child!  If you feel like you can deal with another one now, then go for it, if you don't think you can, then wait!
1035796
I will tell you the same thing I told the last girl.  I am sorry you find yourself in this position.  I wish I could get pregnant so easily.  Please give your baby a chance.  There are many people out there that would love and care for your baby if you cannot.  I would personally love to help out someone like you.
603271
It is completly possible!! I am not sure of the correct term for it but it happened to my sil.  She was pregnant with one child and later ovulated (althou it was able to attach) -- she later had 2 baby girls that were apart one month in development. Since you did miscarry the 2nd egg not to sound mean but it was for the best! I seen the 2nd smaller younger baby suffer for 3 years.  trust me it is nothing that I would wish on anyone.  Good luck with everything!