help my partner loves transformers and hes 31?
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try to get him to stop spending money uselessly. if the transformers are an investment then that is another thing. what i mean is, i still buy comic books, and i'm 30 and married. my wife does not like them at all. the difference between me and that guy is that i realize i have responsibilities and i put the comic books behind my family and our way of living. household should always come before entertainment. i call them investments because a few years from now some of those will be worth a lot of money, i'm talking 10's of thousands and up. if your friend is "investing" in selling those things in the future then he should take care of them a lot better. there are a lot of buyers on ebay that collect those things.
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Make him feel young again.  Take him to the drive in theatre or cinema.  Dress really vibrant and sexy for the date.  Buy him his favourite snack.  Tease him all evening.  Whisper in his ear while the movie is going on, blow in his ear, do some necking.  Then make out in the car afterwards like teenagers.  Then go home and finish the night with some sexy lingerie, and a cheap bottle of wine.  Cost of movie, snack, bottle of wine, etc. = $50  Big smile on his face and yours the next day...Priceless
1186641
Love my hubby.  He;'s 62.
918223
Every guy likes a cool gadget. Get him a Striker II USB Missile Launcher toy. It's cool, he can plug it into his computer at work, and shoot foam missiles at his workmates while controlling it with his computer. It just came out this year, and is the must have gadget for guys. I got one for my bro and it looks pretty cool.\n\nhttp://www.ninjagizmos.com/products/Cubicle/Striker_II_USB_Laser_Guided_Missile_Launcher
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If he is a smoker- a nice zippos lighter.  Get him something he will USE every day so that when he uses it he will automatically think of u!  Or a cd for his car- someone you know he really likes.  Or make him a cd of mixed songs that u chose for him.  Make him coupons on red construction paper if u r at the sexual stage with him.  My hubby loves getting his coupons every Xmas!  lol  Use your imagination on those!  Good luck to you!
779336
How about a playstation/computer game. Just make sure he doesnt have it already\nMaybe also a video of you, like a message to him. it doesnt have to be erotic, just sentimental.\nGood Luck
928703
Read, read, read, read, read.  Play, play, play -  but try to do it together.  You can even include your other kids and spouse.\n\nMy son loved books and never got enough.  My partner typically spends 30-60 minutes right before bedtime with both kids.  He learned everything at a very young age.  He also enjoys a lot of the leap-pad, leap-frog, etc educational learning toys and videos.\n\nMy niece had the same problem, where the father was non-existant and didn't really care, and the mother was "too busy".  But that didn't mean that she wasn't interested, and on the rare holidays would love the attention we would lavish on her reading books and explaining things like how planets moved and why there were seasons.\n\nUndoubtedly, anything you do, so long as you show an interest should appeal to your step son, who probably is not used to the attention, and would welcome some interaction.  Just make sure too to have patience with the understanding that he didn't get the benefits that your other kids have had at a young age.
835451
first of all think simple. it is your b-day so don't stress a walk in the park is fine. dinner and a movie at home is cool to. you could go bowling or to an arcade. the list is endless. as to his reaction all can do is ask if he doesn't answer his lose.
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Whenever I'm in that situation (for anyone, not just boyfriends) I make a list of everything he or she likes. Try to be as specific as possible. As you're making the list you might start to come up with some possible ideas. My boyfriend (who buys everything he wants and is consequently extremely difficult to shop for) just had a birthday and I did the same thing for him. The list was ridiculously long, but I ended up buying him season 1 of Stella, an incredibly stupid sitcom that lasted only 10 episodes. Anyway, he absolutely loved it. He said that it was one of the most thoughtful gifts anyone had ever bought him and that he wouldn't even have thought of buying himself that. So give it a try-- maybe you'll come up with the perfect gift! Good luck!
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I would start by figuring out what it is he likes. And then go from there. Or if you really want to make him see how much you care, figure out what he likes to do that you may not always want to do. I am not talking anything physical, an example would be like if you really hated video games, try to get one he would like, and then try to have fun with him with it. It may not be what you want to do, but it may mean alot to him. Just an idea.
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I do!  I do!  I do!  Can we get some popcorn and a whole buncha candy and stuff huh?? Can we?  Can we?  LOL  I am nothing but a big kid at heart and I LOVE kids movies.  I do, however, have a slight beef about a few of them that have come out.  I don't think they should be violent, or have bad language, or anything that is not suitable for children of ANY age.  I know that is a matter of opinion but c'mon use your consciences.   That being said, I am constantly trying to get my boyfriend to watch them and he somehow thinks it will take some macho away..lol  I finally got him to watch Finding  Nemo and he loved it.  There is a lot of adult humor that they pass right by the kids.  If you have never seen or if its been a while since you've seen a "kids" movie...do yourself a favor and rent one.  I promise you will enjoy it.
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i think dinner and a movie at ur house. rent a video and cook dinner that way if something does end up happening (age varying) ur home. \nmost importantly though is that by making him dinner it shows independancy and by getting a movie at home you can snuggle up on the couch
451810
Age isn't a barrier to love.  I would guess that a lot of the 'eeew' comments are  made by those who are in your age group.  I'm older than your boyfriend, and I can tell you that however old he is physically, he probably doesn't feel that old mentally.  I still feel about 34 but I'm in my fifties! (And I don't look that old, either!)\n\nHowever, you must be practical.  When you are 42 he will be 63.  When you are 63 he will be 84, and he may well be very elderly at that stage while you still have the energy to go dancing.  If the thought of caring for him at that stage doesn't put you off, then keep going, and disregard the funny looks and comments!
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23 years here, I understand the issues.  (c:  Familiarity does LOWER the labido!  These young chicks do not know that yet <c;  They also do NOT know the rewards of LOOOOONG time relationships.   \nSKIP THE TOYS.  Unless your husband asks about them.  \nTo help with sex drive I  let my mind wander through out the day and remember the THRILL of "great" sex...  As in plenty of ummmm ,  lets say Fireworks *wink* for me.  I make a great dinner , give him a bit of a back rub or foot massage.  These things make me feel like a "good woman"  .  If your married 30 years then you already know that catering to your man has benefits (c:
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i am a 39 yr old lady & i'm here 2 tell u going n the dressing room w/ her is a great idea!!!!! she's right, dont tell her u like the first thing she tries on even if u do. let her try on several things & tell her how sexy she looks n each 1! since u r n love, u will probably really like everything but let her try them on anyway. when she's done pick out 1 u love & have her put it on again (just 2 b sure!) she will love u 4 it & you will both have a very,very,very good rest of the day. good luck!!!
806610
sound young to me. he needs to grow up. although i do not know what age you and your bo is but his action sounds like a young teen. tell him to take his toys home that your looking for someone more mature.
543879
wow, that is a huge age jump. Its hard to span that much age, hon, especially at that age. Just play it cool, remind him you love him, and thats about all you can do