how can i spice up my sex life?
465637
Here's a suggestion: For the honeymoon, go out and buy something sexy, something he'd never think you'd wear( get the shoes, stockings, etc)> Go to the bathroom at the hotel your staying at for the honeymoon and tell him to sit and wait! Get into the outfit, do your makeup and hair, then call out to him to maybe light a few candles and turn on some music(I suggest a cd with a pre-practiced song) and then come out dancing for him, tease him...Men love that stuuf, talk about spicy!!\n\nWorked for me!!
1138156
Sounds like you should get this girl a vibrator, you can help her enjoy and just maybe that will inspire new life in you... Fun sex toys that she can use herself will keep her from straying and keep the sex interesting.
958635
Masturbate before intercourse to last a bit longer...or....think of sports or a tv show while having sex...just dont tell your partner you are doing that.  Good luck!
112509
Play games again like in the beginning...flirt, kiss passionately and then just walk away, smack a few asses playfully while doing housework or when the in-laws are looking the other way.  Take more personal time with de-stressing activities like bitching to your friends, yoga, or excercise to make him/her miss you more.  "Marital aids" like small toys or (especially) lubes of various sorts add whole new dimensions to your sex life as well.
466352
try spicing up allitle, do some erotic things talk dirty to each other during sex, act out some of your fantasies.
1165934
Tease him, esp. around his "Area"  A massage is always good to spice things up, with oil of course. Make up a "coupon" book of different things to be done. Like Massage, massage a certaion body part- Kissing, have sex a certain way- talk dirty-things like that. Have dinner by candlight, have dessert ready( meaning you)  Get some Outfits--role play!!Have sex in public!! Be creative!! Its fun!!
662251
You might want to sit down with your mate and calmly explain all of your feelings to him. No one on here knows from the paragraph you typed what you do in the bedroom. When you say spice it up do you mean install a chandelier in the bedroom and swing from it while he tickles your ASP with a feather and barks like a howler monkey or what? I honestly think though that your problem is communication but if you want to cheat especially since you have a child you better think long and hard if those 6 seconds of toe curling ecstasy with someone else are worth the consequences if you get caught.\nGood Luck!!
714250
Write him sexy e-mails or letters.  Send him suggestive pics.  Call him and make him want you a little.  Teasing him is the best way because when he comes home, you'll have lots of fun in bed.
180580
Try a cock ring or when you are a feeling that sinsation stop for a minute and start fourplay again.  Once the feeling slows down start again.  Also, exercise and eat right.  When your healthy so is your sex life.
130784
Spice it up. Try a little strip tease, along with some PRINCE music. Don't forget the feather......
614579
Have sex with one of your best looking friends whilst he watches... then after a while let him join in.\n\nIf you do something really hot, like jamming your tongue in her bumhole, you'l earn extra points.\n\nLet him screw you while you are eating her out too.\n\nAnother one is to let her sit on his face whilst you ride him.\n\nAnd finally the both of you suck him off at the same time
327807
Joe is right,  candle wax is nice. Try incorporating aphrodisiac duch as strawberries and chocolate. Almost anything that can be fed to you is erotic. Also try different games in the bedroom. If you have any NOVELTY stores nearby, go look around and find games or things that interest you.
1124776
Start of by asking your significant other to go out to dinner with you. Wear something that you know they find sexy on you. At dinner keep things positive and sexy! Talk about the things you did with each other when you first got together. After dinner, at each stop light or stop sign, kiss and touch each other, once home, remove each others clothes then start doing some of those things you talked about at dinner!\nOther things you could do is fantasy role playing, doctor and nurse, cop and hooker, naughty school girl and the principal.\nUse your imagination and think sexy thoughts about each other.\nSend each other dirty e-mails!\nI'm sure this will help you get that lust back.    Good luck
507961
stimulate the clitoris, and the G-spot.\n\nif you dont know where it is than
1624
have sex! it releases stress and exhuastion and is a great way to have fun
621339
Sit in your computer chair with pants on and use vibrator, rock back and forth while looking at smut. mmm good. or open your drapes a hair and lay on your back and envision someone peeking through watching. Voyerism. Or use, a dildo and spread legs doggie style and put vibrator on floor and ride it up and down. Or use your imagination and i bet you can make yourself cum.
341695
Try diet and exercise... They will increase your stamina and your sex.. You could also try Viagra or that other one... I don't remember what it's called, but I would go with the diet and exercise.. Try eating vanilla ice cream before sex. It's supposedly a good way to increase stamina.