Dont you guys feel jealous if your girl has slept with 10 men before, She might be constantly comparing!?
457800
I absolutely agree that waiting is the best!  I waited for my wedding night to have sex and my wife will never have to worry about me comparing her to another woman in my past or present.  \n\nI think someone that makes a commitment to waiting will ease the anxiety of their partner whether they made that decision as a virgin or after making the mistake of sleeping around.  IMO, the only healthy sexual relationship is a monogamous relationship in a marriage for life!  \n\nAnd the idea that sex with multiple people is "practice" for the "right one" is CRAP!  The connections you make with one person will be completely different that the connections you make with someone else, and to think that the same things that one person liked are the same as another person, is ludicrous and will probably just complicate the situation even more.  Why not get married and practice making love to the ONE person that you will get to know better than anyone else so you can enjoy each other for the rest of your lives without worrying about whether you were practicing the right things on your last lover!
991213
That is a big fat 10 / 4 :) \nShe is just using a mans feelings so not right :)  She has some serious growing up to do ....
537500
i think you answered your own question, anyone your friend has, you want! i think you are jealous of your friend and a little insecure with yourself and think that sexual attention is a way of validating yourself?  its your'friend' i feel sorry for not only does she have a boyfriend that she cant trust she also has you, someone who cant wait to betray her, grow up and go live somewhere that you cant mess with other peoples lives..
18455
You may not be able to.  But you will definitly need to stop being so insecure in yourself and be confident in your partner- they want to be with you for a reason not someone else.  I havefound that jealousy is a sign not only of insecurity in yourself but a lack of respect in her character. If your girl cheats on you she cheats on you and you move on.  Not everyone is meant to be together forever.
643879
why are you so worried about that ? do you love her ?\ndo you feel that this is getting to you to much ?\njust trust her man she is a woman and she chose you to be with ! don't beet yourself up about this ! She loves you and wants you that's all that matters ! are you a virgin !\npast is history does it matter what she is ?\n:) always smiling !
201643
I have known girls to feel rejected when a man doesn't insist on sleeping with them immediately.  I know it is stupid, but she probably thinks less of you because of it.  Anyone who thinks like that isn't worth your effort anyway, if you are actually worried about how she would feel about it.  As to whether she had any feelings or not, she was probably too confused to know herself, so she couldn't tell you one way or the other.
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I think you should listen to Tom Lykis.\nGenerally the rule... is that women lie... splitting the number of men they've been with by 3.\nSo if she says she's slept with 2 guys... she has probably slept with 6. see 6 divided by 3 is 2.   \n    So, Tom Lykis asked women to anonymously call his radio show and tell the truth of how many men they've slept with, and what they usually tell everyone else.  The results were amazing.\nMost of them held true to the rule... give or take a few.\nVery many of them decimated the rule... sleeping with up to 10 times the men  they've generally claimed.\nvery few women slept with less, or equal the amount of guys that they say they've slept with.\n    In summation.  15 guys is kind of a lot.  She COULD be a robo-slutt.  Do her... but bag it up.\nshiit put two on to be safe, but don't blame me if you end up with crabs.
1110544
She is insecure and is afraid that you are going to leave her for somebody else.  Compliment her more and make her feel like you love her the most in the whole world! One thing you should never do and that is compliment another girl around your girlfriend!
299924
she has 3 kids by 2 guys, maybe she doesn't want to make it 4 kids by 3 guys. be happy she has enough self-respect to be honest with u and isn;t given it up cuz she feels she has to just to keep u
642041
I don't get mad. I kid him about it but, I don't actually get angry about it. She sounds a little jealous. Are you paying enough attention to her? Are you telling her how beautiful she is?
1006126
It sounds like thinking about all them other women are given you a headache, or this could be a sign of a hang-over.  Get some sleep, sweet dreams!!
757883
It's quite possible he is jealous... For some reason we are that way (think it's an ego thing)... We may not want her but we don't want her to be with anyone else either..\nYes I know, it doesn't make sense to me either... It is real however.
105164
No, as long as I was in love, I wouldn’t feel as if I had missed out on anything - even if she was the ONLY one I had ever slept with. I think the thing that traps most guys is not the idea of having multiple sex partners (although it is for some), but mostly the different sex experiences they get from the various women. Typically what happens in a relationship is the guy, (and girl too) get bored of the same sex, the same way, the same style - it almost becomes routine and robotic - instead of exciting and fun. If a couple can try new things, and keep their sex life interesting, the guy will never feel like he’s missing out on anything! In fact, he may brag to his friends that their missing out on something, but she will be all to himself!
289751
may be she is attracted to other guys also, just be more with her, and let her know how much you love, so that she can pick you from the list of the guys if she sees.
327254
Shes getting bored with it! Women, after a while going out w/ the same guy, get tired, just like men!! Plus, we dont like sex alllllll the time like men do!!
53927
Why can't you allow your boyfriend to have female friends?  Why are you so insecure?  I have female friends and I have been happily married for several years.  I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone so insecure that they would force me to choose my friends based solely on if they have a penis or not.  What's up with you?  Do you sleep with every guy you know?  If not, cut some slack.  On the other hand if you can't trust your boyfriend based on his behavior that is a different story.  Remember you don't have to trust everyone who enters his life, you just have to trust him.  Now here is a heads up for how guys think.  If my wife is even slightly jealous of a female, I love it.  It's just another way for her to say "I love you".  Of course she trusts me and I have never given her reason not to.  Stop nagging and start bragging.  Tell me I'm a saint and a king and I might believe you and act like one.  Tell me I'm a dog and a snake, and who knows?
196364
Ask yourself a question. Are you jealous of the crush she has on this guy?  Or is it that you are jealous of the relationship you have with her?  It's hard to share sometimes, isn't it?