Do people turn Gay or they are born Gay?
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Well, if people would use common sense, they would realize that being born "Gay" isn't logical. Why would a species be born attracted to the same sex? Can they reproduce? \n\nMost species on this earth, are born to reproduce and create others like themselves. In order for this to happen, there needs to be a Male and Female species and a attraction to the opposite sex. This is how every species on this earth is created. \n\nI have heard thousands of people talk about genetic research and how it proves that Gays are born Gay. Genetic research also proved that cloning was possible, and look how that turned out.\n\nI have also heard many people talk about how their cat or dog was seen having sex with another of the same sex. I've also seen a dog eat it's own waste too. Animals can become confused just like humans, although I assume that Humans should have more sense. \n\nSo why do we have Gays and Lesbians? Well, actually it is very simple. Things that happen to a person, wether it's at a very young age or in adulthood, reflect on how that person thinks. Many have been abused in some way or another. Either by being molested as a child, or treated as an outcast when they were young. Many grew up in broken homes and were without one of their biological parents. Many were not taught how someone of their gender should behave. There are many different reasons, and what usually happens is this. Individuals who have not had the so called "Normal Life" will seek acceptance from those who are similar to themselves and this is normally the same sex gender, because they easier to relate too. A bond is created and the trust and affection they feel towards each other for accepting one another, becomes Love. This kind of Love is stronger than most people realize, because it fills the void that someone in our society has created. Someone, Sometime, Somewhere has done something to each of these "Gay" people and caused their lives to change forever. \n\nThis is where "Gays" and "Lesbians" came from, and there's nothing we can do to change it. There will always be different types of people, but our society created this one. \n\nA Gay person can chose to live a Straight lifestyle and be happy. A Straight person can also chose to be Gay if they want to and live happy also. How? Because they are both Human Beings with feelings, and feelings can change. If feelings couldn't change, there wouldn't be any such thing as a divorce. \n\nI have also heard the remark many times about why would a person chose to be "Gay", since our society hates "Gays" and "Lesbians"? The answer: Many didn't chose to be "Gay". Situations in a persons life can alter their feelings towards certain beliefs. For example: Would you chose to be with your abusive biological family or a loving adoptive one? Your instincts tell you to stay with your biological family but your feelings tell you to go to the adoptive one because they won't hurt you and will love you.\n\nI'm sorry this is so long, but it seems that there are so many people out there that don't look outside the box or they refuse to see beyond their way of thinking. Hope this helped you to understand in some way why the world has Gay people.
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nop, i don't.\nit is depence , GAY comes from all kind of job and sport. it is maybe where you know most of the gay are swimmers and divers, but it does not means most of them are.\nsomemore, the sport does not make a person become stright or gay, personnally i think this is not true at all.
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Gay people are gay, just as straight people are straight.  You can't "become" either.
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I am straight and I was born this way.\nYou are gay and I know you were born that way.  Cheers!\n(Here's a bit of scientific proof for the naysayers)\n\nThe sexual area of a gay man's brain works a lot like that of a woman when exposed to a particular stimulus, researchers say.\n\nIn an experiment, men and heterosexual women sniffed a chemical from the male hormone testosterone. The homosexual men's brains responded differently from those of heterosexual males, and in a similar way to the women's brains.
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It is a CHOICE!!!  You are born as you are born.  If you were born a male, then God intends you to act like a male and the same for females.  The Bible is very clear on its stance on homosexuality.  Read it!  (1 Corinthians 6:9)  It is a lie from Satan, who is real, to believe that you are "born" to be a homosexual.  That's what he wants you to believe, and he is the father of lies.  (John 8:44\nYou belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.) Jesus is THE way, THE truth, and THE life.  (John 14:6\nJesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.) There is no other way.
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Some are born gay, some straight, some bi.  Your sexual orientation is quite often NOT black and white but shades of gray.  Try not to pigeonhole people in one role.  Children, teenagers and adults are what they are, take it or leave it.
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People are born gay. It is scientific fact that there are biological differences between homosexual and heterosexual people.
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Becoming lesbians?  I don't believe your premise.  Lesbian/Gay are born that way, and things are no different today than they have ever been in regards to percentage of Gay/Lesbian people.
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Gay habitual. NO one will be born gay!
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The Nature vs Nurture arguments are still raging on this topic.\n\nI think there is pretty good evidence that most gay people feel they were born that way.  I think that some people my choose a gay path due to their environment, but that is much rarer.
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What makes you gay is enjoying a relationship of a sexual nature with the same sex.  What you have is called fetishism.  Maybe it will steer towards a gay lifestyle but alone it doesn't make you gay.
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I can't give you an awnser base on research or some study all I can do is tell you my opinion base on my own experience as a gay man. People say that they are born gay because they can't remember a time in their childhood where they were straight in other words they can't give you an exactly date and time and say this is when I went from been straight to being gay. Can you remember a time in your life where you were not straight? From your earliest childhood memory of when you became aware of your sexuality were you ever not straight? When I became aware of my sexuality it just happen to have been of the homosexual orientation so I assume that I was born that way and that god made me that way for a reason. I hope this answer's your question if not feel free to ask me anything.
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I just saw an article today in the paper that said men's sexual preference is decided before birth. I did not read the whole article...but if a baby comes out of the womb and sees good window treatments he is gay...just kidding. I dont think you should categorize that evil is done by most straight people and good by gays. I have seen a little of both from both sides... I don't think sexual preference has anything to do with the good that you do- that is an individual thing that comes from the heart not your groin. Just be happy with who you are and if you think you were born gay then so be it. Why is important to debate it? You will never change other opinions who are homophobic.
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I don't think people turn gay. I think it is just who they are.
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No one becomes homosexual, so to speak.  It's a more a realization, as with any sexual fetish/preference.  You can't wake up one day to find yourself as a homosexual, you just 'are' or 'aren't'.  It is possible that someone straight could desire to turn homosexual, and actively embrace that lifestyle, but for most persons, it's not a choice, so much as a realization.
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coincence. \nno one has a destiny to become gay, it's a result of their choices.
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They couldn't be gay since they have a set of both organs.\n\nNo, depending on how their raised if they decide once they're grown to go the other way I suppose they're considered gay.  I wouldn't though if I knew they were born a hermaphrodite because its usually the persons parents who choose whether they'll grow up a boy or girl.\n\nDo you get what I mean now?