why would my x bf do this?
465121
Oh my gosh girl, if you have to stop being good to be with him then leave his sorry butt and don't look back.  School is more important than any guys and the sex part, please wait until you are married!  I wish I had.  Sounds like he thinks you make him look bad by being good, don't ever stop!
481414
It sounds like your bf is somekinda trouble at home. Try to dig deeper. It does seem suspicious but you don't know all the details yet. Ask yourself if he really is worth the trouble. And if one day you do bump into him, he better have a good explanation for not trying to contact you.
34191
OK, let me get this straight...he went was your boyfriend and then went out with your friend too? Oh! Honey, you need to let go- he is just playing you. i mean- you just don't go out with your x's friends, that's dirty. Besides, you need to be thinking if she is even truly your friend. After all, she did go out with your x and you still love him. Just move on- you can do so much better!!!
272037
Sounds like you should just break up with him then.  He is intentionally hurting your feelings by saying that to you..., or maybe he is trying to get some sort or reaction when he says it.  So, next time he says it.., say, I feel the same way.., just to see what he does.  Keep in mind..,there are many fish in the sea.., so you can throw this one back!!!
454716
Why would I do that??
810262
I reckon he has cheated, or at least he's trying to convince you that cheating is normal and happens more than you think. As one of the other answerers is hinting at, this guy is possibly a player. I'm not going to pass judgement on the chap and you have to allow for the possibility that this thought may just have occurred to him in the course of a conversation. If you question him and he says that that is what happened then give him the benefit of the doubt. (Something similar happened to me once, and my gf didn't take me at my word - very annoying, end of relationship)\n\nBut, to be honest, as a player, if I was asking a girl how she knows that her past lovers never cheated, it would be to sow the seeds of doubt in her mind for either of the following reasons: a) to convince a girl with a bf that he is cheating on her and so she should cheat on him with me (evil, I know - I've never done it, but I'd say it'd work); or b) to convince a girl I was seeing that cheating is normal, and happens all the time and people should be open about it: basically grooming her for an open relationship.\nI think the latter is most likely in your scenario. Find out a bit more about him and see if he has a little black book! Ask him what he thinks of open relationships. \nIf that wouldn't suit you then get the hell out as the cheating will hurt you, even if the sex is amazing.
423601
He is being nosy and wants to see if you found someone else.\n\nHe also may be doing it to torment you, some guys are sick that way.  They are hoping that you will beg him to come back.
366738
He might be pulling the whole "distant and mean" routine in order to get you to initiate the break-up.  If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, I would bet that this is the case.\n\nThat being said, there is a good likelihood that he is simply at a junction in his life where he is having to divert some of his attention from you and put it on other things.  This happens from time to time and it is something you will have to come to deal with if you ever hope to forge a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with someone.
168165
This is one of those things that it's all in the persons point of view. He may just be viewing it as a form of pornography which wouldn't be cheating at all and may just be getting himself all warmed up for a night with you. OR he's losing interest within what he has and things need to be spiced up a bit. If he starts acting differently towards you than I would seriously consider having a sit down and talk session with him and get both of your view points out and let him know that you don't approve of him watching other girls on the computer while they pleasure themselves.
363216
Most guys do that, but i think you should at least try to talk to hime about it. Maybe if you let him know how you feel he might try to change. If he doesn't care well then he shouldn't be your boyfriend.
622974
Your boyfriend is using the situation to manipulate you into doing his sexual fantasy.  He has got this idea into his head as to what he wants you to do, and now he is looking for any excuse to get you to do it.  He probably wasn't even that mad about the phone call, he just saw an opportunity to get his way.\n\nFrankly, the guy sounds like a loser.  He is trying to completely control you and force you to do things you don't want to do using emotional blackmail.  Move on.
749415
Yeah, sounds a bit fishy. Being a guy I would say he is hiding something, maybe he has another bird on the go. look most guys, trust me, if not all guys want one thing and not necessarily from one place. do some investigating, surprise him and see if you can find anything. sorry if it seems harsh but I know the signs\nI tell you what, if you have any suspicions like he's said something that sounds odd let me know and I'll interpret it based on personal experience.
428265
Yep, it means he doesn't want you to think he's playing games with you and your heart, that he's serious about you. Or, he may have said this to throw you off and he really is cheating. Maybe I have some serious trust issues, but I wouldn't put it past any man (or woman) to say some stuff like that to trick you while they're doing wrong behind your back..... But until you have proof, I wouldn't worry about it.
1179106
He is probably thinking of "friends with benifits". He has no interest in being committed or your boyfriend.
195992
Well now, I don't know. I mean he is your Ex, surely he would be in a position to know. Maybe you should ask yourself why you've reacted so strongly to something you should probably just laugh off.\n\nIs it possible he's hitting a little close to the bone?
63315
Ummm...thats really wierd i think you described me.I think it's a girl thing cuz i do the same thing to my bf all the time. I really can't describe why i do it. I know its pissess him off. Now does she tell you after a while or does she never tell you whats bothering her?
785582
my boyfriend has done that to me alot recently maybe hes trying to make a point or something