i'm gay, do u know how can i become stright?
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Don't change who you are. Your not committing sin for  being Gay so don't worry about it okay.
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ur gay for asking that ?
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How can a gay person know what it is like to be straight?
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Well, if you do this at a young age, know that you will lose a lot of friends and will maintain only those who really honestly truly are your friends.  Be prepared to spend time being made fun of and being ridiculed and harassed, this usually lasts during High School plus anyways students always find something to torment each other about.  \n\nThe "light" is, you are honest with yourself and you will make new friends and meet people who honestly like you for you.  You can move on with your life and learn to become more adapted in your shoes.\n\nKnow that being gay is not about sex and don't fall prey to older guys who will take advantage of your new found sense of self.  Join a group for gay youth and check on the Internet for religious gay youth groups too, ones that will focus more on your spirituality and realtionship with God rather than on your being gay.\n\nBeing Gay is not a bad thing or a sin, it is who you are and you will have to learn to be Happy with yourself in spite of the people who will try to bring you down and condemn you, remember God loves everyone, man hates and creates hate, there is support out there for you, but don't be taken advantage of.\n\nAs an athiest you dont have to believe in religion and don't believe in God but think of all the good things on earth and spiritually find yourself, don't abandon that,  it will keep you focused and give you comfort when you need it.\n\nGood Luck.
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Man, if wishes were horses, beggers would ride.  And incidentally I would crap gold coins to stave off my massive financial problems, world peace would reign, and everyone would live in a happy fluffy bunny butterfly utopia full of hugs and puppies.  \n\nWishes don't make the world go round.  Actions do.  You will live in secrecy forever if YOU choose to do so.  You'll be unhappy about being gay as long as you choose to be unhappy.  Oddly enough, getting your gay a$$ out of the closet and meeting some nice gay people, dating some nice gay men, and having the best mind-blowing gay gay gay gay sex of your life is going to go a long way towards making you happier.  Don't end up like these sad people:\n\nhttp://time.blogs.com/daily_dish/2006/05/an_exexgay.html  \n\nYou like dick man.  Learn it, live it, love it because it is not going to change.  Why are you gay?  I don't know and here is a thought, I don't care.  Why is blue blue?  Why isn't it purple?  Why do bird sing?  Why do we exist?  What is the meaning of life?  Hell if I know.  Do you really want to spend your life going crazy asking unanswerable questions?  Or do you want to live your life?
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Being 16 and not on your own is hardest when your lonely.  Wait, be patient, read a book, go for a jog or a gym and work out.  Find an interest or hobby that intrigues you, inspires you, and puts you in more social situations.\n\nI'm betting you live in a small town with no gay community.  Am I right?\n\nWhen you're out of school (go to college, it helps!), get a job in Chicago, New York, San Fransisco...a big city with an established gay community.  There, you will find freinds who will help with the lonelies.\n\nNow, for the gloom and doom:  What ever you do, don't pimp yourself to any man with a hard on.  Respect yourself, love yourself, honor yourself.  Be gay, be YOUR kind of gay, not somebody elses kind of gay.
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You're gay. Being Gay, I know a thing or two about gay... and you are definately gay.
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you cannot change your sexual orientation despite how many morons told you otherwise. Trust me they are many gay men would have just switch under pressure just like that...if it's a choice there would not be that many gay men left in this world.\nIf it's not being gay , it can be fat , ugly ,short , skinny, race, religion. There are many bullies in these world would just pick on you regardless what differences you have. But your existence does not depend on them. You exist for yourself. Until you take care of your self, appreciate yourself and ignore what these bullies said you can't begin to face the world.  Life is not a popularity contest, you do not have to please everyone to gain votes. In reality some people gonna hate you without you having to do anything. The more you react to these bullies the more they gonna pick on you.... feel indifferent, ignore the rest just be who you are.....What can't kill you will make you stronger cause you need it ...there might be time in your life the challenge can be much tougher. See it as your early challenge to overcome.....Check out your local communities support group ...should be listed under gay and lesbian. ask for youth counselling or peer support group...they are many out there just like you facing the challenge. many can help you overcome these obstacles....Have you by any chance watch any of the Xmen movies?  What do u think the message is about? The first two were directed by Brian Singer a gay man himself. They are many sucessful gaymen in this world from all walks of life that I can't even begin to tell you. Instead of seeing it as a hindrence in your life ..use it as a catalyst to propel you to do great things with your life that could influence the society!! You are 16 and the world is your oyster!!
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I don't know why I'm gay. I don't remember being given a choice. Perhaps you could tell me when you chose to be straight?
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when u r ready to become a man.
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First, you have to be ready for others to know you are gay.  You have to know it in your own heart.  Then, take your time and be selective about who you come out to.  It's not necessary for everyone you know your business.  As your personal life comes up with friends, YOU decide if you want to share this with them.  OR, it can be great fun when you are in love with a great guy (gal) to discuss it with your new love and introduce them to your friend or brother, sister, whomever.\n\nJust be honest and be yourself.  Your true friends will still love you and deal with it sooner or later.  Some people need some time (especially family) to get used to the idea.  Good luck.
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i dont know could you ask a gayer question
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There is nothing wrong with being gay, be proud of who you are.  \nNow search for a GOD that you want to worship and who will accept you.   GOD is all loving\n\nDEMOCRACY IN HEAVEN
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You know u r, go live ur gay life
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Just wait....Me being a gay male, I can say that I felt like you did at a time, but it just takes time, the guys will come around, just be yourself,,,,,Just enjoy the fact that your coming out to yourself so early most of us havent even made it to that point in our lives.....Took me till 22 to find my first love, and now I am 25 and with a totally different much better person....ENJOY LIFE FIRST!
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Just look gay in public. Trust me there are a lot of guy people out there. Which is perfectly fine in my book. I find different sexual prefferences\ninteresting.
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Is lebanon one of the nations that executes or arrests gay men? If so you may need to stay closeted for the rest of your life if you wish to stay. Perhaps you could try to become a politically active person and change that.