Do women fantasize another man while doing "it" with their hubby?
469963
oh yes, probably more then willing to admit, Johnny Depp. LOL.
1021049
I go out at least once a month in a micro mini and 5" stilettos to dinner with my hubby! I do it for him and don't care what others may think or if they are looking. Afterwards, we have some incredible sex with me still in my outfit!\nI'm glad to hear that you have a lady who does that for you.\nHopefully there are others like us!
1176634
Doing it with another woman at the same time
77647
I've never been turned on by that. And, no, I'm not a prude. For the women out there who's men are pressuring them into something like this, just make them a deal- you'll do it if they do it with a guy first. Then see their reactions.\n\nI've had buddies that are shocked that 2 women don't turn me on. Sorry, I'd rather have mine, treat like she should be, and have her all to myself. \n\nThere's a story in Dear Abby years ago. A guy introduced his wife into 3somes with him & another guy. Not long after that, his wife was pregnant by the other guy and threw her husband out of the house & kept the other guy. Moral: don't introduce outside influences into your relationships, it just may backfire.
1117418
Have you seen the man in my picture? He's mine and have been for the last 13 years. Everyone tells me my husband is hot. And he's a good provider and family man to boot. How lucky am I, he's what have been turning me on for the last decade plus. My hubby is a tiger in bed, a cheetah on the track and a gentleman at all times.
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What turns ME on is just seeing my hubby's back.. he has a nice broad back with fantabulous shoulders, and I love his thick arms (not muscley shiny nasty arms). What also turns me on is seeing him get out of the shower... not seeing him him.. my eyes always wander down *wink wink*. Doesn't take much to turn me on really, I have a fantabulous sex drive. There's this ONE face he makes when he says "sucka", he knows that once he says that, I'll be all over him :oD
1066771
I believe that it is cheating when one fantasies about others. If one lust in their mind for some one other than their spouse, it's adultry.
36047
If you love your wife the way you should, you wouldn't want this. Why would you want to make love with another woman or watch you wife make love to another woman. I asked my husband whats your ultimate fantasy, I expected it to be this and when he told me what it was I questioned him on why it wasnt this threesome thing... he said I love you and you are mine I want no one else and I want no one else to have or experience you, why would I want to see anyone else with you in that way loving you the way I do." These were his exact words. He is a great Man and only a man could feel that way. I think you need to grow up there are other ways to put a spark in your marriage than to bring in another woman or man. As for me, I will fulfill the fantasy he asked for and thank my God above that it wasnt one like this.
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I wouldn't like it to be honest. I'm not against porn, but I would be very upset if my husband was turned on by other chicks, especially if he went to a strip joint. I only agree to porn and stuff if they just look, but don't get turned on by that person. I am happy to look at porn together. Your wife needs to show you some respect! I would never do that to my husband. I wouldn't even get the urge to do something like that. Not if I'm in love.
334769
No but my husband likes to rub my twat with his bare foot..I know that sounds goofy but he loves it and it really turns him on so I let him do it. I just make sure his toenails are trimmed!! haha
551716
yes!! I use my imagination. That's what keeps a relationship together sometimes. Well mine atleast. I don't think about him when we are doing it.
553798
I know my husband isn't the cheating type, but at the same time why would you want to put a person in the position to have to make that choice? The temptation is to big if he has already said that he is attracted to her. So no I wouldn't have it!!
582257
no. i like to do that with my husband. it's us against the rest of the world....you're not doing anything wrong. you're wife needs to boost her own self esteem so she won't be so paranoid.
371825
of course not.  it's called fantasizing.  you could only say that if you met him and after some time invested in really getting to know him.  meantime, enjoy your fantasy!
641520
enjoyed a lot for the first time if i do that with my husband and done some mistake if i do that with someone else (not my husband)
120894
Oh you too hah sista girl.   I agree with Malfean,....deep within (and if you are honest with yourself), you would like to know what it would be like to experience a sexual encounter with this individual you're fantasizing about. Been there and came damb close; however, I've realized that.... this was all I pictured him for (sex and a little intimatcy....hugging - kissing)....there was nothing else....no visions of hangging with friends together, walking in the park, dinner and the movies, sitting up together on the sofa having good dilogue about whatever, bringing the paycheck home to you (hello..).... it was just sex, good sex, more sex and sex....I tried picturing doing other things with him and the imaganation didn't go that far....why???.....well, your soul mate (and that's your husband) have and will probably always supply you with those little things that truely matters. The things mentioned above (hangging together..etc.) will go farther than a good quick fix in the sack. I know it's just fantacy...but sometimes you have to see it for what it truely is...you'll realize it means nothing...so let it go.\n \nNow sometimes our spouses becomes less attractive to us over the years depending on how much they have let themselves go in appearance or how lazy and boring they may have become,...so we fantasize about someone who is just the opposite of your spouse; however, I've learned that if I'm to be in this thing 'til death do us part', I benefit more by talking to him (my spouse) about what we can do to make daily interaction with each other more exciting.... therefore, bring that excitement to the bedroom later on.....\n\nGirrrrllll...look at me giving advise about something I need to work on myself....but non the less, I know it's what I need to do to keep thoughts of other men out of my head when I'm with my husband. (Oooh, I did say other MEN hah....ummm...I mean that man...)..SMILE!!!!.... It's working though.\n\nSo good so far. It may get tough at times, but keep your interaction with each other positive and exciting...laugh a lot...it helps.
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My hubby does all the time!  He says it's kinda sweet, and it makes him feel close to me, in a wierd way.  Doesn't bother me at all...kind of a turn-on actually.  If it doesn't bother you, then go for it.