How come if you dont show interest in a guy he cant get enough of you, but if you show interest he's bored?
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ever heard the term, "the grass is greener...?" some people (this includes guys AND gals) always want what they can't have. this is the main reason they 'play games.' go for someone who'll want YOU. and forget the loser who isn't happy that you want him.
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WAY too little information!  Can you tell more about your sitution?  Feel free to email me if you'd prefer.  1st thing I'll want to know is how old you are.\n\nAnyway, here's a very general answer for starters:  Maybe you are projecting an attitude of disinterest or unapproachability.  For instance, there definitely IS such a thing as being 'too cool.'  Most people want to spend time with people who show an interest in them.  If you're not sending clear enough signals of your interest, many guys won't bother risking what looks like a very good chance of rejection.
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yes. he is no longer interested. if he likes you he would always find ways to be with you.
220396
don't waste your time on him.  When you start acting like you aren't into him anymore and that you are having fun elsewhere, maybe he'll miss the attention, but you deserve better.
152508
He is just not that into you. If a guy really likes you, he will call. Simple as that.
1166790
he's probaly not calling because he isnt interested in you anymore and doesnt want to give you the hope that something is still there in the relationship...
468743
If he was that interested, he'd make the time for you and put some effort into getting to know you. Don't chase the guy, let him chase you, or else you might come off as desperate or clingy.
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if he cares about you than he wont get bored of you, if he doesnt fuckk him!\n\nbut if it really means that much to you, you can suddly make fun of him, it will make him feel a little insecure and wonder if you like him, so he never winds up thinking if he still likes you or not...men's minds are easily molded, you just have to practice different tactics.
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Guys generally don't make an effort to do something unless they have an interest. Give him a few days, he'll call.
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I don't know if this will help but it's what I do before when I like someone but I don't want him to notice.  First, know his interest and then if you can strike up a conversation be genuinely interested then  if he appear to  be interested in you too, try to appear busy and not so interested anymore.  Be a little distant then let him do the move.  Some guys like mystery in a girl and they want to  be challenged.  Actually, I noticed that they get bored easily in girls who try hard to be noticed.
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Well, the fact that the guy hasn't responded can be either good or bad. It could mean he's trying to figure it all out and decide when he should make his move or it could mean he's ignoring your friend. Your friend should give it time and if the guy seems to be doing nothing, well, then he isn't worth the time and effort and quite frankly doesn't deserve any girl.
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I think if you play too hard to get it makes the guy lose interest.  But I've read books where they say that playing hard to get actually makes the guy want you more.
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Well.. Ask him out, but you seem overly eager, and that could make the guy lose interest in you.. Try not to come off on him so strong, and try to keep it slow until he sais hes ready for more..  Do not go out with him if its just because of his looks..  Try to realize that guys lose interest when girls want real commitment in the early stages of a relationship, so keep your distance, play hard to get, and good luck.. I hope he finds you interesting/attractive and treats you right
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Show a bit of interest, but don't over-do it. Men want what they can't have. Let him chase you a little. He'll like it. Plus he'll appreciate your affection more if it doesn't come easy.
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Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
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He likes it when you play hard to get.  It keeps him interested in you.
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You can feel it...\n\nHe's becoming bored in your relationship..\nHe's less interested to you,,,\nHe has no time for you\n\nAnd he has all the excuses that he could say so that he won't spend his time talking about your relationship..