is a bit of harmless flirting and chat on msn ok if u r married?
459049
it's ok, nothing wrong with enjoying yourself in private and you keep what lines drawn you want, but hey, I think ALOT of people do this and would go to their grave saying no they didn't lol. I thinks its fun.
180019
NOt if you don't mind.\nIt would be wrong if he is married though.
690499
I suppose one can cross the line. As long as both parties seem to be agreeable, what is the harm. If two people find themselves comfortable with each other enough to flirt, so be it.
1173148
No, flirting is normal. It makes you feel sexy. It is wrong to act on it never put yourself in a compramising position. Avoid temptation. But flirting is fine
84738
See me > i'm a flirt by nature. It kind of just makes u feel alive and make u feel young if you are a lil' older. As long as u arent disrespecting him ur fine. My man of 5 years knows this. I know he's kind of a flirt too but we know who we're with > each other. As long as he doesnt have a problem w/ it its ok. Make sure he's not saying it's fine just to avoid conflict. People will always have something to say. Good luck w/ your wedding.
88529
It is technically against the rules, but I don't think it's a bad thing. Just try to do it in a more subtle way. Answer one of their questions and at the end say that you'd like to chat.
1124945
Why would it be?  Why would that make you fast?  You simply enjoy hanging out with men.  There is nothing wrong with that.  As long as you stay faithful if you have a boyfriend or husband and don't flirt to an amount that makes them uncomfortable, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.\n   I am a male and I have more female friends than male.  I am married and know the limits and my wife is okay with it as long as I stay within those limits.\n   Do not worry about what other people say.  You are you, and you only have to worry about being happy yourself.
967897
I would but I'm not going to do it just to please you or anyone else for that matter.  It is a private concern and you should be asking this of your local kink groups, not the net in general and expect a response on D/s relationships for such a carelessly worded question.
121537
Not a good idea.  It is possible to cheat on someone without physical activity between you.  How would you feel if your husband/wife was chatting away on the phone with someone and getting all excited about it?  Put a stop to it right away.
1800
Some may disagree, but I would run the risk of chat rooms, i.e. Yahoo's. It's kind of a crap shoot though; you have to wade through a lot of jerks IMing you for sexually-related reasons to find the good ones. But you can. I have many many times. I have friends all over the world from chat.\n\nHi5 is a pretty good social site. Some others you might try are OKcupid.com and myspace.com All 3 of these sites are free.
1129102
Hello,\nMsn offers instant messaging and other safe and great stuff too. It is great to have and to chat with your friends. It is very popular and secret. You can accept invitations to im, or not. But be on your toes! Msn!
58947
I am a woman, but my mother gave me the BEST advice I ever heard.  She said, "If you want your marriage to FAIL, then go in the chat rooms!"  My husband and I vowed to never chat online with someone of the opposite sex.  Actually, we do NOT take our problems to the opposite sex at all.  That is how most affairs begin.  I am old fashioned, I suppose, but I think that married people need married couples for friends.  Anything else could be a little dangerous.  I know others will say it all boils down to trust, but even the most trusting person can be seduced.
576261
In my opinion, so long as it's okay with the other person he's "cybering" with, it's fine. No harm, no foul.\n\nIn this day and age, consentual dirty talk via IM or e-mail is a harmless, anonymous way for sex-craved people to get a psychological fix, even if it's just fantasy.\n\nThis concept has been around for a while. Take sex-talk phone services ("900" numbers), or erotic penpals. For both of these, women (or men) will have erotic conversations with you for a fee. Heck, he's probably getting his "action" for free, but in a medium where it's infinitely easier to hook up desparate women with desparate men.\n\nAnd both benefit from not needing to actually see each other.
517988
sure can, I met my husband online. : )\njust have common sense and be safe: talk online for as long as it takes you to be comfortable, don't be pressured into meeting before you are. A nice guy (much more important than a hot guy, BTW) will understand your wanting to be cautious. when you do meet in person, meet in public in a place with lots of people.
368094
Like phone sex, but via IM or chat rooms, etc
524903
Noooo. Its more than that. As a matter of fact, I JUST deleted a email sent to me from a guy that wanted to chat. I keep my email on ONLY in case someone that needs to talk can. I am happily married and hate creeps emailing me. I also don't want anyone emailing me just cause my opinion differs from theirs. I've had some really nice people email me to ask more about what I wrote, and so I'm glad I keep my email on. But there are times I turn it off, just to get rid of people I'd not want spamming my inbox.
203401
If you are in a relationship, you have pretty much said to the other person you belong to them sexually. So if you are sharing anything intimate or sexual with another person, you are cheating. If not physically, emotionally. Is it ok for your partner to have these conversations with other people? Hmmmmmmmm didn't think so.