Why do men have to look UP to women on the first few dates?  Amazin!!?
458461
Men should look up to women all the time. Like in the Middle Ages when there were love courts... the lady would be the mistress and the man her servant in love.\n\n\nWhat did you write, "YOU CRAZIES"??????? Meaning us sweet, nice, cute women?\nAaaah, that calls for a punishment... ;D
582359
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Maybe they are just confident and would like to meet what they feel is a nice young lady. But maybe the cute girls arent really that nice if they think that the guy approaching them is ugly. You really need to judge people by their actions and words and not their looks.
350110
I think that men can be attracted to you at first sight.  There are men that prefer big women and would see the immediate attraction.  It is sad to say that people are so quick to judge by the outer cover, but it really happens a lot and doesn't give the real person a chance to shine.
136129
Yes, but you have a lot of work to overcome our initial superficial thoughts when we first meet you.  If you're an awesome guy, be confident, be outgoing and show the ladies that looks (or height) aren't the most important thing.
19148
Good-looking women get asked out by a lot of guys, those who are superficial and those who are nice.  So I guess a smaller percentage of the total guys who ask you out are the nice ones, so you have to work harder to sort them out of the crowd.
485321
Because men should make the first move and women should make hints...this is to avoid women's embarrassment, and feed men's natural chasing instinct.
294668
It honestly depends on the guy.  From my experience anyway.  Some guys are genuine and look for a gal with a good personality (which is what should be important), although looks are also important - but should not be a deciding factor in whether or not a guy is interested.  There are guys out there that are more concerned with looks, but hey - looks can be deceiving :P
640616
It's nothing? guyz wants to look at girls, thats kinda part of the nature...\npeace
108627
would you wanna date the same guys that those girls are with? there are plenty of guys out there who dont fit into the popular catagory who are also looking for dates...why not check them out ? = )
856388
You lucky gal what else you are looking for there is guy admiring you all the time ask those ladies no one looks them or admire them...!!!!
217368
With some women, it's because they're scared. Also it could be because the girl isn't sure the guy is interested in that way. So if a guy is into a girl, let them know.
72661
Guys are deeper than it appears.  Looks are always the first attraction and for most younger ones it's important to show off for their friends, but later it's not so important, then compatability takes over. Young marriages usually break up around this time.  But as you get to know someone they either get better to be with or worse.  So personality is omni-important.  There are, of course, shallow people who go through their whole life looking for the better looking or richer or whatever but they don't represent the majority.
375439
men unfortunately are a lot more shallow then women are. we can look past appearances and see characters and personalities...guys have a harder time with that. \nMen just suck, thats all.
902046
after many years i have finally realised that men notice half as much as women do.....so please relax!!! honestly, they probably notice 10% of what u notice of them\n\ngd luck x
501138
I think you live in a society that gives too much on the appearance. In fact, I believe the attraction only comes the fist few seconds you notice a person, then once you are getting engage into a conversation, the looks don't really appear to be matter any longer. I've had many beautiful girlfriends before, and once you are getting into a fight with them, the looks don't count anymore. In fact, once you got to know a person or live with them, the looks hardly matter as you will not notice it as much as before you got to really know that person and talk to them.
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It's because in today's society the guys are ignorant and uneducated when it comes to dating. Instead of seeing a woman for who she is they see only what they want to be on their arm when they are in public. Just stay positive and the right one will come along for you as they say "she who waits shall receive". Good Luck!!!!
588708
I'm a guy, I have a girlfriend, most guys (in general, at least those like me) have a tendency to REALLY like a girl if he's looking at her a lot.. I mean, I may find a girl attractive and my eyes may look in that direction as a reaction, but if its something more than that, a guy might try to hide the fact that he likes looking in her direction out of respect for the fact that she might not want to be stared at... so it can be hard to tell if the guy wants you as more than a friend without asking quite clearly and in private.. not in front of too many other people, something like "what do you think of me, do you want to go out with me?" etc.. some guys are too shy to ask the girl they want to be with out without knowing that they'd approve of them in the first place, a lot of guys end up staying single because of this, and I have only asked one girl out and I've had about 6 relationships ... each one a major impact on my life, I hope this helps.