If my friend is at fault,should i let her know about it or just keep silent....?
471897
This is like most relationships. Its give and take...Your friend wont be a real friend if she cant deal with your feelings and opinions. You may be wrong, so what, you have the feelings correct or not. If you talk things out you will find a common ground.
260362
she is going to be hurt but you know what she has to know the truth and if you are a true friend nothin should stop you from telling her the truth. Girl she needs to know big time if she doesn't believe you then you'll just have to let her find out on her own thats not the best way but just try to tell her.
1153044
you answered your own question. Listen to your inner voice. Drop her she will do it again. the only reason she is sorry is because she got caught. Do you think she would of apologized if you had not of brought it up? NO . With a friend like her you do not need enemies.
841310
Forget about it.  You did nothing wrong.  Don't even mention it.  All you'll do is put your friend in an embarrassing situation.
329908
Well that depends.  If all three of you were friends then she should understand that your other friend needed to know.  Don't make a big deal about it or dramatize it.  You were being a good friend by being honest with your other friend.  Good luck.
940992
Just tell her it was a rumor, and that she should not be mad at you. If she's a good friend, she will understand.  Rumors get started and can spiral out of control, unless you take care of them early on.
209641
Honestly, you would think that you should tell the person because it is the 'right thing to do' morally.  BUT think about it first  You are going to lose a friend.  You are going to hurt a lot of people and it still wont make it right.  If the person has no idea do not tell them because what you would be doing is another selfish act really.  You are hurting your friend so that you feel better.  So if they don't know just leave their happiness alone.  You already did one bad thing, don't do another to ease your conscience.
220176
What do you hope to achieve by telling her?  If you're in trouble and need her help then by all means tell her right away.  If your intent is just to tell her then maybe you might want to rethink it.  How will she take that bit of news?  What will she do?  What will you do?  Some things are better left unsaid but it depends on your situation.
982581
You still have to tell her. Blood is thicker than water. Besides, she'll be a lot madder at you if you know this and say nothing. Tell her you're sorry, you didn't know, but that's what you know now. In the long run, it will strengthen your relationship.
381906
i cut myself like a month ago becuz i was having emotional problems so if she is just doing it for fun then tell someone if it excedes tell someone but if she is feeling emotionaly hurt talk to her and then if she keeps doing it tell someone so pretty much TELL SOMEONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
592144
well just tell her its best to be honest. Tell her that you are sorry and that you should have listened to her but you are only young once. And as young  adults you are allowed to make mistakes. But you should be honest with her as to why you felt that you just had to go and tell her what happend and why you were home so late. The worst thing you could do is to lie to her. She might find out later and you will get in more trouble. So just suck it up and just tell her, she was young once too and I'm sure she made her share of mistakes. Good luck.
42591
Hmm...tough question.  I would talk to your friend about it.  Tell her not to put you in the position to lie for her.  It's her decision and it's a bad one.  Tell her if she won't stop for you, she should stop for her own health.  If she still doesn't stop after that, you should probably tell someone, even if she gets mad at you.  It's for her your own good.  I know it's hard, but it will help her more that hurt her.
275865
I wouldn't tell her, until telling him to stop doing that, because U care about your friend, she is a great person and doesn't deserve it.\nI would tell him that he has to respect my friend as well as our friendship.\nIf he doesn't stop with this words, tell him that U're about to tell your friend about it, and if he continues doing that, definetely U have to tell your friend about it.
428159
You need to tell your friend! It is going to hurt her more knowing that everyone a school knew the truth and you all feel sorry for her and didn't tell her! If you are a true friend to her please don't let her get hurt anymore!
89685
I would tell him that he hurt me whether he was joking or not and if he apologizes, accept it. People say a lot of things they don't mean when they're mad. If he is truly your friend, he'll apologize, if he doesn't then I'd say, "Ya know what? When you decide to apologize, I'll listen, until then, I would rather not be around you."
928007
I think you should tell her right away. She'll be more likely to forgive you, since you didn't try and keep it a secret from her. I personally hate secrets, I htink we should lay them out in the open. Tell her you're really sorry, too. You shouldn't have cheated in the first place.
217539
You could, but why would you want to? What would you get out of telling her? Sympathy? If you're hurting, talk to a close friend about it. I wouldn't suggest telling this girl about how much she hurt you - what is she going to do about it or than avoid you for here on out?