Is fingering a good idea when it comes to women?
461198
Well fingers are more dexterous than a one-eyed monster. :D\n\n\n\nThe secret to fingering a woman is to stimulate the clitoris AND stimulate the top part of the vagina while your fingers are inserted...at the same time.\nSound impossible? It takes practice.
136567
actually all of these answers are correct, but not enterelly, if you dont acomplish to stimulate your woman the time you spend down there or with your fingers is going to be useles, now women arose quite slow, so i recomend a nice diner, and allways with a sexual conotation, second you know your wife and what she likes so i can only recomend to do what she might like, take your time, do it slow and please use your imagination, try to discover new ways or new parts of your beloved, if you read her reactions, talk to her during the act and really try to satisfy her theres no way you can miss, besidas you must like oral sex to perform it, if you dont that will be only ocuord and not sexy at all
1050416
This is true. I have given my GF an orgasm by fingering her their. We have not had anal sex though.
39825
Coming from my own personal experiences, a girl seems to really enjoy having her whole body exploited, but I usually like to stroke her thighs, massage her breasts, kiss her neck, lips and whole upper and lower body, but she really gets excited when I go between her legs. You can start with the front and work your way to the back as you can lightly slap her butt as well, but not too hard as it'll probably ruin the whole sexual mood. The important thing to keep in mind is to go easy on her, unless she's the type who likes it rough, then you have a whole playing field to explore on, so go discover your possibilities.
600849
First of all, ask!!  Then as you are doing your thing, pay attention to her, its usually pretty obviuos what she likes and doesnt like.  Try whatever she will allow, you will learn!!!  She knows whats good for her, tell her you just want to please her and you need to know what she likes.  Toys are a good addition.  All women are different, some have religious beliefs that keep them from some things so you just gotta explore it and watch the response.
914863
You need to specify if they are straight or gay men. Either way there is nothing wrong however I would recommend the straight guy fully understand his preferences before he dates women. There are loads of straight guys who get fingered by their gfs because the orgasm is incredible....nothing weird.
1039730
Ha ha! Have you had a woman shove her fingers up your *** when she's doing the deed for you? Most women dont want anyone anywhere near that region!!! Which is exactly WHY its called the *Shocker*!!! You need to find a woman who you know is into backside sports before springing it on her! There are women out there who appreciate it! They're just few and far between!
832846
Yes you will present the In's and outs of sexual positions, and state how effective they are in reaching the spots that bring a woman to orgasm....remember only those positions that leave lasting effect, are you even capable of that?.....
305258
um, i have no real experience, hah. But I wud rather have them tickled with the fingers, by my g/f, bcuz that wud just make me feel happy and i dk, it wud just be better than ne thing else u cud use.
1079606
Like you mean it, not like a cat lapping milk, continous motion, not changing too much when you hit the right spot, alternating with fingers and thumb if you get tired but DONT STOP when she signals its working.\ndont concentrate on one spot and stay rigid, include everything but concentrate on clit mainly..ask her, she wont MIND! make sure you arent labouring under false pretenses, let her show you WHERE and then go for it..\n*sighs in rememberance* ;0D
626278
Well some people want to know. Personally, I like to gather info to better my own skills with the ladies. Although the tough thing is all of them are different. Different tastes ect. Personally, I'm pretty open about things. Can't say that I've ever had a toy used on me but I have used them on ladies before. (Unless you count handcuffs a toy)
58444
I'm not sure as a girl I did, but as a woman yes! Everyone is different, finding that particular spot can be easy or perhaps very difficult to find. If I want it "hit", I'll gladly guide you there :-)
1067128
The best way is to watch her do it .. that way you can imitate the same movements she was using !\n\nWatch how fast she's moving, where she's moving, what's she's doing with her other hand ... it will make things a lot easier on you.\n\nHitting the "g-spot" with the fingers on the other hand I think might be a little hard.  It's inside - deep inside - "most" women.  \n\nYou would be better off working the outside with your fingers and working the inside with your penis !
28855
All women are different, thus like different things.  I would suggest that you ask the woman that you are with at the time, what it is SHE specifically likes and go from there.  And, yes, it's how a man uses the tools he's been given ...
169569
Tell your friend that she should get into it.  Don't just lay there like dead wieght.  Touch, grab, kiss and switch positions.  Remember, practice makes perfect.
721336
Yes, especially if you did it without expecting gratification from it.  Spontanious shows of affection are the most wonderfull thing a man can do for a woman.x
1072821
in general esp women wud agree that a good sexual experience should include a long and sensual foreplay...enough to awaken all of her senses n if satisfied guaranteed u will be satisfied as well....