Why wont he  give me a chance.?
455275
It's always painful to be rejected by a guy, especially one you've been interested in for awhile.  However, unless he is just very broken up over his girlfriend and that's why he's uninterested in dating, he's probably just not interested.  He sees you as a friend, but nothing more than that.  \nAs for his deal, I don't know.  He probably really liked her and it's upsetting when someone you really like doesn't like you back.  As for what you can do, simply be his friend or move on.  Don't expect him to change his mind and stick around waiting for him.  He probably won't.  Simply find someone else you like and start talking to him.  I bet that you meet someone else just as great in a short amount of time and THIS time he won't have a girlfriend.
82001
My goodness he is persistent!! Apparently your responses during the past four years have not been strong enough to discourage him.  It is really hard to have a guy friend, because in the back of his mind is: "hey, there is always a chance..." in the back of your mind is: "hey, if I get desperate.."  (everyone needs a backup plan...sounds mean)If he's putting his life on hold waiting for you, it is only fair to firmly end the hope for him.  The candle is still burning....time to extinguish it (unless you are interested).
348218
i've had my share of moments like this.  Just pretend it never happened and see how he acts.  if he is intrested, he WILL make a move.  If he is NOT, then he won't.  but if it was me, i would just pretend like nothing happened, and see how he acts.
322796
maybe he isnt ready for realtionship right now, keep in contact with him as friends and if you both meant to be together you will be. good luck.
829546
cause it was his birthday. or maybe he regretted saying no to you, and hes trying to get u back. dont give it too much thought. just see what his next actions will be nd judge from there
348860
Get to know another guy (probably friend) find out some about them, then try to guess if you think you'd stand a chance or not. If you think you'll get rejected just don't try, if you think he might be curious, then go ahead and give it a shot.
821762
Everyone deserves a first chance. If he hasn't given you any reason to not trust him then give him the chance to prove himself.\nNot all us fella's are jerks. There are some pretty responsible& caring men out there .So if you think you've found one, take advantage of that. The best advice is to follow your heart. Let it be your guide. Your thoughts will only confuse you. You've obviously been through a lot so why put yourself through anymore. This could be your chance for a family of your own & a lifetime full of happiness. You will only get hurt if you allow yourself to be hurt again. Romance is an adventure. You ultimately decide how the story will end. Will it be a drama full of heartache & fear or a Fairytale full of answered dreams & eternal happiness? Based on that; the answer should be simple.\n\nGo ahead my Dear give him a chance so that you have a chance.....\n\nGood Luck.........
723150
Move on try to be strong and if it's to be it will be. so quit calling him and let him call you and show the effort give him a chance to chase you.
1113389
please take some time and wait... for sure he will talk to you again and patched up things... sometimes love needs some arguments to spice up the relationships
85713
Maybe start doing for him and he will do in return?  Talk to him, maybe something is on his mind.  Guys sometimes don't know how to treat a woman.  But it is the thought that counts.  Don't knock him for trying.  He did manage to get that last bouquet of flowers right?
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
1180098
What did you do? You can kind of base it on what you did, but all the same, you shouldn't give up. Somebody will give you a chance if you keep trying. Good luck.
642616
It sounds like a tough situation.  If I were you I'd keep trying.  Just be prepared if he gives you an answer you don't want.  Have you given any thought to what you will do if he says he isn't into you like that?
397278
You need to be clear and direct and consciese in your response to him so that there is little room for him to put some false hope. I really don't understand why guys just are so blinded by love or lust or whatever,Wake up lames and smell the taste of rejection and move on.!!
251364
You missed your chance with him and now you are out of luck.  He has moved on and made his choice so let him go and find a single guy to chase after.  If he is doing it to just make you jealous then don't play his games because you deserve to be treated better.
858982
Ok, maybe the reason he said no is b/c he doesn't want the whole world to know he likes you. You shouldn't have asked people to talk to him for you so many times. A couple should have been enough. If you like him so much, ask him out yourself.
202821
Your friends are right.  You need to break this cycle and stop living your life waiting for something that may never happen.  You deserve a man who will choose you first over all other girls and not one that can't make up his mind and picks you only when it is convenient.  This guy is just playing you and keeping you around for when his other relationship has problems.