14y and 21y having sex,?
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Sounds like jail time to me.\n\nAnyway, call his bluff -- any reasonable attorney would be a fool to tell you that.  In order to prove you are an irresponsible parent he will have to admit that his client had sex with an underage girl, which would automatically lead to a conviction for statutory rape.  Not doing his client any favors that way.\n\nAlso if he's 21 and can afford an attorney of his own, it sounds like he's in money, which smells to me like a lawsuit -- an easy win if he's willing to admit he had sex with the 14-year old.\n\nDumb attorney.
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There's no age limit for someone to purchase condoms.  If your neice went out and bought a pack, please don't punish her; she's acting responsibly to a natural curriousity about sex.  To punish her would discourage her from buying and using them... and statistics point quite painfully to where that leads.  Telling her parents when she's not around may be in order, so that they will not only have time to cool down (assuming that her parents are the type that punish first, ask questions later), but can also approach her after thinking out what they're going to say.  You can't stop the curriousity of hormones; not only do every Jack one of us go through it, every Jack one of us owes our lives to it.\n\nPerhaps she's not even buying them to use them:  I remember, in my immature days in High School, buying them simply to stretch them over doorknobs.  A few times, my friends and I would leave them--unwrapped, of course--lying around in the school's hallway.  It was something to laugh at, and a big part of our glee was because adults made such a fuss over them.  Call it part of the rebelleon of youth.\n\nSexual experimentation is natural!  It's the timing that's lousy due to her age.  But if teenagers were not allowed to buy contraceptives, we'd have quite a few more teenage pregnancies.  Good luck!  I hope cooler heads prevail, and all turns out well.
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Unfortunately it is not uncommon for 13 and 14 year old girls to be sexually active. Too many young people believe that they are mature enough for sex at that age and they are not. The best thing is for both boys and girls to wait until they are adults and married before engaging in sex. They need to be taught how precious it is to be a virgin on their wedding night. That God gave us sex to be an intimate expression of love between a husband and wife, not something to do for recreation outside of marriage.
1136996
as long as both people are of legal age,no.\nBut you'd better know the other person isn't a minor.
647272
Don't worry about it. Kids your age have lots of confusion about sex. And don't have sex yet. Wait. You are too young. Just because other kids are doing it doesn't make it right. You could ruin your life if you do something stupid like that. \n\nI hope you can have an open discussion with your father or another relative about sex in general.
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Sugar, sugar, sugar....\nGive it some time.   Don't give out your email!  The only thing a seventeen year old boy will want to have in common with a fourteen year old girl is sex.  You don't want to be used like a kleenex, then tossed away for the next one.\nFind a boy closer to your own age.......better yet, find YOURSELF first.
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Some teens are turned on by the sex with an older man thing. They don't understand (or care) that you can get in serious trouble if their parents find out. You could even be accused of statutory rate. Maybe it's all a thrill for them.\n It's good to hear you have better morals that R. Kelly!!
701412
It is fine. I am 24 and my husband is 35. we are very diffrent in age and it is great for us. Also not to say that it should be done or that it is legal and it has to do with the how mature the girl is. I feel it is fine to have relations with someone under the age of 18. many girls have sex befor the age of 18 but it should strongly weigh on her matuity. I think waiting untill the two people know that they are going to be married in the future is best or even waiting untill they are makes it even better. I know sounds a little harsh, but imagine this the people have just been married and how much more the two will want it and feel the romace of it all if they wait. Everyone has their own feelings about that though. If the two of them date for a couple years it is perfectly legal for the two of them to get married in most states befor the age of 18 and in some states can even do it now, but may still need a parents consent to do so. tell your friend and I am sure he will have even more fun making out how much he loves her to her and if marriage is something he really wants with her in the future making those plans with her too.
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No, after all the 14 yr old is just as you say they are ... 14.  You know that at 14 your decisions are less than mature.  Why do the same thing the 14 yr old is doing?  Be a parent, stand firm!  Prayers =)
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A bit of a touchy situation from a legal stand point if sex is involved. Ethically, I don't think there is much problem there with a 3 year age difference, if both feel comfortable with the situation. If it is a non-sexual relationship then there are no legal implications, if there is sex going on, then it is "technically" statutory rape and could end up in serious legal consequences. Of course, one should always be careful with any sexual relationship at that age and use all appropriate protection from STDs and unwanted pregnancies.*\n\n*Croni's ethical disclaimer
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Or** for both parties is a great idea, massages, rubbing each other all over, kissing alot, let him lick your upstairs... i hope your old enough to be reading this... if your under 18 (or the legal age of consent) then you need to just not be doing it
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yeah, that's wierd.\nIf you are 14, don't go out with anyone over 18, because that's just asking for trouble.
598182
When I was like 20 or something. Honestly. Holy crap that seems old. \n\nAs far as the 10 yr old goes, anythings possible. The only concern I would have would be that she would want real sex if she`s already thinking about those things. Her mom should talk to about it without making her feel ashamed about it.
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More than anything, you risk never really being 14 again.  No matter how you think you feel about it, there is just no way you are ready to have a sexual relationship with anyone at 14.  You just don't have the emotional maturity or life experience necessary to understand all the risks of sex--and not just the physical ones.  We could talk at length about AIDS, STD's, and pregnancy, but those are the things you can prevent if you're careful.  It's the damage you'll do that's unavoidable that you have to really consider.\n\nIn life, there are many things worth waiting for.  I know at your age you think it'll take forever to be an adult, and you want to start now.  Believe me when I tell you that waiting for this until you know it's the right time, with the right person and for the right reason will make up for all of the anxiety you feel today.
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Hahahahahahha......The kids are home from school today.\n\nTry using a condom!
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Ignore him first off, no 22 year old has any business chatting with a 14 year old online. There are a lot of perverts and molesters out there that just "itch" for a chance to get ahold of someone underage. America's Most Wanted did a whole show on a sting of these types. Tell your parents, and if nned be let them call the authorities. \n\nFirst off, and very important, IGNORE HIM. Don't feed him anymore with replies.
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Having sex at 13 is bad! I had sex at 14, but I still should have waited. I got pregnate at 16!!! No good. As for the guy... him having sex at 18 with a minor is very bad for him! That's called statatory rape even if you consented, and your parents can have him arrested if they were to find out about it and disagree. Be careful. I'm 30 now and I didn't know what was good for myself until I was about 26, even though I swore I did. It's your life though. Make your choices wisely. Good luck.