How an extremely shy girl express love to a guy without letting other people know?
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The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
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i read somewhre that u r never supposed to tell someone to 'jus be yourself'...cos obviously he was jus being himself and the fact of the matter is that he is shy...deal with it i guess....don make this u'r primary objective in life man, i.e. making friends...jus do wat u love, get into something...sooner or later pple will start noticing u..n' then remember that the girls r jus like u man...they're not different at all....we all r humans...lol...neways thres nothin to be ashamed n'all....jus move on with u'r life thats all, always keep u'rself busy man...wish u all the best...tc man.
78103
Dont keep it secret anymore. Just go straight to him/her and say out that u like him/her. Nobody would feel irritated by it if you say it decently. Any girl/boy would consider it to be a pride, when somebody proposes them.
19439
Silvana gave some good advice.  You need to know, however, that often you do not need to say anything.  A touch can convey so much more.  Hold a hand, give a hug, lay a finger upon a face, place your hand on an arm or sholder.  A kiss on a cheek.\n\nIf you feel that you must say something, express your feelings honestly or tell the other person that they are not alone and you are with them.\n\nYou can always ask if there is anything that you can do.  You can always tell them to call you if they need anything.  Often people do not want to hear that everything will be alright, when it is not alright with them now.
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People have different ways of expressing their love, just because they don't openly show doesn't mean they don't.  Think about it really hard and you will find something that is gonna show a way that person has proven their love to you. Hint:  it might be something totally insignificant but meaningful all the same.
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Sounds like she's shy too.  Ask her if she'll like to hear a story about something funny you did (as a child perhaps)then tell her.  \n\nOr talk about a scene in a funny movie you've seen or one of those Freddy teenage movies.   \n\nOr you can be honest and upfront and say to her - I'm normally talkative, but when I'm around you I feel shy, she'll open up as well.  \n\nYou'll be surprised to learn most people think they are inadequate in front of people they like and they feel more comfortable if you tell them you do too.
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most guys are REALLY stupid, so thats gonna be hard w/o a direct aproach. just smiling at him works wonders, they catch on. a little extended eye contact, just a little longer then usual. Also ask his best friend who he likes, and ask questions about him. and his best friend will probably tell him.\n\nGood Luck, guys like shy girls so im sure your fineeee
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if she is a free girl...ask her to have a private talk even just in a restaurant and tell her that u love her, nothing will be lost whenever u tell her that at least u can express ur feelings and shockingly, maybe she also loves u, just waiting for ur first move....
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alrite well ask him n if ur shy then write him a letter anonomously n if tat doesnt work try being his friend n come close 2 him \n\nhe will truly see you once he gets to know you and he will also love u for who u are\n\ntry it!!!!!\nu wont regret
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The problem is when you like a guy you become really insecure and possessive over him in your mind. Then you eat yourself up about and wonder why he never notices. The key point is, stop procrastinating and let him know. You see you cant let fear get in the way, the reason why most people dont make the other person aware is because they fear the worst. The worst he is going to do is reject you and if he does, so what move on. You would rather be with a guy that loves you then with someone that does not. If you feel you can not tell him, write him a letter and then give it to him. Its a good thing to break the tension in your mind. If you do not tell him then perhaps he will find someone else and then you missed out on the opportunity. Dont let him be the fish that got away.
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You haven't been very specific with your question! You like someone and want to let them know? Go right to them and tell them! They can't read your mind...can they. Forget the little things...\n\nOR if you are already in a relationship with this person, surprise them with little gifts, little notes where they don't expect it, a loving card, and of course an I Love You every day...
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First thing is, DON'T go overboard! Guys think they need to impress a girl with gifts or flowers or something. AFTER a relationship has started that's okay, but most girls are scared away by that kind of stuff from a guy they're not romantically involved with when the stuff is given.\n\nKeep it simple -- words are the best way to communicate what you want, and along with straightforward words goes confidence and eye contact.\n\nFind a time when you have a little bit of privacy. Then say something like "I hope you're not offended by me saying this, but we've known each other for (however long), and I just wanted you to know that I think you're a really great person." When you tell her this, say it with confidence and make eye contact (which reinforces the confidence). Girls are impressed by confident guys who don't come on too strong.\nGood luck!
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Start with chit-chat.Then go out on a bunch of dates where you both are with a big group and when you feel you've made a strong emotional bond she is yours.\nTHIS IS FROM A SHY GIRL TO A SHY BOY.
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Shy people like to feel comfortable by talking to you about things they know a lot about.  Overhear him, check out what he is reading on....figure out something he is the master of and I guarantee that shell will fall off.  Common personality trait that people don't always understand is shyness and the ease shy people feel with their comfortable subjects.  I always try to talk to them about their job, their dog, something personal - not Cambodia, either...I would not talk to him about that...more about his career, sports, something he really digs...just my advice!  Always works on boys or girls for me!
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Write her love letters, call her sometimes, keep things light and simple. It's hard when people can't show each other their feelings, but physical aspects of a relationship aren't everything. If you know you're around people you trust to keep it quiet, do little things like hold hands. I know it will be hard, but if you love her like you say you do, it's worth it :) good luck!
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I think it time for gurls to undertand that men too are scared to tell a girl.And ic an tell you it one of the most difficult thing to say.coz the repsonse will be a gud one or bad one.\n\nSo an advice be very romantic do everything to please him ,to put him on the track that you like him there is a VERY great possibility that he will not be able to hide you that he feel the same for you.\n\nBut there is a risk if you are his best friend he(it apply for me) will not take that risk coz he will be be afraid to lose you.coz you must understand that you may be the least person in the world he will like to lose so he will prefer to love you secretly.......but passionately
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I have ALWAYS been oblivious. I just don't notice.\n\nTry flirting in a more obvious way, some guys are afraid to make a move in response because they doubt themselves, or are afraid they may be misinterpreting. What if you are teasing and are waiting for them to take the bait so you can shoot them down? What if you hug all your friends when you say hi? What if you feel close to him... but not in a romantic way? We don't have any way of knowing.\n\nTry the normal stuff, if it doesn't work, try approaching him seriously, and telling him your feelings, or after something you thought was obvious, tell him something like "you know a girl doesn't usually do that unless she is really hoping a guy will ask her out" or something similar.\n\nThen again... there is always the chance that he genuinely isn't interested. Unless you use a direct approach and ask you won't know.