how do i get a girl who likes me love me?
459715
be yourself, if she loves you for who you are then she really loves you. if you aren't yourself and she loves you then she doesnt really love you for you she loves who you've pretended to be. now if she doesnt love you when you are being yourself, well theres nothing you can do sorry. either she will or she wont. good luck though.
136875
If you think she doesn't like you, you're might be right.  There are various things you can do to more or less 'trick' her into liking you, but is that what you want?  For her to like some illusion she has of you?  Let it go.  I'm sure this girl is cute and all that, but so what?  Getting this girl isn't going to make you happy.  Besides, the more desparate you seem by chasing her, the less she'll like you.
291795
Be yourself if you want her to like YOU.\n\nIf you aren't yourself.... you will never find someone who really likes YOU.\n\nIf you are talking about a specific girl now..... if being yourself doesn't do it with her.... NO PROBLEM.... theres plenty of other people looking for that right person.\n\nDo NOT pretend to be someone you are not.\n\nA relationship will NOT last if you are not honest. Sure you could chat for quite a while, but it will not be real and eventually, you WILL be found out.\n\nAnd from my experience, women tend to frown on lies.
853665
Just be friendly at first. Flirt a lot, and charm her out of her socks.....after a while, if you think she likes you, ask her out on a date.
507409
then be a lovely guy!  get involved in classes, activities that girls might be in.  Find her doing something you like, then you have something in common.  BE FRIENDS FIRST.....then you will know if she has an interest in you.
170534
If you want a girl to like you, just be her friend. Girls usually like the attention that friends give them. Anybody that is easy to talk to, has listening skills, is always good as a boyfriend. My current boyfriend was a friend and is a friend. Surprise her with things and if you want send her "Secret Admirer" things. Girls like to be showered with gifts specially if is from a secret love-friend.
1017750
Whatever you, do NOT tell this girl that you like her. Trust me, by doing that you will scare her almost everytime. By scareing her, not only will she not want to go out with you she may not want to be as close. \n\nInstead, you have to make her like you. The best thing to do is to start by flirting with her a little bit. Not a lot, but minor stuff to see where you're at. For example, start off by telling her that she has nice clothes today, or something like that. Joke around with her alittle bit, for example when she does something funny call her "you're a dork! haha", just don't be too mean. Also try getting in her personal space more, and try touching her more like if you hand her something try touching her hand a little bit. If she is receptive to the flirting increase the intensity, and see where that gets you.\n\nHaving confedence will also help you out greatly if yodon't display it already. Basically when you talk to her keep your head up, speak in a tone of voice that is hearable, and smile often. Also, stop being her boy-toy. What I mean is if she constantly ask you for favors resist because this wil prove to her that you're not confedent. Don't do girly stuff with her either like if she ask you if she can put make-up on her say "no way!"\n\nNow if you do these things, evetually you will be able totell if she is intrested. Here are some signs that she likes you: 1.) Smiles often, and makes good eye contact. 2.) Her eyes will dialte (get bigger) when sh talks to you (this will happn naturally in darklight). 3.) She trys to touch you often when speaking to you. 4.) Plays with her hair often. 5.) Gets pidgen toe'd (she bends one toe behind the other foot). 6.) Sinks her head into her shoulders like shes shrgging, but in a shy way. 7.) Tilts her head forward, and looks up at you with her eyes. 8.) Reveals her palms to yu somehow. 9.) Maintains uncomfortable amounts of eye contact. 10.) Matches rythmic tones of you body, for example if she matches the tone of your voice or subtle moements.\n\nIf she shows you a majority of these signs, this means she is attracted to you. If that is the case ask her to do something with you, then start asking her out on dates. If things work out, then ask her out. \n\nWhatever you do,stay out of the friends zone a best as possible.
122519
dont be too forward with girls. unfortuantely love with girls is a game. when they  receive too much attention they take the person for granted. my advice is get to know her and imply that you like her. get to know her but dont call too often or show too much attention becasue she will just take you for granted especially if shes as popular as you say she is. pretty much... make it clear that u might be interested but dont show too much attention. GOOD LUCK!
845519
you cant make anyone love you. love is an overwhelming concern for the well being of another without regard as to what you will receive in return. if you want to charm her that is a whole different story. if you want her to like you then charm her.
403008
Just simply tell her, as easy as that. Write her a poem, maybe, expressing all your feelings and thoughts -- she'll like that, any girl loves poetry dedicated to her.
302288
be yourself and calm.  No cheesy pick up lines and just talk to her.  Be kind to her, make jokes with her.  Maybe she likes u too and wants you to ask her out.
1121461
Tell her everything you just said, that you love her and know that she loves you. Leave the door open for her to talk to you or come to you for anything, let her know how much she means to you. And actions speak louder than words, prove it to her, get her something special or make something to show her how special she is to you.\nShe might have done it just to see what youd do, if youd fight to get her back or not (Its a girl thing, ive done that before) So just prove that youd do anything for her and that you need her, girls love to hear that.
961553
There is not a fool proof way to get someone to like you.  I would suggest talking to her and asking her to the formal.  You may also want to give her some space and compliment her when you see her.  Compliment her on things others probably don't compliment her on very often.  I suggest something like nice shoes, did you do something different with your hair - looks great, but then again it always does.\n\nYou can also tell her you like her and see what happens.  When it comes down to it she is not the one for you if she is not into you.\n\nBest of luck to you.
912659
you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
88296
Well, unfortunately you really cant MAKE anyone love you. If she is your best friend, then thats a great start! She already likes you and is comfortable with you, now you just have to see if she feels that way about you too.\nIf you feel comfortable doing so, you might ask her if she has ever seen you as being more than a friend. This is a tough thing to do, so wait until you are more comfortable doing so.\nJust make sure and remember: don't be too pushy. Nothing will scare her away faster.
85292
You can't make a girl love you, it is something that takes time. Just treat every girl you date with respect and don't ever cheat on them and always be honest. Every man should treat their girlfriend like they would treat their mother or how they would want a man to treat thier mom. You'll have alot of girlfriends before you find the right girl though because with every realtionship is a lesson to be learn.
286634
You cannot make anyone love you, or get them to love you. You have to take a risk and care about them first. You have to get to know them first, otherwise its not love, its something else.\n\nMaybe you could think about how you might like someone to get you to love them. What would you want them to say? What would you want them to do for you? What would this "love" be like?\n\nEveryone needs to be loved. Consider the girl. Maybe she wants to be loved by you, or maybe she is waiting for someone else. Find out. Talk to her. Get information.\n\nYou may hear some things you don't want to hear, but at least you will know where you stand.