Is it wrong, to feel sad, knowing that I had the chance to be with the girl of my dreams but "Couldn't"
473033
ummm...only you can determine that. do you think it feels wrong?
189242
I wouldn't say it is wrong. You cannot control what you dream about. Those are not uncommon dreams. Every dream has it's meaning. It does not necessarily mean you are in love with whomever it is you are dreaming about. Our dreams are just our subconcious "playing" as we sleep. Every dream has a meaning. It could be something that we heard about that day, dreams can indicate something that is stressing us, or health problems, or fears, or desires...There are some awesome websites about dreams. Do a google search under dreams and their meanings. \n\nDon't worry about it;) it's not wrong, it is quite normal
308907
Yes, tell her how you feel,simply,without a word about not being able to live without her.Ask her how she feels about you. But if she does not feel the same way,remember that she is your first love(is she?),you are apparently a young man,and you have a whole life ahead of you. You may find that there will be someone later on who means just as much or more to you. Life is too wonderful to spend it longing for a lost love. You will never forget her,but you will find you CAN have a good and happy life even if she is not in it. If it is meant to be,you will be together,but if not,let yourself cry,grieve for a lost love,but remind yourself that life really does go on,and something new and wonderful is waiting for you.
932455
i believe yes,my heart aches in the thought of the one that i love,because he lives far across the universe and we cant be together,although i feel happy because i will get to talk to him in a while!
5412
wow, sorry to hear about your girl, thats sad. I dont know why you cannot tell the difference but maybe its because you are in a lot of pain right now and you feel like you are hurting all over.  Again I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope things start looking up for you soon! :)
802411
It isn't necessarily wrong, but you should definately consider what you have done as an example for future occurences. You shouldn't feel wrong about it unless you are still very young, but to feel guilty about is a possible feeling if you feel that it was not the right time to do it.
1019256
I think I get that kind of feeling. I think that you might not really be in love with her. Your mind might add things onto her and make her seem better. You might focus on everything that makes her perfect in your eyes. Then when you actually see her, you realize that she isn't perfect. Something similar happens to me.....
16086
You did the right thing... don't worry bout it ... u'll find someone else!! i'm sure another girl would appreciate u better!!
726715
If you guys didnt really have anything in common and you were super happy with her, then you did the right thing. You should never settle for someone, or continue being with someone in fear of hurting their feelings. Its a hard thing to do, I know, because I am the same way, but you have to think, do I really want to spend the rest of my life being moderately happy instead of really happy? And its better to do it now then wait til later when you cant take it anymore and youre much older than you are now and starting over is that much harder.
853055
The last time I confessed my feelings for a girl was 4 years ago. I'm not sure if it was the right thing to say but words to that effect need to be said and it worked out in the end. What holds me back now is the possibility of rejection and heartbreak. It hurts yet I have to realize that if it is for someone worth having,  then you have to take a risk.
367115
maybe some things have happened it your past that make u feel u are not worthy of being happy and giving a guy a chance, you probably havent met the guy that you want to fully be with...it's a click that you feel almost immediately...keep being honest & kind....the right guy will come along and you DO deserve him......
372869
Well it hurts soo bad because u lose the one u are emotionally ATTACHED to..u feel like u dont wanna be with anyone else..because they made u feel soo great..but think of it this way..there was a reason why u and the one u "loved" didnt make it...its just not meant to be..dating is to meet the right person for u..almsot like experimenting..so good luck! and i hope everythingz k :) keep ur head up!
36468
Im feeling like that right now with my  girl friend.\nand ive felt like this before just ask him whats going on and if its another girl dump his sorry ass
104744
no..it feels horrible...coz once u realize the one of them loves you with all thier life...its shameful to think that you're treating him/her wrong and they could be the one person in this world that would love you more than anything...
1132948
Well if you're concerned that you might be heartless, that automatically shows that you're not! \n\nSo either like everyone here is saying, you weren't really emotionally vested anyway, and you can shrug it off as an unfortunate experience...OR....you didn't allow yourself to deal with feeling whatever you were feeling at the time she broke it off (this wasn't a mutual decision? Then you might have some resentment or anger buried there) I'm only saying this because obviously SOMETHING about the breakup is bothering you...so just figure out what it is, deal with it and move on.
1104331
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL SO SHE COULD TELL YOU HER FEELINGS AND IT WONT HURT TO TRY IT , SOME DAY YOU WILL FIND THE RIGTH GIRL FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!    GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
700825
I loved her, respected her, and cared for her very much.  I was very, very gentle-and listened to her every wish during the event.  It was a little painful to her, to say the least...which made me feel bad, but she loved me also, and made me feel not so badly about it.  It's not really like having "sex"-that first time.