why did he tell me he liked me and now has another girlfriend?
471811
i have been that guy before. It is because the guy really needed some lovin, and takes whatever he could get, and takes whoever he can to be his girlfriend ASAP so you probably didnt respond fast enough. it's gonna be hard to talk to him from now on
307031
Uh, are you looking for a soap opera script? He has a girlfriend so who cares if he likes you. Pay attention to who is available. Trust me, in the long run, you win if you chose those who are available.
881182
it means u should move on, since he already did.   sorry I have to break the news but blame your chick sh!t friend whom couldnt have the balls to tell u himself.
487586
um sorry sweetie but if he still likes you than why would he get a new girlfriend? i guess what you should do is let him go, it isn`t easy but still, if he comes back to you that`s how you know, besides if nothing happens then it wasn`t meant to be in the first place.
58932
If you are even considering another girl while you are with your current girlfriend - you shouldn't be with your current girlfriend.  Definitely, you need to get out of the relationship you are currently in.  It's for you to decide to take that risk if the other girl likes you or not though because I wouldn't tell her that you broke up for her or anything like that - I personally, wouldn't think that was cool.
673731
well if you are not going to see him again than i would just go up and tell him u like him if u do like him because i mean what do u have to lose? and if he likes you a lot then he will leave the other girl if she is still in the picture so yea good luck
245942
it kinda sounds like he's just using you as a rebound..like he'll still have his pride of "i still have another girl to go to" sort of thing\n\ni don't really know though, but if he liked you so much, why didn't he ask you out first instead of "i'll date you if the other date's bad"?\n\nwish you the best of luck =)
1066929
he can't keep playing you like that, telling you he's been with someone else just to make you jealous whether he's really been or not.  you do deserve better than that, someone you can put up with, someone who appreciates you, wont be with someone else or lie about being with someone else.  you need to move on, find someone who makes you happy, or maybe take a break from dating completely for a while to find out what you really want.
247066
It sounds like he probably had some interest in you but possibly not beyond friendship.  I'm betting he has another girl that he likes and he is shutting you out because of that.
834245
It's so obvious.  He's into that other chick and your interest in him made her jealous.  \n\nBy you going out with that other dude, he became jealous...best thing you coulda done.\n\nTexting him to see if he was ok... worst thing you coulda done.  Now he knows he has you wrapped around his finger!
1173632
Sounds like he likes you. So go for it. Maybe he had feelings for you which is why he had broke up with his girlfriend. He wants you and now he wants to see how you feel about him. Let him know by flirting back, hang out more, talk more and see how things work out.
2484
Personally, I would say no.  He sounds like he does not know what he wants, or worse, like he was waiting to see what would happen with her before he moved on to you.  And you should never accept being someone's second choice.
847385
weird, maybe he is with someone already, and was just teasin u?\nhope not
521752
THIS IS NOT AN EASY SUBJECT!! FIRST HE NEEDS TO ASK HISSELF WHAT HE WANTS FROM HER A FRIEND OR A GF! CAUSE ONCE YOU CROSS THAT LINE ITS HARD TO GO BACK. AND HE DOESNT NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THE GF HE HAS RIGHT NOW. WHAT IF HE LOSES HER AN THE OTHER GIRL DOESNT HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS FOR HIM. BE CAREFUL IF YOU ARE GIVING THIS PERSON ADVICE. SOMEONE COULD GET HURT!!!
74331
He might have liked chatting to you online because he imagined that he had some kind of a relationship with you, and there was a chance that he would meet you in the future and you could become his girlfriend. When he heard you were dating someone else it may have seemed like you were cheating on him, and you too were like the girls who hurt his feelings in the past. Dont tell this guy where you live, he has alot of growing up to do.
828902
i think he likes you but wasn't ready to make a big commitment after his last break up. so that's why he said he just wants to be friends! and next time the subject comes up on IM just say you do like him. i hope everything goes well!
947588
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.