When do you think it is okay for you to lose your virginity?
455584
When your father dies.  I have daughters.  Trust me on this one.
523386
In my opinion its bad. I m now 20 years old girl . I m saving my virginity for my marrige .For my husband .. Not know who is he .? he from where or anything about him ?\nI m confident in my life there will be only one sex partner \nI like keeping all relations pure .\nI m an Indian girl .Love my country , Love our culture . \nHope I will get a virgin boy as my husband .\nIts not a tough thing .. staying as a virgin ...\nI beleve that is good ..
546119
Im glad to hear that there r  some more smart girls in the  world than i thought!!! i live in europe and rare who loose virginity being 16 or earlier there. I know in US there is different.  Congradulations!!!  Dont be affraid...U know when i lost mine? Last  year, being 21. And im very glad about that. Cause  i found that guy who i want to be with all my life...  And  i am so proud i could had that  moment with him only.  im not sorry   i have been waiting till this moment so long. I remember the minute, wheh i told him i am still a virgin. He was. liek "wow...  im proud.."  trust me, he adores me now, cause  nowadays it is so  hard to find virgin girls..  We r going to get marriage in the future...  And i am so happy :))))))\n\nSo dont   be affraid..If u feel  this is a man u wanna be with,  of course tell him, he is going to be first. I odnt see anything u should be shame of... What going on with the world today...   Why we r trying to get adults so fast..  There r so many pure things, which we r forced to be shame of...\n\nI am with you!!!!\n\nSo wish u luck  on sharing that special moment with a guy u love and wnat to be with.   U will always rememebr that moemnt :))))))))\n\nps. sorry, if my english is not as perfect as i wish it to be :))))))))))
1152542
Yes I was.  I was a virgin until I was 22.  I don't regret waiting at all.  But I wait because I wasnt ready to have sex with anyone that I had met prior to that point.
45825
think about it\nif you have a fantastic think , you will deliver it fastly or you keep it with you the most time you can?\nthe virginity is the fantstic lovely think, keep it in order to enjoy with it teh most you can
886983
On the contrary, there are plenty of men who prefer an INexperienced woman. It's 50-50 really, just a matter of preference. 25 is a suitable age for a woman to lose her virginity, if that is your inclination. Personally I see it differently, but I will not judge you by my standards. You want to wait for awhile so it is something more special than it would be if you did it when you were younger. That takes a lot of discipline, especially with peer pressure. Stick with it, but it will be hard. A lot of men say mean things when they find out that they cannot get any from a girl. Real mean things, even when they were sweet as sugar before. Men can be such surpreme assholes to women sometimes, so be ready for it, and stick to your guns. There are few things as satisfying as sticking to something so extremely long term that you proclaimed you would stick to, and other people look up to that, even though they say degrading things about it just because they are jealous they don't have the resolve you do and may want you to fail to validate their own perspectives. Good luck.
789304
i love virgins.  there is nothing wrong in saving your self for the right person.  i feel that there is moe to life and a relationship than sex.  i would love to meet a virgin my self because ther is no presure to have sex and you can have all the fun you want and have a real relationship with the person you are with. I must be the only guy but if you want to chat just im me.
900141
Yes. I feel that innocence and virginity are sacred things. One can dance around its edges mentally and physically, but it is oh so easy to cross that line.
279196
That is a personal decision between only you and your loved one.  Considering that some people never do get married and remain single their entire life it would be impractical for those individuals to wait until marriage.  If they did they would remain virgins their entire life and that would be asking too much.  This is my suggestion--I believe people in their teens are not mature enough to deal with the emotional issues of having sex.  They should wait until their 20s and should also be in a very loving and trusting relationship when losing their virginity.  That’s what my husband and I did.  We have been married 19 years, are very in love, and wouldn’t change a thing.
501757
Losing your virginity is obviously not something that you can take back - once you do it, that's it.  If you are experiencing increased libido, which is perfectly normal, then try masterbating.  I'm not saying that to be funny - everyone does it.  Call me crazy, but I think that you should know your own body before you decide to give it to someone else.  Ultimately, only you can truly decide if and when to become sexually active.  Personally, I think that if you have doubts, then you are probably not ready.  Also, as you mentioned there can be serious consequences.  If you do decide to become sexually active, then PLEASE protect yourself.
1008099
You should not be ashamed of being a virgin.  If you choose to be, then no one else has a right to put you down for it.  You are making the best decision in saving yourself for the right person.  You may of had chances back then, but you realize that maybe you aren't ready.  People should respect that.  If that is your choice, then don't be ashamed.  Be proud!
334045
i think you're still a turn on. i think more women nowadays should stay virgins until marriage. i've kissed guys of course, just on the lips or cheek though, but ive never dated or made out with a guy or girl. and im planning on keeping my virginity until im married or have met the one i know im going to marry. go virgins! :P
1092797
YES IT'S OK TO REMAIN A VIRGIN.   YES YOU SHOULD REMAIN A VIRGIN.  SAVE YOURSELF FOR THE MAN YOU LOVE AND GIVE YOUR ALL TO HIM ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT.  THAT'S THE WAY GOD INTENDED IT. \nIF HE REALLY LOVES YOU, HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND BE WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE.  (YES...IT'S HARD TO WAIT)    BUT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU....HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND WON'T DEMAND ANYTHING OF YOU.\n\nBESIDES....SOME GUYS LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS ...........\n"WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?"     NOT SAYING YOU'RE A COW...JUST USING AN EXAMPLE..."WHY WAIT TO MARRY A GIRL WHEN I CAN GET SEX FROM HER WITHOUT THE RING?"\n\n"MAKING LOVE"  AND "HAVING SEX"  ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.\n\nMAKING LOVE IS GIVING YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR LOVE TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND ARE MARRIED TO.\n\nHAVING SEX IS JUST THAT !!!!   HAVING SEX WITH A PARTNER.\n\nIS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?   \n\nYOU LOVE HIM, HE'S DEMANDING SEX. DON'T DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID YOU'LL LOSE HIM IF YOU DON'T.  IF HE DROPS YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE SEX ........HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. NOT REALLY... IN LOVE WITH YOU...BECAUSE IF HE IS..........HE'LL RESPECT YOU AND WAIT.\n\nHOPE THIS HELPS...\nDON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
345796
I don't think there is realy an age that is appropriate, because all people have different maturity levels at different times in their lives. I lost mine at the age of 16 and I'm 22. My boyfriend got my drunk and basically took advantage of me. Don't get me wrong, I could have said no, but I didn't. Today I wish I would have waited. Thinking about when my son gets older and if he ever asked mom, when did yo first have sex. Most parents would never hear that so I probably won't, but what if they were to ask? Although, I would never take it back because it got me where I am today, I've been happily married for two years with a gorgeous ten month old son. People make mistakes, but hopefully they learn from them. Society isn't the problem I don't think. i think the parents and schools need to start at a young age teaching values, because they are lacking somewhere.
193262
There's no "right" age to lose our virginity, just the right moment to lose it, and that's when you're prepared in all senses.
158777
Sex is never necessary--period.  Sex can lead down all the wrong roads either through an unwanted pregnancy or through an uncurable STD that will be with you as long as you breathe.  Don't rush into anything.  Your virginity is something you can NEVER recapture, and you should place some value on it.  I'm not saying wait for marriage, but wait for the right person and the right time.
389652
no, ur virginity is not something people can just buy. it should be a special moment where you feel that it would mean the world to give it to your special lady.