wHY DO pEOPLE hAVE TO bE SUCH aS@HOLES WHEN iM NICE tO THEM?
458309
So??? Stop being so NICE. Give back what they gave you and you'll be okay. TRUST me!
582000
Because they think they're better than others, or either they're insecure about themselves and try to find fault in others just for the heck of it. It happens a lot nowadays, you just have to learn to be more open-minded. If people dont like you for who you are, that's their problem.
422630
Hey i let my imaturity show all the time, people appreciate it. Especially when they arent in a good mood. it cheers them up! so acting like a moron around others a big Plus in PR
284566
its all in the way you carry yourself. what you believe in and what your self esteem be at. i think i am a likeable guy because i try to be friendly n try to carry myself with respect not only for myself but others...though i do make mistakes. i am not perfect lol. people have their faults n when you have friends who know of these faults n are still there for ya...you just knowyou doing something right.
183806
People are mean because being mean to another person makes them feel good about themselves. Mean and rude people usually have a low self esteem and they have to put other people down so that they feel good. Pity them and ignore them! =-)
167797
they just want to be nice about it but really its not because your thinking things are cool when in fact they dont have no attention of talking to you again. People need to not say things they dont mean.
74980
Coz you want them to in a way. Why be sooo negative man, look at it differently and u'll see ppl do like you.
664703
No, it's actually the opposite.  Being courteous and having manners are a way of showing you respect people - being rude is nothing more then a direct insult to the person you are dealing with for cheap attention.  They do it so that their third-party friend can be impressed; but in reality they are showing what their friend is in for from them if they ever get on their wrong side.\n\nThere really is nothing cooler then someone who knows how to carry himself (or herself) in a manner that has earned the respect from all. And there is nothing cool about trying to be cool by being disrespectful.  The guys you saw are just that: little boys.
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Because nice people are nice, they think more about other people. Mean people think more about themself and their benefit, and take advantage on nice ones.\n\nI have been hurt a lot but just can't stop being nice (being myself), even though I am getting wiser after each time I get hurt.\n\nWish there're less mean ppl and more nice ones in the world, life must be much more enjoyable ...
826524
cuz guyz like u are assholes
677292
yes people do that. It's apart of society. It's really sad because there are so many nice and good people out there that may look or act a certain way, but have a heart of gold. I've done that myself and I'm sorry to say because i did that it took a long time to find out a certain person was as nice as she could be. I just though because of how she looked and acted that she wasn't worth the time to get to know. Plus the people i rolled with or looked up too didn't want to deal with people that wasn't like them or worth the time to use. After growing up and learning the hard way that this mind set only brings u pain and sometimes embarassement. Because so many of the girls that were popular in school are now like haggs. Gotten fat and look old because of the way they lived. SO, it doesn't pay to judge or even think that u are better than anyone else. Because the best person in the world are those that aren't considered worth anything. So hun don't worry about what they think or feel about u, be u and confident in yourself. SOmeone out there will come to like u for u. Trust me I know. I would be glad to get to know u and be your friend. I don't meet strangers, you only become a stranger to me if u start acting like a butthole. So, look for more people like me there are some out there. God bless u hun.
1176369
The ones I know are among the nicest people I've ever met.  They're nice because they want to be, not because they are told they have to be, they're nice because they want to be.  To me, that's the right reason.
160823
It probably means that you need more self-confidence.  It's really not a matter of nice, but guys who don't have the confidence to make the first move, etc., often come across as being "too nice."\n\nBottom line:  Don't be a jerk, but don't be afraid to make a move.
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The same thing happens to me, and I don't really understand either.  It might be their conceitedness, but it really depends on the person.  It takes a while to find a good person, so keep at it.  Think of it as a way to filter out the bad friends and colleagues; going for the best instead.  If they don't talk to you, maybe they're having a bad day, or even going through the same thing as you.
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Maybe you're just a little more mature than others your age.  There's nothing wrong with being nice, but that's not enough.  You need to add some flare, like humor, or be like Napolean Dynamite and use a skill. haha.  But you get the idea, nice is just nice, you need to express more than that in your personality because the nicest guy in the world could be very boring or very exciting, it just depends on what else there is besides being nice.
736613
its possible that someone is grumpy but others still like being around them because they are fun, or show that they care or are sweet, etc, etc. in other ways. maybe they dont take it personally, they just think that youre grumpy in general but not a bitch.... its totally possible
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May be ur making them feel uncomfortable and testing their patience. always be loved by people.\nso make them fell comfortable when they r with u.