I completely ignore my office crush and it hurts... What should I do?
465000
Your doing the right thing.  Your crush is in a relationship and ultimately is not going to be around any more.  For your sake and hers, you need to continue to just ignore her and your feelings for her.  Focus on your own life and relationships.  Ultimately time will make things easier.  Right now your just wasting your life away making it harder on yourself and your relationships by letting this be anything more than a crush.
948852
Hey kumar.....bothered by dirty office politics.....here's the solution buddy......\nfirst of all u must know what is ur prime goal or what u want to achieve by working in that office.....once u know that u back ur desire to achieve that with a firm determination.....just forget about those pimps who trouble u......god will give them appropriate punishment one day.......try being jovial and try befriending them ......u r destroying an enemy if u r turning him as ur friend......if it does not work , then aim higher man, someday u may be the boss of the bosses......just dream big , and back it by a strong desire to succeed....
915433
If you like each other go for it.  Get together outside of the office.  you can't be scared of what will happen if it doesn't work out.  If everyone was like that then no one would ever get together.  If there is an office policy that coworkers can not date then you need to be sneaky.  You never know, you might have found your soul mate.
30868
I know how you feel. I've been there. The best thing you can do is go up to him and start a casual conversation.  It doesn't have to be anything gushy. It can simply be about music, movies/tv shows, or any other interest you may have in common with him.  Do you know anything about him?  I know it's scary but you soon get use to it.  I use to have a major problem like that. feeling scared of rejection. Be yourself.  There is no point in him noticing you if it's not you.  Plus, trying to be someone else is very uncomfortable and you end up worrying even more.  As I said, trust me i know.  Walk up to him.  Find something appropiate and causaul for the circumstance. Is it at school?/work?/anywhere else. Do you know what kind of music he likes? If you don't, ask him.  Maybe you'll find a common interest. Just say,"Hey! What's up! So what kind of music do you like?"
711094
whatever it is, it's a stupid game so just start liking someone else who doesn't play with your feelings.  I think it's sort of cruel to do that if you have told him you are attracted to him.  He has no class.
1088178
Try going out for a friendly lunch or after hours meeting and discuss your feelings or simply to get away from the prying eyes of your co-workers. See if there is an attraction or if nothing can come of it, for whatever reason, accept that and move on. Agree to remain friends without the unnecessary tension.
1053380
thats what happened to me  and i am learning to keep my self busy and not thinking about him and i think its working cuz now i don't think about him as much as i used to so my advise to you is to try to forget about him unless you know he will be back cus if he doesnt go back whats the point of liking someone who you know he won't be with you...so please dont waist your time and try to forget about him look for someone who will be there with you.good luck
729654
As soon as you enter the office, say to yourself----"IT's SHOWTIME!"\n    tHen you pretend you are an actor, and that you have to be nice and cool to this co-worker.  Or you can just simply IGNORE HER, close your eyes and ears whenever she's around.  Get an Ipod, and listen to it when she's there.  Keep yourself extremely busy so you won't have space for her.
207695
It's nobody else's business who you go out with,you shouldn't be concerned about your collegues' opinion of\nyour personal life. However,gossip is one of the biggest\nproblems with office relationships. If you don't want to deal with it,then you better not date him.\n Be aware of your company's position on this kind of thing.\nIn some places it can get you fired,so that's something else\nto consider.
367742
I would recommend that you just try and relax and slow down. Through personal experiences i have learned that 99% of the time you are worrying over nothing, and there is a good chance your crush is feeling the same way you are. I would recommend trying to break the ice by using humor or if your not good at that just talk about things that interest you. If your crush isn't interested in those things then you probably wont work out anyways because you have none of the same interests. Just remember there are plenty of fish in the sea, relax, if you don't get this one you will find another.
435479
sadly, there isn't one. rejection hurts. rejection from someone you think your in love with crushes. the best thing you can do is "break it to him gentally" if you let him down easy it might still hurt a lot, but not as much as if you just all out dump him without explanation. in the long run, if you break it to him easy, it will be easier for him to let you go
163637
Don't go there, That is grounds for a sexual harrassment case waiting to happen.  If you let on that you like him, or if you reported it to others, either one of you could be fired.  Find another job before you even think about telling him you like him.
1184616
that already happened to me...its very difficult to get over this guy...specially if he always talks to you..i bet he only thinks of you as a friend, so when he comes talk to you, always smile and be nice (because someday..act like a friend...but you should try to replace him... look for some new guys and eventually kiss them...make new friends and go out with them.... be sure to always be occupied and try to think of him the least possible... each day that passes you will see that your love will decrease...
333753
you need to seriously cut down on spending time with him and phone calls, etc. he's just not into you that way. the only way to get over him is to distance yourself.\n\nCall up some other friends and become very busy and important!! \n\nYou might be surprised how much you won't be thinking about him after a week or two. \n\nGetting away from the situation always puts things in perspective. you will come to find that he is not amazing enuff for you to agonize over!
787173
Think twice before you start something with someone you work with. If she is not interested in you, you will feel uncomfortable around her in the future. How will that affect you at work?
1093272
Hellloooooo I think you've slipped into my office and I didn't see you. I can so totally, completely relate...I've been totally going through the same thing so much so I have visions of throwing this one person out of the window....\n\nAnyway - you're NOT alone honey...
837814
well swearing off love altogether probably isn't the best solution, as for the crush, I would tell him how you feel espeacially if you think he may feel the same way but doesn't think you do