my boyfriend hasnt done anything for me not to trust him but sometimes i feel i dont what should i do?
459908
I'm wondering if this feeling came before or after you got pregnant. Sometimes when a woman is insecure about herself, she will be insecure in her relationship. Don't let it ruin your situation. Theres a good old saying "If it aint broke dont fix it!!
653244
If you dont trust him then you shouldnt be together.  E/one needs a part of them, all to themselves.  He's telling you stuff, so just accept what he tells ya.  But you need to see others as well.  Sneaky is not good.
636367
If you cant trust your "boyfriend" enough to spend a few days alone with him then he probably shouldn't be your boyfriend...
243074
I had a boyfriend that went away for a job one time, I was concerned because I never completly built my trust with him. So one day I went on his laptop and found that he was chatting and meeting with other girls on his buisness trip. So I confronted him on it, he denied it, but when I brought up the fact that I had evidence he confessed to it all... I say if there is a gut feeling then you need to go with that. If you are always insecure then you just need to start over with someone else. Just confront him and ask him....
302310
He's either going to trust you or he isn't.  There isn't anything you can do.  He's the one that has to do the doing.  He has to change.
895215
Hopefully the feeling is mutually (meaning your boyfriend loves you). If so, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. If your boyfriend is a mature individual he will not listen to outside sources. If he feels that something may be true than he should come directly to you...go directly to the source. Just remember people are petty. People will do anything and everything to get what they want...especially if they are involved with someone else...you always want what you can't have.
1136822
Seems like you have answered your own question, where is the relationship if there is no trust!!! I know what you mean tho. you can't change someone, they have to recognise their failings, and choose to do something about it. Try speaking with him about how you feel and see what he says..Then you will know whether he is willing to make steps to change his behaviour toward you, if he doesn't then you know what youve got to do
1048170
Hiding something from you means it wasn't innocent. Apparently you found them, though, so I can only imagine the trust issues you and your boyfriend have. And this is the real problem.\n\nYou're either going to have to work out what the two of you trust the other to do and be okay with it, or you're going to have to figure out an amicable way to go your separate ways. The relationship will only go sour for both of you - if it isn't already - if you can't find a way to trust each other.\n\nBy the way, way to use your intuition - I mean it - to uncover what he was "innocently" lying about. That you would have to dig is the smaller issue. That he would hide something he knew you wouldn't find innocent is the bigger issue. Good luck.
395080
Trust is what keeps relationship rolling!\nU may start wondering, DO U TRUST HIM? DO U TRUST YoURSELF? DO U STILL BELIVE THAT u 2 CAN WORKOUT TOGETHER???? And only than, if U belive, \nask him a qestion, look him strait in the eyes, and U'll see, TRUTH or LIE, but U'll just know...
324931
Watch the tape with him, and point out why it cannot be you.\nIf he doesn't have a tape he is a psycho. Or he's just bluffing to try to get you to "tell the truth". And that's just sick.\nIf he doesn't trust you over something someone else said, he is not worth your time, and will never trust you, because there is nothing you can say or do to prove your innocence. My ex boyfriend played little mind games with me all the time, and didn't trust me. People with trust issues like that have one of two things wrong with them 1. he was cheated on before and can't trust anyone anymore 2. He himself is not trustworthy. Take your pick. He's probably got more issues than a news stand. I'd dump him. I know it sounds tough, because you have some history, and you probably love him if you're going through the trouble of trying to make things right, but seriously, if he doesn't believe anything you say, do you think you can be happy with him?
34459
Make sure to tell him some of your feelings too, so he knows u trust him with yours, if that doesn't work, then try getting it from him by not asking him directly, make sure he knows that u trust him enough and that ur worth knowing
894244
you dont so if you dont trust him leave him save yourself the stress
1084890
Good relationships are built in part on a foundation of trust and respect.  It's obvious that he doesn't trust you because he suspects you of cheating when you are not.  It's also obvious that he doesn't respect you because he doesn't believe you when you tell him the truth.  Based on that, your relationship cannot go far, however much you would like it to.\n\nYou have to decide what you will do now.  No one can really tell you how to live your life.  But it were me, I would break up with this fellow.
409090
Because he isn;t trust worthy.  Say this to him "_______ you told me if i couldn't trust you then we need to break up.  Well i can;t trust you because of the way you're acting and if you're not willing to help me to trust you by not acting that way then guess what, goodbye"  dump him before he cheats and really breaks ur heart.
63945
It is not hard.  The lack of trust could be that he has done something that violated her trust.  I had a friend who accused everyone one of his girlfriends of cheating, but he was the one who cheated.\n\nSometimes it could be that he was hurt by a girlfriend that cheated on him.  Either way, you are a different person from his past girlfriends and he should not be so mistrusting.
133007
Something is telling you not to trust this man. Why are you hesitating? Trust your gut feeling. There is nothing wrong with telling him no. You will find someone who you trust. Besides sex should be without love.
234438
well considering y ou cheated on him should he trust you ?\ni have a bf that is the same way im not allowed to even tak to guys i cant visit my sister caz she lives with her bf and my x always goes over there to see them and i never cheated on him i only cheated on my x wit him and he wont 4get that and you cheated on your man jst ask yourself whether you'd b able to ever fully trust him if he'd cheated on you