do you think it 's strange if a person during sex love to be bit really hard?
463581
in my opinion she is not a freak.....she is freaky!!!! and there ain't nothing wrong with being freaky... a lot of women enjoy pain during sex (examples : biting, spanking, hair pulling, hot wax, scratching, slapping, being handcuffed...you know stuff like that).
912382
Ill effects?  Hmmmm.... that's a hard one... haha.  Perhaps enjoying it so much you do it more and more - to the point of rubbin' it raw?  You can get sexually deprived, but, dude, it's not likely to happen from strokin it now and then...or daily even.
868214
It could be one of many things, one he is not into you , two he dose have a medical problem, or three this one happens to a lot of guys even though they don't admit to it, he is more then likely thinking about the ups and downs about sex which is taking the emotional feeling away, which makes him go down way to fast. just don't take it to heart, he is more frustrated about this then you!
937138
Getting caught up in the moment is so hot. I love getting into rough wild sex after really going at it for awhile. I could get into anything, spanking, talking dirty, trying new things - its all good baby!!! Your soooo normal baby!!
638985
Yes usually it hurts the woman. Be careful and gentle and take your time. If it hurts to much take a break and maybe talk about trying another time. I hope you will use protection and be responsible.
1056028
Yes. Especially if she has a hymen. Then there's lots of bleeding. \n\nMost other times it hurts a little because it's a new experience. \n\nGood Luck!
160089
Yup...it is perfectly normal...albeit kinda embarrasing.  All it is is air that gets compressed during intercourse escaping from the vagina....
311601
Can you explain a little more? What kind of "hurt" are you talking about? Is it self-inflicted? Is it dangerous? \nI am somewhat of a masochist and what other people consider pain, I consider pleasure...but I always make sure that my partners are aware of what I can and cannot handle. If you think it's more than this, please talk to someone who you think can help, preferrably offline. If you do want to elaborate, people here can be of more help.=)
196550
It's perfectly normal. They might be in your growing stage right now, but it's perfectly all right. But, I would still get a check on it if your boyfriend is touching them too hard...
652476
I guesss it depends on how it is done. If it forceful well yeah it hurts like hell, I should know that but honey like I told men before when they would bring it up....that is an EXIT area only. I guess you aren't weird, some do like it more than vaginal sex, not sure exactly why, but to each their own.\nJust be sure to use protection either way.
664260
I don't think I have ever met a guy who doesn't like to receive.  If he "came" then chances are it was very enjoyable for him.\nI think the rule of thumb is to be consistent while doing it.  Do not become sporatic with your technique.
477631
Yes, it is possible. Just as for men, female orgasms can be very different and their intensity can vary a lot too. Some can be really draining. Then again, it can be a nice excuse to avoid sex... I think that by observing her reactions you can estimate if her orgasms are really so intense and draining.
639278
Yes.Very common.After intercourse your body's blood flow is\nrushing intensely.
1120461
yes! though there are times when we can be aroused and our bodies take a while to respond... women need foreplay etc... dont be worried if she is not wet immediately.
76410
Yes, it certainly can be, especially the first few times and if you don't use good lubrication. The more anxious you are about it the more likely it is to hurt. Don't let your partner persuade you to do it if you are unsure. \n\nPlease, if you do go through with it, use a condom. Go slow. Use fingers to get you used to expanding your rectum. Use personal lubricant made for sex. \n\nIf it hurts stop. Make your partner agree to stop if you say so. If it hurts and he doesn't stop scream.
864006
Do you like it when he does it hard? Excuse me Bonnie, dont let a man control sex? Since when do men just beat up a womans body if they control sex. I am sure that happens, but I think that is a pretty stereotypical comment.\nI think it is important to have a mutual relationship and equal control giving and taking... I think that you just need to tell him what feels right to you and if its hurting after the sex and its bothering you cause of that, then tell him so. He should respect you and you should be able to be open about that. It probably is some minor irritation or bruising if he is doing it too hard and nothing to be alarmed about otherwise. If it starts happening other times then consult a doctor. Just know that its your body and you need to take control as in being open about it with your partner
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Maybe I am confused but isn't it supposed to be the opposite of soft to have sex???