why for some beauty is all?why they don't know ur personality ? ur soul?
455209
Let me guess. You got top grades in English, right?
941442
They are projecting - pure and simple.  They have probably suffered rejection or worse from women that makes them all  enemies in their minds, especially the attractive ones.  A good way to judge a person's character is by how they treat strangers.  If they are rude or mean to strangers they generally are people with low self esteem.
259592
People should like you becuase of who you are \nyour personality is usually whats get them...
1023616
What cracks me up is that we are all lumped together.  Not all men or women or fake.  And not all of us are stuckup.  I admit some are.  Usally the really pretty ones or real handsome men will be that way, but they are the ones I feel sorry for, I dont envy them at all.  I look deeper to your heart and that is where I find the beauty.  So please dont lump us all together.
291118
It is how one perceives you. You may be good for someone and ugly for another one. I guess what is more important is to be beautiful mentally :-)
1084203
looks matter 2 some xtent. bt  i personally feel the outer look is not at all important. bcoz outerlook doesnt exist 4 life long. wht it matters is ones personality which ll help u 2 identify tht person. so 4 me i would prefer beautiful personality n average looks.
1035635
Because we are all different...that is the way we are suppose to be.  \n\nit is hard to understand other's beause we are not them.
1047880
i think that people are beautiful for various reasons.....the number #1 reason being that we are individuals and not one soul on earth is like another...and through many experiences its more the person you are than the way you look....ive met many "beautiful people" and after getting to know them they werent so beautiful and vice versa.......now i know what your thinking only the not so good looking would say that but ive been advised by many people that i fit into the "beautiful people" category....but you know what i dont really care because i care about who you are and not what you are.......however as sinful as it is after what ive said i do think that some mixed people are beautiful.....they tend to (not always) have what most try to get with tanning beds and contacts.....the perfect olive skin tone just dark enough to give off a bit of sensual mystery with beautiful eyes, but that beauty can easily change if the you inside is ugly.......(p.s. not that it matters but just for the info im mixed with native american and english)
505308
The essence of life is the soul, the individual human soul.  I do not believe it does disappear, but transforms.  It is not a "faith," in the sense that I feel I must believe it, but a "working hypothesis."  Make of it what you will.  I figure there is no justice unless I get to come back and get it right!  I deserve a shot at being one of those beautiful, slim, elegant, intelligent, graceful, charming ladies that my soul knows it can be.  I've been good (relatively speaking), and this dumpy old body ain't reward enough!
672551
Because, society is shallow. and the person you want to go out with is most likely shallow.\nThe want a told beauty instead of their own... culture today has named and shamed the people who they think aren't beautiful...\nAnd it might be because you havent asked him :)
1109194
Because of influence and unawareness.\nYour soul has a purpose, this world distracts it. It's a challenge and life is a challenge. \nI believe people act unlike themsleves for many various reasons. But it all comes down to Fear.\nFear of rejection, fear of embarassment, fear of downfalls, fear of supierority.\nWhen really, an aware person realizes life is not about such things.\nRegardless of the other 13 year old who thinks they have it going on, you are you. And you have a purpose, give it to yourself.\nGood Luck.
21739
Because some people only see outer beauty, others see outer and inner beauty. To some people, everything, even tragedy is beautiful. \nI guess it just matters on your personal tastes and views as to what is truly beautiful!
665369
I've wondered the same thing myself recently. But I've concluded that you can never really know who you are, because you're constantly changing and growing. So you shouldn't expect other people to understand you either, because you're different so much. Keep on writing though, you'll be happy to be able to look back.
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Yes, I have had the unfortunate experience of meeting extremly good looking people who are just ugly and ill tempered and mean, because they are so self centered and evil spirited that they think they are "it"...\n\nAnd I have met some people whos appearance are unfortunate to have, but they have such a kind heart, and warm personality that you WANT to be with them because they have this "something" that is such a wonder and loving person, that you cant get enough of them...\n\nBeauty is only skin deep, but, ugly is to the bone!\n\nIf your personallity is plain ugly, then your impossible to be around, but, if your are not so good looking and such a wonderful person that you "shine", then everyone will treasure your friendship...\n\nI wish you well...\n\nJesse
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Well, statistically personality tops high over looks. But to me, looks atracts me first but personality controls the attraction. I have looked at many girls and I chooses looks over them. However, their personalities are what affecting my attraction to them.\n\nSome girls may looked beautifully attractive but their bad personalities may disgraced God's gifts to them. They made their looks ugly in the eyes of me. \n\nSome other girls may looked unattractive but with kind hearts, they grace their looks with the shine of kindness.\n\nBeing a young and educated person makes feel that personality is the best not looks. But to be honest, some girls who are not quite attractive but have good and noble hearts do attract me but with intervals. I mean that I do not feel attracted to them because their not quite beautiful although are kind. For some beautiful girls but have unkind hearts, they also attract me with their good looks but their personalities make me rethink.\nI know that I am not being fair to everybody including myself but that is what happening now and I confidently believe that I will change. Experience will surely help along with knowledge.\n\nWell, like the wise ones had said, "Beauty is only skin-deep". Good personality is what making a living soul live happily not looks.\n\nI do not know if you understand which is really more important but I hope you will, just like me.\nBy the way, I do not act like I am attracted to others but in my heart, yes. Maybe it is my ego that made me do that.
474708
What gives you the right to say that another person is ugly?  When was the last time you looked into your soul?
784537
It could be that something about you has dazzled them.\nYou caught their attention and perhaps they'd just like\nto get to know you better.