could anybody please advise me how to please my girl friend.she hates my doubting upon her truthfulness to me.
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This happens alot in my house, mainly becaise my husband is from India and I am American. He says things and it set's me off fairly fast then I make every one mad. To avoid this, dont say things you know she dont want to talk about, it it is sticking in your mind, then write it in ajernol, but stop talking on topics that are touchy for her. It's not always easy, infact it will feel like you give more effort then she and latter in life it will come back to hurt you, so learn now to let things go, because you will have other issues to deal with that are far more important. Choose your words wisely, and learn to live as one or not at all.
530742
you answered your own question. if you are that insecure, you should just leave her alone. you say she trusts you, so why don't you trust her?
189764
rainyday and sailor diva have the right idea.  I think from knowing someone like this that she just wants to feel good about herself so she "brags" about things that aren't really reality.  As long as she isn't being hurtful to you, and you are her friend, I say just let her.  Smile and say great and change the subject.  She will probably out grow this when she actually feels good about herself in a relationship.
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This is a hard question to answer see that i dont know you or ur gurl.BUT that aside id say talk to her!are there signs like shes hang out with new guys or gifts she cant explain! Also think about this has she EVER given you a reson NOT totrust her!!! Before you acuse her of cheating Make sure you are sure she is because that would just be plain  hurtful if your wrong. The best thing i can say is trust her until she gives you a reson not 2.
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Communicate and then communicate more.  Different people have different ways of feeling secure and loved.  Which does she respond to best?  Gifts?  Doing a favor for her without being asked? Words of assurance and acceptance? \n\nHer way of having her "love tank" filled may be different than yours.  Find out what kind of fuel she needs and I suspect your sex life will improve too.
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Trust just like respect is not something that is handed to you in a relationship it is earned.  This is your proving ground now, a second chance in a sense, you earn trust by being trust worthy.  Show her you can be trusted and won't lie again unless you want a nose like Pinocchio!  : ^ )
571687
Be a man, tell the girl you can't live like that. If she cheats now, she will cheat again. Don't fall for tears and empty promises.
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Listen, the only thing that you can do is sit there and listen and prove yourself worthy in one situation if she needs you she will come to you if she is aware that you are willing to be there and listen. There is no use trying to push her into trusting you when that is probably what she is really afraid of.
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WOW!!!!!\n\nI'm shocked that you actually want the kissing, hugging, fondling, and tenderness. Most men could care less about that. Most men just want to do the deed and get it over with. It is usually all about his needs.\n\nYour girlfriend must be crazy!!!!\n\nMaybe you should give her dose of her own medicine. Stop giving in to her demands for a while and see how she likes it.\n\nBe honest and tell her how you feel about the whole situation and ask her how she would feel if the roles were reversed?\n\nHonestly, stop giving in to her demands if she can't meet yours!!!!\n\nTell her that you refuse to please her if she can't please you. Put your foot down.\n\nAnd if she can't handle it then maybe you should look for a new girl-friend.\n\nBecause believe me there are plenty of other women out there who would love to get a hold of a guy like you!!!!!! \n\nAnd you can tell her that I said so.\n\nYou deserve better than what she is willing to give you. A relationship is 50/50.\n\n\nTell her that she needs to meet your needs if she wants you to meet hers.\n\nTell her how it makes you feel when she keeps turning you down over and over. Then give her an example of something that you do for her that she likes. Ask her how she would feel if you were to stop doing this for her? And stop doing it.\n\n\nI really hope things can work out for you 2. But if not don't be discouraged because there are plenty of women out there willing to do what you want hands down!!!!!\n\nAs far as the dawg comment it is true but, if men are dawgs for not then what does that make a woman who doesn't a *****?\n\nOfcourse it does. Anyone who is one sided in a relationship is man or woman. None of us are perfect but we have to be willing to furfill our partners needs. There is nothing wrong with trying something new and different atleast once to see if you are into it or not. My motow is don't  knock it until you've tried it!!!!!!!!
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It could be her asking her friends to do her a favour by testing how faithful you are. Trust me, some girls can be THAT dumb!
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Common buddy,you don't need to hide any thing.Just be yourself as i believe your girlfriend chose you for who you are.So don't try to pretend to be somebody else.Now to hide temptation,you can do one thing....just keep talking to her as much as possible.That will make you feel easy with her and  will help you to get rid of your temptation.
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First off, why do you say she probably doesn't believe you? Have you done something to make her think otherwise? The best bet in any situation when you love someone is to be completely honest with them. You obviously want to let her know how you feel about her. There is always a chance of rejection in any situation, you just have to take the chance. Otherwise, you will spend your entire life somewhat regretting it if you just let her go on by.
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don't aggravate her by asking what's wrong a thousand times trust me on this my bf was going through the same thing with me, just hug her and tell her you love her often not just when you are about to leave her or get off the phone, tell her often and during your everyday conversation let her know out the blue that if theres ever anything she wants to talk about , you're there no matter what time it is or how petty or small she may think it is, you're always listening, there maybe times where she don't want you to say ANYTHING but just for you to be there to listen so let her know you're there tell her everyday so when the time come and she want to talk she already know that you're willing to listen
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By being honest and stubborn and even if that hasn't worked yet, it will. I'm sure she knows you care for her and wants to be with you, but there are probably tons of reasons why she just can't let herself trust you. Oh and don't ever threaten to leave her unless you really plan on going through with it completely and NOTHING she can say will change that. Especially if that is something that she fears.
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a bit unclear there in your wording, but speak to her calmly, and don't let her interrupt until you say what you want to, to clear yourself from this. Then tell her what you know without hurting her feelings, afterall she needs to know what you know. She will believe you and trust you then.
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I understand you love her to death but everytime you talk to someone of the opposite sex she is going to keep doing this. You have few options here you can put her in her place and just let her knwo your not going to stop communicating with the opposite sex just because she is insecure, you could never talk to the opposite sex again but that will make you miserable, or you could tell her how much her insecurities bother you and how unreasonable she is being but it sounds like everytime you talk to a female she turns into a big big bitch. Is that what you really want to deal with, ask yourself.
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Sorry, but,... didn't you say you LOVE her?  hint hint\n\nSince you love her??, perhaps you could consider communicating with her (lovingly) your feelings of being fulfilled or the lack thereof.  By the way, you can leave out the "wanting a boyfriend" part.  Maybe YOU could initiate different things in your relationship to enhance "the setting", "the mood" of it all.  What concerns me the most is that if the relationship you have with your girlfriend is coming down to being based on whether or not she's "fulfilling" you, then ALL the reasons you're in this relationship need to be examined.  That would be the fair thing to do,...for BOTH of you.  When you see a RED FLAG waving, pay attention.  Getting a boyfriend "to fulfill you", probably wouldn't be the wisest thing to do.  Take care.