baby daddy drama....?
458902
You are in charge of your child, no one else.  Unless the father lives with you and helps raise the child, then he doesn't have a damn thing to say.\n\nYOU can stop the drama.  You just have to be willing to accept that fact that you MIGHT have to cut the father out of the picture.  If the father is too busy humping around, then let go of that loser.  He obviously doesn't realize what he has (a family) and it might take his entire life to come to that realization.\n\nPlus, there are many, many better and bigger fish in the sea!\n\nKeep your head up girl, don't let a man get you down.  You have to stay strong and show your kiddo what it means to be a strong woman.  She needs you to show her that love is unconditional and caring, everything her father isn't.\n\nGood luck and much love!
542123
it sounds like it..just talk to him about whats going on...ur married and i hope everything works out..congrats on the new baby
901620
would you get with you if you were him? too much drama.\nBe an adult, don't wait for a guy in jail unless you are totally devoted, my neighbor is on that plan, "Do you till I get out" Ever heard of STDs unwanted pregnancy/abortion, getting labled as "easy and sleazy"?\nAct like a respectable lady and cut the drama out of your life now or you will always surround you.
429696
First things first make sure he has a DNA test to rule out being the daddy to the baby.If you really love him then tell him.Maybe you guys could just start over and begin a new life together.I would make sure that he understands that you do not want him seeing other women if you do decide to get back together.If he is the daddy to the baby do you think you could handle all the drama it will bring to you.Just think about what you need and want in this relationship.Good luck with everything dear.
514528
First of all my dear friend, you are too young for this man. I hope to God you have not had sex with this man for this is truly a case of statutory rape. Second, you have way too much life to live to be dragged into the middle of this drama...and believe me, the drama has only just begun. You will never have any peace with this man and his ex (especially since you have indicated that he already talked about going back, then you say, he wants nothing to do with her only for the baby -doesn't sound like a firm foundation to me) You need to run, run, run as far away from this situation as you can - you don't want to be the next one with child.
20541
That's a tough one.  There probably is something to some of the complaints but now it sounds like maybe he's been pegged as a problem - rightfully or not.  Why not run this one past a professional counselor who can look at things unbiased and unattached to the situation? It will cost some money, but hey, the kid is worth it!
576099
Tell her that Mommy and Daddy just didn't get along any more and have to live separately. This is pretty common nowadays so you may be surprised to learn that it won't affect your child that much so long as you are straight with her without being accusational toward the other parent. Tell her, that you are sure that her Daddy loves her, but if he doesn't ever make contact or show interest in contact, there isn't alot you can do about that. One day, she will be able to confront him on this on her own. Good luck to you.
497540
Tell him that you don't mind him going out when chances permit but that it would be nice for him to come and take his baby with him on occassion and give you some well deservred free time of your own while also bonding with his baby. Hello? Daddy?
814108
Yes, it's about time! Last time I paid attention, he was always leaving her to chill with his boys for the night and she seemed to be constantly having to take a vacation to her mama's house to relax. He's not father material, either. I didn't know they were divorcing, but it's good news to me.
329979
Sorry babes... Im out of line... Sooo sorry! Things are just hectic... and Im a little emotional. Anyways, I know you didnt mean it.\n\nI would answer this question though if I could! \n\nI got a shock when I seen you post the last question! LOL! Its quite funny actually. Anyway sweets, have a good day and im sorry. I hope that boy didnt report you! I did send him a e-mail telling him not to. Take care and thanks for the surprise! LOL! Heidi
777541
A baby is going to change your whooollleee life. You can't go on holidays anymore like you used to, can't decide to go on a date on a boring Saturday night and it's just too much to mention. Ask the people who are calling you stupid to go produce their own and quit bugging you. It's easy to sit on a pedestal and judge others. Not ready, not willing..whatever it is, no hurry! And he won't be waiting for you...you'll both be living your lives and loving each other still.
330320
yep, it seems that their all life couple is about the media and their exposure! So I think that their baby won"t escape it, unless they suddenly become aware that something has been going wrong!
382497
Be grateful that he isn't a deadbeat daddy for one thing! Talk to him about how you feel. I don't know the specifics about your relationship, but think about WHY you feel he is obligated to his baby's mother. Of course you should understand that he has a responsibility to his son.
715930
I'm on the fence.  I think there's something he's hiding, but I think there's more to the story than we're seeing.  I really thought he might be innocent right up until he couldn't remember whether he'd "stuck his tongue in his daughter's mouth".  Ok....HELLO!  That's not something you have to think about, but then again, I'm not sure that it's not just nervousness on his end and he's freaking.  Can't wait until Monday, I hope they get answers!
952822
Gee that kind of makes the daughter the boss of his life. Guess I would sure he gets it and if he chooses to let his daughter "run" his life you may want to rethink your involvement with him. :o(
524621
You need to take responsibility. YOU chose him as the father of your kids right??? You girls make the mistake of doing whatever they want with no regard to yourselves or your unborn children........Then whine when they "turn-out' to be idiots...Remember.. IF YOU PAY ATTENTION, Guys tell you who they are. LISTEN!
839218
Hi TaTa,   I hate to see you get hurt,but this guy is a player.He only cares about hisself and his needs.You will never be happy with this jerk. The problem is you cannot ever trust him again. Without trust you don't have a relationship.Besides that he will do it again and again. Kick his sorry A S S to the hurb, and find you a man who will treat you, and your baby with respect,trust and a caring man.You deserve alot better than your getting from the jerk. I'm wishing you and your baby all the luck and have a happy life. A Friend.\n\n  Clowmy