How do I get my boyfriend to make love to me?
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He may have lost attraction to you... sad to say. THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT.... you're having his kids for crying out loud!!! Personally, I would love my wife even more during that period, however, a lot of men arent like that. It probably has something to do with the weight you have gained from both pregnancies. You need to talk to him about your feelings and your concerns. Maybe marriage counseling would help... if you are both opened minded to that. You are going through a hard time now, physically, emotionally and all. I wish he was more supportive of you. Basically, dont take his selfishness and ignorance personal. You are doing a very important job right now and looks are secondary. Just my thought on the subject....\n\nCounselorDan
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You need to spend a day away from eachother. . .Send him off doing something he loves and then doll yourself up girl for when he gets home it's tim efor a little seduction ( ; \n\nUse that Extra lb to ride it harder than ever before ( ; He'll love it girl ( ; \n\nI hate to be blunt but, truly it will be good for both of you to do that ( ;
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well first of all put on sum sexy lingerie,dim the lights, maybe cook up sumthin nice for him and just try and make everythin romanitc and when he comes in u can pounceon him and start givn him **** or just take it kinda slow at first but b sexay and kinda tease him.u can evn take the lead..my man luvs when i do that lol..then maybe try sumthin new,not just the same thing everytime it will get old!!! well i hope i helped u!! good luck sweetie
151416
Not really knowing your boyfriend, the best general answer I can give is sexual favours. There is not a man on earth who wouldn't like for his SO to put out.
510497
How much pleasure do you want to give him?  \n\nIt doesn't take much.   \n\nCaress him while you kiss.  Whisper to him between kisses, about how sexy he is, and how wonderful he smells.
579561
try gettin your man to lift you up so that you are sittin on him with your legs around his waist and him inside you then he can press you up against a wall to help him support you...works for me anyway
780871
Maybe its because you just aren't relaxed enough when your with your bf.  You're body isn't ready to respond because you're mind is concerned that it won't happen.  Try just closing your eyes and relaxing and tell your boyfriend to give you lots of foreplay before he goes after your sweet spot.
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Talk it over with your boyfriend, openly and honestly. Discuss what worked then and what isn't working now. Discuss what each of you want out of the relationship and from sex. Ask questions about how you can please him, give information about how he can please you. Listen with your heart to what he is saying. Talk to his heart about your wants and needs. Then, after discussing, practice what you talked about. You might consider taking a night, a weekend, or a vacation away to get away from the usual distractions and focus on pleasing each other and putting your talk into action.
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Yes, there are many tricks that a girl can do to turn a guy on. Because you are discovering your own sexuality at the same time that your desires are fueled by temptations, I recommend a slower approach. As you get older, there will be many times that you will look back at your first experiences with a guy. It is important that you have no regrets because you will carry that particular sexual encounter with you forever. Please think about what I am saying, I speak from the heart.\nAs far as something that you can do to turn on your boyfriend, I have a few ideas that are sure to get your man excited. First, when the two of you are together and with friends, "feed his ego", point out something great about him and then finish off with "That's Hot" and then make sure your looking at him when you say it. Another idea is to make him feel more comfortable being alone with. For example, "get caught checking him out" say things like,"you are so sexy" or "you have a nice azz" stay away from words that involve love, relationship, or commitment, that really freaks a guy out when he has sxx on the brain. After you have had your fill of him, then you can use that type of dialog so that you can keep him. Put yourself in the situation that you picture in your head. Do not settle for less because if you do this the right way, you will have the best time ever. Make sure you think about the time you have together and do not get "into it" when you have to leave each other right after. In other words, have a plan, stick to it, and make sure that you have some great bonding time after. That's part of the good time as well and can also be just as hot! Remember when you are with your boyfriend, smile, be happy, be excited, get a little crazy and most important, be safe and don't open any doors that you can't close yourself! Good Luck!
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Are you overworked, kids, school or Stress? Maybe, your significant other can help you more with your responsibilities? In order to be intimate you have to be comfortable in the other aspects of your life. Talk to him and explain everything that going on in your life.  Tell him when your ready if he can be patient he'll know! Explain that sex will be more passionate etc when your not pressured, that way it wanted and you both can enjoy.
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Why can't you approach him? Has he lost his libido? if so you have to talk if you don't explain to him how you feel and that if he doesn't talk to you about it he may lose you to someone else.if he loves you he will talk. Masterbation works for some and not for others..invest in a vibrator (if you haven't already) and some naughty mags/ vids (honestly they help) and try that way, it won't go away and soon you will begin to feel resentful...best thing to do is talk and perhaps dress in something 'WOW' so he'll sit up and take notice if he doens't  something's going on...perhaps he feels he's not good enough etc....you gotta talk Good luck
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Look, be spontanious. While hes watching T.V. (long as its not something hes passionite about) start vacuming, he'll look at you and you'll be naked. Woo-Hoo!!! \nGo in the kitchen and cook. Take off your clothes & "accidently" spill something on yourself...Ask him to bring you a towel, when he does say forget the towel, why don't you lick it off? \nSneak in the shower with him...\nGo dress up like a sl*t while he's waiting for you in the bedroom...\nBe laying on the couch under a blanket when he gets home, be wearing something sexy underneith it...\nWear an oufit you know drives him wild when you guys are heading out for the day, by the time you get home, he'll wanna rip your clothes off of you...\nWhile the radios on, just sneak up on him & start giving him a lap dance!!!\nTurn your work-out into strip-arobics. He won't think they're so boring then...\nStart getting him into"props" by one day be all classy looking & wearing a strand of pearls, when your about to bet busy, take them off & accdently let them slip between your legs, say um, that feels good, play w/ them a bit. Then be like, here you try, and give him a hand-job while wraping the pearls around his you know what...\nAlso do the same with silk, a pair of silk pantys or a scarf works well (wear the scarf in your hair so he dosn't think its weird)..\nLet him do you while your wearing pantyhose &/or high heels...\nput on lipstick heavly (one that comes off easyly), bring it w/ you & put it on the nightstand. Kiss him, kiss him all over, let him kiss you too, then take a shower together...(just make sure your hot water heater didn't just break...thats what happend to us when we did that...)\nGet a sl*tty nurse oufit, don't let him know you have it...whenever he's almost better from being sick (like just a lil lazy but otherwise fine), put it on & "take care of him"\nOnce he's comphy w/ the scarf idea earlyer, try using it to tie or blindfold each other...\nPut on a almost see-though shirt or really low cut jeans or a top that comes almost to your t*ts or plunges very deep, see if he'll tell you to change...tell him you won't unless he can get you outta them...make him work at it...\n\nI have more ideas, but am tired of typing right now...\n\nWhen my hubby & I got first got together, the sex was great, but there wasn't any kink or excitement or whatever...Now, about 4 years after we met, he'll try just about any idea I come up with, and even has a few kinky secrets of his own that he likes & enjoys & suggests we do sometimes. Heck, he has even approched me w/ some ideas of stuff he would like to try...a BIG turn around in things there....\n\nRember not to do anything "bold" until you know it won't scare him. Gradually "ease-into" kinky things. Try talking about ideas/droping suggestions first to see his reaction.\n\nGood luck & happy f*cking!!! hahaha!!! HAVE FUN!!!
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Treat him with tons of respect, and let it be clear to him that you care about him, with gestures and the things you say. Just be you, and make him want you at someitmes, because if he puts in the effort to do it then he must care also.
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I would say, something like.. ya know, I really like it when you 'make love to me'.  The biggest turn ons for me are the gentle touches and the soft teases.\n\nDon't 'criticize' his style, just teach him you'd like it differently.  Maybe past partners have liked this.. or maybe that's the way he is.. but if you suggest it really carefully and lovingly and nothing changes, then that's a pretty basic thing, and you gotta move on if stuff doesn't change after an urging in the proper direction for you.  :)  Best of luck!
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this one is easy. tell him what to do. or take the position as the agressor in the sex act. small hints can help too. when you guys are making love don't be afraid to let him know what feels good. if he is going to fast whisper slower. or what ever else you feel.sex is a bueatiful thing so be sure to enjoy it.
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Tell him why you want to have sex with him.  Chances are he will still do it anyway.
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You cannot talk someone into it,nor should you attempt tp manipulate someone to get what you want.\nInstead talk with your significant other letting him/her know that you are interested in trying this,be sure to tell him/her that it is not because you are not happy with him/her,but that you just want to enhance the great sex you already have.\nThere is a difference between love and sex,and couples who are secure in their relationship with each other are able to seperate the 2 and simply enjoy exploring with each other and if they both want to are able to bring another person in for some sexual spice.\nIf they both feel it is something they want to do there is nothing wrong with it at all.