For the women to answer, When you have sex do you really like it, or just pretend you do for your mate?
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I do really enjoy being with my partner we both have fun together doing it is a plessure it is fun when you both enjoy it  & not only pretend so he can be happy, it should be pleassure for the both of you...I ENJOY IT !!!!!!!!:o)
188446
It depends on the woman. I never did it for anybody. I didn't even do it for my husband until we were married for about a year. Now I do it because I enjoy doing it for him.
480578
Do you want to go have sex?\n\nI like em' honest.
266009
a woman who really responds to what the guy is doing, don't make too much noise but let him know what feels good by your reactions.  also shaving the pubic area is quite a turn on for me and my friends. Hope this helps.
435682
The mood and setting determines what happens. Letting my girl take charge sometimes makes it more exciting and does not undermine my authority. It's like relaxing on the passenger seat while she drives as the situation warrants.
903944
In my own experience, men appreciate it when you let them know how to please you. After all, wouldn't it be even worse if the woman had to "fake" her pleasure? I think men LOVE knowing they are able to give their woman satisfaction, no matter what!! \n:-)
345876
men i think. most of the time its usually the female that doesnt want it. but from my experience i say i do. good question.
924739
being funny in bed's a profession of mine and my lady loves it. as long as its in good time and actually funny. \n\nknock knock. who's there? my penis...
964396
Some of it and some of the time.\nMy partner and I prefer to keep it simple, a few ropes, a few objects. Most of sex is in the mind anyway, at least for me.
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Both women and men want sex. Some more than others. For myself, I love sex obviously but only when it is with someone i am comfortable with and love. IE I want the relationship aspect and the sex will then come. I;m not just out for sex.
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Why choose between the two?  I prefer intercourse but only because there are few men who can really please a women by going down on her.  We usually save that for really special occassions like to begin with...
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i would say most women do, most men dont understand or care that it takes more to please a woman than it does them,as far as me i have never faked an orgasm, its a shame a woman has to.
1100283
What do you like? What ever  you are comfortable with you will respond better sexually with.
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You know what?  The answers aren't a simple as looks, or sounds...for example...I love a woman's body, the female form..but it doesn't automatically make me want to have sex with her.  That person might even be totally into themselves and stuck up...which is a no go for me.\n\nWhen I'm actually having sex, I'm looking for softness.  I'm looking for that woman to allow me into her mind.....that sounds corny as hell though...but it's true.  It's a turn on, that she is allowing you to please her and vice versa.  \n\nThen as a guy, you pay attention to the sounds....not just the regular moans....but the real, deep, almost primal moans to let you know you are really working her over the way she wants.  I personally like to see involuntary movement of the limbs.  If she is making faces she wouldn't want to know she made, curling up her toes, or moving in ways or positions she has no idea she is even in, or even why she is in them.....then I know I doing what I'm supposed to.\n\nPlus a good attitude is necessary.  A woman who actually speaks and lets you know what she wants, what works...either vocally or with her eyes, or moans, whatever....will be better during sex.  It takes out the guy's guesswork at everything.  It shows she is conscious that you are actually trying to do a good job......and you want to make it happen together.  Communication, as with everything else in life, is the most crucial part of sex.\n\nSoooo....I guess it's the combination.  It's looks, although looks can and have fooled me.  I actually had the best sex I've ever had with someone that wasn't the supermodel type.  She definitely wasn't ugly.  She was real thick and she had the features I liked.  I guess it depends on the guy.  \n\nYou could say it's the sounds....but I've had girls who made yeti sounds....or they sounded like I was hitting them in the stomach with a lead pipe (no pun intended)....or they were screaming in my ear, like it was sexy.\n\nIf guys have that nice combo of looks, the right sounds, and a good attitude to match.....and the right amount of freakiness....goes a long way.\n\nOh.....and the difference between a one nighter and a committed relationship comes down to those two people.  The one nighter is exhilerating, exciting......might even hit the spot for a while.  Relationship sex depends on how you feel that night....or how your day went.....just more factors involved.\n\nWhat do I know?  I'm just a guy @ work with too much time on my hands.
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GREAT SEX!!!\n(just kidding)\n(but that helps)
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It depends upon ur perception of sex!!!!!!\nWhat does it mean to u?Whome u r with?How u do it?Undr what circumstances and how's the ambiance?How much involved u are???????????\n\nWell I can tell one thing for sure, It's as good every time and improves evry time u do it for sure....
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whatever makes it enjoyable.... live it up. roll play, talk dirty, whatever gets you off .... HAVE FUN