How do comfort my girlfriend when she gets sad?
455534
well, it depends on what she's sad about. If she's sad about how maybe things are going with you...then tell her how you feel too. \nAnd if she's just sad for some reason, like if her pet died or somthing like that. \n\nTalk to her about it, show that you can help her through it.\nKiss her on the forhead, and squeeze her tight. \n\nSeriously, sometimes the thing that made me feel better was the fact that my boyfriend hugged me...and not just hugged me, but he really really hugged me, held on tight, and told me that everything would be alright.
213787
ok she is feeling like things are out of her control and she is hurt emotionally and yalls relationship is one thing she does have control over so she is trying to stop from getting emotionally hurt by you not that you would but its just a scence of security. tell her you know whats going on and understand but would really love to be there for her. give her some space, but dont give up or stray to far if you really do love her.
753746
You are just going to have to keep being there for her until she comes to. She's still in shock. Just let her know how much you love her by being there for her.  She'll come to on her own. If not then get her some counceling. to help her handle her grief.
661291
She sounds very tired, scared and very frustrated. Right now what she probably needs is a FRIEND, someone to lean on. So I would advise for you to go and accidently bump into her. Show to her that you still care and want to help her, but don't look like you pity her or she will become worse. Try and get her to relax, unwind because all.\nI think it would help if you did research on depression.
418762
There is no way around this if this girl loves you then she is going to have her heart broke. you can not expect her not to be affected emotionally...the time is now to end this, do not prolong this relationship it will only make it more difficult for her. It's almost sweet that you care enough to not want her to be hurt but it's time to realize that there is nothing you can do except tell her it's over and give her time to heal...we've all been there!
908229
aww that's really sad.... make sure u are there for her, even tho she needs time on her own right now. u did the right thing by letting her parents and the police know that she is having trouble right now. if it's possible, try to work w/ her mom and friends to get some ways to help her.. perhaps a counselor or therapist.. don't give up on her, but at the same time make sure this does not consume you.  she is pushing u away..and if u keep trying she may get upset.. or she may accept ur help.... but u have to be strong enough to take either reaction from her.  just continue to talk to her mother or her friends, maybe email or text her once in awhile and just say "hi" to let her know u are thinking of her.\n\nalso, tell her that even if you are not "together", she can still count on you as a Friend, because u care and love her as a person. that way, she hopefully won't feel "stress" thinking she has to be ur Happy Girlfriend u know?\n\ntell her u will always be there if she needs to talk....  btw, who told her she "can't have love or be happy"?? why does she think this?  something is going on w/ her.... \n\ntake care, good luck~
141121
to make her happy, accompany her for the last day with her if u can't talk her out of going away. accompany her to do all the things she loves. u don't need to spend great amount of money just to make someone happy. wat makes a person happy is that they are able to feel accpeted and loved by the person htey loved and care and accepted.\ndo wat u usually do. have some chit-chat, go to some quiet peaceful place to relax.spend the entire day with her. buy her breakfast, lunch and dinner. insist on paying for the meals as she has been a very very good friend to u and u have nothing to give except love, care and these last 3 meals. pls don't say anything wrong or stupid cause she would leave with a broken heart. make her feel just for once that she is special. let her feel that she is being loved and cared for. let her feel that she have at least u to depend on for everything!! \n\nlast but not least, i wish u good luck tommorow and try to have fun at least.\nGOOOD LUCK!!!
258616
be patient and dont push her too hard\njust be there for her (even only via email)\nstop telling her how you feel for now, it may be quite irritating for someone's out of a bad relationship\ntell her your feeling once again when she's opened up a bit\n\nhope she'll loosened up =)
182549
If your job is what is taking u away here is an idea that may help her adjust.  Buy little things- I dont mean diamonds and gold- just little things and send her something each and everyday!  Make sure once a week she gets flowers.  Send her cards of love every single day.  Call her on your lunch breaks just to say u love her- send her photos on your cell phone of u missing her!  I would also try to move closer to her before she gets too lonely!  But some of these things will make her soooo happy and make her feel so loved she might just move to be near YOU!
849048
Sounds like your girlfriend isn't really in a "fun" mood right now, friend. Honestly, just be there for her. There is nothing you can say or do to help her get over such serious traumas, so always be ready to lend an ear or a hand. I promise this is help you guys get closer, and by the time she's ready to move on with her life, you'll have a better relationship than you would have without any og this.
930836
more then anything she needs you to be there for her.  Maybe get her a journal so she can write down her feelings, it's better for people to get them out then to keep them bottled up.  My best friend loves Torrid too and I'm just getting her a gift card for there.  But again just be there for her, let her cry, vent whatever she needs to do.
233542
Do something great. Or just be there for the one you care about. You can always be your girlfriend's hero.
632180
Be open an honest with serious communication. Reassure her of your love and always say things that uplift her and try to always see the positive side of any and all situations no matter how bad they maybe.
233764
yeh not much u can really say to her loosing a baby is really hard, just be there for her and comfort her pretty much. maybe after the surgery when she's better take her out to a day spa or something to relax and have fun.
417922
Tell her you care. and keep saying that. \n\n\n Suicide is a cry for help, when you feel alone.\n Don't let her feel alone.
156196
The only thing I can say is, make her feel special and pamper her, don't force over things, dont do it because you want to do it but do it coz you love her. Once you achive your peak point make her feel how special she is. and take my words she will forget all the pain she will go through, just express your true love and it will heal everything and will work like magic.
1039658
let her feel that you'll always be there for her on whatever circumstance maybe..\n make her feel special everyday..\nalways have a open talk to her and let her know how big your love for her isa genuine