im having trouble with dating.since i broke up with aboy last year.i loved him so bad but he cheated on me.?
467713
Not all guys want sex, I know that from experience. And I think you can get a date, but you are not allowing it to happen. Just relax about it. Go on dates, but don't commit yourself to a steady relationship unless you are positive that the guy isn't like your ex. And some men end up being right, some don't. Alot of times you gotta feel the hurt, before you can find happiness.
1057030
Hello sweetheart, you must be so confused, it certainly sounds like your fella is. Speaking from experience I would not even speak to him again let alone go out on a date. I think  on this one sweetheart you have to follow your heart, you are the only person who truly knows ho you feel about him. I really hope that you can make the decision that is the right one for you and your little girl. I bet you have the same response from family and friends as I did, everyone told me to dump him "you can do better than him". I made the decision to walk away and have some on our own time with my boy. I have never seen my ex since. He tried allsorts to get back home I stood strong and resisted the temptation. I have remarried and I adore my husband. You will be happy again  take care beauty and don't re rushed.
120692
You should give him up. If he left you for a guy - that means he is never coming back. Don't pine for him anymore, he is just not worth it and he probably was looking around for love until he found it in another guy - so the truth is, he may have just used you as a partner until he found someone he really likes.\n\nGet a move on with your life. There are a lot of people out there in the world who are constantly looking for people they can love. Who knows if you find someone who will stay with you forever, and will make you feel more special than your ex-boyfriend?
233835
You should move on!! To start with he cheated on you and even after you forgave him which i never understand that but people do he still lied to you about little stuff. This guy you will never be able to trust. You have already given him too much information to play you with. He knows that you still love him and that you think of him all of the time and its hard for you to move on talking to him. So the next time he calls blow his mind. Tell him your fine just been hanging out with friends and even found a guy that caught your eye. I bet that will end that. Dont subject yourself to being hurt again. There is more than one guy out there and you deserve a good one!! Move on and dont look back.
858509
OK first of all vow to never vow that you will never date again! and i had them same thing happen to me, calm down things will get better.Just because you have gotten hurt so many times doesn't mean all guys are bad. You just need to move eon, you don't love him you just had lust for him, i know you hate hearing that because everyone hate hearing it. Just remember this little thing, nothing lasts forever so,live ti up drink it down avoid bull sh** and have no regrets cause a t one point what you did was exactly what you wanted. I f he cheated on you then he is not worthy of you! The only reason he cheated on you was because he had to make himself look good and make you look like the innocent type that can be easily broke and tamed. Never get to attached until yopu are absoultely sure that person would do nothing to hurt you, a way you can do that is ask ur friends to see what he says to his friends. I did that with my bf and they said he always talked about me and this other chick. Thats how i got the hint that he was cheating and then i dumped him b4 he could hurt me.All you nned to do is watch out
1176452
Im sorry  that you had to experience a messed up relationship. First , you should not compare yourself to another woman. Sound like your more woman than the one he cheated on you with. It could just been about sex and nothing more with your ex and "butt-a-face" .Sometime women and men dont know when they have a good thing until its gone . Hopefully next relationship you wont be with someone who you "know" is cheating on you .
460587
It sounds to me that you should try talking to gregory, (instead of hitting; that's immature).  Make sure to give him some space and try to sort things out.  If you have been with him a year as boyfriend and girlfriend, then Davion's comment should have not affected gregory that much.  He should already know he likes you. Let someone you trust, and who can give good advice (even if it hurts) know what is going on.  This will give you more insight on what is really happening.  If you do decide to go out with gregory again, see if someone can help you and gregory get through the bumps.  Just remember that whatever happens, it is your decision to stay in the relationship or get out.
268016
You are not alone! If any one has gamble in love, then, at one time or another they too, were in this situation.  A few weeks ago I seen a segment on TV about a woman who actually makes her living helping others that have broke up from their mates. This is how devastating a breakup can be.  The first thing she did was make sure the person did not become a couch or bed potato.  She said you have to get back into the world as soon as possible.  I realize that you are more concerned about the daily thing, and seeing him all the time.  Just, get up every morning, always fix yourself up and dress 'hot'.  Lean on your friends when you have to see him or be in the same class with him. Everyone has that one friend that makes you laugh alot, you need her now more than ever. Continue your life as close to normal as possible. Scope out someone else that you might be interested in dating and start conversations with him. You may not be ready, but get ready. Your X will see that your life has not stopped because he walked out. And by moving forward and keeping a good appearance and attitude, he will definitely take notice. I don't if you want him back or not, but moving on to another relation ship always makes the other one feel rejected and if someone else wants you, so does Mr X. You got the power..now, GO GIRL!!!
395757
hey this happened to me....i dumped him as fast as i could say listen i cant be played like that....then he hung up on me and we havent realli talked since....you juss have to realize there will be someone else....get over the fact that you love him it doesnt matter....he cheated on YOU....dont let him get away with it especially twice...and before you do anything make sure you are positive he cheated on you and dont go by what friends say go by what you see with your own eyes....be strong cuz it does take a lot and it hurts so0o much when you find out something like that you just have to do what you think is best for yourself dont let urslef get hurt......YOUR supposed to be happy not just him....
1061624
He cheated once and you forgave him, you were an ANGEL.  And he goes and cheats on you again?  No, sweetie, he's just trying to get in your pants.  Kick him to the curb and find someone who deserves to date an angel.\n\nGood luck!
448680
OK forget getting with someone else- the issue WILL resurface if you don't deal with it. First of all cut off all contact (for a while at least). It doesn't help to keep calling each other. If you have to see each other (like at school or work) then make a concerted effort to change the way you communicate with them. Second, yeah forgiveness- you have to go over all the bad stuff that happened but once you forgive them the burden is lifted and you're free-er. You will stop hurting a whole lot after you manage to let go and forgive, trust me. Next figure out what happened and make a decision that you will never be in that type of relationship again- if the person cheated you will feel like you have no control over that kind of situation and it could be true to an extent but it's important to realise that cheating is about them not knowing their worth or having self respect and know that as long as you do have self respect and know your worth you will never be hurt in quite the same way by a cheater (or anyone else). Get busy. Get a life that doesn't involve your ex or things you used to do together. Have fun, spend time with your friends again and find out what's important to you- minus your ex. Above all else- be totally healed before you consider getting with someone else and if you do meet someone and you're not ready then just let them know and if they like you enough they'll wait til your feeling better about the whole dating thing, if not forget them.
224101
Why would you want him back?? I am sorry, but he seems to have proved that he is untrustworthy, and a creep. I know it hurts, but put him behind you and move on with life. You will meet someone one day that would never think of walking out on you...you deserve a true love, don't settle for less.
390504
wow - you are pissed - I sympathies with you. I am certain that the breakup was not entirely his fault but it would be nice drag him through the rough one more time - what you are forgetting is that you'll have to relive your past , some good and more of ugly because he is not there with you - the outcome - if the case is not thrown out the court - they get closer because they'll support each other, you even more miserable.There will never be any jail time so you cannot break 'em up. Next if there is a financial gain - it would be so small not even to cover the court costs, basically a losing battle.\nWhy fight a losing battle you are smart and you can defiantly make yourself more attractive by finding yourself and that'll build confidence and hence higher self esteem. there'll be men bee lining to go out with you. You tried something with this man but he was a fool to give you up. He'll pay his dues in time but then he may be suited for his new found love - you just move on and get out of that whirl pool like trap that you are in - you know the one that just goes round and round - for more help do not hesitate to contact me and I'll tell you again to get your a s s in shape and move - good luck
676771
Yes, make this move: Find a NEW boyfriend.\n\nDo you think you would treat him the way he treats you??? He is playing you. Forget about him and do something good for you, and this time choose a MAN not a child.
286695
Move on.  There is someone out there who will return your affections.  You deserve better.
305678
Well, you clearly are not a good friend are you? We can all see that because you hurt your boyFRIEND, so can you honestly blame him? \n\nAdditionally, why do you want to be friends with your ex? Just because you used to date doesn't mean that when you break up, you will be friends. It doesn't always work that way, and given that you have hurt him, you can hardly expect to continue to be on good terms.\n\nI strongly suggest that you stop any efforts to befriend him, move on and try to be kinder to your next significant other.
129531
At first forgive him, because he is a fool and really poor minded. But then try to move on, you deserve someone who cares and loves you in return.\n\ngood luck :-) I know how you're feeling