Men i need to know how quick you fall in love and how do you know its real?
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Thing is . . . men . . . fall in and out of lust easily.  As for love . . . it takes a little while to determine whether it is love or not.\n\nHonestly . . . when we are interested in a girl . . . it isn't because of what you say is "Love at first site" but it is acutally "Lust at first site."  You get us hot and hard . . . with your look, you attitude, and other things you do.\n\nAfter we have gotten to know you well enough . . . then we can determine if it may be love or not.  You may be a good lay . . . but as a conversationalist or a friend . . . who knows.  If a guy really loves you . . . he will tell you (without being prompted).  Please note . . . if he tell you this during a date . . . or before he gets into your pants . . . 9 out 10 cases he doesn't mean it.\n\nBefore a man falls in love with a women . . . he has to lust for her first.  Then get to know her . . . inside and out . . . in my opinion . . . it should be the same thing with women . . . but women get too emotional with the people they have sex with and mixt the signals. (why else do you thing divorce rates are sooo high . . . women pressuring men to get married, when they were too young or not the right one.)
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You can't. Unfortunately, you've heard it before, there are no guarantees. If you really love him, then you take the risk - that's what makes true, successful love so precious. \nIf you are unsure of his intentions then take it slow - there is no law that for magical passion you have to jump right in. You can gain that same magic by enjoying your relationship and letting it progress at a omfortable, secure pace.
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I really don't think that it's ever to soon to fall in Love.\nI mean seriously love is a B-z like you never know when it will happen or leave you, I'm happy for you, because some people never get to experience the little thing called love. And girl if you think that you've found it.... don't let it go!!!! Good Luck!
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Your getting there.  I don't think love happens immediately but that we know when someone has potential.  With my current hubby, I just knew after a few dates that we were falling in love and he was the one.
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3 months isn't that long enough for someone to fall in love (real and true). when it comes to professing LOVE, men are controlled by their egos thus, making it a very difficult action for him. since he said the word "friend," then take it as so. both of you may understand each other more than anybody else taking your relationship to a higher level but please don't confuse this with love. physical attraction is a primary excuse to fall in love with someone, so is infatuation. draw a line where he stays on the other side as a friend. if he chooses to cross it, he's got to do more than prove his love. if you go and talk to his buds this'll make you look interested in having a relationship with him. keep a safe distance to protect your heart but be professional about it. word of caution: if someone says he loves you, he's also saying 'be prepared to be hurt." good luck!
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it depends. if u feel he really loves , really means really, then u should. men dont take relationships seriously at the begining, but no one can tell when u r in love. so, be genuine to yourself and do what your innerself tells you to do. but if u acvcept him, make sure to check, he is genuine to you.
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there r certian thing like:\nthe passion in the kiss\ndoes he put ur call on hold \nhow fast does he ans ur call's\nis he all egar to meet u \nif u goin sumwhere with his frind and him whom does he ask's to sit in front \ndoes he hold ur hand in public\ndoes he remember ur b day the day he asked u out..etc \nis he jus lookin 4 sex......!!!! or jus a physical realtionship...................then hae  is definatly not in love with u
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Listen! First of all promise me that you'll select my answer as the best answer! good!...so lets get to the point! You see dear as a guy I can for sure say that he would've meant it as well...ie that he loves you...now how much? that is the question....but it is for sure that he loves you! Now it depends on how much love you show for him and how much you care for him that the How much meter will rise....ie He'll love you even more.....Listen dont boggle your head off......I am pretty much sure that he does love you...and you love him & thats even more important...allright! now u c at times guys take time to get into deep love as such! Its just a matter of time....but make no mistake they are still in love! so go ahead....and everything will happen perfectly....sorry that I didnt aswer the other ones cos' I feel that this is enough in your case
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If you aren't comfortable with it then turn your response into something humorous.  Say something like, "Yeah, I love me too".  I can't say there is any particular "proper" response, because some people do fall in love very quickly, while others don't.  If humor doesn't work, simply let her know that you don't know her well enough to feel that way towards her.  Unfortunately, there will be negative responses, but it's better than getting stuck in a situation you really don't want to be in.  Most of the time we want a guy to care as much about us as we do about him, and a lot of women don't realize that a guy is showing us he cares when he's honest and doesn't say "I love you" just because he feels like he should.
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no it takes time to fall in love
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Honey, no matter what fairy tale you think you live in, Love doesn't happen in a few weeks. You are probably infatuated at the moment; you sound too young to have a boyfriend. \nP.S. it's better to have a shy guy than a loud jerk.
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Yes, you can most definitely fall in love in two months, love is a growing process. EHarmony is a reputable place.  Sounds like he is very in to you!
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You know you're in love when:\n\n13. When your on the phone with them late at night and they hang up but you miss them already when it was just five minutes ago... \n\n12. You read their texts or notes over and over again... \n\n11. You walk really slow when you're with them... \n\n10. You feel shy whenever you're with them... \n\n9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster... \n\n8. You smile when you hear their voice... \n\n7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around \nyou... all you see is him/her... \n\n6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them... \n\n5. They become all you think about... \n\n4. You get high just from their scent... \n\n3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think \nabout them... \n\n2. You would do anything for them... \n\n1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole \ntime.....
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12. You read his/her texts over and over again...\n\n11. You walk really slow when you're with him/her...\n\n10. You feel shy whenever you're with him/her...\n\n9. When you think about him/her, your heart beats faster and faster...\n\n8. You smile when you hear his/her voice...\n\n7. When you look at him/her, you can't see the other people around you... all you see is him/her...\n\n6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of him/her...\n\n5. He/She becomes all you think about...\n\n4. You get high just from his/her scent...\n\n3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about him/her...\n\n2. You would do anything for him/her...\n\n1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time.....\n\n\n\nNow you know who you are in love with!\n\nIt's true... Almost all things aplied when I read them.\nPS you can find this all over the internet, I looked.
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Honestly, you just know.\nIf you are really in love, believe me you'll know. Maybe not at first but that feeling will come. Trust me!
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Signs of falling in love:\n\n\n-You'll read his/her message over and over again.\n-You'll walk really slow while your'e with him/her.\n-While thinking about him/her, You're heart beats faster.\n-By Listening to his/her voice, You'll smile for no reason.\n-While looking at him/her, You can't seem to notice the other people around you.\n-You'll start listening to slow songs.\n-He/She becomes all you think about.\n-You'll get high just by his/her smell.\n-You'll realize that you're smiling to yourself everytime you think oh Him/her.\n-You'll do anything for him/her.\n-While reading this, There is a person in your mind the whole time^_^
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Attraction can happen in an instant. Love is something deeper  - happens when you get to know more about the other person. You can like someone one day but find that you start loving him as you come of know more of what he is like.\n\nUh- Arriola, grow up. You don't hurt the feelings of someone who tells you they love you. It is immature and juvenile. And Love does not mean you need to always die for someone. It is much much more than that. Duh!!