If you are a guy what do you see first in a woman?? & If you are a girl what do you see first in a guy??
465918
what i see first in a guy is their smile, i love big smiles that light up the whole face. then it would be personality
1000752
uhm... good question.  now that i think about it, Eyes attract me 1st.  then pretty much the rest of the face. then bodily appearance.  But most definitely personality.
1024035
Humor. Girls love guys who can make them laugh. Being a gentleman doesn't hurt (open doors, give them your jacket when their cold, etc). I think most girls like the clean look...but I prefer the unshaven look...\n\nI don't think I have the same likes as most women... I like the sleazy guy who'll put his hands all over me in public - only if we're together in a monogamous relationship though, I'm not a skanky ho.
301627
Butt.  I know, it sounds so sexist.  But until you get to know a girl all that attracts you is the physical.  And to me if a girls bottom is nice then that's a heck of a start.  Once I get to know a girl then the eyes and hair are important...unless we're rolling under the covers, then I go back to the trusty butt.\n\nBoobs?  Hah!  They're for babies!  If your man noticed you for your eyes or smile he's either lying or borderline gay.  If he said, "Baby it was your awesome a*s!" then he's truthful and a real man.
928499
~WHAT MEN LOOK FOR IN WOMEN~\n   A cute/hot guy looks for big boob girls, sexy body, nice look, and good sex.\n   A normal, just want sex guy looks for good sex, pretty everything, big boobs, and good kissing girls.\n   A person that doesn't care about sex like smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes pretty, caring, good personality, and some others in a women, counting purfume smell as a maybe.\n~WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN MEN~\n   A like sex lady/women/majesty would like her men to be good at sex, hot/cute, have a big penis, likes tumbling naked either outside in a nice field or under sheets, and she usually likes men that have soft lips for good kissing.\n   A women/lady/majesty that is popular/well known may vary because if it's nice, it would like guys that are smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes cute, caring,and have a good personality. But, meaner ones like guys that are hot/cute, good kissers, and sometimes, very SEXY!\n   Ones that are calm will like the same things as men that don't care about sex or kissing or being naked.\n\nhope this helped or met your expectations!!
23866
i think brains come first. brains can give u good looks.
1039748
first 2 things i look at personally, is the ass and the eyes! whether or not i decide to flirt with them is an entirely different story!
404708
women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
337498
Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
586486
Honestly. A pretty girl. Most guys won't admit it, they'll say oh i love a great personality but guys really lke if you put effort into what you look like. Even if you're not beautiful all they want to see is that you care about what you look like. Also they like a girl they can relate to, show them you care about some of the things they do, it's hard to start or keep a relationship going if you guys have nothing to talk about.
263928
That's interesting!  What is a good woman?  I'm a life-long psychologist without will to serve other patients since I'm not yet done with serving myself.  I'm some kind of data hop/pig/greedy for it!  Knowing a thing just get my mind into euphoric excitement.  like WOW!  I DONE LEARNED ABOUT A NEW MENTAL ASPECT OF SOMETHING SIGNIFICANT!  I think, I search my mind's places and look into the tiniest boxes and what do I garner on the aspect of a 'good male,' and I'm a male too, one and all, there is no good male.  So yes, hop back to it, what is a good woman?  PLEASE TELL ME!
786538
woman want a man who understands and notices things. the little things like how your hair swirls when your runnig or the exact color of your eyes. they want also not a goopy guy they want some buffness and toughness and a guy who wont treat her differently aroubnd his friends.
913195
My first reaction to this was, "What a ridiculous question!"  But after giving it some thought, I guess I would have to say my brain.  I think it would be very interesting for a guy to see how a woman's brain works.  And vice versa, I may add.
1177008
1. Legs, arms, etc. don't shave...for guys its meant to be there\n2. If you mean with the ladies...I'd say that he treats her with complete respect, and is able to express how he truly feels\n3. Depending on the age, i guess, but i would say dinner (so there's time to talk) and then a movie back at her house (so she feels comfortable and knows you're not trying to make a move but also there is a chance to cuddle and feel close)\n4. Sense of Humor, all the way, I love a guy that can make me laugh.
2086
Depends on the girl, my friends!  Take me, for example... I have the mind of a guy, I think!! Can't think enough about it!
53539
Men tend to notice women with confidence.  Be confident in yourself, hold yourself high, and he'll take notice.\n\nPerhaps even try to initiate a friendship with the person.
157603
Being very kind to her. That is a sign that a guy really likes her.Hopefully she is worth it !!!