my boy friend is always touching my chest what should i do i cant scold him or tell him not to touch?
471534
I know what you mean. You don't want to hurt his feelings but he's developed a bad habit. What you do is talk to him honestly about how it's really stressing you out and the smart people on Yahoo Answers said that it may cause you to distance yourself from intamacy (meaning that it will hurt/delay your sex life which is NOT what he wants).\n\nIf you're at that point in your relationship, just pick a day/time/date where he can touch your chest all he (and you) wants, but that he needs to be a gentlemen the rest of the time.\n\nIf he's a good guy, he'll understand. Then whenever he tried, you remind him of his promise. He'll forget quickly, but learn eventually.
51650
Be grateful he's not pressuring you. And then...kiss him. :)
1136336
Oh my goodness that is horrible tell him how important he is to you as a friend and doing that will not only upset you but crush you completely . Hang out with him and get to know why would he feel he needs to take those actions . Be his support line or seek higher support this is serious.
282308
Look don't come onto him. If he's a good guy he won't want you to kiss him or have sex. All you need to do is sometimes hold his hand when you sit together and give him a quick hug every one in a while. Trust me. I'm a guy and that is great.
302721
Try to ignore him.  Don't give him any attention, especially when he's trying hard to annoy you, act like you're unbothered.  Eventually he'll get tired of trying and leave you alone.  If he gets physical with you, take action.  Be serious and look him in the eye and tell him not to touch you again.  If it continues, report him to the police (or your parents/principle, depending on how old you are).
820950
Give it a little more time. Maybe he needs time to adjust, or he's afraid you're attracted to him. If you're not, you need to tell him. If you are and he's distancing himself because of that, well that's too bad but it happens all the time with heterosexuals too. If the friendship is supposed to be platonic and he keeps ignoring you, I guess he is not the kind of person you want to have around.
515804
Give her a chance to explain, the worst thing is to jump to any conclusion. After that if she says it was disgusting, beat him up. He has NO RIGHT to be touching a girl, ANY GIRL that way.
523997
If he is your bf.. you shouldn't give a shit about what he thinks of your comments.. Just tell him he has body odor and he has to use deodorant.. or he can't sleep in the same bed as you.  \n\nBuy new sheets after the first problem is solved.. \n\nDon't be embarrassed to tell him.. he's your bf!
544421
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!\n\nJeez... this is happening earlier these years...\n\nI don't think you should let him, I mean- come on, you're not even a teeenager yet. Don't rush into certain things. Put boundaries. If you're not comfortable, or if you're uneasy with what he's doing, one word sweetie- NO!\n\nJust say NO! \n\nAnd if you let him keep touching you... chances are you might even end up having sex, and you're way TOO young to experience sex or end up getting pregnant or something.\n\nBe careful.
265605
I would confront him but dont be angry about it at first, because he could have a reason. My boyfriend had the same issue , but once i found out the reasons it became okay, talk to your boyfriend calmly , he will react better and might not get so defensive. i would have him delete her from his list so that he couldnt talk to her, that way you and him would feel better. Explain to him it makes you unhappy and that you have insecurities about begin left and that you are worried that you are not making him happy , and he wants what he had. He should then feel sad and will want to cuddle you and then try to be emotional that way he knows you do care about the two of you begin together. Good Luck
704999
Tell him that you don't like.\n\nIf he's invading your space, you need to tell him. Tell him to back off.\n\nIf you don't tell him, he's going to continue annoying you and touching you in appropriate ways.
290050
NEVER AT ALL!!! come on!! think about it... use your common sense. why would you tolerate it when he has cause harm on others... if you'll tolerate it then you are also enjoying it both of you... please have a heart...
573639
He will never stop loving you. There isn't anything you can say that will stop that. You just have to keep letting him know that nothing can or will ever happen between the two of you. You value his friendship too much to jeopardize that. Tell him that boyfriends come and boyfriends go. You don't want that to happen to him. Friends are forever.
583254
Keep it 2 urself. u dont want 2 make things uncomfortable but 2 keep ppls hands off him start spreading that HE IS UR BF
27414
Don't get too close. Try to stay away from telling him secrets and cut back on the body contact. And don't be afraid to tell him that you really don't like him.
279007
whe the strange silence will come up and u will sit looking at each other and being embarassed, just touch him, put ur hand on his and let's see what will happen, maybe he will speak it out. encourage him.
621129
poor you, well if he likes you ask him why? if you're not gay tell him. he will get over it some time, i hope!