Why is my x boyfriend allways trying to get me back?
465742
If he is an alcoholic then you need to forget him all together. I have been in relationships with two and it is very self destructing and lowers your self esteem. Keep him DUMPED.
735900
Sounds like he is going through a phase.  My man jsut went through that and I kow, it hurts.  He'll come out off it soon, and he will some running back to you.  What hurts them the most is when they hear you are going out and having fun without him, try it girl.  Good Luck!
474617
Not sure what you mean.\nIs he signle but really dating someone else or married?\nDoes he want to get back together with you?\nOn the surface, sounds like he's into playing games.\nMove on, sister and find another guy who is a straight-shooter.\nLife is too short to play BS games with the heart!
1048513
Would you want to be with someone who did not love you back? If he used the excuse that he thought you were playing him to back of on the relationship then he is  a loser anyway! Move on with your life. You are better off!
741688
Aww!  I'm sorry to hear about this...Sounds to me that he's trying to hurt your feelings and make you jealous.  I would try avoiding him and moving on.  I know it's hard for you to hear this, but don't let him manipulate your love life.  Move on.  He'll get what's coming to him...and it won't be nice, but remember you aren't the one who needs to worry about that.  Good luck!
947588
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.
984606
Chick why would you want him back.  A guy like that doesn't deserve you.  He told you he doesn't like you as much as he did before and that he's being mean to you.  Let him go and find someone that will like you especially after a year and will not be mean to you.  You will be much happier if you do.
597556
You should just respect his decision instead of thinking that this is just a challenge for you.  Some people really do just want to be left alone!  It may be he that he came out of a bad relationship & is trying to get over it, or he may not be at all interested in you & is just trying to be polite.  If you harass him about it, he'll just get annoyed.  Leave it alone.
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....
120634
there is more going on there than you think if it stays this way for while you need to let it go. because if he really wanted you and loves you he wouldnt be treating you like that. i would try to give your best shot and if nothing works i would leave and try to start your life over. if by chance your leaving scares him silly and he changes his ways then i would search your heart and see if you really want him back.
1057900
it happens mostly all the time. He could be hiding them because he doesn't want to get back together or that he keeps reminding himself about y the two of yous broke it off. If not and he does want to be with u then keep on trying, if it doesn't work then leave it in the past. i mean u shouldn't wait around for him too long. u could miss out on something way much better. just really think about it.
862795
Sounds like you want to use the other guy to get back at your ex.\nWell here is what i think. You ex is going to think that you are crazy. He may think that you hooked up with the guy just so you could be close to him. Do what you think is best hun. I think that until things cool down you have to stay away from the ex. Even if you want him back you do not have to come off as looking desperate and crazy.
1136758
Stop asking him.  He either has a whole heck of a lot to get straightened out or he's giving you the run around.  Trying to keep you there for some reason but not really wanting to be with you.  Are you sure there isn't someone else in the picture?  If he has THAT much in his life to get straight,  would you really be happy with him?  Back off,  give him all the time he's claiming he needs and in the mean time,  get back out there and enjoy life.  Please don't sit around waiting on a man who can't make up his mind.
825197
i think he is playing around, he doesnt want a relationship with u...hes just making a fool out of u. hes taking u for granted...he can see u, chat with u , flirt around,,,wat more a guy wants. i think u should be strong n confident in taking the decision. tell him straight away that u need space and its over!!!!!! :)\ngood luck
628787
i ll tell you why... he is jus having his options open.. if he finds someone better, he will stop stayin in touch with you.. if nothing works out.. you are always there.. thats what he thinks.. trust me, I ve known guys who do this.. so, jus make him clear that its on or off... thats it.. don let him fool around you...
809684
Sounds like the bf has some real issues.  He really did you wrong.  If he is serious about getting back together with you, he needs to prove himself.   I'd take anything REALLY slow.  Keep your eyes open, see if you can trust him again.
919565
maybe he don't want to talk to you nomore and you should move on and find you a new boyfriend because if you start avoiding him he will try to talk to you because he will see that you is avoiding him and moving  on with your life and he migth try to start talkin back to you.