my friend french kissed my xboyfriend should i be mad at her?
469639
Hell yeah!!!  SOunds like she wanted you and your ex to split so she can make her move.  Kick her to the curb girl.
516520
Girl ive been there before. Its sucks. I know exactly how you must be feeling. This friend of yours is not a true friend. She knows you like this guy and if they get together seeing them together could hurt.\nIf you dump her, you'll look bad - like you let a guy come between you, but keeping her - you'll find yourselve questioning her loyalty to you often.\nBrave it out to keep your rep intact, but watch your back while she's still your friend because friends like her - definately dont remain friends.\n\nSorry about it. Look on the bright side though - another guy will come along one day and who knows? You might like him better than this guy and he might kiss the ground you walk on!! :))\n\nJust think positive always.\n\nGOODLUCK.
915282
I bet you kissed the other guy cause you wanted some attention that Greg was failing to give you. This happens. I kissed a guy and lost a boyfriend. He wasnt your boyfriend so dont worry about him. Im sure you are not leading him on and being cocky. Give it some time. Let him come to you. If you werent together you shouldnt be trying to prove anything to him. He has an issue with it and in time he will tell you what it is. In the meantime carry on with the norm.
299169
Be mad at the boy.  He lied to you straight out while on the other hand you told your friend it was ok for her to like him and she probably didn't expect him to ask her.  You should also be mad at yourself.  If you like someone you got to grab on and not wait till later or they will inevitably move on.
265605
I would confront him but dont be angry about it at first, because he could have a reason. My boyfriend had the same issue , but once i found out the reasons it became okay, talk to your boyfriend calmly , he will react better and might not get so defensive. i would have him delete her from his list so that he couldnt talk to her, that way you and him would feel better. Explain to him it makes you unhappy and that you have insecurities about begin left and that you are worried that you are not making him happy , and he wants what he had. He should then feel sad and will want to cuddle you and then try to be emotional that way he knows you do care about the two of you begin together. Good Luck
1043777
Well you should tell your friend becoz he obviously wants to have his cake and eat it too. Plus there's no telling if this type of behaviour is a norm for him so u need to alert her b4 she falls too hard for him only to get her heart broken in the end.
293635
Well you need to tell her that you still like him, and you do have a problem with it. Just think of you saw them making out or something...wouldnt you get mad? i know i would but your friend wouldnt know any better because you didnt tell her! Let her know, and she might wanna stay with your crush she also might break up with him so she wont hurt you in any way.
361539
if he makes her unhappy show her that you will make her happy....just go for it!! Kiss her by surprise!! :)
474345
Yes, it should bother you.  Because she is your friend doesn't mean you should put complete trust in her.  People you feel you can trust are the ones that WILL STAB YOU IN THE BACK! Besides, friends are supposed to respect eachother.  Right now she is not and neither is your boyfriend.  Be careful, because it sounds like there maybe something going on or about to happen.  If you want to avoid problems and don't want anything to come between your friendship, then put a stop to it now...\n\nGood Luck!
151217
Well, it all comes down to if you trust him or not. If you don't trust them, then that would be a problem. Since you say you think he would let one of his female friends kiss him then it sounds like there is some trust issues there. Have you told him about this and how it makes you feel? I am sure you have, but next time be a bit more firm about it. Tell him that if he wants to be with his friends more than you, then you are going to do the same thing and that you are tired of feeling like you are being placed behind them. Then, stick to it. Find some male only friends, or if you have them, hang out with them as much as you can..but whatever you do don't cheat. Just do what he is doing. A lot of times people can see things more clearly if the shoe is on the other foot. Good Luck.\n\nNo Decibel, it has nothing to do with making him jealous or mad. It has to do with this: If she has tried everything else (specifically addressing the problem to him) and he still fails to see what he is doing, which is making his own girlfriend uncomfortable, then maybe he can put it in better perspective if he had to deal with the same thing. Do you how hyper you got just from the thought of what I just wrote? This asker already goes through that daily with her boyfriend. It's ok for him to have friends that are girls but it is messed up for her to have guy friends? Oh please. Sometimes that is the only way guys can see how completely selfish they are being.
49140
YES! But if possible, come bearing proof! Your friend may be upset and even think you are lying; your friendship may be hurting for a while depending on the kind of person she is, but YOU are her BESTfriend, you should give her the respect and loyality that title deserves. You WILL NOT be responsible for their break up...her man will. Break it to her gently and tell her first that you would never do anything to hurt her unless it would hurt her more not to know. Reverse the rolls...if your lover where cheating on you and your bestfriend knew...would you want her to tell you? How would you feel if you found out and KNEW she didnt tell you about it months before??
603984
YES! You should. See, he had the guts to come and tell you, if he had done it on purpose, he would have tried to hide it from you. This girl took advantage of him and while it may have been his fault, the beer didn't help. Make it clear you aren't happy and you are going to forgive him this once. Perhaps give him suggestions to make it up to you, like taking you out to dinner or something extra special. Make him work a little bit to say sorry, but make sure you make it clear you forgive otherwise you may lose him. Everyone makes mistakes. To Err is human, to forgive is divine.\n\nPerhaps talk with this girl and make it clear that this was not okay. Tell her to back off and perhaps get your anger out on her, not your boyfriend, cause it sounds like she was just waiting for him to get drunk. Being drunk, you can't remember anything and everything becomes a bluf, so an offer of sex would be pleasing because you didn't know any better.\n\nFYI, don't become overly suspcious and break up with im if he looks at another girl (and I mean just looks). Men are attracted to all kinds of women and him looking at another girl and staying with you is a compliment of how he loves you more than physical attraction could bring.
1045090
There are two issues here. The first is that your friend is not respecting your request to stop flirting with your boyfriend. If she isn't willing to stop, is she really a good friend? Is she the kind of friend you want hanging out around your boyfriend? If you've been friends with her for a while, try talking to her again and really impressing upon her how much her behavior bothers you.\n\nThe second issue is that she's telling your boyfriends that you and your friends are cheating on them. I can't imagine a good justification for that. What do you have to lose by asking her why she would say those things, and asking her not to? If she wants to continue being disrespectful, then she's obviously not worth your friendship.
215389
GIRL I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THATS THE POSITION I'M IN RIGHT NOW BUT DON'T WORRY JUST DON'T TALK 2 YO FRIEND BECAUSE SHE NO GOOD .THAT MEAN SHE LIKED  HIM THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T EVEN ASK U WAS IT COOL AND HE WRONG FOR ASKING YO FRIEND THAT MEANS HE MAD BECAUSE U BROKE UP WITH HIM JUST STAY COOL OR DO WHAT I'M DOING TALK 2 ONE OF HIS FRIENDS AND ACT LIKE YALL GO OUT 2 GET HIM BACK SO THAT HE WILL KNOW HOW IT FEELS.
438586
First of all, your friend is really petty. She should be mad at your mother for calling her a liar, but if she is one, then she just is one. No need to front, but she is not a worthy friend, she seems trashy. I don't care, don't ever talk to your friend's guy. Even if you are not together anymore, that's just the rule. I don't know if you guys were together, but it still applies, don't go after guys your friends like. I have always felt that anyone who would stab their friend in the back like that doesn't deserve to remain friends with the person. End your friendship, if she is doing stuff like this now, imagine down the line, when the guy is your boyfriend, fiance, or husband. What is she going to do when she gets mad at you then, sleep with them to get back at you for a petty argument. Also the guy, you should not even care about him either. He is suppose to be hooking up with you, but hooks up with your friend, knowing how you feel about him, let them be together, they deserve each other. You'll find someone else, but definitely don't remain friends with the girl, she seems very devious.
525853
i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
383008
Definitely HERS.  Your ex is just that - your EX.  He no longer has any responsibility to you and doesn't have to answer to you (even though he should no better).  But your "friend" should DEFINITELY know better.  That is just something you DO NOT do to your friends.  She should have come to you and explained the situation and told you that she really likes this guy and asked you if it would bother you if she dated him.  Instead, she snuck around behind your back like a coward.  That is not friend, honey.  Get rid of both of them.\n\nAs for kicking someone's ass - it's so not worth it.