how do you know if the guy is bad for you,and if so how do you move on?
456762
make a list of the things you don't like about him and a list of the good things you like about him. If the bad list outweighs the good and you feel that it is too important to overlook, move on.
847600
I've had this happen to me a lot.\nThe guy acts so nice.\nAnd then BAM... they stop talking to you.\n\nJust realize you are better off without them.\nThere are better guys out there.\nJust learn from this and try to move on.\n\nHave faith in God and realize he has a plan for you.\nEverything will be alright.
662062
wow he sounds like a real ass.  please find another guy to like, who will treat you nicely and how you should be treated (instead of being USED by the guy you "love")
956141
I think you should go with your gut feeling. If you don't feel like hooking up with him yet then don't do it. Your friends already warned you that he could be a player and its nothing more hurtful then giving in to temptation and then getting your feeling hurt. I think you should talk to the guy and tell him how you feel about the situation and if he doesn't understand where you're coming from then its obviously that he's not the right guy for you. And to answer your other question about if he grabs you after you tell him no....then he doesn't respect you and you should move on.
821562
If your asking if you should be bad sometimes, which I think you are. Don't change at all. He likes you already.
104569
Cooperation from the guy is the most important thing.  You really can't do anything but scare her off, but she's going to back off if she knows he doesn't want her around.  If he doesn't want to do that, he's looking around for another one anyway and it's time to move on.  It's really immature to handle it by backing her off yourself, that's signs of a really bad relationship.  Go get a strong relationship where you don't have to worry about it.
617810
no one ever knows how to move on. Thats the worst thing about realationships. Just keep yourself busy and stay away from places where that person might be. Dont call and hang up. Dont call and ask for your stuff. Just so fouced on life in general.
1025360
well i could say that he is using you or i could say he is not.. but when it comes down to it you know him best i'm not sure how long you've been with him but you need to write down the pro's or cons of your relationship.. is he worth you getting hurt... i mean one way or another your gonna feel pain whether your with him or your not the question is do you like yourself better with or without him?
678807
What kind of proof do you have that backs what you are thinking? You may want to talk to him about what you "think" you know. However if you saw him in a compromising position, you have decide if he is worth taking the time to talk too about it. You may just want to get out before you get hurt.
464444
first how bad was it??? don't know the details, but weigh the pros and cons of the relationship. if there are more cons get out and don't look back. more pro's proceed, but with caution.
776624
Forcin' yourself 2 believe that this person is actually a bad person is really doing nothing but fooling yourself.\n\nEverybody that we meet has some form of impact on our lives...this one particular "person" just had a very BIG influence on you.  Of course, it's going to be hard to "get over them", but you have to come to an acceptance that it's over between the two of you.  It'll be hard, but that's the only way you'll ever TRULEY move on.
956298
Oh, forget him! Seriously, is he worth it? Is this the sorta guy you want to be with? Come on! You deserve better.
603930
It is hard to move on, but you have to do it.  There are plenty of "fish" in the sea to be stuck on stupid with someone that won't treat you right. When you get with a guy, you fall too hard, you let your guards down and you don't think the worst could happen to you.  Its so funny that I ran into your question because my cousin is going through the same thing.  Don't put yourself through hell to be with them silly a$$ males.  If its meant to be then so be it.  If not, then you have to move on, simple as that.
1037739
Good question, even loser's hearts can break.\nLook at his friends and how he interacts with the people close to him, especially female family members.\nWatch his mood, see if it changes.  Date for at least 4 seasons, you can see how his mood changes through the seasons, a lier can't keep a lie going for too long before his true colors come out.\nBe careful that you don't hurt the wrong guy, because you may never get a chance to mend  their broken heart.
743815
It may be a good idea to remember why you got a devorce to start with.After that if you are still thinking about him just go along for the ride and see what happens.If you rush it things could go bad again.
33883
They may feel bad later on, but I doubt you will ever know it. Unless they end up in a 12 step program and decide to make ammends. I have been hurt a dozen times and never had an apology. What I have done is remember to keep my side of the street clean and learn from my mistakes. The right guy will come along, but you need to be in the right space to deal with him. That means taking care of yourself and not being to co-dependent, not to mention, guys will have more respect for you if you keep your independance and don't let them walk all over you. I had to learn this the hard way! Good luck.
53056
i depends- first name all the good and bad things about them- which ever has the most is not what you should pick- say if he has more bad things than good- think about how he can change and how it makes you feel about him- go with your gut-- good luck