What do I do when my husband doesnt want to be with another woman but I do?
467450
Flip the situation and ask yourself how you would feel if he told you he wanted to be with another man.
190671
If you ever listen to anybody in your life--listen to me now.....step away from the married man!!!! he will cause you nothing but pain and misery. There are 900 billion other guys to choose from--let the dumb-a s s that married him-put up with him. Go find a real man--not a back-stabbing-2-timing little worm of a man like this guy.\nYou don't want to be "the other woman" - do you?
124457
if he is thinking about another woman, then you need to rephrase your question,YOU are trying to work things out but he is thinking about another woman. if he is doing that then how can he concentrate on you and the relationship.you have to think about how long you want to keep trying.it takes 50/50 on both parts.do you think that is the case with you and your husband? maybe both of you should talk to a counselor
351843
He's committed to another woman.  It would be unkind and unprofessional to put the moves on him.  Don't poop where you eat.  Find a nice single guy, and life will be much, much easier for you.
1186364
Thats not a problem. Do you rather have him cheat on you and go with other women? It helps a marrage to have change once in a while. Do you keep the same curtains up, year after year? Good luck and have fun with the changes! ;)
930164
looks like you know whats going on. the question is, what are you going to do about it? your husband is playin you, and you need to confront him, dont let him feed you those obvious lies. he should respect you and his unborn child enough to at least be honest with you. if he doesnt want to be with you, he needs to make that known.
767848
look for another husband....apparently he is looking for someone that is not you.  Which means he is not happy with your relationship.
139910
If you really want to know just come right out and ask him. I don't know how involved you are with this person, but he really should not have a problem with you wanting to know. I do find it rather rude, inconsiderate, and unfeeling of him letting another woman take his time while he is with you.
213137
My husband cheated on me too.  It took a couple years to stop thinking about him with this other woman. It was very hard to stop feeling betrayed.  I don't think theres any certain methods.  Only it takes two.  He has to reasure you that he loves you, and he has to prove to you that he's not going to do this again.  But, you have to accept this, and learn to trust him again.  Youll never forget this, but, It'll only be a foggy memory.  it just takes time, and no one else can tell you how long, it's different for everyone.  Good luck. stay strong...
382231
Sounds like you got yourself in a little trouble. Well your husband must not be doing something right or you would not be in love with another man in the first place. First off tell this man how you feel and let him know if there is gonna be something serious between the two of you it cant go on this way for ever because its just not fair to any of you and if he feels the same way about you then maybe its time you let your significant others go. Second is this man going to be worth losing your husband over. And third when you look into the future can you picture yourself not with your husband and also him with another women? Life is to short if your truly in love with this man go with your heart, and dont wait untill its to late.
797883
Holy smokes are you sure you aren't my wife?  Look at the question I just posted.  \nI am going through EXACTLY the same thing right now.  I love my wife but the urge to be with other women is just so noisy I can't tune it out.  \nAssuming his problem is the same as mine - it is NOT likely a problem with you.  The "other" woman likely is not any more attractive or anything and probably is generic in nature.  I am in therapy right now although I don't know if this can be fixed. \nBUT I CAN tell you this - don't shut him out!!!  He needs your love and affection more than ever to get through this.  Cutting him off is going to make it worse.
1152644
Iam not married to one, but my hubby likes to do the same crap.\nIt's him not having his way, doing his fits is so childish like. Tell him how it makes you feel, get some therpy for it. \nI use to stand there, while he has his fit and stuff. Then when he had one, I had one right along with him. Two can play at that game. Tell him, you want to be married to the man you fell in love with. \nNot raising a child.
515100
although you seem to be going through a lot of pain, and i do feel for you, the problem  is still the same...you want two wives! can't do that man, sorry. there is no way that you can fully love two people the same. you have to let one of them go. you might not think it's fair to you, but that's selfish. have you ever thought about what the women want? stop being selfish and let one of them move on and find someone who is willing to be with only them.
460023
ok since the married man is your husband,,,,you should keep talking to him until he understands that you are serious and you 2 get an understanding,,\n            ,it seems he is a good guy, and his ego is not threatened,, he may let you without freaking out....you know him,,, think about it...you could lose him,,\n           ,i do not condone cheating,,,but i do know some women who have turned to other women because there husbands are impotent and will not seek help.\n               as far as the morals, etc,, you must judge that for yourself and be ready to deal with whatever consequences arise. whether from others, your husband, the woman,
61549
It sounds like she has no respect for you and has no consideration for your feelings.  Why would you want to be with a woman like this? Would she be so understanding if you were spending your free time with another woman?  You need to take charge of the situation and put your foot down let her know that this is unacceptable behavior and if she refuses to put a stop to it you know that she is not the one for you.  Ultimately the decision is yours do you want to live this way and if she is not looking out for your childrens best interest than maybe you need to.
582877
Boy, this is such dangerous grounds.  You want your husband to know what a slimeball his friend is for making passes at you, but you don't want to start a fight between the two of them or get in between them.\n\nI would wait it off for a while.  Try to make a huge point to your husband's friend that you are *not* interested.  Be rude right back to him if you have to.  If that doesn't work, then you will probably have no choice but to tell your husband to get the issue resolved and get his friend to back off.
528795
I don't mean to sound disrespectful but... I think it's time to move on.I would say otherwise if he wasn't married but going after another womans husband is wrong and not only that but if you did get to have sex with him again it wouldn't satisfy you only make you want more than a sexual relationship. It obviously wasn't meant to be so getcha grove on girl there are lots of guys that probably would love to go out with you, ya just gotta be patient.