if ur gf sleeps with others while u are away, how can u take revenge on her?
465677
It depends on a couple things, your state of mind, did you happened to roll up on the scene. My situation, I just returned from Iraq, wanted to surprise her. The kid in the basement. Walked in on her & homeboy, I didnt have no beef with homeboy, didnt know him, he just being a playa. My ole lady on the other hand, I wasnt thinking straight, I grabbed the first thing that I could put my hand on, happened to be a hammer, straight up broke in both of her knee's. Didnt do any jail time; definitely got rid of her . I look back, I get a good laugh. I should have just took my stuff & left.
1051583
let your girl know that as much as you enjoy being with her and her friends that you want to spend some alone time with her to talk about somethings that you are not comfortable with all her friends hearing from you cause you know if there that close she will tell them anyways
869542
find a way to let go of her\n\nif shes doing that, you wouldnt really want to be with her anyway\n\nmove on and replace her with somebody who really loves you for you and wont cheat on you like that...and then lie to you about it\n\ngood luck with whatever you decide to do
682009
sorry to say but uve made ur bed now u gotta sleep in it.  I done the same thing last year me and my ex were going through a rough patch and i used that as an excuse to cheat i feltbad afterwards but my ex ended up finding out and even though we got back together we were never the same we could never find that spark we had in the beginning so we ended it.  It was very sad but were still friends just wish i hadnt made the mistake
19272
option A go to bed and stay in bed and make your girl feel like she's a priority\noption B stay up working all night like a chump\noption C go to bed, give your girl some good loving for a while, then get up and work all night\noption D stop pretending you are working when you are really just here on Yahoo Answers!
793468
ur girl's crazy. i know im a jealous gf so i know wheres shes coming form. BUT if you let her do that kinda stuff like spend the night at a guys bed. then she should trust you. but if i was you i would dump her!!!\n\n\nGood luck with the crazy gf!
1156925
Look im gonna be straight w/ u .... If u cheated on her apologize and go leave her alone. If you beg 4 forgivness u just mite get it, BUT she will NEVER trust u again. She may not say it she may cry ask why and take u back, but wait a few months things will slowly change she mite bite ur head off 4 something small, she may start calling u 20xs every two hrs. Follow u... its endless, but the worst part will b all this time u r thinking things r getting better, she is blowing up w/ resentment over the "mistake" i figured u called it and one day you will wake up and see a different person and you wont understand where all this hate/ mean/ bitchy snaps r coming from, cause u forgot about it and moved on, believe me she never did she just had time to get over the shock the heartbreak, the broken trust, and now she hates you for what u did but don't exactly know how to handle the situation. One day things will b fine the next she will just look at you eating and want to smash your face in. I am so not kidding on this, IF IT WASN"T CHEATING....Go with the whole truth a sincere apology, let her know you love her and only her, ask HER how she feels, listen to every word and tell her, if you mean it, u will do everything you can to make things right 4 her. Do not lie and just take responsibility for what you did, b4 some jackas* rats u out. If u feel shes the kinda girl that would want something, get her something she likes so she knows you really know her,  you listen and of course remember what she says. Good Luck
597573
Look REALLy hot, be happier with my current mate, be more popular, have more parties, go on more vacations, and make sure they find out about it. LIVING well REALLY is the BEST revenge. Act like you don't even know you have anything to be "vengeful" about.
354074
simply forget that gf
390755
Recover by turning around and walking away.. then wait for her to call you to apologize.\nif she never calls, she's a c**k tease. don't waste your time.
55414
Why are you with her? Get out of that relationship. No one deserves to be cheated on. You deserve someone who will come home to you and only you. Please don't keep hurting yourself. They aren't worth losing your self-esteem and self respect. There is someone out there who can make you so much happier than the person you are with who insists on cheating on you. The only way to help you stop hurting is to get together with a bunch of friends after kicking her to the curb and keep the good times flowing. I am so sorry you have to go through this but once you're done with this relationship you are going to be so much happier. If you feel like she is remorseful about her cheating and says she can change give her one more chance. Lay down the law and say this is the last time you are putting up with it and if it happens again send her packing.
125041
Sure, here's the magic steps to making her bored and ready to cheat or leave you:\n\nAlways do what she asks\nShare your feelings all the time\nGive her advice instead of just listening\nDo everything with her and ignore your male buddies\nStop flirting with other women\nStart sleeping with other women\nLet her see you cry at sade movies\nStop flirting with her\nStop talking to her\nShare every secret with her\nGive her everything she asks when she asks it\nAllow her to treat you like a doormat\nSay "I love you" like a parrot, or more than once a year.\n\nThese things will kill a relationship, stop doing them.
970335
a)  get a hot new gf, even if your not like that, itll make you feel better\nb) punch the guy out in front of the whole school.  you might get punished, but itll be worth it\n\nAbove all, dont hold on to hope that you might get back together with the girl.  Life is too short, and reunited couples rarely happen.
345242
if you cant trust her you gotta bounce dude. seriously, if you stay with her your paranoia will eat at you until you drive each other apart, even if she isnt doing anything. chill out about it and trust her, or walk away.
588166
try going out with your friends more. be more social. I know..easier said than done. But if you want to be less paranoid of your gf, go out. And with her regularly.
432895
Seeing how you and your girlfriend spend the nights together at her place all of the time maybe its time that the two of you get a place together! Leaving the friend roomate to fend for herself!
761008
It's hard right now that you are not with her you want her.. but say she's slept with someone else or other unresolved problems come up you might want to think hard before you do this... i got back with my bf and now i still have anger towards him.. if you really want her back call her up and let her know