Im torn apart into two persons?
456839
Sweetie, it seems like just by you posting here, you know the answer already. If this was meant to be, you would be beyond excited about moving to start a "new life" with him. And while he mite love you and be a good person, the point that you bring up about him not mentioning YOUR happiness should be raising some red flags. Think about it--you move, leave your life behind(which you CAN always return to...)and you mite possibly feel stuck/resentful of him and his established life. And if you break up??? Or marriage??? Take a stand, stick with  the life you have--YOUR life, if this Romeo is meant to be with you, he will make it work on your terms.
935167
its hard no matter what you choose to do. try to tell them both that you're not comfortable with the situation when they ask you about the other. don't give up the friendship with either one unless they just make it impossible for you. breakups are hard enough without losing your friends in the process.
696729
Hate to say this but you are putting you through the emotional rollercoaster.  It's possible to stop.  Think about being open and honest with these two about your feelings, doubts, and fears.  You'll feel better.  And remember, the world won't end if this connection you feel goes away.  You'll still be worthwhile and valuable as a person.
365367
It'll be hard to do and even if you do regain those feelings it's going to take time.  Seperating myself from my other is helping me miss those feelings.  Not a hundred percent sure if we'll make it, but unless there is too much at stake no one should fake it till they make it.  Good luck and atleast you're trying.
26350
you have to sit down and question yourself very thoroughly. do you want to be with your current partner or your previous partner. only you can make that desicion, and the longer you take the more stress it will be for all.
425522
IM NOT FIRNEDS ANYMORE WITH MY USED TO BE BEST FRIEND\nIT BECAME TOO MUCH WE GREW APART
531234
asking question shows that got out of a very hurting relations ship. i will tell u something bring alone isn't that easy at all, specially when u see two happy couples u will wish for those days so leave ur self like this and u will find the right person and u should be careful this time
283086
Just be open and honest.\nImagine it was the other way round, woudn't you rather someone was honest with you?\nYou will both be mortified but once it's said it's said.
201320
Don't be a bad person. Let him go... \n\nYou had your chance, if he is happy with the other person you should not destroy his relationship.
607806
It sounds like they both need to grow up.  They are putting you in the middle of something that is between them.  Neither of them should be punishing you because you like the other.  That just isn't right.  You have the right to like whomever you please.  You all just need to sit down and talk about how you can all get along, or how each of them can have seperate time with you.  What they are doing is totally unfair to you.
1150786
It sounds like right now you shouldn't choose either.  You need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you really want. Otherwise you're going to end up getting hurt or hurting them in the process.
997986
been into that situation. i can relate. well. that was a long time ago. letting go of sumnbody is the craziest thing that i did, i regretted. But i also think it the only way to assess myself and know my true self.\n\nthere will always be trade offs.
334159
Being real about it all. \nYou are the blame for this madness. \nThey fight over you so this means that you are the focal point to their differences. In some form or another you may encourage their actions \nI suggest you cancel both of them and remove your self from them both.
918361
Sounds like you are getting some of your own medicine there buddy.  Why was it ok for you to be with both of them while you made up your mind, but not ok for her to be with both of you while she makes up her mind?  You say I alot in that paragraph as though you have given up something you wanted, and the decision is soley yours if you spend your life with Jen.  It's not.  It's up to Jen too and since you started this, you kind of have to wait for her to figure it out the way you did.\nI'm sorry you are hurting, but this is what you wanted, time to decide if she was the one.  Now give her the same courtesy.
626590
maybe you should tell them that you refuse to choose as they are both your friends and you value both of them and both friendships. If they are truly your friends they will see the position they have put you in and understand your decision. There is nothing worse is there than being stuck in the middle of a silly situation between people you care about. Friendships, good and lasting ones, are something to cherish, built on mutual love respect and trust for each other. If you can get them to see that I'm sure you will be able to work things out.Good luck sweetie
1050432
They both are not great,  but since we are humans we feel them all.  Just be sure to keep on rolling and don't let your wheels spin a rut in the mud...feel it for awhile and then try to let it go.  Best Wishes!!
298800
i was in the same situation!!go with your heart.who will make you happier??