why do not love me girls friends?
466740
because love cannot be born out of nothing. how can they love you when they don't know you?
420869
It's so hard to believe you don't love her. This is because you don't love her and still don't want to hurt her feelings. You are a really nice guy and I mean it.\n\nBut since you are sure you don't love her, it's time you tell her this immediately rather than waste her time. Tell her it just wasn't meant to be. You two can be great friends after your breakup too. All the Best pal.
377686
Maybe this girl is in a phase of her life where she is confused about what she wants in life, for her future! You have to give a girl her own space and be patient with her. Trust me.. we have our mood swings so dont push it too far and lose all chance of having any friendships or realtionships with her! \n\nI used to have a guy call me all the time and I told him I would be friends with him.. well he would still call and be like "I like you blah blah, be with me, lets me bf and gf.." and it got soo irritating.  I knew he was a great guy but only for a friend!! Eventually he realized there would be nothing more than friends and stopped buggin the shit outa me about a relationship. \n\nIm not saying she dont want you in her life for a friend or anything more but you cant pick and choose yourself.. it has to be all her!!\n\nJust be patient with her and give her time.. sooner or later she'll reveal why she said all the things she said! Good luck and I hope that everything goes well for you!
225132
Its not you its me....\nI love you but Im not IN love with you.....\nI dont want to lose you as a friend but......\nI just discovered Im attracted to women........
1040810
Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
485355
Being friends w/ someone you really cared about is very hard for guys , I dunno about females. Im talking loved, im not talking a one night stand fling... If these guys are people that were really special at one time , you just have to understand where they are coming from and they need to respect you as well w/ your choices.. Now if they were flings.. lol then you have a real problem
569639
Because i've always said that between a girl and a guy never can be a true friendship!It's always about love and other kind of feelings!
246394
Girls are big players in love!  I should know, I'm a girl!  But she could just be confused with her feelings and doesn't know what to do so she's testing the waters!  It sounds like she really likes you though because as you say you talk for hours and friends who only care for each other do that!  It sounds like you should be together and give it a go!  It doesn't hurt to try right?  Imagine what it would be like not to see or talk to each other - it's hell!
318645
i never had a girl friend yet. but when i do. i'll always hold her in my arms and hug her. =)
729658
Maybe in telling her that you liked  her eventually lead her into liking you. Maybe she likes you, but isn't sure if she wants a relationship with you other than being friends maybe becuase she think it will feel kind of weird with a friend or that she isn't good with relationships and doesn't want to ruin your friendship. You can try to spend more time with her to make her more comfortable around you..or something. =]
861354
who wudnt want you as a friend.your a great girl
467176
Its not only with girls, it has nothing to do with gender of a person, instead its just mental, when you love someone you dont expect anything from him/her, even if he/she doesnt love you, its hard for oneself to convince their mind/heart that he/she doesnt love you any more and should move on.
269467
Some of us can. I have a girlfriend I am completely happy with. The ONLY interest I have in any other women is as a friend. As for those who can't, they're probably wondering why you can't just accept that they don't want to just be friends. If you just want to be friends, and a guy wants to be more than friends, don't bother with him. You have different ideas about where your relationship should be headed. Or if you do choose to spend time with a guy like that, make it very clear that you're only interested in being friends, that you're not comfortable with him trying to be anything more, and if he makes any advances on you, don't tolerate it.\n\nAdded:\nIf you don't hear from them after you've made it clear that you only want to be friends, the only interest they had in you was as more than a friend. They weren't willing to settle for less, and they have as much right to make that decision as you do to decide that you just want to be friends. Simple as that. What you wanted wasn't enough for them, what they wanted was too much for you. Best to go your separate ways.
777567
No it's not just you this is a pretty big age difference for a guy to want to be a good friend with a girl of this age.  Hope that he isn't using her for any other reason than friendship as young girls that age are so vunerable.
486169
you need to be nicer, she loves ya to pieces! if u really dont want to be friends then talk to her very nicely!
191991
its because you are staying in the friend zone for so long that she probably thought you dont like her. or your just too little too late all the time. its okay dude, atleast may she be happy or sad, she knows you'll always be there by her side no matter what. take it in a positive way. in that kind of situation you'll know and appreciate that she doesnt want to lose you. \n\na time will come that she will get hurt again and will hate herself for being a fool and guess what, who'll be the one comforting her? its you. sometimes women just dont see that the person who cares for them more than themselves is just standing right infront of they're eyes. hope you get your mind and heart straight about this. goodluck.
720413
Hey sweetie, this happens alot and it hurts all of us at one point or another. You must try and surround yourself with people that like you, and enjoy with you. Not someone you want to force to be your friend again.Make friends with other girls, im so sure you're a wonderful person and that people want to be your friend. Just give them a chance. One day your friend will come back to you. Dont worry about it too much.