how to deal with stalker?
470170
get a privte investigator, and a gun!
1174643
Keep a journal of everythnig he is doing.  Also, check with your local victim/witness advocate's office to see if your state has "stalking notices" that can be served on individuals.
1069899
What are you....a stalker?
660812
Stop being a stalker.
1731
File charges with your local police department for harassment and they should get the person to stop contacting you.
948938
This is STALKER talk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
120331
Setup some type of camera or spy equipment to catch him.  When he comes around call the police and show them what you captured with your equipment - that way things are documented.  That would help you quite a bit.  Then work towards pressing charges and getting a restraining order.  That's how I ended up getting rid of a guy who beat and stalked me.
314411
If a man did this it would be stalking and you need to get a life. If he doesnt want you leave him alone.
68996
Ask them. It makes you come off less like a stalker than any other way!
609490
File a harassment suit against them, and tresspassing too.  If you threaten someone's pocketbook you usually get results.
337286
There are remedies for this. First off, in most states there are laws against harassing phone calls. They don't have to be threatening. Second, you can get a criminal protective order. It is similar to a restraining order. Again, no threats have to be made. I see them issued all the time at work. \n\nWhat other posters are telling you is correct. This guy is potentially dangerous. The stalking law probably won't apply. That takes a credible threat that has placed you in fear for ou safety.
435490
What are you her stalker
503864
If she has told you she's not interested, I would highly recommend stopping you pursuit.  You don't want to cross over the line where she might report you as a stalker.
858814
You need to tell him that if he shows up again, you will call the cops.  If you are serious about this, you need to tell him this, and if it does happen you need to do it...PERIOD!!! \n\nYou gotta make it very clear to him that you dont want him.  CALL THE COPS, becuz this is borderline, STALKER!!!  if you are definitely serious about this, then you need to let him know you are going to do this and if he shows up again, let him know to wait right there on the doorstep becuz you are now....CALLING THE COPS.  I bet you he wont come back again and if he does, get the restraining order.  Ever time he comes back, he will be put right in the jail cell and having dudes calling him honey bun and sugar stick *winking* if u know what i mean...
411968
Stalker.  Just kidding, good luck!
767111
You may want to check your local and state laws to find out what actually is considered "harrassment" and "stalking".  Are there distance requirements?  Does the person have to threaten physical action or actually come in contact with his intended target?  I would recommend that you get caller id and also make sure you screen all phone calls with an answering machine so you have a record of his activity.  Make sure that the people that you are in touch with on a regular bais - child care workers employers, family - know what is going on.  keeping this type of thing secret can give the stalker an unfair advantage.\nBe safe and please, Please do not take matters into your own hands.  The law in any state does not protect vigilantes.  Only if you life is in imminent danger do you have any ground to stand on in defense.
1009934
yes she  might be stalking  you but you dont know for shure. So if she does it again try  to block her if it doesnt work then uf they keep doing that file a report.