What is a "gentle" way to tell my parents I blame them for all my misery?
472681
When you are at the dinner table kindly ask " Could you please pass the salt, YOU BASTARDS YOU RUINED MY LIFE!!.
213462
honey let me tell you something ok if you blame yourself stop doing that it ain't your fault ok. let the pain go away and remember the good times you guys had together keep the memories in your heart and never let them go. always see it this way God needed him to be an angel and that is what he is always now he is in a way better place and looking down on you and the family. I am really srry you had to go threw this and my heart goes out to you and your family and you all will be in my prayers as well take care of yourself.
559063
i am so sorry:(, i dont know anything to tell you except be there for them, tell them they can call you anytime to talk, or if they need some time away, they are always welcomed at your home, and pray for them. GOD BLESS.
193622
You dont.... You should stop and take a look at what they offer you.\nYou wouldn't be here if it weren't for them.\nThey feed you and put a roof over your head. SO, whatever little petty reason you want to "get rid of them" you'd better rethink it. \n\nI can tell you from experience that times can be tough. And I am sure that everyone can tell you that when they were younger they at least once hated their parents. However, now that we're older and can look back at that... We realize why things happened the way they  did. As a child we like to think that we know what's best for us. Feel as if your partents are holding you back, when in fact, they are saving you from the worlds nasty people and truth... It's not easy in the real world. Enjoy your parents for as long as you can. They wont be here forever and then you will have no one to turn to. Charish every day that your parents are still with us on earth. Dont let a day end without telling them how much you love 'em. If you do... Someday, you'll be sorry...
184499
Just tell them! It doesn't hurt my feelings at all. Infact it's quite a relief because then I KNOW about it and can fix it.
305011
sit down with them and tell them. or write a letter. that is what i did. it is easyer than having to say it.
258941
I was amazed at your honest statement..."I needed love not harsh punishments." That tells you what you should do.....tell your parents that exact statement.....be honest in YOUR needs....and if they are the type of parents to ignor you or not listen to your needs, write them a letter.....if they still doese not work...ask them to get you profesional help...a family therapist so you can over come the resentment and denial of your needs. If they will not find a therapist for you...go to your school counsler....they will help...you have done an amazing thing here....keep up the good work...light to you!
112626
Hmm. Not the easiest thing to do, is it? If you by nature are temperamental that's just who you are. You could do some physical exercises. Run, swim, box. Whatever. That is a great way to let out steam. For some people getting older takes off some edges too.\n\nAs long as the words "I'm sorry" are a part of your vocabulary I think the people around you will forgive you blowing a fuse now and then.
331952
blame your parents for not raising you properly and making a selfish small minded person out of you
856990
It's all on me, baby! Sometimes I blame my parents for the way the raised me, but for the most part I take responsibility for my problems. I usually chalk it up to inexperience. Life doesn't come with an instruction manual.
573381
there's no really easy way to tell it. But best to tell it now, they deserve know this matter really,, I hope that time left will be utilized,.. no need to plan on how to say it to them, how hard you plan it,its better to have the problem shared..
1185168
take a beep breath and just tell them the truth.. i've been through what u r going trough..its hard but just swallow whatever they have to say at you..just try harder next time....\n\nps: making a sad puppy face helps..
537325
I feel you very much on that one.but i think your the one who is on the fault you have got them so use to you picking up after them now they dont care you should have made a routine from the begining.sit and seriously tell them its not right and they need to help you out.i am sure they love you and they will understand,
664466
Hello again, it is good to see you are willing to speak in here. \n\nI know what you mean when you say your parents are not taking your serious! \n\nYour parents are saying things that are not useful and it's not because they don't love or care about you, it’s because they are not sure what to say to make you feel better straight away. \nParents can't help saying things like; "don't worry about that", or "you shouldn't be taking that so seriously", or "everyone will like you" "just be yourself and say hello" or "it's just a faze your going through" and "everything will be alright".\n\nParents find it hard to believe they don't understand their children; they hope they did a good job raising you to be a confident person. They are thinking back to when you were little and you made friends easily. They might even say “whatever happened to (little Susie)”; someone who you were friends with in grade 4 and haven't seen in 6 years. That's just the sort of things parents do when they get desperate, feel frightened, or run out of ideas.\n\nYOU NEED TO TALK TO YOUR MOTHER OR FATHER SEPARATELY AND ALONE.\n\nYOU NEED TO SAY “I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY I FEEL THIS WAY BUT I DO” AND “TELLING YOU NOT THE WORRY ABOUT IT ISN'T HELPING YOU FEEL ANY BETTER” AND IF ANYTHING IT IS MAKING YOU FEEL MORE INADEQUATE. OR WHATEVER IT IS YOU NEED TO SAY.\n\nIF YOU’RE PARENTS ARE STILL UNABLE TO UNDERSTAND OR GIVE GOOD ADVICE; PLEASE MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH YOUR FAMILY DOCTOR; IF HE DOESN'T HELP DON'T BE SCARED TO TELL YOU DOCTOR TO WRITE A REFERRAL TO A PHYCOLOGIST OR PSYCHIATRIST.\n\nUNTREATED ANXIETY CAN BECOME A PROBLEM AS PHOBIA’S CAN BE LEARNT AND DEPRESSION WILL FOLLOW.
324397
Well, I know how it feels to have that happen to you and I can truely say that just talking to your parents and the same time would probably be the best way to tell them how you really feel about it. If they don't listen, just try to understand that everything happens for a reason and you may not like it. But God always has a plan. Trust me. I hope I helped you out!
795659
Tell them to go screw themselves...
1005748
is this even a question? anyways, just write that yo were late because you felt like it, or because u felt like u were sick, and had to go to the hospital but yo/your parents lost the hospital note...