What the best way to get over an ex-boyfriend?
470516
since u ended it ask ur self 1 question do u still love him if you do start talking to him again then after a while if you realize he likes you ask him if he does.\n another thing is to forget about him expecially if he hurt you go out often mayb ull meet a new guy like u can go shopping or head to the cinemas another advice start a new make over change u hairstyle ur clothes or anything that will make u look finer
1167716
show your current boyfriend some respect.  if you don't love him anymore, breakup with him.  it may be hard to do but it's easier to get over being dumped than it is to get over being cheated on.
706519
The best way to get an ex out of your head is to erase him.\n\nDelete his number from your contact on your phone.\n[so you don't think about him when you are scrolling through]\n\nDelete/destroy emails/letters he has sent you.\n[Reminiscing in the past is BAD]\n\nGet rid of photos\n[The less you see him the less you will think about him.]\n\nJust start over. Like life was before you met him.\n\nSoon you will think about him less and less. Then move on.\n\nIt is easy to hide your feeling from someone that doesn't exist to you anymore.
1079094
What my grandmother said was the best way to get over someone is to get under someone.\n\nI though that was a funny joke, but it turns out it is scientifically accurate. Getting intimate with someone releases hormones that get you "over" the other person.
1094794
I'm not sure how long ago the two of you broke up, or what caused it, but the main thing you need is time. Allow yourself time to get over the break up, to get your life back on track without him. You cant just shrug your shoulders and turn around and forget about him, he has been half your life for more then 3 years. So don't lock yourself up in the house surrounded with his pictures mourning, but don't loose yourself in going out and partying each night either. take it easy. See friends, do fun things,a nd take time to be alone and cry if you need to. You feel whats best for you at the moment. And you know what? One day you will wake up and feel that you are ready to move on. Good luck!
193145
The best way to mend a broken heart is to accept the fact you can never have him again and move on by making your days busy and by doing things that will make you happy. Be with your friends because they will really help you ease up the pain.
565262
Don't. There's a reason you broke up. It's hard letting go, but give it time, keep yourself busy, and eventually, you will move on and forget.
406428
Just take things one day at a time, and remember that if you were meant to be with him, you will be eventually.  Take some time to mourn the loss of the relationship; give yourself an hour or two on days that you feel you need it, to turn on sad music, look at old pictures, and cry.  Then drop it, and do something for yourself.  I've had times when I thought the world was ending because of the end of a relationship.  I didn't know how I'd make it.  Eventually after going through this a few times, I realized that I can recover from anything.  So can you.
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
3408
The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
558833
First, you have to have self control and set boundaries. Mention about your current boyfriend, if possible, have him join the camp as well, if not, call him at least once a day to help you focus on him. Try not to get into the same group as your ex, dont share too much details about your current life, that will get you emotionally too involved with him. That's how I used to handle it when my ex and I went to a retreat site and I had a bf.
162810
Lean on friends and family.  Do not use drugs or alcohol (it makes it worse).  Keep yourself as busy as possible and don't be alone if you don't have to.  If you do this, you will eventually get over him.  It will take a long time, but it will work.
1061973
My best advice when it comes to breaking up is this:\n\n1) Why would I want to be with a man who doesn't respect me, trust me, be honest to me, or who is unwilling to communicate his thoughts/feelings or to compromise with me? What I want is a man who is always ALL these things.\n\n2) It's impossible to try and forget him. Stop trying. The more you try, the more you'll think about him. Just remember the good times. They made you feel good and they are a part of your life. Treasure those moments, but also acknowledge the bad memories. Learn from them and then the relationship was not for nothing. Use them to pinpoint the perfect man for you... what you want and don't want in a new man- the right man.\n\n3) Rely on friends and family. Use their support and love to get through this time and get your mind off of it. They are people who really do love you and will always love you, no matter who the new guy is that is breaking your heart.\n\n4) Know that it takes time. Even all the advice and words of support that you listen to don't sink in and make their impact until you are ready for them to. One day, when you break out of the mindset you are in during a breakup all of the love from your friends and family will make its impact.\n\n5) Remember that it's worth the risk! If you don't take the chance, you won't be able to meet that guy who is your perfect match. He is going through the same pain as you are now, because everyone must go through break-ups before they find the right one.\n\nHere are some books that I recommend for getting over a breakup:\n\nHe's Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo\n\nBe Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either : Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve by Ian Kerner
636790
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy,treat yourself well,stay away from your ex,and move on,my friend.Best wishes:)
284876
stay busy. pick up a hobby or renew an old one. go to the gym. spend time with family and friends. watch movies. read books. but do not keep thinking about him. the only true way to forget is to let time pass by. you can only let time pass by if you spend time doing something else. \n\nand last but not least, learn to accept your loss. talk with a good friend about it. dont be afraid to reach out to a friend to talk. and if you dont have one to go to, find a therapist to help you. you cannot forget an ex all on your own.\n\nafter a while you will slowly forget him. but it takes time. good luck.
1116175
hotti, i was in the same situation.  I loved him and he cheated so i broke up w/ him.  It was hard to get over and i thought that i would never get over him, but i did.  \n\nFirst, get rid of anythign and everythign that reminds you of him.  EX:  Pics, notes, letters...ect\n\nNext, now that you have your mind off of him, keep ot off and try new things.  Make sure to be having fun.  Go to a club and hang out with friends.  Party.  Then do more fun stuff like somethign you never did b4.  If you have nvr been surfing, try that.  Or try any of these:\n~skydiving\n~bunjee jumping\n~eat a lot of ice cream\n~introduce urself to a new type of music\n~go to a concert and 'Rock out!!'\n~get a journal and in a red pen write "I hate _________"  (fill his name in)  and fill the whole jorrnal.  If that dont work, use a more appropriate word, like a*s*s* , jerk, loser, or anythign else.  Be creative.\n~hang out with a million other people you dont know\n~have a night on the town with your mom or best friend.\n\nHere are some really fun things that you could do to get him mad:\n~order magazines in his name and send them to his house.  Make sure thay are girly or childish magazines\n~sneak into his house and draw all over his face with red marker\n~hang all of his underwear outside with a sign that says "A*S*S* crack undies.  Free.  Never been used.  lol (do you get it)\n~Just have fun.\n\nI hope i helped.  Dont cry over a jerk.  You will definately find a better guy who loves every part of you no matter what.
870044
Ya get over him. You just gotta realize that in the grand scheme of things he is insignificant. He may have hurt you but people hurt eachother all the time. You yourself have probably hurt someone at some point. Everything that happens does so for a reason. You learned a hard lesson on what not to look for in a man and hopefully you picked up on that lesson and it will make the rest of your life easier. Life is what you make it and you can choose to live in the past or to take each lesson you learn along the way and create a wonderful future.