if you are going to cut your hair you can't feel the pain. why?
470827
Is this a serious question? I'm sure I have seen this one before.
523430
yes very painful. Works better in smaller strips. A salon uses an oil and a powder to keep the wax from pulling the skin, so it just grabs the hair. But if you are doing it at home cut the wax strips into smaller lines. it will take longer but much less pain full.
416009
Cutting is often reported by those who do so, as a form of "release" from actually feeling NOTHING AT ALL. For others, it is an attempt to redirect the pain.  Some others do use it as a form of self punishment. It depends. Whatever the reason, it is not always just a representation of childhood grievances; like one of the others here said, you can have a fine childhood. BUT, if you have a mental illness which can be purely organic/biological then cutting is a symptom of some pretty serious personality disorders. Either way, a cutter's suffering is great and should not be taunted because of it. Many go to great lengths to hide it and are ashamed.  If you know someone with this behavior, they need help and support soon. People who are cutters have a very high rate of suicide, although the cutting itself does not often represent a suicide attempt but some have accidentally resulted in such because they cut too deep.
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I don't think anyone can answer that for you, you need to decide that for yourself, after all your the one gonna have to live with it.\n\n     But I wanted to let you know that if you do decide to cut it, there is a great org. out there that prevides wigs of kids how have cancer and have lost their hair to kimo. \n\n     Ask your hairdresser if you do decide to cut, I believe it's called "Locks of love". I would be a nice gift, don't you think?
594649
It's not the "cutting" so much as the why.  Every self-mutilator I have met has said that hurt, anger sadness, any emotion gets so bad that cutting relieves the pain.  In history doctors used to try to cure diseases by "blood letting"  cutting the patient so the "bad, diseased blood" would be removed from the body.  How deep do you cut?  do you require sutures?  Most cutters are not suicidal, but sometimes accidentally kill themselves by cutting too deep or hitting an artery.  Counseling is not a bad thing, if you get the right person, but you have to want to go or it won't help you.
576025
Ask them to apply some numb spray before you get pierced. That makes it painless.
389478
I don't know how the pain feel. So nothing..
576413
Yeah. When you've been hurt so badly, you block out every emotion except pain and sadness. You don't necessarily physically hurt; but the emotional pain is unbearable. It doesn't last forever though. Talk to a counselor or a close friend/relative. Sorry honey!!!! P.S. Right category.
730441
Trimming with scissors as mentioned before is not painful, but if you find a better way let me know. Shaving, waxing, etc. doesn't always feel the most pleasant.
660478
well to dull the pain use heat and to numb the pain use cold, massaging the muscle might help also.
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hey! I'm a very dark haired girl. when i was in middle school my mother forced me to wax my arms, legs, and eye brows. it hurt a lot, but it made me feel better about myself. dark hair all over your body could be really embarrassing. especially when you are 12! when i was 13 we went on a family vacation to Mexico and i had to wear a bathing suit. my mom refused to let me shave down there but said if I'm worried about the hair we can have it waxed. it was the most painful experience in my life, but it was something i had to do. i mean, i cant have  a bush sticking out from my bikini line. no matter how old i am. if you are blonde, dont worry because your hair is light and no one probably sees it but you. but if you feel its something you need to do for yourself, do it. it will make you feel prettier and its not dangerous or damaging to your health at all! just remember to go a CLEAN place. dont try to get away with a cheap place because there stuff could be dirty and that could give you an infection. otherwise dont worry. good luck! i wish you all the best.\n\np.s. the more you wax, the less it hurts and the longer it takes for the hair to grow up and when it grows back its lighter and thinner. just a  little hint.
92137
It hurts like crazy, but it ends.  Your pain ends when the procedure is over.  The pain for the other person has lasted longer and probably is not over.  I hope that helps.
821912
The nerves are the source of the pain.  Without the nerve, there would be no pain.
879608
If its breaking the skin then yes. I believe its called a superficial cut. Cutting to relieve tension, stress, anger, or to cause pain is a problem and needs professional help.
87642
Understand why you hurt yourself.  THere is a lot of pain that you have.  The cutting makes you calm and/or you enjoy the rush.  In any event, you have to find a healthy way to express the inner pain and quiet the mind.  \n\nThere are many paths to that.  THere is mediation.  Playing a video game.  Talking to a good friend. Excersise.  Remember that you are now responsible for this baby.  Don't give him/her the pain you suffered in life.  Eventually, it will affect the baby.  Do you want that?\n\nYour best bet would be to talk to a professional psychologist that specializes in behaviorism.  Tell them you cut yourself.  They will give you alternatives to the pain.  No need to hurt yourself in another way by be addicted.\n\nAlso, remember that eventually your kid will find out about your issue when they are older.  Do you want that?  You know kids like imiatation.  If you can't do it for yourself, do it for the baby.  \n\nAgain, seek professional advice.  This is serious\n\nIM me at onlineguyinsac or email me at onlineguyinsac@yahoo.com  I know a few things about psychology, my major.  I can help somewhat
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Self-mutilation is usually not the problem itself, but a symptom of the problem. Speaking from personal experience, alot of "cutters" feel that the cutting is a release for the pain and frustration that they feel inside. I'm willing to bet that your friend is suffering from depression. This is not something that you can handle on your own. If you guys are minors, than you need to speak with her parents. They need to be aware of her problem so that they can seek professional help. She may be angry with you and feel betrayed at first, but she WILL realize one day that you did it because you care. She'll probably even be thankful! If, however, you're NOT minors, then you should gently tell her that you're concerned and think that she should seek help. Be sure to tell her that she's not crazy, and let her know that damn near everyone needs a little help sometimes. No matter what, let her know that you love her and will always be there for her.\n\nI hope this helps...good luck to you both...
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dude i have the same problem and share your pain. i use to cut myself, but then it seemed so stupid so please dont do that.what really works for me is talking about my problems with my mom,sister,cousin or a really trustful friend, because they dont judge me based on what i say,do or feel.they will try to help you out as much as they can and understand what youre going through and give you advice. you dont need therapy to figure out whats wrong and waste all that $$ when you can talk to someone at home for free :)\nmusic=escape from reality