If your bf is ignoring u and you herd he wanted to break up with u and you wouldn't hug or anything wat to do?
461140
I'd let him go...if he's not into you, is it worth it to debase yourself or do something you don't necessarily want to do to get back together?
648509
If he doesn't understand you, then forget him. He's got problems.
905925
You should break up with him.  I mean if you are really sorry then give him his freedom from you.
697047
he is avoiding u b/c he is scared of what will happen if his gf finds out or if ur bf finds out.if i were u i would examine the sitiuation very closely, then pick either him or ur bf and make him decide also
513173
u actually expect anyone to say he doesn't like u after u say he's hugged u & hanging with u?.whatever.
1167007
I would have broken up with him by now. If he can't be bothered making an effort to be with you, he's just using you. Why should you be the only one willing to work on this relationship. It takes two. Get rid of him and wait for someone who will treat you right.
566268
So I guess you were naked when you were hugging him.  Stop seeing him and don't be alone with him, if you don't want to be with him.
228233
Well, it's sad but true: IGNORE HIM!!! it really works 4 me, when my guy is ignoring me or wants to treat me like I don't even exist, I show him he cannot do it to me and just pretend that I got to accept it just because I love him, so, I ignore him until he's forced to react and ask what happens, and when he asks me I just tell him: U just got to learn to treat me as the magnificent woman I'm not as a ****!!
721223
Just let him go and dont think about him. Let it happen and make sure that he tells you a great reason why he is breaking up with you and see if you two can be friends and talk to you.
366738
He might be pulling the whole "distant and mean" routine in order to get you to initiate the break-up.  If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, I would bet that this is the case.\n\nThat being said, there is a good likelihood that he is simply at a junction in his life where he is having to divert some of his attention from you and put it on other things.  This happens from time to time and it is something you will have to come to deal with if you ever hope to forge a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with someone.
308082
Try calling him and asking him what's up with the two of you. If he continues to ignore you, just break up with him and move on. He can't be so busy that he can't even talk to you for a month.\n\nIf he really loved you, he'd make some time for you.
1095041
breaking up is never easy..... however.... if you think that ur bf is a jerk then you can be mean about it and tell him that you don't like the way he's treating you and that you deserve better but if he's a nice guy just say that you don't feel the same way as you did in the beginning of your relationship tell him that you see you too better as frnds and you no longer see him as a boyfriend....
784738
just when he starts to do something then pull away a little bit. that's what my bf tried to do to me. we were making out and he reached for my shirt and a grabbed his hand and pulled away from him and told him that i wasn't ready for that. and he was totalu cool about it! just be honest!
299649
if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
1092009
If he loved you and you broke up with him, you probably broke his heart and that's what killed the feelings. He probably still despises you for this, and probably wants to love you again but resents you for hurting him. If you stop the effort and lay off, he might start the effort. Lay off and relax, if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be and it's just a waste of time, energy and emotion to try. If it doesn't work, move on, but in the meantime, just relax and try not to worry about it, if he wants to, he'll try.
457405
he doesnt want to talk to you
186974
hey ive been helping my friend w/ something like that q...now get a friend to help u by talking to him.if ur dating him tell ur friend everything hes doing wrong and if he is ignoring u then give ur friend a list of things u like and dis-like and one of them being that u dont like it when people do that kind of stuff to u mostly if ur dating him