Continuation- This dude betrayed me...but I still love him?
464794
Wow, you are making this like 10,000 times more complicated then it needs to be.\n\nIf you like the boy (and it seems like he would have to be completely blind to not know this already) just suck it up and ask him out.  Clearly and consisely say that you find him physically and emotionally attractive and you would like to go out with him and see how it goes.  It helps to have a plan, like "I want us to go to a particular movie on Friday" or a particular resturant or rent a particular movie.  \n\nAnd after that it is let go and let God as they say.  Maybe he'll jump at the chance, maybe he'll never speak to you again.  Live and learn.  But it beats sitting around Yahoo Answers overanalyzing weather or not he waved to you in the hall.  That is just a big melodramatic waste of everyones time.\n\nCut down on the drama little dude and just ask the guy out.
301291
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
96961
"Ratting him out" will not bring him back to you.  It comes across a bit juvenile.  If this man would treat you poorly and leave you, then stab his friend in the back by sleeping with his girlfriend, is this really the type of guy that you want to waste your energy on?  Think about it, all of this time that you've been so concerned with his actions, was he even thinking of you?  I would say re-direct this effort towards finding your own happiness.
530117
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
1003390
Gurl once a cheater always a cheater. He disrespected you by cheating on you on, while you saved yourself for him. It's not ok for anyone to cheat on anyone. People do what you let them do to you. If you forgive him for cheating this time it's likely he'll do it again. But since you say you love him I would suggest you both seperate for a while and see if you can't find a better man than him that will treat you like the diamond you are. Good Luck!
49411
perhaps you should stop reading things into it, don't try to figure out what he's thinking.  Come straight out and be honest with him, "look, I said those things because I was confused.  I feel foolish, and you may not want to hear it, but the truth is that..."  if he is any kind of a man, he will hear you out.  Don't play games, if he is worth fighting for, be straightforward.  He heard what you told him and he took you seriously.  Don't try to "make him call", just seize the opportunity and do so yourself.  If he accepts an intelligent whole-hearted apology and he feels the same, it was meant to be.  Next time, don't be so impulsive!
980344
Do you still love him?  If you do then I would say try again.  BUT, you need to have a serious conversation with him before you put yourself out there again.  Explain to him that you never cheated and you were offended when he just blindly believed a rumor instead of even asking your side.  This is your life and your decision, do you think he is worth your time?  Is he going to just believe anything anyone says about you?  He needs to realize that the 2 of you are the only ones in your relationship...  Hope everything works out good for you.
456637
Ok sweetie, obviously he is protecting himself from being hurt again by being in a relationship with you but not.  This may be a fine distinction and completely without merit.  And it is, I would say just give him some time if you like him, but I would expect that he should treat you with the dignity and respect that you deserve.  I would not settle for anything less if I were you. And if he can't trust me there is sombody out there who will love you for who you are, and will treat you the way you deserve.  Good luck sweetie and I hope this helps.
738335
I guess u meant "betray" . Well.........in the beginning i'll not be able to control myself- human nature, dear. But, then ofcourse I think that the person is not worth ur friendship. But before it i'll just ask this question " Why did you do this to me?"
267893
thats not fair to your current dude, u should tell him how u feel. maybe he'll step his game up to keep your mind on him.     i would
888420
Ummmm, no.  He cheated on you!  If you got it going on like that girl get another man!   I am a cutie pie too and trust me men are a dime a dozen.... Move on and on and on...
261672
you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
1026549
U muz love him a lot to hurt so badly. But u muz also feel feep in your heart this guy is not worth all the heartbreak u are feeling now. He is full of lies. I hope u r not considering going back to him as a leopard can never change his spots. Don't give him a second chance to hurt you! Tell yourself, u r greatful for this learning experience. U have become the wiser for it. U r gorgeous and not lacking in anything. U have the world spread out in front of you. Who is he? He is just a nobody u shld leave behind
1087623
I know I'm still in love with my ex - he ended our 2 year relationship very suddenly with an e-mail & I am finished with\ndating, men, relationships, love. He was the last man I ever plan to be involved with - I've had enough.  Good luck with your situation!
619098
oh you're not in an abusive relationship at all are you? he was you wrapped around his lil finger and you don't even realize it. wanna know where this is gonna go if you don't grow a back bone and leave him? you'll be dead in a ditch somewhere and it'll be his fault. if he loved you back he'd trust you enough to let you do your own s.hit without havin to make you call ever 5 f.uckin mins. you need to stop and pay attention to what your gut is tellin you bout this guy. i wouldn't be surprised if it's tellin you to leave and not look back
452176
I don't.  A committed relationship means just that.  Seems like this guy isn't committed, and he lied to you about it.  Wow, what a catch...
306204
Sorry but you don't cheap on anyone that you supposedly love.  Spare him the heartache again if he knows that you cheated.  Put yourself in his shoes, cuz I know you wouldn't like it if he cheated on you.  Move on.....