my bf says he only trust me 80% and i never did anything  for him not to. What should i do?
468238
probably he got hurt in a previouse relationship, and is caring that untrust over into your relationship. Or he is not trustworthy himself, and expects you to be the same way. To earn his trust be nice to him and don't give him any reason not to trust you. However if he is untrustworthy he will never fully trust you.
456637
Ok sweetie, obviously he is protecting himself from being hurt again by being in a relationship with you but not.  This may be a fine distinction and completely without merit.  And it is, I would say just give him some time if you like him, but I would expect that he should treat you with the dignity and respect that you deserve.  I would not settle for anything less if I were you. And if he can't trust me there is sombody out there who will love you for who you are, and will treat you the way you deserve.  Good luck sweetie and I hope this helps.
1035829
you can ask, but you either trust someone or you don't.  if you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him.  and if you do trust him, you have to know in your heart he wouldn't do that even if there are signs that might point that way.
475858
Yes You can get anyone to trust you just make him trust you by being repectful, and loveing show him you would never hert him.
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
997372
Whatever you do don't have sex with him.  He might be trying to give you something that you might want.  Don't trust him.  He's up to something.
251773
Lying is a very serious character flaw.  Other words for this are "untrustworthy" and "dishonorable".  This lack of integrity is a very shaky basis on which to build a lasting relationship.  He lies to manipulate you so he can get away with doing whatever he wants without having to be responsible to you.  He is not likely to stop.  I hate to say it, honey, but if you continue a relationship with your "almost perfect" guy, you are going down a path you will greatly regret.  Don't do it; Let's face it; HE IS A LIAR, plain and simple.  Whatever other great qualities he may have do not, and cannot, ever make up for this serious lack of integrity.
414930
First off, you are allowing him to look through your stuff, big mistake!  Obviously he was gifted with the jealousy gene and you with the "let him do whatever he wants" gene.  So my first piece of advice, stop letting him do whatever he wants.  Trust is a two way street.  If he wants to see what you have in your junk, then he should be showing you what's in his.  However, it's very common for an unfaithful person to try and hide their guilt by trying to find something to blame it on with their signif.  So what should you do?  I'd dump him and get someone who's got self confidence, maybe it will help you get some too.
332314
I CAN'T HELP U THERE I GUESS U WOULD JUST HAVE TO BELIEVE HIM IF U REALLY LOVE HIM THEN THERE SHOULD BE NO TRUST ISSUE
1136822
Seems like you have answered your own question, where is the relationship if there is no trust!!! I know what you mean tho. you can't change someone, they have to recognise their failings, and choose to do something about it. Try speaking with him about how you feel and see what he says..Then you will know whether he is willing to make steps to change his behaviour toward you, if he doesn't then you know what youve got to do
93750
May be try to be more open with him? Offer to share information and anticipate his questions by providing the answers outright.  If this doesn't work, then consider that fact that he may be jealous and paranoid and that whatever you do (or don't do) won't matter because it will be his version of events that he will see. Next step, I guess, would be to find out for yourself if you can have a long term relationship with your man knowing that he doesn't trust you.  \n\nGood luck!
894244
you dont so if you dont trust him leave him save yourself the stress
240742
You need to show him that he can trust you! Don't do the things that his ex did.  Go above and beyond what you think you should be doing!  Show him that your CrAzY about him!
184044
you are too insecure\ngrow up, invite him and learn a life lesson in trust and love
494843
discuss the matter with him, if u do trust me then dnt wait and tell him yes, so u need to think if trust him or not
1099278
apparently he trusts them and you and probably doesn't think anything about it.   BUT, if you don't like it, go with him or tell him to stop leaving you alone with them.  I would not feel comfortable with that either.
619054
I think something happenned in your life that is leading to not trusting him.  Go talk to a psychologist about your past and traumatic experiences to find out why you are thinking this way.  If you don't agree, talk to the counselor about why you have insecurities.  There's no shame in having insecurities, who doesn't.  But don't let it interfere with your relationship.  He chose you.  Let him know how sexy you think he is and give him a lot of attention and he'll draw closer and closer to you.