My Holiday Romance was the perfect guy in my eyes, i just feel so lovesick. How can i let him go?
457331
Well this is the harsh reality of it, in general holiday romances are so good becasue they only last the length of the holiday, chances are after a few more weeks the perfect routine might wear a bit thin
368455
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]
1026549
U muz love him a lot to hurt so badly. But u muz also feel feep in your heart this guy is not worth all the heartbreak u are feeling now. He is full of lies. I hope u r not considering going back to him as a leopard can never change his spots. Don't give him a second chance to hurt you! Tell yourself, u r greatful for this learning experience. U have become the wiser for it. U r gorgeous and not lacking in anything. U have the world spread out in front of you. Who is he? He is just a nobody u shld leave behind
765008
Sadness is a natural reaction to this kind of information.\n\nHis honesty is a good sign for the future of your relationship.  If he needs to resolve lingering feelings before committing 100% to you then you are wise to let him.\n\nIt sucks that he is ruining your holidays by giving you something to worry about.\n\nKnow that there is nothing that you can do to change this.  It has all to do with the fantasy that he still has about her.\n\nShe has moved on.  If you can be patient and focus on something outside of your relationship during the holidays you will be better off.\n\nTake care of yourself.
587272
Sounds like he just wanted an excuse to leave. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but its the vibe I get from your description. Try to move on and find someone who will love you and be honest with you. Best of Luck.
614690
I understand your situation. I dated someone for awhile then I broke up with him for a really dumb reason. Went through a few transition guys and then realized I still loved him, even more than I did when we were together. I wrote him letters, but he just was not that into me. I cried, and was depressed and felt like everything was wrong in the world. What made it even worse was that we hung out together every single day.  It all changed when I stopped throwing myself at him and other guys that hung out with us were interested in me. I would flirt a little with these guys and it really go to my ex. Then one day soon after he got into me again, and I started crying tears of joy instead of tears of sadness. So just don't be desperate, make him sweat over you a little. It works, I am living proof of it :)\n\nP.S. This may work for you, but it may not. If it doesn't, please do not pine over this guy's affection for too long. Move on, live life. There will be plenty of other guys even though right now it may not seem that way now. Do not waste your life trying to get one guy, because you may be so focused on him that many oppertunities, friends, and even relationships may pass you bye.
511987
Realize that the feelings you have for him are probably a result of feeling guilty for what you did with him. You think that, if this turns into a relationship, that will make it OK. This is a pretty normal feeling for girls but it doesn't work like that. This is not a guy you want to be around. He will cause you nothing but pain. Not to mention put you at risk for things like HIV and AIDS. Respect yourself enough to know that you deserve much better and move on. Don't look back. Good luck.
734409
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.
372869
Well it hurts soo bad because u lose the one u are emotionally ATTACHED to..u feel like u dont wanna be with anyone else..because they made u feel soo great..but think of it this way..there was a reason why u and the one u "loved" didnt make it...its just not meant to be..dating is to meet the right person for u..almsot like experimenting..so good luck! and i hope everythingz k :) keep ur head up!
322142
Ok..this question needs bullet points! LOL\n1. Move out immediately..no wonder you still want this guy..you're staying with HIS FAMILY!\n2. Don't beg for anyone who doesn't want you...it's not flattering, it's just desperate.\n3. If you kissed another, you didn't want him.\n4. I'll say it again-MOVE OUT. You may be surprised, that after you move out, you'll feel differently. Change in environment could do you good. And..stop chatting once a week. \nI wish you the best! :)
1158485
tell him straight away how you feel about him.  if he reciprocates then good for you.  if not at least you will be in the clear.  If you do not hurry someone may beat you to it and then you will be left with nothing.  Take a chance.  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  don't think that love is a game of chance.  Don't ignore him.  instead shower all your attention on him.  this is your self created mess and only you can clear it up.  all the best.  God Bless.
129531
At first forgive him, because he is a fool and really poor minded. But then try to move on, you deserve someone who cares and loves you in return.\n\ngood luck :-) I know how you're feeling
324387
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
223538
you're lingering over old feelings and sometimes that's natural, especially if you felt really strongly for this person.  your best bet though is to move on and try to find some interests that will help you take your mind off of him.  wish you luck.
268016
You are not alone! If any one has gamble in love, then, at one time or another they too, were in this situation.  A few weeks ago I seen a segment on TV about a woman who actually makes her living helping others that have broke up from their mates. This is how devastating a breakup can be.  The first thing she did was make sure the person did not become a couch or bed potato.  She said you have to get back into the world as soon as possible.  I realize that you are more concerned about the daily thing, and seeing him all the time.  Just, get up every morning, always fix yourself up and dress 'hot'.  Lean on your friends when you have to see him or be in the same class with him. Everyone has that one friend that makes you laugh alot, you need her now more than ever. Continue your life as close to normal as possible. Scope out someone else that you might be interested in dating and start conversations with him. You may not be ready, but get ready. Your X will see that your life has not stopped because he walked out. And by moving forward and keeping a good appearance and attitude, he will definitely take notice. I don't if you want him back or not, but moving on to another relation ship always makes the other one feel rejected and if someone else wants you, so does Mr X. You got the power..now, GO GIRL!!!
970987
get over him by making your self feel better. by this i mean go out and buy all new clothes, get a sexy hair cut and make him look at you. some call this retail theropy! the best answer i can give you is try and be round people as much as possible. i just broke up with my boyfriend and now i live by myself and its very deppresing. and always remember never leave the one you love for the one you like coz the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
697766
That is so awesome!! I know EXACTLY how u feel when somone u thought was not in your league chooses u...\nFirst ENJOY & rmbr u r worthy of all of your gifts/blessings!! \nIsn't God wonderful?\nJust treat this relationship w/ love & u will do just fine.\nMy man is incredibly handsome, generous, & loves to take me out everywhere! Every day I can't b-leeve he is w/me!! Truly, I am starting to hold my head up more, being proud of who I am..there must b something about me thats awesome too! \nSo I m sure u r awesome..don't worry about the Y's & c him again really soon! And if things don't work out..imagine u had him for a little while!Dreams really do come tru.