Tell me any facts about women who abuse thier husbands and children?
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MenWeb - Men's Issues. Child sexual abuse by women - summary  \nThe Sexual Abuse by Women of Children and Teenagers. Summary of UK TV programme - Panorama - BBC1 - 10 pm Monday 6th October 1997. The sexual abuse of children by women was once thought to be so rare it could be ignored. ... Battered Husbands. One reason that domestic violence against men keeps happening is that men don't speak out. And when ...www.menweb.org/panosumm.htm - MenWeb - Men's Issues. Child sexual abuse by women - summary  \nThe Sexual Abuse by Women of Children and Teenagers. Summary of UK TV programme - Panorama - BBC1 - 10 pm Monday 6th October 1997. The sexual abuse of children by women was once thought to be so rare it could be ignored. ... Battered Husbands. One reason that domestic violence against men keeps happening is that men don't speak out. And when ...www.menweb.org/panosumm
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They do that because they know you will cry. So you have to turn the tables on them. Gird up the woman power and tell\nthem to back off. Put some sterness in your voice. Don't\nback down. You see they think you are weak and a wimp. But \nyou can prove them wrong. When your husband does that just\nlaugh it off, make a joke about it, or ignore it. As for the\nson he is out of line and he need to stay in a child's place. You need to take his prize possession from him. Ground him until he learns to respect you and obey you. You have got to take a stand and let them know you are not going to put up with their crap no more. That is your house too and you need to take control. Let them see the ugly side of you. That'll scare them.
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There has been several in the news here lately. Just watch the news or call any tv station and ask them about a child abuse the showed on the news.You can't get any closer then that unless you are (the abused child.)
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Contact a local organization that specializes in assisting victims of domestic violence.  See the link below for more info.\n\nBest of luck.
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Having a physically abusing wife is serious and dangerous not to mention demeaning to you.  While it may not be reported often, because of the stigmatism associated with a man being beat by a woman, it doesn't mean that its not as serious.  \n\nDomestic violence of any kind is very serious, and there are support groups, shelters, and counselors that can help you.  \n\nPlease seek a family counselor to help you get over your physically abusive wife.  You will either help her to stop abusing you, or you will need to leave the marriage for your safety and protection.\n\nPlease call a counselor, speak to your religious leader, or go to a support group in your area.  \n\nDo not ignore this or try to handle it alone.  You should talk to someone about this.  \n\nPraying for your safety and peace.\n\n:o)
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stalkers, weirdos, women beaters, rapist....
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Unfortunately the beaten wife syndrome has got a hold on her.  Its very sad to see these women who do this on a regular basis.  But they are the only ones who can change this.  Sure, you could have your buddies whoop on him, but then you are lowering to his level.  Until she realizes that she needs to make a change, this will continue.  Some women never get it and end up dead.  Maybe suggest that she go and see a counselor about it.  Then once they are no longer together, Have 6 of your Buddies kick the shyt out of him.
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what is their to understand about domestic abuse? it should never happen. that is what i understand and that is what anyone with half a brain should understand. this is coming from someone who has been there.
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Female circumcision and domestic abuse are the most common.
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Wow. I'm not sure that anyone will really have an answer to all of that, but one thing to try for sure is going through the courts to find a good councellor for her. If that doesn't work, you could always consider a boot camp. My brother attended one after going through alot and putting my family through hell and back. He's a changed person because of it. If it comes down to her using your husband in one of her "plots", I would seek help from a paid professional. If she is lying to hurt you, there has to be something going on in her head that makes her think that it's ok to do. I hope this helps in any way.
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Try this link! I read about at least 2 women in the article.\n\nIf the article doesn't help maybe there is another link on the page that will.\n\nGood Luck!
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In the family structure of Muslim nations the wife is below the sons.  \nI saw when I was in Iraq how the wemon were treated.  Older ladies would come up to us beging us to marry their daughters.  Then the husban or son would drag them back home.  Sometimes they would hit their mom/wife.  Then we would "search" the man.  Getting searched by a pissed off Marine is not fun.  \n\nI could tell you another much worse story but people might have nightmares.
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Was that a serious q?  If it was my father in law was on big time.\nLook for:  \n  Binges of staying up for days (depending on how much they are doing),\n Crashing and sleeping for days (or just all day, again depends on how much they are doing.\n  Becomming violent\n  Overly happy\n   Very hyper/"wired"\n  Watch for them making jumps in convos - that nobody can follow.  I.E.  You are talking about how much you made from a paycheck to somone shooting a dear illegally in another state (personal, family experience of theirs)\n  Erratic mood swings.  (being happy, and talking one min, and the next be yelling about $50 you think someone is ripping you off, then saying how they got the person they are talking to out of trouble when they shot that dear in wyoming, to flipping your 6 months pregnant daughter in law over a chair while she was trying to get her husband to leave, to holding a knife to your sons throat threatening to kill him) ****Yeah, it happens fast.  I know because I was the pregnant woman being flipped over a chair.  And the person my father in law was talking to was his son, my soon to be husband.\n  Having hundreds of dollars and then being broke in a few days.\n  Being anti-social\n  Swear a lot (you had that)\n  They can make funny faces ( depening on how they are doing )\n  Unable to shut up (jabber mouth)\n  Visit the restroom frequently\n  Sniff a lot ( if they sniffed it, not if they smoked it )\n  Look for mirrors, or other flat surfaces with the residue\n  Erratic behavior (saying brb and being gone hrs, wanting to work on everything, cheating, lying, stealing ect)\n Grinding teeth\n Sores\nLoosing weight \n Dirty hands is just gross, doesn't mean meth.
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I reported a man who kids use to come to my place of work and tell me mommy and daddy make us do all kinds of sexual things,it was all done in secrect,but,they took the kids away and the grandparents have custody and he got 7 months in prison,she was ordered to stay away from the kids!sometimes,speak up to help these poor children,I do,it breaks my heart!The police interviewed the children and both parents where taken in,I still don't understand why she didn't get any time coz she also has aids and probably gave it to her 2 kids!so sad!I pray for them every night!Young children don't know how to make these things up and that was enough to get him arrested and have the children taken away!
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I would need more information and some of this may not be released to the public.\n\nHere is general information on Domestic Violence.\n\nDomestic violence toward women: Recognize the patterns and seek help\nDomestic abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of age, economic status, race and educational background. Find out how to recognize an abusive relationship and what resources are available to help.\n\nHe says he's sorry and that it won't happen again. But you fear it will. Angry outbursts, hurtful words, sometimes a slap or a punch. You may start to doubt your own judgment, or wonder whether you're going crazy. Maybe you think you've imagined the whole thing.\n\nBut you haven't. Domestic violence can and does happen to people of all ages, races, and socioeconomic and educational backgrounds. Domestic violence happens to men and to same-sex partners, but most often domestic violence involves men abusing their female partners. In fact, the Department of Health and Human Services estimates that as many as 4 million women suffer abuse from their husbands, ex-husbands, boyfriends or intimate partners in the United States each year.\n\nDomestic violence — also called domestic abuse, intimate partner violence or battering — occurs between people in intimate relationships. It takes many forms, including coercion, threats, intimidation, isolation, and emotional, sexual and physical abuse.\n\nWithout help, abuse will continue and could worsen. Many resources are available to help you understand your options and to support you. No one deserves to be abused.\n\nAn abusive relationship: It's about power and control\nThough there are no typical victims of domestic violence, abusive relationships do share similar characteristics. In all cases, the abuser aims to exert power and control over his partner.\n\n"A lot of people think domestic violence is about anger, and it really isn't," says Diana Patterson, a licensed social worker and violence prevention coordinator at Mayo Clinic, Rochester, Minn. "Batterers do tend to take their anger out on their intimate partner. But it's not really about anger. It's about trying to instill fear and wanting to have power and control in the relationship."\n\nBut anger is just one way that an abuser tries to gain authority. The batterer may also turn to physical violence — kicking, punching, grabbing, slapping or strangulation, for example. The abuser may also use sexual violence — forcing you to have sexual intercourse or to engage in other sexual activities against your will.\n\nIn an abusive relationship, the abuser may use varying tactics to gain power and control, including:\n\nChildren as pawns. Accuses you of bad parenting, threatens to take the children away, uses the children to relay messages, or threatens to report you to children's protective services.\nCoercion and threats. Threatens to hurt other family members, pets, children or self.\nDenial and blame. Denies that the abuse occurs and shifts responsibility for the abusive behavior onto you. This may leave you confused and unsure of yourself or make you feel like you're going crazy.\nEconomic abuse. Controls finances, refuses to share money, makes you account for money spent and doesn't want you to work outside the home. The abuser may also try to sabotage your work performance by forcing you to miss work or by calling you frequently at work.\nEmotional abuse. Uses put-downs, insults, criticism or name-calling to make you feel bad about yourself.\nIntimidation. Uses certain looks, actions or gestures to instill fear. The abuser may break things, destroy property, abuse pets or display weapons.\nIsolation. Limits your contact with family and friends, requires you to get permission to leave the house, doesn't allow you to work or attend school, and controls your activities and social events. The abuser may ask where you've been, track your time and whereabou
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I have been there. My ex-wife accused me of abuse..the part she didn't tell was she had a boy friend and she wanted lot's of $$$$.\nThank God she didn't win..it was thrown out of court..I wish I had it on video tape. She became confused in her story. I could have got some very serious time in jail. I could have sued the hell out of her..but I let it go
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Truthfully I was attacked by a female when I was 24. She found out I was sexually abused as a child and when I met up with her the next time, she told her daughter she wasn't allowed to play with  my daughter because "people who were abused, abuse others". I confronted this woman by telling her I would rather cut off my right arm than harm a child and how dare she place such a devastating label on me, especially to her 4 year old daughter! I called her a bitch when she wouldn't apologise. The next thing I know, she hit me in the face with a coffee mug. The next ten minutes, I beat the living idiocy out of her and it took four guys to get me off of her.\n\nI have been hurt verbally in my life and I can deal with it, but, you hit me and Michelle From Hell comes out!\n\nTen years later, her daughter became a drug addict, the mother lost her looks, money and career because of drinking and their entire family is messed up. Mine on the other hand is great! Well, except for my illness. \n\nCat fight? Well, how about the second (I have only fought twice) fight. I packed a nice picnic lunch, went to my boyfriends house to get him and find him having sex with my best friend in a van I loaned him!\n\nI said a few choice words and when that "woman" threw a big gulp coke at me and hit me with the cup, I took her by the hair, naked, and rubbed her face in the dirt like the dirty little piggy she was. \n\nThey both were written out of my life that very day. No loss.\n\nHope these were good reasons to beat the snot out of someone.\n\nOh...and I wouldn't call this a fight but, a man was trying to pull me out of my van to rape me and I cut him across the hand with the ever present knife I kept at the time. I don't run in bad circles, this guy was a stranger on the street.\n\nSliced his palm wide open and would do it again to protect myself!\n\nSo, that said, attack me and the poop hits the proverbial fan.