Why don't you like your mate's ex?
463914
he used to beat on her up until the day that i found out and went and beat on him...and for everyone else it's because we hate to think about any one having the one we're with either in the past or in the future
1007320
You probably don't really love and might be jealous of the relationship he has with your friend now. Probably because you didn't have that kind of relationship with him. Just let it go. Trust me just let it go!
805834
That my ex girlfriend had s*x with her best friend's boyfriend- I never got round to it though :-/
717031
No, there are rules to dating your best friends ex you know. That would just be wrong.
160716
You can't GET them to like you.  You have to be yourself.  If\nthey don't like you, it may be just because they think you are trying to take the place of mate's mate.  Just be yourself.
1013868
Get to know the other person better.  I know that if someone said they like me then went back with their ex I wouldn't pay him any attention the next time they break up.
314322
You can dislike things about someone, but if you love someone you cannot truely hate them.  If the good times outway the bad, and there will always be bad times then you must remember and think of those and that you are fortunate to have someone to spend good times with.  In the end though you say you think you really like him.  Maybe you should just remain friends until you get your head straight.
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
516615
Alright.  First things first... You dont love him.  You have a crush on him.  Second, she is dating him, leave it alone right now.  Even friends dating ex's of their friends causes HUGE issues, I would leave it alone, if you start to like him more and more, You have to decide if it is worth losing a friend over.  \n\nTo be honest there are TONS of fish in the sea...  I personally would leave it alone and enjoy the friendship.  \n\nI once had a Huge crush on my friend but he had a girlfriend, I left it alone and he is now married and has a baby... do I ever wonder what could have happened... No... because I found my soul mate, and we are better off.\n\nGood Luck.\nJ
888030
If they were your friends it wouldn't have mattered who you were dating as long as you were happy. I wouldn't stress about trying to earn them back because you haven't done anything wrong. If they want to be petty because you broke up with your ex to date someone closer to you then let your friends date your ex and you just concentrate on being happy with your new man. Friends come and go they'll see the light eventually but until then go have some fun with your new man.
1160813
My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
742673
there's a good reason that they are an EX. \n\n\n;)\n\n\nno I wouldn't do it again
800922
This should definetely be his decision....only he knows who he has stronger feelings for...but you didn't necessarily state why they broke up....if it was because she did something to him, you might want to convince him and let him know that you would never do that (and keep your word about it), but other than that, I think you're just gonna have to lie and wait...just be his friend in the mean time, don't pressure him to choose a you or his ex right now
611852
if your ex's friend is willing to go out with you then he isn't much of a friend. there is an unwritten rule that you don't date your friends ex's. that goes for both men and women. it can create problems down the line and hassles that are just not worth it. now having said that you cant help who fall in love with. so if you both feel the same way and are ready for the possible consequences then go ahead and see where it might lead. he could be your soul mate. good luck to you witch ever way you choose.
734067
It's totally cool to have your ex has a friend.  Just because two people aren't right for each other romantically doesn't mean they shouldn't be friends.  Those who don't comprehend it too bad for them, you and your ex are extremely lucky and rare so don't change a thing.
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
338897
Catch 22 mate! either way you ain't going to like it! if you say she cant have him stay she will hate you for it and say you don't trust her which also may lead to her going anyway and may even encourage her to sleep with him just because she is pissed at you! but if you let her go she might realise she misses him and they get it on anyway!\nThe best move you can make is go with them! let her know that you are fine with meeting her ex and your glad you can stay friends. pretend that it doesn't bother you and be all matey with them! by you acting confident and comfortable around them will show that you trust her, that you a confident your girlfriend loves you and wouldn't want to ditch you for her ex, and by being there at least you can keep an eye on him! at least if he does try anything you can give him a could dry slap! if your not a fighting man make sure that a couple of you mates are out that night or why not bring them with you!Tell you girlfriend you should all go out as a group introduce her ex to a few of your crew as if you want to make them feel welcome! if you need anymore help mate email me-jamescuckow@yahoo.co.uk. and good luck