what do u do when ur best friend go with ur ex-boyfriend?
473052
just let her know how u feel. and always keep your eye on her in the future
1072575
umm stay with ur man u guys just gota do somethign diff to spice things up... from my experience dont go after ur BFF's ex..my ex and i broke up and she went out with my best friend... they ended up breakin up and she tried to get back with me... now i dont like either of them.!! its just not right and could cause a bunch of problems like not ever talking to ur bff anymore and u said he is your friend then if u guys break up u might not be friends anymore.... so stick with ur man!!!
338190
I'm a guy but I think my rule of thumb in a relationship works for both sexes. You date.. then you break up.. and when you break up, there is a good reason why the break up happened, and now you need to move on to someone else.  Life is just way too short and precious to be lingering over what could/should/would happen...  If your best friend made you break up with your boyfriend.. is she really your best friend? Most guys have an unspoken code of conduct when it comes to friends' girlfriends/wives (unlike movies or TV shows) Move on....find you a new and better man.. and make your ex and your best friend realize what they lost when you walk in with your new beau!
438680
You tell exactly how you feel. Let her know that you liked the boy first and she know that she was wrong for going with him. When you tell her this make sure you do not say it mean but in a way to let her know that you are trully hurt. Trust me this will work, I just told my best friend how I felt and she broke up with her boyfriend.
919214
forget the ex-best friend and be so happy ur ex is giving u another chance
133340
If the break up was hard on u, ur best friend was probably just trying to spare ur feelings, especially if u have not moved on to a new relationship and ur ex has. It is good that u found out and the source, once it was not ur ex, is not really important.
884723
This one is going to be difficult, so let's see if I can help.\n\nFirst, your ex.  Now, I take it he's your ex for a reason.  Ask yourself, is there a chance for a relationship with him?  And, if there is, would things end up differently if you two got back together?  If you answered "no" to either question, then rule him out.\n\nSecond, your guy friend.  This is even trickier because if you do chose to pursue a relationship with him, it could end up being either being the best thing you ever had, or ending your friendship.  Does he feel the same about you?  If he does, then you may lose him if you don't date him.\n\nI hope this helps a bit.  Sorry I could not be more of a help.
961146
if his cuter than your boyfriend, leave your boyfriend and get his best friend;) go girl! go!
36851
get a new boyfriend. then don't look back. there's a reason why he's an ex.
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
1071254
To spare him, dont go out with him. Since you are not into him fully... dont bother. You'll just want your ex.
1155121
Do not reply to his message. The emotional baggage that would ensue from you two remaining friends will blur the boundaries of having a friendship versus a more intimate relationship. If you do feel the need to reply, reiterate to your now ex-boyfriend that you wish to end the relationship and that being friends is definitely not an option. If her replies further with emails, phone calls or person to person visits, do not respond. If you see him in public, speak and go about your merry way.
514061
I hear ya hunny. The same thing happened to me nearly 4 years ago. When we broke up I took him off my aim list and didn't talk to him for about a year because it was just too hard. He also started seeing someone about a month after we broke up and he is still with her. It does get easier but it is a very very slow process. You just gotta build up talking in general before you can start talking as best friends again. It was just last year that we could start talking like buds again. If he was your first love you may never get over him but eventually you will have to put that behind you if you want your friendship back.\n\nJust try and give it some time, Best Wishes!
361970
steer clear of your ex you've been there done that and you know it wont work out. Of course you want to be back with him because its easier to look back and remember the good stuff but once you get back together with him the bad stuff will come flooding back.\n\nAs for his friend if its a close friend of his might want to steer clear as could cause trouble both for you and his friend as well as heart ache that could be avoided.
782438
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
299799
Stay away.  You dumped him, she took him.  Respect your friend, your boyfriend, and yourself.
944095
to play it safe. you should just be his best friend right now. show him that you can listen and help him cope with his feelings. show him that you can be there when youre needed. show him that youre willing to spend the time and dedicate yourself to him. take on important conversations to learn new things about each other. let him feel comfortable with you and he'll learn to like the real you.\n\nbut you must honest and true to yourself. dont be the girl who broke the relationship up just to have the guy. that's pretty low. dont worry about what your ex will say. only you know you and only you know you like him!