we must love whom we marry or marry whom we love?
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I have to say marry whom you love because if you don't love the person you marry what says you will end up loving them in the end
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Tough question.  \nBut remember one thing, no matter how much this other person loves you if you truely love another you will always want to be with that person. \nSo it isn't fair to the person who loves you.\nIf you can't love a person who loves you then it it is time to allow that person the right to a good relationship.
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I agree with Steven, Marry the one you love. Especially when she is soft, and cute, and funny, and talanted, and introduced you to Pete and Pete, and loves you unconditionally, and likes everything you like, even David Lynch, and loves your baby, and doesn't even mind yo baby mama. You should marry that person, if you ever find them...
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You can love both. There is no 'more or less' in true love. Either you love or you don't. There are no yardsticks to measure true love. Moreover true love is not exclusive. You can love one and many simultaneously.
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Of course you can love them both.......But you will have to love one better than the other. You will have to make a choice sooner or later as to which you love better. I imagine you made wedding vows to your wife. Did you promise your coworker anything? Who did you make promises to first? Will you have to break your promises to one of them in order to continue loving the other? If you think you can love them both the same, you can't.
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We DON'T have to. It happens naturally. LOVE is what rules the world. That's the connection we all have with one another. We, human beings, at the end, ALL we want is to be LOVED.
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1. You MUST love her.\n2. She MUST love you.\n3. There must be mutual respect.\n4. There must be a mutual intention to keep each other safe / to honor each other.\n5. One that respects God above all other things.
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Yes Sure you will marry a person whom you love.I can grasp this knowledge from your question that u are in an urge to fall in love and get married soon.
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i would say love marriage. because you get to know the person before you actually fall in love and then married them. \nArranged marriage you are stuck getting married to someone that you dont even know.
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loving and becoming beloved.
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I agree.  Any marriage between two consenting adults, be it gay, lesbian, interracial, or interreligious, is perfectly fine in my eyes.  Love is love and should be honored, not condemned.
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If you ask me, it would be the same as straight couples marrying. Who am I to say who or what a person is? As long as someone is happy, that is all that matters. And if marrying someone of the same sex makes that person happy, then by all means, go for it.
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Absolutely fantastic once you have the person you really want to be with and who feels the same way about you. To love someone and to be in love with someone especially for many many years takes a lot of work. There will be problems it is inevitable, but true love can work through anything and everything.
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In your DREAMS...... Marry who you LOVE no matter what they HAVE. ....... OK??????
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tell them how it is going to be, you have to make up your own mind on who you want to marry.. its not there choice
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Sarah, since you are a girl, I think to marry someone who truly loves you if certainly better than one who loves you too but not truly. Since he loves you truly, he may be more sincere and faithful to you and even if you dont love him enough now,  due to his love and sincereity, your love for him will grow eventually. Best of luck to you, do make a wise decision because marriage is a life-long committment.
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The definition of 'marriage' varies from culture to culture, century to century, nation to nation. In other words, there is no SINGLE valid defition. It varies. Here's a radical thought: Decide what marriage means TO YOU and to the person YOU LOVE and then act accordingly.\n\nBy the way, the same is true for 'sin'. It's all relative to who is talking. Opinions differ and no one can say who's right or wrong.