Is my ex-lover grateful for the love I gave and showed him or her....?
456714
YES THEY'RE VERY GRATEFUL FROM SELF EXPERIENCE I HAD SOMEONE WHO LOVED ME A 100% AND I FELT THE LOVE THEY GAVE ME I WILL ALWAYS APPRECIATE THEM FOR THAT. THEY ALSO TAUGHT ME HOW TO LOVE BACK I'LL ALWAYS CARRY THEM IN MY HEART FOR THAT IF I COULD TURN THE HANDS OF TIME BACK I'LL LOVE TO RELIVE THAT MOMENT
827079
Nomad is very right!  But if your separation was just heat of the moment, I reckon the second time will be sweeter.  I believe in 2nd chances and if yous can work it out and start again, things will be stronger.  I would love to be in your ex bf's shoes, as for now, my situation with my spouse is near over and final.  But through this, you'll be a better person/lover, if not for your x bf, your next bf.  Good luck and best wishes!
595579
yeah i did today too! (honestly and coincidentally!) i was dating this guy for a year and the only thing that made me stick with him is the fact that i believe that he is a trustworthy, honest and sincere person. Just today, after all the many i love yous and sweet nothings, i asked him, when's my bday? and he does not know! he knows how this thing is important to me as i've reminded him a lot of times but still he did not even have the effort to remember! most of my friends and family think i deserve someone better but i refused to listen...until now that i am fully appraised of my significane in his life. Then i realized...i shouldnt allow myself to be treated so low! So i'm just gonna give up on that guy...and i believe that there is a guy who would value and appreciate me more and treat me as i should be treated - as a person with value and worth! If he doesn't he's just not the guy for me. Good riddance. It's not my loss.
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
783330
I personally think you have made a smart move and are taking responsibility for what is yours. I would NOT stay with or talk with the ex girlfriend. (why mess up what you are trying to recreate). I can understand why you were made at your wife, but she is your wife and more importantly the daughter is yours.
831276
Yea my ex left me to get married to someone of his religious background and now hes miserable in his marriage and i pity him because in the end his breaking up with me i met someone who love me and cherish me more than he ever did and hes unhappy in his suitation......And it bothers him that i'm happy \n\nBut i still pity him
275198
actually i did not do anything just to get even with my ex, no need. because if you really wanted to move on you dont have to get even just to show him that you're now a better person without him, well that is not the basis for that. just do whatever you want to do, without being affected or it is because you're just doing all those things its because you wanted to get even,it only means that you're not yet over with that guy.so the best thing to do is once you already have a new relationship is you have to show all the love and respect to that particular person.so dont use your ex just to get even, just move on with your life.. and be thankful instead that he became part of your life =)
1172852
Ironic yes, Priceless no.\n\nI hope she is ok, and the fact you still feel the way you do shows yours is a strong conviction (even if you are wrong)\nWelcome back.
1082192
ive met a lovely lady on here, she is my soul mate and we have hundreds of things in common, i never thought i would meet someone so perfect in my lifetime (well 99.99% perfect, she's from Wales lol), she has given me a breath of fresh air in my life, and a new belief that not all women are as so shallow as my ex, \n if we met years ago i would of asked her to marry me, but circumstances now mean we can only be friends, which im very happy to be, as i am so lucky to have such a great friend ive never had a 'best' friend in life,  but she is the 'best' thing to happen to me in years. i hope i meet her in our next lives as she truly is a great person. i love you ----
217765
Why are you help your ex wife???
25153
i still am in love with my ex girlfriend and i told her that she is the one for me and someday she'll see it..i told her im not gonna give up on her ...so my addivse is ...win her back..lmao
561707
To a certain exstint it is. Considering that he is moving anyways. She deserve someone to treat her better than she is getting. No woman needs the drama in their lives. But on the other hand how does the ex feel about the situation? Is he ok with it? Is he willing to let her go? If so, then i say girl just be happy, and i wish you the very best of your new relationship.
99947
Your love obviously isn't being returned.  This person is using you and you don't deserve that.  By letting them get away with misbehaving you are just telling them that what they are doing is ok.  You need to put an end to what ever this behaviour is even if it means ending the relationship.  If you give your love to someone then you deserve to have it returned properly and if they can't do that then you need to find someone who will.
439997
Been there done that--both options.  Choose what you have.  What you had before didn't last for a reason.  It may feel thrilling but that sure as hell doesn't last.  You call him an ex-mess for a reason and the guy you are with deserves more respect than that.
816796
It is easier for thought to hold onto the past, rather than to venture out on new waters, even if it is hurtful.  Actions speak much louder than words, and it would appear that the ex is not a man of substance, but just wind blowing about.  You know what to do now, so do it.  You will feel free and so much better about yourself, you'll see.
1080226
have u ever heard someone say, "U DON'T KNOW WHAT U HAVE UNTIL IT'S GONE"?? If u were good to him, he will realize it OWN HIS OWN....he will soon think about u and the good thing he let go of....DO NOT GO AFTER HIM.....if he left u and he knows in his heart that he loves u, HE WILL COME back.....he may still have that emotional attachment but he is SUPPOSED to be with U!!! if in the end, he decides not to continue the relationship with u, then u should view it as HIS LOSS, NOT yours. U SHOULD REALIZE THAT IF HE WANTED U & HE LOVED U, HE WOULD BE WITH U & NOT WITH HIS EX!!! THINK ABOUT IT!!!
1164512
I would tell my past lover that I have found someone new