i'm not a lesbian but i seduced a married woman (for fun, i guess)--am i going to hell?
469255
no you are not but you are going to have to wiggle your way out of that closet
1100218
no, youre not a lesbian. That is totally normal. That is one of the one ways a women can have an orgasm. That turns me on too, but I would stil want to be only with my husband and would never want to do it with anothe women.
262275
I think you should reconsider your religious vows.  Is there someone in particular you want to marry?  You can be married and still serve God by making your home a haven of peace for all who come there, by raising reverent and loving children, by helping others in many ways.  And, of course, you can still pray.  I think God would prefer to see you happily married than have you spend your life serving him reluctantly celibate.\n\nEDIT:  I wrote all that before I read your other questions.  Are you for real?  What was a Rev. sister doing posting about sex under Teen and Preteen?  I also notice all your questions -- and your one answer -- are sexual -- and that answer seemed a bit out of line for someone in your supposed line of work.  I'm beginning to wonder if you are what you claim you are.
261752
Okay well i am married but i still find women very attarctive and if i were to divorce today i would probably try being a lesbian. I have never been with another woman but i have thought about it.
990363
I walk away for 5 minutes and this is what happens to you?   Good god, woman!   Get a hold of yourself!\n\nActually, I cannot come up with any explanation other than "because you are not a lesbian"?
489336
Did you ever talk to her about being gay? (in general) Maybe she could accept you as you are?! I'd say you're rather bi than gay, but that's a different problem.\nI was in the same situation. Now I left my wife and live with another woman, at least she knows about my sexual prefferences and has accepted me as I am.\nAre you bad? no, just sad...\n\nSucces si curaj! Dragos, Buc.
180087
no. Im a christian woman, I dont believe im going to hell for it. But what i do in my bedroom stays in my bedroom.
833138
What HELLBENT! said, except for the part about being a lesbian liberal, which I'm not....
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Dear Omar,\nAm sorry to hear about your wife. It must really be tuff to hold out like you have. In my opinion, I dont think she would damn you for taking on a female friend. I realize it gets lonely especially for a guy. I empathize with you.  You know, I understand you want to stay faithful and probably have thought, what if it was me. Well, my friend, you ARE being faithful, as far as I know. Only God is the judge of what you do. And God knows your heart, whether you are being malicious or not. I don't believe he wants you to be with out companionship. Now sex is another story. You will be taking on alot of guilt because you are not free of your wife in your mind or heart.And suppose you get so involved you fall in love with this person. Then what? Do you chuck your wife and go with her? It is such a fine line as to what to do in this case. I mean what do the docs say about your wife? Is she brain dead? Is she losing body mass by laying? Is she deteriating, What? I say, just be careful not to add additional problems to your life that you may not be able to handle. Choose someone that clearly understands the situation and keep it plotonic(yeah right, huh?). Its nice to know you have someone to talk to and go to dinner and have conversation with, right? To go for walks and the movies. I know what you are talking about. So really you have to make that call and when you do make sure you have a clear conscience.
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The fact that you have even asked the question tells me that, at least according to your value system, you already believe it is "bad".  Physical attraction is pretty much biochemical and very short-lived, basically not the kind of thing to be making potentially life-altering decisions on!  And, even if this may not be potentially life-altering for YOU, I assure you that, as a married woman, even if her husband never finds out it is a life-altering thing for her because her relationship with her husband will never be the same.  SHE will always know she has cheated on him and it will affect her sense of trust and security in the marriage.  Not only that, if there are kids involved, their lives will be adversely affected, too.  Do you honestly want to be a party to that kind of thing just because you are having a biochemically induced attraction to someone???  Take a cold shower, go hang out with single women somewhere, and ask yourself if you seriously want to be involved with someone who has already demonstrated her inability to be faithful, honest or mature about relationships.
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Rubbish, all these people forcing thier morals on you.  If you feel a need to sleep with him, and you want too, do it.  Yes, he may be married, but, he is not going to stop looking just because you turn him down.  If you seduced him, then you are at fault, if harmless flirtation turned into something else, that is nature.  You know that this is just a physical thing and nothing will come out of it, but a little fun, if your ok with that,and can deal with it at work, then have fun.  Guess what people, the wife knows, she just prefers not to admit it, get real.  This woman is not a home wrecker of any kind, and you should not be bashing her.
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I told you she would find out about us sooner or later!  I am crushed, I told myself I would never do such a thing with a married man.  Then look at what I have gone and done??????  Oh my.  \n\nSeriously now,\nI say run with it, just don't over use it if you know what I mean.  Just watch out for WHEN you find her doing the same.  <wink>  :)
1004104
how did you manage to have a lesbian affair if you're straight? wtf?
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Well, i would say- investigate.  It's not unusual for a heterosexual woman to be turned on by the thought of another woman. The question is do you like women only? Are you attracted to both sexes?  Is it only in your thoughts or is it something you will pursue? Do be very careful about per suing any of the above, for your own safety.  I would say join some groups talk about it explore it mentally first.  When you are ready to make a decision about becoming physical, remember there is nothing wrong with you at all.\nFrom a Heterosexual female.
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I'd take it as a compliment.  It's only creepy if she goes after you.  I'm sure she didn't consciously pick this woman because of her similarity to you.  The fact that she is interested in someone like you should just show you how much she thinks of you.  My best friend married someone who's personality is just like mine and they've been together for 13 years. The only difference between your situation and mine is that my friend's husband is different from me in one way, and that's gender.Don't look too much into it...just be happy for her and hope things work out!
880436
lmao. you're questions are very funny.. and i wouldnt know  b/c im not a lesbian! =)
965562
Ah, the jealousy of protecting him for you is greater than the opportunity for her to touch you.  Definitely--you are not a lesbian.