why, sometimes, do guys break it off with girls after they've had sex?
463472
Because they got what they wanted. But that question can go both ways too.
1007052
Guys know that if they just say they want to hang out and have fun, that most girls will not have sex with them. They don't want to get serious so, they pretend that they care and know they don't. Honesty is not something most guys can handle themselves.
602250
I think its just as hard for a man to end a relationship as it is for a girl. Depending on the reasons behind the break up. If it was that easy for him to move on, maybe it was something he already had planned. Look into it.
566716
why do girls have sex with boys like this in the first place?  Girls should have a little more self respect and not jump into bed with someone they know for a month.
617
Alot of females lack an amount of respect for themselves. So they deem the amount of sex or the intensity of the act as a means of actually being with someone. Rather than establishing the relationship first and allowing the loving to be the icing on the cake. It's kind of like when we were kids and played make believe. However,the difference would be that we adventually snapped back to reality. As mentioned previously, woman are emotional creatures and once a guy hitz it the right way or tells us something we like to hear. Woman pretty much lose their minds...so sorry fellas but that's just the way it is...
985444
Because before you lose your virginity you have a lot of sexual tension built up. Also, because it's your first time doing a new thing, it's only natural that you might see things differently.
681462
yeah, he told me he said something very important to me but i don't remember and maybe that's why he broke up with me.\nWell hello, i don't see why you would say something important while having sex, your not in all those senses of caring, in that point.
341836
Yes you are still broken up, but she also wants to get some on the regular.  This can happen when things are physical.  I would let her go, and not sleep with her again.  If you do have sex with her again it's going to get harder and harder to admit it's finished.
698019
One thing i know in my life when i was in my 20's i start dating a guy , he would shut most Tye's to his friends .I thought because it was to impress me. Most guy don't want to mess things up with there new girl . If this is the girl for him ,he will start calling u again after the honeymoon is over.(basically when they get use to each other.)
185120
The main reason is not to hurt the current guy or have him think we are slutty.  Also it is possible that she's only counting relationships, not the randoms.\n\nPersonally I do think that this is pretty sketchy behavior.  But mostly forgivable if explained.
146036
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
296583
This idea sounds good, but never actually works out. Unless it's a one night stand with someone you know you're never going to see again. Other than that, there is always going to be some emotion involved. Even if the other person agrees to just being sex buddies, they're probably just doing it to keep you aroung because they'd rather have you that way then no way at all.
225227
Jerks are selfish, manipulative bastards who see women as little more then sexual conquests to brag about to their buddies or mere objects that are there for their personal pleasure. As to ensure the post-sex breakup will be in their favor, Jerks often play the "sensative guy" early on so the girl will make most of the moves on HIM, and after he's done with her and dumps her for some other girl just like her, he can make it look like she's at fault for coming on too strong, and consequently she'll take him back if he chooses to return for seconds.\n\nOr if you use the term loosely they are idiots or stupid people. \nOr an insensitive, selfish, ignorant, cocky person who is inconsiderate and does stupid things.
999933
They're quietly waiting until you went crazy, and then attacks you:D I always thought that too, but it is not true...from my personal experience, sometimes I feel like I'm urging my gf to have sex, but it's not true...man can have sex anytime, anywhere, and girls are not like that, but when girls want to have sex...you'll know it...my gf is dangerous then....and I like it:D I think that's also the thing with other girls...they do it  only when they really need to do that, but then it is with much passion;)
47793
well Im not a guy---but this is exacly what it means--and this is from experience.\nWhen a guy says that--they are basically not interested anymore--either they have meet someone else or is totally loosing interest in you and wants to know if after the space is given to find out if he cares for you or is just "used" to you.\nabout 4 years ago my boyfriend told me the same thing--I was really confused---so I decided to give him what he was asking for--we both agreed we would give eachother 2 months-----and he dated someone else--but after like 3 weeks he was callign me and I realized how much I had missed him too!  WE got back together and have been happy since--so I think a little of space is good in a relationship.
406557
its sumthin new.. after a sumtime havin sex d same way gets a bit borin nd we want to try new things nd also its sumthin tht usually not all girls will allow tht so its even more excitin .. u c guys normally want wht they can get :)
907906
People aren't mind readers, you should talk with him to let him know what you were feeling. Try to look at the situation from his point of view: you had sex with him, so that must mean things were cool between you, and then you storm out. he's probably confused at those two very mixed signals you gave him.\n\nIf you care about him talk to him, and tell him the ways you thought he was "acting funny". If you want to break it off with him.. at least do him the courtesy of telling him why