i'm in love wid this guy the thing is my sister is too what should i do?
474479
Sharing is caring... just kidding.\n\nWell, if you are really in love with him, as in you both been dating him I guess its up to the man to decide.  But if you both are just attracted and really like him let him decide but explain you both can't see him, or be the good sister and back off.  Tell your sister if she loses interest or something like that it is fair game.
528751
It depends upon how close you are to the guy are you in love with him or do you just like him, because I would let them be together if they truly loved each other.  There is only 1 right person for everyone, and you don't know who it is until you know, and when you know you just know.\nWhat is meant to be is meant to be maybe you both could swap men and see how she likes that.
256381
I say that you for sure know that there are things about him that you dont like cause you have not him for so long. But you know what them things must not be too bad cause you still have strong feelings for HIM!!! So i say take that chance and see what happens. You never know he might be your soul mate!! But if you dont take that chance you will never know. Also dont do it cause someone else wants you to and dont do not do it cause someone dont wont you to...You know your feelings and your heart and i say follow them because its obvious of what you want to do so do it go for him sweetie!! You dont wont some other female to snatch up your man who may have turned out to be your prince. I feel like the two of you need to have a serious talk and see what each of you want. The relationship can start slow but just dont overlook the chance for it to start!! GO FOR YOUR PRINCE!!!
495099
You know what must be done, if you have hard evidence confront him as well as your sister. Especially you are sister should be one that you should be more angry since she's blood related. Either that you could just forgive them and go on with your life, find a better guy.
611733
Ask your friend if he's OK with you dating his sister, then ask her out (if he is OK with it - otherwise I don't know).
178545
come on, be a man...don't just run away from your responsibility. just imagine if it happens to your sister, what a worse thing it may be. a true love is compasionate. face your fear, it may be once in your life but you will learn so much from it. your girlfriend might suffering right now and she is needing your much attention. good luck
1005350
it takes two to tango...I think your sister is defiantely at fault too. You need to ask your sister why she would make out with him, especially if she knew you like him. Did he know you liked him and wanted to be in a relationship with him?
109862
He is your brother you are not supposed to get over him just redirect your thoughts into the positive instead of the negative...think about what you can do to make his time there better and do it....just be a good sis
574353
i think it is a very bad idea to go after her bf because she is your sister and that could ruin your relationship with her. but say something like how are u 2 how do u feel about eachother see if u can somehow get thru to her that shes not treating him well
160366
When you figure it out let me know.I am kinda' in the same situation.I am in love with a girl who is in love with me,yet she is with someone.
528722
why did everyone take the extreme and is trying to give the guy lots of warning,, dear listen to me, i'm sure you love your wife and what ever is going with her sister is probably just an infatuation that will pass, or maybe u have feelings for her but ur a bit confused about how ur feeling,, maybe its not really being in love, maybe its admiration , what i'm trying to say is don't just think ur in love and act according to it, but if it really was true love then there is 2 thigns u can do\n1 - try to figure out what do u love about her and try to find that in ur wife, or if she doesn't have it try to find something equivelant\n2 - try to remember why u marreid ur wife, take her somewhere far from her sister and try to revive ur relationship ,, fall in love all over again with you wife\n\ni really hope this helped, but whatever you chose to do with the relationship, make sure u can justify it ,, otherwise u won't be doing the right thing:)
1159505
Talk to her.... she will always be your sister....
128092
it would have been easier if she was a friend or something you could have ignored her completely\nbut as your own lil' sister has a crush on your boyfriend it can get a lil' complicated\nfirst ask her(nicely) if she likes your guy\nit could be she jus likes him as a guy whom you going around with not the kind who she wants to go around with (you getting it)\nif she like likes him then sit and explain it to her (again nicely) that he is your guy and you like him a lot and you like her too and over a guy you don wanna loose a sister \nhave a talk explain it to her that he is your territory and she should find some one else for herself
897448
NO - do not date him.  You want to be with someone who likes you for the unique person you are - both inside and out.  Don't waste your time with someone who just wants a female carbon-copy of your brother.  You deserve to be with a man who can see you as different and special, and more than so-and-so's-twin-sister.
506303
Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make
593840
You should not go for anyone your bother has been with. You should be happy your brother found a girl who is likeable and is happy.  \n\nDo not tell her you like her. Family is more important than any girl.
780344
u're right, at ur age u should be able to go straight to him and ask him if he feels the same way...u have to do that, there's nothing to loose especially if u say u have very strong feelings for him.\npull urself together and tell him how much u like and appreciate him and if he feels the same ask for his phone number.\nas for ur friend if her brother likes u , well then too bad for her...she'll just have to accept it.\nmuch courage to u !