earned his trust again wat should i do?
467752
who cares if he stares at u he said he didn't want to hang out wit u. get over it!
302310
He's either going to trust you or he isn't.  There isn't anything you can do.  He's the one that has to do the doing.  He has to change.
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
984899
I wouldn't believe him, men will tell you "anything" just for you to fall again for their lies. But...at the end is your decision if you want to continue the relationship and try again.
178586
Well he has betrayed you and it will take alot of work on his part to build that trust back up again. Why do you think you are giving him permission to do it again? Make certain that he does leave her, go for some counseling, you WILL need it, this is a serious blow to a marriage, some can make some can't. As for knowing for a fact that he broke it off, outside of being with him when he tells her you would just have to take his word for it. I am really sorry that you are going through this. Many say once a cheater always a cheater and to tell you the truth that is true in many many cases.\n If you love him then TRY to work it out, make certain that he attends counseling WITH you. Love can see you through a lot of pain but HE will have to work extra hard to rebuild your trust in him.\n  I wish you the best and hope things work the way that you want them to. Good Luck
770203
just explain to him that your trust for him is minimal, you can only help him out if he promises not to hurt you again, explain to him how you felt back then and maybe you will both be able to move on and have a great relationship. good luck xx
316693
You need to be friends and earn back his trust. Once that happens it will all fall into place if it is supposed to
478205
Good decision. But if it was the first time that he's cheated on you, maybe give him another chance. If not, then you don't need someone like that.
1107373
if he lies to you about everything, it s obviously no trust there. I know it s cut and dry to say this but if there s no trust, the relationship wont work anyway. It s up to you to give him another chance or not. I think you should talk to him straight forward. If you want to give him a chance, go ahead. After all that, if he s still a liar, break up w/ him. Keep in mind, at least you tried your best, if it didnt work out, too bad, you move on.
117819
It pretty much comes down to this: You either trust him or you don't. There is no "in between" trust. So ask yourself this: Do I trust him? If the answer is yes then there should be no problem with accepting what he says to you. If the answer is no then you would be treating yourself with respect by not staying with him, getting on with your life and not looking back. Once the trust is gone it never comes back. Not truly 100%. The most important thing is to be true to yourself!
758151
you must prove that you really care for him and that other guy dont matter to you.  if the lost one still cares for you he might give you another chance but he will not trust you the same for some period of time. but this might take some while.
192863
I say that if you are going to marry this man than start off with a clean slate. Do not judge him for some thing that he did when you were not around, and I'm assuming that he did not cheat with you. Give him all of your trust until he breaks it.
657439
Do you think that you'll ever be able to trust him again?  Is he changed?  Is he sorry that he cheated on you?
29744
That's what's hard. You can't ever be 100% sure because if a person can do it once, he can easily do it again. Some people might be able to regain that trust eventually, but I'm not sure that I could ever trust someone who did that to me.
999594
trust him, has he done you wrong before?
337009
i have been down the same road on both ends of the relationship. what you both must realize is that a strong relationship is built with time. the more time you two give it the more you will build the trust, and respect for each other. it is really great that you understanding that his life has hit a rough spot in life and are willing to be that understanding and help him through it if he needs your help. i would give it a second chance because without second chances who knows what you could be missing out on he could be the right guy for you and you could never find out until it's to late
176078
I don't know what you have done to loose their trust, but only time will heal this.  Once you've lost trust in someone it is very hard to get back.  Just keep on showing them that you are trustworthy and in time they will trust you again.  Sorry I couldn't give you an easy answer to solve this for you.  Good Luck