Golden wedding anniversary tomorrow for me and my wife,any comments?
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Congratulations and thanks for showing the people around you that true love conquers all.! My hat is off to you and my deepest respect to both you and your wife.
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My parents are helping us out a great deal for our wedding.  My mom has helped me with the planning, the finances, the stress, etc etc.  We are getting my father a nice bottle of wine and a gift certificate for a manicure and pedicure for my mom.  When I go into the salon to have mine done the day before, I am just going to surprise her and take her with me.  We are also planning on a nice toast specifically for them and we're also thinking of having a song dedicated to them (to dance to) following the toast. I'm not sure if it's necessarily "customary," but I think it should be if they really help out.  If you can't afford much, just put some thought into it and do something creative.  Make a cd for each of them with songs that remind them of you (or the two of you together).  Definitely do something for them...it's kind of their big day too.
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i wouldn't expect my wife to do anyting special for me.  we've been married for 33 years and every day is a special day for us.  we would normally go out for a nice dinner and drinks and then come home and make passionate love.  any gifts would be a bonus.
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oh my goodness, I love this website. It has helped me out so many times! Check it out!\n\nhttp://www.lovingyou.com/\n\nOr, you could do something with the traditional sixth anniversary gifts... iron or candy. \n\nThere was once that I wanted to do something really special for my husband and I came up with all these ideas. First of all I hid a card in the car telling him that when he got home, it was going to be very special. \nI had the house decorated really cute with balloons and crate paper, my two year old loved helping me with them!\n\nI wrote him a love letter explaining why he was so important to me and wrote it on very pretty stationary paper.\nI bought some fake rose petals and put them in a hot bath, then shared the bath with him along with a nice bottle of wine.\nI made him his favorite dinner along with his favorite dessert and went on a picnic with him... (your kids would probably love this, especially if you go to a park, depending on their ages)\n\nThere are so many things you can do to show him how much you care for and love him without having to spend a lot of money!\n\nGood luck!
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One of the best toasts I ever heard was this (to a couple who were celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary):\n\n"May you live as long as you want to, and 'want to' as long as you live!"\n\nI've been with the same woman for 23 years now and we both still "want to", so I guess we're doing alright!
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wow...that sounds really beautiful and I hope it comes true for u. As for me, my fiance and I are paying for our own things. We are having a nice wedding (with a wedding dress and tuxs). for the reception it is going to be one with  hay...music...liquior and a bbq. it is us. We arent the whole fancy stuff. Like a country barn dance like u may see in some movies.  It looks great in my head so I pray it looks good out of it.  2 months to go.
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Our anniversary of our marriage. It will be two years on August 29th =)\n\nAnd if I don't remeber that day.. I will in some deep poo poo.....
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How about a nice romantic candlelit dinner, followed up with some relaxing music. Than maybe go for an evening stroll outside when all the stars are shining bright n' the moon is out. Than propose.\nThat's just an idea.\n\nGirls love that stuff though. IF you don't wanna go to the extreme, like annoucing will you marry me up in da sky or at a baseball game. Than the first thing I mention would be a special moment between the two of you.\nDon't forget some flowers! We love that too...
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Make sure she knows how much she means to you.  If it's by a poem, card or letter.  That would melt me.  Take her out to a nice dinner and give her an anniversary ring.  Ive been married 6 years and would love one of those!
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How funny -- my husband has done all of the things you listed (the song is still top of the list).  \n\nHe gave me an awesome b-day present of a hot air balloon trip for my 30th b-day (don't know if I could stomach it now) and another great gift was a surprise gondola ride (wine and chocolate covered strawberries as we cruised Coronado bay as the sun set..)  Horsebackriding was also a fun gift -- the trick is that these were all surprises and the fun part was in guessing where we were headed and then the fun of getting there to see what we were in for!\n\nSo try a neat "experience" like these.  Another cool thing (but you have to really know your wife) is a big household project that you could care less about but you know your wife would love (a fancy new front door that you install -- or have a professional insall -- a cool new chandelier or modern light to replace the old one above the dining room table - just be sur eto get advice from her mom or friend on the taste / appearance of what you select).\n\nGood luck -- you sound like a great husband and I know that takes hard work and dedication  :)
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I married my wife on her birthday.  I just wish her birthday had been on Christmas . . . lol
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I really like the antique typewriter idea!  I had not heard of this before, but something about a couples dance?  The song starts with all couples...who has been married for x amount of years keep dancing, etc etc.  I think it's sweet especially if you accompany it with Adam Sandler's Grow Old with Me song.  \nHave you even seen the movie Mr. Wonderful?  They do some sort of game where they randomly draw guests names and they have to do something or other.  One couple had to sing, one lady had to give up her bra, etc etc.  You'll have to watch it because I can't describe it but it did look like fun.  \nOur guests are receiving lottery tickets as their favor...definitely gives them something to do.\nI think my mom and neighbor are preparing some kind of duet together.  They are hilarious, so whatever it is, it will be entertaining!  \nOur ceremony is small and non religious, so in place of said readings, couples who have been married for several years are going to stand up together and provide some words of wisdom.  \nYou could go way outside the box and veto the cake and have a gourmet sundae bar instead.  Label the items like Godiva Chocolate, etc etc.  If I think of anything else, I will add later!
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You will be married this year to a nice and sobre fellow. Good luck
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You could try a bed and breakfast which is always romantic.\nif you have done this, how about a weekend around your place? My hubby and I have done this before. \nFirst, make sure your house is very clean! You don't want to be thinking that you should be doing somethng around the house, this weekend if just for the two of you.\nNow, plan your weekend together, tennis, golf, even minature golf! Make reservations at your favorite restaurant, wear something sexy for him at dinner (possibly something absolutely sinful underneath a coat or sweater) and tell him what your going to do to him when you get home.\nGo to some local places that you may have been interested in but haven't made it there. Check with your local chamber of commerce too!\nGood luck and happy anniversary!
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I'm going with concert tix too, but that will probably blow your budget so maybe go with a committment ring, they can be gold or silver & it is a way of showing your appreciation, fondness & loyalty to her without proposing marriage :o)
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All your ideas are GREAT! The trip to the film festival sounds intriguing. A fun trip with another couple or group of mutual friends sounds like a lot of fun. \n\n I think I would leave the large party and renewal of vows for the 25th Anniversary.
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No one (and I know from first-hand experience) is guarenteed of tomorrow.\nYou could do this for your 3rd anniversary in March.  Won't hurt a thing and she will get to be a part of it.