no time to communicate...wat to do?
465382
Sure there is no time to communicate?? I work overnights, I've been there. In my past relationship, we used to communicate during dinnertime, and the time remaining before I went to work. Also had some time to do so after I came home, and before she went to work. It is trying, but it is possible. Also, take advantage of his night's off. If you can get him to "reverse" his schedule on his night's off, that'll help out too. Good luck!!
815903
well, you wanna give her time to relax and maybe forget a lil bit of what happened..so dont do anything right away....right before she leaves call and say bye, have a good time blah blah...ok, then she leaves with you on her mind...then after maybe another few weeks or so if you can, send her a text to say, i just wanted to say hi hope all is awesome....then when she gets back, dont get all over her nuts, wait a lil while and then call to say hey! welcome back!..sorry i didnt get a hold of you sooner, been really busy....this way she knows your "over it" weather you are or not....then say hey, there is a few of us that or gonna go and do ....i dont know what you do for fun...and invite her....this way its a group so its real chilled out...this will get you back in to a friend situation...and yer on your own from there.
657685
Give her time to breath and decide the next course of action. Sometimes we woman are polite about things and need to figure out what to say to a guy. She might be busy too. That's a good sign because she has her own life. Don't rush it.
814860
My boyfriend also has a difficult time talking.  We've been together for almost 2 years and while we are not a long-distance couple yet (he's joining the military) right now he's in university so I only see him once a week or sometimes even once every 2 weeks.  We try to talk on the phone, but our conversations are boring.  I don't want to talk about what groceries he bought from the store that night.  So I try to schedule times when we are to discuss important issues.  In the past I have e-mailed him my concerns that I feel we need to talk about.  That way he has an idea what it is that I need to talk with him about and he has a chance to think about what he wants to say.  Sometimes I think guys need time to come up with answers (they're not as quick on the ball as women are).  But so far, we haven't been able to discuss anything important over the phone.  We wait until we are face to face.  This is a huge concern for me since all long distance relationships require communication.  If you can't talk openly and have meaningful conversations with one another, a long distance relationship will NOT last.  Good luck.
912194
uh... talk to eachother?
1155205
Relax Girl!\nI't absolutely natural that u feel bad ... & empty.\nBut what u can do is simple enough, \nFix a time & chat an hour on a daily basis !!\nThat's what yahoo msgr is 4!!!\nOf course after he has enough time (say 10-12 days) to settle down.\nTill then, have chocolates, & remember, that u have work to attend to, & he's only gone away 4 work! \n\np.s., daydream about the sweet nothing u'll be sending each other over the yr.
628378
Well you have stated you have talked about your feelings.  I think the main thing would be to keep the channels of communication open...talk about how you feel, let things just flow from there.
123239
You really need to talk first and make plans later.\nDo not rush things.
459868
take some time out for yourself doing things you enjoy like shopping, enjoying nature, doing a hobby, go to a spa or just hang out with the girls. try not to think about school and let your fiance know how you feel about the phone problems because you need to work things out, no matter how small they might seem. good luck hun!
1104528
Confrontation is not always necessary... communication is, if you want an emotionally healthy and satisfying life together.  Change takes time, but well worth the wait if you are willing to put the time in!
506211
Ok then...... find another "friend" who will spend time on the phone with you. Move on..... he needs to communicate, or you don't need to waste any more time with him.
255537
There really isn't anything that you can say,just let her know that you are there for her when ever she needs to talk about it,try to get her mind off it,go shopping,to the movies,or something. Just be there for her,because she needs you right now!!!
1069511
I THINK EVERYBODY HAS DAYS LIKE THIS. BUT IF YOU WANT TO GET PASSED THIS. MOVE AROUND CALL SOMEONE ON THE PHONE WHO WILL HAVE SOMETHING GOOD TO TALK ABOUT. JUST FIND SOMETHING TO PICK YOURSELF UP.
526048
Hey Kris.\nWell try to do something outside! Like play with one of your pals. If ya cant then take a shower. Read a good book. Have a snack and watch some good TV.\nDo something you'll enjoy. Or get on a chat room, just don't give out you personal info.
174722
yikes.  what did she say that was so awful?\nmaybe it's okay to move and take some time.  she's family; you can always reconnect later.\nhaving an open conversation about what's going on, though, is far better than her just moving quickly and no one talkign about it.  try to stay friends!
1033401
Have you emailed him to ask him what's going on? Text and email him both and ask. Tell him that if he's ok and simply doesnt want anything to do with you, to please tell you so you can stop wondering if he's ok. If he is ok, and just couldnt contact you for a while, ask him from now on, to tell you if he's going to be out of touch for a while and/or if he's mad or wants nothing to do with you to say so........the silence is confusing and scary. Explain that.I am sure he is just involved in something and cant get back to you. I'm sure it bothers him too...wondering what you must think!  Good luck!
237008
I think communication is important because if there was no communication, I wouldn't be typing this right now. Also, if you are bored and you want to go and hang with a friend, are you going to go and walk all the way to your friend's house or just call her or him?