what normally you do whenever you loss something in your life?
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I think if u tried ur best to find it u won't find it...just forget abt it and it'll come back to u one way or another
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IF you really wanted to know ?\n\nI lost a friend a long time ago.\n\nA female friend of mine.\n\nWE were classmates.\n\nDuring the school vaction. She went on holiday with a parents in malaysia.During the bus trip there, she took a nap and never woke up. The doctors found she had died in her sleep. SHe died!!! SHe had a hole in her heart.I lost a friend that day, i never forgotton her.\n\nI am sharing with you this because i want yuou to treasure your friends. DO try to understand them. There is a reason behind all of it.Do not try to feel angry but try to find a sloution behind it. k. INvite them to your house to hang out and do something that all 3 of you like then you can start it again.\n\nDont lose your friends.\n\nTake Care.
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If this happened to you, I'm really sorry. Allow yourself to grieve - that is the best thing you can do. Accept the fact that you are sad and don't try to hide it. You have every right to feel sad, angry, sick - whatever it is you feel. Just know that with each passing day, it will get better and you will learn to cope. You will never stop missing that person, but the thoughts of grief will slowly be replaced with fond memories.
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Since you're at a loss for words, it appears you are attending to give your condolences to a friend.  Funerals in and of themselves serve as a last chance to say goodbye to someone we've lost on this earth and show support and concern for those who've been left behind during their loss.  To know that you're there is usually the kindest gesture you can make to those family members and if you're uncertain as to what to say it's best to keep it simple.  Offer your condolences, your assistance if they should need it and just let the moment occur.  I've learned, however, that a card or a brief note sent a couple of weeks afterwards will mean much more than you know as this is the most difficult time of adjustment after all the arrangements have been made and visits are over.  Just feel good that you're going, God will handle the rest.  You're a blessing.
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JUST REMEMBER THAT EVERYTHING IN LIFE HAPPENS FOR A REASON.  WHEN THINGS HAPPEN,TAKE A MINUTE TO EXAMINE YOUR LIFE AND TRY TO FIGURE OUT WHY THEY ARE HAPPENING.  MAKE POSITIVE CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE ONCE YOU START TO REALIZE WHAT IS BRINGING YOU DOWN. EVEN THOUGH YOU DON'T SEE IT AT THE MOMENT EVERY THING WILL WORK OUT LIKE IT IS SUPPOSSED TO.
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I am sorry to hear about your loss. My grandmother died last year.  You need time to heal, especially since she was close to you.  Talk to friends and family...I am sure they will help.  Do hobbies you love..like sports, collecting, and just going out with friends..it will help you cope.
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Following a loss, I would say "apathetic peace" as you describe it is wuite normal for a while at least, and is not in and of itself a sign of suicide.  we all go through grief after a great loss (death of a loved one, divorce, major life change etc) and it can take a while to get back to normal.  If your loss is very recent, its likely that you are still feeling very bad.  Perhaps it would help to talk to someone (friend, family, clergy, counseling, your doctor)  If it was more than 6 months ago or a  year or more and you still feel overwheliming grief you may want to strongly consider grief counseling.  I'm not sure exactly what you mean by apathetic peace, but it sounds like you are feeling sad and lonely but sort of disconnected from the real world and what's going on around you--probably a way to cope. It could even be a sign of or eventually lead to depression-- which is very treatable with therapy and medications if you seek help... \n However, your question asks specifically if this is related to suicide.  This makes me wonder if you've been (or are concerned about someone else) having thoughts of suicide or considerigng hurting yourself.  Thoughts and plans about suicide is much more alarming, and you should get help at once.  It's not the answer. Please please get help if you need it-- there are people in this world who love and depend on you more than you realize.
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You are using a coping mechanism right now...by reaching out to others. We cannot say the right words to you to make everything all right. You need time to process your loss and allow yourself to greive. Things will never be the same but in time it will get easier. \nAlthough this is hard for you, believe that God had a bigger plan for your relatives. I believe everyone has a plan in life and God decided that it was time for your relatives to come home. However, that is not to say you will never see them again. They will be waiting patiently for you when it is your time. \nHang in there!
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I'm so sorry you've lost someone important to you.  I've been there before myself.  Tomorrow will be the first anniversary of my mother's death in a hospice.  She suffered so much before she died that it tore my heart out, but she's with her Lord and Saviour now, and happy at last.  Time will improve things for you.  It's the only thing that helped me.  Try to do things you enjoy to distract yourself from the pain.  Even that can take a great effort, but you have to keep trying. If you do, I promise you that things will get better as time moves on.  May God Bless You!
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how do you start dealing with grief,,,not that we are taught that now are we.\n\nI lost my dad 4 years ago xmas eve ( so when people are getting all happy ready for xmas i'm not) and he died also suddenley,.\n \nI see rest of family getting on with it so I think why cant I, but are they???, they prob feeling the same.  think of him at times and then I get upset.\n\nI think also because it was sudden doesnt mean it hurts more than if u know someone is going to die before hand, like my friends mother who had cancer.\nThey prepared themselves for her not being round much longer.... but\n Shock of loosing a loved one is that SHOCK.\n\ntalking does help, listen to me hey lol i can only talk to strangers about this.\n\n its hard cause they ie parents have been there all our life we have known them forever and now they not there.\n\n\n\nSo as far as i know it is normal still to greive, cause you dont think about them doesnt mean you have forgotton them\n\n\nI hope this makes sense sometimes you cant get your words out.\ngood luck sweetie xx
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Just take things one day at a time, and remember that if you were meant to be with him, you will be eventually.  Take some time to mourn the loss of the relationship; give yourself an hour or two on days that you feel you need it, to turn on sad music, look at old pictures, and cry.  Then drop it, and do something for yourself.  I've had times when I thought the world was ending because of the end of a relationship.  I didn't know how I'd make it.  Eventually after going through this a few times, I realized that I can recover from anything.  So can you.
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Do whatever makes you the happiest.  Whether it be going dancing or sitting down and reading a book.  It's hard to get over but that's what friends and family are there for... to support you and help you through tough times.  Always remember tomorrows a new day.
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Drop what you are doing, go to a quiet, private spot, preferably scenic, and take a moment to reflect on people you loved and lost.   Remember some fond memories, have a good cry, think how lucky you were to have known these precious people. When your done, go up to the person you love the most and tell that person what they mean to you. You will not regret taking this action. By doing this periodically, you gain an even greater appriciation for those in your life that care. Deep down, people will feel blessed by you and not know why.
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It's normal to feel grief after losing someone important to you.\nBelieve me, your parents love you in a way that you might not realize it.\nFind something that will remove your depression. Depression is bad~
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everyone deals with loss in different ways. what works for me may not work for you. just go somewhere so you can be alone and cry all you want. talk to your mother and tell her how you feel.
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There's nothing wrong with you...everyone reacts differently. I lost a neice 2 months ago...i cried for maybe 2 days and then after that I kind of went on.....I also thought there was something wrong with me. You dont need to cry to mourn someone. Its best to remember them and laugh at the good times you guys had....remembering someone is also a way to mourn. So dont worry....your perfectly normal...and I am very sorry. My prayers go out to you and your family.
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I lost my father at the age of 16.. not only did it send me into an emtional and mental spiral... it affected my work, my hobbies, friends, self-image, you name it.. i started to go down hill at it.\n\nYou will NEVER "get over" the loss of that loved one.. nor will you ever forget them.    \n\nI however, believe that eveything happens for a reason, when the Lord says....."child come home"....... nothing matters, the age, sex, how much they are need here on earth, how "you" feel it wasn't there time.   Everyone is taken when they are...because that is the will of God.\n\nI pray for you...  peace and contentment, strength and understanding.  I hope that through these tough times that you face now and will continue to face some happiness and good can come of this.  Do not be mournful or feel sorrow....   for stuggle is ordained, as is life and death.    \n\nRemember them for who they were, what they did and how they touched you...   do not fill you life with resentment and bitterness trying to understand.  \n\nGet a journal, talk to a counselour... confide in your family and friends.     They are there for you!\n\nPeace & Love