How can i forget the love i feel about a guy that is really special to me?
458653
The only thing i have to say is don't forget,move on, you can do hobbies and stuff. That could help you!
824236
The best thing to do is not rush anything.  That is what freaks guys out the most. You can paint paintings but do that kind of thing in moderation.  Don't smother or be clingy.  Resist the temptation to go all goo goo gaa gaa over him right off the bat.  It isn't wrong to feel that way about someone just keep some of it under wraps for right now. If it lasts there will be plenty of time for that later.  Just take a deep breath and relax. If you get some big bubbly surge of lovey dovey feelings just bite a pillow or write it in a journal.  Don't call him and go "I looooove you much I don't know what to do!"  Don't go to the extreme of pretending you don't like him either. It works for some guys but to others it is a turn off. Good luck.
569970
forget him, it will be best for you. Some1 special will come in your life soon
777597
It's really hard to forget someone that you love. But you've got to move on. Try to make yourself busy. Hanging out with your friends, doing exercises, and meeting new people. Remember do not stay alone! It'll make you feel upset and think about her again!!!!!!! Good Luck!
819600
you cant really "make" someone forget their feelings for someone else, only time can do that.  The best thing you can do is be there for him and care about him.  In time you'll have your own space in his heart.
272339
That's really sweet of you to care about him enough to think so hard about the consequences on him. . .most people love carelessly.  For God's sake, go after him!  You'll regret forever if you don't at least try to.  And even if he isn't interested or is in a relationship, he will feel good to know he means that much to you.  I wish you the best of luck. . .I like love stories that have happy endings. . .but I also know that most love stories don't have happy endings so love stories that end with emotional closure are OK too.
159653
Love is strange in its own magical way. Love is like a dam. Once it's released, you never know when the flow will come to an end. Right now, your love is still flowing all these years. If you really want to forget her that much, then do something different to approach this thought process. If you know she loves you as well, then go get her. Don't waste time crying in your hear...in your soul. If know she doesn't feel the same way, then think differently about how you feel about her. Think of it as best friends kind of love: you love her because she matters to you greatly and that your friendship for her will never change. Accept this "new" change of yours and think that everyday. Better to be friends than to be in that hell hole of unforgiving love. Sometimes to have a friend love you is just as loving as having that special someone by your side. Try to move on each day if you can and just remember you loved someone who was wonderful and great, but with conditions couldn't happened. Some where in life, you are bound to find someone new. It might sound a little stupid, but maybe the person who you been looking for could be right in front of you. Just keep a clear head and watch for hints. Maybe the person has already been hinting they have feelings for you and you just haven't realized it. I hope I helped in some way.
566045
All I can say is that time heals wounds and you will think you are never going to get over him but time will do it. Try not to think of him if you start to think of him start thinking of something else. Stay busy all the time. Put away anything that has to do with him like stuff he gave you and don't listen to the same music that the two of you listened to. Put pictures of him away in the attic or somewhere its not easy to get to. Then one day you will be able to look back and it will be a lot better. All of a sudden you will not think of him as much and you will then be on your way. Good luck I know its hard. It is one of the hardest things but if you ever get hurt next time you will be stronger.
633058
i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!
761325
u will know in your heart, if u dont know if that person is that special someone chances are they arent but if u think about that person and long to be with them but also exceot them for who they are and dont care what anyone else says but u get that funny fealing in your stomach and get happy when your nere them, but just love to be around them and want to be around them
498154
there is no easy way to forget someone you allowed into your heart, where others seldom go. and if you trully loved him, then you have to except that he will always have a place in your heart. it is never easy to forget someone. \nbut the one thing you can do is to think about who you are. \nit is time that you started belonging to yourself and not to the past. boost your ego by going out with the girls and flirting with fit men. (that tends to work for me) as long as you don't make the mistake of going home with them on the first night.\nhope that helps:)
1124879
There is no way!  No matter how hard you try-actions and words.  The guy will constantly think of the one he loved and shared so much with.  You need to give him space.  Don't talk to him on the phone as much or kick it with him.  You have to look out for your feelings.  Just be there when he really needs someone to talk to.  He will come around, just enjoy life until then!
971805
I understand!  But life is like that.  It is never fair.  It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion!  You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy.  Take good care of yourself!
564229
Just because you don't feel anything "extraordinary" when you seem him, doesn't mean that you're not in love. This is real life and the way you expect to feel is characteristic of movies and romance novels. Infatuation also makes you feel giddy when you see the person but there isn't a clear cut sign when you are really in love. You may feel very, very happy or nothing at all but as long as you know that you love this person, the absence of those cliched feelings shouldn;t bother you too much. You should know how you feel in your heart.
333753
you need to seriously cut down on spending time with him and phone calls, etc. he's just not into you that way. the only way to get over him is to distance yourself.\n\nCall up some other friends and become very busy and important!! \n\nYou might be surprised how much you won't be thinking about him after a week or two. \n\nGetting away from the situation always puts things in perspective. you will come to find that he is not amazing enuff for you to agonize over!
169731
Its called feelings. Once youve been with someone you develop them. Its sometimes hard to forget them because with those feelings come memories. It may take a while for you to get over them.
208061
No one will ever forget their first love! Let me ask you, you said you have love for the guy you are with, but are you in love with him? If not, go for your first love. If you are then ride the wave. Go where it takes you, you'll be happy if your in love