is marriage is compulsory to indian guy?
457020
Marriage isn't compulsory for anyone - Indian or not. You only get married if you both want to get married.
515222
marry him so he can be a citizen
341195
Their culture is strict... but if there's a will, there's a way... and if you really love each other then you'll fight for your love... Do something... don't just sit there and watch him get married... if you fail, then at least you've done your very best part... you won't have the moment in your life wherein you'll get to think about that time in which you had the chance but you didn't do anything...:)
257088
There are so many customs and rituals that it is not possible to enter here. Check out these websites -\nhttp://www.indianslivingabroad.com/matrimonial/history-customs.asp#01\nhttp://www.sawf.org/newedit/edit10112004/culture.asp\nhttp://www.seasonsindia.com/marriage/7steps_sea.htm
270487
no! you must learn to live with someone before you marry them. This way you will know EXACTLY what your getting yourself into yes?
819826
I am neither Indian nor Hindu (nor Buddhist), but I think the answer depends on several factors: a. How strong are both of you in your faiths?  b. How much do you both have in common?  (The more things you share in common the more compatible you will be.)  c. How much do you fill each other's emotional, intellectual, and spiritual needs? \nIf one, or both, have strongly held religious beliefs, there WILL be conflict in your marriage, especially if neither are willing to compromise.  (Personally I don't agree that you should compromise your beliefs.)  Compatibility is more important than physical attraction, because looks fade, and after a while you stop noticing what the other person looks like.  And how well he treats you, day after day, year after year, the feelings you get from being with him, are more important than money in the bank.  Money gets stolen, or spent too fast! but emotional security is priceless.  If he has lived in Mexico for a long time, or you in India, then you both have some cultural things in common, which is a good start.  But if you are both from completely different cultures, the outlook is bleak.  You would have to work extra hard to overcome that handicap.  There.  Has that discouraged you enough?  (Just kidding.)  It all comes down to you personally.  What do you want?  Are you willing to take the time to get to know him well enough to know whether he's the one for you and that you're compatible?  It does take time, unfortunately.
137779
Are you seriously old enough to be married?  Because I've never heard an adult use the term "indian giving" LOL
55831
yes unless you are married
688793
Priorities first, boy! Make sure you can provide my sistah a good future. Getting married does not mean NOW.
947332
I'm Indian and Arab. A lot of times, culture does play a big role in marriage, and many people still have arranged marriages. The parents want to find a spouse who will be an asset to the family, and compatible with their child. \n\nCulture and religion tend to play a very large role.\nI don't have issues with marrying anyone outside of our culture, but many people would. Keep the blood, "pure."\nIt's unfortunate, but it does allow the culture to continue as it does.\n\ni was never allowed to date anyway :)
513834
No, not really. Do whatever your heart tell you to do. Sometimes spontaneous marriages work the best! This way you do not have a certain expectation of a person and you learn to love him for who he is!
775193
Nope - you're required to support him and must prove you have over a certain level of income to do that.  Sounds like you're not marrying for love, just a green card.  Be aware that the government will find out - the interview is very hard and those guys will spring questions on you you'd never expect.
958816
yes it is if out of a marriage.\n\nif in a marriage then it's not forbidden.
643971
Hey dude the one word answer to your question is definately no. But here let me tell you that we Indians are no where lacking in the terms of love for our country and the responsibilities of our duty, and that is what I think makes a great FORCE. Just to give you a fact, today atleast 30% of NASA's engineers are Indians.\nProud to be an Indian.
227092
First . . . if you are a guy . . . tell me what is in it for you . . . (you know what I mean . . . something that you can get by getting married that you cannot get while being single. - other than alimony)\n\nNothing . . . . \n\nso is marriage necessary . . . no . . . it is not.
396439
You are in trouble man. All divorse laws in India are biased towards females. So you may land up paying heavy money to your current wife. Even though your wife is not demanding now, her relatives may tell her to do that. That is to take the benefit of laws. Your lawyer may also tell you to do that. There is no altarnative.
670627
The guy should not be shoving the religion down your throat.  It is up to you to convert when and if you ever are ready. It's not a requirement because Muslim men are able to marry women of the book (ie, Christian, Jew, etc), but if you want to have children in the future, it will become an issue because Muslims who marry outside the religion want their children to be raised Muslim.  I will tell you that being married to a Muslim is difficult, just as it may be with any man of any race or religion, but there are so many more rules and a lot of jealousy and insecurity for no apparent reason.  Best of luck to you. :)