My girl broke up with me for a stupid reason....?
469237
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
543252
A lot of people in this situation (just broken up with boyfriend/girlfriend), don't want to hear what they know they should do.  They want to hear go back to him, tell him you love him, he will come back to you, just wait for him, etc.  \n\nBe there for your friend, and if she continues to call you stupid, then tell her that not only has she lost her boyfriend, but she will be losing a good friend if she continues calling you stupid for your advice.
597256
Always remember that an ex is an ex for a reason. Obviously you two broke up for a reason and she nees to see that. You should just simply call her and explain that you arent trying to be mean but you dont want anything more with her. It sounds like she has codependency issues as well if she is going from you to a gf so soon. Just simply tell her so that it doesnt get out of hand. Dont ignore her because that can send mixed messages and it could be hard for you to stop later.
608277
You sound like a really good boyfriend.  But if she left you, she's probably not coming back.  Take awhile to get over her and when you're ready find another girl to spoil.  There are probably a lot of girls out there who would appreciate a good boyfriend.
417905
awww.........sweetie its not ur fault love is blind trust me i know from experience,and trust me ur nice dont worry about that my suggestion is to dump her kick her out and her "guy friend" w/her u deserve better than that and trust me there are more fishes in the sea and better than girlthat
190222
You should force her to be your girlfriend whether she likes it or not. I mean, she owes it to you, right? Or, maybe you could beg, cry, change everything about yourself to make her happy. That almost always worked for all the pitiful guys I ever dumped!\nSERIOUSLY- MOVE ON.
1169547
Maybe you should call him and talk it out.  I doubt he wants to break up with you. Why would he do an idiotic thing like that??
996010
The reason I broke up with you is because I DON'T like what you do.  The other girls and I have been talking in the bathroom on first break and we've decided that you absolutely suck in the sack.  We all faked it to get you to go on and finish.  \n\nRent some instructional videos... that is all I can tell ya, buddy.
124517
Well, as the, old saying goes, " We learn from our mistakes." If you didn't want to go out with her in the first place, you shouldn't have. But now you have complete knowledge of what your better judgement saw, 'her immaturity.' She treated you like a 'FOOL', and has gone on with her life for 7 months and now justs wants to pop back in and play you like a 'idiot' until someone else comes along. Tell her, Hell no, and why you never want to date her again.!!
574197
if she broke up with you then she isnt your girlfriend any longer.. but if she was cheating on you when you were together then be thankful she ended it.. once a cheater always a cheater...let it go and find someone that you can be happy with.. if you think she was cheating then more than likely she was or had plans to... move on and have fun.. life is to short...
1035324
Hope you didn't give her any $$$. Cheer up, you'll forget about her eventually. She doesn't even deserve someone like you.
583685
I know what is going on here, I had the same thing happen to me to, she broke up with me and then one day she called me and kept calling me. She probably made a mistake by breaking it off, and now that she realizes that, she wants to try to reconcile that and see if there is possibly another chance that you two might get back together. Don't be surprised if she says, "I miss you" the next time you two talk if she hasn't already said it. Hopefully all will work out for you, take care.
531789
wow-- u sould like a great guy, i wish i had a guy like you. I think she cant believe what she has. Maybe she is taking a break to find out what she has is true. Dont ignor her, just give her time. dont call her, dont do anything. wait for her to gather her thoughts. and she will come back, she will realize what she has. Did she say y she broke up with you? I know its hard, and we have all gone through it, just give her time... time heals. dont call her.
1164684
Guess she thought you were way too good for her or maybe she was cheating on you and you didn't know about it or she went back to her ex. Could be any of these... if you really want to know your answer than get a hold of her and ask her why did she treat you like this... u certainly did not deserve this! and now you do deserve to know the answer... ask her rather than assuming stuff!
1013122
hello\nim really sorry for break up\ni dont think you can dump her anymore but you can move on and find some else who cares about you.remember when one door closes another opens!!!\ngood luck
977751
What you must realize is that girls react to break-ups a lot differently then guys do. Just be happy she isn't going crazy and stalking you. When she's asking to borrow a video camera, she's not trying to mess with your head. She doesn't realize that what she's doing is bothering you. Just tell her how you feel again and maybe she will stop then. Good luck!
317288
You can't accidentally break up with someone.\n\nIf she really feels like it was an accident, maybe she should try to explain herself to him.