why is it so hard to meet a guy and why do they all want sex?
460718
You are finding the wrong guy.  You need to start looking for a Man!
573064
Boy, I just LUV this questions! I'm wondering the same thing.. I think they're all sex addicts (and it's a clanny 'perv hangout!') Boy oh boy. (It's not me that thinks so, eh?) I say skip the dating sites.. I can't find anyone worth a darn in this small town (of l,500) either. Everyone 'knows everyone else.' So am I really stuck or what?!? Yeah, you are sharp.. when they want to be friends, it's just sex.. (yep.) Real men wanna make you happy and take you out to dinner, a show, be considerate.. (right on!) I think you are on the right track .. don't give in!!! later
913912
all boys are like that they want sex. but u shouldn't give it up that easy. just in case that's all he want.
733667
The obvious answer would be to take a lot of cold showers, in the first instance. \nIt can be totally frustrating to want something (Like sex) and are surrounded by potential candidates. \n\nCalm down, and stop trying too hard. Try to ease the frustrations by DIY (No, not jobs around the house - you know what I mean) and trust me - it will happen with the right person when the time is right. Do not rush it - that will just make it a nightmare when it does finally happen.\n\nDo it right the first time.\n\nDo not pester people for sex - they get upset and tend to involve a whole load of people you would rather not have involved.\n\nGood luck. It will happen in time - it always does.\n\nOh hey - just seen that you are 'Sheep!' - Nice one - ha ha. I should graze with your back to the hedge!!
1033859
everyone has secret desires, but some are so sheltered about them...mostly from they way they were raised, or things they have experienced in life...soem just feel like sex is only for the bedroom.
623458
I don't think it is all guys want, but I think the desire to have sex is a driving force in a male's life.  Therefore, even if they are in a committed relationship, the desire to have fun with someone else may surpass your wish to be faithful.
225097
Boys aren't looking to get to know you.   They want to experience the sex.  Getting to know you is just a formality.  I don't know how old you are, but if you're a teen or pre-teen I can safely tell you it's gonna be like that for a long time.  The trick is to value yourself and realize that you are a precious commoodity to them.  If you give it up too easily you're not treasuring yourself and you're allowing these boys to take advantage of you.  You'll know who the right one is if he's willing to wait and really get to know you.
592081
the like a beautiful girl as they want to show her off to all there friends. some guys will just go for looks and nothing else.\nyeah some guys are a bit sex obsessed!
475863
It's a hard thing to do, I'm 25 years old and still trying to find out myself. Seems like guys nowadays just want one thing and that's it. I've not once found one that is out for who you are or what's on the inside. I suppose it takes time and such. When meeting a guy just be straight up with them and tell them that your not into guys who are out for one thing. If they seem caring and loving, don't be a fool and give in either, let them stay on the hook for some time before doing anything. If they wait and are understanding then do something.
530528
They're not all like that. There are some great guys out there, just hard to find 'em. As for the ones that are, I'm still yet to find out why hurting us women seems to come so naturally to them. You've probably just experienced the ones that think and feel with their dicks.
139447
Everyone want something they can have . . . it is part of human nature . . . \n\nThat is why women play hard to get with men . . . and men play the unavailable card (busy) with women.\n\nMakes us more desireable.
210206
Well I'm sure you will have no problem finding someone you just have to look in the right places, which might be a little hard because sex is basicly all guys are looking for.
394134
As you can see it all depends on the man. Everyone is different and has different values and morals...some good some bad. Some are looking for sex partners, some for financial stability....real mature men are looking for women with a strong sense of values who love them and are committed to building a relationship together.
635233
Depends on the guy.  Some want wild, passionate, frantic sex.  Others want a comfortable home life and someone to share it with.  Still, others want both and others, even still, get both with the same guy.\n\nYou're a "Nice" guy, Ashley (by your own admission) - Don't despair.
346091
One reason, I believe, is that the appetite for sex seems so overwhelming in gay males.  (Have no idea what the lesbian focus on sex is.) If you are new to the scene, and are exploring and trying to figure things out, this inordinate focus on sex makes things extremely difficult.  Just regular socializing without the intent to "hook-up" is nearly impossible.  Everyone seems to have an angle ending in a sexual situation.  Sheesh.
1062089
Because they are desperate for any form of sexual interaction with any female who will oblige them.  The guys who seek this kind of interaction are most likely the ones with so little going for them that they can't find a real relationship.  Just ignore them.
430235
i think its because we are all afraid of rejection or being used.as a woman i feel like it would be desperate of me to chase a guy , and my guy friends make jokes about girls who moon over them , even if she is just extra nice when they are around.