I'm in a relationship with my Partner, I can't have sex with my partner now that I'm in a relationship.
472780
You are sort of unclear here...but if you refer to inability to have sex once you have committed to them...then I have a thought. \n\nYou aren't seeing them in the same light. You have taken your partner to a place where they can not be corrupted by what you think sex should be. \n\nThis may take therapy to fix. But if you are willing to try...see this person as your best friend...as a person that you want to be happy. See them as someone to give too. Give to them. If you do not see yourself as able to give to this person...or turned off....there may be something that you need to see a sex therapist about. Or if you are shy or without insurance...try reading about it at a Borders. This problem is not particularly rare. But you need to explore  if fully. \n\nThe problem will come on with other people too in the future. Better to address it now
414193
If your boyfriend is used to having sex with you, and you stop giving him sex, he will probably leave.  Maybe you should try asking him out on dates since he isn't doing it, or just breakup since you don't seem very happy.  Maybe the 3rd time will be the charm.  (It took me 5 tries to find the right one)
193253
Hopefully, it's because you've both moved on from that stage of your relationship, and have begun a more advanced understandaing of one another, far more intimate than sex, in which you truly understand how the other thinks, and you can hold a decent conversation. I always found that the sexual aspect of a relationship detracted from that.\n\nSo, to answer you question simply: Why has your sex life died? So that you can become closer, and true man and wife.
772830
You need to find out where you stand with him. If he doesn't feel the same way you do you need to cut ties to avoid getting hurt further. If I were you I would not do this kind of thing again. I do not think it is possible to have an on going sexual relationship with another person without developing feelings of some sort for a woman. We are very emotional and loving beings. We're sensitive. Many men can do this because they are not. Take care of yourself first.
249160
really i think that you should ask your sex partner. and  since ya'll are already haveing sex then you and your partner should be close enoght to decuss it without being embrassed about it. just talk about it ask each other questions see what you can do to emprove
411287
NO, DOCTOR SAID ITS NOT GONNA GIVE YOUR PARTNER NOTHING :) DIS SHAKESUMTIN AND IM OUT
402974
You really need to see your doctor, obviously your    medication for asthma is not working the way it should.  If you can't breathe on your own during sexual activity you shouldn't be having it.  You are putting your life at risk and think how your gf would feel if you died during intercourse?
915147
Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
1062066
me and my mate have not had sex in 2 years and I don't miss a thing we are still close in all other ways he just is not able to have intercourse. I love and I will never leave him.
1057272
i have had a boyfriend for two years now and were both 18 and we decided to not have sex because we both feels its very pointless. we just have too much oral sex instead!! ^_^
556219
Don't do it.  \n\nCheating can have serious consequences.\n\nHave you considered the emotional, physical, and mental implications?\n\nPut some time and effort into spicing up your sex life with your current partner.  Sit down and explain your feelings and your needs.\n\nIf you're unhappy in your relationship, end it and move on.  It will save you and your partner a lot of heartache in the long run.
881479
well have you talked with your companion about how you are feeling about the sex life? ya never know they just might feel the same way that you do and just cannot find the words to say something about it for prolly the same reasons you wont because of feelings involved.  maybe it is something that you can help them overcome explain the things that you are wanting to do and ya never know. sex isnt always everything yes it is something but NOT everything. and if that doesnt work than you need to weigh it all and see if you can accept if they do find out and you could possibily loose them forever. it is a hard thing but i think you should look inside of your heart first and see which is more important\ngood luck
1051292
I used to have sex ... then I got married
777629
I have been in a same sex relationship since I was a teenager. I'm just not coordinated with my right hand.
102934
try changing position or rhythm or try to stop and do something to your partner.  i tried it several times and the next problem was my partner came first so try to come at the same time.
1033432
Please hear me out!\nGET OVER IT! \nPlus dump the guy you are with now while you are "getting over it".  It was not fair of you to drag him into a relationship knowing full well you got it bad for the last one.\nBUT FIRST...\nIs it the actual guy you are into or the sex you used to have?\nLemme find out your d*#k whipped.\nIf this is the case please remember that your current sex life is what you as a woman make it.\nIf you are not giving the relationship your all that will definitely play out in the bedroom.\nKisses!
459540
Are you overworked, kids, school or Stress? Maybe, your significant other can help you more with your responsibilities? In order to be intimate you have to be comfortable in the other aspects of your life. Talk to him and explain everything that going on in your life.  Tell him when your ready if he can be patient he'll know! Explain that sex will be more passionate etc when your not pressured, that way it wanted and you both can enjoy.