DO guys like when you approach them or do they like to approach you first?
469132
i love it when I'm approached b a women\nits such a turn on,why don't more of you do it?
295784
The question is do you like him? Most guys dont make the first move because there are 'professional flirters' who wants to get guys attention and then decline them. If you do or arent those, its a good chance that he likes you and doesnt know what to do ;p hope it helps
1017668
May be he is waiting for you to approach him first or acting damn expensive, or he is too shy
468743
If he was that interested, he'd make the time for you and put some effort into getting to know you. Don't chase the guy, let him chase you, or else you might come off as desperate or clingy.
341691
If a guy really likes you, he will do everything in his power to let you know that.  If he doesn't have the confidence to make a move on you then I guess he will miss out on a good thing and a real man will step in.  Men will make the move if they are interested no matter how shy they are.
247321
I like them simple !!! I'll fall for " hey whats your name?" or " would you like to dance?" Those are good enough for me. I hate it when guys try to get too creative cause I will laugh right in their faces. Be yourself.
535919
When a lady wants to approach me to talk to me, the first thing she will usually do, is to look at me, and smile. She will see what I do in return. If I smile back, then later on in the evening, she will smile again, this time a little more friendly, and longer. If I return it this time, she will normally walk over and say. "HI, I'm Carol". I tell her my name, and then normally she will say,"May I sit down?" Of course she can, so then we begin to talk. The important thing is, until she actually came over , the conversation had already begun....with smiles, and looks in each other's direction. She knew I was interested before she came over, so that made it a lot easier for her to approach me. Try this.....the nesxt guy that catches your eye, smile real big at him, then later on, smile at him again..I'll make you a bet. Before the evening is over, he will be putty in your hands....TRY IT!! Good LUCK!!
1024692
Just be friendly and a little encouraging.  But not too much.  Guys like a challenge and a mystery.
110173
Let's say I were interested in you: I'd probably stare at you a bit, and then when I finally work up the courage to talk to you, I'd sit down and have a little chat (note that my eyes are constantly staring into yours). I smile a little bit more, and I ask a lot of things about you. I laugh at your jokes, even if it's lame. If you apologize about the joke telling me IT IS lame, I'd disagree and convince you I really like the joke (this is for us guys to show that we are interested). Finally, I'd ask if you'd like to have lunch with me (this is to find out more about you) and I carry on from there...
284415
1. By the way he behaves toward you and around you.\n\n2. You should ask him.
792485
If guy #1 likes you, go for him! but you sound kind of shaky on that because he moves away from you when you talk right? Maybe he's just immature. or maybe he's lost interest. if he shows other signs of lost intrest (like not looking at you, feet pointed away from you, short, abrupt answers) then i suggest you go for guy #2. \n\nI hope this works out perfectO! :P
998011
he does like you 110%......well, i'm a guy, usually it's pretty hard to talk about stuff like that after he might not know you like him, he wants to do so much stuff with you to be sure that you like him because he's waiting for you to make the move first....you could tell him that you have to talk to him, he will, unless he's an idiot...believe me he's more worried about you not liking him, ect.  if that made sense to you (it did to me obviously), Good luck!
1173589
Well i like men who arent shy enough to approach me so dont look nervous and just be yourself. the only person who can answer that question is u.
508765
i dont think slgmrtn is entirely correct. it depends on the guy itself. sumtimes that results in just a friendship. if u really want him to ask you out, introduce yourself to him, let him know your interested in what he's saying, be yourself, and whatever you do, find something to talk about or do to/with him. even playing around with him or making him laugh. otherwise, you can just look over at him, and perhaps smile. if he smiles back, you know his interested. or if you notice him smiling at you first, and you smile back, u know that you could go over to him
562726
No.  Let him make the first move.  It will be more rewarding for both of you.  And you will know that he is interested on his own rather than just because you are available.
420787
If you reallly like him, then approach him and let him know.  He may really like you too, and may be too shy to make the first move.
43520
Very simple...  R.E.S.P.E.C.T.  - If a guy respects you, for you - then generally he likes you, - for the deeper question of does he "like-like" you, then just let time tell you, even if he is ultra-shy he will probably build up some courage to at least introduce himself...\n\nSide Note:\nIf you really want to get to know some one ask them to go with you to a coffee shop - sit down and conversate about any and everything.\n\nGood Luck.