I'm shy when it comes to asking a boy to be my boyfriend(will you go out with me)shy talk?
467989
if you both like each over it will come naturally... it doesn't mean you have ask him to be your boyfriend strait away you can just go out as friends first for coffee to cinema or just meet in the parties and so one....
99673
i have a boyfriend, but i'm not shy to ask him anything. I think communication is important and so does he, so every time i have something to say, even if its awkward, he encourages me to say it and waits until i have the courage to spit it out!
763613
if you're too shy, eye contact and smiling are really helpful. he'll eventually talk to you if hes interested. and if he doesnt, there are other boys out there. :]
640147
I LIKE THIS BOY AND HE LIKES ME BUT WE ARE SCARD WHAT PEOPLE WOULD THINK SO WE ARE DYING TO GO OUT
952261
hey there...he probably is nervous or unsure as to whether you like him or not...before you go leaping into asking him out or anything make sure that you can cope with someone who may be very shy...i know i couldn't it would drive me nuts,lol...but it might be just your cup of tea...think about it though because shyness in a guy can initially seem cute but can often blend into you having to do all the work and that can become tedious...just advice and it depends on you...it may well suit you down to the ground...good luck whatever you decide ;0)
1044495
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
961340
if your "dating" then why havent u been on a date?? you wouldnt be dating then would you?? tell him you wanna go to the movies or w/e u kids can do and then im sure hell make a mve and if he dosnt be flirty and let him know your really into him cuz young boys are really shy but dont try to make a move on a buss
136993
i know exactly where you are coming from.  remember, us guys like girlfriends.  for the longest time i was in the same situation as you (up until a few months ago).  i never did get the courage - she told my friend who told me.  if you really think you cant ask him with the fear of rejection you could ask a friend of him and you to ask him casualy if he would go out with you.  hope i helped - goodluck
471188
If it will be your first date, then let him ask to take you out.  But if the two of you want to hang out, then it's all right for you to ask first.  Since you are shy, find an event that you would like to attend and ask him if he plans to go.  That will help break the "nervousness" between the two of you.
884884
Omgoodness you totally just described me. Haha Im exactly the same [[somewhat in between shy and outgoin]] Soo I really wouldnt give you such great advice. Haha except be yourself. Laugh. Smile & Keep Awesome eye contact..and phisically Hug. Play with his hand..joke around..push him..you know all that crazy fun loving stuff =] But either way i think he noticed ur a little shy already but hes still talkin to you. That jsut proves he likes you ...
99719
first off im proud to hear a youngin like your self wants to wait u keep that up :) 2nd off tell him how you feel. tell him he doesnt have to be shy around you. you want him to be himself. give him time, maybe yall should hang round more often and get to know one another. i was shy then and still am, but not as bad. but maybe if you tell him a little more bout yourself than he already knows and maybe u ask him ?s u wanna know maybe he'll open up. just takes time
1073296
Look first of all relax. Plus don't ask a guy out just because your friends want you to, it only matters what you want. Second are you sure you are ready to have a boyfriend, and not be taken advantage of? before asking the "boy" in your class start off by talking to him, like you would talk to your friends so that your "stumic" can get used to the idea of talking to the boys, then when you are confortable ask him out.
196878
dont worry guys get shy alot when the person they like ask them out just sit him down with just u and him and ask him why he keeps saying no
895415
I have the same problem but I would go up to that person and ask them out. I mean I get nervous when I do that. So be confident and go ask him out. Be yourself
814110
i no it sounds stupid but it worked for me try practicing talking in the mirror or get some tips from his friends wat to talk about wat hes in to hopefully then when you go shy you can talk a bout things and not freez if this still doesn't work just think as him as a brother  or one of your best Friends.  \n        x  good luck  x
109947
Sounds like you're gonna have to.  I know if girls waited for me to make the first move they'd still be waiting.  I've always been way to shy in person and in a way it's worked out for the better.  If you want this guy, you'll probably have to do all the first moves.  Don't worry though, once he's confident he's not going to be rejected he'll break out of it.
111875
well it would help if you figured out why you are shy around him and than work on that. So if you are shy because for example you are scared what he might think of you than think well if he didnt want to be with you he wouldn't be so there isnt anything to worry. You are who you are and thats the way you find the one for you is by being true to yourself. Also let ssay you want to say something to him.. dont stay thinking about how you should say it or if you should as soon as it comes to mind say it so  you dont hae time to wonder if you should or should and your nerves would be there to torture you because you did it quick and got it out of the way.