i want surgery on my nose cause i hate it and i feel that i am ugly cause thats how girl feel what should i do
471032
This is the body that God is letting you use to be on this Earth. It is NOT your body! You have no right to change it. If someone let you borrow their car you would take care of it as well as you could, and if you didn't like the color on it you wouldn't paint it because it's not your car. It is the same with your body. Take care of it as well as you can, but don't change it, because it's not yours.\n\n(unless you have a disease that is life threating and you need a transplant or something)
1063915
You know that you are pretty, so nothing anyone says can change that.  Try writing a list of all of your good qualities, i.e., nice hair, nice handwriting, good body, pretty eyes, smart, popular etc.\n\nYou might want to check some self-help books out of the public library--there are many--and can be very helpful.  You also might want to see a doctor or counselor--you need to let it all out to someone you can trust.\n\nI hope you feel better very soon.  :)
946547
You are not ugly, girl. You may want to talk to a counselor about this problem of yours, but stay away from antidepressants! They are addictive and cause abnormalties in the chemical processes of your brain. And if you smiled, you would look very pretty. Talk to someone about it in a messenger thing or to a couselor who you know for sure wouldn't be saying things like, "Oh, don't be rediculous! You're beautiful!" like something a best friend or parent would tell you. However, I usually find that this makes people feel worse about themselves. My best advice: talk to a counselor.
400288
Hi, you seem too obsessed with yourself, your body, your image. I agree that today especially looks do play an important part, but its not everything. If you keep on thinking of negative things, any girl you might have otherwise interested, will stay clear of you! Please broaden your horizon, take up a hobby, surround yourself with friends, live happy.
143190
You should feel good about yourself! There's nothing wrong with the way you are.\n\nGood luck!
690832
Honey, you are not fat. Your weight is right for your age and height. At 13 you may be feeling a little sensitive about your looks which is totally normal for a teen. Don't ever let another person make you feel bad about yourself. And the person who called you that ugly name is probably just feeling bad about himself. You will be surprised what 4 or 5 years can do for your looks also. You will probably be a real knockout in a little while. Best of luck to you.
690781
MAYBE IF YOU GET THAT BIG MOLE OFF OF YOU NOSE, GET SOME BRACES, AND SOME PROACTIVE!!! YOU WILL BE JUST FINE LOL
636116
its stupid 2 get any part of ur body newly dun...u look betr wit wat u olready hv...her original nose was betr dan dis fake 1...i 2 hate plastic surgery or any kind of implants jus 4 show...
167137
You will never really know, so don't worry about it.\n\nIf you think you are pretty, you will act pretty and you will feel pretty, and chances are, more people will think you are pretty.  If you think you are ugly, you will act ugly, and you will feel ugly, and chances are, more people will think you are ugly.  And.. ugly people aren't much fun to be around.  All that bad attitude stuff gets old fast!\n\nSo, look at yourself in the mirror.  Smile until your eyes twinkle.  Now you've got it!  Oh, don't forget to polish those teeth!  Now, fix your hair.  Pinch your cheeks pink.  Now, walk away, smiling cause you know you are looking good!
550837
It is very normal as a teenager not to like yourself. So many things are changing both within your body and life that it would be strange not to have such feelings.\n\nTake care of yourself and try to accept the things about yourself that you don't like. With me it was being shy and my nose. I am still shy and I have not had a nose job but I finally accepted that these things are only a problem if I let them be.\n\nThings will change again and you will see them differently. Good luck for the future from a very old Teenager!!!!!!
56564
First recognize its not your fault.  \n\nIts what makes you unique.  You're not sub-par, or defective, or less than others because you don't have smooth flawless skin.  You are different, but just as good.  \n\nYou still are beautiful/attractive.  And others will think so too.\n\nBe happy. Have a pretty smile. Walk with confidence, knowing that you are beautiful/attractive. \n\nFocus on making others feel good about themselves.  That's really attractive.  \n\nWalk with your head high. Shoulders back. Look at others in their eyes. Speak loud and clear. Smile often.  \n\nFake confidence until you feel it.  \n\nAt the same time, take good care of yourself, so that you can be your very best.  \n\nEat right. Drink plenty of water.  Take vitamins. Get 8 hours sleep. Determine allergens, and eliminate them.  (I was seriously allergic to bleach, and it cause huge breakouts on my face)\n\nBe proactive in treating your problems.  Try products to help acne scars.  ProActiv is very good on acne.  But is you have deep scars, you need to resurface your skin.  Try Obagi products. They work so well.  You have to get them from a doctor or cosmetic surgen, and they are expensive, (about $300 for about 3 months worth of supplies, after the initial kit, you just replace what you need at about $45 a month), but you'll see beautiful skin.  \n\nIf you still feel down about yourself, try a bottle of the herb St. John's Wort.  You can buy it at Walmart.  Its a mood elevator.  It raises your melatonin and seratin levels and makes you feel better, so you can focus on the important things.  Non-adddictive, and safe to use.  \n\nThen do something that makes you feel proud of yourself.  \n\nStop doing things that you know are wrong. \n\nSet high goals. Volunteer. Teach a Sunday School class. Tutor children to read. Be nice to your family. Do other things to make you feel good about yourself.  \n\nYour self esteem should be based on who you ARE and what you give to society. \n\nYou want to look your best, and it makes you feel good, but your looks should NOT be the foundation of your self-esteem.  How shallow is that?  \n\nAnd lastly, realize it could be a whole lot worse.  \n\nI wish acne scars were my biggest problems in school.
838538
Stop thinking about it so much.  You are just worried about nothing.  You will be asleep for the surgery and you will NOT feel suffocated.  It's going to be sore, depending on what the surgeon is doing to your nose.  You should ask him/her about the recovery time and post-operative pain.  They will give you medication for it.
200513
you have to love yourself before someone else can love you, you need to have better self esteem before trying to get someone to love you. the world is made up of all kinds of people so don't feel like your ugly that is not what counts, you may want to talk to someone about how u feel about urself better ur slef esteem better the chance that someone will luv u
570747
lol, don't feel bad, my friends call me puppy dog face because of my piggish nose. my head is a normal size though..whatever normal is.
1165592
well maybe you feel like your not attractive if you know you arn't then yeah i guess it makes since but i am one god damn mother fuckin hot ass hell and i know it but somedays i feel like ugly as hell as some guys friends and tell them to help you out ask them to rate you fairly unless you feel like you'll be depressed about it
600070
Sweetie, look in the Mirror see how Pretty You are and You will feel Better.
631944
Yes it's okay....To be different is to be human, If you see yourself as beautiful then the world around you will also see that beauty.But if you are really uncomfortable about it go see a doctor and see if something (safe) can be done, But no matter what chances you make, if you see all the imperfections and keep changing, or fixing them will you then be happy? No one is perfect here on earth, but are you happy?  Take care and love yourself, cause if you don't love you who will?