i was wondering if guys think it would be rude for their girlfriend to dance with other guys if at a dance?
464303
Not if you are confident in your relationship with her.  Are you assured that she loves you, that you know she goes home with you at night?\n\nIf it bothers you let her know, not in some argumentative way, but just express to her how it makes you feel when she dances with other guys.
104392
you know what i think ?\nif i where your girl friend , i think id rather you tune me out sitting on the couch for some video game ...\nthan to go off with the guys doing things i wouldnt want you to do !!!! \nhave fun with your games sweetie ,, treat you girl with respect and remind her if she dosent like the fact that you play these games for hours , that you could be some where else !\nthat sould shut her up !!  (lol)
430146
If you're in a trusting relationship, it all depends on expectations.  Obviously, he should respect you enough not to cheat, but if you let him know that you are uncomfortable with his actions, he should care enough about you to at least tone it down.  It's natural to admire people of the opposite (or same, if you swing that way) gender, but it's not okay to be overly gawking if you are in a commited relationship.  I always try to join in on the action by agreeing with him.  Is it enough to know at the end of the day that he's going home with you?
989522
I would not consider it cheating but I definately would not like it. She should tell you. I think you have a right to know. But on the other had why is she flirting and dancing with someone else anyway when she has you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1012482
ive done it (2 girls and a guy) and it was fun, but I would never do it with someone that I cared for. jealousy would get 2 much. I think uve got to have an incredibly strong relationship before you start throwing other people into the mix.
738976
i think he is just glad to have a girl who sleeps with him and who loves him as well. that is why the jealousy of you dancing with another man. if he really cared for you in any way, like you do for him, he would respect your space. he would be honest and say he isn't ready for you now and not make you wonder and act childish.\n\ndon't tell him since he told you he needs time. let him have his time, but put your foot down when he gets jealous and ask him straight out 'why are you jealous?'.
961407
I would tease him as much a possible. This may sound sleazy, but give him a lap dance in the privacy of the bedroom. My boyfriend went to a strip club and it upset me so much that I decided I would show him that I was better than any of those girls. Turns out, he will never go back. The best part is, it does drive him crazy because it's not something guys will expect their girlfriends to do. The best thing to do while giving him a lap dance is not to allow him to touch you. The fact that they can only look and not touch, will drive them wild.
329638
Most strip clubs are not the awful places that people make them out to be.  A lot of them are very nice and the girls there are not interested in hooking up with the customers.  However, there are also sleazy clubs where the girls will do anything to make a buck.  It really depends upon your guy and how much you trust him and the people he is going out with.  If it is a bunch of guys you know well and are sure are just going out for a good time then it should be ok.  If on the other hand he is going out with people you don't know or who you know seek out trouble you might want to throw a leash on him.
773556
yes i have with another girl and a guy and with two guys. Thing was i was not dating either of these people. It can really mess with the relationship so if its something you do agree on do not have a mutual friend join you it can make things very awkward between you two as well the two of you and your friend. Also talk about what the boundaries are for you both. What shes okay with you doing to the other woman, what shes comfortable doing with the other woman, and what is going to far. Having a bit of sexual play is good for a relationship, but if its a relationship you want to keep make sure you respect each others feeling on the matter.
192033
First off, if she wants you to ask him to the dance for her, then she doesnt even need a man... She cant ask him herself, a guy likes it soo much better when the girl ask him personaly.... Tell him that you like him and that youd like to take him to the dance... You ask him out.. Then tell your girl that if she wanted to ask him to the dance she should havve done it herself.. And that you and him are going together.. Tell her that you like him and that she only likes him cause she knows you do... But to tell you the truth, a guy doesnt like to see girls fighting over them... It isnt nice, and causes trouble with the 3 of you. Causing no one to have him, and be alone..
306379
I have had a lot of fun with girls at the strip clubs....It gets you really in the mood and can't wait to ravage them when you get home....and strippers like to to dances for girls with the boyfriends watching....overall it is a great experience and I recommend it as long as you can stand your man looking at other women!
787201
Yes.\nIf I was there...and he paid for me to have one too...then no worries...have at it!\n\nBUT...if you couldn't be there and he had naked women on his lap...I'd be irrate.  \n\nYou're right...the clubs not the problem... (IF it doesn't offend you PERSONALLY as his gf).... The problem is he should have said no way to the lap dances...\n\nHe has some major A** kissing to do...but if you guys really love each other, PLEASE work thru this...And save the splitting up for the larger things...like actual cheating etc.\n\nGood luck hun!!!
459990
I was always told by the way they dance. If a girl moves real slow, hands up, showing off her {hmmm....} attributes, that's good. If they're like frenetic, dancing real fast, making no eye contact, then that's bad.
155602
Even the worst dancer can be better with practice. Also watch others dance moves and dont copy but modify to fit your style. close the door to your space turn on the music and practice! It wont matter to her if you suck but if she likes to dance and you wont it might matter to her that you dont so learn! If it doesnt matter to her that you dont dance do you really want to sit there like a bump on the log and watch her dance with other guys? So the answer is no it doesnt count but you can teach yourself to dance and that might be better.
263317
I would be pissed dude ! i think its really disrespectfull for her to do that infront of u! and dont listen to those other people sayin to find someone new. if your girl really loves/likes u she will respect your feelings and not discuss others mens privites in front of u! she should respect u and if she cant then i would find a nice gal who does! good luck hun!
52685
You never know how until you try and learn.  I tripped over my feet and still do (shhh don't tell anyone).\n\nYou are shy, block out the world.  It's you and him on the dance floor.\n\nPeople don't like you.  That's their problem.\n\nThe girl should go.  Make him happy and fears should not stand in the way of either persons happiness.  To do it takes courage and shows it's true colors in the face of fear.
621643
well . . . maybe it is normal for her to dance the way she did. the only way to know for sure is to ask her.