What' s the nicest thing you've done and/or had done for you in a relationship?
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my ex and i always fought. and i'm not exactly the best guy. i tried my best though. but i realized that i dont make her as happy as i used to and that probably, others can. so i gave her up. i broke up with her, because i want someone who'll be good to her... someone better than me. (dont do this if you and your girl are really into each other)
1131350
My daughter spent 3 months in the hospital recently.\n\nDuring and after her stay there, I have been on the receiving end of many acts of kindness.\n\nA former student of mine was serving my daughter and I breakfast last Sat., and at the end told me that breakfast was on her.\n\nIt was a $10 meal, but there was such kindness behind her actions; I was deeply touched.
433013
Madly and passionnately and still am! We were together for 6 years before getting married and went through all kinds of Hell...We made it and are all the stronger for it...\n\nThanks...\nYou've just reminded me of how much I love him... :D I think I'm going to go wake him up "nicely" just to show him just how much... LOL As a matter of fact I'm sure he'll want to thank you too from the bottom of his...um....heart. :D\n\n(LOL Seriously, Thanks.)
154362
Well, I don't have any romance relationships at the moment and did not pay much attention to the day. But I still got some surprises. My boss' wife gave me a white gold necklace, simple but beautiful. Later in the afternoon my ex came to visit me in the office with a delicious meal for lunch. He got a girlfriend already but we are still good friends. He still wanted to celebrate the day with me. We haven't met each other nor spoke on the phone for about 2 months, just busy with ourselves. That simple celebration was not romantic as before, just enjoyed the lunch and enjoyed the talk. Still nice. So, I was the one was lucky to get those surprises.
591496
It would be really hard for me to do something like that for someone and them not noticing it, or appreaciating it. If my BF did that for me, it would be greatly appreaciated and reciprocated. My BF went to Wendy's the other day at 2AM cause I was hungry, and I was VERY thankful the next morning. Those things are the little things that show you care, I thought we all lived for things like these. She should be a lot more appreciative of what you do for her.
761964
My husband of 16 years definitely makes me feel loved every day by helping me without me having asked him; by being there for me when I need a friend, not trying to fix it, but listening when I need to talk.\n\nI've had boyfriends who tried too hard, and ended up making me feel crowded and like I couldn't move without them being right there.  The more intensely I felt like he was hovering, the more scared I felt - both of him being too dependent and that possibly he would turn controlling.\n\nIt's knowing that my husband shows me he loves me in little ways every day that makes me grateful for having him in my life.
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I know how you feel... Two of my biggest hits for low-cost heartfelt presents have been: 1. I wrote a "book", which doesn't have to be big, on how they make me feel, the things I love about them, it was like a journal directed at them and about them.  And suprisingly, he loved it... but I think this is for a more serious type of relationship with a mature guy who isn't afraid of feelings.\n2. I created a scrapbook, full of pictures from our time together.  Then I made notes occasionally about how happy I was at that moment, or how great a time we had.  I also included in ticket stubs from concerts or movies... and the little stuff that we keep for whatever reason.  It was a way that we could both look back and see where we came from.\nHope this helps some!
778746
i gave my boyfriend a jar i decorated myself filled with dozens of little pieces of paper..on each paper was a reason why i love him and i gave him flowers i bought and arranged myself instead of just buying a bouquet..he still says it was the best present ever and that was over two years ago!
793115
That i have made someone happy to know me,\nAND,\nhere are some smothering hugs for you gwiz,\nsomeone who is a very kind person\nsaid that to me today .....\nsweetest & most warming gesture\nthat has bestowed my life in the last few days....\nThats why me avatar had a smile, for awhile ....
487279
Anything you do for the positive can nly make your relationship stronger and better. Relationships take work and each person has to be willing to make it work.
664891
I can honestly say that I have done several things and am always trying to come up with more to keep things exciting and interesting. Cooked dinner when she is tired from a hard day at work even if I had a hard too. Came home during lunch one time while she was at work and left rose petals on the bed and little love notes from the door leading to the bed. Just grabbed a hold of her and kissed her passionately when she did not expect it. Read poetry to her while a warm fire was going. I have called her at work to just say hi and to let her know I'm thinking of her. I have sent her romantic e-cards just because. No special occasion needed. As I am currently deployed to Iraq, I also take time to write letters. Email is convenient, but a hand written letter is so much more personal. I have also copied down songs to her to help me relay how I feel about her when words escape me. I order flowers online and have them delivered to her at work. Give her words of encouragement, support and appreciation for all that she does. I compliment her on her looks when I get a picture from her or she tells me of a new outfit she got as I picture her in my mind in her outfit. I ask her how she has been doing, how she is feeling, for her thoughts and concerns. There are so many things one can do. Just takes a heartfelt thought, some imagination and love.
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One of the things that a friend of mine did which was grossly romantic (but did the trick when he was in the doghouse) was to write little notes of all the things he loved about his girl.\n\nHe wrote them on little strips of paper and filled her glovebox with them with a sign on her car (passenger seat) saying "Open Me".\n\nShe squealed like a little girl and is something I am sure she will never forget in her life.
638757
The guy I was dating at the time, made me a romantic candlelight dinner, and afterwards, he took my hand and walked me into his bedroom. We had the best sex ever for 4 hours straight! I came so many times...we did EVERYTHING.
1036663
I did.  Been together over a year!  Best thing I EVER DID was EHARMONY!!!!!
480690
I asked my boyfriend to marry me, I got down on one knee and asked him. He was soo embarrassed that he picked me up kissed me and ran to the store to buy me a ring and ask me himself. \n\nIt was awesome!
628013
Had a boyfriend who was into feet before and I thought it was great...pedicures all the time and foot massages when I came home from work.  And I got him to clean my apt. too.
1055394
WHAT ELSE CAN YOU DO THAT 'S BETTER THAN THAT????????? \nHAHAHAHAHA....\nI LIKE HUGS AND SPENDING QUALITY TIME TOGETHER