i was swimming and kinda bit my friend between the legs, now she's spreading rumors that im gay! help?!?!?
465131
You may not be gay, but your actions have now opened a can of worms.  If your friend is a true friend, she wouldn't be spreading rumors.  The best thing you can do is to talk to her and try to straighten it out.  If that doesn't work and the rumors persist, there isn't much you can do except to ignore them.  Ever hear the phrase "The lady doth protest to much"?  The more you try to deny something, the more people will believe it's the truth.\n\nGood luck.
1013078
I am guessing that one of your friends told you this to goad you into having sex with him or someone else.  Get yourself a new friend.
971556
You say she is Not a lesbian or bisexual.  You and her are both lying to yourselves.  She is just that.\nIf she is this upset about it, then she should go to a therapist to discuss her feelings and set a plan to come to grips with her sexuality.
1182254
I have told friends personal info over the years.  Nothing like "I was rapped as a small boy" type things.  More along the lines of "wow your mom is banging dude!"  They took it pretty well, and after a few days the swelling on my face went down, so everyone was happy :)  Hope that helped you.  But if you are looking into something like "I'm gay" just go ahead and tell them.  What's the worst that can happen?  He won't like you anymore?  Well, if he is a homophobic and you are gay, well them he wasn't a good friend anyway and you are better off without him.  Have I helped yet?  I hope so.
1099071
You should talk to her, write her a note, send her a message on her answering machine, anything! From her view point that looks BAD! tell her everything that happened, and maybe if that doesn't work a buddy that she knows you were with can help you out and he could tell her what happened if she doesn't believe you. I'm sure if she really loves you she is just hurt and confused about the situation and will realize that you were telling the truth. Just try and explain no matter what, its pretty much up to her weather to believe you or not. Thats all I can say about that. I hope she believes you.
50152
you need to talk to her about it and tell her that waht she did was very wrong and was not something a real friend would do! You need to tell her that you dont think you can trust her as much as you could before and tell her that you guys can still be friends but only if you want to and tell her that friends are suppose to keep secrets between just the 2 of you! Dont be mean about it to her but tell her that you got so hurt that she did that to you!\n      Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
104398
You are who you are. Accept it. All you can do is ask your friend to do the same. You do NOT change urself for others unless you FEEL that something is wrong with you. As long as you are happy being who you are, it is good enough. So your friend teases you, tell her to accept you as you are. If she STILL teases you, make light of it and join the fun. Its not bad if you laugh at yourself. But make sure your friends know the limits, that is all. And I think you can trust this, because this comes from a guy who gets teased EVERYDAY for one thing or the other and NEVER have I tried to change myself unless I felt some part of me was bad.
754494
dude. she's there.  it was a stupid move on your part but the longer you keep it up the more damaging it's going to be in the long run.  Suppose she decides to try and hook you up with one of her gay friends?\n\nCome clean, admit you didn't want her to feel threatened but you realized you weren't being very honest.\n\nYou don't have to tell her EVERYTHING.  (Leave the "I thought you were hot so I acted gay so you'd move in and I could bang you" part out. :-)  Just confess you were acting and decided enough was enough.  You thought she was cool.  Wanted to get to know her and figured if you tried to make yourself appear as harmless as possible that she wouldn't feel weird moving in with a guy.\n\nBecause you felt kind of weird with her moving in but you're trying to be an evolved man. :-)
1072836
I went through it,,, needless to say I went to beat her a** when she answered the door I realized she wasn't worth it... I smiled and said you might want to go see your doctor about that she said what? I said the STD my b/f gave you last night I heard from a friend she tottally freaked and after I was done with her all his stuff in my apartment was in the lake even his electronics. I was 20 at the time I did like the way it felt but at the same time now being older, I would say just smile and walk away. Keep high confidence in yourself girl, And On To The Next One... that won't f*** your best friend. Goodluck with better b/f you'll find him!!!
549025
Well, I think it was a good thing that you called her on the false story.  Her reaction is typical for someone who has been CAUGHT.  She may have seen it as her opportunity to end the friendship of many years.  People change and interests change.  This might be a blessing in disguise for you.  If she is a gossip queen and you could care less about that - this may be your opportunity to focus on people who share your values.  HUGS TO YOU.  It is hard to lose a friend for any reason.
575296
It's not as big of a deal as you think, I'm sure of it. This is probably what happened: You're a curious 13-year-old girl, who like any girl your age, is curious about your developing body. I'm sure your friend is too and that's why this event occurred in the first place. It seems like harmless, non-sexual touching between two kids. After you had time to think about what happened you felt guilty because of the religious beliefs your mom probably raised you with. You immediately became fearful because you realized how shocked your mom would be if she learned you had touched another girl's breasts. That's why your mind is now racing with thoughts of getting caught and scolded. Fear always puts things out of perspective and I'm sure that's what's happening here. Think of it like this... Does your friend want her mom to find out either? Most likely not. So why would she tell on you? My advice is to relax and not worry yourself so much. You did not sin, you were simply acting like a 13-year-old girl. I did a lot of silly things when I was 13 too. If it still bothers you try talking the situation out with your friend. She could be just as freaked out about the same stuff as you are! Maybe you can both agree to forget the incident(s) and move on. Above all, don't feel guilty.
972589
You should try everything once.  You might like it.  And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality.  Get over it, it won't make you gay.
417408
first of all, pretty stupid move. but whats done is done, right? u should try telling her that u never meant to hurt her and that u were just kidding around.
1170332
I don't know but if I were her I would forgive you but I would move on to find friends that would be loyal and come to my aid not turn people against me. You guys were wrong. Just try saying you are sorry and tell people the rumor is not true. Fix her up  with a guy or something. I don't know cause my friends have never  done that to me and if they did I would question our friendship.Would you???
54843
I had a best friend like this.. you want to know her trick...??  She puts out, or promises to.. don't be like her, you are better than that.\n\nMy friendship with her ended because I became aware of how she interacted with boys, and I didn't want to be labeled as her friend since I didn't want to be labeled as loose..\n\nJust my opinion.. but still...
691524
Well, obviously this chic is jealous of something about you if she has gone out of her way to speak of you in such a way.So two things I would do- first- confront the other girl-ask her is she's a lessie- then of course there might be an arguement but keep things cool by opening up the conversation with " for info only"...or "it seems, the way they come across"..., then you can throw the rumor back at them- or simply put on a bigger show when your with your boyfriend to let others know your not gay.
579498
tell her that u r GAY!!......\njoking\n\nok so tell her clearly u like someone else but u care for her lot so dont want her to be hurt\n\nand tell her that u ll be a gr8 and loyal fren always to help her............dude girls want someone that cares for them......so she ll be fine i guess!!