i am a Muslim and i want marry a Cristian girl what can i do ?
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if she accepts, GO AND MARRY HERE, what is the problem,,??she does not have to convert,,, at all (marriage for Muslims is a contract without religious ceremony\n\nPeople People, it is allowed for muslims to get married to a christian or Jew  without the need to convert,, This is fact, if any muslim  says different either he is lying or does not know anything about his religion  (Study what u claim u belong to, before asking)
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DO'nt marry.\n\nYou'll repent that. It looks quite romantic first. But\nits your end surely!!!!\ngood luck!
110871
You must be strong in your faith, but he may be steep in his religion.  If he hasn't proposed to you yet, I think you should travel abroad confident with the reality that he had time to do so, and didn't committ in that ultimate way.  Has he even brought that topic up?  Has he made a promise to you about it yet?  \n\nYou say its been 15 yrs; do you want another 15 more to go by, not being his wife?  I personally know of women who have had children with men, but not been married to them; both Christians and Muslimahs.  \n\nGo get your education girl.  Stop stressing.  Make that your goal for now.
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Well, there are lots of factors to consider.  Do you both follow your chosen religions very very faithfully?.... like, to the exact letter of the "law"?\n\nDo you have any idea if the other person's beliefs are compatable with what your house of worship teaches?\n\nHow will your family accept or reject this person?  How about your larger social circle.... friends and business colleagues (for when you are older ok).\n\nSit down and talk to your Priest, pastor, rabbi, Mullah or whatever person leads your faith, and ask their insights.
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Talk to a priest.  Even if you aren't Catholic.  The Catholic religion has one of the most extensive premarital councelling programs.  If you don't want to go through that, a priest could still direct you where to go.
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Good God Grover! How old are you?! There's a world of oppurtunities out there, waiting for us to make our lives better! Get your priorities straight.\n\nYou don't know if this 'love' will last tomorrow or if circumcision and getting into the malay culture is worth it. Do your parents know you're contemplating conversion (because there's no other way if you want to marry her)?\n\nWhatever you choose, make sure you stick by it. Be ready to compromise and make sacrifices. Respect your parents as well as the malay girl. Otherwise, they're going to drag you to the Syariah Court, masuk lokap nanti! Soooo not worth it!\n\nAll the very best.
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The guy should not be shoving the religion down your throat.  It is up to you to convert when and if you ever are ready. It's not a requirement because Muslim men are able to marry women of the book (ie, Christian, Jew, etc), but if you want to have children in the future, it will become an issue because Muslims who marry outside the religion want their children to be raised Muslim.  I will tell you that being married to a Muslim is difficult, just as it may be with any man of any race or religion, but there are so many more rules and a lot of jealousy and insecurity for no apparent reason.  Best of luck to you. :)
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If he is really in love with her.  It doesn't matter what is his religion. If he wants to marry her, he must first convert to Islam, or he can NOT marry her.  It is as simple as that.\n\nAll it takes to become a Muslim is to profess the belief in Allah and his prophet is Muhammad.\n\nMuslims believe in God, and they call him Allah, that is what they believe is his name.  They believe Allah has 99 names.
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you already answered your question when you said you love her, i mean you love another girl and engaged to another woman ,may be thats not fair to her or you ,you should think about that ,even if she is from another religion but it doesnt mean she is from another planet.
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Chances are good that you succeed.i know that this is kinda challenging.But if she truely love you and care about you she would be determined to break the barrier of religion.its upto her to decide whether to hurt you or her family.she will make her choices.all what i suggest you is to stand by her always.just be there for her.I suggest you to respect and support her decision.if she wishes to not hurt her family by marrying you then please support her.or if she chooses to marry you and leave her family behind you are obliged to reconnect her with her family.Good luck to the two you.hope you succeed.
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A muslim can go as far as they want if that relationship is marriage :-))\n\nBut seriously outside marriage any kind of fornacation is a sin, and by fornication a mean anything even a lustful look. There is a Hadith that says that it worse for a man to have an axe through his head than even accidently touch who is not his mahram (wife or blood reletive) women.\nFor women (like me) when I'm outside or with non mahram, I must wear hijab (cover myself fully) and I'm not allowed to be alone with a man. etc etc.\n\nWhen I do decide to get married it is not islamic to have a long engagement etc. And I won't be alone with my finace untill after marriage.  Tipically family and friends help find prospective partners, and then arrange a meeting where maybe they leave us 2 in a room, and they wait outside with the door open! And then if you are still not sure it is ok to ask questions by phone etc, before you get married.\n\nBut as you see it is very different from the western version of romance!!
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Tayeb,\n\n      Dating is not allowed in Islam.  You have to get married as per Islamic Sharia.  Make dua and Insha'Allah it will happen.
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Dont do it. You will hurt ur parents and she will hurt hers. N u will have lots of prob coping wz each others religion. \nFind som1 ur own religion n get married without breaking any1's heart
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you are great!! i wish you good luck in that..and just wan to tell you that you have chosed the right way...go for it.. an advice from a muslim girl...
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Get Married To Her First !\nAnd being a "Syed" You Should be ashamed of yourself for trying to seduce a girl before marriage !\n\nTry to live upto your family name you have got no right to disgrace it by asking such questions !\n\nTake care and May God Bless you with Better Wisdom ! Ameen
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right ...thanx for sharing ... i would give some references from Quran , which would tell how much Islam respects Jesus and Marry :\n\nAnd when the angels said: O Mary! Lo! Allah hath chosen thee and made thee pure, and hath preferred thee above (all) the women of creation.[AlQuran 3:42]\n\nAnd remember) when the angels said: O Mary! Lo! Allah giveth thee glad tidings of a word from him, whose name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, illustrious in the world and the Hereafter, and one of those brought near (unto Allah). \nHe will speak unto mankind in his cradle and in his manhood, and he is of the righteous. [AlQuran 3:44,45]\n\nAnd because of their saying: We slew the Messiah, Jesus son of Mary, Allah's messenger - they slew him not nor crucified him, but it appeared so unto them; and lo! those who disagree concerning it are in doubt thereof; they have no knowledge thereof save pursuit of a conjecture; they slew him not for certain.\n[AlQuran 4:157]
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Stop trying to look for a girl. If God's got a girl in mind for you, then you've just got to trust Him to bring her to you in His time. Instead, try becoming the kind of person you want for your future wife. Once you focus more on making yourself more like Christ, you won't worry so much about trying to find the girl you want because she will come to you.