Is he confused or in love?
472616
People grieve in different ways. They shut down in different ways. Not all people sit home, cry, and listen to "the way we were" . some party and drink to forget. You don't know whats going on inside his mind or heart. I don't think he is in love with this woman, but I do think he is grieving and heart broken. I don't know what went on between you two. I have a feeling you are the ex or want to be the next with him. I don't know want went down as to why him and his wife are split but, it sounds like he needs some post divorce counseling, especially if he is drinking his sorrows away.
1028011
ask him if he's ever been in love before....this will be a good way of getting him to open up about any feelings he may or may not have towards you.....if he only says yeah in the past or yeah once or twice and doesnt make any reference to being in love at the moment then he's not in love with you yet, or it could be that he is uncomfortable with sharing his feelings if he really loves you he will share it with you in time and when he feels ready....dont give up just trust your intuition...usually when a guy is in love he will want to share it with somebody.....you can always ask one of his friends, or a close buddy who he confides in to see if he has any hidden feelings for you if he is not opening up to tell you quite yet.....
1121556
most likely he is in love with you , and wants to know how you feel befor he tells you i love you
160286
I would say yes, if he is committing to you. That is a good sign he has some strong feelings for you. If you so unsure, ask him how he feels. Do you think the distance thing will ever change? Sooner or later it will have to or the emptiness yall feel when apart will tear you apart.
147852
How do you know that what you feel is indeed LOVE?? Have you and this guy spent enough time together, shared your thoughts, etc.? It is usual for one party to fall in love with the other. Has this guy led you on at all?? If you really are in love with the guy, and he does not know, THEN YOU SHOULD TELL HIM EXACTLY WHAT AND HOW YOU FEEL!! COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY INGREDIENT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP! If he does not reciprocate for whatever reason, then you just need to accept the truth as hard as it might be and then move on.
191673
He probably feels like he does. The question is do u love him?
149849
not sure. maybe he has an interest in you but because of his conflicting feelings with the other person he probably doesnt want to hurt you until he gets things straightened out.
212559
It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.
695729
If your heart is telling you no don't stay with him always fallow your gut feelings.If he's someone you can't stop thinking about and you miss him when he's only gone for a short time then your in love with him no dout about it.If you know he's changing for you and wants to do better then he's in love with you too cause he's changing for you.I say don't live in fear you're in love this guy and he loves you too.He loves you so much that he's willing to change for you.He may have messed up in the past and did some hurtful things,but he wants things right again if he's changing his old ways for you then he means it this time and dos'nt want to mess things up again.I say stay with him and give him a second chance show him how much you love him by doing it.I hope that things work out the best for you and him.
681956
He definitely has issues that he needs to resolve. Only he knows why he's stalling.  And obviously unable to make a decision.  Thus in your shoes, I would request that he get back to you, once he resolves his issues.  Simple as that.\nPlease dont tell me how much you love him. There's no need for you to be dragged into his prior relationship by your confusion.  And how can you tell if he loves you, since he's unable to disconnect from his prior. If that is how he shows his love, I would be very concerned. You can be in for further heartache and confusion.  WHY torture yourself?
638420
Well love is very complex and confusing, but love is gentle and kind. I said that to say that some days love is gonna live up to every aspect of the word but some days its gonna be a rocky road filled with emotional roller coasters. Just know that even though sometimes he may act out because he has had a bad day it doesn't mean that he loves you any less. Be there for him and comfort him, but don't be no fool,lol.
993374
He sounds confused, maybe he doesn't know what he wants..He would love you in the future? Does he have a specific date on his calendar or what? Maybe he likes someone else and just wants to keep you on the back burner..Sounds strange anyways
1002014
My guess would be he's contemplating on something he isn't sure of. Maybe the feeling he has for you. Or he's figuring out whether you can read his mind or not. A communication thing, anyhow!
910055
Maybe he is shy and doesnt really know how to show his true feelings about how he feels about you. You should talk to him and let him that he is confusing you with all these mixed signals and you want to know what is it that he really feels about you. \n\nI hope I made some sense and I hope I understood your question.
437738
Confused is an understatement.
763703
It appears you have a lot of doubts and questions about this man. He is certainly sending up enough red flags. You need to love yourself enough to get out now and save yourself a lifetime of wondering.
154140
my opinion: he don't know what he wants.