how do i no my boyfriend is in love w/me?
468954
if he does everything for you..if he take up everything for you..if he fight for you..if he  be with you
744929
if he doesnt love you honey you need to move on and find some one who does and fall in love with them.  you can love more than one person in your life trust me i'v been there.  if he isnt still in love with you and with you then you need to find some one else and i'm sure there is osme one else out there that is more perfect than this guy.  if he's moved on hes moved on and probalby does not love you anymore...if he loved you he'd tell you guys are straight up like that most hte time.
572179
i kno i'm in love w/ my bf b/c everytime i see him or hear his voice or laugh i get butterflies in my stomach. i always want him w/ me. i tell him i love him and do things that he likes to do.
407802
THERE IS NO REAL WAY TO NO THIS,BUT IF YOU LOVE HIM JUST ASSUME THAT IT IS AND DONT HARP ON IT BECAUSE IF THERE IS A CHANCE THAT IT IS OVER AND YOU HARP ON IT,IT WILL ALSO BE OVER BETWEEN YOU TWO TOO.HOPE FOR THE BEST AND BE HAPPY AS HARD AS IT MAY SEEM
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
161973
Is he in love with you??\n\nCommunication is very important.Go by the most traditional type then.Snail mail.\n\nOr send telephone msgs to tell him you love him..If possible,go visit him.Or encourage him to visit u more often...
317086
try talking to him again, on how he feels about love. ask him when he think its a good time for a couple to say those words. \n\ni know how your feeling, I've been their. with the boyfriend i am with now. i wasn't for sure when to tell him i loved him too. we live in different countries so he wasn't sure if we would even work. \n\nits been a year now and where stronger then ever, even going to move in together. the moment i told him i loved it was about last fall or winter. he eventually saw how great and wonderful of a person i was and with him. he couldn't help but say those words back to me. \n\nyou pretty much just have to guess when to say it. you can't ignore your feelings, no matter if they get hurt or not. if you love him, tell him and then tell him why you love him. show him how you make him feel, by your words. \n\nif he can't appreciated that, then he's a loser lol. you've been together long enough to start talking about love. if you were to tell me you just been together for a week or two, then i would say no and wait more.
1079788
do something special to you...think of something that you two have a connection by and go from there...most of the time, the smaller things are more important than the big things...do something from your heart that lets him know you think about him all the time and he is the one for you right now
570930
i dont know its time to know if your in love, its time to know and realize that  your relationship is over. He has no respect for you if he treats you like trash, cheats on you, as well as yell at you... ditch the loser, find a new boyfriend....\n\nvote for me for best answer
100520
Just be your self, don't try to get too much attention from him, because U could scare him and that only will make him run away from U.\nThe best way to show someone U're in love comes with the time of talking and seeing each other, and taking care of his problems and showing respect too.
274502
Just tell him.. if u dont u will forever wonder. If he is in love he will tell u..
655035
Just love him the way you feel like he would like to be loved, follow your heart. Try to be considerate in everything you do with your boyfriend. If you think a rational person wouldnt be happy with what you're going to do, then your boyfriend is most likely not gonna like it. Last, be yourself! That's why your boyfriend chose to be with you from the beginning. feel lovely!!
1170636
You aren't really in love then.  You are infatuated. It's that butterflies in the stomache feeling that is most often deplicted in movies as love.\n\nI think you should dump them both and spend sometime figuring yourself out.  \n\nDefinately dump the guy who you've had 'problems' with. You're too young for 'problems' in any relationship.  My guess is that you are too young for a serious relationship anyhow....I mean if you are refering to infatuation as love, then you have a long ways to go before you settle down. \n\nI say get out there, date a lot, and don't get tied down.  Live it up while you have the chance because if you stay tied down now, you may never have another opportunity to experience all these great aspects...\n\nTo me, it sounds like you just like being sought after. I don't think you love either of them, you just like being the object of affection.  \nDon't jerk your boyfriend around, think about if he were doing this to you...\n\nOh by the way, don't misuse the word love...it cheapens the word...and in the eyes of more intelligent men, it cheapens the user. \n\nBe wise! Good luck!
720457
talk to him - i told my bf that i love him and see our futures as being together - try it :-)
576544
Don't listen to all the narrow minded answers you received.\nLike many relationship issues, there are few black and white answers.\nYou have to consider many things, do you love him, does he love you, is he truly sorry, are you two happy together.\nYou never know, this could just strengthen your relationship.
725181
Just take a risk and tell him. It's all you can do in this, you sound like your in love and I won't doubt it if you are. I've been there and once you do what you have to do it's great to get it out there and 90% of the time he feels the same. Best of Luck!!
145711
when it comes to things like love ther are no time limits to be put on it if you are in love with him really in love and not just overly infatuated or in lust tell him stop thinking in terms of first or second he might be scaredto say it also i have to say it doesnt sound like you are really in love with him yet because if you were first wouldnt matter just knowing that he knows you love him would be all you thought about so think long anfd hard about if this is love and ask him where the relationship is going if you really want to know