Is this considered cheating?
462614
You have to keep in mind that "cheating" is defined by the people involved. A better question would be "does she consider it cheating?" or "Based on what I have told her regarding the status of our relationship (whether or not we are exclusive, or exclusive to the sex of the person - no more than 1 gf or 1 bf, or whatever you all have discussed) would she consider it cheating?" She may or may not. She is who you should be asking, only she can decide. By definition monogamy is one person, not one person - per sex. So if she feels you are in a monogamous relationship, you may need to redefine what your relationship is. Your relationship, both of you could decide, is really where you all do whatever you want with guys however are faithful to each other. It is, what you both can agree that it is. Honesty is always the best policy.
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...
1115251
Yes.  I think is cool.  We are all human and find certain things appealing about one another.  As you said, you don't cheat so that would not be an issue.
449045
My personal opinion, is that if you are doing something of a sexual nature with someone who is NOT your partner, it is cheating unless you have the partner's consent.\n\nOtherwise, it is a betrayal. You wouldn't be getting "caught" if it weren't wrong for your situation. You wouldn't be hiding out if it were ok.
739873
Don't you consider that cheating???  If you can't pass on your own merits-what kind of person are you?  Have some self-respect.
279245
For school? That would be cheating, wouldn't it?
43683
I would advise against this myself.  Cheating is cheating, and it would not be fair for your partner.\n\nI think you really need to consider what you need/want in a relationship.  If you really want this, talk to your partner about having an open (or semi-open) relationship.  Otherwise, you are not being fair to him.
264455
no, but......if your in a monogamous relationship, and your hiding it or lying about it, I think it's deceitful, and should be considered cheating (just because your getting your rocks off on another girl/guy behind your partners back).
723544
I don't think who one does it with is the issue here...the issue is CHEATING and cheating is wrong regardless of who one does it with.
1169023
Come on, cheating is cheating! You know, that thing you do that goes against the rules. For example,  if your girl says, "You can't kiss other girls, D." Then you gotta respect that, otherwise, it's cheating. Why do people cheat? Sheer laziness(when it comes to tests),boredom(when it comes to relationships), and a God-complex(when it comes to games)
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
862734
Absolutely no! Its cheating! bec. if your being use to it. i'll tell you!you will hook to it untill it will your lifestyle already you will not be contended with one 1 girl anymore.
581040
YES it is cheating, and they probably had sex as well but are just not telling you. You need to worry about you and your child, and you need to dump him and your so-called friend.
723348
don't really know, never cheated on anyone, don't understand the need to cheat.  i figure if you feel like cheating then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.  but maybe him being in a relationship with you is just a way of him boosting his own confidence up a little for personal braggin rights such as "yea, i got a girlfriend".  either way just dump him and move on
1185
not necesarily. if they are still friends, it could mean nothing. you cant just assume. if you trust him, and he says hes not cheating, then there you go. If you dont trust him not to cheat maybe you shouldnt be with him... or you could just find some other way to find out
1129248
Hey if my girl lets some guy lick her pu$$y, then it's cheating.  Also that $hit can lead to something else.  If i walked into a situation like that, i would bash someone's head in.
630443
flirting or cheating one or the other depending on motive