I met this guy over the net, need your input on how  to respond.?
469853
I've had the same experience....with a woman....we met and it just wasn't the same.  I believe there is no reason it cant be though.  Meet the guy in a safe place and see if you still have the magic in person.  Dont worry or get uptight.  good luck
209296
Please be very careful, what you may read in or hear, isn't what you may get. Online words, are just words. How do you know you can trust this person, they already know what you desire, or what you want just from chatting with you, the person could be saying all things that you want to see and hear but it may not be real. Just don't jump to fast, marriage is a big step, a commitment. Please slow down and have him slow, for both parties to make sure this is what you really want. I wish you luck and happiness.
953264
i had EXACTLY  same situation,,,love at first site, college ddays gone, never spoken to him.....once i sent him a sms abt frdship with my name n i got reply....now v r frds n chat half d day....\ndon t know whether it ll work 4 u.... don t risk t...hope u get d right advice....all d best...i understand how it is like.....
870977
I would be very flattered, however, don't get upset if the guy has trouble answering.  Don't close in on him, let him know that you would like to talk.  Keep that personal space distance until he decides to open up.  And if it doesn't work out, you haven't lost anything by trying.  Good Luck.
127652
The question is, are you absolutely sure he knows who sent it? He might be in the dark here, looking for a mysterious admirer. Did you tell hiom where should he leave his reply message so that you could get it? I would assume not, that would entail the risk of being recognized. So, I would try to find out his feelings by anonymously contacting him through an email.
196159
u just said u barely know him so what's ur problem...? \n...get to know him first before u say whether there is a problem? truth is ur just over-excited :)
160455
Im a guy and ive done the whole internet dating thing and to be really honest, most guys are really dishonest and talking on the internet gives them a chance to be even more dishonest. You really have to talk to a guy over the phone to try to form a better opinion on him. I really think the best way to tell whats up with him is to talk to him on the phone a few times and then meet him for the first time but not as a date, just to meet him for maybe 15 minutes and see what hes really like. At that point you can make a better choice on whether to go out on a date or not. good luck.
418084
If he didn't leave you a forwarding address maybe he chose not to further contact with you.  Are you a stalker or what?  And why would you be looking for this person when you just posted a question looking for someone to deal with your sexual dysfunctions here on yahoo answers?\n\nAnd if I know him, I would atleast have the decency to respect his privacy and let him know of you first.\n\nBy the way suga...did you defend yourself on everyone else's questions here about your not being a stalker?  You asked, if you don't want to hear what others think, don't ask.  Next time you want to post a defence on something I have said, try emailing me like a normal human being and not hiding yourself behind some avatar without a contact link.
1020942
I'd tell him I like him then ask how his wife is.  Seriously though, ask him why he's lying about himself on the internet.  Saying he is married and looking is not going to get him anywhere.  Or hey it could have been a mistake!
39510
what?! U crazy? Have u met him in person and gone on several dates? Anyone can play as someone they are not over the net.
443367
Honey if they are rich....make up a story about how you met him if they are going to freak over the "meeting him on the internet" issue.....you don't want to be cut out of the will now!!!!! :)  Good luck!!!!
779375
Read the answer from "Bubbles". The person he speaks of is me, and yes he thought I was a hacker, but I was genuinely trying to help him out with his laptop.\n\nDespite his initial weariness, he gave me the benefit of the doubt, and we now communicate on a regular basis - he showed me this question you submitted and thought maybe it was me asking under a different name!\n\nSo yes, we met and we share a birthday. We get on very well; he has become a good friend. \nBubbles, if you are reading... Hello mate :)
1055866
just hang up the towel...i'm sure that you'll find someone that is worth it, I'm sorry but he's not...people are different in person than through the net....good luck
450554
sounds really fishy to me.. if he really cared about you, he would wait until you were 100% ready to meet him.. because he is being pushy about this whole thing, i dont think that i would look into any further, and i would stop the communication. There is just something that doesnt sound right. i hope that this helps.
133849
Oh I hate it when people do that - it's creepy. Just ask him straight out. You want to know, after all... If it's the guy you like sending you stuff, then that's awesome! If it's not, then you can say something like, oh good, it's kinda creepy to not know who it's from and you don't seem like a creepy kinda guy... you know, use it to start a conversation...
442517
I've been in that situation. Tell the guy up straight what you truly think. He will be grateful later for your honesty.
879338
i went thru the same thing hun and now i am happy with my internet man...just bring him around and dont tell them immediately where you met. say nothing of the internet guy anymore and arrainge for a date..or movie and let your parents briefly meet him , get him to call and such...and if you met on a website . say we met at myspace..or so on..its a club..and that is all, your not lying just not expling great detail...