why wont any guys go out with me i'm 14?
473191
maybe you are 2 certain about yourself \nbut don't worry I'm also 14 and i got my 1st boyfriend this year and he is sooooooooo sweet your time will come and the ideal guy will show up!!
939087
honey you are 9 you shouldn't be going out with a 14 year old!! you need to break up with him and tell your parents!! you don't want him to do this again or maybe worse next time. do something NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please let us know what happens and how you r doing.
989820
Maybe you just look younger then your age, and guys your age think your too young to go out. You should feel proud of your self that at least you dont look old. Oh and one more thing you should remember that as long as you always dress up nice, and take care of you self, any guy will always ask you out, of course if you happen to be too pretty then maybe guys are just shy, and feel your going to reject them, because your to good for them.
674692
He doesn't love you.  14 year olds are incapable of any love except towards their mommies and daddies.  He might lust after you, but his own feelings for you probably confuse him as much as they do you.  Avoid serious "love" relationships until you are at least 18.
1157467
Tell your parents.  If that doesn't work, tell a teacher.  And please don't be in such a rush to date at 14, you can see already that you can make bad choices.  I'm not saying wait forever, but maybe just one more year?  Take care of yourself and DO TELL SOMEONE if you really take his threats seriously, because if he's gonna hit you if you don't go out with him, just imagine what he will do to you if you do go out with him.
1128448
I think it sounds like you're way, way, way too young to get involved at all with boys.  Grow your own confidence first - you don't need a boy, a boyfriend, or a man to be whole and complete.  Get strong on your own before you venture into that world.  \n\nOtherwise, you're a target, and you're on track for misery.  Take a different path.  Grow up strong and confident and single, and men will fall all over themselves trying to be near you.  Best thing is you'll have your pick of them, and you'll be strong enough to move on when they don't suit your needs.\n\nYou can do it, girl, but cold-turkey the guys for a good long while.
790726
I'm like you. I'm 30. Never had a boyfriend either. I  never had my first boyfriend. I think it's time we both did. Only I need to get out more often and be flexible. You're lucky you meet guys. Don't give up. There's plenty of fish in the sea ... I hope.
996191
your 14. you are too young to be t.o.t.a.l.l.y. committed to any guy. there is no problem with being inseperable. just make sure that you both have enough time to do other things and that you arent hurt when the other makes plans without you. you are bf/gf, not related. make sure your friends and his friends have no problem with this as well.\n\ngood luck with him! he sounds special :)
68123
don't get a boyfriend until you are 18+\nmeet boys and talk to them as friends, ask them questions about guys so that you can have a better understanding of what u like and don't like in boys\nwhen older you'll have cool guy friends and wont be blind to guy bullcrap told 2 u only 2 get sex
569197
sometimes you have to wait for the guys to come to you. in the meantime, think of some things you really like in a guy. dont worry, you will get a boyfriend when the time is right. dont fret because all your friends have them, think of all the pro's and con's of having a boyfrind. patience is a virtue! :)
448248
I guess you are male, but apparently not a man yet. Men don't go out with girls, unless they are looking to go to jail. Try someone your own age...........or maybe therapy.
411032
EXPAND your hunting grounds!  If u keep looking in the same places- then u r only going to find the same old guys!  Go to different places.  Go to the higher class bars- not the dives.  get a part time job in a lumber store or auto parts store.  Make yoursle apparoachable my smiling alot and having a great time in public.  When u see a guy who interests u take the chance and ask him out!  Thank god its 2006 and we can do that now!  Men like to have girls ask them out!  That way they dont have to worry about rejection!  Good luck to u!
898897
I am 14 too and a boy and a way you would suprise a boy was to sit with him at school or whatever and start talking to him then go buy him a cookie or something and ask him out then boys like when they are full lol jk. but just start talking to him and add that in it will suprise him
615982
First things first i give you mad props for keeping your beauty.  Okay here it goes a man who dosen't have kids will be intimidated that you do. But don't go out with a man just because he dose have kids.  Make sure that whatever age range you go with that the first thing they know about you is that you have kids so that later on it dosent catch him by suprise. And THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS.... That he loves your kids and that your kids like him. Don't go out with a guy that your kids don't like.\n              Hope I've helped <3
575055
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think 15 to 16 is the average age most people start getting asked out, so it could be right around the corner for you! Just to be sure, take a quick once over inventory of yourself. Are you clean? Do you smell good? Are your clothes clean and your hair brushed and your teeth brushed? If those answers are yes then more than likely it not you, it's the guys being too shy. You could probably help them along by talking to a lot of people. This shows you are approachable and friendly and will make it easier for a guy not to worry about rejection. Have fun...the most exciting times of your life are about to happen!
552857
Maybe go out of your way to meet some new people and dont freak them out too much by coming on too strong. I know lots of girls that say they can't get a guy. And lots of guys say that they can't get a girl. It makes no sense.\n\nGood Luck ;)
104319
happy u r. mature and attractive enough. older gyus better for more serious relations. for 14 years old girl  exactly fits 16 and older boys.\nprhaps boys of ur age think that u r to good for them, as far as they are very insecure in the teen age.\ngood luck and take care