What do girls prefer to be asked out?
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Chicks appreciate a Man that knows what he wants and can withstand social pressure.\n\nIt sounds like you're in high-school, however, so I'm going to have to recommend something junior-grade so you don't die of a heart attack trying to ask her. :-)\n\nIn high school, it's ALL about social circle and social proof. Given that, you should take steps to make yourself a more social person with EVERYONE: guys, girls, jocks, nerds, cheerleaders, chess club.\n\nLearn to smile at people for no good reason other than to spread positive energy. Model all the "cool guys" in your school: see how they dress, how they stand, how they speak, and copy them, bit by bit.\n\nOnce you can do all of that, learn to strike up conversation on a whim. See some people from your class, be like, "Hey guys, how's it going today? Man, did you see what happened in 2nd period history? That was crazy. Anyways, I'll talk to you guys later..."\n\nThese are all important skills to practice, because it will make doing the next step easier.\n\nIf you see a girl you like, go up to her and her social circle (and chances are, she WILL be with friends), and talk to ALL of them. Make yourself cool with everyone and don't pay TOO MUCH attention to the chick you like.\n\nYou can do this a couple of times with her various friends. Then probably the 2nd or 3rd time you can take her aside and just ask:\n\nYOU: Hey, what's your schedule like next week?\nHER: Blah blah-\nYOU: Cool. Hey, there's a new Jamba Juice at the mall, I want to try their new flavored juice. Why don't you come with on XYZ day at A:BCpm time?\nHER: <Some form of yes>\nYOU: Nice. Hey, give me your cell number, in case you get lost or your cat eats your homework or something.\n\nThen chat with her and her friends for a few more minutes, then leave.
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Ask her what she likes.
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wait until you have the confidence to ask her out.
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Wanted is the easy one cause pretty much every girl is wanted.\n\nThere is absolutely no formula that you are going to find that is going to explain how to make a girl smile and laugh. It's learned through experience interacting with girls how to joke with them in a flirtatious way.\n\nLike for example, talking to a girl once she made some joke about something I said, so I said "Oh ok! That's it I'm not talking to you anymore if you're just gonna make fun of me!" with a slight smile and I started to walk away...she grabbed me and stopped me - it was all fun and games she knew I wasn't really going away but teasing a girl is a great way to make girls smile and think you're not like the average "pick-up line bloke" - it's all really learning how to be spontaniously funny. Cocky (as in confident, spontaneous and willing to take chances type) and funny...but don't be arrogant...it's about coming across as being a fun bloke not Mr.Cool - don't act full of yourself or anything.\n\nA great way to be different is to approach girls WITHOUT the intention of picking them up, spark a conversation, make her laugh or don't it's all just practice being confident talking to girls - learning - then say you better get back to your friends if in a pub or club, that's one way to stand out from the crowd of guys who stick around talking...YOU end the conversation...it'll also give you a good confidence boost - sounds like you might need one.\n\nIf things are going well chatting with a girl (you have her laughing, asking you questions back etc) seriously consider ending the conversation early - again you better get back to your friends or gotta run if say you meet someone during the day, ask her for her number and say you'll call her...and call her. You could question whether the number she gives you is really hers or the one she gives out to all the guys who ask her out - shows you think she is attractive if other guys ask her out and that you are not afraid of competition - shows confidence.\n\nEven the phone call, don't ask her out the first time you call, just call, ask her about something she talked about when you were first talking (say she mentioned she was going to see a movie soon, or had a job interview) ask her about it - shows you were listening to her and not just oggling her, (talk for no more than 5 minutes) and then say you better go because for example you have training if you play a sport, don't even say you'll call her again, though you will...be different and you'll stand out.\n\nMan, remember as well you will NEVER make every girl laugh or like you sexually, one girl doesn't want to talk to you, so what, it's her loss...look at it that way. I got a girls number last month, when I asked for it she couldn't remember it and had to go off to a friend to get it so I was pretty confident she would be interested in meeting up again to be bothered with all that (especially involving another friend in giving out her number), I called her twice but both times she had a reason not to meet up so I've left it and moved on. Just a few weeks ago I started talking to a girl and she just snubbed me off and all I was asking her was how to pronounce the name of a Polish beer "Zyviec" I was drinking (I was in an Irish bar in Poland), she didn't even look at me, occasionally girls are more interested in feeling good about themselves sometimes and they can do that by being all high and mighty when a guy strikes up a conversation with them, it happens and sometimes a girl just won't be interested in you - don't take anything personal...unless it always happens then you might be talking nonsense...and not to sound full of myself but I do ok with girls and often have girls approaching me and I've been rejected twice in the last month, so it happens to everyone...don't fear rejection, fear regretting not talking t
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Well me being a nice boy am very nervous when asking girls out us nice boys often afraid of rejection. If you show us that you like us we will ask you out. Plus the not nice guys dont truly care but the nice ones do.
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Well, from what I like, I like a guy to be upfront with me about asking me out and things like that but I like the anticipation before having sex, that makes you want it even more.\n\nMy suggestion is to be upfront about asking her out and calling her but always build up anticipation about fooling around and sex.
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Girls are people too.  Just casually find out what she likes and then ask if she wants to do it (whatever it is) with you.  As in "Did you see that preview for King Kong?" etc  You can always try "My friends and I were gonna do that (go see that) Saturday, wanna come?"
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Be brave,ask her out. Simple as that.Some people spend too much time wondering,if I do this,will he or she do that.Just jump right straight to the point.Hi,what's up or whatever and then boom-hammer down-ask her out. Say something like Hi(her name)I'm going out to say a concert,would you like to go with me. All she can say is yes or no. When she says no,don't ask her out again. Make another choice for a girl you would like to date and date them instead. Sometimes when a girl has seen the boy that just asked her out with another,it kinda makes them wonder a little.Especially if she were to find out how much fun was had. Plan someplace you'd like to go that is fun.Then go,maybe even ask others-go as a group.Just have fun. When I was dating,fun was the in thing. Dating wasn't as fun as going in a group because it made the girls feel too attached to the person they were dating,but going as a group,you had more fun,everyone not so serious.Most times each person paid their own way. We used to go to the rivers(had large picnics-cook-outs,Sometimes we'd all get together and go to the local beach,or we'd decide on a movie,you follow what I am saying. Going as a group seems to let everyone be themself more,without all the love stuff involved in a date.Sometimes,no matter what you think of a girl,that girl could be nerveous about being alone with you.Nothing you do to cause this,some girls are just that way.Make it easy for her to say yes.Going as a group,she has time to get to know you without being totally alone with you in a relaxing atmosphere.I think it's funny how some boys think they know everything about girls,but unless you are a girl,how would you know. And about that dance,does Debbie dance well?If she doesn't she may have been scared for you to see how she dances.I see you like to dance,so that is a major plus for you.Almost all girls I've known just love to dance and admires a guy who will dance  with them.Dancing is a universal language.If she can't dance well offer to teach her how. (she'll bug you for dances once she learns)
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Wow. This one's hard to give a specific answer to. There is very little info on this, so I'll give a general answer to it.\n\nFirst off, you have to have 100% confidence in yourself because it will affect you as far as how you ask. Another thing is that you have to be indifferent to the outcome of the situation because this too will affect how you ask a girl out.\n\nNow the how to. When you ask a girl out, don't make it sound like you are asking her out. Make it sound more like you are going somewhere and ask her if she would like to join you.\n\nexample :\n"Hi, ________. Listen, I'm going to go ________. You can join me if you like."\n(first blank is the name)\n(second blank is the place you want to go)-starbucks is good.\n\nIf you do that, the girl will feel comfortable because you are not pressuring her to go with you. Instead, you are giving her the option to tag along with you.
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Yes, actually it is quite normal and very common. In society today, the pressure has been placed mostly on the male to spark up a new relationship. Don't get me wrong, though, there are those groups of girls who are bold and outgoing enough to ask the guy out themselves, but they are too few and far apart.\n\nNo, you need nothing to worry about. Find your center of courage, be yourself, and believe that you are the best thing that has happened to her all day. If she shoots you down, then remember the old cliche, "There are many other fish in the sea." Oh, but if she says yes.....
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well i would just want a guy to come up to me and ask me out, but dont look too desprate cuz some girls go because of pity
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I have been a guy since i can remember  and when a girl asked me out I always was very impressed that she was asking me and not me asking her .  For a guy just that is most of the battle Ask very directly like hello hey I would like to know if you would enjoy a nice dinner together or whatever you prefered be blunt with men we dont like the flimsy ones.
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Women take a bigger social risk when asking men out, because women who do so can be percieved as too easy, or overly aggressive. Also, many men find the necessity to pursue a big element in attraction, so women who don't require pursuit can be less interesting to them.\n\nIf you want women to ask you out, you need to act in ways that encourage it. Be sure to notice and reward any signs of women flirting with you, and don't be the guy who makes women feel bad for making advances. And remember that what you do to one woman in your circle of friends will tend to be known to all women in that circle, so protect your reputation!
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I think yes... because guys these days seem to have no self-confidence in themselves, if you really like him and want to be with him then the girl would ask him out. If it was a just a crush, give him signals to let him know that your interested... but to round up the question, yes guys want girls to ask them out.
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I find the best guys when I am just out and about going about my day.  Be bold and ask a cute girl out at a book store or the grocery store.
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Well most guys try the 'would you like to go for coffee'? And I think that's nice because it's such a nice way to sit down and have a relaxing chat with someone, bars and restaurants aren't the same, try the coffee thing and I guarantee if she likes you she will say yes! Good luck!
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OK obviously being a girl i know what u should do. Girls like it when guys act funnny but stay themselves. Try going to see a movie that sh'es been dying to see. But remember, if you are the one asking her out, you're paying for it. And just remember to be yourself! ;) GL