what is the best way to get over someone and move on?
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Introduce me to him..(twice)
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spend time with your friends, go out and enjoy yourself. before you know it you'll be having the time of your life and not thinking about the person who broke your heart, look after you and all will get better. promise!
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How to Get Over a Break Up\n\nWant to know how to get over a break up? Here are six secrets to help you get your life together and move on!\nDifficulty: Hard\nTime Required: Two Weeks to Three Months\n\nHere's How:\n\n1. Bond with other Singles.\n      At any given time, you probably have a mix of friends in loving relationships as well as those searching for love. Don't be afraid to look-up single friends you haven't seen or spoken to in awhile and make plans for Friday and Saturday night. You'll stay busy on the weekend and maybe even rekindle an old friendship.\n\n2. Start a Social Hobby.\n      If there is a hobby or activity you have been meaning to try for the first time, or take-up again, this is your chance. Focus on activities that allow you to meet new and interesting people. Examples might include a cooking class, sports league, or bridge club.\n\n3. Go Easy on the Next Person you Meet.\n      Beware of continuing unfinished business with the next person you meet. If you didn't have a chance to truly close the door on your last relationship, don't project your open issues on the next unsuspecting soul. See the new person as a clean slate and allow the relationship to unfold with no connections to your past.\n\n4. Don't Sling Shot your Ex.\n      It can be very tempting, particularly on lonely nights, to look up your ex or accept an invitation from your ex for a rekindle. The more you fall back on your old ways, the harder it will be to truly move on. Don't fall for the short term satisfaction of a night out or easy hook-up at the expense of stirring up all the hurt from the breakup.\n\n5. Apply What You've Learned.\n      Take out a journal and write down everything that went well versus what could have been better in your relationship. Be honest since you're the only one looking at the entry. What could you do better next time? What positive traits did your ex possess that you should look for in the next relationship, or maybe even incorporate into your own style?\n\n6. Talk About Something Else.\n      Everyone goes through a period of venting to their friends and family about what went wrong and how your ex deserves to go straight to prison. It's okay to do a little venting, but spare your inner circle from an endless tirade for months at a time. Commit to yourself that the next time you call a close friend, you'll focus exclusively on them. This will help you get out of your head
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Put as much distance between the two of you as possible and try to move on.  I know it's probably the hardest thing you could possibly do right now, but the longer you let it drag on, the harder it will be.  In the end, a clean break is the best and easiest way.  Eventually you'll get over it.\n\nGood luck.
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You can tuck your X away in a little area of your heart.  But to fully move on, I believe you need to keep him out of your head. I also believe that you both broke up for a reaon.(or reasons)  However you may be remembering only the good times.  And NONE of the bad.  That is very common.
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You never really get over your first love. If you want to move on you have to find something or someone to fill your extra time. Maybe you need some time without some one until you are confident again. It is ultimately up to you when you want to start a new relationship. Jump back in only when your ready.
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Move on is the best answer. You broke up for a reason. Always remmeber that reason.
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you're lingering over old feelings and sometimes that's natural, especially if you felt really strongly for this person.  your best bet though is to move on and try to find some interests that will help you take your mind off of him.  wish you luck.
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break it off and find someone new
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the first question you need to ask yourself is if you are ready to start getting over her. it's no use wanting to get over her if you aren't willing to...thinking that there is still hope for the two of you.\nyou never 'get over' someone you love in your terms. you just slowly forget them and slowly, the hurt goes away. there is no exact remedy to these problems. the only reasonable remedy is time and lots of it.\nas for your best friend, maybe she's just as confused as you...not wanting to ruin a friendship that took longer to build then a relationship between you. you need to tink which is better for the both of you, staying friends, being together, or forget each other totally.
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getting over someone takes time.  All you can really do is surround yourself with friends, positive energy and anything that comforts you.\nGood luck! and be strong and true to yourself.
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There really isnt a FAST way.  But there are ways that are more beneficial than others.\n\nFirst, happy hands = a happy mind. AKA stay busy!  If your consantly busy doing something, you wont have as much time to think about him, and maybe, with all the activity, you might find a new friend.\n\nSecond, make sure that the break off is a clean one.  What I mean is, there should be nothing of his around you that will remind you of him.  No pictures, phone numbers, clothing items, etc.\n\nThird, make sure he understands that it is over.  Tell him however you need to, to make things clear.\n\nForth, let him go...with in yourself.  You can not HALF do this.  If you want to break it off, dont 2nd guess yourself.  You need to have confidence in your actions, and you need to believe that what you are doing is for the best.\n\nFinally, enjoy yourself.  After loosing something that had a large impact on your life for so long, you need to fill it with things that are fun for you.  Treat yourself!  Take yourself out, devote a day to the spa, or go to a bar/club with some girlfriends.  Stay positive and have fun.\n\nGood luck!
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I think the best course of action is to have no contact with her if possible.  It's hard when your heart still pulls you towards someone even though you know there is nothing but heartache there.  Do your best to stay occupied, filling your time with other friends, hobbies, work, etc so that eventually not thinking of her becomes more of a habit.  OR...as my 77 yr.old grandmother told me during a breakup..."the best way to get over one...is to get under one!" ;-)  Good luck!
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HOW DO YOU GET OVER A BOYFRIEND DATE SOMEONE ESLE FOR A CHANGE.
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forget him and get on with your life
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Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.
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Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over someone else, I've slept with another woman to forget someone that I had broken up with before and I can tell you, it doesn't work. You feel like dirt the next day and you'll find yourself eventually wanting to get rid of the new person your with because (s)he's is the one you hooked up with to forget the prior person you were with. Also, heavy drinking doesn't help either. Trust me.\n\nGive yourself a few weeks or months to figure out what you saw in him that attracted you to him and then figure out whether they were valid reasons to become romantically involved. Did he have a cute bod and a crappy personality? Always remember, looks fade but stupid is forever. Or as recall, John Lennon once said: there's no way you can hide when your cripple inside.