how can i ask out my best friends brother cos she will tell evry1?
466107
ur best friend has a brother? ur sure?
946428
If your best friend is really your best friend, she wouldn't take him away. I had a friend like that once and it killed me to be around her with guys because I would say I liked someone and then she would instantly like them too. And she would win because I would just give in. There is no point in fighting her on it, especially if she already knows how you feel about him. If she doesn't know, you need to tell her right away. You friend has betrayed you in the most hurtful way if she knows how you feel. You need to sit her down and explain that you like this guy more than she'll ever know and that you have known and liked him longer than she ever will. If she is truly your friend, she will cease to try to steal him away. If she won't stop, you need to find a new friend, a person who won't betray you. And you need to tell the guy. He deserves to make the choice with his true feelings. Tell him that you don't want things to change between you too, so if he doesn't feel the same way, to just forget that you said it, but in time you fell in love with your best  friend and you wonder if he feels the same way about you. Then, you are letting him know how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way.
627968
Be a good brother to her.
1053680
Talke to your brother first and then go for it.
1172135
Do you have a crush on this best guy friend that's kind of like your brother, even in the slightest? If not then I suggest you relax about it a little. You might want to let them know if they start going out that you love them both, and wish them the best but the second they start having issues you don't want to get involved. Maybe you should also go in to a little more depth with this with your best friend too so she understands. I understand your discomfort with this because when people break up they both seem like jerks and you probably won't want to hear it.
606542
just make sure that you tell her i tell if you think that im using you to get to your brother then you got it all wrong but otherwise just tell and i hope that the best works out for you.
879003
Have the decency to tell her the truth. If she gives you a hard time tell her to get in touch with her brother. It may be awkward for you...but it can be worse to let her take advantage of your generosity.
174545
sit down and talk to him tell him your intentions and that you really care about her. tell him why you love her and that you would never want to hurt her\n\nhes just being protective my brother's the same way...like when dads get all protective, but usually brothers would beat the guy up if you hurt his sister....dads....well sometimes they might.
1086848
I don't know about asking her brother for permission, you're not marrying him.  Maybe ask to take them both out for dinner .  Tell him then what are your intentions. All the while making sure that's what your girl wants too.  Good Luck.
838275
I wouldn't make a move on my best friend without being 100% sure he feels the same thing. You might be risking a lot if u tell him and he doesnt feel the same. \n\nSo i'd say if u like other guy start from there... maybe it works with that guy and u forget about ur best friend... if it doesnt work then just wait u have something more concrete before telling anything to yur best friend.
940970
first try to be frank with her and then be her friend. slowly slowly improve your relationship and then when you feel that yes this is the time just ask her to be yours. and no  your not betraying her if you are opting for friendship first as by being her friend you will get to know more about her. and then when you both become good friends at that time also ask her brother whether he too is ready for your boths relationship. dnt take any wrong step in haste. all the best. lets hope for the best. good luck and do inform me when you both will be together. bah bye.
32027
Try to be a best friends of each other and at the right time tell her what are your feeling towards her.\nHope it'll work!!!
1094685
I am not going to lie this is bizarre! Honestly though it could work out pretty well and everyone could be satisfied with the outcome. \n\nFor that to happen you are going to have to express to the guy you like what is going. Be upfront and tell him that you are not interested in his brother and you want to pursue something with him. Then he got a choice, either live by an unspoken code of not dating your brother's girl(since he has a crush on you, you are his girl) or have fun with you. Chances are though if you don't say nothing, things will stay the way they are now.
266295
go out with someone else like his best friend or better yet ask him out
165138
Just ask her out.\n\nThe worst thing she can do is say no - and even if that does happen, you'll be no worse off than you are now.
998213
The best way to do is tell your freind is to be brave and be wise on what she tells to her best freind, at first i didn't know what you were talking about just as then i noticed ur friend's best friend is all over her bf the best way to do is tell her best freind and have  a chit-chat about it. mayb it's bcaz she doesn't know how ur freind feels that's all! so go ahead and tell her.
681850
If your brother likes her then let him do it let it just go with the flow. Don't rush things or your going to mess it up for him.