how do u tell someone something they need to kno but your afraid they will tell everybody else???
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Tell them whatever it is they need to know! and ask them to keep it in confidence or they'll be consequences!
239762
Just show that you got grit and tell him.  I know it won't be easy, but after all the yelling is over just tell himyou always bring them up.
593945
JUST DON'T TELL THEM YOUR SECRETS OR NE BAD PROBLEMS U HAVE
332814
Why can't you tell your Mom? Where are you getting teased at? I would walk away and I would seriously think about telling someone who you can trust that will help you.
147954
Tell him/her I have something to tell you but I don't want you to get offended.  I care about you as a friend and feel you should know.....
974834
don't tell them any thing right off hand get your butt to studdying
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the best way to come out is directly. i know that it may be scary, but your family and friends are more likely to take it bad if they don't think you trusted them enough to be honest.\n\nget some info off of the following websites. they can give you plenty of info to share with your family. also check out the public library in your area. they may have some books that will also be good resources.\n\nstart with the person you think will take it the best, be it family or a close friend. tell them first. you will need them to be your suppport system through this time. then, just keep going until you've told them all.
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first of all, you should try to comfort him in any way possible. hold him and talk to him, try to pry out(in the nicest way possible) all the private information. then when you no all that is going on, then try to tell him that it will be ok and that you suport him. you're the only person he really trusts.
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Why do you need to tell your friends. Will it matter? You have to first gauge the caliber of your friends... will they accept it? Can you trust them not to share it with the world? Will their parents still allow them to have anthing to do with you? Although I'd like to think we've evolved further than that, you need to be honest with yourself regarding how other will choose to accept it.
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whoever is closest too you and mean the most to you tell them first......bear in mind go gentle when you tell them...as when you do they will never ever forget that time and day.......but you need to tell those you love at least first........it will be easier for you too. and you can also talk it over with loved ones too. \ngoodluck, \nmay god be with you,\njp
658208
remind yourself that everyone says dumb things so there is no reason for being afraid....most people are afraid to talk in front of people because they are wondering what the people are thinking of them....everyone is not perfect
54925
Well for one thing be honest and upfront about it. Say something! I was in the same situation once before.  I just told them how I felt them and that made them feel comfortable enough to let me know that they were feeling the same. Just don't hide it.  I will come back to haunt in the future.  Believe me when I say it.
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Some of my best friends are people who, like you, tell it like it is and don't 'pull any punches.'  \nYou should absolutely stay true to yourself, but that doesn't mean you can't hold back comments sometimes when you feel they wouldn't be well received or if they might be hurtful.  You don't have to lie, but if you can spare someone's feelings by holding your tongue, then maybe that would be a good idea.\n\nRemember, not everyone wants to know the truth, they are happier in their delusions.  So, by pointing out what may be obvious to you, you will make then angry or sullen.\n\nThink of your wisdom and life experiences as having value and don't be giving them away free every time you open your mouth. Instead, let others learn from their own mistakes and strive for their own life experiences.
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just tell them but make sure you are 1st
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Open ur mouth & say it!\nAccept the fact & face the situation \nnot your feeling.
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just tell her. you cant exactly tell someone how to do that, cause it needs to come from YOU. your heart, your mind, your soul. not anybody elses. hope i could help.
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Yes, I think that maybe you should tell someone that you really feel comfortable telling. I mean after all this is a very serious situation. Things will only get worse if you dont do something now. Good luck!!