I cant ejaculate when i have sex with a girl, Im a male, should i be concerned, im afraid that im gay?
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You're most likely just nervous.  A good way to "check yourself" in terms of sexuality is to track the very last thing you think about when you.... er... take matters into your own hands, and are alone.  Not 30 seconds before, not what kind of dirty little magazine is helping you along, not what movie is playing for encouragement, but that VERY last thing you think about.  Is it a man or a woman?  If it's a man, then you just need to deal with the fact that you might be gay and learn to accept that and realize it doesn't mean anything other than that fact.\n\nAnd it's OK to be nervous.  If this has been an ongoing issue, think about talking to someone about it.  Start with your doctor, and perhaps think of seeing a therapist.  You'll sort it all out.  It's happens to many men a lot.  Just not with me.\n\nIf it's a woman you think of in that last second of glory, then get in touch.  I'm sure I can help you out with that last minute "hurdle".  No man has left my bed without leaving a little something behind for Mama....
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Don't worry about it, it's perfectly natural.  If you're in school, just start digging in your backpack or something when it happens.  Or carry some newspapers or books or something.  If you can remain sitting until things settle down, do that.  I suspect you're young, or else you wouldn't be asking this.  Really, every guy has this "problem" at some time or another.  As long as you don't go around showing off your erection, I think people will leave you alone.  Guys usually don't look at guys there, and girls really don't care either (because they look there on the sly anyway).  Good night!
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errm? ok... more details needed (cringe)\npossible answers\n1. you are a woman\n2. you are pre pubescent\n3, you are stressed\n4. you are impotent\n5. you just have super endurance! keep at it!\nsorry u really need to supply more details\nthat and SEE A DAM DOCTOR!!
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Yeah! Don't worry about it, it tends to be something found in a lot of women. If it is a problem, I would suggest investing in a lubrication (I, personally, use Astroglide), it cuts down on the painful friction. Otherwise I wouldn't worry a bit about it.\n\nYeah, even after orgasm, if you don't produce any extra fluid don't worry :P Some women produce none, a little, and some can even ejaculate like a man (I think Howard Stern actually had a woman come in and show him how she ejaculated, ew) But it's not a problem when you don't, I don't really either, and everything down there's functional. If you are that worried, get it checked out, it's better to be safe than sorry. In my studies in human sexuality, though, I have never come across a disease in which too little "juice" is a predictor of any problems, or pregnancy down there.
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Try and think of something else.\n\nGet a doctor to help you, it could be pariapism, in case your erection doesn't go down, even when you are not thinking of sex.\n\nst
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Don`t worry it is a normal thing. It is not a mater of the size or the shape of the penis. I have a "banana" penis like you and it ejaculate forcefully enough. Don worry it does`t meter, just don`t masturbate every day. It is bad for your semen.
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Dude, you know what this means.  You're not an idiot.  You're gay or bi.  If you want to get f*cked in the a$$, you have my permission to go forth and get f*cked.  It seems like you really want it, and it is probably going to make you happy.  Go forth and enjoy the world of gay sex :-)
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Hey! R u crazy? U can't have sex with a girl all the time. It lasts only about 15-20 mins. U'll probably die, if u have sex all the time.
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DO YOU LIKE BOYS, OR DO YOU LIKE GIRLS? YOU ARE NOT GAY IF YOU HAVE NOT HAD A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER WITH A MALE YET. IF YOU HAVE HAD A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER WITH A MALE YOU STILL MAY NOT BE GAY. TAKE IT EASY ON YOURSELF AND WAIT, YOU WILL KNOW THE ANSWER TO THE QUESTION AS SOON AS YOU GROW UP AND GET TRULY SEXUALLY ACTIVE. IF YOU HAVE BEEN CURIOUS FOR 2-1/2\nYEARS, YOU WERE TOO YOUNG TO EVEN BE WORRIED AT THAT AGE. TRY THINGS OUT WHEN YOU GET OLD ENOUGH AND MAKE YOUR OWN JUDGEMENTS. GAY PEOPLE ARE STILL PEOPLE AND HAVE GOOD AND HAPPY LIVES, SO EITHER WAY YOU CAN FIND HAPPINESS. STOP THE WORRYING.  GOOD LUCK, YOU ARE ONLY 13.
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It will take some practice because you need to build up some muscle control down there so give this a try.  When you are pleasuring your self and you feel like you are about to climax stop stroking and squeeze your penis at the base of the shaft and try not to ejaculate.  It will be tough at first but the more you work on this you will be able to work the muscles that will help you control this problem.  It's similar to kegal exercises that women do.
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really? I think u have some disorder. Its either medical or between your ears. If its not medical you live in a fantasy world. Dream about it but dont post it here. If you realy horny u can overflow precum at night, but I dont think its sperm after 3-4 ejaculations.
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dont stress. if you havent had sex then your not preggas. its the injections that might have done it.if unsure ring the doc.
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It will get increasingly sensitive the more times that you ejaculate.  That is why men need a rest so take a rest and you should be back to normal within two days and better within a day.
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You are in the vast majority of women, dear, and there's nothing strange about you.  It's not a "problem".  Also, it's not even a problem if you don't have an orgasm with each sexual encounter.  Women are different from men!
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Your very lucky!!! Some women when Orgasam, shoot streams of water from their "Kittys" Only a few women are can do this. Just call it a special "womens ejaculation" All you have to know that it's normal for some women to "squrt" having sex. So go and have great sex, you LuckyDog!!!
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There is no link between masturbation and premature ejaculation.  Who told you that, your mother?  If it's a big problem, maybe you should consult a professional.
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It's only a problem if you feel it's a problem, or if you feel unsatisfied all or most of the time. A old sex study by Kinsey reported that 75% of men ejaculated within 2 minutes of starting sexual intercourse.   Many take longer, and a few ejaculate right away (called premature ejaculation). \n  \nTry to slow down, don't stroke so fast, and take long slow strokes with pauses between the strokes.  \n\nThere is a technique that might help you.  It's called the start-and-stop technique.  When you feel yourself starting to get close to orgasm, completely stop stroking until the feeling dies down enough that you no longer feel like you are going to pop right away.  Then you can start up again.  Do this start-and-stop method for a while until you can't stand it, then let the orgasm happen.  \n\nIt may not work right away, as you are used to climaxing quickly, but keep practicing, and keep trying to slow down.  Eventually you should be able to make the masturbation session last longer. When you hold off for a while, the orgasm often feels stronger and much better.\n\nPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem for young men, so don't be worried. In fact, some men would love to be able to orgasm faster, since as you get older, it sometimes takes longer to climax.  Also, try different masturbation techiques, as some may work better for you.  Check out JackinWorld (the "Ultimate Male Masturbation Resource.")  The bottom line is: slow down, make sure you have enough uninterrupted time to yourself, and take the time to really enjoy your masturbation session.\n\nhttp://www.jackinworld.com