what do u do if a lot of people hate u at school? and how do u get people to like u more if ur a "loser" and..
461230
if you see yourself as a loser so will everyone else.. just be yourself and if they dont like you then its there lose..what makes you think you are a loser?
352957
you no what ,, dont let those girls get you down bc they are jealous of you.. and a friend wouldent do you like that in the first place, there more important things in life than a bunch of girls hanging out trying to find someone to make fun of and talk about...put god back in your life he will never turn his back on you and he will allways be your friend...you need to find a girl at your school that no one else wonts to be friends with and try to be her friend the lest popular girls make the best friends ,,the more popular girls are the girls that are allways putting someone else down..and making fun of everyone else bc they think they are better than everyone else...good luck....
650830
The way you're going about it will even fetch you more enemies than if you had to tell the guys an outright NO.  If they eventually find out that you have a lot of them in class, they'll see you as a wayward girl which you're not.  Sit up and know what you want girl and stick to it even if it does not go down well with some. If not, you might end up being every guy's babe. I'm sure you know what that means....a bad reputation.
623569
Don't worry about what others think of you. Be your self it is after all who you are.\n\nI do not worry about wether someone hates me or not. Face it we can not please everyone so quit trying so hard to do so. By trying to please everyone, people will see you as a push over and will in the end will take advantage of you.\n\nBe yourself and do what ever it is that makes you you. As long as you are not breaking laws or hurting people, be you.
341158
Consider this a great opportunity to practice letting people know you don't like them. Why? Because you should not be expected to like everyone. You should never, ever beam fake smiles at people or laugh insincerely at their jokes just for politeness' sake. Who is that helping? \n\nYou don't have to be mean, just let your true feelings show. They will eventually leave you alone.
778299
There always seems to be girls like this in school. Her meanness will show through eventually. There was a popular girl in my college class once who everyone seemed to idolize. She was really mean to me. Invited everyone to a party but not me. At the end of the year party, which she couldn't attend, everybody let out all their anger and frustration about her. Seems I wasn't the only one she was mean to. I was kind of mad because it made my year awful and somebody could have told me. Anyway, hang in there. Don't do anything stupid. Her karma will get her in the end.
531290
First and foremost, I must say that I applaud you for standing up for someone who you feel is being wronged. So what if she's " kinda big?" If God wanted everyone to be alike, then he would have made us that way. I also want to tell you that I had some hard times attending high school myself because no matter what you do, people are going to be just people. I was known as the "goody two-shoes" girl, but at least I wasn't bullying anybody, and I was able to get good grades. Grades that have put me where I am today. If you do as some people on here has suggested, and be a "goody-two shoes", then people will hate you for being good, and if you're stuck up and snobbish, then they will hate you for that also. Just be YOURSELF!! As long as when you get up in the morning and can still face yourself in the mirror, then you know that you are doing something right. And, I hate to say it, but this is just a growing process that we all must go through at some point in our lives. It sucks, I know, but in the end, at least you'll feel better for going through it, and being the victor!!
607801
Move around in groups.  Stick with close friends.  I was teased and picked on alot in junior high school.  One day I just decided to ignore them.  And, you know what?  From that point on, I didn't notice whether they made fun of me or not.  I just went about my business, and chilled with my friends.\nPhysical bullying is a another story.  You will need the intervention of an adult, if that is the case.
46124
Hang out with different people, ones who you want to be with. If they still bug you, just ignore them. They just want to push your buttons and get you to jump on them, getting you in trouble. I know it's hard ignoring people who constantly get in your face, but the alternative is to get in trouble by physically getting their face gone. If they won't leave you alone, after asking them nicely, maybe ask them why they're bugging you. Most times, you'll get some lame excuse, like because they like it, or because I want to. Those kinds of excuses tell you they're just trying to make you mad and get a reaction. After that, don't react to them, no matter how bad it gets. Try to always surround yourself with positive people, keeping your goals in focus. Don't lose your stride to a bunch of posers. Their own lives are miserable, so they want to bring you down past their level of mediocrity. Rise above it. Don't give in to their taunts. I had years of this kind of experience in grade school, the worst being in middle school. Something happens to some kids when they get in middle school. It's like they left their brains somewhere else and living the life of a moron. It will get better, in time. Though it seems hard right now, just keep your focus. <*)))><
172922
Don't take it personally. Unfortunately, everyone gets teased in school in some way, shape or form. I myself don't have good memories of school. Just remember to hold your head up high, do your best in school, go to college and get a great career, so that one day, maybe you'll become a President or CEO of a company and those same kids that made fun of you will be coming to you for a job and you can make them clean toilets. All that teasing will be nothing once you leave high school. Just find yourself a friend or friends that like you for who you are. Again, keep your head up kiddo!
243449
People do this, judge people ya know, but all you can do is be yourself and I know it's hard feeling like no one likes you but remember you are special just like everyone else and if they don't like you for who you are then there just missing out on a good friend..speak up and try talking with them about stuff if that doesn't work then just keep being yourself and be strong..pray about it
565498
Why people don't like me =(
362105
Just be yourself if people like you they like you if they dont then they dont. Stay true to yourself and you'll make it through high school. Good luck and enjoy the time believe me it'll go by faster than you want it to.
684125
Screw the kids at your school. I've had this happen before, it sucks, but the best thing to do is keep your head and laugh along with them, show them it doesn't bug you any. Sooner or later they'll realize they're immature and that it doesn't bug ya.
64785
Make friends very quickly . This is because there are always going to be very rude kids going to any school . One other thing don't listen ti thise people who just make fun of people for no reason . Have fun at your new school and good luck .
173630
the main thing and most important thing you need to do is BE YOURSELF...that way you'll find people that are more like YOU and have way more fun with them then people that aren't.  And to let you in on a little secret...probably about 90% of the people you go to high school with...you'll never see again, except for like at reunions and stuff...so make sure you pick the friends that accept you for you and the ones you'd want around more. =)
107724
Be yourself and be open about it. I mean why would be you want to find friends that aren't interested in you and only a fake you. So stay true to yourself. Also, take up a class, you want to find people wth some interest as you.