I think my husband is cheating. How do I find out?
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Your gut instinct is usually correct.
28124
he may be cheating or you dont turn him on anymore
863756
From what you have told us I'd say he most likely is doing something he doesn't want you to know about. I won't say he is cheating, BUT, it leans that way. Without having actual proof I would not accuse him of it. But I would look into things. You know his work schedule, so for starters check things out. You might call him at work when he is suppose to be working and if he is there then you can always say you called to make plans for that night as you got the sudden urge to go out. There are many reasons you could use. If he isn't there this is more evidence that he may very well be cheating. At this point you could even follow him or have someone check up on him. Is there a money difference in the amount he brings home? Is he going out more often than usual? Does he shower or clean up as soon as he gets home? Does he at times smell of perfume? There are all so many things or ways to find out. BUT this can take time. So be cool and don't make accusations that you can't backup. (Prove) If he is cheating dump him. You don't need a loser. I wish you the best of luck that things work out for you.
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sounds like you have trust issues and if you do then this relationship is over. even if he isnt' cheating on  you if you are convinced that he is he might as well be. first thing in any relationship to survive is trust and communication. there are no for sure ways to see if he is cheating the only thing you can do is keep an eye open and make him feel wanted and loved. make him feel like a man, if he feels like one then he'll act like one.
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sounds like hes cheating on you
309347
Honestly, if he was cheating you can tell by the smell. He may smell too clean or like he put on an extra dab of cologne. There would always be the last dead give away, his sudden need for "privacy" about his work, or outings at night or afternoons. I think that the best way to know is to flat out ask him. I have never once had a guy try to lie to me about it. Mostly because I give him "the look" if you know what I mean. As for a female cheating, there is always the same common need for sudden privacy in their situations like that. They wil avoid looking directly in the eye and come up with excuses for going places, secret conversations with other men or women, whichever is their preference, and at top most, wearing more make up and dressing up for work more ...provocativly than usual.
26731
if hes chanmged and dont tell you he loves you you guys done cummicate thats the main thing to look for you should like talk to him about it but dont let him know your think he is cheating
754082
if he is acting suspicious or getting his sex some place else then he is probably cheating on you
267153
I am sad to say "Just ask him" is not going to resolve this question, if indeed your husband IS putting up profiles in dating sites. If your relationship has come to a place where you suspect this type of behavior, then you probably are aware of actual episodes of him cheating on you. The adult dating sites are where many cheating spouses go to find partners to cheat with. I know because I was using the sites to date eligable men, and I saw many sad things going on at many of these sites. There is one site which encourages the individuals to say exactly what they were looking for and what type of sex they were into. There were many men and women who said they were looking to have an affair with no strings attached! I was terriably saddend to see this. I really feel for you if you believe your husband is behaving in this manner. What would you do if you found out he was doing this? It sounds like you have a strong reason to think he is doing this, so what would you do if you found out? I think this is an important question you need to ask yourself. You can not change anybody's behavior, only your own. You need to decide what you can tolerate and what you can not tolerate. It is about self respect. Yeah, you can go and check all the history and find out what he is doing on line. However, he may know how to erase those traces too. Men who cheat regularly and use the computer to do so, often know how to erase those history tracks left inside the browsers. There are other ways to find out. He probably likes to keep his letters. He may be "hiding" them in hidden files and folders. To look through out the entire computer for all hidden files and folders do this:\n1. Open any explorer window. Any window you open on the computer is an explorer window. Or go to "all programs" then to "accessaries" then to "windows explorer".\n2. Click open the Tools option.\n3. click folder options. A new window will open which is \n   the folder option window.\n4. Click on the "view" tab.\n5. Scroll down to the Hidden file and folders, which has \n   two radio buttons regarding files and folders.\n6. There is probably a green color showing in the button of\n   "Do not show hidden files and folders. While there is \n    no green color in "show hidden files and folders"\n7. To change to show hidden files and folders, just click\n   the button "show hidden files and folders"\n8. Click "apply" or just click "ok" and for a moment \n   your computer will blink and your icons will disapear \n   and quickly reappear, kinda like they jumped. This is\n   normal as hidden files and folders are now becoming \n   "Unhidden. \nTIP: Hidden files and folders will have a "ghostly" appearance. Kinda faded looking. These are the folders and files that were hidden from view. Some files inside the hidden folder or file will not have the ghostly look. These are still "hidden" inside the hidden folder but not really hidden. As long as they are within a hidden folder they are in effect "hidden". The folder used to contain the illicit letters, if in fact they exist, may be a regular file "hidden" inside a hidden file. Or he may actually have hidden them, and so they will have the ghostly look.\n\nNow you need to search you computer for all folders and files. You do this by using the search feature. \n1. click "start"\n2. click "search" On the start menu. A window will open,\n   this is the search program.\n3. click on "search all files and folders"\n4. On where to search click on the arrow which opens a menu \n   for you to chose from. \n5. click on C drive, if C drive is the drive you use for the\n   major apps, has your OS on it, and all your files and\n   folders. \nTip: If you are not sure, just click on both C and D drives for this search. Perhaps you should do this anyway, as he may be clev
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Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
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you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
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Don't guess if he's married or not.  Find out for sure.  Do not pursue anything until you do this.  Drop it immediately if he is.
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Follow him or hire a private detective to follow him.  Check out his cell phone and wallet.  If he is cheating...dump the loser!  Women do have that intuition thing...if you think he is, he probably is!
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Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
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yes, let it go. if you really are sure he is, then ask him.  He may deny it, or he may not.  Hacking into his account would show you don't trust him!  And if he finds out he is going to be REALLY mad that you don't!
362786
He's definitely cheating on you, dump him
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My psychology is to keep balance and make the marriage be happy. If he is cheating you should to  www.fling.com  is not to far. That's the way to get even and have excitement on both sides.