how do i tell my mother that my best friend is dating my father?
457962
If you love your mother you would tell her plain and simple.  She gave birth to you and brought you into this world at least give her respect and the curtesy of knowing the truth!
1080923
Well, your gonna need his name at the very least. Is your mother helping you in this area? Get in touch with her and take it from there. And make sure she understands that you have the right to know about your father.
1014877
The easiest way to tell your parents is to simply sit down and ask to have an adult conversation with them. It's best not to sugar coat anything, just keep it real. Tell them you have a boyfriend and it might be nice if you tell them that you would really like them to meet him and get to know him. That way they feel like they are involved in your life. Whatever you do don't put it off any longer because the longer you wait the worse it will be when you tell them.
653401
Why would you tell his mother? If he is of legal age, he can make his own decisions. If he wants his mother to know, then he should tell her. If he doesn't want his mother to know then you should respect his decision and leave it alone.
1095113
This may be the hardest thing you have to do so far in your life and I wish you the best of luck!\n\nHopefully in 5 years you will look back and laugh at how scared you were to tell them. \n\nI don't know your family but if I were you, I would take my mother to a neutral location such as a park and go for a walk. Tell her how much you love her and that you would never do anything to hurt her. Tell her that you need to talk to her about something very important to you. Then tell her in a way that's best for the both of you. Give her a few minutes to absorb this new information. Ask her if she has any questions. Tell her that it is nothing that she did or didn't do. Tell her that she is a great mother, and that you were born this way. Tell her that you are still her daughter, still the same loving girl you always were. Hopefully she will come to accept this in time. It may take a while. (She may already know) Either way she may be able to help you tell your father and the rest of your family. In time they will learn to accept you for who you really are, and love you just the same. Best wishes!!
997983
well, my mom is the same way and im 13!!! i tell her that he is just a friend and she trusts me so just say that he is a friend, and if your parents are around, don't show any emotions toward him like hugging or cuddling!!
684514
its safe for me to say I've been in your shoes because i have.my father and mother were going through the same thing and I had to be the one to tell my father what she was up too...its never easy trust me i know.but if you listen to your heart it will lead you to the right answer...and just maybe heal your relationship with your father as well.BEST WISHES HUN AND GOOD LUCK!
33525
Tell them.  Sooner or later they're going to find out.  When that happens they may assume you were up to no good. Why?  Because you didn't tell them.  If you want any chance at seeing and talking to him then tell them first.  Besides, don't you want your parents to trust you? You trust your parents?  It's a two way street!!
36738
Tell your mom you like him.
319783
You need to tell your mom, that you don't appreciate her violating your trust. If she keeps this up, you will be reluctant to tell her anymore of your life.\nI don't think your Mom would like that, that's a bond that shouldn't be broken, especially for some boyfriend, who may not be around that long.\nBoyfriends can come and go, but you will be Mother and Daughter for life. Ask your Mom, what is more important to her, your trust, or her trying to please her boyfriend.\nSurely there has to be some other subject, other that your private life that they can talk about.\nIf she merely tells him of some success you may have in school or on a project, that's fine, that's just a Mom's pride in her daughter.\nYour private life should be out of bounds. Ask her  how she would feel, if you did the same to her, by telling all your friends about her private life.
309423
You don't, you just say you're going out with some girlfriends.\n\nOr if your parents are homophobes, just say "Mom, I'm going out with this girl.. Okay bye =) "
1063975
I feel the best way to tell your parents is to just sit them down and tell them exactly how you feel about your boyfriend and since they're your parents I'm sure that they want you to be happy so be detail about how you feel and how content you are with your boyfriend, let them know toward the end of your conversation that he is black and let them know that you understand how they feel about you dating a black guy but you definitely think you can make your own decisions in choosing who you go out with. Basically, express yourself and your feelings but be very understanding and respectful at the same time.
612760
Be honest. If your Dad is going to say or do something, it's better to warn her upfront. \n\nDid you tell because you were worried about her?
697711
First determine if he is the kind of dude your mother would approve of. ( what do you think her impression of him would be).  If she'll like him, introduce him.  If she wouldn't like him for what ever reason.  Dont date him anymore.  She has experience and knows and understands things you dont.  The best advice you can ever get is from your parents, not your friends.  Find someone you know she will like and approve of.  Since you only been together a month, you should wait longer to introduce her anyway.  The relationship may not even work out, so you may introducing him for nothing.  Wait to see if it is going to be a long term relationship.  That usually takes many months to determine.  He'll be great the first few months then things may slowly change.
750605
i have been in your situation and ill be honest and state that it enver worked out between us because of our familys different point of view, there was also a racial difference and my father found that very difficult to handle. but if ur mum and dad are in an age gap marriage then they should understand, id sit your mum down and just explain to her, possible have your boyfriend wth you at the time. that way then she may see that he is there to stand by you and does not want to hurt you\n\ngood luck.
78033
well it might seem strange at first wen you want to tell them but u just cant find the words but what u can do is take your mom far away from your dad and just say "mom i'm not a liltle girl any more i'm your lilttle lady"thats what i did and she understood me.im 12 to.
133472
Answer them truthfully like you aren't doing anything wrong... cause your not! And your mom just wants to be a part of your life and make sure your not with a dirt bag!  If your mom had a new boyfriend wouldn't you want to know about him?