Will I see my mum again now shes gone, and when?
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Both my Mother & Father have passed away & I believe what Jesus :\n\nWHAT JESUS SAID ABOUT DEATH\n\nJesus Christ spoke about the condition of the dead. He did so with regard to Lazarus, a man whom he knew well and who had died. Jesus told his disciples: “Lazarus our friend has gone to rest.” The disciples thought that Jesus meant that Lazarus was resting in sleep, recovering from an illness. They were wrong. Jesus explained: “Lazarus has died.” (John 11:11-14) Notice that Jesus compared death to rest and sleep. Lazarus was neither in heaven nor in a burning hell. He was not meeting angels or ancestors. Lazarus was not being reborn as another human. He was at rest in death, as though in a deep sleep without dreams. Other scriptures also compare death to sleep. For example, when the disciple Stephen was stoned to death, the Bible says that he “fell asleep.” (Acts 7:60) Similarly, the apostle Paul wrote about some in his day who had “fallen asleep” in death.—1 Corinthians 15:6.\n\nLEARNING FROM THE RESURRECTION ACCOUNTS\n\nThe Bible teaches that the dead “are conscious of nothing at all.” They are not alive and have no conscious existence anywhere. The account of Lazarus confirms this. Upon returning to life, did Lazarus thrill people with descriptions of heaven? Or did he terrify them with horrible tales about a burning hell? No. The Bible contains no such words from Lazarus. During the four days that he was dead, he had been “conscious of nothing at all.” (Ecclesiastes 9:5) Lazarus had simply been sleeping in death.—John 11:11.\nThe account of Lazarus also teaches us that the resurrection is a reality, not a mere myth. Jesus raised Lazarus in front of a crowd of eyewitnesses. Even the religious leaders, who hated Jesus, did not deny this miracle. \n\nThink about this too: If Lazarus had been in heaven for those four days, would he not have said something about it?— And if he had been in heaven, would Jesus have made him come back to earth from that wonderful place?— Of course not!\n\nYet, many people say that we have a soul, and they say that the soul lives on after the body dies. They say that Lazarus’ soul was alive somewhere. But the Bible does not say that. It says that God made the first man Adam “a living soul.” Adam was a soul. The Bible also says that when Adam sinned, he died. He became a “dead soul,” and he returned to the dust from which he had been made. The Bible also says that all Adam’s offspring inherited sin and death too.\n\nThe Scriptural teaching of the resurrection, however, is not compatible with the doctrine of the immortality of the soul. If an immortal soul survived death, no one would need to be resurrected, or brought back to life. Indeed, Martha expressed no thought about an immortal soul that was living on elsewhere after death. She did not believe that Lazarus had already gone to some spirit realm to continue his existence. On the contrary, she showed her faith in God’s purpose to reverse the effects of death. She said: “I know he will rise in the resurrection on the last day.” (John 11:23, 24) Likewise, Lazarus himself related no experiences of some afterlife. There was nothing to report.\n\nClearly, according to the Bible, the soul dies and the remedy for death is the resurrection.
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I had a close relationship with my mother.  We talked every single day.  Sure when I was a teenager she annoyed me and we fought.  But that didn't mean anything.  Once I got out of adolencense, I appreciated her.  Out of all my family members who have died, I miss her the most.
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im sorry =(    best wishes to your mom... i dont think theres much you can do besides provide her comfort and let her know your there for her.
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So sorry to hear about your daughter, she was obviously very special to you, that is very spooky isn't it, lots of spooky things have happened to me, on the day of my moms funeral a lady who I have never met before came to speak to me outside the chapel of rest, she told me she remembered me when I was a little girl, she spoke really kindly of my mom too, later I asked my sister who that lady was and she said she hadn't seen her, I started asking other people and no one had seen this lady or knew who she was, I spoke to one of my aunts about this lady and said but someone must have seen her she had a really distinct hat on, but no one had, later that day some old photos were brought out and I spotted the lady I had spoken to outside the chapel of rest amongst those photos and she had the same distinct hat on, I was so glad and said to my aunt see there she is, that's the lady I spoke to, my aunt told me it was impossible as she was my grandmas sister who had actually died when I was 3 years old and coincidentally the date of her death was the same date of my moms funeral, that did spook me big time.
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Last time I saw her was when she left my house last night...she was with me for the whole weekend...It was great.....and guess what??? Your name never came up so I don't know why you are looking for her...But I will tell her tonight when she comes back over for the night.....
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You gotta do whats right for her now and let the past go,..someday she wont be here and you will miss her, so  like someone else said suck it up, bite your lip  and  do whats right for her now.\nMy Mom is 75 , and hardley a week goes by that I dont have to bite that lip of mine, sometimes i think im going to get a bloody lip i have to bite it so hard, lol.. But its worth it cause i love her and know  when the day comes when shes no longer here, i will miss her and even miss having to bite my lip lol
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talk to your mom to allow you to get back on.
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my mother, my father passed away or he would be there to
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You don't.....\n\nWe lost our daughter 4 years ago.  There really isn't anything you can do to make it go away.  But, as foreign as the notion seems now, it becomes less painful over time.\n\nWe actually ended up moving because I saw her everywhere.  We made a fresh start in another house in another city.  I think that was the beginning of the "better" for me.  I wasn't driving by the hospital she died in anymore, I didn't see her laying on the couch, playing in the yard.\n\nMost of it is in your heart.  You have to figure out the way that makes this okay for your own peace.  Can you see past how much you miss her to realizing that she is no longer in pain?  Can you reconcile it with your religion or spiritual beliefs?  Can you let her go?\n\nIn time you will have more peaceful thought and memories, and the tears that stream down your face every time you hear name will be replaced with a little smile.\n\nBetter days are coming.  I am so sorry for all you have been dealt.  I can honestly say that I know what you're going through........ and you are in my prayers.  If you want someone to talk to... I'm here.
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Wow I was just going to ask the same question. My mother pasted away 27 years ago today. On some years it is not as bad because it is not on mothers day but days like today it is rough. I'm sorry for your lost. I'm sorry for that empty felling that will always be there. 27 years and sometimes it feels like yesterday. You will always have the memories. Remember her love. I am lucky I have a daughter who has my mother's gift, a very loving person naturally, she has a heart of gold. I thank my mother for that every day. Remember one thing your mother will always be with you, what you say or do will come for the upbringing she did. You will reflect her teachings. \n\nI miss you Ma
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I don't know if there is a way to really get over it. She is your mom.  I do know how you feel.  My relationship with my mom has always been strained I always just let her say whatever and took it.  I eventually backed away and we didn't talk for a while. Then we slowly started talking again.  We still talk but don't have a close relationship.  I would give it some time and let her cool down.  Hopefully she will come around.  Hang in there.  But remember that even if she is your mom she shouldn't put you down and she should support you.  So even if you do have a relationship again with her don't rely on her for emotional support.
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Tell them you need to go in to talk to your mum
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Hoping to come home and see their loved ones
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when iam returned back home and see my wife and my child
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss but if your Mum goes onto Incapacity Benefit it will take about 3 months before it is sorted but they will back date it for her, If you are really worried get in contact with your citizens Advice and they will telephone the Income Support and if you are not happy with them go to your solicitor and he will arrange for them to get a crisis loan out to you ASAP , I hope this helps, my wife is a solicitor and they have done this before so it does work.\n\nGod Bless you and your Mum
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Good try!  Trying to find away out of the family again. Still waiting to see mine, been waiting longer.  Promise,  if I see mine and your not there, I'll draw you in.
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My mother's death whom I always miss