I like this man at work but there is an age difference. We don't really speak.?
472258
why not take a chance and talk to him, he may already  be in a relationship, but ask him out for coffee and see what he says. if he says no then you know where you stand, otherwise you will be continually wondering what could of been. take a chance.
1127644
Sit him down away from everyone else and tell him you were wondering if he would like to be friends with you. Take it from there. The age difference is o k
845381
You say it is someone you think you are going to have sex with and not someone that you love. Relationships with age differences can work, but they are more difficult to make work and require a loving relationship. Since you didn't mention love, I don't think he is too old, I think you are too young.
629057
The older the man is the better for you because women tend to look older than men especially after giving birth. So dont worry about that guy being 3 years older, in fact up to 10 years older, it still ok but not more than that. Meanwhile, let him make the first move, inviting you out for a first date. Then you see how things will work out. You both have yet to know about each other better than to just plunge deeply into a relationship. You should try and know about his past. He may have certain weaknessess you may not know off. So just go slow and takes things slowly. If hes willed to be with you, he will be, otherwise you just like chasing in the wind. May God Bless you with the will to decide wisely to pursue the relationship with him.
631486
Okay, so basically, what you're saying is, as of right now, you're 15 and he's 24? While it may seem thrilling and exciting at such a young age to have an older man interested in you, or to have anyone romantically interested in you since at your age you've probably not had many relationships, there are a few things you might want to think about:\n\nThis man, and i stress the word MAN has lived a lot more than you, even though numerically it's "only" 9 years difference, he's reached a lot more milestones than you. Chances are he's graduated high school, had some secondary schooling such as college or university, could have been in the armed forces, and he's probably already had his first love and a few relationships since. Now you, as a 15 year old girl, still have the rest of high school ahead of you, college, etc. It seems a bit disturbing to be that a 24 year old man would pursue something with someone so young.\n\nI know boys your age may seem immature, unromantic, and this guy may seem older, and wiser, and mysterious, but the difference here is still something i think you should think about, seriously.  \n\nWhatever you decide, i hope it works out for the best.
747248
Hmm... well, definitely appear to be interested by giving him lots of eye contact and smiling at him. For awhile, only do that. He will most likely make a move at that point. If he doesn't get the point, be friendly in his presence and find ways to talk to him about work and your social lives. But, the most important thing to remember is to not look desperate (don't go out of your way to talk to him) and if he doesn't pursue it after you know you've made an effort to show him your affection, than he's just not that into you. GOOD LUCK!
476894
I kinda think you just need a little more stimulation. It seems you have just been enjoying each others company for a long time and that is pretty amazing in it's self... talk to your partner... you might find that he is feeling the same way as well... You say flirt a little? Can I guess that you don't work? Cos most people I know in a work situation tend to flirt a little somehow...  Though it is well understood that it isn't for any other purpose than to lighten the days tasks.\nTalk to him and maybe seek this stimulation together... can only make you stronger and give you more to share when it is just the two of you...
1056321
The fact that you have these feelings is 'normal'.  The abscence of them would not be.  Your working hard, on different shifts, tired, together but alone most of the time.  Just remember, communication is important.  Good luck and stop to have fun!!!  He'll thank you!
847682
Ask him out and see what he says. I'd be wondering if he likes you though. Sorry, but if he knows that you like him and you're obviously of age, then why hasn't he asked you out?
943313
If you are both adults, both not committed to anyone and you like each other age shouldnt matter. Ask him out.
515086
Yeah darling, he is just trying to get enough information on you to get you in trouble at work since it did not work the first time. The only way he knows how to do that is to get you to like him again. So now the playful bit, by opening doors, and jokes and shit. He couldn't tell you he wasn't interested in you because he really is. Take my advice, don't fall into the niceness. It's all a joke, it's not sincere.
1175234
Maybe he likes you. I would caution you, though. My experience is that it isn't good to go out with someone that you work with. How are you going to feel after a nasty split with this guy when you have to see his face every day?
726273
It depends on the age difference and your maturity level. If you can handle whatever may come along with being involved with an older man and the baggage then do what makes you  happy.
605340
Try to meet him outside of work! But I hope you know the risks of an office relationship!!
17534
Back off a bit and see what he does.  If he doesnt seem to notice or actually seems relieved, forget it. But if he starts trying to talk to you more or continues flirting its worth a shot.  If you start focusing on other things it might just give him the push he needs to let you know how he feels. If not, it's probably better this way anyhow because getting involved with a colleague can be a mess.
1133062
you are getting to know the real him.. sound like he works alot and might be stressing so that's normal .. you need mo make time for each other no work or friends just the 2 of you. you will see we will start to want up to you the way you want him to. but it take hrs to get your head out of your work obligations and some times weeks were it just one big long day..
282083
Age differences like this can work out, but there will be MANY difficulties and you both will have to be willing to face them together, if you two are both truly in it together, then you can conquer anything.\n\n(P.s. he's single now right? as long he's not married then go for it, you only have one life to lead. Don't do/not do anything that you will regret)\nGood Luck and Take Care