what should I do if my boyfriend hasn't called me?
456826
Stop freaking. Wait at least 24 hours. Then call him with some drama. Then break up with him.
300597
If he wants to talk to you he will call. If he wants to see you again he will ask you out.\n\nDon't call him. Would you like to hear this line from him when you give him a ring? : "Oh hello there, sorry I haven't called, I've been busy" Pathetic.\n\nMy present boyfriend called me everyday and it was nice to finally find a guy who didn't play these "mind/dating" games.
727652
Well if he's not calling you back then I would stop calling him. Just keep up the emails if you feel like it. Maybe if you stop calling him he will start to wonder why and he will think to call you. But I doubt he thinks your needy...he probably is just busy and since you are out of sight you are out of mind. Ya know? No biggie though. Just find a man in your area, because most people aren't into long distance relationships. gooooood luck.
263602
Play him at his own game! Don't call or message him. Let him wait and time will tell if its meant to be. Maybe he's just really busy or doen't know where he stands with you. Try and talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. He might not know that his behaviour is effecting you! Spend some time with your friends and family, enjoy your life! If he's worth it, he'll call you! If not, your worth more! Whatever you do don't let him upset! He doesn't know what hes missing! Good luck lady!
827563
Wait for him to call?  He already called you several times and you didn't answer.  Why would you want to call someone who stood you up?  You are better off moving on, since he stood you up.  Do not let him walk over you.
763130
Email him and say... Hey just thinking about you. I have not heard from you lately and just wanted to know  if you wanted to go out again some time, and then give him an easy way out. Then at least you will know.
340486
If the phone things bothers you, you need to ask him.  Don't make it a suspicious question.  Just tell him that your worried about him and you miss him.  Ask him to try and stay in touch better.  Don't take anything too seriously about him going out with friends unless you start to see obvious signs that something else is wrong.
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
1119108
something has happen, find out what it is, if it is work, school or family. if those are the reason, talk with one another. find time to meet. if not, it is time to maybe think of finding a new bf
448007
don't stress about it.  You should never sit around waiting for the phone to ring.  Go out and do something for yourself.  Go shopping or to a movie and get your mind of this.  Interact with people you haven't hung out with in awhile because of him.  When he's ready to talk he'll call.  Don't let your whole world be around him.  If he needs to find himself, let him.  Be there for him when he's ready to talk.  Take this time yourself to think about your relationship, have things ready to talk about when he's ready.
1171593
Nothing you can do for now but wait. Maybe there is a reason he didn't call, lost the number, sick relative, sick himself..........on and on..... The next time you see him wait and see how he reacts to you and go from here.
1173820
if he did not call you back,this means that he is not interested in you at all.dont waste your time with someone who does not love you.find a better man.
183646
same here! I dont know what to do either. Keep waiting & we will know. I think if he loves you, he will call you so be patient but anyway try to call him sometimes, maybe he's really busy.
747576
Wait at least another week, then I would call him, but don't ask him why he didn't call you or anything like that because it will just annoy him. Act like you weren't even expecting him to call you, and just casually ask him how his exams went. Keep the conversation short, just enough to remind him that you're still there. If he is really shy and you think this might be holding him back from asking you to hang out, you could try making the suggestion that he should hang out with you and your friends sometime. Don't ask him to hang out alone with you unless you KNOW that he is interested in you. After this phone call, if he doesn't call you back again, DON'T pursue this any further.
582863
You don't say how long you know this guy, nor do you say how long has it been since you've heard from him.\n\nWhen one calls regularly, and that stops, we tend to think the worst.  There could be a reason why he hasn't called, but there is no law to say that you cannot try calling him.\n\nSee what sort of reception you get - is he warm and friendly, or is he cold and distant?  That in itself will tell you where the relationship could be headed.\n\nBetter to know now, so you can mourn - if you need to mourn - the relationship, then move on to find someone who will truly call you back.\n\nGood Luck!
265506
Sounds like you've got a crush on him, but if I were you,I would get over it as soon as possible.  If he hasn't called you yet, he's probably not interested. He may never call you, but don't let that ruin your life.  Just think: he doesn't know what he's missing.
944005
I think Samdrian has the right idea. I made the mistake of being clingy after my breakup. My phone hasn't rung once since. \n\nLet him go. The longer and harder you try the less respect he will have for you. I gave my boyfriend up, I had too. I had already become pathetic in his eyes. Go out with friends, get a volunteer job. If you don't you will just obsess on why he hasn't called. \n\nPlease take care of your heart and yourself.  Give yourself a break.