What Should I tell this girl?I want her to be apart of my life ever since we was in Junior high School?
461193
You should say "Hello, would you like to go out for pizza and a movie this Friday?"
1002565
Try talking to her and hang out sometimes! Go to the theatres, shop, whatever! And remember to dig into her side of the story. Try adapting to her "styles" as in speech and dress. When you shop for clothes, don't go looking for old fashioned stuff (if you do, that is) but go to where she always go. Give her space, as well. If she refuses to tell you something, don't nag her. Just wait and treat her kindly, ignore the fact she's lying.... get comfortable with her. If she doesn't mind, try to garden and do some of the hobbies you like to do. Remember, teen age goes away after awhile. Good luck!
629449
Oh how sweet puppy love!  It just makes me wanna be 14 again.  But guess what, now that I am older, I can tell you for sure, that now matter how many nice and loving things you do, you can not force someone to love you back.  You can be really pathetic and commit your whole life to serving this girl, and she'll just hate you for it.  \n\nYou want to be told what to do?  Well, you stop yearing after her, you stop looking at her, you stop talking to her, you move on with your life and find a new girl who appreciates you for the things you do.  Keep after this girl and you will just hurt all the more after she walks all over you.
346364
Depends on your and her age, what type of "leaving you alone" do you mean.  Is she flirting with you at school?  Is she calling you at home, stopping by your home, always looking for you at school?  Is she a co-worker?   \n\nIf you are teenagers, I would just tell her that you do not feel that way toward her, and that there is nothing wrong with her, it's just you don't want that type of relationship with her.  Her feelings may get hurt but sometimes you just have to get blunt or they won't leave you alone.
177214
just come straight out-honestly is the best policy and shell appreciate you being honest and that will build a healthy base for your new relationship. but be tactful a little dont shout it out in front of her friends! just bring up the subject of age maybe and ask her gently maybe!
421806
Tell her to go hang out with her friends! Tell her to go out and do stuff so that she has a lot to talk about when you get back!
95772
ok listin closely.  OK    do what you should have done a long time ago talk to that girl and nicely tell them to stop
830529
sounds like a bunch of drama.  just confront your friend telling her how u feel.... but i donno how much thats gonna work.  this situation sounds like middle/high school stuff
1175407
I think you did her a favour!! Hope when you grow up a bit you learn to treat your next girlfriend with a bit of respect.
482250
For a start, applogise dearly to her and tell her this time your luv comes from your heart, no string attached..Its your destiny to be wit her..and that you now realise she was also meant to be wit you..
950857
She doesnt want to be on bad terms with you but also considers you to be the back up friend. It sucks. If you really wanted to stir the pot a bit you could make friends with her friend. Ha ha. Yes thats very 'high school' of me, but tempting isnt it?
509617
just do nothing la!!!! just kidding... what about make her happy... just let her go... 1 day when you are gone from her life than she will know how meaning full you are.. then try again... if it does not working, there is something wrong with you man... I'm 14 to so i know how to handles girls at my schools....
474918
go ..have your relationship like she wants...just dont tell her you did all those girls you "dated"
1051583
let your girl know that as much as you enjoy being with her and her friends that you want to spend some alone time with her to talk about somethings that you are not comfortable with all her friends hearing from you cause you know if there that close she will tell them anyways
550656
First off, dont do the cake thing, that is something off Napolean Dynomite, and if she doesnt know you exist, then how will she know it is from you, and same thing for getting someone to ask 4 u, that is junior high stuff. Now I am sure you are in high school, as am I, and the thing you should do is try to talk to her everyday until about a week before the dance. Dont just come and and say I want to take you to the dance, she will be like 'Who are you' so talk to her and tell her who you are. Then about a 5 or 6 days before the dance ask her, so she doesnt have time to get someone else.
907792
i'm about this girl's age, and i know what she feels like. being a girl this age is not always easy, so what i would do is sit down and have a talk with her. let her know that she can tell you anything and that you are there for her.
713302
I dont understand what u are up to or thinking, I mean the girl is in a relationship already, what do u expect her to say? Are u gonna suggest to her that she should dump her bf 4 u? Why don't u go hunt else where? U say, u ve known her for 2 years! Why didn't u talk to her about it within that period. U should realize it that - when u like some thing, it doesn't automatically become yours, atleast that is how the world works. If I were u at that age, I would concentrate on school rather than chasing people's gfs.