is  there anyway to avoid getting hurted by others behave and talks?
457641
probably not.but you can determine how much it will hurt.
940876
the best thing to do is to stop letting people bother you. if you don't you'll spen most of your time upset. that's no fun is it?\n\nmy moto "Please don't give me a hard time. My stomach hurts me when I laugh too much." :)
894920
I have the same problem.  People always say "think b4 u talk", but that's fricking hard!  There are only a few seconds to which there is time alloted for you to think of an answer.  Then the person leaves you in the dust.  It's like a reflex...you defend yourself before anyone else has a chance to inflict another blow.  Next time, just relax yourself b4 a conversation and remind yourself not to lash out, no matter what.  Of course, you will forget to remind yourself after a while, but the next lash-out will bring you crashing back down to earth.  But for now...just apologize to the girl and explain that you didnt know what you were saying.  She should understand.  It is hard to deal with this stuff, but you will get over it.  Dont dwell on anything.
72312
Don't expect to never get hurt. Just asking this question indicates that you're a sensitive person, and there will be things along the line that will hurt you. Just be sure that you take a little time to think about things rather than a gut reaction, which will only aggravate situations.
85086
yes, in person and be nice about it its going to hurt enough without adding salt to the wound . Tell them why if they ask and be honest .
33476
Think twice before an action... don't harm yourself or others. Consider your values. Don't be selfish thinking about others, how will your actions affect them.
582165
Some times it is easier to talk to strangers then our loved ones.  Sounds like you need to stand up for your self.  Don't let people walk all over you.  You were not put on this earth to be a door matt.  You can do it with out being nasty about it.  Just be open and honest with them, as long as you are being honest and they don't like what they hear.  That is their problem not yours.  It's your life take a stand.
797649
I've read lots of responses of that kind.  They're a dime a dozen.  You mustn't let vicious people upset you or cause you to have hard feelings toward others.  Be a lighthouse and show others how reasonable and imperturbable you can be.
175316
Just do not provoke others and later complain they are attacking you.
485800
Please always be yourself and always remember to treat others as you would want to be treated. \n\nDon't stop asking your questions my friend,...... u will find the answers soon enough.
63002
you let them say what they want to say.. u show\nno emotion the entire time and u simply walk away. you will always be the bigger person if u walk away.\ndont ever lower yourself to their level. and if they attempt to hit you.. block, and then again walk away.
908351
just be brave and face it.  if anyone asked u anything, just tell them that nothing happened and that if something happened u would'nt be sitting there like that the very next day.\n\nso actually nothing really happened and u dont care what the people say.  just be defiant, b'cos if u fight shy or cry, then the saddists will make up stories to fit their imagination.  \n\nif somebody is persistant, then tell them that their daughter or sister also was one among your group and if something had happened to you, the same had happened to her also.  and that if they continue tormenting u, then u would tell the others that they were also present there.  just be brave girl and face it.  dont cry.
312809
hang around people that dont make fun of you\nalso you probably shouldnt have asked this question here if you didnt want to get bashed down by idiots
914618
Don't conform! f-u-c-k 'em just be yourself.  Do what the hell you want just don't hurt anybody
208449
be nice and be yourself. If those two things conflict you have problems.
1114719
Take a cheerful part in conversation as long as you can and then when the talk veers away from what you are able to take part in, excuse yourself politely and go do your cross-stitch.  It's your attitude that is the key to whether you come off rude or not. You shouldn't feel obligated to continue "for hours" having to take part in conversation on topics that you don't feel connected to.
147239
very very high level of understanging of the human behavior never forget what people want is someone to listen be a very good listener and supporter let the next person say everything openly and without hesitations to u so that conversation is open u must always be a good facilitaor .never give expressions that may make the next person feel that ur having fun always show your high concerns and listen sincerely , attentively and patiencefully.