my ex still says he love me and dat he misses me and he want to trust me again but he don't want to be with me
472869
hello!dont u worry age difference is not a problem he still loves you i think its good.after all you can tell your mom her opinion is always best and i think she understood  you s well s me.dont be upset if you have any problem share with me at:alina_alot2000@yahoo.com this is my id
930769
maybe he still have feelings for you and wants to know whether or not you'll be jealous. he probably wants you to be back.. make the first move and ask him how is he recently maybe he'll bring up the topic about that.
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
852451
He is stringing you along. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He doesn't like it when he don't have control of you. You are his back up plan, his security that he won't be alone. You need to dump him and meet you a real man. You don't deserve that. He is tormenting you. He will never change.\nI gaurantee you when you meet somebody and he finds out he will be on his knees begging you back but please don't make the mistake in taking him back because after he breaks you up with him he will dump you again.
974410
Maybe he is hurting and still loves you and does not know how to let go.  You sure that he does not want to keep talking with you.  Did you ask.  I know you said that you said you both see other people but your not married and your maybe able to reignite and old flame.  :)
364602
It is normal to want to get back w/ your ex. However, you should only get back w/ him only if you want to.  Don't let him pressure you into it. There are a lot things you have to take into consideration...i.e. like why did you all separate, can u trust him, and is the relationship worth trying again? Whatever you do, don't rush to make decisions, take things slowly, and remember ur happiness is most important. Good Luck.
869839
it is difficult because you are making it difficult. you are still obsessing over the idea if you should trust him or not and you should not! he can do the talk but can he walk the walk? i dont think so from what it seems! he seems as though he is playing both you and his ex and he is telling you that he wants to be with you just because that is what you want to hear! if he actually would love you he would act on other better terms and not like a jerk who wants his cake and to eat it too! i have broken up with my bf and so has he with me but none of us have talked with our ex's or tried to play the other person since we are both with our ex's-we are 22 and almost 24! i would not accept this guy's behavior no matter how much you love him since he obviously is not mature enough for you, your needs, his actions or his behavior! he thinks that playing with people's minds is fun, therefore he does not know and i think that this guy at some point will surprise you by cheating on you! do not accept him and all his drama into your life but rather focus on what you have and how young you are as well as that time will not  not come a second time around as well as how you should take care of yourself first and be in a healthy relationship! this relationship from what i can make out of it is not the best relationship so you might want to rethink it and make yourself happy with someone who can take care of you and knows what he wants out of life as well as treating you better than this! if you go back with this guy you are headed for splitsville another couple of times as well as more tension, lack of trust and frustration building! i have given you the info from personal experiences and i hope that at least you consider some of them!
835761
I was suspicious of my ex... and he was a cheater.. which is why he is my ex  :)   Go with your gut feelings.. and if you can't trust someone, you shouldn't be with them. It will never work if there isn't honesty in the relationship and you will drive yourself crazy worrying about what he is doing..good luck.
653811
forget him, if he doesn't want you back find someone who is better than him - he'll want you back then, just like you want him back now\n\nyou break up for a reason, why get back together?  did things really change?  (they usually don't)
119912
If you doubt he loves you now than it is probably true. Also I would not want to be with someone who cheated on me. He will do it again if given the chance
1177808
Well if you are broken up, you move on and don't worry about what he's doing or not doing. And if you still want to be with him even though you think he's lying to you, then you still need to move on, because you should not want to be with someone who's going to lie to you just to keep you around. You shouldn't want to be kept on the sidelines. MOVE On and make yourself happy, because if you stay with him your only going to be unhappy, worrying if he's telling u the truth or not , if he's seeing this one ot that one. \nA relationship is built on trust and you have none with him!
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
1138160
I dont understand if he didnt really want to be with you why would he have stayed with you for a year after you cheated. Just jot down on some paper everything you want to say to him, anything that you might forget. Some times a break up is temporary but sometimes they just tell you that to let you down easy. Thats what my ex did to me (neither of us cheated he just said we should have some time apart and we havent gotten back together yet and that was a year ago)You need to figure out why you cheated on him, it was obviously for some reason. Good Luck
372440
Did he give you a reason for the break-up?  I'm thinking that he doesn't want to rush into another relationship right now because he is still nursing a broken heart and doesn't want it broken again.  Give him so time.  The good news is that he still keeps in touch with you. Let him know that you're still interested and let him call the shots unless it looks like he's calling all the wrong plays.  In that case, put your foot down and tell him that you want him back but you agree to take it slow.  Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt him.
522860
Maybe he's losing intrest in u or trying to give u a hint? that he wants to see other people. That's what my ex did, when she said i deserve some one better. Maybe he's trying to get more attention, who knows? tell him stop playing games and come out forward & say what's on his idiotic mind. Us guys can't express our feelings well, unlike u ladies.
749068
your confused b/c he's making you confused, i don't believe he's confused one bit he's just stringing you along, and you are right he is too scared, too scared to completely let go of you all he's doing is talking nonsence to you....what i think is happening here is he wants to keep you waiting for him while he 's out exploring his options, he's afraid you might find you someone else...and he won't have anybody, he doesnt want to get back with you or else he would have, i mean whats stopping him?? all he's saying is i'll just keep playing mind games with her until i find me somebody i really like....don't fall victim, i would surprise him and would tell him to just go on with his life....that you are not meant for each other...get rid of the stress and you will feel so much better.
1066994
He still loves you. What he is saying he just wished both of you could be with him.