Guys - does it annoy you when women cry?
460071
anything excessive will get on my nerves. it depends, if the girl has something really bad happened to her, im not gonna complain if she cries.
316257
Because men are supposed to be the emotionally strong and balanced ones. And crying is a sign of weakness...or so people think. I do not believe that.
838251
I know what you mean. When you mention a problem to a woman, they sympathize, but dont neccessarily jump into action. If you tell a man, they always have this need to act and make it better. They take it as a quest or challenge they need to accomplish. Its partly that through time, its been the mans job to act. To hunt, work, fight, find, get and protect their woman and children. Women on the otherhand have often been passive creatures. It is also partly the fact that many men are uncomfortable with or unaccustomed to dealing with emotional matters, to just talking about a problem in order to make it better and just being a shoulder to cry on rather than an arm to hold a sword. They have to act because to just listen or understand would be seen as unmanly. Its culture, its history, its instinct and sometimes its neccesity. As much as I loath giving each gender their own place, often a man needs to push a woman to act and a woman has to remind a man to slow down and think. Ying and yang. And thats all ok, as long as we can also accept those who dont fit this mold.
1027847
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior.  A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset.  Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off!  It can be tough figuring that one out, I know...  And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...\nI think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder.  Good Luck with your girl...
960903
Every feeling or emotion we have is not driven by the significant woman in our life.\nWe can get upset because of something outside a relationship.\n"It's not you, it's me" actually applies here. lol
1162492
if you did something to make him realy angry then maybe he cannot help it but to shout at you. but on the other hand if you were upset by something out of your hands and just needed a cry and he shouts at you,,then no its not ok. because he is suppose to confort you and heal your tears. at least to make things easier. try making him cry and shout in his face then see how he likes this treatment.
76733
Everyone cries. Men and women. Perhaps women share their tears a bit more openly.....but we all cry inside. Its ok to cry......its cleansing in a sense. Ok well....without the soap.....that stings. But it does somehow make you feel better after a good cry. You've let all your emotions come to the surface and find their way out into the open. And sometimes that's exactly what you have to do in order to move beyond the pain and on to the next level of healing. So let the tears come if they want to. Its ok. :)
1057023
not all women are like that. we get upset at things that are bothersome or hurt our feelings. if we know youre trying to get us upset then we dont really care.
459359
no its not a bad thing to make him cry that means hes human and is not a hard core asshole. maybe it was that you were quiet and your usually not that shocked him or it was that you told him that he has you forever and always men are so hard to read i have been married for 9 years and i can honestly say he says that i am ignoring him but i not his thing is he thinks i am pissed off all the time and i'm not i have 3 kids so when they go to bed i am done talking. i think your ok and just be open and honest with him and you guys should be fine
1110845
Yes it is okay to cry ... sometimes that is the only way you can show and express how you feel ... so hun just let it out !
282963
Women show their emotions alot more than men do, but I believe men aren't as emotional as women. Men are more logical, though they do have emotions.
540643
Men are ot emotional as women are. After an argument, a few minutes later, a man usually has forgotten it and want to be close to you. But women hold it in and be emotional and want to talk about it. The best way is to approach him and tell him you want to talk about what you all argued about. If you aproach him with anger, you will get anger in return. Its all about the tone you use. If he is not a good listener, write it in a letter and let him read it.
728973
It's ok to cry.  Our culture tells every man to not show his feelings, but that's not a very healthy way to live.  Showing your feelings, not being afraid to cry, makes you a stronger person than someone who can't show his feelings.  You are stronger because you can deal with what is inside you.  They can't.\n\nPS:  When a girl sees a man cry, she wants to comfort him, shower him with love and affection.  If you want to get your girlfriend into a session of intense love-making (not just sex), do something emotional, like watch a movie, that will get those eye juices flowing.  She won't be able to resist.
448582
Crying is a natural thing, even for 'strong men'. If a man allows himself that opportunity to express himself so fully that he is moved to tears, there's a really lucky woman out there!
890347
I don't have any women...I am a woman and I cry when I am neglected. Sniff, sniff. Do your women cry?
1035771
No, there's nothing wrong with you crying. It's ok to show your emotions and many guys don't like to express their emotions openly. You're only expressing how you feel so what is wrong with that? And yes, I'm Indian.
1050303
what???\nthey cry because they DON'T UNDERSTAND MEN....