my girlfriend is pregnant,advise me how must we approach our parents?
474955
just tell themthey probably want react the same as you thought they would i told my dad i was pregnant and he was over the moon
433106
tell her, 7 months pregnant or not, he's a sleeze bag. tell her and an authority figure too since he threatened you. dont live in fear because of that loser!
153103
Forget the hyperbole about "can't live without her."  You really mean "don't want to," and that's different.  So what are the problems with her parents?  If they do not like you, or do not approve of you, can you find out the reasons, and try to reassure them that you are a good guy, and worthy of their daughter?  Or does she have trouble between her and her parents, and you fear being stuck in the middle?  Perhaps all that is needed here is time:  time for both of you to mature, time for her parents to get to know you and get used to the idea of the two of you being together, etc.  If there really is little reason to hope, then she may have to make a choice between you and her parents, and that's a very hard one to make.  Try not to pressure her.  Be patient and sweet.
194153
First and foremost...PRAY. have her to purchase the morning after pill and Puleeeze buy some stronger "Jimmies"
1063274
You can try for custody, but the courts usually favor woman.\nAnd as for paying it, the best you can hope for is show that your girlfriend is under earning. They have a formula they use.\n One thing you might try is be congenial with her. And pay some medical bills and give her money after the kid is born. You might be able to make some kind of agreement with her.
1052422
Tell your parents as soon as possible...do you want to keep the baby, give it up for adoption, terminate your pregnancy?\nThey will want to know who the father is.\nYou should have been spending more time learning to read and write...how did you get through grade school being illiterate?
127774
Just go with the flow so to speak. Be considerate of her child though. Make allowances if she can't do things because of her child. Be understanding, compassionate and caring.\nHaving a child make it harder for you to go out spontaneously. plan things for at home, and include the child in your plans sometimes. she will like that, and so will the child.
538655
You should be more careful who you take to a bedroom. If she is pregnant, and your the father, you should take care of him/her.
696679
Be as honest with yourself and others as soon as possible... I know it is awful to be where you are at right now, but telling someone in your family or hers that you have the best relationship with is going to be your best bet long term.  You need support.  Since you are both minors, it is unfortunant that you have this in front of you, but I don't think it is a crime... If one of you were an adult that would be a problem.  Be as strong as you can.  This will get better.  There are other choices.  There are many families out there that wish to adopt a child.  But still at least be there as her friend and make sure she gets the proper medical care and emotional support.  Please don't wait any longer to tell an adult... Time will make matters harder to deal with.  I suggest not to break up with someone because of her medical condition.  She's got to be emotional too right now.  If you have other problems than the pregnancy, consider doing so because of that.... But you should really be there for each other since you both created the dilema.
995122
You need to be honest with yourself. \n\nIs she pregnant or not? She could be tricking you into leaving your girlfriend to come back to her!\n\nEnsure that she is pregnant before making a decision! If she is then stick by her in any means possible - be honest with your current girlfriend and see who you feel the most comfortable with.\n\nJust because a girl is pregnant with your baby does not mean that you have to get married! As she is only 16!\n\nGood Luck!
791095
I think if your attitude is honorable and not smart alec like "hey dad, I got your girl pregnant...." that you'll be ok.  Good ol dad needs to know you really love his daughter and that you will take care of her and the baby.  It's all in your attitude, believe me.  As far as telling then in front of everyone, I don't know.  I think it would be great, but that's just me.  If her family does one of those go around the table to tell what you are thankful for you could break it then by saying something like you are so thankful for being a part of their daughter's life and that it will soon be 3 of you not just 2 of you.  Just love on everyone and be positive...it'll come back to you.  Good luck!
322145
Sweetheart, you need to sit down and talk to your parents.  If you want to keep the baby then wait for about 5 more weeks before you tell them.  How old r u????  Is the baby's father going to be in the picture?  I would definetely sit down and talk to your parents.  They will know eventually!  Unless they r blind that is.  In about 6 months there will be no hiding it!  Plus you need prenatal care from a docotr as soon as u know u r pregnant.  You need to take vitamins especially for Pregnant women.  They do have them at any drug store but the ones the doctor will give u are better.  BUT you need to be examined.  The longer u wait the worse.  So u cannot keep it secret for long.  They may be upset in the beginning but remember- they r your parents and they love u very much and they only want the best for u so if they seem upset its because they r worried about your future!  Good luck to u
1350
First thing I'd suggest is knowing your opponent .. in laymens terms .. ask your girlfriend as much about your parents as you can such as culter attitude and so on .. and past experiences with her last boyfriends that have had the in some cases unfortunante opportunity of meeting them. Once you know what type of people you'll be dealing with you'll be more at ease knowing you can handle what difficulties may come from them.
302107
Go over everything with her. I mean EVERYTHING...\nbring her to the doctor and make sure she is using birth control and that she hasnt contracted any diseases.\nBuy her some condoms. \n\nI know some people feel like this is encouraging it but its not.Obviously she is going to do it so help her do it safely.\n\nAlso be thankful that you have done a good enough job at parenting that she feels comfortable going to you with this.\n\nGood luck!
792487
Have safe sex! You can have it without protection and her parents is her business!
144535
You arent being paraniod. Tell her that babies arent just cute to hold and rock to sleep. Tell her that she wont have ANY time for herself, and if the boy caves in and leaves (which he prob. will) she will be alone in raiseing the baby. Tell her she should wait until she is both physically possible and finacually stable with a nice man to have a baby. Tell her all about STDs. Tell her it is a woderful thing to have a baby....when she is ready to have one.
1080218
My advice would be to contact a family law attorney since there are so many legalities involved, and they can help with the best wording to make sure your parents wishes are carried out.