Does he really love me or just giving me false hopes? *read details please*?
460895
nope- he doesn't know what he wants and he's too immature it sounds like- I went through the same thing.  Boys can turn on and off emotions in a pinch- (think about a situation where they should be crying, but aren't!  They can control their emotions- even love- better than we can) maybe he had a crush on you at one point, but he's just playing you now
1036293
I would say that he at least cares about you a great deal. It sounds like he loves you if he is willing to work it out. I know it is hard to look at him when he is hurting but things will get better! \nGood Luck
735381
Don't get too over excited, he may or may not propose so don't build all your hopes us, if he does then you will be very surprised.  It does sound like a hint though.
337477
It sounds like he likes you a lot more than you care for him. Go ahead and tell him how you feel, but in a gentle way. Tell him how you really feel now, before it goes any further and he feels he's been mislead.
670337
If you are sure you guys can make it work then go for it. I know that we think things will and all we can do is hope. If you really love him and he reallys loves you then go for it hun. You have to do what is in your heart. Go with what YOU feel. Good luck
170310
im sure most people would say that he really doesn't love you and move on or find someone new. but think about this: maybe he's just not very vocal about his feelings. there's a big possibility that he does love you he just prefers to express it in his own way. but if it really bothers you that much that he can't say it, it's probably best that you tell him how you feel.
206361
well....i guess u'll know if he loves you on how he spends time with you. actually, you're the only one who can tell, like is he sincere with what he say or do...is he expressive with his feelings, does he kisses you a lot or hugs u...things like that can clearly tell if he really loves you. agree? =)
123729
maybe he does still love u he just doesn't show it completly ... if he didn't love u anymore ... would he still b w/ u?\nor maybe he's just bad at showing it ..
142550
If he hasn't told you I love you by now I would be wondering if this relationship is really boyfreind and girlfriend. He may not be looking for love right now. Since this has become an issue for you I would say this is going to be a dealbreaker. He will surprise you I am sure with his answer.
497128
i dont understand, why wouldnt he say he loved you? after 3 years you'd think you'd be married by now. whats up w/ that? if you have true love you would know, you wont have any doubts, if youve got doubts then you dont have it.
175917
If this guy TRULY loves you then he would understand if you were to tell him that you would like to take it slow.  Make sure that he IS the one before you walk down the isle with him.  True love is ALWAYS worth working for and waiting for.  Just be sure how you feel and the rest will fall into place!!  Good luck and I hope it works out for ya!
405161
Im going to keep it real with you. In order for you to find out is if upou ask him how he feels? you'll know in your heart if he's lieing or not. GOOD LUCK GURL!!
921611
Sounds like he's testing the ground. He wants to be close to you but he's making sure he doesn't tread where you don't want him to be. In otherwords, he doesn't want you to feel pressured. I think he likes you, and has great respect for you, especially if he's giving you an out like that. Perhaps you should ask him why he keeps saying that, and see what he says. Your gut should tell you if you can take it at face value.
749068
your confused b/c he's making you confused, i don't believe he's confused one bit he's just stringing you along, and you are right he is too scared, too scared to completely let go of you all he's doing is talking nonsence to you....what i think is happening here is he wants to keep you waiting for him while he 's out exploring his options, he's afraid you might find you someone else...and he won't have anybody, he doesnt want to get back with you or else he would have, i mean whats stopping him?? all he's saying is i'll just keep playing mind games with her until i find me somebody i really like....don't fall victim, i would surprise him and would tell him to just go on with his life....that you are not meant for each other...get rid of the stress and you will feel so much better.
296402
If he really loves you then your heart would instinctively know---at present you are doubtful----very natural---only time will reveal the truth----impatience is natural but worth to find true love---- best of luck
494972
c'mon don't be so hard on yourself. of course he likes you enough to spend so much time with you. however, it would be wise to be cautious and tread carefully. why look for signs, just enjoy the now. it does seem you are happy right now, so don't question and don't let doubts prevail.all the best babe!
759125
If this guy truely loves you I do not why he should lie to You. I f you are sure about his love for you then no problem. But if not, Be careful.