So I attract black men?Why?(For black guys ONLY!)?
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I believe I, as a Black man,have a much different idea of what is beautiful.\nBy European standards my choices may seem odd but I believe I look much deeper at a woman than my European or white counterpart.\nWhere whites may look for thin women I look for women who are "healthy".After much consideration I believe this is because I prefer an equal as oppose to some one I can control.\nThe difference between a show wife and one with rough edges is the ability to be there through thick and thin.\nI believe I have a tendency to look for a woman who will be able to carry my offspring with relatively little problems and raise that child with authority when I am at work.This is all on a sub-conscience level but I believe it is my motivation for choosing a woman and the reason I an attracted to certain types of women.\nThere is the rock hard beauty of diamonds and there is the warm beauty of the sunrise.I prefer the beauty of the sunrise.\nI hope this will set your mind at ease.
482140
So you would date a black man just because he's a black man? Not to say there is anything wrong with dating a black man just saying if his skin is the only reason than its a very sad one.
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why do black men want to go to white women?
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As a black woman I have to honestly say that it mainly has to do with attitude.  Black women are notoriously famous for having "bitchy" attitudes.  We are quick to dis a brother when he approaches, snap when he gets upset because we rubbed him off.  We walk around like we are shit instead of being humble and grateful.  We are also pegged as gold diggers.  We crave more.  We will pass up a good man with a standard income to find the bling-bling daddy.  Black men have become fed up with this attitude and seek women who are more appreciative and considerate.
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I don't know,black dudes are overrated and they love the stereotype,they like the positive stereotypes,dont like the negative stereotypes,but all stereotypes are bad(Hypocrites)my Friends have been with loads of black dudes and they say the myth is bull sh it,so heres one when you go black its fu ck in whack!!!
1130590
...I'm a bi black male and I know I'm sexy ^ _ ^
920098
There is nothing wrong with you.  We can not help who we are attracted to - that just happens on it's own.  If you found yourself attracted to a man of another race I am sure you would (as you already have) given it a try to see where a relationship might lead.  You haven't had luck so far and maybe you never will - or maybe you will in the end.  There is no way of knowing - just be open to love and it will find you.\n\nxoxo!\nPeace!
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When you discover the answer to this question, let me know..lol I don't know what the attraction is, but you're right, you do see more black and __________ (fill in the blank with any nationality) than you ever have. Maybe because racial boundaries are becoming a little less stringent and people are acutally becoming more socially tolerant to mixed relationships. I personally have never dated outside of my own race, but feel that if you want that option you should not be judged for it. I mean. you can't really help WHO you fall in love with. Peace.
718105
Black men who don't cheat hmmmmmmmmmmmm, I thought all races have this problem not just blacks! And when you meet the right person you will know, and the will guy know he has meet the right person he will not cheat no matter what his race is! So stop looking for a black man who don't cheat and just go have fun and save yourself for the right guy for if you give yourself up easly your just out for sex and not a life long partner! Your soul mate will come when it is time for you to meet! Weather he is black, white indian or what ever race he may be!
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I date Latin men and there are plenty of Latin men who love black women. Hell they love all women... they are the Latin Lovers ummm\n\nTry this site http://latinamericancupid.com
840438
Seems like you have met some good women, and from the way you phrase your question, have not met "many black men". There are plenty of black men that are building, if not already on, a successful career path and place family values at the same level that the "dignified" women you have met do.  You might want to expand your associations to include some of these men.
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white girls black men mostly but lately I have seen an increase in white men who are attracted mostly to black women\ni take it from all your questions about interracial romance you date black women\nI date white men 30 and up no younger so I feel you
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Most Black Men I know think he is guy.  He currently deals with alot of girls.  He tried to pick up a friend of mine in the Gucci store here in NY.  So maybe he is Bi.  I wouldn't put it past him.  Alot of Black men in the entertainment business are short and gay.  I attend alot of industry party and work i fashion and let me tell u, there are always more men there then women!!  And he does NOT have a wife and kids.
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girl please.....don,t flatter yourself. the only thing that black guys find attractive about white girls is that,they are:FREAKS,THEY GIVE THEM MONEY,THEY DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING THEY ASK THEM, AND THE WHITE GIRLS BUY THERE LOVE. oh! by the way i am also not racist!!!
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if you are not gay then why do you want HOT MEN to notice you???  sounds gay to me, & this is very weird!! I really think your gay and are affraid to admit to youself!! no straight men I know are looking for HOT MEN!! if your just looking for men to hang with then why did you specify HOT MEN!! WEIRD!!  well you must have male friends so that is one place to start, or the gym, on line, school, work, there are many places you can meet friends!!  the possibilities are endless!!
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OK I am confused you say they fantasize about us 24/7 and then you say your husband dates black women are you a man married to a man or a woman married to a woman? OK it's not a matter of white women being attracted to black men it's juts today people find mates without looking at the race before many just didn't look outside their race as it was taboo. I started dating black males when i was 17 and am now 49 and have never changed. black men to me are more sensitive to a woman's emotions and needs. now it may be hard for me to judge as i never really dated white guys except when a teen but my dad and  uncles etc are all white and most of them were abusive now I'm not saying black males aren't abusive either but from past experience I would never date a white man. Of course my husband is black and we've been together except for a few years of separation for 28 years so I am not looking for anyone period. you find love where ever it is and race should never be a factor I personally just have never been attracted to white males since i started dating black men by the way they are all built the same some have large penises and some just average but they sure know how to take their time to please their woman
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Honey, if you're trying to attract guys by letting them see your bra, your IMHO going on the wrong path. I mean, you could also go work in a stripclub, then you would attract guys with your breasts. It's the same thing. \n\nJust have faith in yourself, and speak to that guy you like. See what he's worth. It's not about appearance or how many guys are attracted to you, you know. It's about who we are on the inside that matters. \n\nThat being said, wearing a black bra will make you look sluttish, and that might attract the wrong kind of guys. Try something green or lightblue, that will be way more subtle.