Is it to soon to be considering marrige?
458107
Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.
380505
not important untill MARRAIGE
197782
if you are talking about a marrige propsal just ask her when the time is right, she can no more than say no, also try to know that you are not the first to make a proposal of marrige, that is how most marriges get done,,
508240
Girlfriend your way to young to be considering marraiage unless your sure you want to pass on your dreams. \n\nThe book Smart Love by Dr, Phil McGraw might be a good way to start. \n\nMy plan was to date until I was 25 then get married. and i'm happy to say I'm glad I did. The person I dated at 19 and 20 absolutely drove me nutz and I moved on to find a more mature person and we have been married now going on 15 years\n\nget through college first THEN once you have some life experience to work with. make some decisions about what you want to do with your life. \n\nGod Bless
678532
My advice would be to wait a little longer (just a couple of months) before asking to have her hand in marriage.... but that's just me. You may come on a little strong if you ask her now and that may put distance between the 2 of you if she isn't ready for it. Something that you could do is find a way to bring up the topic in conversation and see if you can get her opinion on the subject (just to get an idea if she is on the same page with her emotions before actually popping the question) or see if one of her sisters can ask (or girlfriends) what her opinion may be on the marriage subject. But regardless of what your decision may be I wish you joy and happiness in the future..... and I really hope that the 2 of you do get married.
705894
There is no definite time to get married - i was with partner for four years before we got engaged and another four years before we got married.  Bring the subject of marriage up and see how the conversation goes.  If you both decide not to get married, you should definitely make a Will each to ensure the other is taken care of should anything happen.  Not being morbid, but unfortunately people often miss out on taking care of their partner due to not being married and making their wishes clear.
182901
Why are you so worried about getting married so soon ????? your not even divorced yet....take this time to enjoy yourself ,try new things, meet new people, if you find someone great, but this is the time for you to think about what you want in life, what have you always wanted to do but didn't.....this is your second chance ..... enjoy
185389
not whats on the outside that counts. only you know if you are mature enough to handle a committment like marriage. chances are, if you have to ask, then you're probably not ready. long as you're over 21, age really doesn't have a determining factor as to when one is ready to marry. you'll know when it's time. be happy and rush into nothing. :)
1041030
Love is not the only consideration in marriage. You take a hard look at the big picture before you make a life long commitment.
774684
Well, I do alot of consulting work and I really don't advice people who are not yet married to rush into changing property interests because of the other mate. I know the answer you need but in good faith can't give it to you without knowing the particular reasons why you would want to do that.\nThe road to h_ _ _ is paved with good intentions.\nBuena Suerte
360545
You would think you should start meeting people and getting ready.  Have faith, and don't be afraid to fall in love.  God's waiting for you both at the bottom.  You're joining together as one, working as one, creating as one a life, and a future that chances are, might hold a family.  It's perfectly okay to be married, as it is perfectly okay to be single.  God's timing is perfect, and His will is also.
1072621
The most important thing in this case is you. You have to ask yourself, "are you ready for marriage?". Most people do more planning for the wedding that they do for marriage. They'll fuss over the bridal registry, invitations, location, religion, and WHO is gonna be invited. But ask yourself.... what do you want for you? Have you accomplished your goals...Are you happy with your job and your money, do you have YOUR world in order? Marriage simply a legal contract bringing two people together. Nothing is gonna change once your married; sex isn't magically gonna get better or more frequent, all the bad habits of the other person aren't going to suddenly go away and those fights aren't gonna be more understanding now that you're married.  If your credit sucks... it screws BOTH of you up. If you hate your job... then the financial burden is on you both. Be happy with you...Have your affairs in order and enjoy the other person and the times you have together. NOTHING IS CERTAIN!!! and right now the percentage of divorce is over 56%. and if the couple is under 25...the percentage is 80%. PLAN PLAN PLAN! If you were handed a parachute and told to jump out of an airplane...but you have a 56% chance that your chute would open...would you take that gamble?
37233
Wow. that is a tough one. It depends on your morals and beliefs. Is the marriage strong enough to handle the consequences? I once watched Dr. Phil and he said that is never a good idea. no matter who wants it or how long you've been married. What do you want? sometimes you have to stay true to yourself.
256866
I don't believe there is a specific time frame for that....When you are ready to commit your life to that one person the rest of your days, and have experienced everything in life that you want to as a single person, and know in your hearts of hearts that this is the person that you are in love with ..... then you will know it's "time" to get married. \nI met my husband only 6 months before I married him...we have been married 11 years now. \nSome people date for years and get married ...'\nListen to your heart .
170710
If you're not sure, then don't. Marriage is a big step and commitment. You don't want to half-a$$ it.
394356
Depending on how serious the future is for your relationship and how much you are willing to compromise and give up of yourself in order to make it work. \nIf you just aren't ready then you cant force yourself to be and you have to be honest about that. Its hard enough when you are in a marriage to make those kinds of sacrifices so you should definitely look at how sound your relationship is first.\nSecondly, how important are his dreams and goals to you and are you on the same page about where you want the relationship to go.\nThere's also the possibility too, that you could be honest and say you would try it for a while and see if you still feel the same about the city in an allotted time-frame. Enough to give your self time to adjust and then reassess if the city is really right for you.
1061589
TWO YEARS IS ABOUT RIGHT TO PROPOSE.....MAYBE YOU JUST AREN'T READY