My best firend slept with someone she knew i liked,should i forgive her and continue being friends with them?
458476
Been there with my best friend. She did that to me a few times, but I finally had enough and told her if she didn't find her own men, I was not going to be around her anymore. Its a trust thing: You trusted her with the knowledge that you liked this guy, and she went ahead and screwed around with him....Not Cool!!\n\nHowever, if the guy didn't know you like him, then its not his fault. If he did, he holds half the blame.\n\nI'd do the same thing again with my best friend, I'd let her have it! My best friend decided that she'd rather be my friend than have anyone I liked!!...GL;)
407350
If you are her true friend then you will tell her exactly what you told us.  You are not going to go back with her but want to remain friends.  Just be open and honest.  It is the best policy.  And honestly she may get hurt if she has that deep of feelings for you but at least you will not have the guilt of "leading her on".
865063
NO definately not, like the saying goes she made her bed so let her lie in it. She is the past, let it go you don't know what is going on in this relationship of hers and you don't need to find out. You might open up a whole lot of trouble and will be sorry for it later. If you want to help someone...........help yourself.......you sound like a caring person and some people will take advantage of that.
363425
Of course, but don;t wait too long. You were friends already and the trust you built is the foundation to build on. The feeling have probably already been incubating for awhile, time to let them out to grow.
714458
well that is a decision only you can make and only you can decide if you can forgive her too.., but yes it can be done it is hard and takes along time .before you trust her again.but you need to find out what caused this and if you all were having problems before.i am not trying to justify what she did or place blame but women all women like to feel special and loved, sexy and alive and if you fail to give her the attention she wants then yes someone else will . no that does not make it right. it makes her weak  but only you have the right to decide what to do good luck you seem like a real nice man and you must really love her and that is what it takes good luck
217044
Love and honor her and do everything you can to show her you can be trusted. It still might not be enough, but at least you will have tried. \n\nMy ex husband cheated on our third anniversary with my best friend. We might have had a chance, if he hadn't said to me three days later "If I can't sleep with you, I might as well go sleep with her." After that cruel knife stick, I just could not think of any reason to have him in my life anymore. \n\nThese days, I wish him well and hope his life works out. I now know what love is like. I have it for myself and for the man I'm with now. \n\nGood Luck.
1094354
try to build the friendship again... by doing that you will give yourself time to asses about your true feeling with her...
11115
be honest! dont cheat, but especially not with her friend! how would you like it if she slept with one of your friends, right?
329899
Yes.\nRight after you tell her you slept with her best friend...or, that thing about 'restraining order'....while on the can isn't that bad, folks.
365993
I suggest that you two should just be friends. If you really loved her you wouldn't have dumped her
165345
You will probably lose your friend.  That's the risk you take.  Why would you tell?  Because you want to prevent you friend from getting hurt?  His wife from getting hurt? The woman you like? Check your motives.  If it's so this woman will become interested in you instead of your friend, tell her your reason.  I doubt that your friend will forgive you, but the woman might respect your honesty.
766725
Did your friend bail because she wanted your company throughout the night, needed someone there?  Or because she wanted sex from you?  If it is the latter, I'd say.. find a new friend.
371745
Well it's not realy that hard. I also got a lil problrm that i am in with my friens but I will tell u what i think. If they are realy true friends they will forgive u no matter how big ur lil problems are. I know it is sometimes hard to admit that u might be wrong or that u were or are wrong but soetimes it is the best thing to do. But yea anyways alway forgive but u don't have to forget.
147381
Yes bacause u  might of cheated on her but she didnt find out.But you need to forgive her because when she is gone she is gone for good.
840618
you deserve everything you get.  You should have never slept with her.  Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.....
319907
If it got to the point they had to call hte cops I would say you blew it.  If you aren't really willing to accept that answer and you are willing to do ANYTHING to be friends with her again then patience is the key.  You have to prove to her that you are sorry and will never act that way again.  Let me tell you earning back someones trust is never an easy thing.  Be patient...wait for her... do what you can to show her you are sorry subtly and if a fight starts refuse to engage in it...
541339
I guess u can't. bcuz, the little things that girls/guys do means something to the other person alot. Would u forgive  him,if he did that w/ur friend? hey, cheer up, if he comes back, i hope you learned ur lesson and if not, move on. Cuz you can't let this bug you for the rest of ur life. plus, ur just gonna feel depress all the time. Hope everything works out! :)