are one night stands ok?
472848
no, not in my opinion... they seem kinda lame and unfulfilling to me...i wouldnt respect anyone (male or female) who did it... seems slutty.
836627
Thank you for your maturity on this subject.\nYour wants are describing the "FRIENDS" part of FTF.. There is nothing wrong with actually being friends.\n- a little communication never hurt anyone; be honest and just tell him.\nYou simply want to move from your concept of one night stand to friendship with benefits.. He's probably already in tune with that.\n- good luck
274675
yes but definitely nor one nighters as it is not respecting yourself or partner
520463
That kind if promiscuity is why we have S.T.D.'s so bad in america and it is a selfish act. \nIf you happen to like the experience and you want to get to know that person more, you may not be able to because they don't want any more than that one night.\nYou have that great memory of a night of passion that you can't ever have again.
421119
Just go with what feels right, you can learn and explore together.  And no, you don't HAVE to make love that night.
1173603
There is no right or wrong answer to that question...it's up to you, her, and the moment in time.  Personally, I don't see anything wrong with sleeping with someone on a first date.  Then again, I'm really horny.
508040
One night stand! Quick, dirty and sooooo bad!
420746
Trust me, bars are full of guys looking for a one nighter.  I have gone out and talked with alot of girls who went to online web sites and they told me alot of the guys were real pervs.  I don't know about eharmony though.  Maybe go someplace to meet guys like a dance class, church, take a class at a college, an exercise class, etc.
526237
Yes, because you want to and no matter what ppl put on here trying to convince you otherwise, you will do what ur hearts thinks is best.  So, since you want to.  You may as well focus on the next steps.  Finding the right person, the right protection and a memorable place.  Don't get drunk, you want to remember everything and choose memorable music.  Make everything right, because you only have one first time.  Remember contracetive measures!  You dont want to look back from a death bed...
183417
Well. This depends on many things and there is no single answer. It depends on the guy, and also what that guy is looking for. If he wants a one night stand then he will look for a girl willing to do that. If a guy wants a serious more long term relationship then its all about challenge. Not neccesarily what he likes, but what will keep him coming back for more!
197169
Friday night is easier speak clearly and try Friday night.All the girls are either going out on a second date with the guy from Friday or hung over on Saturday.I said HUNG,I really don`t think it is going to matter anyway!
858700
BE YOUR CONSIDERATE SELF. YOU SEEM TO CARE ABOUT OTHERS. I AM ASSUMING YOUR IN YOUR YOUNGER YEARS. DON'T BE ALL TO SUAVE & OVER SEXY. SOME GUYS WILL LOOK AT THIS APPROACH, AS A ONE NIGHT GET DOWN
429283
There's no harm in you asking a guy friend to go with you. If he's just a friend , that's fine...no pressure. You go as friends , have a great time, and who knows, when the night is over, you might end up being more than "just friends".....right now, a guy friend just popped into your mind....YES! He's the one! Call him...... invite him, Have a wonderful time at the dance, you and him. Good Luck!
1047152
It depends how its going, if the chemistry and situation feels right, then yer course y not! But dont do anything more thats abit slutty! :P
383506
If she respects herself, she will want you even more and try to find out more about who you are and what your personality is like because you showed good self-control, consideration for her feelings, an interest in her for the future and respect.  If she was just whoring around, she will not see you anymore and find someone who just wants a one night stand. You absolutely, did the right thing for the right reason.  You deserve the best, too.
905547
hmmm... I got laid at a party at my friend's house\n\nHolidays and prom sex occurs during a long relationship\n\nparties are for one-night stands
296583
This idea sounds good, but never actually works out. Unless it's a one night stand with someone you know you're never going to see again. Other than that, there is always going to be some emotion involved. Even if the other person agrees to just being sex buddies, they're probably just doing it to keep you aroung because they'd rather have you that way then no way at all.