does it make u mad when ur bf just ask u for sex?
462039
Well, you should talk with him openly about how you would want your relationship to function on the sexual department.\nYour main problem is probably lack of communication.
789090
The next time your boyfriend brings up sex let him know that you are a virgin. Make sure he knows that you aren't ready yet and it makes you uncomfortable when he is constantly bringing sex up. Tell him that when you are ready to have sex you'll let him know. If he really cares about you, he'll understand. If he doesn't, then you know he was only with you because he wanted to have sex with you.
1047063
yea... call him... if he is your b/f then he wont get mad
437009
Most probably.\nIf he really loved u b4 asked u out (not even kno u) then he's an idiot.\n\nSo unless u want to get laid don't even consider it.
490597
This builds your relationship on sex and physical pleasure alone.  I don't want that.  I use a first date as a tool to get to know someone and to see if we have any chemistry.  Sex comes way after that.  When I'm ready for an emotional relationship (hey, guys, you give us what we want, we'll give you what you want).  But no, I don't have sex on the first date.  You have to do a lot more to get into my pants.
737999
you may have pushed him away, but maybe not.  some guys just want sex and don't know how to tell the female that's all they want.   Too immature in my opinion.
136418
i guess ur bf is askin a lot from u now...tell him u dunt want it now, and wen its time u'll let him know!!!!
280988
It sounds like you are being pressured into sex. No guy who really cares for you would make you feel this way. Save yourself for someone you have been with a long time and you know cares for you.
142260
yes you should be mad for not telling you, think about it. if he didnt tell you that thing being so small and simple and something that he didnt even initiate then image what hes NOT telling you! keep asking and be persistant
1047133
i dont....i just want sex
67846
NO!! sex is something that you should wait until you get marry. and if you have to ask that just means you not ready. dont give it up just b/c this guy wants it. if he turely loves you tell him to wait and to keep his hands above the shoulders
686772
Fine!!! Please add more meat to this question. There certainly is more to it than meets the eye. Fine alone does not say why he got so upset. And believe me, you this simple word did lower his self esteem. No matter how big his stick may be. It is all psychological. Are you fond of belittling him when he is making love with you? Have you sometimes used this word in such a manner that he sensed unhappiness in you? Did you push him away whilst mentioning this word? Did you show lack of interest whilst having sex? things like this should have been mentioned in your question. Do something before he reorts to masterbating.
655388
i think u just said it.....\nits not 4 a relationship....just sex....\ni think many people will agree with u that sex is great(even me)but it matters to me , who i have it with...\ngirl, if u do this it will only lead to broken heart(mentioned by u)...\ntry ur best of not wanting him 4 sex.... u know it won't last.... \nhave patience...\nchances u will find somebody (coz sex is easy to get , i think)but 2 get that emotional satisfaction is also important...\ni feel it is better to"make love" with someone who won't trample over me   .... and not leave me hollow and even empty...even after the great sex...\nrelationship or life is not ALL ABOUT SEX...\n\nbut then again it is ur decision...
346855
Well obviously he'll turn it into an argument either way just because HE want's sex.He's not being very considerate is he, or mature. I think you really need to do some soul searching about this, and other demands he may make of you as well. If he demanding that YOU clean up the house, or You do that, or whatever, it may be time to tell him that he's being a selfish jerk and your not his sex slave. Or just go looking for a nicer guy who knows how to play by the rules.
1087091
Funny you should ask..lol...that's an issue I'm trying to work out with my boyfriend right now.  He says I want it too much (I want it every day!)  When he makes jokes that my sex drive is too high, it kind of makes me feel bad, like he doesn't want to have sex with me as much as I want to with him.  Some days I want it two or three times, but he says he's tired :(  We're both the same age, so I don't know what the problem is!
897978
wow! about the same exact thing you did i did with my boy. we went out for like 8 months without having sex things were bad so i had sex with him thinking it would make it better. it did at first. he talks to other girls but i cant talk to other guys without him getting pissed.. everyone just tells me itll take time...and really thats all you can do. try to keep yourself busy and you wont think about it so much and put away pictures and things that remind you of him.
118832
Your bf should ask then