how did it feell to have sex for the first time?
466798
It really sucked, actually.  Don't have sex just for the sake of losing your virginity or because all your friends are.  Find someone who you really love and most importantly TRUST, because sex won't feel good the first time and establishing a bond based on love and trust is what is most important your first time, not getting your rocks off.
993397
It is different for each girl.  My first time did not hurt and I did not bleed, but I know others that had pain and a lot of bleeding.  What you need to do is make sure you have a partner who loves you enough to be patient and go slow.  They may even need to stop before they finish.  It is important to be with someone you trust and love, take the time to make the right decision.  If you aren't sure, don't do it.
141160
My understanding is that for most girls, sex hurts the first time. There are things you can do to help though. You can use your fingers to stretch some, letting yourself get used to something being inside and holding it open. Toys are a good option that allow you to control what is good for you and what you're ready for. \n\nRegarding the condom - Yes, sex feels good with a condom. I agree with another poster, that sex feels even better without one too. Just make sure that if you're going without that you're prepared for any of the side effects pregnancy or disease. I wouldn't recommend going without until you know you're going to be with the person for the long haul.
785939
I am proud to say that for me it was my wedding night.  I was 19 and no protection was used.\n\nHowever, that was when I morally lost my virginity.  I physically lost it at 18 when I was sexually assaulted.  Luckily, my boyfriend (later my husband) was kind and understanding about what happened to me.  He was supportive of my emotional state through my recovery process because he truly loved me.  This is how I knew he was the one I wanted to give myself to for the first time.
501970
me at 15... but it was not a big deal cause I felt the same person before and after having sex... lol it's like if you ask someone when he started to eat candies, ''I started to eat candies at 3years old and now at 89 I still a king!!''
1125334
My first impression was I felt weird when we got there,everyone was naked but us.\nI then thought,I'm glad I'm still young.\nthe clothes problem was soon gone and so were they,we took a walk around everything was nice and clean,the pool and tennis courts were full of wet bodies and bouncing balls.\nThis was a more family type place you had to be interviewed before you came.\nI was so glad to be a young adult,of course i'd seen many naked people before but not relaxing under a tree reading a paper naked.\nI had this feeling after awhile everyone looked the same clothes on or off.\nAfter a few stiff ones at the adults only bar,we were quite relaxed and soon felt good and comfortable in our bare truth conversations.\nOne thing I couldn't shake was looking at the older men and thinking never will I be like that.\nTime has a way in life of being real short and by the looks of those old gentlemen it worked well on them.\nIf I had a choice to go now I'd pick the family type we had loads of fun and I would go while your young.\nwe met many people who had been coming to the same place for years they were real die hards.
251402
I was 14, on the floor of my ex's mother's travel agency. I dont regret it for a minute. I had fun. It was fun. But you should do it when it feels right to you. Dont listen to us, what we did might or might not be right for you. YOu will know when you want to loose your virginity. And remember its not the age, its not the time its when it feels right to you. Whatever you do, be safe, and be cautious, and make sure that you NEVER EVER regret anything that you do. Otherwise, remember it won't be fun the first time; and it might even hurt! So, be careful. And just enjoy the moment!
317204
I had sex for the first time when i was 17..well of course everyone has their first time so do i...first time of course very excited & fun but after that i feel guilty for myself...i asked myself why i want to do this & what i gain from there....\nSex before marriage of course people call it sin,isnt it!.....\nBut overall i tell myself "its a normal thing for human being to make stupid mistake"...i guess.....actually its depends on how you think about it & how you gonna deal with your decision.............but i hope you'll not regrets it ...and to play safe..i think you should use protection so that you can avoid the 9 months matter....mightbe you just want to experience it but not for commitment yet.....;-)
445976
I was really lucky. The first time I had sex it was with my best friend. We where both virgins and it was really bad for both of it. But it was fun to explore each other because we both knew each other really well and we are still really close friends today and can talk about anything. Many people don't have that in their life and so I can understand why you are asking this question. You will know, when you know. It can happen at anytime. You can plan a certain night for it to happen or it might just come as a surprise. You might want to wait a little longer. And after its all done. Even if it was planned you still might have regrets. But don't worry. Its a common thing among many teens and young adults. Don't be afraid to talk about with people.\n\nThis is a website full of first time sex stories:
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
718370
Hey dude. Sex is the most pleasurable moment in a persons life. Since this is going to be ur 1st time. I wud suggest you not to get carried away woth it. Bcoz often it has been people who have been deprived of it try to make the most of out when subject to opportunity for the 1st time. Its a flavour which u need to taste in due course of time and can be enjoyed over longer and extended periods of time. For the 1st time I would suggest you to please try oral sex. Kissing, fondling with private parts, Intense kissing. Then when both u and ur girl are confident and cant hold it long. Just try watching some Soft Porn movies like "Body Shots", "Wild Things", "The Lover". These movies will guide you exactly how to go about sex @ the 1st shot.  All the best and Good Luck !!
1050355
the first time?  I can't imagine anyone not being scared, at least a little, the first time having sex with another person.\n\nnow, if you're referring to anal intercourse, that's another issue.  scary's not the right word.  nervousness causing, sure.  the fear it may hurt to receive anal?  hopefully, the guy you'd be with would be patient, understanding (no one should top until he's bottomed.  you must know what the other guy is going thru) and the passion will override the nerves (possibly make it more exciting)\n\nDoes it alway hurt? no.  my first time did not hurt at all.
254596
I'm going to be completely honest and tell you that for me the first time hurt like hell. I lost my virginity earlier this year (I'm almost 22), my boyfriend was very understanding and gentle, but it still hurt. I didn't bleed though, which a lot of women have said that they do.\nFrom talking to my doctor there is a less of a chance of pain and bleeding when you lose your virginity at an older age. This is because your hymen gradually goes away throughout the years, and a lot of girls have actually broken it and not known it years earlier. \nIf your really worried I suggest getting a d.ildo/v.ibrator and working yourself in, I did this after the fact to make myself feel more comfortable with it. \nhope that helps
1136090
If it is the first time for both of you to have sex, may I suggest taking things slow.  Especially if it is her first.  Alot of my friends didn't care much for sex at first because their first partner's were too rough and not the most considerate.   And I think any lady out there would also suggest taking things slow.  It's not a race.  Enjoy yourself and for god's sake use a condom.  Communication is good too, make sure you are both cool with whats going on.  \n\nMy first time I remember it feeling like my head was a blur and I was a bit dizzy, but It was a good feeling.
57769
Interesting to hear the female side of this one...I was 25 and she was my good friend at the time.  She was experienced and we were both well liquored.  Afterwards I wished I had started a bit earlier since sex is very nice.  I had one additional partner before getting married and still feel lacking technique-wise.  Looking back it did impact our relationship but after some time passed we got back to almost normal.  But the one night was not a topic of discussion (yes only one night..I don't know what I was thinking when I said we should chalk it up to experience and stop there).
1154308
Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
941557
Oh honey, was it your first time? Remain calm and breathe. You had sex with a boy you love. That isn't so bad. Maby you weren't ready, but it'll be all right. I wasn't ready my first time either. I cried to and felt like a, well you know what. The fact that it was unprotected sex complicates things, go to Planned Parenthood and take The Morning After Pill, it prevents you from getting pregnant, also talk to the doctor there about getting tested for stds. Do not worry about your parents finding out, Planned Parenthood can not disclose your info to your parents. Also do not worry about money, Planned Parenthood will help you for free. It's going to be ok sweetie, if you need anything, even just someone to talk to email me.