share your bad dating experience...?
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LOL!!! My bad experience was my first experience and I was traumatized after it and almost made it my last LOL!!\n\nA friend of mine set this date up. (she's lucky I still called her a friend after that) I was a lil greeny, just turned 18 just graduated. I did not really date in high school. I liked the guys, they liked me but I just did things in groups and  had a blast. ANYWAY...the guy called me, his name was MIKE..he sounded so cute. I asked my friend what he looked like. SHe said OH He's tall, he has a tan complexion, dark hair and glasses, brown eyes, he is really cute. OKay, I was picturing this muscle man with dark hair, good looking, wire frame glasses, tall, and someone that I would just melt for if I saw him. \n\nI was so nervous. \nWell....the next day was the big day. I was all ready to go and nervous...OH SHOOT!!! LOL! the guy comes walking up...about my height 5'3"...mousy brown hair and thick glasses, the goober was wearing a white shirt and tie, he was all dressed up, for gosh sakes we were just to a movie. I thank my luck stars it was a double date, because I wouldn't have survived the night and I would've had to kill him if he touched me. I opened the door, my father is standing their, I am tucking my fathers sleeves signalling to him that I did not want to go. LOL! My mother was whispering just go, geez. NOOOOOOOOOOO! LOL!! THe guy hands me these half dead roses wrapped in green paper that he cut off of a rose bush and he said "I brought you some roses, I thought that it was something I was supposed to do" LOL!!!!!!!!!!!\nI felt totally weird with this guy. \nOkay...so we went to my friends house and picked them up, meanwhile I was leaning against the door , it was locked, but I was clutching onto the handle. \n\nOkay...we WERE supposed to go to a movie, we didn't...the goober had to show us where he worked, he thought that I would be impressed with the fact that he created and built things out of plastic, we spent 20 minutes watching a stupid machine make caps for wesson oil bottles. Then it was getting late, so we went to Red Lobster, instead of watching a movie (because Mike claimed that it was too late) we ended up going to his house and staying their until 2am watching this retarded video on old time inventions. \n\nHe commented on his messy house and he said well if I had a woman to cook for me and clean my house while I worked my house wouldn't look this way. I then said that I was tired and wanted to go home. I was so glad to get home. OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH MY GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSH!! LOL! I relive those feelings whenver I tell the story, but I bust a gut. LOL!! That was 16 years ago. That was one of the traumantic moments in my life. LOL!!
1096735
I was getting ready for a date... I was on my period.. he showed up early...  I had taken a shower and my shorts were too big.. I went outside to greet him.. and my kotex pad fell out..... I still cringe whenever I think about it ...
387121
I was living in Saskatoon Saskatchewan. Met awesome sexy beautiful woman. Was super eager to get together with her. My fly was stuck. I reefed it down then pulled up. Eeeeeeeeeeek! Blood was pulsating out of me. She was freaked(as was I ). No stitches. A superficial wound.It was still awful when they untangled me at the hospital.\nThe worst part was everyone in the building knew what happened.Including her man.\nHer boyfriend broke my nose and shattered my right orbital bone. Which I think was a lot worse, almost.
672315
The best was on our first date in a restaurant. We finished a bottle of wine and he raised his hand to call the Waiter for another. I said something like 'Oh no! no more!' to which he replied 'please let me, even if we don't drink it, it buys me more time at this table with you'. Even now, years later, he will still say things like that.\n\nThe worst ever chat up line I heard was as a Teenager, a Chap said to me at a dance ' Get your coat, you've pulled!' poor boy got an extremely curt reply!
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I hear you loud and clear.  But think it is dating in general that sucks.  first you find a girl that your attracted to, but find out that she does not like you because of your hunch back or the mole that seems to move around your face or what ever the excuse.\n\nOn line dating has replaced the singles bar of about 15 years ago.  The real problem is that people want to make a connection but aren't sure how to go about it.  the On line dating services provide a venue to people to mingle, so to speak.\n\nThe down side it is that you never know what you are getting yourself into.  In my case, the women can sound great on paper, but when you meet them, they end up living in their mothers basement and have no way to support themselves.  AAAGH...  \n\nIn short, on line dating services are a tool to use to get what you want.  Just don't give up if the first person that you meet on like is not your prince charming.  You never know who that is going to be.  Just take good care of yourself and eat right along with plenty of exercises.  If you have a good healthy self image, you will attract the man/woman of your dreams no matter where you meet them.
619979
I was with a girl I didn't really like and realized, how meaningless it is, while being with her. I couldn't continue....\n\nNever felt that bad.
682569
Oh my goodness....I have one.\n\nIt was right after I got out of a very long, very terrible relationship, yet it was before I met my husband.  I was sitting at my house with my roommate and one of those commercials came on TV for the telephone dating service.  TeleMates or something like that.  Well, I had been drinking just a bit so I decided to call it for fun.\n\nWell, I instantly was on the line with this guy who was a little older than me, who sounded really nice.  He described himself as being extremely nice looking with gorgeous blue eyes, etc. etc.  I was like "YES!!! Let's meet up for a date."\n\nSo a couple of days later, this guy was coming to pick me up.  I got ready for HOURS! (I hadn't been single in years, so I was so nervous about this "blind date")  My roommate was there, and a few of our friends were there to meet this guy.\n\nWell, we hear a car pulling into the driveway and my roommate runs to the window and is peeking out.  She turns around and starts laughing and she's like "He totally lied to you.  You are not going to like this."  I kept smiling, thinking that she was joking.  No, as it turns out, she was just being nice.\n\nThis guy looked NOTHING like he had described.  He had on huge thick glasses, he was like 4 inches shorter than me and about 30 pounds more than what he described.  He also had told me he was a great dresser, and lets just say this was a lie too!  The only thing he had in common with what he told me was that he had blue eyes!  That was it!\nSo this guy comes in and he's holding a rose, and I instantly feel like a b!tch for being so judgemental.  I thought, maybe he is a really nice guy, so I decided not to fake sickness as I had originally planned and take a chance on him. If anything, he could just be a friend that I hung out with.\nSo we go on our date.  He asks me where I want to go eat.  I tell him I'm not picky, I'm content with McDonalds double cheeseburgers.  So he decides to take me to a nice Mexican restaurant downtown.  We go in, and we're sitting there talking and sure enough, he is a nice guy.  So then he offers to buy me a drink.  I tell him I like margaritas.  He orders me the biggest margarita they have, one that costs over 10 bucks and comes in a cup that looks like a bowl!  So I drink the margarita.  He buys another one.  I drink it.  We finish eating and then we leave. \nSo he stops at a store, asks me do I smoke, I say yes.  He goes in, buys me several packs of cigarettes and a lighter.  And a case of beer.  I'm like WTF, but okay.....\nSo he gets a call on his cell phone and asks would I like to stop by his house, that his brother is having a "party" there.  I say sure, and figure if this is a trick, I have my pepper spray in my purse!\nSo we go to his house and it is only his brother there!  There is no party.  Apparently, I am the party.  So we sit around and drink some beers, have some conversation.  Then my cell phone rings and it is my former best friend (who is a guy) I talk only for a minute before telling him maybe we can hang out later, then hang up.  The guy I'm on a date with gives me this weird look and he's like "Was that a guy?" As I explain to him that it was my best friend, who I dated when I was 15, but since then, he's engaged and has two kids, he just looks pissed.  He grabs my purse up from bside me, shoves it into my hands and tells me he's taking me home.\nAs we're driving down the road, I start to tell him I had a fun time with him, and this dude just starts freaking out on me.  I remember he told me "You're nothing but a player.  You're one of those girls, you just play good guys like me.  Do you get off on playing people and doing them wrong?"  Of course, I'm like What the hell are you talking about?  So this guy proceeds to just b!tch me out:  I take you out and treat you right and you just screw me over.  That'
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Worst date: Guy took me to Waffle House for dinner and then wanted me to pay for half. This was a first date. Not a we-are-just-friends, but a date. \nBest Date: Longhorns for dinner, movie and then cosmic bowling. The company was great. He opened the doors for me. He PAID for everything. He vehicle was nice. He was entertaining me, not me having to make crap up just to get through the night. There was no sex or sex pressure.
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WORST..WHEN MY GIRL FRIEND DEPART ME..\nBEST...WHEN I SAW HER WITH MY ENEMY..!
334677
Ok, i was going out with this guy who was a supervisor at my work (not over me though) and he was SOOO hot, like my dream guy. he was buff and black and dressed so nice and was a couple years older than me and was totally hot. i was so excited when he asked me out. so we were going to go to a movie, but the earlier show was sold out so we went back to his appartment where all of his equally hot roomates were all hanging out. we were chillin around then his roomates decided to go get beer. (fyi i am a TOTAL lightweight and i only have to have like 4 beers before i am really really drunk) and when they got back i chugged a few beers and was gettin kinda buzzed and i chugged a couple more and before i could stop  myself i turned around and threw up all over his model hot roomate. in front of my date, his hot friends, and everybody. the worst part was that i was too drunk to go home cause my family would freak out and i couldnt drive anyway so i had to stay there for like another 6 hours until my buzz wore off enough for me to drag myself into my room and go to sleep. the worst part was that he asked me out again and insisted that it wasnt that big of a deal and that it happened to everybody sometime. like an idiot i went out with him again and we stopped by his appartment and his roomates took one look at me and were like "hey its pukie!!! dude that was so gross! i hope your sober or i dont want you to come near me!" i was totally humiliated.
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Dialed the wrong # on my cell (of another guy i went out with the night before) asking why he was late for our date, when my actual date was standing behind me!
165803
I dated a guy once who always made me pay, and borrowed money from me that he never paid back. what a loser.\nthen I met my husband, and when he took me to Taco Bell on our first date I knew he was a keeper, because he paid! :)
43594
There are a lot of really bad things that could happen on a first date.  The worst thing?  I don't know . . . if your date died, maybe?  That would just about top them all.  The worst experience I had on a first date was pretty mild.  It was a blind date and we went to a dance and when the song "Fantastic Voyage" came on, he started jumping like a pogo stick -- that was his idea of dancing. *eyeroll*
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I went out to dinner with a guy who got extremely drunk.  He got up and started singing "Some Enchanted Evening" in the middle of the restaurant,  and was so screwed up he fell on top of the table next to us.  I was stupid enough to drive him home (even after that stunt), and he took all his clothes off in the car and threw them out the window.  \n(I swear to G*d I am *not* making this up).  When I got him to his house I (literally) kicked his a*s out of my car and left him on his front lawn naked as a jaybird.  Needless to say that was our first and last date!
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on my first date i went to an amusement park. it was really fun!!!!!\ndont go anywhere to romantic or it mite freak te other person out, also the movies is a bad place because you dont know if your date wants to talk or for you to be silent the whole time.\n\nhope i helped!!
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I met this guy named Derek on line. He wasn't so bad personality wise.  He had posted some pictures of himself and he didn't look so bad on the pics.  I went to met him face to face he looked HORRIBLE. His skin looked smooth in the pics but when I met him in person he had pineapple skin he had a lot of "craters" and red pimples on his face.   He had on a raggedy wrinkled t-shirt, wrinkled raggedy jeans, his car smelled stale, his hair was all over his head it wasn't combed, he had long finger nails and raggedy old sneakers.  Plus he was skinny as a crack head and his teeth looked funny.  I promised him dinner so we went out to eat and it was really hard looking at him.  We went to the mall and it felt really awkward.  We didn't hold hands or touch each other because I was angry because not only was he  ugly but I had gotten my hair fixed, bought a cute outfit from Jcpenney had a complete makeover to meet up with someguy who looked like a  skinny crackhead who just came out of the cornfields somewhere in the country. Plus he had road rage like a muther.
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I actually feel really bad about this and can't believe I am saying this publicly...\n\nWhen I was in college I was dating a girl who went to a nearby Catholic college.  I was down to see her for a weekend and we couldnt get any "alone time" because her roommate was there the whole time.\nSunday night right before I left she took me down to the dormitory study/prayer room.  And right there on a desk we had sex; for anyone to walk right in and see us.  Her Resident manager was a Nun for shit's sake!\n\nJeez I cant believe I did that...