hey i want to know if i should go pubilic with my sexuality?
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if it dosent scare you and if it feels right i say go for it
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You must be mad! Wait till you are fully "mature" sexually and then start thinking about such things! Trust me it will grow a lot bigger than it is now! I know, I am 30!
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Sounds like you want a transexual or a crossdresser!  You are attracted to men's penises but like the women's appeal of lingerie and undergarments.  I think that is what you desire.  Understand this though, being gay, bi, or straight is not what u do, but what u desire when u wanna do it.  When u r horny and in th ebed, ask yourself, if you can hav ethe ultimate fantasy right now and no one would ever know what would it be?  When u answer that, that is what u r .  No one ever really falls into th ecategory of completely straight or completely gay or completely bi, u just have phases in life sometimes.  A gay man can have sex with a million woemn and fantasize about men whil ebeing with those women.  Actions don't matter it's about what you desire when you want sex.  can you have a healthy sex life feeling thsi way?  yes but be real with yourself and what you want and it could be a lot healthier.  I'm straight, but understand I'm not judging you, but i study sexual psychology.  u might just lik etransexuals and crossdressers, try them and find out whta you think!
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You are 17, you are old enough to go anywhere the law allows.  Be careful.  If you are gay then there are people who might want to hurt you.
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If you are attracted to both sexes then date both sexes.  You don't need to define yourself by saying you are full blown gay or you are bisexual.  Enjoy yourself and when you are ready to settle down for good you'll know which sex you want to do it with.  Let it come naturally to you and don't stress.  Hey, you have the both of best worlds so enjoy it.
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I knew from about the age of six.\nThere was a boy in my class at school that I always wanted to sit next to, but it never happened, and it was years later that I realised I had a 'crush' on him.\nI came out to my family when I was 18, but it didn't come as a surprise to them. I'd never shown any interest in girls (sexually), and they respected me for my honesty.\nI know it is not always easy to 'come out', and I would say that you should leave it for a few years in case it is just a 'phase' you are going through.\nMany men get sexual urges, and when you are going through puberty, your hormones are all over the place and experimentation (hand-jobs) is rife.\nIf you are certain you are gay, then tell a few close friends and if they show resistance, it is they who have a problem, not you.\nI hope you will not bow down to intollerance and ignorance, and find the courage to say who you are.\nI had one bad experience when I came out, and the man who didn't want to know me anymore now lives with his boyfriend in London!\nAll I can say to you is, you know the people around you, and you know yourself.\nIf you think they will be supportive, then be honest.\nFrankly, I'd be honest anyway and let them love you the way you are.
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18 is a great time to start.  You are lucky you didn't do it when you were younger and stupider, there could have been pregnancy or STDs and almost definitly there would have been bad feelings.  You are off to a good start, now you are mature and you can handle your sexuality, you will find a partner with mutual attraction and get it on.  Use protection!
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the question is... are you gay? becoz if you are, you're up to it. and if you're not, then you're straight. it's either you go that way or this way
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YES! ...unless you're fantasizing that it's Brad Pitt behind you instead of your strap-on-wearing girlfriend...in that case, you might want to do a little thinking about your sexuality...\n\nBut seriously, just because you enjoy exploring your body to its full extent doesn't mean you're thinking of buying a summer home on Brokeback Mountain...Plenty of straight men enjoy that kind of thing...and plenty of us girls enjoy men who enjoy that kind of thing. ;) It's usually a sign that you'll be creative in bed.\n\nAs to why it's okay: It feels good, doesn't it? The anus is full of nerve endings, and you boys have a lovely gland called the prostate that, when stimulated, makes for uber-intense orgasms. \n\nMore importantly, it's wonderful that you're comfortable enough with your own sexuality to allow yourself to have these kind of experiences...just make sure, for safety's sake, that whatever you insert is clean, easily removable, and coated with lube...I might recommend Astroglide.\n\nAbove all, have fun and be safe.
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Wether or not people admit it, I'm sure everyone things about it enough to consider why they are heterosexual and question what homosexuality would be like for them.  In the end, I think questioning is healthy, it will help you reconfirm what you already may think you are.
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You could be gay and you could be bisexual.\n\nIt's up to you to figure it out.
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You will go through puberty if you are gay or not.
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Sounds to me like you're going through a sexually experimentive stage.  It happens a lot with teenagers (just most never talk about it).  It's a time in your life when you question who you are and what your identity is, so your sexuality and sexual preferences are questioned and explored, too!  I don't think you're 100% gay, but you can appreciate a sexual site, even if it does include men (which can be a good thing!)  Also, with the underwear and all, it's not everyone's cup of tea, but if it's yours, go for it!  As long as you aren't hurting anyone, it's completely fine!  Have fun getting to know yourself and just be safe and comfortable.  Good luck!
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I think it is very normal to question your sexuality, especially in your pre-teen and teen years. I know I have questioned it my whole life. Now in my 30s and figure I must be bi.
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Just play it safe. \nMake sure you know where you will be enjoying your experience. Have your cell handy and inform a friend where you'll be and when to expect to see you again. (Set the alarm on your phone just in case you need to dress and run in the AM.)\nIt's an awesome and emowering experience in which you will probably be comfortable tring new tricks and playing out your fantsies. \nI had several encounters, most of which I wouldn't trade for the world. Most imortantly I had a good time while exploroing my own sexuality. Enjoy the future!
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If you are gay and willing to put your dignity and health in high risk...then go right ahead.  Keep looking for a job, it will be okay.  Stay positive.
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It's natural to be sexually curious. Go for it, you might like it and you might not. You'll never know until you try it.