what does this mean?my bf want me to go ove to his house and meet his parents?
456358
Sounds like a positive sign to me.  He is proud to be with you, and wants to share that pride with his family.
117821
Tell your parents that you think they should get to know him. \n\nIs he willing to go through some uncomfortable meetings for you?  If he loves you, he should. \n\nOnce your parents realize that he loves you and is good to you and is not going to be a negative influence in your life (gosh, do they think he is some gangbanger or all black people are criminals- come on!) they should work toward accepting him.  Try to find out why they feel this way.  \n\nTry to do this the right way- by being honest with your parents.  I can't imagine what you're going through, and you need to understand that they may NEVER come around.  \n\nGood luck, honey!
842398
He is much to young for you, physically but mostly emotionally.  There is a vast difference of experiences and it is very unlikely that this relationship would work own.  Don't hurt yourself and your parents by making the wrong choice, as much as your heart is leading you astray right now. Good luck.
1092564
holy crap...you're lucky girl...don't let that one get away. he does those things because he wants to. i doubt he expects anything in return. his parents obviously raised him to be a gentleman which is wonderful! i wish my husband was like that.
407269
Guys are often kinda slow on matters of social etiquette and especially when it comes to relationships. They are often so afraid of saying or doing the "wrong" thing that they don't act at all. Sometimes this makes the girl feel left out or ignored. Please don't be offended by his neglect, he is probably confused as to what to do. Give him some help by gently letting him know that you think it might be cool to meet his mom. Hope I helped. Us guys Can be a bit backwards at times.
561207
wait to see if it works out there is no point in getting hin to meet your parents because if they like him and it dont work out there going to chew your ass and say how great he was for you.
28665
If you want to see him, then do. But if something inside is telling you not to, you ought to go with tha tfeeling, wait longer if you want to, or break off the whole relationship if it keeps having that weird feeling. The fact that you're asking strangers if you should meet a guy shows that you probably don't want to. Think it over.
660963
I think he likes you a lot. He wanted you to meet his mom but did not know how to tell you or his mom that he wants to be your boyfriend. It does sound strange but some guys get nervous like that. Tell the boy sorry.
96487
Probably because he loves you and thinks that would be best for you. Parents can be strange like that sometimes. :)
712540
It does sound strange when a man of your age says I live at home with my mom and dad. \nIf I were single and ran into a man who said this to me I would think Oh great another mucher.....If I new you were in school and bettering yourself this does mean something, however I would feel you do not have time for a realationship....\nSince you are gay (or you are in the gay forum) why does it matter what women think?
76582
I say you are now in a civilised country.. whilst parents are important the world over, you are the one that has to live with him, have sex with him, have children with him. Sounds to me that you need to marry your parents if you are so concerned
759533
What does your mom say? If shes on your side, then maybe the two of you can both talk to him.\n\nDoes your bf still live at home? Even if doesn't his parents could still talk to your dad.\n\nI don't think you should disobey him, even though you are old enough to be on your own, you are still living is his house.
1179395
He may have been looking for a way out, and your parents gave him a good one.\n\nIf he's in love with you, he'd show some resistance to the parents' decision.\n\nParents do have good insight (much of the time), so there may be something to it, if they disapprove.  Without getting all emotional and defensive, you may want to sit down with them and get a better/fuller understanding of what they disapprove of, in your BF.  They're just looking out for their little girl.  And, although it may not make sense to you, at the time, their protectiveness may be very valid.
953758
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening.  It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days.  He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.
970661
He is probably "up to" is wanting sex but maybe just a fun night out. Go to the concert with him if you want to but don’t let him pressure you into doing anything you don’t feel comfortable with. The price of a concert ticket and a trip out of town are not worth the price of your self-esteem and self-respect. Bring enough money with you to get you home in case of an issue of conflict of interests but that is good advice for any date if it is close to home or far away.↔
516209
if he is in your country then have one of his friends that you can trust not to tell him you are coming home, and have him take you boyfriend out some where, like a restaurant, just to "HANG OUT WITH HIM" and then you "RUN IN TO THEM" at the place. but if you are leaving him to go back to your country then that sucks.
951193
Its means he's trying to let you down nicely.  He has a girlfriend and generally 3 is 1 too many!  So no, hang out with someone else and go to someone elses house.