Why don't more women ask men out ?
459567
Well, some men are jerks. And thats not what us girls want now a days. We want someone smart, funny, someone that can listen to us. Not some tough guy, full of him self jackass that thinks hes all that, when really hes not...
483849
partially, men are just not in tune with women a lot of the time.  If it is sexually, I am so sorry dude, keep trying!
1178467
Most women don't know what they want even at an older age. I think most of us go through a period of yes, we do want the type of guy listed above, cute, smart, funny, respectful, but when we get that there just not bad enough. Don't have enough edge, they seem sissy to us. As women mature and grow older then we realize that those bad boys are just well, bad boys and we actually want a commitment from a guy not some loser w/o a job or ambition for anything.   While it's hard on guys, you just have to be patient there's  girl out there that's wanting a nice guy and can't find them and get's stuck w/ losers...hell, i always did. I think sometimes it maybe not so much a sense of false hope just maybe afraid of oh, my gosh what are my friends going to think b/c he's just so nice and this might make them think he's too sissy. I wish you luck in you search. God bless.
395216
men mature slower than women.  they want a good time when the women are looking for husbands.  so unfortunately it's up to us to wait for them to want it.  There are a few out there who are great guys... but unfortunately they get snatched up by a few great girls.  sigh. \n\never feel like "everybody's buddy, nobody's hunny?"  lol- that's me.
623363
women probably prefer it more than men its just difficult to find men willing to satisfy a woman. usually men are just interested in satisfying their own instincts. this makes the woman look toward other things than sex...
586881
THANK YOU!!Women are constanly saying they want the nice guy but the nice guy get's nowhere.What's up with that?
599680
Mostly because we all have a fear of rejection.  I would assume that is the leading cause.  Considering...  if I really liked a woman...  and she said she didnt like me.  Then I would be crushed because I wouldnt have a chance.  Sometimes ignorance is bliss...  :-D
88301
Women have completed their single lives way before men do. Women usually date more often than men do because it's much easier for them.
1112627
Women aren't that mysterious. They just change their minds a lot and they like guys that can impress them without trying to impress them.
63747
It depends.  Some women are just stupid and don't know when you are trying to get to them, and some guys are just stupid and dont give strong enough signals.  I recommend commenting them about their appearance occasionally, it normally helps.
302320
I will tell you what has worked for me personally...this may sound old fashioned, but I find that for me it is the best strategy....I have never asked a man out on a date.  Guys like to be the hunters and the chasers and when they do things they like to think it was their idea.  I mean, definitely flirt with him, be friendly, smile a lot--plant the idea in his head and I'm sure in time he will ask you out.  good luck :)
1155742
maybe you're just too shy and you don't flirt...\n\ni know that's why no guy has ever asked me.
871426
Be Careful you don't want to seem desperate, And your not really supposed to be asking guys out anyway. Although it is a bold move and I think that if more women could say what was on there mind there would be a lot more couples together today. And vice versa of course. But my advice to you is to speak your mind be confident. And don't be afraid of rejection. take it slow, be patient but most of all don't settle and Be yourself
658624
Yes!!! I am a guy and I just love it when the girl makes the first move!!! Alot of guys love it because we are SOOOO afraid of asking someone becuase we are afraid of rejection. DO IT!!!
915907
Yes and No. Yes its shallow, because maybe she was just nervous when she was asking you out. You know most women don't do that very often, so when she was asking you out she probably reverted back to how she sounded in high school or something. Also you could have been a bit closed off and you didn't express in anyway that you were open to her asking you out. So that causes more nervousness in some women.  Now for the no part of it, I think if a person that is a sales rep and has had a college education, they should be capable of delivering a decent proposal to ask anyone out. I mean they have had the training to be able to talk to clients and different people like that, so I don't see why she couldn't used those same skills to ask you out properly. But just for the record that was funny as hell, "Like harder Benny!" Totally classic, dude.
1063331
Quality men are hard to find nowadays.  Most men are either gay, taken, or like one lady said here, too brainwashed by the women they see on tv and in magazines they don't realize that most women don't look like that.  Women have realized that they don't need to rely on a man to take care of them, so they take care of themselves and in doing that they don't settle for any crappy man that comes along.
410498
Women don't NEED men in their lives.  It is nice but not mandatory.  If a woman feels they always need a man in their life, they need more assurance in herself and more self esteem.  Until you can live on your own, you can't attract a guy worth being with.