I  have such friends, I don't need enemies.   How to cope up with them???
472458
Stand up to them. Be willing to find new friends that won't treat you that way. Call them on the carpet, the next time they step out of line, hit them back, verbally. They will either respect you and lay off, or they'll stop being your friend, in which case you didn't need them anyway.
993668
If you try to stop them, you may get hurt. They will take your friend no matter what you do.\n\nTry to cooperate with them, then maybe they will give you something instead of your friend, or maybe they will help you so that you won't NEED your friend anymore.\n\nIt must be very hard to be in your position. I know it is tough. However, the only way to feel good and alive again is to cooperate with them. They are trying to help you. Trust them.
640130
you can't really do too much except respect the fact that they won't talk to you, if they are your friend then they will talk to you.  just leave them alone and carry on with  your business, they will come around soon and if they dont' then you don't need them
155379
WELL THE PEOPLE YOU SURROUND YOURSELF WITH ARENT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE A FRIEND WOULDNT USE YOU FOR PERSONAL GAIN. IF YOU DONT HAVE EMOTIONAL BONDS WITH THEM YOU CAN FEEL ALONE IN ROOM WITH A THOUSAND PEOPLE IN IT. JOIN CLUBS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH YOUR INTERESTS AND TRY TO START CONVERSATION WITH POEPLE WHO HAVE SIMILAR INTERESTS. AND I WOULD DITCH THOSE LOSER FRIENDS TO START
234368
First of all, if they are "bad friends" then they are not friends at all. If you have already tried telling them to quit bugging you and go their own separate way, but had no success, then just IGNORE them!! They will eventually get tired...
259508
for starters you should never really hate anyone.  try to determine why you dislike them - pull them aside and have a private conversation with that person and out line what it is that you do not like about them, once you have stated your points tell them very clearly that you prefer not to continue a relationship (friendship) with them for the previously stated reasons.  be prepared for surprise anger embarrassment as well as a lash back of defense.  stand your ground and move on - there will be more friends and more people that you dont like but atleast this one will know where the two of you stand
498082
ok all you half to do is to try to avoid them if u dont want to be friends any more.  or  you could try and fit in with them and try to be like them even if it is not like your self.  but if you dont wannt  to be friends just dont talk to them anymore.
124180
gee, get a clue...if people ditch you, maybe you should take a look at yourself. and if you are trying to make friends with people who hate you, you are 1) dumb--they hate you and 2) just like the people you hate that are trying to be friends with you.  maybe instead of putting the only friends you have down, try being nice and open to other people
670113
Self respect says you got to take a stand, or you wouldn't be asking this here.  Think of it this way, would you want friends that can't be brave unless they have back up? or the one that stands alone, and cares enuff about you to keep coming back for more?  Choose sides, then, side all parties down, and tell them straight out what you just said to us, we used to be kewl, now we are not, I can't take it anymore, lets work it out, or I got to choose sides.  And don't let the 2, lay all the blame on the one.\nPersonally, I wouldn't even try talking, I would take the loner's side, and just see what happened.  If they left, fine, I expected it, but who knows, might scare them into backing off.
24098
I dont have any enemy, so all are my friends
835739
Son the world you live in now is very different but don't concern you with what other people do concentrate on your life and make sure you never fall in the same traps stay clean in a few years you will know what I mean. Don't concern you with what your Friend think of you if you don't want to join in. I f they don't understand they are not friend\nHope this advice helps
1144941
They don't sound like very good friends.  Your free to do what you want with our without them.  But also,  If you start doing stuff exclusively without them all the time they could think that you don't want to be friends anymore and be angry.  I lost a friend once because I wanted to spend time with my family and didn't stop by her house when I was in town.  But I figure we must not have been that good of friends if she would ditch me over something like that.
958882
Stop being friends with those hookers! Seriously! Just ignore them completly, when they say hi, dont waste your breath and say "hi" back because you know its a complete lie. When they walk by you, just pretend like you dont see them. Find some true friends, friends who wont backstab you, friends that are real and honest, and friends that are genuinly good people, there are tons of them out there. If they were really your friends, they woulnt be doing this in the first place, drop these losers.
1009640
Just move on and make new friends. They are butts and not worth your time.  Just keep your head high. I know it sounds like the one thing you don't want to do, but just be happy.
444250
i would like neither of them to save my friendship
132427
They really aren't your friends. Ditch them and find people who can be real.
472523
I am in that exact situation now.  I have 2 groups of close friends that hate each other and are constantly bitching about each other to me, who's stuck in the middle.  I deal with it by telling them I get on with all of them and I won't listen to them bitching about each other cos it is seriously annoying.  It's a hard spot to be in but if you get on with them all you have to stay on the fence.