is lesbian orientation normal for a girl who is not a lesbian?
465309
I resent your implication that lesbians are not "normal" girls. \n\nHowever, to answer your question, a certain level of attraction or appreciation for other women is entirely commonplace in heterosexual women.
288000
Heck. I'd prefer a lesbian. Bi-girls are pretty great, too.\n\nBut there's always the opportunity to convert straight girls and win that toaster oven.
831318
Sure. My best friend in high school was a girl, and we were just close friends(we never dated or anything.) It's possible to care about someone of the opposite sex and not be physically or romantically attracted to them.
49535
no i dont think she is a lesbian i think shes just strange!! A little crazy but not les!! I would just ya know call johnny depp and see which one she chooses! if she chooses johnny depp(which she will) obviously shes not fruity!!!i dont have anything against fruity people but you seem to be fruity urself!
523461
There's nothing wrong with being lesbian... \nIts a matter of choice.. \nYou cannot force other people to accept gay/lesbian people...\nThere are people who doesnt like those kind of people because that is how they see life..\nIts their freedom...\nAnd its your freedom to choose who you can and will love... \nNo matter they're gender...\n\nIts a matter of choice whether you can handle the pressure that society will give you...\nIts a matter whether you are HAPPY...\n\nI am a lesbian... \nI am happy...
1116450
It depends in your community... Here in the province of the Philippines where I live, some lesbians dress boyishly with baggy clothes, loose pants, ponytailed or clean straight hair. They usually go out in groups. These types of lesbians usually chase after the girly ones, and I mean, girlish lesbians. They're the ones you can't distinguish by merely looking at her cause she dresses herself properly like a straight lady would. Come to think of it, these girlish lesbians are more on the bisexual side.
1106833
yes! me!(i'm a girl & gay means when people liking guys right?well,if i wasn't gay,then i'd be a lesbian!!!!!!!!lolz)ok.ok.just kidding,so are you a gay or a lesbian?(just kidding again hun!)cheers!
76490
Well, I havent ever heard that before.  I wear a thumb ring and I am straight... and quite frankly, I would continue to wear one even if they have been deemed "lesbian."  What difference does it make anyway?
661882
Totally normals.  Most girls are that way.  I am one of them.
1021754
I think it's to early to tell if your a lesbian or not. But I would encourage you to take time and really try to find yourself before you commit to any relationship. It's only fair to yourself as well as any person getting involved with you. Don't let anybody pressure you into a relationship, that's not healthy and probably won't work out in the long run. Good Luck
739469
If you want to know if someone else is a lesbian, ask her.\n\nIf you want to know if you are a lesbian then answer this quick checklist:\n\nDo you want to f*ck women?\nDo you have sexual feelings about women?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of women?\n\nIf you answered yes to one or more of these questions then you are a lesbian or bisexual woman.  If you answered no, then you are straight.  Next ask yourself:\n\nDo you want to f*ck men?\nDo you have sexual feelings about men?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of men?\n\nIf you answered Yes to one or more of these questions, then you are bisexual.  If you answered no to all of the above then you are a lesbian.
276436
I was once a lesbian, but have since chosen to be with a man. I have a lot of friends who are still lesbians though, and I understand why they choose to be like that. In the cases that I know (including mine), fellow females understand the psyche of their own gender. It's true in most cases, since a lesbian (even if she's a butch lesbian) would still be a girl, and girls get what other girls need and want in a relationship. Of course, there's also some people who just wish to experiment. I would advise that you talk to your friends, learn about what it is about lesbianism that attracts them, and accept them. It is NEVER easy for a gay person to come out, and if they trusted you enough to tell you about this, that speaks a lot about what kind of a friend you are. I am glad that you accept them, and that you want to understand. Frankly my dear, you might never fully comprehend until you are in THAT kind of relationship. But, I admire how you are going about with your confusion. Just be a friend to them. It is their choice. Their lifestyle. And they are your friends. =)\n\nI hope this helps you out. =)
192748
No, I am straight...but nothing wrong with those that aren't :D
67482
No. It is a matter of choice. A lesbian chose to be a lesbian. It is the sexual orientation of the person.
349618
are you a lesbian if you are email me at ciara11236cici@yahoo.com\n\nwww.lesbian.com
836429
Definitely.  As a straight male, I will cop to the stereotype that I find lesbians erotic and exciting while I find gay men rather gross. (sorry!)
285560
boyz b/c i am a girl and i'm not lesbian