For the women, what do you really want in a man?
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I think women are generally flexible. I can put up w/ a lot of the crap if it's that one-of-a-kind love. The kind that is all-encompassing, makes you go crazy. \n\nIt's easier though to answer what women don't want.
888492
We like a hard working man.  We like someone who we think is going to be a great father.  We (if sincere) like to have a little extra money, but if since don't ask for too much.  We like a man that KEEPS HIMSELF CLEAN!  We like to be able to be around to take care of the kids.  We like a man who is open and honest but not anything hatred or hurtful.  We like patience and kindness,  We like softness and gentleness.  We like patients and understanding.  We like being pampered in general.  It takes love to give love.  The more she feels like you love her and doing for her, the more love you will get in return!!!!  Get the hint?!
832619
my dream guy would be someone tall, dark, and hansome. blue or brown eyes. loving. caring. sincere. not afraid to be himself. someone i could talk to and get along with easily. someone who truely understands me and doesnt take me for granted. someone who loves me for who i am and is always by my side. someone who is smart and has a good sense of humor.
1008612
Women want a man that wants to be with her and only her no cheating.  We want respect and still be able to contol our lives we want you to be understanding and truthful.  Love us for us tell us we are beautiful surprise us with things and not always things that cost money.  If you get a sec call us just to say hello and that you love us.  Take us out to dinner(not mcdonalds).  Dont' be afarid to let us in.  Don't think we can't open a jar of pickles or something.  Don't always assume that we are pussies.  Give us the remote and watch one of our movies even if you don't want to.  Let us make some descioncs to.  Women are complicted.  Jamie
82895
In my opinion, it depends on the woman. I myself want something happy and healthy relationship with a man as well as good true friendship.
1139869
it doesnt matter what state you are from women all want the same thing in a guy but the qualifications may vary by person to person....but to start out with the top ones are honesty, respect, good listener, has a good work ethic, takes care of his responsibilities, has a good sense of humor, is intelligent, is friendly and is not scared of commitment and doesnt play games....
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simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
174845
It depends on the guy you ask? Men in general they tend toward what ever is good for the female? just my opinion
1131392
A good looking smile will always get my attention.\nI like women who are understanding and compassionate.\nI like women who are confident yet not forceful.\nI like women who can stop and appreciate small things like a wild flower in a meadow, a beautiful bird at the feeder, or a spectacular sunset.\nI like women who enjoy the laughter of children.\nI like a woman who is happy with herself because she knows she is who i love.\nI like a woman who isn't a material girl but has substance in her soul.
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Personally,I like a man who is a little on the wild side..a bit of a badboy,who knows what he wants and how to get it,but not in a nasty way!I like him to have charisma,passion,drive.Be romantic but not slushy,be giving but not a push over,kind and sensitive when need be,but not OTT.Ultimately a man who is a man,but who knows when to show his softer side.
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Intelligence\nWit\nHonesty\nLoyalty\npositive outlook.......happy!\n\nSomeone that needs me as much as I need him. Someone that genuinely enjoys being around me as much as I enjoy being around him. :)
270885
same reason most of the woman want a handsom man. but for example, if a handsom man beats me up and treats me like dirt, but the average looking guy treats me like a princess then im going to be with the average guy - because looks arent everything. i just think looks are what come first. then personality. and we all want someone who's good looks match a good personality.
75863
I want honesty and no games from a man. I care about what is inside of the person a whole lot more then what is on the outside. I recently got back on the dating scene since my husband died. It is different and the men I meet are definately carrying around a lot of baggage.
809108
Thats a good question. i think the most important thing is that they have to treat me with respect. I dont wanna be in a relationship where im giving 90% and hes giving 10%. it has to be equal. Next i think is personallity. for me, he has to be funny, caring, responsible, and loving. After that is physical features. Since im kinda tall i want a really tall guy. I would like it if he had nice eyes. He doesnt have to be cute but thats always a bonus.Oh and he would have to have the same intrests as me so we have a lot of things to talk about.
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It's simple. Some women just don't know what they want. They always want the fantasy, the romance, the trumpets. I'm a woman and I think it's a lot of bull. I'm with a guy who is nice and fun, sexy and confident. He may be just an ordinary guy at times (sit in front of the TV, feast on pizza) but when he wants to impress me or be romantic he surprises me!
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I want a girl, who gets up early and stays up late.. with finger nails that shine like justice and eyes that burn like cigarettes.. w/ a short skirt and a Long Jacket-cake  j/k ..lol \n\na girl that takes care of herself, both physically, emotionally (limited drama) = low maintenance. who is reasonable, personally respondsible & accountable.\n\na girl with life goals beyond the generic marriage & kids (important, but needs to want something more in life). optimistic, passionate and self motivated.\n\na girl who understands her selfworth ( self respect & confident) importance of humility, and selflessness. \n\nbeyond that..(which I know is alot) I really seek someone who has a great imagination.. artistic, a manic creative.
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That's a tricky question, cuz not all men are the same.Like me, I look for nice personality, honesty,and someone to love me for me, not for what I have.Most importantly, she has to have high self esteem.All the physical things come in a little later.