what do most girls really want in a guy?
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respect , loving , checky , sexy , romantic ..........\nand to b himself and no you don't have to act cool if your not and you dont have to do what your mates do if YOU dont want to. be YOURSELF and she will come.\nbut the girls that just go for money isn't love.\ngood luck and have fun !!! \nx x
284548
ok girl...i don't know about other guys,but personally the first thing that attracts me in a girl is her eyes...coz no matter how much the girl's physical apperiance changed,the look in her eyes remains the same and doesn't change a bit..love lasts forever too...same think about the look of the girl's eyes...\ni'm not saying that other things are not important,but the most impotant one is what i've mentioned to u..\nby the way i'm 19 male..\nu can im me not on my massenger if u want...\nwoondedlover@yahoo.com
392182
In reality it depends on the person. I think as we get older we appreciate more of the inner qualities of the opposite sex. When we settle down, we want someone we can sit down and talk to.  A beautiful girl is meaningless to us if she has nothing to say or has no goals in life.  I think guys choose a combination of both personality and beauty (beauty in the sense that the girl takes care of herself and has good hygene), but personality dominates of the two.  For me its the heart of the girl that matters and I don't want or expect any favours from anyone, if a girl does things from the heart, then thats what counts the most.
27975
I want a girl, who gets up early and stays up late.. with finger nails that shine like justice and eyes that burn like cigarettes.. w/ a short skirt and a Long Jacket-cake  j/k ..lol \n\na girl that takes care of herself, both physically, emotionally (limited drama) = low maintenance. who is reasonable, personally respondsible & accountable.\n\na girl with life goals beyond the generic marriage & kids (important, but needs to want something more in life). optimistic, passionate and self motivated.\n\na girl who understands her selfworth ( self respect & confident) importance of humility, and selflessness. \n\nbeyond that..(which I know is alot) I really seek someone who has a great imagination.. artistic, a manic creative.
658986
I need a girl that laughs at my jokes. I need a girl that I can be proud of. She needs to respect me, but have a life of her own. More important than looks, she needs to be intelligent. Her body is fairly important to me. Most off all, I need to feel comfortable around her.
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I would say that the other answers are okay to a point but, do not be fooled to think all women want a guy with money only because believe me a real woman wants it all and when I say all I mean, the whole nine yards:\nMoney is not number one but, since it has been said let's just start there;\nA Sense of Humor is needed to make her smile & laugh;\nA Brain, because all women are not dumb blondes(just a figure of speech, no disrepect attended to blondes).\nA Great Lover, He don't have to be a superman or anything, just need to know what she likes.\nPatiences,Strong, & Gentle,  All of those speak for them selves.\nLooks, Well Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so that will never be the same for anyone.\nHave Goals in Life, A Man who knows what he wants and know how to get there, is always a plus, But behind ever Good Man there is a Great woman, don't believe me look it up.\nNow that is what I say is the ideal man for most if not all women.
547989
do you mean what is a girls ideal guy?\nwell we all have different answer for ur question dear and it depends on the girl if what kind a girl she is.\nur same as my age.anyway ummmm...i'll say you have to be urself ur real u not tryin to be someone ur not.you have to be a good guy not really that good but just fine coz sometimes when a girl fall for u she wont see all ur bad side as what they say love is blind.so good luck.
1041707
It all depends on the female. She may just want attention, she might just want someone to take care of her and buy her things. Every woman wants a guy to propose to them and get married one day. But the key to a female getting what she wants is to be straight foward and honest about it, alot of males, believe it or not are not mind readers.
770123
Well, different guys look for different things.  It's really hard to narrow it down to things that guys tend to want in general, but I'll try.\n\nFirst, I think they want the girl to take them for who they are.  I also think they like girls who try to look nice, but at the same time, don't obsess over it.\n\nFor myself, I tend to like women who are gentle and tend to be at least somewhat soft-spoken, because that matches my personality.
889678
good personality\nnice smile \nattractive(doesn't apply to all guys)\ngood sense of humour\nnice butt or breast
934697
I respect girls who try new things and go outside their comfort zone.\n\nAny girl who goes after what she wants will be attractive, because she is likely to be happier, more confident, and more driven, in my mind at least.\n\nDo it and don't worry about what guys like.
94132
depends on the girl. i really like a guy who's open, funny, and has a charming playfulness. nice smile is good too, and i love it when guys laugh. i mean genuinely laugh, not just " Hahaha, in your face! i just beat you at nintendo!" laugh. just be yourself, insecurity is the biggest turn-off out there.
614666
I look for honesty and a person that has a good heart! I want to be able to laugh and have a good time anywhere we might be! I want a girl to be neat in appearence and clean looks isnt everything but I do want them to smell good and enjoy sex as much as I do when It comes to that point in our relationship!
28354
As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
519186
okay honestly? guys say they want a girl with a nice rack and a nice a$$ but what most normal guys want a girl who's smart,easy to talk to and open up to,a girl who you can have fun with but who knows how to be serious,someone you can tell anything to,and i love girls with pretty eyes
576117
i would go for a girl with curves,with big hazel or brown colour eyes ,with straight black hair, tall as well with a gr8 smile and if she's got the personality with it then she is forever mine.. and if not than she's alright for one night..and she should be into rock music not heavy meta;l or punk but soft rock or progressive,indie rock...another imp thing i would admit is guys never go for personality in the first place when its girls..Looks always matters no matter what the guys would say ..personality and attitude comes second
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For me there has to be a mix of chemistry and personality the two need to go hand in hand together.  I suppose what ever attracts a girl to a guy is similar to what attracts a guy to a girl.