Why am I fat and my brother and sister are skinny?   When I have kids, will I lose the fat?
473822
i am in the same position as you. It's not fair is it!!\nUnfortunately for us, I doubt we will lose weight when we have kids. We will more likely put it on.\n\nI just think that at least we will have an excuse for being fat when we have kids! We can just blame them and make them repay us in hugs!! :)
838718
I am assuming YOU don't have a weight problem. In case your ignorance is true and not just stupidity I am going to tell you a few medical facts.There are some people that are overweight because of what they eat i will not deny that but there are also people that suffer from disorders like poly ovarian syndrome and thyroid disorder that causes them to be overweight. Now if you want to reword your question and offer to ban fatty foods I would agree but the question you ask is rude and just downright shows me how ignorant you are.  You are offensive and I hope your children face weight problems growing up so that you will have to learn instead of being ignorant.  By the way I'm not overweight nobody in my family is.  But i would really like to make a tax for stupid people like you
801412
At your age you shouldn't worry about weight fat or anything like that.  You have yet to hit puberty.  When you do your going to grow fast and you will get thin.  Give your self another 10-15 years before you begin to worry about your weight!  I used to be chunky at your age.  Six years later I was skinny as a rail, and that's pretty much stayed with me since then (that was 9 years ago for me).  I didn't diet (I ate like a pig actually) and I did some excercise, but not alot.  It stayed with me because I had a healthy life style of eating balanced diet and excercised as I grew.  I still keep up with that.  Also Genetics will play into your weight some.  I'm built exactily like my mom.  I can look at here and see what I will look like 20 years from now (and I probably won't change much from my current looks).  Don't worry about your weight unless you are way over or under your BMI (Body Mass Index) for your height.  Do a search for your BMI, that will give you a good idea.
412449
No. if your fat, its not good. its bad. real bad. i mean real bad. well then again. skinny is also bad. i would rather be fat than skinny. wait. not that fat though. i dono jeez. i guess fat aint bad.
173618
Are you sure that you just aren't TOO skinny?\n\nI have a tip for skinny people. \n\n"Once you knees are fatter than your legs, it's OK to eat cake again."
914791
I used to be teased also when I was younger and struggled with my weight and its really hard especially when it comes from your own family! Now being older I realise noone else is going to do it for me...I have to deal with it and I'll show them but in a healthy way. People like to critisize without giving you any advice even family members sometimes, maybe they have insecurities they are covering by putting the focus on your insecurities and really your family should be the role models and foundation for your well being growing up in the first place! If you are worried and want to lose weight so you can lead a healthy and happy life then do it for yourself. Do you have a good doctor you can talk to and they will be very matter a fact with you and let you know from a medical point of you if you need to lose weight or not. I really enjoy pumping the music up and putting an aerobics dvd on or getting my mp3 and going for a walk. It lifts my mood while Im gettting fit and know Im doing it because I deserve it!
571048
Yes, I don't get enough exercise. I'm 5'4" and I weigh 155 pounds. I do have 3 kids though, a husband, and a big house to take care of , so I don't have enough me time. I wish I could join a health club, go to the tanning bed, and to salon. (sigh)
1046247
Both suck. I was never fat.\n\nBut when I was younger I was extremely skinny...there was nothing I could do about, I was just skinny.\n\nI got teased just as much as the fat kids.
1127768
Because your mind is telling you skinny...skinny...calories...\ncalories...fat...fat.  Change your thinking!!
867471
is there any fat people in your family? Note it may be your nature and there is nothing you can do about nature. But if is not nature you can follow these steps\na.  take multi vitamin like MIM (Blood capsule)\nb.  eat very well\nc. make sure you are having some rest \nd.  take alot of water\ne.  eat beef, chilken, and much snarch etc
586697
We all have our different metabolic rates. Some simply won't gain weight no matter how much they eat. This may change when you grow older because your metabolism tends to slow down. \n\nP.S. Being fat is also hereditary according to the study.
467935
Aw, you are in a growing stage, do not worry so much about this. Your body requires tremendous energy for all it's going to be doing in the next couple of years, so it will need that fat.  Fat is stored energy.
719393
Sorry to inform you but that is what I call life.  Having children ruin your body.  Unless you are on a strict diet and exercise regimen that it how it will look or if you have good genetics and return to normal.  My 3rd baby did it to me.  He is almost 3 but I am also not interested in exercising like a freak.
998910
i used to be slim until i got ill. i have to take medication and it has made me put on alot of weight. not all overweight people are like that cos they eat too much etc. alot of them have medical conditions. when i see them, i always feel for them and hope they are happy and loved, cos that is all we really want. i am very overweight now but im ok with it. i asked my daughter how she felt about me and she turned around and said, i prefer u this way!  it can be an awful struggle for an overweight person to lose weight, just the same as its very difficult for skinny people to put on weight. we are the way we are. i never thought id end up being the size i am but i accept it. i am still me, there is just more of me to love!
1030615
NO it's all about muscle mass rather than fat. Muscle weighs more so you have better strength. You may have a high body fat percentage but are really slim. They may appear over weight but have a lower percentage of body fat and greater muscle mass. Also, most women have carried kids so they are stronger in the arms than what men would expect.
40214
My younger brother is a skinny guy and his boyfriend is a chubby guy, they are going to be adopting their second child in the next week. I also know alot of other guys that are in love with the opp. person like that.
972251
Yes, do you see any signs of anorexia? I have a friend that is very skinny but she has a VERY HIGH metabolism. Do you notice any loss in appiette? How about hair loss? Does she ever talk about how"fat" she looks? If so I would talk to her mom or convince her to see a doctor!