my baby and i had this worst fight, how will i say my sorry that my baby cannot refuse to forgive me?
461574
do not say your sorry - you must first show it - get your stuff together - for give ness must be shown - not just talked aboutif you are serious and he is a good person , you may start talking - he is listening even if he's mad, and then you show every day you DO care and love him - he will mellow in time - how much time is unimportant- just keep doing the show thing - even stupid men can be retrained to see their partner cares from the heart
71493
It's great that you want to make up with her.  That's half the battle already.  Here's some ideas.\n\n1.  Apoligize for what you did wrong:  Whatever you said or did, take responsability for it.  Be specific.  Don't apologize for "hurting her feelings," but apoligize for what you personally did or said.\n\n2.  Be positive and encouraging.  Don't blame her.\n\n3.  Forgive her whatever she did, whether she apologizes or not.\n\n4.  Do something fun together.  When a relationship has been damaged by a painful experience, something special is needed to heal the wound.\n\nHope these ideas are useful.
566807
Try dat lines, even dat it worked for me:\n\nI feel like cursing u 4 all d sleepless nights dat u have given me. u'll have a son who'll go mad behind my daughter, just like d way i am mad for u,.... \nBut then.....\nWhy trouble those innocent ones...\nCome lets make them brother and sister...:-)
529902
OUCH! Dude! WTF?  Just say you're sorry and explain to her how she makes you feel about yourself and that you were just venting.  She does not sound very reasonable anyway so all you can do is try.
884677
Man you must have really messed up tell her you love her and you are sorry and that you Miss your baby good night but the most beautiful girl in the USA and the world is my daughter Bekki!!!\nHere are some lyrics to help you out good luck
112442
Apologize.  Acknowledge that you are human and have done wrong.  Ultimately you will have to forgive yourself and move on.  (Easier said than done, I know)
797618
The best way for anyone to say they are sorry, and it seems the hardest way also....\n"I am so sorry."\n\nThere is nothing hard about apologizing except letting your pride down and doing it.
138991
Well, I just left the guy that I was with.  At first I had a really hard time dealing with him.  He made my life miserable and he f'd up a lot of opportunities that I had.  I hated him so much, but I practiced a lot of restraint and didn't let my anger take over the situation because we had a child together.\nIt sucks that she is being so hateful toward you, especially since you have a child together and you'll always have to deal with each other.\nI do not know what happened between the two of you, but here is what I would suggest if you really want to help things smooth out between the two of you so that you can sucessfully co-parent together.  I would say:\nI am sorry for the things that happened between us, that things did not work out, and I respect that you have hard feelings and that you are angry with me.  I want to give you the space that you need to work through this and I will be willing to talk if you need to.\n\nThen from there, you really have to be willing to hear her out and don't interupt her when she tells you how she feels about you or what happened, don't try to justify anything, just let her vent.  It will help her to move on.  You guys are obviously not going to be friends anytime soon, but that's not the point, just make sure there is ample opportunity to discuss anything child related and leave it at that\n\nMost likely she is so mean because she is hurt that the relationship is ended. She resents you and with time it will hopefully get better, but unfortunatly there are women out there who never let it go and the best thing to do is to let them think they are right.  Remember, Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned...\nJust be the best father you could be, your kid is all that really counts anymore.\nDon't let her drag you into arguements about anything because if things get nasty, anything you say could later be brought up against your nature if you go to court over custody.\nBe the better person.
1046734
Tell the people that you may have hurt that you are truly sorry, make restitution if you can, ask the Lord for forgiveness. If that doesn't work talk to your preacher/minister about it.
282802
stay humble and think back those things you've done a while ago...apologize if there was a mistake you have done or find an exact time to reconcile each other. express yourself if you'll get hurt but don't just demand. stay calm and humble. GOOD LUCK!
65009
I would have to agree with some of the previous answers to a certain degree.  Just in case you haven't done this, try: \n\n-Saying exactly what you want (i.e. our child is ill, our child needs some medicine) \n-Calm down and simply try to say it a little sweeter because you sound really pissed right now\n- Make it an urgent call and be sure to say that it is extremely inportant that he calls back ASAP \n\nJust some ideas.  It sounds like you and your child's father do not get along which could be the reason why he has not called back yet.  Remember that your feelings don't matter- JUST THE CHILD'S! Sometimes you will have these problems and you have to remember that you can only control you and your child.  If he does not want to talk to you then let it be. \n\nI wish you all the best!
987204
Be supportive. If you attack him (verbally or any other way) you put her in the position of defending him. It happens every time. \n\nThe first two years of a baby's life is the hardest on a marriage (statistically) and when the most divorces happen. I think your hands are tied and all you can do is let it play out, and be there when it ends to pick up the pieces. \n\nWho knows .. maybe they will get some sort of help and be able to work it out. She has to decide for herself.
550220
No it wasn't your fault. I didn't see how you could think that! It was his fault that he didn't act like he cared about you! You did the right thing! \nGood Luck with your baby and your new relationship!
791203
You either make a decision to forget or to hold a grudge forever. She did those things in the past, and I assume has apologized and made up for it... so now the ball is in your court and it is up to you to forgive or to not forgive. You need to make a decision soon though, otherwise you'll just be in this bad-feeling state of mind. The choice to forgive is always the better one too, but I'm sure you know that.\n\nNow, how do you forgive her? You try to understand it and realize that it was in the past and that people change and make mistakes and you accept it and forgive it.
1141231
let go of your past and try again. God will look at your heart and help you. Picture you helping your baby walk with your finger holding his hand and he slips and falls. Well you look at it so innocently and gladly help him up and try again. God looks at you that way, hang on to His finger and try again.
651911
just say sorry in front of every one if u have really committed something wrong. and care for her/him every now and then so that he/she will develop a soft corner in their heart.
329202
First, you need to understand why you're fighting. Is it over another person, money, time spent together? What?\nAfter you figure that out, plan a romantic evening. We're talking candles, music, pretty lacey things if you're at that stage, that kinda thing. And then apologize. Tell him how much you love him and that you're sorry that things have been so hard and that you wanna start over. And then do. If he feels the same way, he'll accept your apology and he might even apologize himself. \nGood luck sweetie