Is it normal to be able to reach a clitoral orgasm...?
457231
Yes! quite normal.\nDon't worry, just relax and Enjoy!\n\nAriadne - good answer you deserve the 10 points
54894
First, you have to experiment with yourself.  Figure out what you like.  Read about different ways to reach orgasm.  After you've figured that part out, teach it to your boyfriend/husband.  My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we've just now got it right!  It can and will happen someday! Don't give up!!
477631
Yes, it is possible. Just as for men, female orgasms can be very different and their intensity can vary a lot too. Some can be really draining. Then again, it can be a nice excuse to avoid sex... I think that by observing her reactions you can estimate if her orgasms are really so intense and draining.
540936
Suffer?\n\nThat certainly makes it sound painful.\n\nSome women do not achieve orgasm through intercourse and may need direct clitoral stimulation as well.
651991
This could not be further from the truth. In fact its quite the opposite, when a girl gets comfortable enough with herself that she can masturbate to orgasm she often finds it easier to orgasm during the real thing. Also understand that there is more than one type of orgasm that women can have, a clitoral, and a g-spot. \n\nAs for your sex drive question, different people have different levels of sexual anticipation its normal and you should consider yourself lucky.
575080
Try new things... \n\nBut one thing that I have learned over the years is that if you play with yourself you will know what turns you on... That way you can give him little hints on what to do to get you off. \n\nAnother tip is that when you do reach an orgasm think to yourself what is going on??? are you breathing less or more? Are you taking long slow breaths or quick and fast? are you playing with your clitorus??? (some women that is the only way they can orgasm.) If the last is the case you can train yourself to orgasm without as much clitoral stimulation.... When your having sex with your man. get into the doggy style possition and let him play with your clitorus... After a while your body will associate the other stimulation with orgasm also.
399740
Probably because you're not really ready for internal stimulation. Personally, I much prefer external mastur-bation anyway, try sticking to that for a while, focus on the clitoris. When you're going onto fingering, make sure you're well lubricated and relaxed, and try just inserting one finger - if that's ok, try two. Just take things slowly and gently.
1051127
I've been looking into this a great deal lately.  We should all be physically ABLE to have a vaginal orgasm, but only like 36% (read it in cosmo yesterday) can actually reach it.  Takes some work!  You should check out cosmo b/c I'm not real sure what I can say on here...but they are pretty thorough.  Good luck!!
312755
Well, if you can buy a "bullet" I would recommend it! They are at adult shops. It vibrates at different speeds. Just slightly rub it on your clit and you'll orgasm in a few minutes! An orgasm can be tricky to tell, but usually you start breathing heavy, maybe shake a lil and your body temp. rises a lil. It just feels like an "explosion" Trust me, you'll know it when you have one!
275524
By ---- processes, I am guessing that you mean the act of loving. There is nothing to worry about. A lot of women are not able to orgasm during the act. Like me.  ; )  Because my clitoris is not as exposed, I need more stimulation.\n\nYou may have the same problem. You will need to discover where exactly is your 'hot spot', by yourself or with your bf. Then, you can have him love you with his hand either before or during the act, your choice.\n\nJust remember, be comfortable, don't force it, and don't be shy to tell him what he needs to do, or to guide him, because this is an act of love and pleasure for the two of you, not just one. Or it would just be called m----bation, not making love.
965003
LOL at the fingers and tongues answer... if you can get your tongue down there you've got it made! :D\n\nSeriously, though, it's harder for a woman to orgasm just from penetration.. so a dildo or fingers or (sigh) cucumbers generally don't work as well.  \n\nClitoral stimulation is the way to go... if you don't know where that is, touch your finger to the top edge of your vaginal opening, then pull it towards your belly button... there's a small bump towards the top of your vagina that feels really really good to touch.\n\nStimulation can be done in lots of ways... repeated touching (often touching the sides feels better than just rubbing the round part), nearly anything that vibrates (back massagers, electric toothbrushes, etc) and if you have one of those cool shower heads with the adjustable spray intensity, that has a long hose, that will rock your world.\n\nSo have fun, take your time, and remember that it's a normal and healthy activity... and one that will make you a better lover!
1030947
Yeah that really happens dude.  Not all girls squirt, you have to know how to stimulate their clit.  My girl does it sometimes when she is really fealing freaky.  Yeah i know, that is so cool.
253365
Can you make yourself orgasm??\nIf yes teach him, if no go to:\nwww.the-clitoris.com\ngood luck!
405214
It's not bad, it's natural. Your orgasm depends largely on your state of mind and the feelings in your heart. Of course, with practice, it becomes easier to climax, but if your heart isn't in it, or if you are stressing, it's not likely to happen. So relax, enjoy the sex, and try not to worry about whether or not you're climaxing - that way you're much more likely to reach orgasm!\n\np.s. a good technique is to be on top, and to have you or your partner rub your clitoris as you have sex. have fun!
28290
According to Kinsey, only 15-25% of women can reach orgasm through penetration alone, so, she's not too weird...\nTry a simultaneous G-spot/or@l, see if that works...
1187718
some women can train themselves to orgasm without moving a finger, just by thinking of a great sexual experience.\n\nMaybe you had some tremendous sexual experience that you somehow in your mind associated with an orange, so now oranges trigger those memories and sensations. So I'm not saying it's impossible. It's definitely plausible.
520753
Well sometimes, when you and your lover are getting really hot and nasty, it just feels like the right time to do it!! When you've got baby-oiled up or whatever!! LOL!! \n\nOf course, you have to be totally relaxed and I found that rubbing my clit or getting him to do it (whilst he's in there)makes the whole thing much more pleasurable!\n\nIt's not something I want to do all the time, but now and again, hell why not!! When it comes to what makes a women come, we are all different. And not only that, but what may make me orgasm one week, might not work for me the next!!