how many of u cheated on your bf/gf?and WHY?
457689
NONE, Its a crapy feeling when someone cheats on you.  Not to mention, if you really care about a person to have a commitment, then there shouldnt be anyone else.  If there is anyone else, then they shouldnt be committed.
1145065
if she is the one that cheated, then she is the one with the problem,,,and that is no way to solve any problem that a couple may have...... There is NO excuse for cheating. And what ever the "issue, is or was" it is not the boyfriends fault.... the fault always lies with the cheater.  She should have been more of an adult, and either worked the issue out or left the relationship.
651132
First of all, if you are the one who cheated, it sounds like you are the one with commitment issues.  You werent ready for long-term monogamous commitment to your  husband, and now you arent ready for long-term monogamous commitment to your bf.  We can love any number of people, and we can still love people after we've been with other people.  Marriage is about commitment, which is different than love.  If you arent ready to settle down, just be clear about that.  But realize that if you take your husband back and then move on again,  you'll really be hurting him even worse than you did the first time.
556991
It depends. Some people make a one time mistake. Others make it a habit. I know two women that both cheated. The first one cheated on her husband and felt so bad she threw up the next morning. The second one cheated on her boyfriend with seven other men... at least a dozen times between them. Some people make single mistake and regret it forever. Others don't regret it and continue that behavior.
602012
i have always found the women to be the cheater.  I have never cheated if my heart was there.  Guys simply want sex more than women, or maybe the girl we are with simply doesn't satisfy us, and we don't want to tell her that.
1113391
well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women. \n\nIf I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
790321
no it isn't really cheating in that case. Just talk to your bf and tell him what happened. He should trust you if he really does love you. Talking is one of the best keys in a good relationship to make it last but everyone is different and its harder for some to talk.  But 9 out of 10 the ones that don't talk break up. good luck :)
188994
my bf cheated on my more then once and i stayed with him because i love him  but I'll never trust him the way i did again and if he cheats again I'll leave his a** alone
181347
Yes I have cheated but I figure it was mutual because I had also caught him cheating and he did not know so I cheated on him with another friend of mine and went home to him so he could perform oral sex on me right after sleeping with someone else an hour ego. I would say I did it out of the anger of being with him for 5 yrs. and him throwing that away in one night.
558312
When my x cheated on me, I pretended not to know anything and I made him like me more. I did a make over and tried my best to really get his attention. After I made sure That I had his heart back and he was falling head over heels for me, I cheated with another guy in front of his face. And when he found out, he was so mad it made him cry.hehe.\nIts bittersweet revenge.
120749
Wow if I was your girlfreind I would be upset. I might even dump you for that. Technically it IS cheating. All I can say is, big mistake. Don't do it again.\n\nIf you love her, take responsibility. You were wrong. Don't try to defend yourself or justify it. You cheated. Admit you made a mistake, ask for forgiveness, and don't ever do it again. Learn from your mistake and change. That's right, change. Become the type of person who is faithful and who would never hurt someone they love. Doesn't your girlfriend deserve that? Yes you can do it. Also understand from a girl's perspective, it hurts. If she doesn't dump you, count yourself extremely lucky and be thankful for what you have.
1116340
Being someone that has cheated in the past I can honestly tell you it could go either way. I did before, but will never do it again. On the other hand I have had a boyfriend cheat, say it wouldn't happen again & it did. So I guess it depends on the person &/or relationship.
316228
well if he has cheated on u that many times u should lose him u r way to good 4  that lose ur bf to
1169023
Come on, cheating is cheating! You know, that thing you do that goes against the rules. For example,  if your girl says, "You can't kiss other girls, D." Then you gotta respect that, otherwise, it's cheating. Why do people cheat? Sheer laziness(when it comes to tests),boredom(when it comes to relationships), and a God-complex(when it comes to games)
317551
Is it okay for guys to cheat??  Is it okay for your girlfriend to cheat??  Why not?  You are doing it.  Actually I hope she already knows what you are doing and decided she is going to do the same thing.  Hats off to her!!!\nAnd remember...ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT!!!!
1152321
I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
424649
Different reasons. Depends on the guy, the girl, the situation... same as when girls cheat I supposed. Sometimes it's just because they are selfish and thoughtless and don't actually care about who they are with.