My boyfriend is selfish, should I leave him?
464165
Word has it that your boyfriend is such a great guy, I mean a real find, a one of kind, that you should just give into whatever he wants.  I mean he is really important and deserving of you.  You should stick by him no matter what.  Yeah, he might cheat on you, that's cool, he's just being his selfish self.  Give him a break already.
153994
Ask yourself if what you're struggling over is worth it. Is it worth your happiness/relationship?\n\nIf it's not submit to him on that matter, if it doesn't greatly negatively impact your life or morals. If it is talk to him and tell him why this matter is so important to you.\n\nOr talk to him in a calm and rational matter (no screaming) and come upon a decision and understanding that both of you are comfortable with. If no decision or understanding can be reached, seriously consider leaving the relationship.
1001344
LEAVE HIM!!!!  I HAD ONE OF THOSE .. DIDNT LEAVE HIM WHEN I SHOULD OF AND NOW HAVE A KID WITH HIM...\n\n\nIT ONLY GETS WORSE.... TRUST ME..... AND YOU KNOW WE DISERVE BETTER.. THERE REALLY IS MEN OUT THERE WILLING TO SPENT THERE LAST PENNY ON YOU RATHER THEN ON THEM SELF...\n\nIF YOU CONSIDERE THIS A PROBLEM AND YOU ARE ONLY DATING HIM WAIT TILL REALITY HITS YOU WHEN YOU LIVE TOGETHER....\n\nYOU NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ...\nNOT A CHILD TO LOOK AFTER...
925508
You sound like high maintenance. Do him a huge favor and leave him so he doesnt have to deal with your constant insecurities.
57356
You have to realize that you and your child are not important to him and that he is an extraordinarily selfish person.  You must let him go.  No excuses.  No exceptions.  Be the victim or be the victor.  The choice is entirely yours.
701661
sit urself down and really give the matter some heart felt thought....... take the time to get it together...... YOU have a choice to make, so I think you better get busy...... it is NOT fair to your guy to be with him if you can not give him all that he deserves........ God bless
636241
Being selfish.  Maybe you oughta suggest an activity both of you can do.
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
204620
You don't need help, you need to dump him.  You don't need this loser in your life, you deserve better.  Kick him out of your life and find a man who will love and respect you.
396639
SOME MEN CAN BE VERY SELFISH FOR ONE. I THINK THAT THIS MIGHT BE A WAY FOR HIM TO TRY AND HURT YOU BECAUSE HE IS HURTING. WHEN WE ARE UNHAPPY WE WANT EVERYTHING WE KNOW OF TO BE THE SAME WAY. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD READ THE BIBLE TO GIVE YOU SOME PEACE OF MIND. PROVERB 3:5,6 SAYS---TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND LEAN NOT UNTO YOUR UNDERSTANDING,IN ALL YOUR WATS ACKNOWLEDGE HIM AND HE SHALL DIRECT YOUR PATH. REMEMBER THAT "GOD IS IN CONTROL"  BLESS YOU MUCH
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
1064463
You REALLY NEED to leave him...it is ABSOLUTLY the best thing to do.  In the long run you will be much better off!!!  You don't need to help him...he (at some point) needs to help himself and he may need to come to a very low point in his life for that to happen but that is usually what motivates people to change and get help.  Best to you!!!
392028
I know how you feel, I'm also married to an uncaring man.  It's really hard to be with a selfish person.  I'd say try to talk to him, but he may not be responsive.  If he loves you, he'll honor your request to talk about the way your lives is going.  If he doesn't, busy yourself with friends and hobbies.  Sometimes they make an about face when you're not at their beck and call.  But no matter what happens, be strong, you have you and your daughter to worry about.  Good Luck!
208568
Well before you do anything you need to get your life in order and become self sufficiant.  Because if you break it off now he might just leave you to fend for your self and you don't sound prepared for that.  Ultimately though, yes, you need to find a better relationship than this one.
1167007
I would have broken up with him by now. If he can't be bothered making an effort to be with you, he's just using you. Why should you be the only one willing to work on this relationship. It takes two. Get rid of him and wait for someone who will treat you right.
1128178
You're passive to the point of being submissive. Stop letting him make you feel bad by his actions. If his heart isn't in the relationship by being there for you in ways that will bring you happiness then my suggestion is for you to make sure he understand exactly what you need from him in order for the relationship to work. If you can't find common ground that creates an equal and mutual happiness then what's the true point of the relationship? To not make the effort to make you special day something to remember is about as selfish and self centered as I can imagine. You deserve better and I think you know this so make changes for you own happiness. If he won't take you out for your birthday then go out with friends and celebrate without him. If you don't have anyone to go out and celebrate with then let me know and I'll go party with you and I don't even know you but it's your birthday and that's reason enough.
906879
Gosh, I would be resentful too if I were in your situation.  Afterall, he is supposed to be your equal partner, not your dependent.