Girls, do you wish society would allow you to ask guys out and that you had the courage?
464613
I dont approach girls anymore\nESPICALLLYYYY if they do the whole walk past you and make sexy eye contact then walk like five extra steps and turn around to look at you.......\n\nI dont even look back anymore. I can tell when a girl finds me attractive and I think if she finds me attractive she should approach me.\n\nIm not about to turn around and start the conversation when she eyed me down ;op
449324
I had a guy I asked out in the 11th grade. Only time I ever did it and the only reason I did do it is because he had been writing me letters and giving them to my friends. :/ Anyways. When I asked him he said " Oh if you insist " and smiled at me and said he'd love too. Sometimes a little humour and straightforwardness is your best option. Good luck.
461171
Of course you should.  Because if you don't then you will always be thinking what if...  I used to be like you and thought about doing things and never actually doing them.  Now I look back and think what if.. but I actually changed and now I do things that I would have not done back then.  Also guys are sometimes shy especially if they like someone and sometimes they don't have the courage to ask a girl out especially if it a friend that they like.
799165
yes i agree with the other answer ask him or at the very least tell him where you stand,even thought the guy traditionally asks it is the new generation and some guys just dont know how.or also fear rejection..i hate asking people out its tough to know what to say and evryone isnt so easy about whether you sound""nerdy""or not good luck
697650
Because women have fought for equal rights and now it is accepted that girls make the first move rather than waiting around for the guy. And lets face it women want relationships more than men do. A girl has to be pretty special for me to ask her out on a date but I get asked out or hit on a lot by girls I may flirt back and be attracted to them but to go out I've got to be the one to ask. I suppose I'm old fashioned like that.
19148
Good-looking women get asked out by a lot of guys, those who are superficial and those who are nice.  So I guess a smaller percentage of the total guys who ask you out are the nice ones, so you have to work harder to sort them out of the crowd.
1041418
I have been a guy since i can remember  and when a girl asked me out I always was very impressed that she was asking me and not me asking her .  For a guy just that is most of the battle Ask very directly like hello hey I would like to know if you would enjoy a nice dinner together or whatever you prefered be blunt with men we dont like the flimsy ones.
992706
some guys that are shy are the best guys to date. personally i would love it for a shy guy to ask me out
424782
Women take a bigger social risk when asking men out, because women who do so can be percieved as too easy, or overly aggressive. Also, many men find the necessity to pursue a big element in attraction, so women who don't require pursuit can be less interesting to them.\n\nIf you want women to ask you out, you need to act in ways that encourage it. Be sure to notice and reward any signs of women flirting with you, and don't be the guy who makes women feel bad for making advances. And remember that what you do to one woman in your circle of friends will tend to be known to all women in that circle, so protect your reputation!
550324
most girl are afraid of rejection just like most guys. that or they are just shy.
254166
Some guys will,but others are too "shy" to do so. They are afraid of rejection or seeming weak because they admitted their feelings. It makes them vulnerable and they don't like it.
1153010
Yes, I think it time women took control of the Equal Rights. AND, remember, when you ask us out you pay the way, and, you better respect us in the morning! ;-D
31253
Confidence is sexy - you arent going to get his attention without approaching him, so take a deep breath, think about what you are going to say, and go for it. Guys love it when a girl has the guts to ask him out.
878008
Rejection is part of life.  If you are that afraid of it, then you shouldn't be asking girls out on dates.
289421
I know I'm being a little traditional here, but no, I don't think you should ask him out. That's his job and all you have to do is give him some hints and maybe talk to his friends so he can get the courage to ask you out. Nobody likes rejection, but in life everyone has to learn to overcome it.
951696
Most certainly is not.  We are in the new millennium now not back in the 1600's, so anything is pretty doable today.  Actually a lot of guys nowadays are too shy or feel awkward to ask young ladies out because they are just as afraid of rejection as the young lasses.  So my advice is for you to go for it.
1101731
This is the 21st Century ... should be Equal Opportunities time. There really isn't any reason why a girl shouldn't ask a guy out :)