To girls, who are so much and truly in love with a guy who can't help but text other girls.?
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Find someone else who will deserve my love and affection. I won't accept any other relationship that he has whether it is a fling or a serious thing or a one-night thing!\n\nHow will I deal with it? Ditch him and find another.
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It seems that you two don't see your relationship on the same level. You're looking for some sort of attachment, or commitment maybe, and he's just looking for...fun. \nMy advice is to talk to him and try to get him on the same level, or at least let him know that you aren't on the same levels.\nBecause as of now, it seems to me that he's using you when he doesn't feel like going to other girls. \nUnless you really want to take that, I suggest you talk to him and tell him how you feel about him for one, and tell him how you feel about him going to other girls when you love him and he loves you.\nBest of luck.\nCommunication is the key.
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ok what this sounds like to me is that this guy is a real selfish jerk! When you really like someone you are never too busy for them. Think about it this way, he cant be so busy that he cant take at least 10 minutes out of his day to give you a call and say hi or 1 minute to send you a textmsg. Busy is a lousy excuse.I mean when you really like someone im sure you're never "too busy" to think about them. If he thinks about you so much he wont wait a week to call you. Stop trying to figure him out you're only gonna be wasting your time. You deserve so much better than a jerk who is supposedly "too" busy!
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Great I found you because I'm in similar position... So in love with a guy but didn't know what to do. So lonely and wish he knew how I feel but still fear what will happen if he does know\n\nIt really depends on what the girl believes in. She may be really straight forward and express her love to you. OR, she may be like me, who believes that the guy shall make the first move, and she'll drop hints hopefully you'll pick them up and start confessing your love to her like Romeo to Juliet\n\nAin't it a beautiful dream come true?\n\nReady to do anything, that's really sweet... Stick to it then... And decide what you should do, and fast! The love boat doesn't travel to your shore all the time, get it on before you miss it... good luck!
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hehe it's either that ur bestfriend is a blabber mouth and says everything u say to everyone.. or people can know that ur in love with this guy from ur reactions when he's around!
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We can't handle it at all. We fall so quick that all we want to do is be with that person and talk to that person 24/7. The only way i see it is keep doing your own stuff when you were single and let him come to you. Us girls are always chasing the guys asses let them chase us for once
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yup, i'm in the same position except i'm the girl and my guy friend is just like you. \n\nso...it's not reciprocated? well, i suggest you get out and meet other girls. that's what i want my guy friend to do but he seems to be into me much more. and i know it's not good for him-i love him as a friend, only. \n\nit sounds harsh, but you might have to spend some tim,e away from her...get out into the dating scene. clubs bars etc if you're into that kind of thing. if she has any heart she will encourage you to do the same.
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I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
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If you guys talk on the phone than you should deffinantly call him and tell him how you feel. If this is to much fot you then just E-mail him, what are his friends going to do?
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Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
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Hi/There.\nWell! My Friend !\nYou are simply in Love With this Girl !\nYou should find some time , as difficult as this may Be to talk to her !\n( Where there is a will. There is a WAY !)\nIf You tell her Your Feelings ! I am sure She will be very Flattered !\nIf Not ! ( what have You lost !)\nMaybe a little self Respect ? NO BIG DEAL !\nAll ways a NEXT TIME !\nGood Luck Bro !\nRegards Nick.
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This is actually something I'm struggling with right now.  I totally love my girlfriend with my whole heart, but it's just my rebellious nature to look for "excitement" outside of her.  I catch myself trying to impress other girls, and sometimes lusting after them.  Realistically, though, there's nothing more exciting than being in a totally committed, loving relationship, and we guys don't know what we're really blessed with when looking elsewhere.
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WOW.  I feel that same way right about a girl.  I never told her though.  Now I regret that and am trying to contact her.  I think about her constantly.  She meant so much to me and I wish she would know that.  She is smart, nice, caring, and so beautiful.  She is my dream girl in reality.  Seriously.  We didn't talk that much (I'm kinda shy) but when we did, they were unforgettable.  I can tell you exactly what she said each conversation.  I like her so much.  I've had girlfriends, but she is totally different.  I really want to go out with her.  I gotta find her.  Well that's my story.  Hope you like it.
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wow small world i tell you. i love my bf and he loves me and would do anything for me as far as i know.hes ina different state and hes movin back in a few months. theres this guy that keeps hittin on me tho. honestly theres nothing you can do about it you need to talk to the gurl and have her talk to him about if she truly loves you she will handle it the way she feels it should be handled.thats all i can say i hope everything works out for you guys
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Dont you just hate that!! It happens-your definately not alone. Guess its just the way they show how they feel so they dont risk rejection! Play along a little and at some point ask him-when you hang out with your friends if he wants to be treated like one of the girls?
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u need to tell ya b/f whats going on as far as her calling your phone. tell him how u truely feel about it. and have him tell her  to stop trying to pull you guys apart if he really loves you
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So, maybe you get on better with men than women. You know you don't want to date these guys. Your boyfriend feels that you are comparing and analysing his behaviour with these other guys. Because they are guys. Sure, the reality is that if you ever told them anything personal, they would hang up on you, too much information, don't want to hear this! But he doesn't know that.\n\nI don't know you, but I do know incredibly loyal women who still miss one guy they really loved, and who have male friends but would not dream of marrying or living with them. Their male friends don't want to get married but fancy them, and love their company & texts & email - it's enough for them. Is that all you want? \n\nThe women feel totally safer having an escort to scare off other men, because they really don't want another date to become a boyfriend.\n\nAnd one woman I don't know well, but have known for five years, giggles to me every time I see her that she is Flattered that her exes still text her and want to stay in touch. If they meet her, she ignores them. She tells me that this is because they don't earn more than £50k a year... \n\nYour boyfriend might think you are like her. He does know that your other male friends fancy you still, and are competing with him. It's between him and them - until he seriously proposes that your relationship is strong enough to survive living together or marrying. But who would do that if one person is going to be such a girlie that she texts all your shared secrets to his rivals? He's assuming that you don't tell your Mom or sisters everything about him. He's assuming that he can be himself with you. But he has no right to tell you how to communicate, or who to communicate with. \n\nAll the same, if he could talk to you, which he can't, because he thinks you are a total gossip, what would he ask you?\n \nWhat do you think he says about you to his exes? Maybe he doesn't keep in contact with them, because he's with you. \n\nMaybe you are going to text an ex and ask if this is true. \n\nMaybe you need to write off those two years; or ask him out for a meal and seriously talk about the next few years. When I say ask him out, I mean that you should make it clear that you are paying for this - for both of you - in a good place - where your exes don't work - out of town - and stay over. \n\nWhen you are eating, you should listen to what he has to say. Talking doesn't count. You should also switch off your cellphone and put it aside on the table, and be obvious about that. \n\nIf he has nothing to say, listen until he does. It might be worth hearing. If not, not, but what's one night of your life as against several years of playing one guy off against another?