Was it a good i idea to give my ex-fiance' another chance?
460876
This is a very difficult question to answer  because not enough details were given.  If your ex-fiancee was abusive to you in any way, physically, verbally or emotionally, then he does not deserve a second chance.  Relationships with this kind of man are usually a never ending cycle of abuse, apology, promise to never do again.  It only gets worse.  Anything else should depend on your feelings about \nhim.  Is this something you can forgive and forget?  The "forget" part is important as you should not bring it up again or hold it over his head forever.  Is this something you feel he regrets having done or do you feel that he will do it again?  There are many things to take into consideration when giving someone another chance.  Just don't rush into anything.
779883
maybe or maynot be! it all depends on that  love life story .if ur\n true and honest ,you will deserve to get your luck back.
437904
A lot depends on what broke it up in the first place. If it was infidelity, then no it will never work out. If it was a difference of opinion, probably so. If it was a petty little something, try again....It might work the 2nd time around. Good Luck!
1017312
You know what they say about Opportunity not knocking twice, well now it did. You should first ask yourself, “Am I still in love with this guy?” and “Given the current situation of my life and his life, are we still compatible?” If you can answer these clearly, that you’ve forgiven him and that you understand why he dumped you in the first place, then by all means, go for it. If not, if things are still unclear, it still wouldn’t hurt to get in touch with him again. After all, you were best friends.\n\nGod would not give you situations you cannot handle, and if in this new process you get hurt again, or if things go wrong, then at least you can say to yourself that you’ve loved and lost, and join the millions of people out there who are so sick of love songs. But that is being pessimistic.\n\nIf we all become wise guys and say you can’t do this and you shouldn’t do that, then you would just become paranoid because there would be a gazillion rules on love and not getting hurt. If there was a specific rule to follow so that you won’t get hurt again, then why are there countless heartbroken people, and countless heartbreaking songs?\n\nThe bottom line is, even though you are one who would like things to become safe, perfect and happy, you should not hold yourself from things that you know would affect your life in a profound, meaningful way. You should ask yourself every now and then… “Why not?”\n\nIf things go wrong, this time, you can say your goodbyes, learn from it, and move on.\n\nIf things go right, then you just did what God wanted you to do. After all, when you feel that you are happy with what you did, it was meant to be.
149813
It's possible he gained some experience. If you  believe he's worth another shot, then do so. Otherwise, let him grind at the thought of having messed up what could have been the best thing of his life.
881408
the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
788937
That all depends!  I would be too hurt and mad to even consider it right away.  You sound like you know what you want to do.  We have our own opinion so I say follow your heart.  If you do give it another try and it happens again, then by all mean do not do it again.
288914
Regrets wouldn't do any good. What's done is done. The past is past. Get on and leave her behind.\n\nAttagirl!
1169280
I would say it all depends on the situation. Since you all have so much history and two beautiful daughters, I would think it'd be better to get back together, but that may just be me. Don't do what people on here say, just take the advice and build off of it. Maybe he got scared for some reason and pulled out of the relationship because he didn't know what to do. If you love him and you know he loves you, then I would give it a second chance. If it was meant to be, it will be. I know that's probably the worst advice line I could give you, but I've found out that it is pretty true. No matter what happens, I promise you both will be okay. Good luck and follow your heart.\n~Grace
121104
Go for it... You already missed one chance... You don't get a second chance everyday!!!
896672
find out y? If it is something you did and you really love her then straighten yourself up and ask for another chance.
39203
think long and hard about why you two split up to begin with. if you feel like you have both changed and can make it work this time, give it a shot. \nare there children involved? if so be VERY careful not to get there hopes back up if things wont work out again.
132566
i think its okay if you're okay with it. do you want to go back to your ex?  if so, talk to him about it first. commmunication is key.
663540
Oh my goodness im not sure what u should do....do what your heart says hope this was a lesson was to you and dont try it again for your own good good luck with your decision
223342
NO, ONCE AN EX ALWAYS AN EX! TAKE IT FROM EXPERIENCE TRIED THIS TO MANY TIMES IN THE PAST. IT NEVER WORKS OUT. HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
1021965
Personally, I wouldn't. Just based on my own experiences.\n\nI had an ex similar to yours, broke up for similar reasons, and he wasn't interested in getting back together until there was another guy in my life. He (years later) admitted to me that he always assumed he could have me back whenever he wanted me, when he decided it was convenient for HIS life! \n\nBut I wasn't willing to put MY life on hold until he got around to feeling like being a decent boyfriend.\n\nThank goodness I didn't. I moved on, dated other people, and eventually met and married my husband who was worth suffering every guy who came before him!\n\nIf you haven't really considered being with him again before now, my advice is, don't.\nIt's not 5 years wasted if you don't go back, it's 5 years of a lesson learned - don't unlearn it!
872422
Sounds like you are having second thoughts about giving him a second chance.  Not only did he break the trust in your relationship, but he did a little shattering of your confidence too.  You can't let anyone shatter your confidence, so if this is torturing you and making you think thoughts that are killing you, then it may be something you need to let go of.  When you forgive someone that means letting go of all the hurt and moving on to the next step and it seems like something that you are not able to do.  If you love him and you think that he is heartily sorry for what he did, then let it go and move on with your relationship.  If not, then you need to let him go and do whatever he has to do and you go do what you have to do.  It sounds like you still think he is misleading the both of you and you can't live like that!  It will kill you!  Make that decision on your own, don't wait for it to backfire.  Usually your first mind is your right mind. You are more important than anything.  I was in a situation like that once and it didn't work out for the good, not saying that is the case with your situation, but you should always go with your first mind. I know it will be hard, but it will work out better in the long run.