Would you be willing to change for a girlfriend ?
474545
Well........if smoking is that important to you and she doesn't like it, what is there to say?  Obviously "opposites don't attract" in this scenario.  Not that smoking any kind of substance is good for you but I'd say you will quit when you are ready (if you ever reach that point) OR you will meet someone that will be along for the "toke" with you.
1002348
no I would not, it depend on what's inside. not what or is not on the outside. just be yourself.
855503
Yea sure, sounds like it would be fun. But I would make her give me the one she has on!
47998
You probably need to find out if she is interested in changing the relationship.  If she has no desire to change the relationship, then you would be wasting your time.
489308
Honestly? Yes! All things change. People change. Relationships change. Change is constant in all our lives. The real questions are who’s actively doing the changing? \nTo whom and what? And why? And in which direction? And what do you want to change?\n\nA relationship is between people. To change a relationship you have to change the people. The best place to start is with your-self.\n\nYou cannot simply expect the other to change - and they are going to resist your pressure to force them to anyway. But if YOU change, your partner and your relationship automatically have to follow.\n\nYou were once a baby. You changed. You became a young child. You changed again to a teenager. And again, you changed into a grown-up. \n\nDidn't you? Every time you changed, everyone around you did too and so did your relationships with them. People have a head start on life - changes. They are largely built- in until about twenty years old. \n\nThings happen fairly automatically and are largely to do with our bodies and minds simply growing and developing. And after twenty? Well\n\nWhen we are adults people change when they are thoroughly fed up with banging their head against the same old wall. They change when they cannot stand the boredom of continuing the way they are. They change when they find out, again, what they once and always knew - that they have Choice. that they Can!\n\nChange happens for all three reasons every day but some changes are good, some are bad, and a few are well - just neutral. \nWe need to learn how to be consciously aware of our own change process instead of remaining unaware and letting them just "happen to us", for good, bad or worse.
159714
If she's already dating you, it shouldn't be something you should feel obligated to do (she already likes you enough to date you). You could still buy some as a special gift, maybe a "hey honey, tonight I'm your fantasy! grrrr!" lol. Ask her what else she likes, incorperate. But no, you should't just change yourself cause she likes it. Be yourself.
479662
don't do it if you don't wanna, it'll just seem a bit fake. I'm sure you do plenty for her anyway or she wouldn't be your girlfriend! just be yourself.
189944
I think I'd make myself even more willing to accept changes in my life when they were logical, practical and oftentimes necessary. It may be a stereotype, but sometimes I get the feeling that women don't accept change in their lives quite as well as men. In particular, I'm thinking of my wife! But actually that balances out our marriage quite well, because I'm always looking for new ideas to make things go easier in life, and sometimes I jump on the latest fad a little too quickly without trying it out a little first. She is more conservative and wants to wait longer before agreeing to make a change in our lives.
853960
Yes, but if you change the head shape a little bit to heart and eyes to a bit rounder it would be more like a female, but do not be offended i am just suggesting. Looks don't matter, but your heart does.
838078
tell her to change...its your b'day!
1030111
I wouldnt change anything...you live and learn....everything that has happened to me has gotten me to where i am today....dont get me wrong, alot of bad things have happened...but i look at it as if i wouldnt go through it i wouldnt have my beautiful baby girl that i love more than anything in the world....
100867
Ouch. Kudos to you on doing what you said you would, but for her it might be too little, too late. She needs to know that you will do what you say even when she isnt threatening you. Is there anything else about you that you know bugs her? Make an effort to change that too. She feels like you dont care enough about her to change, but you are doing the best you can now.\nLevel with her, tell her that you didnt change before but that now that you know how life is without her that you want to be just the man she needs.
1001075
you cant change a girl let her act the way she truely feels and except her for who she really is
509240
yah, you cant change a person.  Just find a nice polite way to tell her what she is doing and see if she realizes it or not.  She wont change if she doesnt think it is a bad thing. But.. if she sees the issue as a problem she will be willing to work on it. Good luck
312416
to what are you changing?
163458
that sounded so nice.. if Im your woman I will feel honoured. The thing is, have you promised her before that you will change? have you shown your intentions? you may not be saying it but once you do your act, then that will tell her that you have changed. do the things she wants you to do even if it sounded new to you. It is when you're doing things out of the way to prove your sincerity that a woman will try to re-consider closing her doors on you. Write her a letter perhaps. write down the lines you remembered her saying to you. write down all your good memories. and thank her for being there and love her ... \nJUST LOVE HER.. and read the bible- for love is patient and Love is kind... again, JUST continue loving her
1072098
At this point - I think you should be much more interested in figuring out which one them wouldn't love you as much if your physical appearance were to change.  It could very well be the one that you're so hot over.  And if it is, she isn't worth having!!!