Why get offened if your b/f noticed before you did??
461877
She was just embarrassed, and it's easier to get mad at you rather than saying I'm sorry for making you have to smell / and/or touch that.
239203
There's no way for this to not be a two-part answer. Firstly, he's right in that it is human nature for males to notice other females *and* for females to notice other males - it's just an animalistic, survival thing.\n\nHOWEVER, it is *exceptionally* disrespectful toward you for him to admit being aroused by looking at other women, or to blatantly look at other women (especially when in your presence.) It is not at all unrealistic of you to be upset by his behavior and ask him to tone it down. He should care enough about your feelings that he won't want to intentionally hurt you by keeping it up.\n\nIf you explain that it hurts your feelings (and probably your self-esteem) when he behaves this way, ask him to be more discreet, and he *still* doesn't bother, it may be time to look into counseling. This is obviously his hang-up, and he may need help to see the effect that his behavior is having on your relationship. Good luck.
597556
You should just respect his decision instead of thinking that this is just a challenge for you.  Some people really do just want to be left alone!  It may be he that he came out of a bad relationship & is trying to get over it, or he may not be at all interested in you & is just trying to be polite.  If you harass him about it, he'll just get annoyed.  Leave it alone.
695119
Sounds like he may be very unconfident in himself, making sure your not sneaking around behind his back, some men are just naturally like that, may not be obbsession could just be jealousy, and hes worried about losing you.
1073581
If I came home and my husband had all that done I would definitely suspect that something happened in the 2 weeks you were gone and I would start investigating what happened and who it happened with. Is he hanging out with a new group of friends? Were you gone for a separation or something else? This is definitely strange behavior if he is doing all of this just all of a sudden out of the blue. Not only would I be shocked, I would be curious and a little mad, too. Why didn't he wait to include you in on these events if he wanted them done? I would find out who went with him when he had them done. He would not have had to shave everything to get piercings either, only the areas around the place the piercings were being done for hygiene reasons. Time to play private eye and find out what all happened when you were away. Good luck!!!!!!!!
127514
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
416192
I would guess it wasn't really all of the sudden, something happened, maybe it just happened somewhere else. You can't control it or change it so i'd stop calling them my girlfriend or boyfriend and move on...who needs that crap?
896507
Yes I say this for two reasons, 1. because it will show your gf    that you really care for her and are not ashamed of it. 2. because you really shouldn't care what other people think. just be comfortable with yourself
777233
Most of the time when someone gets that defensive, it means they are guilty of something.  Now, he may not be...especially if you (or maybe an ex girlfriend) are very jealous and always make those type of accusations.  But if all you did what innocently ask about them and he blew up about it...I'd be suspicious.
96288
Yes I do and I'm happy to hear you say that you take measures to make sure that you look decent in public. Do you really want all that unwanted attention? I think your guy is being an a.s.s.**** to ask that of you, it only serves his purpose not yours. You keep doing what makes you feel comfortable, that's what matters.
627761
That depends on why you are checking them out.\n\nIs it to get a boyfriend/girlfriend jealous - dumb reason, but then make it obvious\n\nDo you want to spark their interest and hope they come talk to you?  Make it obvious\n\nIf you are just curious about them, but aren't wanting to connect - then don't let on....at least for now...until you can determine if you want to learn more about them.\n\nI would think the only reason one would do it under disguise (as you say) would be that they are shy or not confident enough to deal with the interaction.  OR they are flirting with the concept of cheating....\nI say, just make it known and see what happens next....\nlife is an adventure!
299252
Why would you do that?  That's a pretty cruel thing to do to the girl you've been dating.  I know I'd be hurt.  I'd feel like you didn't want to be seen with me.  Either cancel with your formal date, or expect your dating relationship to end pretty abruptly.
649076
Be your self. If he doesn't notice you for who you are maybe it wasn't meant to be.
272819
You shouldn't be worried about your bf flirting unless he has or you expect him to be cheating on you. Many people flirt with others to know that they are still desired. He knows that you find him attractive because you're with him, he wants to make sure other people find him attractive. It is fine to feel insecure when he flirts but, don't let jealousy get the best of you. It might push him away. If it really gets to be a problem for you then you should talk to him about it.
138681
Your jealous because you love him and you are worried about anything happening. I never used to be jealous and now I catch myself getting that way when he talks about going to strip clubs and things like that. If there is trust then that is all you need besides love. If there is no trust to begin with then the relationship has nothing. Dont worry but show him you care.
82772
Why you suspect? Enjoy each and every moment when you are with your b/f.Thank him for turning off( it means you are the most important person )  his cell phone.If he cheats you can easily understand by his face reading and behaviour.
1134251
You should be open and honest with your b/f about what happened on your vacation.  Just tell him that you will never see the other guy again and you were caught up in the moment.  While he may not completely understand, I am sure that he will forgive you.\n\nHis shyness could be from him liking you so much.  When he is not with you, it allows him to open up more, but when he is looking at you, he gets tongue-tied and does not want to upset you in any way.  Just give him some more time and I am sure that he will open up to you, even in person.