How do I let go of the other guy?  I still love him and says he will always love me.?
461999
Go get him....do not wait another minute...do not stay married for the kids, go get him, NOW.
692481
u may love him but not truely love him, it's called attactment..\nu just have no where else to go and only stick to him..\nbest to get yo mind off him and hang around other people and later on find another person to be in love wit who can treat u much better...
333806
i understand your situation, maybe he just wants to go away? let him go.You cant hold on to a person for too long.He's told u it hurts, and you say you love him.So why keep hurting him?If both of u'll think it should end or has ended ,let it be amicable.Healing will take time , but it will happen
414570
Get over it and move on.  If your contemplating what your life would have been if you had gotten serious, how much do you love the one your with now?\n\nMove on and focus on the relationship you're in now.  Keeping that friendship alive with that friend will only complicate matters in any relationship you choose to open up.\n\nLeave the other guy alone hes probably still getting over how far he fell in love with you.  He may or may not come around again but leave that up to him.\n\nIf you knew it was a good thing and he would do anything for you, was it vanity, attractiveness or simply incompatability that prohibited you from seeing exactly what he was all about?
1067341
you leave him and move on. if you continue he will destroy your self esteem and it will be harder for you to leave him in the future.
552676
Weigh things over then talk to him personally. Don't let your feelings to rule over you. Did he say he loves you? If not, forget him. You'll get over with him. Look for someone else you deserve. Someone who will take care of you and will never hurt you..
1164954
girl, if this guy is the one that has your heart...then you need to honest to the one you're living with. How would you feel if he was the one that wanted to go with some other girl? It's gonna hurt...when you tell him, but you need to honest with him & yourself. There's no easy way to break it to him, without it hurting.\nWhy do live with a guy that you're not in love with? That must be difficult. Best wishes.
463790
Find someone else who will deserve my love and affection. I won't accept any other relationship that he has whether it is a fling or a serious thing or a one-night thing!\n\nHow will I deal with it? Ditch him and find another.
302684
Honey, I know it is hard, but just let him go if it is not meant to be it won't be.  And you can't expect to remain friends with him at least not at this point when it is so fresh in your mind.  Just stop and  my best advise is stay busy  busy busy  .  Did you ever here the old saying if you love someone set them free.?????  Set him free if it's meant to be it will all work out   Good Luck and Have Faith
99028
I'm in that same situation myself.  I have yet to find a way to let the other guy down easily.  I just keep putting it off in hopes that he will get the idea.  I care about both of them, but one  of them has my heart.  If you get a good answer to this question please let me know.  I need the advice myself.
1101672
Well, I was about to answer your last question and it sounds like you're not sure about what you want.  You have a new BF yet you still love the old one...this will not work out and not only will you continue to get hurt you will likely hurt the new BF as well.  You have to make a decision and stick to it: either let new BF go to try and pursue old one, OR move on and learn to live without old BF...good luck.
1018192
yeah the first answer is correct. let time heal and if yuo still love each other i guess it's worth a try once more.\nbe honest and tell him you still love him and dont want to let go.\nwhatever his answers is. respect it. atleast you did your best and you tried lowering your pride. you wont lose anything for doing that. a more respect  for your self.
576502
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
665958
i know its very difficult bcoz i'm going thru a similar situation... but believe me, if u dont let go then its only u who'll suffer.. at this point of time my life is just like hell... but i knw one thing only u can do this, no other person can help u... so the best thing would b to stop thinking bout him n put yr mind in other things... make yrself so busy that u dont get the time to think bout him... n stop doing things that would remind u of him... if u dont make yrself strong, u'll not b able to get on with with yr life... so u gotta accept the situation n move on...
201962
Sorry to hear your angst ... I'm sure it's very hard and mixed up for you right now.\n\nBottom line girlfriend ... if you REALLY love your boyfriend, you'll forget about this lust you feel.  If you have the desire and feel you cannot accept not experiencing this other guy and getting it out of your system, then you have no other choice but to get out of your current relationship.  Otherwise, you're a cheater and a user.  You may not even know what could happen if that encounter were to happen, you may lose everything because it just wasn't everything you expected.\n\nGood luck in your choice, whatever it may be!!
474402
well every1 will say move on....you need better, but i have been there and its so hard to do.  Tell him how you feel.  and i know this is hard to do but....if you have any ANY dbts about him....leave because in the end he is sure to hurt you.
565262
Don't. There's a reason you broke up. It's hard letting go, but give it time, keep yourself busy, and eventually, you will move on and forget.