why do people i meet say that im so handsome and a hottie but i dont think so cos im not.?
466154
the way you see yourself and the way other people see you are always completely different for everyone. self esteem and confidence seem to be whats up with you and you can change how you feel about that,  with the right help, so go for it but remember its not what you look like but what you act like that really matters.
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princess we all go through these feelings. You are probably just as pretty Just as attractive as ever you were. Unfortunately a lot of guys assume that women who are very attractive are taken especially since they are slightly older than the silly little girls they used to chase. You are simply more confident more assertive than you once were, that doesn't mean you are any less desirable than the younger more slender ( in my opinion less seductive ) females you are comparing yourself to. They are girls Hun You are a beautiful seductive woman, not a silly kid anymore. personally i like the fuller more rounded and curvy body of a woman as opposed to the awkward skinny angular body of a girl. I assure you, you are every bit as desirable as you ever were and in my opinion probably more so, to men that is not boys.
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I think you are lovely looking.Wouldn't answer if I didn't think so.(what possible reason could I have for "just being nice" to a stranger?)\nWhy are you asking though? Are you depressed, do you think?Is there something underlying? It sounds like maybe....\nHope you work through it, if only the bit about accepting that you're really quite lovely.\nGood luck.
610651
I think that it is completely silly to ever assume that someone is too hot for you.  \n\nI used to be really dorky looking.  I got self esteem, some low cut shirts and pants that fit properly, a better haircut, and BOOM all of a sudden I'm being hit on left and right by all these "pretty people" who never looked at me twice before I got contacts.  And most of those people do not interest me in the slightest.  \n\nMost of the women and men I've dated have been told that I'm prettier then they are.  Not to sound like a raving ego maniac, but I mostly agree.  That is because I like PEOPLE who are well rounded and interesting, not just people who are hot.  \n\nSo anyone who has an interest in anyone should go for it, reguarless of how hot or not they feel they are.  Not every hot person is looking at looks only and plenty of not hot people are amazing and wonderful.
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"Hot" is as much a matter of your state of mind, bearing, and comportment as outward appearance.  In other words, how you feel about yourself and how you carry yourself goes a lot further toward making you attractive - or unattractive - as your physical appearance.  \n\nThat being said, I'd be a little leery of posting my picture on that site, as I'd probably be sensitive to any negative feedback . . .
468547
Maybe you're not good looking, but you are sexy! maybe your curves turn them on or your eyes.\nI understand it could be quite upsetting. Find a way to take advantage of it.
494376
we call someone hot who is attractive and who u cant get ur eyes off.... sometimes its just the attitude u need to be HOT....... :)
291074
i think im somewhat good looking--its not always about being vain, arrogant, or naive but its sometimes about confidence and acceptance of who you really are.
445851
It means you are attractive.
303198
i am intelligent, sweet, and educated...\ni dont know how humorous people find me...\ni am 17...\nas for beautiful and sexy, how would i know?\ndifferent people have different views on beauty...
842968
why on earth u think like that?????????\n\n\n\nyou will be absolutely brilliant if u trust urself ,,, be confident..  you will be assume if u convince urself that ur not ugly,, and that everyone likes u....\n\n*belive me.... when u ask any girl in the world by saying:\nwho would u choose to be with : a successful guy, but he is ugly,, or a hot guy but he is absolutely dumb and not successful...???,, I think most girls would prefer the successful guy.... \n\n\n(((((always think that the inner beauty is more important than the outer beauty))))  that is the most important thing TRUST ME!!!!\n\nlook,,, no one on this earth is PERFECT... give urself a chance.... and i promise u that you will be perfect...\n\nI mean who the hell are u talking with....they are humans just like u ( they have 2 eyes, one nose, two legs..etc) what is so special bout them!!!\n\nyou are number 1.......lol ;p\n\ngood luck anyways ;p
333388
You need to accept what you are and develop positive qualities.  Did you know that the image you project is directly related to how people respond to you?  If you are confident, people find you attractive because this is a desirable trait.  Change you attitude about yourself is an authentic manner, and people will respond.\n\nI have seen beautiful women and "hunky and handsome" men not get a date.  It's because of the insecurity and arrogance they portray.  Sexy is a state of mind.
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Let me say this way. u r very sweet coz u r the way u r & u recognize that fact. ugly .. beautiful etc r all relative words ...if a guy is fancy u ... u r blessed ... its immaterial how he looks like .i m happy u hv faith in urself ...... God bless
150367
wadda ya think?\nthey may like your "looks" good looks do attract, and/or who you are as a person!
964222
Maybe u just dated the wrong types of guys and couldnt see their true selves.  If u are as "hot" as u say u are then u will mostly attract the types of men tht want to use u.  I am sry u feel tht way about most men cause in all honesty most of us arent tht bad.
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u believe its u n i think its me coz everyone has a right to think that he/she is sexy. so keep smiling sexy!!
203954
You are totally wrong, I know I am very sexy, and I bet there are quite a few sexy ladies here besides me. I do have a life and many friends, do you, Are you ugly?