what do u think of a marriage between 22 years old girl and 19 years old boy?
456888
The girl is headed for a big potential heartbreak. Once he starts to feel trapped and starts cheating on her with many many many females.
130828
That does kinda look bad since he is like double her age, it depends really if they are from USA it gonna be bad cause of the laws, but europe it would be fine cause its legal, does this 16 year old girl know what she getting herself into? he is at the age where he started a career and hopefully wants wife and children while her age still at school and has so many years left and hasnt started to know what she wants. I think she seriously needs to think about it and I don't want to sound mean or nothing but a 30 year old guy not gonna get serious with a 16 year old sorry!
295629
If they Love eachother then nothing should come in between that.Age is just a number.
226697
It's fine. My friend has been with her bf for 3.5 years, since she was 18 and he was 26. They're very happy together. But it all depends on the person.
424691
so long that it's legal!!!! i know a couple that have a diff of 22 years!!!! love is blind.
167212
I think in the U.S the current age is 26 for females and 27 for males ( first marriage that is)
1160266
Not at all. Forget about one year u can marry 20 years younger man. It is a matter of your choice. Most of Holy Prophet ( PBUH) wives were older than him. Allah ( God) gives u complete authority to choose your partner
911392
I think that you should get married if you really love him and you want to be with him for the rest of your life and the military life is hard but if your strong enough you can get through it. I'm 20 too and I'm married to someone in the military and it did not matter that I was only 19 when I got married. I know who I wanted to be with it and there was no point in me waiting until I was older.
1126632
I'm 19 now.. and I remember being both 13 and 16 very, very well, and what boys were like then, and I honestly have to say that at your age, that age difference is too much.  A lot of people say that that's too young to experience real love.  I don't agree with that, but at that age, it's definitely more of a selfish love, and it's not really healthy for long term relationships.  You're looking for something to fulfill yourself, not something to benefit the other person, whether you realize it or not, and once you start a relationship with those kinda wants and habits, it's really hard to break them.  And if you really love her, asking her to disobey her parents is in no way showing her love.  You guys will probably not end up getting married, but her parents will be her parents forever, and it's important that they have a good relationship.  And besides, even if you do end up getting married one day, you'll have your whole lives together, and waiting a couple years till her parents are okay with it is not gonna matter in the long run.  I understand how much this hurts, but try to think with your head and not your heart and you'll see the right thing to do.
180598
As long as you are both of leagal age. There is no problem with it!
129719
You are young yet, so I would wait until you reach the age of 18.  Are there any specific reasons why you would want to get married now?  Or do you both feel its the only way you can have any freedoms that your parents wont allow.
223030
Quite frankly they should wait to get married. This isn't because they aren't able to or aren't mature enough. It is because the pressures that come with a "marriage", even though it is just a piece of paper, could actually split them up. Encourage them to stay together. There is no reason that they can't. However, getting married at this age may not be the best thing for them.
256008
Well that definitely is a big age difference. Are they sure they are in love? If I were that girl and was truly in love with him, then yes i would get married because age doesn't matter when it comes to true love. What does her parents think?
448205
I have to say I don't disagree with it.  It says go with an 18 year old boy not have sex with.\n\nAnd an 18 year old boy could technically be in high school with this 15 year old.  Besides, the girl being younger has a lot to do with studies that indicate that women/ girls mature much faster then men.  So why shouldnt a younger girl try to be with someone more mature then a 15 year old boy.\n\nAs long as the morals are correct and the maturity is there, I would say its fine.
157527
You should not care about if it is too old if you truly love each other... what you should think is if the boys are yours: Is he/she good to them?, will she/he make a good, caring parent? If the boys are not yours: Are you committed enough to be the best parent to them.  Because young children did not asked to be involved, they are just in the middle. And if you both are truly in love the answer to the above are Yes!!. Be in love and be happy no matter what age!!!
135767
You need to make your father understand that love can come in any age, size, look,etc. If your father doesn't accept the two of you getting married, than in a way that's his own problem. Your 19 years old, legally grown, meaning that you can do what ever you want to do. Maybe he might see it differently when you turn 21, so if you love him that much just wait a couple of years when your father may see it differently.
435565
Yes its OK providing you are over the age of consent. There is nothing wrong with relationships between older men and younger women providing that both are old enough to consent to what they are doing. \n\nYou are probably not old enough to consent to a relationship so it cause problems. I would leave it until you are both old enough to enter a relationship legally. You or he may have found someone else and have moved on by then. If not, you might want to see how you feel about each other then.\n\nMy brother married a girl who was 13 years younger than him and they have three kids.\n\nBest wishes to you for the future.