im bothered by homoerotic anime how can i deal with it?
471795
Maybe you have some underlying gay tendencies that your trying to suppress. It bothers you because it is turning you on...
14156
First stop calling yourself Gay or Bi. Then stay away from gay people or at least from their organs. Do away with the gay mannerisms. Become who it is you want to be: A MAN! Your a man now and you want a woman to keep you warm. Go to the STRAIGHT bars. Buy a woman some drinks. Make sure she sees all that money in your wallet. If that doesn't work out, go to the next woman and so on. Think of it as training. You'll find the woman of your dreams and have fun finding her. Have fun. Be happy. Just don't be GAY! \n\nOh, and Tessa...Our sexuality is in our minds, not our genes. Because if it was in our genes, we'd find the gay gene and ERADICATE IT!
550021
Well well well. What have we here I dont think you are gay however you are on to something a cross dresser maybe? I blame your sister for it for dressing you up. You are also responsible however. What 8-9 year old boy lets himself play dress up. At that age girls were a no no. Qooties remember. I didn't think so. There is a Different point of view. You are at an age where you become sexually aroused by things. Not suggesting your sister thats incest and a very big no no. What you need is a girlfriend that has the bras and panties and wears tham and you get to see them. I think girls look alot better than guys in those at least to me a straight guy. I have no problem with gay people I just not wired that way and never will be. Stop doing it and get layed and become a man grow out of the dress up thing or keep it as a fettish. What ever floats your boat.
159701
Accept yourself for who you are just because the rest of the world may look down upon your sexual preferences doens't mean you have to. Trust me me once you accept it you'll bemuch happier, it'll be hard when you first come out it'll get better.
254044
Love, there are lots of clinics and programs that claim to "reform" homosexuals.  They don't really seem to work.  First don't go around dating the opposite sex and doing sexual things with them just to make yourself feel better.  Generally this makes you feel worse.  \n\nTake time out, think, reflect.  Don't force yourself to be heterosexual.  Don't force yourself to be anything.  Accept who and what you are reguardless.  Lables like "gay" and "Straight" do more harm than good.  If you can see beyond gender (the way alot of people can see beyond skin color, or ethnicity, or religion all the silly things that seperate us) Cheers to you.
430742
Uhhh...well, if you KNOW they are straight you need to leave it alone since you are attracted to them.  That could be a disaster waiting to happen, especially if you are a guy.\n\nIf you aren't sure, you could just compliment them on something they're wearing or their appearance or something to see how they react.  If they get tense, back off.  \n\nIt's fine to be who you are, but it's easy to offend someone who isn't homosexual by hitting on them.
828569
Dude, really try and get some help.  You clearly have issues that need attending to.  If you're gay or not, this silliness isnt healthy for you.  Not passing judgment, but clearly this is a cry for help.
1077852
Without wanting to start too much controversy, I do believe it is a mistake of nature, it goes against the very essence of any species, primal instinct forces us to try to propagate the species.  Homosexuality is in direct opposition of that, although I do encourage acceptance, as it is nobodies fault and they should be allowed to live there lives as normal people do.  I just wish they wouldn't be so IN YOUR FACE, "I'M A HOMO YOU BETTER LIKE IT,!!!"  I think by trying to be accepted they go too far and it's annoying.
605122
I can't help it, but I don't accept gayness either.  But I'd say, let anyone do what they want to do as long as it's away from me, I don't want to see it or hear about it.
31519
Some people with certain religious beliefs, or cultural attitudes will not like you because they feel it is wrong, or are disgusted and threatened by the idea. There is nothing you can do about that.  It's been my experience though (as a gay man) that if MANY people don't like you, as you stated, It's probably not because of your sexuality. You might want to look at other aspects of yourself as the problem.
963494
What the heck is "sounding gay"? You don't like being happy? Shame on you! We don't want to se you moping around all the time! You could always slide into a room in your socks and shout TaaDaaa!!!( works for me!)
972589
You should try everything once.  You might like it.  And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality.  Get over it, it won't make you gay.
1020989
don't fight it.  just be yourself and don't try to label it as "gay" or "straight".  you don't HAVE to be either, just be true to yourself - that's the only way you'll be truly happy with your relationships.\n\nkeep in mind that when being true to yourself and finding inner happiness, you will also come across ppl who don't understand and you'll have to deal with those ppl as they come, but remember; this is your life and you should do what brings you peace.
154591
First, ask yourself who owns this problem?  Why don't I want a sexual relationship with anyone?  If you like being without a sexual partner, then what's the problem?  Who cares if you look at smut?  That is your personal business?  Buy yourself some KY and take care of it, and if you need to keep watching, by all means do so.  It doesn't bother me a bit, as long you're not looking at minors.  The only person that has a problem with it, seems to be you.  So fix it
138374
Dude, you're just gay nothing to worry about. There are millions of gay people in this country. Accept who you are because you really can't change something as fundamental as your sexual orientation. Take pride in it and find some other gay people to be friends with and maybe more. good luck!!
1047511
just a tip really, not an answer. in all seriousness, a lot of 'wrestling' clubs that you may be able to join are full of homosexual men, so if you're straight and don't want homosexual men touching you up, then you have to find out if it's actually a proper wrestling club. (i know it sounds like i'm a homophobe, but i actually am not - i was reading this wrestling forum online once (by mistake!) and i just remembered reading that a lot of the fan-base was gay)
566007
THIS IS WHY RELIGION IS EVIL!!! THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HOMOSEXUAL FEELINGS AND ATTRACTIONS, PEOPLE IN GENERAL ARE BEAUTIFUL, IT IS OK TO BE ATTRACTED TO ANOTHER MAN OR WOMEN, THE IMPORTANT THING IS THAT YOU ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE, YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY UNTIL YOU DO!\n\nbut anyway get a sex change, then you don't have to worry about "the sin of a man being attracted to another man" then you'll be a women with and Adam's apple, large hands, and a deep voice that's attracted to men...\n\nBut in all honest i doubt your god cares if you're gay, he made you that way didn't he?