what's your biggest regret in a relationship?
455393
Honestly?  That I stayed too long.\n\nSometimes when things are not going so well, you keep trying, whether you try by getting angry and making a fool out of yourself, or you try by lieing to keep the other person happy, meaning rather than tell the guy or gal that this is really how you feel about something, you lie to appease them.  We tend not to want to end something we couldn't conquer.  \nWhen its time to leave, its time to leave and staying around when it just isn't cutting it any longer is a foolish thing to do all the way around.  That's my only regret.
1064582
First I want everyone to know that this was a long time ago and I changed myself drastically because of this screw up. I slept with my best friends crush the night of their first date. I regretted it instantly but decided to keep it to myself and no harm would have came from it, but someone found out and my best friend and I, well.....lets just say were not friends anymore.
1184209
My biggest regret is not appreciating what I had when I had it. I am now 26 years old, and I look back and think what a selfish person I was..I didn't appreciate the special people around me, that my parents were together, that I was so beautiful, what my parents did for me, moms home cooked meals. Once you get into the real world and all your highschool friends are gone...you have to start school or a job and start on your own. You realize a lot about yourself, and I learned to appreciate things so much more. I use to say  I was so fat all the time..now I'd kill to look likr that. I took for granted all my friends and even family. I've worked as a cna and have seen people in their last years of life, it's very sad. I've had people very close to me die (young people). I've realized the value of money and how hard it is to stay motivated to reach career goals. All and all I regret not appreciating and taking in the easier days, now I appreciate everyday like it was my last. Always tell people you love them...it may be the last time we see them. Tommorow is a mystery, yesterday is history, today is a gift. Do something good to better yourself daily, and always treat those around you with respect and love.
706822
Think about this. In 10 years from now, will you regret not getting to know her and doing things with her?\n\nI know I can say yes I have regrets due to ignoring my feelings about certain people and letting them slip away.
413362
I put my boyfriend on a plane yesterday after he spent two weeks with me and I miss him terribly.  \n\nI cried like a little kid all day yesterday which is something I never do.
1113393
Continue with this relationship and see if it gets better.\n\nI wish you love\nstw
1009516
it's better to regret something you've done..then to regret something you haven't done...\n\ndo you want to say "what if" all your life!!!!
1058335
After recently divorcing from a 16 yr marriage, I went on my first date. It was terrible. He was the worst kisser ever. Now granted, I hadn't kissed another man in over 16 years but I honestly felt like my face was being pecked to death by a chicken! LOL\nI couldn't wait for that date to be OVER!!!!
1144636
I know they say "don't regret any thing you've done", but I kinda do.  I regret having sex when I was 15.  I was a good girl, went to school every day, was always on honer roll.  Had a job and a car.  I was very good.  Until I had this boyfriend that convinced me (after 2 years of dating him) that we should have sex.  So one day I did and I ended up pregnant!  Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love my child that came from it (she is 6 now) but It ended my days of school and work and my parents were so disappointed with me.  Not to mention I was disappointed a lot.  Then the dad took of to another state and left me here to deal with it by myself.  If I didn't have sex, then I would of graduated with good grades and went to collage!  But I still have a great life now, I just would of had more options if I would of thought things out.
522396
Dpends on what you have done , i messed up at the start of my relationship but 2 and a half years later we are planning our wedding and we couldnt be happier , some things are repairable and some things arent , if you feel enough for eachother , itll work out.
388824
That I loved my ex.  I was young and got pregnant....I didn't love him, but I was scared and allowed myself to be pushed into *gulp*......\n\n.....marriage...by my mom and my ex himself.  If I had have been honest in the first place, we all would have been happier in the end, because (obviously) we got a divorce after a year of marriage.\nThe marriage ended in anger, which we've thankfully moved past, but I always kick myself when I remember what I did. He deserved better than that, and so did I.\nAt least we got a wonderful daughter out of it. The thing about lies is that they only get worse as time goes on. No matter how well you've convinced yourself....
388353
i know it's tempting to hurt him like that, but you will regret it in the future. just tell him you're leaving him and don't go into details.
73759
In the beginning I did.  I ate, slept and breathed pain. and it was even harder because I thought he was my everything and he had me convinced that I was nothing without him.  As time has gone on, in the space of only a few months now, I've seen that person I was before I was married 7 years ago.  She's strong and loving and most of all...really wasn't as happy as she thought she was.  \n\nIt wasn't really regret.  It was a fear of change and starting over.  I may miss him sometimes...but I'll never regret our divorce OR our marriage.  I learned a lot from both.
659250
Nothing...Nodda...If I was unhappy with the relationship, I'd end it before I cheated
916982
i cheated once on my girlfriend when i was younger. I got caught and she was furious. I decided that it really isnt the best thing in the world and that it was stupid and immature to do. It was one of my biggest mistakes ever. I guess when you do it, you figure, your not going to get caught and that even if you do, whats the worst that could happen?
587586
well...recently...I ended up cheating on my last boyfriend because he disappeared for two weeks then came back and ignored me for a week and I didn't know what was going on so when an old friend of mine put the moves on me about 50 times within one sitting...saying "no" got to be to hard. I should have just left, but I was so upset...I don't know what I was thinking.
906991
i was 16. it was with an ex boyfriend. ugly had it in the cimeas. and i would take back my virginity. i would have love to lost it to my now partner. we are both 20. i was his first and i wish he was my first too. my ex boyfriend tries and makes out that we never met because of a bad past we had together. wish we only stayed friends and nothing else. my partner and i are in a very loving and happy relationship and nothing will ever change that.