i want my ex back please help i dont know where to start!?
466209
just sit him down and tell him.\nit makes it easier that u guys have been together recently, that means he too is willing to come back. tell him u love him so much and u think u guys are good together but u must also discuss the reason u split if not it may happen again. but try not to act too desperate, like ur world fell apart when u guys split cos that could turn him off, ok?\ndont act like it didnt happen, if he did it once and doesnt see why he shouldnt do it agian, u just might split again...\ni really want it to work out fine for u especially since he is the father of your kids...\ntell us how it goes... cheers!
1061664
if you really want him back go ahead and talk to him before its too late....if you don't you'll regret that too! It's completely your choice who you go out with so don't think that much about your parents.  Also when you talk to him, don't do it as "just a friend" be straight about your feelings...since you broke up with him, you should try to get him back cause he won't (men are too proud).  Good luck! =)
949702
there could be a lot of ways to show your ex that you want him back & that you still care about him..however, things happen for a reason & there should be a reason why he became your ex..sad to say, if things are not really meant to be, no matter what you do, no matter how you try, you can never win him back..so it would be better to just show you still care but if he doesn't care about you anymore, just move on & find someone who's more worth the efforts..Ü
168306
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)
65405
BOOOOYAAAAH... Something to wake you up...\n\n**Slap**\n\nGirl 1st of all why would you like to get back with him? Don't you smell a rat when it's near you? Imagine your story as a film... Would you advice a girl to get back with the man who wanted nothing but "SEX"? This may sound harsh and everything but good but if try and stay away from him then you might learn something... It wont be easy to stay away from someone you think you love... You want him back bcoz he got the best of you but if you look at the other side of this story it would be a blessing in disguise why coz you were able to learn as early as now that this guy is nothing but "1 bam thank you mam" type of guy... \n\nAlways remember this "ALL GUYS WOULD DO ANYTHING TO GET THOSE PANTIES OFF YOU" the only one who can control things is you...\n\nMy advice give it time and do something else than think of him as the "ONE"... \n\nIm sorry if I offended you in any manner... I have no intentions of doing so...\n\nHope I was able to help you out...
974030
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
973332
you should talk to him\ntell him that you are sorry, and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you want him back\nits better if you do this in person, trust me i have experience\nEVERYTHING goes alot better (even the relationship) when you do things in person
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
253917
My advice is don't pick up the phone when it's him calling.  He wants you back because he's lonely and he hasn't found anyone else yet.  It's hard to be lonely, I'm sure you felt like you wanted to get back with him when you first broke up, but if you are really over him and don't want to endure more weeks of fighting, just don't pick up the phone, so you can let go and so can he.
610541
I'm sorry about your breakup, I know things like this can be hard and no matter what people say, we always want things to come out the way we hope it does. \n\nBut it seems like, almost a year is going by, and no progress.  Do you realize that if you keep trying to get back with someone who doesn't want you, you may miss the one intended for you?  It seems like it's really over between the two of you, and maybe it's time to move on and spend some time recovering from your breakup.  Then get back into the dating field and see what happens.  \n\nI hope you find who you are looking for, because it isn't this other girl.  \n\nGood Luck!\n:)
896584
If you have feelings for him, and talking to him is hard because you get emotional, then you should stop talking to him (unless you both want to start back into a relationship - but because you broke up already, I'm guessing that's not the case.)\n\nYou sound like you need to widen your circle of friends.  Get out there! Keep yourself busy! Volounteer, play sports, take up a hobby with some friends, go to bars and make friends, go bowling, whatever!  The more friends you have, the more stuff you'll have to do, and the less time you'll have to dwell on / contact your ex.
1089366
Ditch them both...\n\nWhy would you want him back after this?
602548
Help you?? You need to remember theres a reason why hes your ex in the first place.
713166
No way man. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'll give you a link to go to and read why you shouldn't even be talking to her. If you want any chance of getting her back go no contact. Start dating other woman and let her find out. She'll come crawling back and saying everything you want to hear. Don't buy it. She just wants what she can't have and when she gets it BOOM you mean shyt to her again. There's a 1 in 100000 chance that says she wants you back for the right reasons. Move on. The damage is done. She's damaged goods and you'll never have as healthy relationship as you think. She may say she wants to see you happy in the long run and personally you'll be happier without her. She won't allow you to move on until she's stable in her own life. Don't let her mess with you. And don't even be her friend. Until you are totally over her. Nothing you say or do is going to get her back. I PROMISE. Good luck and find you a new woman. AT CHURCH
447588
try to get him back dear
112072
Ask yourself if why you want her back.  Ask yourself why you left.  Is it because you feel guilty?  Did you desire someone else and now that it is over you want her back?  Examine your love for this person.  If you truly love her then you will be concerned about hurting her again.  Maybe it is best that you don't go back.
1053662
Why did you break up in the first place? How long have you known each other? How long has it been since you broke up?  Do you want him back?  These are all questions you should be asking yourself.  Then perhaps you'll know if it's right for you to pursue him again or to just forget him and move on. :)