Does losing your virginity hurts?
463102
It depends. If you're nervous it could be hard to lubricate naturally, and the penis will force the entrance. Better use some lubricant, and prepare yourself, try to relax, and take your time... It's better if the other person doesn't rush 'into it'. Try some positions. If you're on top, you can control the penetration.
316564
your hymen often 'breaks' anyway, before any penetration.  Girls who lead active sporty lives, and do activities such as horse riding often break their hymens this way.\n  it may hurt the first time you have sex, it is up to you to make sure you are ready, and not tensed or uncomfortable, and up to your partner to be aware this is your first time and hopefully treat you accordingly
163983
OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
637490
Technically, you will be a virgin until a penis enters your vagina, and not phalic devices.  Toys might have similar effects but do no cause you to loose your virginity.  The loss of virginity is also discovering how to get it on with another person.
798120
virgin or not rape still hurts...physically and emotionally
1051403
READ: www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm\n It isn't that bad. It only hurts for a little bit. Ever heard the term "hurts so good?" If you just go slow and give her a minute to get past the initual shock of the pain and then continue she will be feeling more pleasure than pain.The\ntrick is not to stop completely before giving her pleasure or she may not want to do it again for a long while!
978232
your not a loser for being a virgin.  Machoism is over rated and normally held in high regards by idiots, morons, and ignorate people who just accept machoism as the one truth in life.  At most no sex can cause sexual frustration or even over whelming curiousity about how sex feels like.  I lost my virginity to a prositute not because I wanted to be a man.  But because my curiousity was driving me nuts.  I am also bit of a odd ball so I suggest to wait for a girl you like before losiing it.  It would probly feel better then my experience.  My experience only lead to my thinking whether meaning ful sex feels better then hollow sex.  If you dont want to be a virgin forever start dating.  If your having trouble with that read books on the subject.  Hopefully you will have better luck then me.  Well good luck
581753
A girl losing her virginity, in a cultural point of view, means the tearing of the hymen. Although its existence has been questioned lately by scientists, it is a small flap of skin (sort of like a membrane) that partially covers the vaginal opening. The normal hymen is never actually "intact" since there is always an opening in it. Furthermore, there is not always bleeding at first vaginal penetration. The blood that is sometimes, but not always, observed after first penetration can be due to tearing of the hymen, but it can also be from injury to nearby tissues. Post-injury, injuries to the hymen and surrounding tissues often quickly heal, leaving the hymenal tissue looking as if there had been no injury at all. Therefore, the appearance of the hymen is not a reliable indicator of virginity or chastity. So yes some girls do bleed but it is usually not for very long. If the bleeding does not stop and is in large quantities one needs to see the doctor quickly.
196047
Not necessarily. The hymen can be broken through everyday activities. The use of tampons can break the hymen also.  Most women do not bleed when virginity is lost.
894204
well sex can be painful for a virgin girl. because your vagina is not broad enogh and during sexual intercourse , the hymen breaks which might lead to some blood loss. first time sex can be painful for a girl
126592
Unless you're a gynecologist, you probably won't.\n\nActually, the hymen (which is supposed to signify virginity on a woman) can be broken before virginity is lost - so even thats not a guarantee.
1166791
Yes, losing your virginity means having sex with someone else.
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
647816
For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!
399335
If you've begun to use tampons before your first time, it won't hurt as much. Or if you've been fingered a lot it will not hurt that much, if at all. Plus, things like horseback-riding, bicycle-riding, etc. lower chances of extreme pain during sex. There's a thin layer if skin that gets brokn through the first time. That's what makes it painful; but what we don't realize is that it may already have been broken and we don't know it. That doesn't mean your virginity was lost though. BUT FOR A FIRST-TIMER, IF HE JUST RAMS IT IN, BELIEVE ME IT WILL BE UNPLEASANT.
1022683
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
463072
If you give away something special then your virginity is lost. Virginity is more than penetration.