do guys feel as strongly as girls do about there 1st loves even after 20 years?
465567
honestly id say no. guys arnt as connected with their feelings. even the most sensitive guys (like me) wont feel as strongly about his 1st love. i think it has to do with the fact that guys know there are more fish in the sea and girls see someone they like and they got to have him nomatter what. oh and it took me a while to get over my 1st love about 5-6 years but i dont think ill even remember her have 20 years
519719
Don't feel bad. some guys do. Some guys think older women are more machure and or/ know more about different things. Also, Many grow up faster then them around them and seem out of place. nothing wrong with liking an older women.
941192
hi monica...being a guy i can understand ur feelin...most often evn i have asked this question to my self...where hv d gud gurls gone...lemme answer ur quest first...d answer to this lies in ur heart....there is a tale that good guys r like apples on the top of the tree..most gurls pick the rotten ones lyin down d grn cz they dnt wanna go up d tree n pick d best 1....\n\nso d funda is u need to choose urself abt which guy is jst lukin for sex or which guy is really genuine...there might be things u wnt find in every guy...1 might be very gud lukin but yet violent inside...d other might be jst avg but he might be a gem at heart...but mostly gurls go for the bad ones cz they like d thrill of chasin sum1....when u get u want in life where is the thrill...\n\n\ni am 27 but still lonely but hopin my love wld come sumday soon......i also hope d same for u...my best regards.......
338007
it's because of the way we treat you!  You want someone a bit more mature then here we are.  You are at the perfect age when a guy in his mid 30's still feels young when he is with someone at your age
427929
Good for you for standing up to your beliefs. You have very strong character and it will serve you well in life. I waited until I was 17. I had a lot of boyfriends and PLENTY of opportunity to lose my virginity but I didn't want to give something so precious to a man I knew I wouldn't be with the rest of my life. You will know when you have met that special someone and only YOU will know when the time is right. It won't feel yucky or dirty and you shouldn't feel like he just wants you for sex. If he is THE ONE he will be respectful and you will feel a connection much deeper than just a physical attraction. Trust your gut. It is different for everyone. Men and Women are so different when it comes to their sexual needs. For men it is like a necessary physical urge. Much like hunger. They feel they need it and there brain tells them to fulfill that need. For women it is something much more emotional. Even girls who express a need for sex are feeling that need on an emotional level rather than physical. They feel a need for love or desire or just to feel wanted or attractive. Men just need the physical release. I wish I had waited until I was married because even though I loved my first and felt I would be with him for the rest of my life we got married but divorced 3 years later and have a daughter together. I'm glad I waited as long as I did but wished I had waited until we were married first.
1032744
YES..BE HAPPY WITH THAT FACT..100% NORMAL..MY FRIEND IS AT HIS 40 AND I FEEL MUCH MORE SATISFIED AND FULFILING WITH HIM,IN ANY ASPECT..
1174900
Have you been liking men for the last twenty eight years?
360841
yes it so true couse older men are more muture and know how to treat a lady right. pluss most of the time thier more developed...
565349
Your feeling are normal every relationship has different qualities,and bring out different feelings, as for the first girl you have memories but NEVER compare them with another girl no 2 are alike.  Love is Living On Various Emotions. Just go day to day and don't rush or have regrets. Good luck...
407268
I still feel that sometimes, and my grandfather died 20 years ago.  If you had a strong bond, it's normal.  Either that or we both are crazy.
439760
No, that's lucky. In your 18 years not many bfs have made you cry, isn't that awesome? :)
1129309
I've kissed quite a few girls actually...  It was fine, i suppose... but I do like the strong feeling of a guy... putting my arms around him and letting him pick me up and hold me... not that there aren't girls who can do that as well, but it didn't feel right.
1014135
I'm 43 and I don't think that. Feeling love or knowing love isn't restricted by age. If you feel it, no one has the right to tell you that you don't based on your age. That's just stupid. Don't let it get to you.
116561
Most definitely!!...Love and sex are NOT the same thing...\n\nBear in mind though, that this holds for GUYS too...
571053
You said in your question, if you take a second and read it again that, u are lucky to have found this guy,u feel self-conscious, and you wonder if u will be able to satisfy him, what can u do? I think what you need to realize is that a man IS satisfied by a woman that treats him good. period. physical attributes mean very little if you give him your love and respect. You have to know that you are a woman with everything on that body and in that heart that a man would ever want. please keep in mind that relationships at your age are probably not forever. it was what i went through as a man then that gave me the wisdom and maturity to see a good woman as more than a physical lust. i took women for granted,blindly, and because of my own insecurities and shortcomings. dont be scared to live and love deeply. dont feel like your body lacks anything. if you do love him, make sure its love you get back. i hope that he treats you right, and respects you like he should. baby, it's not the breasts, it's the heart behind it that makes a man fall in love.
238787
i don't think so i am 20 when i first fell in love i was 12 and i was able to move out on my own when i was 16 me and the girl i was with we were together for 7 years and it hurt so just look out for the worse brakek up because it sucks when us men do it but it even hurts when wemen do to us men.and me and her the girl we Brock up 2 years ago so it sucks.
74160
Wait til you get older and if you both STILL feel the same way then go for it! No illegal stuff missy!