a family memeber of mine may be a pedofile, but i don't know what to do. how can i deal with them?
469179
If you have solid proof that he is engaging in some type of unethical things,especially if it involves minors.Please don't hesitate to bring it to some figure of authority's attention.The last thing we need is yet another unreported pedophile on the loose.The innocence of our children, and future world leaders are counting on us to protect them the best way we can.
1055325
You have to do something.  You either have to put an end to it, which hopefully is possible, or you have to notify the authorities.  You can't let your one family get repeatedly stolen from.  And if this one family member will steal from another, who knows what they'll end up doing to you.
485229
No. Are you stalking him lol? There's really nothing you can do, especially if he is 13.  He would be under his parent name, and if he is not listed, then really, there's nothing else you can do.  \n\nSince you've done all you can do, maybe go in the vasinity of his location, and knock on everyone's door (j/k).
206852
Basically, the only thing that would help you identify a pedophile is to know that he/she is abusing children.\n\nIf you suspect child abuse, call your local Child Protective Services office and make a report.
1058125
Report them for criminal damage and anti-social behaviour.  Try to get a videotape of them causing the damage if you can.   If successful they could be fined.  Be careful though, if they only get a caution, they may be back with a grudge against you.
1108665
file it with the police so theyll have a record of it. if it doesnt stop, get a restraining order or file charges against them so theyll know you`re serious and you`re not going to take their crap. be careful, this kind of thing can escalate and get ugly.stay away from whoever is harrassing you if possible.good luck.
1080931
I'm going to assume you're american, tell him that in America a relationship between a 14 year old and a 20 year old is ILLEGAL, you're not even ALLOWED to marry until you're 18 (16 with your parents consent) and that if he doesn't leave you alone you will tell the authorities and have him arrested (you really can't tell the authorities and have him arrested as long as what he's doing is strictly over the internet but maybe he's dumb enough to believe it anyway). Honestly the first thing to do if you are truly scared of him is tell your parents, they won't be as nearly mad as you think they will, plus if he does start pestering you you can have them get involved (by the way if he gave you his phone number keep it, give it to your parents, in case he starts harassing you outside of the internet you can hand if over to the police). Your parents are really the best bet because they can help you and they will try to do everything they can to protect you. If he emails you again, make sure you show your parents every correspondence he sends you, although they might suggest that you DO ignore him. He's probably excited by the fact that you fear him, so the more you show him you're scared of him the more he likes it, so the best thing to do is to ignore him, block his emails and don't respond to his letters. As long as he doesn't have your full name, or your hometown,  or your address, or phone number or the name of your school there's NO way to track you down, so don't worry about him, I'm sure he's just some perv on the other end and probably harmless to you. By the way regardless of whether he has threatened you or talked about sex you still have every right to be afraid, so don't let your fear embarass you. There truly are some scary people in this world!
53906
You can notify the local police department or better yet the FBI check the front or back of your local phone book this person is definitely deranged and possibly dangerous it's common for psychotic people to reach out like this so they can be stopped save the questions and report the web site used. To those who responded, like it's a joke please take it serious it could mean your family members life, you don't know what kind of person this really is. First time being on this sight and I SAW THE QUESTION ABOUT KIDNAPPING A CHILD AND I SAW THE ANSWERS TO SOME "EAT HIM" AND YOU'LL BUY THE BODY. Come on people this person may really have a child and imagine the torcher this child may or may have indured and you helped encourage it. GOD be with you. I have a friend that is in the FBI and I have notified him. My prayers are out there.
759052
get a life or borrow your dad's playboy instead of trying to invade people's privacy - doing that stuff carries jailtime y'know...\n\nhttp://www.theregister.co.uk/2005/04/21/peeping_tom_trojan_arrest/\nhttp://www.theregister.co.uk/2005/02/28/webcam_trojan_case/
212602
I was molested by a cousin when I was 7 I didn't tell someone till I was 14. Please don't wait. These perverts could be out hurting other children. If you can't tell her write it in a diary and leave it in plain view. If you have kind of mother that's a little nosy, she'll read it and she will come to you. Or just write her a letter telling her what happened and how hard it was to tell her to her face. Getting these people off the street will help you feel better.
365373
you can reprt him to the police, you can forward the emails to the server and tell them about it, the easist thing is just block him so he can't send anymore. they would have to be pretty bad for them to do anything except advise him not to do it
414149
Avoid them like the plague!  You're outnumbered.  If you MUST be with them, respect them and show them by example, how NORMAL people would react.\nEVERY family has a couple odd-balls!
634555
Get video/photo evidence of the person stalking you. Then take it to the police. Then you can get a restraining order out on the person so they can't come near you.
542080
I am assuming you mean stalk...I would get in to a building that has other indiivudals around and call the police. I would then call a parent to bring you home. Don't mess around with something like this. your life is way to important to second guess yourself. good luck.
549211
im assuming u keep system history and archives so u can go back and see whats what with her on the pc. also, a pointer might be, dont allow usage of the pc unless urstiiting right there. many a pedophile knows just what 2 say 2 a child 2 lure them in. kind of scares u? what business does a grown man have with a 12 yr old child? contact the police department with copies of the conversations as well, im sure they can help u with some monitoring type things u can do 2 make sure. dont worry about her being pissed about privacy, if something happened 2 ur child via some perv online, u will wish u would have acted sooner.! good luck!
863598
If this is a real situation you must pick up the children and get them out of the control of their flake of a mother.   Numerous unrelated adult male illegal aliens in and out of the house with children present.  These children will be molested if they haven't already.  Why is it relatives are always concerned about the adult sister, brother, son or daughter and the small children are an afterthought?   Your sister is an airhead who is sexually attracted to illegal mexicans because they treat her like a s lut and that is what she thinks of herself.  Save the children.
830814
You need to know that person personally and get it from them.\nIf they want you to contact them they will see that you know how to contact them. . otherwise you are pretty much out of luck.\nUnless you personally know their family and can contact them through their family you are up a creek without a paddle.\nYou are treading on thin ice legally if you persue this matter.\nYou could be charged with stalking if you are not careful.\nThough they are ex-cons or criminals,they still have some rights and their rights are just as protected as yours.