i am a girl who fancies this guy but i find it hard to flirt with him....?
474435
possibly he is too shy to look at you?
160751
I am in 10th grade and I know how you feel. Basically you should just try to flirt a little at a time. Don't ruch it, he'll feel intimitated. Try going to MyJellyBean.com to the flirting guide, they'll give you good tips.
833316
man...this is a toughy....he sux man why in the world would he do that n e way..and in fornt of you..HE HAS THE NERVE!!!!!\n\n\nyeah but i think you SHOULD flirt with a certain someone...rite in front of HIM....if that doesnt work....then see what his problem is ,...
780626
Sounds like to me that he is just being friendly.  Sometimes he's in the mood to play sometimes he's not...don't YOU have changes in moods yourself?  I think you are reading way too much in to his silly flirtations.  Flirting doesn't mean one wants a realtionship, flirting is just being silly, and friendly with someone you hope likes you as a friend.
565080
you tell me and we will both know. it sounds to me that hes just being a flirt.. i wouldnt worry to much.. if he loves you like he says he does than the flirting hes doing is harmless. I am a flirt big time but my ole man knows that i am his completely and he trusts me.. if you trust him then let him flirt..if you dont trust him then step up girl and stand up for yourself and squash this now.. its kinda up to if you trust him or not.. your choice.. good luck
266858
Flirting is lightly touching the guy,playing with your hair,constant smiling,and being overly friendly,at least to me.The hardest part is knowing it's happening to you.
84101
It's not actually very difficult. When you have any conversation, talk to him about girls he likes and the ones he would like to flirt with. I'm sure he'll come back with the same or a similar question directed to you. Just casually, mention his name and say that you find him attractive. You can find how he feels about it that way. If he doesn't ask you that [and he's not mentioned you in the list], you could always put him the question : "Well, don't you like to go out with me?" That'll get you your response.
1151420
DO NOT WAIT ON HIM. He knows how you feel and his flirtation is merely a beginning of playing your emotions. What you should do IS date someone else and then see how he responds he's probably going to get mad. You dating someone else will probably give you that chance you want with him.  Try it.
88808
Does the guy know that you like him? And if he does then you can express that you're interested in him, but don't get carried away. Some guys don't like when a girl flirts too much. Maybe he just might come around and notice that you are worth being with other than that other girl. If not, like the saying goes, There are other fish in the sea. So there will always be someone else out there that will treat you right and make you feel important. However like they all said before me, if he does seem like a player, then don't call him back cuz you will only get hurt.
467186
at this point, you have got to be strong gurl! its kinda hard getting a guy thats shy too, just like you... so, do anything that you think will get his attention... by just approaching him, you will get his attention.. tell him you want to be friends with him.. and when you guys do become friends, tell him you wanna get to know him more.. and you wanna hang out... if he does agree... go somewhere quiet... tell him that its hard for you to say this at this point, but tell him that you really like him a lot.. and then ask him what are his feelings and tell him to be honest... and if he tells you his true feelings, and tells you that he does also likes you, then you've done it gurl!! good for you! but if he doesnt like you, dont worry! you have so much more years ahead of you.. im sure you'll find a guy thats so much hotter and cuter than that guy... and he might even like you back too :)
1093673
What's interesting is that you're intrigued by his actions....Could you have some sort of attraction to him that you are unconciously aware of? =) This is a tough question,considering you didn't leave too much information on your relationship with him.Maybe he thinks you like him,maybe he though it was funny...Are you usually open with eachother?Does he have a tendancy to flirt sometimes, like smile a lot, laugh at your jokes, etc. Watch for his signs and maybe you'll know better.Hope I somewhat helped....\n-Sarah-
647543
no its not wierd. i have a friend like that. theres no harm in some meaningless flirting. as long as your not leading him on. make sure he knows that you dont like him like that and if you do like him like that then just keep doing what your doing.
1099518
I used to think it was hard as a guy in such situations but I've seen it's worse for women. Here's my advice:\n\nYou will want to throw yoself at him. DONT - big mistake. Just be around him SOMETIMES, flirt a little and be a bit hard to get. If he likes u he'll make a move. If not then that's life - deal with it. \n\nA risky and tricky strategy is to get a third party (preferably another guy - hence the risk) to say to him he overhead u saying he's cute and u MAY like him. Make sure yo partner in crime will NEVER sell out!
277799
OKAY GIRL, FIRST OFF, HE'S DOING BOTH! HE'S PLAYING DUMB SO THAT MAYBE YOU TALK TO HIM A LITTLE MORE...LET ME TELL YOU GUYS LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP...IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM. THERE ARE MANY POSSIBILITIES TO THIS SITUATION...FLIRT WITH HIM A LITTLE BIT...OBSERVE HIS REACTIONS TO THE COMMENTS YOU MAKE THAT ARE DIRECTED TOWARDS HIM...WHEN YOU ARE AROUND HIM JUST BE YOURSELF...IF NOT HE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL EXTREMELY AWKWARD...MAYBE EVEN MORE SO...PLUS IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU AND WANT TO BE AROUND YOU MORE AND MORE...JOKE WITH HIM...IF YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS WHILE KEEPING YOUR COOL, HE WILL DEFINATELY STOP PLAYING THE GAMES...HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY INTO HIM...AND TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THAT! HOPE I WAS OF SOME HELP...
902192
If you loose him because you have a flirting problem then your relationship dosen't have a sturdy foundation. Plus talk to him and explain to him your problem and see if he is okay with it. If not try to work out a deal with him.
225869
you are never going to know until you find out yourself dont ask someone else to do it!!! if you like him flirt back and you will get somewhere!!! he will proberly flirt back so yea thats it reli
1027110
Sometimes showing the love of God can be the hardest thing and you probably should have gone to God first with this problem so He can direct you in the best way of approaching this guy. When this happened to me a while ago, the Spirit directed me to speak to the guy, letting him know how much I did appreciate his interest in me but I really did not feel comfortable with the way he thought my being nice was "flirty". He then saw things from my viewpoint and we are friendly now, though not real friends.  But pray about this first, it helps.