My sister-in-law is crazy...?
466997
It seems to me that she is very jealous of your family and is afraid that too much attention might be showered upon your brother and the new baby. This is very sad for everybody. I'm sure that if she wasn't like she is that your family would welcome her as a part of the group. Maybe she grew up as insecure and in a not so loving family atmosphere and this contributes to her behavior. You might try talking to her and see if she will open up. Maybe that you or your family could offer to go to their house and sit with the baby while they have a nice dinner out. This could be an icebreaker. Good luck to you and your family.
1170233
I ignore her.  My hubby wants to go to church with her, sometimes I go, sometimes I don't.  If she flips me any shit, I let her know in my own way not to even go there, so she doesn't anymore.  I have a tendancy to get really evil and wicked with my words without raising my voice or cussing when I am provoked.  That and I think about the fact that she won't be around forever.  Talk to her and your husband and hopefully it will get better.  Hang in there...  She really won't be around forever, ya know.
641440
Yes, I do. I have a sister in law that is like that. She can be a very nice person, but she cannot stand it if she cannot have her way . People like that bring out the stubborn nature of me. I know what they are doing and I will not budge. She hates when I do it, it really makes her mad, but she learned to have respect for me.
14297
Let it get back to your mother in law that you don't believe she made those statements, because you can't imagine that she would ever say something so awful about you and your kids.  \n\nThen the ball is in her court.
693517
thats perverted. She is not for u don't be greedy face your wife not her sister. yur sis in law is for another man definetely not for you greedy man. Yu r too lusty
1094551
Kick her out and dont let her live in your house with you and your husband anymore. She sounds sick and out of her mind. Have your husband prove that he is not married to her! He needs to tell her he is not her husband and kick her out! Why are you both even letting this woman live there. If she is not all there mentally there are homes for people like that too! Find her real husband and talk with him and see if you can get her some professional help. Has your husband ever had an affair or cheated on you with her in any way? You need to find things out! If She owns the house then you and your husband need to move out and get a place of your own far away from her and make sure that she does not know where you move to and have an unlisted number!
38339
This person is crazy... they asked some other weird stuff too
829206
your husband is the one that needs to put his foot down! tell him what is going on..and that you would NEVER put up with this kind of behavior if it were your own mother/sister. \nyou married him, not his mother...yes she is part of your family but she doesn't and shouldn't have a say in YOUR life together. \nhonestly i would look to move away! * that's what i encouraged my husband to do when we got married. we moved my mother in law to Hawaii! * \nif your hubby won't put his foot down then your going to be the one to say something. it may be hard, but YOUR HIS WIFE! that car you borrowed is YOURS as much as it is your husbands...you need to stand up for yourself.\nbe firm but cordial, and tell her that you understand that she loves her son very very much, but so do you. and you are his wife. \nhe is a grown man, and you two want her to be part of your life, but you don't want her controlling it. tell her that you feel like she doesn't like you, and that your trying your best to be a good wife to her son. but you will NOT let her make you feel guilty about the decisions that you make together as a couple. ask her how she would feel if HER mother in law butted in the way she did? \n\nperhaps talking w/your father in law might help? or a brother in law?
48491
Sounds like a dysfunctional family.  Try to deep the children away from her as much as possible.  There has got to be an underlying reason for this kind of hostility.  Any idea what that could be?  Does your husband have anything to say about this?  I wish I had some profound words of wisdom for you, but I am at a loss.
72461
Mine isn't just horrible, she's insane!
240395
Hello sweet little sister QuietWarrior.. :)\n\nLord God, You see our little sisters plea..We are to train our child in the way they shall go and when they are old they will not depart from it..Amen!\n\nYou and your husband must let her live on her own..you are not helping her by doing everything for her..she is no longer a little girl, but a grown woman, she must start acting as such..I know from first hand, I had to tell my son, that he could not longer come home when he wanted to..he is now taking care of his little girl and he is a GREAT father..\n\nIt will be hard at first, but God will grant You His peace that passeth all understanding through all of this..He hath for me.. :)\n\nI am here for you, if you need someone to lift your loved ones up in prayer or just to listen.. :)\n\nIn Jesus Most Precious Name..\nWith Love..your sister In Christ..
825201
Your sis-in-law has to realize that the holidays is not about control. But the holidays is not just about who has the get-together at their house. If your family isn't spread all over the country you or she could have a holiday get-together close to the holiday while the other has it on the holiday; and then the next year you could trade. \nYour sis-in-law was probably miffed because you planned your thing before she could open her mouth to invite everyone. \nTalk to her about setting up something where this year you will have so-in-so holiday and she can have the other  but the year after you change it around.\nI have a sis-in-law like your sis-in-law and I do know what you are going thru. Remember - the holidays are about love.
552573
My Mother in law is the same way. Does your husband know she does not like you? Does he stand up for you? THAT is what is important. This lady sounds way more than ridiculous. You can't have a car??? She knows she is in control and she is using that to her advantage. She WANTS you to leave your hubby........sounds like her goal is to make you miserable so you leave. Best advice? I KNOW this is hard but be as sweet as pie to her, almost sarcastic sweet. This will get to her more than anything. Talk with your husband, once he sets her strait that he loves you and there is nothing she can do to change that, things will get better! Good Luck
538360
pretty simple move with your husband and leave in-laws there!! why would in-laws go with you any way?? are you married to them also, or what- that was the weirdest question I've seen in a long time!!
807206
I went through this with my husband's ex-wife.  She flipped when we got together and tried to keep us from seeing his son.  She did some pretty horrible things at the time, but since has changed drastically.  \n\nAll your sister and brother-in-law can do is document everything and get the police involved is she is witholding the kids from him.  He needs to go above and beyond the call of duty to try and see them, for at least a while to prove that he cares.  I am sure he cares, but you need proof in court.  \n\nAdditionally, they need to stay tight lipped in front of the kids and never say anything negative about their mother in front of them.  That kind of thing has a way of affecting a child and coming back to haunt you later. \n\nThey just need to stick in there and lean on each other for support.  It is hard, but will get better eventually.
991103
ohhhhhhhhh. I hate know-it-all-inlaws. I have a sister in law like that and a mother in law that butts in and makes me feel stupid.\nThe only thing you can do is smile and endure. Pretend like you dont hear them or something.
235063
Your uncles 2nd wife sounds like one of my step daughters,it has to be about her or  nothing at all she is always trying to start trouble she curses her dad and when i get on her butt she whines and says its all my fault .I don't have any use for her how can I she curses her dad yells at him and her dad has had 2 heart attacks already she has no respect for him or her self.The other daughter is great I love her as if she was my own she has the up most respect for her dad and me both girls in 20s the witchy one has three children in which her dad hasn't seen in 3 yrs because he wont kiss her butt.she is a nut.....