i'm there for all my friends. the go to girl. but when i need someone they're not there.?
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I have been where you are.  My therapist said leaners do not like the insecure feeling they get when their leaning post starts leaning.  You need some friends who are as strong as you. Best Wishes
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BECAUSE YOU WANT ATTENTION FROM YOUR FRIENDS. . YOU WANT TO BE THE CENTER OF EVERYTHING . . THATS WHAT IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME AND THAT IF YOUR GUY FRIENDS FIND GURLFRIENDS THEN YOUR SCARED THAT THEY WONT HAVE TIME FOR YOU ANYMORE
106780
friends and boyfriends arent alike.... just feel lucky that you have lots of friends though u aint have a boyfriend... maybe its not the ryt time for you....
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I do a little bit. I don't want to find a best friend, but I would like people to respect me. If not then why is anyone here? We all deserve respect wherever we go.
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well, if he/she doesn't notice your efforts, chances are, he/she doesn't consider having you for his/her best friend. don't push it. just be there for him/her when he/she needs you. just always be a friend to him/her.\n\ngood luck...  = )
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You don't need a lot of friends.  In fact the more friends you have the moe you have to help move.  Concentrat on establinshing one or 2 reall good friends who accept you the way you are.
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go chill with some of your friends, and the hell with the rest. if they dont feel the same, move on. when they get to looking for you, tell them you will make time for them like they made time for you. this is a special holiday for those u care most for.evn though u should all the time. ur a big girl now. so, go out and do your own thing. from me to u, HAVE A VERY BLESSED AND HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!!
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Sorry no one answered your question very well. I'm a girl. But you should just keep your head up. Dont feel alone. Your friends are out there, with you already, you just havent found them yet. The world is huge and you have a perfect place in it. So just hold on and be strong.
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You need to tell her you can have more then one friend. If you need someone to chat with about anything add me to your messenger. Lol I went through the same thing in high school. I know what it is like to feel left out. Try to make some more friends... and 2 is company and 3 is a crowed really applies in friendship. You just keep your head up and if you need to chat like I said add me. I am here if ya need someone to talk to.
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aw man try to understand why and talk this over with them, may be you are sending mixed signals, i have done that, but i am just friendly and others take it the wrong way. just tell them your true intentions and be nice, good friends are really hard to come by! friends rule!
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when you care about someones feeling or respect someone  you give them an explanation why you break plans,  obviously she doesnt consider your feeling, so i really dont think shes much of a friend. Shes more like an acquaintance. Stop calling her and maybe she'll give you a call if she misses you.And if she doesnt call just dont worry about it, get a new friend
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Why is it that you find yourself with short term friendships or lacking friends?  Sometimes we fail to re-evaluate ourselves to make sure that we are not the ones running all of our friends away.  Real friends are placed in your life you can't just go looking for them.  If so you may end up with people just in your life to bring you down.  I have met my bestest friends through grade school and college, at work, and even friends of the family.  These people are faithful to me because I am the same to them.  Maybe you need to be just a little more outgoing.  Start up a conversation every once in a while with someone you don't know, you never know how much you all could have in common and who knows you may find that longlasting friendship you were looking for.
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most of the time people come in to our llives and them leave without reason sometimes. yet we learn from them. each of them come in to our lives throught god's intervention. it wouldnt be fair to blame or ignore those who have let ur side. but just cpontinue ur best to keep in touch.\n\nsometimes we go looking for friendship in thr wrong places and those we meet dont last long. maybe what they came for is not there any more.\n\nor good freinds are those who stick by us right through. like the 3 / 4 people u mentioned. they are here to stay.\n\nyou shouldnt have to do anything to get people bk. just be ur self right from the begining and then u will find the true frineds who would last with u right through. \n\nalso remeber the only thing u need to do to keep friends by u is be honest with them, respect them, let them know that u care and be ur self. nothing more. if there is mpore than that that they expect then it is not a really and genuine frieindhsi that they are looking for.\n\nclicks or groupings happen everywahere and theat will keep happnening right through life. but those who are true to that genuine friendship will stick with u always
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We're sorta in the same boat then. I don't have many friends... I have a friend who lives a few streets away, a friend who lives 1/2 an hr away, even tho we have each other's #, we still only talk online... :s Rarely see each other. Then there's my bf of course. I make friends & then I somehow lose friends... :( Sometimes I choose to not be friends w/ them cuz I don't deserve to be treated the way they treated me. I'm a nice girl... why can't I make friends ? Why won't anyone be friends w/ me ? Maybe I'm so nice that I'm regarded as a "loser" :( I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I don't think that peeps accept me cuz they think that I'm a "goody goody" :s :( (N)
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Try not to take it personally that they want to spend time with others, too. I know it's hard-- everyone goes through it. Try to find someone or something else to occupy your thoughts and free time-- and really enjoy the next time you do hang out with your best friend. Just remember: "best friend" doesn't neccessarity translate into "only friend".
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Oh girl I totally understand I have 2-3 really close girlfriends the rest are guys, ya girls are evil I know I can be too sometimes, and fake, I moved 60 miles away from my girls and it's tough but we make every effort to see each other we need our friends right? What state do you live in, I'll be your friend, don't worry I'm not fake I'm the most real person you'll ever meet\n\nemail me hlngtouch@yahoo.com
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if no friends wanna go, i go alone, and when i speak to girls, i just say that i was planning to meet them at the club but they ditched me last minute. go from there for the pickup