Guys/Girls- please help with this intriguing......??
462071
sounds like this person is fishing for answers for someone or themselves about you and that co-worker. Maybe the co-worker Jimmy had this person approach you to find out what you though of him?
287249
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
393767
dont be soo uptight. hes a guy. and youre a girl. dont tell me you dont look at the occasional eye candy from time to time. next time you catch him you should be like, wow, she is hot... and leave it at that. hell most likely be like "damn, thats hot, shes confident enough to appreciate another womans beauty".
182955
*Pondering a moment for I do not see the prob here* So ask the guy you are most interested in out. It is the Naughties (double zero decade you pervs so keep it clean) after all. Take the initiative and snag that guy...
27883
I am sorry, I know you indicated you only want women t reply but ....this sounds like just another fetish, no more no less. If you are willing what is the harm? If it revolts you than leave him. Most men have some sort of fetish about something. What your guy demonstrated is just one of them.
987580
He needs to know one way or another. Sounds like this girl is a hoe...lotta fun. If she won't tell then you will need to. Good luck. She doesn't deserve such a good guy like him.
733411
Girls show guys they are interested in all sorts of weird ways.  The most typical are: touching(when unnecessary), Laughing (way to much), and finding any excuse to be around them.  I personally just tell the guy I'm interested and go from there.
665694
Wow!  I'd sit him down and really talk things out with him.  Discuss the possibility of a romantic relationship and a friendship.  But really, build it all back up and do it without other friends interferring.  Just talk it out.  He's probably confused too.  Good luck and I hope everything works out well.
1007699
Tough question, can you give a..................hint?
1031455
All this dancin' around. Good grief. You'll drive yourself nuts going through all this...and for what? Forget about all this tricky stuff Just let it happen...trust yourself...but not necessarily him. If you find yourself wondering about his wandering eyes...bail.
597848
looking at your long, long story, it really seems to bother you. so why don't you just ask and find out? if he accepts, great! if not, then at least you got piece of mind. in summary, you can only win if you ask. therefore: go for it!!
348218
i've had my share of moments like this.  Just pretend it never happened and see how he acts.  if he is intrested, he WILL make a move.  If he is NOT, then he won't.  but if it was me, i would just pretend like nothing happened, and see how he acts.
924168
I think the fact that he's talking to you is a fair indication that he's interested. I would just mention, discreetly, that your 'in between' boyfriends at the moment, and see if he takes the bait! Have a good day!
236637
It will always linger....If you deny, he will wonder!  If you admit he might freak.... the best reply to something like this is no reply at all.  He has a thought implanted by your friend ..... Unless you want to squash it...Leave it linger.
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
86217
I can guarantee he doesn't get it.  Subtle hints do not work with guys.  Just tell him (is that so hard?)
1150327
she may have interest in another man, what did she say or do if anything, and if you know any of her friends, ask them if they noticed somthing different about her lately tell them you are concerned because she has been acting shady or something of the like and they might possibly be able to lead you to your answer. She might just be getting scared of committment, in that case let her know that you will slow it down if she would feel more comfortable with that. Or if the circumstances under which she told you she really liked you were induced by pleasurable activity(drinking, spending considerable amounts of time with you, sex ect...), she might have felt that way at the time and then after the activityt ended realized that mabey she didnt like you as much as she thought, mabey she was just being nice, or mabey she was being a bitch to get what she wanted. Mabey you possibly did something that turned her off. Hmmmm... we females are darn complicated, those are just some of the possiblities that come to mind, but the best way to find out is to ask her, and be polite about it and ask for the truth. Good Luck to you. Hope i helped.