I recently discovered a group of people who are polyamorous, anyone have thoughts or experience?
470100
I know nothing about it...but this link looks like it's a well-organized and popular group/lifestyle:\n\nhttp://point0.net/poly-nyc/index.html
1160467
Hi there,\nI can somewhat relate to you in a sense that I was in your shoes when my boyfriend (now my husband) was doing the same thing like your wife did.  I think, I forgave him since we're not really together (I was in another state).  Yes, I was grossed out when I heard this and the thought of 2 on 1 is disgusting.  We decided that not to associate with those kind of people, which helps me to cope.  Out of sight, out of mind.   The most important thing about this ordeal is having trust in this person again and make sure that it won't happen again.  Yes, then your can feel more secure and comfortable being with this person again.\nBest wishes,
159012
fear of what kind of commitment?  marriage?  yes.  mine has.  i am mortified of that kind of tie-down.  but monogamy commitment?  no.
819792
Yes if you don't claim to each of them that you're monogamous. If they all know about each other, what you're doing is "dating".
466494
Many people outside of the Judea-Christian faith believe in polyamory.  To a dgree it makes sense.  Can you have one soulmate?  Probably not, considering we seem to find our coulmates in the ame town as our w/o ever travelling to.... say.... China, where we could meet another.\nCan you love more than one person?  ABSOLUTELY.  Can you CHOOSE more than one person?  Most likely not.\nRemember, the grass is always greener on the other side.  If you are happy where you are, stop thinking about how happy you coul be, and just live life.
681884
got married ! thought the guy was nice . i didnt listen to his ex who told me he was a homo . thought she was just being nasty . found out on my own he had probably been with more men than i have .\nneedless to say he is now my ex.
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I personaly dont like the fact that my man would be doing ANYTHING with another person but me. Its just not right why be married if its to more than one person. \nI just think that it is wrong. There should only be one person you love at a time that is what makes love such a strong thing. It can keep people together for years. \n\nBut we have people who want to tarnish that with their polygamist ways....i think that if you dont want to commit you shouldnt be in a relationship at all. You should just be single...whats the matter with that. You cant have your cake and eat it too.
328910
Many. Polygamy = Several wives
183594
lol i think they r attractive.i have slept with a married man.the excitement out weighs the getting caught.but yes i did get caught,then it turned into a threesome soooo...i dont know  lol omg  too much info  lol
497814
It's possible to be in love with several people at the same time. Confusing, but possible.\nSome people believe that people are not naturally monogamous - that monogamy, like other forms of marriage, is a cultural construct. As such, not everybody fits into the same square holes. This can cause people a lot of trouble, but it is best to be honest with yourself, and then with the lovers in your life. \nAfter wife # 1 (a complete disaster) I knew I couldn't be monogamous, and with wife # 2, I told her this and we had an open marriage. It lasted 5 years, and we are still good friends. Neither one of us was particularly jealous by nature, and I know many other people who aren't. Having lived through it though, I no longer embrace open marriage. I keep my extra lovers on the fantasy level, and keep my real relationship real.
454992
I don't know about polygamous (marrying multiple people), but I think they are more promiscuous by nature. I think men have a biological desire to 'spread their seed around.'
790247
Well, it has been to my experience that whenever there are 3-somes, there is always someone who gets a little jealous or insecure because things are not what they expected.  I, too, have been with both, and this is what I have found.  Being that I am a girl, the man usually thinks that the 2 women will be focused on him, but often, the 2 women focus slightly on the man, but enjoy each other more.  This is usally because the women who decide to "go there" are usually either close friends already, or have an attraction toward each other.  I have also been where I was the only girl.  I did not like this because there is something "unsexy" for a woman to see anal copulation when her "tool" is being ignored.  It is a little fun to orally explore each other (all 3) but that is about it.  Remember though, this is coming from a girl; it might be different from a guy's perspective.
940812
okay im not down for all of that but I do have some advice... You guys should try swinging..Its were the two of you get together with other couples who are interested in the same thing as u,  and you switch partners...for example, you with another wife, her with another husband.but u do it the same room around eachother that way u both know what went on and its alot safer then random men... Most of the time swingers will test for aids,stds, and other stuff more frequently then random people will.Its the safest way to have fun with other people without catching something...But for the record...I am not down with that!!!
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yes i do...i believe everybody has one other person there supposed to be with.  They're "one and only". I believe this other person will never be truly happy with anyone else because its not there "one and only." Some people are lucky to find that one person, others are not.
460034
I personally have not had a threesome, but I know a couple...get this...They met because the husband was the "third" in the threesome with a couple. The wife left her ex for this guy the "third". So then, the new husband wanted to have a threesome with his wife and yet another guy. And she, again, left the second husband for the next guy. ICK!
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YES!!!  I was in a two year relationship with one and he truely loved me.  He just didn't know the meaning of the word monogamy!!! People, even strangers would take one look at us and comment on how "in love" we were.  Eight years after the relationship ended, he found me and told me how much he missed me and how he felt the relationship never ended in his heart.  I refused to see him because I am married and so is he.  I was afraid that I might fall for him again.  You know, he has a real problem when it comes to women and I had to just burn that bridge completely to avoid being hurt again.  When I was with him, he made me feel like I was the only woman in the world and then when we were apart he would cheat on me.  What a jerk!!!
166052
I think that you may have miss spelled that word. Did you mean polygamous? I am not sure how many and I know that it is defiantely not for me. However, even though it is illegal there are some out there that choose this lifestyle.