why wont myb/f call me when he says he will?
463435
boys r just stupid like that. i mean not all are like the ones my sisters had but if you really want him to call you when he says he will, tell him the next time you talk becausse if you dont, it will drag on like that
799366
Just tell him how much it bothers you that he isn't keeping up on his promises, and he needs to start calling you when he says he will.  Let him know you are serious about it.  If he still keeps not doing what he says he will, then yeah you should dump him.
322796
maybe he isnt ready for realtionship right now, keep in contact with him as friends and if you both meant to be together you will be. good luck.
742362
maybe he had a change of heart? or he is seriously wondering if your the right one for him. don't contact him. he has your number if he never calls again then your better off. do you want someone to be with you if they don't want to? if, he calls then continue your relationship. in the meantime don't sit around waiting on this man. get out and mingle with friends who knows maybe he is not the one. sorry but i don't want to lie and make you think he will call.
688717
You surely will not get together if you both keep hanging up on one another.  Why not stop the kiddie games and communicate honestly?  Trying to make him jealous by calling his friend is not going to help- unless you want to turn them both against you.  Just muster up your courage and talk to him.
488915
Guys can tend to get clostrophobic in situations like this. Love having you there but only when they want you there. I'm not sure on his thinking after such a long relationship but it would seem to me that he is distancing himself because he does want out but can't face the fact that he will be alone and probably doesn't want to be alone therefore still calling you.He definately loves you but doesn't know the best way to address the issue, therefore keeps up the pretence that everything is fine by calling you, wanting you etc..\nOn the other hand i could be wrong, i'm no expert
212505
he seems to be one of those who will not make up their minds for a life time.\nhe calls you back because he is lonely,\nthe next minute, he might be gone.\nkeep on the good work by keeping away form him.\nhe can easily hurt feelings.
491499
Sounds like a fairly new relationship, take it slow. If he isn't calling, maybe he has good reasons. Tell him your bothered by this, try to come to a resolution between the 2 of you. A good relationship needs amazing communication. No hiding things. If this doesn't work, start shopping for a new relationship. Always another bigger better fish.
1008704
This sounds like the classic case of him meeting someone and he doesn't want to tell you because just in case it doesn't work he has you hanging on the side. If he confirms it to you. It becomes real. Seeing you made him miss you threw him off. thats why the text. He seems to have the " out of sight out of mind" thing down. My advice stop calling, text, etc. He knows your patterns. You are being to conveint for him.This will have him approaching you instead. Right now you are to predictable to him. Mess with the pattern.Throw him off balance. He calls " look im busy right now can I call you back" then don't he will call you back.. I SWEAR!! tell him sorry I got busy. Don't get into it with him on the phone.. NEVER. keep being busy but say we need to talk, but I can't on the phone I gotta go now if he turns the topic, don't get mad.I know its stupid to play these games but this is the reality of it. THEN!! you decide if you want to put up with it. Confront him when YOU are ready. Then you choose to stay or go. Tell him not playing these games.\nKnow your worth. Don't be a door mat. good luck.
423402
Call him, instead of waiting for him to call you.\n\nYou women.
561040
well that has happened to me b4! before he moves give him your number and tell him when he moves to call you!
971526
Iguess there's nothing you can do but to wait. Maybe he usn;t caaling you 'cause he knows you waiting and he wants you to feel sorry. don't call him anymore. if he cares he'll call
210319
you really need to be careful. remember that is his friend. you don't want to break up his friendship and your relationship. i think deep down you probably feel at least SOMETHING for him, but u r in denial. he probably likes you 2. or it could be that he was bored. i call everybody and their grandma when i am bored. maybe you should ask him. also, u need to tell your boyfriend to step up his game. plus, if he didn't pick up the phone anything could have happened. i know if a guy is callin me that early....i will not wake up. also, u needs to always have a plan B.<<<<take that the way u want to interpret it.
737896
he would know you called him so if he doesn't call you back move on.\n\nsometimes people love each other but not enough.\n\nhowever he may need some space and not want to call until his head is straight (its a man thing)  \n\ni hope it works out for you
421637
Guys always try to play it cool and wait a little while before they call you.  Maybe he doesn't want to seem pressed or he doesn't want to make it look like he's sweating you. Believe it or not, guys get nervous about the call as we do, so just give it a little while.  He'll call you.
864146
Yeah get out of there! you have to do it slowly stop calling him and contacting him and he will soon take the hint. Don't fall for the I'll change routine...men like that never change.
567269
Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.