I like this girl, but her work partner could screw it up?
465863
Try and get to know the girl you like and give her a chance to get to know you for herself. Not every one listens only to what other people say, if she has a mind of her own ( which is what you want) she will judge you for her self. Also sometimes if we hear bad things about someone and we then get to know them and they are the complete opposite of what we expected ( because of what we heard about them) then it can make us like the person more because we are so pleased they haven't turned out to be awful. \nThe nasty girl will probably come across to the girl you like as a bit of a gossip- we pick up on these things- just a little niggle that tells us something isn't right.\ngood luck- and if the bitchy girl does gossip to her then you should ask her why she is doing it. ( don't let her realise you like this other girl- hey perhaps bitchy girl fancies you and worked  out to get hot for you and is now mad cos you don't notice her!) hmmmmm???
603024
Yes, it is. Have some courage, show her you care. Don't send a friend to do your work. Would you have your friend deliver the first kiss, or do the engagement ring proposal for you. Is your esteem low? Afraid of being rejected? Just go for it. The worst thing that could happen is she will say no. You will live through it either way and it will be good practice for the next time if its a turn down.
983983
Girl lessen to me don't ever get involves with a co worker that way if he really wants something good out of this he would be the one to come over and say something, you guys are flirting so if you ask him he is going to say yes. take my foolish advice do not ask him.
388815
Hold on there bother. First thing is first. You must make time to spend with her if you want a lady. Women do not like workoholics. Once you get situated then she will come to you. Make sure you have balance before you date. If you\ndon't then it won't work out.
1043060
It's very common, and I don't think it's wrong, unless you act on it. It might be awkward if you are working with him, but I don't think that you should change your plans just because you're attracted to him, unless you find a better position. There will likely be more bosses and unavailable coworkers in the future that you will find attractive, so if you want to live your life, you might just have to grin and bear it.
571251
Why don't you try spending some time with her at work before you ask for a real date? Offer her some small candies when you see her at work. If you leave work at the same time, walk her to the bus stop or her car. See if you can sit with her on lunch break, or try saying hello on coffee break. \n\nIf her reaction to these attentions is positive, then ask her to go somewhere with you after work, instead a more formal date. "On Fridays, I go to Martha's Diner for pie and coffee after work. Do you like pie?" is more likely to get a yes than "Will you go out with me sometime?"
536419
That's a toughie!!!  It really depends on your position.  Are you in any way above her or responsible for her performance?  If so, definately yes.  You have the right and responsibility to correct her.  If you are simply co-workers....no; unless her duties and yours intertwine in such a way that you could be mistakenly blamed for her carelessness.  Poor grammar could be due to lack of intellect or laziness.  Not much you can do about either.  If the two of you are somewhat friends, you could try using light humor as an attempt to correct her.  If not, then any real attempt at correcting her will only breed resentment and ill-will.  You may even end up a laughingstock as the "grammar police".  Best advice, assuming that you're not her superior, just leave it alone.  Eventually the boss will realize that she's not that bright.  However, if she's doing her job and doing it well, nothing may come of it.  If that's the case, you need to leave your pet peeve at the door.  Good Luck
686739
Never dip your pen in the company ink. Yes, you made a mistake about being open to your coworker. He might take this as a hint. Keep work ...work and sex related things in another place. That is if you want to keep your job.
898333
You need to decide what is more impotant to you, the business or letting this girl know how much you like her. If you tell her and she dosnt feel the same way it could ruin your business relationship with her. If you really want to let her know how you feel I would just let her know I wanted to talk to her about something... then tell her that you have these feelings for her, but dont come on too strong, and dont say "I love you". Tell her that you have to let her know that you like her but you dont want it to interfear with the business. Be fully prepared to get the answer you dont want to hear, that she dosnt feel the same way about you. If she does give you that answer, tell her that thats ok and you hope this dosnt interfear with the business. Then at least youll know. If she does like you, then youll have to keep business seprate from relationship. Dont mix the two.... Good luck, hope that helps a little.
1065019
well just tell her you liek her and that oyu dont wanna hurt her btu you do want to make her happy if you really like her then it'll all work out but if not then this was the one so yah i hope you have luck
617448
Be careful about sleeping with someone you work with. If it doesn't work out, it will become very awkward for both of you. I'd say date awhile as friends first, and hold off on the sleeping together until you're both ready to make a long-term commitment.
29141
They're all good inside.  It may take you to bring it out.  A little effort and a girl that's almost right in your first impression might be everything when she's comfortable with you.
349540
No...she is what we would make you an "enabler."  You would wind up helping her out and hiding the problem for her...never a good idea...You should try to find a girl that doesn't require such high maintenance.
686614
she has a boyfriend and you best stay out of that. if it is ment to be in the future perhaps you will hook up
769945
It sounds good to me. I would only do it if I KNEW she liked me, though. I almost did a similar thing with this guy I like, but I changed my mind because I wasn't sure how he felt. BE CAREFUL, and plan what you'll do if she doesn't respond the way you want her to!
795114
=sounds to me like she has a serious attitude problem or has a lot on her plate going on right now.  You could drive her crazy with your kindness while having a good laugh inside and perhaps the two of you will end up being friends at some point.  Invite her out for a couple of beers after work, just as friends and you may be surprised at what you learn. and find out she is really a nice person after all.  Bottom line here is that you need to adjust your attitude toward her as well if you are to continue working with her.  Good luck.
983503
Opposites often attract however, I would never get involved with any one that I work with.  If the relationship doesn't work out things can get really ugly to the point where one or both looses their job.