can you prevent a guy from cheating, or is it that if hes gonna do it then hes just gonna do it? or is the way
467760
There are cheaters and then there are mistakes...u can't prevent a cheater from cheating but you can prevent mistakes from happening..I beleive everyone is capable of making mistakes, and for those which are truely honest mistakes, can learn from them so they are not repeated...it may end that particular relationship but they know better to make that same mistake in their next relationship...it sometimes takes good judgement to recognize the difference between the two to avoid being a victim of a cheater.
200719
Have you ever talked about it? Any idea on his reasons why? If he's perfectly contented with your arrangement now, he will probably never pop the question unless you give him impetus to do so.  Guys will never fix something that's not broken and he may not have any idea that it's already broken unless you tell him.
986649
Isn't this called cheating?
475071
If you feel like you need to keep it a secret from  him, then yes it is wrong.  If you do it for more than just casual companionship, then it is cheating even if its not in a physical sense.
284617
Don't expect more than flirtation from him... lots of people in relationships flirt, and thats all they do.  They have no intention of cheating or leaving - and thats what he's told you by letting you know he's already involved.
618162
Nothing...he is already taken...what are you doing trying to ruin a guy by tempting him to cheat in his relationship...your being selfish.
473891
What ever you do....do not cheat.
1116340
Being someone that has cheated in the past I can honestly tell you it could go either way. I did before, but will never do it again. On the other hand I have had a boyfriend cheat, say it wouldn't happen again & it did. So I guess it depends on the person &/or relationship.
135792
Cheaters do not deserve another chance.  Leave him for someone you can trust.\n\n"He's a very good guy,"?  Wrong.  Good guys don't cheat, honey.
893552
Nope...because if he cheats on you once he will do it again....
1159440
If he or she can cheat on their partner with you... they'll most certainly be able to cheat on you at some time in the future... You'll never be able to completely trust this person. Do you care?
1016441
Well, men and women alike cheat. Not everyone mind you. We are all different and have our reasons for cheating or not cheating. Speaking on behalf of men, my personal opinion is that if a man cheats, he does think about it, even if its at a subconscious level. I have never cheated on anyone I have been with, but that's my choice. I prefer to end the relationship if I feel that I want to be with another woman. Cheating isn't worth the headaches or the risk of losing someone you might care about.\n\nI think if someone cheats, they have very low morals and isn't someone worth being with. This is why I believe that most people get involved in serious relationships too early in life. They should be out there having fun and enjoying their youth. There will be plenty of time to get involved in a serious relationship. Once we learn what love is really about, we can make better decisions on who will might want to spend the rest of our lives with.
840243
Some people will do whatever they can to get what they want, but other people might try to do the right thing.  Stick to the type of people that you yourself are.  Not all men are lying cheaters.
757320
Hmmm. sounds interesting what would a guy have to do to\nbe kept in this matter.
1008884
Im a guy and I hate dudes that do this kind of stuff,makes it hard for those of us that dont cheat.[we're not all dogs] So check it out CONFRONT HIM.
188166
It's not just women who do that, men do as well. There are NO guarantees that she won't cheat again. The question is, do you want to take that chance? I always say, if they cheat once they'll do it again.
823311
guys will be guys - I don't think you could say guys cheat ( that is what they do ) , but i think you could say that women cheat , because they should not do that - so it is cheating   --- I hope this helps you - email me if I didn't make myself clear