is it weird to be in a long relationships like 3 or 2 years with out having any sex?
461533
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
226697
It's fine. My friend has been with her bf for 3.5 years, since she was 18 and he was 26. They're very happy together. But it all depends on the person.
536784
No, of course not!  It may seem weird, but think of all the married couples who have a 10 year difference!
436771
It's a good sign that you're wondering if you're ready for a b/f. If you feel that you want that it's all good. Just be careful not to go too far too fast. At that age it feels like it will last a Lifetime, but the reality is 3 mos. and another 3 yrs. of heartache. But that's how you get better at relationships down the line. Take it light, have fun, go out, do stuff; just don't spend all you time in the bedroom. Relationships are about a LOT more than that. Yet it's also hard to resist at that age. (I know how I was, and maybe that's the farthest thing from your mind. All I'm saying is don't give too much away too fast.)
37105
I think it's great you two have such a close and trusting relationship. It's definitely not for every couple, but you are obviously not the only ones out there. Make sure both partners are comfortable and listen to one another.... Have at it, be careful of std's and such....Wow such trust you guys have.
1057272
i have had a boyfriend for two years now and were both 18 and we decided to not have sex because we both feels its very pointless. we just have too much oral sex instead!! ^_^
175612
There's nothing wrong. But it all depends on both of your age. If you are 20+ and planning to live together, then I think Sex increases your level of intimacy and you will become more closer than before.\n\nBut if you are still in school, then probably you both are doing the right thing and leave sex as something you will explore when you are "there"...\n\nHaving sex, for the sake of "i have done it too" is toooo childish.. \n\nAs someone said above, both of ya sit n have a talk about it.. Im sure u guys will work it out.\n\n.:Fishie:.
1059319
I'm a 35 yr old woman who just ended a 2 yr relationship with a 28 yr old guy.  He couldn't keep up with me.  The sex was great, but he didn't know how to handle himself at a restaurant or other social situations.  If you both have it together, go for it!!  Just be sure you're not looking for a "mommy" to take care of you!
337969
Absolutely you can have a "normal" relationship. You'll have to come to terms with a lot of facts that don't exist in other relationships, though. I.E. He will likely die long before you, you'll be reaching your sexual peak when he's reaching a point of major sexual decline, etc, etc.\n\nIf you love him, you love him. Age is no reason to miss out on love.
1131921
it's probably very normal at the beginning of a relationship, but I think after a time you need to do other things.  Every relationship needs stimulation, you have to have things to talk about, outings and events, activites outside of the bedroom to build a foundation for a varied and interesting relationship because sooner or later the sex will become less and less and then what are you left with?
846774
You know, it's all about maturity, when you are young you want to see the world and that means having as many sexual conquest as you can, having different girlfriends with different nationalities, having threesomes, foursomes, having sex with no string attached, getting drunk until the dawn, having to have no responsibilities, nobody to call and travling the world.  But, as soon as you hit you mid 20's to 30's, things gets little complicated, you start to realize that you would still like to screw but you would really like to settle down with someone special and spend the rest of your life together.  So, give him some time and believe me if you guys have good chemistry, he will come back to you.
596758
Honey, I am 28 yrs. and have been with my fiance for a total of 10 years now. In the beginning, we did have more sex than we do now. How long have you two been together? I totally disagree that it means you are not in love with him. I have more love for my man every year that passes by, even though now we aren't intimate like before. Sure, we love to be with eachother, it's just not the most important thing on our list to do. We have grown to be totally comfortable with that and it doesn't mean there is something wrong...that's my opinion anyways. You should try new and exciting things, even if it is just a laugh with eachother.
131691
Yes.  I believe that a trend that is emerging in the dating world is to take a cohabitating, married relationship on a test run before actually tying the knot.  Living together is an effective way to see if you are compatible after a long time of dating and not cohabitating.  However, don't be suckered in to living with someone who won't marry you, who is basically playing you on an "extended test run".  They can't have it both ways.
1047032
Maybe you two are uncomfortable with the idea of labeling what you two have as a relationship. Some people feel as if the word relationship is the new four letter word. If it scares the two of you just think of it as you two having fun except you're only having fun with each other.
1005564
When you are newly in a relationship you invariable end up having sex more than once on a regular basis. But you just cannot keep that pace forever. There's nothing wrong or harmful to it only that you'll tire out considering you have a life to live outside your bedroom
783464
sounds normal?  relationships that adapt to what's going on in your life are pretty healthy i would think.  is there something else that's bothering you making you feel like something's wrong? x
771515
Especially around your age, I would judge based on maturity more then age.  I've seen people with a 4 year difference have a great, stable, long term relationship.  In general, though +/- 2 years from your age is a good guideline.