Why are filipino girlfriends so clingy?
463364
It seem that way, this girl that was in my class was clingy to her boyfriend, they argued all of the time. eventually they broke up, but she was still stalkin him and harrassing him, it was crazy, then she tried to move on with this other guy and the same thing happened. I think that she was the problem.....
387443
You said it so yourself. It's in the upbringing. It's like the Filipino culture is like that. Filipino men and even women are basically more on the shy type. You should know, you are a Filipino yourself. Though you've been Americanized, so you've been aware of the American culture and for sure have adopted to it. \n\nFilipino men are what you call "Torpe". They are either contented looking at you or are just waiting for a good timing and at least a hint from you that you also like them before they make the first move.
517943
Any Koreans I know are very strict with their wives and children. It's the culture Hong Kong Girl. You know that. It's their children that will loosen up in time in this culture.
511599
cuz theyre stupid assholes who cant keep their dicks in their pants. its very disrespectful when they do that. i mean like why have a gf if ur just gonna check out other chicks?
204085
Hey, don's say that filipino women have tight *****, SAAli! You are practically insulting me, my mom, my sisters, and my family! Ok, the reason people like to marry filipino women is because they usually are pretty, and they want a little cash to LIVE. It's not their fault. My dad married my mom, and now we have a big Resort (from dad), and land, land, and a whole lot more of land(mom&dad). MY LIFE IS HEAVEN!
316223
coz they dont get emotionally attached as gals do dey believe in a dynamic life stability hurts them they cant find themselves confined or sticking to one. n they cantt see themselves down so at at times they do to satisfy their ego.
277638
I generally have to conclude that you are being CLINGY! Lean back, give him some space, and have a life of your own!
827817
As a previous answer states, it's because of their upbringing and ethnic ties. My daughter has dated an Asian guy for about 3 years. His sisters and brothers accept her, (parents are deceased) but his older aunts, uncles, etc. Do not approve. His brother also dates an caucasion girl. They are brought up to date and marry their own race.
250700
you know what.. I am a Filipino and I have a lot of online friends... even foreigners..\n\nit is so sad to see this kind of stories involving my countrywoman.. i won't blame you guys if you condemn her but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not try to make us ALL Filipinos look like SOCIAL CLIMBERS nor GOLD DIGGERS... Remember, this is not a unique issue! And we are not sure if this is the first time for it to happen... I bet, it also happened to your country... it may not be an INTERACIAL CONFLICT....\n\nTo the one who made this question.. I hope you'll move on as soon as possible.. you take care :)
471949
maybe she doesnt answer it because your being to clingy.  Perhaps not calling her, will actually get her to call you.
10767
Basically, we're screwed up! WE're clingy, dependent and want the fairytale. We always think we can "help" someone and that they will change or what ever. By science, since we as women want to spend so much time with the guy we like, it is normal to eventually come to love that person.Just the act of being around someone, can cause you to fall in love. They actually did a study.
199566
Perhaps it's the idea of submissiveness, the stereotype of sweet and young Asian girls with "unique" looks.  I don't know perhaps I myself am stereotyping...but then again I am an Asian girl.  \n\nThere's always the notion that Asian girls in turn would want to marry a foreigner.
271995
A guy would be falling head over heels if you find he gets really shy around you are has trouble talking with you. Its mainly that, or if ur dating already he does nice stuff for you all the time and is super clingy.
531709
Your partner's bahabiour is quite controlling and dominating,so it appears on the surface.Displaying affection is a good thing,but overly showing ur neediness to be with him all the time,without giving him breathing space sounds troublesome.Maybe ur behaviour is childish,SMSing calling just to say a hi, and hello every now n then.Maybe this is acting as a repellent.Grow up.The more u run after him,the more he would want to cut contacts with u.Men like to win their love through a hard way.Anything easily falling in their hands is not seen as a compliment.Further,do u want to be treated the way he does to u now?Has he declared his love for u verbally?U sure this isnt freindship?Also,his giving u lesser attention is drawing u to him closer.Are u sure u love him?
990538
They feel insecure and inferior of themselves. Or maybe their gfs are those type that fools around with other guyz thus they don't trust them ;)
587139
oh i am from the philippines too but i can't be your b/f.\ngoodday!!!!
585028
Maybe it's a culture thing her parents may not approve of her dating outside of her race. Find out first before you take it personally. Good luck.