why when your bf breaks up with you,they still want to have sex with you but not be with you?
471088
Because they want sex.  It doesn't always matter who with and they figure if they can get it from you without the attachment, then they don't have to work so hard.
638046
he wants what he never got... he wants sex from you and will continue to chip away at you until you give it to him...best if you don't take any of his calls or respond to any messages....
993587
Because he is not into you!  Dump him before he dumps you! He is using you and doesn't want you to make waves about it.
292569
ok\nif you are his original GF\nthen you shoulnt freak\nPRETEND you are about to break up and then your BF will come comfort you \nand not that other girl
1140165
well if he showed no annoyance and he didnt stop them and give a limit then ur right! but if he lets say hugged you and kissed you infront of the girl that wanted his attention and didnt give her any and gave you then i see no reason ! But since you broke up with him means he made you feel uncomfortable and not secure with him  ... so if thats the case .. you did the right thing! Besides im sure ur nice too so dont underestimate yourself !!!
916081
My mate has just been dumped by her boyfriend of 6 years - cos he said he needs time to himself. Imagine how she feels - you were only with this guy 8 weeks.\n\nJust think people need to put their problems into perspective a little bit. I know you must be feeling cr*p right now -but its not like you dedicated half your life to this guy. And if he wants you to change your opinion on something as big as sex then really he's not the one for you anyway.\n\nps - most men are weird. \n\npps - i was very prudish when it come to sex - but my mind has been opened ...... opened in the very best possible way
449898
It sounds to me like he doesn't want you as a girlfriend, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either.  By leading you on the way he is, he knows that you will stay by him and not date anyone else because of the chance he will say you are a couple again.  I went through it for 6 years.
503596
Because they don't want to be the 'bad guy' and do the breaking up. They are cowards who would rather the girl did the dirty work for them. \n\nActually plenty of women do this too.\n\nWould people please just be honest with one another about your feelings!
844602
yeah my bf did get when we broke up he acted like i was invisible and was ignoring me for me to feel bad and run back to him but i reverse the situation and decided that i wasnt going to give in and he fell for his own trap because he came back to me
625977
Why would you have sex with someone you don't really want to be with?
834177
i've had sex with several of my EX girlfriends much later after we had broken up.  i think once you've had sex with someone its easy to feel comfortable enough to go back and sex again. even if it's just a one nightstand with an ex. most of the time the ex is the one asking for it not me.
969185
It's a mind thing.  He will get over it if he really wants to be with you.
898676
So you broke up.  Then he started missing you and wanted to get back together.  Now he wants allot of it, and you're not sure if he just wants it or really cares about you.  Is that about it?\n\nWell, one way to tell is to give him as much as he can handle, and then see how he reacts.  Once he's satisfied, and he still wants to be around you, then it's easy to tell he really cares about you.  Otherwise, he's doing what guys refer to as a 'booty call.'\n\nAnd if the idea of giving him allot just doesn't make you comfortable, then that's your voice of reason trying to shout through the fog of love, that you already know he's just making a booty call and doesn't really care about you.  Trust your instincts.  There was a  reason why you two broke up in the first place.  ;)
1145855
Scared of commitment. They are usually unsure of themselves. My boyfriend still plays his little games that push me away and draw me back in, and they are trying to see how much you will put up with from them, you know kinda like seeing if you're in there for the duration.
681462
yeah, he told me he said something very important to me but i don't remember and maybe that's why he broke up with me.\nWell hello, i don't see why you would say something important while having sex, your not in all those senses of caring, in that point.
630078
No that's why he is called an ex cause things didn't work out so that means that you do not sleep with him or her at all.
672927
If more than one person is telling you, and these people don't have alterior motivation for wanting to break you guys up (like they have no personal reason to want to break you up), than I would say you should probobly believe them.  Of course your bf is going to say he's not cheating on you when you ask him.  You have to analyze the people that are telling you this and find out how they know and take it from there, good luck!