a good lookin' smart girl is hard to find, is that because too many waiste time reading dumb questions?
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First, if you're looking for intelligent women you need to use correct spelling.  So to answer the first part of your multi-question, if I see a question severely grammatically incorrect and incoherent I will ignore it.  \nAs for the rest of what you're saying....???  You've lost me a bit there but I BELIEVE what you're trying to say is that looks don't last forever but the connection of two minds/souls will so why focus on physical attraction only.  IF that's what you're saying then here's my view.  There's an initial attraction between two people that causes sparks.  I really don't think for men or especially women only the physical will cut it.  Maybe initially but not long.  Not long at all.  Then you get to know eachother and what the other is all about, their beliefs, learn how they think, what makes them tick, their sense of humor....lots of things.  These are all things "between the ears."  I agree very much it is this that makes a relationship stick.  The chemistry part must be there if for no other reason than to get the relationship off the ground.  W/o the connection of two minds then it will stay on the ground.  \nMaybe this saying somehow applies as well to what you're wondering???  "A man falls in love with his eyes.  A woman falls in love with her ears."  ...make sense?.....  hope that helped and wish I understood more what you're wanting to know.  Maybe if you just came out and asked it??
351907
Beautiful intelligent women exist everywhere :)\n\nGood Luck
479048
Well, I always thought I would be more attracted to the girl who was smarter and more confident.\nBut I wont try to claim that looks mean nothing.  Guys at that age can be frustrating, because we dont know what we want, and are easily hypnotized by something new and pretty.  That's all it is though.  In the end, intelligent guys want intelligent girls, who they dont have to put on an act for.
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physical attraction is not everything.\na gorgeous woman has attention for a little while until she speaks and her ignorance and uneducated words come out.\nnow, who do you think a sensible guy would pick?
90275
Yeah don't waste your precious time with dumb women who "think" their hot and try to front.  It's a numbers game...the more women you can get in front of and talk to chances are your numbers will play out an dyou find the girl "YOU" want-
159383
There's lots of us good girls out here. Your not looking with open eyes. Its not where to find her its how.
645364
yea i look for good looking or geeky guys that are smart and they have a good gpa...muscles dont matter
71340
The reason is, after 2 days on a personals site, a women is going to be overwhelm with responses by men. Many will be desperate men. Alot of them will be scum of the earth. If you are a decent guy and meet up to some of the minimum requirements, I would go for it. One word of caution, Don't tryto put on that you are something you are not. It will show up in most cases right there between the lines. No matter what a woman says she is looking for in a man, I can say, without a doubt, the number 1 trait that will get her is honesty.
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There are alot of good women left out there, you just have to take the time to find her she may be right under your noise but most men would pass her by good luck with your search
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I know it sounds bad, but usually the first thing a guy looks for is how the girl looks.  If she is good looking, then he wants to find out other things about her.  That is just how most guys are.  And I am always busy, but if I really like a girl, I always find time to kick it with her.  And the only reason I'm always busy is because I don't want to be broke, because when you are broke you are no fun.
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most girls are instinctive enough to choose a guy who will protect her whilst posing no threat to her on an intellectual level... she has superiority and security\n\nwhy do so many smart successful guys fall for bimbos?\n\nwork it out....
63747
It depends.  Some women are just stupid and don't know when you are trying to get to them, and some guys are just stupid and dont give strong enough signals.  I recommend commenting them about their appearance occasionally, it normally helps.
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A girl looks for a guy who is confident, fun, and NOT BORING. A guy who somewhat adventurous but also smart...I'm not talking about bookish smart. Just savvy. If anything humor is a BIG issue. The best way to get to know girls is to try to talk to them, learn what interest them. This doesn't mean assimilate their interests. Just be able to talk about them, so that you have something to talk about. Get to the point where you can walk up to them and speak to them like they are one of your friends.  \n\n Learn to flirt. Take chances, be outrageous. But, not goofy or stupid acting. Above all pay attention to their responses but don't let their responses get to you. If they act offended too bad, if they look down their nose at you,or walk away don't care...be indifferent. There are 3 billion females on this planet. There will be a prettier smarter more interesting one around the corner or even right next to her.\n With practice, you will know what to look for when you meet different women. Be friendly, Not like a friend. Kiss of death. Confidence, humor and being fun is the KEY.
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She doesn't want to get the label, "Nerd", "dork", or "geek" so she acts stupid so people won't know she's smart.  I do that all the time.  I am a smart, nice girl and it's just like that saying with guys, "nice guys finish last."  The same is true with girls.  Only the stupid, flirty, gorgeous girls have lots of dates.  Us smart, nice, average looking girls have a hard time so we act dumb hoping to get the guys to notice us.
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Maybe you're concentrating too much on superficial qualities like looks to the exclusion of more important qualities like intelligence or personality. I'm guessing you're fairly young, and young girls who are extremely pretty also tend to be fairly superficial and stuck-up. If you're going after the most popular girls in school because they're the prettiest, then they're not going to be interested no matter how intelligent or interesting you are.\n\nBroaden your horizons a little. You'll do better in the long run.
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she wasnt stupid she wuz smart. she wuz givin the crowd wut they wanted. she can take as long as she wants 2. see it from a guys point of view
647021
because life sucks hardcore.  its the same way for the cute girls and the skanks.  you just need to find yourself a cute girl.