Was going out with this guy last year n our relationship ended.Now he wants me back.Wat should i do?
471146
well...\nask ur self this\nDo i still have feelings for him?\ndo i think about naugthy things with him?\ndo i dream him?\nif all come to yes, then i have to say, take him back
382207
it all depends on how you broke up in the first place, if it was a mutual agreement, and you still/miss him a lot, maybe you can give the relationship another try, but if you broke up on bad terms, i dont think its wise for you to get back together, its best just to move on.
317310
Let him go.  It sounds like he is running scared. If he really wants you, he will be back. In the meantime, move on. There are other fish in the sea. You deserve the best.  IN the meantime, enjoy.
501125
Love is hard, but the best to do for yourself is forget about him, and move on. This is easier said than done, but take up some hobbies and go out with your friends. You cannot allow a guy to rule over you. So stop scheeming on how to get him back. The only person you need to get, is the confident and sassy YOU.
898006
Make up your mind already will ya? You want him when your with him and when he leaves you want him back. I think you need to take a break from men in general and find out who and what you are all about and what you want. When you have established you then men can be in the picture. Write a list of all the good and bad qualities of this guy and give it to him, let him ask what this is for and if you truly want him back explain. Let him know you have been thinking of him and can't imagine what was going through your head before. I think you need to look into yourself for some love and then you can truly give the love he needs. Sorry if this hurts but honey, life is to short for anyone to be playing 'I want you, I don't, I want you again'
44991
Don't call him, don't answer his phone calls.  If you broke up with him, don't pay any attention to him going out with other ladies.  You will just get jealous and want him back for the wrong reasons.  If he broke up with you, that sux.  Don't let him play any mind games with you.  If he wants to get back together, tell him you have moved on and that he can't mess with you anymore.  Then move on and be done with it.  Don't watch any movies or listen to any songs that you shared.  That only makes it worse.  And don't hook up with him out of desparation or because ya'll don't have anything better to do.  Your life will be miserable for it, I promise.
973332
you should talk to him\ntell him that you are sorry, and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you want him back\nits better if you do this in person, trust me i have experience\nEVERYTHING goes alot better (even the relationship) when you do things in person
610541
I'm sorry about your breakup, I know things like this can be hard and no matter what people say, we always want things to come out the way we hope it does. \n\nBut it seems like, almost a year is going by, and no progress.  Do you realize that if you keep trying to get back with someone who doesn't want you, you may miss the one intended for you?  It seems like it's really over between the two of you, and maybe it's time to move on and spend some time recovering from your breakup.  Then get back into the dating field and see what happens.  \n\nI hope you find who you are looking for, because it isn't this other girl.  \n\nGood Luck!\n:)
227283
I think maybe you should take a break from this guy.  Sounds like you are the only one getting back together with him.  There is someone else out there for you.
120634
there is more going on there than you think if it stays this way for while you need to let it go. because if he really wanted you and loves you he wouldnt be treating you like that. i would try to give your best shot and if nothing works i would leave and try to start your life over. if by chance your leaving scares him silly and he changes his ways then i would search your heart and see if you really want him back.
1023159
first ask yourself whether u really want him back or is it again "just attraction".think over watever happened whether it is bound to happen again to bring back the same situation.....find out whether he's also feeling the same burn as u r or did he royally ditch you for no reason?...dont get baffled  up by such situations..keep your cool.....u never know..might be.. he is really in need of you.
735145
Sounds like he's playing games with you. I wouldn't be so quick to take him back and see what he does then. I think he knows that you will take him back and that is why he is doing this. Guys will do what you let them.  Put a stop to it and let him wait it out, or just let him go. You don't need your emotions messed with like that.
1163744
If he broke up with you to explore his options and regrets his decision now that it's not working out in his favor, TOO BAD! Do not take him back. He was selfish enough to end what you had to start something new, who's to say he won't repeat these actions. If you go back to him, he'll know you're weak and will prey on that as long as you give into whatever conveniences him. Just love yourself more than that. He doesn't even deserve someone as nice as you, you can do better. Good luck in love and life!
1129422
May be he is observing u, and wants to see if u change at least now .U will have to change if u want him back, and stop playing such fools cause its not a movie its ur real life. If he truly loves u , be assured he is urs and will not go anywhere else, but u have to take the first step towards him.Because u r the reason for this mess
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
974030
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
380373
if he's still single yes. coz there might be a chance that u and him get back together...coz thats what i still feel about my ex. but hey! if he's not. then i think it would be better for u to move on.. unless ur ex feels the same with u..then wait for him patiently until the time he made up his mind and wants u back.