What we should do when we are being ignored in a party?A healthy way of protest,please...?
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Here is a little story that might help you. It has helped me many times.\n\nWhen I was younger I would notice that my Grandmother always had people coming up to her saying hi and so on.\nI asked my great aunts after my grandmother  died why this was. They told me that everytime she went to a party and notice people that looked uncomfortable she would walk up to them and start talking to them and finding info about them. By the time she got done talking to them they were no longer uncomfortable.\n\nKeep Smiling if that happenes again try this if you still feel uncomfortable make a polite excuse and leave. If you are invited back to a party at that persons home I do not think I would attend.
1185104
Why u care so much?\nJust keep answering lol\nI mostly found Yahoo answers entertaining, coz people's questions are funny. Dont learn much from people..I'm here to have fun when i'm not with ma friends.. so question turn over isn't an issue for me.\n\nP.S.I'd join your petition thing if u give me some beer. will work for BEER, CASH and FOOD
412830
do you mean you are trying to write a letter to apologize for not inviting some of your friends to a party or something? well, first, there is no rule that says you have to invite all of your friends to everything anyway, and if they are mature,they should understand that. but if they have been offended, what ever you should say should be brief and sincere... there is an old adage that says 'least said, soonest mended' and it can be very true. if you only think they may have been offended, you may be better off leaving it alone unless they say something...they may really have no idea they weren't invited to something, or have thought nothing of it, and if you suddenly start apologizing, now they Will be thinking about it, and thinking you must have a guilty conscience, if you are apologizing.
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Be friendly to them.  Really friendly.  Apologize as if it were your fault, but not in a weak way - just say you're sorry, you'll fix the problem, if there's something you can offer them, do it.  Take care of it, but stay above it, if you know what I mean.  And in your mind, know that other people are with you, and that this person is just making a fool of themselves.  If you stay cool, you win.  Also, keep in mind that the rude person probably has major problems, and it's pretty pathetic that they have to take out their frustrations on someone they don't even know.  And if all that fails, imagine them as the children they once were, and wonder what terrible things must have happened to them, to turn them into such mean adults.
971375
File a harassment case against the violator.  It is the only way to solve the problem rather than suffering in silence.
368033
I guess its an excuse to piss off from work, school, etc. And throw a big party in the name of political activism.  Clever bastards.
149327
Act as nothing has happened OR talk about it in a fun way. As long as you don't show your embarassment and you are self confident, the others might not judge you as harsh. Hey, it happens to every normal once in a while, right? I'm not talking about freaks trying to live healthy under a glass bell and following strict rules here.\nIf you manage to do that, in a couple of months you'll all be joking about the incident - you'll go "Man, was I wasted that night!", and no one will look down on you.
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Avert your eyes and say excuse me quietly as  you back out of the room (unless they didn't notice you - in that case say nothing).\n\nIf it has already been done, you just need to push past it - it's normal, it's natural, it's no big deal.  \n\nApolgize for any embarassment and forget about it.\n\nPeace!
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I'd say that you'll have to be strong on this one with your grandmother. If it's too hard to say that you only want to invite certain people and not all the extended family, see if you can pin it on the place where you're at (room to small, already committed to the head-count). There used to be a time when you could invite some people and not others and no one took offense to it. But nowadays in this "please me" society we are ever more careful not to offend. If questioned by relatives as to why they weren't invited to the party you can respond "I regret that we weren't able to invite every person we thought of!" and leave it at that. You owe no explanation beyond that. Hope that helps - have a great party!
139015
Firstly be very careful who you try to speak with, second try speaking with your mouth closed, it might not help your shyness but it sure as hell will be a fun turn at a party!
620718
The only way to do this is to ping that person and ask if they are there . . . if they answer yes, then they are.  If they don't answer, they are either ignoring you or they really aren't there.
85228
Get the whole class to gang up on the losers who are talking. It worked in my class. Everyone was so mad at these two guys who that they were all cool and never shut up. so all 30 of us just turned to them in class one day and geve them nasty looks and yelled..(we really yelled) for them to shut up. They found out that they were not that cool and finaly shut up the rest of the year. \nGet numbers on your side and let them know that the class is not backing them up in talking.
1112935
UNFORTUNATELY,IF YOU ARE AMONG SUCH PEOPLE YOU CANNOT HAVE A GREAT DAY..TRY TO IGNORE THEM..NOT ALLOW THEM TO INTERFERE INTO YOUR PRIVATE SPACE..CHEER UP...
257204
Join the enforcement arm, so I could let people slide.\n\nConquer from WITHIN!  :-))\n\nBuddhist
1002497
First thing,  I would drop the lingo.  Speak proper English.  Worry about the dancing later.  If its a great party, girls wont really care.
884510
... Shhh.... how about you stay quiet from now on?
207514
tell your friend about the issue. And if he doesn't mind, ask him if he could be dull for the evening.