what do u do when the only person who mack u stop crying is the person who mack u cary????????????
460078
so like, he will nick you and put a band aid on it? say hurtful things and apologize, he did not mean it? i think its abusive, its a mind game, and its all about control. i think you need to just get out and let this person/relationship go. find someone who DOESNT make you cry in the first place.
246616
planned or not, it is still is a very emotional time in this persons life.  You can't really say or do anything to console the person, all you can do is show your respect and compassion and give that person whatever they need.  If they need to cry you let them cry, if they want to yell then let them, just be a friend.
677282
Don't do anything.  Don't let this person think that what they do affects you.  Be the better person.
706027
Just hang in there.  It sounds like you tried to do the right thing by trying to help someone out and got taken advantage of.  It's okay to feel bad about that and pissed too.  Someone else's awful behavior shouldn't make you feel like you shouldn't exist.  I know that doesn't really help sometimes.  All I can say is that a lot of us have been in similar situations and you just have to ride this out, write it out or do something to get it out of your head.
1043825
Wow, what a hard question.  First of all, don't be afraid to be angry at that person, what they did is just selfish.  Talk to other friends.  Join a suport group.  Realize that what they did may stay with you forever.  Having gone through it, I know that even now years later certain songs still make me think of the person.  But most importantly, if you are talking about yourself, don't look for answers here, go seek guidance from a reputiable source.  Good Luck.
974857
Drop him! You don't deserve that crap. i've had the same thing happen to me, and the right guy was there all along.
519731
i know exactly how you feel since i had that exact same problem.  i know it sucks extremely and you have no clue what to do [therefore, you put this question up on yahoo answers] anyways.  yes it sucks because all you can do is think about that person and in the back of your mind you always think "why?  there isn't anything you can do.  so why bother?" thats because he's/she's all you want.  and of course when you have your heart set on something/someone; it doesn't stop, it just gets worst.  well i'm sorry but there isn't any easy way to cope.  after awhile you'll think that you are starting to get over him/her, but then he/she will do something that just lights that little flame under your heart and you can't do anything but fall again and continue to fall until you land.  but the problem will be that you won't land because you are still falling for him/her and he/she won't be there to catch you.\ni'm sorry i can't give you any easy way to cope with it; if i had something to help me cope with the same problem as you; i would have gladly passed it onto you because i would hate for anyone to feel the pain i went through.\ni hope things work out for you in the end.\ngood luck.
594314
wow, must be pretty rough. i mean, no one expects you to get over it. look, i had a friend and the same thing happened to her and im gonna give you the same advice i gave her. some might say that you should take up counseling or go to a group meeting, but the sad part is that those meetings dont focus on just you and yourproblem. you have to find someone who you trust and love, usually a mom, sister, or aunt, and tell that person about what happened to you, and who did it. the guy who did this to you obviously isnt very considerate. just open up to a loved one and let them know whats going on. im sure it will help and they will be able to focus on your problem and not everyone elses.
1135416
decide that you can only change your feelings. mind over matter. just decide that you're going to forgive them and move on! you can pray for help too, it'll help you gain the peace you seek.
568071
The best way to get over someone is to LET IT OUT! Don't keep your feelings bottled up inside. Cry it out if have to,shout it out if you want to. Most people may tell you to divert your attention, but that will only be running away from what you feel. You can't cry over a guy all your life. You will love again. It happens all the time. And there will be someday when you will think back and just laugh at it, or if not laugh then just smile at it. For now, just accept your feelings of hurt/hatred and chill, its okay.
627799
Why do you miss him if he did you wrong?  Do you like to be mistreated?\n\nFind someone else who plays right, trust me, it feels better.\n\nIf you do start talking to him again, then you asked for it and shouldn't be crying when he f*cks up again.
97040
If it really bothers you, find you someone that you can be happy with and let him move on to someone else and let them deal with him. Find someone who makes you happy and cares about you and yyour feelings.
1170478
The best way to do this is to be yourself and move on with your life.  Guess what?  You are very important and valuable and if one person treats you badly, move on and live the most amazing life you can.  The person is a jerk for treating you badly.  He is so unhappy inside and is a thing not a person.  Don't let your anger eat you up inside.  Forget the person and move on, you deserve only the best!!!!
776624
Forcin' yourself 2 believe that this person is actually a bad person is really doing nothing but fooling yourself.\n\nEverybody that we meet has some form of impact on our lives...this one particular "person" just had a very BIG influence on you.  Of course, it's going to be hard to "get over them", but you have to come to an acceptance that it's over between the two of you.  It'll be hard, but that's the only way you'll ever TRULEY move on.
1088242
Would depend on why they made you cry.. More info would help..\n\nI would only depend on myself to make me stop crying, and feeling bad. Then go to that person and let them know they hurt you..
517035
I know how you feel,the urge of reaching out and dialing his number drives you insane..remember one thing the one you love will never make you cry...i am sure since your break up you must have cried your eyes out...so girl my adivice is to move on think that it was his loss..find some new acitivity for yourself where you would be able to meet new people..being around new people this time really helps in getting over someone....wish you all the best
62663
You cry.  You scream and yell and throw your own pity party, if that is what you feel like doing.  But most importantly, you take time for you.  Heal, and then move on.  Take the knowledge that you have learned from them and make your life better with it.  Good luck.  I'm so sorry that this happened to you.  But things are not always going to feel this bad.