what are the hinderances in a relationship and how can one avoide it to be safe?
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Hinderance in a relationship could be physical or emotional. Physical hiderance is when your partner makes you uncomfortable in your space, for example whenyou try to do work and he/she keeps making noise, distracting you, watching tv ect. Emotional hiderance is when your partner says or does something to you that makes you upset or  unhappy, for example calls you a name, brings something up that you don't like to talk about, insults your work ect. Hinderance can be intentional and unintentional. Sometimes you partner doesn't know whether he/she is causing the hiderance to you, and sometimes he/she does it on purpose for his/her own reasons. \n\nYou can not completely eliminate hinderance in you realtionship, espeially if you live together, but it helps to keep track of everything you find annoying about what your partner does and discuss it at the end of the day, asking why he/she did it, what caused it, and guess whether it was intentional. Too much intentional hidernace is bad because it often evolves into fights.
404701
Just be nice to each other and don't push anything, and allow love to run it's course. If it is meant to be you will want to be together.
243302
Your right but there are some exceptions.  There are things often that you know you can't work through or differences that exist that aren't even things that involve working through.  You can try everything possible to make a relationship work but at some point no matter how much you love someone you have to be honest about if it is really a relationship that can work.
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communication communication  If he don't belive you he does not trust you . Without trust   the relationship is doomed, you  will end up heart broken . the most important thing in a relation ship of any kind is trust and friendship if you don't have both and cannot communicate its over before it started
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Whatever you do, DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT risk anything to get into any trouble. Instead, try to make arrangements to meet outside school. You two love each other, and want to be together. I really don't see anything wrong with that, and I don't know why anyone would. I hope my answer helps you.
555596
Be honest with the person you are with now and finish it - then move on\n\nHonesty is THE best thing, even if it seems very difficult
1067570
If he doesn't trust you,you shouldn't be with him.A relationship with out trust is doomed from the get go.
249385
Cheating!  And look what's become of you as a result of being with a person you don't, and should not trust.  You cannot stop someone from cheating.  You can however control yourself. Time to move along.  Better to be alone than to be driven to insane behavior.  Sure relationships require work, but not hard labor.  Is this how you want to live you life worrying and snooping?  There really are honest, true men out there, and there is one waiting for you.
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When there is love involved, there is no way to avoid the hurt and pain.  The best thing you can do is just be honest and truthful about how things have to be.  Don't place blame, and don't back down from what you feel.  It simply is how things are and there is no room for debate.
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Hello:\n\nOne of the hardest things I have ever had to realize is that loving someone isn't enough to make a relationship work. \n\nI was in a long term relationship with a guy, whom I was in love with. The only problem was that he was insanely jealous, and I am a little too trusting. He would assume I was cheating on him, if I had a conversation with a guy friend (a guy friend that I had been friends with long before I met my boyfriend). And if I saw him chatting with a random girl I would just assume they were chatting, and nothing more. I should also say that I have never cheated on a boyfriend, much less cheated on this guy. \n\nEventually he started to push the limits more and more when it came to making me jealous, so much so that he started making out with a girl at a party we had gone to together. Even though afterwards he told me that it didn't mean anything, but that he wanted me to feel jealous, it was too hurt to try to make the relationship work. \n\nWe had a long talk and learned that we had spent so much time trying to hurt each other, that we didn't have anytime to enjoy each other. Obviously our relationship was disfunctional, and I'm happy to say we are both in relationship and are successful and we are still friends with one another.\n\nThe relationship I have now is fantastic. But we still do have problems. The best thing I have done in this relationship is that we face issues head on. But we both know how we each deal with stress. When I am stressed I like to be left alone, where as he likes to be distracted and just take a break from it all. We are able to recognize when we are stressed, and how we can help the other one deal with the problem. \n\nI would suggest that you wait it out. You've been in a relationship that has been successful for so long. Wait until he has started school and starts feeling comfortable there. But be supportive and if he doesn't want to talk to you about his feelings - just let him know that you are there for him if he ever needs to talk or a distraction. \n\nI hope this helps and good luck!
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doesn't take that much actually. if two people established enough trust, respect, love, and open communication there are chances of a thriving relationship. Although misunderstanding and arguements are inevitable, patience and a little less pride are also ingredients of a good love life. If talking about reality, money is also a factor, let's face fact.
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Lots of things are not easy but many times it is important to look beyond the temptation and simply do the right thing.  Anyone who is in a committed relationship can do several things to avoid having an affair.  Make your partner your priority.  Think how you would feel if you were to lose your partner and how badly you would hurt your partner if you were unfaithful. Imagine how badly you would feel if your partner were unfaithful to you.  Make a list of all the things you love about your partner.  Then make a list of the things about your partner that's not pleasing to you.  Check the lists against each other and see what a great person it is that you are with.  Focus on their good points.  Tell them how important they are to you.  Tell them some of the things you especially love about them.  Be specific!   Another important thing you can do is to purposely avoid being around the person who tempts you.  And if you must be in their presence, mention  little things about your partner that show how important they are to you and how much you love them.  And no matter how tempting it may be, DO NOT FLIRT!!  Something that may seem innocent can be the catalyst that puts you in danger of losing your partner.  Avoiding temptation is so much easier than trying to clean up after a train wreck!  And pray for strength to avoid situations that will lead you into trouble.
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It's ok. It requires extra energy of course but as long as you trust each other and maintain constant communication then there should be no problem. \n\nBetter if you are not doing it for long term period. Soon one of you has to decide to move. But if you have no choice to do so, those things above will play important roles in order to keep your relationship work well. \n\nAnyway, short distant relationship doesn't give any guarantee that the relationship will work better than the long distant one, does it?
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When your have the house to yourself so nobody can catch you, I mean interrupt (LOL! just kidding).\n\nSafe? It depends on what want to be safe from.  Diseases, there are many and not only strangers carry them, people you know may have them.  "Protection" (and I don't mean guns) works but not always, there's always a chance something could go wrong.\n\nSafe from just being used? Heartbreak?  As far as that's concerned the only way to be safe is to really get to know someone before you fall head over heels (easier said than done).\n\nIn my opinion what's most important is to be ready mentally, not just physically.  It's a feeling of comfort only you can give yourself.  Nobody should talk you into it or pressure you.  You will know when the time is right.  I hope I was helpful!
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depends on what are the risk involve?\nu might be talking about anyone...someone who is involve in drugs? someone who is already married? someone who is still a minor?\nso while u can be totally in love with each other...some things may require the right time, place and sensibilty
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this happens to a lot of people. what happpens is that subconciously, you think that you don't deserve a relationship this good.  You said its your best ever right? well if you keep tripping over whether you're gonna do something stupid or not, you're gonna end up doing something really stupid.  so concentrate on how lucky you are, and also concentrate on how you can make this already wonderful relationship even better, that way, when you do screw up, there will be so much more positive things you've contributed to this relationship and it'll survive those rocky times.
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yes it can, but you both have to be honest and trust each other. good communication is also another key factor in making this kind of relationship work.