Im haveing emotinal and friend problems ... wat should i do??
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Perhaps I can help you out a little.  I have been dealing with a bout of depression for about a year now.  So I understand your situation.\n\nIf your friends seem to be distancing themselves from you, perhaps you should voice your concerns to them.  Ask them if you have done something to offend them, because you feel that they are shutting you out of their lives.  If they do not offer any answers, perhaps it is time to find some new friends.  \nPeople change over time, so do their opinions of others.  \n\nYou really should not allow it to hurt you physically.  True loosing a friendship is a traumatic event, but you have to be able to move on.  If you begin to dwell on why somebody dislikes you, you may miss out on forming another friendship with somebody else.\n\nI'm sorry you are feeling "down" from all of this.  All I can say is keep your head up, and live your life to suit YOU, and not those around you.\n\nI wish you all the best of luck in working through this situation.  If you ever need to just talk to somebody with a sympathetic ear, you can feel free to e-mail me anytime.  jam961@yahoo.com\n\nTake care, and God Bless You!
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Man, I know how that can feel...been there done that!!!  I found that I wasen't voicing my needs enough in some cases and in the others it was a matter of getting rid of the trash friendships that were merely sucking me dry emotionally and/or finacially.  Do yourself a favor and get rid of people who make you miserable and are just takers. Thinning them out and telling the people whom you choose to keep around what your needs are can be a very empowering experience.  Trust me, a few very close friends is worth more than a ton of supposed friends any day.  Hope this helps.
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Hi Holly.  Listen, 'real' friends don't put you down, aren't mean to you & don't make you choose between them & someone else.  'Real' friends are there for you - they encourage you, help you out, you should feel good about yourself when you are around them.  I suggest that you look around for some people who you share common interests in -- maybe music or drama or sports or band or art or church or something.  Build on that commonality.  Make sure that as you are building a relationship with these new people to keep watch for anything that doesn't feel like a 'real' friend.  There are nice people out there - you have to look for them.  Hope you find some 'real' friends soon!  :)
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i can undersatnd why u feel so......i myself hav felt so very often.\ni think u ought to go and talk things out wid ur frnd.coz if u dont do so, sometimes if someday u lose ur friend, u shall regret abt not having given the relationship the care and treatment it needed. no dont avoid her coz of ur pride. but if she avoids u too much even if u hav been a very gud frnd to her,then if i were in ur place i dont think i wud hav continued seekin her attention. i think in suach a cse it wud b better to try and presrve the other frndships tht i hav........
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If this is the biggest problem you've got going, then you have it pretty good. \n\nJust be pleasant and polite to all your friends, and they will return your kindness.
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I'm sorry that you're having a rough time. I would try to avoid them as much as you can, so you don't have to hide your feelings often. When you are with them, try to be polite, but I know it's hard. you might want to vent in a diary after you see them or to a really trusted friend. \n\nIf you can, try to get involved with other hobbies and interests, and if you feel up to it, go out more often with other friends. I know from experience that this is hard, but you may meet more great people and really get into your other interests. I really hope things go well for you.
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be patient with yourself. there are good and bad days for all of us.....things will improve. if it is really bad, please go see a therapist. there is nothing wrong with talking with someone about issues that you have... it helps you get it off your chest... good luck to you and god bless
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Decide how important of a friend this person is, if it is a very important friendship apologize to them even though you have done nothing wrong, if the friendship is not too important just let it go and maybe this person will get over it!
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Just be yourself and keep all the friends you have.  If someone doesn't like a friend of yours, tell them to handle it themselves and leave you out of it.  You are not a messenger nor a mediator.
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Big hugs coming your way!  I can't imagine going through that.  All I suggest is keep yourself busy with friends..keep your mind occupied, and don't take sides.  Good luck and smile, things will get easier in time!
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Just move on and make new friends. They are butts and not worth your time.  Just keep your head high. I know it sounds like the one thing you don't want to do, but just be happy.
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Dont feel bad baby . Just talk with ur friend on phone .. And analyse the problem with both of u . Dont feel ur depressed . Just take out anything in ur life easy . It helps u grow well . U r too Young u have to meet so many pro in ur life dont feel bad . So talk with ur friend and clear the problem as soon as possible . \n\nFriend
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Oh, hon... I'm so sorry.  What should you do?  Well, obviously, its important to confront them (SO MUCH easier said than done, i know).  I think that maybe you need to spend some time with yourself.  Get to know yourself, love yourself again.  Its so easy to feel bad about yourself in these types of situations, but you shouldn't.  THEY are the ones who should feel bad about themselves.  Join a group, make some new friends.  Most of all, know that you will be, someday, treated the way that you deserve.
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dont listen to the person above me maybe he really neede a friend at that monment and you cut him off or maybe he really wanted to tell you something i think you just hurt his feelings just apologize and ask him whats up with the way hes treating you
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If your so called friends are treating you so poorly then I don't think they are really your friends to begin with.  Find new people to hang out with that really care about you for who you are and won't judge or make fun of you.
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Sweetie, I'd delete them right back.  You were friends for seven years and they zapped you just  like that?  Your friend didn't consider you a friend.  You have to face it and find a better friend.  Your friend left you for a reason and because they were really cold, you should just  let them go.  They are saying they don't want you around.  Nothing you can do about that.  Can't force a friendship on someone who doesn't want  it.   I can be your yahoo friend if you want.
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JUST IGNORE THEM! TRY TO FIND A NEW GF AND BFF. DONT ACT JELOUS OR THEY WILL BE WORST! THATS WAT I DID AND IT ALL WORKED!!