if you love someone more than life itself how would you get her back?
471476
Realize that no matter how much it hurts you might never get that person back from either your mistake or that persons. If it's meant to be, it will. Hate that statement, but it's true.
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Walk away.  Seriously.  Don't waste your life because you don't wanna hurt her.\n\nI stayed with a girl I didn't love for a year and a half after I realized I didn't care about her any more... why?  Because she loved me and needed me.\n\nIt's lost time, and I'll never get it back.
359452
you can't.  all in all, she'll love when she thinks she can.  The best you can do is continue to love her and be a friend.  One day she may see the gift she has in you and learn to love.  Whoever said it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all was obviously never really in love.  And obviously not with someone who didn't love him back.
359242
MAY BE SHE WANTS TO GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE IF SHE DEPENDS ON YOU SO MUCH - JUST TELL HER THAT YOU ARE SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED AND COULD WE PATCH UP - A RETURNED LOVE IS MOSTLY BIGGER THAN THE FIRST LOVE AS IT COMES WITH UNDERSTANDING AND A SENSE OF LOSS
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You really have the patience and you do care for her a lot. But i feel that she does not deserve someone like u. Find someone else.\nI know that it will hurt. But reality sucks and you have to accept it. I am really sorry dude.\nBut them again, if you really love her. Give her one more trial. None of us are prefect and we commit mistakes. Just conside this as a foolish mistake by her and give her one more chance.\nForgive & forget. As long as it does not hurt u.
81746
Set her free and see if she comes back to you... if she does, then she loves you!
435674
Than try to call her and tell how you feel in a matter of wanting her back winning her back i suggest you to do it inmmidiately until she finds another person!!! :)
658405
not advised. you may want to talk to someone you trust like a friend, family member or counselor about how to move on with your life and find someone local who can love you back.
425646
awww :( i'm sorry...try to go back to the someone that you love....tell her how much you love her...if you want her back....6 years is a long time, and its not too late to save it from slipping away
279455
Give her and yourself some time.  You may get back together, or you may find someone else that you like.
112072
Ask yourself if why you want her back.  Ask yourself why you left.  Is it because you feel guilty?  Did you desire someone else and now that it is over you want her back?  Examine your love for this person.  If you truly love her then you will be concerned about hurting her again.  Maybe it is best that you don't go back.
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OK, "marry her if you truly love her"??  What the fuck is that?  That's not an answer?  The girl obviously doesn't want to be with him anymore, so how is he supposed to marry someone who isn't with him anymore?  Jees, some people's kids, I swear!\n\nMy advice is to throw in the towel.  If you read one of my questions, it's not the same...but it's the same concept!  You are in love with her and she has given up on your love, correct?  I.E.-the coming and getting of all of her things brings the closure to the relationship-she has given up on the relationship.  I know it will be super hard...I've been there...it was even harder coz my kids were involved.  There will be a lot of decisions in your life that you WON'T want to make...but you realize that you have to!  Like this one...she's not coming back.  It's possible...in the future, when she realizes how stupid she was being...but as of right now and probably the next few months at least...she's moved on...you should try to, as well.  If you need to talk to someone about this, contact me!  I will try to help you through this...I've been through TWO extremely hard break-ups.  good luck!
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Tell him how you feel. Ask him what you think may have gone wrong. Try and make it up to him in small steps. Make it look like you'll do absolutely ANYTHING to get him back. That way, he will know that you love him and he might just get back with ya.
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I am in a similar relationship, but I know she's the one, the circumstances are just tough for us.. being so far away. Test your love.. while he's away, take space and see how you really feel without him. At first no matter what, it will be so hard.. but it will get better. Then.. the test comes.. after not having him in your life much, have a long talk and see how it feels. I lost her because I doubted someone so great could love me.. but after she gave up on me.. I realized how much she really does love me.. and slowly I am gaining back her trust, and she has all of mine.
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the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
246920
Well, you just learned the first lesson of love. You cannot have your cake and eat it too. Unfortunately now all you have is crumbs on your plate. It's not up to you now, it's up to her. And after the way you treated her do not be surprised if she is not to warm to the idea of getting back with you.
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If you don't love her, end it. Let her go ahead and kill herself. You shouldn't force yourself to love someone.\nJust be gentle when you do it. If you don't break it, you wont be a happy man.