Why do guys always think perverteatly when I tell them I am in school for massage therapy?
456580
You need to remind them that not all massages end with a "happy ending"...\n\nA lot of guys haven't actually had a proper remedial massage.\nAnd I'm sorry to say, a lot of guys are morons.
168904
Maybe they are jealous of you. U R probably super cute, and to make themselves feel like they have control over you, they make you feel unworthy. Just move on, it's High School, and everyone fits in somewhere.
171300
Eighth grade is tough! This is a time when both boys and girls are trying to establish who they are as people and self-esteem can be knocked down by a single comment. \n\nYou sound like you are a happy person. This alone is a precious gift that probably most of the "divas" at your school don't feel regardless of their outward appearance. Don't lose that quality because you'll find later that most "normal" people want to be around happy people more than outwardly "pretty" people. I personally think it is a shame that beauty tends to be defined by magazines, advertisements, and Hollywood. Most of what we see isn't even real. (Did you know a very popular "sexy" lingerie company digitally alters their models so that their bodies look different? Most have been made thinner, given a tan, skin imperfections airbrushed out, and even their legs lengthened! I saw this on a documentary once on how women tend to judge themselves compared to unreal ideals. Plus, actresses and models have makeup artists that know how to make them look different for the camera.)\n\nUnfortunately we can't make people like us. We can, however, work on liking ourselves. The guy you like may be asking himself how he can get to know you, but is wrestling with fears of being rejected. Let him know that you are "safe" to talk to. Smile and say "Hello" when you see him. If you know something that really interests him and he is knowledgable about (sports, computers, math for example) ask him a question about it. Most of all, be real to yourself. Don't pretend to like or be something/someone that you aren't in order to attract someone else. Don't worry about being "thin and pretty"..focus on living a healthy lifestyle and being genuine to who you are.
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If it is way too personal it might be sexual harrassment, if you are young please go to a school counselor about it.  If you are at work, an adult, Ask yourself, is this a pattern?  Do others experience this?  Again, you can discuss it with your personel department.  If all this is too risky, there is a way to avoid questions like this, without lying... for example, you could say "Why do you ask?"  or "Actually, I have a man in my life" (a pet, perhaps?), or maybe, "I'm sorry, but I make it a practice of never discussing my personal life at work.
648015
They're trying to change you. It's common for people to try to get under your skin if you're too calm and serene. I don't know why. It's like having an itch. you just have to scratch it.
647953
Odds are he means what he says.  He's trying to support you and make you feel loved.  If you want to really turn him on, wait until you're in public and discreetly press your butt up against him and give a little teasing rub.  When my gal does this it really drives me nuts.
419927
Guys get the impression that you are either a hoochie or a big flirt & think that you would cheat-period...regardless of what they say to your face...that's what they're thinking.If hoochie & big flirt sounds positive to you then be my guest...
786915
They think you're too focused on school, etc., to bother with them. But don't lose heart — some guys actually find that sexy. Either way, I'm proud of you for knowing what matters.
496527
Probably because you personify what many wish they had the guts to admit too.  You may have an awesome 'aura' that people pick up on as well, since you are comfortable with your own sexuality.  Who knows?  Just be true to yourself, and just because they ASSUME you will sleep with them doesn't mean you will or have to!
520648
I KNOW!!! Like if I'm just talking to some guy in private about nothing in particular, people go all pyscho and think we're hooking up............
1045713
Just know that their might be some juniors and seniors that want to talk you, but be careful because most likely they just want u for that one thing. (sex) Don't make a mistake, just be aware because there will be lies. And don't get yourself into anything where people are like "Oh that's the girl that.....".(somethin negative) Because you don't want people to know and remember you as a person that you're really not.
735
Lol, there is no such thing as out-perverting a pervert, I am afraid. The weirder you get, the more they are going to be interested in you and the more they think they are rubbing off on you!\n\nCall the police or something.
451825
My husband was that way in his early twenties when we were dating. It's a guy thing. I think they do it to not look like the girl is in control of them. They mature eventually. I would talk to your boyfriend alone and ask him. Do you think you act different when your around your friends? Why do you think your friend teases me?  Say it in a calm and casual way. Just to see what he says. You could even kid around with the guy who teases you about your age and say, by the way your acting you wouldn't know the difference in our age.\n  In the end it seems all boys and young men go through that phase. I learned to give it right back to them. I would like to think they think of you as a friend and they are kidding around. I remember a time when i didn't like joking around or "busting chops" but as i got older and learned how to give it right back. I learned not to be so sensitive, not that you are, and it actually made the guys I hung out with more comfortable around me. There were times when I would give it right back and they would say something that made me a little sensitive and I couldn't think of anything to say and it was at thoughts times when I learned to laugh at myself and say to them "o.k. you got me". I hope i could help. I know exactly what your going through, I was there. I does get better.
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they might not know they are being insensitive. girls can be hypersensitive, and boys don't understand why. maybe he's saying things that sound good in his head, but come out wrong. maybe he's doing it to look macho in front of his friends. there are a multitude of reasons. unless they are emo or gay (or dr. phil) there is no way a guy will be able to know exactly how you want him to respond to anything...therefore he doesn't respond right, and you label him as insensitve.
371980
Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.
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Wow, okay you have plenty going on without this guy.  First, don't you already have a boyfriend?  Why are you in a relationship with someone while you're interested in someone else?  You are being mean to your boyfriend by leading him on.\n\nPlus, it sounds like you left something out of your story.  Nobody just stops talking to you and gives you mean looks because you said you are going to miss him.  There's probably a lot more to this than you're willing to tell.\n\nDon't you have enough on your plate to see a therapist already?  Seriously, seek professional help about cutting yourself.  It's not "cool", it's just sick.  Do you think a future guy is going to be turned on by all your scars?  Please seek help before pursuing other relationships.  You have enough baggage for your young age.
210990
If you are told your hot, it's because you are in his opinion. It has nothing to do with your sexual preference. I think he is just jealous that you are that good looking and that you prefer a female over a male. I find nothing wrong with that. I think it is natural and everybody has a choice on who they want to be with. He is just trying to get at you, don't let it disturb you much, does he have a girlfriend, he's probably jeaulous that you have. Good luck.