I have excessive flow of pre ejaculatory fluid during love making how can i reduce that. thanks?
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I think yours just is a case of Praecox ejaculation.\nIn fact its is any ejaculation that occurs involuntarily during the sexual act and BEFORE the penetration can occur even. Any short time concerning the duration of the sexual act mustn’t confused with the premature ejaculation. In fact, medically the penetration and the ejaculation inside the vagina exclude the problem. \nI don’t know what exactly your problem can be, but since it’s mainly a psychological or mind problem, some specific drug could be taken, but ONLY with the consent of the doctor, while there are some different methods to fight it too. I think it could be a hyper sensibility case too. \nIt’s not the right place here to prolong and I’ll advice you to talk with some specific doctor.
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premature ejaculation, its a problem that lots of guys have, try wearing 2 condoms to lessen the pleasure impact, u just get overly excited
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I feel for ya. \nBy the way, I noticed your question about premature ejaculation, and wanted to help.\nTo help him help himself, get him to excercise his "pc" muscles--stands for pubococyxx, or something like that, and you have them too. When he urinates, have him clench down to stop the flow--those are his pc muscles. The simplest way to excercise them is by stopping and starting urination. Then, when you two get back in the bedroom, he can clench down to stop ejaculation--although it does take willpower.\nFor external help, there are several possibilities, depending on how kinky you want to get. Wearing a thicker condom is a good solution, most of the time. There are also creams availible. And of course, you can try a c0ck ring--or c0ck rings. Play around, have fun with it!\nAnd in the meantime, feel flattered that you excite him so much.
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There are many ideas on the matter. Exercising the PC muscles is a good start. They are the same muscles you squeeze when you stop a flow of pee or when you ejaculate. Practice squeezing without using your butt muscles. You can do this exercise whenever you remember, driving, sitting, walking, anywhere possible. Stopping your pee midstream helps strengthen it too. Another thing is to practice delaying your ejaculation. During masturbation bring yourself to the point where you are just about ready to ejaculate then stop and squeeze your penis right below the head until the sensation passes, then continue masturbating until you again reach the point just before climax. Repeat the exercise until you can't stop any more and you orgasm. The more you practice the better, soon you'll be able to tell when you're about to climax and so stop yourself from ejaculating during intercourse until you and your partner are both ready. Be patient, it takes a while to be able to catch yourself and stop just before you climax. With time and practice you could have sex for quite a while before you allow yourself finish.\nAnother method calls for squeezing the scrotum just above your testis when they move up as you near ejaculation. You can do this to yourself or you can have your partner do it. Don't squeeze your testicles or you might lose the mood, you just want to grab the scrotum and pull them down not allowing them to move up into position for the climax. Hope this stuff helps.
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Seems you have a high sex drive and this is not a bad thing. Remember...wetter is better.
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The longer the sex session or "masturbation" session and the longer you hold back from the moment of orgasm the larger the build of secretion fluids.\n\nSome guys just automatically produce large amounts of fluid instantly, it has nothing to do with sperm count-the semen is more fluid that helps nourish the sperm and carry it on its way...to wherever it may be that you have chosen.\n\nSo, if you have "dribble"  just build up to orgasm, hold back, start again and do this several times and then when you can no longer restrain yourself-release.  You will also find that this should make your orgasm more intense. Hope that helps.
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Natural Ejaculation Control Technique is a process where breathing techniques are combined with meditative efforts to stop premature ejaculation. \n\nHow to practice:\n\n[1] Relax and control your breathing - inhaling and exhaling normally. Keep your eyes loosely closed. Put your tongue against the palate. Focus your mind between your eyebrows at the center of your forehead.\n\n[2] Inhale through your nose deeply at intervals of 2-5 seconds until you can feel your abdomen expand, maximizing the capacity of your lungs. Now, focus your mind to the center of your body, directly towards your navel. \n\n[3] Hold your breath and move your expanded abdomen downward by contracting your upper abdomen. As pressure gradually builds up against the bladder and the prostate gland, shift your mental focus to the prostate area. * Step 3 is the most important step during intercourse – it requires that you hold your breath for as long as possible while applying pressure to the bladder and prostate area. This will partially block sensitivity to the penis, allowing you to last longer and control ejaculation. \n\n[4] Contract your anus by clenching. Then exhale air slowly out of the mouth, shifting concentration once again towards the center of your forehead. \n* You should feel hot energy rising from the prostate area along the spinal cord to your head.\n\nRepeat this cycle several times. But remember, when using the anal clenching method during intercourse, your inhalations and contractions of the abdomen should coincide with your sexual thrusting motions.\n\nAlthough, this might seem difficult at first, with just a little practice (alone or with a partner), you’ll soon master it.
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Cos when you c*m, your body's putting all it's energy into making a baby. To remedy this, you need to learn to separate your orgasms from ejaculation. Don't know much about it myself, so I'm taking my partner on a Tantra weekend, that's where it originated from, try www.heart-tantra.com, other than that, some people recommend exercising the pc muscles, the ones you contract to squeeze out that last bit of urine, though it's had mixed reviews. Hope that helped.
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You might need to see a doctor..just incase is not just wet wet wet LOL..\nIt might simply be a minor infection that causes more juice production.. \nHope you are just a lucky woman.... with no worries about lubricants and stuff..\nGood luck
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Control your premature ejacualtion
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Your question isn't very clear. You say it's a white liquid? Then something is wrong. You shouldn't leak semen or ejaculate by just talking on the phone. However, I assume that what you mean is a colourless thick liquid. In that case, I guess it's normal...The colourless fluid that is secreted is called Pre-ejaculate (also known as pre-ejaculatory fluid or Cowper's fluid). It is the clear lubricating fluid that is issued from a man's penis when he is aroused. Slang terms for pre-ejaculate include pre-come, precum, dog water, and speed drop.
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You're not going to lengthen your ejaculation or your pecker. Give her lots of foreplay before you stick it in, stop in the middle and change positions, do this once or twice. This will show you how to control yourself. Remember, for a woman, it's 90% emotional, so say your sweet nothings, ( I love you, you're beautiful, are you comfortable?) Make it an Experience for her, not just a fukk for you. Just try it.
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Too much natural lubrication (wetness) during sex reduces pleasure for both partners. Females lose greater stimulation along the vaginal walls. Men lose out on the corresponding ‘tight’ sensation that they love. We all have an optimum level of friction that is required to enable heightened pleasure for both partners, thus leading to easier climax. This level of stimulation can most easily be obtained by experimenting with your wetness level. Sex could be much more satisfying than what you think it already is. \nA woman’s wetness level increases naturally as arousal increases. But for some ladies, even the slightest turn-on is enough to produce an extravagant amount of lubrication. If excess wetness is a problem for you, OR if you wish to simply experiment with different levels of wetness, seeking the most pleasurable ‘tight’ sensation for your man, what can you do?\n\nFirst, realize that there is more involved in sex than just the intercourse part of it. More women achieve orgasms by clitoral stimulation than by intercourse. However, intercourse is an intimate act & should be satisfying when possible. If it is not enjoyable, then a couple will more than likely become romantically distant. \nSecondly, you should see your doctor to be sure there is no infection, abnormalities, or other problem causing your excess wetness, especially if it is something new. \n\nI can understand what they're saying (above), but there are lots of different things to try and experiment with positions etc- it can't be as bad as too dry, which would be painful and awkward...
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try using some lubricant like KY Jelly, also have him only insert it a little at a time until you get used to it. Sometimes it takes a little stretching on your part. Once you have sex several times then you should be able to handle it, and it should not hurt any more. Good luck!
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I assume you mean climax? sounds like you're trying too hard, theres no need. Just relax and enjoy it and it will happen naturally
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no but if it does you might need to get a phsycians advice, what do you actually mean by pumps? If times yea you to go to the dc if during that 1 intercourse no you will evenually get lose enough that it shouldnt hurt anymore tell him to slow down your not a dog
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Try using KY-Jelly when your jerking it as you called it. You can buy it at any pharmacy.