what if i have to choose between two girls,should it be one i love or one who loves me?
458302
It's an almost impossible choice. Does the one you love, love you back? If you don't love the one who loves you, then she is not the right one, if you truly know you will never love her, let her go, it isn't fair to keep her hanging on. Take a chance on the one you love and if it doesn't work out, at least you've done the right thing by the other girl.
10809
well.. just sit back and think... who would you give the world for?\n\nif u love someone, then u shouldnt really be attracted to this other person... \n\nyou need to sort this out yourself, by thinking, who do u see urself with in the future, who would make a better partner, who would u live with forever and noone else (what i mean is: if everyone died o disappeared, who would u (of the two) pick to live with you and only u) \n\njust more questions like that... no one can tell you except ur heart... so follow it \n\nhope this helped :)
357617
Decide which one you love the most.
1090083
be honest with yourself and both of them and make the best choice for you but you have to choose one . (please note: i've assume you are involved with at least one of them)
61601
It is better to have someone who loves you than the one you love.\nHe'll look after you in the best possible way.\nHowever, it is you who have to decide finally. Take the best decision.
294290
If you really are sure that you love that other person you should go for it and tell her how you feel. Because life is short and opportunities don't last forever.
201433
Choose the one that you can't live without.  There maybe two that you like, but there will be one that you couldn't do without, choose him.
1077132
This is a question that only you can answer. You have to choose, don't lead them both on. You need to choose with one you like more and stay with him. Maybe you should take some time to think about who that is, listen to your heart.
383533
neither. clearly you don't have Strong enough feelings for either girl, so move on to another girl who has everything you want, don't settle for mediocrity, even at you age. if you develop good habits like this now you will save yourself a world of trouble when you get older when it really counts.
814115
Both.  Especially don't chose anyone that has traits that makes who you are negative.  In orther words, someone's who qualities plays off your qualities making an unworkable couple, even if there is love.  Love alone is not enough.
540960
Optimally, neither.  But if I were forced to choose, I'd pick the one who loved me.  I'd be less likely to be taken advantage of.
150801
I wouldn't get confused and I wouldn't confuse them either. Simply put, I will choose the one who loves me the most. I will choose the one who doesn't love me for my money. Because money can bring you a million lovers.
659764
you have to make a choice....decide who is going to be your lover and who isn't....it may be hard but write down on paper all the things you want out of your relationship and then write down all the things that match up between your two candidates...do pick one and not ruin both of them by playing them along.  Good Luck
272492
ifU shouDON'Tave to stop and thyou're\niF THEY DONT UNDERSTAND maybe youre not ready and might get crushed.\nYou have to choose the one u love most and makes you feel comfortable.
1023846
If you have to chose one,be with someone who loves YOU more...you chances of being hurt are less and you will be taken care of much better then by someone who does not love you as much...
194141
i think you should choose the one u think you really got feelings for and see if he want to be in a relationship with you and respect you
240546
I can't tell you the answer. But I can say that you look at each, and make sure which one has the best qualities. When you choose, you have to live with the choice you make. I hope you fin d true love as I have, and don't let it go for nothing.....  Also please look at my question.... I need someone's help tooooo.....