how do i know a woman has reached orgasm?
459669
Is hard to say , they are really good trying to fake it
293221
Average time according to physicians: 6 minutes\n\nBut my advice to you: DON'T BE AVERAGE!!!!\n\nReason not to be average: The average time for a woman to reach climax is 12 minutes....
169542
Sometimes a woman cries from the sheer enjoyment of an orgasm.  If it has been a trying day or week, the release of an orgasm can open the floodgates of emotion that may have been held back previously.  It is rarely because of the act itself but because it is a time when your mind and body are relaxed and so you no longer have control over your emotions for a short period of time.  It is nothing to worry about. Just be happy that the orgasms are that satisfying!
1066618
Your technique may not be pleasing her.  Remember it takes a woman approximately 20 minutes to reach orgasm and only 5 to 10 minutes for a man.
486081
It depends on if she orgasmed or not if she climaxed it is the same feeling as a guy relaxed, destressed, if she didnt she is thinking that was it what about me!!! Yo dude get it back up I'm not done!!!
623485
I've heard it's possible, it's not from too many orgasms, it's from a woman's body having one that is far more intense.
218640
a woman can not orgasm if she is not completely relaxed, make sure she knows that you are very turned on by her and that you love every inch of her body men think it is them who make women orgasm but it is really the women who is in control of that
109651
definitely try to bring her to her orgasm first,u go afterwards...that good in lot of ways--thats a good way to preserve your stamina,and thats a good sign that you care about her and you are The Giving Kind.
824054
NOT MANY WOMEN HAVE VAGINAL ORGASMS.....I WOULD BE SECURE IN SAYING THAT 99 PERCENT OF WOMEN NEED CLITORAL STIMULATION TO HAVE AN ORGASM....IT DOESN'T MEAN YOUR A LESBIAN................
329917
The female orgasm is a myth. Less than 1% of the women experience it occasionally.
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She could easily be faking it if those contractions are not present. (I'm a woman, but I've never understood the logic in faking it, when that only promotes the very thing that is leaving us unsatisfied.)... Anyway, I'm pressuming your fingers are inside her, and if so, you should be able to feel those contractions.  No matter how strong our inner muscles are, we can't really fake the strenght and frequency of orgasmic spasms.\n\nSome girls find it difficult to reach orgasm.  Often because of hang-ups or sexual prejudices (sadly, we've still haven't quite  overcome the old teachings that sex was something a man enjoyed and a woman endured.).  If she's relunctant to touch herself, she probably doesn't know how to best stimulate herself and cannot show you what works for her.  If she's not getting as wet as she could, your ministrations might very well irritate her and she's faking it so that you'd stop.  Or she might have some psychological block that prevents her from letting go of herself to that extent.  Orgasm is a very vulnerable time and sometimes it's hard to let go if you don't really trust the person  you're sharing it with.\n\nYou can also tell when a woman is having an orgasm by her coloring.  She would blush basically all over.  Her whole body would become warmer and her breathing should become more shallow (another thing you can't really fake. How self involved does a man have to be to be fooled like that?).  In some cases, you can even see her pulse racing.\n\nBy the way, this is a fairly anonimous site, so I wouldn't worry that she might be upset by you posting this question here.  I wouldn't suggest you discussing it with people close to her, though.\n\nAsk her.  Try to get her to open up.  That's really the best way to find out what she's really feeling... Good luck
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the cervix "claps" so if you are inside her you can feel a contracting sensation.  Stick your finger in her anus while she is achieving orgasm and that will be contracting too. \n\nThe cervix does this to help the sperm inside so that it can get to where it is going a little faster.
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There is a way. It is a secret you learn from experience. You see orgasm is a physical thing with men. But women are a little bit more tricky its a mind and body thing both have to be on the same page. Try on top if you are waiting for him you will be sixty by the time you orgasm. On top you can accomplish clitoral and cervical stimulation by a rocking back and forth motion you will have to determine how slow or fast. but again I say you have to be mentally motivated. Good Luck.
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Depends on the guy.  I love it, but I like to see her enjoy the experience FIRST.  I can feel that I have done my job well, if she has been pleasured first.  Oral stimulation is a great way to bring a womant to orgasm (but it takes training on both parties part to understand what she needs).  Guys usually are either selfish or scared.  I have done well because most guys don't do well!
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Here's a simple way to "find" it:\n\nWith your lover lying down on her back, legs spread, kneel (or otherwise arrange yourself comfortably) so that you're between her legs, with your hand in front of you, so that (with proper lubrication, or sufficient arousal on her part, so that it's pleasant for her) insert one or two fingers (nails clipped, fingers clean) into her vagina, palm up.\n\nGently curl your fingers toward, you, palm still facing upward, so that the middle of the top joint of each finger (the spot where a fingerprint is taken) presses gently against the wall of her vagina, right under her pubic bone. \n\nSOMEWHERE in that area, more or less in the center (it may be up or down from where you first try pressing) is the g-spot. It often seems to, once found, be a slightly raised mount versus the area around it, but not enough to be able to easily find by touch.\n\nThe best way to be certain you've found it is to do this during sexual play, especially cunnilingus. If your lover's already quite simulated, she should feel, after gentle, repeated pressing on the right spot, an increasing sense of arousal, which can build up into a far greater orgasm than she normally has.\n\nEven women who normally only have one orgasm, and then are "too sensitive", can sometimes have multiple g-spot orgasms. One needs to pause, fingers still inserted if possible, while she catches her breath for a moment, then VERY gently begin repeatedly pressing the area. She may find, to her possible surprise, that it still feels good, not overly sensitive. One should lay "off the" clitoris until she begins to get quite aroused again, though.\n\nHere's a site with much more detail about this and other sexual techniques:
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You should be able to tell a real orgasm from a fake one, but in case you really don't know, look at her chest, under her neck but above her breasts.  A real orgasm makes the blood flow in a rush, and right after,  the chest area will turn red for about a minute.  No redness on her chest, not a real orgasm.  And stop worrying about the ding ding size, you have enough to get the job done.  If you get her worked up enough, (lots of foreplay) she'll come before you even get it all in, or very soon thereafter.
832846
Yes you will present the In's and outs of sexual positions, and state how effective they are in reaching the spots that bring a woman to orgasm....remember only those positions that leave lasting effect, are you even capable of that?.....