Mixed up 14 yr old boy the rest of the story?
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urrhh thats kinna scary..\n\num..i think you should send him to one of those boot camps for like the kind for the kids who dont listen to their parents..yea i think you should totally do that\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!\n\nAsoo<3
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Call DHS and report them.  I think you can remain anonymous when you do.  DHS will look into it and report anything they find wrong.  The police may eventually need to be involved, but whatever helps the child is best.
1099607
He sounds like he likes to play games.......I myself didnt like mixed signals growing up.  Honestly , you should move on and let him grow up a little
924250
CHILD abuse eh?  You say you are 22 yrs old - this is not a child.   You also write very well for someone with the disabilities you listed. \n\nOK - assuming that you are who you say you are....... Go to the police.   Take the person who typed for you - obviously you are comfortable enough with them and trust them with your 'history'.   Take them along for moral support.\n\nRemember, it is a criminal offense to make a false report, but if you are telling us the truth, you need to report it to the police and see that justice is served.
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i think that..  you were young at that time, i dont know how old you are now, but then.. does that experience still bother you now? i'd say, talk to him if there's a chance and find out what really happened, that is, if it's still important for you to know.. otherwise, just take it as an experience, nothing more.
582531
I <3 15 year old boys! But the one above me either lied about his age now, or lied about it in another question that he answered. Creep.
1056617
You do not owe him ANY explanation, period...what happened to you is tragic, but it happend before you met him, period. Did he tell you everyone he slept with...and did you really care. Well, except for sympathizing with you, which he certainly should...being molested is not a nice picture, as you well know, he has nothing to stick his nose into here. He is, in my opinion, crossing over a line that cannot be turned back on..in fact, I would seriously consider divorce, and I rarely tell that to anyone here...In fact, I am the first to say work it out...but he is accusing you of something that is a horror story to you. He is an immature, childish boy, not a man. Dump his butt and take all you can get from him. See a lawyer now. It is not going to get better with time. You deserve much better than this.
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if ur sure tht wht he is gotten into is really bad...u need to tell the parents. save the kid from making a big mistake. he might be angry at u for a while but when he grows up he will understand tht u meant only good .
921880
Man, he sounds like a real child.  You on the other hand sound like a real grown up.  You should be proud of yourself!
185933
Why, children involved?..if not and there is no legal reason for them to talk you should be at least questioning.. No I don't think that's unreasonable and if he were any kind of man then he would be considerate of your feelings on this subject... I'd tell him to get lost and don't come back until he figures out his azzzcrack from a ho in the ground
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Assuming this was fictional, and you are a budding author seeking feedback:  when I read that the son was 42 when asking, I became instantly aware of age-related conditioning in myself that I wasn't previously aware of.  You seem to have a knack for getting readers to their truth quickly through your writing.  Your talent can bless us all.\n\nTo consider your account non-fictional, additional assumptions from my conditioning were brought into play, just to equip me to believe this could be so.\n  \nIn either case, it doesn't make sense to me that the son's upcoming birthday serves as trigger to his "Daddy Christmas" questions.  Either he "believes" so would see the two occasions bring gifts under different formulae, or he doesn't "believe" so wouldn't be asking in the first place, much less throwing a fit about the answer received.
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I actually heard about this on the news. I dont know if it was you.What about the baby's father? Do you think he could have had anything to do with it?I suggest you have an independent lab do a comprehensive blood,urine,and hair sample drug tests on you to prove you did not do drugs. Think about everything your child could come in contact with. You may not have given the child cocaine but someone else may have. See if they can do any other tests on the child in case the first test was contaminated or inaccurate.
1115631
uve got a son and ur 14? and ur sons friend wants to know? think bout what ur typing b4 u do it
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I'm not sure but you may be interested in something that my son said to me when he was three.\n\nHe started to talk in complete sentences at a very early age. I used to lay in bed and talk to him till he went to sleep every night.\n\nOne night he told me about something that had happened to him. It seemed odd so I ask when it had happened. He said it happened to me when I used to be big like you. I asked him to tell me about when he was big before. I explained that He had been a man before. Not a man like you, a lot older. He seemed very serious so I just let him talk and he told me about the place where the babies wait to be born.  He said that he remembered the day he came to look at my wife and I to see if he wanted to have us as parents.\n\nThis story went on for several nights. I decided to see if he was making it up. So I asked him to tell me a story about something, and he was completely unable to fabricate even a simple story of two sentences. He could go on at length about things that had actually occurred,  but he was not able to make anything up and tell it.\n\nIt sure made me think.\n\nLove and blessings Don
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Honestly, your bf is not telling you the whole story. There is more there than he is telling you. If he did something horrible to a child, then chances are he doesn't want you to know. After all, would you stand by him if he actually did something to a child? Hopefully not. \n\nIf he was charged with something he didn't do, he should have no problem telling you what the charge is. However, if he did do it, he's better off not telling you so you will stay by his side. Keeping all the details to yourself is a sign of guilt. Child abusers are pretty lonely people by right.
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File a law suit against the Police agency right now for not doing a proper investigation prior to arresting your son. It's common in these cases that the police will just file a case without doing a good investigation.\nAlso file a complaint with your Local Dist. Attorneys Office on the Police Department and their not doing a proper case follow up, Make sure you also contact the State Attorney Generals Office and report the false charges.\nHave your son take a polygraph as well, even if you have to pay for it.\nIf contact was consentual and the girl has had prior sexual knownledge it also has bearing on the case as well.\nTalk to every boy she dated and have your attorney interview them.\n\nIt is better to spend the money now, than have a son as a registered sex offender.
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Jeezzz...that's alarming.  first go online and check out megan's law.  see if he's registered.  if you already know, call your local authorities and ask them what they think about the situation.  also call any child protection agency and alert them, ask them what they think.  and you can do this all anonymously. You can also contact any state or nation-wide organizations that work with protecting children.  it's good that this child has you watching out for them.  good luck with this.  it can be a dicey thing to interfere on behalf of someone else even if it's the right thing to do.   just make sure you're absolutely sure and all your 'ducks' are in a row so to speak, legally.  \n\npeace.