If a bf tells his gf that he doesn't want to marry her, should she stay?
468591
Depends on yuor feelings in the relationship. If your looking for someone to be something serious then you should move on and keep looking. If your only looking for something fun and flirty just stick with him.
488501
well it depends on why your telling him is it\n\na) you love him yourself and want to have him\n\nB) you love her and want her\n\nc) you don't understand why he is marrying her\n\nd) you know she has cheated and not faith ful to him\n\n\nif its a.b.c don't say a word\nif its D only say something if you have the evidence to back it up\nremeber noone knows what really goes on behind closed doors and just beacuse you may think that she is not right for him does not nesscarly make that true.
714359
well on one hand you do have a point but think about it, if her bf is a junior and she's a freshman dont you think that they should go? because if they stay together for a real long time he will graduate and by the time she's a junior he wont be around to go with her to her ball so let her enjoy it now when she's with him she deserves to have fun too. and your friend will probably ask her to go with him if he's going because its his gf and I'm sure he would like to spend more time with her and he probably thinks that this is a romantic way for them to get closer and deeper in the relationship he's not gonna ask someone else to go with him if he has his gf and I'm sure he likes her enough to take her is he's going.
1050721
If the girl is unsure, then she should ask the man. If she is still unsure, then most likely the marriage is not meant to be.
417518
not a good situation, she is telling you he is cheating to leave him alone and then as soon as your back is turned she is all up on him ! Ohhhh But Noooo, She is the one you should concider getting rid of !
433248
bcos then the man can have the pleasure without the responsibility! she's already married, so less likely to want a commitment from u...or so u think!
717858
Dear, i think it will be good for you to stay apart for a while. Until you are ready to see him as a real friend. Because, if he was telling the others that he is not going out with you, even before telling you, i think that is very rude, and it shows that he is not interested in going out with you as a gf. Buttt the good news is that there are more fish in the sea, move on, i guarantee that u will forget him after a few months. Why would you like to stay with a person who doesnt love u anymore? Is it worth? Is that what you deserve? NO.\nGod bless u dear!
620560
the line is *if i go there will be trouble, if i stay it will be double*\n\npresumably hes worried his girlfriend will be mad if he leaves, but if he stays her parents will find him and he'll be in worse trouble, therefore presenting the dilemma - do i want her to be mad at me, or do i want her parents to know im f****** their daughter?
137976
"if you don't know where to go, stay where you are." \nweigh your feelings. you and your bf have been together for four years... you love your bf... yes, you argue... don't all couples do? i think you're just bored. and it's understandable. it happens. for all you know your bf may be feeling the same way and just doesn't want to give up. \ndon't risk it.
40912
its bothering you because you know that you wouldnt want to be in her shoes. if he truly wants to end it with her, he should... and then he can pursue you!!
533678
:) hmm, a tough question, this one. I can't really say that she is supposed to leave her boyfriend because of you, or, that it is wrong for her to do so when she does love you and have no more feelings for her boyfriend.\n\nHowever, you have only known her for a little while. Don't you think you might just be expecting overly by speculating that she might consider ending her current relationship with her boyfriend?\n\nI only suggested that you should tell her how you felt about her as I know she will respect your determination/courage to let her know. Frankly, I didn't expect that your feeling towards her was strong enough to the point of contemplating whether or not she wants to be with you in the end.\n\nI don't really approve of this but who am I to judge since this is between you and her. No one can guarantee the outcome of both of your future. There's also a possibility after the both of you declare as couples, once you are apart, this sort of thing might happen again and she would leave you for another guy. First of all, imagine you're in the boyfriend's shoe; how would you feel if your girl left you for a guy whom she'd met only few months back?\n\nOn the other hand, it is her choice really, if she does sincerely loves you and her feelings towards her boyfriend is a thing of the past. I believe she is matured enough to think for her own good.\n\nBy the way, don't pressure her to choose between her boyfriend and you. It won't seem fair to anyone.\n\nI hope it helps.
152079
1. Being on the verge is for marriage, not bf/gf.\n2. She's doing this to him. Do you think it's gonna change with you? (of course you do)\n3. She's dodging you cause she doesn't want to really leave her bf, but she's attracted to you in some way, and wants you both. Force her, today, to make a decision. Tell her that if she wants to be with you, then to cut the other guy off tonight, and to let you know when she does it. Then plan something for tommorrow and see if she really did it.
664687
You tell your gf to choose.....and its obvious she isnt a good gf if she wants him back.
603651
you need to follow through with your commitment to your lady and stay faithful. if you cant do this then you are not ready for a comitment and should just break it off now before it is too late.\n\ncheck your heart now- and follow what it tells you. don't be a mindless man who follows the wrong head like so many men do.\n\nwe are counting on you to make the right decision.\nsusan
508599
Man if u let her stay with him alone for 2 weeks, then u are asking for trouble. If she's already been with an older guy, then she knows the deal. He sounds like a smooth talking guy anyway and what's he got to loose? nothing. So if she does stay there with him that long, u might as well get ready to find a new girl, cause ur relationship prolly wont last after that. She would prolly just deny that that anything happened with him, and then find some reason to break up anyway.
1149228
Hey gurl!\nwell if u like the guy and belive things will work, then i suggest u stay together!!\nface problems as they come...\nthis relationship might have more to offer than u may think....so why end it before it starts?\nJean
614295
Sounds like to me your bf doesn't know if he wants to listen to his woman or his roommate. Maybe he should choose which one he wants. No one can make your mind up for you. If you feel you have a problem with the roommate, talk it over with your bf. If he blows everything out, then chew him out. I can understand that his roommate has helped him but he can cause complications in your relationship if he's interfering with what you two are doing. I say just talk it over with the bf and see what he has to say about your feelings. If he loves you like you love him, then he will choose you over the roommate. I mean that's the logical choice right?