my husband want a girl friend.he iz satisfied with me but he need a other face .......?
465007
Personally, i'd tell him he could have as many girlfriends as he wanted, just not be able to keep his wife if he has any.
351843
He's committed to another woman.  It would be unkind and unprofessional to put the moves on him.  Don't poop where you eat.  Find a nice single guy, and life will be much, much easier for you.
570506
Before examining your wife, lets take a look at this dude.  If he was a friend of hers, he wouldnt be making underhanded comments about you, doing things behind your back, etc.  If he was a friend of hers, he would want to be friends with you as well.  I mean, he is a dude.  He knows it is shady to do things behind your back.  Plus, he is putting your wife, his supposed friend, in a compromising position.\n\nNext issue, it is 100% your wife's responsibility to do the right thing.  You probably have a hot wife so you cant blame dudes for wanting her, but you can hold her accountable for doing the right or wrong thing.  She is the one that is married.\n\nSomeone else said this and it is absolutely correct, approach your wife with your feelings in a nonthreatening or emotional manner.  You gotta tell her how you feel and let her know that dismissing your feelings as jelous or irrational is not acceptable.  If this guy is truely a friend, he would hang out with both of you.  Tell her that you trust her and thinks its positive to have lots of friends of both genders, but texting, meeting behind your back, etc. is not something that wives and random dudes do if they are on the up and up.  If they are such great friends, he should come over to your crib to eat steaks and have beers with both of you.\n\nDont accept her acting shady.  You know as well as I do what is going on if she is shady.  Also, don't bite your tongue and be permissive because others tell you too.  You know in your gut if you are right or wrong.
1172600
LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY!  It looks like he made his choice already.  A man will never leave his wife to be with the other woman.  If you guys were talking before he got married and he still married the other woman...I'm sorry to say, but he is not thinking about leaving his wife for you.  He has his cake and eating it too..so to say.  You are only hurting yourself if you continue to pursue this relationship.  Save yourself from anymore heartache and just end it.
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It is a bit loutish to truly ogle. My interest in other women's appearance did not stop with my marriage.  Some of us are people watchers who prefer to watch women. I often try to put a story with the face. I also like art and photography galleries. this is innocent study of human behavior. So if he is not turning to you and saying crap like "I wish you looked like that" or " Did you see the gams on that one,Ay". Maybe cut him a bit of slack. \nTruth is, when he loses interest in looking at other women he is probably not looking toward you either.\n\nIt never hurts to read the menu  even if you can't afford the entree.
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I would be pretty upset if I found out my husband had “secret female friends,” I'm sorry I mean “private friends.” It sounds fishy. I would be suspicious. You need to ask more questions...If it is so harmless then why would he hide it from you for so long? Why are all of his private friends female? I wouldn't accuse him of cheating entail there was prove. But you should defiantly keep a close eye on this situation.
915566
Think about this for a moment if you will, if he took all the time and energy that he has spent on you this past 6 months and spent it on his wife, do you think he would have a bad marriage? Another point to ponder, the feelings he has for you right now, do you think he had those same feelings for his wife when they had been going together for 6 months? One more, if he has shown this pattern before, how long before he is bored with you and needs another woman to make him feel good? You are asking us if you should have a relationship with a liar and a cheat, I would not recommend it. What I would recommend though, is for you to step back and look at your relationship with your head and not your heart so you can actually see what you are doing to him and his wife.
260389
relationships began with head games and cons will end with head games and cons. Get over it and move on with honesty. You want your man to trust you right?
470195
maybe u need relationship guidance or he needs more than 1 woman 2 satisfy him coz hes greedy.
689341
I have been married for 21 years.  First you have to be honest and communicate with your spouse.  If you had been, he may not have been spying on you.  Talk to your husband about it.  If he is uncomfortable with you two off somewhere, you should respect his feelings.  Only communicate with your friend if your husband is aware of conversations, meetings, etc.  My husband knows the male friends I may talk to or he can read the emails we send each other.  I also know of his female friends.  If it is innocent, then keep it in the open.  Would you really be o.k. if the shoe was on the other foot and your husband was off with a "girl" friend?  Alone?
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You were in the RIGHT, 100%.  And, it shows just what kind of shallow person he really is. You say you still love him but, do you really want to be with a person who'd be willing to walk away from the woman he supposedly loves over such a thing?\n\nSaving yourself for marriage is a wonderful gift for your husband. Find a man who'd be willing to reicprocate the same kind of gift for you.
112465
Your language implies that you are highly critical of him appreciating other women. Perhaps if you relax and join him in acknowledging and appreciating other women he too will relax and not feel that he has to sneak looks. Your tension indicates a lack of self confidence. As long as his appreciation is mature and he looks at these women as one who looks at a beautiful painting or sculpture then what is there to be concerned about? If he doesn't, then perhaps you can help by directing him and upgrading his level of maturity. My wife often points beautiful women out to me...
794720
Yes and no, it depends on your wives feelings. If she doesnt like it and you continue to do it even though it hurts her alot then its not right. If she doesnt mind and is comfertable with letting you have female companions then its okay. Its honestly up to her.  If you value her feelings then you will do what makes her happy, just like she should do the same thing for you. What you need to do is ask yourself why you want female companionship. If you notice any of your motives might be disloyal then its not alright.
145255
A lot of people play hard-to-get.  He wants you so badd... but you are so far away that he needs something to take his mind off of you.  Just being apart is not good enough.  If he had another woman, then it'll help him even more, although he loves you very much.
247438
All men look at other woman, it's ok as long as he stays faith full to you. You should start to worry if he doesn't look.
819037
You are taking your affections outside of your marriage and that is cheating.\nHe was trying to be understanding with the first escapade but now it is becoming serious and you need to listen to him or your marriage will fall apart.  \nIf you abslolutely cannot control your need to be with a woman, you will have to stop telling him about it......
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If you are not into it, leave him.  It is obvious that he does not think that you are enough for him, and he is going to go out and be with other women, regardless of how you feel, or even the risk of disease he will be putting you in.  Just tell the loser to get his sorry ass away from you, and move on.  You deserve better.