What are good topics for a flirtatious converstation on a date?
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Anything mildly amusing, but vaguely sexual is great for flirting.  A past experience that fits the bill is perfect.\n\nIf you want small-talk instead of flirting, leave  out the sexual part.
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Ask about his favourite hobbies,what he likes to do,and where to \nbring you on your next date...e.t.c\n\nThere so many things you can talk about man.......just don't 24/7 and you're safe.....
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Bait: Find a girl that aint a sh*t talker. Be yourself, but not a dork. Pick girls that have numbers close to yours(1-10). \n\nreel & catch: Talk about stuff that she could give relative input on. Asking what her favorite fish is is better then talking about something she can't relate to. Have a decent attitude. Don't make out more often then on a couple of the first dates. Try to score BEFORE the fifth date.
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This is a very true cliche...  Be yourself.  \nLet the conversation lead itself.  Don't worry.  Worry makes you nervous.  Laugh and be funny.  Remember he is just as nervous as you, promise.  If not more.  Don't see this as the only shot, it will make you more nervous, assume you will be seeing him again soon for something fun to do.  Going to a theme park and not a mall is always a good idea.  Adrenaline is a great shy buster and the fun of the rides brings you closer by both sharing something.  Try to bring things into your conversation that you can have opinions on (not to heavy though) - maybe you have the same opinions and that is cool maybe you don't and then it stimulates the conversation.    \nHave fun, if things seem to be going a bit slow (I trust they won't) make it happen, be bold, force the fun if you have to - sometimes it acts as a catalyst to get the fun started.\nTry some meditation (really) here's how:  Lie down on your bed in quiet and visualize everything going perfectly on the day.  Do this for at least half an hour each day until the day.  Don't imagine anything going wrong.  If you do banish the though and rethink it going really well.  It works wonders.  Finally don't be too sensitive if something does go a little off key, roll over it like a steamroller and move on to something fun, don't focus on the small things.\n\nGood luck. ;-)
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Tell her you want to take her out.Ask her what kind of guys she likes(ie; does she like bad boys, or nice guys?).Ask her what alcohol she likes to drink. Keep the conversation light - don't ask about her future or goals in life unless she brings it up.  I like funny, easy going conversations.I get bored with the question"so how was work, what did u do at work today?"-when i come home from work I like to forget about it.Ask her specific questions about herself that you want to know, don't be general & don't ask"so tell me about yourself" - instead ask her so what kind of food do u like?what movies do you like,etc. And then you tell her what food u like or movies u like.Then you 2 will just start having a good conversation & she'll feel open & free to ask u questions to.Then it will come natural & u won't have to think urself "ummm,what do i talk to her about?"
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Ask them about themselves.  What are their likes and dislikes.  Ask about their family, school, job.  Save the questions about whether or not they've been to jail for the second date.  ;-D
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need not to be goodlooking but presentable and decent.\nalways bring your sense of humour in any conversation, just to break the monotony of a serious topic. \nknow her knowledge level and favourite topic of conversation, then research and discuss the next time you see her.\nbe mysterious and don't be so agressive\ngood luck!!!!
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I can try. I will give you all the ones I have, and you can pick the best ones.\n\n    *  Who is most beautiful person you know (inside and out).\n    * If you could date anyone in the world, who would it be?\n    * Which famous couple throughout history would you like to be a part of?\n    * What is your most romantic dream?\n    * What is your most romantic memory?\n    * If you could kiss anyone in the world, who would it be?\n    * What is the most annoying habit that a romantic partner of yours has ever had?\n    * What is your biggest pet peeve, having to do with a romantic partner?\n    * What is the quality that is most important to you in a romantic partner?\n    * How many times during the day do you think romantic thoughts?\n    * Which relationship appeals to you more, a wild passionate one, or a quiet calm one.\n\nFor Dare\n\n    *  Attempt to stand on your head.\n    * Sing a song in front of people.\n    * Hop around to each person at the party saying, "I'm cupid, and I will help you find love".\n    * Do 3 consecutive cartwheels.\n    * Lead everyone in the chant, "We want food"!\n\nmore truth\nWho do you like?\nHow far have you ever gone with someone?\nHow far would you go with [fill in name here]?\nHave you ever broken the law, if so, how?\nWhat's your most intimate fantasy?\n\nmore\n1.Crush?\n2.How far have you gone...\n3.Have you ever tried drugs\n4.Do you smoke\n\nmore\nfor both sexes:\nTRUTH-"How old of a person would you do *stuff* with?"\nDARE-"Take off your shirt, and run around the block" (I've done this before) lol\n\nfor Guys:\nTRUTH-"do you prefer bigger boobs? If so why? If not, why?"\n\nfor Girls:\nTRUTH- "Have you ever thought of becoming a lesbian?"\n\netc, etc.. good luck ;) \n\nother than that, there are many good ones you can think up yourself, and depending on your style you can either leave in or take out those ones using sexual references, etc. Using an imagination, I'm betting you can think of a couple more, like, let me try..\n\nDare.\nI dare you to lick the floor\nI dare you to Call (a boy, doesn't matter), and disguise your voice, do something funny.\n\nCmon you can try, be creative. Not that hard.
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I think my personal favourite so far has been a gentle claw at the back of the neck during a kiss.  Thaaaat'll do it.  :)\n\nAs for flirting, practice the floor hook.  If you get the sense a joke or the end of a funny story is coming, look down and adjust something on your shoe, or the table.  When the punchline comes, half-grin and look into his eyes without moving your head from its position, angled down and to the side.  Hold it there long enough and he'll have to start flustering, unsure of what he just did.  \n\nNot only are you showing off an attractive profile and being playful, you put him in a position of being self-conscious and fluttery: emotions he'll associate with dating.  Floor hook.  Never fails.  (I should write a book.)  :D
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you should read a lot, especially current events and world news, know what you want in a girl so that you an ask questions, hobbies and movies, sports and places you've been or want to go to are great conversation grabbers...\n\nmusic..museums...parties...beaches and school topics.\n\nbut seriously, read it is sexy to be knowledgeable
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I want a girl to be subtle enough to make me think, but blatant enough that I know for sure I am not hearing her wrong.. I.E. don't use the old "is that a sausage in your pocket" line, but if I am carrying a box and she says "nice package" that would be cool.. Just sexual enough without going overboard.
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Strike up a conversation about what his interests are.
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Hows this? Strike up a conversation about something you both enjoy(sport..art museum..picnic...something casual and see if you both can agree to try it together. Would work for seeing a new band, just anything that would be a little spontaneous,casual and easy for each to do.
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Don't try to plan conversation......just go with it.\n\nMy one suggestion......pay for the date!
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I LOVE BLIND DATES BECAUSE THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE IS ALWAYS THERE. THAT PERSON COULD BE EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT, OR FAR FROM IT, YA NEVER KNOW BUT I GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL GROW AS A PERSON AND WILL COME UP WITH SMALL TALK AND LEARN HOW TO CONVERSE WITH STRANGERS BETTER! ITS A GOOD THING!
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Say hi.  Ask her about a class or teacher you both have.  Compliment her on her outfit.  Ask her about something you know she is interested in.\n\nTake it slow and have fun.
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A nice dinner and a local play is always wonderful.\n\nMy favorite date is horseback riding followed by a BBQ.  It is a very relaxing time, and you get to experience some peace and quiet too.