why does my best friend hate me for helping his sister?
465928
He's probably getting suspicious of you thinking you're wanting to get involved romantically with her.   You might want to only hang out with her around other people.
974808
Your old friend is probably feeling betrayed by you.  She thought that she was doing a good thing by being nice to the 'new girl' and in turn has lost her best friend.  \n\nyou probably need to make it known that she still means as much to you as before and that you dont want another person to come between you.  Good luck and let me know what happens
631292
Absolutely not! Do you know that hatred is the same thing as murdering in your own heart. If she steals from you, she is the one that is sinning, the best thing to do my friend is forgive her. Try this, call her or the next time you see her, tell her that you forgive her for doing that to you, what do you have to lose? HATE IS NEVER THE ANSWER
191780
This is when you separate the "women from the girls"...Be Strong!  Believe me when I say, you are not alone in this.  It's happened to most of us and it's not a good feeling, but you do get over it....it just doesn't feel like it right now.  When people feel intimidated by you, they feel the need to boost their own shaky self esteem by putting someone else down and because your best friend probably knows everything about you, you are an easy target for her.  For whatever reason (she's jealous, you are prettier, you are smarter, whatever) she's decided to ambush your friendship.  The best thing you can do is to take the high road and don't sweat it.  The more people see that this bothers you the more they are going to tear you apart over it.  Blow it off and move on to new friends.  BUT..play your cards close to the vest for a while until you are sure you can trust them.  And you never know...maybe she's a friend who can redeem herself and who just made a mistake...only you can be the judge of that.  But if you do become friends again...go slow.  Are you sure you can ever really trust her again?  Good Luck.
1046402
It sounds like your friend is jealous. Sometimes people do really mean things when they're jealous without having a reason.
192752
The way I see it, your best friend is the only one that is going to get really hurt.  Because your sister's ex is just talking to her to get your sister mad.  Your sister already made a decision and he is using your friend to make his.  Tell her to chill for a bit and see how things develop, just in case his "confused" like all men claim they are when they don't want to admit they f*cked up.  Good luck to all
196629
Mean? In what way? Stealing the last cookie in the jar? Yelling at you because she just tripped over all your textbooks lying over the floor? \n\nSisters can be mean-spirited to one another at some point or another. However, the key is to accept the other and to treat them like a live-in best friend. Try to tell her that yelling, snatching remotes, and the like upsets you. Slowly and surely, try to build a communication bridge between you two. \n\nBecause, i know, it's always a good thing to have a close sister when you need help dealing with the outside world. I have an older sister, and because we have such a close relationship, I know sisters are the best thing in the world.
820857
wow you have a problem.  You are going to lose somebody.  If  you talk to your best freind,  Your sister is in big trouble and I'm sure you will be held responsible.  After all, she's not responsible enough to control her own life, its very likely she'll blame you.  If you say nothing and your Best friend finds out you knew,  you lost the Best friend.  I'd say you have to talk to the Best friend and let her know whats up.  She deserves to know so she doesn't make a decision that she will have to live with.
585516
Seek professional help. First you need to tell her that she is pretty rude for thinking that you won't tell anyone that she is hurting her bestfriend, (herself). And if your friend is really you. Tell an adult at school or your parents, or a doctor. either way, this is not healthy behaviour and it is disgusting.
281824
'I know where you are coming from except my sister does not live with me.It sounds like she has some issues of her own.she could be using drugs and she really has no self esteen.All you can do is try to talk to her and be there for her when she needs you.I don't think you need to treat her in any special way. she will start to take advantage of you if you do.P.s. my sister use to 2 my best friend too.
1113769
People always have some kind of situation like this.  Well I don't understand why your mother and brother would insult her in any way, but that is something that a best friend would not want to here from their best friend's family.  If it hurts you that you feel as if your best friend is not considering you their best friend anymore, speak to them and tell them the complete truth.  Hang around other friends too, and try to get close to them also.  As time goes by people change, but you can't make another person feel the way you do.
264137
I don't think there are any words or anything anyone can say that will make this better for you and your friends family.  Acts like this are absolutely senseless!  Hatred is never easy to understand or make sense of and in this case it is senseless.  Just hold your friends memory in your heart and he will always be alive for you.  Continue on with the good you were doing, that can be the best legacy for the bad in this case.  I will be thinking of you.
337340
Well, I think there has to be a good reason for this, a good explanation, maybe U did something she didn't like it, maybe she got a wrong idea about a comment U made, sometimes that happens, sometimes people just feel bad for something we've done or said, maybe U didn't do it by purpose, but she took it that way.\nIf she doesn't want to talk with U on the phone, maybe U could send her a letter telling her that U don't know what U did wrong, but U really miss her a lot and U wouldn't like her to be away from U because a missunderstood, so, tell her U need to know what U did wrong to fix it.\nU could also try to send her a note telling her that no matter what happened U're willing to accept U made a mistake and U really think she's your best friend and U don't want to lose her friendship, besides, if she considers U as her best friend too, she will be able to talk to U and she will try to fix the problem and to find a way to get over it.
129290
Why in the world do you want to hurt your sister?  You are a mean person, leave her alone. People like you are a danger to society.
163496
I have the same problem with a sister who also phisicly hurts me. You could get revenge or try to ignore her (good luck with that) I really wish I knew.
165335
If you have to work to make them happy then you shouldn't be calling them your best friend. I've had the same best friend for 13 years (Since we were about 8 or 9) and all I've done was be there for her when she needed me. If they want something more from the friendship then maybe they're asking too much. Just do what you can and what you can't do, if they're your best friend they'll understand.
926937
Listen sweetie, no matter how much you may trust a person that is your best friend something will go down that may cause them to stab you in the back. I don't know if it is supposed to happen or what but all I got to say is keep your guard up. Just don't trust everyone or anyone with your most deepest secrets, feelings, or thoughts.