Is it good being a nice guy?
463158
I have this same problem, I'm 22 and just coming out of it. The trick is to find the right mix of Gentlman and Confidence. Too often the nice guy lets the girl take charge of a situation, capitulating to her wish because she is a girl. This is not what they want. They want a Man who will be a Man and who will take them along for the ride. The Gentleman must fill this role while at the same time respecting his woman. When you get those two aspects of manhood down your luck with girls will change.  You'll find a girl who is worth your time.
763133
Yes there are decent men out there....love us never having to say you're sorry, because if you love someone, you wouldn't hurt them in the first place....a women's worth is so high, they are the life bringer into this world.........treating a lady is easy... if you truly love them....IT comes so naturally...
848089
The  problem with  that   question  is  in the  definition of "nice".    Lots of times  people  are  described  as "nice"   because  they  are  always   r eady to  just  "go along"     They   don't  want to "argue"   or "say  no"      "Will you  watch  my  kids?"  sure.   "Can   I borrow  your car?"    OK.     Can I borrow some money?   Oh,  all right.    Those  kind of people are not being "nice"  they  are being  stupid  and they will   forever be taken  advantage of.      Yep,  they   always finish  last.\n\n                               It  is   possible to be a  TRULY  nice person  and still be  strong,     and   confident,  and alert   to  situations  where    somebody is  trying to "slip one over  on them"   They  stand  up for  themselves, smile,  and  say NO.       Soon others  see them    as "leaders"  confident,  well  organized in  the  way they live  and  deal with the situations of life.   BUT -  they keep  the smile on their  face,  do not lose their sense of compassion for  the  REAL situation when a  person is genuinely i n  trouble  and needs   a  leg up, and  they  are clearly  alert, well informed,    and    very  very good  a t  analysing any given  situation to  know   if it is  genuine or not.       You can't put  one over   on that kind of person,  and  anybody who  tries will go  away disappointed.    But  everyone will  agree on one thing.   That person is not only smart..  but  NICE with it.     And that  person,  guaranteed, will never finish   last
1040899
i really want a nice guy
419541
great question and the trouble is you're trying to understand it from a guy's standpoint so you have no chance.  it's definitely down to what the girls here have been saying that they just feel uncomfortable with it and there is also a sense of predictability in treating a woman too nice. I'm single but cool with it as I know the key to all of this is being who you really are and not trying so hard to impress.  concentrate more on what makes you happy in life and the right girl will be attracted to that. don't try and make others happy as you'll lose sight of yourself
437006
Yes there good men out there!! Just keep being yourself and Mr. Rigth will find u. Enjoy yourself but be safe finding him!!!
329577
nope sorry! is he a nice guy?
1034185
Are you being serious??\n\nYes, when u find a decent guy
105745
Yes nice guys finish last. It's all a matter of the nice guys waiting for the right moment, while the bad guys try anytime. Therefore the bad guys have more opportunities to finish first. Nice guys are always going to finish last. As a nice guy myself I know this to be true.
387030
Nice guy's only seem to finish last, when all is said and done, nice guy's finish first with the best women. It's a sorting out process, you don't want the women who like bad guy's anyway.
176965
he seems like a nice guy.. talk to him about how you feel!!
631852
no some guys are just genuinely nice. i do favors for any friend, male or female. just because a guy is nice to you it doesnt always mean he wants sex.
100960
YES!!!  I am one of them and most of my friends are!  I think nice people can be hard to find but if you look and you're nice too, you can find them!  : )  Being nice is the only way to be...I have bad days but still try to be nice!
70131
The debate of "nice guys vs. bad boys" has been raging for quite a long time. The nature of being a "nice guy", however, is commonly misunderstood. It is believed that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic, etc. is what being a "nice guy" is all about and thus those qualities should be avoided, as it is the "bad boy", the rude, the inconsiderate, the impolite, the rough guy who always gets the girl while the "nice guy" is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand.\n\nIt doesn't mean that women prefer rude over polite, inconsiderate over considerate, etc. It all becomes clear when we look at a very important issue often overlooked when trying to define what makes the "bad boys" beat the "nice guys" when it comes to getting the girls. It is sexuality - the "bad boys" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while the "nice guys" hide their sexuality as a part of their agenda of being friendly, polite, and courteous towards women.
623556
there is lots of women that like nice guys. the bad guys usually get the attention because they make a move first. go ahead and be nice, but not shy.
864436
Let my answer your question with great sincerity and thoughtfulness.  If I were to meet a good man who is confident, intelligent, romantic, honest, faithful, mentally, emotionally and physically healthy, I WOULD SHOUT THANK YOU TO G-D FROM THE ROOFTOPS!  Does that answer your question?  Need I say more?
209121
Nice guys finish last because they are smarter. A good thing is always worth waiting for. They usually are more humble than most and have no need for the 'glory'of being first. Trust me humility makes you a better man and a better lover.