I want to meet a cool girl that wants to get to know me...why does that never seem to happen?
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BECAUSE,if your like me,you,re too nice for half the girls around you.Cool girls always pick the bad guys and then later cry and complain about what jerks they are!!if you,re like me,just act like you,re happy being single and alone and they,ll begin to notice you.the secret is.... its ok for women to complain about being single,but its unattractive when us men do it,I know from experience
1041231
that's fine as long as you're 1. close to her age 2. don't stalk her 3. willing to accept rejection.\njust start by saying hi and introducing yourself...i hope all goes well!
159940
hmmmm\ntry try try n try until u get the girl. the other day i was talking to my husband bout dubais night life so he told me that there is no concept of dating in dubai unless the girl gives u a chance so u better look good who know sumone will soon get in touch with u or mayb u have a secret admirer
572141
Dont just go up to her and the first thing you say is "wanna go out?", its too random. Start a conversation and then start working up to it from there.
100393
It sounds like you are shy. Once you get to know the girl, it will get easier.
1060194
uhmm i'm a girl. \nand that isn't true about all girls!!\nmaybe your just not meeting the right ones!!
943962
first you need to get to know her somehow. does she have a facebook or myspace?  find her that way, and talk to her on there... if not, find some other way to get to know her before you ask her out.  ok?  otherwise you might freak her out.
334048
Perhaps if you found out what this girl is interested in, you could talk to her about it and recieve longer answers from her. Do you know any of her friends? They could probably help you to get to know her better.
595132
well, you can always give her compliments! Find out what she likes to do, what are her hobbies! Try to find a connection that you two can talk about even deeper! You'll be amazed at how easy it is once you start talking!! \n\nGood luck to you!!
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You sound like an intelligent person and fun to be with... but it would be wise if you get to know someone in person first BEFORE you open up an invitation to have a date with you, don't you agree??\n\nGuess it just goes to show that I'm from the 'old' school... Good luck in your search though!
595657
nothing, from what youve said.  maybe you just havent met the right girl yet.
981772
=This is an easy one. Next time you talk to her ask her right up front if she is just interested in getting to know you and go from there. Good luck
1151325
You're just going to have to wait for them to come to you.  Most people cannot find them if they look, and when they just sit back and wait, they will come to them.  I fyou really want to meet them that bad, why don't you try a phone dating service, or an online match-up service, uch as match.com.  Glad to help...
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first off... get some confidence.  walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.\n\nor.... \n\nyou can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
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Well you're shy, so then the confidence thing will only work if you're slightly cocky.  So we'll ignore that approach.\n\nYou're best bet is to find something in common with the girl you're interested in.  If you can't strike up a conversation with somebody, it's not going to happen, YOU GOT to be able to casually strike up a conversation.  If it's someone you 'sorta' know, be able to say hello & find something that relates to her & you.  If not, then say something random that you like & see if she responds (NO PICK UP LINES!!!)  It really doesn't matter what you say, just the fact you said it.  \n\nNow from there you can ask for casual dates, if you are not comfortable asking for 'dinner' or 'going back to my place'  You need to be able to find out what she is interested in & then find something that would interest her in doing it with you.  If you're talking about movies, find a great movie nearby & ask if she wants to go.  If she like coffee, go for coffee, if she likes plays, find something like a play.  IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE AWKWARD!  All you need to say is 'Hey you like ______?  Me too!  They're showing ____ at the ______ on _____!  Would you like to go?'  If she says no, than move on.  If she says sure, casually ask for her number so you can 'coordinate' it & give her one phone call so she knows it's all arranged & off you go. \n\n* Important at the end of whatever you're doing don't just go straight home, find something else that can detain her for awhile, so you can talk about whatever you chose to do.  This'll show your interest & then you can plan (Or run away) for what happens next*
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Find things she is interested in and do them with her. Let her get to know you as a person. It also depends on your ages. She probably just wantes your attention, so give it to her.
480731
What are your hobbies?\nUse your hobbies as a way to meet to new people. Talk to the girls, flirt a little bit, but avoid seeming desperate. And don't go only for the most stunning girls, look for the ones that really have similar interests as you.