Well when do i know if I am ready to ahve sex?
460771
You know when you are ready to accept all the consequences: the good and above all, the bad. When you think you are ready to raise a child if you get pregnant, or to live the rest of your life with a sexual transmitted disease like aids and syphilis. If the guy then is worth it and you are prepared to tell your child why you had him/her, then go for it. If you can't accept the possibility and probability of any of the above, then don't.
241719
Whenever you feel that you are prepared enough to deal with everything that comes with a baby..... As long as you know in your heart that yo u can take care of him /her financially and as long as you can give that baby love unconditionally, then I feel that your ready. I would advise anyone to make sure that they don't have to depend on nobody for anything b4 they decide to have a child. There are alot of resonsibilities that come along with it...
537380
ARE YOU READY FOR IT??? thats the question u should ask urself. having sex is not just bout getting physical, its about being comfortable with each other. your first time may feel a bit awkward but you'll get the hang of it over time. Dont worry if u think you are gonna embarass urself as its your first time. she'll "take the lead" and you'll learn how she wants to be touched etc. \nsta cool. lots of luck.
803219
The only right time to have sex in any relationship is when BOTH parties are ready to do so. Don't do anything that you will regret later........ you could end up damaging the relationship that you have started building.
519200
When you're ready, If you have to ask someone then you're not ready.\n\nWhen you know all of the consiquences of sex, (eg.)Pregnancy, Hiv/aids.
909481
No, it doesn't mean that you are on the verge of doing anything. Virgin was a term used for as long as there has been civilization. Basically you haven't had any type of sexual encounter, and oral sex is still sex! You should wait til you are ready, and make sure you do it with the right person, my friends did that and they regret it to this day.
546519
listen, if you don't know how to tell him, then that right there is a sure sign you're not ready. you need to feel comfortable talking about it, including birth control & protection. make sure you're really ready and that includes talking to him. just my advice.
1131039
SWEETIE WHEN U START HAVING SEX THATS WHEN U SHOULD START---TAKE ADVICE FROM A NURSE--SO DONT START SEX AND U DONT HAVE WORRIES
685397
Don't ever let any guy pressure you into having sex. You will know when the time is right. And if some guy really cares about you he will respect that.
655731
whenever you feel ready for it...you will know in your heart when you are ready! Dont rush anything!...you can be young but still know that you are ready!\ngood luck
454824
You didn't mention if this was your first sexual relationship with a guy. I would have to say let nature take it's course. If the two of you have spent a lot of time together; cuddle time, petting time, even sleeping together with out having sex and your comfortable together; I would say if you feel your ready just make sure you take the proper preventative measures to protect the two of you from any form of STD or unwanted pregnancies and well go for it. *smile*\n If this is your first time; I would suggest if this is something you both want, work your way up to full intercourse. Explore one another's bodies, take a shower together ( that's always fun!! ), foreplay, foreplay, foreplay *laugh* Above all else, once it's time and it is your first time, RELAX and let your body take your mind into ultimate enjoyment. Granted no matter what unless you have really done heavy foreplay and are totally relaxed your going to feel some pain but just as fast as you have it, it's gone.\n\nSo either way as others say, use the proper protection, set the mood, and if both of you are ready, have fun!!
626803
Sex is great, when you are ready, if you have to think about it, then you shouldn't have it, remember life is precious and don't think you have to things, just live life and you will know when you are ready!
89305
You should wait until you're both ready. To sound stereotypical, sex is a big responsibilty. No matter how safe you are, there can always be the risk of pregnancy or getting an STD. Be sure you're ready for an consequences that may occur.\n\nBut if you decide to go for it....HAVE FUN!
938831
As with anyone, you should not feel pressured into anything.  You will know when the time is right.  If you feel "awkward", with the idea of a physical relationship, it does not sound like you are ready.
250162
Time will tell.  You could be with someone for one day and think you know them.  Try to be with them for a year or two and you'll get a better sense of that person.  If this has something to do with fornicating, I believe you should at least wait a few months from when you started dating to see if he meets your expectations.\n\nHere's a thing about sex and timing - you could be with the perfect person but if you have sex too soon, you might ruin what could be there.  Trust me, it happens.
438891
not at all...i cant believe that u know him that well to see if you are ready and a question...do u think your ready?? and if not then why are you letting him talk you into this?...i didn't have sex wit my boyfriend until a good 6 months into it...but then again it may have been taken too slow..but 2 months is def. to fast...good luck
562854
Wait until you are ready.  Don't be pressured into it.  Tell him you're not ready, if he really cares about you he'll be happy to wait until you are ready. If he carries on pressuring you he doesn't really care and only wants sex, and you're worth so much more than that.