GUYS: what do you think of girls making the first move?
474358
Agressive women can be very erotic and exciting...but too aggressive women can be scary!  \n\nSomething as making a first move, it would be a plus for the woman.  A lot of the times, especially if the man likes you, we are always thinking of ways to break that "block of ice"...and if you do it first...Wow, you got something coming your way!
423870
I think that most guys out there think its like winning a trophy by being your "first" I think its sick. they shouldn't be taking it unless they intend to be with you for a long period of time. But that's just my opinion you know what they say about girls Maturing faster then men.
71505
it depends on his personality.\nif he's a sort of guy that seems like he'd wanna make the first move, you could drop little hints you like him, or if he's the kind of guy who seems kinda shy, you could aks him out and he'd probly go with it.
401354
i would'nt neva makec a first move all i would is flirt
75955
Personally, I would rather let the guy make the first move. But, sometimes guys need help in doing this especially if he is a super shy one. One thing that you can do is give hints to him that you like him.\n\nIf he truly likes you, he probably have sent you some birthday gifts, valentine cards, or something.\nRespond to his tiny move by telling him that you appreciates his gestures.\n\nmake it the LAST effort for you to actually make the first move.\npersonally, i would not think a girl is desperate when she makes the first move (actually, i think it's pretty cool).\nBUT, I am just one guy. I CANNOT SAY THAT YOUR GUY WOULD THINK THE SAME LIKE I DO.
185999
Oh.. u sound sweet. Listen, if some guy is to shy to approach a girl, then i think that the guydoesn't like here that much
759789
To answer you question.. I think guys should definitely do the pursuing in the beginning stage of a relationship. There for.. no don't call him.
431193
Hell no! It takes the pressure off of US to decide if she's interested or not.\n\nBesides, how often do guys get to do the first rejection? Not very.... ROFL
908377
No not really, u girls act weird... one minute you act all nice and show interest and when a guy does approach you, you girls give the cold shoulder! orrr sometimes we just think does she really like me or what? so thats why we tend to not make a move cause wre not sure, or scared of rejection!
359035
I think a guy should make the first move. It depends on the guy. Some guys are so sweet yet so shy at the first time. So if you want him to like you, then you should make the first move. Ohterwise, let the man be in charge then after you will be incharge of him until you break up.
299670
First off..let's not act like guys are the only ones out for a piece of @$$!! "MC Rob Base" Said is best.."It takes two" Now, to answer your question...it depends on the mood I'm in. If I want a committment..then I'm cool with waiting. If I'm just trying to have a fling..then sometime in the first few weeks is cool. As for a first night kinda girl..well I've NEVER met one. I'm not the kind of guy women fawn over and want to go home with. I'm a committment guy..plain and simple even if that committment is a month.
541346
Do you like her back? If you like her, go ahead and make the first move yourself. Good luck!
1004092
No, as a matter of fact I like it when a woman makes the first move. Making the first move shows that she knows what she wants and she isn't afraid to go after it. It also shows that she is very comfortable around a guy and that she is very comfortable in her own skin and honest with herself pertaining to her own feelings.\n\nAlso, for me in-particular it's a major turn-on to know that a woman wants me bad enough to boldly make the first move.
55462
I would recommend that you "make a move".  Some really nice guys are too shy (or afraid of rejection) to make the first move.
205658
OK listen up the first thing a girl does not like to be pressured and i no from experience OK you go up to her when not to many friends are around and just start out with some small talk and then move in tho the big thing like what are you doing this Friday night because i was wondering if you would like to go on a date with me and she what she says form there....need any more advise and you know where to find me
68598
To answer your question, whenever you want.\n\nSometimes it works great when the female makes the first move. At least initially. So, if you want to have sex, seduce him.
930224
This is totally situational... but...\n\nIn general, I love it when a girl makes the move. As a guy, we have an automatic disadvantage, because no matter what, we have to work for it. Now, this is a gross generalization, but most of the time it is true: women can find someone if they really want to, any time.\n\nMen on the other hand, well...\n\nSo to have a woman come up and make it known that she's interested makes things easy. Not to mention, it's not like there's anything to lose really.