I am married man should i go for girls friends??For desire???
467787
yeah why not. go to a g/f & get a sexually transmitted disease from her. Then go home & pass it on to your wife.\nPerfect life innit?\n\nget a life a@@hole.
1068632
hey comeon.....b a man..yaar\njust go & propose her...dont b just simple friend..try for girl friend...not just friend.\n\nregards
489085
nope.....don't do it, specially if she is a good friend, you can f*** up your friendship, if she wants a threesome let her look somewhere else, so you won't have anything to do with her and her husband in the future, when they'll star having  problems because of this. don't do it.
429690
condition-Do you want him? If you do then youve got a predicament. You might tear apart your friend marrige for you won desire. If you do, count youself one less friend, once she finds out, think about who she might tell and if their's anyone else you don't want to loose as a friend, If your married yourself think about your husband. Another thing if you do it don't ever count on this guy as a man that will stick around, in other words, don't seek a relationship with him, he's done it once he'll more then likely do it again. \n\nIf you don't want him just tell him to back off and let it be at that sence you don't want to tell your friend.
354421
buddy the last thing you want is for your woman to want you only for your money. look if she goes with the other chap well consider yourself saved. its hard but welcome to the real world. life goes on! cheers. there will be other women believe me.
747494
i hope to have a girl as my girl friend like u,u r completely normal nothing wrong with u,some people just have a high sex drive,i am a guy and in some days i do it like 3 or 5 times a day also.it all depends on the sex drive and on how much u r turned on,but if u always all the time do it 5 times a day,then i guess ur husband is the luckiest man in the world to have u as a wife,and i recomend u to do sex more with ur husband or to do it harder and more passionatley,or try to change ur routine like for example try new positions or do exentric things like toys for example.be happy with ur self there is nothing wrong with u,any man wishes to have what ur husband have,be happy and good luck.
370084
As of right now, she is technically single so if you are going to find out if she has mutual feelings, it should be done right away before the wedding, but you should only do this if you are sure of your feelings. You are right it's wrong to try and get her when you know she has a man...did you ever question why you were attracted to her?  Could it be the fact that you know she has a man in her life?
613564
I don't understand why married men think they still need to go out 'with the guys' once they get married...\n\nAfterall, they ARE grown up, they should act like it... they are not some hormonal college kids out looking for girls or whatever.\n\nThey grew up and got married... they shouldn't be out acting like they did when they were single.  He made the choice to give up the 'single scene' when he got married.  He needs to grow up.\n\nWhy can he not be happy going out with just you?  You are his wife, afterall.   He can still have friends, but what's the problem with them hanging out at the house?  Maybe get together for cards or something like that?  There are lots of things guys can do if they feel the need to 'hang out' together.  Heck, the friend can even bring his wife (and kids, if there are any) along to your house!  That way, you can all hang out together.  Married couples do that all the time!\n\nNo way would I put up with that!  I had a man like that... he wanted to be a husband but still wanted the single life...  and you can't have it both ways.  You either want to be married or you don't.  Simple as that.\n\nHe is not only a husband, but a father as well!  He needs to get his priorities straight!\n\nP.S.~~  Your husband has no problem with the way the friend speaks to you??  Perhaps you should tell the immature friend that you know who wears the pants in HIS family... his Mommy and Daddy!  Tell him to be a man and get out of Mommy and Daddy's house and support his family and back off from yours.\n\nHe has no problem belittling you so I would have no problem doing the same to him.
536999
Well first before I had these thoughts of being his "mrs" I would want to be his friend. When we become friends for a time you get to see his true colors and he yours.\n Sex messes with your head. You ignore many RED FLAGS about a person. Take it easy and see where it goes. Your valuable and dont let anyone tell you different!
1055271
I've been married to my wife fo 10 years and we have had a girl friend for 3.  Its a moral thing, So for the record not wrong.
380623
I would ask your husband if he has any desires to see you with another women and then you can approach it together instead of going behind his back or hurting your marriage, it certainly is better to do it together, then you can search various websites for swingers or bi females, but if you want to be greedy and keep her all to yourself then not sure what to tell you, I would approach it together.
641402
No means no...pure and simple. My wife and I have a great love life and we have never shied from trying new things, at least once. However, having said that..our cardinal rule is.."NO means NO." Communication and trust are two very important aspects of any relationship (friends or beyond). This guy is no friend to you and I bet he is not the one asking for the 3some either. If his gf was so interested, she should be doing the asking/ getting to know you stuff..not him. Drop the loser like a hot rock and walk away..after telling him you have reported him for sexual harassment. Someday, you might actually wonder what it would be like..but if it isn't your desire to find out..then no way could you enjoy any such experience. WALK AWAY!
1090832
If he hangs out with his friends while you are out with yours that's ok. But never in a bar. That is where men meet girls and even if he is not trying to meet someone a girl will probably hit on him. He may get to drunk to remember to say no to her. He if wants to go there you go with him. You should like being together for most of the time or have other married friends so all of you hang out together.
176369
As a husband, I would suggest you re-evaluate why you think you want a wife and why you think you can just "go" and get one.\n\nIt doesn't work that way.  If you want the marriage to work, you need to love, cherish, respect the other person and they you.\n\nThat isn't something that you can just go out and decide to get.
365069
Yes... well not really.... but sort of.....but then not so much.....\n\nIf your wives friends are relatively decent human beings than no.... it's not a test.  Women tend to think of a friends husband as sort of a big brother and its safe to flirt a little.  We even think of you as a surrogate husband.  They can get you to lift heavy things and kill the bugs but they don't have to sleep with you.  But don't make the mistake of acting on it because they would tell her in a heartbeat....so ya sort of.\n\nIf your wives friends are hoochies then they are probably really trying to get in your pants.  In which case they aren't really her friends.... still they would tell her in a heartbeat if you even hinted at interest.\n\nThe next time it happens, just grab your wife and kiss her.  That will show them you are devoted and make your wife feel good.  Chances are that your honey bunches has noticed it too and might be feeling a little insecure about it.
268436
you know what i don't think that you can just go for one. and you really need to think about this before you do something this major. i have a friend that i tried to talk out of doing this very same thing. she said it will be fine don't worry. they are currently going through a divorce. you will never get that image of another women out of you mind. she hasn't. so you might think it will be great for the moment. but try to think long term. i mean what if he touches her like he hasn't touched you or are you going to be thinking he is thinking about her everytime you two have sex. i couldn't knock sense into my friend and if you made up your mind no one will stop you either. but once it happens you can't take it back. i know my friend wishes she could
796323
Someone on the Internet can tell you anything and a lot they do tell you is just what you want to hear. Enjoy it has something to kill time but dont take it as a relationship you will only get hurt. There are plenty of married men out there that use girls like you as a toy yet still have loving and normal relationships with their wife's and children. Get away from the key board go out and meet someone in the flesh its much safer and real