How to get over a gf. Everytime I think she is with her new bf, I want to brake something.?
456539
All the advise here is good for you.\n\nYou experience anxiety and crisis because you lost control over your circumstances. You know what you're doing is counter-productive, yet you continue. Loss is a painful experience. The feelings you have are normal. \n\nIf you feel you can't cope, seek councelling.\n\nTry to stay rational and get busy. \n\nFinally, there are so many women that want to get with you that haven't even met you yet. Time heals all wounds.
283802
Find a new relationship. Preferably someone prettier than her. Don't let her see it bothers you she broke up with you. Become very succesfull at what you do. She has to know that your life  not only goes on, but also is actually going a lot better now she's no longer part of it and holding you back. And throughout your now perfect life she has to be nothing to you. Be polite but nothing more. Don't ignor her, you are above childish behaviour like that, but she has to know that she now is just some girl you happen to know. Cold buisnesslike politeness
827363
Why do you care. Get over her and move on.
658202
The best way to get over it, is to move on. Get a new love in your life, and devote 110% of your time and attention to him. You'll be amazed at how soon you'll be "over him'. Good Luck.....
187152
It sounds like she really loves the guy.  That's not something that you just get rid of over night.  It's there and it'll be there for a while.  All you can do is help introduce her to new guys, ones that will help keep her mind off of her old boyfriend.
30772
I think you should give her her space for a while, all the time being there for her.  She'll warm up to you and move on from her old bf eventually.  Plus, comfort  her about her feelings, and don't put much pressure on her choosing.
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
565262
Don't. There's a reason you broke up. It's hard letting go, but give it time, keep yourself busy, and eventually, you will move on and forget.
1165491
Jealousy is a character flaw, I personally think that you are a mature person , whom has moved past  the initial bad feelings, this is a good thing. Your new girlfriend needs an attitude adjustment and a reality check, she is your current love interest. The only reason she told you to break off your relationships with your Exes, was to try to control you.
823227
go out with friends, get a new hobby, go out on dates, anything to get your mind off her. stop focusing on her and move on with your life. set your goals on what you want your future to be. and this one works for me: make a list of things you hate about her and whenever you miss her, remind yourself of those things.
761008
It's hard right now that you are not with her you want her.. but say she's slept with someone else or other unresolved problems come up you might want to think hard before you do this... i got back with my bf and now i still have anger towards him.. if you really want her back call her up and let her know
526306
break it off and find someone new
639216
just make sure that your new bf doesn't get hurt physically by your ex. there's nothing you can do, unless he tries to hurt him.
1109715
I've been there and tried to do that. Except it was ex bf. I only realized that giving him time was the right thing. He came back to me with his own self. Taking him back is the only thing that bothers me now. But that's not the point. Knowing what you want from your relationship is! You, both, have to be open like a book. If both of you feel like you want a relationship than accept her when she comes back to you. But still give her time. (If she doesn't, than that only means that she's not right for you.) Usually it's much easier to get along if you are understanding your needs and wants. But if she is depressed, like she is saying, that must be the relationship she had at the moment when she was with you. Though finding another guy - is not the answer either. I say get yourself busy, and let her live. If she wants you, she will come back, and will appriciate you for being there.
637827
i am sorry you suffer i know how u feel cause i felt same when a guy broke up my heart long time ago you must move on cause she no love you it's hard but u will i advice you to go find other love spend time with new gf even u not feel in love with her but this is best way to forget about ur love best luck thank you
39094
The question, is not how to, but why.  Think about it.  She's in a relationship, and she meets a charming new guy.  A guy who sweeps her off of her feet,a "grass-is-greener" kinda deal(ahem, that's you, ahem)and she leaves her man for you.  What do you think she's gonna do the SECOND you BORE/ANNOY/TICK HER OFF??!??  That's right.  She's gonna lay down and luxuriate in some REALLY GREEN grass.  Dude, really.  Girls that you can TAKE, you don't want.  Believe me.  Chalk this up to a lesson learned, and keep on lookin.  Ex-girl to the next girl, that's what i says.
1168935
The best way to get over the break up is to get her out of your life.  The sooner you can do this then the sooner you can move on.  The last thing you want to be hearing about is her tales of 'making out' with other guys.  This just rubs salt in the wounds.  I'm not saying that she wasn't justified in doing this, because you both apparently agreed to do you own thing, but why she would want to tell you I don't know!  Anyway, until you get her completely out of your life then you will never get her out of your head.  So if it definitely looks like she is moving on then you should try to do the same, and as fast as possible.  Out of sight is out of mind as they say.  It will be difficult, but it will be the quickest way to you getting over her.  All the best...