If a guy gets in the way of me and the girl I like what do I do?
466081
Hire a hitman. Just kidding. Just let things work out. If she wants to be with you she'll be with you. Otherwise just move on.
121172
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
157488
If u dont like him, just say I like u but not in the same way you like me, maybe if you hung out with him, u might find out u like him like him. I did.
757234
Same thing if it was a girl and a guy couple! You would find out if the guy liked ya' then you would probably ask them out!
948047
Show her that you have feelings for her. Make the other chick get the stepping.
637263
dude you've only french kissed the girl twice and you already want to move further??? ummm.... you're probably going to scare the girl off.... don't move so fast! slow down, its REALLY NOT alllll about sex. talk to the girl, get to know her interests, what she like to do. girls like guys who will get to know them first and move things slowly. good luck, but slow down!
366396
Talk to your friend and tell him that you really like this girl for other than friendship but you don't want to hurt your friendship with him.  And if he says ok, I would talk to the girl and let her know that you are interesting into getting to know her on a different level other than friendship. Being open and honest, is the only way to be in this situation.  Good luck
641049
Go for the girl you like... if you start dating her friend then you'll NEVER get to date her if it doesn't work out with her friend.  If you go out with the friend, you'll just regret it because you'll see the girl you like all the time but won't get to be with her.  Don't play her friend unless you think you can grow to really like her, because it'll end up being a waste of time for both of you.\n\nIf I told a guy I was "kinda dating," it'd be because I wanted the other guy to stay interested.  It's almost like a "wait for me until I get out of this."  She probably doesn't want to come off as rude and just dump the guy for you, so stay persistent.  You like *her*, not her (your other) friend so much.  She's the target... So aim and fire.
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
190739
How do you approach him? You put one foot in front of the other until your right next to him... works well for me.
1063997
keep telling her you love her, but dont let the other guy get close to her. you guys sound so cute together, lol
432708
Just wait it out.  IF a guy likes you he WILL let you know one way or another.
303298
Gurl, you don't get chance if he already get his lady. Just be yourself, if he is the one for you.. he will come back to you by his own. you don't need to chase him around. And the worstest thing girl do to guy is chase them. IF you chase them, they will think you are despreate and reject you more.
608710
Stop doing that first of all. Next hold your head up high if it was true. When they find that they can't hold it over your head, they'll let it go. You can also go to the person and tell them first. you may be surprised to find out they like you too.
497903
i have the same problem only backwards... im the girl.... so i say you just talk to her. i mean, go out of your way evry now and then w/o being to obvious. talk to her on AIM or something. or if you guys have any common friends... make a group movie date, then make sure you end up sitting by her. and if she invites the guy you think she likes- then you'll know that she likes him, not you. good luck.
718990
All you can do is stand by and watch for now.  If she still wants to get back with you then she will need to make the first move.  That way it will save you many problems with the other guy.
88059
That's easy. Move on. What are you standing around waiting on? this guy likes someone else. you go and hang with the ladies. Someone else will be by to notice you. It's not the\nend of the world yet. There are more guys out there.