i got back wit my ex bf and his bestfriend is txt me saying he loves me i dont want loose him wat do i ??
468598
Oh shyt.. well.. Where I agree with the above people, I personally think that if you do that, then you might get more than yoru bargaining for. You tell your man, he might think that you are initiating it.. or he might not. If you tell him and he looses his best friend and you dont work out, he might blame you. You cant think of RIGHT NOW, you have to think of the long run.. i would persoanlly text him back and tell him "look i dont find it funny nor attractive that you are hitting on your best friends girlfriend. I am with *bf's name* back off ." now if he doesnt then free for all, tell your man ... but at least you tried to get him to back off first.
974030
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
1026467
Set him loose and tell him do what you think is best. Then you both either do or don't see others while away. If you guys are meant for each other then you will get back together...but in all honesty you probably won't. We all go thru it at some point. It sucks but we get past it.
1154646
first he is an ex. second he's got a gf...you must be pretty desperate to even think about getting back  with him.....the world is overly populated...move on and find someone better!!
289773
Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.
602548
Help you?? You need to remember theres a reason why hes your ex in the first place.
850014
stay away from him and drop your current b/f. Try to find someone who you really enjoy being with besides your friends b/f.
917558
wow small world i tell you. i love my bf and he loves me and would do anything for me as far as i know.hes ina different state and hes movin back in a few months. theres this guy that keeps hittin on me tho. honestly theres nothing you can do about it you need to talk to the gurl and have her talk to him about if she truly loves you she will handle it the way she feels it should be handled.thats all i can say i hope everything works out for you guys
762630
if he is a good person, then she wants him back, but so what, dont worry about that stuff...worry about keeping him happy so he wont go back, do not get jealous, that is the worse thing u could do...
764821
your situation seems like a very complicated one.. maybe the next time he says that he loves you, you should ask him why u arent together then. i dont think its a good idea to continue to do gf bf stuf with him unless you start dating again. he might be just using u and u really dont want to get deeper than u already are if he is. maybe theres a different reason he broke up with u.. fam? but i dont noe. if i loved someone else i dont think i would be able to date another person at the same time.
155353
thay may just be trying to keep your feeling from being hert  after all he is a ex tell your friend how you feel about it all .the good times you had and the bad thing .and then move on
682290
This is a study for you in your own words and view...\n\nshe makes me happy (positive)\nshe always makes me smile..(positive)\nshe loves me...(positive)\ni love her (positive)\n\nbut damn i still love my ex-bf (positive)\nbut when im with my ex im not that happy (negative) \nbut i still love him (positive) \n(my ex wants me) back what should i do?(negative) \n\nYou said he wants you back not the other way around.\n\nSeems pretty clear to me
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
425191
It seems to me that ur BF is trying to make u jealous.  I dont think that u should have to try to get him back.  I think u should get with someone else and see how it goes.  Who knows- maybe u can love someone else.
139016
If your boyfriend trusts you then ya'll shouldn't have this problem. you should leave him...he apparently doesn't care that he wants you to never talk to your best friend again!
109273
Just brake up with him because your friend probably said she didn't care if you to dated in the first place but she really did. Trust me my EX best friend dated my brother and now we now longer talk at all because she began choosing him over me and everybody else and remember bf come and go and true friends are forever. Do yourself and your friend a faver and stop it now before it ends up like we did and stopped being friends all together.
409177
you should tell the person you're with now your true feelings, that you love him, you care for him, and love him.. but you still have feelings for your ex... tell him that you're sorry, and didn't want to hurt you.. but he's gonna hurt more if you stayed dishonest to him.. tell him that he'll find the right "one" for him, and you're not the "one" for him.. and when you've done that.. maybe now you can work things out with your ex! tell him that you still have feelings for him, and that you couldn't stop thinkin bout him! =)