how do you break up with some body w/out breaking their heart?
466127
break their skull instead
280823
Breaking up isn't always easy! My advise is, what ever you do make sure your breaking up for all the right reasons. Be honest with your self and be honest with him as to why your feeling this way. \nIf your for certain this is what you want, then you should let him know as soon as possible. Keeping this from him every day will only make him feel foolish of his self. I know it's hard to have to break up and sometimes we get to the point where we get so up tight and nervous about doing this that we push it off. But the old saying is breaking up is the hardest thing to do. \nI would tell him that you need to speak with him over dinner or what ever you guys do that wouldn't start a big question game, like what is this all about before you actually get a chance to sit down and talk with him. When telling him this try not to say "the time we spent together has been great etc. etc. but, let him know that lately you have been going over things and you need to etc. etc. Especially, if this is coming from out of nowhere. Let him be able to absorb little by little. This way there won't be anger flaring up. Try to then speak to him as if your talking with a good friend.\nI wish you all the best to you and him both.
692528
Get someone else out of your mind. Don't break up with him, but whatever you do ask your heart, hon.
73669
I'm so sorry that u had a bad breakup. I'm physic so i no. Well they break up because they have minor differences and disagreements and have no intention of compromise. But what u can do is try to get over him. If he is not coming back, then let him go. They say wen u love someone, there comes a time wen u must let them go, so try to get over him. Start seeing new people and pretty soon, it'll be a thing in the past.
526306
break it off and find someone new
876970
Put as much distance between the two of you as possible and try to move on.  I know it's probably the hardest thing you could possibly do right now, but the longer you let it drag on, the harder it will be.  In the end, a clean break is the best and easiest way.  Eventually you'll get over it.\n\nGood luck.
249461
There is no good way of breaking up, just tell him it's not working.
317288
You can't accidentally break up with someone.\n\nIf she really feels like it was an accident, maybe she should try to explain herself to him.
930477
Tell him that a break up is not what you wanted and you realise how much you really love him and it has taken this break up for you to really see how much you want the relationship to work ...... Good luck
1130166
I usually like to put the blame on myself, it makes the break up go a little easier. Just be honest though but not blunt. If you listen to your heart it will tell you what you need to do. Good luck!!
171455
Well you can't control other people's feelings and to try to do something to break the relationship up is not being a friend to either of them. The only thing you can do is go on with your life and meet other people.
406428
Just take things one day at a time, and remember that if you were meant to be with him, you will be eventually.  Take some time to mourn the loss of the relationship; give yourself an hour or two on days that you feel you need it, to turn on sad music, look at old pictures, and cry.  Then drop it, and do something for yourself.  I've had times when I thought the world was ending because of the end of a relationship.  I didn't know how I'd make it.  Eventually after going through this a few times, I realized that I can recover from anything.  So can you.
332209
A broken heart is not broken just bruised or hurt.It is alright to cry and talk it out. Remind yourself not to close another out for the human heart will mend and love again.Tell yourself the person who broke your heart did not deserve it in the first place and there is someone who will mend your heart and love you as though you never had a broken heart. Smile even though you want to cry laugh even when you want to fall apart. Love even if you feel you can't.
67544
There really isnt a FAST way.  But there are ways that are more beneficial than others.\n\nFirst, happy hands = a happy mind. AKA stay busy!  If your consantly busy doing something, you wont have as much time to think about him, and maybe, with all the activity, you might find a new friend.\n\nSecond, make sure that the break off is a clean one.  What I mean is, there should be nothing of his around you that will remind you of him.  No pictures, phone numbers, clothing items, etc.\n\nThird, make sure he understands that it is over.  Tell him however you need to, to make things clear.\n\nForth, let him go...with in yourself.  You can not HALF do this.  If you want to break it off, dont 2nd guess yourself.  You need to have confidence in your actions, and you need to believe that what you are doing is for the best.\n\nFinally, enjoy yourself.  After loosing something that had a large impact on your life for so long, you need to fill it with things that are fun for you.  Treat yourself!  Take yourself out, devote a day to the spa, or go to a bar/club with some girlfriends.  Stay positive and have fun.\n\nGood luck!
560151
The best way to allow an unworkable relationship to end is with honesty and closure. With so much time, feeling, and emotions invested in trying to create or keep a bond going strong you both deserve a clean slate to let go, and move on clearly and without lingering or excess baggage. (Which can carry over into other aspects of your life and leave you wounded, empty, or unfulfilled.) Just have a moment to sit down and talk about everything and clear the air. It's very painful, and distasteful to end it with someone via e-mail, telephone, or anything other than in person (unless it's a concern for your safety which in case do it in the best manner possible.) It may hurt and of course it will take time to mend but in the long-run it's best if you live and let die.
242969
1.Get yourself involved in some other activities to help get your mind off the person.  \n2. There are other fish in the ocean, and maybe by getting involved in something, you can meet someone special that will heal that broken heart.\n\nThe main thing is you got to move on or nothing will happen.
922191
Don't go there!!! No matter how much it hurts, you can't mess with people's free will. If you do it things will be bad:\nHe may come back, but the relationship will not be good.\nYou will not be happy together.\nThe whole thing will blow up in your face.\nHe will be really really hard to get rid of after things go sour again.\n\nSweetie, you have to accept the fact that the relationship was broken, or you two wouldn't have broken up. You have to let go and mend your broken heart. Work on enriching your spirit and a new better love will come to you.\nI promise.