is it right for a girl to propose to guy?
462419
no! when a girl proposed! the marriage doesnt usually last, we conducted a research, with 2 couples, and 100% they got divorced a month later
735381
Don't get too over excited, he may or may not propose so don't build all your hopes us, if he does then you will be very surprised.  It does sound like a hint though.
87498
Whatever you do - make sure it's something she'll want to brag about it later on. Once her friends know you've proposed, the first thing they will ask is "tell us! tell us! how was it??". And their different stories are like trophies in a competition  to "who was proposed in the most sweetest and awsome way". So, try for it *not* to be a casual thing.\n\nDoesn't have to be at an expensive restaurant or with a bunch of frills. An important thing is the surprise. So don't take her out to some ultra fancy place if you never do that... she'll smell your intentions from a mile away. Take her to a special but known place - area - that she already likes. Someplace you both are comfortable at. That will let you work it out in a relaxed way. Also helps because, if you  just don't get the right opportunity, you can always repeat it later on and it won't seem odd nor will it cost you the huge bucks to do so.
76269
Grow some nuts and ask her yourself.  There is ZERO chance of her pleading for you to marry her.  Actually, you sound kind of wimpy if you are waiting for a girl to ask you to marry her.  Take some initiative and ask her yourself.
688044
if u have a best frnd and u wanna propose her go ahead.\nu have 95% chances to succeed.\nreally, after coming that close , love is just a step ahead.\ni hope she says yes!\ngood luck!
727506
Oh, poor guy... Just listen to what you're saying: you're basically TRYING TO MAKE HIM marry you. With that kind of attitude, I don't think that guy will marry you without doubting himself whether this relationship will work. If you try to push him here, what else does he have to expect, once you're married and live together? He won't have a second of freedom to breathe - that's what you're telling him.\nDon't get frustrated. If he doesn't propose just yet - he's got a reason to do that. Either he is trying to make a surprise for you, or maybe, he is still trying to figure out how will this whole marriage thing work. If you think he's not really planning to propose - then why in the world do you insist on him to do that? If he does plan to propose and waits for the right moment, you're pushing that moment farther and farther away, because you're thinking about it all the time, and he can't propose to you by surprise if that's all you think about. Maybe, he's been carrying a ring in his pocket for weeks now. But when you two meet.... "Hi, honey, when are you going to propose to me?" -" Oh, yea, I was just going to do that..." Sweet surprise, isn't it? Give him time and space, let him get ready. It's a big step in both of your lives. And it's not every day you get married.\nBtw... Me and my gf have known each other for almost 3 years. And yet I still haven't proposed to her (even though we too talked about marriage many times). We are still figuring out each other, trying to understand the relationship better and soften out sharp egdes, which have a potential of ruining our relationship. Once we both think we've got to know each other well enough, then we'll start making plans of a wedding. Until then, we enjoy each others' company and get to know ourselves really well. One thing neither of us wants to happen is to find some really bad surprise about another person when we're already married. Way too many relationships brake up because they started too quickly. If people in those relationships would get to know each other before dating - maybe they'd never want to date another person and save tons of nerves and time.
490006
The decision to propose marriage depends on how you both feel.  If she loves you and you love her, if you feel you can live together successfully, and you both interested in living together as husband and wife then ask.  But be prepared for both the yes and no response.
405039
Well are you ready to have a girlfriend? Do you know the responsibilities if you have a girlfriend? If yes, start with being friendly to the girl you're interested then propose to her.
659456
You should not propose marriage to a girl that doesn't talk much to you.  The answer will be "NO".  You should learn to know her, go out with her and see if she likes you first.
993889
AHHH!!! wow... its...umm? nice? it is but i REALLY wouldn't go throwing it around. make sure you have the RIGHT girl for you. hell I'd use it to propose to her.. then it would be nice!
853861
Marriage is pretty serious or at least it should be.  A proposal by text message is pretty lame and pathetic.  I think it is a sign that he does not take marriage or you seriously enough.  You should not have to wonder about it.  Sorry you've had a bad experience twice, but hang it there, someone will come along that will treat you right.
326596
What? if he doesn't have the balls to propose DIRECTLY TO YOU - then he's not worth it...\n\nAlso if he's proposing to you before you even know him?? Bad bad.\n\nThis guy sounds like a loswer.\n\nWhat is your question
247218
If you are wanting to ask her to marry you - do it romantically and in a unique way!  Find out what her dreams and fantasies are!  Try to play out one of her fantasies! \n\nHere are some ideas that are out there on the web:\nhttp://scripts.lovingyou.com/mdb/search.cgi?mdb=ideas&cat=proposal\nhttp://www.diamondhelpers.com/loveandlife/romanticideas/engagement-ideas.shtml\nhttp://www.love-sessions.com/more_proposals.htm\nhttp://marriage.about.com/cs/proposals/a/proposalideas.htm
1067435
bring here to a fancy restaurant but before that, ask the personel of that restaurant to help you make that night such an unforgetable experience to both of you especially to the girl. when youre about to propose, the lights should be turn off, and only the candle on your table will remain lighting, then the staff will then roll down the big white banner with different lights with big letterings asking the girl. "HONEY, WILL YOU MARRY ME?" beleive me, it will work.
640550
I think its perfectly fine for a girl to ask a guy to marry her. In fact its exactly what I did and its good to know other ladies are considering it. \n\nI have been going out with my boyfriend for a long time and on our 5 year anniversary I asked him to marry me. It was probably the most nerve racked time of my life. I bought him a nice manly ring and set out our living room in candles and poured some wine. He was quite surprised and actually said he was supposed to do it. But he said yes - and like you I was so worried he wouldn't.\n\nThe biggest thing is to recall conversations you have had about marriage in the past and see if he had a positive outlook. What I found is they just need a little prodding and thats the best way. Now we have ordered my ring and he wants to have his chance to ask me too - even though we are technically already engaged. But I definitely don't mind a little extra romance in my life.\n\nI say take the chance I found it well worth the effort.
1117188
Etiquette and tradition state that the man should ask the bride's father for her hand and then propose to her.\n\nWell, throw etiquette out the window and think about it for yourself. \nAre you ready to get married? \nDo you want to propose?\n\nGo for it! It's unexpected, it's romantic, and above all else, it could be you! I promise if the woman proposes, nobody will walk up to her and say, "No, you can't get married until he asks you." \n\nTime's are changing so etiquette just needs to catch up!
1091087
The man should propose first under normal circumstancs. It's not nice to "force" the  woman to have to propose because the relationship is dragging on too long.