Is it better to married the love of your life or your best friend???
470645
Well my fiance has always told me this and its so true, the person you marry should be your best friend. When everything starts to go wrong, with bills and work and all the stress of life, your best friend will be there. My fiance is my best friend, I can open up to him about anything, he knows every aspect of my life, past and presently. Marry the person that is your very best friend, I promise you it's going to make for a  better relationship.
377165
most guys would prefer to have their best friend for life.\nand falling in love is the best way for that.\ntry suggesting it casually. and i hope he has not told u already abt his engagements. if yes also u still have a chance. after all. hes ur best friend. and he knows it. and guys dont usually let go their best friends.\nand dont be too late.\nBest of luck.
925231
i think both are imp but if the choice is to choose only one then i said it is your love, caz your love canbe your best freind, , it depend on the person what they really mean in your life.
1057601
My marriage is a 10. Saturday will be our 11 year anniversary and we are BOTH happier now than we were on our wedding day! We have always made an effort for eachother in what ever it is were doing. We also talk to each other honesly and openly about anything that may be on our minds. She is my best friend as I am her's! If you can talk to each other and always make an effort for each other, your marriage will always be a 10 !!!\nGood question
447040
Is this from a financial point of view? I think you should only marry someone because you love them. Living with someone isn't always easy normally in a loving relationship...it can be hell if it was done for other reasons!! Financially, you could actually lose certain benefits depending on the state you live in.
501290
I've wondered the same many a time.. I think itz because we've heard so much about love and relationships that we tend to stretch friendship to a higher level. Just imagine, if you knew your best friend is engaged to be married or is already married, you would feel nothing but friendship towards this person. The fact that hez single and available makes things different. You tend to open up a lot to ur friend..After you become quite close, you become so comfortable with the person that you think, "how nice it would be to have such an understanding person in life?". There love starts to blossom.
257150
sure but make sure your friend never finds out because who would you rather have a boyfriend or your bestfriend you choose.\n\ngood luck!
45170
finding a best friend and a best spouse
602357
this is very difficult coz u hurt someone dear to you-your bestfriend. i don't think you'd choose this guy over your bestfriend.get away w/ that feeling before it gets worse.there are a lot of guys out there who are not committed.why not entertain them instead of entertaining your feelings for your bestfriend's guy.
52102
The first 2 years of marriage is the hardest. You are now trying to meld your living styles and marriage expectations to meet each other preferences. You both need to be honest, and talk, like 2 best friends, who are there to help each other (not change each other). Make deals on who will do what, and take turns doing what neither of you wants to do.
336259
you should always marry for love. you should love the one you marry. your love will grow as the years pass.
826500
Snagg him up before someone else does!! after i got married (to my best friend) two years later i met another guy that is now my best friend and if my husband and i ever parted, i would choose my new best friend as my new life long mate. It helps that you guys are already best friends, that's a good stable foundation. Good luck, and make sure to tell him how you feel. Even if you don't say, show it.
51756
I'd dump a best friend in a second in order to save my family.  My best friend knows this, otherwise they wouldn't be my best friend.  On top of that, my best friend would help me if I or my family was in trouble.  So there is a definite hierarchy starting with family then friends!
772134
As far as a marriage relationship, two should take time with lots of questions, endurance. Friendships they come and go, it just depends if your in it for the fame or fun. Yet, the ultimate relationship, is the one that lasts. It can only be obtained through (Agape Love). "Go Figure!"
1050341
no you shouldnt marry him not now. its not fair to him for you to just hold onto him till maybe something comes along better. he deserves happiness and if he is looking for marriage and your not let him go and stay friends.so many get married for the just because reason only to end in divorce and hurting each other. honesty is the best way to go. i think if you read what you just wrote you will know the right answer.
1032167
marriage is very important to complete your half with your soulmate then after we have something called <<family>>\nthis is the beauty of life don't miss it.
658722
I think that if you love your friend but still kinda love the guy you are with then first off you should consider telling the guy you are with or not get married to him because if you still have feelings for your friend then it wont be fair to you soon to be husband and it probably wont work out..so if you both love each other then i think that you should find away so that it will work out and it probably will so what i am saying is you should probably go just call of the engagement and go live in IL or something and get together with your friend that is probably how it is meant to be..good luck!