if somone broke up with u and got with someone else but still messed around with u would u trust them?
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
436991
Sometimes.  However, you have to really think about whether you are dating the person for what you have together now or what you had in the past.  It is also important to examine why you broke up in the first place.  Is that issue resolved because if it isn't, then, chances are the relationship won't work the second time around either.
217250
depends....if she cheats on him with you, can you trust her in the future?
461994
You are correct, if you cannot trust someone than why be with them.  Trust is so hard to get, yet so easy to lose and next to impossible to ever completely get back.
1017012
I would not trust this guy. Even if he never physically cheated on you with this other female while you were going out, he obviously had feelings for her. He would not have been with her two days later if he had not been harboring feelings for her for a while. You may hope that he will eventually grow up, but how patient and how many break-ups and reconciliations are you willing to put up with. I feel you will be better off keeping on a friendship level for a year. Date other people and have him date other people. You may just find your ideal mate instead of wasting your time. Or in a years time, maybe he will have his priorities focused on you.
782958
If my boyfriend cheated on me, by sleeping with someone, I wouldn't forgive him at all.  No matter who they slept with.  I would actually, cut his d**k off, glue it to his forehead, and call him a d**khead.
1059263
If you really want this relationship to work, don't do it. You'll just end up making the trust between the two of you even worse. If you forgive him, you forgive him. It sounds to me, like you need to tell him you want to see other people, because you are not sure he's the one anymore. Tell him you cant trust him, and until that trust is rebuilt, you feel you should date around. good luck.
287634
If you love him, yes. But why did you guys break up in the first place? Did he cheat on you or vise versa? Did he lie to you or vise versa? Do you guys trust each other? Really think about these things. Then decide from there.
88352
No it's not. you'll just end up getting hurt... if you really want to be with them... stay friends until they've earned your trust. then try for a relationship, but don't jump into one if you can't trust the person you'll be with. That will cause fights and will eventually kill the whole relationship.
390794
YES! If you don't trust your partner then you'll always be paranoid thinking they're cheating on you or trying to get you, that kind of stuff. Because of that there will be fights, and the couple wont be able to get along together. Trust is a MUST!
245212
you can trust them again but you will never have the same trust for them again you'll always wonder if there out there cheating on you again
832558
kay i have a little girl myself and i am very paranoid also but what i have found out is the guy i was so paranoid about was the guy i wish i could have spent the rest of my life with i thought he was a player to so i ended it and now i regret it so if i was you i would belive him and trust him
1053022
Dump them before they dump you or hurt you more than you already are hurt.\n\nBut if they were using me to cheat on their girlfriend....I would dumo them before they knew what happened and tell their girlfriend.
526328
doesnt coutn as cheating..but you obviously still have feelings for your ex though..so you have to decide which one?
81614
Probably ... if she broke up with you before, she just may break up with you again ... What did you do that she broke up with you before?
140159
Would you trust this man???
256282
If you don't trust her things aren't going to get any better between the two of you.  My ex lied to me about something HUGE and when he was caught he apologized and I took him back but I NEVER trusted him again and it led to me breaking up with him again.  You deserve to be with someone that you can trust and that respects you.  The best thing that you can do is end this now and stop dragging it out.  The longer that you drag this out the harder that it is going to be on both of you.