are two lovers two too many??
469601
two is one too many! If you're just having sex, then go for both if you want.....but if you're talking relationship-wise then choose the one you care about the most and if things don't work out, then go to the other one....it's not worth losing both over!
878499
Yes, there can be too many.
59070
Yes, I do. But I don't believe that you can only love one person and one only. I believe as humans we are multifaceted and there is a person for every facet that we have. That does not mean however that I will have sex with everyone that I fall in love with.
589582
Allways listen to your heart and gut but just because you love the one does he love you too! If so he would make time for you no matter what! But Me I dont thingit is posable to love 2 men at the same time You can love many people at the same time  but Not LOVE them! So really follow your heart but if your gut is telling you hey something is not right check in to it find out what is wrong! But If you really Loved either of them you wouldn't be so confussed you would know! Who do you think of all the time when you wake up? when you go to bed? Which one is always on your mind if some one was at your door right now who would you want it to be! Who's eyes do you look into and see a future with him! There are a number of questions you need to ask your self! And go with your HEART!
14786
Many past lovers? My question for you unfortunately is have you been checked for AIDS etc? Sorry for that, but your saying many lovers made me think that as a first thing. What do you consider many? Some think more than one is many, others have had so many they don't even know a number.  I would be careful how this is approached. I do believe honesty is the best approach in a serious relationship, there is no way of ever knowing how he will feel with whatever you tell him. I do wish you the best in whatever you decide to do....
940568
Don't go out with either of them. You can't experience something really special with one person or claim that you have a reason to date one person over another if you like lots of other people in the same way simultaneously. Everyone says "this one person is the best person in the whole world, and I love them to pieces," but the truth is that you can find 10 people exactly like him just by looking around. And usually you can have a perfectly good time, if not a better time, with people who you're not dating. Don't ruin either of your good friendships.
1070039
Of course there's something wrong with this, but it is pretty common nonetheless.  He is basically keeping his options open. Why have one girl, if he can figure out a way to have two? \n\nGuys (and girls) do it all the time.  They shouldn't, but they'll do it as long as there are those who will fall for it.  Let someone else have this "gem" of a guy.  There are plenty of other fish in the sea.  \n\nThat's not a cliche but a commonly overlooked fact.
945960
no he cant cause when u love some one u cant love a second person,i cant call it love,its just a desire.........maybe its just about sex for the second person
119293
Well I would have to say that there are way to many fish under the sea. I have traveled and in every place I have been I fell inlove. It seems the idea of your soul-mate is the way to go but, I know that all you need is compatablity. There is more than one person in a life time; believe me.
207674
I think it is mistaken to assume that all of us have One True Love.  I think there are many people with whom people can fall in love.  To think there is just ONE person that you would be head-over-heels in love with for the rest of your lives, leads to a lot of other mistaken notions....:\n\nWhat if I never run into that person?\nWhat if they die or we divorce, I'm destined for a life without my ONE-TRUE-LOVE.\nThere's something wrong with this person, we argue sometimes, they must not be my one-true-love.
1157368
I believe that it is very unnatural to only be with one person. It is human nature to want to spread our seed. However, if you have decided to commit yourself to one person you must be true to them and only them. If you don't think it would be possible for you participate in a monogamous relationship, maybe you need to find another person that shares your same ideas and values on relationships.
1119027
I know most people will tell you no, but I think it is possible to care deeply for more than one person, and isn't caring deeply about someone what love is about? However, the problem here is that if you truly love both people, you will have to come to accept the cold truth: you will have to hurt one or both. If you love them both, then this will be a difficult decision. If you don't choose, though, you will hurt both people by default. I would think that you would want to save the love of one person, instead of losing both, so you had better come to a decision before it's too late. My recommendation would be to save the 11 year relationship. At least you know that love has staying power, but what about this new one - will it only be thrilling when it's new?
1077134
Hell no. It's complicated enough dealing with one woman. Two would be just too damn much.
716102
Do you have more than one girlfriend?
1155837
Sounds like they both have baggage. Its time to find a new circle of acquaintances. Two guys are not a large enough sample to decide on anything long term. These guys are not in love with you, they are in love with your sex. The first always has a special place but there are very few first and only true loves.
755271
too many for any decen girl.\n\n:> peace\n.
138930
This is from a guy, so listen up: NO ONE can love two. No man can serve two masters, as the Bible says. He does not love either of you but is getting all he can from both. Go find a real man, who will treat you like the pricess you are.