I really love my ex but I moved and I didn't want a far relationship how do I get my mind off of him?
470976
you have to accept your nature firstly, that you cant stay far without been involved in a relationship.\nIf you really love your ex boyfriend talk to him to relocate , if this cant be done.You face the reality of   starting all over again,  take your time and plan of settling down in your new location.\nPlan    what you want in the future,its better you stay in a location and grow than  rather to stay for  a short time and move again, you have to really consider this before starting  another relationship.\nSo concentrate on how to build yourself economically ,socially and   how to settle  down in your new environment.\nIf you decide to stay a very long time you can  now give  your toasters   the opportunity to know you properly and you decide who you really want.
710411
Wow, trust me, your not the only one.  I did a very similar thing actually.  You need to try and get over your ex, and then either start talkin to the nice guy again or find someone else who's a good guy like he was
791132
cut all ties from him.  your feelings need to heal.  you need to move on and find someone on the same level as you.  friendship after a relationship is awful.
211790
You just have to let them go. Let them have enough space and time to reflect on it. It's useless to force someone to stay with you even if you know that he's having second thoughts.\n\nIf you still love him even if you're not together anymore, I suggest you not to date another guy for a mean time. Take time to get over him first before you go on dating again.\n\nIf he comes back, you should make it a little hard for him to pursue you. If he doesn't, enjoy being single. Maybe he's not really the one for you.\n\nHave faith and enjoy life. ^_^
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
268038
you moved out for a reason.  you just want her back cause your lonely.  you ll get over her i promise just give it time and keep yourself busy
919016
I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
416441
Alright, my best advise would be to find someone else.  Not necessarily a bf but a guy friend that you can relate with and would care about if something happens just to get your mind off your ex.  You need to get over it if he has a kid cause he will never come back as much as you would like and im sorry for that but you need to put your mind other places besides on him.
1155751
Why would you want to keep your mind off of him?\nWhat I mean is, you are going to miss him that is normal, but if you don't want to sit around moping about him what you could do is go out and enjoy yourself, doing things you like to do.\nIt's the summer time so why not go swimming, or go for a work out at the gym, or if you like to read, go to poetry shops if there are any close to you.\nThere is one more thing you could do and if it is possible, If you can talk to your guy on a regular bases why not set-up a regular time when you are to talk to each other example:\nEvery Tuesday at 4:00 pm.\nThat way you don't think about him so much til Tuesday comes around, believe me two months is not a very long time it will breeze by so quickly, as long as you fill your days with so much that when night time comes you will fall asleep right away.\nIt will be okay. Best Wishes ( :
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Find a support group. Your close friends, family or your bestfriend. Do things for YOU to make you feel that you don't need him. \n\nI don't know what happened between you two, but what matters most is how to make yourself happy.\n\n If he left, then I don't think he saw the best in you to stay! You deserve better!
275198
actually i did not do anything just to get even with my ex, no need. because if you really wanted to move on you dont have to get even just to show him that you're now a better person without him, well that is not the basis for that. just do whatever you want to do, without being affected or it is because you're just doing all those things its because you wanted to get even,it only means that you're not yet over with that guy.so the best thing to do is once you already have a new relationship is you have to show all the love and respect to that particular person.so dont use your ex just to get even, just move on with your life.. and be thankful instead that he became part of your life =)
774175
Its kind of like losing the best friend you never had. I don't like dating, so i kind of know where your coming from. I get very nervous when im around any guy taht i like. But just because he moved away, doesn't mean you let him go. The next time you see him, you might want to have one of your friends get his number, email, myspace. anything that could be away for you to keep in touch with him. Friends is always a good step to being something more. So try this out and see if it works.
1094794
I'm not sure how long ago the two of you broke up, or what caused it, but the main thing you need is time. Allow yourself time to get over the break up, to get your life back on track without him. You cant just shrug your shoulders and turn around and forget about him, he has been half your life for more then 3 years. So don't lock yourself up in the house surrounded with his pictures mourning, but don't loose yourself in going out and partying each night either. take it easy. See friends, do fun things,a nd take time to be alone and cry if you need to. You feel whats best for you at the moment. And you know what? One day you will wake up and feel that you are ready to move on. Good luck!
938797
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
64486
The main thing I would do is get my mind aff that subject. If you r always thinking about the break-up, then you will always be moping around. I recommend doing something physical like swimming or jogging etc. You could also paint or hang out with friends. Do you know someone who usually always makes you laugh? Hang out with that person. Try to be as happy as possible. Good luck!
1010435
don't do it....i did just that thing and ended up very sad and very screwed over. after we broke up i still had to see him everyday, so that made it even harder cause i still cared very much for him. think hard before starting a work related relationship with anyone
744034
Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.