My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her after seeing me... cuddling and consoling my beloved sister?!?
474279
I think your girlfriend is a bit on the immature side and jumped to the wrong conclusion when she saw you laying down cuddling your sister. God bless you for being such a loving big brother and consoling your sister.\n\nGive your girlfriend time to calm down, then talk to her. Explain why you were consoling your sister, that's all. I think she will realize that she overreacted. I hope so.
661618
Probably not.  Maybe they see the way you and your girlfriend get along (fighting all the time, verbal abuse, or maybe you have a one sided relationship).  Maybe they see how your girlfriend treats you, like you do everything for her and she has you wrapped around your finger, so they feel like she's using you.  If they were jealous then I would think that you spend a lot more time with your girlfriend and not with your friends and your relationship with your girlfriend is something they want because they see perfection.  Is this relationship something where the two of you feel inseparable and love spending time with one another?  Then maybe they could be just a little jealous, but for some reason, I feel that this may not be the case if you are asking.  They probably know more of what you don't see or notice. Others usually can observe and pick up on the wrong things when you yourself, cannot.  Usually that is the way it goes.  It's called being "Naive" to the relationship.
542180
Maybe you should carefully confront her about it . She wouldn't waste her time with you if she didn't love you . Maybe she's just uncomfortable with public affection or affection in general . I doubt it's anything you've done , but don't be pushy for her affection .
466374
Confront her. If she really is cheating, dump her. I'm sure you deserve someone much better than her. She's not worth your time. You deserve someone who will support you when you're away and not be talking to other guys. \n\nP.S. Thank You for serving our country. :)
979448
If she's ready to end the relationship, it's not just because your shirt smells a little like perfume.\n\nEither she had suspicions of you cheating before, she's cheating, or there are just some kind of major problems going on in the relationship.\n\nTake a step back and look at the overall relationship - not just this one incident.
24437
Perhaps your intuition is trying to clue you in on something. It would be a good idea to sit down and talk with her about it in a non-judgmental, non-threatening way. Just let her know how you're feeling and see how she responds. Even if you're being paranoid at least you will have gotten it out in the open. It's also possible it's something relatively insignificant and she may feel it's not important enough to "bother" you with. Give her plenty of opportunity to share her feelings with you about your relationship, where it's headed and any needs she might need met.
1048415
umm, ok, first of all, marrying your sister is kind of wrong, secondly why are you so in love with your sister, and thirdly you might want to think back to when you were a young child and remember any innapropriate touching that went on between you and your sister. then I would remove contact from your sister and recieve extensive counceling in another state so you can get over these innappropriate feelings you have. seriously, its not right to feel that way about your sister and you should not be asking HOW to tell your sister you should be asking WHY you feel that way. No offense but were you molested?
884169
I would have to say that you were snooping so if you bring it up, she will know that.  You should really wait to get hard cold proof if you are going to accuse her.  Good Luck!
382026
Have a talk with her and tell HER to stop and get a man of her own!  Does she feel  or percieve herself as THAT worthless  that she has to go after another girls sloppy seconds to feel desired?  Her and her clitoris may cost you your friendship with your best friend. Don't take sides with your sister in something like that! Just because she is your sister doesn't take away from the fact that WRONG is WRONG!  If she doesn't stop sleeping with the gentleman, inform your friend.  She will appreciate it as I'm sure you would if you were in your best friends shoes!
954355
I understand what you're going through. And I hope that you will find something, someday that will make it all dissappear.\n\nAs harsh as I may sound, I don't think your sisters reaction is normal. She is being overly zealous. May be she should have herself checked out also. \n\nAlso, do you fight a lot. Is this just mere sibiling rivalry. Have you tried winning her affection?. If this is not the case, i suggest talking to your parents about your sister, and she might want to visit a behaviour consultant.
865947
Ok you kinda screwed up but you have to let this go. She obviously cares for you and trusts you she is back with you. Don't take this wrong but maybe you should just talk to a professional about this. You need to let it go because it will eat at you and eventually becaome an obsatcle to you being together. Find someone you can trut to talk this out, forgive yourself and enjoy your time with your special lady! life is too short my friend to do anything else!
114645
Hey look up! ask yourself, do you know anyone who really loves you? how do you know this? \n\nif she's your 'girlfriend', half your problem is solved. it shouldn't b hard to find out whether or not she loves you. look at her behavior. how does she treat you? \n\nif you are close and feel confident enough to ask her go ahead. \n\nyou will feel better once you clear d air.
1000174
my girlfriend at times!!!!
410231
Awwwwww. That sounds so0o0o0o cute! I'ma little jealous of your gf now. (pouts)
128669
have a long talk with her.  i was going to say spy on her, but then if she catches you that proves that you dont trust her.  you have to trust your girlfriend.  talk to her first.  if you won't talk to her, and you have a very strong feeling she really is cheating on you, then prepare yourself for the truth.
444670
Depends on how close she is talking to her. May be you are very possesive of her you dont like it and you feel she is cheating on you. Is she a lesebian. Ask her, she wont mind rather than confussing yourself.
107017
Talk to her. Discuss what it is that makes you think she's fooling around. \n\nTry to be non-confrontational. Try to avoid "You always..." or "You never..." Say instead, "When you do (or don't do) this.... I feel this...." Or "When I see you do such-and-such, I wonder what it means."\n\nAsk her what it means. LISTEN to what she says. Repeat it back to her: "I think you're telling me....."\n\nIf you do not feel much better after this discussion, sorry, sweetie, time for a new girlfriend.\n\nI hope you're wrong, and I hope this helps.