How do I ask a guy how he feels baout me without putting him on the spot?
471111
Start tryin' to get closer 2 him.  Once yer able 2 lean yer head on his shoulder ask, " do you luv me." i know its not that easy but try
952199
ask him kind of like a joke
703981
If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]
35038
Why torture yourself by wondering when you can end the torment by asking? People are often afraid to take the direct approach because they are worried about the outcome. But could that be any worse than dragging out the uncertainty?\n\nLet him know that if his status is unavailable for a romance, you still want to be his friend. If you truly have a good friendship, asking him how he feels shouldn't destroy it. Hopefully it will improve it by removing the layer of uncertainty.\n\nGood luck!\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
657555
Tell the person that you're starting to have feelings for them, but be casual about it.  Don't be all dramatic and over the top just bring it up in a casual situation like having him over for a drink or something and just start talking about it.  Usually if you approach it casually you won't get a huge reaction as a result of it.  Keep a little distance and if they're not interested then just let it go.  But you'll never know if it could happen unless you ask.
798627
I think that you should just ask him how he feels.  I wouldn't go where I am really not wanted.
362825
Straight up ask him something like this. "How do you feel about us being boyfriend and girlfriend"
53300
Write him a letter...just a note that says "Hey, I was thinking about you and wanted to know how you are." His reply will give you the answer to your question.
790424
Ask more intelligent questions, for one.\n\nTell him how you are feeling and ask him what his feelings are.
125505
tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.
1096970
Depends on the guy.  But if you have to ask, you are likely a little on the smothering side.  Give a guy room to breath.  Wait for him to say it to you next time.
498374
girl I know how u feel and all i can tell u is to suck it up and call him. plan out some topics but make it a short conversation so u don't have a chance to run out of things to say.
355947
talk to him about how you feel. the more you think the more you'll psyce yourself out and never get the chance. the fsaster you just ask him how he feels the faster you'll know
394417
quit being a wuss and just ask him :-)
370161
be honest with him and tell him how you feel
618327
well you could always right him a note asking him if you like him and make it a nice note dont make it seem like its a bad thing if he likes you because then he will probably say no. or you could always just straight up and ask him if he likes you. but dont have another guy ask him because he will feel akward. i hoped i helped!
1057352
Tell him how you feel straight up.