How do I make this guy love me for what I am and not what I have?
470781
You can't buy love. Maybe he does like you. Constantly receiving gifts causes guilt and stress. You could end up chasing away a friend.
44882
A guy would do what you allow him to.  If you endure the hurt and stick around and watch as he bring others over, he'll continue to do so.  \n\nHe knows you love him, no doubt.  If he loves you as well, you'll have to make him prove it or you'd have to get out of it and find what you want in a relationship.  \n\nAdditionally, you need to empower yourself and gain your independence....you'd be surprise the fish you'ld hook when you have control
1038679
Give him points for stepping up and telling you how he feels.Everybody can't do that,next feel flattered that you have someone who thinks that you're special.He has to be a decent guy or else you wouldn't be friends with him right? Consider the possiblity of what it would be like...Good Luck and no matter what happens try to remain friends.
416423
Someone who respects me for who I am...not who he WANTS me to be.
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
64645
Its impossible to make someone love you, more or less. The only thing you can do is just be yourself. If this person loves you they love you if not there isn't alot that you can do. I know it doesn't seem fair and is frustrating all you can do is hope and not allow your love to become anger. I wish you the best and good luck!
556773
Do you mean : How can a guy fall for you?\nIf that's the question, then my answer is Be yourself. Don't pretend to be something that you're not so that the guy will like/love you for who you are (no doubts).
450436
It sounds as if you are a bit confused, Look at yourself, what this individual likes in you, what about you attracts him.when you find out then you can be the person he loves don't be pushy, give him space make suggestions, never dictate. Ask for his input in things you both do together. Be a lady not a woman, The times you both spend together should not necessary be quantity but quality, find out what turns him on be caring and loving but don't be too frivolous. Give him things to always think positive of you, Be honest in all you do and say
94761
Show a bit of interest, but don't over-do it. Men want what they can't have. Let him chase you a little. He'll like it. Plus he'll appreciate your affection more if it doesn't come easy.
58304
hmmm  ........be honest. tell him how you feel.but if he has you pg and hasnt came to you to make you his woman..he doesnt love you..and u need to let that go.
2047
Just be what you are because he loves you only because he likes some qualities in you. Rest if you are asking about making him happy sexually, just ak him what interests him the most
645346
Ge to know him more and let your heart take care of the rest---you can't MAKE yourself love someone.\n\nGood luck!!!
549931
ummm.. well you cant really get him to do it... you sorta cant make a person fall in love with you... sorry....
1015000
He wants someone to be there for him, make him laugh, be his best friend and his lover. Take care of him and love him. Just remind him everyday that you love him.
398798
You can not make a man love you. If you could would you really want to have the power to say love me more and he does. How would that benefit your emotional needs, because you would never know the degree to which he loves you. Everyone progresses differently. Are you sure you love him more, or are you being dominating and he cannot express himself.
91623
Tell him the truth.  Just say "hey, I think you're a great guy, but I really don't think you're the right person for me.  I want you to be happy, and I want to be happy. I don't think I'm happy right now; but that is not your fault.  Like I said, you're a great person, but just not the great person I want to be with."
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You're taking the wrong approach.  You're trying to get a guy to love you by being something you're not.  You should be looking for a guy who loves you for who you are.