How can you tell if a guy loves you or not?
466557
He puts your needs before his.  He respects you.  He doesn't tries his (absolute) hardest not lie to you.  He cares more about your feelings than your body.  He hates it when you cry, he laughs everytime he sees you smile.  His heart explodes everytime he hears you laugh.  He would take a bullet for you.  He would never doubt where you've been, who you've been with (if you give him no reason to doubt in return; however), he trusts you.  Last but not least, he wants to be there for you in your time(s) of need...he wants to be the guy you call immediately when something in your life goes sour.  Hope this helped.
1029201
If he always treats you with respect, kindness, understanding, trust, honesty, and is willing to compromise and to communicate his thoughts and feelings openly with you, I think that he loves you. If he is all of these things, all of the time, I do think it is love! If he never tries to hurt you, and he continually puts into the relationship as much as you, I think that's love!
322440
You will know if he always smiles at you or always seem happy when you are around. If you ask him if he loves you in a crowd and he say it that means he is really into you.
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
206313
Well, in your case, I would want to know how much of a jerk he was. To an extent, if he loved you, he wouldn't treat you like that. But also, some guys are just jerks anyway. \n\nI think when you are in love, you will do anything for that person (that goes for him too). I think another good sign is if someone were to ask you "Would you marry him?," you would say, without a doubt, WIHTOUT QUESTION, "yes." However, I think girls have an easier tendency to say yes than no (I'm a guy). \n\nStraightforward though - not to shoot down any hopes, but if you have to question if he loves you, then most likely, probably not.\n\nI hope this helps, and I hope things work out for you.
658831
It can be hard to tell.  If you've already said the three magic words ("I love you"), and you're not sure if he really does, look into his eyes the next time he says it to you.  If he holds this gaze with you and you feel safe and comfortable staring into each others' eyes, that's a good sign.  If you say it to him, keep in mind how long it takes for him to say it back to you.  Ideally he shouldn't respond too quickly or too slowly, and, hopefully, he'll smile when you say it.\n\nIf you HAVEN'T exchanged the three magic words yet, pay attention to how he acts around you when the two of you are alone.  If he doesn't stop touching you, that's probably a bad thing.  I hate to be cliche, but I honestly believe that "if you wanna know, if he loves you so, it's in his kiss."
997469
does he goof off around you?\nDoes he try to make you smile alot ?\ndoes he tell you nice stuff?\nWhat about if he always looks for some compliment to tell you?\nOr brings you gifts/tokens?\nHow about asks you for a date?\ndoes he look into your eyes and look away?\nwhat about if he touches your hands? (flirting kinda)\n\nUmmm...Yeah he like you...and you'll know...
1001908
YOU REALLY CAN TELL BY HIS ACTIONS. HOW HE TREAT\nYOU. AND HOW HE IS AROUND YOU. LOT TIME YOU CAN TELL BY HIS CONVERSATION. BUT MOST OF ALL YOU NEED\nTO GET TO KNOW HIM TO SEE WHERE HIS HEAD IS.
246870
i think that you sould ask him bout what he think and if he can't anwer you then you sould know if he in love with you.take your time in your relationship
128426
basically he's just not that into you.  if a guy loves you he will make the time and find a way to make sure you feel loved so you don't leave him.  you need to just cut your losses and get out of the relationship or it will suck you dry and make you bitter...  you should read "he's just not that into you"  it's a eal eye opener.
249836
That one is a hard one to answer. Maybe you can gently and in a round about way ask him how he feels about you\n\nWhen a guy is in love with you he cannot do enough for you. If it is long distance, well I cannot say there is no true way of telling unless you ask him or unless he is direct with you
54898
just ask him directly and look into his eyes...actually if you really feel love for this person, you will right away see it thru his eyes if he's lying...
565261
How to tell if he likes you \n(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).\n\nA lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.\n\nHe might start talking loudly in your presence or start treating you as one of the guys. (Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it's one of the most common and strongest signals!) \nHe might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you. \nThen again, he could behave like a real Casanova, praising you for no apparent reason and straining hard to hold a sustained intelligent conversation (often ending in him asking for your phone number or for a date) \nIf he is acting more flirtatious toward you than toward other people at the same event \nIf his friends are paying attention to you when he isn't around (often a clue that this guy talked to his or her friends about you). \nIf he always seems to be around (especially if you get the "instinct" that he's there because of you) \nIf he is smiling while listening to you, and seems to be listening especially "actively" \nIf he seems to look into your eyes a little longer than normally. \nIf he remembers stuff you said before and brings it up again (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past ) - shows he's interested in you \nTesting Your Suspicions: \nIf you think a guy likes you (trust your gut instinct, girls) but you can't be totally sure, try this: Give him your best smile. If he smiles back, or his face suddenly lights up, tah dah! He likes you. If he starts sweating and looks all flustered, he likes you even more. If his smile is the polite kind, or if he frowns or looks away, that's a bad sign that maybe he isn't interested in you after all.\n\nHow To Tell If He Likes You As A Friend Or Something More:\n\nIt's all in how he looks at you. If he looks at you in the eyes, he likes you as a friend. If he looks at your lips, he can't wait to kiss you!\n\nAnd if you can't wait until he asks you out, ask him out! Guys appreciate it when girls ask them up and set up the date and give them a break from setting up all the dates. He'll appreciate you even more if the date is fun and unique!
535459
Study his actions when he is around you. Study the way he looks at you. That is the biggest clue. Gaze into his eyes and they will tell you what you want to know.
1058005
Has he told you that he loves you? If he has, then he is probably patiently waiting for you to express your love for him, so he really won't care how you do it, as long as you're authentic. If he hasn't then he's most likely too shy and is wondering how you feel about him...
353184
This is a pretty open question.  The first thing I look for to tell if a guy likes me would be if he is open with me.  It really helps if you are friends before lovers!  This way you can tell if you two would be compatible enough for a more loving relationship.
1133796
If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you