there is aguy i like and we went out a whole lotHe holds my hand but i want to go more into it shuld i kis him
467265
Yea, why not?  He already likes you and is holding your hand.  If you want to kiss build a moment and kiss him already.
866243
If there's an interest or hobby he has that you know of  try asking him to do something that he likes. If that happens he may be more open to you. And could be a fun date
1175023
WELL IF YOU REALLY LIKE HM THEM YOU BETTER LET HIM NOW HOW YOU FEEL CAUSE I MEAN HE ALREADY DID ENOUGH BY ASKING YOU HOW YOU FEEL. TELL HIM BEFORE YOU LOOSE HIM.
704317
Don't make this more complex than it has to be. HE likes you. YOU like him. Tell him you want to move your friendship to the next level and start dating. This is a GREAT thing !!! I am happy for you two.
1185155
I dont want to grab him.\n\nMaybe you should think more mature and ask him out?\n\nAnd respect your body.
146363
You have to let him know you like him one way or the other. When I'm with a girl that I like I always look for a way to break the "touch barrier" I'm talking about mainly flirting and and also the first time you touch someone is the hardest after that it all rolls down hill from there. It sounds weird to talk about it like this but I'm only  talking about stuff like play punching. Also there is a proximity bubble we all have around are selves. I forgot what actually equates this space but we naturally know what it is. If you like some one and want to move further you need to break this barrier. If they are uncomfortable they will back up. if not they will embrace it. They could just sit there though. That is usually when you find out for sure if they are down or not. So that's just my two cents. Hope all goes well.
328474
explain to him that you feel you are ready to try taking your relationship to the next level to see if your really ready. thats what I like to hear though, that a girl will set a boundry thats cool.
440951
well we hold hands all the time. its pretty much always out fingers laced together. if yo're trying to grab your bf's hand, just go for it! i'm sure he'd love you to. esp if he's nervous. sometimes us girls just have to make the first move :)
47784
i just go ahead and ask him out
464784
Ask him if he wants to go hang out sometime just as a casual get together, see how that goes.  He might ask you to go out then, and if not, then you will be in a more comfortable situation and then ask him.
753578
You say, "That is so sweet of you!  But I was kind of hoping just to go alone and hang out with everyone, but maybe we can hook up and dance a couple of dances".  That way you've thanked him for considering you, you've not made him feel like a big doof, you've made it clear that you'll see him there and perhaps you can have a dance but it's not written in stone.  Good luck!
664656
Go to the dance...see how that goes.  He may have asked you becuase he likes you as more than a friend.  Look for signals, and if they're good, let him know how you feel.
531255
Get closer to him.  Make subtle moves that u feel comfortable with.  U never know unless u try
904762
ask him.DO YOU WANT TO GO OUT?
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No.  Let him make the first move.  It will be more rewarding for both of you.  And you will know that he is interested on his own rather than just because you are available.
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don't be in such a rush. it may not seem like it, but holding hands is something very special. if he doesn't want to hold your hand, don't force him. all that will do is cause trouble. let your relationship progress naturally. you're only 14, you have lots of time to do all the hand holding you want.
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Ask him to spend time with u