My b/f wants me to put my finger in his anus while having sex.  Should I be worried about his preferences?
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nope. there's a ton of nerve endings back there and there's a way to rub the back of a guys genitals through the rectal wall. (his g-spot) a lot of guys like that, not just gay ones.\n\nif you want to try it, make sure you wash your hands first and your nails are short. and use lube!\n\nnow, if he asks you to use a strap-on and peg him from behind, you might want to ask him if he's sure about which way he swings...
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UMMM..........I WOULD WONDER IF HE LIKES ANAL SEX I DONT KNOW ANY STRAIGHT MEN THAT WANTS SOMETHING IN THEIR A*S
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it's normal, next time when you do it, use a lot of lube, lay on your belly, put a pillow under your belly to elevate your butt and keep your legs closed kinda tight, make him work to get it in, i find that once it gets in, it is easier, then i open up more for him,  i also use a bullet on my clit to keep my mind off the initial pain, if you do it this way then eventually you will learn to like it....i did  LOL
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it will come naturally (excuse the pun!) no one knows what to do when you first do it. YOur boyfriend will make encouraging noises if you do what he likes - or just ask him, Its nothing to be embarassed about.
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Your boyfriend is so under the thumb, it's a wonder you don't suffocate him.  Just lighten up, if he is Mr Right then you won't have a need to be so paranoid.
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All of it is consider Sex but there are different Views to that Questions..Would You consider Anal a Fetish?????  Oral would be consider fore Play. Vagiinal would be classified as Intercouarse.  But it all is fun no matter how You look at it. Enjoy everything while You can.
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I know i am not a guy, but can i would like to share an experience.\n\nMy boyfriend now, was my first, and i was worried about the same things. He could tell, as soon as he stuck a finger in me.  He actually loved the fact i was, and was patient with me. He loves the thought that i'm experiencing everything the first time with him, and he can show me how to please him.  Its has been 8 months now, and we have an awesome sex life.  email me if you have more questions about this....i have been there.\n\nallyalexmch@yahoo.com
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Well who's to say where its "supposed" to go. If she wants intercourse, put it in. If she wants to rub herself against it, you could do that too.  Its also quite a good way of trying anal as the woman can control how deep it goes in.\n\nWhen sex is involved, anything goes if you're both into it.  Do whatever feels good for you and your girl.
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give him a bolw job, that's just about all we like besides makeing out, then we want to finger you, trust me, if you want to please him and you dont want to have sex yet let him finger you
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the real question is what is it that you want i mean r u cool with a no string relationship and do you actually want something more serious. if you do you need to let him know that even though he has an erection problem that your willing to work with him and find other means of sexually arousal that is if its not that big of a deal for you also let him know that relationships arent solely based on sex and if you guys care about eachother you should be willing to make some kind of step towards commitment if not b his roxy
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I love it...it's very creative, and "inside"stuff always makes things more intimate. You need to check your spelling though. As for being a TURN ON...I don't know about that, but I bet he'll be flattered. Good luck!
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He may be gay but besides that, I'm thinking it may just be his preference. A lot of men generally enjoy anal and oral sex a lot. It's possible he just may find that typical sex is not as exciting. It could just be a matter of the less conventional it is the more he likes it. I would think it's a matter of fantasies and those acts fulfill his fantasies more. I'd talk to him about it and get the 411 and find out if it's just a matter of being kinkier or something more than that.
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If she doesn't like it, she does't like it.  However, if she's never tried it then she doesn't know what she's missing.  I like it, not all the time, have to be in the right mood for it.  The first time I tried it I honestly was wasted drunk, my b/f had been trying to get me to do it and when he saw the opportunity he took it.  He's lucky I enjoyed it though, or else it could've been rape.  I am not suggesting get her drunk, you've got to talk her into it.  When you go down on her, just as she's about to cum, push a finger into her ass so she cums with your finger there.  She may want you to do it again.
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i am assuming ur a gilr right!! lol... ok give him a hint, asking him how sensitive youa re down there... and how you imagine how hory you woudl get if you were tobe kissed there, this way you are proctecting ur innocense... and also inviting hime to conqueour new grounds us guys love that...
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• Why even question something dat's goin' so great?\n\n...then again, I can understand da fact dat u're tryin to b considerate of ur man as well. Givin oral can b (believe it or not) pleasurable for da person givin it. I sometimes get a bigger turn-on by seein how my girl enjoys it while I'm pleasurin her. \n\nIf u'd like to know how he really feels, but u don't wanna just come out n ask him, try askin general questions or have an open n friendly chat instead. Havin both of u talk about intimate things will not only help him open up n tell u how he really feels about oral(without u being direct about it), but it'll also help him understand what u also like n dislike as well. Its a win win dontcha think?\n\nI once found out about a real cool (n kinky) fantasy my ex had just by talkin about da things we love to do in bed, favorite positions, fantasies etc. So I surprised her one day n made two or her fantasies a reality. How cool is dat huh?\n\n...good luck to ya!
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Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
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Number one, when your preschool "boyfriend" touched you there, you should have told an adult. That is wrong..plus when you are that young, you don't know what that means. An adult should have straighted both of you out if you were touching each other like that at such a young age..preschool..come on, parents should know about that to educate you.\n\nAnway, masterbation, which is what you are doing, is ok. It is perfectly normal. You won't go to hell, you wont contract some disease, or somethin from doing that. Just MAKE SURE you wash your hands, before you touch yourself down there....especially when you put your fingers inside.  Just make sure, if you touch your butt (you may not see the bacteria that could be on your fingers) make sure you wash your hands extremely well before you touch your vaginal area. If you dont wash your hands everytime you touch or insert fingers, you are at risk for a urinary tract infection or a baterial infection. These are cureable but painful.\n\nI feel its better to explore yourself and pleasure yourself, than to be messing around with boys and having sex at such a young age.