how do you make a guy that rejected you feel stupid for not saying yes? OR how do i make him jealous?
460251
Don't do it. Those are exactly the kind of mind games that make life so rediculous sometimes. Why, if you truely liked him, or cared for him, would you want to make him jealous? If you had his best interest in mind, you wouldn't be plotting against him! Get over it and find someone who is interested in you, don't waste time with people who don't want you in their life.
299405
well, write a  letter telling him  ur feelings.ask it personally.try befriendin' him. get to know him better.well, u got jealous becoz he was talkin' with other girls coz u were scared of losin' him.if u tell him how u feel, wait for him to think.tell him personally. just  muster up ur guts n  spill out ur feelings to him once n all,if not that way write a cute n romantic letter or even a poem will do the trick. don't come to conclusions. ask ur best buddies if they have acquaintances with him. if the feeling isn't that strong enough, forget about the guy u'll move over it.if in case rejected, don't feel low, he didn't know that he missed out a gud person.it isn't the end of the world.u'll find many guys around who might b interested in talkin' with u.so gud luck !
216790
Just ask him and be confident in yourself. Don't say you don't look good. Have faith in you because nobody else will. If he isn't interested its not the end of the world, trust me. I've been turned down myself and it didnt kill me. It might hurt for a while, but you'll move on. So cheer up and just be straight up with him about how you feel and see where his mind is.
515954
Tell him how it makes you feel.  I would be insanely jealous and po'ed.  Don't accuse him of anything because it will get him on the defensive and tell you you're being ridiculous.  Say it along the lines of..."Whenever I see you get those messages from your ex's or talk to me about them, it really makes me feel..."  Talk only about how if affects you.\n\nIf he has any concern for you, he would stop.  If he doesn't, then if you really like him, ignore it afterwords even if it kills you inside.  It's the only way.\n\nOn the other hand, if you think this guy's being an bunghole, drop him like the selfish, arrogant retard he is.
238464
Next time he asks you out, run with it.  Be like, "Yeah, let's go hang out on the beach and build sandcastles!"  If he says that's cool, great!  But if he gives you a weird look and says he was just kidding, you should pull a Napoleon Dynamite and say, "I KNOW you were kidding, IDIOT, GOSH!"  Then you will both get a good laugh about it and you'll know your answer, even though secretly you'll be slightly embarrassed.
397278
You need to be clear and direct and consciese in your response to him so that there is little room for him to put some false hope. I really don't understand why guys just are so blinded by love or lust or whatever,Wake up lames and smell the taste of rejection and move on.!!
21264
I have ALWAYS been oblivious. I just don't notice.\n\nTry flirting in a more obvious way, some guys are afraid to make a move in response because they doubt themselves, or are afraid they may be misinterpreting. What if you are teasing and are waiting for them to take the bait so you can shoot them down? What if you hug all your friends when you say hi? What if you feel close to him... but not in a romantic way? We don't have any way of knowing.\n\nTry the normal stuff, if it doesn't work, try approaching him seriously, and telling him your feelings, or after something you thought was obvious, tell him something like "you know a girl doesn't usually do that unless she is really hoping a guy will ask her out" or something similar.\n\nThen again... there is always the chance that he genuinely isn't interested. Unless you use a direct approach and ask you won't know.
435479
sadly, there isn't one. rejection hurts. rejection from someone you think your in love with crushes. the best thing you can do is "break it to him gentally" if you let him down easy it might still hurt a lot, but not as much as if you just all out dump him without explanation. in the long run, if you break it to him easy, it will be easier for him to let you go
584016
He's already turned you down once so if you ask him again it will make you look clingy.  Leave him to figure it out for himself.  If he has changed his mind he will get back to you.x
431978
Go up to him and, with a smile, a little wink and as little fuss as possible, give him a little note that says "Are you going to ask me out to dinner or not, you son of a b*tch?" \n\nWalk off before he has chance to open and read the note.\n\nThis way, you don't even have to say anything and he'll do all the work. Also, if he rejects you and shows the note to his mates, you'll seem to them to be as cool as you like; avoids the whole humiliation thing.
473360
Just be honest, tell him you just don't think it is working out the way you thought it would.  That will let him know you were interested but it is just not clicking now.
163588
There's no easy way to do this.  But I'd try to keep two things in mind:\n\nFirst, you're under no obligation to like someone just because they like you.  \n\nSecond, you are under an obligation to be honest, direct, and kind.  \n\nAs a guy who spent a lot of his teenage years getting turned down for dates, I'd say the way to go is to be polite, direct, and firm.  Don't express revulsion, or hold out false hope.  Just say "I'm sorry.  I don't feel the same way about you that you do about me, and I don't want to go out with you."  There's no need to be mean, but at the same time don't be apologetic about your feelings.  Don't tell him "maybe later", don't tell him it's because you're seeing other guys, don't tell him you can just be friends.  Break the news to him calmly, politely, and then -- this is really important -- LEAVE.\n\nLeaving is very important.  Guys have a nearly infinite capacity for self-delusion.  If you tell him "no" and then hang out with him, he might convince himself "Oh, she's just saying that, but really she likes me!  That's why she's spending time with me!"  Believe it or not, the kindest thing you can do for this guy after you break the news is to get out of his life and stay away from him for a while.  That will help him get over you more quickly.\n\nGood luck
465315
The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
797034
Did you talk to her/him?   Ask them out if they reject you, get over it- but try not to stare that definitely freaks a person out!  good luck
1003213
How about have the friend ask him if he likes you?\nThat's better than your friend telling him that you're interested b/c then what if he says no and then you'll feel foolish. \nI'd tell your friend to ask him if he'd be interested in you.
1017361
It's true that if you don't ask, you will always wonder "what if?"\n\nYou don't have to be embarrassed. It's all about your attitude. If you look at as a chance to improve your self confidence, it doesn't have to be a negative thing IF he says no. If he says no, tell yourself it was worth the try and there's nothing to be embarrassed about!\n\nIt is a gamble though, about your friendship. But that's the risk we all take. I have known people that admitted their feelings to a friend, the friend didn't return the feelings, but even now they are still good friends.\n\nYou know. Why don't you just do some flirty things? Touch his hand or arm when you're laughing. Always sit next to him when you can. Always face your whole body toward him when you're talking to him or he's talking to you. Compliment him. If he flirts back, you will know that he's atleast interested.
345581
I would feel ignored and rejected.  But maybe he just didn't see the message.  Or maybe the question was so clingy that he has to just pretend that he never saw it.  Seriously, don't ask guys questions like that, it just sounds desperate.