why does he keep on messaging me even though we are just frinds?
455786
He is attracted to you my dear . . . and if he sound pathetic . . . to keep bothering you.  Doesn't he have any game?
362426
Sounds like he just wants you to be a groupie of his. If you don't want to, then stick to your guns! Give him the cold shoulder, if you have to. You don't need him.
763625
Because he's not creative enough to find ways to actually convince you that he's a great catch with his actions. He may be trying to appeal to your sense of pity, and I'm sure this approach has worked for him in the past.\n\nGood for you for not falling for it. You might want to even go so far as to tell him to stop texting you or else you will block his number. Don't let him disrespect you by not heeding your wishes.
241632
If u are just talking on the phone then how can he be useing you? if his friends are telling you he is useing you then he needs new friends.if you are haveing intiment relations with him then stop,if he loves you he will stick around,if not then he will run.
559390
Hey,\n   He is a jerk and the reason he does'nt get it as he thinks he is to good to be true,just be strong and aggressive when you tell him that the next time and explore his weakness to make him see why you dont want him to be more then a friend to you.Best of luck
374513
Seems to me that his not interested and he probably waiting for you too stop calling. Why dont you stop calling him and see what happens
341791
they next time he calls just ask him simply why do u call me so much? i dont mean to be rude but it has been getting sort of annoying. i like talking to you and all but this is interrupting my personal life and i do not appreciate it
974410
Maybe he is hurting and still loves you and does not know how to let go.  You sure that he does not want to keep talking with you.  Did you ask.  I know you said that you said you both see other people but your not married and your maybe able to reignite and old flame.  :)
601907
aw man try to understand why and talk this over with them, may be you are sending mixed signals, i have done that, but i am just friendly and others take it the wrong way. just tell them your true intentions and be nice, good friends are really hard to come by! friends rule!
473825
Sounds like he's a little immature. My advice, don't worry about it and make friends with someone else. He isn't the last boy you'll ever like, and if he's that young, chances are you're young too, and you will meed plenty of other boys in your day, Lord willing. And don't give your friend any more of his messages ;)
1114503
Why does he have the ability to send you messages?  I think you just want attention.  This is the 3rd posting about the same topic!  I think you just want someone to ask you/prove that you are hot!  get over yourself!  And the important question is, "What is wrong with you?"
757255
You guys might be headed down different paths is all. As we mature we sometimes out grow some friends. Try talking to him telling thats not really your thing and if continues to push back away for awhile and let him have the space he needs to dicover where hes headed
754640
Sounds like either he has a crush on you...or he has a crush on your friends and doesn't want to lead you on.  Maybe he's nervous around you because of his crush, but can be himself around your friends because his crush doesn't lie with them.
882119
Just ignore him and don't react to any of his comments as long as he knows he's getting to you he will continue the minute he knows that you absolutely don't care what he says it will burn him up and he'll stop..Tell the person who relates these messages to you to stop ..and you don't want to hear anything that comes from this person.And honestly what kind of friend is this that tells you hurtfull things..really now..
368579
nope and I'd further let him know that you value your time and are willing to include him in your plans but only if he shows up.  I'd make it clear and rock solid that if he does it again, the friendship is terminated out of a lack of respect for you on his part.  You don't have to be a doormat for this so-called friend.  The reason you may be the only friend he's got is because he chased off the other people who wanted to be his friend.  So.....you may be a friend to HIM but I don't see any parts of his being a friend to YOU.  Get ready to ditch this sadsack and meet nicer people.
766818
Because he doesn't want you to have his number, period. But he's got some feelings about how to treat people in general ( just your average nice guy- they are out there) and he doesn't know how to tell you. Doing it this way makes him feel less guilty and it's the ONLY way this particutlar person can tell you without feeling like a jerk.  Don't ask his friend for his number. His buddy is his buddy and probably won't give you the right one. Then you'll feel like a fool.
820950
Give it a little more time. Maybe he needs time to adjust, or he's afraid you're attracted to him. If you're not, you need to tell him. If you are and he's distancing himself because of that, well that's too bad but it happens all the time with heterosexuals too. If the friendship is supposed to be platonic and he keeps ignoring you, I guess he is not the kind of person you want to have around.