my 18 son broke in and robbed us,he is in the army national guard what is or will the guard do or is responsia
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The Guard will not get involved with the felony burglary charge, it's a civilian matter.  However, once the courts get done with him, he will most likely be charged under the UCMJ and Dishonorably discharged.  He may even get a bad Conduct Discharge.  But again, they cann't intefere until the civilian courts have their way with your son.
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FILE A COUNTERSUIT AGAINST THE OTHER TWO MEN, AS IT APPEARS YOU WETE DEFEDING YOURSELF.  selfdefense is not punishable,,,youve got a crummy public defender.  call a legal aid service they offer free legal advice for those who cant afford attornet representation
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If its dangerous you should contact your local police dept. or child protective services
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You should not go to your friends house again because the police could bust the place. You really need to tell your parents. Be careful and take care.\n\nHugs!\nG.G.
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911 operater can pen point the phone and have the local police the look into this area right now tell them about the child and he may be in danger. Your phone bill has a number toll free call them tell them your problem and concern see if they can help right now also i hope you find your son. Good Luck.
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First your son opened the door. That's an invite. Second your husband assaulted an officer. Third you had drugs and a large amount of cash in view. \n\nYou had a capias in your name cause for arrest. Yes I believe it is legal (check your state laws.) \n\nGet rid of the drugs, don't fight with the police and you should be good in the future.\n\nThe item about not allowing clothes is really up to the police putting you into custody. As a courtesy they could have given you something to put on if you where completely naked.
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Speaking from experience, look into N.A. (Narcotics Anonymous) It's a lot like A.A. but geared more towards drugs instead of alcohol. As far as turning him into the police, DEFINITLY! If he gets away with it now, he's sure to do it again. The sad thing is even if he is punished, he'll always steal from you or anyone else until he gets help. It may be hard but it is true that no person or program will help unless HE hits bottom and makes a decision to change his life.
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Commit a misdemeanor and get the hell out of the military.\n\n-J.
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I am so sorry to hear. It must be very difficult for you and your family. \nI hate to say this, but if my son had this many charges against him, I would have to let him deal with the consequences. Otherwise, the only thing he would learn is that "mom and dad (or one or the other) will bail me out." I've seen this happen to someone who I am very close to and she is on the verge on losing everything, including her mind, trying to keep her son from dealing with the responsibility of his actions. What happens when mom and/or dad are no longer there to bail him out? When does he start learning responsibility for his actions? Chances are that he will outlive you and if he doesn't learn now, then what happens to him? Not to mention the people he has harmed by committing these crimes. It is harsh, I know, and I'm sorry. I know this has to be extremely painful for you. \nHaving said that, if I were determined to try to help him, what I would do is contact an attorney for a consultation. Many atty's give initial consulations for free. I would contact Legal Services which is for people who cannot afford to hire an attorney and is usually located in the blue pages in your local phone book (if your phone book doesn't have blue pages, I mean the section for government phone numbers). I know in our area they have certain times each week you can call, speak to an atty and ask for legal advice, no charge. \nThe website is for a criminal defense lawyer in Lubbock. Don't know how close you are to him but his site says initial consultation is free.
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anytime you take something that isn't yours or take something that you didn't pay for well then thats stealing no matter what the unusual circumstances are.  just because someone else broke the glass and started the robbery, you are still a accomplice cause you jumped in and took part.  it's called an accessory .....charged with possession of stolen property or maybe recieving stolen property.  any way you look at it...it would be smarter for you not to get involved with things of this nature.  try making better choices,  your future depends on it.  GOOD LUCK!
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This just seems like a really bad idea. Can you really force someone into the army? For how many years? 2? 5? 15? Is it actually right to say "You will do National Service or else!" Or else what? We throw them into an already crowded prison system, and they end up back on the streets anyway (just trained in a life of crime). They're going to be hoods no matter what, do you really want them trained to use firearms?
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Tell him to keep his head up and always know what is going on around him. If he keeps his head down he will miss something and maybe get hurt. I will tell you what my mother told me before I deployed at the age of 31 to OIF I. She said "I want you to be safe but I also want you to be brutal."
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I think the National Guard is your best option
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If your son decides to sign up there is nothing you can do about it but support him. Do I agree with it. No.  Your son is an adult now. You have to allow him to make his choices. \n\nHowever, what you could do is have a talk with him. Give him other options of things he can do. And tell him how much he means to you and you'd be so worried about him if he left. \n\nAsk him why he wants to go into the Army. Maybe he thinks it's the only option he has... Maybe he thinks when all is done they will help pay for school or something like that. If that is the case.. it doesn't usually work out that well at all. I had a friend who did that and it didn't work out as he had planned.\n\nAsk him his beliefs if it's not about money or school. Why does he want to do it.  Find common ground somewhere and anywhere you can't find common ground let him know you love him and will support him no matter what.  Don't make him feel bad about any decision he wants to make. The more you battle with him and get mad at him about it the more of a chance he'll really go for it.  \n\nI wish you luck and I totally feel for your situation. I'd be upset too.\n\nBTW: I read a post that said that he can't be put into a combat zone. That's not true. Our friend who is now in Iraq is an only* child and he is in a combat zone. He would be used where needed and if that means they need him in a combat zone that's what it means. I don't mean to scare you more in regards to this issue. I just don't want you to believe something false and give up talking to him about it more.
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sorry i cant give my address already to many strangers got due to my picture flying through the internet. but try to find a friend that happens to be a soldier near by his AKO acct has acces to the information you request. Hopefully he/she is willing to help you. the army is a big place so unless you know what unit he went to its like finding a needle in a stack of needles.I used to see this all the time in Bragg, people would ask for their son/brother etc if we know them . And we keep telling them without their unit or MOS we cant narrow down anything due to our post being the size of a city.
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When they leave change the locks and go on a trip. Then have the police watch your home while you are gone. Make sure you give their things to someone you trust that will give the things to your unwanted guest. It worked for me.
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First and formost contact your local authorities, by calling information to get the number of your local police station for NON emergancies. They will give you more options for what you can do.\n\nIf you're still living at home with your parents notify them and ask if you can get your number changed, or have this number blocked.\n\nIf you're in school, it would be wise to let your principles know what the situation is because they're there to protect you and everyone else.\n\nIf you drive - try to keep someone in the car with you, if you're walking - no matter what - continuously look around and know your surroundings, a house you can walk up if somone comes after you, ect. Always put your keys in your hands so there's a key between each finger - do this with the hand you right with. So If you have to throw a punch in defence - you can, and so much more.\n\nCarrying a small bottle of mace (anywhere but in school) would be a good idea as well.\n\nGood luck with everything, and always be careful.