i love noufal..but he doesnt.i am very much sincere to him.i cant marry anyone else.what should i do.help me..
474097
I am having the same problem as you at the moment but the best advice that I can give you it to leave him alone. Don't call him,don't email him just make out that you don't care anymore and if he really likes you this will bring him back to you. Sometimes you have to treat them mean to keep them keen. Men like a challenge and if they know that they can have you no matter what they do, they tend to get bored of this. Never show a guy how much you really love them as they will take advantage of this.Good luck.x
1179273
People just don't do this for some reason. Sit down with him and truly tell him how you feel and what you want from him. Ask why he does not show you as much love as you show him. Some people are just like that and it's hard for them to express themselves. I think the two of you shoulf prolong the wedding date until this is figured out. If not then you won't be happy by this time next year.
313234
Well, I'm glad you too love other. But both of you are far too young to get married. You see, even adults make mistakes in marriage when they rush into these things. So, I would suggest that you keep your friendly relationship until both of you are adults. By then, you will be more mature and can decide whether you want to spend the rest of your lives with each other in love. So, hang on together and wait another 4 years (at least). Good luck.
347536
Sarah, since you are a girl, I think to marry someone who truly loves you if certainly better than one who loves you too but not truly. Since he loves you truly, he may be more sincere and faithful to you and even if you dont love him enough now,  due to his love and sincereity, your love for him will grow eventually. Best of luck to you, do make a wise decision because marriage is a life-long committment.
441883
If you really love him how could you tell him something so hurtful . Love doesn't hurt the people it cares about .  you may love some other guy but the thing is that other guy is not your husband .  You really need to sit back and pull yourself together .  You promised you would love your husband till death parted you . Don't break that promise I think he loves  you and you crushed him .
293044
The best way to handle a situation like this is to just be completly honest...i mean are you in love with this guy?? but its just not the right time to marry him...or are you not really in love with him and you diff dont want to marry him.. You just need to be honest with him and let him knows whats on your mind and how your feeling...Men cant read Womens minds!...
111787
hi lady. am really had saffered the same thing . there was a relative for me . she was sending for me love messages and love emails and on my mobile. but the problem that i don't love here . not because she is ugly girl but because i don't feel love in my heart when i see here. and which makes it more complicated that i loved a girl and she was christian and i had so many problems for this reason. and in my living place which it's jordan christians in general don't give girls for marrieg for non christians people . and she was loving me too. but for that reason nothing was good for me and her . so we were so confused about that and every thing collapsed . so i was in a very complicated situation from both sides. and am really right now searching for love but i can't find a girl that i will love her from same exact time i see her on or later even. but the problem i am right now in egypt studying medicin and i felt in in strange feelings like i want to get back to my family and feel the love of my family at least. and this girl was sending for me while am in egypt after three months and for a moment i felt that i haven't be rude with her and have to be alot more better with here  i felt sorry for her so i told her that i love u nad i will be with . and this thing continued for one month i call her and send for her and promised her but am was trying to make my self love her and tell my self that is good to have someone love u that much. but infact i don't love her . so it was a mistake to feel sorry . because u have to be ohnest with your self and with her . so i returned to collapse every thing and her love turned to hate and every thing was bad and i was so deppresd. until she forgived me before one month. so any guy if he dosenot feel in love for a girl and he said that he love her u have to know that it's for  two reasons :1-he feels sorry for the girl and that is wrong. and 2-he want to use her for something like he want her money or whatever is the prophet for him and that is so ugly and so bad. so u have to know if he loves u . maybe u ask how?. it's simple dose he look at u a respectful look just to your eyes. or he try always to defend u from anyone and want u always to be happy. and he dosent want u to be harmed and osen't want to harm your feelings always. because so many guys in our days just look for _and am sorry for this world _sex. so u have to be very clever in this theng.and u have to know from him in a indirect way if he love u or not. am sorry if my answer was a branched one but i want to give a true story which had been with me to take lessons from it and  to avoid being in this situation. and if u want friends i can be the first friend for u lady. and we can chat in YAHOO. MESSENGER. MY EMAIL ON IT AND ON YAHOO IS NABIH_ZAID@YAHOO.COM ( and on hi5.com my profile is nabih_amleh@hotmail.com). hope to be friends lady. bye.
586369
This is great. If you are of the age to marry, I'd say, he's probably the one! He respects you.  Just show him you respect him and care about him.  Ask him straight out, when the time is right, "Will you just hold me?" Like out under the stars in the park.  A long tight hug is way better than kisses on the cheek.  Ask for what you want! Tell him how you feel!  Tell him you're glad he respects you and tell him it's alright with you if he goes a little farther. Tease him about being jealous of the other girl and that will show him you care.  I hope you can make it work! Just be patient. Good luck!
587404
From what you say it seems your dilemma is...your head verses your heart... the head is usually right you didn't say why he couldn't commit... but in any case i think you've already conceded that fact. My advice would be to make a clean break... continuing to be friends is just keeping your hope alive... I say continue on with your life meet someone new... yes it is completely possible  and likely that you will fall in love with someone else... which ends your dilemma...good luck in whatever you choose to do
1052249
Hey tleigh...well after what i just read, it seems to me that the 2 of you are happy with the way things are now.  If this is the case then why ruin a good thing.  I believe the only time 2 people should get married is if they are both really committed to the whole marriage thing.  But, if you still have to stop and ask yourself if this is a good thing then most likely its not gonna be. But, like I said earlier,  you 2 seem to be doing just fine the way things are.  You know how the old phrase goes..."Don't fix it , if it ain't broke"  As of right now, it doesnt seem as if anything is broke in this relationship....Good luck with everything, tleigh...
456470
you have to revaluate your relationship with this person. If you are truly in love ….well it would be a horrible mistake to leave. However, are you sure it is not just because you want this to work which is making you feel as if you are in love?? Talk to your family about this problem and ask their advice (since they know you better then me). Work it through with this guy and see if there is a compromise. Make sure the sacrifice is not only one sided otherwise it might haunt the relationship in the future. Make sure you know this guy and understand who he truly is because people can seem different over the net or phone??. Think and ask for guidance from those closest to you. And most of all discuss it with all the people which will be affected.
856384
let me ask you this, how did you get into this position? how did you let this other man maneuver his way into your heart?...\n\ndo you beleive in the sanctity of marriage? if so, do what you can to get this other guy out of your life...\n\ndoes this guy know you're married? if not, that you're fault...if so, would you want to marry a guy who doesn't have respect for a married couple?...\n\nplease do the right thing and be more responsible with who you get close to...
507933
Just say "I am not ready for marriage,I am not ready to take that step in my life. It has nothing to do with you personally, I just would rather wait until I am positive I want to make that commitment. I am flattered by your offer, but I can't say yes."\n \n By the way, it sounds like this guy just wants to get married to you for citizenship. His feelings most likely will not be hurt because there is no actual feelings invloved.
918200
Call the Courts of whatever city he is in....I think you should not listen to these other people saying you should not marry someone in Jail.....You cant help whom you love and if you feel you love this person no matter what then do whatever it takes to marry him!  When you are in love you will always love that perosn.....Unconditionally!   I hope you figure out how to marry him!  Hes lucky to have his girlfriend out there supporting him, trying to make you two "one".....Let me know how everything works out!  And Good Luck!
468279
you definitely should. isn't it time that the both of you made another step toward the ultimate commitment to each other? you have been together this long and have already talked about getting married. i think you should do it. god bless both of you.
711457
you're definitely not in love. its all infatuation. would caution u to think twice before making such decision (to marry). when u have doubts, don't do it.
154410
marry him!!\nowh wait..before that..\nfirst of all..only you can sort this out..if you think you can cope with problems you may face..(due to the 'no qualifications' thing)..then you should indeed marry him..\ni advise you that its the best anywayz..but ever heard of this?\nwhen poverty knocks on the door,\nlove and trust flies out the window..\n\nmake your own decissions..age is no issue!~