i fell in love with a great guy in the philippines. his much older but his nice and funny. but his married.?
471463
If you get with this guy, I'm afraid he will disappoint you. How can you feel comfortable with someone who obviously has lied to you, do not respect his vows, turning his back on his kids, and deny or acknowledge his children's existence to you? What he is doing to wife, he is going to do to you once he gets bored. People show us who they truly are and sometimes we dismiss it because of the false picture of them or we depend too much for a guy to make us happy instead of making ourselves happy. You need to work on your self esteem if you think this is and will lead to a good relationship. You are worth more than being deceived and second choice.
42481
Maybe he knows it won't work with the age difference, or he could be already married.\n\nK
581299
The fact that you are even thinking of this guy doesn't speak very highly of your feelings for your husband.  If something is meant to be, then it will be.  Maybe that guy was supposed to be "the one", maybe not.  But since it didn't work out when you had the chance, I'm leaning more towards "NOT."  Please put him out of your mind and focus all your love and attention on the man you married.
866543
You must listen to your heart.  Are you really in love with this man or just adoring his mature ways?  Good Luck.
1092706
I married a Filipina. And let me give you some serious advice,. If I had a choice to do it all over again I would not do it. Not because I don’t love my wife because I do very much. but the amount of crap and time and money and aggravation you have to go through with the INS .. it simply is not worth it. I truly honestly don’t know how anyone ever emigrates to the US at all anymore. This has been a total nightmare. Please be forewarned. It is not an easy thing. It takes many many years to resolve. I married my wife over in the Philippines 4 years ago. And it took us about a year for me to get her to the US.. and once she was over here. It was truly a night mare as there are so many forms to fill out and on top of that the incompetence of the INS is just unreal. I think that all the stupid people in the world have been employed there. You will never get the same answer two times and are forced to send them more money for things that were their mistakes to begin with. Just letting you know. it is not all roses.
110519
Sounds like your already married to each other.Congratulations.
274796
You were married, there for it isn't odd that you would still have some fond feelings and good memories.  However I don't think you are in love with him.  I think you are probably just going through some bad stuff in your life and your latching on to some good memories and making more of them that what you should.  Remember, this same guy cheated and lied to you and nothing has changed.  You still deserve better in your life.
595918
I am from Hong Kong and I got married with an Italian man.  It is not about nationality but feeling towards someone. Of course, Fate involves.  Trust me on this.
337531
yep I'm married to a man 14 years older than me. They are the best kind.
779004
I thought he was married to a man.
597063
I don't believe filipinos are conservative..come and see in dubai..Not even 20%.\nNo wonder marraiges break up. My real sympathies. Not a critic. \nFirst all gals there have variety in your hair style and dressing..I can see all of you with wet hair in the morning and combing them with your fingers..looks like a herd of penguins at the edge of a glacier..the same ..the same..your guys would be tired yaar.
94907
It does not sound like you are in love. Just because you have the same morals and great sex does not make it love. One of the best things about marriage is laughing and if you don't have that, you can't make it. It sounds like you are in for a very dull and unhappy life sweetie, I hope you can find a way out.
306611
I was married to a man 22yrs older than me.  We divorced, through no fault of his, because I was young and wanted to party.  He has since died, but I'd give up everything to have him back again.. I'm 59 and he would be 81 this year.  I miss him very much and still love him.
198211
He's going on a mission!!! Honestly, it is hard to move on.  Especially when it feels like you have found the one.  Just realize that he is probably someone else's future husband.  You are probably young and it won't matter.  Hey, if you are still around when he gets back from his mission, see how he feels then.  Don't wait for him though.  I would advise against that.  The chances of a girl waiting for a guy on his mission are 15% and the chances they will get married are less.  Anyway, tell him good luck and I will be seeing him out in the field in a little over a year.  Hope this helps.
907601
yes, I would be anyway.\n\nworst case, its very very flattering. Might only happen every decade or so for some guys, if that. \n\nif he and you want each other then maybe more, find out I think.\n\nHappily married or not? It matters I think.
346970
Ain't love grand!!!! Congratulations! Shout it from the rooftops! He's a lucky man to have a woman so much in love with him. I hope he says yes! Oh! You are crazy ... crazy in love!! (That's what I tell my husband when he teases me and calls me crazy ... that I'm crazy in love with him. It's the greatest feeling in the world!)
662953
my dear don't be hesitated if u know that he really like u so there is no one in his life like u despite he is married because alot of people wasting the chances of getting love mariage by bad cultural traditions so i think he is one of those so if u r leaving him u r doing crime because u r commitment is very great very high i mean LOVE . best wishes for both of u