im cheating on my wife?
471673
Yes it is...WAKE UP....obviously everything is not right in your marriage if you are having sex with someone else. Don't fool yourself by saying you are taking good care of your family. STOP your cheating now and talk to your wife about whatever is bothering you. If you truly love your wife you will fix things now.
26042
If you know your wife and are truly in love with her one kiss is all it will take.  From an unfortunate amount of experience, once she has been with someone else, even one time,  the differnece in the way the kiss feels is noticable.  Maybe not physically, but the difference is there.  Now proving that she cheated  is an entirely different story.
215602
Yes it is,and I think that you know it is.However,it doesn`t seem to be as serious as if you had actually touched the other woman.But I think that even looking at someone else with dirty thoughts is a form of betrayal.Since there was no physical contact,and if you really are sorry for it,then I see no cause for you to tell your wife and hurt her.Just don`t do it any more,and don`t mentally abuse yourself over it.Learn from it,ask God to forgive you and go on.
973320
No infact it would be worst because you are doing it out of spite. You may get temporary satisfaction by hurting your wife, but if you still love her, the best thing to do is to give it time and try to work it out. You should read the article on my site titled "12 Ways To Build Trust In Your Relationship" you'll find that here...\n\nhttp://cheatingsigns.blogspot.com\nHope that helps. Because building back trust is indeed the next step. If not, your marriage is doomed.\n\nBest of Luck,\nDrew Bryant\nhttp://howtospotacheatin10days.com
242239
Think to yourself...Is casual sex with my wife's best friend going to hurt or enhance my marriage? You must hate your wife to even consider doing something that would cause her nothing but heart-ache and embarrassment
449605
I feel sorry for you and your wife. The male hormones forces you to think from your .... Well it's too late to ask why you couldn't stay faithful, so I would suggest that you get counseling. Also stay away from friends who push you into adultery. One thing I can tell it will take a long time for both of you to get over. It will always be there, but marriages have survived and thrived on worse. Take care and hope things resolve.
96786
I don't think you really love someone if you can cheat on them! if you really loved this woman you are about to marry, you wouldn't have done it. my advice, tell her, so she can dump your sorry cheating a**.
195121
well your answer lies on one thing where is she at now as well who else has she been with in this matter you feel for the oldest thing going that is being played for a stand in . i have been there did  it as well not worth it in my opion how do you think i caught my.ex. wife. she was cheating i had the sence to get rid of it. grow up like i did. nt worth it my friend she this woman you are talking about is a player if she was with you you might thing who else has she fooled with you dont want to end up in court over this woman she aint worth ita woman like that cant love she has something called a whoreing spree ?
1176743
dude you just want to cheat...dont say cheating will save ur marriage, it will just make u look dumb....dumbass
696621
Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.
584871
sorry but cheating cheating as long as you have a threesome and both participate
793489
You are a moral corruptor and your wife doesn't deserve you. Stop talking to this friend of yours and focus on sex with your wife. How would you like it if you found that your wife was talking to her friend whom she really wants to have sex with?!
670783
Ummm sir... what if your wife looks at this??? Yeah think next time!!! By the way I am your wife and I am looking at this and I think you should think (about getting a divorce). Can't have two hands in the cookie jar!
201876
You cant and you shouldnt have done that in the first place. Thats called adultry and your wife can devorce you for everything that your worth for that. So break it off now with her.
528709
That's a sin some where. And any way would you like you wife to cheat on you? "Do into others as you have them do into you" Get it think about that  for awhile!
575363
Unfortunately for you, there is something about your relationship or you that caused you to cheat.  You have risked at the highest level your relationship.  If you never tell her, you will be in constant fear she will find out from someone else, and that is 100 times worse than hearing it from you.  If you tell her she very well may leave you, and rightfully so.  Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and you destroyed that forever.  You say you will never do it again....but you did it in the 1st place so you really don't know if you will do it again or not, and she will never really trust you and she will always have that to live with,and it should be enough for her to leave you forever.  What you have done is unforgivable,take it from someone who was married and in her position.  It never is forgiven and it definitely is never forgotten.  You have to tell her as kindly as possible, and you should not try to justify your behavior, excuse it, or try to plead you way out of this.  She has every right to get angry, sad, and betrayed, and you not only should allow her to feel that way but also not try to manipulate your way back in.  Let her decide what she wants to do with no pressures from you.  If you pressure her she will leave you for sure, or should do so.  Learn from this however it turns out and in future relationships don't do something you will regret.
505807
The only solution to this mess you have gotten yourself into is to come clean with your wife. Your marriage couldn't have been that happy if you felt the need to cheat in the first place. Maybe through counseling you can salvage your marriage. \nThis casual affair is not asking that you call this child yours. It IS your child regardless of whether you like it or not.\nYou made a mistake by trying to bribe this woman or asking for an abortion. That would make any woman angry.\nYou need to come clean NOW, if you wait, it WILL  come back to haunt you later.  Make sure you tell your wife yourself. it will be so much worse if she hears it from someone else. And believe me she will hear about it. You upset the other woman and she will tell whoever will listen about you.\nGood Luck!