How can I let him love me, if he just considers me as a friend?????/?
468919
Try to spend more time with him and show him a side of you that no one else can see...\n\nbut as someone already mentioned, you can't force anyone to love you. all you can do is be your best and wait.\n\nbest wishes! =]
351914
First off, stop kissing him and stop telling him you love him.  He is hangin on to your words and your actions, which he is taking it as you are still interested in him.  Give yourself some distance between the both of you.  So, I would say, to not see each other so often, and if he still calls insisting that you see each other "as friends" let him know that, that is all it is.. friends only... and nothing more. Tell him you will always care, but that is all.  You can not make yourself love him the way he wants you to love him.
182099
well....if you don't love him than tell it to him so later he won't feel as bad as he would now.....or else you could just say that you just want to be friends now
891533
Well if you like him as a friend then just tell him that you feel more comfortable being friends and that if he accepts that tell him that you'll ALWAYS like him like that again maybe but you just wanna be friends for now..\n\n\ngood luck
698264
That is a tough situation and no matter how you do it, its rough.  It depends on how you two are getting along and trust your feelings.   He may be feeling the same way and having a hard time trying to think of a way as well.  To make it the best, be honest with him and explain why you feel that way.  It will show him as well that it may be better to just be friends.  Good Luck and take a deep breathe.
204206
First of all, you must be his friend in order to know him well.  Once you are his friend you will definitely get to know all about him.  At a later point of time, you will also know that he loves you.  You can break the news to him that you love him then.  Trust me... these things take time.\nYou have to be sweet with him always.  Think of him as a friend rather than your lover for now.\nAll the best with your love and friendship.
304162
if you just want to be friends tell him nicely that u just want to be friends still doesnt understand then u teach him a lesson he wont soon forget
66124
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
486918
just tell him that all you want to be is his friend and that you're sorry if you hurt his feelings. whatever you do, dont lie and say you have a b/f or something like that
613686
tell him the truth and how you feel and just be his friend yust friend nothing more than that.Then find a other guy who really loves you.You will find it.Good Luck!
484771
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up
10139
FIRST, STOP GIVING HIM MIXED SIGNALS BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO HURT HIM, HE WILL INTERPRET THEM AS LOVE. SECOND, IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER WHAT YOU DO BECAUSE HE WILL END UP GETTING HURT NO MATTER WHAT. THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS BE HONEST WITH HIM TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM AS A FRIEND AND STOP SEEING HIM FOR A WHILE SO HE CAN RESOLVE HIS FEELINGS. DON'T TALK TO HIM ABOUT GUYS YOU LIKE OR ARE DATING, THAT WILL ONLY HURT HIM MORE.
53716
theres really no way around just go ahead and talk to him let him know you value his friendship, but  and you go from there, but try to do this as soon as possible because you dont want to keep anything from him the longer you wait the more complicated it will be.
57139
Just tell him that you value his friendship and appreciate him being there for you, but at this time, you are not into being in a serious relationship.  Tell him that you need time and space to get your own thoughts together before you can start to share your life with someone else in that way.
656527
well ask him if he feels the same way about you as you do him.if not you can still be friends
1038679
Give him points for stepping up and telling you how he feels.Everybody can't do that,next feel flattered that you have someone who thinks that you're special.He has to be a decent guy or else you wouldn't be friends with him right? Consider the possiblity of what it would be like...Good Luck and no matter what happens try to remain friends.
386682
Then tell him exactly that.  Tell him that you really love him as a friend, but you appreciate him as a friend so much that you wouldn't want things to become screwed up between you.