In love with my best friend. What should I do??
463840
I was in love with my best friend. Then I married her. And I'm still in love with her. And she's still my best friend. *Flame spins in a circle, hands over heart* Is that a strong enough hint? Yes, Soccerstar is right... tell her.
1057777
It's so hard I know..I have been in love w/someone for about 4 years..my best friend...want her so bad...but it's not happening...so you choose your pain..be friends and love from afar...or just get away from the whole situation & move in different circles.
602357
this is very difficult coz u hurt someone dear to you-your bestfriend. i don't think you'd choose this guy over your bestfriend.get away w/ that feeling before it gets worse.there are a lot of guys out there who are not committed.why not entertain them instead of entertaining your feelings for your bestfriend's guy.
136716
Pros & Cons:  List the good things about being with him and the negative things.  Which list is longer?  If the bad list is longer, then you've answered your own question: you need to move on.  If the good list is longer, you guys need to have a long, serious, open & honest convo soon.  See where he is and why its not you he loves.  You deserve to be loved honey.  Maybe youre not meant to be with him.  I know its easier said than done, but you need to take a step back from this situation and take a deeper look.  Imagine if your best friend were in this same situation:  What advice would you give her?
473310
I think that deep down that you truly love each other and want to be with each other.. just give it a shot.. your best friends already.. so go for it!
83643
You're asking a really complex question.  \n\nYes, you should love your best friend.  You should love her like a sister.\n\nIf you're feeling something more like romantic love, then you're going to have to face up the fact that you might be a little gay or at least bi.  There is nothing wrong with that, plenty of happy and well adjusted people have the gay (me included!).  You'll have to make a decision at some point about it; you can remain friends and still in love with her or you can tell her about your feelings.  Each path has it's pro's and cons, and that is a choice only you can make.  But don't rush yourself, if you think you're bi curious, then take some time to think about that and reconcile that with your current identity before jumping into anything.
80105
Do what feels comfortable for you and then gauge his feelings also and go on from there... To answer the first question YES you can really like EVEN love a Good friend.. I married my best friend 19 years ago, and we are still married and best friends.. There are never any right or wrong feelings that you feel, it is only the way you or others may act upon them... Best to you and good luck
380107
You have to decide for yourself, can you see yourself with this person for the rest of your life and are you sure that you arent jumping into the first thing that seems like a relationship without getting to know the person. sex shouldnt be an issue until you have become best friends with him. take it slowly that way you won't get hurt
151532
when you love your best friend, you can assume it's a true love, because you really know him. You know his best and you know his worst, yet you still love... if it continues to relationship, it will be a smooth journey.\nHowever, if he doesn't love you back as much as you love him, that's when you have to try hard to keep the friendship as good as now, and this is the hard part.
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
826500
Snagg him up before someone else does!! after i got married (to my best friend) two years later i met another guy that is now my best friend and if my husband and i ever parted, i would choose my new best friend as my new life long mate. It helps that you guys are already best friends, that's a good stable foundation. Good luck, and make sure to tell him how you feel. Even if you don't say, show it.
614903
how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
553707
Girl...If you and your best friend are like "paper and glue" close, I think you should think it over. Think "Would she/he do that to me?" Make sure you know whats good for you. A Girlfriend/Boyfriend come and go, best friends are for LIFE! (If you have the right one)
796149
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
53587
Best friends are tricky...  You don't want to risk losing the relationship you have, but will never stop asking "What if?" unless you go forward.  If you feel, being honest to yourself, that you have those feelings towards him...  go for it.  There is a chance that it won't work, but there is ALWAYS that chance in any new relationship.  On the other hand, there's a chance that you may have the most incredibly romantic relationship of your life and regret not doing something earlier.  It is so worth the risk.
662849
There are a lot of factors you have to consider.  Where do you see your relationship with him another year down the road?  Can you go with him?  The other question to be answered before you can make your decision is "Do you love him romantically, or more like loving him because he's become one of your best friends and are way close?"  Good luck, but you have to search your heart and soul.
1078887
Let him know how you feel.... He may not realize you have those kind of feelings for him.  But you need to realize that if you start to actually date him, you may lose him as your best friend if you break up.  Will that be worth it?