I know this guy and he's my neighbor. I want him to like me, but truth is, he digs my best friend.?
474191
invite him over and start getting closer and have him do you
1152229
I think you need to ask him about it and tell him how you feel but dont scare him off. Say something like i am beggining to kinda like you...But if you are not into me then i would love to still be friends. But tell him that no matter what happens i want to still be your friend.
976317
just talk to him and spend time with him more than youre friend and try to flirt with him so then he'll pick you
1119004
he's being straightforward to you and has been respectful to you. I think you should do the same, if he just wanted to be your friend, you should let it be.
412036
OK SWEETY,\nIT SOUNDS LIKE TO ME THAT YOU OBVIOUSLY DONT LIKE THIS GUY.LOL. BUT YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HIS FEELINGS BELIEVE ME I HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT. THE BEST THING I CAN HONESTLY TELL YOU IF HE IS YOUR FRIEND TELL HIM STRAIGHT FORWARD BUT KINDLY YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I SEE AS YOU THAT. DONT LET HIM FIND OUT FOR HIMSELF CUZ HE MIGHT THINK YOUR PLAYING HARD TO GET AND THEN U MIGHT JUST END UP HURTING HIM FORM NOT TELLING HIM. GOD BLESS ADN I WILL PRAY IT WORKS OUT.
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
181142
Always remain a good friend...and always retain an air of mystery...who knows, he may have feelings for you and if you keep being a good friend, when he finds that "that something special" he is looking for is not where he's looking, one day he'll look at you and finally find it in you.  Don't push, don't rush it and don't say or do something you will regret because things are not going the way that you'd like them to. Good things come to those who wait.  Hang in there.
1170970
First of all stop worrying about what will or won't ruin your friendship.  The fact is that your friendship is going to change one way or the other simply because he has feelings for you.  So if you have any thoughts at all about being more than friends with him you need to consider taking a chance and pursuing it.  If not, sit him down and make it clear that he is endangering your friendship by hitting on you and that you need him to stop before things get out of control.
206552
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
666090
Two things that may happen. Either your bestfriend will accept it and ask you if you want to move the friendship to another level. Or he will be surprise and will start avoiding you especially if he likes someone else. It will surely be a tough decision and you are the only one who can make it.
674168
Ok, the one thing - for me - was that he found what my interests and did whatever he could to find interest in them as well.  You have to have a connection - just like with your guy friends.  I know it sounds weird, but the person you wind up with should be your "best friend".  You should love everything about them, and see that they feel the same about you.  \n\nNow, my guy did what he could to make me happy - and I did the same in return - give and take!  Also, honesty and great communication helps as well!
460251
Don't do it. Those are exactly the kind of mind games that make life so rediculous sometimes. Why, if you truely liked him, or cared for him, would you want to make him jealous? If you had his best interest in mind, you wouldn't be plotting against him! Get over it and find someone who is interested in you, don't waste time with people who don't want you in their life.
398934
i think he likes you, talk to him as a friend first.
919559
It sounds like you have a crush on each other and neither one of you knows how to handle it. Be careful. The best way to forget him is to go on with your life. Find a new love interest but it will still take time. But best friends do sometimes make the best lovers and long lasting relationships. He might be picking on you because your friends and he doesn't know how to let you know he just might want more. If it doesn't work out you risk loosing the friendship.
450315
OK don't stop being his freind because that will make him like you more, ok. talk to him face to face. say you need to stop doing this. or i will tell your GRIL friend. i had to do that one time. it worked for me\n\n\n*giggles*
324512
do what u want to do but if u go for it check up on his personality first i mean i like this guy brogan but my best friend thinks he is rude so just do what u want