What does it mean when a girl keeps annoying you or tries to get under your skin and how do you stop it?
468288
You stop it by being so incredibly NICE to her that she freaks out and goes away.\nObnoxious people do not understand it when someone is extremely nice to them. You blow their brain circuits when you respond to their annoying behaivior by being the nicest person in the world to them and they are so confused they go away.\n\nI got rid of a horrible little brat on here who would insult me every time I asked a question by giving her the ten points for best answer. Never heard from her again. I am sure she cannot figure it out.
458586
oh thats easy.on ur part, everything she does irritates u, u begin to think shes no longer pretty, she gets on ur nerves and finally u start giving excuses just to avoid her company.4 her, she starts avoiding u and even her friends no longer like u and shes always bored in ur company
821333
Have you ever had a wood splinter or a metal shaving get under your skin?  If you have, then you know it's very annoying and you want to get rid of it.  Sorry hon, but you're getting on her nerves.
548159
yea man.  i can help you out.  pretend you dont care.  if you want a girl just pretend you dont like her, and she'll come crawling back.  never failed.  girls dont you dare get pissed at me either.  you know its true!
955944
I have a girl tells me she hates me (because I am freshman and short (only 5'1)) I just ignore her and it seems to look, because once I say okay or give her a I don't care look she has a frown on her faces because she can't make me feel as bad as she feels. People just mess with you to bring up their self-esteem, so just ignore her or when she tells you say whatever or that is your opinion.
746829
You smother her or your to needy.. back off a little and give her the to much attention she wants. She loves it when she teases you and wants it more.... if you back off a little and try not showing you want her so bad she will mature up and get off her cloud of playing games of teasing. She loves the attention and it makes her feel good of being 'IT'. If you act a little less interested then she will come to you... just be a good boy and not stray on her by checking out other gals. She is on a role of testing your love of how far your willing to go cuz she wants you to.
513589
if she asks u anything jus ignore her & make her jealous by doing something. After few days she will rush to u\n\n\n                                                 i hope my \n                                                advice works!\n\n\nif not sorry  :-/
848698
she probably heard something wierd about you and its wierding or freaking her out. invent some urgent thing and get her together with you and hash out this problem. b/c its obvious u like her
260135
IGNORE him or her. The only reason he/she keeps doing it is because it gets you upset. This gives the person a sense of control over you. If you ignore him/her then they loose that control.
150599
yes this could be so,or it could be that she wants notthing to do with you too,that's why she is avoiding you.
696162
be straight forward, honest, and tell her straight away, yet round about as well\n\nlook, i think your nice and have a nice (insert vocabulary, or sense of humor, or something of the like) but (insert annoying part) is annoying as hell, and i would appreciate it if you would cut it out/stop it
194949
She's doing this because she gets a bit of excitement by trying to deceive you. Like children do to their parents. This sounds like a battle of wills to me. You want her to behave one way, and she's responding by lying, digging her heels in. She's trying to tell you that she doesn't feel in control of her life, and this is a way she feels that she can do what she wants. When you hide the webcam or threaten to take her 'toy' away, she spits her dummy, because she wants a reason to have a go at you for trying to 'control' her, 'making' her bored by travelling alot. You're just applying practical solutions to your problem (very male!). She is probably lost in a dreamworld while she's chatting to these guys, a world where she is a different person. She can portray herself as anyone she wants to. She probably needs some confidence-boosting but it all boils down to a lack of communication. She doesn't feel she can talk to you about her needs, or perhaps she's tried and she doesn't feel you took her seriously. This situation will only get worse if you don't try to spend some quality time getting to know what her needs are.
389932
exactly\nthis girl used to be my friend well she want really my friend just my friend's friend but we all hung out together but i never liked her and i just tolerated her because of my friend\nshe would try to be cool and say all that..but it just annoyed and she was such a bitch..i even asked her why she spoke like that and she just stared at me and said why are you such a nerd..and that is so stupid..she was new and trying to fit in..but she left my friend \nshe had just used her to make other friends\neven though my firend had beene her first friend when she was new\nso whenever i hear people talk like that it just annoys me and the only reason they speak like that is to try to be cool
336520
lol the girl needs to get over it i mean u did nothing to diserve this so she can just back off sides sounds like to me that shes really stuck up
467465
why are you afraid to tell her that you dont like her behavior? I was in your situation when I was in collage and this girl was always chasing me! she wanted to be where I was because i was with my handsome and popular friends all the time (what could i do if they were my classmates!) anyway, one day I was just not in the mood to deal with her and I said: you know what, you have very good qualities but IT BOTHERS ME that you are with me because you want to hang out with my friends. Soooo.... stop being so obvious and let me have fun with them!  so, she got my point. she never spoke to me again (and my friends were happy for that too). it was sad because after all she was a good girl but A REAL PAIN IN THE BUTT!
660721
nothing... dont keep bothering her it will make u look bad.
123636
She knows she will get a reaction from you when she makes fun of you.  If you react in a different way it will either soon bore her or she will not like the reaction she receives.  So you could ignore her or you could give her a dose of her own medicine and put her down.  As a last resort for someone who absolutely will not stop this type of behavior, warn them that the next time they put you down you will do something about it, and you must follow through. It is more important for your well being and peace of mind to take this extreme action.  Unfortuanetly in life there are some people who are just real jerks and this is the only way you can deal with them.