Why is it that when a group of friends become closer to each other, they take advantage of it and will fight?
469110
because that is when they really get to know is other is after they are closer and viola the facts are they really don't like each other.
602503
Friendships is sort of like going fishing...strange but hear me out. When you first throw in your line, Either You can't get one to bite and/or if you do it's probably to small and  you need throw it back in and try again anyway. When the big one bites(meaning the friendship worth wild)it gives you the biggest fight of them all(what your going through now) it's either they pull to hard and break the line or the pull gets to strong for you and you let the pole go or cut the line yourself...What I'm trying to say to you is "The importance of your friendship is based on the size of your fish and whether it's even worth reeling in"
194338
It happens because you never expect your friends to go against you. We take it for granted that they will agree on everything we say and forget that they r an individual to free to express and do what they want to. We need to give everyone their personal space. This also happens due to lack of trust. \nIf you have a friend with whom this break has already happenned then the best thing is to try talk it out, tell him what expected, what he wanted and you will work it out for sure. If it does not then forget it, atleast you tried.
404506
its when two or more people cute themselves a little and out their cuts to eachother so their blood goes into eachother. the signigicance is that you get "closer" to that person because you now have some of their blood in you which rele isnt that much but w&#92;e. and if you arent the same blood type your body would just kill the foreign cells...but i guess its more of and emothional and symbolic thing than ahything else
1096427
Cuz they are jealous of your physical beauty, your career standing, anything. They go on making you think they are your friend, but when it counts the most, they aren't there for you.\n\nI had 3 good friends from high school and right around the end of college they started getting weird on me. I had landed a successful job in PR and sales, while they were floundering in fast food or retail jobs. People kick you when you up and are your best friends when you are down.
1142277
Some people get insecure or fearful around others who are not like they are. They attack the one who is different, to help them feel better about themselves and their decisions (which actually probably means they are not secure in their own decision or choice).
867429
Nice question, perhaps if more people realized that making enemies is the opposite of seeking friends, our world would be less confrontational.
402337
I have tried to figure this out myself my whole life. I truly believe there are people that will use anyone, friend or not, for selfish reasons, they just don't honor a friendship like most people. They are users. And, they won't change. If a person like what your talking about is sitting with others talking down someone, you can be sure you are the topic of conversation when you leave.,and these "friends" think nothing about doing it. Sometimes I really think these people  don't ever acknowledge to themselves what two faced really is.
354189
no u should have a enemy to because they say keep your freinds closest to u. and your friends most of the time are worse than your enemy's because they know everything about u.
662971
Usually jealousy is the root to the problem. Another possible reason is that someone might be tired of a friend and don't know how to tell that person. Some girls hang together too much. And back to jealousy which is a nasty booga, many hurtful emotions can stem from this-hate, envy, covetous...Girls can get jealous of someone and spread rumors about that person. Jealousy can stem from a girl not feeling any self worth so she goes to tear down someone else's self esteem.
954388
Makes some people feel Superior to put others down. It is usually a result of low self esteem.
581026
well it has many effects, especially because they are your friends. Peer pressure has a lot to do with the teens and adults drinking right now, because they offer and the teen or adult don't say no because they "want to be cool like their friends." and then they get used to it and then they become alcohol addicts.
156668
You may not like the answer, but its probably becaus eyou let them control you, and these people tend to attract each other, I kno wbecause the same thing happens to me!
399222
Let your two friends deal with it themselves. When a friend gets in the middle of two other friends, bad things usually happen, the least of which that one or more of the friends are friends no longer.\n\nJust stay out of it.
314831
Friends sometimes can be the best in a relationship because they understand you more than anyone.  Just keep it real with each other and don't try to change just because you are in a different type of relationship with each other.
1083210
To answer your question: It's because we all want our way.\n\nI think we like to argue because we sometimes think it will get us our way with others.
938779
Sure, it happens often.  Most people just don't accept others completely right away.  Some others are trying to hide something from me, for whatever reason.  I have enough real friends to avoid others that might diminish me.  Boundaries can be healthy.\n\nHate whatever you want, but hate is a waste of energy.\n\nFriendly is one thing, friendship exists on many different levels, and some people have their own methods of allowing friends in, and others have borders in place for self-protection.  True friendship can only be proven over time, and through shared experiences or tribulations.\n\nI have no answer for that.\n\nSome people want pets, but I would recommend something other than a peeve, you have to feed peeves emotions.