do me and my current boyfriend have a chance of a long term relationship?
465008
I don't know you, and you haven't given me any details to go on. Do you love each other? Everything has a chance if there is love.\n\nHere read this:\n\nPeople come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.\nWhen you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.\n\nWhen someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. \nThey are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes\nthey walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.\n\nSome people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season .\n\nLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
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You do not mention how old the both or you are, or how intimate your relationship is.  ( living together, etc).  However, it sounds like he is most certainly not mature enough to have a serious relationship, for if he was, he would know he is not "the first", and so would you.  Accepting that people came before the two of you, and not being intimidated or insecure about it, is a healthy sign of maturity towards a relationship.  You both should be able to converse about each other's past romances and in many cases should be able to remain friendly with those same people.  \nFrankly, should I be in your position I would carefully and honestly review your current relationship to see if it allows both of you to grow as people and as a couple.  If it does not, then it would be time to move on.  This really applies to both of you.  For your current boyfriend to be so insecure, given no baggage in his history, then there is something that you both as a couple are lacking in the relationship.\nThis is not about whose wrong or right, but rather about whether or not the two of you are really ready to be in a one-on-one serious relationship.  \nOne area that needs your attention... Do not threaten to break up, or leave.  After awhile, these words become empty and only serve to increase insecurity.  If you want to leave, just do it.  You owe no explantion to anyone unless you feel it necessary.
450890
First off, you need to go with your heart. What ever is meant to be will happen. If you have ANY doubts what so ever about your current boyfriend, DO NOT GET MARRIED! You will regret it sooner or later. And if you are in love with your ex and can see it working...go for it sweetie, don't lose him again!
259392
You can think of him, but do you still love him badly? Because you shouldn't as you're already in another relationship. It's not right not being loyal to your present bf. If you really want to find him, and you succeed, just be friends. Thrust me, things will get uglier if you go overboard.
995830
Anything can happen. A long term relationship true to a real love relationship. It's very common because you both know each other more and have more feeling to each other.\n\nBut firstly you have to tell your feeling to the guy and ask his feeling. Then you can find out that he has the same feeling on you also. If he don't have the feeling, then the relationship is just a one-way channel, then it is not a true love.\n\nJoyce
150258
He gets a conditional green card first and can change it to a permanent one in two years if he is still with you. But I just wanted to say, that you shouldn't let this thought eat you up inside. Doubts like this can ruin a good relationship. I know it sounds corny, but you should know in your heart whether he loves you or not. Best of luck to you and hope it turns out to be a happily ever after story for the two of you.
1152571
Yes it can work out long term.As long as you two keep doing whatever it was that made you fall in love. my first relationship lasted for 4 years.I didn't know what true love wasuntil It was over.Just keep the love strong and let it be known that everyday isn't going to be a sunny day.Sometimes it rains and sometimes it snows.But you have to remember all the day,the good and the bad.
28688
Your relationship has the potential to do well. If communication, trust, and all those other factors (such as passion, commitment, etc.) have perservered through your time in high school, then maybe you will succeed in your relationship as long as those items remain constant and in good status.\n\nYour relationship, however long or not, may cause a bit of a hinder in your future though. In college, many people that may be to your liking would appear and therefore test whether you or him are strong enough to hold on to each other.
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If you love that person, then, yes. I believe that it will take a conscious effort on both of your parts. \n\nI am in a long distance relationship right now, and have been for almost two years. It works out great for us, because we both realize that we have to work at it. I'm not saying it is easy. I think about him everyday, and miss him like nobody's business. But, if you both decide that it is what you want, then, yes, it can be accomplished.
519671
If you are legal age (you didn't mention your age) then dating him is no big deal if you are both interested in one another.  If there is a huge age difference between you both you might keep in mind that your relationship with him might not be long term, as you might not have much in common.  However, as long as you are of legal age then go for it - who's to stop you.
1143942
You sound pretty mixed up, which is not a good sign for your current relationship, but you should know that all couples quarrel over silly things.  Only you can decide if your current relationship is heading anywhere - and the only way to find out if the other guy still holds strong feelings for you is to ask him - but make sure you are clear in you head first about whether you are really interested in him as its sounds like you may have hurt his feelings once already!
60222
Does he love you? Are you compatible? Do you have some of the same interests? Do you agree on how to spend and save money? Is he kind to you? If you answered yes to these questions then you'll probably have a great live together.
1170748
It is up to you . . . but in my opinion . . . you and him are both too young to be in a relationship.  You are the only girl he ever knew . . . and when he goes to college . . . he will see what the possibility could be for his future.\n\nThis relationship . . . if it gets committed . . . will eventually lead to break-up and heartache because one will eventually cheat . . . I am sorry to be blunt . . . but I guarantee it will happen . . . it will be him that cheats or you . . . because you both will be separated from each other . . . .
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I don't think that you can expect to "keep" your relationship in the exact same state that it is in now. Your relationship wil undergo changes being that you and your boyfriend will not be seeing each other as much. You will also be meeting tons of new people and experiencing things in life that you never have before.\nThe key to keeping your relationship healthy is communication. The more you share your feeling with your bf the better things will be between you. This way everyone is on the same page.\nRemember that you have your whole life ahead of you and that you may discover while you are away from your boyfriend that perhaps your relationship isn't what you though it was or maybe that all your needs aren't being met. So remember to keep an open heart and mind... this along with constant open communication between you two should give you the best chance if it is meant to be.
680366
Definatly give him a chance.  You've known him for two years and you know you can trust him.  All romantic relationships start off as friends adn then move to the next level with time and even if it doesn't work out you two can still be friends and know you shared two levels of friendship.  Good luck to you two!
330356
I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
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It will be tough, but it all depends on the length of time apart and how long you have been together and how strong of a relationship you have had during that together time.\n\nIf you have a strong relationship full of trust then you will be able to last some time but if you have had a shaky relationship then doubts may follow and out of site out of mind soon follows. \n\nSo if you completely love and trust each other, GREAT.  If not one should make every attempt to move towards the other if possible.\n\nGood luck,