I'm a little scared..is this normal to feel this way?
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Of course.  Fear is our way of making sure we plan and cover all areas of a problem.  It keeps us safe.  I say just enjoy your new found freedom.  Express yourself, and maybe keep a written diary of what you are feeling, and how you handle it.  This will help you control the fear.  Don't let fear win though.  Remember it's just a tool to make sure we have covered all the bases.  Use it, don't let it use you.  Good luck and have fun.  Living alone will be well worth this small amount of discomfort.   P.S.  Pepto Bismol works wonders to settle the stomach.  If you get rid of the physical aspect, the mental ones don't seem so bad.
242356
You are opening up to a higher plane, my dear.  You have nothing to fear and are on the right track.  DO not let anyone deter you from your new path.  All will be revealed and you will feel wonderful.\n\nBlessed Be.
1102029
I was scared too, but there is really nothing 2 fear, it's like before you perform on stage, you get butterflies in your tummy, but after you're out there all the fear is gone! Go for it!
1138795
i think is absolutely normal that you feel that way and you have every reason to. it also looks to me that you may need someone to talk to. so i'll give my msn so you can add me and talk when ever you need to\nlosanteojosdegaba2006@hotmail.com\nluck! ;)
895318
you will know when it happens.. its a horrible feeling.. trust me i know.. if your having doubts then something is not right..
143190
You should feel good about yourself! There's nothing wrong with the way you are.\n\nGood luck!
103713
Its really made me feel good..that someone there is worried like me..n believe me dear they r more of us..but worryin is not the solution...we need to work this out..instead of layin thousand hands wen something bad happen like earhtquake..etc..we shuld lay our hand in workin out this problem..but how..i am not aware..if u know please consider me with u...best of luck..n if get to know something..i'll definately update my answer......
1085476
I think your feelings are totally normal. You should wait until you feel is right. If you still have some doubts or fears hanging around don't do anything. If you want to make your first time special, wait until it feels right.\n\nI also strongly recommend to you talking about those fears with your boyfriend. Talking about those will help both to understand where you are at.\n\nWhatever you do, please do it with the full awareness.You do not want to remember your first experience with sadness or doubts.
768754
All these are intertwined, Its good that you have discussed to someone but more importantly , like most people have mentioned here; you need to seek professional help and also disclose this feeling to your near and dear one provided you trust them as many a times it can make matters worse. It is not unusual to feel down in dumps, depressed and anxious at times, most people do some of the times, but suicidal feeling are rare and indication that things have gone far enough. I would suggest you to seek professional help asap and make your feelings and thoughts aware to your near and dear ones, your colleagues or neighbours but go and see your GP today
197021
Theres nothing to be scared about. Its sounds frightening and even disgusting, but its a natural thing that we women all have to endure! What it feels like? Ummm...not so easy to explain, as its different for different women. I won't lie and say thats its a great thing, but its more of an annoyance than anything else. Good luck! Just remember, its a good thing to have aperiod...in its most basic sense, it means that you can have children, which is a wonderful thing.....also, it means that you are normal!
337888
I never used to have any fears when i was young.  As im getting older i seem to have loads.  I tend to be too overcautious with life nowadays!  It seems mad but crossing a bridge and looking over the wall to see the ducks in the rivers water is more of now a nail-biting experience.  The only thing i can suggest is a slow step, by step to conquer the fears.  It hasn't yet worked for me, the river that is by that bridge i dread, brings alot of insecurities for me.  A friend died near their from hypertherma and think its a case for me digging up the griefing part of things..  You never know but there could be a reason behind the lift you dread to take to fifth floor.  Theres a lot of emotional tree branches that our brain tend to keep a lock onto...!  Release the locks with the keys you hold in your hand.
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Even if it feels weird talking to your dad about it, i think you should give it a shot. he is the one that can truly understand you - not some shrink that you hardly even know. he will know what you're going through and he`ll give you the support that you need.\n\ni hope you feel better.
607351
I have been having fear of that lately also. Im 25 and i have 2 kids, Im in perfect health, but I have alot of anxiety and I know its all in my head. Im making myself "worried sick." Try to think positive, okay. Its hard for me to do that as well, but I try. best of luck to you. Im not sure if its normal, i think that people to go thru fears of different things though. Maybe youre just going thru alot right now. Dont let your mind get to carried away with things that most likely wont happen. 'Cause then you begin to play tricks on yourself and began to feel physically ill. Best of luck and hope I helped.
597564
Don't be afraid of your feelings - they aren't wrong. The difference can be how you react to them. You shouldn't have to pretend to be more upset than you. When I lost my dad, my siblings were all upset and a mess, but I felt like I knew it was coming although it was quick and sudden, and I loved my dad a whole lot. Hang in there, you'll feel better in time!
599882
Don't worry. Every one is scared the first time they get there period. It is a natural part of growing up. Talk with your mother. She can comfort you and make you feel better. Once you get used to your period it won't be a big deal.
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Don't be afraid, you can still live your life like any other day, of course your not crazy, everyone goes through a phase like that...it should pass, you just need to get your mind off of it, It is fine. Take care god bless and remember your not crazy :)\n\nSincerely\n\nCatherine
980547
At least you're on the right path. You are aware of the situation in hand. In my opinion, your on the path to healing. I think that you're probably finished with all the pain and ready to move on. No matter how scared you are, you should do what's in your best interest. You'll probably be better off without him. \nKeep in mind that you are number one!\nLove should never hurt.. If you feel like your ready to move on, but are scared, weigh your options. Compare it to how your feeling now... Talk to someone about it...A friend. Someone who will be there for you.\n\nGood luck