is it a bad thing that i made my boyfriend cry?
459359
no its not a bad thing to make him cry that means hes human and is not a hard core asshole. maybe it was that you were quiet and your usually not that shocked him or it was that you told him that he has you forever and always men are so hard to read i have been married for 9 years and i can honestly say he says that i am ignoring him but i not his thing is he thinks i am pissed off all the time and i'm not i have 3 kids so when they go to bed i am done talking. i think your ok and just be open and honest with him and you guys should be fine
542251
I admit it, I cried. Why? well it wasn't because it hurt, although it did. It also wasn't because it was so good, I didn't think it was that good. The fact that my relationship with the guy was not like future husband material did not make me shed a tear. I cried because I had promised myself (and secretly to my grandmother who passed away) that I was going to wait till marriage, and well it was just that important to me, but I caved in to the pressure. :(
974385
I guess its because he is your lover and probably he is unhappy when you are not happy. So if your sad and he looks at you or even say something to you then you'll lighten up because it hurts to see him sad. I  don't know if thats the case with you but  i'm talking from experience. Most times it is good that the one you love can cheer you up.
932667
i think you seriously need to tell your boyfriend how unhappy this is making you, and if he cares about you, he will listen and tell her to f**k right off
36998
He may cry but if it's the right thing for you to stay here then your just going to have to tell him.  Make sure he knows that it isn't that you don't love him it's just the right thing to do.  \n\nIt's going to hurt no matter what but life isn't about avoiding hurts it about facing them and getting through them.
560692
I dunno, some crying is cute... but excessive sobbing for no reason is ridiculous... Mind you it annoys me just as much on girls :P\nI dunno, if they're crying about something big... Yes... It shows that they're human, and if they do it in front of you that they trust you!\n\nJ
143586
You need to talk to this person and discuss the issues that are making you cry.  If you love each other it is possible things can be worked out.  If not then you will have to end this relationship because I can't imagine spending all your time crying when you should be happy instead.
473238
yes some men cry. i cried at my mothers funeral and the day she died. i also cried when my son was born. your bf is either depressed or thinks playing sensitive will get him points with you. how women react to a man cring is up to her. my gf at the time of my moms death was very compassionate and held me and listened to me about how i felt. my son is now 2 yrs old and my wife still talks about how sweet she thought it was to see me cring because i was so overwhelmed with happiness to hold my new born son. again though it is all up to the individual on how they react.
279278
My opinion would be is to try and talk to him and express to him how you feel. Maybe he doesnt even know you feel this way?\nTalk to him and tell him exactly how you feel and if he is not willing to fix the problem then its obvious your in a bad relationship but atleast try to approach the problem before breaking up with him.
811440
Honestly, I think it's pretty hard. I'm sure your significant other hurts because he doesn't want to see you sad. But it can be hard on those around you. Make sure he knows what you're going through. If he knows, maybe he'll be able to understand a little bit better when you don't want to do anything or are in a bad mood. And if he tells you he wants to help you, let him. Because not only will that make him feel better that he can help you, it'll prob also make you feel better.\n\nGood luck :)
1050244
your boyfriend was too rough
669297
Terribly, terribly guilty. Usually I apologize, and start crying. I don't yearn for attention, but if I am not getting attention because I hurt his feelings, I feel pretty dang bad.
458748
Yes, I do! I know how you feel,It is a hard position to be in,But go ahead and cry,it will help you feel a bit better anyway.Take Care Sweetie and  God Bless.Tell him he will listen,and you don't have to be upset,Because he already knows!
499534
Well I'm no expert but I think you may have a problem, and I don't mean to sound cruel but I mean a mental one. There are people who just feel it gives them some kind of relief from stress or anxiety or anger when they do harm to themselves. I hope you don't actually hurt yourself though. Next time you feel that way my suggestion is call your closest female friend and just spill it all out, and yes that means cry too if necessary. You will feel a lot better I promise!!! Good luck and Take care
386292
You have a perfectly valid reason for being upset. If he loves you he should respect your feelings. He basically lied to you. You can do better.
459040
Maybe he really loves you, and is afraid that he will upset you, so he takes his time coming up with the right words to explain how he is feeling. (I do that when I am in love) Maybe he even gets a little embarassed of his emotions sometimes, most of us are raised not to show what we are feeling.
895215
Hopefully the feeling is mutually (meaning your boyfriend loves you). If so, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. If your boyfriend is a mature individual he will not listen to outside sources. If he feels that something may be true than he should come directly to you...go directly to the source. Just remember people are petty. People will do anything and everything to get what they want...especially if they are involved with someone else...you always want what you can't have.