IS anyone out there still waiting for marriage before they have sex even though they are in their 30s?
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If you've waited until your 30's to have sex, then yes, I'd say to wait until marriage.\n\nI didn't lose my virginity until 31, and I have a few regrets.  I waited until I found a woman I loved and had the intention of marrying.  She had a few partners before she met me, and got scared at the level of commitment I was asking for.  That meant I lost my virginity to a woman who left me -- and then started sleeping with someone else not even a week later.\n\nEven though I've only been with one woman now, I want to wait until I get married.  I realize I can always have sex with anyone, but I want to wait until I can make love to someone.  I find I can't be incredibly passionate unless I know the person I'm with can truly appreciate the intensity of those emotions.
977928
Well, me personally, I'm saving myself till marriage... \n\nwish me luck finding a guy who will respect me for that...
693825
I was 16...and now days..if a 16 y/o lost her virginity that would be considered "waiting a while"..lol and I am only 23!\n\nIf I had it to do over again.I would have waited on my now husband (who I have been with since I was 17)He was a virgin and it would have been special to have waited.\n\nI guess that is depends on the girl,but most girls now won't wait...it makes me hope I never have children!!!But I dont think there is a certain "time" I think it is just either #1 when they get dam good and ready.. or #2.when peer pressure steps in!\n\nThank you sweety...\n\n\nvote 4 me
1071860
sex is sex...but i would wait till i was married
1111826
sex should be with someone that you love and respect. and they should love and respect you.\nshould wait for marriage.\nthere could health problems when a women reaches 35yr. there are more health risks for the baby and the mom.\nI wish I waited to be married before having sex. I thought I was "missing out" on sex too. started seeing all my classmates around town and they were married and on their second kids.\nthought I was missing out, so I wanted to know what "it" was like too. but then got pregnant and the baby on my own. not fun after the fact.\nhaving sex is a HUGE RESPONSIBILITY AND YOU LEAVE YOURSELF VULNERABLE TO THE OTHER PERSON.\nso PLEASE WAIT FOR MARRIAGE AND IT WILL BE WELL WORTH THE WAIT BELIEVE ME PLEASE WAIT.\n\ndont be in such a rush to "fit in" or "know what it is like" just to know. take your time and know what kind of person has the qualitites you want in the other person and that you take of yourself financially and emotionally on your own.\n\ngood luck and WAIT FOR MARRIAGE: YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DO.!!!!
549491
yes i am still a virgin. and i'm intending to stay this way until marriage ^_^
531636
I'm 29 and 11 months...\nand a virgin...\n\nshocking huh?\n\nWaiting for marriage haven't found the guy yet.
565859
It depends on who the person is and if they are ready to settle down, I am 35 and I am ready to settle when I was younger no way not ready, but now I feel I am ready for that long term commitment. my reason for waiting so long i didnt want to marry and than 1yr end up in divorce, when i marry I want it to last.like the vows dill death do us part...
199870
its not 2 late im in my forties as well and very good on the eyes but as i get older i seem to want to be with someone who wants to live their life as the days go on.  i have been married 2x as well and i think that was 2x 2 many so i am just looking for someone to be with with no committment envolved.  i think that if i get that that would make me happy.  im not saying that when i find that person, that i wont be faithful, i will be that 4 sure.  but the thought of marriage again just turns my stomach.  i am getting older and i want to experience life with someone who wants to have fun and do things that we didnt do when we were younger.  so dont worry he is out there 4 u trust me.  he might b me haha holla back if you would like to know more.
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I disagree with enterity.  I am waiting for marriage to have sex with my fiancee.  Although we have had sex before(with other ppl)we want 2 wait to make things right!  It has only brought us closer!  Yes, it is hard at times!  We feel its strengthen our relationship not only within us, but with God as well!
415726
not at all.but thats what you belive in, some people belive in no sex til marriage, others dont.\n I would have died, or killed my toy if I had to wait til I got married to my hubby now...almost 2 yrs later? whoa! lol
175210
i think that it depends on how old u r if u r like 16 hold off for marriage because sex is supposed to be special but if u r like 22 and think that u really love him and u r going to marry him i would still wait
404719
Hopefully no one over 18. I feel sorry for those people. Sex is worth experiencing before marriage.
722508
I had sex for the first time when I was 17 and had multiple partners throughout the years.  I am now married and I regret not sharing this special intimate moment with him first.  I admire couples who had waited til marriage.  But when you're young, you don't always think of those things.
1175353
Unfortunately we have, as a society, divorced sex from marriage and even from relationship.  Because it is so freely availible in so many forms, some men balk at the idea that it is anything more than a biological function.\n\nDon't despair, there are still men out there who understand the two are related.  My husband was 36 when we got married.  We waited.  I met him at church, so we had the same values.\n\nI didn't think I would ever meet an eligible bachelor in church.  I went there for years without a single one being there.  But God and the Marine Corps sent him here.\n\nThere is no higher compliment a man can pay you than to consider you worth the wait.
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I waited until I was married (when I was 27) - and wow was it worth it!\n\nBut unfortunately (in my opinion) too many people are engaging in sexual activity at a younger age - I'd be surprised (by hey I am old) if it was lower than 14.\n\nThis has been linked to the rise of sexual transmitted diseases, abortions and loss of fertility (due to chlamydia).  I also believe (from friends who work in counselling) that it has a knock-on effect on people's self-esteem.  But I'm sure people will rubbish me.\n\nThe real question isn't "is this the norm" but "what is the best".
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lol . . . . I know I am not a lady . . . but you got to be kidding.\n\nIt is not strange that people wait until marriage to have sex . . . but it is extremely rare . . . and it is has past it time.\n\nSex is does not get better if you wait . . . usually it improves with experience.  Also people who has never experiement with their sex drive . . . usually have problem with fidelity with their partner because they have a low sex drive . . . and their partner has a higher sex drive.\n\nWhy do you have bring religion into . . . with religion protesting a fictional movie . . . killed the belief in god . . . fiction can only destroy fiction.  Since the movie was fictional . . . then god is fictional because they are afraid that it would hurt it.\n\nNow Pride . . . If you could maintain you virginity . . . you can either be proud of it . . . or disappointed.  It is an accomplishment, especially if you have people vying for your attention.  If no one desires you . . . then you would have no problem of maintaining and it is no accomplishment.\n\nAs for your Mr. Right . . . yeah right . . . .  Listen sweetheart. . . we are not perfect . . . we make mistakes . . . we have faults.  And let me tell you something Princess . . . you are not perfect either . . . and right now . . . you are basically annoying right now.\n\nLook . . . sex is a part life . . . whether it is actual sex or sexual attraction.  People decide who they want to get know by attractions . . . (not necessarily but looks, but attraction).  Without attraction, guys would not care about a girl and visa-versa.\n\nBut let me tell you something about men . . . we love sex.  And let me promise you . . . if you like him and you are not giving it to him . . . believe me . . . he will get it from somewhere else.