I have a friend who's a girl, ( im gay), and i'm attatched to her emotionally? why?
468710
It's easy to make emotional connections with people you're close to, regardless of your usual sexual preferences.  If I were you, I'd enjoy the happiness that being with her brings, and try not to worry about it.
1002649
She feels something for you but she isn't exactly sure what she's feeling. You should talk to her about it to let her know she is safe around you. I also think that she doesn't want to lose your friendship. Sometimes being with someone who is your friend makes things a little awkward, and she doesn't exactly want to do that yet. Keep on being friends for now and see where that takes you.
581798
You should just be honest with her and tell her how you really feel about her feelings for you.If she is really your friend,then she will back away.If she doesn't,then drop her for someone who really cares about your feelings,not just theirs.Also,No you are NOT prejudice. Be Blessed!  Monica
258657
Just act like your gay or think of her as one of the guys(and don't try any funny business).  Just enjoy her company and point of view like (i assume) she enjoys yours.  I love having male friends it keeps me well rounded.
118605
Maybe her best friend is afraid that you will steal her friend from her and is feeling a bit jealous of your relationship.  You need to reasure her so how about  "I know you are a good friend to X(the name of the girl you like) and I hope you will condsider me as your friend too".  Incidentally do you have a friend  who might be interested in your girl's friend so she doesn't feel left out in the cold!?
200213
We all have these feelings about friends of the same sex as we go through life and whether we act on them or not is different to each individual.If she is willing for you to touch her and talk about these things then it is fine,the only thing is that she is probably keeping it from her boyfriend and that is betrayal.
1095466
If she only calls you every now and then, you might try to understand what a BOY TOY is. Unfortunately there are people in the world that can not be honest. If you have spent a lot of time with this person and they won't be honest about their feelings. Your waiting for a crash course in having your feelings hurt......\nShe may not feel the same way. You can only respect her for that. If she isn't WOMAN enough to communicate her feelings to you, you might want to consider reevaluating why you are spending time with this person.\nYour emotions are to valuable to have someone take advantage of them.\nDon't you want to be friends with someone you can trust to be honest with you and not waste your TIME?
1099942
i may not no u in person but i know u must be a great [person with feelings! Her friendship  meant aslot to u and thast is what lead  u to crying! She doesn't deserve u the older u'll get the more peopole u'll meat and the better they willl appriciate u .
628136
Figure which is more important, the friendship you have or the special feeling you feel about her. If friendship, you best keep it inside you(although it's really hard) It might be better for you to find out whether you're really straight or not.
204962
I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel. YOu want to go out w/ the guy but u want to stay loyal to your friend. I think you should confront your friend and tell her how you feel about him.. ask her if she would mind if you asked him out or something...if she gets mad..is that really a good friend? i mean of course your a "bit" jelous of her and she is most likely a "bit" jelous of you...well she certainly will be after you tell her your feelings..but thats ok..like i said, is she really a friend if she gets mad that you like him, and want to go out with him? we all get feelings about people and we cant control them..thats part of growing up..part of life..everyone goes thru it..just try to get past...live your life at your most!! hope i helped!! best of luck to you! =D! <3
523256
yes u do have an advantage as shes been ur friend 4 so long. as u defnitely  know her  try 2 judge the way she wants things to be\n it is true many girls don't accept it when their bstfrnds fall for them, but if u give them time they will probably realise the way they feel.give them the time to think and don't rush into it. also respect their feelings and try to look at it from their point of view. \n but do start showing her Slowly that u care 4 hr more than a friend. she might get shocked if u suddenly say that.remember 2 gv hr time.\ni hope u gt hr. May God bless you
602117
Well you should support her as much as you can and talk to her about this,ask her if she wants to feel like this and if she says yes then she might have large feelings for this girl if not then she is just going through a stage wanting things like that or maybe she really thinks this girl is cool!
1137026
I think maybe you're bi, because maybe you like girls, but you have these feelings for your friend but no other guy.  Maybe not.  Maybe it's all just a big infatuation.  Who really knows?  But it sounds like you are either gay or bi.  Of course, you seem to be very close to your friend so maybe you've grown from friendship to being with him so often and sharing so much that you wanted more.
1100104
sounds like your really gay , but you like being friends with girls , and there's nothing wrong with that!
1119343
She takes you as a really good friend. So my advice to you dont let your heart in too much... it could hurt and you cant blame her for it as you know she is lesbian. Dont blunder the friendship!
445701
reconsile hun. be up front with her, tell her how u really feel! dont be afraid to talk to her for the how you want ur friendship to be and how important it is to you. ask her if it's something she wants also. dont let it go, b/c if it goes unsaid and unexpressed, trust me, the friendship will fade and you'll end up standing beside urself wondering wtf happened.
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.