How to keep away from politically manipulative people at work?
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See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.
859976
Type up all the dirt you have on her and leave it on her desk... don't put a name on it .... just a little add on note at the bottom saying if she doesn't stop spreading rumors this will be sent to management .... \nMay just make her stop all her "tattling" everyone will be better off\nGood Luck :)\nPersonally I'd confront her asking what the problem is ... then if needs be go to management with the same questions .\nThen theres always "Dial-a-Goon" to take care of those pesky office co-workers ...lol
729048
Oh yeah, every place I have ever worked.\nRemember they are over compensating for their weaknesses.\nThey think if they act like they superior, everyone will think they are.\nBest way to defeat someone like that, is to show them you can do a better job that they can. Bursts their bubble every time.\nGood Luck.
564036
Set the mf up.  Make up something outrageous and when your boss asks you about it just laugh it off.  Keep doing that and he/she will either stop or get fired.
412547
It's everywhere. There's almost no avoiding it. Just refuse to engage in that type of conversation and stick to your job. Don't become a recluse by any means, just avoid joining in their gossip. Listen if you have to but avoid commenting. Also hold your tongue when you feel like telling them they're all a bunch of adolescent idiots.
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You're only spell can be changing your attitude. If your employer is egotistical, then buy into it. Tell him ow wonderful he is (not directly), but with statement like, "What a great idea!" or "You're so smart", or "I wish I'd thought of that". If he wants things done his way - even if it's wrong - do it his way, but show him what you think is the right way, too, as though it is his idea. Everyone loves an employee who makes him/her look good. Unfortunately there are a lot of bosses who let their positions go to their head and usually they will self destruct over time on their own. The only thing you can do is laugh internally at his idiocy and become the best you can be. I've learned a lot more from bosses I couldn't stand than the ones that I loved. Good luck!
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There are so many of us who eventually have to face this situation. You can not change other people or control how they act BUT you have all the power in the world to control how YOU act. Be professional and cordial because this will only work towards your benefit. This is your job. Don't let anyone ruin that for you. It may be difficult but you'll be a lot less irritated if you keep a reasonable distance and maintain short , professional interactions. And exhale afterwards and let it go. Don't hang on to the irritation after you're gone home. Leave the bad feelings behind. It will make going to work so much easier.
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Re-evaluate your job and what you were hired to do.  Just do your work, do it well, stay out of office politics.  Stop chatting so much, because whatever your talking about, it's controversial and provoking others to snitch.  A competent boss may one day decide to rid the office of the both of you, just to serve as an example to others to "just do what you were hired to do and save the cattyness for your off duty hours".
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When dealing with an envious co-worker, I kill them with kindness, and I'm not talking about lip service. You must be genuine when doing this for it to work. Obviously they have massive insecurities, and perceive you as some kind of threat. I would also suggest keeping ones personal, and professional life mum. In essence, do not give anyone a reason to hold you in contempt. The old saying is true, "keep your friends close, your enemies closer".
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Stand up to them and refuse to be bossed over. Most of the times these bossy goons get scared as soon as you confront them.\nThe worst scenerio is that you may loose the job and u r contemplating that anyway. So if you hae to go out , go with a bang and not with a whimper.\nIt might help to do a bit of lobbying beforehand to make sure you have support from your colleagues.\n\nAs Votaire said, "Of course u can kill a flock of sheep by chanting incantations, but there won't be any doubt if you feed a bit of poison beforehand."
457855
Be competent at what you do.  Do not engage in office politics.  Trying to make yourself look better usually makes you look like a brown-noser.  Just do your job to the best of your ability.
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Dealing with difficult employees
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I have alot of experience with this and I have learned one important thing....there are one of these people at every single job/workplace.  If you are not his supervisor, do nothing.  It seems the boss likes him so your best bet is to go to work, do your thing, keep to yourself, then go home.
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I know this is a long response, but I think it will be well worth investing your time and going through these links I have created for you:\n\nSounds to me like there could be a few things going on here.\nYou may be TOO helpful to your peers. If you are helping them succeed, too much, you could be helping them pass right by you. Save the best stuff for yourself and use that as an ace up your sleeve for problem solving and handling situations that arise in your department.\n\nOk, there are several tricks to know and things to learn about people and office politics that you have to have in your career arsenal to get ahead. Why? Because everyone else is trying to get ahead just the same way you are.\n\nSuccesful business people use these tools in there everyday life.\n\nHow to Win Friends & Influence People: \nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People\n\nHow to make people like you in 90 seconds or less:\nhttp://www.amazon.com/gp/product/076111940X/002-2504591-7619261?v=glance&n=283155\n\nhttp://bottomlinesecrets.com/blpnet/article.html?article_id=27109\n\nhttp://www.teachfirst.org.uk/events/learning_to_lead/how_to_make_friends\n\nSurviving Office Politics / Getting ahead in the office:\n\nhttp://wlb.monster.com/articles/officepolitics/\n\nhttp://www.managementhelp.org/intrpsnl/off_pltc.htm\n\nhttp://www.jobcircle.com/career/coach/jf_2003_04.html\n\nhttp://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp?articleId=281474976737487\n\nhttp://www.lifescript.com/channels/healthy_living/life_tips/the_politics_of_the_office.asp\n\nhttp://careerplanning.about.com/od/workplacesurvival/a/politics.htm\n\nhttp://www.careerknowhow.com/advancement/office-politics.htm\n\nhttp://www.womensmedia.com/new/Reardon-office-politics.shtml\n\nSome people are blessed with the ability to quickly make friends and terrific impressions, and move up the company ladder quickly. For the rest of us, this information will help point you in the direction to achieve the success and happiness you desire.\n\nBest wishes,\n\nBlewz4u
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I dealt with the same situation a few years ago.\n\nWhen you deal with your co-workers, keep your relationships friendly but professional. When you leave your cubical/office for a stretch of time, lock your files and set your computer on password only. Do not contribute to the gossip mill, but keep your ears open at all times. Document EVERYTHING! This is where e-mail comes in handy. I had a verbal conversation with someone about a project in which this person agreed to help complete. I followed up with an e-mail describing our conversation and asking if they agreed to take over the part of the project that we discussed. They agreed. Three months later, this co-worker dropped the ball and conveniently pointed the finger at me. Guess who had the e-mails to cover her @ss? This co-worker was looking for a way to make me look bad. I covered myself because I knew that it would come back to bite me.\n\nSo, do these things and you should be fine. However, if you constantly have to look over your shoulder you might want to find a better environment to spend your 9 to 5.
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Jealousy of another's superior skills or abilities engeders negative actions such as spreading false rumors about that person.  Another is a common mistake, arguing with co-workers about politics or religion. A former friend can turn on you once he or she discovers you do not agree with their beliefs.  Aggressive ambition also contributes to cutthroat practices such as sabotaging another's work, blaming another for your mistakes or taking credit for someone else's ideas. My best advice is to never tell anyone at work more than the barest of personal information, be pleasant, don't complain or join in ranking fellow workers. Also be a good listener and most of all, keep your mouth shut about your best work ideas until you present them to the proper supervisor and leave your strong opinions on non-work related issues at home. If you must vent or preach, write a letter to the editor or find a chat room online.
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DO NOT elect the ones that play dirty\n\nmaybe after a few elections they will learn