My step-dad raped me (untill i was 3 then i left home), and my lil sisters for yrs.....?
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well what you did was not easy  i too have done it but it want just your life that is suffering the life everyone thought they had is now turned up side down and the easiest way out is to blame you. I am so sorry this happen to you  but good for you that you  are not the victim anymore and your family will come around in time but the words we say be it what you say to them or what they say to you will remain as the biggest scar\nyou keep living your live with your head held high and dont think for a minute it was your fault. i would like to have contact information with you so i can discuss this farther i can really help .I will keep you in prayer and your family. i dont know if they will let me post it but it is JLSJSTEPHENS@YAHOO>COM
1138191
If it was you that has been raped please report it and get the help you need .its a very traumatic thing to have happened to you  and my heart goes out to you,\nPlease you dont want a web site ,You need proper help Please seek it,
219124
No way. Now if the family removes the sick step brother from the home, the child could safely go back. Make sure you report this to all authorities and keep you/or the child away from that step brother and press charges. He a rapist! I am so sorry.
1130629
i was sad and glad at the same time cause of the memory it brought back. we lived in 2 places, i bug my mom to cook me something for my 18th birthday, so she need to see me in the city and leave my dad with my 2 younger brothers in the farm. she arrive safe in the city carrying my request noodles and sweet rice.\n\nthat night, my dad and brothers encountered the worst nightmare of their lives. some thieves are stealing our cows, they spray bullets through the whole house and almost kill my dad, he was bleeding though and my brothers run like hell.  \n\nif i didn't bug my mom to cook me those special foods, she probably dead by now. she is still alive thank god and just gotten married for the second time on monday.
229637
I'm sorry about what happened to you and your family.  \nI can't understand why women put up with abuse, either.  I can only imagine that it's because those men have a power over the women's minds.
1076798
Try to stay with some close friend or relatives.  Even if you don't have anyone that lives around you - contact your family that lives out of state and tell them your situation and that you need to get out.  Most people are pretty understanding when it comes to physical abuse -especially of a family member.  Stay with a family member for a while until you can get on your feet.  \nIt will be hard for you to leave, but if he's abusing you - you need to get out.  You don't want your daughter growing up thinking that what he does is ok, and you certainly don't want him hitting her.  Get in touch with any family you can and get out of there asap.
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I'm so sorry to read about what happened to you.  I pray that you are okay. \n\nGiven that the rape is something that you no doubt will carry with you for the rest of your life, I'd say your uncle got off fairly easy.  \n\nFive years in jail sounds like a long time, and I guess it is.  But he did something that will affect you for the rest of your life.  Five years seems like small potatoes compared to that.
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if you are strong enough to relive the  worst moments of your life again,then i say you should sue for compensation.\nmoney wont change  what those evil  bastards put you through.....but if you can get something out of  the crap you have been through other than  anger and  bitterness,then why not. hope  it all goes  your way. u deserve it, your family deserve it.
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Well...It was pretty terrible to begin with but then it turned out wonderful.  I was abused (not going into details) as a very young child(my brothers were also).  Social Services took us away from our mother when I was 4.  I was in a foster home for 4 years where they were abusive as well.  I was then adopted out of there at 8 yrs old to the most wonderful parents any child could have hoped for.  My brothers were not as fortunate...they were not put into foster homes to be adopted out, they were put into group homes and never found a home. Now 2 of my brothers actually live with my birthmother in Oregon.  She actually had the nerve to ask me to move up there with her so she could have all of her babies together!  She should have thought about her babies when we were fu*#ing babies! u know what i mean?!?!?!?!?! So My childhood was pretty damn shitty until i was8.
1138140
My moms boyfriend Bill and his dad were working on the dryer in our house and ended up blowing out the entire electrical system so we had to move. Our old address was 4302 and then became 6302 once we moved into this 3 bedroom house. It was huge! Well, the rooms were anyway, which was good because my sis and i had to share a room. One night i was laying in bed and my sis on the other side and i asked her how she wanted me to decorate the room, if she wanted me to paint mickey mouse or the little mermaid on her side of the room. Now, above my head i had placed a fairly heavy picture of a kitty on my wall. As i was talking i looked up and saw it fall toward my face but right before it hit me, about 2 inches from my face,  it moved to the left suddenly and fell on the floor. I got up and looked at the thumb tack and realized the tack was not to blame, it looked fine and wasnt slanting  or broken in any way.\n\nLater, my mom was putting away some things in our front room closet. My mom is 5 feet 2 inches tall and the shelf was just tall enough that she had to stand on tip toes to reach it. I was standing about 1 foot from her, watching and talking to her. She put a flash light up there and a second later it flew from the shelf and came within centimeters of hitting her face then dropped to the floor, almost as if she had her own personal force field around her to protect her.\n\nMy mom had nick-nacks up on the fire place mantel and we woke up one morning to find just the ones that meant anything to her broken on the floor. \n\nI had a bird in this house. When i took her out to perch her on my shoulder she suddenly freaked out, flew around the front room for 5 minutes and wouldnt land back on me then suddenly dropped dead in midflight.\n\nMy mom had a dream of her walking out of her room to my brothers room and in the middle of the room was a girl that told her to leave the house immediatly and never come back.\n\nMy mom did some research on this house and found that an old man had died in the house, that it had several drive by shootings and police involved shootings, it had been the site of cultist sacrifices and had been a used to traffic drugs.\n\nWe didnt live here for very long. My mom got a bank loan at the tune of 10 grand and had the wiring fixed in our old house. This happened when i was 17 and i am now 26. Im glad we all survived this stupid house.
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Let's break down my life:\n\nMy wife had a wonderful childhood and has very supportive parents, she is very gay. My sister and I were both molested and raped by our father, I am gay - she isn't. Sorry to be blunt, but by just three people it becomes quickly obvious that childhood abuse has nothing to do with it.
1147905
I feel sorry for you. I hope you have a good job and provide for yourself with your own money, because that is what the court will look at. Would you have a place to stay for the next couple of years? If I were you, and this is very important for you to consider. You could call Children Services and talk to someone there. They will want to know all the info that you have shared here and all the info that you have not shared here. You have to tell the truth. Most likely the police will get involved and your parents may go to jail, depending on what they find when they come to your house. Children Services will take you and any siblings out of the house and put you in foster care. You may like the home you go to and you might not. If it is as bad as you say, don't hesitate to call them. If you need more advice you need to go to your school counsellor and they will get things rolling for you. I wish you the best of luck.
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Had the same type of neighbor at your age and he isnt safe stay away from him let it be known to your parents how he looks at you and makes you feel when he speaks to you ignore and avoid him..my neighbor even went as far as calling one day when I was home alone and asking if he could just sleep with me once and he would never ask again when I told me mom she went over there with the cops and he was told to avoid all contact with me come to find out about it yrs later he raped and got his 13 yr old niece pregnant and made her tell people that a neighbor did it...Please hun make sure your parents know you never know what can happen during a brief moment you are home alone please be safe and careful...Good Luck and may God protect you.
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There's really nothing you, or your sister can do until your children turn 18.  I suggest you try to wait it out, and if all else fails, tell your sister how you feel.  Ask her to tell them where you are, so they know where to find you.  \n\nBe careful not to let them sneak out of the house they live in now though, to see you.  If you talk to them, urge them to ask their adoptive parents what they think.\n\nI'm very sorry this happend to you.  I couldn't possibly know what it was like to lose my children.  You're in my prayers.
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I reported a man who kids use to come to my place of work and tell me mommy and daddy make us do all kinds of sexual things,it was all done in secrect,but,they took the kids away and the grandparents have custody and he got 7 months in prison,she was ordered to stay away from the kids!sometimes,speak up to help these poor children,I do,it breaks my heart!The police interviewed the children and both parents where taken in,I still don't understand why she didn't get any time coz she also has aids and probably gave it to her 2 kids!so sad!I pray for them every night!Young children don't know how to make these things up and that was enough to get him arrested and have the children taken away!
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i was in your almost same situattion i was 17 (pregnant) he was 31. I lived in Nh i ran away to NYC. He got very possesive than that turned to abuse. Go back to your family, you dont knpw what you are putting them through. Atleast let them knoe that you are ok to let them know you are alive. I did see my mom for year & half & she wasnt mad please let them know you are ok. Do you know what its like to have the FBI contact your family saying they have a teenage girl that matches their daughters description. well thats what happened to my mom & i regret the hell i put her through. If i could only do it over. I now have a daughter & hope she never puts me through what i put my mom through.\nremember family is forever. please go back & if you need anyone to talk to email me.
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You need to tell your dad all of what you've written here and then your mom and her gf need to be investigated by child welfare.  You're a child and shouldn't have to take the responsibility of protecting your sisters -- that's your dad's job but he can't do what is right if he doesn't know what is going on.\n\nADDITIONAL THOUGHTS:\n\nWhy have criminal charges not been brought against those who perpetrated abuse against you?\n\nIf you have already reported this to the police and child welfare and your sister's deny that anything is happening, then there is very little you can do.  At some point your sisters may get fed up with the abuse and report it themselves.   All you can do is let them know that should they need you and Dad in the future, that you'll be there for them.  But no, I don't think you should stay home from college to protect them especially if they don't want your protection.