Help! I'm in love with my teacher....!?
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He is married.  There is a good chance he won't leave his wife for you so if you get involved with him you are setting yourself up not only for heartache but also for his wife to come after you with a shotgun.  What if you got pregnant?  He wouldn't be free to marry you!  I'd steer very clear of that one, hon.  Resist temptation.  Buy a Battery Operated Boyfriend if you must or work off your frustration on another guy friend.\n\nEven if he did leave her for you, you'd always wonder if he was screwing around on you with another girl - cause he did with you!!!!\n\nYou are nothing but a conquest to him.  Young and naive.  Don't fall for it as so many have!  \n\nIt is also against school policy I am sure. He could get fired and you could get expelled.
577514
That was unfair of your teacher but we are all human.  The problem may simply be that you are in a difficult grade right now.  Some grade levels tend to be more difficult than others, usually 5th and 7th for example.  Most teachers who play teacher's pet don't do that with grades, only privileges.  If you liked your previous teacher, maybe you tried harder. I'm sure if you do your best you will find that your grades will reflect that.
1055278
I thought I was in love when I was in the 8th grade.I don't remember her name or what she even looked like.You will be in love several more times before you graduate college.Don't push it,just enjoy the feeling while it lasts.
1078095
Wait for him after the class has left, have a question for him. be suggestively close to him, use your eyes, look at him intently. don't push it, do this a couple of times if he is interested, you will find out. you might suggest meeting him in his office. \nBut be careful my dear, know what you are getting yourself into, if he takes you to bed, he may take a lot of students to bed, but if you are interested in being one of many, then this may be the way to do it.
482250
For a start, applogise dearly to her and tell her this time your luv comes from your heart, no string attached..Its your destiny to be wit her..and that you now realise she was also meant to be wit you..
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teachers are hot.\n\n\nthe problem, though, lies with the fact that they would lose their job by dating students.  plus, it's usually illegal.  plus, the teacher is probably taking advantage of you.  plus, it'll never work out to be a long-term relationship, if that's what you're looking for.\n\nprobably not worth the risk and anxiety....
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People who are good at teaching usually care a great deal about it.  I'm betting that the two things that would bring her the most pleasure are:\n1) to know you are going to be the same kind of teacher she is; and \n2) to know you'll remember her as someone who formed you to the teacher you're becoming.\n\nSo the question is, how do you pack that in gift wrap?  Some ideas:\n--have something made that she can keep on her desk or in her office, to remind her that you think she's great.  A silver star engraved with a personal thankyou.  A desk nameplate engraved with her favorite saying (my favorite teacher's saying was "look for the entertainment value!" which got me through a lot of tough times.) Maybe get a good photo of her and have an artist turn it into a pastel or drawing of her, and sign it with an affectionate thank-you.\n--Write her a letter, (on paper, in handwriting!) to thank her.  Give at least two concrete examples of what makes her an outstanding teacher and how that helped you or formed your values or your skills.\n--Find a way to honor her publicly.  Write a letter to the Dean of Faculty or to the local newspaper, describing what she does and what value it has to their community and to the world--a generation of better teachers is a fantastic gift to the world.  Have a party for a few of her students, present and past, who feel as you do, to honor her.\n\nTeachers live for the priceless moments when they are reminded that despite the grind of the daily work, they really are changing the world.  You can give her one of those moments.  Lucky you!
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I think my favorite teacher was my ninth grade English teacher, Mr. Felix (yes, that was his last name).\n\nThe very first day of class, we hit it off, because as he was speaking he asked the class an off hand question:  "Who said, 'let them eat cake'?"\n\nThe class sat there silent for a few seconds.  I raised my hand and gestured for me to speak.\n\nWhen I told him the answer, he asked what I name was, and he said.  Good answer.  I'll be watching you.\n\nHe then went on to tell the class about his "non-negotiable zero" policy:  If you had an assignment due on a certain date, and it was not on his desk at the start of class, you got a zero - and it was non-negotiable.  The only excuse for missing the deadline was a death in your family -- YOURS!\n\nI loved it when all the prissy girls (I won't mention what we called them back then) would whine and try to charm Mr. Felix into granting an extension.  He never did.  I respected him a lot for that, because I wasn't one of the people who whine for a grade, and I resented it when girls (well, mostly girls) got away with that.\n\nHis policy got me once though.  He gave an assignment, and it was due a week later.  I procrastinated all week until the day before the due date.  Then I got quite sick.  I blew off the assignment, and missed class the day it was due.\n\nThe next day, when I came in, he asked me if I was feeling better.  Then he asked me where my assignment was.  When I told him I didn't have it, he said "you understand I'm going to give you a zero."\n\nI told him that I understood.\n\nIn giving me a zero, he taught me that I had all week to do the assignment, and an illness on the 6th day was really no excuse.\n\nI went back to my old school a few years later and paid him a visit.  We talked for a few minutes, and I never saw him again.  \n\nHe's certainly retired by now.
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Perfectly normal, he is male and you are a female of an age where attractions will sneak up on you. \n\nI had a crush on my french teacher at the same age. I met him five years after I left school and he had shrunk. He still had the dreamy accent though.
989546
well, from the sound of it, this is your first time falling in love with somebody.i suggest you spend more time with your pals - hang out, or do stuffs that will take your mind off of her.play some basketball, go to the bowling alley, you know, stuffs.you can't live without her, but you can't live without your grades too.whatever you do,remember that falling in love is not wrong,but failing in exams because of it is not worth it.trust me.i hope things will work out for you man
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It appears you have been very professional in dealing with this - good on you!  Do you belong to a professional organization of teachers?  They should be able to provide more support.\n\nInterpersonal relationship advice.....why does she have any power over your students?  You've done very well in modelling appropriate behaviour - good on you!  Is there another teacher who could give your students peer partners?  That would give another opportunity for appropriate modelling.  Ask her students about their motivation:  What do they get from being mean to the girls?  Until you understand the underlying fears of the people involved, you won't be able to determine their motivation.  Sometimes we just have to work with jerks - realize her limitations and work around them.
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I don`t wanna break UR bubbles, but I think you should try to get some girl of your own age, because relationships teacher - student never work out. I know it`s hard to look at her knowing that you`re not gonna get her, but try to occupate URself with some other things and take care.Good luck.
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wrok hard (if the teacher likes you)
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something you can do is make him notice you by sayin something smart in class, since he is intelligent, you might catch his eye and focuz on you a bit more. Ask him for something, a pen a paper, or some help in an assignement, even if you already know the answer. Also start a conversation about the class, and then introduce yourself and he will do likewise, just have a bit of courage, but let him do the work, just give him a little quick start on that, if he don't pick it up, sweetie he's not interested or he's playing hard to get, but i'm pretty sure that he will be interested in you. good luck, if you need more help, just e-mail me east_side_outlaw2003@yahoo.com
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First and formost I could only tell you whats right and you should follow your heart and not what's in your pants. And besides that think of you leaving person A for person B, then you fall for person B and she gets back with Person C. You will be the one that will be losing out on having Person A or B. Anyway just remember you'll have to continue seeing Person A, B, and C in class again anyway.
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Just take a risk and tell him. It's all you can do in this, you sound like your in love and I won't doubt it if you are. I've been there and once you do what you have to do it's great to get it out there and 90% of the time he feels the same. Best of Luck!!
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hiya, (ino what ya goin through haha im feelin da luv!!)\n i wouldnt colour a picture or write a poem tis a tiny bit geeky?? try and get his mobile numba or giv him urs then wen its over text its much easier!! or just rite him a note sayin that u like him and write ur numba on it and ask him 2 text/fone u, and ask for his numba, uve got nufink to loose u only gonna be there for nine days so wots the worst that could happen?? its better to know that yov've tryed cos other wise wen u move its gonna b doin ur head in with the what if's... and if u think he wont like you cos other girls are thinner and pretteir then he werent worth worryin over in the 1st place, remember sweetie no bloke its worth ur tears... and when you find the one that does he will neva make u cry xxxxx