sometimes when i talking to someone i think about hitting them??
463318
I work in telecommunications as a telephone operator. I am not normally a violent person but sometimes I would like to just reach through the phone and choke someone! (Instead of Touch someone) Are people generally stupid?
282849
don keep thinking u want to forget that person , its hurt u more , do smtg instead of trying so hard to forget ....
55670
Punch them before they know what happens! Then tell them when they stand up that you thought they were someone else!
150728
yes I have and many people have done it to me. It's cool to "accidentally touch them cause you are dying to "really" touch them. I use to do it all the time with someone I love and he did it with me too cause we were too afraid to fess up that we were crazy about each other.
907639
Its easy to feel that way ..when in fact, sometimes people are staring at you because they think you are attractive, or even look like someone they know..and they start staring at you and don't even realize they're doing it...If you were sure they were singling you out..if it is at all possible, without prejudging them...you could ask them point blank, if there is something you can do for them..now if they are just some stooge looking for a fight..then just walk the other way and dont oblidge them..unless you have good reason to think that someone is out to get you...you should try not to let your imagination run away with you...Maybe you are very nice looking and just dont know it
424856
That's not right if she hits you. Let her know that you love her and you don't understand why she would want to hurt you. If you can't talk to her about it, you definitely need some outside help. Counselor, or maybe even a friends mother; maybe she could intervene. you don't deserve to be hit, no one does.
854278
Ha ha... I smack my guy friend's head if he deserves it... He says some pretty stupid or mean things, and he requires a good smacking for it. He says that I'll give him brain damage one of these days... I'm called abusive and mean too... Oh well... :-)
229869
That's exactly what happens to me with a close friend of mine.. \nso i've been thinking about it hard lately .. esp after i tried every way with her.. i talked to her about it many times .. i got mad at her.. i forgave her a thousand times.. so the last thing i decided was to tell her for the last time the way i hate it when she does things that hurt my feelings and told her that now she knows what bothers me and that im not gona talk to her or call her until she thinks deeply about it and realizes that i really get hurt and make sure she wont do it again and is ready to change the way she treats me in order for the past not to repeat itself
410720
me because i like to punish people...
1022616
Being intelligent has nothing to do with your feelings.  You are a person just like they are.  They verbally abuse you and you have to defend yourself.  Most likely you may be too nice and caring, so they take advantage of that.  In fact, it sounds more like they are jealous that you are smarter than them. If you let them continue this, you will develop a low self esteem and then think then allow others to do the same.  Start speaking up for yourself. If they say something to hurt your feelings tell them exactly what it is that they said to hurt your feelings and to stop. Also, you can't change them, but you can protect yourself by limiting the amount of time you spend with them.  Make some new friends who respect you as a person; believe me there are some out there.  And don't forget to spend some quality time with yourself. A good way to start is to start chatting with some positive people and then move to meeting some.  If you keep going in the direction you are, you'll be the one continuing to hurt, and they will be just fine.  Remember to love yourself and do things for yourself.  There is no one in this world worth taking a physical or verbal abuse from.  I hope this help, but remember you have to make a change for the better and for YOURSELF.  LOVE YOURSELF. TAKE CARE.
550801
Usually, when you yell at someone, it is for something that they did which irks you in some way. Funny, that you are just as guilty of the offense as those you are yelling at. Because of this, the memory of it triggers in your brain and you have a crossover effect. But as anyone else you have a "not me" response and therefore it lingers as a feeling in lieu of a realization. "What is good for the goose, should also be good for the gander!" Try to refrain from casting stones if you can not be better.......and that is not just in your mind but rather in reality.
689512
sit them down and be honest make sure you are alone and use a sincere tone just look them in the eyes and tell them you cant help hurting them because everything has its own consequences. The more you think or plan something the worse consequence would happen. look out for yourself but just be soft and considerate to that persons reactions and then make any further moves.
329059
People do have a way of hurint those they love most!  Its not just you we have all done it!  it could be that u r terrified of being hurt and you figure u will hurt them before they hurt u.  You may not even be aware that u r doing this but its could be self protection that u r doing.  You could be doing this self conciously and not even know!!!!  Have u been hurt by someone u were close too in the past?????  This could be the reason u r protecting yourself.  Good luck to u!  Remember- the person who hurt u in the past is not the people in your life now so they deserve to be treated with kindness and not be hurt!!!  Just remind yourself of that daily if it helps you!!!
954801
It sounds to me that you really hurt this persons feelings even if you meant to or not!  Don't let your pride ruin your friendship!  Physically violence is not the answer if you dont want to see this person face to face you can just mail a letter of apology.
1019022
Well done for realising you have a problem, that is the first step in the right direction, and so is asking for help too. I think you should see your doctor who can help you or reffer you to someone else who is trained in dealing with such conditions. You need to think positively, relax, and deep breathe when you think you may hurt someone. Walk away from any situation you fear may lead  you want to hurt someone. Remind your self it is not acceptable to hurt someone and that you are a nice person. Take more control in what you do by being a positive you. Has anything ever happened to you in the past to make you want to hurt someone else?? You need to ask yourself why do I want to hurt that person? Then realise what you are thinking and control it. I know it may sound easy, but it will not be. The more you do not give in the easier it will become over time, but you do need to see your doctor to get advice. Hope all will turn out well.
753684
heck yeah.. especially when im thinking about the fabulous Johnny Depp or my best friend [male friend] im a baddd girl !!\n"WINK WINK !!!"   [my mind always has to stand in the corner a lot !!!]
147829
Probably because you are NOT an evil or violent person and do not want to inflict harm even tho someone is harming you.  I have felt the same way sometimes where I have been hurt very badly but would not hurt in return.  THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE A COWARD so if anyone says that in response to this question ignore it.  You just operate on a higher plane than the person you are dealing with.