I am dating a man for 3 years. But he still sends birhtday, holiday emails to his x girlfriend. Do I dump him?
469555
It sounds like he still loves his ex and obviously can't take the hint that she wants nothing to do with her. I would say you need to ignore him awhile then try to talk to him again about the ex, if he gets mad then straight out tell him that he either stops with the cards and flowers to the ex or you will be gone, why stay with someone when their heart is with someone else!
851369
Stay out of his e-mails. He's with YOU, isn't he?Get over it.
1170371
Well, she did give you a heads up that she would be busy this weekend. I'm sure this is question requiring a sensible answer from a female. But what i would think is wait till after the weekend and maybe just one more day. If no reply, two possibilities, a)She's REALLY busy b)Something's wrong between you two. Face things as they come and dont get paranoid. And ease up on the emails and texts.
1146391
I believe this "boyfriend" is a looser and you should dump him.  He sounds quite selfish and immature.
40327
NOT a good idea...if you are wanting to check his email...then there has been some doubts about something...your instincts about whatever it is may be right,although if you really want to find out just ask him...cause after you look at his emails, how are you going to ask him about what you found???....then comes there becomes a trust issue w/you and your boyfriend...you might want to keep your eye on him
576385
Sounds like he is having a really hard time letting go. It probably wasn't a good idea to get back into the dating scene as fast as he did. If he's kept all of her old letters, pictures, and gifts, then he really needs to take the time and figure out what he wants to do. It's very likely that he still has feelings for her especially since they were engaged. Have a talk with him and tell him how you feel about the situation. Then, tell him how you feel. Good luck to you!
860262
Wow, I'm sorry but...what? I don't understand hardly a thing that you wrote. Please fix your writing next time. Anyhow, from what I can tell? Dump him. There is to much drama in this relationship for what's it worth. You deserve a guy who respects you and you deserve the best. We all do. Good luck and God bless.
786458
It's okay to miss our friends but at some point we have to let go.  Unless that is you are the first one to bend the time continuum with a time machine, then you can go back in time as many times as you wish.  Since that's not happening any time soon, move on.\n\nI would say that the white lie you told doesn't compare with the lie he is living by being with you while 'hanging' out with his ex, while being on a dating site.  The way I see it is if he commits to being in a relationship (with you) he should be the one trying to earn your trust.  \n\nIt is because he doesn't have your trust (just like supposedly now you don't have his trust) that you have to go snoop around his e-mails.  Instead he is making you feel like you are the bad guy and he is the victim.  I hope you understand what I'm trying to say.\n\nI would say it's not worth it.. like i already told you... move on.\n\nGood luck.
378771
It's possible. Don't call or email him anymore. If or when he calls or emails play dumb at first, (ex. Him: "Hey this is Jason" You: "Jason?......Oh, yeah," blah blah blah) That will maybe make him think you aren't as clingy as you may have first let on. It is also possible he just hasn't got around to calling you, or maybe he's not the type to check his email everyday, or your email got sent to his junk mail and he never got it. Either way, if he can't call you back then you don't need him anyways! =)
301291
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
1138670
He is not cheating on you, but it seems like you need to get your act together and understand that he's not with you just for the papers. You are very special to him, and he is just confiding on an old girlfriend with whom he is just friends with.
255086
Just be patient.  It is possible he will realize she is being irrational one of these days, and then he will need his family.  Send him birthday and Christmas cards, so that he knows you want to keep in touch, and try not to take it too personally.  It seems clear the woman is irrational, but he may have very reasonably decided that it is more important to him to keep peace with her.  When a man gets two sides each saying the other is lying, he may decide not on the basis of truth, but on the basis of need.\n\nGood luck and God bless!
797565
If I were single and I received that email form a girl I was not interested in I would ignore her to avoid an uncomfortable situation. The sad truth is he is not interested. Sorry to break your heart.
562967
Fuggedaboudit.  Would you like your husband to keep in touch with his exes?...
957217
Some guys do and they are complete jerks. Mature women understand when a man cannot afford a lavish gift for the holidays. I graduate on 12/10, Christmas is 12/25, my birthday is 1/26 and Valentine's Day is 2/14.  Thats a lot of freaking gifts in a short period! I have already explained to my boyfriend that I do not expect gifts for all those days and that him just being there is enough.
1071590
A lot of guys... not all, but a lot of them seem to act immaturely until they are at least 24 when they realize that they can't get by with it. With the e-mail thing I think he was testing you to see if you would send her anything. He may want to make you jealous who knows with guy because he seems a little off the walll with oh I have a girlfriend and then treatens you. Not a good thing just watch your back, he may not be a friend any more.
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.