can me and my best friend be in love?
473310
I think that deep down that you truly love each other and want to be with each other.. just give it a shot.. your best friends already.. so go for it!
158672
Sure, it can happen. Love can start from almost anything. Sometimes it can even start from friendhip, a la "When Harry Met Sally." Sometimes the love comes first and the lust comes second.
447710
I love my best friend as well. We agreed if something goes wrong that we would not let hard feeling get the best of our friendship. You can find a boyfriend easy but to find a friend is hard. So keep it real ,and nothing bad will come of it.
441940
i think you should take the risk...i started going out with one of my good friends, and we ended up falling in love.  since you guys started out as good friends, i think no matter what happens you'll always be close.  who knows, maybe he'll be your true love
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
943431
YES, it is possible! I have been married for three years now and I am totally in love and, at the same time, completely infatuated.
409201
I am most definitely in love!  My bf is not only my boyfriend, he's also my best friend!!!!  I talk to him about everything.  I talk to him more than I talk to my best friend!!!!
605227
If this person is your best friend, then chances are he already knows, and maybe feels a little of the same. it's natural between the sexes.\nDo you want to tell him because you need to nkow if he feels the same? What do you do if he doesn't, and if he does feel something, where do you go from there?? Downhill usually.\nIf there was a strong enough chemistry and bond between you to sustain a lasting relationship, then you both would have had it from the beginning, and gone way past "best friend" status.\nGood luck
417266
If you both love each other and place the same value on the relationship, than nothing will come in the way of it. In hard times you find strength in each other and in happy times you rejoice in the loving relationship that you have created together. Who would you marry if not the love of your life? You want the person to be your best friend....the one that you love to live life with!
206569
I was in love with my best friend and I told him. He didn't feel the same way as I did but that didn't hurt our relationship either, it actually brung us closer and our bond grew because of it. It's a huge risk to tell her but if you really feel strong enough, I say go for it. Who knows, your best friend could always become the best girlfriend you ever had and if nothing else at least she will understand how much you care about her.
475199
to be honest with you my best friend is a girl..... we live in one apt.... and we do most of the things that you do.... we even walk naked infront of each other but the thing is that everything is very clear with our relationship..... we love each other to death but we know that we cant be more than just friends.... however.. yours can be the same understanding as mine.... at times we tend to forget why we can be so comfortable with friends.... and that there is nothing more.... no malice..... in this instance .... your feeling towards her is that you want more to be friends.... however you are not certain if she does feel the same way however her actions doesnt speak for it... what you have to consider is that .... are you willing to take the risk of loosing a friend should it happen that its only a one way street???? hence.... if your feelings are really strong you need to do it as gently and as fast as possible..... ask her for a casual date and ask her these questions.....\n\n1. what is your ideal guy.....? with this you can decern if it is close to being someone like you...\n2. have you found him??\n3. what makes him different? this will solidify your search....\n4. if all of it fits you then...\n\ntell her that you are ending this friendship ... i want more out of our friendship.. i want to take you out as my date not as my friend......\n\n5. if you seem that there is a different one tell her that you are happy for her.... but then again you just have to be honest... tell her everything......but before that... make a pact before you reveal you intimate feelings you will still be her best friend....
1036422
Enjoy your dreams but act normal around him and keep the dreams to yourself. Maybe someday he'll be having dreams about you too! Maybe he is now! If anything is to happen, let him make the first move. Until then, remain friends, in thought as in deed. As in, don't go getting yourself all worked up about him, or we'll see another one of those questions that starts "I'm in love with my best friend, what...". Please, girl, you know the answer to those! So just be cool.
1111260
only u can decide..... no one can help u...... go with person who understands u better...one who is more caring,loving,protective,respects u.....and it also depends whether ur best friend likes u that way or not......give it some time......dont rush into anything
1132896
well if she dont believe you then  give her a rose.\n but also think of it this way would if you and her took it to the next level, and it didnt work out. how would your friendship be then? would it be ruined? thats scary but i think i would rather be a best friend and love her as a best  friend then, how do you know maybe she is the  the right one and if she is then it  will happen, thats how love begins frindship first then, then it grows into more so know matter what it sounds to me like its on the right track!!!!!
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
522944
Its ok to fall in love with your best friend. I think it can possibly make the relationship stronger because it already has a foundation. I married my best friend....
19082
no, but first you should talk to your best friend about this.tell him/her that you really like his/her brother and if ever it didn't work out, tell your best friend that it should not affect your friendship.goodluck.:)