What should I do about my feelings?
470139
u should stop doing wht ur doing w/that new girll.. if u still wanna be with ur gf.. cuz its just not right!!imagine ur gf doing the same thing to u.. how would u feel??
464278
Pray for them.  Seriously.  Praying for them will help you deal with your feelings, and move to a better place.
404495
You are your own's best support. Even I was having that feeling earlier but then I find out what are my likes and I concentrate on that things. Whatever make me feel good I start doing that. Try to be positive towards life and enjoy whatever you Have. Something is not in your hand to change but you can create a way to be calm/happy in that bad time. Its all up to you to live happy or down. All the best
957691
maria -\nYou don't need to get over it as other people have said you need to. As long as you don't end up hurting yourself you can deal with this however you want. You don't always need to feel happy but you don't need to be sad all the time either. You don't even have to know what you are feeling, as long as you are ok with that. If you don't know what a feeling is and you want to then talk with someone and figure it out. People will listen to you, trust me. Just do what you need to do. If you feel like you need to get up and exercise then get up and exercise, but if you feel like all you can do is stay at home and watch movies that's fine too, as long as you don't let it get to an extent where it is taking over your life. Remember: people can't tell you what to feel, it's up to you to do that. Others can only help you tell yourself what to feel. It's going to be hard, and no one knows that better than you right now, but you can pull through if you want to do so. People are there for you, remember that.
444553
Be very kind to yourself.  Let yourself be sad about how things didn't work out, but after a reasonable amount of time, start to distract yourself from your sad feelings.  Be around friends that make you laugh, do nice things for yourself, take time getting to know yourself again and what you want out of life besides what you don't have, then start taking steps to make all of your dreams come true.  With time your heart will heal.
1160184
It's perfectly OKAY to feel like that. Do not become dependent on what others tell you is right and wrong but follow your inner instinct. It's your best guide and you'll always be content with a decision you make. It's you, not the people, that ultimately determine the level of happiness you can reach. Before letting anyone tell you your feelings are wrong, ask yourself if/how that matters to you and whether you need to change your process of sorting out what you think/feel because of that....again, its really you that should drive this process, not the others.
183222
time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
1007071
go talk to him, and tell him how you feel.
1161207
Yes, you have to let it out. Don't keep it in.\n\nWrite about it, and don't hold back. Go see a counsellor too, they are a big help.\n\nSounds like you are uncomfortable being yourself and you have trouble allowing yourself to feel the way you do. Let yourself be free and understand that you have the right to your feelings.\n\nBut don't keep it in, open up and let it pour. Tears will come with it, I'm not saying it's easy... but it's essential.
878555
first of all you need to stop comparing urself to other ppl....no two persons are alike,remember that, take some time out by yourself and seach ur heart...ask urself ,what has happened to you in the past which may influence you to feel this way,because sometimes things happens to us which affects our entire view of ourselves,and untill wefirst deal with those issues we will be forever trapped within ourself. take my advice....get out of your house...take a long walk..listen to some music...take it slow...u dont have to judge yourself by the characteristics of others..in doing so ,you are ignoring your very own unique characteristics.we are all beautiful sweetheart......never put yourself down ..,
364698
I think it is normal to feel this way from time to time. My best advice is to monitor your feelings. If you continue to feel sad and lonely for a long period of time, it probably is best to talk to someone then. Sometimes certain influences in life can cause you to feel like this even if at the time you don't think it isn't a problem ie. a crappy job or relationship woes. It is best to always be honest yourself and never to ignore negative emotions/feelings if they go on too long. Best wishes
401277
May sound a bit fem to do, but I am sure it will help you mentally if you write your emotions down on paper. Spill your heart and soul out, then put that paper(s) away for a while. Come back to that paper in a few days and read it, analyze it, and reassess your emotions at that point. If you keep doing that, you will start to see that those emotions will start to change and you will eventually start the healing process. :o) Chin up! :o)
143177
Oh, hon... I'm so sorry.  What should you do?  Well, obviously, its important to confront them (SO MUCH easier said than done, i know).  I think that maybe you need to spend some time with yourself.  Get to know yourself, love yourself again.  Its so easy to feel bad about yourself in these types of situations, but you shouldn't.  THEY are the ones who should feel bad about themselves.  Join a group, make some new friends.  Most of all, know that you will be, someday, treated the way that you deserve.
369036
A friend maybe just what she needs,if you feel you want to be nice and help ,by all means talk to her.\ndont be afraid of that ,just be normal and yourself,say you want to understand and be of help.\nthe best advice always is to point out the pleasures of being alive and the oppertunities still awaiting.\n bad feelings are not permanent ,
376055
Keep those feelings bottled up inside and you will explode.\n\nRelease the feelings and you may look an idiot and hurt people.\n\nSo either way you're screwed, so who do you hurt?\nYou?\nHer?\n\nWhat's the RIGHT thing to do?\nPersonally, I'd ask the Lord.\n\nIf he didn't answer, I'd take a day off work, drink myself into a frenzy, ring her up and see what happens.\n\nYou've got to make life interesting.
999294
You should stay the way you are. It isn't good for you to hold in what you are feeling. You are just fine.
136623
Please provide more information.  \n\nIn General,  Be yourself and use your brain more then your emotions.