I give myself an 8/10...why cant i get a girlfriend?
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its your attitude. are you stuck up or do you show off in front of other guys? girls hate that crap.
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Hi David, I don't think your weight is the problem. You sound like a really decent guy but I do think you have a self-confidence issue and by telling yourself that your weight 'problem' is stopping you getting girls, it could be that you attitude on yourself if stopping you getting them.  No one wants to go out with someone who they feel NEEDS to be constantly told they look ok (but I can tell you now-you look fine to me!)and overall, most girls I know (the ones who have the most successful relationships...) dont have hot sexy guys, they have average Joes who treat them like princesses!  If a girl didnt want to go out with you because of your weight then shes not worth it-the shallow cow!  What would make her think shes so perfect to be worthy of YOU?! :-) Another good hint is dont always go for the girls who look the best either, go for the ones you get on with, make you laugh, make you FEEL sexy!!!  I really hope you find her, you sound like a genuinely nice guy.
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Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
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BESIDES LONLINESS......DEPRESSION......ANXIETY.....PROBABLY, A TIRED ARM, BLISTERED HAND, AND I HEARD SOMETIMES EVEN BLINDNESS!!!!!HA HA HA.........NO DUDE KEEP STROKIN' IT, YOU'LL BE FINE, BUT MAYBE YOU SHOULD TRY DATING.
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A few things come to mind reading your dilemma.  If you're actively trying to get guys' attention and it's not happening, then yes, you're obviously doing something wrong.  That's good news!  You can change your own errors easily enough.  If you were doing everything right and it still wasn't working...well, then you've got a problem because you can't change other people.\n\nAppearance and hygiene are critical.  You want a guy of quality?  You better fix yourself up to get him.  Learn to be impeccable in all you do.  That's the easy, shallow part (but books ARE judged by their cover.  Part of life, deal with it).\n\nIs there something wrong with your personality?  Like someone else asked, "are you rude?"  Also, how's your sense of humor?  Your ambition?  These are all things that can drive decent people away from you.  Be optimistic and outgoing as much as you can be.\n\nFinally, just get your butt out there and enjoy yourself.  As a discriminating man, I can tell you that the girls I've really enjoyed in my life were always the ones who were simply fun to be around.  Hell, find guys that you are attracted to and flat out ask them what they look for in a girl.  You'll learn more in a 5 minute conversation than you will asking online.  Good luck, girl.
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you are insecure with who you are and validate it by hooking up.  or you don't like dating a lot...\n\nhave you tried being alone and figuring out what you like in yourself and others?  try it...
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Just be your sweet self, honey.  You're a great catch!  And you know, we're usually our worst critics, so you probably aren't half as bad-looking as you think you are!  Just be yourself, and if this girl can't see you for the great person you are, then she isn't worth your time!  Trust me, there are many girls out there who would love to date you!  Don't waste your time one someone who doesn't.  It's their loss, not yours!
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You need to find a way to build your confidence.  No offense, but you don't sound like you have much.  Having low self esteem in the dating world is like smearing cheese whiz all over yourself: rats will be chasing you.  Try to build a fun life for yourself that doesn't depend on having male company.  When men see that you're alone and having fun, and you're NOT needy, they'll want to spend more time with you.  Get a life, and men will want to share it with you.\n\nRemember:  being alone is WAY better than being stuck with a loser!
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nothing, from what youve said.  maybe you just havent met the right girl yet.
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I wish I could see a photo of you! Anyway, leave your bad moments and FOCUS ON GIRLS WHO REALLY CARE ABOUT YOU! Unfortunately, you haven't chosen the right girls! And I 'm really sorry about that. I don't say that it's only girls' fault. You may be a little bit responsible for that. DON'T BE TOO ''TEDDY BEAR'' NOR TOO ''DANGEROUS''! Be somewhere in the middle!
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Maybe you're TOO laidback that you actually miss the chance to get the girls. Snap out there and do it! Be confident! Being too laidback might give the impression that you aren't looking...
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you said it in a nutshell, they joke about it.  Did I hear you say you want to be their joke?  Because if you think getting laid raises a woman's self esteem, you must still be in 8th grade.  Grow up and become a professional classy man and you might attract an independent, classy, professional woman.
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I read your comments:\n\nI'm looking to date girls to get to know them and have fun, but I'm open to serious relationships, even to marriage.\n\nJulie, I have good manners, I'm good looking, I have good hygiene, and I'm a fun person but I have no success.\nWhat is that of trying too hard?\n\nI think that you need to display for self confidence and girls will notice you.
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The best thing is to ask! You may never find love if you never voice yours. Trust me from experience. I wondered why I didn't have a girlfriend, but then I voiced my love and now I do. So there you go, example given.
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Well, not sure what you want to know. First you should just work on getting a girl friend
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well not by posting your number and this question.\n\nIf u want a girlfriend, go to girl you like and well, just talk with them. women love to just talk. and if u keep te conversation going something might bloom up. dont lose confidence if the first on (or ten) doenst seem to want you as boyfriend. there are manny fish in the ocean!\n\nand i believe there are more "The true one" `s for everyone so.......
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I hate to lay some of the blame on you, but first ask yourself, are you being rude? Are you  being self-centered. If not, then, as much as this is probably the most annoying answer on the planet, you'll just have to wait. Keep trying to make friends with girls and eventually, you'll find the right one.