If someone hurts you, breaks your trust and heart, is it ok to want them to make it up to you?
469840
Just tell him you are very hurt, and leave him alone. If he wants to make it up to you, it must come from himself, not on your demand.
354954
I have the philosopy of don't trust anyone and it is usually true.  Just because they are related to you doesn't mean you should blindly trust them.  Trust is earned, not automatic.  You've learned the same thing lots of people have in that area sadly; never trust anyone to not pull something over on you.
244263
yes, because i could understand if she had trust issues because of past things. alot of ppl do. and if he really loved her then he should be able to forgive her. they just need to sit down and have a real conversation on this matter. she needs to explain why she has trust issuses and tell him it is not him. but things in the past. he doesnt forgive her hes not worth it. (vote me best answer plz)
210634
If you're going to break a fellow's heart, you might as well try to cushion the blow a little. Be kind and supportive, remember you may well be on the other side of a break up someday, and imagine how you might feel. A little kindness never hurt anyone. Having said that, make sure you're firm, don't leave any hope in his heart for a second chance. You don't want him pining.
32717
It depends on if it was to protect you, or to hurt you.  Friends shouldn't lie to each other, but people do make mistakes.  Mistakes can be forgiven.  Use your own judgement, and go with your gut feelings.  Good Luck.
230797
Yes for most people. Giving someone else a second chance also says a lot about yourself. Some things simply cannot be forgiven, but they tend to be things of a violent nature. Try to forgive and forget when posible.
543666
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
99947
Your love obviously isn't being returned.  This person is using you and you don't deserve that.  By letting them get away with misbehaving you are just telling them that what they are doing is ok.  You need to put an end to what ever this behaviour is even if it means ending the relationship.  If you give your love to someone then you deserve to have it returned properly and if they can't do that then you need to find someone who will.
996428
yes, I may, that depends of the situation. If He ask me, i want let him down even if If i don't have that kind of feeling for him. Sure I wouldn't keep him thinking. I will make sure I tell him my feelings about  the whole thing.
180678
Betrayal is one of the most tragic things that can happen to a person.  Betrayal from a friend is the worst kind.  I hosnestly don't know what I would do.  I would be heartbroken for sure.  would it make you feel better to just go kick his a**? Really, I am stumped on this one.  I can imagine the pain of betrayal, and would be at a loss as what to do.  So, I guess I'd just go to the person and tell them how much he has hurt me and tell them that I'd never get over it, how much I had trusted him, and then try to get on with my life.
45694
It depends on what kind of deception. If it's a lie or omission, I suppose I could understand if the explanation was good enough, depending of course on the severity of the action. If it's a betrayal of trust, well, I have not yet learned to get over something like that and I'm starting to think it's not possible.
658975
"Will they ever accept me like the once did?" - No, you have broken their trust and hurt their friend. He has feelings for you and may forgive you, however you will have broken his trust as well. While you may be able to have a relationship with him, it will never be "like it was".
292982
It isn't anyone's place to tell you how you is right or wrong.\n\nI can tell you this. Hate uses up a lot of energy. \n\nI was face with a big forgiveness issue a few years back. I found for me that I first needed to define what forgiveness wasn't rather than what it was.\n\nIt is not saying it is ok what was done to me.\nIt is not saying I have to trust this person\nIt is not saying I have to let this person hurt me again.\n\nSo what did I conclude it was for me? For me it is just letting go and letting be. It freed me up to focus on going on with my life and establishing relationships with other people who would not be hurtful to me.\n\nMy two cents worth any way.\n\nI wish you the best.
93271
Yep, doing that is a good way to show you that they love you or at least respect your feelings. If they aren't ready for a relationship they would stand a good chance of hurting you. That would suck for you. Respect them for being honest and telling you their feelings.
362692
Morally it is wrong...but emotionally it's hard.  As much as you know right from wrong, it's hard when your heart feels something for this person.
115125
We need more details to help you out here.  The best I can do with what I know about your situation is a general appology.  Be sincere, and don't try to explain your side of it.  If you do, this may come accross as an excuse.  If you are truely sorry for what you did then say so and never say, "I'm sorry but...".  This will make the person think you don't really mean it.  Take full responsibility for your actions and admit what you did was wrong.  Ask them to look down deep in their heart and please forgive you.  Remind them of what your relationship means to you and how important they are to you.  Finish the letter by saying over again, "I really am sorry for hurting you.  I will do what ever it takes to earn your trust and restore our relationship."\n\nGood Luck!
971189
No I wouldn't just break up with someone because I couldn't spend enough time with them, I would break up with them because of the truth...usually people say one thing and mean another because they are afraid of hurting someone, I don't know why people think that the truth is gonna hurt more then finding out that they are lying but they do. and its stupid.