is it impolite to tell others i have fell in love with someone ten years old older than me ?``````````````````
470619
Well...unless you are a child, I don't see that age should matter. My husband is 8 years older than I am, and we couldn't be any happier than we are now. No one, and that includes friends and family around us think that the age difference is a problem.
668150
Why would you care what other people think?as long as you are both of legal age it's not a big deal or anything.I am 10 years older than my man.does that matter? NO
1071956
Age is not important in a relationship as long as the people are adults.  I have alwys preferred older men.  The man I have been with for the past four years is more than 30 years older than me.  Of course you get the odd stares sometimes but when you love someone it doesn't bother you.  I say wait it out and see what happens, follow your heart.
326219
I'm not exactly sure what you mean by old....or exactly in what context you mean 'relation'. Either way relation can be referred to - an open line of communication between you both is crucial.
818779
if you like him it really doesn't matter what your friends thinks...besides, being older can be an advantage in a relation.\nand if you waited for three years, come on! you shouldn't give up just because some fuss\nif you leave him just because of the age, and because of your friends, it would be really silly and insensitive with your own feelings.\nIndepending on the age, you can be good together, and when your heart is broken and you feel alone, there's nothing your friends could do for you (nothing like being with the one you want!)\ngo for it.....care about your feelings....
601180
I don't think complicating things would be a good idea. Though if you really love her and feel that you have to express it. Then you could tell her. I mean, that's not going to ruin their relationship. You're just trying to be honest. You're feelings are also valid.
932454
There's nothing wrong with that! One of my friends is going out with a guy two years older than her-has been for 4 years now.\nGood luck :)
1090435
I guess you have to know the context in which it was said. i.e. insultingly? as a compliment? \n\nIs the glass of water half empty or half full? Well, I'll answer the question positively. I'd say that when you fall in love at the age of ten, we are still quite innocent and that whole experience is new and enjoyable. It's like discovering something new that nobody else knows about - like a secret garden. So hopefully that's how this person views turning to you.\n\nIf it was a negative statement, it must've meant that they feel they turned to you naively and feel that it was inevitable that you would hurt the person concerned.\n\nI guess you'll have to draw your own conclusions from these answers.\n\nI like to think the person was speaking positively - it does sound like a line though...probably from a person that has a preconceived view of you similar to your imprint about guitar players. Does that add up?
1002005
HIya!!\n\nYeah, I think its normal...we've all done it at sopme point of other. I have told people I HATE them when I have actually been in love with them, so thats another weird thing too...\n\nI think if you feel like you love someone, and you feel the words welling up inside you to say it then (appropriate situation advised) you should say it. Even if it turns out that the love that you told them of was different or not quite what you thought you meant at the time.  \n\nGod, I mean sometimes its nice just to tell someone you love them, sometimes it feels good just to be able to say the words and to hear them back, even if that 'love' is just intense like or even just 'like'. \n\nI'm not saying you should go around telling everyone you love them, but I just think that love can mean so many different things at once.\n\nK
696790
Personally, I've never had a problem with the winter-summer romance question. If you like each other, and you're happy with the relationship, who cares what other people think?\n\nIn fact, how dare they try to rain on your parade if you are happy?\n\nThere are all sorts of considerations that come with dating someone significantly older than yourself, but the two of you will learn what those are and deal with them on your own. If the only problem right now is that people outside the relationship are making noise, then just enjoy yourselves. Finding happiness with someone else is already hard enough without having to take advice from people sitting in the cheap seats.\n\nGood luck!
2645
Patience and remember when you were that old how much the attention of someone older meant to you. Go do something you both enjoy and make your own space for when you just can't stand the little blaggard anymore.
432434
No it's noy wrong and don't let  any one tell you that it is because you have the right to your own way of life and how you decide to live it and also who you date and when you date them and how old they are when you fall in love with them trust me on this one I know for a fact because I am also in love with a younger person who happens to know it but doesn't know that I know that he loves me back. \n\n            p.s.\n\n           Take this info to head and share it with some one else that you know with the same problem as you and me(to me it's not really a probllem so you shouldn't say that it is).
436253
Yes I do! Fell instantly in love with my husband 43 years ago and still love him. I know it sounds obvious, but just try to relax and be yourself. Or maybe put something in writing and give it to her with a bunch of flowers. Good luck. LYA
762020
Sounds to me like you are 13 years old... give or take 1 year. Don't tell him you love him, that will only scare him, especially if he doesn't really know you.
102529
I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika
918162
It depends...I've been down this road with the "dears" and the "huns".  The only time I let that slide (sometimes) is if it's an older person...like 70s+ as they (most of the time) mean no disrespect and are just doing that out of habit for anyone young enough to be their children or grandchildren.  HOWEVER anyone else I will always let them know as politely as I can to please don't refer to me as "dear" or "honey", etc.  I ask them to please use my name when speaking with me.  I've gotten a few eyes rollin' or a quick look, but never had a bad comment or repercussion because of it.  It's just disrespectful I think to call anyone that - especially in a working situation.
1065330
old enough to be your gramma likely!\nYou then tell her straight out.  why beat around the bush,  honesty is ALWAYS the best.