if you give someone your # & they abuse the privildge by calln & bein annoyng how do you turn them down nice?
458327
Be assertive! You can be calm and respectful by telling  him/her that their phone calls are annoying. If this doesn't work, block the number!
745850
Tell them that you will decide who you buy gifts for, and when you buy them.\n\nAnd that if they keep harassing you, and that you do see it as harassment,  you will report them to management.\n\nI had someone try this with me with our Unoin, in the dim and distant '80s, and only the threat of management getting involved stopped him
188340
tell her she's mean and you don't like it, or just ignore her and leave her alone.
683409
Thank her for taking the loser off your hands and remind her you are better without him than you were with him.  If he insults you than he is fair game.  Tell his deepest secret to her or point out how lousy he was at giving head.
1163762
tell him or her not 2 answer their phone anymore
342856
Tell them to worry about them selves you live your life not to please others do they feed you are pay your bill's.\n\nThere's a saying when someone talks about you all they doing is giving someone else a break.
1185999
Set boundaries. If she refuses to accept no, then leave. Any time, anywhere. Don't just take her abuse. Tell her that she is smothering you and the more she does it, the less you like being around her. It might even be good to back off alot and not see or call her as much. Its not up to ya'll to make her happy. Its her own issue to deal with. When you go to visit, tell her days you'll go over, then stick to it. If she calls alot bothering you, screen your calls or say you are busy and hang up. But don't keep letting her do this to you. Leave next time, don't let her force that cake on you!
999748
Let her think what she wants to think, they are brokin up and you cant convince her anyways, so leave her be, and if she continues to text u, call the police and tell them that she is harassing u.
12244
To stop him? Nothing, stopping him wouldn't be a good idea and probably couldn't be done by being nice about it.  After all, hes not a nice person.  The best thing you can do is ignore him, if he knows he can't get to you, he'll get bored of bothering you.
1731
File charges with your local police department for harassment and they should get the person to stop contacting you.
603434
I deal with in two ways the first is I bought an illegal, (please don't call the police on me), cell phone jammer off of ebay, I bring to the movies and restraunts...usually wait til they get obnoxious and then turn it on.  Second I start using the same names and pharse they are using for example: I hear them say Susie was so drunk, I turn to my dinner partner and loudly proclaim about how  Susie was naked and dancing on the table last night.  Seems to get even the most obnoxious ones to tone it down.
757539
First of all, don't delete your number. Be strong, let this weak punk know that you are not gonna be pushed around. Send him a text back...Stop sending me messages! Don't do it gently...end it like you need to end it. Be firm. See he is messing it up for everybody...so we need to get knee deep in his azz. And if that doesn't work....send me an email, and I will get him to stop myself. We need people working together to stop ignorant azz people. Yeah show the police the messages, there are laws now, and then call your provider and block that fool.
704999
Tell him that you don't like.\n\nIf he's invading your space, you need to tell him. Tell him to back off.\n\nIf you don't tell him, he's going to continue annoying you and touching you in appropriate ways.
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
206779
tell him 2 quit calling!
634272
i hate them too. i just telll them  "i know u are seeking for attention but i don't want to give any so just back off. i will call u when i need someone to pay attention too.ok" and lea. it works for the most of the time.
734471
tell him your not trying to be mean, but you really don't want to have anything to do with him. That you don't feel comfortable around him.