he used to really fancy me.... now wot???!!! am confused!?
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Hey Tox, well when you see this guy again when you're out (I'm sure you will because he's got a new job in a bar plus the town we live in is pretty small) just chat away to him and be abit flirty with him and I know you can get very flirty when you've had a few! Hehe! You can chat to him about the main thing you have in common with him right now- work place! \n\nI know you're not a nasty girl who goes around messing with guys feelings, in fact you're completely the opposite! I don't blame you for running a mile when his exgirlfriend came on the scene (I would've done the same thing) cos she was a bit psycho! So now she's gone and you two are already chatting to each other as mates, when you're at work, which will just make it easier for you to approach him when you see him out. \n\nDon't get all worked up thinking:\n"Oh my God does he like me or am I going to be making a fool out of myself" \nbecause you are very attractive and I'm sure he can see that because frankly if he can't then he needs his eyes testing! Go for it mate! However don't ditch me when you've got a new boyfriend! Hehe!
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yes it sounds like he's just after the pretty face... he was a crush when you were young, just leave it at that.. he appears to only want you for the trophy.. stay clear of him, he'll only treat you well until he gets what he wants and deep down you already know that.. theres lots of nice boys out there that will treat you like you should be treated..but not this one... good luck..
437459
wow. what a jerk.  he's so not worth your time!\nit sounds to me like he was leading you on.. i dont know if that's the case, but i think you should find another amazing guy who will actually acknowledge ur presence!
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hey, I just got that book out of the library! I'll be reading it soon and I really hope that it gives some answers about those strange beings... men.\n\nWhat should you do? Don't appear to be needy. Tell him about all the fun you've been having since you last saw him. You don't want to be seen moping around the house pining for this guy.\n\nDoes he like you? Maybe. Don't get to worked up over this guy.
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WOW.u'r story is very romantic.I think wht u decided is right 4 u.he's disturbin u a lot and u r gettin disturbed.looks like he's not interested in u..stop playin.ok.move on.....iam sure u'll find u'r true love.i thought the endin would b different but the story changed wht a twist.know sth u really know how 2 make decisions.girl...all can't do that...u'r decision is simply right 4 u...all the best with u'r life.....
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Hi, this is Cat...After 1 1/2 years did you not know how he felt about you? If he's clammed up, obviously he wasn't ready to hear how you felt about him. Usually a guy will be responsive how he feels way before a year has passed, he might not say so, however his actions will speak louder than words. I suggest you give him space real fast, leave him alone for a couple of weeks to a month to think and to chill out. He's probably afraid of commitment or he does not feel the same about you. Do not approach him again regarding this issue, he may bolt like a wild horse and never come back. Instead just be a friend to him for now, if it's not too late. Lesson well learnt, you know what to do next time.
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Wow how old are you?\n\nThis guys a sleaze for taking advantage of you, he spent all the time with you? He just doesn't have to charm anyone else when your already there, thats all.\nThe oldest trick in the book , he wants a long term relationship?\n\nHoney, he's using you, ok, and you fell for it, im sorry.
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I had two workplace romances a long time ago.  Neither of them caused a problem when we broke up.  How long have you worked with him?  Do you sense even a hint of a vindictive streak?  If so, keep away.  If not, tread carefully and take it slowly.
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So he thinks you're weird. That's one guy out of how many? Don't be bummed out about it. And don't go chaning yourself over some guy that you used to like! Someday someone will love you for who you are. Don't get upset over what some crush from the past has to say! They're in the past. Leave them there and move on! : )
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yea u were wrong but u were provoked. i can't believe i'm sayin this but he's wrong. news flash toots, your guy is either cheatin on u or no longer interested in u and this was a convenient way for him to get rid of u. it's one of those 2 things, i guarantee it. good luck. be happy it's only 7 months invested b4 u found out what an @ss he is.
490256
maybe he doesnt want it like that anymore then you do- just try it, whats the worst that could happen. You could even suprise yourself and have a really good time\n\nGO
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May be he is observing u, and wants to see if u change at least now .U will have to change if u want him back, and stop playing such fools cause its not a movie its ur real life. If he truly loves u , be assured he is urs and will not go anywhere else, but u have to take the first step towards him.Because u r the reason for this mess
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he wanted u for a period of time.. I think now its over.. so he's going away from you..\nNow what u can do is.. just forget such unworthy person and start living your life..
130844
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
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I had this same exact problem for so long and I am just now coming out of it. It is going to be very wonderful when you come out of this experience knowing so much and able to help other people with the same exact problem. First of all, I want you to think about all the time you've wasted just sitting and daydreaming about him. That's time you could have used to make your life better by doing things you enjoy and you could have made other peoples' lives better. Next I want you to ask yourself, "What has he ever done for you?" It's really hurtful to realize that you've wasted your time wanting somebody that you just can't have but trust me, you will have so much free time once you just stop thinking about him. You have to be willing to stop talking about him w/ anyone, pretty much pretending he doesn't exist anymore. Avoid listening to songs that remind you of him. With the guy that I liked, he was actually undesirable and it took me so long to realize that he just wasn't a good match for me at all. So hang in there and remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with being singe cuz you're waiting for the right guy! You deserve a guy that's young enough and that you can actually go out w/! good luck! e-mail me if ya need to!
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maybe he wants something from u OR he just changed and realized how mean he was to u!
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it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....