What would youdo if you found out your lover of 5 years slept with your sister,mom, or cousin?
460285
Call Jerry Springer and open up a bank account.
75882
Hmmm.....she was to be helping me? I would simply ask her how the 'research' is going? I would definitely be more upset with her than with the boyfriend. He's 20. She's 34 and family! I honestly would just be done with them both. I wouldn't throw a fit.......I wouldn't confront them. I would just know that I was so glad to find out what both are capable of. And then have nothing to do with either no matter how much either of them begged.
368394
They need to find out. You don't want to know that your sister is being cheated on and you could have possibly done something to stop it. I wouldn't even consider not telling my sister.
484875
i have a nephew who was taken from us way too early. I would bring him back to live the life he never got to, to be with his parents that loved him so much, to play catch with his daddy, and have his booboos kissed away by his mommy, and to experience his first love. I love you HF.
1371
TELL HER. What is the worst that can happen? If you don't, you will regret it the rest of your life. I will always regret not telling Susan that I love her. I haven't seen her for five years, and I still love her.
1187557
My fella and l aren't officially "a couple" any more, but only for the past few weeks, we're still having sex though.\nlt doesn't feel like a bad thing cos we only split cos of my weird family, we still see one another(well have sex) but it doesn't feel bad cos we both want it and we know we would still be together any way if not for my family.
602160
how did you find out you were cousins? I'd say continue loving him, we are all related somehow or another down the line
519096
If you want to mess around with her and hurt your cousin, then go do it. But you 2 broke up for a reason (hence, she is your EX) so tell her that she's not yours anymore, and she needs to get it from her new B/F.\n\nIf your cousin lies to you everyday, you can go messing with the ex for a one night stand then walk away... that way you get revenge on both.
194822
Tell her husband that your having an affair with her.
314485
To be honest if you had any feelings for any of them then you wouldn't of put yourself if this situation to start off with. I think you should break up with all of them and find someone out there who you'd never cheat on!
59494
I would make up with anyone that i may be at odds with. I would write letters to my family that they could read after i died...to let them know how much i love them and that i know they love me too. I would not go to bed and i would spend every last minute with my family. I would pray for strength for my family to deal with it...and i would also pray for myself.
799494
I wouldn't do anything. He's not sleeping with his cousin, he's fantasizing about it. Everybody has fantasies, not everyone lives out those fantasies. He'll get over it eventually. If he has a good relationship with your sister, then leave it alone. What really matters is that he's treating her right. Who knows, she may be benefiting more than you think because of his imagination. I would just tell him in the future, to not share those kinds of thoughts with you, because it puts you in a weird place that you don't want to be in.
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Tell her but pick a good time and find a soft way. My cousin actually married a gay man and it took her years to recover, but they are still friends. She'll probably never be fully over you, so be respectful of her when dating men, if you remain friends. Rent a movie like "Clueless" or "Saved!" or  "Brokeback Mountain" and watch it with her, you might be able to gage her reaction and put out a conversation opener. But most of all, remember, you can still love her and be gay.
1104660
That would be a huge break of trust inside a family. The consequenses for the children, the parents - everybody. I do not think I'd go on living with my husbond if he did this to us. My sister - maybe. Maybe. It would depend on her alot - how she handled it.
473802
Whose father? Your's or his? And whci relationship are you asking about? Yours to your boyfriend or your's to the father's cousin's child??
171591
Can you add more details please?\n\nNever mind, I get it now, i read your other question.  Um, woah, I really dont know what to say...Regardless of how bad you felt for her I dont think that was the right thing to do...Maybe you could have gotten someone else to have sex with her...\n\nOut of extreme curiousity...how has this affected your relationship with your mom??? Is it weird now? Also who started it, you or her??  Good luck, I hope everything works out for you
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I'd tell off my mother-in-law! \n\nI'd tell her it is NOT okay to hit me, it is not okay to put me down in front of my children, her son CHOSE me so she needs to forget aout his ex, she needs to stop saying she wants to fins him a new wife, she needs to stop lying, she needs to stop steeling my things, especially my underwear, and she needs to keep her nose in her own business. I know hoe to keep my man happy, while hers is walking out the door every month becuase he's fed up of her. If she's not careful, one of these time's he's not going to come back.