I'm confused... do women want sex as much as guys do?
469111
i admire the last statement of your question - the self respect piece - women don't understand the fact that they're self respect is compromised when they have pre-marital sex - besides, it's unlawful for those reason and for reasons of maintaining a monogamous relationship.
345876
men i think. most of the time its usually the female that doesnt want it. but from my experience i say i do. good question.
241896
If this is the case, then it's the case because it's easier for the guy to enjoy sex than it is for the guy to enjoy the girl.  Really, what do you think the guy is getting out of the "relationship"?\n\nBut if it's just the guy using the girl for sex, maybe he's a crummy lover.  After all, if he were any good, then she'd be using him for sex, too.\n\nOf course, there's the outside possibility that they might enjoy doing things with each other instead of just to each other, but that might be too much to ask in a "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" world.
711545
Some of us do enjoy sex (a lot)...  it has to have meaning.  Women are emotional creatures and men are simple & selfish...  It's a fact.  When a man can understand that it's pleasing his woman, making it all about her, she will be jumping your bones constantly and you will have a hard time keeping up!
565297
Actually women would love to talk about other things than just sex. The less you talk about the more the women will like you....
203383
Why would that be weird?  Are you saying women can't have frequent sex urges?  Women just control them better than men!\n\n;)
381930
most of us want cuddling and alot of foreplay. but, sometimes we want hard and fast too. it depends on the mood, how much time we have etc.
406995
I think about it 24 hrs of tha day, 365 days of tha year,ALL tha time!  Its important to certain woman. Some women are happy with once a week, once a month, but then you have tha other side who they want it all tha time. Right now I am seekin a man who will sex me more than just 5 times in a day! Not sayin tha sex is going to make or break my relationship, Im just sayin tha me personally wants to be in a relationship where we sex all tha time!
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I am a guy and I DONT think about sex all the damn time like you kids are making it out to be but guys certainly get more stimulated mentally(and physically-a boner lol) than women do. Overall, men get excited more easily by things of a sexual nature, even if its some girl bending over in front of her locker in HS and he glances at her butt for a split seconds, he thinks 'damn thats nice' or probably 'mmmmmm' or something to that extent. But just because guys are somewhat easy doesnt mean we let sex rule our thinking and that we think about sex all the time. You've been listening to too much stand up comedy if you still believe that.\nNot every guy is the same either!!! so dont judge us based on a few guys at your school or that you know in your life.\nas for your answer to what the difference is between how men and women generally think:\nEvery person is different and is an individual. No body really thinks alike so generally, you cant really differentiate between the two as far as being able to say this is how men generally think and this is how women generally think. it's not possible and its unfair to in my opinion.
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partially, men are just not in tune with women a lot of the time.  If it is sexually, I am so sorry dude, keep trying!
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Everyone has different sex drives. \nIt's a bit of a myth that guys want sex all the time and girls are more reserved. \nThere are lots of girls who hacve higher sex drives than thier boyfriends (I know of a few friends who do). It's not unusual at all, just the product of a myth that society has created. \nI'd suggest a bit of solo sex, it makes you appreciate it better when its a mutual thing.
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Are you kidding me?  WOW, there's no simple answer.  A lot of women would say all you need it a pulse, which may appear to be the case sometimes.  Don't forget that MOST men are more visual so they want to SEE things, whereas women are better at just using their imagination.  MOST guys like women that are NOT clingy, independant, funny and sensual with a great level of creativity.  Many guys shy away from commitment, hence the needt to keep trying different women...we like variety (which makes us "dogs"?). We like to watch (there's the visual again) women on women...you see, if we like women in general, we're sure to like MORE women.  If one woman turns on another woman, it turns us on even more.  Why?  That's the tougher question.  Must be hormones I guess.  It's like asking the same question in reverse, why do certain things turn women on?  They just do!  And it's also hard to make genral statements because what obviously turns on one guy won't necessarily turn on the next. If you want me to get graphic and down to specifics...I might get banned!
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I don't agree with the whole theory, you shouldn't generalize the fact: I do enjoy penetration as much as the oral caresses, my man gives me and sleeping together. I think it really depends on how you developed your sexuality.\nOn the other hand, I agree on the fact that some girls think that there is a "normal" type of sexuality, they should have to be eligible for relationships! And then, they don't enjoy sex as much because it's not really their desire expressing itself!
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body language.\nWhy do you want this man who doesn't seem to notice you?\nWHY?\nOh, wait, you said "my man" and notice me 'more'.  Hmm... \nSo you have a man and want more sex than he is currently providing?  \n\nOr maybe it's not sex at all, for you said "want me more", which is womanspeak for _________.  Maybe a greater degree of commitment?  Maybe you intent to land this fish but he's not taking the bait?  \n\nPlease be more clear as to exactly what is the problem or question.  Us guys can't deal with the vagueness of your question. Thanks\n\nAnd what's wrong with saying something???  You are playing games and not taking responsibility as an adult should for your decisions and wants.\n\nSpeak the truth.  You are not a child anymore, adults vote.  Grow up and lay it all out plainly.
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My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
132403
I for one love getting fucked up the ass. The only thing that's better is sucking dick. The male form is too beautiful to resist, ok? Besides, guys are more interesting sex partners, in general. Girls tend to bring all their special emotional needs, hangups and inhibitions into the bed.
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Honestly...less and less.  I would say that women are more comfortable with their sexuality than they ever have been, and that lends itself to more FWB action.  I still think women are more likely to do FWB stuff with a person that they would enter a relationship with, while men are less likely to be interested in a relationship