Should I tell my boyfriend I've been talking to his best friend on the side?
472903
if you want him then you shouldn't but if he is a cheater then make him hurt.
553707
Girl...If you and your best friend are like "paper and glue" close, I think you should think it over. Think "Would she/he do that to me?" Make sure you know whats good for you. A Girlfriend/Boyfriend come and go, best friends are for LIFE! (If you have the right one)
188477
Well, for starters, I would let your boyfriend know that this is happening. I hate to imagine what he would think if he found out that this other guy is contacting you all the time to try to woo you and that you never let him know. That would certainly make him suspicious about why you weren't telling him. Of course you also need to speak with this guy that is bothering you and let him know that you have no interest in a relationship and that you appreciate him as a friend but that you will have to end the friendship if he keeps pushing the issue. He needs to know that this makes you uncomfortable and is inappropriate. If he still continues to contact you, stop accepting his calls. If he still bothers you, I would contact local police to see what actions you should take.
659502
Your probably looking for someone to tell you its ok. Well I'm not going to lie to you.  Guys have this rule bros before hoes.  Its totally wrong for you to go out with his best friend.  Even worse if you sleep with his best friend he will eventually tell your ex everything you guys do.
188738
I WOULD PICK MY BEST FRIEND. WHY WOULD SHE LIE TO YOU?, AND OF COURSE HE IS GOING TO "SWEAR" THAT HE DIDN'T BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT YOU FIND OUT. YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BEST FRIEND BY STAYING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND WHO SHE SAYS IS A "CHEATER", AND YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BOYFRIEND BY CHOOSING YOUR BESTFRIEND WHO HE SAYS IS A "LIAR". DON'T BE BLINDED BY LOVE, AND REMEMBER TO LOOK AT THE FACTS, BECAUSE EVERYTHING WILL COME OUT EVENTUALLY. YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE ULTIMATE DECISION.GOOD LUCK!!
944399
FOR GODS sake if hes your boyfriend tell him everytime you get the chance. no right or wrong time. Carpe Diem Sieze the Day
162081
Little confused with question but I "think" i got it.\n\nYou have the hots for your ex-boyfriends's best friend. But the bugger isn't calling you, even though you have told him you are interested.\n\nAssuming I got it right ... here goes....\n\nGoing out with your best friend's Ex-girlfriend is ALWAYS a bad idea..... I can't imagine too many "friends" who would do that easily.\n\nI am also a little troubled that YOU would try to jump the fence and hook up with your ex-bf's best bud..... what if your ex didnt like the idea of his friend going out with you? You would be causing friction between two friends and in my book .... thats totally UNKOOL.\n\nAnd last choice is that NO he is not interested in you.\n\nI highly advice that you bat your eyelashes towards someone else..... there's no way that these two guys are the only two guys in your whole world...... find someone else who isn't directly connected to ur ex.\n\nOf course if you do hook up with your ex's best friend, I am sure we will see a new question one day:\n  \n"I still have feelings for my Ex... but I'm involved with his best friend... what should I do?"
238872
honestly, how long have you been together? cos i bet he's waiting to hear it from you. just, whenever the two of you feel really close, just tell him. but the best way to tell him for the first time is when the two of you are alone.
1127647
Well, I was guilty of messing around a little bit with his best friend... but never went all the way (and I am glad).\n\nI went on Vacation and he had a long talk with my bf while I was gone... so, you can imagine that I had some explaining to do when I got home...by the way ~ it didnt help my relationship any if that's what you are wondering...\n\nLet us both ponder this... what "friend" would even consider getting with their homeboy's girl?  Maybe friend isn't the best word?   hmmm?
525853
i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
612419
If you tell him right now, when he just got a new girlfriend, it will sound like you want to ruin his relationship with her.  Give yourself (and him) some time, just be his friend, and see what happens.  He knows you like hanging out with him; that's enough for now.
87769
I would hope that if he's your boyfriend that he already knows that you like him. \n\nTo answer your question regarding how your boyfriend chooses and interacts with his friends, I have a few thoughts that I'd love to share. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, however, he needs to be guarded with how he interacts with you, and if he's serious about you, he needs to make sure that you're ok with his actions.\n\nThis next comment may be a little bit extreme, but it's good food for thought. One way to gauge one's actions is to consider everyone else as someone else's husband or wife. So a question he needs to ask himself could be 'Would I act this way with a married woman'. \n\nThe part that is most difficult with this is that you can't change how he acts. You should definately talk to him about it, and if it bothers you, then he needs to know that it does. If he's serious about his relationship with you, then his actions should change if he knows it bothers you.
137021
yes tell him ..he has the right to know..besides he has to help u be by ur side girl..u need him..it is important..thats my advice 4 u hun..\nGood luck and i hope things turn out alright..
540348
yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
429258
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..
805743
I  don't think  it's  so much about what YOU do,  as about what  this  friend of yours  is  doing,  and what  your boyfriend is doing.    If she is openly enticing him, and he is not making any  attempt to  hide the fact that he's responding to it,  I'd suggest   that neither one of  them cares about you as much as you thought they did, in which  case  the smart thing might be to let them have each other and good riddance.     Better to know now if your boyfriend has a roving eye,  than find it  out after he has become your husband.  And better to find out now  that  your "friend"  is disloyal,  so you can dump her and get one who is.
108835
When he stops cheating on you with your best friend?\n\nIf you're calling him your "boyfriend" but you don't know whether or not he's "right" for you, maybe you've moved a little too fast.