Why do you think most men stray from their wives (or vice versa)?
459008
The most common reason is complacency. The same old thing. Oh, you will hear that it is because they didn't get any attention and crap like that, but that is a lie. It all boils down to getting some "strange" stuff.
374663
The men I have spoken to feel alienated and rejected both mentally and physically from their wives.  Apparently sex once or twice a year is considered normal for this stage/age of marriage.  Loneliness would probably be the best way to explain it.  They feel that they can fulfill their needs while still maintaining the quid pro quo of the marriage and family.\n\nWrong as it sounds that is what they tell me.  They actually feel like they are sacrificing their own happiness to maintain the responsibilities they have for family.  They see an affair or usually casual sex as a necessary evil.  Most have no intention of ever leaving their wives and they make that perfectly clear.  To them  a marriage that is tolerable is better than divorce.
175732
Lonliness is usually the root cause of it I think. Many woman feel their men never listen to them so they go look for someone who will. I wish men would learn that before the 2nd. marriage.
1076927
I think that if more women would actullay submit themselves to their own husbands as the Bible says, that there would not be so many divorces today. \nThe problem is most women view the word "submit" as becoming one's slave.  That is not the case at all. I myself  love being submissive to my husband, because that is how i get my blessings by being obedient to the word of the Lord.
819222
Many military wives cheat on their husbands, especially the young ones.  Many of them aren't very independent and are built of fragile or weak constitution.  When there husband goes away, they fall apart, so they need another man.  It is pathetic, but that's the kind of woman that marines marry and the kind of woman who want want to marry marines.\n\nI'm sure that most military wives don't want to hear this, but it's true.
212298
cause men think they are still 2 years old and let their wives take the place of their mommies. if just men ruled this world, it would have ended along time ago!
105547
where are u getting ur facts...most women?  no dear im one of a billion that has not.... why do the ones do it cause they risk everything and then find out when it is too late they have lost everything   then move on usually to a guy who is not near as good as the husband,,,or in some cases same as before   but they move on!
521372
Isn't it weird that in marriage where you have a husband you have a wife, no wife no husband too weird isn't it?
715466
Men fool around with other women because of how they feel about themselves with that other person. It doesn't matter if the wife is better looking or more successful. If she doesn't take care of ALL of her husbands needs and he feels like he isn't getting his "respect" and his ego isn't being stroked by her then he will go be with the one that makes him feel like a champ. While it isn't a justification for infidelity ; it nevertheless is the usual culprit. He is getting something from the other woman that he just isn't getting at home and that isn't always sex.
1065765
At home with their wives, who take care of them. Being in a committed relationship requires a lot of communication and understanding. I hate to say it because women do not want to hear this but if you are trying to do it all, your man is going to need more attention than you can give him, and the commitment you are seeking he will not be able to honor.
90688
What does it matter what people think?  What matters is what his wife thinks because there is a marriage at stake here.   Why is the man spending so much time with a single female?  Why is his wife allowing that to happen - if she knows?  \n\nIf it were me, I would follow him and find out what he's doing away from home so much and if I find him with a single woman more than once, it would probably be the end of a marriage.
463927
The same thing happened to my second wife.  We did it like rabbits when we were dating but once married, the activity dropped off quite a bit.  I am sure the rigors of married life has something to do with it and the comfort in being in a long term relationship.  I am sure it doesn't happen to all women nor men for that matter.  Could be that you just need to try something different every now and then.  Location, clothing, time of day, etc.  Variety is the spice of life.
824403
Studies have shown that husbands who do more of the work around the house/with the kids get more sex than men who don't because the wives resent their husbands sitting around doing nothing while they're doing everything. \n\nI would say that the #1 reason I hear from women for lack of interest is the men using their wives' bodies as if they were a 3 minute "penalty" box. The guy only wants a 3 minute quickie bec that's all it takes to satisfy him and 99% of all women are NOT interested in 3 minute quickies unless it's just to get the husband to stop bothering you for it. So in other words -- why bother getting undressed for bad sex?
878307
i definitely am not one of those people!!!!  i would never want my husband to be with anyone else!!!!  i am the only person he has ever been with and i don't want that to change ever.....he is one of those guys that wouldn't anyway....he never pressures me into doing anything i don't want to do and i would never do that to him.....i have one of the few good men left in the world!!!!
463732
Most wives tend to give thier husbands plenty of affection. If your wife isn't doing that, then you shoud sit down with her and find out the reason why.
310535
about a zillion to one. Married men never leave their wives. You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too if you are cheating with him.  Just remember he is getting something from you that his wife is not giving him.  If he would cheat with you on her what makes you think you are so special that he would not do the same to you if in fact he did leave his wife? How would you like to be his wife. Just remember what what comes around goes around. Never date a married man. That is so wrong. They will tell you anything your little heart desires in order to get laid. Trust me I know.  That is wrong on so many levels.
366883
It all depends on the man. Some men are built for marriage and commitment, some men just aren't. More and more our society is encouraging men to nurture their anti-commitment tendencies. Even empowerment of women (something I think is great) is having unintended effects in this direction. As more and more women are feeling it's okay to be promiscuous and casual in their relationships - men get even more reinforcement that this is the best way. It surprised me, but I've even had the thought "where can I find a woman who wants to settle down?" run through my mind.