I'm in a relationship with my Partner, I can't have sex with my partner now that I'm in a relationship.
460938
Fuck the belief have sex rip her close off play with her boobs lick her pussy have fun!!!!!
1062066
me and my mate have not had sex in 2 years and I don't miss a thing we are still close in all other ways he just is not able to have intercourse. I love and I will never leave him.
505026
Seriously, take a break from sex, for now. Get a book on massage, or something, and work on being intimate without the sex. But don't back him into a corner because he's trying to be honest with you, without hurting your feelings. (Like all men, he's obviously very bad at it.) Don't take it personally, either. I used to take it very personally because my ex didn't want sex, but when I look back, I realize we had a great sex life, and he probably was just tired!
595000
Ah, I am sorry to hear how much this is upsetting you, and I feel sorry for him as well. I wish I had a crystal ball to look into and find out what's really going on here. Something's fishy. \n\nAt the start of many sexual relationships, the lovemaking is hot! It's natural for sex to wane over time and you two were very busy. I sense that there's an undercurrent you need to ferret out, as it seems that he is flat-out avoiding sex with you. \n\nAsk yourself some basic questions: when did things change? Was there an incident that you can remember? Has there been a gradual decline? Has putting on weight, having children, a change in income/earnings or something like that happened? \n\nAs for the importance of this to your relationship, although national studies have shown disparate results, sex is not usually the number one issue in saving a marriage. However, if it's a top need for you and it compounds your feelings of inadequacy, erodes your self-esteem, makes you feel unloved or affects your ability to feel good about yourself in general, then it's time to have a serious heart-to-heart with him. Be gentle when you talk about it and try to understand what's bothering him. After that, you may need to seek professional help either together or alone — or give him up in the end.
683159
Well, sex is primarily mental and not physical. While it is easy to blame it on the drugs, it could just be that you are not interested in your partner.  However, if you truly believe it is because of the drugs you are taking, speak with your doctor. There are many kinds of hormone treatments you can take and perhaps a different one will not have the same effect.
1125136
Well, Have you two had sex yet? If not don't go and why are you afraid to be alone with him? The problem appears to be deeper than your question...Good Luck either way!!!!
481262
im trying to understand wht you are saying but i will answer this the best way i can i dont know why you cant live with the partner you choose to be with and i most certainly dont know if it is true or not so you probalbly need to ask this question again so we can better understand what you are asking or whatever
107734
There are 2 things that can be done.  You must first ask yourself a question.  How important are my sexual needs?  Can I live without them?  If you are looking at getting your sexual needs fulfilled and your partner isn't satisfying them, then you need to talk to him/her about them.  If you have been patient and your partner still isn't willing to satisfy them and it's very important to you.  Then break up with him/her.  If you love him/her too much and are willing to sacrifice your satisfying your sexual needs then stay together.
1090797
Unfortunatly I have been having an affair. I know its wrong and I shouldn't be doing it but my husband just doesn't satisfy me in the bedroom. I've talked to him about it and he is just unwilling to change how things are done in the bedroom.
872731
sex with another person without consent from bf/gf or husband/wife is cheating.  talk to your boyfriend if you are interested in having sex with someone else.
392664
I have had an open relationship and things turned out to be a real mess!  Jealousy soon took over and then everything fell apart!  So, I know for a fact that I cannot have an open relationship!:)
881479
well have you talked with your companion about how you are feeling about the sex life? ya never know they just might feel the same way that you do and just cannot find the words to say something about it for prolly the same reasons you wont because of feelings involved.  maybe it is something that you can help them overcome explain the things that you are wanting to do and ya never know. sex isnt always everything yes it is something but NOT everything. and if that doesnt work than you need to weigh it all and see if you can accept if they do find out and you could possibily loose them forever. it is a hard thing but i think you should look inside of your heart first and see which is more important\ngood luck
1020141
It's got to be psychological response I'd say.  Apparently you don't like it or there's something about it that bothers you.  Perhaps your conscience or a fear of getting pregnant.  Ever hear the phrase "psyching yourself out".  Perhaps it's a clue that you shouldn't be having sex with him.
1065259
I'm just the opposite.  I wish I could have meaningless sex but I end up in these long relationships.  Wanna make a transition with me?  Seriously.
1134554
doubt that will happen.  lol  just don't get trapped.  i feel you though hun.  it isn't right.  two adults consenting to engage in sexual participation while one of the partners has a hidden agenda.  not right
915147
Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
1171191
See a doctor.\n\nYou may have a hormonal problem or there may be psychological issues in your relationship.  Did he or you lose a job?  Is money tight? Did he or you gain weight?\n\nIf you do not want to see a doctor, take 4 gms of arginine 2X a day, on an empty stomach (before bed and in the morning - dont eat for at least 45 minutes) and take DHEA.  This will increase your testosterone levels which may increase your sex drive.