is it healty to get in love with older women?
463512
Depends what you call older. But it is a thing a lot of guys fantasise about, and pursue. Great for the more mature ladies who sometimes get themselves a toy boy. Each to their own. Just enjoy. Joan.
928109
If love is blind, then it's also ageless.\n\nThere are the extreme cases that you hear about, that often involve celebrities. For instance, Charlie Chaplin was in his early 50s when he married Oona O'Neil (playwright Eugene O'Neil's daughter) when she was 17 or 18 years old. The had a long, happy marriage which produced 8 children, including the actress Geraldine Chaplin.\n\nPicasso fathered a child at the age of 80-something. And more recently, the late Tony Randall did the same thing with his wife, at the time 50 years younger.\n\nHowever, I think that the general level of attraction runs about 5-10 years in either direction, once you're in your 20s and beyond. There are practical considerations to think of if the age gap gets much wider than that.\n\nBut who ever said love is practical, either?\n\n______________________
1033437
Ofcourse!!!!  There is nothing wrong with that!  I'm 24 & I'm attracted to a woman who is almost 30...   we have been dating for the past two months & things seem to be working out!!!  I have a much more interesting time with her than I do with a girl of my age... some of them seem to be a little imature!\n\nGood Luck with your situation!!!
1082435
Women 35 to 45 are very sexy. They are experienced, and usually are a lot of fun to be with.  If they enjoy the younger women, I say go for it.
295499
Yes.  It is better for a woman to date a guy who is older because of the differences in maturity, but if a woman is okay with that, there is nothing wrong with it.
567924
for sure you can, you will not marry her tomorrow, right? there will be more time till marriage, and remember, in old times 'my grandfathers' they were marrying ladies younger than them by more than 10 years, they believed in that, and they were happy and their marriages were so successful. In case you really believe she loves you 'loving is so different than impressed, remember, ladies in her age are impressed by your age, make sure she knows what love is, and that she really loves you', Go Ahead! Good Luck!
547846
i have 2 friend whose wife is about ten years older than them. They are all happy with their families, so i think age does not matter as long as love binds them.
641066
Older women are more comfortable with their sexuality,they know what they want and aren't afraid to go out and get it.\nSo if you want no-strings fun and excitement I suggest you take them up on their offer..if you feel you can handle it!
347552
I'm in my 50's and I love older women my age. Younger ones are all about how they look and what they wear. Older women usually know what they want and how to get it without all of this bull>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
559821
I guess that really depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for. Quite honestly, if I am looking at buying my first house when she's checking up on her social security benefits, or for quality nursing homes.. the age gap is too big.\n\nOtherwise, it's not at all bad to date a woman who's older than you. Your personalities and interests should play a bigger part than age alone. Though, the age factor can SOMETIMES be a deterant but only you can really decide if/how much that bugs you.
896501
It would depend whether you return those feelings or not. I know two people, a man and a woman, who've been very good friends for many years.  She's deeply in love with him, has loved him all those years and suffers horribly when he pays attention to any other woman. He appears unaware that she has these feelings for him but it's crystal clear that he would never feel the same about her. He likes younger women who are very pretty and his friend is approaching her 50s, makes no effort whatsoever with her appearance and looks as if she's never heard of sex.  If she told him how she felt, I believe it could mean the end of their friendship.  At best it would radically change the nature of that friendship.  Whether it would be best for her to face the truth, I don't know.  \n\nOnly you know how you and your friend feel about each other and ultimately only you can decide.
1146747
by ur looks i don't think u need to be dating the older women.... go with someone more ur age if ur looking for a serious relationship
27973
my husband is 5 years younger than me. and we get along just fine. if you feel you have the capacity to be with an older woman go ahead that means you may be really mature
844553
I'm "only" 45... not that that is young to today's 20 and 30 somethings... but I've loved and been in love with older women ( 10 - 20+ years older) since I was 17...at least. To answer your question... this is not a fad, it's just that its "out" in the sense that younger men ( and older women) have no qualms about it anymore . Additionally, and more importantly, older women have a certain experience that younger ones don't... both intellectually and sexually. There is also no time for pretense... just learning and teaching and fun... The health question comes later, but if one really loves, one can handle that... such may be the price, but the joy before is well worth it.
594492
Yes,\n\nMen reach there prime about ten years before a woman does therefore it should actually work well.  Plus older women know what they like and want.
519719
Don't feel bad. some guys do. Some guys think older women are more machure and or/ know more about different things. Also, Many grow up faster then them around them and seem out of place. nothing wrong with liking an older women.
695913
In this life you will meet many women and they will all be very different. \n\nYou will fall in love with a few and be hurt by a few and you may even hurt a few. All women are not the same and this one you are still in love with is not the one for you. \n\nYou will find a woman who will feel the same way as you and this woman will be forgotten. Take comfort in this and keep your eyes open for a better person.