plz give some useful advise  to a heart broken -girl?
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"To thine own self be true".........Find something else that you love and do that.  Painting,  walking, writing......find it, drown yourself in it and you will be amazed at how productive you can be and what you will be able to produce given that you put your passion for this man into something else you love.
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you've gotta understand that girls are up and down all the time, it's hormones, and seriously, there is NOTHING that we can do about it. Try to have compassion, I once had to break up with a guy, even though I still loved him, because of ... circumstances. Anyway, try to keep a level head (difficult I know) and not to wallow (even more difficult!). I just want to give you a hug and tell you that it's gonna be ok, just hang in there and most importantly: pray, most people think that today God never answers, he does. I'm living proof. He's helped me get through so much, he'll help you too.
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I was in your shoes, my friend, years ago. And this is what I did and learned:\n\nI waited & waited to be loved in return... five years as a matter of fact. I had many sleepless nights, I had a whole migration of butterflies in my stomach everytime we spoke over the phone, whenever i saw her, & even a simple thought of her. Not a single day, night & moment went by that I did not think of her. I was there for her emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually... & evermore optimistic for her to one day feel the way i felt. Yet, she did not reciprocate the same intensity & desire as i did. Mind you that nobody knew that i was feeling soo ga-ga over her, so i had no one, not one soul to talk to for advice or direction of what i should do. \n\nSo what happened? What did I do? \n\nWell, one nite i finally broke down, emotionally, like i had before and got down on my knees and prayed to help get over her. A warm blanket of feeling came over me and realize that I was just alone, too lonely & barking up the wrong tree. In that instant my head was clear & had enough gusto to say myself & her "no mo". I moved on. Since then, I had many friends to count on and goals that kept me busy.\n\nThe Truth is: I was infatuated. I "loved" someone who did not loved me back; who did not reciprocated... for five long years! It was a waste of my time, energy & not to mention financially. In that instant in the dead of night, i realized one love is not enough... it takes two.\n\nSo my question to you, my friend, how long can you wait?\n\n-Taz-
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Mate,take it from a girl,dont dive in there,she needs some space and time, since she just got dumped,shes probably not interested getting herself in another relationship,just yet.\nBe there for her as much as you can, but at the same time dont crowd her too much.\nAs they say, you cant swim until youve learned how to float steadily.
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i recently went through something similar to this myself. i know you probally feel horribly depressed right now, and thats because you're heartbroken. i can tell you that eventually the pain does go away...take some time to grieve and then try to forget about him. someone once gave me a piece of advise that really helped me:\n\nbeing heart broken is like being in the dark.... and everytime you think your getting close to the light switch you just stub your toes. and you have to start all over again. but there is a light switch there. it might take a little bit to find it. but one day you will get there......... it might take awhile to get over this guy... but always remember... through all those stubed toes there is a lightswitch
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A broken heart is not broken just bruised or hurt.It is alright to cry and talk it out. Remind yourself not to close another out for the human heart will mend and love again.Tell yourself the person who broke your heart did not deserve it in the first place and there is someone who will mend your heart and love you as though you never had a broken heart. Smile even though you want to cry laugh even when you want to fall apart. Love even if you feel you can't.
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well get help bcuz she is not worth your tears have u ever heard that saying "dont cry over anyone who sont cry over you" well yeah and she doesnt deserve you so its best to move on and find a new relationship \ni know its not what you want to hear and i mean I KNOW ivd been thru that situation and i moved on well im still on that but just try God Bless
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The best thing yu can do for her is be there for her. Be there when she needs to talk about it, or when she just wants to be held or just needs to cry! Be supportive of her in every way possible. She is at a hard time and she just needs you to be there for her. Just make sure she knows you love and care about her no matter what and you'll always be there if she needs any help!
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Tell her as we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to\nEver let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably\nMore than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so\nRemember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best\nFriend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry\nBecause time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you\nLove. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've\nNever been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of\nHappiness you'll never get back. \n\nDon't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never\nBegin.
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When someone up and tells you it's over, here's the thing. It was over a long time before that. He just happened to take that moment to announce it. If he cheated on you and he has another girl, the best thing to do is the most painful thing...move on..don't see him and don't talk to him. He's not worth your time.\n\n I know it's so painful..I don't think there is any worse pain than a broken heart. Here's the best remedy I ever heard of for that kind of pain. The thing that can help is to "give it away."  You can replace it by helping someone, helping children, or volunteering for anything. Turn your pain into something positive like this and you'll see how quickly it goes away.\n\nNo kidding!\n\nBest Wishes!
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be yourself, and listen to your heart !! Good Luck..
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Hey boy wonder , You're so cute I am sure you won't be lonely too long . I wish you would think of me ! I am sorry just teasing you . I know it is hard for you right now , But you have to remember that you broke up with him for a reason . Keep your chin up and remember that you are a special and unique individual , You have much to offer and a lot to give the right guy who will appreciate and love you for all you are , and all that you have to offer . Call friends and go out to dinner , see a movie , start a project , or take up a hobby  , volunteer someplace that needs your special talents . The truth of the matter is , No matter what advice anyone has for you it will be hard and you ultimately have to work it out on your own . Just make sure you have a good friends shoulder to cry on or ear to bend when you need it . Best of luck to you .
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If you're going to break a fellow's heart, you might as well try to cushion the blow a little. Be kind and supportive, remember you may well be on the other side of a break up someday, and imagine how you might feel. A little kindness never hurt anyone. Having said that, make sure you're firm, don't leave any hope in his heart for a second chance. You don't want him pining.
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you cant make someone love you tell her (once )how you feel and let her think if she doesn't contact you MOVE ON TO THE NEXT GIRL if you are having trouble emotionally with the break up talk to someone you trust...maybe one of your parents or a guidance councilor and finally keep your self busy don't sit around and think it's the worst thing you wanna do
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Hi Omer Leshem,\nThink with your heart not your head.Good Luck: Blueladybug
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write down how u feel on a blank white paper..be clear of how you are feeling. when u do this, u'll know what's really bothering you.\nWrite down what makes you sad, and what makes you happy, and then focus on the one's that make u happy. most of the time, its the past that's holding one back. always remember its your present that will determine you're future, and you have to make sure being alone does not come as something that is bad...lots of things can be achieve even as you are alone, and trust me..as you write down what makes you happy, u'll realize life is worth the while\na heart can be broken, but not your dreams. rediscover it
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I believe there are positive lessons to be learned from the most heartbreaking situations, I have been there, trust me.  its not easy but you have to look at it as a learning experience, and instead of focusing on the heartbreak, focus on how much stronger you are now, for having gone thru it.  tkae what you learned from the experience close that chapter of your life and allow yourself to move on.  Take things slowly in your new relationship, allow things to unfold in a way  that is comfortable for both of you and see where it leads.  over time memories of the past will fade and wounds heal allowing you to open your heart again.  Its a painful process at times but so well worth it in the end. hope this helps!