Women or homosexual men only. What do you see in a guy? (Limited Options) Please take the time to answer. Thx.
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WOW!!! glad to see that you finally got your book published!  lol\n     to answer your question...i think i would put it in this order.  #1 being the most important:  \n(1)-manner  (2)-sex  (3)-money  (4)-looks  (5)-career  (6)-physique  (7)-penis\n\ni do find it difficult to draw a line between sex and penis, and looks and physique.  i understand your explanations, but they just seem to go together to me.  and, yes, i would like to stress personality.  i can't be with a man that i don't find funny.  he's got to be able to make me laugh!  confidence should be on your list, also.  if it was, that would be my number one!\n\nedit-you are very welcome!  good luck on getting everyone to follow directions.  half of the people on here can't even spell...lol.  well, i guess i'm sticking with that order then.  curious to know what your number one is???\n\nedit-take two-the more i think about it, the more i think that i should have switched money and looks.  i've dated some broke guys that were very attractive!  and i'm not that materialistic.  hmm...guess it's too late.  peace.
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I like a man to be tall, \nso I can wear sexy heels whenever I want and he's still taller.\nA pretty healthy body, no skinny guys!!\nReally no preference on skin color-\njust not pasty like he's been living in his mother's basement for his entire life..\nand hair is OK, \nas long as it's not a massive bush that scares me!
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Your sick....i hope you dont say what characteristics you like in a guy.\n\n\n\nAnd no i will not date an ugly guy..nor a guy for that matter....because i am not gay.....
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Do you  have a personality? I'm not trying to be an ass but my girl friend just went out with some guy who is super super nice but she said he just had no personality. No spunk. He wasn't funny, he wasn't sarcastic, he wasn't artsy, he wasn't into music, he wasn't really passionate about anything. But he was nice. What the ladies love is a funny guy, or a guy who really loves something. Animals, art, music, nature, sports...whatever. And of course it's always important to be clean and presentable. A nice guy will never win if he's got bad hygiene or smells bad. Smell good! Be talkative. Be a little more than nice. Be passionate. Don't be creepy and nothing but complimentary, that's like you're a girl's gay best friend. Just be presentable.
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First thing I notice: clothing. what you wear says a lot about who you are. generally I look for clean clothes, comfortable, perhaps buttoned shirt or polo. Jeans and their fit say a lot about a person. a person who wears jeans that expose their posterior and most of their boxers says "I'm a faux gangster tryin' to live tha thug lifestyle before mommy comes and picks me up. I have no ambition and fewer prospects." (I should mention that I'm in my early 20's, and this is still the impression I get about guys around my age) a guy who has slightly baggy pants, but shows no a** tells me "I'm relaxed and easy going overall. I'm not too conservative, but I'm decent". a well dressed man in slacks and a nice shirt says "I'm corporate. I make money and I'm doing well for myself". guys who tuck in their shirts and wear tight jeans with big belts say "I'm a dude, and I don't take S**t from women" (basically, it appears they have a stick shoved in their rectum... and who wants to date that?) guys in dirty or seriously ripped clothing says "I don't care about me, and I'll care less about you". and guys in all black with black hair and black painted nails scream "I want to suck your blood and make love to your corpse". Run!\n\nThe next thing is build. since I'm a bigger woman, a man with a small frame is not a good suit for me. I'll break them in half before anything good gets going! then again, huge muscles are kind of creepy, in my opinion. a medium build of medium height is sufficient. weight doesn't really bother me all that much. it's preferrable to be shorter than the guy, but I'd hate to be accused of being sizist. you just don't know who's a good guy until you look.\n\nNext I look at what they are doing. are they flirting with everyone? not really a good choice. their attention is easily divided. are they having a good conversation? that could be interesting. are they looking around? they're interested in what's going on, and so might be easier to approach. are they approaching me? sure, I'll give you the time of day. are they being infantile? Sorry, I'm not a pedophile. I want to be with a man! there are many more situations that can make me assess things in all kinds of ways. but the number one rule: if they are with another woman, HANDS OFF! you automatically assume he is interested in her, and poaching is not cool.\n\nThe last thing to scope is the face. look at the eyes. You really can see a lot about a person in their eyes. knitted eyebrows, small, hard eyes, round, open eyes, laugh lines, etc. all the little details in that area give clues about who you are talking to. the mouth: is it tightly set? is it smiling? scowling? laughing? frowning? going up to a moody guy is not my idea of fun.\n\nOther than that, it's a free-for-all. That's just the preliminary 2 second staredown that I give. for more permanent situations, I'd have to write a book, which I don't think many people would want to read. hope that answers your question!
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Gay, but in a masculine way.\nStraight, but in a feminine way.\n????????????????????????\nNah, he's a douchebag (gay).
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hi.i'm 17,Asian,Christian & i'm still in college.ok.i have a good friend who's a guy.i met him recently in my new college & even though we've only known each other for a few months up2 now.we have so much fun & he wants to take the same career path as mine.\n\nthe qualities i mostly look for in a guy for a great friendship are the ability to have fun & to joke around,ability to carry on a great conversation,respects me-THOSE ARE A MUST FOR ME!has to be outgoing,adventurous & should care abt me too(as a good friend)like,calls me when i'm down to cheer me up & helps me out in a situation.& something else is that i love it if a guy protects me(not overly-protective),like in a brotherly sort of way.should be somewhat of a gentleman,like open doors,offers you his seat..oh,they shouldn't also mind my bugging them,hehe(this applies only to some girls,lik me,lol)\n-my best guy-friend is exactly like that!\n\nanyway,hope i covered everything-cheers! :)
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Confidence. This shouldn't be confused with being aggressive. I don't like aggressive men. I actually prefer shy men that are confident enough to be able to feel comfortable at a party standing alone observing all of the activity. The first thing I will always notice once they open their mouth is their intelligence. It is a must! A brilliant mind is extremely sexy as is the clever wit that often accompanies it. His looks? secondary. His sexuality comes form the confidence and wit. And she's right......his eyes will tell all. :)
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no! iam thinking whats his name?is he gay? is he single? does he have a nice personality? what is his address or number? if he has a great body or sexy ass i say wow! and wonder how he looks naked. if its my personal man now hell yeah i do think of sex and even do it!
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yes, and he will vary for every woman.  You may have to look for a while, but he is out there.  Look for characteristics in guys that stand out.  For instance, if they value a family, they might take any mother joke very seriously.  If they are kind natured and gentle, look for them to treat every person they meet with respect.  Whatever things you like in a man, look for them coming out in his life when you see him.  Good luck, I hope that helped.
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You probably are...wouldn't know though......  the things I look for in a guy have nothing to do with what he looks like.....  good sense of humor, caring, generous, fun, honest......  someone i can relate to.  Good looks are just a bonus to a beautiful soul.
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I'm a guy but I am gay but what I tend to look for in a guy in 1. confidence 2. Smile 3. Generosity (not just with me but with everyone)
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D! How come the guys get to choose from decent women but us women get the bottom of the barrel to choose from? Just Kidding. I'm sure these are all really nice guys. I just thought that this would be the perfect time to come out of the closet and let the world know I would rather be GAY!\nLove & Light\nSharon
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What do I find more sexually appealing in men than in women?  Everything.  Their bodies, the way they look & feel, and it's just what comes natural (the desire to be with a man)
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OK. I'm single and not really looking because my job is nightshift and I find it hard to go out after a long shift. I'm catholic, but still believe in a woman's right to choose and in Gay civil right(figure out that one-I'm still trying). I believe in always being loyal to a friend til death and beyond. If that isn't personal enough let me know.
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Hmmm...wot do guys like in a gal? It's a li'l tricky question, I must say. Yet, I'll try to answer the best I can manage.\n\nI think, whenever a guy looks at a gal, the first thing he's gonna notice are her body, her clothes and probably the way she carries herself. And then again, if those 1st impressions pique the guy's interests, he might go up and talk. In that case, what matters, what  personally feel, is the substance in her words, the way she talks, her choice of words, how intellectual she is...and yeah, definitely how funny she is.\n\nNow, what a guy might like in a gal are obviously dependent on himself and that the criteria are definitely subjective. I think u shall just need to look out for the right signs and decipher them to realize what your guy likes about you and improvise on them!!
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The guy I'm marrying in September :)\n\nTo be more descriptive, a guy that is manly without being macho, sensitive without being a pushover, confident but not self-centered, stable and responsible.