i have someone i love very much but i don't show him, i cheated on him and we still together?
465689
You must tell him how you feel. Stop holding it in. You are going to make yourself sick. If this is a long distant relationship then you really have a problem. The problem will be you. You need structure and discipline. If you don't then it won't last.
859871
Well for one you cheated not him, does it even matter if he's cheating anymore, you already ruined the relationship, move on.
62350
Well, has he ever said he didn't love you when he cheated?? People can love someone and still cheat on them. However, just because you don't trust him, doesn't mean he is cheating. Trust is something that people have to earn, and once that trust is broken it can take years to regain, if you ever do. My concentration would be on letting go of the past. You can't battle the present if you are still fighting with the past. You have to accept that in the past he cheated, and that you chose to stay with him. This means you have to give him a fresh start. This will not be easy to do, but remember, if he is getting falsely accused or reminded of his past that eventually the past will repeat it's self. This ia a time of rediscovering the love you have for eachother, and getting to know eachother better. He also needs to be doing everything he can to make you feel secure in your marriage and in his devotion to you. If he is doing certain things that r making you feel as he is cheating, it is best to tell him that these things are bothering you. If he continues with them anyway, then you might have to look at the situation a little more closely to be sure that he is not straying on you. But, don't let jealousy and self insecurity alone ruin your marriage. Yes, I agree that alot of women have an intuition about these sort of things, but, on the other hand, sometimes it is just a jealous heart looking for something that isn't there. And, when the latter of these two is happening, perfectly good relationships end. Talk to your husband, find closure for the past, and start new. Find out what each of you want and need from the relationship on every level and enjoy loving eachother. My heart goes out to you, I know you are not in an easy situation, and you have alot of hard work ahead of you. But, if you can rediscover the love and passion that once filled your marriage it will all be worth it. Good Luck tou you.
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...
1174431
You should speak to your significant other to see what they believe is too much.  Some people have different views of what is cheating and what is not. If nothing else just ask yourself "Would I be ashamed or afraid to tell my other half what I am about to do?" Trust your gut instinct.
127026
I'm sorry but if he is constantly cheating on you then he doesn't love you. You wouldn't hurt someone u love. I am assuming that his cheating hurts u.
862863
If i were you, because this guy has cheated on his girlfriend he will also do the same to you and disregard your feelings in time to come by going off with someone else....best advice i can give you is to protect your heart.
188994
my bf cheated on my more then once and i stayed with him because i love him  but I'll never trust him the way i did again and if he cheats again I'll leave his a** alone
647431
Is it possible that you and your boyfriend have grown apart? People change and it sounds like you've both grown.. just maybe not in the same direction. The fact that you felt the need to mention that he cheated also says that you've not completely forgiven him for the offense. That you're attracted to someone else and thought about the relationship as more than just a possible friendship says that you're also ready to move on. So do yourself a favor and live life a little... on your own before making a decision about any man.
452438
Find outif he really loves you back. He might've been cheatin' ans saved you the agony of telling the truth. But if you love him tell him that you don't want it to be over, tell him thatit can be worked out if both of you are willing to commit.
229837
sweetheart, it hurts alot. i've been there. you are right in not being able to trust him. it's not always the case that there always a cheater, but it's almost foolproof. if he's done it before, why won't he do it again when he finds someone else that's more attractive to him? all you can do is wait out the pain. it hurts and it sucks, but try and move on. go out, have fun, meet new guys. you don't have to get married or anything, just go out and have fun. i hope this helps you sweetie, at least a little. if you'd like to talk to someone that's been there, you can email me. poetic_disturbulance@yahoo.com
1048170
Hiding something from you means it wasn't innocent. Apparently you found them, though, so I can only imagine the trust issues you and your boyfriend have. And this is the real problem.\n\nYou're either going to have to work out what the two of you trust the other to do and be okay with it, or you're going to have to figure out an amicable way to go your separate ways. The relationship will only go sour for both of you - if it isn't already - if you can't find a way to trust each other.\n\nBy the way, way to use your intuition - I mean it - to uncover what he was "innocently" lying about. That you would have to dig is the smaller issue. That he would hide something he knew you wouldn't find innocent is the bigger issue. Good luck.
828131
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
1068917
I couldn't and wouldn't.  I love the man I'm married to. If you love the other person...how can you betray them?  He/She may never find out...but.........you would always know. Can you look them in the eye after betraying them?  Could you live with yourself?  Would you feel the guilt?  Then maybe one day...the guilt builds up, you feel your mate deserves better than what you've given. There goes the relationship.  Besides..........."How can you REALLY be SURE you can get away with it?"    If it ruins your relationship, you didn't get away with it.  Think about it.   The grass isn't always greener on the other side. And you usually find a lot of weeds.    If the person you want to have an affair with is willing to do this knowing you're cheating....how can they trust you not to cheat on them if it were to lead to more than an affair?   Cheating is never the answer.   Be true to your man/woman.  And....be true to yourself.
379400
No. I am in a great relationship and we both believe in exclusivity. I love him too much to cheat and I think he feels the same.
458445
This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
637419
you don't love him or you wouldn't have cheated on him. You are just feeling jealous cause he wants someone else and not you. Leave the guy alone.