my mother abuses me, should i tell the police.?
468884
Go to a counsler a teacher a friend someone you can trust. Get out of there! Remember Jesus said we should love one another? Well abuse is not loving you. Find some family you can life with that are not like your parents! Please! and killing yourself..... suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem remember that!
282454
no offense but,,,tell ur mother she  can go to hell,,,it doesnt mean that coz ur only her daughter she can control ur lyf....if i were u,,,i tell my mom its a pleasure to kill a mother if she insist,,,,,,ur old enough to know wats rite or wrong......good luck.........and plz. check ur grammar,,,u gave a headache....
90738
I think you have to eventually come to grips with the fact that\n\nyour mother has mental/emotional issues and that they have\n\nnothing to do with you. You need to realize that you're caught\n\nin the middle of this insanity, and that eventually all will\n\nbe well. Ride it out, nothing you can do at the moment.\n\nYour mother does not sound well. But I can be wrong.
494630
Your mother is involved in a cult of personality.  I wonder how old you are.  You need to get away from this "man"\nbefore he turns his "purification" on you.  Please tell someone who can help you, like a real church person, or the authorities.
1111138
NO!!!!! Suicide is NEVERRRR the answer!!! Just run away and go straight to the courthouse and file a report to get her arrested!!!!!!!!! They will help you in any way that you need! The American justice system is pretty good. But what she is doing is WRONG and she'll never learn her lesson if you stick around and let her keep abusing you like that. DO SOMETHING NOW!! You can even just call 911 and they will find a way to help you or direct you to someone that can.
617678
Depending on where you live, go to the local police and report the abuser. Tell the office at your school and also depending on your age, child protective services will be called to help you. In any case, tell someone quickly.
657908
WHOOP HIS ASS AND TELL HIM TO CALL THE COPS IF HE WANTS TO,HELL GO TO JAIL FOR CHILD ABUSE,THE UNJUST BASTARD.TELL YOUR MOM OR STEP MOM YOURE TIRED OF IT AND SEE WHAT SHE SAYS,SOUNDS LIKE HE PROBABLY HITS HER TOO- DOESNT HE.SO WHIP HIS ASS FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR MOM,BROTHER AND MAINLY FOR YOUR OWN SAKE.FUCK HIM UP GOOD TOO.CRACK RIBS AND ALL THAT.
957180
You did the right thing. I am so sorry that you were put that abuse. \n\nStay on the right track; and do not allow his words of "sorry" etc let this man back into your life under any circumstance. He is unstable right now and anything could happen. \n\nAlert any and all neighbors if they should see his vehicle around to contact the police. I know that sounds bad; and you don't want your personal issues hung out on the clothes line. But you don't have to give them a reason other than he is court ordered to stay away for serious reasons. \n\nThis man should not be allowed visitiation of the children unless it is supervised either. You need to protect yourself and your children around this man. I would get that in the works as soon as possible.\n\nHopefully he will get some help and this will cease. \n\nStop feeling low about it because you're allowing this man to continue to abuse you by taking on his issues. Be proud of yourself and thankful that you are alive today! Let it go and concentrate on your future. You are strong and I am so very proud of you. \n\nGood luck to you sweetie and God Bless.
25072
You should do nothing.  My mother and I can work out our own problems together.
15737
If you feel that you can't tell your mother or talk to someone at school, maybe you should call the police.  No o9ne has the right to harm you in any way whatsoever.  Please get help ASAP.  God Bless and I will keep you in my prayers.
727061
I would call the police... she could end up hurting you , lots of weirdos in this world!
380523
I'm sorry this happened to you.  If he's been to your home, CALL THE POLICE.  Do not mess around with this.  If you live with your parents, TELL THEM RIGHT AWAY.  If you're on  your own, TELL THE POLICE.  \n\nThank you for the heads up, but please, protect yourself!
44837
If you care about her, you'd better tell the truth.  Imagine what will happen if you lie to her and then she hears it from the insurance agent what the damages were, based on the police report... that wouldn't be good for you.  Also, you just blew your best cover by posting that question here, where your mom or any of her friends can easily find out.
973989
You should call the police...unless you killed her.  In that case, call a lawyer.
166656
Notify DHS (Department of Human Services), and your local police department. They both will investigate what is going on. Only call 911 if you see abuse happening at that specific moment.
914230
If you seriously think this might happen - you need to contact the local authorities.  They won't take this situation lightly.\n\nIf she's possibly going to harm herself or others, they will investigate.\n\nWhere's her family - you should also contact them but don't wait for them to call the police.\n\nYOU need to do this NOW.
510001
You have to talk to an adult you trust.  (minister, councilor, police.)  This sounds like a very bitter divorce situation.  Your father is punishing you're mother as a punishment to you.  Depending on the child custody agreement, he could be breaking the law.  If your Mom has joint custody, and he won't let you talk/see each other than it could be considered, (still depending on the agreement) as Child abduction (kidnapping)  You must get help.  Even if you did something dumb and crazy to piss him off, this is still wrong!