Why does a boy dump a girl and then go crawling back to her later?
468831
because boys are dumb
788247
she wants you back cuz ;the other guy is not meeting her needs!!!  she is lonely thats why she is with him, she is hoping you will call so the two of you will reconcile.
397351
There are multiple sides to this question... the first most people would come out and say is that boys are mean.  But it's not always a matter of them being mean or not... a lot of times these boys do not know how to express the feelings they have for a girl, and human nature leads them to acting "mean."\nAnother side would be that the girls are just too sensitive & cry easily.\nIn both instances, you have to hear both sides of the story & get full details to fully understand why the boy made the girl cry.  In all fairness... maybe she started to cry because she did something wrong & unforgivable, that could also lead a girl to tears.\nThis question has many possible answers depending on the case.
420356
They do it because they are dumb. I just got out of a realtionship like that and he wants me back. He is a big loser all they want is sex and if you don't give it to them, they WILL cheat. I cryed so much over him...hes a loser
259214
In some cases, it can be because of emotional abandonment by the same sex parent, in others it can be because of a traumatic experience with the opposite sex, sometimes, its just because the person cares not how they get their rocks off so long as they get them off.  I'm sure there are other reasons, these are just a few I'm aware of.
486137
B/c they are in 6th grade and you're not supposed to like boys (or vice versa) at that age.  Secretly, things were all fine w/them though.
38882
Isn't it some kind of prejudice? \nI mean, you cannot say that every girl is mean to every loser that hit on them. In fact, how could the girl know that he is a looser? \nMaybe a girl who is mean to a boy - because of any cause - then she is the looser cause she didnt give it the chance to know who is really this guy.\nAnd that boy should know that everyone could have been in that position but it doesn't make HIM a looser, he would become a looser if he allows that to make him feel bad.\nYou know, is like when you look for a job, maybe that is not the rigth job for you, or maybe it is their loss!!!!!
347932
Could be because the male initiated the sex, which leads the female to feel he was the one that started it and is therefore responsible for it.
874586
He is getting back at you for what you did.  I say go and dump that sore loser because you are better than that and you deserve to be treated better you should get more than a not as much you should get a definitly and positivly.  He does not know what he's missing and when you dump him he will come crawling back to you like a sore loser.  I bet he liked you before but still not for love.
1003546
he know's he did the wrong thing by dumping you. he's probably trying to act like he is in control. and it's obvious he still likes you but won't admit it coz he's a guy and wants to act like a 'man' and 'tough' n all. all i know he wasn't thinking when he dumped you and did something very stupid. \non the other hand he is also jealous when you talk to other guys or other new guys take an interest in you.\n\nb happy ur free n single coz he lost you now ;)
678630
Guys like the idea of a chase. They like to do the chasing and they like to be chased. Maybe he wanted to see how you reacted to the situation so he could make a better assumption of your feelings for him. Guys do stupid stuff to find out what the girl is thinking in her head. You know that girls are different creatures from a different planet and their brain procedures are very differnet from men. he probably A. wantd to see if you'd say something or B. you're over analysing something stupid
250183
My question is . . . why do you care . . . you dump him for a reason.  Why do you care is she goes through the trash and take him home.\n\nI would be upset . . . I would just feel sorry for her . . . because she doesn't know what a jerk he is.
578011
Because they give you a sense of danger, you never know how he will act, or what he will do to you. Most girls live safe and secure lives, and they need that spark of life in a guy. Good guys, don't give off that vib.\nGirls may like that living on the edge feeling. If they thing they can change him, into a good guy, forget it, it won't happen. If by some small chance they do, they will dump him as quick as a wink.\nThen find another nasty dirty talking walking kind of guy, that makes their knees shake and their breathing heavy. They can feel it, deep down in their bones, and it excites them. It's like an addiction, they want it, more and more.\nWell that's what I think, And God, it's fun being dirty and nasty.
432399
Lord help the Son-of-a-B_itch that gets stuck with this girl.
444110
Let it go, he left the store with you...not her! Guys will be guys and they will ALWAYS check out other girls no matter how commited they are to you! You could dump him for it, however, your next man will just do the same thing. It is just programmed into their brains! Not much you can do about it. I am sure it was harmless!
569814
Man, this is one lady who is NOT serious. She is coming back because she was dismissed by the guy she dumped you for. If she dumped you once, who told you that she will not dump you again??\nMove on and find someone you can trust. With her, keep it at only a friendship level. \nOh, and yes, if she wants to sleep with you, do it, but do not put your heart to it.. A man is a man, hehehe...
30758
why are the girls' bodies playing such a big part in this. if you really liked them, then this would have a tiny role in the decision making. you should be ashamed for even thinking this way.