what should a girl do to keep her bf from leaving her?
458998
here's an answer NOT straight from a philosophy book...\nS.E.X.
150037
Calm down....Just cause your bf change his plans and does something else dosent mean he cheating. How can you sound more untrusting. I doubt he goes outta town without tellin you,im sure youknow why he goes. alot of times its a persons own thoughts that trigger insecure thoughts that causes striff and tension in relationships.  I have this same problem with my girl, she always thinks im cheating or doing something specfically to harm our relationship,like i wanna argue about things like that. Its ridiculous, I dont know if she wanna wardenize me or not, Itry to please her by telling her stuff but she complains I told her too late. Its not a problem cause I really like her and its not a big deal(as much) Sometimes you gotta choose your battles and deal with the good and the bad if you really like him/her if you generally know he not cheating. TRUST HIM ladylocks!!
1051540
I don't think that you can expect to "keep" your relationship in the exact same state that it is in now. Your relationship wil undergo changes being that you and your boyfriend will not be seeing each other as much. You will also be meeting tons of new people and experiencing things in life that you never have before.\nThe key to keeping your relationship healthy is communication. The more you share your feeling with your bf the better things will be between you. This way everyone is on the same page.\nRemember that you have your whole life ahead of you and that you may discover while you are away from your boyfriend that perhaps your relationship isn't what you though it was or maybe that all your needs aren't being met. So remember to keep an open heart and mind... this along with constant open communication between you two should give you the best chance if it is meant to be.
220686
Dont do anything jus continue being you, if you do things out of the ordinary then your getting the girl for being what your not and you gottah constantly live up to that and be who you arent everyday to keep that girl. Plus when we go out and try to find people you will always end up with the wrong ones, the best thing to do is to let them come to you, i am in a relationship now going on a year we've been together, took me a while to find him, but truthfully he found me, and comforted me. You will get a girl jus stop waiting and looking the girl thats for you is the one you least expect to be and wasnt evern thinking about trust me. I been there done that.
642055
Hey boy, this is my exprience about my own longterm relationship :\n\nYou should keep your girlfriend just as your friend , not as your need. If you choose the second option, when the girl leaves you, you will going to die and if you choose 1st option , you can get the better girl friend.\n\nThis is the truth. Believe it to be successful in your own relationships.\n\nHave fun.
1126153
Wake up.  You need to leave him alone until he does leave.  And another thing, how do you know he won't leave you too?  Step back and check out your situation really close before its too late.
848997
if you don't wanna lose your bf then stay away from this new guy.  if its the new guy you want then at least be decent about the whole thing and let your bf go first
468683
Do not let him!! It is something that you will remember forever so make sure that you love the guy and will never regret it. If he keeps pushing you, dump him cos he doesn't respect you. Take care
343085
No!!! Do NOT be a boyfriend stealer!! No, no, no! Bad girl! Find your own guy. Be a true friend and just walk away from that right now!
158856
You know what will happen if you continue or let him continue with this since his current gf will come to know then he will play you against her or her against you if not leave her for you which will cause heart break for her or you which will just drag this mess.Tell him hes in a relationship he should stick to it.You wouldnt want it happening if you had a boyfriend who was in love with his ex or doing what this guy is doing right?and remember that girl is innocent and shes only in with that guy since she loves him so dont hurt her.I hope everything works out.Best of luck.
260996
just keep it going..i'm away from my bf too and not likely to meet soon..don't lose touch to keep it fresh...
1104965
Well you can throw a hissy fit about him leaving and make him feel so bad that he stays but you feel guilty and he'll never know what he could've done if he would've left. Or, you can let him go and be totally supportive!! I choose choice # 2!! Letting someone go is really hard and no-one really wants to say goodbye to anyone.. especially their significant other!! Let him know how you feel about him moving but if he is going to move and you can't stop him, show him that you're the kind of girlfriend he needs in his life. A supportive and down chick!! Good luck hon!! i know how hard that is!! Remember what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger!!
104569
Cooperation from the guy is the most important thing.  You really can't do anything but scare her off, but she's going to back off if she knows he doesn't want her around.  If he doesn't want to do that, he's looking around for another one anyway and it's time to move on.  It's really immature to handle it by backing her off yourself, that's signs of a really bad relationship.  Go get a strong relationship where you don't have to worry about it.
478378
best way is to have a new bf and let him tackle this situation. guys are bulls, they fight and they decide once for all. i m ready to pretend to be ur bf, just let me know......i will kick his....
1120080
Just hug your BF everytime she comes buy she'll learn you love him SO much and to piss of.\n\nOr just hug and AND give her a bad look. :)
185929
If your bf or gf loves you then they will understand your predicament.\n\nPick what is the most important thing that will help you throughout your life and put that as a little ahead of the rest.\n\nset up a certain amount of time each day for your love life
452632
You need to loosen his leash!  It's perfectly OK for your BF to talk to other girls.  It's the actions that you need to be concerned about.