can I  get divorced on my own and save money some how?
474937
Get a divorce kit at WalMart.  As long as your divorce is mutual and you can work things out together you can file without an attorney.
1040305
pay yourself first. decide how much you want to save and pay youself in savings first then pay your bills and have whatever is left over to spend.
260676
get an attorney quick before he moves funds out and make sure you get the alimony and child support you need
599749
You gotta ride this out, my friend. Think of diamonds and gold for your wife. It will be cheaper than the alimony.
1098021
No.  You cannot.  \n\nFind yourself a divorce attorney immediately.  Also, keep in mind that you do not need your husband's consent to file for divorce.  You file and the ball gets rolling.  Sounds to me like you may need to get  a restraining order against the bum.\n\nAnyway, find yourself a lawyer quickly.  This is not something you want to be doing on your own.  If you cannot afford an attorney and must do this alone, then contact your county court and see if they have any free legal clinics on divorce.  Many counties do offer that.\n\nGood luck to you.
792921
You can file yourself.  You can find documents online.  There's also a kit you can buy a "no fault divorce kit" but that does cost money, like $35.00.\n\nYou will also have to pay to file at the courthouse.  You might talk to DHS or something in your state to find out if they have some sort of community action project that helps with these kinds of things. \n\nIf there isn't community property then it should be easier than if you share cars/house/kids etc...\n\nUnfortunately if they don't have some sort of community action thing in your state, you might be up a creek and you will have to shell out a few dollars.  It should be less than $100 though.
1046949
Yes you can you can also get emancipated I did at age 15.  You have to show the judge you can support yourself.  Its like divorcing them.  You should go to you local court house to get the ppwk
359923
I would say at $500 a month you're getting off pretty cheap.  You don't say how old you are or if you work full time or go to school.  If you went out on your own you'd have to pay rent, utilities, food, etc.  My advice would be to find a higher paying job.
78838
There aren't that many choices.  You're obviously not "married filing jointly" or "married filing separately."  \n\nIf you were divorced on Dec 31, you each file as single since that's what you are.  One of you may qualify to file as "head of household."
37408
that depends on the state you are in.  Some states have do-it-yourself divorces that all you have to do is pay the filing fees.  Other have legal aids that help you fill out the paper work and file it, again just paying the fees.  It depends on the state you live in but the best place to find out and start with is your local legal aid.
814251
In the UK you can file for your own divorce with the courts and do not have to use a lawyer. Ive been through divorce twice, it was a costly business I agree. Not planning on doing it again with my 3rd husband :) Good luck hope you can work something out.
276999
In some states if there is no common interest i.e. children or assets, you may be able to write and file your own divorce. If you state allows this, you will only have to pay the court's filing fee.
588566
Below is a link which will take you to a site provided by the courts of California for self help in divorce, separation and/or annulment. \n\nhttp://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/family/divorce/\n\nYou do not necessarily have to be re[presented by a lawyer in divorce proceeding though it is always best to seek legal counsel. Specifically if divorce is contested and there are issues regarding division of real property and assets.\n\nHope this helps!!
337141
I say quit feeling sorry for your self,get off your butt and get a job.There are no guarantees in this life except Death and Taxes. Most men aren't better off financially after a divorce especially if they have to find,rent,buy a new place to live. they also have all the other expenses to pay for; gas,electric,garbage,phone,car payment now add on 25% of his pay to pay for his children from the same pay check as before. You just want to take advantage of the system and your ex-husband. Start a Day Care Center your self. If you work out of your home the state will have to check it out. To get State funds you have to provide a monthly menu and only have the amount of children allowed  based on square feet of your home you have.
599243
It all depends on how cooperative your husband will be, if you're going for spousal support, and if children are involved (and going for child support).  So many variables to consider.  If you really think divorce is the only answer, I think the first step is to start making appointments with family law attorneys that offer free consultation.  You can sit down with 4 or 5 of them do hear different opinions and estimates on how much it would cost.  If you don't want to go though an attorney, try looking for paralegals to help you with paperwork.  You can also go to your local courthouse and ask about the procedures for filling out divorce papers and all associated fees.
196343
Have you ever heard its cheaper to keep her. Have you tried working it out b/c otherwise you are going to lose a lot of money. If you can't work it out try finding a better lawyer to help you.
27591
Yes you can. It would have to be a joint divorce, with your spouse would probably have to do the filing of the paperwork.