If your bf is rich, but not you, and he wants to break up with you, you got hurt?
460295
If you love the guy, you will definitely get hurt. But I think it's a good thing that he broke up with you because you don't deserve someone who doesn't know how to love unconditionally. Find someone that will love and accept you for who you are.
526297
Judging by the amount you used "I" and "me" in your\nquestion, it seems you are very in-tune with what\nYOU want and how a break-up would affect YOU.\n\nBut take a moment and try to look at the situation\nas seen from her eyes, as well as from your BF's eyes.\nPerhaps if you step back and look at things, you will\ndiscover just what it is she hopes to gain. And remember,\nshe may not be thinking of how her interfering would\neven affect you. She's probably only thinking of herself,\ntoo.
906879
Gosh, I would be resentful too if I were in your situation.  Afterall, he is supposed to be your equal partner, not your dependent.
254201
I think you should say that your relationship is not where you expected to go and give reasons why you don't want to be with him.  If he happens to let you go and break up, doesn't that leave you a way for you to get back together with your ex without seeming like that was the reason why you wanted to breakup?  Obviously there must be a reason why you'd much rather be with your ex than your current bf, just make sure you're not going to be getting yourself into a big mess and come out with no bf or friends at all.
775074
It sounds like he has major issues unrelated to you... but you are paying the price. You need to talk to him about this compassionately, but firmly and tell him he needs to treat you with more love and respect. You might be financially dependent on him for now, but you deserve to be treated with respect. You'll be okay if this relationship ends. Do what is right for you and be proactive... don't just sit and wait for him to figure it out. You'll only stay stuck in a bad situation.
1048513
Would you want to be with someone who did not love you back? If he used the excuse that he thought you were playing him to back of on the relationship then he is  a loser anyway! Move on with your life. You are better off!
287634
If you love him, yes. But why did you guys break up in the first place? Did he cheat on you or vise versa? Did he lie to you or vise versa? Do you guys trust each other? Really think about these things. Then decide from there.
558655
Of course. To stay with someone who loves you out of a sense of obligation is not fair to the one who loves you. No matter how much they might hurt.
190983
Your question is a little vague - his family problems or yours?  Regardless, I'd view this as a sign.  A break up during dating can cause some emotional pain, but a divorce is even more devastating, when your property can become a target, as well as time with your kids (custody battles).  You may benefit by at least keeping your options open with other guys - one who may honor the phrase "for better or for worse"...
275377
yes ,this happen to me ,my GF ,BF kept hitting on me so we set him up.  O ne night he calledTo prove it was a bootty call he was to walk down the street in boxers /carrying a briefcase wearing knee socks and dress shoes.if he wanted to get with me ."he did" my GF and I watched him walk down the street from her balcony  across the street. .He lost her/we had a laugh and we still have a strong friendship.\nGL
708476
no. your bf should of had the decency to keep you away from him without being asked to do so. im sure hes the type that thinks hes helping his friend or being loyal. but if it was my gf id of fucked my friend off a long time ago.
800258
there is no way this guy loved you for you. he's one of those guys that go from one girl to the next and don't care abount the previous' girl's feelings for him. he is a really big man-whore. he should get paid for what he does. he would make great money. His profession would be called "heartbreaker".
320637
if he's rich he has a girlfriend
30408
So what if he has money?  Aren't you being prejustice by thinking he is a "certain type of person" just because he has more money than you?  He obviously doesn't have a problem with it if he is clearly interested in getting with you.  Go on a date and find out what he is all about, besides cash.
672927
If more than one person is telling you, and these people don't have alterior motivation for wanting to break you guys up (like they have no personal reason to want to break you up), than I would say you should probobly believe them.  Of course your bf is going to say he's not cheating on you when you ask him.  You have to analyze the people that are telling you this and find out how they know and take it from there, good luck!
438996
Well its really not up to her. THe real Question is do you think you sould break up with him cause one she might be trying to help but then she might not.
222185
Yeah, of course. When you have a relationship with them and have had a lot of you know what. Then break up and she doesnt have anyone at the moment. And she needs it really bad being ra.ndy like a mad mare, even if we were still together i was like doing it myself sometimes just to see how she reacts and she was going all crazy, asking about me to even buy her a di.ldo if i dont have time :) and thats about it. They can be just as crazy as we men are, hahaha. They also need to fart and go to toilet and burp and eat. Just the same thing. Nasty, nasty hahaha.