Would you be honest and open to a person who  lies and hides things from you?
466744
For me. I trust them until they give me reason not to. After they break my trust, they have to earn it. No more free trust until it's earned.
151377
a good liar will never let you know that they are lying, unless they want you to know
990283
Someone you can trust with your deepest, darkest secret and won't pre-judge you... And loves you for just being you!!!
137101
Not if your a flake like this person is....A true pathological liar I would think....and ahhhhh very imature at best...
481511
Being lied by somebody that I care and love.
830218
Yes please! The sooner the better I say! So many times I ask myself how much hurt could be avoided if men/women were honest and up front with their intent?
888385
I think everyone has untold secrets. I wouldn't tell him unless he specifically asked.  Then I would not lie to him.  I am sure he has secrets and they should be kept that way.  Your shrink is right in saying the past is the past and has nothing to do with him.
670470
i would ask him what he is afaid of -- if he tells you the truth?- tell him if its nothing to worry about he should tell you everything -- the only reason for a person to lie, is usually because they have something that they don;t want you to find out, for lots of reasons, to protect you, to make sure you don't get mad, for fear of you getting so mad that you would leave   i say confront him and if he cant tell you the truth-- he dosn;t trust you-- thats my personal opinion  i have dealt with this before and ultimatly i left him-- I never got the truth out of him unless we faught then he told me and as allways it was never anything big- tis jsut the fact that he never respected me enough to confide in me--- i think its  a power trip- so they feel like they have some sort of control
254759
i hear u 100%-- its like if u cant tell the truth be on ur way- u want the real deal, its like it makes them feel good inside hurting others which means they got issues and someone needs 2 get them in check. i been lied 2 so many times and it suxs. for people who do that i think need 2 grew up and take a look at everything.
512126
First I would confront them about the lies and give them a chance to own up. Some people have a habit of lying because they have low self esteem. They don't mean any harm they just inadvertently cause it sometimes.\n  But if she is maliciously lying and/or trying to cover her a*s you should get rid of her. She could do more harm than good.
574521
if he initially lied to you there's a problem. put yourself in his shoes, would you have just told the truth or tried to lie? it sounds like there are some underlying issues anyway because even if he didn't have anything to hide he should've felt comfortable enough to come clean. for this reason, ditch him girlie! the only 2 reasons he can have is that either something was going on and he lied, or he wanted to not upset you in which case he should've felt comfortable enough about your relationship to tell you the truth - either way he's gotta go! good luck hun, you'll find someone better :o)
361482
Well, yes and no. I would be mad if I asked you and you wouldn't tell me because it sounds like you have something to hide and that would make me curious to see what it could be but on the other hand it is kinda invasion of privacy personally I probably have done the same thing. Sorry\nGood Luck
156425
no way, i lie all the time and nobody ever notices-a good liar will never let you know that they are lying unless they want you to know
685659
Why start you relationship off lying...
1065011
One's truth may be another's lie.
108366
well chances are, she IS lying to you.  It may not be that big of a deal, and there may be some good reasons for it (although I dont think theres ever good reasons to lie)\n\neither way, I am sure she has her reasons, if you cant bear with it, leave her.
986119
Yes my friend Honesty is very much alive in this selfish world !!\n   A bit difficult to understand this fact....i am not being hyperbolic but to tell u v all live different lives and our lives r so busy and ignorant, we are accustomed to listening to people speak  lies almost every day, yes we sometimes also do speak lies, now at this moment of time, if u meet a person who tells u the truth u always start spying on that person !!I because its all our mindsets that sets us to think that there is no honesty in this world and that no one is honest!!\nwe fail to recognize that person through observation, behavior,speech eye contact, body Language and other such aspects which show the level of honesty in that person!!\nSo ...I think its time to look around I think u should find people who are quite Honest!!