Do you think it is wise to have sex atleast once before marriage soyou can see if the person has normal parts?
465552
No. Just make them show you!
1096530
maybe you should get married first then maybe god would help you...but no you are going against god and having sex before you are married.
401321
Unfortunately, most guys tend to think of sex first in their reasoning for marriage.  This is extremely shallow, I know, but I am assuming that you are looking for a genuine answer.\n\nDepeding on the person, there are other things that they look forward to as well.  I couldn't wait to decorate for Christmas in our own house, and wake up together, and open presents by the fireplace - just the two of us.  I looked forward to creating special "her" days, where I cooked dinner, and created an itenerary of fun things to do throughout the day.  I consider myself to be somewhat of a romantic...but in all honesty, I was really looking forward to the sex, too.\n\n(Of course, I had sex for the first time on our wedding night.  The case may be different for guys who have sex before marriage.  I'm sure you'll be able to find one or two of them to get input from on this site).
401713
sex before marriage means to know ur self and what u are going to affront before u take an important step in ur life. sex is not the only thing to do before u get married. and there are things much more important to "try" and taste before u take a final decision, it's just that the world is built on weightless things in a way that we are getting lost in the needs of society instead of caring for our real needs.
438270
no.. what makes one good at sex is a creative open mind.. a willingness to try new things and experiment..  It has nothing to do with being married or not..
523388
If you are religious, it is wrong to have sex before you are married.  It is a sin, it's called fornication.
236692
wait until marriage True love waits and looks out for the best. sex before then looks out for me.
558673
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.
710474
Yes, you deffinately should save it for marriage! I don't know how religious you are, but I want you to know that I'm not a religious nut. But, God does say that we should save ourselves for marriage. B/c [and this isn't just for religious people] our bodies are meant for ONLY our husband or wife. If you have sex before marriage, then when you get married, you're body isn't completely hers. And, visa versa. I don't know if that made sense to you. Now, I'm a 16 year old girl, and a lot of times I want to do something w/ the opposite sex, but I don't b/c when I get married, I want to be completely his. I don't want to have used myself already... I would feel that I was letting him down. Let me know if that helped okay? Good luck. lol.
293629
Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
527844
Sadly, a lot of women have been duped into thinking that you must experiment with sex with your partner prior to marriage.  Of course this is false--sex follows love, not the other way around.  They then end up giving up their bodies to dozens in hoopes of finding the "right" guy when all they do is cheapen their own value thus limiting the quality of guy that they will be able to ultimately marry.
450107
i'm a spouse and i think that sex is very healthy for the marriage. And when you get married it should get better because there are no rules , you are married now and you should do more than you used to because thats you partner for life in the eyes of God. And God says that when you get married the bed is under file nobody's watching and you can get nasty and dirty as much as you want, thats the beauty of beeig married, there is no sin in it.
525305
Sex before marriage is NOT allowed before marriage if you are a Christian.(which I am) and people that are not following Gods no sex before marriage rule are not real Christians. God does NOT force us not to have sex before marriage. You CAN do what ever you want. But if you are a real Christian you will follow Gods rules. But God IS NOT forcing you to do it. but if you do you are not a real Christian. just because someone or everyone does something bad does not mean you should. hope this helps and I hope you make the right decision and follow Jesus.
520963
I'm currently on my second marriage and I wish I would have waited until I met the man I'm with now. I was a virgin with my first husband but, we did it before we were married. I chose to have sex one month before our wedding because I didn't want our wedding night to be awkward. If your 100% positive you are getting hitched like I was then I say go for it. I just wish it had been with my second husband instead of my first.
668421
as far as I know it is not considered a sin to live together according to the Bible, but it is a sin to have sex before marriage and I don't know many people who live together that don't have sex, so it is up to you to draw the line to be able to stay away from sex before marriage
226935
After Marriage.  Marital sex is a beautiful thing.  It should be more than just an act of physicality.  It is an expression of love, respect, and commitment.
336750
I grew up believing in "no sex before marriage" granted, I know most people these days dont go for that. You should at least wait til you are in a committed relationship with ONE person. I have been in 2 serious relationships. One I was married to, and the other one (who I am with now), I am engaged to. Before I was with either of them physically, I made them go to the doctor and be tested for all STD's. And waited til the tests came back before we did anything. Make sure you see the test results, dont just take their word for it. Then, of course, you still want to be protected, to prevent unwanted pregnancy.