Why is it so hard to get a boyfriend?
468014
being a swimmer helps. Girls dig guy swimmers and guys dig girl swimmers. Face however is more important then body for most guys
605239
You may be attractive but I can assure you that you are introvert who wants to make boy friend still unable to find one.
796050
I am sure there are a lot of cute boys..  just dieing  to date you, probably as much as you are anxiously wanting to be with a boy.\nTry not to be in such a hurry. The whole dating thing can be such a pain... Guard your precious heart, it will be broken many times so don't give it away to easily.\nFor now... start by doing things with small groups of friends. Keep your relationships as friends, you will learn more about your self in what you really like or do not like in a boy. Some of these lessons are so hard and can hurt so bad...\nSo again I say "guard your precious heart"\n\nOh and good luck
176251
yah thats so true and that happens with girls too you know!!\nlike yah you can't find a good guy but then all of the suddin when you actually have a boyfriend..their's a million guy trying to know you .. but if you brake up with your boyfriend you will go back to the case were their is no one...isn't that just crazy!!
972133
Hey don't feel down. I don't have a boyfriend either. Do you want a boyfriend? And do you need one badly? If so go ask a guy out that you think that he's interested in you. It's either you that's having a trouble finding a boyfriend or you are not sure if you want one. Or it's either the boys? You have to venture out more in the world if you're shy or quiet. Trying too hard can also be a problem. But either way good luck, just find out what you want.
827853
maybe its because you try too hard \ndon't fall for someone just because you can \nonce u meet the right guy you'll know
531472
why would you want someone that you have to try so hard to get anyway
841928
It just does, my friend.\nYou can't explain it. I'm sorry.\nBut I'll attempt to...\nI think that if you keep trying to look for love, it will seem so much longer and more strenuous. Looking so hard will just result in false hope.... false love.... FORCED love.... in a way. It's like you're trying to push yourself to find that one person.\nYou should just relax and have faith in God to bring you that woman. He has a plan for you.\n\nIn my case, I was friends with my boyfriend for a long time. I've gone through many jerks... but he was always there. I never looked for love. It was just so disappointing. I enjoyed life being single. Besides, I was happy not having relationship drama. I had faith in God. Little did I know, my boyfriend was right under my nose the entire time. And we plan on getting married someday. : }
499008
Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
913290
You've just gotta be patient, the perfect lady for you will notice you :)\nForcing things will just make you seem desperate, which will put ladies off.  Spending time making new friends, meeting new people and trying new things out - hopefully this will lead you to a girlfriend :)\nThe more people you meet, the higher the chance of meeting one who likes you!
289457
The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
824960
Being in a relationship takes a lot of time, effort, dedication, and commitment! Just be yourself and good things come to those who wait! Don't act so desperate! Good luck!
1127224
you don't go out and look for a boyfriend...when the right guy comes in your life, it'll happen....but take your time so you get a Good boyfriend...
276593
If guys are telling you that you're hot all the time yet you can't seem to get a boyfriend maybe other guys are intimited by your looks. They may feel like they don't look good enough to be with you, or you wouldn't give them the time of day.\nOr consider how you present yourself. Even if you are hot, alot of guys don't want to be with a girl who may come off as too flirtatious, easy or sleezy. Not saying that you are, but some guys may get that vibe from you or assume that you are just because of the way you look.\nNo matter what, I wouldn't worry about it. Rushing to get a boyfriend is rushing to get your heart broken.
271951
First off, good for you. Don't let other people pressure you into finding a boyfriend, that will only trap you in a pointless relationship. They pressure you because they feel like they're helping, it's hard to tell them all their interference makes the situation worse. Tell them, 'I will have a boyfriend when I find one I like.' If that doesn't stop them, tell them you're thinking about becoming a lesbian.
32063
You shouldn't try hard to find a guy who likes you. If a guy likes you, then he will like you for you. You don't have to pretend to be someone you think he will like, or anything like that. \n\nI didn't date until I was 16, and up until that point I had REALLY wanted a boyfriend. God gave me a boyfriend when I was ready for one. He is the most amazing person in the world. I am really glad I waited, otherwise I might have just over looked him.
1098505
Because I'm sure it's hard to find a decent boyfriend.  Narrowing it down to just muslims is making your funnel of potential dates smaller.