What should i do...I dont want to turn bi or les?
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YOU NEED GOD!!!!!!!!!
14156
First stop calling yourself Gay or Bi. Then stay away from gay people or at least from their organs. Do away with the gay mannerisms. Become who it is you want to be: A MAN! Your a man now and you want a woman to keep you warm. Go to the STRAIGHT bars. Buy a woman some drinks. Make sure she sees all that money in your wallet. If that doesn't work out, go to the next woman and so on. Think of it as training. You'll find the woman of your dreams and have fun finding her. Have fun. Be happy. Just don't be GAY! \n\nOh, and Tessa...Our sexuality is in our minds, not our genes. Because if it was in our genes, we'd find the gay gene and ERADICATE IT!
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well, if he wants walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, guess what he is???   A  duck!!  The only reason he wouldn't be bi, is if he's plain gay.....hiding behind you. Good luck!
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I would have to think about that one for a minute. OK, I have a suggestion for you. Why can't you just be you? If your mind is a male, then act male. If you want to do guy things, like work on a car, go ahead.\n\nYou would have to make that decision because no one knows how you deeply feel. Are you gay? Are you straight? Those are important questions. How old are you? Are you in therapy?\n\nYou must decide which way you want to go, where you feel the most comfortable inside yourself.
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Contemporary research proves that the vast majority of men and women are bi-sexual to one degree or another. For some of us, it is only a quick recognition of the beauty of our own gender, as you suggest, but for others it is something we could act on in an intimate way. So be at peace. You are in good company with about 80% of the human race,
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That sounds like your either Bi-Sexual or Bi-Curious babe. It's not a big deal,Hell if anything it can be more fun.I'm Bi and I love the fact that I don't have to just be with guys.I get to choose what ever I want. Trust me It's ALOT of fun.
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Ok, you are bisexual. Feelings like that totally start at that age. Trust me thats when my feelings started and its not weird at all. You are really starting to grow up and realize that you have sexual feelings and all that. I used to feel sexual towards my girlfriends in high school when I was your age. Many of them turned out to feel the same way about me. I had quite a few girlfriends in high school. Just a warning to you though: Don't make it too public that you are Bi I wouldn't really tell anyone unless you seriously trust them. I don't want to freak you out and maybe its because I live in the south but you can and probably will be threatened because of all the homophobes out there. The schools I went to were in the Bible Belt and I really didn't give a F*** who knew I was bi or les or whatever so I made out with girls all the time - but I did get threatened all the time. I really didn't care but you might not want to risk it. No one reall yhad the balls to do anything to me I guess that they were too scared lol... Have fun enjoy your life and don't let ANYONE tell you how to feel or who to love!
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A few years back I was in the exact same boat.  Now I'm openly bisexual.  \n\nI wouldn't worry about it dude.  If you're not finding any guys you want to jump, then just say you're straight.  If you find a guy you like, then go for it and see what happens.  Maybe you're bi, maybe its just a naughty fetish thing.  You're not going to know until you try it, so stop with the worrying and the drama and just see where life takes you.
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Hi there. I agree... these people answering can show more respect towards u as an individual! Man ppl... it's just a question... ANSWER IT!!! Anways, I read ur question and personally, u maybe have a tendency to lean towards bisexuality... however, since you didnt mention ur age or anything, it might be hormones. I do believe no matter your sexuality, people need to show 'respect' & 'dignity' (as these p-r-i-c-k-s didnt), you need that! It doesnt really matter on ur sexuality, I personally do not think being bi or gay is morally right, but it is a choice ppl make. I hope this helps u and i hope u find out more soon!!!
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If you are interested in this girl just play it straight. its not as if you are going to be with guys at the same time.. if you go out you will be leading a straight life... \n\ni am bi but i am in a gay relationship. i dont cross back over to the straight side of my preferences. \n\nIf you go out and finish you probably wont speak to her after so why tell her.. its only friends that need to know.. not girlfriends.\n\nTake this scenario: you go out with a guy... your not gonna go with a girl at the same time.. so you can just say your gay. Saying your bi will just make the other person be weary and paranoid about both sexes. \n\nBasically a person is gay ro straight... being bi just means you can switch when u need to
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In this situation you should probably try spending some quality time with the person sooner or later it will become totally clear of their sexuality and you never know if they are they may come out and ask you first, either that or talk to a mutual friend if there is one available, and try to get the dish on what they are into, basically the same thing you would do if you were straight, nothing really has to be different. The worst that could happen is that he says no but it is best to be true to yourself :-))!!!
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I think the whole bisexual man idea is really new to most people.  Society is more accepting of us bisexual girls.  I find you completely interesting, myself.  Keep posting and maybe you'll inspire some other guys to come out.
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Well, I'm not bi. But I do have some friends who once thought they were bi, and it turned out that they were actually gay but in denial. Follow your heart, Sweetie, and do what you need to do to discover yourself. Good luck.
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No.  In order to be bi you would have to find the same sex attractive and be attracted to them.  If you aren't then you aren't so I wouldn't worry.
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I'm not bi but you are attracted to woman but you don't want to be you a relationship with woman. Woman can't give that security that you need. And I'm sorry but woman can't do what a man can do. I think that that you're bi cause it's in right now to be bi, and the guys love woman that's bi.
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well hun its who u are u cant just shut it off believe me i tried. talk to your hubby see if he would be willing to let u see a girl. be honest with him. \n\ncongrats on being bi and admitting it.
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Stop thinking of it in terms of gay and strait. As a matter of fact forget the two terms exist at all. Then just pay attention to your emotions toward everyone around you and the answer will just kind of come to you. Thats how it was for me.