How come my boyfriend finishes earlier than me when we are having sex?
458463
He finished right on time.
1057810
If he is truly respecting you then God bless him !\nIf he is not ready to tell you if something is wrong then he is afraid of losing you .or not sure that he just loves you and not someone else also .\nOr maybe he feels 3 months is not long enough to know some one be for having sex , again God bless him . Just because you have had sex be for doesn't  mean you have sex with the next one sooner .or at all, till marriage .\nHope this helps you , be patient ,it will all be clear in time .\nLove not Lust
1010294
Its because the guy cums to fast.  Women need more time.
596893
get a pregnancy test, and next time have sex with someone who will last longer than a minute.  o and please use protection.
1177281
Is he a young man?\n\nSounds like it... I suggest working with him to increase his "ride" time.   The grab method... or some "detain" cream... or perhaps wearing a condom sometimes helps.\n\nYou must have some "sugar walls" there babe!!!  hehehe\n\nbut seriously... if this is a problem for you... as it seems it should be... work with him.   You both will enjoy it more!
958635
Masturbate before intercourse to last a bit longer...or....think of sports or a tv show while having sex...just dont tell your partner you are doing that.  Good luck!
509960
Sex usually wakes me up but puts my man to sleep.  Once I have an orgasm I want more.  So I usually play until he is up and ready to go again.  Until he is so wiped out that he can not stay away let alone perform.  Then I try to go to sleep also or go on with my day - depending on the time of day.
1122025
I used to have the exact same problem. It is because during sex, bacteria from your anus, around your vulva, and from your boyfriend's parts gets pushed up into your urethra and multiply. You can decrease your chances of getting an infection by peeing after sex (within 5 minutes or so) and making sure you both wash well every day. If you're still having problems after this, you can both wash directly before sex. Good luck I know they are not fun to have!
96262
Sounds like your boyfriend has less imagination than he thought he did. Or, he took it slow since it was your first time together. I would hope for the latter.
363261
i myself use to have this problem with my girlfriend but i figured out what to do...tell him to masturbate at least 3-4 times a week using the stop and go technique...he masturbates till he almost cums then have him put his hands behind his back till he almost goes limp then start again do that for bout 5-6 times and also his orgasm will be very powerful to him when he does let himself cum thats always a plus :).....and also bout a hour before you guys have sex have him masturbate using that technique but only a few times like 2-3 then have him cum then make sure you guys have alot of foreplay so he can get hard again and get exited and just have slow sex and he would be able to last for a long time!!!.....also if you want to make your guy to really enjoy having sex with you and it would also be a plus for you while having sex have him do the technique but be careful after about the 2nd time he stops then starts again while having sex with you he will cum very fast and very powerful because he will be so excited\n\nguareenteed he will last for at least a hour or 2 if you have him do everything i told you
280596
Fellatio meaning?  He could feel pressure to perform like he used to.  Or it just feels so good he doesn't want it to stop.  Women tend to look at it as the faster a guy combs the more he likes it.  I last longer the sexier the person.  Also he might be having a hard time reading you or you finish to quick.  I finish after I know they finished and if they do real fast the sex sucks after that because they are not as into it after that. A guy reads you before,during and after sex.  Guys can be shallow and need to know they are enjoyed to perform like a champ.:) Good luck
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If your question is about finishing too quickly when you are with a girl, there are two easy solutions.\n\nFirst wear a condom, which unless you are in a monogamous relationship with someone you know is healthy and want to have children with you should be doing anyway.\n\nThe second is to do what Adam Collrolla refers to as “taking a bullet out of the chamber.”  Give yourself a bit of that good loving a few hours before you intend to be with your girlfriend, it takes the pressure off, and makes things last longer and makes it more enjoyable for both of you.\n\nIf you are talking about something else – you will need to be more specific.
780871
Maybe its because you just aren't relaxed enough when your with your bf.  You're body isn't ready to respond because you're mind is concerned that it won't happen.  Try just closing your eyes and relaxing and tell your boyfriend to give you lots of foreplay before he goes after your sweet spot.
1110970
Because men want to have sex in every second...\nIn my relationship we both love sex or also making love. We both want to have sex in the same moment, no one of us ask about this
621522
posible reasons:\n1. you are not use to it\n2. he's *** is too big/ too long\n3. he's too rough\n4. you are not fully arouse, not wet enough\n\nTry to use intimate gel&  longer foreplay\nif problem persist, please consult doctor
107988
I assume you mean before he cums.To answer your question,there is no time limit.Every man is different.It depends on if he's a virgin,or if he's enjoy himself(he can make it take longer)if he wants to.It depends on the level of arousal and his partner.
1099677
Yep, you haven't matured in body or wisdom... There is no rush... Enjoy life before sex... Then when you are ready, enjoy life afterwards... Learn about it... Read up on different kinds... Find out what gets you both turned on and your best releases... ;)