if my girlfriend is spending all her time with a man who admits having feelings for her am i wrong 2 b jealous
461570
You are not wrong, you need to confront her about this. It's inappropriate for her to be spending all her time with another man who has feelings for her.
744687
In every case that I have saw, both men and women are jealous of each other because they are very insecure. Both should reassure the other that they do love the other. That they are not interested in anyone BUT them and MEAN it. Show them that they really do mean a lot to them. A relationship is a two way street, it is all about give and take. You don't treat the other good part of the time, you do it all the time, every chance you get. Sad but true, some people just don't ever understand how they should act toward their partner.They think just because you show them some affection here and there that is enough, wrong, show it to them all the time. Stay honest with your partner at all times, don't try to hide anything from them. You go hiding anything from them, they are going to start to wonder what else you are hiding. Jealousy is really all about being insecure.
832432
you contridict your self here continuously, your not jealous then you are then your not then you are? your girl is 14 you are 17,believe me most girls that age think it is great to be with an older boy and wont jepardise this so dont be jealous, if she is in a team then it is a bonding thing when they hug a bit like footballers when scoring a goal, dont be jealous just keep telling her you love her and look after her and make sure there is no hanky panky until she is ready and the correct age, you sound sensible however so i trust you will do this, most of all be happy, you are young and so is your girl, believe me you will probably feel like this about many more girls before your 30.
340909
If she is your girlfriend .. Why is she spending lot of times with a guy that she doesnt like? It sounds very FISHY to me. WHy cant she spend more time with you to prove u that shes not interested in this guy that she doesnt like. I think she may be hiding her feelings about him and she might felt stuck between you and him.  Plus she might know u are worried or demanded to know an answer from you . so its a cover up thing. My answer may be wrong for you to know why.. if she knows ur insecurity and so on. she would have spend more time with you to prove it. Why she needs to be with the guy that she doenst like? on what condition is that? keep ur eyes on her and see if shes really the one for you before u decide u want to marry her ..
304117
hmmm... go ahead. If you dont care about your boyfriend being jealous.
263861
Jealous is a cute thing at first then it gets old real fast. It will destroy a good relationship, the jealous person should seek help. Its an insecurity that needs to be addressed. In short it sucks.
212923
Perhaps, just perhaps, you are being a tad bit possessive and jealous. \n\nPS. I can come over and sit in the hot tub with you on Sunday?  If so, that might change his thinking on the matter.
943747
i think that is so unfair of your girlfriends mate to presume that..are you gay?i think you need to have a good chat with them both....
111479
Maybe...maybe not.  It could be neither.  We are all human beings attracted to the opposite sex whether in a relationship or not.  I think alot of times it has nothing to do with what her boyfriend has or hasn't done but everything to do with her lack of what a commitment really means.  Temptation is something we all are confronted with.  Don't be so quick to judge.
472281
Listen this is coming from a girl just like you. It's not jealousy or insecurity. It's the fact that he's your man. You feel as though you can give him everything another woman can. It's perfectly natural. Don't beat yourself up about it! Girl, if he See's you looking at another man he'll feel the same way. Trust and believe. Just remember that you got him and it doesn't matter if he talks or look at other women he's still yours!
66143
From my experience with a friend, guys feel she is cheating cause he is.  The guilt and thought that she is doing the same thing grows strong and he shows those emotions.
493403
Yes, I think she is or at least was. Any girl would be jealous of her ex dating someone right after a break up. You always thought they could only love you. A sad & cruel joke....
674147
I'm sort of confused on this question.  Who are you talking about?  Is your boyfriend for the past 12 yrs the 19 year old.  I hope not!  Who gets jealous?  The boyfriend or the 19 y/o?  You are looking for an answer to something I can't decipher.  You need to try again.
318096
she is, and of course!  its kinda surprising actually that he wouldn't want to be around you while you're having fun with girlfriends.  most likely, it is a problem with his self esteem, he is probably jealous of you\n\nif he doesn't like that aspect about you, but you feel it is an important aspect in your life, you need to seriously weigh whether staying with him is worth giving that up.
922822
Well you could spend all your time being suspicious and continue to listen to gossip and hang out with the guys that say they are doing stuff to your girl? What the Fu-------? If you love her deal with it or leave her. She could be lying, they could be lying. Bottom line is if she is cheating on you your relationship is in trouble, if she isn't cheating she will be if you are accusing her of it all the time. Tuff problem. It is all in what you want to happen with her. I can't imagine 3 guys telling you that if it wasn't true though. Do you know the guys? Or are they strangers to you and each other. If they 3 of them know each other it is possible they are fuc-ing with you, more details is what you need. \n\nWrite out the problem, pros and cons, but whatever you do figure out one way or another what you want or it will tear your heart out eventually.
1161441
feelings for someone close to you is possible.the main thing is the other person responding the same,as for your boyfriend you don't need to tell him that might make him to be jealous
18931
Wow, tough problem. I think what I'd do is have a heart to heart with the girlfriend. Maybe she really does want him to be happy with you and maybe it's him that's holding out hope for a renewed relationship with her. If that's the case, she'll need to back off, but you need to find out if that's really the way it is or not first. Good luck. I feel for you.