why do white boys love to date blacks girls?
468033
beauty is in the eye of the beholder!\n\nThere are lots of reasons why we get attracted to other people, and intercultural attraction has special considerations...\nmaybe he thinks his parents are racist, and doing it to piss them off\nmaybe he feels shame for being racist and thinking dating a hot chick will get him off the hook for saying/ thinking dumb racist crap!\nMaybe he thinks that different is sexy, and black women in his area are as different as he can find\nmaybe he just likes all women, and has met black women recenty that satisfy his needs \n\nBUT... I doubt there is any guy that likes JUST black chicks or ALL black chicks (no matter his own background)
71435
What business is it of anyone's to say who can date who? You cannot help who you fall in love with. By labeling them as "black guys" and "blonde chicks" you only put yourself out to be prejudiced. We are all human. No one should be judged by their color (skin or hair). As long as their intentions are pure who am I to say that they can or cannot date? If they are in love then I say, "Good for them and to hell with the rest." And to those who think interacial relationships are a sin. Joseph (the Bible) married a priestess of On who was black. They had two sons, Ephraim and Mannaseh, which became two of the tribes of Israel. Skin color is an adaptation to climate not an indication of quality. It allows them to withstand the radiation from the sun. If you don't believe me then look it up. Evolution occurs regardless of what anyone says and I am a creationist.
729432
I'm white but I certainly agree with you. To even have those motives, never mind say it is despicable. \nA savvy girl should easily be able to determine if a guy is in to her because of who she is, personality, interests etc.\n\nI have heard the expression "To change my luck" when speaking of dating a black girl. Run from people like that, they have no respect.\n\nThere are white guys that prefer black girls for many other reasons that are not offensive.
441654
When you discover the answer to this question, let me know..lol I don't know what the attraction is, but you're right, you do see more black and __________ (fill in the blank with any nationality) than you ever have. Maybe because racial boundaries are becoming a little less stringent and people are acutally becoming more socially tolerant to mixed relationships. I personally have never dated outside of my own race, but feel that if you want that option you should not be judged for it. I mean. you can't really help WHO you fall in love with. Peace.
1104450
I'm not conceited but I guess I'm a sexy black man.  I think white guys are hot.......I dunno why.
677215
i think maybe because ppl tend to be more attracted to what they are n what they know\n\nalthough on the other hand opisets attracts n my friend which is really white is going out with a blk girl\n\nlove isnt blk/white theres a lot of colors to it...lol
887469
I am very much attracted to other races. I like white guys. Latin guys yes oh yes I do.  But I did notice something, I have friends that would be interested in white/latin guys but they do not look at them because they're taught or they think white guys wouldn't be interested in them. I bet a lot of those girls are probably interested but were not too sure of your preferences. Maybe you should become friends with one and then ask her out if you see a black girl you like. Just keep being you.
804619
OK I am confused you say they fantasize about us 24/7 and then you say your husband dates black women are you a man married to a man or a woman married to a woman? OK it's not a matter of white women being attracted to black men it's juts today people find mates without looking at the race before many just didn't look outside their race as it was taboo. I started dating black males when i was 17 and am now 49 and have never changed. black men to me are more sensitive to a woman's emotions and needs. now it may be hard for me to judge as i never really dated white guys except when a teen but my dad and  uncles etc are all white and most of them were abusive now I'm not saying black males aren't abusive either but from past experience I would never date a white man. Of course my husband is black and we've been together except for a few years of separation for 28 years so I am not looking for anyone period. you find love where ever it is and race should never be a factor I personally just have never been attracted to white males since i started dating black men by the way they are all built the same some have large penises and some just average but they sure know how to take their time to please their woman
511767
No one will know unless you told them your a black guy lover, or they caught you in the act. lol! It's one thing to date but a lover they want know well unless to tell them.
830485
*Shrugs* Its the forbidden fruit.  Women like black guys, black guys like white women, white guys like black women, black women like white guys.\n\nIts attitude and social understanding.  I have a neice thats been pretty much disowned by the entire family simply because she keeps hanging around with black rappers who spend time in jail for doing really stupid crimes.\n\nMeanwhile, my best male friend is black and everyone likes him.\n\nAttitude, and social skills, not money and toolsize is whats important
954421
Because they know why you "try" to love their cultrue.  They would much rather you be interested in them as Individual persons not as a "group" or a "culture" or take an interest in their culture merely because they are Black and its PC to do so.  You also underestimate their ability to see your spurious and insulting attempts to pretend you like them when deep down you are still very predjudiced.  Only honesty will assuage their anger and rightful hatred of bigotry.
328301
I'm a white male that is currently in a long term relationship with a beautiful black female...I've dated both white and black and just prefer a black woman...Just some of the black woman I've seen or dated were naturally beautiful...they dont need to spend 3 hours globbing makeup on to look good. Also in my experiance a black woman knows how to treat there man better than white women. That brings up another point..I have NO idea why black men flock to white women..For all you WHITE guys take advantage of that..its the best feeling in the world to have someone that cares about you and treats you like a king..JUST MY 2 Cents ;)
140527
It is a culutural thing. I come from Africa. I see with alot of my mates over here, they love a women with a bit of baggage on her. I am white and I have never really understood it either. I cannot say for the states, cause they are far from African!!!!! I could not date a large person either. Blacks over here dig it
973810
This is a silly question...Different girls, date different guys because its their choice, color has nothing to do with it...What no white girls left for you where you live??? Try not looking at the color of ones skin, but the honesty in who they are as a person....
243290
I don't think that is the case. i think you just notice white females with black males more often the single race couples. Everyone has a prefrence, but you can't help who you fall in love with, or who you are sexually attracted to.
1040390
i agree with the guy above me....white guys are so HOT-especially italian guys anyways....black men and white women are nothing new to me...u see it all the time
635469
It's not really about being "black" for me, it's about being different from the norm, or anything I have already had.  My fantasy has never been to date a black girl however...just to sleep with one.  Not that I wouldn't date one if I were to develop those feelings.