hey what should i do my aunt had died in her sleep 2 days ago an than my uncle passed away a day after so what
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I'm very sorry for your losses. Allow yourself to grieve, even if you have to be strong for everyone else. Find someone you can talk about it with, even if they only listen. Find a friend to talk to that has lost someone and can understand how you are feeling. You could also find an online chat for people dealing with a loss. I hope things get better.
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Life is full of "what if's". We can not change yesterday, tomarrow is all we have and there will be more "what if's". Look at it this way, IF you were meant to be with M then it would have happened while you where single, not married... \nThis is your unanswered prayer and your are to wrapped up in "you" - being self center to see the bigger picture. For the simple fact that you owe J more respect than you are showing him, remove the blindfold from over your eyes, wake up & smell the coffee, child it is time you act like an adult. Grow up! Your not the first and wont be the last to miss one hih school crush. Even my 87 yr old aunt said she missed hers and wondered "what if". But at the age of 89 she died in the arms of a good man who loved her and still did for 75 yrs. Two weeks before she died they celebrated 73 yrs of marriage. Can you do that?
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My advice to people that dream about passed on loved ones is to KEEP ON DREAMING....This is the way people on the other side sometimes communicate with us.... Keep a dream journal and you can get advice from your grandma....
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yes you should. Why? when a person dies the family is going through so many emotions and everything is a fog.  They are so hurt and sad and at times don't remember who all came to see them and it's not because they are being rude, they are just so consumed with not having the loved one there anymore.  So, yes you are doing the right thing and they will be very happy to know you care.
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Express your grief and then move on.  Stop living in the past, you can not change that.  Become more aware of what is going on around you right now.
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you are a prime example of someone that cares in this world, and to the people that have missing relatives, your help is greatly appreciated!!!\nThanks
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You mourn.  You remember and cherish the good times you had with him.  You might even do something to honor his memory.  And you wait for time to heal that wound his death made in your heart.  Trust me, the healing will come.
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Ok, it was not last night but here is one : I dreamt of a dead uncle of mine. We weren't close at all and I have no sweet memories of him. He died of a cancer several years ago.\nTo tell it shortly, he put his hand on my shoulder and just said : "Everything's alright". I woke up with a strange feeling. As I told my dream to my family, someone noticed that it was his birthday ... He still "visits" my dreams sometimes but doesn't speak. Some wise man told me he may need some prayers ... I'm not a great believer so I light on candles for him ;o)
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FIRST, I WANT TO SAY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, TO LOSE SOMEONE IN SUCH A TRAGIC WAY AS URSELF, IT IS EXTREMEMLY DIFFICULT FOR ALL THOSE CLOSE TO UR BROTHER\ni feel that it could be for 2 reasons...\n(1) youre having a very difficult time with his death , as anyone would, and it may help to talk to a family member or close friend about ur brother and see if that stops the dream, or...\n(2) which i feel more stronger about...i know most people dont believe this stuff, but your brother may be trying to tell you something. my guess is if someone in the family, close to you ...or you yourself, may not be feeling well,  he may be telling you  to get checked out by a dr. IVE HAD THIS EXPERIENCE...ive also lost someone close to my in a mva, and she gave me a "spiritual message" and i wound up being very ill..i am not a religous person, and i dont go to church on sunday, however i am very sprirital.
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my best freind who just died
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sorry to hear that, my parents are still alive, i dont want to think about them dying yet. Just pray for them that their souls may rest in peace.
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I'm so sorry you've lost someone important to you.  I've been there before myself.  Tomorrow will be the first anniversary of my mother's death in a hospice.  She suffered so much before she died that it tore my heart out, but she's with her Lord and Saviour now, and happy at last.  Time will improve things for you.  It's the only thing that helped me.  Try to do things you enjoy to distract yourself from the pain.  Even that can take a great effort, but you have to keep trying. If you do, I promise you that things will get better as time moves on.  May God Bless You!
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Please know that you are in my morning prayers.  I know your pain over your losses seem unbearable, but remember that He is holding you up, and even when you don't feel Him, that is when He is closest!  It took someone else's pain to remind of that this morning and I hope and pray as you grieve your loss that you can keep that thought in your mind.  It was explained to me that we have at least forty thousand thoughts a day, and that if you can keep those thoughts positive, your body and emotion will respond.  What a man thinks in his heart, so is he, right?\n\nMay God help you thru this time, may you keep your eyes toward heaven, may God use your grandchild to bless you for years to come, and may He help you raise her in grace and gratefulness for the opportunity to serve your daughter's memory.  Father, please enable a good report from the Drs to encourage this sister in the Lord thru her trials.  May she see many blessings thru her call for prayer, strentgthen her faith and trust in You as she walks the same path we all must take for your names sake. Amen.
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Just offer you condolences and be there to talk if she needs to. Everyone deals with grief differently. \n\nyou can try flowers or a card.
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Very long and touched. It sounds like u missed your Uncle. I can see that you and ur uncle developed a good relationship. He is with you in spirit and watching u write a poem .. He is with you!
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Im sorry for your loss.  Be there for them by listening to what they have to say, crying with them and remembering memories and good times that you have had.  You of course are going to lose it at some point and do not try not to.  That's really all you can do at this point.  Pray wtih them also.  You will get thru this.
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You are using a coping mechanism right now...by reaching out to others. We cannot say the right words to you to make everything all right. You need time to process your loss and allow yourself to greive. Things will never be the same but in time it will get easier. \nAlthough this is hard for you, believe that God had a bigger plan for your relatives. I believe everyone has a plan in life and God decided that it was time for your relatives to come home. However, that is not to say you will never see them again. They will be waiting patiently for you when it is your time. \nHang in there!