Guys I need your advice!! Don't trust my boyfriends friends!!?
457165
Well, Ma'am, ask yourself a question....Do you trust your boyfriend to be sane and sober all the time?First off, a practise is certainly not always acceptable to a guy, even if his peers are also doing it...in that case, we guys would all be doing doope, smoking,drinking and in short being entirely antisocial.But we aren't,are we?Do not worry,Ma'am....even if boys drink, they do stupid things, yes...embarrasing thing,yes...but hurtful things, no.
693084
Tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate his friends "attentions".  That should cure it....
161727
Dump him.  Boyfriend not trusting means he is insecure.  It is a sign of abuse.
289193
Well, all sorts of issues going on here.  For one, were you snooping around, looking for stuff, do you not trust him, has he cheated on you before?  Basically there is a trust issue here, but i'm not on the guys side, he should also be open if he's being invited to girl's parties, and he has alot of girls numbers that you don't know?  Not a good sign.  Figure out if you guys still trust each other, if not, after 4 years, get out, do your own thing, learn to trust.
586159
Forget him and just move on to someone else. You shouldn't be with someone like that anyway. And your friend is also immature what doing what she did, are you sure she was telling the truth. I wouldn't trust her again.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
447369
Funny you asked this question.  This is a constant issue with me.  I have male friends that my boyfriend is a little jelous of but trust me, they could never replace him.  My bf has female friends that I'm not threatened by anymore, but there was a time.  As far as my boyfriend and I, I say that opposite sex friends are perfectly alright as long as the couple knows where to draw the line and the "friends" and couple know not to cross it.
1055723
I would confront him and ask him for the truth.  How long have you been together??  Do you trust him??  Do you love him enough to stay with him if it is true??  I think that the chances are if they are just friends, then they probably didnt.  Only they know and you need to trust what he says.....if you really love him.  If you dont trust him, then move on......I would also ask him why she was there in the first place.  Was it to make you jealous???
1099278
apparently he trusts them and you and probably doesn't think anything about it.   BUT, if you don't like it, go with him or tell him to stop leaving you alone with them.  I would not feel comfortable with that either.
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
336289
these aren't trust issues. YOu know that your friends will probably talk about you and tell other people your secrets. Don't hang around fake people because you'll keep things in from everyone. You have to learn how to read people, like if they are fake or not. you don't have to tell everyone anything, but if you do, make sure itz the rite person. Also, ITZ NOT YOUR FAULT, you have to learn in not being so open somehow. YOU DON'T HAVE TO TRUST EVERYONE, TRUST YOURSELF, and the PEOPLE YOU LOVE.
837782
You didn't state your age, but...\n\nSince your boyfriend has a girlfriend (you), he has been "tested and proven."  Meaning he has something going on and is dateable.  Plus, people often seem to want what they can't have.  If he hasn't shown signs of being unfaithful, then best to not worry too much about it.  It will only keep burning at you inside until you become angry and resentful.  Then your boyfriend might start taking a more serious look at these other girls.
253226
you boyfriend thinks you don't trust him.why? in this situation i think there is really nothing you can do but listen to him like when he has a problem just listen to what he has to say and tell him what you think about the situation maybe sense he is talking to you about his problems and your giving him a response he will soon trust you more
275461
First ask yourself a few questions. Does he flirt a lot with these girls? Does he dump you a lot to go out with these girls? Does he talk about them all the time? If you answered a honest no to these questions you might just need to turn off the jealously and realize your boyfriend loves you. If you answered yes then confront your boyfriend because you have a right to know if anything is going on.
70542
I have a girlfriend, and I've felt like "jumping" (lol) someone before because they're being a pain and flirting with my gf or whatever... Anyways, from personal experience I would say he DOES trust you... But that guy's intruding into your relationship so he has to "protect" that... It's kinda hard to explain but I think he does trust you, it's just natural to get jealous and want to do something about it... (not that I recommend he jumps this guy lol)
960528
I totally agree with you.  You should be able to have a friend whether they are your ex or not.  I am still friends with my high school boyfriend and I am 30 years old.  He has to understand that it is possible to be friends with an ex and be strictly friendship.  Talk with him and tell him you feel that he does not trust you.  Since he is having a problem with you going to see your friends and family it sounds like he is insecure all the way around.  Hopefully a heart to heart will reassure him.  Good Luck!