What do you do with an annoying sibling on a date?
458140
give em a toke or sip
763961
Approach her with that attitude and you can expect her to rip you a new one.  What woman isn't b!itchy when she is provoked?  And perhaps we have to be creative if we're dealing with a little Vienna Sausage (Dustin & Genius).  Next time try asking questions like, "Should I bring her roses or sun flowers on our date?"  Remember, a Black woman may be just a black girl to you, but she's somebody's daughter. Grow up, okay?
1034110
Tell him you want to meet the brother and his girlfriend first, maybe at a dinner. Or better make some plans that would have you and your boyfriend around them  most of the day on a Saturday.  That way you can get to know them better and hopefully tell if you would feel comfortable with them out of town.  But just going  away with people you don't know, sounds like trouble.
350236
HA u muppet bro!!! just dump her she is an evil cow! you know all she does is p*ss u off and annoy u, she has u round her little finger coz ur such a softy......look bro u know your a lovely lad ur polite, kind and caring get with someone who is the same not someone who treats u like s*it. trust ur big sis alright!!!! and ill catch u later for a beer!
1028382
Ohhh drama.  Well I know how "unfair" it can feel when you're the oldest - I have a younger brother and sister. They can get away with ANYTHING!!!  I had strict dating, curfew, driving (no getting into a car w/ a guy until I was 17), etc. rules.  It can still be obnoxious when I watch them do whatever they please w/o consquence - here's a great analogy:\nI'm the oldest, so I had to start breaking through all the ice b/w me and "freedom," my sister, the middle child, had to trudge through the pieces and push it out of the way...then there's my brother, the baby and the boy of the family - all he has to do is float along and do whatever his heart desires.  It's such bulls**t.  But, alas, that is life.\n\nThe 17 year old you're talking about has a point - yes, it s**ks that she wasn't allowed to date at 14...I wasn't either.  But now, my brother who is 13 gets to go out with girls to the movies (that would NEVER have been allowed in my case - and I was less of a jerk and got better grades, too).  \n\nSo, while the 17 year old is right that it's unfair, she should bring it up with her parents and not take it out on her sister.  She really needs to get over herself and stop being dramatic.  My younger sister really ticks me off sometimes - but this 14 year old doens't sound like she is evil or dating someone to maliciously spite her sister.  The 14 year old can just learn how to cope w/o her sister's advice and support b/c the 17 year old will continue having tempertantraums.
998872
I'm guessing you're a girl from your nickname and avatar. \n\nAs a guy, I can tell you that there is nothing more frustrating than a girl who just expects everything to be done for her, and I don't mean picking up the bill, which is okay, but just keeping the conversation going, and making some effort on your part, is a good thing. Asking what you asked just now shows you're one of the good ones :) \n\nIf you do some homework on your date, you can find out what he likes, and then take him to an appropriate place. Best thing is to avoid the awkward silence. Going to a museum, for example, is a place where you can start talking on many things. If that's too brainy for a date, you can go to any place you feel comfortable in, that gives you opportunities to talk(best if it's something you like to talk about). Also, make sure there is a place to eat near where you're going, we always appreciate good food. \nYou can make a good date out of walking in the park, if you manage to keep good conversation. That doesn't mean talking all the time, just keeping him concentrated, and listening. \n\nMake sure it's not something that will be interesting to him as much is it is for you - usually girls like the opera and and ballet and things like that, and most guys fall asleep in those places(if he says it's interesting, he's probably lying). A first date can be some place neutral, that he can like too.
420287
Ignore her if you don't want to tell her straight out. Works for me....
779122
Tell her not to date him!
258026
try being nice to them , have a social hour with them so they can have some fun memories with you and they will quit bein obnoxious
96964
Well since you both are shy and you both (I assume) have younger sisters you could talk about how annoying they are always trying to be just like me.  Then talk about the (I assume you have spanish) spanish homework or projects.
1036715
You need to stop and listen to him even if you don't care! To him when he gets high scores it's an accomplishment and he needs to share that so he has some self esteem. If you just bought a kickin' pair of shoes I'm sure you would want to share that with anyone within 2 feet of you! Please don't hurt his feelings by ignoring him. Someday in the future even though you don't know it yet you are going to need each other. I have seen your situation many times before. Take my advice for a happy sibling ending!
161137
umm you worded this one kinda funny but I will give it a go anyway....there are nice guys out there and u shouldnt do anything u dont want to do so dont feel compelled to put out tell them kind to take a hike...and if u mean they charge you to date them stop getting ur dates out of the phonebook....
39741
Ask her if you can move somewhere,tell her the situation. you do not have to put up with this.Don't let him know you are annoyed by him, it will only cause him to bother you more.
355523
I cetainly wouldn't tolerate anyone going thru my things, I'd call her on that one, but as far as playing the big Sister role...she just may think because you are surrounded by brothers, you may want the "sisterly" advice...once you set her straight on the privacy issue, and she continues to "snoop", THEN tell your Bro, he wouldn't want your friends going thru his stuff either....as far as the "big sister" role goes, that probably won't last too long... and she may not either, chances are if she's annoying you this much already, she's probably annoying your other brothers in some way or another as well.....
708779
it's too bad they live right down the street from you. they are hard to avoid.  if she is so obnoxious, i'm sure your fiancee knows this.  so, if he is willing to keep the family relationship going, and you want to keep your relationship with your fiancee going, i think you are going to have to just grin and bear it until you can move away from where they live.  i would tell him that you know it's his brother and sister in law, but you have a difficult time around them.  your personalities just don't seem to mesh and you don't mind seeing them occasionally, but you cannot put up with on a constant basis. let him realize you are not doing this to cause friction in the family but it's just too uncomfortable for you and you would prefer not to get so involved with them. then, it's up to him to decide - you or them.  good luck.
200981
Tell him or her they're annoying, if that don;t help dump them as ur friend.
444340
Just be forward with him.  Tell him how you feel.  The sooner the better, because if he gets the "impression" that you are intereted in him, then he'll keep nudging at you or doing "those things" that he may think that you think are cute, but what you really think are annoying.   So, just let him know up front, cut in dry.  "I dont like you that way..."