My friend loves this guy in a different country....?
457986
He needs to just tell her the truth. Not that she did in the beginning but, every person deserves the truth even if it is hard to hear.
293212
Here's the old mystical I Love Vs. In Love question again. If you Love him and Respect him, ask yourself what would be differant if you where "IN LOVE" with him? You have already stated "we are totally comfortable with each other from day 1. We laugh a lot, rarely argue, understand one another, accept one anothers faults and strengths. The sex is quite fun as well." How else would you quantify a good relationship? Then ask yourself the real tuff question, could you live in England? Are your skills that transportable? Could he live here? Are his skills that transportable?
1157824
what a coincidence... the thing is that im the one moving and i really like this boy. he's from australia. he got here about two or three years ago. i know he knows that i like him cause his friend found it out from my best friend. it really stinks that i have to move. but my family is moving to california within 3 weeks. i want to found out if he likes me too. but he is such a quite boy!!! its annoying sometimes. i want to talk to him but i dont know wht to talk about. he likes to read about wars and stuff. another thing is that he is gonna be on vacation with his family for two weeks. then by the time that he is back, i only will have one more week left!! its driving me insane...i dont even think that we could keep in touch either cause of certain circumstances.\n\nif u want to know more,click on my name and email me.
1075774
She is making a big mistake! Tell your friend she don't have a future with this kind of guy! She is strongly attracted to him and that is it. She doesn't know this guy to really love him, she is majorly infatuated!!!  He is the desperate one and she is falling for this guy's tricks and schemes. She should not waste her time with him. Tell her to look for someone who is REAL. This kind of relationship does not last!
1138207
Are either of you involved with or married to other people?  So the separate lives you mention, do they include other romantic partners?  If so, maybe she is already involved with someone? Perhaps she intends to keep the "friendship" (between the 2 of you) just a friendship, (only).  If both of you are unattached, then make arrangements to be in the same country, and declare  your feelings face to face!\n\nGood luck!
322705
He's already taken! Yes, it may seem that you guys are meant for each other but you may not know him well enough, he may love his girlfriend in a way you may not understand and what you can do is to invite him and his girl and your friend to something and you can analze how strong his relationship is with his girl. Even if it is weak, if you guys are meant for each other, he'll come to you.
271510
If this is true love, hang on to it. Dont let distince stop you. I am currently in a LDR and shes in another country completly. It could be a few months before i can see her again.... She is very impatiant, but i still get her to hang on. So you should try untill you can see him/her again.
747860
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
1141708
if he is shorter than you what's the matters? do you lik him, so it shouldn't stop you , right? if he is coming back to korea  "someday" you still have chance to stay with him(if he likes you) . as you said .. he will go back there  someday.. \n\nif you like the boy,  fight for  him
145790
Dear Nanis,it would seem your friend is suffering from love lost in the past,or making an excuse to not get close to you.Love is an outgoing concern for the one loved GREATER than concern for self.And it is unfair of him to judge YOU as if you are going to hurt him too! In the meantime,still talk with him,be kind to him,and listen to him IF he returns the same thing.Otherwise it was not meant to be.I loved a girl once,and kept after her a whole year--but she simply did not love me.So decide with your HEAD what is best...the heart is a very deceptive emotional organ...you have to see 5 to 10 years down the road--guard your heart--YOU are worth loving,not being kept at arm's lentgh.
102024
hey talk to him tell him how u feel and just wait and see what happens. far away romances can be so hard. believe it or not some people actually make it happen if they are true to one another.good luck and god bless
112729
I can understand where ur comin from... 2 yrs i found the perfect guy for me an i let him slip away an i regret it to this day even tho i have a boyfrien that i love very much... ive tried many ways to find him an havent had any luck... If u kno how to reach him let him kno how u feel... Tell him u wanna be wit him an ask him how he feels about u... If the feelins r mutual then gone head an do yo thang!!! :-D
587727
Tell him! Most long distance relationships don't work out anyway.
1130567
Hi, as per my view, dating is not depend upon countries. Dating is just a feelings of friendship and trust. If you have feelings for him and trust him, Go ahed . Take care !
329159
Run and never look back.I have three kids with this guy and he does nothing for my kids and he's in the same town, what do you think a guy would do living in another country? unless you are financially stable enough and your prepared to raise this baby by yourself then don't do it.
891228
One should only worry when the other is out of there species.\n\nBut seriously, if you hide your feelings for him because he has different heritage/culture you are not really any better than the people that make fun of him.  It is so sweet to be liked back by someone that you also like.  There will always be an idiot making dumb comment or staring like a fool, but if you look into his eyes you two  will only see each other. Be strong girl.
912295
I think that is sweet...I think he loves you just like he said...but I think he is watching out for your feelings...a long distance relationship can be hard...Maybe he is also scared cause he just put his heart on his sleeve for you and that is a hard thing for a guy to do...Did you tell him you loved him?...maybe he is afraid that you don't share the same feelings for him?...Think about you feel for him...talk to him and tell him...and if you do have the same feelings for him and you think you can handle a long distance relationship...then tell him...otherwise, be careful...he told you what he feels...and I don't think he wants to lose you as friend...hope this helped some...good luck to you :)