what if my bf in net will reject me if i'll tell him the truth bout the accident i got in my hands got burn..
466221
in that case : Good riddance.\n\nhe is not worth keeping.
476873
well you know hes going to be hurt. honesty is the best policy. maybe bring up the fact that things are not working out, make him understand what the problem is and why is accuring. someones going to be hurt. its somthing that needs to be accepted.
1146101
Please don't use the its not you its me line. It is one of the most hurtful things a guy can hear because he knows it is not true. You should explain your feelings to him. You don't have to be excessively nice or mean just tell him the truth.
409712
Well if you were dared to it would not matter. You just tell him the truth and maybe he will respect you for that. Most guys respect if you tell them the truth. Who knows he just might forgive you and stay with you.
688857
Being honest about your feelings you should keep it straight forward and to the point knowing that you have done this will make you feel alot less guilty about hurting his feelings
62126
your asking him to read your mind , guys are'nt good at that. We think more anaylitcal, 1+1=2 that type of thing.  he did'nt even know he hurt your feelings, if he did find out he hurt your feelings i'm sure he would be very sorry, unless he's a jerk or not your friend. give him the benifit of the doubt
144820
u messed up!anyway u have to agree that u were on the wrong.and tell him how u feel,(truly feel) the truth matters now.and if u dont say what u feel u will regreat.so in other words just say the truth,what comes out from ur heart then let him take it the way he wants to take it.but u messed up and do u think if u were done for  the some thing u would want that person back to ur life.i dont think so coz the person will repect the same thing or in a different way.dont have ur hopes up.pray and let it be.
298068
The 1st mistake you did was to tell him you liked him. Now he will just take advantage of you. Don't put yourself up to be hurt you know better than that. Forget about this guy before he realizes that he has a hold on you
1046465
You just have to tell him. Yes there will be hurt feelings, but if you don't do anything about it, it will turn out worse.
623547
be firm and dont waiver. stand your ground, do not return phone calls, do not "go out with him"
370169
Yes.  It is best to admit to it or you will regret it even more later, especially if someone gets hurt and finds out it was you.  Be honest
944521
It sounds like in some way he feels that you rejected him.  Maybe it has something to do with you not knowing he got hit by the car. A lot of guys respond like this when they are rejected by girls they like especially if they'd been friends for a long time.\n\nThe other however less likely thing that could have happened is that he did something that he knows if you would ever find out about that you would not approve of it.  Maybe he feels that if he would be close to you, you would eventually find out about it and get really upset and reject him.  So instead he rejected you first.  It sounds kind of wierd but we guys do a lot of wierd things when it has to do with girls we like.\n\nThe bottom line is guys above anything else do not like to be rejected.  Many guys will do anything to not feel rejected by the people they care about even if it means to hurt the people they care about.  It doesn't make much sense but it is the truth.\n\nI hope some of this helps and I'm really sorry about the lost friendship.  Guys love hard but their hearts break hard.
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
772115
Have you told him. Chances are he will let you down easy and that will give you the closure you need to move on
302416
Depending upon the lie, if it's something that effects you directly in a hurtful way, confront the sob... if not, I wouldn't mention it at all but just remember, you can't trust him.
146683
It is hard when you are not ready to accept a negative response. Afraid of being rejected. But it is in trying to find out the truth behind your question if he love you. But if you truly love him, just tell him that you love him. You might be surprised of his rewarding reply, than not telling the words and regret later on. Just say "I LOVE YOU".
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i think u should tell the person or if ur afraid send him a leter or note with sumone and tell them how u fell and c how they react