The BULLY what to do?
457816
report it get a lawyer or union official stand up for your rights and dont back down get a new job too good luck
762273
well i was bullid once im in 8th grade and what i did was when the girl made fun of me i ended up hitting her in the face i broke her nose and really messed her up. But i will proudly admit i whent about it all the wrong way. What you should do is just forget about what the person is saying. if she/he is making fun of you there scared of you or see you as some sorce of power so they will do what ever they can to keep you down and make you think your not a strong person. its all part of there plan and when they see your not botherd with it and you just forget about them they loose the power they have over you. dont let the person get the best of you and do what i did. your much stronger that they think you are you just need to show that to them. i hope everything goes good for you.   :) good luck.
371848
The general advice given out is don't suffer in silence.\n\nThe best thing you can do is to tell someone who can do something about it. Bullying needs to be stopped at the earliest possible point. \n\nCheck out http://www.bullying.co.uk/children/pupil_advice.htm for some practical advice on how to stop the bullying.\n\nPlease remember that you are not alone.
707909
Yo!  I'm Jennah. I'm 13 just like you and I'm a middle class rebel Punk/Prep*but then again I REBEL AGAINST Preps*(in the way of cliques in my 8th Grade Class.\n1.)Kids have been known to die in the vile sense that your telling so I suggest if anything buff up and just threaten him.  Usually bullies are so bug that they scare people for no reason and the bigger they are the harder they fall in every aspect.  So Get him riled up but not toooooo riled up!\n2.)You probably would want to try this first before you try #1\n3.)NO NO NO AND NO!!!!  WORST POSSIBLE THING FOR YOUR REPUTATION!  MY BEST FRIEND IN 6TH GRADE WAS A KNARK AND HIS REPUTATION FELL APART!  HE WENT FROM HIS MIDDLE CLASS TO LOSER IN SECONDS THE NEXT TIME HE ENTERED A CLASSROOM!  HE WAS PICKED ON AND GIVEN THE NAME TATTLER COCK!!! DON'T TELL A TEACHER!!!!!!!  THIS GUY WILL DRIVE YOU INSANE WITH THE KNARKING INSULTS!!!!!!\n4.)Probably the best choice hold off until the end of the school day come home and talk to me about it.  Evilcreampuff_13@hotmail.com
946777
I am a teen and I have known people who have gotten bullied and my advice to them was to tell the guidance counselor and if they don't help (which is most of the time) then fight back because they are the ones responsible when you tell them.
331938
If you're being bullied, you need to talk to your parents or teachers and get it stopped. You shouldn't have to go through that.
219792
Depending on the atmosphere and administration at your school, there's a good chance the counselor, vice principal, or principal can "do something" about the harrassment thing.  She (or one of her friends) should just tell the truth, and shouldn't be afraid to go back to the counselor or principal if it continues.  Nobody should have to put up with that.\n\nFrom the perspective of the person being picked on, if this person shows they are hurt or can't face the people picking on her, the jerks will keep being jerks.  But if she can turn straight to them, look them square in the eye, and calmly say "go pick on somebody else", and then calmly walk away - it should help.\n\nAs for talking to her... that's easy.  She should be just like talking to anyone else.  I'll guarantee she just wants to have a normal conversation with a normal person.  The guy just says hi, and talks about whatever he wants to.  Just like getting to know anybody else, the first conversation doesn't have to be any more than a couple seconds.
813133
Bullies need to be identified and isolated from the rest of the school population for an extended period of time.  If after a set period of time there is no improvement in attitude or behaviour of the bully, then he/she should be transfered to a learning facility that offers counseling and education at a deeper level than what is offered at public schools.  Bullying is not acceptable behaviour.
1032564
You would need a support network. Tell as many people as you can that someone is bullying you and you need help.  Name the bully.  If you are a kid tell as many adults as possible. ONe adult may do nothing.  Name the bully.  A bully is generally a coward and will be afraid of a group of people that confront him or her and tell them in no uncertain terms that they will not be tolerated.  Don't go anywhere alone and make a friend that doesn';t take crap and is larger and stronger than the bully.  Take a digital camara photo of the person or persons ...like a mug shot and hang it up all over school or work and it should say on it ...Danger if you see this Bully ..Do not approach.  Or wanted Bully...Do not approach Danerous bully.  If a bully is know to the community and suffers public humiliation then they have too many witnesses to carry on with their sadistic ritual of bullying other , weaker individuals who have done nothing wrong, and don't deserve this kind of treatment and it has been proven that the individual that is being bullied is usually a more intelligent or in some way superior individual. Arm yourself with knowledge. There is an infinite amount of literature in the library on the psychology of bullying. Know your adversary.  Take martial arts .  Be very very confident and don't let your weakness show externally but be brave.  When you talk to the bully talk in a loud firm confident voice and show no fear.  Remember a bully is the ultimate coward.  Good luck
119806
slash the b*tches tires away from school....and have an airtight alibi...good luck ... and u can screw that kill her wit kindness sh*t that never worked for me....but u can kill her by sending pics of u n this guy together.......just to further piss her off lol im so mean i love it...lol
618185
being a bully is one thing. Harassment is another. If he has crossed that line then you have a duty to report his inappropriate behavior to management.  If he's just giving you a hard time try your best to ignore the pinhead. Then.....Fire his butt as soon as you get the chance
286297
if this really bothers u, transfer her to the other school.  u cant really blame the principal for bullies but if she didnt do anything about it then u can report her to the department fo education.  but u can always try to talking to her again.
685485
"A girl is being bullied by my best mate..."  By "best mate" I assume you mean your boyfriend.  Is he picking on someone weaker and more sensitive than he?  If so, what does that say about his character?  Is the girl a belligerant bully herself and he's trying to put her in his place?  If so, do you have an attraction to bullies, male or female?\n\nThe issues here are 1) your right to choose your own friends; 2) being considerate of people's feelings.\n\nDo you genuinely like this girl for herself?  Do you feel a motherly or sisterly need to protect her?  Are you trying to redeem her or change her or help her grow up or cope?\n\nThink about this.  You might talk to your "best mate" and tell him that you retain the right to choose your own friends, but you want to know if he has genuine concerns about this girl and if she is safe for you.  If he's making fun of her purely for his own enjoyment, tell him you don't like such behavior and you want him to stop.  If he won't stop, forget him and dump him.  The boy who bullies others will also bully you.\n\nIf you decide you want to pursue a friendship with this girl--and if she is a safe person--I suppose you know what to do: talk to her in the hallway, join her in the cafeteria, call her on the phone, and all that. If she responds well to you, wonderful!  \n\nWhatever you decide, keep developing your backbone and your heart and your brain, and I hope you have good friends and good mates!\n\nP.S.  If your "best mate" is your best female friend, my advice is basically the same--although I would have a tiny bit of sympathy for your "best mate's" jealousy.  But don't let her jealousy rule you.\n\nRead the book "Blubber" by Judy Blume.
138110
You should report this person and make sure they're expelled...make a stand and show that you're not afraid...but try not to get into a fight if you can help it
544482
Bullies are all cowards. They use the threat of physical force to intimidate. When you can keep that threat from affecting your thoughts and actions, you have beaten the bully. Fire back and give him a piece of your mind. He's not going to sucker punch you in front of other witnesses. He will try to get you to hit him first, so he can kick your ass. He will ask you if you wanna fight. He will ask you if you are afraid to fight. Don't play that game. Just keep offering your sypathy that he has to pick on others to compensate for his small penis. :)\nIf he pushes you, then ask what's wrong with him and why he's such a loser. :)
38029
Immediately, get your story straight, and report this to your teachers.  Also, get a hall pass to visit your counselor, so you can report it there.\n\nDon't try to take this matter into your own hands.  Let the professionals handle it.  Don't tell them how to do it.  Simply report the matter, and let them do what they are legally allowed and obligated to do.\n\nAdministrators, Counselors, and Teachers have a variety of tactics/ strategies they are allowed to use to work with this type problem.  Understand, however, they must work with the interst of all students in mind, even the bully.  Please, as I said earlier, let the professionals do their job.  You keep your mind on your schooling.
1169392
That is a no win situation.   No matter what you do, you are not going to come out ahead.   A bully doesn't listen to reasoning.  Assertiveness doesn't work on a bully boss.   I would advise you to quit that job and go somewhere where you may be respected.