What are some things to consider asking for in a divorce?
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-Make him file and pay your attorney's fees.\n-Child support until the kids are out of college.\n-He pays health insurance coverage for the kids, even after he leaves the Guard.\n-You continue to be the beneficiary on any and all current life insurance policies, even after he remarries.\n-1/2 his pension, even after he remarries.\n-The house.  Even is you can't afford to stay there forever, you can sell it, retain the equity yourself and buy something more affordable.\n-Alimony.  You're going to need it to make the mortgage payment and pay for upkeep of the house.\n-The most valuable automobile you own.
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Wow, 20 years! Counseling is definitely the first line of defense! If you are willing to try one last thing before ending the relationship, please try counseling with a licensed counselor. It seems like the easy way out now but believe me, the hurt and destruction divorce causes makes losers of everyone involved.
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Find an attorney.\n\nIf it's a simple divorce with no division of property, alimony or custody/child support issues, you can find forms on the internet and file yourself.  This option requires a lot more work on your part but it's cheaper.
1007173
Yes, in most states only one party needs to desire a separation/divorce, generally based upon irreconsilable differences.  If you have children you might want to consider counseling first and do what you can to keep your marriage for the sake of the children.  If this is not possible, you may very well have a quite complicated situation Good Luck.
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Try this:\n\nhttp://www.onlinedivorcepapers.com/divorce.html
1016719
Get a divorce kit at Walmart and follow the instructions.  As long as he doesn't contest anything it will cost you very little.
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Ask a local church for counseling and to be saved, that way, if he kills you, at least you'll have saved and can reload from the last checkpoint.\n\n\nSearch answers.google.com for the keyword "divorce". THis place is full of f*cking kids.
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Depends on a lot of things.  I would really need to know more about your situation.  Are your parents getting a divorce?  How much do you know about the details of why?  Do you have brothers or sisters?  If you need someone to help you think this through, I'll be happy to point out some things to consider.\n\nWhat I will say for now is that it is unfair for your parents to put you in this situation.  This is something that the family should discuss, where a solution that best meets everyone's needs is agreed upon.    \n\nIn most cases, just like in nature, a mother is never going to be able to part with their child and it would break her heart.
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get a lawyer and begin divorce procedings.
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HOW TO FIND A DIVORCE ATTY IN SO CAL:\n\n1. Swing a dead cat.\n\n2. While walking down the street, pretend to fall and hurt yourself. Wait 10 seconds. An attorney will be there.\n\n3. While at Starbucks, whisper quietly to your girlfriend, "I'm getting a divorce and I need a lawyer." At least two will sit down with you.\n\n4. Go downtown and peek into a dark alley. The guy in the suit you see getting "serviced" by a young man will be a good lawyer.\n\n5. Pop into a seedy looking massage parlor, the man getting the "full release" massage will be a great lawyer. If you hear another man arguing about the quality and price of his "full service" massage, hire him at once, as he will be an awesome attorney.
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What is the reason you want the divorce? Of course if its something that was morally wrong that cause for a divorce but if not maybe you guys can work it out.  But the part about not having $ for it is..... you'll have to search for Legal Services-a Pro Ce Clinic. They'll show you how to feel out everything and once you go to the courts depending on your income they may or may waive the fee.  I went through this almost six months ago and hey it'll be final in a month. Nothing was spent out of pocket.
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yeah .. sounds like you're ready ... \n\nYou might need some time to save up some $$$ of your own ( if possible )\n\nStart looking for a divorce lawyer ( I would highly recommend one if you have any kids, property, equity, loans, ... etc.... with him )
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Talk to your divorce attorney.  It is a simple matter of filing the paperwork.
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Ask your lawyer. It all depends on the situation with the trust and the conditions of your divorce.
200225
If you are considering another relationship with her then maybe marriage counselling would be a first step.  If you can get through that then I might consider trying again but obviously there were serious issues that warranted the divorce to begin with.
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Well, I will first off give my opinion. I have helped a few female friends with divorce. For either party to try and take more then they actually deserve is complete and total BS. People tend to try and screw people over for some sort of revenge. Fact is, you both are going to be happier apart so how can you put a price on your happiness? \nAs for as legally... If the seperating is one that was done legally then nothing from that point on can be divided up. If it wasn't then everything is in the open for attack. However, if you've been seperated for that long... Why in the world would you want to take things that you truly know deep down you have no right to take. I say, you split whatever it was that you two aquired while you were together. That is up to the seperation. After that you dont really have a right to anything else. Do you feel he has a right to your things since the seperation. If so then everything on both sides should be split down the middle. If you cant come to some kind of agreement... All assets should be sold, money made should go to pay off debt collected as a couple and whatever is left if anything should be split evenly.
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Stay together for the kids.\n\nPrepare for your divorce the day the last child graduates from college. Whether you want a divorce or not, she is going to want one.\n\nGet some on the side, while waiting for the divorce. Just be certain to cover your tracks for your time. Only use money that she does know about.  \n\nI have been there and done that.\n\nCounselors are a dime a dozen. You will know within five minutes whose side the counselor is on. Personally, it was a waste of $1,000 for her and me.