my husband is younger than me...do u think we should be together?
464275
Age doesn't matter, as long as there is love.\nI'm dating a girl 19 years younger than myself now.\n\nHe will stay loyal to you if you both are really in love.
579356
i know what ur goin through, i'l be married 4 years this july we have nothin in common ,no communication,when we go out for a drive we dont talk.we even sleep in seperate beds .i'v been with him since i was 18 years old now i'm 31 .but i got 2 wonderful kids which are my world. i just want you to know ur not alone.....
262146
Hey, me n my wife r 8 years apart. It is no biggie. If you are younger than 18 , then yes its a problem. If you are, then i suggest you wait. If not, then go with your heart and enjoy someone who loves you.
391839
Yes you should. Wait a few years and be very careful. Help him mature as well by doing non-sexual adult things.
1168207
My husband and I are few months apart age wise and he is the older, we met at university and I believe it was love at first sight, even if we didn't realize it immediately, We married within two years of graduating and that was 14 years ago, we are still in love, so from my experience, being in love and marrying someone my own age has been a successful venture.\n\nI do disagree with sweety in saying that age gap with the man being at least 3 to 4 years  older creates respect. What creates respect is mutual understanding, love, trust, taking care of the duties of marriage as dictated by God etc, it has nothing to do with the age of the husband.\nIf your man treats you like his queen like my  husband does with me, you can't but want to care for and respect him because that is what he deserves.
87756
Look for others close to your age.Perhaps he doesn't want to get into trouble for dating someone really younger than him. If you get older it won't matter so much. However, now is not the right time.
83925
Honey, as long as this guy is nice to you, understands about the difficulties such age differences mean, and is basically a good guy then date him, have fun, but don't let him press you to do things you don't want to. I married a man older then myself and have been very happy. It takes longer for men to mature then women so really he is basically your age right about now. So the real question is do you want to date some one who is the same age as you? lol
37132
That all depends on you. Do you love him enough to wait for him to grow up? Unfortunately, some men never grow up--especially if they were not even there when their own child was born (unless there was a good excuse). I can't say for sure about your husband. Only you deep down know if he is worth waiting for. On one hand, you did take vows and you do have a son together. On the other hand, he cheated on you (gut feelings are almost always right), and he doesn't even see his own child. You technically shouldn't be seeing others while you are still married but if this person gives you the support you need then I don't see why you shouldn't. Do what you think...and I mean REALLY think would be the best for you and your son. Good Luck.
1117798
Age should not matter in my opinion...Just as long as you truly love each other,you should push everything aside and know that you're meant to be.
1185473
Well, do you love him? You have had a child together so you have to think of the kid too.. But do not stay for only that reason.\n\nI do not think the age is the problem, I think maybe you feel like you might have gotten with him for a father figure, I am going to guess and say that I bet someone told you that..\n\nIf you love him hun, marry and have a wonderful life.. If you are not sure, then do not marry him...And if you do not love him, then you really should move on and find someone you love and who loves and adores you.. We all deserve that!
911392
I think that you should get married if you really love him and you want to be with him for the rest of your life and the military life is hard but if your strong enough you can get through it. I'm 20 too and I'm married to someone in the military and it did not matter that I was only 19 when I got married. I know who I wanted to be with it and there was no point in me waiting until I was older.
470619
Well...unless you are a child, I don't see that age should matter. My husband is 8 years older than I am, and we couldn't be any happier than we are now. No one, and that includes friends and family around us think that the age difference is a problem.
575395
as long as she doesn't think you're too old, then no.  When my husband and I met, I was 18 and he was almost 27.  At the time I was impressed with how much more mature he was than the guys my own age.
1014025
I like the one before me but that does not always work if this is something that is really important for his life. then if you have kids ask him does he plan on being around when the get out of school or when they have kids I wish I had pushed harder on my husband he might be a live today if I had pushed  a little bit more.better yet show him this and let him read the answers
366747
Yes, you're like me and I married a younger man too.  But the age thing we've learned to make a joke of now - we were 29 and 31 when we met, so perhaps age has something to do with the way we handled it.\n\nI still refer to him as my toy boy sometimes, and tell him ke's got to keep fit in order to push me round in my wheelchair.\n\nGirls mature faster than boys, and I just think he has a little catching up to do.  But don't tell him that, whatever you do! ;-)
925141
Under the right circumstance, the age part would be okay.  But since you are asking, it sounds like you are not sure, and that is definitely not a time to get married!  At 18 and 20, probably neither of you are able to support a household.  If a baby came along, how would you manage?  \n\nIf you love each other, respect each other enough to do this right.  Both of you should get an education first, or at least be well on your way in a career that has a future.  You will know in your heart when the time is right.
544422
I was married when I was 16 and he was 18.  That was 21 years ago.  We are even happier and more in love now than when we were married.  We are each others best friend and ALWAYS make time for the other no matter what.  Communication is definately a must. You can't expect the other to know what is on your mind.  Neither of you are mind readers. ALWAYS respect each other.  Our rule is whoever gets whatever whenever.  Sometimes you need to just spice things up.  It has worked well even with having five kids from 17 down to 4 year old twins!  To really make sure it will last forever...add God and it will!