Sex is becoming really hard to deal with.?
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Believe it or not his age or if he is sexually attracted to you could have absolutely nothing to do with it.  If he recently took any medicine I mean anything, that can have an effect on it and make is erection not last as long.  He also could unconsiously be having some issues.  If a man feels insecure or any sort of problem then they can experience other issues.  Believe it or not women and men both can have problems like this.  The environment you are in, the stress of your day, little things can make a man lose his erection or a women to not remain moist.  See I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 33.  He has that problem sometimes, and I know you may think it is because he is older.  But little things like a stomach ache can influence his performance, if he is tired it can alter it, if we have sex a lot in one day it can just be that one time, and then 20 minutes later he can be fine.  But if you make it a big deal, that can also be a problem, because if he feels insecure about the fact that it even happened the first time, that could be the problem.  If he felt insecure the first time, everytime there after he could be thinking about how he hopes it doesn't happen and then it might happen just because he is thinking about it.  I would just try to work on keeping him going through 4 play first, then once he seems to be completely into it then try sex, but if he goes to lose his erection go right back to 4 play and try to keep him hard, don't just stop because that could make him more insecure.
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How about seeing a doctor together and maybe getting a referral to a sex therapist.  There may be some medical solutions.  Even if there isn't, there are a whole host of things that a sex therapist can open up your mind to, that could help bring the spice back into your sex life.  \n\nYou are a very honest person and obviously love your husband.  So, try reaching out with the same question to a professional physician or psychologist who can get you back on the same path together.
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massage and bribary,,,,, hot bath, long massage, all over, and ask if its ok to touch paticular parts,,,,dont be pushy, and if you need to have sex that bad with her, go to the bathroom and mastu_rbate on ya own, 1st, this might calm you down and she`ll not feel so pressured to give in, time will tell, dont talk about it for days to her, is it just her you want or just sex with her...... she will give in, but be paitent,,,,,,talk to her about her fears, and both go to the library for books and advise, or go to a family planning center for leaflets... just except its hers to give,,,not yours to take.
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WHEN HE DONT WANT TO AVE SEX NO MORE
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Communicate is the best aphrodisiac, I had this problem too. wasn't very interested in sex. I just had lot's on my mind and issues. but once we were able to communicate honestly (so I thought), things got really great.   best sex ever.
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Don't give up. There are books out there to help you. Research the internet and look under sexual relationships. Good luck. I'm sorry, but further info would be too graphic.
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Walking and sex worked for me.  Unfortunately, sometimes you will stay at that point for a couple of weeks.  Don't worry...it'll come...promise!  :)
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Information, education and counselling. Its a huge problem so it requires a huge response which is not forthcoming. But still many things are being done to imform people and i think a large proportion of ppl already knw how to save themselves from it. But since Sex is often hard to resist and condoms are difficult to arrange in the heat of the moment, temptation overrides the desire
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It is ectremely hard, but you will have to get your mind off of sex, and busy yourself with other distractions.
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Don't struggle too much in taking the sex life to a higher level. Act naturally and you and your guy will grow together, experimenting and learning and understanding each other. There are no laid down shortcuts to "put you over the edge".
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Change posistions. Try you on top so you can control how deep he goes in. If he is thrusting to hard you need to talk to him. Men would rather you tell them if you need something different then for you to avoid sex becuase they are hurting you.
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It's probally just a phase, maybe she's overwhelmed with other things right now.  Try going back to the basics and romance her like you did in the beginning I bet she'll go crazy! Oh my situation is kinda similar....try with holding sex from her for awhile but you have to act completly uninterested and I bet you will see a tiger come out possible more so than when you first met!! Good Luck
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Sheesh!\nYou need to abstain from sex if it is draining the life force out of you.\nYou've got to stop enjoying yourself so much and start navigating this hell we call our lives. \nSmarten up and get happy, damnit!
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Try looking in a sex manual...
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go to a different gynecologist. the doctor you have now isn't taking your problem seriously, and that is deplorable. change doctors. ask female co-workers and friends which gynecologists they go to, and make an appointment soon. no one needs to suffer during lovemaking.
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you could try this website..\n\nwww.themarriagebed.com\n\nhope it gets better...
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Depression and devastation can cause hindrance sexually and easily causes one to be less sexual. You may want to talk to someone professional, like a therapist, because I think it could be mentally linked.