i'v got this boyfriend hes sweet but he lives so far away that i only see him once every 6 months (if im lucky
458021
i had that problem before i accually am going through the sane thing right now but have found  as long as theres is mutual love and trust in the relationship it will work for a long time i have had a relationship where i only saw my girlfirend onnce every six months as well and we stayed toghether for three yrs and then she moved and we lost touch but if you really love him and trust him stay with it. otherwise talk to him and ask him what he thinks would be best for the two of u. wheather that would mean breaking up or staying together. just follow ur heart and u will find out what to do! :) good luck
877530
I think it sounds a bit dodgy to me and not right. He should be excited about seeing you and be as keen as you are to get together, if i were you i wouldnt waste my time going out there, get out there and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them, lifes too short to waste time on fake love go find true love, i can guarantee it will be worth it.
814270
It all depends on whether or not your comfortable having a long-distance relationship. if you chose the guy who lives further away, you'd have to deal with seeing the other guy all the time.
541407
Long distance relationships do not work.  Sooner or later he is going to get tired of keeping in touch by letters, e-mails, or phone calls.  His girlfriend is located near him.  You're not near him when he needs you, to share his problems with, to celebrate birthdays and holidays, however; his girlfriend is.  I'd say find someone you can see on a regular basis.  Communicating through phone calls, e-mails and letters is not a real relationship.  You're probably going through a stage where a boyfriend is high priority for you.  One day you'll find someone you can call your boyfriend, someone you can see on a regular basis.
708786
is it possible that you could save up your money and go vist him for maybe christmas, i know it's a long way off but you never know. until then keep calling him. perhaps you could send him a little box from home. some of his favorite things, and stuff that reminds him of you. try and see how things go. good luck, trust me i understand how much you miss and love him.
594164
Sounds like he likes you.  He may be thinking of you when he says he doesn't want to start a relationship before returning to Iraq, in that such a relationship can be very difficult with the distance, not to mention the looming specter of death.  I say appreciate it for what it is, enjoy the time you do spend with him or talking with him, and let it be for now.  If he returns, you will be able to see pretty quickly about striking up something more serious if you both want that.  Or maybe you'll fall for someone while he's gone.  Don't try to plan too much, just let it happen.
890146
its  hard  i know  i  dated a  guy  fro  2 years and 3 months and  he  lived  2 hours  from me and  i end up finding out that he  cheated on me  for  8 months and that he was  heavy in drugs  and then  we  broke up  i dr y  but  that  dont matter  i took me  6 months to  get over the  fact that  we were  broke up and  that i t was time to  find someone else and u know what i found that  person i want to be with for the rest of my life but he  lives  300 miles from me and  we talk everynight and  everyday  so  i  know what he is  doing and  i know where he is  at  it  good to  have that  ablity  to  do that  b/c  most  guys  wont talk to their  girlfriends  everynight  or  everyday  if they  live that  far  but  ya  long distance relationships rnt  easy i know  b/c i  cry  everytime my  boyfriend lives  to go back home  when he come to visit for the  weekend  or whatever  but  we have been together  for a year and  8 months  now and  its  seeming to  work  out  good  but  hope  u  find someone  that  u can  be  with  for the rest of ur  life and  hopefully u  make a  good  desicion on that one  lol
433132
this won't be your last boyfriend, so don't settle for someone that doesn't make you happy.  he sounds selfish to me.  be nice, but make it clear that it's just not working for you.  maybe stay as just friends?
197450
Long distance relationships can be very exciting because there is no routine. Each time you see him it is something special. Just the frequency needs to change. Enjoy it as long it lasts. You will notice when this relationship is ready for the next step. If you don´t see any progress at all you need to decide whether you want him as a platonic friend and whether you want to look for somebody else...
710371
he luvs u a lot, but i think 'coz of some family matters,he doesn't want ur realationship!!!!!!!\nbut dont worry he loves u a lot!!!!!!!!
101203
Don't look back, look forward. You should forget him and concentrate on making new friends. Long distance relationships seldom if ever last, and you'll just have alot of frustration and heart ache to show for it. Find someone you can spend time with when and where you want instead of sticking with a guy that by all indications doesn't love you anyway. I know that is harsh, but he hasn't called, and wouldn't say so according to you. You can do better. The guy for you is right under your nose, you just have to look!. Hope this has encouraged you and given you hope.
664776
Hmmm you seems like a girl with right head who knows what she wants.i agree with you,wait for some more time and see where things go and if he is really not ready after summer which is about 6 months or so then he really dont want to be with you in long term thing and yes seems like he really do like you.i wish you all the best and i hope you get what is best for you.
263443
cry alot call them write them and cry some more i know i still love this guy im 1500 miles away from him you just hope you can be with him again and hold him in your arms and do the things that you did when you were with him and i do believe that if you are meant to be with someone you will be no matter what happens in life
192917
What you need to do is get together with him and discuss a plan.  Now if its because he is far away then decide when will he be moving closer or plan a set schedule of when you can get together and visit.  If he is close then you must decide on a schedule of what days you guys will hang out on.  If you dont let him know that not seeing him is bothering you he will never know... trust me Im a guy and we think differently.  And eventually you will both lose feelings for each other and it wont be at the same time so one of you will defintely get their feelings hurt.  So in short, Make A Plan. (mutual plan that is)
727385
Don't beg or plead, you are much better than that! Let him go if he wants to go, he's the one who's going to miss out not you. PLus you are a nice caring young girl who had her whole life ahead of her. You don't need that b.s. in your life!! Find someone better!! Someone that is going to appreciate you and treat you like a PRINCESS!! Good luck and I hope that you find someone MUCH better! =)
544632
Call and talk to him about it first off.  \n\nThen you need to find someone close to you because long distance relationships never work because there is always that thought that they maybe with someone else in your mind.  Relationships aren't worth the headache in that aspect at least now when you can find a comforting one close by.
362001
If you love him that much, then wait.  Gain his trust slowly and you will more than likely end up with a wonderful relationship.  Good luck!!