Guy at school being stupid and trying to emberres me. help! (have lots more)>>>?
458106
Best thing to do is ignore it. I know it sounds lame, but when he gets a reaction from you he knows that he's affected you in some way. And by taking the higher ground, it'll show who really is the more mature one
871225
Be up front and serious with him.  Tell him if he doesn't knock it off you will never be his friend again.  Do it in private, don't make it a shouting match.  If he doesn't take you seriously, start doing to him what he is doing to you.  Start acting like he likes the ugliest slut in the school and embarrass him really bad about it.  He will get the point.
552819
Sounds like he is jsut a bully,,,and probaly has low self esteem and just wants to act cool to boost his ego!! everyone needs to ignore him and i mena litterally dont look his way or aknowlage him  and see what happens
727915
oh my gosh...no he's the immature one. you did the right thing...some ppl can be so retarded,,,lol\n\n\nand...that other girl? the one who I thot was being racist...she has been reporting all my questions and getting points taken away for everything I say. do you have any idea what I can do??? please help...i tried to say to her what I said to you but she's obviously not listening...
651280
i don't know what you accusation you made against him but he must be terribly hurt by it? i don't know if your note to him would make things better from his point of view for the damage to his name has been done?\n\ni think you will just have to wait until school starts again and talk to him face to face. apologise to him and be sincere and maybe he might forgive you. hurting someones reputation is quite a cruel thing to do and i don't know if his heart will be accepting any apologies soon? he might have lost total respect for you?\n\nif it really bugs you and you are tossing in your bed with guilt, maybe you should call him? i know his family might be annoyed with you so get a friend to call on your behalf.\n\nnext time, don't falsely accuse!\nhope all goes well.
298310
report him, and ignore him.\n\nHe's probably really happy that you;re acknowlidging him by asking this question though.
361311
I know what it's like. Always being picked at, Laughed at, and even shoved out. But I learn from them. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. anywayz, my advice to you is first you need to tell someone about it. whether it be your teacher or your parents. if the bullying doesn't stop, take matters into your own hands. i'm not saying to fight the guy (although that is an option for a much, much later use) but to sorta use your head to out smart him. If he still continues, take a stand and MAKE the school move him to another class and to keep him away from you or else you sue.\nI'm pretty sure that you'll won't have to go that far but just try and find out what's his problem and try and help him. Hey who knows maybe you'll actually become friends.\n       Good luck ;)
839575
Just ignore him and keep hanging with your friends.  If he keeps it up then maybe you should go talk to the principal, even though it's his dad, he still has a responsibilty for other students in the school!
82712
this dumb ass in my school.
116527
If a guy pretends not to notice you at school, he's probably embarrased to be seen with you. You should talk to him about it, and see what the reason is.
912665
I've had experience with this.  Arrogant and rude guys do not like violent women.  All you have to do is talk about your "experience" the "other day" about a guy who you thought was cute, but then you decided not to respond to the pass he made at you and he made a rude remark.  Tell this brute that you went to college with that you had been thinking about how you've never really done anything about someone being rude in the past and blacked out, grabbed a nearby object/rock/tree branch - take your pick.  Tell him that you smashed the hell out of this guys face and how good you felt doing it.  This "bully" will leave you alone.  Guys like this only go after girls/women who they think will be submissive or in the least be uncomfortable about confronting them about their rude ways.  In the most, he can run around telling every guy he runs into how "crazy" you are, but on the flip side, the other guys will definitely reconsider before being rude with you themselves.  In the least, he'll think about the risks of being with you and I will bet an entire paycheck on it, he's gonna back down.  The key is that when you tell him this, you have to be emotionally charged, convincing, totally out of character, and non-chalant about it.  I've given other young women this advise and they've said it worked.  The other thing is that you can't show him any mercy when he calls you with his problems and wants your "sympathy".  You have to act like you're reading a book while he's talking (if you ever talk to him again), and chew on crunchy things in his ear when he calls.  DO NOT SAY SORRY WHEN HE COMPLAINS.  You say, "hold on ok".  You leave the phone there and you walk away.
854873
Wonder why you were just as dumb for being his girlfriend.  And if he gets good grades, he isn't all that dumb....maybe it's not him, but you.  If you were so smart, you wouldn't have numerous grammatical errors....\n\nOh and by the way, he must really love school if he's there when he's supposed to be suspended....\n\nReally, you both seem pretty dumb in my opinion....like my response or not....you're dumb enough to post it...I just wanted my two points.  Thanks dummy!
322101
brianl for the rest of the class thinks he is cool and knows something the rest of us don't. but see that is where brianl is suffering from delusions of grandeur. as you can see this is illness afflicts many people at answers and it is up to us to help those who can't help themselves. he needs to feel intellectual superior to others but as we have seen in the past its usually some sarcastic witch who comes along and brings them down the pit from which they have managed to claw their way out of. the answer is i am not a sheep so easily lead to the slaughter. i have lots of opinions none of which you could being to understand. so next time try not to be so condescending. i have found over the years it is usually those people with small things that ape your kind of behavior.
736180
You'll regret it.  Challenging his ego in class is much worse than him challenging yours. Talk to him after class or in office hours, and if it gets worse, go over his head to complain.
809279
patronising self rightous bully boy! trust me ima doctor
707909
Yo!  I'm Jennah. I'm 13 just like you and I'm a middle class rebel Punk/Prep*but then again I REBEL AGAINST Preps*(in the way of cliques in my 8th Grade Class.\n1.)Kids have been known to die in the vile sense that your telling so I suggest if anything buff up and just threaten him.  Usually bullies are so bug that they scare people for no reason and the bigger they are the harder they fall in every aspect.  So Get him riled up but not toooooo riled up!\n2.)You probably would want to try this first before you try #1\n3.)NO NO NO AND NO!!!!  WORST POSSIBLE THING FOR YOUR REPUTATION!  MY BEST FRIEND IN 6TH GRADE WAS A KNARK AND HIS REPUTATION FELL APART!  HE WENT FROM HIS MIDDLE CLASS TO LOSER IN SECONDS THE NEXT TIME HE ENTERED A CLASSROOM!  HE WAS PICKED ON AND GIVEN THE NAME TATTLER COCK!!! DON'T TELL A TEACHER!!!!!!!  THIS GUY WILL DRIVE YOU INSANE WITH THE KNARKING INSULTS!!!!!!\n4.)Probably the best choice hold off until the end of the school day come home and talk to me about it.  Evilcreampuff_13@hotmail.com
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If you think your teacher hates you, don't you think he will suspect you 'treated' the apple? :D)\n\nNo details are provided to support the teacher "hates [you]." Some male teachers are not "chummy" with female students to keep "boundaries" clear. \n\nThere are countless stories of misunderstood actions and/or comments between male teachers and female students (and vice versa) that radically changed the lives of all involved. \n\nKeep track of your grades to make sure his "hatred" of you does not spill over into your GPA; and, try to remember to focus on your work. You're not in school to get your teacher "to like [you] as a student."