I am only sure I truly love my boyfriend when I see him with another girl?
461020
Well its normal it happens many time maybe to everyone....\nits coz when u 2 r together u know tht now this person is urs n u dont worry of loosin him n try to tell him his faults or start findin sumthins which r not agreeable to u. n u then start thinkin do i seriously love this guy??? Thts da only thing tht is happenin with u n when u see him with other female friends u feel jealous its obvious coz its ur guy u love him a lot u will feel paranoid n possesive abt him... but dont worry just think y do u love this guy think abt his positive aspects tht made u think y do u love him n u`ll forget all his silly faults.... if u really love him u`ll try not to think tht u dont love him becoz i think u shud not break over this relationship just becoz u think he has sum silly faults.... \nCommon u love this guy u cant break up just bcoz of mere misunderstandin.....
717399
okay let me tell you a story my girlfriend and i work different hours so if we are lucky to see each other once a week . but i don't have any other ladies or she don't have other men .because there has to be trust in a relationship trust and honesty are the 2 priority's in a relationship i talk to my girlfriend every day .if you love him confront him if he loves he will tell you the truth
828944
I'm besotted with my boyfriend.
264224
I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
660985
I am sorry to ask you that why do you have this feeling does your boyfriend likes you or not.Why is this feeling aroused in you.See if he had not loved you he might have left you long time back and had gone to some other female so which means that he does'nt love you but if he is there with you and take's care of you that means he certainly loves you.So why that feeling.See what i can tell you is when you love a person never doubt him or her until and unless you feel and see that something is wrong with themBut if nothing that thought of suspesion is there then enjoy loving and enjoy living.
85050
It sounds like your boyfriend is self conscience of your relationship and he is he sure of himself.  Have you made attempts to reassure him that he is the only one and that when you go out you are just having fun with your female friends.  \n\nI think many times we as women forget that men can also suffer from low self esteem and can be just as self conscience about relationships as women.
266100
if you like him then respect his choose to be with the other girl but if you love him starting to be gain his best friend ( someone with talking about his deep problems) & then i wish you luck!
384103
when he really loves u. then he aint gonna hook up with another girl. if u trust him then u know he iz never gonna cheat on u (though u never know)
82464
If he doesn't love you enough to be with you and only you regardless of anyone elses feelings then this isn't really love.  He is just being a player and your his girl on the side.  Nothing can stop two people who really love each other from being with each other and only each other.
34172
As long as you realize tht if he cheats on his girlfriend with you, he will cheat on you with someone else, go for it.
576503
First love is first love, you just tend to measure that person to everybody else which isnt being fair and that where all of us tend to make mistakes. We judge out partner based on how we felt about someone else. Now give him a chance and forget comparisons between your love for someone else and your boyfriend. He treats you right and he loves you, so why are you inesecure?
233780
WOW thats a big one. You say you have evidence right? well use what you got. But not in a way were you will put yourself in a bad spot but us them in question. Things you talk about. Ask if he knows a girl by the name so and so. If you really love this guy. Just keep rememinding him you love him. and that your so happy you guys are together and  that he has never cheated on you. In that point . . He will be nervice looking at the floor and looking for a answer out.
951575
It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
49206
One can feel attracted towards other persons while you are in a relationship. What matters is if you act about those feelings or not. Think about what you currently have with your boyfriend, do you really love him, do you see him as part of your future? If your answers are yes, then nevermind about the other person you are liking, just stick to your love. If the answers are no, well you should have a sincere conversation with your boyfriend to see where are you going with the relationship.
1127914
i think u will be happy when you are with her and when u think of her i would ask u a question could u love another girl?if u are able to do that i doubt u are in love and i think when u are in u will spend all the nights thinking of her soooooooooo good luck
851575
It sounds like you answered your own question with the "I love my boyfriend very much and don't want me mess things up with him."  Think about whether you really like this other guy or are only lusting after him.  Also if it is just for convenience will it last?  Think about what you would be giving up with your current boyfriend and if you will gain anything other than less distance with the other guy.  Do what your heart tells you is best.  Hope you make the right choice.
1161441
feelings for someone close to you is possible.the main thing is the other person responding the same,as for your boyfriend you don't need to tell him that might make him to be jealous