How and where to meet women ? What's the approach ? for regular guys ?
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From your description, it sounds like the girls should be all over you. I'm guessing you must be either really shy or have some sort of personality issue going on. Desperation drives girls away.\n\nAnyway, I would recommend coffee shops and bookstores to find girls in the same educational league (so to speak) as yourself. I've never had luck with guys there, but I keep trying.\n\nThe grocery store is good too because you can tell a lot of a woman by what she has in her cart, but that's kind of cliche.\n\nBasically, unless you have a personality issue, just try and be honest, open, and yourself. Women don't like guys who are posturing and fake; women who can't tell when you are tend to be vapid and a little scary, so everyone loses here.\n\nBest of luck.
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the problem is, to a man, the majority of women are going to seem crazy.  men and women think so differently and we will never be able to completely understand each other.  so to find a woman that seems, "normal," is damn near impossible.  don't look for that "perfect girl."  it will never happen.  it's all about finding a woman that you care enough about to put up with her BS.
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Open you´re eyes ands ears, first what kind of man you want.\nIf you want a spiritual hard working men it more easy to find in a group who help kids or work for free in non-profit organization, instead of a bar. Be part of a group for goods things in this environment you can meet nice people and be better person, or be part of people who share you´res hobbies or sports.
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if you see a guy you like, strike up a conversation. i've been able to at least get one date using this method. if you are as you describe, then you got two advantages over me, 1. you're attractive and 2. as a woman it's so unusual that you are sure to have a good conversation that could lead to something more.\n\ngood luck.
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Just go up and talk to her. Nevermind asking her out on a date, going out to dinner, movies, etc... (LAME). Have a conversation with her, talk to her likeyou would anyone else, of course dont be obnoxious, just have a conversation. Any guy who has a conversation with a woman is interested in you. Its also the same the other way around, women dont go up and talk to a guy for no reason.
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Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
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Try this: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports and invite her there (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Invite her to parties for singles.\n5. Ask her friends what her favorite food is and invite her to YOUR house for dinner.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl , this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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You're going to need to practice your "game" with girls.\n\nIf you can pretty much meet any girl you want, then you can meet lots of girls and talk to them to find out what they are like. After awhile you'll be able to determine pretty quickly if she's the type of girl you're looking for.\n\nTry: dancing, yoga, bookstores, coffee shops, college campus, etc.
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How do I meet 49 year old men?I have been looking for sometime and this dating pole is very shallow.I am finding men your age come with baggage which is okay except that it is usually because of a women.I find myself having to prove that I am not that women rather than being able to just show myself and be accepted for me.I would love to here more from you.If you pick this as best you can leave a comment with e-mail if you like.
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Try somewhere where the vast majority are men. A place that you can deal with.Or something you like to do.Get some guts and start talking to one your interested in.Your not likely to get yelled at or the cold sholder.
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Try to relax.  The more you stress over it, the worse it may become.\n\nTreat them as potential friends, not potential girlfriends.  Women want to be treated as equals, individuals.  Not something to be conquered.\n\nDiscreetly, copy what you've seen your friends do to get themselves girlfiends, and modify that behaviour to suit you.\n\nDon't try to approach a group of women.  If you see one you like, make eye contact, smile then look away.  A few minutes later, look at her again, if she looks your way, holds your gaze, and smiles it means she's interested in you.  Approach, casually, if and when she's on her own and offer to buy her a drink.  \n\nShe might even approach you first!\n\nIntroduce yourself. Ask her a few casual questions: What does she think of the bar/pub/whatever you're both in? What is there to do in the local area? You fancy going to the cinema, can she recommend a good film? Has she ever been to Dubhai, cos you've heard it brilliant?  That kind of thing.  Just casual, non-threatening conversation.  Forget about using "chat up lines", they can come across as lame.\n\nDon't be too eager, maintain some mystery.  The biggest turn-on (for both men and women) is confidence.  The biggest turn-off is someone who won't take no (whether said verbally or by body language) for an answer.\n\nPlay it all by ear.  Listen to your intuition, it will guide you.\n\nYou have friends so you can't be that bad(!).  Your description of yourself sounds attractive, so nothing wrong there.\n\nAbove all, be yourself.  If your interest is not returned, hold your head high and move on.
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It's easy to find single women expecially after 30 but probably hard to meet men.  I think the best place to find guys would be at professional assocations.  If you are an accountant, go to an accountant association meeting, real estate investor, computer professional, teacher, etc....  Some of the guys will be single and all of the guys will be staring at you.
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You friend needs to work on his confidence regarding how he feels about himself before he can feel confident with "the ladies". Women hate cheesy chat up lines so I think the best way to approach a woman is to have something interesting to talk about, a good sense of humour and a certain degree of courage. Of course the best way is to make friends first if at all possible which is why pulling in a pub or club is usually a bad idea if you actually want to get anything out of it. Hope you find someone.
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of men and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, I gotta have them?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym to make you muscles firm, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time de-impressing any man.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports and hang around there (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved woman sometimes attract men (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n6. If you are good to one man, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more men...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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NOT in a bar, any more than heterosexuals looking for LTRs. You aren't that different from the rest of us. Bars are for one-night stands.\n\nTry one of the three churches that won't stone you to death for being "possesed by the devil" - MCC, Congregationalsist, Unitarian-Universalists.\n\nWork on a gay rights political committee.\n\nWork for a straight politician with the balls to admit you guys are human and stand up against the right-wing crazies.\n\nTake it slow, obviously. It's harder for you than for the straights; all anyone in a gym, sierra club hike, book group or night class who asks a lady for lunch risks is a turn-down. You can spoil a casual friendship fast by asking someone out if they don't play in your league.
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I agree. College seems to be the best place to meet girls. Grad school is ideal for the women you're looking for. It definitely makes sense. I should also mention that if you enroll in a teacher education course, the ratio of men to women will definitely be to your favor.\n\nYou can also try the gym. For some reason, I see a lot of mature women there. It seems mature women are more concerned about their bodies then "undergrad" age women. Maybe that's just my gym. Or maybe it has to do with them being "mature."\n\nBars. Mature girls like to have fun at bars. They are more approachable there too, especially after a few drinks. Go to the popular ones with the big cover charge. You'll find them there instead of at the seedy, dark local place next to the convenience store.\n\nInternet personal ads. Yep, girls  older than 24 who focused on their career are now looking to meet a partner to settle down with. If the office does not provide a good gene pool for them, they branch off into the Internet to look for nice guys just like you! Think about it.\n\nAnyway, these are the best suggestions I could come up with. I'm sure you already knew all this, but it's surely worth best answer, right? Good luck!
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.