Would you talk your girlfriend into a threesome or just do it with strangers?
471106
no dont talk her into it, just ask her about it, if she says no, then it is no, and no you should not do it behind her back, would you let her have a threesome, that is with another guy... think about it?
364746
why dont you and your wife do threesomes? that way you are both involved. it might strengthen your marriage. \nif you dont want to strengthen it and want to be with others alone...why do you even want to be married???
711722
Ask them both if they've ever thought about a 3-some.  If they're into it, take 'em both on.\n\nWorked for me.
1040484
First sir I am no bible thumper, but threesomes with your partner/girlfriend/wife is adultery and wrong. Next, from what you said in here you already know your answer. No she is not ready. listen to yourself and your heart. They typically will not lead you astray if you truly listen to them. I would suggest you continue to tell her no. If you are not monogamously commited to here, I suggest you look to see why you are not, and or why she is not to you. Once you committ to each other and stop thinking and or playing around your relationship can grow and be more fulfilling. If you can't do this, than you have no business being in a relationship with her, for you haven't found complete happiness.
416683
My wife and I have done a threesome a couple of times. I suggest three cardinal rules if you’re thinking about doing one:\n\n1) Talk about it a lot and agree about it before hand. Know what to expect from each other. Don’t leave any of this to chance. If you haven’t both said yes at least three times as many times as either of you have said no or maybe, then you need to talk about it more.\n\n2) Let her pick the other girl, or you pick the other guy if you’re going that way. It puts everyone in a much less awkward position.\n\n3) Before and after the threesome, make sure you spend a good chunk of time enjoying each other alone, without even a thought of the third.\n\nIf you can do these things, then go for it and have fun! It will be the most incredible experience you can imagine. Otherwise, it’s usually a disaster for at least one party.
1133285
Yes, I do.  Any time you bring a third party into a relationship it is cheating.  Now if you have an open relationship and your partner doesn't mind then that is a different story.  If you are in a good healthy relationship why would you want to involve another person?
160417
of your girlfriend with another guy.
552037
You should consider yourself a lucky man. I think your girlfriend is bi sexual and she wanted to fulfill her fantasy as well as your's I'm sure. Have fun and don't think too much about it. Make sure you don't flirt or do anything with her friend when she's not there. She trusts you this is why she did this. I know from experience. Live a little.
1022136
have your wife go to a club with you and pick-up someone.  alot of guys would love to be in a threesome.  it's worked in the past.
211716
I never tried group sex. But I think i like 1 on 1 because I want be able to give each the attention. The other would have to wait a few hours for her turn.
735354
If you bhave already asked someone...and she is looking forward to it you should take your friend from home.  Explain the situation to your girlfriend, Im sure if you are open and honest about it she will understand.
988423
go for it! make sure nobody will know about it tho, not even close friends. destroy all evidence and wear a rubber, wouldn't be too nice to catch some nasty std and then give it to your main girl. as long as your gf won't find out, i don't see anything wrong with it. men need sex and when we f*ck around, it doesn't mean sh*t and has no influence on our true feelings for our actual girlfriends. women will never understand that, coz when they do it, there's almost always some feelings attached. anyway, just make sure she will never find out about it. if she does, say goodbye to your relationship
240135
What is a good enough reason to make you tolerate having sex with strangers?\nIt's your choice to do so or not...but by doing so you are putting yourself in a potentially dangerous situation, in more ways than one.
1175319
Couples who are in love never want to share their partner in a threesome situation, no matter how insistent they are that 'it will be ok'.  It won't be ok.  Not now, not ever again.  If you are looking for a way to create disharmony, stress, upset, jealousy and insecurity, there is no faster way.  You will permenantly damage your relationship, your self-esteem and possibly your mental health.  \n\nIt won't be what you expect.  If we are talking one man and two girls, be prepared for the girls to start getting it on and completely ignoring you for more than an hour.  Be prepared for premature ejaculation, be prepared to be unable to get a hard on in front of two women.  Be prepared for your girlfriend to lose patience and storm out if you start paying too much attention to your guest.  Be preapared for the guest to start stalking you.  Be prepared for the fact that she may look awful naked.  Be preapred for the unthinkable that you won't be able to satisfy two women.\n\nAfter the event be prepared for your girlfriend to hate you and that you may start to hate her.  Be prepared to fall out of love.  Be prepared for your girlfriend to decide that she is a lesbian/bisexual/wants an open relationship.\n\nWhilst it is a great fantasy and a favourite of many men it is not a very good thing to do.  In a loving realtionship it should be kept as a fantasy.  There is too much to lose.  Why risk it when there are other much more exciting things you can experiment with together which will bond you more strongly together?
598834
A threesome with your friend, or offer yourself as a sex slave for a day or weekend
45338
Tell her it's an interesting fantasy, but that seeing this would make you uncomfortable. Then ask her if she has another fantasy that the two of you will both be comfortable with.\n\nUnless of course you LIKE the idea of watching her with someone else, that would be horse of a different color.
1080417
A threesome but ONLY with a complete stranger.