how do u mend a broken heart?
467560
Well first of all give yourself space from him. I know you dont want to but it is impossible to heal when the wound is constantly being reopened.\n\nDo things for yourself make yourself feel good. Long baths with nice music,shopping trips,good books,funny movies etc.\n\nAlso give it time. It will feel better!!!
421463
Time heals a broken heart i know at times it dont feel that way but i have been there the pain words cannot decribe. Sometimes we look for answers on why and how life for all has its ups and downs. But theres a purpose now you cannot see it a year from now you may not see it but its there, i have a story of my life that will really make you think but this is not about me its you. Iam just telling you everthing has a reason one day you will look back on this and say he was right because i know iam right and your blind with hurt. Look i told to people all the time in here about this and that some listen and some dont iam no expert who is we give advice on what we have lived and thats the best we can do. Anyway iam gone with one finally thing to say go forward somethings out there for you and ever young man and female.
1009582
Ok, look, I know this is hard. I mean, it sounds like you're truly suffering. BUT, it is true what they say, "Time heals all wounds." Give it time.\n\nBut, for immediate help. Try this.\n\nNO CONTACT FOR 30 DAYS. Do not call him. Do not write him. Do not email him. Do not drive by his place. Do not talk to his friends or relatives. Do not make any sort of contact with him for a FULL 30 DAYS.\n\nTrust me. This is what I do when I go through a break up. The 30 days is a goal. Once you make it through those 30 days you feel like you've made some sort of progress. It works.\n\nAs for the general heart ache and pain. You just have to go through it. Life hurts sometimes. We all have pain.\n\nGood luck.\n\nOh and before you do the 30 days thing, you might mention it to him. Hopefully he'll understand. If you guys both stick to it it'll be easier on both parties.\n\nSplooch!
150830
You cant mend a broken heart. Go ahead and feel the pain, by not getting to angry and dont put to much blame in his direction.\nFeeling the hurt will make you much stronger...and make it go away much faster. \nYou feel like you want to die...but I promise, you wont. It is something we all go thru at some time in our life and it hurts real bad. but just hang in there....it will get better!!!
81580
should say good things that you remember about the time you're still together... bring back the good ole memories... try to flatter her and lower yourself... make him/her feel that it's your fault or something... that'll make him/her feel better and it softens heart.... good luck!
423142
warming up exercises, a little jogging and walking..just to strengthen ur leg muscles again..\nthis would surely help.\nage is no barrier for what the heart truly wants..good luck,
129554
Do exactly that cry and get it out, talk about for a while. Only time heals a broken heart.
827727
Put your hand in God's Hand\n\n\nPrayer, Time and Forgiveness heals all wounds
442901
u have to try to be strong...think about why she broke up with u if u dont know ask her. try to stay on her good side and fight to get her back but dont allow her to see how hard u r tryin if she is takin u for granted cuz she will never take u back she will keep playin with your emotions but if she needs to see how hard u r tryin to get her back let her see. if there is no way u can get her back then seek help from a pro. meanwhile talk to someone about it cry if u have to and make sure u think about the good times and not the bad cuz that will make u feel worst. if u really love her then i think u should put up a fight its better than not tryin at all. as time passes u will start feelin better u will not see it now bcuz she just broke up with u but as time passes u will see things gettin easier. its not gonna happen over night at all this is a healing process. if u wanna talk further about it ill be there for u. email me at jbhola87@yahoo.com...till then feel better. PRAY!
658466
I'm sorry for your lost i hope something will help you to move on and your heart will heal soon. When i lost may love ones i went to my friends and hung out. Played bingo now that did take my mine off thing trying to keep up.\nAnyways best of luck.
945244
I'm so sorry about what has happened to you... *HUGS*... You have to think hard about everything. Weigh things carefully. Should you and your wife get back together, there should be love for each other.  The first thing that you have to do is to fix yourself, physically and emotionally. Get help from your family. I know how it feels to be hurting inside, not knowing what to do with the feeling. It kills you inside. You want to cry but crying isn't enough to let your feelings out. Just fix yourself first. More importantly, fix yourself emotionally. From there, you'll know what to do next...
400257
get involved in things you love, hobbies, work.  realizing how much you love activities, and life.  try not to dwell and talk about it with friends.\nrealize the reasons behind the breakup and that "that is what was" then move on.
577653
the best way to deal with the grief is to allow yourself plenty of time to heal.  There's no easy way to make it stop hurting, but just take one day at a time, remember how great you are and that you deserve better.  In time things will get better.  Good luck!
207883
Sometimes the love you gave is thrown out like a bag of garbage. Sometimes they never know you loved them so much. Sometimes when they do something that hurts u deep and cause such untold pain in your heart...\n\nWell the list goes on... A Broken heart is hard to mend, but still time is a great healer of many things, even a broken heart...\n\n.:Fishie:.
744227
i recently went through something similar to this myself. i know you probally feel horribly depressed right now, and thats because you're heartbroken. i can tell you that eventually the pain does go away...take some time to grieve and then try to forget about him. someone once gave me a piece of advise that really helped me:\n\nbeing heart broken is like being in the dark.... and everytime you think your getting close to the light switch you just stub your toes. and you have to start all over again. but there is a light switch there. it might take a little bit to find it. but one day you will get there......... it might take awhile to get over this guy... but always remember... through all those stubed toes there is a lightswitch
561931
Your heart and soul feels bad because you are missing the most important lover of all time. The lord Jesus can heal ur broken heart and pain and weakness of the spirit. Learn his ways, speak and pray to him, and he will guide ur path.
993372
begin the healing process. It will be hard and will take forever. keep yourself busy. Goodluck