whats the first thing you look at, or for in a potential partner?
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her honesty and her charm, then come beauty and brains!!
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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Do you get nervous around them? Do you think of them often? Do you look at this person and think " I wonder if he will be a nice B/F? There are a few things......
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well for me personally it is there eyes and the way they look at you,and also the way they talk to you aswell. Though everyone is different,Can i ask why you are asking this question? Or is it just one of them questions to give people points?
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The first thing would be their physical appearance..\nBut they ultimately look at how caring and true they can be..
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Well when I look for a man, I look for someone I can be "me" around. Someone who is attractive in his only way. Someone nice, a little cocky. Nice truck or car is a bonus, but he has to be able to make me laugh.
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depends on wether you mean "boys" or men. i think that its truly not as superficial as the other answers make it out to be. i look for someone that is fun to be around, trustworthy, smart (smart is sexy), clever, a good sense of humor, chic, and beautiful. in the order listed.
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no one is perfect and when you realize that you'll be happy with what you choose ,but the qualities i look for is honesty,caring faithful,a good sense of humor fun to be with ,someone who will love me for who i am not what i look like not that i look bad,my point being that outside looks are not all that important it is how you are as a person inside that counts.someone to respect me and care for me when i'm sick,a man who can give me space when i need it.love me unconditionally,and i must do all of the above for him.by the way i have found a man just as i have described and i have had him for 30 yrs and i hope you to find your ideal mate good luck
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I agree with "Pie" -- some physical attraction and some kind of personality connection.  I can usually sense whether there's any connection within a few minutes of talking.
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What do you plan on doing - who told you that you can have only one - they both seem to interest you in different ways - get to know them both and you'll soon find who has the qualities that are most attractive
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The first thing that catches the eye will be her body or a body part (breast, smile, hips, legs, hair son on), then you will notice her attitude, the gleam in her eyes when she looks at you, the way she walks, her laugh, It depends on the guy and what he sees in her what the connection is, is it purely physical or deeper. This is what I have been told by men. Hope it helps.
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Well a first physical attraction would be about looks. You wouldnt walk past a guy / girl and say to your self "yeah baby, I bet he has a good personality."
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eyes, not sure what bet when i see some bloke with nice eyes i can't look away!! my husband has the best!
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Obviously, the first thing you notice about someone is their appearance. There are still a few of us guys that look beyond that though. I have dated some very good looking gals that I lost interest in due to lack of conversation. I have dated several ordinary/plain looking gals and had far better relationships with them. To some of us, what's inside means more than what's outside, but noone wants someone they aren't physically attracted to.
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This kind of question comes up often enough, I feel like I should just save my answer so I can paste it right in!  :D\n\nFirst thing I look for is a happy personality!  Seriously!  No matter how striking a woman is; if she looks like the whole world is a burden on her, why would I want a wet blanket like that dragging me down!\n\nYeah, looks are important, but not nearly as important to me as Hollywood/the magazines/etc. make it out to be.  An average/too skinny/flat-chested/what-have-you girl who is fun to hang around with will get my attention any day.  That's not just a bunch of words, either:  I've been attracted to all kinds of women (except very large ones.  What can I say, I'm still human!)\n\nGood conversation is a must:  you need to listen to what guys say, not just wait for your turn to make a speech.  If I just want something pretty to look at, I can hang out anywhere & browse the eye candy without wasting any time/money/effort of my own.
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1st: looks, beauty, personality, kindness
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It really depends on the women.  Each persons relationship history helps her to define her future partner.  Here are a few qualities I desire.\n\nGood sense of humor (The funnier the better!)\nIs social and has an outgoing personality\nIs stable in his career\nLikes the outside more than the TV\nNot afraid to fall in love\nIs sincere and honest\n\nHope it helps~  :)