Has your SPOUSE went out to buy something, stopped at a friends and got so drunk he cant come home?
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no not normal. Very inconsiderate towards you. try talking to him later and calmly ask him to look at it from your pov
78799
Why you never question a drunk-- \n\n\nA woman was shopping at her local supermarket where she selected: \nA half-gallon of 2% milk, \nA carton of eggs, \nA quart of orange juice, \nA head of romaine lettuce, \nA 2 lb. can of coffee, \nAnd a 1 lb. package of bacon. \nAs she was unloading her items on the conveyor belt to check out, a \ndrunk standing behind her watched as she placed the items in front of \nthe cashier. \nWhile the cashier was ringing up her purchases, the drunk calmly stated, \n"You must be single." \nThe woman was a bit startled by this proclamation, but she was intrigued \nby the derelict's intuition, since she was indeed single. She looked at \nher six items on the belt and saw nothing particularly unusual about her \nselections that could have tipped off the drunk to her marital status. \nCuriosity getting the better of her, she said "Well, you know what, \nyou're absolutely correct. But how on earth did you know that?" \nThe drunk replied, " 'Cause you're ugly
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lol my hubby took his best friend with him to pick some out for me because he was too embarrassed to go by himself...I treasure the thought because I know how hard that was for him to do that.\n\nWhen he has gone on his own I got flannel PJ's with animal prints on them. LOL So I knew he had help with the sexy stuff.
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The other night I was invited out for a night with "the girls." I told my husband that I would be home by midnight, "I promise!" Well, the hours passed and the champagne was going down way too easy. \nAround 3 a.m., drunk as a skunk, I headed for home. Just as I got in the door, the cuckoo clock in the hall started up and cuckooed 3 times. Quickly, realizing he would probably wake up, I cuckooed another 9 times. I was proud of myself for coming up with such a quick-witted solution (even when smashed), in order escape a possible conflict with him. The next morning my husband asked me what time I got in, and I told him 12:00. He did not seem disturbed at all. Whew! Got away with that one! \nThen he said, "We need a new cuckoo clock. "When I asked him why, he said, "Well, last night our clock cuckooed three times, then said, "oh shit," cuckooed 4 more times, cleared its throat, cuckooed another 3 times, giggled, cuckooed twice more, and then tripped over the cat and farted.
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Sounds just like me and my now husband.  We changed everything. Our friends our jobs.everything. AA helps alot. Go to different meetings they are all different. Take some of it leave some of it, some of it is cheesy. Him and I both knew nothing other than drinking. It just seemed like the thing to do. Finally one day he screwed up really bad and it was done. Our lives are great..one year 2 days ago.SOBER. Give it a chance ....from one drunk to another give it a try !!!!!!!!!QUIT.
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Believe it or not, this just happened to me last night.  My boyfriend was married for 11 years and they split up 9 months ago.  We have been going out for the last two months.  Last night, after about two beers, he looked me right in the eyes and said "I love you so much Ch*&^%)(*%$#."  I couldn't believe it.  He kept telling me he was so sorry and I know he felt terrible, but It is eating at me today too.  I know it was an accident and he didn't mean it, so I have decided to just force myself to stop thinking about it.  I know he loves me and I know he doesn't want to go back to her.  He is very loving and attentive in so many ways, so my advice to both of us is to stop being so sensitive and admit that our boyfriends are human.  They make mistakes, I wouldn't want him to crucify me if I were in his shoes.\n\nGood Luck.
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BLAH....I was set up on a blind date by one of my friends. He took me to a convenience store and bought me a hot dog and a 2 liter of coke then took me back to his house to watch a movie. There were so many piles of dog crap and the stench was horrible. I stayed about 15 minutes and left. The next day while I was out he left a baseball cap and cheap diamond earrings for me on my porch. He called later that night to see if I got the stuff, I told him yes but I couldn't accept them..he told me he loved me. I returned the things to him and never saw him again. Fukn weirdo!
870226
WHAT A BITCH!!!  DON'T GO AND HAVE YOUR HUSBAND STAY HOME WITH YOU, IT IS ONLY GOING TO CAUSE PROBLEMS,,,
931941
well i think that you shouldn't be getting drunk n e more and if you dew make sure you are in the safty of your own home...also not hang around him again because that is not a true friend cuz a true friend wouldn't try to BONE you.
679628
Just say NO!  Life with an alcoholic is miserable.  Men who are tacky about flashing money around are usually major mistakes... they have to buy their women because the kind of women who can't be bought won't put up with their problems.
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stayed home and got drunk
842201
if he is there again, call him on it AS SOON as he gets there..something like...I hope you don't plan on getting drunk and acting like an ass again.  If he DOES, leave.  Plan and simple..remove YOURSELF from the situation..the only person you can control is you.  Maybe your friend will see what a hindrance he is then.  Good Luck!
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I think that you should probably talk to your husband about this.  \n\nIf you are simply talking to other men - your boss, your minister, your banker - that's probably okay.  \n\nIf you have male friends, defining your relationship with those male friends may be someting to talk to your husband about.  By that, I mean that your husband may not appreciate your male friends calling at 2 a.m. to ask if you can pick them up from the bar because they are too drunk to drive home.  Your husband may also not appreciate you being ALONE with another male.\n\nYou definitely shouldn't be intimate with other men - that should go without saying.
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Once in a while OK. Although you would normally know ahead of time if he was going to a stag party, office night out, night out with boys etc.\n\nSo if its a rare occasion, cut him some slack. Have some humour in the morning when he's got the big hangover. Make him a coffee, have a good smirk.\n\nYou made a big deal about him not fixing dinner for the kids. Are you on strike or something? Theirs a little fly in your ointment here.\n\nIf its a regular occurrence, then, you shouldn't need us to tell you that there is a problem.\n\nThere are 3 ways to go #3 is not good.\n\n1. Marriage counsellor\n\n2. Separation\n\n3. Hang in there for the sake of the kids.\n\nGood luck.
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The pain isn't going to stop until you deal with your feelings, tell him how this has made you feel, and finally forgive him for what he did.  What happened in your marriage is a big thing - getting counseling would be a wise thing to do.  \nYour husband obviously has a drinking problem that needs to be dealt with.  If he knows he gets stupid when he drinks - why does he still drink?  Seeing a counselor would be a good thing for both of you and it will help you both communicate with eachother.
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Record your calls if possible. Then you can hear when you're sober what you are saying and in what tone. It is possible he is trying to play some kind of guilt trip. Keep in mind though, that some people do become angry drunks. Some mellow, some cry, some get mad. I noticed in my earlier years that the mood I am in at the time I have a drink seems to be escalated if I continue to drink. If it is an issue with the alcohol, then why not stop? If he is this great love of your life, which would you rather have the bottle or him? Plus if you have an issue with the alcohol, think about what may happen if you do get married and have children?
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Wow that is a tough situation to be and I know several in that same boat. Whether it is alcohol or pot or other illegal substances, the decision is only his to stop. The thing to do for yourself, assuming you are not using,is to go to get counseling see if your spouse is willing, though I have heard they very seldom tell the truth about what they do or especially how much. If it is hurting your relationship then maybe it is time to communicate this to him. I wish I could offer more. I feel for you. Good luck