how important is a mental connection to you.....?
468200
I would prefer a mental connection when comes to sex,but guys are different.
921598
I don't think you have a mental problem. Maybe you're just thinking of something else or you feel awkward talking to someone. I lose my words when I try too hard to communicate with something. Just don't think about it.
73745
mentally or physically?
957178
I read something about this a long time ago.\nIf I remember correctly.??\nWe all have a group of souls that we are the most connected with.   \nOutside of that small group is a larger group of souls that we are very connected with.   \nOutside of that group is an even larger group of souls that we are somewhat connected with.    (on and on...)\n\nThe soul family are the ones we are the most connected to for various reasons.   Life lessons or help when we need it. Spouses, parents, children, siblings. friends, and strangers on the street.   We know them when we see them.   Some are in our lives for a short time....some for a long time.   There is a sense of familiarity upon meeting the person and a strong remembrance of them when they are gone.\n\nI think that's what I read, and I liked the concept.\n\nI hope you get better answers....I will read them.  \n\nThis is a fabulous question!
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You're connected to them. You must be close with this person right? It means you're tuned into each others souls. I know that sounds a little creepy but it's true. It's like having slight telepathy with this person. It happens with me and some of my friends. My bofriend too!
49153
A true connection between you and your friend.
542815
that is a good question...i really think it is mind over matter...it depends on how well you can cope with the pain...it is different for all types of people...
924086
I think yes. For me, I feel very much connected about my culture, my family and my background.\n\nMy family and the society I grew up has formed my personality and made me what I am today. Without that, I would make different choices in my life, so I believe it does very much influence my future.
1082242
ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD (PAIN) NO. MIND OVER MATTER. IF YOU DON'T THINK ABOUT IT THEN USUALLY IT WONT
340264
LOVE IT.  ESPECIALY IF IT IS SOMEONE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN INVOLVED WITH FOR AWHILE..IT MAKES THE CONNECTION STRONGER. BESIDES YOU CAN TELL ALOT ABOUT SOMEONE LOOKING INTO THEIR EYES
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Friendship is very important to me as I have a very busy life. At the end of a day I just like to unwind and chat to a good friend that I can trust.It means I have a person who trusts me as much as I trust them.It's great to have someone by your side when problems arrive. They stand by you at all times no matter what the problems are they help you out anyway they can.I do for them the way they do for me.I have many friends but I have only 2 best friends which I would trust with my life and we remain friends for the past 35 years.Not one disagreement with either.
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Yes, there is SUCH a thing as a 'connection.' I met a buddy online, I have never met him in person, he lives in another country, and over the 6 years we have been chatting we have learned a great deal from each other, he can even tell when I'm having a bad just by my style of writing.  We have exchanged family pictures through the course of the 6 years, we have grieved, rejoiced and celebrated many wonderful events, all through the YAHOO medium.  And sex was never an issue, it was never first nor foremost in our relationship.  We exchanged many stories regarding sexual content, but it was never what kept us together as friends.\n\nI also have a wonderful online connection with my college sweetheart, he writes and chats with me, going on 4 years now.  Yes, we reminisce about the OLD days, but again, sex is not the issue, we share a common connection, the past.\n\nMy current partner, and I have a wonderful connection, we have grown together through the bad times and good times, compromising for the best.  I think the key is patience.  The person you are meant to be with, will eventually come your way, don't force it--it will happen eventually either online or in real life.\n\nGood Luck and prosper...;*!*;...
60627
absolutely...i went through this too...if you guys connect really well..and you guys want each other for the right reason..of course..i'm a spiritual person as well..
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Rich:  Your answer to your question is a definite "YES" !!!  Prior to any physical contact comes the mind set.  When you are involved mentally, your emotions conjure up your mind to cause your actions to become involved.   You wouldn't be even, posting this question if you REALLY thought that this wasn't necessarily wrong to do.  You have started the "ball" rolling !!!
210853
Honey, I often wondered the same thing...but then I realized that while we all live in our own realties, we are linked by our own human existance.  Things don't dissappear into dark nothingness simply because you have left that area.  How do I know this?  Because I am sitting here in Cleveland right now smoking a cigarette (not gange like you are), living in my own little reality.  Also, I think it is important to realize for yourself that you are just a small fragment of a whole.  You need to get over yourself, and I don't mean that in a snotty way, I mean that you are dealing with your id, which is a common human experience, and one needs to give of their selves in order to conquer his or her feelings of isolation.
904551
Love is more important but of course money is needed. Personality is much more important than looks but honestly, we need that physical attraction too. Family is more important than friends but I do love my friends too. College, more education is much better than going for a job after high school but sometimes that doesn't work out for some of us. I love getting letters but pictures are great for memories of special moments. I think it's important to show interest and care about the life of the the ones I love but my life is important too. It's all give and take. :)
1184107
Not only is it OK, it's important. It's a vital release and a learning tool for what you like to feel. This comes into play when you relate with someone else.