Is there a possibility for me to  become GAY?
471099
don't fantasize about men. change the subject you will forget about it.
975260
If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
849655
Sounds like your a curious person, tolerant of what you don't really understand, and you aren't homophobic. I would hazard a guess that one day you'll end up married, maybe with children. And throughout you're life you may have gay or bisexual male friends who you don't chastise just because of who they are, which would be very good of you. But then again, who knows what the future holds. One thing I do  know is that your curiosity will subside in time. It is very mature to "try" something in a safe environment (looking at "gay" stuff) where no harm can come to you.
663447
Im sure ther are plenty woman out there who would let you..u could try going to a gay club near you and see what happens.
472936
Ok, so I was in the exact same situation when I was your age (I'm 37 now).  I had a great gay friend tell me that I was gay.\n\nI was in denial, but I was also confused.  Take your time and let things work themselves out.  Don't be afraid to question your sexuality and don't let anyone try to influence you one way or the other.\n\nGood luck!
1157498
I doubt it. If you're truly homosexual then I don't think you can change your preference. I think some people aren't truly homosexual... so if you only have "tendancies" then I don't know... you'd have to figure that out.
132300
You will find if you dig a bit deeper in history than the current right-wing religious norm, homosexuality has existed as a natural state since the dawn of time and has often been a celebrated and more "enlightened" state of existance.  Whether this is true or not is up to you personally to decide, not your neighbors or family.  You could easily find a way to suppress your "gayness" through religious or philosophical means, but deep down it won't make you any less gay and the dichotomy of living a lie will have severe consequences on your long-term mental health.\n\nStart reading everything you can get your hands on, both the "religious viewpoints" and the secular (don't make any decisions without exploring both points of view).  Its ok to be gay, don't be a cliche...
738121
no.. i dont think being gay is in the hormones or is in the genes of a certain bloodline. i think its all about the environment of the person that she/he is with which triggered her/him to become gay.
91834
With a question like that, I think at this time in your life, your starting to question whether you really want to be gay or not.  Maybe your finding out that your missing out in life something you want, and about having an affair to find out if you want to change, or not.  If your not happy, then, I guess, it might be something like changing job's. If your not happy as far as where your at in life, then your the only one that WILL make that decission...   Dr Checko...   (Nickname)
70513
i don't think u can ,but if u could whay do you want to be a boy??
843290
He would say, "thanks, that is very nice, but I am gay....what are we supposed to do about that? " It is very easy to develope feelings for Gay men, they are open, funny, and easy to approach. Keep your feelings in check, for you know from the start that nothing can come of it other than friendship..which is nice, but not a romantic relationship, if that is what you are looking for. Gay men cannot suddenly become straight, anymore than a straight man can become gay. Leave it at that. Good luck
691190
I am not gay...but I have gay friends...\nWhat may lead a person to believeing they may be gay...hmmm...maybe when they catch theirself looking at others of the same sex, and thinking they are very attractive. Or just feeling attracted to one of the same sex...I guess if you were gay, sooner or later you would know it...and it would come to you naturally?
989399
Good question.  Theoretically you can be one from birth, but you wouldn't really know since you're not thinking of sex that young.  To know you're a lesbian (or straight, or bi, or into sheep, or whatever) would take a knowledge of love and/or sex at some level and the realization that you're interested in other women (again, or whatever).  I'd venture to say you might be able to figure it out before elementary school's over.  Then again you might not figure it out until you're in your golden years.
405728
immediately become a homosexual.
1132498
This is a really weird question.  Lol.  But sure, why not.  I'm gay, I'm a man.  Just go into my profile thing and do the whole Y! Messenger thing.\n\nEdit: I really am gay.  Lol.  If that's what you're worried about.  :-P  Just hit me up on Yahoo Messenger, assuming you have it.
59881
Your question is a very difficult question to answer.  By reading your question it says that you went gay/bi because a girl hurt you really bad and you decided to stay away from females for awhile.  I can understand that.  Now you are saying that you do not want to be gay/bi and that you want to have a family and think that a persons sexual prefrence is a way to get into heaven.(If such a place exists).  From the look of your history I see that you must have liked the men because you have had more of them.  The way I see it you have lived the last six years of you live with a pattern: 1,3,1,3,and? I say continue on and adopt.  Don't put your self in turmoil and remeber the end is only the begining.
519328
hell no.. doesnt make you gay unless you are fantasizing about another guy.. heres a tip for ya.. when your doing the palm sisters twist your wrist around.. works better.. doing the backstroke masturbating is healthy be the master of your domain