how do i make my man fall back in love with me?
458702
I see nothing in your words that refer to "love".  All I see is that you aren't "gettin" as much as you used to.  If that's all love means to you then I suggest you go your seperate ways.  If, however, the reduction of sex is just one part of your problems, then seek some professional help.
878112
make him interested, guyz get bored quickly by routine, we want new things to exite us, think of new things not just going out with you after work, there are lots of intersting things you could do...\n\nhave you looked at yoursel, to see if you are the one who has changed? many ladies do get complacent with their looks especially after landing a stable relationship and/or marriage, try to remain the person he fell in love with, not someone he cant recognise anymore,\nand lastly why would you want to move in with someone whose interest in the the relationship has gone down,   but be ware that love like anything novel gets worn with time. probably you were just exited for a new relationship, now you got to start living in the real world and understand that a relationship isnt just having fun, your other lives must go on.  good luck.
581111
there are many ways..\n1. say " <hisname> i love you" , close ur eyes, and kiss him on his lips..\n2. show him that you can change urself for him...as in if he doesnt like s'thing in u or likes s'thing..then change that habit or incorporate(the thing he likes) in urself...\n3. put in constant effort to look better and better...and also, keep ur self fit...(good for u too)\n4. learn to cook sthing that he really enjoys eating...\n5. subtly bitch about other men in front of him.. and more importantnly, NEVER praise any other man in front of him...\n6. tell him that u will be with her even if he looses all his money.. and all his looks (just say this.. and he will know taht u love her..)\n7. dont be greedy...once in a while settle for less expensive gifts...\n8. and this is the MOST important thing...TRY and SEE his point of view... u need not agree.. but just try and see.. and then repeat it to him...\n9. and if he still wants more...ask me back... u have my email id :-)\n10. Best of luck,.. (ur asking this question is proof enough that u love him...show him this link..! :-)
244111
Show your man a little bit of skin, not enough so that you're hanging out everywhere. Guys like something left to the imagination. Also, tell him how hot you are feeling and tell him what you wish to do to him. Good luck!
149613
If he still loves you, he'll come back. And if that doesn't work then try to make him jealous. (guys hate it when they can't have something).
783189
There is a strange thing about men.... they do not want what they can easily have. Try to distance yourself a bit: don't disappear but show him that you can have a great time without him and you may be surprised what he does.\n\nSpending big bucks on black magic is not the easy way to get him back: eventually it will turn sour, especially if he finds out that you attempted to manipulate his free will.
604142
there is really nothing that you can do but be yourself. There is a famous quote that i have heard and love. "Let love go. If it is true, it will come back." Just be who you are and if he really loves you then he will come back to you
715584
If you really want him to take you back just walk up to him and appoligize. If that doesn't work try too prove to him that you'd do \nanything for him. You could do something you told him you'd never do. What would make you take a guy back? Think of it like that. \n\nthe answerer
6189
i read this book called Mama Gena's Guide...it is your answer!!! it even has the part in the book that talks about your issue. it says that to get your man back, you have to show him that you are happy by yourself. it takes the pressure off of him and makes him interested in you. like, when he calls, say, i am so busy! i had the most fun day ever! (he doesn't want to come back to a depressed woman...even if you are, fake it when you talk to him). this will make you seem mysterious and more interesting. then, flirt him back to you!!! tell him you want him to come over ;) then just act like you are the most fun girl in the world. men think it is easy to make someone happy that is already happy. \n\nget the book, you won't regret it!!! :) much love to you in this hard time.
245356
It is true that you can't make somebody love you....But there is always the "game lovers play", in other words, YOU HAVE TO BE SMART ABOUT LOVE! If you show him too much interest, he will not have the desire to "chase after you" and remember that since the beginning of time men have been the "hunters", so what you have to do is find out what things he enjoys about a woman, and play with that information. Men like fun, sexy, loving girls that don't talk too much, are not crying their eyes out every minute of the day and that give them their space and are interested in THEM and in what they have to say, sometimes women have to create the environment so men will look at them with different eyes...Remember you gotta give and take away and that is how  you will keep a man interested and coming back for more!!! Hope this helps...it has worked for me every time! :-)
990687
I am not a marital expert, or a couselor, or psychologist... But I presume you both are on a threshold, the 2-3 years perhaps and that something in yours or his behaviour patterns have changed dramatically -- something that you/he were/was doing or just started doing... I would also presume you are a bit impulsive in nature... First of all, make sure that he loves you back; on offense, but it could be that he's looking to somebody else. DO NOT CONFRONT HIM !!! Just observe him at work, with friends, when alone... Do it quietly, on the background... If you can establish reasonably that there's no such threat, I recommend you a trip back in time: make him fall in love with you as he did the first time, only more deeper now. Love in marriage must be "refreshed" periodically -- it's about those dreadful thresholds or deadpoints -- you need to refuel the flame of passion... if this doesn't work, try talking to him as adults (no forceful positions, emotional blackmail, inflexibility...) Just make him understand that if he continues behaving badly, he will ultimately loose you.\nOne more thing: are you sure you don't do something that makes him wanting to get even? Carefully check your conduct... If there's nothing to provoke him, then he's the problem...\nAnd as a personal note: I detest the idea of controlling one's emotions (by controlling usually people understand hiding). I tried it and it nearly destroyed me. Feelings are ment to be expressed, especially in a relationship, no matter what their nature is. I'm not saying you have to bash his head with the pan; but yell, even break something, if you have to. Goodbye and good luck ! I hope I've said at least one thing you'll find useful, in all this mambo-jambo...
453660
Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
100520
Just be your self, don't try to get too much attention from him, because U could scare him and that only will make him run away from U.\nThe best way to show someone U're in love comes with the time of talking and seeing each other, and taking care of his problems and showing respect too.
121472
I wish I had the answer to that. You can't make him love you if he doesn't - you can't tell his heart what to feel. If you think he doesn't love you anymore, maybe the two of you could sit down & talk about your feelings? Maybe you are just reading him wrong & he still loves you but you don't perceive it that way. You may need to tell or show him what you need to feel loved - & perhaps he wants something from you to make him feel more loved as well. Try to communicate your wishes & desires to one another, your dreams, your plans for the future, your hopes. If you love him, let him know that all of those things include him for you. Good luck & best wishes.
126826
You can't "make" anyone fall in love with you.  But, you can be yourself and be happy in who you are.  Self-esteem is very attractive.  And, if he doesn't fall in love with you, it's OKAY.  There are plenty more where he came from!
26948
You cant "make" a guy love you (trust me i've tried). \nTry these things:\n1. Flirt\n2. Try telling him how you feel\n3. Make eye contact when you talk to him (show him that your interested in him)\n4. any accidently bumbing into him wouldn't hurt either. (just dont really hurt yourself or him when this happens- It's happened to me before)
396323
The best advice ever comes from the book and TV show "Sex and the City", the quote says "He's just not that into you." If you keep this in mind, you will avoid a lot of heartache. Realize that you cannot make anyone fall for you. If he says he just wants to be friends with you, he is already feeling pressured. Just imagine, if after 6 months of trying to get this guy's attention, how much time and energy you would waste trying to get this man to fall in love with you. Do yourself a favor, find someone else. And let the man come to you, don't ever chase a man.