What kind of things can you do on dates? How often should people, who were friends before, go out?
474240
He will probably always be shy. Then again there's always drugs and alcohol...
1002495
Yes. You should just be friends first and get to know one another before having a relationship. As friends talk about interests, what you look for in the opposite sex, what you want in a relationship. Then if things seem good, go out.
763505
I went on dates feeling like you do and to my surprise wound up falling hard?????????????????  What is the problem here?  You are getting out of the house!  Make the most of it.  If you go tomorrow thinking you won't have a good time, for sure you won't.  Why not go into this looking at it as having a night out and making the best of it.  How do YOU know you won't have a good time? You might just be surprised.  Also consider this.......when you are out there, you might just run into your real soulmate.  They can turn up in any place at any time, and when you least expect it.
205658
OK listen up the first thing a girl does not like to be pressured and i no from experience OK you go up to her when not to many friends are around and just start out with some small talk and then move in tho the big thing like what are you doing this Friday night because i was wondering if you would like to go on a date with me and she what she says form there....need any more advise and you know where to find me
79465
The new place in town or local happening. Resturant, art show, wine tasting event.... I'm sure you can find one that you would both be open to trying, whatever it is. The important thing is that's neutral ground so there is no baggage for either of you. If its a bomb she wont blame you. If its great you get kudos for originality.\n\nNo dinner and "anything", keep it short. If its not working you both have an out. Bad dates are torture and should end quckly. If it is working the night/day is still young and you can show the spontaneous side. If your not the spur of the moment type have a few ideas for part 2 of the date ready and fake it. Neutral ground rule applies here too. She's not ready to meet your friends or check out your haunts if she's not sure she's into you yet.
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1. Join a gym\n2. Join a book club and invite someone out for drinks/coffee after the club\n3.  Join an athletic club, like a community softball/soccer league - again, ask someone out for pizza/beer after a game\n4.  Go to a jazz club and pretend in your mind that are meeting someone. That way you'll feel like someone you know is really coming but you can still start up conversation with someone you meet there.  \n5.  Take a class (anything that interests you, photography, science, etc) at a local college or community college. That way, you can meet folks who have similar interests as you.\n6.  Go on a singles cruise\n7. Do speed-dating\n8. Ask co-workers out for drinks after work or just to lunch\n9.  Find activity pals on yahoo.com or other websites and go meet them.\n10.  Just say "hello" - you'd be shocked at the response you get!
145595
Will you go out with me? Would you like to go out? Would you like to catch a movie? Do you want to go out? Do you want to go steady? We should go out to eat sometime. Would you like to go out to eat? I enjoy spending time with you, wanna catch a movie? I like you, would you be my boyfriend? Do you wanna date? Lets Date!?! \n\nI wasn't sure if you meant out on a date or out "dating" (b/f and g/f...etc) Hope this helped and good luck! Knock him dead!
1086329
depends where he takes you lol. I know i probably wouldn't take my first date to the Cheesecake Factory but a local diner and movie or something would be nice.\n\nIt is also nice to try something active. It give you something to do if you and the other person are shy and don't talk alot. It could reduce awkward moments.
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There's no rule that says you can't go out as friends.  Funny, I was good friends with my husband before I found out he liked me and we started dating.  It was much easier because I could be myself around him, so he knew the "real" me.  But DO NOT plan a "romantic"-type date if you do not feel that way about her.  Don't string her along.  Do something buddies would do.  Who knows?  Maybe after you get to know her as a friend, you might want more.  Good Luck!  ;)
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casual dating is the WORST!  my best friend was in that position b 4.  It basically means that she will have a date with you on the nights she cant get someone else.  sorry to be the bare of bad news, but thats really how it is.  if she wont be serious with you now, the feelings wont grow and their isn't a future.  she will stick w/ you for some action on the lonely nights.
287087
yall should go out. But not if you're not suppose to have a boyfriend or you already have a boyfriend or he already has a girlfriend. Just make sure both of yall are available to do what ever without any problems!
431578
First dates for the young and innocent (assuming those still exist) usually work best at the movies. Depending on the movie (Comedy works best) you can laugh together, have something to talk about after the movie, and not be uncomfortable in silence (you are in a movie!)
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it depends on what type you and your partner like.\nA classic one: \nTake her to a dinner, somewhere with a good view and famous.\nA tour in the city. to see a musical maybe. (you decide the order) In the end (or close to the end) somewhere calm and comfortable enough to talk to eachother as long as you like.\nA funny one:\ngo to an amusement park or somewhere full of people who are about to die from boredom and watch them. (find something funny in the air I mean:) )\nMy Favuorite:\nA date that ends with a queit walk on snow late at night togetger with my girlfriend.\n\nA Best date I think is a date that you can show that you enjoy being with her, no matter the place time or situation. Is up to your ability to turn it to a best one.
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Ask about common movies you may have seen... if you find there is not one you've both seen, ask if he would like to go to one you both might like. The best way to connect with someone is to share a common experience, so try something like a picnic, or go to a museum, or try the Zoo. This way you'll have something common to talk about not only during the "date" but also afterwards... and it gives you a venue to learn more about each other. This is why I think movies are fine for some dates, but you want a place to go where you can talk and get to know each other (can't during a movie), and learn each other's likes and dislikes. Good luck!
890399
Wait til you are ready. But I hope you are going out with your friends. Sometimes a girls night out is what you need.
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my approach\n be friends\nget to know each other\nexchange numbers\ndate\nget to know each other more\ndate\nboy friend/girlfriend\nexclusive dating\nlong term relationship\nengaged\nmarriage
886703
To talk:) To get to know u better, who u re, Ur attitudes..Ur nature.. If u take her for a concert..ud be there as two strangers having fun, like at disco.. Not good so much. Movie..u cannot talk there..u just sit by her side and think whole the time what does she think, what u should do..etc.. The best is to take her to eat sth, not fast food and not some too snobbish restaurant. Take her to eat somewhere, where u will be able to talk, laugh.. And during the dinner u will know if u want to spend more time with her and she as well. And if everything goes well u will talk about what to do next.. And maybe u will just walk her in all honesty home - it s very nice..and maybe u will go to karaoke bar to sing:D U never know what d first date will be:) Good luck