why are all the men i kiss cheat n me and dump me?
457642
maybe because you are picking the wrong guys...they get with you, then see someone else they like, dump you and go after the other girl...
731515
"why do men cheat on there wives" correct question is "why do people cheat on their spouses" this is just the way some people can get the feeling of being younger without thinking of the ones at home and being hurt, the words "I'm sorry" may fix the glass on the floor in Pieces but not the feeling of having your partner cheating on you, you know what you need to do, get yourself out of the home and file, you need to see that there are men out there that will treat you as the queen that you are and finding one will be one of the simplest things to do, start off by treating your self as number one and under standing that this was done to you, not your doing at all. get rid of the dog and never look back. i see to many reasons why not to stay in this relationship. open your eyes and get on with your life...
538491
Because they are insensitve, selfish creatures. They like to pull that crap just to make you think that you aren't doing anything right in the relationship. They like to use that as an excuse. It's not your fault if he has no self control or self respect. You can do everthing right in the relationship and if he wants to, he'll still go out and cheat. It has nothing to do with you, so don't sweat it.
1171847
Now your situation reminds me of myself and one of my former friends'.\nOkay, now this is going to be a long one, so I want you to read through this end to end.\nI think what almost 8 out of 10 guys/girls will get cheated in their life time, which does not mean, they are going to turn into people who do not trust their future partners. Thats is SIMPLY ridiculous!!\nI got cheated and dumped by my first official girlfriend on Valentines day and then by second (and current) girlfriend. But that did not turn me into a green eyed monster, turning furious at any guy that my girlfriend speaks to. Infact I have come to trust her SO much that I let her express her 'crush' on a guy. She cheated on me not once, not twice but 3 times, but now I trust her enough that I know that she would NEVER do anything that would hurt me, that she would never fall into temptation even if she is in a room full of naked men!!!\nYour boyfriend is just using you, he has you on a tight leash. \nIf he does not trust you now, when do you expect him to trust you?? Come on, girl, you are in a world that has men!! Not in Venus, for crying out loud. \nYou may think that he is just been protective and stuff like that, but you know what, thats all just a lot of BULL CRAP!!!!\nI have been there and I am back. When you are so controlling, it is not because he loves you, but because he gets that inner satisfaction that he has 'held' you. He is happy that you 'obeying' him and 'at his commands'. Is this what your parents brought you up for?? Do you not have any self respect or indignity left??\n\nYou have to sit down and talk to him, or else your freedom will be history. Even animals learn to overcome cheating spouses and learn to love their new faithful partners, so where does he get his theory that he is not able to let go on his past??\nOkay, so he got cheated, he may also have got cut with a knife, or fallen off a bicycle, but that didnt stop him from using a knife or a cycle, did he?? Thats right. He is using the oldest trick in the Mens (not very) Big Book of Excuses.\n\nI could go on and on.. but I guess I am done typing for the day. \nOver and out for the Weekend!!\nBut you better make a informed move, dont stick around with the Loser!!\nCheers!!
168462
Because you are a good man!! That is so great!! Not a lot of men are like you!! Don't ever change the way you are. And don't ever cheat!!
1152321
I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
762701
Be careful. Many of them are out to cheat guys off their money. They probably have a secret long term useless local boyfriend that they have to support and guess who's supporting them and their useless parasite boyfriend?!
923235
Guys are like that, SOOOO immature. It's not your fault, I'm sure you're wonderful and don't deserve the weirdness of men...unfortunately they are such good kissers!!!
762648
F U CK YOU son of a b i t c h you unfaithful i d i o t.The evil that men do lives after them.As you make your bed you will lie on it.In life someone very important to you will leave you frustrated when things are tough and you will ask God why me.But will not know that you have just proven to him that you cannot be trusted.And don't mind the insults you deserve them.Have a nice day know that what you do in life has an effect on you no matter what.Thank you
910665
I don't like doing long answers ... so i'll TRY keep this short .\n\nMOST WOMEN LIE TO THEMSELVES....\n\n...and not just to men ... they actually make excuses for what they do because they are conditioned to believe that cheating for pure physical reasons is something that only men do ... but those days are long gone...  all this nonsense about an emotional connection (b4 a woman cheats) does not fool real men like me ... \n\n...men just admit that they are weak where this is concerned and accept the guilt that comes with it...  ownership.  \nguys nowadays are too busy being bullied by women ... to pull their heads out of their A$$es, ...stand up and be MEN\n\nDr Bad\nNo one bashes BAd\n\nps. you have been asking some really good questions lately ... this is one of them... keep it up ... or i'll lose concentration.  ;-))
1169023
Come on, cheating is cheating! You know, that thing you do that goes against the rules. For example,  if your girl says, "You can't kiss other girls, D." Then you gotta respect that, otherwise, it's cheating. Why do people cheat? Sheer laziness(when it comes to tests),boredom(when it comes to relationships), and a God-complex(when it comes to games)
919694
that's because your nice and the men they date are pigs. i wouldn't change...try to meet different women. those who can appreciate the qualities you have to offer.
1112045
They do that to weaken your defenses and give in to their evil agenda which is to get you laid. So be smart and don't be fooled. Be more keen on looking for  consistent actions that affirm his words before you ever think of believing each word he says. It's always wise  to be cautious.Men can be very deceitful and insensitive. Some will even walk away and not look back pretending he doesn't have any idea how devastated you are.
52172
Tell yourself that you are you! People may be better at something than you are, but that is them.\nYour boyfriend is with you because he likes you for you. If he dumps you, you're just not meant to be with him.
293258
People cheat because they are selfish and there are selfish partners who will cheat along with them.\n\nThis is not a man/woman thing, unless all of these men are cheating with other men.  They are cheating with women.  Therefore, there are as many women cheaters as men.\n\nNot everybody cheats on their partner, not everyone in an affair is married.  But both parties are guilty of violating YOUR vows (if you were married, I see this was "just" a boyfriend)\n\nIt's not a man/woman thing, it's a character issue, and the character of both cheaters is the problem, not gender.
840386
He's jealous and probably retaliating and pulling away from you b/c of your "guy friends". No man buys the "we're just friends" bit  b/c they always try to read too much into it. Now, if your guy friends are gay they'll tell you to your face what I'm saying now: dump the dude and go for grade 6 tall, dark,handsome & bashful.
692434
That's a hard question to answer. It sounds to me that you've been involved with the wrong men. Don't accept 2nd best and you'll eventually find that there are decent, genuine warm hearted guys out there.\n\nAnd try not to generalise or Typecast, we're all different!