i have a b/f who wnts a 3sum n i dnt rlly wnt 2 but it will make him hppy what do i do? i love him alot.?
468570
If your not comfortable with it you shouldn't do it. If he truly cares for you as much as you care for him he won't mind a twosome.
769438
I wouldn't chalk up the quick to throw insult "Cause he's a loser." Obviously you see something in someone who you've been with 6 years. All guys, myself included, hide demons that we don't want exposed. Don't be pushy about it. Don't push him away. Give him space and talk it out with him. Say, "Hey, you know. I want things to be better. I want us to communicate a little better than we do." Don't freak him out by it. Just play it smooth. Surely there are things you hide from HIM as well. Maybe not the same types of things, but things nonetheless. Maybe in a past relationship he's cheated on his girlfriend and feels that if information like that was leaked, you'd trust him less. Us men have our hang-ups, too. We just explain them differently. Good luck, and I sincerely hope your situation gets better.
832501
Well don't dump him because that would pro-bally make him want to do even more crazier stuff than getting high. just tell him that you love him to much and you don't want him to get hurt. Take him to a doctor or something. He needs you more than ever now.
297176
well if you 2 are sexually active with each other make it night he'll never forget. do the works. show him the secret side of yourself. let him know that you're all his and he's all yours.
351849
Honestly? nothing, there is no reason why your boyfriend can't think your friend is cute.  This is not a statement about you or your relationship.  I personally am in love with the most amazing woman on earth, and I think that Elizabeth Hurley is cute, this doesn't make me a bad person or mean that  I love my girl any less.  Now if he is giving you reason to doubt if he is being faithful, then talk about your concerns but it is  VITAL that you don't start accusing him or her of anything without a reason.  Try and be more secure in yourself, after all your guy is with you isn't he?
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Well unfortuanatlly it sounds as if you all were two vines growing up a tree now it seems as if you all are on different trees.  You shouldn't have to change if your not what he wants in life then you will be happier not staying with him.  Becuase it will lead to cheating later on.  Sorry this fish got off the hook theres plenty of time to catch plenty more fish in that huge sea
1181850
With all honesty, he sounds like a perv. But this question isn't about that, so in my opinion is sit him down and ask him if he respects you. His answer is key to your relationship, cause if he doesn't then it should end it right then and there. After asking him that ask him why when you take his hand away for your boob, that it somehow finds its way back again and again. Make sure you have a serious look on your face and have a serious tone, so that he knows that you dislike that stuff happening. Tell him that you are a lady and if he respects you then he will not let it happen ever again. But here is another key part, if you let it happen again, then you do not respect yourself, and don't expect him to either. But I give you my best wishes and thoughts.
316759
Ask him if it's you, or is there anything you can do to ease his troubled mind.  If he says no, then its best to leave him alone, go out with your girly pals until he gets over it.  trust me, once he's sulking all alone in a dark apartment for hours with his pathetic poor-me bullshit, and starts to imagine you playing 3-D naked twister with your girlfriends, he'll get over that imature I-Me-Mine game real quick!
248129
Yes, unfortunately it's natural for the initial magic to die out.  However that's an ideal time because it's the time when a true bond between 2 people start forming and the relationship gets stronger.  So, yes the initial magic and euphoria ends; however, it is replaced by a magic that is much stronger.  Sometimes things like emails and text messages die out, but don't focus too much on the trifles.  Instead, look for other things.  Does he seem happy or miserable when he sees you?  Also, if you really liked the text messages and emails you can ask him what happened to all of those?  Just don't make too big a deal out of it when you do.  Tell him that you liked it when he did that.  Maybe he's had a very busy schedule and it's harder to do that.  Otherwise, maybe he's still waiting for you to text him and email him back from the last time.  Maybe you don't do that as much as you did if you also did that for him.  Maybe he also misses the text messages and the emails.  I'd suggest that maybe you start doing little nice things for him without expecting anything back in return.  This will add more passion to the relationship and he will probably notice and eventually do something a little creative back for you to show you that he loves you greatly as well.  If you think about it, this makes the relationship exciting again like it was just started all over again because now you have the thrill of not knowing what the other person is thinking and trying to figure him out all over again.  Good luck to you!  :-)
541647
Wow, that hurts!!Be strong and wise girl.It's hard but remember that theres no way you can control him, or his actions, including him leaving his girlfriend. Your probably thinking that you love him and no one will ever compare to him. I'm a girl too, I know how we are.But I'm sure you've felt that way for someone else before him.Look ahead to the love you will find after him...and know that your new man is all yours.Sometimes you have to look at the big picture for what it is. Your man is lying to both of you...is that fair to you or her? Put yourself in her shoes...how would you feel? And I'm sure you've heard that saying that what goes around comes around. Treat others how you wanna be treated. Anyways...trust your gut....it's already telling you to leave...listen to that and find happiness. Good luck with everything and if you ever wanna talk, feel free to contact me! And please dont let that player win the game.
355320
I think the change in (financial) status of your B/f is messing with your head. What you need to remember is that you really DON'T have a solid proof that he's cheating on you, so, if you intend to keep him, you may have to broach on the subject very carefully.\nTalk about it with him gently, show your fears as someone who loves him, and is afraid of what the changes in behavior (if there's any) may lead to. \nYou just have to find a way of understanding him, believing in him and loving him without all these suspicions... That is relationship killer number 1!
1170420
u need to tell ya b/f whats going on as far as her calling your phone. tell him how u truely feel about it. and have him tell her  to stop trying to pull you guys apart if he really loves you
735236
Nicole, be yourself sweetie. If he does not think that you love him well he has the problem. I have tried so many times to tell my partner how much I love him. He never takes me serious , so I have given up. I feel if he does not believe me, well that is his bad luck. This to me is a no trust thing in my book!!!!!!
230099
if u love him that much then why cant u stay with him and change back to yr old self?, dont ever change for anyone, be yourself.
493961
First issue its nice that you want to make him happy, but don't completely get rid of who you are to completly cater to him.  Ask yourself this question... While your sitting up here asking you could do to be perfect for him, is he asking what he could do to be perfect for you?  You cant make someone else the complete focuse of your life, ive seen it happen so many time where girls definition of herself is her relationship and the shits not healthy.  Make sure you love yourelf before changing yourself for someone else cuz if he loves you for you thats all you need to worry about.
981481
Oh my gosh. That cheating little....!!! is how most people would react but be above that. Sit and talk with him and if he truly loves you then he will let HER  go to be with you. You are probably better than her anyway but keep level headed and you will most likely steer clear of trouble. Good luck and I wish you the best.
609266
as long as ure bf is nice to you and love you so much, no harm for you to do the same thing to him. when u happy to do anything for him.. it doesnt matter what other ppl say abt u two..