Me and my bf are on a break and i miss him, but I don't know what is should do about it..?
460629
leave him alone. he wants a break to think about stuff, give him a break to think about stuff. Go do whatever you like to do. Run, swim, read, shop, bike ride. Whatever. Give him the space he is asking for.
675349
Maybe now - he appreciates you more that you are not together. He misses you dearly. If I were you - follow your heart!
227283
I think maybe you should take a break from this guy.  Sounds like you are the only one getting back together with him.  There is someone else out there for you.
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
387386
I would make a list of things that I like to do and just do them or I would hang out with my family.  You can send an ecard to him and express how much you miss him. You can't be together all the time and this should be good practice for you. Also, I would start planning for the night he gets back home. Dinner? Movie? Lingerie? Use your imagination!
566469
Be supportive and understanding. He's not on a vacation. Patience is key and there will be times you'll want to speak with him and maybe he won't be able to give you the time you desire.Make what time you do have to speak with him quality time and don't expect quantity time then when you get it, it's a pleasant suprise.Try not to worry him over things he can't control while away. Handle as much as possible on your own. Being with someone in the military is different than other relationships. You play a very important role. You hold down the fort while he has to be gone...I wish you both the best...
957028
Keep the conversations going. Ask him to send you postcards and stuff so he has to think about you while he's away.
574136
So do i :-( you are lucky to have ur boyfriend by your side sometime. I feel neglected all the time by my bf. It seems he does not care anymore
81580
should say good things that you remember about the time you're still together... bring back the good ole memories... try to flatter her and lower yourself... make him/her feel that it's your fault or something... that'll make him/her feel better and it softens heart.... good luck!
393845
I think it is something that will just take time.  If your goal is to forget about him, it won't happen.  Rather, be greatful that you had an opportunity at such a rewarding relationship - not the most common thing.  Maybe you are not ready to be with someone else, and need more time to heal from the break.  Time does heal all.
721223
Just let him go and dont think about him. Let it happen and make sure that he tells you a great reason why he is breaking up with you and see if you two can be friends and talk to you.
694030
Relax. Remember how much fun it was. Then take your time to get used to them again.
201455
I think that you two may need a brake from each other. Maybe you guys just need to think about it and see what you lives are like without one another.
378266
i personally feel that the two of you should try and stay in contact you know be friends. this way it gives you and him the chance to develop a relationship on a higher level....communication. who's to say that he is the one for you, you might find out in the long run that he wasn't the correct choice for you and because you are taking the time to get to know him mentally you will  more than likely have no regrets. and if its meant to be he'll be there for you. plus the relationship will be a strong one because you took the time to get to know each other.  lastly even though you are going away to school you do get breaks and time off to go see your love ones...this can be the time you spend with him to catch up on the time you spent apart.
669981
just see what happens on saturday. if you still feel like you want him back, take him back.. just don't jump into it real quick cuz you don't wanna get hurt again and he probably doesn't want to either. BUT if you go back out with him... PLEASE make sure he's the only one.. but anyways.. GOOD LUCK!!! ♥
669391
Be away from him for a little while (like take a family trip or something) then he'll want to spend much more time w/ you.
129813
how long have u been broke up?  is there any chance at all that u may make up and get back together soon?  cause if there is then you shouldn't go make that mistake and injure the chances of that.  it makes things way more complicated.  But if not then u should definetly do it b/c if u r feeling down do something to make u feel special and worthwhile for a lil bit.