is it confidence or delusion? (ladies please)?
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The women who are hot & say they are not, are fishing for compliments. The one's who are not so hot and think there are, they know they are not, they just have a hard shell of self confidence, which is good, they want compliments to. I think im hot, not the hottest but who is? We are all hot in our own way, inside or out.
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Confidence. Low self-esteem
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You are just nervous. It is natural to feel some doubt after all what if you get rejected. What you need to remember is that men find assertive, positive, and direct women to be irresistable. Long story short just Say It already.
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Confidence. That she is strong, but sweet. Someone to play with their hair and rub their backs. But someone who is strong with goals and who wants to make something of themselves.If you believe you are a catch, they will too. Be nice, strong, consistent (don't b*tch and moan) but don't take crap either. Be understanding and someone they can count on. Be forgiving. And just remember you are a prize and not him...that is confidence baby!
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I just answered your question about how to prove to your gf that you love her.  Sounds like you might be the one that could be insecure?  Don't worry man.. just chill.  Girls are more attracted to confidence than anything else including looks, smarts, ...
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I really like Alan's advice and I think he is right on.\nSo please do give what he said a try.\nUs women really do want to get to know you good,shy guys :o)
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Hmmmm...interesting screen name.  Insecure perhaps.  Have more confidence Nasty Girl.  Men DIG confidence.  No need to snoop when you know you are TOGETHER!  I am sure you are wondeerful...show it :)
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It's OK to be the nice guy but there's a recipe for putting it to action...It's a little something I like to call confidence...I'ma pretty bigg guy myself but the one place I've never had a problem with was when it came to girls...If your fat you have to try hard to carry it right...and play it like you confident...I used to call my stomach before I lost some pounds myself my lovable hug-able muscle and the ladies loved it, thought it was cute cause I never put myself down...without confidence nothing will ever fall into place...give it a try    NICE GUY + CONFIDENCE =  SUCCESS ...
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Different doesn't have to be great always....go for your gut feeling...women's intuition is generally right
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Honestly I think I am an okay girl who can be somewhat of a clutz. LOL I also think of myself as a take charge person who knows what she wants and goes out and gets it. Sometimes I don't think I am the most beautiful girl in the world, but I think that there are many girls out there that feel the same. My husband makes me feel the self confidence to go out and do anything. But yea, you asked for honesty. There it is point blank. :)
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Sometimes looks can be deceiving, but the description you gave would seem to warrant the impression you have of her. Does she flaunt herself in front of the guys??
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We like confidence in a woman.  So, don't be shy to flirt! Also, we appreciate honesty. So, just be yourself..as opposed to putting on a fake persona and trying to win his heart that way.
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I'm not totally following where you are going with this...  You sound like a nice enough guy.  Confident.  Sucessful.  Maybe you aren't meeting the right women?
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Thats your first problem no confidence, girls can "smell" that... be more confident man.
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I think you should just believe in your self. Believe that you are comfindent and you will be. Your the only one who says you have no self confidence. I belive you do. So just believe in yourself and this girl thing will be no problem. You never know she may like you to. And this shaking stuff is just nervous. Just say something random. Just say anything to her and you'll get over the whole nerve thing. Well Good luck even if you dont take my advice.
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Why did you lose your confidence?  Was she THAT crazy?  I don't think that you are suppose to be with a lunatic. Unless . . . are you crazy?  ; - }  Just kidding.  Maybe you should spend some time on doing things that you enjoy.  If you meet a woman with the same intrests, you may find her less, trainwreck-ish!
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Haha this isn't a question.  But it sounds like you're crushing majorly. haha. that's cute. good luck with the ladies!