how can I make myself want to have sex with my fiance?
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Are you overworked, kids, school or Stress? Maybe, your significant other can help you more with your responsibilities? In order to be intimate you have to be comfortable in the other aspects of your life. Talk to him and explain everything that going on in your life.  Tell him when your ready if he can be patient he'll know! Explain that sex will be more passionate etc when your not pressured, that way it wanted and you both can enjoy.
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another way for him to express his love is to respect u enough to wait until ur married to have sex.\n\nif he's not willing to wait, then he is only interested in sex and ur better off without him, even if u think u cant survive without him.\n\nu have to ask him is he's willing to wait for u bcos that's the decision u have made. if he;s not willing then u have to move on. there;s no other way around it.\n\ndont get forced into anything u dont want. dont sleep with him just to keep him, bcos if sex is all he wanted he will leave after he gets it.
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Can you get your priest or clergyman to help you?  Perhaps you could meet with him and your fiance and talk it out with him.  Or maybe a therapist?  \n\nGood luck, girl, and don't let your parents or your fiance talk you into something you don't want to do.  GOOD LUCK!
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you need to relieve yourself by thinking of her or even better ask her to help you. You can do it without having sex. Ask her to watch you. It's fun!!!Or just ask God to help you until you are ready for marriage.
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He might want you to, and maybe even expect you to, but you are not obligated.  If you want to do it, then that's fine.\nBut if you wait to have sex until you are in a committed relationship, then it will be much easier.  You and your husband could talk about these things and know exactly what each other expects.  And you will probably want to do it if you love him and that's what he enjoys.
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It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
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Girl get your sexy on and don't take it off.\nNothing but sexy under ware. Keep yourself hot looking for your man. As hot as you can or as cute as you can. Don't let yourself go cause he asked you to marry him.\n\nKeep it hot! Pretend that he's not your fiance and he's still a man that you are still tying to get with.\nWhat ever your game is to attract  a man is the same game you use to keep him.\nIf the boobs are nice make him want to peek at them.\nIf the butt is nice bend over and pick stuff up in front of him with you hot pants/under ware what ever on.\nWhen your picking out your clothes to wear stand in front of the closet door nude with nothing but the closet light on.\nNothing like doing it in the closet.
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Try new and exciting things together that neither of you have ever done before.  Any interest in sky diving?  Bungy jumping?  Not that advnturous?  Join a gym together and work out together.  Play board games FOR SEX BETS!  If u win u get whatever u want and if he wins he gets what he wants.  Makes it much more interesting!  Pick something u have ALWAYS wanted to do and then just have him join you!  Or ask him if theres something he has always wanted to do but hasnt and do that with him!!!!!  Good luck to u!
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Tell him why you want to have sex with him.  Chances are he will still do it anyway.
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lol...... I just laughed my *** off..... Are you really THAT conservative?!\n\nYou're American, right?! Only an American woman can ask something like that.....\n\nIn most countries on this earth, girls start having sex with 14/15/16, so they can't be married at that time.....\n\nIMHO, late sex can cause more problems than early sex, because sex is good for the blood circulation in that kind of area.\n\nSex will never cause any problems. The only exceptions are infections, but you can't get any if your fiance is also still a virgin.\n\nI recomment sex with your fiance before you marry. The day you marry, in the eving, you will not be able to have as good sex as in other nights, because of the whole stress about the marriage. \n\nIt's up to you, but morally and physically it's perfectly okay to have sex with your fiance if you really love him and want to marry him.
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You cannot talk someone into it,nor should you attempt tp manipulate someone to get what you want.\nInstead talk with your significant other letting him/her know that you are interested in trying this,be sure to tell him/her that it is not because you are not happy with him/her,but that you just want to enhance the great sex you already have.\nThere is a difference between love and sex,and couples who are secure in their relationship with each other are able to seperate the 2 and simply enjoy exploring with each other and if they both want to are able to bring another person in for some sexual spice.\nIf they both feel it is something they want to do there is nothing wrong with it at all.
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Actually - there are many ways to have a great sex life. Spice things up. Never get in a routine. If you do the same things time after time - it becomes dull. Try new places - new postions - go out and buy gels;creams;masks;whips; just things in general that you think would turn your partner on. if you have any further questions pretaning to this - please let me know. I have been with my boyfriend (fiance) for 8 years now - we have a wonderful sex life!
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Finding someone attractive does not me u are not ready for marriage. Lk into your heart and see if your fiance and marriage is what u want in life right now
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DO relax and enjoy yourself; unwind from all the excitement and stress of the wedding.\nDON'T put high expectations on yourself & your partner to have wild, passionate sex all the time.  You will have plenty of time for that.
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Sex alone does not make the marriage! Some people are different about it, he must feel secure with you, don't worry about it, if you love each other feel good! If you want to make love with him ask and be patient.
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Sounds like you've done everything I would have suggested. I guess just keep talking and try to figure some things to make things interesting. Maybe try creating a different type of relationship for awhile. Try not having sex for a year or so and engage in activities that may remind both of you of sex but are in no way related. Go talk to a sex therapist. Sorry, that's the best I got
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Talk about sex in your email and what you want to do to one another . Just be true to her and don't let your hormones ruin your relationship .\n\nAngel