Why do women justify abuse, just because a man is a "sexy bad boy"?
461968
They have no self respect,low self esteem,poor body image and in their subconscious psyche they feel they deserve it.
397836
I think because the thrill is attracting to women. The thought of doing something "naughty" something they shouldnt be doing.\nBut in the end every women wants a good man that is going to treat them right and that wants the same things out of life as them
360004
i think that spanking is just one more way for men to put women in the subservient position that ensures their power.any guy who gets off on being powerful over a woman should seek help . as women we should be holding our men to a higher standard . popular culture should not dictate the norm.
182466
cuz they are boys... they arent men.. and i resent the militious comments towards the male sex, we arent all scumbags that will do anything that moves, some of us actually highly value our special lady, and would never stoop to hurt them like that.
221815
Not all women are like that.  I think it is a poor stereotype.  Yes, women have gotten men into all kinds of trouble, but it has worked both ways too.  Men often let themselves be drawn into trouble due to immaturity, ego or infatuation.  The responsibility is shared...maybe more on the man's side since he is ultimately responsible for his own life and decisions.
168392
I like bad guys, my last bf was a good guy and I just couldn't stand it! He was soo careful about everything, like I was made out of class, I'm a strong woman, I need a guy who can keep up with me! Plus, I think bad ones ar hotter ;)
908523
Thats what turns some guys into bad boys..\nThe nice guys get tired of the women taking their baggage out on them and become assholes.
1101576
Some people are just great con artists-jails and the White House are full and of them!! Some guys, unfortunately think that women are just a token for their manhood, a notch on the belt; the more notches the more they can brag to their buddies! Some guys do it because they need to fill their egos by fooling and hurting unsuspecting women. These guys as well are just creeps too! There are no explanation or excuse for these low lifes!!
229637
I'm sorry about what happened to you and your family.  \nI can't understand why women put up with abuse, either.  I can only imagine that it's because those men have a power over the women's minds.
270885
same reason most of the woman want a handsom man. but for example, if a handsom man beats me up and treats me like dirt, but the average looking guy treats me like a princess then im going to be with the average guy - because looks arent everything. i just think looks are what come first. then personality. and we all want someone who's good looks match a good personality.
974897
Because they are insecure creatures and do not believe they are worth being loved in a true and pure manner.  The best way to handle a woman is to be manly with her plain and simple.  I call it "being Sinatra" ... After you practice being a take charge type of guy she will respect you....Stop asking a woman "what do you want to do?" and start making plans and sticking to them...That's what women want and that's what they respect because they only knew from what they saw their daddy doing, and he was always in charge of her.....Once they get older they find all these mamby pamby boys that are always trying to be nice.  Be nice when you need to be and be manly all the time.  good luck damn it.
484346
Because they have no consideration for women. Women are displays of sex and domestic workers. Some men are highly selfish and don/t consider the feelings of the other person. I don't think that  you can completely trust a man, because hey, he is a man, but you can get to a point where you can accept him for who he is as long as he doesn't jeopardize your relationship. Think though, the guy who cheated on me is now being cheated on  with a woman that he is absolutely in love with. Karma is a bitch with highheels and a miniskirt....:)
1160237
He's still with his girlfriend right?  Then he probably doesn't want to get back with you, although he doesn't wish harm on you.  That's why he probabaly wanted to beat that guy up.  Many guys feel that it's their duty to protect women that have been violated like you were.  If you would have been raped (God forbid) then he and probably quite a few othr guys would have probably wanted to beat him up to, because it's not right and they would feel that it was their duty as men to beat him.
664259
only masochistic women do that, or women who are stupid enough to think that she can 'tame' a bad doy (no one ever can do that, the wil to change has to come from within). \nas for em, i find bad boys attractive but only to fool around with. and i think looking tough is no guarantee for great sex. sometimes the nice ones are surprising.\nfor a real relationship, i prefer the nice, FAITHFUL, sweet, educated, and romantic type. especially if they have a steady job.that means im a grown up who appreciate myself. \ngirls who prefer bad boys are not in a state of existence which is ready for a real commitment. theyre just fooling themselves that somehow they are vicariously having an adventure.
392639
First i broke my cycle of abusers, I have been married to a wonderful man of 5 years whom has never laid a hand on me or cheated on me, doesnt go out with frieds without me we are always together....but when i was younger and stupid i dated abusers and cheaters. A good guy back then was too nice, up my bum, and tried to hard.  After several tries and hurts, a friend of mine made me write a list of qualities in a husband and father that i would want in the future.  and i went by that list and found my husband thank god. and the guys that are that way do something to girls... they make them feel like they are nothing and no one else would ever want them. That is why women stay and why women are attracted most of the time to other guys who will treat them like that to.
1105836
my boyfriend slapped me back because hes not a little bitch....she wants to act like a man treat her like one, you cant just hit people cuz ur a woman.
679384
A very complicated question, but I think the following generalization applies many times:  if an insecure woman (and there are many) get properly abused by a guy, they subconsciously think that he must be better than her.  Why?  Because he's confident enough to treat her badly, and she's going to love it because she's hanging with a better guy than her.  If he didn't feel superior, he wouldn't risk treating her bad for fear that she would leave.  It's human nature to want to be with people better than you.  This is an overly simplistic answer, but it's more or less the fundamentals of it.