Would you go out of state with a man you been dating for 5 half months?
472890
nope, the next thing you would know, you're already inside a trash bag\nits not that im being mean, but you wont know people these days, he might be psychotic and you would not know it. just be careful, 5 months is not enough!
79929
At least with the girlfriend scenerio I have a chance to be with him, if he is in the area that I live. If he isn't in the area that I live and I only see him once or twice a year, Africa would be ok.  It all depends on the circumstances.
397153
Sounds like he's thinking of exploring the new territory. Let him be and see if he contacts you. if not then good ridence you deserve better. distance should never be a relationship destroyer..just ask all of us military wives. a few hundred miles is nothing compared to growing old with the one you love..maybe he isnt the one for you. Go find mr right he IS out there
301568
Dont go.It makes it worse. If you dont want to be with him end it.If you go on holiday and you end up falling out its much worse as your alone in a foreign country
796589
If you like him enough I think you would know the answer....be with him, even if it is for a short amount of time--- your with him---.....Now if you think your better admiring from afar do so. Now if its  because you are afraid of having more bad labels on your  rep. get over it...its rumors, not true, made up and in 7 months it WONT matter. It just depends on where y our heart is!
160317
You should wait 1/3 of the relationship.\n\nSay you went out for 3 months. So, you should wait one month before dating again.\n\nCommon trick- not too fast, not too slow.
561472
I know how you feel! I had the same decision to make. I moved from NYC to OH (500 miles)about 2 years ago, so my son could be closer to his father (He is my ex husband).  Well his father decided to go back to NY and left his son and me here in OH.  I knew my ex for 20 years and we were good friends.  Now I am stuck out here with no family or longtime friends.  But I do have a wonderful career and I am surviving with the aid of one awsome friend.  He has been the one to help with the adjustment of a totally different life.  All I am saying is think before you move.  A month isn't long enough to decide if you should move 2000 miles away. Especially if you just got together.  It takes time and alot of trust to move far away from everything you know to start a life with someone.  You need to know if she is going to be your leaning post when you need it.  A month isn't long enough.  And if it doesn't work then you have to be prepared to be on your own in an unfamiliar place. I wish you luck and hope everything turns out great.  PS - I don't regret anything but just look at every aspect.
746113
you are right it will not last if you stay in fla and he goes to az. so one of you has to move where the other is moving or break up. so one of you has to make the big decision as to what to do. right?\ngood luck and god bless and happy holidays.
582963
yes...how can you claim to be going out if you don't go out? unless it is a long distance relationship, there's something really wrong. Maybe you should try to ask him out on a date or ask him if he sees it going anywhere...literally.
410890
As soon as you are ready.  I started dating the same month that my Ex moved out.  I never regreted it and I found a wonderful man.  Go for it.
733361
move on now.... don't regret not doing it sooner. when he goes miami there will be beach bum chicks every where he won't be thinking about you. go 4 it gal...xx
265704
Maybe you dont love him enough to move in with him. You dont have to tell him that you dont love him as much as you want too right now. But geez youve only seen him for 7 months. Explore your options, live your life and date him. But for god sake you do not have to move in with each other. Unless of course he is your night and shining armor and you want him to be around you 24/7!
814270
It all depends on whether or not your comfortable having a long-distance relationship. if you chose the guy who lives further away, you'd have to deal with seeing the other guy all the time.
554893
I'm curious about three ways, and in the midst of giving the guy I was dating some space.  Right now, I just need to f- - k, with no strings attached (but on a regular basis),  If you live in VA, I'm down.
49272
Go for it. If you wait she may move on and find some one else. It's only 5 weeks of long distance, but it you don't go for her, it may be a lifetime without her.
449675
Its probably a temporary move foe modelling, right?  I would take it.  You will always wonder what if, if you don't.  Also it will be a true test of your relationship if you can survive being apart.
7010
well if in the five months that this has been going on it seems that you havent spent to much time with her and all of a sudden she wants to move in and has a boyfriend. RED FLAG, if you like chaos then go ahead.