My boyfirend and I broke up, because of his attitude, I'm still in love with im, what should do?
465799
Obviously you guys love each other bad attitude that's why you guys get in the relationship in the first place. Do you think your next boyfriend who might not have a bad attitude can tolerate your bad attitude? Maybe you guys were meant to be together with both bad attitudes.
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
307737
What you have to do is remember that you're x's for a reason, don't dwell on all the happy, romantic stuff that went on with you and him, think of why you broke up and how you felt and what the problems were.  There's always a good reason why we break up with someone.
1152456
well, whats have been done is done...so,if u still in love with him, wait for the right moment and explain again to him what really happen!i think he's gonna understand it!!
129531
At first forgive him, because he is a fool and really poor minded. But then try to move on, you deserve someone who cares and loves you in return.\n\ngood luck :-) I know how you're feeling
1051402
Honey, no man is worth moving for. If your happy with your current living situation, stay! If you wanna move to make him happy, why are you even getting back with him? You obviously broke up for a reason. Stick to your guns and dont make any decision based around him.
687856
Well first I'm curious why u broke up with him. If it was because he was cheating then he really isn't worth it.\n\nIf its something else, try approaching him as a friend and get an idea of how he feels about you. Work from there.
729285
If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.
1026549
U muz love him a lot to hurt so badly. But u muz also feel feep in your heart this guy is not worth all the heartbreak u are feeling now. He is full of lies. I hope u r not considering going back to him as a leopard can never change his spots. Don't give him a second chance to hurt you! Tell yourself, u r greatful for this learning experience. U have become the wiser for it. U r gorgeous and not lacking in anything. U have the world spread out in front of you. Who is he? He is just a nobody u shld leave behind
1116175
hotti, i was in the same situation.  I loved him and he cheated so i broke up w/ him.  It was hard to get over and i thought that i would never get over him, but i did.  \n\nFirst, get rid of anythign and everythign that reminds you of him.  EX:  Pics, notes, letters...ect\n\nNext, now that you have your mind off of him, keep ot off and try new things.  Make sure to be having fun.  Go to a club and hang out with friends.  Party.  Then do more fun stuff like somethign you never did b4.  If you have nvr been surfing, try that.  Or try any of these:\n~skydiving\n~bunjee jumping\n~eat a lot of ice cream\n~introduce urself to a new type of music\n~go to a concert and 'Rock out!!'\n~get a journal and in a red pen write "I hate _________"  (fill his name in)  and fill the whole jorrnal.  If that dont work, use a more appropriate word, like a*s*s* , jerk, loser, or anythign else.  Be creative.\n~hang out with a million other people you dont know\n~have a night on the town with your mom or best friend.\n\nHere are some really fun things that you could do to get him mad:\n~order magazines in his name and send them to his house.  Make sure thay are girly or childish magazines\n~sneak into his house and draw all over his face with red marker\n~hang all of his underwear outside with a sign that says "A*S*S* crack undies.  Free.  Never been used.  lol (do you get it)\n~Just have fun.\n\nI hope i helped.  Dont cry over a jerk.  You will definately find a better guy who loves every part of you no matter what.
1139451
I used to have the same problem. I told him exactly how I felt and broke up with him. 3months later he crawled back on his knees. From then on he has been the perfect boyfriend, even 3years later. \n\nIt really depends, but if he loves you he'll realize that he needs you and come back and treat you better. and if not f*k him, you don't need him if he doesn't need you.\n\nhere are some guidelines for the future:\n*Always put urself and ur happiness 1st\n*If a man wants you nothing can keep him away, if he doesn't want you nothing can make him stay\n*You can't change a mans behavior. Change comes from \nwithin\n*Dont ever make him feel he is more important than you are\n*Dont make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less\n*Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you \n*If you think he is cheating, he prob. is, and if you feel hes lying, let him go\n*Actions speak louder than words\n*NEVER let a man define who you are \n*Know you deserve to be the #1person in the life of the #1person in your life \n***LOVE is a verb.....
733745
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety
1092009
If he loved you and you broke up with him, you probably broke his heart and that's what killed the feelings. He probably still despises you for this, and probably wants to love you again but resents you for hurting him. If you stop the effort and lay off, he might start the effort. Lay off and relax, if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be and it's just a waste of time, energy and emotion to try. If it doesn't work, move on, but in the meantime, just relax and try not to worry about it, if he wants to, he'll try.
1127003
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!
266959
Just do it and get it over with. Why do you want to break up if you love him so much?
32950
The most important - DON'T PUSH HIM. If you are still in touch, recall from time to time some nice or funny moments you had together, do the things he used to like. Be aware of the reasons why did you break up and try to overcome it. Let him feel that you both can handle it, but be honest and really do that. Good luck!
874916
I don't think he knew. He sounds like a real jerk. I know it is MUCH easier said than done, but you need to just let that boy go. If you have been with someone that long whether they are a jerk or not it's going to be tough to let them go. Cry about it, but don't beg him to come back. As long as you are with him he will continue to treat you like dirt and you can continue to be un happy. If you let him go you may be un happy for a while, but imagine if you were with him forever you'd be unhappy for that long. No girl deserves to be lied to and cheated on\n\nYeah, some guys may have played with you like that wit ht the text message if they knew it was you, but breaking up with you after sounds a little fishy to me. Plus, he's cheated on you and treated you like sh*t before.  What makes you thin he isn't like that now. Good Luck!