How to love a person when I am not interested in him?
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Why did you marry him then?\n\nMarriage is more than a way to have guaranteed sex; there is an emotional committment there as well.\n\nIf there is no hope that you will change your mind, then you are both living a lie. he loves you, but it will never be honestly reciprocated. Your mind is elsewhere.\n\nInitially, get counciling to help with these feelings.\n\nYou need to be honest with him, which starts by being honest with yourself.
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You may not be able to, but my first suggestion would be to try to figure out why she doesn't like you and then see if there is anything you can do to change that.  Be nice to her, but don't make a  nuisance of yourself - that would really make her like you even less.  Give her space and time, letting her know that you are interested if she is.  If, in the end, she does not want to have anything to do with you, be gracious, and move on.  There will be another.  It is often easier to love someone who loves you back.
505317
no if that person is not interested and knowing you than don't waste your time because it is you this person has to fall in love with not the mystery of who you are
220396
don't waste your time on him.  When you start acting like you aren't into him anymore and that you are having fun elsewhere, maybe he'll miss the attention, but you deserve better.
156891
Ignore them...I know its hard since you are in love...but just see the difference...dont pay him/her much attention for awhile and get out of your way to make him/her feel left out and ignored and just watch them crawl back to ya...Have fun!!!!
484164
Go with that feeling, because he doesn't really love you. There are millions of other guys out there.
81750
You're not in love.  You're obssessed - with wanting something (in this case, someone) you cannot have.  Don't worry is a common human trait ... u just got to wean yourself off this man.  He spells trouble and you already know that.  Just got to let your head rule over your heart for your own good.
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im not so sure its possible. i mean you could love certain qualities about that person but you dont really know them as a person. you havent ever spent time with them you havent had time to build a relationship. you might like to look at them and drool over them but i really dont think your in love with them.
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well....if you don't love him than tell it to him so later he won't feel as bad as he would now.....or else you could just say that you just want to be friends now
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It sounds like it's a matter of how you feel about him, rather than how me could make you feel loved.  Love can take time to grow, but when you do have that moment, then you will know it when you experience it.  Until then, You should be honest that you don't feel love yet.  If you hide it or are dishonest about it, you'll only be doing yourself and any bf you're with a disservice.
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Tell them how much you appreciate their friendship.  Talk about all the positive aspects of their personality that you love.  I'd suggest saying this before AND after you say you're not interested in more than friendship.
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So your saying he loves you, but yet you have no feelings for him what so ever?\n\nWell then he just has to deal with it because it's not like you 2 were in a relationship. And if you were well then he still just has to deal with it and realize you don't like him.\n\nI've been in a similar situation except I was the one who liked someone and I am the one that got hurt and no one was moving to a different place. You just have to except it for what it is and move on. \n\nSo that is what the guy has to do move on and except the situation.\n\nDon't be so hard on yourself. You shouldn't have to feel bad just because someone likes you and you don't like them back.
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it's easy, just tell him/her u're no longer involved. The sooner he/she gets to know, the better.Or else u will be fooling urself thinking he/she still loves u
72809
The first thing you need to do if you don't already is to learn to love yourself, and care for yourself. If you cannot do that , then why would anyone else? So you can attract a person who loves you by becoming more of a loving person yourself. There are great bonuses to this method.
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You choose to continue loving them.  The feelings of love (normally lust) will diminish and you are left with this person who is not what you thought they were now that you can see them without your blinders.  At this point, you choose to continue loving the person by over looking the annoying habits and doing things you know pleases them.  Find their (and your) love language.  It makes a huge difference!  Check out the love language book at your local library.
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The best thing to do is simply face him in person and tell him that you're no longer interested in him and that for the both of your interests to move on to big and better things in life.  Hope this helps you out and may this be a good learning experience for you.  Ciao bella!!!
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Sweety- by being yourself. If that doesnt work, then he aint the one for you; he's just in the way of someone who is MEANT to be loved by you more and more each day