How do you know if a persons gay or not?
474645
Ummm, I would just ask the person, "so what is your sexual preference"?
453690
Just by looking at them. All the homos have that certain "look" about them. It's okay that they're homos, I'm just saying you can easily tell.\n\nPlus they all lisp.
535159
Nope. If they are straight, they are straight, as long as we are talking about non-porn roles. If you are talking about porn here, well, you can get into some really tricky arguments about whether someone is gay. It seems very possible that some straight porn actors (especially females but not exclusively) may be led to perform homosexual acts by force, while still others may simply want the money.
875448
i dont know the guy probably was gay
48001
I would say if you have feelings for members of the same sex and you want to act on them, or you do act on them then you might be gay. And if you're not at all interested in being with someone of the opposite sex, but only someone of your same sex. It's also possible you could just be confused.
58973
People don't "turn" gay.  You either are or you aren't.  It might take you a while to realize it or come to terms with it, but you don't suddenly become gay.
123802
You really can't, unless they are with their significant other, you meet them at a gay bar (and that's a maybe there too) or they tell you. \n\nSo many people I know that are gay just do not fit in with the stereotypical flaming guy or butchly lesbians.
1148493
Look at their avatar.\n\nAsk yourself "Does that person seem honest?"\n\nOnly the avatar will tell.
329234
In theory, the military can't ask someone if they're gay. They can, however, if someone admits to being gay, kick them out. (Doesn't necessarily happen if the person has to go to Iraq, but that's another matter.)\n\nSupposedly, through this theory, the army has no trouble with people who are gay, just people who commit sexual acts with someone of the same sex. (ie, they can't punish status, just action). So, they can't ask if you're gay. However, if they find that you're involved with someone of the same sex -- even without proof of what exactly you're doing -- they can kick you out. So, in effect, they punish the status of being gay rather than just the action.\n\nIt's a pretty screwed up policy -- probably the worst legacy of Clinton; certainly in terms of gay rights.
1084591
More then Likely if your Gay people can already tell...So just be happy with who you are.
327217
I think it is quite possible that someone could be gay and not know it themself.
171314
In this situation you should probably try spending some quality time with the person sooner or later it will become totally clear of their sexuality and you never know if they are they may come out and ask you first, either that or talk to a mutual friend if there is one available, and try to get the dish on what they are into, basically the same thing you would do if you were straight, nothing really has to be different. The worst that could happen is that he says no but it is best to be true to yourself :-))!!!
41842
How can we possibly know? \n\nHave you ever had sexual intercourse? Was it with the same or the opposite gender? Did you enjoy it?\n\nIf you've never had sex, are you attracted to the same gender or the opposite gender?\n\nThere is a growing number of young people who choose not to label themselves as gay or straight, but rather bi. According to the sexual studies of Dr. Kinsey there is a wide range of sexual attraction in humans, ranging from completely heterosexual to completely homosexual, with most people falling somewhere in between. If asked, a lot of people will admit to at least one same-gender experience, and yet they do not self-identify as gay.\n\nAbout the only advice I can give is to follow your heart. If you're unsure or uneasy, stop.
522359
being gay? no.  you are,or are not.\n\nacting on same sex attraction?  yes.\n\nnot acting on same sex attraction to please others, rather than living the way you're built to? also a choice, but a stupid one.
665845
kind of a dumb question. how would you know they're gay? would someone say, "help, i've fallen and i'm gay!"\n\nunless you just pushed them over because you just found out they were gay, then I guess you would not help them and they'd get up themselves. hopefully, the "gay" would punch your lights out then.
480395
You're gay when you look at members of the same sex as sexual objects. For example, a confused teen like yourself is walking down the street, and can help himself from staring at a cute guy's butt. Gay!
643539
I'm going to ask you one more time...how's your husband going to know if the people that you talk to online are gay or not  ???