Should I date him or him?
472926
i think you should date me
687650
Sounds like a great friend. Don't rush things, it's better to have a great friend than an ex-boyfriend. If he decides to change his way of thinking and date friends, I'm sure you will be the one he comes to. but for now just be happy you can spend time with him.
416256
Go for it.  Life is to short to sit around womdering what might have been.  Ask him out on a date.  Maybe he doesn't see you as more than a friend because he doesn't want to lose your friendship.
682613
Well... You can't really help who you like or not. If you really think that the guy you love is more important to you, stick with him and if not you shouldn't pressure yourself that's for sure...
874248
uh, go out with him. duh. you are beginning to like him and he likes you. so it's kinda obvious.
265979
I would say no at first but you can try to go out with him then real him in.(make him like you)
752063
well ur getting mixed signs so i would go with it and ask him out
906770
In the end only you can decide to go out with the guy but don't play with the poor guy. If you like him and think it would be nice to do things together date him. If you really don't like the guy and don't think you see him as your boyfriend forget about it but don't mess the guy about.
676712
Just be firm but kind and get it over with. It appears he already knows or has a pretty good idea it's coming. The whole point of dating is to find the person you have the most simpatico with. Just don't use the line, "We can still be friends."
863416
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
855197
Why not.  You know what you want...go for it.  It's always better to start out as friends.  You already know him and he's comfortable with you.  Just do exactly what you've written.  Strike up the conversation and see where it goes, tell him that you would like to date him and see what happens.  Don't be afraid...if it isn't happening, you still have a friend in him.  Good Luck
326125
get to know him. b/c right now ur in love w/ the way he looks and who you think he might be. once you get to know him he'll be more human to you and you can decide if he is worth pursuing or not. i mean he could just be a hudge jerk for all you know right now.
1030341
first, why do you care? i doubt you could date him.\n\nno. he's not. \n\nas far as we know.
1164878
I would ask him out...take the chance and run with it...ya never know he could be your soulmate.....Good Luck
997732
It is fine to date him... have fun with him, be young at heart.\n\nYou may be more mature than him on some fronts ~ but remember this ~ you learn from every relationship.  Go for It.\n\nSounds kinda Interesting... I am 27 ..... hmmm...\n\n~Best Wishes ~
808867
I would give them both a shot. You never know maybe the guy with money is for you. In the end, only settle for love but give each guy a shot. If he drools over you and is good to you. Love can grow
598716
Nothing. They are together. get your own date. No \n"should-ofs", Could-ofs:" Move on. There is someone for you, too.