I live in the "war zone" part of my town, I have the money to move out, but I do not want to..................
467083
You sound like a very stubborn guy, and I don't blame you.  You've been there a long time and should be entitled to stay.  But your town is going to hell in a handbasket.  the situation's probably not going to get a lot better in your lifetime.  Think about this:  What are you proving?  That you can put up with anything?  Let it go, Pal.  Find a nice, comfortable place, where you can go down the steet to have a coffee with a neighbor, sit in the sun and read the paper, whatever.  You only have one life.  Make the rest of it the kind of life you'd like to live.  Nobody's going to give you a medal for staying.
1015820
I want to move in but I don't have enough money............. I want my own place and I haven't a job yet. That's all!!!
208429
My wife and child are moving to a different city.  I am moving to yet another city.  \nI am going to be homeless again after many years.  \nI have more debt then money.  \nA very serious entity has destroyed me and my life and I am in the process of rectifying things.\nMy life has been a poorly written movie and it just got worse.
1096848
living outside the city and taking a bus in would be cheaper. (you can buy a bus pass for around 40 dollars a month and ride it all you want.) if you live inside the city rent will probably be higher.\n\nand if you don't have any money then you can't move out, can you?\n\nliving on your own is very expensive. i suggest you go to a school near your parent's house until you are mature enough to hold a job.
235423
If it's already going up you can't, if it's in the planning stages, you should go to your next city council meeting and voice your objection, get your fellow neighbors to do the same, we did it here when they decided to build a strip mall across the street from us, they stopped the planning of the strip mall and decided to build townhomes instead. The lesser of 2 evils. Good luck, you'll need it, the city is going to look at tax revenue's generated by the apartment building with a very keen eye.
442749
google it. i really would not want to live anywhere near that county though (i used to live there). good luck.
866838
i see that you have told the realestate dont worry you will find a house in time just apply for more than one spot at a time but dont live in flats its very eseay to get kicked out of flats and harder in houses goig on your last question with a problem with a neighboor it looks like she was very jelouse of you and wanted you out in the first place just remember one thing what goes around comes around and i believe in that
584847
why are you living there in the first place???\n\nsounds like you have a problem.\n\nfirst, you should be grateful to them for giving you a place to live.\n\nsecond, you should get your stuff and try to find a relative or family member you can stay with.\n\nthird, eat crow and apologize to his family and ask for their forgiveness, if you were being a brat at THEIR house.\n\ntake care
121614
while i agree that you should not have to live in these conditions, paying rent for a utility that you are not getting, there are people in other countries even in your own that have no homes at all. they have no definate food or a place to shower.
115745
even if you can you better think long and hard about that! i moved out when i was very young and by doing that you make decisions that you may regret later. my advice is stay where u r and go to school unless you r being abused if so seek help
771968
Honey\n\nYou and your hubby need to move out!\n\nEven if you have to live in a small dump, its better than putting up with the stress!!\n\nMove out soon!
245899
i am not trying to insult you but......why would someone live in a small apartment , with no yard and in an unsafe neighborhood.......nots not LIFE!,.....move to where you can go and come with freedom and safety
890595
I hate to break it to you, but there is absolutely NO way that you are going to live in the hills for that kind of monthly rent. You would have to at least double that, and that might not even get you what you want. \n\nSorry to burst your bubble!
87560
If you're really frustrated living there, I would look into a different living situation, if financially possible.  Maybe live with friends/roommates if money's an issue. (That seems to be the main reason most ppl live with family.)\n\nBut while you're still there, work on communication with them.  Suggest a time when you guys can talk, and tell them about your concerns.  Using the "I" language helps reduce defensive behavior.  So, instead of saying "You never listen to me", try saying "I feel I'm not being listened to".  The first version can come out sounding accusatory, whether you mean it or not.  They'll hear the second version as you communicating your feelings.  \n\nGood luck!
567084
Well never having been to America, your system, whilst different to ours in England does have the same thread running through it so to speak.  Here in Britain it is the councils who create the ghetto's They tend to take a place that has or is starting to get a bit of a bad name and they start putting petty criminals, nuisance neighbours, rowdy types into that area.  The decent people living there do their very best then to get out but nobody wants to exchange houses with them, the council will not allow a transfer unless there is a serious reason such as a medical one, and if they have been unfortunate enough to have bought their council house, nobody wants to buy it from them. They are then well & truly stuck whilst the council continue to put the dross onto the estate. I believe it is for the purpose of facilitating the council's own interests and that of the police. I know this sounds awful but that is what I believe. I am so sorry for you if you are stuck in a situation like that & I hope that you find some peace somewhere
880614
The one thing you have to make sure to do is to get out, move, leave, skip town, get away from this, find a shelter, other family, friends, etc.......  best of luck to you.......
662531
Obviously your mother is trying to manipulate you with that guilt trip. But you have to consider your age and whether or not you have any fiscally stable relatives in the nearby area, or responsible friends.\n Consider why you don't want to move in with her, then you must in the kindest way possible tell her why. Most importantly, you have to have a place to stay before you can have this converstation with her. If that doesn't work, try getting a job if you're having a lot of problems at home.