what should i do about this boy who i really like and he like me but there is always his ex in the way?
465419
ALRIGHT HERE WE GO.IF YOU REALLY LIK ETHIS GUY AND THIS GUY REALLY LIKES YOU AND THE TWO OF YOU ARE SURE ABOUT EACHOTHER THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? GO FOR IT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIS EX. SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON.MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE HAS TURNED INTO YOUR DIRECTION BECAUSE YOU ARE THE REASON THAT SHE COULDN'T BE.ALSO THE EX S JUST OVERLY JEALOUS BECAUSE HE MAY NOT WANT HER BACK AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BUT SHE CAN'T HANDLE THE THOUGHTS OF SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME.I WOULD SAY SCREW THE EX AND DO WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS RIGHT ASLONG AS YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AT THE SAME TIME.GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!
1187922
try not hanging out when he's around and if she misses hanging out with you then he doesn't like him and likes you. But if this guy is her ex, it must be for something. so fuc... it
329163
Tell him that you only see him as a friend.  End of story.\n\nAbout him dating someone else, if you see him doing that and he likes you, tell him it's not your cup of tea.  If he wants a fling, he could search elsewhere... there's none of that bs about he'll break up with her soon or whatever.
469186
Honey, you sound really insecure.  Confidence goes a long way in a relationship.  \n\nIf he says he likes you, then he likes you.  As for his Ex, there is a reason she is his Ex and she probably will stay that way.
393270
Just try to stay busy. It normal to feel an attraction to someone but if you really dont want anythin to happen try to stay away because if your close to him youll just think about him more. And if you really want somethin ask your friend how would she feel if somebody she knew went out with her ex...right there youll see if it bugs her or not...then you can know if you should go for him or not.
499359
i know how you feel cause i'm going through this too but you have to handle it right , just leave the first move for the boy , if he really likes you he'd talk to you and declare his feelings ..anyway it's just my opinion and you have the last word ...anytime you need me i'd be so happy to offer my help ----> Nancy
1158485
tell him straight away how you feel about him.  if he reciprocates then good for you.  if not at least you will be in the clear.  If you do not hurry someone may beat you to it and then you will be left with nothing.  Take a chance.  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  don't think that love is a game of chance.  Don't ignore him.  instead shower all your attention on him.  this is your self created mess and only you can clear it up.  all the best.  God Bless.
326054
Well, if your ex cheated on you, then it shouldn't matter who you date. Even if it is his friend. Hard part about that, is you won't be able to hang out with him when he makes plans with your ex. So there will be a bit of drama more so between the guys, but I also think it's silly to keep things locked up. I hate hiding things, so I would tell the new guy that he should speak up. I dunno, it always sucks being in those kinds of situations. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you.
46228
Listen if u really like this new guy u should'nt let the past get in the way of the furture. Move on and try something new u might like it.
869841
well you gotta think about the reasons you don't want to like him any more if hes done you wrong once hell do you wrong every time.if he didn't do you wrong to your knowledge still he did because boys know when you like them if he didn't like you back he should have confronted you instead of leading you on in ways.soon you'll start to think of his flaws and move on.good luck
516615
Alright.  First things first... You dont love him.  You have a crush on him.  Second, she is dating him, leave it alone right now.  Even friends dating ex's of their friends causes HUGE issues, I would leave it alone, if you start to like him more and more, You have to decide if it is worth losing a friend over.  \n\nTo be honest there are TONS of fish in the sea...  I personally would leave it alone and enjoy the friendship.  \n\nI once had a Huge crush on my friend but he had a girlfriend, I left it alone and he is now married and has a baby... do I ever wonder what could have happened... No... because I found my soul mate, and we are better off.\n\nGood Luck.\nJ
801644
YAWN.... he likes you. Persue him. PERIOD. Hell give in and you two will get together. You say he doesnt believe that you got over your ex but i can see how you have if your ex wasnt good to you. Its easy to get over a jerk. So go for this new guy. Persue. I know guys are supposed to persue, but i think it will be to your advantage to persue this fellow. Good luck!
1181256
Honey,....MOVE ON! Your ex does not deserve you! You have found a guy who treats you right, so stay with him!
93558
the truth is that  you might be getting fooled and he might also be for real. the truth is since u say he likes another i think you should let him stay as an ex. he might never have gotten over you and be somehow attached to u or might be possesive or he might just feel like he still has to finish up some things he could not whebn you are together. since u are the one who likes him u might get hurt if he does not reciprocate so i think , keep him as an ex.
158856
You know what will happen if you continue or let him continue with this since his current gf will come to know then he will play you against her or her against you if not leave her for you which will cause heart break for her or you which will just drag this mess.Tell him hes in a relationship he should stick to it.You wouldnt want it happening if you had a boyfriend who was in love with his ex or doing what this guy is doing right?and remember that girl is innocent and shes only in with that guy since she loves him so dont hurt her.I hope everything works out.Best of luck.
883579
No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
446960
you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.