what will u say to someone  when u r  proposing first time?
471120
for me id like tradition so on bended knee "I LOVE U!" SIMPLE BUT I THINK TOO MANY WORDS TAKE THE FEELING AWAY OR U COULD GO AND POUR UR HEART OUT WORKS WELL TO GOOD LUCK!
1083193
Surprise....its the best, do it while you are doing something you are always doing....like if you two jog in the morning stop suddenly and act like you are tying your shoes, while she waits and chit chats, pull the ring out and propose.....its all about the surprise.
925688
Hi,\nhen I wanted to tell my bf the first time how I felt, It has to be the right moment, my moment was walking through a fair holding hands and then I just looked at him and it came clear this was the time to tell him, so all I said was, 'you know what...I love you'\nand then it was just fine after that, he picked me up in his arms and twirled me and then said I love you too.\nIt was great, but like I said it has to be the right time.\njust say it like you mean it, ok?\nGood luck! (^_^)\n\nCowgirl In Need~
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It's a timing thing.  But don't do it too soon.. telling someone that you love them lets say 2 weeks into a relationship then that might scare the crud out of them.  If you have been together with someone for lets say 6 months to a year and everything is fine and dandy then go ahead and say it.  \n\nA good icebreaker for these kind of things is to say this\n"I know that we have not been together for very long BUT, I just wanted to let you know that I love you.  I don't expect you to say anything till you are ready but I just felt that you should know what my feelings are."  \n\nThis worked just fine with me and my BF and we have been together for 10 years. \n\nGood Luck!
255743
Tell him that you are thinking marriage... gauge his reaction, that will be a good indicator of how he thinks about the relationship.
523894
it might mean something, but might be just a date... be happy as it means he is not ashamed of you and takes you with him... he wants you get involved into hes lives so he would expect be involved to yours too... but it doesn't mean that he is going get you a proposal the next day... just relax and enjoy your time...
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This one is a challenge. First I think you might be asking How do you get your boyfriend to propose to you.  The answer, Take a reasonable amount of time to get this answer and allow him the same. Its an excellent idea to find out where his heart is, in the matter. Perhaps without him even knowing  So here.\n\nStep one:\nStart journaling, write down things that he says about love and family try to find out when does he think its an ideal time in life for a man to get married. What you're after here is will he marry you. \n\nIf he does not have lots of money does he think he can get married before making a lot of money.\n\nDoes he love little children? See how he behaves around them does he play with them or avoid them.  This is an obstacle it reveals his level of comfort with getting married now.  My best friend avoided little children - he's still not married.\n\nWould he die for you? spend all his money on you. Sleep out in the rain if you say that how it ought to be - does he love you?\n\nStep two:\nThe journaling and questions that you ask should reveal the answer to will he marry you.  Be sure not to blast him with all these questions at once. its best to recall situations you have previously encountered and be alert to others that occure.\n\nStep Three: \nBe aware of obstacles Which could be,\na) he does not want to get married \nb) not at this time in his life\nc) he requires education\nd) he does not love you \ne) he does not know what he wants\nf) he requires adequate income\ng) he's scared\nh) Other (well, you did not expect I would think of all of them)\n\nStep four:\nDevelope a plan to overcome all the objections that might arise. If he requires education then let him or persuade him it will be ok to marry first however you must overcome his objections.\n\nOnce you know what his answer is on the question (what a place to be in a relatinship)  be sure no obstacle/objections remains. You can suggest that you both get married. At this point there is only one anwer and you already know it.\n\nyou can ofcourse skip all the above and just suggest that you both get married.  Good luck
216670
first place you met her, first date place, romantic be by yourself place... do something special, something she'll remember... just think about what YOU would remember
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You do need to have a long talk with her first.  You can't keep putting youself out there only for her to reject you because of her parents.  She's an adult.  She can make her own decisions.  How does SHE feel?  You have obviously made an effort to better yourself so she'd be dumb to reject you again.\n\nAs far as the proposal goes...take her to do something your both like to do... hiking, travel to a destination...something...choose your moment and pop the question.
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Yeah, it's OK unless he is a traditional man.  My husband told me that he was grateful I didn't do it first.  After all, you get to plan the wedding, the vows and honeymoon pretty much belong to the guy.\n\nIf you really want to propose do it afterwords.  Say something like. "Now I have said I will marry you but will you marry me?" and give him a ring that is macho or a set of baseball tickets.  You get the idea.
735381
Don't get too over excited, he may or may not propose so don't build all your hopes us, if he does then you will be very surprised.  It does sound like a hint though.
1130372
Hi,\n  nothing wrong in that, just go ahead an propose straight away.. u are not doing any thing that is not natural.. all the best do give a message after u both fall for each other..
11339
jus mail me and tell how old r u and old is the other person . but i think just when both of you and her r alone write on a paper that what personalities do u except form ur future husband and ask to to write the answer on the paper .then u tell 'i like u more than a friend ,u know what i mean , i love u .would u except my proposal ?'
300522
something romantic...and memorable... go somewhere nice ... have a nice dinner... i heard of pputting the ring in the wine glass or something but make sure she wouldnt swallow it lol...
151938
women love a sense of humour,so trying being a LITTLE funny.try this line..."DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT? OR SHOULD I WALK BY AGAIN?" Be serious when you say it,then depending on her response,you can take it from there.Its sweet & funny at the same time.it worked with my brothers.
911251
delicately, very delicately.\n\nif you love eachother than you should be open and honest if there's a problem\n\ngood luck
104334
take he r somewhere out to a peaceful and lonely place and propose to her and then talk to her in a such an explaining way that the speech shud ensure her tat if she accepts ur luv she will be benifitted and it will last long.then it wont be a prob for her to accept ur luv.