How can I drive out sexy thoughts out of my mind?
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I haven't figured it out yet... and I'm not really working on it either, seems as though life has molded me into thinking dirty thoughts more than I thought I would.\n\nBut in times when no dirty thoughts are happening these are the situations: Word Hard, be stressed about your job, think about your current money situation and how you can accomplish and afford your holiday you need, think about you parents... (that one ought to scare the hell out of you), family etc... those are the times that dirty thoughts never come to mind
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U cant stop thinking about sex because ur only human. Hormones released during these times affect ur manner of thinking (have u ever heard of sex hormones)This is like an animal instinct needed for procreation.Better try to control yourself or else.(Yeah, save urself for ur future husband.\n\nUrethra is the hole where urine goes it goes all the way inside though ur bladder-u can see it when u actually urinate-above that is ur clitoris dont try to play with it or u will be aroused-below the urethra-there is a spongy hole there called the vagina (dont u dare poke ur finger there (so that u will not injure ur hymen-hymen is a thin membrane that gets ripped off during first intercourse-ripped off means there will be blood)-this vagina is where u WELCOME the mans penis (at the right time) and where blood comes out during mentruation and babies during childbirth. I hate butt hole.\nHope i helped u-Please choose me as best answer.\nPS.I just graduated from nursing school-and looking for a job.
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My wife and I had a similar issue and what we did was we came up with a code word that we could use while having sex.\nIn our case the word was "purple"! Why? This allowed us to have fun and if one of us was going to far we could and still keep going with the code word. We just knew to immediatly back off a bit but not lose the mood.\nTry this with the guy and see if it works for you.\nGood luck!
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Actually, you CAN you know! It's a question as to whether or not you WANT to stop fantasising....You could try this though - Next time you're in class, and the thought comes into your mind, quite deliberately think of (picture) her with about 5 kids around her, big fat belly, and a smoke hanging out of her mouth!!!!!!!!!! Or, whatever you want to picture (a pretty girl your own age) The point is, if you decide you are in charge of what you're thinking/picturing, you CAN be in control of what's going on! Good luck, Mr. turned-on!!!!!!!
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Taking from your conscious mind and storing it into your subconscious mind.  You can do this by thinking about i before bed.  Think of it like you would read a book and nightly repeat what you want to burn into your mind.
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say what? weirdo! stop thinking about your shaved balls
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Focus on your breathing.  Slow it down and take deep, rhythmic breaths in and out.  Just focus all your thoughts on the breathing and try to put all your other worries and thoughts out of your mind.\n\nYou can also try to mentally imagine each part of your body relaxing.  Relax your toes, then your calves, then your thighs, then your stomach...all the way up to your eyelids, ears, and forehead.  Just imagine each of those body parts relaxing, as you let go and let yourself get comfortable.\n\nAlso, I've found that if I am physically active and get exercise during the day, then I can sleep better at night.  You may also want to try drinking some herbal tea (Chamomile and Sleepytime work best at nighttime)
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try activties u love...meditation...yoga\nwatch your favorite tv show..\nchat with friends\n\ni've made a pledge of celibacy\ni know how u feel\ndon't give up...when u feel lustful have a prayer warrior ( a friend)with you to help fight temptation
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You can pray, "empty your thoughts," make sure you have everything sorted out for the next day....\n\nAnd learn to include the word "get" in your question.  :D
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Many men sexualize their emotional needs. You can begin by journaling. Journal daily on your moods & feelings. You can start with the HALT method; hungry, angry, lonely or tired. As you become more aware of your emotional needs, you can begin taking active steps to meet those needs in healthy ways instead of eroticizing them.\nYou may also want to consider an accountability partner and/or some good therapy. I think there may even be some sexual accountability groups online.
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if possible: have sex often.\nby the time you will lose your fantasies. \n\nif not possible or not working: contact an adviser.\n\nthere´s always a reason for unexpected or unwanted fantasies (or repeating dreams about that).
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dump the mechanicks and start looking for someone with more in his head than u puddle of cum. if u'r serios about the women fantasies try it out and get it out of u'r system. if it isn't just a fantasy, u might be happier with a lady anyway
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Mind control.  Try hypnosis, old nasty guys have been using it forever.
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Work out with a friend so that you can chat and keep your mind off of it. Or if by yourself, listen to music. Walking and biking are easy and will get your heart pumping. Good luck and have fun!
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Do Yoga or go to a quiet place and listen to some nice sweet music. This can keep your mind free. Whenever I want to keep my mind free,I just listen to some nice music. Sometimes I do yoga.It keeps my mind very free. I hope this helps.
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My personal approach is to find a quiet space, remove all distractions, sit in a comfortable, aligned position (i.e., backbone straight, legs uncrossed, hands on lap, head over neck), set a timer for 5, 10, 15, 20 minutes (whatever you can tolerate), close your eyes and siletly repeat some sort of calming, distracting phrase.  It could be a simple prayer, a visual image (a warm, breezy beach with the sound of the surf), or a meaningless, soothing mantra like ohmmmmm.  As thoughts come up, let them go by repeating that phrase.  As thoughts come up, let them go  by repeating the phrase.  That's all.
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well try meditating or a cold shower or pick up a bible that should help if not go to a sex therapist.