My cousin..............??
462070
Well kick him in his little nuts and then curb stomp his face into the floor.
964953
Ive got a cousin called nadia
617558
no!!!! ur a minor. he could get arrested! unless he's ur cousin or something.
372982
Ask him to be a man. Look beyond the family. I am telling you this because I myself had a crush on my cousin for a very long time. I eventually shrugged it off and moved on.
702354
i came through this situation too.. i have a cousin and we like so close together even tell each other secrets... but now we are no longer talk to each other maybe just greet and say Hi!!..it is sad because we act like we didn't know each other... we fell apart because my father and her father had a fight a couple years ago... my father didn't allowed me to be close to her and their siblings.. but now after my father get over the problem with my uncle... we kind of afraid to talk to each other... sometimes i cry because when i came back to hometown and we had a gathering i have no one to talk to.. now i always try to be close back to them.. i think it will takes sometimes to refresh our relationship back..just be patient and you'll see the results..
875597
She is a very coniving person who can get what she wants from any guy that's willing to give it to her.  I didn't understand the total jist of your question, but your cousin will be a better man for leaving her and putting that relationship behind him for good.
1122824
It's really sad that people are like that..and unfortunate..please tell  your cousin not to do anything foolish..these things have a way of working themselves out in time.
249547
What does your cousin have to do with your brother???\n\nTell her the details of what happened, what your brother did.
814919
Mind your own business. What happens happens. You did not make the choices your relatives have made, and it is their harvest they are reaping. IF you stick your nose into it, trust me, the messenger is always killed. Be sympathetic, be kind, be loving, be supportive, but for heaven's sake, don't set them up for an "I told you so" from you..that is exactly what you will be doing. It does not matter one whit who he is playing around with. Some members of your extended family have very little sense (1st cousin...etc), and your blowing the whistle is not going to change things. The 1st cousin will get all that is coming to her soon enough, for this guy will not stop messing around ever. The soon-to-be exwife is the lucky one here..she is escaping.
437572
If you really care about your cousin, love her unconditionally. When you start putting conditions on love, it is not love. It would be great if you could concentrate on yourself : you are worried about what people will think about you. People will judge you by your actions, not the actions of your cousin. You have BOUNDARY problems. Try to accept all people as individuals.
817030
If your friends are abandoning you for her, they aren't really your friends.  I know this doesn't help your situation, or make you feel any better, but it's true.  If they are willing to listen to someone else and make judgements about you, they aren't worth knowing.\n\nStick with your cousins and ride it out.  They may come crawling back, who knows?  Just keep your dignity throughout, and never lower yourself to their level.  Know you are better than any of them.  It'll blow over soon enough, as long as you make out that you really couldn't care less.
461936
i feel your pain. i'm crazy about a blood cousin aswell. Dont feel bad. you cant help who you fall in love with. Tell her so that she can know what you're feeling and so that she can undersand why you do certain things a certain way when she's around. Tell her you love her, but dont react to what the love is telling you to do. make her understand that you cant help yourself and make sure that you keep your distance because after all, cousins make dozens.\nsave your family the shame... i did, and we're happy.
228155
You need to know your cousin's email address! You can try doing a People Search of your cousin's name on Yahoo.
602160
how did you find out you were cousins? I'd say continue loving him, we are all related somehow or another down the line
838870
Tell her but pick a good time and find a soft way. My cousin actually married a gay man and it took her years to recover, but they are still friends. She'll probably never be fully over you, so be respectful of her when dating men, if you remain friends. Rent a movie like "Clueless" or "Saved!" or  "Brokeback Mountain" and watch it with her, you might be able to gage her reaction and put out a conversation opener. But most of all, remember, you can still love her and be gay.
312135
*blink* you married your first cousin??
1112217
OK...call your cousin back and tell her you don't appreciate her calling you names and if she does it again, you will hang up again.  Then ask if she wants to go to the mall or something....it's not that big of a deal, honey.  It's family that's important, but she also needs to respect you.  Also tell her that kind of talk makes her sound like trash.  So...forgive her and get back to being friends and family.  Good luck.