how can i keep my bf interested in me?
461484
well you can offer him some a*s*s*
270912
try to atlk to him more often especially over the phone.show him some signs that your interested
244111
Show your man a little bit of skin, not enough so that you're hanging out everywhere. Guys like something left to the imagination. Also, tell him how hot you are feeling and tell him what you wish to do to him. Good luck!
425190
WELL THERE IS SOMETHING THAT ATTRACTED HIM TO YOU. WHAT WAS IT? WHATEVER IT WAS CONTINUE BEING THAT WAY. DON'T HOWEVER DO THE SAME OLD "COUPLE" STUFF. SPICE THE RELATIONSHIP UP A LITTLE. SHOW HIM A DIFFERENT SIDE OF YOU (NOTHING CRAZY). SHOW HIM YOU KNOW HOW TO HAVE A GOOD TIME AND ENJOY LIFE. HE WILL COME TO REALIZE THAT HE HAS EVERYTHING HE WANTS IN A GIRLFRIEND IN YOU. THERE WILL BE NO REASON FOR HIM TO GO LOOKING FOR INTERESTING THINGS WITH SOMEONE ELSE. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER AND REMEMBER IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT SEX.
819829
Try explaining to him that you are busy sometimes, that doesn't mean that you aren't into him it just means that you don't have the time to give him the attention that you think he deserves.  He might be happy with that and it will keep your relationship honest.
967305
Show him that you care for him and that you are there for him to help whenever he has a prob. Then you would see how he reacts differently. He will probably even get in touch with you more frequently because he will understand that you care for him. When you will get the feeling that he knows that you care for him, then try to start a conversation with him and try to give him some hints that you like him and want him to be your bf. Hopefully he will respond positively to your needs. Good luck and hope that this helps you.
170858
I think that the problem is that we girls like to be wanted but not pressured. I like the idea of knowing my bf is thinking on me and that gets him aroused, I like to know he wants me, I love when he says that while kissing. But we both know we cant go farder than that and we both control the other when necesary, if you cant get that then hes not really that nice or respectful.
587654
taking your partner for granted will happen at times, no matter how good the relationships is. it is naturual to not be as 'hot' for them after a period of time, but that does not mean that the love shared has stopped growing. \n\nafter time you become so comfortable with each other that you tend to forget how important a bit of romance and fun can be. \n\ntell you bf that you want to change things up a bit with romance and state that you feel somewhat neglected. be up front and place your concerns on the table. i'm sure if you communicate with him he will try to 'spark' things up again.\n\nyou can't make someone crazy in love with you. all you can do is keep the flame going and hope it forever burns.
238798
He's one of those guys who likes you but gets scared when it comes time to risk his heart. He likes you, trust me. He's just scared. If you are more direct and aggressive then you will scare him off. And i also think that if he was more aggressive then you would not be so interested in pursuing him.\nTo reel him in, write him a love note with his name in a heart on it and then accidentally let it fall out of your binder in front of him. Or do something like that. Make him know that you like him but in a way that you aren't aggressive. \nOr do something, manipulate him, in a way that makes him believe that he is pursuing you. Tell him that you think he's super cute and you wish that he was your boyfriend but you know that he's too hot for you and that you're thinking about asking out (insert name here). Should I?\n\nJust manipulate him. You should already know how. You're a girl aren't you?
475106
flirt with him, show him that your interested by complementing him on stuff he does.  Show you are interested in him.
165156
be yourself!don't try to win his attention and of course let him come to u...just be u and he'll fell in love with u ...let him think that he's the man and that he's has the control that way he'll want to protect u and u'll feel good.....
975207
Perhaps you haven't been out with him for long so he's not used to you quite yet.  If this is the case, arrange to do various activities together which you both enjoy whether it be watching movies, clubbing or sports.  Your bonds will strengthen over time and he will become less and less shy in front of you. \n\nIf you're concerned about your bf being shy in public, then talk to him about it.  Tell him how much it means to you to see him shake off that shyness.  That'll be an incentive for him to jump out of his shell, esp' if he cares about you.  However, don't try too hard to change him. One of the most fustrating thing men find with their partners is when they try too hard to change them.
624894
Hi .i think u should keep in touch wit him alot and just build ur relationship so that he can get more and more attracted 2 u .dont take my advice 2 seriouslly cuse sometime it suxs .hope yo solve ur prob \n\n                        Kristen
760147
well dont be an idiot about it. you obviously know what he's trying to do...so dont let him..tell him what the deal is, and that hes not going to use you to compete with your bf
371988
I think you are being the chaser here.  You certainly have given him every indication that you are interested.  Now it's time for him to pursue you.  He certainly is exhibiting that other things distract him when it comes to you.  If he isn't making you a priority now, it can only get worse if you continue on in this relationship.  If you cool it and he asks what is up, then tell him straight up, that he doesn't seem to be overly interested so you didn't want to bother him.  If he's really intersted, this will light a fire under him.  Finally, be leary of this "I'm talking to family in Canada thing".  Maybe once, but not every time you try to call him.  My relationship warning light is flashing on that one.  Best of luck to you!
249680
Attrack his attention in a way that he will be more interested in you.
81624
Yeah, it can get annoying, just tell him, hey I like that you find me physically attractive, but could you look and listen to me and not my chest? If it works then great, if not then maybe he is not interested in anything else. If that is the case, do you really wanna keep him around?