my little sisters keeps fighting other kids in i don't know what to do?
473821
let her keep doin it!!\nsome day someone will kick her ass and she wont do it again\nexperience is the best way to learn things
171460
I have one older sis she thnks shez yur master, and a cuz that even more annoying than sisters.  Just igore them when they do things and ask u questions theyll stop.
1028512
Tell them the movies shes watching,and hthe rating of the movie and how it is not suitable for her to watch nevertheless put your self in the situation saying if my sister told this thing to you about me you'll would have totally taken action but how come its different with me?\n\nI totally hope you understood that lol,keep on at it and even show the ,movie to them if possible,show her that she cant get special treatment as she is doing something wrong.\n\nAnd when u scoold ur sis and she complaints somehow bring her major faults into it showing that she is a hipocrit(i know i spelt it wrong lol)..keep on at it and ull win sooner or later im sure they'll get tired of it and just to please u they'll take action lol
728079
I have a little sister too and she walks in on me all the time. But the way I've dealt with it is to tell her that we both have things that we need. She needs to be alone sometimes and so do I. So together, we made foam door hangers for each others rooms, I made hers and she made mine. We bought the stuff at a craft store and whenever I wanted to be alone, she'd leave me alone because my door hanger said Please Go Away. And I'd leave her alone when it said Please Go Away. That way, she still feels like she's a part of it. The other thing you need to tell her is that you each get an hour of alone time a day (or however long you think you need). Then, tell her that you'll hang out with her other times. Then, set a limit. If she bugs you 10 times while you are in your alone time, or 3 times when your door hanger is on Please Go Away, she loses an hour of play time with her sister. Trust me, she might be a little upset about it at first but after those hours start going faster and faster, she'll get the picture and start to leave you alone a little more. Don't shut her out completely though.
449333
I have to be honest, if you see this girl pull her aside and tell her if she lands another finger or if you see her talking to your daughter you will take matters into your own hands. If she tells anybody else you threatened her.deny it..your the adult, then most likely the parents will start looking into it. I am serious! It works.
638089
Awww...that is so sad. It reminds of my relationship with my sister. She is also older than me. It's about a year and a half older...Seriously, we do and don't get along. It's not like one of those sibling love and hate conflicts, where we would just fight occasionaly. It's similar to yours, too, but it's not like we hate each other guts. Though we bicker and argue pretty much every day, even on the small and petty things. And when we're like really angry (which can happen like every now...ish^^)...we like literally fight and call each other names. Like when we were younger, like around the age of six-seven ish, there was this time when she pushed me off the stairs (O.o)...and another time where she poked me near the eye with a pen. Now I have a small bump on my forehead and a dot near my eye...She is a violent one, like a bull she is....Anyway, now I'm getting off subject, even after all we do, from arguements and fights, I still actually do love her. Once in a while, we have these heart-to-heart talks, but we do and really don't know each other at all. We just get out of each other's way...most of the times at least^^...Ok, enough with my story. Hmm, well you could act out a suicide attempt- like if she hates you so much and wishes you were dead, just be like, "FINE", you want me dead. Then stomp off to the kitchen, pull out a knife, make sure she follows you and sees you. She should have a heart, and be like, what the hell are you doing or something. Then like just tell her, whilst crying, about all your problems with her and you don't understand why she is being like that....Though death is not a funny matter, so you shouldn't really do that. You can always tell your parents about the situation, though your sister might hate you even more. All in all, you can just ignore her in school and home. And if she provokes you first (MAYBE that's what she wants and is plotting) then just be like yea, I know, whatever....Try doing a guilt trip on her....Gah, so yea, this post might not have helped you at all, but hope it did. ^^ Good luck with your sis.
959050
Yeah, I agree that your brother needs to defend himself if he has no other choice. How big are these kids anyway? Go to your brother's school, and look for these kids, warn them not to mess with your brother or you will tell the higher authorities (their parents, teacher or even the police). Don't take it lightly, you've seen what has happened to the world these days, even kids get emotional and kill each other in a fight. Your mum is weak to think that fighting back is bad. Would she rather see your brother coming home every day with a bloody nose or swollen eyes? I don't think so! Why did she not take actions, I don't know, but you're the big sister, and I'm glad you're protecting on your younger bro. Like you said, teach him some self defending techniques, so that he can protect himself when you're not around. Or better still, enrol him to a karate or taekwondo school.
186488
Control yourself and discipline your sister. If your sister insist having ___ with you, consult her to a psychiatrist or tell your parents.
127319
Dang girl... Sounds like you need to lay the smack down on your little sister. As far as the shirt goes. Use it to clean around the house because it is ruined.
1054
Your sister doesn't hate you, you probably just irritate the crap out of her, which is entirely natural and common. If you move up to her grade, give her a lot of space and pretend like she's not there, don't worry about it and enjoy everything you can, focus on the good. If she pokes at you and causes problems, tell someone, don't do it back, and go back to ignoring her and going on with life. She'll probably get to a point where she sees being mean doesn't work, and years in the future you'll probably get along just fine.
264167
It is perfectly normal for the older sister to not get along with her younger sister.  I feel your pain.  My sis and I never got a long growing up.  But, now we are the best of friends and would do anything for each other.  Remember, they are younger and you know better.  So, ease up on them.., give them a chance to grow as well.  Be there for them and one day they will thank you for it.
163496
I have the same problem with a sister who also phisicly hurts me. You could get revenge or try to ignore her (good luck with that) I really wish I knew.
129290
Why in the world do you want to hurt your sister?  You are a mean person, leave her alone. People like you are a danger to society.
1013456
Aww...  I had this same problem.  Around the same ages as you and your cousins (only they were my niece and nephew).  Honestly, the best way to get them to stop bugging you, is to ignore them (I know you've heard it before).  But, it works.  Once they see that they're not getting through to you..  they'll back off.  Sooner, or later they'll leave you alone.  If this doesn't work, try saying something to their parents.  I'd say to both the kids and their mom and dad that you need time alone (which all 11 year old girls do), and that you're willing to play and hang out with them.  Just when you want to.  Good luck!
717787
I have 2 little ones, and I would think that it would be easier for me if someone took the kids away for a bit.  Talk to your daughter about her feelings, then make a decision.
431452
ok my sister always tries to run my life also and gets pissed off if i didnt do it the way she told me to, this went on for many years and i allowed her to do it until one day i got fed up and blew up at her, she stopped talking to me for 2 months and in reality it was a great 2 months, but after she sat and thought about everything i said while i was blowing up at her she realized that she has been a real crappy sister towards me and she has been a lot better since then, and we even have sister to sister talks now and i never ever had them with her so my suggestion to you is tell her that either stop running your life or go fu..k off and remember if she hits ya you have a hand to deck her back. she will realize though what she is doing if you just speak up.
761509
Stand up to them and show them that you will not back down and let them bully you. When they call you names, call them names too. When they throw things at you, throw things right back at them. Whatever their doing to you, you make their life a living hell also. If they see fear in you then they will continue to bully you this way. It doesn't matter that it's more of them and just you. You make them see that yow will not let them ruin you. Stand up for yourself and these girls will know not to mess with you anymore.