guys, could u be serious about a girl, if u had slept with her after 3 days of knowing her?
462777
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.
592453
i would say to be the coolest and nicest person. always keep it real at all times. never tell any stupid jokes cause that a girls number one turn off. be constant to the communication. but dont overdue it. talk about each other and make jokes off it that way the girl feels good talking to you. but if you just want to take her to bed then you are not going to do it in 7 days. unless she is a hoe. sorry!
676881
Its possible!  dont call her, and get a new girlfriend.\nshe will come back.
738885
Let's be reasonable here. You dated for 60 days. Can you really expect loyalty from someone who hardly knows you? If you fee like seeing her again when you get home, call her and start fresh. But don't expect devoted loyalty from a person you only spent 60 days with. Just don't expect it.
597062
do you like her more than a friend can you see yourself dating her with a commitment think about that and if you answer yes to these q: then your answer would be yes
144537
Go with Maria, she knows you best and as for beingin love in 3 days, cant happen. Stick with Maria, it's your safest and most intelligent choice.
229293
i have been in pretty much this situation... very attracted to girl who i had become friends with... and possessing a strong desire to do something about it.  i didn't get the sense that she was interested in me in the same way though, so i kept it cool.  found out later that she is actually crazy for me!!!!
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#1, how was your tone?  did it sound like a programmed response, did you look at her before you said it?\n\ntell her you think she is *BEAUTIFUL*\n\nnot Hot, not Sexy, but Beautiful, and mean it.\n\nshe could just be having a girl day, we're allowed to have those every so often, it's probably not you.
425739
Im female and have never slept with someone the first night I met them but the question you should be asking is do you think your any less bf material since you slept with her the first night you met ?? U were pretty easy too.
551961
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
13457
If you only met her once, are you sure she is your girl friend?  Maybe she hasn't called you because she found a new guy.  Sorry.
857547
There are no guarantees like what you are looking for. It is probable that your insecurities are a sign to you of the obvious and likely possiblility. What amazed me, and I wonder how many picked it up, was that you did not say that you were fearful of losing her to another female. Now that is interesting!
92945
Congratulations, you have found a girl who isn't a whore.\nShe obviously likes you, so give her some time.  \nThat is of course unless you are a jerk, and just are looking to get laid and dump her.  Then please leave her so you don't break her heart.
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just leave it  at that if shes a real friend she will come around in a day or two and then u guys can talk it over!!!! (just happened to me!!!!):)
589283
WOW.  I feel that same way right about a girl.  I never told her though.  Now I regret that and am trying to contact her.  I think about her constantly.  She meant so much to me and I wish she would know that.  She is smart, nice, caring, and so beautiful.  She is my dream girl in reality.  Seriously.  We didn't talk that much (I'm kinda shy) but when we did, they were unforgettable.  I can tell you exactly what she said each conversation.  I like her so much.  I've had girlfriends, but she is totally different.  I really want to go out with her.  I gotta find her.  Well that's my story.  Hope you like it.
536244
I would say you need to stop calling her your girl and just consider her as a f@3$k buddy. Then what you need to do is take H.I.V. tests  and everybody double check.
943286
It is always good to be honest. You can tell her all of this, but be prepared if she doesnt believe you. Most girls wont believe you because they will be thinking that you are just trying to sleep with them.