if a guy says he loves you, then how do you know hes telling the truth?
462229
I knew when my husband didn't pressure me to have sex with him even though he really wanted it and didn't try to get me to lower my morals.  Really there is no way of knowing for certain though, you just have to trust your gut.
1058005
Has he told you that he loves you? If he has, then he is probably patiently waiting for you to express your love for him, so he really won't care how you do it, as long as you're authentic. If he hasn't then he's most likely too shy and is wondering how you feel about him...
1121556
most likely he is in love with you , and wants to know how you feel befor he tells you i love you
544106
Ask him.\nHow he answers the question is how you will know.\nAlso you can feel if someone really loves you.
678412
1:DO YOU TRUST HIM AND DOES HE TRUST YOU.\n2:DOES HE MAKE YOU LAUGH AND DO MAKE HIM LAUGH\n3:DOES HE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM.\n4:HAVE YOU TOLD HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM\nLOOK BABY GIRL THE ONLY WAY TO REALLY KNOW IS TO ASK BECAUSE A CLOSE MOUTH NEVER GETS FED, BUT WHEN IT COMES TO TRUE LOVE BELIEVE ME YOU WILL KNOW BECAUSE IT WILL BE HARD AS HELL TO SEPARATE THE BOTH OF YOU. GOOD LUCK
265741
It's great that he's so open to telling you.  Definitly tell him.  As wonderful as it is to hear those words, they lose their meaning if it's a constant thing.  We only need to hear it a couple of times.  The rest of the day, show us.  Leave a note on the bathroom mirror, hide a note or card in their jacket pocket for them to find later.  Words are not the only way.  \nFirst you should tell him that you know he loves you and enjoy hearing it, but don't need to hear it all the time.
875127
First of all, there are reallly no fool-proof way to tell, but if they are lying men:\n          1.Can't look you straight in the face\n          2. They fidget\n          3. They try really hard to convince you of their lies\n          4. They "swear it on everything they love" \n          5.  If you ask them the same question 2 days later, they    \n               they pause and have to think of what they told you \n               previously.
93682
Since I don't know your boyfriend personally, it's hard to offer good advice.  I think that some of the following guidelines would show whether or not he loves you:\n\n1)  Does he respect your wishes and morals, or does he try to pressure you into activities and ideas that he knows that you are not in favor of?  A guy who loves you will respect your wishes, even if his wishes are different than yours.  He will not try to pressure you into doing something that you have already said "no" to.\n2)  Does he ever say, "If you loved me, you'd... (fill in the blank)" or something similar?  If he has, he's using you.\n3)  A guy that loves and cares for you will encourage you to be your best self, and look out for your best interests.\n\nHope that helps.
835918
You can't tell if he loves you by the things he did and it's too early to know about things like that. But by what you are saying, that guy really does like you a lot. It must be so exciting!
42828
Honestly, only you know the answer to that question because many guys have different signs that show they are lieing. If you know your guy then you should be able to tell if he's lieing or not. Have you ever caught him in a lie before and if so did you study his facial expressions or body movements or even his reactions? For example, When my ex would lie he suddenly became very deffensive and thats how I knew. Remember, every man is different so just study the difference in yours. Good Luck!
460638
Love does conquor all, but real love doesn't lie, cheat, or do things to hurt. Love is kind, selfless, and nurturing, not self-centered. But, if it is something he doesnt know he is doing, don't drop hints, TELL HIM. Your hints may not be obvious to him, and it's not fair to just beat around the bush and expect him to respond. Confront him if you believe he truely loves you, and if he does, it will turn out all right.\nBut, if by "things to hurt me" you mean abusive, purposeful things, then he doesn't love you, and you need to get out of there while you can.
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
421497
umm.. i don't really know the situation.. but i mean.. if he says he loves you.. do you have any reason NOT to believe him??
605855
if the person is already lying im sorry to tell you he will never tell the whole truth.Plus even if he does tell you the whole truth how do you know he isnt lying then.I hope you can figure a way out to find out if he is telling the truth
800584
If he really truely feels the same way, he will tell you. If he's crazy about you, he will not stop talking to you and saying sweet things to you.
783699
Good question, but if our fellas tell us they love us, then we have to believe them, don't we? its all about trust in a relationship, in every aspect, but if you don't believe your fella when he tells you that he loves you, then I don't think there would be any chance of a relationship working, do you?
195113
Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.