what does a girl look for in a guy generally speaking i know theirs preferences?
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Someone that will treat them with respect, have manners, has some of the same interests as she has, good hygiene, intelligent.
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I look for 3 big aspects intelligence, sense of humour and looks that are attractive to me, which can vary, for me the whole person must be appealing not just one aspect, and if she got a nice butt that helps to.
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Here's my honest list:\nGodly, Geeky, Brilliant, quirky sense of humor, impulsive, compassionate, politically aware (preferably liberal), honest, sensitive, not afraid of debate, and likes board games.\nAs far as looks, I'm not too obesessed, preferences: soulful eyes, blonde (though I am often physically attracted to African American men as well, so blonde is only a caucasian thing), Clean shaven, tall, skinny, maybe hair a little below the ears-- but that's not important- it's really the personality thing above that does it for me
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Eyes and smile mainly for looks. Intellectually, I really like it when girls are smart and witty, to me a quiet intelligence is very appealing. I also like it when girls have a sense of morals and honesty.
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a bit of both for me, i like a guy with a great personality and good looks! i like a guy that is outgoing, alittle wild and crazy, fun, sweet, honest, careing and faithful!...Im pretty picky when it comes to looks, now he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous (like the man in my dreams), but i like a guy that is tall like 6 feet tall or taller, slim but muscular (not too skinny and definitly not fat) nice facail structures, nice smile, pretty eyes, if he looks good with trimmed up facial hair thats even better, short hair, not long hair (long hair is for girls) and last but not least gotta have a nice smooth chest *alittle patch of chest hair is ok* (but i hate hair men) and i like dark hair guys, not to fond of the blondes and redheads!
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You will get hundreds of different answers to this question. so here is my personal input: The ability to hold a conversation, a sense of humor, and above all...honesty in all things.\nIf it is physical attraction you want to know about, personally I prefer long hair, dark preferable, mischievious eyes, and a great pair of legs
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Signals:\ntouches you while you are talking\nlooks straight into your eyes\nshows interest in things that you like (music, books, movies, etc.)\nhangs out with you even when she doesnt have to\n\nGirls really look for a guy who is caring and funny... she wants a guy who she will always have fun with but he still respects her.
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Every one has their own opinion in what they look for in the opposite sex, here's mine,\n\n     1: A job , no one wants to carry someone Else's weight.\n     2:Funny , smart , outgoing, can contain themselves when need be.\n     3.Some type of physical attraction.\n    \n     " would it be a bad thing if she didn't talk alot"\n if meeting someone face to face for the first time, i think it would be good to make conversation to help "break the ice" or at least make it comfortable for both people, i like being able to have a comfortable silence without the other person thinking, your dull or your vocabulary is on the low side.\n-Ross
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I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
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first is personality. she has to be supportive, intelligent, honest, and someone thats gonna be there for me. im looking for someone thats likes me enough to give me some hugs and kisses. shes gotta hav looks too. im not gonna spend most of my time with someone that looks ugly. beauty is a plus. she has to hav some good habits too like not smoking, drinking or doing drugs. i like a clean girl not like those punk rocker girls with a bunch of makeup and tatoos and chains and skulls everywhere. i dont like rings on the nose or lip. belly button is ok i guess
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Every guy has different preferences, so there is no right answer for this. Guys like girls who are confident in themselves, who know what they want and who have an opinion, but not too outspoken. Guys want a girl who will make them feel good about themselves and who cares about him. But don't be all over the guy--keep him interested by having your own thing going on. The important thing is that you have to be yourself and should never act differently because you think that is what the guy wants.
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personality and good looks
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Depends on what it is exactly what I'm looking for at the moment. If its just having fun, I look for a nice body and a cute face. If I am looking for something serious then a great personality with strong commuication because without it, you wouldn't be able to know the person really well.
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women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
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~Sense of style\n~Smile\n~Eyes\n~Personality (humor, sweet, kind, respectful)
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Lol, yeah anyways...\n\nPretty much the same thing chicks want in a guy.\n\nA fun and funny chick who knows how to be sexy and turn a guy on.  A girl who isn't needy or emotional, who has confidence and thinks highly of herself.  Who isn't clingy and gives you your space.  A girl who he can feel comfortable being himself around.  A girl who has a life, and has her shit together, and who doesn't take things so seriously that you can't live it up with each other one adventure after another...\n\nThe real trick is finding a guy who has HIS shit together.\n\n...Oh and, stop looking at me like that.  I'm taken.. ;)
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it all depends on the guy. \ndifferent guys have different preferences, fetishes, etc.\nbut for me, hair, eyes, then the body.