How do you tell your parents that you have been rapped????
474940
Choose your moment then sit them down and tell them what happened. don't give them intimate details but let them know how unwelcome this mans advances were. They will probably be shocked and upset and you need to have someone outside of the family to give you support after the event. Don't suffer in silence, it won't get any easier or go away. Wishing you the best of luck
630341
If you are still a kid or teenager you really need to tell your parents.  If you are an adult and concerned for your safety or something like that notify the police.  I wouldn't call 911 or anything like that, but contact someone with authority.
1042793
Speak to your parents. Quickly.
622255
just tell them the truth
1182696
I am assuming your a minor.  (under 18)\nIf so you tell your parents immediately, this guy could well be dangerous.
257718
what kind of abuse do you mean ma? if it's physical they  need to tell somebody they trust about it to help them. verbal abuse (meaning they yell too much or embarass them by saying mean things e.t.c) maybe they should tell them what they are doing wrong.but if they are putting their hands on them or sexually abusing them they need to open their mouth and tell somebody. their parents need some kind of counseling. whoever you're referring to needs to stand up to their parents. it aint right, but it dont neccessarily mean that they're aren't loved. they need a new environment right away. their are just sick people in the world thats all. tell them to handle their business, if they gotta fight back then by all means do so. they can't sit around and feel sorry for themselves. maybe they need to stay with a relative or a close friend.
987891
honesty is the best policy. however ur parents was be a j*** for been a racist. >> hey, u stole my lines!
345473
tell your mom to cut the cr@p. you have the right to know where your father is.\n\noh, and avoid the spanish words and mentioning the color of your skin, in this question you are giong to get a lot of cr@p about it. I hate it, but it will happen.
103971
All u can do is tell them that ur not doing anything at all. The only person u really have to be accoutable to is urself(and God,if ur religious). I know it's hard to ignore all the gossip and rumors, but that is where fresh air comes into play. It's always good to clear ur head. IF it's possible, let ur parents know where u go when ur not at home(if it won't get u in trouble). When u are out of the house, and on ur own(especially if u get hitched), that kind of gossip will stop(I assume).\n\nMy own relatives think I'm a skank(In my culture, dating isn't allowed), and my parents believe a lot of what they hear. The only advice I get from people is to go on with my life and deal with it. People who gossip are bored, and they want exitement and drama in their own lives, so ur the scapegoat. Others are miserable in their own lives and want company. I know it's hard, but try to be happy no matter what, and one day, God will see ur pain and deliver u from it. Good Luck!
620955
been there done that...jus make sure that u unlock the door or have a key in the middle of the nite...i kinda locked myself out and yea.....BUSTED!!! jus tell him 2 meet u somewhere and then tell your mom that you are going out to hang out with youre friends.....they'll believe ya!!! good luk!
616168
Don't listen to constestame. Don't stay quiet about it. When I was seventeen my step dad did some pretty bad things to me. He wanted me to stay silent but I didn't. My mom chose my step dad over me and I lost the whole side of my mother's family. I loved my family so much and it tore me apart to lose them, but I'm glad that I stood up for myself rather than staying quiet. It cost me my whole family, but at least I don't have to live with the sleazy pedophile. Some people are just Fu*ked up and it has to do with power. It makes them feel bigger, but you've got to stand up for yourself. It will make you stronger. If your family doesn't stand by you, then good riddance. You will always have someone there for you as long as you have a good heart. Friends become family. You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family. I don't know how long ago this happened, but I hope you have already reported her. Make your family aware that she has taken advantage of you.
479892
Tell everyones parents.
332814
Why can't you tell your Mom? Where are you getting teased at? I would walk away and I would seriously think about telling someone who you can trust that will help you.
1007983
Hey ! I know what u mean. Be normal. Because, it seems u had not reported. So now, dont let others know.\nBut if they try 2 approach u know, I'm sure u know how to use ur knee.\nDon't make the whole situation awkward for the whole family, but do keep a watch, if they were behaving like that as teenagers, they might still have that recklessness in them, & they might still think of u as a soft victim.\nHowever, if no untoward incident happens, just let it pass. It does not mean u have 2 tolerate or forgive them, but just ignore them, if they r not very close relatives.\nUltimately, if u so feel, u might just even expose them, after all what they did was really wrong.
1174656
Ask your parent or guardian.
298723
well just let your parents know about him and let them see that you are a responsible adult by letting them know. you shouldn't hold it in and then they find out on their own and then it will all go down hill from there. that's my advice.
489240
the best thing to do is talk to someone you love and trust. Maybe your parents/gaurdian. Youve been through something terrible and you need some support around you and go tell someone immediately. Go to the police and have him charged. Its the best thing to do because you can prevent him from hurting someone else. Its scary but its the right thing to do