How should someone who is involved in SI be approached?
461026
Self injury or deliberate self harm (DSH) is a way of expressing emotions that they cannot put into words. Some people self harm for years without people knowing, these people DO NOT do it for attention but to personally and privately express their inner turmoil. There are people who do it as a way of gaining attention and yes this is a typical symptom of a borderline personality but they should not be judged for that. The reason why an individual self-harms is an outward way of showing that they are in distress and need help and that they are having difficulty coping. People who self-harm dont want to die, its actually a way for them to stay alive. However self-harm behaviour can escalate to suicidal behaviour. I suggest that you recommend that the individual goes and sees there family doctor for a referal to a psychiatrist or psychologist for dialietical behavioural therapy. It must be stated that too much attention can re-enforce a person self-harming behaviour, so be careful how you respond to the self-harm. Good luck!
221369
ask someone that knows them for the info!
156101
software jounals\nmessage boards\nclients that have connections-ask!\nconventions relating to your field
81599
I've always gone for the sincere approach (rather than pushy)when trying to build on-going business and with bigger ticket items.  For sincere, put yourself in the other person's place: they may want to talk, but are busy, ask; good manners pay.  Start by offering them something of interest, something that will help them (a little known/interesting fact about their industry).  Ask if they are the right person, perhaps they'd rather you talk to a subordinate who's in charge of the group that would be interested in your service.  There's a very old book that is still very applicable for reps by Dale Carnagie, "How to Win Friends and Influence People".  (He means business friends, but it works elsewhere).
538347
The best thing that worked for me was to find one person that I trusted more than anyone in the world and talk to that person.  There should be at least one person who knows that you do this to yourself.  Once you find that person, talk to them about why you SI and what are your triggers.  Maybe they can support you in your efforts to stop.  I haven't SIed in a few years, but think about it a lot, so make sure this person is someone that you plan on keeping around.  If that fails, and you are still in school, seek the help of a counselor.
519705
Contact your local govt officials office for some more information on who to speak with
207817
Best way is through good communication.  If the client always feels like he or she knows what you are doing and why, when it is likely to happen, and what are the potential outcomes, he is much more satisfied with you.  On top of that, you should do your best to know the client, make him or her feel like your remember him or her, work personal details about both the client and yourself into your conversations, but don't go overboard.  I've always though clients appreciate a representative who is comfortable as talks to them as an equal, rather than seeming wither 1) a superior professional "just leave this to the people who know" or 2) an overeager person desperate for their business "Whatever you say, sir, anything else I can do sir, etc."
875105
you need to speak to a Solicter really they have the legal rights to organise this for you...no one else would as it would need to be legally proven though will..which solicter will organise
1024594
give them your SSN, they would know your status. i think it would appear what kind of SSN you have, whether your an immigrant, or has a working visa or an EAD, etc.
513684
Ask someone whose going.
309285
You can go to someone professional and ask him how to approach her. It is very dangerous that he drags her into doing drugs...someone who has influence over her has to be told.
269331
be abstract\nnever be clear & open
343207
Ask lots of questions and take and show a true interest in the answers. Think of it as learning something from other's viewpoints! It can be about anything you want if you're asking the right questions. Is your future mom-in law a great cook? Ask her how she chooses vegetables at the market. Is she a great dancer? Ask her how she was introduced to music and if she thinks dancing is good for mental health, etc. Forget about what you have to say though, because talking to hear your own voice is NOT good communication, even in the small talk arena! The right and appropriate words will come to you when you listen! Just listen openly, and ask lots of question. You will be seen as very wise and kind in doing so and make a great impression. \n\nThe best conversationalist is the one who is the greatest listener. Very few words of your own are needed. :-) But in doing this, they'll want to know all about you! So you'll have your chance to talk --- but still focus mostly on listening...if you want to be a great small -- or big -- talker!
71727
Listen to them. They have a lot of knowledge you can use. Eat with them once in a while. Ask about their families. In other words, try to get to know them a little bit.
398773
It would be best to ask them. Take some initiative.
1012775
You should address The consultant.  if you are not sure who to address, then you would say "Dear Sir or Madam" or "To whom it may concern"
436560
Here is the thing, how well do you know the person(s) asking the question(s)? Whatever you feel comfortable sharing with others, do that. If a person is imposing themselves, just say that someone contributed it to you and didn't charge you. This way you are tactfully brushing off their nose problems. Congratulations and have a happy and most splendid day. God bless.