When you get married should you have to ask your husband permission to look inside his spirals that he wrirtes
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Out of courtesy, yes.  Just because you are his wife does not give you the right to look into all his personal things, unless he himself tells you it is ok.  I am married, and I open my husband's mail, and can look at anything I want to because he has told me I can look at anything he has.  Your husband may be different. As his wife, you should know how private a person he is. If you are not sure-ASK. Would you appreciate his going thru your purse without asking?
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I totally agree with nintecnoentertainmentsystem's answer.\n\nIt all has to do with trust. Obviously you dont trust your husband for one reason or another. If he wanted to ensure you that he is not hiding anything then you would be willing to give you his password.\n\nIm not saying you should check his voicemail every second, but you should have access to it, if you feel the need to 'check' on him.\n\nWhen a partner is not open in sharing and being open, the possiblity of hiding something is very high.\n\nI have been through something similar and I was right no to trust my partner.\n\nTrust your instincts, they were given to you for a reason.\n\nBest of Luck!
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Safety first, right? But if your husband is responsible enough then I would say yes. I wouldn't know what to do if I lost my boyfriend b/c of an accident, but if you honestly believe that your husband is man enough to be responsible with it, then yes he does deserve it, but if you think that he won't be responsible with it, then why risk something so special? Ya know?
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NO, I say you should try to work things out. Marriage is a special bond between two people. Remember why you married this particular man, this special man, and remind him why he choose you to be his wife. Also both sides probably has truth to it your more than likely yell to much and he probably doesn't pay attention to his beautiful wife. If communication is what your after you may have to find a common ground on which to talk to him about. Remember marriage is a long winding road not a straight clear paved street. YOU may have to compromise to get what you want in the END.
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I guess you should have considered this before you got married and knocked up.  You are in a real pickle honey.  They have to know the truth so you might just as well get it overwith.  They are going to have to deal with it.  Doesnt sound like they have much choice now.  Maybe from now on you shouldnt hide things for so long.
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I think that you should just relax and do you thing,,and sooner or later you will have something he will ask you about and then he will have to wonder just like you did. trust can be tricky some times
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when you are married.
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I think you should enjoy it while it lasts. \n\nONce you get married, he will definitely want you to share the bill in everything.
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My husband does this(the half truths) but I honestly don't believe it's to hide anything.I get the impression he doesn't need complete details to function and can't understand why I do.
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I would bring it up with him. You are already living together which is a huge part of marriage and so what's the holdup?
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are you comfortable doing it is the question? if he is in a position of authority, it can be a great release for him! it might just be a great rush for you too! you might find a new avenue for fun and spice up your love life all at the same time! new and exciting things keep a marriage healthy and keeps boredom from setting in
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What does your husband think?
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He has a right to know. That doesn't mean that he has a right to determine what you will do. I think that it should be a decision that you make together since it effects the both of your lives forever but the ultimate decision is yours. If it were me, I'd tell him and discuss the seriousness of the matter and make a decision together.
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You should value your boy friend's opinion more then them as he is going to be your husband. But you can always talk to him about the situation and try to get him agreed. But you shouldn't be doing anything without getting his permission, because it is his wedding too and it is special for him.
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Ask his wife if in doubt....K
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I agree ..come on u need to know the guy u r getting married to ..call it off if u have a problem..may not be as easy as it sounds but yes u can do what u want.
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yes unless you are married