Females. What did you feel the first time you lost Virginity ?
468682
lots of pain it hurt and it was just crap
635967
when the time is right and you meet the right person who wants to do it. *winks* I have a friend who loves being the first with a virgin.
763713
funny you say this, cause its been like 13 months since i got any... im a guy obviously, and i sure feel about as pathetic as i did when i was a virgin.  I'm hopeless
647816
For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!
1082480
I was a few months into 16.\n\nand know that i think about it,\nloosing it so early made me grow up quicker than i was ready for.\n\nReally, make sure you are 100% ready.\nloosing your virginity is something so special,\nand should not be taken for granted
543870
All I can do is tell you about my first time. I was totally in love, but the guy wasn't. It was nuthin' nice. In fact it was, on the whole, a totally awful experience. When I realized he didn't really care about me, I was devastated. I had thrown away the most precious gift I had to give a man on a jerk who just wanted to say he'd had a virgin. Don't be in a rush, sweetheart. I'm not saying you have to wait for marriage, just make the first time with someone really special. Make GOOD memories! I love you.
187548
Expect it to be a disappointment. Male or female virgins are not going to have some epiphany when they lose it. Our society puts so much emphasis on sex that the first sexual encounter has taken on almost a religious status. The physical reality is not so romantic or dramatic.\n\nFor the woman, it will be from mildly uncomfortable to painful the first time. She may or may not bleed, but unless there is something wrong, there won't be much blood and the pain is a memory after few few tries.\n\nFor the man, it is a good idea to learn a few things about your body, too. It will not hurt but you need to be responsible just like your partner and you need to make sure you're extreme sensitive and gentle if your partner is a virgin, too.\n\nNo one is going to look stupid unless one of the people involved is an insensitive lout. Don't pretend not to be a virgin if you are, then you're asking for trouble. This is a time for communication and openness. BE CAREFUL!
1110403
You know what you should do before your first time?  Fall in love.  You don't need to worry about anything else but that the person you are giving your virginity to is the right person.  Everything else will fall into place with that.
69922
YES it hurts the first time, even if your partner is "patient, sensitive, and caring". I lost my virginity after I got married, and let me tell you.. my husband was extremely caring and sensitive AND patient, but it still hurt. It didn't just hurt, it hurt like hell! On the other hand, I enjoyed it without any guilt whatsoever... because I was married and because I was doing it with the one I love, the love of my life :oD
568184
sounds like your upset with yourself for throwing your virginity away. take it for the lesson it is. don't give it away because you're curious
32112
REGRETTFUL\nI just did it to lose it,and i did it so i was prepared for when me and my boyfriend were going to do it(didn't want to be a virgin).Well he found out,dumped me,and i have always wanted him to this day.That was in grade 9,and i am now turning 30!!
235129
well i have not have it till now\n\ni am still a virgin
723599
Men don't hurt when they lose their virginity because they don't have a hymen like women do. Honestly it hurts different for every woman when she loses her virginity. Women have a piece of skin called a hymen, this is broken by the penis when it enters the vagina. Some women have bigger thicker hymens so it hurts more when they have sex for the first time. I have a couple friends that do horse back riding and their hymens broke while riding horses..all the stretching and jumping I guess. \nIt may hurt for a man when a woman is really tight, this usually requires extra lubrication.
61912
I Made Love for the first time on my wedding night. I was 28 years old at the time and it did hurt a little bit but, not much. It did feel good & hubby did a lot of forplay before hand. I did bleed a little bit. Afterwards I felt tired but, about a half hour later I was ready to make love again!  We got to the hotel at about 12:00 AM that night and didn't get to sleep until about 4:00 AM! We made love 3 times that night and once more before we got up at about 9:00 AM!
1017796
I was 19.  She was 17.  Yeah, I realized the age at the time.  We were friends before.  I won’t get into that here.  We got together.  We messed around a lot - mostly making out, petting and a lot of oral.  She kept expressing how much she wanted to do it.  I just didn’t know if it was the right time.  Primarily it was because we never had any contraception around. Don’t get me wrong, I wanted it badly.  I didn’t even care if it was going to be my first time.  I wasn’t nervous.  I just wanted to be safe for both of us.  She had only one other partner, a long-term boyfriend that she broke it off with.  She kept asking me to “go for it” in all our other encounters.  This time, in the heat of it, when she asked me to make love to her, I whispered, “Go for it.”  Then she stripped herself then me.  We still didn’t have ANY form of contraception.  But the time was right.  Go figure. After we both climaxed, she was so satisfied but puzzled.  We went for a while.  She kept asking me … and this was a question that she kept asking me during our entire relationship … was I really a virgin.  I said yes.  That was the truth.  She said she’s had a virgin.  Her friends have had virgins.  And none worked it like I did.  I told her I wouldn’t know. I just went with what I felt and what felt good for the both of us.  I don’t know what the big deal was but shortly thereafter; she harbored this idea that I had a mistress on the side that I “practiced” with. (Her long-term boyfriend did.) Needless to say we went several rounds that day … and night … and following morning.  But, alas, the whole relationship was just that – based on sex.  No emotional connection at all.  It ended.\n\nSo I guess my point is that your first time is a big deal, but the euphoria and importance of it will fade and just become a memory.  Don’t make it more than it is, just a right of passage for any human being, the emotional creatures we are.\n\nGood luck
805992
i was raped and molested for years by a step sibiling until the time i started my period. when i met my husband i was very open with him about this and he assured me that to him i was still a virgin because it was not my choice to not be. that was very important to me because i had always wanted to only make love to one person who would be my husband. god bless you for even having the courage to discuss this. i never told anyone even my dad until the last few years. honey you a brave soul and if you feel it in your heart than that is all that matters.
1008848
To all you virgins out there?   \n\nTHANKS  for NOTHING!