why is it if i cant get a date with a girl peoples response is always try a guy?
460992
try another girl :)  oh yes of course and BE YOURSELF!
599680
Mostly because we all have a fear of rejection.  I would assume that is the leading cause.  Considering...  if I really liked a woman...  and she said she didnt like me.  Then I would be crushed because I wouldnt have a chance.  Sometimes ignorance is bliss...  :-D
709628
Why don't you try to ask me out ^_^ j/k If you think you are about 80% pretty then flirt with the guy you like, there is no way that he can resist not to ask you out lol... Unless you have a bad history ^_^
549058
Guys are not like girls here, we do not send out little hints that we like a girl. Pretty much if you are a girl and we talk to you when we don't have to that means you have a shot. \n\nAlso guys don't collect female friends like girls do with guys. The phrase "I wouldn't want to ruin our friendship" is usually only said by girls. Not to say that we don't enjoy having female friends (my best friend in the world is a girl) but like Chris Rock said "I have some female friends but they are all by accident, it was some girl I was trying to date and I messed up and suddenly I was in the friend zone." My point being if a guy is being friendly to you it isn't because he wants to be your friend per se.\n\nIn short guys only talk to girls to get something from them, either a date or notes or something. If a guy you like comes up to talk to you just to talk and he doesn't ask for anything you have a shot
692099
He may be nervous or trying something different to get your attention! I am not a dude but I always hear that it takes alot for some guys to ask a girl out. Take it as a compliment.. he may think you've had every "come on" line in the book and he wants to stand out. Give the boy a chance!
871080
Probably just shy.  Don't worry about it, some guys may not have the nerve to ask a really cute girl they like!  Have fun!
430235
i think its because we are all afraid of rejection or being used.as a woman i feel like it would be desperate of me to chase a guy , and my guy friends make jokes about girls who moon over them , even if she is just extra nice when they are around.
550324
most girl are afraid of rejection just like most guys. that or they are just shy.
130797
You haven't stated any additional info?\n\nMaybe you haven't met the right girls so far. It's all about timing and also chemistry. Patience is the key, whats the point in throwing yourself to any girl cuz your desperate. You might lose the opportunity of asking the girl of your dreams out.=)\n\nGoodluck Bro
7626
Because it's easier for a girl to get a new guy than for a guy to get a new girl.  Do what you gotta do to keep what you have!
443997
Some men are insecure about being approached by ANY women. Also, many men are afraid to approach WOMEN.  The prettier the more difficult to approach a girl -- because they're afraid of being turned down.  \n\nI'd continue to do what you're doing--work the odds.  Just because you get turned down sometimes, doesn't mean you will always get turned down.  Just make it clear you're interested -- stay approachable.  Guys are so weak about being turned down.  And they play the double standard by acting like women are too agressive if they do the approaching.  Not all though.  So you've got to play the odds.  Trust me, it will all work out.  Just hang in there.
354913
it makes us look to vulnerable, if we did ask a guy out; he can either take advantage of you; because he already knows you like him, or we have to face humiliation/rejection...i have gone up to a guy once, and made a fool out of myself, but hey, i have guts, and its no big deal...but i will give all guys props going up to girls! how can you take the pressure!!!
612313
I've answered questions like this before and you girls just never seem to get it.  If you keep picking a$$holes, all your going to get are a$$hole so try goin out with someone you wouldn't normally date, broaden your horizens a little especially if you've ever turned down a guy because he's too "nice", why don't you call that guy up and give him a try.
467877
maybe its just bad luck.how about starting out slow.go up to a girl and see if she doesnt have a guy around first,and say hi.just start a conversation,ask her name and compliment her.after u two talk for awhile then ask her if she would maybe like to go out to a movie or dinner sometime.if she says yes then get her #.ur not always gonna get a yes,but maybe it will just take some time.plus like u said u have no experience.think of it this way.its practice.but good luck and hope my advise works out for u and i also hope u find that special one.u seem like a real nice guy.
1099929
Some of us guys just aren't confident enough around girls, especially if the girls are "intimidating" (really smart, really beautiful, really popular, etc).  They're afraid of the answer "no" because of our pride.  Then again there's also usually guys that don't care, and go around asking every girl they like out, so I'm sure there's plenty of those at ur school as well.  Personally if I like a girl, i let her know.  But maybe if the girls let the guys know they're interested in them.....maybe they'd start asking girls out at ur school
469477
it's hard to give advice on that subject, really.  i mean, i guess i could just say that you just have to keep trying.  every guy i've ever met has turned out to be obsessive.  but that won't stop me from going out with others.  i think you need to look at the type of girls you're attracted to.  there could be a pattern there and that's the reason you find they are all fake.  maybe you should try going out with someone you wouldn't normally. you may be pleasantly surprised.  other than that, i'm sorry i can't be of any more help.
750515
fear of being rejected by a girl whom a guy likes can be overwhelming. Not taking a chance is most likely the course, not that it is the right one, just the safe one.