What if you feel you've already found, been with, and lost your one true love/soulmate?
456107
Maybe you THINK she is your soul mate. Maybe she thinks different. If she is your soul mate, then she would know it too.  Sorry for your loss Sweety.
522395
You have people who are emotionally healthy and will take some space inbetween dating and truly look at their past relationship and examine what part they had in the demise of the relationship.   \n\nOther can not stand being alone and must feel that void of a lost love with someone immediately.  This is not healthy because what they are really doing is carrying the same baggage and problems into the next relationship which will have the same outcome.   They call this getting over the ex but they are just replacing them with another player.\n\nWhether I am infatuated or believe I love someone I do not go into another relationship after the break-up.  I alway take time and space to get my head clear.
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How sad .......you lost the very first love you ever had because of someone you trusted ......... someone you had been kind and loyal to. You not only lost your first love, you lost a friend : two deaths.\nI think that it will be hard to resolve your feelings because there is no way to resolve the issue. You can't change the past.. Your relationship was interrupted. In order to heal from this tragic wound, you need to approach it the same way you would a death. You need to go through the stages of grief. There are some good methods outlines at : http://www.elderhope.com/e_class/new_grief/grief_2_2.html\nI am so sorry for your losses. \nI carried the unresolved loss for over thirty years, and then I called my childhood boyfriend (I found his phone number on the internet). I told him what had happened and we talked about it. We talked about our lives and families and things in general. About two weeks after our conversation, I woke up one morning and realized I was no longer thinking about him. I realized how happy I was that we never married. I was thankful my life had taken a different direction.\nI still feel pain about my friend who betrayed me. Her actions caused me to distrust people throughout my life. I wish I had had someone to help me go through the grieving process when I was young. Good luck. There is a different, better ending to your story. One day you will be happy about it because, if your boyfriend had been a purer person, he would not have abandoned you because of gossip.
551676
Yes love is an intense connection we feel with other people.  You can definately lose that connection for vatious reasons, and find love in another for again another varoius reasons.
17062
you can definitely feel it. but note there are three kinds of soulmate one is karmic which the two of you would only succeed if under such heavy circumstances meet both expectations, darmic, this is the hardest to be found, they are the one  who is with you, always to the rescue,lend a helping hand no matter what, and the last one is the twin flame soulmate from which you fall in the same interests, the same likes and dislikes, both have common things to share.there is no limit on how many soulmate that come to pass by in our lives. they're everywhere, you just have to identify which is which.
737972
you know someone is your soul mate when you dont have to ask yourself is he or isnt he.\nyou just know
273610
Make sure you don't just miss being in love, so you think you are. Make sure that person isn't the rebound. Really think about what about that person you really love.
537807
some people think love is a feeling but i think part of it is a decision. you feel so wonderful right now but some of that will fade over time with the stress of responsibilities and life so you have to decide if you think the person is someone you are compatible enough with to make it through the not so great times. And decide that you will trat that person with love and stick it out even when you may feel like you dont particularly like them. that is love.
559049
NO sorry I can't you need to just give yourself time and one day your sole mate will come along and you will realize that the one who you thought broke your heart didn't even have it to break! You will look back down the road of your life and see that everyone in your life had some part they played to get you to your soul mate! All the girls or ladies in you past was just detours and and have to find you way back to the main road of your life to find your soul mate!
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I know it certainly is the pits. And we have all been there before. The first time for me I thought I could never live without that person and that there was no one else for me. It hurt so bad because they seemed to be able to move on just fine without me and I was a wreck. I tought I would hurt forever. But one day it just stopped. The hurt stopped anyway. That was a long time ago and I do still care for that person. It's not an "in love" with care but you will always care for your past loves. You cannot love someone so much and then just turn it off one day. You will always care and they will always have a piece of your heart. And it seems that there is always that one person in your life that you will never completly get over. You will move on with your life and love again and be loved back. And the thing is that it's okay. And ya know what else they might always care about you too. And one day you wont see all the bad just the good times you had with that person. The thing that helped me the most was to admit that I was meant to be with that person. Mabe for only a moment in time but for a moment it was right. And I know now that it was never meant to last, but man it sure was right at one time. People come and go from our lives like a swift summer breeze, and as soon as it comes it is gone. But it sure did smell sweet while it lasted didn't it. And what is so great now is that you get a whole new chance. You get to meet someone who will love you completly and be happy. Keep you head up and remember what a great person you are. And how lucky someone will be someday to be loved by you!
498895
This must be a new new new new love... with some added crush involved... wait till you get your heart broken.. It is the exact same feeling... ouch
51394
You've found your soul mate when nothing in your life ever feels the same. That's when they are around you, even the smallest of things have a massive impact on your actions. You've found your soul mate when you find yourself thinking about your soul mate for long periods of time. You've found your soul mate when you look into their eyes and see more than a person or a friend.
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I dont' know if I believe there is only ONE person that you can feel is your soulmate. When you do find a person you feel IS your soulmate, you stop looking, and you don't need anyone else. I DO think it is very significant when you do find someone you feel like that about however. There could be any number of people in the world that would be ideal candidates for being with you, with similar interests, values and beliefs. That doesn't mean that the one you find is the only one, but they are the most special one, because you found each other, and that's all that matters, if you're happy together.
141126
Firstly, I personally believe you can never completely stop loving someone if you truely loved them once. So yes, in my opinion it is possible for you to get some of your old feelings back when you meet your ex again. I guess if that happens, then you have to weigh up your options and decide what is best for you and what direction to take.
488320
yes ... but it hurts you very much in the beginning if you really have been serious in the relationship. Eventually, it fades off and you forget it completely after you found your new love
251351
I deal with this daily.\n\nYou move on until you find someone who makes you feel the way "the one that got away" did. There could be any number of reasons that the first one got away, but the fact is that she did, and has likely moved on with her life - you should, too.
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You probably simply miss her. It also depends on your feelings for her.