Is being 20 yrs old and married to young to try and have a baby?
471927
Absolutely not.  As long as both your husband and your are happy and can face the responsiblities of being married to each other you'll be just fine.
713099
I made a personal choice that if I didn't have kids by age 40, I just wouldn't at all. Mainly because of my health and possible health risks to the child, and because of what I felt would be fair to a child.\n\nI think it's a matter of health and also a matter of having the energy and time to devote to a growing child. I know some people over 40 have no problems with it.
659591
as a nurse,and someone who is experiencing fertility problems myself, i would recommend seeing your ob/gyn asap if you plan to try and conceive again. as i'm sure you know, trying to conceive may take a few years, and you especially may encounter difficulty since you had a difficult time the first time. you mentioned that you used "assisted reproductive technology", so i assume that you used clomid, had the full workup and all that? although 42 is by no means old, after the age of 35, the risk of down's syndrome increases dramatically. it would be in your best interest to have a meeting with your ob/gyn to discuss what you must do to become pregnant as soon as possible. Best of luck to you and your husband!!
1160266
Not at all. Forget about one year u can marry 20 years younger man. It is a matter of your choice. Most of Holy Prophet ( PBUH) wives were older than him. Allah ( God) gives u complete authority to choose your partner
30351
It's never to late as long as you are ovulating, but of course in your 40s, you do run risks.  In fact, there was that woman who was in her 60s who gave birth.
510330
I bet your going to get a lot of similar answers, but I do not believe there is a right age.  I do believe someone in their 30s is much more mature and much more capable of knowing they are ready to be together.  The younger you are the more likely you are to divorce according to statistics.
688770
It depends on your maturity.  There are some women who at 20 have the maturity of a 40-year old.  Do you agree on the same things?  Do you love each other?  Would you mind if people refer to your husband as your father?  Would your children mind if people  refer to their father as their grand-father?  Would you be willing to care for him when you're sixty and he's 80? If you're 20 today and he's 40, it will not show up much, but I guarantee that when you're 60 and he's 80, it's a different story.  Make sure you reflect on all these things before marrying him (not only with your heart but with your brain) and then make a decision which you're sure not to regret in the long run.  Good luck.  \n\nSince I'm a female, I know lots of ladies who are married to men who are 9 or 10 years their senior.  Amazingly, the age gap doesn't seem to take a toll on their marriage and most of them are very happy together.
162605
No, it's not okay. You guys are way way way too young. I cant imagine what I would have done if I would of been pregnant at that age. I am now 21 and pregnant. Its hard enough now, but think of your financial assets. Can you afford a baby? Are you emotionally stable for a baby? Are you gonna be there to support the girl while she's pregnant? (b/c we need A LOT of support during pregnancy). Think this over, you have a lot going for you evidently, and if I were you, I wouldnt want to mess it up at 18. You got your whole life ahead of you, go have FUN and enjoy being a NON PARENT for a while at least, and enjoy your youth. It dont last too long. Good luck. And stay pregnant free!!
219237
24 is still young!  Don't rush things:)  I am also 24, and unmarried.  I don't want to get married for a while still.  I want to do so many things before I settle down.  If you marry, it should be for true love.  Don't settle just so you won't be single anymore.  Enjoy your single time!  Love will come your way, most of the time when you least expect it!
1013316
It is definitely possible.  Some people don't truly blossom until after they get out of those awkward teenage and early adult years.  I think I look better now, pregnant at age 28, than I did at 16.  Of course, I looked pretty good at 23 too, but now I'm more confident and happier.
575395
as long as she doesn't think you're too old, then no.  When my husband and I met, I was 18 and he was almost 27.  At the time I was impressed with how much more mature he was than the guys my own age.
609369
Wait.  When the time is right you will know.  Or you'll get pregnant on accident and you'll make it the right time.  It's OK, your only 30.  It's not like you guys don't have plenty of time.  Enjoy life and each other.  Good Luck.
583408
i would say it depends on WHY your getting married. My first two marrages were for medical benifits and for extra cash. i dont recommend getting married for those reasons but if it is becasue you are happy then go for it and i wish you all the best. i am only 23 and i am getting married because i want to..... and because i am happy and i know that i want to spend the rest of my life with the man i love. so yes i think 22 is early enough but quite a few ppl in here have some good answers. have you gone over your finances? and your goals in life, and i dont mean just talking about it in general but how your going to do it together and what you can do for each other to accomplish it. marrage is hard and takes a lot to make it work but it can be worth it. good luck!
188405
It really depends on ur health. Ask ur doctor about it before u decide to get pregnant after 40. Its very risky starting at 40. U can end up with a deform baby, retarded baby, and again u can have a perfect healthy baby. Check it our on www.webMD.com If ur over 40 do ask ur doctor about it. There is alot of women having babys after 40.(after 40 u feel like getting out and enjoy life with ur man. If u had kids.. they have grand kids. Its a pleasure to have grand kids once in awhile.... then ur tired,send them home)
647710
Its high time. You are 28 and i am sure your husband would be in 30's. In males as the age increases the quality of sperm decreases. This might sound funny but that's true. I dont mean if you wait for next 5 years u'll have problems or your kid will have any major problems but try to understand as the age passes by the quality decreases. My personal suggestion is wait no more start planning for a chubby kid with your hubby. According to me its high time. Best of luck.
925141
Under the right circumstance, the age part would be okay.  But since you are asking, it sounds like you are not sure, and that is definitely not a time to get married!  At 18 and 20, probably neither of you are able to support a household.  If a baby came along, how would you manage?  \n\nIf you love each other, respect each other enough to do this right.  Both of you should get an education first, or at least be well on your way in a career that has a future.  You will know in your heart when the time is right.
83226
Not necessarily.  You just need to be careful, because marriage is a big thing.  I am assuming from your nick that you are a girl so..... Marriage at any age is a big thing and not to be taken lightly.  I have to agree with the other person that answered and said as long as you feel that it won't be an obstacle for you later then, no you are not too young.\n\nWhy don't you ask yourselves these questions and then maybe you can come to the answer to your question:\n\nApart from being in love with this man and feeling all the tingles and so on, do you see yourself living with this person for the rest of your life?\n\nImportant: Do you two have the same religous beliefs, morals standards , etc...to build a solid foundation and therefore later on stability for your children? \n\nWould you die for this man?  ( I know this question is a bit harsh, but you know what, my bestfriend asked me that when I was deciding whether to get married...it really sheds a light on things).\n\nMarriage isn't all tingles...babies come along, diapers, bills, arguments, etc....if you two can go through all that, then that's really LOVE.\n\nHope I didn't confuse you.