Help, Crazy girl has stolen my heart and brains?
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Well after so much of persuading and convincing if she still blows you off, I think there is just one answer-She doesnt know what she wants! My suggestion is move on, if she cared as much as everyone says she does, she would have done something about it by now.\nThe last thing that you need is an undecided woman, especially if you going off to college soon.\nSorry, you in this situation......
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okay so you say you used to be obsessed with her so i'm assuming you did go out there and get over her, or try anyway. \none of my mates had this exact same problem and alot of it just came down to the fact that he was insecure about himself and lacked confidence and self esteem big time.\nhe also felt alienated by people around him so the best thing to do is talk about it. find someone that cares about you enough and talk till your blue in the face. - i listened to him for hours for a very long time, then i realised that i wasnt nodding off in convos cos he was coming out of his shell\nthis may take some time but as long as your getting out there with people you like to be around and talking to your mates about how your feeling - girl mates are best for this you will eventually move on. my mate - he doesnt even think about her anymore. and he is alot more confident too.\nh did try to date other girls initially but they were either too similar to the girl or completely unsuited to him i think he just wanted someone who wouldnt dump him and be there for him. and nows hes with the perfect girl for him.\n\ndon't hate yourself or kick yourself for lost opportunities. everything does happen for a reason and if it wasnt your lucky day that time it will be sooner or later. and if you did get to talk to the goirl your obsessed about properly (assuming you havent) you'd realise that you'd just set your ideal women criteria in your head and put her face to it and in reality she probably dont even match up.\nseriously. its not wasting your time over.
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Can't you go to your high school counseling office to find out how to recover your credits? And, regarding the girl - tough. She's probably very frightened for you and loves you. Is this the same girl your friend is jealous of? Or is this a different girl?\n\nI'm getting sort of confused. But, you should DEFINITELY go to the counselor and ask them what to do. Lots of luck to you.
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ARE YOU INSANE GIRL ????
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You lost her, just let her go.  Don't obsess about her, because she has obviously moved on from you.  It may look romantic in the movies, but in real life obsessing can lead to her filing restraining orders to keep you away or her calling you a stalker.  \n\nI've been there, she won't take you back.  Trust me.
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I'm in the same boat, but I AM THE "SOMEONE ELSE. Please accept it. I am constantly being harrassed with phone calls and I had to get the police involved. Please don't let it get to you like that. It will only make you look foolish. There is someone for everyone out there and when yours comes along you will forget about the guy who is hurting you now. Trust me when I tell you that if he really loves this other girl, you don't stand a chance anymore. Let him go.
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I had this crazy crush on a particular girl (who stayed next to my building and was my junior is school) longtime ago but had to give it up as my best friend was also having a crush on her and he wanted me to help him propose to her.\n\nThe number of crazy thing i did to get her attention where horrible:\n> Once to grab her attention in school, i asked a friend of mine to push me so that i can fall on her as start of a conversation. But my bad luck, i fell on my head mistress. (Guess the rest you ppl can imagine)\n> She used to go for dance class in the evening by bus and i used to make it a point to see she go and come every single day\n> Once one school bully tried to trouble her and i jumped to help her like a superman and ended up getting a black eye. And for the rest of my school year, he and his full gang was wait for a chance to get me.\n\nMust say that i have a long list of crazy things. But the best part is that i cannot believe now that i was such an idiot to do all those crazy things.
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sorry pal but she may be suffering from intense stress or a mental illness. talk to her calmly and dont call her crazy. be very sensitive about her attitude. maybe she has a problem that she is holding inside. In my opinion, maybe she thinks you should figure it out yourself and she thinks she shouldn't have to tell you. I have done that in the past. us women haven't realized that men aren't mind readers. OUR BAD!!
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i think the girl who loves u feel jelouse now so take ur causion from her because she may tell ur lovely girl any wrong informatin about u trying to make her leave u \nso take in ur mind first that girl feeling and try to meet ur girl without her friend known
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My advice, forget about her. If you phone her up and get all angry it will just boost her ego(she will know you are still thinking about her). Ignore her, if you see her in public even if she speaks to you look right through her.\nIf you phone her up you look like a wimp. Seriously.\nAnd if anyone says how do you feel, you say,"honestly you know she did me a favour I was looking for any excuse to dump her.\nThe best revenge would be her to feel that you could care less.\nTrust me buddy, I know its hard but your silence will pay off.\nBlow off some steam some other way and forget the pig.\n\n\nI was cheated on once. I kept my mouth shut from the moment I told her I knew what was going on. Did not say one word. \nPhoned a mover, gave her a check for rent and left.\nHer relationship with new guy lasted about a month, now she lives in a trailer with a guy and his two pitbulls.\n\nyeah keep your mouth shut, move on.\n\n\nre: heidi. give it a rest. gods plan. yeah either god or bono eh?
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You've blown it man. She won't trust you now. Let this be a learning curve.\nBelieve me, you have more fun keeping your mouth shut.
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Brickjacks, listen to yourself. You sound as if you're hoping for the impossible; holding onto dear life just because you are not sure how does she feels about you, whether or not she wants to be with you and if she's just toying around with your feelings. Have you already asked her what she thinks of you? Have you told her how you feel about her?\n\nI really can't tell you what she's trying to do or how you should handle this situation and neither can anyone out there who answers your question because quite frankly, we don't know her. She might be a social butterfly or maybe she's a saint after all.\n\nMy opinion, you should have already confronted her by now. The more you stall your feelings for her the more confused you'll get from her reactions and advances.\n\nTake this opportunity to get to know her better. Since you're going out with her, you'll get to see what she's like. Don't stress yourself with impossible questions (i.e. Does she wants to see what kind of person I am before she decides to dump her boyfriend and be with me?)\n\nYou're not some "thing" that could be analyzed and be taken for granted. You're not some low grade ketchup/sauce that needs to be compared with another to determine which of the two taste good. You're a human, you have feelings and you know yourself better.\n\nShow her who you really are TODAY/NOW and if she shows the slightest indication of her being the malicious girl everyone (well, almost everyone) in Y! Answers been telling you, leave her. Just be her friend. She's not worth your aggravation.
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not wise - leave her alone - what your suggesting is called stalking and thats not good - get over it and move on - you lost this one maybe learn from your mistakes.
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just accept her not falling for you. that'd hurt less. She may not be what you think she is. \nJust show her best of you to her. If she finds out she was dumb letting you go, she'll come back running.\nKeep faith.
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Lol, run away i think!!  Next time, pretend she's squashed you and lie lifeless for a few minutes.  She'll maybe think she's killed you, and will change her mind about it the next time!  Let us know how you get on, if you're still alive that is!  Lol
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She's playing you like a fool. She is nothing but trouble and heartache. The only future with her is more misery. Run like hell and do not look back. Don't let her back into your life for ANY reason.
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Dear :\nShe is not a psyco nor is she a c***k tease!Nor is she playing you!\nFrom my point of view it seems that this girl really loves you and wants you forever in her life!Because of the fact that she never had a relationship before she is scared that if She goes to the next level with you then she might lose you and your friendship!\nIt is so hard for girls to find a best friend in the guy they love and most often when a girl spends most of her time with a boy she considers her friend she grows to love him very strongly!\nShe doesnot advice and like hearing about other girls because she loves you and she doesnot want anyone to take you away from her!\nYou will want to know then why does she not get into a relationship with you, and why she apologises and says there can be no relationship!\nThis girl loves you soo much that she is afraid that you will turn her away or just get fedup of her!Maybe she knows your history with other girls and she is afraid to end up like them!\nSit down with her and confess your love and tell her that you will always be her best friend and lover if she wishes it!\nMake it clear that if ahe does not want you then if another girl comes along you will have no choice as you cannot remain single for ever-but do this gently!\nJust make her known that your outings and fun will not stop if the two of you become lovers!\nYou see, most times when a woman enters a relationship the fun she had before with the guy is gone!Thats what she is afraid of!Just reassure her that lovers doesnot mean the elimination of fun!\nGoodluck and dodnot hurt her for it seems that you will never find a girl that loves you as mush as her!\nLove SANAM