next saturday is my husbands 25th birthday and its kind of a big deal. Any ideas on what to do?
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SURPRISE PARTY\n\nI threw one for my hubby's 30th, it was a blast!
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keep all of the stuff that you bought and reserve the cabin who says that you only have to celebrate your lvoe one day a year. so it next weekend. be different. do somthing that he wants this weekend and then do somthing that you want next weekend. have a good valentines day i hope that  you both enjoy it. just don't get married in vegas
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here are some ideas for this anniversary or other anninversaries. give him a portrait of yourself, a titinum wedding band(what I gave my husband and I found one at sam's club for 118.00, ) or find a woman photograpy person and take diffrent poses of diffrent months in the form of a calendar and hang it in the bed room.\n(clothes on or off your choice)
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Have a party?? \nor go out for dinner then go to the movies or do something like that it would be fun!!\nhappy birthday!!
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I don't know what to say about the man troubles but I found that your mother having a chuckle and then making the comment you wrote to be very insensitive also.   \n\nA birthday isn't the end of the world but it is something that is nice when mentioned.  It's your special day, usually the only one for most people.  Your man should be considerate and remember.  You have to remember though that guys often forget about special days and dates.  There is no cure for this.  \n\nIf it is really important to you then you should mention it over breakfast in the morning.  Don't be all psycho about it.  Stay with your normal routine and just happen to mention how nice it was to receive so many calls on your birthday, by so many people who cared about you.  Then all, NOT psycho, say "I must have missed your phone call"?  \n\nWait for the response and if your not satisfying with the response, then go psycho!  just kidding.... Its ultimately your call on how special you expected to be treated.
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throw a bday bash for him and make it a dinner then a parta cant go wrong with that
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Make him never forget his 21st birthday. Cook a nice meal (the way to a mans heart is through his stomach) naked or with a apron on or even in sexy lingerie. I think he will appreciate it. Then how about you make the first move... when he is done eating still sitting at the table sit on his lap and you take it from there, try all things that yall havent tried before.AND I MEAN ALL...Good luck i hope this helped.
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All your ideas are GREAT! The trip to the film festival sounds intriguing. A fun trip with another couple or group of mutual friends sounds like a lot of fun. \n\n I think I would leave the large party and renewal of vows for the 25th Anniversary.
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GET 2GETHER WITH A CHURCH ORGANIZATION AND PLAN AN OUTDOOR OUTING.  MAYBE HAVE A PICNIC WITH THE FELLOWERS AND KIDS.  PLAN ACTIVITIES THAT ARE SUITABLE FOR ALL: BASEBALL, VOLLEYBALL, HORSESHOE, TUG-OF-WAR, BEAN BAG, SWIMMING (at a lake or pool).  ENJOY THE DAY---THE JOY AND MEMORY IS FREE AND PRICELESS.\nHAVE FUN!
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All I can find is Personal Property Managment guide... Somehow I don't think that's what you need. Ask him... otherwise... let him figure out what to do for his birthday.
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first of all think simple. it is your b-day so don't stress a walk in the park is fine. dinner and a movie at home is cool to. you could go bowling or to an arcade. the list is endless. as to his reaction all can do is ask if he doesn't answer his lose.
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Have a pizza party at a nearby hotel with a pool.. no clean up for your parents... and all night goofing off and having fun...\n\nHappy Birthday To You.. Happy Birthday To You!!... Happy Birthday Dear MEEEEERRRRREEEEEE... Happy Birthday To You!!!\n\nHope you have a wonderful one wherever you go or whatever you do.
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Throw him a party at the Columbia Inn in Vermont.\nMake it a secert, but be careful that a busy body doesn't overhear you and get confused about your motive.
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The newspaper idea (above) is actually pretty good... you could set up a time capsule together.  Get the day's newspaper, maybe some magazines.  Write letters to each other to be read on your 25th anniversarry.  Take some photos, stuff like that.  Seal it in a pretty container (like a large, attractive popcorn tin maybe?) and swear not to open it until your 25th.\n\n\nPaper could also mean:\n\nletters or poems\nbooks\ncoupons for good deeds\ngift certificate to a great restaurant (and a promise for a great date!)\nPlane tickets / hotel reservations for a trip\na deed for a great condo :-p  don't we all wish!
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maybe he just really loves his job?\nwell i would just phone him during the party and ask him if he could just come for like half an hour or something. cuz you really want him to attend your birthday party. \n\nif he really cant. i would just have the birthday party without him. but then the next day or something, i'll spend the night with him. and have a bday party for just the two of us.
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It is not MY catagory, but it is OK to ask your question here, it is an etiquette question. If uncle already has everything, find a way to spend time with him. Take him to a movie, or out to a nice restaurant. Does he play cards, or chess? Maybe you could play him a game, or maybe he would like to teach the nephew how.\nInvite him to your place for a meal, and some conversation. You did not mention if he, or you were single. If he is single, and liked the meal, send the leftovers home with him. Make him a gift of a favorite sweet or snack to take home. Cookies, candy, a couple pieces of the birthday cake. If he is married, gift certificate to his favorite restaurant. Does he still golf? Same thing, take him out on the links, or gift certificate for a round on you. Note I did not ask if he played golf, I just assumed a judge did, or used to..\nMaybe some movies about court cases. Tape some old Perry Mason shows off the Cable, and give them to him. Do some research, and find a classic court movie.\nGift certificate to get his car detailed. Or go wash and wax it yourself.\nMake an appointment with him, and show up with his favorite fast food.\nHope this helps, and happy birthday to the judge.
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If you don't have the moola, you can still have a great evening.  My boyfriend once took me on a late day picnic.  He had made simple things but all which I had mentionned I like.  He wrote me a wonderful card and then he sent me a treasure hunt around his house for a surprise (for me it was earrings but you can use anything cute that you know he likes).  I think if most of your effort go into planning, he will definately see it and enjoy it.  Happy anniversary!