Why are there so many gay body-builders on this site?
468750
I was wondering that... why ARE you here?
1093817
coz gay guys are far more VAIN than\nstraight guys...they go regularly to\nthe gym, spa, salon, shopping...\nthey know the latest trends and keep their\nbodies fit. that's why they look SEXY!
531643
I've never said this statement, but I understand it from a woman's point of view. It has absolutely nothing to do with gay men and what they do or don't do in the bedroom. This statement is said in frustration when it seems like there is a shortage of quality, available men. The only relevance it really has to gay men is that they are not "on the market" for single, hetero women.
626597
Yes, why would they have men in muscle magazines or men's style magazines. It is more of emulation than attraction.  I want to look like..., or I want to be like... are questions all guys ask. The ones that are afraid to admit are the ones that are not comfortable with themselves.
293857
A lot of gay women look masculine.
769831
Good question.  \nGoing to the gym and taking care of your body is a good thing. But it's messed up when people are obsessed with physical appearance in themselves and others.  It's pretty shallow.  But I think there are plenty of heterosexual people who are obsessed with the same thing.  So I don't think it's a negative comment on gay people as a whole, just on shallow people in general.\n\nRegarding the bathhouse issue.  It's not for me, and it's a little embarrassing to me, because I think that's the stereotype that people have of gay men.  But really, it isn't that negative a statement in terms of what gay people are like.  Is it that much worse than "t-itty bars" that heterosexuals go to?  A lot of the times, those places are really just fronts for prostitution.....the women will go as far as they possibly can to provide sexual satisfaction to their customers.....Use your imagination as to what a woman might do while performing a lap dance.....\n\nAlso, it's not as if heterosexual men wouldn't engage in the same activity if they could, but with women.\n\nAnd come to think of it, an awful lot of the men at bathhouses and sleazy venues in general are heterosexual men who are just horny and will hump anyone, closeted married men who are afraid to form any relationships with someone of the same gender, or married bisexual men who cheat on their wives using being bi as an excuse.  \n\nWhat about all of the brothels in Nevada..which are legal?  Or all of the illegal brothels the world over?  Or the red light district in Amsterdam.  The vast majority of these places cater to heterosexuals.  Yet no one ever uses this as a justification to deny civil rights to heterosexuals.  Or to stereotype them.
291769
Maybe because it's genetic and not a choice.\n\nYou should worry more about saving your own imperfect a s s rather than casting judgment on the gay community.
492935
Because it general we all want what we can't have. Oh and also, IN GENERAL gay people TEND to spend more time and effort on how they look and their personality where as the majority of straight guys don't. And no im not gay before anyone says this is why i have this opinion.
533559
As with all cultures, there is definitely a fragmenatation within the gay community.  It depends how stable and established the community is before it forms subcultures.  For gay men, you can be a twink, bear, queen, fashionista, muscle mary, drug whore... the list is endless.  Many people find that they associate with one particular group (eg muscle marys may find that they have a shared interest in going to the gym).  Lesbians can be butch, femme, dykes, into tattoos.. again the list is a long one.\n\nFar from being a negative thing, this subdividing should be seen as positive - it shows that gay culture is strong enough to allow fragmentation.  Some people see their sexuality as a secondary thing.  As long as gay people remember the battles our forefathers had to get us to this point, our communities should stay strong.\n\nThere is one further point to remember - not all transvestites are gay.  There are many straight people who enjoy the experience of wearing the other gender's clothes.  They tend to be drawn to gay communities because we are seen as being more tolerant of those who appear different.\n\nOf course you are going to get the odd person who verbalises an intolerance towards others.  I think this actually is an expression of self-loathing and low self esteem, something that is a recurring theme in the gay community.  If you hear people critisising others, ignore them, they're not worth the effort.  Eventually if we all work towards a common goal of support and acceptance, they will tire of being ignored and join the party.
1054202
Because they are homophobic and or ignorant!!!!!!\nhttp://godmademegay.com
1178815
ok and this is a question for the gay section because?????
735745
Becouse people who are anti-gay seem to flock to the gay arias of the internet and take offence, they have turned the section into a gay-bashing section where real questions are lost to stupid comments and offensive mitarial.\n\nThese same peopel either report you as abuse, or take offence and psot so many reported answers that Yahoo is forced to delete the question.\n\nIf this aria was set up like any other, the subject matter would reflect discussion, an opertunity to explore the issues of the gay community, and not stupid questions and un-related topics.\n\nThis is gotten away with becouse of the negitive outlook of the gay community in general, and the lack of seriousness in that feild.
673976
very different. It's like nothing I've ever seen. I'm usually pretty critical to these things, but honestly, I'm going to go back right now and check things out. And no, I'm not gay or anything, just curious.  If this is your website, then bravo to you. You peeked a bored woman's interest. ;)
337876
If you have been reading some of the Q & A's here then you would know, apparently is just porn, sex and big boobs. I think the hormons are bothering a few people. There is alot that can make a guy happy, best way to find out is to ask him!
1058786
there are tons of guys like that, you just have to find them. (we are all over the place) ;)
851781
I think alot of these questions which are coming back over and over again is due to the fact that alot of guys here are probably younger males who don't bother searching the database first to find answers to their questions.\n\nSo you get younger lazy folks who just post their questions away, and since there's so many of them (young males) the same questions seem to be popping up again and again. \n\nIn terms of asking more in-depth questions, I myself thought I had (in the past) but I was either rudelly answered, or got my answers deleted and lost points... Not that it's all that important, but still, it makes you wonder...\n\n\nSo basically it's OK to ask the same question about 15 times a day but if you ask one about fetishes, modern practices, or taboos, you are judged harshly and dealt with punishment from Yahoo. \n\nYou may notice I answer more questions than I ask, and I also don't answer alot of them since they are, in fact, repeats of previous ones...\n\nI mean how often will you see questions like "Is Masturbation Evil?" or "Am I big enough?" and the like per page? Even those who refuse to read or search for their answers can find a similar one just a few questions below theirs. \n\nLike I said, I think is mostly a question on numbers (young guys) and lazyness...\n\nCheers
741418
Probably because that question is appearing on the gay,lesbian,page ummmm maybe thats why  lol