My friend is very, VERY large. What should I do to help him?
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Tell him the truth. Honesty is the best policy.\nBetter he hears it from a friend than an enemy.
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Do you have home owners insurance? If so call them. You should be concerned for them no matter how fat or gay they are. Do what you can to help them.
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Definately tell him and get some closer for you.  I doubt weight had anything to do with, you sound like you are pretty skinny.  So don't go trying to get into the double digits, just stay as you are.  Sometimes some friends should stay as friends, if anymore, could make one feel weird.  Just talk to him, let what you need said, be said.  Stay friends and walk away smiling.  Know this, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, the right man will come along.  Don't feel insignificant, because he chose someone else.  It just wasn't meant to be.
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Just be his friend and support him no matter what.  You can't change who and what he is.  None of that should matter to you anyway.
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He may need a little to do some of this. Like someone to help him move from his chair to a bench and that sort of thing. For chest, try flat bench press and then incline bench press. For back try doing seated bent over dumbbell rows. This is where you bend from a seated postion and do a rowing motion. Then cable pulldowns. For shoulder, do shoulder press, lateral raises and shrugs, all with dumbbells in a seated position. He can try weighted situps for abs if able. For arms try, curls and tricep extensions, which can be done seated.\n\nFor cardio have him push himself around in his chair or other device.
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Although your son is large for his age, most experts recommend against heavy weight training.  His body, especially his bones are still developing.\n\nI would consult his doctor first, then speak with a certified trainer.
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My sweetheart is in the same shoes but since i met him that way and began dating him that way I have accepted it but YES, it is the good thing to do to try and help the ones you love.  HOWEVER, overweight people are extremely sensitive about their weight and are very conscious indeed.  They are sensitive to people's piercing stares and inconsiderate comments.  Before you say anything, you must be aware of this sensitivity and DO NOT USE THE WORD FAT.  Try starting the conversation like "name of friend here, you have been a great friend to me and i really care about you.  I hope i have you in my life as a friend for a long time.  There is something that I am concerned about and wanted to talk with you about it though.  I noticed that you've put on some weight since college started...is everything ok...I think you are a beautiful person just the way you are and this has NOTHING TO DO with your LOOKS, but I am worried about your HEALTH.  I just want us to be friends for a long time to come.....is there anything I can do to help you?..."  Be supportive of her and let her know you are just trying o help.
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Well, he'll probably be proud of that! So don't worry about his feelings! \n\nHowever, are you really too tight for him or is it because you're not wet enough? Try with more lubrication (either lube or more foreplay!).\n\nBut he might really be too big. I knew someone who had the same problem.
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yes, too small is no good.... too big is uncomfortable. But if he doesn't know how to move it, size is not an issue.
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I would give him some time.  Be his friend... sounds like he's got a lot of stuff on his plate right now..
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First off how good of shape is your boy friend? Because I can tell you from experience that I recently gained and lost 20 lbs. I was just on a fast food things and drinking lots of beer, and I started to notice that my penis was not performing well anymore. It would get hard and then it would just go limp with out me being able to control it. Well fast forward a month and a half later I have lost the 20 pounds my abs are looking great and now that more blood gets pushed down there via my stomach muscles, I stay hard all the way through. \n\nTell him to start working out his stomach\nkegal exercises are must.\nThis will help his problem.
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you cant.. just give him some space,,, and when he is feeling better, then try and make him feel great.
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Use a really big net.
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Exercise... he needs to have a regular routine, whether be it walking everyday after dinner or riding a stationary bike for 30 minutes when he watches TV. He wants to exercise and find something enjoyable. Take it slow and easy. It took many years to puit on the weight and it will take time to lose it as well. He needs to change his lifstyle.\n\nAs well, he should watch his diet. Enjoy foods, but don't stuff himself. Follow sensible eating guidelines (balance, variety, cut down on fats, and snacking). There's not need to eat salads all the time.
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Ask him to do some squats and work out a bit. That helps. Here's a site where he can help him do a little exercise...\n\nhttp://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/becker20.htm\nI would recommend the deep knee bends - they really work your a** off...
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hahahahah thats really funny... good humour.. though sadley no it cant.. unfortunately, the biggest guy you see aruond is also not as big compared to the world... he cannot make any difference compared to the ratio of the world.... so ya..
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he needs  to get checked out...if he's overweight that could be part of it, could also be stress or something out...get him to go see a doctor