I'm 40 yrs old, why do guys in their 20's constantly hit on me?
466123
They're not hitting on you because you are forty. It is because you have an air/confidence about you that is attractive to them. It could your approach, the way you walk, talk. Many, many reasons. You go girl!!!!
515759
huh..? a lot of guys on net just hit on me like in real life ... "yo mama wad up"..etc and some ppl r just shy... give them a break hun..
1175390
It sounds like you are embarking on your lives together with your eyes wide open. Remember, for women, forty is the "new twenty"... so you're actually about the same biological age. \n\nEnjoy your love, and pursue your happiness!
643534
Considering your typing style and use of slang, I'm going to guess you arn't actually a 64 year old (wow, that was hard).\n\nHowever, if a 64 year old man was interested in an 18 year old girl, I would tell him this:  Dream on, she isn't going to be attracted to you, unless your wallet is very very fat!
138617
You are probably more mature than most people your age and that is why you are attracted to the personalities of people older than you. In addition, most poeple your own age probably are threatened by your maturity and intellect and therefore turned off by it because they do not know how else to behave around you.\nSo much to learn from anyone that is older than us....that  not only is it accectable to "hang around" them but advisable whenever you can.\nThe other 14 yr olds are jealuos of you and you should be damn proud that you have much more to offer as a human being then they do.
41446
Are you talking about younger men or older men?\n\nDo you really want an answer . . . \n\nLet me explain . . . when young men try to date girls their age . . . the majority of the time . . . they get shot down.  It isn't because they have no game . . . it is because the girls are looking for more than an immature male (in their mind).  Plus you young girls are looking for older men or men with potential . . . who can be your sugar daddy.\n\nSo . . . these guy look at older women . . . for stress relief (trying to be clean). . . and these women usually give it up easier because they (in their minds) think "boy . . . I still have it . . . these young boys chatting me up, telling me I look beautiful like girls his age."  Meanwhile these guys spend little or no money on them and get all the action they need . . . in some cases these ladies become sugar mommas . . . (Like you young girls who have sugar daddies).\n\nMeanwhile, these young guys . . . go to college. . . get their degree . . . and make six figures when they reach their mid 30's (the guys you are currently dating - who will eventually dump you) . . . and they will start dating girls approx. 10-12 years younger than them.\n\nI've been there . . . done that.
592197
Simply put, move on. If you're under 30 (and judging from your grammar, you are.) You're too young to be serious about anyone in the first place.
199644
hes no man if he chases a 16 year old(no offense) I'm 26 and tell you right now i would never look at girl younger than 20 hes a creep and you will only get hurt if you get involved with him..please listen to your head i know its nice to be wanted but trust me you wont think that after he hurts you (physically or mentally).
528823
They're probably jealous or just being overly protective. Don't listen to them. Do your own thing :)
340282
So you are a lier too . . . \n\nYou don't like the guys that like you . . . but you dated them . . . which means you like them . . . . \n\nPlus . . . guys your age has no game . . . so they lie to get with you . . . but if I were you I would accuse anyone because you are one too.
407763
well im a 23 year old straight female lol and im attracted to older guys too.  its just your preference. younger guys/girls are immature i guess
115990
If you're having to ask that, you're too young for the relationship. Men at 35 will show you they like you the same way men at 25 will. They may have more money and experience to show you in different ways but basically it'll be the same general idea.\n\nMy husband still tickles me, teases me and says the same stupid jokes he did when we were younger.
132967
i suggest that u let someone know, someone who can do something about it. You should also start watching yourself, b/c u might have a stalker. Don't get to worried, though. Depending on what's in the e-mails, your "stalker" might not be meaning to do anything serious. It just might be some guy that likes u or "hits on hot chicks..." had that happen to me before....
464181
Yes i've always been exactly the same.  I've really no interest in guys my own age, and i've always been like this even since when i was at school.  Don't really know why though but it's not a problem at all.  Plus as the saying goes, there's many a good tune can be played on an old fiddle.....  I'm 29 and seeing a guy of 51 who is the sexiest guy i've ever met in my life and is well fit (and looks about 35).  Good Luck!
97107
you are matured. better to search a man above you age or minimum equal to your age. Otherwise you will have tough time in the future. cancell his cell phone number. dont response, gently communicate him about your studies to be finished or your parents are not interested. when you are 50 he will be still in his 37.....you will look so old so he may search for some one.
608998
well, as you get older, you'll find more guys that are mature. Unlike this jerk. You'll find someone better. Guys just love to flirt. same with girls. just try not to get emotionally attached everytime you spend a lot of time with guys.
629675
It's probably because they're young and inexperienced.  Thus feel uncomfortable around the opposite sex.  Give em a few years.  Maturity can be wonderful.