help me please i have a bf issue?
471522
have respect for your friend and look elsewhere.  a guy isn't worth losing a good friendship over.
643516
that first answer about usin you was a bunch of BS\nif it is true, dump him... but I hope for the better that it is not. I'm a guy with a lot of gfs too (cept I kinda wanna be single over summer, so I'm  not makin any moves) and I'm sure they are all jealouse when I hang out with one or the other. Its natural, just like I'm jealous when the one I've liked forever hangs out with other guys. If you talk to you bf a lot, then it should be no problem talking to him about this. If you don't talk to him, then you should either start talking to him or rething about whether or not this is the guy you want to be with. There are plenty of guys out there, and one will eventually be the right one for you. just hang in there, and if you lose this one, it'll be alright\n-- God Bless
116200
just tell him straight up that u think about him all the time that u cant stop thinking about him.....theres nothing wrong with thinking about your bf all the time
992809
think for yourself, does your boyfriend worth you or not. you are the judge here. don't let your pal say things to you, because what will happen is that you and your boyfriend will end up yelling at each other over nothing. trust me, think for yourself. is your bf good or bad. you decide.
491117
a similiar situation happened to me.  to this day i no longer talk to the girl i used to be friends with.  my best advice to you is find a friend that will not choose their bf over you. especially if the guy is yelling at you and she will not stand up for you.  she is not a true friend!
793171
Sweetie the Lord loves you. You are always loved, never think you are not.  Having a bf does not equate to LOVE.  Instead of focusing on a bf focus on yoru education, bettering yoruself, workign on those things that know you need to change, etc.  When you stop looking and focusing on it he will come.  May I add when a young man presents himself, pls. do not jump on the first one that comes. make sure his character is correct, his morals are intact and that he will treat you asyou desire. Do not compromise who u are or what God has placed on the insude of you just to be able to say "u have a bf".
104945
listen, tell this to ur bf and say tht u r hurt by his opinion and plz donot behaved rudely,just be kool and try to more attentive on him and when he will tell bad about ur bro just say if do this kind of things in future u will not able to continu this relationship,be strong and if he really love u then he will stop to say bad thing about ur bro,and if he donot care about ur feelings and understand tht he doesnot love u.i know this opinion is really harsh for u but it is true.
269133
It sounds like he still likes you.  If you guiys are still on speaking terms I think you should talk to him and ask him about all the shit hes been spreading.  If he's just mean, you might have to get your bf to avoid him and his friends or if the situation gets really desperate tell someone who has more control over him(your ex)
468598
Oh shyt.. well.. Where I agree with the above people, I personally think that if you do that, then you might get more than yoru bargaining for. You tell your man, he might think that you are initiating it.. or he might not. If you tell him and he looses his best friend and you dont work out, he might blame you. You cant think of RIGHT NOW, you have to think of the long run.. i would persoanlly text him back and tell him "look i dont find it funny nor attractive that you are hitting on your best friends girlfriend. I am with *bf's name* back off ." now if he doesnt then free for all, tell your man ... but at least you tried to get him to back off first.
1099272
Tell him your sick of his annoying antics and he needs to get a life.  Tell your bf that you dont want him hanging around you anymore and if he loves you he should respect that. =)
985012
there is something wrong with you if you already don't know what to do. you need to ask yourself it you trust your bf or not and find out how happy he is with you and the relationship. if there are somethings that need to be worked on then do it. the two of you should confront her together and tell her to kick rocks.
487563
I'm a guy...Ladies, if your bf is not giving you enough attention and you are not a spoiled brat (I'm not saying you are), then he isn't in love with you, not matter what he says! If a guy truly loves you, attention would be the least of your problems! If I love the woman I'm with, nothing else can get my attention. If you have to fight for attention, move on and find another guy...there are plenty to go around. Expecting 100% is expecting too much however, the guy does need a life and you should have one to. It is not healthy to be together ALL of the time...that makes for a dull relationship. Ever hear..."absence make the heart grow fonder"? Well it does, try it once in a while.
185929
If your bf or gf loves you then they will understand your predicament.\n\nPick what is the most important thing that will help you throughout your life and put that as a little ahead of the rest.\n\nset up a certain amount of time each day for your love life
968500
All in one! Keep her out! And you try and keep a hold on your bf. You have to manipulate sometimes you know. Remember, everything is fair in love and war!
720457
talk to him - i told my bf that i love him and see our futures as being together - try it :-)
812177
I say no, honey, if you don't want to be hurt again then stay away from him. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better. And for the time being when you don't have a bf, get closer to your girlfriends! They won't cheat on you.
1093405
JUST TELL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't waste time, just break up with your current bf and then tell him!!!!!!!