I miss my ex and he wont give me a 2nd chance he says he found the love of his life in 2wks what do i do?
457376
There isn't anything you can do I am afraid.  If he says he found the love of this life, he won't be coming back.  At least until their first argument.  Be careful, you might end up in a love triangle.
641436
Ummm If u gave him 1 chance and 2 chance u alway give him a 3rd one Just try it.. And if it doesn't work try to find someone else better..Also that means he really loves u unless he has cheated\n\nGood Luck!
1017312
You know what they say about Opportunity not knocking twice, well now it did. You should first ask yourself, “Am I still in love with this guy?” and “Given the current situation of my life and his life, are we still compatible?” If you can answer these clearly, that you’ve forgiven him and that you understand why he dumped you in the first place, then by all means, go for it. If not, if things are still unclear, it still wouldn’t hurt to get in touch with him again. After all, you were best friends.\n\nGod would not give you situations you cannot handle, and if in this new process you get hurt again, or if things go wrong, then at least you can say to yourself that you’ve loved and lost, and join the millions of people out there who are so sick of love songs. But that is being pessimistic.\n\nIf we all become wise guys and say you can’t do this and you shouldn’t do that, then you would just become paranoid because there would be a gazillion rules on love and not getting hurt. If there was a specific rule to follow so that you won’t get hurt again, then why are there countless heartbroken people, and countless heartbreaking songs?\n\nThe bottom line is, even though you are one who would like things to become safe, perfect and happy, you should not hold yourself from things that you know would affect your life in a profound, meaningful way. You should ask yourself every now and then… “Why not?”\n\nIf things go wrong, this time, you can say your goodbyes, learn from it, and move on.\n\nIf things go right, then you just did what God wanted you to do. After all, when you feel that you are happy with what you did, it was meant to be.
492527
Go on with your life as if nothing were the matter.\n\nThis is really hard -- be courteous and pleasant and non-judgmental with your former lover.\n\nAs soon as you can, open your eyes to new opportunities and find a new love.
790072
I know exactly what you're going through.  There's no advice that anyone can give you to get you through this, which makes it so much harder.  And I think you're doing the right thing by acting happy and like you're fine.  You don't want to wear your heart on your sleeve.  That's only for your closest of friends to know - and that's what they're there for.  You need to continue your life without him as hard as that is.  \n\nIf you know there's 0 chance of getting him back, just realize that that's the reality.  You're probably beating yourself up trying to figure out how to win him back, but reality hits hard and you just need to accept it.  You have to be happy for him if he's happy and just know that you did what you could and you can't do anymore.  \n\nSomeone once told me that guys always realize what they've done wrong when they're older and wiser, but they'll never admit to it.  Just continue with your life the way you are and cry when you need to.  If you live day to day with a sad face, it' s not going to help your situation any more.  It's not going to bring him back, not going to make you happier, not going to change anything.  \n\nTime is the only healer.  I think about my ex all the time.  He won't return any of my calls or talk to me.  So I just leave him messages telling him I'm thinking of him and if he needs anything I'll be there.  But I still don't hear from him.  So slowly, I'm letting go.  I know it's already been 4 months.  But I've known people that it's taken them a year or more to get over someone.  \n\nMaybe it just wasn't in the stars for the both of you to be together.  Take what you've learned in the relationship and only remember the good things.  I'm sure he's a wonderful guy, but that doesn't mean you'll find someone more wonderful who will make that committment to you and stick with it.  Don't rush into another relationship because you know you're still not over him.  Be honest with yourself.  That's fine if you think about him all the time - you really love him.  \n\nBut if you really love someone, let it go.  If it comes back to you it's meant to be.  And in this case, since he's moved on, it just wasn't meant to be.  I'm sorry.  I definitely know break-ups are not easy, but don't forget to continue respecting yourself.  You're not alone...
566981
You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!
286695
Move on.  There is someone out there who will return your affections.  You deserve better.
201018
give him a chance to breathe and think on your relationship. if you want him in your life you have to be mature enough to let him decide if he wants to be with you; if you're bringing drama to the relationship and he broke up with you because of it, at this point you have to let him decide if he REALLY wants to be with you. I was in a relationship like yours and he decided to come back to me. I always have to be careful of his feelings due to our past but if your gut wants to be with you let him. if he doesn't let him go, it'll only help the both of you in the long run...
955717
Your relationship with your ex is not completely over, you don't have closure OR you were so content in the  relationship you cannot adjust to the change fast enough.\n\nYou have to analyze your feeling honestly and openly and you will get the answer.
992475
You just have to accept that your ex has already made the decision to be with someone else.Take some time to be thankful you found out what kind of person he is. Somewhere out there is your Mr. Right, just don't rush into a new relationship.Be strong.
80186
Just let him go. You just waste you time waiting for something not available. You deserve the best. Explore your enviroment and you will find your next better perfect match. Move on !!!
1163744
If he broke up with you to explore his options and regrets his decision now that it's not working out in his favor, TOO BAD! Do not take him back. He was selfish enough to end what you had to start something new, who's to say he won't repeat these actions. If you go back to him, he'll know you're weak and will prey on that as long as you give into whatever conveniences him. Just love yourself more than that. He doesn't even deserve someone as nice as you, you can do better. Good luck in love and life!
1186947
YOUR BREAK UP SHOULD HAVE NOT BEEN CAUSED BY DISTANCE BECAUSE TRUE LOVE KNOWS NO DISTANCE AND FEARS.  NOW, POSSIBLY, HE HAS OVERCOME THE HURTING CAUSED BY YOUR SEPARATION THAT HE ALREADY HAS SET HIS EMOTION FOR SOMEONE ELSE.\n\nTHE FACT THAT YOU SAID IT WOULD BE DIFFICULT FOR YOU TO GET OVER HIM IS SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE TO RECONSIDER.  IF HE REALLY LOVED YOU, OR IS STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU, I DON'T SEE ANY REASON WHY HE SHOULD DATE ANOTHER GIRL.  THAT MAKES ME BELIEVE THAT HE IS NO LONGER INTERESTED TO GET YOU BACK AND YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT GRACEFULLY.\n\nOUT THERE, THERE ARE LOTS OF MEN WHO MAY HAVE GREATER ABILITIES AND CHARACTERISTICS THAN WHAT YOUR EX HAS RIGHT NOW.  OUT THERE, THERE MAY BE SOMEONE JUST WAITING FOR YOU TO NOTICE HIM AND GIVE HIM THE CHANCE TO SHOW YOU THAT HE IS WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE.  \n\nREMEMBER THAT IF YOU AND YOUR EX ARE DESTINED FOR EACH OTHER, DESTINY WILL HAVE NO OTHER WAY BUT TO SEE TO IT THAT YOU WILL BE BACK IN EACH OTHER'S ARMS NO MATTER HOW LONG IT TAKES.  LET DESTINY DECIDE WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU.  SMILE!
746883
You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
224101
Why would you want him back?? I am sorry, but he seems to have proved that he is untrustworthy, and a creep. I know it hurts, but put him behind you and move on with life. You will meet someone one day that would never think of walking out on you...you deserve a true love, don't settle for less.
145723
Life is short and u only live once...He was part of ur life b4 and it didn't work out, what makes u think that this time is going to work? There's an old saying: "if u hurt me once is ur fault, but if u hurt me twice is my fault". Ur only falling in love with him because he came back in2 ur life...but think of ur current b/f as well...put urself in his shoes...how would u feel if he was 2 leave u 4 his x?? Ask urself the reason why ur x is back in urlife? What was it that 'caused him 2 come back? What happens if u go back with ur x and then u realize that ur current b/f is the one u were meant 2 b with...u would have lost everything...and u might end up alone...do not play with people's emotions because, what goes around comes around...
775325
i think u should consider it again....think about it carefully...ur fate will depend on ur decision...give him the last chance... if he do it again, dont hesitate to leave him...im sure there's someone better than him..good luck!