is it hard to have a relationship with someone that you work with?
464469
its not a smart thing to decide to do
1003311
part of being in a relationship is working together and if you rally want this to work then go for it
261979
Dont ever get involved with a coworker. If it doesnot work out you have created an uncomfortable work enviroment.
733808
I had two workplace romances a long time ago.  Neither of them caused a problem when we broke up.  How long have you worked with him?  Do you sense even a hint of a vindictive streak?  If so, keep away.  If not, tread carefully and take it slowly.
841517
I don't know about you but in my case it's my co-worker who I totally wana fuck really bad. That's about the only reason I like going to work everyday. Is that bad, lol?
174657
The one I work for now is the best.  We get along great.  The worst I've had was at my last job.  She was backstabbing bitch and she talked about everybody then acted like their best friend to their faces.  She even talked trash about her best friend, the assistant manager.
1026110
Yes, but just like happy in a relationship it requires you to do work.\nYou have to build a life that is happy for you.\nBy the way, really good relationships happen only between people who know how to make themselves happy first, then include the second person because it enhances their happy space.
471408
work relationships are complicated, they can distract you. if it all goes wrong theres always a pretty high chance you'll end up office gossip. plus alot of companies frown on it so if u do go there, keep it quiet.x
830672
I think we have all been there.\n\nI have a co-worker that just cannot accept responsibility when she screws up.  It's maddening.\n\nSo.....I went onto MSN and found an article about working with difficult people, it described her to a "T" and I typed up a label and mailed it to her.\n\nShe was furious but it brought the issue into the open as she was trying to find out who did it and therefore we were able to discuss WHY someone would do that.  We also made her "put the shoe on the other foot" and think of how she would feel if she had to work with someone that treated her co-workers the way that she did.\n\nShe's still difficult and a witch most of the time but at least she thinks about her actions a little more.\n\nGood luck, there's one at every workplace.
890647
THAT DEPENDS ON IF THE BOTH OF U WANT TO MAKE IT WORK IT CAN'T JUST BE ONE PERSON. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND FOR 4 YEARS AND I'M STILL ATTRACTED TO HIM AND HIM TO ME. YES WE DO HAVE HARD TIMES BUT WE ALWAYS KEEP THE LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN TALK TO HER
739025
i'm sorry, but either we are b/f & g/f....or nothing. it's like having a best friend and then getting demoted to co-worker. WHATEVER! i'd rather be concerned about getting promoted to someone else's girlfriend status.
13466
I think it´s very difficult, because you need to know the other person, and I think is very important the physical contact.\nI have tried this type of relationships because I´m a lonely girl too and this is a way to forget a little about this fact...even thoguh, I need to put my feet on firm floor; is not healthy enough to fullfill the emptyness. Think about it before doing it. The net is dangerous and can play with your feeling so hard....Be careful. I wish you luck no matter what you decide.
700932
Dating and working. Working & playing. Sounds contradictory, right? \n\nWrong.\n\nYou can no more control your heart than you can stop breathing. \nBut ask yourself if what you are feeling is LOVE or LUST.\n\nDating a co-worker (to your EMPLOYER) means you have been slacking off on his time-clock; something that may cause problems between you and the co-worker in the future. By merely posing the question, you indicate your fear of on-the-job-involvement. You are attracted to him/her, but you are afraid to commit.\n\nThink about what that means. You are not SURE about this co-worker, are not prepared for a failed relationship among your peers, and are reluctant to completely give of yourself before you know answers.\n\nI have learned that "when in doubt, DON'T." \n\nYou have made a valid point. If things don't work out between you, more than likely, EVERYONE at the job will know about it. \n\nBesides being "awkward," you risk losing your job, your reputation and your appeal to perhaps, a more suitable partner.\n\nBUT - on the other hand...\n\nLove (true love, that is) has NO Address. This means it is entirely possible for you to meet your soulmate while dating a co-worker. \n\nTherefore, my advice is for you to: \n1. GO SLOW (don't rush into anything)\n2. GO PUBLIC (get to know him/her initally in the company of other co-workers at a restaurant, snack bar, etc.)\n3. GO AWARE (learn about his/her past relationships. You just may be another conquest or victim #___ on their playa's list)\n\nEnjoy the attention but always be aware of the RISKS. And if true love prevails, welcome it. \n\nI wish you well, my friend. Thanks for posting your question.
1043060
It's very common, and I don't think it's wrong, unless you act on it. It might be awkward if you are working with him, but I don't think that you should change your plans just because you're attracted to him, unless you find a better position. There will likely be more bosses and unavailable coworkers in the future that you will find attractive, so if you want to live your life, you might just have to grin and bear it.
631380
If it is a personality conflict, as you state, then you'll have to make a decision about how much it effects your day-to-day work, and how much you have to interact with the owner.  \n\nIf it is to the point of "this town ain't big enough for the two of us," I would head for the hills and find another job.  The owner is more likely than anyone to always be there, for better or for worse.  \n\nIf there are some specific policies/procedures they've implemented that interfere with the work you're trying to do, then I would talk with them.  Let them know what your goal is (to be an effective, efficient employee) and what specifically is getting in the way.  \n\nI deal with something similar all the time where I work.  There are times when I daily have to decide whether I want to work for this person or not, as there are clashes in opinion, and it certainly dips into my "happiness factor".  I have had the most success in playing the political game . . . I treat her respectfully, but go about my work with minimal interactions (until it gets in the way of my work, at which point I promptly address it).  I know, though, that every situation is different. \n\nWhat is your gut telling you?
799266
I am in that situation everyday. I have to work with someone that absolutely annoys me and is so difficult to work with. Because I am a mature individual and I want to display professionalism, I have to put my grievances aside in order to get the job at hand done.
1012299
most places have someone like your co-worker.