Why do many women get so offended when their boyfriend asks to just have nights to himself and his friends?
462361
Because the girl is insecure, my guess.  I can't really totally explain it more than that.  But she should realize that it's actually a sign of him getting more comfortable with her.  See he's realizing that his life has been out of balance becuase he's been persuing her, and is now trying to balance things out.  This is a subconsious attempt to make a workable relationship that will last. and she should realize that.\n-Duo
447369
Funny you asked this question.  This is a constant issue with me.  I have male friends that my boyfriend is a little jelous of but trust me, they could never replace him.  My bf has female friends that I'm not threatened by anymore, but there was a time.  As far as my boyfriend and I, I say that opposite sex friends are perfectly alright as long as the couple knows where to draw the line and the "friends" and couple know not to cross it.
441914
Because alot of women are insecure and want control of situations that either hurt them or make them feel vulnerable. They will get really defensive and try to assign blame in order to maintain control. Men on the other hand feel more out of control when they actually let out what they are feeling so they just try to avoid the whole thing so that they don't lose their own feeling of security. Basically people in general don't understand why the opposite gender reacts the way it does and thus arguments are born.
298413
I can tell that this issue is really bothering you and hunny, you are tooooooo young for this. You actually sound mad, it was like you were on the phone with me venting while I was reading.\nWell, I am a strong believer in the word and I have read that where the mind is the body follows. Meaning your boyfriend wants to sleep with other women if he hasn't already done so. When he is looking and admiring all thoose other women he is lusting for them.  He shouldn't disrespect you like that and you need to leave.
687733
Yes it is.  Some people enjoy their own company and thats fine.  Dont force yourself to be in a relationship because it seems it is the 'done thing.'
183919
if you ask me its better that they do that.. that way you have your own time, being together to much can cause them to push themselves away, getting the feeling they are controled or smuthered.. him wanting to hang out with his friends sometimes just makes him have his time to think and be a guy, cause seriously what guy like sitting around watching chick flixs and going shopping and all the stuff that we do 24/7?? besides gay men, i cant really think of any. it doesnt mean that he dont like/love you any less just means he needs is space sometimes, so take advantage of it and get some girl time in with your friends!
918202
I am not a man, but couldn't resist answering this one.  He doesn't want you to be out all night long, he is thinking if you are out all night long then you are spending the night with another man.  He says he is glad you don't care anymore, but his actions speak louder than words.  Keep on acting like you don't care and see how fast he wants to come back home.
777448
Personally, depending on how im feeling, I'd like to spend a lot of time with my boyfriend but every girl needs to be with her girls from time to time.  Being with the boyfriend too much can ruin a relationship.  When you're finally comfortable in your relationship and confident in the fact that nobody's gonna move in on your territory, then spending time with friends is better for everybody.
150628
Maybe she has not yet matured to the level in which she feel comfortable with a boyfriend in the presence of her friends. Maybe she feels they will make fun of the way she interacts on an intemate level with a man. It could be as simple as that.\n\nPS I am a brutal critic of women and do not trust them as far as i can throw them but in all fairness i do not think she is up to anything out of the ordinary here so just remain calm.
990538
They feel insecure and inferior of themselves. Or maybe their gfs are those type that fools around with other guyz thus they don't trust them ;)
581940
Most females don't like one night stands because they have the fear of being labeled. Society has made it that way because it's okay for men to do it without being called names but not a women..If she did she would be a ho and everything else.
635038
it is almost always annoying.  men think women go out to be hit on...we dont...we go out to have fun, not be a piece of meat
224151
Obviously they don't like themselves at all - so they take it out on the ones that are closest to them . I bet that the man thinks and wants someone do that to him . You know like people who hit themselves - it's to let the other person know that they are already hurting (inside), so it does'nt matter if they hurt them or not . Like  " watch this everyone I can be abusive ! "
877438
its hard because women get upset when a man says I am tired then she gets even more upset and starts thinking there is something wrong with her also if your man is suffering from a lot of stress he may not be able to get into the mood as well there are a lot of reasons why men cant express them selves either could be there upbringing maybe dad didn't show mom a lot of affection and it just rubbed of on him
451825
My husband was that way in his early twenties when we were dating. It's a guy thing. I think they do it to not look like the girl is in control of them. They mature eventually. I would talk to your boyfriend alone and ask him. Do you think you act different when your around your friends? Why do you think your friend teases me?  Say it in a calm and casual way. Just to see what he says. You could even kid around with the guy who teases you about your age and say, by the way your acting you wouldn't know the difference in our age.\n  In the end it seems all boys and young men go through that phase. I learned to give it right back to them. I would like to think they think of you as a friend and they are kidding around. I remember a time when i didn't like joking around or "busting chops" but as i got older and learned how to give it right back. I learned not to be so sensitive, not that you are, and it actually made the guys I hung out with more comfortable around me. There were times when I would give it right back and they would say something that made me a little sensitive and I couldn't think of anything to say and it was at thoughts times when I learned to laugh at myself and say to them "o.k. you got me". I hope i could help. I know exactly what your going through, I was there. I does get better.
866622
I was in a relationship and I was by myself many nights b/c my then bf was a long distance truck driver.  Those nights I would cry so hard b/c even when we were together I felt so alone.  If I had a bad day at work, I couldn't talk to him.  He didn't wanna hear about it.  And aren't your significant others supposed to make it all better?  Or at least care?
444856
Some people are not satisfied with casual sexual encounters and relationships.\n\nI'm a single parent with three kids, and want and need emotional support and intellectual stimulation from a mature adult female, not what I can get from my mates over a pint at the local.\n\nDifferent strokes for different folks.