does masochism have to be dealing with sex or just a pain freak?
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Sadism deals with deriving pleasure from causing pain to others. It doesn't necissarily have to be sexual. Bullies in school are technically Sadists, though most people would not describe them as such  because society generally views sadism as sexually related. \n\nThe same goes for masochism, except the person enjoys receiving pain.
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seriously, are you a masochist? so am I , and I don't know why. masochist to masochist, I would do it for you.
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lust is just for sex\ninfatuation is an illusion\nlove this is the real thing,it hurts yes,but it is the greatest kind of pain
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I agree with Sonny. Sex is natural. Unless you are a nun don't deny your humanity. It will only get worse, not better. Ever hear of sexual anorexia? I too struggle with my sexuality. I was a victim of a rape that resulted in some serious physical and emotional trauma. I spent years swearing off sex. My issues around sex did not get better. The only way to have a healthy sexuality is to be sexual. Even if it is just with yourself! Get a vibrator and explore yourself. It is healthier than sitting in denial, I promise!\nCheck out this website to learn more....\nhttp://xxxanorexia.com/
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In the movies it is acting...but, YES, sex can hurt.\n\nIf you are going at it too hard, or if you do not have sufficient lubrication, it can be downright painful.
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As you can tell there are people who not only fantasize about the same things you do they often practice these sexual behaviors. It's not my personal choice but i have seen and read a lot on the issue. If you do choose to try these things make sure you have an understanding with the person you are ingaging in this with. Have a code word  that lets the person know when to stop if your hurting to much or just choose to stop in general. There are people who have died from being choked during this because they did not take these percautions. Just be careful. This doesn't make you sadistic or sick. It's just your personal desires, everyone has thier own yours is just more extreme then most.
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Both. Love does cause pain, and sometimes good pain is love.
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Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
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Sadism and Masochism\nPleasure from inflicting pain and pleasure from pain
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No. Apparently you've been watching too much bad porn. And by bad, I mean fake.\n\nOnce girls/young women have lost their virginity, sex is not painful unless she is forced to have intercourse without becoming properly lubricated first. In other words, as long as there is foreplay and the desire is mutual, sex is pleasant for women, not painful. However, there is a type of "pain" that is a "good pain" that is basically not much more than a bit of temporary pressure on excited nerve endings, and when a woman experiences this, she often responds with moans or screams of pleasure.\n\nIf a woman is screaming so loud it sounds like someone is killing her, there's either one of two problems: 1. She is in pain because she's either a virgin or her vagina isn't lubricated or expanded properly. 2. She's overacting. If it's the first case, by all means stop having sex immediately!!! If it's the second, you can either ask her to shut up or put a pillow over her mouth (but not so tightly as to smother her).
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At first you’ve to know that during the sexual act is involved in the nervous system and any organs and so for the whole body it becomes a great commitment. Besides, the brain (mind) mainly is implicated and for somebody its involvement can be more than other. That doesn’t justify frequent or continuous headaches anyway. I don’t know if your ache is very frequent or will be only an occasional affair, because on that case there’s nothing to be worried and evidently it just occurs when your brain (body) is already too stressed or weak. On the contrary, if it just is a recurrent occurrence I think you should have to suffer headache also during others stressing occasion… isn’t?\nTherefore, either you just are a sick-head prone people (independently from the sexual act itself) or it only happens on some occasional circumstance. There are many studies about migraine and for that you should consult a doctor.
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bondage, discipline, sado-masochism
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pain and suffering come from desire
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Is that the only pain pleasure thing that you do?  It could be OCD.
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Sadism and masochism, often going together (one person obtaining sadistic pleasure by inflicting pain or suffering on another person who thereby obtains masochistic pleasure), are collectively known as S&M or sadomasochism.\n\nSadism is the sexual pleasure or gratification in the infliction of pain and suffering upon another person. The word is derived from the name of the Marquis de Sade, a prolific French philosopher-writer of sadistic novels.\n\nThe counterpart of sadism is masochism, the sexual pleasure or gratification of having pain or suffering inflicted upon the self, often consisting of sexual fantasies or urges for being beaten, humiliated, bound, tortured, or otherwise made to suffer, either as an enhancement to or a substitute for sexual pleasure. The name is derived from the name of the 19th century author Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, known for his novel Venus in Furs that dealt with highly masochistic themes.
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No, that is way to much brain damage for me.  I tend to leave the masochism to the females, they are much better at than me.\n\nJohn B.
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It seems that most of us are serious; the freaks (sexual or otherwise) tend to make a nuisance of themselves, though...