Have you ever given too much of  yourself?
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I am currently dealing with the same situation. I have found that by giving to much you leave nothing for yourself. People will use you if you allow yourself to be used. My problems are mostly from family. I have come to the realization that if i wouldnt let a stranger treat me poorly why should i allow my family to do the same. Eight months ago i made a list of toxic people in my life and have started the ellimination process. It is very hard, i wont kid you. But, It has to be done. You are already to considerate or you wouldnt have such a question in the first place. Write a list of people that make you feel this way and next to each name write the pros and cons of your relationship with them. Evaluate and treat accordingly. Your life is to precious and short and you deserve better. We as a society have been taught to give but we have never been taught to receive graciuosly. We dont know how to accept compliments. Writing off friends and family is very difficult but you are allowed to feel good any time you want without regret or remorse. Its more exhausting being nice than being honest and straight forward. As with any change you have to do it slowly. You will feel very bad for a time but keep your long term goal in sight and do not share your plan with anyone or they may try to convince you not to write someone off. You have to allow yourslef to be at peace with your decisions. It will be the loss of a friend or family , like a death. You must go through the mourning process. Be good to your soul and it will reward you. Stay focused and you will allow you to reward yourself with a healthy life full of wonderful people. Good luck to you and yours.\n\n\nJoe
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only if i had done something really really bad and I wanted to punish myself. lol
690658
I dunno, how much do you want yourself?
801854
You may be taking yourself too seriously. Learn to laugh-and appreciate -yourself! Takes practice.
846093
do you hate yourself that much?
700196
I seem to read this question more metaphorically, than anything else. Yes, I always seem to do just that. Because I have such a certain future, I seem to have a definite need to squeeze as much as possible into today. I can take nothing for granted, so I just don't let that happen.
357865
huh?  I didn't think I did!\n\nCan you be too happy?  Can you thank God too much for the good things of the world?  How can you have too many holidays?
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and you say too much.....
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For sure....\nI think you have too much time on your hands...
592177
I try to possess as much and as often as i can.\n\nOK?
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No. My pride has always gotten me in too much trouble. I have managed to get out of a lot of tickets anyway. I act like a really good little girl =)
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Sounds to me like you brought this upon yourself...Lick your wounds and carry on....Yuke
445383
Yes but you were a bit of a villain
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Too much probably.  For some reason I often do it in the shower.  Usually I recall times I let someone down.  Shame like that is hell.\n\nIt's a good question...I wish I didn't have this answer.\n\n:o)
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Yes - unfortunately, I have.\n\nI tend to get obsessed with women I can't have and I can't figure out how to back out of the situation gracefully. Unfortunately, this means that I end up getting embarrassed, and getting my feelings hurt.
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Well, I used to be, but then I went and got all these self-help books, and I made a point of only looking at myself in the mirror five times a day, and I dumped all my lame friends who couldn't find anything nice to say about me. And I wanted to do some charity work, so I started serving Thanksgiving meals at a homeless shelter in LA--which is amazing because of all the celebrities you get to meet. So, yeah, I'd say I'm over it. \n\nI enjoy telling others about how I've overcome narcissism; I do it every chance I get.\n\n;-)
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You're thinking about it too much.