how to make a friend love me?
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Look: there are two ways: talk to her, see what she feels.\nConsequence: A good friendship might be destroyed\nOr you will lose a friend and gain a soulmate(surely you're in advantage)\nBut it is not healthy for you two to just be best friends, if you say you love her. Trust me I've been there. And maybe she loves you to but she may lack the courage to say it.\nMy opinion: go ahead-stop torturing yourself with this good friendship-it's a fake(nothing good will come of it) tell her, gently and carefull what you feel. It worked for me !\nReally, you have nothing to lose. It is better anyway that she knows what you feel about her ! May God help you in your whish !
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Tell them how much you appreciate their friendship.  Talk about all the positive aspects of their personality that you love.  I'd suggest saying this before AND after you say you're not interested in more than friendship.
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As I posted earlier:\n\nEasiest way to get friends is to become interested in other people. Look around for people with similar interests. Ask them questions about what they think about those interests. Get to know them through common interests, and you're on your way to making friends.\n\nBe their friend more than trying to make them your friend.
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Be there for him, show him that you care. Show him what a good friend you can be, just show that you always have his back.
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Be as sympathetic as you can, though try to minimize any pity you may show him, no matter how he acts when you tell him. Bottom line is, when you tell him, he won't like you, and there is absolutely nothing you can say at the moment to change that (but you can make it far worse) so tell him, give him a hug, say you're sorry and you want to continue to be friends, then give him some time. If the friendship is true then he will come back to you. If his pain is too great though, such is life, and he will need space between himself and you, to heal. There is no easy way out of this I'm afraid. Good luck~
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You can't make someone love you.  They either do or don't.  You can't change someone either.  They have to want to change.  You can tell him of the situation, what you want then hope he listens and changes.\nGood luck!
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you can't.  all in all, she'll love when she thinks she can.  The best you can do is continue to love her and be a friend.  One day she may see the gift she has in you and learn to love.  Whoever said it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all was obviously never really in love.  And obviously not with someone who didn't love him back.
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Find something nice to say to her...tell her something you like about her...like the way she listens to people or the way she treats her friends.  Something simple.  Nice outfit or something simple.  Be a friend like you'd want her to treat you.
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Well to start, there are different kinds of love.  Do you love him as a friend or do you want to be with him?  If you just want to be friends, then let him know you love him as a friend and just say it.  If you love him and want to be with him but you are not sure how he is going to react then tell him that you love him.  The difference is that you are telling him and waiting for a response.  Or even better just have a general conversation with him.  For instance, start off by telling a fake story about a friend who fell in love with a male friend and ask how he would have handled the situation.  If he gives you the answer you are looking for, let him know you are the friend.
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First you have to show yourself as being friendly!  Approach people with confidence, and a smile.  If this doesn't work forget about it!  I know a friend that will be your friend for life, and will never let you be lonely again.  GOD.
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You can't make someone love you. It is hard when you feel so strongly for someone and they do not feel the same way back. Trust me, IN TIME it will come full circle. Be a friend to her. You can tell her how you feel, just know that if you do, she might avoid you because she does not know how to deal with your feelings...ESPECIALLY if she is still hurting from a recent split up. If it is meant to be, it will work out. If not things will evolve and your outlook will change. Patience and time have a way of working things out.
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Well, unfortunately you really cant MAKE anyone love you. If she is your best friend, then thats a great start! She already likes you and is comfortable with you, now you just have to see if she feels that way about you too.\nIf you feel comfortable doing so, you might ask her if she has ever seen you as being more than a friend. This is a tough thing to do, so wait until you are more comfortable doing so.\nJust make sure and remember: don't be too pushy. Nothing will scare her away faster.
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hay friend i thing its a very bad situation of urs, but what we can do is, just take him to a place where no one disturbs u and just propose him, and tell him about all the feelings of urs and then tell him about u r hopes and why you love him , if u have a presonel diary show him and let him know how a lovable person would be, if u can give me his yahoo id , we friends can send him an offlinre message that u love him, just imagine 100's of people teling him that u love him, first u plz propose him and if it dont work out plz send me an offline message where we can tell him how much u care 4 him, my yahoo id is kiran_cool549889@yahoo.co.in
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Give the best you can. give him the most precious thing.  Try not to be artificial. Be rather real. Appriciate him whatever he does. \nHold on to his hands, hug him Tight in your arm. \nDo not try to make him jelous.\nShow his importance in your life. \nKeep him above your frnds.
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Just consol the people that ur frienship will not change for them if u will have many friends .\nbut also be aware of fake friends who can cheat U but don't let honest friends go. because if new is silver old is gold.
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Be nice and just tell him you want to be friends cause if you ever need someone to talk to he will be their for you always. Always worked for me.
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talk to her about exactly how you feel. give her a girlfriend gift that will mean very special to her. apologize and always make her laugh. i believe you're a true friend. good luck!!!! ; )