what to do when your bff dumps you?
457128
Make sure you tell her you deserve an explanation for her distance. This is important. You have the right to know why she no longer wishes to be a part of your life. Just pull her to the side nicely or if you can catch her alone even better and just be like, "Hey, I've noticed you've been distant lately, is there anything wrong...did I do something to upset you?" Then if she doesn't wanna talk or explain herself, tell her "I deserve an explanation and I'll only try this once if your gonna give me the cold shoulder. I care about you enough to address the situation, but if you don't wanna be my friend anymore, at least have the decency to inform me like a woman". After this. just do what's in your heart. Go your separate ways and look into other options in friends. Someone is out there in the same boat as you and you'll find a new BFF soon. Good Luck!
354325
Let it go.  Let him go.  Your setting yourself up to be hurt.  Don't get in the middle of that situation because it sounds like it's far from over.  He sounds like he has to deal with his issues with her.  He may get back with her or he may not but it doesn't matter he can't give you what you want from him right now.  It's better to continue being friends if you can.\n\nHopefully you can because friendship is so important.
1035971
you should talk to them and find out what happened and tell them how u felt about bein ditched. i know it sounds lame but it could work and you might forgive them. but if their still being jerks about it then just move on and make better friends.
258382
okay...first of all let her be...its hard at first but you will get through it...if you ignore her maybe she will realize what she lost...and if she doesn't then that's her lost ..it hurts but dont bring yourself down ...if you tried to mend things and she didn't then you know she was really not a good Friend....;)
216837
Give her sometime to deal with her emotions. You don't want to catch her while she's hurt and then end up being dumped yourself. Be there for her the best you can, be strong fo the both of you, and when she is ready, persue her. You can even confess to her now, but if you do make sure she understands you don't want to be with her unless you really are the one she likes. ...Sadly she is the only one who will know when she is ready. Good luck.
1089233
As hard as it will be for your friend, she needs to accept it and move on.  She needs to take a step back and try to look at it from another's point of view.  What kind of friend just breaks up with a person and doesn't even offer an explanation???  Who needs that for a friend?  Just be there for your friend, it will be hard for her and even though you can't "fix" things and make it all better, having a good friend that listens and cares makes a world of difference.  :)
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
292593
its actually betrayal to ur best friend, talk to the guy and then come to a decision and then tell your best friend and.... nooo she'll be mad..tell her that someone else did it with their friend and check her reaction then tell her what happened like after a week if she reacts alright.!!!!!! best of luck
389253
Well then the only thing to do is just be there for you friend even if she doesn't want to listen to you. She's going to get hurt, and she's going to regret not listening to you. Your already a good friend by worrying and trying to tell her to leave him, but be there for her anyway. Be there because she's going to need you, once she  opens her eyes. So just be there for her.
743406
You were young and immature when this happened. Sounds like she is still young and immature. How about getting a new friend?
433845
When it comes to True Love, there are no reasonable boundaries and logical reasoning dissolves like snow under a heat-lamp. I suggest you be there for her and cheer her up when she is down, ask her is she wants to be bffs', don't move like a slug, but don't rush her to the point where she is uncomfortable. Befriend her and be yourself. When she is hurt, lend her a should to cry on. And when she tells you she wants to move onto the next level of friendship (gf+bf), then you advance to the next space, but do be careful of drawback cards. Let her know that you would never spoil a secret of hers, or criticize her based on what she tells you. Most girls have deep dark secrets they want tell you, but they may be uninspired to take a leap of faith or scared and lonely. Try to understand the way she feels about things and be supportive of her decisions, but don't become a push-over.
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
683998
there really isn't any GOOD time to dump anyone..\nit makes you feel bad and it makes them feel bad....\nit is time to do the dumping when you two can not longer sit down and calmly talk over any problems and work them out satisfactorily. and when you two even after talking still can't see eye to eye so to speak..sometimes people just grow away from each other..even though they may be OK as friends..they should be a couple any longer.\nso if and when you can not longer talk it out nicely..\nand when and if you do not feel that closeness anymore to the other person, even if the other person feels it for you..it is time to SAY BYE BYE..no hard feelings just bye..unless he hurt you then say bye idiot..and there are hard feelings..\nso think and be compassionate about it. do it with CLASS and STYLE....never stoop down to their level if they are acting ignorant....\nbut do it when you NEED to..do not drag it on and on..\njust do it..\nGood Luck\nand Gd Bless\nSMILE
236533
1. Don't think about it. \n2. Hang out w/ friends.\n3. Try something you never done before.\n4. Occupy your time.\n5. Cry @ 1st and then get over it.\n6. Move on.\n7. You were too good for him anyway. \n8. Help others.\n9. Focus on you. \n\nJust to name a few...lol. Just try some of these. I hope u start feeling better and remember you will be fine in time. I promise in the future you will look back and say what the hell was I thinking for being w/ him in the first place!
494448
not much you can do if she has no feelings for you. let it go dude , let it go.
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!