Is it normal to be a 20 year old male virgin? Am I ever going to lose it or should I just  become a priest?
467643
It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at 20.....my advise??? Wait till you've found the right person for you.Somewhere out there is someone for you...find this person first, it is worth the wait, believe me.
870966
Please, stay a virgin! I'm one and I'm proud of it even though some may consider me a loser. I'll bet a lot of your friends secretly regret losing theirs to some idiot boy that didn't really care about them. Do not feel pressured to lose your virginity; you're too young and boys at that age are very immature.
332033
Maybe you have not yet met the man that God wants you to be with. You may someday be very comfortable with someone knowing that they are the one for you. Another possibility is that God has something very special planned for your life and needs to keep you pure to be used by Him. My wife has an Aunt in her sixties and she is still a virgin and has no regrets about it. There is no such thing as the norm in how peoples emotions work when it comes to relationships. Trust in God to lead you the right way.
611370
No not normal, You should contact your Priest and ask him\nto help you with your troubled adolescence. If your over 40 you can get help with Playboy Magazine.
1092797
YES IT'S OK TO REMAIN A VIRGIN.   YES YOU SHOULD REMAIN A VIRGIN.  SAVE YOURSELF FOR THE MAN YOU LOVE AND GIVE YOUR ALL TO HIM ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT.  THAT'S THE WAY GOD INTENDED IT. \nIF HE REALLY LOVES YOU, HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND BE WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE.  (YES...IT'S HARD TO WAIT)    BUT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU....HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND WON'T DEMAND ANYTHING OF YOU.\n\nBESIDES....SOME GUYS LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS ...........\n"WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?"     NOT SAYING YOU'RE A COW...JUST USING AN EXAMPLE..."WHY WAIT TO MARRY A GIRL WHEN I CAN GET SEX FROM HER WITHOUT THE RING?"\n\n"MAKING LOVE"  AND "HAVING SEX"  ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.\n\nMAKING LOVE IS GIVING YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR LOVE TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND ARE MARRIED TO.\n\nHAVING SEX IS JUST THAT !!!!   HAVING SEX WITH A PARTNER.\n\nIS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?   \n\nYOU LOVE HIM, HE'S DEMANDING SEX. DON'T DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID YOU'LL LOSE HIM IF YOU DON'T.  IF HE DROPS YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE SEX ........HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. NOT REALLY... IN LOVE WITH YOU...BECAUSE IF HE IS..........HE'LL RESPECT YOU AND WAIT.\n\nHOPE THIS HELPS...\nDON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
34946
It's you and that's a good thing. Your virginity is sacred and you don't want to give that to just anyone. Keep it for as long as YOU want to. Don't feel pressure to lose it and give it up because you think that's what everyone else is doing. Believe it or not, they aren't. Don't worry about still being a virgin. Just live your life and enjoy being a kid/teenager/adult (since I don't know your age). I hope this helps! :)
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In my opinion its bad. I m now 20 years old girl . I m saving my virginity for my marrige .For my husband .. Not know who is he .? he from where or anything about him ?\nI m confident in my life there will be only one sex partner \nI like keeping all relations pure .\nI m an Indian girl .Love my country , Love our culture . \nHope I will get a virgin boy as my husband .\nIts not a tough thing .. staying as a virgin ...\nI beleve that is good ..
432945
I AM A VIRGIN FOR 16 YEARS
576950
You are never to old! Virginity is SUCH A SPECIAL THING!!!! DOn't let it go to just anyone! Wait till your married to that special someone and give yourself to them, and them only!!!
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if you think of it that way, realize that your not following your heart, how God wants you, but your following this thing called the bible, the church, its RULES.\n\nim catholic, very religious, im not the type who attends church every single sunday, but i pray every night before going to bed and daily i keep my mind set in the faith i have in God. im 23 and i live here abroad with my bf of 4 years. all the issues of sex before marriage i never believed it but i did keep my restrictions well set. meaning i never went around having sex different guys thinking every time 'oh! he is the love of my life!' thats just crap people think every time they see a guy they like and i thank god i never fell for that trap. i always kept my virginity even after having a 2 year bf in the past. \n\nwhen you know its right, when the moment is ok, you let it go and it doesnt matter whether your getting married or not, you just  have to know it when you are ready and God WILL be happy for you because you were following your heart.\n\nill tell you something wierd that happened to me after the first day i had it. yes it was with the bf iam still happily together with today. it had happened, we were all ok, just kinda wierd since it was our first time for the both of us. the next morning it was a sunday and we went for a walk in the center of florence (im studying abroad in florence, italy) as we noticed there was this little cute church hidden in one corner, we went inside and realized there was a mass just starting, so we decided to stay and attend it. (he is also a catholic). you know how in every mass there is a subject to talk about, so as we sat there to listen, we realized that the priest began talking about sex. yes pure, love, sex. he began to talk about love and how people shouldnt be restrained to show their love to others truthfully and that sex is OK ASLONG as you know 100% what you are doing. i rememeber the priest got the bible and dropped it on the floor, i was like, what does he mean??? (i didnt understand the italian that well but my bf told me) the priest had said that bible isnt the rule of thumb that everyone should follow, that in this situation it is the issue of YOU and GOD not YOU and the BIBLE. \n\nthats not all, so as the priest kept on talking about sex and love, he comfessed one thing that shocked me. he told us that in the past when he was young (at the time he looked over 60) he was actually as he stated that day, a 'playboy'. im seriouly not kidding, he told us his story of how he was a wild guy, how he went from one women to another not giving a damn about life. i dont want to get to the issue of how he brought himself to become a priest, but it was a real interesting point of view.\n\nso we left the mass that day really really 'moved'. it was like God told me that day, 'Gaby you did the right thing, you did it from your heart, you have waited this long, and you shouldnt be ashamed of it, i love you and i am happy for you.'\n\nanyways, i hope my experience helps ya and makes you think of it from a different point of view.
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No there is nothing wrong to being a virgin at 18 and you shouldn't be concerned about what guys think be secure with yourself in being a virgin.Losing your virginity is not a race.I lost my virginity at seventeen and I wish I had waited because I lost it to the WRONG guy and truely regret it.But it is just my opinion that guys like virgins.You are fresh and un-touched.You have got something going on that alot of girls don't.Guys like the idea of having something that nobody else had.My guy knows I am not a virgin but just the thought of another guy that has been up in there causes him to cringe he doesn't want to think about it.Be proud you are not a hoochie that gives it up to every body that gives you a second look or shows interest and be very selective to whom you give your virginity to.
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virginity when you got it seems to be a burden that grows.\n\nbut when it is gone ,it will be a loss.\n\nit will suprise some girls ,but it will also blow their mind and somebody might just apreciate it no end and be so much the happier for it.\n\n\nif you got this far ,you could hang on a little longer,25 is a good time to get married any way \n\ndont blow 25 years of control on a cheap thrill.\nthat it keeps getting harder I can well imagine,probably every day.but try to keep it up.
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I was 14, on the floor of my ex's mother's travel agency. I dont regret it for a minute. I had fun. It was fun. But you should do it when it feels right to you. Dont listen to us, what we did might or might not be right for you. YOu will know when you want to loose your virginity. And remember its not the age, its not the time its when it feels right to you. Whatever you do, be safe, and be cautious, and make sure that you NEVER EVER regret anything that you do. Otherwise, remember it won't be fun the first time; and it might even hurt! So, be careful. And just enjoy the moment!
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Why tell him? If sex comes up then tell him. He wont think yuck no guy most of never wanted her, but think wow she did not give into some idiot from high school. NOthing is wrong with being a virgin. And you are not the only 20 something virgin out there, and they are not all gross and ugly, they choose to wait just like you have, and they are better people for it. I have never know anyone who regreted waiting but I do know some who regret not waiting.
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First masturbation is a sin because it affects purity and leads to worst sins like pornography and sex out of marriage.  I am a Catholic Christian too and I've been under going the same thing. I don't plan to lose my virginity, at least not in a senseless and lustful way. I've been trying for months and I have finally quit for good I haven't done it in over a week which is harder than it sounds. So believe me it's possible and I recommend it so much because I feel better about myself more than every time I masturbated. So the only real way to release that sexual energy is to take control with help from God.
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No.  There is nothing with you being a virgin at 22 keep up the good work and stay focused.  The vagina will cause you nothing but heartache and heartbreak if you aren't careful.  Make sure when that time comes, ask yourself is she worth it?  Will I care if I ever see her again? You are in control and you can't get it back so make sure you do your homework.  Once the flood gate is open it's over dude.  Good luck, much love.  Oh, masturbation helps the horny spells.
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As a 33yr old male, I remember being very disappointed at the age of 15, when I lost my virginity.\n\nThe peer pressure from friends, making out it was the best thing since the Sega mega drive (Hey I was 15 at the time), the newspaper problem pages, TV and Film industries, all lead me to believe that it was going to an absolutely mind blowing experience.\n\nAnd when it was done, using protection, with my steady girlfriend (also a virgin) I was like, what? That's it? \n\nIt was the build up I found to more exciting, the thrill of the hunt, teasing, trying my best to reach the prize.\n\nSince then I have had many more experiences and found that with experience it does get better, a lot better when in a loving relationship with an experienced partner with similar likes and dislikes in the bedroom. \n\nBut sex is still not the be all and end all of a relationship, the ability to communicate and be best friends is far more valuable then being joined at the hip.\n\nHope this helps.\n\nPlease remember to use adequate protection whilst experimenting, and not loose your virginity to some idiotic loser who is going to run bragging to all his mates. Make him respect you first by holding out until you feel the time is right, don't be forced.