13 f. Pa.  The older guy I like is more than 4 yrs older than me is it wrong?
470270
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
641725
Sounds like a delimma...Do what is in your heart.  You can date the new guy while keeping in contact with the old guy.  Just be honest about things.  Sometimes you really like people at first but it fades.  My man I met when I was 13 it was long distance.  We finally hooked up when I was 19 and have been together 16 years.. good luck.  There is no wrong choice
85131
Nothing wrong with dating someone twenty years older if it works for both of you.  And you are at least 18.
852404
nahh..in love age doesnt matter..besides if the two of you are experiencing true love well theres nothing wrong with it.
169753
Yes, if you like him and are interested in him you should ask him out. Remember, age does'nt matter when you like someone. Anyways, it's not like he's 4 years younger than you.Also remember that there is no age in likeing someone or when you fall in love.
333381
Its not at all about the age. Its all about compatiability. You guys should be on the same wavelength and you should have trust. being able to communicate properly is also one of the major criteria.\nAge difference does not matter.
488321
no,you should still like him maybe dating a older boy will help you mature and have one with you that is.
1047688
i don't think its love at all.... it seems like you have a crush and he wants to be friends with you. he is too old for you anyways. you are only 14 and 1/2 and he is too old. maybe it doesn't seem like it, but he is. of course he would talk to you he is a neighbor. neighbors always do that.  I'd say mutual respect. he may have a chrush on you, but wait till YOU are 17/18 to go out w/ him if you ever do.
519985
Maybe the guy is just shy to speak-up his mind..i can really relate to your story coz my first love, crush whatever one can call it was at 13..it's just really hard for a boy to come infront and express his feelings (this is what i feel..) else you can take the first step..but remember 13 is a very tender age with studies always being the priority and its upto you to tackle a relationship and your studies together..God Bless!!
521178
If you have a sensible head on your shoulders and know how to handle yourself then why not? It may be illegal for him to have sex with you where you come from though and he'll be the one that could get a criminal record if it is! But generally speaking, four years age difference is nothing! Just be very careful, is all I can suggest. Many older men have desires for young girls that are not altogether healthy.\nJust use some good judgment and keep safe!
190240
Yes...How much younger is up to you and what you feel comfortable with.  Just be honest with yourself about what issues the age difference may create and if your willing to deal with them.  It is different for each person and each relationship.  Explore it and if you find it isn't right then end it and at least you will have learned something.
183333
It's not good, it's not bad.  Age doesn't really matter so long as you two like eachother.  Another way to think about it is that it's better that the girl be older than the guy than vise versa because if the guy is older it can look like he's rocking the cradle.  While if a girl's older then nothing outta hand is gonna happen. (Can't deny the double standard)
1058731
hi emily!! if you like him then go for it..but the only main thing that you should know your limitations..i hope u know what i mean..me i like to date older guys too but my experienced is not that great..most of them they will try to use you..some of them they just really likes you for who you are..youre still young and there's a lot of guy out there and its your decision whether u want to take a chance..get to know him first and ull see..and ask him straight like what his intensions for you!!!then ull go from there!\n\ntake care
221267
It's not wrong at all if he makes you feel good while the two of you are together.  But you have to think realistically about the long term thing.  He's still very young so he may see things differently then you do.  Just enjoy the time that you do have.  That's all you can ask for.
87756
Look for others close to your age.Perhaps he doesn't want to get into trouble for dating someone really younger than him. If you get older it won't matter so much. However, now is not the right time.
1173592
well, i'm only 13 yrs. old, and i'm kinda not married, but i don't see anything wrong with that either. unless you had kids with your ex, you should be fine.
472869
hello!dont u worry age difference is not a problem he still loves you i think its good.after all you can tell your mom her opinion is always best and i think she understood  you s well s me.dont be upset if you have any problem share with me at:alina_alot2000@yahoo.com this is my id