why does my hubby act so dumb...when i know hes smarter than that?
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Poeple can be a smart as a tact but sometimes they can act dumber than you would ever think. Maybe he is just playing dumb to see what happens or either he is dumb when it comes to certain things since you never said about what I take it as anything in general...K
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!st, quit thinking of him as a moron.  I have an MA in SPEC ED, and you ned to change your attitude. By moron, do you mean low IQ or am attitude problem? If low IQ, there are teachers trained for this. If you mean attitude, he'll have to learn by his own mistakes.
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You won the contest of being the stupidest person on Earth.\n\n1. You cheated on your husband (stupid)\n2. Took gifts from a man that cheated with you (stupid)\n3. Believed a cheater (stupid)\n4. Are mad because you were dumped by a cheater so he could cheat with another women (stupid)\n\nQuadraphonic stupidity if you ask me!\n\nHow do you ruin his life? You can't, he's a pro and you're a dummy!
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keep yourself busy and focus on yourself. Don't do this with negative intentions or malicious reasons - like i'll show you. I can relate. I used to give my man shit all the time for no reason. The only thing jealousy leads to is wasted energy and will only leave you feeling worse. I hate to say it , but this boils down to insecure feelings on your part and you know how you hate it when he says " you are just insecure". focus on spending time w/ family and friends, job, goals...this behavior will bring you and your husband closer.  Just communicate, don't give up, You just need to love your man smarter not harder
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He may be an idiot, but he sounds more lazy than anything else.  If you can get to sleep and get up on time, why can't he?  If he can't get to bed at night it's his own damn fault.\n\nDon't let him blame you for his shortcomings, he's only using you as a scapegoat.  He needs to place the blame where it belongs and get himself together if he wants to be a part of your family.  You deserve someone who will work to keep your family happy and healthy.  Be sure you tell him that!
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Well in the end, being smart always pays off. Like Double D on Ed, Edd & Eddy. He gets picked on for being nerdy the whole show until the end when he has some kind of brilliant plan that works out. Parents should talk to their kids and make sure they know that just because they see it on TV doesn't mean it's "right."
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Yes, you're like me and I married a younger man too.  But the age thing we've learned to make a joke of now - we were 29 and 31 when we met, so perhaps age has something to do with the way we handled it.\n\nI still refer to him as my toy boy sometimes, and tell him ke's got to keep fit in order to push me round in my wheelchair.\n\nGirls mature faster than boys, and I just think he has a little catching up to do.  But don't tell him that, whatever you do! ;-)
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i guess he has got stupidity in his genes
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I love him very much. But there ARE a few things, now that you mention it. He can't focus on more than one thing at a time. If he's watching TV, he won't hear anything else that is happening around him. If he's driving, I worry that he'll answer his cell phone and get in a wreck, because he is unaware of anything else when he is on the phone at home. He gets coffee grounds EVERYWHERE. I asked him repeatedly to do a specific thing with his old coffee grounds (throw them on the bush right outside the door) and he still puts them on top of the garbage, and all over the garbage can, and sink, and stovetop, and the floor, and the countertops...He's unreliable about paying bills on time also. And when he misplaces something (all the time) he starts to crash around and throw papers, etc. and disrupts everything. He makes a lot of noise in the morning. He "sniffs" in the mornings- I want to get up and hand him a tissue and say BLOW, WILL YA!
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Your insecure about your marriage. You and he need to work to make it stronger for your sake. It doesn't mean he is cheating, just you have some doubts...
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yeah...myhusband nags more than i do, and im the woman!  he gets mad about EVERYTHING.  helping me with the garbage, with dishes, cleaning, always looking over my shoulder and asking my why im doing what im doing and getting mad because i tell hi to leave me the hell alone or dont answer.   whats up with it?!
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I have never heard that before. My husband has a much higher I.Q. than I do and our male son is very smart. More so than I was as a child. On his Kindergarten placement test he scored 99% nationwide. I was a B student growing up and if I really applied myself could pull of an A or two. I definitely attribute his intelligence to his dad.
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Like Kelly Pickler is doing? I suppose for attention mostly. Personally, I only act dumb if I don't want to do something. LOL...like the laundry, hubby knows I know how to do it but I pretend I can't. It's a fun game and no harm done. As to everything else? Dunoh...lol
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Due to the fact that the president's intelligence quotient is 96, a bum on the street has a good chance of being smarter than our president.\n\nPatriotic Man:  How can you be so "smart" to say that you are more intelligent than someone you have never met when you are ridiculing Daniel for doing the same thing?  You are what me and Daniel in Wisconsin call a DUMBASS.
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Why would you want to change who you are or what you know just to make him feel better about himself?  If its truely a good relationship, he knows you are intelligent and loves that about you.  Now that is not the same thing as making him feel bad or stupid because he might not know something.  I knew more about cars than my ex did, but I never said anything like "You are the man, you are supposed to know this, why are you so stupid?"  You wouldnt want a man to talk to you like that, so why do it to them?  It's a matter of respect...both for yourself and for him.
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If he is over 18 and you are under 18. He is being smart.
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Let me tell you from experience.I thought my man that i have now was slow because he was quite he would say things and my friend would laugh at him cause it would be out of context.Let me tell you this went on for a couple of years.I started dating him full time and honey this man ran circles around me.He ended up being the most intelligent man i know.See it wasn't that he was slow i was just too fast.Don't be so quick to judge. PEACE