I'm mid 40's she's late 20's & beautiful...she says she is what I need, and I what she needs.?
474910
I am 27 and my husband is 47. We've been extremely happily married for 1 year. You can expect to have some arguments because you are older and set in your ways and you have to understand she's not. But that doesn't mean it can't work. You'll both have to know when to cut each other some slack and remember what's most important.
517636
Depends on how much you really like her.  If you do then I would maybe try holding off for awhile ( it's just sex - you can take care of it most of the time on your own if you had to )  If you aren't willing to give up sex for awhile then move on and find yourself another 40 year old that looks 25 .. or even better find yourself a real 25 year old .. they're in their Prime !
1133316
Dude.......and your problem is???? Go for it !!! She is young, hot, and 24..........now, that's a NO-BRAINER! What time are you picking her up?? She sees you as strength, and stability. Have a great date! Let us know how it tured out!! Good Luck!!
734953
shes too young .. and mabbe she doesnt have the same feelings for you .. even if she has it at this age she might change later in life and so is the case with you as even 21 is not very old ... wait for 23 years by which you will meet lot of young girls your age in life ... and then decide .. if you make your move now you might spoil it for everyone ... all the best ....
23204
as a woman, i think you need to respect her needs and/or ask her what she wants
1033258
i think she's in her early 20's.. she looks old doesn't she?
612625
Looks aren't everything. She likes or loves you for the person you are. Be thankful for that. My boyfriend thinks the same way. I tell him all the time its because he's an amazing man and I love him.
647581
How about an older woman? I'm 40
513002
Wow, a gentleman over 50 who wants to date.  What a rarity you are and I get the idea that you don't even know it!  She appears to need to spread her wings a bit and find out what the dating life is all about these days - trust me, it is a LOT different than when she was 20!  Let her find out.  You can't change that and you can't rush it and you can't even influence that, except, perhaps, to make her leave you alone completely.  You might want to consider doing the same thing - the spread the wings kind of thing.  See others!  Go out and DO things!  Meet people - again, trust me, there are ladies out there who are looking for you!  You will find companionship out there that will perhaps exceed what you have had with her.  You may even find passion!!!  (And if you do, practice safe sex.)  There is a world out there beyond exclusivity with her - take a look at it.
81043
seems like it's a fantasy u have. if u are looking for love i c no harm being with a woman 35-40. they are mature, knows what they want.
945935
I agree 100% with everything you said about her, and I've even fantasized about her.     However, just to raise a little contention, her complexion is kind of messed up, ruining what otherwise would be a great package!   Then again, it wouldn't stop me from making "LOVE 40" times a week with her, if she would only "LET" me.    You neglected to mention the beautiful, little "SET" on her, not to mention the great little "RACK(et)"  she has.     But alas, I think I'd have to "COURT" her first before she'd even consider me getting into her sweet little "SERVICE BOX", or for that matter, gently "STROKE" my aching, swollen yellowish/greenish\n "SPAULDING BALLS".      Ain't that the kick?
348199
is she hot?????  She is just a lonely old woman, let her have some fun, she is probably glad to be able to get some excitement in her life.
64588
The she is timeless. But she is meant to be personal to you. A loved one or desired woman
1166097
She's obviously very insecure about her looks. I doubt anything you could say would make her change. She may be fishing for compliments. I would think that she may be a very shallow individual. Tell her one more time your opinion and state that that's the last time you ever will listen to her put herself down. Maybe if she thinks you've had enough of it she'll quiet down. You do tell her you think she's beautiful without her saying something first don't you?
905067
You are definatley ready to settle down. You are getting older and you need that love and commitment in your life,,although it sounds like you are going out with thr wrong kind of girl. You need to find someone whos looking for the same things as you in life and who wants to settle down and live together,,,have children. Not someone whos going to cheat on you whenever she feels the need. And you CANT have a relationship if you dont trust that person,,it just doesnt work out like that. You deserve better than this girl you are seeing and dont let her tell you anything that you are not on her level of thinking,,,,its just an excuse for her to do what she wants reguardless of your feelings. Find that special person and when you do,YOU WILL KNOW IT. Leave this one you are with now dont settle for her. She doesnt deserve you.
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If i was you id be there for her, but also learn from past experiences, carry on with your plans. May sound bad, but trust me she sounds like shes good at using people. DOnt let her use you.\nyou deserve more. And she shud learn not to treat people so short and then expect to forget everything in a moment just coz she needs you. Selfish bitch
875284
she is wary of you because of your job and school history. A person's past is a good indication of their future. That means you will probably not succeed unless you put yourself in high gear, get finished with school, and get training or higher education to be able to support your future family. Tell her to give you 3 months to prove you are serious about changing.  Even if she loves you she wants a reliable mature man. She may or may not give you this chance. Whatever happens continue on your route to maturity and make your life meaningful. You only live once. Get it right. Make others and God proud of you.