how will u fell if a janitor abused 2 students at ur school...and what will u do?
467334
I think if 22 year old janitor had sex with a girl under the age of 16 years then it doesnt matter as to whether she gave him consent, it's still classed as rape (well over in England it is) so for him to get away with it they must've been 16+. If the girls were that old then it sound like they're just seeking for some attention and trying to get him into trouble, maybe because they're jelous, feel used or just bored and attention seeking type of girls. Either way i hope you and your mates are fully aware of keeping out his car!
369236
i think first off you should talk to a offical at your high school, a teacher, counsler, adminstator, etc.  someone who is an adult with a job at the school that you feel comfortable talking to.  tell them what has been going on and that you want it to stop.  if he keeps breaking your stuff, that is not right!  it sounds like he might have an anger problem, and i hope he doesn't hit you!\n\ni am also sixteen and even tho my problem was different from yours, i went to a teacher and told her and everything became better afterwards.  i was nervous talking to her and then the counsler and then to an adminstrator and then i had to talk to a off campus police officer!  my case was a friend told me that this guy tried to rape her.  and well i asked the teacher what my friend could do, and she really helped me out.  \n\ngo to someone you know can help a.s.a.p.!
708529
You need to talk to the authorities at your school.  "spying" and "being picked on" are not criminal offenses.  This is kids being kids and it needs to be handled by the school.
1123855
No there is not, tell them to stop or else, what they are doing is called harassment and they could get in some serious trouble for it, they can even get into juvy, if it doesn't stop tell a teacher
15579
I had an art teacher in high school who was hit three times in her life. I'm not lying and I'm pretty sure she wasn't either. I know one of them happened at school. She was crazy.
570279
try to carry a web cam or get a friend of yours to get pics the next time these schmucks hit you. THEN you make copies of everything and go to the school. if the school doesn't do anything you sue them and have the jerk offs charged with assault and battery.\n\nVin
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Your friend is in trouble and it sounds like you can help.  You should call the police ASAP!!!  If you don't want to report the abuse, report the dope.  \nI don't know how old you are but you if you are in school (not University) then you can tell a school counselor, they are mandated reporters in most states.\nGod luck to you and your friend.
852155
Tell them you broke up with him... then ACTUALLY BREAK UP with this loser.  What kind of a moron do you have to be to be KICKED out of school?   C'mon, you really feel that bad about yourself that you need a loser to make you feel better?
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As safe as snitchin sounds that unfortunately never works. Your parents or the principal cant protect u when ur in the hallways or walkin outside from school. Do sumthin crazy like a bitch slap in the cafteria or pour a carton of milk on them. It may get u beat up one more time but ull earn ur respect and from them and others for standin up for urself.
101737
sweetheart the best way to deal with this is either move to another table or stand your ground since no teachers care you can start putting it back on the ones that do this to you, by throwing it back at them. another thing is there a guides counselor you can go and talk to about this? that may work because more or less this is bullin and most schools dont tolerate this act. i hope i helped you some hugs sweetie, best of luck sunshinelady_40940
879189
first, make sure your teacher tells them that it was her who reported it, and not you. Second, get yourself a posse who will stick with you in case of another run-in, because if these numb-skulls are like any others, they won't care either way. try to avoid them.
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At all times keep a third person involved and informed. Keep a running record, like a diary, of time, place, what happened and show Principal each day if you must. Stay safe. Never speak to the creepy guy directly or alone. Do not make eye contact. If Principal does not keep you safe or listen to you, tell your parents or a school counselor or a favorite teacher. They should tell him privately that looks, words, contact is, starting now, illegal and a rule breaker where he is concerned. Do not be bullied and do not, under any circumstances talk to or look at this person. Do not send double messages  like "stay away" but then smiling at him because you feel sorry for him or because you have felt safe for a minute. Send only one message to him via your actions and that is, stay away, you do not exist, I will tell on you everytime, if you can't take "no" for an answer it is because you are not thinking about me but only thinking about yourself and you are glaring at me because I said "no" to you and you think everyone should say yes to you. Normal people can take no for an answer and normal people report abuse every time. Normal people say "no"..."no, leave me alone" etc. Keep being real, keep telling, keep listening to yourself. Tell everyone. They will observe too that he has creepy behavior. Again, never speak to this person. It would be a double message, a mixed message of leave me alone and yet I still talk to you. No. Do not speak to him ever. He will take that little courtesy and think that you like him or that he can control you. Keep being yourself. You know what to do. Tell and stay away from him. Do not be polite. he will use your politeness against you. Do not be flattered by his attention. Something is wrong with him. Stay away.
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The best way to deal with a school fight, if you aren't in danger of getting any permanent damage is to smile and say nothing. You aren't going to win anything except momentary points with the rest of the idiots standing there waiting to see somebody get hurt/ expelled and then you are either the loser or the winner with egg on your face. Make the person who started it feel so stupid you couldn't possibly be worth the effort it would take to kick your azz and then get out of jail...and yes, I have been there, but it wasn't worth the hassle, now that I look back on it.
877243
I know exactly what I would do.  I would find out when the next school board meeting was first.  Then I would get me a good lawyer and go to that school board meeting.  When it is time for discussion from the floor, I would tell the Superintendent and the School Board exactly what has been going on and exactly what the principal and the teacher has said to you.  I would then tell them that they are allowing your child to be bullied and he is in an unsafe environment and that your lawyer is prepared to file a lawsuit (he will tell you what to say here) and that you are not going to allow your child to be treated this way because a cops child is the one doing the bullying.  I would also consider telling the cop and his spouse that you will be filing a suit against them as well. \n\nI really don't want you to go through with this unless they don't do anything to make the situation better.  Sometimes the threat of something like this is just what they need.  Imagine all the bad press they would get for allowing bullying to go on in their school system.....  I would push for the principal and the teacher to be disciplined also.  \n\nWe had an almost similar situation where the principal told the teachers not to tell anyone that there was a meningitis outbreak at the school.  Needless to say that principal retired after that.  My son was also getting his lunch money stolen everyday.  I tried for about 2 months to get him to stand up for himself but that is just not the kind of kid he his.  Finally, I wrote a letter to the teacher and told her what was going on and I also called the pricipal and told her.  The children (2) were caught red handed.  They were told they would have to repay the money.  The same day the money was repaid, one of the kids stole the money back.  I got a letter from one of the childrens mother saying that her son told them that mine was "giving" his money to him.  I know different because my son was extremely upset over the whole thing.  I didn't get mad over the money, I just wanted him to not be tortured anymore.  Just like you.  I would pay to just threaten them with a lawyer.  I'm sure you can find one that would do this for a very reasonable price.  Shop around.  I hope you can get this taken care of.  No one will take up for our children but us.  I wish you all the best.
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Tell your parents.  Something more serious then detention needs to happen with this kid.  Obviously, all the parents are going to have to demand it.  Maybe they need to go to the school board.\n\nIf you are attacked, defend yourself.  You do not have a choice.
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Report them to the faculty, however, tell the teachers not to tell the cheaters that you told them they are cheating, or else they're gonna have their revenge...
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It would fall under verbal assault.  This isn't illegal (criminal), but it's civilly actionable.  I would suggest that if school isn't doing something about it, go to the local press.  Make a big stink.  Schools are really touchy about this kind of thing right now and would do anything to avoid a big public display of their failure to take proper care of children.