should i stay w&#92; my bf or go bak out w&#92; my ex or go out w&#92; another guy who likes me idk cuz i like all of them
468485
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody
626109
If you and your boyfriend we're truely happy you wouldn't be checking out other guys, there has to be some underlying relationship problems if you have fallen for another guy. Its only fair that you are honest with both guys, and more importantly yourself. You need to do what's best for you, if your unhappy with your boyfriend you need to get out of the relationship. Even if your feeling for the other guy pass (and that's highly unlikely that you will suddenly not like him anymore) there will be other guys after that. Reevaluate your current beau.
147927
stay with the one you love because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. Maybe he is saying that he loves you to win you over, but who knows. It is up to you. What feels right? Who treats you better? Who do you LOVE?
1179415
You should come to the realization that there is nothing boring about a great relationship.  If you continue always looking around for something better, you will regret it later after much heartbreak.  I suggest that you stay with your BF and tell your ex to stop calling.  Sadly, based on what you have written here I do not have a good feeling about your future unless you find a way to change your goals and philosophy.
338459
U broke up for a reason.... it wouldnt be fair on your current boyfriend to finish it with him just because he comes back on the scene. It isn't easy, but his lost you, urve gone onto better things. Do stay mates tho...you never know whats around the corner, so if something did happen between you and your current c/f, he will still be ther!
772870
You have to get your priorities straight.  Do you want to be with him or the other guys.  If you want to go out with someone else, it's better to break it off than to string him along and hurt him.  If you just want him, tell the others to leave you alone.
1054965
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
843925
What do you feel? What do you REALLY want to do?\nThis is just about you, and no-one else. If you're happy about going out with this new guy (being scared is completely normal) then you should go. It doesn't mean that you cared any less for your ex, there's a reason why you broke up and maybe internally by the time you broke up you had already made up your mind about not being with him. Maybe internally you knew that it wasn't gonna last long.\n\nAs said above, life is short so you should do whatever makes you happy.
506709
you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)
201549
obviously it sounds like the guy you like is after sex if he is likes your ex but wants a threesome with you...so i would forget about that relationship---and if your ex still likes you think exactly why you broke up and if ts not a big deal and you still like him its possible to give him another chance but don;t rush into anything---No one can tell you exactly what to do..it's all up to and how you are willing to portray yourself to both of them and to others b/c you know it'll all eventually get around
1101672
Well, I was about to answer your last question and it sounds like you're not sure about what you want.  You have a new BF yet you still love the old one...this will not work out and not only will you continue to get hurt you will likely hurt the new BF as well.  You have to make a decision and stick to it: either let new BF go to try and pursue old one, OR move on and learn to live without old BF...good luck.
948752
Okay; I'm gonna put this plain and simple.\n\nBreak up with your boyfriend, but not to go out with the other guy. Don't go out with either one of them. If you're having thoughts or feelings of attraction for someone other than your companion, you're not ready for a committed relationship. Sure; it's fine to go on dates with both of them occasionally, but don't steady-date either of them for now. Wait until your feelings remain constant for one individual; then if you think it's the right time, see if you can progress that relationship further. That's my opinion. Hope it helped.
122185
just go with your heart. Im sure which ever one you chose will be the best for you. I personally think you should go out with the guy that you talk to more. The other guy youve dumped before so youve had reasons to not like him.
889934
Whatever you do dont break the unspoken rule which is dont date your friends exboyfriends. Let it go if its a really good friend if not then wait til they break up. What I mean is dont worry so much about it, if it happens then it does if not then oh well. Date whom ever you'd like for now and if it were to work out that you were single at the same time only then pursue it if it wasnt a good friend.
280412
Check out the cool guy for a bit, if you still don't like him dump him. If you don't really like the ugly guy, just end it. Sweetness is no reason to hold on. If the hot guy doesn't like you, just move on. It sounds like your a stud and can get as dates. Keep look for the total package.
848997
if you don't wanna lose your bf then stay away from this new guy.  if its the new guy you want then at least be decent about the whole thing and let your bf go first
1074813
If you all like the same guy - there are going to be 2 people getting hurt.  Talk with your friends and try to come to a conclusion where either 2 of you back off and let one girl have a chance or you all decide to leave him alone and just stay friends.  This situation does have potential to cause problems between you and your friends, so be aware of what the consequences might be and if going out with a guy is worth it.