me & my boyfriend have alot of problems & i don't feel like i love him anymore, should i stay with him?
463124
befor you leave him you need to look deep within yourself and make sure you dont love him... if you dont you might regret your desision and then it could be to late to undo it\n\ngood luck
670273
i think you need to have a heart 2 heart talk. lay you cards out and be open with him. just because you dont spend time together like you used to dose not mean it should be over. in relationships things change and the only way to keep the rship alive is to adapt to the change. maybe he thinks you are the one who is changing. you will never know if you dont find out. if you care about him you wont let him go. good luck
397524
Ah...this is an age-old question. Not an easy answer on this either. Does he feel the same way about you? Would you be willing to give up all that you have to be with him, knowing you can't go back if things fall apart? I know I'm not answering your question but giving you more questions. This is something you have to follow in your heart.
700216
Break up and find a different boyfriend.  By staying , you're encouraging him to stay the way he is.
951575
It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
626454
Well I would normaly tell you that  if you love him, try and work it out, but you should under no surrcumstances, know matter how much you love someone, let someone treat you like shi*, you are worth so much more than that..... but if you love him let him go, and if it was ment to be him will come back    good luck and god bless
518304
you need to think about why your staying with your bf if your not in love with him then you should leave, you need to think about the relationship in terms of how you feel forget about the other person for a bit and focus on how you feel. but you need to think if you feel out of love when this new guy come into the picture if so you need to think about what he can actually provide you. and how long you have known him cause if you end it with your bf and go out with him and then break up you may be left with nothing
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
227859
if he can't deal with your health issues, then let him go...  odds are, the mental problem will be around longer than him... \njust my opinion though...  you gotta do what feels right for you...
605784
This is an unhealthy relationship.  You both have got some issues.  He can't trust you and is controlling.  You strayed.  Split up and move on.  Neither of you will be happy if you stay together.  There are millions of people in the world.  Get out there and focus on what makes you happy and you'll find someone who shares that with you.
325767
Either you are having problems or you are not.  If you are having problems in your relationship, he may have thought of breaking up with you, and you will actually be doing him a favor by doing it for him.  If you are not having problems, you can fix them or leave him.  If you fix them, you will not need to break up with him.  If you leave him, there is only one way to do it.  Do it quickly.  Do not let him talk you into keep on trying and just one more week, or one more dance, or one more anything.  It will just make it harder on BOTH of you.... It will be prolonging the pain when at the end of the one more whatever, you have to break up with his still / or again.
158811
Well if you cant resolve your problems you should get out of it.There is someone out there who will love you the way you need to be loved .Dont risk missing out on that by staying with someone who makes you miserable.
176747
i had the same. Just dump him. It relieves alot of your shoulders believe me. I wouldn't stay with him if you both believe that you are not good together other wise it will be worse when you spend ages together.
1091399
well there are people out there like that. If you want to stay with him then get use to it but if you feel you need more out of the relationship then get out. also was this a sudden thing or was it always like that? if it was sudden then you need to do some PI work but if it was always like that then you knew what you were getting into. good luck
492792
Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same, then tell him you need to walk away from the situation because you're too emotionally invested for it to continue the way it currently is.
883948
You need to dump him.  If he is not willing to change and clean up his act.  Life is to short to spend with someone that doesn't respect you.  If you love him it will be hard, but you need to do it for your own health and happiness.  Another will come along that will love you the way you deserve.
180380
Well, put it this way. If you continue to stay in this unhappy relationship, than ur only makin yourself miserable. So would u rather be miserable or just brake it off with him and be happy again? It's your feelings againts his...which one r u going to chose? Ask urself that!