how do i tell my wife i crossdress?
472349
Take is slowly. Define yourself first. What type of crossdresser are you? Casual, all the time? Do you dress as a fetish, or is it deeper for you? Have you talked with anyone else about your crossdressing? \nWhat are you hoping to accomplish by telling her? If you are looking for support, what are her views of other crossdressers? In today's say and age, you see crossdressing on all sorts of TV programs and other media, I am sure she has seen it as well. What is her general reaction towards it. Who's clothing do you wear? If it is your own stuff, how well hidden is it? You might be suprised, she might actually already know and be waiting for you to trust her to tell her.\nTake it slow, because if she is not ok with it, she might have a lot to process. I would make sure to inform her that you are not GAY, and by wearing clothing like that, it does not make you in any way GAY.\nIf you trust her, and she trusts you, and you want to tell her after you have found out who you are, then go ahead.\n\nI am not sure how well this would work, but you might make a game out of it, or a bet. Maybe do something that she comes up with you dressing up, like set a bet where the looser has to dress as a maid or something, and be all macho about it so when you loose, it looks painful that you have to dress as a maid. Heard that one somewhere, not sure the results. Would give you a deep insight into your wife's view on crossdressing from her reactions though...
1039697
you are going to have to be straightforward and direct with them. You tell them point blank, this is the woman I have chosen, if you love me then you will have to accept her. Tell them she will be your wife, and you are expecting to see enough respect out of them not to ruin your joy. When they see you will stand beside your wife-to-be at all cost, they will submit. Be sure to guard your lady against their rejection, it will break her heart. Be firm, but gentle, and stand your ground. You obviously are not a child anymore, and should not act/be treated like one. Good luck!
722170
I am a wife and to be honest I would say Heck Yeah!!! you should tell your wife but, let me say this the first thing I would say to you (as my husband) What the F@?K were you doing looking at her, changing clothes anyway!!! Now that's an honest answer as a wife, now just to be on the real. let me say, she knew you were there, believe it, and she did it as a show for you, so if you don't want to start no stuff in your marriage I would tell you to tell your wife that it's time for her friend to leave before she goes any further and you have to explain why you & the friend are so friendly now, follow me?\nI want you to realize something right now, women do not have respect for other women when it comes to things of human nature, it's their way, always, have you ever notice that two brothers can share a bedroom all the way up to highschool if they have to but, girls No Way!!! as soon as two sisters hit a certain age (normally around 7-8 yrs-olds.) They have to be separated, that is because they can't stand each other's smell, it's not a funk or anything, it's just (Our Nature) Dude get her out of your house before it's too late, that is if you honestly want your marriage to be okay.
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How to....well, if you want to start slow...start wearing panties.  Panty hose can be worn under slacks, and even a small cupped bra can be hidden under a bulky sweater, or sports coat.  \n\nYou can shop for clothes via on line, if you are shy about shopping in public (though if your girlfriend likes, you can always take her and have her buy it, or be with you when you do.)  There are some web sites that make women's clothes for men.  (Suddenly fem has some cute things).   Don't get anything that will accent your broader shoulders. Watch those square cut blouses.\n\nWigs are a great way to have that suddenly fem hairdo without having to alter your own hair.  And for makeup, you want to find something that will first take the shadow out of your beard, and then the foundation to even out the skin tones.\n\nHave fun.  It's all just for fun.  I know you're nervous, so practice at home, and make a deal with your girlfriend that even though she adores you dressed, she'll give an unbiased eye to let you know if you can pass, should you wish to venture into public.  Or just screw public opinion and go anyway.
951141
Take your wife to eat close to the mall...then excuse yourself to the restroom...go to your car, put on your costume...entertain...say you'll be back shortly...run back to the restaurant...and just do this all night. I know it works 'cause I saw it on Mrs. Doubtfire!!!
324567
Firstly: tell your wife if you are certain now. You don't want to try to figure this out alone. I wonder why if you told your wife about her friend's behavior your wife didn't respond well... Odd. Secondly: Are you SURE that she wants to get with you? Maybe you're misinterpreting her. But if you're definitely sure, then, after telling your wife, just avoid the other woman. \n\nAll of the above is assuming you don't want to cheat on your wife. If you do, then....I guess you don't have any problems then, do you?
927460
i think that is the cutest thing..so she wants you to dress drag huh? if you have the guts to do it, then go for it...do you have to wear high heels?  all i can say, is have fun with it..she has one fun mind..good luck..
59533
My guess is that you're not talking about a day-to-day thing. What you want is for her to get dressed up and for you two to have crazy monkey sex. Awesome.\n\nIf you two talk about your sex life, bring it up during one of those conversations. Say "You know what might be fun to try one time?"\n\nDon't try to change the whole of your sex life in a day. A good guideline is that only 1 in 3 sexual encounters with your partner should be "enhanced" or "special". If you were to start asking her to dress up like a porn star every time you two made love, she would likely feel less than confident.\n\nIf you two are open enough, head on over to a strip club. Buy her a lapdance. I went to a club and got one and it was superfun. I left the club thinking it might be fun to dress up like a stripper sometimes. Your wife might get the same ideas.\n\nHowever, if you bring it up and she says something along the lines of "I'm not a tawdry whore", make it clear that you want her to be beautiful and classy, just like she already is. If she still says no, drop it. The more you pressure her, the more she'll feel like you don't like her for who she is.\n\nMost women will agree to do something that they're not entirely into every once in a while for the sake of their partner. Besides, if you respond enthusiastically, she's more likely to do it again.\n\nGood luck!
1047014
Go for it. Lets just hope that the woman you do it with loves streeks in her partners underwear.
1004898
just tell her the wuts up tell her that ur not gay and that she is ur sister in law and u dont want to be an imbred
234574
Try my wife's shoe cupboard !
1040716
Talk! Tell her that she looks pretty. A compliment does not cost a thing, but ladies love to hear them, even if it's a soft little wolf whistle (don't make a spectacle out of it). Ask her what she wants to do, and if it's a chick flick, go and try not to fall asleep.  Take her on a picnic to a pretty place that you know of near your home.  \n\nBefore you leave her, (make sure your breath is good for this one) lean close to her ear, and whisper softly, "I can't wait until I see you later."  I don't know about all women but I have heard a LOT of women say they love it when their man whispers sweet things in their ear.  Slip little love notes into her purse when she is not looking or bring her a flower once in awhile. \n\nGood luck, have fun and be creative!
228085
she should have noticed the wedding ring, if you are wearing it. hint at her how much you love your wife and that you feel its wrong to cheat on your mate.
186732
Just tell her you would like her to try it then if you get the desired reaction you can tell her how awesome it looks etc and she may continue doing it...otherwise be happy with her the way she is
384904
My wife is not dominant, but she uses toys on me. Want details?
19884
Wear something sedately glamourous...think pale coloured ballroom or cocktail dress for a Duchess, you want dignity, here, not "Hubba-Hubba"\nWhat your spouse wears is her choice, though she should not actively clash with you in colour or style.\nIf she likes the tux idea, perhaps her accessories (tie, kerchief and cummerbund or suspenders) could be in the same colour as your gown.\nGood luck and many happy returns of the day!
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Uh huh... =p (this is my second case on cross-dressing again)... sigh... youngsters nowadays... =p\n\nWhat are you doing? Get off those high heels. Get into these boots instead *pulls out super masculine boots* It isn't right for a kid to be prancing around in a women's garb! =p