Why do people always say that they will kill themselves but then they dont?
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people who say that are hurting but are either afraid to kill themselves are hoping life will get better but don't know how. If you can please try to get help for him .
268078
I will never ever kill myself.. Whenever killing yourself crosses your mind just think of the people who tragically died on an accident wishing they are still alive..
1068439
theres something called choosing when you die. Its called...oh whats that word....ummm....SUICIDE.
773202
NEVER !!!!!\nIt does not matter what circumstances are involved, suicide is for people who can not deal with the reality of life, and what they have done with it.\nSome of the above mentioned people are sick and delusional, some were just doing their jobs. BUT none of them HAD to do what they did, they were just to weak to stop it for various reasons.\nThey all need to learn to live with what they have done and try to somehow TRY to correct it, wether just through seeking help or by actively helping society to prevent situations they have caused.\neg - A heroin addict that has beaten an elderly person for money, stolen from people and lied and cheated to his/her family saying one day (f**k the junk I have had enough) and after going through the agony of quitting, then turning around trying to help others through the same process, speaking at schools and in public about the dangers etc etc.\nNO suicide is NEVER acceptable. Women abort lives, babys are still born, innocent children are knocked down by cars - the list goes on - then for someone to make mistakes with the life that they have and decide to commit suicide to fix them is just  a SELFISH act and cruel to the people that have tried to either help or support them no matter how bad their mistake or crimes might have been.\nCriminals could hand themselves in and people that may have cost a life through mistake could appologise for this to the families involved.\n\nTo close this topic - We are all human and sometimes go the wrong way or do the wrong thing but we should never waste the valuable thing we possess known as life. To many sick peolpe want it for others to throw it away.
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If you want to committ suicide, do it yourself don't drag another human being into your reality. They are people too.
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Don't commet suicide you don't want to end your life
728351
there are people who kill themselves because of depression, which is a physical illness in that brain chemistry is so distrupted that the thoughts become disordered.  a depressed person will believe others are better off without them and think others will feel that way.  for many of these people, life feels so empty, meaningless, and hopeless that being alive requires more courage than pulling a trigger in front of your face.  for some people, antidepressants may work just enough to make them capable of pulling off a suicide.  for other people, their antidepressant might make them suicidal.  \n\nher act is highly unusual for a woman - women don't tend to use guns. she seems very angry.  i wonder if she had a personality disorder - borderline - and this actioin a way to hurt everyone around her and keep everyone crazy forever.  \n\neither way, it's a terrible thing that's happened to you, too.  your anger is very normal; most survivors of suicides have lots of anger.  \n\nyou might literally want to scream in the shower or when driving alone.  you may find this happening already.  \n\nkeep expressing your feelings - on paper, with friends, in the shower or car.  \n\nif she was depressed, maybe she thought, in her muddled thinking, that calling you in advance would leave you feeling guilty you didn't stop her.  she may have thought, in the strange way of depressed people, that she was sparing you.  \n\ni'm so sorry this happened.  fight back by embracing life.
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If they dont i will commit suicide
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its rare that people who write dark poems and stuff kill themselves because they usually see that the world wouldnt be phased either way. one life is meaningless if they die or not, sure it may have meaning to the people they are close to, but in the end, life is nothing. sad but true.
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UNFORTUNATLY THEY DONT JUST KILL THEMSELVES. \nTHEY KILL INNOCENT PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME.
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no it means they are very unhappy with there life and how they feel i think it is people who think the other way are egotistic that life would be worse with out them the truth is life will go on it will change for a small few if anyone dies some people who think the world would be better without them mean there loved ones and family would be better without them for different reasons i have been there a few times and it is not a fun place to be at the time your willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for the bennifit of your family or world if you would like to know more i would gladly answer your email
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Some people feel so hopeless that they feel it is better to be gone than to have to face their problems.  For them, their problems are over and they no longer have to deal with them.  For the people around them, yes, they will have to deal with it but the person that commits suicide is beyond being concerned about that both before and after the suicide.
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Yes indeed, I think suicide is a very selfish thing to do. People will be very angry at first, than they go into a depression and than finally recovery. Alot of times though denial and guilt comes first because you cant believe it has happened and than you feel guilty because you think you could have some how prevented it.
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It is not uncommon for people coming out of depression to commit suicide before they are all the way better. What happens is they have the depression, but they have more motivation to do *something*. The something is often suicide. This was a problem long before the SSRIs.
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I don't think a person is selfish for committing suicide.  How can a mentally ill person be selfish?  They are not able to be selfish because in their world nothing is real.  It may appear to be a selfish act, and/or it might be that those of us left behind, have to label the person as selfish as it is our only way of coping with the grief.  People who turn to suicide either didn't have the help and support they needed or their mind just couldn't cope any more.  Not a lot different to a person who dies of a heart attack.  You can quit smoking, lose weight to prolong your life but what do you do when your own mind has turned its back on you.  To turn to suicide means you think there is no other way out.  It's a sad fact of life.  You can only feel sorry for these people.
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Why do you want to commit suicide?  To tell you the truth, I wanted to commit suicide before...that was years ago...but every time I'm depressed, I wait...because I know that life is just a series of tunnels.  You drive into a tunnel and the sum seems to be gone...the tunnel might be long or short...you never know...but one thing you can be sure is that the sun will eventually be back when you finally get out of the tunnel.  There is no tunnel with only one hole...even if there is you could still turn around and drive out.\nI hope you think it over...I don't think someone that wants to commit suicide have to see a doctor or something...but everyone needs to talk it out...and you really have to think it over hard!!  I almost commited suicide...but I'm glad I didn't ...cuz then I would miss out all those things that happened after I decided not to kill myself.\nLife IS hard...\nA person wearing a pretty pair of shoes....but if you were to try on her shoes...you might realize it doesn't feel as pretty as it looks like.\nI really hope you don't hurt yourself...because you might regret it....\nSuicide is a sign of giving up...NEVER give up...giving up is the same as losing...well...actually worse.  People that lose have the courage to fight til the end...people that just give up or run away have nothing.\nDon't give up ...fight back!\nEven today I'm not 100% happy...but I'm glad I keep on fighting it back.  Every time I fight back and win I feel so good.  Even if I lose when I fight back...I will try harder next time.  I know you are tired...me too...but please, please, please think it over, OK?
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We don't realize we are going to die until that moment comes. In the mean time people try to satisfied themselves with everything they can have, because this world, this life, is the only thing they have for sure. They don't know what to expect after dying so they try to fill the whole inside while they are living, they do this running after goals that won't last for eternity, obviously.\nThe only way you can stop living denying that someday you are going to die is to find a meaning for life, a reason to live... and that's Christ.\nP.S. Excuse my english, is not my native language.