Some guy asked me to marry him. and i'm only 13 but i really love him.what should i do?
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The law has a name for this: statutory rape.\nSweetie, I'm 17 and I am not thinking about marriage.  Sorry, but whatever you may think, you are not old enough to understand any of the feelings that come with a serious relationship.  For the future (and I am talking many years) if you truly love a guy and he pops the question, think of living with him, only having him, in 25 years.  If you can picture it then you should be fine.  Do not ruin your life.  You are still in middle school!!!  Enjoy high school and college then worry about marriage.
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I have a beautiful 13 year old daughter, IF you are rich, handsome, and chivalrous!\nTrust your gut about who she likes, honey.\nYou are probably right.\nBut, you will fall in love 100 times before you finally find the one you marry, so keep your eyes peeled for the next lucky girl to be on your arm. The girl you love now isn't the only girl in the world.
875546
I agree with the first post. Your only 13 yrs old. You have plenty of time to get boyfriends. Trust me you will be glad you waited.
617494
First, read what you just wrote.\nI want a kid so he'll love me.\nI want a kid so he'll be with me.\nThat is putting alot of pressure on that kid. And if married people with kids don't stay together, why do you think he'll stick with you? It'll get hard and he'll run. Did you ask him how he feels? Does he want a kid right now? Yeah, its your uterus, but its his sperm! Its not fair or right to try and trap a guy with a kid. And speaking of, you are still a kid. I know 16 year olds don't like to hear that, but its true. I thought I was grown. I had a kid at 18 and married the Daddy. I found out just how much of an adult I wasn't REAL FAST. If you love yourself, wait till you turn 18 and finish highschool. If you love him, give him the chance to become an adult and decide what he wants. If its real love, he'll still be around at 18 and you can marry, THEN have the kid. Usually, teenage fathers HATE the girlfriend that got preggy cause they aren't ready to be Dad's. Do you really wanna take that chance?
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I was in love at a young age too and my guy turned out to be gay. We're still friends, but it is just an example of how much can change. I'm now married to a great man I would have never met had I stayed with a guy while I was your age. Keep you options open, but stay with him as long as you are happy. Just don't make any perm. decisions till you are older. You both still have a lot of changing to do. Tell him you love him too, but you don't want to promise a life together just yet. Not because you want to be with someone else, or someone better, but because you both could change and you don't want to make mistakes.
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Whoa, that last part about being 13 threw me off!  I dont want to nag you about your age or anything, but 13 is WAY too young to be going through ALL that drama. Trust me. Half of the stuff you worry about now won't matter a year from now, even a week from now. Also think about if he is even worth all the drama you're putting yourself through.
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Its not the age but the person thats important. if you are hasty and pick the wrong person you might regret it all your life. wait till you are a bit mature to understand difference between a cool guy and a good guy. Marry the good guy, then indulge yourself.
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hmmm, I would wait to get married. Doesn't mean you still can't date this guy. beside I'll bet anything your parents would never let you get married at this age. You are really young still, so whats the rush? If your still together in like 5 or 6 years, props to you and I wish you the best.\n\nIf it helps you any, I met my fiance when I was 14, and I knew in a year that we had a great relationship. BUT, I'm 18 now, and we're only just engaged after nearly 4 years together (July 27th <3). I'm in no hurry to marry, becuase the piece of paper doesn't change how we feel. And I want a nice wedding, and I still have a lot of saving to do! ~.^ good luck!
336259
you should always marry for love. you should love the one you marry. your love will grow as the years pass.
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You did not say how old you both are, so I can only assume you are both old enough to get married. If true love is what you have then God bless the both of you.
74644
I don't think there is a age to get married it only depends on you. Ask your  self if you will want that guy to be with you the rest of your life?
875435
I would not advise getting married. You are too young to be debating marriage. Don't rush into marriage. Marriage is more than "I Love You".
85267
Why do you think the law says you only become legally adult at 18? That's not because they just want to make your life miserable. It's because a person usually becomes mature enough to understand what MAY happen - what consequences will follow a particular action, and be able to be responsible for it when they reach that age. \n\nHoney at 13, you haven't even experienced all there is you will be responsible for. I strongly suggest that you wait until you are 18. If he loves you, as you say he does, then he will be willing to wait for you too. Then you will be both free to decide and marry.
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13 year old boyfriends aren't all that great.\nMy advice, wait till you are a little older to start looking for a boyfriend.
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This is how I feel about "getting" a man to marry you... I would be insulted if I felt as though a guy was marrying me out of pressure or because he feels obligated. Best thing to do is talk about what you want and go for it with someone that wants the same things.\n\nYou are young, and you have plenty of time. If you are sure that this is a guy you can spend your life with and you believe that he really does want the same things you want - stick around for a while, stop the pressuring, and see where things go. \n\nIf things don't work out, then next time, make sure that you have someone that wants the same out of life as you do, and within the same genera time frame, before you get too involved.
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well 1st, i am in the same situation now.\ni am 16 but he just turned 19.\nhe tried to propose to me also....at 16 yrs old, yea we do love you. but as women we cant be sure if we will still love you forever and ever, we haven't had time to find ourselves yet. or even really experience life. so when she says no its not a blow on you. we do it to protect you frm gettin hurt in the long run.
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i think that it depends on how old u r if u r like 16 hold off for marriage because sex is supposed to be special but if u r like 22 and think that u really love him and u r going to marry him i would still wait