Im doing a speech for school and my topic is what can't men understand women? nothing rude please?
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Same reason women can't understand men (although they often think they can).  The ways of the two gender's minds are seriously different.  There are any number of ways to prove that; it's just true.  So if you are in the habit of understanding someone by imagining what you would think or feel in a similar situation, it won't work across gender lines.  Too many differences, and the differences too hard to imagine.
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well i am 22 year female. here is how you can tell that i respect a man is by if i say can i look that? if he says no then i say i respect that, and go no futher than that. A girl/woman will ask before doing an action.
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Would you look at cute babe3xoxo, she is a hottie, but my O my is she complicated, I can hardly understand what she is saying and of course she does not have the strength to completely spell out her words.  That my friends is one complicated woman.  The truth of the matter is that women really are not complicated at all, they are just different.\nThey have different interests, different clothes (I hope), different needs, different desires, etc.  Just because what they want does not coincide with what men want does not make them complicated, all you have to do is understand the differences and you will have no problem.  So the keys\nto uncomplicating women are:\n\nListen\n\nBe honest\n\nDon't be stupid\n\nAsk qustions if you don't understand\n\nListen\n\nTalk to them\n\nTalk with them\n\nListen\n\nNow that you know the secret to women remember one thing, you will NEVER, NEVER truly understand them, so give up trying and enjoy the differences, if they were the same as us men it would be no fun. Now that I think of it the question was "How many of you guys...." and I am at this point the only guy to answer, thats why women are so complicated.
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Men are simple . . . I usually state how it is.\n\n\nWe're hungry\nWe're thirsty\nWe're horny\n\nwe are basic creatures . . . \n\nNow . . . women are confusing creatures . . . who say one thing a mean another.\n\nExample:  I ask a gf . . . how are you or how was your day or how was work?  She answers . . . Fine.\n\nWhat does that mean . . . it doesn't mean fine . . . it actually mean that it was terrible or she had a bad day . . . and it is your job to find out what happen and try to make it better.\n\nIf a man says fine . . . that is what it means . . . it was fine.
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Pushed,\n\nYou're not going to like what I have to say...but I'm going to lay it down for ya, bro, 'cause you need to hear it.\n\nI'm going to venture a guess that you're attending a University here in the U.S., and that you're a student from abroad. That's fine...nothing wrong with that, hope you get your diploma and get a fine education while you're here. The main issue here is your perception of how women are to relate to men. I don't care which country you are from...makes no difference to me. What I'm sensing is that there is some confusion about the way women are to interact with men, as in a big difference between where you're from and how it is here.\n\nPushed, YOU read a LOT into how the lady spoke and interacted with you as a member of her lab team. She probably went out of her way to be nice to you, and since you were going to be working together, she felt that if everyone were on a friendly basis, things would go easier. \n\nIt's likely that she felt that you got the wrong idea, and stopped interacting with you...she backed off and started speaking to you perfunctorily, and only when necessary. You claim that she 'likes' another male member in your lab group now...not likely, Sir. It's likely that she's just interacting with him in a manner she's used to with men in general. Sir, you are a guest here, and you need to be sensitive to the culture in which you have chosen to immerse yourself. The women here can be sensitive and friendly to you, but you've no right to force your views and cultural cues onto anyone...even if it means that a woman where you are from is expressing "severe" interest in you as a man by acting like that, that is NOT what it means here.\n\nI don't rightly know if you'll ever get a chance to square things with this woman. If you were given an opportunity, your obligation would be to acknowledge your mistake like a man and apologize to her for making her uncomfortable.\n\nAt the risk of angering you, I will say that it is imperative for you to learn the ways of the people where you are travelling to, and to acclimate to your host's environment...not the other way around. That is the difference between being a sophisticated international traveler and a country rube on vacation.
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Context would be helpful.  I'm going to assume this is in the context of a romantic relationship.\n\nWomen, if nothing else, are acculturated to have a much large capacity for conversation and to be much more focused on scrutinizing the nuances of conversation and their implications to relational dynamics.  Its said that women work their relationships more like a web.  Men let's say are to a large extent acculturated to less capacity and sophistication in this regard.  Relationships across the gender divide involve alot of learning as a result.  \n\nOkay, without context, here's the next stab.  In any serious romantic relationship, women are going to be concerned about the security of the relationship.  I'm sure that this is partly because since they have such a developed emotional and relational capacity, they are often much more aware of their state of feelings, commitment readiness, etc. than most men are at a given point in a relationship.  So, that produces some baseline anxiety.  They are going to want to resolve emotional hanging threads.\n\nOkay, from that point, its a matter of how healthy the dynamics are.  Sometimes, in order to resolve their anxiety (sometimes due to a partner who is truly not responsive) the woman will resort to arm-twisting to up the ante in the relationship.\n\nUltimately, you can't control how the other person acts.  I think some helpful facets to look at are:\n\n-Self-awareness of where you're at in a relationship, on a particular issue of concern, etc.\n-Courage and discipline to communicate honestly *and* lovingly, and that does take courage and real self-discipline sometimes\n-Ability to state and hear each others' appropriate needs.  Rather than engage in a conversational jihad, its best to state what you need.\n\nHope you work things out...
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Female Logic.  Virtually impossible for males to comprehend.
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How about some peace and quiet.\nDon't say anything, you women talk too much.
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1) www.MiraKirshenbaum.com\n\n2) http://www.vitalsmarts.com/CrucialSkills/\nwebsite of the book "Crucial Conversations"\n(see amazon link below for table of contents)\nDoes not discuss men-women differences directly much per se, but analyzes very well the three separate parts of a conversation (factual, emotional, identity).\nMen tend to communicate more factually and women more emotionally, although this is obviously a big generalization.
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Of course men and women communicate differently. Yes, reading men are from mars women are from venus will help to understand this, but people also need to realize that it also depends on many factors such as:  upbringing/how they were taught, what society expects of them, their personalities, their personal experiences in life up to that point, etc.\n\nMen tend to think in terms of how can I fix this problem. Women tend to think emotionally and just want to have their partner or someone else listen to them so they can talk out their problems. It's how we work out/fix our problems. Of course, this is just a generalization and may not apply to every man and woman in the world. There are always exceptions.
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its not just your guy nor is just guys, some women dont listen either. its called selective deafness, they only hear what they want to hear, next time he asks you to do something pretend you didnt hear, he will soon get the message.
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Man you need to learn how to spell it to be able to a woman>>>>>>>>>>>>>
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let me tell you the first thing about women... never take advice from women about women. Let me prove that one to you. I once asked my sister two questions. The first question was "what do you look for in a guy?" I got the typical "i want a guy that treats me good, does sweet things for me, and blah blah blah". then i asked her to describe the guys that she has had the longest relationships with. well I'll be damned if those two answers weren't the farthest away from each other as they could be. Now some girls you ask may get a good piece of advice in there once and awhile, but let me tell you the three "C's" of what a women looks for in a man. Confidence is probably number one. Not to be confused with arrogance, confidence is not having a self esteem problem. Know in your head that you are good enough for a women, but don't think that you are better than her. The second: Control. Control is about being your own person and in control of your own life. Being a decision maker and being confident in the decision. Taking charge of a date for example. None of this crap about i don't know, what do you want to do. This is where many many men falter. Control in this manner is not about controlling what a woman does. it's about being a take charge guy. One word of caution about this is that there may be feminist or two out there that don't like this kind of crap. Those women need to be kicked to the curb. The third is a challenge. Never let a woman think that you are a loser. Women want what other women want. Let her think other women want you. never wait around for a women and beg her like a puppy dog. you have your own life, live it. and if you don't, pretend. go out with your friends, go on dates with other women. And if and when you start dating a women, remember that you still have friends. never let a women tell you "let me think about it". that's just postponement for her to tell you no with hopes that you will forget about it. I'm not in any way telling you to treat a women like crap. a lot of people assume that from me when i tell them this stuff. you need to treat your woman good, but do not be her little bi***. Bottom line, women want a man to be a man. The big protector. Be a gentleman. Open doors, and treat her like a lady, but be a man about it, not a p**** whooped fool.  You sound like you're ready to hand over your testicles.  you will "worship the ground they walk on"... if it doesn't work try something else.  accept that you need to change
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LOL.  I needed a smile.  finally a guy who gets it!  \n\nBTW, Arizona Peach Tea is yummy! \n\nYes, females could rule the world if more of them would realize it.  We are taught to be submissive to men. Although, I have learned the trick to make my man do WHATEVER I want him to AND he thinks it's his idea!  \n\nWe already own most of the world...90% of your money (men spend money to impress girls) and we own 100% of your P*SSY!
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lol thats simple  women  are verbal  creatures  and  enjoy  talking  till your ears melt off  , and if  i play a video  game  i can  pretend  to listen  to  all the garbage  that comes  out  her  mouth , bottom  line  is  men  are visual creatures   so  if you want  our  ATTENTION serve  us a beer  while  holding  it  between  you  breasts, and maybe  jump  up and  down a bit  after  we  take the beer
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Good woman's book, if you can't get your head around the fact that men & women are different.\n"Men are from Mars, women from Venus." Same stuff.\nBurn your bra & get on with life. We only pass this way once... Enjoy it!!
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What is stopping u from giving her what she wants from u?  Communication isn't just about talking.  It's about active listening as well and maybe u haven't been a good listener and disregard her whenever she needs u to listen to her.  It makes us women feel as though we are not important enough for u when men do this.  Start giving her what she wants.