what are some options if your not happy with your sex life???????
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try spicing up allitle, do some erotic things talk dirty to each other during sex, act out some of your fantasies.
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The only way to quit sex is resistance. It should be like quiting drugs and other addictions. Find a substitute that you wouldn't find as horrifying as being addicted to sex.
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If sex is important to you ( and that's about all of us) you got to either leave and find someone else, cheat and lose your self repect or get toys.  Leave and find someone else is better for you and in the long run him too.  Would at least try talking to him about it first thought, assuming you haven't.
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intercourse to enjoy the life
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well try meditating or a cold shower or pick up a bible that should help if not go to a sex therapist.
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Try some bondage or some role-playing.  Keeping it fresh is the hardest thing for me too (in a relationship for 7 years now).  When the feelings of passion wear off, we have to get creative.  Even if you are sexually active, it gets old for both parties.  Try going to an adult store for ideas or look at some adult couple websites.  I think most long-time couples would say that this is the hardest area to overcome and new ideas are always welcome.
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Take it easy Napoleon...Give it time. Sex is best when you are married.
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Surgery is another option.  You might think that's a bit extreme, but the outcome is permanent and it will improve your quality of life if it's affecting you so badly at the moment.  There are other options too, have a look at the website below.
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Find someone better. Relationships can't be based on sex and sex alone. Find someone who will respect you and your wishes.
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If she doesn't enjoy sex maybe it is time to find out why.  Find out what she likes and dislikes and don't make the assumption that this is personally directed towards you.  It could be an issue that she believes only affects her and it doesn't.  Whatever the cause it is best to find out as many answers to your questions with her honestly and openly.  If there is no way to resolve your sex life then you will know whether or not you want to move on.
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well dont adjust yurself 2 a new habit of not having sex 4 a longer time rather use a sex toy
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Well if hes like this at 21 its not a big bright future is it? I have a suggestion on what you can do.If you want to get some of that built up sexual frustration off of you you need to find someone who can help you release & relax(always wear protection).If you want to remain frustrated & faithful buy a toy.If not dont cheat just tell him it wont work
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think twice before u get into trouble. nobody can continue the real pleasure when caught up. sex is not a thing to be done under any pressure. it must be done at a comfortable, safe place and with the RIGHT partner.
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Try having sex with someone else than yourself. That's bound to make you feel good.
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DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO KEEP YOUR SEXLIFE GOING STRONG AS LONG AS YOUR COOL WITH WHATEVER IT IS GO FOR IT!!!!
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Unlike some others I would not recommend sex as your only option. Join a gym and try all the machines that work the areas you want. Also do some cardio exercise or walking and try to squeeze your butt when you walk. Other than that don't eat a lot of carbs, only at the size of your palm and eat good protein and lots of fruits. I hope it helps!
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If you're really concerned about it, suggest to him that you spend a few weeks without it... to build the excitement.  Tell him while you're not having sex, you can get into other things in your relationship... whatever suits you guys.  You could just hang out and play games (cards, board games, etc) and talk/snuggle.  You could go to amusement parks or go hiking.  You could go to museums, go to church... just whatever it is that fits you guys.  If you all can make it through that comfortably, and you actually CAN fill your time without sex... then I think you might be alright.  =)