my boyfriends ex-girlfriend?
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If your boyfriend says he loves you and not her, then you have nothing to worry about.  However, HE should be the one to tell her to leave him alone.  If that doesn't work, step in and let her know you won't stand for her drama.  Kick ass if necessary.
465419
ALRIGHT HERE WE GO.IF YOU REALLY LIK ETHIS GUY AND THIS GUY REALLY LIKES YOU AND THE TWO OF YOU ARE SURE ABOUT EACHOTHER THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? GO FOR IT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIS EX. SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON.MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE HAS TURNED INTO YOUR DIRECTION BECAUSE YOU ARE THE REASON THAT SHE COULDN'T BE.ALSO THE EX S JUST OVERLY JEALOUS BECAUSE HE MAY NOT WANT HER BACK AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BUT SHE CAN'T HANDLE THE THOUGHTS OF SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME.I WOULD SAY SCREW THE EX AND DO WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS RIGHT ASLONG AS YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AT THE SAME TIME.GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!
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forget snooching32 advice!! you think, if you were in a twelve year relationship, would you be able to stop contact with that person completely,? NO DIDNT THINK SO, my girlfriend was with someone for 7 years, and they still have contact, i dont like it and i feel insecure and sometimes inferior to her ex, but like me, you will have to learn to deal with the ex being on the scene for some time, but eventually, this person will start giving you the attention and the ex will fade away into the background.\n\nthis person has been honest with you and told you his ex was there, and that nothing happened, the two of you hve a special thing, you can communicate, you talk a lot everyday, that is hard to find, dont throw that away, tell your friend how you feel, go round, take a bottle of wine with you and sit and talk it out, see the outcome, you will find a lot more out about each other and its the only way to find out how he really feels for you\n\nyou might be pleasantly surprised. but you will never know otherwise!\nthere are a lot of negative people on here, dont listen to them
63410
Kick him to the street... You're gonna have problems in your relationship with his ex still around...
852422
DROP HIM SWEETIE! IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME HE'S PLAYING GAMES.  IT'S OBVIOUS HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HIS EX AND I BELIEVE HE WANTS TO CUT YOU LOOSE BECAUSE HE WANTS TO TRY AND WORK THINGS OUT WITH HER.  YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT.  YOU SHOULD HAVE SOMEONE WHO IS DEDICATED TO YOU AND YOU ONLY.
857085
Maybe this will answer your question......would you want some girl chasing after your boyfriend? What would you do?........You would kick her a**. Tell her to leave him alone. If he leaves his present g/f for her then he will eventually leave her for yet another girl.
588154
The problem isn't this other woman, the problem is your boyfriend.  A guy can only be manipulated by a woman if that is what he really wants.  If your boyfriend really loved you then he would end all contact with this other girl.  I think he is using her the same way you think she is using him.  Maybe they both deserve each other because you certainly deserve a man who can only be manipulated by you.
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He's probably very insecure and by making you jealous he's assuring himself that you care-it really sucks doesnt it? My question is: Why be jealous of his EX girlfriends-they are EXS for a reason!!
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I would confront him and ask him for the truth.  How long have you been together??  Do you trust him??  Do you love him enough to stay with him if it is true??  I think that the chances are if they are just friends, then they probably didnt.  Only they know and you need to trust what he says.....if you really love him.  If you dont trust him, then move on......I would also ask him why she was there in the first place.  Was it to make you jealous???
669745
Are you ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that your "boyfriend" and the "ex" are split up or are they still TOGETHER and he is lying to the BOTH of you?!?
501261
break up with your boyfriend cuz he clearly still likes his ex
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I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
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hi, i feel that you should not be talking to your ex, if\nyou are still close that good but he has a girlfriend, and\ni feel it very  disrespectful of him to be talking to you\nabout his problem with her. because if the shoe was on the\nother foot how would you feel. he need to get his situation\nwith her together and  if it meant for you and him to get back\nyou will. the big guest ion you should ask yourself seriously\nif he so unhappy with her then as you stated why is he still\nthere.
18079
ask his bestfriend or his girlfriend why do you need it he is your ex
102354
If you really hate him..you should talk to the girl that has been calling and tell her not to date him! but if i were you..i would still talk to him..he is your ex after all and you and him need to move on!
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Because he has still continued some form of relationship (you say they are friends) for your entire relationship, plus they have 9 months of intimacy that preceded your relationship?\n\nBecause he still hangs out with her?\n\nThat's legitimate, right?  Do you maintain friendship or go to public places with your ex-boyfriend?  Even if other people were around, would your boyfriend have a problem with that?  \n\nIf it bothers you and he doesn't hear your complaint, it's still going to bother you.  Even if he doesn't think it's a big deal.  Even if he can rationalize it.\n\nI highly recommend "Getting To Yes," by Roger Fisher.  It's not a love relationship book, but great for negotiation/communication.  It sounds like you need help convincing him that it's as big a deal as it is to you.  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0140157352/qid=1144087981/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/103-4668860-3658249?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
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Well hopefully you've been honest if your past has come up in conversation with your current girlfriend.  If not; then maybe you'd better be worried........Otherwise, it is possible for the current and ex to be o.k. with each other although; not too many of them can be true friends.  There are too many unanswered questions that will come up between them, and usually trying to make that type of relationship work usually backfires sooner or later.........