Is it ok if your boyfriend has sex with another girl as long as he tell you about it?
465512
It depends on what kind of person you are. If you don't mind, then who cares what anyone thinks? If you want something monogamous and committed, then I think its time to re-evaluate.
344748
if he doesn't already know and he says she's his girlfriend ten something is already wrong. now if is an internet thing and he can be hurt in some way, then tell him
1094359
Well its only a bad idea if hes planning on sleeping with the girl but if not and you truly trust him then I dont see what the big deal is. Hope this helps, good luck : )
995043
yeah like thats going to work! if my little sis's bf tried to have sex with me, i'd slap him dirty little face and tell my sis.\n\nyou dont know if the girls sis will tell her. she might, even if she DID want to have sex. girls are naughty. cant really trust 'em unless you really know 'em.
904340
yea!but this is a real hard thing to decide because how does your gf or bf no that this will never happen again but it also depends on how long you 2 have been in relationship So it has to do with how much trust was in the relationnshp if you are the person who cheated you should not let your bf or gf find out from another person that only makes things worse so if you like/love this person as much as you think you do then you will have enough respect for them to come to them and tell them that you know you were wrong and you promise it wont happen again and long as you are faithful from that day on you are guaranteed a good relationship.
334129
As long as you don't phone up your boyfriend during sex with someone else - that would p#ss him off a bit!\n\nOther than that scream the house down!\n\nF76
968096
!!!Well , you have a problem there!! I would in this particular situation most likely would somehow leave the (cheating) situation alone and let him now how it feels and that maybe he should think twice before making out with some girl he met that night. Also i would not go out with him because he sound like a slut , especially if he is making out with a girl he just met. I can give you advice but i can not  make the decision for you.\nTootles!!!
174335
This will probably be the hardest thing that your friend has to do, but she has little choice in having to face her boyfriend and tell him what has happened. Either way he is more than likely going to find out, and it would be easier if she told him right away instead of waiting, letting the tension and suspicion build, and then slamming him hard with it in the end. If he leaves her...well, I am sorry, but she was the one that decided to cheat on him in the first place. If she had been faithful to him, this would be another matter. She cannot blame him for being angry or hurt, or maybe deciding that he wants another girlfriend - one who will be loyal to him. \n\nAgain, I send my sympathies, but there is really little you can do about the situation. Just remember, the sooner she tells him, the better. Don't make this any harder than it has to be...and, I won't lie, this will probably be very hard.
114846
As with my boyfriend and I ...we like to keep the past in the past. There's no use in bringing up something that might make your partner mad/upset unless they ask about it or it is a serious issue that would concern them needing to know. For example: STD's, crimes...so forth.
32694
well the big questions is.. do you like the other girl? and you guys should get things straight, you, that guy, the girl, and the other girl, all come out clean to each other and things might change.
397945
Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!
573928
yes it would be ...because in the first place why would you have sex with your ex...and ask yourself would it be cheating if your boyfriend had sex with his ex....one love!!!!
57694
This is going to end badly for everybody.\n\nIf the person with whom you're cheating also knows you're cheating he probably is going to be very happy about seeing you re-commit yourself to your boyfriend, especially after having been with him for four months.  On the other hand, if the boyfriend finds out (does the other guy know him?  if so, he may tell your boyfriend about your illicit relationship)from someone other than you THAT is going to be really ugly.\n\nSo, if you want to stay with the boyfriend then tell him what's been going on, and then break it off with guy #2.
693989
It would depend on the circumstances.  If he kissed another girl when we first started dating, that's one thing.  If he was banging his secretary last week, that's a totally different ball park.
438009
If my bf f*cks someone else, it's cheating. If it's just kissing, fine.It's still me he's coming home to.
741198
Right in what sense?\n\nIf you both are okay with having a physical/sexual relationship then what's the problem?  If he is currently dating someone, then you need to accept that you are going to be the 'other woman' and most people would consider that pretty slutty and unacceptable.  If you can live with that, then go for it.  If not, then don't.
264455
no, but......if your in a monogamous relationship, and your hiding it or lying about it, I think it's deceitful, and should be considered cheating (just because your getting your rocks off on another girl/guy behind your partners back).