My girlfriend is a selfish lover.?
467481
What I think you should do is the same thing to her. Make sure that you get off first and then roll over and be done. I have to say that depending on how strong your relationship is will have to be the deciding factor as to if you really want to do this, I am a firm believer that if you don't have good sex a relationship probably won't work.
181907
U have a big problem on your hands. Spoiled and pretty don't mix in a relationship. You should WANT to give her something not HAVE to, i.e. if you feel pressured to give her something all the time, sooner/later you won't WANT to do nothing for her at all. Nothing wrong with asking, but girlie needs a reality check. You can't always get what you want (unless you're filthy, stinking rich). Tell her how you feel and her reaction will better help you make a decision. Oh by the way, try and drop out of her manipulation 101 class.
118233
your behavior seems very irresponsible.  look at yourself.  take responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your actions.  Learn from your mistakes in this relationship
276267
Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
676177
it sounds like she takes you for granted. And even though you wont listen to this.. you had nothing to do with her cheating on you. She feels she is missing something. We cant control what someone else does, and contrary to everyones opinion.. it is not a reflection upon us when someone decides to do something for themselves. I am so sorry to hear she did this to you. You do need to sit her down and talk with her. Maybe you guys can work through this, maybe not. But you wont know until you communicate. Good luck :)
1000174
my girlfriend at times!!!!
395629
You would if you were a selfish spoiled ***hole who didn't care about anyone but herself....(not to mention spitting in Karma's face-and she can be a real *itch when she's provoked!!)  Treat your man better than that or get out of the relationship woman!! Cheating Sucks!(and I meant that literally, not physically)...
284186
Your girlfriend is scared that you will leave her. Have you been unfaithful in the past? This is feeding her fear. You should not change your feelings about honesty and openness, this is a good thing in a healthy relationship. If you told her the information in an arrogant way, then you may be creating this situation yourself. But, if you were diplomatic and caring when you told her, then the problem is hers, not yours. If her lack of trust is annoying you or getting you down, then think about ending the relationship as arguments will only feed her insecurities and make the situation worse. If you love her enough to keep reassuring her and you can do this without changing yourself, then stay with her until the jealousy subsides. But be aware that it will always be around.
874254
she doesnt prioritize and she let work take over her life. i think she's trying to satisfy everyone all at the same time and its taking a toll on her much less making her have different personalities. \n\nof course any other person would feel frustrated for getting tossed around and hit in the head with confusion, but you have to understand that she's human. BUT it doesnt give her the right to keep you dangling on a thread.\n\nobviously she still wants you around so try talking to her in a different environment or atmostphere-some where it wont remind her of work or school, etc. for instace the beach, a coffee shop, the place you first took her to confess your feelings. and then talk to her like as if its almost an ultimatum, but not. \n\ntell her everything that you feel and how its affecting your relationship with her. talk about the way she act or the things that she does to hurt you or confuse you. tell her that youre going to let her deal with whatever she needs to deal with at her own pace. that youre going to respect her space so long she respects yours.\n\nhopefully this is an eye opener for her or is helpful for you to think up something to do. \n\nbest wishes. stay true.
479708
well I think you should never force someone to love you. If she loves someone else that's fine although it hurts very much. Let her go her way and you don't have to help her ! i guess she is not a small girl :)\n\nfind some one else man. time heals. you will be happy
811557
It sounds like the real issue is you buddy.  You need to figure out your morals and your expectations.  This girl sounds like she is great but she doesn't meet your expectations or is it the expectations of other people that has got you worried? Personality is the greatest gift to have in a partner, looks can only be a bonus, if you love her you would actually see the beauty in her. But until then you could be fighting your own demons. ;)
991642
You're a jerk. Break up with her so she can find someone better than you.
907932
You could go hiking together, take up a new sport together (one that you're more-or-less on equal footing with), or just take walks.  Whatever you do, do not let her think for one minute that you don't accept her as she is or that you're trying to change her.  That will be the kiss of death to your relationship.  Believe me, she knows she has gained weight.  Don't do something "subtle" like buying her a bicycle or giving her a gym membership.  That is NOT the way to motivate someone.
88263
Well if she is preggers, sex in the first trimester is kinda icky, to say the least at least it was for me and some other women ive talked to, if she thinks its lacking passion, maybe thats because she has it in her head shes not making love to you anymore shes making a baby with you, maybe thats how your treating it lately, Tell her if she wants passion,youll give her passion... make love to her like you did when you were first together, rediscover every inch of her body, remember that now you probably know how to get her from 0 to 60 in 5 minutes, take your time like you used to, get her to the point where shes close, and start to do something else, tease her with the idea of getting off, dont just hand a orgasum to her on a silver platter, think **here it is but you cant have it** trust me when my better half gets this attitude OMG its MINDBLOWING when he finally lets me have it ;) i hope that helps i know it works when this mentality gets used on me hehe :P
178074
Well what age are we talking here? \nIf you two are too young then I totally agree with her - but if not then perhaps you must decide what is most important to you. Do you love her enough to stay by her side despite the absences of sex, or do you weigh heavily on sex in a relationship. Now, I am assuming this is what you are talking about, (the sex I mean) because if she does not let you touch her at all - then you definitely need to talk/help her or probably best to leave. She must have some serious personal issues.
168871
she does not want to burn bridges.. and she is so selfish
1091368
Just move on.  Regardless of who was at fault, if she really wanted to rekindle your relationship, she would make an effort to do so.  Don't allow her to make you feel guilty because of her selfish motives.  Move on.  Life is too short to deal with difficult people.