If you start dating again at the age of 27. Do nice guys expect to have sex immediately or not.?
464123
http://www.daylon.com/dating/\n\nthat site has some dating tips
190935
I was a virgin until I was 25. Then that situation was happily remedied.\n\nI think that life is a lot more than just sex. Obviously, sex is something we all desire. And, we do deserve at some point to experience that joy. It can seem like it will never happen when you go so long before you finally "get some", but for some of us, things just have to fall into place first. \n\nMy suggestion isn't the same as those freaks that just say "let it happen naturally"... I had to realize that I was getting older and it wasn't happening for a reason. It wasn't them - it was me. And, the best thing is, the only thing I can change is ME.\n\nYou can change yourself. Some things you can't change, but some things you can. Make an effort to have more FRIENDS of the female gender. Be a genuine friend. Don't guilt them over not having sex with you, don't pressure them to date you. You can start out just by being nice to random ones you meet (work, college, etc). Be positive around them. Even if inside you are still bitter - only let the positive out. Eventually someone will appreciate your effort, even if she sees through it. Effort earns a lot of points. Things will fall into place.
518455
If the guy likes you he'll stay. Me and my girlfriend started having sex early too and she was having the same problem you're having now. She chose to tell me all her problems and she told me she thought that I lost respect for her giving it to me so easily. She also told me she wanted a real relationship; something more than sex. I love that girl and we've been together for a year a three months now and we're going strong. If he really wants a relationship, then he'll want the same thing. I know from experience.
1074172
I am not sure I can help but I will give you my opinion and you can take or leave what you will. \n\nI think that people jump in and out of relationships too quickly not giving themselves enough time to really get to know each other. They freely give themselves body and soul and think this will hook someone to stay forever. We don't make people earn trust but when it isn't earned it soon gets broken. \n\nI think dating should be like it use to be and that is going out and exploring others learning and finding out about each other. Today's world thinks when you go out once its a relationship move in have sex act like a couple until the ride ends. this took the romance right out of a relationship. \n\nwhatever happened to a guy trying hard to win you over. standing outside singing to you while little old ladies threw flower pots at his head telling him she's calling the cops. \n\nwhat is the hurry? what is the rush? Don't limit yourself to one person but explore the possibilities don't settle for someone just because you think your friends will think you look good together or for vain purposes. \n\nexpectations and standards have been lowered and so many people are heart broken and you think they would learn? nope right back at it only to fall apart again.
122515
If you're just "talking" to him and you've had sex with him, it's a little late.  2 months seems an awful short time to know someone before you have sex.  I doubt you're going to get a commitment from him.
682021
I'd rather date someone older. I'd prefer someone more mature and stable(financially and emotionally). I would hope an older man would be less likely to play games and would definitely have more experience as a lover and be better in bed. I'd want someone to take care of me, not a younger boy to babysit.
47152
He, he, he.\n\nBecause guys want what they can't have. And as much as they say they want you, they also want to respect you (even if they don't think they do) which is why there is such a double-standard persisting in society, even in this supposedly advanced world we live in today. If a girl is intuitively ready to have sex on the first date, how many more mornings after actually happen? Generally, women are not permitted to enjoy sex as freely and openly as men, and so you're up against not just his desire for you on the first date, but also the whole of humanity as you ponder, tonight or the next?\n\nLet him put in an inch, and then he'll want to unleash a mile...you've got to hold out, because generally that means he'll stick around, growing more curious and enticed than ever before because there's a mystery about you, an air that you carry that he's forced to keep sniffing out until finally, you give in... Keep in mind this applies only if you're into this sort of thing. Women can be just as ruthless and incisive as men when it comes to getting laid. Which is great, since women, like men, should be taught to love (and respect!) sex too.\n\nI guess it all depends on what both your motives are. Do want to be chased? Or do you want to be chewed up? That is the question...
467713
Not all guys want sex, I know that from experience. And I think you can get a date, but you are not allowing it to happen. Just relax about it. Go on dates, but don't commit yourself to a steady relationship unless you are positive that the guy isn't like your ex. And some men end up being right, some don't. Alot of times you gotta feel the hurt, before you can find happiness.
250162
Time will tell.  You could be with someone for one day and think you know them.  Try to be with them for a year or two and you'll get a better sense of that person.  If this has something to do with fornicating, I believe you should at least wait a few months from when you started dating to see if he meets your expectations.\n\nHere's a thing about sex and timing - you could be with the perfect person but if you have sex too soon, you might ruin what could be there.  Trust me, it happens.
90691
To find a man to give you respect, you have to find a man who has been taught the meaning of respect. If a man wants sex right away, it just proves that they don't see you as a potential partner.\nGood men are hard to find and good quality women are hard to find. If I were you I would find a congregation somewhere that was large with some quality single men in it. A christian man would treat you with more respect.
503259
you should have asked before the first time you guys had sex after the break-up. you need to ask now because he might just be looking for sex and you will get attached again and will go through the same cycle as before.
504813
Now's a good time just don't rush into a serious relationship. Wait til ur ready.
546971
He's probably in his prime where all he wants is sex. Men tend to want sex, but later on, You probably will be the one wanting sex and he'll be thinking what you're thinking now. (Men's sex drive kicks in before the women.)
1059319
I'm a 35 yr old woman who just ended a 2 yr relationship with a 28 yr old guy.  He couldn't keep up with me.  The sex was great, but he didn't know how to handle himself at a restaurant or other social situations.  If you both have it together, go for it!!  Just be sure you're not looking for a "mommy" to take care of you!
654589
I've only had sex twice at age 31.But I'm a guy I think a lot of girls like a guy with expirience that's why it is such a big turn off. Some girls will say that sweet or I wish I had waited.But deep down inside it turns them off either they feel guilty or they want a man who know just what to do. As for my own preferance I wouldn't say it's a turn off if a woman was a virgin at 26. But I would say a woman with more expirience is far more interesting to me.
887056
no, if i want to leave a blind date half way through then i just do it.  no need to play games.  he must have been a real loser.  for a hottie like you, i would just enjoy your company and wait until you were ready for sex...anticipation is half the fun;-)
410890
As soon as you are ready.  I started dating the same month that my Ex moved out.  I never regreted it and I found a wonderful man.  Go for it.