Hello Need Help BI FEMALE Stuck To A Married Man.?
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ok since the married man is your husband,,,,you should keep talking to him until he understands that you are serious and you 2 get an understanding,,\n            ,it seems he is a good guy, and his ego is not threatened,, he may let you without freaking out....you know him,,, think about it...you could lose him,,\n           ,i do not condone cheating,,,but i do know some women who have turned to other women because there husbands are impotent and will not seek help.\n               as far as the morals, etc,, you must judge that for yourself and be ready to deal with whatever consequences arise. whether from others, your husband, the woman,
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If you guys are really looking for a bi female to talk to, I would suggest message boards at your local adult bookstore, (if you have that available) or there are magazines and newspapers (i think one is called Night Shift) where you can browse personal ads or place one of your own. \n\nWhat you can also do is go to your local lesbian bar with your wife and make sure that you dress up, act respectful and have the husband sit at the bar and have the wife dance and meet people until she meets someone she likes. Be sure to find out (once she has chosen a woman she likes) if the lady is bi, and not a lesbian. A lot of lesbians might get inadvertanatly offended if you asked her to join a 3 some with a guy involved. \n\nYou know, make sure that you become friends with whomever you choose first. You never know if this woman is just into your wife, or if they would be willing to do more. Besides 3 somes are so much fun if everyone gets along and there is good communication. Everyone must be comfortable with eachother. \n\nIt is better to try and keep your search for a companion in the local field. It is much harder to weed out the crazies on the internet. Do your research, and be sure to be safe while you are having fun.
662836
Get over him. He obviously has no respect for women or himself. He strung you along while he was out looking for something more convenient. Now he's with a married woman, he does not want a commitment.
163150
I am Bi amd married. I believe there should be no secrets in a marriage/relationship so I have told my hubby about it. We have a mutual girlfriend. One does not have to CHOOSE, you can be bi and be happy! I am!
69797
well...honestly this is a tricky one bc either way sm1 is getting hurt. both the wife and daughter are both wondering now. If i were her id make a fake name, profile and all that and send him a message. oh say she saw him in a chat if he does that or read his profile. get to talking w him online. find out info, ask things like where did u meet ur wife( if he admits hes married) and so on. find out little tid bits only he would know. that way you know whos doing the stepping out!
757209
He probably just came to terms that you two will never be.  You are married, he is married...why continue and put other people's feelings at risk?
1172600
LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY!  It looks like he made his choice already.  A man will never leave his wife to be with the other woman.  If you guys were talking before he got married and he still married the other woman...I'm sorry to say, but he is not thinking about leaving his wife for you.  He has his cake and eating it too..so to say.  You are only hurting yourself if you continue to pursue this relationship.  Save yourself from anymore heartache and just end it.
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Are you male or female ? How long have you been married?  Sometimes we think we are trying but it is not quite we should be doing. First you have to really think about what made you love that person in the first place and second you need to talk to that person , and when I mean talk , take a day off work the both of you and go to the park or lake or somewhere quite and discuss what it would take for the other one to spark a flame in you. What is it that you admire in the other person and what kind of person is that other person what do they enjoy, and have you made every attempt to be caring , sweet , understanding , giving and most of all that persons best friend? It usually starts with your own self , if you change all the things about your self for the better and the other one see that change in you , unless they are Heartless and Numb they will see you for what your are (the person they Loved in the first place) if not and you tried everything and all else fails maybe a pastor to council you guys and if all fails then it will be time to move on , but in a good way.
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Gon into chat rooms and start talking to other bi females, as you get more comfortable with it, ask if there is any living in your area, you could maybe meet them in a club, and go from there.
533255
At this point it doesn't matter if your hubby is gay or not.  You have reached a point in your relationship where you do not trust your husband to be open and honest with you.  You have resorted to asking millions of strangers online about a very personal and private distrust between you and your spouse.  I suggest ending the relationship or accepting your husband EXACTLY as he is and love him like you promised to do at your wedding.\n\nIt is very possible that your husband is bisexual, but CHOSE to dedicate his life to you.  \n\nI pray you haven't had children yet.
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I want to meet Playfultoyz - my kind of woman.  Seriously tho - sit down and talk with your husband.  That is not normal and something is going on.  Get the truth out of him and see where you need to go from their (professional help or divorce).  Don't cheat as you will lose your own self respect.  Flirting is OK - it makes us all feel good!  But don't take it any further.  Resolve this issue first!  Best of luck!\nJoe
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Sit him down and tell him seriously.  Don't listen to these clowns and make it sound like you're on the bi bandwagon and cheap and sleazy.  Chances are he'll be into it, but if you tell him gently there'll be less a chance of him being shocked and feeling slighted.  AFTER you've told him gently and the two of you have talked about it like mature adults then y'all can have fun.  Good luck!
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There's some boundaries people shouldn't cross. That's one. Try not to be around him often,you can still be nice and talk to him,just don't so often. And if he's flirting with you then he's crossing a boundary. Don't flirt back & tell him it makes you uncomfortable cause he's married. And most importantly,find a guy that's AVAILABLE & loves you for you & you love him & I promise you'll get over Mr. Married. :)
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Dear Omar,\nAm sorry to hear about your wife. It must really be tuff to hold out like you have. In my opinion, I dont think she would damn you for taking on a female friend. I realize it gets lonely especially for a guy. I empathize with you.  You know, I understand you want to stay faithful and probably have thought, what if it was me. Well, my friend, you ARE being faithful, as far as I know. Only God is the judge of what you do. And God knows your heart, whether you are being malicious or not. I don't believe he wants you to be with out companionship. Now sex is another story. You will be taking on alot of guilt because you are not free of your wife in your mind or heart.And suppose you get so involved you fall in love with this person. Then what? Do you chuck your wife and go with her? It is such a fine line as to what to do in this case. I mean what do the docs say about your wife? Is she brain dead? Is she losing body mass by laying? Is she deteriating, What? I say, just be careful not to add additional problems to your life that you may not be able to handle. Choose someone that clearly understands the situation and keep it plotonic(yeah right, huh?). Its nice to know you have someone to talk to and go to dinner and have conversation with, right? To go for walks and the movies. I know what you are talking about. So really you have to make that call and when you do make sure you have a clear conscience.
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STOP LIKING THEM:). I mean look, if you are wanting to get involved with someone, don't get involved with a married man. It is not fair to you or his family. Maybe you are a type of person who looks for the thrill of a chase and not a commitment...lots of people who are attracted to married men are like that. I think what you should do is try to find someone who is unattached who you can be with and give them everything you can give them. It is much better for you in the long run, you will not feel guilty about having a man leave his wife or children, and you will feel better about yourself in the end as well! GOOD LUCK and success!
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Try to be very understanding even if its to hard for you to bare. Never ever put anyone outside your relationship other even your husband first. All males want a stronger and intelligent female of all kind.
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What if you met someone, fell in love and then they said they were bi, would you leave??  no way....  If you really like this person and this person wants to hook up with someone and this doesn't bother you, have some fun!