how do you tell a guy you like him and then ask him out but you are really shy?
462925
#1. u never tell a guy u like him, that will be ur biggest mistake.\n#2. never ask him out. if u do u will have to do all the running.\n#3. if a guy likes u he will ask U out. and if he doesnt....move on. BELIEVE ME
704599
If you're shy, you can start by talking to him about school, ask for homework help, stuff like that. After he's helped you, you can give him a little gift, or make him a thank you card. That'll show that you're interested in him without being pushy about it.\n\nIf you're really really shy, well, just smile at him whenever you can and find ways to get close to him, like join the clubs or classes he's in or get into projects with him. \n\nIf you're not shy, well, that's good, just go right ahead and ask him out. Don't be afraid just because nobody else is dating anyone else. It's your life and you must do what makes you happy.
227760
I used to be shy, so I know where you are coming from.  You have to take the lead on this one.  You have to ask him out and everything because he won't.  A shy boy will not know what to say to you because he can't think of anything.  Just make him comfortable with you.
420787
If you reallly like him, then approach him and let him know.  He may really like you too, and may be too shy to make the first move.
460343
Well if your shy sometimes it helps to try to joke about the subject.\n\nYou could walk right up to him and say "do you like girls?"\nHe answers yes.\nThen you ask well how about me.\nTada an easy and humorous way to ask even if your shy.
703466
well this guy is a pefect carbon copy of me.\n\nSo if you make a move on him he wouldn't look you down or anything, but as he is a man/guy he prefers to make the move. So what you basically need to do is to make it very easy for him so that he feels very comfortable to ask you out.\nI would say it wouldn't hurt if you become a bit bolder and show some confidence yet at the same time asure him that you are not embarrased by his shyness and you want him to ask you out. \nI know there are ways of doing this without talking much. I can't tell you since I am not a girl. But show him something. If you get the chance touch him ,like on his back or something. And show a lot of smile. The kind of smile the says " Come here baby, I want you" \nI still do believe he should make the move.\nI don't know this is exactly my problem. What I told you is what I think best if a girl acts in a way so that I would feel conmfortable talking to her.\n\nGood luck.
986722
Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
804711
sorry but that is the answer, you have to fight that shyness and be bold.  it doesn't have to come out as forceful.  Maybe your hints were too subtle.  Just casually mention, 'i really like you,' and just go on with the conversation. it doesn't have to focus on that issue. just be calm.
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
60525
Dear Ashley,\n\nI suggest being very honest with him and just saying "i like you"\n\nyou can also say something like "so do you like anyone?" and then talk about that until you're ready to tell him...that'll make it easier for you if you're nervous\n\nbut don't be nervous that he'll reject you...if he doesn't care, then he's not worth caring about\n\nthe only guy thats worth being upset over is the one that will never make you upset\n\ngood luck,\njohn
836997
honey,he likes you,and yet feels very shy.\nAw give this guy sometime to come around...and He will.\nTell him you are going out that night,would he be intersted in joining you?\nI bet he will say yes,if not yes he will say,he`ll see what he can do(wink........... yeah that means he will be there)\ngood luck*hugs*
980919
because secretly you might be afraid he does not like you the same way as you like him and this makes you nervous when you try to get the courage to tell him your feelings . when you have  a change to talk to him and tell him, just take a deep breath and say something like you know theres something i want to tell you and then take another deep breath ....lol and  say i really really like you alot . and you can go from there.
213500
A) Maybe You are intimidating. Make the first move on the guy you like. Young or shy guys have a big fear of rejection.\n\nB) Be more friendly. Hint on the guys you like. Flirt a little.
187207
Just keep talking to him.  Bump up against him when your talking to him.  At some point you may even have to get bold once your comfortable with him and make the first serious move of asking him out or holding his hand, or just sending him a note.
757846
Hmmm... Alot of people will say, then just HINT him! Drop obvious hints to tell him you like him.\n\nIn my point of view, you can like ask him, to the activities you are orgranising, get him to help out.. or you can ask him out for coffee. Basically small gestures, saying hey I want to know you more, I am interested. Doing all these actions, also need not mean that you like him as well. As many close friends of mine will do this kind of invites, to ensure the friendship between each other is not broken.\n\nThe best option in my point of view, is to invite him out for shopping, with your friends or alone. Do be sure to get some of his friends, if you are going out with yours. If not it will be very strange for him.\n\nI hope that helps! Do Message me, if you have any other questions. \n\nCheers!
992611
I'm exactly like him.  Too shy to tell someone I like them.  My suggestion is to tell him you like him and ask if he feels the same, and wants to get to know each other.  I'd love it if a girl did that, would make life so much easier for me and other shy guys like me hehe.
913307
you need to talk to him..dont leave it alone thats the worst thing to do if you want him to notice your feelings for him you need to start talking if you are to shy you need to boost your confedence..try to talk into a mirror or something like that make sure you dont sound a little of when you tell him...and make sure you do it face to face its alot more atractive if you do it that way.