Would a guy have any reason to lie about being a virgin?
461175
Just off the top of my head:\n * To be "special" to the lady in question - offering virginity is a precious gift\n * To show that they were safe from STDs\n * To show that they have strong will, and that you are the one to break it down.\n * Wants her to take the lead - it is FUN to be seduced.
87174
Sorry your question can get no reply because male people just have no virginity, or to precise, they have no organ predisposed for that purpose.\nIn fact, women have the “Hymen” inside the vagina and any intrusion (as well as the penetration during the first sexual act) breaks it unalterably.  \nMen have the penis with no such system and generally, we say that a guy is virgin when he hasn’t have yet a sexual intercourse. Therefore, you can never verify if a guy has already had an intercourse and you have only to trust in what he will tell you!
682179
Not if the man is a virgin too.
544867
I'm a virgin and you're not? just a guess haha
708504
I am 38 and I have had an experience meeting a woman that was a virgin still at 24.  She was apologetic and very shy.  I don't think you should feel bad for being a virgin.  Everyone has a first time - some sooner some later.\n\nAt least being older he would hopefully find your honesty appreciative.  Tell him as a matter-of-fact when an intimate conversation comes up.  Don't sound as though you are making a big deal of it.\n\nAnd if he is hesitant or steps back, just respect it and move on.  There's absolutely nothing to be ashamed about who you are darling :-)  Good luck.
1114264
Does he think you’re a virgin? I think you should tell he just what you told all of us. If he really loves you this should not be the determining factor to whether or not the two of you’ll get married. He really should be understanding about this small “oversight”.
867025
Okay, I'm not going to even go into asking why you weren't honest with him in the first place. . .but to your actual question, he CAN'T tell that you're not a virgin. Some girls don't bleed their first time, you know. Actually, it happens a lot. And if he loves you, it won't matter.
78368
No there is nothing wrong to being a virgin at 18 and you shouldn't be concerned about what guys think be secure with yourself in being a virgin.Losing your virginity is not a race.I lost my virginity at seventeen and I wish I had waited because I lost it to the WRONG guy and truely regret it.But it is just my opinion that guys like virgins.You are fresh and un-touched.You have got something going on that alot of girls don't.Guys like the idea of having something that nobody else had.My guy knows I am not a virgin but just the thought of another guy that has been up in there causes him to cringe he doesn't want to think about it.Be proud you are not a hoochie that gives it up to every body that gives you a second look or shows interest and be very selective to whom you give your virginity to.
454795
since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
397288
Looking at their hymen is NOT a way to tell if a girl is a virgin. The only way to know is to ask and trust that she's not lying.
1008099
You should not be ashamed of being a virgin.  If you choose to be, then no one else has a right to put you down for it.  You are making the best decision in saving yourself for the right person.  You may of had chances back then, but you realize that maybe you aren't ready.  People should respect that.  If that is your choice, then don't be ashamed.  Be proud!
455092
No, it doesnt really matter..coz if she can accept the fact that im not a virgin, well so can I...
1046175
no... you really can't. Sorry about your sitch, but that's... not even close to the truth. Even if it was only ONE guy, it still counts.\n\nOn the other hand, who cares? virginity ain't all it's cracked up to be anyway, and it's really nobody's business except for your next partner, and if you two really care about each other, it won't matter.\n\nBe honest. don't even try to fake this one.
1075463
non virgin but act like a virgin ..
303886
Only shallow people give this more than a second thought.  Who cares how many people you have/have not slept with.  Lets face it, you can never win anyway.  If you sleep with people you get called a whore/man whore and get a reputation of being untrustworthy, dirty and fickle.  If you do wait and are a virgin, you get called frigid, there is huge pressure on when will be your first time.  If you leave it long enough it can become a social stigma.  Just look at the film 40 year old virgin.  \n\nBasically your damned if you do and damned if you don't.  so just forget about it.
549491
yes i am still a virgin. and i'm intending to stay this way until marriage ^_^
1186458
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.