i like a girl and want to tell her. but i don't want to freak her out. what can i do?
460269
if there are hints that she likes you go ahead and tell her. If she pretends that she doesn't know you exist or is always mean to you, that is the first sign of her liking you. But before you do anything you should probably show some signs you like her BUT MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE NOT OBVIOUS!
109259
If you like her and she likes you,then there is nothing that can stop you,not even distance. Just tell her how you feel.
462595
Ask her can you have a quick word alone. Tell her that you are a bit nervous but if you dont tell her whats on your mind, you may regret it forever. (she will apriciate you for having the bottle to do and say this).  Tell her that you realy like her and it would be great if she will go out with you OR if she will be your girl (but dont go over the top). It would be nice to get a positve response, but be prepared for a negative one. DO NOT worry about a negative response as this may stop you taking action. And besides you will get over it in a few hours. Make a decision, do it, or dont do it. ASAP.
1011542
I think you have a few choices (and yes I'm a girl, by the way!).  You could ask her out, which implies that you like her.  You could tell her you like her, which might be a little more awkward because you're just coming out and saying it, and I think this might be harder since you're shy.  You could ask her on a group outing, like if a bunch of people are going out to coffee.  This would give you the chance to "feel her out" and see if she goes and whether she acts interested in you.  Or you could do nothing (not the recommended choice!). \n\nIf you tell her you like her or ask her out, she will be flattered whether she says yes or no.  I know that even if I'm not interested in a guy, It's nice to be asked and I never think he's a freak or anything.  Of course you don't want to be rejected-who does?  But I think it's worth the risk.  Otherwise, you might wonder about this girl for the rest of your life!  And if it makes you feel better, I'm pretty shy around guys too.  :)\nGood luck!  Hope she says yes!
1106359
Talk. Don't hold back and just tell the girl your feelings. It may be difficult but it is the only way she'll really know how you feel. That is what most girls look for, a sensitive guy and one that isn't afraid to come forward, because many girls are too timid to say something. Then simply feel it out from there. Ask her to date or what have you. But no better way than to talk.
676862
unfortunatly you can't, you probably didn't want  to hear that, but its up to the person if they like you or not, you can make yourself more attractive to her but don't become something your not, that will put her off quick.
758551
okay, you need  to stop worrying about whether this girl is a potential girlfriend when you talk to her. Rather, whenever you are going to talk to her, try to think of having a potential firned, rather than a potential girlfriend. This should help with the nerves issue. As for things to say, people love to talk about themselves, so ask her about her interests and hobbies, and pay attention to what she says, so that you can enquire about that thing in a later conversation (this proves to her that you're genuinely interested in what she has to say). For example, if you ask her about her hobbies and she tells you she likes movies, then the next time you see her then you could say, "hey, have you seen (insert movie title)?" and if she has by some small miracle seen that movie, you've now got at least five minutes of conversation right there. Good Luck, try to be confident and remind yourself that you rock!!! :)
575555
If you can muster up the courage to do it in person, just go up to her and tell her that you are attracted to her or you like her.  Tell her that she doesn't have to say anything but that the ball is in her court.  If you can, tell her that you were shy to say this and, if she is, she could just send you a note.  If she does, ask her.  It takes a lot to just do it.  But, you may be glad you did.  If she doesn't respond, she may still like you and be very shy or she just doesn't feel the same.  Nothing lost on your part.  But, you will be able to ask someone else.  Good luck.
709548
be honest and tell her how you fell...if she likes you, great, if not, you'll be sad but at least you won't be wondering anymore
410643
I would say try to grab her attention in a subtle way, going little steps and then after a couple of times you have seen each other, tell her you really like her.\n\nimo it may be too abrupt to just go and say 'i like you' because she may not feel the same. Remember the Doors's song : 'Don't move too fast...if your want your love to last'. I really believe in that!
200280
Well you could try and make sure that she knows that you respect her and like her for who she is. And really there is no shortcut to your dillima. You cant sugar coat it and be around the bush or she might never know how you feel about her. You pretty much have to straight up tell. It wont be easy and she might not want to go to the next level but either way you should just tell her. And who knows she could want the same thing and she just bin to shy to tell you. Anyways good luck!!!
336549
Those three little words are the hardest things to say so you have a good reason to be shy. Here's a suggestion, write a journal about how you feel about her. You would have the sense that she would never find out so you would feel more comfortable about it. Then let her read it...from the clues she would know your talking about her and she would know exactly how you feel without having to make you feel uncomfortable.
255846
listen , you can always confess in a good friend and especially when you know she likes you too.you can tell her that since she is so close to you she has the right to know about such matters , plus, she is the one you think has the right to know before anybody else.you can tell her that you are just revealing your feelings as the first and foremost pillar of friendship is trust and honesty and that after revealing yourself she is free to treat you as she wants and that nobody would ever take her place , may it be friendship or love.you can tell her that you dont see her as a 'girlfriend' but as a girl who means more than a friend in every possible way. \n\nhope i helped. you know its always better to tell the truth than to keep it bottled up inside.the worst that can happen is that she wont agree.atleast you would find comfort in the fact that you told her what you felt and didnt hide anything.you can make her realise it too.
204760
How do you tell a girl that you like her so much?\n\nWELL the best advice I can give you is if you don't know her that great- DON'T tell her. Not yet at least.\n\nPlay it cool buddy, pretend at first that your interested in just being friends, then pretend like a crush is forming, then ask her out on a date, if she says yes then date her casually for a while, then ask her to be your girlfriend, be her boyfriend for a while and THEN you tell her. \n\nMost girls if they don't know you all that well will be quite turned off by a guy just flat out telling her that he really likes her. Take it slow.. I hope everything works out in your interest = )
328199
Well, if you're gonna tell them, there's no way not to be obvious.  Just tell 'em, no point in being embarrassed...so what, you like them.  If you tell them you'll most likely know how they feel too. If they don't like you, then you can focus on moving on.  But if they like you too, then bingo, things could work out.\nNo matter what you do, stop thinking about embarrassment...think about the person.  \nTry to get them in person in a comfortable place (like after school, at the mall, outside, coffee shop)  or give 'em a cute note asking to hang out sometime (give it to them, not their buddy who could read it first...that way you don't have to put ur name on it either which could save any possible embarrassment if he turns out to be a jerk.  Good luck!
164000
Don't be nervous, chances are if she likes you she's probably more nervous than you are. ;)\n\nIf you guys don't usually hang out…Get a group of friends together and tell her that a bunch of friends are going to go ___________ and tell her it'd be awesome if she came with. That way you have a group date, and there won't be any awkward silences, but you’ll still get to know her.
637360
I think you should just believe in your self. Believe that you are comfindent and you will be. Your the only one who says you have no self confidence. I belive you do. So just believe in yourself and this girl thing will be no problem. You never know she may like you to. And this shaking stuff is just nervous. Just say something random. Just say anything to her and you'll get over the whole nerve thing. Well Good luck even if you dont take my advice.