im in love with my girlfreinds freind?
472948
Stop, drop, and don't go any further. First you'll lose that girl and the your girlfriend will hate you and then you'll get the reputation of a gigolo (well the negative things of being a gigolo).
785728
If you really love your girlfriend you would have never cheated on her in the first place. So ask yourself this... do you REALLY love her? You already broke her heart when she found out about you and your friend. You seem to be confused, what you need to do is hurry up and make up your mind. If your gonna leave her then hurry up and do it so you don't keep on continuing to hurt her(since you say you dont want to hurt her) Losing someone in a relationship hurts so she needs to do it only once, not over and over again. Let her start her healing process. And if you do want to stay with her, then are you ever going to cheat on her again? You need to ask yourself this. Yes she may have messed around before but you still chose to stay with her.....and two wrongs don't make a right. Have you really forgiven her for cheating on you? Ask yourself that as well. You start with yourself, be alone for awhile somewhere away from both women to think about you and what you want. If you second guessing a relationship your in then it's obvious that your not truely happy.  Good luck!
76712
thats the way it ALWAYS is - its your bestfriend that always gets your significant other ... if your friend is worth it just dont do it ... maybe later ...
758499
just keep going and be a good supportive freind. if things dont work out later on btw her and your other freind that she is dating then there is your chance
331510
try to keep your distance...she is taken already...it's not wise to love a girl with a bf...
1105904
stay with your girl, bcause you know she alreddy luvs you. if you break up, then go for it
1036169
Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues. \nLove! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!\nNow, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right? \nIn the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!\nALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!\nNow, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?\nIt all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...\nI might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
581816
talk to her...tell her that you love her but you really need to have time off together with your friends like she does...she's probably scared of what you might do if she's not around...so ensure her that you love her and you just want time with your friends because they need you too...tell her to think of this as time to miss each other so there's more "spark" when you are together again..
729967
if you have a desire to b with someone else, then you dont wanna b with her, YOU DONT LOVE HER, tough its not right to want to be with her best friend, youre playing with fire there, leave the girl and find yourself someone that is NOT her friend, there are plenty of girls out there for you to go after the one that you know will cause you trouble, sounds like youre young, the girl youre with now, or the one you meet tomorrow might not be the one for you, but still you have to go triugh the experience, just learn from it
303747
tlk to her about it and tell her how u feel about it etc u should have no secrets tell her that and tel her u love her maybe she doesnt think u love her :) good luck and have fun cya
591218
if u truly believe that u dont love ur gf and u know that u will be happier with the new girl go ahead. follow ur heart and ur head,where ever it leads, follow.
322705
He's already taken! Yes, it may seem that you guys are meant for each other but you may not know him well enough, he may love his girlfriend in a way you may not understand and what you can do is to invite him and his girl and your friend to something and you can analze how strong his relationship is with his girl. Even if it is weak, if you guys are meant for each other, he'll come to you.
307998
You love who you love.  If you think you are in love with her, see if she is into you and then go from there.
279766
Talk in a direct way if you love her ,she is your freind why you worry aabout that?
526572
See where it goes. From the outside looking in, without details, I would say you are blessed. Every woman should be so lucky to fall in love with her best friend and vise versa. Knowing that you have found someone who can truly appreciate all that you can bring into his life is a wonderful feeling. \nAnd the same with you, knowing what his faults and strentghs are, put you both ahead in the game of love.\n\nEnjoy it, in my opinion, you are both blessed.
651916
Let me be honest with you... Are you absolutely sure that you're in love with two girls? Or do you like them out of friendship? Have you ever thought of that? Maybe you just adore one of them because she helped you with something and the other girl is someone you have liked longer than the other girl. \nIt is possible to be in love with two girls. But remember these girls are not objects. They are not to be used, understand? But they should be nice to you as well. you should know who you are most happy with. \nSo this is my answer to your question or more likely an advice...he...he... Bye!!!
448866
i have been dating one of my bestfriends ex-boyfriend, and weve been together for 3 years, we also plan on getting married. You cant help the person you fall in love with, and who are you to stop something that could be one of the best things that could happen for your best freind? if she really is your best friend then treat her as such dont let something like that bring your friendship down. let them try and see if it wroks out for them, if it does just be glad she found something a lot of people dont get the chance to, and if it doesnt work dont give an i told you so, compfort her as you would if you didnt know the guy. Keep smiling and find you someone who you can have fun with a be real with.