Red flag I think. We talk on messenger. I have his cell phone number but not his home number.?
472819
Big time. The guy is married.
661915
don't call him anymore.. but if you reallyyyyy wanna talk to him (which you prob should just to clear things up) you could try sending a text or IM and seeing if he responds..
1043976
the best way to use messenger and add his Id as ur friend list. , If he signed his mobiles device(on his mobile no.) Even if he tunoff  his net he can be shown online on SMS for all the time Use Yahoo mesenger.!!
1143822
Do not apologize.  If he text messaged you after the accident, chances are the damage wasn't that bad.  Sounds like he's trying to manipulate you and make you feel guilty for something he's doing.  He has already gotten you to text him after you resolved not to.  This guy is just messin' with you and it will get worse.  You take care and watch out.
963722
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
402572
There are two big issues here that make his story suspicious.  I can believe that someone would txt message the wrong number once.  But why didn't he block that number and why is he giving his wife the silent treatment.  There is never an excuse for giving someone the silent treatment unless you feel guilty yourself.  And blocking a number is pretty easy to do.  I would be very suspicious.
64231
Hey little buddy! Sounds like you stepped into a big bucket of stuff there. Just goes to show it dosen't pay to try and be nice. This guy must be some kind of freak. The sad part is I'm sure he has done this same thing before. With a nut like this all it takes is a simple HI from a pretty girl and they automaticaly hear "Take me now, I want you for ever and I'll bear your demon seed" What's even sadder than that is he may end up hurting somebody. I'm glad you realized that and ran. The guy needs a  12 step program to stop the voices that are not there. Oh---The only time you should have to put your life on hold is if you have children. They would come first no matter what. Otherwise no man or no one can tell what you will or can't do. And for gods sake, don't be givin' out your danm phone number or address. Be safe and happy
659176
Do you think that him having to "change his number" will stop him from contacting your friends (or vice-versa)? Because it won't! Where there is a "demand", there is a ready "supply", and even if you manage to cut off that "source", your friends (if they want it bad enough)- will find a new one. If you don't like what's going on, find new friends, or, give the phone-number to your local police department. You could type it, and not sign your real name or a name at all. My best advice though, would be to find yourself some new like-minded friends to hang out with.\n-\nTera (time4u420@yahoo)
890661
Depends.  If he gave you his number, then he wants you to call, but if you somehow "found" this number then no.
347520
Dont be fool by givin him a chance like that..First find out his details and be sure of his privacy..May be he is a play boy..^ may be he gots lot of guls like u on messenger...Nowadays its very hard 2 believe someone like that..One of my friend also had a bad time with an online love..Beware of them p/z ..best of luck
409062
Why are you messaging your ex boyfriend? I think you are creating drama for yourself. So wallow in it, you deserve it.
998194
Block your number and call him or get someone else like your friend to call and ask for him to see if he's really there. One question: if you think he's home, wouldn't he come on the phone since you are his GIRLFRIEND?
519826
well, lots of different things going on here,\n\nit is a possibility that he left his charger and had no juice in his phone, your number is stored in his phone.\n\nthat seems plausible since there are plenty of people at my work running around constantly asking if anyone has such and such charger for their phone.  i also know that i do not remember any phone numbers for anyone except a few individuals, like my best friend, but thats about it, but i also have those numbers stored in my PDA so i can always look up a number.\n\nfunny thing about cell phones, if you dial it and it goes straight through to voicemail then the phone is off, if it keeps ringing then goes through to voicemail then the phone is on, if it rings and after every ring there is a short and strange beep (you have to listen carefully) then the phone is on and currently in use.  but it is also strange that he FORGOT your number since you are his GF.\n\ndepending on what the voice message from the other girl was about and how the phone was ringing when you tried to call him there might be a situation brewing on the horizon, i do not think you are to blame or bad for snooping since your suspiscions have been raised by a good reason, do some investigating and confront him, he should have a valid explanation for this
57084
from what you say you only danced with him a few times and he got your name and number and you did not give it to him. and now he comes to your house you did not say wether or not you gave him your address or if he found that to. and now he wants to marry you. Well let me tell you he is a physco. i bet you realised that already. i went to pay my electric bill i called on the phone and started talking to the man that was on the other end. we ended up starting to talk outside of his company. he lived in another state. one day he got on a plane came to my home and said he wanted to get married. i did not no what to say because i thought stalker. within two days a call came in and it was from his daughter that did not no where he went to and did not no who i was. the story finally ends when i found out he has been wanted for 10 years and in 3 different states and i worked closely with them to capture him. now he is in prison. what i am saying to you is you do not no him. why all of a sudden do you think he would become that attatched to you. you need not to worry about his feelings because you need to worry about yourself. you do not no what he really has in store for you. and i would make it clear that he is not to cantact you again and that is it. you do not need to explain anything to him. this is not your problem it is his. if he does call you again then take the steps that you told him you would. be firm and good luck
890417
I wouldn't call him.  It sounds like he's changed his mind.  Move on.  If he does call, ask for an explanation.
320797
he's taking the time to message you..maybe he's just busy this week. don't worry about it unless it becomes a way of life. but in the meantime find ways to be busy yourself, it sounds like you have made this guy your whole life and that is never good, you can't be part of a couple without also being yourself.
1116272
Report him to the dating service you are using. This is a well known scam. They use the Nigeria scam on other sites as well. No one should ever send money to people they meet on the internet! I listed one of the many sites that explain these scams. Good luck and Be careful