is it okay to have a gay Friend  who likes boys and his a boy?
467501
Sure it's okay to have gay friends. I don't think there is anything wrong, it's like having a friend who is a different religion, as long as they don't impose their beliefs on me, I'm ok with it. So as long as your gay friend doesn't impose his beliefs on you, it's ok.
66489
Get to know him. Mention a news story that you've seen on gay people or a friend you know is gay or tell him that you are gay/bi, and ask him what he thinks. If he reacts well to gay issues, just tell him you like him. Even if he doesn't feel the same way towards you, if he's comfortable with gay people you can still be friends.
509792
You are a guy, and he is a guy, right?  Makin sure I understand the question.  True friends are the BOMB, but if you are a guy and not gay, then just tell him like it is - you like women, you love him as a friend, but ya just don't go that way ... if he's a true friend, he'll understand and won't hold it against you.  You've been brave and strong enough to be his friend - even though he's gay and you're not ... if I'm getting this right - you've gotta be true to yourself just as he is true to himself.  Just put it out on the table the way it is ... the truth is always the best policy.  You might tell him if you were gay, he would be the first one you'd come to, but you're not.  He'll appreciate your honesty I think, and you will be closer friends for it.  And if I'm wrong and you're a female with a gay best friend - they are good friends, and I've found, real, honest, down-to-earth people, so....same advice.
518071
well If I was you I would wait till a good time(you'll know) then tell them that you are curious and you would feel uncomfortable with anyone else and since I am already gay,there will be no strings or emotional ties after wards. I would just break it down like its an uncomfortable issue but you couldn't think of a more comfortable friend to experiment with. "Use Protection"!
203073
depends who the gay person is maybe i would as a friend
1106561
There's nothing wrong with liking both genders. Recent scientific studies have shown people are born with predispositions towards being straight, bisexual or homosexual. Its important for you to explore these feelings. Dont attempt to hide them inside, or lay lies on top to make it go away. A few years ago there was a study done in England's mental wards and they found a significant portion of patients had had bisexual tendencies that were suppressed. Dont do that to yourself.
545567
You say there's nothing wrong with being gay. Tell your brother that and then tell him that you think he might be gay because of what he said to your friend. There's nothing like being up front with people for getting an honest answer. You'll just have to trust him to be honest back.\n\nFirst person I came out to was my brother. He had no idea I was gay but everybody knew he was okay with gay people so I trusted him. He didn't betray my trust and he was way cooler about the whole thing than I could have hoped. Good luck with your bro :-)
379687
it's really hard to tell someone's sexual preference these days, as i'm sure you know. i've never had to deal with this kind of situation before so my advice might be a lil spotty. i think you should just try and be friends with him for awhile at first and see if you can tell by just talkin to him. if that doesn't work and you feel comfortable enough then you should ask him. just be patient and see what happens. it could just turn out that he'll be a really good friend but not gay. you never know
253304
That seems normal. Be happy you have a good friend who can be so honest with you, he knows he's not going to ever have a chance with your bf - who is obviously straight. That is why he told you - he is good friends with you and is comfortable telling you anything.
583280
liking someones company and wanting to be intimate are two totally different things. He's respecting you and the decision that you have made as far as your sexual orientation, why not do the same for him. That's the quickest way to ruin a friendship.So just suck it up and drive on. If it becomes too much of an issue for you you might have to rethink your friendship w/him.
250537
Nothings wrong with liking two boys at the same time as long as you're not having sex with them. Now the two brother deal is always a very bad idea.
460368
Hell yes.. I've have been friends with 2 guys from the time we were 6 years old.. and it's always been just that a good friendship. \n\n(they are not gay or anything.. they are great guys)
732987
why not?? you're a human being and human beings have friends... not only gay or lesbian friends cause you're gay, but all kinds of friends :)
75561
i got a friend w/ a similar problem. exept that the boys are also both perfect, sexy, and SOOOO nice to her! i hope people can help u and my friend also.
831628
i dont think a person should be judged on weather they r gay or not personally i could never do it but i have gay friends and they r like ne other human being except they get critized for something they cant control just be there for ur frind and dont let ne thing ne body else says influnance u
53879
ofcourse not\nbut he should ask him that he wanna be his friend\n\ni will never make friend to someone that people think he is a gay
774366
Yes, it is possible. I have several male friends who are straight. We even talk about other people we go out with together. It's not a big deal. We enjoy each others company but in a purely platonic way.