Other than catching the person in the act or hiring a detective how would you catch a cheating spouse?
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You can buy a device at radio shack you connect to your phone and your phone jack (hides easily) will record both ends of the phone conversation and only records when the phone is being used. Also you can set up an account online with cell phone company to view your bill online which should show you call detail as far as who he is calling....it worked for me! Hope that helps. Aside from all this detective work let just say that if you think its going on chances are you are right! I hope it all works out for you and if this is what's going on know that you deserve better. Without him you could be happy without all this.  Good Luck!
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role play, hide a video camera and tape your sex session then put it in the VCR so your spouse accidentally finds it.  they will be turned on and it will be a good experience for you.
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no free websites that i'm aware of. If your wife is suspicious of someone for a good reason, you maybe able to go down to your local police station and have them check. If she's just being nosey (which all of like to do) then you may have to throw down a few bucks.
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Hire a private detective, or better yet, get another boyfriend or a therapist.
101365
the best way is to catch hime in the act with evidence.
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take it to the police \nhonesty is better than living with guilt
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Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
467124
Kick your cheating husband out of the house, and tell him to go live with her.
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you might try a private investigator....
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TAKE HIM FOR HIS WORDS.\nThe only sign that a spouse is cheating is when he/she becomes cold and seems to be lying a lot.\n\nJUST BE A GOOD WIFE (sexy, presentable, decent, smart, skillful, etc.) and pray for your husband that God will protect him from being tempted by other ladies out their.\n\nI wish you a happy marriage.
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If the police come and question you, you can pretty much assume they already know most of the details of what took place and are just tying up lose ends. You might be able to fool your husband if he is there when the police question you but, you won't be able to fool the police. They can tell when someone is lying. Since your not saying what the crime is, I will just say this. If it is serious then you would be better off being totally honest with your husband. If the police question your husband and he doesnt know the whole story, the police will know that too. Your husband may find out that you were not completely honest with him and he might question whether or not there was any truth to what you told him. Your children don't have to know at this time and may never have to know.
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Hire a dick (detective) to keep tabs on him and the girl, if you wanna catch em red handed.\n\nAsk yourself - will you be able to face the truth?\nts
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Go ask the local police.
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install a keylogger /spy  on his computer, on that does not show up in taskmanger, one that sned te dat remotely is also good ( so you can retrieve from email from another computer ),\n\nspying on husband is not illegal ( in the context of marriage, a spouse cannot expect privacy from another )\n\nhttp://www.waresight.com/\n\nhttp://www.keylogger.net/
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If you know where he is it will help, but even if you don't, if you are a wife, (common-law or otherwise) or a relative you can talk to your local police office, explain your concerns, and ask them to do a criminal check on him. This will tell you what the charges are. In my part of the world, a woman can ask police to run a criminal check on her boyfriend or significant other before introducing him to her family (or even afterwards if concerns arise). Smart women are following through on this more and more often, these days.
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have you ever considered putting a tape recorder in his vehicle underneath the seat, i mean we all talk on our cell phones when we are on our way to and from work right, what about following him, there are ways for you to find out trust me, you just need to be smart and opened minded and think of things, when he tells you he going somewhere follow him after he leaves, start asking questions about everything, check his email, his wallet, his call log in his cell phone, sonner or later like useal the truth will reveal itself no matter what, I do think if he was cheating you would have all the signs already and just simply have this unbarable gut feeling inside of you, if you feel that then he is, of course you will feel the distance, his lying, his comeing home late, him turning off the cell phone, all the normal things, if your really worried about hire a private investgator that way he can be on you side if you should have to ever file for divorce or for custdoy becuase these days whoever is the cheater and they can prove he cheated the women gets everything from him, childsupport, alimony, he may even have to continue to par your car insureance and your health insurance i know this for sure, good luck and i hope you find everythihng that you looking for, just prepare yourself for the worse as it may really break your heart to find the truth
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call the FBI or the State police