What Should I Choose To Be ??
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Stick with being assitant monitor.  There seems to be little growth or promotion opportunities beyond Head Librarian.
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Choose which ever one you like better and could see yourself with in the future. Don’t let looks control everything, other wise you could end up with a total air head. Do whatever you think is the best for you and makes you happy!
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BE yourself! Do what you want to do.
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It sounds like right now you shouldn't choose either.  You need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you really want. Otherwise you're going to end up getting hurt or hurting them in the process.
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Light b, you have the freedom to be anything you want to be.  Your choices are like the steering wheel of a car.  Each choice you make in a certain direction moves you more in that direction.  You are not a victim, you are a free spirit.  If you don't want to be gay, then don't make choices that are gay choices...make choices that are more in line with who you really are.  Don't let any one else tell you who you are, be who you are and be authentic.  Feelings are like the weather, they move and flow along, change, multiply...they are not constant.  If you have certain feelings fine...they will just move by if you don't grab onto them.  They can be like clouds just passing through.
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Grow up for a start!\nIs that REALLY what you want to do?!\nThink about it before you make a big mistake!
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Be yourself.  Don't be swayed by what others say or think if it doesn't ring true in you.\n\nFollow your heart.  Don't let your dreams get shoved aside because they're not "practical" or "no money in it".  Life is so much more than a paycheck.\n\nBe patient with love and choose carefully for life.  It takes time to find the right one.  Don't be afraid to "not settle".  But when you know it's right, hold on and don't let go.
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you'll probably never be 100% sure what you want to do with your life. pick something you are interested in and work hard at it. if you end up hating it, there's nothing wrong with changing your mind later!  good luck!
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Stop and take some time to meditate. Think of your past and what it is you would like to change. That should give you an insight into what you are looking for in your future and build from there. Good luck.:)
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Pick the best one - It has to be your decision
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You should know at this point in life which one you want to be with.  Nobody can make that decission for you.  None of us know the real circumstances.  Your an inteligent person, just make the right choice.  Or, maybe, your just acustome to your X-B.  Maybe what you need is alittle space to make the right decission.  Just be sure you do make the right choice.  It's your future we're talking about...   Dr Checko...   (Nickname)
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This is a really hard question for everyone.  My advice would be to explore jobs that you think you may like. Shadow some people who do the jobs that you think you may like to do.  Talk to professors at college and ask them about the subjects they teach.  I found out what i wanted to be becuase I just kept asking people why did you choose this and how did you know this is what you wanted to do what do you like about it?  If you dont know and you are trying to choose a school i would choose a school with a lot of majors so you can explore and change your mind if necessary. Goodluck!
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i think that i would choose to be just me. and you know why?\nbecause we are given one single life, and wether we are good or bad, we have to live just the way we are. and if you want to be somebody else, i think you should reconsider, because you are unique and special in your own, personal way and you should accept yourself just like that. thinking of being someone else is just a weakness and we should be strong and accept everybody and especially ourselfs with the personality that is given to us, so... believe in you and live you life first with yourself.. and than the others, dora
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I was in the same boat you are years ago.  My suggestion is, do some research on various religions.  Find what fit's your morals, ethics, and beliefs.  What makes sense to you.  And here's a secret: Your path can be unique and not be like everyone Else's.  I looked at nature and the world around me, figured out what kind of person I would like to be.  What I believed in, and what made sense. What ever i was comfortable believing.  I've read MANY books.  Just because I agreed with one part, doesn't mean the whole book is law.  Books are the authors views and meant as a resource, not law.  Have fun, be picky, and be true to yourself.  Don't let peer pressure depict who you are.  BB Sdw
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i dont know if i could choose!!!
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don't worry - everything you want to be is ok. its your decision - even though sometimes it get hard if you have people around you who would not accept your lifestyle....
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do something that no one else does.\n\njust be different; they will pick you.\n\n: )