Am i jealous?Did i make a mistake when i brkoe up wit my ex?
471969
What?  I have no freaking idea what your question is anymore.  I am not even certain of who broke up with whom. I am not sure if you got back together again or what.
955717
Your relationship with your ex is not completely over, you don't have closure OR you were so content in the  relationship you cannot adjust to the change fast enough.\n\nYou have to analyze your feeling honestly and openly and you will get the answer.
251364
You missed your chance with him and now you are out of luck.  He has moved on and made his choice so let him go and find a single guy to chase after.  If he is doing it to just make you jealous then don't play his games because you deserve to be treated better.
1027491
Take some time for you. Your ex is your ex for a reason! If the new guys really wants to help than he'll understand that you need to be your own person for awhile. That wall is up because Mr. Right hasn't found a way in.
392280
hmm, tough one.\n\nI don't know the situation that you and him had that made you to break up.  But I'm guessing that he might have broke up with you.  Does not really matter much either way cause the end result is the same.... you two are not together.\n\nI think though that you did not have closure over the breakup and that you have feelings for him.\n\nWell, we see that he has moved on and that he has someone else now.  You feeling jealous seems to me that you still want to be with him.\n\nThink hard to yourself, why you two broke up?  Cause if you caught him cheating or the love wasn't really there after sometime....  Then getting back together MIGHT not work.  I'm guessing that you did not have a messy breakup since you guys are still friends.\n\nYou might be trying to hold on to memories of the good old times and think that maybe if you got back together you will have that again.  Trust me, it will never be exactly the same.  And actually its a proven fact that the human mind remembers things with an amplified emotion... that is you remember this great place when you grew up but visiting back later, you notice its not the same.  Cause your expectations are going to be set really really high.  And when it does not happen the way you remember you'll be really devistated.\n\nIf I were you....  I would tell him about your feelings if you trully want to get back together with him.  Cause this is a choice you both have to agree on, not just you.  But if you don't want, then I would say cut all ties from him.\n\nGood luck!
870851
maybe she's tryna compare the 2 of u when ur not being good to her or becuz she was deeply in luv with him and cant get over him.,or maybe things u do reminds her of wat her and the ex use to have.just memories
682009
sorry to say but uve made ur bed now u gotta sleep in it.  I done the same thing last year me and my ex were going through a rough patch and i used that as an excuse to cheat i feltbad afterwards but my ex ended up finding out and even though we got back together we were never the same we could never find that spark we had in the beginning so we ended it.  It was very sad but were still friends just wish i hadnt made the mistake
131739
No, probably not.  A lot of people tend to play head games with their ex's just to prove to themselves that they could get them if they wanted to.  Odds are that he is your ex for a reason and that reason probably hasn't changed.
881000
Although things may be blurry right now, you made the right decison. I mean you had your reasons for breaking up with your ex, and it sounds like you made sure you were doing the right thing BEFORE breaking up. \n\nThe tricky part comes AFTER the break up. Things that were clear before breaking up, all the reasons you had, they just become blurry and you miss him so much that all you can think about is the good things you had and how maybe you really should be together. But that's just a defense mechanism, you just don't wanna go through all the pain that being apart from that person makes you feel. In that moment you should remember that you had your reasons for breaking up. You should also remember that there was no way of fixing the problem and that's why you had to end it.\n\nThis new guy may be rebound guy or not, no-one knows that. Maybe this new guy it's not right for you and that's all that there is to it. There's plenty of fish in the sea.\nIf I were you I just wouldn't try to get into anything serious until you feel free to do so. I wouldn't commit to anybody just yet. Just hang out and meet new guys and have some fun.
527247
It is natural to have feeling for the EX, just remember, there is a reason he's called EX, and you are the only one that really knows the reason for that, so as you began to get these warm feelings inside for the EX also remember what usually would happen after that warm thought would come remember the reality of why you made him an EX and EX-ommunicate your thoughts for even going in that direction, okay, Sista Girl.  Remember, you want your PRESENT to work out, so please, leave the EX, as an EX. He had your PAST, DON'T let him have your FUTURE.  PEACE.*
1102553
yeah i used to get into trouble for this with my ex, u have to get over it at the end of the day they r his ex's he did have a life before he met u. well that's what i used to get told anyway...hence he is now my ex. don't feel bad about it just make sure u don't nag him to much about it because he will ge3t annoyed with it! Just make sure a better girlfriend then they ever were! \n\ngood luck!
652185
Just tell him, you have wasted such a long time, tell and and get together and be happy. It will make your exspouses real jealous though, trust me
1166836
i think its normal to compare relationships. every person has their special qualities you may not see elsewhere. and since it seems that your previous relationship ended not so long ago, i think its still ok to somewhat miss the other at times. you shared a lot and here you are in a brand new relationship. it is possible that you did not completely get over the ex yet. give it time. you must also give your new relationship to develope depth and breadth and meaning in a way that you never had. it will happen.\n\ngood for you that your hubby is being so supportive. he sounds like the one.\n\njust know you're normal and that its ok. allow yourself to feel, don't squash it (out of guilt) every time it comes up, and you will get over it. g'luck!
910611
Hello:\n\nFirst off, I know exactly how you are feeling. My ex-boyfriend and I spent more time fighting than we did simply being happy with each other. It just got to be so frusterating. Ultimately I just decided that something wasn't working because we were arguing about the same few things. \n\nWe decided to sit down and have a serious talk about it. One of our main problems was that he was an incredibly jealous person, and I usually am not. He would get upset if he saw me talking to one of my guy friends. I have never ever been unfaithful to anyone and just could never do that to someone, and yet he always assumed that I was messing around behind his back. \n\nAnd then he would get frusterated that I was such a trusting person, and that I would never confront him for talking to another girl. So he started pushing the limits a little bit in order to make me jealous, and boy did it work. It just seemed that we were spending so much time hurting each other. And we agreed that the relationship wasn't working out. \n\nNow we are both in relationships, and we remain friends. And both of our relationships are much more successful than we ever were together. Some relationships just aren't meant to be. It was through that experience that I realized it isn't enough to simply love someone, there is more to making a relationship work. \n\nI would suggest having a serious talk with your girlfriend. Figure out which things you are fighting about most often, and I'm sure you will find a common thread. Then you need to decide if it's worth it to make an effort to fix the relationship, or if it's time to move on. \n\nI wish you the best of luck, and I hope this helps!
235473
Why would you waste precious time trying to prove something to someone who is a ex? I would have to guess if your trying to do this you still have feelings for him...K
338585
Your not doing anything wrong, he is a friend and if your bf becomes jealous maybe he isn't the right bf for you. Karma may come back on you but you have to determine if want to be with a jealous person.
425191
It seems to me that ur BF is trying to make u jealous.  I dont think that u should have to try to get him back.  I think u should get with someone else and see how it goes.  Who knows- maybe u can love someone else.