I have problems keeping my vagina wet during sex. What can I do to make it better?
462340
Use a good lubricant. If you're using condoms, you have to use a water-based lubricant. If you're not using condoms, try baby oil or petroleum jelly.
712517
sound like cystitis to me you need antibiotics and need to drink plenty of water to flush the bladder out but go to the doctors and tell him/her you worries and woes but next time you have sex please use a condom or you become just another statistic
934019
I have the same problem. My doc suggested keeping KY liquid handy (and even gave me a sample bottle). He also suggested astro glide (even though most people say it's for anal sex I find it's nice for vaginal). He said the reason why it is dry one day and wet the next has a lot to do with how you are feeling- if you have a head ache or are tired or aren't as into it as before. He didn't give me a medical explanation though.
834526
that used to happen to me sometimes, the inside of our vaginas are very fragile and can easily be slightly torn... no biggie as long as you are not gushing blood!! if its mainly when you wipe and a little on him after sex i wouldnt worry to much its most likely from sex that is a little rougher than normal
866189
maybe your skin is red and irritated because of the wetness. the wetness is normal , but change your underware more often , the wetness rubbs against your skin and irritates it . i watched the show talk sex with sue jonanson and a woman called an asked what she could do because she was wet down there and it interferred with her sex life , because if the wetness and she said you can get a pill for it , but she said the pill has consequences. She sais it was normal , theres nothing else she could say , but i think you should go to the doctor just to see whats wrong first !! \n\n* hope you get better
118125
stop trying to put the whole thing in there!!! i don't know any woman with a 14 inch long  vagina, so just stop!!! let her be on top so she can control the depth of penetration.
356454
try flexing your inner vagina muscles, the more you do this the stronger they'll get and when your having sex you flex them and your feel as tight as you were the first time.  if you don't know how to work out those muscles...when your peeing try and stop the urination it you can those are the muscles...just flex them all throughout the day and you should be good!
803421
You likely are using tampons and toward the end of the period, it is too dry and causes irritation.  Try only using pads the last day or two and then try a lubricant for sex the first day or two after.
658105
dont use your hips use your arms and keep your back, butt, and legs straight it helps me.\n also if your getting close pull out and take a second before going back in. try masterbating about 1-2 hours befor sex or drink some alcohol.\n sex should last at least 20 minuets for both you and her
1187644
Have sex in the shower!  There is no mess to clean up.  go to ivillage.com and they will tell you the positions to use!
423023
hahahahahahahahahha im laughing because your detail made was a joke referencde and if it wasnt rhen sorry if i offended, if your really struggling with your penis then use lubricant as your probarly not wet enough which means your masterbating right/ coz no girl would be that dry surly?????\n\nsee doc if worried
382851
if you relax and don't tense up, it won't hurt as much.  there is no way to make it totally not hurt, but that way you can minimize it.  if you do foreplay first, that will help too, and if you use lubrication, the less dry the less friction and the easier it is.
920189
first off are you on birth control pills or any other hormonal method?... if so you should talk to your doc and try a different one as many hormonal methods can cause dryness.  if not try lubricant. also try to empty your bladder before and after intercourse.  if you have to stop to go don't feel weird, just do it.  you probably should see a doctor and talk to them about this because you could have some kind of problem if you are needing to go to the bathroom that frequently.  also kegal exercise help to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles.  but if the muscles are tigthening up on their own this could also be a medical condition that you need to see your doctor about.
870869
Tell her: \nCotton underwear, loose pants, drink cranberry juice, go easy on the junk food, particularily anything sweet or superfatty, wash with mild soap and water, but do not wash inside the vaginal canal, she could upset the PH balance even more. There are good bacteria and bad bacteria, it is a very easily upset balance. Also, if she is using tampons, get the unscented ones and only as absorbent as she needs them. If she is sexually active, the activity needs to end until she is cleared up.\nTry getting a tube of Vagisil instead of just the wipes, and go to a doctor. She should only use medications or treatments if a doctor has diagnosed it as a yeast infection.
224933
Too much natural lubrication (wetness) during sex reduces pleasure for both partners. Females lose greater stimulation along the vaginal walls. Men lose out on the corresponding ‘tight’ sensation that they love. We all have an optimum level of friction that is required to enable heightened pleasure for both partners, thus leading to easier climax. This level of stimulation can most easily be obtained by experimenting with your wetness level. Sex could be much more satisfying than what you think it already is. \nA woman’s wetness level increases naturally as arousal increases. But for some ladies, even the slightest turn-on is enough to produce an extravagant amount of lubrication. If excess wetness is a problem for you, OR if you wish to simply experiment with different levels of wetness, seeking the most pleasurable ‘tight’ sensation for your man, what can you do?\n\nFirst, realize that there is more involved in sex than just the intercourse part of it. More women achieve orgasms by clitoral stimulation than by intercourse. However, intercourse is an intimate act & should be satisfying when possible. If it is not enjoyable, then a couple will more than likely become romantically distant. \nSecondly, you should see your doctor to be sure there is no infection, abnormalities, or other problem causing your excess wetness, especially if it is something new. \n\nI can understand what they're saying (above), but there are lots of different things to try and experiment with positions etc- it can't be as bad as too dry, which would be painful and awkward...
281225
Many women suffer from not having enought fluids in this area!  If you are talking about sex, a condom alone may not provide enough ludication.\n\nKy has other uses apart from the above to help women that may be dry and hence quickly become sore in such areas!
453157
try some special lube see how it works