oral sex makes me gag any ideas on how I can get over it?
465318
Don't have an*l before doing 69. Why don't you cover his banana with chocolate or something else to make it taste better. Don't deep throat, or you'll gag.
490553
It is called nymphomania. Look it up. Yes you can be helped. Seek counsling or go the doctor to be checked for STD'S, and AIDS that will make you stop for a while. Guaruntee!
10854
don't stick your tongue down her throat the first time and choke him.  Move your lips with hers and enjoy the ride. Ever see the movie Hitch?  Don't pucker your lips up like Mr. Brenneman did...all hard and stiff.  Keep your lips soft like a sponge. Aiming for the bottom part of the lips is nice too.  lol  Good luck and enjoy!
529068
Get experimental and try new things.  Rent a few tapes and see what they do and see if you want to try it.\nHave the guy or girl go down on you and concentrate on your clit.  pull the skin back and start by rubbing it slow and then tell him how and where it feels good.  Remember, if you are trying for the orgasm or the cool climax, there are no boundaries or limits.  Try sex sometimes with no holes or holds barred.  Be open and exploratory.  Can't do it when  you are dead so might as well try it when you are living.
464007
calm down, use a condom, buy some desensitizing cream, get drunk, think of margerette thatcher on a cold day, put your mind on something else, and above all else let your fingers do the walking before hand... if she is almost there it will seem to her as if you have lasted longer
1181200
I'm a 'giver' not a swallower, so my knowledge, experience and advice is, um, second hand.  However, having said that, I offer several thoughts.\n- I've understood diet can alter the taste of semen/sperm.  The healtier the food taken in by the man, the more 'delicious' the orgasmic product.  Take a look at what is consumed, then infer how the body 'acts' on that, and what the byproducts would be.  You can be sure that the better foods are better for you for good reasons.  Wow, another GOOD reason to be health-conscious.\n- Believe you CAN accept what he is giving you is GOOD for you.  there really is an exchange going on.... you are giving him a great deal of pleasure, you are into it, you are choosing to do this, you might even greatly desire to do it.... all to your credit.  Add your own belief, in yourself, to the mix.  Your belief brings satisfaction to what you are doing, and your belief that what HE is giving you in return (both his orgasm, and the product OF his orgasm) are gifts for you to cherish.\n- Deepthroating.  Seriously.  Said and meant without ANY intent to offend anyone.  Depending on his size/length, your persistance in practicing (yes PRACTICE!) and your own physical capability.... deepthroating (taking the head of the penis into your throat) especially during ejaculation can get your body to the point of avoiding the taste altogether (or GREATLY reduce it).  Um, he will kinda/sorta really like it when you do it this way too.  <hint>\n\nI believe someone mentioned 'spitting'.... and if you truly CANNOT stomach the taste, well, FIRST discuss things, let your partner know what you think, how you feel, what you are (and are not) willing to do and why.  I can tell you this though, a woman who spits is really depriving the guy of a hell of a lot of pleasure, if not intense completness, satisfaction, happiness, etc....  Everyone does have to make the choices that are best for them..... As a compromise, one possibility is to 'spit' for a while (an agreed-upon timeframe) to give you the chance to be going 'so-far' while you are getting comfortable and adjusting, while he's adjusting, etc....   Thus you've got a known point in time where it becomes real swallowing, or a total stopping of the activitiy.\n\nBest of luck, for I truely wish you well.
137809
Use a sh*t (caca) cataplasm.  I know it sounds gross but, hey it works!
590014
oral sex is very important. learn to use your tongue and lips better.
172867
I never understood why all girls think that guys want this?  We, like you, are really only sensitive on the first 1/3 or 1/2, so trying to be "deep throat" must be cause of some porn flick.  Trust me on this, use your hand and save your mouth, lips and tongue on the top half.  Trying to get it all in your mouth does nothing for us.
170225
try to masturbate if u ae comfortable with it.. it helps..
1064467
I know its embarrassing but you may need to go talk to your doctor. This is not normal. I'm sure you are going to get a lot of responses, like hey baby call me  lol.   Maybe its a chemical imbalance or something. So don't go out and have sex with the next random guy, because that probably won't solve the problem. There is such a thing as sex addicts, so I don't think that you are the only one suffering from this.
258421
well your husband should be understanding, kiss isnt the only way you can please him. If he really loved you he wouldnt care. Try very strong minty gum, that usually clears my sinuses when i chew it. Try a sex therapist, they may give you tips.
291615
There are a number of things you can do, dependong on what is so terrible. Is it terrible solely because you don't "finish"? Is it terrible because he doesn't last long? There are solutions to each of those problems. But to get the best answer, I'd need to know the specific problem. To help you finish, try making foreplay last longer, try different positions, different "activities". If the problem is that he doesn't last long enough you can actually buy creams that'll make him last longer. Just word of warning if you use those, wait like 10 minutes after he puts it on to actually start having sex. Otherwise the desensitizing in it will also work on you and that'll defeat the whole purpose. Look here www.pureromance.com to get some more ideas to simply spruce it up! Have fun!
865820
There is no training for making out. Experience is the key. Just wait until your time comes along. Just from personal experience I will tell you that it may seem uncomforatable at first and akward but things will get better. Advice for when you do it though: Close your eyes- nobody likes starring at someone kissing you! Try not to slobber! and don't just move your tounge around everywhere ! it's gross!!! Slow /passion is the key. Trust me you will do fine. just wait for your time. making out is something you can't just "learn" how you have to "experience" it
287832
when you are having sex ,just imagine your past foreplay.if it doesn't work then, meet sex therapist b/cos you may have organismic dysfunction.
1129925
Take it slow, soft, and gentle, you will have to stay on or around that special spot for quite some time. Also it helps if you go just a tiny bit off center because that spot sometimes gets too tender and it will make her jerk and move away. Ask her to guide you by the movement of her hips or her hands. Some women get very embarrassed having oral sex performed on them and can't let go and end up just giving up. It all takes, time, patients and understanding. Also it helps to be in a very dark room if she is insecure and or embarrassed. Hope I could be of help! Oh, one more hint: A lot of women will be right there, but then the person changes to another spot and the woman losses it ! You can do a lot of other things down there, in the beginning, but when it is time to bring her to orgasm, you must STAY on one spot till the job is done! Good Luck!        P.S. I was in the middle of typing you this answer, when you asked the next question, I am a slow typer!
269924
Hey girl, this works, I know.  Eat Yogurt ( which live culture) everyday.  Your yeast infection problem will be over.  Also, be clean and hope your partner is clean, and that he rinses the soap off his penis very well when showering.  And remember, what ever is on his hands will also be on his penis when he handles it when urinating.  Harsh laundry detergents, and dryer sheets can also cause infections if you are sensitive.  Good luck and happy safe sex to ya!  That is if you are of age.