Is my best friend flirting too much with my boyfriend?
474345
Yes, it should bother you.  Because she is your friend doesn't mean you should put complete trust in her.  People you feel you can trust are the ones that WILL STAB YOU IN THE BACK! Besides, friends are supposed to respect eachother.  Right now she is not and neither is your boyfriend.  Be careful, because it sounds like there maybe something going on or about to happen.  If you want to avoid problems and don't want anything to come between your friendship, then put a stop to it now...\n\nGood Luck!
1008566
sweetie I wouldn't do some thing like that. you have to be carefully because It will cause a lot of trouble between him and the so call best friend and u would be in the middle of the whole thing and you don't want that
1102523
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!
477231
Who do you trust more? And who is more likely to tell the truth?\nAsk your best friend to tell you the whole story and repeat the whole story to your boyfriend. If he really is cheating, chances are he'll get flustered and deny it like crazy.\nIf your friend has a history of making stuff up, you should probably trust your boyfriend.\nReally, you know who is more reliable of the two. You have to decide who's telling the truth.
469709
I wouldn't trust him because sometimes flirting can lead to other activities that are not in a Girlfriend's benefit! Men who flirt too much are show offs! They want to know that they can seduce girls! They're powerful that way, and so No, I wouldn't trust a flirty boyfriend! There are so many girls out there trying to steal one's BF, wouldn't want mine giving them mixed signals, if you know what I mean...
108747
Is your best friend male or female.\n\nIf it's a male and not gay, your boyfriend does not understand your realtionship with your male friend, you need to break it down for him. Make him feel less ensure about you relationship with him.\n\nIf your best friend is a female, he may sincerely not like her attitude of ways. Try to convince him that she does not mean to offend him. That is the way she is with every one unless she is seeing something that you don't. \nPlease tell him not to make you chose between a friend you have known for years and him who you like a lot.\n\nTell him you are only trying to make the two people that you really care about to be able to tolerate each other. \n\nDon't make it a habit of inviting your friend with you all the time. You will give your boyfriend the wrong impression.
656632
Well untill your boyfriend feels as excepted as your friend there will always be that jealousy, us guys are funny that way for example when you fight with your boyfriend you usually talk to your friend, Yes? So that right there your turning to your friend and not your boyfriend, thats one.\nYou don't fight with your friend like you do your boyfriend, that's two. So bottom line your boyfriend thinks you treat him better than you your boyfriend because there are hardly no arguments between you and your friend and there is between you and him. Now you and I both know one is just a friend and the other you love but to us guys even if this were explained to him he still won't see it that way. So for a while and your friend will understand if you explain to him (funny how that works) tell your friend to stay low key until your boyfriend feels secure in the relationship and to try and understand us guys can be real immature sometimes.
840451
Three's a crowd. I would tell your bf that you are not happy with the email communication he's been having with your friend. Tell him you think it's inappropriate and you don't like it. Tell your best friend the same thing - that it's inappropriate. Tell her to back off and to stop emailing him, and remind her that he's your boyfriend not hers.
1181920
YOU ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BEST FRIEND HURT IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT? PLEASE HAVE HER BOYFRIEND BREAK UP WITH HER THEN GET TOGETHER WITH YOU..BUT YOU ARE BREAKING THE FRIENDSHIP CODE...
966849
First off there is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone of the opposite sex. \nIt doesn't really matter what other people think..there will always be that one person who tries to hurt others relationships. As long as you and your friend are comfortable with your realtionship thats all that should matter. \nAs for others who feel its wrong.... they are not good friends if they were they would know there is nothing wrong with your relationship. If its her Boyfriend then he is very insecure with himself and his realtionship with his girlfriend. Unless she is the one leading him to think that your relationship with her maybe be more to make him jealous. \nThere are some who just can't accept other relationships liek yours its sad but true. \nI personally have had similar problems in the past. But if you and her are truely close and best friends everything will work out. If not then the friendship is not worth your time. \nHope this helps.
524172
That'snot a very good idea....duh....did your boyfriend like\nkiss your best friend before he asked you to DO IT with you....wowzers...my friend Amy did it with her best friend's dad's mom and it was like way out. This one time at band camp we were behind the councilor's tent and Shawna who is my best friend's cousin's sister was like freaaaaakin out when Matthew liked try to kiss her...we were like all laughing and stuff. We got busted and had to like do stuff and all you know.
257150
sure but make sure your friend never finds out because who would you rather have a boyfriend or your bestfriend you choose.\n\ngood luck!
657297
It is obvious that you care for his guy. So tell him that. Tell him that you love and care for him but not with the passion that a girlfriend should have for a boyfriend. Tell him that you know it will be hard to change the level of your friendship one notch down...but you still want him to be your friend because he is your best friend.\n\nI know that this maybe hard for you to do..it will hurt you both but think of it this way...suppose he too want you only as a friend as well and is also afraid to hurt you?
14222
If youre really into your boyfriend and she's really your best friend...\n\n1. Let her know how much of a betrayal it would be.\n2. Seperate them, if you go out, go out in threes and dont leave them alone.\n3. Let him know whats going on and how important your friendship is with her.
39903
If they know it bothers you and you claim they are doing it on purpose, just pretend it doesn't. It seems that the root of her flirting is to get at you, just smile and say to her..."isn't MY boyfriend great", to her. Pretend you think it is totally an ego booster for you to know that someone else wants  your guy. Reverse psychology, baby!
409201
I am most definitely in love!  My bf is not only my boyfriend, he's also my best friend!!!!  I talk to him about everything.  I talk to him more than I talk to my best friend!!!!
560611
That's not cool at all. I would have a problem with that too. \nI am assuming your best friend is a female. The messed up thing is that if you say something to one or both of them, they are still going to have that connection, they are just going to hide it from you.\nHow about you start suggesting that you and your man start spending time together alone, without your best friend and the same goes for you and your best friend.\nI don't know why the three of you are all hanging out together anyways. You need to learn early on that your man doesn't need to hang out with your female friends all the time. That's not a good idea.