Should i ask him out or should i wait for him to ask me out?
471188
If it will be your first date, then let him ask to take you out.  But if the two of you want to hang out, then it's all right for you to ask first.  Since you are shy, find an event that you would like to attend and ask him if he plans to go.  That will help break the "nervousness" between the two of you.
330003
Ask him.  It is better than assuming and if he is trying to ignore you, wouldn't you prefer to know it now rather than waiting until you like him even more?  Be honest and if you can't get an answer from him...go invisible, dear.
1012444
if u keep thing about him and he says he likes u i think u should ask him out. the worst thing that could happen if he says no.\nbut we both no that wont happen cuz u no that u r a beautiful and that u r worth everything 2 him. GO GET HIM TIGER
642691
Well the advice I would give you is to take the intuitive and ask him out. Nowadays a woman doesn't have to sit around and wait for a guy to make the first move. Go after what you want and you may be pleasantly surprised. Good Luck and Blessings.
484459
Well, first of all you need to take some grammar school lessons before you ask another question. Second of all, as in waiting for him, what do you mean? If it's relationship wise, then, do what you think feels right. You're young, explore life.
270624
Don't wait.  No need putting off something that is potentially better for some bum that wants you to wait on him.  Move on.  If he decides he wants you back, make him chase you.  And make him chase HARD!!!
407007
Why don't you ask him out? Go ahead see what happens.
752063
well ur getting mixed signs so i would go with it and ask him out
905869
Guys are funny. \n\nPerhaps you're right and you need to take the initiative... but perhaps he's not prepared to have a significant other in his life due to a variety of reasons- Immaturity, past relationships gone bad- whatever the reason.\n\nI think that asking to hang out is a reasonable request- but if he's as painfully shy as you say- he might say no. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you- he's just too shy.\n\nAlso something to think about- If you're outgoing (I don't know if you are or not...)- then is a shy guy really the best match for you?\n\nAt anyrate- getting to know the guy better is good no matter what- you might find that he's just not the type for you- or it could lead to him feeling comfortable enough around you to finally ask you out.\n\nBest of Luck!
182742
If you've liked him forever than I definitely think you should ask him out. I know that it's cliche, but what's the worst thing that can happen, right? I know that "no" isn't the best thing to hear but at least then you can move on and have no doubts. And if he says yes then you might just have something and love is always an amazing thing to share with someone.
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
601027
I think he's interested in asking you out, it just hasn't worked out with his schedule yet to be able to do it. Don't give up hope yet. I think he will ask you just as soon as his schedule permits!
1042616
If its been that long, of course he would go out with you since he knows you very well. Its best to ask him out now before it is to late. He might then find a girl and then you would then be ashamed of yourself for not asking when you had the chance to. He might take it in a friendly way but if you show or let him know that you want a little more than friends, then he'll know. So ask him out and tell him how you feel about him. It wont hurt him but make him happier.
373726
seriously, i would wait forever...but i would probably lose interest...so i think that you should ask her out when it feels right for you...
844663
Dont make him CALL you!  If you want to ask him out, then walk up to him and ask him out!  I dont think he appreciated you forcing him to make the first move.  Just take a deep breath and ask him straight out if he wants to date you.  If no, then no.  But dont wait for a phone call.
1026278
Go for it sista...who knows he's probably waiting for you...What would you rather do? Tell him, ask him out to get it off your chest and have an oppertunity? Or Don't tell him, and end up depressed, and desperate? Go for it!! <333
479087
you should ask him out