How do you tell someone that you don't want to be their friend anymore, but have them in most of your classes?
461723
you should just be honest with them, give them hints that you don't want to be there friends start hanging out with other friends and leave her alone then she won't or she will get tired of being ignored then she might just leave you alone. or tell her in person or a note what ever you feel comfortable doing...goodluck
452485
i have a friend doing the exact same thing. dump her. but only if she's a bit(h. if she's nice, don't. but if you deside to (and you totally can) don't put the blame on anyone. Just say you don't like how the friendship has gone, and your really not comftordable with the situation. so you think it best if you don't hang out anymore. tell her that, and tell her your leaving the friendship with overall good feelings, and that you like her, but that you really just need to end it, and leave it at that. she doesn't need any other reasons, Don't put the blame on her, or you, otherwise she will be mean about it.
63581
Well just tell him that you really don't like him and if he can't understand that your friendship will have to end.
871225
Be up front and serious with him.  Tell him if he doesn't knock it off you will never be his friend again.  Do it in private, don't make it a shouting match.  If he doesn't take you seriously, start doing to him what he is doing to you.  Start acting like he likes the ugliest slut in the school and embarrass him really bad about it.  He will get the point.
1077409
Be very honest with them, tell them how uncomfortable you feel and  let them know that you are friends to both, and would rather they sort their differences out with each other.
753607
tell her that her bahavior is making you uncomfortable, she doesnt sound like a good friend who should be more considerate of your feelings...
545505
She is jealous and insecure.  You seem to be having success that is eluding her.  So she strikes back by being mean and trying to diminish your accomplishments.\n\nIf you want to give her another chance but not be hurt any more, you will have to tell her that her current behavior is unacceptable.  You don't need friends like that.\n\nBut if you've decided that she is not the kind of friend that you don't want to have, you will have to be honest with her and tell her that you don't need friends who are constantly critical and mean.  You owe her the truth for the sake of your past friendship.\n\nWhatever you decide is really up to you.  But if you just want to know why she did all this, it's jealousy and insecurity on her part.
717398
you keep your mouth shut and quit calling yourself her friend for starters!..
997964
just say i know wht you are doing and i dont really like it, it is your choice but as a friend i reallt think you should stop but it is your choice and that you will support them all the way threw wht ever they deciede
1051615
Someone who won't look you in the eye is not someone you want to be close with, unless the person is just shy.  NOT THE CASE HERE.  The way I see it (and I have a few years under my belt) is this: if she doesn't want to be your friend, that is okay.  You will learn that you don't always have to be friends with everyone, and that people do sometimes change.  We wouldn't be human if we didn't change.  Its part of growing and maturing (or not maturing).  Either way, you don't necessarily have to make an enemy of her.  I have people that I was close with in high school that I don't even recognize anymore...you know, the people that you swear will always be BFF.  It seems an insurmountable issue now, but in a few years, will it really be that big a deal?  You will always have your friends, and then the people you just know.  There will be people you will see on a daily basis who are super fun to know, and there will be the sourpusses.  The only person who's decisions and friendships you will ever be able to control are your own.  the sooner you understand this, the easier it will be to deal with the not-so-nice people in your life.
592647
Ending a friendship with a person is not an idea I agree with.  As a college student/ professional, I have had many, many, many people I do not like.  However, I have soldiered on through dealing with these people and, surprisingly, one of these people got me the job I am currently working.  \n\nThe moral of the story is you never know when you are going to have to deal with these people again and when you will need a favor from these people.  Plus, if you two go to school together, you risk her becoming angry and sabotaging/ talking about you, as well as shared friends becoming upset.\n\nStart calling her less and hang out with her less.  If she sits down next to you, don't ignore her or treat her rudely, but consciously look at her less and direct more of your conversation toward the other people with which you are sitting.  If she calls you, don't be rude, stay on the phone about 5-10 minutes, but then tell her you need to go.  Don't make excuses, just say, "I have to go," and say goodbye.\n\nIf she does confront you about the luke-warm (not cold) shoulder you've been giving her, simply tell her that you've been busy and you have some personal things going on (don't tell her that SHE'S the personal thing) and that having a slightly less close relationship is more comfortable for you.\n\nIt make take a bit of time, especially if she has only a few friends, but she will get the point eventually.  While coming straight out and telling her you don't want to be friends sounds nice now, you will probably regret it later in life, whether because it sabotages your career prospects or because you feel guilty about it (I certainly feel guilty about doing the same thing in my past).
720352
Punch her. Just kidding...Just tell her you really aren't interested in a friendship and that you wish she would BaCk uP oFf YoUr GrIlL. Just kidding again..LoL. but seriously, unless you tell her what's up she won't leave you alone...and you definitely don't want to deal with her for the rest of your school years, right???
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
85228
Get the whole class to gang up on the losers who are talking. It worked in my class. Everyone was so mad at these two guys who that they were all cool and never shut up. so all 30 of us just turned to them in class one day and geve them nasty looks and yelled..(we really yelled) for them to shut up. They found out that they were not that cool and finaly shut up the rest of the year. \nGet numbers on your side and let them know that the class is not backing them up in talking.
308993
You're no longer close?  Then just leave them in the past, darlin.  You're trying to live better and clean up your act, DO NOT be around them, I can say they will try their damndest to drag you back down to their level.  Completely write them off, take them off your cell phone, email, ims, MySpace, whatever and however you talk to them.  Leave them and that life in the past and you will feel a 1,000 times better.
157655
Stop calling them your 'old friends' and begin refering to them as what they actually are?\n\nNah, that'd be rude, and you don't want to be that way too, do you?\n\nTough situation, kid. Perhaps they just weren't really good friends to begin with, and you'll just need to cut your losses now and develop meaningful, healthy relationships with your new peers.
705000
Take yourself out of the middle of this equation. Casually tell her that you didn't get around to asking them if they wanted to hang out and suggest that she call them and ask them herself. Let them have to explain themselves.