Is sex how guys express their feelings?
464547
If you very in love and very emotionally connected, then i am 99% confident that the sex is emotional/loving for him.  If you are not very in love and not very emotionally connected, then I am 99% confident that it is purely physical to him.\n\nFor in-between those two, it's really going to depend on your relationship and the guy, and how the girl looks.  Is she very cute (if so, it's love), if she is not cute but very sexy, then it's likely sex.  \n\nFor the most part, though, unless you fit into one of the extremes on up above, it's very likely BOTH!\n\n----------------------\nand i agree with the guy above me, but i want to add to that - guys that are shy tend to be VERY emotionally connected in sex, and guys that are very outgoing tend to be the opposite (not always on the outgoing guys).
307903
First, tell him. Then show him u love him. it doesn't always have to mean sex tho. there are other ways to show ur love, u just have to find out what they are!
838750
1.) A guy who has strong emotion and feels easily\n\n2.) A guy can show by telling her, or making signals, verbally or non verbally\n\n3.) Rejecting or refusing to have sex, not putting much effort into the activity, motionless
208173
Damn girl , you ask some tough questions.\nWeather it counts or not , here is my view on this one.\nYou don't like sex? hmmmmmmm.\nHave you tried making love instead?\nThe art of making love consists of two people in love , coming together in a sexual act.\nNot liking sex can only suggest that you do not have any feelings for the other person participating within the "sex".\nFor most men , a relationship revolves around sex , if he don't get it , you don't get him.\nThat may sound harsh , but unfortunately , it's the truth.\nIf you are with a man that you truly love , i'm sure the results will be different.\nNow , I can't be serious all the time , so i'm going to end this answer with a joke. (please don't take offence at it , it's just a joke.)\n"those who think sex is a pain in the arse , are usually getting it in the wrong hole."
11969
I think in most guys it is just a want. i cant say why guys want it so much for sure cause ia mnot a guy but i would say it has to do with the point that men think sex is everything a realtionship is not always made stronger by sex so if you feel that having sex will not stronger your relationship or that you really don tlove the person then dont do it. this is a way to find out if they are in the realtionship for you or your goodies. if he tries to play the "if you love you will have sex with me" then they most likly dont love you so dont do it.\nhope this helps
409029
Love isnt really the question here.  Often a man can feel self concious because he doesnt know what to say or how to comfort the woman. Once you get to the point where youre both comfortable with it: able to talk about it without feeling awkward, things will probably get back to normal.  If you want to see things from his point of view, think of how you would feel if he had a testicle removed.  Unfortunatly, some superfical men can take a "damaged goods" attitude.
1054837
Some people speak while having sex for many reasons - Some I found are\n1. Strengthening the relation\n2. Expressing intensity of feelings.\n3. Mitigate or negotiate something in turn of sex...\n4. Divert mind to have delayed orgasm\n5. They want to make moment live by adding words. (dialog).\nNow your question is more about 'why they feel' rather than why they speak. So I would say, they feel about speaking because mainly they have left a gap in communication at other times and never found a chance to fill it. While having sex, they see the intimate closeness and then at once feel the urge to fill the gap that was left unattended. Many circumstances arise here. But main reason is need to communicate expecially to save or strengthen the relation...! Even if they are cracking jokes, it means they are playful and want to save relation. That is a part of it...
721914
Because guys don't spend TIME discussing their FEELINGS aloud.  Men don't demean their personal "relationships" by feeding an obsession to "discuss" them.\n\nUnless.  They are seeking to manipulate a woman they don't care about.  If they are this kind of Casanova, then, yes, they are articulate about how they "feel."\n\nSo the guy who speaks long and eloquently about how he feels is very likely to rip you off!
116561
Most definitely!!...Love and sex are NOT the same thing...\n\nBear in mind though, that this holds for GUYS too...
21934
Feelings or emotions are not foremost in "sex." To have sex is to seriously just go for the animal instinct of pleasure.\nTo feel good........to break free and let loose and go with the feeling at hand without regard for any feelings or consequence. With love making.......the feeling is so intense BECAUSE of the emotions involved. It feels good because of what it means between the two people involved. It isn't just an act of passion.....but passion in the act.
332804
Depends upon the guy, the gal and their relationship.\n\nSome guys like to feel in control.  They always want to make each move to a new level.  They are usually the ones who have problems making a commitment.  They seldom learn how to express themselves as far as emotions go.\n\nSome guys do not mind if the gal is "aggressive" or "forward."  They would just as soon not have the worry about what is to happen next, but do like to get things started occasionally.  This guys tend to be balanced and "tit for tat" kinds of people.  They can and do learn to express their emotions.\n\nSome guys seem to want "another mother."  They want the woman in total control.  They do not wish to ever have to decide anything.  These are usually very happy when the gals seldom asks their opinion.  There are not too many of these out there.  These also tend to be emotional wrecks.\n\nSome guys are mixtures, so you might have to pay attention to the guy to see how they fit.
235737
Guys are shy when it comes to feelings and the like.  Also they don't like to open up unless they are almost positive the feeling is returned, they don't like to be hurt.  Sometimes you just have to coax it out of them.
267239
well it depends on the guy and if u r doing it with someone you like or not. it depends on how he makes u feel.
678874
It should not hurt his feelings in the least if you tell him what you want.  Remember that a guy cannot feel how it feels for a woman when he is touching her.  He can only go by her reactions.  I know that I would not be offended in the least, and as a matter of fact I would let you know that you should tell me what feels best or when I hit a spot that feels really good.\n\nHurt feelings should not figure into it; that's not what it's about.
503689
to some guys it's just their thing...i know i have heard that too sometimes.  i feel a good guy, one that loves you loves you for how nice you are and how big your heart, not what's under your shirt.  Good luck!
800155
He may feel rejected but if you have talked about how you feel them i'm sure he won't.  Sometimes he may get frustrated with you...trust me I was in the same situation.  And each time he gets upset just remember that he is in a different situation.  Men tend to think of sex as a was of expressing their love.  One thing I did was to find other ways to express my love for him. I wrote tons of love notes and made cookies with his name on them.  This made my ex-boyfriend feel like I truly loved him.  You just need to have good communication and I am sure he will not be upset in any way. Good luck and if you need any advice just send me an email
987042
Guys (like girls) like to know that they are number one in there significant others lives.  Now that can be through a lot of ways talking, suprising him, loving him, but most guys are very physical creatures so th eon ething that always works is sex.  Love on the othr hand is something guys are not really good at expressing however all guys do love at some point and have even loved before they were able to express.  Most guys do little things you just gotta know when your guy does something 4 u he wouldn't do for someone else he is saying he loves you?