Would you feel comfortable?
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I worked in a hospital for years and after years of trying to change exactly what you are talking about - I had to quit.  I couldn't find a way to separate what I was dealing with at the hospital (negligent doctors, uncaring nurses, etc.) from the rest of my life.  I actually started having a lot of stress-related health problems, which is ironic because now I ended up on the other side of that system and it's just as demeaning and wrong as I thought it was.  \n\nWhat I do now is not to bad mouth hospitals, because obviously we need them, but to try to kind of coach people about how to "protect" and "advocate for" themselves at the hospital.  I tell them never go to the hospital alone.  Have someone taking notes on everything you are told.  There are no dumb questions - ask them all until you get an answer that you understand and contact the patient relations and or social services department for additional assistance.\n\nI want to add, and this should go without saying, that there are excellent, caring people in every aspect of the hospital, I was just speaking to this question and the fact that we have shared similar experiences.\n\nI'm sorry I don't have more to offer as a solution.  I'm still mad that I quit in a way because I don't think of myself as a quitter and I know I was helping people.  It was just that I, personally, couldn't find a way not to get so upset about it.  \n\nTake care and try to hang in there...
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if it makes you feel better
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my question is how do you feel about it . If you are happy then is ok
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Do you not feel comfortable or do you not feel safe.  If you do not feel safe, relocate.  If you do not feel comfortable, ask yourself why?  Once you have resolved the source of your discomfort, promptly make any modification in your actions and/or behavior.  Stand tall, and live large.  Remember "Every mighty oak was once a nut that stood it's ground'.
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Will you feel me and see if I need to go?
656055
Not answer! DUH!\n\n\nyou feel nice?
47601
not sure\nbut if it was I would be happy and have a red tongue
331492
whenever you feel comfortable with it and with the person who you are with
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I'm not sure I can totally explain how I feel,\nbut when a strong man puts his big\narms around me I melt . I feel as if \nnothing can touch me . I feel security ,\nlove , safety , and protected from the \nbig bad world around me .
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only if you are comfortable with it
80177
yeah, a little weird but to each his own, Honey. Do what makes you feel comfortable.
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Tough question. Normally I would so no. But to be honest, I have never been in that position so I can't know how it really feels. I hope I never find out...
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if you feel uncomfortable then report them
689529
do what ever you feel comfortable doing don't do anything you don't want to
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Feel good, and I would if you were in the car with me.  <wink><wink>  \n\nI hope that I didn't offend anyone with my answer, and if I did, it was not intentional and was only my opinion. Your mileage may very. \n\nHugs ~:)
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I wonder how that would feel
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no. i would feel to, i dont know it just seems so not me. it would be awkward