should i go out with a boy who got off with my best friend?
474544
What do u mean got off
597526
I'm in an identical situation only i am a guy. And the guys in your story are girls in mine. I'm not gay. Just wait it out and eventually they will break up. However you need to know what your best friend would do if you were to go out with her ex. If she was really your best friend, she would understand and she would let you go out with him-but come on thats never gonna happen. You need to find out who you like more, this guy, or your friend. It sound to me that he sorta like you, and if your friend knows he flirts with you, and shes not jealous shes\n- in it because the guy is popular\n- is a whore that just wants to sleep with her boyfriend until she is bored\n- is trying to tell herself shes being uptight\nYou need to know if he likes you before you do anything about your friend. Ask one of his friends or a brother or sister of his. It will be hard, but if you loose a friend, how good of a friend is she?\nP.S. Do not go out with this guy directly when he breaks up with your friend. She wont like that, and he wont think your much of a friend. Wait at least two weeks, by then your friend should be interested in some other guy.
269330
Best friends, hmm, I am 34 yrs old and still have the same best friend since I was 12. We shared everything except the guys we dated or liked, til this day. No matter how handsome he was, or how much we were over them, etc. We just weren't into sharing 'sloppy seconds'. We just felt the same way about  dating or liking a guy the other use to date or like, we chose to not go there. At 12 yrs old we thought it was gross to like each others has beens, something we agreed we'd never do that to each other. We seen how that destroyed friendships, it almost always does. \n\nAnd even if your best friend encourages you and gives you the okay, until she sees you two together, things will more than likely be different. Remember what and who is important before you choose to like your best friends has been. \n\nThere is no guy worth jeopardizing my relationship with my best friend. Guys will come and go, you can only have 1 best friend. I am glad we chose hold our friendship above that issue.
108808
You can't have both boys. (well, I suppose you could, but it wouldn't work) \n\nI'd say, since you're with his best friend, your chances are slim to none in getting him back.
1111260
only u can decide..... no one can help u...... go with person who understands u better...one who is more caring,loving,protective,respects u.....and it also depends whether ur best friend likes u that way or not......give it some time......dont rush into anything
338190
I'm a guy but I think my rule of thumb in a relationship works for both sexes. You date.. then you break up.. and when you break up, there is a good reason why the break up happened, and now you need to move on to someone else.  Life is just way too short and precious to be lingering over what could/should/would happen...  If your best friend made you break up with your boyfriend.. is she really your best friend? Most guys have an unspoken code of conduct when it comes to friends' girlfriends/wives (unlike movies or TV shows) Move on....find you a new and better man.. and make your ex and your best friend realize what they lost when you walk in with your new beau!
171504
Move on baby , hook up the lovy at school andlet the guy in the  joint enjoy  the  joint .Time is always  short being young means freedom  to  choose , a boy friend is just  a boy friend not a husband you still  have  your  options all open to experince  other people .\n\nThe boy playing watch dog should be  informed that  he is stepping your  rights and he already knows  that so he will not  stay longer , just confirm to him  that you are moving on  that will be enough for him.
438680
You tell exactly how you feel. Let her know that you liked the boy first and she know that she was wrong for going with him. When you tell her this make sure you do not say it mean but in a way to let her know that you are trully hurt. Trust me this will work, I just told my best friend how I felt and she broke up with her boyfriend.
345852
First of all a guy is not worth a friendship!!!\n\nYou should not be in their relationship either that is just going to cause problems, especially since you are friends with both of them.\n\nAlso if you date him she will be mad at you and then if you and him break up he will be mad at you to and then you will not have a best friend. And I honestly dont think you want to risk both of their friend ships just because of the crush you have on him!
288675
well do u like him? after u and him go out your relationship with your friend will never be da same that is if you don't lose her after going out with the guy
800904
Aww, just go out with the boy you like.  Either wait until he breaks up with blackhead girl, which he will I promise, or get together alone with him and put the moves on him.\n\nIt's not very fair of your parents to impose dating restrictions on you.  When you bring him home, just tell your parents that you are - bestest friends, forever and ever! -.  Hang out with him in groups of people who are also couples, like group dating.  Then you can split off from the group after a while and go make out or engage in some heavy petting, or whatever fun thing teenagers' libidos drive them to do.
511127
it depends how much u like him if you love him sometimes you have to do what is right for you but if you dont love him you probably should think about the saying friends before boy friends (or in this case your almost boy friend) but believe me if he starts going out with your friend it is ok i know how it feels the guy i liked all year asked my best friend out but what hurts even worse is that she knew i liked him but still said yes. anyways this is about u well good luck remember do the right thing.
406482
well,, friendship is a friendship, keep it that way\n\nI feel that you do not want your friendship to change, so going out with him "may" change this.  Could you say, we can go out, but as FRIENDS, I do not want anything more/less.  I'd hate to not have you as my friend anymore...
19082
no, but first you should talk to your best friend about this.tell him/her that you really like his/her brother and if ever it didn't work out, tell your best friend that it should not affect your friendship.goodluck.:)
957897
Leave it alone. NO guy is worth losing a best friend. None. It will probably all blow over eventually and you will later be glad that you didn't do anything.
906559
You should do what you think is right. If you think it is going to turn out badly, don't go. But if you want to go, then i say go. Your ex (whether or not you want to still be friends with him) should have no impact on where you go and who you hang out with.
901404
you let him go for whatever reason that may be or you all split up, therefoer you dont really have a right to have a say on who he dates but you can tell your best friend how you feel. Even so if they love each other there isnt much you can do. Just let them go, if it was meant to be between the two of you it may not work out between the best friend and him and then you can ask him back.You  also should tell your  ex how you feel about him still.  But honestly you should move on because there will be many loves in your life. Dont get stuck on someone who doesnt share the same feelings for you as it can only lead to endless pain.\nSorry if that wasnt the answer you wanted but I honestly dont think theres anything else you could do without getting your heart broken or making one or both of them angry with you. Because if you try to split them up or sabatoge their relationship it will only cause them anger and resentment towards you.