What do I do when he is playing games?
460589
Do you really need anyone to answer this question? He's a douche bag and doesn't deserve either of you. Why would you want to be with someone who lies to you and is seeing someone else? I know it can be hard because at least your feelings are pure and honest but it will never work when this jerk only thinks of himself. He might be 26 and you might be considerably younger, but let's face it I have seen 10 year old boys act more mature then this moron. Your young and you have many years to find someone else, so don't waste your time on him because that great guy who will treat great and be the love of your life might pass you by. Think about your child too, would you want him to be a role model for them or to learn about relationships by seeing the abuse that he is putting you through? This man clearly does not know your worth and hopefully you do and will be smart enough to pursue a life without him. It might be hard to be on your own but its probably alot lonlier being with a scumbag like him. Take care and I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision that you make.
597721
hahahaaaa!  from the perspective of the video gaming boyfriend, rip ur clothes off and jump between him and the screen. or, have him choose betwixt the gaming and you, or go out places once in a while where their aint games, or, buy some games that BOTH of you can play and annoy him by being on his computer all the time so he wants to game less wen ur around : P
630259
Don't mess around, just be forward and don't play those games.  If you wait, he might meet someone else.  I know, it happened to me and it sucks and you will be mad at yourself for not saying something sooner.
304300
Try new and exciting things together that neither of you have ever done before.  Any interest in sky diving?  Bungy jumping?  Not that advnturous?  Join a gym together and work out together.  Play board games FOR SEX BETS!  If u win u get whatever u want and if he wins he gets what he wants.  Makes it much more interesting!  Pick something u have ALWAYS wanted to do and then just have him join you!  Or ask him if theres something he has always wanted to do but hasnt and do that with him!!!!!  Good luck to u!
949818
sit back to back and just talk it'll be like your talking to yourself. plus if he gets bored he can sleep just playin.
901929
black mail always works and tell his secrets to friends or put salt in his eggs when he is not looking HAVE FUN. and then make him buy the game and get as far as you did!!
290151
Try n be calm and tell him to stop without giving him the pleasure of knowing he is upsetting u. If it continues pick your time and place and say something that would really embarrass him... something in the lines of 'You cant even get a h**d on so wat are u playing at boy'? or even better say 'you probably wud be better off giving yourself a w*nk dont you think'. Be assertive!  Gud luck
837008
And why dont you talk to him?  Quit playing.\n\nPeace.
1180228
Play! Don't let him drive you away from something you like doing.
1140315
argh! my head hurts from ur question.\nb direct, if u want him then just ask him if he wants u. stuff the games. takes too long.
88309
Find a way to get him on the court.  Basketball can be pretty addictive once you get going.
375559
Take him for his word - that he doesn't.  If he is playing games and really does, then that is his problem.  Do you really want a game player?  Also, you can ask him if it would cause any "weirdness" between you and he if you started dating his friend (if that is what you really want - don't do it to make him jealous or anything) and judge his reaction.  4 years is a long time to get over some one...and once it's gone, sometimes you can't get it back.
183208
think about how much you can play when you finish\nif this does not work, think about how angry your parents will be if they find out that you still have stuff to do and you are playing
780995
ask him what he wants life to short to play games
1032318
most guys are, unfortunately.\nAsk him for some more time together and see what he says. Either that, or when he breaks out his video games, start reading that book you are working on or painting or whatever it is YOU like to do.
583250
Call him and do something with him.  If you have a good time, tell him if and when things heat up.
791004
I WOULD NOT  PLAY GAMES  WITH HIM.  WHEN HE COME\nHOME LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT\nTHIS. IF IT REALLY MEANT TO HAPPEN IT WILL. BUT DONT\nPLAY GAMES THAT NOT GOOD FOR ANY ONE. KEEP\nIT SIMPLE. BECAUSE HE THE ONE THAT BROKE UP  WITH\nYOU.