if you are young, but longing for sex, what should you do?
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I'm not sure that you are actually longing for the physical act of intercourse.  It may be that you are longing for the closeness and attention that sex can provide.
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ok when you are 13-21 youremotional about relations, you want to exp. love and I know that youve been thru or seen boys act like jerks, b/c love hurts and this is when all they care about is their tool when the girls want a lovin b/f. then they start to loose there sex drive late20's early 30's about the time  you girls like sex or love a lot more at the oppisite time (who says god dosent have sense of humor).well so we NEED emotionallly While you need to get your groove on. But guy's will never admit this(I'm a guy) Ha.ha. but really around the time your desire goes up around35-40 all we want is a wife and kids or nokids but to be loved. men are great at looking like teflon b/c we are young and virile then when we start to see grey, baldness and the worst erectile dys. we get MIDLIFE CRISIS and buy what kids would buy to make us younger (thats shallow) If your woman loves you she loves YOU! aBMW never fixes things ,but we feel it does. Hair can be died pills can make their tool work so your right they look virile and new but believe me many men over 50 cannot get it up and you gals from35-50 are sexcrazed. Your right \nthat men can have children for life. and yes I think many religions accomadate this behavior. but believe you me. most men Its hard to see our soft little underbellies. and we get hair transplant we do what ever work out to keep this picture in our head of us in the mirror @16-21 the good years. It helps now that men dont work in the sun anymore well as much. Im not lady but dont shun my answer Im the rare one that'll tell you about us.you have a still virile man or you exp. show you men are virile ya my grandpa was a sneek. some never die sexually even at 70 but menopause if medicated thereafter you can still enjoy sex when I say meds I mean to keep up estrogen intake as well as a little test. But by the way have you been watching big love. J/k
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When you're emotionally and physically mature to. And not before. Do NOT give in to peer pressure or pressure from someone who "professes" to love you. If they loved you they wouldn't push it. In my personal opinion, I don't think anyone's ready to have sex before the age of 16. Psychologically, you're just not ready to make that switch. And trust me, it CHANGES you emotionally. You feel a small sense of loss. But also gaining. Very difficult to describe. Good luck. And make SURE there's protection damnit!
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at 13 if you are having the urge to masturbate then do it. just don't have sex.. you are way too young.. if you are really that interested in sex at your age you should start thinking about birth control, and other forms of protection against sexually transmitted disease's.
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DONT HAVE SEX!! Otherwise, have fun and don't fret. Boyfriends that young should be only small kisses and holding hands.
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Old enough that you are of a legal age. Getting done for statory rape can screw up your life. Obviously maturity plays a big part too, as does being comfortable with yourself and the person you are intending to sleep with.\nI don't feel that one needs to be married to have sex. Why some people think that the government needs to acknowledge you exist as a couple before you have sex, is beyond me.\nI also don't se the logic in waiting to have sex when you are ready to be a parent. Many people never want to be parents, myself included. I am not going to refrain from sex to appease the morals of other people.
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My advice to you is to ask him, think of it this way, you don't want to marry him later and find out that he just wants sex later.
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You should have sex, when you are ready and when you are in love. The age doesn't matter at all/ There's a big difference between having sex and making love. Do it when you know it's love and not lust.
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The obvious answer would be to take a lot of cold showers, in the first instance. \nIt can be totally frustrating to want something (Like sex) and are surrounded by potential candidates. \n\nCalm down, and stop trying too hard. Try to ease the frustrations by DIY (No, not jobs around the house - you know what I mean) and trust me - it will happen with the right person when the time is right. Do not rush it - that will just make it a nightmare when it does finally happen.\n\nDo it right the first time.\n\nDo not pester people for sex - they get upset and tend to involve a whole load of people you would rather not have involved.\n\nGood luck. It will happen in time - it always does.\n\nOh hey - just seen that you are 'Sheep!' - Nice one - ha ha. I should graze with your back to the hedge!!
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wait until your mature enough. I thought at 18 i was ready...now i regret it.
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You are as old as you feel ..... so go and feel any cute young man that comes your way ... believe me it will make you feel a lot happier .... it certainly does the trick for me - lol
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Be content when you are not having sex, and when you have sex enjoy it.  Then, you'll be happy having sex, forever. I would suppose.
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i say youre not that late\n\nif you really wanna get laid, give it a try. see what happens if you loosen up a little.  you might realize youre missing a lot
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If your asking than your not ready.  Don't do anything.  Trust me, there is time enough later when your more comfortable with the idea and the responsibility that sex brings.
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am too young have u had sex?
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There are plenty of people your age and beyond who haven't had sexual intercourse. I didn't have intercourse until I was 23. It's nothing to feel bad about just because society might say it's 'different.'\n\nYes, it can be a very beautiful thing between 2 people who love one another, but only if you're ready for it. The worst thing would be to do something you're not ready for just because someone else says you should.\n\nBe true to your own needs, and you won't have to worry about it. I think the fact that I waited instead of giving in to peer pressure, enabled me to enjoy it, where if I hadn't waited, it might've turned out to be something traumatizing that I wouldn't have wanted to do again.\n\nAs far as a therapist, I wouldn't suggest it now unless it's something you can't stop thinking about. After you're not a virgin anymore, see what happens. If you've been doing it for a while and if you still feel really bad, then I'd think about talking with a therapist.\n\nSo my advice is not to worry about it. You've got plenty of time, and when you're ready for it, it'll happen the right way.\n\n________
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More than anything, you risk never really being 14 again.  No matter how you think you feel about it, there is just no way you are ready to have a sexual relationship with anyone at 14.  You just don't have the emotional maturity or life experience necessary to understand all the risks of sex--and not just the physical ones.  We could talk at length about AIDS, STD's, and pregnancy, but those are the things you can prevent if you're careful.  It's the damage you'll do that's unavoidable that you have to really consider.\n\nIn life, there are many things worth waiting for.  I know at your age you think it'll take forever to be an adult, and you want to start now.  Believe me when I tell you that waiting for this until you know it's the right time, with the right person and for the right reason will make up for all of the anxiety you feel today.