If a couple is two, what, in your opinion, is a few?  no cheating now!!!?
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Few is a relative term.  It can be 3 or 4, but it can also be hundreds.  ie..My dog has a few fleas (exact quantity unknown)
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I believe that it is very unnatural to only be with one person. It is human nature to want to spread our seed. However, if you have decided to commit yourself to one person you must be true to them and only them. If you don't think it would be possible for you participate in a monogamous relationship, maybe you need to find another person that shares your same ideas and values on relationships.
393120
You didn't specify what kind of couple:\n2 women\n1 woman, 1 man\n2 men\n????
1066282
I think it is just fine.  As long as you aren't in a committed relationship with either of them you can date as many as you like.  That is how you decide WHO if either of them you want to have as a boyfriend.
588779
Been married 26 years and have never cheated once.  Never thought about it once, never been a position where I was tempted to even once.  When parents raise you correctly with high morals, cheating is not really much of a temptation.
462614
You have to keep in mind that "cheating" is defined by the people involved. A better question would be "does she consider it cheating?" or "Based on what I have told her regarding the status of our relationship (whether or not we are exclusive, or exclusive to the sex of the person - no more than 1 gf or 1 bf, or whatever you all have discussed) would she consider it cheating?" She may or may not. She is who you should be asking, only she can decide. By definition monogamy is one person, not one person - per sex. So if she feels you are in a monogamous relationship, you may need to redefine what your relationship is. Your relationship, both of you could decide, is really where you all do whatever you want with guys however are faithful to each other. It is, what you both can agree that it is. Honesty is always the best policy.
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I think it's great you two have such a close and trusting relationship. It's definitely not for every couple, but you are obviously not the only ones out there. Make sure both partners are comfortable and listen to one another.... Have at it, be careful of std's and such....Wow such trust you guys have.
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I know several cases were people were married for 60/70 years and their spouse passed on and they never cheated.  If you love your spouse and respect the sanctity of marriage then it's very possible.  My husband was in Iraq and I had MANY chances to cheat.  (the female to male ratio in this town is about 250:1 so even if you're 200lbs overweight, if you have boobs, you can get some).  Anyway, I love my husband and I refuse to risk what we share for a night or two with some jerk who doesn't care about anything.  I love my husband and I stayed faithful.  I'll continue doing so now that he's home and for the rest of our lives.  I have no doubt in my mind he will do the same.
1139454
Ok .. here is the thing ... I would not want to cheat .. but thee are times when my strong will is not working and there are times when I am really angry at my fiance ... and anything could happen. \nSo I would not cheat, but anything could happen ...
1040765
Yes, it would be considered cheating.  BIG TIME!
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I think I read the average is three or four times a week for couples married 10 years or more and slightly higher for the ones married less time ...how they come up with that one is beyond me I never had a call asking how often we were doing it. Quality is more important than quantity though. I also read that married people have it more often than singles.
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how can you like chocolate chip cookes and peanut butter cookies at the same time?\nits a strange example i know, but you can like more than one thing at the same time...with people however, it is important to be respectful, choose one, or let both people know and if they are ok with you loving/dating both of them then fine. but lying and cheating about it is not ok.
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I comepletely agree with " if you're going to cheat on someone don't be in the relationship." But if you do cheat, I think you should be completely honest with the person and then hand the reins over to them because now it's their decision if they still want to be with you. But some people truly believe in "What they don't know, wont hurt them" but the fact is that enventually they do know and you are a worse person for not only being a cheater but a liar.
339189
I think two timing boyfriends are Yerkes, and don't deserve any women's time of day. Once you find out a guy cheated move on and don't look back believe me it's hard to change a cheating dog.  I learned the hard way.
243001
forget it all together - you don't need the headaches. If he cheated and she cheated most likely they will cheat again. Unless you want to live a soap opera - move on to a different crowd of people.
531442
Actually, you can. And not only two.  Who says that love is whole and can not be given to more than one person? It is just a cultural bias. There have been many cultures where men have multiple wives and women have multiple husbands though the former is more prevalent.
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Have you ever heard of polygamy involving more than one husband? I like it about as much as the idea of a threesome with two women. Don't men have enough problems with just one wife?