is it true that emotional dependency can lead to being gay?like frenz can love alot[truly] with hugs..its gay?
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no not at all, i have a good friend that i give hugs to, weve been best friends sence like preschool, shes seen every side of me and ive seen every side of her. Weve been threw hell and back together and i love her just as much as anyone else in my family, shes like a sister to me and ive never thought of having sex with her,,, that would be like screwing my own mom yyyyyyuuuuuckkkkkk!!!! lol
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Well being gay and a teenager is pretty hard in itself. The fact that you told him how you feel and he is still your friend counts for something. Cherish the friendship you have with him because you're lucky he didn't just stop talking to you (like a normal teenage straight would do). I suggest finding a relationship that is equally loved both ways and not just from you.
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I agree, it isn't a gay thing.  It just is a human nature thing.  Some people do it better than others.  It is an introvert/extrovert thing more than sexuality.  It is all in the point of view, actually.  I think you could perceive yourself as being lonely even when with other people.
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Why does so many people ask about if gays are loved about god, other people etc? I do not think god has a split about loving his/her people. And who can god be gay with? I seriously do not think he/she has a social or love life.
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Thanks for the laugh! I like how you think. I never felt like it was a choice for me. I did not know I had the ability to feel romantic love for a girl until it happened out of the blue when I was 18.\n\nI felt so close with my best friend that I just naturally felt inside that I wanted to really love her for who she is. It just sprung up within myself on its own. I wasn't around gay people prior to that and nor did I ever think about it. Is that a choice? No.\n\nTo me it just means that I love the person as a soul for who they are and that my eyes do not care what shell (body) they come in. The heart is blind to what love looks like.
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Yes, it depends more on the people involved rather than their respective genders. What would be any different about your boyfriend having a gay male friend or you having a lesbian friend? Real relationships are based on trust and center on more than sexual attraction.
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no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
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Have all yahoo users abandoned proper English?\n\nIf you meant, "Does everyone fall hard in love at some point in their lives", then the answer is NO.  Not everyone.  In my opinion it is a gift to go through life without falling hard in love.  It allows a person to remain more authentic, and true to their life's purpose.\n\nNow, if you meant, "Does everyone fall in love at some point in their difficult lives," again the answer is no.  I think everyone LOVES at some point, at least those of us who are not psychopaths.  But not everyone falls in love.  Some people don't even believe in love (in the medieval sense you've alluded to).
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Probably just curious. Most women and men have some sort of a homosexual experience before they reach adulthood. It is totally natural. I had my own experience similar to that when I was right at your age. I am not gay now and never was. It is just a part of growing up. I am just sorry you had to learn about this from a stranger.
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Why would anyone choose a difficult life?  Especially when it would be so easy according to straight people to "choose to be straight."  If so, I have a question for them.  Why don't they CHOOSE TO BE GAY?  See all those emotions running through you straights right now?  That's how we feel.  We feel "how can we change, if we could, wouldn't we?  Same as straights who are asked to think gay."  They find it incomprehensible to think about men, as I do about women.  Its just not normal for me, sorry, does that sound like a choice or something I'm stuck with?  I cannot remember feeling anything other way from the age of 5 on up.  The men were always attractive the women were always the nice ones.  So, while it may be a choice for some, it was not for me.  The very idea that I could have CHOSE this life is laughable.
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Yes I am aware of that.  Are you posting this here to suggest that these energies are reflected in our physical emotional and mental selves and define us as homosexual if they were imbalanced?  Or was this just to show to the world that we all have male and female in us?
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As for as i know they havent been able to tack it down with DNA evedence quite yet, but they know that it changes the brain chemestry.... But from things ive read and from gay ppl i know alot can come from their childhood, one lesbian i know was talked down alot by her father, she was called fat and ugly and it was a mess, she wasnt, but she totally blames her dad for making her want to cling more to women, and i know a gay guy that says his babysitter molested him when he was younger and ever sence then hes never really wanted a women sexually, he was 10 or so when it happened. But at anyrate, i cant say that ALL have had something like that happen, but i know for a fact that it can determine it in some cases... awww well its not like anyones really going to be able to answer this lol i think for every gay person walking they have a differnt reason on why they think they are that way, who knows maybe science can figure it out, i also know that back in the 50's and 60's it was considered a mental problem, even though public views have changed, i think they might have been closer then the DNA theory, that something scared them or changed them or how ever you want to put it that made them not want the opposite sex, but i dont think it was a disablity, well other then it kinda makes it hard to have kids lol but who knows, im not tring to offend anyone at all i have gay friends and i love them dearly... but its just my 2 cents
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Interesting article indeed. I do agree with you in the sense that it is not a choice- it is only explainable by they way a person FEELS or thinks, not by the way he WANTS to think. I hate people who hate people with different sexual orientations- they dont have a right to judge people by their feelings and preferences, although i dont have a gay/lesbian friend in person.
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He may be gay. Have you given that any thought?\nOr his life goals could be taking another direction and he may be truly not ready for a relationship,Respect that and dont force the issue.It takes a lot of self control to sacrifice basic drives and instincts for a high&#92;er purpose.If you force the issue and he gives in he may end up resenting that down the line.Stay close tell him you support and respect his determination and see if he will be willing to be your friend at this point and let fate lead .
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I would say that gays tends to be more sensitive on relationship. Your lady friend may find the need to have someone who are sensitive to her. \nI have to admit too, most gays are rather attractive as they know how to take care of themselves. But, a gentle reminder though, gays likes guys. She might not find true love on that path...
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Focusing on Gayness makes you gay? heheheee...that`s so ignorant...sorry..I don`t mean to be rude,but that`s just not true
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just because your enjoying another erogenous zone does not a gay make.  we as humans have such an amazing desire for feel good endorphine rushes.  what ever that may be does not always dictate straight or gay.  enjoy your body and your lover's.  and as the old school song says, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with.  we have different degrees for murder but not for love.  well except luv or heart loves.  by the way i met a straight guy when i was 18 who was a construction manly man and he was curious what a woman feels when he busts guts so he put a broom stick not the whole thing mind you up his "l'onion".  explore kids but don;t damage or abuse.