Ive always been more attracted to older men.  anyone else feel the same or is it just me?
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Yes i've always been exactly the same.  I've really no interest in guys my own age, and i've always been like this even since when i was at school.  Don't really know why though but it's not a problem at all.  Plus as the saying goes, there's many a good tune can be played on an old fiddle.....  I'm 29 and seeing a guy of 51 who is the sexiest guy i've ever met in my life and is well fit (and looks about 35).  Good Luck!
600707
It's not wrong for you to like older guys.  It may well be wrong for you to act on it, especially depending on what you mean by "older men".  I mean, are you talking about a 16 year old or a 30 year old?  Any "man" interested in a 14 year old has issues.  You'll be old enough for men someday.  In the meantime, enjoy being a kid, explore interests OTHER THAN boys, and have a good time hanging out with your female friends (chances are they'll be around a lot longer than any boyfriend you'd have at this age, anyway).
1174900
Have you been liking men for the last twenty eight years?
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I dont think its only the age that matter for this question.\nMen are attracted to older women Who have maintained themselves well. Its this admiration that makes people feel that Men are generally attracted to 'older' women. \nI wonder if there is any man who is attracted to 'not good looking - not well maintatined - older women' ?\nSo the thought which goes out in the mind of the man is - "Wow, at this age if she's this good, how good she would have been when she was young !!"
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I think its normal for a man to want sex at any age...i don't think you libido ever dies it might slow down but it doesn't leave...so yes its very normal...we are human and humans have urges...enjoy
577376
Personally I am more attracted to older women as I find them more understanding but mind you if you live outside the US the society isnt too open as to seeing younger guys to older women but it is acceptable to have a older man with a younger woman. You must have heard the term "sugar daddy". Ever heard of a "sugar momma"?
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James, I would be glad to fill you in. One thing I like about other men is their attitudes clearly state "boy". Secondly, many men have attractive bodies (and each person has their own ideal "type"), as for personalities I like the funny and cute guys... if they're shy, that'll work too. Body parts that I like are the face (especially the eyes), and the back (although other gay men like other things.). When I see a cute man, I feel rather anxious. I feel like I want to talk to him, I feel like I want to ask him out, and I also feel sad that I live in a world where I can't just do that freely. Also, if I see a cute man but I'm around my step-dad (the one person in the world I can't come out to for some personal reasons), I feel angry that I might have missed my chance because I couldn't be "out" around him. Hope this helps. Contact me if this isn't clear enough for you.\nAloha,\nDavid
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I am 22 and honestly I love older men, in my opinion they are like fine wine, getting better with age. And yes I do know how to please my man
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no, there must be sexier. But everyone I like is older, as I am 40
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I always loved older men. Men get better as they age. Like a fine wine.  A little grey in there hair and some wrinkles around the eyes. Beautiful.  When men hit fourty look out there hitting there peak! I have always been told that girls mature faster than boys so i think that is why older men are attractive because by the time they reach fourty they have finally become mature and refined. Not all, some.
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Just the guys your attracted to, I think.
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Sounds pretty normal to me.  Most that I know are into older men though for some reason.  I wouldn't say there's anything particularly wrong with dating an older guy, except that they have other reasons than just love usually for dating younger women.  i.e. bragging rights and such.  ALL men are attracted to young, good looking women, so you'll always get hit on by older guys.  Guys your age are probably still getting over insecurities and such, so that could be part of it.\n\nDon't give up and don't settle, but be careful with the older guys...\n\n*edit* "There is nothing wrong with being attracted to older men who are more likely to be more mature and open to commitment than guys your age. I think its smart of you. "  - That is the most naive thing I've ever heard.  Older definitely does not = more mature or open to commitment.....cripes...so much detail and examples could be given here...
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Older guys are just hot!!!  There is just a "what a stud" feeling that goes along with looking at older men.  My favorites are Sean Connery, Harrison Ford, and Bruce Willis. Ouch they are too hot.
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Gosh, I really agree with you on this one....I've been asking myself this question ever since I was a teenager...now I'm 36 and not much has changed....pretty sad huh??\nI really have no problem meeting guys that are attracted to me BUT they are never the ones that I would ever have a relationship with.....I have asked myself if I'm giving off the wrong kind of signs...etc..but in the end, it just doesn't seem to matter, I'm always right back to where I started.  I'm "best friends" with a guy now that I seriously have dated on and off for the past 5 years and we see eachother almost every day but he still isn't "in love" with me....I am 100% in love with this man and I have no doubts in my mind that he is a "soulmate" IF there is such a thing but I still don't "have" him.  I think there may be certain people out there who are just destined to spend the rest of their life single....not that that is such a bad thing....because I don't necessarily believe that you HAVE to get married but it sure would be nice to grow old with someone...I guess in the end only time will tell.   I guess I can say that I will always have my "pillow" that I hug every night...that won't be going anywhere real soon...ha ha ha
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IT WAS FOR ME.  MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WAS WHEN I WAS 18 AND HE WAS 43.  YUMMY!!!    AND I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE WHEN I WAS 24 AND HE WAS 44.  I SAY GO FOR IT.\n\nMY ATTRACTION WAS IN THE FACT THAT AN OLDER MAN KNEW EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTED OUT OF LIFE, WAS WORKING TO ACHIEVE THAT GOAL, AND I DIDN'T HAVE TO FINISH "RAISING" HIM.  I FOUND THEM TO BE MUCH MORE SELF-CONFIDENT, SETTLED, AND MATURE THAN THE YOUNGER MAN.  AND THE SEX WASN'T BAD EITHER---THEY WERE MUCH MORE INCLINED IN MAKING SURE THAT I WAS SATISFIED.....THEY WEREN'T SELFISH LIKE YOUNG FELLAS WERE.
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I've been married 15 years and have two kids. I did have one encounter with a guy friend years ago -I was 20 - im now 40. I do live a  str8 life - but I think about sex with guys lots more in my older age. Been bi curiose since i was ten years old. I am attracted to guys - but i will also keep my wedding vowes intact. I hope this helps you.
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Honestly, yes. I like very very well groomed men, I find it extremely sexy.