how do you get a person to stop spreading rumors about you?
474847
ok hey how r u ok first` girl just hang in there ok first u play nice u say ok u can tell anyone anything ABOUT me but i will not disrescept u or like i would play DIRTY  say ok tell anything about me but i will tell the whole schol you are gay ok ok  got me ok email me back at ashlee793@yahoo.com and tell me how it works ok bye girl
313745
its impossible. its the same thing at my job. i have been there for seven years, every DAY is new gossip. unfortunately thats just how people are. you can choose not to associate with them, but they will still talk about you--even if they are your 'friends'....\n\ntry not to talk about anyone, just ignore people when they bring up gossip around you or change the situation... tell whoever is gossiping--'look, i really dont like talking about other people' and change the subject. they will respect you for it, obviously you are more mature then them.\n\n\ngood luck .
859976
Type up all the dirt you have on her and leave it on her desk... don't put a name on it .... just a little add on note at the bottom saying if she doesn't stop spreading rumors this will be sent to management .... \nMay just make her stop all her "tattling" everyone will be better off\nGood Luck :)\nPersonally I'd confront her asking what the problem is ... then if needs be go to management with the same questions .\nThen theres always "Dial-a-Goon" to take care of those pesky office co-workers ...lol
1088732
dont worry ... u can get rid of all these just be ignorin them...and its good u have not spoken to him....don't talk to him in future as well cos uptill now ( when u have not talked ) he has spread wrong rumours then think wat will happen if u talk to him...\n\nso just ignore such nonsense....dont go for looks go for inner beauty.
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
1020512
What makes him believe that the rumors were spread by you?  Are all the "evidences" pointing towards you?  Then first thing you have to do is disprove them.  Explain things to him and have friends back you up.  Relationships are built on trust.  If your friend/partner doubts you because of ONE RUMOR,\nmaybe trust is missing in the first place.   Ask yourself, then, "Is he worth keeping and fighting for?"
1116402
just tell them in pirvate you dont like it if they are ur friend they will stop
686555
You could go your entire life trying to squash rumors.  My thing is that I would address folks that approach me ONLY.  You dont have time for the rest of it.  People are going to think what they are going to think.
412547
It's everywhere. There's almost no avoiding it. Just refuse to engage in that type of conversation and stick to your job. Don't become a recluse by any means, just avoid joining in their gossip. Listen if you have to but avoid commenting. Also hold your tongue when you feel like telling them they're all a bunch of adolescent idiots.
280463
Make sure you don't allow them to know much about you until your sure they are telling the truth...Good Luck..K
194963
Sometimes it is because it gives them attention and sometimes it is because they love to gossip and lie to make them cooler or have more friends. Just ignore them or tell them lies so they wont like you and you wont have to deal with them.
1076583
It's called Slander.... but very hard to prove!\n\nIf anyone asks or says anything to you regarding this person's statement/lie about you, I would simply state... "You don't know me very well, because if you did...you would know this is a made up story, told out of desperation. It is a lie. Please do not judge me until you know me better and have all the facts...and please consider the source of your information."\n\nBe sweet and kind, never sarcastic with anyone, don't bring up the subject yourself... and eventually, TRUTH always wins!! You will be a stronger and better person because of your actions/reactions.\n\nGod bless you...
494495
if they spread rumors about you or glare at you when you walk by or diss you in front of everybody
59894
How about stop listening to and talking to them.
304889
If he bothers you that much tell him you are not interested in hearing any of his stories. When he starts to talk to you ignore him.  He'll catch on and leave you alone.
53162
Sweetheart,\n\nLet these ridiculous rumors roll off of your back like water off of a duck. They're probably jealous of you about something. Don't give them the pleasure of seeing you upset. Just do what you have to do and stick with people who don't lie about you.\nThis is an important lesson in life, and it works\n\nI hope the best for you
590310
Living well is the best revenge. If this person is really trying to ruin your reputation, you can go to court and file a harassment charge. Other than that, you can simply do business in an ethical way, be active in your business community, be good to your employees and customers, etc. In other words, you build a reputation that flies in the face of what she says. She will eventually dig her own grave. Trust me.\n\nThis happened with a former boyfriend who broke up with me. He tried to justify it by telling his friends and his new girlfriend all kinds of things about me. I got even by being totally sweet to all of them. It was the best way to prove that his lies were not true and that I was better than he was, anyway,.