i love a girl but i can't express my love because i fear she might have a bf?
462985
If u r afraid that means u dont need her........if she has a boyfriend he wont du nuttin to u .......tell her....the time is ticking......u dont know what can happen in the next second or minute,,,,,,,time wont wait 4 u aii.....dont b afraid......go 4 wat u need in ur life.
445094
you have to feel this, if you are in a relationship you should feel loved ... and talk to her... or if it is too soon wait you will eventually find out..\ndon't worry so much if she is with you she must have some feelings for you cause you seem like a sensitive person by asking this question (you probably treat her pretty nice)...\nif you are not in a relationship then ask her out...
953555
Give it time, love is patience.  From the sound of things you haven't spent that much time with her, so love shouldn't even be in the picture.  Take a moment and think about your true feelings, and with her quietness: she may feel uncomfortable around you so make it so that she will feel comfortable then you probably wouldn't get her to shut up.  Or she may be shy because she probably likes you too.  But just take things slow.
856153
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
925544
Life is risk. I am in the same situation as you, except the girl I'm after has a boyfriend, but I'm going to tell her how I feel anyway. Stupid? Probably. But I don't want to look back in a few years and wonder 'what if'. You may lose a friend, and you may gain a girlfriend / boyfriend. Remember, fortune favours the bold. :)
160560
Just take a risk and talk to her.  The problem here is that you're too much of a romantic, falling in love with people you've never met.  What you really mean is that she's cute, right?  And if that's all, well, there are plenty of people who are cute.  So take a shot at talking to her, no skin off your nose!  Rejection is healthy, you can't help but learn from it.
472333
that's true love.if you really love her then go out with her and get to know her better to see if she is your type.if everything goes well then continue dating and soon you'll be gf and bf.also be sweet and funny and creative about what you do
478971
OMG, i had that same problem, but mine escilated to a much more intense factor.  What i would tell you would do, that is doesn't matter what other people think about you, as long as your BF knows that you like like him (i wont say love because that might be to deep) then it doesnt matter.  I know noone whats to hear that because from my own experiance just believing that wont help and that is probally what you dont want to hear.  what i would do is spread rumors that is she/he is a lieing bi*ch and then more people would like to beleive you than her because if they think she is a lier then they would believe you...well i hope i helped!  Oh and one other thing.  Dont become her freind again!  i made that mistake, move on, that is what i found out too late
478584
Well i guess you should wait for somemore time and get to know her better.By the way are you in love with her???\nIf yes its better you tell her that you love her.People sometimes lose their love cause they never tell that they are in love just because they are afraid of rejection.Well if you dont tell hr now that you love her you might regret it later.If she says no atleast you will know that she doesn't want to have a relationship with you.Atleast you will not have to guess all your life.
1185721
well i think you should just get over your fear and ask her out. so that way you let her know you like her feel me. and if she says she can't be yours then you just have to get over her. i mean giving her flowers don't mean you really like someone it can mean anything. so one day call her and tell her how you really feel about her. YOU CAN DO IT.
135419
if she is a free girl...ask her to have a private talk even just in a restaurant and tell her that u love her, nothing will be lost whenever u tell her that at least u can express ur feelings and shockingly, maybe she also loves u, just waiting for ur first move....
1065805
ok well me as being a girl if the same thing happened to me i would be a bit freaked out to.. you should probably try to write her a note and tell her that you understood she has a boyfriend and ask her on a date... if shes single then go for it... if that was me i would totally talk to you again
113498
as far as finding out if she likes you i would suggest that you talk to her and if all else fails ask her if she does like you. but personally i would let it go. if she's with her current bf simply because she doesn't want to be single then if you two actually did get together then she might be doing the same thing to you in the near future and that's just not fair to you.
593191
No you are not chasing an impossible dream. Anything is possible. Hang in there. Nobody knows the future. Just because she considers you as a friend doesn't mean anything. Remember friendship is where a relationship starts. Love takes time and it may be that it is taking her longer to except her feelings. Just because she doesn't say she doesn't love you don't mean it wont happen. Good luck to you hun. I know you will find happiness.
296921
Well, i think this girl loves you very much and fears losing you and that you may cheat on her
861002
you two have been developed a mutual understanding which more likely you both feels the feeling of a couple or bf&gf. becuase you've been start as a very good friend and probably a best friend but you didn't realise that you have developed a relationship already through mutual understanding. but you both will feel awkward of your real feelings as you still thought that you are just friend and nothing else but behind there's already a special feeling that been developed. There's a possibility as well that one of you scared to feel this special feeling otherwise your relation as a friend will be broken, but i'm pretty sure there's a LOVE hanging in the air already between the 2 of you. sometimes denying of the real feeling make things confused and weird..wish you luck!
1135744
Great I found you because I'm in similar position... So in love with a guy but didn't know what to do. So lonely and wish he knew how I feel but still fear what will happen if he does know\n\nIt really depends on what the girl believes in. She may be really straight forward and express her love to you. OR, she may be like me, who believes that the guy shall make the first move, and she'll drop hints hopefully you'll pick them up and start confessing your love to her like Romeo to Juliet\n\nAin't it a beautiful dream come true?\n\nReady to do anything, that's really sweet... Stick to it then... And decide what you should do, and fast! The love boat doesn't travel to your shore all the time, get it on before you miss it... good luck!