How do I know if i am annoying to the guy i'm interested?
468743
If he was that interested, he'd make the time for you and put some effort into getting to know you. Don't chase the guy, let him chase you, or else you might come off as desperate or clingy.
241490
He is either shy or not interested in you, but don't want to hurt your feelings why he dosen't comment. If he is someone you talk with  daily and in private, you can confront him then. If he is someone you don't really socialize with and he is in the "cool crowd" as they call it he might embarass you in the end. \nI don't know him, but you do. Ask your self what type of person he is, an embarassing one, or one who cares about others feelings, you can easily decide how you want to approach. Make sure you confront him, don't let a few years pass and you are left wondering what might have happen if you had ask him how he feels about you.
109197
Well, it may sound cliche, but mannerisms are a hint.  I say hint because of all the "halfway" metros (no offence).  No, honestly, the best way is to actually talk to this person.  Be polite and professional, and after a while, you should know.  Best advice if you are interested.\nHowever, if you are not interested and just want to know if this person may have a thing for you, you really need to understand that it's all around, everywhere you turn.  Unattractive girls, homosexual men, if they end up having a thing for you, take it as a compliment, let them know your position, and that's that.  They should respect your decisions and lifestyle, and if not, the issue is not with you so you're in the clear.\nHope this helps.
559262
It does sound like he is trying to ignore u, don't let it get u down there's a lot more where that came from. As far as the shyness goes, it can be kinda difficult to get around that, I know cuz I was like that(still kinda am). It's all on you if your willing to take the first step and talk to him, it's easier for women cuz most guy's will feel like it's a good ice breaker and if there interested then they'll try to keep up the conversation. My best advice to you would be to is to not worry about what the other person might think about you, cuz some times you gotta swing the bat and if you miss then oh well you'll do better next time.
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
432170
First I would need to know what he does that makes him annoying at lunch and what makes him sweet at gym. I would be able to answer your question better if I had those two peices of information.\nMy advise is to just talk to him more and see what happens.\nYou sound young, so just behave yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!
659922
No. If you like him and you know he likes you, then why would you ignore him?? That would give him the impression that you DON'T like him. And guys don't like to play games.
696373
try finding out some of his interests, start talking about things he likes, (even if you think they suck)  that will get his attention and then he can find out the real you.  if ya'll are already friends, either write him a note cuz i know people freeze up, or ask him if he wants to go to dinner, or a movie, or a club/bar pending on how old you are.  that way he can focus attention on you, and hopefully things will go your way, good luck girl!!
599073
First of all, does he show any indication that he's interested?  Is he dating someone else?  If the answer is no and you are friends to begin with, just ask him while in converstion, Start by saying. "Hey, Feel like going for a coffee or something?"  If he says no and has no reason why, then he's not interested.  If he's interested and takes you up on your invitation, then you got the ball rolling and now it's in his court.  Good luck!
648269
strike up a conversation with him and slip it in while your talking if he doesn't like you the same then he probably won't notice or pretend he didn't, if he does like you he'll notice. Good luck
633860
First - Look at there eyes you should be able to tell if they act shifty\nSecond - Look at them with a strait face and ask them if they are lying \nFinally - Ask the guy who asked the one guy to ask you out if he had said that or if he hadn't\n\nP.S. you my want to do the final thing in private so that there is no one to laugh at you
746900
Sweety, just talk to the guy you rejected before this Jonthan geek, tell him what you told me now, and see what he says. If he still likes you you will know by his reaction.
116949
Well, try to get him to notice you. Maybe you could find out what makes you his turn offs and resolve it. But don't confront him just yet. Then try to find out his turn ons. If one of his turn ons criteria matches you, thats your secret weapon. But don't get too desperate! Get things slowly done. Im a bit naughty myself :p
998130
If you let a guy know you like them and they do nothing then they are either not interested or too shy to do you much good anyway.  He's a guy, if he's interested all it takes is the hint your interested and he should be on it. If you really really like this guy talk to his friends to find out whats going on. If you hound him you might chase him off. So best bet is just ask one of his friends if he's at all interested. If he is then just let him do the rest. \n\nGood luck.
237166
If he made the effort to come up to you, he maybe interested in you.  Depending on what signals he gets from you will tell him if YOU are interested in him.  Just play it cool and if  you see him...say Hi and smile.  He will respond or not....and then you will have your answer!
945446
Just ask him if you draw attention to him and if not try to fix it
952640
If old, obnoxious guys turn you on - go for it!  Opposites attract, right?