i dont know what to do!?
463995
first of all, i know people are going to answer MUCH differently than me, but I've been through this (more than once) with friends.\na BEST or REALLY GOOD friend, would keep the secret.  thats right.  dont blab.  if it bothers you, you need to talk to her.  ask her if you can help.  most people just do it for attention, others truly NEED the pain to stop thinking of what bothers them every day.  Some people think that theyre 'rebelling'\nAnd yes, she will hate you for telling.  Even if she does want attention, she'll still hate you.  kiss the friendship byebye. \nConfront her.  tell her it bugs you.  it scares you.  just tell her how you feel.  say that you knew that it would be better to talk to her about it than someone else.  they'll like to hear that.  it shows that they can trust you.  believe it or not, they smiled (inside) even if just for a split second.  \nDont get mad.  Don't say 'If you dont stop, i cant/wont be your friend!'  this, is also a good way to throw away a friendship.  \nDont push it.  If they say they dont want to talk about it.  Dont ask anymore.  drop it.  completely.  BUT...make sure to say that THEY can talk to YOU whenever they feel the need.  this shows trust.\n\nI hope i've helped.  But truly, don't tell.  Even if it doesnt ruin a friendship, it makes it very very awkward.  You wont be 'best' friends anymore.\n\nSORRY IF I WAS TOO BLUNT! :)
667853
Not knowing what to do do..with so much of goodness waiting for u... lol
1147004
Wait for some time and never do anything drastic.\nThis problem will be solved on its own.
162660
Ask him what's up.. Talk to him. He's probably acting weird for a reason. Find out what's up.
574076
talk to him!!\nlet it all out
506331
what u think? what should u do? ask urself
292712
Probably nothing.  If you are able to talk to your boyfriend and explain what is happening, that might be nice, but you may not have that opportunity.  Other than that, there's not much you can do.  You didn't include very much information in your question, so it's hard to know what to tell you.  Maybe if you add more details we will be able to help you out a little bit more.
138380
hey do something different, dont be bored, so much to do find yr fun its out there ;-)
330484
ask them whats going on... if they ditch you again, get new friends!
570296
well u could do what i did.... do nothing... let it guide u whereever it takes.. and pleassse dont try to think  sooo much... ur wasting on such wonderful time.. :D\nPEAce
762466
"<insert totally ridiculous situation here> What should I do?"
1117184
time to move on.... change your life... tell him NO... make the rules and stick to them..... the more you give in to him the more he will stick to you .... STOP giving him mixed signals and move on ............ God bless
1084853
Tell him straight up, just do what you gotta do.  You have the option!
512128
u can only help urself, just ask him, u cant do nething else, at least u'll get to know wat gonna happen, dats all!!
958487
ummm..leave him.   you needed an asnwer to that?!?!?!?!
953988
Ask for goodness sakes!  How are you going to be able to find out if things are going to get better if you don't take the next step.  Are you going to wait and depend on him?  He is probably totally oblivious.  You might have a long wait.  SOMEBODY needs to make a decision.  Good luck!
688597
All of you step back and take a breather. Spend a bit of time alone before doing anything as you still sound a bit confused about your feelings to be honest. Then you'll make a good decision