how could i know if the guy loves me ?
467987
he'll give you a far away look
129399
You don't, not really.  You have to go on feeling.  How does he act?  Do you ever wonder if he's telling you the truth?  Does he show signs of keeping things from you?  Do you always feel frustrated with him?  These are all signs of disloyalty.\n\nBut does he hold your hand for no reason?  Does he have a sweet smile on his face when you catch him looking at you?  Does he do cute little things for you just because?  These are signs of romance.  It's your call.  If you are having some problems but it still feels right then you might have the real thing.\n\nGood luck!!!
97761
a smile.  a back-rub.  a giggle.  a hand on his arm while driving.\n\nwomen don't know how much things like this mean... everything else is just material stuff.  Think about really why he chooses to be with you and go for his "love jugular".
601653
He will have to prove it day by day. His actions will tell. If he loves you you may feel loved.
434663
ask him why he loves or what he loves about you... or say "I want a divorce", "I'm seeing someone else", or (my fav. since my "abduction") "I screwed a chicked", if he has a "sudden" and radical action... yeah he, more than likely, love you.
973249
If a guy likes you-\n\n1. he will sit by you whenever he can\n\n2. he always takes things from you and hides them\n\n3. he makes eye contact as much as possible\n\n4. he messes with your hair\n\n5. he laughs at you just to see you smile and tell him to shut up!\n\n6. he asks about your day\n\n7. When the two of you have play fights, he always agrues, no matter what\n\n8. he sneaks up on you\n\n9. his friends ask if youre going out yet\n\n10. ..he tells you he loves you, and really means it
1155769
You will know when man loves you when he is totally faithful to you, doesn't hide things or lie (ie. is open and honest), when he treats you like you are the most important person in his life, when he respects your opinion (even if it is different from his), when he puts you first before himself and when he makes you feel like you are the most beautiful woman on earth to him and he sincerely means it. I know because my man of 18 years still does all of these things every day!
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
1121556
most likely he is in love with you , and wants to know how you feel befor he tells you i love you
288200
Ask him and trust him or ask him and let your heart guide your way. You'll know...
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
516926
It's not that easy to tell since it varies from guy to guy, but generally if he's the cool, confident type, he'll be the one to tell u eventually. But if not then, u should be able to tell by the little things he does around you. (nervousness etc.) or how he'd make excuses just to spend some time w/ u (e.g. offer to carry your books, or walk u to ur classes etc.) But the surest way to know would definitely be in his eyes, just the simple way he looks at you, or how he turns away when you try and look at him. (usually when ur crushing heavily on somebody it's really hard to look them in the eye) But hey, even if this dsnt wrk, relax. Let him make the first move, enjoy life! No use worrying abt it. If he likes you, then he'll definitely make a move.
652415
You can't. Unless a guy tells you what he's feeling (and even then there can be some doubt), you'd be guessing at best. However, if he expresses affection for you, tries to talk to you/contact you on a daily basis, and has made sexual advances to you, it's probably safe to assume that he's attracted to you at the very least.
106161
There are a lot of ways you cant tell if he does love you. If he has toled you he loves you then it is probably true. Knowing that he still stands by you even if his family dislikes you is another good sign, but there are a lot of other things too. Someone you love should also be your best friend. Can you trust him? can you talk to him about anything? Does he come to you with his problems? Does he let you hangout with him in front of his friends? Do you suspect hes trying to hide anything from you? If he really loves you then he'll show it, and you'll know for sure. If you have any doubts or questions about his actions or love for you then you can also talk to him about it. If he loves you and you love him you should be able to talk to him aboout anything, even this.
767159
I know if he cares; \n\ncalls everyday, says "I love you", compliments me, makes sure that everyday I am alright, goes places with me, turns down his boys for me, and overall...\n\nmakes me happy. \n\nI'd say that he cares about you! \n\nGood Luck! \n:) \n\nMaddi
349874
he might love u... or he might just have a problem with showinggg love..or he doesnt know how.. ask him about it.. be like.. im just curius.. u clm u love me, but u dont show it to me.. see what he says.. then u can catch him that way if hes lieing or not as well..