marriage essential in life?
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Marriage is not essential, it's a choice one make when he/she don't want to be alone.\n\nMarrige according to the Book of Malachi(Holy Bible), says God instituted marriage to seek godly seed. It was designed for this purpose and to be enjoy by married people only.\n\nI Corinthians says stay as you are called, so if you can be celebate, a eunich, or such then don't marry. It's better to marry than to burn with passion.
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I highly recommend living with the person before marriage. Personally, it kept me from making the  mistake of my life! You really get to know the real person behind all of the magic that you see from each time you get to see them. What kind of partner they will be in house chore situations, when money is tight, their ability to take and deal with certain responsibilities, all of the important components that make a marriage work well. I know that alot of people aren't keen to the idea of 'living in sin' but it is your life, and thank goodness society has changed a bit. Hopefully this helps.
126686
You don't have to marry the person you love. I have loved many people in my life... my mother and father... my brother (from time to time)... my best friend... my teachers in college... the pastor of my church... and so on... \n\nI think the genuine question is the reverse of what you are asking - Is it necessary to love the person you marry? And for that it is definitely yes.
490393
Such a good question. I think the most important things in a relationship are friendship and trust. Passion comes and goes and if you're not friends and don't trust each other... you'll get a divorce eventually. So I vote for reason!(You do have to love the guy of course :)
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I think it is. I think we are supposed to get married and have a family. We then find what true love is. When you have kids its something unlike anything else and to me the marriage comes before the kids so without that....you don't get the honor. You don't get to know what it feels like. I believe that there is someone for everyone and God will put this person in front of you when you least expect it and you will know this is the one.
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I think marriage is wonderful! It is absolutely amazing to me.  My husband and I will be married 5 years this July (Lord's willing) and it seems like we are still in the honeymoon phase.!!!\n\n\nI also think that if more people would incorporate what the Bible says about marriage into their life, that there would not be so many divorces.
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I belive that love before marriage is essential to enable a life long loving marriage. Apologies if I wrong, but are you actually asking about sex before marriage?\n\nThis is a totally different question - and the answer must be, as far as I can see, that it is totally up to the two people that are in the relationship.\n\nYou are correct that nowadays many youngsters (and, of course, some 'oldies') have casual sex - this is their own choice and as long as they protect themselves from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases who are we to judge?\n\nUltimately, we all have our own cultural and personal morals and standards to live up to and as long as we are comfortable with our individual choices and do not cause intentional pain or suffering to others we should do as we see fit. \n\nLove and sex do not have to be entwined, but in my experience the latter without the former is never as satifying to the body or soul.\n\nGood luck in the choices youu make..
772496
Marriage isn't for everyone.  If you know that about yourself then you are ahead of the game.  A lot of people never figure it out and spend years destroying other peoples lives.
1022597
Sometimes.  But mostly because we need love and companionship just like everyone.  We could probably get this without being married but the committment of marriage makes us feel stable.
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good to know you take marriage seriously, guy.  asking a woman to marry you should be nerve racking as all get out!  \n\nkeep in mind, "marriage" is only sacred if a person makes good on his/her lifetime vow "to love, honor, and cherish" their spouse ...the commitment is renewed and lived each and every day.
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ya. mine's is a love marriage and we are going great. it's not always succes. lets hope for the best to happen in others life too. it is not always a bed of roses. u have to face lot obstacles. if ur completely in love with each other then nothing can stop u to become one and can lead a very happy life. dont take love for granted, it's really a god's gift which all cannot enjoy. there is a lot of difference between love and infatuation. so dont mistook between love and infatuation. i wish u all the best if ur in love with someone and wants to marry. go for it and enjoy  a happy life.
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I think that love and kindness plays the most important role. \n\nThink of the little things- kind words and thoughtfulness on a daily basis and taking time to talk will hold your marriage together. Grand gestures, great sex and money are nice, but aren't the glue that holds it together. \n\nHope this helps.
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Marriage can be a very beautiful thing when its w/ the right person.  I can hardly wait to marry my fiance.  We live together now and its hard but great.  You have to work at it like everything else in life to make it wonderful.  You get out what you put into basically.
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no  dear  it  is  not  necessary  .but  it  is  true  to  whom you  love  from  heart  will  come  to  you  one  day .really\nbut  it  should  be  true love
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Sex in marriage is a must, before that, NO!\n\nOut of marriage, sex is just an instinct full get together used to fulfill your passions or desires. You just do the body thing, get filled up, and that's all. Sex should not take place before marriage.\n\nIn marriege, sex complements the relation, helps the couple to get deeper feelings, respect, and all those kind of stuff.
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Love is the chemical reaction that drives humans into reproduction which is vital for the continuation of the human species. So yes, it is necessary in life. \n\nOn a more spiritual note, it is nice to have love in your life, and many would say their life would be incomplete and meaningless without it,.
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Any human?\nMost humans never understand themselves.  Marriage is a legal and sometimes religious contract to allow two people to stick together while they are finding out about themselves.\nIt is only as valuable as the honesty and loyality of the people making the vows.