well,am in love with a guy and he is not always around me he travels alot,and there is another guy who loves m
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u sure have many ppl after u dont u ? if the guy ur in love with comes back for u each time that means that he still loves u and u should stick with him. if he was never meant to be he would never come back. this is telling u something. u might have find ur true love.
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I think it is great to explore your options and see who is out there. If you feel like flirting...go ahead and explore...my feeling is if you don't want to get attatched...don't sleep with anyone one the trip...you may find the love of your life! Hope you have a great time! MayMay
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I would give them both a shot. You never know maybe the guy with money is for you. In the end, only settle for love but give each guy a shot. If he drools over you and is good to you. Love can grow
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you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)
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i am in love with some1 who ive never met b4 ive never met him person to person but i do know him and talk to him, I think i love him because he is such a great person and makes me feel soo good. I know for  a fact that he would do anything for me.
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Love travel's either on a smooth or rough road, and everything else in between.  Be observant and realize what's going in for the month you've been with him. If you two are getting along, then let love run it's course. Love grows, it just doesn't happen overnight... Dr Checko... (Nickname)
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im going thru the same situation..its like u love the person soo much that u dont wanna leave him..and its like u cant live with or without him ...how i wish the guys understood this! mayb give him some time..try to explain....take one more chance..cuz if ur in true love,u wont b able to leave him..but rather adjust his way cuz in a relationship,one has to submit to other's wishes.
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Sadly, currently i am the other man in that kind of triangle.(except she is not marride but living with the guy) I am in love with this woman.  But she will never leave this guy.  I was being used the whole time.  You are not in love with both of these men. You just crave attention anyway you can get it and dont wont to feel guilty.  I bet if you look hard enough one of these men really do luv you and is the best for you.  But you are not a strong enough person to do the work it takes to be in a real relationship.  No matter what these men are going to get hurt. AND YES IT IS YOUR FAULT!!  you are the bad guy in this!
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wow...I'm in the EXACT same position. I could've asked this question because I'm going through the same thing. I've been absolutely infatuated with this guy and don't know what I will do once he leaves. It's so difficult but the best way to get through it is to find another guy. It sounds much easier than it really is because no one compares to "him."
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It all depends on whether or not your comfortable having a long-distance relationship. if you chose the guy who lives further away, you'd have to deal with seeing the other guy all the time.
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your in love when you cant see yourself without them. they become the other half of you.your goals and life paths are intertwined.
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Either he IS in a relationship or he ISN'T in a relationship.\nThere is no such thing as 'kinda in'.\nYou are infatuated because he is unavailable to you. Stay out of it. Please try again.
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What you need to do is get together with him and discuss a plan.  Now if its because he is far away then decide when will he be moving closer or plan a set schedule of when you can get together and visit.  If he is close then you must decide on a schedule of what days you guys will hang out on.  If you dont let him know that not seeing him is bothering you he will never know... trust me Im a guy and we think differently.  And eventually you will both lose feelings for each other and it wont be at the same time so one of you will defintely get their feelings hurt.  So in short, Make A Plan. (mutual plan that is)
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Go with that feeling, because he doesn't really love you. There are millions of other guys out there.
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Well... You can't really help who you like or not. If you really think that the guy you love is more important to you, stick with him and if not you shouldn't pressure yourself that's for sure...
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I do not express my love and feelings about my guy to a stranger.
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How do you know that what you feel is indeed LOVE?? Have you and this guy spent enough time together, shared your thoughts, etc.? It is usual for one party to fall in love with the other. Has this guy led you on at all?? If you really are in love with the guy, and he does not know, THEN YOU SHOULD TELL HIM EXACTLY WHAT AND HOW YOU FEEL!! COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY INGREDIENT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP! If he does not reciprocate for whatever reason, then you just need to accept the truth as hard as it might be and then move on.