Why do friends claim to be they are real to you when they forget the good things that you've done once you err
461345
Dont worry too much about your mate. if they are a real friend then they will see what you mean to them - without you helping them. remember that you cant force someone to be your friend. also try and think if you need a friend who doesn't care for you, and that someone can only stay sweet while being hurt for so long, even if they dont mean it.\ntrust me, i know what you are going through from experience and that this is a hard thing to go through, but stay strong
1040755
A lot of times people do drugs, excessive drinking, etc. to help with their "past" issues. (it makes it worse on them, they just do not realize it.)  it was a time when they thought they had it all together, and at the time, their friends would accept their weird, strange and sometimes stupid behavior, to the other people... they were just party buddies. No one really cared about them. In a sense when people "fall back", they are looking for the security that they once had.  For us that Love these people, they believe that we nag at them to start fights, Which in reality "we" know that the person is better then the "past", they just do not see it that way.
202295
What did they do that you can't trust them?  If they are your friends then I am sure at one time you did trust them
219062
For some people you are their friend if you tell them what they want to hear and if you do what they want you to do. But actually you are a good friend if you tell them the truth and if you do what is best for them
947648
OK but friends tell friends why they lost everything.
288347
When someone does something unkind to you, we say they have "wronged" you.\n\nReligious people are taught to forgive and forget.\n\nIf you "Remember no wrongs" you have not only forgiven the wrong doer but you have forgotten the incident.
911244
The same thing happens to me, and I don't really understand either.  It might be their conceitedness, but it really depends on the person.  It takes a while to find a good person, so keep at it.  Think of it as a way to filter out the bad friends and colleagues; going for the best instead.  If they don't talk to you, maybe they're having a bad day, or even going through the same thing as you.
575214
Yes, there are many fake people in this world, tell me about it. I had a friend just like that, she'd always go on about herself and complain how her life was hard, yet when I tried to confide in her, she didn't have time to listen! She's no longer a so called friend of mine, can't be dealing with that.
1145622
Its a disease but not yours! Alot of my friends are fake and get upset when me or some of the others are doing well for themselves. It really gets to me cos I thought you are supposed to be happy for your friends. They are really competitive and always try to outdo me. I think I annoy them cos Im good at alot of things and have loads of different hobbies. Dont let people wear you down. True friends will stick by you and you WILL find them sometime. People can be sh#t but feck them and know that you are a good person.
841788
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
428415
it hurts being used and taken for granted and remember what goes around comes around... i believe there's such thing as karma, coz now i'm paying for being a biatch such as you in the past.
13264
People tend to hide the parts of themselves that they do not like or do not wish to deal with.  Friends allow us to be open and get feedback on our version of reality.  Most peoblems with others usually start by miscommunication.  Friends also allow us to practice communicating, verbally and otherwise.
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Of course I do.It bugs me because there are some people that you could just be hanging out with and then they do something that is just horrid so they say sorry.  Then the same thing happens again.  Some time or another it just gets old and thats when i wonder why they just don't think before they act.    This doesn't mean that everyone doesnt think before they act it just means that sometimes people get a little carried away.
116625
Nope.. real friends don't peer presure you into anything. Real friends respect you.
582294
Real friends are friends that are willing to help you when you are in trouble..and also willing to sacifice for you(not sacrifice his/her life..thats too much)\n\nThey are also friends who always remember you..although you have not talked for a long time..
104737
Some times, yes. then again , sometimes, no. Some peoplr pretend they are your friends and they are really using you for their own selfish gains. But then there are those who good honest friends who you put your life on the line for, Those are hard to find.
685090
who ever forget about my friendship is not worth the try.\nI usually forget them.