How do you find a birth parent when adoptive parent will give you no info?
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Check with your states vital statistics
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can you give a little more info on what your circumstances are? where do you live, where were you born, why were you seperated from your birth mother, etc? that will help to find the appropriate site.\n\n\n(just a note to anyone else in this situation... don't forget, the people who raise you are just as much your "real" parents as your biological ones. it's important to know where you came from- but think about who made you who you are. Don't mean to preach, but... spare a thought for the folks who loved you for your whole life and who might feel hurt if you appear to reject them, make sure they know you love 'em, ne?)
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Why wouldn't your parents tell you.  If you weren't I would think they would tell you of course not so you very well may be.  They will probably tell you when you are old enough to handle all that entails.  Don't think you could find it on the web especially if it was a closed adoption as most are.
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yes....i would deffinately search for my birth parents...\ni am not adopted, but my biological father left my mum pregnant with twins (me and my sister) so i didnt even know him or anything about him...i grew up thinking that my stepdad was my real dad until i was about 7 and a half when they told us because we had to go to our real grandfathers funeral! i never realy wondered about my real father, but recently however, me and one of my good friends have been looking onto finding our birth fathers as her dad left when her mum was pregnant too!...i want to find him, but only to get like medical history and just to know a LITTLE bit about where i came from on his side and not just on mums side...so i think that if you DO want to know a bit about your birth mum then go ahead and go for it, because nothing is holding you back except yourself! and your fears of what she is really like, so dont hold back!
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If you know her full name, then you can google it and maybe there's some place she's online where you can get her address or at least some more information about her.  You can also try typing in her name at a special internet company that looks for cell/home phone numbers when you supply the name of the person.  Keep in mind the number(s) many be under her parents' names if she is young.
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If you have any idea what base he is stationed at, you might be able to find him if you know his last name and social security number, but since you don't know his unit, I doubt you know his social. You can try contacting the base locator to find him, there is probably a number for the base operator in the local phone book, but my advice is to start making plans to make decisions for the baby yourself, since it seems unlikely you will find him. If he is the father, hope that he will call you, and do the right thing by you. Good luck. I hope it all works out, my prayers are with you and your baby.
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My birth mother found me, but it took years.  She knew only my Adopted last name and the religion of my parents.  she researched painstakingly through computer phone books.  Since then(98) I have helped others.  No money required.  Contact me, and give me what info you do have.  I can help.
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Easy question, easy answer, but you'll need patience.\n\nIf you cannot get hold of the mother and father, or they don't have this info for you, try contacting the county hall of records where he was born.  You can get a copy of the birth cert., though you'll need to pay for it.  It is under the heading of Vital Records in most counties and it's public documentation.\n\nIf you are referring to a newspaper announcement, you need only contact that newspaper and ask for access to the archives for that month.  Do a search for his last name and you'll have it.  \n\nIf you don't know the county or the newspaper/publication it was in, the Internet will help you out there, as well.
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Try doing searches of the local phone directories using the given name.  I'm thinking it is really possible that you might find something that way.  Try: http://www.verizon.com or even Yahoo! People Finder.  We have located a number of missing alumni with these types of searches.  Good luck.  But, it really can be a big, and sometimes unwelcome, shock for an adopted child to hear from a birth parent.  Be prepared for disappointment.  Mr. Robinson may not be as anxious to hear from you as you are to hear from him.\n\nIt is also likely that he was adopted by someone and now has their name.  An adoption search might be more helpful.  Try the free Adoptee & Birth Family Registry at http://www.birthfamily.com/registry/ .  This might be a better way to learn if he is interested to find you.\n\nAgain, good luck in your search.
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There are lots of adoption support groups online that can help you. \n\nwww.zabasearch.com\n\nwww.ussearch.com (the first part is free)..and this can tell you where she lives..(city and state)\n\nwhite pages to find listed people\nwww.theultimates.com\n\nGreat Articles\nhttp://www.adoption-help.org\n\nSupport Groups:\n\nhttp://groups.msn.com/theforgottenpeople...\n\nYahoo! Groups\nhttp://groups.yahoo.com\n\nSearchingRegistry\nfamilytiesadoptionsearch\nadoptee-support\nsoaringangels\nusaadoptiondatabase\ntouchedbyadoption\n\n\nGoogle Groups\nalt.birthright\nalt.support.adoption\nalt.support.adoption\n\n\nNever Give Up!
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There are a number of ways to go about this.  It is definitely harder if you do not know her name.  I happen to not know my biological grandmother, but I am in the proccess of using personal searches to find her.  There are a number of different websites that offer that particular service.\n\nAnother thing that you can do is talk to the government (if you are willing to take it that way).  They can help in locating people, especially if you can think of a reason such as child support.
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well if you know where the adoption taking place they may be able to help you .i went to the place where i was adoption and they came me some info but they couldn,t give me her name on the place
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here are lots of adoption support groups online that can help you. Never Give Up! \n\nwww.zabasearch.com \n\nwww.ussearch.com (the first part is free)..and this can tell you where she lives..(city and state)\n\nwhite pages to find listed people\nwww.theultimates.com\n\nGreat Articles\nhttp://www.adoption-help.org\n\nSupport Groups:\n\nhttp://groups.msn.com/theforgottenpeople...\n\nYahoo! Groups\nhttp://groups.yahoo.com\n\nSearchingRegistry\nfamilytiesadoptionsearch\nadoptee-support\nsoaringangels\nusaadoptiondatabase\ntouchedbyadoption\n\n\nGoogle Groups\nalt.birthright \nalt.support.adoption\nalt.support.adoption\nSource(s):\nNever Give Up!
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Birth records are kept on a county by county basis.  You will need to call or visit the county seat where you think you may have been born.  If you're lucky, you will find the right county on the first try.  You may be able to contact birth records office in each of these states to determine if they have this info on a state wide basis. Chances are, this info is available on the Internet through their web sites.  Someone here will come up with those web addresses, so stand by.
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1st thing - I am adopted too! I have 2 siblings that were also adopted through catholic charities, but in NJ. I was adopted privately so my situation is a little different. I know my medical history, because I met my birth mother about 6 years ago and my full-bro & 2 half-bros that live with her. She is a wonderful person, who made the right decision and gave me a better life, were such good friends now.  \n\n * CAll Catholic charities - they can help you. They may not be able to tell you where you sibling are though - they need there permission. The best I could do is have letters put in there files incase they ever want to look for me. I'm pretty much stuck their - there's nothing else I can do - becasue I don't know there adopted names. I must say, I know not everyone has good expiences when searching for biological family - so be prepared for rejection, but dont take it personally - they dont even know you.
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Hmm, technically if his name is not recorded anywhere on anything legal, you could claim you don't know who her father is.\n\nThe court would publish a notice of the intent of adoption in the local papers for a few weeks, and if the father doesn't appear to object, then all goes through without a problem.\n\nIf you had acknowledged anywhere that he was her father, you would still have to notify him and get his approval, but I would just play dumb and say you don't know who her father is.\n\nUnfortunately even if the father doesn't visit the child, pay child support, etc. he still has rights in the eyes of the law.  Stupidest thing I have ever heard of, but oh well...
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You need to contact the County Recorder (in the county each was born in).  Usually you can find out online from each county website their procedures to obtain a birth certificate or ways to contact them.\n\nGood Luck!