how can i improve my fella's sex drive, its dropped and he doesn't know why?
464071
Maybe Its Something To Do With You...?
657618
Back off him for a bit for starters, he's probably exhausted! No men like being badgered into more sex, the pressure sucks and doesnt make it very enjoyable. FInd out when he likes doing it, try different things, get that spark back, just try asking him what he wants/likes!
550402
play longer with him before making love and encourage him to stop taking too much of sugar as i learnt that it weakens erection and also, encourage him to take some herbs and learn his G.spot it might help.
94650
It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
783628
He needs to have his testosterone level checked some men especially those over 45 have low testosterone levels whichis the direct corolation to the sex drive.\nThis is the absolute first thing that needs to be checked b4 anything else. No testosterone = no drive\nAnd if thats the problem its a fairly easy fix
501759
I think your man has issues...most of all, it sounds as if he is very insecure about his sexual performance.\n\nOften, when there are problems with sex, there are corresponding problems elsewhere in the relationship. \n\nI would want to ask you, are you happy with your relationship in other ways? If sex if the only area of your relationship that you are not satisfied with, then yes, it is worth giving him another chance. When you talk to him, it will help if you are very reassuring to him. Tell him the two of you are in this together and you would like to help him to work it out.\n\nIf there are other areas in the relationship that aren't working, I would say that you seriously need to consider leaving. Sex is not the most important part of a loving relationship. But if you feel that something is missing, you will be unhappy unless you resolve it one way or another. And that won't help you or your man.\n\nHope this helps and wishing you good luck.
698861
First, he should wash after sex and use lotion.  Next, some men don't have a high sex drive.  Why do you even bring up cheating on him.  If you really love him this would not even be an option that you'd have thought of.  Yes, you are too young but there are people younger than you married so- give him some space.  Lots of men when they are stressed out have a hard time even thinking about sex.  Communicate!!!!!
739919
If there is no physical reason for his loss of interest, then you need to rule out other reasons (stress, depression, etc.). If that does not explain why he has lost interest, then you all need to have a good, long heart to heart discussion... \nEveryone has a their own idea about how much sex is enough per day, week, month, or even ever.... You will need to openly discuss your needs with your boyfriend. If he is willing to up the frequency then great! If not, you may want to really think about whether or not you want to continue the relationship. Other people may write and tell you that sex is not as important as love, blah blah... but sex is the #2 reason for divorce in the U.S., so I think it must be important to some of us, lol!
83636
Maybe he isn't stimulating you enough anymore maybe your body is used to him. Try different postions. Trust me the one we did the other day I did org.
791570
If you're man is that much into it that you lose one of your most basic human functions (i.e. walking) then that should be reason enough!\n\nSeriously, what is going on?  Maybe you should pop him some sleeping pills right after dinner.
585923
when you two do have sex...do you orgasm...\nif the answere is NO...that explaines the LOW drive...why do something if there is NO pleasure in it for you...\n\njust a thought....\n\nmaybe toys can help..\nthe thought of sex with NO toy is a turn off for me...means i go without and he gets pleasured...sucks big time...
837636
make it to a next step.. be friends with benifits... If he is busy.. then he will appreciate the sexual gifts from you.. sex releases stress.. and might bring you 2 closer...
1037148
It sounds like your man has low testosterone. This is very common for a guy his age. He can get a blood test by his doctor to see if he suffers from low test. This can be caused by lack of exercise, bad diet, overweight, lazy, and just age. He could try over the counter natural formulas to get him back in the saddle again like enzyte. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. Many young people in their upper 20s are going through the same thing now days. I would get him started with finding out what is causing the lack of wanting sex before trying to get new positions established.
503726
Maybe it's not that he doesn't LIKE it, maybe he CAN'T have sex that often.  Some men can't, it could be a medical condition.  Just talk to him about it.  Let him know that you have needs.  If he can't have sex maybe he would be willing to stimulate and pleasure you some other way.  Communication is very important though.  Let him know how much you desire him and wanna be with him.  Sometimes guys gotta hear that stuff too!
597279
Clinical depression nearly always results in a diminished sex drive, plus apathy and a general slowing down of everything.  I know it must be hugely frustrating having your sex drives at opposite ends of the spectrum at the moment. But I truly think it would be wise to let the sex take a back seat until he's on his feet again. That way he'll be free of any feelings of pressure or of sexual failings in his part.  His muted sex drive is not because he no longer finds you attractive, but is a result of chemical changes in the brain caused by his depression.  By giving him all your love, support and patience, his depression will eventually lift and his sex drive will be restored.  Good luck and best wishes.
556261
try eating fruits for a few days and see what happens. Eating canaloupe is good for the sex drive. SO find out what fruit she likes the best and have fun. Oh avacado has something to do with sex drive too. Good luck
1104019
It's time for some counseling!  If he won't go, you go!  You need someone to bounce things off and to get good solid objective input from.  \n\nHe may be in a personal slump himself.  If he has very little sex drive and is tired a lot, he might have low testosterone, it is not an uncommon condition.  Suggest he have a complete physical, just to make sure everything is okay, tell him you are concerned about him and want to make sure everything is all right physically.\n\nIt may be he is worried about a lot of things, and doesn't know how to communicate, or doesn't feel he should.  Guys often think they should be strong and keep things to themselves.\n\nWhat I am saying is, it might not be about you at all, though it is definitely affecting you.  And it could be that he doesn't like you bringing up the subject, so he pulls more into himself, and goes to the TV and computer to avoid interaction.\n\nI feel for you, I know this is a very difficult situation.  Don't just let it go on!  Get some outside help, at least to vent, and possibly to help the two of you communicate better.\n\nBest of luck to you!!