i love a girl but have a problem due to language so we cannot get married..what to do ?
469502
If the religion thing isn't a problem, and it's just that you cannot communicate because she speaks a different language, it's time to start studying her language, and have her do the same with english.
270975
hhmm just be sincere, love her as much as you can. That's it :D Try to learn some vietnamese word, maybe it's hard to learn but im sure that she will be so happy if you can say "I love you" in vietnamese. But remember first dont talk about sex, vietnamese girl is a lil discreet & shy. You have to be patient! Good luck!
592083
maybe you are just confuse with your fellings.  try to talk to her and see what you girls have in common and you know try talking to her about your feeling and you know if there is trust than there is love ok if you haveany more question tht i ca help you with send me an email to azucena_vll@yahoo.com bye hope i help you
651019
Be yourself and let it happen when it's right......\nIf you try to rush it you could loose your friendship,  it could be possible she is waiting for marriage???????????????
570560
One word brother, RUN.  This girl is afraid of commitment.  If you are looking to marry her, I would advise against it.  If she is not future minded, were dose that leave the two of you.  Just something to think about.
579254
Her parents are strict about her caste? I am going to assume this is a cultural issue.  Normally if this was sombody saying this about their percieved social position, I would say to hell with the caste, and be with the person that you love.  However, if her parents values are that important to her, you should have a converstation.  About how this is going to affect you and your lives together and if it is frankly worth the trouble that it is going to be.  However, if you're doing this because her parents are going to be rough on her and you do truly love her.  Then you have to take the chance, you owe it to yourself and to her to let her decide what is going to be fair to her.  Now if you have made up your mind then ok, I can't change it for you, but if you love this girl, and you don't take the chance won't you always wonder what could have been? I would say contemporary logic dictates that her parents need to get over the caste system.  However, this is a judgement call that you have to make together as a couple, and dude, she deserves for you to have an open and honest discussion about it, before you pull the trigger and break it off with her.  good luck, I hope this helps.  \n\nOh PS. if it were me? and I loved her? There wouldn't be a force on earth that could stop me from being with her unless SHE didn't want to be with me.
1021941
Sweetheart, you are young and in love; I know it sounds like a hard thing to do, but just be her friend, you are both too young to have this kind of stress in your lives. Be her friend, and be a good friend, things have a really weird way of working themselves out, so don't worry, if you love her you will cherish any relationship you have with her. \n\nP.S. You sound like a guy that any girl would be lucky to have, but I have to tell you; this probably wont be the last time you feel this way. I wish you good luck and good love
411892
Tell her, and find out where you stand.  It looks as though she may be ready to move on, sadly for you, as she may not see the outcome of your 'ups and downs' in your relationship in quite the same way as you do.  It might be time just to move on yourself or carry the relationship through into marriage - 6 years is a long enough time to do something about it. The fact she feels comfortable enough to make these arrangements in front of you means that she's about given up hope of going further with you because you've delayed for so long.  I think it's reasonable after so many years to decide whether you want to commit to this girl and ask her to marry you or live with you, or go your separate ways.
678532
My advice would be to wait a little longer (just a couple of months) before asking to have her hand in marriage.... but that's just me. You may come on a little strong if you ask her now and that may put distance between the 2 of you if she isn't ready for it. Something that you could do is find a way to bring up the topic in conversation and see if you can get her opinion on the subject (just to get an idea if she is on the same page with her emotions before actually popping the question) or see if one of her sisters can ask (or girlfriends) what her opinion may be on the marriage subject. But regardless of what your decision may be I wish you joy and happiness in the future..... and I really hope that the 2 of you do get married.
135419
if she is a free girl...ask her to have a private talk even just in a restaurant and tell her that u love her, nothing will be lost whenever u tell her that at least u can express ur feelings and shockingly, maybe she also loves u, just waiting for ur first move....
428838
how long have you known this woman . marry outside of her religion well i am not the kind to stand in the way of love my frien but have you known her for a while or what well that your right i guess let me be the first to say i hope you and this woman will be happy together in my opion it is you as well marry a woman in her religion she cant marry out of her religion i guess well hope all is fine with you in about.2. years from now god bless in my opion i really hope you know what you are doing well anyway i wish you the best you i figure will need it i am not a person to stand in the way of love but that was quick wish you and the woman the best again ?
643013
Maybe she doesn't feel as strongly about you as you feel about her. Back off a little, and give her some space. As the old saying goes..."If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they are yours. If they don't, they never were." Besides, do you really WANT to be involved with someone that is incapable of displaying emotion? Marriage is a life-long commitment that should never be taken lightly. Good luck.....
533329
If you aren't ready for marriage, then you aren't ready, but you should be prepared (and supportive) if she decides to move on, as hard as that might be. \n\nSometimes loving each other, sadly, just isn't enough. She wants something you don't. But because you love her, you want her to be happy, right?\n\nSo, you 2 need to sit down & have a long talk about the issue. Make sure she knows where you stand, and that you really listen to her.\n\nBest of luck.
283840
Yeah, if she loves you then she should stay beside you no matter what comes your way. If she does love but don't know if she could be with you because you are deaf then you don't need someone like that. Hope that everything works out for you two.
373889
Share your feelings with her. Then listen to what she has to say. If she says she loves you and wants to be serious, then it is time to evaluate her actions. If she does what it takes to make you feel loved, and she accepts your love in return, there may be a future for you and her.
400078
I guess both of you don't love each other cos you as a guy must open to her that you truly love her. Well you can still make a change on that cos its not too late. Try to open up for her and stop pretending and I guess she will also open up to you.
488727
First learn English.\nSecond, if you love her that much then you would understand that sometimes it's better for you and that person to let go. You are young!!! live your life, go to college,get a good job, ask her to marry you when your stable and not living with your parents,and when it's not ILLEGAL!!!!!!\nBest of luck!!!!