Why do guys go behind looks rather than a girl's character?
456903
I think it all depends on the guy, when I was heavy I did notice that my choice in girlfriends were based on character. But once I dropped a ton of weight and actually developed a good body my choices lately haven't been based on character but rather on looks and well lets just say the last few experiences haven't been all that great.
538501
Sometimes guys don't like to show girls how they feel about them.
304296
You should thank God that you're not a woman.  Women, right or wrong, are pigeon-holed into categories by their looks.  Fortunately, men are judged more by their personality and accomplishment.
921197
I am a girl but I still wonder that often. I am guessing it is because they live in the fantacy that they can change the man for the better...just a thought though.
174482
it is far easier to seduce a male because they are visual. they get turned on by what they see easier them females do.
436918
Because its the first thing that a guy sees. But if a guy is attracked to a girl, then he wants to get to know her. (after he checks her out).But first impressions arent usually of someones personality, that seems to come in second.
479048
Well, I always thought I would be more attracted to the girl who was smarter and more confident.\nBut I wont try to claim that looks mean nothing.  Guys at that age can be frustrating, because we dont know what we want, and are easily hypnotized by something new and pretty.  That's all it is though.  In the end, intelligent guys want intelligent girls, who they dont have to put on an act for.
579474
Are you behind someone.......just joking.Every girl has a different choice but being a girl a can tell about somethings which all the girls love to talk about.Girls are generallyvery emotional and they liked to be flattered by cute boys. They love talking about harry potter{u will not love that}there collections of jewellary or something and all girls like boys who make them laugh, understands and help them and is different from others ..I mean the one with a unique style.
1047564
That's because in general men (myself included) tend to be more visual and look for an instant attraction.  A woman is more likely to take the time to make an assessment of a man's character, his sense of humor and wit, whether he's interesting etc.  The first cut, if you will, for a man is physical attractiveness.  While for women, that criteria may be down the line a little and she is more likely to give a guy a chance who fits all her other criteria but may not be the best looking guy.
7626
Because it's easier for a girl to get a new guy than for a guy to get a new girl.  Do what you gotta do to keep what you have!
955796
girls have a certain elagance with the way they carry themselves.... guys on the other hand only look at things to do to make people laugh\n\n"the famale body is beautiful in its looks, while the males if just laughable" michael moore i think said that
344529
I look at their face first, a guy's smile is the best thing for me. But as they are talking to me my eyes do tend to drift elsewhere. I look at their crotches or their hands. I like guys that work hard but can stay clean and well manicured, plus if they are carrying a loaded weapon in their boxers its totally worth looking at. There was a guy I went to high school that was rumored to have been hung like a horse, nobody could look at his face after that one.
28062
because its seen as unlady-like. most women do it... hell i do it. guys are seen as more openly sexual creatures and women are supposed to be modest.
294668
It honestly depends on the guy.  From my experience anyway.  Some guys are genuine and look for a gal with a good personality (which is what should be important), although looks are also important - but should not be a deciding factor in whether or not a guy is interested.  There are guys out there that are more concerned with looks, but hey - looks can be deceiving :P
371980
Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.
114326
It really depends on the guys. They're not the same. Most prefers having no makeup at all while some does. \nJust remember "Simplicity is Beauty"! \nWear makeup on the right occassion and you'll make guys heads turn... =)
46073
Guys are attracted to women who take responsiblity for their own feelings and needs, they might need a parnter to help them to meet the needs, but they don't put all that on the other person.