should you date someone you like spending time with and you care about even if you are not attracted to him?
469745
not unless you think it will work between the two of you. if you care and he's your friend wouldn't you feel awful for leading him on and hurting him? maybe you just think of him like a brother or something.
490315
Well if he has a problem with your skin then he's not worth the time anyway. But if you don't know for sure flirt with him, see where it goes. People often think they would never date (insert a group here) until they meet one that they are really attracted to.
384264
it doesn't matter to me either way.  if i am interested in the person that is all that matters
595603
People place too much importance on looks to begin with. I dont care who you are looks will fade in time and its the personality that will carry a relationship through. If you are attracted to him...and he has a great personality as you stated...what are you waiting for..go out with him. It sounds like you may be concerned about what others will think of you being seen with him. If your friends are that shallow, they are not much of a friend to begin with. Go for it girl and I hope you have a great time.
1123703
Yes I would.If u want a serious relationship or something thats going to last it doesn't really matter to me what someone looks like as long as their a good person and their good to me thats all that matters.If I can look into someone's eyes and see he cares thats the best feeling u can get...Way more better than being with someone w/ a great body.Personaility comes first to me and if they got both even better!But if not 1 out of 2 is fine w/ me as long as the 1 is personality.Cuz whats the point of being w/ a good looking guy whose a jerk u know?
659770
Mental is a big aspect.  He's gotta be smart enough to respect women and intelligent enough to hold a converation.  Looks, while not a MAJOR priority... I still gotta be attracted to the guy.  What's the point in dating the perfect man if the though of fooling around gives you the creeps?
656594
If you are not liking the person there is not point in continuing your relation with him/her
495249
Its one of the great mysteries of life - sometimes, we just arent attracted to ppl I think! I know exactly what you mean - a little while ago this guy liked me, and was awesome, really smart, really cute, really funny and a very good friend. I loved him so much, but I just didnt want to be with him romantically. I got really angry at myself at first, because I felt as though I SHOULD love him, but I just didnt. Dont know why. BUt I DO know that you cant force yourself to feel for someone - no matter who great they are. You need to let it be natural, and one day I bet someone you least expect will be the person you feel for most!
619743
whats the point of getting him attracted to you if you dont wanna go out with him?\n\nYES!
1091815
you care about him, thats why you dont want to hurt him
537809
I don't worry about that too much.  It's nice, but I don't obsess over it, and I don't even care at first.  I wouldn't date an unhealthy person though, but I wouldn't date anyone who's stupid either.  I prefer intelligence and health above all else.  \nIf that's all they pay attention to you for, then you have an effective way to weed out worthless friends.
68724
Do what your heart says to do, dont waste time on someone you obviously dont care much about, dont make it a routine with someone, when you could have the real relationship you want! Go for it man!
175673
you have opposing but co-existent feelings toward that person.\nThat is, you do care and yet you do not.
81507
Why do you need to date HIM & why NOW?\n\nTake your time.  The more desparate you seem to him, the less interested he will be in you.  And you might discover he's not that great.  "Hot" isn't necessarly "great."  Or he might discover You ARE great.
889221
You are attracted to who you are attracte to, you can't force yourself to like someone.  It just happens.  Go with your feelings and date someone because you like the way they look and you like them as a person.
162812
Nope, it's just bad if you do naughty stuff with them.  Dating people helps you to find out the kind of person you want in a longer-term relationship when you're ready for one.
1092572
just let it go, if the attraction is strong enuf between you two, his relationship with the other gurl will begin to fall apart. let nature take it's course and  be the good guy. patience is a virtue. be virtuous. as the attraction between you and him grows, it will weaken between him and her. if he is a good guy, he will let her know he is losing interest and give her time to find someone new also. any other way is too messy, don't try to hurry things up. like teasing him sexually. he will use you and still end up with her. if it doesn't play out the way you want, you learned something. sometimes it doesn't no matter how bad you want it.