Why can't I climax when I'm on top?
468582
because on the mountains the air is more thin...duhh
426023
There are actually quite a few women who are not physically capable of having an orgasm.  A physician is the only way to correct the problem.  Outside of that, if you are on certain medications, it CAN cause some of the problem.
766906
yes performance anxiety can cause this.. you and her need to work together to delay ejaculation, many means available to do this.
549189
When you are on top, you are in control. \nFeel yourself with your fingers and then as you straddle him take his penis and ease just the tip inside you, then gently go down on it. A womans vagina doesn't go straight up, so as he enters you, lean forward slightly so his penis is pointing towards your back. If it feels uncomfortable at first just move your hips slightly and it will ease in nicely.\n\nIf this doesn't help, try rolling over with him inside you. it is a bit tricky at first but can be mastered with practice.
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It's because your blood pressure increases when you have an orgasm, so if you orgasm more than once this could be a cause. I'd go to your doctor and ask for a blood pressure check (you don't have to tell him why if you're embarrassed, just tell him you've been getting headaches.) Hope this helps!
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I have the same issue sometimes and the more you do it the more frustrated you get and so you keep trying...its a never ending cycle. It could be that you are putting too much pressure on yourself, it could be that he is too fast, slow, small, etc. Positions seem to be something that you can vary to see what works best. The first thing you have to do is stop thinking so much about it, relax. If its not a normal issue for you then there isn't anything wrong with you physically. Try some different things and don't be too hard on yourself. http://www.allsexguide.com
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The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.
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You can't, but you can prolong his pleasure, orally, if you are fast enuff to start right after he pops, most guys can't sit still for it or take it if you do it right.  The bottom of the head is the senstive part you want to work on.
239921
usually a man can feel when he's about to ejaculate, in this case you guys should stop what your doing and make concentrate on stopping it and change positions. That usually helps, other wise i dont know what else.
473223
at the point of climax,grip it firmly at the base (clamp it),and the orgasm will diminish. It will throb a little,but you should be able to delay the orgasm. Hold it until the feeling subsides. This also makes it more intense when you do finally climax
1010360
when women reach climax and are tired, after 2 min maximum 3 min will get normal, like they had nothing! Not every woman has ejaculation! Only few, so i dunno
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Some women only climax during oral. SO you might start there. Why dont you ask your girl and see what she says?? She can tell you better than anyone what works and what doesnt.
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Keep at it...actually, she is trying too hard and needs to relax.\nGet her to give you guidance...have her tell you things like "just like that"  when you're doing what she wants. \nIt's not unusual that she could take a long time ... but she enjoys it the whole time. So don't just concentrate on the climax ... it's ALL good.
260585
If you get a boner and put a towel over the hard and flex until the towel lifts. If you do this in like some free time for maybe 100 times then it will delay your nutt. If you get strong enough try using a wet towel.
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Not all women have orgasms easily, I only get one about 3/6 times.  Ususally the best way to have one is by oral, before penetration.
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Its really up to each and every individual person.  Why should a woman have to orgasm before a man?  There shouldnt have to be any specific order.  It should just be whoever blows their top first :P
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I'm assuming you are continuing to have sex and still not orgasming. First of all for women it can be more difficult. You may need to experiement to find out what puts you over the edge. Often our internal dialogue really interferes with our pleasure if it is telling us sex is bad. If that is the case you may need counseling.\n\nIf not, then you need practice and a patient and loving partner to help you find your triggers. Have fun!