can you fall out of love with some one?
470359
Yes! I believe that you can still love a person and not be in love with them anymore. I've been there and its hard, but its very possible.
266311
I don't think its wise you become emotionally attached to this person who cannot be emotionally availible. It will only lead to distress and heartache.\n\nI would suggest taking you mind off the person. Its important to let her know that you cannot put yourself in this situation, because its an emotional strain.\n\nIf she truly values her happiness, she will do the right thing. Hopefully she will know better than to stay in such a destructive relationship, but that's something she will need to decide on her own.\n\nBe patient and more importantly drop all expectations toward the situation. Perhaps you should focus finding someone who is capable of investing the same about of love into a relationship as you are.\n\nYour happiness is at stake. Think about whats important for your own well-being.\n\nGood luck
320029
if someone took their love away i'm sure it would be very painful. but you must realize that its their loss and not yours. and yes, you can love again. you just have to keep your heart open to new possibilities. who knows you may ultimately come across the woman you have been looking for.
723076
No one can control their feelings. If you love someone it kinda comes naturally. When you and that person stop talking it takes a while to really get over that person especially if you were really in love. Even  though some might say that they don't love someone  any more 9 times out of 10 it is not true. We have to let nature take its course.
558655
Of course. To stay with someone who loves you out of a sense of obligation is not fair to the one who loves you. No matter how much they might hurt.
307673
i don't know, i really don't, i guess, you know you love that person from the start, you just don't want to admit it, so when the person go, the feeling get strong, and you can't help it anymore, then you'll regret all the things, and question yourself why you ever let that person go in the first place,. then only you realize that that person have to go first then you'll realize you love him/her. i actually don't know myself,
622115
When you start to love a person part of that person starts to grow inside you. As the years go on more and more you find yourself falling deeper in love with that person because they continue to grow in your heart and your soul. Since you are in love with this person, in a sense you do need them. You've based a certain part of yourself around that person and now since they are gone, the part of yourself that they had is lost. So you need to find something else to fill that void and emptiness that that person has left and you need to try and move on. It is hard yes, extremely hard, absolutely, but in the end it's worth coming out on the other side.
630324
Wow...that's tough. I wish I knew what to tell you.  I think if you feel like you DONT want to fall out of love then you wont. Because obviously that shows you love the person.  Sounds like the relationship just needs some serious work.  I know this sounds corny but Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus is a GREAT relationship related book and I think it helps A LOT. It will help you understand your man/woman so much better.
870844
I've never stopped loving anyone I've been in love with.\n\nThat said, some relationships just are not healthy. I just left one 10 months ago, even though I was in love with them and they were in love with me.\n\nIt has been extremely hard dealing with. I still have to be around them at the dojo, which makes it much worse.\n\nTime does make things better. I can now talk pleasantly with one of them. The other may too, someday.\n\nIt still hurts, but not as much as it did. I still would like to go back to them, but the reasons I left haven't changed.\n\nSo I just deal with it, day by day.
10075
You cant, the only thing you can do is move on from it. If you really love someone, you will always love them no matter what.
467317
well i don't know if it's possible but u can find out...just separate from both of them for a while and see whom u miss most...then if u miss both of them the same it means u love both of them or none of them
901298
It happens all the time to all kindsa people.  Just because you don't want to be with them anymore, doesn't mean you don't still have feelings (love) for them.
468205
you could try hypnosis.  there's also a book on falling out of love.
488320
yes ... but it hurts you very much in the beginning if you really have been serious in the relationship. Eventually, it fades off and you forget it completely after you found your new love
1098347
Nope. Once someone states that the love is gone..Well that's just it.\nMove on, and get someone who deserves you :)\n\nBest of luck
209018
you can love someone and not be in love with them, but you can't be in love with them and not love them . You love a person for what they are , you fall in love with a person for who they are.
295801
you can't make someone fall in love with you.  Someone can grow to love you but if he's in love with someone else your best bet is to move on and find your true love.