HOW DO I BREAK UP WITH HIM W/OUT HURTIN HIM? PLEEEEZE HELP! nd AM I LESBIAN?
471308
okay first of all all that was not really hard to read its a slang way to write...so yall can stop being so fuckin mean shit
970987
get over him by making your self feel better. by this i mean go out and buy all new clothes, get a sexy hair cut and make him look at you. some call this retail theropy! the best answer i can give you is try and be round people as much as possible. i just broke up with my boyfriend and now i live by myself and its very deppresing. and always remember never leave the one you love for the one you like coz the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
52826
There is no way you can get around not hurting him.  It is going to happen.  Sorry!  Just be honest and talk with eachother.  I'm sure you are grown and can handle the situation.  Best of Luck to you!
1180972
Sorry but there really is no easy way. You care about him and don't want to hurt him even though he has hurt you. Tell him what you said to us. Let him know that even though he had your heart from the beginning you do not feel like an important part of his life so you need to end things so that both of you can find other people who may be better suited for the types of relationships that you guys want to have.
948063
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
227768
How you break up with your boyfriend is entirely upto you.  You must realize that it has to be done.  Now, when you do should be done ASAP.  The longer you stay with him, the more it will hurt.
300917
tell him how you feel and say you cant share him but break it off if he truely does want to be with you he will finish with his girl to be with you
582101
alright gurl i am 17 so i kinda know what your going through...just sit down and talk to him .... don't like just all of the sudden tell him its over ... talk to him and tell him that your concerned about ya'lls relationship tell him that you feel like its going down the drain.. try to work things out and if he doesn't straighten up then break it off with him ... good luck!!!
119238
think about why u are angry with him.Is it really worth being mad at? Are u angry at him so much that you wouldnt meet him on Valentines Day, which is by the way, the "Holiday of Love" (i made that up...doesnt it sound cool, lol) For real, you need to think about it and just go meet him and talk to him about the situation.Once you talk it over, you'll feel a lot better. Always talk to your partner, don't keep stuff from him or it will build up and probably ruin your relationship. Ain't I a good physiciatrist, lol. Everyone knows it!
761299
if you have already talked to him about the problems you are having (you should have already if you havent) then tell him that, the reason you are breaking up with him is because of those problems, and nothing has changes. be honest with him dont be too hard but dont be too easy. if your with someone you dont want to be with then end it the longer your together the harder it will hurt.
168850
Tell the guy you want to break up with, why you are doing it. But you have to be honest and not hurt his feelings. If you lie, then it will just become a big mess and you guys won't even be friends anymore. I think this is the best way to break up with a guy. Hope this helps!
1099868
Girl, walk away from him and don't look back. You will be all right, no matter how bad it hurts right now. All there is between you is great sex, and I know from experience how we women can let that affect our emotions. You deserve better, and it will feel great when you get it. Just stay away from him, no matter what!!!!!!
700216
Break up and find a different boyfriend.  By staying , you're encouraging him to stay the way he is.
1037102
Let him do what he wants.. and then.. Run Away!!! Run away as fast as you can and find someone that doesn't have gender issues.
905925
You should break up with him.  I mean if you are really sorry then give him his freedom from you.
1050693
if your never alone with him somthing has gotta change.\n      im not saying break up with him but scheduale somthing.\n\n      do somthing wild like have him sneak in a girls washroom to kiss you. win your parents a vacation or somthing. occupy thier time so they cant be so darn protective.\n\n      play a joke that involves you 2 kissing. for example on the movie "save the last dance" this white girl and this black guy were on a train together this old women was looking at them like wth!? and they started getting all close and stuff and she left and they started laughing. although they didnt kiss you could play a joke or somthin. \n\n      note it doesnt have to be interracial. you've got a brain, think of somthing.\n\n      I hope my advice helped and if it did please promise me one thing. \n\n      dont post a question on how to have sex, their your on your own lol