What should I do? (About this guy I like whos going out with one of my friends?)?
468175
nothing. be a good friend and respect what they have between each other. don't try to be with someone that is already with someone else. there are a lot of people out there, why fight over someone especially if your friend is dating him?
1117090
friends sometimes wants the best for you. sometimes you need to listen to them and sometimes you have to reason with them.\nkeep an open line. they may be wrong about him or you may be in the wrong hands with your date...\nask your friends to give you time to know this guy...\nyou're the only one who can make a relationship work...
690860
if you are not sure if he likes you and you don't want to lose your friendship you should keep it to yourself. i once told a friend that i liked him and would like to go out with him some time. he walked off , because he thought it was a friend of mine who liked him and he never spoke to me again.
446131
do u like him too? if u know for certain that he likes u and u like him 2 then what r u waiting for! suggest going for a drink or something and take it from there. good luck!
392279
tell your friend that you are interested too.  then let him make the moves.  if he likes you then he will make it happen.  just give your friend a heads up first!
389954
well if they like your best friend first... if your friend knows it then leave the situation alone becuase you dont wnat any drama, second... if this person knows you like them but arent giving you enought to go with they are playing games with your head. third... never go after someone who dosent want you initially becuasr they can be getting close to you but thinking about your frined! or stay close to you until they can get your friend.  think about it this can go several ways
242804
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
1072732
hmm..hey, theres nothing to worry abt.. i'd say the best thing wld be to..tell him how u really feel abt him.. u wldnt know..he might actually be interested in you too.. anyway,hes only dating that friend of urs.. see..how things turn out to be..;)..good luck..
747339
Ask him out!  If you guys are friends, he probably already knows you like him.  If he's been cool with you so far, I don't think it's unwise to take the next step.  I don't know whether that makes you feel any better, but i hope this helps.
210446
your avatar is cute! Now, if he is a butthead break up wit him. your friend shouldn'y of made u go out wit him if you didn't like him! Anyway, if S.M. did ask you out and if you like him, go for it! Good Luck! :)
140755
You might want him but he wants your friend.  If you are really into this guy, tell your friend, she should understand.  If it's just a simple crush, let your friend have him. He's not the last guy in the world.
1169964
get over the other guy and go out with the next and the next.....have fun......the other guy missed out or maybe you did not put out....or maybe you did to quick......either way forget him....talk to the other guy to see what he is about....you might just like it
863196
You sound like your trying not to hurt this person by rejecting him, my dear, there are many ways you can be nice about rejection,  be considerate, dont be rude about it, smile when your rejecting him, but for goodness sake, be honest. As for the friend, depending on how close friends they are, I think I would leave going out with him for awhile, but explain this also to him, let him know that you feel at this time it would inconsiderate to his friend.  Maybe they dont discuss things because I would have thought if they are real friends, they would have discussed that either one was asking you out. That way if they are setting you up, in other words, sometimes men, boys, make stupid bets with each other to see who can conquer you first, it will also let them both know, you are not an easy target, but anyway, be friendly and pleasant to both of them, but be on your guard also.  Good Luck
579134
Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.
480053
DID THE FIRST ONE YOU LIKED KNOW YOU LIKED HIM? I ASK THIS BECAUSE IF HE KNEW YOU LIKED HIM, HE'LL KNOW YOU LIKE HIS FRIEND. MAYBE YOU SHOULD WEIGH OUT WHAT INTEREST YOU THE MOST OUT OF THE TWO AND MAKE YOUR CHOICE FROM THERE. DON'T LET EITHER OF THEM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL UNTIL YOU ARE SURE OF WHAT YOU WANT. WHO KNOWS MAYBE THEY ARE BOTH MEANT TO BE JUST YOUR FRIENDS.
1068354
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
970400
its not worth to lose the friendship for the guy..BUT you both need to be honest with each other..and face the facts, does he like YOU or does he like HER? be realistic. one friend is just going to have to sit back and watch this guy and them flirt and maybe be a couple and suck it up just to know her friend is happy. but seriously, be open with your friend and you and her need to be real and look at the situation.