What is your feeling when your friend deceive you ?
461853
I become hurt and angry ,then i cool myself down and try to understand that this person wasn't at all a  friend because a real friend will never  do such things.
738335
I guess u meant "betray" . Well.........in the beginning i'll not be able to control myself- human nature, dear. But, then ofcourse I think that the person is not worth ur friendship. But before it i'll just ask this question " Why did you do this to me?"
1142828
heh I feel ya there. happened to me a few times. I just made sure that they saw me with another guy. Yes I know that might hurt his feelings, but at least you will be clear and you can pretend that you didnt know anything about anything at all. thats the only way that worked for me\ngood luck
217713
You should tell him the truth about how you feel even if it hurts you don't want him to find out from someone other then you because it might make things worse but when and if you deside to do the right thing let him down easy and tell the you would like to remin friends good luck I hope this help's you.
824007
probaley made up my friend
648500
well for a start,a real friend would'nt lie...my belief is tell the truth and shame the devil..you get nowhere lying,and your in big troublewhen the truth comes out..i have a policy where my kids or friends get told,the worst thing anyone could do to me is lie...its a trust thing :o)
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
588381
you need to tell you friend your true feelings because she may feel the same way be\n\nI know this because I myself am in the same boat and my friend had a crush on me and I had a crush on him but we would say that we were best Friend and not intrested in one another but by lying to the public we lyed to each other
89685
I would tell him that he hurt me whether he was joking or not and if he apologizes, accept it. People say a lot of things they don't mean when they're mad. If he is truly your friend, he'll apologize, if he doesn't then I'd say, "Ya know what? When you decide to apologize, I'll listen, until then, I would rather not be around you."
145531
Try to trust your true self, and also your friends too, you will find satisfaction, It is only because you yourself hide some part of your frankness from your friends so you feel dissatisfied.
997137
BEING LIED\nBACKBITTEN
618624
well if your friends are truly friends then they shouldn't be bothered or laugh at you. If they do they are losers and get rid of them. Your condition is not something that you asked for nor is it your fault and you should know that. Bottom line is you don't have to disclose your situation until you are comfortable and when you do you shouldn't feel bad about it because its life and everyone has something or other that they either wished they didn't or they are not proud of make the best out of your situation and be happy that you are still here!
286778
The fact that you feel bad tells me that you are a decent person,but if it's been four years and they aren't even talking,you did nothing wrong.With age comes wisdom,as a53yr old man I say let sleeping dogs lie.Now I know some people would disagree with me and I respect that,but I can't think of one good reason to tell.Go with your heart,do whats best for you and your friend,whatever you decide,good luck.
770727
LMAO... you have to either pray your friend doesn't notice it, or just come clean.  I'm sorry, but that's just hilarious.  (probably because it's something i would have done... LOL)
150695
There are often cues and signs that someone may be lying. There may also be understandable reasons for the lie.\n \n1.  Look for body language that might indicate someone is lying, such as not looking you in the eye when speaking to you, being fidgety, or acting nervous or uncomfortable.\n \n2.  Listen for inconsistencies in what the person tells you, such as different stories on different days, different time frames, mistakes in remembering details or mixing up details.\n \n3.  Notice if the person steadfastly resists answering any questions. Extreme defensiveness could mean that he or she is trying to hide something.\n \n4.  Notice if the person accuses you of lying or being deceitful when you really haven't been. This could reflect the other person's own underlying behavior, which he or she is projecting onto you rather than owning up to it.\n \n5.  Listen to your gut and intuition. You may just know someone is lying. If you are not sure, don't jump to conclusions. Try to get some evidence to back up your hunch.\n \n6.  Consider asking directly if the person has lied to you. Many people feel bad getting caught up in lies, and find it a relief to finally be honest.\n \n7.  Try to be understanding and listen to the person's reasons for lying. Was he trying not to hurt you? Was she afraid you would be angry, upset or disappointed?\n \n8.  Look at your possible role in having someone lie to you. Are you someone who gets so upset hearing the truth that others feel they can't be honest with you?
741538
-if she is truely youur friend I am quite sure she has noticed that you haven't been you in the recent.If you feel the need to tell her you are sorry for the way you have been treatiing heer than do so and if not don't.  Just cut it out and be yourself to your frieend and not the imposter you were.Your friend will be there for you and glad you havee solved your problem
413603
You can watch for signs of attention past a friendship. If that person acts shy or uncomfortable around you all of the sudden it could mean they are self-concience and is wondering what you think...or you just did something wrong.