Yep, I slept with him. Did it kill interest? Is he blowing me off?
465564
Sounds to me like he wants the steak dinner without having to pay the tab. (Looks as though he got it too) Don't look for him to be making reservations at this restaurant when there are NO LINES elsewhere.
884499
Unfortunately for us girls guys can be real sleazy and if he wasnt interested in you after the sex then dont bother. Any guy who is worth it doesnt need any chasing if he likes you then he should come to you. If  hes gone cold then he must have been just in it for the thrill of baggin you so dont worry about his opinion and enjoy whatever you had no matter how brief it was. If he really wants to get to know you you'd be hearing from him regularly
368191
My answer is a question.  Are you so insecure and lonely that you can't recognize when you are being used?  Dump the guy.  The fact that you drove 300 miles to see him and then he blew you off should tell you everything you need to know about him.  Regardless of what he said, his actions speak for him.  He got all of you he wanted the first night, and was finished with you until the next time he needs an ego boost.  This guy is either married, seeing someone else, or just a loser.
624352
he is not interested. simple as that. he prolly asked for ur # out of obligation as most guys do. if he was interested he would have called.
1133697
I didn't really date him .. we were best friends that did everything together.\n\nI slept with him a few times through out our friendship and a few months ago we started "dating" exclusively.  So there was no #'s of dates before we slept with each other.\n\nIt's not a math problem or a right way or wrong way.  It's life and sex comes & goes ...
737556
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
654654
This sort of guy usually persists until you put out but don't do that. He also seldom takes no for an answer. I had the same problem in 2001-2002. I just began sharing details about dates I went on with other guys untill he faded into the background. I am happily married to someone else now so don't believe that hype about him being meant for you.
124661
My dear... just stop sleeping with him! under all circumstances!!! he will be nice in the beginning and soon will lose interest if he just wants to get some. do not settle for a such a man
255295
Yes, email him. At least he'll know then that you didnt kiss him because of lack of interest and you never know, things could progress later.
705244
How long were you together? If you were together for along time then I am sure that he still has some type of feelings for you. I don't think that it is a good thing for you to keep sleeping with him. That will only confuse things. If he is going to be your x then you need to cut him off from everything. Not just your feelings.
596027
He sounds a complete asshole...I'm not surprised you've lost your sex drive.\nDump him,move on,meet a guy who respects and cares for you,your desires will be restored!
526804
He gave you a week to put out, since you didn't he didn't want to waste any more time with you.\n\nHe isn't worth your time.  Congratulations for keeping your senses and not giving in to him.  You now see his true colors.\n\nIt's hard to read a guy's intentions.  He probably isn't wanting in the girl department so, he wanted to move along to the next girl.  You will come across these every now and then.\n\nHopefully you'll get good at sniffing them out.
901421
Words are cheap.  Obviously his actions are speaking much louder than his words...\n\nSounds like he said just what you wanted to hear so he could get into your pants..  Once conquered he has lost interest.  You are a notch on his belt.\n\nI'm sorry this happened to you.  Move on and learn from your mistake.
458887
I think I'd move on or call him.  I hate these little dating games.  I flirted with a guy for over 2 months it was mutual, and I expressed my attraction and he never responded.  No call, no nothing.  So, if they don't call, screw them, and if they call 8 months later, screw them then, too!
1081299
Thank goodness you only wasted 5 months with this loser. you've found out that you don't want this one so get ready for your destiny. Get fit and healthy, go the gym, get your hair done, spend time with the girls and have a laugh. you are now free to find someone really great and only your ego got a bit bashed. it's ok you'll get over it. he obviously has so why let him have anymore of your headspace? He was seeing others when he was with you most likely. don't go to bed with someone until after 6 months and it won't happen like this again. if they won't wait you don't date!
740296
Well you should really think about it because if you sleep with him while drunk and after that he is been cancelling  then i think he is really not in love with you, NO don't ask him out just try to forget him :)
588721
It depends.....how did I feel if I slept around on someone I didn't care about??? Well, honestly, not too bad. I don't sleep around if I'm in a commited relationship though.