Is anyone a Sag or dated a Sag who has held a grudge?
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Gosh, I had no idea what sag meant (single Asian guy? Short and gay? Sweet American Gal?) honestly, horoscope really has nothing to do with holding a grudge-- ex's that hold a grudge will continue to do so until he's good and ready to talk, you need to give this fellow some time to cool, if horocope worked they ought to make announcements in the hospital everyday (all children born today ought to marry someone born next week, you'll all be prom queen and lose one parent by the age of 30, have a nice day) So just be nice, don't gossip about your ex and wait him out-- or you could put a hex on him
675879
ME!! Im a sag too. We're the best sign in the zodiac, of course!\n\nSags are adventurous, honest, laid-back, life long students - always looking for something new to learn, love to travel anywhere - Im packed before I ask where were going, philosophical, fun, freedom loving - and will fight for it, friendly, have a habit of speaking before thinking ("oh sh*t did I say that out loud?"), intelligent, procrastinates, always looking at the bigger picture (details are actually really annoying for some of us)
360511
I had a HUGE crush on this guy named Gary. I'd use any excuse I could to talk to him...but of course I'd never actually admit to liking him. Somewhere in my diary is the sentence "I think about him all the time, but until he starts thinking about me all the time, we're not getting anywhere."\n\nWe had a tradition in my school called senior slave day, where students would bid actual real money to get the (non-X-rated) services of a senior that day. Of course I "bought" Gary. Poor guy. I made him dress up as a woman (and you know, his bulge showed up MUCH better in a dress *drools*) and carry my books around all day. Luckily he had a good sense of humor and took it all in stride.\n\nWe never did actually date or anything. I think he just put up with me following him around because he was a nice guy. Eventually I realized the obvious when he sat me down in the library and offered to give me a bag of clothes his family didn't need anymore. He eventually graduated and went into the navy, leaving me to spend the next year obsessing over this weird possibly suicidal guy for some odd reason.
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I have found that when I try to hold a grudge it's usually harder if that person is making an effort to be cool wit me.  I think you should probably send him a card a explain exactly what you've explained here.  Give him a day or 2 to chew on it then try calling him.  If after that he's still holdin a grudge F*ck him.  It'll be more trouble than its worth.
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I totally feel your pain\n\nI HATED my ex b/f mom (hate is probably not the way i felt about her)\n\nShe was this f u c k e n converted lady (no offense to people who are converted) she use to tell me "Why dont you let your hair down (i have curly bushy hair) & when his family was there they always use to ask me about hair & my appearance.\n\nShe was just a complete cow\nHim & his mother has a very weird relationship - he use to tell her everything that goes on in the relationship like sex, figths we had, my drinking (which was just socially), the way i act around my girlfriends.\n\nF u c k after a few motnhs I told the both of them to go to H E L L\n\nNow I'm happy!!!\n\ncheerio \nMERCAYDEES\nPs: Good riddance of bad rubbish (good that you dumped him)
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Yes I have been in many fights but I have only lost 2. One was my best friend. I walked up to him and was going to kick him in the a$$ when he turned around and I ended up sacking him. At the end of the day I took the beating that I deserved.\nThe other one was my older sister. I was being cheeky and disrespectful then I slapped her. She laid a licken on me like you wouldn't believe. ( Never disrespect you older sister in front of her friends...)
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Very well, actually. My husband is a sag and I'm a libra and we've been together 12 years. Communication is sometimes difficult because libras want to be diplomatic but sags sometimes just don't want to talk--they have a more quiet understanding. Also, sags tend to be stubborn and impatient, and libras will take it personally. Aside from that though, it's great--we love to travel together, we don't like routine so we're always wanting to do fun things together, we make each other laugh, and we love to talk and spend time together. It also helps that we have very similar values.
95476
i have never .. \nand my ex husband wasnt anything like you just described !!\npoor fella . i hope you find a good one next time
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I have.\nHe had the money and the looks was great but never had time for me.\n So i dated a guy that was great in showing me a good time out and giving me the attention i needed.
414896
yeah it used to make me so angry!\nthe way i've learned to deal with it is make it very apparent that there is certain stuff I won't put up with. for the past 3 years i have taken no nonsense from guys i've dated. if someone lies to me, or i can tell is using me, i call him on it. i let him know it's unacceptable and i don't keep those types of ppl around. i am not a mean person; i will do almost anything for people in need and i don't look for fights but when i have someone close to me i do not want them to be treating me badly and i won't stand for it. because of this, everyone who knows me now knows i won't be used (a few years ago this guy used me 'til the cows came home.. thank goodness i will never go through that hell again!)\n\ni would be angry at myself and at them for using me. i've turned that frustration into motivation to keep my life and relationships cleaner and healthier and always think "do i really want this (how the person's treating me) in my life? is this good?"
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think of it this way ..holding a grudge on someone is only consuming your day and wasting your time...forgiving them is so much easier..but I am not telling you to keep on letting him do things to you that are hurting you or disrespecting you ..if thats the case just get him out of your life ..you dont need that and your son does not need to grow up thinking it is ok for women to be treated that way by men
877217
Yes, it made me feel so bad.  But I ended up talking to him about our situation, I didn't want him to think I was a bad person.  He was mad at first then he cooled down, and he was fine with it.
1138172
Yes, they can work out.  You just have to be very patient, and you have to work at it, like any other relationship.  You have to be stubborn too, sometimes.  Well, one of you will have to be.  If you get know them, and you want them, go after them.  I regret much more the things I didn't do in my life than the things I have done.  I try to remember that, and not run from the things, or people, I care about.  I want my squishy, and I want to make her happy, so that's what I'm going to do.
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Trust me I know exactly what your talking about. I'm a fellow Sag myself. (Dec. 18th)!!!!!!!!!!! I find that I need change constantly because I get bored very easily. I'm from one thing to the next. It's like I feel like I'm missing something if I don't try to broaden my horizons. I also don't like to feel caged in no matter what the situation. We Sags love our freedom very much. I love to travel just like you. If I could have my way I would travel 95% of the time everywhere in the world. I want to learn things, meet unique and different people. Most of us Sags want to learn the truth behind things and we love meeting new people and places, especially if it's different cultures. Don't worry sweetie your not the only one that feels this way. By the way Happy Birthday in advance!!!!!!
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The ones i've come across tend to be a bit dim on the whole relationship front.. \n\nI'm English so that means technically i'm screwed...\n\nDAMN!!!!
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Someone who doesnt mind being silly for our amusement. Sag ladies tend to like naughty jokes and those we think only smart people will get. What I saw most in my Aquarius ex was his need for love and affection as well as his interest in art and/or music. We think being needy its endearing and cute for a while, then it just becomes annoying and we run like hell LOL. But we always remain great friends, just not the best bed fellows.
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Well you pose an interesting question.  You need to not only check out what signs but you need to interpert you spirit - are you masculine or femmenie - because that tells you which sign really works with you.  A gay male sag is a great sign........you are going tohave a nice life!