how old should i be when i start havin thoughts of marrying the girl i like?
458834
around 16-18 years old...depends if u truly love the girl with all the intensity in your soul and heart...and if u do once you hit 18(the legal age)I would go for it.
74644
I don't think there is a age to get married it only depends on you. Ask your  self if you will want that guy to be with you the rest of your life?
66187
It is best to wait until you get married, but I lost mine at 17.  I've regretted it ever since.  I am 25.
421260
It really depend how mature you are, most 17 year old i know isn't mature enough to be engaged or to be married. Listen to your heart, your brain, family and friends, because sometime when you'rein love you can't see what other see, think about it then make the best decision,  your life & happiness is in your hand.
295751
ok, for starters, let me tell you that I think it is awesome to be 30 and unmarried.  I believe that people are so friggin in a hurry to get married at such a young age that they (me included) dont know what the H3ll they are doing!  You have gained maturtiy with age, and seem to have a great relationship started here.  Sounds like FUN!!  I particularly want to ask...What are you waiting for to tell her?  Don't let society be your influence.  It influences WAY too much.  If your feelings for her are those of love, then, by all means, tell her.  If they aren't, or you aren't sure yet, dont say it yet, but DO express to her how much you enjoy her company, and that you have strong feelings for her.  Something to boost her confidence in you, and make her feel a little more secure in the relationship.  I LOVE reading these little stories of new love, I ENJOYED that feeling SO much, and guess it is a way to live it again  ;)  Have fun, and take care of you and yours!!  Good luck friend!
568651
no problem at all\n\nage is not at all a criteria for marriage. only criteria is mutual understanding.\n\nshe can be any years older to u, only thing u should look is she should be healthy. 2months or 2years is not at all a criteria.\n\nbe happy
429605
The best age is the age you feel ready and you know that you two are both emotionally and financially ready to settle down and begin the rest of your life with each other.  When both of you can think about that and both think that you are ready and wanting to, then that is the age you should marry.
539618
You should wait a few more years. Besides, part of your brain doesn't finish developing until you are 25 and it is the part that helps you with serious decision making. You can take him serious but you can only have one first wedding, you want to make sure it can last FOREVER.
481437
Sure.  I thik you may be a bit young to get married, but if that is what you want, go for it.
102529
I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika
900503
I know what you mean. when i was your age I was infuriated by people always saying that I couldn't fall in love young. now that I'm older I understand that I wasn't mature enough to really love someone. love is a give and take relationship. when you're young no matter how you think you're treating the other person, you're mostly taking. most people at your age are very selfish. however, this is not a true fact in ALL cases. a few centuries ago, people were getting married at your age. so, obviously, there is a very possible chance of someone really loving someone else at your age. I'm guessing your in a relationship that you consider to be getting serious. I would just advize that you really try to do what's best for the other person in everything you do. don't concentrate on what YOU want only. in this way you will be lightyears ahead of people that are even 10 years older than you. I hope that the girl you're with realizes that she can't be selfish either if this relationship will last...I hope you understand what I mean..
1052160
wow how funny this question was asked, i told my girlfriend i love her today. and when i did i felt very good, and then i started thinkin ahead like 5 years and that i might be married to her.
802244
Go for this relation slowly. The girl is young and she may scare out if she sees you at her doorstep with a ring saying "Will you marry me?". So, easy and nice.
544417
Havent you grown up yet or are you your Momma's little boy, she takes decisions which effect your life. Grow up man, be bold and marry the girl you love. Age is not a problem if the two of you love each other.
99565
why would you want to. i'm 26 now and i'm just now startin to even think i'm ready for marriage
455677
The law has a name for this: statutory rape.\nSweetie, I'm 17 and I am not thinking about marriage.  Sorry, but whatever you may think, you are not old enough to understand any of the feelings that come with a serious relationship.  For the future (and I am talking many years) if you truly love a guy and he pops the question, think of living with him, only having him, in 25 years.  If you can picture it then you should be fine.  Do not ruin your life.  You are still in middle school!!!  Enjoy high school and college then worry about marriage.
1049874
I wouldn't settle with anyone right now. Have fun while you can when you get older then pick one and marry her.\nHave fun!