is it like that we feel when we have a heartbroken??
471020
how does it feel to be heartbroken? Well, it depends on how deeply you tresured something with the person who broke your heart. for me, it felt like HELL. But i got over it after about 1 and 1/2 year. when a broken heart will be healed depends on your own pace. Frankly speaking, i don't believe the guy said. it's too unspecific and invalid. that's like telling who you can be with and you can't be with. if i were in your place, i wouldn't think that he's doing me a great favor. But nevertheless it shows he doesn't like you. Learn to move on.= )
806433
Yes it does! \n\nIt did for me. After my cousin died (over 10 years ago) I found myself incredibly empathetic in situations that I used to shrug off - I still am. I still cry when I hear about someone else's pain form losing someone, even when other's can keep it together - because it just brings me back to the day that Seth died. It's ok to feel that way, it actually makes you a better person and good friend to those who are going through what you've already experienced. I'm sorry to hear about your sister.\n\nSometimes I have incredibly vivid dreams where Seth and I just hang out together - like we did when we were teenagers, just before he died. It's great because I wake up feeling like I've spent the day with him, but then I feel like I've lost him all over.\n\nIt may seem ridiculous to still be so affected after 10 years, but Seth was my best friend, I don't think I'll ever get over this. It does (as they say) get better though. Hang in there.
278513
I believe there are positive lessons to be learned from the most heartbreaking situations, I have been there, trust me.  its not easy but you have to look at it as a learning experience, and instead of focusing on the heartbreak, focus on how much stronger you are now, for having gone thru it.  tkae what you learned from the experience close that chapter of your life and allow yourself to move on.  Take things slowly in your new relationship, allow things to unfold in a way  that is comfortable for both of you and see where it leads.  over time memories of the past will fade and wounds heal allowing you to open your heart again.  Its a painful process at times but so well worth it in the end. hope this helps!
90484
YES!!! its a long & lonely road but hang in there.\nit's ok to feel weak sometimes, we are only human.\nchange your lifestyle if you have to...\npositive thinking & self- worth is very important.\ni sincerely wish you luck & love!\ndon't worry about things you cannot control. change the things that's dragging you down.\nyou can't fly with broken wings.\nhope the link can help...
834041
I think we all feel this way at one time or another...my famous description of myself is the b.o.n....blob of nothing lol...it is horrible to feel so low...but then,...I feel so guilty when I look around and see people so so much worse off than I am, and I wanna hit myself in the head and knock some good sense into it...I bet you have wonderful qualities, and sometimes, when it just don't seem to ever go your way..we have to step back and remember just what God gave us...and thank Him for giving us His Son,...as a sacrifice so that we CAN go on and live...Please..start remembering those things about yourself that shine and how  you can help others...and somewhere along the line, you will start to feel better..and say your prayers darling,..they will be heard...He always hears us...God Bless
390927
It's amazing how someone can break your heart, but you still love them with all the little pieces.\n\nBe Careful
426095
The point is most of us don't know we are in love or we  understand it too late! The reason for getting heart-broken is that we get used to some one so much and for such a long time that it's so hard to imagine life without that person. I always relate this to losing some one because of death.I believe that both sutuations are the same. We feel lost without that beloved person and it's hard to accept you won't hear the voice, you won't see the face or you won't see that person any more. The duration depends totally on you. You will eventually forget it but it's easier if you find some hobby or meet new people and totally be willing to forget.
730884
No one here can help you truly heal. \nReading your question brings me back about a year ago when my relationship ended after about 4years together. I really thought that i was going to die. And all my friends kept on telling me that time would heal my heart and while i am waiting the time away i needed to just surround my self with friends and family and keep my self busy. All good and well and so i did and the time did heal me a bit i stop crying every night and i was able to get back into the swing of things however every now and again i am taken back to that time and i face that same pounding in my chest and that feeling of heaviness on my heart Anything can trigger it but i find that a song or a smell and of course the Holidays.. This will be the second thanksgiving apart now i am in a new relationship but i will never forget that one love of a lifetime.\nI wish you well and know that you are not alone in your hurting.. \nAnd one more time Only time can heal your broken heart.
1136751
Well , i thought that i had met the one the first time . Of course , i was the only one of us that felt that way .I have been fool enough to let him break my heart over and over again since then. I think , that there might have been a time when he really cared about me. Maybe he still does care , but now i realize that we just are'nt meant to be together in that way. It's really sad though , because even now--> he's the only man that i would want to have been the 1!
479223
if they wud have felt how it may feel,then they wud'nt have done that.well,this is life u have ups n downs with it,ur life cant always b up n not always down.thats y we call it life...and its in the nature of dat person not to undersatnd how it feels whn he hutrs u.anyways dont get too much into whoever has hurted u will regret one day for doing dat to u.and he will realise wht a big mistake he has done.so CHEER UP GAL THERE'S LOT MORE IN LIFE!
36297
yes love hurts i do not care how in love you are it just really hurts . when you are dealen wth a broken heart you first need to find out if you ever have a second chance wth that person or not and if you have no chanch you just program your self to forget that person and you just tell yourself that you are beter off wthout him. its the hardest thang to do expecialy when you are still in love wth them but you have to realize that its not going to do you any good to sit around  feelen sorry for your self you get out there and act like you have every thang in the world going for you do not let yourself get depressed over it go out there and do somthing it will help you and the other party involved
361406
No...a broken heart is based on emotions not on a lifeline...
498895
This must be a new new new new love... with some added crush involved... wait till you get your heart broken.. It is the exact same feeling... ouch
52123
It is hard to say but I think it is not love that hurts it's losing it that hurts. If you love someone and they leave you can almost feel your heart break in two.
61190
i know that it hurt and it way take time to get over him. it hurt because you put your feeling inside this relationship an you thought that yall was going to be together. you will be ok. so smile.
372869
Well it hurts soo bad because u lose the one u are emotionally ATTACHED to..u feel like u dont wanna be with anyone else..because they made u feel soo great..but think of it this way..there was a reason why u and the one u "loved" didnt make it...its just not meant to be..dating is to meet the right person for u..almsot like experimenting..so good luck! and i hope everythingz k :) keep ur head up!
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