He broke up for some unknown reason. Should I bother finding out what that is?
457159
Well The same thing happened 2 me and well I had 2 find out from my best friend that he was cheating on me. Its better to not know why then for when u do because it only causes more heartache. I should know. Plus IF he broke up with you  then he doesnt really love you. He probally cheated on you and likes that girl better. Guys are jerks... Go to your real friends Chicks before Dicks sweety :) \nTake care
763351
Simply, curiousity with a little bit of wonder, maybe even jealousy.  Jealousy is questionable.  However, you don't understand why he was with her and really you don't need to or have to.  You might want to know why they broke up.  You may have deep down fears of them coming back around to each other since you don't understand why they were even together to begin with.  What you should remember is that he is with you and not her now.  If he isn't doing anything to see her, be around her, or have any sort of contact with her you really have nothing to be worried about.  If he is, then have concerns.  If he talks about her etc.  Put it out of your head if those things aren't happening and just enjoy that he is with you.
479243
Ask him, but what does it matter if he likes you or not, you already said that he doesn't want to get back together so why do you care if he still likes you? GET OVER HIM!!!
363197
He has seen things and probably had to do things that you couldn't understand. We live in a fake world from what is going on in the rest of the world. I think a change in out look is to be expected. I don't think the break up was anyone's fault. He may just need more time to adjust to being back.
111532
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
471969
What?  I have no freaking idea what your question is anymore.  I am not even certain of who broke up with whom. I am not sure if you got back together again or what.
1003546
he know's he did the wrong thing by dumping you. he's probably trying to act like he is in control. and it's obvious he still likes you but won't admit it coz he's a guy and wants to act like a 'man' and 'tough' n all. all i know he wasn't thinking when he dumped you and did something very stupid. \non the other hand he is also jealous when you talk to other guys or other new guys take an interest in you.\n\nb happy ur free n single coz he lost you now ;)
162837
Ok!!! I think I get it. You broke up with your ex ok, you started to see this other guy but something is not right. Ok! Its not totally your fault but kinda is in away. but if you look at it this way.  He fell for you right after you broke up with your ex. When your still need to recover and think about what had happen between you and your ex. Figure things out!! RIGHT!  You really didn't need to be with him or any one. You really needed was a friend to talk to BUT (this is were its his fault)  he took that oppunity to get with you and now his all booty hurt becuase you pulled away.  He knew he was on the rebound.  If he cared enough for you he would of just left it as friends until you are ready for a relationship. So he can get the full true feeling of been in love with you.  Honestly his hurting himself because you did what was right about not let him go on knowning that there is a change for you two. But you should of been honest with him for the start.  You need to sit and talk to him and if he don't gave you that then its his lost cause.  Really if he really care for you, he would be htere as a true friend and wait a while to the time was right.  Then maybe there can be a change and things will feel right and nothing missing.  Your mind and heart is with someone else not with him.  If he can't expect that then its not your lost.  You just need to look at it if its one less person to know.  Your not a bad person for breaking it off with him. You told him what was up.  sometimes its better that way.. He'll end up talking to you matter what.  Jsut give him the space and time to cool off and then really see him for him not what was.  Maybe he was just doing it for something else who knows. Best of luck to you.
837380
Hum... hard question... he might be sincere, but i REALLy don't like the fact that he broke up with you and then called to say how sorry we was.... sounds like one of those guys who slaps you in the face then begs your pardon.... why did he broke up with you? how did he do it? only you know what to do, but i'd think twice if i were you... good luck!
495349
did you talk to him before dumping him?  Sometimes us womean fly off the handle for something that the guy is not even aware of.  Remember Men are dumb.. approach with beer and the will be fine.
306553
Maybe he didn't get online to talk to you because he can't understand what you are typing.\n\nNo, you you shouldn't break up with him over that, you don't know why he didn't get online. Maybe he had a good reason. You should talk to him.
1125823
You sound very confused about why he changed so suddenly.  Perhaps there were other things going on in his life, things you either knew or did not know about.  Either way, you probably should not try to get into another serious relationship until you are able to get past this in your mind.  Till that time you aren't doing yourself or any guy you hook up with any favors.\n\nGood luck!
492633
were they drunk? or on any type of drugs? if youve ben dating this guy for a while then he is being very immature it sounds like this relatonship needs to be reevaluated and you dont need any weird drama in your life over a guy if he cant tell you straight up whats bothering him thenn cut him loose this is a sign on what to look forward to if this relationship persists.
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
529388
it could be and it also could be he wants to move on but does not know how to tell you.  If he is not into the relationship end it before you get hurt
195992
Well now, I don't know. I mean he is your Ex, surely he would be in a position to know. Maybe you should ask yourself why you've reacted so strongly to something you should probably just laugh off.\n\nIs it possible he's hitting a little close to the bone?
1083590
Nope.  You were broken up - which means you weren't together - which means that you were both technically single.  Maybe he/she was talking to a friend or relative - or maybe he/she was just lonely.  Phone calls on a phone bill don't mean anything - especially if you weren't together in the first place.