how to forget his mistakes and trust him?
470195
maybe u need relationship guidance or he needs more than 1 woman 2 satisfy him coz hes greedy.
1000760
you will never fully trust someone unless you'll be over with the hurt. you need to surrender yourself to self-analysis and think continually about what has been and what will be...\nyou need to ask yourself if you're willing to open your heart to a new stage without locking yourself and putting a barrier because of the hurt. and sometimes the idea of getting hurt once again would limit your trust to a certain level...\nwe know that loving someone is giving one's self totally and that hurt is part of the process of trying to build up a relationship. trust doesn't mean that you'd never be hurt...
682306
Run.. Run away. Ask yourself.. Will you ever be able to trust him? Ever? \n\n-HtJ
575416
You can't! You blew it! Time to move on. A woman will forgive, but she will never forget. Neither should you and next time you meet someone you really care about, consider not doing things that will make her not trust you.
355355
Start establish & gain back the truth from the smallest things:\n- Be on time. \n  Example: I will call you at 5:15 today.  I will see you at 7:20pm ...etc.  Try to make this type of "On time" happens every day.\n\n- If things that you can not confess, then you have a reason to keep it secret.   \n\n- Be a good listener.  Encourage he talks, expresses ..\n\nBest Regards.
1162683
The best thing to do is follow your instincts.  If you trust him, don't worry about it.  If you don't, you need to confront him.
566491
It sounds to me that he has not regained the level of trust that you all had at another place in time.\nYou might try asking him, kindly and calmly, what it will take for you to re-birth that original trust.\nIt is a most important foundational building block for any relationship, and if you don't straighten it out NOW...you can build a leaning tower of Pisa in 20 years that won't support you emotionally or otherwise.\nAbove all, don't be tearful, that is unfair when dealing with men, they can't handle it at all and it is more like playing them, quite frankly!  So be centered and be up front with him. He will appreciate it more.  Good Luck!
583932
you have to face the fact that "love" isnt the only thing that makes a relationship...trust is a big issue,along with communication you cant make anyone trust you. ask yourself what you did, for him to not want to get hurt by you again. then think about what you can do to not do it twice. stop asking him to trust you...instead show him that he can still trust you. remember actions speak louder than words. also let him know that the best teacher in life are mistakes and that if you made a mistake you've learned from it. that you now know the consequences for your actions.
299230
It is`easy to say get rid of him, but then I would be a hypocrite. I`have so many reasons not to trust my man. I wish i would have went with my instincts from the beginning. If you can't trust him and you can let him go, buy all means do so. But if you are like me, you won't. Now i let it be known my distrust of him. He gets mad at me for it, but oh well. I figure he deserves it, and if he gets so aggravated maybe he will leave me. it would be easier to let him go that way. My advice is get out now if you can. there must be a reason you don't trust him, and chances are it will get worse.
626057
If you made a mistake tell him you didn't mean it
127056
firstly do you have a reason not to trust him?\n\nIf the answer is yes you need to talk to him and if the answer is no you'll just have to learn to become more trsuting - it may take time but you'll get there
222946
ask yourself if you'll ever forgive him cause if you cant you wont be able to forget, trust has to be earned, can he earn yours back.
265474
You are not doomed if you understand and learn from your mistakes. Sometimes that requires seeing a counselor or even talking with a friend who is insightful enough to give really good advice. (Not just someone who will say what they think you want to hear. You need someone who is honest with you.) Did you cheat on this woman before? Is that why she does not trust you? If you did, then you have to work really hard for her to believe you again. That means staying true and never giving her any reason to doubt you. It also could take a long time to make her feel that she can trust you. But no, you are not doomed to repeat your past... unless you don't learn from it.
1077725
It isn't always easy to trust. Especially if you've been burned more than once.\n\nGet to know a person well. Trust them little by little. Trust them in small things first, and that will show you if they can be trusted with bigger things. Eventually you'll have a close circle of friends you know you can trust. \n\nRemember, not everyone is out to betray you, and not everyone lies. Hang in there!
220567
I wish I had the answer for you, all I can give is a little advice,Try if you love him try, To many relationships have been lost to the trust issue! I trusted my ex and she trusted me, I screwed up 1 time and my life was over, dont let others get involved they will screw it up for you!!!
350968
..you probably dont think you can trust him because what has happened before..and i know exactly how you feel i havent been able to really trust a guy in over a year and im workin on it really hard and anytime i started to get somewhere with a guy all that i can think about is how much that other guy hurt me but i have to let go of the past and im tryin to figure out a way to do that too..but you are just goin to have to try your hardest to get over what has happen before..you might think you are completely over that but your probably not because you belive your boyfriend now..you just have to let your guard down with the chance of you gettin hurt again but sometimes its worth it/
181367
I have the same problem, ive been hurt by friends and family and i STILL think up conspiracy theories. Talking with him will help some, but the change has to be WITHIN you, the only thing he can do is make his life a little more open for you. I try to be as open and honest with my GF as possible, that way she can trust me more, also i tell her where ive been and she even knows my E mail password. She knows who is on my buddy list and who ive called. I do all of this so that there WONT be trust issues in our relationship. BUT she could still be paranoid, so she has to just admit to herself, that if im cheating on her, then it DOESENT MATTER, she will just break up with me and move on, or if i truly repent then fix the problem and continue the relationship. But you HAVE to let it go, go out on a limb and put yourself out there. once you say it doesent matter, and you have "let that person go" then that takes away any walls that were in your relationship before.