Should I try to date a workaholic or give up?
465851
Ball is in his court as this point. You've done enough to make it clear to him that you're interested. Allow it to unfold at its own pace, and if it doesn't that's fine too. You've done what you could now let it take on its own life or not.
1184862
Keep looking and don't give up. The person might just be around you so don't try too hard.Good luck.
291509
If you really like this girl then you should let her know. I think you should try the relationship, the trick is to just keep your relationship and your job seperate, while at work your relationship is not open for discussion, maintain a professional attitude in the work place, and don't allow your relationship to come into play. Also make sure she has the same attitude, and when work hours are over everything should work out just how you want it to. Look at Beyonce and Jay-Z, they both just keep their mouth shut, that way no matter what rumors are going around at work no one will ever really know what is trully going on.
853478
Sounds like both of you are going through withdraw.  That's too bad b/c most of time in long distance relationships, the other person eventually leans on someonelse and you become history.  If there is a will for you two to be together then you are going to have to find a way.  If this means giving up your job for her, then do it.  Do whatever it takes b/c you already know this isn't working, do you think it will get better?
669631
Your best option here is Number 5......which you are yet to meet. Go out with your friends and have a good time. I see a big number 5 in your near future! Have fun dating him!!
854030
This could be a real can of worms. First of all, it is bad form to date anyone you work with. Many companies forbid it. Secondly, how old are you? 20 is very young and if you are more than 5 years older than that, forget it. Finally, if it doesn't work out, you will have a very uncomfortable situation at work with both the girl and her mother there. I would say that it's not worth it. Date someone outside of work.
179511
Do what your heart leads you to do. If we push something and it is unnatural it is not meant to be or work out. If he feels as you weekends will work, the relationship will grow and arrangments in the future will blossom. Do not leap walk slow........this is your opportunity
757070
Stay busy - with friends, maybe meet someone new?  Good luck.
483582
idk without meeting him, but i would say yes, you see he sounds like a rare breed of guys that are like that, i know very few people(including me) that are like that nowadays, and girls have a tendency to pass us by, so i would talk to him, and work from there if you would like to date him, if you don't though, then don't lead him along, that will hurt him more than a straight out rejection. good luck
761551
If he was hardworking and not planning to bum around, definitely. I can think of a few men I'd consider dating even if they lost their jobs today. But to job search for 3 months and not do anything in the meantime isn't good.. especially if they are stingy with money and welcome me to pay for things.\n\nCome to think of it, I did date a guy who was out of work 2 years ago. He didn't really have a life goal/interest careerwise and it took him months to even get a job teaching snowboarding part time. I don't care if you work at freakin McDonald's, just be a man!! This was a turn-off.
373999
In my opinion I think that you should never get involved with a coworker.T here are many complications starting from this. What if you breakup afterwards? How will you be able to go to work? Not the mention that everybody is going to start talking and you will have a lot of rumours on your head, most of them not true.If she gets a promotion,they will think that she did "something special" to earn that. But if you really like her, she could switch jobs, if that is an option.And are you sure she's no trying to get somewhere with this romance? Maybe she's trying to obtain something. The stakes are too high. it's better not to complicate your life like that. But hey,it's just my opinion.
527109
It's probably better that she's out of the office, as office relationships can be a sticky situation.  Consider this your opportunity - go for it!  Call her up.  What are you waiting for???
1187381
I've dated a boss of mine.  Heck, even the girl who worked my job before me -- she quit because she married my new boss!  Go for it.  Just remember -- work is work, relationship is relationship.  And wait until he ends it current one before you move in on the prize.\n\nI actually work with my fiance -- he's not my boss, but we met here and have been together for 2.5 years.  Studies show that us overworked Americans are turning more and more to workplace relationships and employers are becoming okay with it.
296587
Getting involved with someone you work with is NOT a good idea. Any time there is a problem in the relationship, it can cause a problem in the work situation. If the relationship fails it can cause problems for you at work. Many businesses have rules against employees dating, because of the problems it creates in the work place. It can be grounds for termination if your company has a rule against employees dating.  If you truly feel a person is right for you, I suggest that one of you find a new job before getting involved in the relationship, or at the very least, make sure there is no company policy against employee dating.
468591
Depends on yuor feelings in the relationship. If your looking for someone to be something serious then you should move on and keep looking. If your only looking for something fun and flirty just stick with him.
1016949
i'm with someone right now that has a job but only does it because he has to, you know? he really doesnt like working, and around the house, he's really not the most motivated person on the planet.\nbut, he's the best man i've ever met. he's sweet, sensitive, funny, outgoing, playful, he pays attention, he is my dream man. so even if for some reason he quit working perminantly, yeah i'd still stay with him.
876083
you either have to both want to spend time with each other and make time or give up cause thats lame if i want to be with someone i will be with them everyday