How can you tell the difference between a girl liking you and a girl being nice to you.?
470000
assume she's just being nice, but compliment her and let her know she is important to you. even if it is just "nice" now, it may grow into something if you show her respect.
803201
If you really like this girl, just be cool. Don't act like your desperate. Try not be too interested in her right now; if she likes you (and that's important too), then she will respond eventually. In the mean time, try looking at another girl. Who knows...You might end up with two at the same time. That's when you come back here and ask another question about that. Got it?
1117742
When I like a girl, I constantly look at them, but often look away when the girl sees me. I'm happy around her, and can either be very talkative or very shy around her.\n\nFrom what you have written, J.P. likes you. Any guy that talks about you positively when you are not there, holds you hand, and flirts with you obviously likes you. He only has you on his mind, and is trying to get closer. He absolutely likes you. \n\nGo for it!\n\nGood Luck :-)
1029663
The best time to talk to a girl when you see her for the first time...talk to her when she's stopped somewhere like in a store or at a drink machine or something, not when she's walking.  Give her a genuine compliment like "You look nice today" or "You have a pretty smile."  Most of the time a girl won't shrug you off or look at you weird when  you compliment them, but there are some people out there who think that every guy who looks at them wants something.  A nice girl will thank you and smile.  Take it from there with something like "I was thinking about buying this cd (name a band or something), have you heard them?  Are they a good band?"  Ask her opinionated questions and if she's nice and wants to be approached by you, she'll continue talking to you.  If she doesn't want to be approached by you, she'll keep it short or give a reason to just walk away.  Don't sweat it.  It's not as hard to get the NICE girls as it seems.  The bitchy ones will be difficult and put up a fight. lol.
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She may like the attention you give her or you're misreading her.  Friendliness is no sign that girl likes you.  Also, maybe it's not love but a need to dominate someone you can't have - some guys re like that.\n\nToo many guys read too much into a woman's actions.  Get advice from another woman if you want to know for sure.  Have the other woman observe her interactions with you without being noticed.
135791
wave and smile and it wouldn't hurt to pass her a note  asking her why she is waving at you.  hey, maybe she likes u 2!!  a girl likes a guy that says what's on his mind and is honest!
327773
Well, if she already knows you like her, you she ask her if she likes you. It's possible to like two people at once.
685013
i cany really give you a perfect answer.. but ill do my best.  im a girl, and when i like a guy i do pretty much what you descibed her doin to you.  now this doesnt mean she likes you 100% because some girls treat all guys like that cuz they are just big flirts..  one idea is when you catch her lookin at you just give her a sexy smile.. shell probly smile back to be polite either way.. but then look at her a minute later and see if she still looks happy.  if she does, you can be pretty sure she likes you.  good luck!! ;)
472952
well...this can be a very difficult question. i suppose you could ask like that one girl said, but i know i wouldn't because i'd be wayy too shy. i think that if someone makes a point to talk to you, or go up to you and talk to you, then there is def some interest there. if this person likes to tease you , like just joking, not insulting, that can also be a red flag. Communication is key to knowing if someone likes you or not. oh and if they give you a compliment...even better :)
1058356
Well if she feels the same way to towars you then she will let you know.  If it meant to be she'll let you know.  Just say calm and see what she is going to do.  If she doesn't  do anything to let you know she likes you then don't worry anymore.
1093290
Hey is it very tough to find out .. . well I find it very hard .. I can understand your problem .. I have also gone through it .. find out any specific method .. let me advise you .. it is very clear that you are finding it hard to ask her directly .. do one thing ask another girl who is close to her .. or of she does not know then make one girl to ask for you ( she will just ask casually without reveling your name ) well I do thing that is a good ans .. well one question from my side .. how you come to know the a girl loves ( or at least likes you ) ? believe me girls are also humans and has feeling like us .. how to know it .. she will give you hints .. but ..how to catch it. ?
723647
Being a girl myself, BE NICE TO HER!!!\n\nMy first bf just chatted to me whenever he saw me for awhile. He would wait for me at my stop, and he was always really nice. He acted just like friends. He dropped small hints in his xanga and stuff about likeing me before he finally asked me out. \n\nTalk to her whenever you can. Make eye contact, smile. After a little while, when she seems responsive, start dropping hints that you like her like her. She will most likly know this, but hey, we're girls, we love that stuff. \n\nAnd most importantly, ASK HER OUT YOURSELF!!! DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT get someone else to talk to her or ask her out. Only cowards do that. \n\nGood luck!
272440
Look for:\n If she looks and smiles at you all the time\n If she does anything out of the way to talk to you\n If she says hey in that i like you do you like me voice\n If she is showing off in front of you\n If she cant get her words out right
226913
A girl likes to be complimented without it sounding sexual.\nA single picked flower with the words of 'It reminded me of you'. \nIf it's conversation she would love to hear about your likes and dislikes not just that you like what she does. A girl likes challenge and comparing this gives her thought of what you to could move forward into the future or maybe not. But let her make that decision. Too much forwardness can be assumed as harrassment or stalking.h
518142
Not sure what those looks mean? Follow these steps and find out if she really likes you. \n\nSteps \nMake friends with her close friends (the ones with the big mouths). \n\nSee if she flirts with you uncontrollably or avoids you altogether. She'll usually all of a sudden get louder or quieter when you come around. \n\nNotice how she looks at you--she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. \n\nIf her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" If she says "no I don't" more than 3 times with a smile or while laughing nervously, then you can assume she likes you. \n\nWatch for her being extremely mean or extremely nice to you for no reason. \n\nLook for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears you or your name. \n\nCheck if she seems mad or will say comments like "just kiss her already" when you flirt with girls. \n\nBe aware if she seems overeager to fix you up with someone. \nIf she stalks you, she likes you. \n\nTips \nIf she really, really likes you, she'll tell you herself. \n\nDon't try too hard. It's a huge turn-off. \n\nIt helps if you're the sweet kind of guy who lets girls hug him. You'll more likely hear about a girl liking you. \n\nIf you do hear a girl likes you, be nice to her. Don't avoid her and don't seem disgusted because no girls will like you after that. \nbe yourself but in a nice way.
307836
Girls are all different but....\nMost girls will constantly try and find an excuse to touch you if they like you, any excuse for contact will be used. If she constantly tries to find a reason to be near you, laughs to loud at all your jokes, is kind of tryna make sure everything is in place(ie. her hair) when you are around. Little things that you don't normally pay attention to done a whole lot then............. somebody likes you!
576337
Well it is obvious if the girl likes you and the only two ways to find out is one- the girl might only talk to you and only you and if that is not what she does than the other way is:The girl will look at you any chance she can get and when she looks at you she will blush and quickly look away and during that couple of seconds SMILE AT HER and make her feel happy!!!