i like a girl but i just hooked her up with my best friend smart or not smart?
474405
Not too swift there.  Why on earth? Oh never mind, I'll never understand guys.
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
475199
to be honest with you my best friend is a girl..... we live in one apt.... and we do most of the things that you do.... we even walk naked infront of each other but the thing is that everything is very clear with our relationship..... we love each other to death but we know that we cant be more than just friends.... however.. yours can be the same understanding as mine.... at times we tend to forget why we can be so comfortable with friends.... and that there is nothing more.... no malice..... in this instance .... your feeling towards her is that you want more to be friends.... however you are not certain if she does feel the same way however her actions doesnt speak for it... what you have to consider is that .... are you willing to take the risk of loosing a friend should it happen that its only a one way street???? hence.... if your feelings are really strong you need to do it as gently and as fast as possible..... ask her for a casual date and ask her these questions.....\n\n1. what is your ideal guy.....? with this you can decern if it is close to being someone like you...\n2. have you found him??\n3. what makes him different? this will solidify your search....\n4. if all of it fits you then...\n\ntell her that you are ending this friendship ... i want more out of our friendship.. i want to take you out as my date not as my friend......\n\n5. if you seem that there is a different one tell her that you are happy for her.... but then again you just have to be honest... tell her everything......but before that... make a pact before you reveal you intimate feelings you will still be her best friend....
416679
Why not. If you are open with your communications right now, she may be shy about telling you how she feels about you too. And let her know that no matter how she feels about you, you still want to be her friend. Some of my best friends are guys who love me, but they are more like brothers or close friends to me.
605443
Yes. Just be careful soemtimes the relationship will work out. I met my bestfriend on the internet.
431043
you should really get a girl to girl talk with each other... didn't you think she was just doing that to make you jealous of her? maybe she's just jealous of you?! so... tell her why sahe's doing those stuff like going out with the guy that you liked.. and went out with him.. even though she knows you like him! i know its hard because she's your best friend... but a real bestfriend is not supposed to do those stuff to each other.. so try to find time to talk to her! :)
474499
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
127172
There is always a risk in this situation and only you can decide if it is worth it.  One way to get a hint about your best friends feelings might be to joke with them about the idea or claim you heard someone talking who thought you two were together.  Maybe what they say from there will open up a dialog that will give you a chance to figure things out.
349327
You just have to really be yourself and show to her that you are the right guy for her. I would call and talk to her about it and ask her if you two could just go hang out some night and when you do eventually hang out, tell her about everything you feel! They always say that your soul mate should be your best friend so who knows. I wish you the best of luck!
829734
Oh, kind of an embarrasing situation. I would first talk to my best friend about it. Have her pave the way and tell u if he fancies u or not. If u get a positive feedback, start by taking him out to a movie or something along with your friend, once things are cool, u guys can start the real dating
185871
No, You're too good for her actually. She probably flirted with both of you at the same time, but waited for her preferred option. She just lost you!
733579
you are in a very good situition right now. What u can do is to be her best friend. Let her know that she can tell u anything and u will always be there to listen. Then one day she may have a fight with her bf and break up with him so u can tell her that you have been waiting for so long to tell her that you really like her.
175348
You obviously like her if you find her really pretty and smart. You are probably shy.
860692
If she can't get the hint, then she's too stupid too even know what you're talking about if you tell her flat out. In this case, it doesn't really matter. That's cool you wanna be sensitive though. Just try to make sure you show no "what could be signs" of liking her, and she'll eventually get tired of chasing you and find someone else to bother.
519581
yes, i think you should make the first move. why let something get away when he was your first. if you don't then why be mad your the one standing back letting her do this. best friends are few and far between and if she'll do this to you then what else will she do. so tell yourself the truth she is not your bestfriend.friends stand beside each other not behind each other.
99637
So she IS aware of this love or she isn't??  Have you tried just asking her on a date?  I mean, proposing would be rushing it a bit considering you haven't even tried romance yet.  If she's aware you love her and she's your best friend, the only reason she might say no is to keep from risking your friendship.  if the realtionship doesn;t work out, she looses a friend.  if you just stay friends, what does she loose?  just ask her if she might be interested in turning your friendship into something more.  if she says no,  just let her know that if she changes her mind, you're still game, but otherwise you want to remain the great friends you've always been.