i want my crush give me more attention than my love rival, but how 2 do that?/?
456607
GF STOP THE CAR u better step-up and tell him b4 the rival takes him from under ur nose dont b scared go get ur MAN FAST no-more crush time its nothing like the real thing
915167
Honestly, u can't make ne 1 like u it just happens but u could try hanging a round him but don't act like a stalker. lol:) b his friend someone he can talk 2 and he might just see that the one that is right for him was beside him all this time.
1044495
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
649910
Do not self sabotage yourself! If he is talking to you, regardless, if its to get close to you or your friend, the ball is in your court, play it!!! Make sure he sees what a great person you are when your talking to one another. This is to your advantage. And as far as that friend goes, I think she is a secret admirer of yours (not in the gay way). Apparently, she probably thinks about you like you think about her. They say "coping is the highest form of flattery'!!! I know its annoying, but there is just one you and people are quick to pick up on who is the "copycat"! Now lets work on your self esteem. If you think your the things you wrote in your question, you will be that person. You have to believe in yourself. You have to promote self confidence. You are waaaay to hard on you! If there is something about yourself that needs changing, do it. There is so many tools a woman has access to in this day and time, not to achieve exactly what she needs and wants. So, start small and work up. Try to tell yourself during the day, "you are pretty, and interesting, and deserve as much or more than anyone you know." After awhile, you will look in the mirror and that person, you have been talking about will be there! I promise!!!
1017726
i got in a fight with another girl (at school, no1 was watching) that liked my crush. My crush came over and asked us why we were fighting. I said its about some guy and she practicly yelled "that guy is u and u like me beta rite?" well he was a little taken aback and said he'd think about it well after school he said he liked me better because i don't yell and i'm pretty and kind and all this other kind comments and now we've been going out for 2 years and like each other very much.\n\nremember to be yourself, i no i no thats what every1 says but if you pretend to be some1 else then he might think your acting weird and when he finds out what your really like he will ask you why you lied and bla bla bla. I wish you luck. :)
945446
Just ask him if you draw attention to him and if not try to fix it
231733
become his friend and when he finally realizes how great you are he will probably notice you more than that other girl
156324
If your crush doesn't like you, there is no good way to "snag" him/her.  The only way you can get them if they don't like you is by being fake and that's no way to start a relationship.
471111
Start tryin' to get closer 2 him.  Once yer able 2 lean yer head on his shoulder ask, " do you luv me." i know its not that easy but try
592340
You should ask him because you dont want to see another girl take the boy you like and you want to to something before its to late,everyone gets a little shy and shaky around their crush and you dont have to be loud like him ,just be you! to me thats luv!
534982
find another crush..!
905829
Talk to him and tell him that you wish he would give you more attention. Guys are pretty naive sometimes and just don't realize things.
818008
It all boils down to you wanting attention. You want this guy to pay attention to you even though you have no feelings for him. Your jealous because the attention is not on you. You can't expect it to be about you anymore. It doesn't work like that.
1113561
lol ask some guy that ur twin has a crush on. see what they say
460251
Don't do it. Those are exactly the kind of mind games that make life so rediculous sometimes. Why, if you truely liked him, or cared for him, would you want to make him jealous? If you had his best interest in mind, you wouldn't be plotting against him! Get over it and find someone who is interested in you, don't waste time with people who don't want you in their life.
61204
I use to have the same problem. If you reallyu actually like him ignore others comments. If you are too bothered about their comments to ignore them tell him about it. Trust me if he really likes you he'll understand.
929288
That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.