Have a houseguest that needs to GET OUT!!  How do I tell them in a nice way?
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Tell her someone else is coming to town who is planning to stay with you.
740981
Just talk to them and be nice about it.  I am a slob and know it is kind of hard to just change all at once.  I had a roommate in college just leave me a nasty note one day and that ruined our friendship.  The following year I had a neat freak again for a roommate and she would just tell me "could you please pick that up today or your turn to do the dishes".  All I needed was a little reminder once in a while and that works.  You did move in with them however it is your place as well and they need to respect that.  Just say something even in a joking manner they will get it.  Good luck and don't just do it for them they will never learn.
487493
Simple tell him to get off!
1134183
tell them to stop\nand then tell the story at your next dinner party
391687
Firstly, tell them in private and quietly:)\n\n Secondly, do it carefully. Maybe just hint by asking tdid they forget to do something before thy left the house, like check for a handerchief or use deodorant.\n\n Thirdly, don't make too big a deal about it. There is a difference between hygiene problems and being a little sloppy; Cutlure comes into it a lot too.
374774
Tell him to STAY out the next time he leaves...  that way you can have a more stable life for yourself & your kids.
146153
JUST LEAVE THE A-H*LE!!!! \n\nYour only hurting yourself by staying.
249852
thats a hard situation, I doubt anyhting you can ever think of saying in the nicest way will ever make her not get mad. I guess you just need to understand that you tried your best trying to tell her in the nicest way possible and if she gets offended thats a shame, but you need to move out and start your life. Id prolly be like i have a surprise tonight for you, Im going to make you dinner, then after shes all fattened up tell her how much you love her and is going to miss her, good luck
34049
after a few meetings then ask if u can wisk her away... make sure she is secure in the whole plan   seperate rooms, whatever it takes make her feel safe!
545397
first start by telling her nice things like what did you do to your hair it looks different or you look nice today, or any other nice comments, also do all the chores without being asked like to dishes, laundry,cutting the grass, cleaning your room then after all that you can ask her to go to a party that ends at 100 in the morning and when she says no then ask if you can in at 1200 instead of 100 and if she still says no then don't worry your not the only one that is not being allowed to stay out late and its not the end of the world and when the next party is on then start this a few days in advance believe me it works my daughter does it to me all the time but she thinks that i don't know but hey my house gets a good cleaning
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You take a fly swater and........ no wait thats mean and thats what I would do. Just keep your door close and just tell them to knock before them come in and you can tell them to come in or not\n\n\nNow if it dosen't have to do with your room then just tell them to stop bothering you in the nices voice
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hang in there its only till January right around the corner and I know your thankful for having a roof over your head and that your inlaws have opened there house to you. I'm sure there feeling confined and missing there privacy too. Try to continue working this will help be away from the house as much as possible and when you are home try to find a quiet place where you can read a book or even soak in a tub for a bit its only a couple more months in the mean time you enjoy planning and having parties. why not get a pad and pen out and start planning this wonderful party your going to have once you get your new home. take this time to prepare and jot down ideas of what you want with this new house warming party. this should carry you through till January. good luck
460089
well just tell your $%$$##%%^ sister in law to go &&^%$#$@#@## and %%#$##$%^ and *((*%^##@@ ---that should do it!
682242
Well, in a case like this, dump her crap outside and change the locks while she's gone.\n\nBut I would suggest a good, long talk about what is acceptable first.
1141244
Tell him to get off his butt and support his family! If he is lazy, threaten to kick him out of the house. He's the man of the house, and he needs to pull his own weight more than anyone else.
1005163
I would mention everything "informally" as it happens, then hit them with a list. However, after you give them the list, you have to make sure they follow it, so mention everything afterwards, and make sure they do it. Remember, it's your apartment, and you're the one that can kick the others out if they don't follow your rules. Of course, you want to all try to reach an understanding of the rules if you're going to live together (maybe host a meeting?) If they don't like it, they'll leave. If they cooperate, everything will be fine.
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Whether you say it in a nice tone or not, their feelings will get hurt. You are the man of the house, YOUR HOUSE. You need to put your foot down. It's hard having family stay with you, and they are freeloading off you, I know.\n\nYou really don't need an explanation because it's your house. Tell them  and if they get upset, oh well. They need to learn how to fend for themselves, and stop interfering with your household.\n\nGood Luck.