Just wondering what goes on in my gay friend's head?
472708
That could be the reason he isn't coming out, because he is afraid or cautious about what people might say or do. I personally don't flaunt the fact that I'm gay, because it isn't so widely accepted in some areas. Just be supportive of his decision, and he will come out if he wants to.
1110723
I seriously doubt that he's gay but I don't know if he's married or not. Maybe you could ask him yourself somehow.
776898
It sounds like he is a closet gay guy. Your brother needs to sit down with a councler and talk.
509063
It doesn't necessarily mean he's gay.  Thats a very sensitive place for men, maybe he just wants to see what if feels like.
800599
There's really not much you can do, since you probably won't change your other friends' minds about this situation.  However, they might be hurting because they feel like they've been betrayed - maybe they think that this person they thought they knew isn't the person they thought he was at all.  Maybe calling him names is their way of venting this frustration.  If this is the case, maybe you could talk to them about how hard it is to admit one's sexual orientation, especially when family relationships are at stake, that there was a reason he had to keep it a secret.  Make sure you keep supporting your homosexual friend, because with all of the opposition (especially the family opposition), he really needs you right now.  If these people can't accept your decision to remain friends with this person, then they probably aren't friends worth keeping, if they were ever really friends at all.  In any case, I don't believe in homosexuality myself, but I hope that you and your friend are able to find peace in resolving this situation.
755873
Maybe he is being REALLY nice.LOL! I wouldn't say anything unless he like says something gayish. like want to go out or wut eva. Then definitely say something, but if he just said that one thing, then i wouldn't worry about it. but that is my opinion. If you feel like it is really bugging you, then say some thing. Good Luck
477244
Gay? He still a human and he need friend ( s ) to support him and maybe u can be his miracle and make he change his sexuality ( gay to str8 )... hehehe... just a friend!
445668
Doing it together with his friends is a bit weird....\nIs he gay?
1070865
Get better friends, I don't mean that in a harsh way but if this friend  knows your brother is straight but keeps acting this way towards him it just seems to me that He is Not being a very good Friend at all Gay or Straight
1182254
I have told friends personal info over the years.  Nothing like "I was rapped as a small boy" type things.  More along the lines of "wow your mom is banging dude!"  They took it pretty well, and after a few days the swelling on my face went down, so everyone was happy :)  Hope that helped you.  But if you are looking into something like "I'm gay" just go ahead and tell them.  What's the worst that can happen?  He won't like you anymore?  Well, if he is a homophobic and you are gay, well them he wasn't a good friend anyway and you are better off without him.  Have I helped yet?  I hope so.
932113
Well, first you need to make sure you're not advancing on someone who is against gays.  If you get the vibe that he'll crack you in the head for standing too close ... I would move along.\n\nBut, if you've known this person for a while and feel that you both have a connection, then I would ask him to hang-out sometime.  Maybe grab some pizza or hang out at the mall.   Go back to your place and "study" or whatever.  Find out who he is and if he is interested in you as a friend or something more.
339234
Forget about it, be his/her best friend instead. Gay is gay, you will never be really loved in return and it only leads to unhappiness.\nGo out and find someone else - it sounds trivial, but in time it works.
645902
maybe when he acts weird on men or to you... he prefers girlish acts, like talking loud and lots of hand gestures while talking to other people, and sometimes you would caught him glued to looking at some man... \n\nbut still, some don't know that the way they act is gayish, or that's really them... no one can be sure if he's gay or it's just the way he is...\n\nif he knows he's gay.. ask him... be kind in asking... and if he says yes, don't get to mad... try to understand.. after all, he is still a human...
362828
^  He's one of those GAYs   ^^\n|                          \n|
51615
PLEASE! For the sake of embarrassment, DON'T ASK HIM!! If he's still in the closet, he'll only get angry, and you'll lose any chance of ever finding out. Instead of asking him, just put yourself out there if you are comfortable with your bisexuality. Do you have any close friends at work who may be friends with him also? They may be able to find out in some mysterious way. My best friend is a gay male, and he just recently came out over the summer of 2005. He's going through the same thing right now. It's tough, but hang in there. You just need to build your confidence, and the rest will come! Best of luck!
1116724
You probably want to stay clear of that one as you may lose a friend.. You can tell them  you are gay.. That's accepted today.. BUT if you tell him you are gay and you are in love with him,  you risk losing him as a friend.  Start out with baby steps and then if he is cool and opens up to you too and tells you he is gay, maybe you want to begin with trust, going out with him, working out with him etcc... He will get the message and you will see from his demeanor whether you have a chance or are even his type.. To recap, you can come out to him.. If he comes out to you, then you need to be passive and let him figure out that maybe you are the guy for him.. BUT don't comeout and tell him you love him.. Disaster waiting to happen..
678395
You should be there for him! He has been honest to you and you need to support his decision! Thats what friends are for.  Thats so cool actually because id like a guy friend that was gay.  They are so sweet and caring and make the best friend out of everyone.  Accept his decision and carry on with your friendship as normal.