well its this 20 year old that likes me and i like him,but how can I get him to date me and how he feels???
472639
I think 15 and 20 might be a good match. Nothing wrong with that.\n\nEDIT:\n\nIf that's against the law that is pretty sad. In that case there is nothing wrong with it SAVE for it being against the law.
947626
First and most importantly, you are hot. \n\nSecondly, I wouldn't personally date someone 20 years younger than me but then again that person would be 8.   OK seriously, I wouldn't let a meaningless thing like age get in the way of being with someone who made me happy.  Many people are saying that it might not last.  What relationship can you guarantee WILL last?  \n\nANY relationship can end.\n\nSo take a chance.  If you care for him, be with him.  You can't love unless you are willing to risk hurt.  That's just life.  \n\nSo if I were 41 (assuming I don't commit suicide when I turn 30 from the shock and horror of reaching that advanced age) yes, I would definitely take a chance on someone who was 21 if I cared for them.
943313
If you are both adults, both not committed to anyone and you like each other age shouldnt matter. Ask him out.
901677
ask him if you two can talk and tell him its important. then tell him that you liked him forever, he probibly feels the same way about you. then see where things go from there.
438441
Well if this message is for me then, I guess I already know.\n\nYou may not want to tell him because once he turns 18 he can't show any romantic relations for you do to the law.\n\nBut, say you will wait for him, if he promises to wait for you to turn 18. This is for him to stay single or true to you, hopefully. Its not an exact relationship to be in but hey; its love. If he feels that the two of you shouldn't date or what not he should be kind enough to tell you nicely that it may not work between the two of you.\n\nBut, feel free to tell him that you have a crush on him. It will make him feel happy to know that he is adored by younger girls.\n\nI sure do hope to God that you didn't mean the word CURSE!
239309
Really Confusing? He like you, but you;ll dont know what to do. You guyz seem to be too innocent!\nWell start up a good talk, talk about ur past in a calm and quiet place. take a walk with him, talk about his life, his likes and dislikes. \nTake a initiative, hold on to his hands, tell him how much u care about him. tell his your weakness's and what you like. \nAlways be together, no matter what, think, if u loose him u dont have any option. I believe you will love and your realtion will grow stonger.\nbut hey that doesnt mean that you'll wont fight, there can be no relationship like that, but never the less you shuld try to avoid it.
764901
the only way your going to find out if he likes you in the way you like him is just by being completely honest with him and explain how you feel he can only say yes he likes you the same way or he just wants to be friends with you. if he only wants to be friends with you dont be too upset with him because at your age its better to have lots of friends and have fun with them then thinking of anything more serious.
545414
Let them know that he's a great guy(he is right?) and that\nyou are old enough to date.
232948
Just ask him, depends on the age though. \nLike if you are 15 and he is 19, he might not want to date somone so young. But if you are 21 and he is 25 it might not be such a big deal.
180617
U always get a chance.if U feel that U really like him so U should try gettin' with him\ngood luck\n:)
413126
Hun, it doesn't matter how old you are, the way to a person's heart is by making them laugh & making them feel good about themselves.\n\nShow him how much you enjoy his company & talking to him, and you'll be surprised how quickly he will do the same.
392592
I would just take it slow.  He still has time to grow and learn about life.  Maybe he really would like to do that with you.  Some guys are more ready than others. Just take it slow so u dont get crushed.   The age thing is not a huge deal.  Really you are not that much older than he is.  He could be serious.  Just realize that he is not established yet.  If you are and are comfortable with that, then go for it!!!!
914493
I would just let him know how you feel.  Go after what you want dont wait for him.  If you want it go get it.
847682
Ask him out and see what he says. I'd be wondering if he likes you though. Sorry, but if he knows that you like him and you're obviously of age, then why hasn't he asked you out?
302844
I see...that 20 year old likes little girls he can brainwash and groom to believe everything he tells them..\nAlthough you are at the age of consent, think about that...Why doesn't he have a girlfriend his own age?\nBecause he is a loser that preys on little girls,when older mature women find him despicable...
523249
if you like him just let you know that you like him. ask him out on a date and see how he reacts. if its a good reaction go for it..maybe it will lead to more
961520
How can I let him know I like him.\n\nEye contact is the thing.\nMake eye contact with him, and then give him a big smile.\nIf nothing happens after this has occured a couple of times or so, then speak to him, and say that you have noticed him looking at you, and would he be interested in a date.