Is it wrong for a 21 year old bomb shell to marry an old fart with money? Is it really love?
471738
A bomb shell will only marry an old man for money, bottom line.
115407
If the 25 yr. old man is very mature and you have more than sex in common. I see nothing wrong with it. Some younger men are looking for a mother figure or someone to support them. If that's the case and you don't mind paying for everything then go for it.
1095058
I think it's fine. IN the tenn year,s it's pathetic because both people are growing up and they have no idea what they wanna do in life- they just date out of pure lust and "puppy" love. \nHowever, when you reach late 20's, early 30's it doesn't really matter. And considering the fact that if someone is 6 years older and you don't care about it- that makes the bond between the two even stronger.\nAnd anyway; many people fell that only anotherm more mature person can understand them- and if it takes a 6 year difference, let it be!\nSo technically, as long as the love is there- anything's possible!
288113
Personally I think he is, But I've seen older. If your in love then go for it. However I know a girl who met a guy living in canada (she's from the US) on a message board, they've known eachother for less then 6 months and she plans to marry him. shes 18 hes 17. even in Las Vegas a justice of the eace won't grant a marrige licence in that case. I think they're crazy. As long as you don't end up in a situation like this I see no problen with it.
344796
grow up. are you a money grubbin w* h* or e* or do you want to love someone?
1018419
I would say that be prepared on really showing to your family that you do really love this women. Personally the age gap doesn't seem like a problem at all. Her having a child- be prepared for your family to question if she wants your money and get ready to defend her. But I say kudos for not throwing away your love over the fear of what your family is going to say :)
639509
Well yes it is possible to love and have a happy marriage at 19.  I met my husband when I was 16 and we married when I was 19.  We have been happy togather nearly 10 yrs.  I caution you though,  It isnt easy and most people who get married young and have kids as young as I did get divorced and are miserable.  The odd's are against you.  \n\nI knew in my heart that I was making the right choice. I gave up a lot though.  I never finished school yet.  I never had a good job yet.  Money is not something that we really have any of.  If I had waited, I would have finished school and had money.  But I would have missed my chance to marry my husband.\n\nLife is a gamble, no one knows how things will work out.  I say think things through, search your heart and know in your heart that your making the right choice and go for it.  Dont let any one stop you.  And that applies to all things in life, not just kids and marriage.  You make your own decisions in life so start making em and never look back.  Just go for your hearts desire.
1091420
If the couple is in love and has the parent's permission to marry then no he isn't. Besides, if the old dude is rich she has a chance to score a ton of neat stuff!!!!\n\nBesides I hear 15 year old girls marry 65 year old men all the time in Florida.
214210
I think love IS at any age.  It is just the level of committment offered at the age.  Your age you shouldn't be looking at marriage or kids but your future, enjoying your time with limited responsiblities.  But my age i am looking for someone to share my life with, raise our kids, and retire with.  But all the same it is true love when in your heart you feel this persons' thoughts and feelings, needs and wants are important to you beyond anyone else's (except for your own, don't lose your identity)
544422
I was married when I was 16 and he was 18.  That was 21 years ago.  We are even happier and more in love now than when we were married.  We are each others best friend and ALWAYS make time for the other no matter what.  Communication is definately a must. You can't expect the other to know what is on your mind.  Neither of you are mind readers. ALWAYS respect each other.  Our rule is whoever gets whatever whenever.  Sometimes you need to just spice things up.  It has worked well even with having five kids from 17 down to 4 year old twins!  To really make sure it will last forever...add God and it will!
1105489
seems like older men are always willing to treat a younger woman like a princess in order to spend time with them.\n\nbut, tell me, wouldn't a cash transference be more honest?
1064268
If you are to marry an 84 year old lady just think that when you are married to her she will die soon  and then you might be rich boy in the end I would do it just for the money if I were you Good Luck
876899
If you're 30 and she is 10, stay away from her.  However, if you are 70 and she is 50 - go for it, if the feeling is mutual.\n\nIt IS wrong if she is a minor or of immature character.  It is NOT wrong if you are both legal, competent adults in love.   If this is the case, and you love her - I hope she loves you too.\n\nLoves involves a shared life, shared values, mutual respect, and regular communication.
112938
If you're happy now, then be contented with what you have. You chose to marry him despite his age and you've lasted that long together.\n\nIt is dangerous to entertain such a question...
229275
oh please do not think it is wrong as age dun matters. the main thing that u should doubt was whether ur love can withstands crisis as the time passes....
368899
It's not age... it's about finances and being mature enough to handle marriage.
948302
In my opinion anywhere above twenty years is too much of an age difference. I have no doubt in my mind at all that you and your girl will live a happy life together forever. As long as you are both treating each other with respect and courtesy then you should be just fine. Loving her is part of it but you also have to show her that you love her. Maybe you should renew your vows if you're married (hope you know what that means), or plan a surprise trip to a country she has always wanted to visit. I know that might sound like a hassle and quite a chunk of dough out of your pocket but from your description it sounds like it might be the only thing that will work... good luck in resolving this conflict, i will keep you and your girlfriend in my thoughts and prayers