What happens if you have a friend that has a boyfriend and her boyfriend tells her everything u say?
466848
Easy, don't talk smack about her or talk about any surpises you may have for her.
448297
Your friend was wrong to making a move on your bf, if she did. Maybe your boyfriend was talking about your friends because he knows how important they are in your life? Try talking about it with all three of them. Get each other sides of the story before you jump to anymore conclusions! Good luck!
565834
Personally, when I found myself in this very predicament, I made a conscious decision to approach the situation from an honest, adult perspective and expressed my concerns to both my friend and my boyfriend. \n\nBecause I trust my boyfriend, I explained how uncomfortable my friend's behaviour toward him made me, and asked that he help me by not reacting positively to her flirting. He was happy to do so, because he found her behaviour just as inappropriate as I had.\n\nI explained to my friend, privately, that, although I value her friendship, her flirting behaviour toward my boyfriend made me uncomfortable and was jeopardising the future of our friendship. I asked her to tone herself down and respect my feelings. When I discovered that she could not oblige me that, then I did, and still do, my utmost ensure that my boyfriend and my friend spend the least amount of time together as possible. It doesn't mean I don't see either of them less frequently, I just don't see them at the same time anymore.\n\nIt may be that my friend is jealous of the fantastic relationship between my boyfriend and me, and either consciously or not, wants us to split up so that I may be as miserable as she is in the relationship department... who knows. \n\nEither way, the key is to remain adult in your thoughts, and not give in to the childish part of yourself that goes "OMG what a b*tch I can't believe she's trying to steal my boyfriend I'm going to make her pay" or similar, and to trust the man you love.
599036
Your best friend is'nt dating your boyfriend so why does it matter.  You would have a problem if your best friend fancied your boyfriend.
1181920
YOU ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BEST FRIEND HURT IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT? PLEASE HAVE HER BOYFRIEND BREAK UP WITH HER THEN GET TOGETHER WITH YOU..BUT YOU ARE BREAKING THE FRIENDSHIP CODE...
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First of all, you answered your own question, eleven years, you can't throw that away over your boyfriend. I look at this way, tell both of them how you feel. You don't like her dissing him, and you are going to be her friend regardless if he likes her or not. You just tell them both, they both are going to be in your life regardless of who likes it or not. If they care for you, they will arrange a way to deal with it. Your friend sounds like she cares, but sometimes she might need to tone down the dislike for your guy. Just be honest with both.
139016
If your boyfriend trusts you then ya'll shouldn't have this problem. you should leave him...he apparently doesn't care that he wants you to never talk to your best friend again!
362312
her name is Josheline [jo-cel-yn] and i tell her everything. this is a very serious question because if you don't tell your best friend everything it's like breaking a commitment and who wants to do that?
964090
OMG! well then talk to ur boyfriend adn confirm if it's true. then, tell him to fix everything. as for ur friends, ruining a friendship over a guy is so low.,as for u, yes u r caught in the middle because u have responsiblity on both parties, they are both ur friends and it invovles ur boyfriend so what u can do is be the pacifier, pacify the rift if ur friendship really matters to u adn if ur friends are still acting that way, talk to them and ur bf. say what u want and mean what u say., all that stuff.,
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If you don't feel special around him anymore it may be time to go. First talk to your friend - you're right if she's your friend she should tell you what she's hiding. She's gone to far to not tell you as she brought it up to start with.\nRemember though a little bit of flirtings not the end of the world, as long as thats all.\nIn short get your friend to tell you, or tell her you can't trust her anymore, then confront your boyfriend about what really has happened. Then make your choice. ............
625612
yu should here both stories frist but if she was drunk then how does she know what he was doing but if he loves you then i don't think he would do that but why would you friend say that he did that to her  but i would talk to both at the same time.
987090
if he tells you or if he tells his friend who then tells you
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Are you ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that your "boyfriend" and the "ex" are split up or are they still TOGETHER and he is lying to the BOTH of you?!?
69156
were you actually with the guy? did your friend know you liked him? has your friend also known him for a while? these are important things to think about. if your best friend steals your boyfriend, neither are exactly worth your time, sorry, it hurts. If your friend knew you liked him, did she at least warn you she liked him? if she warned you, the punishment inflicted should be less severe, she still cares about you. If you were totally unaware, but she knew, then you probably want to yell scream and hit, once that is out of your system if you can trust her again, then try to keep the friend. If she didn't know then you really can't blame her for anything, but you would fit the first scenario if you tried to steal him from her...
1002434
you have a boyfriend and you want your so called friends approval? sorry i don't get it, if he's your boyfriend and there your mates how come they don't know him and have only seen a pic. my advise get new friends. i could never in a million years tell my friends that their  boyfriends weren't good looking even if that's what i thought, and i would never tell them that they could do better unless he was been horrible to her. true friends accept each others partners and even if your not that keen you pretend for their sakes. Also your the one who is with him not them and like i've said before looks are'nt everything.
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He will never stop loving you. There isn't anything you can say that will stop that. You just have to keep letting him know that nothing can or will ever happen between the two of you. You value his friendship too much to jeopardize that. Tell him that boyfriends come and boyfriends go. You don't want that to happen to him. Friends are forever.
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Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!