I like this guy but he likes my bestfriend who likes his bestfriend who likes me! helppp?
473567
Tell him you're confused and ask him what he wants. I'm actually in a similar situation right now.
293635
Well you need to tell her that you still like him, and you do have a problem with it. Just think of you saw them making out or something...wouldnt you get mad? i know i would but your friend wouldnt know any better because you didnt tell her! Let her know, and she might wanna stay with your crush she also might break up with him so she wont hurt you in any way.
389074
well if you really like him does it matter what your friends think? just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. i hope you make the right decision because it sounds like this guy really likes you.  just try it!!!! nothing will happen and if you really and truly like him and you want to stay with him tell your "friends" that they should accept him and if they refuse tell them " hey f**k off!" and just ditch their assiz if they don't like him but you do and their willing to give you up for a reason like that their not true friends. hope you take my advice and god bless!
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
365381
wow, well who do u really like?? who do u want to be with?? talk to them both cuz talking to just one could cause a small problem
511423
Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
39145
i dont think going for him after your best friend had him is such a good idea unless shes cool with it.  but i do think he likes you though..try kissin him on the cheek once or twice over a week span and see how he reacts..my e-mail is foxybabe0483@yahoo.com if ya wanna ask some more!!
970400
its not worth to lose the friendship for the guy..BUT you both need to be honest with each other..and face the facts, does he like YOU or does he like HER? be realistic. one friend is just going to have to sit back and watch this guy and them flirt and maybe be a couple and suck it up just to know her friend is happy. but seriously, be open with your friend and you and her need to be real and look at the situation.
601762
he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
519565
Find you some body and enjoy  life. If he really likes you he will get jealous , if he don't get crabby about it you know he likes your friend. If he does like you she knows it and is trying to keep him away from you by her being at his side all the time so you can't be. But, be careful you could get played if you aren't careful and end up with out either of them.
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
235683
If she likes you more then he other bf then she should dump him, and your not a girl stealer, me and my friend both liked the same guy and she asked him out like three times and he said no all three times then I did and he said yes. thats just who he picked you can't control who she likes, just who you do, go with who you like if you get with someone you don't like then your keeping your self unavilabe to people who do.
120595
You dont think you like him? Sounds like you might like him. But if you are sure you dont, just tell him you would feel more comfortable if you two just remanined friends.
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
529659
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.
686998
Okay, you like him, and you don't just like him........you LOVE him, and deep down inside, you feel REALLY upset that he likes your best friend, even though they go together, you still want him, but I guess only patience is your only option, I'm going through the same thing- except I don't know if my crush likes my best friend, I don't think he does either. But yeah, only time will tell. Hope this helps.