y does he keep telling me that he's single and then he says that we're getting back together, and i want him?
474617
Not sure what you mean.\nIs he signle but really dating someone else or married?\nDoes he want to get back together with you?\nOn the surface, sounds like he's into playing games.\nMove on, sister and find another guy who is a straight-shooter.\nLife is too short to play BS games with the heart!
1057900
it happens mostly all the time. He could be hiding them because he doesn't want to get back together or that he keeps reminding himself about y the two of yous broke it off. If not and he does want to be with u then keep on trying, if it doesn't work then leave it in the past. i mean u shouldn't wait around for him too long. u could miss out on something way much better. just really think about it.
891103
The same thing happened to me. He's just trying to get you jealous because he knows u will. Girls do tht and obviously he knows tht.  I broke up with him and he wanted me back and asked me out again. Since then we've been going out. Don't worry it's a guy thing and i was wondering too why he was doing tht and he told my friend it was just because he was jealous
642229
It depends on the guy.. if it looks like he's changed from how he used to be before (and he won't break up with you again), and YOU want him back, then i would suggest giving the relationship another chance... if it looks like it's going to be the exact same relationship as it was before.. find another guy!
345788
It sounds like your on the rebound, so maybe it's best to stay single for awhile! Figure out what you want and hopefully this will help you attract a good man!
460984
Does he want you back? If so, try saying, I know we did'nt click the first 2 times, but you know what they say, the third times a charm,,wanna try again? You never know, it might work! Good-Luck!
852451
He is stringing you along. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He doesn't like it when he don't have control of you. You are his back up plan, his security that he won't be alone. You need to dump him and meet you a real man. You don't deserve that. He is tormenting you. He will never change.\nI gaurantee you when you meet somebody and he finds out he will be on his knees begging you back but please don't make the mistake in taking him back because after he breaks you up with him he will dump you again.
389873
First of all, stop sitting around waiting on him to want you again.  He is trying to control you.  Whether you are over him or not, you can still "move on."  Don't wait on him.  When he finally decides to call, reverse those rolls.  Tell him that you got a date, but when you need one, you will call him.
237848
I think your right.  I think you need to make a stand and force him to decide if he really wants a relationship with you or not.  You need to find out so you can move forward with your life and find happiness either with him or with out him.
628787
i ll tell you why... he is jus having his options open.. if he finds someone better, he will stop stayin in touch with you.. if nothing works out.. you are always there.. thats what he thinks.. trust me, I ve known guys who do this.. so, jus make him clear that its on or off... thats it.. don let him fool around you...
946780
I'm in a similar situation...the way my ex tells me that he misses me is by saying he thinks about me alot, and mentions specific things he remembers or wants to do next time we have a chance. I think guys in general might have a hard time coming out and saying it, especially if he does think you are over him. I think you'd be able to tell if he didn't though...like if he started ignoring you, not returning your calls, etc. \nSome hints that he misses you would be the phone calls, calling you or returning your calls, texting you frequently, talking about things pertaining to your relationship, making plans to hang out, things like that.\n\nHope things turn out alright!
139633
You say you have been dating . But have you made a commitment to each other? If not just consider it for what it is. He found you to be a friend and some one he likes to be around but,  he is still looking for his one and only.
279570
he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
1121462
no  way.  no one else wants him either that is his problem.  He is coming back just for that reason.  He doesn't want to be alone.  Should have thought about that before he left you.  Don't do it. He can and will do it again when he thinks things are greener on the other side.  And want to comeback.
962251
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
934429
Don't ask him b/c then he's going to take it as if you have been waiting around for him to come back to you.  Talk to him, try to act as non chalant as possible, and see what kind of vibe you get from the context of the conversation.  You dated him so you know what he's about and will be able to decipher better than anybody what's he's getting at.
380373
if he's still single yes. coz there might be a chance that u and him get back together...coz thats what i still feel about my ex. but hey! if he's not. then i think it would be better for u to move on.. unless ur ex feels the same with u..then wait for him patiently until the time he made up his mind and wants u back.