why is it that in todays society men and women have no morales when it comes to dating married people?
464035
it is because if you are taken then they don't have to make a commitment. some will also tell you the things they feel you want to hear to see if you will leave your fiance or husband. if you are engaged or married then you shouldn't be talking to other guys in any way that they should think of anything as a challenge. i am married to a very loving man that will do anything in his power for me. he has been there for me at times when my own family wasn't, but i started talking to a guy just as friends and was really comfortable around him. then he started telling me all the things i wanted to hear, and next thing i knew he was telling me he loved me. i ended up leaving my husband and my home to be with this guy. then i realized i made a huge mistake. i am very Lucky to have a husband that forgave me and took me back. be careful out there because men are dogs. most of them are only after one thing anyway.
868006
so true, I agree with that and have found myself in that position but becuase my parents braught me up right I know not to go after a married man, or even in a relationship, there are plenty men out there that are just as good as the married ones or taken ones, leave the ones that are married alone and if they have difficult times in there marriage they should be telling there wifes before looking at another women, so to the females and males when you know someone is with someone else just be a friend not a sex friend and find someone else that may simulate that one you want, and thanks for making this one so much better then the rest of the questions on here and you know something else we were all born with a brain and taught how to use it wisely, we know right from wrong so come on, were not stupid people in this world, just remember to use what was given to you from the time you were born!
590416
Probably true, because people don't take the time to get to know each other before either getting married or hopping into the sack.  Most importantly however, is that they are not committed to each other and to the marriage.  A little bit of trouble comes & they say, "hey, it's not worth it, I'm moving on" instead of working out the problems.
230497
in todays world, people are expected to live a certain life. and that certain life has so many aspects that it becomes hecktic, leaving people to not have time for real relationships most of the time. people need to slow down
443642
some of them do think like that...i guess married men got more experience on how to handle women emotion.they are more caring too...
502547
That is so because man is by nature not satisfied. Whether with money, material things, honor, prestige, and women. Money and women are the general weakness of many because they are the most tangible objects that have become status symbols. You cannot carry a badge or trophy or certificate telling the world that you are this and that. But with a woman, it not only proves the man's virility or machoism, it also means he is above other men in that he is attractive and capable of having more inspite of his having a wife already.
851401
cause people are into the easy way out, quick fixes ect ect most people these days dont take being married seriously enough so they end up calling it quits after only a few years.  its not about them being young, its about how mature they are as a couple and how much they love eachother. also its really hard just starting out money is usually tight so its easy to fight.
550198
are you talking about marriage? because people go through lots of relationships that come to an end for one reason or another. My theory on marriage though is this. We live in a very different world then past generations much faster and mobile. My grandparents barely imagined leaving their immediate area much less being able to jump on a plane and be in Europe by the end of the day or talking to someone in Asia from their bedroom computer. My point is this people have far more options today than ever before. A census is taken in the United States every ten years. They ask about jobs and homes and cars. In ten years probably a very large percentage of people drive a different car and probably a large percentage of people have a different job and live in a different home. Are we so suprised then that they live their with someone else. Our whole lives are constantly changing and we are constantly switching to adapt. If we do that with all the material things why do people feel that our relationships would be immune to this?
852956
Well, being a young woman waiting on the husband that God has for me, I can see precisely what you are saying. I am a confident young lady and yes I have had the upper hand with most of the men that I have dated. But I do not believe that it is because I am pushy. I believe that men have lost their rightful place in the household, men need to grow some backbone and stop letting women run all over them. I am not saying that a man should be violent to hold his place. He shold be firm yet gentle. Women also need to stop jumping into marriages that God didn't have favor over so then they would not have to show thier witts so much because the man that God has for them will respect them for what God has made them to be (by then, they woman will have already found herself). I am tired of my female friends who always have the same man problem when they need to find God and find who he made them to be. No man wants an annoying woman andthat is stated in the Bible because Solomen said it is is better to live on the corner of a rooftop than in a house with a quarrelsome wife.
682678
no marriage is not for everyone. even being single can hbe a wonderful, fulfilling life. you have friends and family. you have your church family and  your sports. dating is still in your life. you have everything a married couple has. only your date can go home. you have your pet or pets\nand you have only you to argue with your self. how great it that.
234877
people cheat and get divorce because most of them think marriage (relationship) is and always will be a fairly tale... and its not... its a lot of hard work and effort... problems will always be there and instead of just quitting everything try to work them out... the other thing is that in today's world the morality is very low... marriage or a serious relationship is a commitment, a big commitment... you dont just back out on something or someone because you thought it would be different or easier... we need morality people and to set out principles straight... just my point of view... :)...
786970
I'm married and I don't envy single people. I don't pity them either, but my relationship is right for me. The people that envy others either do not appreciate what they have or cannot confront their own happiness to make a change.
490975
Yes, marriage is just a bit of paper.  And it costs alot of money to get married these days - some couples simply cant afford it but that doesnt mean they love each other any less than a married couple.\n\nYou can do all the same things as married people, just without paying a fortune to be a Mrs rather than a Miss
278013
no one is ready for marriage,It take a lot of change on both part to make it work,only you can say if you are ready to try to change and work harder then you have every work on anything to make it work
849065
I believe men can't be friends with women.  Most situations, men just want more.  Women are the ones that stop or allow it.  It's just better that married men stay with their wives and ignore the single person.
1076733
Commitment.  Some women are afraid of it.  A married man very seldom divorces his wife for another, so it is a SAFE relationship for the women who wants no strings.  Just like women who marry men in prison for life and on death row.
165752
Some people just aren't emotionally ready to be in a relationship.  They have yet to figure out who they are and it would be irrisponsable of them to get into a relationship while still deciding on those fundemental issues.