My best friend just asked me out and I really like him a lot but I feel very awkward around him. Is this okay?
458499
yes it is i think it is funny but yes u know him alot obiously b/c yall have been friends 4 a long time right so u have all u need 2 know about him and yall get along great i bet so i would say yes date him they awkwardness will go away?? ~*Good Luck*~ <3 Hoopz
964117
It's not wrong, if you like a guy, then go for it. I don't know what this guy's problem is, but just forget about him. You didn't scare him away by asking him out. I would never have the courage to ask a guy out. IF he was weirded out, then he's not good enough for you. If probably just wasn't interested, you can still keep an eye out for him, but don't get your hopes up. I would keep my eye out for someone else to ask out too (if I had the courage). I think it's good that you're not waiting for someone else to start your life. Go for it!
407018
If you two are already somewhat friends then you should just ask him to go out to eat or maybe for a walk nothing serious at first. Once you take the first step you will feel more comfortable around each other and then you can see where the relationship lies. Good Luck!
80466
I have the same problem with my new guy. . . i think its the anxiousness of weathere or not hes thinking about u, wondering waht hes doing, wondering if youll ever be an item, wondering SO MANY THINGS about him, spend time with him and try to get to know him better then u no for sure about everything he does u WONT HAVE TO WORRY OR FEEL TOTALLY WEIRD
562790
chill out- wait for them to come to you.. jumping into relationships is a bad idea.. they will never turn out the way you want them to.. find the guy that makes you feel right, the one your comfortable around and the one u can talk to about anything.. and if thats your best friend.. talk to him and let him know what ur feeling.. and maybe see if he wants to give it a shot to.. if its not ur best friend then wait.. it will come eventually!
1113680
Well ask yourself why you feel weird around him. When and if you figure it out, acutally sit down and tell him how you feel. It may just be a simple misunderstanding and things can be normal again.
274467
if he's your friend then you should be able to talk to him\nask him whats wrong with him let him know how you feel and tell him you dont like the way he's been treating you  lately be honest with him, if he ask you if you like him let him know, and if he feels unconfortable about you guys dating then you should let it go it doesnt have to happen you could still  be friends. as for your friend you should stay away from her she is causing problem and you dont need a friend like that.
268397
Usually when you get together with your best friend, things seem pretty great. However, on most TV shows, it ends up screwing up in the end and you end up losing an awesome friend. It really depends on how you want the relationship to work- if you want it to be extremely intimate, you'll need to take things slow, but if you want it to be casual, go for it. Just be careful. Don't take things too fast, and just bring it up in normal conversation. Don't be too forward. That'll scare him away. :)
86487
My best friend Ryan was rilly shy to ask out his now g/f Taylor. He basically talked to me about it and we practiced what he was going to say to her and i was there for support. There rilly is nuthin' to worry about. What am i talkin' about i am the girl!! ne ways, we get tired of waiting to be asked out so make ur move! GOOD LUCK!!\n                  ~O! Also kinda make sure u 2 have a connection kinda.(It helps!)
960721
You are not the shyest person, cause everybody think so when it comes to making the first attempt. I think it was a mistake for your friend to go to him instead of you. You should have went up to him. It shows that you are weak and cannot approach him. But don't worry you are probably a teenager, and we all felt the same your age. Make sure YOU go to him next time. Don't tell him you love him up front, but instead ask him out. If he says no, don't be too pushy and look for other fishes.
1166648
That's a hard situation cuz if you ask him out and he says no it'll be different. Have a friend ask him what it would be like if you guys were going out. He probably has already heard something like that just cuz. If he says it'll be great or something like that, go ahead and ask him. If he says "It wouldn't" like a man-biatch don't so you can keep ur friendship.  Good luck. :)
1078887
Let him know how you feel.... He may not realize you have those kind of feelings for him.  But you need to realize that if you start to actually date him, you may lose him as your best friend if you break up.  Will that be worth it?
819239
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
219109
Of course you aren't bad. If he is a friend, then you obviously have things in common to start with. Sometimes the relationship grows from there to a romantic one. It is tough though when the guy doesn't feel the same way. It can ruin the friendship.
815319
No your not being stupid at all. That is so common. If, you feel you two are good friends, just try (it will be hard) to talk to him about how you feel, and too see how his feelings are towards the situation. Tell him, how you feel and just say if you don't feel the same way that is fine I don't want to ruin are friendship. The worse thing that could happen is that he doesn't have feelings for you that way and he just loves being friends with you and hugging you and making you laugh. That is still a great relationship to have. \nBest of luck to you!!!
1035854
wall u need to tell hem that Ur friendship means a lot to u. And u don't wont to Mass that up with mixed feelings of going out. And if he cant accept that than i should just walk a way.
592460
i know exactly how you feel... well, at least i think i do.. i am in love with my best guy friend whom i have known for almost 11 years... we are reallyc lose and a week ago, he confessed that he believed that we were meant to be.. blahblah.. and then we kissed.. and it's been a week and i have a feeling that he's avoiding me.. he's always busy and within the last week, he called me ONCE... that's it. and it was for a brief conversatio. i don't know what is going on... its really hard to do anything.. because i know that we were friends first.. and i dont want to risk it..\n\nmy advice to you... confront him before you assume anything and talk with him... talk it through... conversation is the best option you have... dont do like what i did and talk it out. it will save YOUR HEART from a lot of pain....