is me and Arther going to get back together?
458008
Nope, Arther is at my house loving me.
1035488
They split and got back together but...now they are split up again.
627799
Why do you miss him if he did you wrong?  Do you like to be mistreated?\n\nFind someone else who plays right, trust me, it feels better.\n\nIf you do start talking to him again, then you asked for it and shouldn't be crying when he f*cks up again.
700464
I was in a similar boat and went back. \nHowever, before we got back together I grew and changed.\nI'm more independent and overall a stronger person.\nIf you can get back together and be equals that's fine, but the catch is that being equals also means that she has to make up for what she did.  I would ask her directly, "You hurt our relationship, so what are you going to do to fix it?"\n\nIf she talks, but doesn't answer the question then don't go back.  If she actually list out what she is willing to do and she starts doing it then I'd give it a try.
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
776856
think about the reasons you spilt up.   if you got back together it could all repeat it self  i would stick with the new girlfriend never go backwards move forward   good luck
585701
Dear Friend,\n\nYes.  Nothing will bring them back together more quickly than other people sticking their bigs nose in.\n\nYour Friend,\nFrancesois
998951
no..but judging from what i've heard personally about your relationship...you deserve a lot better, ben. *hug* a LOT better. besides look at ya...heck, darn, man...get out there! but wait for the right one to get serious with.
951406
You 2 broke up for a reason if u get back together do u really think it will work if so go for it if not then dont try anything on him.
676679
Unfortunately not. I reckon in about 10 years time, when they're all broke, they'll do a reunion but don't know if it happen any time soon. I really miss them all!
476035
honey you have to understand u LEFT...what do you want him to do while you were out of the picture.. not knowing if you'll be back??? stay lifeless?????\n\nsometimes we act on certain needs..she(his co-worker) was there and willing ..so y not take whats in front of you???? its was just an act of being HUMAN with NEEDS!!!!\n\ni suggest you give him another chance like how GOD gave you another chance with LIFE!!!!!
62142
It can be a good idea if you have identified what caused the breakup in the first place and if you are BOTH willing to work on it. If you can be honest about what happened and make a real effort to resolve it, your second try might be successful. But if you just get back together again without addressing the underlying issues, it's probably doomed to a second failure.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
132626
No actually they are not together any more they have been not together for a while now. I think it was last year when they broke up, not really for sure on the date but they are broken up.
697145
Both of you sound somewhat immature - why not suggest not getting back together for a while and seeing how you both feel six months or a year down the line.
975665
Dont be angry!!!\n\nGet even its your turn to rack your brains to get him back then you'll be equal!!!\n\nHe probably didnt think you would not find it as funny as he was...\n\nGet in touch with Scott Mills on radio 1 he is great at getting people back
459057
unfortunately no... but im working on myself :]
413799
I really believe that you need to court each other again. I know it sounds silly but we're talking about the rest of your life here. In life sometimes we loose sight of how we got there. good luck!