Should my male fiancee take my name?
466443
I asked my husband if he wanted to take my last name when we married. (I knew I wasn't going to change my name.) He said he'd had his name a long time, and he was kind of attached to it. So he kept his and I kept mine.\n\nI'm very close to my family, though, and he's not at all close to his. So when our children were born, we gave them my last name.\n\nSo you don't have to be "the last of your line" whether he takes your name or not!
1119036
ur a sweet husband.. just dont overdo it with the name thing...by the way...i think its sweet for u to do that.
416494
It will probably make things easier for you and your son. I've found, especially if your son is school aged, that most people will assume that your last name is the same as his. Having it hyphenated will alert them, yet allow you have your husband's name, too.
93346
i guess you may have to file an affidevit . and advertise in some news paper. so that you can officially chang ur name.
1111445
only the foolish guys do this = ) i have multiple tattoos as does my boyfriend...neither of us would ever consder getting a partners name on them. the only time when i feel that its acceptable for a name tat is when its a deceased family member or a child's name.boyfriends come and go but your kids and family are permenant
1162966
Be original!  Find a name that has nothing to do with either family so there are no hurt feelings.  Good Luck
304884
Handsome, dude, sweet lips, bad boy, cowboy, rocket man, love dog, pleaser teaser, back door babe, hot pants, tool man, honey, my love, lover, fullfiller, satisfier, my man, my one, sugar daddy, or just let your fun creative puppy love side play with his mind.  To make up names usually may tend to come from the way you act in public or around each other.  Don't swet the little things.  You are getting married, that is awesome.  You should be thinking about how you two are going to live and survive.  Best of luck and congratulations to the both of you.  May God watch over the both of you.  Pray for the answer and you may be surprised./
389956
You'll need a fiancee
661235
Hmmmmmm...Damian, that name sounds "special."  Maybe he's going to be your future husband?  Look out for a guy named Damian from now on.  Don't worry, Damian sounds erotic to me.  Hmmmmmmm...
955121
all of a sudden he's become your pet? And I suppose you parade him in front of all your friends. Give it a break and just accept his name as is...\ntypical of a female always trying to change a man
510100
Yes, you are not required to take your husband's last name.  You can take your husbands last name, but you don't have to.
239642
No, he's not telling the truth. Even if he had to change your name to something higher up alphabetically, he would at least choose a girl's name.\n\nI can't imagine changing my girlfriend's name to a guy's name... just thinking about it feels weird... "Oh Andrew..." Disgusting!\n\nMost likely he's hiding your existence from another girl.
384825
I think they're just being polite and want to know what your name is. I've got a naughty name, my family use my first middle and last names altogether if they think I'm being naughty! I would have thought they'd have stopped doing it now though, I'm 31 for goodness sake!!!
231602
nope. it is perfectly OK to keep your maiden name if you wish. you can also hyphenate if you like. keeping your maiden name just means that you don't have to change all of your legal stuff(license, credit cards etc...) to your married name
921895
People change their names all the time - it is not at all unusual.\n\nYou may not do so in order to commit fraud or to evade an obligation - otherwise, the only restraints are the judge's willingness to grant your request.\n\nYou are probably best off with a lawyer who handles "family law." You can find one online by visiting the free lawyer-locater at   martindale.com, click on your city, click on "family law", and start calling lawyers. It is perfectly okay to ask the lawyer up front what her charge is and what the court fees would be.\n\nGood luck
527629
It depends on whether he is married or not.  If I understand the language correctly (and I'm not promising that I do), the unmarried version would be the name followed by Kan.  In the married it is the name followed by San (Yukikan or Yukisan).
1129956
He is also a fiancee.