Would you get upset if your man flirted with other women in front of you ?
457790
Uh-yes! It is acceptable to gently flirt with others even in a relationship with your partner. However when it comes to kissing, holding hands or really suggestive flirting, I must draw a line. On the same side, it is better not to flirt at all so that no risk comes to the relationship.
71360
As a guy, I can tell you without hesitation that some women have a way of turning something back on you.  If you tell her you're mad about something she has done, hasn't done, etc., you get a load of crap designed to turn it back on you.  Including trying to make you feel guilty for even bringing it up.  Some even try to clear the anger by attempting to inspire sympathy.\n\nThat's just speaking from personal experience.  It's very hard to bring up sensitive issues with some women because it's impossible to carry on a serious, purposeful discussion of the problem without being emotionally manipulated.\n\nJust my opinion.  And please don't think I'm issuing a blanket statement to cover all wome.  That's why I said "some women".
430146
If you're in a trusting relationship, it all depends on expectations.  Obviously, he should respect you enough not to cheat, but if you let him know that you are uncomfortable with his actions, he should care enough about you to at least tone it down.  It's natural to admire people of the opposite (or same, if you swing that way) gender, but it's not okay to be overly gawking if you are in a commited relationship.  I always try to join in on the action by agreeing with him.  Is it enough to know at the end of the day that he's going home with you?
44559
They simply say this statement because they want to keep you holding on to their balls but really they are afraid of commitment and don't want to let you know because they know they will lose you. I think if they flirt and talk to other women though, you should not distrust them. I think flirting is nature and I don't care what anyone says, everyone does it from time to time. So go out there and do it in front of him and see what he has to say about it.
267439
Hello, \nWell it seems to me that this person is making a pass at her. He is doing it and with hope that he score with her and maybe she will give up either the 7 digits or something even more. If you read into it and pay attention to it he is using this as a way to charm her. Most of us women like that kind of stuff and the attention as well so I think that is what it is he is flirting!
1157992
First of all your not the scum he is. If he is cheating on her with you then he will cheat on you with someone else. Since your relationship with him has been sexual I would tell the girlfriend. She has a right to know what she has been exposed to. I am not saying that you have anything but the guy may be seeing several other women and not just you. It is also very common to be angry at the other woman and not yourself or the guy. If you look at this logically then you would see who you should be angry at. For the last two years this guy has been leading you and his girlfriend and God knows who else on. When you found out about the girlfriend you probably thought that he would dump her and stay with you. It doesn't always work that way. If you dont tell her and leave the guy you are always going to be second guessing what he is up to. You are always going to be comparing yourself to his girlfriend and you will never be happy. Telling his girlfriend would only be fair to her. You have known about her and have seen what this guy is like. Maybe his girlfriend needs an eye opener. And the guy deserves to be alone.
358081
i apologize for those girls who do this - because i've done this at least one time in my life.\n\ni can't speak for everyone but when i did it, it's usually just to make my boyfriend a) jealous, b) sit up and take notice that i know that he's not the only catch in town, or c) get THEM back for flirting with other girls, too.\n\ni suppose i never thought about how the guys i flirted with would feel...sorry...
722567
I think it must be done with CAUTION. If either party is in a relationship, NEITHER should be in a flirtatious situation.  It should be ok if both are single AND they are not some kind of mental case or stalker. You gotta be careful!!  I've seen women get stalked (even on the road!!) because she flirted with a guy she met somewhere. NOT EVERYONE CAN HANDLE the game, so why play it?
1052726
This is just something we do. It is the excitement we get trying to flirt with someone we know we can't have.  It is the adrliane rush we get.  Because maybe your wife will give a reaction.  Some women geed of of negative reactions in public.  Don't feel bad if you catch the bad end of it because it is easier to take her frustration out on you because the attention is at you.
228976
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
862727
Weeell, i've been there before. it upset me a lot because he didn't just "look", he gave "several glances" to "several girls" "several times" whenever we were out.no matter what anyone says, its awful.its also absolutely rude to you.i'll guess, not only were you jealous, you felt insulted.the thing i worried most about was, if the girl and other people noticed what he was doing,they'd ask themselves why and check me out, too.maybe even feel sorry for me.i didn't like that thought one bit.i'll tell you what, there are men who are real gentlemen who wouldn't do that.if you're he's girl, he should give you undivided attention, have eyes only for you when you're together.that's what he'd also want from you.no, its absolutely normal that you're upset.i think its just really rude what he's doing.you wouldn't want to be rude enought to check other guys out infront of him, would you?although he does deserve an equal dose of his own medicine.honey, if you're beginning to feel insecure all the time, its not always because there's something wrong with you, although you can help yourself and do something about it.but most likely there is something he's doing to cause it
47888
Yes.  As a man when I look at another women I'm checking her up and down and if I see she is looking I quickly look away.  If the woman saw that and came up to me and started talking I'd lay on the moves and try and get her somewhere private.\nAll men with exceptions of course will try and think and do the same.
642574
I have to defend the men on this one even though I am a women.  Men look at other woman.   We will never change that.  Why should we even bother trying or waste our energy ranting about it.  \n\nGuys have to put up with our constant "does my bum look big", "Do you love me really".  Changing their hair, their looks, making them girlie, rearranging their flat/house. Moaning at forgotten, 2 1/2 month anniversaries etc.  Crying to win arguments etc etc.  I could go on.   \n\nYes it is annoying that men look at other women.  At the end of the day the guy has chosen you. You are the best of the bunch according to this guy so although he may look and fantasise about other women, you are the one he has chosen to spend his hard earned money on!
1060702
yeah like he said you should ask him first before making assumptions ....you need to apologize and hope next time keep your jealousy under control...otherwise you will drive him away wihtout the help of other women!!
441778
yes youre exactly right. sometimes we as men (yes i am a man) get caught up wit our selves. he prolly was lovin the fact that she was flirtin wit him and when you told them off he felt like he had been embarrassed and felt that when she cursed u back out that she was sayin all the things he wanted to say and couldnt get away wit.
283876
For some reason I feel like I'm doing something wrong, when I'm really not. It's their fault, not mine, especially if I tell them that I'm taken and they keep flirting. Then I feel like I should tell my guy, but I'd rather not start a fight, so now I feel like I'm hiding something. And that's not a good feeling. So usually I end up telling him. It makes ME look bad when someone flirts with me and I'm already taken.
738712
I would feel flattered but not necessarily comfortable about it.  If you want to be flirty about it tell him he can try it and see how far he gets, although if he is the wrong kind of guy it could be trouble.  I guess you should let him know you are open to it but are a little uncomfortable about it.