Can my sister's friend get out of her house?
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Have her talk to someone at her school (teacher, counselor, etc.) -- they have to take action if she reports abuse. Separately, she can call child protective services or, for an emergency situation, the police.
1081515
You need to get right to the heart of the matter and politely and sincerely ask your sister why she feels unable to respect your privacy. If there is a trust issue, it needs to come out into the light.
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it's her choice if she is uncomfortable with strangers in the house, I don't blame her. If they help while you are there with them then yeah it's fine but she shouldn't have to be there with strangers when you're not there. You may think you know these people but they may be thieves or rapist you can never be 100% sure, especially if they are desperate enough for money that they will do chores for you.
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Man, I know what you mean. Sometimes family can be so annoying cauz you didn't pick them :(\nI think you should try to move out as soon as possible if you're unhappy. And I don't believe it's fair for her to not allow your friend to come over. I mean yeah, it's her house, but she could be much nicer about it. Just because it's her house I don't think that gives her the right to control who your friends are.
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BEFORE YOU READ THIS,  You accept that I am just giving my opinion, and NOT giving legal advice, else you should NOT read further.  You agree not to act on my opinions stated herein, and seek the council of a legal professional when ultimately making a decision to act.\n\nREVISED.  He has children with your sister?  She is an idiot for allowing him to be a deadbeat.  And he is a lowlife, but not the only lowlife in the world.  They are all over the place.  So...What are you going to do? I feel for you and your situation. I understand how difficult it might be to move, but what choice do you have?  You have to consider your own well being.  If the house belongs to your family, and you sister seems to be in control of the house.  AND chooses to allow him to stay, then what OTHER options are there?  Your sister has to do the kicking out.  You can do it, but it seems you are not in a position to defend yourself.  You need to bring in someone who can help, either law enforcement, or otherwise.  A rich friend or Strong Friend to Kick his A%% out of there.\nThat said...\n\nYOu didn't say who he threatened.  You?  If so, you really need to get out of there, even if you are not convinced he would cause you harm.  If someone says it, they are capable of acting on it.  You don't need to stay there, and yes if he said he would cause you bodily harm, you can call the authorities and have him charged for assault.  Sadly, the police don't and won't do much for you on this. The laws are set up to protect the guilty.  Without witness it is him agains you.  Remember that.  You are in a no win situation really.\n\nYour sister has made a choice to be with this person.\nYOU NEED TO MOVE OUT...\nWhat you do after that is up to you.(pressing charges for instance)\n\nIf you feel she is in danger , call the police.\nIf you feel her kids are in danger call Child Protective Services. (remember they can make someone's life miserable), so don't do that unless you truly feel the kids are in danger.\n\nIMPORTANTLY this is my opinion, and any ideas given here must be taken as such.  If you want real legal advise, you should consult with an attorney in your area of jusisdiction.\n\nYou don't like this guy, and it sounds like you have a good reason, but you NEED to remember, your sister has made the choice to have him there.  YOU can leave. You don't have to stay there, and even if it is an inconvenience, you move and find a more peaceful place to live.  Better for you in the end anyways.\n\nSOrry for you, but you chose to (OR NOT TO) live there.  Your sister is a big girl, let her make her own decisions.\nYou never stated her feelings about this.  Is she scared to kick him out?  Again, if so, she needs to get law enforcement involved.  Restraining orders are a start.  At least then if he shows up, he can be arrested.  This is not an easy situation.  You should try to find as much support as you can BEFORE making moves.\n\nI know this is to the point and a bit sharp, but those are the  real life choices you have to make.  Good luck and best wishes to you!\n\nMove out.
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stay out of the house
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You sister will only leave when she is ready. When she is she is going to need her family and a support system. I wouldn't try to push you sister into leaving but make sure you are always there when she needs to talk. If she knows she has a support system the easier it would be for her to leave.
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As long as she (the daughter) doesn't have residency established at that house then she has no right to be there. If the mother did tell the police that she was not allowed there then she needs to call them and let them know that she threatened to come over. She would then be considered trespassing. If she takes anything from the house it would be burglary. Even if the items belong to the daughter the mother doesn't have to give the items to her. There are so many things the daughter can get in trouble for legally if she steps even one foot on that property. The best thing to do would have the mother talk with the police again and explain that the situation is getting worse. There are always options and the local police can explain in better detail.
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Your aunt needs to be strong if she wants this guy out of her life.  Based on what you've said, the guy cares nothing for her and is using her for his own benefit.  If he keeps coming back, she needs to kick him out and then get a restraining order from the court to stop him coming back.  If he keeps hassling your aunt, he will face criminal charges.  Strength and resolve is the most important thing for your aunt, otherwise, however she suffers is her own doing.
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Being sentenced to the home. Similar to house arrest. You can't leave the house, except maybe for work and/or appointments.
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They couldn't possibly be just trying to prove a point, could they?  His parents are the ones responsible for bringing him into the world, so how can they justify making him responsible for preparing him to be self-sufficient?  There is no way they can collect on that bill; parents are legally responsible for their children's welfare until the age of 18.  They can legally kick him out of their house now that he's 18.  If I was your friend, I would move out as soon as possible, and try to make his parents understand their responsibilities.
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This is a tough situation and there is no really good solution.\n\nRemember that what someone can "legally" do is not really a practical limit on what they may actually do. Worse still, you can have all sorts of legal rights but if the only way to exercise them is to go to court then the solution may be worse than the problem.\n\nThe only thing is really to get the stuff out right now. If the apartment is in the other person's name then she's not going to get any immediate help from the legal system.\n\nEDIT: From another question that you posted I'm now unsure if this is a room mate situation or a landlord-tenant case. Please clarify. It affects the answer.
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First of all, if your house and family are that bad, then she shouldn't come over any more.  Seems like to me she's being a BRAT, and using you and your family.  You should stop hanging with her and enjoy your family.  They can't be replaced, you can get a new friend.
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Talk to the embassy of your country. Sometimes they can help with something as serious as this as an emergency since her life could be in danger. I will pray for you and your sister.
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It is called co-dependency.  They have to break the cycle.  In order for this to happen, they sometimes need professional help.  \n\nYou might have to get "tough" with your friend.  I know someone that had a much younger sister.  The older daughter lived on her own.  The Mom of the girls had an abusive boyfriend.  The older daughter helped the mother get away from the boyfriend.  The Mom called the boyfriend and had him pick her up.  As a result, the older daughter went and filed for custody of her sister.  The boyfriend ended up killing the mother.  \n\nI hope this doesn't happen to your friend.  She has to want to leave him and move on.  See if you can get her into counseling.  You might contact your local Women's shelter and explain what is going on with your friend.  They should be able to give you some resources.  Good luck!
186488
Control yourself and discipline your sister. If your sister insist having ___ with you, consult her to a psychiatrist or tell your parents.
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Even if she is the property owner, she can not drop in unexpectedly. If she does, you have every right to call the police. They will arrest her.\n\nshe does have the legal right to inspect the home, but at an agreed upon time. She is also not permitted by law to enter the premises without your knowledge. Again, if that occurs, call the police.