What if you and a friend had sex with a girl at the same time? How do you handle the repercussions?
473466
Although this is a controversial question, I'm going to answer it.  Ideally, you should talk about the repercussions before your ménage a trios even if it's as simple as "Are you cool with this?"  Since you can't turn back time, do this:\n\nAre either of the other people acting strangely?  If not, then don't address the issue.  If so, then bring it up casually.  You need not promise your undying love, but you can tell him/her it was a great experience and things are still the same.  \n\nIf it's you that needs the reassurance, then bring up the subject... once again you can say "Are you cool with everything that happened?"  I wouldn't worry too much about it-  you were curious and you experimented.
55250
good boy - you did the right thing. Find an available girl and your conscience will thank you for it. If your friend is a true one, she will stop avoiding you once she gets over her embarassment.
650525
first u talk about matter of sex as joking talk, observe here answer if u feel she is easy with it u can tell here 2 4give u & open the matter to her what had happen .ok then do not continue thsi matter again ok my friend im arun if u like my ans it will b a great sucess 2 me ok all the best.!
396245
Wow! Myself, I don't know how should I react with that situation, but surelly what should I DO. But anyway, let me tell you what my SISTER DID.\n\nBut first, I think that when you have sex with someone, you must be ready for its consequences. If you are not ready for receiving and dealing with whatever news come after the sex act about a disease, and a non planned child, DON'T HAVE SEX, PERIOD!\n\nMy sister got pregnant, she planned this child with her husband. Well, at her 5th or 6th month of pregnancy, doctors discovered that my nephew had SEVERAL strange/big problems, which between them was deformation, problems in his vital organs (stomach, liver, lungs, pancreas), and other brain/mental syndromes. Two doctors told my sister to ABORT, they offered her to make it for free also. But she doesn't agreed.\n\nWell, we believe in God and we placed all in His hands. People around the world also helped us to pray, and today, my nephew is 4 years old, he is AWESOMELY SMART, and he has no problem at all. But yes, God let on His body a mark of was He did with him, and is that all his internal organs are twisted horizontally (all what should be in the right side are in the left, and vice verse).\n\nSo, a person that decides to abort or not to take care about his child, doesn't deserve to even have a chance to live (THE SAME DECISION THAT HE/SHE WANTS TO TAKE: KILL [ABORT]). It is not easy, but if you get focused, and commit in love, your life will be great and honorable!
1108570
Ignore the part that she's having sex with someone else. Keep having sex with her if you like it. \nshe has feelings too to have sex with someone else. \nUs guys always have sex with many girls as we want and whenever we can.  Why should it be any different for a girl. \nwhen a girl does the samething shez a hoe and if a guy does it hez a pimp and its a proud thing for a guy. Us guys need to stop being hipo. and let girls have fun too......
435488
umm,Yeah u should do it!  lol\nthat's secretly every- ok well maybe not every, but a Lot of girls' fantasies.  \n but umm, make sure u establish boundaries and guidelines first. ask her wat she doesnt want u to do.   maybe she doesnt want u to actually have sex with her, just some other things.  she may not want u to kiss her friend- some ppl feel that's too intimate.   ask her in private, then make sur to discuss it btw the 3 of u together.\n have fun!!\nlet us know how it went
772859
Your friend needs to LEAVE!  There is no good reason to openly hit a girl.  No matter how abusive another girl is to me, the worst that I'll do is grab her hard to restrain her.
31543
If this is a moral question, leave it to your friend to figure out.\n\nIf it's just a concern about health then the more important issue is if your friend is using protection and not how many partners he/she has.
555630
It's okay, as long as it's okay for your girl friend is out scoring with an old friend at the same time you are banging\nyour neighbor.  You'll never know about it, so what will it hurt?
845270
Hey, I'm sorry about this incident, but everything happens for a reason, and maybe this is it: reappreciating everything that you are and all that you have, giving you a different perspective of life.  I don't think its too much of you to ask your friend to be with you. But all that depends on what level and to what extent. For example she may not be comfortable with intimacy, since you are supposed to be 'friends' for now, cause I think she may think that you'd be using the accident as an excuse to have your way or gain sympathy and all that. You need to state clearly your terms for needing her, and let her know what you need her for. And if you need her for keeps and all that, then maybe you could ask her that too, but not too soon after this accident.  Take your time and see if she'd still keep coming and things may kick off from there. Glad to know you're alive and well... dudes in my town haven't been so lucky with accidents this year...
835166
I personally feel like if it happens once shame on them if it happens a second time shame on you for letting it happen. Trust is a hard thing to build once its lost you can take that friend with a grain of salt because even if you do give her a second chance this incident will always be in your mind
53446
Heres what you can do.  Hook her up with one of your guy friends she does not know. Tell your friend to put it in her a** during intercourse. That should keep her away from guys for a while.
1153779
screw the friendship if you can screw the girl
238280
personally being a male my advise is leave it as it is unless she cheated he doesn't need to know unless he asks her if she is personally it shouldn't matter weather she is a virgin or not what should matter is wheather they care about each other because if he cares for her then it shouldn't matter and i would leave it the way is is unless he brings it up then tell him the truth. if you would like to talk alittle more about this here is my e-mail address and good luck with your friend. (GiantReese@yahoo.com)
363244
Its really her business who she had sex with, and you dont care anyway, so dont discuss it with her if she is uncomfortable with it.  Go after both at the same time, and see which one acts better and makes you feel good-dont try to go after one and try to keep the other one on a leash.
626123
You need to dump both of them.  She didn't just "fall" onto his penis - she knew what she was doing and he let her do it.  Both of them are no good and can't be trusted.
185831
Try playing in Candlyland.  The answer is obvious: If you love the girl you get along with, then thats that.  If you want an affair at the cost of ryuining what you have with your girl, then get with her friend.  But trust me when I say if they are best friends they will know about you hooking up with both of them.  Problems can only arise when 2 women get involved.\n\nFollow your heart and ignore the friend.