how do i know if i'm lesbian?
462758
It depends, do the feelings such as the 'knot in your stomach', come from a curiosity to explore the beautiful familiarities of your bodies, or does it seem to stem from an emotional, love, reaction.\nI personally experienced my first same sex encounter when I was 19 years old. I am now 44. I had several since. I do not consider myself bisexual or homosexual. I consider myself straight, because I could not fall 'in love' with another woman. I couldn't see myself 'marrying' another woman either. What I did have were sensual experiences with women friends. Listen to your head, your heart. Are you merely appreciating this girl's beauty, and are fantasizing sharing intimacy or do your feelings run more deep.
230098
Have you ever tried something to find out if you like it or not? Having sex with a man, then having sex with a woman and confirming you are completely lesbian, does not make you any less of a lesbian.
68606
She'll have an Official Lesbian Badge. J/K :P\nThe only way to know is if she tells you herself. Or if you meet her girlfriend-girlfriend.
750546
Just repeat the following over and over: "If I'm not attracted to women, then I'm not a lesbian." Hopefully it'll sink in.
345058
I'm a lesbian, yes, but I don't get your question?
1128327
you could be a lesbian if you want to ''do things'' w/ girls but you're actually normal. guys look at guys and girls look at girls. it's all normal! We all just wonder what it would be like to be him/her. but if you might have unexplainable feelings for girls then you might be a lesbian. but there is nothing wrong w/ that. gays, lesbians, and bisexuals are people too. we should not judge other people who just like the opposite sex or both sexes.
587364
I'M A LESBIAN....GO US......
446549
I think that it's wonderful that you are proud to be a lesbian!\nI am a bisexual woman and I am very proud of who I am.\n\nAnd to the user that stated that being a lesbian is 'sick'=\nGrow the f*ck up and get an open mind.
1148690
I would still deffinately be a woman. That is the biggest misconception about gays and lesbians. That the reason we like the same sex is because we truly want to be the other gender. I had a friend who was a guy who used to always say, "I am a lesbian stuck in a man's body." My first reaction was, doesn't that make you straight? I was wrong. He felt like a girl. He felt he had the wrong body, but he still liked women. It was eye opening for me. But it works the other way too. Just because we like the same sex doesn't mean we want to change to conform to what society want's us to be.\n\nI mean sure women have their "women problems" but hey, at least the whole world doesn't know when we are excited.
767295
You do not, I repeat, you do NOT have to have sexual experiences with each gender to know you are bisexual!  Take it from me, a bisexual virgin.  That would be akin to saying that all virgins have no sexual orientation, because they haven't done anything.  Yet go ahead and try to tell your average virgin that they aren't straight- it's not going to fly.  Similarly, wouldn't that mean that there are no gay people until they've had gay sex?  That's not true- many gay virgins come out.\n\nSexual orientation is about who you are attracted to, sexually.  You may or may not be bisexual (a lot of women find other women attractive but consider themselves straight, so it's up for debate), but you don't have to prove it to anyone by having sexual experience.\n\nHope that helps!
1168271
You are either lesbian ........... meaning you like women only, or bi ......... meaning you like both sexes
427005
Many people find themselves falling off the fence, (as they say... LOL) once they actually get same sex lovers.  In most women's cases, the discovery of lesbian sex makes them realize that men and penises are vastly overrated.  \nDoes that mean you're a lesbian?  Well, lesbianism isn't just about sex, it's also about love.  Many straight women don't really care much for straight sex, but they fall in love with men.  So they're straight.  If you can't see yourself ever loving a man, then yes, you're a lesbian.  But if you're unsure, well, then you're unsure.  And that's fine, there's always time.
583786
theres one good way to know if your bi sexual or just bi courious. You have been with men. If you can look at a woman and just wonder what it would be like to be with her and not act on that thought. Your just courious. If you find a lady and actually try something and enjoy what you have then your bi. You are the only one who really could answer this question. It depends on how you feel in side.
1021754
I think it's to early to tell if your a lesbian or not. But I would encourage you to take time and really try to find yourself before you commit to any relationship. It's only fair to yourself as well as any person getting involved with you. Don't let anybody pressure you into a relationship, that's not healthy and probably won't work out in the long run. Good Luck
438264
if you think about physical contact with the same sex like kissing and your loins start tingling, then you're probably gay. if you get a bit of a gag reflex going, your probably straight!
689502
Look in the dictionary for the word LESBIAN
279452
When you are in a relationship with another woman.  You can't be a lesbian before you make the choice to be with a woman.  If you have not been with a woman, you cannot know, the choice is yours do you want to spend your life in conventional relationships with men or would you rather spend your time with women?