what does a newly married couple do in their first night?
465924
sex, talk, sleep, shower, look at the sites of the location where they are honeymooning, some people work, etc. it just depends on the couple.
1123456
greet your husband at the door after his long day of work.\nslowing undressing the both fo you and kissing your partner while leading your partner to the bathroom\nIn the bathroom you will have lit candles relaxing music warm tub ready for your partner, wash and lightly rub their back.\nwhen your partner is done relaxing in the tub\nlead your partner to the bedroom where you had some lotion or oil warming up\nhave your partner lie on the bed and give your partner a rub down or massage\nmake love\ncuddle \ntalk or not either way will be comforting\ngo to sleep.
799566
when he gets in greet him at the door in sussies! and go on the pretence that your hubby is due home and you really shouldn't, try and do it in every room in the house, when you get to the kitchen get the cream and choc sauce out-maybe strawberries whatever take your/his fancy.\ni have been married 13 years and we play the just met game and it really turns us on keeps our sex life going anyway-doesn't hurt anyone else all good fun\nhave fun ><
866844
nights of drunken intercourse
506623
just think your wife has had sex before she marries you, and then she has sex with you - and she chooses to stay with you.  She is saying that you are the best and that she never wants to be with another man again, she has tried others but you are what she picked - she knows about life and still decided to pick you. \n\nJust think that your wife is a virgin, you take her to bed only after you marry her, you are her first and only SO FAR.\n2,3,5,10 years down the line, she is talking to her female freinds they are all discussing sex, and she wonders if she has missed out because she has only ever been with you, this eats aways at her, she wants to know what it is like with other men, so she tries another man ..........................
1044336
Dude don't wait until your wedding night you might have a heart attack go have sex right now with your future wife that way you'll see if this sex thing means a whole lot to her or not. By the rate you're going you'll be divorce within a week if you can't satisfy your wife.
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I was a virgin when I got married, too. Take your time, don't force her if she's scared, use lubrication if necessary, and be very loving. Many couples don't complete the act on their first night if they're virgins, so let her know she can trust you to go at a pace that's comfortable for her. If you make the situation very loving, it will be much easier for her.
101140
Well, do things like he did,\n\nsometimes it's the little things that keep it fresh \n\ndo things like leave little notes to him leave it in his car,  his pocket, on the mirror \n\nsend him flowers just because, leave messages on his cellphone  voicemail saying u were thinking about him& u love him\n\nwhen u look at him blow a kiss at him wink at him.\n\n have a picnic N the middle of ur livingroom floor, give him a pet name, tell him he so cute even if he just woke up and looking a mess, rub his neck. Come up behind him and hug him.When ur out together act as if ur on a first date( role play)if u role play stay in charater until ur get home\n\nJust anything that will make him & YOU happy to be together and look  4ward to being hubby& wife =-)\n\nGood Luck sweetie\n\nAnd Congaulations =-)
1165984
My fiance' and I are getting married in dec. and we are both still virgins and proud of it. We have saved ourselves until our wedding night. We did this to be honoring of each other and to be honoring of God.
70821
Don't tend to 'til my wedding night! \n\n;)
536780
DO relax and enjoy yourself; unwind from all the excitement and stress of the wedding.\nDON'T put high expectations on yourself & your partner to have wild, passionate sex all the time.  You will have plenty of time for that.
936886
It's normal to be nervous! God knows that I was. But it's not as bad as all my friends tried to make it out to be! The first time he enters, it's going to hurt a little bit, but after a couple of minutes, it's fine... Or it was for me... Just try to relax, have fun, but make sure it's with someone special and not just a one night fling. That will make it much more memorable for you!  So relax, have fun, but also, be safe!! Cheers!!
634023
what do we do at night..?? what can we do at night..??\n\n\n\n\n\nSleeeeeeeeeeep..!
369566
Having sex before marriage!
1084194
Virgins on a wedding night are rare, indeed!  I was one.  Many people had some good advice for you, but there's something I don't agree with.  Just because your fiancé has had sex, doesn't make him an experienced lover.  The bottom line is that he's not yet had sex with YOU...therefore, he is inexperienced.  Every woman is different.  \n\nYour fear is most likely rooted in 1) the unknown...the "big mystery;" and 2) ignorance (I don't mean this in a bad or critical way.  I'll explain what I mean.)\n\nThe "unknown" will remain that way until you've joined with your husband.  But even after that first time, it will *still* be mysterious because you'll both have SO MUCH to learn about each other and about yourselves.  What you like, what you dislike, what really gets you going, what makes you giggle, etc.  Have fun learning all that stuff!  You're in this together.  Communicate with each other.  :)   \n\nIgnorance - Maybe you're scared in part because you have no idea what to expect.  Maybe you don't know your own body yet. This isn't something to be ashamed of; it's just a matter of fact.  The remedy for this is education.  You and your fiance should read about and discuss together what to expect.  How a man's body works, how a woman's body works, etc.  Talk with each other about your fears, expectations, desires.  And honey, do yourself a favor.  Examine your body.  Use a mirror if you have to, but get comfortable with yourself.  The more comfortable you are with yourself, and the more you understand about you and your husband, the more confident you'll be that first time around and the more fun you'll have exploring!  ; )  \n\nNow everybody told me I'd feel pain the first time.  I didn't.  Not a bit.  That was partly because I had umm...can I say this on here?  Well, I had an accident as a child that did away with "the veil that causes pain."  You know what I mean.  But sex can still be painful if you are not properly prepared...i.e. turned on.  This is where reading a book on the subject can help you.  Understanding precisely how your body functions internally and externally goes a long way to dispelling some of the mystery and fear.  And if you're properly "prepared," it's not going to hurt. \n\nSo, read together, talk together, talk to close trusted friends, and then finally relax and give each other the freedom to explore and learn.  Wishing you joy and much love.  : )
1148437
Remember to always keep some spice in the relationship. Don't get comfortable and fall into the routine of marriage. Try new and exciting sexual positions, as well as places. Surprise each other with small forget me nots and gifts. Most importantly, remind each other how lucky you are to have found a love that most people search their whole life for and never find. Congrats!
1054763
Hi Mehul \nWell, it is a good qustion and I hope that it will be enough for you and ur wife. \nIt is important in the first night to make ur wife comfortable and to explain to her that doing sex is a normal thing and all people doing it, and it is not harmful for her by any way and if she doesn't like to do sex at a moment u can delay it to a next time.\nIn addition, any woman likes to see a gentle and nice behavior from her husband. So I advice u to do the following:\n1) Start speaking with sweaty words like (u're so beautiful, u've a moon face etc...).\n2) Continue speaking till she feels well and her shiness dissolves, then touch her hands smoothly, hold it, raise it, then kiss it.\n3) Now take a look at her face and show her a lovely smile. \n4) Then u can hold her hand again and start kissing her from her hand up to her shoulder, end it with a gentle kiss from the back of her neck.\n\nIf u see that this answer is suitable for u, tell me for further completion. \nGood Luck