what is an orgasm i am 13 and one of my friends said she had to pretend like she was having one at a party?
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Jerry Sienfeld describes it like a car accident without the pain.  One minute everything is going fine then suddenlly there is screaming, legs going everywhere, people praying to god and then its all over!
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An orgasm can be two things.  \n   1) for men it is a spasm of the pelvic muscles followed by semenal ejaculation.\n   2) for women it is a uncontrolled spasm of the pelvic muscles.\n   3)  If you had one...you wouldn't ask...you would be smoking a cig right now.
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Well, if you can buy a "bullet" I would recommend it! They are at adult shops. It vibrates at different speeds. Just slightly rub it on your clit and you'll orgasm in a few minutes! An orgasm can be tricky to tell, but usually you start breathing heavy, maybe shake a lil and your body temp. rises a lil. It just feels like an "explosion" Trust me, you'll know it when you have one!
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on a womans point of you  there is no way you would know for sure if were having an orgasm, it's not about screaming or anything like that, you'll never know....unless she's 100% honest with you if thats the case i would question if she's truly a woman see the original birth certificate if you know what i mean
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Orgasm is the peak of sexual excitement...followed by a release of sexual tension and rythhmic contractions of pelvic reproductive organs. in females it consists of contractions of lower 1/3 of vagina, uterus and cervix; increased heart rate, pulse rate and blood pressure accompany it. the duration lasts from 3-15 secs.
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giggling is a girl's hobby u know,, \nahahahahaahaha\n<giggles>\nit's like a beauty secret \n<always giggle>\n=}\npaulkadutCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Masturbation is deliberate self-stimulation that results in self-comfort or sexual arousal. When an adult or older teen masturbates their goal is commonly an orgasm (or more) which is defined as the highest point of sexual excitement, marked by strong feelings of pleasure and marked normally by ejaculation of semen by the male and by vaginal contractions within the female. Also called climax.
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Sounds like its fun for you and her friend but that she is only doing it to please you.\nAsk her if that is the issue because if she is doing it to please you and it goes against her feelings towards herself you are playing a very dangerous game with her.
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Its possible she doesnt even know if shes had one, i dont know her age or experience. Its hard to tell with some people but the muscles of the vagina should clench and let go a few times and she should release some fluid, though it may only be about a quarter of a teaspoon full. So many women never experience an actual orgasm and its largely because its harder for us to do so and no one teaches us, its not like a guy whacking off and getting off every time. so find someone to teach you how to really make a woman climax  then lay one on her that she will never forget.
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having an orgasm before you actually want or come to it.
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There body will contract. Literally contract. Forget about noises - they can be fake. But honestly, when a female orgasms, her entired body will contract.
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I guess just try to not concentrate so much on how good it feels, and concentrate on making your female friend cum as many times as possible before you do.\n\nI can usually cum when I want or hold off as long as I want, but I guess not everyone can do that.
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Eats herself, is she a gymnast?\nShe would have to be extremely flexible to be able to do this, but why would you want to?\nI am sure there are plenty of volunteers of either sex who would be glad to help her to orgasm.
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Give her 20 min. that would be 40 orgasms. Enough right? Then you can get down to your business, and she will be more than happy to do anything for you. After 40 orgasms, I would.
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She could easily be faking it if those contractions are not present. (I'm a woman, but I've never understood the logic in faking it, when that only promotes the very thing that is leaving us unsatisfied.)... Anyway, I'm pressuming your fingers are inside her, and if so, you should be able to feel those contractions.  No matter how strong our inner muscles are, we can't really fake the strenght and frequency of orgasmic spasms.\n\nSome girls find it difficult to reach orgasm.  Often because of hang-ups or sexual prejudices (sadly, we've still haven't quite  overcome the old teachings that sex was something a man enjoyed and a woman endured.).  If she's relunctant to touch herself, she probably doesn't know how to best stimulate herself and cannot show you what works for her.  If she's not getting as wet as she could, your ministrations might very well irritate her and she's faking it so that you'd stop.  Or she might have some psychological block that prevents her from letting go of herself to that extent.  Orgasm is a very vulnerable time and sometimes it's hard to let go if you don't really trust the person  you're sharing it with.\n\nYou can also tell when a woman is having an orgasm by her coloring.  She would blush basically all over.  Her whole body would become warmer and her breathing should become more shallow (another thing you can't really fake. How self involved does a man have to be to be fooled like that?).  In some cases, you can even see her pulse racing.\n\nBy the way, this is a fairly anonimous site, so I wouldn't worry that she might be upset by you posting this question here.  I wouldn't suggest you discussing it with people close to her, though.\n\nAsk her.  Try to get her to open up.  That's really the best way to find out what she's really feeling... Good luck
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A girl isn't born with the ability to do this...she has to practice it. When you feel like you are about to orgasm, you have to clench the muscles as tightly as possible, then release them very quickly. She has to know how to control those muscles and the difference between them and the bladder muscles, otherwise she'll pee and that's gross. The best way is for her to practice it, over and over, until she gets the hang of it. I'm sure you can help her out with this one.
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An Orgasm is a feeling inside you when you reach climax while having sex.