What's the best way to handle this situation?
472699
First off... If you don't know what you did wrong, you didn't do anything wrong. Their problem is simple immaturity, possibly due to their own (unadmitted) crushes on him? \n\nSecondly, there really isn't anything you can do to make them stop talking about you. You can minimize the damage by NOT talking badly about them, in return. If someone mentions to you something they say, just respond with "Yeah. I don't get why they are saying those things, but that is their problem." This keeps you from appearing defensive and/or vindictive.
297879
I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
104658
Tell the truth. You dont want to get caught in the middle of a lie. I know, I was in a situation like yours once and i was caught and lied and got into HUGE trouble. Trust me.
36683
tell them the truth, be out right and forward about it so theres no cunfusion, this sounds pretty serious.
848540
Just tell him how you feel and that he has to deal with it.  Otherwise, if you don't want to rock the boat, then YOU deal with it.  That's really your only choice.
867070
OK unless this is a spouse(if it is...hopefully it won't come down to it but; I would suggest--get a good lawyer)\nSimple..you would like to know best way 2 deal w/ a specific someone that you are totally opposite of; right? Well; my suggestion would be 2 ask that person how they deal w/ you; because apparently they're in the same situation. LOL.  I realize that sounds like a joke; but really it is a thought. First of all; don't stress over something like this; come back down here to the real world with the rest of us....where every1's different and every1 has 2 deal w/ that everyday in 1 way or another. If that's the biggest stress in your life...I'd love 2 borrow your life 4 awhile. LOL...good luck
1138318
Treat her with respect and equality.  Don't ask her to do anything you would not do yourself (except childbirth).  If you are sitting still and she is doing something, get up and help.  When having a dispute, attack the issue not the person.  Communicate your needs, wishes and dreams, and be open and receptive to hers.
976519
just let them two solve their problem than getting between the two of them. you'll be experiencing a lot of trouble if you would do that. maybe you could approach them if you were asked to do so.
535027
Are you sure that this is not her job. My advice is:\n\nRUN FROM HER AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND DON'T TURN BACK.
647804
Tell them to mind their own business. Do what feels best for you. Don't pay attention to what everyone else thinks you should do.
125775
give him or her time. they will get it eventually.  Make it fun whatever you do.
1154566
There is no other way except the direct way. Tell her in no uncertain terms that she should not come over uninvited, nor call you anymore, as this is an invasion of privacy. What I am saying is harsh , but this woman has to be told the truth in words she can understand. It seems like etiquette isn't bgetting you any results in resolving this matter. Good luck.
735926
Drama.  Tell her to back off and go for it or do nothing.  Flip a coin if you need to.
1162364
You leave...and quickly.  Do not hesitate.  Don't feel pressured into giving any explanations or talking to anyone there about your decision...they will only be harrassing you or possibly attempt to cover up for this person they're calling "pastor".  If necessary, seek legal counsel.  Talk to someone outside of the situation so at least someone else is aware of what is going on.
85403
A number of inputs are available to choose from, in fact much has been said so far.\n\nI would like to add that encounters like this entail a very high emotional baggage and usually get twisted in attachments that none of the parties foresee. The point here is whether you or the incumbant will be able to live with the additional baggage or you foresee a possibility of a problem developing. In either cases it will leave an indelible impact on the lives of all involved.\n\nOther than that, what the hell go for it, at least if you do not end up liking the arrangement you could move on and there will be no holds barred for you to commit later.
543405
explain the situation to him, hopefully he'll understand, if that doesn't work, run VERY FAST and hide
687293
Tell another adult that you trust.  Parents and teachers are great listeners.  This is something that you don't want to let happen any more.  Tell someone and if they don't listen tell someone else.