my parents hate him coz he's not well off...we have a 7-month old baby but we're not together...any advice?
472128
I lived this situation for 10 long years!  Sometimes, parents have a valid reason for disliking their daughter's man.  How does he treat you?  Does he take care of his child?  Does he hold a job?  If it's just about social status I would tell your parents that it's your life and your decision and stick to it!  If there are valid reasons for their opinion perhaps you should re-examine your choice.
191027
start involving him more in the family get togethers.  On the other hand, I'm all for the family card and I'd be interested in hearing their side of the story.  Sometimes parents see what we can't because we are blinded by love:)
162869
hi!\nits simple! \nfight for your love.\nif you really love him,then go to him,\neven your parents don't like him.\ni know that your parents will understand you.\njust follow your HEART
798829
Move out and move on.  You are obviously not happy with him and you need to do what is best for you.  Be positive and strong and discuss the situation with your family.  Good luck.
365383
Talk to him again, it may have been a shock to him, he is a parent and parents have an agenda for their kids, life should go accordingly to the !norm! as parents see it.  Give him time let him get used to the idea, let him see this is what you want and that your happy.  I don't know what age you are, this may be a factor, think about your approach again, and wait for the appropriate time(only you will know when that is.
121618
when i met my husband my parents hated him. it just takes a while for them to see the good side of you. just be yourself, use your manners, and treat her like a queen. when her parents see that you are going to bend over backwards to make their daughter happy then they will know that you are the right one for her. good luck!!!!! take care
665452
He hates you? He likes little kids? Find a new guy!! You don't want to be in a realtionship with someone who hates you.  You can do better than that.
905577
You didn't say your age, but I'm assuming you still live at home--hense the "grounding".    Parents have reasons for why we do things.  Sometimes they may sound silly and unreasonable to our children.  But, you need to respect your parents wishes and avoid that friend.  Perhaps in the future you will understand why your parents want you away from that person.
562885
You are so selfish. It's all about money to you. It would be such a convenience to you if could just move in with him, no regard for how he or your kids feel. Maybe he knows this and that is why he is not moving the relationship forward. You need to give the poor guy a break and move away, learn how to deal with life on your own, and then try to get into a healthy relationship...
726723
listen to your parents....they actually know what they are doing. its for your own good. you'll thank him one day. trust me. i was your age only a few years ago...and sometimes i wish that i had obeyed my parents more...i would be a lot better off i think.
505235
well you didnt give your age, but either way, if your parents are against him, then they have their reasons, and they also know best ( i know i know, i never believed it either , but believe me its true ) find someone better, you can do it.. good luck
549593
Maybe if you quit whining like a 5 yr old who isnt getting her way...and talk to them like an adult, they will let you spend some time alone with him. Explain that you two need to get to know each other "one on one" Not to screw each others brains out...but to find out what the other one likes and dislikes etc.. If you come to them as an adult, you will earn their respect and they just might let you two go out alone.
75100
dump the loser! If he wants to grow up and have an adult relationship with his children, he will. If not, you must instill them with values that will prevent them from becoming like their father. They WON'T HATE YOU IF YOU ARE LOVING MOTHER unless you spend your life obsessing about what a bum their dad was.
277823
Just listen open mindedly, and remind him that you will live your own life.  You may need his emotional support, but you are bound to make your own mistakes.  Parents are always overbearing when it comes to letting their children fly, so try to understand that what he does comes from a good place, and that he loves you.  He only wants the best for you, but in life, you must know the difference between him being a parent, and him speaking from experience.  When you can learn to differentiate between the two, you will become a better person for it.
661310
is there anyway you can block him cause i heard you could do that on the phone now.  but if you cant then just tell him that (if youre using the house phone) your parents are getting really annoyed that you are always on the phone or (if youre using a cell) youre out of minutes and you dont have free night and weekend minutes because youre parents are retarded.
581582
tough love, it will be hard but its time your baby boy grew up, kick him out... he will learn in a hurry
1058110
show them that he is a good person and how well he treats you, thats really all you can do, maybe if they see those sides to him they will lessen up on the issue alittle bit and not judge him by the color of his skin, but by his character and as an individual, if not then remember that you will always love your parents and will want them to accept whatever life choices you make, but they wont always like what you choose and it is afterall your life and you and you alone have to account for your own happiness....*good luck*