What age difference do you think it's the best between the 2 members of a couple?
458989
Let me answer this for you this way.. years ago age didn't matter.. it was something that just didn't enter into anyone's minds.. \nToday... it is society that tells us there should be an age limit on who we date.. or who we end up marrying..\nI say.. it is the heart that should speak.. age has no limits on love... if you see no age when you love someone.. don't worry about what others say.. unless it bothers you.
552365
Well, I'm 35 and my boyfriend is 23....so go for it! You're both adults. If you both consent, to hell with what anyone else thinks. I met my boyfriend two years ago and my mother just hates it!! But, she has to endure because we're about to have a child together (any day now). I'm not ashamed to admit that I initially pursued him because he was hot! I don't regret any of it either. \n\nA word of advice though: the age difference will crop up, no matter how hard you try to ignore it. I'm not just talking about what other people will say. It will crop up between the two of you. There are just some things you can't change and the big one is that you have way more life experience than he does, no matter how mature he may be. How each of you handles these moments will determine whether or not a relationship will work....along with all the other relating factors. Age difference doesn't have to be an obstacle if handled with care. I've had to remind myself on many occasions that I used to be his age and I used to think or act as he does. I can't change him...he's going to things his way...after all that's how we all learn.\nThe very fact that he reminds me of myself at that age is one of the reasons I love being around him. It makes me feel understood and not so alone in the world. I never had that with any other man.
337860
When you're together does it feel like you're 17 years apart?\n\nThe older you are, the smaller that gap seems. There is big difference between a 17 yo dating a 34 yo and a 32 yo dating a 49 yo. \n\nAre you at very different places in your lives right now, mostly due to age? (Ex.: college student vs. granparent)\n\nAge is just a number, if you both seem to be on the same level emotionally, and are truly in love, more power to you.
902668
i dont think there is anything wrong in age gap teh choice is individuals what matters most is geniune love from both mates
981689
Depends.  I've dated both musicians and nonmusicians. I wouldn't say that they are better lovers, but I would definitely say it was easier to talk about feelings/emotions with them.
345557
Hey age doesn't matter! If the both of you are compatible with each other then go for it! That is what matters the most.
691556
Age is just a number. It shouldn't matter. And if you two like each other and are comfortable with the age difference and seeing each other every two weeks, then why care what the other people are saying. If you two feel that you are what the other one wants, then what the other people are saying shouldn't matter.
602676
As long as both are underage, it's perfectly fine.\nI wouldn't personally advise it, though...
731167
Here's one for you, I'm 25, and my boyfriend, whom I've been with for almost a year now.. is 18. And believe it or not, it works amazingly well, I've never been happier and he's far more mature and loving than my ex-husband ever was (and he's my same age). How many 18 year olds do you know who fall in love with divorced women with two kids? LOL He's really amazing.\n\nI don't think age makes too much of a difference, as long as you're both LEGAL.\n\nAlso a friend of mine's fiance is eleven years older and they've been together for years, even have a child together.
473018
I am 50 and my gf is 20.  We get along fantastically!
103333
I agree. They're friends. But they are growing up, so who knows what may come to turn friendship into romance
687341
50 years gap, now that's too much. if you guys don't have this number of age gap, don't worry too much about it as long as you're in love to each other.
1058830
I know from experience! 21 with 49! You may be happy now and enjoying each other but let's say you get serious or move in together. The movies, music, friends, conversation, style, and attitude will change eventually. An 18 year old has so much more to learn and experience and can do so with an older person, but believe me they will eventually get someone a little younger, closer to there own style or cheat on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
104893
There is a 15 year difference between my fiance and I. I dont think age really matters if you can get along and everything is copacetic go for it.
409184
Heck yeah!!!  All that matters is if the two people are compatable.  Age is just a number.
477657
I'm 38 and my husband is 28. If you communicate well and are truly in love with each other age is just a number. How much younger are we talking ? It can be a little difficult at times when younger girls around 23-25 flirt with my husband but I trust him completely. We dont really feel an age difference, probably because he's usually more mature about things than I am. As long as your happy together and dont care what people think.....Go For it!!!!!!!!!!!
333381
Its not at all about the age. Its all about compatiability. You guys should be on the same wavelength and you should have trust. being able to communicate properly is also one of the major criteria.\nAge difference does not matter.