Are guys turned off by quiet girls, i mean to talk to them?
468531
Yes and No.\nWhy Yes:-\nDepend on the guys, some guys are very talkative and want their girls to answer them back. And like Women they love to hear nice compliments.\nWhy no:-\nSome guys are not that talkative, and only want short sentences answer. And does want to talk to their girls everytime, they have other time passes.\nIn modern world, guys are like women, they are gossipi, like style and fashion, like to hear compliments\nThere are only few % of non talkative guys.
224424
I hear ya. They all say they don't but they do. I was talking to a female friend because I've been having trouble in the dating department and she told me the same thing. Don't rush things but make sure you show her you're interested when I asked her how I was supposed to do that she only told me to shut up. \n\nI think if you find someone who that kind of crap doesn't matter when the both of you can just be into each other and not worry about whether you're calling to soon or if you should wait that's when you've got something. \n\nGenerally women want what they think they can't have... that's why if you act slightly disinterested they are more intrigued then if you just come out and say the stuff that's on your mind. \n\nGirls aren't the only ones who do it guys do it to. It sucks but that's just  the way it is.
754422
from a 17 year old girls p.o.v. :  i find shy guys to be hot! but at the same time i find shy guys to be a turnoff because its hard to talk to them. my advice would be, tho i kno it seems hard for u but just try ur best to be more outgoing, dont hold back. when u see a girl u like, go up to her and casually say hi! i love it when a guy makes the first move! ive tried really hard to flirt with shy guys but its always so frusturating cuz they come off unintrested.
951427
Too much info doesn't lead to the build up excitement of meeting.  Two to three things about yourself is okay, but more than that is more info then needed.  \n\nAlso some girls think when guys mention that they're not just intrested in our bodies and looks <-- just mentioning this is definitely what we think you are interested in only.  As for being shy, this may be true but that sounds like you just want more girls to reply.  \n\nMost important thing to write and what girls love is;  A sense of humor and make a commit about something funny.
559262
It does sound like he is trying to ignore u, don't let it get u down there's a lot more where that came from. As far as the shyness goes, it can be kinda difficult to get around that, I know cuz I was like that(still kinda am). It's all on you if your willing to take the first step and talk to him, it's easier for women cuz most guy's will feel like it's a good ice breaker and if there interested then they'll try to keep up the conversation. My best advice to you would be to is to not worry about what the other person might think about you, cuz some times you gotta swing the bat and if you miss then oh well you'll do better next time.
508326
i like all girls. You can be shy, but that shouldn't stop you from showing your interest to a guy. You don't really need to talk...just flash a smile. most of the time thats all you need to do.
271019
well, it is not so bad to be shy, many girls like guys who are shy and who are not pushing it too hard. but if you still find it a problem maybe you should practice, at first try it in front of the mirror and then maybe on some girl who you are not attracted to, also try to be more talkative with your friends, that will help you to develop your speaking skills and after a while you could easily talk with girls (at least i hope so!)
160619
if he did not like you he would not go anywhere with you, also if he is quiet around you being shy its because he does not want to look like a jerkoff, if he were sure of himself and outgoing he would be talking non stop to try to impress you. maybe asking off the wall questions is his actual way of trying to be interesting to you, in effect he's trying to impress but lack of social skill makes it seem a bit offbeat. next time ask him if he has a girl or tell him he is very attractive when he smiles or something try the odd touch on the arm shoulder or even knee dont keep it there just a single rub or pat or squeeze, this might kick start his 'ask her out engine' good luck
736876
yea.  It's interesting.  Sometimes they might surprise you and end up being very talkative.  They could just be shy.  you never know.  Quiet people are quiet for a reason, and sometimes, by observing them, you find out why it is they're quiet.
779826
haha yes, there's another guy out there like me! Yeah, he shows that he's interested. The thing with shy types are that a lot of the time, they won't start the conversation as readily, so you'll have to start it, but once they get more comfortable with you, it will get easier :)
935974
A confident, casual guy is always attractive. Also, sometimes, quiet guys who are really understanding attract me as well. I never like guys who annoy you for the sake of boredom.
1107082
HA! i know sooooo many ppl with that problem. just say to urself, what does it all matter? if they like u, then they like u and they are prolly cool. if they dont like you, then they are stupid. try going around the shy girls. they can be easier to talk to at times and they like ppl alot easier. i know cuz i used to be really shy, and still sorta am. i would say talk to girls who look sweet, not just cuz they are hot. if u talk to them just because they are hot, u will probably get shot down at some point or another. just be cool. if u see a cute girl at the beach or something who looks friendly, find some way to get in her path some how or mess with something and get her to watch (without looking stupid, lol) and find a way to just be like "oh yea, its all good" like if ur at the beach and u are playing football or something or throwing a frisby, offer for her and her friends (if she has any with her) to come play. or if u are walking ur dog, maybe let go of the leash and see if she helps you chase it (if ur dog is slow, lol). just remember to relax. thats the main thing. and after a while, if she seems interested, ask her for her number so u guys can hang out sometime. if she says no, oh well, if she says yes, good job, she may like you :)
135133
shy guys are sexy...sometimes well if u had a gf it would be hard for u too talk to eachother or even go out so do not be shy
461166
why?....if your a true man then confront that shyness in you.girls are nice to hang with,you have that self-confidence naturally..what you have to do is try to make some girl friend,just friends..talk with them..and here's how to get a girl's attention...offer some help,maybe a friendly favor that most girls ask from boys...be a gentleman and you must have yourself a sense of humor...ok?
871080
Probably just shy.  Don't worry about it, some guys may not have the nerve to ask a really cute girl they like!  Have fun!
530718
Perhaps your personality is not all that outgoing and you lack the social skills to get or maintain conversation.  Join something that you have to interact with other people and do other things to ease into the swing of things.  \nYour looks are the book cover, you want women to stop and read the rest of your book.
51576
Man this is the worst idea for attracting girls.\nyou look so desprate!!!\nnext time try something like: "girls wanna chat??" it works better!!