should i leave him or not?
458445
This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
829973
Make the choice for him and leave. Tell him you'll come back when he seeks therapy. You don't need this drama in your life.
449820
LEAVE HIM -- you owe it to yourself to find a happier life.  Don't think that you are too old or that you have invested too much time in this relationship.  Don't let him talk down to you or intimidate you into not leaving.  He's the coward and he's trying to take his insecurity out on you.  The transition period won't be easy, but once you are away from him, you will look back and be glad that you ended it.  Better things are in store for you.  Good luck.
1173220
this guy sounds like a lot of trouble, you have only been seeing him for four months and all these problems have problems have been hapening, you should be on your honeymoon stage but instead you have problems, maybe you should leave this guy and leave all thses problems. why stick with him whne he accuses you of drama, you dont need that , you need a guy to be there for you when you need him not when he needs you to bail him out of his problems.
184423
Then leave, its that simple.  If you are not happy and neither of you are going to change, you will never be happy with him.
113964
I think you should leave your boyfriend.  If you are not happy with him and he doesn't make you happy, then leave.  You think alot of your child, to want to stay, but your child will see that you are happy, once you leave and the child will be happy also.  As for the ex, you shouldn't get back with him, unless you are sure it was meant to be.  You have your child, who needs you more than any man.  You will know when the right one comes along.
643675
Stay with him.  Give him  some time, if in 6 months, you still feel this way, then leave him.
1001344
LEAVE HIM!!!!  I HAD ONE OF THOSE .. DIDNT LEAVE HIM WHEN I SHOULD OF AND NOW HAVE A KID WITH HIM...\n\n\nIT ONLY GETS WORSE.... TRUST ME..... AND YOU KNOW WE DISERVE BETTER.. THERE REALLY IS MEN OUT THERE WILLING TO SPENT THERE LAST PENNY ON YOU RATHER THEN ON THEM SELF...\n\nIF YOU CONSIDERE THIS A PROBLEM AND YOU ARE ONLY DATING HIM WAIT TILL REALITY HITS YOU WHEN YOU LIVE TOGETHER....\n\nYOU NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ...\nNOT A CHILD TO LOOK AFTER...
1160542
If you feel like you REALLY should leave, I say go. Unless you want to go through the hassle of counseling and such (which some men will not even consider). I dont know how I would just do whatever is in your best interest.
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
527753
just leave him. no use hanging around someone who is not faithful to you anymore.
1149228
Hey gurl!\nwell if u like the guy and belive things will work, then i suggest u stay together!!\nface problems as they come...\nthis relationship might have more to offer than u may think....so why end it before it starts?\nJean
809606
if you sure he will never love you you, leave him as soon. Do not waste your time. It is extremely difficult and very painful but necessary and unavoidable... Soon or late you will see that. Good luck!
694614
Dump him first and keep your self respect. You cant force him not to break up with you and if you are wrong then he will tell you.
322075
Ehh, I am going to go out on a limb here, and say that you shouldn't AUTOMATICALLY leave him, unless he is still activly particpating in his marriage, in which case you should.  I have to say that I was married, but not (we were separated), and I started a relationship with an amazing woman, but I was up front about my status.  Give him a chance to explain himself, if you don't like what he has to say then you can slap him and leave.  Don't act to hasty, get the lay of the land before you make a decision.  Good luck my dear, I hope it turns out ok.
662345
leave him, you dont want to be with some1 who does not feel truely for u. he is not worth it.
555568
let him go. he is with someone else now.\nif he wanted you, he would be with you, not her.\nthe truth hurts sometimes.