Do you think people should keep talkin to themselves when nobody's around?
468960
Yes this wud increase the self confidence and ignore the inferiority complex if the person is diffident...this is one way of expressing thoughts and feel ur heart very light especially whn sorrowness fills ur mind
551520
Yes they do but I think its because I made the person up and I'm always talking to myself all the time.People think I'm weird but I say they are for talking to a real person.Weird people and there people and people are all crazy........whats that you say.....I'M CRAZY?....you have to be kidding me....your crazy........crazy
884510
... Shhh.... how about you stay quiet from now on?
134538
i think it is not necessary to know a lot of people..in the end,we all are alone..but if u just want a lot of ppl around u,just take a deep breath,pick a large smile,and behave as u are the best-self confidence-\nand be sure u have things to talk about..it might be a gender of music,some books or movies,some jokes..\ngood luck!!!
240102
Yes; too seriously.\nI don't talk much and,when I do say something, everyone is listening.\nThis is very stressful.
771946
Oh definitely yes!  I hate when people (unsolicited) will try to figure out "what's wrong" if I'm not smiling and bubbly.  sometimes there isn't even anything wrong, just that I am thinking of something and need to think it through or that I am trying to finish some project and people keep interrupting.  And those things seem impossible for the cheer-up crew to understand!  So yes, I can relate to that.\n\n      I don't think people should take it upon themselves to try and cheer everyone up in their path, or to butt in and ask what is the matter.  It's OK to do so quietly and let the person know you are there if they need to talk ONCE, but then leave it alone and wait and see if the person actually wants to talk.  If not, there is nothing the cheery one can do and they need to move on to another prospect!
57790
When I am around people that think or talk negatively all the time, I simply remove myself from that situation.  The negative people are just looking for that additional attention.  By not giving it, you are telling them that that is not cool.  They will either change or be alone.  When you do come across someone that is negative, find things that are positive to talk about.  Just dont let them bring you down with them.
29410
If you are waiting for someone to read your mind, you'll be waiting for awhile.  If someone is irritating you, just tell them without being a totall a$$-hole.
354628
if so. mind ur own Fking business before telling others wat to do.
115019
Being a loner is just an extension of your inner personality.  It's all a matter of preference (although friends are never a bad thing to have) and should be taken as thus.
340683
Yes, everyone deserves to be heared, irrespective of what age they are. Doesn't mean that you have to act on what he says though. Afterall, wouldn't you feel frustrated if noone listened to you??????????
2417
me as a people person i would go up to the friends thats being bad and talk to them if you listen and try to hammer in that you are listining people will talk they may have some bad pent up feelings that just came out that way. so talk is all i can say.
288318
it could be your not being social enough or...your not putting your self out there letting your self be known...or\nit could be quietness
361209
It's not good to tell your business OR hang with a lot of people. Miscommunication comes in to play, and the one to be blamed will be YOU. It's good to keep to yourself or if you are in a relationship, that person should be your best friend and the only one, other than family, that you should confide in.
431567
Not if the other person shows they knew what you were going to say. The problem is when people are not listening, and they interrupt you to say what they want.
701837
They should try to talk to people more. The more comfortable you become talking to a small group of people, the sooner you will realize its not that much harder to talk to anybody and everybody you want to.
674381
That's so normal......I'm 24 now, have been talking to myself as long as i can remember..... it only becomes a problem when you think you are talking to others that aren't there....\nYou are as special and unique as you want to be........and don't let anyone tell you differenly. \nRemember, as long as you really are talking to yourself and not having elaborate disucussions with yourself or "others", than you are ok:-) maybe you talk to yourself because you feel no one else will listen.....then you might find counseling to be helpful.