I'm shy, how do I find a good girl to go out with?
456869
be yourself, that always get in to their hearts, and if it doesnt work for them, dont change yourself cuz you wanna please them, just move on
505513
Im sure you will find a girl who like you the way you are. Have tried dating sites? There are plenty of girls looking that might be interested. Good luck!!!
432958
People here have given some decent advice but here's the real deal. There is no shame in being shy. the shame is in not doing anything about it. u hafta attack it head on. start slowly by getting comfortable conversing with women u are attracted to. Talk about any and everything as the situation presents itself. Through this conversing you will know whether it's in your interest to take it to the next level. examples:If she is smiling and looking at u intently as u talk, asking questions she's probably interested. If she seems distant, not asking questions or responding with one or two word answers she's probably not.\nGot it??
749262
Just try to be yourself. Ask her out sometime and do not be shy about that, it's so natural. I mean, if you want someone open the door to you, you at least(!), have to knack in it...\nHow more simple can it be?
853600
I do not think this will be to much of a problem it appears you are shy and may have a fear of rejection until you overcome those fears it may be you asking this question ten years from now.  Start talking you are the only one that can help yourself get out of this situation.  Heres a good tip go out with some guy friends \nif you see a girl you would like to meet and are scared see if one of your friends would break the ice for you like saying hi my friend would like to meet you it could be that easy.
846491
If you are too shy to verbally ask her out then maybe you are too shy to be dating. Wait until you mature a bit then try again. How can a date work with just letter writing?▲
734877
Find some confidence.\nIts pretty simple if you can overcome fear of rejection.\nBe fairly direct. Just ask.\nSecret:  Girls(women) are attracked to self-confidence.\n\nBut also be real, dont lie.  It is much easier to be yourself than someone else.
810560
Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
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Start with chit-chat.Then go out on a bunch of dates where you both are with a big group and when you feel you've made a strong emotional bond she is yours.\nTHIS IS FROM A SHY GIRL TO A SHY BOY.
442691
Ask a girl out. Just cause you're shy doesn't mean you can't ask her out. It just means you'll be a little nervous doing so. That's just fine.
402129
Don't we all?  I suggest you practice talking with every girl you know.  Eventually one of them should like you enough to go out with you.
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Money and looks will only get you so far... Be flirtatious, partake in interesting hobbies, and show your self confidence without being cocky. You need to take the initiative as well... don't be afraid to ask that girl out on a date!  Have no fear of rejection. Everyone gets rejected and it's part of life. Also, don't be CREEPY... hard to define... but enjoy your life... talk to people, smile, look girls in the eye, don't be shy... that's all I can think of right now! Good luck!
1086810
Learn to break out of your shell! It's hard, but start small.  Start by smiling at people that you walk by or encounter.  Then try by saying hi when you pass by others.  It takes practice! People tend to be attracted to people who are smiling and seem outgoing even if they are shy by nature.  You will look more approachable that way rather than if you just ducked your head and kept walking. \n\nWhen you get used to being friendly with people try it on a girl you like.  Smiling is always important because it shows you're happy and confident.  Also, if you feel like you're not talkative, try coming up with conversation topics before you approach someone.  That way if the girl happens to be shy you have something to say so it doesn't feel awkward or anything.  Good luck!
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Its all about trial and error. I don't think there a particular way to find a "good girlfriend" And it also depends on what qualities you are looking for in a woman. \nI wouldn't suggest bar or night clubs. Rather try meeting people through activities that interest you, for example, if your into reading or books, you could join a book club, or if you enjoy fitness you can take a class. This way you are more likely to meet someone with similar interest as yours.
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Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
294111
you need to go looking for the REAL one already hey?!?!? well go out and date dont be shy....anything but shy....youll find her i have faith in you
682434
well don't change what u are ur nice keep it that way just concentrate ur niceness to asking a girl (thats on ur level) if she sould like to go out to a movie take it easy