i am a strong girl i bench 400 pounds at age 13 i can beat any guy and i want to no wat to do about it?
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yeah right, unless youre 6 to 7 feet tall and built like a man OR you counted your weights wrong:\n\n(because you would have 4 weights of 45 lbs on each side plus the bar which is 45 lbs which comes a little over 400.\nronnie coleman barely lifts it and he's a competitive bodybuilder so im guessing this is a joke)
743080
Asthma is your real problem.  And worrying too much.  For the weights, use your body for the weights, and your imagination to figure out how.  Whoever told you you are not strong is not your friend.  You are not "anything" right now, you are a kid!  Enjoy.
1149811
Your power? I recommend working out with weights. You'll get muscle development, a surge of hormones, and increased endurance. You'll rock her world.
369236
i think first off you should talk to a offical at your high school, a teacher, counsler, adminstator, etc.  someone who is an adult with a job at the school that you feel comfortable talking to.  tell them what has been going on and that you want it to stop.  if he keeps breaking your stuff, that is not right!  it sounds like he might have an anger problem, and i hope he doesn't hit you!\n\ni am also sixteen and even tho my problem was different from yours, i went to a teacher and told her and everything became better afterwards.  i was nervous talking to her and then the counsler and then to an adminstrator and then i had to talk to a off campus police officer!  my case was a friend told me that this guy tried to rape her.  and well i asked the teacher what my friend could do, and she really helped me out.  \n\ngo to someone you know can help a.s.a.p.!
110829
Go to therapy.\nOr... hang out with people bigger than you.
563826
you're a girl... try girl push ups first, knees on floor, not toes. ok ok still to hard?  same position but get a little tiny bench 6=12 inches high, hands go on the bench.  ok ok you are such a wimp, start with stand up at an angle against the wall.  then do the bench, then do the incline (the first i mentioned).  i can whip out 50 handstand push ups and believe me i don't look like arny, but i have way strong arms and sholders.  try it.  good luck.\non also get into doing crunchies, make you belly strong so you can do regular push ups.  don't try all this in one day mind you.
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Ask your doctor, but I would suggest just sticking to playing sports or doing aerobics. Leave the weights until you're at least a teenager. \n\nThere is an alternative to weights that I would suggest asking your doctor, however. See what you're doctor says about yoga. It's a great way to strengthen and tone your muscles without straining yourself.
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Bottom line to a very long dissertation is DON'T DO IT ,,,, You didn't mention your age or age bracket but I'm assuming that you are in your teens ,,,,,that doesn't matter because this advice could fit anyone ,,,,, You have your whole life ahead of you ,,,,If I'm right and you are in your teens then you aren't in a position to handle the problem that can arrise from this ,,,, There are allot of red flags here ,,,, One of them is that you are a challenge to any guy ,,,,,, you have something they want and most likely after they score they will move on to another target ,,,, Don't submit yourself to being anyones play thing ,,,, Any guy that wants you for that has no respect for you at all ,,,, To them you are only warm and have a pulse ,,,, Guys your age aren't near ready or mature enough to settle down with just one girl at this point in their lives ,,,, Think long and hard and from all the angles where this is concerned ,,,, Use your head ,,,, don't let them use your body ,,,,,
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TALK TO WHO EVER HELPYOU BE A STRONG  FIGHTER MAYBE THEY CAN HELP YOU... I DID IT SINCE I WAS 9 AND IT'S NOT AND EASY ROAD BUDDY....
810695
Go to Gym get stronger and bit the shiet of your mine.
488627
Go to the gym. I also make fun of my friends. I am stronger than most of them. I gym, and they don't. That is all I can say. Sorry to hear that you are not the man, but she is.
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I'm not a woman, but I wanted to put my two cents in.\n\nActually, according to researchers, pound for pound, woman are stronger than men.\n\nAlso according to researchers, because woman have had more of a "back seat" role for many, many years and because of the way that boys and girls are raised differently, researchers believe that if boys and girls were raised the same, that the female would be the better athlete.\n\nWhat can you do about this?  I'm not sure if anything will work, but try to "restructure" your mind with the knowledge that, pound for pound you can do better than a man.\n\nI know this is vague, but its all I've got.\n\nGood luck to you.  Keep on fighting, hang in there and you may surprise yourself.\n\nBe well.
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You can try but I doubt you'll make it.  There are 250 lbs. men out there who have one thing on their minds, and thats knocking the nearest opposing player on his/her ass.  The sport is way too physical for a woman.
1173500
Sweetie, take it slow. It takes a very long time to gain muscle. Strength will come. Keep lifting, Every other week or so increase the weight you lift but DO NOT OVER DO IT! Be careful. Eat healthy and push your body, just don't hurt it. You'll get there. I bet by the time you get to high school, all the chicks will want you but you will be more focused on your school work! Because you don't want to be a teenage daddy! Good luck!
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my bro hit me back when i was 13 (when i annoyed him or wutever.) and i still think hes somewhat of an ass today (maybe only becuz he slapped me in the back of the head and thats like a cheapshot) so if u a girl go for it, if guy id save ur anger for a big fight with him ahhaha
622885
ur prolly just scared cuz u dont wanna be harrassed by any of the guys, cuz they'll prolly start touchin u and sh**\ndont worry bout it, and if they do, then kick em in the nuts
216509
I understand your plight. I once felt the same way. It must also be frustrating having everyone say "you're only 13! You have a lot of time!" Well let me tell you I was 13 once and I was frustrated as hell dealing with this problem like you are now. you figure you're not good enough or not as pretty as the next girl. Well let me tell you, the key to conquering these overwhelming feelings is your self esteem. work on building your self esteem. Realize that it should not take a man to make you feel good about yourself. Love and take care of yourself. Everything else will soon fall in place.