how do know if my husband cheat  on me?? i found 2 condoms in his pocket, everything was perfect  % us!!?
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u got to ask him directly but be cool when u ask such a thing , dont lose your head\nmay be all will be fine\ngod bless you
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Your first option is to ask him.  Make sure you don't do it as an attack, or he'll probably cover it up.  Also, if you do it as an attack, and he isn't cheating, then he'll feel resentful and feel like any trust you two had, is gone.  Another option is to ask a friend {or PI} to watch your husband for a while.  Call him at work to see if he's there, find out what he's doing if he's "working extra hours"  Check emails, internet history, phone calls in and out, and so on.  Don't be afraid to pop in at lunch to surprise him with a home cooked meal.  This will give you extra time with him, make him feel special, and also thwart plans if he's trying to cheat.  Also, see if there are people that are with him often, that you feel you could get an honest answer from.  But honestly, I think asking him first, in a very soft and subtle tone, is your best bet.  But remember, never ask a question you can't handle any answer too.  I don't mean don't get angry or mad, but make sure you're at a place with yourself that you can hear what he has to say to you, no matter what his answer is.  I wish you all the best, insecurities, whether real or not, always hurt.
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No one is perfect, if you see him being perfect or any closer to that then check real carefully if he is tricking you. Another observation, he will agree to do anything you'll ask him to do, no matter what you are asking he will agree that means he is cheating on you and he knows that he wouldn't have to do that for a long time, so he can just promise for a short while. Let me know what you've find out.
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Yes he cheated. Think about it why would some girl call u out of the blue and say that she is pregnant by your man. That might not be his baby but he hit that at some point move on and find somebody else.
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you can check and check all your life and you still will not be sure...when a man wants to cheat behind your back he can and you would never know...so give it up, relax and start joining the normal living...your checking or suspicions will not change anything...start worrying when and if you have reason to...(while dating is very different from marriage, he is now a committed man).
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Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
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Well, all sorts of issues going on here.  For one, were you snooping around, looking for stuff, do you not trust him, has he cheated on you before?  Basically there is a trust issue here, but i'm not on the guys side, he should also be open if he's being invited to girl's parties, and he has alot of girls numbers that you don't know?  Not a good sign.  Figure out if you guys still trust each other, if not, after 4 years, get out, do your own thing, learn to trust.
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I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
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if he is acting suspicious or getting his sex some place else then he is probably cheating on you
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Once a cheat, always a cheat!  Unless God seriously changes his heart - and you would need a LONG track record of trustworthy behavior and a clean STD test to know for sure - there is no hope for this guy.  Don't let yourself be hurt any more!!!  Find somebody who deserves you.  He lost his chance.
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I am sad to say "Just ask him" is not going to resolve this question, if indeed your husband IS putting up profiles in dating sites. If your relationship has come to a place where you suspect this type of behavior, then you probably are aware of actual episodes of him cheating on you. The adult dating sites are where many cheating spouses go to find partners to cheat with. I know because I was using the sites to date eligable men, and I saw many sad things going on at many of these sites. There is one site which encourages the individuals to say exactly what they were looking for and what type of sex they were into. There were many men and women who said they were looking to have an affair with no strings attached! I was terriably saddend to see this. I really feel for you if you believe your husband is behaving in this manner. What would you do if you found out he was doing this? It sounds like you have a strong reason to think he is doing this, so what would you do if you found out? I think this is an important question you need to ask yourself. You can not change anybody's behavior, only your own. You need to decide what you can tolerate and what you can not tolerate. It is about self respect. Yeah, you can go and check all the history and find out what he is doing on line. However, he may know how to erase those traces too. Men who cheat regularly and use the computer to do so, often know how to erase those history tracks left inside the browsers. There are other ways to find out. He probably likes to keep his letters. He may be "hiding" them in hidden files and folders. To look through out the entire computer for all hidden files and folders do this:\n1. Open any explorer window. Any window you open on the computer is an explorer window. Or go to "all programs" then to "accessaries" then to "windows explorer".\n2. Click open the Tools option.\n3. click folder options. A new window will open which is \n   the folder option window.\n4. Click on the "view" tab.\n5. Scroll down to the Hidden file and folders, which has \n   two radio buttons regarding files and folders.\n6. There is probably a green color showing in the button of\n   "Do not show hidden files and folders. While there is \n    no green color in "show hidden files and folders"\n7. To change to show hidden files and folders, just click\n   the button "show hidden files and folders"\n8. Click "apply" or just click "ok" and for a moment \n   your computer will blink and your icons will disapear \n   and quickly reappear, kinda like they jumped. This is\n   normal as hidden files and folders are now becoming \n   "Unhidden. \nTIP: Hidden files and folders will have a "ghostly" appearance. Kinda faded looking. These are the folders and files that were hidden from view. Some files inside the hidden folder or file will not have the ghostly look. These are still "hidden" inside the hidden folder but not really hidden. As long as they are within a hidden folder they are in effect "hidden". The folder used to contain the illicit letters, if in fact they exist, may be a regular file "hidden" inside a hidden file. Or he may actually have hidden them, and so they will have the ghostly look.\n\nNow you need to search you computer for all folders and files. You do this by using the search feature. \n1. click "start"\n2. click "search" On the start menu. A window will open,\n   this is the search program.\n3. click on "search all files and folders"\n4. On where to search click on the arrow which opens a menu \n   for you to chose from. \n5. click on C drive, if C drive is the drive you use for the\n   major apps, has your OS on it, and all your files and\n   folders. \nTip: If you are not sure, just click on both C and D drives for this search. Perhaps you should do this anyway, as he may be clev
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Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
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he is cheating on you but may be even he is not willing  to accept it somewhere in his heart.\nhe might have felt rejected by you and is now using these ways you take  revenge of that rejection.\none thing is certain that he do not want to loose you and thats why on being cought he is trying to cover it up.\nhave passions but be careful, \nmake it clear to him that you are not going to tolerate it anyfurther. get rid of computer or make sure that you r there when he is working on it... \ntackle the situation in a balanced way, \nlisten to him and show him that you care ...\nprovide him security and ask for the same in return\nbe with him  as your child needs both of you...\nmay you get your lost love again...\nmay god bless both of you.\nforgat it as a bad dream. forever...
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girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
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That's a ridiculous question. How should anyone on the internet know whether your boyfriend is being faithful or not?
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hire a detective or do it yourself. just be carefull and dont get caught .your married check the phone bills dont let him leave with cologne on smell him when he gets home make sure theres no  girls spray on lipstick hickies act like you want to have sex and smell his dick and mouth and underpants for a womens scent
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from experience i would say he is probably hiding something. when i was hiding something from my hubby i didn't care where he went, and actually he didn't leave house enough. or may be if y'all go to church then maybe he has grown up and realized GOD SAYS HE NEEDS TO TRUST YOU. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!!!!