my 12 year old likes to wear diapers ...should i let him??
458861
just use a bigger size than for babies, duhh
76623
maybe he has fetish, i would leave him alone coz you dont want him to feel ashame just let him know to try to be discreet about it ,he's so young he's probably having a hard time with his identity, tell him if he needs somebody to talk to your all ears ,but maybe he just like the way it feels on him tell him to stay away from your undies...lol..
1060435
I like to change it up all the time trying new diapers. Its fun to see what out there and try them all. You should get a sample pack form HDIS. and try all thy sell
1023840
First of all, 19!? Ur still young and you've already had a baby. Yikes!!! Slow down. I say just tell him how you feel and if he doesn't respect that then...whatever.
937534
Hahahahaahahaha\nOK well he apparently won't be wearing anything because you won't be needing clothes in heaven...eeewww! \n\nPs I just talked to Jesus and he said the sqeaky staircases will come in useful--when your kids try to sneak out of the house =)\n\n():-D\nshadowgirl
1137084
Well little lady it seems you have what is called a FETISH. And your fetish just happens to be diapers. The way i see it you ain't hurting anyone by doin this. The hardest thing it trying ti explane something to someone else. Like you mom for example you seem to worry that she will think would call you a baby and make fun of you. Well really i don't think that would be the case at all. She would probley be more worried about the long turm effects of wearing diapers. Not how it would make to you (AS A BABY) I know you think you are the only one in the world that feels this way but you are WRONG. The way you feel is who you are and you can change but it will take time to do it. As for liking the warm feeling of a wet diaper is just something you like and you cant help that. So i would say just go ahead and wet your diapers and have fun as long as everthing else is OK with you WHY not!!
501391
any 12 year old should be helping with chores but even moreso in your case. im sorry for the difficulties you and your wife are going through.\n\nas for your daughter you might just have to do something shocking... if she isnt going to help out then maybe she will find out her fave clothes arent washed and ready for school, supper isnt waiting on the table for her, etc. i learned fast how to do laundry when my mom shrunk my FAVE lace blouse,,, i  freaked out but she said she has 4 people's laundry to do and doesnt have time to check every single tag on everything so if i want it done right, its time to start doing my own,,, so i did. i wasnt happy about it but i got over it. \n\nlots of kids are brats at this age but your child is walking all over you and im sorry to say that perhaps youve been letting her for far too long but its never too late to get things going. good luck!
710122
if they are comfortable and you are comfortable i guess it sounds kind of gross tho. i wouldnt want to be a guest in your home and see a bunch of naked preteens. and i shure as hell wouldnt alow my kids at your home.why cant they at least wear boxers then theyd be covered and not showing anything. and a question for you why do you let them run around the house naked for? do you like what you see? for one they are 12 old enough to know better if you would teach them better  and for 2 they are your kids.
450236
Its very normal. usually little boys do that around 4-5. Just explain to him in passing that we should always take care of our bodies, and that some parts are more sensitive than others, and that messing with his private parts can cause infection, just as much as sticking your fingers in your eye. \n\nyou should take this time in his life to also reassure him that no one but himself and his parents should ever have a reason to see him unclothed, and that no one but himself should clean or touch that private area. He's a big kid now after all.\n\nAt that age he should be in about 3 or 4th grade thats generally when they start adressing parts of the body in class, its possible he never realized that part of his body was really functional for anything but going potty until then.\n\nA boy of his age would be expected to wonder about his.. bits and pieces. Just reassure him that he's normal and to always take care of himself. It doesnt need to be a huge sit-down discussion.\n\nAlso, if you havent had the talk with him, you might want to take time to do that now. I have never known many children of his age and grade range who didnt know. If he hasnt heard from you its quite possible he's heard from a school mate. Talking about sex is only as difficult and uncomfortable as you make it. So be calm and cover all the bases, your a big grown up person, he's a little kid who has a need to know how to handle his body.
648366
It is OK. But religion has nothing to do with this. Tell your 12 year that his time will come. he must concentrate on his studies.
511217
They look cute on babies but then its a necessity.\n\nI could do without seeing grown folks in diapers.
1167535
NEVER EVER BRIBE!  It will backfire at some point rather it be when he is 5 or 18 years old.  Don't Force him to go either.\n\nMy oldest (who is now 9) was not potty trained unitl he was almost 4.  I never forced him.  I feared my oldest would not be potty trained in time for Kindergarten.  \n\nLet him watch daddy go potty, that works wonders. Take lots of books for him to "read" while he is doing his business.  <-----Worked for my oldest.\n\nAlways, ALWAYS praise him.  Be as Goofy as you can be when he goes potty.  Be his cheerleader.  Let him see how happy it makes you.  And not just on his first time....EVERY time he goes...BE GOOFY and award him LOTS of praise!\n\nIt will come.
840270
Do you mean the schools make them ONLY wear underwear - nothing else? If this is the case, I would be talking to the schools directly, I am unsure if/how this can be justified myself, maybe the school itself has reasons - but ultimately you are the best person to judge what is right and desirable for your child, so if you are not happy with their response, say so - with your words and with your feet if need be. Good luck!
938388
He is WAY to old to be running around the house in his underware. I am surpised his friends haven't said anything to him. Most guys do not want to see another guys drawers! Tell Mom to lay down the law and make this boy put some clothes on. Sweatpants and warm-ups are comfortable too. If he needs that much comfort he can hang out in his room with his door closed.
535768
my 12 yr old is a cos player, i never went with them though i just help make the costumes... hubby usually takes him lots of people do... dress in costume that is (not just 12 yr olds ) if you have a great costume than DO IT i hear it is a good time...
955514
it depends on how responsible your child is. if u think your child can understand how to take care of them and keep germs off of it, than go for it. maybe they have special ones made for children.
269081
No, why should you? Just be sure to wash thoroughly and if he has problem with hair, then it's just his problem not yours.