My sister is not here  how can i get over it?
466727
WHERE IS SHE? IF SHES STILL LIVING TRY TALKING TO HER EVERYDAY AND VISITING 1'S EVERY TWO WEEKS IF POSSIBLE YOU CAN NEVER GET OVER YOUR SISTER NO MATTER WHAT
563860
Because it is sad!  I lost my sister awhile back, and it just left such a void in my life.  I think I will always be sad.  When I get really down, I try to remember the good times that I was able to have with her.  Keep your chin up!  :)
375954
call them.. send mail... do whatever it takes if you miss them
361090
I'm an old lady, I lost my mom to cancer ten years ago, and I still miss her too.  I know it must hurt even more to be missing your mom at your young age.  I can't magically make the hurt go away, but here's a couple of ideas that might help a little:\n\n1.  Go ahead and talk to her anyway.  I do.  I am not a religious person, but I choose to believe that her energy is still here in the universe somewhere.  I believe that both of our moms are still looking out for us.  So go for a long walk on the beach or along a peaceful quiet river trail where you can be completely private, and have a good long chat with her in your mind.  Or even out loud if you want.  She will hear you.\n\n2.  Find another female mentor.  No one will ever replace your mom, but it is still important for you to have a female role model you trust and can talk to.  If there isn't anyone in your family to do that, how about someone who was a good friend of your mom's?  Or if no one else, see if there is a chapter of Big Sisters in your city.\n\n3.  Remember that more than anything your mom would want you to be active and happy.  Think of the things she would likely encourage you to do... studies, sports, crafts, music or the arts, community volunteer work... and really apply yourself to excel in her honor.  Dedicating your efforts to her will make her feel closer, and staying busy and active will help you keep from getting depressed too.\n\nYou are doing the right thing to reach out to people when you feel this way.  Now the next step is to do it with live people in your immediate environment rather than with strangers over the internet.  Be brave and empowered about asking for what you need to feel safe and happy.  It's ok.
874019
Your poor thing! You have my deepest sympathy. It must feel like the end of the world for you. \n\nDo not despair. Have you contacted the Police at all? They should have a missing persons unit or a unit which deals with vulnerable missing people. I know from what you say that you have an idea where she is living but she is still a vulnerable person as it seems she is very impressionable. The Police may well be aware of the situation at this address and can therefore react quickly. \n\nAlternatively, what about local Social Services? I appreciate that you may not want to get them involved but desperate times call for desperate measures. They should have a runaway co-ordinator who can help you. \n\nAnother organisation that is really good at providing support and advice is Connexions. It is an organisation that the Police, Social or your daughter's school can put you in touch with. They have all sorts of help available for both young people aged 12-18 and their family from counselling, drug advice, literacy, careers advice, housing, anti-bullying, etc. It really would be worth speaking to these people once your daughter returns to see how they can help her. \n\nAll the very best of luck to you. xxxx
94162
im sorry to hear about your missing sister but this is no place to ask for such sensitive info. contact the police(if your in u.s.) or maybe the us embassy(if you are in pakistan).
552423
Wow, you've got to get the heck out of that house. Is she your legal guardian or something? Call DHS and tell them what is going on. If you're an adult, then find a friend or other relative you can stay with for a while. \n  If you cannot leave, and I do understand how it's hard to fully grasp someone else's situation... then ask a neighbor if you can use their address for job applications. Just tell them your sister isn't right in the head and you have to get a job to support everyone. Then do NOT put your number on job applications. Maybe the same neighbor will allow you to use their land phone number and they can pass the message on to you and you can call them back when your sister is sleeping. Either way, you sis needs some serious help. Call mental health facilities and see what can be done.\n  Best of luck to you.. and stay away from pork and eat lots of fresh garlic until you can get back on your meds.
1156768
i know how you feel. i have some problems with my family also... i was fourteen when my parents sent me out from china to belize. my mom had my little brother when i was ten, and i couldn't accept the fact right away, and she usually scold me for everything. \nat the point of time, since they are coming and visit you, you should just act normal, and once you have a chance you call up your sister to a place where you guys can speak alone, and you need to tell her how much you are sorry about the past, and your feeling towards your whole family, and that no one can change what had happened, not even god. you need to tell her that you love her and that you are sisters, no matter what you will always be her sister and that no one can change it. people live people dies, and that you are sorry that your dad died, but nobody would want that to happened. you were just simply in love with someone that the family didn't wanted to accept and tell her that life is short, if she will continuing mad at you, then you couldn't do nothing more better to let her forgive you. Just remember don't yell at her or cry...\n\nwell, good luck, is just a suggestion that i am giving...\n\ngood luck again.
1123785
hey bro.. me again..well as i said... been there happened to me..my case similar..though she was living down the street..as for what u v done with not talking to her its the right thing..its difficult otherwise not to think about them 24*7... my x had got engaged and that's y we d broken up.. as far as the family is concerned keep u r distance... don be rude as i can tell that's not gonna be u...be polite... mom likes u huh??? what is this now i have to get my life copyrighted...?lol.. ne ways what i think is send her sis flowers and something but don think u should go there...cause if u do it ll just bring the memories flooding back...\nand we don want that.. what we do want is to forget this girl and find someone better.. though we sometimes feel we don want someone better we want her.. but we don have her... when we r finally over her and moved on we ll look back and smile and laugh... but i know it hurts now... but u r not alone in your pain... and there r many more pain full things... so chill and get busy with other things... be polite but distant... take care...
1167571
just tell her your sorry. its not worth the loss of a sister over some clothes.
383632
talk to your sister and tell her how you feel...and if that doesnt work then tell him that your sister still pees the bed and is afraid of the monkey in her closet
1051078
Is your sister not home?
1044872
I feel for you.  You really care about your sister and are doing your best for her.  Keep trying.  Don't give up.  Sometimes things are just beyond your control.  When that happens all you can do is keep swimming and call for help.  Pray if you want.
796123
That's the problem my brotha.  You need to tell her how u feel.  You sittin here and you seem to know the exact words that you want to say to her....so let me give you some advice....TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!! I know from firsthand experience that when she is gone it will be the worst feeling in the world.  Talk to her when it is just you and her alone.  I promise you nothing bad will come of it.
82018
First of all not give up and not lose hope and faith.\nSecondlly, try harder to get next to her.\nAnd last but not less important, fight for her so that she can remain net to you as a daughter as long as it takes untill you can talk and explain all the missings reasons.
606279
Personally, I just lost my dad last month.  I'm still dealing.  It takes a while but the one thing you have to keep in mind is that she was here for a reason.  Whether or not there is an afterlife is irrelevent.  Each person that crosses your path, each person you interact with is there for a reason.  Whether its to teach you something or point you in the direction youre meant to go, there is a purpose.  You may miss her, but if you spend the rest of your life grieving you are not living.  You are lost in the past and moving forward because you have no alternative.  I can assure you, that is not what she would want.  I look at it this way, when you truly care for someone, you give them a piece of yourself.  You have given them your love, your support, your caring, whatever...its a part of you.  No matter where you go, they will always have that.  It is not something tangible that can be taken away or lost.  Your sister will be with you forever.  Nothing can change that..not even death.  'Sides, in my opinion death is just a speed bump in this thing called life, not an end.
123245
you mean expired as in died? my condolences to you. may you find solace and comfort in her absence. give yourelf time to heal and to grieve. everything happens for a reason which you may not understand (yet). but for it's worth, i am sure your sister will be disappointed if her demise is causing you too much pain. think of the good times and how she will be happy for you if you get good marks.