Is possible that rape is caused by wearing mini skirts. please help?
474562
Rape is not the fault of the victim or anything she/he is wearing. A skimpy clothing choice is perhaps not wise, but the rapist is at fault. The full weight of the crime belongs on his shoulders, no one else's.
129761
Wow that is really serious. I guess, you should seek legal advise. And please, don't get to intimate for a while. She might have evidence or something that might incriminate you.
623386
Ecstasy can lower ones inhibitions and make one more likely to partake in sensual and sexual encounters. It is very likely for a girl to get raped during this time because she wont resist somethign she'd never do while not taking Ecstasy. Any body that is not sober and free of drugs is not legal to give consent, so any consent given by them is null and void, making any sex had with them technically rape. Some - regardless of drugs or not - will also claim rape so that they dont have to accept responsibility for their actions the night before.
28307
I think it is possible thats how it came about .... Just as jeans are passed to an unborn child from a father so can a dvirus .... I had raised the question to a OB Doc. when I was attending the visits for my son before he was born and thats what she told me.... Hope I could help
295403
Jeans nothing, try wool pants!!!  LOL  It is a hygiene issue, a place to put your 'pad', it covers your area so that people cannot see it. Prevents perverts from getting their full thrill by looking up your skirts and dresses.
839315
Being raped is very degrading to a women it takes away her pride self respect makes her feel worthless, and ashamed. The women who don't report rape is out of fear from the assailant or being ashamed. Ashamed might not be the correct word to use. you get the point though. I don't know what I would do. I would hope that I would have the courage to report it so it wouldn't happen to someone else.  I had a friend once she was in her mid 40s she waited until she got married to have sex. She was 18 on her wedding night her husband tied her to the bed and sodomized her. she came from a family that taught you that your husband is the law and what he does to you is his business and you didnt question him. She is no longer married to him thank goodness. For anyone out there who has been raped my heart goes out to you.
181078
well ppl should be careful while chatting on net. I mean you never know how the person is. I am not scaring you but I have come across many cases where girls have been abondoned and some have also got pregnant. I am not saying that it can happen to you but you should still be careful. Just introspect and analyze where this thing is going? Is it safe? Will my parents be happy with whatever I am doing? After all your life is a part of others'.
1016986
Yes it is.  If one partner says no at any point, the other should stop.  Any time that you say you do not want to do a sexual activity and the other person does it to you anyway, it's rape.
801420
Yes.  The definition of rape is being forced to have sex.  Doesn't pertain only to certain people, but to all people.
694980
Many, many possible problems can be traced back to being a rape victim.  I was raped by a gang when I was 13, and the first and most devastating effect was having my first internal examination.  Then there was being chaperoned around until after the trial, thinking the boys/men involved would want to harm me.  Then the testimony, when I didn't know the right words to use, and was terribly embarrassed.  Then the kids at school who asked idiotic questions, and some didn't even believe I didn't want it!\n\nAll in all, the primary effects are bad enough, meaning the things that are directly and consciously connected to the rape.  But the secondary effects can be even worse.  Thinking of myself as a "soiled dove," as it were, and especially when there were people who thought I was a volunteer.  At the age of 13!!!!!  Knowing it had changed my whole future as far as dating, marriage, everything having to do with sexuality was concerned.  And knowing that I didn't know how it would affect me in the long run, and feeling guilty that I just wanted to forget it ever happened.\n\nI have also concluded that my compulsive overeating was an unconscious effort to "hide behind fat."  My mother suggested that the reason I was raped was that I looked too good; so I'd look so bad no one would want me.\n\nBelieve me, the ripple effects of that one aspect have been very far-reaching.  Much of the drug use in my early 20s was an attempt (using amphetamines) to rid myself of the excess weight and be attractive to men -- and the ambiguities multiplied.  Once you are in the environment of illegal drugs, you get offered other things . . . the snowball was rolling.\n\nMen, think about all this the next time you start getting tempted to be a bit pushy about having your own way.
816663
I think there is allot of women who  throw the the RAPE work around very hazardously, not thinking of the repercussions.  To accuse some one of rape is a serious charge, that can change the lives of everybody involved for ever!   If convicted the guy would go to prison for years and the girl would be branded as the chick that got raped, and most guy wouldn't want any thing to do with that.  If she turns out that she is full of sh*t, then she will be the one is serious trouble w/ the law.   She should be careful and think about this before going any further.  Personally If I was at party and something like this happened, I would kick the sh*t out of that person.
483572
It may have been a completely unrelated incident. Have you experienced it more than once? If, not it probably had nothing to do with the sex. It was just a coincidence.
275574
I saw a case on Law and Order:SVU where 3 women raped a male stripper after a bachelorette party.  Other than that, I'm sure it's happened.  Men are less likely to report it though, so you don't hear about it that often.
666253
it could just be fear. But truthfully, i think it sounds potentially dangerous, and you should see a doc.  It could be dangerous.
223702
they usually do it because they think it makes them cool and makes them appear to be more "grown up." as for why people rape, those are the ones that have psychological issues and raping somebody makes them feel better about themselves, for a while at least.
1022485
I know this is personal, but have you encountered any situations with rape or rape victims? Our dreams are our subcocious, and sometimes they reflect personal events that have happened. I am a rape victim and have had several like encounters in my dreams. I would suggest, if this pertains to you, to try counseling and see if it helps.
988010
It does happen - the danger is very real in a misogynistic 'cultures' I do not know enough about Islam to know that this is why women have less rights in such countries - perhaps in certain offshoot groups.....  If the culture/religion says that women have less rights then the warning signs are there. We never believe that it could happen to us/ to our marriage. Life has a way of dumping you on your head though.  Even a different country and the same religion is dangerous. I no longer beleive that you should take such risks - too many mums and kids going through this - There is an organization called child-find for just such things.