if i had a girlfriend, and webroke up, but now we are still hooking up and haveing sex..is that a bad thing?
463931
not at all as long as its an agreement between both of you that its just casual sex. nothing wrong with familiar territory!! just dont be leading her on and saying you want to get back together or anything if you dont.
317247
Be careful when you go there. You do  want to copare your x to your new girl that is a quick way to dumpsville, But if you really perfer it that way you may bring it up while watching a porno or somthing like that. Be ready she may have soething she wants to change about you.
610497
Well if she used sex to "get you"....then it must have been pretty good, right?  Just try to re-kindle that.  You know it's in there somewhere, don't let her stop just because you're together now, you still have to make eachother happy and satisfied.  Don't cheat just yet.  Tell her you want her, and you miss the sex...compliment her and build her up a little..she'll be turned on before you know it.
329911
Talking dirty to someone over the internet does not constitute being boyfriend/girlfriend.  Maybe she grew tired of it, perhaps you should grow out of it too.
251313
No, nothing is wrong with you.  There are always different things that affect us all when it comes to sex.  Don't let this one thing be a big deal when the rest of the sex is so good.  Accept that it is something that doesn't need to be a part of your sex life instead of dwelling on it and possibly spoiling what you have.
438331
that's quite a past you have there...and from a women's point of view, we could deal with the sex shit with the clubs and hoe's etc coz at the end of the day everyone experiments...\n\nwhat you didn't say was how long you been with her? i mean this is just me assuming this but if your engaged then its been a while? coz some of that stuff was only four months ago?! which to be honest she may really struggle with...\n\n...as for that screwed up shit about animals...that's up to you if you tell her that part...personally you would be booted out the door straight away coz that ain't normal and how you did that is just beyond my imagination...i mean human and animals are not meant to have sex...and by job im also assuming you mean porn...i cant think of any other job that would involve having sex with animals...\n\ntell her the stripper stuff etc...tell her about the animals and she will more than likely be gone out your life for good!
573289
Is your boyfriend doing this? Or are you just wondering heh? I think that would be pretty weird, I don't blame you for being concerned about it. It is true that some guys have porn on their computers even during a relationship, but going to strip clubs sends a pretty overt message to you I'd assume.\n\nPersonally I wouldn't do it, I think it would be disrespectful. I'd only go if my girlfriend was into the beauty of the female body or something, thus taking her with me.
338729
If she tells you about it, it's pretty innocent.  I think you should be glad she's good enough to do that for someone who needs help.  Maybe one day you'll need help and you know she'll be willing to do it for you.\n\nWe need to encourage good people to do good things, not discourage them.\n\nIf she's your girlfriend, you better learn to trust her - or move on.
68025
I honor honesty above all. It's your decision want to be involved with her modern life or not. Whatever decision you take, be responsible. I am not that modern and don't believe in pure sex without love, but I don't judge. I respect people with different life style and realize their lives could be much more interesting than mine. You sounded eager to give a modern life a try. If you are prepared, why not? Wish you all the best!
116836
It is completely natural.  However, it is disrespectful if you are with your girlfriend.  Do it on your own time.
7912
You are not still a Slut....you're an ex-slut.\nAnd your's is a lucky man...he's got himself a faithful woman who has enough experience to really appreciate a good man and knows a few tricks to keep things spicy.
146579
If you are having this kind of a delimma, you may not be ready to be in an involved relationship.  You need to find someone you can date and have fun with but not be seriously involved with.  It is hardly fair to the person you are allegedly committed to for you to be considering a hookup.
1093579
It is not "wrong".\nThe only thing that is morally wrong is if you are lying to your girlfriend about your feeling for her.\nPeople fanticise about all sorts of things that given the opportunity they probably would not do.\nIf you need to pretend that your girlfriend is anyone other than herself, in order to get arroused though, then you are using her and need to stop\nGood luck
449045
My personal opinion, is that if you are doing something of a sexual nature with someone who is NOT your partner, it is cheating unless you have the partner's consent.\n\nOtherwise, it is a betrayal. You wouldn't be getting "caught" if it weren't wrong for your situation. You wouldn't be hiding out if it were ok.
859809
I'd label a guy that did this as a 'drama king'.  Hopefully you obtained the desired 'shock effect' you were looking for and can now brag about what you did on the internet.  You could have been more straightforward and broke things off in a more civilized manner.  But it wouldn't have been as much fun for you, now would it?  Do you think you did the right thing in this situation?  And if hundreds of people told you that you did the right thing, would you believe them?  I hope you are satisified with hurting this girl--it sounds like her only sin was wanting to be with you.  I'm glad you let her know what kind of guy you actually are, so she can get pass this and maybe find a decent guy.  You set things up so that you could break her down.  What a guy?!!
376573
Probably no.  You just have to show that you have the qualities he's looking for.\n\nAs for sexual - he's a guy.  So yes, he'll go further but don't get too attached because he's not (he's told you that already).  If you keep it as just casual with no strings attrached you'll be fine, but if you expect more I see you getting hurt.
212483
Im single and a sexually active man.  But i like to do it with my girlfriend .... and not foolin around with just anyone.