How can I get comfortable with the idea of bycicle riding with my husband?
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What would people think?  Beleive me, people aren't spending their time worried about your exercise habits, and even if they were, what difference does that make to you?  I think it's grand that your hubby wants to spend more quality time with you.  Don't be self-conscious, have a good time!
567968
Of course! You are in control of your own body. Better yet...do it with your partner.
529266
well, for a little while and then let him get involved.  Not just sit there and watch you go to town and make yourself orgasm.  When I'm going down on my wife, she will sometimes push my head away and do it herself for a while.  It"s hot, but then I want to finish what I started.
109918
Go to reputable shop. Think of the shop as a dating service and they will set you up so that you can pick your new love. Do not buy from the internet! Find the shop that will spend time to get to know you and your individual needs. Injury history and biomechanical issues will influence your choice. I agree with the other answer, ride before you buy. And though it is tempting, buy from the shop and not from the 'net! You get an education and countless perks and make actual friends. Well worth the few extra dollars. \nThe right frame will come to you and you will share many miles of freedom with your steed!
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I'm not sure if you have tried this, but;\n\nObviously, adjust your bike to a comfortable position (bike fitting and adding spacers to handlebar post.)\n\nAlso, this is so important-\n\nFOR PETE'S SAKE DO NOT WEAR BOXERS ON LONGER RIDES!\nI have personal experience with this.........very painful.\nWear something that will keep (everything) packaged in, like good briefs.
1084774
It's very unfortunate that your husband chooses to miss out on the greatest adventure in the world. I enjoyed every minute of my children growing up, and wouldn't have missed it for the world. Talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't know what he is doing to them. Don't fuss though, just talk. Good Luck!!
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Melissa, what does your man really like to do in his free time, besides dating you? I mean think of things he talks about and does as a hobby? I know that in one birthday it was cool as hell when my lady, at the time, surprised me by gathering my buddies and family in her apartment Club House for a surprise party. She pulled off the whole thing famiously. Called all the people, organized who was brining what, organized the decorations and kept me in the dark for 3 months. I mean that kicks ass. \n\nOn another front, I know that if you man likes doing a particular sport of hobby you could take part in it with him. I would love for my now wife to get on the back of my Honda crusier and ride with me. She has an honest fear of being on motorcycles so I can understand why she does not. However, the point being is there something that your man does which you could share which possibly you have not at this point? In either case it may just mean the world to him!\n\nPeace and good luck on the ideas.
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Do you not have any imagination? \nDo what comes natural to you and your partner. \nIf it feels good and does not hurt anyone do it...You both have to be willing.\nYou can buy books and CD's on this subject...
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If she has mentioned it, might want to, and you mentioned it.  There is enough said.  The ball is in her court and if you push things, a) it probably will never happen and b) even if it does she is going to resent you either way.\n\nFor most people, leaving it as a fantasy can be a great way to spice up your intimate lives.  It can also be the safest most prudent, moral path to take. \n\nIf you two decide to go there together.  \n- Make sure you discuss what is and is not acceptable (i.e. rules), \n- either one of you can say stop, at any time, with no need to explain or discuss it further,\n- Can not ever look back and make it a bad thing\n- Your wife is in control, and dont you forget it.  She determines what happens, when, and how.  \n- Have a safety word, either one can use, that means stop, do something else, or take a break\n\nMany people have gone there, it can be an incredible experience or it can have disasterous consequences - understand that.  Do you want to risk your relationship and your marraige.  Once you cross that line, how far will you go.  Will either of you go there alone, without the other (oops)\n\nAlso, the third person is just that, an outsider whom you have let into your private lives (to spice things up).  Your wife is the most important person in your life, as you should be to her - dont forget that for an instant.  It also helps if your wife has some curiosity or desire about being with another lady.
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I know it is hard to do this, with work and a baby, but pamper yourself.  Take an afternoon to relax and unwind.  You need to release your stress.  Once you are feeling better, then it is your husbands turn.  Babies are very time consuming and men tend to get jealous.  You need to make him feel like he is your number one priority.  This means that he is more important than work, money, and for the moment even your baby.  She has your attention every waking moment that the two of you are together.  It will be ok to let daddy come first once in a while.\n\nNext, think about the first five minutes when you see your husband.  Both before and after work.  The first five minutes set the mood for the rest of the day.  If the baby wakes you up before the alarm clock, roll over, give him a big kiss and tell him you love him.  This only takes a few seconds, and he will feel important.  Then after work, don't start in with how bad work was and how big a jerk your boss is.  Instead, greet your husband with a big hug and a kiss.  Give him time to relax and unwind.  He may have had an equally stressful day.  Just set the mood for the evening with a positive beginning.\n\nLast, find time to be alone.  Have a trusted friend or relative (this way you don't have to pay a babysitter) watch the baby for an hour or two.  Have a date night at least once a month.  More if you can get the childcare.  If money is tight, you can pack a lunch and just go sit in a park under a tree or something. If it is too cold for this, you may just go have a soda or coffee, something inexpensive.  The point is, spend time together enjoying each other's company.\n\nA really good option to going out, is staying in for a romantic evening while that relative has the baby.  You can get a few candles and light them around the house or just the bedroom.  Surprise him with a note, in a place you know he will find right away, telling him you've been thinking about him all day and you are waiting for him in your room.  (One time, I even made a path of Hershey's kisses from the front door to the bedroom.)  Be waiting for him on your bed wearing something sexy.  This will let him know that you love him and that you were thinking of his needs.
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WOW!  A cross country drive!  That is wild!  She is either going to be thrilled or think you are out of your mind.  If I were you I would feel her out a little on the idea of a transcontinetal flight. If it won't freak her out, then go for it!
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Primal sex is quite often a fantasy of most guys, if I were you I'd have a chat with your hubbie, theres a good chance he will be happy to help you, as long as your not asking him to hit you or anything like that, just tell him that you want him to come home from work and with out saying anything to you, throw you up against the wall, hike up your skirt and rip your panties off and have at it right there on the kitchen table...I serious doubt he will have any problems with that. Talk to him thats the best advise I can give you...Hope this helps, IM me n let me know
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Depends what rocks your boat really. My partner and I like this activity but not everyone does. That's life. Just as long as you have fun!!
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you should be more specific about what you want to know.\nsex is fun, and good excercise, and an all around good thing! the first time can hurt, usually does, it can also be scarry! its something new for you to experience. just relax and let whatever happens happen. its a natural thing, and is not something to be ashamed of.\nyou might try looking it up in the dictionary or googling it!as to get more information.\ncongrats on your marriage!
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Find a grassy park or golf course.  \n\nWear some blue jeans.\n\nBring a friend.  \n\nStart with the bicycle seat height too low at first--set it so that your legs reach the ground while seated.  Later, you will set it high so that your legs straighten while pedaling, but save that for next week.  ;)\n\nGet the friend to push you very quickly while you're upon the bike, on the nice soft grassy area. \n\nTRY TO GO FAST!\n\nSlow bikes are nearly impossible to balance.  So, a bit of speed helps.  Landing on the grass won't really hurt, so this can let you go fast enough to balance easily.  \n\nIn all 50 states, it is legal to ride upon the sidewalk any time you feel endangered by the car traffic.  \n\nIt is also legal to ride upon the sidewalk whenever the cars are going fast and they have only one lane each direction.  \n\nIt is not a good idea to ride upon a sidewalk because many cyclists are hit by cars as the cars suddenly turn right and drive across the sidewalk and into a parking lot or side road.  So, it is usually much safer to ride on the street.  \n\nA neighborhood street is usually better than a major street.  \n\nJudge the desperation (mood) of the drivers, and do always make eye contact with a driver who might turn right--right over you.  \n\nIf a car hits you from the side, it is considered that the cyclist ran out in front of the car.  However, if a car hits you from behind (very rare!) then it is nearly certain to make you a lot of money.  Most car drivers know that rear-ending someone can cost a fortune.  This is another reason not to ride on the sidewalk.  \n\nHowever, if you're sharing a lane with the cars, make sure it is wide enough on the right to allow you some room.  If not, take the whole lane, but use a rear "blinkie" and follow a somewhat erratic (not quite straight) path so that you're easier to notice by the car driver.  \n\nHave fun!
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just being straight up would be best.\n\ni have to read between the lines, not many details...\n\nit seems like there could be several causes... hang-ups, priorities, miscommunication, not being in the mood, fear of the unknown, performance anxiety, him not knowing your boundaries...\n\ntell your hubby how you feel, and let him know what you had in mind, and let him know you REALLY want it, there will be no pressure, no judgment, and let him know he can't screw it up... even if it doesn't work right the first time, you want to try something new for excitement.
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Go to the bike shop and be fitted. Don't listen to these rules of thumb, that's a load of crap. There are to many variables involved, Height, Leg Lenght, upper body,and so on. Everyone is different so go to a Bike Shop and do it correctly. ( you'll be glad you did )\n\nThe people who use those rules of thumb often discontinue riding after a short time because they become uncomfortable with there bikes and riding becomes work instead of being enjoyable.