Iam ment to be single the rest of my life!?
474929
These things happen to most of us, but if you like some one, you should really tell him/her about your feelings, don't wait for them to make the first step. Once you make the first step, all is easy.
615176
Actually, I have watched 4 of my friends do it.  It is a mix of things.  It's the fear of being alone, it's the proverbial ticking clock, it's desperation (if doesn't marry me, maybe no one ever will), it's status (I'm marryable.)  There's more to it than that, but basically it's insecurity and the clock.  Recipe for a bomb if you ask me.  I'll stay single, thank you.  I'm very picky.
597716
No...you can't live the single bachelor life forever...I can't believe these women have allowed you to do it this long. you have to chose.\nSeeings as how this seems to be such a chore and hard decision for you...if I was one of them I would make the choice very easy on you and not keep myself as an option for you.
453766
i think it's alright. everyone is stil single, you are free to talk to everyone. \nunless, you are already committed to someone...
554116
Start doing things for yourself.  Follow a dream, get a new hobby, find an activity you always wanted to try.  The key is to do something that you can feel good about doing for yourself, regardless of whos in or out of your life.\n\nIt seems you're thinking too much the guy , a guy  or having no guy.   Your life's about making the most of an opportunity to find and do what makes you happy.  People will come and go and when the right guy comes along, he'll  see how you're enjoying life and want to be part of that... not see that you are waiting for him and give up his life to be the center of yours. Hope this helps put things in perspective.
719255
I think you need to explore life and travel before settling down.  Go to college, get a career for yourself, get a job, an apartment.  See what it's like to live on your own.  Be independent before you become dependent on anyone.  Trust me, I was with someone but I cut him short, did all the above and now I am married with child and I can't tell you how happy I am.  I've done the things I wanted to before settling down.
442059
When you are dealing with loneliness..read a book, watch tv, listen to music, or watch movies. \nI know its hard being single, but you dont need a man to be happy! \nYou probably do have so much to give, but take your time you have a life ahead of you. Right now worry about yourself. Make life plans. Write out pros and cons of having a relationship, make out a list of what qualities you are looking for in a guy. But, don't rush into anything if you aren't ready for it. A relationship is a major thing, cause you have to deal with both your life and be in his life at the same time. Please take it from someone who knows, I finally found someone to be with and I'm happily engaged, it took 5 years, but I waited and I found the man of my dreams!
930074
I understand where you are coming from and I too am single and feel that I will be forever unless I do something pretty soon!. I am a very lovely and single, beautiful 33 year old and grown out of pubs and clubbing where there are streams of teenagers and mid twenties.  \n\nThere is no where in my town appropriate for people of my age socializing-wize and used to meet my partners whilst at University so now I am no longer a student, this makes things akward again!.  Everywhere I go, I see married couples and loved-up youngsters or singles like myself. Most are all now on the internet but I am so wary of that stuff when there are married men posing as single on these sites and men who post on every sight in search of more than one love-interest.\n\nIt is diffocult I must admit but the trick is to remain optomistic and be very specific about what you are looking for in a man and then go to places that you are most likely to meet these types of men. Bars and clubs are okay, but there are a lot out there looking for fun only and unless you are prepared for that and happy with it until you get to know a guy, then sitting around will do not much good either.\n\nI am more conscious as I have gotten older but also more decided about what I want in a man and that is friendship.  This is the best basis for all relationships to be lasting.  I am determined to be married but once I get myself off my but and start making things happen.
734239
I'd say your doomed.  You will wait and hang around this one in your mind perfect guy..and let the world pass you by.  Then one day you will be old and alone with a bunch of kids and no guy will want you..
586476
I AM Single ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,what next
1043290
stay single and get counciling. don't get into datin realtionships until you have control of the problem.
290921
You don't have to love anyone, or be in a relationship. There's no point hooking up with someone just because you're single. Be choosy, I am and I'm much happier than the people I know who bounce from guy to guy. Be your own person, you don't need anyone else till you see what you want.
486525
go on n splurge on urself.spend sum quality time wid urself,hang out wid single frnds,pursue a hobby or sumthin new u always wantd 2 do but never had time 4 it.change ur daily routine.very soon u'll find a gr8 change in ur life.HOPE U DO WELL!!!
559818
this is going to do you some good. i was in the same situation about a year ago i always leaned on my gf and it was a good experince i had to learn to depend on myself cause your signifiacnt other might not always be there. and you need to be happy with yourself and depend on yourself. and be independent and do things for yourself.  then you will truely be happy and find the right guy for you. not one you need to be happy. you should be happy if you have a guy or not
976825
single to long wants to have relationship
437922
Find a nice SINGLE guy. Married equals not for you!
353822
YOU don't. You start with you. Like yourself, in fact love yourself. No one will see any value in you if you can't see it in yourself. Since you are young and have your whole life ahead of you I will tell you a secret. You will have many loves, and they all will be special. To focus on a single individual at this time in your life will let much of life slip by. You want to get as much out of life as you can, every day. So go out there and make all the friends you can; soon enough love will come around.