I have this really big crush on this guy but the thing is that my best friend like hims too? What should i do?
464447
ask your friend about him
1154766
Join the club! You and I are in like the exact same predicament. Anyways, um, if you two are good friends, then you should just tell him that you like him. There's a chance he'll like you too. God, if only I could follow my own advice...\n\nI know what you're thinking, it's much easier said than done. But that's my best advice. And to tell you the truth, that's what most people in here are going to tell you to do. Sorry if I wasn't very helpful. Good luck!
70510
well if ur best friends goes out with the guy u like u should either look for another boy or man or watever or say something to ur best friend and say something about it......\npeace out\nmanny
343503
He likes you a lot.. maybe as a friend maybe more... just talk to him more.. see what happens then
53587
Best friends are tricky...  You don't want to risk losing the relationship you have, but will never stop asking "What if?" unless you go forward.  If you feel, being honest to yourself, that you have those feelings towards him...  go for it.  There is a chance that it won't work, but there is ALWAYS that chance in any new relationship.  On the other hand, there's a chance that you may have the most incredibly romantic relationship of your life and regret not doing something earlier.  It is so worth the risk.
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
1180162
I have a huge crush on this guy and I have had it for a very long time, but there is no way that I could ever tell him. We are really good friends and I don't want to mess anything up.
511423
Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
1131122
What's wrong with liking him if you do?  I think that once you really get to know someone, you can't help  but love them to some extent.  My best friend in the world is a guy, and I love him.  It's hard sometimes, but you can't ignore the feelings, and nothing's going to make them go away.  It might help if you tell him how you feel.  If he likes you, then maybe you can hook up, or if he doesn't then maybe that'll give you some closure on the subject.
599879
just confront him n tell him bout ur feelings that u have a crush on him... i think he would understand since he's a close friend n u should express ur feelings... just make sure it doesnt harm the friendship but do tell him bout what u're feeling for him...
919559
It sounds like you have a crush on each other and neither one of you knows how to handle it. Be careful. The best way to forget him is to go on with your life. Find a new love interest but it will still take time. But best friends do sometimes make the best lovers and long lasting relationships. He might be picking on you because your friends and he doesn't know how to let you know he just might want more. If it doesn't work out you risk loosing the friendship.
516706
u could like him but who do u like better Ur friend or him and if u say him and Ur willing to risk Ur friendship makes sure he like u cause then u will be stupid and alone..Is it worth it?
420787
If you reallly like him, then approach him and let him know.  He may really like you too, and may be too shy to make the first move.
150892
First off..if you think your friend likes him too, talk to your friend before makeing any contact with this guy.If you guys are really good friends don't ruin a friendship over a guy.\nSecondly..after you talk with your friend and you guys make an agreement of some kind, then try talking to the guy. Sounds to me he likes you.But you will never know until you talk to him. Maybe he is just a little shy :) Good luck and think before you act.
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
1124058
Well if your best friend is gay then that means you two dont really have much of a chance.  I guess i would tell him how you feel just to get it out in the open.  It may be easier for you to deal with it that way.  Even tho you may not ever get to be with him, he will still always be an important role in your life.  Boyfriends may come and go for both of you but you'll still always have eachother as friends.
666090
Two things that may happen. Either your bestfriend will accept it and ask you if you want to move the friendship to another level. Or he will be surprise and will start avoiding you especially if he likes someone else. It will surely be a tough decision and you are the only one who can make it.