can anyone tell me the best way to help my friend change her mind about pearcing her private parts?
468650
Being a minor doesn't she have to have a parents permission to do something like that. If not it should be that way. I have never had to deal with a situation like this, but I would not do it myself because of the pain it would cause first of all. Then there are all of the what ifs. If it got pulled out by someone? If it got infected? If it caused damage to the sensations felt by that part of your body? There are a lot of things your friend needs to think about before going through with this. It may seem like a cool thing to at the moment, but how is she going to feel about it if problems arise from it or in the future?
330908
Well, go ahead and make her mad, if that's what it takes to get the point across!! She sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do, if she changes her mind about a lifelong belief, just for overhearing a conversation about your belief.  I think that what your friend is going through is finding herself and establishing her own truths through experience. I think we all go through that at some point in life. But, I feel you should talk to her at least to let her know to be her own woman and not just another gulliable follower. Just my opinion.\n-Reggie
206886
Trust me if you are having those urges she senses something isnt right. So you need to tell her. If it ruins the relationship then so be it. But you can't try to shutdown those urges and try to be someone you are not. Its just not fair to anyone. Plus don't you think she deserves to know the truth? Respect her enough to tell her the truth.
1084671
Tell her your gay then strip naked and act like its nothing
53446
Heres what you can do.  Hook her up with one of your guy friends she does not know. Tell your friend to put it in her a** during intercourse. That should keep her away from guys for a while.
610136
Bring the matter up gently, at a time when you two are alone so she won't feel uncomfortable speaking candidly.  Let her know from the beginning that no matter how she lives her life, you value her friendship and are not going to abandon her (as I HOPE you won't), but if it turns out that she is gay and has been making some advances, you need to tell her that, while you support her in what she thinks is the right way to live her life, you do not think that's the right choice for you.  Good luck, and remember friendships are REALLY important!
928611
Talk to your mother. If you really want to stop her and don't care how drastic your steps are, talk to her parents. This will not be taken well be your friend, but believe me that you are being a very good friend and helping her more than she realizes now. I wish I had had friends like you at several points in my life. And don't pay attention to that terrible parent that put a 6th grader on birth control; they are trying to raise a slvt. Fine, birth control will prevent pregnancy, but I have yet to hear of a pill that restores self-respect or a ruined reputation to the commonly-had. Your friend will look back in later days and thank you for helping her keep hers.
111369
It's been my experience that people will do what they want to, no matter what you tell them. They think they have all the answers they need and know what's best for them. Even if you had lots of experience in this area, they'll still do what they want. Many will actually get angry with you for trying to stop their "happiness". I would just let her know that you love her and only want what's best, but you will back off and let her choose her own path, even if it means pain & rejection of her boyfriend. Let her know that you'll always be there for her if she needs a shoulder or an ear to listen. Leave the door of friendship open, because she's gonna need it. This is a train wreck, waiting to happen. You know it. I know it. Been there, done that...it bites! Sounds like she wants to get pregnant. I know a few young gals like her. They think having a baby will solve all their problems and make their fella stay with them forever. It often drives them away, leaving the gal with a baby and more problems that she's not ready to handle yet. It's a long downward spiral. You are a good friend. You see what could happen and you're trying to save her from herself. You can't. If you push too much, she'll just cut you out of her life, slamming the door of friendship in your face, with no way out for her when her world falls apart. And actually, birth control & condoms aren't 100%, as I'm sure you know. I have a 22 year old girl because of failed birth control. Unfortunately, I think you're just going to have to allow her the opportunity for experience to be her teacher. Just be there for her. <*)))><
585516
Seek professional help. First you need to tell her that she is pretty rude for thinking that you won't tell anyone that she is hurting her bestfriend, (herself). And if your friend is really you. Tell an adult at school or your parents, or a doctor. either way, this is not healthy behaviour and it is disgusting.
401970
She'll be okay when she becomes used to the way she looks.  Definitely don't say anything.  She needs to have privacy, and thinking that other people are talking about her breasts will make her even more aware that she's "different".\nYour friend just needs to downplay the significance of her breasts.  She'll accept things in her own time
70953
Well, you can never "make" someone understand anything, that is what makes it the worst.  The best you can do is remind her that lesbians are normal, feeling, people just like everone else.  Just because they feel differently doesn't mean they are wrong.  Different taiste, and attractions, doesn't mean a person is going to hell, and it doesn't mean they need to be saved.  If your friend refuses to see things from an accepting point of view, then you could try asking her this; "What if your mom recently realised she was gay, do you think you would suddenly decide she wasn't worth your time too??"
596599
tell her about what is happening to her body and show her how to use a tampon. It is easy! be careful. good luck
1127540
do not have sex with her \nlet her have it with you
181939
The best answer is to be there.  Let her know that you are interested, and that you are there for her as a friend at the very least.  You can't "make" anyone change their minds... but if you demonstrate your ability and sincerity, then they at least have the option.
881768
That's one of life's awkward moments.\n\nBut she should be told,,\nshe may not be aware of how offensive her breath is.\n\nBe considerate and polite,,and talk with her in PRIVATE.\n\nNotice I said,,'Talk with her"\nand not "TELL HER"\n\nThat's an important difference in how you tell people about sensitive matters. \n\nStart by explaining to her that You ARE her friend,,\nand You are NOT criticizing her.\n\nLet her know that the subject is embarrasing both of you.\n\nBut you are telling her because You think she needs to know.\n\nIf it was YOU,,,You would want to know,Right?\n\nYou would feel bad if nobody Told You,,\nthen you heard somebody talking about it behind your back.\n\nBad breath can be caused by many things besides just not brushing teeth..\nSome things are pretty  serious medical conditions.\n\nShe could have a bad tooth,gum infection,,a sinus infection,,lots of things.\n\nIt WILL be awkward for You to start talking about it,,,\nbut soon you will relax and she WILL appreciate that \nYOU cared enough about her\n to put yourself on the spot to HELP her.\n\nIt's never Fun or Easy to do something like that.\n\nIf YOU can smell it,so can everybody else.\n\nAnd if she dont Know,,somebody will eventually hurt her feelings or embarrass her real bad.\n\njust Be Kind,,and You'll be Fine:)\n\nGood Luck,,to You & your friend
1139252
I was always taught that honesty was the best policy. But remember she may not want to here what you have to say. But she needs to know why you do not wish to be friends with her . Just maybe by telling her the truth  and letting her know about the bad things she does might make her think and change her ways . Remember it could always go the other way too . But if she truly wants to be your friend she will listen with an open mind and take in what you have to say . good luck .
387058
Yes I would be kinda scared off to! Dont tickle fight with her any more,seems like she has a big issue to deal with!Maybe your friend needs to find herself a sex partner to relieve her,but if thats not what she wants,Id have a serious talk with her before she gets the wrong impressions!!