Is it polite to get drunk at your bosses wedding Reception?
467539
Yes ...try and throw up on the bride, cause a fight, get your tittts out and push over the wedding cake.....then head straight for the job centre
508899
Legally - yes, if you are serving the alcohol you can be held liable for your guests action while he/she is intoxicated. For example, if he/she wrecks on his way home from your house while trashed, the victim of the wreck can actually sue you as well as the drunken driver
392435
If the host(ess) offers, then it is more than fine.\nI have asked, on occassion, but only with family and close friends.  Once my dh was home sick, so I asked to bring a small piece of cake home to him.
508394
Assuming that you were all invited I would think it would a breach of etiquette to do that but honestly I don't see a problem with it.  First of all the couple isn't going to know because there are usually so many people at weddings they wouldn't even know that weren't at the actual ceremony. When the bride comes down the aisle she is going to have her eye on one person.......the groom.  I doubt anybody would even notice if you just showed up at the reception.  Secondly for all they know you could have to work or something and could only make it in time to the reception.  If you really don't want to go to the ceremony I wouldn't blame you for just going to the reception and giving the happy couple your well wishes.
700076
This is how I'm expected to do it... it really depends what its for though.\n\n\nTo (Person)\nHead of (Department name)\n\nDear Sir/Madam\nI recieved your invitation (or what the invite type was called) to/for the (name of meeting)\n(If relevant, thank them for the invite; however if it's something you'd normally be expected to attend, then there's no reason to thank them.)\nI regret to inform you I am unable to attend, and am sending my apologies.\n(It is usually polite ettiquette to give reason here.)\nEDIT: you could say: I have a previous appointment that I am unable to reschedule. Please give my apologies for the meeting...\n\nSincerely\n(Your name)\n(Your position in department if relevant)
316305
I've never heard of a semi-informal party. But since isn't strictly a social event (because it's being held by your partner organization), I suggest you not bring any gift. It's not clear if there is a "real" host or hostess as there would be in a purely social event. And customs can vary widely from culture to culture. Rather than risk offending someone, go empty-handed. (And definitely do NOT bring dessert or any other food! You would only do that if the host or hostess was a really close personal friend and you had arranged beforehand to bring food. Otherwise, it's a breach of etiquette -- at least in the U.S.)
309541
Absolutely. People will sometimes call them "men of honor" or some other clever name. Talk to a wedding planner even if you don't use them. Just tell them you need help with an etiquette question and you don't know what to call your best friend who is standing up for you at your wedding. \n\nAs far as if it's ok or not..yup. It's your day and you can do what you want. I've seen wedding that have had men be the "maid of honor" so to speak.
1187090
From an etiquette point of view, it is not allowed to ask for anything other than the presence of the invitee. If you can't afford the party, you should downsize it, maybe just rent a waterslide.\n\nYou can, of course, go through the guests' pockets which they will conveniently leave somewhere, but as Nixon once said, that would be wrong.
738651
If it is a groovy suit with a sparkly tie and nice hanky for a laugh. Ages since I have been to a good family wedding without even mentioning the catastrophe of my own - first they weren't going, then they bloody were, and then we had to get married in a fecking registrars and the head housekeeper or some old titt or another, said she would do all the nosh - I mean I don't mind some homemade pies and offal when out hunting, but oh God the food was like school dinners (they love muck like that as they don't have much teeth through inter breeding) Anyway, I said bugger this, I'm off for a fag and drink and then all hell let loose.  I escaped with a half bottle of grouse and half of gin and slept like a kitten.   So, the moral of the story, is do what you like as it will offend someone.
869025
The best way to start is to say "you'll have to excuse me because I'm not much of a speechwriter and I'm terrified standing up here right now..."Then,your audience will give you a little slack no matter what you say.\n  Write something from the heart.Talk about how you met.Recall a time when she really came through for you as a friend.End with what an honor it is to be her bridesmaid on this very special day in her life.Don't overdue the alcohol,\nhave one or two drinks max to loosen you up.\nTake this advise,give me best answer,and I promise you'll do just fine.Good luck!
417800
Introduce the bride & groom as they enter the reception, "ladies & gentleman...may I introduce Mr & Mrs  John Smith"...applause applause...you would also do the a toast...tell some funny story about them as children or some anetdote (sp?) that their parents might share...and wish them much happiness yadda yadda...also introduce the band, thank everybody for coming...make various announcements as needed...that sort of thing...oh..& dress real nice too!
668860
LMAO!! Is this on your wedding night? If so, uhmm.. you might be too tired...
480525
Did you make up that question? If you're serious, don't say anything to him. He'll wonder why you're there, in the first place. And he may already know about it but is embarrassed. It's never a good idea to embarrass your boss. Keep your lip zipped. Maybe it isn't even her.
52646
Yes, If anyone brings you plates, drinks, or helps you in anyway other than seat you, you should leave somthing. I worked at a place like that.
70821
Don't tend to 'til my wedding night! \n\n;)
966979
Can I have some of whatever you're drinking?
929233
Yes, you want to stand. Standing will give the appearance that you are confident person,look them in the eye and have something warm to say to them while shaking their hand. Don't say the usual greeting others in your department have already said, say something unique.  When you stand your appearance is eye to eye. In a power position you don't want others to look down on you, and they will if you are sitting. Remember to shake hands firmly. Practice with your husband. A wimpy handshake can also leave your reputation as being soft.\nThese are opportunities for your boss to notice you. You would be a fool not to take advantage of them. Don't worry about the mistakes you have made, there will be many more opportunities for you to shine!