is reaching an orgasm easy for ladies during love making or it needs a rocket science????
456098
Reaching an orgasm varies in women. Personally, it all depends on if your partner is experienced or not in getting you there, OR if you know your own body well enough in assisting him or you doing it yourself. Most women I know, DO NOT have orgasms often. I would think that its harder for women.
477631
Yes, it is possible. Just as for men, female orgasms can be very different and their intensity can vary a lot too. Some can be really draining. Then again, it can be a nice excuse to avoid sex... I think that by observing her reactions you can estimate if her orgasms are really so intense and draining.
328435
If you're talking about "spankin the monkey" or "double clicking your mouse" (for the females out there)...sometimes it is as good as sex.  Because, who knows you better than yourself?!  And if you wanted to try a new way or have a quick one, you don't have to worry about the foreplay...it's ready to go, because you're ready to go.  I mean, think about it..it's not a tease.  Of course it takes dedication sometimes (for some ladies), but you know what you want...an orgasm!  I mean seriously...who teases theirself "yea, yea, yea, yea.....no!  Take me home!" (the outstanding standup of Robert Schimmel)
816052
Seriously?\n\nThere's not real methodology.  Every woman is different, and what works for one might be boring for another.  What you need to do is listen, listen, listen, and be obedient.  What makes a lover good and skillfull is the fact that they are highly observant- they note the changes in your breathing, the little gasp, that moan, the movement of your body, that say "Oh yes, there", or "Ah, harder".  Especially for women who are pretty silent and still in bed- they think people have innate sexual prowess because "My god, she read my mind and gave me everything I wanted!".  But it's just not so- listen and try to discern what she likes.\n\nIf all else fails, do for her what would feel good to you.\n\nEnjoy and have fun!
548438
The intensity of a woman's orgasm has more to do with her head ie state of mind then with any physical manipulation.  If she is able to relax and is "open" to the idea (of using a vibrator) most likely she'll have the orgasm.
572104
Making love, is a lot like good cooking....it takes a long time, if it's good. Too many people rush to get done, instead of enjoying the experience.  There is the "quickie", but lovemaking should be slow, relaxed, and enjoyable. Guys "get there" too quick if they go too fast, so that's probably why he takes it slow. Enjoy it!!
303887
??????????????????????????????????????????????????\nMORE POWER TO US, BECAUSE WOMEN CAN PRODUCE MORE (LIKE YOU PUT IT) FLOODS OF FLUIDS DURING A real orgasm then men will ever be able to.  MOST MEN LIMP OUT AFTER THE FIRST TIME BUT WOMEN.. TOUCH US JUST RIGHT AND WATCH OUT HERE WE GO AGAIN....  WE ARE LIKE THE ENERGIZER BATTERY WE KEEP GOING AND GOING....
832846
Yes you will present the In's and outs of sexual positions, and state how effective they are in reaching the spots that bring a woman to orgasm....remember only those positions that leave lasting effect, are you even capable of that?.....
326675
For some women it is not painful, most important is the man who is doing it, if it is done with lots of lubrication, tenderness and patience, not long and it ends up being a wonderful form of love making. Though not for all women it is by all means worth the effort.
794852
There is a way. It is a secret you learn from experience. You see orgasm is a physical thing with men. But women are a little bit more tricky its a mind and body thing both have to be on the same page. Try on top if you are waiting for him you will be sixty by the time you orgasm. On top you can accomplish clitoral and cervical stimulation by a rocking back and forth motion you will have to determine how slow or fast. but again I say you have to be mentally motivated. Good Luck.
1128862
No, it is something that women really get huge orgasms over.  We don't do it as the only sex, but as a finish.  Haven't you ever fantasized about having both ends filled at the same time?  It is a fulfillment of that for the girl.  Actually its more work for the guy, but the end is worth it watching her orgasm like never before.
641692
I have discovered that in many areas of life it may be possible to speak meaningfully about ‘typical women' or typical men.  However, in the sexual arena, far fewer women are ‘typical’ than most people and most women would suspect, even about themselves.  It’s a very rare woman that doesn’t have the potential to occasionally respond ultra-quickly; and fairly regularly to achieve hyper-orgasmic expression (say 12-20 orgasms in two or three sessions within 4-8 hours).\n\nYour question, nevertheless, is a good one and deserving of a well thought out answer.\n\nIn general, it depends upon the woman.  Women's sexual nature is far more complex, singular and even exotic than most men's is.  Some women, once involved with a lover that’s taught them to maximize their sexuality, can under some conditions be brought or bring themselves to orgasm in less than a minute, occasionally as quick as 20 seconds. In fact such women can at times, put great, occasionally unwanted, pressure on a man in ‘quickie’ situations. LOL!!! Should you find yourself involved in such a 'quandry,' just remember that fingers were made before, ahem, 'forks.'\n\nOn the other hand, a rare few women may never orgasm. Though I suspect that emotional history or abusive background is largely to blame, I’m not an expert on this . . . and have only run into one such female, and she might have suffered from a physiological condition.  Not being a doctor I can’t say.  The vast majority of orgasmless women, say 99.999%, are far closer to being highly orgasmic than to being ‘frigid’ and only await attraction to a skilled and sensitive lover to set them free.  That last word, ‘frigid’ is one that I suspect the world would be better off without.  It tends to be a lie used by men to attempt covering up their own inadequacies as lovers.\n\nHowever, women have a responsibility to themselves to discover their own sexual potential and much can be done on their own.  I have found that women that never masturbate tend to be less liberated ‘colder’ and more selfish in bed.  They tend to believe that sex is dirty stuff and once brought to orgasm tend to ‘get in a rut’ in which they favor only one sexual position and to care less about their lover than women who have proven themselves highly successful in auto-eroticism (masturbation).  So I heartily recommend every woman learn about her own body both in a hands off (anatomy lessons) and hands on manner LOL.  \n\nFor example, I have known several women who needed me to teach them about their clitoris’s existence.  Many did not know about the G-spot.  Indeed, I’ve never once met a woman who knew about her deep spot (epicenter) before I introduced it to her.  Besides ‘hands on,’ every woman ought to own a vibrator.  Some men are afraid of vibrators, which is silly.\n\nBelieve me it’s no threat to a good lover.  Instead a vibrator can be incorporated quite pleasantly into virtually any manner of foreplay and many exotic positions (lady in a swing); or even anal sexuality.  By the way, this last 'method'; and deep spot stimulation are the two roads to success I've found most consistent in promoting epicenter orgasms and extreme multiple orgasms:  as one of my partners said, "Oh my, I never expected that kind of reaction!" (The keys to success in anal are: introduce her to the sheer ecstasy of a gentle well oiled finger during intercourse, then a second a few days later ever so gently; and then  utter gradualism on the big day; lots of lubrication; and the female has the final say in every aspect at every moment.  Use a rubber and abject cleanliness must be observed at every stage; never contact anus first then vagina, NEVER.)\n\nOne question you might have asked but didn't involves female ejaculation.  I've only been involved six times in my life with this phenomenon and only once from intercourse, it's far easier to stimulate a woman
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No it's because he's not doing it right or maybe he's ejaculating before she orgasms', it usually take a woman 20-30 minute to get an orgasm. if you think your not doing it good ask her what's her favorite positions and try to pleasure in every way possible, try to go down on her then make love to her.
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LOL at the fingers and tongues answer... if you can get your tongue down there you've got it made! :D\n\nSeriously, though, it's harder for a woman to orgasm just from penetration.. so a dildo or fingers or (sigh) cucumbers generally don't work as well.  \n\nClitoral stimulation is the way to go... if you don't know where that is, touch your finger to the top edge of your vaginal opening, then pull it towards your belly button... there's a small bump towards the top of your vagina that feels really really good to touch.\n\nStimulation can be done in lots of ways... repeated touching (often touching the sides feels better than just rubbing the round part), nearly anything that vibrates (back massagers, electric toothbrushes, etc) and if you have one of those cool shower heads with the adjustable spray intensity, that has a long hose, that will rock your world.\n\nSo have fun, take your time, and remember that it's a normal and healthy activity... and one that will make you a better lover!
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Not many people believe that the act of satisfying a woman orally could be considered an art. It’s hard to believe how many people still have no idea how intense that cunnilingus can be for a woman, and even harder to believe is the amount of men who think they are good at it when they are really lost.\n\nMost men like to jump right in and get started but unless the woman is already extremely turned on this can be very uncomfortable for her. To give a woman good head so to say, is to start off very slowly working your way to it. Kiss her softly on her lips nibble at her ear and the nap of her neck. When you get to her breasts take your time and enjoy them, gently caressing them teasing her.\n\nMost women love to be teased it’s an easy form of foreplay that will ensure she will be turned on when you get down to her most private of areas. An interesting fact: women are able to have multiple orgasms, everyone knows that right? Well did you know they are capable of having close to 60 an hour that’s an orgasm every minute! ;)\n\nThe best way to give a woman 60 orgasms an hour is with oral sex. Cunnilingus shouldn’t be considered a form of foreplay, no, not at all. Cunnilingus is sex for women without penetration! If you want to completely satisfy your woman don’t expect sex when you go down on her, tell her that you don’t expect sex to come out of what you are going to do to her. That will relieve any inhibitions she may have for wanting to hold back for intercourse, and allow her to enjoy the soft warm caress of your mouth.\n\nSome important things to keep in mind when you are going down on her: keep the area moist especially if you are using any fingers to help her along. There are a ton of nerve endings in her private area and when you try to insert a dry digit it will pull on her skin and be extremely uncomfortable for her. Pay special attention to her breathing and body movements. Not all women are the same and you need to learn what yours will do when she is having an orgasm. She may hold her breath, or gasp for air. She may lay extremely still, or heave about like a bucking bronco.\n\nOne of the key things you are going to be on the look out for is the all mighty command not to stop. When you hear this, what ever it is you are doing, keep doing it. It is very important to listen to your woman, when she tells you anything during oral sex, her likes and dislikes after all she is the recipient.\n\nWhen it comes to pleasing a woman, knowledge is power.   Mmmmmmmm\n\nGood luck!
215945
The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.
405532
Well, there are many ways to make a woman have an orgasm easily...first of which is attentiveness...be attentive to her and build a rapport....then play. Play with her clit, her vagina, and for God's sake man, make sure you pay attention to her if she indicates she like something take note of it, and be gentle ....unless she likes it rough but she will tell you all of that through her body language.  But most important....ENJOY her and you will enjoy yourself when she has that mind blowing orgasm you want her to have.