I have this crazy sister-in-law?
474024
I think you need to move far away from SIS!
966050
it's about time your sister in law is not the only one who decides how thanksgiving will go.  why should she be the one to decide, when she herself doesn't follow her own rules?? email, to me, doesn't seem the answer.  why not just call your sister in law and tell her that you just can't make the 12 o'clock time - it's just too rushed and let her know the time that is good for you.  if she puts up a fit, just tell her to begin the festivities without you and you'll join in when you get there.  as far as making something, don't wait for THEM to tell you what to make, tell your sister in law i'll be making (whatever you care to make) so make sure no one goes to the trouble of preparing this.  don't let her run your family life, when she doesn't seem to be able to run her own life.  grandma will understand, if she loves you, because, i'm sure at one point in her life she went through the same dilemma.  families don't change that much from generation to generation. make sure this sister in law doesn't ruin your holiday because that is what it seems she is trying to do.  family plans do not revolve around her.  good luck and make sure YOU enjoy thanksgiving.
37967
Is this serious? No she is nuts.
693517
thats perverted. She is not for u don't be greedy face your wife not her sister. yur sis in law is for another man definetely not for you greedy man. Yu r too lusty
199133
Sounds like dementia. Maybe the husband needs to declare her incompotent and become her legal guardian and power of attorney if she is becoming too much for him to handle he should consider an assisted living or nursing home good luck
235063
Your uncles 2nd wife sounds like one of my step daughters,it has to be about her or  nothing at all she is always trying to start trouble she curses her dad and when i get on her butt she whines and says its all my fault .I don't have any use for her how can I she curses her dad yells at him and her dad has had 2 heart attacks already she has no respect for him or her self.The other daughter is great I love her as if she was my own she has the up most respect for her dad and me both girls in 20s the witchy one has three children in which her dad hasn't seen in 3 yrs because he wont kiss her butt.she is a nut.....
808028
go above her, this is ridiculous. does this woman have no family of her own?
314817
Tell it to my mother-in-law
652260
Our sister-in-laws must be related! Last summer we found out that mine was pregnant! It was the longest nine months on earth- everything revolved around her- She immediately quit her job at a retail store (at 3 weeks preg) where she was a cashier. She couldn't do any work around the house (lucky for her she and her boyfriend are living at her mom's house) When it was time to decorate the nursery, She didn't lift a finger she let her mother do it all (and pay for it all) of course she married her boyfriend (had honeymoon at motel 10 miles from home) (Did I mention he lives there too and doesn't work?) (Doesn't even cut grass)\nThe whole 9 months She was treated like a princess and was so bitchy to everyone!! Now that the baby is here she lets my mother in law do everything, She is rude to everybody and has no plans to get a job. Plus when the baby was 5 weeks old her and her husband left in his moms camper for a week! And said she would have stayed 2 weeks if she didn't have to pick up her wic and food stamps.\nHope this doesn't make you vomit. \n:)
17284
Well if you are invited is acceptable to go, and the party is not for your sister in law it is for your mother in law and i think your mother in law is the one you are honoring when you go. If she is nasty to you just turn the other cheek, and explain to your children that you are going for your m-i-l and not take anything that your sister in law says to you to heart. She might be jealous of your relationship with your m-i-l. In the end it will all smooth over, trust me from a person who knows.
1046118
I think that is the saddest thing I ever heard.  She is cinderella it sounds like, only with wicked in-laws instead of step mother and sisters.\n\nMy mother in law doesn't like me - and I shudder at the thought of living with her.  She has tried to interfere with what I do with my child too - but I can't give in to her on the issue of the kids.  As mother's we know what is best for our children and no one should interfere.  Unfortunately when you live under the roof of another - they feel they have a right to tell you what to do.\n\nIs it possible that they can move in with her family or find some low cost housing?  Maybe the meanness of the in-laws is the universes way to trying to get them to stand on their own - which is what we all must do when we become parents.\n\nPeace!
137899
Give her your advice, "To live crazy... we are here with no reason... but you can be the second Sokratis, greek phil."\n\nBut tell her to lay off the sauce.
942502
I wouldnt worry about it if I where you althought it might make you furious let her think what she wants it's that type of gossip that might fill her less than fulfilling days so in fact your doing the old lady a favour by giving her something to do, Just as long as you and your hubby are straight in understanding the situation then every thing is cool cause at the end of the day he is your real family,under your roof in your bed is what matters the most of what is though of you.
1156407
She sounds crazy; if you keep her around, she is going to continue to try to controll you.  Drop her.
966367
Talk to her and tell her that she is annoying, if she does not care than leave her alone!!!\n\nI have a sister-in-law that is annoying and we have tried telling her but she will not own up to anything!!!!!\n\nSome people are blind to their faults!!!
690296
I couldn't agree more. My sister in law was going for a job and had to put down names of references on her resume. She put down a name (my ex mother in law) that the employment officer knew. The name was the surname of my exhusband. The employment officer queried my sister in law to find out if she knew me. My sister in law said that she did, and the employment officer went about saying how much a bitch I was for treating my exhusband the way I did!!! She rambled on about things she didn't even know about, things about me and things about my children. Apparently she is the employment officer for my exhusband and he has set about telling her things about me that is none of her business. To top it off, he lied through his teeth about me to this woman, told her personal stuff, and she passed it on to my sister in law whom she doesn't know from a bar of soap! She doesn't know me and I don't know her, we have never met, yet she shares false information with the general public. I now know her name and I feel like applying for a job through her agency, just so I get my chance to tell her who I am and what I think of her defamatory remarks. What do you think??
662922
tell mom-in-law to do things your way in your home or hit the highway...[its your life] make your own choices..