how to make a love marriage succesfull as it is becoming burden now due to daily fights and arguements.?
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you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. it sounds like it is time to slow things down, alot. you both need to sit and talk about what the 2 of you want out of this relationship. when the 2 of you are on the same page it will be alot easier.
603781
If you want to save your marriage, you both need to ask God\nfor help. He will be the only one who can fix it.
959598
You all ready know what to do, you answered your own question: "There are so many issues that need to be resolved." You both need to sit down & have a discussion about these issues. Get to the root of them in order to resolve them. Sometimes things can't be resolved & you have to live with them the way they are, because you are 2 different people & that's just a part of life. However these other issues you mentioned seem to be trivial, but why the fight? Counseling may be necessary to help you both over come obstacles in your relationship & perhaps see things from a different point of view. So before planning any more wedding things, get those issues under control first & foremost. It may take several months to get things ironed out, but in the long run you'll both be happier for doing so.
47550
Keep the communication flowing, always make time for each other. APPRECIATE one another. Always have a "date" night. Don't dwell on the bad things but when the bad things creep into your mind, make yourself remember a good time or a nice thing your spouse did for you. Don't be a nagger. And if all else fails, make love and forget about it. \n\nAnd if none of that works seek counseling.
826390
First of all you have to love each other...Honesty should be there..  VEry important is open communication, . Trust and respect one another.Accept him as what he is and vice versa, yet if there is something to be changed for the good of relationship is very willing to do it. Put God between you or making the Creator the center of relationship. There are lot os important things to do but so far thats the most.
1079580
in any relationship its going to be that way. some days you both will be madly in love with each other...other days youll have to worst argument of your life and maybe wont even talk to each other. no couple can stay together without little arguments or even big ones here and there. every fight you both will have will only make the relationship stronger...sometimes it may even tare a relationship apart. it just all depends on what each of you wants out of one another...and how much the other one is willing to give.\n\n-stephanie
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hi there surely it doesnt matter what youre wife is the problem is that there is no talking and if you think about this one it takes 2 to argue ,and also 2 to sort things out ,you both must have feelings for each other to get married so why do you both not sit down and chat about youre relationship,it is not all one sided it has 2 be 50/50 to work take care of each other xx
315089
Well the more you love someone the more there is to argue about. You want to make sure the other person is safe and not doing something bad so you argue. What I think you should do is go out on more dates. And recendle that fire you guys seem to have lost. Do something that you have never done and never tough you would do. Good luck
496803
Don't let a single day pass without letting him know in word and deed how much you love, honor and cherish him. Make sure that you never stop talking and sharing the things that happen in your lives. Make sure that you create time for just the 2 of you, especially after you have children. A strong and healthy marriage is the foundation of a happy family.
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Learn to commit your marriage to God. Be honest and open with your husband. Encourage him to do the same. you both have been hurt so deeply... but God can heal those hurts and restore the love in your relationship.\n\nLearn to pray. Pour your heart out to God. don't use nice polite prayers. Express your anger, your fear, your disappointments... God  wants you to be honest with Him.\n\nRecognise that you will only do more damage if you leave. admit that you need help and seek counsel - godly counsel. Is there a minister you know? A friend who is a Christian?\n\nDon't give up! Don't walk out!\n\nGod can make your marriage stronger than it has ever been!!!\n\nReally!!!
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Key factors to making it in marriage:\nHonesty, Faithfulness, Sacrifice, Compromise, Communication, Willingness to accept things, Affection, Patience, and Remembering this is the person you chose to marry no matter what and that you can work through anything cause the good times will out weigh the bad and all couples face the time when they will argue and bicker and it will seem to never end.  If you stick with it you will find that things will work themselves out and you will have a happy life.\n\n\nAlways be honest and remember that it is a full time job.\nNever put each other down for having different tastes and styles and compromise is the biggest part.\nExpress love and always try to stay affectionate, holding hands or cuddling in front of the TV.  When things cool down and become regular and predictable try to spark things up.  \nNever go out of your way to insult tradition or family of your new partner.  Be patient with all the quirky things that may annoy you when you start living together that you may have never payed attention to, you will get used to them.\nNever wait for an apology in a fight, always communicate and try to work things out and try to apologize even if you feel you are right if things get heated.  Never go to bed mad.\nDont try to make your partner jealous and stay away from altimatums.  Good communication will always work better then an altimatum.\nRemember you are married and partying with your single friends is not a good way to start a marriage, you should want your partner with you.\nDont be afraid to tell him when something is bothering you, its better to work through it before it blows up into something big when it could have been resolved early on.\nNever ask the person to change all their ways to appease you or to change anything that you are not willing to change about yourself.\nDont ever make your partner feel that this marriage is one sided and about only you.  Try to make your partner feel like an equal: as simple as asking how his/her day went can show interest in their life.\nGood Luck on your marriage, take it slow and it will be fine.  Communication is the key to any good relationship.
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i think you should talk to him. both of you need to find out what is the problem that has both of you too constantly arguing. Maybe you can both see about having like a couples therapy thing.  sometimes its best for someone from the outside to see whats going on. I think if both of you love each other so much you should do what you can to make it work if after all that your still arguing more than you not arguing well than maybe you two should go your seperate ways. it wont mean you two dont love each other just that you to aren't meant for each other. but i would do what i can before saying its over definitely. good luck and best wishes.
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go to counseling together a few times before you marry him, just to be sure he doesn't have some deep rooted problem...the counseling will give you an insight to the problem and show you if you can deal with it....
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I have been married for near 7 years but have been with my man for 12 years, we got together at 21 years old.\n\nWe have had our ups and downs but our love for one another has grown stronger than ever. \n\nThe main part of marriage and any relationship really, is communication. Don't bottle things up, sit down and talk it out, that way the 'problem' is out there and both can work together on how to solve it.\n\nIn all the years we have been together, we have never in an argument said anything we would regret later on. We have never called each other a name or anything like that.\n\nWords can hurt and people can remember what has been said through arguments, and bring that up in another argument. \n\nMarriage takes alot of work and it can work if both parties are commited to the marriage and each other.
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No need for divorce. If you love him, tell him so a million times. Don't spare a moment to do so. Communication is the key to a succesful marriage. Discuss your fears with him and he will reassure you of his love. Trust will build up later. Once he gets the assurance that he has a woman who loves him and prays for him, that will give him the confidence to complete his duties wherever he's posted to return home to you. Have a blissful marriage!
915240
Every marriage-  married young or older will change and get boring @ times If you let it\nYou both need time together away from the problems, worries, kids to reconnect\nYou need to date your spouse all over again
466124
You begin to learn each others quirks and idiosyncrasies.  You will struggle and have bad times and good times. You will laugh, cry, worry, and enjoy.  Marriage is only what two people make of it.  It is work, but just like a garden, it is well worth the weeding and pruning one has to do.  Don't give up when things get tough.  Communicate!!!!  I know you've heard it before, but take heed, communication is the key to an awesome marriage. A marriage needs 100 percent from both partners.  Live and learn from one another, touch and kiss often, and never say a word that you may later wish to take back, words are like feathers released into the wind, once released they are hard to take back.