My best friend's wife is cheating him with other guy?
465508
If he's really your best friend.. level with him, tell him what you heard and saw, and tell him out of respect for him you thought that he should have the information to draw from.. \n\nThen let him take that info and do whatever he wants with it.. don't try to convince him... let him convince himself. \n\nThe thing is, he will either find the truth or decide to convince himself that the information was wrong...either way support his thinking.. and be relieved when he finds out that it isn't true...even if you KNOW better, he will eventually see the truth and know that you gave him a heads up long before he was able to believe it for himself.
726883
There is such a thing as emotional affair and sometimes affairs start out this way.  If your wife is confiding with another man other than you, it shows a lack of intimacy in your marriage.  Also realize that time spent talking with this "friend" is time taken away from you.  The way I see it, you are her husband.  If she has issues with you, she should be communicating with you instead.
279405
It is because he is cheating . . .
738066
Trust me, the wife is fully aware that her husband is guilty...she also feels ashamed too, like it is somehow her fault.  But she has to live with him so is more willing to forgive him than the bimbo he is messing around with.  Your friend should run away from this situation before something bad happens to her.
1116146
Well if your bf's cheating with your bestfriend, whats the difference if you do it????? hehe
868537
no, what goes on in their marriage is really their business. he may already know, or she may choose to keep it from him. i hope that it was some one-time mistake on her part and that they've already worked through it, but it's not your responsibility to tell him.
968073
Ok.  What do YOU think??  If a friend gave you this same information you just gave me......what would you tell her to do??\n\nYou know that he has cheated on you TWO TIMES......\ndo you REALLY think that he is worth getting hurt for a THIRD time??  \n\nHoney, I hope you're smarter than that.  I know it sucks and you hurt, but you have already invested THREE years of your life\nwith this guy.  Cut your losses and move on.  A guy who really loves you is not going to want to be with another woman.
901375
My opnion is I think you should tell her. What if she doesn't know...what if she doesn't think her husband is a cheat? I mean, I didn't. I had no idea until he told me. I'm glad I found out.\nYou have to follow your heart and choose what you feel is right.\nBut remember if this was you and your husband had a side dish, would you want to know?
635942
Rumors are extremely dubious and I would not take their word for it. It could have been someone who looked like him, a rumor by someone who has a crush on him, who is jealous,... I would just try to be aware of what your friend says about him, and if any warning signals of cheating go off, then you might want to have her talk to him about it.
586335
IF he is getting married to someone else... that says it all.  DON'T continue to see him.\nWould your friend like to be married to someone who was in a relationship with someone else?  Then your friend shouldn't do the same to someone else.
980663
You need to tell your girlfriend her husband is cheating on her. She is in jeopardy in more ways than one. You should be more concerned with her well being that keeping a cheating lying friend.
714683
I think you have every right to be mad, and very, very suspicious. And you had every right to voice your concern, because you just wanted to know what was going on, and if your best friend and your husband really care about you, this wouldn't be such a big issue: They shouldn't be mad about telling you the truth. I honestly feel that their anger is because they are hiding something. Keep in mind, pot does impair your judgement, no matter how many people try to tell you it doesn't. I would suggest talking to your husband one on one, let him know how you feel about the situation, and maybe suggest marital counseling. I hope everything works out for you, and remember that you are in the right about this! Good luck!
1082122
shes victimizing you... she shouldnt be putting you in the middle of her problems and that makes her a poor excuse for a friend... what im trying to say is, do you want to be the one who conspires and allows her to cheat on her husband or do god knows what? Think of the husbands feelings in this situation... While you dont want to be the cause of them splitting up you have to know that if you told you wouldnt and couldnt be held responsible, your friend decided to do this to her husband and she should have to face the reprocussions. Do you care about this girl enough to actually lie on her behalf over something that could split them apart? I think its the husbands right to know whats going on, in my case I think I would not tell the husband where she is but if you know his friends or family tip one of them off and possibly they will tell them... its complicated but you cant be incriminated because you didnt tell her husband where she was, you tipped someone off and they told, but i think its the right thing to do in letting the husband know in one form or another that his wife is lying to him and may be doing more... hes a human being and has feelings to, and she is digging her own grave... It was wrong of her to ask for you to lie about her because she is putting you in the middle of their problems and asking you to conceal the fact that she is destroying her marriage. If I was you I would tip someone off and then let them tell the husband,  either way theres nothing you can do to come out of the situation without getting hurt because if the husband figures out that you have been lying to him about something that is ruining his marriage then  hes going to hold you partially responsible... and think would you want to be in that sort of situation as well. would you want your husband to secretely be doing god knows what and you to be completely oblivious to it and how would you feel about it if he asked a friend to lie to you for him? you have to put yourself in the victims shoes, and honestly you both are the victim to her lying ways
1183545
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY..  DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER.. \nYOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
461570
You are not wrong, you need to confront her about this. It's inappropriate for her to be spending all her time with another man who has feelings for her.
1157992
First of all your not the scum he is. If he is cheating on her with you then he will cheat on you with someone else. Since your relationship with him has been sexual I would tell the girlfriend. She has a right to know what she has been exposed to. I am not saying that you have anything but the guy may be seeing several other women and not just you. It is also very common to be angry at the other woman and not yourself or the guy. If you look at this logically then you would see who you should be angry at. For the last two years this guy has been leading you and his girlfriend and God knows who else on. When you found out about the girlfriend you probably thought that he would dump her and stay with you. It doesn't always work that way. If you dont tell her and leave the guy you are always going to be second guessing what he is up to. You are always going to be comparing yourself to his girlfriend and you will never be happy. Telling his girlfriend would only be fair to her. You have known about her and have seen what this guy is like. Maybe his girlfriend needs an eye opener. And the guy deserves to be alone.
678780
Honestly what do you expect?  I mean it is your BEST FRIEND'S EX.  Even if she says she's cool about, deep down inside she might not be.  Why don't you ASK her why she keeps bashing your man.  She could be jealous, or she could be telling the truth about how he really acts.  I have two friends who are MARRIED to my ex's, and I'm completely fine with it.  I never knock their hubbies or anything. Of course both of their hubbies are good guys, and I dumped them.