What can i do if my parents devorce each other while i'm doing my first year of study at a univercity.?
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You can't do anything in regards to your parents. BUT I say stay in school get educated and then move out on your own. If your father is wrong then give your mom support. And right now, from what you have supplied here your dad is dead wrong.
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Oh honey, I understand how much it has to hurt you.\n\nThe only way to get rid of hate is to try to understand. I'm sure your parents are trying to do what they think is best. Parents make mistakes. They aren't perfect. Have you told them how you feel? Maybe they don't realize that a "good" school isn't as important to your present or future as being with you is. Parents are under so much pressure to focus on "success" and they don't stop to think that success is on the inside and not on outwardly things. Or maybe there are other circumstances that make them think this will be good for you.\n\nThe school is trying to do what's best for you, also. I know you don't want to be there, but don't do it for them, do it for you. Struggles make you stronger and you can get through this. Don't focus on what you don't have. Focus on what you do have. You have parents who love you and you have a good education if you will allow it. Many children do not have nearly as much.\n\nMake friends if you haven't. Write your feelings down because you shouldn't keep them inside. Hang in there. It will get easier to deal with.
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You can't get your dad and his mom to forget their differences.  Some things are out of your control, including how other people act.  OK, that's not totally true, but you've probably done what you can do already by this time.\n\nIf your relationship worth it even if you have to accept how your dad reacts and everything else?\n\nMaybe you need to put this on the backburner too - not make any decisions yet, but be a little lighter about it and let your boyfriend come to you more.  You might find that changes the dynamics a little and shifts the power you have in your relationship and in your life as a whole.  If the relationship has it's own strength it can withstand some time of uncertainty (just don't do anything stupid - be patient and trust that if it is meant to happen, it will).  Do some things that are fun for you and help you remember your own strengths and how you care for yourself.\n\nAre there other problems between you and your boyfriend that aren't about your parents?  Sometimes factors like parents can be a big distraction that lets you avoid being fully honest with each other.
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This is what lovers should expect. If you both are seriously in love and if both of you are majors the best thing then, you have to tell about your affair to your parents before your brother tells them and try to convince them how strong you feel about your affair. They will not like but at the same time you being a major they will play cautiously with you and try to delay your marriage which you can agree on condition they allow you to continue your studies and the time will take care of the rest . All the best.
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No, there is nothing you can do, just be there for both of them and don't make the mistake of blaming either one of them for the situation... but hey, you have two great parents who are really trying to keep it together and their attitude is really promising, so don't worry, they will get there and it will be fine, just give them the time they need...
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dont worry much dear.if you r good in studies then you will definately make up for your grades.as far as your father is concerned if you explain to him the reason for your bad grade then he will surely forgive you.be bold and assure him that next time you will perform better.
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my dear . . . I am soooo sorry.\n\nYour mother is being a jealous . . . possessive b****.\n\nMost parents want their children to succeed . . . but there are a rare few . . . that will try to hold their children back because they don't want them to do better than they have.\n\nWhat is your plan regarding college . . . will you be moving into a dorm.  Probably getting a part time job . . . did you get a scholarship?  The best thing for you . . . is to get out of that negative environment.  I know it is scary . . . but you can do it . . . and you should do it.\n\nIf you are unable to move out . . . just reply back to her . . . just because I am trying to do something better in my life . . . which you could not do yourself. . . either . . . encourage me or butt out . . . because I won't quit and I don't want to be a loser like you.\n\nWell maybe not in those exact words.  But I think you get my meaning.\n\nTake care of yourself.
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If that's the biggest problem in your life, relax.  Or go tell your parents the deal.  Just forget the other people and enjoy the beautiful scenery.
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Pretend you care but you know you don't inside. Wait till you leave home then you'll be able to do whatever you want. Going against them now might turn into something disasterous especially if you haven't made plans for college yet. Bite your tongue and ignore.
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Slight giggles, I am a US Citizen and desire to study in India. My answer might not be helpful but the only way you can change your parents attitude and thoughts is by telling them to give you a chance to prove yourself. You're not a small girl anymore. You need to step in the big bad world and face everything by yourself! Tell them about the pros and cons of studying abroad. While it is true that no place is as safe as your home town because you've been around it so much, everything has it's ups and downs. Is there a specific place you want to study? Do some research, share important facts with your parents so they can start believing you. It is nothing more than the lack of trust that is holding you back. Don't give up on your dreams, pursue them anyway. Your strong steps today will make a bolder woman tomorrow. Good luck with your future.
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respect ur parents and tell him u cant
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I would seek help from your administration. Perhaps a meeting with your administrator is needed. Usually, students follow their parents lead. \n\nMost importantly, don't take it personally. One bad apple shouldn't make you get down on yourself. You are so valuable to our children's future so please don't let it get you down.
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if you want we will start reporting you. then yahoo will stop you from coming here.\n\nremeber YA is here to stay but if it will affect your studies you may not afford it in future.\n\nif you do not need internet for you homework or studies try turning it off. if you live with your parents tell them about this problem and ask them to remind you to get off line and check you. your time is crusial at this stage.
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Wow your parents are being very selfish.  It sounds like you've made up your mind about your boyfriend and leaving him his not an option.  My advice is to move out asap.  You're 25, they can't stop you.  You're parents shouldn't hold that over your head...they are saying all that stuff to CONTROL you.  Trust me, sounds like something my mother would have said to me when I lived at home.  We get along a lot better now that I'm not living with her.  I don't think you're parents hate you but they are not being fair.  \n\nThis might sound out there but did you get your college degree yet?  That might help you get a better job and be able to afford living on your own.\n\nAnyways, I hope you feel better and I'm sorry you have to put up with that.  Again, move out asap.
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tell your parents you really tried and try your best to allow them to understand you did your best and will work even harder next term to get a better mark. NExt time acturally try hard to achieve higher mark
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If you are a good student and dependable you're parents shouldn't stop you from looking for what you want for your future.  However if you feel you need to suck up to be allowed to do this chances are you don't fall into that category anyways so you're on your own to find a way to go out of state to party with friends
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Talk to them. Let them know you are distressed and need some guidance. Try and be calm about it and state clearly what you would like to see happen. \n\nMaybe before you talk to them, sit down and write out all your thoughts on a big list. Write down everything you think even if it's negative or wrong. Just get it out of your head and in black and white. Write your feelings about your parents as people, about how you are treated, about what rules you like and don't like and any other thoughts and feelings regarding your parents. \n\nNow take at least an hour and go do something else. Come back and look at your list and put check marks by the thoughts that are really important to you. On another piece of paper, write the important issues and give and example of that. Take that with you when you talk to your parents. They'll help if you ask them for it. \n\nMost parents are doing the best they know how. Try and remember that when you talk to them.