how can you tell if someone is gay/bi? how can i tell another guy i like him if i think he's gay?
473086
Well, to begin with you have to ascertain that he is in fact gay or bi. We got a couple of ways to go: just ask him would be my best advice. Second to that...does he date anyone? Does he have friends that he regularly hangs out with that you could ask?\nIf he is gay/bi...just tell him how you feel. It is my opinion that nothing bad can happen when you tell someone how you feel. Could he reject you? Absolutely. But you haven't lost anything if he does...you're not dating him now. You will have the benefit of knowing that you tried and knowing exactly where he stands, even if its not beside you.\nAs for your girlfriend, women know that you can change your mind (It is out pergotaive :) ). Your friend probably will rib you a little and then help you implement your game plan. \nHope this helps and good luck to you!
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What makes you think he's Gay?  \n\nMany Gay people do their 'best to fit into society' by joining up with a person of the opposite sex to keep the appearance of being 'normal'.  They marry and have kids sometimes as well -- all to keep up the facade and DENY who they are to themselves and his family.  The thing is, if you believe this to be true, then first thing is ask him.  If he denies (he will I'm sure), then be on your way if you are that convinced.  Because no matter how attractive you are, sweet, loving etc.. he will NOT change who he is attracted to - it's in his DNA/Biology who he is attracted to.  So do yourself a favor and just walk away from that.  \n\nI hope it all works out for you, but there are no 'sure tests' to be 100%.  If your GUT is telling you he is, then trust your gut, because most of the time, your gut is never wrong.  If your friends have 'gently commented/asked about it' then it is 'for sure' time to break it off.  Do your best not to hurt his feelings and your own feelings.  Be good to yourself and there is NOT something wrong with you that you 'fell' for osmeone Gay.  \n\nGood Luck and be well! :)
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It's not like you are actually going to see some one having intercourse with some one else to be able to determine this.\n\nHere's an interesting website that gives other people's views on determining if some one is gay or not:\n\nhttp://www.ehow.com/how_17204_determine-someone-else.html
662767
You're gay. Being Gay, I know a thing or two about gay... and you are definately gay.
934578
The best thing to do is to steer the questions ever so subtly to the gay without saying it. If he knows you're gay then it'll be a little trickier, but if not just say compliment a guy and see if he agrees... Worked for me in high school... it's just so much harder cause so many guys have "gay" mannerisms and gays usually play the "straight" (if there is such a thing)...
632605
How can a gay person know what it is like to be straight?
583786
theres one good way to know if your bi sexual or just bi courious. You have been with men. If you can look at a woman and just wonder what it would be like to be with her and not act on that thought. Your just courious. If you find a lady and actually try something and enjoy what you have then your bi. You are the only one who really could answer this question. It depends on how you feel in side.
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Feel the situation out.  Do you know how he feels about gay people?  In the right time and place you will be able to tell him you are and how you have felt.  If he is not gay then you can't change him, don't try it won't work and do'nt push it.  Many straight people have gay friends.
48001
I would say if you have feelings for members of the same sex and you want to act on them, or you do act on them then you might be gay. And if you're not at all interested in being with someone of the opposite sex, but only someone of your same sex. It's also possible you could just be confused.
439606
Well, if you know for a fact that the person is gay, start a conversation with them. Get to know them, and what they like and stuff. There is a great website to go to. Its adam4adam.com You can meet alot of guys there. Thats where I met my current boyfriend, whom I love soooo much.
213696
He's had experience with another guy?? Doesn't that make him bi? Anyways..if someone is comfortable with their own sexuality why do they care what sexual orientation another is?
969943
Just because you find another person of the same sex cute, doesn't mean you're gay. You're only gay if you know for a fact that you would never want to have sex with a girl, but instead with a guy. Don't ask us, ask yourself.
171314
In this situation you should probably try spending some quality time with the person sooner or later it will become totally clear of their sexuality and you never know if they are they may come out and ask you first, either that or talk to a mutual friend if there is one available, and try to get the dish on what they are into, basically the same thing you would do if you were straight, nothing really has to be different. The worst that could happen is that he says no but it is best to be true to yourself :-))!!!
421127
just flip a coin, and ask one person.\n\nyou'll be able to tell if that particular guy is into you as well.  and then it won't even matter about the other guy.\n\nas a bonus though, the other guy might get super jealous.  which is a bad thing.  but if the first guy seems kinda plain (which means there's no spark) and the other guy kinda seems jealous, but doesn't want to say anything because he just wants you to be happy, then go with the other guy
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Here are some questions to ask yourself......Are you attracted to both girls and guys?Can you not stop yourself from looking at other girls?Do you look at guys the same way?Are you interesting in the same sex?.......These are all questions that need to be answer before you truly know if you are bi or straight......but for the time being lets call you bi-curious............that is my take on the question
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There really isn't any way to know for sure..  \nMost of the time we kinda have an idea if someone is gay but there are some individuals that are very good at hiding their "tendencies".    You should try to become their friend, strike up a conversation about a book, movie, the weekend coming up, etc, etc--  Try to get to know them as a person.   There are many people out there, specially in H.S. that just because they don't like a person, rumors/lies are made up!! I'm pretty sure u have heard some rumors about yourself that you know are just lies!!!  So don't believe everything u hear.
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If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!