Do men cool off if a subject of their interest returns a little bit more attention than expected?
469440
It really depends on the maturity level of the person. If a guy is ready to settle down or be serious with someone, then it shouldn't matter. If he's still "sowing his oats" then too much interest could put him off.
688365
no they dont.\nit puzzles me on why ppl are so interested to talk abt them,but do nothing.
440740
uuuggghhh dont u hate that... mine does that too.\nif it is an opportunity that affects me greater, i tell him my opinion, and after him not showing interest, i proceed as i think i should, if it affects him more, i give him my opinion but don't get too involved. He thinks I'm his secretary or something, like i can make all the desicions on my own, even dinner (E V E R Y night)\nGOOD LUCK GIRL!
275280
I don't know if this will help but it's what I do before when I like someone but I don't want him to notice.  First, know his interest and then if you can strike up a conversation be genuinely interested then  if he appear to  be interested in you too, try to appear busy and not so interested anymore.  Be a little distant then let him do the move.  Some guys like mystery in a girl and they want to  be challenged.  Actually, I noticed that they get bored easily in girls who try hard to be noticed.
428070
Yo, this completely depends on how loud it is, and how short or long your attention span is.  As for me, it helps out alot. peace.
325187
They definitely like it, it lets them know that they're doing their job well. Men like to have their ego stroked so go ahead and make some noise. If he hasn't said anything about it, it probably doesn't bother him.
1142039
in a relationship like what you have described.... it becomes a routine life for someone........\nthe answer is NO... i wont forget to check the mails..... i will do it quite often....\nBUT you see people get bored of a routine life too soon... especially young and energetic people.... you have to keep doing something to keep their interest growing... you have to do something different.....\nroutine life is too good for static people or middle aged people.... don't expect your guy to be lie that.....\na person may not forget to check the mails, but he will deliberate wont do it... knowing that it will contain the same stufff..... got it ??
588162
i'm like that....i'll like someone until they show too much interest then i get over it but if they stop showing interest i usually start getting interested again....i think with most people, like me, it's being afraid of committment.
760091
It"s true they do get annoyed when you repeat yourself over and over again and they just tune you out. But if he remembers the little things then thats a plus because it means he does have an interest in you.  Guys are not big on remembering the big stuff. why I don't know. but if they remember the little stuff then thats a plus. Don't get frustrated with him just go with the flow unless something really really important gets forgotten I wouldn't worry about it.\nGood luck.
727863
The reason they do it is that they expect a strong reaction from you, even a denial, so they can have cheap fun. So, if you just say "So what?" to whoever brings it up, it would probably make them lose interest, and leave you alone. Be more careful in your choice of friends.
1101355
it depends on whether the woman wants that attention or not.If they see someone looking and they crouch down more so their shirt will open up more,then it's probably like that attention.But I mean if it bothers some woman they tent to ask that person to stop looking or wear more conservative clothes.There really isn't much that we can do because it is there and we can't get rid of them.
87349
Hi guys in away are not that much different than then the ladies, most are easy to make small talk. \n\nThe guys like compliments, IE i like your jacket, your shoes, maybe your paints exc. If you don't not get a conv. started either there not interested or bashful/ shy. I would say the latter.\n\nHave a great day. Don
469167
Guys generally don't make an effort to do something unless they have an interest. Give him a few days, he'll call.
94761
Show a bit of interest, but don't over-do it. Men want what they can't have. Let him chase you a little. He'll like it. Plus he'll appreciate your affection more if it doesn't come easy.
776643
absolutely.  I've had it happen to me on more than one occasion.  they are nervous for one reason or the other.  if he was really into you, then sometimes that's a scary thing for a man, because they want it to be good and therefore get performance anxiety and just can't.  don't worry about it, take it as a compliment.  just gives you something to look forward to the next time.
286979
Yes. We like being told someone likes us. But be carefull, we also like chasing the pray, not being handed to us. If you are in a realtionship then say it openly otherwise you have to ponder the situation. It might make him loose interest or it might help him make "the move".
347995
most likely he will give you alot of attention. it depends on the age, younger people will often be mean or pick on the people they like. older people it is more compliments or general attention.\n\nor\n\nThe person gives you very little attention and almost ignored you completely. This is the case usually in younger people.