OMG!!! I`M 11n I think Im lyk...FAT.helpp.pllleeeeesssss my frends think i am skinni but i dont!!!?
467148
if your friends say you're not fat then you are probably not. When they say look at me, why don't you actually look at them to see if you are fat. I have friends who are REALLY thin and think they're fat and I get really annoyed with them cos I try to lose weight with no luck and they're saying they're fat and they're like 3 or 4 clothes sizes smaller than me. You are only 11 so you might get a bit of puppy fat but it is not unhealthy. As long as you eat right and exercise then you should be ok. You don't need to pay loads of money to play sports to keep fit. Do things like walk to school if you can. Go for a jog around your neighbourhood or something.
445970
There are self esteem issues you need to work out with a counselor. I have plenty of really skinny friends that they still rag on themselves for not being this and that and not liking how they look in clothes or bathing suits. Just because you are skinny don't necessarily mean you are going to be a happier person. You will be happier with getting more attention but just going on looks likely to be more negative attention. You need to be happy with yourself no matter what size you are! But, you also want to make sure you keep yourself healthy. Just eat right or just moderate what you eat altogether don't go on this diet food kick and if you can try to get out and walk around the block or if you can afford it join a gym. They have new classes like belly dancing, exotic dancing and jazzercise to make it more interesting. Try to look at it as being more healthy and making healthier choices not just as being skinny. There are skinny people that are out of shape and not healthy that can end up having the same health problems as someone who is overweight. Hope this helps.
1080050
You're only fat if you think you're fat.  If you're happey the way you are now then don't do anything about it.  People should just live there lives happy and not cair what other people think about them.\n\nIf you don't like that answer go see a doctor and ask him what he thinks.
818224
For one thing, stop comparing yourself to everyone else and second, you sound pretty darn perfect to me. I am 40 years old and 5"4ft and weight 113 pounds, I have weighed this much since I graduated from high school. Some people just grow faster than others and then a lot of catching up will happen. Just think how much healthier you are than they are. All that junk food will eventually catch up with them and they will be the ones saying they wish they looked like you!! Just be happy with yourself now because I bet you are way prettier than they are.
969700
No, you are not fat and stop reading those fashion magazines, they are messing up your self esteem. You need to just enjoy life and stop competing with other girls to see who can be the thinnest. Your weight is fine and if you start dieting and losing weight, you are going to have problems in the future. Size 4 is tiny and your weight is ideal. Size 0 is not a good look, be happy with how you are. HTH : )
1046747
Goodness!!!  NO!!  I'm 36, I used to weigh 140 (down to 132) and even though I wasn't comfortable (weighing 110 all my life), I hardly felt I was fat!  And plus, you have an inch in height on me!\n\nSweety, you are ONLY 13.  A lot of girls seem to put on a little weight around that age, and then blossom when they get to be about 15-16.  \n\nIf you are uncomfortable, speak to your doctor about losing weight, but do not try to deal with it by yourself!  Take up some gymnastics or dance.  It will make you feel better.
1186770
I'm not a fat girl, and I am.. pretty skinny... and this is just something i want you to know, DON'T EVER listen to what others have to say about how YOU look. You are your own person.I say you don't get fat even if they want you too. If they want you to.. they must really not be someone who really cares for you. Being skinny is a gift to some people and a curse for others. But i think that everything anyone has, is a gift. Don't listen to negative comments. Do what's... right^-^
536225
not everyone is, you probably just feel that way. I was skinny all my life till about 2 years ago, and it doesn't bother me. If it bothers other people i don't care, they are not involved in my life and know nothing about me. You shouldn't worry about what other people say.
714308
i am the same age hight weight and all no u r not fat u r just big boned like me thats soo cool u r just like me wow email me if u want @ ejwestberry@yahoo.com or u can IM me too ...well ttyl..
232384
I think you just needed to vent a little! You should be proud of how you look no matter what size you are. As long as you're healthy and happy, that is all that matters. Don't worry about what other people think.
658575
i dont want to be rude, but the only thing that helps is maturity, if your weight is the only thing u think about, then u have a maturity problem....you are beautiful just the way u r, and u need to realize that.....every girl goes through this, so ur not alone....but u have accept yourself, good luck
344846
Congratulations !!!!\nYou maybe skinny but as long as you don't have any health problems, so what? Just leave it that way and enjoy it an be proud. I'm sure many told you that you are to skinny, anorexic, eat!, bla bla bla, just ignore them. Many of them actually envy you and want that body.\nJust remember that you still have to eat healthy and exercise regularly. If you can't eat to much (well, small tummy usually don't have to much room) add milk and food supplements to your diet to supply you with important nutrients.\nI had a GF that 5'5" and only 84lbs, very fit and healthy, and I still think she's so hot and sexy, I didn't care what other says.
833782
it really depends on how old you are. if you are twenty or over, you are actually underweight, but if not, you are just right. unless you are like ten and under, its fine.I'm fourteen, and that's exactly what i weigh, except I'm 5'5", and i am super skinny. no you are not fat. ppl like you are the reason they become anorexic, is because they keep thinking they are fat, when they aren't. it's rediculous. magazines show us how great models look, and how skinny. but to my opinion, it looks like they are starving themselves. that's the stupidest decision you could make.
88881
i think you just need to keep saying so. Some people are just naturally lean. Or maybe you dont have as much of an appetite as others. \nI guess it doesn't matter whether you are skinny or fat they will always find a way to judge you. You just need to tell them where to shove it. Certainly your family should love you for what you are as a person. You are beautiful.
108695
How old are you? A size 1 is small. Are you crazy? It depends on your body what is fat. Some girls wear a 8 and look thin and others wear and 8 and look fat. Same goes for all sizes. My friend and I wear the same size 3 but she looks alot thinner than me cause I have curves and she is up and down.
161124
if you feel good about the way you look then to hell with "everybody"  if you think you really are thin...have a snack!  good luck
658165
I remember thinking that i was fat when I was a teenager because of what a PE teacher told me. I was actually quite slender, too slender at that. I remember the school nurse's assistant thinking that I was starving myself because I was so thin and A friend of mine kept telling me I needed to eat more. I was eating just fine, but  I did not want to eat anymore than what I had too because the PE teacher told me that I was fat. \n\nThe best thing you can do is just let your friend know that she looks fine. Encourage her to eat normal and let her know as long as she stays active, she will be fine. \n\nBe careful, because sometimes girls that age will cut themselves down just to hear people say "oh You are not fat, you are SO SKINNY" or You are not ugly YOU ARE SO PRETTY"\n\nJust make sure it's not one of those cases.