why are so many guys focused on having a threesome?
458785
Those kinds of guys are usually the dumbed-down jocks who tend to view life as a pie-eating contest, and view all women as nothing more than somekind of dessert. It's people like that who cause everyone else to be stereotyped, because all they are interested in is constantly working to outdo and outperform each other in every way they can, and prove they are somehow better or more macho or other really dumb and ridiculous bullSh like that.
354922
Because no matter what, one woman will never be enough for most guys. They are pigs. They fantasize about doing more than one girl at once because they can't have just one. They are sluts.
423056
Because guys are generally commitment phobes. If they hook up with a girl who's taken then they know nothing further is expected of them. They can have their fun, and continue on their merry way. It's no strings attached fun.
1070039
Of course there's something wrong with this, but it is pretty common nonetheless.  He is basically keeping his options open. Why have one girl, if he can figure out a way to have two? \n\nGuys (and girls) do it all the time.  They shouldn't, but they'll do it as long as there are those who will fall for it.  Let someone else have this "gem" of a guy.  There are plenty of other fish in the sea.  \n\nThat's not a cliche but a commonly overlooked fact.
942903
As far as the friend.  Guys who are not occupied with sex are preoccupied with it.  I don't get guys watching porn with other guys.... seems a little gay.  Porn is for one thing, so are they taking care of that in front of each other?  Also if they share watching porn together, you know the friend knows alot about you at this point, if you know what I mean.\n\nStrip clubs.  I don't get that at all.  It's like being hungry and going to McDonald's to only smell hamburgers.   If your guy goes, it's not something to be jealous of, but it sure reflects poorly on his character.\n\nPorn in general, every guy looks, it's just too available now days and guys are already thinking of sex six times a minute.
366780
It is genetics. Men are created to spread their seed by many times in one day while woman can only bear one child in a nine month period. Infidelity is more accepted by women of the men than vice versa.  A lot of men can't accept another man having sex with their woman.  I feel it has been going on for a long time but was just not talked about as much as it is now.  Most men are happy with their wife or woman they have the main relationship with, they just want a little variety every now and then.  It is the nature of the beast.
828361
I don't think a threesome is too good for a young relationship if it is one. If it's a strong relationship then do what makes you happy. I'm don't think you'll be happy afterwards though with another man having his way with your girl niether will she be happy with you banging another girl. So if you love her I would suggest you don't.
721348
Both sexes LIKE sex the same. Guys MAY want it more frequently.
529451
I agree with you...  And it's also cool if a guy is um, having anal sex with a woman, but it's "gross" when it's 2 guys.  What is up with that bullsh*t?  Nonetheless, if it's love, then any kind of sex can be beautiful!  I myself, would LOVE to have a three some with two other men, it'd be super hot!
465926
I think it's because it's not popular yet.  People who want attention will do what's hot at the momnet, so if two guys kiss and it's popular then it will be accepted more.  People who follow what other people do, will follow this trend and start having more guys kissing.  Just like right now everyone likes two girls kissing, but soon a trend will lean some where else, and the "media" will say okay now everyone two guys kissing is hot
1019801
I kinda agree with you there .. getting an escort is expensive and slightly less graceful ... I suggest finding somebody over the Internet using a personal ad on a website like adultfriendfinder.com etc. \nBut I was wondering have you and your hot boyfriend ever tried MMF sex ... I mean I have experienced threesomes with my spouse both FFM and MMF type ... my conclusion is that MMF threesome is somehow more fun for all specially my spouse, she enjoys it as much as I do .... as for the other M , he is my friend , very trust worthy, clean, attractive looking and great in bed...  since we all know each other very well ... no embarrassments, no money involved, secret is well kept and everybody gets fulfilled (literally).\nIn the FFM scenario I found my spouse being left slightly unsatisfied ... as if there was too much responsibility on my shoulder to satisfy the two.. none was bisexual ... so i guess I see it as slightly hyped ...\nBut if you find threesome with another chick irresistible then go ahead ... talk to a female friend of yours she might wanna join the two of you .. that is the safest, steadiest and cheapest method of fulfilling your threesome fantasy regularly ... have fun!!!
559348
Well, I son't think this applies to all girls- in fact, I bet quite a few have the fantasy of doing it, but maybe wouldnt' admit this to just anyone.\n\nI guess part of the reason they often aren't keen is that a girl wants to think that when you are with her, you are only thinking of her. Not someone else. And she will be comparing herslef to the other the girl- is my bum bigger than hers, is my tummy wobblier than hers, are my boobs droopier than hers!!\n\nI have had a threesome before, and my main issue with it was the fact that 3 can actually be a crowd- the girl that me and my boyfriend did it with at the time showed me far more attention than him and he got a bit pis*ed off.\n\nIt's just not girls- I have male friends who also aren't keen on the idea.
488532
Well this is a pretty straightforward question. The idea that your boyfriend wants to have a threesome is not uncommon. Unfortunately it could result in breakup if you tell him. But adversely telling your boyfriend that you do not want to have a threesome is the best, and pretty much the only thing you can do. Acqueising to this kind of demand could cause you a lot of grief in the long run. Also, remember if he's not willing to drop that idea for you then its probably not meant to be.
782574
because guys are normally sexually based \nand girls are normally emotionally based \n\nguy normally screw a lot more \nif that sex seems to die or the passion is not there then a guy seems to not enjoy there partner ship and they split up\n\nwith the girls sex comes second in there relationship and therefore love last a lot longer \n\ni am stereotyping every one in saying this of coarse ever one is different but this has some since to it
619679
perhaps you are way too self concious during sex or the choice of the women you pick are not sexually arousing you. most men are not porn actor and can have erection and come with anyone or everyone. perhaps you should stop playing the number game and actually start caring the people you actually have sex with.
948684
I think its because a part of them wants to have the experience and are curious. But being that so many people say its wrong they don't come out and say it up front. I have straight friends that want to try it with a girl but dont know how to go about it and still remain "straight."
430462
i think its cause there are too many people out there who like to take others partners \nand mainly coz people want to see if the grass id greener on the other side when 9 times outta 10 its not