I was tickling my friend and accidently touched her in the wrong place. things are weird now-what should I do?
471979
Just be honest. You have explained it to her but she still acts weird, so maybe she doesn't understand it the first time you explained it to her. \nBut when you talk to her, instead of you doing the talking, let her talk. Let her speak up and see what her concerns are. Ask her open questions like "I feel you are avoiding me, and it seems to me that it is because of what happened...what do you think?(or am I right?)" and let her voice her problems. The main point is to for her to let things off her chest, not for you to keep repeating that it was an accident, because if she thinks otherwise, there is nothing you can say that will convince her, so get her talking.\nFrom what you say, she seems quite offended: "she acts like I did it on purpose." Point that out to her!\n"You seem to me like you are quite upset, if not angry, about what happened...is that right?"\nAsking questions by pointing out how you feel (to me, you seem to be...) will be less likely to offend her than stating what you think is going on (i think you are pissed at me), because when you say "I think", it is like a judgement, and if she feels like you are judging her, it will not help the situation. Say, "I feel" "it seems to me".\n\nAfter she gets talking, let her know you understand. Maybe she is afraid that you are bi or lesbian and therefore is afraid that you are trying to approach her with that kind of relationship. Ask her "Do you think because of what happened, that I have that kind of (lesbian) tendancy?" She might look at you weird, but to get it out in the open is better, and much quicker, than beating around the bush. Be open and honest and sincere, otherwise it just won't work. If you value this friendship, be prepared to put yourself up to the line and open up.\nTell her, you value this friendship, and wish it would stay the way it has been. You don't intend it to go any deeper, but you don't want it to melt away either. \n"I feel that things have been really awkward between us and we aren't the friends we used to be. I don't want that to happen bacause I value etc etc"\n\nOpen up, be honest.\nIf she still doesn't understand, it would be time to let go because it would be her hurdle to jump once you have opened yourself up and explained it to her.
972589
You should try everything once.  You might like it.  And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality.  Get over it, it won't make you gay.
558152
Oh... didn't mean too... you and this other guy were just running around naked, and you tripped, and so did he... repeatedly... hmmm. Tell him, take whatever that means and deal with the fact that you screwed up.
795188
That's completely dumb on her part.  Maybe you should have told her, but the fact of the matter is you didn't act out on it.  You actually told the friend that you didn't like her like that.  Hopefully your girlfriend will come to her senses.  Guys get hit on all the time, you can't freak when some other girl hits on your man.  It's bound to happen, if she can't trust you because of that then she has issues.  That's small stuff, believe me.
214459
look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.
1067837
If your friend is really a friend and you want to salvage your friendship, I think you should sit down with her and discuss how you really feel.  You should let her know that it really upset  you when she did what she did, and that you don't relish the chance of that happening again, that it's not acceptable behavior from someone who says she's a friend.
349141
LOL!!! I haven't been tied up and tickled, but I've been tickled unmercifully. If you're bragging.. congrats.. if not.. Tell her you don't like it. If she's ticklish.. Do it to her. XD.. This will make for a lot of good memories. I can tell. Have fun..
496405
The trick is not to lose the friendship in the process of telling. So you might just accidentally give them a kiss on the lips and see how your friend reacts to that. If the feeling is mutual, then fire on full cylinders.If he or she is shocked or outraged, then gently put the little accident behind you and forge on with just being friends. No harm done.
769626
Wow...you tried to fix a nice surprise for  your friend, you went way out of your way to do it, and now she's mad at you.   you must feel like she kicked you in the stomach when you were expecting a hug.\n\nFirst, give your friend some time to get over her shock. Just totally give her some time and distance away from you.  You won't be able to reason with her anyway for a bit.   Hopefully in time she'll begin to realize that both you and her daughter had only good intentions.  Some people (like control freaks) don't like surprises.  But really, I think she's the one who should fix this mess.  You were only trying to do them both a favor.  You could try telling her this when she's ready to listen.  It probably wont' be very long before she regroups.\n\nHey, you sound like a great friend.  If she doesn't appreciate you, I am sure many others would.\n\nblessings,\ncryllie
870501
Just ask her how her day went/is going.  Or tell her something really funny/weird/bad that happened to you.
2754
Well, if you feel funny about it, then no you shouldn't.  Just tell your friend that it weirds you out a little.  Maybe you could offer to help him get clothes of his own or give him some old clothes to keep?
1041219
Tell her you're sorry for your mistake and say to her that you've\nlearned from it. If she's a friend then she'll accept your apology.\nIf not,she won't  and you'll know where you stand.
387058
Yes I would be kinda scared off to! Dont tickle fight with her any more,seems like she has a big issue to deal with!Maybe your friend needs to find herself a sex partner to relieve her,but if thats not what she wants,Id have a serious talk with her before she gets the wrong impressions!!
181252
First i think it was sweet of you to ask her to a sleep over and second I think it was very rude of her if she sked someone else without inviting you also. Maybe you should consult her on her actions. and tell her that your feeling were hurt and see what she says to you . Then you can find out if you think you want her for a true friend. Honey there are alot of other friends out there have your own sleep over with out her and see how she would react to that. .God Bless you.
381015
first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
1184214
Well no, you should have not done that but do let her know what you have done.  She may be more willing to forgive you if she sees that your confessing your mistake...Good luck!
800014
You shouldn't let them do this to you. It was just a game and you didn't do that because you wanted to, it was a dare! You should tell your friend that you really love that he shouldn't get mad at you because of a game, and you should also tell the other guy that he shouldn't be mad at you either its not like he's got something you want, because it was just a game. Make sure that you let them see that you are above it all, you did what they dared you to do and you shouldn't get punished for it. The boy you really like will come around, just make sure to be really nice and friendly to him, but don't make it seem like you are feeling bad about what happen. Remember, it was just a game!