long distance 6 years he in army two years to retire i want to move to his state love each other should i ?
466555
I would give him two months, this gives you time to make some phone calls and connections and will give both of you plenty of time to decide if this is truly what you want.
719510
If it were me, I would go on with my life when he leaves. If the two of you were meant to be together, then it WILL happen. If not, then you shouldn't want it to happen anyway. Two years is a long time to wait, and a lot happens in two years.....leave your options open. If it's meant to be it will!
298395
This is hard, and it amounts to what do you really want to do.  There are many benefits to marrying in the military.  However it is going to be a reality that you will have to move away from your family.  Listen to what your heart tells you.
1104971
If you've talked and both feel it's right, make the move. Sounds like you could be starting a beautiful family together.
81301
It is going to be hard since the two of you are now apart.  Sounds like you are a little unsure about the stability of your relationship.  If you want things to slow down, tell him. Marriage is something that you take slowly to ensure the success of it. You don't want three years from now to end up in divorce... or cheating. take a deep breath and talk to him about the situation.  Maybe you will realize that the two of you are ready, or perhaps the two of you will make the mature decision to take things slowly!  6 months is not very long to be getting engaged!
998060
Soldier, let me thank you for you service to our country. You are a noble warrior. My brother just retired after 23 years in the Army. He also served in Iraq. The best advice I can give you is to follow your heart. If you truly enjoy what you are doing, and if it means that much to you to stay in, do so. Get your retirement. However, if it is too much to bear or isn't what you see yourself doing for the rest of your life, cut and run. Take care and good luck to you in all you do. God bless you.
492109
You have a new life now, and a new wife. You have to support not only yourself and your new life, but your old life as well. If this job will financially be a good thing for you, and if you and your wife, are enjoying being in china, and think you will enjoy it for the next 6 years, then BY ALL MEANS STAY~!!!!! Divorce shouldn't be a factor in living the rest of your life. ENJOY your life you only live once...{at least this time around} and if you love your wife and your job, there is no reason not to stay. If you still get to see them a month out of the year, for 6 years, that's still good. Not like you won't be seeing them at all. I say GO FOR IT~! And have a GREAT TIME~ And KEEP WIFE HAPPY~ :D
854110
well if you love this girl...and your sure she is the one then you will make it work...if however you have doubts then take some time apart...it can't hurt, if you love each other you will find your ways back to each other..and if not then you will not be wasting your time with someone who is not even around..It also depends on how long you two will be living apart. IF she is going to be gone for a long time maybe you should start things up when she comes back.
274940
Well, I think you should ask for his opinion. Just carry on for a lil while, and if you both find that you cannot bear the circumstance any longer then maybe breaking up is good for both of you. At least you don't have to worry too much about meeting each other and the distance either.\nBut if you two (esp. him) feel that you can still carry on, and that the love is true and strong enough to help you overcome this obstacle, then just stand beside him and fight for it. Happiness just worths its name if it is gained from challenges and hardship. Nothing valuable is easy to get my dear : )\n\nStand firm, and if you two have the same idea, then just go with it, whatever it might be...
879211
I would have to say stay with him, and try to make things work. Of course, if you loved him like you say you do, you wouldn't have to ask this question. You know he won't be gone forever. He'll be back. True love knows no boundaries. No distance should keep you from staying with him. Especially since the move is only temporary.
746113
you are right it will not last if you stay in fla and he goes to az. so one of you has to move where the other is moving or break up. so one of you has to make the big decision as to what to do. right?\ngood luck and god bless and happy holidays.
1166280
OK, if you were "in love" with this guy there would be no question here but since you are asking than obviously you are not "in love" with him. If you are "in love" you would wait a hundred years for him, marriage is just a piece of paper, your souls would already be joined by your love for each other. He didn't take anything from you, you gave it to him. If you wanted to you could wait for him military wives and husbands have been doing it for centuries, centuries and all of a sudden women think that because their man is away they have a right to abandon all his hopes, dreams, that his feeling and emotions mean nothing. If you don't stand by him yes his deployment will change him because he will think of you as nothing more than a whore who used him and abandoned him. You can do this and if you loved him you would but to me it seems like you just wanted a wedding and a trophy husband rather than this man.\n\nSort out your feelings..\n\nTell him to request leave to get married and they usually give it. It may not be your dream wedding but tell him that at least the US Military will look after you during his deployment as well as in the case of his death. Most military life insurance policies are at least 250,000. His income in general goes up if he marries. It's in his and your best interest to marry... on paper at least.
866291
Distance can suck royally, but if you two made it work before you can make it work again... I understand that after being together you don't want to part, but if he has to move back then he has to and I don't think you should let distance get in the way of your heart. It's only another year then you're done and free to move over to Ohio with him.
646415
Then tell him, distance relationships can and do work, in the end, this world doesnt force you or anyone to stay were they are.\n\nTalk to him ask him how he feels, its certainly not too late at all. If he does feel the same way then arrange to go visit him, perhaps take turns in visiting each other to see what will happen in the long run.\n\nIn the long term there is always a possibility of you moving out to him or him back to you or the both of you to someplace completely different.\n\nMost importantly of all, it is not too late and dont kick yourself for missing an opportunity.\n\nBest wishes, and kind regards.
433076
It really depends on the nature of the question. 1) Do you really love him and feel that you two will be able to grow old together? 2)What are your future plans? (ie: School, travelling, Career advancement? Marriage is a big step, its a promise and lifetime (supposed to be) committment.  Once you marry you can't think of yourself anymore you are committed to another person and that pretty much hinders your ability to do things you normally would do single (party with friends, hang out etc etc).  I'm not saying all marraiges are going to stop this from happening.  Just think about it more wisely and ask yourself are you at the point where you can settle down.
951431
If you both really love each other, then I think you should move. Being in love is the best thing that can happen to someone. It just makes every day a little before. So my answer is yes.  :-) and good luck.
397656
I married a guy from another state while I was going to college there. We decided it tio be best to move back to my state due to the opportunities and family activities. However it is a small issue because he gets resentful sometimes when he isn't there for his mom and it is an extra expense to travel back and forth occasionally. If it can be avoided, marry a local or choose a neutral spot together...but we can't help who we fall for.