how can i know that my boyfriend is not cheating on me?
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ask him!\n\nthe number one key of a successful relationship is communication.
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Two ways - covert and overt\nCovert you dont let him know you suspect anything.  In your relationship, make him feel the best and most loved of any man in the world.  This will likely make him show some emotional signs.  Meanwhile, snoop like a PI.  Check phone conversations, you can request a list of the numbers called from your phone company.  Check the bank statements, they will tell you where all the money was spent if by credit or debit.  Keep tabs on the times he leaves and comes home.  Check with work if he says he worked late, or with his friends if he said he is out with them.\n\nOvert - in addition to doing everything in the covert status (except treating him like a king) straight out ask him, get his email password, dont let him talk on the phone without you being there - just make it so hard on him that he breaks or it takes such a toll on his other relationship, he shows some emotional signs.  \n\nSigns he is cheating - a change in sexual appetite, he has some new things that you didnt get for him, money missing from the bank account without knowing where it went, a change in eating habits - if he has already eaten with her, he wont eat at home.\n\nI wish you luck!
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All men aren't the same and don't react the same way. I always say that actions speak louder than words. Watch his actions...is he coming home late or having private phone calls, etc. These are signs that he is cheating. Only you know if you need to worry. Take a good look at the relationship and how he treats you and you should find the answer.
233780
WOW thats a big one. You say you have evidence right? well use what you got. But not in a way were you will put yourself in a bad spot but us them in question. Things you talk about. Ask if he knows a girl by the name so and so. If you really love this guy. Just keep rememinding him you love him. and that your so happy you guys are together and  that he has never cheated on you. In that point . . He will be nervice looking at the floor and looking for a answer out.
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there are to options one or he's too busy doing important things or he is too busy cheating on you, sorry!!!!!!!!!!...\nyou might probably want to ask his friends what is he up to, and well if they can't tell you anything and tell it straight into your eyes then there is something wrong going on
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don't always believe guys who are telling you that your bf fooled around cause true friends don't tell sometimes guys say that cause they want you but if you truly feel he cheated then there is a 99% chance he did. look for little signs like he tries kissing different, and see how they act around each other people always tell on themselves that way. and if they act strange then leave men are replace able
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If you think he's cheating drop him, as for him saying he will not beg you...if he really loves you, he will miss you and he will beg you to come back.  Most of all, don't answer for awhile, let him wonder what you're up too!!!
219843
if u didnt see him doing sumthing wrong..like being closer than justa  friend..ask him...and if he IS Cheating on you...( he ovbiously wont tell you that )then theres something better for you out there.. good luck=)
309347
Honestly, if he was cheating you can tell by the smell. He may smell too clean or like he put on an extra dab of cologne. There would always be the last dead give away, his sudden need for "privacy" about his work, or outings at night or afternoons. I think that the best way to know is to flat out ask him. I have never once had a guy try to lie to me about it. Mostly because I give him "the look" if you know what I mean. As for a female cheating, there is always the same common need for sudden privacy in their situations like that. They wil avoid looking directly in the eye and come up with excuses for going places, secret conversations with other men or women, whichever is their preference, and at top most, wearing more make up and dressing up for work more ...provocativly than usual.
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Honestly, there's not going to be a good answer on here.  We don't know your boyfriend.  We don't know what he's inclined to do.  Anyone who answers straight-up, "He's cheating on you," or "It's nothing," is being dishonest, because that person is projecting his/her fears onto your situation.\n\nKeep an eye out for warning signs.  Maybe they are just roommates with no romantic involvement.  But maybe their relationship will evolve past the friendship level.  \n\nIn any case, communication is the key.  Let him know if this bothers you.  He should understand your concerns.  If he blows them off, then it may be for the best, as you'll know what kind of man he is.  After all, if he doesn't respect your feelings about this, then it'll just get worse when a bigger problem comes along.  \n\nDon't nag him, though.  Give him a chance to think things over.  If you come across as the overbearing jealous type, then he'll wonder why the relationship is worth it.  If it is innocuous, then he'll be really insulted.  \n\nIn short, none of us can tell you what it means.  We don't know your boyfriend.  Keep alert and maintain communication.  Let him know that if anything happens with his roommate, you want to know, even if it hurts.  It's better than having a dishonest relationship.
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No offence, but don't their advice. You'll know when he doesn't show as much interest in you and when he starts acting different with you. If you think he's cheating, but he's acting the same, get advice from a friend or family member who know them a little.
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WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.
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Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
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If he's convinced that you've been cheating on him and can't be persuaded otherwise, then he has trust issues. If he doesn't trust you, how strong is your relationship? \nAnd do you really know what he's thinking? You sound humiliated, and what you really need is a heart-to-heart with your boyfriend. So many problems can be sorted by talking openly and honestly. If you love him, then you have to be able to come to him with your problems. If you're not comfortable and instead would rather ask random people online to help you with relationship issues, then what does this say about the strength of your relationship?
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The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns. If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
287153
you have to have faith in him. you wont know and if you think he is then ask or move on...the stress of that question in a relationship can destroy it.
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Why you suspect? Enjoy each and every moment when you are with your b/f.Thank him for turning off( it means you are the most important person )  his cell phone.If he cheats you can easily understand by his face reading and behaviour.