Me and my boyfriend  and my parents what do i do?
455622
Well u can't really MAKE your parents happy but have your boyfriend do something very thoughtful in front of your parents so maybe they'll except him and you together more.\n                    :-) try it it's work for all my other friends.
1045595
If you broke up with him 4 1/2 months ago, it is time for him to move on, just like you have.  You don't owe him anything and I can't believe that your parents feel that you do owe him.  When you meet with him todday, tell him your true feelings let him know that you are happy and you have moved on and it is now time for him to move on.  Good Luck to you today!!
697783
I was in the same boat.  My advice is to keep them happy, and tell them how much you're trying to get that job, or work hard at uni.  They wont stop, but at least they dont have too much of a reason to pester you.  After all, they are your parents and they probably just miss you - try not to cut them out of your life.  A sit down and chat session is reccommended: i had to sit my parents down and explain to them that im a big boy now, and to trust me to keep myself out of trouble and work hard.  They said they understand, but felt that they still needed to be parents to the baby of the family.  Keep your cool with them, they're only doing it cos they love you.
694026
Wow your parents are being very selfish.  It sounds like you've made up your mind about your boyfriend and leaving him his not an option.  My advice is to move out asap.  You're 25, they can't stop you.  You're parents shouldn't hold that over your head...they are saying all that stuff to CONTROL you.  Trust me, sounds like something my mother would have said to me when I lived at home.  We get along a lot better now that I'm not living with her.  I don't think you're parents hate you but they are not being fair.  \n\nThis might sound out there but did you get your college degree yet?  That might help you get a better job and be able to afford living on your own.\n\nAnyways, I hope you feel better and I'm sorry you have to put up with that.  Again, move out asap.
627110
I think you need to go talk to your parents.
941129
Sounds like the typical Romeo and Juliet story. You are 17, and if you are love this man and you and him talk about having a future together, make it known to your parents. They dont have to like him, but they really should accept him and your decision to be with him. Is he a bad boy or something? Does he get you to do bad things? You are almost 18, which means you will be considered independent and can always move out of their house. Just keep in mind that they are your parents and you should always respect them and love them no matter what happens with your boyfriend. DO NOT give up having a relationship w/your parents however for this boy if it comes to it. Trust me, you will realize that will be the biggest mistake of your life! Good luck!\n\n-EA
144272
Plan some sort of outing for the four of you.  When I introduced my parents to my boyfriend last summer, the four of us spent the day on the lake on my dad's sailboat.  This was the perfect place for them to meet him, because my boyfriend also has a sailboat.  It gave him and my father a lot to talk about because they have so much in common.  (My dad's the only one I was worried about!  But my mom loves him too!)\n\nYou could also all go out for dinner, or you could make dinner for everyone at your house.
891365
This sounds sooooooo familiar.  My parents did not like my boyfriend for a very long time, but the longer we were together, the more they realized how much we cared for each other.  Now we are engaged and my parents are ecstatic.  Just think to yourself....................who's in love with him, me or my parents? when your in love, you shouldn't care what other people think, but since its your parents, i know its hard.  Just follow your heart!!\n\nGood luck and God bless!
367511
Well you could write them a letter about how you feel and leave it at that! And then go on with your plans together. They will either learn to live with their son's decision or they won't.\n\nThe parents aren't the ones in this relationship and if you both love each other, do what you need to do to be together. DON'T NOT be  together because of them. they are not in this relationship you both are, and you two should be happy. They'll get over it, it may take years, but at least you won't have to worry about your mother-in-law butting into your business, right off the bat.
480282
girl f.. his parents if ya love each other thats all that counts..dont leave him for no one show his parents that no matter what their son loves you and they gotta deal with it..
349247
You love your parents right?\n\nthen do what truly is best go to the police they will protect you do not go to other family members because sometimes that can be bad..do what is best for you and your parents..it's going to be ok it really is please
207823
Talk to them. Let them know you are distressed and need some guidance. Try and be calm about it and state clearly what you would like to see happen. \n\nMaybe before you talk to them, sit down and write out all your thoughts on a big list. Write down everything you think even if it's negative or wrong. Just get it out of your head and in black and white. Write your feelings about your parents as people, about how you are treated, about what rules you like and don't like and any other thoughts and feelings regarding your parents. \n\nNow take at least an hour and go do something else. Come back and look at your list and put check marks by the thoughts that are really important to you. On another piece of paper, write the important issues and give and example of that. Take that with you when you talk to your parents. They'll help if you ask them for it. \n\nMost parents are doing the best they know how. Try and remember that when you talk to them.
1149933
You can't get your dad and his mom to forget their differences.  Some things are out of your control, including how other people act.  OK, that's not totally true, but you've probably done what you can do already by this time.\n\nIf your relationship worth it even if you have to accept how your dad reacts and everything else?\n\nMaybe you need to put this on the backburner too - not make any decisions yet, but be a little lighter about it and let your boyfriend come to you more.  You might find that changes the dynamics a little and shifts the power you have in your relationship and in your life as a whole.  If the relationship has it's own strength it can withstand some time of uncertainty (just don't do anything stupid - be patient and trust that if it is meant to happen, it will).  Do some things that are fun for you and help you remember your own strengths and how you care for yourself.\n\nAre there other problems between you and your boyfriend that aren't about your parents?  Sometimes factors like parents can be a big distraction that lets you avoid being fully honest with each other.
562140
In my opinion, I think you should do what makes you happy. If you end the relationship, you might regret it for the rest of your life. Your parents will be your parents no matter what. They can't give you the love and care a personal relationship can. Do what your heart tells  you!
26680
well the respectful thing to do is not override your parents rules! let ya boyfriend no what they said him being your boyfriend will understand and try and go out saturday or next week
968017
You didn't say how long you have been involved with him. His mom may think you two don't know each other very well, and doesn't want to see either of you get hurt. Be sure you tell mom that you are grateful to her for giving you a place to stay during the rough times, and you feel it is time for you to move out and get your life back on track. Tell her you are sorry that she doesn't agree with you guys moving in together, but that you guys care deeply for one another...maybe she just needs to hear it from you.
419656
if its your parent well they are not ruining your life they just want to give you the best. but if you see your parents are doing something wrong and that you dont like it well talk to them nicely and tell them that you want to do work with your own tym and dont tell them that they r ruining your life (that really hurts) coz you myt might hav a son or daughter who say more hurtful things to you :).\n \nif its a freind who comands you to do stuffs then s*rew them! they'r not your friends they are users. but if they ask politely... then why not ? just make sure of wat they do is something that does'nt deal with damaging your health and the way you treat yourself ok? :) \n\nand trust me i think your parents reall love you :) i can see they care for you coz here it is .....\nthey tell you to go to sleep early because it makes you prevents pimples stress and lack of energy and headache :)\n\nthey tel you to eat at a certain tym coz they want you to stay fit and wants you to avoid getting sick and want's the family bond a bit while eating. \n\ntym to talk w/ your boyfriend? ahhh... i'm not sure with that but it depends (for me) if your the one who call well better make it shorter in chit chat coz you'r parents will be the one paying the bill not the BF. but if its the guy? well.. if your parents told you to stop and do your home work well.... just make sure you did all your chores before talking w/ your BF so that you can just say that your finish and that well..(just my sudggestion :P) tell them that your studying w/ your BF on the phone hehehe :P \n\now yeah they want you to do your homework because homework helps you learn faster and you can get good grades easier :)\n\nanyway how to deal with it ? well have a conversation about it and ask nicely. always complement them (you look grate today and stuff) and dont ever shout at them coz the more you do that.. well the more they will give you headache :P