Well i have a group of friends and i need ideas on how i could be the fun, wild one, not the quiet one?
459551
just be yourself. Express your feelings with your own words. Find somethin' you like and do with a friend that has a similarity.
1172564
Surround yourself with friends who are good people.  Not the ones who are selfish and only care about themselves.  Be yourself and don't give in to the pressure, in the long run none of it matters!
990171
develop a simple set of rules. nothing too extensive, but so it covers main points you would be in trouble with:\n\n- cleaning;\n- friends/boyfriends/girlfriends staying over;\n- disturbance.\n- if you are not a very close-knit group, have a house-meeting once a month. if there are not any problems to discuss, you can just hang out nicely; and if, unfortunately, there are, you know everybody will be there to discuss them.\n\nDon't overdo it, you don't want to pass as a control freak :) But do be serious about it. In a month or so, everybodo gets used and it will be comfortable.\n\nFinally, once in a while, it is wise to let a thing or two slide. If you let others enjoy themselves, when they really want to, they will do the same for you.
107724
Be yourself and be open about it. I mean why would be you want to find friends that aren't interested in you and only a fake you. So stay true to yourself. Also, take up a class, you want to find people wth some interest as you.
479722
Just learn how to ask people about themselves and when they answer be a very good listener and show interest in what they are saying.  People will think you are a great friend and a great person.  It's amazing what will happen.  You will become the most popular person in the group.
904943
You should be who you want to be not who others want you to be. I am alot like you when im around my friends im crazy and i am so outgoing but when I am in big crowds I am pretty quite unless one of my friends are around me. I believe that you should be the person you want tobe. Have lots of fun. You have to remember you only live once.
211952
Start talking to other people in your classes! And hung out with them.... be open and be yourself. and don't tell them that your friends are running away from you. Be nice and fun!
83145
Find the things you enjoy either separately or together and join some clubs - a bowling league, poker night, ballroom dancing, gourmet cooking classes - whatever you like. When you join these activities you will keep yourself occupied even if you don't make new friends, but meeting people that enjoy the same things as you do will no doubt end up in new friendships. :)
600344
Dont worry. You are normal. Just mix up well with all. Dont try to impress others. You have a superiority complex with known friends and inferiority complex with new friends,\nDont try to be Unnatural and try to attract attention.Attend more parties. Read a lot on various subjects, Be a good conversationalist. In all parties there would be various small groups, small circles centred around one or two heroes or heroines , just switch from one to another, wherever the topic talked is your favourite subject just get attached to it. \nDont open mouth or volunteer information to unknown groups and unless you have real knowledge on that topic.\nOver a period of time you would be liked by one and all.\nDRESS WELL PRESENT YOUR BEST ALWAYS.
264965
You mean you are reserved, you have a bit of dignity, good manners?  What's the problem?  If you want to be popular, just be as much of a giggling, mindless idiot as all the other girls.  But if you want to retain your self-respect, stay as you are, and accept having a few close friends instead of a gaggle of geese!
351480
discover new things!\ntry doing something new for a change!\nmake new frends, but do not leave your old ones!\nlastly, just be yourself and let them see the real fun side in you!
1017829
Definitely make some new friends.  Even or especially if they seem to be totally the opposite of people you are normally friends with.   Join an activity/club/course (sports league, book club, cooking class, etc.) and new friends will come automatically.  You may also gain a skill that makes you more confident.\n\nAlso, going to the gym or riding a bike, taking a walk, etc. will make you feel better b/c of the endorphins that exercise naturally provides.  Do little things for yourself -- like even taking a different route on your way to work/school/errands, or taking a walk in a park you've never been to, can make a big difference!
60530
play the numbers game.\n\nmeaning try to make friends with everyone.\neveryone won't be your friend, but some will. out of those some, you'll get a real friend.
138084
To be more outgoing. I grew up as an only child and sometimes I'm more quiet than others in a crowd. Those who don't know me take it as me being stuck up. But those who do know me say I'm funny, wild and a great friend. :)
440146
i used to be so shy, until i found my now best friend. she was so confident and encouraged me to do the same. maybe try and find friends on your own, so you aren't relying on your now friends to have a good time. Make conversation with a person in a bar or pub, thats usually a good way to get more confident, and if it doesnt work out then you can just leave it at that!\n\ndo things in public that you wouldn't normally do, like singing and dancing when messing about with friends.  Most of the problem is that you are thinking of what others think of you.  Dont worry what they think, theyr the ones having a boring time not you! and anyways, you wont see these people again, so let them think what they think!
49007
I hate to say it, but i think you might want to find some better friends.  People who like you for who you are.  In the end, you will be much happier and be having much more fun. =)
571106
You need to be around people plain and simple learn conversational skills and work the room. Maybe even a galss of wine in a social setting would help. Or talk to the faceless people on here and work your way up to a party.