Girls: What do you hate in your husband/boyfriend?
456920
It's the stubborness. And I'm sure every man has it. Wouldn't admit even if they're wrong. A disability to listen. Answering without listening the question. Later be surprised as the first time to know the question...and for giving the wrong answer. Happened all the time, with all the exes and guys friends. Doubt it can be changed. It's in the blood.
260912
I'm tall, so I HATE when men ask, "how high do your legs go?" \nOr, "I wish I could get you to wrap those legs around me." \nI HATE when white men say, "I've always wanted to sleep with a Black woman." \nLike either one of those statements make me jump for joy. MEN GROW UP PLEASE! Thank you.
443110
what i really hate most in my previous x is that:\nHe's so self-centered & so Dependent to his family! He just can't stand on his own feet...Hey, he's two years older than me & we're both had finished college already 6 years ago...
445194
No one should hate it is corrosive to your own health. Mothers in law tend to respond to their children as though they never grew up. This feeds over into the spouse and creates resentment. If you can find a way to see past this it will eventually get better for you.
1013522
You're a douche, why would you "hit it" if she really is how you describe her "poor and average looking and smells like a french fry and has a PMS attitude."  Guys like you are why women hate men!
848132
bad behaviors i hate the most, \nI like the way they are....
1005335
Okay, I know Im a gal, but I must say this.....I LOVE the fact that my husband speaks his mind. We have had arguments of opinion, but I would HATE him if he just agreed with me to please me. I want a MAN not a wimp. I fell in love with my man for being who he is, not want he thinks I want. We have a very strong relationship because even when we disagree at least we are comfortable enough to be who we are without fear. Love that about us!
872559
I really, really, really, really, really, really, really dislike my stepfather.  In fact, I always wished he'd cheat on my mother so she'd leave the bastard.  Unfortunately, I am not so lucky.\n\nHe was very emotionally and verbally abusive.  And because of him, my mother and I have a very strained relationship.  She chose her husband over her daughter, and didn't protect me from the abuse.  But, oh well.  Life sucks sometimes, doesn't it?  My parents will be the ones to deal with the consequences of their actions.
889943
I totally feel your pain\n\nI HATED my ex b/f mom (hate is probably not the way i felt about her)\n\nShe was this f u c k e n converted lady (no offense to people who are converted) she use to tell me "Why dont you let your hair down (i have curly bushy hair) & when his family was there they always use to ask me about hair & my appearance.\n\nShe was just a complete cow\nHim & his mother has a very weird relationship - he use to tell her everything that goes on in the relationship like sex, figths we had, my drinking (which was just socially), the way i act around my girlfriends.\n\nF u c k after a few motnhs I told the both of them to go to H E L L\n\nNow I'm happy!!!\n\ncheerio \nMERCAYDEES\nPs: Good riddance of bad rubbish (good that you dumped him)
247120
The lack of Freedom, like to chill with you friends  without being accused of doing something wrong.The worry of your spouse cheating and fighting. But I am married and Happy so I wouldn't have it any other way. I love my husband and he loves me but we damn sure know how to get on one another's nerves every now and again.
777493
Your boyfriend is picky.\nHe's upset when you bother him with your problems.\nHe doesn't acknowledge your improvements\nHe makes excuses to leave.\nHe gets annoyed if you question him.\nHe does nothing to reassure you\nHe says you ask for too much.\n\nGo. This sounds like it's over to me.
853332
what about the fact that he cheated on you?\ndoes that bother you at all?/
169714
you should know why you hate him, if you really have the reason and not just a felling maybe you right, if not, why don't you tell him why you don't like him and tell him the choise to change his attitude or change a girl friend
517102
I hate stone throwers.  \n\nOne, because I fell weak to cheating, and it started out as a great friendship. I regreted it when it reached the sexual level (even though it only happened once, because I wouldn't allow myself to go farther). I felt dirty, because by no means am I a person with no values or integrity.  My values did not change, it was my behavior; that's a big difference.   \n\nSecond, my husband found out and the problems that arised from it were just unecessary.  When my husband was faced with the reality of me being with another man, things actually changed for the better.  Our communication has improved dramatically.  He has been an abusive husband, both physically and emotionally, suddenly I became queen Elizabeth in his world; he treats me great now, and he confesses that he wants me to remain his wife because he can't see himself without me.  I had always communicated to him the neglect and abuse that I felt from him; it always went to shallow ears, until the cheating thing surfaced.  Although trust is now the present issue, I am working on regaining it.  By showing him that I want a life with him, and being there for him, doing the things that I always have in our home.  \n\nI too believe in raising our children together. You need to find a way to get to him, and sit him down and tell him how you feel.  You don't have to reach a good communication point by cheating, there are other ways.  Most husbands will leave their wife after finding out they cheated; in that sense I am fortunate.  \n\nThe problem is that you are both limiting yourselfs and shutting each other out.  There is a way to break that wall.  You fell in love with this man once before, try to do those little special things that you used to do for him, back when love was ever so strong between you; that's the way I am living today, and it is working out amazingly.  I truly fell in love with my husband again.
979034
i can't say i dislike him, but i wish he would get shorter hair!\n\np.s.: good luck making him your hubby!
82163
lying,cheating,choosing time with buddies too often,jealousy,smothering,not trying to get along with her friends and family,not treating her like an equal,peering over shoulder watching sports during romance grrrrr.,a bad temper and general captain caveman routines are a turn off.But i am sure none of u guys are guilty of any of these. lol.
121618
when i met my husband my parents hated him. it just takes a while for them to see the good side of you. just be yourself, use your manners, and treat her like a queen. when her parents see that you are going to bend over backwards to make their daughter happy then they will know that you are the right one for her. good luck!!!!! take care