AM SUFFERING FROM ERECTILE DYFUNCTION SYNDROME AND i NEED HELP TO SALVAGE MY FAMILY.ANY ASSISTANCE PLEASE.?
468970
a cocktail straw or a stir stick down the urethra will do the trick
208785
You can try Tantra or you can go to a sex shop and purchase a penile ring. It really helped my man. Another way I helped my man is when he felt he was going to ejaculate, pull out and I would hold the head firmly until the feeling would subside and resume intercourse. I kept doing this and now he is a monster!
742199
just get some counselling for gods sake,for all the family,why the hell is every body having sex with every body these days,the family memeber with each others,i mean come on go out of the house a little,meet new people,play sports,have some hobbys in ur life,is there nothing better to do with ur free time rather to have sex with ur brother or sister,i mean come on people,it is a big world out there,plz get some life do not stay in the house,i love sport i am an athletic guy,why do not u play sport u love or find someting usefull to do in ur free time and life,but do not stay in the house having wild thoughts about ur family memebers,just go see the big world out there,it is waiting for u just out side the house.get some counselling fast,and good luck to u all.
980119
I too have this problem. I solved it by applying Olive oil on the inner skin (before erection). Camellia or sunflower oil can be used too. Good luck!!!
1170578
My dad had a girlfriend a while back that has a brother with an inflicted brain injury causing severe mental incapacity and loss of function. She told me about going to groups, and how she found out about how to deal with caring for her brother under such conditions. One of her sources of info was a group she found on the web years ago, since dissolved. Here are a few other options. Good luck, blessed Be.
1066465
I really admire you, you are one of the few men that really care about what their family wants.  I can suggest you to plan something like go out to eat early in the day and then go to the movies and watch a funny movie for the kids or watch it at home and play some fun games at home.  I wish you the best.  Happy Early Father's Day.  Keep being so sweet and dedicated to your family.  God Bless.
382794
Lord god, please, if it possible spare this family of this suffering and give this ill man the strength and wisdom to overcome this ailment and see to it that he has the passion to want to survive this. SHould this not be your will, please let him not suffer and let his family adjust and be ok without him.
168598
Pure essential lemongrass oil. It'll work better than any med! About $8 for a .5 ounce bottle. If you hold the bottle up to your nose or drop 2 drops on a Kleenex or something, you'll have energy pronto. Just don't sniff too much an hour before retiring to bed.  I've been wanting to ask you: how is your brother? I've been dying to know!I've put 2 "questions" up asking, hoping you'd see them.             Poor guy . . darn, I wish those lousy doctors would do something for him!!His body is so sensitive with everything he's been through! I just hope to God that the medication they've given him, doesn't make him worse!If your family has the time and the means and the med doesn't work or makes him worse . . .maybe it would be worthwhile to visit an herbalist or alternative practitioner. Best of luck to you and your family. I hope everything works out. Feel free to email me, if you wish. I have a Leo rising and was curious about you and found we have at least a couple of things in common. If you click on urloveurloved, you can get my email address.
35515
I feel very sorry that your family is living this way.  I am putting some links here that should be able to give you a place to start.
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First off, you are tired.\n\nMasterbation is easy , less active and gets the job done the right way.\n\nthat being said, you have 2 children under 3.\n\nEven if your a stay at home mom its exhausting. all the running around and lack of sleep.\n\nPlus you associate his penis with pregnancy, and that is off limits now.\n\nInitially it was exciting to think you could have his baby, and pregnancy was a fun idea, and now you know that pregnancy ends with a baby and that is no longer FUN its work.\n\nAnd if you had a ruff delivery, and alot of tearing down there, sometimes they just don't sew up the snatch correctly and it hurts, or if you tear at the top, \n\nbut personally for me its the hormones, mommy hormones\nfirst we breast feed, and it takes at least 6 months after breast feeding to enjoy sex. cause your homone levels are up.\n\nso its a dual problem physical and emotional.\n\nOk so here is what you do to fix it.\n\nGet yourself some help, if your hubby doesn't do it then get a friend, your mom, sister whoever.\n\nBut you gotta give the man his sex. you know that right?\n\nGo out to the dollar store and the sex store and pick up some goodies. Candles, and a vibrator. and anal play devices.\n\nmusic , chocolate coverd strawberries, champagne, and whipped cream.\n\nNow wait til friday night, kids are away, and he has no idea,\nget comfortable with the idea.\n\nWatch porn, and pull a julia roberts in pretty woman.\n\nYou need to stop masterbating so often, cause you aren't saving it for him, if you want to masterbate during sex then fine but not before.\n\ntrust me you will get it back but it takes time and if you stop masterbating you'll start enjoying his touch again.\n\nRoll playing can help, talk dirty and tell him what to say to turn you on.\n\nAnd make sure he is licky licky before he sticky sticky's\n\nand if not then tell him to enter from behind and masterbate while he does his thing,.\n\nif this doesn't work email me for more pointers.\n\nGood luck \n\nMeg\nkovasmomma@yahoo.com
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Well Mr. "I can't get it up, and its all my wife's fault",  just imagine how disappointed she is in you!!! \n\nSeems to me, you have real sexual and marrital problems. \n\nI've heard of cases like yours in which the man has extreme difficulty performing with a real woman because he has spent so much time being aroused and ejeculating to pornography.  \n\nIn his mind now, women, who are nothing more than sex objects, have to have perfect bodies, like in the pictures to be sexually arousing.   \n\nPlus because he's had so much fake easy pornography sex, he's DISCONNECTED from bonding emotionally with a real woman-- sexually or otherwise.  \n\nThis creates all sorts of sexual problems in his relationships, that manifest themselves in different ways, like blaming lack of erection on the physical appearance of his wife's boobs.  \n\nWith the ease of access and increased use of pornography many psychiatrists, pastors/rabbis, and marriage counselors are reporting a huge spite in patients with your very problem. (check it out)\n\nYou have a couple of choices now.  \n\n1) You could go ahead and change your wife.  Have her get her boobs fixed so that it is pleasing to you, Have her wear sexy lingerie, and promise not to walk around naked in front of you.  \n\nBut what happens if her body changes again?  When she gets pregnant? older? gains weight? loses weight?  \n\nDo you just plan to stop loving her again?  \n\nSex in marriage is most fulfilling because it is an expression of love, dependence, and trust, as well as getting your physical needs met.  Qualities that are not based on physical appearance.  \n\nI'm not minimizing the importance of looking and smelling good for your mate, On the contrary, I believe it is important, I just think in your case its more serious than that.  \n\nSo since I doubt this is the heart of your real problem, getting your wife "fixed" is not going to keep it "up" for you.  \n\nEven with her body perfect, eventually you'll have another erection problem, begin fantasizing about other people and then justify having affairs.  \n\n2) Your second option and the recommended one, is that you  seek counseling to determine the real root of this problem and to resolve it within yourself.  \n\nThis will help save your marriage, and check to see if you are healthy enough to be fulfilling and fulfilled in an intimate relationship.  \n\nRight now you are feeling like you made a mistake getting married or got deceived somehow.  Not only is this most likely faulty thinking, these feelings you have will be detrimental to your marriage.\n\nGo talk to a specialist and get it checked out before you invest a few grand on a boob job.\n\nAlso, make sure you talk to your wife about this.  But a word of caution.  Be very careful about how you approach her with this. \n\nSticks and stones can break your bones, but your words can destroy.
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try a supplement called horny goat weed,you can get it in health shops,its  herbal tablets and can be taken by guys or girls,you can take them everyday about an hour before sexual activity.\nget your partner(if you have one) to dress up and look sexy.\nhave you ever tryed kamagra?(generic viagra),you can get it of the internet, it works wonders and keeps you up for hours,but you have to be sexuly excited.some guys say they dont need it,but ask yourself this can you have sucessfull sex for aleast 3 hours+\nwithout losing your erection?? if u havent already tryed these get of your computer and get out there and stock up
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This can be addressed with medication and therapy.  Please contact your local mental health facility for advice.  Before you sic the health department on your family member or start pitching stuff out behind their back, please at least do this.  If you just take over and do things for them, it takes away all their control, and they literally may never speak to you again.  If you care about them,  get them some help but be compassionate.\nThis is an invaluable site for some insight for you and them:\nhttp://www.squalorsurvivors.com
448835
Yes, speaking from experience. You must go to see a urologist. Many different things can cause erectile dysfunction and many of them can be cured. Sometimes it is as simple as changing a medication or shrinking an enlarged prostate. If all else fails there are medications out there that can be prescribed that will allow you to function again.
98721
I am so sorry to hear of your father's diagnosis. All I can think of would be to possibly look into clinical trials where most if not all of the costs for treatment are covered. I wish you and your family well.....
1157625
Weak erections may be from lack of Vit B 12. Go to health food store and purchase a bottle of B100 AND a bottle of B12. Take one a day and see if things don't change within 2 weeks. IF not, go to urologist...there are plenty of meds out there to solve the problem. AS for premature ejac....that just takes practice...don't get so carried away. There are techniques you can use to slow the process down. When you get to point to poppin', withdraw and pinch just under the bottom of the head...apply lots of pressure, that will stop the process...do this often enough and you will be much longer winded. Good luck
568506
Try eating foods containing vitamin "A" because it is good for blood circulation and ED is caused by lack of blood flow.