what is the most decent way to ask girl friend for a kiss or hug ?
464392
Haven't you seen "Hitch"?  You don't ask.  You lean in 90% of the way and if she's feeling it she will come the other 10%.
1170938
Not all are the same..some find a first kiss a big step in a friendship, others can share it as an expression of enjoying the moment...either type, you need to pay attention to the signs...if you get along well, she tends to touch you innocently, if she holds your hand...then I would say the signs indicate a attempt to kiss her is appropriate..pick the right moment....make it short and sweet and continue to read the signs from her reaction..good luck.
907734
The good news is that there are some very positive signs. So, basically, you are asking how do you bring this friendship up to the next level, right?\n\nAs a rule, girls will give a man three chances "to be a man." She's texting you, she was disappointed when you did not show at the pub (that was you first chance), and then you cooked her a meal and watched TV together (your second chance). The texting speaks for itself. She is not going to be texting a guy in whom she has no interest. As to being stood up at the pub, you have to understand how girls think. She most likely thinks you were with another girl. In a way, that's good. You want her to believe that you are a man in demand, that other girls want you.\n\nThe meal and TV the other night was a nice score for you, but you missed a chance to kick up the relationship a notch. You still have a nother chance. This is what I recommend. Tell her you have a new DVD (something that you know in advance she is interested in: music, comedy, whatever). Invite her over to watch the DVD. She probably say yes. DON'T COOK. She already knows you can cook. You want to focus your attention on HER, not on cooking. Got it? DON'T ORDER OUT. Again, the food is going to be a distraction. Nothing kills a mood more that having garlic and onion on your breath. I recommend simple mild cheese and crackers, possibly a little bit of cut fruit and vegetables. She'll like your good sense and healthy eating habits. Here is the kicker. DO have a good bottle of wine. Turn the lights down, and have some candles ready to be lit. Girls love it. It is slightly cliche, but the girls love it. Now remember, when she arrives, do keep the lights turned on. She might freak out when she arrives and she enters a dark apartment. I also strongly urge you to have fresh cut flowers in a vase on the table. \n\nLight the candles when you sit down to watch the DVD. Sit close to her, and put your are around her. If she likes you, she will not be repulsed. Play it by ear. She might respond by putting her hand on you leg, or touching your arm. When she does that, give her a light kiss on the cheek, neck, or lips. That will send shivers down her spine.\n\nWhen it comes time for her to leave (assuming that you decide not to go "all the way" although that is a distinct possibility), be sure to give her a strong hug, and a passionate kiss. Take two or three flowers from the vase, and give it to her. Make sure that you make arrangements for your next date. Remember, you are a man in high demand. Don't make a date for the next evening. Give her at least four or five days to stew, preferably a week. Also, don't call her or text her during that week. Trust me on this one. Remember... you are a man in high demand. (There is a reason why I am repeating this.) Girls have a strange ego. They only want a man that they believe other girls want.
1127158
i don't think you need an excuse. if she is sitting and you are getting up to leave, just bend over and kiss her forehead saying she is a sweet girl. nice kisses like that don't need permission. same for kisses on the hand. the surprise is enjoyable, no matter what they say.
302328
make it romantic!  girls love a romantic kiss- my favorite is something like under the stars, in a gazebo, or BEST of all, in the pouring down rain.  I know it's all that corny movie stuff, but girls grow up watching that corny movie stuff, and long to be held and kissed in that same passionate romantic way!\n\nDon't get me wrong, there are definitely times for light pecks!  A surprise kiss on the cheeck, forehead, top of the head, was always a cause to make me blush with happiness too.  Random times for that are the best- get her when she's not really expecting it!  A casual arm around the shoulder, and a peck on the cheeck, maybe neck makes a girl feel really great!
48404
the best way is to approach her tell her that u really love and that you will make a good boyfriend when she accepts
1079715
It's best I think when it's out of the blue you go over to her when she's in the middle of doing something turn her around and give her a nice big hug squeeze tight but not to tight for a couple of minutes try even giving her a kiss on the forehead  and tell her you really enjoy having her around and in your life that would make her feel great.
158114
Just go for it, while you are sitting there one day, just lean over and kiss her.  \n\nThe best relationships can come out of friendships.\n\nReligion can be worked out.  Just agree to disagree and respect each other.
465845
the movies!! you could use the yawn trick and put your arm around them. if they dont mind that then maybe you could go for the kiss!!  Or just tell them you want more than friendship(be honest, it worked for me) Good luck
584634
Excuse me,but can you help me,there's someone i like and i don't know whtt to say to her--what's good pick up line (i know it's silly,)but help me ,what's the best pick up line  you think a guy could use-i mean really -I really like this girl-alot-do you know any ? you must of had some said to you? some silly once i'm sure-- i don't want to look like a jerk-i like her--help me -what should i say--what kind of line would work on you? " she tells -- you say thanks- take it -turn -take a step stop -turn back-use it!\n\nthey laugh anyway
141900
Don't just kiss her.  That is terrible advice.  \n\nYou can't just ask a straight person out on a gay date cold.  There in lies rejection.  Start simple.  Start giving her compliments or floating little comments about how hot some female movie star is.  Be really attentive to relationships (past or present) and plant little seeds like "you really deserve someone who would treat you better/appreciate you".  Find ways to bump hands and linger just a second longer then you need to.  Tell her she is beautiful - A lot.  Make sure that she knows you will appreciate and respect her.\n\nThen once you have planted these seeds (and if she hasn't freaked out yet), take her aside one day and tell her that you really like her and think she is so wonderful/beautiful and would like to take your friendship to another level.  And have a plan.  Say you would love to go out to dinner/mini golf/opera/whatever and see if she feels any sparks.  That is about the best you can do.\n\nHowever you have to respect her wishes if she says no.  No one likes that creepy stalker that can't accept that you don't have feelings for them.  Don't be that person.  And for heavens sake, don't push her if you think she is bi or lesbian and she does not.  Even if you are right, it will take time. If she says no, just say that is ok and give her a compliment, like I just really think you are a beautiful wonderful person etc.\n\nAlso be prepared for some estrangement if she does not say yes.  She might feel a little weird around you at first.
579
Girls are people too.  Just casually find out what she likes and then ask if she wants to do it (whatever it is) with you.  As in "Did you see that preview for King Kong?" etc  You can always try "My friends and I were gonna do that (go see that) Saturday, wanna come?"
169569
Tell your friend that she should get into it.  Don't just lay there like dead wieght.  Touch, grab, kiss and switch positions.  Remember, practice makes perfect.
173775
well, the best way to make out, is by going to see a sucky movie at the movies, an old one perferably because its usually empty, so just don't watch the movie, look at her and try flirting a little, then rub noses ect.....untill u get to making out, its really simple, u'll kno what to do when you get there
497072
ask her out for tea. that almost always works for me. it's not threatening and a nice gesture!
1176735
You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
589176
touch is okay but might be to fast as a girl i say just ask her out on a date if she says no move on if she says yes you know she likes you. then u can you can find out more about each other