what will you do if your friend or colleague snitch you boyfriend? and after 9 months they got married?
462547
the greatest revenge is success. do some special things for you, perm your hair, buy new cloths, and listen to music you never herd before, then go out and flurt. Tell the girl you will forgive but never forget, and that chis dick was small so you were going to dump him any way. Then move on, and forget them. It hurts, happened to me, and I am still not over it, but I moved on. you have to wait until some else comes along to take your mind off it completely.
1048646
Don't listen to your friends.  Enjoy the secret love affair, life's too short not to...though it doesn't sound so secret if your friends know.  Since you work in different departments it's no big deal.  If you worked in the same office on the same floor then it might be a big deal.  If you really care for this woman and she cares for you then shut out the negative remarks that others make about it.  It's no ones business but your own.  You have to remember, YOU ARE BOTH ADULTS....repeat....BOTH ADULTS.  Hopefully everything will work out.  If it doesn't then you have to remember you are both adults and will handle it in a professional manner.  You're not little children (Hello.)  \n\nYour friends are jealous....YES, they are...and PETTY also.  Shame on them!  They should be happy for you.  It's really sad they had to come down on you like that.  \n\nAlso, I know of lots of couples that met through work and fell madly in love, got married and are still married to this day.  It's wonderful.  Please don't listen to your so called friends....who I wouldn't call friends at all.  Also, you should not have made it any of their business in the first place.  And shame on you for that part!\n\nOne additional note:  Since you are already having the affair this is a senseless question to ask at this stage.  You should have asked it before you started the affair.  What difference will it make now.  Therefore, you might as well enjoy it.
105768
your in a hole different ball game now. your married they are not. this is when you find out who your real friends are. and you being married shouldn't have anything to do with them not hanging out with you any more. i will ask my good friend and get back to you
563878
Inform the parents of the two friends.  If you don't get it back within 3 days call the cops.
351852
Bury her behind your boyfriends house. If he ever dumps you-make an anonymous report to the police that there is a body behind his house.
1170335
You are wrong. A friend isn't going to go after a friend's partner. The people who do, are not friends.
511326
Be wary most of the time.  As the length of time of knowing someone increases, you can judge by how well you trust them.  Give them little tests along the way to check if your assumptions on trust were right.\n\nI recently trusted a 3-year friend with a detail/secret.  They snitched about it.  I know this person is not one to tell important info now.
982680
It was before they got married so tell her to drop it.and let her cry on your shoulder,until she gets it all out.it want do any good to say anything to him.they weren't married at the time ,probably just a last fling .
50048
If she's aware of what you've been goin through and does nothing about it, then she's not your friend.  If she stops cheating after she realizes your situation, then she's a good friend. It also depends on what's more important to her, your friendship or her marriage.  Rest assured that if she does love her marriage more than your friendship, she'll do anything to protect her marriage, even if it means ruining your 20 yr friendship.\n\nMy advice, don't say a word to her husband.  You may be in a messed up situation right now, yet the important thing is that you keep your distance; coz afterall, it's not your problem.
122033
...keep him/her in secret\n\n;)
658614
My Best friend started messing around with my boyfriend. I called him and she was at his house. I asked her to leave there and come talk to me so that we could remain friends and just get passed it. I waited until 11 that night. Finally I got so mad, I wrapped a chain around my fist,went to his house, went into thru the side window,into the kitchen {They were going at it in the bedroom} Had a glass of wine.When I was done with my wine, I opened the bedroom door, looked at her and said "Your done" He dismounted pretty damm quik.Hit her in the face a couple of times. It gets a little hectic after that so I'll spare you the details. I'm a very calm person so, this kinda my fame to going Saprano style on someone. This is probably not the best way to handle a situation,but it does make for a fun story to tell
35883
My husband found the email address for a man that I once had a relationship with. (I had told my hubby about Chris before we got married so it was no secret or anything.) My husband gave me the email addy and said just email and say hello. It turned out to be my ex boyfriend. Six months later, my ex boyfriend had heart bypass surgery. He died a week after that. I have got to say the BEST thing that ever happened to me is my husband coming into my life! He is very understanding and laid back! He is my happiness!
570283
dont feel guilty.\nits none of their monkey business\nface this one of a kind challenge in your life\nlet the people know how much you love your boyfriend\ndefend your relationship.
924924
Let it go for now.\nBe his friend \nYou'll probably marry him in 5-10 years from now\n;)
770727
LMAO... you have to either pray your friend doesn't notice it, or just come clean.  I'm sorry, but that's just hilarious.  (probably because it's something i would have done... LOL)
1039902
your typing as if your still drunk!! Well you have mad a bad mistake and I hope you have learnt your lesson, you will have to make it up to your friend and your boyfriend and don't do it again
524285
Don't do it, you'll regret it later.  I did it and found out things I didn't want to know.  Trust him or leave him, that's the new motto.