This guy I really like told me he loved me in the same week we met! Is that good or bad?
459994
He probably doesn't know the true meaning of LOVE.  But I bet he's got the infatuation thing down to a science.\n\nOK, let's face it, children (and I mean young persons under the age of 20) experience a rush of hormones.  These powerful chemicals drive us to do strange things and say things we don't have any understanding of.\n\nOK, so he said he loves you.  Take it with a grain of salt.  It may grow into a real love.  And if you are young like I think you are then take it slow, but fight for it if it is what you want.  The young loves are the most intense.  And if it does grow you may find yourself happy for a very long time.\n\nHowever, also keep in mind that he could be thinking with the little head. (hormones again)\n\nObsession?  Since you use that word, it makes me feel that this is NOT the right thing for you.  Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If this one gets away, there will be another.\n\nUse your head and not your heart.  I know they say to follow your heart, but that's not always good advice.  The heart can want things that are not good for it.  Just read some of the questions people are asking here.  You'll see that there is a lot of people suffering heartache because they made a mistake.  A mistake made by following their heart.
157900
Don't be upset. You live and work with the guy and he tells you he cares about you and I'm sure he tells you that he loves you. V-day is a day for telling people you love them , not materialistic things that is hyped up to be. I'm sure he does things for you that make you happy, those moments count. He said that he will get you something on Friday. It is a work week and he just happens to be busy. It happens to all of us .Since you live together, do something romantic together, such as cook together or cuddle. I wouldn't worry.
884213
kindof a rattly statement just to say you like the guy.....\ngive it some time and if meant to be will work out!
636896
i think that it is imoportant for you to tell him how you feel.you never know, he might like you too.but what you really should do is to do what you feel is right in your heart =)
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
494972
c'mon don't be so hard on yourself. of course he likes you enough to spend so much time with you. however, it would be wise to be cautious and tread carefully. why look for signs, just enjoy the now. it does seem you are happy right now, so don't question and don't let doubts prevail.all the best babe!
483082
i think you know the answer to this, he will say what he thinks you want to hear. no way can he really fall inlove with you in such a short time. he may have fallen for you looks or personality but that isnt enough to get more intimate so quickly. if he really cares about you then he will wait until your ready and not rush into anything so personal. go out with each other and get to know each other better first.
319694
i was talkin to this guy online for about 2 weeks met him and that was 2 years ago and now we are still together in love so yes sometimes its good!! just be safe about it
1101622
Tell him sorry but that isn't good enough for you and walk away.  Just from the way you wrote your question tells me there is no doubt that you will be attached to him and that you need more in a relationship.  If he really liked you then he would be willing to enter a committed relationship or simply date with no benefits.  You deserve a man who wants to be with you and only you and is interested in developing a real relationship with you.  Don't settle for anything less or you will get hurt.
1071178
Just because the "L" word came out doesn't really mean anything Bad. Like you said you guys have known each other for awhile already!\nAnd telling him that you haven't felt that way in long time... \nWell, that's like telling him that you are not sure if you are ready for that step in your relationship with him... But, this could be a good thing! If he really loves you ... you will know! \nHe will still show interest in you and you and him can get closer in your relationship. Just don't rush it..  I have been married three times and all of them we're great at first! Ya' know? Just can't wait to be with them... all you think about... and that's great!\nAll I'm saying is to take your time if you want it to last... \nPay attention to the bad sides he may have and see if you really want to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THIS PERSON...\n\nI don't think you really pushed... if he loves you he will stick around.    If you think you pushed... just go talk to him.\n"What should you do now?"  \n(1)Take your time...\n(2)Let the love grow...\n(3)Spend time together and talk<<< \ncommunication must be open. \nSharing your feelings with the one you love is very important!\nIf you are serious about this guy then try these steps and God Bless...\n later.
410911
It's probably a good sign if a guy has a hard time saying "I love you."  It could mean that he puts a lot of importance in those words.  To me, saying that means that I'm starting to permanently commit myself.  Plus, words are kind of cheap, and sometimes a simple "I love you" doesn't feel like it says it all.
358527
It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
877530
I think it sounds a bit dodgy to me and not right. He should be excited about seeing you and be as keen as you are to get together, if i were you i wouldnt waste my time going out there, get out there and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them, lifes too short to waste time on fake love go find true love, i can guarantee it will be worth it.
671707
it's just dating...you're single now...no harm.  Don't make any commitments until you know what you want this time...make no mistakes again...be sure he knows that as well
835918
You can't tell if he loves you by the things he did and it's too early to know about things like that. But by what you are saying, that guy really does like you a lot. It must be so exciting!
240780
it seems like theres something about you that he likes. i should know-i did the same thing but ended up being rejected when i told this girl what i felt for her.
750147
Young Lady, it is not wrong to be liking someone but do not let it be just skin deep. \nJust by calling him 2 days in a row, he will know that you are into him. But if he was sincere in befriending you, he wouldn't ask such questions. It just means that he feels he has got the chance to play around with you and you are thinking of going out with him?\n\nWell, if it makes you feel better to have a date with him, go ahead but be careful not to play his game.