things is hard so wat can u do?
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its hard to read the ?'s and understand it...but when he leaves...occupy ur time with ur hobbies or ur friends ...within time it gets easier
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Putting everything into perspective.  Find people that can relate to your situation and talk to those around you about your/their feelings.  Realize that what happens is not in your control.  But the way you respond to illness is up to you.  Try to be loving and caring when things are hard, but remember to be aware of the good times that come around.  Don't let any negativity overtake positive moments.
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Don't worry too much about it. Just do all you can do and let the rough end drag.
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If you have no control over the situation, you might just have to face it!\n\nIt's probably one of the hardest things to do in life, but sometimes it has to be done! It takes a strong person to stand up and admit the truth!
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Go out for a nice meal, you probbaly had a tough day, as your question sounds depressing. So Go out, have some fun, an denjoy the city, or town, or wherever it is that you live.
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Just be there for them, there's very little that you can do or say, nothing to stop the pain. But making sure that all the everyday things are sorted out and letting them talk as much as they want to all help. Good luck.
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get help from someone you trust and can talk to.if it carries on get help from someone proffesional
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Be there for them when they need to talk about their issues and when you have had all you can take - do something for yourself like a bubble bath, gardening or go for a walk. Something YOU enjoy - to take your mind off their problems.\nBTW. Do not feel bad if you have to tell them you can not take any more right now.
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Most people will help someone out if asked. What is hard is offering help to someone who may or may not want it.  Never be afraid to ask for help or support, it often does not come unless you let others know you need it.
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Try to get in touch with yourself spiritually and take a time-out. Do something you enjoy and remove yourself from the tension. I know it's easier said than done but it's worth your sanity! **Sending you strength**
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I'm very sorry to hear of this struggle you are going through. You are not the first to go through this, and are probably not alone either.\n\nWhen I go through tough times, I try one or both of two coping mechanisms that I have picked up in life:\n\n(1) Indulge yourself in something you enjoy doing (swimming, reading, running/jogging, surfing the web, watching porn, etc);\n\n(2) Talk about it with a good listener.\n\nBe well.
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be more emotional or atleast try
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take a deep breath & try to relax, or shake it hard
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Realise that you are not in control of your life and be okay with it. Knowing that there is something out there stronger than you holding the world together is always helpful, also make yourself some tea, and/or then take a bath/shower and wash away you tension
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Be at peace.  You are with people that love you.  In the end that is all anyone can ask.
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yes , it is very hard
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It's going to take some time. But, meanwhile spend lots of time with friends and family. Constantly remind yourself of how wonderful you are and spend time doing things for yourself. You know, pamper and spoil yourself. Keep your head up and be encouraged. Sometimes bad things happen to good people for no reason at all, but it's during those times that we've got to use those situations to make us stronger not weaker. Good Luck!