How come girls dont flirt with big guys and dont seem interested?
457116
fat guys are disgusting!
217368
With some women, it's because they're scared. Also it could be because the girl isn't sure the guy is interested in that way. So if a guy is into a girl, let them know.
338265
becoz they are boys..not a men as yet\nthey can do anything to get what they want, and will just leave you once they get bored (for those flirters)\nthey are just enjoying thier time without realising that they are hurting other people
448578
Well I thank that it depends on the guy because some like skinny girls and some like big girls so they can have something to hold on to, then some guys like us medium sized girls, but all the guy friends that I have like skinny girls, but like I said it depends on the guy, and if you get a guy that don't care about your looks that just cares about your personality and your insides like sweetness, kindness and other things like that it shouldn't matter.
148686
Low self esteem.\n\nSome guys also like getting with girls they know they won't fall for... easy way to keep themselves detached.
25110
The first thing you see on the opposite sex, is their personal appearance. Thats is what motivates you to start a conversation with them. Once you get to know them, you decide if you wanna be with them because of their looks or their personality and brains.\n\nMe personaly have talked to girls that are drop dead gorgeus but just dumb as a brick, so i would never work out. Other great looking girls have an attitude that would make the devil him self shake.\n\nI've also talked to some okay looking girls that know how to treat everybody with respect and that makes them beutiful in the inside and outside.\n\nI would tak epersonality and branins over beauty any day of the week. \n\nIt's pretty hard to find the total package, don't care if your a guy or girl. You just gotta let things go once in a while.
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i myself find petite girls very attractive, why they dont respond could be a few reasons. you have more money, standoffish cause youre into your thing (gymnast thing), or they think your too cute for them.
401048
Hey, i have the same problem. In most girls they trully dont care about looks, but you have those shallow girls too. I'm a guy that feels the same way. well the chance i think, would depend on what you are like, along with your personality. And if this girl is a popular, cheelaeder type, i would say she is going to be shallow , because girls like that don't want to be embarresed in front of their friends, but if she's not liek that try to talk to her learn about her. and if she is shallow just stay away from her.
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Guys are all about looks.  Some like breasts, bottoms, legs, etc.  If you don't have the feature the guy finds appealing, you have no chance.\n\nGuys generally do not have conversations with women they are interested in.  Guys see women they communicate with as friends.  The women they like they either try to impress or pretend they are listening to them.  That is the unfortunate truth about men.
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You dont need to change, guys will like u just the way you are. I think that girls who say that guys prefer more girly girls are stupid. Girls that are used to hanging out with guys are usually the ones that are better at flirting, communicating, and having a good time. Guys dont want a girl whos all prissy and stuckup.
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do you mean, lifting pick up, or dating pick up. i have answers though.\n\nPhysically: most girls are lighter, it depends on there history and genes\n\nDating: because we're cuter and sometimes dumber and will go with anyone, no affence to any girls...... but guys arn't like that
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It depends.  Some women are just stupid and don't know when you are trying to get to them, and some guys are just stupid and dont give strong enough signals.  I recommend commenting them about their appearance occasionally, it normally helps.
326246
not all guys like big breats more, and alot of girls would rather not have large breasts
375115
This may be true. They(boys) may find you a bit intimidating because you are confident and probably because of your maturity they may think they don't stand a chance with you.  But don't change because they are too wimpy to approach you.  There are lots of guys that like a challenge and are not intimidated by talented, competitive, confident young ladies. They find this appealing.
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Some girls like it when guys show off. U can also tell them u like them. But I like it when guys flirt with me.
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Let me tell you this...as a 'guy' guys only go after girls who they like!!!!! they wouldn't approach someone they didn't like unless its for somekind of advantage.
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I don't know what you look like . . . . but from your question quoting you "i'm 'cute and funny'".  And if that is true . . . guys don't find you attractive.  Guys are initially attracted to the physical . . . which means you have to be hot - guys are usually aroused (not necessarily physically) when they approach a girl, especially when they want to get to know a girl.\n\nLesbians, I have a few lesbian friends, and very very few dress like guys and they are attractive.  But lesbians are not initially attracted to a persons appearance (in most cases) . . . it is usually their attitude or how the girl holds herself . . . what is the word I am looking for . . . her personality . . . which girls look into first.\n\nYou see . . . without a picture and using your own word . . . it describes you to me . . . and unless you were nude and bent over in front of a guy . . . he probably would never noticed you.  Change your appearance . . . if you have short hair . . . grow it long.  If you are under 5' 6" you need to weigh no more than 105 lbs . . . but it also depends on your shape.