I'm not in to sex toys, but my husband has bags of them. Why?
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tell him you arent into those things and you like the read deal not sex toys man he has problems in my opion ?
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my husband sleeps with his hand on his **** but not playing with it and not down his pants i guess they are scared someone might steal it or it will run away lol
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lol my hubby took his best friend with him to pick some out for me because he was too embarrassed to go by himself...I treasure the thought because I know how hard that was for him to do that.\n\nWhen he has gone on his own I got flannel PJ's with animal prints on them. LOL So I knew he had help with the sexy stuff.
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Wow!  What crawled up proccna's a$$ and died?  \n\nIvy, think back over the past few weeks/months and see if you can remember some little indulgent thing your husband wanted for himself, but decided he "didn't really need it" or was "a little too expensive right now".  It could be anything from a new 3 wood to a singing fish wall plaque...just something that he fancied in a store (or online) but decided not to get for himself.  Get him that and remind him that you saw him looking at it and you wanted him to have it.  The "it" won't matter near as much as the fact that you noticed...being a guy, I know how much we like to know that our women are paying attention to us!  Good Luck!!
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Ive had underwear go missing from my drawers too.  But its hard to tell if it was my bf at the time or some workers who were in my house.  Either way its sick and I just dont understand going into someone drawers and taking their personal things.  Men are sick.  Hopefully she'll figure it out and embarrass the sh*t out of you.
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I work in retail and some of the things we see are unbelievable!  Most recently we found a sex toy in one of the ladies fitting rooms.  We once found a digital camera with pictures of girls trying on bras and in various stages of undress.  Very awkward when she showed up with her dad to claim the camera.  Lots of dirty diapers and feminine supplies (yes, unfortunately).  Recently had a man trying on a bra.  Since it was close to Halloween we kind of wrote it off, until he asked for matching panties.  I am sure I have lots more, this is just off the top of my  head.
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I don't hide my toys. I put them in my undies drawer
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If he won't let you get a toy, tell him that you are having some slight back pain and could you get a wand massager (the kind that plugs in).  Get the Hitachi Magic Wand Massager and when he is around use it for your back.  When he isn't around, use it to get off.  My wife can have an 0rgasm in under a minute with this thing, it is so strong.  And she keeps really, really happy with it.  \n\nOr just really tell him how you feel and that it isn't cheating, just that he never gets you off but he gets to have his 0rgasms, so it is very unfair.  Just tell him you'd like one small di1do, or a magic bullet, or the wand massager I mentioned above.  \n\nI wish my wife could be more horny like you, she never really wants sex with me, even before I got her toys.  I want it several times a day.  Such is life, eh?  And we are 28 too.
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well looks like you have found your husbands true colours...  you know what to do!!He's scared you will find out more i think.. he using the money thing as a blackmail to stop you from digging deeper!!
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Yea, just let him have it! Sounds like he deserves it. Men and their toys.
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My wife is not dominant, but she uses toys on me. Want details?
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He probably is paranoid and wants to make sure there is no gas in the car when he gets home so his wife can't run away in the middle of the night. Or maybe you don't leave enough gas in your car for him to fill the can up all the way.
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Look at it as entertainment, not a duty. Spice it up some. Be creative. Buy some sexy lingerie (and spring it on him unannounced). Buy something he'll like, not something you would like. If you didn't know it, men are visual where sex is concerned, and a long penoir will not take the place of a see thru baby doll or some such. Toy with the idea of the outfit and the surprise aspect and it might notch up that warm and tickley feeling to where you want it to be. Think about sex - a lot - and the adventures you could have. If you love the man, that oughta do it.
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If you're in Vegas, and your husband dresses like Elvis, it may be the sequinned belt buckle. Tell him to take it off.\nI think maybe your reaction to sex may be psychologically rooted.
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Your explanation is very poorly explained & spelled.  Maybe he doesn't want you to have those things, & that is okay.  Digital cameras are very expensive.  Why do you think that he has to give you something?  I do hope that he at least acknowledged your day.  I suggest that you just get over it.  Tell him how you feel, & do it nicely.
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This is what I did when I was married to a slob.  Take a gigantic trash bag and put everything in it.  Throw it out in the yard and see how long it take him to realize it's there.  When he asked hey honey where is my ____  just say you got tired of looking at it and threw it away.  Next, when he is asleep in bed at night, get out all your tampons and maxipads and throw them on the floor on his side of the bed.  This one really freaks them out.  Put all his dirty socks and underware inside his pillowcase so he can use them as a pillow.  Hide his real pillow.  Also, to get them to do their own laundry, get something new and really red to wash with his whites.  It turns everything pink and he willget tired of wearing pink unerwear in a hurry.
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For starters there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. I was where you were years ago. The last straw was when I actually caught him fast forwarding during our time. I never told him to stop watching them but if we were in bed & he wanted to watch one I would tell him to turn it down or go to the other room. As for the BJ part HAH If he wouldn't give me the special perks I wanted HE didn't get his. Eventually any man will get sick of his own hand. My husband has always had a huge sexual appetite though. I found out later that he didn't have a porn addiction, he's into voyeurism. He liked the sneak peaks also the thrill of being caught. Try to talk to him again with a genuine interest of finding out what exactly turns him on about the movies without getting defensive. You might find that it's really something quite simple and possibly even fun for you to do together. You may have to stray from your comfort zone a little but don't let it compromise your morals or it will just make you resent him and you. A few years ago he stopped watching them as much because it was the same thing in each one. Of course them we got internet which opened up a whole new field. Our computer stays in the living room so anything he does now has to be when nobody it home so that helps. We been together for 12 years now. It's been rough but we have made it this far. If you do all you can and he STILL won't give you the proper attention that you need then there's nothing left for you there.