I have a whole bunch of guy friends, but I can't seem to get a boyfriend...?
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its okay im the exact same way, i even play football with the guys, but you'll find somebody, dont worry... just flirt around a bit. youll b fine
53639
I used to be like that and all of my friends tried to help me but it was something that I had to learn on my own.  I went through a hard break-up and then I didn't even think about guys for around 6 months.  Now I have a new man and I'm happy but I realize that I could make it on my own and be happy w/out a man.  My situation may be different that your friend's though.
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If your friend wants to have a boyfriend, here's my advice:\n\n1. Get involved. Other than school, what clubs and activities does your friend do? Tell your friend to join a club or two - she'll not only meet a bunch of new people, but she'll get to expand her own horizons at the same time. Good clubs for meeting guys? Try Habitat for Humanity (where you build homes for poor people), Greenpeace (save the environment), and any local food kitchen to help poor/homeless people in your neighborhood. Any guy involved in those kind of clubs is probably a guy with a good heart. Your friend could even form a study group for a class and study at the same time as getting to know her classmates better. Be creative!\n\n2. Make friends. When your friend is around new people, does she smile and introduce herself?  Does she start a conversation up, or does she tend to stay to herself? Tell your friend to make new friends - both guys *and* girls - and expand her social circle. The best way to meet a guy is to be introduced to him by someone you know.  That way, you know a little bit more about where he's coming from and what he's about. Every guy I've ever dated was first introduced to me as a friend of a friend - including my husband! So, don't be shy. Make some friends and expand your social network. Go to parties, or throw your own! You never know who you'll meet next.\n\n3. Live your life. Tell your friend not to make chasing guys her main focus - guys don't want a girl who seems boy-crazy or desperate. Your friend should pursue her own friends, hobbies, activities, and interests - she will be much more likely to meet a guy that could become her boyfriend if she puts herself out there then if she stays at home.
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This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
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The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
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Hey I'm a prep and I have never even had a bf!! I have better things to do...even though guys are cool and all. I have a lot of guy friends and I don't get all caught up with dating. I have school work, fencing, and a lot of other things to keep up with. Anyway, don't associate being preppy with dating. Not everyone's like that...even though it may feel like that sometimes. :)
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that sounds good i have alot of male friends and thats pritty much all i hang out with so i know how u feel i hope you find some good friends. wish i could be one.
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yea i have but only if its someone i liked before. . . but to get a boyfriend. . . find someone you like and see if you have similar interests and if so ask him if he wants to hang out with you when you do something that interests him movies are always a good start find ou what kinda movies he likes and make it a group thing and go from there BE SOCIAL!
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you just said it your all the things these guys are not and so i guess they must feel that if they are with you they don't need to be cause you can deal with all of it....and maybe your looking in the wrong places where do you meet these kind of guys?  by the way you sound perfect so don't worry I'm sure you will find the right guy sooner rather than later
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Maybe go out of your way to meet some new people and dont freak them out too much by coming on too strong. I know lots of girls that say they can't get a guy. And lots of guys say that they can't get a girl. It makes no sense.\n\nGood Luck ;)
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hmm. i used to have the same problem. don't let the boys see you as a boy (nt that u are) but show them you can be more than jus a friend and if theres one you like make more of an effort to get your feelings across.\n\nxx
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You will have better luck finding a boyfriend when you stop looking for one.\nJust be happy and don't worry about someone finding you.\nIf you're happy he will find you.
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try joining sumthing new such as volunteer work or something else your interesterd in that way u can meet guys who u have sumthing in common w/
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I think it sounds like you're way, way, way too young to get involved at all with boys.  Grow your own confidence first - you don't need a boy, a boyfriend, or a man to be whole and complete.  Get strong on your own before you venture into that world.  \n\nOtherwise, you're a target, and you're on track for misery.  Take a different path.  Grow up strong and confident and single, and men will fall all over themselves trying to be near you.  Best thing is you'll have your pick of them, and you'll be strong enough to move on when they don't suit your needs.\n\nYou can do it, girl, but cold-turkey the guys for a good long while.
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I have the same problem with guys, maybe we should hook-up ;D
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First get to know yourself and realize that you are a great catch for any man. The reason you do this first is, if you don't you will only find Mr. Wrong.\n\nAfter this step is completed it is time for the hunt. This might sound crazy, but it's the best way to find a good man. When you go hunting do not hunt for a boyfriend, but instead hunt for friends. Again same motto anybody would be lucky to be my friend. After you have some really good friends the rest will just happen. Whether it be with one of your new friends or one of thier friends.\n\nThere is actually other ways I can tell you, but my time is running short, so you can find other of my answers by looking at my answers to previous questions exactly like this one.
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is the reason you haven't had a boyfriend because of them or you? i know lots of people in wheel chairs that have relationships. so is it you? maybe your so afraid of no one liking you that you give off the vibe to stay away. if your not confidant in your self or you dont like yourself...men can pick up on that. try cahnging your attitude about yourself and im sure things will change