my brother is in relationship with my ex and he's about to get hurt cause she cheats on him what do i do?
464886
Let your brother learn about life the way that YOU have......it is a better lesson coming to him that way.\n\n\nNot to be mean-spirited..........but people have to learn about love themselves.\n\nIf you need to teach him something teach him about fishing or football, etc.
1109996
Yeah, he's a brother, if you want him to back off basically you'd have to stop dating her... otherwise he's just doing what brothers are supposed to do; protect his sister from other guys ;-)  doesn't matter if you're a good or bad influence, it's his brotherly duty to make it difficult for you...
422634
Well, I think you two should talk to each other.  Don't make it obvious.  Say like I think someone likes your ex or something..\n\nthen see her answer.\n\nBut i wouldn't.  You possibly could.  I watched a movie just recently (Chinese, odd movie though...) called My Family.  There's this one scene where two brothers like the same girl.  Both would let go of her.  But then, their family help.  They talked about that a family is a family.  They can't fight just because of the girl.  Just because of her, do you want to loose your brother relationship?"  then they like i think they... um... just both agree to stop and let the girl choice.  So, why not just ask the him does he like you or your friend if you're willing to find your love.    Really, to me, i wouldn't but if he says yes, you both should go up and tell her that you two really likes each other and wants to be around each other.\n\nTo, the word ex-boyfriends seems like extra boyfriend.  thus, maybe your friend is not too close with him.  \n\nGOodluck, friends and love together are hard to decide..\n\n<>dia gemz\nsheri
1021103
You can do the right thing and that would be to keep it to yourself.  HE IS YOUR SISTERS BF FOR GOD SAKE.
298451
If you have any doubts it is.  I wouldn't do it.  It's at your own risk; what happens when her sister finds out that her sister is dating her exboyfriend?  Hopefully she doesn't choose you over her?  :)
574353
i think it is a very bad idea to go after her bf because she is your sister and that could ruin your relationship with her. but say something like how are u 2 how do u feel about eachother see if u can somehow get thru to her that shes not treating him well
1088172
i am sure your brother knows she is a jealous controlling woman.  He just thinks he can't find another woman.  First get yourself plenty of girlfriends and have him come over to fix something at your place, then have them make a move on him. find him a job so he can rebuilt his confidence.  i can only tell you what people have done, i do not condome revenge. Post her picture on paper flyers printed from your computer and have her number on it. put it in bathroom walls of men restrooms. the post should read I am a xxx so please call me and tell me that i am....next get a calling card and use it on a payphone. have your girlfriends call her and tell her things. when you visit so they will not know it is you.... order pizza to her job or place and give her name. so they will ban her from recieving pizza from that place when she makes them deliver and loose money..... call mental institutions and ask them to send you literature to your home address for your personal problem, such as drug offender, prostition, depression and give her name and address instead of yours, call from a payphone so it wont come back to you...call the school where your child goes and cuss at the nurse or the secretary and give her childs name and her name and ask to hold meeting with the princilpe and ask for a confirmation letter send to her address and use her name, when she fails to attend , they will loose faith in her....
898909
You need to talk to her.  You should demand that she stop cheating on your brother or you need to tell him.  It's not fair for him to live his life oblivious to her actions.  I wonder if she's thought of it like this---She's not just cheating on her husband, but on her family and yes, that does include her children.  \n\nPersonally, I don't know how you've kept from kicking her butt--unless of course, you don't like your brother.  \n\nGood luck with this one.
586159
Forget him and just move on to someone else. You shouldn't be with someone like that anyway. And your friend is also immature what doing what she did, are you sure she was telling the truth. I wouldn't trust her again.
32057
When people don't want you around but you want to be there, you are in a conflict with them.\n\nSo, like other conflicts:\n\nFind out what's really going on.  Why doesn't she want you there?  Does he want you there?  Ask if you can sit down with her and talk about it.\n\nSee things from her side.  Pretend like you're an actor and you're playing her role.  Why might she act like that?  Does she feel hurt?  Is she insecure?  Does she miss your brother?  Is there something going on between them?\n\nPropose an alternative that takes your need to be with your brother and her need - whatever it is - into account.  Maybe you and your brother do something and then pick her up and all three of you do something together?  Maybe you limit how often you drop by?
705062
First thing first she shouldn't get back together with him, try and talk to him and make him see that they won't work out...and get his family to get him psych help cos he might get really obssessed and do sumthin bad to her but I pray not..Gudluck dear
506140
It is wrong but if the two of you really feel like you two should be together. She should get a divorce and the both of you should come clean. Tell your brother you are sorry, but you can't decide with whom your heart will fall in love. If it is true love marry her and try to patch up the relationship you have with your brother. If it is not just move on with your life away from her. Either way you have to come clean to your brother because regardless of the decision you make about her, you still have to mend the holes you have created in your family. One of those times when honesty is the best policy and you just have to take whatever sh*t get on you once it hits the fan.
786966
Why would you think he would hurt her? You must have some evidence based on the relationship the 2 of you had. But keep in mind that, unless he was awful, their relationship could have a completely dynamic than yours did. Tell her your concerns and then let her make up her own mind.
141470
convince him to go for the other then when the one you like feels bad lift her up and make her feel good and go from there. and as for the ex forget her.
192752
The way I see it, your best friend is the only one that is going to get really hurt.  Because your sister's ex is just talking to her to get your sister mad.  Your sister already made a decision and he is using your friend to make his.  Tell her to chill for a bit and see how things develop, just in case his "confused" like all men claim they are when they don't want to admit they f*cked up.  Good luck to all
866899
tell ur brother to beat the shit of him and her
1129018
Move out immediately. If she loves you, she will move with you. It isn't the ex that is the problem, it is your perception of him that is making a mess. It doesn't matter what she and her ex did, it is none of your business, just as your past is none of her business. Either take it or leave it. I live with my ex, and have a new love living with me...there are no problems in my household (that I am aware of, anyway).