I am 47 black female  very turned on by white 55 year old  white male.I feel our realtionship would not be?
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humans will be humans..if someone you are friends with objects talk to them..if that does no good find new friends who will accept an interracial relationship...all that truly matters is a persons happiness\n\nthis is not how i was raised but how i learned to be..in this day and age racism is so damn ignorant
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I am telling you this from experience and from my heart. Go with an older man. I am 34 and dating a man who is 20 years my senior. I have never been happier in my life than I am right now. The maturity factor trumps everthing else. They know how to treat a woman like a woman and not a girl. There is respect present in their personalities that isn't there in younger men. And the sex is incredible. Trust me, I wouldn't tell you this if it were not true. If you have your eye on an older man, go for it.
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Maybe you want to feel looked after or even to be dominated?  Age shouldn't matter really (even tho it can cause certain problems ie lack of understanding). Don't let it worry you, just go with it, it may only be a phase anyway. You are still finding yourself.
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Don't listen to some of these people.\nAll (strait) men in general are attracted to beautiful women, so that's one thing you already have going for you. You also seem very confident in yourself and that's also a very important quality. \nI think white men are very similar to black men as far as how easy it is to approach them. I like the comment that the one girl made about being yourself. You have to remember that if you being black is an issue for you in the relationship than it will be an issue for your partner. It's always good to go into any situation with an open mind. Flirt, have fun and be yourself! \nKeep in mind that most white men are not as confident and as egotistical as black men. \nYou don't want to seem like your desperately looking...\nAllow yourself the chance to be picky. Don't think that the first white guy that comes along will be the only white guy that is interested. I hope I helped answer your question and give you some positive guidelines to improve your search.\nGood luck and best Wishes\nKrystal \nHiett_0125@yahoo.com
212520
It's wise as long as he's a filthy rich man. Girls are likely to be attracted to rich old men. Don't feel guilty. However, make sure he is not married.
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thats fine i guess...I met someone over the internet as well and we slept together after seeing eachother twice! I was a bit messede up after that, but things are going ok...we are not together though, but things are slowly moving to the next level...Dnt feel bad about being attractive to someone...as long as you used protection tten i dnt see what the big deal is...I asked a similar question not too long ago. And see...you guys are still together... And dnt take what Khalidnm2003 said to heart...When guys do it it's great...But as soon as a woman enjoys her sexual self we are referred to as $luts! You dnt need people bring you down...Plus you are a grown woman so why the heck not...Power to you sister!!!
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Some idiots will tell you it is gross, or wrong bla bla bla. Most of the world the bride is way younger than the groom. And did you know the average age of consent in the world is 16? Make you wonder why a** backwards Uncle Sam can even talk. If you are cool with Mr Sugar Daddy and he is cool with you. Why not? Maybe HE doesn't feel like a "sugar daddy" but a loving man spoiling his woman. I would. And the age of my woman would not determine how much I spoiled her. Better use what Mother Nature gave you before Father Time takes it away. And when he does he hardly gives it back. What do you want to do? Be with someone the idiots can be comfortable with because it offends them to see a hot young lady like yourself sucking face with someone they only see as "Gramps". If you date some young buck to satify them are they going to purchase for you what this older gentleman wants to buy you? I think not. I'd tell them to go take a flying f***. If you like him a lot or even love him and guilty about what he does for you, you can tell him that you do not need it or take it and donate it to a hospice or something. If you don't like or love him, but feel guilty of using him, then walk away. BUT only do it for YOU, not the idiots. When the lights are out, who can tell how old a person is? If he can get it to rise, I hardly think you can tell when its inside you if it is 20yr phallus or a 55yr old phallus. If it works, it works. enjoy it and the goodies outside the bedroom. Better to be in a Jag with an older man then driving a 15yr old bucket with some young buck who most likely will dump you when he gets bored or the next hot gal comes along.
517796
I will be 51 this year,theres nothing wrong with sex in your fiftys,sixtys or seventys if your with the right man and you still enjoy it.go for it your never to old to try anything
643250
I'M HAPPILY TAKEN BY THE HOTTEST MAN YOU COULD EVER IMAGINE.\nGO CHASE YOUR 45 YEAR OLD WOMEN CUZ I'M NOT ONE OF THEM.
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Considering your typing style and use of slang, I'm going to guess you arn't actually a 64 year old (wow, that was hard).\n\nHowever, if a 64 year old man was interested in an 18 year old girl, I would tell him this:  Dream on, she isn't going to be attracted to you, unless your wallet is very very fat!
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younger or older it doesn't matter it alll depends on the person. You can't let your two bad experiences ruin your whole perspection of younger men. Some are actual okay. I say you talk to that ice piece of eye candy and see how that goes. Remember Stella had to take a chance to get her groove back.
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A 2-year difference is no big deal....look at it down the road...your 36 and he is 34...not a big deal at all.  If your attracted to him, go for it and see how it works out...guys that are 18 are usually flattered when an older woman (yeah...I know 20 is not old) expresses an interest in them. .
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OK I am confused you say they fantasize about us 24/7 and then you say your husband dates black women are you a man married to a man or a woman married to a woman? OK it's not a matter of white women being attracted to black men it's juts today people find mates without looking at the race before many just didn't look outside their race as it was taboo. I started dating black males when i was 17 and am now 49 and have never changed. black men to me are more sensitive to a woman's emotions and needs. now it may be hard for me to judge as i never really dated white guys except when a teen but my dad and  uncles etc are all white and most of them were abusive now I'm not saying black males aren't abusive either but from past experience I would never date a white man. Of course my husband is black and we've been together except for a few years of separation for 28 years so I am not looking for anyone period. you find love where ever it is and race should never be a factor I personally just have never been attracted to white males since i started dating black men by the way they are all built the same some have large penises and some just average but they sure know how to take their time to please their woman
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Nothing is wrong with it as long as it is consentual and a relationship based on respect and affection.  When I was 18 I dated a 44 year old guy, we stayed together for 3 years and we're still great friends.  \n\nHowever I've also known older men that prey on younger women and men because they are less experianced, and use them for sex, like that they can easily control them, or fetishize them to a startling extreme.  That is not cool to me because it lacks the fundamental respect for their partner.\n\nIt doesn't matter if your bf is 18 or 85, you should both be treating each other as equals with respect and no exploitation.  That advice goes to couples who are the same age too.
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Depends on how much you really like her.  If you do then I would maybe try holding off for awhile ( it's just sex - you can take care of it most of the time on your own if you had to )  If you aren't willing to give up sex for awhile then move on and find yourself another 40 year old that looks 25 .. or even better find yourself a real 25 year old .. they're in their Prime !
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Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.
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Sweetheart, how old are you? Its just a physical attract we have. Like an animal instinct. I mean not all men find women's asses attractive. they may find other thing turn them on. Its really hard to answer this question because we all have different things which turn us on. Just don't be to concerned about what other people say turns them on, cos who are they! It only matters what you and your partner like hun!