Why I am not a popular girl?
469965
Maybe you are just hanging with the wrong sort of people who don't appreciate you! I am sure, if you are nice and friendly, then people will like you.
417534
Don't believe you're simple. That won't work. YOU ARE SPECIAL. Feel that and own it, just be yourself. MAke people around you feel special too. Be interested in them and what they've got going on. Just have fun! People are drawn to fun girls!
1044495
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
514288
I really wouldn't worry about trying to be popular. I remember thinking that it was really important when i was in HS (4 yrs ago) but now that I'm out i see that often the real world doesn't work like that. Prom kings and queens become fat and bald and the nerds become rich and famous. the best advice i can think of is just to be happy with who you are, be confident, and people will gravitate toward your personality.
120146
You are popular too. You are cool and unique. Don't let what\nothers are doing bother you. People will do anything for\nattention. which is quite dumb to do. Because being yourself\nis how you get attention. Your friends are going the wrong\nway of doing things. We are all different. No two people are\nthe same. So don't compare yourself to them. God made you\nand He loves you. You are special even if you don't fit in.\nWe were not born to fit in this world. Weare to here for one\nreason---to worship the Lord. Get your mind off your friends\nand get your mind on your lesson.
957665
I know to be a popular person at school is so fun, but not a big problem if not.\nmore popular, get more extra-activities, for guy, join some sport activities. study hard and get high grade. gatting around with others and more talking (conversation), have some humours or funny stories, it will help you more popular.
125928
Become more attractive and popular\n\n\nteen girls are stupid
750305
your really wierd. your popular?
342095
Just be yourself.  Being popular is overrated, and at my school, the "popular" people aren't really that popular - they think they are, but the majority of people don't like them.  You're awesome the way you are.
592232
Not-so-popular! And you know what? In retrospect, I'm glad! I had many great friends in High School, just not the "correct" friends. I wasted so much time worrying about why some jerks didn't like me. And it is so crazy in retrospect because I can't stand those people. Imagine if I'd had to spend a lot more time with them! High school kids need to learn this lesson: there's more to life than being popular. Sometimes things can even work out better for you if you're not.
658468
stop thinkin tht u r same as she, u r unique...so jst built up yur own qualities so tht world cant match with it n be confident......ok frnd.\nBEST OF LUCK.
212108
Let us put it this way, popular people do not get a lot of attention. \nJust that, the people who get a lot of attention are called popular!!
552857
Maybe go out of your way to meet some new people and dont freak them out too much by coming on too strong. I know lots of girls that say they can't get a guy. And lots of guys say that they can't get a girl. It makes no sense.\n\nGood Luck ;)
222547
you are good looking.  but you shouldn't care what random strangers online care what you look like!  if you were a teen at my school you'd easily be with the "popular" girls.
1005945
Why do you feel the need to be popular?  From my experience, being popular means your friend talk about you mehind your back, everyone who isn't "popular" hates you, and you're expected to be perfect 24/7.  It's horrible.  At the time I didn't realize it, but now, I do.  I myself became so obsessed with being perfect and pretty and popular, I started doing drugs because all my "friends" were doing them, and also wound up having to be put into the hospital for bullemia.  Take my advise, hon.  Just be yourself.  Screw what anyone else thinks of you.  Just be yourself, and do your own thing.  You'll be a lot happier if you do.
585823
are u ugly? that could be it, plus alot of crazy ppl think they are normal... do u have any friends or have they disowned u too? if u have no friends, i think ur just a weirdo probably, and that is why, if u have friends, ur probably ugly and they are embarrassed of u
48305
Well i know how you feel b/c i am a shy girl, but you have to think if you cant ever talk to her than how will she ever to get to know you. I know popular people can be very intimidating but just work up the courage to talk to her. Once you do you'll feel alot better n then it'll be alot easier to approach people.