Should I just propose to him?
468279
you definitely should. isn't it time that the both of you made another step toward the ultimate commitment to each other? you have been together this long and have already talked about getting married. i think you should do it. god bless both of you.
61243
You might want to find out how he feels about this. I know my husband would have flipped if i had done the proposing. But, then again we are pretty conservative people. Good Luck!
462980
He's testing the waters, but isn't completely serious yet. \n\nIt sounds like he really likes you, but it's early. I knew I would either marry my wife or know her forever after the first day I met her, but I spent a few months getting to know her first (and confirm if it just wasn't hormones).\n\nI wouldn't get too freaked out...well, unless you want him to propose to you.
300311
proposal of marriage should be something personal... take her to someplace special for the two of you... make it a memorable event that she will remember and look on with joy forever.  I have helped many of my male friends propose... this one happened about three years ago on easter... my best friend led her on a scavenger hunt for plastic easter eggs.... in each one was a clue to where another one would be.... things like where we first met, first kissed, first date... and at the last place he stepped out with an egg and opened it showing the ring... he asked her if she was ready to place all of her eggs in the same basket.  She said yes... crying with tears of joy.
662711
If you haven't talked... Maybe that should be the first think you do...\n\nTry dating, instead of proposing...
230073
dude, you can't ask advice about how to propose!!  if you know the girl well enough to marry her, you need to figure it out on your own.  make it creative.  you don't want her to ask you how you thought up your proposal and have to say 'oh i asked on yahoo answers'  \nbest of luck man\nhope she says yes
504384
Okay first this is a decision totally based upon when he feels ready. Pressuring him will make the sitiation intensely more difficult But the good news is he actually sounds as if he is planning something...I was very confused just like you before my fiance proposed he always made it clear to me that it would eventually happen just not as soon as I wanted but sure enough he proposed..So let him do this at his own pace..Your realtionship sounds solid so just give him the time he needs this is a HUGE step for both of you....I have a feeling congradualtions will be something you will hear soon!
327000
If you are talking about proposing marriage, I would say don't do it. You need to be with this girl and spend months together to make sure that it is the right thing to do.\nNow if it is only proposing to be a boyfriend to her, I would say you could easily tell her that you really enjoy the time that you two talk on the phone and would like to know if she would want to be her boyfriend. But I still reccommend that you come face to face with her. I don't know if you live close or not but unless you do, you probably shouldn't expect this relationship to go full bloom.
578537
if iu was you i would, but that is totaly up to you. you are your own person and part of love is making the right choices. if your ready for that then go for it...if not then dont im sure he'll understand
182742
If you've liked him forever than I definitely think you should ask him out. I know that it's cliche, but what's the worst thing that can happen, right? I know that "no" isn't the best thing to hear but at least then you can move on and have no doubts. And if he says yes then you might just have something and love is always an amazing thing to share with someone.
584087
if you like him go out with him for a wile and if he proposes just say no. or your not ready
919812
I think he's nervous about the next step. Sure he's desperately in love with you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. But, maybe he's just nervous about what the future will hold for you too. It's not uncommon to be nervous about proposing, and as far as the holidays... he might be waiting to surprise you, 9 out of 10 women say that they expect to be proposed to around Christmas, New Years, or Valentine's Day... Maybe he's just going the extra mile to make it extra special. Don't give up hope :)
902076
Whatever comes straight from ur heart..the most simple and private proposal is the best..... trust me no matter how u do it... she will love it.. coz she loves u more than any1 and thats all that matters.... but dnt forget the ring,, even if its only sumthing thats worth 2 pounds,,, it wud be pricless to her... ;-)
48670
I don't think so. I would never ever have done it in a million years. If he doesn't propose it is because he doesn't want it. If you want to get married discuss the topic,shop for rings,and discuss it some more,but in the end please leave this one to the guys ladies. I know we live in a world where women are more independent and go after exactly what they want but really I would hope that the guy you are with has enough intiative to tell the women he loves that he wants to marry her. Don't you think that in the back of your mind you would always wonder if he really wanted it and if he ever would have proposed had you not?Good luck!
778660
may be liking you..but getting afraid if he comes to u and propose, you may reject.  So 1st talk to him.  Get closed to him. Understand what he is looking in you.\nBest of luck.
1125810
Wait till you two meet and talk about it sort it out then make your decision based on his reaction if he says he loves u wants to marry u if not move on
314835
maybe not propose, ask her out though