Why does a man "love" a woman against her best interests?  Why do men dishonor so many woman?
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are you talking rape? or pressure to have sex? cause if your are i think that it's htat men have learned that it's ok to take advantage of women. \n\nalso women have become so dependant on the attention of men that we will do anything for it even that which we would not wish to do.\n\nalso since you said it was ok to bring religon in, there is a pasasge in teh bible about the fall of man and the first sin, and the curse on man because of it.\n\n16 To the woman he said, \n       "I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; \n       with pain you will give birth to children. \n       Your desire will be for your husband, \n       and he will rule over you." \n\n 17 To Adam he said, "Because you listened to your wife and \nsinned,"\n       "Cursed is the ground because of you; \n       through painful toil you will eat of it \n       all the days of your life. \n\nso basicall he told women that we would want to be with men, and they would use force against us because of our sinfull nature.\n\nit doesn't have to be that way because of the coming of jesus, but we still let men rule over us and men still do wrong things for physical pleasure.
1042259
Have you lost your mind?! Do you know any part of the story? Whetther it be true or via media? He used to like puching his women, to show off his ego, well story goes that She knocked him out for beating up on her too much and that's why they are no longer together. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Even the most beautiful, have their quirks.
973734
It is a social flaw.  Men believe that it is OK to be with many women, while women feel ahamed to say how many men that they have been with.
496813
because they are taught by their mothers and 99% of women I know or have met are coniving, manipulative and/or deceitful.  Most are selfish as well.  Men aren't so trustworthy either though, now that I think about it...
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I think that I didn't understand your question but I know that women in many situtians doesn't understand men' love or may be he loved U in a good way but he couldn't make U feel it right or believe it.Happened with me me b4 that a girl I love so much & try to do any thing to make her haby never apperetiate it or at least estimated well.She kept on sayin' that I didn't love her & I don't.\nHe & his son is another thing.even he loved U or not his relation with his son is another thing.He always try to make him better even better than he himself & try to advice him & guide him to the right way,may be if U gave any explanations it would be easier.\nGood luck\n:)
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I don't know if you've figured this out yet but some women can be pretty damn selfish and self righteous.\n\nperfect example being you're wife cheated on you then left you yet she gets the kids. Well there are plenty of arguments to say why she deserves them BUT what about the arguments that say why you deserve them? \n\nI would also like to add that many women seem to assume that because a mans wife cheated on him and left him that must undoubtedly mean: he was a rotten man in some way shape or form. Its usually a no win situation for the man even if he was a top of the line husband and she was a dishonest, irresponsible slut.\n\nThat's how the cookie crumbles my friend Ive seen it enough times that the thought of it actually sickens me however we will always wear the title of the 'bad guy' no matter how many 'bad girls' take full advantage of some men and use that very belief to their demented advantage...
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Because men get tired of what they know they "have".  A wife is like an insurance policy that is always there when he cant get any play somewhere else.  As`sad as it is, its the truth.
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I dont believe all women are illogical. I think that women do act on emotion more then men and much more then they should. But lets be honest thats what we love about them and it definately seperates us from them. A possessive woman pumps up her mans ego. If we had women that said "no honey I dont mind if you look at her" we wouldnt feel as needed or wanted.
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There can be many reasons, but what I beleive is this:\nMay be he loves you also but you are expecting too much of him.\nDo not try to measure the emotons betwen each other. Man loves a woman in different tone and reflects in many other ways which may be different from that of a woman.\nHave faith in him and speak to him. Thats the best I can advise you.
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because its a mans first insticnt to do whatever it takes to get out of trouble. Most guys lie about it because they don't like getting in fights with their girlfriends and they don't like to see them cry. Also a lot of men are shallow, and if for some reason you "aren't giving him what he 'needs' then they feel bad about window shopping for another girlfriend. I know, its happened to me a few times. Men are stupid sometimes.
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I admire the honest mature questioning. Do men get tired of the same woman? Genetically...deep down where the desire to procreate comes from I'm sure. But that's why we have a developed brain. We can move beyond the animalistic impulses and focus our attentions on the woman we love. If I, as a man, want something new in my sex life, why would I NOT express and share it with the one woman with whom I am comfortable and love the most? Some of us can think this way. Others.....not so much. Judge us not by others, but by our own actions.
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men and women like nothing better to do then rip on eachother to vent relationship and social frustrations \n\n\nmen and women can both be evil and vice versa\n\nBut women are very judgemental by nature and image conscious which makes some women superficial... but not to say that some men aren't the same way.\n\nbut it is for reasons such as the aformentioned that men can be as you described.. but again.. this swings both ways and is not unique to just men or women
1101576
Some people are just great con artists-jails and the White House are full and of them!! Some guys, unfortunately think that women are just a token for their manhood, a notch on the belt; the more notches the more they can brag to their buddies! Some guys do it because they need to fill their egos by fooling and hurting unsuspecting women. These guys as well are just creeps too! There are no explanation or excuse for these low lifes!!
715466
Men fool around with other women because of how they feel about themselves with that other person. It doesn't matter if the wife is better looking or more successful. If she doesn't take care of ALL of her husbands needs and he feels like he isn't getting his "respect" and his ego isn't being stroked by her then he will go be with the one that makes him feel like a champ. While it isn't a justification for infidelity ; it nevertheless is the usual culprit. He is getting something from the other woman that he just isn't getting at home and that isn't always sex.
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Men cheat more because they want to feel they still have it! That he is still a man! But women do their share of cheating to because their husband are not giveing them what they need, they don't make them feel loved by them! I would probly go with 60% men and 40% women!
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Let's deal with this first. You need to understand that for a man, having a woman, even loving that woman, does not make all other women undesirable. GOT IT? Think about that for a second. A man does not cease being attracted to women in general because he loves one woman in particular. Digest it. Meditate over it. LIVE WITH IT. I dig where you are coming from on an emotional level because i had to enlighten my GF on this issue. I had to make her understand that my love is not suddenly questionable because i got a lap dance. u may not be ready for this type of reality. but print out this response. read it every so often and eventually u will come to the realization that not only am i right, but that you, just like my GF, are being irrational and immature.\np.s. HOW IN THE HELL IS WATCHING PORN COMPARABLE TO ASSOCIATION WITH "FRIENDS" OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. NEWS FLASH! IF U LOOK LIKE ANYTHING, ALL THOSE MALE "FRIENDS" WANNA SCREW U. IF I WERE HIM I WOULDN'T BE TRYNA HERE THAT SH!T EITHER!!!
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i m not agree that man lie and cheat always their are many men who r vey honest and true in their realtionship some exception is always there bt u can not say that all men are same, its is possible with women too, i think when some one cheating or concealing something may be there is some reason behind it so if u believe ur beloved then ask him directly dont hesitate. or wait for some time may be he himself tell u everything at right time.so never distrust everyman there is lot of good people in this world