I love my Fiancee a lot and definitely wanna get married to her.But i can't help thinksing of other girls. why
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probably becasue of yor childhood, or just because you like other women. dont be a bitch and marry her when u like other girls. cuz she won't like that. shell HATE it. just be yorslef, and tell her YOR PROBLEM (like this one) instead of telling everyone in the world except for her. hey man, it's just logic.\n\nmattj1654@yahoo.com
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Totally possible funny story I just asked a question if I should go to my exes wedding heres my story my ex fiancee is friends with my new and though his new fiancee well wife as of tommorow cannot stand me (the whole jealousy thing you know) My fiancee is secure with our relationship so his friends with my  ex but has a general rule of thumb exes are exes and should stay that way
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Okay, I recognize this problem. You are a poly person. You have the capacity to love more than one person. There are many just like you engaging in the poly lifestyle. It doesn't get played up very often, in fact American popular culture likes to pretend that monogamy is the only reasonable way to be. Not to me. I love my girlfriend completely and wish for her every joy. I don't feel some need to qualify my love, or allow my love to be tainted by the negativity of jealousy. Just the fact that you're trying to decide which one you should have a RELATIONSHIP with, instead of simply dating multiple people is because of our society's support of relationships as a form of serial monogamy. If you're not ready to commit, then there's no point in committing.\n\nBut I could be wrong. This is just my own point of view.
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You better tell her quickly before she hears it from someone else!  She may already know and is waiting to see how long it takes you to share it with her.  I would tell her and make a big deal about how important she is.  Invite her to lunch with you and your fiancee, tell her you wanted to introduce them and let her know you are engaged.  Make a special effort to include her before she gets her feelings hurt.  Good luck!
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Finding someone attractive does not me u are not ready for marriage. Lk into your heart and see if your fiance and marriage is what u want in life right now
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The fact that you have to ask the question hints that you place too much emphasis on looks.  I think we all need to be attracted to the one we love on a certain level but ultimately there are always going to be better looking people.  Just think, she is probably thinking the same about you.  Hopefully some day you will realize that looks are not what makes the person because you can be with the best looking person in the world and all it takes is time or one accident for that to change.
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It is normal for both sexes to do this. You can love someone, but still check others out or wonder what it would be like to date them. If it never gets past that, then thats fine. If you love the person you are with and never cheat on them, the thoughts that cross your mind are meaningless and only makes you human. \n\nSometimes by thinking of other girls, you realize that you are happier with the person you are with and it enforces you current relationship.
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because you have your own life....... some self centered people have a lot of love inside to give but need help in bringing it out, so consider it a challenge to bring it out........ you married her for a reason...........
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Please don't take this the wrong way, but why are you getting married?  Getting married should mean you've found the one person you don't want to wake up another day without.  It sounds like your heart isn't sure.  When you've found the right one to marry, he'll fulfill all your wants and needs. It sounds like you may not have found that 'one'.  I'm not saying your fiance isn't a great man, but if he doesn't have your whole heart, and mind, and all your passion, it seems hurtful to marry him.  I wish you the best, and pray that you'll put a lot of thought into your marriage since your action will affect a lot of people.
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Before you do anything else, boot your boyfriend to the curb because he doesn't value you if he can't be totally faithful to you and just you.  If you truly are interested in being with another girl then you need to make that decision totally on your own without feeling pushed into it by a shitty boyfriend.  There should be more to it than just curiosity!  Think before you make that leap because you open yourself to more disease possibilities with more partners.  Take care!
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you already answered your question when you said you love her, i mean you love another girl and engaged to another woman ,may be thats not fair to her or you ,you should think about that ,even if she is from another religion but it doesnt mean she is from another planet.
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why would you want to be with someone you don't want to marry? Your wasting your time as well as hers. You should let her find someone who will want to marry her.
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Dude, she is your fiancee and ur not sure if she loves you? You should of known this before she became your fiancee. Look into her eyes when you say I love you and if they glisten or if has that affectionate look when she says it back, then yeah she loves you or atleast thinks she does. Only time will tell. What makes you uncertain though is what I am wondering.
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yo son i got the same excact problem. Thats why im on this stupid website asking questions i already know the answer to. ill be looking in and seein what others say. But i think you should go for it cause I think thats what ive got to do with this girl that i can't stop thinking about every day.
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Sorry to say but you are shallow and might be incapable of true love, at least not at this time and certainly not with this girl.  If you truly loved her, she would be the most beautiful woman in the world to you.  So you obviously do not. Don't marry her as you would be taking away her chance at true happiness with someone who will treat her like the goddess that she is.  You give us real men a bad name!
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I personally think that's natural for a lot of people.  Maybe there are issues that are going on that you deal with by thinking about how it would be with someone else. Just don't DO anything that you think you'll regret later.
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You know, it is funny that you mention this because a friend of mine was telling me the same thing the other day.  I think in her case that it was just a really strong attraction, which really isn't a big thing.  You just cannot act of those feelings being married as you are.  It is normal to find other people attractive and think that they are awesome to be around.  You are married, sweetie, not dead!