I need some help!!!!!  This is some straight soap opera type Scenario?
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Whoa....nasty scenario. Not sure I'm qualified to answer this, but let's see...\n\nIf the baby is yours you should definitely take care of it. I have an 18 month old girl and she is the center of my world.\n\n If you are considering an abortion you need to ask yourself if you can live with that. Some people can't, and regret it for the rest of their lives. Depends on who you are I guess.\n\nIf it's not yours, you need to decide how much you love/want the mother. I'd be concerned because she's not only having sex, she's having unprotected sex. You could catch something very nasty if she keeps that up. Also ask yourself, how would you deal with it if she did this again??\n\nIf you love her deeply, and the child is yours, see if you can work it out, but remember that you may not be able to trust her\n\nIf it is not yours, then decide if you can handle that and stay with her. If not, she's history, and no regrets. Find someone who won't cheat on you.\n\nIf you can't stand her anymore and the baby is yours, fight for custody. It will be worth it in the end.
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Sex... sex... oh, did I mention sex? If not sex, then something close to that!! Go read a book! No more soap operas for you!
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Well, there is nothing weird about the truth.  The only thing you must consider is the possibility that a family 'feud' could arise.  So if you care about both of them as people, maybe this is a situation you would want to avoid.  It could put him into deep depression, depending on his view of bi-sexuality.  So I encourage you to deeply consider what you are doing as you could turn a burst of wind into a tornado quick here.
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I would ask him straight out whether it is true or not.  Rumours have a nasty habit of being either completely false or only tell one side of the story.  Asking one of his close friends may be a good option, but bear in mind if it is one of HIS good friends their first loyalty is to him not you and they may not want to tell you the truth if they think it will cause problems for him later.  Also remember that maybe it is true but it may not be a black and white story.  Work out what you are prepared to accept and don't make any decisions on the spot.  Let him know upfront you will have to consider the situation before you give him an answer.\n\nGood luck!
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everything they disclose is all illusional,nothing is real, its all virtual and you are just engaging in a virtual relationship,so exercise extreme caution at all times............sorry i don't want to sound like a lecturer but its a fundamental fact.There's no way you can verify their info. so keep a distance ,act virtual yrself just like them,thats the rule out there buddy!Its human nature,no one would truly like to disclose their character flaws,if it hardly happens in real life,how the heck can you expect it to happen virtaully?!!!!............but people hardly are complete without some kind of a character flaw,don't you think?
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Here's a tip. Do not hire a puppet to do these things fro you. She may have done this out of the bottom of her heart but talk to the guy. You'll be brave enough, trust me.
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If this honestly happened, I'd suggest you 'take the hint' & stop exposing yourself to these types of shows.\nRemember the Scripture that says, "Whatever is true...honest....just...pure...lovely...think on these things?"\nWell, apparently what you watched didn't fit this guideline as you had this encounter.\nI'd repent; make a conscious decision to not bring engodly tv shows into your home, & take authority over whatever entered.
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Dear,\nwhatever you have written seem to be so baffling to me and i dont care what you do to me now because once you have hurt me and that is it.I know you dont regret anything and reading this i just feel that you are trying to be a script writer for a soap.It is stupid the way you say things again and again.Ao let us break up and never see again.Walk out of my life and please never look back
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Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
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i don't know why a girl would want to be in love with two people at the same time. Soap operas claim that it happens everyday.
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there is nothing wrong with having this kind of relationship.Just be sure that your pal gets to understand the confidentiality of this relationship.I wish you all the best.
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Hopefully,  she realizes that you are a true friend ,  and she has a dirtbag for a spouse.  Reality check though,  she will probably find a way to blame you for trying to seduce her husband .  It would be a lot easier than admitting that the man she wishes to spend the rest of her cinderell story life with,  is a lying cheating Puss-Bag.  Sorry hone,being you would suck ,  I would hate to be in your shoes,  But if it's any comfort,  I applaud  your courage and honesty.
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I think so, I used to love soaps, until my divorce when I realized I had my own soap going on in real life, but my older sis is still addicted, so if I go to her house when they're on, it seems like the SAME thing is stll going on, yes there may be a few xtra characters, but it is still all the same!!
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LOL!! That was a beautiful way to handle that situation!! <bowing humbly>  There is nothing wrong with what you asked him and if he's never talked to you like this before, I would be a little suspicious.  Why is he so defensive?  It was an innocent question, nothing clingy about it.  Something doesn't sit right with this...I could be wrong...but it sounds like he's trying to hide something.
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Sounds like a set up darlin!Even im getting paranoid thinking about it....i would say...ask him if he was going out with his ex tonight...yes/no. If answer is no..and it happens again(a similar senario,with his ex) tell him to f off.\n\nIn a nut shell....TRUST your instinct..you will know my dear.
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Are you kidding me...there is a life outside of soaps!!
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Your story sounds one-sided. We're not getting the full story.  Ask her to add a detail in this post.