I am trying out for cheerleading this year but the cheerleading couch tells everyone that they are fat?
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Do YOU think you're fat? If you don't, then the coach is probably using the same tired old tactics that cheer and gymnastics coaches all over the world have been using for years. Ignore her and go on being happy. How can you be a good cheerleader without being happy?
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I'm not a fat girl, and I am.. pretty skinny... and this is just something i want you to know, DON'T EVER listen to what others have to say about how YOU look. You are your own person.I say you don't get fat even if they want you too. If they want you to.. they must really not be someone who really cares for you. Being skinny is a gift to some people and a curse for others. But i think that everything anyone has, is a gift. Don't listen to negative comments. Do what's... right^-^
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i'm so tired of everyone trying to be the same y cant they just b them selves w/out trying to impress the world with their weight.....your weight is just a number and besides it's starting to get really gross how thin those girls r
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Did you take a stool softener or a laxative before? Are you on a special diet? Are you taking fat binders? I know models tend to have diets/take meds which other people don't, because they are under pressure to stay ultrathin and it is not always easy.\nDon't worry, it is something that can happen. The combination of the position (bending over) and laughing (generating pressure in your belly) can easily lead to what you described. Nothing is wrong with you. Hope you still kept the contract for that swimsuit store...
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yeah...cause Im fat, and I can afford the calories...or that there would be no other way for me to get my point accross, it is like the little child crying for attention
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haha ur shorter than me too...i am a flyer (5'2 1/2" ...yes, proud of that 1/2 inch!)\n\n\ni think you could be, cuz there's a girl on my squad who's, like, 120 and she's a flyer, but she's also taller, like 5'6" or so..\n\nit actually depends..if there are girls that are smaller (weight wise, not saying you're fat -- NOT AT ALL), then they will want them, since they are easier to lift ( AGAIN -- NOT SAYING YOU'RE FAT!!!) but it the flyers that were before, and they are like you...then yes, absolutely you could be!\n\nthis is my first year cheerleading, and i got stuff pretty quickly\n\ngood luck!
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I would go talk to the football coach and tell him this, then over the summer work on getting in shape, he might be able to tell you some workouts to do.  Unless the coach is a total ass he will be glad to see you want to be on the team and will be impressed if you work hard over the summer to make it.  If he is an ass, well you wouldn't want to be on the team anyways then.  \n\nfor the asthma, there are many NFL players that have it.  I would also talk to your doctor to see if he has any suggestions for you.  \n\ngood luck!
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Be a cheerleader. Softball players tend to get really big legs. Yes, I understand it's a generality, and superficial. But I've found it to be the case.
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Maybe they see you as a way to get fat, kinda like a meal ticket. The fat ones are full, so they just hang out and pass (bee) gas!
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everytime my boyfriend tells me that i am fat
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i am and cheerleading is most definately a sport! we have competiotons and we run and work hard for our stunts and stuff i ring any guys neck that says it isnt because fottball is just a excuse for a bunch of men to pounch on each other pretending to fight for a ball i bet they like being on top of each other lol email me if ya want to chat bout stuff
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drink lots of water and eliminate high calorie foods. if you want a snack or something after school, go for carrots or something. avoid sodas and gatorade, despite what commercials say. water is the best drink. make sure you get plenty of exercise outside of cheerleading, too. have flabby arms? lift weights. have a not so tight tummy? do crunches and leg lifts. not so great legs? running is the best answer. if you like how you look though, don't worry about it. just because you aren't a stick doesn't mean you're not healthy. if you're really concerned, go to your doctor and ask for their advice. hope i helped a bit!
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Wow.. in the last question, you said you were 70 lbs... now you're more than 320?? What's your problem? Seems like you just want attention to me...
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Lol that's funny! Well, it's really no one's business what's going on with your body.  Just say, "Don't worry about it, let's go play kickball!" Change the subject or be direct and tell them it's personal! Giving out too much information about yourself makes you come off as not valuing yourself.
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Hey man - the girl may have serious muscle like me. \n\nit is hard to describe youself to the opposite sex - for example, I am muscular and athletic and I have a large frame (long legs, broad shoulders)... But if I described myself in a small ad as large frame - then people immediately think it is obesity.
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ok all you need to do is gain confidence i was the same for the last 3 years of highschool i have been pretty quit this year i am extremly loud. find somthing good about you self for exmple i have lost weight and now have a flat stomach maybe you have good abs or nice eye show what you have to your freinds. anthother thing to do is sart with people interest like sport or fashion" hey! i heard your playin gin the soccer fianal good luck hope you win"\n\ngood luk practise make perfect( hint: don't be rude to ppl)
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Don't worry about it. Really. If you are happy and you know you're not anorexic,it really doesn't matter what other people think. I look at it that they're probably just jealous. Have fun! Go shopping!  :)