What's your opinion about a husband who does this...?
463629
YES, HE WAS BEING SELFISH!!!.When it comes to home improvements,moving,ANY THING TO DO WITH THE CONSTRUCTION or change of your home YOUR HUSBAND Should be there (That is consider family moment- there is actually going to be a change in the house). Bike shopping is not more important then helping you with the house for your children. It also,make me look at his friend!!!\n\nThis is what a decent friend would say " hey, I KNOW YA'LL GUYS WILL BE BUSY THIS WEEK" How about we go bike shopping next week once everything at your home is complete?"\n\nIt sounds like he wasn't thinking or he just want to get out of the house!!! he should have asked you is there any thing else that you may have needed before he ran out. this may sound miner to others but moves, re-construction of a home or anything pertaining to the change of living space for you/husband and children. Is a big deal to me and that everyone in the family participate and work together that is called supporting each other and strengthening the family bond.
170993
I have a friend who's husband talks incessantly. People have asked him to stop, but he can't seem to. He doesn't seem to have a clue. He really gets on my nerves.
1170068
I think they all do it.  If you don't approve of it, tell him.  He might stop.  \nI told my husband that if he has to get his "jollies" by looking at another woman, it was the same as cheating.  \nAs far as I know he doesn't do it anymore.
1176240
LOL\nYour husband pissed you off or something?
566941
LMAO...ok I just think its funny...I am wondering if we took a poll of all the answerers..I would bet that most of them that said nothing are either still dating or are newlyweds..Just an observation.\n\nAnyhow..with my hubby I love him the way he is..if there was something I could change it would be little things.  The first being that he changes his mind alot..and since I am a planner that is irritating sometimes to me.  Second, that he would be a little more domestic.  meaning that he helped more with cooking, cleaning, kids,...that sort of thing;  and finally, that he had less of a problem with flatulence.  Do I REALLY have to explain the last one???\n\n:-)
404438
Not if its disgusting to you. And he shouldn't expect it of you. However, if you are willing to try it and then decide you don't like it, then at least you gave it an honest effort. If he insists, however, then you may have a problem. No one should pressure you into doing something you are not completely willing to do. Not even your husband.
102952
I hate men who lie and cheat. But there are many others like never wanting to be home always wanting to be "out with the boys", how you can't tell a man your problems without him trying to solve it instead of being an ear to listen or a houlder to cry on. I hate how they can't help you around the house-they think it is a woman's job as with caring for children.I hate how many are irresponible with money. The one that agers me the most about my hubby is that "He does everything for me, I do nothing for him."Oh and I forgot they want sex way more than we do..we have other things on our mind too.
792809
I don't know that it's "rude", but it is a bit curious if it happens all the time. I used to date this man who always did that and rarely stayed the night. I became suspicious and followed him one night. He was married. The cad!!\n\nFrom then on any guy who wanted to shower immediately only got to do it once! The snuggle, cuddle nap thing is mandatory. They can shower when they get home! LOL
816367
While I do fix my husband's food plate and I do many other things for him as well that our daughter's consider waiting on him hand and foot, my husband does many things for me also.  He rubs my feet after a hard day of work.  He makes sure the oil is changed in our cars.  He does maintenance around the house.  If I have to work lots of extra hours he will fix dinner and do laundry.\nSo for us it is a two way street.
610177
yeah....its gross\nwell my husband is worst of all\nhe make moaning noises when he eats after not eating in a while..it sickens me...is the food that much a turn on that he has to make sex sounds while eating?!..i don't even think that he is aware that he is doing this..i should video tape him!! hidden camera style..then maybe he will get the hint!!! then he'll be more conscience -when he eats- of the sounds that he makes..which should be NONE!!
557666
No. What she has done is very inappropriate and in my mind, VERY selfish. I imagine she wouldn't like to be on the receiving end of such a thing should you have done that; am I right? Bottom line is this - it is not right for her to spend an evening like that with a man who is not her husband. Period! The mere fact that she kept this from you is an indication that what she did wasn't right. Deep down, she knew this would upset you and rightfully so. But if it were so harmless, she wouldn't have kept it from you in the first place. I think to help resolve this situation you should ask her what makes it "okay" for a married woman to do such a thing? I'd also ask her what makes her think that you should be "okay" with it as well?!
1187842
My husband it not the smartest man out there. He knows it. But the thing that makes the difference to me is if he is a hard worker. My husband is the hardest worker I know. And when I mean he works he works and always worked. Not sitting behind a desk. I mean out in the heat, or cold. Blue collar work lol
878307
i definitely am not one of those people!!!!  i would never want my husband to be with anyone else!!!!  i am the only person he has ever been with and i don't want that to change ever.....he is one of those guys that wouldn't anyway....he never pressures me into doing anything i don't want to do and i would never do that to him.....i have one of the few good men left in the world!!!!
1150289
What does your husband think?
1124108
It is obvious you are just trying to p i s s your husband off. Have fun with that.
82816
Speaking from experience, you're guilty. If he's playing along with all of this, don't waste your time. He's a deadbeat anyway. What would you think if you were his wife?
537886
Now I've heard everything! Your wife should be ashamed of herself for behaving in this manner! This is NOT abuse.