What do you do when you are lonely?
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I just have to get out of the house when I feel lonely, once you're out you can meet new people and most of the time I end up having a conversation with someone I don't know, even if I'll probably never speak to them again. I go out to a pub or cafe and sit at the bar or a table just watching the world go by. Sometimes I take a book and it's suprising how many people will come over and ask what I'm reading or say that they've already that and it's good.  I also like to take my rollerblades to the park or the seafront if it's nice out, although wish I could skate better. Or I go to the cinema, even if I'm on my own I love watching a great film and for a while you're not really on your own cos there are loads of people around and no one is talking so you're not the odd one out. If you're out enjoy yourself, and just do things that make you laugh or that you used to do as a kid, even when you're on your own cos people will see you laughing and chat. (Just not to look like a psycho, laughing at your own jokes! :)) If all else fails when I'm lonely I call my mum, she lives 12000 miles from me and it's great talking to her.
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go to yahoo chat when you need someone to talk to but your freinds aren't available.
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Go out with friends and keep your mind busy. The last thing you want to do is be alone.
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Get out and make friends, there are people in your same situation that would love for you to join them.  The worst thing you can do is sit and home and get depressed about him being gone all the time.  Create you own life and have fun with it.
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Work\n Play \n Exercise\n Make friends\n Find someone to go back to bed with...
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1) Go to the art gallery and wonder around aimlessly, being absorbed in the mystery of objects that can be interpreted any way you like. \n\n2) Take up a community course on cooking or dancing (you're bound to meet some nice available girl), or languages if you're interested. \n\n3) Go to the gym or do some other sport that takes your mind out and gives you a good workout at the same time. You'll feel much better afterwards.
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Go have a bath. \nGo out for a walk or drive. \nCall a good friend and have a chat.\nListen to your favourite music.
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Do you have a job? Either get a job or do some volunteer work to help others. Everyone in this world can play a part in making it a better place. If you are bored then you have time to make a difference in the life of somebody else.
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My problem is I'm lonely...I need company...I have a headache and out of asprin.  What do I do?
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Talk to him. When you're home alone find a friend you can talk to.
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first go to a church and offer prayer and thanksgiving to God for making u what u r today and for all the blessings that has come your way.  \n\nthen u could go to an orphanage or a home for the aged and spend some quality time with them.  \nu could donate something if its within your capacity, but then most of all they would appreciate it if u could spend some quality time with them.  \nremember, they are more lonely than u are.  your company would be a mutual pleasure for all of u.  good luck and God bless.............
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Hear a good music, It is a best motivator during problems and also loneliness. Talk to your friends through phone or visit a good motivative sites. Have a chat with others and you can also read lot of good books.
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do what you love to do like painting. playing guitar or piano... walk under the moonlight if that what's gonna make you smile, feel the breeze of the wind from the ocean or climb a mountain, enjoy the view and feel the fresh air flying across your hair... write poems, listen to music... be happy... life is too short.... no space to be lonely
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I am sorry you hear that you are lonely.  There are churches that help out lonely people. Find a good church and make friends. Or better yet, go to the home for the aged or old age community.  There are many old people who go there to find company. Good Luck my man!
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Your emptiness cannot be filled with people, I don't think. Find something creative in your life, something you can do all by yourself. That way your boyfriend's presence in your everyday life would be sufficient. Use your sense of loneliness to create. Try to sing about it, write about it, or draw it. A creative project may easily be used as a form of therapy. A good artist is one who uses his feelings in his line of work. You have your feelings, now you need to find the right application for them. In some community college in your town they ought to have art classes or crafts or something you can learn. You seem to have lots of creative potential that needs to get out so that you wouldn't feel miserable. To me, it's a clear question of self fulfilment, or lack of it, that troubles you. I think you want others to fill that hole inside of you that only you can. \nBut if I am wrong, here is another idea. Try to find online friends, then you wouldn't need to live close to them. And if you think that you need to make friends faster, you have to change your attitude. Don't think of your shyness or aloofness while meeting others. Think instead, picture it in your mind's eye, how those strangers become the friends you are comfortable with, how they replace the 5 you lost.\nPicture it as something that has already happened, due to your efforts. Feel the sense of ease and pride, because it is behind you. That kind of creative visualisation helped me to overcome my own shyness and reach out to others when I needed them. And it would still be better if you had something behind you, some creative ability, diploma, something that would remind you of your worth. This would give you the necessary confidence for continuing meeting new people, in spite of all the fear and reservations. Whatever you do, the way to diminish your loneliness is to change your attitude. It is hard, as I well know from personal experience, but quite possible, especially with the right kind of motivation and creative imagery. Hope this helps. Good Luck.
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anyway why are feeling alone? You should have family members or frens around you.  make more new frens.\n\nmy email add is srileela29@yahoo.com
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This isnt the place to meet people, go out be social join a group...there is no reason to be lonely unless you choose to be like that....good luck