what does real love entails?can one love two people at a time?is marriage all about relligion?
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you can love 2 peoples at a time marriage is not about the religion but normal peoples get married because they want to spend their lives together its not normal to be married whit to guys which one is the father or to be married whit two ladies who are you going to get pregnant first wont the other be pissed off? its normal for one couple to be married if they love one another
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"Anyone"?  Does that mean romantic love?  Does that mean love between two girls and a male?  If you have cosmic or divine love then you love everyone and everything.  So are we talking about love for two girls and one guy like for a polygamy marriage?  Or is it just friendship love.  If it is friendship love then why not.  If it is love for marriage then check the laws in your state.  If it is romantic love then there may be various reasons for the feelings of love.  And it might seem that the love between one guy and one of the girls is different than the love this guy has for the other girl.  Is the love equivalent if not equal?  Or is someone being fooled?
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Yes, I believe in marriage. I married my husband because I was, and still am, in love with him. In the eyes of GOD, we share each other and are bonded to one another. We became one person on that day. That's not to say that we don't have individual thoughts, feelings and ideas but to say that we share feelings, thoughts and ideas with each other in a way unlike if we knew "there would be a way out" or "backdoor". He is half of me and I half of him. We have from that day on thought of each other and consulted each other before making decisions to be courteous and considerate of the other feelings. The one you marry would, rather should, love you through it all and truly mean the words he/she vows. For me, I know my husband does and as do I. It's hard but it's well worth all the effort. I hope that you can find this kind of love and one day decide to share this kind of bond with someone you will love for always. Best wishes. Take care.
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Love is more then just feeling it, or trusting a person, it's more then what you think you should feel when you're in it. Love has fooled me many times and I've thought I was in love but really I wasn't. Today with my hubby, I finally know real true love. A love that I never felt before. If you are or are not a religious person you should read how the Bible defines love in 1Corinthians 13:4-7..it's a beautiful description of what love is and how it is. I knew I loved my hubby becasue I changed, I felt a change in myself. It wasn't so much what HE did...it was what I did for him and for myself. I looked at him with admiration, I accepted him for who his was without finding fault in him and we compromised and we are bestfriends. No matter WHAT COMES we stay together and don't leave...we NEVER give up and even when we are disappointed in each other we still hold one another at high esteem. I knew I loved him because I prayed for him and when he came into my life he was all I prayed for and then he was so much more...God blessed me with things in him that I never dreamed of asking for in a mate. That's how I knew I was in love.  Love isn't always what you expect it to be sometimes falling in love has a whole lot to do with the UNEXPECTED!!!
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Depends on what type of Christian.  Most maintream religions only allow one.  Some sects of Christianity to allow plural marriages, but not many.\n\nThe real question is why would you.  It's one wife enough torture.  ;)
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There is no such thing as real love. Because love is there if you work on it. If you love with pure heart thats real love for you.
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unforgivable? love is a lot of things but i'm thinking unforgibale is not one of them. a marriage is a unioin between 2 people not 2 people and their family and friends and town and country and world.\n\nif you are happy i am happy for you
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is marriage about love? hello, guess what. marriage is not about love. its about commitment. love's just part of it. why dont you know that? cause you havent stayed married long enough to realize it.
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What is LOVE? \n\n\n\nLoving another person is not separate from loving God.\nOne is a single wave, the other is the ocean.\n\nContemplate love every day. Loving reflections make the heart grow.\nSurrender to love as a guiding force.\n\nLove never forces. Love is intelligent and brings only what you need.\nThe awakening of true love lies in finding peace within passion and passion within peace.\n\nTo feel beauty is to know that truth. To know the truth is to be in love.\n\nYour marriage is a play of the divine.\n\nTwo souls pretend to be separate for the sheer joy of coming together in love.\nThe highest expression of love is creativity.\n\nLove doesn't need reason. It speaks from the irrational wisdom of the heart.\nA heart that has learned to trust can be at rest in the world.\n\nLove is attention without judgement. In its natural state, attention only appreciates.\nLove is the beginning of the journey, its end and the journey itself.\n\nLove is like water. If it doesn't flow, it stagnates.\nThe mind judges what is good or bad. Love brings only good.\n\nTrue love is here and now.\nWhatever you can remember or anticipate is only a shadow of love.
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Third time was the charm for me.  But if I had not gone through the 2 bad marriages, struggled through the tribulations, cried the tears, grew the backbone, etc...I wouldn't be the person I am.  I would not be worthy of this wonderful love I finally found.  My grandmother used to say God is cruel, but His cruelty is refining. Hardships refine our souls. Make us better people if we let them.  Love has to be hard because we need those lessons.  But remember, real love is kind, thoughtful, truthful, real love never belittles, or injures.  Real love is sometimes silent.
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does it really?\n\nthink over it ....\n\nwhat is marriage all about?\n\nto me it is a proclamation of mutual love and committment.\nit is what binds two hearts and souls in love in a committment wherein they are loyal to each other and help each other in enhancing their lives and caring for each other in a special way. it is also an assurance to be with the one you love in joy and in pain. in health and in sickness. it is a bond that helps you feel belonged and know that you are loved no matter what. it is allowing someone to witness your entire life, second by second, minute by minute, and you get to do that too.\n\nand in all of what i have said above, correct me if i am wrong, where does the word, sex or gender come???\n\nif it doesn't then we can safely conclude that MARRIAGE does not harm anyone, and as a by-product of this conclusion even GAY marriages can't harm anyone.
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I think a person can be in love with two people at the same time. However, I think it's wrong for them to carry on two relationships simultaneously. They should choose one person, and let the other go.
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I don't think it's possible to ever love two people the same.  With different relationships, there is a different love involved.
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True love is not something that just happens. True Love is the result of two people who come together and are able to understand the needs they can and can not fulfil for the other person. Then, they work dilligently to meet those needs that they can.  (no one person can meet all of your needs) This creates the happiness that is associated with what we consider "True Love". I believe we can have "True Love" with many people in this world. Although there may be the *potential* for True Love with some, if they are unprepared and unwilling to do the work it takes to make a "forever relationship" actually be just that, *forever*, then they can never manifest that True Love WITH you. At that point you must know that there are others out there who may be capeable of creating this kind of love with you. But first and foremost, YOU must be "THE ONE" and then you should be able to attract YOUR ONE, to you. Never let the concept of True Love capture you in a bad relationship. I've always found a lot of freedom in the following quote "I love you, but it doesn't mean I have to live my life with you." Good luck in becoming and finding The One.
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Real love after marriage is just a stronger love than when you first fell in love, its dedication and promise to be there emotionally, physically, and spiritually (mind, body, and soul) through anything and everything good or bad that may happen to you both in what we call life. \n\nThere will be times where you will want to pull your hair out with frustration, because you will not always see eye to eye, but its knowing that you gave your word and heart to that one special person and there will always be comfort in knowing you will go to sleep everynight together and wake up everymorning together and start each new day as a NEW DAY, a new experience for you both to go through together.  \n\nI hope this helps in some way, I am only 20 and am experiencing real love. Best wishes!
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I do to a degree. Love is very powerful and moves people to do the impossible. I believe that today mankind confuses love. Especially in the english language. We say I love my dog , I love chocolate, I love my wife, I love my parents, etc. However we do not love those things all on the same level. There is no other way to say it in English. So it is true there are different levels of love. There is a level in Greek called, "Agape". This is the highest level there is. God has it for mankind.The kind we have for God. Christ commanded us to have it for one another. This form of love allows you to even love your enemies. Imagine that able to love your enemies. It is very difficult to show this kind of love because it is a perfect bond of love. We are not perfect. Some people are able to come close. Yet only God is able to demonstrate it perfectly since he is perfect. IMagine though if all the world tried to apply it what a better world we would live in. No more divorce.
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I highly recommend living with the person before marriage. Personally, it kept me from making the  mistake of my life! You really get to know the real person behind all of the magic that you see from each time you get to see them. What kind of partner they will be in house chore situations, when money is tight, their ability to take and deal with certain responsibilities, all of the important components that make a marriage work well. I know that alot of people aren't keen to the idea of 'living in sin' but it is your life, and thank goodness society has changed a bit. Hopefully this helps.