my b.f. asked out the guy that i like and have 4 a long time.and knew how i felt.what do i do???!!!!?
474499
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
351050
You don't...it is up to him to make the next move.  You had a great time...if he asks you out again, then you know that he did too!
801374
Honey, all i can say is.. take some time with him.. not enough soo other girl will become suspecious. Im sorry to say that but, you know you cant do anything about it... like going to him and saying hang out with me more.. or some thing like that.. last thing you want is both them not talking to you.. but i got to say, be happy for him girl!!! if you think he likes her more.. then thats o.k. you just know he  has not forgotten about you girl. He still knows you, not like your out of his life.. he wants to hangout with you too.. just do this.. give him some space for a while.. and things will be ok.. life goes on.. and we cherish the moments we had with another.. i promise you that doll face.. nothing we do or happens to any of us in the world can be changed from our minds.. it is always there which keeps us moving on in life.... having a family.. kids... house.. it never stops.. just be happy you know him now, and that he knows you... try asking him to like hangout with you.... see what he feels about it.. he can choose who he wants to be with.. if things dont go well between you two... dont worry.. cant express that enough.. its not your fault if he makes a decision you dont like..\n\nHope it works out for best of you anne\nSincers\nShawn Miller\nToronto, Ontario
567810
it's not what should you do, it's what can you do. looks like b/f has made some choices. all you need to do is get your mind around the situation. there are more guys out there. another one will come along, it all happened for a reason. the reason may not be obvious right now, but will become obvious someday, you have heard the saying when one door closes another one opens, hey the door closed, be thankful you found out now, before you had your 2.5 kids and caught him banging your friend. you expect your b/f to not like a gurl throwing herself at him , I can hear it now from you EX b/f oh please don't give me oral sex, yeah that's gonna happen. maybe you need to find some new friends, you won't lose much ditching the ones you have now. they don't respect you , that is obvious. good luck and don't take all that stuff too serious, you have a lot of heartache ahead of you, lol
122185
just go with your heart. Im sure which ever one you chose will be the best for you. I personally think you should go out with the guy that you talk to more. The other guy youve dumped before so youve had reasons to not like him.
567896
o my gosh, that is happing to me to right now! ok well the same bf that i have gone out with 9 times has a gf and he keeps asking me out to, what i do is try to ignore him or ask nicely that i dont want him back any more and that u would like to move on
280265
Normal. This is a normal situation. You have liked "this guy" for a very long time, and only thought about him. Once you were asked out from the "other guy" then you were "exposed" to another person, which just so happens to be attractive and caught your heart. So therefore, you got over the guy that you "did" like, and now your heart is set for someone else!
650427
why do you think there is anything to do?  You told him--and good for you for being brave!--but apparently he doesn't feel the same way and that's life.  Move on, you took a chance, it didn't work out but you should feel good about acting on your feelings.  Some day you will tell someone you like them and they will say they like you, too.
962157
if it were me I would let him down easy and give it some more time to get to know each other.then if he asks you out again and you like him go for it.good luck
448676
he heard you liked him.So he sent you signals to see if it was true.So your now labeled as "this chick that likes me".just act like you lost interest and when he resends the signals to see if you still like him then ask him what hes doing.Like dude whats up you sendin me signals you want to get with me or what?then if he says yes or no its not a rejection just a question about  what HES doing
746900
Sweety, just talk to the guy you rejected before this Jonthan geek, tell him what you told me now, and see what he says. If he still likes you you will know by his reaction.
1173288
what you should do is go back to school and learn how to right a complete sentence. "I feel like me and this guy are made for each other." that does not sound right. it should be " i feel like this guy and I are made for each other."\nby the way i never said i loved two guys. it's  just a question to post up.\n your the little s.l.u.t. trying to take another women's man.
1033480
Well maybe this "other girl" he likes is you. Some men give complicated signals like that. And I honestly think your friendship is over since you like him in romance way. So you have nothing to lose. You can not live all your life wondering what would happen if you have asked. So I think you should stand for what you want and ask him out. If he wants you too then it is alright but if he does not I still think your friendship will not be over. Cause you were dating before too and after break up you are still friends. I think everything will be fine just ask him. Good luck.
890565
go for it. \nTell him how you feel\nor else you will just keep yourself wondering "what if you did anything different"
258308
Ok, my b/f/f is a boy. About 3 years ago, I had the same feeling. I thought of him as more than my friend. I thought that is I told him, that it would ruin our chance as b/f g/f and friends so I decided not to do anything about it. About a month or so afterwards, my other friend came up to me and said that he liked me too. So, I decided to talk to him bout us and we came to find out that we both liked each other as more then friends. So, there could be something there for you. Don't be afraid like I was to make the first move. He could be ur soulmate. So, go 4 it! Good luck! :)
584341
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL OR JUST ASK HIM OUT BUT IF HE KEEPS PLAYING GAME FORGET ABOUT HIM I HAD A FRIEND FOR 3 YEARS HE WAS LIKE MY BEST GUY FRIEND BUT HE WAS PLAYING GAMES WITH ME I WOULD ASK HIM OUT HE WOULD SAY HE DIDN'T WANT A GIRL FRIEND AND WHEN I HAD A MAN HE WOULD TELL ME SHIT LIKE IF I WAS SINGLE HE WOULD HOOK UP WITH ME AND BE MY BOYFRIEND THEN WHEN I WAS SIGLE AGAIN IT WAS HE DIDN'T WANT A GIRLFRIEND OR HE WENT AND GOT A GIRLFRIEND AND WAS NOT SINGLE I WENT THOUGH THIS FOR 3 YEARS WITH HIM ONLY CAUSE I REALLY LIKED HIM AND WANT HIM TO GIVE ME A CHANCE BUT IT WAS A WAIST OF 3 YEARS SO BELEAVE ME IF HE KEEPS PLAYING GAME FORGET HIM DON'T WAIST YOUR TIME ON HIM THERE ARE OTHER GUYS OUT THERE
800119
just tell him its time to quit playing these childish stupid games. Tell him you have liked him all this time and you want a serious relationship and you need to know how he feels or your gonna find another man that is worth the time and effort you have put into him. He'll either answer your question or honey seriously move on to someone better.