Even if my lady initiates sex, why would she keep her eyes closed?
465207
Sometimes when women close their eyes they are able to feel the emotions and touch to be more satisfying.  And maybe she just likes to close her eyes during sex!!!  good luck
935955
It could be a number of things....maybe they have kids and the woman is too tired?  Maybe her husband doesn't do the same things to/for her as he used to before getting married, for example, lighting candles, romancing, going out for drinks etc.  I think for me personally, I love having sex with my husband, but we have limited time to f**k around anymore, we have 2 small children.  We're both exhausted.  Maybe you need to make a date with your wife, compliment her all night on how beautiful she is, then ask her to go down......can't hurt you know?  Wow, I think I need to run home and have oral with my husband tonight ;o)
562847
sorry pal but she may be suffering from intense stress or a mental illness. talk to her calmly and dont call her crazy. be very sensitive about her attitude. maybe she has a problem that she is holding inside. In my opinion, maybe she thinks you should figure it out yourself and she thinks she shouldn't have to tell you. I have done that in the past. us women haven't realized that men aren't mind readers. OUR BAD!!
936833
Why do you have to do it?\nHave you asked her why she isn't interested?
306376
try not having sex with her for a month, then tie a bow around yourself and stand there naked, but don't initiate anything, just stand there and tell her "I'm here if you want me" and if she doesn't initiate it then i think you should sit down with her and discuss it.  Women often initiate less than men, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you.  Maybe she could make suggestions to you that will help her enjoy it more.  Listen, don't preach or judge, just listen.
125620
She probably feels inscure about herself or about the relationship.  She might have had some doubts over night and got all confussed.  She might be scared.  Its normal but I would say to forget about it and move on, if she does this now think about what she might do in the future.
367771
I am not sure if the shyness comes from you thinking your dick is small or whatever, but it sounds like your g/f is wanting to maybe see it with lights on? sounds kinda kinky to me but maybe she IS kinky. I say pee away dude. It may just lead to a real good experience for you.
122060
i think if that gal is not looking into yaour eyes while talkign doesnt means that she is not interestend in you....she might be nervous! The best way is too have paitence and be nice with her whatever she is thinking aout u.
300465
When she finds out your watching without her then it's like sneaking around - she may also think that you don't find her stimulating enough and so you seek out other pleasures. When you involve her she may feel like it's just another form of foreplay, a bit of arousal before the action
254205
Because we know what you guys are thinking, and we know it gets you off to hear us say it, but we don't want to actually DO whatever kinky thing you're talking about.  We want to please you, and frankly, if we were in the throes of passion, and we said, "heck, no, I don't want to do that!", it would kinda ruin the mood.  \n\nTalk with her honestly (if you REALLY want to know) sometime when you're NOT having sex.
373957
Her confidence is probably already destroyed. This is the reason a lot of women sleep around. They need love and affection, as everyone does, but they've never gotten it and are still not getting it. They believe this is the only way they will get it. She may seem happy and proud of her sex life but that is not always the case. The only thing you can do for her is let her know that you care and you are worried. Tell her why you care about her and why you're worried about her. Then, continue to be her friend. If she can not or does not want to change, she is still the same person you've been friends with. Good luck. :^)
776316
She obviously didn't want to be just friends since she tried to sleep with you.  She only said that because your saying no sex until marriage.  She obviously cant go until marriage before she has sex again.  I would assume she's hoping you will change your mind.
194949
She's doing this because she gets a bit of excitement by trying to deceive you. Like children do to their parents. This sounds like a battle of wills to me. You want her to behave one way, and she's responding by lying, digging her heels in. She's trying to tell you that she doesn't feel in control of her life, and this is a way she feels that she can do what she wants. When you hide the webcam or threaten to take her 'toy' away, she spits her dummy, because she wants a reason to have a go at you for trying to 'control' her, 'making' her bored by travelling alot. You're just applying practical solutions to your problem (very male!). She is probably lost in a dreamworld while she's chatting to these guys, a world where she is a different person. She can portray herself as anyone she wants to. She probably needs some confidence-boosting but it all boils down to a lack of communication. She doesn't feel she can talk to you about her needs, or perhaps she's tried and she doesn't feel you took her seriously. This situation will only get worse if you don't try to spend some quality time getting to know what her needs are.
699678
The plain fact is that some people are sexually boring and others are sexually exciting, I believe the higher the sex drive the better the love making. Maybe your lady is not comfortable with her body, tell her she's gorgeous and maybe she'll relax a little and forget any inhibitions she may have. Hope things improve .
755828
Just go with it and quit worrying about whether she's thinking or not...she could just be sizing up the location of your jugular and getting ready to turn you into a vampire....\n\nSeriously, guys will never be able to read a woman's mind...so give up and enjoy!!!!
50527
A girl isn't just on heat, unless your talking about the fertile period, they respond if you respond to them, attraction is not a choice its a feeling, so learn to stimulate it in them.\n\nP.s women choose men and set the game up so that you think you chose them.\n\npps why? because you cant sleep with her without her permission other wise it's rape. Men get second choice, sorry if that damaged your ego :)
368533
Less talk and more action. She needs to initiate half the time and if thers no physical contact going on she needs to be mentally alert and intelligent preferabally at a higher level than her man.