why is it that guys can fight and be best friends the next day but girls hold a grudge forever?
469002
We get it out of our system.  You see by not expressing our selves all the time, when men blow up, it's over with quick.  Since women talk about their feelings to everybody, they keep the pain going.
967689
I don't understand if you're worried about the girl you like or your friend turning into one of the guys you don't get along with. in any case, they should be smart enough to decide for themselves if these guys are worth it or not... but if they're such bad influence you could warn them about it and just hope for the best!
173980
Because they feel sorry for themselves and get pessimistic and then they start feeling bitter toward women and women HATE that. I think Nice guys look at and compare themselves to other guys and imagine and assume that other guys get more girls and have more luck then they do, and they figure "it must be because I'm a nice guy". It probably just means that the other guy is braver, more aggressive, or that the girls you are attracted to are insecure and immature and only think that a guy who makes them anxious and even more insecure is worth it. Trust me though, most women that I know who are HAPPY in their relationships have all married nice guys who help with the housework, talk to them, go shopping with them (they don't all enjoy it though) and buy them flowers from time to time.
147226
Because they can if you allow them.   Not all guys are like that, but the ones who are deserve the self-absorbed a**holes they attract!
689379
Some girls say they don't like a guy because they fear what their friends will think of them. Some are also afraid of rejection and wont admit it until they know how the guy feels about them.
1154733
its normal as long as u 2 make-up. sometimes when me and my best friend fight she goes to her other friends and hang out with them just to make me feel  bad. During that time try to find new friends not to be your rebound but just someone to hang out with. Hope you 2 make up\ngod bless
1117606
This used to happen to me all the time when i was younger.  I used to call myself the messanger because i would feel obligated to run around playing he said she said.  Dont allow it to happen.  Just tell them that its not your place to be stuck in the middle and it makes you feel very uncomfortable when it comes to choosing one or the other because its not fair and if they make you feel that way or push you to choose the "best friend" of the two then they really arent freinds and are not taking your feelings into concideration.  Just tell them its none of your business, its not your fight and you would rather keep to yourself.  you dont have to pick either or, hang with one friend one day and the other the next.  if one starts talking bad about the other let them know straight up that you dont want to get caught up in the situation and whatever they say about the other isnt going to make you like the other any less.  if the refuse to stop just leave!\n\nabout the boy part, guys do not fight over silly things like i had it first or i saw him first.  Guys are cool and actually listen to what you have to say, especially if its about friends or what you like or want to do when you get older.  guys think girls are interesting and thats the cool part about it because even if you feel a little awkward at first they always have a way to make you feel like its  ok its only natural to conect with people of the opposite sex even when a relationship isnt involved.
549058
Guys are not like girls here, we do not send out little hints that we like a girl. Pretty much if you are a girl and we talk to you when we don't have to that means you have a shot. \n\nAlso guys don't collect female friends like girls do with guys. The phrase "I wouldn't want to ruin our friendship" is usually only said by girls. Not to say that we don't enjoy having female friends (my best friend in the world is a girl) but like Chris Rock said "I have some female friends but they are all by accident, it was some girl I was trying to date and I messed up and suddenly I was in the friend zone." My point being if a guy is being friendly to you it isn't because he wants to be your friend per se.\n\nIn short guys only talk to girls to get something from them, either a date or notes or something. If a guy you like comes up to talk to you just to talk and he doesn't ask for anything you have a shot
93611
Could be a lot of reasons, but most likely jealously and insecurity.  Men do this exact thing too.  Some of it has to do with possessiveness, but my feelings are just worries that the new girl would hear all the wrong things about me, or not treat the guy as good as I did, or stole him (that hussy)
68477
Different guys want different things, but the vast majority want a girl that's interested in them and expresses that interest on a regular basis.  For a guy, there's nothing more confusing than a girl that gets very emotional all the time, because this can read like she is just trying to be annoying.  Guys are very literal.  If you cry, you're sad, and if you yell, you're mad.  It's hard for a guy to separate the crying and yelling from the fact that the girl may still like him.
250638
guys tend to be drawn toward something they can't have.  also they like to be territorial, or they could have always liked you but were too scared to say sumthin until you started liking some other guy.  it's a competition thing.
605003
Girls are smarter at the outset but that is their nature in the long run they are normally incorrect if she has no gender complications.  Guys do not like telling half truths besides girls still hate rejection as this society still treats them the same as yesterday.
709428
that's because guys know girls hang on, many put up with a lot of stuff they don't have to out of love and guys think this means the girl is always gonna be there in the morning until its to late and she rolls out then their like "I'm sorry baby... I didn't mean it... I love you... Next time I..." and girls fall for it out of love or stupidity when most of the time the guy never learns and only ends up doing the same thing all over again
965289
maybe they dont love each other to have boy-girl relationship, that is why they keep there friendship rather than nothing.
1151629
Life is too short to hold a grudge against a person.  I lost one of my best friends to a car accident a few days ago.  A friend can be there one day and gone the next without you even thinking it's possible.  Think about it.  Tell her why you are mad and make up.\n\nGood luck hun.
104703
The cute guys hate everyone who they think isn't worthy of their time and that's the factual truth. Even guys get a little of their so-called "wrath". Don't worry, one day when you blossom into a beautiful girl, they'll come crawling back after you - but you'll be just walking past them; giving them the cold shoulder...\n\nTrust me, your time will come...
36978
They keep them because they think they've got something you will still talk to them about and maybe this way, this would lead to the two of you getting back together again. I know some girls try to pull off stuff like this, maybe this isn't the case, but it might be as well. You know what i'm saying, they just wanna use them as an excuse for you to talk to them, that's all.