How do you ask  ou a guy even if you are very shy around guys?
466146
hold on to that glance.  Keep eye contact with him and then walk over and say what's up.  Or wink at him when he looks at you and see what he does.
884884
Omgoodness you totally just described me. Haha Im exactly the same [[somewhat in between shy and outgoin]] Soo I really wouldnt give you such great advice. Haha except be yourself. Laugh. Smile & Keep Awesome eye contact..and phisically Hug. Play with his hand..joke around..push him..you know all that crazy fun loving stuff =] But either way i think he noticed ur a little shy already but hes still talkin to you. That jsut proves he likes you ...
374909
They easiest way for a shy person to find out is to have a friend ask a friend of his what how he feels.\n\nI know it sounds a bit corny, but friends have been asking for other friends for as long as there have been crushes.
221877
Overcoming shyness is not easy, but can be done. I used to be really shy too, but I started hanging around people who were outgoing then myself and I started noticing the positive attention they gained by being outgoing. I just worked on walking up to people and introducing myself and I learned that if I want something I should ask, the worse someone can ever say is NO. \nPractice makes perfect, the more you do it, the easier it gets. :D\nI now have lots of nice friends and I have been out on a lot dates. :)\n\nOh and as far as getting a boy to notice you. Don't overcome your shyness just for that. :) \n\nThe best way to get someone to notice you is just by being yourself. :)\nGo up to him, start off with a simple hello. :) Introduce yourself. \nLittle by little and believe me, it will take a snowball effect, before you know it, you just may have yourself a nice friend,if not, well, there are many others out there. :D\n\nHope it helped good luck
145581
just start a normal conversation like your talking to one of your guy friends. at first do worry about the fact that you like them or if they like you or whatever your nervous about. Just be yourself and remember its just another conversation.
1184486
It depends on how old. If your talking about guys that are 20 or older (no teenage crap), most will look at you (when they think your not looking), try to be where your at (like if you both go to a certain coffee shop at a specific time), try to make conversation with you, or just straight out ask you out.It should be really obvious though. I don't like shy guys myself but if you like a guy and your pretty sure that he likes you but he hasn't made a move, you make the move (guys love that).
581908
You get over your shyness by, if necessary, making yourself talk to someone. I know it's not easy. I'm shy too. But I MAKE myself talk to people and when conversation is started, then the next logical step is dating. Smile, and be friendly to men where you go....grocery store, gas station, post office, etc. There are a lot of good, decent guys out there, and one of them is waiting for a nice Lady like you. Good Luck!
1101449
Chances are guys are shy too.\nIf you are shy around guys, approach them with some other girls. That will add some intimidation on the guy side as well. Don't try to get rid of your shyness all at once. Take it a bit at a time and it will come naturally.\nGliding Squirrel.
702457
Just ask him to play the question game with you. It always makes for an interesting and fun night for me. Just take turns asking questions about each other. Each question you ask you have to answer too. This way you tend to avoid anything that might make you both uncomfortable. Start with something simple like your favorite color. By the end of the night you'll wonder where the time went and be more relaxed because you'll have spent your time thinking up questions, not about your shyness. Trust me, its a fun relaxing way to get to know a person. Here's to hoping you have a great night!
867526
I love shy guys!!! They are so cute and sweet!!! The only guys that I have ever liked was either a shy or very sweet guy. But try not to be too shy, like you can't even make a move.
700860
Just talk to him. It will take a lot of courage but guys like that in girls. Be confident in yourself and when he's with his friends ask him if you can talk to him. Dont be shy and dont be afraid to be let down.
163934
Talk about favorite foods, gossip of any kind, Ask him questions about himself that way he will notice you have some interest with him. Try to make the conversations equally, but if he's a shy guy then you will talk most of the time but say things that he could be interested in to. Be yourself and have a good time!
896107
Some times I think it is down to being shy, have you told this lucky guy that you like him, and would like to date him?\nIf not, make that first move and ask him! x\nHope you get the answer that you desire.\nLove n light xx x
298693
most guys are REALLY stupid, so thats gonna be hard w/o a direct aproach. just smiling at him works wonders, they catch on. a little extended eye contact, just a little longer then usual. Also ask his best friend who he likes, and ask questions about him. and his best friend will probably tell him.\n\nGood Luck, guys like shy girls so im sure your fineeee
815107
i like u am also shy..so   first u have to find out if he likes u..i always do that by geting my friends to ask him...then if he likes me i ask my friends to ask him out  but if he doesnt like u then u say it was all a joke or just say that ur already over him (even if u aren't) just so u dont get embarassed     hope i helped!:D
21264
I have ALWAYS been oblivious. I just don't notice.\n\nTry flirting in a more obvious way, some guys are afraid to make a move in response because they doubt themselves, or are afraid they may be misinterpreting. What if you are teasing and are waiting for them to take the bait so you can shoot them down? What if you hug all your friends when you say hi? What if you feel close to him... but not in a romantic way? We don't have any way of knowing.\n\nTry the normal stuff, if it doesn't work, try approaching him seriously, and telling him your feelings, or after something you thought was obvious, tell him something like "you know a girl doesn't usually do that unless she is really hoping a guy will ask her out" or something similar.\n\nThen again... there is always the chance that he genuinely isn't interested. Unless you use a direct approach and ask you won't know.
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.