My tiny size prevents me from a good relationship...what do i do?
472665
dont you no size doesnt matter its the way you use it
446054
Not all men are the same size and the same can be said for women. Be accepting of yourself, not insecure. The funny thing is that the people complaining about size are usually men, not women. If she's not complaining why should you. If a relationship goes bad because of size, then it means that relationship isn't the one for you. Simple as that. We're all different and you have to come to accept that.\n\nI believe surgery is the only thing that works and I'm quite sure that there are too many side effects to that.
535298
Evidently you don't want a big man. I don't get it. Why do people not lower their standards just a little bit to meet someone who might turn into the next love of their life. Find a big man! He'll be happy as much as you are. Then lose weight together. It'll be fun. You can accomplish something together as a couple and build a relationship at the same time. It just sounds like you are attracted to smaller men or something and looking for one that likes larger women. Those are few and far between. Lower your standards, there are plenty of dating websites.
298400
let me get this straight...you're a 24 year old virgin who is afraid to have sex because his penis is only 4 inches?\nIf I got all that right then my answer is: don't be afraid to have sex. the size of your penis doesn't mean it won't be enjoyable. i was married to a man with a smaller one than that who i enjoyed sex with very much. Just be clean and safe. WEAR A CONDOM EVERY TIME...and don't rush into anything just for the sake of having sex. plenty of happy people live their whole lives without ever having sex.
27453
First of all, let me say that I'm sorry that you are having a problem with this.  I don't know how large you are but I have been with guys before that were pretty big.  It was very difficult for us.  You have to be careful, and try different positions to find one that works for both of you.  \n\nThe idea that all women love large men is definetly not true.  I guess you are just going to have to talk about it.  That is really the only way to figure it out.  There are a lot of women that like it, but then there are a lot of women that are "shallow" (meaning that they aren't deep enough for you) too and it physically hurts them.  \n\nGood luck with this.  I hope things work out for you.
1006183
Insure that your girl is satisfied before you are  and I gaurantee you, she would not care if it was 4inches small.....Look at it this way. who's to say it is to small or what small is, make what you have work.
791369
try a bigger one...girl
1134351
If the woman before she was involved with u had a guy that had  13 or 14 inches or longer & she got accustomed to that. Then u are small 2 her.
601450
Hey there,\n\nAll heights are acceptable, no matter what. I felt exactly the same way as you when I was younger. I am 19 and i'm 4'9 and my feet are really small and my figure frame is tiny as well. You should be happy with your body, its really fun to be short and a lot of advantages do come with it. And as for guys and dating, you will find a guy who will love you for who you are and he will love your height as well. Well when people are different, I guess a lot of people will be self conscious or stare when they are around different persons. It seems to happen all over the world. I guess its human nature for us to be self conscious about someone different around us until we get to know them.
160095
i will admit that a physical attraction often leads to a relationship but,i have dated men of all sizes.If a mans personality turns me on i do not see him as too thick or too thin.The trick is to get someone to notice the you inside.People who cant do that tend to be shallow and are not worth your time.You will find her.Hang in there.
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No, I don't think so. I'm a girl, and honestly feel 2 things, 1) if it's "small" and he knows how to make it enjoyable for both, then it definately doesn't matter the size, and 2), to big can hurt, but the right kind of big is great, and there's nothing wrong with liking it, or prefering it, even if you would except the same person with a smaller one. Be glad she likes you the way you are though! Just make sure you don't go TO deep!
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There is nothing wrong with small, even tiny. now, im sure he is perfectly aware of this, so there is no need to bring it to his attention, it will only hurt his self confidence. Try to get him to pleasure you through foreplay. Oral or you guys can even get a vibrator. If you get your orgasm through foreplay, he can get his elsewhere, then the sexual experience is benificial to both of you. Don't dump him because of this or anything, it is not his fault. there is A WHOLE LOT that he can do to pleasure you without using his penis. If he is willing to use a dildo or vibrator on you, then that would be great. but if he doesnt want to; don't push it. you don't want him to know you find his masculinity amusing.\n\njust find a way for him to get you off before intercourse, then, even if you cant feel the sex, he can get his too. there is no point to sex if both partners arent satisfied
235000
Hmm. Tough qestion. Why cant I get a relationship also? HAhax. It's most probably you are too good that people fear to get close to you. They are afraid that they are not good enough for you. Another possible thing is you are too bad and people dont want to get close to you which i doubt is the case. Maybe u r a backgrd figure? IF u are, try to be more vocal and make people notice u. Smile more. Be kind to others. People will realise that u are a good catch. MAke more friends first. DOnt rush in to things. Slow and steady. XD Wish u all the best.
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YOU are one of them that give all of us girls a BAD rep!  Thats just awful!  What r u thinking girl?  If you are passing by the perfect man BECAUSE he is short then Im sure you have been passed up in the past for being SHALLOW!  Some of the greatest guys are short and you are soooo missing out on a possible great love because you are looking for someon perfect.  Ill be the first to say" there r no perfect guys or perfect women"  ANYWHERE!!!!!  God soooo shallow!  Looks like u will be a lonely old woman one day unless you revisit your values and fix a few
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Sweety I'm assuming your penis is small if ur asking this question. As a girl, my opinion is that size really DOESN'T matter. It truly is how it is used. Any girl who believes it does matter is either young, slutty,or feeling inadequate about herself. If you have a girl that thinks size matters and she would dump you because of it, then she is not worth it. If your partner truly cares about you then she will accept everything about you. everything
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if your not getting any pleasure than you have a personal problem. try using a toy, they have many many sizes. also when you find the person you love and you get married, and you are together with them. than size does not matter, either way.
494373
It isn't what you got it is how you use it.  A big p####   won't help if you don't know how to use it--Ask your lady how you can please her once you are successful in your relation to her or them--you will see --size is the last thing on earth you should be concerned about.