one of my friends said she was sorry for the way she had acted should i forgive her? see details?
463691
You should forgive your friend...No friendship is worth a guy remember that!  Friends are priceless!  She did make a mistake about talking behind your back but maybe she felt bad in the first place and the reason she was saying something bad about you was to hide her own guiltiness.
673958
You should forgive her BUT speak to her and try and find out way she says nasty things, she probally has deeper problems and is taking her anger out on you
597313
I don't think so-- at all. She's the one that should be apologizing to you and asking for your forgiveness. It sounds like this woman is more concerned about herself than she is anyone else. If she can't be respectful, you shouldn't have to be around her. I think she definitely deserveed that kind of slap in the face. She had it coming.
602264
I do feel that was right because you would want your friend to do the same thing if the roles were reversed. He obviously would of done something behind his girlfriend's back if you had given him the green light.\n\nShe is better off. Don't feel bad they broke up or guilty that you told her. You did good. Don't let nobody tell you different.
863975
Look this same exact thing happened to me and i swear i was about to go physco on this guys a**, but he wasn't sincere at all in his apoligy, so if you said you were sorry in a certain tone of voice she might have taken it in a way like you didn't really mean it, and maybe the 2nd time you said it nicer and she knew you were sincere, so it could just be the way you said it.
1021961
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
416631
If you are really her friend and not just someone trying to hurt her feelings , then I would tell her how people view her and that in the long run she is going to be the one hurt by this behavior. I knew someone like that once, and when she decided to change and get her life back on track ,she actually had to move out of state before she could find someone that wanted to have a relationship with her because everyone knew her reputation.
1040313
I don't think you're wrong for telling her that. What you have to understand is that sometimes you can't always save your friends. I learned that the hard way. Sometimes it's best to let them make their own mistakes so that they will learn for themselves. What i would do if I was you I would remind her of how great and wonderful she is and that she deserves the same. Then if she doesn't listen you sit back and be there for her when she sees the light. You still need to be her backbone but this time you're not being her hero, you're simply being her friend!! She will thank you for it later!
674882
Just try to talk to her. It depends on what you did, but try to tell her you're reasons and say you're sorry. Try to work it out calmly.
549025
Well, I think it was a good thing that you called her on the false story.  Her reaction is typical for someone who has been CAUGHT.  She may have seen it as her opportunity to end the friendship of many years.  People change and interests change.  This might be a blessing in disguise for you.  If she is a gossip queen and you could care less about that - this may be your opportunity to focus on people who share your values.  HUGS TO YOU.  It is hard to lose a friend for any reason.
600169
You should tell her that you forgive her for what she has done that you know it was an accident that it just really hurt you and that you shouldnt have let that come between your friendship and that you really miss her and that you just want to try and fix things so they can be back to the way they were and that your sorry you took so long to tell her this but if she could find it in her heart to forgive your reaction to her ruining your important thing and become your friend again.I also dont think you can move on from it because that is a long time to have a friend and if yall were really good friends like you say you will never forget her and you will wonder all the time what if i had told her i missed her and we could have been good friends again so i think you should try and fix the friendship instead of just trying to forget and if she says she doesnt want to will then atleast you can move on knowing that you tried thats all you can do good luck i hope i helped
748555
You cant be honest with someone who cant be awake to what her actions have caused!!\n\nAll actions have consequences is one u can say!! She isnt a child, she needs to face up to what she has done.. you sugar coating it wont help hun!!\nA true friend will tell her how it is then be there for her regardless of how things go down!!\nFriends have to beable to be honest!! If she cant handle it then she is a bigger idiot than i first thought!~!\n\nGood luck!
417408
first of all, pretty stupid move. but whats done is done, right? u should try telling her that u never meant to hurt her and that u were just kidding around.
264280
Ma'am, it's best you call....if you really mean to win back their trust and friendship, it's best you take the first step. Apologize for your behaviour...after all, Sorry sometimes is the hardest word to say sometimes...but it also has a powerful meaning,even more than love.If you apologize, they will understand and will not see it as a weakness, so go ahead.Do it.
772614
Tell her that until she apologizes you don't feel like talking to her.  Watch her reaction if she is sorry about what she did. If she is - give  her a second chance ... if she is not really apologetic and doesn't think she did something wrong I would NOT talk to her again.
480847
if she doesnt forgive you just forgive yourself and go on.some people cant take constructive criticism.maybe she can forgive you.i wouldnt loose any sleep over it ok.good luck and keep your head up. =)
496383
You did what you had to do, which was to be honest with your friend.  Sometimes that honesty can hurt.  Time might heal this hurt, or it might not.  But if you hadn't told her, you wouldn't have been the friend to her that you wanted to be.