I am 15 and there is a girl who says she loves me .can I trust her.14 or 15 yrs girls pls answer me!thanx?
473853
Well how long have u been going out with her? She may really like you and have a huge crush on you but it would be a bit strange if she loved you. Maybe she just sez that not like 2 be mean but like "love you bye!" you should talk to her about it. I'm 15 and im not in love (although Colin Farrell is something else!) But she may be, it depends if you can trust her or not.\nThe real question is, do you feel the same way?
356702
15 is a reasonable age to be dating. I started at around that age. I would not let her date anyone more than three years older than her and would prefer any boys 18 years of age to be Seniors in high school. When she is 18 she can do what she wants but until then she is my daughter and I will do what I need to in order to keep her safe!! Of course meeting the "date" is a must and there will be rules such as what time to be home, and letting her know she can call me for ANY reason if she needs to no matter what the time or where she is!!
530742
you answered your own question. if you are that insecure, you should just leave her alone. you say she trusts you, so why don't you trust her?
635981
It's not okay unless you want to be put on the Sex Offenders register as a paedophile! Anyways - what the hell does a 15 year old know about being in love - she is a CHILD and just has a big crush on you - you should know better! You must have serious confidence and self-esteem issues if you feel the need to encourage this sort of attention from her or even consider having an intimate physical relationship with her!\nYou need to tell her that she just has a teenage crush on you, and that there is no way that you would even consider going to bed with her because not only is it ILLEGAL but it is also JUST PLAIN WRONG!!!!\nSeriously dude - how desparate are you to get your rocks off to even consider having an affair with a child! Find someone your own age and stay the hell away from the kids!
528404
hi im richard 15yrs old.....nil1230@yahoo.com\n\nhope your a nice woman and not an impostor something....
984025
Trust just like respect is not something that is handed to you in a relationship it is earned.  This is your proving ground now, a second chance in a sense, you earn trust by being trust worthy.  Show her you can be trusted and won't lie again unless you want a nose like Pinocchio!  : ^ )
943286
It is always good to be honest. You can tell her all of this, but be prepared if she doesnt believe you. Most girls wont believe you because they will be thinking that you are just trying to sleep with them.
380734
My answer might sound weired but i think that no matter what she tell u, would not make u feel good if u dont trust her, even if she is telling the truth. \n\nBut if u trust her then no matter whatever she says or do u will be happy. \n\nwhat they say "Love is all about trust". \n\nSo what u must do is to look inside ur self. if u trust her then every thing is good if not, then u'll keep finding reasons to dump her. \n\nStart trusting, even if u fail u would not regret it. \n\nWish u a wonderfull and peacefull life :).
856664
I'm 15 and I date and so does everyone in my high school.  You can't put an age limit on love and attraction so it shouldn't matter how old you are, as long as you are being safe.  I think that teen dating is great because i sure can't imagine life without it.  It's great that you've found someone that you love and you shouldn't let anyone tell you that you are not old enough to have a serious boyfriend.
287517
I used to be that teenager. Even though it sometimes gets awkward between the two of you the thing she loves is just being with you. Deep down your love and time is sufficient enough. Sometimes she just wants you and not what you can buy or where u can take her. Simple is good.
618525
Give them a chance and if it doesnt work out then oh well im only 15 and a sophmore in high school and i am dating a 17 yr old senior and i swear we are giong to get married.  Everything is perfect between us so give them a chance who knows you might be suprized.  And no it is not wrong to do sexual stuff with them as long as they are accepting it
976288
I AM NOT SURPRISE TO HEAR A 14 YEAR old girl talk like that. she is still young and full of dreams. She is not ready for a special relationship and so are you. What is happening in you is "puppy love". What you can do now is to just meet her in a friendship level. Don't rush. Just enjoy each other's frienship and not thinking about "being on".\n\nConcentrate in your studies and make friends with other girls. You don't even have to think is she made the wrong decision or not. \n\nALL THE BEST.
715625
You're afraid of commitment. If you love her, or care deeply for her...just run with it. You need to trust this girl. Long term relationships can be very rewarding. You should give it a try.
280974
well you actually never know..Your heart should decide if she wants to trust him or not.But if he really loves you he won't lie to you
295904
I have a 15 year old son and asked him this for you.  He is very very smart-honor roll and very cute also.  He is on basketball team as well as trak.  He is not what you would call HOT but very cute.  He says ALL the guys go for the pretty girl with a great bod.  They r teenagers afterall!  BUT once they realize she is in love with herself- once she opens her mouth- HE doesnt want her anymore!  lol  They may look at this girl and want her just on the physical.  And that DOES NOTCHANGE AS THEY GET OLDER EITHER!  lol  BUT the great news is- most of them realize rather fast that she is just some girl.  My son says when you have a certain boy in mind- find out thru your friends or his the things he likes to do and make that YOUR new hobbie!  Ask his advice on it.  Learn to play his favorite video game and ask for help on it.  If he goes skating every weekend GO SKATING!  Laugh and have fun.  Be yourself.  Make yourself approachable by smiling alot.  And before u know it YOU WILL have a boyfriend!  Good luck to u!
1043175
if you question it this much, it was probably right to stop seeing her.  16 is too young (except on the Disney Channel) to have a serious relationsip with anyone, at 16 you haven't had time to have a serious relationship with yourself.  If she was cheating, and she admits that she was, why take her back? She obviously saw no reason not to break your heart and your trust, if she admits that she hasn't changed then you need to. Leave her at the curb, admit your mistake, and sail on.
319495
If you want him to trust you, dont do or say  things to give him reason to mistrust you. Some girls foolishly tease that way, and dont realize it.