How do i convince my wife to have a threesome???
459961
*smacks you up side the head* You don't "convince" her. You ask her. If she agrees, then there ya go, If she says no, be a man and accept it.
268811
Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.
1136228
i've been reading your other posts, and you seem to be really hung up on your wife's sexuality.  You DO realize she's more than whats between her legs right?!  she's a WHOLE PERSON and her sexual exploits of the past are past.\n\nthe first thing you need to do to control these insecurities is the realize that it is YOU that has the problem, not her, so don't you dare take it out on her.  \n\nfrom the number of posts i've seen from you on this topic, i think you need more help than we mere yahoo answerers can offer.  get help, on your own...don't drag her into this.
148223
Why dont you just ASK her to have a threesome or ask her what she thinks about a threesome? It's wrong if you have to be sneaky about. If all three are game, then not wrong at all. Don't worry about what others think about your morals. They are not you and don't live your life, but in order not to lose a friend, I would suggest just being up front about it.
400961
Ok, I have to say that a lot of the answers that you have received so far are close, but none of them quite hit the mark or cover all the bases, so I am going to see what I can do here. \n First of all, I am fairly qualified here as my fiancé and I have done a threesome with both another woman and another guy, and our relationship has survived it unscathed. \n To answer the main question of why. . . There is no single answer that would apply to all men that have those desires. Yes, porn for a lot of us has glorified the threesome. Another common reason is that watching two women be intimate is quite erotic. Lets face it, they call you the "fairer sex" for a reason!!\n Could your BF feel pressure to please you? If so, a second person could be viewed as a helper.\n The most common reason, however, is simply the desire to have variety in ones sex life.\n Now, let's address how you should go forward. First of all, your BF shared a fantasy with you, and if you ever want him to ever do so again, you cannot react negatively to it. That does not mean that you have to do it, but you also want to avoid him feeling rejection from it.\n To help you decide if having a threesome with another woman is something you want to do, consider this:\n Are you physically attracted to women? I.E. Are you bi/bi-curious? If so, you could decide that you are will have a threesome with him with the stipulation that he and the other woman do not have sex. Set very specific boundaries, I.E. Is touching ok? Is kissing ok? Is manual stimulation ok? Etc. . . If you cannot trust him to abide by these boundaries during the heat of the moment, you do NOT want to do this!\n If you decide that you do not want to do this, explain it to him, but offer to incorporate it into your fantasy life. Say something to him like "The idea turns me on, but I would not be ok with the reality of it", and then bring it up in a sexy way during foreplay or lovemaking. Reiterate after you are done having sex that this is something that can only be a fantasy, never a reality. This is often the perfect compromise in these situations.\n In my experience, a man bringing this fantasy to his significant other is generally sign of developing trust, and not of impending doom. The act itself, however, has been the end of many strong relationships, so tread carefully!!
1103150
bring in another partner..3some
757228
Have you watched any Porn...Lots of ideas there...\nHow about a 3some ? ( You, your b/f & you invite another girl )
1022136
have your wife go to a club with you and pick-up someone.  alot of guys would love to be in a threesome.  it's worked in the past.
472349
Take is slowly. Define yourself first. What type of crossdresser are you? Casual, all the time? Do you dress as a fetish, or is it deeper for you? Have you talked with anyone else about your crossdressing? \nWhat are you hoping to accomplish by telling her? If you are looking for support, what are her views of other crossdressers? In today's say and age, you see crossdressing on all sorts of TV programs and other media, I am sure she has seen it as well. What is her general reaction towards it. Who's clothing do you wear? If it is your own stuff, how well hidden is it? You might be suprised, she might actually already know and be waiting for you to trust her to tell her.\nTake it slow, because if she is not ok with it, she might have a lot to process. I would make sure to inform her that you are not GAY, and by wearing clothing like that, it does not make you in any way GAY.\nIf you trust her, and she trusts you, and you want to tell her after you have found out who you are, then go ahead.\n\nI am not sure how well this would work, but you might make a game out of it, or a bet. Maybe do something that she comes up with you dressing up, like set a bet where the looser has to dress as a maid or something, and be all macho about it so when you loose, it looks painful that you have to dress as a maid. Heard that one somewhere, not sure the results. Would give you a deep insight into your wife's view on crossdressing from her reactions though...
262109
I asked the same question about my wife and got these answers.   \n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Agn7HJTOP6UQyQAP1KFvciTsy6IX?qid=1006031910035\n\n\nWe have a son together and I'm looking to spice things up too but don't know how to approch it from a women's view.  \n\nFrom a guy's view I can say that as long as your not trying to do him or have a 3 way with another guy they are sorta open to it more than women seem to be...although the predomonant male fantasy is a 3-some with 2 women.  But in the end men can be a little scared about doing anything to out there....just start with something small and work your way up.
410997
Forget it. Surprise him by NOT doing a threesome. He doesn't care one way or the other. So why would you even consider it??
240426
The first and most important thing to consider is your own motivations. Are you concerned for her pleasure? or just for your own? (and you better be completely honest with yourself about this). Are you open to the probability that she will end up having more erotic fun than you do? This often happens in swinging, because women are pure gold in the swinging world, whereas males are a dime a dozen. Is you wife open to bisexual play? If so, your chances for fun are dramatically increased.\n\nAlso of great importance are some tips for what NOT to do when you approach this topic with your wife. Here are some basics Dos and Don'ts:\n\nDo NOT let her get the sense that you want to try swinging just because you are bored with your sex life. Instead, approach the topic in terms of increasing her pleasure (and please don't just do this just to play her emotions - if you can't do this honestly from your heart, don't do it at all!) Tell her that you value her happiness, and let her know that if she has any fantasies about other men or women, you would be supportive in helping her fulfill them. Of course you should be honest and admit that you enjoy similar fantasies, but the proof of your commitment to HER pleasure is your willingness to let her explore even if it doesn't lead immediately to sex for you. Once she is secure in your love and support, she will be more open to seeing you pursue your fantasies.\n\nRemember that in swinging, women rule. Her attractions and comfort levels are what matter most. She must be the leader in setting the pace and defining the limits. You can lobby for your wishes, but ultimately she must have the final word. If she is not happy and comfortable, nothing much can happen. If YOU are not ok with this fact of life, then you and your wife are flirting with disaster if you try swinging.\n\nBe sure to let her know you love her, and reassure her that you are NOT considering cheating if she resists the idea of swinging. You are making a suggestion for the benefit of both, not demanding, pleading, or laying down an ultimatum. If she is resistant to swinging, some compromises might include exploring erotic adventures together as a couple in ways that preserve monogamy. Examples: “same-room-sex” at an orgy. Watching porn together. Role-playing. Attending jack&jill parties (basically a mixed-sex "circle jerk" party). And so on.\n\nThese are just some general ideas. Obviously everything depends on your wife’s personality and the particular nature of your relationship with her. If you want more specific ideas based on your particular circumstances, I will be happy to respond to email. If you happen to live in Ohio, I can suggest events, groups, etc., you might want to consider for either monogamous or non-monogamous erotic adventure-seeking.
1100219
My first suggestion to you is to really think about that request. It can cause alot of damage to your relatioship if you and your man aren't on the same page about what you expect to happen from this. You both have to know that it is what it is and when it's over it's really over. You need to find a person who won't want to take it any farther than the threesome. A rational person who understands the nature of sex. My second suggestion would be to contact me. I'm down.
519553
Try asking her what turns her on. (I would say find out more about your future mate sexually before tying the knot but that don't always work. So communication is the key!!! Never and I mean never stop communicating!!! You wife may have a kink streak that you haven't known existed!!! Three things: 1) Communication 2) Be open minded 3) Have fun!!\n\nGood luck!!
80659
If you want to do this with her, lay out the ground rules in advance, get involved in a local swinger's group, and realize that if she enjoys sex with somebody else, the odds of her leaving you are much, much higher if you swing because you are allowing her to 'shop around', so to speak.  \n\nMost likely you want to do this so you can have sex with other women and aren't thinking about how jealous you could be if you see your wife enjoying sex with somebody else instead of you.  She might also realize how unsatisfied she is by you and your marriage will suffer, especially when the other guy is much more experienced with pleasuring a woman and gives her orgasm after orgasm.  \n\nYour odds of picking up various STDs will also increase.  Remember that a condom will not protect against all of them, such as genital warts, and you could both end up unlucky recipients of STDs that you'll carry the rest of your lives.        \n\nBut if you don't mind all of these factors, go have fun!\nYou might also try just being more adventurous in the bedroom with your wife.  There is a lot you can do together without involving other people that will really spice up your sex life.
750773
Why dont you discuss it with your wife.  You said that she is a sweetie, work it out with her.
167253
Put on a porn film just while having sex with your wife!\nShe could be agree and consequentially you could lose interest in it.