How do i get a girl who is only interested in bad boys and having fun to like me as more than a buddy?
469788
1. She isn't problematic because she is rebellious.  She is rebellious because she is problematic.  She is problematic because she has issues that she isn't even aware of yet.  Chances are she has daddy issues, which is why she likes the "bad-boy" types.  They use and misstreat her just enough to trigger that *abandonment* issue and cause her to try to prove she is worthy of loving.\n\n2. You can't turn her around.  It took years of childhood problems for her to develop those issues.  She apparently likes the way she is operating.  When she decides she is tired of being used and misstreated, she will need years of counseling to fix those issues.  \n\n3.  The "no-ambition having jerk" is only exciting to girls who find the notion of being a single welfare-mother abandoned by their *baby's daddy* an exciting concept.\n\nRun... run far and fast... beauty can not erase the heavy baggage that goes along with the girl you are wanting.
553902
unfortunitly you may need to go in for surgury, I recomend you get a sweet coco coating to desguise your otherwise lame apperince, then when you find the girl you want you can convince her to like you back by explaining that you nuts for her, or to make it easier just put some diced almends on you back and say that you just added some "nuts for you" then when the kids come out as Taffy, with luck they will be better flavers
547963
Beleive me, the BEST way to attract a girl is to be real and who you are that is it. Never try to be something you are not, even if she doesn't like the real of you, she will admire you ain't trying to be the guy on TV etc.
666655
she will play hard to get but always being very flirtatioussometimes you have to step up and make the first move to see how she really feels about you. one thing always be confident in yourself that will definitely help and be good listner girls love that!
330299
1.) Get to know her.\n2.) Get close to her so it's kind of obvious that you want to be more than just friends. Play with her hair, touch her hand, touch her casually in neutral places like her arm, back, etc.\n3.) Tell her you like her.\n\nIf you get to be good friends, tell her that if she doesn't like you, it's okay, you're fine with staying friends.\n\nEasy as pie.
1026298
Guy,Tell her what you just told all of us in your question...\nOr,Find out something that interests her.And start up a conversation on whatever that may be.She will respond positivly towards you for showing an interest in something that she enjoys.\nJust come out and tell her that you really like her.Always works for me...
669061
you can not force some one to like you in that way. What kind of relationship would it be if you had to force her to like you? Be her friend. I know that you want more, but if she just wants to be friends, then i guess that is a start. Maybe in time she will see that you are a good guy, nice, & funny, & want more. Hang in there.
895019
Firstly, you can't MAKE a girl interested in you. Gage her behaviour, don't come on to strongly or not strongly enough and don't settle into friendship with her. Talk with, be funny and interesting. If you become involved in a serious friendship with her, she won't want a romantic relationship with her. A casual friendship is best, but make your intentions known or she will probably mistake you for a platonic friend.\n\nIf she actually does not like you, there is no chance of changing her mind and any attempt at doing so will make her hate you even more. Real life isn't like romantic movies.\n\nHope this helps
654475
All of the above and then some. Make her feel special and then, show her what she's in for if she gets with you and then go for it!
515813
Treat her kindly and always be her friend.  Let HER decide whether or not she still wants the other guy once she sees how sweet you treat her.
1182099
It's, sadly, rarely ever a case of just "being yourself". If it was that easy, you and millions of other guys just like you wouldn't be asking this and other similar questions. Confidence. Yeah, that usually works. Money helps too. Cool and aloof works sometimes but you must remember one thing: while all women are similar, they all are different. Meaning: while they all like confidence, some like aloof, some like tender, some like other stuff. You need to find out more about he girl before you approach her. You're not going to get all of them. Some will just dislike you for no reason and that's how it goes sometimes but don't worry. Just like you won't like all the girls that'll like you, some won't like you. As you settle into your own personality, you will attract a certain type of girl and based on your personality you'll always attract that type. When girls are young, they like "bad boys". Well, they like guys who LOOK like bad boys. A motorcycle, leather jacket and a tattoo or two makes a great bad boy image but you still can get straight "A"s and have a steady job and not do drugs. That's what they really want: EVERYTHING.
915805
what can i say? You can't make someone like you it just does not work that way in real life. If she doesn't notice what a great guy you are but instead go out with that retard as you said then she's not worth it becuase she cannot see a REAL guy in front of her and thats you. Plus if you really care about her then you'll let her be happy and then....who knows what happens?\nHope I helped \n=)\nGood luck!
972384
Girls never are attacted to good guys.  They like the bad boys and then try and make them into good guys that they end up not wanting.   How about you save yourself a little grief and just tell him to let the bad boy come out in the bedroom a little.  That way you can have the best of both worlds.
373443
play hard to get, but in a flirtatious way. like say something to make them smile, and keep them guessing your motives. it works because they stay up at night talking to their girlfriends,and playing with the thought of a possible hook up.
398842
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
856900
try courting her. ask her out to the movie a long walk to the fair what ever you think she she would like to do. show interest in what she likes and don't always make it about you. she will see you are a great guy and want to date you. but if you say nothing do nothing you get nothing..
777725
I would try to get to know her first and offer to be her friend but let her know you are thinking of being a little more than that eventually.  If she still isn't interested in you, move on because you can't make someone want you the way you want them.  Also while you are wasting your time there could be someone already interested in you but your not picking up on their signals because you are only interested in a girl who is already going out with someone else.  Trust me I wasted too much time trying to chase the wrong guys for me when there were guys who were really nice who were interested in me but I couldn't see that then.  Good luck!