Ladies Am I being overly sensitive or would you be upset with your fiancee if he did this to you?
465967
Let me get this straight - he damages some furniture, something that could catch on fire, and he thinks you're the one who's freaking out? Gimme a break.\n\nWithhold sex until he apologizes. Then keep withholding it until he apologized for making you withhold it.\n\nYou're right, he's wrong.
195316
No I totally care about alot of ppl (especially my fiance) and I show it in different ways,  but sometimes I am horrible w/ b-days and he knows I care even if I forget to tell him and I always make up for it.  Just take into account any of the other ways he shows you he cares.  If there aren't any then its time to consider leaving him.
458106
Best thing to do is ignore it. I know it sounds lame, but when he gets a reaction from you he knows that he's affected you in some way. And by taking the higher ground, it'll show who really is the more mature one
1045793
You are not over-reacting you are just being ladylilke cos no girl would feel secure with that kind of guy.It means someone can walk to u and beat u up in his presence and he wouldnt act.\nGirl,tell him how bad u feel about that event and see his reaction if he doesnt see anything bad in it,then dump him...but if he realises his mistake forgive him.
549499
You almost answered yourself, it's not you that's irritating him, so don't worry, unless you're not understanding and supportive.... With all that stress he's in, all with the finals and graduation and work, it's not unusual that he's irritable and touchy most of the time !! Stress could make a person angry, nervous and sensitive, it affects the nervous system... So don't worry, it's not you, just be there for him as supportive when he's irritated and be there for him when he needs a breather with the girl he loves..... It will pass !!
547859
Sounds a little over protective to me!!,If your questioning this sort of behaviour, why would you want to be with him??
931399
It sounds like a normal reaction to me. he'll get over it just be patient good luck.\n\nluv kby xx
594751
Privacy does not go out the door when you become a partner with another person.  (Although I question how you two became fiances to each other and are just now running into this problem...)  You should not have asked him for his password; he is entitled to his privacy - that is where trust comes into play.  If you don't trust him, then you have no reason to be engaged to him.  And if you do trust him, then you have no need for his password.   \n\nI am not surprised that he didn't apologize.  He had nothing for which to apologize.  I am not surprised he didn't send your little "good morning" greeting --- not only is that a trival "courting" gesture that should simply pass as you two evolve into a deeper relationship, but if he HAD sent it after you had stomped off because he denied you something to which you had no right, it would have been a meaningless gesture.  (You want meaningless gestures in your relationship ?)  \n\nThe person rude and insensitve was you.  Insensitive because you thought nothing about attempting to invade his privacy and rude because you stormed off in a huff because he refused you that access. \n\nIf you have reason not to trust him, then you need to deal with the genesis of those reasons - directly, calmly, honestly, openly and be willing to accept the good, bad and ugly of human relationships.  That kind of maturity makes a relationship (not stomping off because you don't get what you want.)  If you are the one who is insecure without real reason (other than the spectre of the green-eyed monster), then you need to adddress that.\n\nThis incident is not the problem, only a symptom of something else the two of you need to work on.
678874
It should not hurt his feelings in the least if you tell him what you want.  Remember that a guy cannot feel how it feels for a woman when he is touching her.  He can only go by her reactions.  I know that I would not be offended in the least, and as a matter of fact I would let you know that you should tell me what feels best or when I hit a spot that feels really good.\n\nHurt feelings should not figure into it; that's not what it's about.
516379
It depends on the type of person she is, I mean she might just feel guilty. I would be curious as to why he feels the need to come but I would just try to get to know him if you really concerned that he has other intentions. Other wise don't make the bride to be angry it is dangerous! She is under a lot of stress as it is. Congrats
80925
You need to get over it.  He's a man.  That's what men do.  His intention isn't to hurt you.
1027847
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior.  A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset.  Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off!  It can be tough figuring that one out, I know...  And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...\nI think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder.  Good Luck with your girl...
498473
This is so funny! So refreshing to hear of another hubby with a sense of humor. Did it work? \n\nThank your lucky stars you don't have me! I was upset at my hubby years ago when he wanted me to rub his back with Icy Hot. I lovingly did that for him even though I was mad at him at the time right before bedtime. We went to bed and I spooned behind him gently and lovingly cupping his "jewels" in my hand as I always had. The only difference was that I hadn't washed my hands. I know I'll probably get raked over the coals from you guys out there but it WAS funny. He was "dancing in the sheets". Get it? He forgave me though as I did him for what he'd done.
642041
I don't get mad. I kid him about it but, I don't actually get angry about it. She sounds a little jealous. Are you paying enough attention to her? Are you telling her how beautiful she is?
460078
so like, he will nick you and put a band aid on it? say hurtful things and apologize, he did not mean it? i think its abusive, its a mind game, and its all about control. i think you need to just get out and let this person/relationship go. find someone who DOESNT make you cry in the first place.
985099
Ok, Houston we have a problem.   Clearly he is flirting, but the question is, does it bother you or make you feel so uncomfortable that it crosses your line so to speak.  Ultimately that's the issue.  Harassment.  Do you feel harassed or in any way "creeped" out?  if so, you know what you need to do.  Politely at first, ask that he cease this behaviour.  If however it does not cease you may need to take further steps.\n\nAt the end of the day, you must decide for yourself if this is acceptable to you.  He enters your personal space at his leisure and you need to ask if that's ok, from there, well........
386292
You have a perfectly valid reason for being upset. If he loves you he should respect your feelings. He basically lied to you. You can do better.