Will my husband cheat on me again?
468313
you answered this yourself. He said he will do it again. So, I would say yes, without a doubt.
338130
No. If you love yourself then don't trust him again.\nHe did it once. He could do it again.\nIf you're smart enough, Don't fall for the same trick twice.
775330
Forgiving and forgetting are two different things and while your husband may have forgiven u, it doesn't mean he's forgotten about it  The trust that was rebuilt between u since then may  now be more fragile than it was before u cheated so it requires more of an upkeep (on your part).\n\nJust realize that trust, once broken, isn't something that's rebuilt overnight.  Sometimes it takes yrs and even then, it may never be 100% again.  The fact that your husband wants to salvage the marriage does NOT make him weak.  Quite the contrary.  It takes a very strong person to be able to forgive something like this.
178355
Dr. Phil says, "The best indicator of future behavior is relevant past behavior."  Cheaters ALWAYS promise they won't do it again and guess what?  They do it again.  Unless and until he goes through some serious counseling to find out WHY he cheats, then the problem isn't going away.  Be sure of one thing, it's NOT about you; it's about him.  There's something in his character or past that causes him to seek the excitement and ego-stroking that a new affair brings to his damaged self-image.
24224
They can if they want to. Unfortunately, if they do it once, they'll do it again. It shows a character flaw that they alone need to work out. The only way you can help him overcome his tendancy to stray is to let him know you'll not put up with it in your relationship. It's a deal-breaker of the first kind. Without trust, it's really hard having any kind of meaningful relationship. Not impossible, just difficult. It can be worked through, but both people have to want to work through it, with the cheating spouse working hard to restore trust in their relationship. <*)))><
761031
To make a long story short. I have been married for 18 years when I found out(not by accident I was snooping) my husband had been cheating on me for 3 years that I no of. Only he and his whore no for sure.In my heart I knew something was wrong I just couldn't prove it until I started looking.When a husband cheats, his wife feels something is wrong she just doesn't want to believe her husband would or could do that to her.Husbands count on that trust they no their wives would never believe that they are capable of sleeping with another woman especially when she gives him everything he wants and needs.That is where we go wrong we don't and couldn't give a man what he really wants and that is someone different to have sex with.In a woman's eyes that makes him a horrible person but to him and his way of thinking it makes him human. their is only two things you can do. You can look the other way and pray it will end soon or leave him.One thing I wouldn't do is talk to him about the calls because all you will get is lies.I wish you all the luck in the world.
118799
Hon, I feel your pain.  If you still want him, then you have to lower your expectations because he WILL cheat again.  If you don't expect much, then you won't be disappionted.  \n\nIf you can't lower your expectations and you can't live with cheating, then divorce is your only other option.
491967
Sorry angel,  You will never know if he will do it again, how did you find out the 1st time? I mean did he tell you or did you find out? was it 1 time or 100 times? If he cheated then he would lie about how many times he cheated. You are the only person that can determine if you can trust him again or not. You have to decide weather the relationship is worth the worrying or not worth it and find someone to be with that you can trust.  good luck  god bless
231228
The question is why did you cheat?  Something has got to be missing from your marriage to make you cheat.  Yes you can still love him.  And I think you might feel a little guilt because you asked this question.  You need to fix what's wrong in your marriage.  Is is something he has done or something he is not doing?  If so, maybe you should tell him you cheated and why you did it and see if you two can fix what's wrong.  Or is it something you have to settle with yourself?  If it's nothing he has done (or not done) then don't tell him, and settle with yourself.  Good luck sweetie!
538062
Well perhaps the question isn't about you trusting him, so much as trusting that you are good enough to be with him. Having cheated on him once, with success, do you still respect yourself enough to believe that you deserve to have a good man? It is easy to see the many, many ways a person can cheat. It is just as easy to see behaviors that mirror the ways you felt when you were cheating.\n  As you said, if you knew he was cheating, you would drop him like a bad habit. So in your mind you're sure that he would most likely drop you much the same way.\n  Believe it or not, in alot of cases, the cheating isn't even about the sex. It's about trying to fill a void of something that is missing, which alot of times we don't even realize. It could be the excitement that was there at the beginning of the relationship, or just the time you used to have when you just sat close in front of the tv. Most times dear lady, the cheater isn't actually looking for better sex.... just a new escape. Try changing some aspects of your life with your soon-to-be husband. Meet at a night club, and act as though you're just meeting for the first time. Or share a hot bubble bath, with candle-light and soft music, but without the sex. You may find your desires finding a new source to focus on, when what you have readily available becomes more tempting as you have that proximity but don't follow through with the sex. Anticipation is a good pressure builder. Good luck.
267259
Depends. How is he trying to make it up to you? Do you think he really loves you? What does he act like and what qualities does he have? Do you have problems with him? If you are really in love with him maybe just forgive him this once. But if he has done it in the past then there is a good chance he will do it again. If you find out he does it again then break up with him.
138337
probably not because they cheated on u and u can never be sure if he wont cheat on u again
84750
i think it is possible for a man to cheat and then not  do it again. the only problem is that you will never forget what happened. and no matter how much he says to try to convince you that he will never do it again, it possible that in your mind he will always be a cheater, therefore you may not be able to trust him.\n\nyou have to make a promise to yourself that if you forgive him, you also have to forget.\n\nalso, if you do forgive him for cheating, it shows him that that is something that you are willing to forgive. because you show that cheating is forgivable, he may do it again.\n\ngood luck with your decision - it is a hard one.
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Well, personally, I think you can build a stronger marriage if you work on the issues that caused him to cheat and he works on the issues that cause you to no longer trust him.\n\nWhy make a decision right away.  Wait and see if he really means it and is willing to take his vows seriously, to actually love you and not just do a bunch of things to try to make you feel better for the short term.\n\nI believe you have a golden opportunity, an opportunity to build the marriage you really want with a husband who might be motivated to do the right thing.\n\nTime will tell if he's just trying to make up for it, or he really sees the light and wants to build a marriage that is mutually satisfying.\n\nYou don't have to decide today, you can sit back and watch to see if he is real or not.\n\nThen decide, he just might suprise you.\n\nPersonally, I'd set one boundary, another bout of cheating on his part and he's out on his backside...
1115600
That is one way of putting it... but in my case, I was fooled and he got tired of fooling me after we were married and just showed his true colors. Marriage is not something I will ever do again. It is a real shame too because I am in a great relationship. But I think marriage will ruin me if I try to do it again.
309031
I think he's going to end up cheating on you again.  He continues to lie, and obviously still has feelings for this other woman.  Knowing that you both have been unfaithful makes me think that there are some serious problems in your relationship that you just aren't willing to address or work out.  I know that being with someone for that long can make leaving them all that much harder, but you need to step away from the relationship.  Yes you were both wrong, but that doesn't mean he can't forgive you and stop holding your actions over you head.  Have you forgiven him?  There really is no trust in your relationship anymore and I just don't see a realtionship working out in the long run if the partners can't trust each other.  Hope this helps, good luck!
188166
It's not just women who do that, men do as well. There are NO guarantees that she won't cheat again. The question is, do you want to take that chance? I always say, if they cheat once they'll do it again.