I think i have feelings for someone on the internet but i havent even seen him before?
474589
Yes, it is possible to fall in love with someone without ever seeing them. I actually like to think of it as one of the purest forms of love. :)\n\nAs far as your secret goes, it really depends on the secret. If you're married, you probably shouldn't have been talking to him like a love interest in the first place. If you have a child or something, that's nothing to worry about. If you are both married and have a child, CEASE COMMUNICATION IMMEADIATELY! lol Anyway... \n\nI would have to say that you should tell him this secret. If you can't be completely open with him, then it really isn't meant to be. Trust me. Lies and secrets will ultimately destroy a relationship. Someone eventually finds out. Just tell him, otherwise you'll be stuck in this situation for a while. If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, it really wasn't meant to be. If he still does want to talk to you, you two will be much better off for it. :) Either way, my point is that you cannot fight what will inevitably happen. If you don't tell him, he will find out eventually...\n\nSo go do the right thing. :)
190929
if he really likes you he would definitely jump to that invitation...\nbut i guess he was just polite and nice and made you feel great when you guys went out...\ni doubt if he really is intersted in you...plus HONEY!!!!! you guys just went out once...so y are you dwelling in this piece of fake emotion that u feel for him???\n\ntrust me you would be feeling the same exact thing to the next guy u meet on line.. i just hope the next one has more free time and would like u 2x as much as u like him.
111307
I wouldn't be too freaked out.  Like you suggested, you may just really admire him and that's why he's on your mind.  I would encourage you to try and hang out with him casually and see what he's about.  You may discover he's a great friend...or more!
700960
You probably had intense feelings for this person, I think it is common. Don't worry about it too much.
976183
theres nothing wrong with what you feel but its best to get to know the guys first especially because you only met him online. most guys that you meet online acts different when you talk to them online and phone and when you meet them in person. i've had few relationship dat i've met online..and its always like dat. keep in mind that its dangerous and its never easy. becareful who you meet and who u fall with. take everything slow and get to know the guy your falling for. also remember that if its meant to be then its meant to be. be patient. because love is patient. :D
176965
he seems like a nice guy.. talk to him about how you feel!!
385148
I can say Yes.\nI am in love with him in the net for one and a half year and we plan to meet in 4 months, we are both excited about that. Though I have not met him yet, I do believe that I love with my true feelings and so does he. It doesnt matter you love someone in the net or off the net. I feel lucky to have such a nice guy thanks to the internet.
476711
I think u need to start like you have never met him...You need to feel and make him feel that there is something new between the both of you...do things that you never have..May be ask him out for a stroll or something and just sit in a park bench together..and you will find if you still want to be with him...give it a chance...
450845
I am married to a man that I met online.  I thought that I loved him while we were only communicating online.  But once we actually met in person and starting dating things were very different...in a good way.  And I then when I ACTUALLY fell in love with him, I realized that what I felt for him before wasn't love at all...but more of an infatuation.  \n\nI think it's very easy to get feelings for another person via the internet.  But I do honestly believe it is VERY different in person.\nI don't think you can love someone until you know them completely, and you just can't do "at first sight" or over the internet.
1154607
I don't believe internet love because the person in the real is always different than the same one in the internet.\n\nI perfer to meet someone in real and get to know him from there.\n\nJoyce
351051
You wouldnt be the only one that acts differently online or on the phone to what they do in reality. Its a way of life. Some people find it easier to be more outgoing and adventurous when theres no one to confront them face to face. If your feelings are that strong for this guy then be open with him. He should love you  because your kind caring trusting honest and genuine not because he thought you were sexually adventurous. If its true love then he'll understand and something will come of it
495656
i think maybe hes changed his mind ,if he comes back on and your online let him make the 1st move ,then you will know but if he dosnt contact you again ,dont worry about it ,people have all sorts of issues of their own to deal with ,sometimes you make great friends via the internet other times its a case of fly by night and you never hear from them again ,but which ever please dont end up harrassing him
176335
sounds like he might already like you.  you should ask him if he wants to hang out tonight...his answer will tell you how he really feels
229414
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
80466
I have the same problem with my new guy. . . i think its the anxiousness of weathere or not hes thinking about u, wondering waht hes doing, wondering if youll ever be an item, wondering SO MANY THINGS about him, spend time with him and try to get to know him better then u no for sure about everything he does u WONT HAVE TO WORRY OR FEEL TOTALLY WEIRD
847385
weird, maybe he is with someone already, and was just teasin u?\nhope not
960907
infatuation. it happens a lot on the internet, because people can edit what they say before they send it. you don't know what he's really like, because he can say whatever he wants to you...he can even lead you on without fear of repercussions. there's always a chance that this boy is actually worthwhile, but more often than not, he'll just be some jerk looking for a way to pass the time. be careful with this dude...but good job on finding a friend. \n\nif i were you, i'd be friends with him and leave the romantic stuff closer to home, if that's possible for you?\n\ngood luck.