Blind love, or there at all? which do i choose?
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Let me get this straight.\n\nCurrent BF - Nice guy, cares for you, treats you right.\n\nEx BF - Bad guy, doesn't care for you, treats you badly.\n\nYou're attracted to the bad boy image. You need to realize that YOU deserve the best, and it sounds like your current BF is a good start.
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the truth is you and i might never know... love comes in different shapes  and sizes... love is blind you just have to wait ...but how long right that's one question that can not be answered
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Mmm... Being an answeraholic myself I can clearly see the dilemma that you face; falling in love with a handsome, witty, intelligent, talented and above all else modest answeraholic can be a wonderful thing, especially if that love is returned (as I am sure that it is), but where do you find time to answer questions and gain the essential pointage when you yourself are also an answeraholic? (As I'm sure that you are).\nPerhaps the two of us... Sorry, I mean the two of YOU should find comfort in the fact that with both of you being answeraholics you can help each other through the diffuculties faced by such an addiction. Do you attend 'Yahoo Answeraholics Anonymous' together? If so then there should be no problem whatsoever.\nI myself am in love with an answeraholic (a beautiful school-teacher with wisdom and grace beyond compare), and she often helps me through the difficulties of my affliction with good advice and good questions to take my mind from my plight. We are both members of Answeraholics anonymous and regularly attend meetings, which allows us to explore the good side of our addiction, while supporting each other through the bad. \nSo I guess the best advice I can give is to embrace your love, and embrace your addiction; for if it were not for Yahoo Answers, you may never have met at all. And if the two of you should ever see a chicken crossing the road, a woodchuck chucking wood, or hear a tree falling in the forest, then at least you'll both know what it means.\nGood luck with your love Libby, although I'm sure that luck is not needed, you sound ideally matched; you are clearly an intelligent and very attractive woman, and he is clearly a lucky, lucky man.\n\nAdditional:\nThanks miss_jojo, I found your answer about eBooks extremely useful.
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You know that saying "Love is blind"
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Very true and I like your view on the subject. I for one crave finding that one soul that I can connect to. The heartbeat that makes my own sing in unision. Sound corny, perhaps, but true neverless.\n\nGive me sincerity and my heart shall sing the highest note :)\n\nPS Forgive me for my lameness!!
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I wouldn't get confused and I wouldn't confuse them either. Simply put, I will choose the one who loves me the most. I will choose the one who doesn't love me for my money. Because money can bring you a million lovers.
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Both.  Especially don't chose anyone that has traits that makes who you are negative.  In orther words, someone's who qualities plays off your qualities making an unworkable couple, even if there is love.  Love alone is not enough.
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You can't, unfortunatly, pick and choose who you fall in love with. If you really can't be with him, get out and date others. If he's out of sight, he's out of mind. Only time will get you through this.
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Whatever your heart feels, go with it. Who knows?? You may just have your pot of Gold! Good luck!
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I LOVE BLIND DATES BECAUSE THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE IS ALWAYS THERE. THAT PERSON COULD BE EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT, OR FAR FROM IT, YA NEVER KNOW BUT I GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL GROW AS A PERSON AND WILL COME UP WITH SMALL TALK AND LEARN HOW TO CONVERSE WITH STRANGERS BETTER! ITS A GOOD THING!
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true...when you are in love, you are blind to the other person's faults.
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first you have to ask yourself which of those two you enjoy spending time with...and with which do you get along with better. Also notice if you have any things in common, since that can help you make your decision.\n\nBut I could also say that depending which is cuter, but that's too shallow.
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go for the one who loves you, in time you will see that its a better choice.  the one who you love may not be there for you all the time, but the guy who loves you will be there for you.  i guess it all boils down to the simple question of do you want to be loved or not.
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although true love isn't always a stupid and superficiel illusion , i would choose to be with the one who loves who i am , no matter how i look , he just likes being with me and sees me perfect in his eyes , that's the one i would definitely like to meet someday ..
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for you it was blind love as its called and a one way relationship. he used you for his own greed and needs. its not love if you have to have a person followed or checked out by friends. chalk it up as a loss and go on with your life. you will find the right person for you in time. no matter what relationship your in, never lend money even to friends as it can cause alot of ruined friendships. he is ignoring you to make you go away as he got what he wanted from you. just think of it as a lesson and good luck with your real love.
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I agree with tempted and I would add that you should concentrate more on how you feel than how others might upon seeing you.\n\nRemember that true love is blind, which really just means that it is unconditional. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder and the only eye that counts is the one in YOUR head.\n\nAny onlookers don't know the real him or the real you and if they judge you on appearances negatively then they are shallow people not worth worrying about. Most people are gonna look at you, see your love and affection for one another and be either charmed by it or jealous that they don't have it themselves.\n\nCongratulations on finding the right man!
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If she won't take you for your word, set him up for a fall. Make sure she has consented to this prior or you will find yourself without a friend.  They say that love is blind, but it can also be deaf and dumb too. Good luck in this endeavor.