Is it normal for a 38 year old male to be massaging his private area every chance he gets?
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Not "normal" but common.  As long as he isn't doing it in public and it's not irritated, then who cares?
945573
Yeah it's completely normal.  I knew a medic from the RAF once who told me that he often used to massage some of the squaddies and they used to get very embarrassed when the little fellow popped his head up!
1013564
The same thing younger guys enjoy! I'm 65 and the answer is still the same. Of course guys vary at all ages in their sexual preferences. "Different strokes (!) for different folks" as the old saying goes. I would suspect blow jobs would be pretty high on the list though!
52662
Not at all!  In fact, it's perfectly fine.  I've dated plenty of men who find it incredibly erotic...they like the submission aspect of it.  It has nothing to do with "gay tendencies."  And honestly, there are so few other ways to stimulate the prostate, right?  \n\nYou may want to talk with your hubby about some other aspects of Domination and submission.  I bet he would get a real kick out of serving you :)\n\nHave fun!
7048
no, that's normal, just make sure he is doind it behind closed doors. as long as it is in private, just let it happen
403224
I am a 44year old female, 14 years old the first time.\nI am hitting my prime, maybe have been since early 30s. It's been my experience that men hit their prime from 16 to maybe 25 - all downhill from there (sorry guys!!)  I am experiencing an increase in my sex drive & am very much more aware of my own sensuality & sexual self at this time in my life. I've never experienced any dysfunction but have been with several partners who have. (not fun)  I am a lot freer to experiment & enjoy - I'd love to take advantage of that but lack a steady partner at this point in my life. (gotta fix that, soon!) I've always been highly sexed, from my teen years & I don't see it slowing down any time soon. E-mail me if you want more details - I'd be delighted to provide you with information for your research.
1092290
well guy guess what???? doing the dirty deed is not that at all, dirty... Like most everyone here says, you are normal and don't worry , do it and do it often...if it helps you relax, and it feels good too, go for it...here is to you and your friend, the one with out the brain...lololol....
1064267
First of all, how old are you??? Start off by rubbing the head, shaft and your balls until you're good and hard. Then wrap your hand around your dick, if you're big enough use two hands, and start stroking up and down. You can, if you want, while stroking your penis rub and massage your balls. It feels really good. Just keep stroking using varying speeds until you shoot your hot c*um. You can do this standing up, laying on your back, that's how I do it, or on your side. It's fun to lay on your back and shoot your c*um on your stomach and chest. It feels really good and looks cool too. Just remember to lock your door before you do anything. The other way I learned how to masturbate, was by watching another guy do it. I'm available if you want to learn.
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Want to be more confident when you, er, take matters into your own hands? These "manual sex" techniques (my editor won't let me say hand job) will make him want to give you a round of applause  - not to mention return the favor.\nPick Your Position\n\nAre you left-handed or right-handed? Which is your "best" side? All too often, women try to deliver the goods in a position that feels uncomfortable or unnatural. You are allowed to move, you know! Simply roll over on top of him or straddle his lap, plant a long, slow, delicious kiss, then climb off to the side that suits you. Don't be scared to deviate from the usual side-by-side position either. Try him standing in front of you while you sit on the edge of a bed or lie on your back while he hovers above you straddling your tummy.\nUse the Slippery Stuff\n\nWomen have (rather handy) built-in lubrication systems, but men don't. So when they masturbate, they use lubrication such as moisturizing lotion. A dry penis is a sensitive one; it likes gentle stroking. Sliding your hand up and down the shaft  - the standard male masturbation technique  - can feel more like a vicious yank than an erotic escapade when done without lube. Saliva is better than nothing, but clever girls come prepared with good-quality personal lubricant. He'll be pleased, not turned off, when he sees the tube, so don't feel remotely embarrassed squeezing some into your palm. But don't use too much; being too generous removes friction entirely.\nGet a Grip\n\nSexperts worldwide dispense the same advice on this one: Women need to be touched softer and slower; men need to be touched harder and faster. Lots of women make the mistake of being scared of his most prized part. Holding it between finger and thumb like it's made of spun glass isn't sexy  - it makes him think you don't really want to touch it. Instead, take a good, firm hold and move into a well-practiced, self-assured technique.\nPractice Until You're a Pro\n\nSimply read up about hand-job techniques, and you're liable to give up before you've even started  - it sounds like reinventing the Rubik's Cube! Try some moves out, however, and you soon realize it's more like connecting the dots. Keen to impress but don't want to look like a twit in front of your new lover? Practice on a prop, such as a curtain rod or a carrot. This is the basic motion you need to master: slide up, circle, slide down the other side. More specifically, grasp your hand firmly around the base of the penis, and slide it upward until it reaches the head. Once you're there, pause  - and rub your palm over the head in small, slow, sexy circles. Next, let your hand drop naturally down the other side of the penis, grasping the shaft until you're back to base camp again, but on the opposite side with your hand facing the opposite way. Do that 10 times, with each motion lasting 10 seconds, then add one quick, firm, up-and-down pump stroke. Repeat that cycle over and over, each time adding an extra up and down. But decrease the number of pumps if he's dangerously close to losing it (and you've got other plans on how to use that erection!).\nEmploy Backup\n\nIf you only use your hands, you risk having to dispense the longest hand job in the entire world due to overstimulation. No matter how deft and clever your handiwork, most men enjoy (often need) extra stimulation to intensify and speed up the process of orgasm. So while one hand is working on his penis, use the other to cradle his testicles or stroke a nipple. Use your tongue on his testicles or nibble his neck, the inside of his thighs and his nipples. Try holding one hand in an L position firmly at the base of his penis, pulling the skin back from the base (in the direction of his pelvis). Not only does it make him look bigger, but it also heightens sensitivity.\nUse Props\n\nIf you and your guy are adventurous types (and even if you're no
933463
Yes, absolutely normal.\n\nAlso, as a man approaches climax, the testicles will draw up even further.  It's biology.
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there is no one norms...and young adults vary from older adults and very old adults...\n\nOccasional masturbationCanBeConsidered Normal sexual behavior.\n\nvaginal/oral/anal sex can be considered either normal too... check the Kinseys sex studies
667049
all men have different sex drives.I am now a married man, but when i was single it was sometimes up to 3 times.of course when you are a very young man and you first discover the orgasm,then you want it over and over again .when this first happened to me, i can remember i just kept on going untill i was so sore i had to stop.
439456
Is he under pressures lately? Stress can make guys not being able to do so. As for keeping it, are you meaning that he can't stay like this for long or he come too fast? If it's the first one, ask a doctor. Second, get more practices. :P
1032744
YES..BE HAPPY WITH THAT FACT..100% NORMAL..MY FRIEND IS AT HIS 40 AND I FEEL MUCH MORE SATISFIED AND FULFILING WITH HIM,IN ANY ASPECT..
244768
He's probably just experimenting. Its perfectly normal. I wouldn't worry about it too much.
555951
Nope! I speak from experience! (I am 65). Actually guys reach their peak in their late teens...for gals it's usually about the mid 30's. This can vary with the individual of course...but for most of us it's true. There is a VERY slow decline after these peaks but most people can remain sexually active throughout their lives (yeah Viagra helps for many of us older guys!). Of course people can become more sexually active in later years just because the opportunity presents itself. An older dude can find a younger woman is attracted to him for instance (maybe because of his money, maybe something else!) and he could find himself do more f--ing than he did in his twenties. For myself, I needed sex release through intercourse, oral sex or (lots of!) masturbation  at least once a day in my teens and twenties, 4 or 5 times a week in my thirties and forties and still 2 or 3 times a week in my 60's. I still think about sex every day even if I don't jack off every day as I did as a teenager. What I am getting at is it is a VERY SLOW decrease in sexual desire over the years. Nothing to worry about at all!
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Well - I'm a massage therapist and physical therapist with over 15 years of experience.  I think it depends upon the therapist/patient or client relationship - I have always been professional and never had any problems.  I am also married with one son - I think that makes guys feel safe.  I think it also depends upon how much pain or discomfort you are in - if you need help and are in a lot of pain and know that I could help you, wouldn't you be willing to put those feelings aside?