why are older women scared to date younger men?
458030
I, personally, don't care about age.  I think it is all about compatibility and maturity levels of both people involved.  However, I think some older women may feel that their bodies are not what a younger guy might find attractive.  However, if it is true that a woman's sexual peak is in her 30's and a twentysomething was interested...it might be worth exploring.
860963
I personally do not see the big fuss over younger girls and older men. However there are alot of men,who are predators,online who target willing girls. Teenage girls have turned into computer bots,offering sex to the willing. However,just because a girl is willing doesn't mean  a grown person,who has the ability to think and reason more then a child who doesn't have the right to consent,should do something,which can get him in trouble. The age in most states are 16,and in few 18.\n There are many relationships that work out with older men and younger  (teenage) girls,Americans in general ignore the fact that each generation is becoming more sexually charged and therfore society  labels you pirmiscuous,and or a pedophile,if you are willing to give in to your sexual charge. I commend other countries and their laws at times,because they are more open minded to sexuality.\nWhy wouldn't the other 18% realize what they are doing,if they meet people they talk to on the internet?
323410
I myself am not inclined to date a guy more then a year or two younger then me. The stereotype says that young men are immature and while it does have it's truth I think it's more about life experience and I couldn't handle a guy that not on my level. I am not saying relationships with large age gaps don't work, just that I would pass on that scene. On the flip side women are sometimes attracted to older men, again that whole stereotype that older men are more mature. For one that's not always true and in most cases older guys looking for younger women are just using them for sex and half of those guys are still married. I guess what I am trying to say is they have to much baggage. They have been screwed over by too many other women generally and so again not that those relationships don't work out but I have no intention on venturing there either.
1011248
I've "dated" a few younger guys, mostly for the sex.  So there are other MILFs out there I'm sure.   Your approach may be off and normally these things just sort of "happen" you don't go looking for it.  Or you don't wake up and say "I'm 35, I think I'll find me a nice young 20 year old to *uck".
846420
Older men seem to know how to make a woman or lady feel more comfortable due to his experience with women.  It is just the same, when men say, they like older women.
497095
because older woman these days don't look as old and are more experienced in everything!\n\nNOT TRUE wedjb\n\nI have been with three guys, first husband right out of high school, 3 yrs younger than me... second husband with for 10 years 5 years younger, just recently divorced. Boyfriend of 8 months 7 years younger!
932820
Mainly because men want to be and mostly think they are the "leaders" in the relation; when a strong woman appears, they are afraid they would loose their superiority and that scares them!
954037
Guys like women in their late twenties and thirties because they have experience and are more mature.  Those relationships (older woman, young man) last for a good while if they're stable people.
1071963
Men have a real fear of meeting the girls friends and family. Its a whole other level of commitment that some of them just can not handle.
713597
I often wondered that about myself since I have dated a couple older girls.  I think it is because they are more developed, and also because they seem to be more mature and know what they want.  Although I have learned the younger ones can be just as mature, and you learn things from them too.
190038
I dont know about older women having problems with younger men.  Im 34 and my BF is 24 and I have to say so far (we have been together for a little over a year) it has been the best relationship i have ever been in
444339
Same reason men get nervous as well.  Also is has become expected by society that women should not need to ask guys out and that men should come to them.  though we are veering away from this, this is still he case a lot of the times.
1029116
I am 28,  seeing a man who is 49.  I have always dated older, several years older.  I have always been more "settled" than others my age,  never being into the whole party/drinking scene, etc, etc.  I find that older men have "been there,  done that" and are in turn more settled as well.  They better understand that pleasantness and value in just being able to sit next to someone and be content.  I don't really know how to explain it other than being more comfortable and laid back.
651561
Lots of young women love men like you.  A lot of girls tend to go for the more exiting/adventurous guys you describe with drama and dysfenction.  (correctly, I might add)  \n\nPerhaps it is because they were too sheltered growing up, or just can't resist the fast-life.  \n\nSome women are just a lot smarter than that.  Not me - I went for the bad-boys for so long, but finally realized the error of my ways when I was in my 30s.  I sure hope it doesn't take most young women that long these days. \n\n;-)
711218
It's the other way around. the younger girls like the older guys because   they usually have more going for them ...money, cars social power.   guys would love to date girls their age but they wont give them the time of day.
542128
I'm 56 and women your age want to date us guys cause the women your age say younger men are too immature! But it is your choice of what you want out of life? Myself, a women has no age limit for me as long as we are compatible.\nGo for it girl, all you need is self esteem!
642277
I am 40 and the last guy I dated was 28 but he was very mature for his age. Ordinarily I don't date guys quite this young (my cut off point is usually mid-thirties) but there was something about him... Our relationship lasted 6 months but it turned out that he was immature in some ways after all (he used to cross-examine me about my previous relationships, for one and got ridiculously jealous) and I am too old to put up with that sh!t. So I ended it.\n\nThere is nothing wrong with wanting to date older women but be aware - some of them will want more from you than you might be prepared to give. You also have to be able to hold their interest outside the bedroom. In my experience, most guys in their 20s can't do this because they simply don't have enough life experience/exposure to relationships.\n\nIt is also true that there will be some older women out there who want nothing more than a bunk up. I wish you luck finding them.