Have you ever had a friend say something really messed up to you and then they turn around ans say,?
474344
Yep. They were no longer my friend after that. I don't play that game.
348919
did she change in a bad way? if she were really a good friend, she shouldnt change how she feels about your friendship just because someone else comes along. you should try to address her that she seems different than usual, and maybe she'll tell you why the sudden change occurred.
2417
me as a people person i would go up to the friends thats being bad and talk to them if you listen and try to hammer in that you are listining people will talk they may have some bad pent up feelings that just came out that way. so talk is all i can say.
229869
That's exactly what happens to me with a close friend of mine.. \nso i've been thinking about it hard lately .. esp after i tried every way with her.. i talked to her about it many times .. i got mad at her.. i forgave her a thousand times.. so the last thing i decided was to tell her for the last time the way i hate it when she does things that hurt my feelings and told her that now she knows what bothers me and that im not gona talk to her or call her until she thinks deeply about it and realizes that i really get hurt and make sure she wont do it again and is ready to change the way she treats me in order for the past not to repeat itself
775087
someone made up some story about you. they probabely told him that you dont like him or something. Or said that you told him that he is a pain or some ridiculous thing like that. and if you ask him he will just say, "you know exactly why im not talking to you" right??
1066851
You should tell everyone what really happened. your real friends and family will believe you. But let the friend off the hook too. i mean, he is your freind, right?
774570
i know how you feel. my friend did the same thing and unfortunately she has changed alot and we are not close like we used to be. but that doesnt mean that it has to be that way for you too( hopefully it wont! )\n\nat first my friend was confused i would try to help her out as much as i could and now i guess shes made up her mind (she has a gf now) and i just let her do her own thing. \n\nits sad becuase we hardly talk like we used to.  oh well what can you do
719998
I think its innate in them, lol.  If they mess up, its usually because their brain traveled below their belt and at the moment they dont care, they only want one thing, unfortunately... going thru the same thing, so I know how you feel your guy messed up something good
283131
maybe you offended someone???
1067009
You can't tell people something they are not ready to hear. You are probably right and she probably knows it on some level. When dealing with friends you are always taking a chance when bringing up an issue like that, that you will upset them. You did it, now give her time to calm down, then let her know you only want the best for her because you care about her but your friendship is important to you so you won't bring it up again if she doesn't want you to.
341975
Well, what I do when my friends do this to me, I let them know it. My ULTIMATE best friend in the world has done this to me, many times. Basically, all I do is tell her that I'm kind of upset how we seem like we are drifting apart, then I comfort her by saying that if something is bugging her she can tell me. You have to be the one  to do something, she won't realize that she is hurting you. I wish you the best of luck.
506912
I told my friend I was bi without finishing my sentence.  He asked me.  Are you sure.  I said, " Two doctors told me."  My friend said, what the f@ck are you talking about?  I said, "My doctor told me I was I was bipolar, what the hell did you think I was talking about?", lol.
381015
first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
1099071
You should talk to her, write her a note, send her a message on her answering machine, anything! From her view point that looks BAD! tell her everything that happened, and maybe if that doesn't work a buddy that she knows you were with can help you out and he could tell her what happened if she doesn't believe you. I'm sure if she really loves you she is just hurt and confused about the situation and will realize that you were telling the truth. Just try and explain no matter what, its pretty much up to her weather to believe you or not. Thats all I can say about that. I hope she believes you.
9523
Yes, a woman with whom I was a really good friend (I will call her Jane) just turned on me and almost refuses to talk to me now. We don't live near each other anymore, so it's not as big a deal now as it once was. But I have no idea what I did or said to turn her against me. I am one who has really good relationships with people and long-term friendships. So this really took me by surprise.\n\nJane and I used to spend hours together every week and a lot of time on the phone. We were both members of the same professional association. I saw her there and she was really rude to me like I had offended her in a big way. \n\nI am still mystified by this situation and it took place nearly eight years ago. I was told, by a mutual friend who asked me about the break up that Jane had done this in other relationships. That made me feel a little less confused, but I am still saddened by the loss of what I considered a great friendship.
737643
well did she apologize for what she said that upset you is she trying to be your friend do she even care that u are not speaking to her people say life is to short and we should charish our friends and life is too short but is she really a fried u wanna hold on too that dont care what she says to hurt you
1030097
i'm not sure what you are saying.\n\nHave I seen a girl, thought she was "weird" and then later found out that I had feelings for her? \n\nI suppose so, people's feelings change all the time.