for girls ..do you like romance man with nice talk or direct man with direct action in dating romance or sex?
474039
A little of all...give me a intellectual man who knows how to take control and is great in bed!!!
1152410
I like it.  I like variety.  Do what you like then do what he likes.  Etc. Communicate what you want.  Communication is much more important than the position or the technique.
312380
Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
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Sex and the chase are certainly big time factors.\n\nI'm getting older though, and I REALLY appreciate a woman who has her life in order and has a brain between her ears.  I've dated all kinds of women, and I simply have no tolerance for dummies anymore, no matter how good they look or how freaky they are in the sack.\n\nA woman who can hold her own in an intelligent conversation is rare and definitely worth the pursuit.
466183
It all depends on the type of men you are dating.  There are a lot of gentlemen out there who would dine you, take you dancing, to a movie and just talk for the fun of it.  Also, it doesnt have to end up in bed if you dont want it.\nYou hold the reins girl!
234333
well, when i wanna guy to ask me out, i would probably like them to say 'i like you alot. would you like to see a movie with me this saturday?' works for me everytime!haha
262423
Well, I am married, but I do remember my dating days...\n\nSo Romeo...\nOn date number 1, I think a man should be a perfect gentleman because hey, we don't know each other anyway, and how you gonna prove to me you are worth my effort if you aren't nice on date number one???\n\nDate number 2... I think holding hands and a kiss goodnight is in order...\n\nDate number 3...Maybe if we reached it this far along, we could do some hugging and some major kissing and squeezing...\n\nI would say by date number 4...we might have sex if it is concluded we really like each other, or if it looks like this may lead to a greater relationship...\n\nWhat makes me happy is if the guy is courteous to me and listens to my talking without interupting me...\n\nWhat disappoints me is if he is late or doesn't call or show up or is not courteous in any way...\n\nI think if I start letting the man know my feelings about life in general and in private, I am showing signs of a more serious relationship and he better be prepared if I do...\nOur beliefs should be discussed and what expectations we feel are needed in order to have a nice life...\n\nOur dreams and hopes and our way of living so that the other knows what to expect in the future...\nCommon courtesy and being a real gentlman are worth so much...\n\nI know it sounds old fashioned, but these new aged men who are all about sex, well, they don't really care how a woman feels or what she wants...\n\nYou have to be friends first before you can persue a love or sex relationship next...
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I like a happy medium of both.  A gal that likes to get dirty and go hiking, yet can clean up and act like a nice lady is always attractive to me.  Yes, I am a girl......I can answer this question too!
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Will you go out with me? Would you like to go out? Would you like to catch a movie? Do you want to go out? Do you want to go steady? We should go out to eat sometime. Would you like to go out to eat? I enjoy spending time with you, wanna catch a movie? I like you, would you be my boyfriend? Do you wanna date? Lets Date!?! \n\nI wasn't sure if you meant out on a date or out "dating" (b/f and g/f...etc) Hope this helped and good luck! Knock him dead!
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Ummm hhmm.. let me see..\n1Nice manners like all the men used to be like (well most anyways).\n2The kind of man who is not always too confident and isn't afraid to show it. (I'd like to help him get over a few probs, ya know?)\n3Not forceful in the ways of kissing, feeling or anything as such. Not even implying that stuff to the girl.\n4Showing genuine friendship before the before said in #3\n\nhave a great day everyone! *hugs*
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I love a man to be every bit of a man, I am not into the new age sensetive guy , well I dont like the term new age sensetive guy or a man who is in touch with his feminine side,\nI jussst love a man to be a man, yummy
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nice guys - friendly, reliable, nice\nbad boys - exciting, adventure
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The debate of "nice guys vs. bad boys" has been raging for quite a long time. The nature of being a "nice guy", however, is commonly misunderstood. It is believed that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic, etc. is what being a "nice guy" is all about and thus those qualities should be avoided, as it is the "bad boy", the rude, the inconsiderate, the impolite, the rough guy who always gets the girl while the "nice guy" is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand.\n\nIt doesn't mean that women prefer rude over polite, inconsiderate over considerate, etc. It all becomes clear when we look at a very important issue often overlooked when trying to define what makes the "bad boys" beat the "nice guys" when it comes to getting the girls. It is sexuality - the "bad boys" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while the "nice guys" hide their sexuality as a part of their agenda of being friendly, polite, and courteous towards women.
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Personally,I like a man who is a little on the wild side..a bit of a badboy,who knows what he wants and how to get it,but not in a nasty way!I like him to have charisma,passion,drive.Be romantic but not slushy,be giving but not a push over,kind and sensitive when need be,but not OTT.Ultimately a man who is a man,but who knows when to show his softer side.
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Its always nice to be direct and to the point. Women like men who dont play games.. There is no need to be rude, thats just not right, but its nice to be direct and straight forward, dont play games, and tell women exactly what you feel, it might save a lot of problems later on. Women like men who tell them the truth.
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Tell the dude how you want it. And tell him to look straight in your eyes, and I mean real close, during the lovemaking. I think that could spark a romance if he does that because he'll be focusing on you rather than just doing it rough.
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I have been a guy since i can remember  and when a girl asked me out I always was very impressed that she was asking me and not me asking her .  For a guy just that is most of the battle Ask very directly like hello hey I would like to know if you would enjoy a nice dinner together or whatever you prefered be blunt with men we dont like the flimsy ones.