I have only been married for 4 and 1/2 years. Can I receive alimony?
459234
Not necessarily.  In the state where I live (WI), you would have to prove that the other person prevented you from working during the marriage.
437164
Well there's always legal aid.  If you have proof that he cheated, or if he admits, since its his fault the marriage failed you should get alimony.  And no matter what, if you get the kids, he'll pay child support no matter what the situation
937055
I had IRA's and 401(k)'s so I don't know how this applies to your situation.\n\nI only gave up 1/2 of the marital porition of my retirement.  So all the funds before came off the table, and nothing after the final day of the marriage goes to her.  So we looked at the total value, subtracted what I had saved for retirement before I met her, subtracted any gains since the last day of the divorce, and she got half of what was left, with no claim to future earnings.\n\nFor pensions,  I suppose you can deal that a percentage, equal to the percentage of years in the marriage where you worked there would be split with her.\n\nSo for example, let's say you worked there 28 years, but were married to her for 7 of those 28 years.\n\nShe would get 1/2 (her share) of 1/4 of the pension (the portion you were married)\n\nShe certainly would not be entitled to 1/2,  but in my example, I'd start with 1/8th being offered.\n\nEverything is negotiable, there are no hard fast rules in the game of divorce.\n\nYou may check with your pension plan to see if there is a cash balance, as your ex may be able to get a percentage of this now, and then you never have to deal with this issue again.
794609
Generally, infidelity is grounds for reducing, if not eliminating, alimony.  You have to be able (and willing) to prove it.
603316
Not likely....you were only married for a year and you came into the marraige with these things.  Get a good lawyer and you should be fine.  Find a flat rate divorce attorney....it will cost you more up front, (and possible  a little more in the end) but you won't get nickel and dimed with every phone call, email, and paper that needs written/filed.  Good luck....and it really does gt better!
615858
Well... It varies from state to state.\n\nIn many countries alimony, maintenance or spousal support is an obligation established by law that is based on the premise that both spouses have an absolute obligation to support each other during the marriage (or civil union) unless they are legally separated, though in some instances the obligation to support may continue after separation. \n\nOnce dissolution proceedings commence either party may seek interim or pendente lite support during the course of the litigation.\n\nFactors affecting alimony:\n\nLength of the marriage \n\n~Generally alimony lasts for a term or period, that will be longer if the marriage lasted longer. A marriage of over 10 years is often a candidate for permanent alimony. \n\nTime separated while still married \n\n~In some U.S. states, separation is a triggering event, recognized as the end of the term of the marriage. Other U.S. states (such as New Jersey) do not recognize separation or legal separation. In a state not recognizing separation, a 2-year marriage followed by an 8-year separation will generally be treated like a 10-year marriage. \n\nAge of the parties at the time of the divorce \n\n~Generally more youthful spouses are considered to be more able to 'get on' with their lives, and therefore thought to require shorter periods of support. \n\nRelative income of the parties \n\n~In U.S. states that recognize a 'right' of the spouses to live 'according to the means they have become accustomed', alimony attempts to adjust the incomes of the spouses so that they are able to approximate, as best possible, their prior lifestyle. This tends to strongly equalize post-divorce income, heavily penalizing the higher-earning spouse. \n\nFuture financial prospects of the parties \n\n~A spouse who is going to realize significant income in the future is likely to have to pay higher alimony than one who is not. \n\nHealth of the parties \n\n~Poor health goes towards need, and potentially an inability to support for oneself. The courts do not want to leave one party indigent. \n\nFault in marital breakdown \n\n~In U.S. states where fault is recognized, fault can significantly affect alimony, increasing, reducing or even nullifying it. Many U.S. states are 'no-fault' states, where one does not have to show fault to get divorced. No-fault divorce has the advantage of sparing the spouses the acrimony of the 'fault' processes, and the disadvantage of closing the eyes of the court to any and all improper spousal behavior. \n\nAlso, it seems alimony is/can be a tax deduction. (See the Forbes link)
667427
yeah...you can...since yall were married you are entitled to half of it
342941
just so you know, attorneys are notorious for not refunding your deposit after being fired... if have clearly documented exactly how much time you have spent with your attorney, and it clearly doesn't eat up all of your deposit, you can probably get some of it back if you file a complaint.\n\nand the answer to your question is yes.\n\nbut alimony, in general, in my opinion, is "dirty money".  unless he coerced you to stay home to cook and clean, of course, then he deserves to pay every cent.
468813
No, he still has to pay alimony.  If he "gives" you the business flat out, it's yours... however, if there's settlement, it's more likely that he'll be looking for half.
575760
Common law is shown as a legal status after 7 complete years of actually living together. However your 6 previous years before marriage are moot but anything bought before the marriage the he has brought into it with you, you may be intitled to percentages which increase if you have even ever paid or wrote a check for that beared your name.(utilities, mortgages, etc.) You then become an owner by association. Seek a qualified attorney as this she should have been aware of.
931251
Any bill that was gotten during the marriage you are at least 1/2 responsible for....any thing from before no....anything from after the seperation...no....at least that is the way it works in the states....
188518
It typically depends on how much she makes. If she makes $15,000/year and he makes $100,000/year, she could file for and receive alimony. \n\nAlimony (from what I understand of it) is based on the idea that the spouse got used to a certain lifestyle during the marriage and now feels that he/she should be entitled to some money to get on his/her feet after the marriage ends. Check out the link below for more information.
48394
absolutely.  in fact the fact thats she has been out of contat for so long is grounds in and of itself.  A cheap divorce lawyer could help you, or a clerk of courts.
691022
Find an attorney.\n\nIf it's a simple divorce with no division of property, alimony or custody/child support issues, you can find forms on the internet and file yourself.  This option requires a lot more work on your part but it's cheaper.
189956
Generally you must be 35 and have been married for 8 years, if memory serves me.  Contact your priest.  Your spouse has to consent to this permanent drain on your time.
401029
Yes.  Speak to a family law attorney.
537231
If you have not worked since marriage, or since the baby was born, you will probably qualify for alimony (money for you) as well as child support (for the child).  Doesn't  matter that your husband refuses to support you...the law is on your side.  No father can skip his responsibilities.  Get yourself an attorney...chances are good that he will have to pay that bill too since you are not working but an attorney can tell you how it works in your state.