I am looking for info on depression or anger control problems in motherhood?
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http://www.digitalnaturopath.com/cond/C383505.html\nhttp://www.motherhood.com.au/mother/postnatalProblems.htm\nGood Luck
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Check with local organizations.  Here we have a battered women's shelter and an associated office.  Your local health department may have or know of what's out there. Two books that will provide insight into the issue are The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner and Patricia Evans' The Verbally Abusive Relationship.  I found those very helpful along with the course i took ($600+).
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Wild Yam is good for birth control, you take 4 capsules in the morning and 4 at night, take it at least 8 weeks before relying on it and not using other methods.  It has no side effects so it could help your problem.  An antidepressant from your doc might also help.  Do not call CPS again, once they get involved it will only get worse.  Rely on friends and family instead.  My PMDD went away when I went on a raw vegan diet.  Try livingfoods.com or rawfoods.com for more info.  Cooked starchy food (bread, pasta, potatoes) and fatty foods were the culprits.  You can also use Niacin as an antidepressant, (take an aspirin first to prevent flush ) and GABA for anxiety.  Parenting is tough.  Ask yourself how you can do it differently when you're in a no-win situation.  Give yourself time-out.  Let her go naked.  If you have to go somewhere, take the pants with you and try again later.  Also, I took resentments I had against my husband out on my kids, so ask yourself what is really going on.  Her Blood Is Gold is a great book, tho out of print I think.  It explains in other cultures how women are allowed to rest before and during their moon.  It is a time of emotional cleansing, we are usually pretty honest then.  My symptoms would start mid cycle, then improve, then hit full blast.  My main symptom was hatred.  At least you may have an easier menopause.  I did. Good luck.
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THE BEST SOURCE THAT I CAN RECOMMEND IS ABOUT.COM  IT HAS ALL KINDS OF STUFF AND LINKS TO HELP WITH A LOT OF ISSUES\nBUT HERE ARE A FEW MORE FOR YOU.. GOOD LUCK\n\nhttp://depression.about.com/od/griefsupport/?terms=suicide+grief\n\nhttp://www.griefnet.org/\nhttp://www.griefhealing.com/\nhttp://www.griefshare.org/
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Sometimes, during pregnancy you will experience mood swings which includes being depressed, try seeking your gynae to clear this up first and then continue to ask your friends in church to pray. \n\nJust know that in all things God will help you and heal you. Ask Jesus to fill you everyday, cleanse by His blood. Sing Spiritual songs througout the day, read the bible and spiritual books to lift up your spirit.\n\nTake time to pray with your husband and do bible study together, share verses, this will help both of you to be closer.
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I have anxiety/depression, so it is like I have this wonderful "bank" of knowledge to draw from.  I can't give medical advise, but I can give idea and supportive advise.\n\nThe first idea is to get Mom to the doctor, any doctor that is a general practitioner.  The doctor will ask Mom a series of questions to see if her sickness and depression have symptoms he can diagnose.  Some illnesses cause depressions, this is called "organic depression", that is a depression related or stemming from the illness.\n\nIf Mom is "sick nd depressed" just in general, go to a general practitioner with her.  Sit with the doc and her and get an opinion.  Or two or three.\n\nMost health care insurance providers can also help with referrals.  If no health insurance, most cities and areas have minimum help or "public health clinics". most of which are very good at treating illnesses and depression, as they have seen it all.\n\nIf Mom is depressed, get a health check up, a referral from the doctor to go to a mental health doctor.  Treating depression is seldom a 1,2,3 magic, all gone situation.  It may take months for the meds to take effect or to find the right ones, which is very common.\n\nGetting a diagnosis enables you and mom to also research in the library and on line all the thousands of helpful and easy to read advise web pages and help pages.  In a way, this is also a "treatment" role, as it involves the person in their own healing.  Also, it tend to get the ill person a good feeling from research or that: "Ah Ha. Me too!".\n\nAll meds should be researched by you and mom, as some are not as effective as older ones, as our friendly pharmaceutical industry likes to push "new" meds which generates enormous profits.  A good example is the 85% efficacy of "MAOI" (some which have food restrictions and some which don't) over SSRI's.\n\nThe terms you will find out all about when you and mom research.  You have the power, no one else does.\n\nNaturally, exercise, not smoking, limiting caffeine and taking a close look at diet is needed.  Some foods, such ass heavy meals, starchy foods, heavy steaks, MSG, sugars all have a bad effect on many people.\n\nIf I didn't excercise, walk and bike I would be in very, very big trouble.  And I do it anyway, even if it is hellishly hot in South Florida where I live.\n\nActually, if you only know how much food plays in all this, you would be astounded.\n\nAlso, there is the people factor.  Said plain, when a person is ill and depressed, a close look at who is in the life of the person, who is a good influence and who is a bad influence is one very effective way of augmenting depressions and illnesses.\n\nAlso, the same goes for reading the news, watching the TV and movies.  From now, "light and funny" only.\n\nFear not, it does get better, and you never know, something really wonderful may happen as a result of all this.  \n\nThere are a lot of new meds these days, many options in including using generics medications, and support groups exist both in communities, churches, community centers and on line.
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Sorry I don't know any website for that.  Have you tried talking to your parents about what you need.  I'm sure that they will help you if you talk to them.  Every kids feels that here parents will be disappointed in something but being a mother myself I would always be there for my children no matter what.  I may be angry or a little disappointed but I am and will always be there.  Try your family.  They will help you.
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Hi,\nI had the same worries as you during my pregnancies, I asked at the hospital and was given various leaflets, most of them contained the following paragraph, suggesting there is a link between previous depressive episodes and post natal depression.\n   The first time I did experience post natal depression but because I was prepared for it I had spoken with the doctor and health visitor and I had quite a lot of support to help me cope.\nThe second time, I was not affected much at all.   I'm sure if you plan and prepare for all eventualities you will be fine.\n\nPostnatal depression is common; it has been estimated to affect 13% of women in the first year following the birth of their child (70,000 women annually in the UK)2.\nRisk Factors There are numerous risk factors, which include:\n\nPast history of depression / postnatal depression \nPoor social support \nLack of a confiding relationship \nUnemployment of partner \nAdverse life events eg bereavement \nPoor relationship with own mother \nPresentation
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http://www.effexorxr.com/?at=googl&SOURCE=GOOG&KEYWORD=p\n\nhttp://www.med.nyu.edu/psych/screens/depres.html\n\nhttp://www.allaboutdepression.com/selfeval.html\n\nhttp://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSIHW000/8271/9025.html\n\nhttp://www.firelily.com/support/depression/depression.selfcheck.html
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http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/depression/DN99999
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go through this website\n\nhttp://gethappy.net/bookhm.htm
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Mood swings?!!  For depressed children!!???  Now that is funny. lol Thanks.
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Gee, my mom is 80 or so, and I have similar problems. The only thing that has helped me is reading the Crankshaft Cartoon in the newspaper. Seeing that the problem is not unique to my circumstance has enabled me to find some humor in it. \n\nI think perhaps we can learnhow to be patient and not become hateful or angry by having to deal with these situations. I purpose in my heart not to expect my mom to do what I consider logical, or best for her, and condition myself to drop down into the "peace that passes understanding" whenever she refuses to keep track of her holdings. Sometimes it doesn't work, but I am worse off when I allow myself to get upset. \n\nI have started to clean up my own affairs so that I don't do this to my own son as I age. Why, just a few weeks ago, I actually gave away 4 books! (lol) It seems really difficult to fight the process of becoming my mom.
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I'd take a look at http://www.crazyboards.org. There's a parenting section and a bipolar section there. I'm personally bipolar and no great fan of that diagnosis in teenagers, let alone kids as young as 6, but that's just me.
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changes in eating and sleeping habits (eating and sleeping too much or too little) \nsignificant weight gain or loss \nmissed school, poor school performance and/or a sudden decline in grades \nwithdrawal from friends and family \nno longer enjoying activities that were once pleasurable \nindecision, lack of concentration, or forgetfulness \nfeelings of worthlessness or guilt \noverreaction to criticism, irritability \nfeeling that nothing is worth the effort \nfrequent health complaints when no physical ailment exists \nanger, rage, anxiety \nlack of enthusiasm and motivation \ndrug/alcohol abuse, thoughts of death or suicide \nSymptoms such as insomnia, panic attacks, delusions or hallucinations can indicate extreme depression, \nThe first problem is to distinguish between a more serious depression and "normal," typical adolescent moodiness, caused by hormonal changes and brain growth spurts. For example, it is common for girls to become moody, edgy, and anxious just before and during menstruation, and maybe even longer, if she suffers from hormonal problems. If grouchy behavior seems to have a pattern or cycle, it is likely the symptoms are tied to hormonal changes, and are not indicative of clinical depression. In contrast, one hallmark of clinical depression is the tendency to become isolated—to stop talking to family, and to stop spending time with friends—and this kind of moodiness does not seem to lift after a couple of weeks. \n\nRushing to a therapist when symptoms are actually within the range of normal can have several negative effects:\n\nthe child feels like there must be something wrong with himself or herself, which can tip a fragile balance toward lowered self-esteem \nthere may be a long-lasting stigma attached to a diagnosis \nmedications may be prescribed unnecessarily, and without careful monitoring \nIf you suspect depression:\n\nRespond with love, kindness, and support. \nRepeatedly let your child know that you are there, whenever she or he needs you \nBe gentle but persistent if your adolescent shuts you out (depressed teenagers do not want to feel patronized or crowded). Do not ask a lot of questions, but make known your concern and your willingness to listen. \nDo not criticize or pass judgment once the adolescent begins to talk (the important thing is that he or she is talking and communicating feelings). \nEncourage activity and praise efforts to socialize and be active. \nSeek help from a doctor or mental health professional if the adolescent's depressed feeling doesn't pass with time. Be prepared to list behaviors, note how long and how often they have been occurring, and how severe they seem. \nDo not wait and hope that symptoms will go away on their own. When depression is severe—if adolescents are thinking about hurting themselves or about suicide—seek professional help as soon as possible. \nParents of depressed adolescents may themselves need support. Seek out groups of parents who have experience with teen depression. \nThe single most important thing a parent can do to break down the social isolation that is at the heart of adolescent problems is to LISTEN:\n\nlisten when your children talk \nlisten to their music \nspend more time with them and be involved in their activities \ntake them to movies and concerts, and discuss them afterward \nknow their friends, and listen to them as well \ndo not lecture or offer unsolicited advice or ultimatums \ndo not try to talk them out of their feelings or solve their problems, just acknowledge the pain and sadness they are feeling \ndo not compare your teen’s feelings, reactions or experiences to your own or to someone else’s \nA parent can—and should—express their concerns directly. It is not easy to connect with teens in this way, and parents may need professional guidance to assist them. Yes, it is likely that the teenager will get angry and will say harsh things ("It's none of your business!" "G
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http://www.nimh.nih.gov/healthinformation/depressionmenu.cfm\n\nfree screening online: http://www.depression-screening.org/
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I think the most important thing you can do for yourself is accept that there are no magic pills. If you put too much faith in medicine, chances are you will be disappointed because pills do not always address the underlying causes of depression.\n\nThings that you could try instead:\n\n1. Examine your diet. Is it healthy and balanced? If it isn't, think about taking supplements for a while. I know everyone booed Tom Cruise when he suggested vitamins as a cure for Post-partum depression but, actually, he made an important point badly. Poor nutrition is a factor in a vast number of mental illnesses. If you want to get serious about nutrition, buy a book called 'The Optimum Nutrition Bible' and follow the supplementation regime for depression. It will work - promise!\n\n2. Another thing to try (in conjunction with 1) is to take more exercise. It's the last thing you feel like doing, I will bet. But exercise gets those serotonin and endorphin levels elevated and you come out on a high. Even if you are unfit, you come out feeling like you have achieved something when you finish a class. Think about taking up aerobics or using a cross-trainer regularly\n\n3. Try to talk about your feelings. Depression is often caused by repressed anger. Women, in particular, tend to suffer from depression because we tend to internalise stress. The best way to not get depressed is to get used to expressing and asserting yourself. If you type 'depression and anger' into Google, you will be surprised by the amount of material on the web about this.\n\n4. Try to get enough sleep. If you prop your body up with lots of cigarettes, coffee, alcohol or soda (or even recreational drugs) try to cut right down. Try to cut out alcohol as it is a depressant. You know by now that trying to bury your feelings in unhealthy habits isn't working. In fact, it may be making you feel worse. It's time to give up all those bad habits for good.\n\n5. Do what you can to shift your mindset. If you sit there all day saying 'I am depressed', you will feel depressed. I guarantee it. Instead, wake up in the morning and say 'it's a gorgeous day today. I think I'll go for a walk'. Then do it. Or look at your feet and promise to paint your toenails a pretty colour. Listen to some music (no mopey love songs or funeral dirges - listen to upbeat tracks that make you want to dance or sing along). \n\nI too have suffered from depression, for many years. It has only lifted in the last 6 years. I did the pill thing, the alcohol thing, the hospital thing and therapy. But what really helped me was a determined effort to change my mindset - from cup half empty to cup half full. I try to be positive but I keep things real. I think about how I feel about things a lot. And if I am angry, I express it. Why shouldn't I?\n\nIt will not be easy but make a commitment to yourself to take some of these steps. Only then will you position yourself to be free of this burden forever.\n\nTake care and good luck.