when will my career get stable and why all friends ditch me?
458730
I am looking into my crystal ball....and I see\nI see o wait I see not good...You need to grow up face the facts of life and feel what you need to and pick yourself up by your own boot straps and carry yourself. People are always going to be back stabbing, your in the wrong group.Find a new group of people for your soul to grow and have faith in yourself.   Good luck
254626
I know this is hard but really there's nothing you can...once you get where your going you'll make new friends..no one likes moving and leaving friends behind..just email and visit now and then but you have to move so try to be positive and make the best of it...
887302
Keep your chin up, believe in yourself, and make new friends. Think outside of the box and go to new places where you can meet new people. I moved to a new town and knew no one... I found a couple of charities in the phone book and volunteered... I met lots of great and caring people that have become friends. You could also look into attending a church in your area. They usually welcome you in and have lots of activities regardless of your age. Remember that people who claim to be your friends and then ditch you were never really your friends at all... look for a better group of peers.  Good Luck!
1135850
Oh man, I can relate.  My career path has been very rocky lately, to say the least.  I know it sounds trite, but this kind of helped me: My grandfather always says everything happens for a reason.  Hang on, keep your chin up, and know that everything will turn out all right in the end.  If it's not all right, it's not the end.\n\nGood luck!
1110527
oh dear.. this has happend to me too. The best thing to do is try your hardest (though challeging) to move ahead with your life. Time to look for new friends! Be confident, and calm. In a month or so, call up your old friend again, maybe by then she will have missed you, and ask to be friends again. If not, well, there are plenty more fish in the pond. It is the cold, hard truth!
412431
Wrestle your life back into your control. Find your purpose and get busy with it. Do not isolate yourself from friends, call them "now" and get some plans in action. Talk to your friends about a new job for you. Probably one of them, could hook you up where they work, or at least, tell you about something you might enjoy doing that you have not thought about. Embrace life and life will reward you for your efforts. GO!!!
396829
From what I read there was too much drama going on so that means......MOVE ON and make new friends!  You sound pretty young, so here's some advice...unfortunately in life, you will meet people who claim to be your friends when in actuality they aren't. So you just experienced that part of life early, so now you can just learn from it. Focus on school and important things. You will find better friends soon!
158593
It is scarry being a new student, but changes can be a good thing.  It is a chance for you to make new friends!  At first it might be hard, but as time goes by it will get easier.  I was at the same job for 15 years and decided that I needed to change jobs.  At first it felt really strange and I was a little scared, but now that some time has gone by  I feel really happy that I made the change.  I have new friends and new challenges.  It turned out be just what I really needed!   Good luck to you.
1109863
Job hopping is not a good habit to get into. When you finally find a job you are interested in, it will look bad that you have not been able to hold a job.\n\nThere could be a bunch of reasons you dont keep the jobs. You probably have not found your niche - what you love and what you want to do for a career. Remember, the jobs we have early on don't necessarily become our careers. Sometimes you need to get your foot in the door, and just get some experience. Sometimes jobs suck and we have to suck it up and do it for a while. Maybe you have short attention span. Maybe you are just picky. Either way, you have to get used to the idea of having to do work you don't like. It won't be easy, but try to find little things you like about your job, like a friendly coworker, or something new you learned. And keep in mind, you dont have to stay there forever. I am in my first job after grad school, and I don't plan on being here for more than a year or 2. I will take what I learn and find something that better suits my education and my personality. Good luck!
783324
It's OK to worry sometimes, specially when it's about your future. But you are just starting, so go on with your plans and eventually you'll find your way, by that I mean your own way. It's a great career and opportunities will get to you, don't worry. Good luck
857283
I am the same way.  Its like the only thing that anyone wants to talk to me about is the homework.  I didnt make any good friends in community college.  But now I am at the university level, and it does seem a little better.  Just everyone is so busy with their own lives and so I am; so its hard to find a good friend.  I hope it gets better when I start my career.
532034
Highly suggest you talk with a good therapist. During that time and now realize what you want in life. Therapist will help. I have learned from (others/family) poor behavior. Use this as a TOOL! One can not make others happy. YOU need to find happiness within. I know nothing of your friends and where you live. I highly suggest... to continue having a friend is with respect to them. Your problems may get worse if "you" end relationship through aggressive behavior to your friends. Religious believing can wait. Just know there is someone to talk with during quite time alone. I do it all the time. It works. Many of my guestions have been answered. Stop asking yourself why to everything. Concentrate on what "type" of person others see in you. I have a clue possible Bio Polar in your family. Trust me. My life at one time was similar. Go to a therapist. Let them help you. Most of your questions will be answered.\nBest of luck!
330484
ask them whats going on... if they ditch you again, get new friends!
511201
be patient...get a plan together that will allow you to meet others..good luck
328494
i had that prob for a while and its really disheartening when people refuse you when you know u could be better than some of the lazy scum bags who work there. just keep at it and dont give up someone will value your skills....good luck!!
464636
I started my job in November and was in exactly the same situation as you.  I was sort of laid back and quiet and everyone there knew each other and had like you said established camaraderie, it took about two weeks before people generally remembered my name and even would include me in conversation.  But before I knew it I was the one people centered around and was invited to go out with the "guys" afterwards only because I didn't try to throw myself on them, I let them warm up to me.  If you're not the most outgoing person then work that casual, cool and confident angle with people.  Do NOT bring doughnuts in or be cheezy about the ordeal then you're just crying for social interaction.  In a nutshell I hate to use the "cliche" be yourself...but there is much truth to that...Be yourself but do it with confidence.
813920
I was out of work for a while and it was awful. I was so broke and so bored. I hope you will find something soon. Just don't give up and start hanging out. That is the slow road to more unhappiness.