My girlfriend wanted time off.  So I left that moment she told me about it.  Is that wrong?
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Maybe she gave the guy a ride out of the goodness of her heart.  If you explained to her that it really bothers you and she ignores your request to stop it she is either being stubborn (he's not going to tell ME what to do) or she does not value your feelings on the matter.  When SHE said "let's take some time off" she could have been just trying to get back at you for making the suggestion in the first place.  At the very worst you've got yourself one of those girls who enjoys stirring things up to make the relationship a little more edgy and thrilling like it is in the very beginning when you're in the "does he/she like me or not stage????".  Have you ever seen the movie "Play Misty for Me?"  Extreme case.  They like to pull back to "show you what you might lose", then they panic and try to reel you back in very fast so you won't really try to get away.  Your idea af a break is a REAL GOOD one.  But set an actual time like a week or 10 days and agree NO CONTACT.  Tell her that you will not only NOT answer her calls and texts you will not even listen to or read them.  Assure her that you will not use this time to cruise for other girls.  That's not the idea.  The idea is to see how much you miss THIS one.  No cheating!  Good luck.
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yeah, i do! and she is wonderful.. now it's a parttime job you don't like? absolutely...why not? but it will make work a little odd-and good... be careful ,if the relationship goes bad it can mean drama at work... no peace...
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Nothing like the simple truth: "you need a few days off". Be assertive, it´s your vacation time.
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Did she start her period that day?Are you over reacting?are you just looking for a way out?If your not happy,talk to her about it and the two of you come up with ideals on how to fix it.If not,leave.
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If she wants to leave you have to let go, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?  Your not making someone else unhappy, but your not being fair to yourself you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you because they like you for who you are.  Anyway, I know it's hard to let go sometimes, but if its meant to be maybe she will see that after shes gone and want to reconcile.  If she hasn't said she wants to leave then don't worry about it just keep being yourself.  Good Luck to You
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Wait, did I read this correctly? Did you state that she is your EX girlfriend? As in, you two are not a couple anymore? If that is the case, shame on her for even asking--that's ridiculous.\n\nIt sounds to me like she grew accustomed during your time together to asking you for things, and it's very nice that you are the type of person who provides money for clothes, etc, but the fact is that you don't have to give her anything. If you want to tell her to stuff it, please go right ahead. The fact that she is even asking puts my teeth on edge.\n\nIf she is spending $3000 for a vacation, she should have given some thought to the clothing issue before. She should have either saved $3300, or planned to only spend $2700 for the vacation, leaving the rest for clothes.\n\nYou don't owe her anything at all. If she wants to go play and have fun, she can take care of that on her own.
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Technically, you have no right to say anything, since you initiated the "break".... but given the circumstances, you're allowed to be curious. \nAre you still on speaking terms with him for these three weeks? If so, simply ask him about it. Be calm about it, and just let him know you're simply curious as to who this person is, since you've never met her before. \nAlso, it appears that this really bothers you. Perhaps during these three weeks off, you should try to address why that is. It will help you get a better understanding of where you're relationship is, and where it's heading.\nG/L
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Absolutely not.  I think you should have a discussion about what's making you feel that you aren't getting what you want.  If nothing comes of it, then let her go and have what you want.
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Sounds like she wanted some time alone.  also, some people don't like you showing up where they are, like work or school.
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Sounds to me that you are either way too trusting, far too needy (wanting a relationship bad enough to accept this behavior from the person you're currently with), or seeking validation in what you've already decided you want to do.\n\nHere's what I did:\n\n"I need you to get all of your things together and leave.  I don't care where you go, but I won't be a part of your behavior any longer."\nIt sounds very psychological, doesn't it?  Well, I thought about it for a long time.  I wrote it down, I rehearsed it for hours.  When my partner came home, I was in the other room.  I repeated that line when I heard, "Hi honey."  I didn't say another word; we just stared at each other - eye to eye.  I wasn't going to offer an explanation of any kind, we both knew why I had made this decision.\n\nYou'll find someone better.  If what you know is fact, you're too nice to this person and it's probably time you cut the ropes and get back on the available list.  :-)
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look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.
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Dont rush, give her time to think. If you keep houndin her then she'll feel trapped and may break it off. I love you are powerful words. And no, its not wrong at all.
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I think you're right about having the right to know if she's considering it.  I also think that you might mess things up if you pressure her too much.  Atleast give her a day or two before you start pressing the issue again.  Hopefully within those 48 hours she will get back to you.  When you do call her, if she doesn't call you, try to keep it casual and let her have some sort of oppurtunity to tell you what she thinks before you flat out ask.
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If she wasn't going to tell you and couldn't even be honest with you when she was going out on that date, I'd say you did the right thing.  You can't build a life together if there are secrets and lies.  And to me, omission is as good as a lie.
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You sound like you have some trust issues with her.  It is totally normal to give someone a ride to work.  Some people adjust seats and leave them that way.  I am sure he is not getting too comfortable.  I am sure it is no big deal.\n\nIf you trusted her then it would not be required for her to tell you that he has dropped him off or not.  How would you feel if she said that to you and you were totally innocent?\n\nYou really need to take a look at the trust issue you have with her.  Why are you concerned with this?  Do you think she would cheat?  Do you think she would lie?  What has she done in the past to make her think that she would?  Analyze that and maybe you will uncover a deeper problem then giving a guy a ride to work.\n\nGood Luck!
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Just tell her you guys broke up- you both realized you weren't ready for the commitment and leave it at that- tell her your personal life isn't something you like to discuss and next time, BE HONEST.
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I would let her know where you are coming from. It also depends on what level you are with this person. Are you married? Girlfriend? Dating? In any case, you should let her know where you are coming from and that you want to come to some kind of understanding on how you are going to resolve the issue. \n\nP.S.\n\n2 wrongs do not make a right. Communication is key here. Talk it out.\n\nAdditional Details\n\n1 second ago\nOur relationship is very good because we communicate and everything its just sometimes she says the wrong things and I let her know . . . . eventually\n\n\nMy response: It appears as though she is not to sure how to communicate her feelings and in turn says things that hurt you. She also could be saying these things because she is unsure of how you feel so she is trying to get a REACTION out of you. SHE NEEDS REASSURANCE. Communication is still key.