She wants me around, but does not want to get close. I love her, she knows this. She of the mind she can't luv
465576
She must have been hurt beofore. Ask her and if yes take it easy with her. If you love her that much you will wait.
94484
well she's not your friend if she wants you to be u to be under her so thats a friend u need to let go
595627
She loves you but not willing to give you 100% of her heart and soul..She obviously cares but is in doubt of a future with you..She seems to be questioning her own motives for being in a relationship with you..Maybe shes not totally satisfied with the relationship or feel solid enough in it..Seems to me she is willing to be friends but from a distance..Do not give her an alternative..thats instant death!Give her understanding and your friednship but your heart would be more appreciated elsewhere..Good luck!
225631
Maybe she doesn't want you to.
820809
It sounds like she care for you ,but she is afraid of commitment, so when things a little warm for her she runs.   I think for now she just needs some assurance that you are there for her.  Then get straight to the point and ask her how slow does she want the relationship to go.   As the term slowly means different things to different people.    Her response should answer all the questions that you want from her.   Then it may also let you know if she really want a relationship and how much she really cares.
891854
It means shes not ready to go further in your relationship just yet. Give her some time , the fact that you spend so much time together must say something about how she feels about you! Good Luck!
646207
You may not be able to, but my first suggestion would be to try to figure out why she doesn't like you and then see if there is anything you can do to change that.  Be nice to her, but don't make a  nuisance of yourself - that would really make her like you even less.  Give her space and time, letting her know that you are interested if she is.  If, in the end, she does not want to have anything to do with you, be gracious, and move on.  There will be another.  It is often easier to love someone who loves you back.
812588
i think she's being honest with you and that she really doesn't want to tie you down...but on the other hand if you had already told her that you'd only want her then i think i will not let you go anymore...i just did what i had to do that is to let you know that i am open to possibilities that you might want to see someone else...but in your case, you are not wanting that...so,\n\ni think....maybe, just maybe...she just want to be out coz there is someone...but then why wait for you if there was someone else? maybe she just want to sort things out...let her have her space then...if she comes back and you find it in your heart that you still want her then go for it...\n\nif you don't want this option then talk to her and tell her that you still want to continue...if she said, no...then, you have to let go...nothing you can do here.
57446
If you are uncomfortable with this issue, I would say to talk to her about it.  Let her know how you feel.  Let her know in no uncertain terms that you are not interested.\n\nIf she does not respect your feelings, then you should move out.
269677
I used to have this same problem with guys I used to date but, I found the love of my life and I can't stop talking. I feel comfortable around him. I know that he will not judge or think less of me for what I have to say. Maybe she does not feel comfortable around you. Maybe she is afraid that you will judge her.
551732
she may be afraid that both of you will stop loving her because she's basking in the glow of all the attention she has gotten from the both of you. ya know, the losing-it-all feeling kinda sucks.
22392
first she is a bitch cause she wont take it off when you ask, she is just trying to make you jealous at that point, to fell loved. so you are an ahole for not making her feel loved. it prob started just cause she liked it, but when you said something about it started to be about the above
275382
Dont rush, give her time to think. If you keep houndin her then she'll feel trapped and may break it off. I love you are powerful words. And no, its not wrong at all.
641291
I stay out of her way.
601404
You cannot force her to love you. Move on, find someone else who will love you too.
476159
She's a little intrigued now that you're not chasing her anymore... keep it up buddy, make her throw herself at you from now on - she will luv you for keeping it that way !
126931
The simple truth of the matter is this. She doesn't love you, all she wants is something she can't have and that happens to be you. Trust me the only person who will get hurt in all this is you. I have lost a good friend because of this exact same thing and let me tell you it was never worth it.