my crush has a lot of girlfriends...?
459085
guys have friends that are girls \nget over it,
476233
Sounds like your crush is a little on the ignorant side and needs to be educated.  What an idiot.  You need someone a little less ignorant.
725434
i think he sees you the way he sees the other girls.. maybe he likes all of them.. but doesnt have the balls to ask anyone out.. so he just surrouns himself with girls that he likes.
163508
If she was my girlfriend, why would she have lots of (potential?)suitors at work to begin with? When you say girlfriend, I assume you mean an exclusive relationship. If it was an exclusive relationship then why worry if she knows how to conduct herself. Some women need a lot of attention from lots of men, so I would have to decide if she is one of those, and act accordingly.
643516
that first answer about usin you was a bunch of BS\nif it is true, dump him... but I hope for the better that it is not. I'm a guy with a lot of gfs too (cept I kinda wanna be single over summer, so I'm  not makin any moves) and I'm sure they are all jealouse when I hang out with one or the other. Its natural, just like I'm jealous when the one I've liked forever hangs out with other guys. If you talk to you bf a lot, then it should be no problem talking to him about this. If you don't talk to him, then you should either start talking to him or rething about whether or not this is the guy you want to be with. There are plenty of guys out there, and one will eventually be the right one for you. just hang in there, and if you lose this one, it'll be alright\n-- God Bless
570517
She probably asked you about your crushes because she likes you. Go ahead and tell 'er ya like 'er boy.
396095
sounds like she is a bit jealous. she probably likes you.
682766
Nick, I'm not going to say "ditch" this "perfect" girl but I'm going to give you something to think about.\nWhat happens if you spend all your time on this girl when you never know that there's another more deserving girl looking from behind the scenes.  And, what happens if you waste all this time on her when suddenly you two go out and you find out that she's not so "perfect" at all?  Follow the advice of others, go into the dating game for once.  Probably this "busy" "senorita" will feel jealous and at the end will feel bad that she has been spending too much time on the books and all that most of the "great guys" will be taken?  \nMaybe, just maybe, you could wait.  You two are both young there's still time after high school to pursue love.  Right now, this girl is probably worried about her future and that's why you should wait for her.  You too should be busy with the "important" stuff because hey!  I'm sure all of us people who graduated from high school are probably thinking why didn't we do our homework instead of partying and stuff?
856153
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
226066
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
48894
My advice is to get over it. You could try to get closer to her through her friends, let her know the real you! But don't push it! Some things are not meant to be. Nontheless, there is plenty of fish in the sea!
564121
Okay, we all know that everyone has at least one crush. Before we start they are 3 kinds of "behaviors" girls have around guys. 1) The obsessed can't hide her feelings 2) Calm Cool and Collected, she knows not to push it and 3) Best Friend to Girlfriend \n\nSteps \nThe obsessed can't hide her feelings \nCalm Cool and Collected she knows not to push it and \nBest Friend to Girlfriend \nThe obsessed chick has to calm down if she likes you and she seems obssesed she'll \nBe "all" over you, constantly want to hang out and, well, "touch you" in what she thinks is a good way \nThe 3 C Chick: she knows if she likes you not to smother you and constantly want to hang out. She'll \nHang with you and your buds, touch your shoulder like the kind of "well that's okay" \nThe Best Friend to Girlfriend shell, \nWell the two of you pretty much the most obvious, you guys will hang out at the movie or house and just stare and kiss or tell your feelings \n\n\n\nTips \nMy trick to girls (yes I am girl this advice is true) is to take it slow and easy. Don't rush and don't (or try not to) obsess over a girl if you like her. \n\n\n\nWarnings \nIf you take this advice and notice she likes you but you don't like her just tell her nicely and politely because if you tell or tease her not so playfully she'll get upset or even more in love with so-and-so. Approach her and ask her if she likes you and if she says yes then say (nicely) "Well I don't like you but maybe we can be friends," or if she says no then ask her to lay off on the obsessing or something like that. But seriously don't be mean about it either, it makes girls hate you more or makes them love you more. That our problem! Haha!
534330
So he thinks you're weird. That's one guy out of how many? Don't be bummed out about it. And don't go chaning yourself over some guy that you used to like! Someday someone will love you for who you are. Don't get upset over what some crush from the past has to say! They're in the past. Leave them there and move on! : )
975122
lol move on buddy.. no need to mess with her if shes already taken.... theres way too many single women out there lookin for guys!!    and how do you know u love her if shes not or never been your gf...??
388252
I think you can date as many girls as you want as long as you are honsest with all that you date.  Make sure you don't lead anyone to beleive you are seclusive with them unless you really want to be with them and them only.
873272
You would know! Her friends will hint to you if she hasn't already. Girls cannot keep a crush inside for too long; she will give you signs. In the meantime, get over yourself; if you like this girl, go talk to her. It's that simple.\n\nYou're welcome.
792823
Yes, because I'm shy too and I get it.  Alot of people don't get it and think that you have to be controlling or something if you dont have many friends or blah blah blah whatever.  Ignore all that crap and just respect and understand that whoever you go out with is probably gonna have friends that they want to hang out with as long as its people of the same sex then let her do her thing.  As for her having guy friends well people can't say you're jealous or controlling about that because most people that may criticize it feel the same way and wouldn't want there other half to be hanging out with someone of the oppisite sex... some are okay with it but honestly most aren't.  Just don't try to force them to make you the only person(friend)  in their life just because thats what they might be to you.