how can you make a funny and a sensible guy fall in love with you?
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He asked you on a date, obviously he digs you already. Give it some time and see how it develops. \n\nA southern accent, if you can do one, couldn't hurt ;-)
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You can't. Unfortunately, you've heard it before, there are no guarantees. If you really love him, then you take the risk - that's what makes true, successful love so precious. \nIf you are unsure of his intentions then take it slow - there is no law that for magical passion you have to jump right in. You can gain that same magic by enjoying your relationship and letting it progress at a omfortable, secure pace.
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You can't "make" anyone fall in love with you.  But, you can be yourself and be happy in who you are.  Self-esteem is very attractive.  And, if he doesn't fall in love with you, it's OKAY.  There are plenty more where he came from!
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Sorry to tell you, but you can't MAKE someone love you more.\n\nWhat you CAN do, though, is showing him that he can rely on you and that you're always there for him. Make sure that he can relax with you and be totally himself.\nAlso, little romantic things are always good. Love letters, little surprises, something that shows him how much you think of him and how much you care.\n\nShould it still look like he isn't serious about you afterwards, then sorry, dear, let him go.\nNo matter how much you're in love, you deserve someone who has exactly the same feelings for you. If he is not up to that, then he's not the right one.
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there are many ways..\n1. say " <hisname> i love you" , close ur eyes, and kiss him on his lips..\n2. show him that you can change urself for him...as in if he doesnt like s'thing in u or likes s'thing..then change that habit or incorporate(the thing he likes) in urself...\n3. put in constant effort to look better and better...and also, keep ur self fit...(good for u too)\n4. learn to cook sthing that he really enjoys eating...\n5. subtly bitch about other men in front of him.. and more importantnly, NEVER praise any other man in front of him...\n6. tell him that u will be with her even if he looses all his money.. and all his looks (just say this.. and he will know taht u love her..)\n7. dont be greedy...once in a while settle for less expensive gifts...\n8. and this is the MOST important thing...TRY and SEE his point of view... u need not agree.. but just try and see.. and then repeat it to him...\n9. and if he still wants more...ask me back... u have my email id :-)\n10. Best of luck,.. (ur asking this question is proof enough that u love him...show him this link..! :-)
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be yourself. you dont want to give a guy a wrong impression of you and if you do than you cant be sure he really falls for you because you are giving him the wrong image of you. so be yourself and thats the best way to find someone who will accept you for you.
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Give him a big hug and tell him that you love him and nothing can ever change that.\n\nDepending on the kind of relationship you have, you could also add jokingly, "But you have to let me meet all your potential boyfriends first - so I can tell them embarrassing stories about you!"\n\nBe loving, but add some humor so it doesn't turn into one of those awkward "I love you, I love you too, what now?" moments.\n\nYou say that nothing about your relationship will change (or that you don't want it to), so why hang out or do things different from before you were assured that he was gay? Do the things you've always enjoyed doing together - that will help ensure that nothing will truly change. Make sure that he knows you're interested in new ideas, just in case there are other things he would like to do now that he knows that you know.
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Be nice to him but don't crowd him.  Don't pressure him to do something with you the first time he talks to you.  Let him get comfortable with you.\n\nA guy will usually like a girl who laughs at his jokes. It shows she is atuned to him. Kind of thinks the same way he does.  It kind of validates his attitude or way of thinking.  It is kind of like you saying to him, "that is very smart" without coming right out and saying it.  Of course, only if he said something funny!\n\nAsk him for his opinion, once in a while.  Things like "what do YOU think?" or "which one do YOU prefer?" are good questions.  They are easy for him to answer if you are asking about something that is in the front of his mind at the moment.\n\nQuestions like "what are you THINKING?" are almost always hard for guys to answer, on the other hand.  They may not be thinking much of anything, but if they say that, they sound kind of stupid.  Or they might be thinking about something boring. If they tell you what it is, you will think they are boring. \n\nTry not to put them on the spot like that, at least not until you are at the flirting stage. At that point, you can sort of hint what they should be thinking.  In other words, a question can be a little bit like taking a test.  If you are going to give them one, make sure it is an easy one.\n\nDress nice, of course.  But do not worry about if your clothes or accessories are really expensive.  Know why?\n\nGuys have no idea how much girls' clothes cost. They might not even know how much their own clothes cost.\n\nLots of boys when they are taken clothing shopping just want to get in and get out of that store.\n\nThey might really care about a jacket, true. Shoes, possibly - like if they are into sports and need a good shoe for their sport or running. But pants, socks, belts, shirts - probably just wearing them because they have to.  Jackets and coats are a little different.\n\nIf you want to catch a guy's eye, do some color-coordindation.  For example, if you have a sweater or shirt with some lavendar in it, wearing earings or a hair clip that is exactly the same color will look really neat.  He will think you are a sharp dresser.\n\nThe same thing goes for your eyes.  If you wear a shirt that has some of the same color as your eyes, that might catch his eyes.  Up to ten percent of all guys are slightly color blind though. Details vary, but some guys cannot even tell red from green.  So if doing that color matching thing does not work, do not take it too hard.  Or, try matching two things of a different color than the first one you tried.\n\nI guess if varies from guy to guy but usually a nice hairstyle catches my eye.  If your hair looks nice, he might notice that.\n\nLooking straight into his eyes when you are talking to him.  That might get you noticed more too.\n\nBeing fit, in good shape helps.  You don't have to be super skinny or super strong.  You don't really have to be super anything.  Just be healthy.\n\nAlso, if you are happy and smile a lot, guys like that.  Talking with other guys or girls is good too.  It shows you are social, you make friends easily, and you have friends.  That makes you more interesting, probably.\n\nIf you go overboard trying to do something to make him like you, it could backfire a little.  If you laugh at his jokes when you really don't think they are funny at all, he might sense from your tone or your expression that you are being kind of phony.\n\nSometimes you can be a little sarcastic, kind of dig at him a little with a comment, just to get his attention.  But don't start putting him down or calling him stupid or weak.  That will just get him mad or hurt.  And, even if it doesn't, it will put his friends off toward you. They could start to feel like they need to protect him from you, maybe suggest he find a different girlfriend.\n\nYou could also get him a gift.  It does not have to be something expe
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Do fun things with your guy.Learn about each other.\nand it will go just right.
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You sound very compatible.  A good sense of humor is very important in a great relationship.
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attract him sexually.
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First thing I ask myself... Is he fake? There are a lot of people who put on acts, trying to be someone that this particular person expects of them. Then they lose who they really are. So being real, and always yourself, is most important. That takes care of honesty too.\nAlso I do like a person with a sense of humor. Someone who likes to share thoughts, and be a best friend to their partner. Of course there has to be attraction. :)
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What would make him warm up to you is if he saw that you're slowly getting to be like him.\nMeaning:\nHe considers himself to be an outsider from everyone else (when relationships are involved). He doesn't let himself get close to other people in fear of getting hurt in the long run.\nThe ideal relationship for him would be with another outsider just like him. Someone who would spend nearly all her time with him, understand and be understood by him. Someone who would feel the same way about commitment as he does.\nIf you love him enough to be willing to sacrifise your social life for him, then go for it. Think long and hard about it.\nIf you're willing, then you should start cutting yourself off from the excessive attention of people, and you should limit your displays of affection (even to him).\nGet to know his character first, his hobbies, his familly, his positive side and his little quirks, and leave the physical stuff for later (think of them as the ultimate goal, but don't let him know that, otherwise your cover will be blown to pieces).\nLet him know you, tell him everything (or nearly...) about yourself, so you can get him to trust you.\nBut remember, it might take months before there can be a breakthrough. It's like trying to get a wild animal to trust you. You take it slowly, and you have to make absolutely no mistakes. If you take one step forward, a tiny mistake will take you two steps back.\nGood luck!
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realize him that you love by indirect means.look trendier,smart,and show that u have everything what he wants.Then at some day say him to help you in some work then slowly slowly propose  him.
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1. Know how to make you smile when you are down. \n2. Try to secretly smell your hair BUT you always notice. \n3. Stick up for you but still be respectful of your independence. \n4. Give you the remote control during the game. \n5. Come up behind you, put his arms around you, squeeze you tightly against his chest, and whisper softly into your ear \n 6. Play with your hair. \n7. His hands will always find yours. \n8. Be cute when he really wants something. \n9. Offer you plenty of massages. \n10. Dance with you even if he feels like a dork. \n11. Never run out of love. \n12. Be funny, but knows when to be serious. \n13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious. \n14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready. \n15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts. \n16. Smile alot. \n17. Plan a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn't normally do just because he knows it means a lot to you. \n18. Appreciate you. \n19. Help others out. \n20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1. \n21. Always give you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each other's company- even when friends are watching. \n22. Sing even if he can't \n23. Have a creative sense of humor. \n24. Stare at you. \n25. Call for no reason
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Read the book The Rules. He got a lot of ideas from it, some of the rules are exactly the same for men and women, like rarely returning calls and being hard to get. Also, get Dave's book, because almost all of it can be used as a women to pull men.\n\nWhat qualities make a guy desireable? He should not be egotistical, care about others, have a life and goals outside of you (you don't want a stalker or a 'clingy' guy, do you?), well traveled/educated, a good cook, and so on. Basically, take these fundamentals you find in Rules and DDA's material, and SPIN THEM AROUND and give them to YOURSELF. \n\nAnd, please never mention David again. You'll make him popular and spoil his works.\n\nOr do what Dave Chapelle suggests; "make him a sandwhich, play with his balls, and try not to talk so much." He'll love ya and it requires much less reading.
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I think my personal favourite so far has been a gentle claw at the back of the neck during a kiss.  Thaaaat'll do it.  :)\n\nAs for flirting, practice the floor hook.  If you get the sense a joke or the end of a funny story is coming, look down and adjust something on your shoe, or the table.  When the punchline comes, half-grin and look into his eyes without moving your head from its position, angled down and to the side.  Hold it there long enough and he'll have to start flustering, unsure of what he just did.  \n\nNot only are you showing off an attractive profile and being playful, you put him in a position of being self-conscious and fluttery: emotions he'll associate with dating.  Floor hook.  Never fails.  (I should write a book.)  :D