can you have male friends with out there being any sexual tension between you?
414953
I have alot of friends that are guys and there's no tension between us.
446881
I have had mostly guy friend all my life...so...I think it can happen.  I don't know if they have thought about having sex with me, but none of them have tried anyway...\n:)
573165
Friends are friends...no matter what the sex.
82250
If you would even consider this then you are not a friend. Someones sexual proclivities shouldn't matter to you, especially in a friendship. Would your friend leave you because you are not gay?
905758
In most cases, yes. However, guys tend to do this among each other. There is a big one-up thing that guys do from time to time.  Guys who are super hot and have it together know it and are known for it without saying a word. Males of most species tend to showboat. To an extent, I think it is a part of their wiring.
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He may in fact find you attractive even though he may not consider you in a romantic way either.  I am friends with women to whom I am attracted but wouldn't act on it because of the friendship.  For you to try to nip this in the bud before he does or says anything would be premature.  And wouldn't it be embarrassing for you if you were wrong and assumed something was there that wasn't?
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I've had it happen to me MANY MANY times. Oops. I mean, yep! Had it happen to me....but there can't be any sexual attraction on YOUR behalf at least and no jealousy! Make sure the attraction is GONE first! Then the only attraction should be the friendship.
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guys always think that its impossible to be friends w. out sex..i mean hello..women are able to just be friends
511701
i agree with you.sometimes male friend are much easier to find and to be with.
586170
no.  sex will eventually come into the friendship
403444
Yes. I have a male best friend. He is really cool. I have also got several other friends that are male. We are so close that we probably could never date, but even if we could i am not single. It is cool to have a guy best friend. They can give you a point of view sometimes that is way better than a female can. Even though females are good friends too, it is always good to have a male friend on the side to help you when she can't help out with your problems.
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I am assuming that you have male friends...and curious if they detect a bit of an uncomfortable vibe from you when you are around...maybe you being uneasy puts off some sort of signal that causes everyone else to be uneasy also...just don't try to hard maybe that's the problem...sometimes over doing the masculine thing causes doubt in everyone...just be yourself...true friends care about you for you...
33969
yes, it is possible. you've just got to watch out on which signals u might be sending these guys. you also need to make it very clear up front that u only want to be JUST friends and nothing more. hope this helps.
472588
Well you have an open relationship.  If you can flirt with other guys and have a monogomous sexual relationship then more power to you.  I would be proud of having that type of relationship, see what else is out there and have a guy that wants to go home with you everynight.
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Why not? It's fun hanging around guys who are just friends and don't make the moves on you.  They also give you lots of perspective on your potential boyfriends and check them out for you which I think is very sweet. It's like having lots of protective and fun brothers!
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It's possible...anything is but it doesn't happen often. It seems one is always cultivating the relationship in hopes of at least one episode of pity sex. Not that its always the case, just that it gives rise to other issues. It takes two very dumb or two very smart members of the oposite sex to really just be friends.
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Not half. I hear being away at sea for long periods can do that to a man .\nThink about it .Getting into sticky situations with nothing but your own seamen as company .\n\nA man can become more than a Friend .\n\nNah! It was probably just armless banter