How can I tell a friend i like him when i know he is talking to a lot of other women ?
407546
If he is your friend I would just have a talk with him and tell him your feelings. You need to be sure you like him and want to be more than friends first thou. You should also be prepared because he may not feel the same way. Once you tell him your feelings and he doesnt like you in the same way it could cause stress on the friendship relationship. Thats kinda how it is when someone wants a friendship to be more. It seems like this guy is some kind of player too because you say hes talking to other women. What if you go out with him, he could be dating other women behind your back. Some guys say that theyre not cheating and that they will be faithful, more than half of the time theyre lying about that. You need to think out the advantages and disadvantages before you follow through with telling your friend about your true feelings.\n\n*Good Luck*
904958
You friend needs to work on his confidence regarding how he feels about himself before he can feel confident with "the ladies". Women hate cheesy chat up lines so I think the best way to approach a woman is to have something interesting to talk about, a good sense of humour and a certain degree of courage. Of course the best way is to make friends first if at all possible which is why pulling in a pub or club is usually a bad idea if you actually want to get anything out of it. Hope you find someone.
32400
I would get a mutual friend to ask around a bit discreetly. Just get them to say something like, "hey have you ever thought about being more than just friends with so and so" and see what he says. Then based off of that you will know how to act around them. Friendships to relationships are always a very hard transition.
799147
if you guys are already good friends i would let him know you like him, even if he has a girlfriend. Hopefully he will be able to respect the way you feel about him and will share his feelings about you as well.
971093
don't tell him...get a friend too. just tell you friend to be like...." i know someone who likes you! " and when they ask who...they will be like..." (your name)"  that way...things can get rolling and in no time, you will have a new bf.  guys are pussies, and once they know a chick likes them, they will start to like yuo back and realize your awsome...which you are..cus everygirl is...\n\nsavvey?
1000820
Take an interest in those things he likes and what he talks about with his other friends and TALK TO HIM!\nBe the better friend.
469076
Well, the flirting is a good start on your part, and a good sign on his. Try and move the conversation around to his girlfriend to see is he has moved on. If not, put your arm around him or on him etc SYMPATHETICALLY. If he likes this, you can do it more often. Ask pertinant questions. Some males are wimps and like the women to be in control. If he has already done stuff like this though, its time to let him take the driving seat. Remember though, go with your heart, but you may have a better relationship if you are just friends.
40465
"How do I let a good friend know..."\n\nIf he's interested romantically, he's not a good friend but a suitor, and however you tell him or don't tell him, when he's finally convinced there's no hope, the relationship you have now will change.\n\nBy the way, if you don't like him, then you don't like him.  Don't let others tell you who you should like.  It's not them under him in that bed till death do you apart.
1158764
immediately begin giving subtle hints to send the impression that you like him that way, and start with the smallest kind of hints you can think of. gradually increase the frequency and obviousness of your hints over the next 2 - 3 months, till he either sends you a clear signal he's not interested, or allows your advances to continue into a relationship. If he reciprocates your advances with advances of his own, it is very likely that a strong bond will develop, and you can accelerate your advances.\n\nHaving said that, some people prefer that others just come right out and say it clearly and unmistakenly, but this forces a judgemental decision that often turns bad. If he asks you a direct question, such as "do you like me that way?" answer directly, truthfully and thoughtfully, making your intentions as clear as possible. He will probably respect you for your honesty, and if he is not interested in that way your friendship will flourish as a result of such honesty.
1020664
Well you need to start flirting and acting different around him. Compliment throw your arm over his shoulder when the time is right. Or you could plan this with your friends what you do is have a friend tell this guy but whichever friend whom you choose to say it has to tell him as if it where a secret he couldn't speak of she needs to tell him you like him and she needs to say something lik  "don't tell her i told you k" this way he'll think it over\n and wonder if he likes you to. but continue to act as if you didn't know your friend told him.\n\nhey if you need help i'm here email me at hitches_help@yahoo.com
944450
I know what its like . Does he treat you the same way he treats any other girl? If he does things like smile at you all the time it is a big chance theres chemistry. Send your friend undercov. again to talk to him about you then ask her what he said. You can show him that you're interested by touching his arm and laughing at jokes but dont get too personal 'cause if theres a chance he doesn't feel the same way you will be totally embarrassed
57139
Just tell him that you value his friendship and appreciate him being there for you, but at this time, you are not into being in a serious relationship.  Tell him that you need time and space to get your own thoughts together before you can start to share your life with someone else in that way.
383207
Tell him that you're interested in going out for a drink and getting to know him on a more personal level. See how he reacts. Talk about your old relationships and see how he reacts to that as well. You should be able to tell if he's feeling you. If it seems like he's shying away from the topic, it's best just to come out and tell him you have feelings for him. A lot of beating around the bush just leads to confusion. If you're straightforward with him you'll get an honest reaction. \nIt's hard to talk about these things with people we've befriended first. There is always a chance that unearthing your feelings might drive him away.. but it's much better to take the chance and get it out in the open. Make sure you think it through first. If this is the sort of fellow you can see yourself with in a forever sort of way.. and not just a skin-deep level.. then you know what you have to do. I know it sounds cliche'.. but follow your heart. You'll know what's best for you.
1073378
He may in fact find you attractive even though he may not consider you in a romantic way either.  I am friends with women to whom I am attracted but wouldn't act on it because of the friendship.  For you to try to nip this in the bud before he does or says anything would be premature.  And wouldn't it be embarrassing for you if you were wrong and assumed something was there that wasn't?
853869
Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
403155
On your next note put two check boxes on it.  Have one say friends only and one say more than just friends.  Then he will have to check one and you can figure out more.  As for your friends just ignore them, it is important to like who you like and not let others control your feelings.
294271
it doesn't matter what other people  think. Do what you're heart tells you. Tell him you like him and don't be afraid.