how do i know he is the one?
408438
If you think about him when you wake up, before you go to bed. If you dream about him. If you imagine yourself being with him. If he makes your skin tingle. If he makes you feel alive, makes you feel like you want to be a better person, makes you feel like you ache when he is not there..then my dear he is the one.
287153
you have to have faith in him. you wont know and if you think he is then ask or move on...the stress of that question in a relationship can destroy it.
647424
the one he wants to be with :)
550429
Get to know him...there's only one way to find out.
242713
There is no machine by which u can check. Just try to listen and understand him carefully. If he share his things with you, he may be sincere. but there is no hard and fast rules for this.
1083185
First and foremost you must be friends. You will know in your heart of heart who that"ONE" is.Let love find you...it has always been my experience that if you are out looking for it you will never find it. Relax and let life and love come naturally.
641876
Do you enjoy being with him? Do you two have a lot in common? Do you find yourself doing things for him you won't do for any other? Does he return the same affections? Feelings?  Is there talk of you being the one he was looking for? Then these may be clues that you have found the one you're looking for and the most you can do is see where it can lead. Good luck!
680679
You will know when he comes along, it will be the one you're not looking for.The best way to keep a relationship is to always be honest. And treat them the way you want them to treat you, with respect!
508817
Trust me you just know.  he will be the only one that makes you smile the only one to understand you.  he will do the things you love and be the things you need.
603435
Ok...Sometimes we do think someone is the "one", but as time goes by being apart, usually the feelings also grow apart as life moves on. which means, we just thought that person was the "one"... Thats how it generally works... NOW, in the rare occasion.. it works differently.. I will use myself as example. I was dating a guy for 2 years, we both said we were the "one" each other wanted to be with (no proposal tho), well I ended up breaking things off (he had been jobless a while).. He wanted back with me for a while, but i wouldnt... Time passed by, we both lived our seperate lives, but talked on the phone occasionaly (maybe 6 times in 2 yrs).. We both had our new relationships and new breakups.. After two yrs of being apart I had a bad situation happen to me, and he was the only one who came running to help me.. ANd our relationship has begun again.. we both realized there were things we both were wrong about before, and  lessons were learned in our time apart.. The only difference is, noone cheated on anyone... That can really bruise someone's ego and self esteem, and make it hard for them to trust anyone again.. before your ex would consider being with you again, he'd have to gain trust in you back.. I'd suggest to him to try out being friends , hanging out (no sex) talking on the phone, etc.. to see what can be built up between you two. If you are meant to be together, you will be.. I'm proof of that
334344
Just tell him straight out--because i'm SURE he thinks that he is the one for you too. =^)\n\nI really do. =^)
288200
Ask him and trust him or ask him and let your heart guide your way. You'll know...
1040453
You can't know for sure.Only time will tell.There is no way to be 100% sure someone loves you.You will just have to trust that it is love or leave it alone.Love is something that cannot be defined;it is something that can only be felt.I wish you all the best.
484144
Be glad and treasure this part of your relationship. Never pick a fight. Just continue to be yourself and see where this leads. He may be your one. Good luck.
141302
you don't.  you will know when its happen and there will be no doubts. you love this person for who they are not what they have, who they are or what they look like. they will love you as much and as the same.
191213
Well, what exactly does, "the right one" mean?  I say, figure out what you want in a relationship, the type of person you want to be with and the type of person you want to be with him/her and concentrate on attacting that and you will.  Many folks don't realize it but we attract what we concentrate on and if we don't consciously make a choice, then we simply get what we get.  Make a choice.  Decide what  it means to have the one and attract him/her, then, you'll know.
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He is the One: only your heart can tell you, usually there is no question. In other words, when it happens you will know.\n\nGet Married: a whole different ball game. You get married if he has his own finances, is qualified for something, doesn't have idiotic habits that will only have you gritting your teeth / dying of lonliness / frustration later...etc....etc...\n\nYou can marry someone who is *not* "the one" and still have a great marriage. But God help you if marry "the one" and he is an idiot.\n\nThis thunderbolt blitz which happens with "the right one" has absolutely *nothing* to do with the happiness or success of the marriage.\n\nMarriage is for: long-term, happiness, companionship, intellectual compatibility, financial comfort, raising children, doing things together without it having to be a big ordeal.\n\nThe Blitz: well - if the guy who gives you that feeling is suitable for marrying, go for it. If he doesn't qualify for the marriage criteria, then live with it...heaven doesn't "make" the union of 2 ppl, logistics do.