this guy is pressuring me to have sex what should i do?
415174
this is a very hard question to answer. if he's your type and well hung.  i would say no because having the best of both worlds is a little fishy and he might have put a cucumber in his briefs. If one of the above yes. If he has, bad breath, 2 inches, zits, squints or spits as he talks definitely no.
943144
yeah, break up with him. if he is gonna pressure u and put you in a sexual situation you don't wanna be in then you need to get out. and you knwo once your out you have a friend you can lean on, maybe even date!
929202
Realistically, You should MAKE him use a condom, bu if that denies him having sex with you, you should at least take steps to protect youself by using a femidom of some sort. Many are free from clinics, just  like condoms can be easily obtained. Alternatively, find someone else.\n\nIt is most definetly NOT SAFE
449651
YES!!!!  Call him but don't seem too desperate.  I guess only you two know if you gave it up easy or not.  There could be a long term potential but it has to be built on more than sex.  I say call, but don't be a stalker.  Lay the bait out ther and see if he will respond.  If he doesn't then you may want to walk away soon.  Sex confuses things.  Try to hang out one night without having sex.  That will tell you alot, because it will force him to talk.  Trust me, I've been there.. And without sex, talking is the only alternative- unless he bails, then you may have a lot of work on your hands.
657618
Back off him for a bit for starters, he's probably exhausted! No men like being badgered into more sex, the pressure sucks and doesnt make it very enjoyable. FInd out when he likes doing it, try different things, get that spark back, just try asking him what he wants/likes!
1075381
he sounds kinda sketchy.  If you like him go out, but i'd let it play out before i had sex. He might be okay, or he might be a creep.  BUt you won't know unless you go out with him.  \n\nWell, unless you can tell he's a creep already.
1067090
stay away from this guy otherwise he could force you to go alot farther then u want to, he seems like a person who would do date rape, be careful
1063292
Give him sex first ,then ask him after....
82607
you need to talk to him, because to me it seem like either you are losin interest in him or you want more than just sex from him and it seems like thats all he wants..... you need to talk to yah man gurl!good luck
60536
If your not ready to have sex with him because hes not ready to commitment then you need to sit down and tell him that.  If he doesnt understand or just wont do it then too bad for him find some else that will respect your wishes.
947330
Hello:\n\nI've been with guys who have pressured me in the past, and trust me - it's really hard to say no. But ultimately that is what you have to do. If you are not comfortable with something, that is your decision. And if your guy loves you, than he has to respect you, and that means he will wait for you. \n\nBe strong and stand up for yourself. When I am in a situation where things start to happen, there are a lot of signs and ways that I can stop something if I wanted to. The first would be being in that situation in the first place. It is possible to hang out with your guy without being in a sexual situation. Maybe you need to plan group events, I mean he's not going to try to get you in the sack when you are hanging out with 5 of your friends. \n\nI hope this helps, and good luck!
291578
tell him you have a headache.  That seems to be a tried and true formula.  Unless you're talking about your husband having sex with someone else, in which case I think you should let him have his fun.
1011864
Don't hold your breath hoping this guy is going to change.  Women have to keep thier options open.  Don't settle for this creep.  If you two are intimate, do you really want to be with him?  There are too many diseases out there to keep people like this in your life.  Ditch him.
441994
"wanna have sex with me?"
310500
maybe he needs sex, are you having sex?
863527
Definetely tell him if you aren't ready. If he pressures you when you don't feel ready, you might want to re-evaluate your relationship with him. If he's a real gentleman, he'll realize that you're worth the wait and not force you to do anything.\n\nAs for the fact that you lied, it would be a bigger deal if you had lied about being a virgin when you weren't. But, since that's not the case he shouldn't be too mad, and if he is, he is overreacting. \n\nGood job on sticking to your morals and not having sex whenever, wherever, you should be proud of yourself and don't let others eat away at your self-esteem. Doing something just because everyone else does it is rarely a good reason for anything. \n\nPeace and good luck!
1086534
This guy sounds like a jerk and yes he will use you and then dump you. If he does not love you enough to respect your wishes you need to get rid of him. I'm very proud to see someone who waits til they are married to have sex. You Go Girl!! I know it must be hard because you love him but you will find someone who respects you and your values. Don't let this man pressure you into something you don't want to do.