how can i gain my parents trust back?
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Your parents need to realize that losing your virginity is a part of life, they can't dwell on it forever. My parents don't trust me and I'm 16 and still a virgin. My mom is phyco... but anyways, just keep ya self outta trouble and do everything your parents ask you to and they'll ease up.
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parents usually get mad when their kids fail to follow rules or do what is expected of them .Parents don't tell their kids to do things just for the heck of it. They want their children to learn some responsibilty so that they can make right choices in life. Your parents are only concerned about you and your well being. they want what is best for you. Try not to lie, if you are caught doing something wrong, admit to it. It is a very mature move, believe me, and after you admit to what you did wrong, apologize. You can also talk to your parents about your goals and let them know that you need them to help you fulfill your goals.Parents like to be needed by their children, I think that is the scariest part for parents when kids grow up, the thought that their kid doesn't need them anymore.
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Best thing is to only tell people you trust, like a close friend preferrably a girl, they seem to be more understanding than a typical guy friend. I wouldnt tell your parents just yet I would hold off until it feels right, it seems to me your learning about yourself right now and you found something that interests you, and it may be something that passes and it may not so I wouldnt alarm anyone just yet. Take a deep breath and think about what it is your looking for and go for it. When the newness wears off and your sure you will always be this way, then tell your family because then you will be more confident that this is how you are and they have to accept you. I have seen alot of parents go to the extreme when finding out their child is not as perfect as they hoped, or they have different looks on thier life than their parents expected, just something to think about. Lots of luck bud...
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You love your parents right?\n\nthen do what truly is best go to the police they will protect you do not go to other family members because sometimes that can be bad..do what is best for you and your parents..it's going to be ok it really is please
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Just know that you are special and it is not your fault what they said or did. Know that God is with you and always has been, and focus on just being the best person that you can be. Be successful, and be greatful for life, also know that your parents probably didn't know any better, and forgive them, to make yourself be even better. Know that you overcame that, and can think about it and rationalize it, and get past it, knowing you are a really good person inside, who wants a good happy life. \n\nAnd when it does feel like it hurts realy bad, just thank God that he was there to help you through it and for the ability to now think positively and rationalize why you are such a good person who deserves so much. And know that you will be happy in the future and will make a positive difference in making people feel good, especially when you ever have kids, so that you can be everything to them that you never had.\nBasically:\nJust have HOPE and keep FAITH.
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ask them.  be respectful.  have trust with your parents. and most importantly dont ask to go to something you know for a fact they wont let you.
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i think that ur parents trust ur BF that's why... and good for both of u, 'coz it means that ur BF didn't waste the chance that was given to him by ur parents...
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you cant really hide much from your parents trust me.\nif you dont have anyone in mind im free
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Tell them now!!!!You had the courage to write this on the Internet ...go and confront them...!How old are you?I did a tragic mistake in my life and never told my parents....and then i was left without friends alone...i couldn't seek support from them cause they could have never trusted me again if i told them coz i lied for more than two years...tell them now!!!have courage..if you need to chat email me...,be strong this baby needs love
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I think your parents need you love, just like you need thiers, take it from there and always remember that they helped raise you and educate you the way they did, if it wasn't for thier efforts, you'ld be a lesser person than what you are today.\n\nSo when it comes to parents, I always deal on a platform of love, and sacrifice. Don't forget that most likely, they will not be around for that long.
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will you trust your parents or...your guy friend more
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Well trust is something that is not just given, it is earned. When a child has listened to the guidelines set throughout their lives, and you as a child as we all do, will make mistakes, and you admit them, you learn and grow from them..............then yes trust is a gift that you have EARNED. It is not something that is just handed over when you reach those teen years. If you have done things repeatedly that have your parent's lose trust, you must work to gain it back. Also respect your parents, even though, yes as I am a Mom, we can drive you crazy because you are wanting to be independent, do your own thing, you THINK you know all, but trust your parents, that their life experience, will help you!! As we get older, we hopefully get wiser, mature and know the world differently and can then share it with you as teens!!! So one day you too will grow into a healthy, caring, respectful, trusting adult!!!! And the circle of life continues on...............
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Got Parents ??? Use them, thats why they're there. Otherwise talk to a trusted adult. Don't rely on your friends for misinformation.
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Just be open and honest and with them and remember to be patient with them.  Even if they dont agree with you sexuality remember their still your parents and they still love you.  Here's a link to PFLAG's website, you can contact them through that and they're really goat providing support for you and your parents.\nhttp://www.pflag.org/
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try to be happy yourself.  be confident and enjoy your life.\nwhat your parents most want is your happiness
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Grow up, you have a child, your parents dont make the decisions any more.  Its hard to do, but you cant let them have an impact on your life and your choices anymore.  Just tell them, then do it.  They will forgive you.  And good luck.
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This being Thanksgiving you should be thankful for the good Parents that you have. And try for tuning in to hear the instructions they give you,correctly, even if you have to write them down and check with them,that they are correct, before leaving Then follow thorough on them.Call or be there on time.As for 1. and 2.  take your consequences gracefully, they will soon pass. And the relationship will improve as they get to trust you. The dangers are many, and their not knowing where you are is a serious issue. Your Parents love you You are welcome  Have a Happy Thanksgiving