Why is my ex still contacting me????
409062
Why are you messaging your ex boyfriend? I think you are creating drama for yourself. So wallow in it, you deserve it.
315188
NO! you need to find out why you can't let go! you sound like a stalker. move on with your life. if this person give a damn about u they will contact u when they're ready.
500699
Yeah...it sounds familiar ...I have an ex who tried the same...basically you have to set boundaries as it's not appropriate for him to visit you given his feelings and the fact that you're committed to another man. Tell him to use the phone or mail to communicate but don't expect him to go away -it's been 18 years since my ex has been doing this but as he's basically harmless I haven't really cared. The important thing is -is your ex harmless? Or is he someone who may act on his obsession? Finally I want to say -be sure you're not sending mixed signals...I've seen too many women not be clear about their wishes only to whine or press charges later when it's their fault for not being direct in the first place! Be honest with him and tell him to scram! There's my advice...I hope you take it! Edit~ I got your mail....If you hate him as you say AND HE HAS 'HURT YOU SO BAD' then why are you putting up with him then? Get a restraining order! Call the police and file a complaint and ask them to tell him to stay away! I thought maybe you still liked him on some level but since that's not the case you need to be pro active! Don't sit here on yahoo talking about it-do something about it -and I mean right now-today! Make sure you don't regret not doing anything!!!!!!!!! Everyday you let this go on-you encourage him more, and give him hope and he will become more relentless! You have been warned!
423601
He is being nosy and wants to see if you found someone else.\n\nHe also may be doing it to torment you, some guys are sick that way.  They are hoping that you will beg him to come back.
530117
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
852422
DROP HIM SWEETIE! IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME HE'S PLAYING GAMES.  IT'S OBVIOUS HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HIS EX AND I BELIEVE HE WANTS TO CUT YOU LOOSE BECAUSE HE WANTS TO TRY AND WORK THINGS OUT WITH HER.  YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT.  YOU SHOULD HAVE SOMEONE WHO IS DEDICATED TO YOU AND YOU ONLY.
947588
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.
666915
Think about all the reasons why he's your ex...after all that thought and consideration, you'll realize he's your ex for a reason...Move on!
388439
Without you giving the whole story I can only take a shot at this one...If you broke up with him and he is still texting you, then he is in denial. He must still have feelings for you and thinks that there is still a good chance that you will want him back. When it actually starts to hit him, that you have moved on, then he may start to get more intense with these types of intrusions...just be aware that some guys get a bit nuts in this situation and that it sounds like that could be starting...he will either just give up or kick it up a notch...Now, if he was the one that broke it off...he is just trying to lay the groundwork for getting you back...But from the way you wrote your question that doesn't really seem to be the case. I just thought I would throw that in there too.\n\nNow you added details...So I guess that I was right in throwing that last little bit. So here is what you aught to do...You should act a little pissed off that he is still "bothering" you and that you just want to be left alone in order to move on. Tell him that it was hard enough when he broke it off, but now you just need some space to set yourself right and move on and with these constant reminders, you can't do so...If he is really wanting you back (and seems to me that he does), this will put the ball back into play. He should then go from there and say that he just can't stop thinking of you and really wants you back...If that is the case, and you end up taking him back, then you really need to get down to the bottom of why he broke it off in the first place. There is obviously something that you two didn't get out in the open earlier and if it doesn't get out there, then you guys would be doomed from the start of this new start...
1083590
Nope.  You were broken up - which means you weren't together - which means that you were both technically single.  Maybe he/she was talking to a friend or relative - or maybe he/she was just lonely.  Phone calls on a phone bill don't mean anything - especially if you weren't together in the first place.
193651
You know if it's emotional cheating or not...are you looking forward to talking to your ex?  It could be an indication theres an issue with your current relationship....
590243
Obviously hes not thinking about you if there is no way to get a hold of him; why are you wasting your days thinking about someone who wasnt even considerate enough to contact you.
724428
Can't you just block him?? so he can't send you messeges. Don't send him any messeges ok? the person like him , can turn into murder or abuser. Stay away from him, and make sure change ur cell phone number and stuff. You are not cheat girl, you were just dancing witha guy right? I don't know maybe he might contact you again, but don't send any messeges or respond to him, because it'll only make him happy. Try not to see him. Thats all I can tell you. If it get any worse, you should go to the police or something.
945950
Do you really want to break up with him? Or are you pissed with him and want to teachhim a lesson? If you have no intention of getting back with him, block his calls. If he keeps on annoying you tell your parents to tell his parents, jilted exes turn into stalkers so very easily ...I know
278965
Why do you want to call my ex?
26620
stop stalking this person.  if they changed their cell phone and did not tell you, then they did not want you to have their new contact information.  get a clue - this is a not-so-subtle message saying "leave me alone".
786863
If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!