Should i make it or break it with him?
399678
neither work out a comprimise if you really love this man you need to order him to go see his daughter or else it will keep coming back on you don't leave him it just doesn't make since
637688
to make it worth while for the both of you.....you should wait until he's totally ready. it's no use if you force hm into it. it'll only push him farther away from what you want
74109
See how resistent he is when you put in on strong! Get into an environment outside what he is used to. Then simply give it to him straight. You have felt like this for a while, and pretty much feel the one you are right in front of is the one you should be with. Usually what is meant to be is right there in front of you. Take it or leave it but if he leaves it he will regret it, you will move on. \nYou should do it asap, then write the ending, Good Luck & remeber all is fair in love & war.
65502
It sounds like if he's truly understood that you're gonna break it off with him and yet he still hasn't changed his attitude, then he's probably wanting you to break it off. Maybe it's one of the whole, "I don't want to do it so I'll MAKE her do it" type things. Give him this last chance, try to go out and do something that both of you enjoy without the distraction of friends and family. Let him know that it really does bug you when he acts this way. If he still seems like he wants to hang on and will change, you decide, you go for it or maybe you've had enough. But if he's STILL acting that way by the end of the "date" call it quits. Move on to a guy who'll treat ya better! Good luck girl!
217880
If you and he have real feelings, wait until the timing is right. Good things are worth waiting for. And if neither of you can wait, then it isn't meant to be.
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
778078
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
1149228
Hey gurl!\nwell if u like the guy and belive things will work, then i suggest u stay together!!\nface problems as they come...\nthis relationship might have more to offer than u may think....so why end it before it starts?\nJean
645044
be brutially honest with him.better to break his heart than to make yourself miserable by staying with him.
184859
where there is doubt it's best not to proceed any further.Once there's a "but" then you should know he's not meant for you. you should pause and think if that "but" is something that can easily be solved, if yes then fine you can go ahead. If not then it's better you go your separate ways. All the best.
274940
Well, I think you should ask for his opinion. Just carry on for a lil while, and if you both find that you cannot bear the circumstance any longer then maybe breaking up is good for both of you. At least you don't have to worry too much about meeting each other and the distance either.\nBut if you two (esp. him) feel that you can still carry on, and that the love is true and strong enough to help you overcome this obstacle, then just stand beside him and fight for it. Happiness just worths its name if it is gained from challenges and hardship. Nothing valuable is easy to get my dear : )\n\nStand firm, and if you two have the same idea, then just go with it, whatever it might be...
179511
Do what your heart leads you to do. If we push something and it is unnatural it is not meant to be or work out. If he feels as you weekends will work, the relationship will grow and arrangments in the future will blossom. Do not leap walk slow........this is your opportunity
167484
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
555840
If he knows that you want to work it out and you haven't heard from him, then just let him be and if he wants to reconcile, then it's in his court. You can't force him to feel a certain way. Meanwhile, focus on building other relationships in your life.
526306
break it off and find someone new
425847
you just gotta tell him, trust me. it might not ave worked b4, but theres nuffin 2 say that its not gonna work now. go 4 it,  ull regret it later if u dont. wot ave u got to lose??
308311
Go with the flow. If there is a possibility that you can get together on a permanent basis than great. If he/she is not going to leave there mate then you need to break it off and move on. Life's too short to cause yourself so much grief.