Opinions Needed Here:  Going on Vacation with BF & his little girl for 10 days?
414745
If you really love your bf and you are willing to make the effort to make this relationship work, I would suggest that you go on holiday with them.  Get to know him and his little girl and spend time with them, you would be able to see if he is truly the man for you.  I always thought that long distance relationships never work, until I found myself in the same position.  If you feel that you are going crazy and that your loosing your patience, go for a walk on your own and cool down.  You and only you can decide whether you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy or not.
370462
Are you sure the friends thing isn't an option? Many parents take turns taking all the kids for a play day at the park or a home..... for just a few hours so that the other parents can get a break. Then the other parents take turns on other days. That way everyone gets a little bit of free time for one day of the vacation. Bring it up....some may be feeling the same way that you do. Otherwise ask the local high school for a reliable teen that would be a good baby sitter. Stay at your home with her, first few times...then when you know whether or not the person is a good sitter........go away for a few short hours.
1179526
I would like to have a day spent together.  Maybe just an evening.  Your time, maybe bring some old pictures and talk about when you were a little girls.  \n\nHe can even BUY dinner... but... his time, with his girl... will mean so much to him.\n\nThat would be a great present.
743073
if your bf is in the military he will proble move many times over the next few years and some of them will be out of the country..does your daughter have a good realionship with her dad.. if so i dont think i would up root her at such a young age.. i know easy for me to say i am not in your shoes.. not back to your question you could consult a lawyer on this and he can give you a more reasonable course of action to take and if it will work and what your chances are .. you may also try to talk to your ex tell him you will give him all of the summer with her as well as any time she out of school for the long term hoildays, spring break, xmas, thankgiving, to make up for the time he will be missing
491082
I would give her some luggage with a little note:  "Now that you have your wings, celebrate with flight."  If you have the money, perhaps you could get a deal on a ticket somewhere where she could go for a short vacation.  You could go, too!!\n\nBest wishes for both of you!!\n\nCosmicKelly :)
878483
Spend a week on a deserted island with my husband...no cell phones...no pagers...no children (I love my kids), but we never have alone time and we absolutely adore each other. We have been married 10 years and we have never had a honeymoon. He is a railroader and gone alot, I think he is one of the most sexy men alive and I would love to spend that time with only him!
785160
No, technically you're almost an adult!  Vacations are supposed to be fun, so just go and have a good time and don't get too stressed about it beforehand!
548284
Let him know this will be the challenge of how strong your relationship is, and that you think it is no problem!  \n\nOn the other hand, I lived in Europe for 7 years, it is WAY too fun and will be hard not to have "too good of a time".\n\nStay away from Majorca Spain!!!
151573
keep all of the stuff that you bought and reserve the cabin who says that you only have to celebrate your lvoe one day a year. so it next weekend. be different. do somthing that he wants this weekend and then do somthing that you want next weekend. have a good valentines day i hope that  you both enjoy it. just don't get married in vegas
463642
Maybe she gave the guy a ride out of the goodness of her heart.  If you explained to her that it really bothers you and she ignores your request to stop it she is either being stubborn (he's not going to tell ME what to do) or she does not value your feelings on the matter.  When SHE said "let's take some time off" she could have been just trying to get back at you for making the suggestion in the first place.  At the very worst you've got yourself one of those girls who enjoys stirring things up to make the relationship a little more edgy and thrilling like it is in the very beginning when you're in the "does he/she like me or not stage????".  Have you ever seen the movie "Play Misty for Me?"  Extreme case.  They like to pull back to "show you what you might lose", then they panic and try to reel you back in very fast so you won't really try to get away.  Your idea af a break is a REAL GOOD one.  But set an actual time like a week or 10 days and agree NO CONTACT.  Tell her that you will not only NOT answer her calls and texts you will not even listen to or read them.  Assure her that you will not use this time to cruise for other girls.  That's not the idea.  The idea is to see how much you miss THIS one.  No cheating!  Good luck.
851904
You need to spend a day away from eachother. . .Send him off doing something he loves and then doll yourself up girl for when he gets home it's tim efor a little seduction ( ; \n\nUse that Extra lb to ride it harder than ever before ( ; He'll love it girl ( ; \n\nI hate to be blunt but, truly it will be good for both of you to do that ( ;
1085700
arrange a vacation where you go to cali to see her once a yr. she will have to do the same and see you once a year. but distance doesn't really seperate you guys, it just brings you guys closer together. what i said about the vacatino was onli a suggestion. but you guys really hav to find a way to meet each other. good luck
23329
go on a "vacation" or a real vacation
606834
spend time with my boyfriend.
1007909
I didn't see your first question, but based on this I'd say that you both need to see a counselor.  You obviously feel unappreciated and she'd probably say the same.  Also, when was the last time you two took a vacation alone, for more than a weekend?
777541
A baby is going to change your whooollleee life. You can't go on holidays anymore like you used to, can't decide to go on a date on a boring Saturday night and it's just too much to mention. Ask the people who are calling you stupid to go produce their own and quit bugging you. It's easy to sit on a pedestal and judge others. Not ready, not willing..whatever it is, no hurry! And he won't be waiting for you...you'll both be living your lives and loving each other still.
617893
Maby if the weather is nice you can suprize her with a nice pinic lunch out side just the two of yous.Light some candles and make it real romantic. I know my girl friend did that once for me and I can still rember it like as if it was yeasterday. We went down to the lake. Had a radio playing soft music. It was perfect. I couldn't of asked for anything better.