Should I stop being friends with the girl just because my girl doesn't want me to be friends with her?
399057
First ask yourself these question? Did you know her before you knew your girlfriend? Is her friendship worth your relationship with your girlfriend? If you say yeas to both of these question then you should still be friends with her. If that friends doesn't do for you or you can't trust them and call them a real good friend then let them go.
743520
you should stop being greedy.  if you got one girl that you love, stay with her and  stop thinking of her friend.
847140
i think it is better if you donot say anything about her when you are with other friends who doesnot like her... donot try to convince others that she is good girl or anything to defend her in front of others.. everyone has a right to form their own opinion whatsoever may be the reason..\n\n you can hang out with both i think so far as you donot try to merge all of them together...\n\nWhy cannot you have more friends, u tell your frinends that yu want to be with them and spent time with them.. if they are your real friends i don't think they will try to impose or stop you ,so far you donot impose your opinion on them,,,
291405
You are being a bad friend or not a friend at all. If u dont like her why waste your time playing games with her... You and your friends are being cowards
494084
Its not a bad thing to just be friends with your lover, if you are not comfortable with being just friends; then I guess you should leave her alone. If she only wants to be friends, then that is a sign she doesnt love you like you had thought she did.\n\nThere was a guy I dated in high school, unfortunately he broke it off. But I think that we were better off as friends than a couple. I used to get so depressed whenever I seen him with another girl though. Took me sometime to cope. But then time went by n i didnt care anymore. Poor guy still loves me..
475831
It's a tough one.  But, from a female perspective...don't change your attitude towards her.  Most guys would start acting like a jerk towards her because they're hurt and can't handle the uncomfortable situation that they are now in as her friend.  I think you should just blow it off, don't make a big deal about it.  Act like she was the girl of yesterday, and a friend of today.  She could have been telling the truth or just making up an excuse because she's just not interested or ready for a relationship at the time.  If you show her that our friendship comes first she just may "see the light" and come around.  Or maybe not, and if so, don't sweat it so much-at least you'll still have the friendship, and hope for something more as long as you want a chance.
714644
in no way are you obsessing over this girl NO WAY your just trying to treat her with respect and ther is no sahme in doing that!!! if you like her then you have the right to tell your friends to cut out the bad mouthing. its not obsessive ..its doing the right thing :)
810436
if she makes you uncomfortable let her know. if you've done that and it still happens, maybe its time to walk away from the friendship. if she doesn't respect you enough to respect the fact that you aren't interested its prolly not worth saving in the first place.
489082
well its depends on yr feelings honey.... if u want to go as a friend with her that would be a great but after that u have to control yrself u can not just go with her as a boyfriend anymore and u have to also know that u r not going to love her if u really decide that u want a friendship with her coz if u do that u will be hurt so if u really decided to go as a friend with her please do that... but dont try to find a girlfriend in her as a friend ok
280936
if u dont want a friend anymore thn plz tell her directly..... dont hurt her from ur any sort of rude behavior..... remember its always good whn any relationship ends peacefully....... u took her as ur frd once so just be direct n tell her wht u feel...
270506
okay, the only way to get past this is to let your friend be friends with them... let's be honest if you completely make your only friend stay away from them she may end up disliking you for making her pick sides.
399294
You have a choice here.  You can remain friend with her because you are bored or you can do the more positive thing and seek out other people to hang with and slowly terminate your frienship with her.\n\nBeing friend with someone just because you are bored is no friendship at all.  You make your own destiny.  If you want to hang with other people, then start getting involved in extra curricular activies.  You will inevitably find people who have common intersts there.
956487
no, cuz if she rejects u, shes gotta say, i think were better off being friends,\nanyways, anyone you out with has to be a friend sometime before beign ur girlfriend
485531
I've gone through this too, and unfortunately I handled it the wrong way, by ignoring the person. Leave your pride behind and tell this girl that she is moving too fast and tell her that you want to keep it at a friend level for now. If she can't except that, oh well.
942421
You guys need to grow up, if he is going out with her then don't bother them.  But you can still be friends with her.
780928
Girls (and guys for that matter) do not always take subtle hints very well.  Although it is easier said then done you need to tell her how you feel.  If you are tired of lying to her by making bullshit excuses then I feel that you might still have a chance as a good person.  You need to be honest (not to be confused with hurtful) and tell her that you do not want to hang out with her every weekend, and tell her why.  You are friends and only that, you should more then likely apologize if you have done anything unintentionally to lead her on.  Life isn't always easy or fair.  If you want to continue to hang out with her let her know that.  But don't be unclear in your intentions.  Best of luck to you.
465189
because if your best friends and people talk about and your \nfriends  talkm about you and sometimes thoy want to be their friends and they stik with them them ....... i know how it fells but you have to deal with it try to tell them if your other friends do it then if you want me to be your friend then tell her to tell her oter friends to stop talkin about her or elsewe just cant be fruiends anymore if your goin to be that way and get away foom me