Questions about lesbians not to offend. Just curious:?
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Here's how it was explained to me: because a woman, regardless of how butch she may be, is NOT a man. Perhaps dating a "stone butch" is a way of experiencing a certain amount of so-called "masculine" energy without having to stoop to dating an actual man. It's not the masculine energy that's the problem here, it's the man himself. Lesbians want to date women. There is such a wide range of women, from the "lipstick lesbian" types who are into "feminine" sorts of things all the way to the stone butches...there is a type of woman for everyone. Do all men want to date the same sort of woman? Of course not. Then why should women date "girly" women only, especially when that very "girliness" is largely believed to be a patriarchal concept? Please realize that the very idea of "femininity" is often dictated and perpetuated by men. Some women, like the butches, want to shatter that worn-out stereotype, and there are women who love them for it.
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lol.\nJust last night my brother ran into a high school friend and she mentioned that people assume she is a lesbian, even though she has a boyfriend and a child.\n\nWhy?\n\nShe has short cropped hair and her lip pierced.\n\nShe is very pretty, but it goes to show, stereotypes are just that, stereotypes!\n\nThere's very pretty lesbians and then there's the ones that look butch. But then again, there's very pretty straight girls and very tomboy straight girls.
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Well, I havent ever heard that before.  I wear a thumb ring and I am straight... and quite frankly, I would continue to wear one even if they have been deemed "lesbian."  What difference does it make anyway?
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I think all women are a lil bi-curious i could be wrong... I am bi-curious but don't have the guts to go all the way... The only porn that turns me on is lesbian porn... Ask her about it.
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I resent your implication that lesbians are not "normal" girls. \n\nHowever, to answer your question, a certain level of attraction or appreciation for other women is entirely commonplace in heterosexual women.
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I'm from Houston! but I'm not a lesbian lol, seriously though go to univision.com and go to chat and u'll find all this different chatrooms choose either LESBIANAS OR DE MUJER A MUJER!  and then from there u know what the deal is....GOOD LUCK!
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ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRG! I am so unbelievably sick of this question. I think I'm going to stop answering it pretty soon. Alright, look, someone I knew who worked at a mental health facility took care of someone who believed that lesbians were trying to take over his mind through electrical outlets. Can you prove that they weren't? No you cannot. Things that don't exist don't leave any "proof" to be had, because THEY DON'T EXIST. Does that make them true? Certainly not. I don't need any proof to tell me that no lesbians were trying to take over his mind through electrical outlets, do you?
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I've always wondered that too! If d i l d o s and strap-ons are turn-ons for lesbians, then wouldn't a real d i c k be even MORE appealing to them? This really confuses me!!!
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I walk away for 5 minutes and this is what happens to you?   Good god, woman!   Get a hold of yourself!\n\nActually, I cannot come up with any explanation other than "because you are not a lesbian"?
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I'm a lesbian, yes, but I don't get your question?
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Do they have to be lesbians?  Because most lesbians are, indeed, as you say, 'pretty well over the male body'.  Not to say that there aren't lesbians who sleep with men- I know there's a whole queer renaissance of kinky lesbians and gay men who love to get it on together and call it gay sex (because they're both gay)- but it's a small niche.\n\nIf it's not the fact that they're lesbians, but just that 'lesbian look' (boyish but pretty), so to speak, well, there are a lot of bisexual girls of that nature, and straight ones, too.  I bet you could find yourself one.  Good luck!
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Well, I am a Lesbian.  I knew that I was a Lesbian when I felt much more comfortable and nourished by women.  I had these feelings along with sexual ideology.  \n\nWhen I "tried out" having sex with a woman, I KNEW RIGHT AWAY. It felt good and it felt right. \n\nDon't fight the feelings that you have.  Be yourself and BE HAPPY.\n\nI even divorced my ex-husband after 12.5 years of marriage; including 2 children. \n\nEmail me anytime to talk.
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haha, lol, funny.\nive got some for u now....\nwhat do u call a gay dinosaur??\nA Mega-sore-assss, lol\nwhat do u call a lesbian driving a truck full of dildos?\nDick Van Dyke, lol\nwhat's a lesbian's favorite icecream?\nA Klon-"dyke"-Bar.\n-Dee
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Maybe you could find it more easily by search for 'lesbian' groups on the Yahoo! groups page. Just be sure to keep it clean, because Yahoo! will close out all groups which don't abide by their terms of service.
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I am a lesbian. I date girls that look like me and the ones that you are describing. I see that you are naive so I will make this as easy as possible for you to understand....no matter what she looks like she still acts like a girl. Even if she walks and talks like a guy once you get in a relationship all the womanly traits come out such as sensitivity..prime example. Lesbians aren't lesbians just because they like the look of other girls. It's more of a connection thing.
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I'M A LESBIAN....GO US......
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Your question all boils down to trying to come up with a precise definition for what makes you a lesbian, and I'm not sure what the point of that exercise is, especially when people aren't going to agree. It isn't like you need to register as a lesbian (or not), or get an official lesbian ID card (or not), so I'd think how you feel and act is much more important than what name you do or don't stick on it.