If i am friends with a girl and i ask her "do you have a bf?," does this automatically seem like i'm 'interest
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I'm afraid it will raise some questions in her mind about you being interested. Are you? Why would you want to know?\nIf she doesn't want to be more than friends she can always say yea she has a bf or just broke up with him or whatever. I guess that question is a good way to test the waters. If she says "nooo, whyyyy?" then you got her  sweetie.
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Even if I'm not interested in going out with the girl, I'm still extremely complimented by her asking. Do women feel the same way... or are they generally just annoyed that someone they're not interested in is bothering them??
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She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!
771866
Ok, you wait for that time when she is by herself, so you and her are not distracted or embarassed by others noticing the potential "hook-up", and you say to her: "Hey, I have been noticing you, Id like to get to know you better as a person, could we get together sometime and get to know eachother ? If you have a BF, than I would never disrespect that, but if you dont, I'd  like to meet, hang out and get to know you. I love a pretty face, and more importantly I always have room for a good friend". Makes you sound classy, not desperate, and that you VALUE her as a person before a potential love bunny ! Women like the man who is in to HER, not her jeans, although there is no doubt in my mind that you have already noticed that ! Dont be like all the other skanks if you really really want to know her, LEAD her to you, dont push her away by letting her think she is only bootie material. She is a young woman, she will know the difference, dont give her all the bullshit others have said to her. Be unique and catch her attention, by the way you speak, move, body language !
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Does she like you? as a friend or whatever?
912687
I'd guess she thinks you're a sweet guy and actually does like you.  If you're interested in her, there's no harm in asking her on a date.  Just be sure she realizes its a date and not friends hanging out.
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The first question you need to ask yourself is, "how much do I value my friend?" Whether he is interested in her or not, if you make a move it could be percieved as sneeky and underhanded.
472129
Ooh. That really sounds like she likes you. :)\n\nYou should call her. If you say GREAT FRIEND, it may be a let down if she DOES like you. Friend without boy / girl infront of it kind of says that you aren't interested in her in that way.\n\nYou can, however, say that she's made an impact in your life and you're glad to have met her. Something like that. :D Good luck!
168505
if when u talk to her she acts differently than with other guys\n\ni would no\n\ni am a chick\n\nlol\n\nand i told the guy i liked tht i liked him and he asked me out the next day fyi
287249
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
702451
I would say she likes your friend. Sorry mate. Mind you, I could be wrong.
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It develops over time.  Often friends do become more.  My advice would be to treat her well, be considerate, take her to nice places, invite her to your place to get a better sense of your personality and lifestyle.  \n\nIn any relationship you must be yourself, because your true colors come out in the end--always.  So, don't try to be something you aren't.  \n\nAlso, I think you must ask yourself the opposite question.  What would make you want to be her boyfriend????\n\nDon't act desperate or crude.  Believe me I have had several guy friends who wanted more and they blew it by being obvious and telling me over and over why I should not be dating the person I was with and why I should date them.  It was flattering at first in a way, but it made me feel icky as well, not to mention it was a nice way of putting me down.  \n\nIt's not how you get her to like you.  Why does she like you now.  Is there hope?  Does she seem interested or totally abliss.  If there is a connection you will know it by how she acts around you, if she feels the same way...If you do not get the same signals, then do not pursue it.  However, if you think there is some chemistry, maybe mention your feelings to her close friend and see what they think.  Also sending flowers for no reason will get the point across.  \n\nRemember too, that it is better to have a friend than to risk losing one to an unsure relationship. Is it worth it??
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Ask the other person, "are you in a relationship" after they answer either wait for them to ask you or say "Oh really? I'm not" or "I'm single as a pringle baby!"
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I would wait and find out if she really does care for you, before doing anything.\nif she loves and cares about you she will wait for you to decide about these feelings that you are having. since you did say she had a boyfriend, please make sure that she is not just using you to make him jealous. WAIT on this and sort your feelings out.  and if they aree your true true friends, they'll accept this choice you have made. if not then they weren't truely ur friends...Goodluck
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It means she's comfortable enough with you that she can flirt (lean over your shoulder, get you to put your arm around her, whatever) without worrying that you're going to rape her or something.  I have a bf and we've been together for over a year and a half, but I still have guy friends I love to flirt with because I know it's not serious and they like the attention.  If she really has feelings for you, she'll eventually get annoyed enough at your seemingly not picking up on it to just tell you point blank.
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It's hard to say when you don't give more information about what he's like or how she's approaching him BUT if she is a good friend and she knows you and what you want in a man then she will only set you up with a guy that is compatible with you and who'll say yes to her proposition. I'm sure she knows what she's doing! So of course he'll say yes.\nNeither you nor him have anything to lose only to gain in this situation!
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If a girl takes the time to say she likes a guy...TO the guy, then us guys assume that it is something more than just as a friend. \n\nThen again, there is usually only one thing coming to mind when a girl does this...lol