how does a man get good looks? he's handsome and tall  but i think needs the flesh,he eats well?
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I will say if you want to be muscular type involve yourself in physical exercise that will transform your physical outlook,with your two qualities above they will come rushing for you.\nAnother way is as simple as you waking up from sleep, it goes like this: take a very good care of  yourself,say no evil,hear no evil,and treat every individual equal.
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I like a chiseled face with good bone structure. Cut but not bulked up, you know, so I can see all the muscles. I like blond but any other may be ok, depends. Not tooo tall but not short. Maybe 5'7" to 5'10. Probably blue or green eyes but brown is ok.. NO body fat. He also has to be kind and strong.And he should be a funny guy. Good sence of humor.
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I'm going to answer this as if it is a real, well-intentioned (but badly worded) question.  \n\nIt depends on his issue.  Western standards of beauty do follow certain rules, and if we as a society can agree that some people are 'beautiful' then the reverse must be true and some people are therefore 'ugly.'\n\nFirst of all, work with what ya got, and only try to change him if he wants your help changing.  Otherwise, stay or go, but leave him alone.\n\nA few ideas:\n\nIf his eyebrows are a scraggly mess, then trim them a bit with a beard trimmer and pluck off some of the random ones to shape a little (but not a lot...no one wants their boyfriend to look like Joan Crawford.  I hope).\n\nGet him a haircut.  Sometimes changing a hair style makes a radical difference in someone's overall look.  New eyewear does the same thing.\n\nIf he's out of shape, try walking with him.  It's good quality time you can spend together, and you get more in shape without even trying.\n\nTell him you have a surprise for him and give him a "makeover"...he'll think you're being sweet and silly.  But if you start with "dude, you're UGLY...let's fix that,"  well...you're likely to meet some resistance.\n\nAnd if all that fails, find him a new girlfriend who will accept him for what he is.
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His eyes and his smile/teeth and lips. I generally like a guy who can look after his general appearance and not look scruffy all the time. A guy who looks good is a guy who takes pride in himself. Other than that I love guys who can teach me something worthwile. Empty vessles never get far with me. There have been some instances where the guy didn't have a nice smile or beautiful eyes but I found myself attracted to him because of his intelligence. A guy who can't take a stand and is too much of a coward to debate with me is not worth my time. It's good to have an opinion about something (even if the opinion is biased or narrow minded, that is how we learn from each other.)
28555
If you like him, he must be worth it. Remember, most of us are going to end up not that attractive looking eventually. So if he's a good guy, go for it. The inner qualities will last much longer than outward appearances.
235465
Maybe you seem to come off as too perinoid. Maybe if you stop being so concerned with the way you look then you might be able to get a guy alittle faster. Hell, be yourself.
64085
He approves of your look... since he couldn't possibly know you since he hasn't spoke to you... take it as a compliment, but don't let it go to your head. He was a flight of the moment. \n\nYou are obviously a very attractive person, and you will encounter this many more times, keep your wits about you and weed out those superficial people that are just around you for the looks.
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If you're underweight, and your bones stick out, try gaining some weight. Lots of women love to have a guy with a little meat on his bones. Don't dress like a nerd either. Don't get overweight, just average.
11762
Is looks the only important thing?  I know a lot of people who are not the prettiest / most handsome, but are great people.  Think about what is important to you, then make your decision. If you dump him, be honest why.
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You look fine for your age to me.  \n\nHaving said that, don't rely on what I or anyone else thinks...looks aren't everything and even those who are physically "perfect" (which is very subjective) need to have more than that to back it up.  \n\nWorry about becoming a person of substance with a good education who treats other people as well as she would like to be treated.  Be kind, generous and compassionate.  Be independant and strong.  Have opinions, but respect those of others as well.  Be your own unique, special, wonderful self and don't take what anybody else says at face value.  Question everything and always search for your own truth.
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"Looks" as a whole dont matter but there has to be something to attract someone. I dated a guy that wasnt that attractive BUT he had a beautiful smile and that was all it took.
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it's hard doing that. \ncoz most guys just goes for the "great looks & no brain" look with girls......lol\nif he doesnt see you for the great person you are, he is not worthy of you.
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It sounds like he was just paying you a compliment. Try not to read into things too much.\nA real man would look for intelligence, sense of humor, strength of character, understanding, confidence, social skills, morals, strong ethics and the guts to stick to them, sensiblity, a certain sense of vulnerability, sincerety, appearance (dress, hygiene), compatibilty, humility and sensuality.
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he is gorgeous, handsome, great body!!!
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Confidence! My husband isn't considered handsome i found him attractive becuase he wasn't scared to talk to me. He was bold and confident without being arrogent. It's all in how you walk stand and talk.\nAnd being CLEAN no girl wants to date greasy headed guys with BO!
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Well I would love to say that looks aren't an issue. In this day and age it is! There is too much importance put on looking like the perfect model or the perfect man. The money issue of it may not be as important. You can be happy with a poor man as long as you love one another whether he was extremely handsome or just so so. This is a kind of catch 22 question. \n\nMy personal feeling is if I met a poor man and we were attracted to one another I would definitely go for it, with him being handsome as a "plus". If I met a man who made a good living and he was a bit conceited or his personality just wasn't what it should be I would definitely not pursue that one, no matter how "cute" he was or kinda cute he was. As they say, money does not always bring you happiness!
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Find 1000 guys, and you will get 1000 answers.  Take care of yourself, be positive and enjoy a sense of humor, and enjoy your life.  No matter what you "look" like, these things will do a lot to make you much more attractive to many men.  Don't be concerned about how to change yourself to look a way you think men will find attractive.  Just be yourself, and be comfortable being yourself.  Look around... there are so many men in the world, you don't need to try to impress the "most" of them.  You just need to impress yourself, and a man who is attracted to that is surely to come along.