My wife asked me last night if we could have a threesome?
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I can understand whrer you are coming from.  My wife and I did it beore we got hitched but we made the decision not to do it again after we were married.\n\nIf you take your vows at church under the witness of God then you shouldnt do it.
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DO IT MAN! DO IT!!!!!! YOU'LL BE HAPPY, YOUR WIFE WILL BE HAPPY, AND THE BOSS WILL TOO. EVERYBODY WINS. HAVING SEX WITH TWO CHICKS ARE AMAZING.
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I would ask that about the wife to be honest with you
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why dont you and your wife do threesomes? that way you are both involved. it might strengthen your marriage. \nif you dont want to strengthen it and want to be with others alone...why do you even want to be married???
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bring in another partner..3some
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Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.
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I think you should talk to a marriage counselor or psychiatrist before you talk to the third party.\n\nWhat is missing from your life or your wife's life or your marriage that a third party would fill?  Are you bored with each other and won't admit it?  Does your wife want to explore unsettled gender identity issues?  If so, there are ways to do that without dragging a third party into a potentially hurtful situation and potentially destabilizing your marriage.  \n\nI'm not trying to defend conventional morality for the sake of defending my own moral standards, I'm just suggesting you might be papering over or distracting yourselves from issues that should be addressed directly.  I also question the ethics of using someone for an experiment like this.  I know you're not coercing the woman, but are you sure you're not messing with her head?
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Why dont you just ASK her to have a threesome or ask her what she thinks about a threesome? It's wrong if you have to be sneaky about. If all three are game, then not wrong at all. Don't worry about what others think about your morals. They are not you and don't live your life, but in order not to lose a friend, I would suggest just being up front about it.
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Hey, as long as you guys are communicating openly and honestly about it, and you are both comfortable with the situation, then go for it.  Nothing wrong with it at all.  Just make sure that you both talk over everything and that you still both trust and respect each other when it is done.  Set up boundaries and rules before hand and let him know a head of time what is on and off limits so there are no awkward situations.  If this is your first time, map out the way the night is going to go with the third person from start to finish.  Who is going to do what, touch what, where at, what position and so on so that nothing is in the way and no one is left out.  Tell him what you want out of this and have him tell you what he wants out of this. Maybe even talking about what you are planning on doing will lead to some hot discussions and lead to a great night of sex before you ever even invite someone into the bedroom!   Good luck with this!   Love, Angela
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First and foremost, have you both been tested for sexually transmitted diseases?  Especially concerning her previous behavior.  That is not exactly monogamous sex.  How does she know you want her to act more adventurous if you do not tell her.  Was lack of communication part of the reason for your separation?  I suggest marriage counseling as well.
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It's a good question Helen. My wife and I are doing more sexually than ever before! Alot of it would depend on how much BOTH of you enjoy this new act! If you both enjoy it, you may want to take it another step. If one person wasn't so happy about it, I would sit down together and talk about it. Maybe you could try it one more time or maybe that is as far as it should go and not try it again!\nWe have done quite a few things, if you want to e-mail me I may be able to give you some more help.\nEither way, good luck!
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Start asking your girl how she feels about women in a sexual way. See if you can get her to admit that she's attracted to women a little bit, and start talking about fantasies. It'll be alot more fun for you and her if you're both into the third, as opposed to it being just you wanting to see two naked women. If you have a specific girl in mind for the third it may actually TAKE more time because then you have to convince two women to share one man; not an easy task unless they're both bisexual. If you don't know of anyone specific, you may actually need to troll a gay club, or a club that has a gay-themed night, to find a girl that's willing. \n\nAnother option is to explore the swingers websites according to where you live, but iI think most of these cost a few dollars for full access.
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HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont
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According to my wife: Yes.
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Take a break. You've been betrayed. \nGo away for a little while, maybe, but this one is going to take some time, if ever.\nStop imagining that she was having sex like she does with you.\nDon't do that to yourself, because I guarantee it wasn't. Only the two of you have sex like the two of you.\nCan you handle the answer if you ask her to give you a blow- by-blow description of the night? A sort of "putting yourself in her shoes" for the night?\nIt's risky, but if you can listen, It just may benefit you so you can be angry, and then move on either way.\nShe should be ashamed of herself, and getting angry at her once and blasting her does not relieve her of the tremendous weight she's put on you.\nYou may never be able to trust her again. That sucks for you, because you had no part in it, and want things the way they were.\nWas there a problem that wasn't being addressed before this night?\nDoes anyone have their head buried in the sand??\nYou may need to take this time to get right into each others brains and decided what each of you REALLY wants out of life.\nPlease don't make the same mistake she did. You'll hate yourself.\nI can say that it is not the worst thing that can happen, but it is way up there.\nShe betrayed you, plain and simple. maybe she should live without you for a while and the two of you can really see where you're at. get yourself some legal assistance so you don't lose touch with your child.
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Sounds like fun. You sound like someone who really tries to think outside the box. Good luck and I hope she enjoys it.
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Funny you ask this, someone else asked me the same thing today.\nI guess I didn't but in my defense, my husband and I switched sides of the bed last night.  He said he liked my side better.  I'm not too sure about this.  I'll give it another shot tonight.  Ask me again tomorrow.