I want to have to much friend at the same time, but people push me to be with them only?what to do?
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Just consol the people that ur frienship will not change for them if u will have many friends .\nbut also be aware of fake friends who can cheat U but don't let honest friends go. because if new is silver old is gold.
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Hey, I think I can appreciate your answer but try following what I have been doing and I guess most of the people are happy with me.\n1. Remember you can not make every one happy all the times, Moral: Make some people happy some times, just prioritize your selves and your time.\n2. Put all focus to the people with whom you are: dont think about ur BF when u r with friend and vice versa.
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If you want a friend, a true friend, all you need to do is be yourself. Spend time with them. Show them you care about them, about everything that is related to them. With time, they would start reciprocating your friendship. Good luck
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You should never have to try hard to be someones friend. If people don't like  you for who you are then they aren't worth being friends with. No matter what, just be yourself.
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Stop trying to make them get along and don't hang out with them at the same time.\nThey probably don't like the idea of having to share you.
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I would get a mutual friend to ask around a bit discreetly. Just get them to say something like, "hey have you ever thought about being more than just friends with so and so" and see what he says. Then based off of that you will know how to act around them. Friendships to relationships are always a very hard transition.
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Just tell 'em staight forward that you dont like being called that, and if they cant accept that, then maybe these friends arent the best ones for you
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I might be wrong, but I believe that the problem is that you are trying to behave the way everyone wants you to. What I am about to say is such a cliche, but nevertheless true: just be yourself. If those people don't hang out with you anymore, than they haven't been very good frineds to begin with. You are better off without them. \nAnd the fact that you are lonely is not necessarily related to the fact that you are alone. You can also be lonely in the mids of a crowd. Hope I gave you some food for thought........
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You need to be around people who will acknowledge your presence and make you feel like you belong.\n\nLet them go to hell!!! Find new friends who make you feel like you are a part of something.
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just be yourself---dont let anyone pressure you into pretending like someone you are not.  If they are truly your friends--they will stick by you
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I think you made an excellent choice.  Good friends are hard to come by, and it has been my experience that they usually come in single digits.  I used to be a "group girl", had my clique etc., and I thought having a lot of friends was worth it.  I'd ignore the backstabbing and hurtful remarks.  Then I realized that I'd rather have one good, true, caring friend than a bunch of people that (in all honesty) barely knew me or cared about me.  So now I have just that, and my life (socially, spirtually, physically, you name it) has never been better.  My best friend has helped me to love myself and picks me up when I've had a bad day.  The "group" could care less...unless I happened to suddenly be a little more popular than them for some reason or another.  A lot of their antagonizing was jealously for one thing or the other, and that is probably your case as well.  Good luck with the future, and there's no doubt in my mind you'll find someone(s) worth your time. :)
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Man, I know how that can feel...been there done that!!!  I found that I wasen't voicing my needs enough in some cases and in the others it was a matter of getting rid of the trash friendships that were merely sucking me dry emotionally and/or finacially.  Do yourself a favor and get rid of people who make you miserable and are just takers. Thinning them out and telling the people whom you choose to keep around what your needs are can be a very empowering experience.  Trust me, a few very close friends is worth more than a ton of supposed friends any day.  Hope this helps.
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Don't try to please everybody.  You can't.  Find a small group that shares your interests.  Start there.  Your friendships will grow.\n\n\nMany shallow friendships cannot equal a few deep ones.
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you can only get a true friend if the person you befriend is a person that wants to be a friend.   in other words, it's not something you can do, it's something you get.  it does help to be a true friend to the one you want to be true to you.   that will prove to them that you value them and thus they will in time, return that value to you ..... good luck and i'll be ya friend
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Friends appreciate loyalty. Friends want you to be at least as concerned about their problems as you expect them to be about yours. Sometimes it's better to concentrate on the quality of your friendships rather than the quantity. Be to others the kind of friend you would like to have. Eventually you will find kindred souls. If you have "friends" who are always trying to change you or make you act a certain way, realize these are not people who appreciate you for yourself. Find people with whom you can be completely comfortable being yourself and extend to them the same courtesy. Those are real friends.
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Mmmmm thats a toughy. It is always good to be yourself and follow your own path in life. I am sure that you have at least one or two friends. What the others think might seem important now, but believe me,later in the future you will see that what they thought doesn't matter then and not now. Be proud of who you are and don't fall to peer pressure. be youself. It will be ok even though you don't think so now.
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The best way for you to make friends is to let yourself go. What I mean by that is, you should be social. Dont be afraid to be yourself. 99.5% of the people like others for who they really are. And you may be surprised by how much you may have in common.