Ladies, have you ever gotten your bf into a fight with another guy?
396747
WTF is right!  No, I've never done that before.  I'm glad you came to your senses and made her your ex!
268268
Nope, YOU were wrong. Why would you start calling your boyfriend names? Seriously. I think it's wrong for a man to hit a woman. But, if she provokes him, calls him names, and then hits him, well, she brought it upon herself. If you are going to do that again, then make sure you can handle whatever it is you get for it. I've never been hit by a guy, firstly because I would stand to be hit out of the blue. And secondly because I don't provoke or hit guys.
491117
a similiar situation happened to me.  to this day i no longer talk to the girl i used to be friends with.  my best advice to you is find a friend that will not choose their bf over you. especially if the guy is yelling at you and she will not stand up for you.  she is not a true friend!
262068
Yes I have. I kinda laughted it off and moved away from the guy just cause i didn't know him. I had a guy who kinda wouldn't take the hit so I told my boyfriend and his pressence scared him off. I had a friend who did that though and I laughted at him and asked him if he wanted a show, he got embarassed and stopped looking.
1031251
i definitly think that a fight can turn out good. in the past my boyfriend and i were always in fights. but with the man im with now, we decided that there would be no name caling. usually when you start fighting its not even about what you are upset about. it takes two to figure things out so your partner has to want to change also.
74931
I seen every body sayin FIGHT FOR WATS YOURS but really it don't work that way ... thats jus gon make things worse ...cause it did for me ... My ex-b/f was and still is seein this other gurl .. and I wanted to fight her so bad .. he told me he ain't want me to fight her ... he thought it was childish... ... the best thing you can do is try and move on ... if he wants you ...he'll eventually come crawlin back .. trust me ... mine did !!!
535145
You can stop by picking and choosing your battles. Reserve some of that energy. But if you simply need to have a arugment make sure you understand his side too. Its not healthy to fight because it kills the love and dampers your view on your bf. Talk to him and try to be rational.\nBut if its too much, hun move on
652274
I've asked a guy out twice and struck out both times.\n\nYea, they all SAY they want a girl to ask but push comes to shove a girl asking them causes their balls to get sucked back into their body cavity.
593640
yes i have the guy was going to hurt me so i kicked him and ran off to my house. otherwise i wouldnt do that cause its mean.
330743
made a guy cry from doing it when we were small kids - but think he just cried coz I hit him at all, didn't really matter where it was.\nLater in life, had a bad Bast$rd of a boyfriend who used me as a punching bag - returned the favour one day and booted him in the bollocks as if my life depended on it - he puked!!!
1031963
How about a bad break up story? \n\nI was waiting for my b/f to bring me my boom box to teach a dance class. He was supposed to be there by 8pm. We waited and waited for him. At 2am when the place closed, I walked out with my students and friends to find a note on my car. He said that he had waited for me but since I didn't come out (like I was supposed to know he was outside!), he had to leave a note. What it came down to was that he was a coward and couldn't break up face to face and in front of my friends. \n\nAnyway, after telling me that afternoon that he loved me, he told me in the note that it wasn't working out........what a loser! I am better off without him!
830981
had a conversation w/ his best friend where his best friend told me he luved me (i liked his best friend for 4 years) and that he (being the best friend) wanted to make out w/ me.\n\nmy bf still doesn't no
502232
Ha! I think I just came across your bf's post about his girlfriends butt getting too big. He mentioned how his girlfriend was getting on him for gaining wait and she had "no room" in those jeans to talk.
610661
I'm a woman, and will probably get blasted from my fellow ladies...but if she wants to talk like a man, and act like a man and HIT like a man..she probably deserves to get hit back. I don't normally condone violence of any sort..but, come on. I lived with a girl a long time ago. She would  always have her bf over, and they would hang out in her room. One night I heard her screaming and crying and my girlfriend and I rushed in there. He had hit her. We told him to get the F*ck out. A few days later he was over, and we heard all the screaming and yelling again. We busted into the room just in time to see her reach into last week and belt him. We told her that we weren't going to get involved anymore. If she wanted to throw the first punch, she should be able to take the consequences. If I'm going to tell women to stand up for themselves and not accept abuse, how is it appropriate to not tell men the same thing?
489317
Honey she wanted this fight with you and the bf. She finally found that right nerve to hit with you. Now it is up to you just how much you love him and figure if this is the way you want the right of your life. She is never going to change if anything she will only get worse...C
594039
My bf sure does.  It's just that maybe in their past relationships they've done so much of that cute puppy dog stuff that they've learned not to do it so much.  Just how guys are.
642961
no offence but he sounds like a dick! id dump him but considering you love him and you all are engaged sit down and freakin talk to him. i hate fights jus as much as you seem to.... its hard!