I let my friend borrow a sweater, she hasnt given it back. When I see her, she is wearing it. what do i do?
414327
You can do one of 2 things A. you can write it off as a lesson learned.OR,(B)You could tell her that you're glad she likes it so much she has saved you the cost of buying her a birthday or christmas present,whichever comes first,that ought to get it back.
323488
Contact a lawyer to help protect yourself and make sure everything does get returned. If money is a worry you can typically go to a courthuose and get a number for a lawyer and have a free hour on the phone where you could explain your problem and get his advice.\n\nIt is her stuff and she should get it back.
997232
well for one did you hand it to her personally? and if so and its been that long without a response then id say your out of luck or quite possibly she misplaced and forgotten about it... maybe you should try talking to her and see what happens... and take it from there on how she reacts
1173692
call the cops! sorry you are going through this but notify the police! can you leave? do you have anywhere to go? any other friends to help you? you dont HAVE to do anything you dont have to go to her house, you need to find another way  to make money but if she is stealing from you, you are in a worse boat!
382145
I've seen it before so many times and I sympathize.  I personally would re-assert the boundaries of your friendship with her in a nice way, emphasizing how that kind of behaviour could jeapordize your friendship with her and that you'd hate to lose her as the great friend she is over something like that.  Best of luck.
743406
You were young and immature when this happened. Sounds like she is still young and immature. How about getting a new friend?
841788
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
1147798
she already has what she wants.      your friendship is everything to her.\nnow if you wnat to give her something material best you could do is give her something she could keep forever.   not a teddy bear unlees she is more than a freind.\nan advice:   give her a silver laser dog tag with a deep emotional message from you not  from a greeting card.\nthey make those at the mall.      to the message give a lot though  ........................................
828230
If you think it is her boyfriend, then why not just ask him.  What if it is your Mom or one of her other friends taking her things. You won't know really. And if it is that expensive of items then she should have them locked up in a safe or her door locked.
850481
it looks as if she is very insecure, jealous of you, your clothes, etc. or just plain mean.  figures you will put up with her behavior, attitude, comments.  You don't need a friend like that.  If you have already tried talking to her, she doesn't listen, you've done your part.  Good luck.
1161074
If they want their merchandise back, tell them you will return it when they get a "REPLEVIN" order from the court.  This will cost them money, so they'll probably not bother.\n\nUntil they get that order, don't give them anything.
328941
Cause you borrowed his sweater and never gave it back.\n\nHe said you could "borrow" it not "have" it.
1075294
She should return the ring. If he refuses to take it, she should sell the ring and give him the money--but tell him first that that's what she's going to do. The ring was a symbol of a promise that has not been fulfilled. Unless he gave it to her as her Christmas or birthday present, it was a promise and not a gift and now MUST be returned.
46150
You need to let this friendship go. Most likely she's going to do it again, but this time it'll be worst. Trust me. She'll loose your trust. People change as they grow older, and it's not always for the better. At least you've realized she's not the person you thought she was and if you continue to be her best friend then you're putting yourself in a situation where you'll probably get hurt in the end. Move on.
972313
just say.\n"hey, the costume i loaned you had some dirt and holes in it, i was kinda upset, can you tell me how they got there?"\nyou don't havbe to be shy, you asked her somthing, and she didn't listen.\nyou go grl!
966208
But... did the homeless people even have a sweater?\n\nAnd who cares what they think??\n\nWait... was it that orange-brown sweater with puke-green circles all over it?\n\nI suggest you throw that out like i've been suggesting for the past 390473209473029 years man.\n\nNo, that's NOT in style.\n\nOh... you're talking about the sweater you have on right now. \nHmm... i suggest you leave it on.\nIt suits you and your... antique-like appearance :P
41623
just give your friend the benefit of the doubt coz he/she might just forgot and just let him/her remember that she/he still owes you that money.