What will make a girl want to spend more and more time with a guy, assuming that they are not in love.?
406502
Prospects of golddigging .
997000
If they really like you, they will want to go some place that fascinates you and somewhere you both can have a good time. If the guy is really into you, it will not matter as long as he gets to spend some quality time with you.
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depends on the character of you both..\n\nto me i would try to see if i can help her in something she really needs.. in order to make her feel she can always depend on me in any matter.. trust is the most important.. \n\nsilent feelings are the most romantic one..
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im a girl so i should know.alot of times,girls don't feel that the guy is giving them enough attention so they just drop it.girls want to feel loved and if your not ready to provide that then maybe you should wait a while.
10246
when was the last time that you did something sweet to your gurl?  perhaps what she means by time is a little romance in the relationship.  usually when guys are courting the gurls and during the first few months of the relationship, guys are sweet and would always go an extra mile for the gurl. yet over time, some guys wud tend to lax and we gurls having used to the attention wud think that probably you've lost interest.  so, if this person is really important to you, then give her the time.  be CONSISTENT of your actions.\n\nhope everything goes well for you.
996793
when he asks you out or wants to spend more time with you. (sometimes alone)
518599
Be her friend. That's the best advice I can give you. It's ok to let her know you are interested in more.. in a low key way, because sometimes to put it all on the line can affect the friendship.If she knows already that your feelings run deeper, then just keep on  being there for her and being her friend.. If it's meant to  be more, it will be. If it isn't, then at least you have your friendship, and that's worth ALOT.
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Maybe it is not that kind of love.  Find a way to spend more time with her and make sure before you just lay it on her and completely blow her mind.
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"I am crazy about this guy, but do not know why I don't feel a bond with him"  Only a woman could come up with something like this.  If you don't feel anything for him then your not crazy about him.
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Spend more time with him?? You are going to have to become more available.
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Do you mean she "just wants to have fun" Dude I have been there, don't take it the wrong way, she may be a little scared of getting hurt and wants to take it slow. I think it is their way of saying it. Just like us "whats the matter" our reply "nothin" Enjoy the time with her and believe that she loves you and everything will be O.K. Don't push the issue or it will get ugly, trust me, have fun, and you will get what you want in time.
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The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
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Yes. Spend a loooooooooot of time.\nI m not talking abt the time 'with her'. But while you are away too. And that will make you really really close to her, and by this you will even know almost her reaction to situations. They love that feeling,that you 'understand her' more than anything else. And remember....that is a loooooot of quality time! You have it with u? Then ur girl will really love you.
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Well, ask the girl again. Explain to her that you need to know her answer now only because you don't want to sit around and wait if she's not interested. I mean, if she's not interested she should just tell you so that you don't waste anymore time. If after you say this, she can't give you an answer, it's best to try things with the guy and see how things go.
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be honest about your feelings, but once said leave it be. you do not need to turn it into a needy clingy thing. girls like to hear that we are special & wanted.... it makes us happy
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The answer is:\n\nIt's not the amount of time that you should be focused on. It's the quality of time. If you have a fantastic time with each other whenever you are together, then you are in good shape. \n\nOtherwise it's not like she will like you less if you spend more time with her etc. If she say otherwise, then it's usually some other hidden reasons. Watch out.
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a guy in love usually acts like he cant be aways from his girl...about making mistakes, everyone does...whats on a guys mind is same thing thats on a girls mind...a guy in love should be honest and not cheat...but, a guy doesnt show feelings and emotion like girls...so dont try to guess what hes thinking, just go with it...u will feel real love :)