settle this for me , my boyfriend got into an argument,?
415007
Don't go back with him. if you did want a baby then you should get married first. but he'll just do it again and i'm sure that he slept with this girl for more reasons then u think
2554
Dump him, and see what his reaction is. If he crys and begs to stay then no, if he is cool and leaves then he was a cheating on you. Let me know how it goes.
35734
listen sweetie...\n\ni don't want to upset you or anything, but i've had experience with this issue.  what you're talking about is not really fighting.  it's called jealous and controlling.\n\nyou and your boyfriend aren't really fighting.  he is getting very angry and accusing you of things that he has made up in his head.  you are trying to cool the situation down while trying to defend yourself, all while trying to make sure that he knows that you love him.\n\ni don't know how long you've been going out with him and i don't know how angry he gets.  but on the real, you should tell him straight out that he has to stop and you won't take it if he continues.  if he does continue, you should leave him.  i know it sounds harsh, but trust me, however bad it is now... it will get worse... and worse... and worse.
242187
Ask him why first before you assume his reasons and judge him. On the other hand, he's apparently not an open minded personality because he has already decided what he wants without considering your arguments
1143742
Well Miss Karen ,\n\nMaybe the reason you tow argue so much is cuz you don't c i 2 i. Is it a trust thing? Well look iv been in a relationship where trust was a big thing and even-tho we cared for each other there was no real trust. If you sit with him and just ask whats going on?, try to come up with a solution that both of u agree with. And c if things work out. You can care for someone with all ur heart and it may never be meant to be. DO u still want to be with him?, ur young theirs more to life then a guy who argues with you all the time. And here's another question, do u stay cuz u care for him or cuz ur use to it?, these are things u need to think about. Maybe you should try giving each other  real space. C what life is like with out him. U never know. Well Good Luck.
979499
Pick and choose your battles wisely.  Stand up for yourself if it is something you really believe in.  Otherwise, if it's something he really believes in, listen, be understanding, and just let it be.  It's not worth the aggravation to always argue or that you always have to win.  I think its really important to only argue when absolutely necessary.  If you are not wanting to get into a fight; let him know, and stop the conversation.  Sometimes, later I'll even get an apology for it.  I just don't make a big deal out of it.  They appreciate that.
500649
f*ck him up. He is asking for an ass wh!ppin. I don't believe in violence except when it comes to standing up for my lady. If you can't do it. get somebody who can.
569316
Oh Jeeze...This is an obvious mis-communication in languages from man-speak to woman-speak.  You said,"What's wrong?" and he said "Nothing," but you already had it in your mind that there was something wrong, so you persisted.  YOU ARE NAGGING HIM.  Now he has something wrong - you.  Leave him alone, and let him have his space.  He'll call you later (it's been less than 1 day - you'll be fine).  Sorry to sound so rude, but I've had this too many times.  I would end up argueing because nothing is wrong, and I have to think of something to be wrong when she insists on an answer, when I'm really just tired/moody/blah.
489963
I Have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 years, we argue all the time. if this happen to us i would be pissed like you. if you guys do not live together i would not call him, let him call you. he is the one who needs to say sorry for leaving you. but if you live together then you should go home and do not talk to him for a little bit and then sit down and talk about what happen. i would not forgive him, it was wrong for him to leave you. but if you want it to last you have to tell him how you feel.
718056
Why are you letting this guy make you crazy?  Why is he the one making all of the decisions?  You're smart, if a girlfriend of yours just told you what you've told us, what would you say to her???  Maybe it's time to move on...
387200
Truth is give it some time...i know how that feels you may feel like "this is it" "my relationship is over" but he'll come around....give him some time to vent....and when he's cooled down you'll know and then you two should sit down and have a civil conversation and explain to him what you meant and what upset him and talk about it...look at it as a learning experience.....how else would you know what your boyfriend likes and dislikes if arguments don't happen...good luck
890557
Well sounds like you two need to sit down together and have a long conversation about your relationship, and why you are fighting over things.  And decide if maybe your lives are going in different directions and its time to end it. Or fight through it. All relationships have tought times. Its up to those involved to decide if they want to work through the problems or not. \n\nIf he is unwilling or uncooperative to sit and discuss this. I would say its time to move on as difficult as that may be.
677945
Don't be hard about it. You don't need to end it by telling him all that is wrong with him. Just tell him that you are looking for different things in a relationship and you need to just back off and regroup. Take some time to really search your feelings so that you are sure about what you want. If he wants to argue about it be kind but firm.
642961
no offence but he sounds like a dick! id dump him but considering you love him and you all are engaged sit down and freakin talk to him. i hate fights jus as much as you seem to.... its hard!
427241
It depends on what the fight was about.  If it was a minor disagreement, then it will go back to normal...eventually.  But if the fight was drastic, then it could take a while and nothing will be able to fix it but time.  Use it as a learning experience to help you understand your partner so that you can be careful the next time.
692771
Money is the number one issue for arguments in most of all relationships.  If you live together and share bills, I think the best thing to do is set up a dollar amounts for which you both deserve a say in , for instance purchases over $100.00.  All other purchase can come out of an " allowance that you both have weekly or monthly.  That has saved a lot of unnecessary fighting in my own relationship.  \nIt is best to get this problem resolved early if marriage is even remotely in your future.  Money problems have been known to cause a lot of divorces.  It is also a matter of trust. \nGood luck
535145
You can stop by picking and choosing your battles. Reserve some of that energy. But if you simply need to have a arugment make sure you understand his side too. Its not healthy to fight because it kills the love and dampers your view on your bf. Talk to him and try to be rational.\nBut if its too much, hun move on