How do you love a Girl that does not love herself ?
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Show her how to love herself.  Pretty her up!  Show her off!  :-)
429569
Try loving yourself first of all, dear! If you love yourself, no matter what your physical appearance may be, others will love you just the way you are!
1077617
Talk to her about her.  Chicks love to talk about themselves.  Say things that make it clear that you have invested time in her.  I don't mean saying things like "Baby I love you"  Tell her you love _______ about her.  Ask her about what is going on with her.  Don't talk about yourself or football or any guy thing.  Let her talk about herself.  It doesn't matter if you are listening or not, the fact that you ask about her feelings, thoughts, etc, will matter.  \n\nBe real, be honest, and be a listener.  You'll keep her.\n\nGood luck with your girl! :)
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be confident in yourself and make her feel cherished and special.  find out what her interests are and learn about them.  remember the small things and offer attention and affection.  girls need to feel this in order to open up to a man.  thank you!
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Tell her that you love her and show her what you feel  because if you don't you can be a loser if you don't tell her so go on and tell her what you really feel for her. Here are some tips to get over wth 1)give her flowers 2) talk to her 3) go with her to lunch 4) be nice to her. the best thing you must do is:\n1. make friends with her \n2. be her shoulders to cry on \n3. then if you're very close friend of her suddenly tell her that you like her\n4. but before that take her on a date so she'll be suprised \n\ntake note: \ndon't be shy for your feelings \nand I'm a girl too that's why i know thing that are very romantic. \nTrivia: \nalmost all women have same type of romance
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Tell her how you feel it's better to love and lose than to have not loved at all. Mabye she will like you the same way. You'll never know unless you try.
47757
if u dont love her, turn her down. tell her that shes just not the one for u
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• Make her feel that she's the most important person in the world. \n• Make her feel attractive, gorgeous, wanted, and sexy. \n• Shower her with attention. \n• Keep talking to her about herself. Forget about yourself. \n• SHOW HER THAT YOU CARE, DEEPLY, INTENSELY, FOR ALWAYS by the way you look at her, talk to her, pursue her, and listen to her. \n• STRIVE TO MAKE HER FEEL GOOD whenever she is in your presence, when talking with you, and when out on a date. This means showing her a good time, telling her jokes and interesting anecdotes, expressing appreciation of her sense of humor, behaving as if everything she utters is a bright gem. \n• MAKE HER DEPENDENT UPON YOU. Make her miss you when you are not around. Teach her to find you more and more essential by being a real friend, an interesting and dependable companion, a reliable antidote to loneliness, a continuous part of her life and thought. \n• MEET HER FAMILY as soon as possible and treat them as if they were royalty. Get her family on your side in persuading her of your charm and desirability.
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be yourself, that always get in to their hearts, and if it doesnt work for them, dont change yourself cuz you wanna please them, just move on
267924
Until you get over whats causing you to be bottled up, you wont. Work on you first, then tackle sharing love with someone else. Old advice but its so true: You cant love someone else if you dont love yourself, you cant make someone happy or be happy if youre not happy with yourself.
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I don't know what is worse. I have a girl who really does love me and I know it. but she drives me mental. I guess you'll just have to have her as a friend, you have no choice. You'll find someone else in the end but you really need to be self sufficient when it comes to fighting the demons because the girls will just find you needy and that isn't attractive
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thats just the thing,if she loves u then there is no way u can do it without hurting her.she will hurt.but what u need to do is tell her what u have just told me.tell her that u dont think she is the one and that u think that she will find someone who will love her verry much.tell her that u love her but ur not in love with her(if thats the case)let her know all of this cause the longer u wait the harder it will be to do.but just try ur hardest to let her know how u feel and try to make her understand how u feel and understand that she will find someone else who will love her and she will love back.good luck and hope it works out
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I guess both of you don't love each other cos you as a guy must open to her that you truly love her. Well you can still make a change on that cos its not too late. Try to open up for her and stop pretending and I guess she will also open up to you.
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just try to be open and honest with her and express your love for her
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There are two things you need to consider.  Do you love your self? Honestly. Then look at your possible candidates, do they love themselves?\nI dont mean shallow, but I mean this.\nIf you truly understand your self, you will understand others.\nIf you truly value your self, you will value others.\nIf you truly love your self,  only then will you be ble to love others.\nIf your future partner is not taking care of himself, he will certainly not take care of you.  Even if you think he will, when he realizes that he needs to take care of himself he will leave you. Trust me im a guy and i have hurt people like this in the past.
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Ok!!!!  Trying loving yourself first.  Life is nothing if you don't love yourself....then you will have someone to love.
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You may not be able to, but my first suggestion would be to try to figure out why she doesn't like you and then see if there is anything you can do to change that.  Be nice to her, but don't make a  nuisance of yourself - that would really make her like you even less.  Give her space and time, letting her know that you are interested if she is.  If, in the end, she does not want to have anything to do with you, be gracious, and move on.  There will be another.  It is often easier to love someone who loves you back.