Females, Please anwser this one?
407886
Depends on what the secret is~
657685
Give her time to breath and decide the next course of action. Sometimes we woman are polite about things and need to figure out what to say to a guy. She might be busy too. That's a good sign because she has her own life. Don't rush it.
395941
I would stop asking her.... You asked her once which let her know that you were interested.  Now the ball is in her court, maybe she wants time to think about it.  I wouldn't act any different twords her, I would just not ask her out again.  At least for a while.
861410
too childish...maybe she's just confused about his feelings for you...overwhelmed that she has found something so good to be real...\n\nif you're serious with her...i say talk to her and give her some time to think it over...but please not too long, there are a lot of girls out there who will be so glad to take you in..
55250
good boy - you did the right thing. Find an available girl and your conscience will thank you for it. If your friend is a true one, she will stop avoiding you once she gets over her embarassment.
1150327
she may have interest in another man, what did she say or do if anything, and if you know any of her friends, ask them if they noticed somthing different about her lately tell them you are concerned because she has been acting shady or something of the like and they might possibly be able to lead you to your answer. She might just be getting scared of committment, in that case let her know that you will slow it down if she would feel more comfortable with that. Or if the circumstances under which she told you she really liked you were induced by pleasurable activity(drinking, spending considerable amounts of time with you, sex ect...), she might have felt that way at the time and then after the activityt ended realized that mabey she didnt like you as much as she thought, mabey she was just being nice, or mabey she was being a bitch to get what she wanted. Mabey you possibly did something that turned her off. Hmmmm... we females are darn complicated, those are just some of the possiblities that come to mind, but the best way to find out is to ask her, and be polite about it and ask for the truth. Good Luck to you. Hope i helped.
736839
Girls immediately are able to sense a guy who has a kind heart even if there is a lot of noise and confusion. It was obvious that you didn't want to hurt either of them. You are a kind soul.
324892
Compliments to you for being a gentleman. When we rush things, we don't allow ourselves to savor whatever we're trying to enjoy.  You say you want "to keep this one"...well, take your time and really get to know her and what she's all about.  The more deeply you know her, if she's for you, the more you will love her.  Knowing someone on a spiritually(not physically) intimate level, allows you to really commit and give of yourself; which, by the way, makes for a great formula for relationship success. Best of luck!
1010828
what a biatch, sounds like one of those teasers. She might tease you forever. But you still have a  chance buddy, make her jealous. Invite her to join you and another female friend. Ask her to help you out.
270503
Girls like confidence, a sense of humor and attentiveness. If she talks, listen. Compliment her (be honest though). Maybe you don't feel confident, but if you pretend you are, you'll convince yourself. We ALL get nervous around "the one"- even in our 20's. There's more to being attractive then just whats physical about you.
276827
She is totally wacked and needs serious professional help, more than you can give her.  If I were you, I'd run like the wind and don't look back!  I've lost my virginity too, but what's that got to do with anything?  Forget about that BS.  The new chick, let's hope you've improved your selection, but she's bound to be an improvement.  Get a grip man.  This is an obvious...get out while the going's good before she decides to cut her name on your leg or worse, pulls a Bobick on your balls when she thinks you somehow crossed her.
706512
You should just move on there are a lot of other girls out there who would not turn down your offer. Also it depends on weather she is interested in you if not. Back off, find someone who cares.
1020837
ask her if she's ever done it before. you'd be surprised how many girl's want to do it and never have cuz they're affraid to ask the guy if they can do it to them.
215939
girls are way more self concious than guys. Try starting off with a romantic shower for two, if she feels clean, maybe she'll be less self concious.
398842
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
47177
ask her out again! try your best to not be so shy.. i like shy guys, but for a few moments try to not be and have confidence in yourself.. go for it or you will regret it