why do guys like plus size women over skinny women?
397087
I think guys like plus size women now because they are tired of seeing the skinny women every where they go.  Plus size women are just as pretty as the other woman.  They probably want something different, someone who's not afraid to eat in front of them, someone who's not afraid to get in the kitchen and cook, and someone who doesn't care what every body else want from them. A plus size woman is just a woman who has found their self and know their self inside and out and we 're plump as a roast and better than most
446579
i'm thin, and my bf tells me and other people that i'm the best he's ever had.  I'll do just about anything, i dont see why being skinny or thick has to d with sexual preference, but. . whatever . . . maybe it was just the personality of the girls you were with, lots of crazy sexual skinny chicks, trust me
381576
Every one prefers different people...most don't really mind too much I don't think. I wouldnt like a too slim girl tho!
933753
skinny women are supposedly ideal ... which is why those who do not reach that "ideal state" talk badly abt them ... skinny men on the other hand, are not particularly "ideal", and as such, no one really cares if a guy is skinny or not ... :)
235959
thick to obese.they don't work out,so they don't expect you to,there is ALWAYS food around and they have almost always had to take time to educate themselves and develop a personality.most of the time they are just funner to be with and they usually will do more to please there partner than those so-called hot chick with the bad attitudes.I'll take a big girl with a sense of humor over a skinny girl that complains anytime.
378981
Well most guys would tell you that they like skinny girls!! but are they telling the truth no why i say most guys like a girl with meat on her bones.Me i love a bigger girl i like to be able to hold on to some thing more then bones and skin!!Skinny girls always look like there going to brake real easy its like when you were little and went with your mom in to a glass shop and she said don't touch it will brake !!!!!lol
127204
I love to go out with a bigger girl, simple fact is that they are more( no pun) open to building a lasting relationship. You take your average skinny girl, it's all about her, and you are just there to hold her stuff and buy her stuff. Larger girls still need there stuff held too - but they are more open to your opinion. Now begs the question - how big is too big? If the girl has an ounce of self-esteem then it's not a question of size of the body, but more of heart. How much love, kindness, and compassion does she have!
412076
hedzzzindahouse is right to an extent, I'm almost underweight and healthy but I think (most of the time) fat or overweight girls are more nice than skinny so most of the time I look for overweight people to date, most really skinny people think there "all-that", so I go for the other people, not necessarily "fat" girls, but not really skinny either (im not talking bad about skinny people , since, i am one, but alot of them ARE stuck-up, that Ive seen) but, just for the record, im not one of the ones who stuck-up.
103954
Different guys like different things. I like curves -- I'm not turned off by a little extra "filling," but if a girl just doesn't take care of herself, it is a big turn off. \n\nFor example, there are girls who go to the gym regularly but eat too much to get thin. They usually end up having an attractive shape, in my opinion, despite being "beefy." On the other hand there are girls who neither workout nor eat right, and everything is just hanging there. Really, regular exercise is important anyway, even if one isn't going for "skinny."\n\nThere is also the extreme side of skinny -- thin, boney arms with no muscle at all are just gross, in my opinion. I saw one beautiful girl work herself down to a toothpick over time by working out excessively and under-eating, and I thought it was sad to see her destroy her body that way.
950732
Because they are immature boys with no self confidence.  There was another question similar to this one.  Here is what I wrote on that one:  \n\nIn my opinion, as a woman, I have always assumed that men wouldn't want to date a BBW or plus-size woman. (I'm 43 yrs old). About a year ago I met a really great guy who expressed interest in me - extreme interest. I came right out and asked him why he was paying so much attention to me (we had only met and emailed) and he was very honest and he said that women with big hips and thighs turned him on. I nearly fainted. We have been seeing each other over the past year and the attraction has grown. We have talked many, many times and I told him that I thought most men don't want plus-size women. He told me that I would be surprised the number of men that like larger women. Via the internet, he has shown me how much. The number of men who are attracted and adore plus-size women, is absolutely amazing. Believe me when I tell you....it gives us plus-sizers hope. \n\nThe relationship that I've had with this guy in the past year, has been better than any I've ever had. Previously, I never had a guy who wanted to see me in sexy lingerie. I never had a guy who wanted me to dress up in a short skirt and garters. I never had a guy who constantly tells me how beautiful I am. It is incredible and is absolutely wonderful. I can't get enough of it!! Talk about an ego booster and talk about boosting my self esteem! He has made me feel so much better about myself and my body. \n\nMen need to realize that plus-size women are no different than average size, or thinner women. We want a relationship, we want sex, we want exactly what other women want....there is more to us than the exterior. Don't assume we are just stupid fat women. We are regular people, and have feelings too.\n\nMen who like plus-size women need to stop worrying that their friends will laugh at them for liking plus-size women. A woman is a woman... tall, thin, short, average, plus-size... doesn't matter. Be a man and be with who you want to be. \n\nHoney - you need to be more self-confident and be happy with yourself and your body.  No one can do that for you....  A man will notice a self-confident woman.  Your self confidence will improve after he shows you a little attention.  That's what has happened with me.  But generally, you must be happy with yourself first.  \n\nJust be yourself.  Don't try so hard to be what you think guys want.  Just be you....
599202
men prefer skinny woman due to what society thinks. I think a lot of men prefer skinny woman because they are embarrassed to be with BBW's. They think that there friends will laugh at them or make fun of them or whatever. whilst I have a bbw for a wife, I wouldnt mind seeing her loose the weight..now I dont wish that she was like a size 5 or anything that skinny but I would like to see her be somewhere around a 12. She has told me she wants to be a size 12. I would also like to see her loose some of the weight due to health problems and her annoying snoring! Remember Norma Jean (AKA Marylin Monroe)?? does anyone know what size she was?? no she wasnt a 5 or 7 or anything that skinny. she was around a size 12. people back in her hay day especially the guys, liked woman who had some meat on them. not too excessively fat but not stick skinny either. I think that hollywood is responsible for the change in peoples attitudes regarding the size of woman. I also think that society today is slowly changing its attitudes to be more favorable to bigger woman. But it will be a awhile before society and hollywood will totaly be acceptive of big woman.
411005
In my experience, I have known several men who prefer bigger girls.  They say there is more to love, more to hold and that sort of thing.  From what I have seen the woman has to take care of herself and have a bit of confidence.  If a girl loves herself and shows it then guys will be attracted not only to her but that confidence as well.
177743
I asked my hubby and son about this and here is what they said.  My son prefers girls with curves!  He doesn't like real skinny boney women.  My hubby says he likes tiny petite women.  SOOOOO I would have to say it depends on the man!  Just be yourself and someone will love u for who u r.  Remember- u r beautiful on the inside and out!  Did u know Cleopatra was only 4 ft 5 and weighed 180 lbs????  And she was considered the most beautiful woman in the world!
165905
Hmmm are you directing this question to females? If you are this type of superficial question is stuff we like to know. We women are pretty much always trying to keep up our appearances and look as good as possible we like to know all the time what guys and others like, example Do men like fat skinny or thin women? Do they like big boobs small boobs fake boobs? Do they like petite or a sporty type of women? Stuff like this i know annoys you men but we cant help it. We like to look good and we like for others to think we look good.
1002904
Yes, your friends are right!  Only women think that being super thin is cool.  Why do think guys look at girls who look curvy, if you know what I mean!  Everything should be real.  They like it if its natural.    After all why do think our bodies are made different than men?  Of course it has to be curvy.
286233
Men go after women they are physically attracted to.  There's nothing wrong or shallow about that -- we can't control attraction (or lack thereof).  Most men are attracted to women who are of a healthy weight.  Some men prefer larger or skinnier women.
790530
must be where you live there are all kinds of black guys and skinny white or just right girls that are pretty here.But I see skinny white guys with big white girls more.Guys are smaller anyway,we have the curves for the birthing reason.