how can i have a boyfriend, asap??
405653
Stop looking and start enjoying your life as a single lady.  As soon as you start enjoying your own company, you'll become more enjoyable to someone else.
70530
first off  be happy at your age not having a boyfriend . having boyfriend isnt the greatest thing in the world . Just enjoying the single life and when you are 16 you be ready for the guys and stuff. IF your friends are saying you should have  bf and stuff. They are not friends.. You have to belive in your self. For example   some of my classmates were all friends and they got all pregant sad to say your friends will make your life good or it can make  worse.Talk to god if you are lonely.you arent alone not having a boyfriend at 13 i can assure you. Im 23 and i didnt have boyfriend at age 13. just take your time.
505494
Look for a friend.......you'll find your boyfriend there.
831824
Sweetie, i feel you.\nBut check this out...I'm a 26 yr old who has NEVER had sex before! (now I'm getting married next year though)-my point? DONT take a boyfriend because you see yur friends doing it.\nSecondly, I see that you harbour a fear of the unknown, I'll quote one of my quotes for you..."Love is to be given only to those you trust, but how do you know who to love if first you dont trust?"\nMy point...take a chance.\nBeing more precise, make a list of things you want in a guy that are not negotiable(eg maybe, spiritual convictions etc), make another of "good to haves but not must haves" (eg maybe, color of hair etc). Then cultivate friendships without labelling every guy as a potential bf or not...just enjoy friendships and things would fall in place.\nLastly sweetie, there's no crime in being single AND learn to trust. ;) \nThis may sound corny but it sure helps-You may want to pray about the issue too.
143884
Go to you local gay bar and get a boyfriend. Plenty of men would love you. LOL
409064
You want a boyfriend, but are apprehensive about the change in your life!\n\nRemember, the most constant thing in life is change. \n\ndont look for a boyfriend, but if you come across a nice guy, dont stop yourself.
186106
just be yourself, achieve what you want while you can. you will have someone soon enough, i mean you're already turning me on!
1141212
your not too young.\n\nbut if you need to ask how to get one, there must not really be a guy that you have on your mind yet. \n\npretty much just be yourself. dont push yourself to be easy.  to try to get a guy, because then hell tell all his friends that your easy and youll just be used... you have to look for a nice guy who will respect you and youll be happy with. find a guy that shares some intrests with you.\n\nalso dont act like a ditz. youll just down grade yourself into looking like an idiot.\n\ngood luck.
141986
Find yourself a boyfriend or ask one of your trusted friends to act as one atleast. If possible, find some good person and marry the earliest or take help of your elders and family members. Have all of them tell your suitors that you are not interested at once! They should back off....
870483
Ok, I wont say you're too young to have a boyfriend, I am going to say you're too young to have A boyfriend... You're still so young, go out and have fun..  date around first. Don't try to get serious so young.. You'll end up heartbroken, married, and with child like me... Anyway, just live life, don't worry about some boy. Besides, it sounds like he wants to do that same thing... explore! It's only natural. Don't know what you're missing till you get it.
322533
Here are some options:\n\n1.  Just tell him how you feel.\n2.  Casually tell him you have a boyfriend\n3.  When you are in a group setting where he can overhear, tell someone else casually that you have a boyfriend, and hopefully he will overhear\n4.  If all else fails just toally ignore him.  Don't smile, talk to him, pretend if possible that you didnt hear him try to talk to you, or if he does try to talk to you just give him a curt answer and find some way to escape the conversation.  Men are dumb, but even the dumbest will get the point eventually.
229506
first, desperate women don't care what a guy would look like, but I guess that's solved since you aren't a woman yet. second, you're too young to absolutely NEED a boyfriend. third, if you are searching online and exclaim you're desperate it's a bit redundant. and fourth, if you're such a cutie, why can't you find a guy in the real world?
499339
Don't panic. You are not going to die if you do not have a boyfriend. Trust that there are guys out there that are attracked to you and that when they get the courage to ask you out, they will do it. Don't second guess anything about yourself, and don't try to change yourself. Be yourself, and you will ultimatly be happier with yourself and with the guy that you are with when it happens.
84428
Come on honey, you are too young to be worrying about this stuff! You're not even a teenager yet and there are going to be many other relationships for you before you find the "right one". So just have some fun and don't worry about boyfriends for a few more years. Hang out with guys as friends and holy cr@p, maybe you should try being a "prude" for a while longer! Forget about this guy, he sounds like a big waste of time, boy wh*re, jack@ss anyway!
245702
Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
1146417
You get a boyfriend by:\n1) bonding with a boy you know\n2) getting to know each other's interests\n3) becoming great friends\n4) liking each other for who you are\n\nYou just pretty much have to find a guy who is interested in what you're interested in. But don't do searches online, make your searches personal and in person. And remember to like a guy for who he is.
164538
listen, it's like this, people misunderstand other people everywhere and allways. there is nobody who will understand you completely and utterly, there are just some people who understand you more or less, worse or better.they try. but sometimes it's just impossible, because every personality is very complicated.\nthen about boyfriend. first option: if he doesn't believe you - it;s his problem, you'll have more guys in a day or two. second option - you really care about him and your relationships then go and talk to him. make him listen or just try to hug him.\ngood luck