do wemen stop having sex after they are married ifso why???
411051
not this woman! ive been having great sex all 20 years of my marriage. it just keeps getting better!
696137
I don't think people get married to stop each other from sleeping around .I think they get married because they love each other.
59105
It's up to you and your boyfriend/girlfriend.   I was married when I was 18 and now I am 20.  My husband and I decided not to have sex before we got married. I know that some people regret having sex before they are married becasue it causes problems in their future relationships. But this is what worked for us.  You would have to talk it over with your sigificant other to decide what will work for you.
226449
I know what you mean...i don't understand what happens to people..they say there vows for better or worse till death do us part then they get bored or things go down hill and they just think throwing it all away and cheating is the answer...Im lucky my parents have  been married for 30 years and still act like love  birds...ive been married for seven and they've been great so far but people need to learn when they start getting bored or looking around they need to talk to there spouse and come up with ways to keep it interesting.....people need to read the bible more and bring jesus into there life..
1063158
Sex in marriage is a perk.... and no matter what eventually it will wane between two who are together for a long time.... \n Sex when someone is ill can be very difficult for both partners and sometimes it is in the best interest of both to just stop doing it. Not that they are not intimate, there is so much more to marriage... we have been together for 20 years now and my illness has made this impossible for the last year. My husband loves me enough to have given that part of his life up. Sad to say because that fun is gone but  there is always other stuff....
226935
After Marriage.  Marital sex is a beautiful thing.  It should be more than just an act of physicality.  It is an expression of love, respect, and commitment.
439618
I hate to look at things this way, but I'm a factual person. The stats show that ppl who live together before getting married are more likely to get divorced. I waited until I was married to have sex. This brings a real sense of security to our relationship. I could go on about the other benefits, but I'm tired.
159812
I'm a guy and I have affairs often. But don't judge me just yet. I never dreamed of having an affair on my wife. We were in love. We did things together. We laughed together. \nThen she started shying away from love making. She eventually lost her libido to the point that she can go without it for months. She used to say she almost married me because of the sex was so great. Now she's a stranger. \nSo I ask you. Are you doing something to push him into another bed? Don't believe the BS that both sexes have the same drives. Most guys need to ejaculate everyday and some more than that. If you aren't taking care of that, then the temptation of some strange will be too strong for him to resist. Also if there is something that he really wants to do sexually but you are too much of a prude to give it to him, guess what? He's getting someone else to give it to him. Right or wrong, that's the way men are. We are primal..you are emotional. Sex is love to us. Believe it. \nI also know that there are men who will stray no matter what there situation is. If that's your case, and you really searched your soul for that answer, then leave him as he will never change. I stay in this marriage for the kids. Unless there is abuse involved, I have seen a lot of evidence that a bad marriage is better for children than to not have one of their parents. Good luck!
100733
I've been married 6 years and we have sex daily.  It's different for everybody and it really depends on things like your individual sex drives, your energy level, the level of importance you put on sex, your sexual communication, etc.  If you're having an amount of sex that is satisfactory to both of you, then don't worry about what is "normal" and just go with what feels right for the two of you.  If, however, the frequency with which you have sex is not satisfactory to one or the other of you, talk about it.  Find out what the problem is.  Don't just assume that the sex goes away once you get married.  We made that mistake once and we won't make it again.  Best of luck to you and your spouse!
963759
Sounds like a no. You have been having sex with him, probably living with him - he has no need to get married; you are giving him all that he wants and he is totally comfortable. Talk to him again, and get married before the baby comes!
385871
After Marriage if you dont have sex it wont last, being innovative and active in the bedroom is a very good way to keep me around and happy. I want to make my lady happy in the same manner. Communications is the key, the best sex organ is the mind. Good Luck Happy Easter
302940
Decreased sex is completely normal in a marriage. It's your responsibility to spice things up in order to keep the passion alive. Try in on the floor, in a public place, use toys, do something taboo, anything new. Continue to give each other compliments especially about each others bodies and what you like about it. Be naughty! It's not just the mans job to keep it going, take the initiative and he will appreciate it I promise!
436032
The reason for what men and women have sex is absolutely different. Fo men sex is just an activity that can help them to come out of stress, and rejuvinate. Whereas for women it is more initimate form of expression of love. Therefore women need commitment before they are having sex. for men sex is just sex and it can be totally devoid of any love or comittment. so man want to have sex before or after marriage. It does not really matter to them.
334541
I disagree with enterity.  I am waiting for marriage to have sex with my fiancee.  Although we have had sex before(with other ppl)we want 2 wait to make things right!  It has only brought us closer!  Yes, it is hard at times!  We feel its strengthen our relationship not only within us, but with God as well!
404597
Who are these middle aged men are they married?  Maybe they didn't marry the right one.  Me and my husband have been married 15 years(not all easy). I love him more today than I did 17 years ago when I met him and our sex is greater than ever.  If you love each other, are committed to each other and can share your thoughts and emotions GO FOR IT!!!\n\nGood Luck:-)
154001
I think that people that save sex are to be highly respected.  I myself am waiting until marriage.  Sex, when thrown around too much, becomes stagnant, and it takes more and more to please the person, just like a drug.  Studies have proven that those people that have only had one or two partners in their lives, no matter how active they are together, are much less likely to get bored with each other.  He takes sleeping with someone seriously, and we all should.  We're talking about an act that God made so that two people in love, who are intimate on every other level, ie mind, personality, spiritually, can now consumate and become fully one in each other.  Its so beautiful when done as its supposed to be.  Sex just for sex ends up being shallow.
415057
just bc you stop having sex it doesnt mean you guys are losing affection... there are plenty of other things to do... other than sex to show that you love each other... dont worry about.. it if you guys stop having sex and end up losing affection then you guys need to rethink the relationship.... was it the fact that you guys love each other??? or was it the sex...