what do u do if ur boy friend that said he luvs u so many times broke up w/ u at a school dance at 4:31?
404904
go on w/ ur life eventho its hard and go to ur friends and show him that your the bigger person!
500996
I am assuming  this 'dance' was a high school dance based on everything else you said so, no, I don't think it is a big deal. However, at the high school level, or pretty much anything under the age of 25, it is a big deal to those who see it. Be careful here though!! If you have a big crush on him and he only sees you 'as a friend' you will get your heart broken when he finally tells you as such. Keep it as  friends and enjoy the comfort of a good hug until he leads you to believe otherwise. Good luck!!
299649
if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
411348
u dont wanna show him dat u leave guyz as soon as u get 2 know a cute one.he s probably scared of his friend and rightly so,u were his friend's gf......so i think u shud break up wid ur bf b4 any further moves.....if u already broke up.....then u shud talk 2 d guy u dated n tell him.....to not butt into ur life n move on.try 2 get closer 2 d guy u like n make him sure dat u broke off wid his frnd n ur single now....start wid being frns n it will happen\nbest wishes .....hope someone can get their love if i cant
532258
He may still like you deep inside, so he's afraid that he may fall for you again? Why broke up with who, and what was the reason for it? Were you friends before you started dating? It's always a good thing to make a promise with your significant other that when/if you two brake up, that you will be friends like you were beforehand. Talk to him and ask him; see what he says. I know, its EXTREMELY hard to get guys to open up, that being part of the reason. But it never hurts to try.
1095349
Let them be happy.  It's obvious he'll never be with you so find soemone else.  Don't take your disappointment out on your friend.
321434
I would have to say that this guy isnt worth investing any more time into.  He breaks up with you because he knows you'll be there when he comes back.  \nYou need to break it off with him and work on your self esteem because Im sure you are a great girl and can do alot better.
863068
Don't move on since you are great friends.  You had a chance one time, but he had a crush on another girl.  They will break up one day.  Be there to console him.  Since you've been best friends since you were 4, YOU should be his soul-mate, don't you think?  Who is this new girl?  They all disappear.  All but one.  Be the one.
919252
Be friends.  It didn't work out and you moved on and so did he.  Don't put your heart out there again for him to step on, but never let him think that he crushed you either.  Try to get past it and just know that he was Mr. Wrong for you.  You shouldn't ask him out but talk on line with him and just be kind.  You know girl...kindness kills.  I think that he'll probably kick himself when he realizes that he let you go.  Good Luck.
1088052
I realize that it may be really hard right now but I hope you realize how valuable you are yourself and that you will take care of you during this time. You may or may not\nget the full answer as to why he broke up with you.  I had\na boyfriend in high school that everyone swore or thought\nwe would surely get married and we ended breaking up and we had been dating over a two year period.  Give him his space and see what happens.  Be good to yourself in the meantime.  If you were good to him and know that in your heart  of hearts you gave your best thats all that anyone can ask.  He may have some things he needs to work out.
906063
you have been together long enough to know what hes like and what he is capable of. dancing is just dancing. he cared about your feelings thats y he didnt go and he told you, that was his way of saying, i love you and i wont go for you if you know what i mean, even if he made you feel bad im sure he loves you. you have to stop being jealous, also its healthy for him to hang around his friends and you should go out dancing with the girls as well. see how he reacts to that. in the end, only you know what he is like. so is he trustworthy or not?
903910
Don't put up with it.  If he really liked you, he wouldn't want you to feel like you do right now, and he wouldn't be dumping you.  I realize you like this guy, and this isn't the advice you wanted, but it's true.  If you let him act like this, and then you two get back together, he'll just break your heart.
443691
Give him a chance.  If you think later that you dont think he is right, then breakup.  I wish the people I asked out would...
414216
if it's been a on/off relationship then you should just end it, obviously you two keep breaking up for a reason and probably only getting back together due to loneliness. It will probably happen again.  Get out and move on
823834
Think about your friendship.  Are you willing to jeopardize it over a crush?  He isn't.  Also take that in to consideration.  If you are willing tell him that if you are, then he should be too.  Be confident, tell him (in PERSON) that you guys won't break up.  (and on the slight chance that you do, tell him you would be cool just being friends again.)
175238
Read what you just wrote. You answered your own question, hun.\n"sweet friend." "boring boyfriend."\n"We don't talk anymore. And if i pass him in the halls, its like he just ignores me!"\nBasically, you both are already broken up. You just need to acknowledge it vocally. TELL him it's over.
993490
just tell him its over. y would u spare his feelings when he obviously don't care about u.