this is 4 the guys, from a girl... .how would u feel if a girl comes up 2 u and ask u out.?
397630
I would absolutely love it.  I'm sick of the idea that it has to be the guy.
1069709
I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.
54383
well i would just want a guy to come up to me and ask me out, but dont look too desprate cuz some girls go because of pity
530998
baby, its me, the one whom you answered my question which was. what is the best way to ask a girl out? Remember? email me at onyaa2000@yahoo.com--send me a TRUE recent picture of you, not one of someone else you claim to be, either-lol:) Then I will get to know ya.
797565
If I were single and I received that email form a girl I was not interested in I would ignore her to avoid an uncomfortable situation. The sad truth is he is not interested. Sorry to break your heart.
658624
Yes!!! I am a guy and I just love it when the girl makes the first move!!! Alot of guys love it because we are SOOOO afraid of asking someone becuase we are afraid of rejection. DO IT!!!
856411
Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
653364
ok first thing us gurls r really confusing we act all mean 2 a guy but we really like him but just ask this gurl of urs out it shouldnt b embarrassing since she knows u like her gurls like some guys but are just 2 afraid 2 admit it cause we r afraid of wat our friends may say if u get turned down dont feel to bad find sum1 that is better 4 u she wont be a good girl 4 u if she turns u down ne wayz but i wish u the best of luck on ur relationships
376174
i would make them laugh ( cuz i like when they are funny) i would also do what ever i felt like doning now matter where i am ( i'm that kind of person) i would be open minded and be romantic and nice ( i like when guys hug me i feel good! ^_^ like he is protecting me from everything that is bad)i think that is what i would do and i would also have my own idea like a way to ask her out it would be in a different unique way..................i think that is it
771867
Go for it. Life is short, and your teen years are even shorter, so have fun. Besides, I know I feel like it would be a God-send if women would ask shy guys out. If he says no, what's the worst that could happen?
777724
Just ask the dude out!
1140909
Well, the advice I would give to myself if I had this problem(which i have had before) is to go for it! Tell him in person that you likr him and you hope he likes you to. I have alot of guy friends and they all come to me for advice on girls. They all say they hate to get notes from someones best friend asking them out. They love girls who are brave enough to ask them themselves! And if he says no then at least you know and you can try to move on!! Keep in touch and tell me hoe it goes. sammie_robison@yahoo.com
433111
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
1101731
This is the 21st Century ... should be Equal Opportunities time. There really isn't any reason why a girl shouldn't ask a guy out :)
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
1159189
well, you are truly a friend to this girl... any other guy probably would've taken her up on the offer... i feel like maybe she feels like you maybe different from the rest being that you have a history together as friends.... have you tried explaining to her how you feel? let her know that you are not out just for what she has between her leg and you respect yourself and her more than that... i admire you for the fact that you didn't just jump at an opportunity but thought before you reacted.... this young lady seems like she has low self esteem and that she has to throw her body at people to find someone... men respect a woman for her being her not for her opening her legs... good luck and i hope she can find it in her heart to realize you are a true friend...
885327
hands with flowers and ask me.. but I am seeing someone already and the besy way he asked me out, was when he had those post note and jot down"will u go out with me sometime"