is marriage without a previuos relationship is better than a marriage with a previous relationship?
401392
no...a marriage with a relationship is loving not just living together..
1183236
I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
624272
I used to in my first marriage because it was so bad but not in this marriage! It depends on the person and if they are happy in their mariage or not....
598082
I do because there are more chances that a relationship will last a lot longer for sex to come after marriage than for marriage to come after sex. To build a relationship you have to know what the foundation is made out of. Some choose sex to be the foundation of a relationship and some choose love as their foundation. Sex and love are two separate things and should NEVER be looked upon as an equal. Some people are too stubborn to realize that sex is suppose to be something done out of love; (if any is envolved) not the other way around. Chances are very good that if a person views sex as a foundation to a relationship, he/she wasn't looking for one in the first place. People often forget what marriage is these days. In most traditional marriages there's a line that says "for better or for worse"; if someone is gonna treat the other like some kind of merchandise such as a car or whatever and they have this mentality that they have to "try" someone out before marriage, they don't have any business getting married. Basically if this happens what that person is saying is that they don't love you, they're just gonna use you as temporary usage and if he/she doesn't like what's been provided, that person is gonna be stashed away. That is what's gonna happen when sex becomes before marriage.
20270
If you're asking whether societally people are still expected to find one person and marry them, then I would say that it applies less so than in the past, but marriage and a family is still what is generally expected by people. Certainly, people who choose not to marry are not as unusual as they once were, and it's more accepted to be unmarried. As proof, the words "Old Maid" and "Spinster" have virtually disappeared from the lexicon. \n\nIf you're asking if humans in general want to marry for life now like they used to, I do think the desire is still there, perhaps primally, in most people. As long as you find someone you truly love, it's natural to want to cement that person into your life with the convienient institution of marriage. I think fewer people just get married because they feel like they "have to" nowadays, however.
105671
If you don't work things about before you re-marry, then you are condemning yourself to the same old problems as before.   I, too, advise counseling before you become involved in marriage with her again.\n\nBest of everything!
1062069
the difference between dating and marriage is that \n1. Marriage is a committment for life.\n2. Marriage is all in papers like it or not.\n3. And if you get a dirvorce, you have to go to court, and if you have a kid you have to get some kind of paper to have your kid with you.\n4. Dating is also a committment, BUT is to yourself, NOT for life.\n5. Dating if you break/broke up you can just talk to each other and decide NO PAPERS INVOLVE!!!.\n     LAST IS THAT BOTH " IF YOU CHEAT, YOU WILL BE SORRY!!!.
65570
no. marriage should be about love and commitment, not convenience.  marriage should never be rushed, and if you marry just for convenience, chances are you will be miserable for the rest of your life, or just wind up getting a divorce or annullment.
568840
My dad (my parents have been married for 57 years) says that divorce is not an escape from your problems, just a new set of problems. That's why second and third marriages have a higher divorce rate then first marriages. Divorce is sometimes the only way to address certain relationship issues, but it needs to be as a last resort. Too often, people give up without investing any real effort.
361104
both......love after marriage is different, you can tell......marriage after love gets you to the love after marriage, so its all good!
38821
I've been married and single both...and while there are advantages to both, I'd choose married. (but next time to someone I know better!)\n\nIf you're not afraid of really hard work, marriage would be better. It takes work every single day, though.
125452
AFTER you get married.  Life gets way too complicated if you do it before marriage.  It saves you from a lot of heart ache too.  You and your spouse will be glad you waited, then you won't have to worry about diseases, pre marital pregnancy, past lovers, etc.
1030502
well for me it is better a love marriage... :-)
6095
Experience is a strict taskmaster, but it's more effective than any other method.  Yes, I think that you mature more quickly without a support system, but you also make a lot more mistakes.  All in all, it's better to have family and support than have to re-invent the wheel of life by yourself.
538294
Yes. Otherwise, couples would go their seperate ways when things got hard, instead of making it work. Marriage is a rational decision you make to be with 1 person, even if it gets hard. Think about a world full of broken homes, with only one parent. That would be reality without marriage.
1018205
I think it is a matter of personal preference. When you  are in love it is hard to wait until marriage. I do think though that when you marry virginity is one of the best gifts you can give your spouse.
133853
Of course you can, but why don't you focus on establishing\na friendship or even a relationship first instead of thinking about marriage again already.