Fall in love online an others push it into our face. Is it possible to be truly in love, when no one believes?
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Love is sweetest when you can live your lives in harmony at most with the both of you. Conformity to common norms as perceived by others would mean nothing more than a facade of happiness that others would only find ideal in.  Your happiness is what is most important.  Living your life being honest to your true self, feelings, and emotions would make others admire you..... regards! tadon...
409182
Yes i think its possible....Its your own love, people cant decide your feelings for you.\n\ngood luck
586537
There is probably more wisdom in this question than in any answer you'll get!\n\nI think you hit it with your last thought:  Real love, instead of infatuation.\n\nPeople who 'fall in love' are not in control, they are at the mercies of their infatuation/attraction/etc.  REAL love is something that a person must CHOOSE, like choosing to dive into a pool.  Once you start, you're committed; and even if you change your mind, you're gonna get wet before you get back out.  Most people make this choice without realizing that they were in control, because usually they are allowing their desires to drive their choice; they willingly follow their desires to the edge, knowing what is at the end but unaware that they could just stop allowing themselves to be led around so.  Still, the choice was made.  If more people recognized it, there would be fewer people 'falling out of love,' because they would not have walked into it so blindly.\n\nRise in love!  That's wonderful!  And a much better analogy for the power true love has, anyway.
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i think that most people just know, and at the same time many people question it, they always wonder : can this be it, is it really going to work, and so forth. the way i look at it is: when you look at the person do you think of anyone else, do you see yourself with this person "forever", do you want to grow old with this person. no one else but you can determine if you are in love or not, this is your question to answer, not ours.
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Yes I do believe you need to love someone and that someone is YOU.  Love yourself unconditionally and stand strong and firm in what you believe and someone will notice that and they may end up loving you.
861340
I believe that true love exist. I think that there is more than one person out there that can make you experience it. No one will ever be just perfect for you that is way you get to have possibilities. If there were only one person out there that is right for you then it will be nearly impossible to find them.
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Love on the internet??  Ha!  You can't fall in love with someone you haven't met...\n\nYou might think you are in love because this person tells you what you are needing to hear.  What makes you think they aren't saying that to everyone they are chatting with??  Don't be so gullible.  Get off the computer and go out and meet people.  THAT's how you find someone to fall in love with... not by words on a screen.    Anybody can tell you anything over the internet... that's the great thing about it.  **Anybody can be whoever they want to be on here...\n\nWould you believe me if I told you I was Julia Roberts??  I might be... but then again, I might not... the point is, I'm saying it on the internet... so you can only know what I tell you.   Your next thought might be about photos... This guy might have sent you some pics... Anybody can get any photo from the internet and send those too...  I only hope you don't get into a situation that is going to hurt you... Some people on the net make up "Too Good To Be True" personnas, when in fact, they are lesbians, gays, perverts, elderly people, psychos, and pedophiles...  DON'T FALL FOR ANYONE OVER THE INTERNET!\n\nJust get out and meet REAL people.  That is the only way you are going to find someone REAL to fall in love with.  Best of luck to you!
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It seems, to me, that it would be true love if you don't have to ask and if people (including yourself) can't talk you out of it.  At least, that's a better indicator than asking the public....  Or, are you just gloating because you're in love??   ;)
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That is a difficult question. I say yes. Been there and done that and my heart is broken right this moment. However, after talking to someone about it, I have to ask myself, is it real? My heart/emotions says definitely yes. However, logically, you've never been with that person so you really don't know how they really are. I say if it is possible to get together, it could be real love if you get to meet. Did that make sense?
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How do you know if you'll be accepted ? Put yourself out there....find out first hand if the person is going to accept you...If you love someone you just do....you cant just make that feeling go away....you might have to let it go if truly they don't share your feelings but why live the rest of your life wondering WHAT IF? If the feeling isn't mutual you'll at least know....and then you can move on. Even if you hold on to those feelins forever. Sometimes we love what we cant have or what is bad for us...The mere fact that its bad or off limits sometimes makes us feel stronger towards the subject. So I say GO FOR IT you might be pleasantly surprised at the outcome;)
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I think its possible to fall in love with that person's spirit or how you perceive their spirit and soul. It takes years sometimes to find out if a person is who you believe they are. As for a physical attraction, that will take an in person meeting. But maybe this is how you were supposed to meet your soulmate so take a chance otherwise you might regret it later and always wonder....what if?
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There is no such thing (to me) as falling in love.  You are first attracted to a person but you need to take the time to get to know them from the inside out. That takes time. Years even.  A lot of time when people are building a relationship based on some foundations of trust, loyalty, honesty, likenesses, etc. love follows.  When you say you love someone, if you truly know the meaning - Read ! Corinthians 13.  It explains love like nothing else.
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I am married to a man that I met online.  I thought that I loved him while we were only communicating online.  But once we actually met in person and starting dating things were very different...in a good way.  And I then when I ACTUALLY fell in love with him, I realized that what I felt for him before wasn't love at all...but more of an infatuation.  \n\nI think it's very easy to get feelings for another person via the internet.  But I do honestly believe it is VERY different in person.\nI don't think you can love someone until you know them completely, and you just can't do "at first sight" or over the internet.
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of course I believe in love.  and anyone who says no is just jaded due to a bad experience when things didn't work out.  love is a good & powerful thing for those who recognize it and appreciate it for what it is.  there are different kinds of love, the temporary kind (which is easily confused with lust) and the everlasting kind, that is rare and hard to find.  if you ever find true love, dont let it get away.
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I agree with most of the people who have answered this question.  But have you ever heard anyone say that if a person ever had fallen in love with someone, they cannot fall out of it as, unlike other things, there can be no falling out - if you fell out of love, you never fell in.  Kinda like a well.. you can't fall out of a well.. lol...
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I think it's possible, though I've only experienced love once, and it wasn't that kind. I've always held onto hopes of finding a love like that, and I've seen some friends who appear to have that type, though in the end, everything seems to end.
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LOVE!!! Everyone's definition of love will be different. I think though, the one thing we would agree on is,"how great and powerful and beautiful" it makes us feel. You will know your in love because of all the crazy things you will be feeling and doing, just all of a sudden makes sense. You haven't by some chance built a wall around your heart have you? Unfortunately, as wonderful as love is, its just as terrible and ugly when it ends. Have you lost someone close to you for any reason, such as, death, parents splitting up, a good friends betrayal, and etc., etc.,. We don't seem to cauterize those as that special kind of love, like we want to believe love is, but non the less, it is. Love is a game of chance, and a sense of gambling. Sounds like poker some what, huh? Anyway, if you have built this wall to protect your heart, that wall is also keeping out the one thing that everyone wants which is to love and to be loved. Open your heart, and trust, and see what you find. "Its better to love and lost, than to never of loved at all." Now, get out there and experience love for yourself and ee what happens!