I fell in love with this girl but she has a man.  I want her to be mine. what should I do?
408364
Yes, I would say that you are. I believe the only reason she talked to you was to transition and to fill a void that her BF left and then when her former BF changed it was a reason to give him another chance. I understand you think she likes you, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Leave them alone and if she gets hurt again you will know when to make your move.
694327
i dont kno y ur falling for her if u dont kno what she is like either, but then again i dont kno why i am falling for this girl that i dont kno either. it is good that u like her personality and it sounds like u care about her. and that u want her to be happy and u wish that she would wake u and realize that she is in a bad situation and that u are a whole lot better for u ( i kno exactly how u feel bc i am in the same situation. just keep doin what u are doin and try to get to kno her better. when she starts to talk to u more, and tell u more about her personal life, then u can ask her about her relationsihp (so and so said this what is that about?) and just show her that u care about her and how she feels.\n\nWith Love from God, \n              Joshwea and best of luck
132952
Don't do that. Never force or convience anyone who is not \nready. If you are a real man or gentleman you will put her\nfeelinga into consideration. She will eventually come around. Understand men and women are dofferent. Their timing\nis different. Please be understanding with her. If you love\nher you will understand.
1135744
Great I found you because I'm in similar position... So in love with a guy but didn't know what to do. So lonely and wish he knew how I feel but still fear what will happen if he does know\n\nIt really depends on what the girl believes in. She may be really straight forward and express her love to you. OR, she may be like me, who believes that the guy shall make the first move, and she'll drop hints hopefully you'll pick them up and start confessing your love to her like Romeo to Juliet\n\nAin't it a beautiful dream come true?\n\nReady to do anything, that's really sweet... Stick to it then... And decide what you should do, and fast! The love boat doesn't travel to your shore all the time, get it on before you miss it... good luck!
369914
It's so hard when a child is involved,you are always going to be second best to her baby(it's the same with single dads,I know from experience),but if you truly love this lady and you want to make it work,then tell her how you feel,share your thoughts on children and suggest that you and her son should spend some lads time together,this way you score brownie points and give him a little male input as well.Don't ever change who you are for someone else and if she insists that her son is the ONLY  man in her life,let her go.\nGood luck
175347
Why should you care?  She can waste her time all she wants being in love with him.  The key is that your man is in love with you and pays this woman no attention at all.  If she can have any affect on your man then your issue should be with him and not her.
342294
This is simple.... STOP!  If it was love she would be w/ you and no other!  Also, remember how you get the girl is usually how you lose 'em! Good luck!
418910
Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.
620260
If you both see each other as "the one", why are you guys not together? You obviously still have feelings for her, so tell her. Talk to her about this. Does she feel the same way?\n\nIf you really think of her as the one you should give it another shot. If that doesn't work, then maybe you should rethink if shes "the one".
30802
It's not proper to be in such situation and its not easy for her too, she was in love at first then you came, you got closer and now you are both in love but at the same time she is with her boyfriend, may she likes something in you and another in her boyfriend, but soon one of you will win, so to be honest with yourself and to avoid doubting that she might do it with another person if she left her boyfreind for you, give her enough time to decide but you have to be away from her she must choose only one person in order not to be hurt or to hurt her boyfriend if he discovered that she is cheating on him
1122598
well sounds like she already knows how you feel, so leave it alone she will follow her heart. you don't want to push her into being with you and she will always wonder if she made the right choice by not being with the other guy. just let things happen the way they are suppose to
681576
Is she happy in this relationship?  If she is, then you have to forget it.  You can't ruin her happiness so she can be with you.  You may like her, but she might love this guy, and you shouldn't try to tear them apart by 'making your move'.  She's taken, sorry.
942661
Don't try to force it.  If she is going to love you then you should not have to do anything out of the ordinary.  Will you love yourself if you change yourself just to please someone else?\n\nSometimes people are not always on the same page.  The hardest thing in the world is acceptance.  You have to accept the situation for what it is.  That doesn't mean you stop loving her.  Just be patient. You don't want he to fall in love with a made up you stay the way you are.  Money and gifts can't buy love.  \n\nKnow your heart....
73370
gooo...im a girl so i can relate my feelings to theirs...it would hurt if you'll tell your gf that you love somebody else...but if you'll let girl b wait for you,she might look fo another guy to be wiht her... so you have to choose one....if i were you,i would choose the girl who loves me most..
70666
aww how seet you sound like you have a good heart, but if she has a boyfriend then i'm sorry to say but u probably need to let her go, i know it hurts now and it will hurt for a while, but u never know they might have a problem and decide to break up, but for right now it doesn't look like it's going to happen u have a life to live live it to the fullest each day and u and her could be friends.. if u can't have her as a girlfriend u  can atleast have her as a good friend.. other girls will be out there, they may not be like her but i know they will like u and learn to love the person u are...
405467
Sadly, currently i am the other man in that kind of triangle.(except she is not marride but living with the guy) I am in love with this woman.  But she will never leave this guy.  I was being used the whole time.  You are not in love with both of these men. You just crave attention anyway you can get it and dont wont to feel guilty.  I bet if you look hard enough one of these men really do luv you and is the best for you.  But you are not a strong enough person to do the work it takes to be in a real relationship.  No matter what these men are going to get hurt. AND YES IT IS YOUR FAULT!!  you are the bad guy in this!
535380
let other people talk to her about it but u DON'T. and it'll be better if she doesn't know that those ppl are from ur side. after things are over between them, wait for a while b4 u approach. but still, it's not advisable..leave her alone. anyways why would u love a girl who is already "taken"??!\n\ngood luck