How do I get my boyfriend to purpose to me soon without begging?
400979
There is no way to MAKE him propose to you. If he is not ready, then you should not make him ask you because it will end in heartbreak, no doubt about it. You can let him know you are ready by telling him, so he can think about it on his own terms. When, and if, he is ready, he will ask. Do NOT do anything that makes him feel guilty or make him think he has to or else (unless you honestly consider it worth the risk to lose him, then you can give him that ultimatum). \n\nRemember, this is not just about you. He is also apart of this. He needs to be comfortable and happy with asking you, and this is something he will so when and if he is ready. Have you two already talked about getting married? If so, then its a matter of time. Maybe he is saving up to buy the ring, or waiting for a special time. If you have not discussed it already, bring it up. Ask him if he wants to marry you someday (don't put a time limit on it just yet) or if he can picture a future with you. If he says yes, maybe over time discuss it more. If he is not sure, give him time. Let him know you love him and would love to spend your life with him, but you understand he needs his time. Never rush him, since he may do it to make you happy, but later call off the whole wedding because he is terrified and not really ready. What would you prefer, waiting to get engaged later and him being completely ready for the commitment or asking now and calling it off months later, ruining your whole relationship just because he felt rushed?
87002
then he really doesn't want to be with you. don't put up with it . break up with him and if he comes back then he realized that he does like you and you're not as needy as he thought...but don't just sit at the house waiting for him and calling him. make other plans . don't let your life revolve around his. you need to be in control. don't act needy
635202
Alright.  At this point, I would say let him make the move.  You don't want to seem too desperate because then he'll realize how much you want him and will do anything to have him and he'll begin to think he can get away with anything, which is not good.  He's ignoring you because he too cannot swallow his pride.  And, if he only comes home on the weekends and this huge fight was over something so minor, you may need to ask yourself how healthy the relationship is and if it's really worth it...no matter how much you may feel for him.  Trust me on this one...
691209
What's the point in wanting him then? I wouldnt give him the time of day.\nMove on and find someone who cares.
1047243
Awww that's not stupid, its sweet! Maybe you could get together a group of friends to go out and do something fun...like a carnival or amusement park or something. An outing where you would be likely to communicate. And just try to hang around him a little more than anyone else and see how you vibe with each other. If it seems like things are okay, then maybe you could offer to call and do something together, but nothing too major. Or at least find an excuse to get his number or give him yours. Or even his email address. With myspace and IM and everything, there is always an excuse to get at least that info because its so common! Start slow but have a goal in your head!!! Most women strategize when we aren't quite sure what the outcome will be.  That way we know we have tried, but we cover our butts in case it doesn't go as planned! I wish you the best!!!
247697
Don't rush into anything. If he wants more, that's up to you. If you're not ready, then he should respect that. You should keep track of your goals and not get distracted. But you could also have your guy. You could make a packed to be together and not see other people, but let him know that you have goals you need to get through them. So there may be times you can't focus on him, but you won't be seeing anyone else. He should understand :) Good luck
838470
Its getting routine... Spice it up a little, when you know he is coming home prepare a picnic in your living room or something similar that is romantic.  He could be like that for a lot of reasons, men have periods too it seems.  Spice up the relationship do something that you havent done before, if  you still dont get a response, then maybe you two need to sit and really talk about whats going on.
371988
I think you are being the chaser here.  You certainly have given him every indication that you are interested.  Now it's time for him to pursue you.  He certainly is exhibiting that other things distract him when it comes to you.  If he isn't making you a priority now, it can only get worse if you continue on in this relationship.  If you cool it and he asks what is up, then tell him straight up, that he doesn't seem to be overly interested so you didn't want to bother him.  If he's really intersted, this will light a fire under him.  Finally, be leary of this "I'm talking to family in Canada thing".  Maybe once, but not every time you try to call him.  My relationship warning light is flashing on that one.  Best of luck to you!
111625
you might just have to give him time if he doesnt want to be in a relationship just yet. but if he is still dragging his feet a month from now you need to take some kind of action
806267
Slowly....buy him something you want him to wear. Make a suggestion to him. You can convince without being obvious. Gingerly putting suggestions out there at the right time. It won't happen overnight, but eventually it is possible if you are patient!
837419
Tell him to get you something ( clothes, jewellery, shoe etc etc) whenever he ask you to go with him very soon he will stop this habit.
335603
I had the same problem with my present boyfriend.  Instead of trying to constantly get through to him (which can annoy the person after a while), just let him know that you are there for him and that he has no reason to keep his guard up.  This should only be told to him once, and whatever happens after that is up to him.  Though it may take a while for him to accept it and open up, it may work.
201859
hey,\nthe first question u should ask is do u love him. i do understand that sooner or later giving can b quite costly. what u could try and do is increase ur conversations wid him. it does happen when he is content with wat he is gettin n tends to forget to give or just does not knw wat to give u. try to lower ur expectations most importantly.\ni hope everythin goes well :)
402403
Stop being so needy and let him do the chasing - right now you are a sure thing...ignor him for a while or be just too busy for him
338287
Look dear, if you are planning marriage to this man, think again.  If you have to beg for his time now, it will get only worse.  After marriage, when you have children, bills, mortgages, a yard to keep, finances to manage.  \nYou shouldn't have to beg for your man's time, if he doesn't give it willingly he isn't the man for you.\nI wish you well and I pray you will find the man that you don't have to beg for anything!
647669
You are a minnow in a big pond, an inconsequential thing that he might consider if it is convenient.  He perceives your offer is right on the edge of inconsequential.  Now if it looked like you could be very valuable to him, you would have a higher priority.  Right now, he's got piles and piles of things to juggle space and time for, almost all being more valuable than you.  Figure out an advantage (to him) or blow it off.  He's not lying, he's just busy and your value isn't perceived as high enough to merit nailing down the time and effort.  Sorry.  It's like dating a gorgeous woman who can have almost anyman she wants, why would she want you?  You've got to be worth it to her somehow.  This is different from desperate plain Jane's--right now you are behaving like the deseparate plain Jane who is mad that some guy who smiled at you hasn't called.
1100817
Don't call him unfortunately you have only been dating for 2 months which means you still have to play those ridiculous games.....Even if he is bad at returning phone calls....if a man wants something bad enough they will do almost anything to get it.  I would wait.  I understand you want to see him but You shouldn't have to put all the effort into it...there should be some on his end too.   You are better than that....and NEVER show up to a mans house unannounced it makes you look desperate and needy they HATE that.  Good Luck