Why don't people talk about falling out of love?  Is there a sudden stop at the end or something?
413798
YEA DIVORCE OR SEPERATION
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No, it's not normal.  Haven't enough people answered questions about this relationship for you to get out of it yet?
856154
if you cant fall out of love it means you are in love with that person and there is nothing wrong with that
626381
I have come to the conclusion that the only infinite emotion for a human is love. throughout life a human being wont be able to live without love. when everything goes down.... love is the one thing that can keep you going. but of course that is a subjective observation lol. not everybody understands romance lol. and no it doesnt ever end completely!
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i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
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He's just not that in to you, sorry...or he wouldn't have ceased contact...the "brush off" is a very common method of letting someone know they aren't interested (nowadays)...it's the cowards way of getting away from someone, versus being mature and telling them, so they aren't left hanging and wondering...\n\nWork on getting over him...you can't win the heart of someone who isn't going to make their heart available to you...
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It could be the age difference also. When you have to wonder if it is over then usually it is or either on it's way to being over. You two need to find out what is pulling you apart and why no more happiness in the marriage. Talk, talk and talk more that is the key to getting to the problem. .
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Not enough love is being shown. Some are too emotionally frazzled to show love fearing of being emotionally hurt. It's so much easier to ask then to show. To show love takes effort.
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when you have to ask, you are out of love....
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I actually just brought up that idea with my ex when I talked to him tonight (we broke up two weeks ago) and he said he isn't in love with me anymore. I think it's best to not go back and just move on. Healthier that way.
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Ok: if you are a romantic emotional masochist (like me. this means that you like the pain part of love and the like), then you will go out of your way to talk about it with them as much as possible. if you aren't ( and you probably aren't) you could listen as much as you can, but then say something to get you out of there. try to move on. hard as it is, it's the best thing.
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Sometimes you can't make a clean break with love. The emotion is just too intense. If you are like me...once you love, you always love. It never really goes away. Personally, I would drive to his house and be sitting on his porch step when he arrives home from work. I would stand there and wait for him to walk up to me and I would simply say......"I love you." He'll know you mean it......nothing else will need to be said. The gesture will say it all. But the point is......you need to tell him!! Good luck!
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Sometimes when people think they 'really love' someone whose actions hurt them (his breaking up with her, his distance and his silence) they are actually desperate to love and be loved, but the person they are focusing on is not "the one".  Instead, the one being hurt doesn't feel like they can survive alone, and they don't trust that they will find the true "one" in time to not die of a broken heart.  It's hard to make the decision to be alone when you feel this way, but it's the only way to open the door to true love, and it extends your misery until the day you decide to take the leap and risk being sad for a while.
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I think everyone would like to marry the one they love, but I think that sometimes people confuse love with lust or infatuation and that is why people "fall out of love" so often today.  They don't wait to see if it is really love.
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I suggest reading the book called "How to mend a broken heart, moving on and letting go" it's by Aleta Koman. I had and still have the same problem. It's goes away with time, then again there are times it comes back but not as bad. If you ever need someone to talk to look in my profile and contact me. I'm here if you need someone to talk to and try to help you the best way that I can.
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“It is impossible to fall out of love. Love is such a powerful emotion, that once it envelops you it does not depart. True love is eternal. If you think that you were once in love, but fell out of it, then it wasn't love you were in. There are no 'exit' signs in love, there is only an 'on' ramp.”\n\n-------------------------------------------------\n2) Our hearts are heavy and empty. We feel betrayed, hurt, resentful. How could they allow such ruin? We do not feel good about ourselves. The sun has stopped shining, the old oak tree is wicked looking, with gnarled twisted branches, your eyes have dark circles under them and there is a dragging shuffle in your walk. You have fallen out of love.
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There are many good women still left and I am sure they are asking the same question you are about men :o)  I think in life people that have been through relationships are either more shy about giving too much or just scared of getting hurt.  I was just talking to a friend about this subject today and some people are not comfortable being alone and not really ready to be with someone, which can be perceived as being closed....who knows but I do believe everyone has a someone!!  Good Luck and I hope you find what you are looking for soon....