Whats the best way to tell your parents that you want to snowboard--even though you know they'll be so mad?
399575
First you need to find out why they will get mad. Is it money they can't afford to spend?  Is it that they are over protective and don't want to see you get hurt?  Sometimes parents "act" angry towards kids because they can't afford things that kids ask for but are too ashamed to admit it to a child. If it is neither then you need to find out the underlying reason and solve it.  Then there will be no reason to refuse.
229541
I am a parent, if my daughter were to tell me, I'd be shocked. But then I'd rather know. There is no best way. you will have sit them down and tell them as nicely as you can. If you have a sibling, then take their help, that is if they are older than you. If not you could say that i have something very important to tell you.... most of the time they would want to see you happy! \n\nGood luck!
544450
Just tell your parenst the truth, they might be angry with you but its alot better than telling a lie.
442270
Tell your parents straight up that you will not accept the blame for their arguments and that you will no be the scapegoat for their problems in their life. It may be so that they argue about something related to you but their inability to resolve the issue shows their is some problems brewing between them for some time before and instead of facing them they blame you. Tell them how you feel and let them know that is sad that they are not been adults and instead of helping you grow as a person they are limiting you and making you feel bad.
707078
tell your parents you really tried and try your best to allow them to understand you did your best and will work even harder next term to get a better mark. NExt time acturally try hard to achieve higher mark
1014877
The easiest way to tell your parents is to simply sit down and ask to have an adult conversation with them. It's best not to sugar coat anything, just keep it real. Tell them you have a boyfriend and it might be nice if you tell them that you would really like them to meet him and get to know him. That way they feel like they are involved in your life. Whatever you do don't put it off any longer because the longer you wait the worse it will be when you tell them.
408739
Just tell them.  And hope for the best!
1099922
yeah sure it looks that way. just don't jump the gun and get mad at your mom. this could all be unavoidable. just tell her you really want to come up and for her to not make any plans to prevent your visit. If she still continues to have excuses...i dunno, try talking to your dad about it. maybe he'll talk to your mom about the way it's affecting you.
239762
Just show that you got grit and tell him.  I know it won't be easy, but after all the yelling is over just tell himyou always bring them up.
181100
Tough break. No child ever wants to disappoint his/her parents. However, the best thing to do is to confront the issue with them. Choose a time when you know that they aren't already stressed out and gradually explain how this may have happened. Since you seem to be smart in general, this was probably a fluke or an outlier. Most importantly, don't beat down on yourself. It's not the end of the world, even though it may feel like it.
186340
There isn't a easy way.  When you do tell them, make sure they are sitting down.  It's actually up to you how you want to tell.  You can talk to one person or you can have everyone in for a family meeting.  I think that face to face is better.  Good luck
103390
Tell them this :\n\nMom dad, please let me play. I know after I graduate high school that would be one thing i will regret..not being able to play football. You only live once. And high school life can't be repeated. I really want to play.\n\nAsk them for their reasons. And most likely it's because they think you'll get hurt. It's part of the game. What's the wort that can happen? You dont like football n u quit. Simple. Either u like it or u dont. let ur parents give u a chance n let u try. Its part of growing up..making ur own decisions.
422660
Ask your mother to sit down with you and talk to her.  Don't say "You", but do say "I feel".  Parents know we make mistakes but be sure to apologize, and be open to listen.    If you're to nervous to talk face to face and you're afraid  your mother will interrupt you and not let you get you point across then try writing her a letter.  Please though drop out "you", because we don't want your mother to feel like she's being attacked!
158123
parents usually get mad when their kids fail to follow rules or do what is expected of them .Parents don't tell their kids to do things just for the heck of it. They want their children to learn some responsibilty so that they can make right choices in life. Your parents are only concerned about you and your well being. they want what is best for you. Try not to lie, if you are caught doing something wrong, admit to it. It is a very mature move, believe me, and after you admit to what you did wrong, apologize. You can also talk to your parents about your goals and let them know that you need them to help you fulfill your goals.Parents like to be needed by their children, I think that is the scariest part for parents when kids grow up, the thought that their kid doesn't need them anymore.
207823
Talk to them. Let them know you are distressed and need some guidance. Try and be calm about it and state clearly what you would like to see happen. \n\nMaybe before you talk to them, sit down and write out all your thoughts on a big list. Write down everything you think even if it's negative or wrong. Just get it out of your head and in black and white. Write your feelings about your parents as people, about how you are treated, about what rules you like and don't like and any other thoughts and feelings regarding your parents. \n\nNow take at least an hour and go do something else. Come back and look at your list and put check marks by the thoughts that are really important to you. On another piece of paper, write the important issues and give and example of that. Take that with you when you talk to your parents. They'll help if you ask them for it. \n\nMost parents are doing the best they know how. Try and remember that when you talk to them.
1141257
Being open with your parents is the best thing. Sit down and talk to your mom or dad.  Tell her you love her and you would like to talk things out. When she tells you things that she expects out of you, try to be understanding and help her. If your mom is sensible, she will come around. Don't talk back to your parents in a disrespectable tone since that will only make things worse. It will take a great deal of control on your part to sit and listen and when you talk, don't get emotional and keep your head. Talking to them when everyone is calm is the best thing. Level heads come to an understanding. Being a teen is hard, and being an adult is even harder. Trust me on this one. With age come a great deal of responsibility. Show your parents your maturity by talking to them. Its ok to stick up for yourself but do it in a mature way.\nDon't forget, things always change, hopefully, by being open with them, it will be better for you!!
827405
First off, are your parents living in the dark ages...\nGo and do what you want [Not what they want] go see your boyfriend and his family..\nTell your mom in a nice way NO I am going to visit with my boyfriend and his family and that is final. \nYou are 20, you tell them what your plans are and go for it..They have no hold on you anymore...\nSome parents just don't want to let go, but now is a good time to stand up for yourself....