Can a person who had lost his memory to remember who does he love?I'm talking about girlfriend or a boyfriend
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Your memory is your whole history of the past. If you lose it, it's like burning a book: You no longer have access to what's inside. \n\n(Like in the movie "Memento," you would only be able to live in the present, and you would no longer perceive things as part of a larger story.)\n\nIf you forget him in this sense, you wouldn't even remember he existed. You wouldn't remember you had loved him either.\n\nIf you're talking about how feelings go away over time, which is sort of like "emotional forgetting," you can mentally remember that you had loved him, and you can still care about him as a person, but the feelings have vanished and might never resurface.\n\nNote that older married couples have fluctuating emotions like this. Sometimes they love each other passionately, sometimes they simply care about each other deeply. Both are actually "love" -- just different kinds of it.
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Theoretically, they could take your brain and nervous system and removed the 'memory RNA' and inject it into another person and they -- might-- then have your memories.\n\n4 NOV 06, 0245 hrs, GMT.
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:) forgiveness. it is not gonna be easy. but if you love him, it is possible. concentrate on your own life, live your life beautifully and earn back all the confidence, trust through yourself before you try work things out with him again. you definitely need time to make it happen. and if you were to always remind yourself about that lie, you'll never get over it because you have made it a part of your life. I've experienced unfaithfulness of my boyfriend, it happened about half a yr ago but everytime i think of it or when i see the girl, i can feel the hurt so fresh. it won't be healed fast but i believe that you have to start with forgiveness then only you can try forget. don't remind yourself about it, when the thought comes, push it aside. you don't need to familiarise it to help you to forget.
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Good Question, human nature is not to forget. I think it is possible to forgive without forgetting. Forgiving is easy. Forgetiing is not, especially the pain. Forgetting may never happen, however do not make it a habit to shove the mistake down the person's throat. Not forgetting doens not mean living in the past either. In other words...don't keep bringing it up. if it bothers you talk to her about it. Otherwise...sorry..no forgiveness\n\nOne more thing...always forgive. It is an act of selfishness. Forgive the person for yourself. \n\nI know where you are coming from. You probably wont ever forget. But I think you forgave her.
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My brother-in-law. I pretend he has amnesia and thus I have sympathy for him. lol. I'm still waiting for him to regain memory :0)
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oh, that is a very hard question , but i am going to say forgive myself. i tend to have a shorter memory when it comes to others, i have to live with myself. i never can seem to escape my mistakes and they can play repetitively in my head, making forgetting impossible sometimes.
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Hi! I know it is highly impossible to forget any person. If you want to live .. go and seek another person..i knw it seems so rude. or live with his memories but it is very difficult. be practical.. forget the past do n't forget him just live with the guy who loves you ...
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you cant really "make" someone forget their feelings for someone else, only time can do that.  The best thing you can do is be there for him and care about him.  In time you'll have your own space in his heart.
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Realistically, you can't completely forget someone you used to love. At least, I can't. Everyone I've ever loved will always be a part of who I am. They are part of the influences in my life who have made me a better person. Even if they were horrible people, I've become better by the lessons learned. Don't try to forget...just open your heart to yourself and your own strength...and allow your life to "absorb" the hurt. Then the moving on will happen naturally, without the effort...and you will be a finer person for your experiences. (if you choose to be)
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How about instead of forgetting... remember the good times. Only time with help you with that sorry. However after awhile it wont hurt so much and you will be fine.
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Time. A long time. I guess it depends on how things happened. Whether it was sudden or you were both holding on to what you knew was only a matter of time. For me I chose to only remember the good things about him. Sometimes I would watch a movie or see him or hear something that would remind me and instantly I wanted to become violent and sob and scream. But each time that happened I would remind myself of some moment when I was totally happy with him. I would also calmly see that we were better apart (even if I had to lie to myself) but that I had a lot of good memories and lessons from that relationship. Distractions don't last forever but neither does the heartache. Genuinely accept your circumstances and remember that misery is a choice. You can find the best things about your life just how it is and make a conscious choice to be happy.
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1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
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It's not impossible, but why would you want to try to recall those memories?  Would it change the person you have become?  All I can see it doing is causing you pain.  I would chalk it up as just a weird dream you had because you used to have a crush on him.  And, if you were six when he moved way, maybe your recollection of how and why he moved are a little blurry.  Would you even really know if he had moved away in a "panic?"
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If it's truely a first love, you will never get over it.....or at least to the point of forgetting anything ever was there.  Time will pass and eventually you'll lose the desire to or urge to be with him........but he may always be there at the back of your mind or pop up in thoughts every once in a while.  Love is something you can't just forget, it's a life experience.  But to answer your question in a more helpful way.........dating other people helps to ease what ever pain is left behind, and keeps your occupied and your focus on being happy.
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I hosetly don't know the answer to this.  I am so sorry for his loss.  If he can't remember you, be patient.  Start new memories with him.
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It really does not matter what we think use your brain and figure it out for yourself.Why come on here and ask us ? Do we know you or your boyfriend ? Have we seen the two of you interact? Ask your friends or family they would have a much better idea then we would.
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You're going to think of them, there is no stopping that.  Something that helps me?  \n\nIn a psych class I took once, the teacher explained that the reason we think about our ex's so much is because when you care for a person a particular neural path is made in the brain.  From time to time, your brain needs to test that path to make sure it is still working.  This is why you might remember an old gf/bf seemingly out of the blue sometimes years after the break up.  However, if you do nothing about it (resist the urge to call them or look them up) then that path eventually fades out because it no longer gets a response.\n\nResist the urge to dwell on the memory, let it happen and let it pass, and the hurt does go away.