im guiet at school but i talk a lot at home,i have glasses and guys dont like that and i like someone what2do?
413997
maybe the guys do like you but intimidated by glasses and the quiet type.tell him you like him see what happens
135871
Hey, i went through the same thing when i was your age. i am now 16 and the whole talking thing is getting much easier! i can talk to some guys and i have made many new friends. you just have to ACT LIKE YOURSELF and if they think you are a dork and weird, then just remember that it is their loss. heck, you have nothing to lose, plus, you'll never know if you dont try! Goodluck!
116527
If a guy pretends not to notice you at school, he's probably embarrased to be seen with you. You should talk to him about it, and see what the reason is.
520080
This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
315472
Dont choose any of the above! I think I may be in the same boat as u, saying anything may drive him away...Plus, dont ever let a guy know u have something for him... Give it time, see what he likes and how he likes it and start getting him interested in u this way, by being what he likes..WITHOUT CHANGING URSELF (I hope u know what i mean)...BE caring but dont overdo it...let him feel how special u are in his life, let him feel he cant be more comfortable with anyone till e goes online and talks to u, then u can suggest a normal going out thing, no date i mean...LEt him do the rest if there will be any!\nGOOD LUCK ;)
200918
TALK TO SMART GUYS.... this way both benefits from each other, you learn and they get to be seen with you [assuming you are good looking and that is the reason guys are nice to you]\n\nnote: this only works if you are smart.
371980
Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.
1077946
always be open and honest this is being true to you. a study at cambridge showed that 89% of males found glasses on a woman to be sexy. If you do not tell people how you feel then they will never know and you will always regrete it. would of could of should of happens every day dont let it be you. best of luck
1031555
No one can make you more confident.  You have to do that for yourself.  If you go looking for some guy to boost your self-esteem, you'll attract a guy who will tell you anything you want to hear to get you in bed, & from what you are saying, that isn't something you are ready for at this time in your life.  Right now, you need to focus on you.  Try to work on school, a job, & make the most of yourself.  If you start setting new, realistic goals for yourself & achieving them, your confidence can't help but go up, & guys will notice this.  Good luck.
399684
Nothing's wrong with you, girlfriend. It's the men who have the problem, not you. I fthey don't like you for being you, they are definetly not worth it.  Stay true to yourself and you shall be fine. I think that men who aren't interested in a girl like you who seems very nice are just idiots, jerks, and stupid guys who aren't willing to look inside of you to get to know that person inside of you that makes you, you.
508890
You don't want a guy who is just interested in your looks, you want one that likes your personality. Make sure this guy knows what you are like. Chat to him, find any excuse. Become friends with him and see where it goes. If my mates are anything to go by, looks are not a great thing to have as my mates are sometimes ever so slightly shallow :-/
851243
Look, maybe it's weird, or just unfortunate, but guys need some kind of excuse to talk to you. If you're just there with your friends, lookin' all hot and stuff, but they have no compelling reason to talk to you, they won't. Blame it partly on shyness, partly on fear of rejection, and partly on respect for the space of others. Just 'cause a girl's hot doesn't mean I'm automatically gonna cruise up and say hello. Are you sure you were making eye contact? Maybe you were looking at their eyes while they were checking out your stuff.\n\nIf you really wanna be approachable, then try saying something yourself. Do it when you're up getting a coffee and Mr. Cute is standing beside you. Make a remark about the coffee, or how busy the place is, or whatever. Just give him a reason to talk to you. Just strutting by is not a good enough reason. Most guys, if you're dressed all hot and looking confident, will assume you've already got a man and leave it at that. Sure, they'll tell their buddies at the same table that you were totally giving them the eye and just what they'd like to do with you, but most guys don't have the stones to do anything about it. The ones that do can be pretty scary. Do you really want to date a guy that has no problem  striking up a convo with any cute chick that saunters by? Hey, if he did it with you, then... \n\nLastly, and obviously I couldn't possibly know this, but is there any chance that your image of "trendy" might come off as a little sleazy? How much skin were you showing? Guys sure like to look at something like that, but in the backs of their heads, they're wondering what Momma would say if they brought 'em home to dinner.\n\nGood luck.
884874
Try and spend more time getting to know yourself. What makes you happy. Be comfortable with yourself, school is one big popularity contest, don't buy into it. Spend more time making yourself happy than worrying about guys. It's not who you love, but who loves you.
584047
just wear ur glasses,dumb ass!!!...kidding!!!...be a nerd like me...i'm stuck wearing my fvcking glasses!!!!
465032
I think the best thing to do is change your whole outlook on your life right away. Admitting that you have low self esteem is the first step. I quick got sick and tired of having low self esteem by 7th grade, I mean whats worse than the feeling that your not good enough, like life is living you, remember you are the one living life and you have the control to do or have whatever you want.  I wanted to be the funny girl in class, I wanted to be the loud kid, and I wanted to be the one people recognized. When you take control of how you approach life, the guys come to you and ask you out! Then you'll never fear rejection again, because the guys should want you not the other way around, your worth too much for that. In any case, get to know him, and if you do know him, ask him out, don't make it the life and death question, if he says no, and you change your self esteem, he'll see what he's missing out on.
138270
Sweety.....there IS someone for everyone. Your someone may not be at your school right now, he may not even come from your school. You may met him later. He may move there from somewhere else.\n\nYes, I'd probably agree with you that most men prefer women of thin build. Is that fair you may ask? It's not about what's fair. It's about personal tastes....likes and dislikes, that's all.\n\nFor example; the majority of people like football too....agreed? Well, some don't. It's just about personal taste, and some things seem to fit within what a majority of people  would tend to like.....like football, or a particular build of woman.\n\nIf you wish to lose weight, do it for you, and no one else. You really do have to be the person you are tho. Shy, not shy, heavy, thin, light hair, dark hair, short hair, long hair, long nails, no nails, whatever. Understand?\n\nYou have to learn who you are and what you're about. You have to be confident with yourself, and then.....someone will come along and like you for exactly who you are.\n\nI know it sounds like a mystery now, and it seem unfair. And that it is frustrating for you, but trust me. Think about yourself and work on being a good person. Develop the person inside because that is what shines thru when you meet people. \n\nIf some don't like you because of your looks....fine...so be it. It does and will happen. Don't take in 'inside' you.....those people have more problems that you do, and I'll bet that 99% of those people may look beautiful on the outside, but are empty, dark and of little substance on the inside. The only way they can feel good is to trash someone else. They are doing you a favor by showing you what they are made of. It makes things very clear-cut for you! You should pat them on the back and say, "Thanks for showing me what kind of as----le you are!"!  lol\n\nLike who you are......work on the person you are, because you are not defined by others, or a boyfriend. You're defined by who you are and how you behave towards others.\n\nYou'll be FINE......:)
800769
I would have to say that you are looking for guys in the wrong place.  If you want to find a guy who "...actually listens to what you say and cares about your opinions..." then you have to find a guy who is attracted to you because of what you say and is interested in your opinion, not because of the way you look.  You should try joining a club or an organization you are interested in.  Be yourself and say what you feel.  Show off your brain, and maybe you'll find what you're looking for.