i work with my elder brother in same place. i do all the work & he gets the credit ..?
399049
This will never work. You can't work with relatives. My husband tried that many years ago. Only his Uncle was the boss and worked him like a dog and lied to him. \n\nFind another job now is my advice. Before there are more hard feelings. My husband can't stand his Uncle now.
1002609
HIS BEING YOUR BROTHER-IN-LAW HAS NO BEARING AS TO YOUR PERFORMANCE AT WORK.  JUST GIVE YOUR BEST TO WHATEVER RESPONSIBILITIES YOU HAVE IN YOUR OFFICE AND YOU WILL NEVER GO WRONG.  PERSONAL MATTERS ARE LEFT OUTSIDE THE WORKPLACE.  HE SHOULD TREAT YOU AS HIS SUBORDINATE AND YOU SHOULD TREAT HIM AS YOUR BOSS WHENEVER YOU'RE IN THE OFFICE.  OUTSIDE, THE OFFICE YOU AGAIN SHOULD TREAT EACH OTHER AS IN-LAWS.  \n\nFOR AS LONG AS YOU DO YOUR JOB WELL BY USING YOUR FULL POTENTIAL, YOU SHOULD NOT WORRY EVEN IF HE IS YOUR BOSS BECAUSE I'M SURE HE WILL APPRECIATE YOUR BEING A GOOD EMPLOYEE IN THAT PLACE WHERE BOTH OF YOU WORK.\n\nWHEN HE REPRIMANDS YOU, ANALYZE IF HE IS RIGHT IN DOING SO AND DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY.  TRY TO HONE FURTHER YOUR SKILLS SO THAT MISTAKES WILL NOT COME OFTEN.   TAKE YOUR MISTAKES AS LESSONS FOR IMPROVEMENT AND FOR SURE, YOU WILL BECOME ONE OF THE BEST EMPLOYEES IN TOWN.  GOOD LUCK.
869537
I have two brothers as well and they are pretty lazy too so it's not just you!
209358
yes my older brother dose
104374
We have a joint account, and also a seperate account. The joint account is savings. He pays bills and rent, i pay everything else, and it works out even. (ofcourse if one is short we'll back them up, but it works out easier than checking up on the other all the time to ensure they are not spending the "our" money on silly things - ie video games)
1037305
2 bros and 1 sis....I'm the oldest
543416
he can send you a list of what can be sent to him...umm i used to send alot to my brother they send you a list of what they need.
587675
In this instance I would say give the job with your brothe a go.  It appears that you will not have anyhthing to lose, by takin the chance. Your current job is not rewarding or enhancing your career prospects.  By working with your brother, you will learn a great deal about managment (people, money, resources) and if you don't know already construction industry knowledge.  You can as someone else said attend college classes to increase your education and allow you in teh future obtain an even better paying higher level job.  On the flipside, family members need to be careful when working together that they don't end up not enjoying each others company.  A few ground rules would need to be set eg. you don't talk about work outside of the office, there should be no special favours because you are related and he shouldn't expect more from you than his other employess because you are related.  If you sort out the rules from the beginning, I have no doubt this job could really work out for you.
998218
R  u  his  brother ?  if  you  r  try  to  play  with  him  or  play  with  him  on  weekends  and  let  him  help  you  on  your  skill.
1062802
I don't suppose I would ever pay someone the full amount for a job before the actual job is complete. It's a little like saying 'Here take my money I don't care what you do!' At least it would to someone who doesn't care one way or the other. Now, if by chance there would be someone out there that WOULD do something soooo silly, they may want to contact the state and file a lien against this person. It would be in their best interest, weather in GA, or not, to also file a complaint with the BBB. Unfortunately there are not really any ground rules for allotted time lines for carpentry. The job, depending on size, could take as little or as long as need be, as long as work was being done steadily. Call around, descript' job size to another contractor, one or two should do nicely, and have them give their best 'guesstimation' of job completion. Go back to original, paid worker, and give them a reasonable amount of time, adjusting of course for elapsed time and work accomplished thus far, to complete the job hired to do. After that you will probably have to pray they don't dash away with your money. Good luck!! Hmmm
700770
Depends on the nature of the work involved.Your Brother should seek legal advice as soon as possible. Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) can offer all the advice,free of charge.I wish him luck.
711147
Both of my brothers had them work. One is married and the other is engaged.
414866
It's called copyrights you can't get credit for someone Else's hard work. that is why u always do what these other two people say print the source where u got that information. And people have gotten in trouble before for not doing this. It's a law.
580635
You don't say who is taking the credit, whether it is a co-worker or your boss or someone higher up, lower, etc.\n\nIt's a matter of documentation. If you find out about it soon enough, you can show your background work and they won't have any. \n\nIf it's an idea, then it's a little harder, but again, documentation of when it way laid down. Mail someone a letter witht he stuff, and don't open it. The postmark is good enough for court evidence; should be good enough for your boss.
551328
its really hard to manage time... i understand where u coming from madam...but u should give a lil time to the brother.. he is a striving dude trying to be ambitious by holding on to a job.. as time goes by i am sure he will get to the top of things...but work can be very hectic... its hard not to hear from the person u love...have faith and keep the relationship..understand the brother i am sure he loves u alot..... goodluck.... FAITH AND UNDERSTANDING TWO KEY ELEMENTS THT NEED TO BE PLAYED!!!
663238
i am the oldest and my brother is the smallest
660942
I GUESS HE'S JUST TELLING YOU THAT YOU CAN TAKE YOUR BRAINS( MEANING KNOWLEGDGE ) ANYWHERE, IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW MUCH YOU DO IT'S WHAT YOU KNOW.\n\nI DISAGREE WITH HIM CAUSE THE PERSON THAT DOES THE MOST WORK SHOULD GET CREDIT FOR IT, FOR THE MOST PART IF YOU ARE IN THE SAME POSITION AS ANOTHER , PLUS YOU HAD TO HAVE SIMIALAR QUALIFICATIONS TO EVEN OBTAIN THE JOB. AFTER THAT POINT IT SHOULD BE BASED ON WHO WORKS HARDER.