who do you pick when choosing from 2 guys who asked you out? and you like and know  them both?
414737
Well  I would evaluate them both in different scenarios of stress and responses.  See which one is better.  See them in and out of their elements.  Find the stronger character.  If you're shy type.  Go for the outgoing type.  and vise versa.
516008
Well who do you like more.. which one are you more compatible with and which do you see as a boyfriend?  They are not clones of each other, there has to be one you have more in common with or like more.  Break it down, girl.
468485
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody
242804
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
660542
First off, it makes more sense to like someone who likes you because liking someone who's never going to like you is not ever going to get you anywhere. If one of them likes you and the other one doesn't; just go ahead and like the one that likes you and forget the other one. If neither likes you, then, you shouldn't even think of either. If both of them like you, that's when you have a dilemma.\n\nSecondly, if they both like you, you should get to know them both as friends (if you're not the sort to date two guys at once). As long as you don't sleep with both, it's not at all cheating. Just getting to know them would be enough to decide which one you want if you want to make up your mind to have only one of them.\n\nThe sure way of finding out if someone likes you is to ask him bluntly. Or you can ask hypothetical questions. Either way, you've got to openly talk to that person. You also need to spend some time with him to pick up substantial evidence of whether he likes you.
538036
well, i think you should chose the one that would be best for you. if you like one guy, but your friends dont like him or he gets you in trouble, then you definatly shouldnt go with him unless you like that type. well, i would write more but i dont want to run out of room. i hope it works out with you and whoever you chose
48250
are you closer with one of them? do you have similar beliefs, temperaments, etc? Its hard to say which person you should choose, not knowing much about either one.
506303
Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make
541591
first you have to ask yourself which of those two you enjoy spending time with...and with which do you get along with better. Also notice if you have any things in common, since that can help you make your decision.\n\nBut I could also say that depending which is cuter, but that's too shallow.
182955
*Pondering a moment for I do not see the prob here* So ask the guy you are most interested in out. It is the Naughties (double zero decade you pervs so keep it clean) after all. Take the initiative and snag that guy...
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
194141
i think you should choose the one u think you really got feelings for and see if he want to be in a relationship with you and respect you
506709
you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)
631910
Thats not a bad thing. You have the right to make an informed decision on who you want to date. BUT, be honest with the guys. And try not to make them feel like  they're being played.
649793
My first choice would be a old fashion boring dude with a beutiful heart and my second choice would be a weirdo that knows how to treat a woman right. the reason for my first choice is because i only look within the guys personality and if he got a huge heart he will respect me and love me for who i am. and i would go with the weirdo as second choice because evryone is differnt meaning evryone do their weird things for once in a while but hey if this guy do evryhting weird it aint that bad as he dont beat on me or something.
125403
I suggest you see which one cares and love you more. Who do you spend time with more? How do they treat you? Is he your kind of people like are you comfortable with him more then the other? Who is nicer to you? Answers these questions to yourself and see how you feel about the two guys you love.
1013199
I think you should go with the guy who is closest to you because most likely the other guy is laid up with some chick and not thinking about you. Boys can manipulate you into wanting you and then drop you like a hot potatoe. Don't take my advice just follow your heart.