i need help i like this guy named Oscar R. alot but he doesn't like me what should i do??
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I'm a guy and have been on the opposite side of this situation a lot.  Here's what you want to do:\n\nBe good friends with him with no expectations.\n\nDuring this time, do everything you can to "play" like you're not attracted to him at all.  Here are some things that will make him begin to think of you as more than a friend:\n\n1) Ask for his help on things.  Men love being needed.\n\n2) Once in a blue moon, let him know a way that you admire who he is and what he does\n\n3) Keep up your appearance\n\n\nThat's it.  Let him initiate everything else.  If he does, he does.  If he doesn't, he doesn't.
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ok...god does not dislike someone because he knows they are gonna go out and commit a crime....he in fact gives them the bennifit of the doubt..and sees if they will do the right thing..what i'm saying is..dont judge a book by its cover..if you really dont want him no more...then dont talk to him he will get the hint..if you do like him then dont be afraid to try something new..try dating him if he is nice then continue..if he is not...then chances are someone will be jealouse that you gave him a shot and not them...now you have guys waiting in line for you if he is a jerk
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You can't mess with nature. You can't force someone to like you. That's a bad idea. Just be around him and hope he picks up on your thoughts.
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Then you should give each other time to cool and at the same time think about this guy whether is he worth you liking him.He doesn't seemed to appreciate it.Just give yourself some time and him too.
61204
I use to have the same problem. If you reallyu actually like him ignore others comments. If you are too bothered about their comments to ignore them tell him about it. Trust me if he really likes you he'll understand.
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Are u sure u don't like him??? W.E if u don't you'll have to tell something like you're one of the best persons i have met in my whole life but we're not meant to be together. However if that person really likes u theres no way he won'feel bad, so be honest but sensitive and w.e ever u do don't say lets just be friend, let him take that decision i mean u can say if u want...
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tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.
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well you gotta think about the reasons you don't want to like him any more if hes done you wrong once hell do you wrong every time.if he didn't do you wrong to your knowledge still he did because boys know when you like them if he didn't like you back he should have confronted you instead of leading you on in ways.soon you'll start to think of his flaws and move on.good luck
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He obviously just liked you as friend, but you have more feelings for him than that. However for the time being, give him space and hopefully he will start talking to you. I know that it hurts but if he doesn't like you in that way you will have to find someone else.  The next time you see him, don't say anything just smile and then after that just say hello. Give it time and hopefully he will start speaking to you again
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Whatever u do, don't tell everyone who likes who. This will just make everything pretty confusing... \n\nIf he doesnt like u, he doesnt like u. But u can try to be friends and maybe he'll change his mind later on once he knows you better.
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Just be forward with him.  Tell him how you feel.  The sooner the better, because if he gets the "impression" that you are intereted in him, then he'll keep nudging at you or doing "those things" that he may think that you think are cute, but what you really think are annoying.   So, just let him know up front, cut in dry.  "I dont like you that way..."
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just be your self...act natural, don`t try to impress him by being someone else...and after that either he likes U, or he doesn`t...if he does good for U, U wouldn`t want him to like you for something you`re not and if he doesn`t, U don`t wanna have anything to do with someone who doesn`t like U for what U R...don`t U change for anybody!!! nobody`s worth giving yourself up for!!!
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I think he might like you..... But he sounds like he is keeping his options open. Be up front. Say if you don't want to let me go. Then you have to be with just me. Cuz if you want to be with other people  then u must not want to be with me. Ask him how he would feel if you wanted to see or like other people.
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That means he doesn't want you.  Find somebody else to really like.\n\nTell him that you like him a lot and that he can call you anytime.
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Just have a talk with him and tell him the truth.  He would appreciate that instead of him thinking that you'd rejected him because you didn't like him.  Tell him that you have your own issues to deal with first.
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Hey Confused, this is 2006. It is okay to talk to the guy. Tell him that you are really mad at manipulative people. And that you noticed him and want to know more about him.\n\nYou say you really like him. Well, you must know something about him, what he likes, etc. Ask him to tell you more about himself. Guys are suckers for that. Really. Sit there and listen. If he plays an instrument, read up on it. Ask him what his favorite band is. You know things like that. Ask his opinion about movies, team sports.  Find common interests.\n\nIf you want him to ask you out, he has to know who you are and find you approachable. When he finds out you are easy to talk with, guess what? He will feel better about asking you out. Play it cool. \n\nAnd killing yourself? Hey, that is forever. Never going to get that good looking guy that way. Hang around. Be interesting and interested. Develop yourself and your own interests. Being not as eager is also a good thing. Remember this, dogs and men chase what runs away.
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I'm not a "boi" but if you really like a "boi" then don't give up on trying to date him. If he REALLy doesn't like you at all, it's time to move on. There's a fish in the sea for everyone!