will i get married, have a family with kids?
403918
If thats what you want, then go for it
380832
YES!  My husband and I both waited until our wedding night.  It was a wonderful decision.  I pray that my children do the same.\n\nYou will find a wonderful man who respects you and your values. Don't settle for anything less.
907371
I know of a family that had 4 kids......they were first cousins, and they ended up having 4 kids with learning disabilities....and downs syndrome......\n\nSo I would say no...do not have kids unless you are prepared to have kids with many challenges.....
1085494
Not everyone is wired to get married.  Being married is a 24/7 job that requires self-sacrifice, understanding  and patience, especially if children are involved.  My brother decided at 25 he did not want children and had a vasectomy.  I was the only family member who applauded his decision.  He told me he was far to selfish to give children the time, patience and attention they need.  \n\nBeing single has it's advantages too.  No one to compromise with, get permission from, answer to, etc.  \n\nWhile you are single, enjoy your life.  Save money, but travel, get involved in things that interest you.  Have bunches of friends for companionship.  \n\nIf you meet someone who just lights up your world, go slowly, be best friends first.  Build your relationship on respect, understanding, selflessness and common interests.  Those are the things that help you weather the storm when you hit rough times, and you will.  \n\nBut please, don't marry because you think it is the right thing to do or for lustful reasons.
257986
By the age of 30 you will be married with 2 kids.
598534
The first question you need to ask yourself is this...who exactly are you marrying? Your sweety or your sweety family? It's you and your sweety who has to live together (unless you're living with the family too) and while being accepted into the family is a good sign of approval, remember they have their life, you have to live yours and find your happiness. Good luck!
29571
who im going to marry....wut career im gonna have...where am i gonna live...how many children am i going to have.....i have a lot more but theres a few
1156176
I can't wait to have children but I am waiting because I want my fiance and I to be married and have plenty of available finances so we can support our child.
521823
Yeah I'm with her. Get married first, but don't get married because you to want a baby together because that's not the way to go. The to of you should really love each other enough before you even consider marriage or a baby! Out of that love a child should be conceived, and not because one or the other of you just wants to have a baby. Seriously, think about it before you have the WHAT-IF'S ans WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN thoughts in you mind.
844080
yes & every nite before bed have a large family-you be blessed also\n\nhappy day\nold geezer
399243
Because your time has not come yet. Just because everyone around you is having babies and may be married does not mean that you must be too.  Do not base your life on everyone elses nor try to copy what they do. Life your own live and do your own things, when the time is right the rest will all fall into place. There is a plan for each one of us, and when the time is right, that plan will take affect, for now live life loud and cheerfully...
295127
No.  Your family will always be your family.  They will always be there for you and only want the best for you.
788983
PLEASE go ahead and have a family.  We need your positive contribution to society.  I will come to the baby showers.  Thanks!
15265
I too say put the marriage before your kids.\n\nYou need the following:\n\n1.  The right priorities, such as spouse first, then kids...\n2.  Respect for your marriage vows.  Take your vows seriously and live them everyday.\n3.  Listen.  Listen to what your partner says.\n4.  Don't assume you know, ask questions.  Never assume you know the motives of another person.\n5.  Speak clearly, directly and respectfully.\n6.  Set clear boundaries of what you will and will not do.  Boundaries are about what YOU will do and/or tolerate.  Enforce your boundaries, because if you don't, they turn into resentments.
232364
you dont get married just to have kids. you get married because you found someone you want to share your life with and making a committment to do so forever.
686106
Check with The Dept Of Social Services. But why are you not married? And why do you want to leave good O'l California? \nJust how fit to be a parent and how responsible, are you really?
594723
There is no right way...it's just the way you feel about it. If you feel that you can love and take care of a child with out a partner, do it that way. If you feel the need to have a family complete with a mom and dad, then find someone who will be there long enough to provide. You don't necessarily have to get married...you should just have enough love in your heart to provide for any kids.