why do my g-ma hates me so much can someone help me plz?
414166
my g-ma does the same thing i am a twin i have a twin brother and a 12 yr old brother and my cousins are twin to one has heart problems i don't excist at all so don't feel bad your not alone
497034
How old are you? That's your problem. Settle for less, and MOVE on. She hates you, there is NOTHING you can do.
563926
Yeah....give her mother sometime. i hope ur gf is backing you up. a day will come when ur gf's mother will realize that u were a real truthful guy. talk to her after few days in a polite manner. dont lose ur temper
111787
hi lady. am really had saffered the same thing . there was a relative for me . she was sending for me love messages and love emails and on my mobile. but the problem that i don't love here . not because she is ugly girl but because i don't feel love in my heart when i see here. and which makes it more complicated that i loved a girl and she was christian and i had so many problems for this reason. and in my living place which it's jordan christians in general don't give girls for marrieg for non christians people . and she was loving me too. but for that reason nothing was good for me and her . so we were so confused about that and every thing collapsed . so i was in a very complicated situation from both sides. and am really right now searching for love but i can't find a girl that i will love her from same exact time i see her on or later even. but the problem i am right now in egypt studying medicin and i felt in in strange feelings like i want to get back to my family and feel the love of my family at least. and this girl was sending for me while am in egypt after three months and for a moment i felt that i haven't be rude with her and have to be alot more better with here  i felt sorry for her so i told her that i love u nad i will be with . and this thing continued for one month i call her and send for her and promised her but am was trying to make my self love her and tell my self that is good to have someone love u that much. but infact i don't love her . so it was a mistake to feel sorry . because u have to be ohnest with your self and with her . so i returned to collapse every thing and her love turned to hate and every thing was bad and i was so deppresd. until she forgived me before one month. so any guy if he dosenot feel in love for a girl and he said that he love her u have to know that it's for  two reasons :1-he feels sorry for the girl and that is wrong. and 2-he want to use her for something like he want her money or whatever is the prophet for him and that is so ugly and so bad. so u have to know if he loves u . maybe u ask how?. it's simple dose he look at u a respectful look just to your eyes. or he try always to defend u from anyone and want u always to be happy. and he dosent want u to be harmed and osen't want to harm your feelings always. because so many guys in our days just look for _and am sorry for this world _sex. so u have to be very clever in this theng.and u have to know from him in a indirect way if he love u or not. am sorry if my answer was a branched one but i want to give a true story which had been with me to take lessons from it and  to avoid being in this situation. and if u want friends i can be the first friend for u lady. and we can chat in YAHOO. MESSENGER. MY EMAIL ON IT AND ON YAHOO IS NABIH_ZAID@YAHOO.COM ( and on hi5.com my profile is nabih_amleh@hotmail.com). hope to be friends lady. bye.
965265
she loves you yet she's mean to you? that's what you call tough love. try elaborating on how she's mean to you... maybe it's just her way of teasing you or fondling with you. some of 'em like guys who absorb all their blows. but if her meanness bothers you, maybe you should talk to her about it.
1059182
Sounds like a loser to me.  The more comfortable he gets with you, the more likely he will start to abuse you, physically or verbaly.  It doesn't sound like you are in a very good situation.  You should get out of it.  Nobody should tell you what to do all of the time and the jealousy thing, it kind of makes me scared for you.  Good luck!
995577
He probably doesn't hate you.  He also may be a little jealous, that is his brother and chances are before you came along they probably spent more time hanging out and more time confiding in one another.  I doubt he hates you, however lay off of him a little bit.  Not everyone likes to deal with an annoying little girl.  Learn to calm yourself around his brother and learn that you have to respect his brother, chances are he has made it clear why you annoy him, and as far as that, the easiest way to avoid miscommunication or problems with your bf and his family, is to lay off and give his brother his respect and space.  Good Luck!
237768
This will take time, gf kids are looking out for moma, don't hold it against them, you keep trying and once they see how happy you make her and you treat them good they be on your side as if you were there Dad.This will require more effort than most people think. Good luck.
1028619
What is her name:Der,Eryn,Me,Raffi, Maria,Is Tuyet?Or that friend you don't like but comes over to your house and bosses you around?Tell her whats the matter girl?Some one hurt you?A bad thing happened in your family.I'd be glad to help.She might tell you or ignore you.I don't know.Websites don't give it out and that sucks doesn't it?Yes it does.
383904
I have the same problem also as you.People make fun of me,I just leave them alone.They hit me,I forgive them.They made fun of me in front of other people.For three yearsmthis has been my problem with a$$holes.I have a long line of patience and it is running out,my temper is suddenly changing.Let me tell you a story.One day,where everybody is busy with their project(including me)and this a$$hole got my charcoal,when i asked him to get it back,he said nasty words in front of me.It was the second time I got frustrated(the first of course when I was a little kid)then I did some Muay Thai to him and it broke his arms for weeks.It was the first time they realized not to take too much of my patience.I am a very friendly person and I don't like a$$holes.Muay Thai is the most effective way to handle fights.If you want to learn it,just email me at Oklahoma_My_State@yahoo.com.BTW,I did some Chuck Norris roundhouse kicks too.Good luck in your a$$ kickin'
1052505
well the last thing you want to do is declare world war 3 with your neighbors. do you ever find yourself bored? if you do just go over there for a bit. try to get to know her a little better. it couldnt hurt.... and if anything youll find out if you really dislike her. if she is rude the next time you go over there then you need to have the guts to say "you hurt my feelings when you say vnd do things like that. i dont think this will work out unless you ever decide to be nicer to me." shell either get the picture, change, and yoll make a new pal, or she'll still be rude but wont invite you over again.
1017228
Live your lives and stop worrying about" ma" . Time to grow up. She will come around after a while. You two are giving her the power to control your lives. Stop it.
385489
You have all my sympathy - I too have no understanding of the deeper mechanics of the evil female brain. Maybe you should try talking to her and see if she is willing to communicate to you what the problem.\n\nHey, worth a try,
1035686
She won't stop beating you up.  She is an abuser.  Just like men are abusers.  How can you like someone who abuses you?  Please try to think better of yourself.
940441
Well hate is such a strong word.  Occasionally you just need to be slapped around so you can remember you place.  The problem is I don't think you have any women around that can remind you of what your place is.  Sad state of affairs!\n\nSee Ladies this is what happens when we don't give the weird/unattractive ones a chance, they turn into bitter, mean, women hating machines, that take all of the time & energy they would be putting into their 'chick' and vent it out their bitterness on us instead.\n\nI'm sorry dear, I'm sorry you were rejected, but don't you think it's time just to let it go?  Move past that.  Stop being angry & one day if your a very good boy, maybe just maybe you'll meet a nice girl that will date you.\n\nIf your not ready to let go then I encourage you to continue venting!  It will help with the process!!!   You always give me a good laugh.
273428
Number 1--the words Bf are not nice and anger will not alove your problems--leave them alone.   Let go, and let God.  Unless, you are willing to really forgive and stay together, from your tone I do not think that will happen, you can kill more flies with honey than you can with vinger, hold your head high, the best way to deal with that is to take care of yourself and do better.  Ignore them and keep moving on
226796
Learn to love her, because you should never hate your family. Be glad your sister is around. Someone decided to kill my sister. I would give almost anything to have her back here with us. Be glad you have her there! Hope this helped you!