Help! I've met a lot of men online but I never seem to get anywhere with them.?
406770
Yes I have  the same experience ...understand everything happens for a reason..ever thing, nothing happens by mistake...if it was meant to be ...then you would still be communicating with them...but just know obviously they aren't the one so don't give up your soul mate is out there...and he will find you...keep hope alive
1113834
im suprised 40 should be a level of maturity where you dont lookfor random people online. if its online dating you want go to an onlinedating site like e-harmony or something. not here!!
515759
huh..? a lot of guys on net just hit on me like in real life ... "yo mama wad up"..etc and some ppl r just shy... give them a break hun..
624170
You sound really nice.  Why don't you go and try to meet people in person?  Try a dating service... Internet personals can be a little scary , although I know a few couples that met on match.com and are now married!  There are some places out there that will meet you, and try to set you up with someone, in person.  It's a more personal introduction then just typing away...\n\nI'm sure you will find the right lady.  I just don't think it's here... no one knows anything about you... But what we do know is that you seem loving and in need of a relationship where you can share yourself with someone else. \n\nYou will find what you are looking for, just start looking in the right places.\n\nGood Luck.
214009
dont talk to guys online....... your too young and who knows what idiots youll meet .... your young and you have lots of time on your side .... many things will change ... so be patient because thoose things are not important right now ...... enjoy your youth because this is it!!!!
759858
Yahoo groups is the best way that I know how. That's how I met with most of mine anyways. Name of the game is to stay actived with them in those groups so they get to know you.
339728
it realy depends on you, what kind of friend are you looking for, if it is someone desperate hit up any of the guys that randomly throw you their e-mails.
774765
I'm sorry to have to tell you that meeting people on the internet leaves you open to so many risks as many people have ulterior motives. Some like to turn a guy on and leave him cold, some do it for fun, e.t.c. so its always advisable to have an open mind when going into such sites. Remember that everyone on sites are strangers so you don't expect them to just open up to you like that.\n\nIts best to date face to face in real life.
96875
Get off your PC, get out the door and get into something you enjoy doing. Find something that men like doing as well. You'll meet him there.\n\nGood luck, now go get em'!!!\n:)
937263
nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
898376
I did match.com..actually dated the first guy i met up with for a few months..recently ended. Basically we emailed, then IMed, talked on the phone and finally met. It was good for a while, just didnt work out. I would say worth a try. Just get as much info before you meet up so you dont waste your time.\n\nIts kind of nice because you can reject and even block guys if needed so it makes it easier to weed out the ones you like. And if they reject you its not as harsh as in person and theres a bunch of other guys so you wont really think twice if one doesnt write back. \n\nworth a try.
411732
Some are,some aren't.You just haven't found a nice guy yet.When the time is right,I promise he will be there.You just have to be patient.I know he is out there somewhere,just trust me.If you ever want to talk,drop me a line sometime ok?
695596
I have met a couple of really nice guys on Singlesnet. Also, you can email a featured member for free, so if you find a featured member that you are interested in you don't need to join. I haven't paid to join, but have contact with the men I want to contact.
1100083
Maybe get involved in some sports or clubs.  If you don't mind online friends, try a chat room.  Good luck to you!  You seem like a really nice guy!
708062
Well.. It also happens to me.. I'm a person who talks to guys a lot online.. When I'm talking to someone for hours and getting to know him better, I feel like there's a connection between the two of us and that he's worth talking to. On the other hand, when I'm talking to other guys on here, I feel that I'm just wasting my time talking to them and that they're not worth talking to.. But yeah, Its hard when you meet people on the net because of the time difference and it's really hard to catch up with 'em when you're busy.. I am not really sure if my answer will help but yeah, I'm just sharing y'know.. =)
162227
why becous you have no life and you looking in all the wrong places you need to get real and get out of the hous not setting  in front of a computer screeen. no body is looking for love on the internet and you shouldent either. becous youll find tha most of em are ass holes stalkers and messed up people. if you cant execpt that then you dont belong on the internet.
568891
You really need to meet them before you make a decision. I've met a couple of people from online that ended up being completely different than the way they presented themselves. I've also met a few that we just didn't click in person. \n\nRegardless of when or how you decide to meet them, please play it safe and meet in a public place! There are a lot of psychos out there so better safe than sorry!\n\nGood luck to you!