for ladies over 35-  have you ever had or do you fantasize about sex with a man 15 or more years younger?
405802
yea why don't you email me~~~~stirpes2211@yahoo.com
410581
Myself I prefer older men who are wiser,experienced,most likely not into games,has morals and a lot of his life to share.A mature man. So I say 35.
1090810
I always had my heart set on meeting Mr. Right and being married by age 25, that didn't happen.  I am now 28 and I am desperately hoping to find someone and be married by age 30.  I think that this is a common way of thinking because no woman wants to be an old maid.  I also think that women tend to be more obsessed with the thought of growing old and becoming less attractive.
105571
I do. Guys my age (19) and younger are usually idiots when it comes to relationships. Am I going to go for a guy over 35? Unless you're talking Liam Neeson or Sean Connery, not too likely. But I'm more likely to go for them than your standard 18-year-old college freshman who thinks it's hillarious to talk about getting so drunk he puked on his new shoes at last night's frat party.
409503
Not that I am a psychiatrist, but I'm sure there is some logical explanation having to do with your history and past why you seek the comfort of older men unconciously and so consciously you are attracted to them? Who knows? I find the same, as far as being attracted to older men goes. However, I'm not married, I'm engaged, far from divorce. I think its normal to be attracted to older men. Women traditionally want to be taken care of by a strong, wise man, which we somehow invision as an older man, and that's why I am attracted them. They offer stability and knowledge, or so my subconcious thinks so. lol...\nAnyway, I wouldn't worry too much about the being attracted to older men part.\nIf I were you I'd be more focused on my marriage, and what an affair could do to it and my kids...
1167883
I met a lady on line and finally met her. She was about 10 years older than me and we both knew we didn't want to get serious, just have fun. We had a great secret and private relationship for about 4 years before she started to have physical problems.\n\nThose are 4 years, though that I will never forget. Unlike women my age, this lady really appreciated me and made me feel good. I went out of my way to appreciate her too. Sometimes I wish I could find somebody to take her place, but at least I can dream about her.\n\nTX Guy
729919
A few years ago, but never really acted on it. I have kissed other girls, but nothing else. I wish I would have acted on those feelings when I was younger and had the chance. I think a few of my girl-friends would have been into if we would have known what it was at the time. Oh the memories of youth I could have had! What about you? How far have you gone?
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I'm not sure I understand. Do you want to fascinate her? The answer would be, you have no business doing so. If the question is, you have fascinated a 16 year old, and you don't know how you did it, as I was 16 once myself, an older man is always more exciting. Because to a 16 year old girl, 16 year old boys are childish.
120894
Oh you too hah sista girl.   I agree with Malfean,....deep within (and if you are honest with yourself), you would like to know what it would be like to experience a sexual encounter with this individual you're fantasizing about. Been there and came damb close; however, I've realized that.... this was all I pictured him for (sex and a little intimatcy....hugging - kissing)....there was nothing else....no visions of hangging with friends together, walking in the park, dinner and the movies, sitting up together on the sofa having good dilogue about whatever, bringing the paycheck home to you (hello..).... it was just sex, good sex, more sex and sex....I tried picturing doing other things with him and the imaganation didn't go that far....why???.....well, your soul mate (and that's your husband) have and will probably always supply you with those little things that truely matters. The things mentioned above (hangging together..etc.) will go farther than a good quick fix in the sack. I know it's just fantacy...but sometimes you have to see it for what it truely is...you'll realize it means nothing...so let it go.\n \nNow sometimes our spouses becomes less attractive to us over the years depending on how much they have let themselves go in appearance or how lazy and boring they may have become,...so we fantasize about someone who is just the opposite of your spouse; however, I've learned that if I'm to be in this thing 'til death do us part', I benefit more by talking to him (my spouse) about what we can do to make daily interaction with each other more exciting.... therefore, bring that excitement to the bedroom later on.....\n\nGirrrrllll...look at me giving advise about something I need to work on myself....but non the less, I know it's what I need to do to keep thoughts of other men out of my head when I'm with my husband. (Oooh, I did say other MEN hah....ummm...I mean that man...)..SMILE!!!!.... It's working though.\n\nSo good so far. It may get tough at times, but keep your interaction with each other positive and exciting...laugh a lot...it helps.
722508
I had sex for the first time when I was 17 and had multiple partners throughout the years.  I am now married and I regret not sharing this special intimate moment with him first.  I admire couples who had waited til marriage.  But when you're young, you don't always think of those things.
1003763
i was 23 and i was with this lady who was 39..she was really hot and could pass for 25...It was great.
1061651
I believe women reach their sexual peak by 40 yrs old.\n\nI traded mine in for 2 twenty-year olds and let her have her fun!
98269
This question appeals to me because I have always been interested in men a lot older than I am. I really don't think age matters if the people involved are mature and interested in one another. I always tend to think of the great romances where the men were much older than the women: most of the heroes of classical literature were 20 yrs older than the heroines! 14 yrs is not that bad. All I can say is, whenever I've been interested in a man who is older than me (at least 10 yrs) I have always worried he would think I was too young. I didn't even give a thought that he might be worried I would think him too old! So if the girl seems attracted and interested in you, just go for  it. If she really likes you, your age won't bother her a bit. Good luck! ;)
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Mine was 5 years ago when I was only 21 with a much older and experienced co-worker. (he was 43) He took me to his brass bed, and tied my arms behind me with silk ties, and my legs together. Then fastened my legs to the top of his headboard and started licking me from head to toe until I thought I would pass out. then he entered me with my legs still tied together, and I have never felt so much pleasure. Between the extra tightness and the angle which put directly in my G spot, the pleasure was indescribable.\n\nThe other thing he did, was keep my lingerie on, (stockings and garterbelt) so I was watching myself and him, the whole while, like some sort of interactive porno movie. To this day, I still have a weakness for silk ties, and garter belts.
585185
well let me say sex is good at any age depending on the woman.....I am 56 and I think this is my prime life for sex as I can't get enough and my boyfriend thinks I am a sex starved but I just love sex......oh it feels so good
300274
Yes I have thought about it as well. It's human nature to want to have different experiences. It's called curiosity. No harm in that as long as you don't act on it!\n\nAs an after thought to the older man thing... I dated one once. I gotta tell you it was pretty hot in the bedroom. He definitely knew what he was doing.
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i would marry an older man, but im only 24, and the thought of marrying someone who is 50 is a little weird. that might be a little too old. although the EXPERIENCE is intriguing....