why am i so jelous over my husband?  and i wanna know if it's love or i just don'[t trust him? why i love him
400950
jealousy is a lack of trust...
379881
it's just one of those things...don't over think it or you will convince your self that you don't love him when you do. if you really feel uncomfortable saying it then maybe your not, but if sometimes you just feel moved to tell him all sorts of warm mushy things, then you probably are.
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I am not naive, however, I would attempt to help my husband.  He is my heart, if you love someone you do not walk away if they make a bad choice or mistake.
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Dont know if you will think it's amazing but to me it's the most amazing thing that's ever happened to me....\n\nI accidentally met my husband in a yahoo chatroom. I swear im not a pathetic loser and neither is he...lol He was in Iraq at the time, he's a soldier...and i was bored on a weeknight just goofing off in a yahoo chatroom ...saying bizarre things to random people to get them all fired up lol...and he took the bait and started exchanging witty comments and movie quotes with me...we soon realized we have a TON in common, he ended up being from the same state as me, we were both born in the same month, we have the same outlook on life, sense of humor & he likes all of the exact same movies and music. \n\nAfter chatting for hours that first night he begged me for my phone number and I refused...the thought of having a person I met online calling me was just too creepy.... I saw his picture on his profile and he was hot..he also saw my pic and liked the way i looked. He started emailing me these really sweet emails telling me that he really hopes Im the real thing because so many people online are fake and he told me that I'm everything he's looked for in a woman. We started talking online everyday for hours...i was already in love with him but wouldn't admit it because i thought online love was just ridiculous. He even bought a star from the international star registry and named it after me...except instead of my last name he used his last name! soooo sweet. So I finally gave in to his begging and gave him my phone number.\n\nI first told him that I love him on accident!!! When we were talking on the phone, before we hung up I just blurted out "I love you"...I think it was an unconscious mind type thing.... I immediately blurted out, "im sorry im sorry, i didn't mean to say that, are you freaked out?" He started laughing at first then he said all sadly ..."you didn't mean it???" I was silent for a little bit wondering what the heck I should say, then I just told him the truth but I told him that it's too early for us to be saying that and i wont say it anymore..didn't want to scare him. A few days later while I was talking to him he interrupted me while I was telling him a story and said so sincerely, "i love you too" and I could have died, it was the sweetest thing ever. It caught me completely off guard and that was what was so memorable and wonderful about it. \n\nWe met online in Aug. and he came back from Iraq that Nov. ..I readily agreed to meet him although I was SOOO nervous at the thought of seeing this man in person. He flew from Kuwait to Germany, Ireland and finally Fort Bragg NC to Lexington KY and got a hotel room there. I talked to him on my cell phone up until the point in which I knocked on the hotel room door....my hands were sweaty and shaky and i was so on edge...but as soon as we saw each other for the first time in person that was it, we fell into each others arms and kissed for what seemed like an eternity....we couldn't believe we were finally holding each other after being in a long distance relationship for so long. After that night we dated for a very short time and then got married. We are now expecting a baby in sept. and I find out if it's a boy or girl on the 24th of this month.
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OMG...just friggin leave him.  Your a sick, twisted, bi*ch for even thinking this way.  You think you are too good for him when really, he is too good for you.  Are you embarassed of him?  No wonder he complains that you don't love him.  Let him find someone who really does because its certain that you don't.
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Yes I did unexpectadly I wasn't even looking to tell the truth. He is a wonderful sweet guy we just recently met in January although its long distance he is worth it. We talk every day that we can. We are talking marriage. Its not for everyone sometimes I feel like I am a different person online I'm more bold and can say things I never would in person.
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Jessie no one but you know the answer to this. Are you happy when around him? Do you approve of his behaviour? Those are just a few questions you need to ask yourself.....
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Honey!  The ONLY question you need answered is "are you happy?"!!!   You don't sound like it to me.  For your own sake, stop worrying about what he thinks so much and make up your own mind.  He is lucky to have you and you need to show him that!!!!  But most importantly you need to know that in your own heart!!!  Give him a little insite into what he would be missing if you weren't around!!!!  Don't be sooooo available!
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everybody has their own insecurities and doubt that they deserve anything good that happens to them. somethings are too good to be true, but if you can touch it and it makes you feel good about yourself, then go with the flow! if you start questioning it or doubting it, it will fall apart because you will let your insecurities take over.\n\nif this guy loves you as much as you love him, then he will already be aware of these insecurities of yours and help you overcome them. give it a chance and make yourself believe that you deserve this.
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your relationship sounds like true love. some people never find that. yes they get married and live together but thats nothing if like you said, your not honest and trusting. it does seem simple. but somethings are worth fighting for.
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Hey I like you! ^_^ ..lol..seriously though, good for you it's really nice to know that there are men like you out there. \n\nMy husband WAS selfish-I am at the point where I am just like "Come on work with me here" it takes it's toll on a person when your lover thinks of himself before he does you all the time. And you keep telling yourself he'll come around, you only have Faith to keep you from drowning really...It hurts to be treated second all the time. \n\nNow he's changing and I can finally breathe a lil more....I think I will have to get use to being TRULY happy in this relationship of ours and believing that things are different between us... it takes two right? =) \n\nHey thanks for giving me a chance to share my thoughts slash vent....keep shinning and never give up! Best wishes to you and yours!
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Nicole, be yourself sweetie. If he does not think that you love him well he has the problem. I have tried so many times to tell my partner how much I love him. He never takes me serious , so I have given up. I feel if he does not believe me, well that is his bad luck. This to me is a no trust thing in my book!!!!!!
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Are you really in LOVE with HIM?  Or is it the idea of new love and that feeling of new love, that you're in love with?  Especially being a married woman, after a little bit of time you lose that new love/lust euphoria.  Perhaps there are some things that you are missing in your marriage that you are looking for in this new guy.  I know it doesn't answer your question, but perhaps you should work on the marriage that you're already in and see if you can improve it, because you must have LOVED your husband at one time
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Something is telling you not to trust this man. Why are you hesitating? Trust your gut feeling. There is nothing wrong with telling him no. You will find someone who you trust. Besides sex should be without love.
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Society has nothing to do with you and does not become happy or sad by your conduct. You decide yourself whether going to your 'true' partner will make you happy and whether he will still accept you or not. It appears that you do not trust your husband fully. That is a weak bond. Decide early, and do not procrastinate with pretexts like 'society' etc.
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My husband cheated on me shortly after we got together...but I did say he's my husband, right?  He swears up and down to never do it again, it's hard to forget, but I have forgiven him and am still, after 2 1/2 years trying to forget.  It's not easy, but I love him too, and don't want to let go.  He respects me for forgiving him, and since I gave him a second chance, he will be faithful to me.
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Your jealous because you love him and you are worried about anything happening. I never used to be jealous and now I catch myself getting that way when he talks about going to strip clubs and things like that. If there is trust then that is all you need besides love. If there is no trust to begin with then the relationship has nothing. Dont worry but show him you care.