Is it really degrading for a man to say "No" on going to a bachelor party?
401825
Sounds like he may be trying to make e/one happy but himself.  Maybe he really wanted to go.  After 12 years, I would think you both would be open, honest, and trusting with each other.
299412
was sexual and i didnt' like it? If that's the case I'd tell my daddy/boyfriend/brother/uncle/friend or any prominent male figure in my life to go and kick his ass. No excuses for this one tell the dude that you want him to leave you alone or else.
152729
OF COURSE "NOT". WHAT EVER GAVE YOU THAT IDEA? IF YOU DON'TBELIEVE ME, ASK MY WIFE. ON SECOND THOUGHTS; DON'T ASK MY WIFE. ASK ANOTHER MAN.
22709
Ah, the old "hump & dump".  It's not wrong (unless you're married or in a committed relationship).  It can be fun.  If you're a chick, you can just go to any bar in america and walk up to a guy and tell him you are looking for a one night stand and you're all set. You'll just want to make sure he's not gay and make sure he's not already with another chick (if he is, you may have to just wait until she goes to the bathroom-he'll figure out a way to ditch her unless she's his wife or roommate). If you are a guy it is a bit more complicated.
594425
NO... not really. My significant other said he was going camping with his buddy. LOL hopefully it doesn't end up like Brokeback Mountain. I trust him. Not all men are idiots... Just most of them.
331056
Its a night of debauchery for the groom, typically thrown by the best man.  This caninclude bar hopping, sitting around drinking beer with the guys, strips clubs...the possibilities are endless.\nTheres also bachelorette parties for the women, thrown by the maid of honor.  Kind of the same thing, but its for the girls.\nIt's the last night you get as being single before you get married.\nMy husband and I chose not to participate in this and we went to a nice restaurant TOGETHER and had dinner.\nThe way I see it is, if you still feel the need to act single, maybe you shouldn't be getting married :)
849682
Honey let it go because there is nothing worse to me than a guy in and out of friends that's a well known sign that he is probably no good okay! And i personally would not want any man that i actually knew had been with one of my true friends.
679628
Just say NO!  Life with an alcoholic is miserable.  Men who are tacky about flashing money around are usually major mistakes... they have to buy their women because the kind of women who can't be bought won't put up with their problems.
354529
LOL im not with my man because i want him to suck me.  I chose my man because he had a great personality.  But believe me, your saying that only women want to be sucked maybe? U got it wrong their mate, i have met guys at nightclubs that drop their snake out at me.\n\nIt was the most degrading thing that happened to me.  Get over it and asl an intelligent question.
248894
Just say no. Yur not responsible for his feelings
370186
If your at small private party with close friends, then it doesn't matter.  However, I'm guessing you mean in public, like a bar or club.  In that case, it depends: is she in a relationship, or not?  If she is, then its a turn off, and its just wrong.  If she is available, then its not a turn off assuming she maintains some dignity.  The problem is your never going to get a decent guy if your stupid when your drunk, because he knows what happens to you when you get drunk.  But don't worry, you'll land guys if your drunk: its just they'll get what they want from you, and then the next night, they'll do the same with the next drunk bar girl.
422124
Well, if you have offered, and he has said no, then he must be gay.  Or maybe newly and happily married, but more than likely gay, in which case you'll have to try a little harder.  Men don't pass up opportunities.  Unless maybe you're a junkie with leprosy, then it might be a little bit of a turn off, but he'll come around.
116475
It is always your right to say no to anything you don't want to do sexually.  If your partner loves and respects you then they will understand that there are certain boundries to what your willing to try.  If they keep pushing or try to force you to do this or get mad when you set boundries and say no then you should consider finding someone who will treat you better.
317063
Because by current societal conventions, boyfriends are temporary until a marriage contract has been finalized.  Therefore, a boyfriend doesn't mean "no."  Your saying "no" should mean "no."  Your saying "I have a boyfriend" is the equivalent of saying, "I have a boyfriend... for now."
196735
most guys know it is wrong but they do it anyway. what you need to ask is "why do guys make stupid decisions?"
1102273
I know for a fact that not all guys in a bar are scum. I was a stripper for 4 years. I recently quit due to back problems, but I still keep in touch with alot of my regulars because we became real good friends. I am married, so nothing nasty. \nYou just have to be careful because there are some scumbags out there.
764998
i didnt like it. no no no no!!!! \n\nwas a while ago though, he keeps asking, gonna let him do it again soon, but only to please him, i dont get nothing out of it!