im 21 boy i have been sex with 55 yrs old my aunty i,d like to stop that but she doesnt like what i want to do
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dai kiruku, un paeru mariyae nee pannirukka?? unakku arrivu irukka? vayasana kealaviya matter pannirukka?? athu vaera aunty. Po .. poi urupidiyana yethavathu panna paaru!! : )\n\nhope u understand tamil!!
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Stop having sex with your boy friend.  \n\nNo matter what others are telling you, you are too young.\n\nThe very fact that you are asking this question demonstrates that you are too young.   \n\nHave a very frank talk with your boy friend and explain why this cannot continue.  If your boy friend doesn’t like you saying no, then be assured he neither loves you nor even respects you and isn’t the right one.  \n\nMy wife and I have been together for 51 years, since we met at 14 and have been married for 46 years.  Believe me when I say don’t do it.
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Depends on how much you really like her.  If you do then I would maybe try holding off for awhile ( it's just sex - you can take care of it most of the time on your own if you had to )  If you aren't willing to give up sex for awhile then move on and find yourself another 40 year old that looks 25 .. or even better find yourself a real 25 year old .. they're in their Prime !
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Listen good cuz I'm only gonna tell you once.\n\n"SOMETHING IS SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH YOU"\n\nYou need help go to a psychiatrist and talk about your sick infatuation with ya old ass grandma's panties.  You are disgusting
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I’m 58.  It can come with the territory. This is normal and more common than you might think.\nDon’t dwell on it.  This is the flip side of the hormone changes which is pushing the adolescents into “when am I gonna learn about sex?”\nIf it repeats and starts to disrupt you life, then seek some kind of help.  If it is just an occasional event, think about what this means to you and move on.
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Well my best suggestion to you is to cut back on the sex and definitly cuddle more and be more romantic. If you get the urge too bad go to the restroom and masterbat to relieve yourself. Being a woman myself, I know how it feels to think that all a man wants from me is sex but the longer you two are together then she will eventually realize you love her(if you do) and sex isn't ALL you want
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You are a 22 year old whore...You need to know the damage you are causing with his family and perhaps children. He's married, he belongs to another woman for one. And two. he's married. And three this man is old enough to be your dad. I'm surprise he hasn't gave you worms..I hope he does and that would teach your azz a lesson.\n\nGrow the hell up, get your azz a job and your own MAN!\nBy the way, that particular age group risk for HIV is high as well. I hope he gives it to you!
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Your uncle is what is called a seductionist pediophile. He victemized you. No child at the age of six has a sexual preference either way and would naturally be attracted to same sex playmates such as other boys...just as girls would gravitate toward other girls though opposite sex playmates do well together too...the issue is that children, unless introduced by visual or physical stimulous are completely unaware of the sexual biology of the body. The hormons, the genital development and the general knowledge of the purpose of those genitalia are NOT previlant. The truth is that you associate sexual pleasure and your sexuality with what your uncle did and said to you. He was an authority figure and in turn blamed you for his gross misconduct in violating for several years a young child and a member of his own family. If the sick bastard is still around I would expose him for what he is so he cannot victemize any other children and also press charges. As well, you should seek couceling further so that you can begin to heal inwardly and come to the understanding you cannot be responsible for the abuse you suffered. Sorry to get on my soap box about this but this is what I do for a living as a social worker..or did until I had children of my own and am now home with them..by which..because of all the material I've studied..my children get babysat by NO ONE else but me and their father. EVER! God bless you. Please get help. Love in Christ, ~J~  <>< P.S. God made you perfect and whole as He intended you at your birth. You were a child influenced and conditioned by the very people that should have been there to protect and nurture you. God loves you and understands..seek Him and He will guide and direct your paths beyond this circumstance and you will be better for it. Pray and study the Bible. Healing in abundance just right there.
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This is not good!  Your uncle told you this?  Oh My Gd!  I'm so sorry for you.  I hope you are over this, and I hope that you stay far away from you uncle.  Don't be left alone with him ever again!  But, to answer you question, if you really want to know.  When he said open up....he was meaning for you to relax your vigina (because a 9 yr. old girl would be tight), so he could basically "poke" you.
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tell her that you don't want to have sex with her because it's weird and ugly because you're cousins. if she still insists, leave and tell someone close to you about the situation. tell your sister or your friend. \nalso, try to video the scenario. just in case anyone wants evidence,, or something to laugh about later
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Any time you have lust that is accumulated to such a degree I'd say it is natural to masturbate.  If you really have it bad, not only 4 days out of a week but a couple of times a day.  You probably became so frustrated (blue balls) that you could not expect to continue the long courtship, which is probably culturally necessitated.  You tried, but obvisously couldn't hang.  Is it possible to speak to her and suggest that at least once a month you meet at a motel and exchange physical liaison away from parents, since you plan to marry or is that totally out of the question?  Don't blame you for masturbating pal, but if she is unavailable, I'd try to satisfy craving away from parents.
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what do u mean "is that okay?" it IS best to stay out of sex. At your age? isn't the time for you, not even the time to think about it! Best to put that thought double-locked inside a metal safe. ^_^
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Talk to your aunt and talk to your cousin.  Tell them you've noticed there reactions and ask them what is going on, why are they behaving this way.  Then tell them straight out that you are not interested in him and never have been.  Best way is to be direct and hope it works.  good luck!
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GOOD FOR YOU!!!!   Don't deny your sexuality.  There is NOTHING wrong with you.  There is something wrong with our society if we think it is wrong to have a sex drive when you aer old.  KEEP FEEDING THOSE DESIRES!!!
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You sound like you have good intentions but teach them first that there is alot more to life than sexual pleasure. Make sure they are old enough also to understand what responsibility is because they will most likely remember the pleasure part and forget the responsibility part. Just be very careful and use good judgment.
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I did it when I was 15, but I was with the guy for 4 years. I do wish that I had waited longer, but I wasn't pushed into it.\n\nDon't let people push you into things that you don't really want to do. If he keeps bothering you about it, then you need to tell someone. Like a counsellor or something. You don't have to tell them that you have already had sex. Just say this guy keeps pressuring me to have sex with him, I don't want to and he won't leave me alone about it. I know its easier said than done, but you should tell someone you trust who is older than you.
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Well being that you used the word appropriate to ask this question I will assume you do not care about the actual legal age. First you should make sure he is not the right guy, but a good guy you know the responsible type. Usually these are the ones that take precautions, and they take their time with you. Most importantly you should do it because you feel it is the right time for you no one else can know this but you. You should always make sure that the other person is clean, and you should talk to him about it first if you feel ready. I will give you an example. \n  I had sex when I was 16. With a guy I only knew for a couple of weeks. And I tell you the honest true 4 years later now we are married, and we are planning on having our first child. It was not that way with my Mother you she she had sex when she was 16, and got pregnant with me, and my biological father left her to raise me alone. My aunt had sex the first time when she was 19, and by the time she ended up with th second child with her partner they split up. So you see it is different for every one. It all depends on you, and your partner. I hope this helps, and I wish you the best luck.