Y do my cousin keeps touhing on me sexually?
414800
maybe she likes you very much
746225
If he is your cousin and you know him then why are you asking for his phone number, or his email, and if he will come to your house, just so you can say on your next question  that he is coming over. Look i don't mean to be rude, but  you sound like a stalker, and i understand you might just be a kid, but the truth is even if someone on here knows anything about him they aren't going to  just give his info out on line. Think about what your asking before you ask. then maybe you ll see why people are being like they are in there responses to you.
596170
Keep your boyfriend and your cousin apart.  You can't keep someone from cheating and if he wants to, there is nothing you can do to stop him.  However, your cousin doesn't know where to draw the line by flirting with your boyfriend.  That's not cool at all.  You say you don't want to tell her anything cuz your related, but she doesn't mind hurting you even though you're related.  My advice, try not to be with your cousin and your bf at the same time-it's not worth the aggravation.  If you must be with both of them at the same, \ntry to be cool, don't let your jealousy show.  If you can handle it, make light of it and say something funny like,\n"We need to find you a bf, so you stop flirting with mine".  Don't let her know it bugs you.  Remember, if he's yours, he's not going anywhere.  If he's not really yours, you can't do anything to keep him.  Trust me, it's great advice!  Good luck.
445665
This is not forgiveable. Its only a matter of time before he decides to do the same thing with another girl, but in REAL LIFE. And the fact that he was sexually attraced to his cousin is just gross. Second cousin or not, they are blood related.
1066997
cant u ask once only?\nanyways,its just physical,u'll get over when u get some one else,its normal,we really get attracted towards elders of opp sex,it teen age buddy,the most mysterious one.feel her as your aunt,as a mother,u might be suffering from mother fixation and thinking its love!take your time,dont do anything stupid,if by chance she reciprocates,do it,but always remember,THE TWO FAMILIES SHALL NEVER FORGIVE U THEN!
1142949
You are young, aren't you? Cousins play around all the time, it means nothing whatsoever.  And it ain't incest...good grief, we are not talking about making babies here, it is called experimentation. Relax, leave it alone and go about your life.
903319
It sounds to me like she is sexually attracted to you but for some reason this is unacceptable to her. Are you very different from the types of guys she has been with before you? Or perhaps a sexual relationship between the two of you is inappropriate or even off limits for some reason (such as being relatives or having a large age difference)? This might explain her contradictory behavior. But please consider that asking her about this directly probably won't get you anywhere since she has worked hard to convince herself that she has no attraction for you and it's somehow making her feel safe and/or in control of the situation... she is unlikely to let go of this self deception very easily. But what you really need to realize here is that this girl is confused and conflicted and it is not your fault.
953157
I think that is the cutest thing ever!!!\n\nYour cousin sounds like a really sweet little boy!\n\nI can only have my feet tickled for a few seconds, and my husband can't stand even one second of it.\n\nTell your cousin he is the record holder!
887911
I have a niece who was in the exact same predicament as you. Your father touching you is considered sexual abuse. And his bathroom/changing habits are considered lewd behavior. He can go to jail for many years for what he is doing.\n\nIf your mother loves you and will put you before your dad, talk to her. But some mothers call their daughters liars and ignore them. If you feel more comfortable with an aunt, grandparent, teacher, coach, or family friend, talk to one of them. The people who know you best can give you the best advice.\n\nDon't worry about breaking up your family or making someone mad. Protect yourself first.
723547
because your cousin did raise your daughter that's why she is acting like that.she is acting like she is her daughter..but if your daughter wants you to be part of the baby's life then don't let your cousin win this battle..it's your daughters life..simply tell your cousin "I do thank you for raising my daughter to be the woman that she is, but she does want me in the baby's life and out of no disrespect to you and your husband, I'm gonna be there for my daughter and her baby. If you don't like it that is your business,  but don't try and stop me. And if you really love my daughter you will go by her wishes" And back that up..your cousin is probably just afraid that your gonna break your daughters heart because you wasn't there to raise her..Good luck and Congrats on your Grand-Baby
1105967
is ur man abusing u????
1178492
I would think he likes his cousin and thinks you are being disrespectful (which you are) to be making fun of his girlfriend.  Grow up and stop acting like your 10.
728323
At the top of this all, you are being a responsible big sister who wants to protect her little sister from guys who just want to prey on her because she is pretty. In the middle of this all, you get annoyed at the fact that most of the guys that befriend you are just actually wanting to get to your sister. It's natural for you to react that way. It's natural for you to want to be appreciated not because of your sister, but because of who you are. It's natural for you to want your own share of attention, and finally, it's natural for you to feel disrespected, and used, because guys are 'using' you to get to your beautiful sister. At the bottom of this all, you do have insecurities, of course, because you feel that your sister is prettier than you, and that she is getting all the attention, and people don't even stop to think about how you feel.\n\nI don't think you must be very ugly. If you have a very pretty sister, then it means you can't look that bad, right? You do share the same blood! Maybe she's pretty and charming at the same time?\n\nI have a cousin who has always, always been jealous of me. Whenever she had boyfriends, they'd fall for me after meeting me. In fact, she would reach a point where she told me "Ok, if he falls for you after seeing you, it's not going to bother me." And I was still so young at that time, I didn't even understand why she was acting like that. But now I understand that she was just jealous of me. As a result of her jealousy, she became very mean and resentful towards me, and ruined not only our relationship as cousins, but my mother's relationship with her dad, and my relationship with her siblings.\n\nPlease, don't allow your jealousy to eat away at your relationship with your sister. Accept what you have. Accept what she has. Be happy for her, if you really love her. There are guys that will suit you. Look for guys that are in your league, and let the guys in your sister's league, get together with her. Don't covet what's not meant to be for you. But be happy with what you have.
263469
well if u know wot kinda person she is u must take care tht u dont let her command you or asks u to do stuffs for her.....and jsut keep a check on varoius things she does with and around you.....and if she's very much like flattering types with ya then she might be doing it on purpose......take care good luck
214623
Because your wife is your sister and your girlfriend is your cousin! Family dont like that kinda stuff man.
999427
well, no that's not being "messy". it just means maybe she wants to talk 2 you're other cousin for a little while. what's wrong with talking to other family members.  just try to do something 2gether like all 3 of u guys going to the movies or shopping or something. that way u 3 can bond as cousins. also, it may have something 2 do with the age difference. if you're really younger or older than the two of them then your cousin may have more in common with your other cousin than you so she might feel more comfortable talking to her.  don't get stressed out. i'm sure both of you will be talking tommorrow.
261217
what?? ur cousin?? is she saying bad things about u?? man... she should be on ur side.. she should be lying for u...\nmaybe this cousin likes ur bf and wants to steal him from u...\nwhat to do... talk to both ur cousin and boyfriend...find out why ur cuz's doing it and tell ur boyfriend she's lying...ur boyfriend should believe u more than ur cousin...if not, maybe he's brainwashed and has gotten a liking to ur cuz or that he simply doesn't trust u..either way, it shouldn't be...\n\ndon't worry... long as you hold the truth u'll never be in despair