Do women enjoy having sex without orgasm at the end?
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Some women do.  Some women have never had one, so they don't miss it, I guess.\n\nI've heard some women say they just like the closeness.  \n\nAnd I guess it depends on how close you are to one before it ends.  If you're pretty close, I'm sure it's no less frustrating for women than it would be for men.\n\nI've heard some women say that they feel really pressured by it.  And of course, if you're feeling pressured, it's harder to have one.
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Orgasms\n\nMost Orgasms\nFor 22 years, Doctors William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian of the Center for Marital and Sexual Studies in Long Beach , California , have been faithfully recording the orgasmic response in their laboratory. After hooking up subjects to blood-pressure and heart-rate monitors and various sensors in the vagina or anus, the doctors would sit by the beside and take copious notes as the subjects busied themselves. In an attempt to head off accusations of prurience, they say such research is stupifyingly dull, saying they had to "struggle to stay awake." However, they overcame the tedium to spend 10,000 hours in the laboratory. After several false starts (originally they had the subjects push a button whenever they had a orgasm, but during the heat of the moment they usually became too preoccupied to be concerned with the cause of research), the study continued apace, eventually encompassing 751 individuals. The most orgasms they recorded in an hour for a woman is a staggering 134, while the best men could do was 16. How we lesser mortals can hope to achieve anything in that vicinity was not discussed.\n\nLongest Orgasm\nMale Yet another example of inequality in the sexes. The typical male orgasm lasts anywhere from 3 to 8 seconds, though its possible through deep breathing and regular exercising to extend it to…oh, maybe 10 seconds or so. Pitiful, you may think, compared to the Herculean orgasms accomplished by some women, but sex is usually measured in terms of satisfaction of the male; in fact, the anthropologist Margaret Mead uncovered societies in which the female orgasm is unknown. So I guess it all evens out in the end.\n\nFemale As you probably know, women are capable of multiple orgasms without having to rest between. However, as fellow savant Cecil Adams expounds in his book More of the Straight Dope, women are capable of so much more:\n\nWhat you probably didn’t know is that women are capable of sustained orgasm, called status orgasmus. These start with a 2 to 4 second "spastic contraction" and last twenty to sixty seconds. Masters and Johnson (1966) published a chart of one woman who experienced a 43-second orgasm, consisting of at least 25 successive contractions. Status orgasmus is usually the result of self-stimulation, but a woman can experience it at the hands (or whatever) of a suitably skilled lover.\n\nFastest Orgasm\nMale Certain rare individuals—1 in every 1250 men, to be precise—can ejaculate by deliberately concentration on sexual fantasies without any genital manipulation whatsoever, for a total time to orgasm to be…well, right around zero seconds. As Kinsey put it: "In such a case the psychic stimulation is entirely responsible for the result." Truly, the mind really is the most powerful sex organ.\n\nFemale In his book, Dr. Kinsey & The Institute for Sex Research, Wardell B. Pomeroy recounts the case of one extraordinary woman who had near-godlike powers in the sack. His words: "I remember one woman who was capable of from fifteen to twenty orgasms in twenty minutes. Even the most casual contact could arouse a sexual response in her. Observing her both in masturbation and in sexual intercourse, we found that in intercourse her first orgasm occurred with two to five seconds after entry." [My emphasis] Ladies, eat your hearts out.\n\nLargest Ejaculate Volume\nBesides us, who else would be concerned about ejaculate volume? Why, fertility experts, of course. If ever in the vicinity of a large library you might want to dig out a fun article entitled "The semen of fertile men: statistical analysis of 1300 men," by Aquiles J. Sombrero, MD et. al. and published in The Journal of Fertility and Sterility. The data were collected from an outfit that performs vasectomies. Prior to vasectomy each man was required to submit a specimen in a special container, on which was recorded the time of collection and the duration of abstinence prior
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i would say most women do, most men dont understand or care that it takes more to please a woman than it does them,as far as me i have never faked an orgasm, its a shame a woman has to.
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My dear Marky, you really can't know (unless she is just terrible at faking it) Just because a woman does not orgasm, DOES NOT mean the she didn't have fun with her partner. The number one reason women will fake an orgasm is because they don't want their partner to feel insecure or that he didn't perform well enough to bring her to orgasm. Don't worry so much!
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You'll be one of those sad sad women who never orgasm.  \n\nIn order to come during sex you have to figure out how to make yourself come.  That means you need to spend some quality time with your right hand (or left if you're a leftie) and your brain.  Think about what YOU like, what turns YOU on, and how it makes YOU feel.  It has been my experiance that women who do not orgasm do so because they have no idea what they even like.  They see sex as something you do for someone or with someone, not something you do for yourself.\n\nBuy books on the subject, from fantasies to anatomy to technique.  Get a hand mirror and check yourself out down there.  Look at internet porn.  Read some erotica or Harlequin romance novels.  Spend a lot of quality time with your hand between your legs.  Think about buying a vibrator.  Learn the shower head trick.  Take mental notes on what works and what does not.  \n\nYou have to take a certain ammount of responsibility for your own sexual pleasure.  You're the only one who can make it happen.
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NOT MANY WOMEN HAVE VAGINAL ORGASMS.....I WOULD BE SECURE IN SAYING THAT 99 PERCENT OF WOMEN NEED CLITORAL STIMULATION TO HAVE AN ORGASM....IT DOESN'T MEAN YOUR A LESBIAN................
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Suffer?\n\nThat certainly makes it sound painful.\n\nSome women do not achieve orgasm through intercourse and may need direct clitoral stimulation as well.
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It's totally psychological in most cases.... many women have a difficult time allowing themselves to feel pleasure and they unkowingly prevent themselves form reaching orgasm. You must first learn to love yourself and be comfortable with yourself as well as with your partner in order to truly enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. \n\nThere are a few women who have hormonal or even physical problems that prevent sex from being pleasurable, but they are far less common than the emotional or psychological issues that interfere with good sex.
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According to Kinsey, only 15-25% of women can reach orgasm through penetration alone, so, she's not too weird...\nTry a simultaneous G-spot/or@l, see if that works...
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Not all women have orgasms easily, I only get one about 3/6 times.  Ususally the best way to have one is by oral, before penetration.
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Umm....taking it easy AND with alot of lube...it can actually feel good...\n\nI must say that having an orgasm during anal sex is really intense! :) \n\n\n\nI know that not all women like it. I guess some are sensitive back there and some aren't. I suppose it's the same with like nipple stimulation...some like their breasts to be touched and some don't.
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Sounds normal. Women aren't wet anymore after they orgasm, just like men aren't hard anymore after they orgasm.
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I am a women, but I've read about this in one of my classes and men do NEED to orgasm because the need to release there "stuff" its not healthy for a man to not ejaculate, otherwise it will build up and its true. If you google it you will see on legitimate sites and I've heard from doctors also that men do need to release.
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I hope women don't have organisms when having sex with there partners. Orgasms on the other hand are nice to have but am not sure of an honest answer as it really depends on the woman and her partner. Some women may have multiple orgasms during sex and some may not, but I don't beleive that having orgasms are that important as just being with that person and enjoying the moment. Life is prescious and short so enjoy yourself and be carefull, if you are looking to have an orgasm I'm sure that you will eventually but don't think that there is anything wrong with you or your relationship if you don't. Good luck, have a good and safe time.
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Most women do not have the capability to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. You should try to play with your clitoris or let him do it during sex. Many women fake an orgasm to make their boyfriend happy and its perfectly normal but you will reach a time when you don't want to fake it anymore and want to really have one. Try a position where your boyfriend can reach around with his hand and rub ur clitoris while having intercourse. Try doggie style.
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My understanding is that, yes, homosexuals have orgasms when they have sex with each other.  If they're doing it right, anyway.  If they aren't very good at sex, then they might not have orgasms.
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Well, males are more likely than women to get at least one orgasm, especially if the male controls proceedings.  Many women do not get to orgasm via penis in vagina sex.  Those women are thus (obviously??) likely to desire sex less than those men.\n\nIf women explore their sexuality, they can become multi - orgasmic, and can achieve massive prolonged orgasms, that might well exceed what men experience.  They might desire sex even more than the men involved.  I suspect that only a minority of women do this, however.