why is dating so confusing,why can't is just be if you like me and i like you, lets give it a try?
412787
Good Question, I've been asking myself that for a LONG time now.
291289
I would give him/her a chance, you never know what's inside till you try.this has happened to me before , I've liked someone they didn't like me but later, she gave me a chance and her and i went out for about 3 months. all I'm saying is give this person a chance. You never know what you'll get.
783376
Absolutely normal if you ask me... You're just not ready yet. My advice: take your time, enjoy flirting and don't put any pressure on yourself. It's not obligatory to date... it's suppose to be fun, remember?
433111
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
906273
If it works for you then go for it I know for me I dated a person born the exact same day and exact same year as me and I just knew we were meant to be together but I was wrong. We are totally opposite of each other and I don't think that we were compatable at all. Just try it out and see
257212
You could "go out" with him, yes; casually; unexclusive.  Why commit to having a boyfriend if you only like him a little bit?  And what's the harm in dating him once or twice?  You might find yourself liking him more than just a little  :-)\nAlternately, you might find that neither one of you likes the other after some time.
847110
nope , we are NOT supposed to wait forever.\n\nWe ARE supposed to see if its real though , before moving on to somebody else, or else we regret it, wonder about it, kick ourselves for what might have been, etc.\n\nAsk somebody out if you like him or her, I figure 3 times, then wait and see if maybe they ask you out. I don't like to nag people.
491879
dating is the first step between two persons they know each other well it may take time but this will be for knowing each other. then u go to the next step the relationship which u start to act as one person u know each other well and love start to take place between u and him
455157
I just wanted to encourage you. I have serious dating anxiety. I really like people but I always just give and give and so therefore I have trouble even considering dating anyone right now.
472644
don't know, usually date the ones that like me!
706690
you are waaay to young to date.\nTell your friend that.
880221
I don't think it is wierd. I think many guys would appreciate if a girl would ask them out, but guys will not admit it. Try it and see. The guy may be surprise, but he may also have a good time. Good Luck!
777377
Absolutely, I am a true believer in that. Just start small. Try new things like going to the gym, joining some type of organization that will get you around new people. You may even meet new friends that way. You may even find someone and ask them out on a date. Take things slowly to find out what you really want and don't want. If your really interested in dating people now, try a dating service or try online dating, just becareful and use common sense. Definitely don't rush into anything! Take your time and look around!
618869
Sometimes, you just can't. It all depends what you're into and what lengths you're willing to go to but my personal (and instinctive) advice would be to move on and find someone who's \n\n1. obviously interested and \n2. not into playing silly retrograde games.\n\nThere's a chance, however, that she may just be unsure or genuinely fickle so, if you really like her, you could just sit tight and keep flirting. You've already asked her out so she knows you like her. Now it's up to her to make a move.
429666
You're probably just attractive and wanted. Why not ask them why they like you? Or go out with one if single!
987264
If the guy really likes you, you wont have to change anything about you, there is someone for everyone and if you change for a guy that's not right you may pass up the chance for the one you are meant for, just be yourself and it will all work out in the end.
631728
Tricky situation.. You both care about each other, but probably arent sure to the extent of that caring.. \n\nI know a lot of people who prefer dating people they are friends with first, but you gotta be careful and look at what the friendship means to you because if a relationship doesnt work out - how is the friendship going to change?\n\nTake some time and just think about how you feel, try talking to him about what he means to you - that should clear up some confusion - best of luck