is it possible to tell a woman that you want to have sex with her without the relationship?
397212
I'd love for a guy to say this to me.  All the guys I have dated recently all want to get married, most of them aren't bother who to either!!!  When all I'd like is someone for a bit of sex a couple of times a week
105896
Personally I could do it if I HAD to. Of course most of us prefer sex over not having it but i think that if we were already in a relationship and i loved this person then we could find other ways to be intimate with eachother! Its kind of cute in a way!
34027
Yes some women does know if they are going to have sex with a person. It is all in the cemistry between people. If you have the right cemistry with a person  you will know.
633879
sex without love doesn't bring a couple together emotionally. \ni think you should wait until your completely comfortable with that person.  get to know her alot before you make your move because she may turn out to be pyscho..you seriously never know. Also, dont forget to wear a jimmy and make sure its one you brought.  Never use hers because again you never know...she may poke holes in it!
686987
Yes.  Just have to be honest up front about the situation.  Dating is different than being in a relationship.
1127540
do not have sex with her \nlet her have it with you
57490
No--don't lie. Just tell her nicely that you're going and ask her to go along. Chances are, she'll say NO. She will probably appreciate the fact that you were thoughtful enough to ask her if she'd like to go. When you get back (dont drink and drive)have great sex with her and tell how much you love her. Just don't lie to her. It's not really worth it!!!!
252152
not without proof or a confession... unless your just looking for an excuse to dump her...
430023
Just ask her.  Be open about what you want.  Communication is the way you know you have a good relationship.  And never know she maybe open to some if not all of the things you want to do.  Just because a woman has never done certain sexual things doesn't mean that they haven't crossed her mind.  \n\nThe main thing is to help her feel comfortable about conversation.  Don't make a big deal out of it but at the same time don't come out as being insensitive.  Always let her know that you're satified with what you guys do now but that this is something new\n\nGood luck!
574424
Assuming that you are not having sex because she wants to wait until marriage(but maybe I am wrong in this assumption): I think even for someone who is planning on abstaining before marriage sexual desire is there.  Abstinence is not an easy thing because the person still has the desire.  If she does not have the desire maybe she is repressing herself or just isn't attracted to you.\n\nI'm sorry.  :(
249295
Ask her ! You can love some one without Sex .She may love you ! Sex is too open now .She may explain if you ask .
420374
This is from a guy.  Don't have sex with him and then see if he is interested in you.  Wouldn't that answer your question?
74569
If she is not ready to have sex with you, you don't.
395839
tell her you are a virgin and let her teach you
236941
Definitely. Any real man would. If you're man enough to decide to lay with a woman you should be man enough to accept the responsibility that may come as a result of your actions. I wouldn't want to know, I would NEED to know.
1035574
if they are straight up thats what they want from you they will tell you,if its anything else they wount.woman tend to do this if they really want sex..
723133
I wouldn't mind. she's not a machine, if she doesn't want to have sex then I will respect that.