why do so many foriegn women on-line try to get an American to get them to the States???
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coz american guys are easy...\nme love u long time... :)
714361
It does seem a strange thing to do for a few hundred dollars, but she may be repeating this scam hundreds of times at once.  Then again she may be real, maybe she just wants to come to America to have a better life.  If this is case she is probably looking for someone to marry so that she can stay.  Either way, I think that you are right to be cautious.\n\nIf you can't get her out of your head, why don't you offer to buy the ticket for her (i.e. pay for it on your credit card, so she doesn't get any money directly from you).  If she accepts then she is serious.  If she doesn't she probably just wants you to send her a few hundred dollars!
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OMG not another one.  This "girl" is really a guy, and let me guess... "she" is in West Africa.  Oh my, another Nigerian scammer.  It's all baloney, my friend, I have had these 'women' tell me they wanted to come to the US to have babies for me, and all I'd have to do is help them out with some money.  It's scamtime in the old town tonight.\n\nDon't believe a word of it.\n\nWhen i get one of them I replace my pic with a graphic that says "YOU ARE A NIGERIAN SCAMMER" and that's the last I hear from them.  Don't fall for this obvious trick.
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They have those websites for mail order and or you can just make friends.  I looked at one for the heck of it, ok i was really bored and wanted to see if it was true and there were a lot of really pretty women on there....If your in NYC, look in the phone book for stores that cater to Russian's, restaurants, food stores etc...You know they have Little Italy, Chinatown, they should have, i dont know Russian villiage, something...You may just get lucky and meet a female at one of those....
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Why do you have to make your question about an illegal immigrant, if you say you love immigrants. Why can't you just make your issue on the mere fact that this person is harassing you? Take action on that matter with the proper authorities. I was surfing the web for answers and came across all of the ridiculous questions people were asking about illegal immigrants and I felt I had to respond. I thought America was the great melting pot. It was made by people from different countries. Yes some will say they weren't illegal. No one was considered illegal back then. People could come and go into places as they chose. Why can't others do that today. I know there are a lot of issues with terrorists but they seem to be from a certain country. We still need to watch each person carefully just as we need to watch all of our own citizens who murder, rape and abuse us. The Mexican immigrants trying to come into the U.S. are only trying to make money for their families in Mexico, to send back to them. The country is very poor. Why do we as Americans get to go to Mexico and live there when we retire? I have researched Mexico and seen that many elderly people go to Mexico to retire. They have made large retirement villages there. They live rich lifestyles because it is cheap to live with such things as paying $15.00 a week for a maid. Can you believe that? Why do we get to go there and they can't come and live here? We as Americans get to travel many places to visit but we see nothing wrong with that, we're Americans. Why do Americans think they are above the rest? I don't know! Look at all of the movie stars like, George Clooney, who has a house in Paris, or wherever it is, then there's, Angelina Jolie, with her many houses in different countries. All of the stars do that, just like a lot of other non-famous people do. I was reading another question about the child support that was closed. I know someone who is an illegal immigrant from Mexico and the American girl is in the process of getting child support from him. I also know that all of the illegal immigrants who work here in the U.S. get paychecks and each of those paychecks has money taken from it for taxes of sorts, just like ours. This has happened for many years. Where does all of this money go since they are illegal, to the government and to the American people who are receiving retirement checks monthly. The illegals will never use that money because they will not retire from here when they get old. America is using the illegals just as they are using us for help. Why can't we go as we please as long as we abide by the laws of each place. If we don't abide just use the jails; like we use for all of the other millions of American inmates. \nWhat is the wrong in them being here? Only that people here are still prejudice and will always be; even the people who go to church, pretending they are so good. God didn't make us all so we could hate each other. We are all the same just spread throughout the world. Sure we are all shades of different colors, we have to be. Each part of the world has different climates and our skin has to protect us from it. People with very pale skin couldn't live as all of the village people in Africa do without being burnt daily. The skin tone protects each person from the climate of each region. Americans were just lucky enough to live in a climate that has both cold and hot seasons that don't effect our skin as much.\n\nSorry I used your question as a venting tool.
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this is not a good way to get into the country, the woman will 100% use u!
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Because many states have their own formed (whether by them, or by visitors) notions of customs and behaviors.\n\nFor instance...you say you're from California.  To someone wanting to meet someone that might have some flash, and maybe some cash, those 'stereotypes' make a California woman appealing to them.\n\nMy state, Oklahoma, might make someone fancy a down home, country girl, etc. \n\nKnow what I mean?
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It depends.  Some women are just stupid and don't know when you are trying to get to them, and some guys are just stupid and dont give strong enough signals.  I recommend commenting them about their appearance occasionally, it normally helps.
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unfortunately... yes. they masquerade as dating services from foreign countries. Just google it. I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for.\n\nbtw. if you're looking to bring your newly aquired girl to the US just to let you know... it won't be easy if you marry her overseas. It'll be much easier if you bring her over as a fiancee. \n\nAlso, unfortunately many of these women are abused once they get to the US just as Recacmis hinted at.\n\nNot a great way to get a wife. IMO.
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she just wanted to get some....\nguys do it all the time; why can't women
512590
Unless you are a diplomat, you cannot bring your personal employees over here (USA).  That is why you received no replies.
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It really is that hard to get into America. Which is why US citizens are often so sought after in other countries. (Can you say green card?) I am middle-aged and still get suprise (and often hilarious) marriage proposals from men I barely know when I travel (it's that magic American passport) If a person can marry an American, they will be able to come to America. \n\nIt's hard for us, as Americans, to understand sometimes that the "American dream" is still out there. There is a scene in the musical, "Miss Saigon" that I think captures that illusive American image and dream all too well...if you get a chance to see that show, do yourself a favor and go. It's wonderful.\n\nI am trying to get a VISA for a 12 year old girl to come to America for summer camp in June. It's almost impossible now.\n\nI wonder if while things have changed for us Americans in America, they haven't changed much in the world's eyes. America is still the land where hopes and dreams can come true to most people out there. \n\nAnd, I do think, after traveling to so many countries, being an American is a privilege.
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Do a google search on foreign brides or russian brides.  I remember seeing an article written by a russian woman who married an american man and they started their own service.  There will likely be a fee paid to the company for their service.  You'll also have to pay to eventually travel to the country where the woman is located.  But if the woman directly asks for money, it is a sure sign of a scam.  Good agencies will blacklist them and want you to report them.  I think "Elena's Models" is a legit site.  Might give you some links on tips.\n\nYou might want to ask the woman to send you a specific photo of her.  Maybe request it be near a noteable landmark (I'm sure you could search the net for landmarks in other countries).  You might say "send me a pic of yourself in a blue dress near the kremlin" or such a thing.  If she has already sent "pictures" then obviously she has access to a digital camera/scanner somewhere.  Some scammers might actually be a male or contracted females with various stock photos.  They might stop the scam thinking that you are becoming suspicious.
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some women just want a bab y so bad they dont care who with....also some women thinbk it will MAKE  the guy love them (entrapment) and some women are just desperate
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People you are talking to apparently hate the idea of you liking America ...\nMaybe because you are attractive and they don't want you to leave...\nI know a couple of Czech cousins that love Americans.\nBTW America does not automatically impoverish an immigrant. My great-uncle from Armenia did very well.\nHe started out as a butcher. I worked for a mason off the boat from Italy. Now he has his own company and a big brick house...some immigrants make it.
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Because its all the sicko's that make the make chatrooms, i have asked myself the same question.Most of them cant find a woman in real life, so they get on the internet. Or some that cudnt think of cheating on there gf's or wives so they do that sick shit, thinking that its not cheating.
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With all those *wonderful* qualities you possess you can't find someone in America to become subservient to you?\noh yeah...American...guess not.