If your bf broke up with you just because you didn't call him. do you think he should give you a second chance
400530
If he's just looking for an excuse, why would you want to get another chance.....let him go. He's obviously not being honest about it.
872572
If you think it's worth the effort then give him a chance.  Do you love him?  Do you miss him?  I would hate to think that a dog came between me and the love of my life.
225092
He doesn't hate you! It is common in most guys to not call a girl after a breakup especially if it hurt them. Most likely he hasn't spoken to you because he doesn't want you to know that he misses you etc. He thinks there is a mistake on your path because he is ashamed of what he did or didn't do. It is just a way to remove some of his guilt.If you haven't tried calling him i think you should; but don't mention anything about your relationship. Talk to him as anyother friend would.Try not to focus on you.Ask questions to make him do most of the talking.
443691
Give him a chance.  If you think later that you dont think he is right, then breakup.  I wish the people I asked out would...
254201
I think you should say that your relationship is not where you expected to go and give reasons why you don't want to be with him.  If he happens to let you go and break up, doesn't that leave you a way for you to get back together with your ex without seeming like that was the reason why you wanted to breakup?  Obviously there must be a reason why you'd much rather be with your ex than your current bf, just make sure you're not going to be getting yourself into a big mess and come out with no bf or friends at all.
292206
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
191589
well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!
40011
It totally depends on the reason he dumped you.  If it were for another female....NO.\nIf it were because of misunderstanding ensure that you outline your expectations and don't give in to easily....make him earn your love, but generally I'd say\nNO...YOU HAD YOUR CHANCE.
348864
I would not put up with that,But i guess it depnds on how\nlond you guys have been going out,But still he should have of called you..
634873
its only hard for us if we love the guy.  My BF of 4.5 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and at first I kept calling, but I realized that I can't do anything about it. He broke up with me because he is trying to figure out what he wants to do with his life and doesn't want a GF right now. I realized that if he wants to talk to me, he will call.
106789
Back when I was an bad boy before I decided to settle down, I would say I wasn't ready to commit. What this really ment was I was after someone else and when that didn't work out I'd exploit my ex by keeping in contact as a back up plan. You can give him a chance but at the first sign of uncertinty I'd toss him cause it will just be a cycle of heartache if you don't
2484
Personally, I would say no.  He sounds like he does not know what he wants, or worse, like he was waiting to see what would happen with her before he moved on to you.  And you should never accept being someone's second choice.
274564
I think U should give him a second chance,Because some times there is good guys-like me,lol-Who get confused in the begin' of relations or in knowin' new friends.he may be was gettin' his life in a special way that He had to work it in another way after he knew U.from wt U said I think he is startin' to plan his life the way that suits U.\nI think that he is a good Guy & he really want to be with U now after gatherin' him self up\nSo,GOOD LUCK\n:)
920276
You still have feelings for him, so better get him another chance and see and review your relationship on the basis of his attitude.
436991
Sometimes.  However, you have to really think about whether you are dating the person for what you have together now or what you had in the past.  It is also important to examine why you broke up in the first place.  Is that issue resolved because if it isn't, then, chances are the relationship won't work the second time around either.
1184752
wont you call him up and ask him why he havent been calling you. ortherwise move on!!
930337
sounds like he regrets breaking up with you, kinda like you don't know what you have 'till it's gone.  it's your choice if you decide to take him back.  if you really care for him and feel he is being honest then go for it.