my ex needs a favor he wants me to hold some of his stuff in my apartment,?
410636
and why do need our help I think your old enough to decide your seff wha to do!
1131571
Go for it!\n\nOr even better, sell his stuff to pay the rent!
997064
I've been in this situation many times and it is incredibly frustrating.I feel your pain...I would maybe hold half of the cost of the utilities from his deposit.This way your not eating the whole amount but,he still get's a break.Maybe offer this,first as a compromise-show him the bills-be very open with him-show him your payment history.Next time,next roommate, make sure you make it very clear that utlities are not included in the rent.Unfortunatley if it's not in writing there's not much you can do about it now.Well,at least you've both learned lessons from it all.
980337
Sounds like he is using you now.  Before you cut him out of your life, get your money and ipod back!
1063652
It is not your responsibility to store his stuff for him now that he's used them up. Tell him as nicely as possible how it has annoyed you somewhat but you didn't want to say anything, but for him to please stop doing it, and if he gets offended... not your probs! :)\n\nlol... you might even try pulling the same trip with something that you enjoy but he doesn't, just as a gentle example of how it feels.
801531
slap him and maybe he will stpo lossing your work and dont get a detion for littering
627013
Call him and have everything :)
316692
it would make it easier on you now that he moved out and away to say to him you really feel you need your space. just let him know you've never experienced life by yourself. you were 19 when you got into this and now that your 21 (my 21 b-day is in 7 days i so syked!), you're old/young enough to experience everything you've wanted. if you feel you want to go out and have fun as a single more power to you to follow your heart and do what'll make you happy! GL
454844
I dont think that you should keep it, that is basically a nice form of stealing.  I think that you should track him down and give it back.
782772
I am not sure on the legalities but if I were you I would take those things you need and go someplace he can not find you for a couple of days. Remember the worse time to be hurt badly or even murdered is the end of a relationship. Make sure the things you are trying to keep don't get you killed. There are shelters and such to help you just call your women's help division of the state. If you can not get help call the women's YWCA but get out of the paces he can find you until you can properly gage his anger and limitations. If you have children do it for them you must live thru this to even have property to worry about. Be safe and good luck hon.
20685
yes...and if you ask real nice...he may give you someTHING extra!!
218182
Sounds like he want to play around. Tell him he can have his space, but you're not going to be in it!
884913
Perhaps some sort of basketball memorabilia or something from his favorite player or team. Tickets to a game, something the two of you could do together.
69696
well I would move out cause It'll get worse, before it get better,if he thinks you stole his money,then he does'nt think much of you. sorry that your going through that, I hope it gets better for you, stay strong.
400965
No, because the situation was out of your control. Just buy him something when you can. I'm guessing he doesn't expect anything in return.
820364
I certainly wouldnt spend my own money sending it. If he wants it, tell him to give you your money or come pick it up himself.
239940
If there was no written contract stating terms and conditions of the arrangement - you have no obligation on how long you have to keep his stuff.  However, before you toss them out, you probably should ("should" protecting you against the legal debate of he said / she said) give him written notice of removal with a reasonable deadline to protect yourself from any legal issues.  If you don't know how to reach him, post a notice in the local papers.  That way you have proof you made every effort.