why my friends never understand me and they leave me alone in life as i m completely honest to them?
396994
People change, sometimes with reasons, sometimes without.  It is hard to tell whether you think they have changed or they think you have changed according to your statement.
979758
I have a friend like that, what a bore! hahaha\nUsually people that are like that are incredibly insecure about themselves so they employ different methods to make themselves feel better.\nFor example: acting better than you all the time can make you start to feel like crap about yourself. It's a cumulative effect, so just ignore it and know you're the better person.\nAnd they control who you talk to because they don't want you to realize how sad and lame they are, so they control the possiblility of you making new friends and leave them.\nSo, keep your head up, ignore her, and make all the friends you want to.
1033570
There's not a human on earth that understands me.
837513
I'm like that. I don't have any real friends, just guys i hang around with. I could never count on them. Probably because it's hard to trust ppl these days
1156560
im having problems like that except vise-versa (srry can't spell 2day). take it from me, its not all that ez, it mite take them a wile 2 forgive u, but if they're true friends, they will come to their senses and realize that you appreciate both of them the same (unless you don't, and if you don't i can't help you there).
618624
well if your friends are truly friends then they shouldn't be bothered or laugh at you. If they do they are losers and get rid of them. Your condition is not something that you asked for nor is it your fault and you should know that. Bottom line is you don't have to disclose your situation until you are comfortable and when you do you shouldn't feel bad about it because its life and everyone has something or other that they either wished they didn't or they are not proud of make the best out of your situation and be happy that you are still here!
284289
Its because you alone knows what u want. You don't have to understand everybody, we all are made in a unique way with unique vision for Life. so whatever u want to do people don't have to understand you at the begining but I bet you by the time you are half way their people will beging to understand you. sooo Cheers up sweetheart
678953
Yeah, I know what you mean;)\n\nIf they can't accept you for who you are, too bad. I think if they're your friends (depends on length of friendship) they should know your personality.\nFor me, I giggle out of nervousness - people misconstrue that as being simple minded or just immature. Though I don't really care what others think.\nIt never works out when you change other than just being you. There's always someone who makes you feel less, so don't feel bad.\nSolution? Get better friends.
818918
Sounds like there is alot more to the problem then u r saying but i can understand u not wanting to go into it. I have a problem with trust and i tend only to befriend my family i have no friends either but choose not to cause down the track they will only stab u in the back. Good luck.
1108402
Babe, I would have loved to help u out and believe me I almost did. But then It struck me that if u get used to others helping u out, u will become a big ZERO in your life.\nMy sincere advice - try and make up some sentences. U might make a few mistakes  but then that's how u learn.  \n\nAll The best!!!
807377
I dont think youre wrong at all. Any real friends would not tolerate someone talking about you in that way. Because they didnt stand up for you, they might as well have agreed with the jerk. What a slap in the face! Im so sorry. But it looks to me like it may be time to move on and make some new friends. Thats probably not what you want to hear but you are too good for them!
601907
aw man try to understand why and talk this over with them, may be you are sending mixed signals, i have done that, but i am just friendly and others take it the wrong way. just tell them your true intentions and be nice, good friends are really hard to come by! friends rule!
16559
Don't deal with it.. Get a new friend.. If they think that you are jelious then they are really not a friend at all.
1159431
They sound like losers.  Maybe you need to ask yourself how you deserve to be treated. People will treat you the way that you let them.  You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.  Go make a list of all the great qualities that you have. If you need help, then ask your best friends to help you out.  What would you tell your best friend if she/he were being treated like this? Would you tell them to stay and take it? No, get out and insist on being treated well!
307445
I might be wrong, but I believe that the problem is that you are trying to behave the way everyone wants you to. What I am about to say is such a cliche, but nevertheless true: just be yourself. If those people don't hang out with you anymore, than they haven't been very good frineds to begin with. You are better off without them. \nAnd the fact that you are lonely is not necessarily related to the fact that you are alone. You can also be lonely in the mids of a crowd. Hope I gave you some food for thought........
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Almost constantly\n\nI have lived a very,,, unsheltered life and the majority of the population I have had dealings with suck!!  Most are dumb, rude and totally selfish.  Stuck up and most of them suct more than me!  I avoid people as much as possible. I have 2 friends total!!\nI know lots of people from work and school so don't misunderstand. I am quite sociable when I have to be, it's just all fake.  :o)\nPeople are untrustworthy as a whole.  That's it I guess.
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You're not alone.\nI absolutely understand what you're saying as I'm going through it myself... =( I used to be naive & gullible only to have it blow up in my face.\nI tried changing to adapt as to how people would like me to be... but it wasn't easy & a losing battle at the end.\nFor every person you try to please there's gonna be tons more that don't like you for the same reason. After a while it got tired & I stopped, stayed true to myself & adopt a like me/ hate me attitude. To me it's their loss rather than mine.