what do you tell a guy when you want to have sex with him?
415105
Look him right in the eye and say lets do it he will get the picture
387465
if youre going to argue...do it while having sex. \n\n(shrugs)
906283
A good way to get the conversation going to to watch a film which you know has a sex scene in it and get talking on the subject. Another way is to tell him that you had a dream last night which had him doing all the stuff you like and then get him to re-create the moment!
789090
The next time your boyfriend brings up sex let him know that you are a virgin. Make sure he knows that you aren't ready yet and it makes you uncomfortable when he is constantly bringing sex up. Tell him that when you are ready to have sex you'll let him know. If he really cares about you, he'll understand. If he doesn't, then you know he was only with you because he wanted to have sex with you.
161513
Tell him the sex will be more enjoyable and that you'll want to do it more often if he'll agree to the siver bullet participating.
757661
tia: There are lots of guys out here that would "do you" at a "drop of a hat".  But why would you want to be used just for sex?  After you do the act ... then, what?  You have to be with the guy who had you.  How do you know he will then, stay with you ?  Chances are, he will tell all his friends about what you did with him, ( he will add more to the story than actually went on), and the guys he told will all start coming around to use you.  Sex toys will prove to work against you because later on, you will find that no guy can perform like a sex toy with batteries.  This will leave you feeling down and unfulfilled.  Focus on the quality of the guy you want ... ask yourself, " do I want just sex or a guy who really loves me?"
510592
have sex if you want to ruin your life \ni am waiting 4 the perfect guy\nwhich god will send to me!!!!!!!!!
46772
Telling him what turns you on.  And meaning it.
1043892
Maybe call him just to say hello... or buy (or make) him a little gift or something. A picture frame with a picture of you two together would be nice.\n\nI would NOT have sex with him. Though that would be surprising, it would most definitely be inappropriate.
599035
Telling the truth is usually the best answer to most questions. But like all criticism, doing so in a positive constructive way is usually recommended also. If you care about the person, you should tell them in a caring way. If you don't care at all, just quit having sex with him.
1119120
As someone told you:  SHOW YOURS.\n\nThen your guy will get your point, your idea, and he will correspond.
391498
tell him youre really horny, no guy would pass up that one
723900
Well I always enjoy a little dirty talk from a girl in bed... if you don't know what to say just be like a 'naughty narrator' and kinda just say what he's doing or what you want him to do. For example: "Oh ya baby pull my hair" or "spread my...". I don't want to get too graphic but you could pretty much say anything and he'll think it's sexy... or at least it's cute you're trying to be anyway. Just don't be Too raunchy. \nHave Fun.
993189
You should tell him your needs.How is he suppose to know what you want if he doesn't know what you want.Maybe when your in bed you should guide him while your having sex and if things don't change after that then I don't know what to tell you other then leave.Good Luck
380021
If it were me, I'd want you to tell me when we were doing it...In a sexual way you could say something like, " baby let me help you find my sweet spot " or something on those lines anyway.\n\nI'd love it if you told me what to do...That's HOT!
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I agree with what a couple of other people said....are you sure its a good idea to talk dirty to him?  Its fine to do it, but he will only want you for sex if u do. \n\nI know its hard when u really really like someone, and all the other girls are into him too.  If the guy is good looking then he is probably a bit vain and wants attention (like girls talking dirty to him).  But if he likes it and a lot of girls are doing it then he probably just only wants to have a good time and have sex with lots of different girls.  \n\nIf you dont just wanna have sex with him and really like him and want him to respect you, then dont talk dirty to him.  You said you want to "learn" so therefore its not something that u usually do and is not something that is normally part of your personality.  So if u want him to like you for who u are, then just be yourself.  \n\nBut if u only wanna have sex with him then yeah go for it, talk dirty to him!\n\nRemember too, that guys can get bored with the same thing after a while and with girls that throw themselves at them.  It fun to flirt, but sometimes guys like the chase, so if you know he is kinda interested in you, then play a bit hard to get, make him want you and chase YOU!!!
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Just say NO!\n\nTell him that you are not ready.  That love has nothing to do with it.  You love him, but you are not ready to have sex with him.  Tell him that if he loves you, he will stop pressuring you, and respect your wishes.  If he insists on persisting, then ask him to take you home.  Tell him that he would be committing rape, and he will go to jail.