i just found out that my wife had sex with 60 men before she met me is this a lot of men & should i be worried
399287
She's with you now. She wouldn't have married you if she didn't want just you.
1029941
well im a guy and i had sex with at least like 50 women.  thats not incliding the ones i didnt have sex with. that would be like times two.so 50 that i banged. and 50 that i just fooled around with
1050088
Well, your wife is probably jealous because you are cheating on her.  Being bisexual does not mean that you get to have one lover of each sex...  Either end things with your lwfe so you can live the alternative lifestyle you want (multiple partners, that is) or ditch the boyfriend...and please practice safe sex.
299924
she has 3 kids by 2 guys, maybe she doesn't want to make it 4 kids by 3 guys. be happy she has enough self-respect to be honest with u and isn;t given it up cuz she feels she has to just to keep u
913160
It means that she has had too many sexual partners. She's loose and a lot of guys like it tight.
793683
Dear Omar,\nAm sorry to hear about your wife. It must really be tuff to hold out like you have. In my opinion, I dont think she would damn you for taking on a female friend. I realize it gets lonely especially for a guy. I empathize with you.  You know, I understand you want to stay faithful and probably have thought, what if it was me. Well, my friend, you ARE being faithful, as far as I know. Only God is the judge of what you do. And God knows your heart, whether you are being malicious or not. I don't believe he wants you to be with out companionship. Now sex is another story. You will be taking on alot of guilt because you are not free of your wife in your mind or heart.And suppose you get so involved you fall in love with this person. Then what? Do you chuck your wife and go with her? It is such a fine line as to what to do in this case. I mean what do the docs say about your wife? Is she brain dead? Is she losing body mass by laying? Is she deteriating, What? I say, just be careful not to add additional problems to your life that you may not be able to handle. Choose someone that clearly understands the situation and keep it plotonic(yeah right, huh?). Its nice to know you have someone to talk to and go to dinner and have conversation with, right? To go for walks and the movies. I know what you are talking about. So really you have to make that call and when you do make sure you have a clear conscience.
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im trying to work our your question to answer it properly so excuse me if im wrong here.\nmen who have wives and need to have girlfriends should be worried that they will be found out. its wrong and they should be concentrating on their marriage. sooner or later he will be found out and have to face the consquences, his marriage will probably end as well.
318630
That is the worst idea I have ever heard.  Why would she want him to have sex with other people? Sounds like she has some issues and that is not a healthy lifestyle for you to be getting into. Since you are asking, I would say deep down you probably have your own reservations about it and know the answer already.
570506
Before examining your wife, lets take a look at this dude.  If he was a friend of hers, he wouldnt be making underhanded comments about you, doing things behind your back, etc.  If he was a friend of hers, he would want to be friends with you as well.  I mean, he is a dude.  He knows it is shady to do things behind your back.  Plus, he is putting your wife, his supposed friend, in a compromising position.\n\nNext issue, it is 100% your wife's responsibility to do the right thing.  You probably have a hot wife so you cant blame dudes for wanting her, but you can hold her accountable for doing the right or wrong thing.  She is the one that is married.\n\nSomeone else said this and it is absolutely correct, approach your wife with your feelings in a nonthreatening or emotional manner.  You gotta tell her how you feel and let her know that dismissing your feelings as jelous or irrational is not acceptable.  If this guy is truely a friend, he would hang out with both of you.  Tell her that you trust her and thinks its positive to have lots of friends of both genders, but texting, meeting behind your back, etc. is not something that wives and random dudes do if they are on the up and up.  If they are such great friends, he should come over to your crib to eat steaks and have beers with both of you.\n\nDont accept her acting shady.  You know as well as I do what is going on if she is shady.  Also, don't bite your tongue and be permissive because others tell you too.  You know in your gut if you are right or wrong.
243225
Odd statement, men brag about how many girls they've been with yet when the find the right girl to have a relationship with they want a virgin. If all these guys had so much sex, who did you think they were having sex with? 15 Guys isn't alot for a 26 year old woman. Another thing, men are revered for having all this sex while women become sluts. If you like this girl why do you even care about how many guys she's been with, why are you even talking about it with her. Now I know how guys think and I understand. Trust me when I say this, grow up and deal with it. If not it sounds like it would be your loss.
186800
I have been married for 6 yrs have sex maybe 2x a month  and I have had  too many partners to be honest about.
253202
no. do you really think he is going to tell you the truth about how many women he's slept with? as long as two people are committed , the past should'nt matter . as far as honesty goes you should be honest in your relationship with each other. but the relationships before you two got together has nothing to do with now.and if you tell him the truth , he may think that's too many and it may make him think twice about you.
845139
Believe him, there are a lot of men that don't look at a woman as a sex object.  Quite honestly, my wife knows what I first found attractive about her, her eyes and her smile.
938681
I would say dont bother to worry .... maybe your wife has some feelings and the name is an outcome of it .. just love her as you were doing earlier and dont worry ..\n\nRegards\nSameer\nhttp://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
106755
If your wife had sex frequently before marrying, I sure do hope that you found out about this before you married her and that you have accepted her regardless of her past.  \n\nAs for having sex with her ex-husband, I also sure hope that she did this before she was into a relationship with you. If she had sex with her ex-hubby while married to you now, THAT IS A PROBLEM.
985495
You have a big problem, get help. Any addiction and you called it an addiction first is bad. If you love your wife talk to her show her you care more about her then the smut. She is having your kid and studies show that one of the most common times men cheat is when the significant other is pregnant. Good luck bro.
804675
I am 36-I was 16 when I lost my virginity-I have slept with 5 men and about 15 women. I give no opinion on how many people are too many. I believe sexual expression is a good thing as long as you are safe.