i am quit  what do you do when you meet someone the first time?
402191
you must have fun..with his thinking.u must see that the person is to enjoy that stuff which you r presenting..do the things which the person likes then you can score points with that person
294776
Reach out and touch someone first and they'll do the rest toward friendships. If old acquaintances leave, make new friends because that's whats life is all about. Diligence, respect and modesty pays off.. Hold on to you for if you can be a friend to yourself first by realizing you're worthy of just being you, you will have begun the ladder of friendship one step at a time. I have full confidence in you. Remember this. Yesterday was a dare to struggle to hold on to the past [acquaintances who called themselves friends], and today is a dare to win[new friends including yourself first, and then others]. I think your life is like a precious jewel that can never be replaced.  Good luck ,much warmth and joy, and much wisdom.
406976
start it jsut like how you started the first time you had the romantic relationship//reminiscing is the simpliest way to get back on track
657321
I think you should start by saying, "Hi, how are you? My name is ______ and I've seen you here many times." Then just try talking to her from there. Try to ask her out to a movie or something about a week or two into it. DO NOT TELL HER about the marriage thing because that's just freaky.\n\nIf she doesn't come around anymore then forget her, you'll find someone else.
532900
Make a new start with somebody else.
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discover new things!\ntry doing something new for a change!\nmake new frends, but do not leave your old ones!\nlastly, just be yourself and let them see the real fun side in you!
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depends if it is the first time the person has done it or not.
567017
Smile , say Hello to him or her, be openminded, optimistic and think positive and depending on the occasion adjust according but definately I think be yourself, dont pretend to much although its good you give a benefit of doubt if the other party does not seem welcoming .Most important, remember the first impression always lasts.
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Let it rain...you have to let go of all the pain and situations in the past before you start dating again. It's hard, but you got to do it. Yeah, you got the memories of your ex, but if you want to love again you got to move on. Don't call her. Don't do anything to her. Maybe there's some attachment to her if she was your first love and basically first everything, but you got to let her go. If things were meant to be between you and her it would happen. It goes with the saying "if you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it's meant to be." If you and your ex were meant to be together you will get back together, but on the mean time move on with your life. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. Really and don't shut out on some girl because she looks too much of your ex or because you have an idea of what you want don't shut out on girls that don't met your qualities. You are just missing out and not giving this girl a fair chance if you are comparing her already. When you know you are ready to date is when you don't even think about your ex anymore or how much you loved her.  I know it's cliche, but yeah, just move on and the best way to move on its well, to envelope that person and then send it away. As in get all that feeling in your system then either write, cry, or whatever guys do out and then send it away. Throw away all those memories or hide it away. Anyway, a new love will come into your life when you least expect it to. Good luck and hope I helped.
757070
Stay busy - with friends, maybe meet someone new?  Good luck.
815704
Remember how you acted when you first met the other person?  Remember the special little things you did?  Holding hands, sneaking a kiss and an hug?  Walks on the beaches, a quiet dinner out...\n\nGo back to that time and get the feeling back.
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Letting go isn't easy. \n\nThe best thing to do here is to let go of all committments you've had with this ex of yours and begin to learn how to trust yourself again.\n\nOnce you've learned how to trust yourself again, give every new person that walks into your life from then on a fair and equal chance at getting to know you as a person and to know your heart once again. \n\nYou never know when the next person will enter your life and if that new person is the right one for you.
186280
The first time, shame on him. The second time, shame on you. Don't continue to be with a man that treats you like that. You deserve so much better.
370015
You already know the answer, you should have left the first time!!
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b/c u were once content/comfortable with ur situation and u don't like change.  but that's part of life, if u don't take that chance then u will never know the outcome.  plus ur heartbroken and it scares u b/c u don't want to go through it again, and u're thinking 2 urself is this going to happen again?! U said u've never been single, there's a first time for everything.  word of advice --- quit looking for someone (enjoy time to urself/w/friends), let that someone find u. cause sometimes if ur not looking 4 love its looking for u. and don't be so negative @ moving on. good luck
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Start by saying hello and introduce yourself. Go from there and see where things lead.
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Did he actually meet the other person? If so, what did they do? The severity of his actions should give you a good indication of what you should do. If you feel that his actions were not severe enough to break off the relationship, then don't.  If you feel otherwise, then sever ties. It all depends on how you feel, because we (the answerer's) don't really know the situation you're in and the things you're thinking/feeling. \n\nWorst case scenario? You dump him, realize he was your soul mate, never get back together, get depressed, never date, and die alone.\n\nBest case scenario? You don't dump him, he is eternally grateful, both of you work things out, and you live long and fulfilling lives.\n\nAs you can see, there is quite a bit of swing in the spectrum. If you feel that he deserves a second chance (i.e. he's been faithful [until now], treats you well, is respectful, and didn't go through with the deed, then you might want to give him a second chance.  After all, it seems like he realized his mistake before anything *bad* happened, and both of you can learn and grow stronger from this experience.