Im in love with my girl but she hurt me badly, but holding hands and kissing another guy. what should i do?
415336
forget her. she treated you badly this time, it WILL happen again. you deserve better.
1182832
At first it feels like hurt thats what i felt i been i there but you must realize that if you love and she only likes then there is a difference in your equation i say just give her your all and let her know how you feel and if she doesnt apperciate it then still be friends but change your love to like cause love cant last forever with a girl that only likes
465718
thats just the thing,if she loves u then there is no way u can do it without hurting her.she will hurt.but what u need to do is tell her what u have just told me.tell her that u dont think she is the one and that u think that she will find someone who will love her verry much.tell her that u love her but ur not in love with her(if thats the case)let her know all of this cause the longer u wait the harder it will be to do.but just try ur hardest to let her know how u feel and try to make her understand how u feel and understand that she will find someone else who will love her and she will love back.good luck and hope it works out
898935
Sounds like you are being used.  Love can be blinding.  You need to let her go, she is not the only woman in the world.  But if you keep treating her as "Ms. Universe" she will keep treating you the same way.  You said she is obsessed with another guy.  Let her go because you are obsessed with her.  Maybe if the other guy hurts her, then she will rebound to you, but any man with pride would leave hear alone under any circumstances.  But if you love her and you can't live without her, tell her and if she decides she wants the other guy, let her go!!!
931635
u have put your self in a tight situation.you can not have any type of relation (sexual) with this female. remain a godfather and friend.u are talking about long time friendships and relationships.think about how badly this will affect u,girlf, gfbestf,and most important your god child!!!!!!! you need to stop putting so much taught into her. what if your girl where to find out about these foot rubs etc... Start going out  and doing some romantic things with your girl or most important communicate. Find out how she feels about the relationship but no matter what you guys may come to U CAN'T DATE THE FRIEND!!!!!    If you feel your girl is perfect my best bet would be to stay with her (the grass is never greener on the other side).
315984
Okay I am a bisexual male so it may be a little different for me but here is my advice anyways. (Also I have been in a similiar situation and I have a little insight.)\nThe FIRST thing you need to do is decide how important this girl is to you and are you willing to tolerate her going back and forth on you. IF YOU ARE NOT--then take my advice and break all ties with her. It may hurt at first but if you keep dealing with her you are just reopening a wound over and over and it will never heal. Trust me in this...been there and I wish someone would have told me that. Could have saved myself a whole lot of pain and a broken heart if they would have.
681576
Is she happy in this relationship?  If she is, then you have to forget it.  You can't ruin her happiness so she can be with you.  You may like her, but she might love this guy, and you shouldn't try to tear them apart by 'making your move'.  She's taken, sorry.
848308
You have to give her time...Back off. Tell her you love her and that you are very sorry, Tell her you'll spend the rest of your life making it up to her. I am going to assume you cheated, we are all human. Don't make that mistake again. Time will tell you all you need to know. Tell her how you feel then give her space. Even if you don't talk for a couple weeks. Send her a text message or leave a voice mail every once in awhile telling her you love her. Best of luck
979611
Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES.   Have you been hurt in the past? YES.  Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared.  Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy.  Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy.  Let go of your past, and live.  Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"
369621
It's obvious you've missed out cos you never said anything to this girl when you had the chance.Painful as it is, you will have to let go cos this girl is seeing your mate.Love does take time to heal but if you give yourself chance, you will be able to love again...just don't let your love for this girl blind you so much that when someone else comes along you fail to see them...keep an open mind
1134373
i think you should talk to your girl friend about this and tell her you love her and you dont want any thing to happed to this relationship good luck
399092
IT DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER...IF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING FOR OVER 6 MONTHS AND STILL DON'T KNOW HOW TO COMMUNICATE , THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG AND THE TWO OF YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT AND TRY TO OPEN UP TO EACH OTHER. IT MAY BE THAT YOU ARE SO IN LOVE WITH HER THAT YOU ARE SCARRED SAYING THE WRONG THING MIGHT END YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BUT IF YOU HAVE TO ASK THIS QUESTION IT MUST BE WEIGHING ON YOUR MIND. JUST TRY TO TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL AND HOPEFULLY SHE FEELS THE SAME AND YOU BOTH CAN START TALKING ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL WITHOUT BEING SCARRED.
240847
ahhh what a battle between love n distance, only this has nutin to do with love. main just break off that shoulder so she has non eto cry on.(just kidding). shes a user my friend theres many other lovely girls out ther who would want that shoulder to kiss on. \nshe loves u den she leaves u den she want u then....what the?????? is whe like 10 or something? oh n the jelousi thin thats just because shes afraid to lose her shoulder to someone else. dont make her take u for granted let alone be. n see if she love u what she'll do to get u back... if she can. uve don ur share of chasing its ur turn to run now.
264753
tell her that u have strong feelings for her and that u really want to be with her and u dont want to pretend anymore. tell her that u need to know how she feels about u..and i would put a stop to all the touching and kissing until then. u never know u could be getting strung along.
370742
What you need to do is LOVE yourself a bit more! Find someone who would really love you (that's the least you deserve) You know, someone who would always want to be with you etc.etc.etc. And don't feel upset when she says "no" to you because you already know that she doesn't love you, so there's no point. I would suggest (again) that you start thinking more about yourself...ask yourself "How happy am I in this relationship? Is this person that I'm with right now happy with me? Is there a chance that we can have a future together?" and if you answer no to 1 of the questions...then you need to find yourself another girlfriend...someone who will be there for u 100%.
374242
I think you have to talk to her. I'm sure it sounds about as much fun as getting teeth pulled, but I think you really must  do it. You can never know how people really feel about you until they tell you themselves. Some people just don't show how they truely feel and maybe she doesn't know how you really feel. If you really love her, you should take the risk and find out for sure. And if worst comes to worst and she tells you that she doesn't feel the same way about you at least you will know and will be able to move on without always wondering .
600938
Be careful with that. If she is just lookin for another guy or something you don't want to get hurt. She first needs to gain all your trust back, I think before you should start dating her again, unless you want to get hurt.