Are onlinesex ore intimate online connection cheating If ur in a relationship?
402165
My husband and I both think it is.  We feel that if you are seeking ANY form of intimacy outside of the relationship, things need to be evaluated...even if it is something as impersonal as the internet.
828131
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
584871
sorry but cheating cheating as long as you have a threesome and both participate
475071
If you feel like you need to keep it a secret from  him, then yes it is wrong.  If you do it for more than just casual companionship, then it is cheating even if its not in a physical sense.
295098
Married or not if you have a commitment with someone you should not cheat. You should ask yourself if you are wanting to cheat on someone, why not just leave that person and let them move on to someone who cares for them. I consider cheating when you do anything intimately with another person other than your significant other. That could be holding hands, intercourse, kissing, and even sharing and in depth meaningful conversation. It is wrong because you are taking something sacred from your partner. People, I think cheat because they need some kinda of reassurance that they can attract someone other than they're partner. This is caused by low self esteem. If you are contemplating this don't hurt your partner for your own self gratification. ITS WRONG
212519
Yes, there is SUCH a thing as a 'connection.' I met a buddy online, I have never met him in person, he lives in another country, and over the 6 years we have been chatting we have learned a great deal from each other, he can even tell when I'm having a bad just by my style of writing.  We have exchanged family pictures through the course of the 6 years, we have grieved, rejoiced and celebrated many wonderful events, all through the YAHOO medium.  And sex was never an issue, it was never first nor foremost in our relationship.  We exchanged many stories regarding sexual content, but it was never what kept us together as friends.\n\nI also have a wonderful online connection with my college sweetheart, he writes and chats with me, going on 4 years now.  Yes, we reminisce about the OLD days, but again, sex is not the issue, we share a common connection, the past.\n\nMy current partner, and I have a wonderful connection, we have grown together through the bad times and good times, compromising for the best.  I think the key is patience.  The person you are meant to be with, will eventually come your way, don't force it--it will happen eventually either online or in real life.\n\nGood Luck and prosper...;*!*;...
1124263
i don't get it.  what do you mean she cheated online?  are you her online boyfriend or did she cheat with someone else online?  well, in any case, online or not, if you guys are in a relationship you should definitely talk to her about the cutting and drugs.  let her know that is something that hurts you.. when you see her do those things.  if she cheats there really isn't alot you can do unless you have proof.  if you have proof of it, i think you should dump her.  you deserve to be treated better.
410254
I think a lot of people feel safe and anonymous on websites like those to explore thoughts or curiousities without feeling like they are "really" doing anything wrong...since it is a computer screen...but the mental side of it...can destroy a relationship..yes you should forgive..but NOT forget..you know what he is truly like ..his thoughts...when you have your back turned..so be smart...but don't become obsessed over what he "might" be thinking or doing....then YOU could be the one to destroy the relationship and actually Create what you Fear most
78636
Are you taking care of your man at home? Most men who have healthy sexual relationships at home do not cheat. When women withold sex from their partners they will seek what they want elsewhere. if you have no solid evidance of him cheating,  stop looking for him to cheat and make his time with you extra special.\n\nIf he offers it to you and you do not want it, he may give it to someone else.
135988
If your man has a cell phone and he cuts it off while in the house he probably is cheating. If he don't won't to have sex and you know he got a high sex drive he probably has gotten him some other than home. The best way to fine out if he is cheating began to check his stuff and watch how he acts. You might need to make a couple of trips to see if he is doing anything. Just follow ur instincts and find it out so u can ease ur mind.
792801
i think as long as you remember where you met her it should be ok. many people who meet on line do so for a reason and very often it is not just you that they are chatting with. it depends on how honest they are with regard to their 'other' life.\n\ni have met people off the net and although very fond of them, didnt find it was a great basis for a relationship. my friend once found herself in bed with someone who had HIV, had no idea because she had formed such a bond with him on line!\n\nhowever my nephew has just got engaged to someone he met on the net.\n\ngo for it but be careful! good luck!
508675
If you're "officially" separated from someone, then there is no accountability to each other any longer.  Your former partner wasn't being unfaithful because you weren't together and there was no obligation.  Besides, phone sex is only masturbation.  Big deal!
1079851
Yes because in my EX marriage, it led to other things. It went to porn chat rooms and eventually to meeting up with the women he met online. It destroys relationships.\n\nAnd to your added comment, DON'T accept it. Why should you?  It's like compromising your standards for the sake of him. If you are uncomfortable with it then stand your ground. I personally think any decent man with a strong spiritual belief and is committed to his partner would look for a more healthy and moral outlet.  It's disrespectful.  \n\nI tried to accept it too and look what it ended up doing.
65646
It's an online relationship.
44822
awwhh hell no girl..first of all nebody u meet online could be dangerous..u cant trust them he could be a sex offender..dont do it just have fun online..ask 4 his if u really really wanna talk but otha then that 4get it.
781845
I never have but I wouldn't expect too much out of a online affair. You really don't know anything about the person. Everything could be a lie.
203401
If you are in a relationship, you have pretty much said to the other person you belong to them sexually. So if you are sharing anything intimate or sexual with another person, you are cheating. If not physically, emotionally. Is it ok for your partner to have these conversations with other people? Hmmmmmmmm didn't think so.