How do I fix a teen love problem ?
410523
if you go and talk to her i think that she is not going to think that you were talking about her. but that was really mean when you said that.
399644
Life is confusing at 14. It's confusing at a lot of other ages too. Just look at all of the different answers you have and you will see what I mean. Here's my best advice.\n\nWrite your friend who moved and tell him that when you told him that you loved him it was true, but your love for him is a friend's love, not a romantic love. Tell him that his friendship is important and that you love having him as a friend, but the romance is not there for you. \n\nFind some ways to be around the new shy guy. It's ok to be shy at 14 - for guys and girls. If you get into some of the same activities you will have some chances to find out if there is a spark between you. Be patient. If you are both shy it may take some time. At 14, it's ok to use friends to pass along the message that you might be interested in getting to know him better. That can work pretty well sometimes.\n\nI like that it matters to you how your friend feels and that you are honest about your fears and feelings. That makes you a lot more special than some of the people who have answered you. I hope it goes great for you and that this works out just perfect for you. Good luck.
579900
Write for him a poem and give it to him, when nobody will notice this.\n\ngood luck\n\nshowing love is not a crime
323015
You're only fifteen? Girl, you don't even know the meaning of love. Just enjoy life and have guy friends. Eventually, you're going to find someone that loves you and you are head over heels about them. You're trying to grow up too fast. Trust me, enjoy your life and don't try to committ yourself now. 'Cause when you committ, it isn't all roses, you have to deal with the good and the bad. Stay away from those problems as long as you can.
546280
Welcome to puberty and life with a teenager...particularly one with a stepfather. Just be as good a parent as you can be and talk with her when she will allow conversation. In the meantime try to figure out if she reacts the way she does due to some action she feels is unjust. Discipline without a relationship never works. If she is disrupting your family life constantly you and her mom need to find out why and try to correct this even if it is with a counselor.
525122
Well first of all yes you are to young.  You don't even have a clue what love is at 13.  Maybe you should focus more on your education.  Grammar would be a good place to start.  The world will not end if you don't have a BF.
591895
We were teenagers once too, you know. We remember how difficult it was to get the grown-ups attention and respect, just as it is for you. You're not going to find love when you go to the club every night, nor are you going to get to know love just by getting older. You need to experience life, live a little, go to school and get an education, get a good job, make decent friends, and travel...if you find somebody you just can't live without, somebody who keeps coming back into your life and you find yourself attracted to this person (and I don't mean physical lust only, my dear, but you actually want to get to know them better, and your heart breaks when theirs does) then maybe you could qualify to know what love is. \n\nJust my two cents.
490714
show me the book that defines the "normal" boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, then i'll tell you what you're doing wrong....\n\nno such thing girl. follow your morals, listen to your parents, make your own judgement. the last thing you need to worry about is PEER pressure.
656621
yes. teen love is less complex.
960656
Make it some important to you as it is important to her. My 13 year old was just recently in love and he was sooo happy. Also tell your sister to take things slooooooooooooooooow.
1057013
If you're being serious try mannatech vitamins. If you want a quick fix smack him/her between the eyes. Seriously don't forget how we were when we were teens. That doesn't mean let them do whatever they want.
251709
For a teenager, 6 months IS a long time! Continue to maintain your healthy relationship by keeping the lines of communication open, and being sure you can talk to eachother about important things. It sounds to me like you're right on track! Good luck!
408093
Don't waiste your time or tears on this JERK>>>  It won't get better, he is only a teen..  Get a New  Guy who you can respect and have an honest relationship with.. Good Luck...
356517
i almost have the same situation like you..\nmaybe you can talk to him on a place where there's no too much people.ask him what he feels about you,let him talk first.but if he doesn't tell what he really feels,he might be shy.but,look at his eyes while he is talking,you might get what he wants to tell you!!\n\nand, you are only 13, that isn't love already..it is only puppy love or a crush, do not take it seriously..when yo gedt older,you can meet other guys and might find another one,for now,just enjoy what is happening on both you! and do not expect anything from him!!don't always give meanings on what is happening on bot of you!!just enjoy!!^^,)
830655
First step would be to learn that love has nothing to do with how you feel or how you can make a woman feel. Actions speak louder than words buddy.\n\nExtravagant gifts and etc., dont impress people as much as simple expressions of love like listening when a girl needs to talk and sharing her problems without wanting to hear you're advice on how to fix it. \n\nFind out the things she enjoys, for example when I was 18 I met a girl named Kim. I had her brother go into her room and find out what kind of perfume she used. I then got her some for her birthday and she absolutely loved it. You see, simple things like that!
484649
Crushes. I thought I was in love as a teenager, a few times. But I realize now that I had no idea who I even was when I was a teenager. Teen years are fun. Enjoy them and don't be too serious!
452691
Trying to get teenagers interested in anything these days is a difficult task, and I applaud you for trying to introduce them to Christianity.  However, you must know and understand that you can not lead anyone to salvation. You can not save anyone.  You can not bring anyone to God.  All these things are brought about ONLY by the free will God gave them. They must choose.\n\nThat being said, leading by example is the best approach.  Nothing you say will mean anything to these kids if they think you are full of crap (pardon the term).  But it's true, young adults and teenagers are longing for good guidance by adults they can trust.\n\nIt's also important to find ways to establish a relationship with their lives, and the life of a Christian.  Give them some examples of how fear, anxiety, social relations with the opposite sex, the future, etc. are all made clearer and better when you have friends that have shared experiences, and that these experiences have meaning.  Let them know that being a good Christian means being a part of something beautiful and fulfilling.\n\nNever take them for granted.  All their problems are very real, and sometimes devastating (even if you think they are trivial.)  Teenagers have such a strong need to be accepted and understood, and if you just say "trust in God" over and over again, they'll become immune to it.  \n\nStay creative and entertaining.  The attention span of the avergae teen is about 10 seconds, maybe less.  You have to keep them focused. (This will end up being the most difficult part.)\n\nAnyway...good luck, and God Bless.  Don't give up, and trust that The Lord will find his way into the hearts of these kids, and that these kids will want Him there.