How much does it hurt to have sex for the first time?
399335
If you've begun to use tampons before your first time, it won't hurt as much. Or if you've been fingered a lot it will not hurt that much, if at all. Plus, things like horseback-riding, bicycle-riding, etc. lower chances of extreme pain during sex. There's a thin layer if skin that gets brokn through the first time. That's what makes it painful; but what we don't realize is that it may already have been broken and we don't know it. That doesn't mean your virginity was lost though. BUT FOR A FIRST-TIMER, IF HE JUST RAMS IT IN, BELIEVE ME IT WILL BE UNPLEASANT.
207411
I honestly didn't think it hurt too badly, but everybody has a different tolerance level for pain.  After a few minutes, the pain will get better because the area will go numb and you'll be used to the sensation.  Good luck!
1013086
Simple, well it is simple for a woman. Sex for the first time hurts, and it is only something to sharewithsomeone you love. When a woman has not had sex yet she does not know how good it can actually feel. Next she does know that it is going to hurt. Would you put yourself in pain for someone you don't have feelings for? I dn't think so.
130653
yes it is, that is if you have not raptured your hymen before which can be done through riding a bycicle...... it could also be painful if your boyfriend is not to gentle and considerate of the fact that its your first time...... a higher percentage of virgins never enjoy their first experience and do not have orgasms.....but the pain isn t that much its like an injection from a doctor......after that sex becomes enjoyable with other different experiences.........good luck dear
619031
It didn't hurt me, but I did it with a guy that had an average sized piece of manhood. The size of his penis will be a factor in whether or not it hurts the first time. Spotting is a very normal thing to happen once the hymen is broken. Also, how old are you? You don't sound ready to lose your virginity. Be sure to think it through... I am not meaning to preach, but make sure that you are ready. I lost mine when I was seventeen because I thought I had found the right guy, but we then broke up and I hated myself for it. And be sure to use protection... Also, don't do it because he wants it... It must be a mutual agreement. Both of you must be ready for the consequences if the contraceptive devices do not work.
180114
letting your nerves take over is your worst mistake. just be yourself, explain to him that it's your first time and let the mood take you from there. dont forget the protection!!!!!!
902451
Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
590525
In my experience it is possible to prevent the first time being painful at all if you have played around plenty with your hands and mouth on other occasions.\n\nFingers can be a bit rough, but if you're gentle they can be great. Definitely eases the way for something larger. Also helps the girl learn what she likes and what feels good as many girls don't masterbate with penetration when they are virgins.\n\nPositions... definitely missionary the first time.
317204
I had sex for the first time when i was 17..well of course everyone has their first time so do i...first time of course very excited & fun but after that i feel guilty for myself...i asked myself why i want to do this & what i gain from there....\nSex before marriage of course people call it sin,isnt it!.....\nBut overall i tell myself "its a normal thing for human being to make stupid mistake"...i guess.....actually its depends on how you think about it & how you gonna deal with your decision.............but i hope you'll not regrets it ...and to play safe..i think you should use protection so that you can avoid the 9 months matter....mightbe you just want to experience it but not for commitment yet.....;-)
50958
I don't know how old you are but the fact that you said "relations" gives me a clue that you are definitely young and/or unexperienced in the realms of sex. I feel that the best answer really depends on your body type as a female. You see, before all women have sex, we have something called a hymen, a thin piece of skin that covers the opening of our vaginas. Not trying to give you all the science of it, but it is important. Basically all women's hymen's are totally different, because there are 4 different ones. When you first have sex (as a female), the penis breaks through the hymen and into the vagina. If your hymen is very tough to break through, it will continue to be painful until it is completely broken. If you start with a hymen that is not very hard to break, a few times after having sex for the first time and you should be fine. You have to tell your partner to go slow, and not just ram himself into you. SPEAK up. If it hurts to the point you can't take it, stop and find another position, another day, whatever. I hope I aswered your question to the best of my knowledge. As a female and a mother, I also say wait as long as you can, but I also want females to be equipped with the proper knowledge of their bodies and how everything works.
1050355
the first time?  I can't imagine anyone not being scared, at least a little, the first time having sex with another person.\n\nnow, if you're referring to anal intercourse, that's another issue.  scary's not the right word.  nervousness causing, sure.  the fear it may hurt to receive anal?  hopefully, the guy you'd be with would be patient, understanding (no one should top until he's bottomed.  you must know what the other guy is going thru) and the passion will override the nerves (possibly make it more exciting)\n\nDoes it alway hurt? no.  my first time did not hurt at all.
459776
The first time is usually pretty uncomfortable, probably painful, mostly disappointing... \n\nbut after a bit of practice its great.\n\nJust don't expect it to be wonderful the first time and don't expect either of you to be good at it the first time. \n\nIts not magical like in the movies, its like most things, you need to have a bit of practice and work out what's good for you and whats not.
271170
Depends on person to person but it could hurt. It could hurt like hell!! I don't wanna scare you but it could hurt so bad so be ready for it. Try to relax and be sure that he is gentle to you. It takes time to feel comfy.
158286
you should be more specific about what you want to know.\nsex is fun, and good excercise, and an all around good thing! the first time can hurt, usually does, it can also be scarry! its something new for you to experience. just relax and let whatever happens happen. its a natural thing, and is not something to be ashamed of.\nyou might try looking it up in the dictionary or googling it!as to get more information.\ncongrats on your marriage!
13877
it depends entirely on how tight your vaginal canel is. if youve stuck things up there like candles and stuff... as well as how big the guy you are with... \n\nbut it might not hurt, as long as you have lots of foreplay... and make sure you are properly lubricated. i reccommend using lube, even if you are wet for the first time just to make it easier. be sure to use water based lube that doesnt mess up with the condom, i know vasaline is a no no.\n\nif the guy is also a virgin... its not gonna last that long, and it will probably be a pretty crappy experience...
277384
No you don't need to know sex moves for your first time, it will hurt too much, wait a while before experimenting any moves.
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