How is it possible to go out with a guy for 2 YEARS and for him to just leave and find other girls?
397704
That's called an erection...\nAnd trust me- it's possible
270648
Like a stable, long term girlfriend? Relationships are tricky, and every person is different so there's not one clear answer. If you're friendly and respectful, you're bound to meet someone you connect with. If you think the girls are leaving because you're too pushy, maybe that's your answer. Don't feel like you have to rush or pressure anyone to be with you.
69757
Stick with it. \n\nBut more importantly, enjoy yourself. Guys come and go. Eventually one will stay longer than the others. But no one is around forever. \n\nYou only have yourself to rely on and you are the only one who will ever fully understand you, so don't put too much stock in your relationships.\n\nEnjoy them while they last.
817805
go for it, young lady!\n\nnothing wrong at all with keeping your options open.\n\nIn fact, until you are finished with your education and have your career going, normally around the age of 25, you shouldn't even be in a committed relationship, but should be dating different guys... ideally as many as you can manage, and as many as are dumb enough to buy you expensive gifts, vacations, and dinner dates at expensive restaurants.\n\nmore power to you!
282408
They dont know from experience. I know, and if you want to find someone new, they are just around the corner. I found someone the week after I broke up with my boyfriend because The guy I broke up with was dating again.
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If you've been dating for 2 years, it's easy to get into a routine. It's time to stop and really think about your relationship and whether it is holding you back or acting as a positive in your life. \n\nIt sounds like you guys have been through some rough spots, but before you break up with her, I think you need to ask yourself whether you think the good outweighs the bad. \n\nAsk yourself...\n1. What are the good and bad things about your relationship? Make a list.\n2. For each of the bad things, what are you currently doing to resolve the issue? Is there something you could try? Do you think that she would work together with you to resolve it? If you do not think there is a solution for the issue, are you ok with that being a permanent part of your life?\n3. Are both of you guys heading in the same life direction? Do you have the same goals? Is she "The One" ?\n\nI think once you think through these things, you will be in a better place to decide what the next step is. Relationships take up a lot of energy and time that you could be devoting to other, more positive things - friends, family, etc. etc. Make sure that this girl is a positive in your life. \n\nIf you think that it's just not possible to fix the rough spots, you should tell her that you guys have grown apart and that you need to go your own way. It's going to be tough, but you will be a happier, stronger person in the end. You should be with someone who respects you and loves you. Don't settle for less.
703994
unless they're an asshole, a person naturally wants what they no longer have. and moreso than that, he probably just doesn't like seeing you with other people because you were at one point his. girls do it, too. i wouldn't read too much into it, and if you'd like to know ask him what the deal is. say that if he still cares, he should try being nice, and if he doesn't care, to butt the hell out.
987690
You just got out of a 4 year relationship and you are ready to jump into a new one after two weeks? You contradict yourself you said you told him you knew he was dating others ..he denies it but tells you that he needs to compare if it was worth it to leave one for the other? Anyway it's ok that he is dating others considering you aren't in a committed relationship, you are just dating. Guess what you can date others too! Don't make someone your priority when you are only their option. I, quite frankly, think it's a lil soon to be jumping into a new relationship so quick but that's your decision to make. Keep dating the guy but don't make yourself completely available to him, create a challenge. Also date other people and let him know about it. After all the two of you aren't exclusive, unless he makes it that way. Just take it slow and do what a psychologist does best, analyze.
70118
Guys will go out with any girl regardless of age. They are guys
512991
break up with them and go out with someone else
1017012
I would not trust this guy. Even if he never physically cheated on you with this other female while you were going out, he obviously had feelings for her. He would not have been with her two days later if he had not been harboring feelings for her for a while. You may hope that he will eventually grow up, but how patient and how many break-ups and reconciliations are you willing to put up with. I feel you will be better off keeping on a friendship level for a year. Date other people and have him date other people. You may just find your ideal mate instead of wasting your time. Or in a years time, maybe he will have his priorities focused on you.
749541
Honestly....If it was me I wouldn't waste my time. If he's really interested in you then you getting with another guy might make him see what he's been missing. But in all seriousness though. If he shows no sighns of leaving the other girl then you HAVE to move on. Finding a new guy might make you think twice about your first choice. Lifes too short to stay stuck on one guy. Especially in your teen years...if your a teen.
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Trust me at 19 you are gonna wish you had dated more, i was in a similar situation.  They guy and I dated for 4 or  rs although he was a good guy there was no motivation or goals I found out on my own and ended up leaving him for someone else. You have to ask what is your future with that person and is your family going o ever accept him?
444110
Let it go, he left the store with you...not her! Guys will be guys and they will ALWAYS check out other girls no matter how commited they are to you! You could dump him for it, however, your next man will just do the same thing. It is just programmed into their brains! Not much you can do about it. I am sure it was harmless!
980931
He is not treating you as first and only. It would be OK if he went with other guys - just - but no way if he goes with another girl (unless you are QUITE sure about her - like she was a sister or cousin or gay).\n\nI think you need to rethink this relationship and probably look for someone who actually wants to be with YOU and not just anyone.\n\nSorry - language problem: for 'goes with' read 'goes out with!
1186927
I think age has nothing to do with a relationship. They say that boys are 2 years younger than girls when it comes to maturity, so it works out. That is totally normal girl. Two years isnt anything, I know it feels like that, but out of high school, a few years doesnt mean much. Have fun with ur bf- he sounds like a cool guy.
48473
in my opinion he has found someone else. people do not break up for no reason. if it was money they did not have to break up he just needs to work through it. people break up for a lot of different reasone. they either found someone else or they just simply do not feel the same as they did about that person. if you friend is only 22 she is just starting her life. this is the best thing that could have happened to her. because there is someone out there that will treat her the way she is supose to be treated and have a secure feeling about it not will he leave later. tell her she is free now go live it up and have fun and do not settle for a looser that does not no