I have a girlfriend, but I don't know how to tell my mum? Help Plz?
400752
U pray and ask God to give you the courage to tell your mom.  There`s nothing wrong with having a girlfrind.  It`s just so proper to tell your mom.  A mother will always understand his son/daughter.  She will always be there....try it, don`t be afraid, I know your mom will understand you!  God bless and Good Luck to you!
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This may be the hardest thing you have to do so far in your life and I wish you the best of luck!\n\nHopefully in 5 years you will look back and laugh at how scared you were to tell them. \n\nI don't know your family but if I were you, I would take my mother to a neutral location such as a park and go for a walk. Tell her how much you love her and that you would never do anything to hurt her. Tell her that you need to talk to her about something very important to you. Then tell her in a way that's best for the both of you. Give her a few minutes to absorb this new information. Ask her if she has any questions. Tell her that it is nothing that she did or didn't do. Tell her that she is a great mother, and that you were born this way. Tell her that you are still her daughter, still the same loving girl you always were. Hopefully she will come to accept this in time. It may take a while. (She may already know) Either way she may be able to help you tell your father and the rest of your family. In time they will learn to accept you for who you really are, and love you just the same. Best wishes!!
391659
Just tell her. You won't know how she feels if you don't tell her. If she does not accept you than go on.  Their are alot of other girls out there for you.
514280
Say you love and you're proud of her.\n\nYou wish her all the happiness in her life.\n\nAnd if it's appropriate mention a funny story from your childhood.\n\nGood Luck!!!!
30891
Be honest.  Hopefully she will respect your honesty.  Remember that she is your mother and you can tell her anything.  Just tell her.  Trust and open communication between you and your parents are the most important things you can have with them.
607910
she's ur mom... love her.. have an open communication.. talk to ur dad too.. and find for urself who tells the truth..
722758
Try and talk to your mum, Tell her how you feel. If you really cant talk to her then write her a letter or an email. Explain that you are only writing to her because she will not listen when you try to tal to her. I am sure that when she realises how sad you are she will change. Being a teenager is very hard the good thing is it will get better.\nGood luck.
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i love the gift, its very sweet\n\nwhat i think you ought to do is just tell her\n\nshe's going to expect you to ask her directly, anyway, because of the hanging out ya'll do anyway....just say something like "can we turn this hangin we do into something more meaningful?"\n\ngood luck!
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She should tell her mum straight, maybe with you there so they both have some support to help keep it calm. I always tell my kids to tell me the truth no matter what or how bad the news is and i will always back them up or help them. I also tell them if they come to me to tell the truth i will not shout or yell. Ill listen to them.. Your mum will feel so much worse if she finds out from someone else . or fInds out after something serious happens ... do the right thing pluck the courage up and spek to her together. \nI hope you guys make a the right decission .. good luck
615663
i am from Scotland and unfamiliar with this. however i would just tell ur mum, pick a time when she is in a good mood and no-one else is around. its inevitable she is going 2 find out and its better she hears it from u than someone else or a report card! she wont b happy but at least ur being honest with her, surely that counts for something? good luck :)
396885
come onn.. tell her.. its the 3 hardest words to say... but u can do it
38043
I would just say - tell her straight at her face.. but not everyone has the gut to do it. Not even me. \nSo, if you are bold enough, let her know.\nIf you are not, show her your affection for her. If she loves you, she can feel it. If she doesn't.. then you should know what to do.
952223
you are what? gay.......just tell her.....if she loves u she'll understand.
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Yeah....give her mother sometime. i hope ur gf is backing you up. a day will come when ur gf's mother will realize that u were a real truthful guy. talk to her after few days in a polite manner. dont lose ur temper
691251
BE A MAN ENOUGH AND TELL HER!GOODLUCK YOU NEED IT!
440394
You use indistinctly "like" and "love"\n\nYou say you have liked her for a period of time so I think you like her and you are in love with her and you think you could love her.\n\nThe flirting and "stuff like that" kinder ruined it... but don't worry, you can still repair this!  You'll see... when your mum bakes yerr favourite cake and you smell it and you see it and you even drivel... the only thing you want is to take at least a nibble... but once you eat that first nibble maybe you'll want to finish up the slice... at the end you don't find it as attractive as the begining... at that moment you are satisfied and you don't need more... but surely, since it is your favouirte... you'll want another slice some hours later or the next day... but what if your mum hides the cake?  You will be very keen to have another nibble again.  It is a weird example, I know, but could help... 'Hide' the cake (=you) but in a smart way... don't run away and let her look for the pie... just don't show yourself as so-much-interested but keep yourself around her... so that she can realise how much she misses you... In addition don't let the other guy to outwit you.  If you go on your intent and she does not go on you and rather goes on the other guy... then let her go... after all there are many other women out there...  Though I understand the way you feel!!!
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If you love her, tell her.\n\nIf you owe her any apologies, apologize.\n\nIf you want to know anything, ask her.\n\nTake solace in the fact that you have the opportunity so few have been given.  My mother and I had a "falling out" over ten years ago.  During that whole time we never spoke or communicated in any way.  Four weeks ago she died in a car wreck.\n\nUse this chance for all it's worth.