what happens if your friend likes the guy who is gonna take you to the prom?
398110
member friends are forever boys are whatever, \ni know it sounds corny but before you hurt your friend think about what u would feel
686998
Okay, you like him, and you don't just like him........you LOVE him, and deep down inside, you feel REALLY upset that he likes your best friend, even though they go together, you still want him, but I guess only patience is your only option, I'm going through the same thing- except I don't know if my crush likes my best friend, I don't think he does either. But yeah, only time will tell. Hope this helps.
514691
I would say, go and have fun, prove to him that you can have fun with out him as a dat.. plus you can go and have fun with your friends.. prom is a good memory of when u in H.S, \n\nyou can get another date for your prom nite cuz you still have a week...
752906
Personally, I don't think it's right for your friend to be looking for ways to get closer to that guy when she already has a boyfriend. \n\nI think perhaps you could wait for sometime to observe if your crush likes you? You can tell him your feelings and see if he feels the same way. But I don't think it is entirely right to keep ur friend in the dark too. You should tell her how you feel about him soon. Yeap. If she is really your friend she will understand that you have a right to crush him too :)\n\ngood luck!
831638
You think your friend is going to leave you for the guy.\nb
223946
if you like him...go out with him... if you are comfotable being with him then go out with him... but if you are not comfotable don't go..you will not have fun if you go out with him against your will... but if you can be proud being with him...so go out with him if not tell him politely that you can't go with him... just tell him honestly and politely so that you won't spoil your friendship.
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
123237
No. Its not. Friends are friends. I would take another girl to the prom as friends.
168886
Take it easy, and see who the guy likes, maybe he likes neither of you. Maybe there is one of you he likes. You both have the right to like the guy, so dont loose your friendship over it. Just play things out, and see what happens in the end...
426624
be front about it, and get the ball rolling. if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet. of course, in your situation, mold it so that the envelopes follow her daily schedule. she CANT say no to that...
253371
If you have any guys that are good friends and don't have dates as of yet ask them.  I went to prom one year with a good friend of mine after we both had just gotten out of relationships and her and I had the best time of everyone there I think.  Good Luck!!!
706139
First let him know that its important to you that he goes and prom means more to you than he thinks it does. Well, if he's not going to go with you why not go with someone else? It might bother him to the point that he will go with you. Guys will never understand women, so its best not to bother, especially at this age.
342443
No boy is worth messing up a friendship especially if she is your best friend.  Trust me, BEEN THERE- DONE THAT!. I dove in on one of my friend's bf's once and she hated me for 2 years in high school.  Then she finally forgave me.  We hated each other during two proms and a Senior Trip.  It was not worth it.  Instead...why don't you wait and see what happens with them...chances are it won't last long.  School romances rarely do anyway.  Then after they go their separate ways, like probably in a week or two....then try your luck.  Trust me...don't move in on your friends crush.
389074
well if you really like him does it matter what your friends think? just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. i hope you make the right decision because it sounds like this guy really likes you.  just try it!!!! nothing will happen and if you really and truly like him and you want to stay with him tell your "friends" that they should accept him and if they refuse tell them " hey f**k off!" and just ditch their assiz if they don't like him but you do and their willing to give you up for a reason like that their not true friends. hope you take my advice and god bless!
130713
Well it depends, does your friend know you have a crush on that guy? If she does, that's fucked up what she's doing. Well if she doesn't know then tell her and tell her that you don't appreciate her flirting with him. Also ask her if she likes him. If she does, don't ever let a guy come in between you and your friend,cuz friendship is more valuable than a guy, I can guarantee you that!!!\n\nGood Luck
436388
if you really like the guy everyone else likes you have to look at it this way is it because he's cute or his he really nice, as for your friend you say its just a crush but you probably like him more than you think you just haven't realized it.
356231
In my senior year I had no intention of going to the prom it just wasn't my thing, but a girl I knew asked me and it turned out to be a fun evening.  If the boy is shy I am sure he will appreciate you asking him out.