i am a woman who likes to watch porn but my boyfriend doesnt  know?
410288
No dont worry u r a normal human being
36571
It's funny sex and love are two different things. I'm sure he isnt trying to hurt you,but he is insensitive to your feelings. You should tell him what you want...not what you don't want. Part of being satisfied is rolling with what turns your partner on so they are satisfied. It's much easier to get yourself off if your partner is happy. Not to reward him for being selfish, but I would give a good acting job just once to see how he reacts if YOU are the one that is getting off to porn.
317642
I think that it is cheating as well. Like you I am in the same boat. At first I was very angry and upset and so I asked other people if I was over reacting. The thing that sucks is that every one has their own opinion. I was getting different answers from them all. I say once you have seen one you have seen them all and there is no point to wanting to look elsewhere, otherwise what the heck are they with us for, just a recepticle? I am in a predicament my self but with strip clubs and porn so don't feel all alone. Keep your chin up and try to work on a resolution and compromise. I hope this helps a little to know that you're not alone. Just so you know if you let it continue to bother you it will become a trust and respect issue. So don't badger him to change because it won't work.
96003
You by your question know what is right. I am here to back you up in your decision. You are in control of your own body.He is not. You have made the right decision already in your heart. How dare someone tell a girl like you to go and rent porno movies. If your boyfriend is in that frame of mind tell him to take the matter into his own HANDS, as the milk is not free unless you buy the cow.
231636
I dunno why so many women get offended by porn. it's an insecurity issue, so many women think that their men want these women. they dont...me and my partner watch porn together all the time, i think it's healthy in moderation...it can be good fun. i'm a woman and i dont get offended...i do get insecure about it at times..and some things are erm..a little rude, things i wouldn't wanna do, just remember it's not a competition to "do what they do in the movies"
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well is it a dating site too i would be pissed off but if it is just a porn site enjoy do it with him  but if that is all he wants to do i would evaluate your relationship because i would consider that cheating and you are worth alot more than that respect yourself and ask him what is going on if he doesnt seem to care dump him and find someone that will love you for you i dont think though that there is any thing wrong having fun with porn and fantisizing but it can go to far im sure jyou will figure it out
658855
There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend wanting to watch you with another,he just want to maybe fullfil a fantisy and he wants you to be a part of it.and i think that is very good of him because most man will do that behind there girl back.and how do u go about finding a girl to do that, if you have a best friend that u trust and she is willing to do that with no strings attach with yr boyfriend whatsoever u don't have a problem.
168165
This is one of those things that it's all in the persons point of view. He may just be viewing it as a form of pornography which wouldn't be cheating at all and may just be getting himself all warmed up for a night with you. OR he's losing interest within what he has and things need to be spiced up a bit. If he starts acting differently towards you than I would seriously consider having a sit down and talk session with him and get both of your view points out and let him know that you don't approve of him watching other girls on the computer while they pleasure themselves.
993233
Porn can affect a relationship if one of the people are uncomfortable with it.  You just have to talk to your partner about it and find out where he/she stands with the porn.  If your partner thinks its bothersome then do the right thing and ditch it.
1023262
I think they are great.  My boyfriend and I actually watch them together... it's a turn on.  And there is pornography for every preference... watch the ones you like and don't watch the ones that gross you out (like pissing or throwing up... what the f**k?)
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Yes, unless your girlfriend or your wife is the porn on the computer he's looking at.  How do you know what he's looking at on his computer? Keep out of his business.
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As long as you're both comfortable with watching it, I would say no. It can spice up your sex life and possibly introduce you to new ideas, although porn sex isn't usually that realistic, especially as far as women are portrayed. If you both have no moral or religious reason not to, why not? After watching some, you can check in with each other to make sure that you're both still comfortable and not jealous or anything like that.
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Be very worried. My ex husband watches porn. He did the whole time we were married. He ended up cheating on me pretty much the whole 20 years we were together. I believe that him watching so much porn had a lot to do with it. I am sure that his attitudes about sex, it being his right to cheat on 'his woman', etc also havd a lot to do with it as well.\n\nI would personally be very concerned/worried if your partner is watching porn 3 or 4 times a day. They are, eventually, not going to be satisfied with just watching it on tv. They are going to go outside of the relationship to get what they are seeing. \n\nI would suggest counseling for your partner. Also tell your partner how much it bothers you, worries you, etc. Watching porn is dangerous for a relationship UNLESS both parties are watching it together to learn tips or to get aroused, but only once in awhile, NOT all the time.
129088
silly. nothing wrong with watching it .maybe you should watch with him it came do wonders to your sex life
4662
Look for Amateur Porn...it has real people, having real sex...not silicone enhanced women and all the pulling out of regular porn.\nI am female and i like watching amateur porn with the guy I am with if he is into that.
1032928
Can't you tell him the truth?  Think about what you like when you are on the computer (games? chat? surfing the web?) and try to tell him why you like that.\nIt sounds like he's feeling left out.   Is there something you could do together on the computer?  Is the computer more important than your relationship with your boyfriend?\nOnly you can figure those things out.
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I totally know that knot you are describing. I think lots of men do look at porn but I wouldn't say all. It doesn't mean you aren't good enough or anything and it should only really be a problem when he turns you down for sex and turns to porn instead. Talk to him calmly and ask him why, but try not to act like a mother scolding a wayward child. Hope that helps. Take care of you.