If ur boyf told u he's punishing u by nt having sex wat would u do?
405095
Oh wow, take this lesson from me, believe me I know what Iam talking about here.\n\nSex, is not a bartering tool.  Nor is it a tool used for punishment.  If you start down this path, you will regret it, deeply regret it.\n\nFind a man that values you and the closeness that you share with him, the physical closeness.  That thru all the disagreements you may have, he still cherishes the feeling of being close to you, to feel your body against his.\n\nFind that dear, and you will know what a genuine loving relationship is all about.
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
366492
kick him in the nuts about 4 times and then tell him to do it right!  If that dosent work then leave him!
181425
beat his @$$ and then hers especially if she knew that he was in a relationship with you, dump him and find someone else
599172
teachers desk!! me and my ex got detention together. at the time we were really pissed at each other. he wrote me a letter saying how much he wanted to bang me. of course we have had sex a lot already. even though i was mad at him i knew i wasn't going to see him for three weeks so i figured now would be my only chance. the assistant principal had to go deal with a fight downstairs. so as soon as he left we haved at it
262573
You can't punish every girl for her mistake. You have to take it as her lost your gain. You need to seee that she has mad you a bigger person. You gotta do like other people forgive and forget. I know its hard to forget trust me I know me and my boyfriend were together for a year and I found out that he was having sex with my best friend but I came to realize that he just mad me stronger. Its hard to shake it off. After it happen to me people told me that I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I get my prince. And thats how it is. Not every female is that way but you'll never know until you give them a chance. After about a month or two I started talking to this guy and me and him have been talking for 6 years now.
120657
A guy thinks..."SCORE!!!".  The fact that he called you back and is still dating you doesn't really mean that much.  You could just be easy for him to hit.  Test it.  Tell him how you feel about the situation and tell him you want to take a break from sex for a while (a couple of months at least), and restart your relationship on a non-physical basis.  If he really likes you for who you are there will be no problem and he will respect your need.  If not he'll hit the bricks and you'll be better off and you will have learned a lesson for next time.
183634
If it was God walking amoung us and you hurt Him. He would have forgiven you on the spot.\nI would tell Him your sorry.\nWhat else can you do?
617423
Dump him and get on with your life, he is a total looser to cheat on you
19814
You say you have no choice but to put up with him, so I say:Find out every flaw he has. Correct him at every turn,show him up, make him feel persecuted, rub his nose in it like a puppy.He'll either get the message and move on to another unsuspecting soul, or kill you.
1104864
I would tell him that hes pissing me off and upsetting me by saying those things and talk to him about it. see if he will agree to stop it. then if he keeps on, i would just dump him and move on. there are PLENTY of guys who will make you feel special... you dont need one who tells you that you need to change just to suit him.
586657
Treat him like crap then tell him.
165224
Tell him you are sorry, hand him the paddle, lay over his lap and take your spanking.
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don't get mad, get even!\ntreat him how ever u want! sure, u should find a way to punish him ! use u're imagination.\n\nP.S. if u ask this question without being mad already, tells me that he doesn't mean that much to u.
166174
He is pressuring you. If he loves you, he will wait. Also, if he says that you need to, then you need to leave him. In addition, you may need to "take the wind out of his sails." If he calls you a wimp, baby, or other degrading things (i can't mention) then you can possibly say "maybe I am a [insert word here], but I am not going to have sex.\n\nI know it sounds corny, but remember - No means No!
561019
Get him to have sex with you.\nthat would break them up\n\nor dig up dirt about her.\n\nlol i feel dirty answering this question. haha
201184
yell you got to tell him cuz karma is a b**** i know i cheated on my boyfriend wit his brother it wasnt sexual but a kiss is a kiss and i didnt tell and karma came back and bit my a**