Is it really important what others think about your interracial realtionship, like family, or only what you do
397498
It is your business, your life.  That is what is important.  Don't concern yourself with whatever others think.
535041
It doenst matter to them and i wouldnt care what they'd think. Its my life - my choice.. not theirs, plus they can't say nothing because they had me and i am multiracial. \nI am korean, white (polish) and native american and my husband is black. \nWe have an absolutely beautiful daughter.. mix kids are the most beautiful ones.
919505
i don't see anything wrong in disagreeing with it as long as one doesn't impose his/her views on others. i am one of those people who disagree with interracial relationships due to the fact that i want to preserve the beauty of uniqueness, also, i see interracial relationships as a threat to different culture of each race.
481751
If you truly love him, what other people think shouldn't matter.\n\nSounds like you care more about what your 'group' thinks than you do him.\n\nThat isn't love.
311724
This is where we must respect the race of people. I mix around with alot of different races. We can criticise our own race, make jokes about it but we have got to treat the other race with respect.\n\nIt's like your own house, you can scold your brother or sister maybe even your parents but you'd never give an outsider the same allowances. \n\nTell it straight to your son, for one race to joke about certain words, we must give them allowance but we cannot afford ourselves the same liberties.\n\nKids always want logical explanations but as an adult, we know thats how life is, some things cannot be explained in black and white.
537760
Be ourselves and not allow society to form our opinions or our judgments.  I'm a white girl, but my boyfriend's black.  We're madly in love, and both of our familys accept each of us...because we got to know eachother before making any judgements.  I hear rude stuff all the time, like, "He's a trader," and "Uh-uh, that don't make no sense."  I even get evil glares from white men when we go out...but I don't mind, cuz he's the one that I go home with at night, so that's all that matters.
925594
I am a white American Female and my husband, a Filipino, is the best thing that has ever happened to me.  I could not imagine life without him.  Interracial marriage is perfectly acceptable as long as the people love each other and are ready to forge a new life together whatever the obstacles.  Our biggest obstacle was some cultural stuff because we grew up so very differently, but with time love and tenderness we worked through it and are falling more in love everyday!
1109141
That is a real good point and makes alot of sence..since dating in your race is inter-racial lol
567708
I believe there is someone for everyone as a person, why do you find it necessary to say, I'M Black. I don't say when I put pen to paper or talk I'M WHITE. Either your a lovely person and thats all that counts, or you're not. Think of being a lovely person then others will think the same. Hope you get what you want have a lovely life.
778132
don't worry so much about every one else ,think a bit more about your self . if you are happy with who you are then what dose it matter what anyone else thinks
111319
you shouldn't really think about someone's ethnicity when you date or fall in love with someone. you just simply let go of your feeling irregardless of the color, race or whatever. asking if what your doing is right or wrong is simply asking if your in love or not. if you feel something for that girl races nor backgrounds should not hinder you. in fact, it should uplift you cause you could share and at the same time learn. you could share your heritage to your love one and your love one could share her heritage to you. besides, your not inlove with an animal, right? she's human so it would make no difference if she's mexican or what ethnicity might it be. HOPE YOU GUYS WORK OUT and become a COUPLE.
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I say abso-friggin-lutely.  I will encourage an interracial couple every chance I get because they need it more than any other couple -- at least that's the case here in the southern United States.  I say if the person you love is not the same color, screw anybody who doesn't like it.  It's your life and you can live it the way you want.
943381
yes, I was married to a black man for 20 years.  I loved him very much but we caught hell from both sides white and black.  People were always trying to under-mind our relationship.  His family had problems with it, especially the females in his family.  My family at first was not happy, but when they saw him for who he was, we had a great relationship.  So, you can't force people to except your love of another person of any other color or country.  You both have to work on  your love of one another because there is always going to be hateful, mean people out there who are not going to be thrilled with your love and will say things and try to do things to end it.  People are just hateful.  But, I don't regret it.  My husband died and he was a good person and we endure a lot, but we loved each other and people saw that and pretty much had no issues with it.
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I think that this question was a bit uncalled for ....\n\nBut here's my opinion ...\n\nI am white, my husband is black, and together we share a little boy who white and black. He will grow to learn not to "hate" any race. We are all equal in society. The color of our skin does not make a difference in the love in our hearts.
654743
What about your family (parents, relatives, etc.)?\nFriends?
1176928
Your girlfriend is saying that ultimately she don't see herself settling (get married) with someone outside of her race. You must decide if you are willing to tolerate someone with such views, AND if you must judge her level of seriousness about the topic and whether she can be swayed to look beyond your skin tone. \n\nRegardless of how much we love someone it is important to realize that there is nothing that we can do if they are not willing to work at making the relationship last.
1029926
I think you should feel lucky to have this variety in background(especially native american, as it's not very common...).\n\nHumans tend to classify what they do not know or are not used to as "weird". You are different to her, no doubt about this. I have to admit that your combination of ethnic background is quite unique, I've never heard it before, but that's what makes it interesting! \n\nI think that multi-racial people (and, generally, people from mixed marriages) are more open-minded because of the diverse environment they have grown up in. \n\nThere is nothing you need to do - just be yourself and be proud of yourself!