If I enjoy kissing and feeling womans breasts but I have never gone south could this mean I might be homosexua
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If you like kissing women and playing with the hooters I would say that your are hetero...the rest is just a matter of time.
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If you are more attracted to women and want to act on these feelings, then yes, or maybe bi\n\nBut if you are just using them as erotic pictures in your mind, but still enjoy your men, then i dont think so.
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I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN, YOU WILL KNOW.\nI WENT THRU SOMEINTERESTING EXPERIENCES, THAT MADE ME QUESTION MY OWN SEXUALITY..  IT STARTED WITH A BOYFRIEND ALWAYS WHISPERIING IN MY EAR ABOUT ME AND ANOTHER FEMALE, AND THEN I WOULD GET TURNED ON THIINKING ABOUT IT WHEN HE WAS ARROUSING ME, HE PUSHED IT IT WAS FUNNY AT FIRST THEN HE SAID " i should try it sometime"  HE HAD THE FANTASY OF THAT, AND DID HIS BEST TO HELP ME GET INTO A SITUATION WITH ANOTHER FEMA,LE\n\nAND THE FEMALE I MET, HAD A BOYFRIEND AND OLDER MAN WHO ALSO WANTED THIS ,,BUT WE (the girl and i realized they wanted to be conducting it, a part of it, and controling it, (MEANING THE TWO OF US GETTING TOGETHER,,, BUT WE HANDLED THAT,  WE DID GET TOGETHER, AND THE GUYS WHO DID  NOT KNNOW EACH OTHER  WERE NOT AWARE, AND IT WAS A FANTASY, SPECIAL, IT TURNED ME ON,, WE GOT TOGETHER A FEW TIMES, BUT ALTHOUGH THE TURN ON A REAL PRETTY FEMM AND ME TOO,, HAD GIRL THINGS, BUBBLE BATHS, MUSIC MASSAGES, ETC, AND THEN IT WAS OVER, I HAD NO DESIRE TO BE INVOLVED, HAVE A GIRLFRIEND FOR A LOVER, OR PURSUE FEMALES.\nI NEVER REGRET ANY OF THAT ,,BUT IT WAS NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO MAKE ME LOSE DESIRE FOR A MAN, IT WAS AN EXPERIENCE OF "IN ADDITION TO," not Instead of,,\n\nfor many y ears from time to time i have been with a female, and i   enjoyed it and it is a turn on that i can not get with a man,, it only reinforced to me i am not a lesbian, i do not want to be full time lovers, or grow old together as a couple i prefer men.. so does that make me bi?  I DONT KNOW, I DONT HAVE ONE MONTH ON  AND ONE MONTH OFF,, I KNOW THAT PART OF MY INNER FEELING WAS REACHING OUT FOR WHAT I WANTED FROM MY MOM?  women are feminine, soft, gentle, and the ones i had an experience with we would talk, be like sisters, kind, not pushy  and womens bodies are prettier than mens, but i never felt like i wanted to abandone men, it was more of an escape to expressing the female in me with another who felt the same,,  anyway anyway..i think i have all of that curiosity satisfied, i have not thought about being with a female nor when i see any sexy ladies do i think of sexual thoughts, so i am grateful that i haave the choice, and i need and want a man to fill my emotional and physical needs,,,\n\nI do believe that some women turn later in life to a life lesbian style, but i am not so sure it is because they discovred they are gay,, i think it is they just resolved themselves to the fact that men are the weaker sex, and they had enough abuse, and emptinesss, and a good female girlfriend (BUDDY)  not a lover, is easier, and less frustrating,  we are all different iin our needs, \nI do know some lesbians that just hate men, they hate them,, so therefore i think that is a choice, not a physical  reason..  so th ats how i know i am not a lesbian,,i dont really have to pledge to any gender, but i feel more confortable with a man for a mate,,i hope i gave you another prospective,  on this
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Golly...you boys certainly do have wild imaginations!  For the record, if all of us women were as homosexual as you think we are/want us to be, we would never have sex with guys, so you should probably get over it.
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I cannot tell a handsome man from one that isn't. I feel rejection to the very idea of me with another man (which does not mean I feel rejection to those men who do have sex with other men, just to the idea of me in that situation). I have never fallen in love with a man or boy. And I am never aroused with men. Plus, I have an education which I'm sure would not make me repress it, if I were gay. So, I guess I am physically unable to feel any homosexual drive, which is a bad thing, since it would double my chances if I weren't so picky, and looking always for women.
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In myu experiance, hells no.  I'm really really good looking (at least I think so).  I have a good mixture of genes and taking care of myself, so I have great breasts, nice curves, nice hair, and a great smile.  My looks and hot I feel about them have nothing to do with my liking p*ssy in addition to dick.  And I've had plenty of guys and girls tell me that I'm hot.  I feel really great about my whole package actually, not just my body.  I'm smart, witty, caring, compassionate, loving, loyal, and spiritual.  I want to be just like me someday!\n\nSome homoesexuals lack self esteem, some heterosexuals lack self esteem.  It doesn't have anything to do with what you like sexually.
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first of all if you are sexually aroused by both male and females then you are bi, but if you are only sexually arroused by somebody of the same sex you are then you are gay.\n\nI would suggest going to a gay bar and going onto a date with sombody, not for sex, but to see if you feel more comfortable in a gay relationship first.
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I dont think that means you are gay. But maybe you should sit down and really think about this before jumping into anything you might later regret
59881
Your question is a very difficult question to answer.  By reading your question it says that you went gay/bi because a girl hurt you really bad and you decided to stay away from females for awhile.  I can understand that.  Now you are saying that you do not want to be gay/bi and that you want to have a family and think that a persons sexual prefrence is a way to get into heaven.(If such a place exists).  From the look of your history I see that you must have liked the men because you have had more of them.  The way I see it you have lived the last six years of you live with a pattern: 1,3,1,3,and? I say continue on and adopt.  Don't put your self in turmoil and remeber the end is only the begining.
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hmm well you may just not feel comfortable around men yet you are still young and I know that I didn't really start to feel comfortable around guys till I was sixteen or so.....experimenting with girls is not going to be as akward because you have the same body parts and it's familiar......you need to take time lookat pictures of women and see how it makes you feel do the same with men ......you may be a lesbian and if so rock on who cares but don't put that label on yourself yet....you may also be Bi-sexual  just take time and see how your body reacts to photos first then feel it out for awhile don't experiment to much your still young and have plenty of time for that......\n\ngood luck\n\n<3
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At 16 years old your hormones are in overdrive. I don't think you are gay or bi since men don't seem to turn you on like women. You are just curious of sex in general. Do you have any gay friends or aquaintences? If so that could be adding to your curiousity simply in wondering why they do what they do. If you feel like you would like to have sex with another boy than by all means you should give it a try (use a condom of course). There's nothing wrong with experimenting to figure out what you like and don't like. Just remember to be true to yourself. Don't try anything because of peer presure. I think you just need to experience life. You're young and curious and that's perfectly ok. Just be safe in whatever ventures you explore. Good luck.
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No, I don't think so. If you are attracted to members of your own sex physically - that makes you homosexual. A transsexual would be - for the sake of the argument - considered to be the sex that they have become. If you're male and attracted to a female (who was born male) then I think you would be a normal heterosexual. Good question!
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I was born heterosexual. I cannot help being attracted to women. Please do  not condemn me for that.
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If you have any type of sex with men, you are gay.  If you wear women's clothes, you are a sissy but not gay.  Whatever the case, if you're not hurting anyone - DO WHAT THE F*CK YOU WANT AND DONT' WORRY ABOUT WHAT SOMEONE MAY THINK.  free yourself...
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if you think about physical contact with the same sex like kissing and your loins start tingling, then you're probably gay. if you get a bit of a gag reflex going, your probably straight!
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I would say if you have feelings for members of the same sex and you want to act on them, or you do act on them then you might be gay. And if you're not at all interested in being with someone of the opposite sex, but only someone of your same sex. It's also possible you could just be confused.
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What you are - you are you - a unique individual - with feelings different from anyone else and experiences only you have had. \nYou need to do some thinking/soulsearching - You don't need to have sex with a guy to work out if you are bi/lesbian! Do 'straight' people have gay affairs to realise they are straight? No! \nFirstly - Are you attracted to men? Have you thought, imagined longed to be held by a man, for him to make love to you? How do feel about penises? Testicles, firm muscles and chest hair? Think about these and note your reactions inside, what you truly feel. \nRepulsed, intriguged, wanting etc. You say you have a girlfriend -  but don't rush to label yourself - I've seen people announce they are lesbians then later regret it a few years/months down the line because they are attracted to both sexes. \nI'm a lesbian I've never slept with a guy because a)it repulsed me the whole penis thing and b) I've never, ever been attracted to a man. I always preferred womens company, friendship and I was attracted to women before I knew what lesbian or gay even meant.\nIs it your friends that have more issues with this? I know we are in the 21st century but sadly some friends can never accept slight degrees of difference, you need to be one thing or the other - you don't - you have to be what you want to be. \nI advise doing an internet search on the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard finding the one local to you (they are everywhere Brighton, Lancaster, Birmingham, London, Isle of Mann etc) - emailing or telephoning them - perhaps getting some support from qualified staff and support group information. You stay strong and don't rush into anything - the most important question - What do you want? Who do you want to be?