i'm in love with my es g/f  what should i do?
402013
why u emailed her....i think it was better if u call her or met her and tell her what in ur heart is...but if she doesnt wanna see u or she doesnt like to hear ur voice then its better to keep it as a story of ur life and forget her
85207
Sit quietly for a while.  Think about her.  Feel how it is to be with her.  Imagine her standing directly behind you.\nTell her what is in your heart.\nThen quickly write done what you said.  You might forget in the excitement.
366542
The question is does she love you back?  How long were you dating before you broke up?  Me?  I had a relationship for 7 years and I still love him but we grew apart.  I realize now that I love the idea of being with the person I once knew.  If you have not spoken to her in 2 years, she is probably not the person you fell in love with anymore.  I would err on the side of moving on!  Nothing will ever be the same as the relationship that you had with this person.  I guarantee it.  But don't let that close your heart to new and better relationships.  Use what you had with her as a learning experience.  Don't compare her to the other women you date.  That is a fatal mistake.  I know its hard ,but you have to move on with your life in your mind, your spirit and your body.  Please don't hold your relationship with her on a pedestal.  Clear your heart and keep moving!\n*Muah*
285607
Sorry to say but you are shallow and might be incapable of true love, at least not at this time and certainly not with this girl.  If you truly loved her, she would be the most beautiful woman in the world to you.  So you obviously do not. Don't marry her as you would be taking away her chance at true happiness with someone who will treat her like the goddess that she is.  You give us real men a bad name!
254444
hi there. \nfirst you treat to her like friends and always thinking in your mine she is best\nsecond try to know what she want?, and what is her problem?. help her when her need, listenning what her say...\nand then. when you feel she be in love with you, you should say I LOVE YOU
1001964
Move on. \nYou may love her but she doesn't reciprocate your feelings. No matter what you do or say, she is the only one responsible for her feelings. So you cannot change them. You are the one who will end up getting hurt in the end.\nThere is someone out there for each of us. So, instead of getting caught up in the time-wasting efforts of trying to convince her that she can't live without you (when quite obviously she can), let her go. Mourn the loss of your relationship and live your life.\nLove will find you. Whether she comes back and turns out to be the true love of your life or whether it's someone you haven't even met yet. Love has an annoying way of showing up when you least expect it.  \nYou'll be fine. Just let go.
228565
first of all, you both sound too young to "know" this is the love of your life. but if that's how it feels right now, then you have a responsibility to yourself to fight for it.\nhere's my advice. sit down with her and have a heart to heart. tell her, you love her and want to marry her. tell her you understand she has issues with physical contact, and with her own body, as well as presumably she might with yours, and you will try very hard to not push her beyond her limits. and then ask her if she is willing to meet you half way. this is the critical point.\nbe gentle and make sure she enjoys her walks on the wild side, when she feel bold enough to take them, but be patient when she isn't up to it. you can get over reluctance, and work to resolve issues if she works with you - maybe even professional therapy might help. if she is not willing to try for you, then if you marry her, you will be sorry. that's the one thing you don't want to do to yourself or to her. stick around if you feel you must and maybe she will change her mind. but don't marry her unless she's willing to work with you to solve her issues.
881900
Take it easy.  It seems you have been struck by the lightning of love  and struck bad.  But Ricochet is right, true love should be accompanied by trust.  Without trust, love won't proceed further.  You have also to have faith in Someone up there, the Supreme Being up there, whatever you call Him, that HE knows what is best for you  and that HE will be watching over you.   Pray that, this girl would be the real one for you.  If she is meant for you, no matter what you do, she will be there.   So go to sleep soundly,  with that thought. Give her some space and trust her.  Because if you don't it will destroy the relationship.  If she loves you enough , (which I am sure, she does),  she herself, will see to it that she stays faithful.  Good luck.
1047214
Be honest with her. If you ever truely loved her she deserves honesty and respect.\n\nPainful, but fair.
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
244535
Be your self you should solve it your self you can send E-mail or sms but don't but any one in between she is your girl go man talk to her SAY  I LOVE SO MUCH it's so nice do it.
856153
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
756371
If you really love her, respect her opinion and let her go. Surely love will come your way one day don't lose sleep.
611324
Enjoy what you have together and respect her feelings. If its meant to be it will be in all due time. You heard Diana Ross's song haven't you? " You can't hurry love you  just have to wait." etc etc,
821438
Maybe she believes in you and that one day you'll make her happy, you only ever find one true love, they do say that you don't know what you have lost till it's gone and this is very true, by letting her down time and time again you'll lose her forever.  Be honest with yourself and her, there are two questions you should ask yourself.  Are you IN-Love with her??? and Do you want to be with her??? If you have let her down countless times maybe it's time to stop before it's too late and you lose her forever, sort yourself out once and for all before it's too late.  Good luck in doing so, I wish you well.
1142191
I think you should be "logistically" close.  Then take it from there.  She may still love you.  Maybe she got lonely and needed companionship, but still loves you too.  If you communicated that well, once you are with her face to face, it should come easily and soon you will know how she feels and where you stand.  Get your butt to Tuscan  and see her.  Love like that doesn't come along every day.  It would be awful to let it slip through your fingers without a second chance.
397606
You mean you want to kill your feelings for her, correct? If you truly do love her then you have to decide what is best for her. And that, unfortunately might not be what is best for you. But that is ultimately what love is about...what we sacrifice for our loved ones. Do the right thing. I'm sad to tell you that you probably won't stop loving her but at least you know you have done the most LOVING thing you could for her.  Good luck