Does it ever work out when you want to date is your best friend's brother and he's two years older than you?
397083
YES IT DOES WORK!  In highschool my best friends brother kept asking me out over and over and over.  I kept telling him NO NO NO NO!  I mean its taboo to date your best friends brother right?  Finally he wanted to know why so the only thing I could think of was " I cant date someone who has hair longer than mine!"  He had long hair.  The next day he came to school with a short military hair cut!  THEN I felt like I HAD to go out with him!  So i did and do u know what?  We r married now and have been together 22 years!  We have a 15 year old son and our love only grows deeper and stronger with each passing day.  He is not only my husband, but my best friend as well.  When it comes to love ALWAYS TAKE THE CHANCE!  Otherwise you will always wonder what might have been!  I say GO FOR IT!  I did and Im the happiest and luckiest woman alive!!!!!  Let me know how it turns out!  Good luck to u!
154504
depends, age is a big factor....whats the difference between you?\neither way you should talk with your brother about it if you think that something might progress from this
581814
Yes, as long no physical attraction develops.  Once the girl or the guy wants to date the other person, it becomes difficult to maintain the friendship.  The person knows he/she has feelings for him/her, so it may become uncomfortable.
897448
NO - do not date him.  You want to be with someone who likes you for the unique person you are - both inside and out.  Don't waste your time with someone who just wants a female carbon-copy of your brother.  You deserve to be with a man who can see you as different and special, and more than so-and-so's-twin-sister.
109273
Just brake up with him because your friend probably said she didn't care if you to dated in the first place but she really did. Trust me my EX best friend dated my brother and now we now longer talk at all because she began choosing him over me and everybody else and remember bf come and go and true friends are forever. Do yourself and your friend a faver and stop it now before it ends up like we did and stopped being friends all together.
105949
Ask your friend if she would mind if you dated him.  If she says it's okay with her, then you're in the clear.\n\nI had the same thing happen when I was in high school.  My best friend liked a boy.  Then I went away for the summer.  When I came back, she didn't like him, but I did.  She was TOTALLY cool with me dating him.  \n\nIf she didn't want me to date him, I wouldn't have.  She is more important to me than any guy could be.\n\nThat was so long ago!  That boy and I dated for a long time, but eventually broke up.  She and I are still best friends and we're now 30!!!
195619
Dating brothers was a big mistake.  I'm not real sure you can fix this.  Your best bet is if the two brothers talk and can be ok with it.  If they can be ok then eventually everyone else will follow suit.
558767
Talk with your best friend. Perhaps, neither of you should date him. Never let a guy come between your friendship. Maybe one will give way, perhaps you both give him first dates and let him choose, but make sure the other one of you won't be jealous.
670349
I'm kind of in the same situation...only I am in love with my best friend so that could be the cause, huh?  Anyway, if your love for him is only as a friend, you're probably thinking of him as a brother, and close siblings are generally protective of each other.  It's okay to be protective, just don't let it get in the way of your friendship.
821434
My best friend since high school (25 years) is a man and I wouldn't have it any other way.  We share everything, when we were dating (other people not each other) it was always nice to have someone of the opposite sex to ask all those why and what if questions to.  \n\nMany people thought we should date but we didn't want to change anything about our relationship it wasn't worth the unknown.  We have been through each others marriages, boyfriends and girlfriends that are now over but the two of us are still together as GREAT friends.\n\nStick to your guns and don't let anyone tell you who to date, sometimes dinner with a friend is way better then with a date (you can pick off a friends plate - haha)
651336
no not at all that is totally fine i am friends with my best friends boy friend but i sit by him in math and language arts so that kind of helps but it is totaly fine as long as it is fine with your best friend
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
440096
You have to remember that you and your brother are most likely very alike (in personality). Since he's in love with you, you can understand why he could become such good friends with your brother. But if it's still bugging you, try to talk to him. Tell him that you like that they get a long so well but you also want him to spend time with him as well.
114374
i dated one of my really good friends and it only lasted for a couple months and we realized we were much better friends than a couple. we then just became just friends again and we got the questions about dating out of the way. if you are good enough friends its worth a try because something great could come out of it. if it doesnt work out, you need to try and stay friends afterwards which isnt too hard if you are really bestfriends. just respect each others opinios during and possibly after the relationship.
255700
You didn't word the question in correct English, but I think I got the idea. Yes, you should date your best friend! That is the most ideal mate any girl could ever ask for.
860796
I'm not sure what to tell you really.  I'm 15 so I know what you mean.  I find it easier to like you're best friend cuz you can get him to open up about himself.  I asked one of my friends out last year...it didn't go anywhere, but we're still friends.  So go for it, it won't hurt anything to ask.  Imagine what could bloom!  \n\nAnd ignore those old people who tell you that you're too young to love!  Young love is a beautiful thing!  And teens have feelings to.
144365
no one can stop you from this but i dont think its love thats a little dramatic... more like liking him. i mean im shure he would enjoy dating someone older than him for social reasons but how would your best friend feel? what if she/he went out with one of YOUR younger siblings? you would be p!ssed and u would think how gross it is. so imagine wat your friends would say and remember there are plenty of other fishes in the sea.Think about the people around you not just you