should your loved one's parents be the one to agree if u are allowed to love there son?
401674
no they shouldn't amd if you love each other then love
390194
no matter what your mom thinks follow your heart. my man left me last yr. i moved me and my daughter into my parents house a month later my man came back. my parents were supportive even tho they didnt think it was a good idea. now everyone is happy with each other. follow your heart! good luck!!
911626
Yeah they are right..... You should really talk to your parents first or if you feel uncomfortable talk to your siblings and friends at least you would be considering their feelings....... But do you really love your boyfriend that much? Are you really sure that you two are going to live happily ever after like in the fairy tales? DO NOT ruin your life... Guys come and go but families are forever.
270348
No, as long as the people involved love one another and are willing to accept the responsibilities.
602959
Hi, what you feel now is understandable, especially at this age,well-known as crisis of teenager period. But please trust me, if your parents separated it is not because of you and you should not be selfish,they have a right to live their own lives,if they do not want to be together. Would you prefer them to pretend and play happy family when they may not be happy together. Believe me, if they are apart it does not mean they love you less - both love and cherish you and your task now to help them by being understandable. You will understand them when you will start dating and get married. Put yourself in their position: will you live with a person you are not in love anymore. I mean they still love each other but it different love, not passionate. Please be understandable you are mature enough,be brave.
231424
I think that if you really care for the girl and she really cares for you, and she is not the type to let people influence her judgement, then I think it doesn't matter. As long as you two are happy then you shouldn't let anyone stand in your way of happiness. I mean you are dating her, not her parents. I would just give it time and eventually the parents will warm up. I mean this is their daughter, and they will always look out for her no matter what. That is what parents do.
882039
NOOOO, don`t ever make him decide. If he chooses than it needs to be without YOUR help!\nI think his mother was way out of line with that comment. Try not to worry too much about it, it sounds like you have a great boyfriend there! If you want you can have a talk with her and tell her that you didn`t mean to "step on her toes", you are simply in love with her son and wanted to be with him on this important day.
94821
No, you don't love both of them.  You may like both of them but you don't truely love both of them.  The fact that he is your sons father shouldn't play a role in this decision because your not currently together.  So do what is really in your heart and what is best for your life.
719512
It depends,I dont really care if they do or not, because as long as he makes you happy and your family does'nt like him then it should be up to you,its what you want,you want to be happy with him and your family should'nt get in the way of that happiness.
852981
Sure.\n\nIf it's ok between them, then it should be ok with you.\n\nIf he loves her, then you have a duty to treat her as family in your home.
490000
It seems reasonable to conclude you believe they wouldn't approve of this relationship.  You should at least respect them enough to be honest with them, if you don't respect them enough to honor their wishes.
1023716
If you love each other, then marry each other, of course if you are old enough.  \n\nIf have found in my own life that any man I brought home, my parents found something wrong.  They simply want the best for their children.  Go with your heart.
1185996
screw them. hah. it's about your fiance, not their parents especially if they're not even worth it. and i say be bold, just say thanks for having a great son. done!
207671
nobody knows whether he/she is the right person. it's your love to one another that makes it right.
689577
Just because you get married does not necessarily mean you love your parents less.  The way you love your husband is obviously different from the way you love your parents.  You should love them equally.  Different, but equal.
278510
i think love is better for marriage,no one can tell you to love someone in an arranged marriage,you are put with who your parents think best,but you need to really love the person to make it work,not just tolerate or stay for money. this is my opinion,i am from USA robin
21398
yes why not. dont u think we love our parents, grand parents. and they are quite old in age. so love necessary does not have motive of getting physical, it is in ur heart. that can be with anyone.