i like this girl, she likes me, but she never told me(her friend did).how can i get  her to tell me?
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Actually as an expert on women let me say this. U dont want to work hard  getting her to actually say it. Atleast not yet. U need to realise that she probably told her friend to tell u or she knew that her friend knows she likes u and would do her a favour by telling u. I am sure u've done something like tis with one of ur friends before. ANYWAY, she's a girl so she was born with the natural gift of knowing when a man wants her. So to be honest its understood right now. YES...She has already told u face to face that she likes u and wants u and u told her the first time u saw her. So all she is doing is replying to ur question and curiosity. But dont be a dork and try to get her to say it yet. Just do something casual with her first and just work ur way in day by day. Women like that stuff just the way they like their sex. ok playboy? ;-)
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hi, to let her that you like her iswait she by herself or if her friends is always around pull her to the said say something like this call her over to you don't look nerves or anything laugh and say somethinng that just happen to get the conversation started then say her name first \n example: ashley you a real good friend to your friends a sweet person and that's what i like about you that what got my attention about you.i been noticing you for a while and wonder if you want to give me a chance for you to get to know me better outside of school. you don't have to answer now take your but please really think about it u won't be disappointed.\n  now that should win her over if it doesn't dont worry about her because that mean she don't want a gentlemen shae want loser someone that's gonna take advantage of her. Please no notes that's so juvenile
134418
Hey boy...\nwhat up? Now, look...if this gurl really likes u and u have no feelings toward her the best thing to do is be honest. Gurls like honest guys and she will understand. It will hurt, but it is better than leading her on without saying anything. One more thing, let her down easy!!! Be like I like you only as a friend, or I am not looking for a girlfriend right now...but dont yell or make a scene. Remeber, how would u feel if you liked someone and they didnt like u....put yourself in her shoes! Good luck!
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listen , you can always confess in a good friend and especially when you know she likes you too.you can tell her that since she is so close to you she has the right to know about such matters , plus, she is the one you think has the right to know before anybody else.you can tell her that you are just revealing your feelings as the first and foremost pillar of friendship is trust and honesty and that after revealing yourself she is free to treat you as she wants and that nobody would ever take her place , may it be friendship or love.you can tell her that you dont see her as a 'girlfriend' but as a girl who means more than a friend in every possible way. \n\nhope i helped. you know its always better to tell the truth than to keep it bottled up inside.the worst that can happen is that she wont agree.atleast you would find comfort in the fact that you told her what you felt and didnt hide anything.you can make her realise it too.
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Her feelings can be changed. I think she likes you. just give her a little more time, and try to stay as a friends for a while, then tell her again! Because she might be confused right now that if she likes you or not. So even if you think she likes you, don't be impatient. Give her a little more time. In my opinion, I think she likes you. Oh wait, but I just realized that she might feel uncomfortable around you, cuz you told her that you liked her, but to her you are just a friend right? so after you told her how you feel, she said she wants to stay as a friends, but sometimes it'll get uncomfortable knowing your feeling. I dont' know, you can take it both ways. Its up to you.
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well you decide what you want to do. yur friends shouldnt pressure you into something you dont feel like yur ready. my suggestion is that you tell her that you like her because it's alwayz better to tell someone you like rather than hiding it inside, but on the other hand you can do that if you want to. dont regret it.
1044106
you want to tell what???? that you are beautiful, intelligent, etc etc..???? listen boy... she already knows it.... tell her something whihc you think no one has told her... you will get attention......
77556
have you ever told her that you liked her?than yeah i think that you should. start by asking her if she does.if so,then ask if she would be comfortable to go out with you some time.if she doesnt like you as more than a friend than say''lets hang out together,just you and me as friends if you are not to busy.''
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What you can do, is to go to their friends and ask them who she likes. A direct confrontation is not the best answer. She'll feel challenged and will be offended. First, you start with subtle things. Does she come to talk to you often? Look at you often? But these clues could be misleading as well. Use your judgement. Ask her friends.
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Sometimes you will never be able to tell, girls are very temperament complex creatures and we sometimes give off like we are diggy you but were not. Your best bet is to be straight forward. If you like her ask does she like you. And if she don't keep moving on. Because you don't have time to wait and see or try to figures us out, because that will never happen.
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Be honest with her and explain to her what happened.  And if your friend is such a great friend, maybe he wouldn't mind doing most of the explaining for you.  If you really like this girl then try your best and hopefully she can see the truth and not what seemed to be...
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hun she wont tell you in person cuz that is how girls are they would get embarrassed she probably really does like you but is to embarrassed to get rejected. plz tell me what happens.:)
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that's tough to say, if u didn't tell ur friend that u liked this girl and then asked her out, then how do you think ur friend will react? u may lose ur freindship over this girl so ask yourself...is she worth it? if yes then by all means ask her out\nlet me say though there are a lot of girls out there and she won't be the only one you'll like but your friend is unlike any other and he may stick around for a long
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the only thing i can say is give her sign letting her know you like her or tell her hey you will never know she might like you to. Just do it don't never be afaird.
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Well she might be into you or she might not really get how much you like her, you should just swallow the embarrassment and one day just start flirting with her over lunch or when your out together alone or with some friends not a big group, then if she resists flirt with her til she either flirts back and somethin happens or until she speaks up about you look at her. If she looks at u and says somethin about u lookin at her than tell her about how much u wanna take ur friendship to a new level nd try dating and than ask her if she would consider goin out wit u if she says yea or hesitates than pik a place and when u'll b over to get her than take it form there good luck hope this helps i did this once with the same type of situation and i dated the girl for over 2 years, we still talk NOTE: Just remember friends and dating are totally different so if it goes somewhere keep that in mind dont change but dont treat her like shes just a friend if ur serious about dating her than act like it she'll respect that if u do wut u say nd mean. Actions always speak louder than words no matter wut it is.
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If you really like her and want to be with her then tell her and maybe she feels the same... some girls keep boyfriends no matter if they like other guys because they fear ending up alone and being rejected from the new guy... so, maybe she's waiting for you to make a move... i think you should definitely go for it and if she doesn't feel the same, then break off every contact with her and try to forget about her... if she'll say yes, then great... but if she'll say no, it'll be easier for you to forget about her... because she rejected you, so now instead of liking her you might start hating her... it's better to go for it, so you won't wonder about it later of what could've happened if you went for it... so, i encourage you to tell her what's up... either way you have nothing to lose, but to gain possibly... good luck...
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i think you sould tell her that you like her first, sometimes when you ask them to be your girlfriend there is more silence, tell her how you feel and if she feels the same way there souldnt be a problem in you asking her to be you girlfriend \ngoodluck buddy hope you get the girl