guy troubles, anyone wanna help?
411649
well first of all, just the fact that he has a girlfriend doesn't help the situation... because let's say you go and talk to him and you two end up talking about what you may or may not feel for each other, that can cause a problem between his girlfriend and him and I'm sure you wouldn't want to be the cause of a broken relationship... sure you can try and say hi to him and see how he's doing.....  now about the fact of him looking at you, he might not know how to react around you because of what has happened between the two of you. but don't automatically think that he still likes you.... maybe what you are feeling isn't the "liking" him feeling...and maybe the "i feel bad for what I did to him" feeling. so just say hi and have small talk with him and see what happens...\n\ngood luck girl
229640
guy #2 obviously doesnt like you so move on. and keep guy#1 as your friend!! friends are important, maybe more important than a relationship!
294547
Hate to break it to ya, but sometimes two people just aren't gonna feel the same about each other, even if they love each other.  But, just to get them to like you is easy enough...try being yourself.  If you have something in common with the "dude" then you should try having conversations about it...but nothing lame where you agree to everything.  I mean have a deep conversation about it.  Once last thing, treat him as you'd like to be treated, that goes the same for every living being.  That should at least get your foot in the door.
1140183
He is Up 2 No Good!!!!!!!! This is called DANGER!!!!!!!!! No Girl Will Have A Guy That Does That Type Of Flirting, Keep Fishing There is More Out There Besides That Jerk!!!!!!
168886
Take it easy, and see who the guy likes, maybe he likes neither of you. Maybe there is one of you he likes. You both have the right to like the guy, so dont loose your friendship over it. Just play things out, and see what happens in the end...
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
330251
talk to him alot, not enough to annoy him though. let him get to know who you are. just be yourself around him.
653461
Conquer your doubts and fear and ask the guy to hang out.\n\nTalk to him to know about his personality and hobbies.
1130210
Wait are you a guy? Not that it matters but you said "he" and your avatar is a "he" so...nvm.  Tell him you like him! You never know maybe he likes you too and then everything would work out. On the other hand if he doesn't...it would make him feel awkward around you so...cut that plan. Talk to him. Ask him if he'd like to mabe go out sometime and hang out, or drop hints. Always works for me! If this person will disrespect you from this, orcheat or be rude about your feelings you need to forget them. Tey obviously aren't worth the drama!
630974
i just did and it wasnt that bad, so go to your guy look him striaght in the eye and say ... whatever works for you when it comes to explaining yourself. Thats what i did and this was my first time so i think you should go for it!Oh dont you dare get a friend to do it for you thats a very messy matter. He'll admire you more if you go directly to him.
786051
ask him, but don't worry too much, guys are like that
848722
well, you do not need an advice on the guy my dear you need to make your mind what you really want but on the other hand If you really like him and feel that there just might be something just go for it but remember be honest people do not like being messed about, there are some really nusty people around. good luck. x
145581
just start a normal conversation like your talking to one of your guy friends. at first do worry about the fact that you like them or if they like you or whatever your nervous about. Just be yourself and remember its just another conversation.
597945
Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
86217
I can guarantee he doesn't get it.  Subtle hints do not work with guys.  Just tell him (is that so hard?)
417599
comment some guy when ur with him.\ntrust me, ull know
90103
OMG!!! this is a common problem, just do it and get it over with before you make yourself look stupid, trust me\nhere i copy and pasted a response to someone else its the same thing\n\nahh a very common problem...... don't worry about it, find an excuse to talk to him, tell him he has cool shoes, hair, or you like his shirt or something like that. It will always work. Then ask him where he got it and he will say something. Then you have the opportunity to talk about where he got it from and eventually conversation will become natural. See its just so easy. You also seem to have approaching problems. If you want to approach him you could try to take a friend along but no more than one. Also you could try hanging out near him, but not too close, and look at him and look away... look at him again and look away again... every now and then and see if he looks at you. If he does he is interested in you. If he still ignores you, you could try accidently bumping into him or something. Find excuses they make it alot easier. If you can build up enough confidence walk up to him and just start talking about watever.