when you are down on a guy and he tells you hes going to finish, what are you supposed to do??? do you stop?
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I think that it is up to you, if he is about finish. You will never be in more control than at this point, I say, Have a little fun!!! Don't quit altogether, that would be a little mean, but tease, flick, lick, squeeze, etc...\n\nThe longer you play, the more intense it will be for the guy, and when you do finally finish him off, he will be screaming in pleasure, and you will burn an image of yourself as a sex goddess in his mind for the rest of his life!!!!
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Relax and enjoy it, it's healthy and good for him.  Unless he can't stop or is doing it until he is raw and sore, otherwise, have fun!!
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it hurts some girls, and sometimes it doesn't.  Just depends on you and the guy.  It didn't hurt me at all, but the guy I gave it to was gentale, and took things slow.  I was well excited, and we agreed that if I said stop, or slower, he would...\n\nYou know the time is right, when it feels right for both of you.  it is fun and exciteing, but don't rush it, it is so much better, when you are both ready.
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♥smile and wait until they finish, applaud them and then walk off. it's sort of amusing♥
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A guy wants it straight forward if you don't tell him you will be sorry. Just go up to him and tell him while no one is around. Trust me i gave this advice to many girls before. Don't wait until the last minute when it's too late.
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If you say you've move on move on, and stop moving back.  Don't let this guy reck a good thing for you.  Unless you are glutton for punishment.
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Are you CRAZY???? This guy just said all the right things, just what you wanted to hear. You Made out with him so quick don't you think he is working you so he can go further? If you don't listen to me I guaranty that when he gets what he wants he is soooo out of there and you well be left alone...
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Well I would just continue to wait for the right person to do it with. The longer you wait trust me you will forget about it. On the other hand you could go and have a one nighter but make sure you wrap it up.
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Sometime in the next day or 2 when you think you can devote enough time to this, just walk up to him and start kissing him all over while stripping down and pretty much jump his bones. If he feels like it's going too fast, he should tell you. If he goes along with it, your problem, is solved. If he does tell you that it is too fast, you may need to consider whether this guy is the right guy for you.
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no,it's not ok.Although there is nothing wrong with it it will only lead you on and have you still wanting more while he will only see it as an easy way to get laid.The only person that will be hurt is you.Once it's over that's it,you're supposed to move forward,not take steps backwards
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A guy thinks..."SCORE!!!".  The fact that he called you back and is still dating you doesn't really mean that much.  You could just be easy for him to hit.  Test it.  Tell him how you feel about the situation and tell him you want to take a break from sex for a while (a couple of months at least), and restart your relationship on a non-physical basis.  If he really likes you for who you are there will be no problem and he will respect your need.  If not he'll hit the bricks and you'll be better off and you will have learned a lesson for next time.
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he is afarid he will finish too soon.  you can try telling you want to do this and if her finishes the you will make him hard again.\n\nif you think it is because he wants to be in charge let him stand and you kneel in front of him,  maybe tie your hands behind your back..
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This is what I do, and it works.\nI think about the girl. I focus on her needs. Delay cumming is a mind game. If he takes his mind off of cumming, he probably won't. He can think about fishing or homework. If he is thinking about a hot super model or you for example, he might cum right away. Usually, what feels good for her (like the position) doesn't get me going like it would for her. Try positions that stimulate you more and him less. Although, putting you mind on a different subject can prolong the orgasm. My record is two hours.
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We all know that breaking it off with someone is never easy. It sucks, to be more precise, and even less fun than getting rejected is actually having to do the rejecting. Okay, maybe doing the rejecting is a little better. Anyway, if you're thinking about blowing a guy off, here are some ideas on how to give him the brush off that won't break his heart too badly -- or destroy his ego.\n\nYou're not interested. He calls and leaves a message. What should you do? Do not return that call. \n\nAnd what if you picked up the phone? What then?  Then, lie. Please lie. Tell him that you just got back together with your friends. This is our very first choice for rejection. Second best is you realized that you are going through a period where you do not want to date at all and just want to focus on yourself. Sure, these excuses might be transparent -- but men feel better to live a lie than face the truth of rejection.\n\nAnother possibility, though not quite as good due to possible ambiguity is the good ol' distancing technique. You tell him you are really busy for the next couple of weeks and will call him when things get less crazy -- a bit confusing for most men, but definitely effective and not too painful.\n\nYou really gave it a chance, but it's not happening. What should you do?   Again, lie. Your friends are still your best bet. Do not tell him you met someone else recently. That smarts. Choosing someone you just met tells him he lost a contest. No one likes to lose. \n\nAnother option: Honesty, within reason. If it's simply a matter of chemistry - or lack thereof - tell him. Most guys can survive that after just a few dates.\n\nAs much as it's going to hurt, tell him the truth. At this point, honest communication is the right thing to do. Don't be too specific if it's for reasons no human should ever hear: you smell, you are not good-looking enough, you are boring, you're an idiot -- please refrain from using these. Be gentle, but do not be too vague. Just give it to him straight and say that you're really sorry. And do not try to be friends right away. \n\nIt is really tough to swallow "can we just be friends?" If you two are suitable as friends then let that relationship take it's proper course, and do not initiate it while you're dumping him as a boyfriend.\n\nObviously, this all can vary depending on your circumstances. \n\nJust remember: Be gentle, lying can be good, and specificity, well, it can sometimes be too specific. And did I mention lying? \nGood Luck>r
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He needs to concentrate more on you.  It's not all about him finishing it's more about the intimacy between the two of you.  Be sure your needs are met before it's his turn.  Concentration is the key...
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Hold him off and caress him, talk to him and tell him about your concern. Dont just lie there when he enjoys himself and you dont.
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Tell the dude how you want it. And tell him to look straight in your eyes, and I mean real close, during the lovemaking. I think that could spark a romance if he does that because he'll be focusing on you rather than just doing it rough.