i saw a girl recently and i am not able to forget her , its been 1 month . what to do i cannot get her now?
413324
That depends on why you cannot get her.  Do you not know how to find her or is she taken by someone else?  If you know her name, and any other piece of distinguishing information, you could try looking her up online.  If you already know how to find her (but cannot get her due to circumstance) you could always just tell her how you feel (like: "Girl, your boyfriend sure is lucky; I should have spoken up when I had the chance") and maybe start a friendship, because new relationships do sometimes end and you could still have a shot if you're around.  If you still can't get her after all that though, maybe you should just hit a club and find a new girl to crush on; that'll usually help you forget the one you're already crushing on.
111410
It's kinda hard to forget some one you loved but if you still care about her in to some extent then don't try to forget about her keep talking to her (as just a friend) and remember the good times but keep an open mind and start dating new people. If you just completly hate her all of a sudden and want to forget about her for good the best thing to do is not think about how much you dislike her and just don't think about any memories of her. Continue on with your own life. Date new people, go out for a few drinks with your buddies, just have a good time.
140648
If you have not even attempted to try and contact this person in a month why is it so important now?  I believe,if you haven't needed her in your life for the past month you don't need her at all. I would just leave it alone. It not nice to use people, if this person was really someone that you cared about you would never have asked ur question!
502370
Let time take its course. There is no real way to forget someone you care about. As stupid as it sounds, time will heal all wounds. Try to get on with your life as best you can. Surround yourself with positive people and give yourself time to heal. Best of luck to you.
190745
dont waste your time on this girl and move on with your life. there is someone out there for you, you just havnt met her yet. think positively and gain some self confidence an eventually you will find her.
871691
u can't get her back enless u'v been away from her 4 only a couple days. if not, ow you in trouble. if u really want advice than ask her not people online. tell her u need her not us. if she understands u 2 where meant 4 each other . good luck. e-mail me and tell me how it works out at kayseasbq_10
657321
I think you should start by saying, "Hi, how are you? My name is ______ and I've seen you here many times." Then just try talking to her from there. Try to ask her out to a movie or something about a week or two into it. DO NOT TELL HER about the marriage thing because that's just freaky.\n\nIf she doesn't come around anymore then forget her, you'll find someone else.
567150
Don't break you heart over this girl you are trying to find out if you have face to face chemistry with, you are TOTALLY within reason. If she dosen't want to meet you in a public place that is safe to her, then there is a good possibility she is hidng something bigtime! She may be married, have a boyfriend or committment with someone. She may be a player who is having fun online that never has ANY intensions on meeting with you ever. If it is your goal to meet someone, tell this gal to take a hike, you sound like you are alot nicer then her, and she will be alot of "excuses" for you. There are alot of great girls out there. Good luck! Two months is a long time, I agree!
349648
Just be cool about it don't keep trying to contact, if you happen to run into her again and she is welcoming then talk. Also just take your time I personally don't think you did anything wrong. But one of the most important thing is you take things more slowly collect all the facts with her. Especially before you invest too much time and emotion. Good Luck, laters
974040
Keep yourself as busy as possible.  Try to go out with friends.  Dont go places or do things that will remind you of her until you are ready to deal with it.  Another thing you could try is planning a trip or an event that will keep your mind occupied and you will have something to look forward to.  I also believe that there is nothing wrong with "rebound dates" just as long as you dont hurt anyone emotionally.  Good luck you you.
569477
Ask her why she will not go out with you.  Tell her you may be there for only for months but you could still have a relationship and write to eachother or call eachother.  You don't have to do any thing if she does not like you then I feel bad for you.  Just tell her that you really do like her and would like to go on a date with her.  If that does not work then I am sorry.  GOOD LUCK.
1173082
I don't understand why do you want to forget someone.. coz you are not with each other,, well just change your outlook... remember the good things that you had with him or her and not curse the bad stuff \n\nits the way you look at it \n\nlet me know what u wanna in ur life \n\neverything you do is your choice
831531
its not that easy to forget the ex from our life,give it some time.u have to concentrate on ur new lady now cause she ur present now,what was in ur past leave it that way,if u wanna have a beautiful relationship
1035402
Sorry to hear that, just forget about her, she seems too complicated and insecure, I bet you find someone else very soon.
1089813
Simply tell her that you are do not want to continue an online friendship. If you have actually met this girl in person, you have to be a little more creative with your reason to stop seeing her. Tell her that you just don't have any feelings for her and you don't want to take it any further. It had only been two months, and you don't want to continue something that isn't going to go anywhere in the future.\nGood luck!
544790
You ceratinly are a loving guy and if she is ignoring you now,yet you see her "looking", she may be afraid of falling in love.  Her defense is to ignore you, but inside she may want you.  For now, just be her friend.  Say "hello" when you see her.  Don't make any advances, don't buy her things anymore, it could lead to her using you.  but I doubt it.  I think she really loves you.  Now it's her turn to make the next move.  Don't give up.  If it's meant to be, she will come around.  be patient.  Good luck!
777597
It's really hard to forget someone that you love. But you've got to move on. Try to make yourself busy. Hanging out with your friends, doing exercises, and meeting new people. Remember do not stay alone! It'll make you feel upset and think about her again!!!!!!! Good Luck!