are one night stands justified or  are they just a unnecessary emotional baggage?
413635
IT DEPENDS IF THE ONE NIGHT STAND IS ACKNOWLEDGED BY BOTH PARTIES (IN WICH I BELIEVE IF YOUR HAVING SEXUAL CONTACT WITH SOME YOUR NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH,AND OR HARDLY KNOW IT SHOULD ALWAYS BE CLEAR IN YOUR MIND IT MAY ONLY BE FOR THAT ONE TIME ) AND IF YOUR OKAY WITH THAT THEN ALRIGHT IT COULD BE JUST A MEMORY OF A GOOD TIME & SHOULDN'T HAVE ANY EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE OF ANY KIND\n\nAND IF ITS A ONE NIGHT STAND WHERE YOU THINK HE/SHE REALLY WAS MORE INTRESTED IN YOU THEN THEY PROVED THERE SELFS TO AFTER THE FACT OR YOU WHERE HOPING/LOOKING FOR MORE THEN YEAH IT WOULD DEFFINITLY BE UNNECESSARY BAGGAGE
991787
One night won't hurt, as long as you're not drinking yourself into oblivion. That is never good.
146036
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
516253
Of course it's ok!\nas long as you are comfortable with it and take protection.\nIf you both are consenting adults, why not?\n\nBe careful though... sometimes those one night stands can develop feelings for one of the participants.  \nThat can make things ackward.
85403
A number of inputs are available to choose from, in fact much has been said so far.\n\nI would like to add that encounters like this entail a very high emotional baggage and usually get twisted in attachments that none of the parties foresee. The point here is whether you or the incumbant will be able to live with the additional baggage or you foresee a possibility of a problem developing. In either cases it will leave an indelible impact on the lives of all involved.\n\nOther than that, what the hell go for it, at least if you do not end up liking the arrangement you could move on and there will be no holds barred for you to commit later.
848778
In this era of fast food, one night stands and relationships sans commitments; the boys who could lie, deceive and act like hell are going to have more girlfriends. \n\nIt is all about the ethics, morals and values. And you know like begets like. So, the kind of guys would always get unfaithful gals.\n\nIf you are really for the quality of the relationships; please do not try to add numbers.\n\nAnd always remember that the guys having more than one girl friend are not LUCKY.
697971
As long as any girl takes the extra time and doesn't make anyone wait on them, I see nothing wrong with doing all the above. Some of us don't have to get drunk to have a good time. Some of us can come home with the same glow that we left home with. I find that to be very sensual for the guy.
502571
Where have you been? It's done all the time. Evidently you're on that bandwagon. You love 1 ( ONE) only. It's not a toy to take out & play with when you feel like it. It's to be appreciated & cherished an reciprocated as well.
302810
I promise, you'll feel better after a few pity parties with Ben & Jerry.  And you WILL find someone who really loves you... just be sure to use protection.  DON'T have a one-night stand... you'll only feel dirty for giving the gift that keeps on giving to someone else.  Just remember, you are a wonderful person and she was not worthy of you, and by being responsible you are proving how much more you are worth to the world than she is.  Good luck and best wishes!
274675
yes but definitely nor one nighters as it is not respecting yourself or partner
395483
well i say if you both want to then go for it.\ni had a one night stand and we are still together 4 years later so it worked for me.
558442
If it's a one night thing then most likely.  Mostly women want more than just sex.  And plus there is STD out there so you don't want so many multiple partners because you don't know if that person has it (they aren't really going to admit to having something).  But I do know there are some women that go for that one night stand either they were drunk, have low self-esteem, or they think the way you do.  But it's not just women there are also men out there that won't just sleep with any woman.
296583
This idea sounds good, but never actually works out. Unless it's a one night stand with someone you know you're never going to see again. Other than that, there is always going to be some emotion involved. Even if the other person agrees to just being sex buddies, they're probably just doing it to keep you aroung because they'd rather have you that way then no way at all.
949157
The fact of sex doesn't mean a thing one way or the other.  If I enjoyed being with her, and if I think I would enjoy being with her again, I'll call.   But if we were just taking care of a biologicial urge, and there was no real connection between us, I would not want to go out with her again.\n\nIn other words, if we really liked each other and ended up in bed together, then that's just great.  But if we didn't have anything in common except the sex, why bother?\n\nJust one man's opinion. Good luck!!
490597
This builds your relationship on sex and physical pleasure alone.  I don't want that.  I use a first date as a tool to get to know someone and to see if we have any chemistry.  Sex comes way after that.  When I'm ready for an emotional relationship (hey, guys, you give us what we want, we'll give you what you want).  But no, I don't have sex on the first date.  You have to do a lot more to get into my pants.
917078
it is very dishonest, it isnt fair to the one your with to be with somebody when they're not da one u really love. they deserve a chance to be wit someone who is emotionally available to them, to have someone who can really love them for them. so no it's not fair...
503456
not really, one party bound to feel insecure at some point. its very difficult to synchronized a couples emotion.