My friend said he slept with this woman and now he isn't a virgin.?
409455
Ummmmm.....nope. If you're friend's definition of "sleeping" with a woman is actually having sex with her, and you're definition of "sleeping" with a woman is just that, sleeping, no intercourse...then sorry my friend, you're still a virgin.
891707
Some people consider you to not be a virgin if you've had oral sex, or been fingered by somebody. But, as long as her vagina has not been penetrated by a penis, then she is still technically a virgin.
664892
Are you saying she's a virgin? If so, you have to take it slow and easy. There's no way for it not to hurt the first time.
638922
I think you know he's lying, and you are here, hoping for either someone to back you up, or someone to tell you it's ok.\n\nGo with your gut instinct. He is lying and he isn't the person you want to start a family with.\n\nEven if he were telling the truth, and it is for his friend... His friend is married and he would be helping him cheat on his wife. Obviously he doesn't think much of commitment and responsibility.
1114264
Does he think you’re a virgin? I think you should tell he just what you told all of us. If he really loves you this should not be the determining factor to whether or not the two of you’ll get married. He really should be understanding about this small “oversight”.
570718
Your friend may or may not be homosexual/bisexual, he could just be curious. To advance on you in your sleep is a bit odd, I must admit. \n\nIf you were not comfortable with the situation, tell him immediately, even going so far to say you do not want to spend the night with him again. Do not attack him for being gay or curious - he made a mistake.\n\nAnother aspect that probably will not be covered, is that this was a private moment for him and your having this against him makes him very vulnerable. Don't blow the friendship completely out of the water by telling anyone who walks by what happened. Just talk to him about it and move on.\n\n~Miss Cris\nhttp://lendinganear.wordpress.com
1173365
From my experience I can tell you that your girlfriend is still I virgin. Let me tell you why if you girlfriend never had sex with anyone else willing then yea, she is still a virgin in the prospective that she never gave herself up willing, medically she is not cause she have been penetrated so she no longer has her "cherry".  But if she been with anyone else before you and I mean like gave herself up willing then she would not be a virgin anymore, because she gave herself to someone but since she is telling you she wants to lose her virginity to you then I will go on the assume she never been with no one since she got raped and therefore I will come to the conclusion that she is still a virgin mentally, but not physically. Don't worry you two can still have that special moment of together. Think about it this way you are the first guy ever, since she got raped that  she gave herself up to without any pressure or force so you both can still have that special moment of her being with her first cause you will be considered her first from that moment one. And when anyone asks her how many partners she had she can reply and say one cause that will truly be the true.
1071147
He doesn't need help. It is you that clearly needs help. Who HASN'T had sex with waste before?\n(But I think it's a tad bit rude of you to just automatically assume it's a human's waste. You should be accepting of your friend and his taste for perhaps-animal waste.)
921605
Look....you have to decide, were you with her because you thought she was a virgin?  I am pretty positive that there was much more to her than that.  So, her not being a virgin should not make a difference.  Women are funny when it comes to relationships....they almost sort of WIPE THE SLATE CLEAN after each relationship.  Not just with the words they say, but they actually do it mentally.  Men like the notches on their belts to show off and brag about, but women literally like to FORGET it ever happened, especially if it was not a good relationship.  So, maybe in her mind she had a bad experience, and did not want it to count.  That does not make her a bad person, because if you look at it, that could be a plus for you.  At least you know it is her past, it is over, and she does not even want to think of it.  Maybe if after you were together longer, she would have come out and told you, you never gave her that chance, you went snooping in places you should not have been.  Maybe it was just internet talk also, you do not know that she did not say all of that online, and then chicken out when it came down to it.  Talk to her.  You want honesty and trust, then trust her an talk to her, and own up to the fact that you snooped through her private stuff.  You BOTH need to be honest to each other.
878453
Tell him in the kindest way you can if you are a true friend you will stand by him and help him understand she is a cheat why was he baby sitting while she was out partying anyway?He sounds a nice guy don't let him be deceived by her.
682179
Not if the man is a virgin too.
799370
THe fact that he slept with other women AFTER you broke up has no bearing on anything at all . You broke up he had no commitment to save himself for you. SO unlike someone else answering here stated he didn't cheat on you it sounds like you cheated on him. No it isn't wrong that he would want to remain friends with these women. JUst because he had sex with them once doesn't mean it will happen again. ANd furthermore after being with them and having a couple of months to think after you cheated on him He is choosing to come back to you. Life is a crap shoot your just going to have to take a deep breathe and make the choice to trust him or not trust him.
402061
you guys are young!\ni was in a situation very similar to hers. \ni thought i would die if the guy i loved didn't take me in his arms and "consummate" our relationship (as you say) \nand well he caved to my wishes and it hurts now. every so often i regret not being a virgin. and we are in a long distance relationship too. and even though its working its tough.\n\ni would say wait. tell her whats in your heart. and it sounds like you have her feelings in mind in deciding not to have sex with her and if u explain that to her I'm sure she would appreciatte that you considered her emotions.
454795
since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
538239
Does he do it a lot? Is this a one-time thing? Does he have a history of it with other women? Is he sorry? Is he serious about not doing it again? Only you can answer those questions.\n\nIf it's a one-time thing, then I'd give him a second chance. If it's habitual, I'd find a guy with a better sense of loyalty and ethics.
907667
Because you kissed the guy that doesn't mean that you're not a virgin anymore,just decide what you want.İf you love this guy you shouldn't be hanging out with the others.İf you tell him you probably lose him.
1012837
Well, the dictionary version of the word "virgin" is a person who has not had sexual intercourse.  \n\nBut I think in this case, considering that it happened to a child, the child should be reassured that they didn't do anything wrong and that even though someone touched them inappropriately, it doesn't mean that they aren't a virgin anymore. They can decide when they are no longer a virgin (when they get older and are ready to have a meaningful relationship).  Molestation is a VERY difficult situation and should be treated with concern and compassion for the child.  \n\nThere are some good healing websites out there on this subject and I would highly encourage you to seek professional counseling if you have personally experienced this or you are close to someone who has.