i dont know if i regret dating him?
399725
Your first everything is a hard fall! You were in love with  him being your first, not him.
539434
I think I knew by our third date. If you are not sure and you are questioning it then hes not the one. don't do it just because you think he might be make sure he is.
110448
you should go for it. Otherwise you may always regret not doing it. Sure, you may have changed, but if you explain to him it was an impulse that you had to follow or live with that regret, you'd be happy no matter what the outcome, because you had achieved your goal in at least seeing him again.
596445
Well, before you make a move, look back at the main reason why do you broke up at the 1st place.  Is that problem settle? Or did you overcome it?  If your answer is YES.  Then go a head.  Take a shot.  Who knows, like you said he still like and waiting for you.  But better be prepared for the NO answer from him, as you the one who end your relationship last time, right?  Anyway, GOOD LUCK!!!!
443519
Just follow your heart. If you are sure that it was a mistake and will never happen again then go for it. But you have to make sure that you are comfortable enough not to throw it in his face in the future. Good luck!!!
915973
One thing I don't understand is your attachment to your previous relationships (past). You are not that desperate, are you?The relationships did not work, period. Move on. Don't date anybody just to date somebody. Find someone you really like. You will feel it when you see him. Forget about the past.
1081299
Thank goodness you only wasted 5 months with this loser. you've found out that you don't want this one so get ready for your destiny. Get fit and healthy, go the gym, get your hair done, spend time with the girls and have a laugh. you are now free to find someone really great and only your ego got a bit bashed. it's ok you'll get over it. he obviously has so why let him have anymore of your headspace? He was seeing others when he was with you most likely. don't go to bed with someone until after 6 months and it won't happen like this again. if they won't wait you don't date!
299364
Absolutely not! Just tell him you needed some time because it came as a shock and ask yourself if you want to date him ; if not ... try to explain him kindly that you don't really think about him as being your boyfriend and that this wouldn't be fair to him in the end
151020
he is in a comfort zone. What about you, what do you want? Think about why you broke up..Is he worth it, or can you do better than the way he treats you. Is this what you want for your future or are you just settling in your comfort zone. If he is the man you want, than just ask him, and if it is not the answer you are looking for.....move on
868131
Honey - you said it all already - you knew he wasnt right for you.  Sounds like you are just lonely now and your current relationship might not be the right one for you as a marriage.  Its too late now, and no matter how much you might want to - you cant go back in time and change things.  And truthfully, you probably really wouldnt want to.  Whatever made you break up with him, it would have gotten worse.  Chin up dear girl, plenty of fish in the sea :)
193435
girl please what will it hurt if you ask him because if you dont then you'll regret it and then you will never know if he feels the same because you never asked him.
760808
so why were you only planning on going out with him one time? you are not even giving this guy a chance, im kind of wondering why? but if you really have your mind set on only going out with him once then i don't think you should call him back. what really gets me though is you feel bad for not calling him back, but not for only giving him half the chance he may deserve. sorry to say but you might be missing out on a good thing.
729844
I guess he did realise that it would not be right to do something that both of you would regret later. I think he likes you more then he lets on and would like to get to know you better before taking things to another level. There is no problem to see and meet each other as both of you know that nothing happened and it has not affected your friendship.
963948
Forgive yourself for an error in judgment and focus on what would be in your best interest at this point.  The guy satisfied his sexual curiousity and can't let go of a minor offense (i.e., hanging up on him).  A guy like this will only hold you back.....walk away now and you'll be proud of yourself for putting your own needs first.  You will gain strength as time moves on.  It's just a matter of developing the resolve to stick to your guns; as you meet new people and start to date new guys, this memory will fade.  Trust your own instincts and move on.  Good Luck
687650
Sounds like a great friend. Don't rush things, it's better to have a great friend than an ex-boyfriend. If he decides to change his way of thinking and date friends, I'm sure you will be the one he comes to. but for now just be happy you can spend time with him.
776551
Go for it\nThe reason you give for not being with him are shallow, and I suspect that your real feeling run much deeper than that.
595189
I believe in second chances so if I were you then I would casually date him for a couple months, maybe like once a week and just see if he has changed. Don't commit yourself to him and don't let him suck you in. Be sure to make yourself happy, like going out with your friends some nights. If you spend all your time with him your going to get blinded. Who knows, maybe someone else will come along and you will suddenly no longer want this guys attention. But make sure that he knows your not committed and your an independent woman.