What should i do if he doesn't listen to me?
405825
Nothing - you guys are finished and he probably hates you.\n\nmove on, get another man, i'm sure you'll be able to.\n\nAlso depends on what you've done. But remember Men hold grudges.
909734
I`m a man and agree with you all human beings complain sometimes, it`s in our nature. I can only suggest that you need to confront him and let him know about his negative attitude. If he dosen`t listen, just walk away as if he doesn`t exist. I do not speak to my next door neighbor, so I know where your coming from.      GOOD LUCK!
418696
try talking to him about it... if he ignores you then u can always say u tried! ... noone could stay with someone like that, if you really feel he doesnt like you just tell him and break up, it might be hard but u can rest assured its the best option, u deserve better... wishin u the best!!!
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If ignoring doesn't work, or he creeps you out too much:\nTell him FIRMLY that if he continues to follow you around, that you will begin contacting authorities (police, the principal, etcetera- I don't know your situation). \n\nI once had a problem with someone like that, and he called my bluff. I actually called the nonemergency police line. To hear me talking with someone in Authority scared him and he never bothered me again.\n\nCarry your cell phone with you at all times and have alternate routes/emergency plans in your head.\n\nBe safe.
388161
I wish I could tell you how to get him to listen.  He sounds like my late husband.  We were married for 40 years and he never really listened to me.  Once we were at a marriage counselor and I talked for about 5 minutes about how my husband didn't listen to me.  Then the counselor looked at my husband and said "what do you have to say about that"  and my husband responded "I wasn't listening"\nso going to a marriage counselor doesn't always work either.\n\nIn the end I began to think that my husband was frustrated by other people in his life and took it out on me.  He couldn't ignore his boss.  He couldn't tell his co-workers that they didn't know what they were talking about so he came home and did it to me.\n\nThe really bad part is that I came to believe that I was stupid and incompetent.  I put too much value in the way that he treated me. \n\nI took course on how to communicate.  I was told that I shouldn't say you did whatever but I should say I feel whatever.  He turned this against me and told me I was self-centered and I believed him.\n\nSo I can't tell you how to make him listen or how to communicate with him, but I can tell you that you must guard against feeling that something is wrong with you.
304889
If he bothers you that much tell him you are not interested in hearing any of his stories. When he starts to talk to you ignore him.  He'll catch on and leave you alone.
1141892
Try calling him.\nIf he doesnt respond then move on, because he has.
547674
you could tell him. if you tell him be nice about it.\nor you could do what i did and ignore the guy.
1121863
just ignore him....he;ll learn when no one answers anything he asks....
710989
Tell him to grow up.  If he's not willing wait for you... that doesn't bode well for the long term.
1117184
time to move on.... change your life... tell him NO... make the rules and stick to them..... the more you give in to him the more he will stick to you .... STOP giving him mixed signals and move on ............ God bless
218760
Just ask him what part of NO don't you understand, and then just ignore him. An go on with your life. If he still prisiest, then call 911.
799366
Just tell him how much it bothers you that he isn't keeping up on his promises, and he needs to start calling you when he says he will.  Let him know you are serious about it.  If he still keeps not doing what he says he will, then yeah you should dump him.
183052
If you can't get him to listen, try dropping him a note explaining the circumstances and the misunderstanding.  If he still continues his ways after hearing your side of it, then leave him in the dust.  He is not understanding, forgiving or tolerant enough to deserve you.
145083
if you don't believe him then why are you here? just ignore him or tell him to get lost, he sounds like trouble to me. if there is a reason for you to not believe anything he saids then trust yourself.
464748
just ignore it and he'll either give up and speak then you can tell him to leave you alone or he'll just give up and move on.
22893
Just tell him.  Find him, go up to him & tell him.  You can't live your life wondering what would have happened if I said this.  So even if he is not responsive to your statements, you know in your heart you were honest and did everything you could possibly do to make it work.