Why do men writing personal ads always specify a body type of "slim," "fit," "athletic" or similar?
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I don't really have that much experience in that area, but here's the best advice I can give you:\n\nIn my opinion, a guy that specifies "slim," "fit,"and any other body type is usually not looking for his "significant other." Usually it's because he's looking for some canoodling and "action" or what have you. \n\nYou are looking for love, right? \n\nI think that it may seem that all the guys are looking for one thing, but that's not the right way of looking at it. You can tell a lot about a person when you read their personal ad. If a guy puts up that he's looking for some "slim" or "fit" woman, I doubt he's that great a match for you anyways. In fact, it sounds rather superficial to me when a guy sepcifies what appearance a woman should have.\n\nYou are wonderful in your own way, as is every woman. \nYou deserve someone who can see that. Not all personal ads specify appearance, and so you just need to have a little faith in those which don't specify it. \n\nThe only thing that I can really tell you is this:\n\nDon't give up. He's out there, and you'll find him eventually. Sure, there are those interesting and bizarre moments of misses, but that just brings you that much closer to your significant other that you deserve. \n\nDon't ever give up or let anyone tell you otherwise. \nYou deserve someone who appreciates and loves YOU. \n\nAnd just to finish this whole tangent off, I think that too many people fail to realize that when you're looking for that "slim" or "fit" person, it can all change in a few years. All appearances change with time. What never changes is who you are, and that's what you should be looing for. A person. NOT a body type. \n\n=] Good luck to you!
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Whatever looks proportional to their body type.
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i think there is a difference between discriminating and being selective. of course there is always going to be prejudice. but putting that aside.. a company may be searching for a particular type of person. i know companies that insist that u know how to play golf.. because that is where a lot of contracts.. are negotiated and settled on the green.  also suspose you need someone to do a lot of traveling in a fast pace business with a host of luncheons.. dinners and late night negotiations.. and a person applies that appears to have health issues.. not in shape..  then what? is the ceo wrong to hire a slimmer more fit person.  so there r many variables.  yes .. tall .. handsome.. and white.. fit the profile for a lot.. but in a alot of cases..your presentation in an interview is everything.
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i'm thin, and my bf tells me and other people that i'm the best he's ever had.  I'll do just about anything, i dont see why being skinny or thick has to d with sexual preference, but. . whatever . . . maybe it was just the personality of the girls you were with, lots of crazy sexual skinny chicks, trust me
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same reason why men have different sizes of p.e.n.i.s
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Externally I would say a man with nice eyes and a nice smile (dimples make me melt) does it to me everytime.  I love a man that is fit also.  I like a man with define arms to just hold me tight and make me feel protected.  A nice toned stomach and ass.  I don't need a body builder but a man that cares enough about himself to take good care of his body and essential mine!!!\n\nBut all of that isn't so attractive if a guy isn't intelligent.  You can only pretend you like sports for so long then it gets boring.  ALSO a gentleman is VERY SEXY.  A man that will take care of you.  Sometimes you just want someone to take the lead...
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Because men usually want tall thin, young blondes. Not short, full figured-but cute- red heads in their late 30s. :0)
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This is what I love about the young...so judgmental and so lacking in compassion.\n\nYes, a heavy man can have sex appeal.  Some of the hunkiest men are the most obnoxious people when it comes to personality.  The young seem to think looks are everything...they are not.\n\nAlso, many men were once thin...age changes your body.  Many of you, who are so judgmental and so shallow, will lose your shape in years to come.  Your body doesn't last forever but the personality does.  \n\nIt isn't weight that provides the sex appeal, it is the personality and the way the person treats others.  Why do you think so many good looking men have women that you would consider unattractive?  It is because they learned that beauty is what's inside...not the wrappings.
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America is obsessed with being sexy. Women (and now men) fall into a trap of constantly trying to make themselves up to look beautiful. So, I would imagine that many Women want to know what they look like from someone elses perspective so that she can know whether or not she should diet or if a certain outfit isn't flattering. Men are doing it more frequently now too. So, this female stereotype is becoming more of an American stereotype.
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Coz men are men. It doesn't matters whether they're dense or not. All is different, each is unique. No offense, but perhaps you should ask why are you stereotyping.
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I, for one, have never once worried about my weight - or needing to diet, to keep it in 'shape' !\n...It is the MEN and the MEDIA who are all out to brainwash us that 'skinny is sexy' and 'beanpoles are beautiful' ! How else could they market all those fancy 'diet' foods and beverages, plus 'instant reduction' cosmetic surgical techniques like liposuction - and rake in billions in profits ?\nIt is still very much a marketing MAN's world, baby : And it is going to be a real struggle, for us women to unite and stand-up against these stupes to announce : 'We are HAPPY being healthy, and well built. It is these MEN who need be slim and bony' !
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its all a matter of preference. some guys like what some guys like.  \n\nthe real question is: why are heavy men acceptable in our socety, but heavy women arent?!
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Certainly!  If they're physically fit and well-toned, that is a huge turn-on.  However, I do not appreciate those with "man-muscles" attributed to steriods or other means that make them look like male bodybuilders.  It's disgusting to see these women try to emulate that.  However, a female form with a hint of 6pack abs is a total turn-on>
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Men are funny creatures and our society has accepted guidlines that either subject them to being a part of a group or ridiculed for their actions. Skinny or well shaped women are just like muscle men with a tan, they are pleasant to look at.  Men date heavier women when they meet them face to face and figure out they are people too and the perosonality and other qualities are redeeming.
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There are several "key" factors. It's symmetry of features, good body, personality, and confidence to name the top ones. All those added together make for a truly handsome man or beautiful woman.
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b'coz they are tall or short,thin or fat!
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They've got to be funny, for one thing. hair can't be too long... that can get gross! he has to be sensitive, of course, not nervous around you, honest, faithful, ummm as far as looks go, not fat; that sounds mean, but if a guy doesn't have the will power to stay off the twinkies, then he probably won't have the will power to be faithful or make some other choices... i like muscular, tall guys, but i also like the skinny funny ones who are just way too much fun to be with! forget skaterboys and jocks... i like tennis guys! and the ones who really don't care about athletics too much... but don't get me wrong, i do fall for jocks sometimes! i just like it when my guy is smarter than he is athletic