i've bn single 4eva!how do i not have a bf?!?
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Because you're still looking! Love comes when you least expect it! Stop looking so hard and let love find you!!!
669860
No wonder you are single!!!!
377218
Hi - seems you hit the lonely spot - you are looking at it the wrong way. You already have a life partner - you. Now for companion that's another story.\nLearn to enjoy yourself by yourself - once you are comfortable with yourself - you'll emit attractiveness and someone is out there looking for you!
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I know how you feel. But why do you want a bf just for the sake of having one. There will always be shallow guys around that are interested in looks only. Why build a relationship just on looks? It never works out.\n\nWhy don't you live life to the max! Take up interests that you like. Join clubs that do things that you like. Have fun. Chances are, you will make lots of interesting friends whom you will share common interests with and you'll have a great time with them. And who knows, one of those friends may just be a boy whom you will like. Now that's the best way to develop a relationship: start off as being good friends with lots of common interests.
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im 16 and there is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend now...you should wait to go out with a guy that you really like and not just some loser who doesn't care about you!!!
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you don't "NEED" one. \n\nJust be yourself and don't seek to find a boyfriend. When you look they are harder to find. Concentrate on your interests, school and meeting new people and I'm sure you will be fine.
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try your nearest library or bookstore if you like to read too, and just plainly start up a conversation that makes sense to the one person that grabs your attention. or similarly, wherever you like to hang out. That's what a guyd would do, and if you think that is courageous, pls, you are already a single mom, what could be more courageous already! think about it, you are strong woman and can do this on your own too if you had to, just be selective and go sensible about it. rejection is no big deal, not interested is no big deal, chance to make "just friends" a real plus, chance to find that good man, well hey, that's BINGO
348731
i'm in the same situation & i'm a funny person who's not nervous around guys but i don't have a bf too.guess we'll both just have to wait & see won't we?cheers!
205631
i don't have a boyfriend...lol;)
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You don't have to love anyone, or be in a relationship. There's no point hooking up with someone just because you're single. Be choosy, I am and I'm much happier than the people I know who bounce from guy to guy. Be your own person, you don't need anyone else till you see what you want.
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Don't panic. You are not going to die if you do not have a boyfriend. Trust that there are guys out there that are attracked to you and that when they get the courage to ask you out, they will do it. Don't second guess anything about yourself, and don't try to change yourself. Be yourself, and you will ultimatly be happier with yourself and with the guy that you are with when it happens.
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Hey don't feel down. I don't have a boyfriend either. Do you want a boyfriend? And do you need one badly? If so go ask a guy out that you think that he's interested in you. It's either you that's having a trouble finding a boyfriend or you are not sure if you want one. Or it's either the boys? You have to venture out more in the world if you're shy or quiet. Trying too hard can also be a problem. But either way good luck, just find out what you want.
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When you find the answer let me know. Im sick and tired of being single, and I cant figure out how to change it......so Good Luck, you are not alone!
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Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
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Become a whole and complete person.\n\nGet a hobby or two, or six. Learn new things, travel to new places, spend time meeting and hanging out with new people. Do all of this for you, not to get a boyfriend.\n\nInevitably, one of the many new people you meet will be a boy whom you find attractive, and who finds you attractive. Since you'll have these hobbies, and you will have been travelling, you'll be a very interesting person as well. This will interest him, and he will ask you out.\n\nOr, you'll learn how to be bold enough to ask him out. Either way.\n\nOh, one more thing: for the love of all that is holy, stop using the word "like" in the middle of sentences. I guarantee that at least a couple of boys who would have asked you out decided not to do so because of that annoying habit, just like if they saw you biting your nails.\n\n"I want a boyfriend, because my friends are going away. What do I do?" is the proper way to say it, and that'll attract a far better class of boy.
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You don't need a boyfriend until you are done with school and living on your and are ready to start a life. Just live a little and go to Church and find a male friend there. Eventually, he might become the man you want.
859946
why is it so hard to find a bf... i feel the same way