men's behaviors+ emotions?
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Well women use emotions to confuse men, so men stop listening to what they feel. Usually the first woman to confuse them was their mother; by not being honest about what she really feels and distorting everything.  Mothers try to prove that they love their male child when all the actions say other-wise. So men withhold their emotions because they don't want to express their anger at their mother. Instead they pile it up on the women in their lives, and stay immature men forcing them to become their mother.\n\nWhile women listen to their emotions, but distort them when they are sexual because their father cannot accept that they are sexual beings of their own and so they stay daddy's girls and are unable to be honest with a man and prevent themselves from connecting to men on a honest level and prefer to be their mother away from their mother instead of being a woman when in fact they are angry towards their father and so they become their emotionally unstable mothers.\n\nThere that sums up a lot of neuroses.
871647
Hi luv!\n\nBecause we accept our emotions, and deal with them instead of ignoring them and repressing them.\n\nIf men would be more open and honest about themselves and their own feelings and emotions, I am sure men & women would get along alot better!
448582
Crying is a natural thing, even for 'strong men'. If a man allows himself that opportunity to express himself so fully that he is moved to tears, there's a really lucky woman out there!
997403
Jeepers!  That's hard.  Eyes, smile, hands, the way they move, the smell of them after a shower.  When guys do what they do, they are so focused, whether it is watching or participating in sports, working on cars, computers and even us!  I feel if I focus on just one attribute of a guy, I miss the whole package.  Sometimes I have to step back and savor the essence of the man.  Funny, intelligent, safe, dangerous, sensuous, sexy, interesting.  Sorry,  gotta vote for the real deal the entire person.
1177606
Guys are built differently than women...when a guy sees that something is wrong their first reaction is to try to "fix" whatever is wrong, when in reality sometimes all we are looking for is understanding or some comforting words. Try not to see it as a fault, it really isnt, us women are just more "emotionally intuned" than most men are.....I asked my father this same question many years ago, and he told me simply that most times guys really don't know what to say...like when we cry and they are just silent...it's because they dont know how to "fix" it...\n\nSo to answer your question, yes i believe it is common, and very normal : )
1170935
There are lots of things to consider here and I'm not about to counsel someone we know nothing about.\n\nThere are so many questions that need answers before advice can be given.\n\nSo, here's the cliff notes version:\n\nDo you have regular romantic intercourse?\nPassionate men often turn violent when they are robbed of their intimate other's attention.\n\nWhat has changed since you got married?\nHe may resent you for something you didn't do.  Men sometimes want to please their wives so much that they deprive themselves of other activities.  For instance, has he been out with his friends much?\n\nDoes he have secrets???\nGet a sample of his handwriting and look at the "o".  If his o's have two loops at the top that intersect, he has the liar trait and is keeping something secret from you bye lying.\n\nReason I tell you this, is often, men turn violent when they are lying about something.  The tension from trying to keep it a secret and the unhappiness from not being able to live the way they want makes them crazy.\n\nHe gets mad when you cry because of his own insecurities about the relationship.  He sees your tears as weakness.  Perhaps you need to stand up for yourself.  Shouting and argueing do very little, so take action.  Make rules and make them stick.  (you may want to experiment being the agressor in the bedroom.  grab him, force him, make him the submissive once in a while.  He'll see you as an equal then)\n\n\nI know, from my own experiences.\n\nCheers darling and good luck.
187909
Is your sex better than usual? Is he doing new things to you that he didnt learn from cable TV? Are his everyday habits any differently than before? Is his hair different? Is he really open to change? Does he accuse you of things, over react to and blow little things out of proportion. Does he create reasons to fight and be mad so he can go lengths of time without talking to you or answering his phone? If he is then I'd assess my situation........if he's not doing these things...back off and enjoy your man.
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James, I would be glad to fill you in. One thing I like about other men is their attitudes clearly state "boy". Secondly, many men have attractive bodies (and each person has their own ideal "type"), as for personalities I like the funny and cute guys... if they're shy, that'll work too. Body parts that I like are the face (especially the eyes), and the back (although other gay men like other things.). When I see a cute man, I feel rather anxious. I feel like I want to talk to him, I feel like I want to ask him out, and I also feel sad that I live in a world where I can't just do that freely. Also, if I see a cute man but I'm around my step-dad (the one person in the world I can't come out to for some personal reasons), I feel angry that I might have missed my chance because I couldn't be "out" around him. Hope this helps. Contact me if this isn't clear enough for you.\nAloha,\nDavid
564275
women have a emotional diarrhea and men have an emotional constipation. That's god way of averaging the emotion between two sexes
1149703
HAIRY CHESTS. Burping and farting bad breath. nose picking \nass scratching . ball scratching \nbasically normal male behaviour lol... ; p oh... and guys who fancy themselves.
872178
i believe men are weaker emotionally because women can "feel" what others are feeling and we aren't afraid of showing our feelings.....men think it is too feminine to show emotions.....i wish men could show them more cause it would make relationships alot easier sometimes!!!!!
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Hormones and dealing with guys.
949032
Guys can't show their emotions when they are around the rest of the dawgs.... It would make them vulnerable and the dawgs would ridicule them. They want to impress, they want to fit in, they want to be accepted and need to feel part of the pack... It is nothing personal, I am sure he really care, it is the male way.. enjoy your time alone and give him some gentle touches, kisses on the cheek, hugs and let him feel comfortable being in contact with you. Some guys are really shy with people in general, more so with ones that they know. They feel awkward and they don't want to look like a fool.So they bumble along. Take the lead next time you are alone, but don't be too forward, he will let you know if he is interested... \nwhen he is with lots of people, hang back and don't try to be too close, he will find his way to you if you step out of the limelight.
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Yes it is. Looking around at even my own family I can see the pitfalls they are getting into with my grandson. "Boys don't cry" Oh gosh. It is society, upbringing etc that make men the way they are. I truly do feel that a man is every bit the same as a woman in this sense, but society rules that men are supposed to be hard and not emotional, if they are any different society treats them in a negative way.\nMy husband is a very gentle character and he was certainly picked on at school because of it. There is nothing wrong with a calm mannered man who is in touch with his feelings just as women are considered to be.\nIt has to start with the children not bringing them up to think that all men have to be strong, hard, not in touch with the feminine side of themselves. \nI fear that as life has always portrayed men in this way, it just will not change. \nI encourage my grandson as I did my  boys that it's ok to cry and be emotional if and when these feelings arise. \nIf more people did this maybe society would be so much better. \nThe macho image of men is not always right. It's all down to how we are conditioned throughout life.
65731
How does he talk to you.  How does he act around you when the two of you are together.  How does he act around others when you are in public.  What does your heart tell you.  Usually your gut instinct will tell you.  Pray.  Talk to him and tell him how you feel, what do you have to gain.  Being a man, it is nice that a woman can express her thoughts and feelings direct and to the point, no games.  Tell him how you feel.
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about the way he acts...
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Guys are socially conditioned to equate emotional expression with being effeminate. In this day and age of penis enlargement patches and big cars, men are trying to be more and more masculine, women are trying to be more and more feminine (shaving everything) and the lines of communication are failing as a result. Many guys (especially those without older sisters) are simply unable to communicate emotionally- except anger- anger is regarded as okay. I think it is really sad and that guys are doing themselves out of half the friendships they could have.