Are men really jerks?  Or do you just want us to think that?
401961
Most of guys are about sex then Power then money and if they hace time love, but not all of them so when you see one that is not about all that hold on to him and enjoy him cause those are the ones that realy matter
468531
Yes and No.\nWhy Yes:-\nDepend on the guys, some guys are very talkative and want their girls to answer them back. And like Women they love to hear nice compliments.\nWhy no:-\nSome guys are not that talkative, and only want short sentences answer. And does want to talk to their girls everytime, they have other time passes.\nIn modern world, guys are like women, they are gossipi, like style and fashion, like to hear compliments\nThere are only few % of non talkative guys.
950881
no. what do you see in such a jerk anyway
843837
yeah..sometime men are naturally stupid! always thinking that we women want relationship. Wake up guys!! this is year 2006 approaching 2007...those ideas aren't valid anymore!!!!
690908
Yeah, I think guys tend to care about it more than girls.  If they end up in a locker room where they have to be exposed, anything that's different can be grounds for isolation or humiliation because all it takes is one jerk.  I think anyone will use that issue against you only if they are angry with you for something else and are hoping to hurt you in any way they can.
195574
i'm also tired of idiot ignorant wannabe men.  here i am, a young boy, who always figured i was just a little boy.  but lately i've realized that i lead by example, i can actually skew the curve of what a woman should expect of a real man.  any guy who loves a girl should treat said girl like the dread pirate roberts in relation to the princess bride.  you ask your man "would you do the dishes?"  he should say "as you wish" and then get busy doing the dishes a.s.a.p.  you ask your man "have any interest in sweeping the house"?  he should say "as you wish", and then get busy sweeping right then....not tomorrow.  you say "make me dinner, sweetie".  he should reply "as you wish", and he should get off the couch and make you some good healthy real food........not run to mcdonalds with your credit card.  i wish you luck.
982659
jerks aren't the greatest, but i personally can't handle a guy that is too nice......it gets kinda annoying, makes the guy seem desperate, and takes the challenge out of the whole encounter.
1152512
Women don't like jerks, they're just kind of biologically drawn to them...\n\nWomen love confidence.  Even when they're not confident, jerks are typically a bit cocky (which ironically, is a sign that one lacks confidence).  Cocky resembles confidence just enough to get the girl.  Being a domineering control freak is also an attribute that women commonly mistake for confidence, and as a result, such men often get the girl while the nice guy loses out.  Meek & indecisive are the two most effective female repellants out there!   \n\nWomen also love mystery.  Jerks are not open with their feelings, which makes them a bit mysterious.  Nice guys are frequently open with their feelings which kills the mystery.  While women CLAIM they want a man who's open with his feelings, deep down they much prefer a man who keeps some mystery about him.  \n\nIgnore what women SAY they want in a man; instead, pay attention to what they RESPOND to.  Generally, the key with women is to be "the man with a plan" (e.g. don't ask her where she wants to go on a date, just take her there) who's fun to be around (most important: make her laugh) but doesn't talk too much (don't tell her your life story right away, make her work for it), all without being a domineering a-hole.
1139729
No. He just wnts some ass. Trust me. I'm a guy, and even though I don't act upon what my head says (not always a good thing) I know how other guys think. So do yourself a favor and just get someone else who'll be there for you. Not your puss...
696157
Women have the impression that guys are jerks and thats why they cannot trust any guy. Maybe it's because they have had bad experiences with guys. Not all guys are bad but you even know that guys think with the wrong head
326466
Sometimes yes and sometimes no. If women were a little more clear about their feelings, men would understand them better and it would make everyone's life a little easier. And sometimes men are just jerks.
276488
They have other priorities, like intelligence, appearence or social position-- but it's very rare for a girl to ultimately settle down with a guy who's a jerk, it's usually a great fling-- one other aspect here is that rude is in the eye of the beholder... you may think he's being a jerk but sometimes she thinks it's funny or just agressiveness but not necessarily rudeness
529553
Well actually I have found that most twomen will sooner cheat on a jerk than a nice guy because often women cheat to get back at someone, or in order to feel that they aren't being held in tight reign so as I have seen it, nice guys actually are cheated on less because there isn't any reason to cheat on them.
613433
Sorry honey, but you've pretty much summed up EVERY man in that statement!! (well ok, not EVERY one, but the majority of them are self-centered!)
199852
guys who do that do women are jerks... not players. Find a man who will be A MAN not a boy!!! As regards to the women who do that, I don't consider them hoes, just practicing for perfection ya know... LOL... take care
1122698
Well he could be psychotic, or he could not like you very much and is playing a game or he could be a skitzo or he could've gone through some major trauma and have head problems either physically or now he just has skitzo tendancies or he could be this- DID YOU KNOW THAT MEN HAVE HORMONE CHANGES EVERY HOUR? THAT MUCH LIKE OUR MENTRAL CYCLE THAT HAPPENS ONCE A MONTH WHERE OUR CHEMICAL BALANCES CHANGE THEIRS CHANGES 24 TIMES IN A DAY-it still doesn't give a guy a reason to be a jerk!
1173056
It's a biological drive. Not all men act like that, some women do. Some people will be deceitful for no reason at all. People are complicated.