i know a girl who gets angry when i don't call her for a long time or message her?
406849
Dude, just ask the girl. We can't tell you what she thinks.
1160927
Ignore her.  Don't hang out with her.\n\nIf you can't do that, just be nice to her and pretend that whatever she does doesn't bother you.  She is probably one of those people who likes the reactions she gets from you.  If you stop giving those reactions, then maybe she will stop doing whatever it is that bothers you.
623247
I hate it when people play games, if she is angry then she should just tell you so you can do something about it, when will girls ever learn that men (or anyone else for that matter) cannot read your mind so you have to TALK TO THEM!!!!!  If you want them to make it up to you then tell them what they have done wrong!
1068514
We have all have one or two Friends like that in our lives.\nYou are holding back becos, she is ur friend and u really care about her.\nBut part of that caring means u have to be honest with her about how u feel. She probably doesnt know how annoying she really is...so hopefully, u'll be up to the task of helping her to be a better person.\nHope ur Faith teaches Patience? Cos u'll probably need it.\nAll the best to u and ur Friend.
369342
Give her some time to cool off. After a little while, confront her with your concerns. Tell her you feel like she's been ignoring you, and thet you are sorry for beign a few minutes late. Tell her you love ehr and you don;t like feeling like she's mad at you or that she doesn't trust you. Be calm and assertive, and get your point across. Good luck! :]
642760
Maybe she was having a bad day.... Is she like this often. \nMaybe you should have asked her what was wrong? \n\nAlot of girls whether they realize it or not start ditching their friends for boys and maybe your friend feels threatened.\n\nMaybe shes on the monthly and had a headache....  \n\nBE A GOOD FRIEND AND            ASK HER\n\nIf shes still being rude without an explanation then she may be sending you a signal that your not as graet of friends as you thought.... \n\nJust try to bear with it, if shes your best friend...... but dont let yourself get hurt by this...
176273
Ignore it. She sounds like a trouble-maker and not a reliable source. You can also call her back and ask her to stop harrassing you.
350052
Maybe she's not the girl for you if she pisses you off all the time!!
1012216
Dude trust me and give her time and just stay in touch with her and start at the friendship level again and see where it will go if you presist on calling her or showing up where she is you will just piss her off more and push her away
309839
well, first of all, ask yourself what you want... then confront the girl if you are ready to.. then tell her what u feel, express everything and if its not enough, take some time off alone and reflect with what happened. talk to other people, share what bothers you, in that way, your anger or maybe rage might somehow released.. keep yoursel busy as well, it might help..
123636
She knows she will get a reaction from you when she makes fun of you.  If you react in a different way it will either soon bore her or she will not like the reaction she receives.  So you could ignore her or you could give her a dose of her own medicine and put her down.  As a last resort for someone who absolutely will not stop this type of behavior, warn them that the next time they put you down you will do something about it, and you must follow through. It is more important for your well being and peace of mind to take this extreme action.  Unfortuanetly in life there are some people who are just real jerks and this is the only way you can deal with them.
304705
She wanted to get back at you because you missed her call the night before.  It happens.  No big deal, get over it.  If you can't get over it, you need to date someone less cool.  Cool people need and give space.  They don't call each other every night for two hours.  They don't play phone tag games.
898318
No, having a personality disorder is not psycho babble.  I have\nBoarderline Personality Disorder & I am perfectly sane.\n\nWhat did she do that upset you?  That is where to start.  We\ncan't answer your question with such vague info.\n\nIf she is just a pest, be nice, explain to her, if she is spending\ntoo much time bothering you, that your busy & she can't come\nover today??  Put a limit on the amount of time she spends so\nshe doesn't drive you nuts.   If she is mean & selfish, who are\nyou to judge?  Yes, she has a problem, does that mean you\nhave to condemn her?    If you asked her to leave you alone,\nyou must have had a good reason? right?    I would invite her\nto lunch and have a heart to heart talk with her, see where SHE\nis coming from - you just might be surprised!  Maybe this is the\nvery thing she needs from you.  And don't be afraid to tell her\nthat she must follow your boundaries - if she becomes unruly,\nshe'll be asked to leave.  I think if you are straight up with her,\nshe will see the error of her ways.  And you will have the time\nyou need to do whatever without her hanging around 24/7.\n\nTry it.
943924
how about i send her an email telling her how mad u are. ill pretend like u didnt know i said anything. ill just say something like "did u know **** is really ticked off about u trashing her boyfriend all the time." get on messanger plllleeeeeassse
227061
Sounds like she is trying to be you.  She definitely isn't worth being your friend, but I don't know about picking a physical fight---just seems like a bad idea, especially if she could press charges.
655302
Oh God, it seems we all have friends like this. Don't you just wanna punch her? Anyway, you can't act like it bothers you, 'cause she'll get some major satisfaction. Even if you feel like you wanna roundhouse kick her like Chuck Norris, stay calm. Remember, you've got more class than she does. \n\nHopefully, it'll work out where he guy won't pay attention to her. Be sugary-nice - eventually her fakeness will come out. Mean girls never win. =]
1094510
I'm afraid the only way you are going to stop this is to just be brutally blunt with her. It sounds cruel, but people like her usually don't the get the message if you beat around the bush.  She obviously wants ALL your attention. She throws a tantrum when you say something to her to put a guilt trip on you. She obviously lost a lot of friends because she acts this way. She is suffocating and I give you credit for dealing with it, but I see you are at a breaking point and before this goes further, put a complete stop to it. \n\nI would air out all of your feelings to her emphasizing that you can no longer tolerate her behavior. Tell her unless she backs off and gives you some space you want nothing to do with her at all. She will be upset of course, throw her tantrum, but eventually she will get over it. It might prompt her to take a look at herself, the way  she acts and why she can't make friends and she might even thank you one day.\n\nI do emphasize be brutally blunt, if you aren't this problem will persist.