How does one fit in society with the mentality of a male and the physical body of a women?
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I would have to think about that one for a minute. OK, I have a suggestion for you. Why can't you just be you? If your mind is a male, then act male. If you want to do guy things, like work on a car, go ahead.\n\nYou would have to make that decision because no one knows how you deeply feel. Are you gay? Are you straight? Those are important questions. How old are you? Are you in therapy?\n\nYou must decide which way you want to go, where you feel the most comfortable inside yourself.
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From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
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Yes we all have and here is the key. Don't overlook things in the beginning that you know you can't overlook later. No matter how "hot" a person and how badly you want them for yourself, don't compromise to the point where it is unfair for you. If you are a woman you deserve to be treated like a queen. If you are a man, you deserve to be treated like a King. Just don't settle for anything less right from the beginning. Of course in all relationships there are compromises, but don't compromise who you are to please the other person. Make sure you get what you need out of it. You will find someone one day who will love you for who you are and you will find that they will compromise for your sake. God Bless you and you are in my prayers.
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Explain your question a bit better.  Do you mean what a man should be and a woman should be?  Or why men and women go together?
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Before you find a woman find yourself first. Meaning find the comfortable you. If you're not comfy & confident w/yourself no one else will be. I'm 26 & dealing w/the same thing with the exception of looking for a man but what is working for me is exercising. I'm not at it hard core, droping weight fast but I know I will never be TRUELY confident until I loose at least one roll. LOL. In the mean time, I find it necessary to except me as much as possiable. They are probably few a far between but there are women who look for personality before anything else. My personal opinion, you can be fine w/a 6 pack & be an as$hole & that will make you ugly but be big & wear it well w/a great personality & that will make you sexy. Maybe you could try exercising, it may make you feel better then you can say what I said I will if I ever get where I want to be (don't know if your familiar with him) "back then you didn't want me, now I'm hot & you all on me". Confidence on the inside will shine through & you will be sexy on the outside, regardless of size & looks. I like a thick man & I know I'm not the only one out there!
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simple, you dont.\nyou just have to be yourself, be happy with who you are, be sociable and good mannered.  women will smell that.  and hunt you down soon enough.\n\nemphasis on being sociable. you cant be found if your home most of the time.
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Hm. Not being a man myself, my motion could be denied, but I understand that the male gender in general (including those with homosexual or bisexual tendencies) may be resilient to commitment due to society's masculine power tendencies. In other words, we live in a masculine society, where all true, desicive and definite power is only a man's and never a woman's. The female, on the other hand, is looked upon as fragile, easily deceived; this through the beliefs that the Church has imposed with the story of Adam and Eve. The male figure is strength, and the female figure is weakness. Strength derives from the physical, while weakness is seen in the emotive. There is the connection: emotions are never strong, therefore, if a man is perceived as emotional, he is not a man at all. \nDon't judge me, this is part of hundreds, thousands and millions of years of social history talking.\nIf a man commits himself to a relationship, fully, he is opening himself to the emotional aspects of life. In order for a man to maintain his masculinity in front of society (his peers, family, colleagues, pets, etc.), he must distance himself from the emotional path and build a road back to his masculine side. Some men make a small shortcut trail so they can come and go whenever they understand it is required to do so. \nA man's ideals are also part of his education at home and with his own natural experiences. If he was not brought up as a "macho man", he will understand the emotional side of his brain better than the average Emotion Neanderthals we usually encounter with. However, there will always be that part of society's teachings which will darken his understanding.\nThat is the answer about why men do not accept the fact they have girlfriends. \nNow... if what you meant was that a man would not admitt to another girl that he is in a relationship... then you have encountered with a Neanderthal that only wants to slip into your pants, and you should find something to club him with.\n...\nHey, I'm just kidding about the clubbing.\nJust keep away from that jerk.
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be a man and dont have more than one is the first step..... and just basically be you!
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i think we really mean respect when we say equality and the right to live our lives, build our careers and homes as we see fit not as someone else dictates.\nrespect as a person so that we aren't raped & murdered for being women, so we're not beaten senseless by some testosterone overloaded man.\nrespect enough that living active social lives does not make us "wh*res" & "sl*ts", when a man gets applauded for it.\nrespect enough that we aren't cubbyholed into the slots for mother, wife, and maid without seeing our true potential.
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Men's Health has great nutritional/health advice for both men and women, and it they have articles dealing with different age groups.  You'll find advice from licensed professionals not meat-head guys who live at the gym, but doctors who actuall understand the internal system of the human body.\n\nwww.menshealth.com
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GIRL! there are men out there that love like and want to be with women like you. You are not a gross person just cuz you have muscles and your overweight..Noone is perfect. ITs all in how you feel ...Feel good about yourself. Get a new haircut..change the color of it...Try on stuff that you never wore before. Wear a skirt even though your more comfortable in jeans. Be thankful your alive..breathe in the fresh air. Be glad and thankful you can smell..see..hear..walk!!Thats the important things in life. Just do something different..mix it up...he's out there somewhere......... I can guarantee it!
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It depends on woman, but most women want a man to take his time and get to know her body entirely, her body's reactions and to act like he loves every single part of her, be gentle, caring and concerned about how she feels those moments and try his best to make her feel special.
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Work 'em Baby !   LOL.\n\nBe content with who you are.  As long as you're eating well and exercising and in good health, what else really matters ?\n\nAny man who loves you for your legs isn't worth loving in the first place.\n\nIt's the total package girlfriend, the total package.  A woman who's happy with herself is a WHOLE lot more fun to be around and be with than one who's not.  Beauty comes from inside and eminates out.\n\nLike Shakespeare wrote, "We cannot bow ourselves to the weak list of a country's fashions, WE are the makers of manners !"
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Real answer.\n\nThe truth is, Sarah, you won't have to go out of your way to use it, and it will be better if you don't anyway. People are naturally attracted to beauty, elegance, and high quality. Attractive people have a much better likelihood of success in business.    Just like people that dress well, are charming, and are likeable.  It all comes down to being likeable.\n\nAs an attractive woman with sex appeal, people will want to like you, although many will let envy and jealousy prevent themselves from doing so, and blame it on you. (I'm sure that's happened to you before.)  But that's just a burden of the blessing that you have. And what will help you most is to manage that burden. \n\nHow? By seeking to understand first, then to be understood.  By showing interest in others first, which will make you interesting in their eyes, and just by being "down to earth".  If you do those things, the blessing of your physical attributes will come off as being non threatening, and amiable.  You will multiply their effect.  Everyone will want you on their team.  And that makes you a leader.\n\nIf you make a concerted effort to use your sex appeal, the guys will want to sleep with you, and the ladies won't like you, and you will have to manuever through both enemies, and hard-ons.  A lot of extra work...
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Be respectful. Be charming. Be polite.\n\nAs long as you are good, you will eventually attract good women. (You will find some not-so-good ones, too, but the good ones will stick with you.)\n\nNot all women think guys are dogs. Women who have been burned by men, will think that. Remember, respect, charm, and polite.\n\nThose are very essential elements, and don't forget honest. \n\nIf people are rude, shrug it off. Someone who's ticked today, could be pleasant tomorrow. \n\nGood luck.
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man have a problem competing with women and losing.they feel their particular sport is their own escape and have a hard time accepting women in their sport.
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you will attract all kinds of girls and women.\n the thing is, what do you want and how are you going to carry yourself.\nif all you want is girls, you will get just that. if you want to be a fine upstanding and caring young man no matter how your body is shaped ,you will still attracted all kinds\nof girls.\nbasically whatever your standards are,thats how your life will be.