Anger that is Depression induced?
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Freud says: "Depression is anger without enthusiasm." While I don't agree with Dr. Freud on all the "finer points," I like this definition of depression, esp. the depression related to relationships. \n\nYour relationship is obviously not healthy. Your heart is not happy with this man, your intuition warns against him, but you are over-ruling your inner voice. This is what is ledaing to a congestion of your heart, and its panic attacks. \n\nWhether we are in a place or near a person, this condition of the heart only means one thing: "GET OUT!" Your heart is obviously not happy. Why, my dear, are you in this relationship then? This man, no matter how good looking, how deerving, how in-need-of-help-and-care is draining you. May be you've made mistakes too - but it's YOU that you're going to live with forever, and no one else. Don't get rid of yourself, get away from this relationship.\n\nBe healthy and happy - that's the reason why we have love affairs in the first place! God bless you.
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You are already on the way to improving by writing your question and acknowledging that your behaviour is not what you want.  Good for you!!\n\nI know that for me, just under the surface of anger is lots of other feelings.  Like hurt, fear, fears of abandonment, fears of not knowing what to do, or how to do it, fear that noone understands us, fear of the future, social fears, many many fears and feelings.  \n\nPlease get professional help.  Would we try to set a broken bone ourselves?  Of course not.  We need to see professionals when we're having emotional problems too\n\nGood luck to you.
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No don't see a doctor just work really hard on anger managment. don't worry there are many ppl out there that have the same problem.
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Stronger tears when you are mad,
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Congratulations for seeking help and living on your own.  You have already taken several steps to alleviate your anger and depression. I think your first step is to find time and agree with your social worker when you are ready to go out and talk to others socially.\n\nI really think that anger should not be cured in the sense one should not be angry at all...Anger is an emotion after all..but it must be controlled.  Uncontrolled aggression can lead to violence, as you know.  I do have some anger myself...usually dormant..but can arise sometimes..but I have been able to control it lately.  I suggest you take an anger management class to help you cope..and perhaps join a support group that will help you relate to others with the same problems. Good luck.
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YES. Anger is often a key component of Bipolar Disorder. I have worked with many teens with bipolar and they all had problems with rage and or self-destructive behavior. Occasionally rage and psychosis manifest similarly. You should check with your therapist to see if he can put you on anti-psychotics/mood stabilizers such as Seroquel.
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"Depression: Poor me, what a world, what a way to go, what's the point, I am a dark cloud. Periodically depression and gloom will raise its head; no life is without it and depression as a stage follows no course or order. A treatment plan, medication, support groups, verbal therapy may all help when one is in despair. To fight depression one also needs to be proactive. I'm not telling anyone to walk around with an insipid, plastered-on grin, but to work with mental health professionals and keep your depression at normal levels. Depression can be a sign of acceptance and the possible drive to seek out treatment programs for your own emotional health, so again look at this as a warning sign."\n\ni got this from a site... anyways, i think the paragraph above is an insightful answer already... anyways, i personally think that it would be better if you talk your problems out to someone like a psych. they can even prescribe u with anti-depresants.. think of your access to drugs! haha.. just kiddin'!.. good luck, pal!
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its hard but vigorous exercise really does work.use your anger and hurt to drive you on through the pain and exhaustion,this will give you a natural high which will counter act the low feelings.       \nafter a few sessions the natural high will start to last longer and get rid of the low feelings.Try not to think about it or make any decisions while you are feeling down because your mood really effects your judgement.IT WILL GET BETTER, HANG ON IN THERE.GET LOTS OF FRESH AIR.  GOOD LUCK
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That is a sign of stress and an inability to find an appropriate outlet for anger. You need to see a doctor for more help.
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I feel the same way right now.\nI feel like I am so sad I want to cry but too tired and burned out to bother.\nI just am really starting to hate almost everyone lately.
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Nothing angers me anymore, I've seen it all,  herd it all, been through it all. A smile and a grain of salt , attack I left behind 1 year ago, it wastes way to much energy, that  could be used instead to heal.\n\n               I AM
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First, I try my best not to judge them. Emotions are just that, you can't make them right or wrong. It also depends on the type of emotion I happen to be feeling at the time. If I am angry, I will try and cool down before handling a situation that upsets me. I do this by taking a walk or doing some other physical activity, like housework and I do it vigourously. I find it is a good outlet to help me calm down. If I'm feeling sad, sometimes, I'll just go with the feeling and use it creatively, write a poem, listen to music. Sometimes, it's good to be reflective unless, of course, it's long-term and then you need help. I'll rent a funny movie or talk to a good friend over a cup  of tea. In both cases, it's a good time to learn and grow from your feelings and to help put things in perspective.
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Yep. I believe anything is possible. Especially this. I used to be very angry myself. Anger management classes didn't work. They pissed me off even more. But through years of therapy, and counseling i learned how to find happiness within myself, and find other more positive healthy ways of expressing myself. I learned that it's okay to be angry. Everyone gets that way whether they want to believe it or not. But anyways, yes of course you can always change yourself. I found peace in writing poetry. and listening to relaxing music. So that's what i do when i'm flustered. I write how i'm feeling. It may be some ugly and harsh poetry but in the end i feel alot better. So what i would suggest is find something you like to do, and find peace in that. Good Luck to ya.
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Oxycontin can cause anyone to become agitated, aggressive, and angry, but it seems to be even worse with people that have mood disorders.\n\nYou seem to be very insightful.  Your last line is very important - you already know you need someone to talk to.  People who have been in similar circumstances can often be the most help.  There are support groups in most cities for bipolar people and/or their families and loved ones.  Check the Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (dbsalliance.org).  You might benefit from online support.  NAMI (nami.org) has online support for clients and families suffering from many,  many mind illnesses.
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How should i know what makes you mad??
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yes the chemical reaction of extreme pissed off ness
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yes, sometimes i do feel like that and that is when i go to the punching bag and let out all my anger. It really works.