Is liking the sexual part of gay sex, but no interst in men other wise, is that gay?
399729
YES, that is the modern basis of being gay (homosexual, prefering same sex).
780500
You might be gay or bi, but it's hard to tell based on what you have said here. I don't think it means you're gay just because it's easier for you to get off when you're watching guys. It depends on more than just that. You need to grow up a little more before you can decide, I think.  Give yourself time to figure it all out, and don't worry about labeling yourself right now.
373801
no i deont like gays anyway...\ni like pure men,...
1186323
just because your enjoying another erogenous zone does not a gay make.  we as humans have such an amazing desire for feel good endorphine rushes.  what ever that may be does not always dictate straight or gay.  enjoy your body and your lover's.  and as the old school song says, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with.  we have different degrees for murder but not for love.  well except luv or heart loves.  by the way i met a straight guy when i was 18 who was a construction manly man and he was curious what a woman feels when he busts guts so he put a broom stick not the whole thing mind you up his "l'onion".  explore kids but don;t damage or abuse.
1087597
I am straight myself.  But if you have sexual feelings for the same sex and none for the oppisate then perhaps you are.  You have to really think about this one
48001
I would say if you have feelings for members of the same sex and you want to act on them, or you do act on them then you might be gay. And if you're not at all interested in being with someone of the opposite sex, but only someone of your same sex. It's also possible you could just be confused.
436588
If the idea of loving and being loved by another man seems hot to you, you are gay.  I've also noticed that VERY few straight guys ever ask themselves that question.
964203
ill admit curious but not gay. right now im gonna stick by kkkjewhaters side. but when i turn gay (if i ever do) ill let you all know. im not the "hide in the damn closet forever" type.
982864
You say you definitely like women, but the question is in what way do you like them? You say you have fantasies with certain men, I guess you mean sexual fantasies? You than state you don't like men. I do not know what your sexual orientation is because you have provided few details. If you sexually fantasize about women only, then you would be straight. If you sexually fantasize about men only, then you would be gay. If you sexually fantasize about both, then you would be bisexual.
624619
no, not at all.  it's perfectly normal and natural.  in fact, some studies show that most people are bisexual to some extent, and only very few are either entirely gay or entirely straight all their lives.  (this includes actions and fantasies.)
695923
You say that you "know i'm not gay because i know its very wrong". Who says it is wrong? Someone else who is telling you who your are? The only thing that is wrong is for you to pretend that you are someone that you are not. It could be that you only want to experiment, and that doesn't make you gay. Being gay is a definition of who you are attracted to. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the same sex as you, that means you are gay. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the opposite sex as you, that means you are straight. If you have sexual thoughts about both, then you are bi. Instead of listening to other people who tell you what is wrong or right, listen to yourself and decide for yourself who you are attracted to. It doesn't matter who you are attracted to, the only thing that matters is that who you are attracted to makes you happy.
1137590
Take your question and flip it around: do straight men and women find the same sex sexually attractive at all? Does looking at even the prettiest woman or sexiest man repulse them? Is it ever possible for a gay man to seduce a straight man, or for a lesbian to seduce a straight woman?\n\nThe answers are the same for either orientation.
151621
NO it doesnt make you gay , but in all honesty I would try it ! WHats the worst that can happen ? And in all honesty do you want to wonder what you are missing out on ? I personally used to feel the same way . I have kissed girls and fooled around a little bit with them and I know I am not gay , I have a wonderful boyfriend who I love sometimes its just fine to be with a girl !
1076915
Who doesn't like lesbian porn? It's great for straight men, gay women and even straight women. Gay men I suspect don't enjoy it, but they get laid more than everyone else, so things balance out.
719038
Your still gay. You are just expermenting some bi feelings and there is nothing wrong with that. I think it happends to a lot of gay people. They just don't like to admit this kind of thing. I know I have been there. It seems like other gays don't want to hear it and the same with the opposit sex. Im jost letting you know it normal to have feeling like that. Your still gay and thats ok..
1102938
If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!
11333
No, I think it's gay.