How can someone tell if there are being played in a relationship?
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Simple...if that person doesn't give a time for you...even a small one...or your just being adored! Being adored is different in being loved...if you really doubt about your feelings toward each other take some time to talk...STRAIGHT AND PERSONAL...how would you know if you don't talk...don't just leave yourself behind!Don't let them just play games with you...Fight.
76446
The only way to know for sure is if he admits it or if you catch him in the act, but here are some helpful indicators...\n\n1. Your mate is more attentive to your needs than usual. This is due to the guilt feelings experienced by the cheater in the early stages of his or her affair. The attention will \ndiminish as the affair continues. \n2. Your mate begins buying you gifts -- lots of gifts. These are "Guilt Gifts" purchased because your partner feels guilty about betraying you and showering you with presents makes him or her feel better. \n3. Your mate's behavior is causing a gut feeling in you that something isn't right. If this happens, pay attention to your instincts. Ignoring them means you want to blind yourself to the truth. You know your mate's habits, routines and attitudes better than anybody, so be suspicious when these things change. \n4. Your mate frequently picks fights with you. Doing this gives him reason to get mad and storm out of the house and thus the opportunity to meet a lover. A cheater may also do this because of mixed emotions he is feeling about betraying you. \n5. Your mate constantly talks about your relationship ending when you fight or argue. She says things like, "What would you do if our relationship ended?" or "If anything ever happened to us, I would always love you like a friend." In general, she seems very negative about your relationship. Your mate makes these statements because she has a lover to fall back on if your relationship ends. If your partner repeats these kinds of statements often, be suspicious.
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Unfortunately, a lot of singles on both sides of the gender fence treat it like a game. If two people are truly looking for a relationship... playing games isn't the way to do it.\n\nFirst off, it's very dishonest. Take the "play hard to get" game. A woman likes a guy, but initally feigns disintrest, or turns down an initial offer of a date. The woman uses as a rationale "well, I want to see how interested he is". The way I see it, the woman isn't being honest... and what sort of way is it to start getting to know someone by being dishonest? Let's say she tells him later that she really was interested... likely she will imply that it was the guy's fault that he didn't keep asking her... but in contrast how many women out there get mad when their significant other DOESN'T  listen to them and respect what they say? \n\nI think the game playing can also be a sign of some egotism... the mindset being "I'm such a hot commodity, you have to show me why I should go out with you"... that's a very one sided view to take if pursuing a healthy relationship where both partners should be considerate and treat each other as equals.
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Don't expect more than flirtation from him... lots of people in relationships flirt, and thats all they do.  They have no intention of cheating or leaving - and thats what he's told you by letting you know he's already involved.
509102
Be careful, he may be playing you. You should try to find out the status of his current relationship, whether he's happy or on verge of breakup or whatever. But to be honest with you If a guy is "Friends" with you he's considered dating you, unless ofcourse he's gay.
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
754082
if he is acting suspicious or getting his sex some place else then he is probably cheating on you
584788
find a deeper meaning to them other than sex tell the truth dont b a cheater make time 4 her treat her like a queen (throw in a diamond 2) NAW jus playing let her and u have a good time and b ur self thats all there is 2 it
1098042
There are tons of signs but for each partner it can be different.  Phone calls in private, change in behavior that is suspicious, lack of interest (or with some more interest).  Best bet is to ask straight out and get it out in the open.  Look into their eyes and ask.  If you see an unfamiliar look, glance away or an over reaction---all could be signs.  Be straight forward!
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If you know his past then there should be no question, but since you asked.......... don't be available all the time, even if you want to hang out. It will put him to the test. Either he will stop calling, or he will call more which could mean that he is really interested. You say he has been a player ; start a game, but in order to win you have to have distance from him, and last but not least DON'T LOOSE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!! (really important) Know at all times who you are and what you want ; be a little selfish.
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I kind of think that if you have to ask yourself, "Am I being used?" Odds are, you ARE being used.  If someone does not make you feel your full worth, and if the energy he is putting into your relationship does not match your effort, then you should seriously re-evaluate the situation, because honey, you deserve one hundred per cent and no less. We all do.
498116
It depends on your boyfriend.\nYou have to give us examples of the things he is doing that makes YOU think he is cheating and we can let you know from there.
408068
No offence, but don't their advice. You'll know when he doesn't show as much interest in you and when he starts acting different with you. If you think he's cheating, but he's acting the same, get advice from a friend or family member who know them a little.
612383
Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.
991498
Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
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Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend \nSome men who suspect their girlfriends are cheating may be in denial and refuse to believe it. Well, for all those other men who are willing to seek the truth, check out these signs of a cheating girlfriend: \n\nAfter dating for several years she tells you that she's overweight and has hired a personal trainer \nYou find a charge slip in the waste basket from a nearby motel by mistake. \nYou find a present she says was from her mother. You open the box and find a pair of sexy panties. \nYou come home one day and find a cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes. \nShe's uncharacteristically spending money on new clothes. \nThe phone rings several times within a week and when you pick it up they hang up. \nShe starts acting like a teenager who has a crush on the quarterback. \nYour girlfriend tells you that she's visiting a friend who is sick. This one is a classic, and it works all the time. \nShe says that she loves you, but doesn't act like it. Remember, a person is judged on what they do, not what they say. If your girlfriend exhibits any of these signs it may mean she is cheating on you.\n\nGl\nI hope she isn't it is the worst way for a relationship to die.
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You can't.  Just be alert and watch for the signs....unexplained purchases, loss of interest in intimacy, trouble maintaining eye contact, a sudden change in mood or behavior, mysterious phone calls, a confrontational attitude, making excuses to leave, unfamiliar scents, etc.  Most importantly, do not expect honesty.  If they have something to hide, you'll be the last to know.