what if your brother dose not like who you are going out with??
401928
i was the same way in high school i did the same thing to my sister and it was the right thing to do at the time the guy that want her was wanting onley sex and i would have f***ed him up if that would have happened.
51772
i cant give that good advice becuse im a guy but i say your brother will care at first but he can get over it... unless there really good friends.\nkeep trying  :)
32057
When people don't want you around but you want to be there, you are in a conflict with them.\n\nSo, like other conflicts:\n\nFind out what's really going on.  Why doesn't she want you there?  Does he want you there?  Ask if you can sit down with her and talk about it.\n\nSee things from her side.  Pretend like you're an actor and you're playing her role.  Why might she act like that?  Does she feel hurt?  Is she insecure?  Does she miss your brother?  Is there something going on between them?\n\nPropose an alternative that takes your need to be with your brother and her need - whatever it is - into account.  Maybe you and your brother do something and then pick her up and all three of you do something together?  Maybe you limit how often you drop by?
1070865
Get better friends, I don't mean that in a harsh way but if this friend  knows your brother is straight but keeps acting this way towards him it just seems to me that He is Not being a very good Friend at all Gay or Straight
897448
NO - do not date him.  You want to be with someone who likes you for the unique person you are - both inside and out.  Don't waste your time with someone who just wants a female carbon-copy of your brother.  You deserve to be with a man who can see you as different and special, and more than so-and-so's-twin-sister.
195619
Dating brothers was a big mistake.  I'm not real sure you can fix this.  Your best bet is if the two brothers talk and can be ok with it.  If they can be ok then eventually everyone else will follow suit.
1109996
Yeah, he's a brother, if you want him to back off basically you'd have to stop dating her... otherwise he's just doing what brothers are supposed to do; protect his sister from other guys ;-)  doesn't matter if you're a good or bad influence, it's his brotherly duty to make it difficult for you...
274874
he really doesnt like you becasue goes out with your friends
1081824
Wow!  Sounds like my family.  My brother married her, and we still don't get along, 2 years later.  I try to just put up with her because of my brother.  But I don't see it getting better. \nMaybe your bro doesn't see her faults.  If you say something now, he might take a closer look and decide he doesn't like those things about her, either.  He might get mad at you, but he'll get over it, won't he?
122104
first of all u did d right thing by asking for advice. another thing is u and Frank should sit downand u should tell him what happed and as him what's going on. if he says nothing then drop it don't keep askin him because then he'll think u don't trust him. if u still don't feel comfortable then talk to your sister about it but change the peoples names so that she won't know it's about you all. if she asks why were u asking about this then say it's happening between some of your boys but u don't want to give there real names bacause of the situation.after u get her opinion ask her what would she had done. then that will help u decide if u want to tell her or not.the strange thing is the boy i want to go out with again his name is "Frankie".
181546
Well, this is sorta like a question I had but not really. All I could say is just tell them what is going on and try to take it from there. It is a whole different story if the one brother is a man who likes to control.\n    Just try to talk it out with them!\nGOOD LUCK!\n       Tina
773537
OK here is a love triangle for you this is great. My brother dated his girl for about two years, while i had my own boyfriend. we dated for about a year and a half. So after double dating and treating my brothers girlfriend like a sister she dumps my brother. Not too long after that my boyfriend broke up with me. About a week later i saw my brothers ex and my ex holding hands at school. Now my ex wants me back lol I'm getting back with him. I know it sounds nasty and he broke my heart, but you gotta listen to your heart do what your heart and soul tell you to do. you know you got it girl...
608902
Go out with him.  He obviously doesn't like your friend as much as he does you.
807721
i think you should let your brother know i mean this is very wrong! who does she think she is!? she not only disrespected her brother but she did the same to you get her out of your place fast what if she is doing it or has done it to your boyfriend and hes to scared to tell you????
692737
if u like this person to take the chanch to go with him get a taste of his stlye if it's not u then not go with him
166836
No. He's your brother you can say or feel all you want. Just don't get in it to serious like a sexual relationship with him.
990606
I SAY NO BECAUSE IF U DON'T LIVE NEAR HIM SAY NO OR IF U LIKE HIS BROTHER TELL HIM  BUT FRIST U HAVE TO SEE IF HIS BRO LIKES U BEFORE U BREAK UP WITH HIM MY WORK IS DONE IT'S YOUR CHOICE TO DO IT OR NOT BYE GIRL.