I Like a guy but I dont know how to tell him or anything.we are good friends and i dont wanna ruin it...HELP!?
403248
sometimes you have to make your happiness and feelings your top priority and stop worrying about what is gonna happen if you tell what you feel!!!
1154766
Join the club! You and I are in like the exact same predicament. Anyways, um, if you two are good friends, then you should just tell him that you like him. There's a chance he'll like you too. God, if only I could follow my own advice...\n\nI know what you're thinking, it's much easier said than done. But that's my best advice. And to tell you the truth, that's what most people in here are going to tell you to do. Sorry if I wasn't very helpful. Good luck!
392279
tell your friend that you are interested too.  then let him make the moves.  if he likes you then he will make it happen.  just give your friend a heads up first!
85906
Just tell him that your really good friends with him and you dont want to harm the friendship. Or even better you could tell him that you dont love him you only see him as a friend and nothing more.
704317
Don't make this more complex than it has to be. HE likes you. YOU like him. Tell him you want to move your friendship to the next level and start dating. This is a GREAT thing !!! I am happy for you two.
200248
Well if this guys likes you a lot, it's tough. There's no easy way to go about it, but the best thing is to be honest and let him know how you feel about him. If you tell him he probably wont want to be your friend because he'll be hurt so don't expect him to be cool about it. Just be honest and if you'll be friends it'll be up to him if he can accept you as such.
302552
Yes, go ahead and tell him now. Don't make him do the scariest thing in guy world - asking a girl out - only to be turned down. You can say "I am really glad that I have you as a friend, but I kinda get the feeling that you might want more. I love you and I don't want to hurt you, but I just don't feel anything but friendship for you."
535073
Be good friends. Yes, it sounds corny but its the only way (if you dont have the guts to go in front of him and say "Hey! I like you. Go out with me?") to get an idea as to if he likes you or not.. Then, based on the situation, you can get to know if he likes you or not.. Maybe he starts liking you on the journey on friendship.. ending in love?\nWARNING: NEVER EVER tell him that you like him.. Things are bound to get worse.. NOT better! It happened with me, so beware!!!
407817
It really depends on you and him... If you guys are really good friends and you guys understand eachother then, why not just tell him how you feel about him?? You know him better than anyone else and if you feel that he's going to act differently towards you b/c you told him how you felt then I would suggest that you keep at a friendship level... You never know though he could poossibly be feeling the same way.. To be honest if he was really a good friend reguardless of whether he feels the same or not he will be able to continue being your friend afterwards.. I would take that chance, you'll never really know unless you try. But in the end that's just my opinion, the decision is really yours to make in the end.... Good Luck!!!!!
757846
Hmmm... Alot of people will say, then just HINT him! Drop obvious hints to tell him you like him.\n\nIn my point of view, you can like ask him, to the activities you are orgranising, get him to help out.. or you can ask him out for coffee. Basically small gestures, saying hey I want to know you more, I am interested. Doing all these actions, also need not mean that you like him as well. As many close friends of mine will do this kind of invites, to ensure the friendship between each other is not broken.\n\nThe best option in my point of view, is to invite him out for shopping, with your friends or alone. Do be sure to get some of his friends, if you are going out with yours. If not it will be very strange for him.\n\nI hope that helps! Do Message me, if you have any other questions. \n\nCheers!
1164073
you should tell him and ask him if he want's to still be your friend. You can say "Hey you know I like you but it's just that I don't want to have a relationship with you. Maybe we can still be friends"
30216
So times if you are to shy to let a guy know that you like him, the best thing to do is to let him know with actions.  Treating him just a little bit different than a guy friend.  You know, look directly at him when talking, smile, give him that little extra attention.  He will get the message and most of the time that is a lot better than coming on too strong, good luck!
1152229
I think you need to ask him about it and tell him how you feel but dont scare him off. Say something like i am beggining to kinda like you...But if you are not into me then i would love to still be friends. But tell him that no matter what happens i want to still be your friend.
1088765
ok i have been through the same thing just tell your friends you like him and if they judge you they are not really your friends \njust let him know how you feel it is very hard to bring your feelings out there in the open but at least he knows that you are strong enough to actually tell him that but just  first go up to him and tell him that you would like to be his friend and ask him if that is ok and then as soon as you guys become friends you will grow into a more deeper relationship tell him what is on your mind and also let him know if he is doing something wrong but that is the only help i can give you doll face good luck
500643
well what i would do is i wouldn't tell him sraight up that i like him but get to know him hangout with him be good friends tease around with him don't get all stiff in front of him be your self that is the key to opening up to spmebody!!! goodluck and be yourself!!1
383207
Tell him that you're interested in going out for a drink and getting to know him on a more personal level. See how he reacts. Talk about your old relationships and see how he reacts to that as well. You should be able to tell if he's feeling you. If it seems like he's shying away from the topic, it's best just to come out and tell him you have feelings for him. A lot of beating around the bush just leads to confusion. If you're straightforward with him you'll get an honest reaction. \nIt's hard to talk about these things with people we've befriended first. There is always a chance that unearthing your feelings might drive him away.. but it's much better to take the chance and get it out in the open. Make sure you think it through first. If this is the sort of fellow you can see yourself with in a forever sort of way.. and not just a skin-deep level.. then you know what you have to do. I know it sounds cliche'.. but follow your heart. You'll know what's best for you.
357599
The best thing you can do is be honest. tell him that he's a really good guy but not your type. Say ''is it OK if we can still be friends''? If he Say's no just say you understand and move on. It's not like it's the end of the world or anything.