My girlfriend doesnt think i trust her but i do. How do i prove to her i trust her?
401964
I don't see why asking her what she's doing over the phone should make her think you don't trust her unless she is hiding something. I think nothing of being asked that q. It's just normal conversation. Maybe it's your approach?? Or maybe it's not you at all!! Good luck, sweetie!
57206
you have to have trust or you will drive yourself crazy snooping and as i call it "playing inspector gadget"\nall you can do is be the best boyfriend you can and if she messes up you can't blame yourself.
75423
Do you believe her?  If so, try to work things out.  If you don't believe her or trust her, then there is no way that you could work it out.
1124786
she's your girlfriend right? just tell her. if you can't tell her this, then the relationship is doomed for destruction.
555674
Trust isn't the issue.  You either trust her or you don't.  Doesn't matter if she out all night or not.  I don't think you do which means that the relationship is doomed.  \n\nBut if you do trust her then you have to ask yourself if you can live like that.  If you can then do it.  If you can't then get out. \n\nIt's all about what you can accept.
946457
Ahh I'm occasionally insecure about this kinda stuff too and what my girlfriend does really helps and makes me feel better.  She takes me aside, looks in my eyes, and explains how everything is all right, and that nothing happened, and that she loves me, and kisses me.  Make sure you're truthful though that's the best way to build trust.  One lie can ruin all the trust someone had in you.  Don't jump to sex as a way for him to trust you, of course it's a good way to show you love him, but it's not always the best option in these kinds of situations.  Just be truthful with him always, and love him with all your heart  and things should work out =).\n\nhope this helped and good luck =)
275348
It sounds like you want to test her.  Try this:\n\nuse a freinds car and park across the street from her work.  Call a flower shop, and have them send her a dozen roses, with a card that sais " from you know who ", or something just as obtuse.  when the flower guy delivers the flowers to her job, call her before she has a chance to use her phone\n   If she brings up the flowers, then you can admit they are from you, and you know she is not cheating on you, and you look like a prince for being so romantic.\n   If she didnt mention the flowers, You know she didnt have time to call her boyfriend, and ask if HE sent them. Then you know she is cheating on you, and you never had to ask, she never had to lie, and it only cost you about fourty bucks instead of a soap opera of deception.\n\nGood luck.
1136927
a bit unclear there in your wording, but speak to her calmly, and don't let her interrupt until you say what you want to, to clear yourself from this. Then tell her what you know without hurting her feelings, afterall she needs to know what you know. She will believe you and trust you then.
984025
Trust just like respect is not something that is handed to you in a relationship it is earned.  This is your proving ground now, a second chance in a sense, you earn trust by being trust worthy.  Show her you can be trusted and won't lie again unless you want a nose like Pinocchio!  : ^ )
1066795
Well, what did you do to lose her trust?  Try listening to her more, don't wait until she tells you do to something like chores, do them before she has to ask.  Don't sneak around behind her back, be honest of your actions.
228359
Well she's quite insecure about your relationship. Reassure her that she's the only one and do little things to build her trust. If it don't work, dump her ass.. You don't need that.
101414
yes tell her it could be a set up to see how much she can trust you .
927961
Well get a device and put it on the car or have a friend you trust follow her and record her or call cheaters or be forth right open and honest and tell her to her face; I believe you are cheating on me, if you deny and I find out its over, if your honest maybe we can work this out. Why hide? If you want the evidence up front hire a detective.
560190
First off, why do you say she probably doesn't believe you? Have you done something to make her think otherwise? The best bet in any situation when you love someone is to be completely honest with them. You obviously want to let her know how you feel about her. There is always a chance of rejection in any situation, you just have to take the chance. Otherwise, you will spend your entire life somewhat regretting it if you just let her go on by.
485561
You can't make someone agree with you--maybe you two don't have anything in common.  Do you give her cause to think you're cheating?  If not, better to find someone else who doesn't have trust issues.
779211
Earning trust back is hard; it takes time.  But start of small, show her that you care and that you are indeed there for her.  Try to take her out, even if it's just as friends.  Don't try to get ANYTHING from her.  Make sure you don't hurt her again and make sure she knows that you won't.  Get her something special that will show that you are putting thought into her and how you really feel.  Take the time to call her daily, talk to her.  Even if it's just texting her to say "Hey, I just wanted to make sure you were okay."  It's okay to still tell her that you love her [if you do] But don't try to move onto her too fast.  Give her some time and let her realize what she wants.  But just make sure that she knows you care.
592379
She's insecure.  Get her to admit it, and find out if she's willing to work on it. Don't threaten to dump her because that will just make her worse.  Obviously her trust has been violated by someone else, so try not to take it personally.  If she won't admit she has a problem, there's nothing you can do...a relationship with someone who won't admit they ever have any problems is going down much faster than someone who has an admitted problem they are dealing with.  \n\nIf she does admit she has a problem, you need to decide whether or not you can be a part of the solution and show her that trustworthy people do exist.  It's possible for her to come out of it, but it will take some time, and patience from you.  \n\nIf you feel you're not up to the challenge, by all means, end it sooner than later, but try to let her down easy because she's obviously has had enough to deal with already.