If you meet a guy who seems sincere, is there a way to tell if he's honest or just a player right away?
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no, you would have to get to know him better. but if he disrespects you right off you know he is a d***. don't ever let that stand. the best kind of guy you could hope to meet will cherish you're time together and want to spend time with you. a player won't. also look for signs of arrogance and over confidence in himself. you never want someone who treats you just like everybody else, trust me i know you want to be treated like you are the only one in the world, not just another girl. everyone is different and they should be treated that way. try to be friends and learn more about him then if you like what you see then take it up. there you won't be hurt. but there is very little anyone can do to tell if there frog will turn into something more. just try not to put him on the spot we get stupid and panic.
577185
honesty... I would love to really meet a man who is honest. It seems my life has been surrounded by lying men.
173181
to be genuine & honest
370042
tell him how you feel and tell him there is nothing that he can't tell you. . . you're both playing for the same team. . . so trust you enough to open up.
578854
it's not wrong to be honest with the guy if he's asked. if not, then myob
931220
cant give you specific profile,\n but if he doesnt, \nbye bye
1062375
Just let him know-- he already has shown interest in you. Honesty has always been the best policy for me. It may embarrass you both but at least he will know how you feel and you will know how he feels about it too!
289627
It depends on the person, what sex type do you want to respond to. If there is something about someone's outward appearance, then try to a casual chat. Then you can take it from there, cause you can find out what the personality is, the mentality and all of it. Just don't rush into things, take things a little slow. It's mainly your choice, your opinion, just don't set too high of standards, cause it never adds all up.
1045381
why don't you just be sincere with your intentions... ? tell him without pretense, and it should be fine
323789
I dont think you could really go by things that he could say or do exactly.  Someone could fake these things just as easily as they could be true about it.  He could tell you what you want to hear, or do things he'd think you want him to do.\n\nI guess you have to trust your gut feeling, I think thats the only true reliable source when it comes to this kind of thing.
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BE HONEST from the start
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Fifteen Signs That He's A Player\n\nThe term “player” is derived from the old phrase, “playing the field.” A player has a talent for saying and doing all the right things to get women emotionally involved. Players are not to be confused with dogs. The difference between the two is, a dog is interested only in sex for recreational purposes. A player is interested in capturing a woman’s heart. Players have no real interest, however, in becoming emotionally involved themselves. They usually are very good in bed. They should be; they have had lots of practice! \n\nA player is fully aware of the fact that women are receptive to men who possess a sense of humor, are confident, smile, are good looking, well-groomed, romantic, and have the ability to create an emotional connection with them. A player will develop, master, and exploit these qualities to run his game. He will modify his approach and his entire behavior, if necessary, to suit the circumstances and a female subject of his desire.\n\nHow can a woman recognize a player before she gets involved with him emotionally? \n\nBy their very nature, players usually are narcissists. They have larger egos than other men, especially where women are concerned. Here are fifteen signs that the man is a player:\n\n-He prefers women pursue him. \n-He is smooth, polished, and articulate in his verbal communications. \n-He is a sharp dresser. \n-He is in good physical shape. \n-He likes for women to spend money on him. \n-He is confident and doesn’t get nervous when you ask him tough questions. \n-He goes to nightclubs and bars by himself. \n-He will stand rather than sit in a club. Standing allows him to keep his options open. \n-He usually drinks premium liquor. \n-He rarely answers his telephone and uses voice mail and caller ID to screen his calls. \n-His place is clean, well furnished, and decorated. \n-He reads women’s magazines. One of the best ways to learn how women think and act is to read what they read. \n-He routinely asks to see you on short notice. \n-He doesn’t introduce you to his friends and family. \n-He is more handsome than you think you deserve. \n\nThe best way to deal with a player is to always maintain a position of control. Don’t make yourself too available for him. Let him know that you are just a little out of his reach, and that he must pursue you. If he tries to play on your emotions or control you in any way, think twice about getting involved with him!\n\nA woman never forgets the one man she could have had. A player never forgets the one woman he couldn’t have.\n\nThis is true for all men, but it is particularly true for a player. Every player has a story to tell that involves the one woman he couldn’t play or the one woman who played him. When a player is unsuccessful getting a woman emotionally involved, especially after having sex with her, he will spend the rest of his playing days wondering why he failed or why he was played. \n\nMustn't forget this one too:  He watches other girls, even in your presence... Openly flirts others, doesn't introduce you as a girlfriend.
745602
Just wait and see .........don't read too much into it tho......he maybe is just the sort of charmer who does that to all.  Time will tell.
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Trust the guy himself.  He can tell you & more importantly, show you he truly cares for you by his daily actions of respect, attentiveness, etc.
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I've been in that situation. Tell the guy up straight what you truly think. He will be grateful later for your honesty.
120767
That sounds pretty on the money to me. A sincere guy is easy to read. What they say and do reflects how they feel (again if the guy is sincere). Girls, however, are more complex - filled with doubt, questions, and uncertainty you know that they are thinking, and not always about what they are showing.
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Hi, and what an interesting question!  My ex-fiance is a player.  We dated for almost 6 years....now, after being broken up for nearly 5 years, he is, yet again, and engaged, yet again.  Here's what I noticed in his "player" personality.  A lot of it had to do with how he acted and treated me when we first started dating......he made sure he let me know I was the only woman in his heart (although dropped hints that his friends were #1)...he would pay attention, only when birthdays and holidays arrived, as to what truly made me happy, so that his present and attitude would rise him to the top....he would always bring me around his friends....other women would always flirt with him and although he would flirt back, he seemed to be more interested in me and that's all that mattered...but I think the best answer to this question is not details of the man, or boy, himself, but the woman who chooses to be with him.  My lack of self-confidence, insecurity and immaturity drew me closer to him because he paid attention to me and no matter what he did, how he responded to my concerns, or how he treated me, he still called me his girlfriend, still showed affection and still called me for everything he needed...so, it made me feel important when in reality, he was self-centered, greedy and cocky and never truly thought about me.  I hope you find your answers!  Thanks!