How can I get my guy to spend more time with me - when he is free?
400987
Ask HIM out on a date... and TALK things out with him. at the moment it seems like he doesn't really want to be with you... I'm sorry sweetie! BUT... I know exactly how you feel. i ask my bf out ALOT these days... sorry... it just seems like he's not really ready to be in a relationship right now. Try and find someone else or talk things out if you can... I'm here for ya... keep me updated sweetie! good luck and much love and support! *ashley* \nP.S. WRITE ME BACK!
391893
Ask him to spend time with u
1082031
You both have to meet 50/50.  Talking about it is the best way.  Do other things to fill your time but if you feel like he isn't giving enough then move on.
19009
Tell him that You "just want to hang out with him and snuggle and enjoy Christmas with him and exchange gifts in private" but it is up to him.  You can't force a boyfriend to do something.  you want him to DECIDE for himself that he wants to be with you all day.  Isn't it nicer when the guys WANT to be there ro be with you instead of knowing that really his mind is somewhere else.  Don't hold him back and give the him any ammo that he can throw in your face later.
49681
yes, but instead of wonderign you have to open ypur mouth and ask him what the deal is girl ...u shouldn't have to be there when he wants you to..u can find somebody that wants you around them ...just ask and if his answer is bs then let him go and find u a real man thaty is willing to spend time with you and not trip...
886226
I hate to say it but if he really wanted to make it work he would. You've gone out of your way to find time to see him, if he felt the same way you do then he find a way to spend time with you. Not seeing you enough is probably an excuse, he's not strong enough to tell you how he feels and he's probably thinks he's sparing your feelings by blaming the situation instead of telling you how he feels. Give him time and he may come around, but don't wait for him. You should start moving on.
1145615
Seems to me that he is your Monday to Friday boyfriend. On the weekend he has no time for you because he is probably hanging with is friends. Let this arshole run. Look for someone who knows how to treat a lady.
749458
I think we all experience this as women.  Men get bored of us so easily.  Unfortunately we are emotional saps.  Try to find something that you enjoy doing and let yourself get absorbed in it.  Try paying a little less attention to him (I know when I do this, it seems to make him wonder why I am not focusing on him and he comes around).  Do what feels comfortable to you.  Try not to dwell on it or argue over it as that is just going to push him further away when that is the last thing you want.  Try like I said to put a little more into yourself and doing some things that make you happy that you enjoy.  He'll come around when he notices he is being paid less attention to.  Right now it's too convenient for him.  He knows you'll always be waiting on him.  Let him see you are busy having fun and carefree, watch the attitude change.  ;)
346954
i totally agree with the fact that u should be appreciated..BUT being away from him isnt solving anything. trust me GO BACK and figure it out. time off doesnt work. the guy gets bored and moves on.. trust me. work with him
701661
sit urself down and really give the matter some heart felt thought....... take the time to get it together...... YOU have a choice to make, so I think you better get busy...... it is NOT fair to your guy to be with him if you can not give him all that he deserves........ God bless
794496
just hang with him some more...once you get used to his company and being around him lots, you will feel more comfortable to ask him..
220396
don't waste your time on him.  When you start acting like you aren't into him anymore and that you are having fun elsewhere, maybe he'll miss the attention, but you deserve better.
380582
just attract him more .......spend more time with him ..... agree with him in all cases ...... give him lots of love ...... give him the things tat he wants it .... and make him to love you more and to care about u more .......
628062
3 or 4 days--you don't want him to think you have nothing else to do.  This may be difficult for you, but you'll hook him harder!!
606834
spend time with my boyfriend.
123772
When you get a chance, start talking to him about some of the things you enjoy doing, and see if he responds, telling you about what he enjoys, if not, ask him what he likes to do for fun.  Then find a common interest of what you BOTH consider fun, and tell him you both should do that sometime.
802792
call him and ask him what's wrong.\nlet him know that he can talk to you about anything\nif things don't work out within the next week or so, confront him and ask him if he has lost interest\nif he hasn't let him know that you want to make room for more quality time, and if he has, go find someone better.