Why do women treat guys so crappy during PMS?
411058
Believe me, its not great for us girls either. The worst thing about PMS is that you just can't explain it. You just have no idea why you're so angry and upset which makes us even more angry and upset because we can't work it out! Your girlfriend doesn't mean to hurt your feelings, she really can't help it and I appreciate that that's hard for guys to understand. Basically, every little thing you do during that time is probably going to annoy her in some way.The reason guys get it so badly is because we feel closet to our boyfriends and for some reason that makes them the major target for the mood swing!
549691
I can honestly say that I don't suffer from PMS that badly.  I get the cramps and sore breasts but my emotions never get the best of me.  My husband never knows when it's that time of the month unless I tell him.  I guess I am just fortunate that way.
308932
Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
941531
Women are completely messed up in the head.  They only want things that they can't have.  By sending stuff to them and being nice they realize that they can have you and that makes them feel like their nothing special.  You must first show them that your'e special and get their attention by doing something funny, unique, or impressive all while acting disinterested.  Then pay them some attention and then only start being nice to them after they agree to go out with you.  Even then do not be overbearing just kinda act like theyre ok and then theyll be dying for attention and then in turn begin to develop an affection toward you.
187475
Men are stupid to make women feel better about themselves.
173980
Because they feel sorry for themselves and get pessimistic and then they start feeling bitter toward women and women HATE that. I think Nice guys look at and compare themselves to other guys and imagine and assume that other guys get more girls and have more luck then they do, and they figure "it must be because I'm a nice guy". It probably just means that the other guy is braver, more aggressive, or that the girls you are attracted to are insecure and immature and only think that a guy who makes them anxious and even more insecure is worth it. Trust me though, most women that I know who are HAPPY in their relationships have all married nice guys who help with the housework, talk to them, go shopping with them (they don't all enjoy it though) and buy them flowers from time to time.
1106917
Because they think you can do better, and they're just fustrated with you.  Well with my experiences it's usually fustrating because they come and complain about their men/women, but then always go back to them at the end of the day.
908523
Thats what turns some guys into bad boys..\nThe nice guys get tired of the women taking their baggage out on them and become assholes.
1174429
Maybe it's because girls like that find really caring guys and take advantage of them, or treat them like they're not worth anything, so then those guys clam up and are afraid to trust anyone anymore, then the rest of us really caring girls, if we want any companionship at all, are forced to associate ourselves with those "jerks."\nIt's a vicious cycle.
564275
women have a emotional diarrhea and men have an emotional constipation. That's god way of averaging the emotion between two sexes
1105836
my boyfriend slapped me back because hes not a little bitch....she wants to act like a man treat her like one, you cant just hit people cuz ur a woman.
293952
Every man feels the same at some point of time.well maybe your luck is to be blamed,but we usually are the reason for getting treated wonderfully or horribly!Keep in control, love them,be truthful.. that should(& would) help!
615595
I am not a man, but who better to explain a woman, than a woman? When your wife is going through PMS, it's hard for her to control her emotions, and hormones. Sometimes she will lash out at you or others, and to her amazement, she doesn't even understand why. We are very emotional creatures especially at that time of the month. The best thing you can do is to be understanding and not judgmental. This doesn't mean that you have to take crap from your wife just for the sake of an argument. \nMy suggestion to you is if you have a feeling that she is PMS'ing...try to be extra nice to her, and more supporting. Help out more at home, don't make her ask you to set the trash out more than once. Help out with the kids, (if you have kids) or do the dishes for her. This will take added stress off of your wife, especially if she works outside of the home. \nI wouldn't suggest this just around PMS time, but actually all through the month! If you do this, I promise you that you will see dramatic results with your marriage. \nHowever on one last note, if your wife seems worse around that time of the month, she may want to go to the Doctor. Some women have a harder time than others, and she may need to be put on medication. I wish you the best of luck!
1135588
I always tell my boyfriend, "Imagine that you are as worthwhile as every other human being. You're smart, you try to do the right thing, and are generally a good person. Now, imagine that despite all of this, very few people take your opinion seriously. You are labeled as emotional whether you are or not. You are expected to know how to cook and clean, and if you don't want to have kids you're called "selfish" and "dumb". For one week every month everything you do and say is discounted because you are "PMS-ing". Then you get to bleed for a week while experiencing pain that leaves you curled into a ball screaming and crying, hoping that it will stop, taking four pills an hour to keep from going to the emergency room, all for the reward of squeezing a basketball-sized baby through a hole the size of a quarter for twelve hours- and even through all this there's no guarantee that you're going to have an orgasm."\n\nI'm not saying that men don't have it difficult too, but that gets him to shut up when he goes off on his mildly sexist "women have it so easy" rants. :)
435077
Because women have ruin it for other women . . . \n\nThese good men became dishearten because of how women treat them.
883656
Because these guys don't start out disrespecting them.  They usually treat them like princesses in the beginning... and these guys add an excitement to the relationship that you don't get with the nice guys.\n\nBy the time they start treating the girl like crap so she's so far in she doesn't really realize it.  This is also how girls wind up in abusive relationships.  Even the strongest of women can fall into this pit of despair.\n\nI've had happen to me.  Bu I ditched that jerk after a year and am now engaged to a sweet, loving man.  \n\nWomen just have to figure it out for themselves.. Unfortunately.
22478
Guys, and also girls, can be mean sometimes. However, You are responsible of the way those guys are treating you. If you project a personality of zero tolerance for disrespect of your person, your time, or your property, those guys are going to react and start treating you well.