i have married 3.5 years,how can i get pregnant now?
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There are many factors that influence getting pregnant, stress being the biggest one. One thing you can do is track your cycles which can determine when your most fertile time is. Ovulation usually occurs somewhere around the middle of your cycle. Once ejaculated, sperm live for up to 72 hours while the egg is only viable for 24 hours once released from the ovary. There are a few different ways to track your cycles. Drug stores carry ovulation tests which will tell you when you are ovulating. You can also purchase a basal thermometer, which will show a spike in temperature when you are ovulating. You can also keep track of your cervical mucus, which will become clear and stringy when you are ovulating. Some women also use an ovulation microscope that shows ferning when you are ovulating. You can also use a combination of these methods, in addition to using software that will not only keep track of your cycles, but also tell you when the optimum time is. I recommend femta at www.femta.com and ovusoft at www.ovusoft.com These are my two favorites and ones I recommend to clients. And most important relax and try to be as stress free as possible.
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My husband and I tried for about nine months, and now we're expecting in early September.  I think it was the pressure of trying that kept us from attaining our goal for so long.  As soon as I stopped worrying about it, it happened.  I will tell you some of the things I read about on the internet before we got lucky.  Several sites on infertility suggested missionary position, with hips elevated (like on a pillow or something), and not moving for about 30 minutes or longer afterwards.  There were suggestions that taking a teaspoon of robitussin (or any other cough medicine containing "guaifinessin") would produce favorable "cervical mucus."  Also, counting the days after your period so that timing the intercourse with the most fertile time of your cycle makes sense.  We almost bought a fertility predictor, but then I read that the predictor kits can only predict whether or not you have ovulated.  This can be helpful if you have irregular periods, so that you can plan for the following month's tries.  Also, take lots of folic acid (I bought a big bottle at the dollar store, the pills are very small).  Folic acid helps the fetus develop its spinal cord and brain, but it has to be in your body early on in embryonic development in order to do the best job.  A good prenatal or women's vitamin wouldn't hurt, even if you don't get pregnant right away!\n\nHonestly though, each time I've gotten pregnant (This is our third pregnancy, and hopefully second living child, our second was stillborn), I have had to completely give up hope of conception before getting pregnant, which leads me to believe that sometimes, if you don't have any physical problems, infirtility can be alleviated by letting go of the "I need a baby" worries.\n\nBelieve me, the worries really begin then!!  :)  But it's worth it--- like a million times over.  Good Luck, and hey!  don't forget that the funnest part of making a baby is making the baby!!!!
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Get on the pill. You are supposed to start way beforehand, but a week is long enough if you have a backup method for a while. It won't hurt your chances of conceiving later, either and it has lots of benefits.
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I would definately see a doctor about this one. You are now 35 which is the older side of the spectrum for getting pregnant. Your gyno will be able to give you specific information about all this stuff and will talk you through the best solution for you.
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get pregnant....other than that, be happy with what you've got!
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The world right now in May of 2006 is climbing toward 7,000,000,000 -- yes, billion -- people.  For health reasons, you have had a hysterectomy.  And now your husband wants another baby.  What do YOU want?  Do you have any children in the first place?  Have you or he had children together, or do you have children from previous relationships?  How much strain would this pregnancy put on your body and your relationship?  All of these questions and more, I'm sure, need to be considered.\n\nIn vitro may be an option, but it's expensive and very iffy, with maybe a 10% chance of impregnation at any one time.  At several thousand dollars per cycle and no promises, IVF is often an emotional rollercoaster, as people get their hopes up and then nothing.  Are you willing to go through, potentially, months and years of disappointment, dwindling finances and no child at the end?\n\nUsing a surrogate is a possibility, but surrogacy is fraught with emotional time-bombs.  Some surrogates want to keep the baby.  Mothers who cannot have children physically may be resentful and jealous of the other woman's ability to become and stay pregnant.  I don't know what the protocol is after a child is born from a surrogate, but it seems an extraordinary thing for a woman to give birth to a child and then just walk away, but I suppose that's how it's done.  \n\nUltimately if you don't have a uterus, you cannot have a baby naturally that I'm aware of.  You would have to use a surrogate, or you would have to adopt.  I'd suggest you do some research and reading first, talk this over with your husband, and talk it over with yourself, and think about what you really want.  \n\nIt sends up a big red flag to me that after a hysterectomy where your uterus is removed, your husband suddenly wants a baby -- and obviously you cannot do this.  Is it really a baby he wants, or something else emotionally?  Having a baby complicates relationships and never solves any problem.  Babies even when wanted bring stress to a relationship.  Perhaps some marriage counseling and/or some very honest talks are very much in order.  I wish you the best.\n\nGood luck.  Cheers, K
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yes you can still get pregnant
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woahhh\n\nlots of questions thereee!\n\n1) of couse u can get pregnant....any kinda sex can getu pregnant!\n\n2) leave him if he cheats on u once more after giving him a warning\n\n3) ur not fat...dont think that..im 5'3" and im 105\n\n4) try being a vegetarian..keeps u REALLY healthy\n\n5) i think jainism or buddhism or hinduism will b goodfor you\n\n6) democrat for sure.\n\n7) uhmm..i dont think u wanna get married to a guy who cheats on u\n\n8) bcuz its -5 when u ask a question but plus three when u pick a best answer for the question u asked and plus two for whenu answer a question!\n\n9) idk when ull get to the next level cuz im not sure which one ur on..but try gettng to 1000\n\n10) real estate for sure or go to school and become an asistant teacher or sumthing that wont take too long to get a degree on!
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5years after marriage after having nice fun
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You should have married her before getting her pregnant. That way you would have more of a stack then what you have now.
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Yes you can get pregnant, but personally I think you're just freaking out. Sounds like more of a mental than physical issue with you.
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Get pregnant...they will increase naturally
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try not having sex till you are married. and then learn your ovulation cycle as well as use condoms. \nor you can just have your man pull out every time. \nI've learned my ovulation cycle and been active for over 2 years with no baby... I still use condoms though
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I have been married for right at 10 years and have 2 kids. I want it all the time. My husband is another story though. He hardly ever wants it.
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married at 20-25 and first child 20-22
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No that does not mean that you won't EVER get pregnant it just means you were very lucky this time. Please see your doctor and make certain that when you do have sex again that you use protection. Having a child is serious business and not just a means to get out of the house. Think this through, you can not be as uninformed as you are making yourself sound. Seek out some counseling, this is a dangerous game you are playing right now. Wait until you are older, you don't want to spend your growing up time growing up with YOUR child. Responsibilities come on much quicker and soon enough, don't push the issue yet. Enjoy your life, but enjoy it responsibly. Think about it, if you have a daughter would you want her to have a child at a young age?
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My parents waited for 5 years before having kids, which I think was a good idea. If you get divorced in 3 years, there are no kids mixed up in it. Plus, you'll never have much private time with your spouse until the kids grow up and move out.