Ladies, why do women want to be dominated in the bedroom?
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Some women like that, or certain aspects of Domination & Submission and some don't, just like men. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with women these days. People were doing this stuff 50+ years ago (hard to believe but true), only difference is no one ever talked about it because it was Taboo. \n\nWith that Taboo slowly being lifted women (and men as well) are feeling more freedom to experience and expirement with new and different things sexually. \n\nThey try it for whatever reason they try it. They keep doing it because they like it, and/or it fulfills something in them. \n\nDomination & Submission is all about power exchange...one partner as all the power and one has none. Of course there are as many variations to this as there are couples that do it. It's also based on communication & trust. The couples communicate their needs/wants etc and trust one another to fulfill them without abusing or using them.\n\nIn response to your edit, love making can be any form of sex...doesn't just have to be the slow and steady sex. I would rather have a hot quickie with passion and love in it than slow and steady sex with some I didn't have those feelings for, and that didn't have those feelings for me.
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It depends on my mood.  Sometimes I want to be the one in charge and my guy loves that.  But sometimes I just want to see what he likes to do.  I think I am more submissive than dominant.....
645692
I am an owned slave (by choice) to a good Master in the BDS&M life-style and I like being a sex symbol.  My sexuality is my power and I revel in it and all of it's glory.  Women who are offended by it are usually repressed sexually either because of upbringing or sexual abuse issues.  They will always put those of us down who embrace our sexual desires as a gift from the gods.
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because there are people who feel that women can't handle it.  Historical its was though once a month "you what time im talking about" a woman lost her mind and was bed ridden.  this set the pattern that woman were not fit to be in the postion to lead.  There are still woman who once a month lose there mind and are bed ridden whick keeps the notion in motion
392939
Hopefully she doesn't act too much like a lady.  Guys want a S_lut in the bedroom.
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Women all vary during sex. Some are verbal where others are physical. Others are very reserved while some hold nothing back. Women that are verbal not only moan or even scream because of the pleasure being experienced, but also enjoy moaning and screaming. It boils down to this, those of us that are verbal during sex will be verbal, period. Oh yea, almost forgot, some of us also do it to pad your ego and make you feel better, along with faking orgasms.
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Yes I am a woman who pretends to not enjoy sex, I also am obedient and obey my husbands every command.  My  place is in the kitchen.
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Women who are either\noverbearing or too domineering in one extreme to women who are too submissive at the other.\n\nI'd like the woman to be, well a sort of an equal partner in my life.\n\nlooks come and go, the brains, the beauty within is what matters!
367873
Sometimes women get in that mood to wear we want all respect left at the bedroom door. It's not about us not respecting ourselves, its about making it a little more interesting in the bedroom. Next time she wants you to do that, pull her hair, she'll love it. She probably wants to be a little dominated.
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Despite the so-called "modern" mind-set of women in today's society, many still believe in what is often referred to as the ancient ways of relationships. This is the basic idea that the male is the dominate one and should therefore be the one to initiate all aspects of the relationship. This is, of course, complete crap! Women are just as afraid of rejection as men are. Good Luck!!
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In a nutshell it's because they can. I know this tho. It's not about sex, it's about power. They do it to make themselves feel more powerful and superior.
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Seriously?\n\nThere's not real methodology.  Every woman is different, and what works for one might be boring for another.  What you need to do is listen, listen, listen, and be obedient.  What makes a lover good and skillfull is the fact that they are highly observant- they note the changes in your breathing, the little gasp, that moan, the movement of your body, that say "Oh yes, there", or "Ah, harder".  Especially for women who are pretty silent and still in bed- they think people have innate sexual prowess because "My god, she read my mind and gave me everything I wanted!".  But it's just not so- listen and try to discern what she likes.\n\nIf all else fails, do for her what would feel good to you.\n\nEnjoy and have fun!
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I prefer me on top and in control.    Besides you can move better being on top.  When you can move better all goes well.  The other way around seems uncomfortable for the man.
195182
women on top, or doggy. or try what she wants, since she's the one trying to get comfortable
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A woman should be "led" and it will happen naturally. Change the way you view trying to get the "extra bit". Slow down a little, add some mystery to it....tease her to a point and back off, if you give yourself to a woman and try to "get it", it isnt a challenge, women are asked to have sex every day of their lives, they meet guys who want to give it to them daily. It makes them want it a little more if you go to their level and get emotional. Woman think with their emotions and heart, men think with their penis, try to see it from their point of view and you have a better chance of sharing the experience of love making with them.
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Girls are always possessive in nature. If she try to dominate you,I think there is no harm untill you dominate her in bed.
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The mood and setting determines what happens. Letting my girl take charge sometimes makes it more exciting and does not undermine my authority. It's like relaxing on the passenger seat while she drives as the situation warrants.