I'm gay but don't fit in to the gay lifestyle.  I'm so tired of being alone..and not willing to go to gay bars
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yeah God can give you hope, change your life correct yourself and go away the gay lifestyle start your new whole life, go to church, make friends spread the word of gGod and you will be loved by someone ESPECIALLY GOD. GOOD LUCK DUDE.
834575
your mixing with the wrong gay men babe ...expand your horizon there are lots of nice blokes out there
862545
First things first, STOP HATING YOURSELF! Nothing you do is going to change who you are - accept it and move on. You need to be more positive in your life. God made you who you are and so you need to be yourself. Go see a shrink to help raise your self-esteem and to help remove the self-hating aspect of your life. Get out into the community and meet people, great friends are the best thing in the world. You might surprise yourself and find out that you really do like being a gay man.
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honestly i dont know what u were thinking when u posted this question,is that u think u are unattractive and cant find a boyfriend or u just decided that is hopeless to try?cos i see reasons why people just decided to turn  gay and lesbian.but one think i would like to tell is dont let anyone or anything make u feel like u dont deserve what u want want and is as for u question i dont know an answer to that
828569
Dude, really try and get some help.  You clearly have issues that need attending to.  If you're gay or not, this silliness isnt healthy for you.  Not passing judgment, but clearly this is a cry for help.
533896
It isn't easy.. even going to a lesbian bar isn't foolproof. You're likely to meet ppl to dance with or just talk to for the night, but most of the time that's it.  Try dating websites, or even looking for gay/lesbian restaurants around the town you live in.
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I didn't know there were any.  Try the gay forums and clubs.  Check out the gay newspapers and websites.
994411
you cannot change your sexual orientation despite how many morons told you otherwise. Trust me they are many gay men would have just switch under pressure just like that...if it's a choice there would not be that many gay men left in this world.\nIf it's not being gay , it can be fat , ugly ,short , skinny, race, religion. There are many bullies in these world would just pick on you regardless what differences you have. But your existence does not depend on them. You exist for yourself. Until you take care of your self, appreciate yourself and ignore what these bullies said you can't begin to face the world.  Life is not a popularity contest, you do not have to please everyone to gain votes. In reality some people gonna hate you without you having to do anything. The more you react to these bullies the more they gonna pick on you.... feel indifferent, ignore the rest just be who you are.....What can't kill you will make you stronger cause you need it ...there might be time in your life the challenge can be much tougher. See it as your early challenge to overcome.....Check out your local communities support group ...should be listed under gay and lesbian. ask for youth counselling or peer support group...they are many out there just like you facing the challenge. many can help you overcome these obstacles....Have you by any chance watch any of the Xmen movies?  What do u think the message is about? The first two were directed by Brian Singer a gay man himself. They are many sucessful gaymen in this world from all walks of life that I can't even begin to tell you. Instead of seeing it as a hindrence in your life ..use it as a catalyst to propel you to do great things with your life that could influence the society!! You are 16 and the world is your oyster!!
123287
I suppose you could find guys to hang out with who are gay. Otherwise don't you have any girl buds to pal around with?
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I am sure your are a guy and you are gay!! LOL\n\nand all these people have fallen for your trap!
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Omg...I didn't get a chance to read all of it becuase I was soo scared for you. DON'T KILL YOURSELF! Please do not do that please. Life isn't as bad as you think it is. There isn't anything wrong with being gay and if you asked god to make you get rid of this problem. Maybe he's not listening and sometimes don't worry about that because we all don't know why we're here. Just live, be happy, and even if you're gay you can have a good life. I'm sooo scared that you might do something terrible. I tried to IM you but you don't accept those but whatever you do. Dont end your life. There are so many people that care about you and love you and it's soo sad to know that you feel this way. I've been through this. I wanted to kill myself once but I never had the guts and I'm glad I didn't because life gets so much better you just have to get through the hard parts. Don't listen to what people and society tell you. They are not you and they don't know how you feel. If you feel that you need to distance yourself from your family awhile then you need to do that but don't hurt yourself. That is the worst thing you can do. That wouldn't be helping your family at all. That would be killing them also. They love you even if you are homosexual I'm sure they do. If they say they don't then their lying becuase their homophobic. So keep your head up please. I don't want you to kill yourself. Email me if you need to.
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The obvious place is the gay bars (yes, I'm gay), if you're not into the bar scene try internet dating sites...go to yahoo search and type in " gay personals " and see what you come up with\nor type in " free gay personals "  you can email me at kenp_30@yahoo.com  My name is Ken
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No, but I suppose I could.  Unfortunately a lot of gay men are attracted to me.  I might as well use it to my advantage and play them for free drinks.  Then I will run and stay as far away from them as possible.
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don't fight it.  just be yourself and don't try to label it as "gay" or "straight".  you don't HAVE to be either, just be true to yourself - that's the only way you'll be truly happy with your relationships.\n\nkeep in mind that when being true to yourself and finding inner happiness, you will also come across ppl who don't understand and you'll have to deal with those ppl as they come, but remember; this is your life and you should do what brings you peace.
143884
Go to you local gay bar and get a boyfriend. Plenty of men would love you. LOL
899200
Sweetie you have to be who you are...you can't be what people want you to be.. It's a tough lesson..but your friend has to understand that it's not your choice to be gay.  You can't change your sexuality so you will have to learn to accept and like who you are...it's not easy...but the end result can be really great..
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no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.