Adults only!!! Please help I relocated to another state for a?
408245
if you are happy where you are..stay.  Change is always good as long as you are able to supoprt yourself and your child.  Give it a chance...plus there are more jobs in your related field where you are now.  New people, new job, this can be scary but not bad.  I admire you for having the strength to do it in the first place.  Stay where you are for at least 2 years and then decide if you think things where you are could work to your advantage.  Good Luck!
607678
see if there are any near by caves that are free to explore or cheap when that is what we used to do.or go to the park and swing... very fun... State parks are great and usually in great condition and are free to visit... take a blanket lay under the clouds and talk.. i hope u have a great time.. no matter what.. i bet anything you do together will be fun and you can make it so romantic... wish i was young again... at least i am in love
990496
Try this link\n\nhttp://www.carolinaliving.com/relocating/
887378
Thanks for saying you were 25.  It is difficult to know what you need to do if you know you have to move away.  You realize the closer you get, the more pain you feel when you have to leave.  I have been through it myself.  I bit the bullet and poured out my heart and told her how I felt.  It didn't get me anywhere, but I felt better about it.  It is best to lay all the cards out on the table and take the consequences, than to regret that you passed up the chance later on.  A nice quite dinner and a little snuggle time without a crowd is all it takes to get a guy to open up.
502933
You need to come to Maine!\n\nhttp://ludb.clui.org/ex/i/ME3145/
281930
Food, out of home? No! You can however look for vacant Little store fronts or small building, contact the owner and see if he will rent it to you for $1. It will be great for you and your non-profit as well as a huge tax write off for him.  Here in Fairfield County, CT a town Library is rented for a $1 a year--huge tax write off.  Check it out and don't give up.  Also you will be greatly appreciated at any Dress For Success' in your area.  They assist women entering or re-entering the workforce by providing them with a complete full interview suit (including -shoes, accessories, pantyhose, brassieres, purse, shampoo, etc..)\ngo on-line to www.dressforsuccess.org) become a Personal Shopper.
835457
ft drum horrible , my friend and her hubby moved there last yr. cold and boring place in the middle of no where. after she moved there last christmas hubby cheated on her with 2 of her friends and  divorced her and he got custody of all 3 girls and one was not even his. so stock up on books and magazines and look for groups to join so you wont be bored. good luck with the move
1157164
I think you should move to one of the suburbs like Alrington or Irving because some parts of Dallas and Ft Worth are a little rough. I've also lived in MD and was in the military so if you need more help email me @ caramelsundae1077@yahoo.com.
145398
r u 18 yr. old or older? if so why dont u just leave town and let them adults deal with each other? u can get urself a career change in a new town and everything. if ur under-age u need to be open and honest with them both about how this makes u feel. if nothing else you can say you wanna live with ur grandparents or something.
675273
Dunno... Let me go ask my buddy Brigham.\n\n(Drives to SLC/Provo...)\nBro Brig... Whaddup Bra?\nSo how are you and the lady...?\n\n18!?! Holy Crap Bro! When did you find the time for 18?\nIt's all good, later!\n\n(Drives back to Idaho...)\n\nJimbo, take it from me... stick with one. Either that or move to So. Utah...
198775
Well, if cost is an issue, move to Missouri. It is SOOO cheap to live here. I moved here from NY, and bought a beautiful home, for a FRACTION of what it would have cost me in NY. And are you black? Because we NEED black people to move here...there are like 3. That's it! I miss my black friends. But there's a lot of jobs opening up, and this place is growing, so if you get in now you'd be sitting pretty in about 5 years! You could probably rent a 1 bedroom for under $300.00
605638
Get a laywer today!!! You need to ask them what your rights are in that state. If you get a good one, you should not have to travel down there. He can get you copies of everything you need and start procedings to get the people out of your house. If it were SC, I would recommend a good one. Good luck, wish I could do more.
822558
Honey, I have been there.  I had a 7 pm curfew on weekends when I was 17 years old.  Tell your parents to trust you and if you do anything wrong, then they can take all rights away again.  You can't do no wrong until you try something.  Tell them that you are a levelheaded  responsible 16 year old and that you would like to win their trust, but you won't be able to if they keep you hidden and secluded.  Tell them you will grow up and move away.  Tell them that you will live a sheltered life and it is not good for your health.  Tell them your true feelings and make them listen.  I feel so bad for you because I was there.  Then I turned 17 and moved away from home, had my own apartment while I was a senior.  I had a full time job, gymnastics practice and school.  I did just fine and it taught me how to be mature.  I am not telling you to take off, but I am telling you to talk to  your parents because they may not understand your TRUE feelings and how you want to hurt yourself.  Just think, you will be 18 in a little bit and you will be able to begin your life the way you want and be your own boss.  Don't hurt yourself, because in all honest, it is not worth it.  Talk to the parent you are closer too!  I feel for you, I have been there.  Then I moved to FL.  I moved away so my family would realize what I meant to them and that they didn't have a hold on me.  It doesn't work for anyone, so don't runaway or anything.  I did this all as an adult okay? Let us know how it goes because I am genuinely worried about you!  Good luck!
1060404
get a job and move out.  you're an adult.
200738
First of all adulthood shouldn't be defined by a job you have, or the income you make.\n   If you in fact have a college education then perhaps you need to take reasonable risks and look for other employment.\n   $30,000 a year happens to be way above poverty level, or even most class median incomes. \n   Another change you might make is in location. If you are unhappy where you are, in what you're doing, taking a moderate risk in relocating, seeking employment elsewhere, and making an effort to find what it is that might cause you more happiness, seems to be a better course for you than the one you're on.\n    Finally, and meaning no offense; perhaps your sights are set too high at the moment? It's possible to be happy on less, and have a family, and in another location, with whatever education you have (unstated) you may find a comfortable lifestyle? 24 is young by my standards, and life is long so pace yourself.\n    I'd try looking into employment that fits your education, perhaps in another location. Monitor spending within reason. Save any amount of money you can, for such time when you are more stable and ready to take on a family or greater responsibilities, and heed this,,,"you're only young once, but can be immature forever."\n    A tired old saying,,,"Just do it."\n\nRev. Steve
127228
Most states vary, but your best best is to ask the appropriate officials of where you live.  Better safe than sorry!  Good luck
761789
Before you go moving to Massachusetts or Florida, check out the costs of living there. Consider a visit before you plop money down on an apartment lease and find yourself unhappy ... or more unhappy. Do you have a degree? Check with your school's placement office for job leads. Don't even consider moving out of state right now if you will be eligible for unemployment compensation if and when your job ends. Take the money and get a life plan rolling. Might I suggest a counselor? If you have benefits with your present employer, you may be able to get a counselor under your health insurance plan. Don't wait!!! It may be a $20 co-pay but go for it. It will be worth the money to discuss the many changes you have in mind. Job loss is stressful but then when you add financial stress and wanting to relocate and everything else, you should find someone to talk to. Once you face the fears you will be better able to overcome them. YOU are the most important person in the mix. Things always have a way of working out but you get out of life what you put into it so give it your ALL.