my gf, likes golf, and i dont really, and she says i have to try it out though, but i dont want to, what shoul
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You could sign up for a free golf lesson at www.playgolfamerica.com.  You don't need to purchase anything.  You try it tell her you gave it a fair shot and your decision is-----------.  No one could hold that against you
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Well...you cannot make her quit if she doesn't want to. That would be a very selfish thing to do. I suggest that you and her come to some sort of agreement in regard to where and when it happens. She should respect you enough to consider your feelings and agree to it. If not then I dunno.
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Ok Evan, \nHeres what I would do. Use one of your common interest, and go play golf or do whatever theyou both would enjoy. just spend the day wiht her, see what she likes and dislikes, like flowers movies ect. then when you feel like you have a better understaning of who she is and what she like, take her somewhere special, bring her flowers and tell her how you feel. If you take the time to get to know her she will most likely respond better to you! Not to mention probably be impressed with the time you took to rally understand her. Good luck, and I hope it all works out for you!\n\nSincerely\nDelivered_won
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A golf ball and a club I dont know I Dont Play golf.
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I play golf because it's fun, and you can never be "perfect" so you can always improve. Plus if your into buisness it's a very handy place to talk to possible buisness partners. Also a lot of people play it, so you could meet potential friends.
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If you are not so sure then you have to say No.  Tell her you are uncomfortable with it and that it will change the dynamic of your relationship, and not for the better.  Don't give in just to appease her,  you will not respect yourself or her.  If she loves you, she will respect your decision.
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Ask her to go out with you again, but this time go somewhere special. Nthing romantic, but something like a a miniture golf course or whatever. Then just ask her if she'll go out with you.
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Do you mean she "just wants to have fun" Dude I have been there, don't take it the wrong way, she may be a little scared of getting hurt and wants to take it slow. I think it is their way of saying it. Just like us "whats the matter" our reply "nothin" Enjoy the time with her and believe that she loves you and everything will be O.K. Don't push the issue or it will get ugly, trust me, have fun, and you will get what you want in time.
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umm are we supposed to guess or are you asking for recommendations.  I have Wilson Fat shafts, and a big bertha 12 degree driver and a NIke hybrid club.  read up on clubs on the internet and try some.  most golf courses you can rent or try things.  and if you dont golf yet buy a semi-cheap set and take lessons and you can always buy better clubs once you learn how you play and what you like.
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That is sweet of you. But find out what he/she likes? Does he/she like to Golf - golf accessories, golf balls/tees... and if he likes the other sports - Jersey would be nice. Know this person's like but NEVER ASK HIM and I promise you, he/she will be impressed!
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Sounds like a great idea. Just make sure she needs to know how to hit the ball. That way you can help her ;)
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becarful she might be trying to test you and see if your going to do it at all,and if u love her dont do it. it will hurt your relationship in the long run
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I think you have an excellent set of clubs. It seems you made the right choices putting them togeather.\n\nHowever it doesnt matter what any one else things , it only matters what you think and I believe you feel very good about the set.\n\nYour freshman golf team is going to get a great new addition, just relax and play your own game when trying out.\n\nGood luck and see you on the PGA tour in about 10 years.\n\nLeon
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i like playing basketball, not the same way i like my girlfriend (if i had one)
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And these same people think golf and chess is easy to master. We all have our preferences, so don't let them get to you. Enjoy what you are doing and continue to do your best. You can't please everyone.
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Oh, it is frustrating. I am so sorry. :( Well, if she feels that way about you and you are having a difficult time convincing her that you are not a player, as hard as it is, perhaps it is time to think about moving on. If she does not trust you now, why do you want to try to get involved with her \nHOw long have you known her? Have you told her how you feel about her? If you have and she still doesn't trust you, well....you just may have to end up biting the bullet and explaining to her that since she cannot trust you then it is time for you to move on. \n\nSorry to hear that. \nBELIEVE ME YOU DON'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT TRUST YOU. \n\nI had a boyfriend that was like that and he would follow me around everywhere and he was always questioning me as to who i was talking to and how I knew such and such a guy. \n\nOh Yeah, I forgot about that little remark that you made. Ummmmmmm..cool it, :D that may be part of the reason why she thinks you are a player. \n\nGood luck to you.
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I learned probably 80% of what I learned in golf from caddying for six years. You see a lot of different swings, good and bad. My suggestion might be just to watch a lot of golf; see what people do. See what's comfortable for you, then get out and practice, and find something that works. What Tiger does for a good swing might not be what you do for a good swing.