I work at an Inn and there is going to be a lesbian wedding... isnt that illegal in new york state?
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It won't be sanctioned by the state any more than a wedding between two cats (of any sex).
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I think that would be considered discrimination.  Talk to a lawyer.
679243
No, only if they're bi-sexual or confused. Although I did tell a butch lesbian I wanted to marry her when I was drunk. ^_^
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living with Lesbians... but for pay!
1111672
Yes it is legal for a gay man to marry a lesbian.  It is same sex marriage that is not legal.
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A Las Vegas wedding is just as legal as a wedding held in a church. There should be no problems getting it recognized.
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Go to your state gov site (ie NY, MA, CA etc...) and then look into labor laws for national holidays.
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Having recently had a Civil Ceremony (U.K.) with my partner in a registry office, followed by a blessing in a non denominational church we can categorically state that we had no wish for any Church, organization or any person to be forced to accommodate our wishes. All my partner and I wanted was to be given the opportunity to have the same legal standing and to celebrate our life past and present, as enjoyed by heterosexuals. \nI, we have never expected any one or any orginasation to accomodate our orientation, let alone the church or their congregations. Do you honestly believe that politicians can enforce their will on the Church. Can you see gay couples lining up to be married in a place, by a person who has been forced to do so, I think not.\nTrying to force your will on anybody eventually fails, look to the history books.
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I think it's illegal in San Francisco to be heterosexual.
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Here's a complete rundown from Lambda Legal Aid. I know it says Iowa on the link, but really it takes you to the California page.  At this moment California has an anti-discrimination bill and a state wide domestic partnership registry, but marriage is banned.  There is also a hate crimes law that includes GLBT people.  \n\nEvery other state is different.
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check out this site:\n\nwww.cousincouples.com\n\nIt gives a break down state-by-state of what is legal and what isn't.  Some of the information is rather disturbing.
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You have grounds for a lawsuit!  That's discrimination in its purest and truest form, so I would be contacting an attorney right away and check into any legal action you may have a right to.
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Of course it is! What state statute would make it illegal?
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If both participants are adults, it's actually legal in most states.  Marriage is out of the question, but the act itself isn't illegal.
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I would think that it would be illegal to do that to you.  It is a form of discrimination.  I would definately contact an attorney, and at least see what they have to say.  Then if you have many crossdressing friends, I would have a huge gathering at that very resturant, and order the cheapest thing on the menu and drink only water.  I know that, this doesn't exactly advance our cause of being accepted in society, but it sure would be fun.  Unfortunattely there are bigots out there, and we have to deal with them cause we are different, but that doesn't make us any less human.  I wish you luck in whatever you decide, you have more courage than many of us.
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I believe that can only happen if the company you're working for has written guidelines dictating the permissibility of such practices.  The best way to find out would be to check with management regarding company policies (most companies will have a written list they hand out to new employees regarding such matters).  If something like that isn't given out, then I would assume (from personal experience) that it's ok, but best kept discreet.  I've had several relationships that originated in the work place and never had repercussions from any of them.  Best to check with management though.
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YES - handsdown it is a form of harrasment. Not sexual of course but keeping only you on a holiday when the place is "closed"  is a form of harrasment by abuse of authority.\n\nI see some @sswipe boss who abuses power voted my answer down because they don't want people to know it is.