How will i know if the person i love loves me too the way i do, & what are the signs that he's cheating?
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there may be signs, and not, sometimes you overwork your mind and think it, and confront him and it was all in mind, other times you were right on.  I had I guy tell me "you want marriage and kids I don't" and he broke it off, later I found out he was seeing someone else, and couldn't fess up, (he got her preg., miscarried, preg. again, that stuck, they got married, divorced 2yr. later) Another one had a kid with another girl, and told me the only way to see his child she told him was to sex her.  I found that if a guy starts distancing himself, won't look you in eye, acts off, doesn't say about future plans, like tomorrow we're doing this, next week, this summer we're going to amusement park, this Christmas we're going to get this, etc. If he shows up late or not at all, gives weird excuses, his friends don't want to talk to you, I've even went to the point of asking people, or not quite stalking but driving past someplace where his car was supposed to be parked, I wouldn't recomend, I was caught once.  You could do it non chalant like if he says I have to go to Mom's to fix her washer, ask his Mom is your washer fine now? Or to Joe's to go 4 wheeling, did you two have fun the other day?  Most of the time it is our imagination and jealousy that gets the most of us, sometimes it's not your boyfriend that you have to worry about its a girl that wants to take him away, or just a girl that is a friend, DON'T ACCUSE TILL YOU HAVE ABSOLUTE PROOF, if he cheated then he didn't love you as much, sometimes there is a once thing and forgive some people screw up, but most when a cheater always a cheater they say.  But there are a few I know that have conquered that once screw up.  Give your relationship time, my relationship I started in 2002 and a yr. in my Dad talked me into breaking up, then he found someone new so did I, then we still remained friends, I broke up, he broke up, we started seeing each other, then brought it back to just friends and made it full blown, I got kicked out of parent's house because friend's with him, Dad hates, Mom loves him, now he bought a house and our relationship is better than ever, he used to say I'm going to get a house in country, I'm doing this, I, me, myself, he was a loner, then after a few years we are going to do this, you and I , and he don't even realize it, some he does, if I didn't have you I don't know where I be kind of thing,sometimes I think if you believe in God, that sometimes things are supposed to happen to make things better, the girl he had was a witch and my guy was psycho, so we got back together, if he loves you, and you know what his little ways of showing it are, you'll know, but trust him first, there were times where I thought he cheated, because it happened with others, but everytime I found out I was wrong and worried myself to death.  Just roll with it, live the moment, eventually it will come to light if he is, but hopefully he loves you.
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Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend \nSome men who suspect their girlfriends are cheating may be in denial and refuse to believe it. Well, for all those other men who are willing to seek the truth, check out these signs of a cheating girlfriend: \n\nAfter dating for several years she tells you that she's overweight and has hired a personal trainer \nYou find a charge slip in the waste basket from a nearby motel by mistake. \nYou find a present she says was from her mother. You open the box and find a pair of sexy panties. \nYou come home one day and find a cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes. \nShe's uncharacteristically spending money on new clothes. \nThe phone rings several times within a week and when you pick it up they hang up. \nShe starts acting like a teenager who has a crush on the quarterback. \nYour girlfriend tells you that she's visiting a friend who is sick. This one is a classic, and it works all the time. \nShe says that she loves you, but doesn't act like it. Remember, a person is judged on what they do, not what they say. If your girlfriend exhibits any of these signs it may mean she is cheating on you.\n\nGl\nI hope she isn't it is the worst way for a relationship to die.
930363
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.
458633
Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
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Listen to your heart and start looking for signs of cheating. I started to have the exact feeling about my ex from 9 years ago. The feeling was very strong and pretty positive. I confronted him, but he just laughed about it. Later he sort of let the cat out of the bag by telling me he was going to hang out with other women and that I should hang out with other men. \nHe wouldn't let me answer the phone, he would get mail from people in the area and hide it, I would come home and find jackets at the house that were not mine, if we went anywhere he would have me drive by the neighborhood floozy's house to see if she was home and things like that. Another thing is, he would sneak out in the middle of the night and think that I didn't know anything about it and one night I was home and this strange car pulled up, I opened the house door and they left in a hurry. \n\nIf he stays out late at night, if is on the internet a lot, if he doesn't let you answer the phone, if he prefers to go out by himself on a frequent basis. Those are some of the red flags. Listen to your heart and be on a look out!
188729
I know its hard but if he really loves u let him contact u or he'll know he has you in his hands. in less you did something wrong than you contact him.
31066
Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
424759
Its better to ask him directly, you never know may be he loves you.
590429
If you Love him and he loves you there should not be a problem. If he loves you he will make time for you! And if you love him you would not cheat on him! So there is something not right here are you sure you love him and he loves you? Just because he told you he does doesn't mean he does! If you tell him you want to see him that you need to see him and he says he is to bizzy then go find out what he is doing he may be telling you the truth or he maybe seeing someone else! But there is something that just isn't right if you loved each other you would make time for each other and not cheat on each other! So listen to your heart, your gut and find out what the problem is!
26731
if hes chanmged and dont tell you he loves you you guys done cummicate thats the main thing to look for you should like talk to him about it but dont let him know your think he is cheating
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First I would validate that s/he indeed is cheating.\n\nS/he might have other issues that you are not aware of.\n\nConfront the person if possible, in a non-hostile manner.
131450
If he loved you then he wouldn't lie to you, avoid you, or make you wonder if he loves you. I don't know what else is going on, but as usual in all relationship failures, there seems to be a lack of communication. I have said it time and time again. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY. You would know if he loved you if you two communicated. I don't know if you two are having sex or not, but if you are, odds are he is using you for that. Good luck and be strong don't chase him if he ignores you. You shiw him you are better than that.\n\n-Mike
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you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
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Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
1051485
If he is repeatedly is cheating on you then wake up he does not really love you as he should! I really do not know all the sighns but you may want to hire a private invetigator to see if he is or not as well. Does he treat you with less respect and love then he did before. Is he showing less interested in sex with you? These are some of the signs. Also talk to his friends and where here works and see if they have ever seen him with another woman. Follow him one day without him knowing it and watch him. Check his pockets when he gets home and also check his wallet and his vehicle too. What makes you think he is cheating? Has he ever been unfaithful to you before?
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The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns. If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
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If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.