Shy Girl Giving me Mixed Signals.  Help please.?
400514
ok, sometimes, we get so nervous that we don't say anything\nand maybe a couple of hours later we think, that we made the worst mistake in the world, and if she ignored you is because she felt bad about it, believeme, when it comes to guys i have made so many mistakes, and the guys alwaysthought that I didn't like them but infact i was inlove and it was because they made me 2 nervous
371151
Hey, dont rush girls.  No matter how much we may say, at times we just freak out regretfully the next moment we're alone, believe me.  If she keeps on saying it though, she's probably toying with u, being glad to get ur attention.
685517
Just ask her.  She is probably jsut as shy as you are.
123950
i know the feeling, same problem here. sit down and tell them that you are getting mixed signals. dont insinuate anything because they may not have the same intentions as you. i think your best bet is to be straight forward and honest with this person. you will feel better when you get a real answer, rather than an assumption.
188837
You should ask her out she is probably waiting for you to ask her out.. MAKE A MOVE!!!!!GOOD LUCK!!!!
882169
express an interest in her.  most girls are too shy to make the first move and wish the guys would do it.  dont take things to fast tho..but dont be too hard to get  GOOD LUCK
708672
maybe if you arent the shy type tell the girl that got made fun of that it wasnt you who made fun of her and that you told her that you told the other guy to shutup. trust me a girl likes the feeling that she is being protected like that. and for the other girl that you like like. i think you should tell her your real feelings for her.hope it helps
910055
Maybe he is shy and doesnt really know how to show his true feelings about how he feels about you. You should talk to him and let him that he is confusing you with all these mixed signals and you want to know what is it that he really feels about you. \n\nI hope I made some sense and I hope I understood your question.
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
691884
Well, she might like you, but she's afraid of saying so; she might be shy and afraid that you don't like her.  Or she might be shy in general.  You should go up to her and tell her!!  That's the only way to know for sure (but make sure that you're sensitive about her feelings too).
277799
OKAY GIRL, FIRST OFF, HE'S DOING BOTH! HE'S PLAYING DUMB SO THAT MAYBE YOU TALK TO HIM A LITTLE MORE...LET ME TELL YOU GUYS LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP...IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM. THERE ARE MANY POSSIBILITIES TO THIS SITUATION...FLIRT WITH HIM A LITTLE BIT...OBSERVE HIS REACTIONS TO THE COMMENTS YOU MAKE THAT ARE DIRECTED TOWARDS HIM...WHEN YOU ARE AROUND HIM JUST BE YOURSELF...IF NOT HE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL EXTREMELY AWKWARD...MAYBE EVEN MORE SO...PLUS IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU AND WANT TO BE AROUND YOU MORE AND MORE...JOKE WITH HIM...IF YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS WHILE KEEPING YOUR COOL, HE WILL DEFINATELY STOP PLAYING THE GAMES...HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY INTO HIM...AND TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THAT! HOPE I WAS OF SOME HELP...
339325
If you ask her, she'll probably say no BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU!! Sounds like she's reeling you in slowly, showing interest in you, but then showing interest in thers to make you doubtful and keep you interested. Try being freinds for a while first, and let the relationship grow from there.
423410
She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.
836997
honey,he likes you,and yet feels very shy.\nAw give this guy sometime to come around...and He will.\nTell him you are going out that night,would he be intersted in joining you?\nI bet he will say yes,if not yes he will say,he`ll see what he can do(wink........... yeah that means he will be there)\ngood luck*hugs*
1054577
I think she likes you she is just to shy or she likes the guy to make the 1st move ask her on a date the worst thing she could say is no but then atleast you know what she is thinking
84737
if you asked her how she felt before and she hasnt made an effort to tell you differently, her feelings might be the same. She might also be shy and hoping you will ask again..its hard to say. Has she been acting differently around you lately? Do you ever hang out with her alone, and if so what kind of convos do you have? If they are personal and important than thats a good thing.\nPrepare yourself, she may not have feelings for you. If you decide to ask her again she might get creeped out, so just watch her behavior and see how she acts.
451738
make the first move. a to of girls are like that. she probably likes you but she is just too shy to make the first move!!!!!! go for it!!! and if this has been happening for 2 years then def go for it. she probably will say yes!!!!