Is it possible to be completely honest with your mate?
402221
yes i personally did !! if you are in a relationship but yet you can't tell your mate everything then their is something wrong going on .. you both have to be able to talk about everything ..thing's happened in the past ..thing's happening right now ..silly things that you do .. stupid dreams..embarrassing stuff ..just everything .. and he gata support you in every possible way not just make a funny of you or get mad all the time !!
1113576
no easy way, she will find out eventually so just be honest. Good luck.
656301
yes it can, but you both have to be honest and trust each other. good communication is also another key factor in making this kind of relationship work.
305199
You can lie if you want ... but ask yourself if you want her to lie to you too?  Because once you LIE you wonder if your partner is too.  \n\nIf it is something BIG I would not lie because BIG things have a way of coming out to haunt us later.  A little thing "yeah, I like your outfit" that is called keeping peace in the relationship and is OK.
830218
Yes please! The sooner the better I say! So many times I ask myself how much hurt could be avoided if men/women were honest and up front with their intent?
403937
You're absolutlly right. You MUST have trust and honesty in a relationship. You can't build one on a foundation of lies. The relationship will only fall apart and cause pain for you. Of caurse love plays a major role in all relationships too, :)
478602
only problem is not being honest.
649357
Be Honest and true to him
630775
Well, that's a hard one.\n\nOf course I would want to know.  Honesty is the most important part of a relationship.\n\nHowever, if the person has cheated, I would have a hard time sticking to the marriage plans.  I don't tolerate cheaters.  Or liars for that matter.
1147897
That's easy he or she will tell you they do, and prove it, or at least not make you feel like crap. In any case you will believe or not, regardless if is true or not some will believer other just because they attractive it would be best to go by actual knowledge of the individual who said it by that i mean how often is that person honest, kind and so on.
77100
I believe that being honest and open with your mate is crucial. Period.\n\nWith that said, I also believe that if most people live long enough, MOST will have at least one deep, dark, secret, that will NEVER be shared with ANYONE.
442517
I've been in that situation. Tell the guy up straight what you truly think. He will be grateful later for your honesty.
76446
The only way to know for sure is if he admits it or if you catch him in the act, but here are some helpful indicators...\n\n1. Your mate is more attentive to your needs than usual. This is due to the guilt feelings experienced by the cheater in the early stages of his or her affair. The attention will \ndiminish as the affair continues. \n2. Your mate begins buying you gifts -- lots of gifts. These are "Guilt Gifts" purchased because your partner feels guilty about betraying you and showering you with presents makes him or her feel better. \n3. Your mate's behavior is causing a gut feeling in you that something isn't right. If this happens, pay attention to your instincts. Ignoring them means you want to blind yourself to the truth. You know your mate's habits, routines and attitudes better than anybody, so be suspicious when these things change. \n4. Your mate frequently picks fights with you. Doing this gives him reason to get mad and storm out of the house and thus the opportunity to meet a lover. A cheater may also do this because of mixed emotions he is feeling about betraying you. \n5. Your mate constantly talks about your relationship ending when you fight or argue. She says things like, "What would you do if our relationship ended?" or "If anything ever happened to us, I would always love you like a friend." In general, she seems very negative about your relationship. Your mate makes these statements because she has a lover to fall back on if your relationship ends. If your partner repeats these kinds of statements often, be suspicious.
242713
There is no machine by which u can check. Just try to listen and understand him carefully. If he share his things with you, he may be sincere. but there is no hard and fast rules for this.
816325
For those that think that it is easy for a guy to confess or admit, it definitely isn't true(Personal experience). Sometimes all they need is a little hint. If you do not want to tell him, i suggest you look for the extreme. Guys whom usually like someone will act exceedingly rude/polite as a rule. Good Luck!
261478
take everything in it's context.no impulsive decision.....and of course you need to be honest with your wife,family,lover and yourself............
945072
Honesty is tops.  Then of course he would have to be easy on my eyes. ( we all have different opinions on looks), he has to have a steady job, not alot of money, but he has to work for what he has.   What they own is not an issue with me anyways.\n\nIF we both work, we can save and buy things together.