What issues are related to men looking at pornographic material perhaps 2-3 times a month?
403149
Perhaps you like to do it so go ahead. No problem with that if you are not a maniac.
576187
Sounds like a GREAT GUY! I've never seen porn but I have seen the effects it has on marriages, families and relationships. Porn is a disease that effect the mind..maybe your husband understands that and does NOT want to become a pervert..like some have
411516
Because the fantasy provided by an internet porn site is probably more appealling than his real life sex life.  \n\nOr, he appreciates it as a supplement to his existing sex life.\n\nYou will never find a sex therapist who says looking at porn is unhealthy unless it becomes an addiction.
157940
It can spice up a relationship that needs help or help you take care of your own needs once in a while, but too much of a good thing can cause problems.  Sometimes when people watch porn it gives them a false image of how things should be.  A happily married man becomes uninterested in his loving wife, because she doesn't look or act like what he's seen.  I say use with caution and sparingly.  Once in a while isn't bad, but you don't want to become an adict.
867131
I haven't heard of anyone saying they think it's disgusting for women to watch male gay porn. I know straight men are very vocal in being anti anything gay male. I doubt there is a double standard because the majority of women who aren't turned on by m/m porn are doing so just cos it doesn't do it for them. You're in a minorty and you ought to celebrate that difference.
840470
There are two kinds of males who use the internet.  Those who hide their porn well and those who do not.  Guys look at porn, it is nothing against you or any other woman.  It does not mean that he doesn't think you are attractive or that he would rather be with someone else.  I'm not saying it's a pleasant thing to discover, but you gotta admit, it's better than him cheating on you.\nYou can allow yourself to get all frustrated or you can try to fix it.  Often, things become routine and not as interesting.  Men like variety.  That is why some men cheat.  But it is totally unnecessary and unacceptable.  You can provide your man with all the variety he needs.  Perhaps a little new lingerie would be a good idea.  I would recommend a DVD on Kama Sutra Tao,  The Sensual Art of Making Love.  It is a very good dvd you can watch together.  It is done in good taste and not crude.  It will relight his and your fires and you won't leave the house for days.   ;-)
378649
Depends.\n\nPorno mags.. no.. but its unhealthy to be addicted to it and you should seek counseling.\n\nLive women.. like camming with you on line... ya.. that's cheating.
264057
Basically, your man needs to do an inventory of himself.\n\nHe abuses drugs and alcohol FOR A REASON.\n\nHe abuses pornography FOR A REASON.\n\nYou can't find love in a fifth of Bicardi.\n\nYou can't find love smoking hay in the barn all day either.\n\nYou can't find love even when you observe porn stars seemingly defy the laws of physics in the bedroom either.\n\nHe is looking for love in all of the wrong places . . . and until he SEES and UNDERSTANDS that, you are fighting an uphill battle.\n\nCOMMUNICATION.\nCOMMITMENT.\nCHARACTER.\nCHRIST.\n\n(the Four Legs to this TABLE known as marriage).\n\nYou need to make sure your husband ain't cut off any of THESE LEGS.\n\nYou NEED a sturdy table, you don't need a wobbly stool!\n\nYou have been warned.
588773
Unless you are obsessed or ignoring other aspects of your life, don't worry about it. Your body (especially your penis!) will tell you when you are doing too much...and you just won't feel like doing it for a while. Once or twice a day is average for most young guys and is completely normal. Of course for some, once a week is okay while others might do it three or four times a day at times. It's all normal! Enjoy!
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I agree with 'leadbelly'....the real issue here is the sending of porn... funny Internet pics, jokes, stories.. are one thing but sending actual porn...that's another...addiction to pornography is a real problem...it hinders peoples ability to enjoy the real thing...contrary to 'jessica rabbit''s comment...when porn addiction is present you CAN'T meet the fantasy no matter what you do..it's not good enough..(do your research next time) \n   Do some research into porn addiction and see if your man fits any of the other 'symptoms'...you may already know the answer..and if he does try to get help because it will destroy a relationship
643541
I'm not understanfing what problems you're having?  You want to know if looking at gay porn is wrong?  Well you're gay...so I don't see why not.  I mean if you're looking at it in a religious way, I don't know, not a religious person.  But I don't think there is anything wrong with you looking at gay porn.  Straight guys wantch straight porn, so why not look at gay porn if you're gay?  haha I hope that's what you were going for.
912673
Very good that you recognize that there is pluses and minuses to porn.  Some would argue that it is a double edged sword as some who view it may get satisfaction from it and thus leave potential victims alone.  While other may say that once viewed the chances of a person trying to enact what he has viewed on someone and this increase the rape stats.  There is a fine line where porn becomes harmful and obviously snuff films are way over the top.  Some couples enjoy viewing porn video's and/or first couple minutes anyway as a prelude to their lovemaking sessions.  Others are offended by it and can see no redeeming qualities in it at all.  I suppose it all comes down to how mature and people realizing that it all make believe while viewing.  But when the perverted or pedophiles watch such they often have difficulties separating truth from fiction and this can give porn a very bad name.
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None!\nOtherwise we all should have problem or be impotent even!\nOn the contrary, scientists says that a regular sexual life (mastu*bation too) helps the reproductive system to keep healthy and increase the performance (desire) too.\nSomebody even plays more time in a day according his exigency and need.\nSo, don’t worry for that, while you only ought to care to don’t become too much addicted.\nMastu*bation is a normal event, and with the age and stable relations, decreases till vanish.
945760
If it's porn you want to watch, it's normal, your computer must have some kind of V-chip installed in it. If not, well go get it fixed
930878
Pornography is like cigarrettes: it's addictive, it's poisonous, and people who make it and use it like to act like it's no big deal.\n\nAll men do NOT watch porn on a regular basis. There are some men who watch it all the time, some men who watch it once in a while or perhaps watched a few when they were younger, and men who don't watch it at all. I can't tell you which category your boyfriend falls in.\n\nSign to watch out for: he keeps a bottle of lube near the computer, by the TV, or any other place that is so blatantly obvious to anyone who walks in the room.\n\nIf your boyfriend just REFUSES to talk to you about this, then you may try couples counseling or individual counseling. In the meantime, try to decide if his porn-watching is a deal-breaker for you, or if you are willing to be okay with it. If he's dismissing your feelings completely and just not listening to you anymore, it may be time to get out of an unhealthy situation.
578653
Pick up a porn magazine.
633624
If you possess a strong, rational mind, you won't see the attraction in pornography.  It only serves as another addiction for a mind that is already corrupted.  I think anyone who is heavily involved in pornography would be easy prey for almost any type of addiction if they did not have pornography available.\nAs the old song says, "Ain't nothin' like the real thing, baby..."