Is it safe to have intercourse at the age of 18 with my boss who is 31?What are all the precautions?
406894
I don't think it is a good idea to do that. The precautions you should take is have condoms, be on birth control, get a sponge or don't have intercourse with your boss at all.
1043056
Again, my answer is dont waste your time and energy on such things at this age.  How old is he?  It could be illegal for sure.  However, this is an act of intimacy, nothing generic as a kiss.  Too many horrible diseases out there and no touching below the belt is a good advice in my book.  Girls today are "too easy" and this act is not something that should be a common or given thing to do.    Worry about graduating and focus on things in your life that will advance you as a person.  Experimentation is all well and good but at your age, these things are a DONT.
39808
Actually, it depends on what state you are in. Yeah, 18 is legal anywhere, but in some places it would be okay for someone who is 26 to be with someone who is 16.
967609
Speaking as a Dad with a daughter about your age I have to tell you that I would worry about it... Boys his age have very strong sexual urges... If your mom finds out that you have had sex with him after he turns age 18 then he will get arrested for statutory rape and will go to jail.  That will most likely ruin any chances of him ever having a normal life with a good paying job... \n\nAlso, there is a big difference in mental age between 14 and 17... He may already be driving and is starting to find his way in the world... If he goes to college you can be sure that he will find a college girl because there is so much freedom to do what you want on a college campus and more social situations will come up... Do you think that he will want to show off his 15 year old girlfriend to his college buddies?  Don't bet on it!\n\nHave patience.. Stick to someone your own age (or no boyfriend at all... just friends who happen to be boys).... when you are in college a 3 year difference in age won't seem that bad but at 14 there is a world of difference.\n\nYou may not like my answer but you did say that anyone with an opinion can answer...  Good Luck!
713491
If you're under 18, you should reconsider having sex with an older man.  You have a long life ahead of you, and an older man, at this time, is not in the same phase of life as you.  You need to finish high school, go to college, and become who you want to become first.
3972
i am not sure if there is a legal age to have sex. f a 2 year old has sex with a 2 year old they wont be arested for it. It is more matter of what age can you have sex with anyone you want(regardless of age) and it be consider consentual. that depens on the state but an 18 year old can have sex with who ever they want to because they are legaly an adult. in my state you have to be with in to years of the age of the person you have sex with( if they are 18 or over) for in mot to be consider stat. rape
133179
Take your time with this relationship.  But no sex, or you will end up sending him to prison and end his military career before it begins.  Both of you are young, you may be very mature, but the law requires you to be older to give consent to having sex.  If he is willing to be in a relationship without sex until you are 18, then go for it.  If he is not willing to wait, don't get him in trouble by having sex with him.
11062
Nope.. you can like whomever you want.. according to our government, however, you aren't allowed to touch them.  (I believe the thighs, crotch, butt, and breast area is specifially off limits).. You can make out and kiss, though.  \nI believe if you're 21, you can have sex with someone that is 17.. but you're 22, so nevermind.\n\nEven with the family's permisison, if the state finds out you've been intimate, you're arrested and charged.
528702
The age of consent in Michigan is 16, so yes it would be legal. You can already engage in "sexual contact" legally, because you are within 5 years of each other.
103410
Once again, I know you're not going to want to hear this...but I say NO.  There is a reason your parents don't love him - he's too old for you.  Age does not become as much of a factor when you're older (read:  above 18), but right now, it's just plain illegal.  Some states have an age of consent (usually 16 or 17) but if your parents want to, they can press charges against him if it goes beyond anything friendly.  \n\nNow, I also know this won't get me a best answer, but that matters not and I will tell you anyway - I've been in a similar situation.  I was 14 and very much "in love" (I doubt that you really do love him, after all, how long have you known this older, very nice, very HOT! guy?) with a 19 year old.  When my father found out about him, he pressed charges to the full extent of the law.  To make a long story short, my sailor boyfriend (he was in the Navy) ended up paying a huge fine, got Dishonorably discharged and did some jail time.  I don't know if he had to register on a sex offender list as this was 11 years ago.  That makes me 25 (almost 26) now.\n\nI have to ask you, what on earth would a 22 (almost 23) year old want with a 16 year old?  You say he's very nice - I hate to tell you, but it's probably an act.  The only reason an older guy would be interested in a teenager (yes, you still are a teen, even if you are blossoming into a woman...you're still a minor) would be to get into her pants.  The other reason is that you might still be a virgin (I hope so - don't go rushing into that) and well, a lot of guys like that.  I doubt there's a lot that you have in common, due to the age gap.  \n\nIf he really does care for you, he will wait until you're 18.  You won't even be able to drink until he's 27 or 28!  Is he gonna want to wait that long before you can enjoy a night on the town?  Believe it or not, I know a guy who was arrested for having a drink at home with his wife, who was at the time 20...she was still underage.  \n\nHow did you meet this guy?  It is kind of bizarre for there to be such an age difference...is he a family friend?  A friend's older brother?  Please don't tell me you have met him online.  Teens and twentysomethings travel in different social circles.  There might be another reason your parents don't like him (aside from the obvious) that you don't know about.  How do you know he's never been in serious trouble?  Have you done a background check on this guy?  He might have spent a night in jail for whatever reason, have outstanding debts etc that he is hiding from you.  \n\nYou shouldn't go behind your parents' backs - you will lose their respect and obviously you have no respect for them either.  Perhaps have him come over and have a discussion between the 6 of you (make his parents come also) over dinner.  Perhaps you two can stay in contact (as FRIENDS only) for a couple of years, then explore a relationship.  Keep in mind then, he's gonna be almost 25...What do HIS parents think about it?  Granted, he's an adult (whereas you are not, even though you might think you are) and his parents really don't have a say in what he does, but it would be good to get their opinion also.  They'll probably say the same thing everyone else is.  \n\nAlso, if your parents decide that you can date him by going with what STRANGERS online decide, then they have some serious thinking to do about their choices.  No matter who says yes (age is just a number I've seen posted a few times here), it is still ILLEGAL and I can't believe they would actually consider it.\n\nI'm sorry that I wasn't a help to you, but you should know how it really is.  Any adult (especially judges) will look at this and say it's a classic example of "guy wanting to get into a young girl's pants" and then lock him away.  Wait the 2 years.  Hell, you might even hate him when you start to
1028986
Well being that you used the word appropriate to ask this question I will assume you do not care about the actual legal age. First you should make sure he is not the right guy, but a good guy you know the responsible type. Usually these are the ones that take precautions, and they take their time with you. Most importantly you should do it because you feel it is the right time for you no one else can know this but you. You should always make sure that the other person is clean, and you should talk to him about it first if you feel ready. I will give you an example. \n  I had sex when I was 16. With a guy I only knew for a couple of weeks. And I tell you the honest true 4 years later now we are married, and we are planning on having our first child. It was not that way with my Mother you she she had sex when she was 16, and got pregnant with me, and my biological father left her to raise me alone. My aunt had sex the first time when she was 19, and by the time she ended up with th second child with her partner they split up. So you see it is different for every one. It all depends on you, and your partner. I hope this helps, and I wish you the best luck.
1143241
Be responsible. Think clearly. You should study the consequences surrounding sex. I know you're a minor, but that doesn't stop kids from doing the deed, so if you feel that you must -- which is not advised, do your research man. Make sure you aren't passing anything along to her, or that you aren't going to get her pregnant and put both of your lives on hold. Make sure that you know what can happen as a result of doing anything beyond kissing and hugging. It leads to sex, which is what I'm thinking you might want to experience. Trust me, it can wait. You will not die and of course you may be picked on by the fellas who have done so, but some of them will even be lying about it. Your girlfriend won't be ready, I can tell already, she is still getting around the stage of getting to know you, you've been dating for a month. That's why there are different types of diseases out there because people don't fully know the people they're dealing with, shoot, there are 30 year olds that don't even know their spouses. But in any case, I wish you luck and hope that you will consider waiting to experiment sexually, because if not you may deeply regret it later on in life, and also by waiting you won't freak your girlfriend out either.
926246
It depends on the laws of your state.  Generally speaking, when both people are under 18 and just dating there are no laws being broken.  Some states have laws regarding youth under the age of 14.  But as long as the two aren't having sex, there's nothing to worry about.  In some states it is illegal for two people under 18 to have sex.  And of course it's not legal for anyone 18 and older to have sex with a minor.
980644
You are gonna have a hard time until the kids are all older, and his job doesn't help with things...\n\nJust accept that at the moment, stuff isn't going to work properly and deal with that... As for sex, well, you are in trouble there...
184127
And even if you engage in no sexual conduct whatsoever, your boyfriend may be charged with Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor, Custodial Interference, Kidnaapping and more.\n\nBasically, the law is written around a very simple concept:  18 year-olds and 14 year-olds have very little in common.  14 year-olds are still figuring out who they are.  They can't drive or work or do much of anything except go to school.  18 year-olds already know who they are.  They're not in school.  They have jobs and cars.  Why would an 18 year-old want to spend time with a girl who's 14?  Why isn't he capable of dating a girl who's his own age and who has had the same experiences as he has?\n\nThe answer is that any 18 year-old who wants to spend time with someone 4 years younger, is not well adjusted socially.  He shouldn't be around children.  And children like you shouldn't be around him.  Find a better boyfriend, one who has more in common with you.
506308
No, that could be very dangerous. How old are you? I would definetly not have some over you never met and mess around.\nThis is joke right? You got to know how dumb that is. I hope you figure this out.
111104
It's unlawful to have sex with someone under 18, being as he is older but still a minor he still could be charged with rape. When your both over 18 and adults then your legal.