Question for guys, do you like it when girls ask you out or do like doin it yourself?
397082
it would be a nice change. guys do eventually get tired of asking and getting rejected. and besides... the chances of a guy saying yes is much higher than the reverse.\n\ni know I would like it.
419094
Well, as a guy, it's nice to know that I can do something for her w/o it being something specific (Like I'm in the computer Field so she asks me when she has a problem w/ her's). It's nice when it's "there's a HUGE BUG, KILL IT!" or "my table keep falling apart" and I can fix it for her.\nWhile some guys might like that, I'm not one of them. I want to the typical "guy" things for her, otherwise I would just feel like I'm taking up space.\nI know that you should only be looking @ this person for romantic purposes but that's very idealic, and not a reality for most men.
1085454
I had this girl come up to me and say that we should hang out sometime. I knew that she would go out if I asked her and she had not asked me out so she had nothing to lose. \nShe scored a date and we ended up going out for a little while. \nOpen the door doing something like that without putting yourself all the way out on the line.
1019798
i would like the guy to make the first move.  i tend to go traditional in that sense.  i don't like the idea of making the first move b/c i don't want to come off as easy.  i think it's more acceptable for the guy to do it and if he does, i feel more confident and want to please him.
589201
yeah girls do like it until they love u soo much or u must satisfy the girl in that way that she puts ur hand in hers..........lol......
163829
Yes, it's okay!  Somebody's gotta get the ball rolling and sometimes that somebody just happens to be a chick.  If you want to ask a guy out, go for it. :)  Best of luck!
354913
it makes us look to vulnerable, if we did ask a guy out; he can either take advantage of you; because he already knows you like him, or we have to face humiliation/rejection...i have gone up to a guy once, and made a fool out of myself, but hey, i have guts, and its no big deal...but i will give all guys props going up to girls! how can you take the pressure!!!
451469
Girls love being asked out so just say excuse me um would you like to go out sometime if she says no then just say ok and remember that it was good you asked her because if you hadnt you would have never known what she would have said also if she says no just know that she isnt right for you and mabey try again later if she says yes then good for you
579
Girls are people too.  Just casually find out what she likes and then ask if she wants to do it (whatever it is) with you.  As in "Did you see that preview for King Kong?" etc  You can always try "My friends and I were gonna do that (go see that) Saturday, wanna come?"
247762
Sure.  It beats waiting around for him to ask you out, doesn't it?
1015534
When I like a girl, I get all goofy around her. Not weird, but more silly. I guess its just my way of getting a little closer to her to gage her potential response if I were to ask her out. I may joke, too, but never in a mean way. I want her to say yes, after all.
234333
well, when i wanna guy to ask me out, i would probably like them to say 'i like you alot. would you like to see a movie with me this saturday?' works for me everytime!haha
895546
ASK! (that is how I got my man) We flirted everyday and then I just asked if he wanted to go have a drink some time and he took me to lunch the next day.  We laugh about it now (3yrs later) about how I was more of a man than him by asking him out. Go for it girl, worse come to worse he will say no.  You can not live your life hiding go for it. A man likes a women who is not afraid to take risks.
1159287
Asking someone out is basically asking for their approval. Show her that you are secure enough with yourself that while her approval would be welcome, you'll be perfectly fine without it.  In other words, don't press the issue.  Remember, self confidence is very attractive. \n\nThink of it this way, if she doesn't give you an aswer that is your answer.
880221
I don't think it is wierd. I think many guys would appreciate if a girl would ask them out, but guys will not admit it. Try it and see. The guy may be surprise, but he may also have a good time. Good Luck!
247321
I like them simple !!! I'll fall for " hey whats your name?" or " would you like to dance?" Those are good enough for me. I hate it when guys try to get too creative cause I will laugh right in their faces. Be yourself.
478586
The way many girls seem to have trouble just being honest & upfront with men.  I've seen questions on here like "how do I get a guy to ask me out without letting him know I'm interested in him".  Wouldn't it be so much easier to walk up to the guy & ask him if he was single & might like to go out?  We do it all the time, & appreciate when a woman will ask us out instead.  I personally find this approach from a woman a refreshing & mature change of pace that will quickly earn a woman my respect.