Whats the best type of flower or plant to give to a family after a death?
396899
I say any kind of flower is great. My father died in 2000 when I was 18 and I have to say one of the things that helped me through it all were the flowers. Flowers have a cheering effect on people. Someone might be so far down in the dumps, they don't see a way to get out, but seeing this mass of flowers, all colors, all types, it reaches people and at least they can smile for even a split second.\n\nAs mentioned already, it is not a bad idea to give plants that can grow afterwards. My grandmother is very dedicated to her garden (this was her son that died, my father) so people gave roses, all different kinds, but potted. After the funeral, my grandmother took them all home and made a rose garden in my fathers name. It has been 6 years now and the flowers are in full bloom. Everytime she sees them, she smiles. They are a positive reminder of her son and the beauty of life. \n\nOf course these people may not be ones for gardening or may not even have the space to plant them, but potted plants or even trees are acceptable. I think it is wonderful to give life when someone passes. They may be gone, but there is a reminder of their life always present.
1137200
My dear friend, \nI learned what the color and relationship meaning of roses meant a long time ago. I would surely think you could look these up today, easily via the internet or to call a local flouriest.\nI recommend that you buy two of each of the flowers that you learn about, put them all together, and present to your loving parents. Include a card that explains the meaning of each pair of colors on a card and just let them absorb. After a weekend of privacy, they will surely be every so glad to see you and discuss all that happened. Hmmm, want to fill us in? God Bless you, such a sweet and thoughtful heart.
564042
why not plant atree  or build a memorial garden and then the whole family can go an place thing there whenever they want\n\na nice touch is a garden with a photo of the person and flowers and things around the photo \n\nxxxxxxxxxx
686662
Could be a few things.  Yes, the coffin.  The Tombstone or Creamtory Urn.  It could also describe the flowers that you place their in respect every year.
1181817
An exotic (and easy to care) plant, like a succulent.\n\nI bet you it's going to be an original gift.  It is also something not compromising, and not even too expensive.\n\nHowever, the trick is in the vase.
187933
Well first of all let me say I am sorry about the death in your family.\n   If I were in a situation like yours, what I would do is make a photo album of all her pictures and everything that was apart of her life. Or I would plant a bush of her favorite flowers. \n   I hope this helps!!!\nGood luck to ya!
43686
The girft should be something like a photo of you and your family of a photo album full of pictures that your mom would love a  cherrish more then flowers no affence . My mom always loves when I give her things like that because she never imagines  that I would think of something like that . Hope you find the perfect gift for your mom .
157613
Fond rememberance and happy memories.\n\nGood luck and my condolences on your loss.
1008943
You can never go wrong with flowers! Especially roses. Write (or copy, if you prefer) a cute (preferably funny) poem. Have them delivered to her door by you or somebody else. =) Here's an idea for a card..."If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live a day without you" ... Oh, and don't forget the chocolate! yumm
514303
After cremation, your ashes can be made into diamonds for jewelry, etc.\n\nhttp://www.lifegem.com/
650461
Get your Mom some nice flowers, or a very pretty plant, and a framed photgraph of her and her kids, or simply of you.\n\nA sweet card, or a handwritten note telling her that you love her, and why, would be great. Simple is good. This does not have to be Pulitzer-Prize-winning stuff. She is your Mom!
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I am so sorry that you are mourning the loss of your loved ones.  Although I have never experienced the death of a descendant, I have seen how much grief death can cause.\n\nIt seems like you are already doing one very good thing that can help you a lot: prayer.  As you continue to pray, God can speak peace to your heart.  I have also found that reading scriptures is a good way to invite the presence of the Holy Ghost into my life.  Whenever you participate in something that is true, He will testify of its truth, and His presence can give you comfort because He is a Comforter.\n\nAlso, you can learn a few doctrines that can be especially comforting in times like this.  Our Heavenly Father has made it possible for our families to be together forever.  Death does not need to be the end of our family relationships if we don't want it to be.  It is possible for you to be joined to members of your family in a way that you can continue to enjoy your relationships forever.  To learn more about this, I encourage you to speak to a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
51436
Table cloths, place mats, quilts for your bed, throw blankets for your couch, lace curtains, dish cloths, towels & face cloths, sheet sets & pillow cases, a set of flatware, pot holders, a baby blanket & layette set, scented sachets (to give everything a pleasant smell), head & neck scarves, your mom's wedding dress & veil (you may want to wear it or pass it on to your children). You might want to check with your mom for more items that she would suggest. She might have items that she's been saving for your hope chest, like a copy of the family photo album, or your christening outfit. These are all acceptable. I want to commend you for carrying on this old family tradition. Many young ladies are too concerned with which guy they want to sleep with, not even planning much beyond tonight, let alone a future with one man. I hope you will keep this tradition alive in your family and pass it on to the next generation. You might want to also include a story of your family...like a family tree...but in story form. Interview older family members, writing their family stories down, passing it on to future generations. It will really help you when telling your kids family stories of their great grandma, long after she's gone. Get their stories now, before it's too late. Then, keep them in your hope chest. <*)))><
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I'm sorry for your loss.  The urn sounds lovely.  I would suggest planting maybe one of mom's favorite plants in it.  Draw straws to determine who gets it.  That family keeps it for a year, and then at Christmas next year gives it to another family member.  \n\nYou could keep this tradition going for a long time ;)  \n\nI lost my grandmother earlier this year and I got some of her ashes in a tiny urn.  Part of me wants to scatter the ashes under an orange tree she planted probably 30 years ago and that produces the sweetest navels you can imagine - but I'm torn, also, on what to do with this tiny thing. I suppose I could just keep it where it is as a reminder, but I dunno...\n\nAgain, I'm sorry for your loss.
174410
thyme, rosemary, "spinks" or wild garlic come to mind
410350
I think the best thing you could give them is something they would love...if they have a hobby or passion find something that reacts that. The most important thing is that you put some thought into something..for example if they love to cook you could buy them a cookbook and write a note about how much you loved their cooking and how you hope you enjoy this book you like so much. If they hate to cook buy them a gift certificate to a restaurant. Write a note about how much you enjoyed their hospitality. \nIf they love to garden you can buy them a plant.\n\nThe most important thing is to personalize the gift and note as much as possible. It should not be about the money but about the time and energy you put into the thank you. \n\nI completely agree with you that flowers are too impersonal.
566541
Send your Baby flowers and have the card read- (your baby's name) these flowers are just a small token of how much I love you, & your mother, the best gift i could ever give you is to be thankful & loving to your mother; my wife! Please keep her company for me until I can come home and hold you both in my arms! Love your Daddy!