Do you have to be fat to get a boyfriend?
403245
Okay, don't cry.  That is why they are boys.  I am sure you are a beautiful girl.  I had the same issue when I was your age in school. The boys would always go for the really thick girls that looked like they flunked 3 grades.  I used to wonder "what is wrong with me".  I found out that it wasn't me at all.  Some of these girls were fast, meaning they were easy.  They put out and what boy isn't going to be interested in some fast girl that can't say no.  I know it is hard and it was for me too.  Try not to pay it any mind.  I have seen these same girls and boys now since they are adults and my have they changed, and not in a good way.  Don't get down on yourself.  You WILL have a boyfriend but don't get hung up on this.  Just relax and don't think about it so much. I am sure if you are as pretty as you say you are that some boy probably already secretly admires you.  Hang in there, it won't be long before someone sweeps you off your feet.
561895
How fat are we talking?\nI love fat guys they give you something to hold on to.\nBut I don't want a guy to have bigger bobs then I have.\nI hope you find the girl that deserves your beautiful soul.\nIf you want to talk e-mail me at Horserunner92@yahoo.com\nI also love it when a guy has a big heart as well.
653565
I don't judge people by the way they look. A person being overweight would not make me not be attracted to him. If he is still able to get around and is active than it wouldn't be a problem for me. He would need to have a good personality, be kind, funny and nice. He would also have to have self respect and be respectful to others. Those are the things that are the most important.\n\n@--->---
683172
Yes it is. . . for starters.  There may be underlying causes.  The bottom line is guys don't like fat girls.  They are very visual.  Most girls wouldn't like a 250 lb boy.  Start walking and stop eating chips and drinking soda...you'll be amazed at the change.
1069644
You just do it, honey.  We are pre-programmed to want to be with someone....it is just natural to wish to be partnered.    If you teeth aren't pretty, see the best cosmetic dentist in your area, if you are overweight, loose it.  Buy some great clothes, have a teriffic photo taken, spend some bucks on yourself, and put up a personal ad on Yahoo and Match.com.   All this has happened to others, before it has happened to you.   In our busy world, this is the modern way to meet people who are sorta "pre-selected" according to things important to you in a mate.  This is not to say that internet dating is safest -- there could be a nut beside you in church.  Use common sense, and you'd be surprised who you will find.
939296
wow. you sound like me\nexcept im a 15 year old girl and ive NEVER had a boyfriend\ni am shy too and i dont really have a place to meet any guys.\nyou dont have to be strong to get a girl.\nlots of girls, and i am speaking from personal experience, think the skinny shy boys are the cutest ones. go for it, just find a girl you think is pretty and just try to be friends with her. if it helps, approach her with a friend with you, so its less pressure\nim sure theres got to be girls at your school who would love for you to ask them out. the worst they can say is no. then you just find someone else\n\nGOOD LUCK!\np.s. the guys that are saying be a jerk are totally wrong. theres no better way to turn a girl OFF than to do that
1184735
be patient! keep waiting and the right one will come! giving your figures wont let others determine if you are a beautiful person. as long as you think you are, thats all that matters and that should give you the right amount of confidence to get the guy you want! just don't settle. be the best you can! good luck and keep staying fit (that is a +)!!!
464717
The really question is why do you need a boyfriend?  If you don't like yourself then no one else can be expected to like you either.
119474
Its the social stigma of "fat" girls....which sucks...people look down on you because you are bigger than the average norm or what people think is normal and it gets better when you are older...As long as you are happy with yourself and so what you are "big", "Fat", "overweight" etc. if someone can't love you for who you are or even like you then you dont need them and to me they are pretty shallow...Tell your girl Love yourself and the right guy will come along.
396472
I would date a fat person if, they are cute. You must be ugly because ugly people like to judge others. Don't get  mad at fat people just your parents.
201720
First of all no I don't think that is right but people have their preferences on what they like. You will find a guy to like you regardless of your size. I know because the men I have dated love a thick girl. As long as you have high self esteem don't worry about the ones who don't like you because of your weight. They aren't good enough for you anyway. If you want to talk hit me up. I'm Prettythcknsexy.
151311
well, someone will be there for you no matter how big you are........just be honest and kind and you'll find your soulmate soon!
344658
Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
172975
Probably? Just go out in public and be like "Yo, big girls need love too, I'm single ladies, and How bout you?" It'l work beavis
308351
it depends on your height, if we're talking on a health basis.\n\nif you're asking me if i strive to loose weight to attract guys; nah, i don't do that. \n\ni want my weight to be proportional to my height, because i want to have a healthy body.
943013
You can't do anything except wait to get bigger boobs. If your friends will ditch you, then they're not really friends. When you get a boyfriend who likes you even if you have no boobs, then your "friends" will become jealous.
189450
My weight has went up and down over the years.  I have been a size 7 to a size 16.  In my experience my size has never mattered to men.  I have never had a problem getting a date at any size.  Men are very open to different sizes, you'd be surprised.  Men find you attractive when you find yourself attractive.  Confidence is all it takes.  Don't let your size get in the way of your love life.  16 is a beautiful size and you should flaunt it.  Keep your head up and keep a smile on your face.  Men want you so act like you know it.