Our Mind is like a Garden, Why  do I fill it with Toxic waste of unwanted thoughts and bad feelings ??
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you are self-destructive. whatever you put into your mind will manifest itself in your life in some form or the other. you will act out the things in your mind. try to replace the desire to put negative things into your mind with positive thoughts and reminiscences. chant, pray, meditate, whatever it takes. detoxify your life.
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This feeling applies to nearly everyone.  A simple fact of human nature is to seek familiarity.  This is why we feel most comfortable around those we love and know well.  This is why we feel sorrow when we lose a loved one or when a normal routine is permanently removed from our lives. The longer that "thing" is a part of our lives, the more we miss it when it's gone.\n\nAt the same time, we are adaptive creatures.  We adjust to new things, often slowly at first, until they become common place in our lives.  The cycle is repeated hundreds of times throughout our lives...and it's all part of the human experience.
204055
Why would you even want to mess with your mind like that?  I have some scary skeletons in my closet as well, but you just breath in an out every day, and each day that you don't go through that again, makes it easier to deal with.  Counseling does wonders as well.  DONT MESS WITH YOUR BRAIN.
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I started to realize the difference between things I could control, and things I can't control.  This helped me sort out my negative feelings towards some things because I can't help it and neither can anyone else help it if someting just is.  Then I realized that your whole day could be considered great if you think positively through it and accomplish things for you. A situation that you are feeling negatively about or that ruins your day could be simply a 5 minute downer instead of something that lasts the whole day, or continuous negative thoughts.  The key is to realize you are thinking negative thoughts when they appear.  Anytime you are feeling down, take a step back and think... 'wait.  i just told myself something negative'  acknowledge that you were thinking something negative.  this gives the little voice inside your head validation that something seems unjust, angers you, or depresses you.  Then you need to divert your attention immediately to anything you can think of.  It coudl be a pre-planned positive thought that may take your mind off of it, or it could be anthing that will distract you.  start a crossword, watch tv, surf the internet, do anything that will distract you from that thought and move on in the day.  any time a negative thought appears to you you need to remember to acknowledge it for a moment and then distract yourself to think positively.  pretty soon you will be thinking positively more often and a negative thought will come by less often and be tons easier to pick out.  at first you may go for a long time before you remember to stop your thoughts, but thats because you are used to negative tendancies.  just keep trying and you will improve
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Why do you think so? You can think a lot of things, but that doesn't make it so. You can think you're stupid, but I know from experience that there are no stupid people, only stupid acts done by people. That feeling of being stupid is actually embarassment over having said or done something. So, you thinking that you're crazy is a feeling that you have concerning some thoughts or actions you've done that are what some people think aren't normal. What's normal? Normal is whatever is normal for you in your day to day living. Extreme stuff happens in every persons' life, and each person handles things differently, as they see fit, according to their particular life. Without really knowing you, it sounds like life has thrown you more than you think you can handle. Maybe you've done some things that are not "normal" for you. Just remember these four words: This Too Shall Pass". Everything is temporary. All you have to do is to look in your past to know this. It's past...gone...done. Ain't nothing you can do about the past, but there IS something you can do about now, and your future. You are not trapped by your feelings, unless you want to be. Thinking is not being. Even acting on your thinking isn't being. But, if you continue a lifestyle of acting on your thinking, that's when you start becoming. Even that is changeable, if you put your mind to it. It's all in what you want. Do you want to be crazy? Some people would say yes, and enjoy all the "perks" that go with it. That's them. What about you? What do you want? It only takes 21 days to form a habit, longer to break it. It might be time to start a new habit of thinking you're worth more than a crazy title. <*)))><
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I think like you said you want to control your life, but the steps you are taking are not good for you, I think its time for you to see and speak to someone about what you are doing to yourself. When something bad happens to you try to make it worse to make you feel better I believe you explained very well of what your a feeling and doing to yourself.. please speak to someone you feel safe with and trust..please!!!!!
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This is what we spend all that time in school for... were you paying attention and doing the work? lol!\n\nIt is not the first impulse or first fleeting idea that we control, but what we do with it. If you let go of negative impulses and thoughts, and grab hold of positive impulses and thoughts, you will condition your mind to only produce the ones you want to have.
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Listen to Kimmysauce here. \n\nNo one can hear your thoughts. \n\nYou may be suffering from a type of clinical paranoia. Your best bet is to talk to your doctor and get a referral to a good psychiatrist.\n\nThere is no shame in doing this, it is for your health and is important. \n\nGood luck to you- hang in there!
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Plants don't have a soul or a mind or a heart or many other things that we have God never mension plants going to hevan.\n\n\n\nThankz you made me laugh when I waz having a bad day!
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Remember that the negative feelings one has are as natural as the need for air and water. You have to allow some negativity in your life in order to feel the positive. Well it makes sense to me!lol\n And good mornig to you!
619900
Unfortunately, this happens quite often to me. I usually put on a pot of coffee, read a book for a while, or hit the net to get my mental juices flowing. I write to get out all of my feeling in a journal, and that seems to help tremendously. I hope you find something that works for you!
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It sounds like your combining all your negatives into one giant lump which over shadows all the positives in your life.  Break those negatives back down into their separate little pieces so they don't seem so large.  Plus, then you can attack and conquer each of them one at a time.
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It's very hard not to dwell on negative thoughts, especially if they refer to something you don't have much control upon (such as other people's behaviours). \nWhen this happens to me, or I get moody, I try to be very aware of myself, and analyze the situation. I often realize that I may be being unfair ion my judgement.\nWhen you feel angry or upset, there are some very distinctive symptoms, like melancholy, sadness or anger. Identify what those are for you, and try to correct them. Sometimes, by annulling the symptoms, the cause will also be relieved. It seems silly, but it does work.
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You sound like a very unhappy person to me. By wishing these things you are basically wishing that you aren't the person you are.\n\nEverything that has happened in your life has made you the person you are and you are beautiful.\n\nAnything that has gone wrong has only made you stronger and you need to start looking at your life differently. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and beating yourself up over events that are beyond your control.\n\nTake everything that has happened and turn it into a positive, make those things what drives you to get where you want to be.
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I think they are saying that You are thinking about this too much.  You are putting added stress on yourself because you think this way.  Basically that Phrase means you are thinking about the situation differently than most others would.  Therefore those bad thoughts are "In your Head" alone, and not in most others.
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The problem lies with yourself - thus, the remedy is for you to correct your perception, thinking, belief, conviction.  Then, your feelings will follow based on what you have in your mind.  You know that your crazy thoughts are not logical.  You have to, as Socrates said before "Know thyself."  There is an intrinsic insecurity underlying jealousy.  It's something that you have to handle.  Try to get self-help books that deal with this matter.  If you exert efforts to improve yourself in this matter, you will be rid of this defect.  Good luck.
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I have been like this for a while now ,someone told me the worst thing you can do is worry about it so I don't.Keep writing things down and being organised and enjoy your life and have a laugh at yourself when you do something silly.There's worse things could be wrong with you.