A friend told my girlfriend I slept with a another women. Its not true and its proven he lied. What do I do?
408965
Don't worry about it. It is not your problem. It is your girlfriends if she believes it. But not your problem.
477874
Please now this..... One lie leads to others and small lies lead to big ones. If she is lying about small stuff who know is she is lying about other things. I mean look at the situation a liar is a liar. And lying in a relationship breaks the trust. U will stop trusting her and things will fall apart so its best that u set it straight and let her know either she stop lying or its over........
867882
this is called learning.\n\nyou waited three months to talk about it.  even if you had told them right away, you still broke the trust of three people.  yes, three people.\n\nyou lied to your friend by sleeping with her man and hiding it.\nyou lied to your man by sleeping with his friend and hiding it\nyou lied to your secret lover by saying you wouldn't talk, but you did.\n\nthere was no good way out of it to begin with, but now you should have learned a valuble lesson.  some things might hurt a little to keep inside, buy they hurt a lot more when let out.\n\nsomething about best friends though - a best friend will forgive you almost anything - she forgave the boyfriend, didnt' she?  let her do it on her own though.  maybe ring her up in a week or two, to go out and get pizza or something - but don't talk about it then either!  it's over, don't bring up a past that can't be cured.
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
318046
Don't tell him, because you told the girlfriend you wouldn't.  Honor that commitment.  Once she has broken up with him, you can tell him you knew, but since he was never hanging around with you, you didn't have the chance to tell him.  Don't be jealous though when your friends hang out with women, this is just how life works.  You are going to have to get used of it.  You will do the same thing too.
412961
You don't. Everyone lies. Some peolpe lie to protect the ones they love others lie to protect hemselves. And then there are the ones who lie for no reason at all. These are the worst type of liars. Unneccesary lyin gis uncalled for and you should talk to him about this. Honestly though I don't think it is something that will change so you should look fo ra more honest relationship.
693474
I would tell him that he is no longer with them, and any problems you guys have, stays between the two of you. He needs to stay away from them. If he needs to talk to someone, he can talk to you, and that is that. No way would I bend on that. How do you know he isn't still sleeping with any of them? I don't trust a man that has to run to another woman. If he insists on still going to them, then tell him if that's where he feels the need to run to, then he should stay there.
191896
I went through this myself, and the best advise I can give you is to let it roll off your back.  If your friend who is/was your  best friend believes someone over you than she was never your best friend to begin with.  The other girl who is lying, sure it would be nice to call her out, show who she really is, but then again, your friendship with BF will never be the same anyway, now the trust is broken.  As hard as it may be you should just try to get past this betrayal and find another healthy friendship with someone else. Sometime when we are in relationship rather they be romantic, or just friendships, we discover one side has stronger feeling than the other.  Never sell yourself short.  You seem intelligent, I doubt you will have any trouble finding a new buddy!! Good luck to you!!!!
726771
Hey 'nanner'.\nIt's your best friend, you know, 'shayla'. Haha we're on the phone.\n\nWhat I think you should do....\nTalk to him and see what he says about the situation, and then try to decipher if hes lieing or not. Find out from someone you trust that's friends with him, and ask him what he's said. If you can't find anyone, maybe..... just maybe, you might have to move on. But for now, try to trust him to the best of your ability. We will get through this.
700607
Good job sweetie! If she had nothing to hide in the first place she would have told you about it, or not lie when you confronted her with it. If she didn't tell you because you would have gotten upset, then she should have not been doing it. Maybe you we her only one (meaning the only one to get her legal)for right now until she became a citizen.... then divorced you for the other man she lied about! I'm not saying that all men she talked to could have been potentially dating her, but be aware of her motives.. There are alot of things that I could get away with because my other half does not check up on me.... but why do it??? To betray him, loose his trust, or even potentially break his heart?? NOT WORTH IT!
795188
That's completely dumb on her part.  Maybe you should have told her, but the fact of the matter is you didn't act out on it.  You actually told the friend that you didn't like her like that.  Hopefully your girlfriend will come to her senses.  Guys get hit on all the time, you can't freak when some other girl hits on your man.  It's bound to happen, if she can't trust you because of that then she has issues.  That's small stuff, believe me.
976341
Tell the truth. She shouldn't have lied in the first place
333422
I would tell him that its either you or her.  He is playing games with your head.  Then I would kick her ass for messing with another girls man.
822681
Talk to him honestly. Tell him that your friend told you that there is another girl in his life and if he lies or says there is another girl then you will break up with him. If he says that there is no other girl then he is lieing. If he is honest and says there is another girl then still break up with him. No matter what this is a bad situation. Anytime that you date a guy far away from you, you never know what they will do, even if you trust him with your life. Guys are like that, no offence. Good luck and make the right choice.
463943
I'm sorry this is happening to you, but as you said you have not been a good girl. Lying is never a good thing, but if you can live with it more power to you. Now first you have to challenge you man's manhood. You have to seem upset that he will believe made up B.S. tips from a chick he doesn't even know. Then, show how much it hurts that rumors make him question you loyalty to him. Don't over do it. Be suddle, but convincing. Also, consider the fact that he may know who this person is and they may have formed an alliance against you. YES, some females are dirty like that, anything to get your man. If this is true, there is a chance the battle is already lost. Also, you can use that you your advantage. Try to make him understand or believe that the chick will do or say anything to take him away. If is someone you told this information to, use that to your advantage by saying, "She heard all the wonderful things I said about you. Now, she wants you for herself." This boost his ego, and lets him know how happy he makes you and how much you appreciates him.\n\nI hope all goes well. Also...\n\nMoral of the story:\nDon't tell sluts all your personal business.
188843
You are so right if he cannot tell her he is with you than something is very wrong here. A man should be proud of the woman he is with you and him sure have a problem but look this does not mean leave him just get him to be honest with her if he is not honest with her what lies has he said to you sorry i did not mean nothing bad from that its just nobody deseves this i wish you both the best this can be simple just sit and talk and than call her and put this issue aside and you two be happy. Good Luck.
655129
Maybe you did them a favor...  I don't know what the "information" was, but say you knew he cheated on her, or lied to her.  You telling her may have been the best thing!  Don't be so hard on yourself.