who do u think has it more difficult,guys,or girls?why?
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This. Is. A. No-brainer.\n\nGirls definitely have it harder in numerous ways. \n1) They have to go through certain times of the month which are painful, annoying, and just urrggh! \n2) They have to go through nine months of physical struggle and childbirth. \n3) In most societies, women are the ones who take care of children, the house, and everyone's lifestyle. This means doing most of the chores, cooking, cleaning, groceries.\n4) We are definitely urged by the media and our peers to always look our best. "Looking our best" can be such a hassle. It's  not fair that we have to shave, wax, do eyebrows, and be conscious of every single body part, while men are just happily sitting admiring. \n5) Also to point out to someone's above post that men work their butts off while women are just sitting around, I would like to say that there are SO many women out there who juggle a career as well as a family. It is very difficult for them (I know, seeing my mom) and if they have a lazy husband, that is only worse. \n6) Which brings me to my next point - I think that (some) girls have been brought up to comply with whatever is ordered, and when they are ordered, they are still very compliant and meek. Some cannot stand up to their own husbands. That's another neg. about girls, sometimes we're not as tough.\n\nI think it's very sad.
660137
Well..yea..guys tend to be more childish than girls\n\nAnd girls think carefully when making any decision..which makes them more mature..\n\nTherefor..I say girls are more mature than guys!
284519
guys are not all alike... duh
113313
Their hormones are differnt from guys ;-)
135047
There are many reasons why girls are "difficult", one is..that lovely "period", another is you cant figure out something that changes everyday and we are just as difficult as boys...haha\n\nok heres the real facts:\nGirls when they want something they ususally tend to want consensus or approval from you. For example, she wants to eat at a specific restraunt, lets say Applebees. She ususally wont say, "I want to eat at Applebees!" She'll say," hey you heard about that restraunt Applebees, alot of people say its good..." You see she is seeking your approval or opinion without telling you directly what she wants or "what she means". So try to see what she is really saying by telling your opinion and THEN asking for hers. Then be flexible at that point ask her," you wanna eat there sumtime?" bla bla bla. Also, listen to how many times she may bring a certain subject up..that probably means she wants it even more. well I hope this helped!
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You think they are difficult now, wait until you get married.\n\nThey seem difficult to deal with because traditionally men deal with problems by trying to solve them with the best logical arguement they can think of.  Women solve problems by taking action on how the solution makes them feel.\n\nJust remember, most women always react on how something is going to make them FEEL.  You master this and you will be a relationship god with the women.
166390
LOL.  Yes!  For me, gay men seem easier to talk to than women or straight men.
282963
Women show their emotions alot more than men do, but I believe men aren't as emotional as women. Men are more logical, though they do have emotions.
276029
Guys. Girls will always try and use it against someone, to get something. Guys are more laid back.
298176
Most guys tend to think in terms of logic and act on instinct. Men are problem solvers by nature.
931409
Actually it is harder for men.\n\nWomen are more discriminating than men.  Guys don't care too much about a girl's occupation, education, star sign, hairstyle, ethnicity, shoes or height.    Okay, we discriminate against the more rubenesque, but so do girls, and girls also discriminate against skinny guys.\n\nThe less fussy and the more attractive get married first.\n\nFurthermore, single women rather than single men in their mid thirties are more likely to have children.  Men don't want to raise the children of other guys, and women should rightfully be more concerned with their children's welfare.
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I have boys and girls. I think boys are much easier.. Girls are decieving..they try to hide everything they do. Boys are not as sneaky. The only thing I have to worry about is them wearing and using condoms. None of my kids do drugs or drink. LL.
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Well, it depends. You probably say girls do because, well, (I hope) don't have experience w/ being a guy. Same with guys, just the other way around. But in my opinion, it's a tie, for certain reasons. Girls start stressing and horomonal changes when they are rather young. But guys don't until they're like 50! (kidding, but it's a long time, compared to girls anyway) But on the guys side, they tend to be more athletic compared to girls, not saying girls aren't!, but they do seem to be more athletically prepared than most girls. But there again, guys don't seem as smart as most girls, more academically challenged! So I leave it to you to decide, and most people are surprised by this, but I'm ten.
951446
hang out with them more often... and it will come out naturally. (",)\nin my case, its easier to open up to guys than girls... i guess because i grew up with brothers.
617832
We're not hard at all. It's just because boys get all nervous and act stupid in front of us. First impressions are very important to girls. So basically when you talk to a girl, just be natural. Not like natural as in a cool dudish way (that's just way too fake), but just be yourself. And if you get nervous, don't try to hide it. Cause the more you hide it, the more stupid things you say, and the girl will end up getting pissed. So yeah, don't hide it, and the girl will think it's really cute that you're nervous and will feel moved by your attempt to talk to her.
380459
Not difficult, a very clean way to do it. Get the girl to bend over and the guy can figure out what to do next! lol! Its safe and easy if you have a strong guy (like me :)
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on the contrary, i think guys prefer girls with brains to go with their looks.. only inferior guys will feel intimidated by girls with strong personalies and brains and balls