Sexual life before marriage ,is it a healthy way of being in a relation?
401713
sex before marriage means to know ur self and what u are going to affront before u take an important step in ur life. sex is not the only thing to do before u get married. and there are things much more important to "try" and taste before u take a final decision, it's just that the world is built on weightless things in a way that we are getting lost in the needs of society instead of caring for our real needs.
157359
No I do not believe in sex before marriage. I got married when I was 24 (a little more than a year ago) and that's when I lost my virginity, and I am damn proud of it.. no regrets, extremely happy about :o) People should try it out, it's not like they're NEVER going to have sex... besides, it's more special.
558673
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.
131419
you should wait until you're married to have sex.  you were meant to have an intimate, emotioanl, and spiritual realtionship with people of the opposite sex.\n\nsex outside of marriage, is not only dangerous, by regretful.\n\nfor example:\nyou could wind up as a one night stand\nyou can get numerous STD's\nyou can become pregnant \nor contractind AID's \n\nplease consider waiting until marriage to have sex. \n\nthink about:\n\nif you marry as a virgin to a person who is also a virgin....having sex would be a blissful act. anything you would do to eachother would feel wonderful!\n\nplus, anytime you have sex with someone, you connect with them. even if it's just subconsciously. \n\nwhy do you think that sex complicates things o much?!\n\nrespect yourself, and your future...please wait until marriage to have sex!!
237705
NO! The bible says that is fornication-! Plus you could get pregnant! Get a disease! I wish I had waited untill I got married! You can never get the first time back ! You know it is really not worth all the other problems it brings! I can tell yo it is much better to be married! God created sex- it is a wonderful thing! You cant believe how great it can be when you are married ! I am the mother of four now- I have sex before marriage -trust me wait!!!! When the right man came i had already given all that up!!!was so sad about it and then we had to talk about all the other ones we had been with-had we had tests!! ETC> not fun when you are for real in LOVE!!! thank God He forgave me!!Good luck!
439618
I hate to look at things this way, but I'm a factual person. The stats show that ppl who live together before getting married are more likely to get divorced. I waited until I was married to have sex. This brings a real sense of security to our relationship. I could go on about the other benefits, but I'm tired.
761838
I personally think that it's better to live with someone before you marry.  Many will disagree with my belief, but it is my own personal preference.  The reason that I believe that is because you never really know someone until you live with them.  You may discover things that you will not be able to tolerate for the rest of your life.
335433
Well-Its very healthy for you IF you practice safe sex. HOPEFULLY  with the same partner.
1127697
no it is not right to lose your virginity before marriage because the bible tells you so.  another reason  is nowadays young people want to experience to much to fast and they end up with diseases and other things you can't cure.  like i tell my daughter its not what all your friends tell you is about its about making love you should never want to have sex just to be having sex.
40455
It's neither bad or wrong, but like anything in life, there is a proper time and place.\n\nFor instance, it shouldn't take precedent over normal sexual relations with your partner.
993992
Most cultures have taboos regarding premarital sex.  Some have evolved from religious beliefs while others are merely a traditional more.  I think it is important for an individual to decide what role sex will play in their whole being.  If sex is just a rhythmic release of raging hormones and something to experience for pleasure then pre or post marital doesn't matter.  If however, a person views sex as the ultimate culmination of an evolving relationship between two people, then it takes on a more mysterious, almost religious aura...that special sex that binds a covenant between lovers should be reserved for marriage. Regardless of the level that sex plays in your life, it is imperative that you practice safe sex...not just to avoid an unwanted pregnancy, but rather to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases like HIV-AIDS, hepatitis, chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea , and herpes.
9049
I do not think it is a good idea. How do you find out whether or not you are compatible in that way if you wait until marriage?  What if on the wedding night, one believes in the missionary position only, and the other likes to expirement?  What if one likes it in the shower and the other thinks it should only be in the bedroom?  What if one really enjoys sex, the other feels it is something they say "let's get it over with" to?
840099
I have no idea. Personally I don't have a problem with sex before marriage as I would want to know what I was getting before I got married to a man for life. Not that sex is all a relationship is but I think it's an important part. I don't think you should sleep around indiscrimately regardless of being married or not though.
826311
Do you mean sex?  I think it's silly to put a number on how often you want it.  I think it shoud be a mutual thing.  There are people with really high sex drives, and people with really low sex drives.  If two people with conflicting levels get together, there will likely be problems in the relationship (although I think they can be worked out if both people make an effort).  I don't think there is a standard to live up to.  Both people need to decide what is right for their relationship.  Of course non-sexual contact should also be considered.  If you truly connect with someone intellectually and emotionally, you might feel that you are better able to compromise with the physical part.
1028090
sex before marriage with anyone is considered to be a sin & possibly you don't want to be a sinner.if you are getting married than don't why you wait for sometime.the wait is really going to be worth it....\nGOOD LUCK!!!
411910
No!  Love is so much more than sex.  It's emotional, spiritually.  It's unconditional.  Just spending time cuddling, walking in the park etc.  can be sufficient when you are truly in love.  Of course sex is part of a relationship, but not needed. (right away) Taking the time to know one another first is important.  And if you want to wait before you get married.  Even better.  If the person really loves you, they will feel the same way, understand and wait.....
994490
I agree. I think i had to feel comfortable and secure to truly enjoy sex and you get that in a good marriage. \nWith past boyfriends i was a 'hug breaker' but now i've found The One we cling to each other like limpets... its great!