i wanta have a serious r'ship wit a guy, but i really want 2 sleep with him....what should i do?
400967
Take it slow- see how he acts with you around his friends, your friends. If you want to try for a long term thing, you should not base it on sex. Just watch yourself and don't get taken advantage of. Be safe and God Bless.
967512
You should hold out until you feel it is right to have sex with him.  If you have sex with him right away becasue you really like him and think he will be with you because you gave into him, there would be a good chance he will dump you because he thinks you sleep around.  If you hold out to long and he leaves you, then he was using you and he isn't worth being with.  You will know in your heart when it's the right time.
369180
Honestly, I can tell you I go looking for it and I never can find it because I do want a relationship and commitment.  I personally Choose not to just sleep with the next hottie walking down the street, I want dinner and possibly breakfast... A phone call and a second encounter. I am not saying that it has to be set in stone, but if the man would put forth a little more effort in the follow up game, I would be a little more eager to explore more men.  The feeling you get when a 1 nighter is over is awful, Even if he would just call for coffee and say hey, I ad a really great time with you, but I am not where you are.... or some bullshit line I would rather get that than being ignored completely.  As far as cheating is concerned... HELL NO... I am a strong believer in do unto others as you would have them do unto you.... last time i checked i didn't want my man sleeping with anyone else... If I want variety, which I often do I have toys... and my man enjoys changing it up a bit for me!!!
891779
do it......and see what happens, maybe he wants you 2
715421
Sounds like you are feeling really rather insecure about yourself.  It's not a crime to have sex on a first date but the downside to it is the sort of confused feelings you seem to be going through.  The reason for this may be that it was just too early to tell whether this guy really liked you (or indeed, whether you liked him) and now you are having to wait and see.  However, the decision about whether you see each other again is half yours and half his, if you both want to see each other you will, if you don't you won't.  On one hand you are saying you don't know how you feel about having slept with this guy and on the other you are saying that you don't regret it ... so that kind of indicates that you do know how you feel!  It is important that you clarify for yourself how you feel about him.  Do you want to see him again?  If the answer is yes, you can either wait for him to approach you, or you can approach him first.  It is not unusual for people to jump into bed with each other very quickly, it sounds a bit like you might not be entirely comfortable with your behaviour because perhaps you think he won't like or respect you for it.  You can't know how he feels about you without approaching him in some way and initiating communication ... you won't have to ask him how he feels, that should become apparent by whether you get together again and you will be able to tell how much he likes you by how he treats you from now on in.  Speculating on the minimal information you seem to have might just drive you a bit bonkers and certainly won't get you any reliable answers.  Finally, I would say of course you can become friends with this guy, if he wants to become a friend of yours too ...
233689
R you kidding?...this's a trick question? What's your age again ?...a woman once told me, " if a lady (girl,female,etc) wants to take you to bed...never deny her.Most men would a woman to come to them and say on a drop of a hat..." Let's fk "..at lease real men would love that to happen.
567225
Hey...I have seen some gorgeous Fed-ex guys. If he is williing and your willing..then I say go for it!! Ride that "truck" and make sure you get your "delivery"!!! But just know that if he isnt interested he may avoid coming by ever again...which means you are stuck with a fugley delivery guy.
484081
well by the sounds of it he already has made a massive mistake & lost you . I hope he realizes what he had . On the upside at least he never went behind your back either but he has to learn he can't have his cake & eat it too. Sounds like u are still young. typical to want to sleep with someone else but the thought of u doing it he can't stand . I think move on there are plenty of men out there that will treat u right this guy i hate to say it wo'nt change do'nt let him drag you down find a nice guy & later on down the track u will be wondering what all the fuss was about Good luck with this.
1046981
dont get physical with him - thats going to make him want you even more, and then as a result hes going to keep going after you, its guna be hard but in the long run its worth it... thats usualy the way to get a player to stick with one girl...just keep things gong real slow, and im the meantime he might get with other girls, but you will always be at the back of his mind, hes guna be thinking that he cant have you, so he will definitly want you more than he does now, and he will definitly be thinking more seriously, rather than just a one night stand or a fling
592220
same thing happened to me recently. Maybe we should hook up ;)\n\nForget him, even though its hard. just take your mind off or them, it does get better with time.
761628
There is no easy way to discuss it with him.  But you will have to sit down and talk to him.  There is a difference between sex and love.  Unfortunately some men either don't know the difference or some know but don't care.  You are right, it should be a two way street.  However, some days it is not. There are days when you don't want to or he doesn't want to but either of you go ahead anyway because you care for that person. Those days, you shouldn’t feel like you are lowering yourself either.  Some days you want to have sex. I personally feel that most days it should be about love.  What I am sensing from you is that it is more sex than love.  If he respects you then he will understand and be willing to wait until you are ready.  \n     This is the part that is going the trickiest because you want to talk to him before he tries to get you into bed.  You don't want to give him the impression that you don't want to be with him anymore yet you still want him!  It is hard to get some guys to understand, but if he cares about your feelings he will.  \nIf he is still unwilling to cooperate or is not willing to understand, then he made need to be cut off in the bed room for a while.  I have had friends who had to take time apart before they understood.  I can't say that will be for everybody, but at least a separation from the bedroom.  If he keeps forcing his way into your bed and you tell him NO, then that is rape and that can be more serious.  Hopefully, it won't get that far.
65405
BOOOOYAAAAH... Something to wake you up...\n\n**Slap**\n\nGirl 1st of all why would you like to get back with him? Don't you smell a rat when it's near you? Imagine your story as a film... Would you advice a girl to get back with the man who wanted nothing but "SEX"? This may sound harsh and everything but good but if try and stay away from him then you might learn something... It wont be easy to stay away from someone you think you love... You want him back bcoz he got the best of you but if you look at the other side of this story it would be a blessing in disguise why coz you were able to learn as early as now that this guy is nothing but "1 bam thank you mam" type of guy... \n\nAlways remember this "ALL GUYS WOULD DO ANYTHING TO GET THOSE PANTIES OFF YOU" the only one who can control things is you...\n\nMy advice give it time and do something else than think of him as the "ONE"... \n\nIm sorry if I offended you in any manner... I have no intentions of doing so...\n\nHope I was able to help you out...
974024
Don't be a jackass, dump the guy you want for sex and go with the guy you think of alot.
144385
first I wanted to answer "then have sex, take the pleasure from him, and go forward someone new..." but i can see that you're interested in that person more than just for an one night satnd... so, you should decide for you, whether you take the risc that you'll have sex and then nothing, or that maybe he is interested in you too, and you'll get yourself involved in something beautiful... I think you should take that risk, and approach him... the only thing you loose is a little of your self confidence... but who doesn't risks, doesn't drink champaign... good luck!
227270
If they keep going out with you, they like you. \nBut...hey. We're guys...we want to sleep with everything...as often as possible. It all has to do with what you do together and how you share you time.\nThink of 'wanting to sleep with you' as the vacancy sign on that old motel. Not matter what condition he's in, that darned sign will still be on. Hehe.\nGuys are physical animals. So, take that out of the equation and see what is left. See what is leftover and you'll probably find your answer.
1094107
Just chill on the sex. It will happen. If he wants to respect you and not sleep with you, then just wait and when it happens, it will be great. Guys do grow up and get to an age that they don't want to talk about it all the time. But it does concern me that he is getting oral sex from you but not giving maybe? that means to me that he is playing a game.
412878
Get over him and date someone else.  Make sure you get to know the guy really, really well before sleeping with him.