I am a good looking 32 year old lady, Why does my husband,50 not find me attractive?
404044
men at that age would never get anyone one better then you you so why are you worried he knows what hes got hes not blind the reason why hes not attracted is because hes trying to get you jealous hes probably insecure about his age and is trying too see what your gonna do maybe hes like that cause he cant get his shiit up and he trys to find an excuse hes old and if you love him you should try talking to him and tell him how you feel and if he really not intrested then move on but  if he says he loves you then tell him either you stop being this way in front of me or I will find someone else and if that dont work make him jealous and pretend nothing he says hurts you and walk away try watching T.V with young and attractive men and see how he reacts (he knows what he got )he thinks that by doing this you wont leave tell him if he likes that kind of woman then you will have one and get him on his own game BUT really the fact is if you dont love him then go and make yourself happy but think with your head and not your heart and give it as much as you can ,,,,if your close to his family talk to them and see what they say make sure he knows how you are and dont get hurt later in your life........
102452
I think your weight is perfect. \n\nYour husband is not fighting fair.  Explain to him that's not acceptable.  Illustrate this by yelling "small penis!" if he does not listen and does it again.\n\nEdited to add that I am glad my husband (and 1st husband) love my curves- of course there are men out there that do!
1137127
I think after 35 the question of age is irrelevant.\n\nWhat's attractive to me now, as a 44 year old man...has changed very little in 20 years: it's simply taken on a mature definition.\n - Where I used to find slim girls attractive...now...I enjoy a sense of physical fitness...\n - I used to find brilliant white teeth a turn on...now I'm happy with good oral hygiene AND NO fake CAPS.\n - I've always loved long straight hair...still do - I just find that now...it doesn't bother me if it has a little gray.\n - I used to love a "smarty pants" ... now I like a woman with education.\n\nWhat becomes important is companionship, communication, quality sex, and personal growth. At 56, if I find a 36 year old hottie that shares thes things with me...I'd marry her in a heart beat.\n\n\nbest of luck and love.
264633
You are probably near menopause, and this is normal.  You are a little past your prime (30's something), and your hormones are doing a number on your libido.  Don't worry.  Talk to your spouse about it for support.  Maybe you're feeling unattractive.  Feeling attractive can make you feel incredibly sensual.  Go get a massage at a spa.  Get a make over.  Some new bras and panties.  Something they'll remind you that you are still a force to be reckoned with.  Remember Demi Moore is in her 40's and has Ashton Cutcher doing his thing with her.  You can remain a sexual person all the way up into your ninety's.  It's all in your mind.  I recommend just standing alone naked in a mirror, and see your self being pleasing and pleased with the one you love.  You first have to know what's going on with you sexually.  You can also talk to your doctor, but I wouldn't recommend meds, because of all the stinky side affects.  I hope you continue your journey as a sexy, beautiful woman.
384003
It may appear that he is gone on with his life, and he is dealing with it better. But that is a cover.  You have to concern yourself with getting healthy, and raising your daughter.  It takes time to heal,and get over any loss. I am sure you are still attractive. You may not feel attractive but you are.  Life will get happier for you. Do not agonize over what he is doing.  \n\nI know I have been there done that.  My ex pretended like it was nothing that I left. He partied and went out all the time.  One year after I left he was arrested twice, lost his job, was evicted twice, and now lives with his father.  His life came crashing down around him. He was mean and cruel to me when we were married.  I actually feel sorry for him now.
230461
what you are going through is post partum depression, he most likely does not think you are ugly, but you feel he feels that way, it is natural. It will pass. Believe me if you had his kid then to him you are the most beautiful woman in the world. That's how we men feel, we just fail to say it.
943408
I have the same problem but in reverse, I like younger women and I get some bad looks from other people. Especially when I was dating a 19 year old. And yes I am 41, but I don't care what people think. If you enjoy being with that person do what makes you happy!
1100504
it could be your genetic make up....accept yourself as you are...it's the inside that counts the most....beauty & good looks change over time...some of the most gorgegous ladies are ugly now they are old...the handsomest guys can look like a prune & go bald at 50....\n when you feel good about yourslef,have a kind heart and laugh at life people never even notice the outside....
327845
The question you need to answer is WHY are you having a big problem reaching a clim** with your wife?  Have you talked with her about what's going on with you?  How do you think SHE feels?  Put ROMANCE into your marriage ... ask her if she'll dress up especially for you and see if that makes a difference.  It may also help you to seek professional help, but with your feeling "old" at 57 (which ISN'T!) I think you and your wife have just gotten into a rut.  Good luck!
342003
Hi, \n\nIt probably sounds a lot worse than it is, I am guessing you are nearing your 40s or around that age? (sorry!!)\n\nI would think your husband is going through the male menopause where he is questioning his life and if he is really satisfied, these "women" obviously make him feel young again.\n\nIf I were you I would show him he has a loving wife who will be there for him whereas the girls are just a figment of his imagination, \n\nThanks, \nAnd best of luck!!
1117418
Have you seen the man in my picture? He's mine and have been for the last 13 years. Everyone tells me my husband is hot. And he's a good provider and family man to boot. How lucky am I, he's what have been turning me on for the last decade plus. My hubby is a tiger in bed, a cheetah on the track and a gentleman at all times.
519573
I'd like to think that there are men out there who think she's more hot than ever, if just to convince myself that a few men exist who appreciate the nuances age and maturity can add to a woman's allure. For the most part, men seem too shallow and immature to even notice it. They seem oblivious to how much sexier a woman can be as she matures, they just see that she "looks old". It's their loss though, but it isn't going to affect me, since I'm married to a man who finds me more attractive than he did when we first met, I just think it's a little sad.
618391
I am sure you are very pretty. This guy may genuinely like you. That is quite possible. Perhaps it is not only your looks but your inner beauty is also beckoning to him. I have seen women that I thought didn't look that great and as I got to know them they were transformed. Their inner beauty shined through. \n\nAlso honey don't let you low opinion of yourself sabotage your life.
663432
Well, one reason might be that you're attractive to begin with, whether you look younger or not.\n\nBut there's something else going on too.  There's this whole power thing going on.  A lot of guys as they get older start feeling that in order to feel good about themselves, they have to be able to attract girls like they were young.  So they look for younger women (there's more, but I don't have space).  Also, there's a power thing going on.  Older men will be attracted to younger women because the younger ones are less experienced, more trusting, and easier to manipulate.  Since you have to ask the question, you're probably naive and trusting, so be on your guard for someone who might want to take advantage of you.
137372
everyone sees beauty in a different way,  you are far from crazy, from what I see, I think its very odd that you like older woman, but I have my own attractions to woman that other guys think is verry odd.  Don't beat yourself up over this.  You know what your like,  Heck your 40, so why try to change that, stay with what you like.  Don't go with the stereotypical society, they are all mostly immature people that are trying to impress everyone anyways
320875
You know the wrong men.  OR you are very young, & you need to worry about making yourself right while the guys your age grow up.\n\nMy husband desires my companionship & my love first, my body last.  If you want to attract men who will love you for YOU, first of all, dress the part.  If you value yourself for who you are & not what you look like, and you'll attract men who do, too.  If you are one of those young girls who flaunts her body because she thinks she has nothing else to offer -- you will only meet men who want your body.\n\nIf you dislike your body & you are shy because of this, you won't be attractive to anyone.  Work on yourself, love yourself, work on your confidence -- and you'll find a guy who values YOU.  Men love confidence!\n\nPut down those fashion mags & make yourself the best you can be.
1168978
he is insecure with himself, he's scared if you realize how pretty you are you'll leave him for someone more attractive.  However you need to be careful with this one because sometimes men like this like to be over controling of their girl friends and wives.  take good care of yourself.