I had a break up with my girl freind. Can she will be back in my life?
407111
well...just think of it this way...if you love her...just let her go...if she loves you back...she'll come back to you and you guys would be meant to be...give it time...if she doesnt take you back and just get with sum1 else...move on and hold your head up high because you deserve better...
574207
Depends why she is your ex and what sort of help she needs. It also depends on whether you have a new girlfriend and whether she would mind you helping your ex out. Only you know your situation and only you can decide...
944919
Hey Thor, I've been there. So, i can feel what you are going thru. Let me tell you this..Leave the past alone. Dont think of it. I didnt see you writting that you love her. True that u have feelings for her & she is ur 1st. But still, she broke up with you.i.e dont want to be with you. Move on...leave ny thing that remind you with her. Look to the future. It will take time to move on i know...but time is all what you have
915427
I'm not gonna lie to you, that is a pretty tough thing to deal with at any age.  Just remember that you two broke up for a reason, and that you are better off without her.  But to be perfectly honest, the hurt probably won't go away until you find someone new, so start looking.
390745
Let it go and be a friend.  Afterall, that sounds like what she needs anyway.  Later on down the road when she sees you have changed she may be willing to let you back in.
477236
everything is possible..but this kind of situation depends if both of you are really meant to be..if you, then you will always find the way to each other's heart..me and ex broke up, right now we are friends but i don't know yet if we'll be together in the future..time will only tell..
301421
Hi\nif she wont return U Should forgot her as love .i mean U can have relation to her as e friend but No love and find new Love for your self but firs be sure that she wont return or she agree with this decision
583685
I know what is going on here, I had the same thing happen to me to, she broke up with me and then one day she called me and kept calling me. She probably made a mistake by breaking it off, and now that she realizes that, she wants to try to reconcile that and see if there is possibly another chance that you two might get back together. Don't be surprised if she says, "I miss you" the next time you two talk if she hasn't already said it. Hopefully all will work out for you, take care.
398231
You need to do the things that lit the spark the first time around and show her that your are serious. If you just sit and talk about getting back together then it more than likely won't happen. Send her flowers, show her you care because more than likely her feelings were hurt when you broke up with her.
406418
Just say no. She'll take you for granted in the sense that because you're still around, you're available should she ever want to get back together. In the meantime, while she has you as a backup, she'll go on with her life, getting you to do all the boyfriend "work" (e.g. listening to her whine about work, traffic, her new jeans) but not giving you the boyfriend "fun" (although maybe once or twice she'll cave and fool around with you). You'll think she's just on the cusp of getting back together with you. And then she'll tell you that she's met someone else. With work, be as civil as you'd be toward any girl in whom you had absolutely no interest. But flirt with all the other girls at work so the ex gets a reminder of what she's missing.
464182
sounds like the girl you want is the girl you broke up with . tell her how you feel and that no one else will do you want her and only her. if she loves you to she will feel the same . good luck i hopeit all works out.
223503
HELLO, this is serious you broke up with her for a reason. Now you are living in a fantasy forged by all of the "good times" and as time goes on you have her built up to be someone that she could never live up to being. You may want to be with her again because you are plagued with wondering what might have been. I am aware of the incredible pain. You can move on if you want (ask us for help with that) If you are already invested in the drama and choose to seek her out. Do not waste another moment of your precious life and know when to run.
871691
u can't get her back enless u'v been away from her 4 only a couple days. if not, ow you in trouble. if u really want advice than ask her not people online. tell her u need her not us. if she understands u 2 where meant 4 each other . good luck. e-mail me and tell me how it works out at kayseasbq_10
1055092
NO. That's lame. Move on. \nDon't be friends w/ her...it'll only prolong the pain. Just move on. \n\nShe wasn't a 'relationship person' because you weren't the guy she wanted to be in a relationship with. Take it like a man, leave her alone, and get on w/ your life.
245685
So after you broke up the first time you had to go to a stress center because you were stressed out? What if she breaks up with you again, you'll be going right back there again, and I'm sure thats not something you want to do.  While I would usually say to follow your heart, with the past you've had with this girl, I'd say thats not a good idea.
360904
just forget about your ex. she broke up with her man and now wants you!! dude, you are worth more than that. Maybe you should give yourself a break from the gf drama and just date this girl or just be friends for now. Time is good for yourself right now cause it is obvious you still have feelings about your ex and this is not fair to you or the new chick. It is called rebound. Give yourself a break dude, even you deserve the best so take time to heal.
713166
No way man. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'll give you a link to go to and read why you shouldn't even be talking to her. If you want any chance of getting her back go no contact. Start dating other woman and let her find out. She'll come crawling back and saying everything you want to hear. Don't buy it. She just wants what she can't have and when she gets it BOOM you mean shyt to her again. There's a 1 in 100000 chance that says she wants you back for the right reasons. Move on. The damage is done. She's damaged goods and you'll never have as healthy relationship as you think. She may say she wants to see you happy in the long run and personally you'll be happier without her. She won't allow you to move on until she's stable in her own life. Don't let her mess with you. And don't even be her friend. Until you are totally over her. Nothing you say or do is going to get her back. I PROMISE. Good luck and find you a new woman. AT CHURCH