Is loving a person who is not as well qualified as you are is a mistake?please help me?
402464
dump him.\nif you can't introduce him to your friends, \n\nthen how do expect to respect him or have kids or love him in the future without resentment.
961347
I understand how you feel, but why would you want to be with someone who is not worthy of all the love you would be lavishing them with. Sometimes you have to let your head rule over your heart. You have to be able to look at the situation and go, this is going to hurt but maybe fate is changing in my favor. Sometimes what we think we want isn't what we thought it was after we find better.
347536
Sarah, since you are a girl, I think to marry someone who truly loves you if certainly better than one who loves you too but not truly. Since he loves you truly, he may be more sincere and faithful to you and even if you dont love him enough now,  due to his love and sincereity, your love for him will grow eventually. Best of luck to you, do make a wise decision because marriage is a life-long committment.
400820
REally loving someone isnt something you should have to work at.  When you do really love someone you will definately know.  I know people always say that, buts its true.  Its will come easily.  Braakups are just a way God gets us prepared for the one we are suppose to be with.  When you do find that person, all the pain you have gone through will be well worth it.  I know this by experience.
1086191
How can I say this...um....GO GET YOUR MAN!  You need to track him down, tell him why you screwed up and hope for the best.\nRemember...you weren't ready then and you have to accept the fact that he might not be ready now. Rejection cuts deep.  Another point is you need to work out your own issues about why you wouldn't except that kind of love.  I mean if it's the kind that spells true committment, are you ready for that now?  And if you are not, leave that man alone. Don't drag him into a dead end situation. I mean let's face it...it takes two to make it work not one giving it all and the other hardly giving.
444860
NO,if that is a situation that you are in then get out. You can run yourself crazy trying to figure out if whether or not you are good enough. With people like that,they want you to feel that way just so you can feel like you need them. They string you along because they know that you Will do whatever they want you to do. And,if you really wasn't good enough for them they would have been let you go,and found someone Else. This is a person who has low self esteem himself,and he is just bring you right down with him
141810
I think it's a personal question that has to be addressed individually. It depends on what is important to you. If you have an absolute need to know what the other person is like every day, all the time, then perhaps you should. Or if you believe in love and what a commitment to marriage means, then take the faith that you love this person no matter what their personal habits. You can get to know a person's character without living with them, but again, it's up to you and them. As for strengthening a relationship, more studies show that it doesn't, but everybody's different. You also have to think about your potential kids and what kind of an example would you want to set for them? Years down the road what are you going to want to be able to say to them about moving in with their partners? That usually will reflect what is in your own heart and you should listen to that.
917078
it is very dishonest, it isnt fair to the one your with to be with somebody when they're not da one u really love. they deserve a chance to be wit someone who is emotionally available to them, to have someone who can really love them for them. so no it's not fair...
1114453
Of course you are worth being loved!! Just keep loving yourself and taking care of you. Don't settle until someone accepts and loves you completely for who you are!
731364
Joycelyn, don't be surprised if he has enough information about you already. Why should you underrate yourself in love? Try and give him a chance, at least to see the direction which is towing in starting a relationship with you. If at any time he's not doing it right according to your standard then you back out. But the greatest mistake you'll make is NOT to give him a chance at all. Good luck and have a fulfilling relationship. Cheers!
783901
Some ppl wait all their life waiting to find that one true love....\n\nSo if u think you found this person don't deny the fact that his work takes him away alot because at least hes willing to hold down a job and this is challenge that you have to fight for want u wat and believe it so give it a try and see where it takes you don't be looking back another 10yrs from now and regreting not letting this person how u feel.....
158811
Well if you cant resolve your problems you should get out of it.There is someone out there who will love you the way you need to be loved .Dont risk missing out on that by staying with someone who makes you miserable.
322246
it depends on your standards and what you define as perfect, I would say. But in a general view I don't think there is someone that is perfect cause we all sin and do mistakes all the time so even if try to be perfect we will sometimes disappoint the one we love even if we try hard not to, but that is what love is accepting someone for who he is with all of his flaws and faults.
517678
I would. I will do anything for my daughters and my son and I know there is no chance of us getting together. Now, I know that's not what you meant, but the type of love you have for this person needs to change to the same type of love that you would have for your family members. I say that because I don't want you to miss out on having someone love you the way you love them and it sounds like you love this person very much to put their happiness over your own. But don't you think there is someone out there that deserves that type of love? And more importantly, don't you think you deserve to be loved like that? Continue being there for this person, but keep your eyes open for that other person out there that's waiting not only for your love but to love YOU in return....
399527
I would think that most people have to be flexible in your situation. If the person is feeling rejected because of the situation I don't think that person should be in the relationship to begin with.
880256
Be honest, if he doesn't understand he's not worth it.  If he loves you he will support you and respect you for trying to improve yourself.  Don't ruin your future for a man!!
1055866
just hang up the towel...i'm sure that you'll find someone that is worth it, I'm sorry but he's not...people are different in person than through the net....good luck