Does love die after years of mariage?
397474
is marriage about love? hello, guess what. marriage is not about love. its about commitment. love's just part of it. why dont you know that? cause you havent stayed married long enough to realize it.
274600
no i fell that love is when two people realy do care about eachother they can love one another untill death or even after death. my parents wre marrird 44 years untill my mother passed. and till this very day my dad still fells he is married even if my mother is passed. thats love.
891118
After all this time the reality may not be quite as romantic as you imagine.......there is little point in disrupting both your lives after all these years!!
235297
Hey true love never ever dies but we fail to recogonize true love.Its not easy to identify love between all the attractions and fakes that occur.When you will be in love you will undestand all.Bye
297190
No  ... First love is not always the true everlasting love .. sometimes is mere illusion. i had and it ended years ago.. Now i love my husband .. Forget about it .. Never leave it obsess ur mind .. Wish u good life
300635
He was 34 years older than she was. They were married over 20 years when he passed away. It worked out and she grieved for a long time.\n\n(My husband is 24 years older than I am. We've been happily married for almost 20 years. We are more in love than ever.)
109480
My mother was 20 years younger than my father. She was 32 when I was born and he was 52. He passed away at the age of 82 when I was 30. They had alot of differences that never got worked out and I think it was due to the age/interest gap not to mention she was good at pushing anyone's last button. They divorced when I was 12 remarried a couple of years later only to divorce finally when I was 15. I am not sure if you can see where I am going here or if I even see it fully but I personally feel that if you get along great, fall in love and have a successful relationship then there is nothing wrong with it. True love knows no boundaries. Best of luck to you....
308125
Definately NOT, exspecially if you have children. If you no longer love each other you will only end up more miserable in the end, by staying together.  If you have tried all the avenues such as counciling, talking... and nothing has worked.  \n\nDepending on how long you have been married, if you have children, it can really take it's toll on them without you even knowing it!  They see and understand more than we know, and if you are miserable...they are!  \n\nTake time to explain to them. And if it is mutual, you both talk to them. Let them know it isn't their fault, and bear the responsibility. Never accuse one or the other in front of them. \n\nThe one thing I have learned about love, is comfort, and if you are no longer comfortable in your relationship, it isn't worth the time to waste.  \n\nIt's hard to tell anyone to end a relationship, but life goes on...a little hard at first, but it gets easier and can be better! Good Luck.
698734
You can look all you want...There is no sin in that. So don't worry about looking. \nWhat you should be worrying about is why you are not that interested anymore; think about it. \nTo answer your question: couples fall in and out of love over the years many times. The secret to a lasting relating is that both persons can not fall out of love at the same time. \nWhat I found out about my relation when It went sour was that I've had changed. I did not notice then. Now looking back; my goals, dreams and needs changed during the course of 5 years or so and what my partner was giving me then was the same that he had given me at the beginning of our relationship.....  There has been a change in your relationship and you need to identify it in order for you to fix it. (Wish you happiness)
285791
No,I do not believe that.Love does not last forever.
260512
I think so.  If that chemistry is still alive 25 years later--that is truly a match made in heaven.  Chemistry does have a lustful element in it.  I have had nothing really last for me relationship wise, so i cannot comment on 25 year things.
441752
No. People who are looking for true love and don't allow it to happen when it should, will marry but they are settling. Some will panic because at a certain age they will marry who ever, out of fear. Not everyone is destined to find their true love. Sad, but true.
266749
NO!NO!NO! A THOUSAND TIMES NO! THOUGHT FOR A FEW YEARS IT WAS BUT ITS NOT. ONCE YOU DECIDE THAT THE PAST IS THE PAST, WITHOUT LOVE, LIFE SEEMS EMPTY, AND ACTUALLY ALOT MORE FUN WITH LOVE IN IT. I LIKES BEING IN LOVE.
260178
there's more to a relationship than just love... even true love... there are other factors like age, location, families, culture, maturity... love may last a life time, but it isn't the only thing that can hold a relationship together... \n\nas the cliche says, if you love something set it free, if it comes back one day, it was meant to be.
666855
I don't know if that's true...it's more of a case by case basis.  For example, I remarried shortly after divorcing, and my ex is still single 12 years later.  It is harder for women who have children to find men who are willing to accept them as package deals, though.
819741
Love does not always end in marriage.  Sometimes love continues on in the heart separately from a committed union.  Sometimes love does lead to marriage & it can often last a lifetime, though many times it dies for lack of nurturing & circumstance.\n\nI think of love as not just an emotion, but a choice & a committment.  It requires work and effort, but it is always worth the price of admission, no matter where you wind up.
47677
love is only a fairy tale, nothing lasts forever. This is the true reality, stop and look around the people you know and the relationships you've been through.