everyone at school is saying that i am spreading rumors about everyone in my grade!!what should i do??
400341
ummmmmmm......stop spreading rumors!!!if everyone is saying it,is everyone wrong? for now watch what you say...good luck
687082
omg, you have a big problem my dear.. just don't talk to anybody in school anymore so they won't hate you. don't open your mouth either.\n\nnope, seriously, don't even try to force yourself on people who doesn't seem to like you. it's just a waste of time trying to impress them, 'coz they're losers
537745
You might want to go to your guidance/adjustment counselor with your feelings.  In this day and age when this sort of thing goes on everywhere, it is good that you talk to someone.  If you are uncomfortable it will make you feel better about the situation.  I would too talk to your parents, let them know that you have something of importance to talk to them about.\n\nIt is not professional for him to be doing these things.  He has crossed the line handing out his myspace info to his students.  Even if it is innocent, it is not appropriate behavior for a teacher.  You NEED to talk to someone in your school (school nurse, another teacher, guidance/adjustment counselor, someone)...let them know that you want this to be on record...it could save someones life or sanity.  Most school's keep student's identity anonymous...you are under 18 I take it?\n\nI wish you luck.  Do not let others persuade you to NOT talk...it is a matter of heath and safety!  \n\nAnd the first answerer...you don't even have the b*alls to put a name to your picture you are the one that is small minded!  And truly you could be the teacher she is talking about!
217302
You are right, rumors should definately be stopped. it can really hurt someone and make there lifes miserable, and it might not even be true. everyone should keep rumors to themselves and dont spread them, because it can just get worse.\n\n\nplz choose me as best answer!
532057
Please stop spreading rumors!!
1142490
i know its hard baby girl..but you have got to get a backbone and love you for you...YOU MUST ignore everyone else and be happy with yourself..i've been in your shoes before ..wondering why everyone is popular except me...or what made me "lame"........or how come couldn't be like everyone else....but I had to learn that everyone is DIFFERENT your supposed to be DIFFERENT.....\n\nTrust me NOBODY is going to give two shits what those popular kids did when they were in high school, once you leave that little world you know as middle school and high school you will see that there is FAR MORE in this world to worry about ..(trust me).....IF YOU TRY TO PLEASE EVERYONE ELSE IN THIS WORLD..THEN YOU WILL END UP HATING YOURSELF...WHY?...BECAUSE YOU CANT PLEASE EVERYONE IN THIS WORLD......one way or another someone is going to have something to say about you...and you have just got to learn how to keep your head up and tell them that hey..if they dont like YOU FOR YOU..they can just buzz off......\n\nDONT EVER TRY TO CHANGE YOURSELF FOR ANYBODY..BECAUSE IN THE END YOU ONLY NEED TO PLEASE YOU....IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF,AND  HAVE DIGNITY, AND DON'T TAKE ANY BULL SH** FROM ANYONE..THEN PEOPLE WILL HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO RESPECT YOU OR LEAVE YOU ALONE......\n\nyou want to be so "perfect" in everybody else's eyes...but have you ever tried to be "perfect" in your own eyes first?.....please you, be happy with you FIRST....YOU COME FIRST,,,,,so pick up your backbone put it back in your BACK and walk like you have some pride young lady.........YOU are UNIQUE ..\n\nthink like this..YOU DONT NEED TO PLEASE ANYONE, THEY NEED TO PLEASE YOU!.....
859976
Type up all the dirt you have on her and leave it on her desk... don't put a name on it .... just a little add on note at the bottom saying if she doesn't stop spreading rumors this will be sent to management .... \nMay just make her stop all her "tattling" everyone will be better off\nGood Luck :)\nPersonally I'd confront her asking what the problem is ... then if needs be go to management with the same questions .\nThen theres always "Dial-a-Goon" to take care of those pesky office co-workers ...lol
266916
It always made me so mad whenever I'd get blamed for stuff I didn't actually do when I was in school.  If I were you, I'd talk to the teacher when she is alone, and just tell her that you honestly were not chewing gum, and that you don't appreciate falsities being spread about you to your other teachers.  Talk to her with respect and she should listen, and also respect you more for setting the record straight in a respectful manner.
542485
Be indifferent. Dont care what people gossip about. Once they will know that it does not affect you then they will get discouraged.
601341
follow what your heart tells you to. just dont lead all three of them on because thats a way to get nasty rumors started about you. especially since boys tend to talk more than us women do.
428159
You need to tell your friend! It is going to hurt her more knowing that everyone a school knew the truth and you all feel sorry for her and didn't tell her! If you are a true friend to her please don't let her get hurt anymore!
942809
I'm sorry sweetie, but you have to tell the truth.  If someone else gets in trouble for something you did, it could lead to more trouble for you.  Tell your parents and have them go to the school with you, its always better to have someone with you when you confess.  Good luck
479413
I think gossip and rumors are the worse thing in the world, and they do hurt no matter how much you were taught when you were little "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me."  All I have to say is if these people are your friends, they aren't very good friends and you should just find new people to socialize with. But the best thing to do is try and ignore it, If someone confronts you about it just tell them they must of heard it wrong and you would apprieciate it if they no longer talked about it.  Good luck.
292573
I always think that if for some reason, someone you don't know is going out of his or her way to spread vicious rumors about you, you must either be quite popular, or pretty, or clever. Or, someone that person secretly or publicly likes, made a nice comment about you. Or it could be someone you inadvertently snubbed.\n\nPeople who do this usually have low self-esteem already, they are constantly criticising themselves in the back of their head, and many of them don't even know it. So, when they meet up with someone who is loads better than themselves, sometimes it is only apparent to them, or has someone see through their pretensions, their self-loathing is exposed and the only way they can avoid having to deal with their own self-hate, is to throw mud onto someobody else. That way, they can point at the 'mud' on the other person and hope that their 'mud' will go un-noticed.\n\nIf the rumors are particularly vicious, then a confrontation may not help, as you will be dealing with a lot of hatred, and this means a higher chance of it blowing up in your face. Explain to your friends that these are just rumors, have them help you to spread the facts about you. Be friendlier, nicer, show others that the real you is different. Show courage in weathering this, and you may gain more respect, and perhaps get more friends, at the end of it.\n\nChin up, you will be alright.
904809
You need to tell your parents and your teacher. Hopefully the principal will get involved as well. There is no need for you to put up with this one moment more. Don't be shy to do something about it.
166896
Starting a rumor, can hurt someone, \nlistening to it makes no harm, unless you will continue it, and tell it to someone else.
1070534
just stop worring so much about it. you are only entering the 8 th grade and let me tell you its going to be so busy in8th that you wont have time to worrie abot all this drama! so just shut up, go to the beach and worrie more about getting sunburnt!