Why do so many  men in personal ads avoid the idea of dating Black women?
406096
Cause black women dont have time for men sneaking around behind their backs or games and most men are afraid to have a realationship like that, cause they know they wont win
349567
I see absolutely nothing wrong with it...i am a white woman and i am very open-minded. i have dated black, white, whatever. it all depends on the type of person u r looking for. i'd rather be with a black man that loves me than a white man that beats me, or vise versa.....
586913
a lot of white guys love black girls...my bf's dad is white & his mom is black. well i think some white guys are intimidated by black girls bcuz of the kinda stuff they see on tv. for example, most black women are portrated as being sassy, tough, & have that dont-take-$hit-from-nobody kinda attitude. thats probably why. but i know that all black women are NOT like that at all. i have a few black friends that are like that, but once u get to know them they're really sweet girls =)\ni have seen a lot of white guys date black women & most of em have no problem with that. i think a white guy would have no problem dating someone like u and if they did...then theyre not worth it. u should look 4 a guy thats willing to date u for YOU & not be intimidated by the stereotypes they see on TV. if u see a guy ur into, & u get the vibe that hes a lil intimidated by ur race, try talking to him & getting to know him a little & soon he'llsee that u r just like any other girl. well hope this helps a little! good luck 2 ya.
429992
actually its not just african american...even tho its part of the "hip-hop" culture...Most men are just stupid so they dont know how to appretiate what they have.
96209
I treat women in a relationship like how I would like to be treated... Unfortunately the black women I've dated couldn't do the same in return. An as far as dating outside my race the results aren't any better.
274182
Speaking as a Black female I think there is a very strong double standard in our (African-American) culture.  Black men will date a white female in a New York minute, but cry foul the minute they see us with a white or any other man.  We tend to get hassled more by other Blacks for dating outside of our race.  Also, many (not all) white men are raised to appreciate a more Euro centric standard of beauty (blonde hair, blue eyes, big boobs, skinny body, small butt, etc); in spite of the "browning" of America this beauty standard still dominates.   Black females don't fit into that particular beauty standard so I think it's hard for some (again some not all!) white men to see our beauty.  I also think it's hard because of the painful past that Black women have with white men.  When white men do approach us, some of us tend to be suspicious of them.  This is just my opinion for why you don't see more  Black females with white males.  If you're really serious about interracial dating, there are websites that are dedicated to this.
435158
I dunno, why do a lot of black men date white women... and more importantly - does it matter....???\n\nDate who you want...
987559
The main reason is pure ignorance of the black culture.  Plus the negative stereotypes of black men ie (thugs, dope dealers, etc) from medias such as newspapers, tv and music.
747777
That's a wonderful question. My cousin acts foolish when she sees a hott black guy with a white girl. The girl can be asian, latin, or whatever and if she's not black then Tameka is like "nah that girl is white." She doesn't even stop to think that I'm a bit offended b/c I'm half white. But back to answering your question. She has explained to me that all the good black guys are with white girls and she's left with the drug dealers, ex cons, scrubs w/ baby momma drama, and broke down living with they mom guys b/c the rest of the black guys were either gay or in jail. That's her take. I see her point, but I got a man so I ain't trippin off nobody else's happiness. If you happy do what you want. The problem is these angry black women are looking in the wrong place for black men and they're looking for the wrong traits. Don't worry bout the size of the wallet, think character. Leave the ghetto and look for a man with education, go to the library, even better go to college.
635469
It's not really about being "black" for me, it's about being different from the norm, or anything I have already had.  My fantasy has never been to date a black girl however...just to sleep with one.  Not that I wouldn't date one if I were to develop those feelings.
1115990
I have seen personal ads where both straight and gay people want to engage in this rape fantasy.\nPersonally, I simply don't understand it.
1096025
I know whatcha mean but it's just an illusion. It's a minority from each race that's attracted to us plus our own beautiful black women makes it seam a lot. Every time I've had a "first time with a black man" they had the expectation of passionate long lasting sex.
617712
I don't know,black dudes are overrated and they love the stereotype,they like the positive stereotypes,dont like the negative stereotypes,but all stereotypes are bad(Hypocrites)my Friends have been with loads of black dudes and they say the myth is bull sh it,so heres one when you go black its fu ck in whack!!!
578391
I think thats analysing too much!  Im sure that a black guy or any colour guy can be attracted to women of any colour and its not a conscious decision to go out and prove a point by dating a puerto rican, asian or white woman.
443714
No. Where that myth came from and who invented, who knows. But truthfully, no. I've dated in and outside of my race and that just isn't the case. I've ran across grown black men with baby d***s and grown white men who are blessed. It's all in the jeans, just figuring out which ones is the hassle
221973
Some black women have a hard time dealing with black men dating white women because they believe that there is a shortage of good black men and that the white women are stealing their men.  Being a white woman who has dated black men, I have experienced this.  But racism is certainly not limited to black women; I am Italian and my family is totally against interracial dating.  I believe that people should be free to date anyone they want; what matters is that they like each other and treat one another with respect.  Most people who oppose interracial dating do so because they fear that which they do not know.  The only way to improve the situation and stop the hatred is to just forge ahead and date whomever you want, no matter what people say.  Only love is real; the rest is superficial.
281441
Most Black Men I know think he is guy.  He currently deals with alot of girls.  He tried to pick up a friend of mine in the Gucci store here in NY.  So maybe he is Bi.  I wouldn't put it past him.  Alot of Black men in the entertainment business are short and gay.  I attend alot of industry party and work i fashion and let me tell u, there are always more men there then women!!  And he does NOT have a wife and kids.