what if u found out that ur boy/girlfriend had AIDS and u haven't slept w/them yet?
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That would be both fortunate and unfortunate. By that I mean AIDS is a terrible disease to have , and difficult to live with. So if he really does have AIDS, or is HIV positive, I am so very sorry!! But it's fortunate for you if you haven't slept with him yet.  DON'T!!!!!  And get checked yourself for the HIV virus,because you may have contracted this virus from him simply by French kissing, or if you two have engaged in oral sex. Please go to your local Health Dept, and they will test you for free. Then, give your friend all the love and support that you can, just do not engage in sexual activities with him, and that includes oral,anal,regular intercourse,deep tongue-in-mouth kissing...Good luck to you both!! You are both in my prayers.
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I don't have AIDS or HIV, so I really couldn't tell you. The friends that I have had with the disease did act differently, they acted sad, mad, confused, and sick. Then they died.\n\nPeople live longer now with HIV/AIDS, so I would guess they have longer to adjust to it and maybe even come to terms and act "normal" again. Hopefully they don't share blood with others anymore. I can hope.
266165
well if you are really serious and would like the answer ..go to your nearest hospital and ask for a tour of their HIV and aids unit..and ask all the questions you can think of..aids can be harmfull to the soul and to others..its is the death of many and no one will stand up and challenge the medical world..always use condoms and never be afraid to stand and say what and who you  are..it is not a gay disease..it is life..can be passed from all types of sexual acts. know your partner even the silent side of them..everyone has played the field and the time of waiting is now..always be checked and your partner too..be safe and live for tomorrow..go anywhere and you will know at least one person who carries that secret..i have friends who have aids/HIV..and they are wonderful..and i have friends who have died from this same thing...check yourself..and ask the questions in your mind..
1183948
Aids occurs from unsafe sexual contact, affected syringes, donated blood from an aids affected mother to her child. Its symptoms generally show after sometime
394338
If I had AIDS,  I would have sex with my father in law!!!
231191
aids is a disease that effects your immune system. as to how you get it... thats probably what your parents dont want you to know
664681
My b-f cheated on me with another girl, and got her PREGNANT!! THEN ONE DAY I WAS SICK, AND I KEPT PASSING OUT, AND I CALLED HIM, AND HE WOULDN;T TAKE ME TO THE HOSPITAL, AND THATS BEEN 3 MONTHS AGO AND HE STILL HASN'T CALLED TO SEE If I WAS OKAY. THANK GOD FOR 911...<OF COURSE ITS BEEN OVER BETWEEN US.>
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
902158
Not to fear.  You cannot get HIV or Aids this way....I PROMISE!!  The way you get Aids/HIV is through blood contact or mixing body fluids, such as intercourse or a blood transfusion with infected blood (which is rare these days as all blood is now tested). You can also get Aids/HIV by sharing the same needle which drug addicts sometimes do.\n\nYOU ARE NOT INFECTED.  The boy who did this to you is a mental case, probably.  Stay clear from him. You should tell your parents about this incident. As a parent, I know I would want to know if this happened to one of my children. If I was your parent, I would call HIS parents so hopefully it will never happen again.  Please consider doing this.  Thanks for writing.
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The person infected may only be a carrier and never get AIDS.  If you think you have HIV, go to your local clinic and get tested.  If you have HIV and believe it is in the stages of AIDS, again go to your local clinic/hospital and get tested.  Until then, don't have sex unless it is protected sex, cause you can pass the virus on to your partner.  If you don't tell them you are HIV infected and know you are, you can be charged with attempted murder, if it's unprotected sex, last time I heard.
147994
You aren't a patient unless you are being treated.  The only way to find out if you have an HIV infection is to be tested.
717051
If you have AIDS she'll also get it, and if she has it you too are in danger dude !
169268
Yes,ask your sex partners.  There's no harm in asking someone if they have had an HIV test.  That information can keep the both of you healthy.
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the only way that could have happened is if you had an open wound on your hand or your penis and she is HIV pos. There is a very small chance that you could be infected. The HI virus dies instantly when it comes into contact with air.
843467
By being promiscuous and being infected by Aids !!
1013325
If he is your friend then he wouldnt be involving you in this. You need to report him ASAP. If you begin to question your self  on the morality of turning him in think about this.....if he has sex with someone and then coincidentally you have sex with that same person now your at risk.... there are condoms in this world there is no excuse to pass on HIV to anyone. He is being selfish and is ruining many peoples lives in the process. How would you like to be one of the people he has sex with? even if you dont end up with HIV the trauma of worring that you might have it is enough to ruin anyones lives. If the friend passes it on then he is in a sence murdering that person ...its just a long needless painful death....do you really want to have friends that are so thoughtless?
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You'd have to...It will eventually come out if you plan to stay with this person. It is always best to be honest. If he/she leaves you because of the STD, then so be it, but at least you were honest so that he/she doesn't go out infecting others because of your silence.