What can I do, Im falling in love with someone I mate cam to cam at chatting room.?
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Look its easy you keep going and you keep falling in love, i meet someone the same why and its great dont worry if theres a will theres away. Country man expression but just take one day at a time keep talking things will work out a soon you both will be closer than 1,000's of miles apart so start saving. Your going to Europe best wish to you.
365381
wow, well who do u really like?? who do u want to be with?? talk to them both cuz talking to just one could cause a small problem
901677
ask him if you two can talk and tell him its important. then tell him that you liked him forever, he probibly feels the same way about you. then see where things go from there.
483152
I would suspect that if he doesn't know that you exist, then what you have is not love but affection, or perhaps infatuation.  that is okay, there is nothing wrong, but it is important to recognize the difference.  Regardless, there is but one thing you can do.  talk to him.  You must put the question in the light and let the dialogue lead you.  If you cannot do this, then you must recognize the crush for what it is, and regrettably move on.  Likely, there will be many more to consider and further oppurtunities to embrace.
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its hard when you fall for someone . on line .  but stop and think are you in love with the man or who the man made him self out to be ,   i don't understand if this love is so strong between both of you ? why  cant you come together. . you need to go out and fine someone that you can hold and love you  . love is good on line but it does not help when you need to be held. with arms around you .  say your good by . and fine a real guy that you can look in to his eyes as he holds you and tells you he love you .  come back to life............
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Oops!  Sounds like you need to have a little 'friendship' talk with him and apologize.  Let him know that you will settle for the friendship that you two had before, and that you didn't mean any harm.  Seriously!  As for the issue of color, don' let that be a stumbling block in the future.  You fall in love with a person, not their color - unless one is vain.  Love knows no color or limitations!
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Start some activity that you can both share together. then talk to him like a good friend. start sharing things with him & he will eventually fall in love with you. if he doesnt contact me. Im 'tarangoyal' on yahoo messenger.
220038
Yes, find someone that wants to share and create memories with you.  If you are important then he will create time. Now you are just entertainment
587404
From what you say it seems your dilemma is...your head verses your heart... the head is usually right you didn't say why he couldn't commit... but in any case i think you've already conceded that fact. My advice would be to make a clean break... continuing to be friends is just keeping your hope alive... I say continue on with your life meet someone new... yes it is completely possible  and likely that you will fall in love with someone else... which ends your dilemma...good luck in whatever you choose to do
133208
be a respectful man, and leave her alone if you will fall in love with her, if it is just friendship then take care of your and her feelings
276272
hey just cloze ur eyes for sumtime n dont think of anything.. if u cant be thatway, and if u cant be without thinking of him u hav fallen in the greatest language that connects people in dis world...
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Get to talk to him more. It never hurt to take some time off and talk about things u might have in common.
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Sure, Email me at MyOddThoughtss@yahoo.com\n\nOh, and.. take it slow. Love will come and don't be at the ready with the "I love you" from the start. Take your time.
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You wouldnt be the only one that acts differently online or on the phone to what they do in reality. Its a way of life. Some people find it easier to be more outgoing and adventurous when theres no one to confront them face to face. If your feelings are that strong for this guy then be open with him. He should love you  because your kind caring trusting honest and genuine not because he thought you were sexually adventurous. If its true love then he'll understand and something will come of it
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u better be careful girl, or else ull break ur heart...there are lots of crazy people online dont easly trust anyone...i know ur smart...so be careful. dont just  listen to ur heart but use ur mind too...MUAH!
66491
U have to open ur mesnger n then  open the caht room then u can easily make  ur chat mate.
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mean carleen is right.  There is nothing you can do.  Clearly if there was any interest on his part something would have happened.\n\nWhat you are describing is not really a love issue it is infatuation.  You are infatuated with this guy and in your mind are creating fantasy scenarios about how things would be if you were together.  You need to get over it and find a guy who likes you back.