Do you have to be a Christian to pursue someone in the christian community, or will she like you for you?
413469
You'll need to be a Christian if she's a devoted member. If she's a black sheep, you're in luck.
929046
Amen. I couldn't have said it better myself, Christian here.  I believe why not let the other person believe, think what they want, I never push Religion on anyone.  If they act interested or curious, I let them lead me into the discussion.  And I try my hardest to be polite, but I do have my days, I think every one does now and then.
299548
If your asking if its good to have a girlfriend thats christian - yea! of course, that will probably mean she may have more self respect and morals then other girls. \n\nIf you asking is its good to have a g/f when your a christian - why not? How else are you going to find the person you want to get married to?
357010
Religion, maybe. Relationship No!\n\nChristianity is a liberating, horizon widening, life giving relationship. Some would say that Christianity is a list of rules but it is not. If you look ay Jesus' words He said that there are only two rules - 1) Love God. 2) Love each other. Simple, eh!\n\nBecoming a Christian is as simple as taking a pill. Three steps in taking a pill; 1) get the pill, 2) take the pill, 3) have a glass of water. Three steps in becomming a Christian; 1) realise that you are a sinner and need a saviour, that you can't save your self, change your mind about sin 2) Realise that Jesus death on the cross paid the penality for your sin so you don't have to, 3) ask Jesus to forgive your sin
935721
it depends somtimes you just have to grow closer to God its not a "religion" its a RELATIONSHIP
616131
Being a Christian I strive to do just that. It's not easy. I think you become a hypocrite if you are not trying to love everyone on earth. I choose to try to act in a loving way toward all that I come into contact with. I often fall short of that. But I keep on trying.
115027
christian women are the only available single women who will be honest about it.  Go to church, not to look for women, but 2 get yourself close to God. Then pray and ask God to send you someone with all the qualities you are looking for. Believe me it's the only way.\nWomen now a days try to play the games they think the guys are playing, and end up playing themselves. cristian women are the way to go.\n\nP.S. - they want single available christian men
13465
girl, or what ever you are. Tell them you have to get to know me, and maybe you got to go to the last resort, the church.  If you believe in God, then you should go. There's always somebody you can at least try in church.  Plus they won't try to get into ur panies as quick as some men.  But I promise you whoever you end up with that's the "one" and trust me you'll know who the one is-remember I promised you- you'll be content with them. It's something about love and fate that just trips me out how they truly interact with each other,comebine perfectly and leave you with an epiphany that yo feel as if it were right in your face.
168666
you also need to be christlike.....with christian virtues with the help of the Holy Spirit..... and have faith
756403
Don't give up, and don't settle for less...are you in an environment where you can meet other christians? If so, and you have asked God to bring someone into your life that believes and lives a Christian life,  then just believe that God will do it and one day soon, probaly in a way that you wouln't have ever imagined, you'll meet him...I've seen it happen over and over again...so be encouraged and don't give up....
130554
First ask yourself why do you want this person to be Christian?\n\nAfter that, if you think you're trying to convert him/her for all the right reasons, then just tell her about your beliefs and why you believe them. Remember, you can't force someone to be Christian, it's ultimately a choice they have to make for themselves (but you can help them in making this choice).
246313
You will know them by their fruit.\nonly experiencing God's salvation makes you a true Christian. of course, we can't see into man's heart, so we just have to take people at their word and the way they live their life. But remember, it's not our place to judge.
21114
You don't.  This is one of those things that you have to decide.  If you like this guy, go out with him.  It won't be easy, especialy if you want to remain an active member of your Church Family.  Life ahead of you will be filled with choices that your parents don't want you to have to make.
961824
Absolutely!!  That is what "Christian" means, "Christ like", that is what we are supposed to strive for, to be and act like Him. Yes, we are obligated, teach by example, have faith the right person will learn from your example.
260811
If you ever honestly tried to seek him and asked him to come into your life he would be there.  You would know by the change in your spirit.  He always said when you seek him he will be there.  Then when you develop a relationship with him you honestly know there is a Jesus Chris sent from God.Deuteronomy 4:29  "seek me first with all thine heart and soul and will find me".  Once you start doing that and God knows your sincere you will find him and his awe will overwhelm you and than you cant stop seeking him after that cause you will want that feeling to never end.  Mathew 6:33  Seek ye firt the kingdom of God and and all else will be given unto you.  He will then start to work and fester in you and begin to minister to you and when that starts to happen theres no way you or anyone could say anything different.  And thats how you will know how great he is!  Cause you will never get that feeling anywhere else!  Thats how miraculous He is!!!!!!! Praise God!!! I can truely testisfy to the great things he has done in my life and trust honey, I was definitly from the other side of the tracks so to speak!  And I'm not a "Jesus Freak"  but I am a "Freak for Jesus"!  And God sent Him so how can either be denied.  And to deny Him is to deny yourself of all that is good and great!  Sooo do yourself a favor and give yourself a chance and check Him out!  You cant go wrong babeeee!!\nYou cant go wrong!  Praise God!!!
1108232
I am an atheist.  I have no problems dating a person of faith.  I have a lot of respect for the faith and beliefs of others.  I feel that if you connect well with a person, beliefs should not be an issue.  Love is a human emotion and if I should fall in love with a person of faith, I am willing to accept that they have different ideas than me.  \nIf you both have respect for one another's beliefs and are willing to discuss any differences in opinions maturely, a well balanced relationship will thrive.
539051
That would make you unequally yolked, and I don't believe God intends for you to marry someone who isn't a Christian.\n\n*EDIT*\n\nIf you two are deeply in love, then if she is the one, she will get saved.  If not, then she's not the one for you, and you should ask God for help with moving on.