Please share your tips about  how to be a cool guy ?
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Just be the life of everything u do. Stand out, speak a little louder, smile more. dont be afraid to say something, to anybody. speak ur mind. dont be embarrassed.
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making friends with guys can be simple..\n\njust be urself..hang out wit some guy friends u can go along with..speak up more, especially when ur wit ur guy friends..have genuine interest in what they talk about..listen to them talk, even if u dun understand a s**t..\n\ntalk about what they like - soccer, football, cars, bikes..u dun need to understand what thing they are saying, but just have genuine interest in what u ask or listen..\n\nask them questions about themselves - guys like talking about themselves..ask them questions about what they are talking about - it shows u got interest in wad they are saying.. u can always say u dun understand even after they explain and they'll just understand that..but if u do understand, that mIgHt impress them and they wun mind u hanging out wit them..\n\ndo whatever is being urself, even if ur cracking lame (not too lame!) jokes but not infront of guys u barely know..
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Get involved in a group that contains both guys and girls. This way you can be comfortable around your male counterparts, and also get to observe girls up-close. If you play your cards right, you'll be seen as "that shy guy"... which most girls find rather intriguing. Take your time, get to know a girl and realize that she's not a being entirely different than your guy friends. Sure she might be wearing make-up and a skirt... but guys have their own things too.\n\nPerhaps some of your guy friends from engineering know some girls and would be willing to introduce you to them and hang around so you still have someone familiar around.\n\nMainly, just relax, take a deep breath and let what a great guy you are shine through.
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This may or may not work for you but when I was younger someone shared with me 10 things to get a guy to notice you. Here goes:\n\n1: Don't just begin with hello. Now the first way to get a guy to notice you is to say hello, now that's obvious but the trick is to say it like this, "Hello or Hey, (insert name here). Because when you personalize it, it's more sincere than just Hey! Hopefully it will lead to him saying,"Hey, (insert your name here).\n \n2: Touch him (No, I don't mean that way). Body language speaks more than words. For example when you're joking with him a light tap on the shoulder. But becareful of only doing this occasionally because you don't want him to think you're harassing him and avoid fixing his collar because it might just remind him of mom. The trick is to be subtle.\n\n3: Smile. I forgot to mention this, after saying hello adding a bright smile. Don't forget to look into his eyes when you smile, 100% charm baby!\n\n4: Accessorize. Yep, great conversation starters. I used to have a mood ring and conversations always began with questions about my ring. Or try a T-shirt with funny slogan or vintage cartoon character. Anything that shows your personality and something you have lots to say about.\n\n5: Bump into him. Now, you can't get him to talk to you if your paths never meet. Take time to figure out his schedule, where he likes to hang, when he heads toward the restroom or what time he rounds the corner. This way you can 'accidentally' bump into him. Warning don't become a stalker now you want him to notice you not be scared of you.  \n\n6: Another way to do this is put yourself out there. He can't notice you if you hide in a box. So if he's on the football team try the cheerleading team. If he's doing afterschool activities, try something also.\n\n7: Give him a nickname. This is a tricky one but you can add it to step one. The thing is to use a nickname that only you call him. For example if you two are having lunch and he spills his soda you can call him 'fizz'. Use something creative but not offensive.\n\n8: Ask him out. There's nothing wrong with you making the first move. Ask him to grab a bite to eat or a cup of coffee. Start out as friends that's how most of the best relationships start out as anyway. This way you get to know him and he'll definitly notice you. Now I can't say I had this much courage so what I did was get my friend who is not shy to ask him and his friends to go hang out at the local coffee shop. Worked for me.\n\n9: Laugh at his jokes. Make a comment on something he said in class. By letting him know that you think he's cool he'll start seeing all the cool things in you. It's like when you show him you notice him then he'll notice you.\n\n10: The oldest advice in the world is, Be yourself. Have confidence in who you are. With just that you can attract almost anyone in the world.\n\nHope this helps and good luck with everything:)
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Are you a geek? lets see\n\ndo you work hard for a living and take responsibility for yourself? Yes\n\nDo the ladies seem to enjoy your company? Yes\n\nso far that makes you seem pretty cool actually. So you've been in a few fights where you didn't come out on top. Its all good youre a lover not a fighter now show those other guys who the real ladies man is. \n\nThe point is this as long as youre holding your own in a good way it doesn't matter what other people think about you. Sounds like your doing pretty good so far. \n\nNow learn how to defend yourself properly, build a little muscle, add a little confidence and you'll have all the bases covered my friend.
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Find 3 or more (up to five) qualities that other\npeople don't have. Add them up and realize that you were put on this earth for a Damn REASON, that you are as good or even better than other dudes and don't slump your shoulders. I hated myself for so long until I was about 23, when other people had to tell me that I was good and a good friend to have around, that a lot of people found me attractive. Email me your circumstances.muirmatt@yahoo.com
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There's not much you can do, you either have it, or you don't.  Don't try to be something you're not, just be yourself and you will be cool to those who care about you.
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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BE YOURSELF AND THEY WILL COME TO YOU!!! dont try to act cool!! cuz girls notice that kind of stuff!!!
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FIRST OF ALL, DRESS NICE WITH CLEAN CLOTHS. KEEP HAIR CLEAN AND TEETH BRUSHED. LAST AND MOST IMPORTANT. ATTITUDE. IF YOUR OUT GOING CONFIDENT AND NICE YOU WILL CATCH THEY EYE OF THE OPPISITE SEX.  I USE TO BE REALLY SHY AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO GIRLS AND HAD FEW GIRLFRIENDS. THEN ONE DAY I GOT FED UP AND DISNT CARE IF I LOOKED LIKE A JERK ANYMORE AND I STARTED TREATING GIRLS JUST LIKE I WOULD TREAT MY NORMAL GUY FRIENDS AND BAMM. NEXT THING I KNEW I NEVER HAD GIRL PROBLEMS AGAIN. SO CONFIDENCE HAS TO BE THE MAIN THING. DONT BE AFRAID TO WALK BY A GIRL YOU LIKE AND SAY "HEY I LIKE THAT SHIRT IT LOOKS COOL" THEN WALK AWAY IT JUST MIGHT SPARK UP A CONVERSATION BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU
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The best thing to do is to be yourself, and dont be afraid to speak your mind. And try not to be to COCKY!!!
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be yourself... be well groomed.... mind your manners..... have fun.... enjoy life.... :)
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first, stop asking questions like this one.\nthen, do some push-ups and get a car.\n\nokay, okay, just kidding...kind of. but also try this...\nsmile more. and don't just smile more, but laugh more. and generally enjoy life more. be a bit more silly and spontaneous, and yet, aim to be remarkably intelligent with purpose. get involved in more activities. learn new facts. give more compliments. (some of this may seem irrelevant but i'll pull it all together soon...). try new fun and exciting things (and no, i do not mean drugs).\nbecause generally speaking, the more fun have, the more intelligent you become, the nicer you are, and the better you get at embracing the best in life -- the more interesting a person you become. and it shows. and all people (and "all people" definitely includes girls) want to be around someone interesting. someone who seems to make their lives a bit more interesting too.  \n\nbut, if all of that doesnt work...do some push-ups and get a car! ;)
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be a nice guy in the real world.
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of men and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, I gotta have them?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym to make you muscles firm, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time de-impressing any man.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports and hang around there (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved woman sometimes attract men (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n6. If you are good to one man, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more men...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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U cn make a guy notice you by ur personality.\nFirst of all. make sure u always have a good appearance(dressing mode) when around him.\nTry to grt him to be friends with u ..by asking a question or something.\nHave a good sense of humor  and listen attentively wheen he talks.\nThose should be easy 4 anyone to do..
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first thing everybody who asks this question needs to know is this: YOU CANNOT MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU. you can try everything; changing yourself, different clothes, potions, salves, death threats, but you can't get in a person's head and force them to think certain thoughts.\n\nHaving said that,  my tried and true method is talking. get to know the vict...er, guy! show off your great personality and what a fun person you really are. If you're not comfortable dating right off the bat, ask him to do something social, with a group of friends. and really be with all your friends if and when you go. that way, you're not singling anybody out, and you are assured of a good time even if this guy isn't a picknic to be around. If you want to be mano-e-mano with this person, you need to leave your other friends at home. no matter how shy you are, it is just RUDE with a capital R to drag people around and then play kissey-kissey or give all your attention to one person.\n\nIf you do decide to go for a one-on-one date, go somewhere neutral. Stay away from low or bad lighting, and DON'T BE ALONE. this means: don't go over to his house when nobody's there, or be in deserted parts of town, or anything like that. This will reassure you that he isn't going to jump you, and will put him at ease that you won't pounce him like a tigress in heat.\n\nAnd then, when you are together, talk. talk about anything and everything, and enjoy yourself. if you can't relax around this person, you may be kidding yourself. it's normal to be nervous first date, but after a while you should be able to put yourself at ease. and as much talking as you do, be sure to come up for air. this is VERY important. Letting the other person talk does a variety of things; first it sends the message that you're not just interested in yourself, but you want to hear what they have to say. Second, you learn a little more about this person and get a better idea if you want to stick around. and third, you can hear if he wants to be around you. you will hear many auditory clues from a disinterested person. Listen and watch while you talk. are they engaged? are they giving body signals that they are paying attention? or are their eyes wandering, their limbs twitching, their head swiveling? Are they answering you in complete sentences, or are they answering questions that aren't yes or no with "I dunno..."? above all, pay attention to what they say when they speak! just as you are seeing if they like you, you are checking to see if you like them.\n\nTrust yourself, and be confident, and you will never steer yourself wrong. Good luck!