Ladies.. I have a super wife who is very expressive , would she be considered a flirt if she is touchy?
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if you love her and trust her let her be, she is who she is and thats why you married her so dont change what you fell in love with (big mistake men make) she'll stop if she thinks it hurts you - we all check men out beneath the waist, don't mean were gonna screw em - men check out women too - just life- have fun\nBTW - your wife must think you are a super hubby too if she can be herself comfortably in front of you than that says a whole lot about her awesome husband
1052726
This is just something we do. It is the excitement we get trying to flirt with someone we know we can't have.  It is the adrliane rush we get.  Because maybe your wife will give a reaction.  Some women geed of of negative reactions in public.  Don't feel bad if you catch the bad end of it because it is easier to take her frustration out on you because the attention is at you.
608319
men will do things that innocent; that  friendly and it will come off as flirting. most time it's within this factor it happens to me alot because i always want a girl to feel important loved and that her conversation is int resting. i migth not be intrested to her but when she comes in contact with me and when she leaves she will have a new an better self esteem and character and thinks she can attract  any man and have a good conversation , so no its not always flirting its sometimes being kind and then being misconstrued for something else. and this is serious because this distroys relationships when the situation was mutual. touching helps the relaying of information. although this practice should be limited for safety reasons. thank you.
396682
it all depends..... how does she act towards you?
231701
I want my wife to wear wahtever she feels best wearing. When she feels that she looks good in her clothes she presents an aura that is extremely sensual. If she is wearing revealing clothing that is her choice. If other men beside me find it sexy so be it, I know who she is going to spend the night, noon, afternoon, morning, whatever with.
427228
You should know if you have chemistry between the two of you. Obviously you are strongly attracted to her. I would suggest inviting her over to your pad. Pour a nice glass of wine, slowly put your arm around her while telling her how attractive she is to you. Look into her eyes, take both hands and stroke her face softly as you hold her face in your hands and tell her how you feel and slowly caress her nose, cheeks, and then a nice soft wet kiss on the lips. That will make any woman melt. Trust me!!! I married mine.Women love soft, slow, gentle, deliberate caresses in all the right/wrong places. Back of the neck is an errogenous zone.
84241
NO!    I don't know of a bad spot to touch a woman, but that's because I'm a man.  Who the hell knows what love is?  If you don't want him feeling you up, then tell him, and if that doesn't work, slap the scheet out of him.  It's best if you learn not to be easy, because a real man knows how to treat a lady.
492806
I like a certain amount of aggression. It shows she knows what she wants, and is willing to go after it. Too much hiowever, is a turn-off. For instance, if I say no thanks, no thanks is what I mean! Don't push it! Use it to your advantage, and it will work for you.
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From my limited experience, there are several "levels" of flirting.  From actions as seemingly insignificant as the accidental brush of an elbow, to the obvious pick-up line.  It's all a matter of intention.  Men and women tend to percieve matters of communication differently, therefor the wink in question could be just a simple acknowledgement of attraction, or an invitation to something more...
520536
It depends a lot on the ways that she is physically affectionate.  For instance, I knew a girl in high school who people thought was gay because she liked to hug other girls and kiss them on the cheek. She was straight, so, she never thought her actions would be interpreted as flirting.  People still made assumptions though.   Now, she is married (to a man) and has three children.  Some people just show affection in very physical ways.  \n\nHowever, if your friend is doing things that make you uncomfortable you should talk to her about it.  Maybe she is a lesbian or people may be seeing something that isn't there because it makes for good gossip.  Confront your friend in a calm and compassionate manner.  It is the only way to find out the truth.\n\nIf she is a lesbian.  Just explain to her that you like being her friend but do not have the same feelings she does.  That you are willing to be there for her as a friend but nothing more.
954987
LOL a little pushy...nahh but its ok though she seems a little shy..sometimes u have to give her that little shove
903068
Well, in my experience, flirting is the first step to seducing.\n\nOf course I'd flirt with her.  I'd be there when she's cleaning and help her.  Of course the "inadvertant touches" wouldn't be so accidental and the flirting and the playing would continue until I ran into resistance.\n\nIf the resistance was playful, (like she's saying one thing, "Hey I just came over to help you clean", but has a ear to ear smile on her lips looking over her shoulder) I'd take that as a good indication to go on.  I'd start doing a little less flirting and a lot more seduction.\n\nOf course if she came over to just help me clean and to "get any other idea out of my head", I'd stop and just thank her for cleaning my hovel.
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No, I don't think it is a turn off.  It is just your own natural reaction to what is going on at the time.  It doesn't mean you are weak, or that your wife stronger simply because she doesn't cry.  You both just react differently to a situation.
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That's a good question, I like that one. Well, I guess a lot of flirting is subtle.....but this week I was hit on two times, and both guys were kinda hunky....though I think ther intentions were dishonorable, I was flattered, because I am in my forties with two teenage children! I thought "Great! I haven't lost it yet!!"\n\nMy partner flirts with me all the time which helps keep our relationship alive.
227122
I think she meant having a soft gentle touch that makes a woman feel loved. It could be sexual or non sexual.
847170
Yes, i think it is perfectly normal for happily married people to get enamored with another person from time to time...! The flirting that you think came from him may just be friendly interaction...I wouldn't risk acting on my feelings if i were you! You may embarrass yourself, and alienate your hubby! Good luck...
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I always find a way to touch someone.  If walking by them when you say "excuse me" touch them.  No where that will get you in trouble...  Just physical contact will send subtle hints, over time she'll get it.  Then you can add genuine compliments, but not every day.\nI hope it works out for you!