why do boys make girls cry?
397351
There are multiple sides to this question... the first most people would come out and say is that boys are mean.  But it's not always a matter of them being mean or not... a lot of times these boys do not know how to express the feelings they have for a girl, and human nature leads them to acting "mean."\nAnother side would be that the girls are just too sensitive & cry easily.\nIn both instances, you have to hear both sides of the story & get full details to fully understand why the boy made the girl cry.  In all fairness... maybe she started to cry because she did something wrong & unforgivable, that could also lead a girl to tears.\nThis question has many possible answers depending on the case.
460895
nope- he doesn't know what he wants and he's too immature it sounds like- I went through the same thing.  Boys can turn on and off emotions in a pinch- (think about a situation where they should be crying, but aren't!  They can control their emotions- even love- better than we can) maybe he had a crush on you at one point, but he's just playing you now
299121
this is a very serious, yet common thing for many young girls to do. The reason people do this is because they are in so much emotional pain and they do not know how to direct it. They cut because the physical pain feels better than the emotional pain. They cut because when it hurts physically, then its a reason to cry and it's like a catalyst to letting out some of the emotional pain. Some cut because they feel completely numbed emotionally and they just want to feel something. Your friend needs help. Encourage her to seek some counseling. If she is a minor, she needs to talk with a school counselor and/or her parents. No boy is worth going through everything she is going through. I know of a really excellent article that discusses this subject in more detail.
551578
Not ALL girls like to cry to get what we need you a s s hole!! Sure SOME girls do, but don't put that stereotype on all of us! Also, I've seen men cry when they are in "deep sorrow". I don't get why so many people view crying as a sign of weakness. It is an emotional outlet...which is required to have a healthy mind and body.
320044
Yes, boys really love girls.  The boys you're talking about aren't in love with the girls they are lying to.\n\nSomeday, they will actually love a girl and she will break their hearts.
385365
Because they typically have issues about self-hatred or they have problems with a painful emotional life. Usually they are girls, and often they have problems at home or at school. When they can't "feel" emotional pain, they often try to "feel" the physical pain. The reasons are complex, but that's a simple answer.
316257
Because men are supposed to be the emotionally strong and balanced ones. And crying is a sign of weakness...or so people think. I do not believe that.
319161
As a girl myself, the best answer I can come up with is a feeling of excitement (and attention. Guys whistling, staring, etc..) Something about "bad boys" attracts some women. Just the feeling of going crazy, living life on the wild side turns them on. It's stupid and they're blind if guys treat them like dirt, but the thrill keeps them clinging on.
31797
Because females sex organ is internal, so it's easier for us to absorb bacteria and other yucky stuff and harder for us to get rid of it. Women in general internalize more then men, maybe that's why we cry so much Lol.
983734
same reason boys are obsessed with girls raging hormones. My friend sister is a freshman and she likes to stalk boys by hiding in bushes (kinda scary if you ask me)
403612
B/c guys are taught from a very young age that it's not "masculine" to be emotional.  We are taught to hide and repress our emotions.  As a result, it can be very difficult for us to talk about them as easily as girls can b/c we're not used to it.  It takes effort and practice and we have to sometimes unlearn the bad habits we were taught growing up.  You just need to be as patient with your bf as possible.  And provide helpful insight.  Sometimes you can help him figure out what he's feeling by placing yourself in his shoes.
50093
Yes, boys have to bear with their PERIODS so often than girls. cant help the poor boys.
1177606
Guys are built differently than women...when a guy sees that something is wrong their first reaction is to try to "fix" whatever is wrong, when in reality sometimes all we are looking for is understanding or some comforting words. Try not to see it as a fault, it really isnt, us women are just more "emotionally intuned" than most men are.....I asked my father this same question many years ago, and he told me simply that most times guys really don't know what to say...like when we cry and they are just silent...it's because they dont know how to "fix" it...\n\nSo to answer your question, yes i believe it is common, and very normal : )
104114
Boys want to SOLVE your problems. Girls want to share FEELINGS. Sometimes all you want is sympathy and understanding. Girls are good for that. Like for problems that you can't just "solve."
657020
I think it means pretty much the same thing when a guy cries as when a girl cries.  Does it mean she really loves him or is she using tears as a means of manipulation?  Does it mean she is really sincere, or just emotional? \n\nJust ask yourself what it would mean if you were the guy and he were the girl, and I think you will see that it all depends on the personality and situation, and not on the typical role of men and women.
1119853
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nBoys are immature, so expect them to act that way.
492547
Moaning and screaming maybe, crying is a little different, but I'm sure some girls do.