Is it normal for s** to hurt the first few times after your very first time?
413148
Yes it does hurt the first few times. If you are nervous or scared it might make it hurt worse, and make sure you are not dry down there. If you are you might need to use some extra lubrication.
963991
You will experience some bleeding but that will go away. (some just have a drop or two).  Your partner needs to be considerate to you about this.  Make sure you are lubricated.  Yes, usually after the initial pain (which is not so bad as people make you think), you will enjoy it if you have a thoughtful partner. \n\nBest of wishes to you.
250666
that depends;not neccessarily.some hymens just break.maybe it will hurt the first time you make love,but I hope that your partner will be as gentle as possible so that you won`t feel a thing and that you willl enjoy.take care girl.
93663
It doesn't necessarily needs to hurt a lot, if you are with a experienced guy that can increase your level of arousal to the point where you can take it in...\n\nHowever, if your first experience is with a guy that doesn't know what he is doing he can really hurt you. It's good that you want to know about it before doing it, and every case is different because you Get aroused on different ways and the person you are with, needs to know how to calibrate you...
959164
It may hurt the first time but after that it shouldn't.  It is possible that you have a strong hymen that needs to be releasd by a surgical procedure.  Or you might be anticipating pain and not able to relax and lubricate well.  Try a longer foreplay and a lubricant like KY or something similar.  Take it slow so there is no tensing.  Good luck.
830817
it's normal, next time when you do it, use a lot of lube, lay on your belly, put a pillow under your belly to elevate your butt and keep your legs closed kinda tight, make him work to get it in, i find that once it gets in, it is easier, then i open up more for him,  i also use a bullet on my clit to keep my mind off the initial pain, if you do it this way then eventually you will learn to like it....i did  LOL
534487
Hi there, it's not abnormal to sometimes bleed after intercourse, I'm assuming you weren't a virgin, because sometimes the angle of penetration might bump your cervix or possibly the friction of movements can irritate or make a tear similiar to a papercut but without pain.  There might have been some residue left over from your period previously that was jarred too that came out. I wouldn't worry about it but if it happens frequently after sex or just bleed on it's own, make sure you see a doctor.  If you had an infection that was bleeding, you would have pain, possibly discharge along with the blood, itching, burning etc.  It's happened to me before a few times.  Don't worry unless it starts happening alot.
69922
YES it hurts the first time, even if your partner is "patient, sensitive, and caring". I lost my virginity after I got married, and let me tell you.. my husband was extremely caring and sensitive AND patient, but it still hurt. It didn't just hurt, it hurt like hell! On the other hand, I enjoyed it without any guilt whatsoever... because I was married and because I was doing it with the one I love, the love of my life :oD
1180337
ask your doctor. It hurts the first few times but if it's been awhile since you lost your virginity, definitely ask your doctor something could be wrong. Or he's putting in the wrong hole. Heeheehee.
459776
The first time is usually pretty uncomfortable, probably painful, mostly disappointing... \n\nbut after a bit of practice its great.\n\nJust don't expect it to be wonderful the first time and don't expect either of you to be good at it the first time. \n\nIts not magical like in the movies, its like most things, you need to have a bit of practice and work out what's good for you and whats not.
43292
my first time hurt, but i was real tense..lol...\nbut after that it didnt hurt anymore!
673603
Yes some times physical and mental.  If you're a virgin than the first time it might hurt.  The guy should be attentive to this fact and go slow and easy.  And if u tell him it hurts he should stop.  But everything that is good will hurt some some time but not all the time.  U should be able to enjoy sex without hurt.  So girl if you're a virgin go easy.  And if not and u like it fast and hard I'm your man.  Either way I will help u.\nCHUCK\n:--# )
295471
You first time can be painfull especially if he is not condsiderate.  It should get better but it does not feel good everytime. Some women don't even like it until their in their 30's .  Some never like it.  Women! Go figure.  Just try to relax and concentrate on your body and how it feels. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself over it.
1057570
it will hurt a lot initially..but once u get used to it..it's ok
399335
If you've begun to use tampons before your first time, it won't hurt as much. Or if you've been fingered a lot it will not hurt that much, if at all. Plus, things like horseback-riding, bicycle-riding, etc. lower chances of extreme pain during sex. There's a thin layer if skin that gets brokn through the first time. That's what makes it painful; but what we don't realize is that it may already have been broken and we don't know it. That doesn't mean your virginity was lost though. BUT FOR A FIRST-TIMER, IF HE JUST RAMS IT IN, BELIEVE ME IT WILL BE UNPLEASANT.
936133
i get the feeling that you guys are more or less just diving right in. you need to spend a bit of time stretching yourself to properly and comfortably take him. the first time is likely going to sting a little, as there is some tissue damage when he takes your cherry, but the pain fades quickly (or so i am told) tell your fiance that you need to get warmed up first, use fingers, toys, whatever is comfortable to gradually stretch out. also, make sure you're turned on, since the natural lubricants released by your body are the best. have him try some oral play if you can, since the saliva will also help keep you lubricated. if you stil feel you need more lubrication, ensure it is a water based lube. if none of my advice works, talk to a doctor, it may be that (s)he can give better advice.
893890
you should really ask your mom on this. i dont think my first time was normal....i didnt bleed and it didnt hurt.  it was wasnt until later that my "cherry" was popped.  my first was not below average in size, he just didnt hit the right spot to pop it...lol.  but you really should be talkin to your mom about this...you seem to be at that curious stage which probably means you are thinking of having sex....please talk to your mom before you do...i wish i had