is masturbating a bad thing for a 16 yr old girl and if her bf helps?
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hmmm?? i think its oky,but the more your star making that naughty thing the more u want to try more on that and began to make sex with your bf. buts its up to you if you want to give your personality to your bf..
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How can masturbating excessively so often bad for you? And what is impotence EXACTLY?\n \nMasturbation is neither good nor bad, depending on how often you can afford to do so without affecting the functions of other organs. In one recently published study, ninety-five percent of men and eighty-seven percent of women have practiced masturbation occasionally. The study further indicated those men usually experience an orgasm when they masturbate and learn how to masturbate before engaging in any sexual intercourse. Another important finding showed males who masturbate frequently during adolescence continue this sexual behavior into their adulthood with the frequency increasing. Is this addictive behavior of masturbation harmful to your body? To answer this question, one has to understand how ejaculating works. An orgasm or ejaculation discharges the bioelectric energy (bio-energy) stored by the parasympathetic nervous subsystem via the sympathetic nervous action. It is supposed to discharge the bio-energy stored in the sexual organs. This is why an orgasm is associated with a burst and subsequent release of tension. When the sexual organs are insufficiently charged, the sympathetic system will draw the energy from other organs, deactivating the associated organs and slowing down the response of the Central Nervous System (CNS) which is the commander of the endocrine and nervous function. So, frequent masturbation and consequent ejaculation will result in depleting other organs of bio-energy since the sexual organs can’t support the release of bio-energy being drawn from over-masturbation. The association of masturbation with guilt and anxiety is partly due to the ignorance of the fact masturbation is not harmful. These negative sentiments are partly due to centuries of religious teachings that masturbating is sinful. In addition, many of us have received negative messages about masturbation from our parents or have even been punished when caught masturbating as children. The cumulative effect of these influences is usually confusion and guilt, which is often difficult to sort out. However, the only time masturbation can be ‘bad’ or harmful is when it becomes compulsive. Compulsive masturbation, like all other compulsive behaviors, is a sign of an emotional problem and needs to be addressed by a mental health specialist. Sex, of course, is extremely pleasurable and all things pleasurable are addictive. Over-masturbation can cause serious problems that aren’t limited to the bedroom. Frequent masturbation should be addressed. So, contrary to ancient and popular beliefs, masturbation does not lead to unbridled lust, make you blind or deaf, give you the flu, drive you crazy, grow hair on your hand, make you stutter, or kill you. Rather, masturbation is a natural and harmless expression of sexuality in both men and women and a perfectly good way to experience sexual pleasure. In fact, some experts argue that masturbation improves sexual health by increasing an individual's understanding of his or her own body and of what is erotically pleasing, building self-confidence and fostering self-acceptance. This knowledge can then be carried forth to make for a more satisfying sexual relationship with one's partner, both through each partner's comfort with mutual masturbation and because of the ability to tell each other what is most pleasing. It is a good idea for a couple to discuss their attitudes about masturbation and to calm any insecurities a partner may have if the other should sometimes favor masturbation over sexual intercourse. In some relationships, masturbation may be mutually acceptable. Done alone or in the presence of a partner, the act can be pleasing and add to mutual intimacy if it is not experienced as a rejection. Like most behaviors, without proper communication, the act of masturbation can be a sign of anger, alienation, or displeasure with the way the relationship is progressing.Overcoming society&#
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Hi there,\nPlease take the time to read everything I’ve copied and pasted for you.  It will answer any and all questions that you may have. I’m just good at research, but all of the effort I put into this article for you, isn’t worth the time if you don’t read it.  This is one of the most common questions asked on yahoo answers, so you aren’t alone.\nGood Luck!\nRead this, maybe you will be more informed!!!\n\nDon’t feel guilty about it, it’s your body and it’s fun.\nJust don’t announce it to the world, some things are better left private :) Everyone does it, people just don’t talk about it!!!\n******************************...\nMasturbation is quite common in young children. In most cases, it is considered a natural, normal behavior in children of all ages. Children often begin masturbating at around eighteen months of age. Masturbation tends to peak when children are between the ages of three and five. It then declines in frequency until puberty.\n\nMany parents are surprised and/or shocked to find their children masturbating. Parents should keep in mind that masturbation generally causes no physical harm to their children. In most cases, problems result only when adults overreact.\n\nFor parents to deal with their children’s masturbation they must know when it is normal and when it might indicate some underlying problem.\n\nWhy Children Masturbate\n\n*Pleasure. Children learn very quickly that it feels good to masturbate.\n\n*Self-soothing. For many children, masturbation reduces tension. These children may masturbate when they are upset, tired, bored, or feeling stress.\n\n*Exploration. Many children will masturbate as part of the natural curiosity they have about their bodies.\n\nWhat Parents Can Do\n\n*Ignore it. Masturbation is, after all, a normal behavior for most children. Parents can best handle it by treating it matter-of-factly. Parents shouldn’t try to get their children to stop masturbating by punishing, threatening or scolding. If they do, they run the risk of giving their children the idea that their genitals are bad and/or dirty.\n\n*Remain calm. Parents should try not to overreact. They should also keep in mind that no physical harm will come to their children as a result of masturbation. If parents overreact, they may put fear into their children about their bodies.\n\n*Don’t be surprised. Masturbation among young children is very common, and quite normal.\n\nWhen Children Masturbate in Public Places\n\nMasturbation is something that should be done in private. Most young children, however, don’t know the difference between public and private behaviors. In these cases, children must be taught. Parents should treat public masturbation as they would any other behavior that is not acceptable in public places, for example, nose picking. Here are some specific things that can be done to minimize masturbation in public places.\n\n*Explain. If parents discover their children masturbating in a public place, they should tell their children that is something that should be done only in private, for example, in the children’s bedroom or the bathroom. Parents should use words like, “It’s all right to do that in the bathroom or the bedroom, but not in the grocery store or when other people are around.” Parents should try not to criticize, nag, or punish their children. They should treat the behavior matter-of-factly.\n\n*Offer alternatives. Parents should provide their children with something else to do with their hands while they are in public. They could also try to distract their children from masturbating by suggesting some other activity.\n\n*Be consistent. If children, for example, masturbate while they are at day care, parents should work out a solution with their children’s day care provider. It is important that the behavior be treated in the same way by parents and by other care providers.\n\nWhen to Seek Help\n\nOn rare occasions, children’s masturbation habits may be an
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at 13 if you are having the urge to masturbate then do it. just don't have sex.. you are way too young.. if you are really that interested in sex at your age you should start thinking about birth control, and other forms of protection against sexually transmitted disease's.
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well i think she has something mentally wrong with her.. but that is my opinion...i have never masterbated in my entire life.. i have known plenty of women that have but i never have.. but she is just a young girl... i have also heard about nymphomaniacs.. and she may be just the canidate for that...she could really damage herself too... and seriously... well i know you may not want to do this but i think you should tell your school counselor about this or your parents and  see if they can tell you what to do, and maybe they can help you see she gets the help she needs.. you would feel really bad if something really bad happened to her....i would be scared and very concerned too.. but try to think who you can talk to , and seek advice and the best way to handle this situation....and do not waste a lot of time either...she does need counseling i know for sure....
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It's not so cool, but don't make a big deal of it. If she's a teenager, she already knows the basics of sexuality, so you can explain her in your own words why you use that device, in such way that she will not judge you negatively about it.
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Number one, when your preschool "boyfriend" touched you there, you should have told an adult. That is wrong..plus when you are that young, you don't know what that means. An adult should have straighted both of you out if you were touching each other like that at such a young age..preschool..come on, parents should know about that to educate you.\n\nAnway, masterbation, which is what you are doing, is ok. It is perfectly normal. You won't go to hell, you wont contract some disease, or somethin from doing that. Just MAKE SURE you wash your hands, before you touch yourself down there....especially when you put your fingers inside.  Just make sure, if you touch your butt (you may not see the bacteria that could be on your fingers) make sure you wash your hands extremely well before you touch your vaginal area. If you dont wash your hands everytime you touch or insert fingers, you are at risk for a urinary tract infection or a baterial infection. These are cureable but painful.\n\nI feel its better to explore yourself and pleasure yourself, than to be messing around with boys and having sex at such a young age.
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It is not harmful. No way to avoid it other than being sexually active in some ways. The good news is that when you get a little older they stop or slow down.
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I don't personally have it done, but one of my friends does. She said it is the best thing she has ever done. It hightends sexual pleasure. Guys love the look of it. As long as she is comfortable doing it, go with her. She just needs you for moral support. I'm sure she has her own reasons for wanting to do it.
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first let me know about your age, and masturbate in teenage is normal and excess is not good. it will not affect the sperm count
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No.. not at all.. almost 99% of guys masturbate.. its quite natural to do so.. without worrying go ahead & enjoy in the safest way..
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IT COMPLETELY NORMAL FOR AN ANY BODY TO BE HORNY. WE CANT HELP IT. ITS BETTER FOR HER TO MASTURBATE THAN BE SLEEPING WITH ANY AND EVERYBODY RIGHT?
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No it's not OK. Masturbation is OK as long as it doesn't become an addiction, like you have. You should get help, like a psyquiatrist.
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Look your 16 and you have raging hormones so what I think you are going through is quite normal.  No worries... You will make the right choices for yourself as you mature... experimentation is normal...
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I'm not sure I understand. Do you want to fascinate her? The answer would be, you have no business doing so. If the question is, you have fascinated a 16 year old, and you don't know how you did it, as I was 16 once myself, an older man is always more exciting. Because to a 16 year old girl, 16 year old boys are childish.
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This might give you more insight in a religious sense and matter.  http://www.religioustolerance.org/masturba.htm\n\nI think what your doing is alright as long as your not lusting at another person.
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Masturbate, of course.\nIt's the natural and logical thing to do.\nIf you're asking this question, it means you're probably fairly young so I certainly don't recommend going out and messing around with guys. \n\nTry theclitoris.com for information on masturbation.