i like this boy in my class. we have some things in common, but how should i ask him out?
409433
Sure, if you want.  Follow your instincts. I am sure he would be flattered.\n\nSometimes, girls have to make the first move.
749358
just go up to him and ask him out
792567
JUST TALK TO HIM AFTER CLASS!!!!!!!!!! take a big breath and say , "HEY, _____________, WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS LOOKIN' AT ME?"
960878
Ask him. "Do you like me?"
616483
be straight forward with it. go up to him and say "will you go out with me" if he likes you (which it sounds like he does) he'll say yes and everything'll be just as if he asked you out.
264148
if you are to scared, write a note to him, give it to a willing friend, and write in it like "meet me after school" or "I really like you, will you go out with me?" ect. or you can talk to one of his friends to do it for you it worked for me ^.^
789974
If you think he would go out with you then flirt a bit with him and then he should ask you out but if you think he wont go out with you then just admire him from affair like the rest of the girls at your school...and probably the teachers.
101618
write him a note 2 slip in his locker or even to him durring passing periods that asks him for his email address or YIM if he has it. that way u can just tell him its a friendship thing, but then if he has YIM or somethin like that & u r talkin with him and u want to ask him out, slowly waltz ur way ino the subject , dont drop the bomb on him. ok?
1073296
Look first of all relax. Plus don't ask a guy out just because your friends want you to, it only matters what you want. Second are you sure you are ready to have a boyfriend, and not be taken advantage of? before asking the "boy" in your class start off by talking to him, like you would talk to your friends so that your "stumic" can get used to the idea of talking to the boys, then when you are confortable ask him out.
488281
ok. i 've got a plan. try to participate in a lot of activities at his school. although you are a 7th grader, there may be activities at his school still. you can become more easily known. like that, some time sooner or later, the boy will come up to you and say, "Hey, you are in the ...*whatever you participated in*" and you will say, "Yeah, I am." ANd then you can began a short introduction there. it won't take too many guts, because he approached you. If he doesn't approach you, then just appraoch him. With things like, "Hi! Do you want to join this club too?" Pretend to be advertising a club. ANd you can say,"This club is really cool becasue of *blank* if you ever want to join contact me I am *say ur name*." It's not that hard.
522251
try to see what you have in common and talk to him about  that then if things go well tell him how you feel.
569744
If the boy stares at you more than other girsl he is trying to get you to notice him.  Next time you catch his eye go sit down next to him and start up a conversation about school.\n\nIf this works you can move the conversation  to the fun things you like to do and whether you should go out together.
964022
you sure be confident and don't be afraid to ask him if he likes you and try to ask him out. If it doesn't work out, you guys could still be friends.
81633
Do you have any classes with him or share any same interests that you could call and talk about? You could always call him and ask a question about homework or just be natural and call him and tell him that you were wondering if he might want to hang out sometime. Take a deep breath and just make the call, chances are he likes you too and conversation will happen naturally once you get past the hellos!
431847
be yourself...your going to be nervious...it happens...everyones nervous around guys they like...spark up a conversation....so that this way you can try to find out what you have in common with him...good luck sweetie and remember to be yourself
920505
No honey do not ask him out for coffee.  Start up a friendship.  You definitely need a more clear cut sign to his being gay or not.  He could just be friendly so keep it casual.  Anything else could sabotage it before it starts.  Keep your head over your emotions, you must protect yourself.  You innocently could have scoped out the most homo phobic guy in school.  Learn chin ups.  Ask around about him, very cautiously.  Be careful.
755736
if u like him talk to him.... flirt with him.... if he likes u then he will ask u out....just do it and c where this goes...good luck!!