I am in love with someone I have not seen in 5 years. Am I completely insane?
399663
if the now relation is doomed --walk away.\nbut don't expect miracles!!, like living happyly ever after with eric.\n..live real!!, be well..
175510
u used the word "infatuated" and it may just be it. however, others experienced falling in love with a person even before meeting the person and it could be u this time. u will know because he/she will not get out of your system- be sleeping or be awake. good luck.
222598
First, this is a situation only you and she can solve.  It's up to the two of you.  Second, I question your feelings for each other, given the fact that you have never met.  Third, if you seriously do want to be together why can't she travel to your country?  Lastly, sometimes relationships don't work out...and there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If things haven't worked in three years, chances are they won't.  Maybe you both should be looking for love a little closer to home.  Just some insight.
378348
It sounds like you are infatuated.  You don't know him well enough to love him yet.
529903
You are most likely in for some terrible disappointment if you approach him about this. Do not do it. Erotic love is not love if it is not a mutual. Your imagination has run wild, and you have nothing more than a sweet, old-fashioned, one-sided infatuation with this person.\n\nClearly you do not know him as well as you think you do. If you did, then you would already know how to bridge the subject with him -- OR you would realize that it is not wise. The fact that you do not know how to approach him means that you do not know him well enough and that you have only been fantasizing about him. So the best thing you can do is simply settle the issue in your mind, which is what you will inevitably have to do the minute you open your mouth and realize that you have just made an irreversible mistake.
198027
Well, I have had a feeling I was in love like you are describing ....It was all very fast...or was it just lust...Anyhow...it felt like time stood still when we were together...but time actually went by and it went by fast.  It's like the breeze stops blowing and your heart stops for those moments you are together.  You never want it to end..Kinda feels like one big dream.  I have been with "the one" who this happend with for 5 years.  Hope my description helps....oh and you both feel it...not just one of you
510426
I am in the same boat. There is this guy who I am totally falling for, but we are taking things slow...as in just friends for now...slow. We talk, we laugh, we just have fun, we have so much in common, including our birthdays...LOL. I would take it as a definite sign that you are head over heels in love and that you just want to spend every waking moment with that person. Don't worry, you're not alone, I know exactly how you feel right now.
360218
try to examine yourself.If you are really falling for this guy and yet you know that already he has a 6 years steady girlfriend, well, wake up to the real world girl!He can't be yours for he has another. Talk to him about your present situation and tell him that your confuse about your situation. Ask him what he really feels for you because you might be confused on love and friendship he is offering to you. Pray to God for guidance and understanding.There is still so many guys outthere, single and much appropriate for your love and sincerity. A guy you can call your OWN.
45854
Yes it is possible to love someone that you meet and see only once...this feeling is within your heart.. maybe your attracted to that person and you will never forget her..try to keep the feeling inside and someday maybe it will come true...
409260
Absolutely.  He did- he moved, didn't he???\n\nBelieve me, right now you're thinking and feeling like there isn't anybody else and you were meant to be together, yadda, yadda, yadda.\n\nBut, even if he was still around and you were together, you wouldn't feel like that a year from now.\n\nThere are just toooo many great, smart, and sexy men to settle just for one.
630689
He is nuts. really. THis is a no brainer, and being with him will make you insane. Find another to love. It is off the wall,s off the vharts, out of reality.
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
711749
hey, youre heart isnt in the right place man! you have a lifetime to wait but a lifetime to waste. your will must aligned to the will of God in your life. The woman you love 8 years ago will not be the same woman you love at this very moment. Put yourself in a mirror and tell yourself what a handsome guy like you wasting your life in waiting. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..Go back to the basic.
174753
hey come on... that's just an infatuation or maybe you're putting your ilussion into reality. what if time will come that you'll meet her and you'll be surprised with her being over weight and some kind of an elephant-look body-shape, will you still fall in love with that lady. i bet you will run away and thanking of yourself for not introducing yourself to her. check it out boy...
75148
becasue love will make you do crazy things lol..more than likely you lost your *******mind...or you never had one...
741468
Well maybe you loved her and you didn't even noticed it before,and now you are truly feeling for it,but there is only one thing you can do,go talk to her about because we never know,what if she loved you but never said anything?Maybe she gave up on you and found somebody else...Good luck
38092
u better be careful girl, or else ull break ur heart...there are lots of crazy people online dont easly trust anyone...i know ur smart...so be careful. dont just  listen to ur heart but use ur mind too...MUAH!