Why do women prefer sex with the lights off?
403103
i agree with you. many like the lights off, dont know why, but i like to see who im screwing.
251660
unless you have bad diabetes or high blood pressure (which you probably don't), it's psychological - lighten up... take your time in bed with someone that turns you on and is patient instead of just demanding performance.
798986
most women are afraid of losing control, which is why some women never have an orgasm, it is all subconscious.
140820
Different comfort levels.  Some woman do not want them in the way, and some woman don't want to be seen.  It's mostly about function ( convenient or not) and preference.
181250
The light will be on/off
596543
turn off all of the lights so that it is pitch dark in your house. Open the drapes. If it is lighter outside (full moon, street lights, etc) no one will be able to see in. Then take off all of your clothes and masturbate while looking outside. of course, you may want to go outside and look in just to make sure you can't see in. \nor... go buy a cucumber. ;-)
722810
no that turns girls off
39161
Allows work, and play, to be conducted 24/7\n\nIn the old days fuel was too costly to keep the lights on all night.  Lights Out really meant Lights Out.
515986
It may be the result of evolutionary psychology. In the time of our ancestors, forest was the best natural source of privacy away from the communal caves and huts that would be suspect locations of the occurrance of sex. Most of us humans desire to have sex in private. Then there is the question of why we desire to have sex in private in the first place. It is because sex is regarded as a reward for a position of status, yet it is indispensibly necessary for reproducing our genes. When sex is witnessed, it is likely to be seen as a symbol of status and/or a challenge to someone else's dominance. Even in modern times, the older generation dominates the younger generation by restricting all things sexual, and there is a mutual dominance between bound partners that forbids sex with others. Evidently we haven't come far from our australopithecine ape ancestors.
330651
When a woman becomes "turned on", several things happen. Her pupils will dialate and her cervix becomes moist, which allows for easier intercourse.
428058
because you touch yourself at night
1097551
At work we just got motion sensitive switches.  If there isn't any movement for so long, the lights turn themselves off.  Saves a bunch on electricity.  Of course they automatically turn themselves back on when we walk through.
416519
It's lubrication. Without it sex would be dry and painful
254205
Because we know what you guys are thinking, and we know it gets you off to hear us say it, but we don't want to actually DO whatever kinky thing you're talking about.  We want to please you, and frankly, if we were in the throes of passion, and we said, "heck, no, I don't want to do that!", it would kinda ruin the mood.  \n\nTalk with her honestly (if you REALLY want to know) sometime when you're NOT having sex.
505563
if it takes longer like that woman said then why dont they have time to put it down? why cant they look to see or if its the middle of the night and dont wanna put on the light the can feel to make sure. ive heard that that is when it happens most and that just seem dumb. if you can fall in and get all wert isnt it worth feeling to see if its there
144858
Many people believe this because our society does not clearly educate us on what intimacy is and how it can exist in a non-sexual environment. It's like a voyeur peeking through a key hole. Sex is the part of the room that you see. Intimacy is the whole house. There's so much more to be explored in an intimate relationship.
1001782
Love,   Sex isnt important, you can just cuddle, Looking into eachothers souls.\nLust,  you dont know the color of the person's eyes because they are rolled back into their head\nmarriage,  You have sex with the light off.