please advice me on what to do.. im a confused teenager who loves her friend too much, can you help me?
403530
I dont know what to think about the whole Godsisters thing. Just tell her point blank that you'll miss her, and you want her to keep in touch with you. Be the mature one and walk up to her and talk to her. Its that easy. Don't go up to her and say "hey do you want to be Godsisters?" Because honestly, unless she believes in all that too.. She'll think youre crazy or joking. Just go up to her Like I said and tell her you want to keep in touch and how you feel! Hopefully she'll feel the same way and you'll have a friend for life! Good Luck
888165
WOw. I've been through the same exact thing this is what i did i just straight up told her that i was feeling left out and when i was hanging out with her and her new friend it was akward cuz she wouldn't act the same. You have to tell her cuz it will drive u carzy and will cause drama. If she is a real true friend she'll understand and make things better. If not find a new best friend that wont skrew u over for another person instead of treatin u the same
74164
Respect your friend's wishes to make these changes for a while.  \nMaybe she is moving on and maturing in a new relationship.  \nYou are still her friend unless you choose not to be. Be there and show your true friendship and support, and let HER know you are waiting for her on "The other side".  All you can do is be a friend.  You cannot live your friend's live.  Good luck and find some new 'cool' friends if you are bored.  Don't let yourself be too closed in in your thinking; and broaden your friendship base, so that when one moves on, you have others to enjoy.\n\nYou can still like this person for who they are, not what they do or don't do.
1020083
Dont ever loose someone for someone else.  If both parties are that close to you - you can come to some agreement between them.  See your friend  - then see your girl.  Let them both know how you feel.  Whichever one is willing to work out the situation is really there for you.  Hopefully they will both understand - you dont all have to hang out together at the same time.  True friends are hard to come by.  They are there for you to the end...But when a relationship goes bad - who do you turn to?  If it is her asking you to give up your friend....tell her no way.  If it is him asking you to give her up - find out why
529659
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.
755862
You need to just let it go & don't let her have that much power over you. You are allowing this person to determine your happiness. Just move on & find another friend.
700674
Ya, if her feelings for you are ever going to change from friendship to relationship, it's probably not gonna happen when she knows that your waiting for her. I've had friends in the past that have professed their love for me after we had been friends for awhile, pretty much, once your in the friend place it's really hard to come out of. I'm not saying it's impossible but her knowing how you feel probably isn't helping, she knows you'll be there untill she's ready. My advice...move on, still be her friend but date someone else. If there ever is a chance of her feelings toward you changing, it'll happen when she thinks she's lost you. Everyone loves a challenge ;) Good Luck!
577114
How old are you? I get the feelin that you're not that mature. Your BEST FRIEND broke up with her boyfriend and youre already  in the line to get him? C'mon, you're kidding. Of course she's mad at you! Don't go out with him if you wanna keep this girl as your friend. Haven't you heard; guys come and go, friends are forever.
1040810
Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
445701
reconsile hun. be up front with her, tell her how u really feel! dont be afraid to talk to her for the how you want ur friendship to be and how important it is to you. ask her if it's something she wants also. dont let it go, b/c if it goes unsaid and unexpressed, trust me, the friendship will fade and you'll end up standing beside urself wondering wtf happened.
316408
Well first of all. Talk to her, make it so your friends first or something. Try not be so weird around her, save that for your friends. But don't change completely who you are for her. If she doesn't like you for who you are, she's not worth your time
764904
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
892713
Cherish, you have done all that you can do. The best thing you can now is to begin making new friends. I always tell younger people such as yourself to make as many friends in this life as possible, because you never know what around the corner. Hopefully she will wise up and be the friend to you that she was before. But don't  sit around waiting ok. Don't worry your heart will heal.
351231
Don't pay attention to your friend. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I am sure your friend means well, but don't pay attentio to her. you need to go by what it is that you feel and what your heart is telling. \n\nIf you feel that there is a problem, you should talk to your boyfriend about it.
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
1021941
Sweetheart, you are young and in love; I know it sounds like a hard thing to do, but just be her friend, you are both too young to have this kind of stress in your lives. Be her friend, and be a good friend, things have a really weird way of working themselves out, so don't worry, if you love her you will cherish any relationship you have with her. \n\nP.S. You sound like a guy that any girl would be lucky to have, but I have to tell you; this probably wont be the last time you feel this way. I wish you good luck and good love
961521
I Think she is thinking as more than a friend. And she thinks that you are only one who can understand her feelings and can give some kind of support to her. Plz let it continue the same.\nAnd i think you have to wait for the right moment to express your love.\n\nALL THE BEST!!!!!!