is it wrong when a guy is telling the truth that he dosent having a girlfriend or a lover?
396768
I have no idea what you are talking about, but I think if you are having trouble getting a girlfriend it MIGHT be your lack of the ability to make a complete, understandable sentence.
68687
Probably case of a jealous lover/friend/admirer. Dont think you need to bother too much about what the person said. If you think you are not "loose", you are not loose.
142889
I think that guys feel that they have to lie because they dont feel to comfortable about themselves and they want to impress the girl. It's like if their with their friends and they want to make a cool impression without changing the guy stereotype which is to a bunch of women that all men are dogs which is'nt true. Yes some guys are ass holes but I mean a woman can be a bitch. It's like the stereotype for women that their all manipulative which is also not true. Their not all after your money. Hell cant a woman just like you. But.. back to the origional thing why guys lie; guys seem to lie more and more to impress they dont want to let the girl down and sure lying isnt the best way to make a good impression and I'm not even going to try and back that up but hey were not all perfect. If you feel like the guys lying to you confront him, I know it's not always the easy thing to do but you want someone nice and it's not "nice" to lie so their you have it. If he admits to lying the best thing to do is give a second chance. If he does it again you have every right to kick his but right out that door just tell him "Watch your step on the way out of my life." and leave him.
126444
I think not all men lie. The ones who lie should not even be givin the time of day. If you are accused of cheating or lying, and you are not, then they are most likely cheating or doing something wrong to you. Dont waste your time.
71915
no matter how small a lie is, yes you're right, its still lie! if he's doing that not only once/twice, there's something wrong with him, and dont just believe that he doesnt wanna hurt your feelings... both of you have to talk about it.
233349
Yes, it's definitely wrong to accuse, but it's not wrong to confront them and question them about what you heard.  There's a way to do it tactfully without offending them and screwing up things worse than they may be, or even damaging the relationship if it's not in danger.  Ask in a non threatening way.
928603
To me, guys ask that question moreless to see if you would mess with so-and-so because if you said that you would then they can assume that you are easy and a hoe but if you say that you wouldn't mess with him that you are uptight. Sometimes a guy just ask the question to see how you respond to them. I know I have been in that predictiment plenty of times. So the best way to answer it is to say, "I don't know who or what you are referring to because I never went anywhere with so-and-so." Because that leads them to believe that so-and-so lied about alot of things and they will try to mend what they feel was inappropiate.
475071
If you feel like you need to keep it a secret from  him, then yes it is wrong.  If you do it for more than just casual companionship, then it is cheating even if its not in a physical sense.
310203
It was never meant to be that way. You will never find a "normal" guy who says he wants to just be friends with a woman by way of a platonic relationship. However I have heard women say that. Whether they are lying or not, I don't know. If a man says it, he is lying! When a woman starts revealing her personal feelings about things in her  life to her supposed platonic male friend, he either wants to do one of three things. He wants to either protect her, take advantage of her while she is in her weakness, or tell her to shut the hell up with her constant whining! Too much hormonal interference going on!\n    As a man, I am telling you the truth. That is why I avoid platonic relationships with women. I know my own limitations.  Besides that, I am married and my wife doesn't go for that stuff! By the way ladies, are women lying when they say that?
238280
personally being a male my advise is leave it as it is unless she cheated he doesn't need to know unless he asks her if she is personally it shouldn't matter weather she is a virgin or not what should matter is wheather they care about each other because if he cares for her then it shouldn't matter and i would leave it the way is is unless he brings it up then tell him the truth. if you would like to talk alittle more about this here is my e-mail address and good luck with your friend. (GiantReese@yahoo.com)
330841
You know people might say it's a lie.  Just think about it this way though; a man is way less mature than a women.  A women might think about the consequences while a man just skims through them and goes by his first instinct which is lying.  Doesn't mean he doesn't love you!!!!!!!!!!!!  When you were young you lied a couple of times to your parents right?  Do you not love them or at that moment did you not love them.  Noo Right!!!!!!!!!!!!  Men were just made with a very ignorant way of thinking.  It's a little complicated to explain at times but just remember to them a lie is not what it seems to us.  To them it's just a part of life and it's nothing.
397945
Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!
302313
Wrong!!! He's wrong for not giving you the information that you need.  You should demand that he divulge information about himself.  What is he trying to hide.  You need to be very direct and firm in your approach.  Good Luck!!!
1169679
The statement, "Don't want a girlfriend right now", is a euphemism meaning he wants to play the field.  \nHe is currently only interested in finding girls that want to have sex and no commitments.
429520
Don't lie to someone if you want to be friends with them. If you don't care about them, fibs are okay, though honesty is always best.\n\nMy answer, though? It's a good move, if you want that person to think you have a boyfriend, as long as you're a good liar.\n\nBut lying isn't nice.
1134705
Well you shouldn't be lying in the first place. It has been my experience that the truth alway's comes out. It is the nature of truth to come out and if you have to lie, be prepared when you least expect it, for the truth to come out.
558490
Dont play with his feelings like that cause someone could get hurt. Just tell him and get it over with. Cause if you do that, he will think that you are full of games. And being dishonest is the worst way of starting a relationship.