why do guys like skinny women better than fat women? and what about girls?
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This is tricky question.  I want to be sure of what I am answering.  My friends and I all agree that 10 pounds too heavy is better than ten pounds too light.  So we actually prefer a "real" woman complete with curves (love those curves ;) ).  If you are asking why men prefer a weight height proportionate woman to an obese woman that is a different question.  The truth is (this will shock you) that generally speaking thinner women are more self confident.  Large women carry a chip on thier shoulder and often do not believe they are attractive and so they are not.  Half of a woman's beauty is in her self confidence.  If she is confident it it shows and if she is not she will be an emotional burden.  Constantly reassuring someone that you love them when they see no reason to love themselves is an overwhelming thing.  \n\nNow as for the other half... the physical fact is, I suspect that some of the answer is biological, that is a thinner women appears to be a fitter candidate for bearing and nurturing children.  Part of it is certainly cultural.  Part of it is also the idea that if you pick a thin one they will live longer and thus you will have more time with them.  They have also proven that they have self control (please no flames, I know about thyroids and etc, but a lot of obese people simply eat too much of the wrong foods and do too little of the right physical activities, sorry it's the truth!) and thier ability to care for themselves hints that they will be able to care for thier significant other  and/or children.  \n\nIn short the most attractive thing to a man is health, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual and the care of the body can be used to an extent to judge the health of the individual.
77725
personally, i find a larger woman more attractive. i feel that naturally, women should be rounder, softer, and less toned than men. look at old art. the women had curves where they should. only recently has it become necessary (to others) that a woman be a stick figure. and, guys, let me tell you, your loss is my gain. you really dont know what you are missing.                                                 p.s. glad you got to keep the d's!
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Every guy cares about looks -- that's just the way we are wired.  But not every guy has the same thing that turns him on -- some guys are into skinny women, some are into normal-sized women, and some are into large women.  If a particular guy isn't into you, don't sweat it -- you can't change a guy's preferences, so just find a guy who is attracted to you.  In the meantime, having a cool personality and a good attitude helps too.
508565
mostly skinny but i have dated a thick girl and she was a really good girl... alot of it has to do with personality. Personality can make a girl lood beautiful
768915
i'd rather have a thin girl.  Skinny girls are awesome.  No, I don't care that chubby girls have bigger ti ts/ but ts.
397087
I think guys like plus size women now because they are tired of seeing the skinny women every where they go.  Plus size women are just as pretty as the other woman.  They probably want something different, someone who's not afraid to eat in front of them, someone who's not afraid to get in the kitchen and cook, and someone who doesn't care what every body else want from them. A plus size woman is just a woman who has found their self and know their self inside and out and we 're plump as a roast and better than most
1002904
Yes, your friends are right!  Only women think that being super thin is cool.  Why do think guys look at girls who look curvy, if you know what I mean!  Everything should be real.  They like it if its natural.    After all why do think our bodies are made different than men?  Of course it has to be curvy.
57056
As with anything in life, everyone has their preferences. Initially most people will be attracted to someone else by looks but if they have any substance to themselves they will usually like people for their personality and interests. "Skinny" is not always an automatic guarantee that guys will like you. My husband prefers girls who have more on them than just their clothes. Most of the guys I've ever known prefer girls with some meat on them.
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I'm a guy who loves big women.  The bigger the woman is the better the sex usually is.  I want someone to keep me warm at night, to hold me and cuddle, and for sex, OMG i love being ridden by a big girl with a big soft butt i can grab and squeeze and big girls have huge breasts!  also, big girl's pussies are so warm inside compared to skinny women, the feeling is unbeleiveable
208617
I think that they are.  Guys who are fat is the norm for us (USA).  I mean I work with several HUGE men.  But I also work with a few HUGE women.  Who gets the most sh*t about being overweight?  The woman.  Most people think that a pretty girl is a skinny girl.  I'm overweight but not grossly so.  I hate feeling the ugly one when I happen to be standing next to a skinny girl and a guy checks her out and ignores me.  But hey I don't really hvae to worry about it.  I have a loving guy in my life who loves me for ME.
235959
thick to obese.they don't work out,so they don't expect you to,there is ALWAYS food around and they have almost always had to take time to educate themselves and develop a personality.most of the time they are just funner to be with and they usually will do more to please there partner than those so-called hot chick with the bad attitudes.I'll take a big girl with a sense of humor over a skinny girl that complains anytime.
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How much a woman eats doesn't determine how sexy she is.  Not all skinny girls are sexy. Not all big girls are unattractive. \n\nTo me, it has to do with how a woman carries herself.  Wether or not she has respect for herself and can be comfortable with who she is.
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hey, do nothing about your weight okay.  I have been married for almost 14 years.  When was young, I wanted to go out with the skinny girl. which i have, but they dump me for no reason.  Well, when i found my wife I have now. She wasn't skinny, but she was not ugly either. she was a little overweight, but I still love her no matter what. I know their is some guys that just want a skinny  gals. If they just want a skinny gal, they got a problem. The overweight couple have a better marriage than the skinny couple do. Just don't go by the looks, go by the good heart. I myself was very skinny, before i got married,and was bad underweight, but now since i got married, i have gain, and got bigger, but not too fat at all. I am always doing something very active. so remember the overweight is nothing to be shame off. if he don't like you cause  you are overweight, then he is no good.
34018
i think that is so on true. girls are not fatter then guys if you look at the scale if a woman is 5'6 she is only suppose to be 114 lbs and if a guy is 5'6 he can be 150 lbs so how do you figure that and we even have extra bones then you do and we have to have the kids way you all out doing what every your hearts want to . as far as woman go we fight hard to keep thin then any man can.
356601
Personally I like a woman that is thicker. However some women are just to overweight. The problem is not men its the way that the magizines and TV have programmed everyone into thinking that an attractive woman has to have a figure like a pencil which I find revolting. There are men out there for everyone you just have to find him. Set your standards and never settle and you will have a great guy.
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men prefer skinny woman due to what society thinks. I think a lot of men prefer skinny woman because they are embarrassed to be with BBW's. They think that there friends will laugh at them or make fun of them or whatever. whilst I have a bbw for a wife, I wouldnt mind seeing her loose the weight..now I dont wish that she was like a size 5 or anything that skinny but I would like to see her be somewhere around a 12. She has told me she wants to be a size 12. I would also like to see her loose some of the weight due to health problems and her annoying snoring! Remember Norma Jean (AKA Marylin Monroe)?? does anyone know what size she was?? no she wasnt a 5 or 7 or anything that skinny. she was around a size 12. people back in her hay day especially the guys, liked woman who had some meat on them. not too excessively fat but not stick skinny either. I think that hollywood is responsible for the change in peoples attitudes regarding the size of woman. I also think that society today is slowly changing its attitudes to be more favorable to bigger woman. But it will be a awhile before society and hollywood will totaly be acceptive of big woman.
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I asked my hubby and son about this and here is what they said.  My son prefers girls with curves!  He doesn't like real skinny boney women.  My hubby says he likes tiny petite women.  SOOOOO I would have to say it depends on the man!  Just be yourself and someone will love u for who u r.  Remember- u r beautiful on the inside and out!  Did u know Cleopatra was only 4 ft 5 and weighed 180 lbs????  And she was considered the most beautiful woman in the world!