is my friend crazy if she go with boys the age of 25?
407692
It depends on how old SHE IS.
777567
No it's not just you this is a pretty big age difference for a guy to want to be a good friend with a girl of this age.  Hope that he isn't using her for any other reason than friendship as young girls that age are so vunerable.
130828
That does kinda look bad since he is like double her age, it depends really if they are from USA it gonna be bad cause of the laws, but europe it would be fine cause its legal, does this 16 year old girl know what she getting herself into? he is at the age where he started a career and hopefully wants wife and children while her age still at school and has so many years left and hasnt started to know what she wants. I think she seriously needs to think about it and I don't want to sound mean or nothing but a 30 year old guy not gonna get serious with a 16 year old sorry!
1060723
i would ask her doctor about it i have a 12 year old son & he doesnt act that way but it may be a normal thing for a girl her age...how ever if things dont change i would think about maybe family counceling before things get out of hand..i think too many people these days dont really pay attention to their children untill its too late if she has a problem i think u may have found it in time to help her ...i can tell u are a good parent who loves and cares for your child so u just do what u think  is best & im sure things will turn out just fine
95318
thats perfectly okay. i am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend is 21 soon to be 22. i love him with all my heart. older boys are hotter more experinced and know how to treat a girl. i'm his little princess. but tell your friend to be careful some boys are in it for the booty action. so i wish good luck to your friend.
785486
DUDE, She is 18 It's legal now!!! Come on man thats the best suprise. Trust me\n\nAs the imfamouse Bill And Ted stated in Bill&Teds Excellet Adventure "69 Dudes!"\n\n\nare you 18?
1165804
Wait until at least 18!\n\nTeenagers are finding out who they really are. They may be easily impressed with someone who is "settled" in life, has an apartment, an income, a car etc.\n\nYet, they may change a lot in what they like and want before they are 21. In my view, it would be better for her to wait until she is at least 18 to get married as a legal adult. When married and things do not work out, everything is more traumatic and more difficult. She can still be friends until 18 or 21 and see how the friendship will develop.\n\nMost often young teenagers get married in a hurry because there is a baby on the way. This may be so, and other considerations may come into play.\n\nWishing your friend the right decision.\nCordially, India.Magica
75614
They have to set a date somewhere. How much does that sort of thing affect you now? Seriously, so they're with a different group, and a year later. Big deal. It really means that they will be one of the more mature kids, that could be a great advantage, certainly better than being one of the least mature when you hit puberty!
186783
Keep in mind he is a "tutor," not "teacher." There is nothing to report. They are both consenting adults regardless of the age difference. If You are worried about your freind talk to her, but in the long run she will have to learn from her own mistakes.
180213
I know you really care about your friend, and that is very good.  I am afraid in this case, you probably should advise her as well as possible about STD's and the like.  In fact, rather than talk to her parents, I think you could educate her yourself.  Take her to Planned Parenthood, and let them really inform her about what she must do to be safe.  You can threaten to tell her parents if she doesn't--a little leverage.  I think, however, that is the best compromise.  She has free will, and must be allowed to both trust in you and make her own choices in life.  Because you care, it is your right to "stack the deck" in favor of safety by connecting her to sexually safe information from a place like Planned Parenthood--who, by the way, is COMPLETELY confidential.  She cannot say no.  So sneak her away for lunch and a session at PP.  Make it a fun day.  Call ahead and make an appointment.  In fact, it may be wise for you to consult them about your situation.  They have dealt with this 1000's of times, and can probably add great information to what I have already told you.  Good luck.  Being a good friend is sometimes hard, but a betrayal to her parents is something you will never get to change.  IF she screws up herself, it is not your responsibility.  Sometimes people only learn when things go wrong--sad, but true.  Be sure to follow up with what happens if  you decide to consult them!!!  :)
191175
Definitely not right!!! different interests, different points of view, he's an adult and could manipulate her and push her to do things she's not ready to do yet!\nShe needs someone on her age.
301980
No.  Maybe she's Christian and does not believe in fornication (premarital sex).  Not everyone has sex by the age of twelve!
250019
You are a good friend to be that worried about your friend!\n\nNothing is wrong with your friend, I'm sure those guys just weren't right for her in one way or another.\n\nWhen the right guy enters the scene she won't turn him down.\n\nHave you ever thought that something might have happend to your friend and maybe she might not want to be with a guy for a while???  Something she may think she can't talk to you about?\n\nThen again your friend's interest may have turned from boys to...  \n\nEither way just let your friend know your there for her and that no matter what you will be!
389520
Well, your friend must be more mature than her age and she doesnt want a guy whom she has to correct all the while but a guy who can correct her and tell her when she is wrong, a guy who can take care of her, who is experienced enough to know how to take care of an 18 year old girl's emotions and feelings. We women we love to be protected than to protect men ! We want to be taken care of, we want to feel great. You think a 20 or so year old guy can do it? He can't even take care of himself and he needs someone to do it for him. Now you put yourself in her shoes and you will get the best answer...! All the best !!\nBut i'll tell u something i'm also 18 and my boyfriend is 35 and married. That's why i could answer your question properly...!
219270
as soon as possible, id say at the latest age 8, a young lady should have her own space and room! i would have been embaressed to bring friends over too if i shared space with my brother
906310
hmm, i dont think it sounds weird.  Is she talking about trying to look for a man, but they act like boys?
497123
Well, if your friend is like one of my best friends, then there is nothin you can do. If she hasn't learned in almost 3 years, then nothin you do or say is going to convince her that he is not the one for her. I've been going through the same thing with my friend since we were in middle school, but she is the type that you can't tell her anything about her man because she's "grown and knows what she's doing". As bad as it hurts me to see her continuously choosing to date abusive (physical and emotional) and disrespectful men, I know that she will have to learn on her own. Just pray that she'll come around -soon.