i guy that i like always talks about me to his best friend,why wont the best friend tell me what he says?
398139
he is a good best friend
861841
try talking to him you know just a casual conversation or something.  you should maybe wait to tell your friend since your not best friends yet good luck!
399498
it sounds like they dont care how you feel, is ther someone that she really like so that you all can hang out together so they can see what they are doing to you is not fair.  How long have you been goin with him. tell them you dont like it and you mean when you say it and if they dont listen hit them where it hurts be even dirtier then they are date someone else becuase he is cheating on you with your best friend
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Another one we have to translate first:  I think you said that your best friend is real quiet when you go to study with other guys. Perhaps I got it wrong though; you really do need to edit your question carefully before you submit it.\n\nIf he is generally a very quiet person, you may need to ask him, "Does this bother you?" about a given situation.  You might explain why you go to study with the other guys.  Why do you?  Because they speak up more, so the study session is more useful?  Or because you really prefer that style?  If the latter is the case, how is it you call the quiet guy your best friend?
511423
Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
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This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
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I have a friend like that.  And it gets very annoying!!  Her main thing is with guys though, she always has to be center of attention.  Whenever I would be talking about something to do with me, she would always butt in and start talking about herself.  Finally one time she butted in and I stopped her and said,"Can I finish my story that I wanted to tell you and then I will listen to yours!"  I was just honest with her about always interrupting me with her stories, and when it came to guys she was always being too pushy for me to get with someone. (She's married so it was like she would do the flirting for me-and that is NOT GOOD!)\nShe is better now but she still has her moments.  I have known her for about 10 years now so we are pretty honest with each other, and we know we will always be there when the other has a problem.  So I say just be honest with her, a little at a time, and remember there are probably things about you that annoy her also and if she mentions any just take it as constructive criticism.  No one is perfect and who better to tell you about your faults than your best friend, that way you can work on being a better person together.\n\nRemember be gentle and honest!
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Hey hun... well - I know just where you're coming from on this one as my best friend (guy) has just had this problem as he told his friend how he felt about her.\nFirstly, don't feel guilty about saying anything - it will have actually made things less awkward between the two of you. If you're close friends (as you say you are) then she shouls respect you for saying something to her face. Far too many guys don't say anything and the girl doesn't know where she stands at all.\nI don't think you "need" to rectify what you said - it's said now and that's final - you can't sincerely say anything that will take it back - and it will never be forgotten.\nYou say she feels something for you too, but still said you should stay friends - it sounds to me like she's scared of losing the friendship you have, which if it's as special and close as you say would be a shame. I don't understand though, why she said that she liked you and still turned you down - I mean, if she truly respected your feelings - would she have kept quiet and not kept you going through this torture, with the hope that something could still happen. I know that, obviously, you think the world of her - but are you sure she's worh it and she's not just playing with your affections and your emotions.\nI think you did right keeping quiet for a few days, you didn't say anything in the heat of the moment, and have let everything settle. If her reply to you didn't say anything about what you said, this could mean she'd rather move on - stay friends and not spoil your friendship in anyway. However, it could also be that she doesn't want to be the one to raise the topic, maybe she's embarrassed or maybe she thinks you're embarrassed and don't want her to raise the subject. It's up to you on that one - if you want to talk about it then bring it up in a quiet moment in private. However - if you do want to talk about it, make sure you don't sound like you're renewing your feelings to her, or are pleaing with her to take your relationship to a new level - as this is likely to spoil any chances of remaining friends.\nIf you are as close as you say, I don't think she will behave differently. But, even if she does, you MUST NOT behave differently around her - keep being as close as you ever were - this should put her at her ease a little more.\nI know it's difficult, as I said my friend's in the same sit, but you have to try and stop seeing "signs" that she likes you. Just try and see these that you and her are close friends and nothing more. Slowly try and get yourself to see someone else in this way - althought it's likely you will always like this friend as more than that.\nI hope this helps you, good look mate - I have a feeling you might need it with this one.
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just hang around maybe he doesnt wanna talk about it with you coz he might be scared that if he opens up to u, u will refuse to talk to him and leave him what i mean is he feels that if he opens up to you b4he's ready,u might decide to endyour friendship with him\ndont push him to tell u anything maybe to him its not a problem just keep telling him that u aint going nowhere and that u will stand by him no matter what that way he will know that u really want to help him ok.DONT LEAVE HIM ALONE BE THERE FOR HIM
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
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in other words..you like him. yall are best friends. your scared if you tell him he wont be friends anymore...\n\nThe only way you'll ever know what he'll say is too tell him...or have a friend tell if you don't feel confident enough. But guys admire you more if you tell them to their face. The best thing that will happen is you will hook up. The worst is you will lose a friend. Your call...
189071
His friend might be jealous. I don't think you should listen to him. But don't ask the guy if he likes you cause he might feel bad and say yes, but it won't be the truth.
510543
I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
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if you guys are best friends then there might be a chance that he might be thinkin the same way as you. build the courage and just tell him your feelins. if he's really your best friend then he wont hate you, or avoid you.
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Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
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Be patiently available to him, and let him know that you would not be critical if he was willing to talk to you.  But don't pressure him.  Has it occurred to you that the problem may be ABOUT you?  That's one reason why he might not want to confide in you.  Also, remember that a secret once told cannot be un-told.  He may have considered discussing it with you, and concluded that he'd rather not risk your friendship, or take whatever other risks there might be in confiding.  Respect his right to work out his own problems by himself if that's what he wants to do.
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Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.