I dont want to break the heart of girl, who wants to sleep with me. i dont want to cheat my wife too.?
415262
Ok thats kinda easy. You should be straight out with yourself, if you love your wife then you don't want to put yourself and your wife's future happiness in jeopardy. You should not only think about your feelings, but your wife's as well. And if you want to go out with the other girl, you should think about the future. Do you want a future with the other girl or is it just a one night thing? Think about this and if you have children, think about them as well. If you need any more help, email me. Bye and I hope I helped you.
191884
With the information you have provided, I'm really not sure you should propose.  You certainly shouldn't propose until she gets over this love of someone else...that is just begging for trouble and, if she gets the chance to get together with him in a month, a year, 5 years, will you then have an unfaithful wife?  It seems that she relies on you as a friend and that she loves you that way.  It may be that she will take you as a replacement for the one she really loves and I don't think you want or need that!  I know it is tough, heart breaking and demoralizing, but you need to look after yourself and what is best for you!  Don't settle for being second best.  You want someone who is devoted to you and loves you unconditionally.  Good luck making these tough decisions...they are probably the toughest ones you will ever make and will be life changing.
783768
Well, if she really cares about you, then some stupid pact she made would be null and void! Duh! If she cheats, then oh well for her. I'm sorry, I really am. But honestly, if she does have sex with this guy, then you need to break up with her. Ultimatums are wrong. So, tell her go and have fun, but you just know what you have to do if she comes back with the news of her little pact continuing for yet another break- even though she claims to be in this relationship and it means a lot to her. If it really did, then it wouldn't even be an issue. I mean, why have sex with him, when she has you- someone who cares about her, who doesn't just want sex? There really isn't anything YOU can do. It all seems to be left up to her at this point. I hope she makes the right decision. But hey, if she doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be. trust me- there are girls out there for you to fall in love with, who won't even consider sleeping with another guy! You need to go find her, in the case that this one cheats. Honestly, I wouldn't trust her anymore! I mean, how could you? She basically told you she's going to cheat on you. I mean, damn, come on.
840845
You have a girl friend who knows you love your wife? She knows what she got into. Leave your Girlfriend, Confess to your wife & face the consequences
609107
If your a real man you won't want to take back a woman that was once your wife and now has been married/sleeping with another guy for a year and wants to come back. You should marry the girl your engaged to asap. God knows best.
519262
I agree, the hell with the wife. It is obvious you dont care about loosing her but what if you keep your best friend and he sleeps with someone you really dont want to loose. Not worth the risk to me. Get rid of both of them!!
417979
Don't worry about her and just pray about her.This is the way I feel,she doesn't have to go out with you or be married to you,so forget her.Its not about what she wants anyway.
76837
Hey bro, I feel bad for you. It sounds like you have tried working with her about this. It sounds like you have been patient.You are going to need to make some tough chocies.You are going to need to find out what's really the problem ( her not feeling sexy?,is she having an affair?,not in love with you anymore?,have you done something since your daughter was born to make her act this way?,ect..)You sound like you love her and your daughter and don't want to leave. It sounds like she's not willing to kiss, be romantic,or try to see a doctor about this.To me if she just wants to be friends and isn't willing to change then maybe it's time for you to re-think things out about what you what you want in a wife and if this siutation is really good for you and your daughter. If you continue to be unhappy, this will start to effect you much more, which will at some point effect your daughter, which is something you don't want, she's done nothing. I think it's cool that you are trying to keep your family, but you also need to have your needs met. I would keep trying to work with her on this if you feel it's worth it. If there's no change and if she's not willing to see a counseler then mabye it might be time for a change. Love and passion is something that can be worked out if both parties are willing to work things out. Just don't go deep and and get emotional and do something that's dumb. Everyone has bad stories with quick fixes. This is your family. Think things out before you act on them. Good luck. I hope very thing works out for you.
206271
1.She probably does love you, I'd have to have more details.\n2.You still might work things out. Don't give up just yet\n3.People cheat sometimes because of boredom, they feel neglected, their sex addicts, the excitement of doing something clandestine, they fall in love with someone else, revenge, it just happens, they are attracted to someone else whather they want to be or not or they're just plain stupid! Honey, if your wife cheated on you, it could be for any reason but you shouldn't blame yourself. She made the decision to do it. My husband cheated on me and I know how much it hurts. I can tell you this much; just because they cheat it doesn't mean that they don't love you anymore. Lots of people do it yet they still love their spouse. It doesn't make it right but we all make mistakes. If you love her and feel like you can put the past behind you and move forward as a couple, I say do it. It won't be easy but you can try counseling and if you can't do that then just talk to each other. Shower her with affection and make her feel really special. She married you so something is there. There is always, always hope for as long as you can hold on. Marriages have worked after cheating. Good luck\n4.I think the meaning of life is what you, yourself, make it mean. It's doing something to make a difference in this world. It's helping out your fellow man when he's down. It's what you want to be and how you go about getting there. Why does there even have to be a meaning to it all? Life is your chance to do, to be, to see, to learn and to teach. We're here to help one another, that's what I believe.\n5. I'm sorry but I'm not sure what the #5 question is but I can tell you however you ****, make sure you do it to the best of your ability and with everything ya got, Tiger! GRRRRRR! LOL. Good luck and try to keep your chin up. The pain will pass after a time. Just work through it and let yourself feel it so you can move on.
494143
Love is treating me real bad. Three different women want to have sex with me this weekend, but ... \n1) one of them is married, and 2 live with boyfriends.\n2) I have a girlfriend who lives in another state. I haven't  cheated yet, why start now?\n3) I am skeptical of a woman who solicits sex from me. I just am. All the fun is in the chase. That is where intelligence comes in. How can I be subtle with a woman who is oblivious to the subtle things in life?\n\nThis may come as a surprise but I have had enough sex. I am ready to shut the game down, but every girl I meet thinks I am still a player.\n\nI'm serious I have got to have a girl with a brain; no compromise. I don't care beautiful a girl is. What I want to know is; can she spell beautiful?\n\nSo ...
718499
I'm guess your WIFE would not approve of the girlfriend and your cheating on her.  You know there are literally thousands of chicks out there that you could fall in love with.  You just going to keep cheating and dumping wives until you run out of them?  If you have problems work it out, that is what it means to be an adult.  Also, what real life issues have you and "work girl" been through.  I bet once you get married to "work girl" have some kids and some real responsibilities together, she'll be a bore too.  Chicks with no complications or responsibilities are always more fun.  Buck up dude and be a man.
712081
yes,give her her fantasy,u had ur share of fooling around,let her have her share under ur supervision,coz after that she will be married to u and no more foling around,so grant her her last wish before marriage.it is only fair thing to do.
1040484
First sir I am no bible thumper, but threesomes with your partner/girlfriend/wife is adultery and wrong. Next, from what you said in here you already know your answer. No she is not ready. listen to yourself and your heart. They typically will not lead you astray if you truly listen to them. I would suggest you continue to tell her no. If you are not monogamously commited to here, I suggest you look to see why you are not, and or why she is not to you. Once you committ to each other and stop thinking and or playing around your relationship can grow and be more fulfilling. If you can't do this, than you have no business being in a relationship with her, for you haven't found complete happiness.
1112056
You kind of answered your own question.  It sucks to be cheated on so why would you want to put another person through that?  If the girl really wants you then she should dump her man and be with you.
1176673
I feel if you sleeping with gf you should not think about other woman as you are cheating your gf.
576514
no its not okay. she is already taken and if she is unhappy or if she wants to be with you let her come to you on her own, it is not your place to break up a marriage. how would you feel if you were married and some guy was trying to steal your wife away? its a matter of respect. think about your pride and your character.
335115
wanting to go home and sleep with my girl..=P