this guy just asked me out after asking my best friend out. Should i say yes?
400822
NO!!! NO!!! NO!!! ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! He doesn't like you for you. He just feels he needs a girl friend. He couldn't get you best friend so he's going to try to get back at her by going after you. He's a playa and so not worth the trouble. Besides, there is a reason your best friend turned him down.
503927
What I would do is something similar to everything that got said before. If you aren't already, be friends with him, get to know him, let him get to know you. If you still feel the same, and he hasn't already done so, you should ask him out. As awkward as it would seem. As a guy that's been asked out in the past myself, I can personally say that this might be the best course of action for you, and maybe een for him.
666090
Two things that may happen. Either your bestfriend will accept it and ask you if you want to move the friendship to another level. Or he will be surprise and will start avoiding you especially if he likes someone else. It will surely be a tough decision and you are the only one who can make it.
1133684
if he says no it means he only wants to be friends. you asked him out and if he wants to go out w/ you he will ask you. obviously, you don't want to wait for him to come around cause you seem to really like him... maybe you should show intrest in other guys and he will ask you before they do! good luck.
242686
Hey gal comeone you are 95% sure thats more than enough to hav a reason to ask him out, Go for it but first give him some hints and then jump or he wud b shocked and his answer can b diff.\nBest of luck and hope ths guy himself come n ask u out
103686
OF COURSE you should ask him out! This is 2006. Don't let someone else's chauvinistic idea keep you from doing what you want. If you like someone, let him know. He'll be flattered - whether he likes you or not. And you'll be taking responsibility for your own life, instead of waiting for a man to take control of it for you.
46638
Aah - that's a sticky situation! I would hope that you have only sent "signals" to one of those guys. And you also need to decide if guy #1 is worth the drama. Because there may be some for a while. But after a couple of weeks I think guy #2 will get over it. He just has to find something else to think about other than you:) Bottom line - if you have strong feelings - go for it and let the best friend know without saying a word that you are unavailable to him. Good luck!\n-GirlShrink
884070
if he likes you go with him. If your friends is really good friends they`d understand && be happy for you .
1093660
aww thats nice he wants to take you out. next time he asks you, just simply ask him if it can just be you and him this time. he should just take you and him then!\n\ngood luck :)
1068354
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
616483
be straight forward with it. go up to him and say "will you go out with me" if he likes you (which it sounds like he does) he'll say yes and everything'll be just as if he asked you out.
581696
i know the question is how do you ask the guy out.. but if i were you i would let him make the move.. if he can tell you like him and he likes you too then he will ask you out.. otherwise i wouldnt take the chance of losing him.. if he is close to your family then he must be a really great best friend.. those dont come around very often
1166648
That's a hard situation cuz if you ask him out and he says no it'll be different. Have a friend ask him what it would be like if you guys were going out. He probably has already heard something like that just cuz. If he says it'll be great or something like that, go ahead and ask him. If he says "It wouldn't" like a man-biatch don't so you can keep ur friendship.  Good luck. :)
639167
It certainly sounds like he is interested in more than just friendship. \n\nIf you would like to ask him out, I'd say go for it.\n\nGood luck!
255700
You didn't word the question in correct English, but I think I got the idea. Yes, you should date your best friend! That is the most ideal mate any girl could ever ask for.
368695
Seems like your hasn,t the same feelings for you , or he would have asked you out.Don't lose your friend over a love that never is going to happen.as i bet she didn't even know.
62579
well i was in your shoes once before but see what you do is that you go to a best friend who you know who want tell the whole shool and laugh at you and have her go to him and ask him if he likes you if so you go and ask him out.\nNow if know his friend have his friend ask him if he likes you and tell him to tell the boy you like to ask you out first then you can save your guts hope i gave you a good advace email me @sexysexycarmel and tell how did it go