i have asked 1 of my guy friends if we were friends and he dident answer it.?
409608
you said he is a guy friend...so he is your friend.  \n\nit's like you are putting him in a situation which he does not want to be in.  it seems that you asked him that question because you want something more to come between you two.  do u? \n\ndon't embarass yourself to ask the same question over and over again.  once is enough....read between the lines.
334094
This is confusing were you guys dating or not?  \n\nIf yes, and he said i love you but you didn't feel that way...why were you dating him in the first place?\n\nIf no, just tell him straight out that you don't feel that way about him but he's an amazing friend and you hope you guys can remain friends because this friendship means a lot to you.
533070
well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.
499454
Well, fess up first of all. Admit that you were talking to his friend.  But let him know if it was strictly just talking out of friendship or whatever it is. Be honest, if you were talking to his friend and you think that you're attracted to the friend, then try to date the friend if he's available. Don't keep leading the other guy on and letting him think that you're into him when really you're into the friend because you want them both or something like that. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm just saying you need to explain yourself. If he doesn't respond then let it go, as much as it will irritate you to leave something at that, you'll have the peace of mind to know that you did what you had to do and that you've apologized and offered some sort of explanation. It is his fault for burning any bridges. And remember to look at signs, this may be a sign that you're not compatible with him, if you can honestly see yourself saying that you wouldnt do this if the situation was reversed, then you know you're on different levels. Good luck with this situation.
920813
Yea, it does sound like a friend to me. Get to know him more as he gets to know you a little more. Don't worry too much.
1026118
if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
751015
Howdid you make friends with him in the first place? Ther must have been communication of some kind. Carry on with the same
862517
Just wait a little bit longer. You may not even need to ask, as time goes by it may become really obvious if he is or not. \n\nBut if you really want to know, wether out of curiousity or interest towards him, just ask in a nice way.  If you're friends, he shouldn't take it the wrong way.  \n\nI've been asked that a couple of times. \nIt usually goes like this:\n"I'm sorry, I don't mean to pry... can I ask a question. It's kind of personal"  If he says he doesn't mind, ask.\n\nWhen they ask me it really doesn't bother me!  (I don't see why it should...)\n\nBye!
387435
you should just tell him that you real like him and at the time you called it off because you didn't know if he felt the some way you did and you didn't want to mess up your friendship
1125246
his actions are not those of a friend. Friends don't lead each other on or use each other. They don't kiss or any more so let him go before he puts you down even more. You've learnt and now you're free again to meet the real guy that's out there for you. You don't need friends that lie. What a pig!
426461
If he was a true friend then he would answer you either way because that's what a true friend is all about :-) As far as what to do is concerned ... seek a friend who will cherish and reciprocate your sentiments. Goodluck!
504223
sounds like he was just interested in one thing honey....\nHow old are ya'll?\nIt could be that awkward age where he doesn't want any of friends to know what exactly is going on, but I will tell you that you deserve better and to dumb this guy.....You will find someone who is proud of you and your acccomplishments and your relationship.
767108
I don't know why he dropped the friendship, but you are acting kind of needy--almost stalking like.  take a hint, for whatever reason, he does not want to associate with you.....let it go.
330977
if you fell uncomfortable..and you cant say that to him..then he isnt being just a friend. You should just not hang out with him anymore. If he is a friend then you should be able to set bounderies and such without hurting his feelings. Even if he isnt meaning it in a certain way..its how its coming across to you..and he needs to know that...either way if you cant be open and honest he isnt a good friend.
1035613
How much do you like him?  Because if you all was friends first would that mess up your friendship if something don't work out?  Is it worth it to mess up a friendship? Try asking him with a trick question and get his understanding on it.  You might need to think this really through, because you could lose your best friend.
592321
dont pay any mind 2 him....u should NEVER wairy bout a guy if they act like that. let him take a little time...if he TRUELY like u /or your friend he'll talk 2 u sooner then u think. good luck
216596
Take the hints he has been giving you.  He only wants to be friends.  There is no reading between the lines.  He is holding you in reserve until something better comes along and wasting your time by saying only friends now.  You will only hurt yourself waiting for a relationship with him that will never come.