Is it wrong for a white girl to date a black guy??
406312
Nope not at all.  As long as the couple is good together and happy w/ each other it shouldn't matter what colour their skin tone is.  I'm completely happy with my other half and he is black/ puerto rican.  If I would have stuck to 'my own kind' as people have phrased it I wouldn't have gotten with and fell in love with my bf.  And that would have been my loss.  When you limit yourself to just your own race you risk potentionally missing out on alot of good people and possibly love too.
1150277
Wow. That's horrible. She needs to get some respect for you. If you like a white guy, you like a white guy... Nothing she can do about it. Everyone of every nationality has different personalities. She is being ridiculous. Tell her that. If she's still really stubborn about it, try not talking to her until she changes her mind and realizes how wrong she is.
629520
Where's the problem?  Do you parents or friends dislike you dating someone white?  Sounds like it's not a problem for you, as if you were against dating someone white then he wouldn't have made it to boyfriend status; keep loving him and let anyone who objects know your feelings.
835191
Why does it matter that he was very sweet and respectful in regards to his race?  are you more suprised at the fact that you have a good man or a good black man?  Race shouldn't even be in the cards.  Personally, I could care less if he's black, white, green, or purple.....as long as he treats u right, get yours.
351594
Look what is wrong with some of you peoples answers? I mean shesh everybody has there diffrent point of veiw when it comes to dateing a big woman. I am a big woman and I weigh about 175lbs. I have a sexy good looking, well built man. Yes he is black of course most black men like big women. White men are wimps when it comes to dateing big women. I am white and I stick with my black man.\n\nMy advice is either you find a decent white man which I doubt you can find. Or find yourself a good black man to keep and make sure he is not a player, or pimp also.
586913
a lot of white guys love black girls...my bf's dad is white & his mom is black. well i think some white guys are intimidated by black girls bcuz of the kinda stuff they see on tv. for example, most black women are portrated as being sassy, tough, & have that dont-take-$hit-from-nobody kinda attitude. thats probably why. but i know that all black women are NOT like that at all. i have a few black friends that are like that, but once u get to know them they're really sweet girls =)\ni have seen a lot of white guys date black women & most of em have no problem with that. i think a white guy would have no problem dating someone like u and if they did...then theyre not worth it. u should look 4 a guy thats willing to date u for YOU & not be intimidated by the stereotypes they see on TV. if u see a guy ur into, & u get the vibe that hes a lil intimidated by ur race, try talking to him & getting to know him a little & soon he'llsee that u r just like any other girl. well hope this helps a little! good luck 2 ya.
868953
Because it makes people, especially Whites, sick to their stomachs to see a White girl being courted by a Negro.  That may seem a tad racist, but that's just how it is.  It's kind of like staring at a midget.  It's just impossible to look away.  \n\nYou should date Blacks or other chicks of color.  Don't sully the Whites.  If you must have a Cracker, please don't take a good one.  Instead, get a fat one, or an ugly one, or a retarded one, etc.  It seems like a fat/ugly White chick will be wiling to date a dude of Color, because she has no choice.  It's really pretty sad.  Both for the White Race, and for the wretched White chick who must lower herself so.
932454
There's nothing wrong with that! One of my friends is going out with a guy two years older than her-has been for 4 years now.\nGood luck :)
870308
Yes, I actually would. You said that whites should date whites, you didn't say that white was just your preference. If you have to ask if that's racist, then you should already know the answer.
816584
try dating a black guy. i know i LOVE me a thick girl ;)
563351
I'm a 22 yr old black girl and i dont date black guys. I used to like them when i was younger, in my teens. But i find them very boring and not very intelligent and they dont seem very articulate. I find it hard to have a decent conversation with a black my age. Alot of them are about rap music, sex, and cars and nothing else. \nI find white guys more attractive and intelligent. I like their pale skin in private places!! White men are just alot more interesting to me. \n\nHowever I dont think white guys treat girls different to black guys, men are men regardless. You have to judge the individual on who they and how they behave. \n\nI agree that there are more white guys with black girls and they seem to be quite possessive. If i walk past a girl with her white man she give you evils lol. Like i care,the girls ive seen are uglier than me anyway. each to there own.\n\nI would marry a white man, my family are from jamaica and i will never on this earth date a jamaican man! Black men are a no no for me. As for sex, white men are far more gental and understanding.
449845
Well why could'nt you date outside your race?  There's no reason why you could'nt or should not.  I believe if you had the right frame of mind, about why you are doing what your doing regardless of race, because we are all God's creation, one drop of blood has made all nations.  If you can have the wisdom to know how to handle this world we live in, concerning the thoughts, ideas, opinions, and feelings of others, not to mention lies, and deceits from generations of races, and those who don't have a clue whats really going on.  You can be in control of what you think, and feel about what others say.  Go with your pure heart, after you have renewed your mind!!!  Honey listen I'm not one to go dating to find out if I'm compatable with someome, I did that when a young girl, and didn't have no sense, don't let the world, people, and whatever else dictate your undefiled love life, that's between you, that man, and God!!!    \nHope this Have helped you girlfriend.
121629
There is no problem with blacks dating blacks, white dating whites, black dating whites, asian dating blacks or any other combination of one person dating another.
698129
Question back: Why would you be afraid of dating someone who is different racially? If it's anything to do with family and 'values' let me assure you that eventually, whomever you choose to marry is your own family and you'll have to cut the strings sooner or later. I've personally never dated a guy of the same racial background as I am because I find it overly boring...difference is sexy! There's always something new to learn and explore.
809730
Why can't you date a black man? Culture reasons, your parents, personal things.  I would re-examine why.  Try to be his friend and get to know him.  Don't stereotype him because of his color.  You might find out that he's a really good guy.
93873
I have no idea. I have dated other races and think there is nothing wrong with it.
431499
NO! I have been in an interracial relationship for several years and honestly do not even think about his race because I love him. This questions has been asked many many times and if you will notice, the only people that respond no to this question are white boys. Not all white guys feel this way, but the ones that respond no just feel threatened and I think that's really lame. I think you should love everyone and if you feel in your heart that a relationship is right, race should not matter.