What is the best why to ask a woman to marry you?
408738
i would love it if one they my man will cook me dinner, and put a nice slow song after dinner and dance in the living room and slowly whisper in my ear "i love you baby" "will you be be wife"
399595
Better ask her what she wants
426330
well...\nif you love her with all your might, then ask her to marry you, but remember this though, she have a kid/kids, so u must love them as your own kid/kids..   but if u cant love her children, then dont do it, ur going to hurt her kids for good, i dont know what ur plan is, but, first im going to try and lover her child/children, then ask her to marry me
389361
ask them to marry you...
354092
It depends.  \n\nDo you love her, or do you just want to get married?\n\nWhat about marriage frightens her?\n\nPremarrital counseling sounds like the best option, if you can get her to go.  She may have some solid reasons that could be resolved in counseling.  It would also help you to know if you are really ready.
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
1088620
another thiing is that you are well educated and  I bet there are many women who will wnat to marry you.  Moist women look for security.  Henc e  get a  beautiful American gal, fall on love, get married   and  enjoy your life.
438375
If you are postponing proposing I'd say you aren't yet ready to take the step of getting married. It takes a lot of courage to admit that. It doesn't mean you don't love her. I imagine you do love her. You just aren't ready to take the step of getting engaged. If she's truly ready and you are not, then you need to talk about it. You may have to set her free if you don't think you'll be ready for a long, long time. You both need to be honest with each other about what you want out of this relationship and act accordingly.\n\nAlso, talk to God. Pour your heart out to Him. Ask Him if marriage with this woman is what He wants you to do with your life. Listen with all your heart and soul for His loving guidance. God Bless.
238740
Well, she has obviously said yes to your proposal, so that is one good sign.  The ultimate way to know for sure is what I keep telling everyone in relationships.  Communicate, communicate, communicate!  You need to talk to your fiance openly about everything.  Discuss your concerns with them and have them tell you why they do want to marry you.  If you aren't sure after talking to the person openly, it may be that you shouldn't get married.  Communication is the most important issue in marriage or any relationship.  Without it, you will end up in a divorce and will fight quite a bit.  I hope you find the answer you are looking for.
96771
1st - DO NOT MAKE THIS DECISION WHILE HEAD OVER HEAL IN LUV!\n\n2nd - What is marriage to you?  What have you defined marriage to be?\n\nWhat will happen 1 year after you're married.  Do you want to be the provider and have her stay home? Do you want both of you to work so you'll have a great home? Do you want kids right away?\nWhat do you want in 5 years into the marriage? \nWhat do you want in 10 years into the marriage?\nWhat do you want in 20 years into the marriage? \nSit with yourself and ask these tough questions.  Then re-ask these questions in a week.  If you feel confident that you're honest with yourself, then approach your girl. If you're not quite satisfied with your internal question, keep asking and answering yourself untill your confident.\n\n3rd - When you're confident in what you want ... Ask these same questions to your girl friend.  BEWARE ... She'll freak and probably start crying thinking you're asking her out!!! Make it clear that this is a discusion only, and you're trying to figure out the "Next Step".  Then ask her several times after the first questions <Just like you did with you>. \n\nIf you've evaluated the situation and feel that for the two of you to form a union, you can then you can pre-pair that special occation with the ring, and the right setting to ask for her hand in marriage.\n\nBest wishes.
1117188
Etiquette and tradition state that the man should ask the bride's father for her hand and then propose to her.\n\nWell, throw etiquette out the window and think about it for yourself. \nAre you ready to get married? \nDo you want to propose?\n\nGo for it! It's unexpected, it's romantic, and above all else, it could be you! I promise if the woman proposes, nobody will walk up to her and say, "No, you can't get married until he asks you." \n\nTime's are changing so etiquette just needs to catch up!
1091087
The man should propose first under normal circumstancs. It's not nice to "force" the  woman to have to propose because the relationship is dragging on too long.
872968
if you are quiet serious for marriage with her then plz go a head and take very good care of her self.\nregards
521668
You want to marry the FANTASY of her.  You don't know enough of the real her.  She poops, farts and wakes up with morning breath.  Marriage is hard enough when you know what you're getting into, much less when you're living in a fantasy land that probably has very little basis in reality.
337455
well, you should respect her wishes..that's what make great partner..and if you could meet her half way...just ask her..
727575
If the relationship is right - it would be very flattering.\n\nI kind of like the idea that it's out of the rut.  You know, guys are supposed to hit a knee, take her hand in his, yadda, yadda.\n\nA woman who asks?  Originality!  Big points.\n\nDownside?  If he's not expecting it: Pressure.\n\nAnd what a story down the line - "I never asked her to marry me - she asked me!"  \n\nCool!
197782
if you are talking about a marrige propsal just ask her when the time is right, she can no more than say no, also try to know that you are not the first to make a proposal of marrige, that is how most marriges get done,,