how can i overcome my broken heart?
400257
get involved in things you love, hobbies, work.  realizing how much you love activities, and life.  try not to dwell and talk about it with friends.\nrealize the reasons behind the breakup and that "that is what was" then move on.
577653
the best way to deal with the grief is to allow yourself plenty of time to heal.  There's no easy way to make it stop hurting, but just take one day at a time, remember how great you are and that you deserve better.  In time things will get better.  Good luck!
69800
Be yourself, if you want cry- cry, if smile- smile. Remember that you need to forget person who broke you heart...)
568071
The best way to get over someone is to LET IT OUT! Don't keep your feelings bottled up inside. Cry it out if have to,shout it out if you want to. Most people may tell you to divert your attention, but that will only be running away from what you feel. You can't cry over a guy all your life. You will love again. It happens all the time. And there will be someday when you will think back and just laugh at it, or if not laugh then just smile at it. For now, just accept your feelings of hurt/hatred and chill, its okay.
615687
Don't know your circumstances but I will tell you what worked (eventually) for me. \n1. Pretend your ex has died. Sounds severe but forces you to forget about "getting back together".\n2. Make yourself absolutely un-available to the ex. Take comfort in knowing they will miss you. Be a mystery.\n3. Rid yourself (or at least attempt to) of your worst personal defect. Are you overweight? Any addictions? Unemployed? In debt? Pick one and do what it takes to fix it.\n4. Don't take heartbreak or the break-up too personal. I personally think testosterone (and estrogen)cause insanity.\n5. Remember this: You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved.The rest is up to them. Go to link below for more like this.\n6. Above all, do something positive, for you.
470468
Instead of focusing on revenge, try focusing on moving on and healing.  Although it might seem like a good idea at the time, revenge is usually not a great way to get over a broken heart.
428043
Realize that for everytime you are hurt in life, it is helping you to become a stronger person. In the end, God will heal your heart and give you a new love, one of which will be so abundant you will not have enough room in your heart to receive it. It could even be the person that broke up with you, but maybe God has to work on that person and on you to make you perfect for each other. If not perfect for each other, He is making you and someone He will send to you perfect for each other. So just hold on, keep your head up, and have faith. Love will endureth in the end! You are in my prayers!
830836
If it was logically right then it was right. It's easy to get caught up in emotions and it's hard to ignore emotions when you're heart is broken. Especially if it's you breaking your own heart with regret. \n\nIf your rational self found something about him or something with the relationship that caused enough concern or doubt to break it off with him then it must have been something important tp you. \n\nChances are that if you went back to him everything will be great for a while. But whatever it was that caused you the end of the relationship will eventually re-emerge.\n\nTake some time being single. It'll suck for a while. You'll want to go crawling back to him. It can be lonely. Try to ignore that. Go out and meet new people. After a while it won't hurt. You'll meet other guys. The more guys you meet the more you'll know what you do want in a guy. Eventually, you'll fall in love with some one better. It just takes some time.\n\nAs for love conquers all...that's bullshit. Everyone likes to believe that love is this magical thing that will fix everything and that it will triumph over any problem and only once you're in love will your life be great. That's a horrible line of logic that's just going to set you up to get hurt. Love doesn't just show up and conquer. Love grows and needs nurturing. It takes work. Love is not automatic.
669574
It takes a long time to heal a broken heart. Take it 1 day at a time. Allow yourself a certain time every day to think about him, cry laugh whatever.  Think positive happy thoughts about the 2 of you. Lean on your friends for support. Remember him with love.  Try to get on with your life the rest of the time, keep busy so you,re not always sitting around feeling sad. It will take time , but you'll get there.
200157
At least you`ll be more relieve to try solving your brokenheart. Altough your hart still aching, your mind will opened wider to find the answer. If not now, maybe time will heal you.
952410
I have had this happen to me, so i speak from personal experience.  When a guy has his heart broken, it is the worst feeling imaginable.  He feels lost, scared, alone, worthless, and completely shattered in body, heart, mind, and soul.  He is sure of almost nothing (although he often puts on a public persona to let people think that he is okay), when in reality, he is very sad and very down.  Depending on what happened, he may never take you back.........The heartbreak could have been more than he could bear.  For breaking his heart, you have lost his trust, as well..  You must rebuild this trust little by little, and you must show him that you will not break his heart again.  He must be convinced that his heart and soul is safe within yours , that his name is safe within your lips.  This will be very hard for you to accomplish............You must help to rebuild his heart, his soul, his mind, his confidence, his love, and his trust, among so many other things.  Give him a new (and true this time) sense of security.
723691
Don't believe crying yourself to sleep at nights will help you to overcome a heart break. The first steps are to relax and spend some time with friends and family, not to mention going out and having some fun. These are all to take your mind off "the heart breaker". If that doesn't work, try meeting new people. The aim for all this is to open up your eyes, and allow yourself to see the truth. Which is that you are still a valuable person. Besides, look at it this way, you are not the one losing, he is. They are losing a unique individual.\n\nMy personal philosophy in life is that out of everything bad comes something good. Therefore, the bad thing in this situation is losing the person you love, hence ending up with a broken heart. However the good thing that will come out of it is that, with that person out of your life, you will meet someone new. Someone who will accept you and appreciate you for who you are.\n\nSo again, I'll ask, can one mend one's broken wings and learn to fly again? Sure you can. Love comes with a lot of risks so before falling, first consider the cost and weigh your feelings.
83228
Try keeping urself busy, if u keeping thinking about the breakup you'll nevr heal, hangout with ur friends, find things that will keep ur mind off the breakup\n\nWho know maybe u'll find someone else. =-)
183222
time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
559049
NO sorry I can't you need to just give yourself time and one day your sole mate will come along and you will realize that the one who you thought broke your heart didn't even have it to break! You will look back down the road of your life and see that everyone in your life had some part they played to get you to your soul mate! All the girls or ladies in you past was just detours and and have to find you way back to the main road of your life to find your soul mate!
678139
Man I feel your pain, been there done that.  Anyways, my tips for you.\n\n1)  NO CONTACT WITH YOUR EX!  Trust me on this one, until you are over your ex, you should have zero interaction with her.  \n\n2)  Workout.  Working out helps you release any chemicals in your body that carry depression.\n\n3)  Pick up a new activity or interest- when you learn something new, you gain confidence, which is something someone that just went through a breakup desperately needs.\n\n4)  Vent to friends until you can't anymore- and if your friends don't want to hear it, go to a counselor!\n\n5)  Pay attention to your hygiene and fashion sense- Give yourself a new look if needed.\n\nGood luck
337116
I suggest reading the book called "How to mend a broken heart, moving on and letting go" it's by Aleta Koman. I had and still have the same problem. It's goes away with time, then again there are times it comes back but not as bad. If you ever need someone to talk to look in my profile and contact me. I'm here if you need someone to talk to and try to help you the best way that I can.