How many of you guys think women are complicated?
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Would you look at cute babe3xoxo, she is a hottie, but my O my is she complicated, I can hardly understand what she is saying and of course she does not have the strength to completely spell out her words.  That my friends is one complicated woman.  The truth of the matter is that women really are not complicated at all, they are just different.\nThey have different interests, different clothes (I hope), different needs, different desires, etc.  Just because what they want does not coincide with what men want does not make them complicated, all you have to do is understand the differences and you will have no problem.  So the keys\nto uncomplicating women are:\n\nListen\n\nBe honest\n\nDon't be stupid\n\nAsk qustions if you don't understand\n\nListen\n\nTalk to them\n\nTalk with them\n\nListen\n\nNow that you know the secret to women remember one thing, you will NEVER, NEVER truly understand them, so give up trying and enjoy the differences, if they were the same as us men it would be no fun. Now that I think of it the question was "How many of you guys...." and I am at this point the only guy to answer, thats why women are so complicated.
980933
Because women find their simplicity complicated.
778595
she's messing with YOUR MIND. it's quite fun to do actually...\nbut i could ask you the same question...why are guys so confusing???
865390
We guys are complete idiots sometimes. Unfortunately that also means that we tend to be more interested in women that aren't particularly interested in us. The challenge is part of it.
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i think its bcz women dont really often show their feelings, they dont say what they feel, they can play with themselves e.g. to get someone else's attention, could be a man, but what they really feel is hidden deeply in their mind or soul.\nmen arent like that. it is easy to 'read' most of the men, i guess. \nmen tend to think or say things the way there are or the way they think. that makes it easy to understand them.\nwomen wont talk about things straight.\n\nmy math's teacher told us one day: when a woman says yes - that means no, when she says no - that means yes.\n\ni believe its true, though not always.\nthats why it might be difficult to understand women, what they need, what they think off.\n\nthough there are men who can do that...\n\nbut, on the other hand, i believe, and only if u want to, u can try to learn understand woman.\nits gonna take time & effort but it is possible.
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Because humans are complicated themselves
1077134
Hell no. It's complicated enough dealing with one woman. Two would be just too damn much.
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You think they are difficult now, wait until you get married.\n\nThey seem difficult to deal with because traditionally men deal with problems by trying to solve them with the best logical arguement they can think of.  Women solve problems by taking action on how the solution makes them feel.\n\nJust remember, most women always react on how something is going to make them FEEL.  You master this and you will be a relationship god with the women.
589368
sounds complicated.how old are you?
336642
what, are you kidding?  it is complicated enough to keep one woman happy!
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Listen to what he says instead of trying to read into 'non-verbal communication.'  I've found that women tend to think of themselves as very intuitive (women's intuition), but more often than not, they are wrong about what they perceive.  I think this is largely because the other person isn't saying what they want to hear so they look for other 'signals' that they interpret as being a way of communicating what they wanted to hear in the first place.
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I don't. If a woman is acting angry and irrational, I generally walk in the opposite direction. If there's anything I can't stand, it's a drama queen. That sort of thing leaves me cold.
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I am considered quite a challenge myself.  Come on, do you really want to make it easy on the guy?  They need to be challenged so that they feel they have well earned the gal.
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Ok how about this:  It's how women are!\n\nFor guys, it's 'simple' in that you all make a decision and go yep, I'd like to see her, marry her, sleep with her etc.. and you all do what you do.  But then men are not that communicative or expressive and that really causes women to do dumb things.\n\nWomen, because we do feel insecure because we are 'trying to read' the opposite sex and figure out what is going on with them, analyze, investigate, and really gab to our girlfriends to 'see what they think' about a guy's behavior.\n\nYou are correct - the best answer is to JUST ASK - but we all know, that NORMALLY a man would rather cut off his arm than to see a girl/woman cry, so they avoid, ditch, don't return calls and the like and don't explain themselves to their partners either.\n\nThis is how women cope (as low as it goes) but men not communicating because they are afraid to say 'It's over' (And even when they do, sometimes we don't accept that as truth - we analyze it more) doesn't help the situation.\n\nBasically in my view - it comes down to 'fear of rejection' FROM BOTH SIDES.. The women are trying to interpet and the men are 'avoiding' and at the end of it all - isn't that the common ground?\n\nThe lesson is - BUCK UP - When a Man says he wants out - we women need to HEAR HIM - and when a Woman doesn't trust her intuition about something that's going on, SAY SOMETHING and if you still don't trust his answer, because he's being avoidant or sugar coating.....don't reduce yourself to these tactics....NO MAN IS WORTH THAT - and if you 'find proof' he's cheating or whatever, you are just hurting yourself more - so in that case.......WALK AWAY before you stoop there.\n\nMy 2 copper.
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Really depends on the guy though doesnt it? I mean women freak out as well.\nIt also has to do about the way it is brought up.\nAnd well, women do seem to have, at the back of their mind, this reminder that if they want to settle down and have kids they need to do so by age of (am a guy forget what age that was again) while us men half the time think that we got all the time in the world. So it might not even be not wanting to commit to you, just really feeling rushed.
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I wouldn't say most women.  It's like a lot of things--some do, some don't.
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That's men for you. They don't have a clue as to how a woman think. Guess you just have to spell it out for him. It'd be easier to join a group of like- minded people or you could get one together. Good Luck!