Am I indecisive because I don't know who to go to the prom with or which college to go to?
404500
going to the prom is not as important as ur future , coz right now ur future lies in what studies ur going to do. u r being indecisive if u don't know which college u want to go, try to gather information, it is crucial for ur life.
860323
My advice is not to plan out your entire future right now. When you get to college (and go anywhere you want--choose a place you like for lots of reasons, not just their psych department), try lots of things. You might find you like something else better.
657079
i went to my junior prom. it sucked so bad i didn't even go to my senior prom.  I agreed to go to my junior prom with a life long male friend. we had been friends since first grade. me him and 2 other girls were a group. we were best friends. we all thought of him as just another girl, and since i had just broke up with my boyfriend i asked him to go. i was so excited i shopped for weeks until i found the perfect dress. my prom experience started to go bad when i went to get my hair done at the beauty shop. the woman i made my appoint with was running 2 hours behind because she schedule too many people that day. and then when she was done, my hair looked like she stuck my finger in a light socket. and to make it worse she put some kind of special hair spray on it. i couldn't even get a comb through it to try and redo it.my date to me to a really nice resturant. but he obouvisly wasn't taught any manners. he farted at the table. an old lady sitting at the next table asked the manager and had us moved to a different table. if that wasn't embaressing enough my date couldn't get the ketch-up out of the bottle so he started shaking it up.. yep...it floew all over me and my dress! uugghhh!! so finally i'm at prom. with a hair from hell that still had some ketch-up in it, and a beautiful pale yellow dress with what looked like dried up blood all down the front. and what happens next my ex- boyfriend walks in with his date. who happens to end up being one of the girls from our tight family like group of friends. my best friend. the friend who told me she wasan't going to prom!! needless to say they sat and made rude jokes and comments about me and my date all night long. then just when i thought the night was finally over pulling into my drive way , my date, my friend, just one of the girls, tried to kiss and grope me. i ended up taking my first ever pair of heels of and beatting him up side the head with it. i lost 2 friends that night and my diginty
776887
You should definitely go with the guy that you'd have the most fun with. Going with the guy you like may not be the best idea unless you're sure he's into you too, otherwise the whole night you'll catch yourself stuck impressing him and feeling hurt when he doesn't goggle over you. Dances should be fun so take advantage of that and go with a guy that you are great friends with and comfortable being with! Good luck with your decision!
730685
first of all, an education at none of these schools is worthless in response to whomever responded that.\nI would recommend going to visit these schools. Stay overnight with some freshman, in a freshman dorm. Talk to them about how they like the school. Go and sit in on some typical freshman classes (ie. calculus, psychology, american politics, etc) and also sit in on a higher level course. Possibly even go with the person you're staying with. If you know what you want to major in, look into those classes. Those are all great schools and you'll definately get a top-notch education. You just need to figure out where you think you'll fit in best. Congrats and good luck on your decision!
538036
well, i think you should chose the one that would be best for you. if you like one guy, but your friends dont like him or he gets you in trouble, then you definatly shouldnt go with him unless you like that type. well, i would write more but i dont want to run out of room. i hope it works out with you and whoever you chose
41046
As long as its ok with your parents and he seems like a good person, I think you should go with him. He might also help you get to know more people, which will probably be helpful since you're in a new school.
721252
I think it's fine for males to have female friends, but there is no way on God's green earth I would let my man go to prom with another chic.  If he goes with her, you need to kick him to the curb. Why aren't you going with him? I would seriously tell this girl to back off. She shouldn't have asked him if she knew that he was with you.  I hope he doesn't go, I hope he didn't even think about going with her. You should be going with him and if he thought or is thinking of going with her...you need to ditch him now, he will do nothing but break your heart later on.
341416
CLEAR AND MAKE UP UR MIND!!!MAKE A DECISION THEN.WHO DO U LIKE BEST!!AFTER THAT MAYBE U CAN GIVE US ANOTHER QUESTION COZ U SEEM CONFUSE WHAT UR REAL QUESTION IS..BUT FOR REAL JUST CHASE AND GET WHAT U WANT BEFORE IT IS TO LATE!!
706139
First let him know that its important to you that he goes and prom means more to you than he thinks it does. Well, if he's not going to go with you why not go with someone else? It might bother him to the point that he will go with you. Guys will never understand women, so its best not to bother, especially at this age.
394982
I  am unclear about what you are trying to say, she wants to go with this guy to prom, and not you? She needs to understand you feelings, or you need to put your foot down. You are tottaly right for feeling this way. She tries to make you feel uncomfrotable, pay her back, AND see how she feels. Start inviting girls to hang with you, and act like its no big deal. See how she likes it.
89834
You should go to a college you feel comfortable going to.  Some bible colleges have very strict rules that everyone has to follow - if you want to feel safe and in a controlled environment, then by all means go.  If you are interested in learning more about people not exactly like you, go to a state university.  There are a lot of religious activities on all campuses.  But do what you feel is right, and try praying about it.
900181
I was in the same position as you. I was the first member of my immediate family to graduate high school and go on to finish college. There are a few things you can do. Have one of your parents go with you to a college fair. They hold them at large convention centers and many different colleges send people to pass out information and talk with people about the college and some of their programs. If you're interested in looking into all 3 of those areas, I would recommend a liberal arts college. You could take class in art, writing, and communications. Once you narrow down your search and have found a few colleges that have strong programs in one or two areas of your interest, contact the Admissions Office and set up a time to visit the colleges with your parents to experience what life on campus is like. Spend the night with one of their student hosts if you can. Being a former tour guide, I recommend trying to do this in the autumn or mid spring. (Unless you're looking at colleges somewhere warm.) While you’re on campus, sit in on a class, meet with a counselor to discuss financial aid/awards, the programs you're interested in, and how you could go about molding your college experience to fit your needs. If you're not sure about the size of college you're looking for, tour a big one and one smaller one. Each school will have a different personality, and this also will differ with size. There are perks to both. Make sure to take notes after your visit to remember impressions and thoughts of your tours. One of the best things you can do is open yourself to letting your parents aid you in your decision. They will remember things that people said, and help you keep track of everything you've seen. You will feel very overwhelmed throughout this process and it's good to share this with your parents. They have it in their best interest to help you make the best decision you can. You will end up applying for multiple schools, so be sure to keep track of your due dates for applications and essays and such. If you narrow down your search to 2 schools, go back and visit a few more times if you can. Meet with professors you would be working with. I know in studying the arts you sometimes have to turn in a portfolio of work before being accepted into the program. This sometimes results in an in-person interview with faculty members. Know what to expect and keep in contact with the Admission Offices if you have any questions. \n\nAnd don't be afraid to take a year off if you're already in your senior year and need more time to find a good place to go. Take classes at a community college and pick up a part time job or travel or something while you take the time you need to find the right fit for you! \n\nGood luck! Email me if I could be of any more help!
633252
Theres no rule that says u have to have a date for the prom. If u have a friend or friends who also don't have a date  why don't u all go together. If u do end up going alone make sure that u look ur very very best that way you will look so good NO one will once u don't have a date because they will be so into ur outfit, beside  Prom can be stressful then fun because everyone is really into what who;s dating or wearing what and who
311032
You have time to make up your mind. Talk to your school counselor. What are some things that interest you in school, like classes or sports or hobbies? Talk with some other people as well. You do not need to go to college the minute you get out of High School. Sometimes it is even a good idea to go to a Community College as a Liberal Arts Major to get yourself into the college atmosphere and get an idea of what might interest you. All in all, just do what you feel most comfortable doing, and try and talk with some other people about your future.
731613
dont take the word recommended tooo lightly it is critical the you do your sat and dont let your friends telll you other wise . their is alot of compitition out there,, so tell me something if you were to choose who you wanted in your college 1. a person without sat\n2,. a person with sat\ni am sure you can answer that question. do your sat and do not take it lightly!!!!!!
356231
In my senior year I had no intention of going to the prom it just wasn't my thing, but a girl I knew asked me and it turned out to be a fun evening.  If the boy is shy I am sure he will appreciate you asking him out.