What is the best way to to handle a dificult husband? I love him, but he is tooooo moody?
402233
Talk to him, and see if can work. If he is too difficult then maybe it is time to walk away. How long have you been 2gether?
677849
it's tricky, too much of a good thing can be bad in the long run. switch it up by letting him treat. if his attitude turns negative then he's with you for the doe and you need to bounce.
862135
Sweetheart...not sure why you titled this bi-polar husband...but your husband IS physically, verbally and emotionally abusing you and you need to get out NOW.  If he is bi-polar he can see a doctor and get on medication and then if you still want, the two of you can work on your marriage.  But for now...you need to leave...you are not helping either of you.  GBU
1119690
My husband and I have two children. It's hard. What we do is several things....sit outside together, have dinner in a public place, walk around the block together, sit with each other on the couch, switch kids with a friend so we don't pay for a babysitter, and we just lay in bed together. We don't have to say anything alot has to do with body langauage and facial expressions. How does your husband treat you? Does he do little things like doing the dishes, make dinner, or open the door for you? The littlest things count not just communication.
873141
i am very sorry to hear that.  But you have to be patient.  Keep your baby, and try to keep your marriage.  He needs to stand up to his mother but it may not happen because she is ill, sit tight and be patient.  Give him time to think
1036749
Do what he wants and make him to think of you first, slowly he will be understanding what u r, what u like, What u expect from him.\nThe normal man always want to provide all the things to his wife but forgets to understand her which creates problems....\nDon't Worry, Cheer UP, Every thing will be fine. Be BOLD For your thoughts in matters of Mutual Understanding.
1056700
My first question is , if you felt you could Never trust him 100% why did you marry this man? Was it convenience? Get out, tell him its over your moving on blah blah blah.. I know its not that easy, trust me I know.. You know the old saying "been there, done that". Right now he's abusing your relationship, playing on your emotions, he knows how to get at you. Don't allow him, stand your ground. Your not happy there is no reason to continue this with him. Ask your friends for help or family.If that's not possible look into your local women's help shelter, there is help out there to get out of situations like this. If your unhappy there is NO reason to stay Hun.
1100264
Hazeline, no you should still love him. What you need to do is get some kind of hobby or something that keeps your mind off of the treatment he is giving you. Show him what it is like to do someone that way. I'm not saying be mean but ignore him some and allow him to see how it feels. If it doesn't seem to bother him then I would have a talk with him and tell him my feelings in a way that is not judging or nagging way. Say this is the way I feel. Always use I not this is the way you make me feel. How long you been married? Try your best to make the marriage work unless he is abusive toward you otherwise you will one day regret if you don't give it a shot..
460197
I think that you should talk to him and ask him what is bothering him?. How long has he been accusing you of this?. Did something happen lately that made him start acting like that?. How long have you been married?. The first year it the toughest so hang in there and just try to be open and honest with him. communication is very important, i have been married for almost 19 years and i can tell you communication is very important
541788
Ok I completly understand what both you and him are going through cause I have been there and done that, therefor my advice to you is if you really think and feel you love him try to understand his point even if you don't agree or like it very much. What it sounds like he is doing is avoiding having confrontations with his family and you. The less they know the less they will nag at him, they less they nag the better mood you will see him in. Think of it in a positive way he just wants to avoid problems between his family you and him, besides its also a healthier realationship for both of you, never know he may be thinking of taking the relationship a step higher and want to move in together in a few months and when he does he will drop the bom on them, just keep your eyes open at all times giving everyone and anything the benifit of a dought. Good Luck and take things easy enoy your time
588854
Honey he is TOO controlling. You can drink whatever whenever you want. You are in control of you, he has no say over you. He should be happy with your choice of friends, although he may not like it if they are men. I vote to tell him to back off and if he doesn't leave him. My husband never tells me what to do, who i can be freind  with, what to eat, drink, and he basically doesn't care what i do. I feel free even though i am married. It keeps me safe and happy. He doesn't have to keep me under his thumb to have me at his side and neither shold your man. If he feels he does then leave him.
28468
i suggest that you sit down and  talk to your husband.  this may cause many mnay problems down the line if your not already feeling a certain way towards him now, marraige is a HUGE responsibility, and it is not something to be taken lightly,youe need to discuss this with him and try to find a way to resolve these issuses.
745752
hey lori \nsound like you pick the wrong man to marry and it sound you are not happy in life well there is some thing you can do to change it # 1 divorce him and find some one who wont bring you down and some one you well be happy with for the rest of your life.life to short not to be happy i wish i could be there for you good luck
816869
Hi, has he always been like this or is it just the spell you've been arguing.\nMarriage is hard work and needs constant nuturing from both sides to feel loved by the other side.\nSome people (men and women) have difficulty in expressing themselves, is this your husband?\nIf so, maybe you accepting this as him and noticing the other ways he does express love will help, but there is nothing like a hug and hearing how we are loved so do understand where you are coming from.\nA husband and wife will either knit together over the years or move in opposite directions (like my ex and I) but for it to work you must be moving in the same direction. \nTalking to him and continuing to express yourself, your love is all you can do really, and hope he hears you before you change, because you will in time.\nMaking time for those special moments will also help, there is always another little trick we can pull out the hat to surprise him, reveal another mystery about yourself-try it-remind him of why he got with you. ;)\nJust keep trying until he either wakes up or loses out with the woman he fell for and married, I wish you both luck xxx
898378
Just try to keep your problems to yourself until you two get more serious. Life has a way of working itself out and this guy might be the person that can get you out of the funk your life is in right now.  Don't ruin it by being moody around him. Let your worries go and try to be fun and outgoing and you will see that you won't focus on your problems as much when you keep yourself busy with other things. You might want to go to your Dr. and see if he can recommend a RX. I take Xanax every day and it helps.
791024
Communication is the key element in all relationships. Talk to him in a non-attacking manner and tone. Start all sentences with "I feel". That always helps. The second he feels attacked, he will tune you out. That way he can only respond to how you feel and not what he may or may not be doing in your eyes. Good luck.
440039
emotionally dilemma for him..\n\nget a grip and don't rush things...let him settle his matters with his wife first...before you proceed with your relationship..