Can you be Inlove with more than one person?
403445
yes you can im in love with my mother, father, brothers, daughter, my partner.
1157950
yes i do...i believe everybody has one other person there supposed to be with.  They're "one and only". I believe this other person will never be truly happy with anyone else because its not there "one and only." Some people are lucky to find that one person, others are not.
652096
Depends on that couple..if they are loving may be more than once..
1126564
I think a person can be in love with two people at the same time. However, I think it's wrong for them to carry on two relationships simultaneously. They should choose one person, and let the other go.
490474
Hey its not nice to be gready :)\n\nOn the serious note...I guess you 4 have been very close. And have the uniqueness that wows you. I think the thing you need to do is admit your feelings to them. Love isnt just 2 people...But a commitment is 2 people. The right man for you is not shy to tell you.
243640
I believe you can love more then one person romantically at the same time. Maybe I just feel that way because I'm a man, don't know why I just do.
388655
I don't think it is possible to love two people (romantically). If you lust someone else, you probably don't love your wife at all.
623753
Tough question.  \nBut remember one thing, no matter how much this other person loves you if you truely love another you will always want to be with that person. \nSo it isn't fair to the person who loves you.\nIf you can't love a person who loves you then it it is time to allow that person the right to a good relationship.
35475
Unfortunately (considering the circumstances) yes.  you never love the same way twice.  So you can love one person very much, and another person just as much, but love them differently and for different reasons.
536865
Absolutely. After all the heart is capable of loving more than one person on the same level.
225060
i feel one on one is best just too much going on out there to trust many partners. find  a person with same drive and fall in love
21406
Love is not some kind pie that if you give a slice to one person, there is less available for another... Parents love their kids whether they have one child or eight. And everyone has different needs and interests...maybe one person has a place in your heart because they always know just how to make you laugh or makes you think about things differently or maybe it's simply that you feel funnier, smarter, sexier, safer, braver when they are around...that's quite human, it's very difficult for any one person to be all thing for any one other person... What IS a zero sum equation is time...if you spend time on one person or activity, you do have less for pther people and things...That is where the trouble lies in having more than one love, you CAN truly love two people but cannot give your time and energy to more than one without also taking some away from each.
856652
yes it is definitely possible to love more than one person at the same time.  its b'cos all of them could be really decent and good to u, in their own kind of special way.  it means that u r good, that u found the good characteristics in others.  u dont have to feel guilty about it.  just that u have a choice, whereas many are too critical and selective and filter all the people.  they finally dont seem to have a choice in their life.  they like only one guy and end up marrying him.\n\nbut in your case, of course u should GO IN FOR THE MAN WHO IS HEALTHY, b'cos of course there is no point in marrying the one with the terminal illness.  u could be a good friend of his, and give him all the moral support that he deserves.  BE PRACTICAL , MY FRIEND, the healthy man is who can be your life partner and not one who is counting his days, or months.  u better make your choice fast and let them know it too.  being a little bit selfish here will do u a lot of good in the long term, and in the actual sense, it is not being selfish at all.  it is your life and u have every right to look for a long term relationship in marriage.  go ahead and marry the healthy man and be happy for the rest of your life and dont feel guilty about it.  this is my sincere advise my dear friend.  good luck and God bless.  do let us know of your decision fast. bye.
271598
Hard call. The human mind and heart are so complex and not completely understood that anything is possible at this point. Do you have different levels and intensities of love? Yes. Is it possible that while loving one person you discover someone else who has different attributes and things about them that attract you? Yes. Does it mean you love your other love any less? No. So anything possible. What he needs to do is choose. It's human to have feelings all over for different people. (we have that capacity, intelligence and coimplexity of emotions) But our society dictates that you must be faithful to one and only one. So....he has to pick.
203932
You can love as many people as you know out there. Remember, love is a DESICION. The love that you promised to your husband should be UNIQUE, because the decision that you made to him is for just one person at a time.\n\nAny other type of love should be welcome.
180455
No, I love my friends very much. You do not have to be in love with someone, to love them. A friend is not a true friend in your eyes unless they hold a special place in your heart. Choose your friends wisely, but love the good ones, it is really hard to find a good friend but when you do there is nothing better.
497814
It's possible to be in love with several people at the same time. Confusing, but possible.\nSome people believe that people are not naturally monogamous - that monogamy, like other forms of marriage, is a cultural construct. As such, not everybody fits into the same square holes. This can cause people a lot of trouble, but it is best to be honest with yourself, and then with the lovers in your life. \nAfter wife # 1 (a complete disaster) I knew I couldn't be monogamous, and with wife # 2, I told her this and we had an open marriage. It lasted 5 years, and we are still good friends. Neither one of us was particularly jealous by nature, and I know many other people who aren't. Having lived through it though, I no longer embrace open marriage. I keep my extra lovers on the fantasy level, and keep my real relationship real.