I work with twins, How do I deal with jealousy?
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Not sure if they're identical and/or same gender, but making sure to support the expression and development of their own personalities/identities to emerge, giving positive reinforcement for their strengths, and letting them know that they each have their own strengths, like everyone. Make sure to spend about equal time with each and have personal time with each as well. Good luck!
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Not all people get angry and jealous over such things. Those that do have this tendency have probably been this way since childhood. It comes from bad parenting. If a child throws a tantrum and gets their way, they learn to throw tantrums over everything. This carries on into adulthood. If your in love with a fit thrower as it sounds you are, leave them now they will always be this way. However if you feel the need to change them there are professionals and possibly meds. that can help you with your co-dependency. If that doesn't work you will be forced to continue being their dammit doll forever. I personally use mind altering chemicals to drown out their b****ing. I am not a Dr. though so take it for what it is. ON THE OTHER HAND if you get some kind of enjoyment twisting their little mind then you should realize that you don't really care why people get jealous. You just enjoy the show. My friend here who is far less long winded thinks you are just an attention seeker and this was a rhetorical question.
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I checked out all your other questions and answers before sending a reply to your question.  I understand that losing a twin is a very difficult thing to deal with, but don't you think that you should have reached a point in your life at which you have learned to not let it define who you are as a person? Everyone at some point in their life loses a loved one but most of us learn to get over it..you need to do that. Depression is a toughie..but it is not unsurmountable..I know that, I have suffered from it too.  If you don't want to beat it then you won't and you don't give off the vibes of a person that does.\n\nAt the tender age of 19 you shouldn't be on Welfare..you should be at College.  So why don't you go and sign up for some courses, get yourself an education, then a job, and do something that your sister would have been proud of...
588436
If you're jealous, it's best to count your blessings, just don't let jealousy destroy friendships. Just Chill
514457
I understand how frustating that could be but don't get yourself all worked up over it.  Keep doing what you are supposed to do.  Don't worry about your co-worker.  I'm pretty sure that your employer will catch up to him or her eventually.
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Jealousy, jealousy, jealousy!  It drives me nuts.  The competitive nature of some people blows my mind!\n\nThey cause WAY TOO MANY problems at work.  Trust me!\n\nSomeone is ALWAYS trying to best, back stab or torment SOMEBODY!\n\nIt's crazy.
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I can imagine how complicate it is to have such a person in your environment. Sometime it could be a member of your family, your spouse, and then it is much more complicate. \n\nIf you have such a person in your workplace, just remember one important thing; DO NOT feel sorry. \n\nHe/she is not so poor and weak and self-victimizing persons survive in this world very well. They use their "victim position" to manipulate with people, to emotionally and morally blackmail them, what is very exhausting. People in their surrounding usually feel confused, guilty, exhausted. They feel like they cannot help them, cannot do or say the right thing...\n\nDon't let him/her drag you in his/her vicious circle. If you find yourself feel sorry or sad, stop it. Don't empathize and don't try to help or offer the solution. Try to concentrate on your work and let her know it from the very beginning of your working day. If she starts to talk about problems, listen to her politely to some extend, then show her that you "accept" and "understand" what she told you and then either change the subject or tell her that now you have to concentrate on your duties. You can eventually tell her that she is the one who has to resolve her problems and that you cannot help her, but don't let yourself be a part of her problems. And don't be surprised if she reacts on it as if you are not empathic enough, you don't understand her or something like that. This is a usual strategy to make you feel guilty, because SOMEBODY HAS TO BE GUILTY, for her. Stay out and remember that it is not easy. If nothing helps, talk with your superior to eventually move you to another office.\n\nadditional details:\nYou obviously know him very well. You said that those persons are like chameleons and are very good in that. That is exactly the characteristic of manipulator. Don't blame yourself for feeling sorry and offer a support. It is normal human reaction and every normal person would do that. But if you feel permanently guilty and exhausted in communication with him, stop it. YOUR guilty feelings and exhausting are sure signs that you have a problem with manipulator. NOBODY HAS A RIGHT TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE THAT.
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I agree.  And if they ARE jealous for some reason?... it's called maturity.  You either choose to rise above the petty, or become just as bad as they are.
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there is when twins are born
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I am not for sure on what you are trying to find out,like if they are best friends with you,even though they hang out with others?If this is the case,yes,they can be your best of Best's,and still have other best friends as well.It sounds like you are having issues about the loyalty about your friends being true friends with you.If they haven't back stabbed you or caused any harm to you,i wouldn't see what there would be to question.As long as you enjoy hanging with them and when you do everything is as should be in friends,then just relax,and it wouldn't hurt for you to have other group of friends besides them either.About the twin's kissing up to you,isn't cool,for some reason they must feel some uneasiness in order to feel like they have to win you over.Maybe you should tell them that you are their friend and they did nothing wrong by socializing with others,its a big world and there is plenty of people for everyone.Try to make them feel at ease and not threatened in this friendship.Good Luck!
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Don't be jealous, be happy for them.
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The best way is to look at the situation, look at what's logical and what's illogical.  Flip the script: put yourself in the other person's shoes.  Ask yourself if you have any real grounds for jealousy.  Is it necessary?  Is this a way of protecting yourself or are you just insecure?  If you can help it, please don't be jealous of whoever you're talking about.  That's the worst feeling in the world.
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I'm not a Nannie but thanks for asking such question i have a 10m old baby girl and i want to spent all my time bragging about her, i wish i would fine a Nannie as sweet as my baby girl. take very good care of those twins because it worth it. it will pay off some day. love them, love them, love them.
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There is jealousy everywhere.  I think everyone deals with it at one point or another.  It's pretty immature, and people who threaten or do harm of any sort have very low self esteem and have to bring others down so it will make them feel better.  It's very sad what someone will do to shift any attention to them.  Just stay away from those types of people.  Do not react at all, because thats what keeps them going.  Do not give them the satisfaction of seeing you scared or angry at what they are doing.  That is exactly the reaction they are screaming for because thats the only attention they can get.  LOSERS!!!!
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I am a twin, and as much as my sister hates me sometimes, we always make up. Hang in there, she'll forgive and forget. She'll need you to have her back someday, and hopefully you'll be there. stay strong. Twin  Power!!!
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Jealousy comes in many forms. I used to get jealous when girls paid attention to my husband.  Now we have been together so long, I don't mind as much (or maybe he's not getting attention anymore).  \n\nI also get jealous of super skinny girls.
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Forget it dude.  When you work for someone else you will always have negative thoughts!  When you are an assistant manager you need negative thoughts to keep you from going to the next level with your manager, which usually would be to beat the crap out of them in a back room that is out of camera range.  I think you just need another job that is better suited to your personalty type.  Maybe a position with less pressure involved?  You aren't alone in having these types of feelings because many of us are working "out of our comfort zones" these days.  Maybe a hobby would ease your tension.  Start thinking outside the box!