Should I confess to my friend that I have a crush on him, or should I keep it a secret?
406737
Lets say the future involves you two. One day you are going to be sitting together and wondering why it took you so long. take a leap!
217713
You should tell him the truth about how you feel even if it hurts you don't want him to find out from someone other then you because it might make things worse but when and if you deside to do the right thing let him down easy and tell the you would like to remin friends good luck I hope this help's you.
530077
Of course, it's frightening to confess your own feelings when there's a very important friendship at stake....but is also true that a truthful relation always lean on honesty, and then you should tell her what's happening in you. Don't take it as a confession, think at that as an issue to talk about together, since you intimately know each other. She will appreciate your honesty, and if it's really a true friendship nothing will change between you two. So definitely, go for her...maybe she's feeling the same way and she's afraid to tell as much as you do...if not, you must go for her anyway, otherwise you'll always live in doubt. Remember, regret is always less painful than repentance. Good luck!
857246
i think you shud tell him rather than he find out from his friends..who knows...u guys could become a couple soon...i think you shud go for it!good luck to you...
1044097
i no how you feel im going through this to.you should stand up to and tell him how you feel.shoot with my crush im man shy.But if you really love or like him you'll stand up to him and tell him how you feel.Im your friend so i give you the\nbest wishes.
1060596
It all depends on who liked him first and if the two of you shared that information together before you started seeing your boy. \n\nNow, if you are seeing him and you haven't shared that info with your friend then I'm wondering why. I would think that one would share with her friend if she has nothing to hide…right?\n\nBe blessed.
626046
im a very shy person and id never tell him that. i suggest you to tell your best friend to tell him or send him a note and if youre shy like me, tell him to keep it a secret
73430
you get your priotities in order. is this guy or your friend more important?\n\nyou think about how your friend would feel if you went out with the guy and you also think the other way around. you think about what would bug you most. \n\nultimately, if hiding things is not your thing, then you talk to your friend. you'll end up having a pact and both of you will have that urge to go after the guy and for as long as there is that pact, the urge will be there. that urge will be the downfall of both your personal lives. \n\nto sum up, tell your friend that you like the guy and whatever your friend's comments, go for the guy, but before you do that, make sure the guy is worth it.
954450
It's hard to say what the signs are, but here's a good tip: don't reveal anything until you're sure you want to tell him.  When you finally know you want to tell him, use an analogy to bring it up casually.  In other words, pretend your friend likes some guy and you need him to tell you advice on how to get them together.  He should practically give you the answer of what he wants.\n\nGood luck!
1108235
I think that you should sit him down and tell him the truth. The worst thing you can do is lead him on.You should first start by tell him that you think of him as a good friend and nothing more. You respect him and dont want to loose his friendship.
651522
There's no reason why either one of you should surrender your crush, to the other. However, you should contemplate the potential consequences of being infatuated with the same person. \n\nAsk your self, "will this affect our friendship in a negative way"? If so, is it worth it? \n\nYou and your friend should have a discussion regarding your mutual crush. First, let each other know how you feel about the situation. Obviously, your friendship existed before the crush; so know where your loyalties lie.\n\nWhom ever your crush chooses, don't take it personal, if it's not you. Be supportive. You can't control the will of others. Than again, if it doesn't work between your friend and your crush, you'll be waiting with open arms. Although, you'll have to decide if you'd want to do that, given you were his (I'm assuming the crush is male) second choice.\n\nOf course, if he chooses you, don't gloat. It's not a competition. If you and your friend are truly friends, you'll want the best for each other. \n\nSo my advice is, make sure you're both "cool" with going after the same guy and not let it turn into a cut-throat competition. Because if that's what is going to happen, just forget it. This guy will pick who he thinks he likes more. So it's out of your hands, in a way. Just know, you're both equally deserving. Be sympathetic to each other and always communicate your feelings. Don't let this guy come between you. Other than that, go for it!
199761
well i think you should tell A your feelings about him and you never know he mite like you too but he is just to indarist to tell you. then with C u should tell him that you dont like him that u like someone eles because if he finds out that you like someone eles he is going to be hurt but its better hearing it from you that someone eles!
248732
I'm assuming you are good friends since you've known each other for so long but I wouldn't want you to scare him off either.  I would just kinda drop hints and see how he takes it and when the time is right to tell him then you will know.
801003
There's a very fine line between love and friendship.  If you're going to tell him, you have to be sure that's what you want.  You've got to decide what you value more, your friendship or your feelings for him.  \nIf you really do like him, then I say go for it. Its better to try and fail than to never try and regret it.  Even if he doesn't feel the same about you, what do you have to lose?    Hope that helps and good luck.
429258
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..
532828
This kinda thing happened to me a few days ago too...i don't know, if you like him (like-like) then you should make your move and tell him that you like him too. But if you'd rather wanna be friends with him, just tell him. When he told me that he likes me, i just told him that there's a line between being just friends and more than friends, and i'd like to stay just friends with him. And luckily, he understood and is okay with it.
242133
Be honest with him...if you really doubt about your crush feelings toward you,you should have the courage to ask him or else your feelings about him is useless!!! Theres nothing wrong in telling him that...its much better if you ask him straight than to leave that feeling to disappear into thin air.\n\nYou can do it!