why are guys so weird about getting a professional massage from a male masseur?
406618
Well - I'm a massage therapist and physical therapist with over 15 years of experience.  I think it depends upon the therapist/patient or client relationship - I have always been professional and never had any problems.  I am also married with one son - I think that makes guys feel safe.  I think it also depends upon how much pain or discomfort you are in - if you need help and are in a lot of pain and know that I could help you, wouldn't you be willing to put those feelings aside?
93882
They're experimenting with their sexuality.\n\nIt's completely normal.\n\nSame reason guys do push-ups.
1053770
All guys doesn't have them. Not at the same moment at least. But most guys get them. It's like when you're a girl and you want to go to the mall really, really bad to spend the big bucks you earned for babysitting and you waited all week to do it. You're exciting and smile everytime you think of the "mall". And you think of the great dress or pair of slacks waiting for you that you saw last time but couldn't get. As you're walking, no running out the door, slamming it behind in haste, hopping in the car, just the thought of it gives you goose bumps and before you put your second leg inside the car.........your Dad calls you inside and say "You're room isn;t clean. You can't go to the mall." Do you know that feeling?. Same thing, just like Blueballs.
1101687
I think it's great. I love a good massage. A friend of mine is a massage therapist and she specializes in massage for people who participate in sports. She has a lot of clients. Of course, she has to put up with smirking by people who have seen classified ads for the "other" kind of massage therapy, but she just ignores that. Massage therapy is a good profession with many benefits.
450632
Like me, he's a MAN.  We like to touch women, it's built in like breathing.  Tell him you like it and rub his back next time.  Sheesh!
88721
thats odd actually, i have my tongue pierced, and no guys assume i am gay, instead they ask me if i would like to try it out on them. this piercings is obviously percieved to be associated with sexual favors.
1050866
Maybe he's jealous, Your not with him and getting your hair done. men are weird, and have a strange way of thinking sometimes, but perhaps he thinks if your really saving to be with him then you wouldn't be throwing money around so loosely, (and he's not there so obviously you didn't get your hair done for him.) It's hard to save $, and not be able to splurge a Little, tell him to lighten up and assure him you needed a little pick me up 'cause you miss him so much.
964749
If the Masseur owns their service/business "nothing" should be expected.\n\nIf they are working for a spa your paid fee should also include gratuity. Doctors office- same thing nothing.\n\nIf massage schools offer student massages to the public, then you can give a tip or donation....
523109
because they want the guy to like them
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
575360
Some are so sexually unsatisfied that they find it necessary to engage as many clients as possible to satisfy the urge. It is a great way to make money in the oldest profession in the world. Some are recruited to make money for their pimps and some do it because they need an income. None of them hate the work. Sex is a good thing just ask Reverend Bakker and his wife Tammy. I am told that the Reverend has passed away so it will be hard to get him to admit anything.
388324
Well, well, well.  I think the man is embarrassed by getting off so fast the 1st time.  Don't give him anything until he can tell u why he ain't upping the goods.  If both of u aren't getting off then how fair is that.  He has problems within himself that he needs to work out.  I think that it was just to good to him and he is afraid that u didn't want anymore because he came so fast.  Poor baby,  If u like him talk to him if not move on because it isn't u that is the problem its his $perm that is his problem it just doesn't have any patience. Give him a hug and tell him it's o.k.
189326
Any professional therapist who decides to do erotic massage should have their license taken away for good and be charged with sexual misconduct! Professional massage therapists don't want that CRAP in their field! And if you know of anyone who's doing it - please report them to their State Department of License and Regulation!\nIf you want to find a good therapist go to "www.amta-massage.org" - That's the American Massage Therapy Association.
1092088
well i don't think it is weird.  i have met guys who are like this.  i think you can tell if they want attention drawn to their feet by women who take really good care of their feet.  Women who go get pedicures and french tip on their toes and of course the little cute toe rings. oh and open toed footwear.   These women want their beautiful feet to be noticed. So go ahead and compliment but dont be creepy about it.  you can offer massages and then progress from there when you get to know the person better.  also did you know since you were young if you liked feet?  Because I have a nephew who is really young and he likes to look at girls feet even to the point where he wants to hug them and kiss them.  I think a foot fetish is 100 times better than other fetishes out there.
286050
My husband is a professional massage therapist. His business is doing excellent! But I must tell you - he's REALLY STRICT about the moral ethic code! It is absolutely WRONG to see a client on a personal basis or to make remarks about the clients appearance or smell. You do NOT look at a client the wrong way or give body signs of any kind. You MUST remain professional even if you think you met your soul mate!!! If you would meet that someone special you MUST wait ONE FULL YEAR after that last massage before you could ask that person out!\nMen in this field when they commit their hearts to their profession and continue education can make an impact in the health of their community and can make a very comfortable living. But it takes time, commitment, and faithfulness to the profession, themselves, and their clients.
67743
all the answers above are good but the fact is that it is a primitive act of nature,back from cavemen days almost an instinct to be animal like. But he should have the sense not to hurt you. Just little love tugs. :)  Oh and my man does grip my hair every now and then during sex but he doesnt hurt me and he treats me like a queen, not like dirt.
959244
It's a combination of female hormone (estrogen) and the extra-special care that women take, in regards to their skin. You don't see (at least *I* haven't) men washing their bodies with loofahs, pumice stones and using a moisturizing soap ... followed by a good moisturizing lotion. We like to feel good for our men.  *sigh* ... the things we do to keep our man happy ...  :)