Don't girls feel uncomfortable if a guy pays on a date?
413535
Dude don't ever feel awkward about this... Women live to have you spend money on them!!
351200
Well it is nice if a guy pays when he takes you out the first time but this dosen't mean it has to cost alot.  You don't have to take her to a flashy restaurant to impress her, be cheap and cheerful, maybe organise a picnic for the park on a warm evening, or go for a walk on the beach and just buy hamburgers or hotdogs, any man can whisk you somewhere top class and pretend to be something they're not but a guy to puts some thought into organising something that makes you feel special will win out any day. Good Luck,
571739
I totally agree with you, cheap guys are a big turn off!  it tells you a lot about them and about how they would be in a relationship... people that are cheap with money are often just as frugal with showing emotions, holiday gifts etc etc...its a big flaw and a red flag for me !if a guy values you he does not pinch pennies with you, or expect you to pay on dates etc...a guy like that   never gets a second date with a smart gal!!
456415
I wouldnt say it was a man's responsibility, but it is traditional!\nPersonally I always have enough money to pay for both of us and will expect to pay for everything, especially on a first date.  I will try to refuse her paying for any part of it on the first date (I'm talking meals, cinema etc rather than flights somewhere - I'm not THAT rich!), unless she really insists on it.  As for more dates after I'd be happy to split the cost of stuff.  And if she wants to treat me thats great!
1124238
I don't mind if a girl asks me out. Before you ask someone out you must be aware of one thing that all men know. When you ask someone out, they might say no.
146182
Most guys are forgetful when it comes to dates and you should not be so quick to assume another girl. You don't want to crowd him, but allow him to have some space.
134954
Do guys buy you an outfit for your date with them?  I wouldn't.
280263
I am not that way myself, but I have friends who are.\nI always wondered how they decided who paid for the first few dates. \nMaybe the one who initiated the date is the one who pays?\nI would think that other than that, they would date maybe like heterosexual people do by spending lots of time together and going thru a phase of being really super duper in love.
1177450
sounds good to me - better if she chips in for gas and beer, too.  Hell, it's usually the guy paying for everything long before any commitment is made, why is it wrong for the girl to do so?
299128
No, that's not bad at all. If the girl is interested in you and really likes you she will not care how much money you spend on her. She should be thankful that you are wanting to spend time with her even though you don't have a lot of money to spend on her. My boyfriend and I went to a "cheap theater" not too long ago and actually found it more "cozy" because it was not so crowded.
80788
screw what men expect. i'm a guy, if you don't limit us, the possibilities are endless. i mean, at most a kiss? after all it is just a first date.
433019
Men don't express emotions the same way women do. We say how we feel. Boys show it. If he did all that for you & the two of you had that great a time together, ask him. Odds are he's going to agree with the next date.
557685
Maybe because he feels nervous or tense. I don't think the girls are supposed to.Even if it is Ladies First.
474311
Well i really dont agree on a certain level. b/c every gilr aint the same.  I really dont care if u cant afford a car. As long as you like me for me and RESPECT me adn wouldnt do anything to hurt me then we are cool.  i also gotta have a good time with you too in order for me to like you, u also gotta make me laugh.  Well i think that girls should open up to the guys to a certain extent2.
114664
If the lady ask the man out.. then its ok..  but if he is a gentleman.. he should offer to pay.. the lady can then choose to accept or not...
894817
I never allowed a girl to pay for ANY expense on ANY date I ever asked her on.  Not once from my first date to the dates I ask my wife on today after 26 years of marriage.  I cannot believe that there are guys who have been so poorly raised that they expect a girl to EVER pay for anything on a date.  In fact when I met my wife she said that was the first thing that impressed her about me.  The fact that I treated her like a lady.  I opened the car door for her (not when it was moving). I let her go through doors first, I pulled her chair out when we ate at a restaurant, I always paid for meals, movie tickets, ice cream etc...  She said that she had rarely been out with a guy that knew how to treat a girl right.  Most guys she had been asked out by were a$$holes that had no understanding at all about chivalry.    She had been raised to expect guys to treat her like a lady and I was raised to treat girls like ladies.  We were a match made in heaven.  Now after 26 years of blissful marriage I STILL open the car door for her EVERY TIME we go in the car.  I still stand up when she enters the room, I still pay for dates, open doors for her, pull out her chair in restaurants, and treat her like we are on our first date.  Maybe, that's why we.ve been married longer than about 90% of all people in the United States.
1119333
i have done it every way conceivable.....whoever asked for the date, whoever makes the most money, one pays for din din, the other pays for the next thing.  mostly, we always took turns.....and to be perfectly honest, the butch person usually wants to pay whether they have the most or not.....it's an alpha kinda thing.  sometimes when i go out with my girlfriend, i get handed the check simply because i did the most talking, or the most decision making, or the ordering.....(and i am not so very butch)\nmaybe you should just ask your date before the waiter/ess gets there.....'is this gonna be on one check or two?'.....she is probably gonna wonder as much as you do.