Should I pursue a relationship w/ some1 I had a 1 night stand, well, a few nights? He's a good good person.
406669
Of course.  it sounds like you two have all the ingredients for relationship stew.  great sex, great communication, and great personality.  you'd be a fool to just let the opportunity slide by when some people never get the chance at all.
34386
THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL HAVE AN IDEA TO THIS QUESTION IS IF YOU STARVE THIS GUY (NO SEX) AND WATCH HIM EVOLVE IN TO WHAT HIS INTENTIONS ARE. KEEP A GOOD WATCH AND PAY ATTENTION TO HIS DEMEANOR.
970398
This guy fights for your country and you can't even finish him off??\n\nno...  j/k..  yeah  I think you did the right thing.   \n\nBTW,  it's not wrong of you to bring him home for a one night stand,  you shouldn't feel bad about that...that happens ALL THE TIME.  \n\nSounds to me like he has NO experience with too many women.  If he's too arrogant to even try to get you all hot,  then it's not worth it any way...   \n\nI'm sorry you had a bad one night stand,    but it does happen.  it's done,  move on, and progress.  better luck next time.
956725
Anyone who really appreciated you and was looking for a long term serious possibility with you might consider telling his friends things like: how much fun you were, where he took you to dinner and/or movie, things that made him enjoy your company more than expected etc.  If he gave his buddies details of your intimacy the first night, he will probably trade you off soon, or his buddies will think you are fair game for them also since they already know what you might do for them also...RUN RUN RUN
255229
Believe me I think plenty of us have done this at one time or another.. It is nice to have somebody there to get intimate with.. And it is not awkward because you have been with him before.. Is it a good idea? No, it is time to move on and find somebody else to build a relationship with...
963948
Forgive yourself for an error in judgment and focus on what would be in your best interest at this point.  The guy satisfied his sexual curiousity and can't let go of a minor offense (i.e., hanging up on him).  A guy like this will only hold you back.....walk away now and you'll be proud of yourself for putting your own needs first.  You will gain strength as time moves on.  It's just a matter of developing the resolve to stick to your guns; as you meet new people and start to date new guys, this memory will fade.  Trust your own instincts and move on.  Good Luck
657179
does he talk about how he likes other girls around you a lot? if he does, then he might just think of you as a really good friend, as someone he can always count on and trust. but...if he doesn't, then that just might be your sign to make your move. but don't go into it too fast, or you might end up driving him away. i had a guy friend like that, and we did almost everything together. a lot of people said that we would be cute and good for each other since we always did everything together. well, after a while we started dating and it took about 3 days to realize that it was way too weird and we stopped dating. luckily we stayed friends.  but I've also had friends in your situation that had started dating, and are so happy together. it depends on what you're willing to do and sometimes risk. i hope i helped you at least a little bit and wish you good luck!
326046
Sounds like you really have a thing for him. Just relax and let everything come natural. Don't be blind to his negative ways. But if he is good to you just take it slow and everything will work out.
365007
Sleeper_grrl has the right attitude.  If you want a good relationship, then you should be able to talk with the guy.  If you can't talk to a man about what he feels, then he is not someone you want a long term relationship with.
669678
He sounds like a good guy from what you say in your question. If he is so caring and meets you all the time, surely he hasn't got time to cheat! Saying that, you can never know what a man will be like further into the relationship.
607903
i think good for you.. he obviously cares and I think  that is wonderful. keep up the friendship and when the timing is right.. you 'll know if there is more to it.
144385
first I wanted to answer "then have sex, take the pleasure from him, and go forward someone new..." but i can see that you're interested in that person more than just for an one night satnd... so, you should decide for you, whether you take the risc that you'll have sex and then nothing, or that maybe he is interested in you too, and you'll get yourself involved in something beautiful... I think you should take that risk, and approach him... the only thing you loose is a little of your self confidence... but who doesn't risks, doesn't drink champaign... good luck!
1178806
That makes sense to me. Spend some time with him. See what it is or isn't turning into. If he really really likes you, it wouldn't be JUST for sex. Make sure thats the case. Its natural for BOTH man and women to want sex. Also, I think why lose respect for people for wanting good healthy sex. Either way. Your caution makes a lot of sense to me considering that it sounds like maybe you dated some jerks. Maybe too many.
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well sweety think about how long you have known him.  only a couple of days. and you sleep together yeah leaving the message was good but don't call back just yet. wait at least a week before you do.  see if he is interested by letting him call.  i know it sounds stupid, but its is a game.
339535
if he is as great as you describe, then hes really worth your trust.  ask him straight out.  because theres no future if theres not trust.
209556
Only if he spends the night w/ me.
504933
There is absolutely nothing wrong with giving him one chance.  On multiple occassions I have been asked out by guys I didn't want to go out with, but had a great time when I did. And even if he's not your "one and only", one date doesn't mean commitment, it's always nice to go and try to make a new friend.