how a man or woman can overcome sexual desire when it becomes insanity?
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It is called a sexual addiction and can be resolved (in most cases) through counseling.
98057
There's no cure.  Oh, and if it hasn't happened yet, you'll lose your sex drive, too.  I tried every kind of hormone birth control...no matter how low the dose, it eventually made me snap at people all the time.  Even while I was blowing up on somebody I would think "this isn't something that would make me mad!  what am I DOING???"  Unfortunately, the only solution is to get off the hormones.  Try condoms or spermicide...I'm personally playing roulette here.  lol
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Most women are EMOTION driven. Getting turned on and "feeling satisfied" are usually a result of emotions as opposed to physical sensations. For some women it helps to be talked to passionately and caressed lovingly far before getting intimate. \n\nTry lighting some candles, burning some incense...something to make the mood romantic. \nCuddle and make out with your man before getting sexual. When you and your man are having intercourse, think romantic thoughts, like how much you love him and love him being a part of you.\n\nI generally think like a man and am a nymph, but the passion behind the love making ALWAYS makes it better ;) Hope my answer helped some! Oh AND thinking or worrying about it DOESNT help. If it happens, great, if not, no big deal. Just enjoy the experience!
395964
Having wild, crazy, insane, mad SEX!!!!!!!! Wohwho
634274
I'm assuming you mean "spice up sexually." The best way I know of is to figure out what the other person's fantasies are and then do your best to make at least some of them become reality.
339918
You better do something fast because the honestly, there are so many times where sexual desire and the need to fulfill that will overcome a person's feelings for their partner. It's sad, but it's happened a million times on this earth.
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I am a therapist and I know exactly what you are going through. I have treated many couples with this problem. Fifteen to twenty times a week is a bit excessive and that places you guys in the top 5% statistically. It is 100% humanly possible and normal to have sex many times a week as you describe. Now, what is not normal is that by doing so you submit your body to great discomfort. Sex is meant to be an enjoyable experience. If 15 to 20 times a week is not enough for your husband then that reveals that he definitely has a problem that needs to be addressed. If he is not taking any stimulating substance to increase his libido, which he obviously does not need, he is currently going through a chemical imbalance. He may or may not require medical treatment at the organic level. From what you described about him, I don't think he requires any psychological evaluation. Prepare a nice dinner for the two of you. Talk this out with him. Explain to him how you feel and how your current sexual activities are interfering with your body and your ability to function normally in daily life. Ask him if he has taken any substance that may have caused this change in behavior. Also mention to him that you would love to have sex with him at the rate of 15 to 20 times weekly that you are comfortable with. I am sure that he will understand.
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get aroused.lots of foreplay
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Until you said "When I am more than willing to have sex and try new things all the time?" I thought I had the solution for you.  If he's not fulfilling your sexual needs you need to drop him.  Let him play in cyber land and find someone that can appreciate a real woman.
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Hypersexuality describes a desire for human sexual behavior at levels high enough to be considered clinically significant.\n\nThe concept of hypersexuality replaces the older concepts of nymphomania and satyriasis. Nymphomania was believed to be a psychological disorder characterized by an overactive libido and an obsession with sex. In males the disorder was called satyriasis (for etymology of the words, see nymph and satyr). "Nymphomania" and "satyriasis" are no longer listed as specific disorders in the DSM-IV.\n\nNymphomania owes its name to the feminine nature spirits of Ancient Greece, known as nymphs. Satyriasis owes its name to the mythical masculine creatures of Ancient Greece, half man/half goat creatures known as Satyrs.\n\nThe threshold for what constitutes hypersexuality is subject to debate, and critics question if a standardized diagnostic threshold even exists. Sex drive varies widely in humans, and what one person would consider a "normal" sex drive might be considered excessive by some, and low by others. The consensus among those who consider this a disorder is that the threshold is met when the behavior causes distress or impaired social functioning.\n\n\nHypersexuality can be a symptom of bipolar disorder and is generally associated with the manic phase of the disease. It can result in behavior that the manic person later regrets (depressive phase).\n\nThe condition can also be caused by Kluver-Bucy syndrome, a neurobehavioral syndrome associated with bilateral medial temporal lobe dysfunction. Lesions to the amygdala in the Limbic system can also cause hypersexuality.\n\nIt has sometimes been reported following brain injuries and diseases that cause dementia and loss of impulse control. Additionally, hypersexuality is a reported side effect of dopamine agonists such as pramipexole.\n\nHypersexuality is characterized by an impairing need for frequent genital stimulation that does not result in sexual satisfaction. This dissatisfaction is what is believed to encourage the heightened frequency of sexual stimulation, as well as additional physiological and neurological symptoms.
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You've only hit the tip of the iceberg.  Try playing strip checkers and chess.  Write out a wonderful sexual fantasy on a slip of paper and have your lover do the same.  Fold the papers, and keep them under wraps for now.  Play the game, and whoever wins gets his or her fantasy played out first.  Whoever loses, gets his or her fantasy played out second.  It's a win-win love making experience.  \n\nAlso try putting whipped cream underwear on each other and licking it off.\n\nStart with A of the alphabet, and kiss a body part of your lover that begins with A.  Then have your lover kiss a body part of yours that begins with B, and continue down the alphabet.  See if you get all the way through.  If you can't think of anything starting with the letter, make something silly up!  It's a new kind of spelling bee to do with your honey!\n\nAlso, use blindfolds and make love without looking at each other--just touch.  Use roses and feathers, and other sensual items to enhance the experience.]\n\nWhen you make love, focus your orgasmic energy on a specific goal you both share, or a dream you would like to come true.  Then you are practicing sex magic!  It's a lot hotter than regular sex.\n\nJust keep the fun, silliness, love, and creativity in whatever you do!
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Actually s healthy diet and good clean exercise can do wonders for your libido. Also try mastrubation. This will help awaken that side of you. Find some thing that turns you on like erotic books or movies. Also try to take multi vitamins. And communicate and explore with your partner.
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Exhaust your body doing something else, like runnning, rock climbing, cycling, whatever. Your sex drive will still be there, but you won't notice it as much.
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try eating fruits for a few days and see what happens. Eating canaloupe is good for the sex drive. SO find out what fruit she likes the best and have fun. Oh avacado has something to do with sex drive too. Good luck
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Unable to sleep wth desired partner.
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Here are a few ideas to ponder:\n\n1. God gave you sexual desires to help in your future marriage and ultimately to glorify Him. The desires aren't bad, but pointed in the wrong direction, as thoughts often are, they become sinful.\n\n2. Treat these desires like the habit of over-eating. The right kind of food is good in moderation, but when you binge or constantly crave food, it becomes your drug or even your god respectively.\n\n3. Think of the particular females who are currently the object of your lust as people who need your unselfish, godly love. Ask yourself what their greatest needs are, and minister to them. I wish I had done the same when I was in your stage in life (not long ago).\n\n4. Since the problem is bigger than you are, don't keep it a total secret. Confide in God and in a friend or two you can trust, who will hold you accountable.\n\n5. Don't just stop thinking about girls and sexual stuff. Replace these thoughts with godly thoughts. Carry around a stack of memory verses, for example.\n\n6. You're already so far ahead of most Christian men your age because even to strangers in this forum, you can express the problem honestly. Way to go, brother!
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I don't think your crazy, You just know what you like and probably have difficulty expressing your desires to your partner. It is always easier for us to do things ourselves than to explain how to do it.