Why do men on the "Down Low" (married or single men sleeping with other men secretly) consider........
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I'd have to agree with the last post. It seems that most men on the down low are there for a reason...becasue they don't feel that they can openly embrace that part of their sexuality.  I also really think it's a culture based thing, too.  I was doing some reading a while back, and you find a lot of this kind of thing in the Japanese, African American and Hispanic communities.  These communities tend to raise their boys to be strong manly men, and no gay love allowed!
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Ok..then let me return to you this question:what do you call a man who sleeps with a lot of women?Why is it ok for men to do this,but women should stick to one man?That is so hypocrite!
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Some men are afraid of what the next person will think so they keep it under wraps, but I feel the down low brothers are the ones that we need to watch out for Mr. Macho to a woman but an under cover meat packer to each his own but don't involve innocent people.
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In my opinion, it is the highest form of disrespect a man can show his wife! It also opens the door to him partaking in these kind of activities with other females. I don't see how any man can claim to love his spouse when he is willing to share her in bed with other men! Does that make any sense to you?!  He sounds like an unprincipled man to me.
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I agree, They should at least have it in them to admit it.. LOL...but I think men do it, in case some other girl is listening, so he can have her as a back up, in case the one he is interested in, doesn't want him...  :)
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It's the idea that gets them going.  People, in general, love to gossip.  If it's your partner that's assuming you are having sex with someone else, then it's probably a matter of insecurity. Then you must ask yourself if you are being honest with your partner.  Have you included your partner in your friendships with others, or are you being secretive and elusive about them?  Did your partner find out about your opposite-sex friend(s) from you or another source?  If it's just other people making assumptions, just ignore them.  They obviously have nothing better to do than worry about what you might, or might not be doing.
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You need to evaluate how you are choosing men to sleep with and why you dont feel good about yourself. You need to be in love with yourself in order to love others completely.
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Normally single guys are nervous and self concious, so they come off a lot weirder and insecure (ironically enough trying to cover up their insecurity). Once they get more comfy, they get more normal, hence married men have nothing to worry about so they're relaxed.
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I'd have to first question the motives of my wife.  Why exactly does she want me to sleep with another person?  If it's for some sort of sexual gratification on her part, then I would perhaps consider it.  I seriously doubt that I would actually proceed with it though.
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My guess is, no straight guys give a damn. Not being a bigot, just most men don't think of what goes on underneath.
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Only strait men do..as long as there breathing they probably are lusting after somebody(whether its somebody real or in there imagination(fantasy))....it depends how obvious they are about it if its something u have to worry about...To me its normal for them to lust but in bad taste not to be a little discreet about doing that.....like not be panting like a dog or anything.Its also one thing to look and be like damn there doable to damn i want to take them home.When your married your aloud to look a little,but not so much that u think the person's gonna cheat on u.My mom's response to that type of deal is this..I might be married but i'm not dead,,so if she can do it why can't guys..its only if there messing around that there's going to be trouble.
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Because they only think of themselves and their needs and desires. Men are selfish bast*rds.
1111497
Its worse to enter into an monogamous marriage just for the sole purpose of lust! Marriage is special and great; to get married just for the sole purpose of getting into their pants is wrong. But sleeping around is just as bad to me, but if you were gonna do anything, you should just sleep around but I wouldn't even do that!
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By yourself or as a couple?\nBy yourself, I don't know, I guess wherever you feel like it.\nBut as a couple, I read, that men tend to sleep closer to the door, or the women if they're the dominant ones in the relationship. Men sleeping closer to the door may have come from cavemen sleeping closer to the entry to protect women from attack...at least that's what i read
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Straight men do this, especially when they are young.  However, if it develops into a habit, then I would say they are not straight and probably at least bisexual.
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Welcome to the party! I personally believe that men think just because your married your "SUPPOSED" to have sex with them on a regular bases but just as they may want that need replenished we need things as well. Like you said it takes trust and it takes some help on his part when it comes to helping around the house. Some men think that those small things do not matter but those are very big things to a lot of women.
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Straight men tend to think that ALL gay men want to have sex with them. They don't understand that gay men are just as choosy (or more so) than straight men.