How do you pass the time when waiting to see that special someone again?
401645
I keep a picture of my sweetheart next to me. In my study breaks, I look at his picture and it makes me so happy! You could write about how you feel. Even though, I don't keep a journal (paper trails), it makes me feel better and then I burn it. (I don't want to leave evidence!) It would be like being in prison and the sound of how tragic to be far away from the loved one is just...Well, that's just me. To occupy your time, watch Jon Stewart! \n    Seriously, you could excerise, take a walk in the park. Listen to music, relax, study. Do the things you enjoy. It shouldn't seem nervewracking if you both know that both of you would be faithful to each other. As long as you know he loves you, love can conquer all.
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there really isn't a "delicate" way aside from just saying "it's over, really really over" and sticking to it. how do you do that? \n\nwell, your first step is realizing how much you really want to stay out. you have found yourself going back, and now you feel like a jerk because you're not into it as much as she is. so think of it this way: how would you feel if she was the one coming back to you when she was "bored or lonely"--wouldn't you be mad and hurt? you don't want to hurt this person do you? so stop doing that. you're being a jerk. (not a bad person, but just not who you should be.)\n\nthe next thing you need to do is set a period during which you will not call or contact or hang out or talk more than in passing and out of courtesy with this person. tell her and yourself that this is necessary for your to transform your relationship into a platonic one. if she keeps calling you, then stick to your rule. (i.e., don't answer the phone, and don't call her back. the common courtesy of a greeting when you meet outside the home is okay, but try to make it not go beyond "hi how are you?")  i'd make it a period of about four to six months. \n\nget out there and talk to and look at and be around other women. get to know other women. date. even if it's the friendly sort of date that doesn't go anywhere. cultivate your crushes. enjoy your life. find a new hobby or hang-out that has nothing to do with your old relationship. in fact, try one that your old girlfriend didn't like or prevented you from doing. look forward to finding someone you can love. \n\nthe reason i have never "gone back" is because i keep focused on the reasons why i don't want to be with that person, and i remind myself that being alone is a good thing. i also remind myself that it is a waste of time to be with someone who doesn't present as the "love of your life."
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take a day trip somewhere, turning off your cell phone if you have one.  Leave a message with someone important that you will not be available until the following day.  Relax and have fun.
318753
In past experience, I've learned that the best way to get over someone is to give yourself an allotted grieving time...I say a week or less, and then start doing something to take your mind off of the situation, or at least alleviate the thought of that person. I have found one of the best things is exercise...or try something you've never done before...a new hobby or sport. It's a great way to distract you, plus you might meet some new interesting people as well.
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Patience is a virtue, or so they say.  Anything worth having is worth waiting for.  You hang in there, your time is coming.  Is she far away physically or far away in time?  Just keep thinking about how great it's going to be when you are together and you don't have to be apart again!
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One never knows when that someone special will pop into their life.  Don't despair or give up.  It happens, and often when and where you least expect it.  And it may not be obvious to you that the person you just met is going to be an integral part of your life for the rest of your life.  You may just think, "He (She) is nice and interesting.  I should get to know them better."  Let it happen.  (The mighty oak tree grows from a tiny acorn, but it doesn't happen overnight!)  \n\n"Soulmate", as its name implies, is a very deep matter.  It takes time to reach that level.  We have to get through various layers of life and experiences with the other person to reach the soul.  But once there, what a wonderful place.
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take it slow.... you say you doubt you will see him again... if hhe really likes you then you will for sure see him again. try looking for him and speak with him. tell him how you feel. what do you got to loose? if he doesnt have the same feeling then you dont end up wasting time on nothing
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stay busy. pick up a hobby or renew an old one. go to the gym. spend time with family and friends. watch movies. read books. but do not keep thinking about him. the only true way to forget is to let time pass by. you can only let time pass by if you spend time doing something else. \n\nand last but not least, learn to accept your loss. talk with a good friend about it. dont be afraid to reach out to a friend to talk. and if you dont have one to go to, find a therapist to help you. you cannot forget an ex all on your own.\n\nafter a while you will slowly forget him. but it takes time. good luck.
427126
Just waiting when thge time will come you just give him your numba so that both of you can talk mor eand get to know each other better!
872898
Instead of telling him you miss him try meet him and make it look like an accident so that you can have a chance to know him more. And when you do meet him, talk with him so next time he won't be so much a stranger! It's not easy to begin with, but will be easier and such things need some time to find their way
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To meet the guy again, (Yes this makes me psycho)
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mitr says.... if the person is close to your heart, he/she can never drift away....\nfollow this.....\n1. be different... probably he/she is bored of the same routinely YOU....\n2. do something creative for him...\n3. do something very special for him... which only a person does when the other one is close to your heart... \n4. be a surprise to him/her... it will bind the interest...\n5. give importance to that person, more than anythign in your life and make him/her feel special......\n6. say in a very romantic way that you wann be with him/her, more often than you use to... \n7. do not bind him /her... give space... loosen the grip.... \n8. FIND OUT THE REASON WHY THE PERSON IS DRIFTING AWAY FROM YOU........ if possible, cure it......
962951
Been there, done that. All you're gonna get is heartbreak in the end, and eventually you'll get tired of waiting for him. Believe me, you're taking a trip down heartbreak lane if you keep waiting for him.
1084362
that one person is rare and u really have to get hurt and heart broken many times before u meet them.\n\ngood luck.
140724
Wait till I found someone I did have an attraction to.
408859
girl you will know u just have to wait for that right person to come along
197316
first of all..... if it's Love of ur life... and that guy or girl (u never know) is happy with the other person then wait and watch if that person is really love of ur life he/she will come back to u...