do you think white men date black women  because of sexual stereotypes?
404095
As shallow as some of us men are, most of the time if we are seriously dating any woman of any color it is due to a physical or emotional attraction rather than a stereotype.
848257
Nope, they're are just broadening their horizons like everyone else.  Some who have been hurt by black women turn to not just white women but other races also.  It's the same on why some black women date white men or others.  For some it's a preference to date outside their race but others it might be curiosity.  I've dated other races besides black men and it's not a preference, it's an opportunity to sample the appetizers.  Why have one kind when there is so many varieties?
1115715
girl please.....don,t flatter yourself. the only thing that black guys find attractive about white girls is that,they are:FREAKS,THEY GIVE THEM MONEY,THEY DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING THEY ASK THEM, AND THE WHITE GIRLS BUY THERE LOVE. oh! by the way i am also not racist!!!
973316
Yes, they are very attractive. They have beautiful skin thate many white folks spend hundreds or thousands of dollars in the tanning booths trying to get the same tan that black girls are born with and don't spend anything to make them beautiful.  I am an old man but as an army top sgt, I had several beautiful  black ladies working under my command, they in most cases worked very hard to accomplish the tasks I assigned them, and they were always telling each other that I was the best sgt. they ever worked for. I always tried my best to be honest with all who worked for me regardless of race, creed or color, and alwas  treated them like the nice young ladies they really were.  I was happily married and never tried to make any type of sexual advances toward any one, though there had been times that if i were single i would certainly have been tempted. If I had been single, I would definitely have been proud to date a black girl and would have been greatly enjoyed to have introduced them to any friend of mine. I was married to a wonerful caucasion girl when I was 19 years of age and we have been together for 50 and a half years, she was 18 at that time and we sort of grew up together having two beautiful daughters., and i wouldn' trade her for all the tea in CHINA.
928394
I have found that they do, its just hard to find them sometimes.  Many girls, once they get past the "ewwwww" factor they like dating a guy who is considerate, thoughtful and mature.   The only problem i ever found was that sometimes their bimbo girlfriends would interfere and try to "save" them from dating an older guy.   You have to have a girl with some self confidence and who can tell other people to f*** off.
809002
You obviously don't know what you're talking about. Walk out the door and look at the next 50 black men with women you see. Ninety plus percent of them will be with black women. There is a percentage of black men that date and marry outside there race but it's certainly not most! There are women of all races that are very attractive so it's not surprising men of all races are attracted to them.\n\nThere are a percentage of men from all races that are attracted to women of other races. What's the hang up here? If you don't date or did not marry outside your race or ethnicity that's cool too!
635469
It's not really about being "black" for me, it's about being different from the norm, or anything I have already had.  My fantasy has never been to date a black girl however...just to sleep with one.  Not that I wouldn't date one if I were to develop those feelings.
49855
I have many reasons : Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Dr Benton (ER), Dr Burke (Grey's Anatomy)...That really hot guy who sat across from me in highschool math...Oh the list goes on and on...\n\nWhy aren't I with a black man? Cause the guy I married happened to be white.\n\nI do agree that many white women like to look at black men from afar, but don't want to get close. There still is a social stigma to interracial coupling (as evidenced by the previous poster), for whatever reason. In part, I think it might be that to a 'white girl' a black man is rather intimidating up close. I live in a very small, rural town in nothern Illinois, with, literally, no 'people of color'. The first time I went into Chicago, I was 15 and amazed at how tall some of those men are! It was a system shock for sure...
1040390
i agree with the guy above me....white guys are so HOT-especially italian guys anyways....black men and white women are nothing new to me...u see it all the time
96209
I treat women in a relationship like how I would like to be treated... Unfortunately the black women I've dated couldn't do the same in return. An as far as dating outside my race the results aren't any better.
877401
Is there a reason they should be?\n\n\nI would think that Caucasian men would be popular among Caucasian women\n\n\nBut maybe that is just me
625079
White women are heavily sexually objectified, but images of black women compare them to wild animals.  Cultural messages in the US (and many other places) describe being white as attractive and anything else is a deviation from the beauty ideal.
150407
I don't know if any statistics support the premise of this question, but what I've observed agrees with what you say.\n\nI think it has to do with the "power-dynamics" between men and women, and the perceived "concessions" made by each combination.\n\nBlack women were always "taken" (i.e. raped) by white men. White women were always "forbidden" to (i.e. "too good" for) black men. \n\nSo, except in the case of the *truly* open-minded, it is easier for a black man to pursue and enter into a relationship with a white woman, than for a black woman to condescend to give herself to a white man.\n\nFor the black man it can be seen as gaining something "desirable," while for a black woman, it is much more difficult, and might be perceived as, lowering herself, by "giving herself" to the oppressor.
430841
I'm a white guy, and I can say with conviction that if a girl is good looking (black, white, asian, hispanic) I "find her attractive". But in general I think white guys are raised in sheltered environments and tend to stray away from black girls. A lot of it has to do with how you were raised.
1130769
I do not hink race is the issue. It is based on experience if your partner knows no more than you, you will not expand your knowledge of sexual satisfaction.color means nothing no Pu$$y is the same.
804619
OK I am confused you say they fantasize about us 24/7 and then you say your husband dates black women are you a man married to a man or a woman married to a woman? OK it's not a matter of white women being attracted to black men it's juts today people find mates without looking at the race before many just didn't look outside their race as it was taboo. I started dating black males when i was 17 and am now 49 and have never changed. black men to me are more sensitive to a woman's emotions and needs. now it may be hard for me to judge as i never really dated white guys except when a teen but my dad and  uncles etc are all white and most of them were abusive now I'm not saying black males aren't abusive either but from past experience I would never date a white man. Of course my husband is black and we've been together except for a few years of separation for 28 years so I am not looking for anyone period. you find love where ever it is and race should never be a factor I personally just have never been attracted to white males since i started dating black men by the way they are all built the same some have large penises and some just average but they sure know how to take their time to please their woman
670373
first of all most black guys treat women(white or not) better then most white guys. if white guys would grow up and stop acting all stupid then white guys might get more white chicks. also size is not always true cuz i have been with a couple of black guys and not all of them have been all that big so that's not everything. its mostly about how a guys treats a girl.