i have been going out for a while and i want to break up with my bofriend because we dont talk a lot.?
411299
I think that he deserves a chance to know what is wrong with the relationship before you just drop him.\n\nIf you feel it's absolutely neccessary though, tell him straight, and let him know what he's doing wrong so he can have the experience for future relationships.
312171
I guess the answer is WHY are you breaking up.  Are you just wanting the attention that a fight provides?  If that's the case you need to do some serious sorting out.\n\nIf you just can't get along and are getting back together because you don't like being alone then do yourselves a favour and end it so that you can both move on.
721223
Just let him go and dont think about him. Let it happen and make sure that he tells you a great reason why he is breaking up with you and see if you two can be friends and talk to you.
531190
WELL YOU CAN DO WHAT EVERY ONE  IS  TELLING  YOU AND  ASK HIM ITS  FAST AND  PAINFUL. OR YOU CAN GET ANOTHER BOYFRIEND AND TAKE IT SLOW SEE WHAT HE THINKS  ABOUT YOUR NEW FRIEND THAT YOU BEEN HANGING AROUND AND WHEN HE  CALLS YOU OUT OF THE BLUES TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE BUSY AND YOU CALL HIM LATER. I KNOW  ITS A LITTLE CHILLNESS BUT YOU CAN ALWAYS GO WITH ASKING HIM...... GOOD LUCK
884399
Be honest...but a lttle white lie here and there is ok. I recommend: "Because I care about you so much I don't want to lead you on. You are a great person...and you have been so good to me. Right now...I need a friend...more than anything else. The feelings that I once had for you will always be in my heart. Right now I do not want to be in a relationship...I still really care about you...and I hope you will remain my friend." Now of course you should use your own words and express the way you feel in your heart. Make sure you use your judgement, your heart, and your feelings. I wish you the best of luck
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Wow. You sound really angry. I guess that if you are serious about ending this relationship, breaking up with a friend is a lot like breaking up with somone you are having a romantic relationship with.\n\nYou could tell her that you are done with feeling humiliated and done with her mean comments. That you consider a friend to, at least, be someone who respects you. And that you consider your friendship to be over.\n\nYou may want to do this in person so it is formal and final and done in an adult way.\n\nIf you feel it's appropriate, you could tell her that when she is ready to treat you with respect that she could contact you, but otherwise, it's over.\n\nGood luck. You DO deserve to be treated with respect and not humiliated. I support you in standing up for yourself.
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Are you trying to talk and he is not interested?  Is it a comfortable silence where you are just content to be together and possibly know each others thoughts?  Do you want to break up, but are waiting for him to make the move or do you want to stay together and are worried he already left so you are afraid to put yourself out on a limb and reach out to him - maybe this is what he is waiting for?  Is there other demands on his or your time that limit the time to talk?\nIt may be a sign of breaking up, a sign that more effort is required, or that you are comfortable enough not to have to talk all the time.  I am sure these are the things you are already thinking, but only you and he can decide if it is over or if you want it to be over as we don't know the personality quirks of either of you.  If the communication is so bad that you cannot ask him then I guess it is over or never was.
755396
The grass is always greener, isn't it? You have a loving relationship but want out? I don't understand, many people would be happy to trade places with you. Too many people are too quick to leave someone if they come to a "boring" part of the relationship. I suggest you have a talk with her before leaving.
806610
sound young to me. he needs to grow up. although i do not know what age you and your bo is but his action sounds like a young teen. tell him to take his toys home that your looking for someone more mature.
90115
Well, if he's really being a jerk about you being active, than you should break it off. However, it is good for you to get active, and it would make him happier too!\n\nJust don't do it if you don't want to.\n\nAnd it sounds like he really cares.
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i know the feeling, it sucks! we've been together for 5 yrs now & im secretly apologizing to him at the back of my mind... take your time to listen to whatever it is that's bothering you right now, a little time off perhaps,so you can figure it out? \nlife is too short for slip ups in relationships. at least you won't be where im at cuz it really sucks!
1051200
You could call him or go to him and say hey do ya think we don't hang out as much? Then go on to ask why. It may bother him too. It sounds like he may be depressed or something is buggin' him. Hope it works out.
1088514
If thats your boyfriend, then you should be discussing problems with him, not telling your friend to send messages to him. If you arent comfortable enough to communicate with him then why are you together?? It sounds like you need to take a step back and get to know each other first or this relationship will be a waste of time.
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wall u need to tell hem that Ur friendship means a lot to u. And u don't wont to Mass that up with mixed feelings of going out. And if he cant accept that than i should just walk a way.
58335
start a coversation about things you both like who knows after your talk, you may not like him/her anymore. if you still feel the same way, the best way is just come out and ask for a date. if he/she says no then you just saved yourself some heartache.
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breaking up is never easy..... however.... if you think that ur bf is a jerk then you can be mean about it and tell him that you don't like the way he's treating you and that you deserve better but if he's a nice guy just say that you don't feel the same way as you did in the beginning of your relationship tell him that you see you too better as frnds and you no longer see him as a boyfriend....
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well,, friendship is a friendship, keep it that way\n\nI feel that you do not want your friendship to change, so going out with him "may" change this.  Could you say, we can go out, but as FRIENDS, I do not want anything more/less.  I'd hate to not have you as my friend anymore...