How do I tell someone I like him a lot knowing that both of us are married?
408166
don't tell him , forget him and love your family
725181
Just take a risk and tell him. It's all you can do in this, you sound like your in love and I won't doubt it if you are. I've been there and once you do what you have to do it's great to get it out there and 90% of the time he feels the same. Best of Luck!!
665338
I love my husband so the married man i'm inlove with is married TO ME.
702132
Well I can tell you really like him by just listening to you babble on about how your suppost to tell him... lol. If I was you I would find an easy way of just letting him know your interested in him. you don't want to come out and say I have had feelings for you for years. That makes him believe you want a relationship and since thats not what your after now. Just try maybe bring up a past relationship of his or yours and when your discussing it and what went wrong in it. (works really good if its his old relationship your talking about) Just kind of casually drop in there "If I was her I wouldn't have done you that way" or something like " I know how great of a guy you are and I would have felt blessed to have you" things like that let him know that you see him for something more than a friend. if our talking about your old relationships then something like "I wish he would have been more like you" or something. you get the idea. little hints to let him know you could like him as more. and if the conversation doesn't get to ackward then try saying I wish we could get to know each other better we might find we could be more than what we are. and then go on about your visit and let in sink in his brain. Sometimes with guys just a suttle hint is like a bomb. just be cool relax and enjoy your time with him. and by the way I like the idea of a walk when your talking about it, gives your privacy and relaxes you both. Good Luck
360153
Well, you can go for it but know this:\n\n1) He is more than likely just trying to get into your pants and if you're okay with this then by all means go for it.\n\n2) He knows you know he's married. If you do go for it he will throw that back in your face that you KNEW he was married when he gets tired of you.\n\n3) He knows you're willing to lower your standards for him and you're okay with pursuing something further even when you have to share him.\n\nIf he truly is a friend then he will respect you and not start anything physical with you. If he truly is a respectful man he will do the same.\n\nJust know what to expect because in the end you agreed to all this.\n\n*And if he wants you that bad he'll leave his wife FIRST then start something with you*
584698
u need to tell him or otherwise u will dwell on it 4 2 long and the right person 4 u wont be there at all....my best friend told me that he liked me when he knew that i was in love w/ my husband (he wasnt my husband then tho)...he knew it was never gonna happen but he did it neway...we're still best friends...if ur friend is the kind of friend u say he is, then he shouldnt mind u tellin him at all
624251
Just tell him how you feel. Make sure it's from the heart and your not saying it just because it sounds good.
591291
That is a hard question. I myself had the same problem so instead of showing or telling that person how i truly felt i started dating someone else to show him(to mainly show myself) that i could live with out him. Well it backed fired on me. The truth is he had feelings about me too and was to scared to tell me. To make a long story short we don't talk anymore cuz i screwed that up and now he is married and could have been me that he is married too. Do what your heart tells you. Don't do whatever body else tells you to.
929854
I guess that goes to show that long dating/engagements aren't a guarantee that you'll know the person.  I dated my wife for two months before marriage, and we're doing great after already 5 years now. \n\nIf you married him, try to work it out.  Find common ground.  Pray to the Lord for help, He will do it.  \n\nDon't drag those children through the mess of a divorce.  Pray for help.
961495
Same thing happened with me and I mentioned this really great resteraunt in the area that I had never been to before but everyone had raved about and he mentioned that we should go sometime. It worked and we're married, (not saying it has to go that far, but you get the idea) Just mention something like that and see if he bites. If that doesn't work then talk about some 'guy' you've been talking to (whether he's real or not doesn't matter) and see how he reacts. This way you can get a good feel for where he is at in your relationship without risking anything. But if you feel like you couldn't just be friends with him if he didn't like you romantically you might as well risk it.
170286
Tell the person you like them. That should get their attention.
169741
If you don't know you love them, don't tell him that. He would probably feel the insencerity in your voice anyway.\nBut, you are a long enough time to know that you at least like him a lot. If that is true, just tell him that, he should be happy with that expression, for a while, because he will see you are honest about it. The occasion should probably be the very next outing you are going to have.\nAfter that, you will buy yourself some time to think of whether or not you return his feelings.\nThat is my view, hope it helps.
1165132
Well if you really like him then you just tell him.  Just say that I would like to take this friendship to the next level like a date and see where it goes.  Don't have sex right away just take it slow and let it blossom.  I have been married to my friend for 9 years and tat is how we started..
147127
Well if you are friends or even know each other as passing acquaintances, you should just come out and tell them.\n\nDon't blurt it out. Just pull them a side, start a conversation which would eventually lead to you telling them that you love them for quite some time now. You might be suprised the feeling might be recriprecated.
292211
Tell her and him how you feel
355443
There's some boundaries people shouldn't cross. That's one. Try not to be around him often,you can still be nice and talk to him,just don't so often. And if he's flirting with you then he's crossing a boundary. Don't flirt back & tell him it makes you uncomfortable cause he's married. And most importantly,find a guy that's AVAILABLE & loves you for you & you love him & I promise you'll get over Mr. Married. :)
1112769
tell him, its always good to tell someone when you like them