What should I do when Iam attracted by someone of the same sex and I know this attraction is not physical?
410476
pray!... meet people of the oppostite sex watch black porn?...
900414
I think you should just ask him. Does he know your bisexual? maybe he doesn't and feels the same way you do. Don't flirt with him all hardcore either, it will make you embarrased if he is not gay. So i think afterall you should just tell him "I like this guy ..."see what he says. or maybe if your brave just let him know you have a crush.
471017
Kindly tell him that you're not gay and therefore not interested. He should understand. And it's up to the both of you to make sure it doesn't get weird and you remain friends.
8422
I too had those feelings/questions years ago and I now have close relationships with both a guy and a girl...I love them both and each relationship provides me with different needs.  Just be yourself and when you are with a person you love and are physically attracted to, the rest will come naturally.
54306
Be straight foward, dont lead her on with anything that could be mistaken for more then freindship.  If she starts touching your hair or any part of you, stand straight up, or just pull back like, "ewww".. almost automaticly.  Send accurate vibes.  However, if you find that you have possible feelings, which I read that you either do, or your really young, then you need to try to hold stong to a moral, like the Holy Bible, I dont know if you read it or not but its the best thing a person cold do. I am a "recovering" homosexual who is celebate forevermore, so I am not without sympathy for your situation or your friends. I would say though, you should definatly reevaluate all your freinds with this in mind, "You are the company you keep" and this is what you turn into, slowly but surly, in little ways and big before you know it (I'm not talking about lesienisim nessisarly however).  So make sure you are with the classification of people you want to grow into.  Be kind but BE FIRM.  I believe in you!
379687
it's really hard to tell someone's sexual preference these days, as i'm sure you know. i've never had to deal with this kind of situation before so my advice might be a lil spotty. i think you should just try and be friends with him for awhile at first and see if you can tell by just talkin to him. if that doesn't work and you feel comfortable enough then you should ask him. just be patient and see what happens. it could just turn out that he'll be a really good friend but not gay. you never know
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
703089
Its normal to feel this way. The type of friendship that you two have is very beautiful. However, if you find yourself too close to her or attracted to her physically, you may want to question your sexuality. Other than that, you're cool!
69998
You want to. You have a classic case of being physically attracted to one person while being emotionally attached to another. \n\nHard to say what to do. I say stick with the current girl and see if the physical attraction comes back. It's a lot harder to find someone that you're a good emotional fit with as opposed to physical.
144664
Stick to your vows.  It's okay to be attracted to other people but you're married so just don't act on the attraction!
1131295
I think you just know.  I'm heterosexual.  Your sexuality is a very personal part of yourself... only you can make that call.    Just take it slow to make sure if it's just a phase/trend or the real thing if you are not sure... so no one ends up hurt.   Good Luck and enjoy yourself.
711094
whatever it is, it's a stupid game so just start liking someone else who doesn't play with your feelings.  I think it's sort of cruel to do that if you have told him you are attracted to him.  He has no class.
1065192
No he doesn't mean it. You will always find another person attractive or you may even be attracted to the person. Just don't act on your feeling unless you are ready to deal with the repercussions of your actions if it's every found out.
532072
You might feel like you're on a date, but that's just because you're straight.  He doesn't feel that way at all.  I had this one friend and I didn't think that I was leading her on or whatever and she KNEW I was gay, but she said that it was unfair of me to play with her like that and act like I was into her.  I wasn't GIVING her signals or anything though.  If he really wants you, let him come to you, you don't wanna lose a friendship just because you think you could convert him.  Things would just be WEIRD between the two of you.
705163
you both share some thing in common thats why you have attracted each other but one should remember lust and desire.One cannot help who they fall for because it depends on the frequency you are vibrating on because we attract the people we are on the same frequency with so we can teach each other and hopfully comfort each other.
995522
it's a little hard seen you don't know if he is also gay, maybe you could ask him out for a drink after work. See how he is in a social setting( like if he points out a hot chick the minute you both walk in, pretty good bet he's straight) . Don't mention your feelings until your sure. Hope it all works out for you
632611
No, I think it's normal - human beings are programmed to be attracted to one another. Have fun! Lucky you to have two hot guys to choose from. Only problem will be if this continues...and you still can't choose way down the line. In which case, it might be that neither of them is right for you.