why do certain (looking) men seem to evoke fear in women,(for no reason)when they are actually teddybears?
400642
You said it, its how they look.
451652
If you are infact looking very hot and fine, maybe they are intimidated. scared. think of it as if you are on fire and they dont want to get burned.\nwhen you take it down a notch or two, you seem more human and normal.\nif instead your just being full of yourself, think about instead, feeling sexy and beautiful rather than looking it. if you feel it, it works well too.
67216
Most men are homophobic, and you have to admin that women are the prettier sex. I believe that Peeps that are afraid of homos are shallow and are just a littls slow in general.
535770
immaturity. because the women who like the bad boys are immature. the bad boys seem to have a lot of confidence and that definitely helps, too. i don't like the bad boys anymore. i think i'm growing up!!!
1145297
Because they look creepy
900585
Well, you know guys and their EGO , not a lot of guys are sensitive than you are,they think  that when you get really cheesy , you're losing your manhood...they are wrong . it's actually more appealing to women if they see the sensitive side of a man than trying to keep it to themselves and feel sorry for it later.
1112877
I see hundreds of women every day.\n\nThey come in so many shapes and sizes.....so many ages and looks and colors and "styles". \n\nI find myself most drawn to a sort of "comfort level" that I  feel when I talk with them or otherwise interact with them.\n\nIf they are TOO "gorgeous" I feel intimidated and I don't feel comfortable. If they have a look or style that is un-appealing to me  I tend to "overlook" some of their otherwise fine characteristics.\n\nWhen I notice that I am really attracted to someone it usually begins as a feeling of SURPRISE......and acute interest. Most of the little "hooks" that women use today look so fake........too much make-up, tattoos, strange uncomfortable-looking shoes/clothes ..........weird hair........\n\nSo being/looking TOO noticeable is a turn-off, to me.\n\nBut when I see a certain softness and then a cute smile, THAT will get my attention. If their fashion sense is keen enough to INCLUDE  their clothes looking comfortable to THEM......that's another plus.\n\nOK.....so they have my attention and I think they are attractive. I bet I'm in line with a bunch of other guys on that. \n\nBut what attracts ME to THEM is their attraction to ME. If they laugh at my silly/stupid attempts to engage with them and seem interested in a story I'm fidgeting around to tell them......... THAT draws me in, BIG time.\n\nSo it's their interest in ME that I see as the biggest turn-on. It doesn't have to be about sex/lust, love or whatever. When I feel like I can show a woman a nice time and she responds to politeness (and some humor thrown in for spice).........when she understands what's important to me and asks question about what she DOESN"T understand or agree with.......when she seems like an independent thinker and shows common sense and a keen wit.......when she reveals her compassion and altruism, her basic sobriety and responsibility........she becomes more attractive.\n\n\nWhen every day is a "fresh look" at an old friend......that's the ultimate.
596553
It's a primal thing.  Men see big boobs and wide hips and deep down inside their little minds they think "oooh I bet she could birth some children".  Of course, somewhere along the way this is just dumbed down to "Oooh boobs".  Men are simple dumb creatures like that.  It takes very little to make them happy and keep them that way.
565289
I think a lot (not all) females enjoy the bad boy look but would prefer a nice guy. But that nice guy also has to be able to stand up for what he believes in. Basically not be a push over
896762
That would depend on the woman.\nSome women are scared of getting played.\nSome women are scared of relationships and just want one night stands.\nSome women are scared of getting the crap beat out of them.\nSome women are scared of their partner leaving them for younger, prettier girls.\nThere are many things women can be scared of. The list coule go on.
1071963
Men have a real fear of meeting the girls friends and family. Its a whole other level of commitment that some of them just can not handle.
225829
Guys like to be asked out! Even though we act tough, we are as scared to ask you girls as you all are! Guys are tough when it comes to fighting and stuff, but when it comes to you girls we are scared! We are as scared of girls as you all are, of snakes!\nI'm not calling girls snakes I'm just compairing fears!
948020
LOL  Boy do I know this one...Trying to figure it out.... I think, we tend to exude a confidence that most straight women do not...That is what they observe and is what they gravitate to.... satistics show most of us fancy the same sex at some degree..I think these women who have the curiousity bug unfortuanetly see us as play toys with no regards to our emotions.. This is where we need to take care...     So girls, Becareful!
349443
same reason as guys act strange around gals they like.
409496
It is because they are too full of themselves that they judge others. I have also noted at times that they fear those who are different in appearance and thinking. I judge people by how they treat others and not how they look.
741515
You are very "rational" and might lack some sexual interest. You may be creative and artistic (with a sense for detail) but above all you are rather nervous and fearful. Expect love at first sight.
890508
he/she has to be very traumatic n mentally disturbed that they are afraid of the opposite sex, especially dealing with them on a one on one basic. the victims also developed a low self esteem n sex is the last thing on their mind. They too would like to stay indoor[if possible] n just confine to themselves, blaming themselves for that bad incident n always be haunted, hates the 'predator' but normally can't or wouldn't do any things !\n\nThey urgently required professional counseling !