how do u know if he is just in it for the sex?
411977
why dont u simply ask him ,whats wrong with sex?a lot marrieges came after,relax
299911
He might just have some respect for you and not want to rush into anything.  He might actually be romancing you, taking things slow, getting to know you, letting you get to know him, and developing an actual relationship before taking things to the next level.  You can't take sex back.  Sex changes things... you can't help it... it just does.  You could always ask him if there's any particular reason why he hasn't tried to go all the way in the bedroom and see what he says.  Also, since STD's are on the average 1 in every 5 people he could be a carrier and struggling with a way to tell you before enganging you in sex.  The best thing I can tell you to do is to just ask.  Wondering and guessing will drive you bonkers!
771044
whatever he is doing he is doing....trust your instincts and your feeling regarding the relationship
232254
Hello;\n  The best advice I can give is to explain to him how much you care and tell him all the things you admire about him. Then explain that you would like more out of your relationship than just sex. Then see how he reacts. If he is agreeable, then you can relax and enjoy new avenues of your relationship. If he still insists on having sex as his main concern, then you need to look at yourself and decide if you want to be used in that way.
240683
I'm really sorry but you probably should not have had sex with him - and if its going nowhere now it probably means he was just into the sex.  Take is as a lesson learned and move on!
1129251
depends on how old you are,if you're below 16,I'd Say yes it's too early,if you're older then I'd say there are no real rules,what really matters is how do you feel about having sex with him? Do you trust & love him enough to take that next step?And more do you feel like having sex ,do you feel ready for it? According to me it's the only valuable question you should ask yourself,your feelings have got nothing to do with any schedule.
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
1075381
he sounds kinda sketchy.  If you like him go out, but i'd let it play out before i had sex. He might be okay, or he might be a creep.  BUt you won't know unless you go out with him.  \n\nWell, unless you can tell he's a creep already.
682838
I'm not surprised because he will never give you an honest answer.You will know if he only shows you interest when you having sex only or he will only come to have sex with you and go.My advice is stop having sex with him and see if he hangs around because if he doesn't it will only mean that he is after sex.Only have sex if you feel like it not when you feel pressured to do so.
799439
2 answers:\n\neither he really really is into you\n\nOR\n\nits a fetish with him\n\nOR\n\nno wait 3 answers\n\nOR he hasnt had sex in a while and just wanted some or\n\nno wait 4\n\nOR he didnt notice til after\n\n\nTheres like a million things it could be, porolly he likes you more than just sex
617312
you will know it when it happens just when guys are like i love u somtimes they said it bc they think if they say it to a girl that makes them want to have sex so just be carful
1024871
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION HON OKAY....I DIDN'T GO INTO YOUR PROFILE SO I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE..IF THE SEX IS GOOD AND HE PLEASES YOU TOTALLY THEN THAT AREA IS GOOD BUT IF YOU FEEL HE IS TELLING YOU HE LOVES YOU JUST FOR SEX SLACK OFF A BIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS...START SLOWLY WITH SOME EXCUSES ONCE IN A WHILE...IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WOULDN'T EVEN ASK YOU TO PROVE IT....HAS HE HINTED AS TO HOW HE WANTS YOU TO PROVE IT?
83504
When he is doing something, then tell him it feels good and sex always feels amazing after he does that. That way you are stroking his ego not criticizing.
491446
if he enjoys having sex with you he likes you, and you give it to him when he wants it
953790
wow if he wanted you just for sex he would have stopped a long time ago. I would investigate this guy closer...he might be the real thing.
935307
He's probably over you, but was feeling horny in the moment.  It doesn't sound like he has any intention of being with you in a serious way.  He'd probably settle for a booty call relationship, but you sound like you have more class than that, so I'd move on if I were you.
267142
When u can take the responsibility that comes with having sex, ur at the right (legal) age, u have tru feelings with him and he feels the same for u.