How to make a realitionship back to happiness.?
401777
That's a good question,  I just went threw trying to teach my girlfriend some of those things.  Just being there, being active, showing interest in things he does, trying to take part in things he likes.  It can be tricky because doing them sometimes oversteps your bounds and you seem clingy.  As for things, honestly your better off showing up nude then buying flowers.  They are a nice gesture and all but most guys honestly have a one track mind it's sad to say.  Don't let that become the basis of a relationship though, but if your guy can show his sensitive side flowers, small stuffed animals, a "promise" ring, a poem, a song, a burned cd with all the songs that make you think of him.  Just something that truly shows that you care and you think about him. Hope that helps
924567
You need to quest yourself for following :\n1. Is your (both of yours) feeling same like earlier (or may be more intimacy)\n2. Is the reason making you separate (which U've not mentioned) is really resolved.\n3. Does he really feels and cares about you and if to live without you will be painfull for life?\n4.  Has he back with immidiate requirement of physical togatherness or the feeling has brought him back.\n5, And the last but most important, take some time of your own and ask to your heart without involving your brain. You will be getting the best answer!!\n\nAll the best. kindly let all of us know  (who has answered your question) about your decession and also in future about your happiness on these decession.
41385
find peace within yourself\nyou can be alone and not be lonely\nwhen you become happy with who you are, you lose the loneliness.go to your church or social events\nhang out with your friends ,if your marriage is over move on.
901563
You´ll always find dissatisfaction in life, one way or another. The key is to learn to be happy at all times no matter what. That should be my answer
404495
You are your own's best support. Even I was having that feeling earlier but then I find out what are my likes and I concentrate on that things. Whatever make me feel good I start doing that. Try to be positive towards life and enjoy whatever you Have. Something is not in your hand to change but you can create a way to be calm/happy in that bad time. Its all up to you to live happy or down. All the best
464101
Give it a little more time. If you find yourself still unhappy after 8 or 8 months, start looking.  Life's too short to be unhappy.
444553
Be very kind to yourself.  Let yourself be sad about how things didn't work out, but after a reasonable amount of time, start to distract yourself from your sad feelings.  Be around friends that make you laugh, do nice things for yourself, take time getting to know yourself again and what you want out of life besides what you don't have, then start taking steps to make all of your dreams come true.  With time your heart will heal.
766058
focus on the good things in your life and think how you can make the negitive things better. Good luck!
622889
marriage counsellor?\naccept that your marriage is over?\ndo somethinga about making your lover happy - get romantic working again?
194154
I'll always reward myself with little present, spend myself to watch moving "egg: funny movie, meaning full movie", get a close friend go traveling...etc. but what important is yourself must think positively, make yourself happy, do the thing that can make yourself happy. if you can switch your mood positively. go to find a good book to "clean" your sad & lonly heart. Be happy, coz there r still someone care about you.
53612
Slow down a bit.  Get your mind off of that matter.  Breath some fresh air.  Get you feet back on earth.\n\nLet the relationship bloom on it own course without any help from you.  In time, you'll learn the appropriate action to make happen.
709822
Tell her you want to have a "trial period" just go out do things etc. without being back together so that way she can see that you have changed and tell her that you are willing to make the changes to make her happy. Just let her know how you really feel about her and how it makes you feel to be without her.
265939
First thing, go make a million dollars. Then if you are still unhappy, you can atleast go places.\n\nPeople say money can't buy happiness, I say you can rent it for a while.
986171
You can't but if it isn't working out you have to. It would be worse to stay in an unhappy relationship. Eventually he or she will get over their hurt feelings and realize it was for the best also.
133947
spend time on your self it sounds like you lost your self in this relationship. spend time with your friends and family fall in love with your self then you will heal
684251
Think positive, have faith, move on.\n\nRemember that living is NOT an option, but it is a blessing. \n\n\n"For us to have complete satisfaction and contentment in life is not counting what we have, but knowing what we can lose if we let go..."
71478
there r ways 2 bring the romance back if that is what u want... u dont have 2 be gone... make ur decision as to what u want and go for it... there are all kinds of sources that help u think of ideas for romance... women love the little things tho... doenst have 2 be diamonds although those r nice 2... start by respecting her and go from there..compliment... do things with her that are yuck like housework... pat her butt when u walk by... cards... poems... notes anything... just do it if u want it back... good luck... i think ur already great for just asking the question... most guys not all never even get that far... they never see the romance has diminished hehe