this guy says he likes me when hes alone but with his friends he's mean 2 me.wat do i do?
412249
He sounds immature and you basically have to give him time to grow up.  Don't let him be mean to you unless you two are just joking around.  Make sure he knows you will not stand for a man that will not respect you.
487984
Do you really want to continue to be his friend when he is not nice to the others in your group? He doesn't sound like the sort of person that is good to hang around. You need to alienate yourself from him, and remain with your fiends that are good.
314016
You really should stop liking him.  Why would you show interest in someone who has no interest in you?  Sure some guys that act like punks  do it because they do like you but I think if he is doing these things while you guys are together and alone, that's not a good sign.
198103
He's not worth it if he does that, but maybe he still likes you, so there might be hope.  Tell your friends to buzz off next time because they don't need to try to be little devil cupids.
796442
i would say either he is shy or just not comfortable tellling someone who is not in his circle of friends his feelings for you. you should comfront him about it or just ask one of his friends. maybe just ask him straight up when your friend is nearby and see what he says.
608902
Go out with him.  He obviously doesn't like your friend as much as he does you.
641915
have you tried out to hang out with him after school? he might be intimidated by all your friends being around and he might make a move when you guys are alone. Or you jsut could try and ask him directly. Good luck!!!
306403
go and ask him how he feels about u. guy will play dumb so u might have to explain to him. and do it when noone else is around. ppl act different when others are around.
1065371
all u need to do is b ur self. if he doesnt like u 4 u, then he isnt worth it.
722026
I think the guy likes you..but he's shy. Since he knows that his friend likes you, he probably doesn't want his friend to know that he likes you too..
375587
ok, he chose his friends over you.  What else do you need? He obviously doesnt like you "enough".  you will have many, many opportunities after school, high school can be horrible when u r not one of the "popular crowd members"...ride it out, you will become a swan after graduation....keep smiling
654640
well that is simple DUMP THAT FOOL he isnt the right guy for you, if he is fooling around with your friends then you should dump that jerk move on and get some one who treat's you right! and if you stay with him your just hurting your self so move on 'cause you ant getting any younger so the best thing to to do is to get some one else who treat's you like your a queen also thats the oldest excuse in the book "i must have been trunk" or somthing like that it doesnt even matter because a real friend and boyfriend would never do that to you so my advice is dump those two losers get some new friends get a new boyfriend and call it a day!!!!!!
1165959
He could be shy.  Are you two friends?  If so, he could have been surprised by you saying you liked him, and now doesn't know how to act around you.  If he likes you, give him time and he may come around.  If he doesn't like you, don't be hurt by it, just move on.  The right guy will come along, trust me.
273216
Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
201170
So...screw your friends. No, not literally. It's just a figure of speech. What I mean is, okay, you like this guy. Great! But what's holding you back? Talk to your friends. Ask them what they have against him? What have they heard? And if they're serious, then take their advice and just move on. They may be right, and they might even help to prevent you from any unnecessary heart break. \n\nBut on the other hand, if they have no valid argument, just tell them that if they're really your friends, then they'll lay off and respect your judgment, and you may go out with him in peace.\n\nThat's all I have to say. Take it or leave it. It is of no greater consequence.
755910
Have you tried to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Just try holding his hand when walking either by yourselves or when his mates are around, tell him you enjoy it and maybe with time he will start to enjoy it too. Does he tell you he loves you ? Maybe he is just a little immature  or shy. He should always treat you with  respect  whether people are around or not. I suggest you try talking to him and tell him it upsets you that he treats you badly when others are around. Best of luck.
121215
you could tell if he likes u if:he smiles when ever he is around u, if u make him laugh, and if he leaves his friends to be with u. u should wait until its da right time 2 make your move. just wait until he is by himself and say dat u just want to take this relatinship a step further.