Should my 11yr old daughter be interested in boy so early?
408911
There are no these days, there is the right time, and at 11 years old is definitely not the right time.  I have a group of bikers that meet up at my house like once a week and will continue to do so until i feel my daughter is ready to start dating, which is in about 15 more years.  I can let you borrow the bikers from time to time if you need to scare away any potential callers for your daughter.
1114771
Would you let her if she were 15? If the answer is yes, then you don't care for her brothers more... you just don't think she is old enough yet to hang out by herself. (Which she isn't, in my opinion.)  She is trying to guilt you into letting her hang out by herself, which is unsafe. Don't let her control you! You are the parent, and she needs boundaries that she must learn to live with. Let her know that when she is older, she will be able to go to the park by herself, but that you are worried about her safety. Anyone who would say that your daughter is ok by herself at 11 is either a child themselves, an unfit parent, or a predator hoping to find a little girl alone in the park.
848222
This is an easy one.  Why not imagine that you had a daughter your age and that it was she not you, that was involved with your bf.  What advice would you tell her?  Simple isn't it?\n\nYou know what to do.  Love is not a competition.
1106161
he seems kind of young...and the girl is even YOUNGER!!!   Let him grow before he gets put into such a situation....If by chance, if he is rejected, he wouldn't be able to handle it that well being so young....Let him grow....then you won't need to worry about protecting him....a 13 year old should have other interests besides girls....He is wayyyyyyyyyy too young...My two sons are men now....they were raised w/ me advising them to wait for romance....they took the advise...And they are both very happy....dating so young can lead to early pregnancy umong other probs...
345228
tell her how you feel. sounds like you don't have to worry about just boys but girls too.
657477
If shes 10 yrs old...Dont you think shes a bit too YOUNG to be worrying about a bf at this stage in her life??
757487
Well, there are two sides to this question, I suppose.  I think that being eleven is pretty young to really know what being in a relationship is all about and you don't really know what you want in a boy at that age.  On the other hand, however, you can't really know what you want from a boyfriend until you've dated a few guys and compared them all with what you liked or disliked about them.  \n\nFor right now, go ahead and date-make sure its okay with the folks, but don't feel completely crushed if it doesn't work out.  \n\nGood luck!
63798
Seems a little early for love their. Does she have a boyfriend, does she seem interested? I would tread lightly
738977
Wait until you are out of school before you get serious with a boy.\nThey are not worth you loosing your self respect!\nYou are going to grow as a person and your understanding of life is going to change so much from the time you are 16 until you are 25 to 30 years of age.\nI wish my girls were on right now, they didn't believe me when I told them this, but now they are 27 and 30 and mom (me) becomes so much smarter every day.
1031450
Simply just find yourself a new friend and make sure he makes you happy. :) You will know how to tell your daughter when the time is right.
200750
Ask HER questions about her life. Most girls feel excited about a boy's interest in them. Asking her questions also has the advantage of you getting to know her better. That way you will have a better idea of whether you really are a good match.\n\nGood luck!
724600
most guys DO like a woman with some athletic ability.\n\nI have to be careful with what i say, since you're only 11.
1160000
Sounds like she is shy and maybe alittle afraid of telling her parents that she has met a nice boy and would like to start dating him...I think you should wait for her...Respect the way she feels right now and give her time...I'm sure things will work out for both of you...\n Clowmy
515828
no cause there to young to be dating in stuff....\nwell i started dating even before eleven so yah i made a big mistake cause i wasent ready for that and if they start dating they might make a bad choice and i dont think u want that to happen to ur friend....\nand then there gonna get heartbroken and it takes a long time to get over things when ur heartbroken trust me i know
199311
I think that, that is too young. Yes you could of had one in kindergarden, but that meant nothing. You should at least wait until your in 10th grade to start worring about a boyfriend.
295904
I have a 15 year old son and asked him this for you.  He is very very smart-honor roll and very cute also.  He is on basketball team as well as trak.  He is not what you would call HOT but very cute.  He says ALL the guys go for the pretty girl with a great bod.  They r teenagers afterall!  BUT once they realize she is in love with herself- once she opens her mouth- HE doesnt want her anymore!  lol  They may look at this girl and want her just on the physical.  And that DOES NOTCHANGE AS THEY GET OLDER EITHER!  lol  BUT the great news is- most of them realize rather fast that she is just some girl.  My son says when you have a certain boy in mind- find out thru your friends or his the things he likes to do and make that YOUR new hobbie!  Ask his advice on it.  Learn to play his favorite video game and ask for help on it.  If he goes skating every weekend GO SKATING!  Laugh and have fun.  Be yourself.  Make yourself approachable by smiling alot.  And before u know it YOU WILL have a boyfriend!  Good luck to u!
675005
Yes it is . I re-call the 6th grade. I viewed my mother as VERY STRICT, as i couldn't date until 16. However two of my friends that did date at the time (i thought their moms were so cool) both ended up with babies. Your not mentally ready for the problems associated with dating at such an early age. To have a boy/girl as a friend is the best because u can get inside info., on the opposites outlook on a lot of things. Honey spare yourself the additional homework of trying to figure out your boyfriend/girlfriend, just focus on your education for now . Trust me, there is  no need to fall head over heals in love just yet. There's plenty of time for that. Remember have guy/girl friends for friendships , that's what's important. You would want to be popular in the right way. Many reputations have been affected by immature activity.  I'm sure both u and your parents  would hate to have u caught up in a ugly rumor at your school