benefits of spending time alone?
412348
reduces stress, gives you time to relax, collect your thoughts, and saves your sanity.
751433
When was the last time that you were not in a relationship?  When it is suggested that you need time alone it is to explore what you really want in a future relationship.  Giving yourself time gives you a chance to reflect on what went wrong with your marriage and helps prevent you from making another bad choice.  When we are extremely needy we are not as particular about jumping into another relationship even if it may not be healthy.  Giving yourself time allows you to reflect on what it is that you need to make yourself happy.  Some people feel that the only way they can achieve personal happiness is through the love of another.  You need to find self love first in order to properly love another.  When we focus on being a couple we ignore what we need to develop a healthy self image.  Given the fact you claim that you didn't love your wife you still need time to grieve the end of the relationship and recognize the sadness that you must feel at the dreams that were unfufilled and the loss of what "could have been"  Good luck and give yourself the gift of time I think you truly deserve that.  God bless.
115019
Being a loner is just an extension of your inner personality.  It's all a matter of preference (although friends are never a bad thing to have) and should be taken as thus.
599205
enjoy being single you can do what you want when you want and wont have to answer to anyone
657553
Depends on what you do with your time when you're alone.  If you spend it wisely, searching your soul and learning who you really are, you could reduce that time.  You need to understand what you learned from the first relationship before you get into another one, or you may repeat some mistakes that could be fatal to a new relationship.  Hope that helps.
1065261
i'ld probably spend it i solitude readinga a good book.....analysing my past memories.......figure out wat went wrong and where.......go to my favourite haunt........and yes send some mails and sms's to ppl recounting the time spent with them...........and last but not the least apologising to ppl i may have hurt...............lots  of thngs to do rnt they?\nSudeep:-)
581294
I like people too, but definitely need my "alone time."  There is a big difference between being alone and being lonely.  I'm certainly not lonely, and am very comfortable by myself.  I think that's pretty normal.
305919
not so good... but sometimes it actually feels nice to have the whole house to urself and just enjoy some alone quiet peaceful time!!! :o)
480034
Being alone and being lonely are two totally different things. If you are alone and get bored, try a hobby or call a friend. If you are lonely, that is a different matter. Still you might try getting out and doing something and maybe meeting some new friends to have dinner with, see a movie, etc.
159303
Yes.  I like my space and don't need to be talked to all the time.  I like being alone.
450357
Sexuality i.e. being horny makes you more dynamic, active, so if you keep wasting your sexual energy on playing with yourself you end up to be a lethargic passive loser. It's better to get a playmate than playing by yourself. I might be wrong, too.
357338
yes when i want to be alone
64953
There are plenty of things to do. You don't have to have a significant other just to have fun. The only difference is that you have more money to spend on yourself. You can take yourself out, you and a couple of friends can get together and go to the movies, lunch, mall, places like that. There's plenty of things to do. Even while you are out, there's a possibility you may meet someone.
218229
i like spending time alone but it really depends on my mood!! what about u?!?
448646
* get a massage\n* Go for walks alone\n* go swimming or do laps at a pool\n* meditate\n* get a hobby\n* jump off a bridge (only a safe one. I've done it but it was a good bridge to jump off of.)\n* go to a jazz concert
1068408
relax and take a little time out for yourself
636406
to leave her a lone for a while