I am going to leave my 2 year old son for sleeping with a teddy bear. My wife said I should be ashamed.?
397918
What's wrong with you? A boy that age uses a teddy bear for comfort...especially when you aren't around. He is still very young and needs to feel security and comfort. Go give him a huge hug.
930820
I would keep doing it.  You obviously have no respect for your wife, so why let her get in the way of your sleezy relationship?
688115
Take a break. You've been betrayed. \nGo away for a little while, maybe, but this one is going to take some time, if ever.\nStop imagining that she was having sex like she does with you.\nDon't do that to yourself, because I guarantee it wasn't. Only the two of you have sex like the two of you.\nCan you handle the answer if you ask her to give you a blow- by-blow description of the night? A sort of "putting yourself in her shoes" for the night?\nIt's risky, but if you can listen, It just may benefit you so you can be angry, and then move on either way.\nShe should be ashamed of herself, and getting angry at her once and blasting her does not relieve her of the tremendous weight she's put on you.\nYou may never be able to trust her again. That sucks for you, because you had no part in it, and want things the way they were.\nWas there a problem that wasn't being addressed before this night?\nDoes anyone have their head buried in the sand??\nYou may need to take this time to get right into each others brains and decided what each of you REALLY wants out of life.\nPlease don't make the same mistake she did. You'll hate yourself.\nI can say that it is not the worst thing that can happen, but it is way up there.\nShe betrayed you, plain and simple. maybe she should live without you for a while and the two of you can really see where you're at. get yourself some legal assistance so you don't lose touch with your child.
1166701
I think you should do the following - find a marriage counselor - obtain an attorney.\n\nThe marriage counselor may help you and your wife come to an understanding, the attorney will ensure that YOUR rights are upheld. I would not tell your wife about your attorney, just in case she decides to leave out to her home town. \n\nYou had said that you have your child? When your wife decides to leave and party and not return for two weeks, you can file for child abandonment. It sounds like you would be better with the child than the wife. That's where the attorney comes in.
714337
Tell your wife and both of you lecture the dingbat. Oh and you might want to take her house key away. Just a thought :)
666266
Honestly, as a wife and mother, I would have a problem with this too. If you are home, there should be no reason that you can't put your baby to bed yourself. If your older son doesn't mind, I think it would be okay once in a while, but for the most part, it is something you should be doing. I work nights also, three days a week, so I'm not home to put my children to bed, and it makes me sad. I feel that is a great bonding time for a parent and child.
111628
You say you are "unhappy", what does that mean?  If there were no kids involved i'd say move on, but children are precious and deserve all you and your wife can do to resolve this.  But making your kids the reason for staying is weak, nobody wins.  Communication is the key, there had to have been a time when your wife was the best woman that happened to you right?  She still is and it's worth finding out together what changed.  And even if you still come to the same conclusion you can honestly say you tried, do THAT for the children.
429996
He is a jerk and you did the right thing. Your kids should be your number one priority. I have 4 and they are the world to me. You are not the bad guy. The next thing he will do is try to get you to feel sorry for him to make you go back to him. Don't do it!
926637
Since she is your daughter and no someone elses give her something quiet like a Teddy bear made out of an old fur coat.  my son is 29 and still treasures the one I made for him. p.s. no he is not gay lol
885537
Don't take it to heart.. I don't have a website, but I am a mother of a 2 year old, and a 3 month old... Being a mother is HARD WORK...as I'm sure you know.. And feeling sexy is the last thing on one's mind. When she lay's her head on the pillow, I'm almost positive that she is asleep 2 minutes later.. Things will get easier, and she will go back to her sexual self, but until then, just let her be, because you if you put too much pressure on her, she will just treat it as a chore.. You may want to try to get a sitter for the evening, and take her out.. Dressing up is not so much fun either but once the clothes and makeup are on, she will feel much better. You don't have to spend any money, just go for make dinner and go the beach, or park or somewhere, even your back yard and eat together. Get a bottle of wine to help her relax, and just have fun. No talking about money, kids, work.. ect.. I promise, this is a sure thing!
61549
It sounds like she has no respect for you and has no consideration for your feelings.  Why would you want to be with a woman like this? Would she be so understanding if you were spending your free time with another woman?  You need to take charge of the situation and put your foot down let her know that this is unacceptable behavior and if she refuses to put a stop to it you know that she is not the one for you.  Ultimately the decision is yours do you want to live this way and if she is not looking out for your childrens best interest than maybe you need to.
152959
Remind your wife that she knew you had kids before you were married and that she accepted you knowing that.  Don't just worry about her feelings consider those of your children.  Do you really think it will be so easy for them?  Your responsibility to them comes first.  They will always be a part of your life.  It is not fair for your wife to make you feel bad about taking care of your kids.  No matter what this will be hard on all of you and just remind your wife that you love her and your children and that it would make you very happy to know that she supports you in the good times and in the bad.
519272
Have you seen the movie Monster-In-Law, cuz your problem is the exact same.What you should do is confront her don't be scared I did it and I'M about to get married to her son.Just do what what u do best.confront.
799178
Hey Sweetie...\n\nSo sorry to hear your hurting..  I know exactly how you feel hun and it's the worse pain in the world...  Maybe a big long hug off your son will make you feel a little bit better...\n\nThe pain will ware off, it just takes time...   Cry if you need to cry, the more you let it out the better...   Take Care hun and I hope you feel better soon xxx
382212
I think you need to have some counseling.  Leave your son alone and seek help for yourself.
883574
i really feel sorry for you sweety but your daughter seems to have made her mind up , i know its hard but just think you tried your best and its your daughter who is the spiteful one not you , try and enjoy the day best you can and spend it with other loved ones maybe when she gets older and her kids grow up she will realise the pain she gave you , hope you have a nice xmas and chin up hun xxx
954130
oh Lord have mercy. You are in deep trouble, buddy. no more 2 hours of coitus!! 2 hours of coitus!!!\n\nJust let her do her own freaky thing...I have a sibling on here too and we just stare, open mouthed at each other sometimes, like WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?? after reading each others crap on here.\n\nout of respect, I DID have to take off the black vinyl femme dom outfit spread eagle avatar of myself..it was just too much and I did not want it brought up around the Thanksgiving table.