How do I get more "In The Mood"?
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Plan Plan Plan...\nMake an event out of it..\nIt builds it up too..\nMakes it even hotter...\nSet aside a time that your not in the house with the kids so you can relax all the way... get loud.. bang.. whatever you do that the kids would distract from...\nDo something special for the two of you..\nIf you like candles... go with that..\nif he likes whips and chains... go that route...\njust what ever.. Plan Plan Plan and talk it up...\nForeplay as they say.. starts weeks ahead of time...\nor atleast when you wake up...\nI start turning my wife on when I get up...\nIt makes it so much better later... she is way more into it than she would be if we just said.. ok we have time... lets do it! ... quickies are good too... get a few in a day or two before the "date" and make sure neither one of you gets off.. that way your good and frustrated for hte next one...\nit will carry over to the next day...\nMake out... Pretend its the first time all over again...\ngo through the formal steps as if you were aknost unsure if you were going to get it or not... it realy raises the intensity level.. \nYou will have preferences... go with them..\nexperiment
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John...\nu r trying to know, wether the girl is in th romantic moo or not..then what is the greatness of you if she is already in the romantic mood..you try to get her in to the mood.\nSay some good jokes...then good jokes to adult jokes (gradually), then you can observe that ,if she is enjoing the jokes and sharing some similar with you...you can proceed...  have a nice day.......HANUMAN
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Compliment me. Then flirt with me in a light hearted way. Get more sexual in your comments once you realise I am receptive. Maybe not too blatant right away. If your eyes are drawn to my low neck line don't say anything like "Love your t**s." Maybe compliment my necklace and gaze into my cleavage. Later you can get really sexy in your chat. Those first impressions are important. Some girls could be put off with the first comment if you are too horny. I'm not, but lots are. Just keep trying. We love it really. Best of luck. Joan.
1012155
I'd stay quit. When you feel your mood changing, go for a walk or do something different. Maybe find a radio station that plays some slow jazz, or music that helps you to relax.
862450
Get lost in the moment...just let go completely and you'll be great. Being comfortable and relaxed is key!
130784
Spice it up. Try a little strip tease, along with some PRINCE music. Don't forget the feather......
926564
well a running start is always interesting, especially if there is a slip-and-slide involved...\n\nbut i'd recommend anything that puts you in a good mood and relaxes you.  music, entertainment of sorts, telling a funny story about your day, sharing an interesting thought you had, etc.\n\nthen maybe move on to saying something you like about the other person ("i love it when you..." etc.) then onto a backrub, hand massage, play with hair, etc.
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here is the deal...every girl is different and has different pleasures which can turn them on. I personally enjoy a calming back massage with aromatheropy oils and a bedroom filled with scented candles and a bouquet a fresh flowers. I know that this can not be done everytime you want her in the mood, but the sense of knowing just how much the guy loves you is overwhelming when he goes to such a high degree to see a smile on your face. Remember...the small gestures are the things that matter in life, so get her something small and from the heart. Something that reminds you of a date or moment the two of you had together
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sit down in a quiet place and think about some things that make you happy, and some things that make you stressed out. pick one (or more) of the happy things, and try to do it/see it/listen to it/feel it more often. when you are experiencing whatever it is, really let yourself enjoy it.\n\nthen, think of one of the things that makes you stressed out. think about the way you like it (perfect) and what will happen if it's not perfect. next time you see it not being perfect, take a minute to relax and see if it's really as bad as you think before you change it. this is something you can teach yourself to do. \n\nwith both, start slow and do one at a time- you're not going to change everything overnight.
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The more you moan harder, deeper the more we like it and saying oh baby please dont stop is music to our ears. Grab your guy by his ears and pull him where you want him. Drive him like a sports car he will enjoy the ride.
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Concentrate more on her feeling good rather than how good it feels to you. \nInstead of jumping into the heated moment too fast, slow yourself down and focus on the tender spots of her. Set out just to make her feel electric. Put yourself last. Much more pleasure.
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Don't look elsewhere, this is actually pretty normal.    Try talking to him and telling him that you'd like to be more intimate.  DOn't make things into a chore, like "eat, drive to movies, blah, sex"... Usually, I find that a good makeout session will be enough to rev up your latent sex drives!
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just get some where were it is very quite and if that doesn't work try getting some where and playing some soft lite not loud music that is relaxing. \nhope this helps
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your getting to excited to quick. relax dont flex your muscles, especially your glutes( but muscle)and once you stick it in try to think think of things having nothing to do with the act, like a mental conundrum or try to remember  the names of the seven dwarves, or what are the 8 wonders of the world. dont go to far though you need to pay attention to your partner too
980004
anything by Sade or Barry White usually works great.  They have this sensual rythms that sort of put you in the relaxed, romantic mood.
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It's found in yourself.  You have to listen and be a top notch listener...  and this listening is not done with your ears...it's done with your heart, your soul, and the joy you will spread to other listeners that will feel your message.  Start with understanding how sound affects mood.  Create songs with songwriting instruments that are made for the task of full staff composing (stringed or piped) ... ie piano, organ, (keyboards and fretboards).  For tempo start with your heart... your heart beat as the percussion..bu bumm - bu bumm - bu bumm and take educational courses that interest your creativity and ability to communicate musically with others and yourself....listen.
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try the other hand, it must be rejecting the first one, if your hand falls asleep, it`s not interested. Turn the lights down low, put on some soft music, the mood will strike and you`ll sweep yourself off your feet...