How Many Kids is too many for your girlfriend to have?
400261
That depends on what you're comfortable with. I would never date someone who had a kid myself. Also what kind of woman is she? Some women take advantage of guys and try to get them to support children that aren't even theirs. I'm not saying she's like that, but some of them are, especially if they're feeling overwhelmed. Also keep in mind if you get married and you go through the teen years with them they'll go through the oh so painful "you're not my daddy" phase. Just think carefully about what you're getting into.
315441
i have 2 nephews...its kina funny because my nephews are the same ages as my little sisters...my mom and sister were pregnant at the same time...haha
849163
I have 2 kids and would love more.Unfortunately my partner can't have kids.I have accepted it.We would have liked our own child,but he treats mine as his own.
389006
It depends, with how many different people?  Also, if you are in a relationship and the only thing you have in common is good sex, then yeah, it's too much.
613390
i have one girl, would like 1 more girl and then one boy.
284304
Isn't two enough? Do you really want to contribute to the world's population problem? Any more than two is a selfish act in my humble opinion (unless it was an accident). If every couple had only two children, the world population would remain constant. Live by example. Concentrate your resources into making the two children you have into the best possible humans they can be. Don't dilute your resources on more kids than that. It's not fair to them.
460481
Why not! But at the end of the day its all about how you feel about a women with 2 kids! if its not what you want, dont go there....but if you think that you can take the challenge, go for it and enjoy the love and affection that she has to offer.
179650
No, but I do think that people should RESTRICT the number of children they have. If most couples restricted themselves to only two children, the our population would go DOWN, because some of these children would die in birth or from disease before they reached reproductive age.\n\n"Do we need to keep adding people to the planet?" The word "need" is, in this instance, subjective. Economically, it would be a very bad idea to stop adding people to the planet. For our /species/, it would be a very bad idea to stop adding people to the planet.\n\nAs for the website you referenced, what good is it for the Earth's biosphere to return to "normal" (a very subjective condition anyway) if humans aren't around to enjoy it?\n\nWe should probably restrict ourselves in the number of children we have. It is crazy to have 10 children in an age where overpopulation is so prevalent. Of course, this might also depend on where you life. It would be worse to have so many children if you lived in India than if you lived in the U.S.
192565
Wholeheartedly yes!  I recently got a vasectomy (November) and I recommend it with total conviction.  I assume that you don't want any more children and neither does your girlfriend, but if she does, then you need to talk about bigger things!  If you are both cool with no kids then snip-snip is exactly what you need.  I have four children (hence the vasectomy), am 31 and am married to a woman age 28.  My urologist was excellent and the procedure was fast, easy and nearly painless (the Valium helped).  Recovery was quick too.
1098797
Time, Money, and how many children you think you can effectively parent.
990991
as long as you dated them for at least 6mo...thats 2 girls a year...add it up
767014
My boyfriend is 23 and I am his 4th partner. We've been together for 2 years and he slept with the other 3 girls before me. The man I lost my virginity to had slept with more than 20 women at the age of 21. So it really depends on what you personally consider 'too many' If you're uncomfortable then that's all that counts. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks because at the end of the day it's only you that's dating her.\n\n-Elise
337594
it depends on how far in you are.  My wife had 2, the second one was a like a week further on, she said she was really sore from that one.  About the infant I can't tell you.  But it could really hurt you.  My wife holds serious regrets over what she did.  There's always adoption.  But besides that, she's got scarring on the inside preventing her from getting pregnant again.  It's something you really have to think about, if not now then 20 years down the road.
56876
I don't think it is any higher/or lower than no children in a relationship. Never get married or stay in a bad marraige for the sake of the kids. Thay can feel tension and all the awful stress that goes w/ a bad relationship. They will thank you for it later. Believe me, kids want you to be happy, not miserable.
755271
too many for any decen girl.\n\n:> peace\n.
299924
she has 3 kids by 2 guys, maybe she doesn't want to make it 4 kids by 3 guys. be happy she has enough self-respect to be honest with u and isn;t given it up cuz she feels she has to just to keep u
34321
I have 4 Children. \n\nI do not want any more, but love the ones I have...\n\nThere is No comparison between the feeling of having sex Without a condom compared to the feeling with a condom. \n\nBUT, I ONLY have sex with my wife. Period.\n\nShe only has sex with me, so the chances of getting a STD are very very slim if not nonexistant. \n\nAs for not having any more kids, I had a vasectomy so that we can have "un sheathed" sex without risking having more kids. \n\nWe BOTH like it better that way..\n\nSo here is advice.\n\nFind someone you love who loves you.\n\nMarry them.\n\nHave sex with Only them forever.\n\nDon't have sex before marriage...\n\nHave one of you get "fixed" when you are done having kids...\n\nAnd Enjoy each other safely forever.