I have a date tomorrow but have a problem!?
413768
This time no drinking until after you and her get together. Get to the place where you are meeting her first then she will find you. You might want look real close when she gets there so you remember her for the next date. Remember there are allot of things besides a persons looks don't be to quick to end the evening.
310010
HES YOUR FRIEND so its OK. just ask. If he blows you off just say that you had no one 2 go with and he was da closest thing to a date you can find -and laugh it off. Use flattery and be jokey. Than ask him if he knows anyone you can go with to change the subject this way you can still be friends if he gives you the crunch- GOOD LUCK
894161
Don't worry so much. You should appreciate the offer that they gave  you. Don't be so shy everything might go well. Stay calm and just have a nice conversation with them. It shows that you're good to be with and they might want to ask you to come with them to another play another time.
810663
#1...Gotta play hard to get.  Men love a challenge.  Do not make yourself so readily available.  DONT call him...Make him call you.  No "last minute dates".  \n\n#2.....If you do have another date with this man...watch for signs he might be married...something fishy about this one...I am willing to bet he is attached somehow....(sorry, you might not want to hear that)...just keep this in the back of your mind hon...\n\nGood luck
1109523
wow, calm it down turbo.\n\nwhat if her voicemail isn't working? what if she had a crazy week and couldn't call you back?\n\nleave a message with the date plans and tell her you can't wait to see her then.\n\ndon't be a spaz and overthink it too much.
897009
You were waiting for her call???  What was stopping you from calling her? DUMMY!\nNow she's invited you for a date and you're thinking of brushing her off???  Idiot!!!\nDon't you get it? She's taken the initiative by calling you, since you were too busy trying to figure her ways.\nNow, go with her, before you blow your second chance!!!
41208
I would give it at least a week, unless you feel that person is attracted to you as well. The longer you wait, the more receptive they may be and say yes. Also, the first time (or 2), make it a friendly date...try asking what she thinks of certain movies that just came out in theaters and if she says she wants to see it, tell her that you wanted to see it too and be like "hey, we should totally go see that! Wanna go this weekend?" Or ask her opinion about resturants or new drinks...you get the point. Just make it seem like it is not a "date", but just hanging out. After doing that a couple times actually say do you want to go on a date? At least by that time she will have gotten to know you and will not have felt that she needed to act a certain way or be uncomfortable because it is a date :D GOOD LUCK!!!
299252
Why would you do that?  That's a pretty cruel thing to do to the girl you've been dating.  I know I'd be hurt.  I'd feel like you didn't want to be seen with me.  Either cancel with your formal date, or expect your dating relationship to end pretty abruptly.
442951
I remember my first date with my extremely shy now-husband ten years ago. We had been friends for probably six months, and we both knew *something* was there but were both so hesitant. All of our friends but us were going out of town one weekend, so we agreed to see a movie together and afterward grab a couple of beers. There was a simultaneous *move* in there somewhere. So my advice is to take it really slow and add some mood relaxers to the mix. If you feel confident enough, go for it. Even now with my husband, if I waited on him to do anything, I'd be sitting an eternity. If you're a strong woman, take control!
645278
Of course you are! So was I when I went on my first date with a girl (and then all over again with a boy).\n\nRelax, treat it like any other date.  If you're so wound up you'll be too preoccupied to enjoy the person you're with (for worrying about everyone else looking and talking about you OHMAGAWD!).  \n\nIf it helps, start out by thinking of her as an old schoolfriend, let her know you're a little anxious and ease yourself into flirt mode.\n\nHave a great night!
207017
Relax, and try not to worry about it!!  It will happen, probably at the most unexpected moment :)
325842
Be sincere...!!! Just tell him that you're sick for the time being & you can't see or date with him. And, if he don't believe you, just ask him to come over to see your condition. I believe he would be understand. Don't be afraid to be sincere. Because, it's   the best way to make people like you...!!! :-) Wish you well soon...!!!
74483
I can understand your disappontment! You were counting on going out, so the cancellation was a rude shock.\n\nWas there anything you could have done to salvage the date? Could the two of you have possibly decided to do something spontaneously? It's a shame to let a lack of planning ruin the evening, but maybe there was more to it that you didn't put in your question.\n\nIn the future, you may want to be more assertive and make the plans yourself, especially if this is something that your boyfriend has done before. It could be that he's just not a good planner.\n\nHowever, this could be a symptom of a deeper issue, too, and if it is, you need to address that issue or there will be more disappointments ahead.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
643907
Privacy is the key word... dont embarass urself or her.. use a laid back aproach... such has asking her to go for an old fashioned date, such as a movie or a pizza or both... keep it simple and private in case it doesnt work out for one of you...aproach her with the simple guestion of *Hey, would you like to go to ______________, (fill in the blank) with me friday/saturday nite ? if she says no dont take it personally or make a big deal of it.. most times it is what happens after the guestion that makes the impact of rather you will look like an idiot or not...... good luck.........
630259
Don't mess around, just be forward and don't play those games.  If you wait, he might meet someone else.  I know, it happened to me and it sucks and you will be mad at yourself for not saying something sooner.
1008631
I would send an email or text message today (DO NOT CALL) telling her that you had a great time and would like to see her again sometime.  No specifics, just sometime in the near future.\n\nHate to break it to you, but my dating etiquette says never ask a woman out for a weekend after Wednesday.  If she has something else planned (which she might), it will come across as a blow off.  \n\nHere's the workaround.\n\nIf she calls before the weekend (I'm assuming she has your number, if not send it via your text or email message), ask her if she has any plans.  If she says no, mention that you and a friend or coworker were going to see the game.  Tell her that he had to cancel (his parents are coming to town or whatever), and that now you are probably going to the game alone.  Then, act as if this great idea just suddenly hit you:\n\nYou: "Hey, you wouldn't want to go would you?"\n\nThrow a little surprise, like "Wow, what a great idea" in your voice.  If she isn't doing anything, and she likes you, she'll jump on it (the idea, keep it your pants for now).  \n\nDO NOT mention the fireworks until that day.\n\n"Ya know, there's a fireworks show that we could check out after the game..."\n\nIf she says she is visiting family or friends, DO NOT say "Oh, 'cause I was gonna go to the game and see if you wanted to go."  Massive conflict in women.  They don't like to hurt people's feelings for the most part.  By saying that, you put across the message "Hurt my feelings or your friends'."  \n\nDo not accept an invitation to hang out with her family or friends on the 4th (if one is offered).  You will be viewed as the interloper and scrutinized and picked apart by them.  They will tell her everything they find moderately disagreeable about you.  She will side with them (after all, she's known them for years and you for three days), and that will be the end of it.\n\nHopefully that will get you started on the right track. Cheers, mate, and name one of your kids after me.
163296
Try something new.  And make sure there is plenty of time to talk.  A first date should be exciting.  You don't have to go all out, just be yourself and show her a good time.  Pay attention to her!:)