i still have feelings for my ex but don't kno if he feels the same?
406106
Tell him how you feel.  Otherwise you will miss your moment. If he cares for you at all (even as a friend) it shouldn't damage your friendship.  And atleast you would know if he feels the same way, and if he does (i'd say its a good chance) then you guys could patch things up and move on. Good luck to you sweetie.
367520
I feel u, im in the same position but its only 3 yrs not 5 ;p well i told him abt 4 months ago that i have feelings (he's my best friend btw) and that i need 2 take a distance to get over him and we stayed like that 4 a month and it didnt work...try 2 get urself involved with other ppl, convince urself that u like some1 else...(i have no idea why am I giving advice) just try 2 get urself 2 think of some1 else
513917
Chances are he's felt the same way at one time or another.\nYour timing's off.  You can still be friends, but you need to try to keep your feelings in check, because you could lose him as a friend.  If its meant to be it will happen \nyou cant rush it, and you may change your mind. Just support him like a friend should it will all turn out the way it should.
1008405
If you still have feelings for an ex, don't lead the person you are with on, it maybe early days with this new someone and its only natural to think of past loves when you start seeing someone new.But it is also important to not let any emotional baggage get in the way of a new relationship. Try and distance yourself from your last relationship, don't make comparison's. You owe it to yourself to take thing's slowly really get to know this person you are with who could be an absolute gem.
421310
I think you just need to come out and tell him how you feel.  Say something like; You know that you were my first love don't you?  Well, after hanging out with you for the past several years, it seems that I still have the same sort of feelings for you.  How do you feel about that?  \n\nIt is ultimately going to be a risk, but think of the reward!  Isn't it worth it if he feels the same way but was too shy, nervous or afraid of rejection like you?  Nothing ventured nothing gained.  Good luck!
424891
If you still love him,tell him the true. Do not make the same mistake I made. I'm been married for seven years, but I still feeling something for my ex-boyfriend. I know isn't love,but maybe butterflies in my stomach. That is strange or not?
737036
Give sometime...to this relation..it can be love..a real love..but chances are less...the same happen between me & my ex...n i have lots of friends with same situation....so give time..till then enjoy this wonderful feeling.........
1064137
why don't you just ask him if he has feelings for you still adn if he does then just ask him you and if not then move on.
240623
Just have a face-to-face talk with him, communicate your feelings (as gently as possible) and be up-front. There's no real easy way to go about it...my ex of 2-1/2 years broke up with me a little while back, she broke my heart, and I still think about her alot, but it would have been much better if she would have been more straight-forward. So tell him exactly where you're at, it might hurt at the time, but you'll both be better off that way!
40252
You have to follow your heart.  if you don't have feeling for the person you're with, it's time to move on.  It's near impossible to not hurt who your with now, but in the long run you're going to feel better for it.  Plus, it'll spare the person your with of even more grief in the future.
169371
Talk to him and find out how he truely feels. This way you will know where you stand instead of always having to wonder or wish you knew.
155353
thay may just be trying to keep your feeling from being hert  after all he is a ex tell your friend how you feel about it all .the good times you had and the bad thing .and then move on
959323
It depends, do you love the ex? If you are unsure then take things slow. Maybe you and the ex could date, hang out etc and get to know each other again. Explore all the reasons you left to begin with, have any of those reasons (issues) been resolved? If not, nothing has changed and you will leave again when the "new, fun" is over.\nMake sure you don't go back just for comfort.
841209
He may be thinking just like you, worried about saying it and not hearing it back. Why not just end the doubt by saying what you feel? Odds are you'll find out you're both feeling the same way. If not, better to know now.
609997
If you still have feelings for your ex go back to him becuz ur long distance may not work. If you do not like your ex see if you can go the distance for the long relationship and tell him off for good.
225773
Just think about this, He's an ex for a reason~!! If your love for him overpowers that reason then go back with him.
1019332
go to him and tell him your feelings \nand ask if he feels the same way