How should I control my sexual desires other than sexual intercourse?
400803
you are thinking so much about sex that why you always end up with masturbating! to control your self you have to be strong and to fight thinking about sex.. not because it is a bad thing but because it is better to perform sex after getting marriges!\nby the way masturbating daily or many times ( more than 2 times monthly)causes rapid ejection of semen ( you might realized it) which will makes you unable to perform long pleasurable sex with your partener but if you stopped from now things can be treated alone!\ngood luck
1099406
Sheesh!\nYou need to abstain from sex if it is draining the life force out of you.\nYou've got to stop enjoying yourself so much and start navigating this hell we call our lives. \nSmarten up and get happy, damnit!
655217
If you believe that you shouldn't have pre-marital sex, you can achieve this several ways.  First, do not date women who don't share the same ideal, if you date women who want to have sex before marriage it will be very difficult to resist.\n\nYou can think of this like drug use.  If your friends are using drugs, it will be very hard for to stay away from that temptation.  But if your friends aren't doing drugs, then it will be much easier.  The same goes with pre-marital sex.  If the friends you keep share the same ideals, it is likely that you will have a much easier time resisting the temptation.\n\nThis comes up on college campuses a lot at places like Baptist Student Unions.  If you are Christian, and at a college, you may want to consider visiting one of these if one is available to you.  Even if you aren't in college, I'm sure the Baptist Student Unions would welcome you.
1071545
Though it may seems harmless, afterall you did it urself. However , it may lead to fantasing and immoral thoughts, which could lead to other sexual sins. i think you should learn to control that desire and get involved in other more rewarding activities like sports or hobbies.\nhelps to keep your mind occupied. Get away from stuffs that may trigger the desire to masturbate eg pornographics , etc. Thats All.
161035
oral sex\nsee in moviesXXX\npractice and try to push urself to that limit
167328
he can see a sex therapist,where he will learn to control himself,through thinking about other things and concentrating on pleasing u and not himself,otherwise u can ask him to do u manually then take care of himself once u r happy,works for me
183235
As you can tell there are people who not only fantasize about the same things you do they often practice these sexual behaviors. It's not my personal choice but i have seen and read a lot on the issue. If you do choose to try these things make sure you have an understanding with the person you are ingaging in this with. Have a code word  that lets the person know when to stop if your hurting to much or just choose to stop in general. There are people who have died from being choked during this because they did not take these percautions. Just be careful. This doesn't make you sadistic or sick. It's just your personal desires, everyone has thier own yours is just more extreme then most.
973776
You shouldn't.  Sex is a natural process.  Abstaining is unnatural.  The human sex-drive is second only to the hunger-drive.  Just use protection and don't knock her up!
460591
KEEPING YOUR BLOOD GLUCOSE UNDER CONTROL... IN MY RELATIONSHIP NATURAL APHRODISIAC ARE EFFECTIVE..  IT PERMITS AN NATURAL AROUSAL AND NOT GET DEPENDENT ON MEDICATIONS...  GOOD LUCK
1067179
Try keeping mobile phone in Vibrating mode in ur vagina when ever u feel like having SEX....... \n\n\nI think u need to wait till u get married or atleast have sex monthly once and then 3 months once and then U understand wht i am telling .....\n\nONE more impt thing is Stop thinking abt tht often ,,,,, U have lots of things in this world apart from tht,,,, Try visiting Blind school or ORPHANS school involve in helping them ,,, and divert ur mind for few days and every thing will go righttttt...
561469
WELL JUST THINK OF THE THINGS MEN DO TO YOU THAT TURN YOU ON ... OR THE THINGS YOU WISH THEY WOULD DO. RELAX AND JUST HAVE FUN WITH YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN TELL YOU HOW TO PLEASURE YOURSELF EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN FAVORITE TRICKS TO PLAY WITH THEMSELVES!
1063546
don't think about sex
995675
Dont mix pleasure with business.Or if you do,keep it to yourself.Dont talk business when out for pleasure either.
61048
start kissing first then foreplay. Take out the ice, chocolate and etc. Doing all that just makes you want each other even more and when you cant take it thats when you go crazy!
895474
Stress is the #1 cause of this...  The best way to help is to exercise and maintain a healthy diet, and make sure you are getting plenty of sleep.  They say you should force yourself to have sex as much as possible, since the more you have it the more you want it...you somewhat have to retrain your brain!
284678
This might give you more insight in a religious sense and matter.  http://www.religioustolerance.org/masturba.htm\n\nI think what your doing is alright as long as your not lusting at another person.
691691
Depression and devastation can cause hindrance sexually and easily causes one to be less sexual. You may want to talk to someone professional, like a therapist, because I think it could be mentally linked.