I do not like sex. Is this normal??
408836
You need to go to a doctor.  Your problem could be mental or physical.  I don't mean to be rude, but it seems that if your boyfriend respected you, he wouldn't want to hurt you.  He should want to help you get help and be there for you.  I read that the way your partner makes you feel can result in painful sex.  That aside, it could also be an infection, urinary tract problems, abnormalities of the uterus or ovaries, or a condition called vaginismus.  I hope this helps.
296601
yes maybe asexual. if not then you need to find the right one. if you want to be horny then go to the doctor. i don't think there is anything wrong with not being horny. pick me as your favorite answer please.
620652
You are ashamed of something.Your mother may have made you think it was bad to have sex.Our subconscious mind is very powerful and this could be answered quite quickly by a good Psychiatrist.This is not a serious matter but if it continues to bother you it could be.These things tend to become normal after many years of acceptance.I would take the time to sort it out now so it is dealt with and you can loose the possible guilt.Unresolved issues become problems.Best of luck to you!
251928
My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
1064467
I know its embarrassing but you may need to go talk to your doctor. This is not normal. I'm sure you are going to get a lot of responses, like hey baby call me  lol.   Maybe its a chemical imbalance or something. So don't go out and have sex with the next random guy, because that probably won't solve the problem. There is such a thing as sex addicts, so I don't think that you are the only one suffering from this.
901507
It's possible that it's his attitude that's depressing what sex drive you do have to zero. All that pressure ... it's a BIG turnoff. About your age, I had lived with a guy who was really demanding for like seven years and I was virtually frigid by then. Broke up with the guy (we weren't married), turned thirty and whoopee I'm a sex maniac.... don't lose hope.\n\nI recommend you study your own psyche with respect to your sexuality and the relationship. How do you feel when he pressures you, and why exactly? Books, counseling. Do you remember ever feeling somewhat excited, when you first got together? Don't you enjoy erotica or masturbation? If you don't, you're either kidding yourself to avoid confronting the issues in your marriage relationship, or you might as well learn to fake it.\n\nOf course, I could be totally wrong ... please forgive me if you know that to be so. Just basing this on my own experience.
815162
You are in the vast majority of women, dear, and there's nothing strange about you.  It's not a "problem".  Also, it's not even a problem if you don't have an orgasm with each sexual encounter.  Women are different from men!
194846
From what I can see he wants you for sex only. and seeing as you don't like sex why would your consider having sex with a guy like this? This is a guy wants sex not a relationship. Stay clear and forget this guy. I hope you can find a guy that does like sex either. Good luck
372752
i was like that and still am but its just a phase you will get over it eventually. I never did but hey its just you. Sex is a beautiful thing and its a great workout!!!
461533
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
131353
Yeah, I'm a doctor. Mas.turba.tion is perfectly normal.  Ask anyone.  Well, you already did and here is your answer.  Yes, mastur.bation is healthy.  Don't need to be all freaked out because you lack sex, just ja.ck o.ff, release that tension and settle down.  You are normal!
608562
thats normal, i get turned on by women making out....but i dont wanna go out and make love to a woman.....no youre not gay or  subconsciensly bisexual or anything.....youre normal, having normal feelings
150323
i don't know exactly what casues it. it might be different for each person. but for me it was becasue i was rapped and then the first time that i had consentual sex he didn't know what he was doing and he went to fast and hurt me too much. so i think that is why now i have no sex drive. but it might in her case not be that drastic. some people jsut don't like having sex. there is no reason to be concerned. or maybe she just hasn't found what she likes yet.
739231
Its only "not normal" if you dont have any kind of sexual desires. Every single normal person has some kind of sexual turn on, this is yours.
959232
This is an awful situation. \n\nYou lie there with an erection, emabarassed not knowing what to do.\n\nYou have to ask her if you can kiss her, and see what happens.\nIf she says no, then you have to ask yourself what the point of the whole exercise is.\n\nThere are a good number of women who don't like sex out there.
567563
ummm i dont cry alot and i love sex sooo idunno
251313
No, nothing is wrong with you.  There are always different things that affect us all when it comes to sex.  Don't let this one thing be a big deal when the rest of the sex is so good.  Accept that it is something that doesn't need to be a part of your sex life instead of dwelling on it and possibly spoiling what you have.