what do u think  you think my fiance means by ths?
399270
He probably means: "It seems like I can have what I want without getting married, so why should I ever get married?"
835866
It would depend on the kind of relationship you have with him.  Evidently it is not that strong if you are feeling so insecure.  If he has not given you any reason to suspect otherwise, I would let it go.  But if it is still bothering you, I wouldn't marry him until we settled the issue once and for all.
1014613
I was about to answer your question and then I started to think that there isn't a pole long enough to get me to even attempt to answer you. I will anyways. Okay, here goes. I think your fiance is mixed up. He should be spending time with his son at least, even if you and he have issues. This is why I say I think he is mixed up. He may have been cheating on you and it didn't work out for him and now he wants what he had back again but he is afraid that he has some infection or something so he tells you he doesn't want anyone. It sounds like he is messing up big time. This is my perspective if you and he are in your twenties or younger. If you are in your 30s or 40s his behavior doesn't make sense because I don't think he would cheat and then cover it up with lies and I think he would spend time with his son at least.\n\nI think you both are young and he is messing up in more than one way. This is only my opinion. I am not a cheater and your fiance's behavior doesn't make sense to me unless I examine it from what I think a cheater might do. Hey, if he is willing to cheat on you , maybe he is willing to lie about it to by saying something like I don't want anyone. Everyone wants someone. He isn't being honest. That is my gut feeling.
718448
He probably means himself. But it sounds as though he is not real swift in the sensitivity department. I think you might want to tell him that you have heard that "joke" enough now and it is time for him to wrap it in tissue paper and store it in the attic.\n\nDefinitely don't take it personally. You are probably exotically gorgeous and he feels very lucky to have such a beautiful wife. He may be worried that you don't find HIM so great-looking. Another tactic you could take when he says it again is to say,"Nonsense, honey, with me so beautiful and you so ruggedly handsome and masculine, our kids are gonna be the most beautiful ever born."\n\nLighten up. Don't take him seriously. Some men are kind of stupid when it comes to women. LOL.
110519
Sounds like your already married to each other.Congratulations.
195113
Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.
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Had many of the same feelings when I first met my fiance.  Luckily they have subsided a bit and am now more able to lead a more "normal" life.  I still do think of her quite often and by no means does it mean that I think or respect he any less.  It's just that the initial honeymoon stage has worn off, took about 2 years and so am a little more grounded now.  Best of luck to you and yours.
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Sorry, but would you want your fiance to do this to you?  I personally think if its important to your man, you need to take his feelings into consideration and bring him with.  I would consider him controlling if he freaked about every guy you talked to, but not this.  I think he is right.
376355
Tell him how you feel. Straight and clear. I see nothing wrong with testing a persons engagement. Imagine if he cant pass the test in marriage!
587255
We have no way of knowing. It sounds like this is an arranged marriage.  Why don't you talk to your parents?  If that doesn't work talk to your Fiance.
193063
well, if he marry u then its something wrong . Check out yourself what is happening .May be something fishy going on....
694714
Oh get a grip woman!  He stated the guy is a true friend...not that he wants to bang him.  Would you had been bothered if he wasn't gay and had your fiance's picture on his page?  What diff does it really make?  Lets say he did want to bang your fiance...why would that matter?  IF your fiance is not gay NONE of it matters.  Get over it.
440695
My fiance's best friend.  When we all go out together I feel butterflies in my stomach just because of him.  I can't have a relationship with him because I'm with someone and so is he, but we have talked and the feelings are mutual.  I think it's more of a sexual thing.
187762
I think you better have that talk as soon as possible.\nSomething could be wrong, or he may be thinking about ending things with you. Either way, the sooner you know the better, right?
679972
No!! It probably means you are NOT in love. There shouldnt be anyone that youd be willing to do anything for. Love is mutual respect, and give and take. If youre just doing whatever he says, hes not respecting you and youre not respecting yourself.
495697
Since he said 'ur mine', that would indicate to me that he likes you.  However, I wouldnt feel comfortable with his comment.  You should not be a possession to anyone.
313401
I'd say he feels the same way. If what your telling us is true sounds to me like he's into you. Why not throw it all out in the open? Tell him you want to jump his bones when he gets home... I'm sure he'll be happy!!!