I love my bf and I can see myself marrying him, but I still look at other guys and wants them to like me.?
411794
Well, you didn't tell us how old you are so we have no idea if you're ready to settle down. Not that age would be an indicator that's set in stone but it usually gives context for your life experiences. Just go with the flow so that you see where you really stand on this issue.  If you're not ready to be seriously committed first, don't force it or you'll just end up hurting the both of you.
787457
I think that whatever the reason for your intereste in this other man, it is telling you one very important thing: you probably arent ready for marriage. as much as you probably do want to get married, maybe this is a way of telling you to give it a bit more time. it doesnt mean that you dont love your partner. perhaps you should just take a bit of time before deciding on marriage, and spend it on analysing your relationship and if this is really what you want. marriage should be for life. so your partner should be the only man in your life, when you decide to marry. perhaps just for now, take time to enjoy eachothers company and maybe you can look forward to a Valentine's Day Proposal in a few months time!\nWhatever you decide, follow your heart. The decision either way has to be right for you, as you are the one living your life.\n\nMaybe discuss with your partner your concerns? &#92;\n\nBest of luck in your relationship
348662
i think that you have to think about the long run... \nfor the first guy:\nyou seem to be really into him, and you can see yall getting married.. thats no joke, it actually has potential\nfor the second guy:\nHe is married, and if you decide to get serious with him, what makes you think that he wont do the same to you as he did to his wife?\nFor the third guy:\njust because you are attracted to him doesn't mean he worth hurting the first guy whom you seem to be in to the most.\n\nI think mainly you have to think about which ones are LUST and which one is LOVE!
222941
No matter what you think or do it is a natural instinct for men to look.  Engage it and explore his innermost thoughts.  Don't get jealous because he does love you.  Looking is not cheating.  Explore it together.
205732
Those things you've stated don't explain the type of person you are on the inside, your personilty, or how you treat others.  Take a moment and try to see yourself as others may see you.  Is there something intimidating about your character, the way you carry yourself, etc.?  I'm not sure what type of significant other you are trying to attract but it could have something to do with who you approach as well.  If you are drawn to people who have low self esteem and no motivation, you could naturally seem intimidating b/c of your status and success.  From the surface alone, you seem like a good catch.  Good Luck!
472281
Listen this is coming from a girl just like you. It's not jealousy or insecurity. It's the fact that he's your man. You feel as though you can give him everything another woman can. It's perfectly natural. Don't beat yourself up about it! Girl, if he See's you looking at another man he'll feel the same way. Trust and believe. Just remember that you got him and it doesn't matter if he talks or look at other women he's still yours!
725492
well, why do you like him? a.do you like the way he is nice to you and to other people? or, b. is it because you find him attractive?\n\na. if this is so, maybe you should think of him more as a sibling instead of someone that you actually like. And just think, didn't you marry husband for his kind heart? your husband would be pretty sad if he knew that you like someone else. but it happens, don't feel bad.\n\nb. just focus on other things. Maybe you shouldn't think about how cute he is all of the time. He doesn't like women, so don't think about his face, but his heart.
507020
this is the same probs with me also.\ni dont love the guy who loves me soo much!!\ngirls are like that,.. tooo choosy and stuff. they always want something thats out of reach.\nso my advice is.... be with the guy who like u , than the one whom u love,\nhard to follow, but easy to advice
480358
i think he still wants to be with you. he just seems to be a little over protective and gets jealous when u look at another guy. u should talk to him about that
1042258
I'm guessing you were trying to say you proposed to this guy you've never met? I think if he feels you are obviously obsessed, you will give in to him if you meet and trust me...there's crazy people out there who prey on your type every single day. Be cautious of what you're doing and saying via the internet.
250264
If you love him, it shouldn't matter what other people think. There will always be some kind of doubt in relationships and that's fine. If you're not sure about the guy then ask yourself, "Can I see myself with this guy for the rest of my life?".
731558
the fact that you are looking at another suggests that you are not really with your man anymore and the best thing to do for both of you is end it.\n\nwhat happens with the other guy is irrelevant with regards to your situation with bf.\n\nif you should finish with bf and then get with other guy then cool but you must not think about this until you have sorted it out with bf.
1183210
There must be  some guys out ther eint he world like that, I mean i'm stronger than my boyfriend and as afr as I know and I hope lol he loves me and a few of his friends have crushes on me, i don't think it matters what yewr both interested in aslong a syew rintrested in each but some guys may see yewr strength as a threat to their egos but don't let it get in the way :)
576502
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
948844
I have asked myself the same thing!! So i asked my guy why is this, i said is it because you have a beautiful confident woman at home and what you need is someone not so pretty who looks at you and says wow! I cant beleive I am lucky enough to have this hot guy, you know..like they need to feel worshiped so to say..and he also stated that he knew they wanted him and it was easy to get
580057
To be honest, every guy looks at other girls. I just married and that hasn’t stopped my guy from looking at other girls. It starts a lot of arguments when I say anything. You should never let a guy make you feel ugly or unattractive in anyway. My advice would be to move on. Not everyone is a super model but there is someone out there who will find you beautiful in every way, and never want to hurt you by looking at other girls. It sounds like your situation has lead to low self esteem, and it is really hard to do things for yourself when this happens. But believe it or not you could be happier.
697766
That is so awesome!! I know EXACTLY how u feel when somone u thought was not in your league chooses u...\nFirst ENJOY & rmbr u r worthy of all of your gifts/blessings!! \nIsn't God wonderful?\nJust treat this relationship w/ love & u will do just fine.\nMy man is incredibly handsome, generous, & loves to take me out everywhere! Every day I can't b-leeve he is w/me!! Truly, I am starting to hold my head up more, being proud of who I am..there must b something about me thats awesome too! \nSo I m sure u r awesome..don't worry about the Y's & c him again really soon! And if things don't work out..imagine u had him for a little while!Dreams really do come tru.