What do women prefer in a guy looks or money?
413369
well it is both... when a woman dumps you it is cuz the guy is better looking or had more money than you.  Women say neither because who wants to admit to being what so many women are.  The truth is women are attracted to SECURITY.... hence that is something that does not exist. so it translates to the sense of knowing there is nothing better around and that they are going to be taken care of and lack of worries such as food, water, sex, home and luxuries.  Back at the same answer.... looks and money.
148733
I'd prefer sophisticated gentlemen. Physical appearance can only last so long but fine attitude and personality will definitely last much longer.
770123
Well, different guys look for different things.  It's really hard to narrow it down to things that guys tend to want in general, but I'll try.\n\nFirst, I think they want the girl to take them for who they are.  I also think they like girls who try to look nice, but at the same time, don't obsess over it.\n\nFor myself, I tend to like women who are gentle and tend to be at least somewhat soft-spoken, because that matches my personality.
756536
What are the girls really attracted to? I can answer that in one word: Money!
298276
Care. It means a lot when a guy cares for me like calling me when I'm sick, asking me if want a ride when I go somewhere, help carrying something heavy. Women like an attention. Today I went to a grocery store and was looking at apples, then this guy at the store came up to me and said new apples has arrived to the store this morning so he can get me some if I want more fresh apples. \nI'd be pretty much happy with a guy who cares for me even though he doesn't have much money or good looks. The attitude that he would always be there for me is a very important factor. \nHonesty and loyality are also important. Don't be stubborn. Don't be short-tempered. Be a good listener.
431889
Because the female mentality is to find the ideal mate that can provide security and protection.\n\nSome, not all, women view a man with money as the ideal mate, because they can provide the above subconcious desires. Also, it allows them to cater to their own material desires by having the money to dispose.\n\nIts a sad world, but don't generalize. Not all women think money is the most important thing.... but money is important.
47738
Based on a comprehensive research study I just completed- it proves that the number one trait women look for most when they are searching for a mate is financial stability and social status- physical attractiveness is further down on the list- HOWEVER, for males, it is opposite- the number one quality men look for in women is physical attractiveness\n\nI am not sure how young you are talking when you say "young women" but I am 22 and financial security is more important to me than physcial attractiveness, which as I said above, falls into the norm\n\nThe one stipulation to this rule of thumb is what kind of relationship one is looking for- if a female is looking for a lifetime mate, the above remains true- however younger girls (pre-teen, teen) may not fall into that norm- Also if a person is looking only for a casual, sexual relationship, in that case physical attractiveness is more important
1084001
depends on the guy and what type of relationship he is looking for a pretty little trophy to show off or someone he could possible settle down with someday.. personality, caring .. remember looks eventually fade
1165814
a bit of both for me, i like a guy with a great personality and good looks! i like a guy that is outgoing, alittle wild and crazy, fun, sweet, honest, careing and faithful!...Im pretty picky when it comes to looks, now he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous (like the man in my dreams), but i like a guy that is tall like 6 feet tall or taller, slim but muscular (not too skinny and definitly not fat) nice facail structures, nice smile, pretty eyes, if he looks good with trimmed up facial hair thats even better, short hair, not long hair (long hair is for girls) and last but not least gotta have a nice smooth chest *alittle patch of chest hair is ok* (but i hate hair men) and i like dark hair guys, not to fond of the blondes and redheads!
525234
good looking is relitive. it all depends on your preference.
1041707
It all depends on the female. She may just want attention, she might just want someone to take care of her and buy her things. Every woman wants a guy to propose to them and get married one day. But the key to a female getting what she wants is to be straight foward and honest about it, alot of males, believe it or not are not mind readers.
363732
In my experience, women look for 1 of 4 things, in no particular order:\n\n1. Charm/Humour\n2. Money\n3. Meanness\n4. Looks\n\nJust because you're not mean and don't want to be mean to a woman, doesn't mean you can't bring one of the other 3 "talents" to the table.
461247
Personality. God knows most guys (including me) could never have been happily married if it was all based on looks.
448764
1) Eyes\n2) Gestures\n3) Words spoken\n\nIf you have a good car / bank account then thats #1 ofcourse :) but most women today wont go just by that you need to shell out some too ... he he he.
1101609
i think all guys are special in their own ways .......the only thing which every girl looks is the sweetness,and kindness in the man.......but guys think MONEYi totally disagree with that ......come on money cant buy everything!
362321
both, to hook a guy up you need some beauty (depends on the guy)  and to keep them you will have to bahve in an acceptable way for them.  (depends highly on the guy but most seek beauty firg&#92;st then behavior)
1047564
That's because in general men (myself included) tend to be more visual and look for an instant attraction.  A woman is more likely to take the time to make an assessment of a man's character, his sense of humor and wit, whether he's interesting etc.  The first cut, if you will, for a man is physical attractiveness.  While for women, that criteria may be down the line a little and she is more likely to give a guy a chance who fits all her other criteria but may not be the best looking guy.