what is the best way to win a guy's heart after a big misunderstanding/fight?
413483
My guess is you have already won his heart and that is why you are in a relationship with him already.  I'm sure he is feeling just as bad about the misunderstanding as you are.  Take the initiative and make the first contact to resolve the issue and talk it out, you'll both feel better.  Misunderstandings in relationships are for learning about each other.  Remember the best part, you get to kiss and make up later!  Good luck!
686241
Do not react emotionally, when he gets around to it, say, "ok..no problem." or make the first move...guys must be kept off balance to keep their interest. IF he thinks he has you and you will be all brokenhearted if he leaves you, show him you will not be..that will knock his ego for a loop. You have nothing to loose at this point anyway, so make sure you are in a position that he doesn't think he has total control of the situation.
911162
We always want what we can't have ....\n\nHe was eager and there for you and you said 'no.'  He wanted more and you said 'no.' He has suddenly stopped wanting you and guess what? You miss his attention and companionship.  So what happens next?\n\nA) Do you say that you are sorry and try and make up or ...\nB) Move on and leave the poor guy alone ...\n\nIts your choice, what do you really want? The silly arguments were more to do with his fustration at not being able to move the relationship forward.  Just good friends isn't going to work I'm afraid. You aren't serious just let him be or as I said 'say you are sorry and start being honest about how you feel - if you do! Only you know.
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
330476
There is one thing very common in guys.Jealousy.....\nIf you have some good assets, then try to make him jealous.\n\nDo a little flirting to other guys infront of him.I said i little.Do not land up somewhere which you may regret later.\n\nLooks like he hurt you, Ms. Diya.Anyways....\n\nAll the Best....
819328
Well firstly you must act as soon as possible cuz his feelings will grow deeper everyday and the more he tries to smutther you the more you will resist him and believe me baby the last thing you want, is to shock this guy with a sudden timeout or slowdown call cuz then he'll begin to feel rejected and hurt he then might start to think that there is another guy as most of us men do. if he is a fairly intelligent guy then u could start to express your feelings in your behaviour patterns such as shortening phone calls and mildly shying away when he touches u and he will then ask whats wrong and tell him there and then but in a manner that he understands and also state clearly your position in this relationship try not to be too vague and at the same time show some care or emotion in your words atleast this registers some amount of selfworth in his mind that u still care but not as much as he thought. as long as that is cleared up u will find it is eaiser to make a decision whether to stay in the relationship or ends it on good terms
892884
Relax.  Breath.  Breath again.\n\nOk, now that you're calmer, think about the situation.  If you and this guy really like the same stuff, chances are you're pretty good friends.  (Or at least there is the potential for you to be good friends.)\n\nStart there.  Be his friend.  Not too pushy, just a friend.  Then, if things move on from there, great.  But if not, at least you have a good friend.\n\nGood luck!  And keep breathing.
533221
Just tell the new guy the truth.  That your sorry, but you and your ex expectantly got back together and that you hope he understands.  If he is a really nice guy he will wish you the best and everything will be cool.  These things happen sometimes.
39705
you cant avoid hurting him just make it clean and simple, dont lose control, and be extremely clear on why( pull no punches). Never ask to be friends it's the worst thing a guy can hear because it sends mixed messages.
423715
It can be.  True communication can be hard for any person.  We're not taught how to communicate in a really good way.  But it's certainly more difficult for guys because they are suppoused to be "less emotional"  by society's standards.  You have to be willing to be emotional in order to have good communication.  And by being "emotional", I mean not ranting and raving, but willing to admit that you feel hurt or angry.  \n\nIn order to communicate, you have to be vunerable.  That can be much tougher for guys to do.\n\nThree weeks is not a long time.  And I actually think it's never to late to call someone and tell them that you need to talk.  Just try to keep calm and don't blame him.  Tell him that you understand and respect his decision to break up, but you need to know for yourself what got him upset.  Let him know that you want to use the knowledge to make yourself a better person, and that if there is something that did hurt him, you'd like to know so you can apologize.  I'd phrase it it this way, because it might help to make him less defensive.  If he's completely unwilling to talk, say that you understand that he doesn't want to talk about it now, but you'd be open to hearing from him the future if he does want to disuss it.  If he does start talking about it, hear him out and try to reflect back his feelings to him.  Don't be defensive.  Remember, you did want to hear how he was feeling!  Then tell him your side in an honest and open way.  \n\nGood luck!
478378
best way is to have a new bf and let him tackle this situation. guys are bulls, they fight and they decide once for all. i m ready to pretend to be ur bf, just let me know......i will kick his....
1085250
Just kick and then say you're sorry you mistook him for your BF!\nAnd if its a girl then say you're sorry you mistook her for your BF's GF!
796179
You never get a second chance to make a first impression.  But you can try to woo him over by just being honest.  Tell him it was a bad day and that you'd like to wipe the slate and start over.  Bribe him with a homecooked meal-- most men jump at the chance for a chick to cook for them.  Have wine with dinner, candles, nice music, and dress nice.  At the end of the night,after you've been your usual charming self, tell him, "Aren't you glad you had the chance to meet the real me?"  I bet you he'll say yes.
1133147
I'm a bit confused about your question but I'm guessing you want to know how to get back at this guy? Well first of all, DO NOT let him know you care. Brush it off. Act really casual around him and flirt with other guys but don't seem desperate. When someone gives you the advice to 'forget it and move on' that's because that it is a great form of revenge because it shows that you are confident and do not need him. Do not let him see you vulnerable or sad or losing your cool at all. Guys love when girls do that because it boosts their egos, especially jerks like the one you described! Be confident, be yourself and don't let any man take your pride! You are a strong woman and do not let any man make you look weak and pathetic!
1077386
it depends...if he still have love feelings for you, it will be easy for him to be back again in your arms...also, you could try the ff:\ntry to reconcile to him, try visiting him at his home & bring some of his favorite food made by you, as for peace offering....\ntry to use his weakness/ticklish, for him to be easily fall for you again...\nsay I love you with all your heart & hug him as you hug your favorite pillow or teddy bear!
983173
tell him how you fell. you were right to say no at firt though\nPs. the note thing is a great way to tell him do it.
239309
Really Confusing? He like you, but you;ll dont know what to do. You guyz seem to be too innocent!\nWell start up a good talk, talk about ur past in a calm and quiet place. take a walk with him, talk about his life, his likes and dislikes. \nTake a initiative, hold on to his hands, tell him how much u care about him. tell his your weakness's and what you like. \nAlways be together, no matter what, think, if u loose him u dont have any option. I believe you will love and your realtion will grow stonger.\nbut hey that doesnt mean that you'll wont fight, there can be no relationship like that, but never the less you shuld try to avoid it.