Why do women whine about men being jerks, when it's jerks that women love?
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Not all women love jerks...not even the majority. Perhaps what you refer to is an attraction thing- some may be physically attracted to bad boys, but they don't want an involved relationship with one.
629173
men act like jerks..cos they are born one!
369343
when they are rude, and cheat on you,those who talk too much or not at all! Men that are annoying  drive me nuts!
1054488
men have very high egos they like to think they are the smartest of them all, women who outsmart them hurts their ego and they hate that
594624
Some are attracked to jerks because they think that they can change them, which will never happen, they fall in love with the man he could be not the man he is. If she is getting hit then you need to talk to her about gettting out of the relationship and getting help. If you like you can write me poetry any time, I love it.
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This is something I have been asking myself for a long time. \n\nEverything you said and more is absolutely correct. The thing that bothers me the most is: men know this. And not only do men know this, they for some crazy reason get upset when the subject comes up. \n\nI mean if you know that women are considered less in this society and you know that women make less for the same jobs and you know that women still don't have equal rights, then why in the hell do you get upset when asked about it? As though, someone were trying to take something from you or something. I just don't get that at all.\n\nHere is an example that my sister experienced a few years ago: she went through a divorce. My mother's house was in her name and my mother sold the house so my sister had to file the paperwork. My sister's exhusband had to sign off on the paperwork even though his name was nowhere on the deed or financing, etc... He blackmailed 5 grand out of her over that for something he never paid a penny on. \n\nNow get this... we were told that in my state, NC, ONLY the MAN has that right. If he had been the one selling a house where her name was not on the deed etc... then he would not have had to get her to sign off on it.\n\nIn today's times, the women work all day too just like the man but then we come home, cook dinner, make sure the kid's homework is done, do the dishes, straighten up the house, bath the kids, etc... While the husband is usually either sitting on the couch watching sitcoms, playing on the computer, or maybe out tinkering with his car in the garage.\n\nAnd men STILL get upset when you bring this stuff up. I personally think the male brain is what is wrong with this world. They truly feel they are 'entitled' to be treated better than women just because they are men... \n\nThe world would be a much better place if we got rid of all the male leaders of this planet. We wouldn't have all this 'cock' fighting over stupid crap.\n\nFunny how when you start talking about 'equality' ppl start calling you a socialist. Also, there have been many many studies of the hostility a woman has to go through in professional male dominated areas. IE, my sister is a mechanical engineer and you would be amazed at the crap she has to tolerate.
314915
No it is being a jerk that make a person unwanted sexually by women.
14947
Girls love to be proud of their guy, and tell the world how great he is. If a girl is actually complaining about her man, it means that she wants you to know she's not entirely happy... and usually this means she's interested in your opinion (or in you, but this may not have even occured to her yet). \n\n...if you're the single guy she's complaining to, well - this all sounds great. Problem is, you'd be getting her on a rebound call, and that's no good. I've been there... a number of times, and while I can't say with honesty that it won't work 100% of the time, I also can't imagine it works very often at all.
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Are you annoying? Are you controlling? Etc., etc., there could be thousands of reasons, some not even having to do with you and having to do with the guys around you, they may just be stuck up jerks.
1029868
guys are jerks because they want us to do every thing 4 them and they are guyz cum on guys=jerks no offense to those guys
71360
As a guy, I can tell you without hesitation that some women have a way of turning something back on you.  If you tell her you're mad about something she has done, hasn't done, etc., you get a load of crap designed to turn it back on you.  Including trying to make you feel guilty for even bringing it up.  Some even try to clear the anger by attempting to inspire sympathy.\n\nThat's just speaking from personal experience.  It's very hard to bring up sensitive issues with some women because it's impossible to carry on a serious, purposeful discussion of the problem without being emotionally manipulated.\n\nJust my opinion.  And please don't think I'm issuing a blanket statement to cover all wome.  That's why I said "some women".
345367
They treat you nice in the beginning to bait the woman in then once they get comfortable the real jerk comes to life.The reason why some men do this is because if they really were to act like themselves, they would never get any sex!!!!
606041
I cant answer this question because Im trying to understand that also.To many times women will stay with the guy that doesnt treat them right or make them feel cared for etc. and they dont want to find that guy that is waiting to be given a chance to treat someone with everything thier heart can put out.They would rather sit at home and complain than do anything about it,just so you know,that wonderful charming guy is trying to find you but cant because you are still in a relationship..... best wishes
696157
Women have the impression that guys are jerks and thats why they cannot trust any guy. Maybe it's because they have had bad experiences with guys. Not all guys are bad but you even know that guys think with the wrong head
1184638
hmm?  Do you mean to say that women are nags even though the men work their "butts" off???  Well, if that IS what you're saying, then it isn't true.  Women nag men when their doing the wrong thing.  It's as simple as that.  If they were doing things right, then the men wouldn't hear the nagging.  Right?
276488
They have other priorities, like intelligence, appearence or social position-- but it's very rare for a girl to ultimately settle down with a guy who's a jerk, it's usually a great fling-- one other aspect here is that rude is in the eye of the beholder... you may think he's being a jerk but sometimes she thinks it's funny or just agressiveness but not necessarily rudeness
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You answered your own question.Ah, wisdom is in your own heart.You said it quote"I'm SICK OF IT!!!!!So kick da bum to the curb and GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP ASAP!!!!For some reason over the years I've noticed women get into relationships with SOB's who treat them like dirt and won't tell them to take a hike. Remember us guys are a dime a dozen. I know cause I'm one of em