since i have premature ejaculation problem, how to satisfy my girl?
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first you should see a Dr about your penile problem. then you should know that foreplay is a big part of sex to a woman. and then there is always oral.
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Premature Ejaculation is a very common and very serious problem suffer by 1 out of 4 males. The causes of premature ejaculation range from person to person and from psychological to physical. Men are frustrated of having ejaculation prior to female’s orgasm. The average time a male suffering from premature ejaculation is less than 5 minutes of intercourse before they ejaculate. \n\nWhat Should You Do?\nThe best solution is to strength your body and allow you to control yourself last longer.  Try to delay ejaculation by practicing our highly effective and popular technique, “Natural Ejaculation Control Technique”. \n\nCome visit our Premature Ejaculation Resource Center for more information such as myths of PE, exercises, and herbs that can help. There you can find a technique we call the “Natural Ejaculation Control Technique” that will strengthen your body and allow you to control yourself to last longer.\n\nNatural Ejaculation Control Technique:\nhttp://www.herbolove.com/library/resource/prematureejaculation/natural.asp
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Begin a good lover starts WAAAY before you get in bed.  Stimulate her mentally - talk to her, listen to her... engage her brain before you try to engage her body parts.  Spend time warming up the engine... try to find errogenous zones other than the three basics that men seem to gravitate towards.  TALK to her about what SHE likes in bed... getting her to open up to you about that stuff will require you to build up some trust.  She isn't just going to "blab" that info to just anyone.  THEN, when you FINALLY have her between the sheets, don't rush!!!  Listen to her.  Did you know that the majority of women do NOT have vaginal orgasms?  This means you are going to have to stimulate her in an additional manner besides good ol' fashioned intercourse.  Make HER satisfaction your goal.  You KNOW you are gonna get YOURS at the end of the deal...make sure she is pleased before you are done.  And if you should finish first, you aren't done... make sure she gets hers too!!  And don't forget this most important thing... practice makes perfect.  A great lover is one who sticks around for more than a one-night-stand...and keeps coming back for more and more practice!!!
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The truth is this, there is no way to satisfy your girlfriend, or anyone, for that matter.  Men and women, it seems, have this belief that they can "please" each other or "make" each other happy.  It is a nice thought, but it doesn't really happen that way.  Think about this, you are upset and your friend tells you a joke that makes you feel better...right?  Wrong.  You chose to feel better by seeing the humor in the joke and allowed yourself to open up enough to be influenced by the humor, losing your grip on those negative thoughts and feelings you had previously.  It is the same with women, in this case, your girlfriend.  \n\nYou can't satisfy her, but there is something you can do to improve the situation.  First start with you, being the best person you can be...to yourself, to others, and to her.  Be confident, be yourself, be all the things you want to be when fear and self-consiousness set in, and be true to who you are.  Then be selfless, helpful, caring, compassionate, diligent, and patient with those around you.  As for your girlfriend, you should follow your heart, care for her, give her yourself, be WITH her when you are around her, share, be thoughtful and kind, and show her that you care.  Although you cannot "force" or "make" her do anything, you can still be the best person possible, making each day you live worth living, making yourself a person of value, and creating a certain magic in your life.  All of these things will not only draw better people to you in your life, but your girlfriend will be more "open" to your influenc and "willing" to share whatever you wish with you.  \n\nA last note.  Women "feel" rather than "think" their ways into better relationships.  Men are mostly the other way.  If you love her and care for her, you should take the risk and tell her what is in your heart as often as you can, show her what you feel without the "act", and do for her what you would want done for yourself.  The best advice in any relationship, including the one you have with yourself, is this: "If you don't want people to treat you like an @ssho!e, then don't act like one".....in your case it would sound more like this "If you want to satisfy her, then let her satisfy you".  Do all the things to her that you want her to do to you (or have done to you, if you are content in the relationship).  Relationships are a balance, and if yours needs some adjustment, then make those adjustments.  Don't worry if you think you are working too hard, when she realizes what you are doing, she will be more than willing to do her part as well (if she is right for you, that is....and doing this will give you a good indicator if she is or isn't "the one"....)\n\nI hope this helped.  Good luck!
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WHY CAN'T YOU BE PATIENT? GO AND MASTURBATE. SHE WILL LET YOU KNOW WHEN SHE IS READY. WHEN YOU ARE PUSHING THE ISSUE SHE WILL WANT YOU MORE. IF YOU ACT LIKE YOU DON'T WANT IT SHE WILL BE THROWING IT TO YOU.
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You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
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This is what I do, and it works.\nI think about the girl. I focus on her needs. Delay cumming is a mind game. If he takes his mind off of cumming, he probably won't. He can think about fishing or homework. If he is thinking about a hot super model or you for example, he might cum right away. Usually, what feels good for her (like the position) doesn't get me going like it would for her. Try positions that stimulate you more and him less. Although, putting you mind on a different subject can prolong the orgasm. My record is two hours.
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how to please her,love her,
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Premature ejaculation is the occurrence of ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners.Premature Ejaculation is the inability to delay ejaculation to a point which is mutually desirable for both partners. Usually it leads to an unsatisfactory sexual experience for both the partners. \n\nCauses:\nExact cause of Premature Ejaculation is unknown, but experience and psychological factors are key players.\n\nCure of Premature ejaculation:\nIt has been found that premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for a medical treatment. However, practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods can also help you in delaying ejaculation. You may practice techniques like Masters and Johnson Method, Simulation Technique or Squeeze Technique to exercise greater control over your performance. In addition, keeping a check over the alcohol intake and illegal drug usage is also helpful.
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Most men can go through moments of temporary impotence. This sounds like a purely psychological problem rather than a physical one. This might sound cheesy (no pun intended) you could try watching an erotic movie together, only if your girlfriend is willing though. Don't try to make love like you have it fitted into your daily agenda, be spontanious to keep the exitement alive. If you plan to have sex you will start to worry all day long i.e "what if i can't get an erection again, she will think i don't love her anymore, she will start looking for someone else, i can't satisfy her anymore" etc....It is probably only a temporary thing. If you are going through a stressfull time that can have an effect, if you are suffering from depression that can have an effect. Reassyre your girlfriend that you love her, don't keep your fears to yourself, talk your problem through. You should be ok though.
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You really don't need medicine! Just learn to control your pace. You can practice with masturbation. You just go until you are close to cumming...but stop short and take a break until that feeling subsides...and then continue again. You can really learn to go as long as you want...and oh that ejaculation will feel good when it finally happens (which is whenever you and/or your partner want it to!). Of course when you are f---ing, you need your partner's co-operation in stopping the friction (her moving too!) when you tell her you are getting close. It takes some practice but it works! As a short term solution I would suggest jacking off a couple of hours before you have sex with your partner. The second ejaculation should definitely take longer.
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Well, it happens sometimes. What works for me is to focus on pleasing her and not to get too crazy with it.  Focus on her rhythm and breathing, and slow the heck down. The more you try to please her the longer you will last and then when she has gone a few times before you then you will find a whole new era for you in the bedroom. She will be quite the satisfied woman.
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Sex is 80% a mental thing and 20% a physical thing.  To address premature ejaculation you have to address both contributors... mental and physical.\n\nFor physical... try to get your penis desensitized a bit\n\nFor mental... try to get your brain a little less excited about the idea of having sex.  The anticipation of the act is so exciting for an individual that it causes him to climax well before or early in the act.  Try to contain &  control that anticipation.  Try and think less about the actual act per se and focus more on the person and you will experience the difference.
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dont start sex  early  hold and excite her... make her hot...hotter than she is... when u start it try to stop time after time when u feel u wanna cum... and think about her cumming thats the main aim of men in sex i think:) time will show u what to do and how to behave believe me
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Squriting is another form of female ejaculation. If you explore around the pussy and rub the clitirus and stuff u will create an orgasm and she should squirt if she feels comfortable enough. You do need practice, or you may not be able to squirt at all.
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There are topical products available that desensitize you to some extent so that you last longer.  The suggestions above are excellent, as well, especially masturbating ahead of time.  Some men find that wearing a condom helps...er, slow things down a bit, too.  Relax, incorporate some toys into your foreplay to increase the pleasure for your girlfriend, and try to focus on the journey instead of the destination...\n\nGood luck!
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Concentrate more on her feeling good rather than how good it feels to you. \nInstead of jumping into the heated moment too fast, slow yourself down and focus on the tender spots of her. Set out just to make her feel electric. Put yourself last. Much more pleasure.