My boysfriend ex girlfriend keeps calling him to get back with him.  Should I worry?
401325
yes. Usually exes don't call if they are sure the relationship is over, if they don't have kids and the ex is calling that means its not clear to her that its over. If all else fails beat her ass.
1250
Not necessarily. I bring up my ex sometimes to people and its not that I am not over her because I totally am, but its just that most of his experiences in relationships(good or bad) may have been with her and that is all he knows. I know this be the case with me. I know I am over my ex because we still keep in contact and when she calls me or I call her I have nothing to talk about. Just lots of awkward silence. Ask him and see what he says. Have a heart to heart.
903607
Go with her when she meets him. If he just vanished off the face of the earth without a word, that's odd. But if they broke up and he just stopped returning her calls and moved on, that's different.\nI don't agree with her desire to revisit the past, but I suppose a compromise is you going with her. If she disagrees, I'd be ticked.
883579
No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
368041
Believe her for the time being. If she says nothing is between them, nothing is between them BUT be aware because something is BOUND to happen because she is not telling you everything. While she's sneaking and lying to you, YOU have a decision to make. She's either your friend or she isn't. This has nothing to do with your "ex" because he is your ex, this is a friend who crossed the line and she must be dealt with. I'm not saying that you have to fight with her but you have to realize, this might be the first time and it might not be the last time she does this. BUT please before you react, give her the benefit of the doubt, let her decide which is more important, her friendship to you or some guy.
254600
he should be still mad at u after 7 months. i mean 'get over it aready!' it should be safe to call him without him hangin the phone up on u but jus to b on the safe side u should ask ur friend to call him first. same thing happened 2 me (only i dumped my ex 4 his best friend) and my ex and i r still talkin up to dis day
533166
I'm presuming they are ex's for a reason... Think back on that reason and figure out why they are no good for you...\n\nFind someone else... Or tell them both that you have someone else, then see what happens...
317143
Why would he ever let his friends use your cell phone?  I think he is lying.  Call his ex and find out what is going on from her.
891002
To be honest your best off ignoring it if both you and your girlfriend trust each other this should not be an issue anyway. The ex is more than likely only doing it to annoy you hoping it will cause problems so don't rise to it. She is with you not him :)
922706
It sounds like you need to make the decision for him and break it off.  If he is still talking with his ex, then he is not over her and will not be able to fully commit to you or anyone else until he is.  It sounds like he needs to be taking care of his issues with his ex and not getting involved with anyone else until he has that figured out.  You sound more like his safety net than anything and if she was to call him back and tell him to come back to her, you would be dumped and he would be gone.
443620
She counts on you to tell him that she likes him... are you afraid if they go out that they'll break up and your caught in the middle?? (if you are add detail) and then they'll want you to pick sides? But if your friends are ok about the WORST term to here ,if your a girl or guy, "JUST FRIENDS" then I think you have great friends! Q-- are you and ur EX still friends!!??????
86275
ouch. sorry but it sound slike you have been lied to and played. that boy is having his cake and eating it too. he is screwing both of you over and probably making up different stories to tell both of you. you should find a way to call her and ask her. but i would definitely confront him, but he will probably tell you more lies. it sure sounds like he is with both of you, why else would he have made something up to tell her instead of just telling her it was over? and why does he spend time with her and go places with her and call her??? that is just crap!
947462
He's a good friend, and she is 'just' his girlfriend.  You are fully within your rights to take him for yourself.  Just convince him on a purely logical level, and then call her up and let her know that he's not with her anymore, or something like that.
767477
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
313934
I had that problem with my ex boyfriend. I love him more than he love me and he end up using me. I am not saying that your boyfriend is using you I just want you to be careful and don't put more in the relationship than him. When a boy see that you love him and know that you are willing to do whatever for him. They got you where they want you and then they will tend to use you. I promise you this being use by someone you love so much hurts like hell. I been there. Just slow down and don't call him as much as u was and let him do the calling. \n\nI wish you the best of Luck with your relationship!\nMs.T~baby:)
269133
It sounds like he still likes you.  If you guiys are still on speaking terms I think you should talk to him and ask him about all the shit hes been spreading.  If he's just mean, you might have to get your bf to avoid him and his friends or if the situation gets really desperate tell someone who has more control over him(your ex)
132566
i think its okay if you're okay with it. do you want to go back to your ex?  if so, talk to him about it first. commmunication is key.