hey guys,how would u feel  if you where trying hard to commit to a special girl, all she wants was friendship?
407420
I have had this happen. It is a disastrous feeling when you do all you can and the imposible to get to a person's heart and get the dissapointing mention of "just friends". Sometimes that friendship is lost sometimes it is made better. The final point is that people shouldn't do that and stop being so shallow. Everybody diserves a chance.
919514
i think the only reason y u feel guilty, which you shouldn't, is because she said no.  i and i do see her point.  it is really hard to go from friend to anything more.  you are in the friend zone.  but dont phase her out, that's just not cool, still be there for her and maybe she'll start seeing you in another light. and truthfully, i dont thing the friendship will ever be the same. it wont be totally weird but it wont be exactly the same, there's a happy medium in there but remember,  dont change at all. just be the same great friend that you seem to be! good luck!
101505
try to treat her right ... with all the jerks guys in this planets ; I started to sympathise the women .... make her feel good about being with you
495872
umm...this girl is not your friend. a friend is someone you can feel comfortable being around..someone you can trust. and obviously, this girl can't handle the fact that you like her. i think it was immature of her to say yes when you asked her out just because she "felt sorry for you," but to each their own. i don't think you need this girl as a friend or anything else.
82274
Hmm.. I can be your friend as long as you are not particular as to have only girls as friends :P
665071
i dont think she is ready to make a committment to you right now. unless you just want to be friends,you need to move on and meet someone else who you can have a deeper relationship with.
775301
some girls just make you feel great, isnt it a rush bro, too bad you nor i would prolly have the balls to tell them how they make us feel
562200
Even though it might be hard, or you might be shy, tell her how you feel in a non-stalker kinda way. most chicks dig guys who open up. if she doesnt like you the same way, she'll at least tell her friends how sweet you are, and that my friend, is a good thing.
854033
talk to her about exactly how you feel. give her a girlfriend gift that will mean very special to her. apologize and always make her laugh. i believe you're a true friend. good luck!!!! ; )
378339
It's hard when you want more than friendship from someone who isn't sure...and that is what this sounds like.  Just be patient...the best relationships start with friendship, don't push her...if it is meant to be, it'll happen!  If it isn't someone will come into your life when you least expect it and you will understand better why "this one" didn't work out!  Good Luck!!!
319727
I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend like you.  You cared enough about her to let her go and be happy.  I wish there were more ppl like you out in this world.  take care...
24632
If she just wants to be friends, then most likely she means that and there is nothing you can do to change the chemistry between you. Maybe if the friendship progresses, she'll be interested down the road.
595490
Sadly some girls need approval before they will go for something, sounds like once she realized this guy was something spectacular (because you put the seal of approval on him) she wanted him. \nLet her have him, its not worth ruining a friendship over. And be proud that you can develop an opinion w/o the need for someone elses appproval!
796770
I'm sorry things don't seem to be working out for you. but, in general, alot of younger people feel that way. I do very often myself. but, you have to remember that God always works out everything for good. and about the girl...she seems great now but you have no idea what she would be like as a girlfriend with you..and you don't need to know..there's a girl out there for you and if she's it..she isn't yet. she's your best friend's girl and you need to be a good friend. try going out to see movies with some other friends and immerse yourself in a book or something. the only way you're going to get through this is if you want to. if deep down inside you don't want to, you won't..
1159189
well, you are truly a friend to this girl... any other guy probably would've taken her up on the offer... i feel like maybe she feels like you maybe different from the rest being that you have a history together as friends.... have you tried explaining to her how you feel? let her know that you are not out just for what she has between her leg and you respect yourself and her more than that... i admire you for the fact that you didn't just jump at an opportunity but thought before you reacted.... this young lady seems like she has low self esteem and that she has to throw her body at people to find someone... men respect a woman for her being her not for her opening her legs... good luck and i hope she can find it in her heart to realize you are a true friend...
1182832
At first it feels like hurt thats what i felt i been i there but you must realize that if you love and she only likes then there is a difference in your equation i say just give her your all and let her know how you feel and if she doesnt apperciate it then still be friends but change your love to like cause love cant last forever with a girl that only likes
369407
The question really is "Do YOU want to go there?" Yes, relationships usually do work better if you are friends first...but the fact that you are asking makes me think that you have some doubt as to whether you like her enough to become romantically involved....