Question for the ladies. In what circumstances would you let a guy have a one night stand with you?
414389
1.lets see i would have to be single first of all,\n2.h*rney,\n3.just wanting some myself,\n4.he not be a man i could take home and brag about,\n5.lets go back to #2 here!
307779
well, I would pick you up five minutes prior to the date, just to let you know that i care, & then drive you to a fancy restaurant where the waiter gives you a menu choice of what wine you'd like to drink, particually a restaurnt with a romantic view, & then to a movie, it would have to be a good chick flick, & then bring you to a night life/market where I would find a cheap foreign street vendor who is taking pictures & pay him $5 for our picture together, & then find another cheap foreign street vendor who is selling roses & buy you one, & bring you home...safe & sound, then wait for you to call me back for another date...:D yes it would be like it is on Hitch, I would listen to everything you have to say to me...:)
182955
*Pondering a moment for I do not see the prob here* So ask the guy you are most interested in out. It is the Naughties (double zero decade you pervs so keep it clean) after all. Take the initiative and snag that guy...
902556
To be completely honest and open..I'd be a f*ckin w*ore. I would sell my self to whomever would care to buy me for the night and I would have as much sex as i wanted and then some!
695028
YOU SHOULD BE A TWO NIGHT STAND!!!\n\nthat makes you twice what his current floozies are worth!
415221
If you are under 18.....you probably shouldn't be having one night stands.  Talk to your parents about your impending, potentially life draining nymphomania.  You may need to make an appointment with a therapist.\n\nHowever, if you are over 18, this is fine...if he is cool with it.  You are an adult.  As a guy, I'm thinking....."this is one of the best things that's ever happened to me.....no strings attached....good, semi regular sex....this rocks!.....wait until I tell my boy Brian"\n\nOnly things to worry about are his friends....do not get involved with them.  That is a bad move, because (hopefully) you respect yourself..and to some degree, the guy who you're having (obviously) brain cell reducing, fluid draining, Olympic quality sex with.  \n\nThe other thing is the guy.  He may or may not respect you at this point.  I mean, if you are willing to give up the kitty for basically nothing, he may think he can do or say anything to you........although he probably won't.  What wants to be cut off from dynamite sex?  Still...be somewhat careful...make sure he is single!......wierdos are officially out there.  \n\nAnd use condoms - herpes doesn't go away with a bowl of chicken noodle soup.
772093
In my opinion you go with of course. That's what your guys' purpose IS to eachother, to keep eachother company through all the little events, and be the kind of company that is enjoyed the most amongst all others. And then have all the added benefits in the bedroom :) That simply put is my definition of being "with" somebody at least.
671183
WOW! WHAT A QUESTION. HOW CAN YOU PUT THE WORDS MEANINGFUL AND RELATIONSHIP IN A QUESTION ASKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND. THAT MAKES A LOT OF SENSE!
287145
Kind of like Hithere mentioned, but more specific.  If you just ask to hang out with him sometime that won't do anything.  You're missing a specific date and time in there and what to do.  The guy is just going to be like "Sure, let's hang out sometime." and that's it.  So you have to have something specific in mind.  "Are you free this weekend?"  Yes or no answer.  "Would you like to go to... with me?"  Again, yes or no.  "Cool, what time can I pick you up?"
365643
I suppose a one night stand is ok as long as both people understand the situation.
418677
One night stand.  Your a rebound, not in love
38460
One night stand?  Angelina!\nLong term relationship?  Jennifer!\n\n(Yeah, right, as if I'd ever have either choice...)
911785
Yeah, I have had a couple of one night stands. But that's just the thing. That's all the end up being. Because neither of you really has that much respect for each other and you just wanna "get your rocks off" so to speak. I am done with all that, I don't regret the things that I have done, but I have decided to change for the future, and not do it any more, not to mention it can be dangerous and risky for your health. \n\nI would advise against it. It will end up being pretty crappy sex anyway.
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If you've been together for 5 months, it hardly qualifies as a one-night stand.  If you're ready to have a sexual relationship with him, just be sure you've thought about all the possible consequences, such as pregnancy or STDs, and make sure you're protected.  You don't mention your age... and you haven't mentioned whether this will be your first time.  If it is, you should really think about whether you're ready to take that step.  Only you can decide, and don't let him pressure you into it if you decide you're not ready.
780913
uhmm i was in a position where i was in a awkward spot. i didn't have sex with more than one guy at a time..but they would have been game had i said yes. we were up watching a movie..and one of them kissed me and stuff..and then of course the other thought it was time for him to join in. \nwe didn't go all out and have sex, but i guess you could say there was some intimate contact..
956725
Anyone who really appreciated you and was looking for a long term serious possibility with you might consider telling his friends things like: how much fun you were, where he took you to dinner and/or movie, things that made him enjoy your company more than expected etc.  If he gave his buddies details of your intimacy the first night, he will probably trade you off soon, or his buddies will think you are fair game for them also since they already know what you might do for them also...RUN RUN RUN
259837
No way, what i have at home is TOO good to jeopardize. No Dude that i meet wherever could do the things my husband does for me. And one night stands are never really "all that" so why waste my time...