Is it wrong to want a man to be a man? I mean are there any real men out there anymore?
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I think there's just way too many women--strike that--men and women who are just looking out for themselves.  Because there is so many of them, many other people are getting bitter about it.  Maybe I've just had bad luck or something or I'm just running with the wrong crowd.
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That's the problem - boys... Not that when they become men it gets much better. But some mature. Get a good Christian man and your chances go up =)
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I think it is an odd relation from the begining a man must not inetiate any relation with another man, and again a man must not change his gender to become a woman !
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The army can really change a boy into a man. Although I would tell him this is something he SERIOUSLY needs to think through. There are a lot of things that may sound really good at first but then once you are actually there, you learn that there are a lot of bad things to follow. My husband is right now in Germany, while I sit here in the states. The army isn't as grand as it sounds like he may think. Just make sure, this is something he REALLY wants to do, because once you are in, there is no getting out.
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You are absolutely RIGHT!!!\n\nHowever, if we want a real change, we are the ones who have to take the first step.  Men behave the way they do because we let them.
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Okay... it's only wrong depending on how low you go...(In Age). but I look for older men, because they are more mature and self sufficient. So no, its not wrong.
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My friend thank you for having enough courage to ask this question.  There are answers.  We have had many just like you in Shattered Men ask this and they have found healing.  \n\nYou can start over again and become a new person.  PLEASE contact me
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I wouldn't want a woman either that looks like a guy, so I can agree with you on that. Other than that you should go for what's on the inside not outside. But I have a limit, if they look like a man then they aren't for me lol.
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Yes I do love being a woman! sory that you got the short end of the stick! maby next time little boy!
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When I was a young teen & would always wish I were a boy, simply because my father always talked of having a boy. But, hey, he got me for an only child! Anyway, once he was remarried & had two step-sons, it wasn't so bad.\n\nThe only other times I'd wish I were male was when I'd get called out for being too...whatever...there were many times when I was a teenager where my attitudes matched that of a male more than a female. As I grew older, however, I came to realize that I was simply a strong-minded female &, surprisingly, most men really found that attractive in a woman :) My husband certainly does, as did every man I ever dated.\n\nBy the time I was in my latter teens & early twenties, I was more than happy to be a female; except for the dreaded monthly thing. If you ask me, I think the men should get that every other month :)
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Being yourself is never wrong and do not let anyone tell you it is unless it hurts someone.  when men take girl's verginity...men congradualte eachother.  When a woman is made pregnant out of wedlock, people say it's cool anyway...and people sleep around like they are animals and they call this normal.....today's society is sick and morals corrupt...then you have the Christians who think they have the right to make rules and pass judgement on people.  Like they know the real God and he tells them to police the world...\n  Love is the most important thing in the world and being true to yourself is your priority because you have only one life and everyone else has their life to live too.  We are all in charge of our own life, our own spirit and soul, and to love and show compassion to others who are also trying to make it in this world that is hard and cruel sometimes...why make it harder than it has to be for yourself by trying to please others...you never can no matter how hard you try...someone will always tell you that you are wrong.\nBabies are born with genes that make them female or male and some are not either and some are a little of both. would God do this is he was going to condemn them? If you are lucky enough to find love, then appreciate it and do not worry about the rest of the world and it's rules.\nOur society ruins women and limits their potential. women are beat and die  daily.  Men are also expected to be macho and they are crushed when they can not be the "Man" the world feels is acceptable.  \nWhen are we going to accept eachother as we are and love eachother unconditionally? worship God in our own way and not according to someone's religion, and allow people to relax and breath freedom and be happy.?\nWe don't need shrinks and councellors and prozac and antidepressives...we need eachother and love and support of family...
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You're taking the wrong approach.  You're trying to get a guy to love you by being something you're not.  You should be looking for a guy who loves you for who you are.
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Err Joe that was a line.....not an answer LOL  This is funny!\n\nAs for you Matie, I believe the same thing is true for all of us.. we all want a 'man'.  I think the answer is in your 'activities' and what you are interested in.. find your passion and start 'joining clubs' that center around your passion.  I love birds, so I'd hit the bird clubs up ;)  (as an example for myself)
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You can be gay and still be masculine, just the same as someone can be straight and be feminine. There is nothing wrong with being gay. It sounds like you might be, and at the very least you could be bisexual.
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After reading some of the answers, there needs to be a bit of clarification.  Some men want to be, or inside feel like they were supposed to be, women--these are the transgenders or transsexuals.  They are in the process of transitioning.  In that process, they take hormones and possibly operations to give them feminine features.  Not all transsexuals make the complete change, removing their 'outboard motor' and having an 'inboard motor' installed.  Then too there are homosexuals (and not all transsexuals think of themselves as homosexuals), who not only want the feminine position in their relationships, but add a pair of embellishments that makes the matter a little confusing.  Commonly, the "shemale" is happy to have the female parts and persona while keeping the "outboard motor".  Not all who look like shemales are.
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No absolutely not. I wish there were more men like you. Who strictly wanted to be friends. You are just looking for an opinion from a woman's point of view. There is nothing wrong with that. There should be more men like you!
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The perfect man doesn't exist, but there must be thousands of reasonably good ones.\n\nKeep looking!