if a man is out of town alot,do u think he cheats or masturbates,but he says he loves his woman?
409164
Depends on the man.  I would say if the right opportunity arose, most men would consider "cheating" (there are, of course, many forms of "cheating").
852863
Definately!  Usually, to unfaithfulness the answer WOULD be no.  But it seems like he has a problem that he had identified, and he is seeking help for himself so he could be with you.  Definately stay with this man.  There is a very high chance of you finding someone else who will be unfaithful as well, but an even fewer chance of someone that is willing to do this to stop.
379400
No. I am in a great relationship and we both believe in exclusivity. I love him too much to cheat and I think he feels the same.
1142084
well.... it depends on the type of person he is, sometimes it does, sumtimez it duzn't, cuz he might be cheatin on u and u won't even suspect a thing becuz of da distance, but if he iz a real man, den he would keep it goin witchu
571805
I saw a private investigator on Oprah one day and he said that most men are caught cheating by the wife when she hits redial on the phone. Also check credit card receipts for florists, jewelers, etc...check the mileage on the car, unexplained longer distance? Does he shower immediately upon returning home from somewhere he shouldn't have gotten dirty? SMELL HIM-perfume, cigarette smoke and he doesn't smoke? Be aware of everything.
61157
Since i've never been unfaithful, i can't speak from experience. But, saying that, my ex-wife was unfaithful to me, alot. I big give away is lack of intimacy. If he doesn't want to touch you, there's something wrong. Strange phone calls that are secretive and at odd times. Does he have a good female "friend" or "mates" he often hangs out with, without you? Can you contact him at ALL times while he's away? Alot of mistrusting females i know check their man's mobile phone for odd calls and texts. Credit card statements for purchases is also a common one. I'm assuming you've talked to him about your concerns and he's denied all. You're still suspicious and don't quite trust him. A private detective could help if you're that concerned. I hope i've helped a little. :)
85859
i m not agree that man lie and cheat always their are many men who r vey honest and true in their realtionship some exception is always there bt u can not say that all men are same, its is possible with women too, i think when some one cheating or concealing something may be there is some reason behind it so if u believe ur beloved then ask him directly dont hesitate. or wait for some time may be he himself tell u everything at right time.so never distrust everyman there is lot of good people in this world
29306
I think some husbands cheat on their wives for the same reason why all men cheat... they want to see if the grass is greener in other pastures. They may not be getting the attention they want at home or they may simply just be jerks and not care about their wive's feelings.
128515
Let's see. If he lives long distant--no you can't. If he \n still has his profile on the dating site---no. If he's not returning your calls and not spending time with you--no.\nIf he keeps looking and flirting with other women---no. If\nhe acts wild and keeps lying to you---no. If he's on drugs\nor drunk too much--no. A woman has an intuition when some-\nthing is not right. So follow your instinct.
762902
HAHA, if you know 'for sure' he will never cheat then he's probably doing it right now, that's how it works (I'd explain but I think it would be irrelevant on this question). For me to be happy what I enjoy is not being told what to do everyday (I hate waking up & being told what Im doing that day), don't be a psycho, give me my space & trust me when I go out, & be a freak when the time is right.
334701
Im always a one woman-man...i never cheated in my life, because im always contented on what kind of love my man could give me...if you don't love the person anymore, we should be honest to that person...just don't use the reason that you have a bf/gf already...for those who are just fooling around, they'll soon find their match & they will end up in bad karma after all...good luck to them...
715466
Men fool around with other women because of how they feel about themselves with that other person. It doesn't matter if the wife is better looking or more successful. If she doesn't take care of ALL of her husbands needs and he feels like he isn't getting his "respect" and his ego isn't being stroked by her then he will go be with the one that makes him feel like a champ. While it isn't a justification for infidelity ; it nevertheless is the usual culprit. He is getting something from the other woman that he just isn't getting at home and that isn't always sex.
1113391
well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women. \n\nIf I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
1097552
alot just say it to get you to sleep with them, but if a man has interests with you outside of sex and says it then its highly possible that he really loves you....
777025
He is obviously attracted to you too, but maybe on the days that he acts professional and distant he is feeling guilty for thinking of cheating on his wife. On the days that he is flirty and suggestive, don't encourage that kind of behavior. That is the time for you yourself to become distant.
445557
First, you must believe that it is not about "you".  It is about him.  His pornography and masturbation have led him to compulsion and addictive behavior.  Pornography can destroy a person's ability to "make love". Some men try to tell their wives that the pornography is "priming" for a conclusion with them, but it is the priming that draws them back again and again, not the conclusion.  Some men say "all guys do it".  No they do not.  Especially when it gets to the point of addiction, and it is effecting the "real" relationship. I have always thought that if you have to hide what you are doing, then you must think it is wrong, or you feel guilty about doing it.  I think you have to treat it like any addiction, and get professional help.  First, the person has to admit there is a problem, and be willing to accept outside help.  Stop blaming yourself, and thinking you are not attractive and don't satisfy him.  It is not about you, it is about his "addiction".
1077387
She's a woman. Women need sex. She's away from you. Do the math, she's cheating. Just deal with it. They all cheat. It's just part of life.