I'm looking for ways to get my ex grilfriend back?
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I assume you both are living in the US and that she came here from Norway to study?\n\nThe most obvious reason for why a Norwegian girl of 23 years old would leave her American boyfriend is that she is here temporarily and plan to go back to Norway after she graduates. In this situation she might have made the decision not to get too attached to one particular guy (even before she met you). It would take more than what you are probably used to from American girls to start a truly committed, longterm relationship.\n\nTo get her back you will have to convince her that you are "the one". If you think it's unlikely that you will stay together forever, let it go....\n\nGood luck!\n\nNorwegian girl still living in the US (arrived here when I was 23)
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Depends on why you lost her.  If it was something you did, make her realize that you've changed.\nDo every single thing you can think of to show her that you love her and you want her back.  Send her flowers, send her emails, write her poetry, mind you...this is a fine line between showing love and becoming a stalker.\nGood luck
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The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
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good luck. try to win her back.
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my ex did that, i took him back several times. \n\nmy advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
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Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you
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Just call her.  If she is willing to listen to you, then you could talk about what happened between you two.  If you miss talking to her, she just might be missing you too.  Good luck.
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Show her the new you, show her what she has been missing for those two years!! \nCharm her\nAnd BE YOU!!!
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Look in the phone book under Legal Aid. That's where I would start. My sisters soon to be Ex pulled the same garbage but didn't get away with it.
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To get back at her, simply do nothing. By doing something that would make her crumble, you yourself will be a part of that mess and would not be pleasant if it was known that you did something or that you had even plotted against her. Eventually, she will reach a breaking point since nobody is truly perfect (no matter how close it seems). She probably has already annoyed other people to the point of abandonment.\n\nOverall, just ignore her. Try and try. You need to be the one to take her place :]
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You want her back bro. This is man to man sh*t here. Blow her off. Seriously, just trust my advice and blow her off. Pretend you are on and better off and she will see that and realize you are intriguing to her again and she will start talking to you again. But play semi hard to get with her. Take it like you don't give a damn about nothing and if you 2 ever get together again it doesn't make a differance to you. But try to be exciting around her. Do something you normally wouldn't do. Take a chance and make sure she sees it or knows about it. You can handle it. Woman are complex creatures but once you know how to get through to them, you are golden for life. Well until they catch on to your knowledge of their ways.
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Five Ways To Win Her Back\n\nAdmit it: You messed up. You said or did something to drive away the most beautiful girl in the world, and now you want her back. But here's the rub: She's moved on, or at least appears to be going on with her life, living and loving it up with guys who happen not to be you. So what do you do to get back into her good graces without completely throwing your pride out of the window? How do you repair the rift and still remain a "man's man"?\nReach Out\n\nYears ago, a guy would have had to stumble through an uncomfortable phone call or write an embarrassing letter to reestablish the lines of communication with his lost love. These days, sending your ex an email is the easiest way to go. It's a quick and modern way to exchange light-hearted communications and your girl won't think you're groveling if you dash off a quick: "How's it going?"\nBe Contrite\n\nI know, I know. Admitting you're wrong is sometimes hard to do, but this simple technique goes a long way in showing a woman that you care. After you've reestablished the lines of communication, drop a few hints. Phrases like: "I'm sorry I said that" or "I didn't mean for that to happen" cause a woman to want to listen more to what you say to her. By the time you swoop in for the kill, she'll be ready. Unless of course you really screwed up ...\nBe Available\n\nIf you followed the methods above, the two of you should at least be on friendly terms. The next way to get her to warm to you is by showing her that you're there. If she needs a ride somewhere, take her; if she's moving, handle the biggest of the boxes; if she's fighting with her mom, listen to her whine about it.\n\nMaking yourself available doesn't mean taking over the role of "girlfriend". It means that when the girl you love has a problem, or needs a shoulder to cry on, it'll be your shoulder she cries on - not some other guy's.\nBe Busy\n\nWait! Didn't I just say to be available? Isn't that a contradiction? Not at all. Even though you're following the rules to get her back, you don't want her to know that you're trying to get her back--not just yet anyway. Go out with your buddies and continue your normal activities. That way, when you speak with her, you'll have funny stories to tell and new things to add to the conversation. If you're waiting by your phone or surfing the 'net checking your email every five seconds, then you'll have no great adventures to impress her with. And then she'll think you're lame.\nBe old-fashioned\n\nYour ex should be on her way to being your "next" again. Once things have progressed and you're sure she likes you again, ask her out. Think hard: what does she like to do? Perhaps your lady doesn't like the usual movie/dinner/clubbing scene--in that case, get creative. If she likes theme parks, rekindle those flames on her favorite roller coaster. If she's a reader, find out when her favorite author is in town and take your ex to see them. Is she a horror film buff? Take her to a film festival or rent the classics and stay in for the night. Make sure you've got her favorite snacks and drinks on hand.\nBe yourself\n\nDespite everything listed above, all a guy really has to get back with his ex is, well, himself. Turn on at full speed whatever you had that made her want you the first time. Remind her of how great things were in the beginning. Mention highlights that give the both of you good feelings. Don't be afraid to let her know that you had some of your best times with her, and that you wouldn't mind having more good times.\n\nWhile you think it might be easier to hold onto your pride, move on and forget about the one who got away, why chance it? Listening to your friends who think you're a big jerk for trying to work things out will just keep you alone, or w
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Well, you need to consider a few things first.  Did your ex read the emails?  What were your emails about?  Was there anything that would make your girl think that you were trying to get back with your ex?  Were you lying to your girl?  Did you tell her about the emails or did she catch you "red handed"?\n\nThe best thing you can do is to be honest.  Tell her the situation...the whole truth.  It may take a while for her to trust you, but she may be willing to work with you.  If she does not want to listen or does not want to forgive you, you may just have to let her go.  If she can't trust you (when you tell her the truth), then the relationship can not work.  If you've ever lied to her, you will have to rebuild that trust.  Good Luck.
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If it wasnt through court than you can get her back easy just go and get her tell your ex's sister your sorry but you want your daughter to grow up with her mom and if she give you any problems about it call the law and they can get her back for you if you wrote it down and signed it than there may be a problem and you may have to go to court to get your daughter back but if not just go there and get your daughter back and enjoy her while you can Good LUck
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You say that you want to know how to get her back, and you know that she is making a mistake....well my friend I think that you need to give it time.  She needs to be able to come to the conclusion on her own that she made a mistake, and that this other guy is not the one for her it simply is not something you can coerce her into.  If you try, you will do nothing more than to drive a larger wedge into your already shattered relationship.  Give her space and time to miss you, and if she doesn't then you have your answer but she can't miss you if you continue to cling to her.\n\nAlso, I think something that you might need to consider as well is would you ever be able to move past her betrayal of you trust?  After all she did start another relationship before ending the one with you first.  \n\nOne other thing to consider is that perhaps your lives are just taking two different paths at the moment.  Maybe she felt that she wanted someone more inline with her own personal goals and aspirations.
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Don't know your circumstances but I will tell you what worked (eventually) for me. \n1. Pretend your ex has died. Sounds severe but forces you to forget about "getting back together".\n2. Make yourself absolutely un-available to the ex. Take comfort in knowing they will miss you. Be a mystery.\n3. Rid yourself (or at least attempt to) of your worst personal defect. Are you overweight? Any addictions? Unemployed? In debt? Pick one and do what it takes to fix it.\n4. Don't take heartbreak or the break-up too personal. I personally think testosterone (and estrogen)cause insanity.\n5. Remember this: You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved.The rest is up to them. Go to link below for more like this.\n6. Above all, do something positive, for you.
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You should try Friends Reunited. Good luck :-)