should I trust my friend or my boyfriend?
412637
I SAY TRUST YOUR FREIND YOU MAY NOT WANT TO RITE NOW BUT BELIVE ME IT WILL BE BETTER FOR YOU IN THE LONG RUN I HAVE HAD THE SAME EXPERIANCE AND I WAS STUPID AND BECAUSE I CHOOSE THE BOYFREIND OVER THE BEST MATE OF 7 YEARS I HAVE NOT SEEN HER SINCE, I MISS HER LIKE CRAYZE AND WISH I COULD APOLOGISE
835761
I was suspicious of my ex... and he was a cheater.. which is why he is my ex  :)   Go with your gut feelings.. and if you can't trust someone, you shouldn't be with them. It will never work if there isn't honesty in the relationship and you will drive yourself crazy worrying about what he is doing..good luck.
196498
You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.
191896
I went through this myself, and the best advise I can give you is to let it roll off your back.  If your friend who is/was your  best friend believes someone over you than she was never your best friend to begin with.  The other girl who is lying, sure it would be nice to call her out, show who she really is, but then again, your friendship with BF will never be the same anyway, now the trust is broken.  As hard as it may be you should just try to get past this betrayal and find another healthy friendship with someone else. Sometime when we are in relationship rather they be romantic, or just friendships, we discover one side has stronger feeling than the other.  Never sell yourself short.  You seem intelligent, I doubt you will have any trouble finding a new buddy!! Good luck to you!!!!
70542
I have a girlfriend, and I've felt like "jumping" (lol) someone before because they're being a pain and flirting with my gf or whatever... Anyways, from personal experience I would say he DOES trust you... But that guy's intruding into your relationship so he has to "protect" that... It's kinda hard to explain but I think he does trust you, it's just natural to get jealous and want to do something about it... (not that I recommend he jumps this guy lol)
1182861
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
354095
If you chose to go out with him that is your choice. However know that you might get hurt. Go into it knowing what your expectations are and let him know and do not expect more out of him then you think you can handle.\nI think it would be much easier to be with someone you can trust though that is just my opinion
188738
I WOULD PICK MY BEST FRIEND. WHY WOULD SHE LIE TO YOU?, AND OF COURSE HE IS GOING TO "SWEAR" THAT HE DIDN'T BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT YOU FIND OUT. YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BEST FRIEND BY STAYING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND WHO SHE SAYS IS A "CHEATER", AND YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BOYFRIEND BY CHOOSING YOUR BESTFRIEND WHO HE SAYS IS A "LIAR". DON'T BE BLINDED BY LOVE, AND REMEMBER TO LOOK AT THE FACTS, BECAUSE EVERYTHING WILL COME OUT EVENTUALLY. YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE ULTIMATE DECISION.GOOD LUCK!!
351231
Don't pay attention to your friend. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I am sure your friend means well, but don't pay attentio to her. you need to go by what it is that you feel and what your heart is telling. \n\nIf you feel that there is a problem, you should talk to your boyfriend about it.
805743
I  don't think  it's  so much about what YOU do,  as about what  this  friend of yours  is  doing,  and what  your boyfriend is doing.    If she is openly enticing him, and he is not making any  attempt to  hide the fact that he's responding to it,  I'd suggest   that neither one of  them cares about you as much as you thought they did, in which  case  the smart thing might be to let them have each other and good riddance.     Better to know now if your boyfriend has a roving eye,  than find it  out after he has become your husband.  And better to find out now  that  your "friend"  is disloyal,  so you can dump her and get one who is.
656632
Well untill your boyfriend feels as excepted as your friend there will always be that jealousy, us guys are funny that way for example when you fight with your boyfriend you usually talk to your friend, Yes? So that right there your turning to your friend and not your boyfriend, thats one.\nYou don't fight with your friend like you do your boyfriend, that's two. So bottom line your boyfriend thinks you treat him better than you your boyfriend because there are hardly no arguments between you and your friend and there is between you and him. Now you and I both know one is just a friend and the other you love but to us guys even if this were explained to him he still won't see it that way. So for a while and your friend will understand if you explain to him (funny how that works) tell your friend to stay low key until your boyfriend feels secure in the relationship and to try and understand us guys can be real immature sometimes.
457675
you don't really have to choose between your bf and your friends, they belong to different parts of your heart, so to speak. but you do need to balance your priorities. sometimes your bf will need you more than your friends will and vice versa. good luck with the joggling act!
193498
no its not cheating, cheating is if you go out with both of them and they didnt know and all that stuff. wat u did was nothing. if ur boyfriend doesnt trust you,than he doesnt deserve you. dump him. go out w/ someone else (not his cus,only if u want to make him jelous)
92539
If youlove your boyfriend then you stay with him but make sure that the other dude kinda knows whats up in case anything goes wrong with you current dude.  thas what i would do if i was a chick.
656836
Assuming you meant Cheating not cheaping :o) \n\nThe first question you need to ask, is to ask yourself who is more trustworthy in this situation your friends or your boyfriend? \n\nThey may know that he is sneaking around behind your back or your friends may just want to mess your relationship with your boyfriend on purpose. \n\nThen second ask your friends why they think he is cheating on you (Do they have proof? Seen him with others? Who?) and if they do you need to ask your boyfriend if what you have heard is true.
964090
OMG! well then talk to ur boyfriend adn confirm if it's true. then, tell him to fix everything. as for ur friends, ruining a friendship over a guy is so low.,as for u, yes u r caught in the middle because u have responsiblity on both parties, they are both ur friends and it invovles ur boyfriend so what u can do is be the pacifier, pacify the rift if ur friendship really matters to u adn if ur friends are still acting that way, talk to them and ur bf. say what u want and mean what u say., all that stuff.,
526579
I would try to balance the two. Just remember, boyfriends come and go, friends are forever. No one should ask you to choose though. I always try to be fair on both sides. Nothing worse then when a friend ignores their friends to be totally with their boyfriend.