How do I tell my boyfriend that I dont want to be with him anymore and that the relationship isn't working?
400582
First of all, DON'T tell him by the phone or text message 'cause that is just cruel. You also have to explain to him the reasons why you're relationship is not working maybe he's noticed it too and he'll agree with you and hopefully you guys can stay as friends.
728052
Grow up,\nAccept the fact that he doesn't want to be with you,\nGive up,\nMove on,\nFind a new boyfriend,\nGet dumped,\nRepeat.
930477
Tell him that a break up is not what you wanted and you realise how much you really love him and it has taken this break up for you to really see how much you want the relationship to work ...... Good luck
1128014
It's obvious that you need to tell him that you're not compatible. Honesty would be the best way to let someone know you're not feeling them. You shouldn't necessarily go into the drug-use and the ignorance unless he leaves you no choice. If he pulls a dumb-one and tries to act as if you're doing something wrong by telling him that you're not interested in him anymore, then let him know what exactly you're trying to say. He should get it then. Good luck with this.
932667
i think you seriously need to tell your boyfriend how unhappy this is making you, and if he cares about you, he will listen and tell her to f**k right off
1128024
put an end of this relationship if it hurts you this way...seriously...try to get your life back...simply tell him "I want to break up. I can not stand anymore of your "friend to talk with"...I do not like secrets, there should not be any secrets between us...try to learn something from this...bye  bye forever"...and really bye-bye...or else you would live like this forever...my friend lives like that...and I know how you feel...for your own good, let him forever, he will not change, trust me...I am a little hard on you, you do not know me, but I do want to help you and all women that live like this...YOU DESERVE a person that is devoted to you, that adores you, that tells you everything that happens to him, that lives for you (and you for him, of course)...you would like this, don't you?...I thought so...you just need some courage...
517359
tell him that you arent ready for a relationship or that its not a good time for you.
956907
Be honest. Say something like "I have no particular reason for not wanting to see you again, except that I really don't feel you are right for me."
83304
Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Dont tell him he cant hang out with him but ask him to make an attempt to spend more ALONE time with you.
831780
Be honest and tell him that you don't want to go with him.
865831
You should give him the same exact respect you would want him to give you...but I have a feeling you have already gone beyond where that line is with you.\nSit down with him.  Tell him how much he has meant to you, but that you have changed and he doesn't mean that anymore.  Be honest, the worst thing you can do to yourself is lie.\nI would caution you on one thing though-the new relationship is always going to seem exciting-at first.  Then it becomes just another relationship.  Don't keep the current guy hanging on while you find that out.  Since you betrayed his feelings, it is better for him if you move out now and be honest with him.\nI am not judging you harsly, it just sounds that way.  I have been on  BOTH sides of this arguement so I know what you are feeling and I know what he is going to go through.  \nJust be a good person about it, as good as you can anyway.
554346
Lay it out, tell him you don't want to be with him. You deserve better doll, don't ever let a guy make you feel like you can't be a real woman. Just tell him straight out. You don't even need a reason.
1063580
You can't, really, if they don't want to be with you. I'm going through the same thing too, and the best thing is to just say how you feel. I did, and things are okay, I guess, but we haven't talked since them but i see him tonite. But yea, don't make up cheesy bullsh*t, just tell 'em flat out how it is. Good luck!
761299
if you have already talked to him about the problems you are having (you should have already if you havent) then tell him that, the reason you are breaking up with him is because of those problems, and nothing has changes. be honest with him dont be too hard but dont be too easy. if your with someone you dont want to be with then end it the longer your together the harder it will hurt.
99902
COMMUNICATION... Let him know what you want out of the relationship. After all, you don't want to waist your time,or his. Then again, who cares about his?
371222
Tell him "Hey, I'm breaking up with you".  Simple enough.
492792
Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same, then tell him you need to walk away from the situation because you're too emotionally invested for it to continue the way it currently is.