how does one lead the perfect life?
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Do you mean the perfect life that society wants you to live?\nThat's easy:..get married, have kids, don't drink, don't smoke, becomes a good christian/or whatever religion./never divorce/have a seemingly happily ever after life until you die\n\nOr your very own perfect life?\nLearn to accept the bad along with the good. We always want more than what we have. We always only see what we want to see. You yourself determine your destiny. No one else. If you think that you have a perfect life, you will. If you think you are a screwup, then you are one. There is no one right answer to this question.
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As soon as you are prepared:\n\nFINANCIALLY \nTo become the provider of the family.\n\nEMOTIONALLY\nTo accept responsibility as a husband and later as a father.\n\nSPRITUALLY\nTo guide your family to truth and righteousness.\n\nPHYSICALLY\nTo be physically fit to work and to bear children and to take care of them (with your wife).\n\nINTELLECTUALLY\nTo share your talents and skills to your family and to your community.\n\nFor men, this can be around 25 to 30 years old...I got married at 26...Welcome to the Club!!!
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Set your goals, high and your standards higher. Never give up. and always believe in yourself. If you do this, no amount of money in the world will make you happy. Because you will find the true happiness with in.
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accept yourself for who you are and always try to do what's right.\nUnderstand too, that you can never stop learning and try to be the best in everything you do, without the expectation of ever BEING the best.\nAlso, realise that one person can change the world and life really is what you make it.\n\nEvery cloud has a silver lining and there is always something to learn from every situation, no matter how good or bad it is, to help you grow.\n\n\nAll the best.
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It is very simple because the seed of the success is often born in your mind.So you have to do following 6 steps to achieve it.\n\n1) Make a broad vision to your life.\n2) Apply a pragmatic process to reach the goals you made.\n3) Do a great dedication on the goals you created.\n4) Keep a good human relationship.\n5) Live in a calm environment.\n6) Often try to give up the ill thoughts you get into your mind. It will be helped by the meditation and  do it twice a day to hold a calm mind. The suitable times for this  are when you get from the bed and when you go to the bed.\n\nIf you are able to follow this process, the success of you life will be certainly brought to your doorstep. To learn more about this matter, please read my profile.
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""..oh to have it all to do over again.."..follow your dreams,[life is short], but be willing to go where life leads you [enjoy the adventure]. understand that there are many rds that lead to "happiness". and it is "happiness" that we all strive for. be honest, be kind , be respectfull and generous. do what you say you will do, be an honorabl person. this will give meaning  to your life in what everyou do.  enjoi the rd of life and "take time to smell the rose".... oh to have it all to do over agin, alas
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everything cant go perfectly!! there has to be something different in your life, if everything goes right then there would be no excitment in your life.you have to have twist nd turns or you will get bored of life and you will get tired of everything going right, you will purposly do somthing back to make it go bad.
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You just described why.\n\nBe yourself.  Don't try to live up to other peoples expectations of you, whoever they are.  Create expectations (goals) for yourself!  Live up to them, re-assessing as needed along the way.\n\nStrive to be a caring, purposeful, dedicated individual.  Develop your own likes, talents, gifts and character.  Like-minded individuals will be drawn to you.  Don't waste your time on the other riff-raff just to be with someone.\n\nTrying to live up to other peoples expectations ... be it in life, career, sex, relationship, friendship ... stifles and frustrates.  Living up to your own expectations of yourself, in behaviour, goals, life ... sets you free!\n\nGo for it!!
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There is nothing in the universe to make a human being 100 percent happy and satisfy.We pretend to be happy and satisfied.Thats why we hope & dream ,we work, we try our best ,we look forward for more love,more money ,more comforts.If once you achive everything in your life then you'll find no meaning no lead your life.The only thing you require to make or become happy and satisfied in married life is heartful love - we know love conquires everything.And the secondary things are sacrifice and adjustment.If your question points to physical matters then you should know that physically a man or woman can attract his / her partner at best one year.Thanks
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Do everything you can for others and ask nothing in return\nDon't harm anyone or anything, including yourself\nLearn everything you can and make well informed decisions\nBring joy to people and do good things\nuh... hugs not drugs...  lol
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All you can do is to be the best person you can be and to live a good life.  You can encourage your children, friends and family to also being what they can to make this world a better place, but you must understand that it is their choice.
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Do your best everyday, dedicate everyday as much as you can, print you own style in everything, believe in yourself, enhance the value of what you do and you are ... \nIn the way you will prosper...
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EVERYTHING....NOTHING.....BUILD A MAJOR "WORLDLY-BUSINESS"...\nSHOVLE SAND AGAINST THE SEA....BUILD FOUNDATIONS TO SHACKS ON THE BEACH  OR   ON  GRANITE MOUNTAINS.......ADVANCE TO A "HIGHER" PLATEAU OF MIND-STRUCTUER...AND MENTAL FULLFILMENT........ANYTHING THAT, THAT PERSON WISHES TO DO..\n[AND WILL WORK AT IT]...[TO OBTAIN THAT SUCESS]...OR NOT A "DARN" THING.......AND WILL DO "JUST" WHATEVER "THEY" WISH TO DO...WITH  OR  WITHOUT  THAT "SHEEP-SKIN"......OR...\nJUST SIT IN A DARK CORNER AND LET THE WORLD PASS "THEM" BY.... AS "THEY" VEGITATE  AND MELT INTO  "OBLIVION"......\n"THAT" DEGREE CAN BE YOUR LOST LOVE FOUND...OR...YOUR...."NOTHING TO YOU AT ALL"....IT'S ALL UP TO YOU.....GOOD LUCK.....WITH WHAT EVER YOU CHOOSE TO DO....\nWITH YOUR "DEGREE"....AND ALSO WHAT EVER IT IS THAT YOU "DO"\nCHOOSE TO DO WITH YOUR ...."LIFE".
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Think positive, have faith, move on.\n\nRemember that living is NOT an option, but it is a blessing. \n\n\n"For us to have complete satisfaction and contentment in life is not counting what we have, but knowing what we can lose if we let go..."
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Live Life, Love, and be Happy.  I found my success and happiness through Jesus.  Maybe you will too.  My lifes direction is answered in prayer.  When I feel confused or uncertain I ask the Lord for guidance, there is always an answer, though sometimes it may not be easy, there is always a way to acheive my goals. \nBefore I asked Jesus into my heart my life was a MESS; I was broke, miserable, and lonely.  Now I own my own business, met (and married) the love of my life, and now get to do something I once only "dreamed of" doing,..to travel extensively.
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There is NO perfect person. This society has us running around thinking we need to meet THEIR expectations. The only persons expectations that matter are your own.
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Choose to be happy.  Do good to others.  Stay Healthy.