I almost lost the love of my life what can I do to impress her  and to show how much i really care?
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There is more to it than you just not paying enough attention to her, but I will let that be.  Pick a weekend when the two of you can be alone together. You know what she really likes to do, so schedule that activity for one day.  You will of course have to have someone take care of the children.  You need to be at least 100 miles from your home.  Get a cabin in the woods or a nice hotel room.  Have flowers waiting in the room when you get there. Have a small gift for her that would really mean a lot to her.  It does not need to cost you a fortune, just get something totally frivolous that she wants , but would never buy for herself.  Pamper her in every way that you can think of.  While she is sitting on a couch or bed, kneel down in front of her and tell her how much you truly love, need and want her.  Tell her that even though you do not say it enough and definitely do not show it enough, that you love her more than anything else on earth.  Good luck!
165544
it sounds like you are doing really well, but what you need to do is worry less about impressing her and more about making yourself happy. if you are improving yourself for your own well-being, she will recognize that and in turn, will be impressed. don't try so hard, sweetie. be you.
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Time heals all wounds, friend. Do what you have to in the meantime. If you need to cry, cry a little. If you need to drink, drink a little (a little is the key word; don't need a booze problem on top of this)\n\nEventually you will find that your life goes just fine without her. There is no easy answer that's gonna make you forget her tomorrow. Love is tough; I've been there..\n\n\n***EDIT\n\nThe above posters are right. You will NEVER forget her completely, but you will be able to avoid the pain; that's important..
170644
Wow...I am so sorry about this. How horrible for you. You must know in your heart that she simply has been lied to or misled about you, right? (deep down?) Listen to your heart...you probably know she would love you if she knew you, and she may already love you even without knowing you. I think the only thing you can do is pray sincerely. (I'm serious) Ask God to somehow make a way for you to get to know her...and maybe write her a letter, explaining how much you love her. You will probably need to be on the giving end at this point, and maybe for a long, long time until she is able to see and respond to your love. Don't give up. Love always wins. Be patient, and love her in as many ways as you can...my heart is so touched by your story. I wish there was something more I could say or do to help you...Good luck.
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Tell her you want a "do-over".  Explain that you weren't at your best and you want another chance to get it right.\n\nThen make sure you do it up well when she says yes - bring her flowers, treat her like royalty, etc.  Let her know that she did the right thing by giving you another chance.
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Focus more on your feelings for her than how you think she will respond.  It is best when it's all over that you can look back and say "I was honest with my own heart" no matter how it turns out instead of "I wonder what would have happened if.." and never know.  It is more about you doing what you know you want to do to express your feelings that stressing over how she will respond.. keep that focus and go for it.  If she says no, pat yourself on the back for trying and live to love another day.
233542
Do something great. Or just be there for the one you care about. You can always be your girlfriend's hero.
895865
Hi Che,  The way you ask the question with all the information, You both sounded like a happy couple. I don't think you did anything wrong,(if you didn't leave something out). She is very confused about her love for you,or she has found someone else to replace you.It's one or the other. I would find a nice girl who know's what her feeling are. That way you don't have to go through this again. Your right us girls don't all do this.I have a old man and i would never do this to him. Good Luck My Friend.\n\n  Clowmy
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That is why we have a saying look before you leap. I also learned from a seminar that we should breathe deeply, relax and count to 3 before saying things especially when you are mad or anxious. These are times when we say things abruptly that seem to be right at that moment but realize after that the words that we said could have been said in a better way.\n\nThis should be a good lesson to you. With regards to your problem, Having said sorry and making her feel you are sincere should be enough. It is now up to you if you want to win her back by starting from scratch. Earn her trust again and make her fall in love with you again. If not, move on.
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if a girl  asked this question, i will answer it the same way,  u cant force love on someone  and yet u can wake up ur loved one by showing her that u are not scared to move on without her.  i think when someone falls out of love, the worst that u can do is to tug on her sleeves to stop her from leaving you.  be strong and show her that u are.strong....don't sacrifice ur dignity and self respect for love...if u think she is making a mistake...i think she might be...then that's her loss, not yours.
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I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
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Depends on why you lost her.  If it was something you did, make her realize that you've changed.\nDo every single thing you can think of to show her that you love her and you want her back.  Send her flowers, send her emails, write her poetry, mind you...this is a fine line between showing love and becoming a stalker.\nGood luck
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lots of love and attention. Hold her hand in public tell her how special she is dont forget to kiss her goodbye and dont forget to tell her you love her everytime your apart.Wine and dine her in the new dress you just bought her. i think you get my jist babe good luck xx
91930
Hello, the best thing you can do is show more interest in her if you feel she's lost a bit of interest in you. Maybe she's feeling a little neglected. First try surprising her with some little things - a rose left under her pillow, buy her her favourite chocolate bar or magazine. The smaller things are worth more than grand gestures! Ask her how she's feeling and LISTEN. If this still doesn't work then you've got to ask her what's up - maybe it's nothing to do with you, she might be having other problems. Most importantly, tell her you love her:-) Hope this helps a little
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Why are you lost? Why don't you know yourself? You just lost someone important in your life, not your life itself pal.\n\nYou are a great guy, strong, full of love, joy, you are an honorable man, you are funny, you are cool, you are a man that can make any girl happy. What happened in the past with your ex is stuff of the past, LET IT GO. If she didn't appreciated all what you offered her, all that good stuff, IT IS HER FAULT, NOT YOURS.\n\nAnd you are wrong, even her cannot do a single thing to you, THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU. And why are you going to hang out there for a little while to see what people say? You know yourself, you have been living with your self all your life, you know what kind of man you are, you know where you have your nuts buddy!\n\nPain, lots of pain. Pain might lead you to two things: (1) more pain --> death, or (2) victory. Wars involve pain and death, but pain and death leads to victory to the one that is stronger and smarter; and I think that you are from the side of the strong and smarter ones. How do I know it? Because I don't spend my time writing to losers.\n\nStand up and start walking...
435674
Than try to call her and tell how you feel in a matter of wanting her back winning her back i suggest you to do it inmmidiately until she finds another person!!! :)
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Wow, buddy, it sounds like you really did screw up.  That sucks for you.  If you truly want to try and make things work with this woman, slow down.  She's probably really hurt right now, and she doesn't feel like she can trust you.  Start with little things, like a sweet email.  Send her an ecard to apologize.  Show her by your actions how much you regret what happened, because we all know actions speak louder than words.  The biggest thing, though, is to back off if she asks you to.  It may hurt like Hell, but you could earn some of her respect back if you comply with her wishes.  Best of luck in finding your answer.  I hope this helped even a little bit.