my best-friend wants to go out with my other best-friend but he's scared?
399222
Let your two friends deal with it themselves. When a friend gets in the middle of two other friends, bad things usually happen, the least of which that one or more of the friends are friends no longer.\n\nJust stay out of it.
602047
Ask her if its ok to go out with him. After all, its her ex and its wise to ask as certain people find it unsettling to see their ex's going out with another person already even if its with their best friend. It also depends upon how long they have been seperated. If it was quite long ago, ask her else look out for someone else.
136993
i know exactly where you are coming from.  remember, us guys like girlfriends.  for the longest time i was in the same situation as you (up until a few months ago).  i never did get the courage - she told my friend who told me.  if you really think you cant ask him with the fear of rejection you could ask a friend of him and you to ask him casualy if he would go out with you.  hope i helped - goodluck
597962
well if u r not afraid to hurt your bestfriend then take him from her wat have u got to lose well u might lose your friend but if u think about doin wat i said then just remember that if u get him aand yall go out and brake up you will probblay hate him and since u lost your friend who do u have? but if u dont fight for him then u wil have your bestfriend 4ever hope this helps
562790
chill out- wait for them to come to you.. jumping into relationships is a bad idea.. they will never turn out the way you want them to.. find the guy that makes you feel right, the one your comfortable around and the one u can talk to about anything.. and if thats your best friend.. talk to him and let him know what ur feeling.. and maybe see if he wants to give it a shot to.. if its not ur best friend then wait.. it will come eventually!
925515
Get rid of the one that went out with your friend, because it will only get worse.  Stay with the one you realy love, because he may give love back to you, which will make you feel good outside and in.
926937
Listen sweetie, no matter how much you may trust a person that is your best friend something will go down that may cause them to stab you in the back. I don't know if it is supposed to happen or what but all I got to say is keep your guard up. Just don't trust everyone or anyone with your most deepest secrets, feelings, or thoughts.
691070
Let your best friend hanging out with whoever she/he wants, it's your right too to hang out with other friends despite of your best friend like it or not. You cannot force your best friend not to be friends with people you don't like, if you do force, then your relationship is over.
540348
yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
1117606
This used to happen to me all the time when i was younger.  I used to call myself the messanger because i would feel obligated to run around playing he said she said.  Dont allow it to happen.  Just tell them that its not your place to be stuck in the middle and it makes you feel very uncomfortable when it comes to choosing one or the other because its not fair and if they make you feel that way or push you to choose the "best friend" of the two then they really arent freinds and are not taking your feelings into concideration.  Just tell them its none of your business, its not your fight and you would rather keep to yourself.  you dont have to pick either or, hang with one friend one day and the other the next.  if one starts talking bad about the other let them know straight up that you dont want to get caught up in the situation and whatever they say about the other isnt going to make you like the other any less.  if the refuse to stop just leave!\n\nabout the boy part, guys do not fight over silly things like i had it first or i saw him first.  Guys are cool and actually listen to what you have to say, especially if its about friends or what you like or want to do when you get older.  guys think girls are interesting and thats the cool part about it because even if you feel a little awkward at first they always have a way to make you feel like its  ok its only natural to conect with people of the opposite sex even when a relationship isnt involved.
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
768141
I have been in a similiar situation. The "pops" will not stay ur friend forever your best friends WILL! it is okay to hang out with them but not so much that ur best friends r jealous. Mayb try to balance ur time until u find out want u want. U could try having a party with both of them invited and c how it goes. It could work and b fun but b careful.
497440
if you guys are best friends then there might be a chance that he might be thinkin the same way as you. build the courage and just tell him your feelins. if he's really your best friend then he wont hate you, or avoid you.
1035854
wall u need to tell hem that Ur friendship means a lot to u. And u don't wont to Mass that up with mixed feelings of going out. And if he cant accept that than i should just walk a way.
877233
Nothing to fear but fear itself..find out what your friends do and go with them.  A true friend will be there for you and will want to spend time with you not only at school but also out.  Maybe they don't ask because you've given them the impression you don't want to go anywhere.
249545
If your best friend does not want to date you, then chances are that he does think your boyfriend is not good enough for you.  Think about it.  How many time have you seen the nice girl dating the bad guy?  We've all seen it.  Some think the bad boy is fun or really a sweety underneath.  Is this you?  If it is then your best friend is a good guy.  He is trying to protect you.  The fact is that it is your decision.  You'll have to tell him you need to "agree to disagree."\n\nIf your best friend does want to date you, then that is a whole different story.  You may need to choose.\n\nGood luck!