(CS Lewis...) So your getting drunk with Ransom... Do you trust him or bash his head in at the 1st chance?
409685
I would probably trust him. Professors tend to be pretty harmless, even the more adventurous types. I would keep and eye on him and bash his head in if it is really necessary.
616754
I don't think he will get a hook.  I think he will get John's hand to replace his own.  He's being driven by revenge, so that will keep him going.
1147204
well lets see did u do anything that would make him mad, is there a possiblilty he might have felt u hurt his trust?? Think about it!!
53148
Look into his eyes. Trust your instinct if you can't trust him.
452356
No question, ohhhhh yeah! Then, I would laugh all the way to the bank. After all, they had to pay, and I get him for free. Who's the big dummy in this situation? Also, it isn't like he would have done it just to be doing it (cheating), there is actually a da*n good reason for it.
849754
I personally wouldn't  do it.  He's past history, and he hurt you badly to boot.
897920
Ummmm....you were "all over each other" in front of his friends....and yet what bothered you was kissing him in front of his friends?  Sounds a little odd to me.  And it might have been odd for him, too.  The fact that you were drinking, and I am assuming he was, too...also has a lot to do with the awkward morning after.  Amazing what people do after knocking a few back.  I would say, give him a call when you are STONE SOBER and see what's up.  If you were all over each other as you say, surely you can talk to this guy.  Find out if he wants to hook up for lunch or dinner or any other activity where alchol will not be a contributing factor to your actions.  You will know then if he is still interested, or if you blew it at the strip club by letting him ???
703384
some times you might have friends who told you man cannot be trusted but the reallt thing is you have try 1st before you jump to conclution.\n\naeeyo1314@yahoo.com
68248
yell really loud "WOW, What am I going to do with this TON of Coke on my bed??? I sure hope the FBI doesnt find me!!!"  \n\nIf they break down your door....you know they were listening. WARNING...do NOT really have a ton of Coke on your bed at the moment!!!!
641347
You don't need to nail him. You said you want to move on with your life, so just do it. The thing is, even with evidence, he'd probably twist it around and try to make it sound like it wasn't what it is... for example, if someone showed you a pic of him kissing someone, he would lie and say that she had been upset, he was trying to help, and she jumped him... blah blah blah.
854401
Too drunk again, huh, buddy?  Just kidding...\n\nI'm with Leanne on this one, as usual...
63017
NO!Do not fall for that line of BS...you cannot let yourself be responsible for someone elses choices. The "deal" he's trying to set up means that he can blame you for his drinking anytime you do the slightest thing, real or imagined that he can claim felt like you were not "with him 100%".\nHe's an adult and must be willing to accept the obligation to make his own decisions, not try to pin them on someone else. If I were you, I'd RUN, far and fast.\n\n\nAdded the next morning....Are you seeing a pattern here? Are you really noticing that nearly everyone sees your man's line as a pile of manipulative, gaming, alcoholic crap? I'm willing to bet that everyone who answered is of different ages, educational backgrounds and different parts of the country, maybe even different parts of the world, and we all came to essentially the same conclusion... THAT should give you food for thought.
837637
First, I'd think, "Huh?", and wonder if he'd changed his mind.  Then I'd think, "what would my dating friends tell me?", and the answer to that would be:  "somebody told him to ease off, not to look like he's trying too hard".  Ah, well, then it'd be my turn, and I'd chase him . . . discreetly, teasingly, of course.  I'd want him back on track, after me again.\n'They' have actually said, "let him chase you 'till you catch him".\nWhat a load, eh?  But that seems to be the way it goes...games, silly games.
992539
We wear different hats in the roles we carry with people.\nIf his job is to receive a monetary payment for a debt; it is very well within his customer service position to entertain some conversation.\n\nIf he is a friend; this is also within the common expectations of friendship.\n\nBut this is about you and your anger for his "poor judgement".\n\nYou have a right to be angry. He had no business, as a married man, being at another woman's house after drinking.\n\nBut on the same note, I'm wondering what it is about his prior behavior that has you monitoring his time in and out of someone elses house.\n\nHe did not disrespect you by being at a friend's house.\nHowever, I think you have a right to feel betrayed or slightly insecure by his behavior.\n\nI think  - if the only solution to the situation is that you control whome he is friends with, then, in this one case it may be warranted.\nHowever, you should expect the same considerations from your man as well.\n\nI think he's suffered enough and knows you won't tolerate even the slightest implication of wrong doing.\nTry to follow him around less.\n\nSometimes when people are accused of wrong doing, disrespected with a lack of trust and a denial of their dignity, and are treated badly for something they really haven't done...\n...it makes the crime easier to commit because.\nthey think "Why not...I'm already suspected of it...might as well do it and enjoy the benefits rather than always suffering the accusations". \n\nBest of luck with second chances
208574
Get him hammered.  He might not admit it while sober becaue he  might be too afraid.  Remember "A drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts"
96961
"Ratting him out" will not bring him back to you.  It comes across a bit juvenile.  If this man would treat you poorly and leave you, then stab his friend in the back by sleeping with his girlfriend, is this really the type of guy that you want to waste your energy on?  Think about it, all of this time that you've been so concerned with his actions, was he even thinking of you?  I would say re-direct this effort towards finding your own happiness.
557467
Dump her, how would she feel if you went and drank with your ex? Yeah she wouldn't stand for it, would she! She probably slept with him anyway. Sirens used to lure there victims in with beautiful music and then slaughter them. Would you fall for their music? I guess what I'm saying is don't let ANYONE play games with your head, if it gets to the point where your having mind games played with your head, GET OUT!