I am 52, divorced for many years and can't seem to meet a decent man. I have a great job, etc. I'm so lonely
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Go to a chat room for divorced people who are in there 50's and just start chating. You may meet the man of your dreams. Good luck.
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How long has it been since you divorced?  You just might need more time.  You'll know  when you're ready for a serious relationship again.  Take time to find yourself again and reassess what you want out of life and in a mate.  If you don't feel you're doing ok on your own, seek some counseling.  It really does help to talk things out and put them on the table.
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I'm in the same situation you're in i cant seem to find a good man but hey I'm praying and i stepping out on faith that GOD will bring someone good in my life so my advice to you is to pray and ask GOD for guidance.
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Where are you?  We single women are everywhere, and i know im not the only one looking for a nice, honest, intelligent guy.  \n\nHow old are you?
79805
ive wonder the same thing myself. but you have to leave that up to God. im 29 well nearly and i havent had any one in over 3 years. im very lonely. everyone tells me go to Church maybe u will find ur soulmate there. and i beleive there is someone out there for everyone. maybe its not time for you yet. but yes u will find him one day. just pray about it
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Honey, I know how that hurts. It happened to me with my marriage. I ended up divorced. It does no good to try to pick up the pieces with someone who no longer loves you. You need to just let her go. I know how hard it is but you do get over it in time. Give yourself some time to heal and then think about dating again. It won't be easy but you'll get through it day by day. God will help you and so will we. You can always find a friend here on YA. If you need to talk, my email is on my profile. You're in my prayers, Sweetie. God speed.
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Hi,\nI'm here to tell you from obeservation that there are guys out there who will fit the bill. There are some great looking "young" 50 year old men; but why not look for younger men!! Try match.com, true, yahoo personals. I am married, but my best friend is not, and she has met some terrific men on Match.  Good luck and keep us posted.
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I am 44 now very succesful in business and couldn't get the real love or the intimate soulmate woman .. and got divorced after 22 years of traditional marriage .. \n\nLucky in work unlucky with women ..
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I'm 40 & looking. I hope it's not too late.I don't know what happened to communication,enjoying each others company or intimacy,but damn I miss it!!!!!
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im going through the same thing kinda.  i tryed 2 met new people. that helped.
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I was 46 when I divorced.  The first woman I dated was just being grateful for my helping her get a job.  She was 30.  I found a vast cultural gulf between us and we were unable to bridge it.  For example, the most significant even in my life was the U.S. war in Vietnam.  She was nearly as far removed from Vietnam as I was from WWII.   The war, and the war protests, were significant in forming many of my lasting attitudes about all sorts of subjects but that influence was foreign to her.  So, it is not the age difference, but the cultural difference that killed our relationship.  Little things like whether a man would wear a ball cap while sitting at a restaurant table.  Many men of my age find that incredibly rude while younger men do not.  Some feel those type of things can be overcome.  Perhaps so.  Good luck
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When it is meant to happen it will. I never thought I would find anyone. When I stopped looking and decided that I didn't need a man to be happy. That is when I met him. I was a single mom of 3 in my late 20's when it happened. GOOD LUCK!!
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They are very hard to find but don't loose hope.  You may have already passed a few good ones bye.  The question may be on yourself.  I know it was on my shoulders after I asked the same question at the same age with the same situation.  I got involved with playing volleyball and then joining a health club and going to church on a regular basis.  I picked apart each and every guy I got a date with.  I finally realized that they must be doing the same to me and then started to look at myself and decided that there are faults in all including myself so I needed to look for someone that wasn't what everyone else thought was great.  I needed to find the greatness in the man of my dreams.  And 2 years later found him.  He loved my daughter as his own.  We have now been married for 9 years with 3 more children, and it is as good as it was when we first met.  Good luck to you and hopefully you too will find the man of your dreams.
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Relax, it isn't all that hard.  Those of us that have been divorced have all had to go through this whole getting back into the dating scene thing.  In some ways it is like going to a brand new mall.  You have lots of options and are over whelmed at first but then over time you figure out what you are looking for and how to avoid the bad stores and get the best deals.  Your already online so that will make it easier for you to look into a variety of options ranging from chat rooms to dating sites such as yahoo.  The key is to remember, nothing has really changed in the dating world.  You still have to wade through a lot of toads to find your prince.  As for your kids, always remember you are the grownup and don't let them get away with thinking they have the right to control your life.  This is about you being happy and your life beyond them.  Hopefully you will eventually find the right guy and he will win them over.
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Don't loose your hope. Second, stop looking for him. Try to meet men without hoping them to be available or Mr, Right. \n\nIf you expect to find Mr, Right you never will. None of us are perfect.\n\nSecond, don't worry if they're taken. Relationships aren't forever, people break up, get divorced and die, so there are good people becoming single all the time.\n\nRelax and it will get to you once you've stopped looking.
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It's not too late for you; you're a guy. There will always be some woman out there looking for someone like you. Make yourself avialable. I, on the other hand, being female, have missed out & I've opted out of the whole mess. I am through with men & relationships completely. Good Luck - your little miss will find you.
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I'm not in TX, but I had a friend that moved there last year, and he complained of the same problem. He ended up joining meet-up groups for singles in his area, and got a few dates from Myspace and Friendster. Seriously...they are out there!!\n\nGood luck!