I used to always believe that love was worth it.  But when it hurts this bad, is it really?
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It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all
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i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
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i understand what you are saying perfectly. after you have been hurt enough times, you don't want to go down that road again....when you are 18 and the first time in love, they really don't get it....at least not yet..........but, remember, if we do not love to keep pain out,,,then we also do not let love in.....it's a risk, but it's worth taking.. good luck
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love hurts for sure wen it's broken..but to actually feel being loved..it's the greatest feeling in the world..it means that no matter wat happens the person who u love and who loves u is always there for u
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No one ever said love was easy....... Sorry for your pain ....but in time ....it will heal
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Its hard to describe, I guess its just a part of life, we cry when we are happy and sad. Love is just complicated nobody really knows what to do. Maybe it hurts to be happy because you are with someone you love and hope nothing will tear you two apart and in your mind you are wondering if you two will stay together.
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I hope your question is this:\n\nIf you love someone that has hurt you before, but you still love that person and he says he loves you would you still stay with that person?\n\nId would say YES... If and only your answer to my next question is a YES...\n\nIs he/she worth all the pain?\n\n-Post Master
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Yes & no...mostly yes...but now that I'm older I know how to handle pain...it's not so painful anymore...sometimes it's better to go through the growing pains...you'll learn from it & get stronger.Also,while the good times last-it's worth it...the pain is only temporary...just try to think of the good memories-it's hard sometimes but the end of a relationship isn't the end of the world.On the contrary,it's the beginning of a new relationship..........good luck...\n\nBTW,I'm not a female behind this mean mug...I just wanted to give ya 2 cents from a dudes perspective........
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Love is painful that is why it is love..Well i really dont know the correct reason when u come to know do tell me also..
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It depends upon how deep the pain and how much you care about the person who your causing the pain.  If by being with the one you love you know that you could never truly be happy because of the other persons pain then you have to give them up.  If on the other hand you can accept their pain and know that over time they will get over it or that it won't affect your ability to be happy and love then don't give it up.
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having been there & done that......SEVERAL times, I currently have to say\nYes.  Once you've had your heart ripped out & stomped on a few times, you can come to terms with the fact that it's just part of life.  \n\nAnd one thing I know for certain:  \n\nI can love him, and I can want him, but I don't need him, and I will survive.
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I understand how you feel, but why would you want to be with someone who is not worthy of all the love you would be lavishing them with. Sometimes you have to let your head rule over your heart. You have to be able to look at the situation and go, this is going to hurt but maybe fate is changing in my favor. Sometimes what we think we want isn't what we thought it was after we find better.
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I know it is hard, but you just can't give up on love. It is not good for you. Love brings happiness. I know that it can be scary but that is just half the fun of it, right.
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i think its worth it !\nyou cant feel it at the moment. actually you will have to give it to the person you love the most and care u the most, itsnot worth it for somebody who wants to have fun with u or who wants to take advantages with u !\nhope thats help !
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Both. Love does cause pain, and sometimes good pain is love.
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NO!NO!NO! A THOUSAND TIMES NO! THOUGHT FOR A FEW YEARS IT WAS BUT ITS NOT. ONCE YOU DECIDE THAT THE PAST IS THE PAST, WITHOUT LOVE, LIFE SEEMS EMPTY, AND ACTUALLY ALOT MORE FUN WITH LOVE IN IT. I LIKES BEING IN LOVE.
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god has a plan for all of us. That is what i beleive. I have been hurt so many times but i never give up hope. i will find my soulmate, and so will you.\n\nps. there should only be one perfectlove and you will know it when you find it. Many people settle for second best i feel, i havent decided what i will do yet, maybe as i get older i will get less discerning!\ngood luck anyways (hug)