do you think my boyfreind loves me when we seldom see eachother since he is always saying he is busy from work
414885
I can't really say that your boyfriend does not love you.  How long have you been with your BF?  I think he got scared when he found out that you were a virgin.  Is this a rebound? He is separated but have you guys talked about his relationship with his ex.  If he is busy and don't have time for you, you really need to sit down and talk to him especially now that you have given up your virginity.  I'm sorry to say, just in case, you would end up a loser. Talk to him about your feelings. Be wise enough with your decision in life.  Good luck and Godspeed
872665
Sounds to me like this guy at work was only after one thing ... and was maybe also a little turned on with the "thrill of the hunt" ...\nIt could also be that while you had a BF and were in a relationship he felt comfortable flirting and now he can "have you" he isn't all that interested?\nIt could also be that since you were prepared to "fool around" a little with him whilke your BF was out of town ... he might think that the same thing will happen if he has to spend time away???
675349
Maybe now - he appreciates you more that you are not together. He misses you dearly. If I were you - follow your heart!
907901
I can understand that you have feelings for him but being a mans doormat isn't the way to be. I think that you need to set him straight and tell him that if he wants you and truly cares for you he'll get serious about the relationship.Nothing should keep people apart even if its work, a real caring person would try and find time for the one he loves.If things don't go as planned I say you leave and look for someone who is truly ready for you.You shouldn't have to wait for him\nGood Luck
641761
Yes actually. I keep trying to get my husband to go and work out of town and just come home on the weekends or every other weekend. We fight too much and maybe if we didnt have to see each other everyday we might look forward to spending time together!
491399
You have to realize that everything is not about you... might sound very harsh, but I had to realize that too. He is most prop just busy or might be chatting to other people... It is sometimes hard for us not to be the center of attention, but unfortunately his got work, friends and other things to take care of as well. \nWhy don't you ask him and then you two can talk about how often he should make contact and all that...\nDont just decide that he does not care or love you... Talk bout it!
269294
If you can keep your love life and your job separate then it should be fine. When you are at work don't treat him as your boyfriend...just another co-worker.
494972
c'mon don't be so hard on yourself. of course he likes you enough to spend so much time with you. however, it would be wise to be cautious and tread carefully. why look for signs, just enjoy the now. it does seem you are happy right now, so don't question and don't let doubts prevail.all the best babe!
1021532
No, it isn't.\nHe's not got the priorities right.\nAlthough it is o.k. to hang out with friends when in a relationship, the focus clearly should be to be with your loved one first, then friends.\nSo if he hangs out with his friends occasionally, it's ok. But not in the way you describe it.\nI'd definitely talk to him to get clarity. Maybe he believes it's fine for you and not a problem at all.\nMen can be very strange at times and neglect their loved ones unknowingly and unintentionally. So make it clear to him and see whether he changes his behavior or not.\nIf he has any feelings for you, he will reduce the time with his friends and spend more time with you..
967455
If you love him, then you're not using him. If you juist have him around because he's caring and generous then you are. I don't think he's so afriad of losing you as he is a sweet natured man who loves you and appreciate you enough to treat you like a queen. How lucky you are!!
787416
If you know he loves you and you trust him, give him time. He might not be ready to talk to you today because he had a bad day at work? Or maybe he's surprising you with something? Keep your hopes up, i bet everything will be fine!\nGood luck!
67016
If you think it won't work, quit and get a new job. It's hard to get it out of your head if you see him everyday at work.
398332
NOpe. I don't think that could be an issue. Since you both also have separate personal lives. One thing I could advice though is to keep an open communication. Even if you don't see each other everyday, a call on the phone, a text message, a special delivery, an email could perk up the relationship. You could also think of other ways to keep it spicy. Sometimes being with each other every single day gets kinda boring and infact this will have a deeper negative impact in your relationship rather than giving each other enough personal space with the 3 days a week dates. :-) Hoep everything works well with you and your boyfriend. If you not having a car of your own repells him from you, then that means you don't deserve him. You are far more valuable than a car. If he loves you and you love him, you both will always find a way to see or even just communicate with each otehr everyday. Distance could also make you miss the person, and missing the person makes the times when your together sweeter coz you'll both cherish every moment. :_)
485396
hey i think dat is not a big problem. u can understand that he may be tired or busy. so just give him some time and hope and have faith in ur love!\n\nhope all gets wel soon!take care and be patient and dont loose ur love! cheers and god bless!
619225
If this time apart is unusually long, and you need to think about making the first move, then it sounds like your feelings for him aren't that strong.  You don't feel strongly for this person.  Ever wondered why?  Is he even worth spending time with if he's not on your mind most of the time?\n\nFlipping the script for a bit, he hasn't contacted you in a long time.  Is he so busy that he cannot call you out for a drink?  How strong are his feelings toward you?  Do you know?  Is he contemplating the importance of this relationship as well?\n\nThose are some questions you should think about...\n\ngood luck!
1007135
My relationship is like that.  I'm always busy with college and she's always busy with work and we're lucky to see each other once a week.  We work it out though.  We just appreciate the time we do spend together a lot more.
206361
well....i guess u'll know if he loves you on how he spends time with you. actually, you're the only one who can tell, like is he sincere with what he say or do...is he expressive with his feelings, does he kisses you a lot or hugs u...things like that can clearly tell if he really loves you. agree? =)