Whats the lonest orgasm you have ever had? How did u get it?
406368
well...the LONEST orgasm i ever had was when i was alone.  and i got it with ease.
349652
Dude I had the same problem your having lol\n\nMan I thought I was going crazy \n\nI was like man whats wrong with me I cant have an orgasm\n\nBut then I reallized that in order to have an orgasm\n(this answer is going to light a bulb in your head)\n\nI HAD TO HAVE SEX!!!\n(heh man was I embarrassed)
675920
What you are going through is not weird and it's definitely normal! i had the same problem...I had sex hundreds of times but I could never have an orgasm. I always thought something was wrong so I just faked it all the time. My boyfriend now and I have amazing sex and by experimenting I have found the only position that I can have an orgasm! I hope this isn't too graphic but here is what we do...\n\nHave him lay on his back and you climb on top. While he is inside of you move your legs to the inside of his and make sure they are straight. Slide yourself up and down this way and I can almost guarantee you will have an orgasm! This position rubs me the right way everytime! It's the best feeling in the world when you have your first orgasm during sex! Good luck and I hope this works!
61250
orgasm..thats the key..evidently you have the wrong mate ..if your not getting anything out of it,then dont do it...if your a woman leave them little boys alone and if your a man get an older woman thats efficeint...lol
889054
They are amazing...The first time I ever had an orgasm was when my husband and I made love after we had an argument...I laughed I cried but most of all I felt closer to husband. He's the only man who has ever given me an orgasm.
439371
I have to disagree with some of the others. Every different way I've had orgasms rate differently for me. The shower head is a good one, but none have been so intense as the ones delivered by my boyfriend's tongue. He is the first to ever succeed this way and succeed he does...every time.
804012
Orgasms with sex didn't happen for me until I got a little older, more comfortable with my own body, in tune with my own sexuality, and finding what worked for me and going after it, and practice of course.\n\nRead this, good advice:\n\nhttp://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorgasm.html\n\nAlso, just my opinion, but stop faking it.  You don't do you or your partner any favors by faking it.
1174954
no talking..more orgasms
1040941
First of all, don't try. If you expect yourself to orgasm it will be harder to do. Just lay back and do what feels good, and eventually you'll learn how to get yourself off.
414388
i experience orgasms all the time
107428
An orgasm can be two things.  \n   1) for men it is a spasm of the pelvic muscles followed by semenal ejaculation.\n   2) for women it is a uncontrolled spasm of the pelvic muscles.\n   3)  If you had one...you wouldn't ask...you would be smoking a cig right now.
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You need to know yourself and what causes you to acheive orgasm, then you share with your guy or girl what turns you on. Some women do not acheive orgasm before having their first child.Some women never acheive orgasm.....If all else fails learn to fake.\n\nYou could also learn to control your pc muscles... this is done by exercising these muscles,act like you are trying to stop a urine flow and like you are trying to stop yourself from passing gas, these muscles are the the ones you need to exercise over and over if nothing else it will keep you tight and exciting.
130378
mostly guys get their first orgasm between 13~15 yrs. i got it when i was 14
1118458
I've done a bit of reading on this subject because I was with a girl who had the exact opposite problem.  The thing is this:  normally, it's the other way around.  Most women have difficulty having orgasms through intercourse alone without clitoral stimulation.  All the previous answers are good ones.  Vibrators can help because they don't get tired and fumbly like fingers do.  Another thing you can do is to try some lube so that the area isn't getting painful stimulation when you try it.  Finally, I will agree with a previous answer and say that the most important thing you can do is explore yourself and see what feels the best to you and what seems to work the best.  If clitoral stimulation isn't working, try vaginal stimulation, especially around the outermost parts, as they have the most nerve endings.  For most people, if you can orgasm at all you can orgasm during masturbation.  Just remember to relax and not concentrate TOO hard on "i have to get there, i have to get there".  Just lay back and relax and enjoy the sensations and it should happen eventually.
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You'll be one of those sad sad women who never orgasm.  \n\nIn order to come during sex you have to figure out how to make yourself come.  That means you need to spend some quality time with your right hand (or left if you're a leftie) and your brain.  Think about what YOU like, what turns YOU on, and how it makes YOU feel.  It has been my experiance that women who do not orgasm do so because they have no idea what they even like.  They see sex as something you do for someone or with someone, not something you do for yourself.\n\nBuy books on the subject, from fantasies to anatomy to technique.  Get a hand mirror and check yourself out down there.  Look at internet porn.  Read some erotica or Harlequin romance novels.  Spend a lot of quality time with your hand between your legs.  Think about buying a vibrator.  Learn the shower head trick.  Take mental notes on what works and what does not.  \n\nYou have to take a certain ammount of responsibility for your own sexual pleasure.  You're the only one who can make it happen.
699151
Lol what kind of orgasms are YOU getting?
215945
The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.