My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl. But I still love him. What should I do?
403016
Honestly, I've been there. It's the worst feeling in the world to know you've been betrayed. If he's likely to do it again, (not everyone is) then don't stay with him. Sometimes these things can clear up. (I'm speaking from personal experience. I've been with my husband for almost 7 years. He cheated once almost 4 years ago and hasn't since. I've learned to trust him again. I wouldn't be the same without him.)
1045097
honey, people don't change. once a cheater always a cheater, yourself included.  apparently there were problems with the relationship or you two wouldn't have been messing around on each other.  i know its probably not what you want to here, but you need to move on.
212987
Talk to him about. You have to COMMUNICATE with the other person involved in your relationship. But I would give him the benefit of the the doubt with this one, it's kind of stupid to give another girl your number when you're physically with your girlfriend.\n\nIf this crap continues, confront him.
1168574
yes, you are the only one thats going to get hurt, and if he cheats on his girlfriend, he'll cheat on you. also, think of how you would feel if you were the girlfriend and found out, it would crush you. there are so many other boys in the world that you could date. be true to yourself, dont let someone elses guy take a kiss from you. once ok, its daring and taboo but youll find the consequences are far too great to put yourself in that situation. also, he said he loves you. does he even know you? love takes a lot of time, and usually if a boy who has a girlfriend is kissing another girl and professing love to her, he only wants one thing, or more. if you think nobody knows, think again, if you told anyone, or someone may have seen, and you may get a rep for stealing other girls guys you dont want that. show respect for yourself and others, and you will attract the type of guy thats right for you. you dont want to always be the other woman...they only get heartbreak. keep your chin up and leave that situation alone...
980773
You should have realized first off that this would hurt him. Don't EVER give into peer pressure, when you know doing what you're being pressured to do is the wrong thing.\nNow you've hurt his feelings, and you lied to him.\nForget the girl who told him, she did the right thing, he should know that you did that.\n\nNow. About what to do.\nYou need to give him a little while to calm down, and next time you call him, let him vent whatever he needs to at you, and don't interrupt. Calmly and quietly listen, and absorb what he's telling you.\nHow would you feel if he had kissed another girl, then lied about it? You would be hurt too.\n\nWhen he's done venting, explain your side, and ADMIT you were wrong, and that you made a mistake.\nPromise that it won't happen again, because you've learned how WRONG it was to listen to others and let them pressure you. Tell him how you feel about him, and that you won't lie to him again.\n\nWithout trust, there is no relationship. You broke the trust in yours, and it will take some time to build back up.\n\nBe true to him, and your own intuitions from now on.\nGood luck.
587114
i would do nothing because if you were his girlfriend and you found out not only did your boyfriend like someone else but the girl knew about you and she decided to pursue it.  tell him when he finds out what he wants to let you know, but i wouldn't hold my breath waiting.  did you ever hear that saying that, (the way you got him that's the way you lose him).  think about that and be careful.
779022
Well, if he already cheated on you once, there is a possible that he could be doing it once again. But you never know, sometimes that is not the case. Well, also, it's ok for you to have lost the trust that you had in him because of what he did. I think that you can either wait and see if more things are weird or you can talk to him and tell him how you feel. Communication and honesty is the best thing in a relationship and maybe that will work. About being concerned, I think you should be if he is trying to go on with that plot. (Which I really doubt). I think that you need to keep calm unless you see more wrong things but still be cautious.
1003390
Gurl once a cheater always a cheater. He disrespected you by cheating on you on, while you saved yourself for him. It's not ok for anyone to cheat on anyone. People do what you let them do to you. If you forgive him for cheating this time it's likely he'll do it again. But since you say you love him I would suggest you both seperate for a while and see if you can't find a better man than him that will treat you like the diamond you are. Good Luck!
721903
leave him, theres no excuse for cheating, even if he regrets it, you need to find someone who respects you enough to be faithful. good luck (",)
229837
sweetheart, it hurts alot. i've been there. you are right in not being able to trust him. it's not always the case that there always a cheater, but it's almost foolproof. if he's done it before, why won't he do it again when he finds someone else that's more attractive to him? all you can do is wait out the pain. it hurts and it sucks, but try and move on. go out, have fun, meet new guys. you don't have to get married or anything, just go out and have fun. i hope this helps you sweetie, at least a little. if you'd like to talk to someone that's been there, you can email me. poetic_disturbulance@yahoo.com
687022
yes its over. dump that loser. he doesn't deserve you.  and just because he's CUTE doesn't mean you should stay with him-- he KISSED another girl!!
981481
Oh my gosh. That cheating little....!!! is how most people would react but be above that. Sit and talk with him and if he truly loves you then he will let HER  go to be with you. You are probably better than her anyway but keep level headed and you will most likely steer clear of trouble. Good luck and I wish you the best.
541647
Wow, that hurts!!Be strong and wise girl.It's hard but remember that theres no way you can control him, or his actions, including him leaving his girlfriend. Your probably thinking that you love him and no one will ever compare to him. I'm a girl too, I know how we are.But I'm sure you've felt that way for someone else before him.Look ahead to the love you will find after him...and know that your new man is all yours.Sometimes you have to look at the big picture for what it is. Your man is lying to both of you...is that fair to you or her? Put yourself in her shoes...how would you feel? And I'm sure you've heard that saying that what goes around comes around. Treat others how you wanna be treated. Anyways...trust your gut....it's already telling you to leave...listen to that and find happiness. Good luck with everything and if you ever wanna talk, feel free to contact me! And please dont let that player win the game.
1104067
u start here think of worst case scenario he cheats on u/finds another girl etc now think if u love him unconditionally enough to take that chance.as theres a saying this side u cant have ur eye both on heaven & hell.ur scared that ull loose him since u love him so very much.thats why u get jealous but remember u can drive him to another woman atleast if he does it on his own u can say i loved him unconditionally u wont feel bad take a risk by sounds of it it seems he really does love u let things show u in future that he loves u & wants to be with u
398034
Girl, you needn't forgive him. Look at the facts. He cheated on you for two whole years, then, he had the courage to bring her to your hose. He sounds pretty dumb.
420606
I know everyone has told you dump him but your best thing to do is find out why he did it so it wont happened again with an other guy.\nTake a guys point of view we cheat only cause there is something missing ,could be attention or too much of it could be he wants to know if you are the one unless you're like 15 you both have probably had other partners so take it like yeah he cheated but what was the reason and learn from it you may find that you agree with his reason .Then maybe he is just an ass and don't deserve you as for your ex friend she has to be knocked in the head and told the #1 rule in friendship never with your friends boyfriend or girlfriend and never with your friends sister.LOL i know that one from experience.OK take it light and I hope it works out for you .
439183
I know for a fact you want to trust him bacause i've been in this situation and I'm going to tell you what I did.  Trust him but to a certain extent.  Let him know that you don't feel comfortable with the situation.  If he still talks to her, let him go.  If he doesn't, give him that second chance.  You'll be able to tell if he really does still love you, because if he respects your feelings he won't talk to this girl anymore.