i have two friends they were nice when i met them but once i got to really know them they got annoying ?doido?
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Not all Meagan's are annoying. I have known a few that were pretty kool. Would be nice if a name could warn us off. However, you are going to have to quit being so nice. Lay everything on the line. Tell them both how you feel. If that don't work, totally ignore them both. If they talk to you, look the other way, or start up another conversation with some one else. Asked to be moved to the other side of the room in the 5 classes you share with the one. Good luck. Hope I helped.
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I don't think they are really your 'friends'. I mean, you've known them for a long time, but a real friend would never ignore you or treat you like that. They would tell you what you did or said that they didn't like and wait for you to apologize or explain.\n\nGo right up to them and ask what's wrong.
467017
Stay away from them and don't lower yourself to their level.  Choose your freinds carefully as people tend to judge you based on who you choose to associate with.  why waste your time on these people?
876473
Sounds like you have a good heart and an open mind. My advice is to just let it go. A person like you will have no trouble making more friends, and maybe these two will grow up a little and it'll work out. Don't worry about it in the meantime. Just look on the bright side, you know you're a good friend no matter what.
258026
try being nice to them , have a social hour with them so they can have some fun memories with you and they will quit bein obnoxious
1025428
Always, I have that issue or as i introduce my new intrest to my friends... he ends up dating one of them and not me... thats happened way to much...i understand your pain *hugs*
1116259
some are rude, others understand, it is ok to make new friends. good luck
906440
Good morning, Muslimah.\n\nYes, I do find it irritating.  What's worse, though, is that I find it drives wedges between people who might otherwise be friendly, if not friends.
1132506
To tell you the truth I have a bunch of friends, but I never tell them any of my secrets and I don't enjoy my self around them that much because I don't believe they are really true friends. I can just see it in their eyes that they are just taking me for granted. I also dont like them because they are so mean to others. I mean just because a person is different doesn't mean your better than them. I had one true friend of the opposite gender, but now they are gone. So a little tip from me: don't trust all your friends. Look deep inside them and see who they really are. And show them your true self to see if they like you or not. Once you've found a true friend then spend good times with them.
1111183
hey i have tha same problem... i bugs me really bad.. just talk to that persona and say hey.. i dont wanna be anything more than friends..  *GL
810987
I have a friend like that.  And it gets very annoying!!  Her main thing is with guys though, she always has to be center of attention.  Whenever I would be talking about something to do with me, she would always butt in and start talking about herself.  Finally one time she butted in and I stopped her and said,"Can I finish my story that I wanted to tell you and then I will listen to yours!"  I was just honest with her about always interrupting me with her stories, and when it came to guys she was always being too pushy for me to get with someone. (She's married so it was like she would do the flirting for me-and that is NOT GOOD!)\nShe is better now but she still has her moments.  I have known her for about 10 years now so we are pretty honest with each other, and we know we will always be there when the other has a problem.  So I say just be honest with her, a little at a time, and remember there are probably things about you that annoy her also and if she mentions any just take it as constructive criticism.  No one is perfect and who better to tell you about your faults than your best friend, that way you can work on being a better person together.\n\nRemember be gentle and honest!
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I am in that exact situation now.  I have 2 groups of close friends that hate each other and are constantly bitching about each other to me, who's stuck in the middle.  I deal with it by telling them I get on with all of them and I won't listen to them bitching about each other cos it is seriously annoying.  It's a hard spot to be in but if you get on with them all you have to stay on the fence.
1064780
My little sister was the most annoying thing to me for a long time, but we got to be best friends eventually.  They grow out of it and so do you.
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they arent your friends if they dont care about you enough to not make you feel bad. Dont stoop to their level and do it back, instead immediatly stop talking to them and keep your head high, once they see it doesnt bother you they will stop doing it. Who needs enemies with friends like that. Get some new friends that arent little brats.
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same thing happened to me when i was younger! this is what i did. i was still her friend but we werent close as we use to be. now i found new friends who hate my bf but they respect our love for each other♥
755358
I had a friend like that! First she was very jealous of me and then when i told her to go to hell (because she was criticising me always) she tried to do bad things against me but i didnt care  because she was not my friend anymore.
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We have all have one or two Friends like that in our lives.\nYou are holding back becos, she is ur friend and u really care about her.\nBut part of that caring means u have to be honest with her about how u feel. She probably doesnt know how annoying she really is...so hopefully, u'll be up to the task of helping her to be a better person.\nHope ur Faith teaches Patience? Cos u'll probably need it.\nAll the best to u and ur Friend.