i have a problem. guys and girls please help.?
409828
ask her out, worst she could say is no
1071827
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions).  i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it.  At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
1089945
A problem? It seems you have three problems man! If all this is true, you need professional help: see a psychologist!
392038
Yes I can help!!\n\nForget getting them. Find a nice girl and settle down.
1177289
i had the same problem with me guy friend and all i said was (Dont spent your time upset just think about this .You r a great guy and any girl would be lucky to date you and if she didnt see that than she isnt worth it.)and he actually felt better.\n\n\n                                                                      try it you wont regret
638042
you need will power and a full time friend try find a hobby that takes your mind off your problem and remember guys like women with curves good luck and best wishes
730754
relax. your ebing too needy. take it for whats its worth, men are in general much nicer then women and won't  break up with a girl they like if they think she's wierd. only women do dumb stuff liek that
614171
i wouldn't worry about it. guys can be very dirty- and so can girls for that matter. - -maybe get him to be a bad boy with you??????could  be fun
1147004
Wait for some time and never do anything drastic.\nThis problem will be solved on its own.
490133
Just be honest. And learn to let go if he doesnt respond. Being cool or being sexy doesnt help holding on to a man, you can just have one for some time. Honesty sure works.
661677
It may not be a problem with you, but more of a problem with the guys that you are dating. They probably aren't satisfying your needs for reassurance on these type of issues. In the future, look for guys that will provide these things and see if there is a difference.
828004
This sounds a little weird, so I definitely think that you should talk to your guy. Tell him that this is really bothering you and that you don't mean to go crazy on him. If he really cares about your feelings, then he won't just blow you off.
480211
See a Doctor, You may have a Medical Problem. No Kidding
99814
YOU shouldn't do anything!! It is up to him to deal with the situation. He should care enough about you to handle the problem. My advice would be to give him the opportunity to solve the problem, but if within a reasonable time (a week) if he hasn't dealt with the problem, then walk away from him. If he doesn't care for and respect you enough to deal with the problem, then he may be enjoying have to females on a string. Good Luck =-)
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trust me, thats a very bad idea\ndont look for a girl just cuz you feelin sh!tty\nit will lead to a dependancy on others (your girl)\nthe best way to deal with your problems is good help, not dependency\n\nso im sayin you need to talk and somone to listen
1176735
You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
619202
If you don't have any problem, let him hug you. Else analyse your problem yourself and keep a distance. I don't know which country you are from. That will be helpful giving you the solution.