Why do men only want sex and not a relationship?
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Men actually want commitment, love, and permanence every bit as much as women do, but they often act as if they don't because of "feelings of threat to their masculinity." Clinical psychologist Weinberg (Self Creation) explains that men, forced by a macho culture to hide their feelings until they lose touch with them, often cannot recognize or articulate them, and that it may be the woman's job to identify inchoate feelings dangerous to the relationship (his "gut reactions") and alter her behavior. He discusses what women might unconsciously do to trigger those feelings, including over-estimate their man's strength and fortitude, or compare him to other men. Men, Weinberg maintains, have four basic needs: to feel special, to "travel light," to know their partners are loyal and to "be close emotionally."
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The reason why men cannot live without sex is probably because we have a high sex drive. And maybe there are some guys out there who have a higher sex drives than others. Probably those are the men who just want to get into your pants.\n\nAnd no, sex does not make a relationship stronger. Who says that? That's gotta be like the lamest excuse ever...
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Men are hardwired to crave sex almost constantly. It's encoded in their DNA and has been that way forever. It's not that they think you want sex all the time, it's just that they require it more than women do. It's a biological thing. You're going to have to learn to live with that and just be clear to your man when you aren't in the mood and he is. Just remember, it's really not something they can control.
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GUYS WANT SEX!!!!\n\nOh, and the nearly inborn desire to support and take care fo women that has been culturally bred through many different ethnic societies.
1007052
Guys know that if they just say they want to hang out and have fun, that most girls will not have sex with them. They don't want to get serious so, they pretend that they care and know they don't. Honesty is not something most guys can handle themselves.
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Sex is the biggest NEED for a man.  Most men I know would have little trouble choosing between sex and a steak dinner.\nHaving said that sex is important, most men, whether they admit it or not, seek emotional connection THROUGH sex.  Most women seek emotional connection BEFORE sex.\nNow just having generalized, I don't think about it ALL the time.  And I can testify that it is possible for a guy to stay faithful.
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Because men want to have sex in every second...\nIn my relationship we both love sex or also making love. We both want to have sex in the same moment, no one of us ask about this
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was all about sex and only sex --- did not want a relationship or love or anything else
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If it's a one night thing then most likely.  Mostly women want more than just sex.  And plus there is STD out there so you don't want so many multiple partners because you don't know if that person has it (they aren't really going to admit to having something).  But I do know there are some women that go for that one night stand either they were drunk, have low self-esteem, or they think the way you do.  But it's not just women there are also men out there that won't just sleep with any woman.
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He is just using you to get laid. He is telling you this. He does not want a relationship. He just wants to get his rocks off with no strings attached.>
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Well if he wants to have sex with you, he might get kinda fed up eventually, dont you think? Why do you want to keep him but not have sex with him. Sex is part of love. Is he a potential lover or just your sugar daddy or something?
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Depends on the age of the guy.  Wanting a good body and sex never goes away.  But someone who says that's all they want is probably still immature and just isn't getting enough on a regular basis.  Once they realize that sex is available to everyone - then they'll start also looking for things like intelligence, kindness, fun-loving, and good sense of humor.
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Some guys never figure out what they really want & others think that the sole aim in life is to have someone that will sleep with them on a regular basis. There are, however, good men out there...it just normally takes them awhile to gain the maturity needed to be a partner in a relationship.\n\nWhy do they lose you & then want you back? Simple; some are incapable of seeing how good a thing they had until it is gone & immature enough to think that a little "I love you" will make everything better. They don't understand that, if a man really loves a woman, he doesn't intentionally hurt her...whether physically or emotionally.\n\nGood luck & keep trying! You'll find a good guy. I know they aren't all taken :)
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men dont like the whole relationship thing simply because they get a tied down feeling....i think its alot like getting old,.... we dont want to do it mainly because we know there are things we have to give up.   maybe because we are not able to do them....
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Guys are attracted to girls because of the "hint" or the "allure ' or "possibility " of sex.  Guys would go out with guys if all they wanted was good conversation, fun and shared experiences.  \n\nThey already have friends ; they want sex.  This does sound so harsh but sex can also mean hugging,snuggling,holding and nonverbal communication as well as intercourse.\n\n\nBut if all you want is fun and getting to know there are plenty of girls to talk to ...who won;t expect sex  in the end
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I don't agree.  I know men who are not really that much into sex.  Me, being a woman, however, I  need it often.\n\nI don't mean with different people
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Forever. A man doesn't need sex, most men just want it.