I am in love with my best friend, she told me is not a good idea to go that way. What should I do?
411150
Respect her and dont. just wait and see what happens who knows she might start to like you. dont ruin your realtionship and try to force yourself into liking her or having to have to be her BF.
526572
See where it goes. From the outside looking in, without details, I would say you are blessed. Every woman should be so lucky to fall in love with her best friend and vise versa. Knowing that you have found someone who can truly appreciate all that you can bring into his life is a wonderful feeling. \nAnd the same with you, knowing what his faults and strentghs are, put you both ahead in the game of love.\n\nEnjoy it, in my opinion, you are both blessed.
302897
that is a rough one, because if it doesn't work then it may jeopardize the friendship that you presently have. That is a decision you need to make with your heart.
991170
Hi man. I had a story like this some months ago. I couldn't do nothing, because I didn't want to ruin their love for each other. I just waited, and after three  months they broke up. And she understood that I loved her, and really liked it. I think you should just wait.Maybe you should make activities with other friends, that can help you not to think about your friend.\n    I really think that you'll win her heart.
828084
I know she's your best friend but this is your life were talking about not hers.Tell her you know she means well and is looking out for you, and that you take her opinions seriously but you really like this girl. And if this girl, no matter who or what she is or does, will make you happy/have fun, then as your bestfriend she should just let you be happy. Loyalty is part of friendship, so even if you ask this girl out, she'll still be your best friend. Tell her or explain  your side to her and just simply ask this girl out. If you're making a mistake, then she has to allow you to make your own mistakes, if you guys turn out happy together, then be glad you didn't let yourself get heldback.
1104978
unfortunately if she is in love then there is not much hope for you,as much as it can hurt you the only thing you could do is be her friend and try to move on maby one day things might take a turning point but dont wait for it because if she is truley in love then she is happy and you cant intercept that
685284
If she only thouhgt of you as a friend then how could she break up with you??? That doesn't make any sense my friend.\n\nEither you put more into her than you should have, or she led you on. She may be confused in that you're suppose to BE best friends before you fall in love.\n\nYou need to talk to this peson and find out what's what, accept what she says as true and valid and base your very next move on her response. Either move on and forget about her period, or perhaps cultivate a relationship with her.\n\nI hope it works out for you one way or the other....that you be happy!
122481
unrequited love sucks ass!!!!\ni too am in your boat all you can do honestly is try and stay friends and if something happens which it could quite possibly  could let it happen but remember dont throw yourself out there untill you know she has fallen for you.\nbe yourself and lets hope it wotks out for both of us.\nhope is a great thing my friend and anything is possible
993327
You are her best friend too right?, Well then some of the best marriages started out as best friends.....You will never know unless you ask. Don't let someone else beat you too it for fear of the unknown. I know you are nervous, but if your feelings are this strong, you should ask. She will listen... Best wishes to you both.
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
238260
Don't go there, honey. She may THINK she feels that you two should be together, but I guarantee you, it's not going to end up that way. Stay friends, and leave it at that, at least if you value your friendship. Now, if they were only together briefly and she had no real feelings for him, maybe you should go there. Otherwise, steer clear. Trust your gut on this one.
448866
i have been dating one of my bestfriends ex-boyfriend, and weve been together for 3 years, we also plan on getting married. You cant help the person you fall in love with, and who are you to stop something that could be one of the best things that could happen for your best freind? if she really is your best friend then treat her as such dont let something like that bring your friendship down. let them try and see if it wroks out for them, if it does just be glad she found something a lot of people dont get the chance to, and if it doesnt work dont give an i told you so, compfort her as you would if you didnt know the guy. Keep smiling and find you someone who you can have fun with a be real with.
477360
Make him understand that you do not love him. Try to avoid him all the time. He will not be around you to be insulted. You have to break up your relationship with your best friend if you are not ready to take him as your life partner. Because things will never be the same again. But I would like to suggest you to take him as he wants. he will be able to make you happy as he is your best friend.
614903
how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
208175
It sounds like you have a wonderful relationship going but she is not quite ready to be tied down to one person.  Dont push her too much or back her into a corner or she will run!  Take things slowly and follow her lead.  Time can turn the best friendships into a best marriage!  Good Luck!
441940
i think you should take the risk...i started going out with one of my good friends, and we ended up falling in love.  since you guys started out as good friends, i think no matter what happens you'll always be close.  who knows, maybe he'll be your true love
159653
Love is strange in its own magical way. Love is like a dam. Once it's released, you never know when the flow will come to an end. Right now, your love is still flowing all these years. If you really want to forget her that much, then do something different to approach this thought process. If you know she loves you as well, then go get her. Don't waste time crying in your hear...in your soul. If know she doesn't feel the same way, then think differently about how you feel about her. Think of it as best friends kind of love: you love her because she matters to you greatly and that your friendship for her will never change. Accept this "new" change of yours and think that everyday. Better to be friends than to be in that hell hole of unforgiving love. Sometimes to have a friend love you is just as loving as having that special someone by your side. Try to move on each day if you can and just remember you loved someone who was wonderful and great, but with conditions couldn't happened. Some where in life, you are bound to find someone new. It might sound a little stupid, but maybe the person who you been looking for could be right in front of you. Just keep a clear head and watch for hints. Maybe the person has already been hinting they have feelings for you and you just haven't realized it. I hope I helped in some way.