Why hate me just because I'm beautiful?
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I don't hate you. I'm just jealous of your hair and sometimes your shoes. Sorry.
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Maybe you're not good looking, but you are sexy! maybe your curves turn them on or your eyes.\nI understand it could be quite upsetting. Find a way to take advantage of it.
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Why dont u look in to the mirror, U will get my defination of Beauty.
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I DONT HATE YOU GRRRR I THINK YOUR SEXY
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Because you have to be healthy to be beautiful!!!!
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That's 2 questions, but here goes.\n\nBeautiful people sometimes believe they are better than others. Part of the reason they believe this is that often other people treat them as if they are more special, and others probably tell them how nice they look so often that they get a swelled head. Of course, we know that it is what's on the inside that counts. But really, have you ever found yourself avoiding someone who looks ugly? We've all done it, I'm sure, even if we wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. It must be human nature.\n\nSecond question-you answered it yourself. God does know everything. Everyone has things they have to go through in life. Everyone experiences their own life, and learns their own lessons, in their own time. All you can do is to try to live your own life the best way you can. Follow Christ, and you can't go wrong. Good advice, even for beautiful people. ;)\n\nSomething to think about- beauty is not forever.
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Hmmm...\n\nYes, it's extremely common, with both guys and girls.\nI constantly have those sorts of feelings - it is insecurity, but it is also self-objectification.\nWhy should it matter if we are physically beautiful or not?\nIt's all artificially created and perpetuated.\nBut understanding this doesn't always help.
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I hate it with a passion...I hate being smaller because everyone thinks I am anorexic.
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Pride of course because I am absolutely so much better than you and all of the other people on this website.\nWhy, you should feel honored by my beauty and brilliance.\nYou aren't really worthy of my answer, but since I feel so generous today I suppose, I could tell you.\nBut of course, don't get all air headed just because I answered your question. I know.. I know..I'm more beautiful than you...\nIt's just something you'll have to live with.
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those people who do that are just jealous. there has to be some quality about u that causes them to hate u for it. you just have to be the better person and ignore them. Because for everyone, there will always ALWAYS be someone who will hate you for what you are and what you stand for. u just have to decide whether their opinion of u will change how u think of yourself.
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you have to look at it that ppls hate you just because your you and probably how you dress wishing they had what you have so don't be worrying yourself on these things love it cause everybody look at me crazy i can't help i look good and dress good to I've been blessed and they can to just pray for them and hope they grow strong into the lord..
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*this is a long one*\n\nIt's understandable that you feel bad because you're not getting the kind of treatment your "attractive" friends are getting, but there's a lot going on here.\n\nGuys, from a very young age, are told what is attractive and what isn't. It has to do with the era, culture, ethnicity, and a million other things. It also has to do with the fact that it's a bar. Although people meet each other and form legitimate relationships all the time in bars, most often when alcohol and women are involved it's about sex. The men in there may care about your beautiful personality, intelligence, creativity, talents, etc. but that isn't the first thing they're looking at.\n\nPeople always say that men exploit women. To a degree this is true, but if it's one thing I've learned it's that women are terrific at exploiting the things that men like to get what they want. You girls aren't stupid, even those who pretend to be. Men for the most part aren't difficult to figure out when it comes to attracting us visually. \n\nWith that out of the way, don't get yourself down because you aren't the standard that pop culture deems hot. Every single woman is beautiful, no matter what age size or color. What matters most is how beautiful you acknowledge yourself to be, no matter what anyone else thinks. Because in the end, you can't control what they think or how they feel, and although there are ways to make yourself more attractive to them, it's only a shallow experience and you shouldn't have to change things about yourself to please others.\n\nI'm not one of those people who's going to tell you that there's someone out there guaranteed to be perfect for you, who just happens to love everything about you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. If you find that person you're very lucky, because most of us out there just have to settle or lie to ourselves. \n\nWhat I am going to tell you though, is that there are men out there who acknowledge and appreciate physical features, but value the beautiful personality underneath. You're probably not going to run into one of these men at a bar. Where do you find them? There isn't one set place where we all congregate, that's the problem that goes both ways, for finding men and women alike.\n\nThink about this though: Next time you're at the bar, check out the wallflowers. Chances are there's a guy out there who doesn't get approached by the beautiful women, who may be insecure himself but like you has a lot to offer beyond physical appearances that conform to a standard. Talk to him, ask him to buy you a drink, if you feel like it offer to buy him a drink, see how that goes. Be yourself. This could easily end up being the most fun for you, because you'd be surprised how eager the person in the corner is to connect with someone else if they were just given the chances. If not, at least you interacted and didn't have to sit aside feeling hurt that people aren't approaching you.\n\n\n\nBut after all this, and I'm not saying it is this way, don't have a double standard or be hypocritical. Don't judge the guys on physical appearance alone. You know you're worth a lot more than your looks alone, and so are they. So is everyone.
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Yes, because I like me.  Not the way I look, it has nothing to do with that, it has to do with who I am.  It took me a long time to get here and I have more work to do before I am who I should be but I am happy with me as I am now.
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just think about how many really ugly people are out there,and how they would be happy to look like u.im sure u do look good and well done to u,that u managed to loose w8.fight ur selfcoonciousness,because it does affect life bad,if u dont feel good in ur own skin.my exboyfriend was very insecure and i know how much it ruins his life.be strong.
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You are a rare beautiful person according the way you describe yourself, DONT change! Anger is a very unattractive trait being upset is alright, telling someone they hurt you is okay , but always maintain diginity, be tactful, and revenge is bad KARMA, what you give out in this life good are bad ALWAYS comes back!
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The only motivation for "hateration" is jealousy, envy, and misunderstanding. They fear your ambition and good qualities, they're jealous of the clothes you're wearing and how good you look in them, or, if they've known you, they're spurred by other thoughts towards you like anger or odium because their bf likes you, etc. The list goes on. But just remember to tell yourself what I do. If you don't have any haters in your life, you're doing something wrong.    :)
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This is your body and I feel it should look beautiful if you can maintain a good curvaceous figure, as you put it. I think you sound gorgeous !!!!! Keep it up. If others have a problem with your fine and graceful body then they seem to be jealous or perhaps, envious.\n\nDo not bother about their views since it is your body and you have it great.\n\nBest of everything for you in your life.\n\nabnash25@yahoo.com