can you forgive a cheater?
400805
I just don't think that I could do it... I wish I could say otherwise.
412387
Once someone cheats on you there is no going back.  I tried the whole forgiveness thing with my fist wife and ultimately it is something you just can't get out of your mind and since he already cheated on you before it is much easier to do it again.  I think he blew his chance with you and you will be better off with someone else.
230797
Yes for most people. Giving someone else a second chance also says a lot about yourself. Some things simply cannot be forgiven, but they tend to be things of a violent nature. Try to forgive and forget when posible.
348408
YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE THEM \nWEATHER YOU TRUST THEM AGAIN IS THE QUESTION\nIF YOU CAN'T TRUST THEM YOU DON'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP
1091912
Nope. Once a cheater always a cheater.  Sorry
1179289
Once a cheater can recover from that, mistake.  My friend cheater on he BF he never know, but that  was a mistake.  People learn from that and move on, give him a chance. \nFamily is important.
1099161
Forgiving my ex girlfriend for cheating. She then thought well, if he forgave me for that time he will forgive all the times to come. I will never forgive a cheater again!!!!
151550
I am sorry to say this as the simple fact that you are asking  means you want to forgive your spouse. In my personal past experience as well as the experiences of my friends (both male and female) evrytime a cheater was taken back, they did it again. Some immediately, some years later, one with the same person (which hurts like you have no idea) and only ONE that has seemingly never done it again, BUT the trust has never been the same so the relationship has never gotten back to what it once was. Good Luck with your decision.
150364
my personally opioinon is yes. i would give him what he deserves and then after he sees ive been cheating ill leave him. a cheater will always be a cheater. if he cheats on you once he will cheat on you again, even if he tells you he will stop if you stay.but truth is he wont.so if you choose to cheat on him back, that would hurt him and then to see you leave will make him know he ;ost something great.if i were you thats what i would do.
365936
He's sorry alright...sorry he got caught. Your cousin can do better than him. And hell no I wouldn't go back with a cheater.
116127
well if you are going to take him back then you have to get over it. otherwise let him go. i cheated with a guy and we got back toghether and he treated me bad because of it instead of like loveing me and us chillin because i was faithful to him for a while and well guess what i did it again and we are now broke up. but you are not wronge to give him another chance. people do change and though it is not an excuse yall were both going through some pretty bad stuff so i mean he could really be sorry. but if he does it again which he may not then leave him unless you want to give him another chance (there is no such thing as to many chances but when you get tired of soemthing you area tired of it) so i hope if he does keep cheating you will leave cause youdeserve better but its really up to you but this could work out for yall and i hope it does. good luck and God bless.
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I really didn't understand your question but if you are asking if it's alright to forgive someone...then my answer is yes.  However, if he is still making the same mistake then it's not a mistake after he did it the first time it becomes experience......and if you continue to keep putting up with it; you are telling him that he doesn't have to change the behavior to have you....you're telling him that lying and treating you the way he is is perfectly alright with you.....Ask yourself is it......if not, then set up some limits and boundaries with him; and stick to them.
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i think you'll have to wait awhile...come to terms with what happened...you don't have 2 forgive someone right after they hurt you or a loved one deeply. i figure that as long as you're not out to kill them you're ok. remember God doesn't expect you to LOVE this person...he's probably angry at what they did too- and give it some time.
701470
forgive but don't forget.
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How does an ex cheat?
461375
NO YOU SHOULDN'T FORGIVE HER, WHAT IF YOU WOULD HAVE WALKED IN 30 MINS LATER, THEN WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE WALKED IN ON???\nYOU DESERVE BETTER
84750
i think it is possible for a man to cheat and then not  do it again. the only problem is that you will never forget what happened. and no matter how much he says to try to convince you that he will never do it again, it possible that in your mind he will always be a cheater, therefore you may not be able to trust him.\n\nyou have to make a promise to yourself that if you forgive him, you also have to forget.\n\nalso, if you do forgive him for cheating, it shows him that that is something that you are willing to forgive. because you show that cheating is forgivable, he may do it again.\n\ngood luck with your decision - it is a hard one.