I am not  thin in the waist or loaded with cash so how do I attract nice guys.?
408721
forget all that crap ever walk down the street and say wow that guy is hot whats he doing with her well theres someone for everyone be yourself all the good confidence you have to enjoy your life it will shine and you be running from all the attention and nice guys are hot i have a great one and he loves me for me we click thats what you should go for be friends with whoever you find chemistry with i cant believe girls dont realize guys love a good mind and they like girls that are healthy im  one hundred and forty pounds and proud
37096
The first thing you need to do is feel good about yourself. Get out do some mild to moderate exercising, get your hair and nails done, etc. Pamper yourself. Men like a clean, confident, healthy looking woman. \n\nNext find a place to meet a guy...I don't suggest bars. Oddly enough my wife and I met online. (There are some real freaks online so this can be discouraging.) Get a puppy and take it to the park. Dogs are good conversation starters and you would rather meet a guy thats doing outdoors stuff than one that sits around the house all day. \n\nWhatever you do don't act desperate. Just do your thing. If you see a guy that does something for you give him the confident "hey baby" look. See if he goes for it. \n\nGood luck!!
392038
Yes I can help!!\n\nForget getting them. Find a nice girl and settle down.
86259
get to know plenty of guys..and jus talk to them ...and get to know them..\n\nin this way, ull get used to it.\n\nand dun expect anything in return...jus take it easy
1059271
As a BBW, I have found it hard to find a half-decent man.  Keep looking there are some good men on LargeFriends.com I have found, but did not reply to.  Be careful, though if there is any question, don't waste your time.  Your worth more than that.
232630
You should go to the bank and get 100 one dollar bills.  Then, around two in the afternoon go to a bar where girls dance with  little or no clothing.  Have some alcoholic drinks while you are there so that you get relaxed, this also makes you more appealing to these lovely ladies.  \n\nThese ladies are very impressed by relaxed gentleman that give them dollars bills and fondle them repeatedly.  It makes them want to be with you in other places.  They will protest some and pretend they dont like you, but in reality they are impressed with your class and demeaner.  The more they protest the more they really like you.  NO means YES.  Onxe they seem really peeved at you, ask them to meet you for a date or after their shift, tell them you will be waiting for them outside.  \n\nThis way you will meet attractive and ingellegent ladies and start rewarding long term relationships
904482
Try a more mature group of men to select from. Maybe you'll find them more appealing.\n\nGood Luck
1089680
Have confidence dear -- if you are ready than do not rush it. Just be yourself and the guys will appreciate that versus a shallow phony-- they are everywhere! First- a little hint-- find a couple of guys that you find that are attractive-- then start conversations with all of them--asking them things about them-- what they think and feel about different things. The shallow guys will be annoyed and blow you off-- the decent guys will find that your interest in them as a compliment.  Try it and see how that works. Also ask around about them too. Do not make any commitments to go out with any of them until you narrowed the choices down to one or two. By that time I feel you will kn ow who those guys that are worth your time will be and who is not.
1065363
That is not always the case, I would much rather have a man with a kind heart than a fat wallet.  They are just hard to find!!
306618
Try meeting them at a place where nice people hang out.  \n\nI.E. not the local bar.\n\nIf you are a church goer, perhaps there will be a nice lady there for you.\n\nGet involved in your local community, charity work perhaps?\n\nRemember that what you put out to the world is what the world gives you in return.  You don't have to settle for bitter ladies.  There are lots of nice women just waiting on their Mr. Right.  \n\nWho knows, it could be YOU.\n\nGood luck!
627586
No, they do exist. Keep looking....they may not be the most flamboyant or even the best looking, but to find the nice guy, get passed the wrapper...
1001845
There are men who like big. Accept yourself and find someone who likes you for who  you are and have fun.
667002
If you are just looking for a guy that likes you for your physical benefits than he will probably slap your but or try to be really nice to you but if you are looking for a guy that likes you for more than what you have to offer on the outside he would respect you, be nice to you, try to be around you all the time(if he is really bold), and talk about you nonstop. (and you probably aren't fat at all)
496665
Are you kidding?  Guys don't like it because they want to be liked for who they are, not how much money they have.  Go to school, learn to spell, get a job and make your own money.  Then you can like any guy you want.
84233
Go to places that interest you, like maybe a book store, or local band's concert. But don't try looking around a bar, b/c you'll only find guys that want one thing...Good luck!
495885
Just dont be so picky. alot of good guys out there. i promise. just keep an open mind and heart. smile more and approach. youll see .
338872
Be a  perfect gentleman...\nBe 100% sweet...