you're in love with two people. one who is 1 year younger and one who is 2 yrs older. who should you go with?
406677
You should follow your heart. Date both for now... time will tell which one you are supposed to be with.
313046
Try to use your brain to make a logical decision.  Are you really, for instance just lusting over this someone else?  Do you have a long-term committed relationship that you'll ruin by following your heart?  Or are these both people you've had some kind of relationship with and you simply can't decide.\n\nIf it's the latter, who will be better over the long term.  Sometimes we make choices based on short-term goals (like having a great sexual relationship) rather than long-term goals (like finding a kind person who will be committed to you).\n\nThink before you leap!
125403
I suggest you see which one cares and love you more. Who do you spend time with more? How do they treat you? Is he your kind of people like are you comfortable with him more then the other? Who is nicer to you? Answers these questions to yourself and see how you feel about the two guys you love.
307998
You love who you love.  If you think you are in love with her, see if she is into you and then go from there.
61601
It is better to have someone who loves you than the one you love.\nHe'll look after you in the best possible way.\nHowever, it is you who have to decide finally. Take the best decision.
160366
When you figure it out let me know.I am kinda' in the same situation.I am in love with a girl who is in love with me,yet she is with someone.
587331
i like 2 person at thte same time...i think we shd choose who is more loving and caring..
268409
Don't commit to either of them.  Get to know them.  Then make your choice.
406917
do u love someone new or who u have known for a while? who is nicer and more affectionate?? just follow your heart.. .. do u really want to end it with ur husbband??way down deep u may miss him and love him more.
106836
choose the one that you can picture yourself with in the future. The one that you wont regret yourself with, wont be embarresed, and the one that your heart rips open to. The one that you miss right after he leaves your door step,etc.
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Which one of them do you have more FUN with? That's how I'd choose! It really depends on what sort of outcome you're looking for, though. \nIf you are looking to be mutually exclusive, you might want to think about it a little more discriminantly- get to know this new guy and his history more thoroughly- then make your decision.\nI obviously don't know you, but sometimes you can tell a lot about someone's feelings about others, simply by looking at the word choice in their question-- yours indicates that, although the 6 years guy is "great", he might be safe & boring, to you. The way you've presented it, it sounds like you are looking to experience something new...
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I would go for the second choice, because in the long haul of things this guy probably wouldn't cheat on you or lye to you. The first choice would because all he has is his looks to worry about. He wouldn't be worried about you.
183558
you can love different people for different reasons.... the question is, are you IN love with either of the girls and what does that mean in your relationships?
475274
Girl, you are an adult. If you love the man and you handle the age difference and his daughter, go ahead.
383533
neither. clearly you don't have Strong enough feelings for either girl, so move on to another girl who has everything you want, don't settle for mediocrity, even at you age. if you develop good habits like this now you will save yourself a world of trouble when you get older when it really counts.
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I think that you should go out with the boy that you think is the BEST for you, and who is the sweetest to you ect. I really like this one boy and I think im in love too! If I were you I would go out with the boy who was the sweetest to you and who really showed that they care about you, thats what really matters!
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welllll i dk  really i mean ur in one big predicament.umm i mena its really up to u i mean go with the one who u feel like you would be more happy with and u like more