what can I do if my relationship is falling apart??
400730
When I heard 3 month old, I figured that would be a turning point and then you mentioned it started as soon as you knew you were going to be parents...obviously this wasn't planned, and your man is now feeling his life as he knew it is changed forever, what a shame, it could and would be changed for the better if he would only open his heart to the bigger picture of what life is all about, family...early months for anyone is a struggle, after 6 months he should be able to recognize himself within his own sons eyes and begin to form a bond, if you feel he will totally rejects this notion, then seek family counseling, either professionally or thru a local Church, Please don't allow your child to be subjected to such conditions that resulted from his birth to carry on for years and emotionally scar his childhood because his father didn't want to know any better.
1122141
Tell him where to go. I mean it.\n\nRead the fantastic book on the subject:\nThe Verbally Abusive Relationship\n\nYou are being verbally abused. It is all about power, his power over you, making you feel less than him.\n\nGo to http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1558505822/002-4628612-4610440?v=glance&n=283155\n Read the reviews for it.\nThen read it. It will explain what he is doing and why and what to do about it.\n\nYou don't have to let him sap the joy out of your life if you know what is going on and how to handle it.
171698
definitely try to communicate!! it will probably help your relationship, but, even if it doesn't, it'll help YOU in the future, trust me.
775074
It sounds like he has major issues unrelated to you... but you are paying the price. You need to talk to him about this compassionately, but firmly and tell him he needs to treat you with more love and respect. You might be financially dependent on him for now, but you deserve to be treated with respect. You'll be okay if this relationship ends. Do what is right for you and be proactive... don't just sit and wait for him to figure it out. You'll only stay stuck in a bad situation.
1011839
if you separate you should give yourself one day of grieving for every month you were together. after that you should then try and find someone else. but first ask him wuts goin on with him. maybe he's having another problem and taking it out on you. try to find out wuts up with him and let him know that he's hurting you. then if things get worse or if he doesn't care you should end it for your sake. so you don't get hurt even more.
133947
spend time on your self it sounds like you lost your self in this relationship. spend time with your friends and family fall in love with your self then you will heal
325767
Either you are having problems or you are not.  If you are having problems in your relationship, he may have thought of breaking up with you, and you will actually be doing him a favor by doing it for him.  If you are not having problems, you can fix them or leave him.  If you fix them, you will not need to break up with him.  If you leave him, there is only one way to do it.  Do it quickly.  Do not let him talk you into keep on trying and just one more week, or one more dance, or one more anything.  It will just make it harder on BOTH of you.... It will be prolonging the pain when at the end of the one more whatever, you have to break up with his still / or again.
1174260
if the relationship has lost the intimacy
670273
i think you need to have a heart 2 heart talk. lay you cards out and be open with him. just because you dont spend time together like you used to dose not mean it should be over. in relationships things change and the only way to keep the rship alive is to adapt to the change. maybe he thinks you are the one who is changing. you will never know if you dont find out. if you care about him you wont let him go. good luck
1042818
Make the time that you do spend together special by making sure its quality time. Dont spend it watching TV. Instead talk and go out and do things together. Believe that you will end up seeing each other every day eventually and use that belief to keep your relationship goin forward.
81580
should say good things that you remember about the time you're still together... bring back the good ole memories... try to flatter her and lower yourself... make him/her feel that it's your fault or something... that'll make him/her feel better and it softens heart.... good luck!
379995
try "leaving him" for 2-3 weeks and see how he reacts; sometimes WE get so busy, we sometimes forget what's important in our lives.... try giving him this "reality" check and see what happens. If he loves you, then he will see the errors of his ways and WILL change. If not, then you did the right thing.... dump him!
890557
Well sounds like you two need to sit down together and have a long conversation about your relationship, and why you are fighting over things.  And decide if maybe your lives are going in different directions and its time to end it. Or fight through it. All relationships have tought times. Its up to those involved to decide if they want to work through the problems or not. \n\nIf he is unwilling or uncooperative to sit and discuss this. I would say its time to move on as difficult as that may be.
305600
talk to him. explain to him what went wrong. if he truly loves you, he will understand you!
986171
You can't but if it isn't working out you have to. It would be worse to stay in an unhappy relationship. Eventually he or she will get over their hurt feelings and realize it was for the best also.
21788
Keep your chin up, and understand that will be a lot of time apart from each other. But if you really love the person, don't give up, no matter what. It is not easy, if there is not an official commitment to each other, but just keep the love in your heart no matter what happens.
105727
find someone else. don't be affraid to break it up.