To call or not to call?
413142
I'd call him and ask him to start telling you the way he really feels and if it doesn't feel right to him to go with all your friends then just tell u. He probably didn't want to hurt your feelings and didn't want to say anything. U have to make it OK to open up to you and let him know that he can tell how he feels when he doesn't want or like something u suggest. He might of felt you were going to ignore him when u are with your friends.
1051872
Quit following the "RULES" who's the expert you or some handbook of rules that everyone goes by? If you like the guy call him if not then don't call him...If I were him and I gave you my number and you called me weeks or months later I wouldn't bother to pick up because if it took you that long to call that means you were not interested...Get what I'm saying....Make your own rules!!
1049887
Call the next day to say thanks for a great time.  Just don't call too much, I had one guy call me 5 times after he asked me out we hadn't even gone out yet, that was a total turn off..
725540
Not calling when they say they would
703309
Tell the caller: \n"I will let them know you called." and then say "When is a good time to have them call you back?"
1077761
It's a great question... really it is.\n\nI find myself making that call a lot.\n\nI'd say... consider the GREATER GOOD... and act accordingly.\n\nFor example... My wife doesn't like ANY INTERACTION with my EX-WIFE... she doesn't even like me TALKING to her... But my SON (who lives with me) is a product of that marriage.\n\nSometimes My ex and I will communicate through e-mail... to deal with an issue... and I'll just NOT MENTION that to my current wife.\n\nThe greater good.   There are other examples... but this one I think is pretty cut and dried.
966378
it depends on the guy but usually it freaks them out so i wouldn't call to many times atleast not in row anyway...you must really like this person ...but no matter how bad you do want to call him and stuff don't call to much you don't want to mess it up by freaking him out b/c you called to much
729759
If they haven't stopped in the next 3 weeks, I would check to make sure you are on the list. In the mean time, simply hang up. You are not being rude.
298667
3rd time a charm, ah?\nJust go there instead of calling, ok?
442137
That does seem very high volume (20 missed calls), but it depends on what its for. If these are just friends being needy then ignoring them will probably drive them away pretty quick and solve the problem. \n\nThere's no moral obligation to pick up your phone but if they are valid questions which are your responsiblity to handle then yes it is rude to not ever call them back.\n\nSince you say they're friends and family, then no, absolutely not. Change your message to say, if you're not in the emergency room or on the side of the road don't expect a call back unless you make it worth my while. Maybe if you can keep it light and have a sense of humor about it you can put them off without offending anybody.
962295
If you really love this guy then ignoring his calls is the wrong thing to do.  If he wants space and has asked that you give it to him, you should not call him.  But, if he calls you DO NOT ignore his calls.  The only message that sends to him is that you have given up on him.  He knows you are hurt.  He is likely hurting as well.  If you want this man in your and your daughters lives, then you need to try to work things out.  Listen to him, give him his space, don't do something in retaliation that you can't take back.  The old saying that if you love something you should set it free, if it comes back to you it will be yours forever, if it doesn't it never belonged to you in the first place comes to mind in your situation.  Ask yourself if you would rather have this man in your life (even if it is only as a friend now).  The answer to that question will guide your next actions.  Just, don't do anything in haste or it might be something you will regret for a long time.\n\nBeen there.  Best wishes.
319814
Yup. And wait for a fortnight. But if he does call after THAT LONG, do let him know you were expecting him to call yah earlier than that!
302679
i'm sorry to hear usually women don't take rejections well at all.  you should reschedule when you had to cancel tell her hey can't today due to "insert important reason" but lets go out tomorrow or _______.  Don't just leave it at i'll call you.
707535
Who cares who hangs up and you can get her to call you more if she is really interested and you stop calling her. She will call you if you are not calling her. Very simple. God bless****
1072443
I like good conversation, so I'll talk to anybody. I generally will take a guy's number but won't call for the following reasons : He has said something stupid, wearing something stupid, or doing something stupid. Word of advice, if she doesn't offer her number first, don't offer yours. Leave her guessing sometimes.
176221
the next day at least, unless he asks you to call same day and then wait a few hours. never call as soon as you get away from them, make'em sweat it out a little,
564715
Only if he wants to. If he is actually wanting to date her, she will be very happy to know he is still interested in her to the point he would like to call her now. Personally, if he doesn't call the next day just to say he had a nice time, I write him off and move on since I believe he is trying to play the coy thing and I don't care for games. I think he should go for it, just not gush when he calls her. He could use the call to set up another date for early next week if that's what he wants to do. If not and he just wants a friend, it is irrelevant as to when he calls her since he just wants to shoot the breeze. He should call her when ever he wants. Hope this helps!!