what does it mean if someone calls you shallow?
412602
it means that they think that u r a superficial person. which is when someone only looks at another person by their physical appearance, n that physical apperance defines who they r in the inside. shallow ppl r gay ppl...n i dont mean it by homosexuals, theyre cool...if ure shallow, god help ur sould
782905
It's a terrible thing when a guy says that. It simply means that he only cares about you because of the sex you can give him. I think it's very stupid for a guy to even mention such terminology. He should be saying things like "you make me feel special", "you make feel like I'm worth so much". He should express that you make him feel so much better.
734015
Dude what do u mean shallow?\n\nI always say marry the person you have the best sex with. That way no matter what happens there will always be great make up sex!!!
672551
Because, society is shallow. and the person you want to go out with is most likely shallow.\nThe want a told beauty instead of their own... culture today has named and shamed the people who they think aren't beautiful...\nAnd it might be because you havent asked him :)
86337
It can mean several things, depending on the type of question you asked they could be uncomfortable talking about the subject, or it could mean that they like you and are just a bit bashful about things. It could also just mean that they are a shy person ;-)
427039
Everyone looks for something different. You'll find some people will be more shallow than others and some will appreciate you for who you are; that's just the way it is, not everyone likes the same thing, it all depends on what the kind of person you're looking for values.
870164
its a girl thing.. but if she does call you that it probably means she thinks your hot and kinda likes you. or she just might be a slu.t.
345272
A guy who liked me used to always call me stupid though we were like the smartest kids in school, so it could be.\n\nDepends how he says it. The guy who liked me said it ina playful way, with a smile. If he says it in a hateful way, it means he thinks you're ugly.
565579
Yeah mean people suck, they're shallow.
295190
it means don't be deceived by appearances.  what you see as something good (seemingly good) may just be the opposite of what it looks like.  like friends who are extra nice to you but secretly plot your own ruin.
910787
So, you think it's shallow if he likes you now, but you want to play games like "hard to get"?  That is stupid.  If he likes you better now, it might be because you lost weight, or, more likely, because you have more confidence now.  Or, he might feel exactly the same about you--can you handle that?
1178210
In most cases, when someone is making fun of someone they are doing it because of some kind of insecurity thing inside of them. They lash out at something that someone else has in order to not have to face something that they have. Does that make sense? I was told a long time ago that when a person points a finger that there are three fingers pointing back at the person doing the pointing.\n\nThose "jerks" must have a problem. It is not all about handsome. It is about character and feeling and being real and they just do not get it. I understand. I have never been the "handsome" guy that makes people stop and take a second look. I am a nice guy. Sure, I have been over-looked by people. I understand the feeling. It sucks. Sad to say, it is how our society is today. They always use the "beautiful" people to sell products. You never see a chunky girl dive into the pool, swim to the ladder, climb out of the pool and say, "I got this way drinking diet coke." It is life. \n\nBe you. The hell with them. Be the beautiful guy that you are. The ones that matter will notice. You will not have to wear a mask. You will be and you are beautiful, just as you are.\n\nI hope that I said what I meant to say and it makes sense.
372965
No, it means you are a freak and want to show it, just kidding, This means to me that you found a guy that you like and want to date him, times have changed alot and people some too, I believe you will still get those stares in disgust and a few comments here and there, but you are where you want to be.
392033
I don't think making mean comments about things which people cannot change is called for and agree that they are loosers.  For me personally I like bigger boobs but that doesn't mean I have anything against people who are not well endowed.  It's just the initial attraction thing, in the end it is personality that will determine if you will really like someone or not.
480105
Because guys are shallow
790204
Well the thing about women is that the answer to your question could be just about anything.    Examples:  She is too shy...she does have bf....she might just have wanted to make friends and has make some.....she did not find you attractive....she just did not think your personality clicked with hers....or for a shallow woman, you don't have enough dough...or you were too tall...too short...or she simply just has not had the opportunity to call yet.   Do you see what I am saying...this is an issue that can not really be speculated by other women because we know the possibilities of why are unlimited.   You should either call her again or go see her...otherwise you may never know.  \nAnd since this is bothering you....you obviously are interested in her....so go for it....it does not hurt to try.
270621
Self justification.  Same reason people call themselfs sexy, and they just are not.  People are generally.... dumb.