how do i know that he is not playing me?
396246
You are crazy. This man could be a killer, have you thought about that? and how can you love someone you've never seen before, that's real stupid. He's playing you, all he want is a mother for those kids or he will make you suffer. Find someone you can see and love. That Internet love is deadly, leave this man alone and don't be stupid or you'll be dead.
635258
Are you kidding. I would soooo ask him about it, in person to. Not over the internet or the phone, and look at his face when you are asking him. If he takes a long time to asnwer you, he's lying. But you gotta ask him so u know whats going on.
233896
Go ask him. How should i know.
999430
Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
232237
you can drop him hints and see how he take it. or if you are daring enff, let him know. but do noty expect anything more. afterall, he may not like you back. or discreetlty ask hiim if he has any ideal ger in mind. if he say u, binggo. if he say someone else, you know you are out
1176705
Don't guess if he's married or not.  Find out for sure.  Do not pursue anything until you do this.  Drop it immediately if he is.
288400
how do i know i don't even know him
881052
listen to your gut.  if it's telling you that things are "shady"-- then it probably is.  a guy, should always make you feel special and that you matter.  if you feel as though this guy is playing games, then he is.  i'm sure he's a nice guy, and i'm sure you really like him, but at the end of the day, it's your heart that counts.  \n\nhowever, if you want to keep him, then you need to replay the playa.  basically, you need to come off like you're not interested...that's the only way to keep him on lock down.  you have to regain the power in the relationship, that means, not texting him, not calling him, not doing anything.  once, he realizes that you're not trying, he'll try.  that's the true test.
578899
Are you sure hes not trying to set you up with his friend?
966156
Well try cooling off the flirting / teasing and actually see if he can hold a conversation in between.  The plus side of that is you'll also know whether he's interested in the real you or just the flirty you.  If not, no great loss!
572732
you wait or you confront him in a calm manner tell him that i don't want to be confused and you don;t want to receive wrong messages from his gestures,.ask him do you or do you not be honest with your answer it's a one time shot if you lose you will lose a person you really desire. it's up to you, tell him that!
1010442
Are you sure he isn't just talking about YOU?
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
1001064
You might be able to tell if he doesn't call you as often or if he sounds strange on the phone, especially when you ask him how his day was. Good luck and try to trust him.
473360
Just be honest, tell him you just don't think it is working out the way you thought it would.  That will let him know you were interested but it is just not clicking now.
779088
yes, let it go. if you really are sure he is, then ask him.  He may deny it, or he may not.  Hacking into his account would show you don't trust him!  And if he finds out he is going to be REALLY mad that you don't!
523882
How can you not know if you are going out? And just ask him.