how can i get a girlfriend?
401255
well she is already taken so find someone else it usually happens this way you always fall for someone who doesnt like you and then when your not interested they want you so wait what happens
290390
Just be nice. Tell her you have a girlfriend or think she is really nice, but this isnt a good time for you to go out with people right now.\n\nDont be mean to her!!
691683
Money and looks will only get you so far... Be flirtatious, partake in interesting hobbies, and show your self confidence without being cocky. You need to take the initiative as well... don't be afraid to ask that girl out on a date!  Have no fear of rejection. Everyone gets rejected and it's part of life. Also, don't be CREEPY... hard to define... but enjoy your life... talk to people, smile, look girls in the eye, don't be shy... that's all I can think of right now! Good luck!
46817
Sure, I am more than certain that you can get a boyfriend. Every guy likes an atheletic girl.
389092
Get a girlfriend and ask her or put an ad in the personals asking for fun and experimentation
46692
I assume that you are at a university or college, are there no girls at the school?  You can join some clubs for social activities that could lead you to meeting someone of interest.
460914
Its hard to get confidence enough to girls.  Take it in small steps. \nFirst find something about yourself that you like and are proud of.  You don't need anyone to know about your achievements and they probably don't care, but they aren't good at what you are good at and that makes you unique different in your own right.  Knowing that in the back of your head can give you the pride and confidence you seek in yourself.  When you can see that in yourself others will and those others will be girls.  \nWhy would someone want something when it’s thrown at them. Value comes when there ain't enough to go around. So let them take interest in you for you, instead of you trying to convince them that your worth it let them see it before you give them the chance. That’s a rookie mistake.\nNext up, start with a "Hi". Say "Hi" when appropriate to one girl you know each day. Start with ones you know then get used to making eye contact with and saying "Hi" to girls your don't talk to. Don’t go stalker there. Just a normal “Hi”\nThis will help you get used to talking with women.  The next up is talking to women.  The best is to talk to women your not into, just as people.  Then work your way up to women who are decent and finally to women who seem out of your league for now.  A good starter is “Hey do you know what the time is?” (Don’t be wearing a watch or have a phone on you.\nOnce your talking with women they will see you as a decent guy and not a serial killer.  By the way have guy friends. Other wise you might end up a yip dog boy. The guy friend to all the girls that doesn’t get laid and isn’t gay.\nThe next step is showing interest and asking them out for coffee. Start slow and keep moving. Soon you will be gaining the confidence that will enable you to have the "Game" you desire.\nOnce date around have some experience under your belt, you will be strait pimping.  Then it’s to the next level of women.  The right girls for now girls.  Then to the last level the right girl.\n\nIt all starts and ends with you.  Remember it’s all about you, until you meet a cool chick that you dig a lot and then guess what. It's all about you.  When she starts being not worth the time and doing you wrong.  You are back on the scene.  Master the game my friend, it will pay off.
248905
So what if you have no girlfriend? That should not be your biggest concern in life. If you're happy and social, you'll attract women. But if you look desperate or depressed, nobody will be attracted to you.
456992
Its hard to say why girls are not attracted to you. It could be anything. Don't try so hard. Stop looking for a girlfriend. Try finding someone that has the same interests as you. Looking for women in bars and clubs doesn't always work. Try the internet, chats, clubs...etc.  Let them get a chance to know you as a person. Then see if can develop into something else.
1048239
Go to dating sites. I'm sure you'll find girls interested in you,
109984
It's hard when  your shy to talk to girls..but if you wanna girlfriend you have to get over this...start out small..start with saying just hi to a girl  you like..then start with a hi how are you..then add a little more at a time you'll soon realize it's not as hard to talk to people as you think...a lot of women like shy guys...you'll find some one just be yourself..
913290
You've just gotta be patient, the perfect lady for you will notice you :)\nForcing things will just make you seem desperate, which will put ladies off.  Spending time making new friends, meeting new people and trying new things out - hopefully this will lead you to a girlfriend :)\nThe more people you meet, the higher the chance of meeting one who likes you!
878770
Get a hobby, or a girlfriend.
56593
Yahoo! Answers is a place to get advice from thousands of others based on their knowledge, education, and experience in life. Yahoo! Answers is not the place to ask if the world if anyone wants to be your girlfriend.\n\nIf you want to find a girlfriend, then first work to become a better person and second, start to date (Yahoo! Personals is appropriate for this). Treat the women you date with respect. Listen to them, show genuine kindness, and when the time is right to further that dating friendship into a relationship, then you can ask that one special person to be your girlfriend. Good luck!
806661
the secret is to quit trying.\n\ninstead of looking for love, look for friendship.  you do this by talking to girls like they are human beings (just like your male friends).  most girls appreciate a guy that doesn't stalk them or talk to them like they're idiots and/or aliens.\n\nif you can't figure out what to say, here's some tips on how to get a conversation started with ANYBODY, ANYWHERE, and at ANYTIME:\n(1)  comment on something that just happened that you both witnessed.  ("did you freakin' see that?!")\n(2)  comment on something that you both were just involved in.  ("yawn!  were you as bored as i was?")\n\ntrust me- the physical stuff gets OLD if you don't genuinely like the person you're with.  so just talk to girls until you find one that has something interesting to say.  \n\nanother thing is wardrobe.  if you're going to class in a scruffy graphic tee (particularly the ones with stupid/crude jokes), hair sticking everywhichaway, have a 5 o'clock shadow at 8 a.m., haven't bathed in a few days, or you're wearing something that doesn't fit right, then you will get no booty.  No booty at all.\n\ninvest in a couple of solid color or striped polo tees,  get a haircut.  throw those banged up converses in the trash and get you some Timberlands (or a similar shoe).  if the jeans have big holes, are too loose or too tight, are too short or too long- then they need to go.  why?  because a cute butt does matter.  i don't care how many girls deny it, they have at some point in their life stared at some dude's behind.  medium to medium-dark stonewash jeans or light khakis work just fine.  if you have any piercings that are flattering, leave them in.  a good looking eyebrow or ear piercing can be an asset.       \n \ndon't worry about meeting someone.  you will.  and when you meet the right girl, you'll just know.
499008
Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her