How to distinguish the right person from many suitors or husband-to-be's?
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Who feels like your best friend that you can share anything and everything with?  Who makes you laugh so hard you cry?  Who truly listens to you?  Who do you miss when you are apart from them?  Who makes your heart skip a beat whenever they look at you and every cell in your body go on fire when their hand touches your arm?\n\nWho shares your goals and desires for the future?  Who can you not imagine not having in your future?  Who is the one in your dreams at night?  Who's face do you want to see when you look into your babies eyes?  Who do you want holding your hand when you are old and taking your last breath?
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You should first ask yourself what are the qualities you are looking for in a wife.  Be realistic and make sure you are ready to live up to the expectations of a husband.  Once you've figured out what you want from that person, then you'll have your answer.  Trustworthy, honest, loyal, kind hearted and free spirited are some good qualities.
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you are right in my opinion.  I don't think that there is just one someone for everyone.  There are too many crazy things happening in this world that can cause things to go wrong really early, but I think that there are a bunch of people out there that can fit you and that when they fit, it isn't about them being hot, or being just like you, but being complimentary to you.  They make you your best.  Like how some colors look good on people, but not on others.  there are different characteristics that mix together to make a good combination.  I think those who have been married the longest have found someone that fits them and just continued to click, and work at trying to keep clicking
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A man should have incompressible morals and ethics, devoted in religion,honest,hardworking who still finds time 2 spend with me, family oriented,generous,good looking,goal oriented, and affectionate!  It may sound like a tall order, but there is men out there like this..I know I found one, thankfully!  We plan to marry in mid June of this year.
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You may be looking in all the wrong places.  There are great guys out there who have hearts of gold, compassion towards others and certainly know how to treat a lady.  Knowing the qualities of the person who would make you happy is a good thing and is not too much to ask.
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be open and honest.  Let yourself be, who you are.  That person will find you.
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you haven't found the right person yet
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take your time, Love will reveal it's self.\ndoes he call you, or do you do everything in the relationship. test him, see if he really cares. don't bug him about it or give him a big list of what you are looking for, just let him be and see what kind of guy he is. you can't change people so find out if he is really suitable for you through experience in time. you are probably young enough that it isn't crucial that you get married right now. take your time if you can....it reveals many things!
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Sometimes you won't find people, they'll find you. Have you ever noticed that if you're actively looking for something, you won't find it... and then when you relax, you realize it's been right infront of you the entire time? It may work like that.\n\nYou are a smart and intelligent female with a gentle heart, from what I've seen here on Yahoo! Answers. Being so, you must have an inner radiance that shines so brightly, I'm surprised you haven't a husband yet! (More surprised to discover you're 31, as you always came off to me as your mid 20's... like 24.)\n\n\nWell, let's look at the pros and cons of a husband, shall we? (and let's humor you and say he's Hindu and views God like you do)\n\nPros - A companion, a lover, a best friend, someone to discuss new ideas with, someone to love, someone to love you, someone to attach to emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally\n\nCons - Another person to take care of, someone to argue with, someone to get stressed over, someone who needs constant care, someone whom you may at times want to beat the cr*p out of, someone who -- while he shares your beliefs -- is quite different than you and will have AT LEAST one thing that will tick you off to no tomorrow that he'll refuse to change.\n\n\nFate and Destiny has been selected for you already, as it has for everybody... at least, it's in my opinion for it to be so. Just wait for him to come, or for a symbolic message to come saying that you should "marry" God.
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You're half way there! Good for you to realize this now!!  Strength and self-esteem will  sky-rocket!! Then, when you're ready..you'll chose a much better man.
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go to MATCHMAKER.COM.  It is a good dating site.  Be HONEST when you answer the questions that they require of you.  These questions help other people identify what you are like as a person.  You are also able to put a picture of yourself on the site as well as view pictures of people on there.  The site is pretty much self explanatory.  Give it a try!  It worked for me.  I am now married to someone I met there.  We have a new family AND are VERY happy!
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You need to work on the inner you!!! You need to work on self confidence, self esteem. Once you feel you are the best person you can be on the inside it will seep to the outside and everyone will take notice!!!  Don't ever try to better yourself for others do it all for you! And you are right to be picky...your Mr Right will come and it will take time...
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If I feel like I'm seeking someone and there aren't any choices that may be good enough, then there isn't any choice to be attached. I haven't met any guys recently whom I was very attracted to. It was like I was looking for something I knew it was not gonna be there, because that's what they are and they can't be changed. So, I wouldn't want to settle for less if they didn't seem good enough for me.
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Not at all. The major thing about finidng someone is that  you have first to find...yourself, as corny as it sounds.\nThe moment you become more aware of your own worth, you start attracting potential candidates. If you are not very much impressed with your looks, there must be something that is special about you. Let it become your assignment to find that something within yourself. If you do find it, be proud of it. Even if you don't feel it, keep reinforcing it for yourself by repeating it mentally before you go to sleep. Repeat that sentence: "I have the right to be proud of..."(insert whatever it is found in yourself). "I am aware of my worth, and others will become too"\nThe more times you do it, the more convincing it becomes, and that will eventually show even in your posture.\nAs for age, one of my uncles married for God knows what time when he was 65. You are still young enough and there are many bachelors out there who are looking for the right woman. Why not you?\nGood Luck.
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None of them are the right one for you. If you are in a situaton where you have more than one choice and all choices look equally as good then none are the best one for you.  The best one will stand out from all the rest. He will be the one who is always winning in your eyes even really he is not better in the eyes of others.
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What you respect you will attract. If you are financially smart, and truly have the intention to do good, it's impossible that you won't find any likeminded people. If you're not like the person you would like to meet, it might become more difficult.
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Take your time with dating, find who out who you are first so that you can find the right type of guy who will treat you with proper respect and love you for you and not who he wants you to be, and the reason why it is hard to find the good guy is because they are either married, gay or are looking for the right woman.