Long-distance gf dilemma...(details)?
402061
you guys are young!\ni was in a situation very similar to hers. \ni thought i would die if the guy i loved didn't take me in his arms and "consummate" our relationship (as you say) \nand well he caved to my wishes and it hurts now. every so often i regret not being a virgin. and we are in a long distance relationship too. and even though its working its tough.\n\ni would say wait. tell her whats in your heart. and it sounds like you have her feelings in mind in deciding not to have sex with her and if u explain that to her I'm sure she would appreciatte that you considered her emotions.
166477
There is nothing wrong with a long distance relatoinship, the problem is how can you trust them. If there is love, trust, honesty and commitment, then it is tottaly beautiful once you go to visit them. It's because when you are away, they misses you and you missing them. When you get together after a while its all exciting to pick you up from the airport with the flowers patiently waiting for you.
971318
Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
255927
long distance relationships are always tough, and especally tough if you don't trust the person your trying to have one with, cut your losses and get out while the getting is good, be kind about it though and just blame it on the distance, that way if he moves back over here you could pick up where you left off.
297938
Well, if you really trust this person, you can always convince yourself that it will work. However, the sad truth is that even the best of relationships have been ruined by long-distance problems. Don't break off too soon, play it by ear. But if you do so, just remember that you may be hurt. Good luck and be strong! =)
569764
the truth is, it really depends on both parties, if they really love each other and that the FAITH is there, no matter how far they are from each other, it doesn't matter!! but in reality, it is so hard to keep a long distance relationship... There are lot of things that can happen when you're away from someone, its up to you if you really want to stay in your relationship or just goes on with the flow!!!
961012
heres to an old addage (SP?)... if you love something... let it go... if it comes back to you... it's yours.... \nIf she wants to study overseas... and you put the brakes on that... she may wind up resenting you for that... (possibly for the rest of her life)... Sometimes to love someone... you have to do things that you don't like doing... you have to put their best interests in mind... \nI can't tell you how much you love her... I don't know... but I do know that you don't want to pressure her into staying... that's a decision she should make entirely on her own...
57969
it depends on how both of you feel, and if you really want to make it work it will work. my bf and i have a more than 3 year relationship now, the first 8 months was together in college, the rest was spent in diff continents. i go home to vacation every year to see him. im sure how i feel about him and he says he's sure and i believe him though somethimes i get paranoid and i grill him with questions and sometimes he is patient sometimes he gets irritated. communication is very important. we try to talk everyday even if it's just to say hello. trust each other, if you don't trust each other there's no use having the long distance relationship. don't hold back each other in terms of friendships, your goals, etc. in my case if i'm excited happy sad angry ... he's the person i always want to "report" to. we're each other's "go-to" person even if it's just on the phone. i told him that in case someone new comes along i asked him to just tell me right away and i'm hoping if it ever happens he'll care enough and just be honest. long distance relationships are not easy but if you feel that it's what you want and your bf feels the same way then it will be worth the time and effort. i hope i've been some of help.
157611
Ok, realise that there are BENEFITS to  having a long distance relationships such as the honeymoon effect... Now send her a daily email, chat with her cam2cam,send her letters/cards via snail mail----- communicate when you are apart... Good Luck...
39344
You got to choices, and it's all up to you.\n\n1. Dont listen anything she says cause living 1 hour away from each other is not DISTANCE, believe you have no idea what a distance-relationship is. If you care for her as you say, FIGHT FOR HER, dont' let her go, if she really loves you, she'll stay with you.\n\n2. Move on... there's a milion other girls. Yeah, i know it's really hard and at this moment you probably believe that you can't live without her, than you will never be able to love anyone again and stuff like that... but believe me, in 6 months, you won't even remember her last name.
476473
You should jus tell her how you feel, are you actually in a relationship with this girl? The way that you have to look at it is if you tell her that you do love her and she feels the same, maybe you'll get in2 a relationship! if this girl doesnt move back and decides to stay where she is - doesnt mean that you cant still be together. Me and my boyfriend were living real close in the same city, now hes living in a completely different part of the country - we're working out tho, and you could visit her aswell as her visiting you right?
271510
If this is true love, hang on to it. Dont let distince stop you. I am currently in a LDR and shes in another country completly. It could be a few months before i can see her again.... She is very impatiant, but i still get her to hang on. So you should try untill you can see him/her again.
505869
Ok, look.  You are going to be graduating soon and you want your girlfriend to go with you... right? Well, is she in school too?  Maybe she's not ready to take the next step.  You can't rush her into doing it and if you feel like a long distance relationship would be to difficult then it's time to break up. And as for the other girl... if you're breaking up with someone you really really love why would you start seeing someone that you just "like"? and still be in the same situation?\nIf  you have to break up with her let it be the last resort but also don't twist her arm to take the next step either.
709927
You can't force these things, she either loves you or she doesn't.  Sounds like she doesn't.  Also possibly because your relationship is long distance you romanticise about it too much.  If you lived together day in, day out, the rose-tinted spectacles may have come off long ago.  You sound like a lovely guy, you deserve better.  Let it go and find someone who will be there for you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.
1043499
Now, what's your age and why should you move to the US?\n\nProbably it's difficult to convince your GF to come along - and a distance relation? Sounds impossible...
688334
Well, shes not across the world (im in california shes in florida) its hard because theres alot of times where we would wanna b close and hold eachother kiss and all that good stuff, we havent seen eachother too (july im goin to visit u bet ur sweet ass im happy bout that lol) we've been together for about 5 months now and i love her more then anything else...communication and trust are big if your planning on having a long distant relationship, if you cant do that then it will just fall apart.. if you are happy with who your with and get over all the bump that WILL happen you'll find out it was all worth it....... but thats how i feel :-)
689439
One. You can ask in the very first email, if you are charming enough and clever about it. Better yet, get her to ask to meet you.\n\nBe sure that you two are able to physically meet each other fairly easily - in other words, not living so far apart that it becomes a hassle to meet. While long-distance relationships can and do work, for many people they are just too much trouble and nearly impossible to pull off well. So, be sure that both of you are comfortable.\n\nJust ask, and be confident. There is no "prescribed length of writing" in these sorts of relationships.