My daughters husband. Im in love?
414872
You should be ashamed of yourself.  At least he has the good sense to realize the embarrassment of your indiscretion and make an attempt to move on from it.  Do you know, or even care, that pursuing a relationship with this man would destroy your daughters trust in you forever?  Grow up and be an adult, not a promiscuous son-in-law stealing tramp.
1161021
My mom once told me to know if your really in love you have to look deep into your soul and ask yourself if you can see your life with out that person.. try to picture that person living a life with out u in it, a new gf, ect.. does it break your heart? if none of this phases you, then your not really in love.. but, your already married,  you to a vow , try to remember what made you fall in love with him in the first place.. remember that cloud 9 feeling, the giddiness..if you love him, really love him.. then find that giddiness again, and look around at your gf's and their husbands or bf's.. if their anything like my gf's alot of them are dealing with a-hole husbands , disrespect, drinking, wondering eyes, being a dead beat ect.. and you know what.. it makes me realize that although sometimes my marriage isnt as exciting and not the romantic novel i hoped for, I have a pretty damn good husband, that loves me, and doesnt treat me badly.., hes a great dad, and i could of done so much worse.. so im pretty damn lucky.. \n\nDont rush into thinking that he grass is greener on the other side, u didnt say but im guessing if u love him dearly that he must be a pretty alright guy.. and they are hard to find, and many woman would do just about anything to have a good man by their side..\n\nGood luck.. and find the love again, if u had it once, surely u can find it again if you just look hard enough for it..
40937
Wow, I have read all your questions and I feel for you.\nI think the most important thing are your 2 daughters that it seems like you both love. For their well being they need to have their father in their life.\n\nI think you really need to look inside and really think what is it that you want out of your life. I think you 2 are mature enough to not play games. If you do not have any reason to feel he is cheating, then I will not believe that he asked you that just to fish for information.\nI think that to have family dates on a weekly basis, should give you enough time to see if he is really changing, and to find out what are your true fillings for him. Also keep up the counselling together and each alone. I will stick to the dates and the counseling for now, until you are convinced that this time would be the last time.\nGood luck
347838
Yeah... I know how this feels. If you think you truley love him then you should be care full and tell him in a time that you feel is right. And don't judge him by his past. I mean his kids could be great and just because he can't get over his ex dosen't mean that he still dosen't love you back. Good luck ^_^
339857
My answer to you... don't do it.  Think about what you have with your fiance.  And think about your child.  Physical attraction always fades with time, but LOVE is forever.  It only grows with time.  What's your priority?
411620
Are you really in LOVE with HIM?  Or is it the idea of new love and that feeling of new love, that you're in love with?  Especially being a married woman, after a little bit of time you lose that new love/lust euphoria.  Perhaps there are some things that you are missing in your marriage that you are looking for in this new guy.  I know it doesn't answer your question, but perhaps you should work on the marriage that you're already in and see if you can improve it, because you must have LOVED your husband at one time
617239
You deserve devotion and caring from the father of your children. If he cant be a loving husband then you need to move on. You need to protect your child. \n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
32882
I would say try to make it work if you can, it sounds that he is good for your kid.\nDId you loved eachother at apoint?\nIf there is no other way just talk to him
96235
What a scary question to have to ask.  If you see signs of him giving her the wrong kind of attention, listen to your instincts and pay very close attention to his behavior towards her.  I think this is one of those things people brush off, thinking it's their imagination.  I don't know how old she is, but I'd say talk to your daughter about him, see how she feels about him.  And if you haven't before, talk to her about her body and other's bodies.  You may want to talk to him too, which is obviously an awkward thing to do.  Her safety is of course number one though.  Above all, when you have such suspicions, don't ever give anyone the benefit of the doubt.
581299
The fact that you are even thinking of this guy doesn't speak very highly of your feelings for your husband.  If something is meant to be, then it will be.  Maybe that guy was supposed to be "the one", maybe not.  But since it didn't work out when you had the chance, I'm leaning more towards "NOT."  Please put him out of your mind and focus all your love and attention on the man you married.
310803
if your sure that he feels like he does for you, then you should defiantly go for it. Specially if you are sure that you cant work things out with your husband. your kids are old enough to understand at their age. Just be sure that you know what you want, so you can make yourself happy
1100064
sweetie you know how men are if they havent had none they wont be happy unless they get a piece of @ss if you guys have a kid together he probably does love you too if he didnt he wouldnt be with you i know because i have a daughter and when i was with her daddy he never spent time with me or her only his friends i put up with that for 3 years and got sick of it and left him last july but ever since i left he has wanted me back they never realize what they had until its gone\njust talk to him good luck !
480523
hi Jennifer, i think this man loves u but he has a problem with u so whenever u get closer to him he feels like doing something to u. just find the right time and talk things over. but please do it in a respectful manner. and also about the divorce do not think about that yet cos you have children with this man so if u go ahead with it, it will affect your children. but if things gets out of hand u better live before he harms u.
521422
personally i would say no, you hardly know him after 3 months, trust me i speak from personal experience (yes i did end up divorced) you will still be in the infatuation stage of your relationship, wait a year or two then think about it for a while but rely on your own instincts not on anyone elses opinion. It is you that will have to live with the decision for the rest of your life (hopefully). Just for the record I have been married to my second wife for six years and we have two great kids and no regrets!
1044869
Yes, you are still young and believe me what you feel for this boy is not love. You need to move on with your life, and definitely, for future reference, never be the "other woman". I hope this helps.
842059
YOUR IN LOVE AND YOU'VE GOT EACH OTHER. HE JUST GOT A JOBL, THINGS ARE GOING TO BE VERY BLESSED IN YEAR TWO. SAVE THE MONEY, STAY IN AND PRAISE GODS HOLY NAME!!!\n\n\nGOD BLESS
365653
This man you are "in love" with is sick.\n\nMarried or not, he should not be fooling around with a 15 year old girl - its paedophilia.  \n\nSecondly, you dont know anything about love at this age.