if you are attracted to a person and you dont know him very well but cant get him out of your head?
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Ask him to lunch and move it forward and if he says no then move on. He just might like u too and say yes and then u can get to know him and start something special! Good luck!
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I think once they (?you) have had an "epiphany" or such a strong, beautiful, climactic experience that they can't remember their\nnew bf's name...for a few seconds or maybe minutes....then, honey, you (they) can be sure U.R.  IN LOVE.
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It's called lust.  Probably one of the things that attracts you is that you feel you can't "get him".  Remember you can't always get what you want.  Try to think of the reason why you feel obsessed with him.  He's probably not all that.  It happens to everyone at least once.  Focus your attention on someone with whom there is a mutual attraction.
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I normally don't even notice if I am attracted to a guy until after I get to know him. Also, how he looks to me changes as I get to know him.
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when he cant stop thinking about her...
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Maybe. You can love how they were, get to know the person and fall even more in love with him or her.
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When you like someone, you just know. You get this strange feeling in your gut and you can't seem to make it go away. You think about this person every second when you are not with them and when you are, you can't help looking at them. Reach into your heart. Do you think that you like them. Do you see yourself with them in the future. I think there is really no way to help you with this one, you just have to spend more time with them and listen to your heart.
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It's better for you to stop thinking about him, and try to think about someone how realy like you
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You are in love with the idea of love.  After you get to know the person they can't possibly live up to your fantasy expectations because what you are looking for isn't real.
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This person isn't interest in you because .... Let's me stop you there. If he is not attractive to you, he not attractive to you. You could have every physical characteristic he wants, and he still would not be attractive to you.\n\nMen are visual so they see everything. They see the physical, they see behavior, they see their mothers, etc. Whatever they see is what they see.\n\nIf you are attractive to someone, and he is not. You are obviously seeing the same thing differently. You can not help being attractive to someone; nor can you help not being attractive to someone either.\n\nYou are not pretty enough does not help attractiveness. It may get the initial contact, but you have better more than a pretty face.\n\nThe easiest thing I can say is to be patience and that you will meet someone who is attractive to you. But frankly, you need to clean house and take stock on who you are, what you really want, and how you are going to it. If you want to share a life, you must have one.\n\nOne last point, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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When you can't get him out of your head no matter how hard you try. When every time you close your eyes you feel his touch. When you smell his Cologne and he's miles away. When you hear his voice in your ear and your the only one in the room. When he wraps his arms around you and you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. When someone asks you to describe how you feel about him and you just can't find the right words. That's when you know it's real.
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u cant stop thinking about that person
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unfortunatly you can't, you probably didn't want  to hear that, but its up to the person if they like you or not, you can make yourself more attractive to her but don't become something your not, that will put her off quick.
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that a hard question, but how do u know. its when u cant stop thinking about him. ur mind iz totally wrap around him. when ur r talking 2 ur friends and ur not paying them any attention because u r thinking about him.
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You can't get him out of your mind, no matter how hard you try; your entire body tingles at the thought of being with him again; the sex is incredible; just being beside him is incredible!
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How do you feel when you are away from this person?  What are the qualities you like about him?  Are they the inside ones or the physical ones?  When you have truly found love you will always want to be with that person.  They will be everything you ever dreamed, and of course they will still have flaws, but you will be able to overlook them.  If you are still thinking about the first guy what is it about him that keeps you thinking about him?  Does the new guy have those qualities?  Just some questions for you to ask yourself.  I hope that helps!
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if he seems not to want to take it further, why would you want to get to know him? Find someone else worth getting to know :)