My G/F is pregnant. How should I take care of her?
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As the pregnancy advances, your girlfriend will get tired.  Building a baby is hard work.  Help her with chores and tasks that she has previously done.\n\nEncourage her to eat nutritious meals and take her prenatal vitamins.  Help her prepare her living space to be a safe environment for an infant.  A baby will need a quiet area to sleep, a secure place to be changed, storage space for clothes and supplies.  \n\nIf she drives, or if you do, get a child seat designed for infants and get a professional to install it.  \n\nShe will have mood swings.  Accept them.  There are benefits to this.  When she goes through the nesting stage, you will get cookies.  \n\nRead books about child care and pregnancy.  A good one is What to Expect When You're Expecting.  I also like Lynn Johnston's cartoon books about pregnancy, childbirth, and infancy.  She will need to laugh from time to time.  \n\nGo to childbirth classes with her so you are prepared to help her in the delivery room.  Learn to give good backrubs and foot massages.
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It won't hurt your organs. It may be painful for her, but if you are tender and careful, this will be minimized. Choose a moment where you are both relaxed, and you have no worries, or other things to do. Remember to be careful and cautious always use a condom, unless you have both been tested for diseases and want to have a baby.
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Buddy!!! 'Drugs' and 'getting your girlfriend pregnant' have been two big mistakes you've made in life. (My apologies if you were not the one to get her pregnant). \n\nMistakes need correction. You're doing good with staying away from drugs.\n\nNow, Whether or not you were the one to get your girlfriend pregnant, you need to be with and around her. If you call her a friend, remember - A friend in need is a friend indeed. She probably needs your support, while you're trying to get her off your mind. I hope you're going to do the right thing here too.\n\nI wish well for the both of you.
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Number one thing...make sure SHE is ready. Then make sure to be more gentle the first time, and have a towel underneath her. Use protection if a baby is unwanted.
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Whoa....nasty scenario. Not sure I'm qualified to answer this, but let's see...\n\nIf the baby is yours you should definitely take care of it. I have an 18 month old girl and she is the center of my world.\n\n If you are considering an abortion you need to ask yourself if you can live with that. Some people can't, and regret it for the rest of their lives. Depends on who you are I guess.\n\nIf it's not yours, you need to decide how much you love/want the mother. I'd be concerned because she's not only having sex, she's having unprotected sex. You could catch something very nasty if she keeps that up. Also ask yourself, how would you deal with it if she did this again??\n\nIf you love her deeply, and the child is yours, see if you can work it out, but remember that you may not be able to trust her\n\nIf it is not yours, then decide if you can handle that and stay with her. If not, she's history, and no regrets. Find someone who won't cheat on you.\n\nIf you can't stand her anymore and the baby is yours, fight for custody. It will be worth it in the end.
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Take her to the emergency room - and sit there with her and hold her hand.  This is above your head, but she needs nourishment and professional help. NOW.
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How about something for her.... she's the one thats stuck in the bed, the baby is fine.lol.  Get her some good smelling body powder, or lotions.  Maybe some CD's of her favorite music, and a portable player.  If she loves to read, a book by her favorite aurthor, If she loves chocolate you cant go wrong with those sweets!  Fresh fruit basket is great too.  And when all else fails, just  the company of a good friend or close family member really helps.  Hugs to her and the coming baby.
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Honestly it is your body ... your choice!\n\nYet be responsible if you get preganant ... it is no longer you alone we aretalking about ...\n\nHow to get him out of His pants ....\n\ntell him upfront ... " Baby ... I know you respect me and stuff ... But I am only human ... I need you .. (inside me)."
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Call your OB/GYN for her.. If they're not available call the on-call doctor (number should be on OB/GYN answering machine).. \n\nIf she's over 20 weeks along (sounds like she is) ,take her to the closest hospital's labor and delivery that accepts your insurance..
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Your best bet is not to stress about it, the baby is in control- the worst that will happen is a c-section- which I understand may not be your first choice, but once the baby is here, you won't care how they got here... \nAnd stressing is not good for either of you right now.
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stay together for the kids, you don't need this kinda stress at this point in your life(preg) it could have detrimiental effects on the baby. There should be a waiting period for seperations like there is for buying handguns...you need a cooling off period
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respect her and be faithful to her, take care of her personal needs. love her.
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Tell her you'll be patient and want to work things through with her. Show her how much you love her and the baby but be firm in awhile and say you need her to pay attention to you not worry about him.... If she can't get over him than you better move on cause all you'll be is second best.
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You are poor girl,you know that he has a gf and she is pregnant and will give him his baby..what is your place between them? I think he is just using you for his desires
538655
You should be more careful who you take to a bedroom. If she is pregnant, and your the father, you should take care of him/her.
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You really cant do much. But you can go get help but my thought on that is .She is a woman and she knows herself going for help may only make things worse.\n\nBut you need to roll with it and I don't mean follow behind her like a dog. Let the time come when she notice that you aren't asking are waiting. I know that is hard.\n\nBut you must not look like she has a dildo always ready for her. She maybe just hard to turn on she may like hunting.\n\nYou can do it she is your girl she may need this back up. May all things work well
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please, please, please don't let her tell she is taking the pill, cuz if she wants a child she will stop and u will never know till the egg has been planted.  go with her to the doctor, to the pharmacy, and watch her take the pill daily or use a condom or else she will come to u one day and say this "we are going to have a baby, i don't know how i go pregnant i was on the pill" and u will be stuck.  in a marriage a baby is ajoint decision.  so if u are not ready protect yourself, cuz a woman won't