if one of  your friends betrayed u in the past but now is apolagizing then should i forgive her?
411170
If she is your friend then I do not even think that you should not forgive. If you do not forgive then what is difference between her and you. She betrayed you and you do not forgive her then it is like that you are also not good friend as good friend is one who recognize their friends mistakes/ shortcomings and then help him or her.
541339
I guess u can't. bcuz, the little things that girls/guys do means something to the other person alot. Would u forgive  him,if he did that w/ur friend? hey, cheer up, if he comes back, i hope you learned ur lesson and if not, move on. Cuz you can't let this bug you for the rest of ur life. plus, ur just gonna feel depress all the time. Hope everything works out! :)
835166
I personally feel like if it happens once shame on them if it happens a second time shame on you for letting it happen. Trust is a hard thing to build once its lost you can take that friend with a grain of salt because even if you do give her a second chance this incident will always be in your mind
673958
You should forgive her BUT speak to her and try and find out way she says nasty things, she probally has deeper problems and is taking her anger out on you
643743
Can you call someone who is your best friend if she hurts you? You can forgive herr but it doesn't mean you need to keep contact with her until you miss her so much and she is worthy to give her one more chance. Everything is depeneded on you and your feeling about her. But I can tell you that nothing wrong if you don't contact at all. It's your freedom to choose who are your friends and who are not.
1153044
you answered your own question. Listen to your inner voice. Drop her she will do it again. the only reason she is sorry is because she got caught. Do you think she would of apologized if you had not of brought it up? NO . With a friend like her you do not need enemies.
50152
you need to talk to her about it and tell her that waht she did was very wrong and was not something a real friend would do! You need to tell her that you dont think you can trust her as much as you could before and tell her that you guys can still be friends but only if you want to and tell her that friends are suppose to keep secrets between just the 2 of you! Dont be mean about it to her but tell her that you got so hurt that she did that to you!\n      Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
612311
you've already done it to your friend, so i think that you should be thinking of ways to apologize to her, before the whole school finds out, which they will because it's h.s.\nand before you lose your so called friend.
1049115
It really depends on you and the situation. There are a lot of questions to ask yourself. Did she do this on purpose and why? How important is this friendship to me? Is this the first time she has disappointed me? It's good to forgive, but if this is the type of person that will keep hurting you, it might be time to rethink the friendship.
1101058
Your friend has hurt you, back stabbed you.\n\nAnd you are hurt and angry, after all she did the wrong thing.\n\nI am sure all the negative feelings are making you unhappy?  How long do you want to feel unhappy?\n\nYou don't need to accept your friend back but you do need to forgive  her, even if you never speak with her again.\n\nIts good for your mind and feelings.\n\nIf you have not done so already reads the Lords prayer from the Bible.  Among other things is says "forgive us our sins as we forgive others".  None of us are perfect and all of us need some forgiveness.\n\nregards\n\nPeter
463691
You should forgive your friend...No friendship is worth a guy remember that!  Friends are priceless!  She did make a mistake about talking behind your back but maybe she felt bad in the first place and the reason she was saying something bad about you was to hide her own guiltiness.
1099246
you should say that you are sorry........ you think about it alot because you really have a good heart and it never hurts to apologise when we do something wrong.  You need to apologise for her but you also need to apologise for yourself........
861136
Stop messing up maybe.  Sometimes people won't take apology's if you keep repeating your bad actions. Show her your sorry instead of saying it.
466723
One can forgive, but they cannot always forget. It seems like it may is time to move on if you have attempted to address the issue to no avail. \nThere is someone better out there that will treat you as you deserve to be treated.
748451
Okay, I can see why she is upset at the lie.  But if she's your friend she should forgive right?  Sometimes women just tend to freak out no over the act but over the underlying betrayal.  I say you invite her for coffee to clear the air.  Tell exactly what you did and why you did it, just like you did here.  Then it's on HER as to whether or not she accepts it.  If she doesn't want to meet  you or won't accept your apology, then she's immature and needs to get over herself.  But you might be suprised!  Good luck and God Bless!
158846
Yes forgive her, but move on without her.  You will never be able to truly trust her again.
360046
NO because she/he has cheated on ur trust and faith if i were u i would forgive but not date with them any more