what do i do?? help!!?
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make the first move, then if he pushes you away, ask if it makes him uncomfortable. maybe he's not the "clingy" type, or he might just think of you as a friend. there's other things that might help you: has he said he loves you? if yes, he's probably just confused. does he say anything about you to his friends? if he says good things, he's not embarassed that you're dating; if he says negative things, then you should talk to him. does he treat you like you're the only woman he needs and take care of you/protect you? if yes, he's probably a keeper, but just confused. email me if you have any other questions manda082@yahoo.com
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dont believe everything people tell you. if you think his intentions are well continue on. if youre not sure sit down and talk to him. follow your heart and do whats right for you not for others
249083
Go party it up!! Live a little .. Go out and do what single guys do!! You will be fine, it was just a crush we all have them now it's over, find a new one!!
821927
Stop playing around, obviously the signals are getting mixed.  Stop driving yourself crazy and simply ask what's up!!!  It's better to know so you can move forward with the relationship or move on.
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"<insert totally ridiculous situation here> What should I do?"
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What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
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Dear Fallen,\n\nThe first thing to do is get out if that is what YOU truly want.  You shouldn't run off with the first thing that comes along either.  No man is going to make you happy until you can first be happy with yourself, on your own (I know that sounds difficult especially if you have always been with someone).  You will never be truly happy with someone if are not happy with yourself.  Move or get out but not because you met some guy you barley know, this could end up being worse especially if this man is married and or conflicted.  Do what is best for yourself and your children, that should be first and foremost! Do this and continue to speek and meet this man if it is safe after you have a better situation for yourself.  Maybe a True love will grow and not just the idea of better life/love because this man seems better than the one you have.  You may find this guy isn't that great or that he is great but, take time to really find this out.  Get yourself where you want be happy and healthy, and then you might find that there is even a better man out there.  If you have fear of violence from your current man, get help! Call the police if you are going to move out and tell them your concerns before hand and they will probably send out an officer to assist you.  If that is not an option you want to explore there are many groups that can assist women in that situation.  The main thing is to protect yourself, get a brother or other male family member that can help you move or help protect you.  There is no shame in telling family, friends or people who are willing to help that you have problems and need help.  The shame would be in not getting that help and bettering your life.  Weigh your options and make the best decision for yourself and children, just understand all that is involved and what, if any long term concerns could/can develop.  Good luck and God bless.\n\nThe Good Man
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Listen to him.  Show that you care how he feels and what he is doing with his life.  Smile!!!!
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leave him. no one should treat you like that. there is some one out there better for you. your worth more than he is. it seems like hes trying to not lesson to your problem and thats wrong. any one that cares for another person will here them out and be there for them, and at less try to understand and help them. plus i know what your going through, every girl needs afection or how ever you spell it. so go out there and find some one thats worth having you as a girlfreind!
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give up. if she doesnt like you back she isnt good enough for you compared to someone that wont give you a chance and your calm self yuo deserve better.(i wish my boyfriend loved me from the core of his heart) (wanting to cry)
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Meet with your x, have a long talk then afterwards decide what to do. If he really does like and care about you then he'll let you go(distant relationships never work out). Don't let anyone control you, it's your life, your feelings, you decide what to do.
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what u think? what should u do? ask urself
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Let him know your looking around for a better opportunity.\nYou will probably be told to go ahead.\nBAIL!
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Do the only thing you can do... let them know and see what happens. That is really your only legal option, unless you go with them.
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you should just follow your feelings. dont do what you dont wanna do. just do it.
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You are so young.  If he treats you badly now, it will only get worse.  How can you think that you're afraid to be alone for the rest of your life? Get some self respect and you decide if he's good enough for you.  Good Luck with that, eh?
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Just tell him how you feel and that he has to deal with it.  Otherwise, if you don't want to rock the boat, then YOU deal with it.  That's really your only choice.