I am having sex ed. in two days for the first time what will people talk about and I am only in 5th grade?
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It's not that bad, really, I've been through it before and its not as bad as you think. They're just gonna show you a video and talk about some changes that are gonna happen to you. Don't worry so much about it. Oh, and they usually seperate the boys and the girls, makes it easier!\n\nHope this helps. :)
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It can be pretty dangerous to talk about 'normal' on such topics as sexuality as it poses some risk of making people feel cast out.\n\nHowever, for guys anything from 0-5 is perfectly normal. Somewhat lower if presently in a healthy sexual relationship.
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Hey dude. Sex is the most pleasurable moment in a persons life. Since this is going to be ur 1st time. I wud suggest you not to get carried away woth it. Bcoz often it has been people who have been deprived of it try to make the most of out when subject to opportunity for the 1st time. Its a flavour which u need to taste in due course of time and can be enjoyed over longer and extended periods of time. For the 1st time I would suggest you to please try oral sex. Kissing, fondling with private parts, Intense kissing. Then when both u and ur girl are confident and cant hold it long. Just try watching some Soft Porn movies like "Body Shots", "Wild Things", "The Lover". These movies will guide you exactly how to go about sex @ the 1st shot.  All the best and Good Luck !!
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Get over the embarrassment.  It could be more embarrassing when your 13 or 14 year old daughter comes home pregnant.  I have a 17 year old.  I began teaching her about sex from the time she started asking questions about the difference between boys and girls.  That was when she was three.  All through her growing up, there were different age related questions, and I gave her age appropriate answers.  Because we talked about it from such a young age, she is still a virgin and not afraid to tell a guy no.  All her friends, male and female, know she is waiting till she finds that "someone", though not necessarily marriage.  At this age, she knows all there is to know, including safe sex.  She knows about the pill, the shot, the patch and condoms and that condoms ALWAYS need to be used even if on the pill.  \n\nIf we don't teach our kids, their friends will.  That is what happened to me and I became a parent too young.  I don't regret having her EVER.  I do regret that I had her so young.  Schools can't teach them but so much, and not even EVERY school is allowed to teach a sex ed class.  Who do you want teaching your child about sex?  You or the one that gets your child into bed the first time, swearing that a pregnancy or disease can't happen the first time?
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Simply relate to them.  Don't act like a know-it-all adult because they'll shut you out quick.  If a teen says something R-rated, don't act like they did something wrong, or like you can't talk to them about a topic like that.  Apparently they know enough for it to come out of their mouth, so talk to them in a mature way about the topic.  Bring up MY SPACE.  All the kids are into that.  Tell them you want to see they're page, and then comment on it.
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Uh, learn some manners?\n\nWe don't owe you "good" advice.  You post on the internet, you get what you get.  I don't even understand your post.  What does the first girl having sex have to do with this second girl?  \n\nIf you want good advice, write a question that is understandable.
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Easy solution. Just tell them this from behind the closed door :\n\nI am butt naked , I have a huge erection and I am opening the door in 5 seconds. 1,2,3.......\n\nThey will be but a speck on the horizan when you open the door.
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Well I'm in 6th grade. I'm 12, but I'll turn 13 soon. So, everyone on here was right... except for the person that asked if you were perverted... but anyway I'd say 11-13! Vote for me! lol =) By the way.. Where are you from. E-mail me the answer at monkeymonkeynumber1@yahoo.com
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From what I have read from your previous questions, you are 13? If so I do not think someone of your age should be on here asking these kind of questions. And if you are of a decent age, the fun part of sex is finding out with your partner new sexual positions, by experimenting. I think by asking to describe sexual positions you are inviting explicit answers for another reason other than sex tonight w/ your partner.
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If you don't know, then you are too young.  Someone needs to have a discussion with your health teacher.  If this topic is going to be discussed, all aspects of it should be covered.
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i lost my virginity-unwillingly at age 12 then had sex for the first time at age 13 i am now 15 years old and 8 weeks pregnant i dont know what the chances are for gettin hiv or aids but i have already got an std so no i dont think they tell you enough information there should be much more about it and learning about the seriousness of having sex should start at an earlier age and you should get ALL the facts not just the one they feel are sutible for your age group
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lol my friend and I were talking about that one day. She said that if a girl wants to have sex she needs to use a dildo. They would help with the teen pregnancy and with all the std's . I said yea but that would be really weird to teach in school. my answer will be no im sorry that would be strange to teach in school.
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go to a dr.  Tell your mom its for something else.  Go in by yourself and let your dr know at the time of your visit you dont want your mom to know.  By law your dr cant discuss any sexual problems/issues with your parents even though you are a minor..  if you  cant go to the dr right away call and leave a mess to call you back when your mom is not home.  This could lead to other problems so go right away.  It also sounds like you could have a major infection and if not treated right away could lead to you being sterile
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You should talk to kids when they are asking questions. If a 4 year old asks where babies come from, you tell them using age appropriate language, but correct terminology. As they get older and closer to puberty, you should give them more information so they know what to expect. I would say before they are teens you should have the full sex conversation. Kids now are having oral sex as young as 10 and 11, so if you wait, chances are they'll get their information from peers and not you.\n\n\nBk's Mom said it very well down there ...that's exactly what my mom did and it lead to an open dialogue between us through my teen years, and I think worked very well
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wow?    10 year old?  5th grade?\n\nisnt that a bit early?\ni must say,  no matter what you tell a kid that young, they wont understand it.  they started teaching me that stuff in 6th grade.  and i didnt understand it then.  i think they really start to get it 7th or 8th.  but tell them how easy it is to get stds.  how many people have it.  (you have to look that up cause i dont know that)  and tell them what to use.  and if i were you, tell them to never have sex until they are married.  that is the best thing to tell them.     good luck.\n\ni still think that 5th grade/10 years old is still to young.  they should introduce that end of 6th grade.
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No.  It's called sex ed in 4th grade.  Unfortunate for you if you didn't get that education.
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First off, don't listen to that Big B guy... he is obviously some ignorant nut, thinking he can scare people into behaving in a way he finds appropriate, and he doesn't mind lying to accomplish this. Homosexual sex does not cause AIDS. A virus does. If neither person has the virus, neither person will suddenly get the virus just because the two people have sex. Big B, shame on you for spreading your lies here.\n\nAs to talking with your parents, the safest thing to do, if you think they would react badly, is to not tell them until you are out of the house and able to support yourself... whether that be after high school, after college, etc. That way, they can't do too much that would negatively impact your life, apart from in the emotional sense. (This is what I did.)\n\nHopefully, though, you have a good relationship with your parents, and can talk about this eventually. You might start out by testing the waters a little... mention a news story about Pride Week (which just ended) or something about gay people in the news, and see what sort of reaction you get. Ask them what they think about gay marriage... something like that. All without mentioning anything about yourself personally.\n\nThen, if things look favorable, you can work into talking about yourself.\n\nGood luck to you... I know this is a difficult time.