Why have i been completely repulsed by the male form? Am i bi or full blown lesbian?
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I cannot believe no one has answered this question.  It certainly sounds as if you should pursue lesbian relationships exclusively.  You surely do not want to be in a relationship with a person who repulses you.  As for the phallic shaped things, you still may find them coming in handy with another woman -- for those hard to reach places.
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I can totally understand what you feel. I felt this way when I was 18 yrs old. Just the thought of it scared me only because I was brought up to think it is bad. I never heard of anything good about it. I had a sheltered life. So it is your mind that was conditioned to think it is bad and scary. \n\nIt did not happen overnight. It took some time to allow myself to think about it inside openly without being afraid of the thoughts. I also had to get to know some gay and lesbian people in the next few years to get to know who they truly are. It taught me to be comfortable and help my mind realize that there was nothing to be scared of.\n\nThe internet also helped me talk about my feelings without fear of rejection or judgment. So it wasn't until I was 25 that I was ready to start dating women. It was when I finally became comfortable with myself and had absolutly no fears for what I was feeling.\n\nJust go with what makes you comfortable and confident about yourself. Sexuality is not black and white. It is very gray. It is fluid. It is a matter of finding out who you are with both genders.\n\nFeel free to email me if you wish to discuss this further without judgment.
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i am a lesbian trapped In a man's body, if that counts.
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Go out with me and before the night is through I guarantee you will not want to be a lesbian.\nBut really why worry about it ?? Try some guys try some girls and see which you prefer . You might like both . Either way it is OK . I have a few friends who do it all and they are still my friends . I don't judge!!!! If you are young then this is real hard. If you are older say in college it is still hard but not as much or  in the same way. Good luck to you in finding yourself. I am straight so maybe I shouldn't be answering this question but I do know some gay men and women so I am not completely oblivious to the question.
966729
Are you a lesbian or bi?  If so then probably not.\n\nIf not, the question is why are you asking here?\n\nHmmmmmm
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Sure, I've been on both sides of the spectrum. Hid my true gay self for years, pretended to be straight in a small southern town. If you wanna chat, email me at jtb1999@hotmail.com and we can find a way to do it on MSN or YAHOO. Peace and good luck.
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Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude
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Okay, I'm assuming you're a boy, not a tomboy. If you're a girl, then this is totally off:\n\nMany will think that, because we are in a conservative, narrow minded hateful society. It sucks. Mosy will think it is weird. I don't, it's cute, it's hot, it's my favorite!\n\nWell, so my answer: of course I would! Many women and girls(i think you means boys?) are hateful and rude. (and you will probably be rude, narrowminded and hateful) People will not understand, unless they have an open heart and mind....\n\n If you're fascinated with it, yes! I would. I dated a guy, and after it didn't work out, he was devastated that I wouldn't be with him anymore(I was kinda his last try with girls), he decided to always just "be a girl" and I helped him do that, and he looks amazing. He's a great guy.\n\nI love it when guys are open to jst dressing up. It's really fun! I know I'd definately help you if you were up to it/located near me. I love pretty boys, dress up boys, and drag queens... I think I love everything that's alternative, and not very commonly accepted. :-(    but I'm not ashamed! I love neat guys like that.\n\nIf you're just kidding... oh well.. it was a fun thought..
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I was born heterosexual. I cannot help being attracted to women. Please do  not condemn me for that.
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first of all if you are sexually aroused by both male and females then you are bi, but if you are only sexually arroused by somebody of the same sex you are then you are gay.\n\nI would suggest going to a gay bar and going onto a date with sombody, not for sex, but to see if you feel more comfortable in a gay relationship first.
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If you've not really been out on the scene then you are probably unaware that there are many feminine gay and bi-sexual women around (I am one of them). It's perfectly normal to only find fems attractive and so I wouldn't worry about this at all it's just personal preference. Don't listen to those having a go on here, it doesn't sound to me like you are preying on these girls but merely that you find them more attractive than what you see as obviously gay girls...and that's fine. Try to get out to gay pubs and clubs more and you will see that gay women come in all descriptions and not just your stereotypical "butch". Straight girls are often experimental with one another and from my own experience this is not a route that a gay or bi girl should follow. They may flirt with you or even snog you but they will never want a relationship with you and so if that's what you want I suggest you go and find it (with a feminine gay girl). Good luck.
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That is pretty stupitd in the first place!!\n\nI have nothing against lesbians or gays, but I do think that is a very lousy excuse to become one.  You should define your sexual preferences because of how you feel about other people.\n\nIf you think you like people of your own gender then you are gay or lesbian.  But you do not become gay or lesbian for not being able to hook up.  And by the way 3 months? I've known girls that have been alone for almost a year and they don't stop liking boys because of that.\n\nI think deep inside she always wanted to be lesbian and this is the only excuse she could find (a pretty lame one)
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Sounds to me like part of you wants male companionship but deep down inside you want a lesbian relationship.  Can you not find a balance and have male friends and female lovers?  I have had kind of the same experience when I was younger and had to find a healthy balance.  Sometimes we just want to be with males because it is what is "expected" of us.  Spend some time with your thoughts and feelings and be honest with yourself to find the answers!
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Bisexuality has always preplexed me. Initially i was considering myself bisexual simply to save myself some social backlash and it kinda was the safe step. And it really did save me some... Guys weren't too paranoid about being round me because there was still a belief that as long i was still inta girls that i wouldnt let the gayness show. I attempted to be "attracted" to girls but it just wasn't something that i could do.  That is why it is so hard for me to accept bisexuality... it is hard for me to comprehend because by myself having a preference of men, its hard to see why others dont have a preference of men or women... \n\nYes, one can have sex with both sexes and it enjoy it... but i still believe that you would have a preference...
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I agree with the previous poster, I was abused in two of my relationships, and recently my boyfriend killed himself, and since then just the thought of dating any guys makes me extremely uncomfortable, I'm even uncomfortable being in the same room with a guy that would most times be near my type. And of course I've had intensive therapy for a very long time, and have yet to not freeze up around even guy friends, and it has destroyed many friendships because I am unwilling to open up and share my feelings, and am often called cold, or unfeeling. The best advice, give it some time, when the right one comes along then you'll most likely have feelings of attraction for them.
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It sounds like you're bi curious. This curiosity will continue to grow until you decide to act on it. You may or may not like it. But, if you try it. At least your questions will be answered.
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well... being bi-sexual I tend to like both sexes, but prefer girls/women over men...  email me directly at:  ibjam2001@yahoo.com  for more info...  ok?