My boyfriend wnats a baby?
408696
He wants a baby. You don't feel ready. Ask him for a wedding first. Kids need two parents, and they need the legal protection of having their parents be married. And BOTH parents should be ready. Having a baby is a LOT of work. It isn't all baby powder and bassinettes. They cry at night, they get sick, they need a lot of attention, they need potty training, they need schooling, they need good role models, etc. Your kids are there forever. If he can handle all that responsibility, then go for it. But get married first. If he can't commit to you first,then he's not going to commit to a kid.
367120
i can understand where you was coming from. not that you should have hid it from him. but he must really love you and you should hang on to him, and always show him how special he is to you. i don't mean just tell him i mean show him. congrats on baby and new man. good luck, and GOD BLESS YOU !!!!!!!!!1
921428
Bring out his BAD side.  Make him seem incapable of raising the baby and show that you are better capable.  It works effectively.  Good Luck\nA.L.
640628
Your "boyfried" has other, much more serious, things to be doing and taking responsibility for right now.  At 18 he's an adult with a family of his own - why would you even consider dating him?!  Is this what you want for your own life - a guy who has a baby to you then is off to the next 15 year old?  I doubt this will remain a friendship - if it does encourage him to support the baby and it's mother as he should.  Get YOUR priorities in order!!  You deserve much better!  Figure out what you want from life, work hard in school to get it, and stay focused.  Boys at this stage will mess up your goals much more than help them!  Good luck to you and God bless you.
517908
He will not change.  He will not save you.  He will keep treating you like dirt.  You have a baby to worry about.  You can't depend on him.  Obviously.  He can get mad as much as he wants.  You need to start thinking about how to take responsibility for the baby.  Stop worrying about him.
263074
Wow thats a really tough situation. Well, if he loved you so much why does he still have his girlfriend of 2 years?? Doesnt that mean he cheated on you?? The babymama thing is somewhat acceptable, because i guess it can happen easily. But why the girlfriend?? Arent you HIS girlfriend? you should be his only one... go to him and talk to him about it cause you dont wanna be just another babymom in his life. You should be his "wifey". Good luck with that girl! If you have any questions feel free to contact me.\nP.S. No abortions please
498606
Sounds like if he doesn't want the baby he will leave anyhow. I would kinda get ready for that. He might surprise you afterwards the first time he lays eyes on his son or daughter..You being pregnant you do not need any unwanted stress..I would get my support ready, family, friends, ect and go on with my life and get ready for the most beautufil thing in the world.
245864
YES IT IS OK YOU ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM, AND YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE HAPPY. JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A BABY FROM SOMEONE DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO STAY WITH HIM. JUST MAKE SURE THAT THE PERSON WHOM DECIDE TO DATE IS LOVING AND CARING TO YOU AND YOUR CHILD.
164943
You are poor girl,you know that he has a gf and she is pregnant and will give him his baby..what is your place between them? I think he is just using you for his desires
429696
First things first make sure he has a DNA test to rule out being the daddy to the baby.If you really love him then tell him.Maybe you guys could just start over and begin a new life together.I would make sure that he understands that you do not want him seeing other women if you do decide to get back together.If he is the daddy to the baby do you think you could handle all the drama it will bring to you.Just think about what you need and want in this relationship.Good luck with everything dear.
767362
Just let things take their natural course, and you'll be surprised!\nLet him come after you, after you have the baby, it is quite likely he will. Just let it happen. Relax and good luck with your baby.
999840
you are stuck in a really seriose situation, what ever you do make sure you dont do abortion, because then you would just kill your own baby!!!!my advise is to tell your boyfriend the trueth, he is not going to like it but the sooner you tell him the easier it will be, if you wait you are going deeper into the forest and chooping down more wood. that means that you are making more problems for yourself.
689314
i think maybe he is starting to feel something for you since u r having his baby,..but if u are with someone else dont blow it.. let ur friend make the first move as to his feelings for u
263386
I'm sorry your going through this... I've been in your situation before... Well it all depends on hope much pain you want to go through. He loves you yeah but he loves someone else. give me a break. there is a reason why they call our ex's, ex's. If he's not man enough to handle his business and know that yeah he has a baby with another women he should provide for that child but now he's going to have a baby with you. It was hard but I left the man I was with I started over scared but I couldnt take not knowing where was all the time or him telling me he still has feelings for his ex... If he can't decide you have to look out for you and your child... Get out girl....
839218
Hi TaTa,   I hate to see you get hurt,but this guy is a player.He only cares about hisself and his needs.You will never be happy with this jerk. The problem is you cannot ever trust him again. Without trust you don't have a relationship.Besides that he will do it again and again. Kick his sorry A S S to the hurb, and find you a man who will treat you, and your baby with respect,trust and a caring man.You deserve alot better than your getting from the jerk. I'm wishing you and your baby all the luck and have a happy life. A Friend.\n\n  Clowmy
623586
Sounds like he just isn't ready to be where you want him to be.  You ever heard of the BabyBoy syndrome, I think he has that.  He's selfish and childish and you need to stop wasting your time.  He's going to get you pregnant and then he will have no interest in you anymore.  Get out of the rut, leave him and do something positive with your life.  He isn't ready for what you have to give him.  If he is doing this now he will NEVER put into the relationship what you do.  And this gets really old really quick... trust me.
691507
omg u should tell ur bf to snap out of it & take responsibilty 4 his child! tell him he cannot just decide to "take a break" one day when u 2 have a baby to think about. have a talk with him & tell him this. whatver the reason is, he needs to put that aside & think about being a father. i think maybe u should tell him that hes either in it from the start or not at all. BUT, bcareful bcuz he might decide to not be in it at all! just have a talk with him & try 2 work things out. tell him that u 2 need to work out ur problems for the sake of ur baby. a child needs both parents in their life & like u said, u really want ur bf to be a part of u and ur baby's lives. so just pls have a talk with him bcuz u are young & should not have to deal with this on ur own. he is afterall the father. well good luck 2 u & take care!