do you reason with your spouse?
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Sometimes you just have to agree with them and go on. Even if you are right. You don't want an arguement or fight. So\ntry to understand her point of view. Reasoning too much makes people think you are being self-righteous. That's not\na good thing. you just have to let your guard down and swallow some pride. Because no one is always right.
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Ask your partner what he/she thinks about it.
817633
Ok, as someone that's been with my favorite person for over 25 years...\n\n--I have toned down my temper--I pick my battles very carefully!\n--I am MUCH less selfish...I think more of how he will feel about something I am deciding on and I choose activities, etc. that we will both enjoy.\n--I TRY to work a little harder on house work stuff! I'm not great at it, but I'm still trying!
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I'm misunderstood by my wife all the time. I misunderstand people, or misinterpret...I usually go to great lengths to accurately describe what I'd said to my wife so the misunderstanding could be cleared up...\n\nCommmunication can be tough...thats why I try to articulate myself as best as possible.\n\nIf its someone I don't really know...they can think whatever they want.
419282
Yes. Wife wife agrees with you as well.
451651
Married for 15 years and we still tell each other where we are and what we do and No they shouldn't get mad but they always will but they will get over it and they still love ya . It's good that you let your spouse know what you are doing just in case something bad happens or what if your spouse wins a million dollars wouldn't you want to know right away? There's always a what if and it's better to know and to be prepared than to wonder what the hell happened.Just in case it's your last chance to say I love you.
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Ask the spouse or a relative.
744198
your asking the wrong person talk to your partner she should have the answers
592104
The maze of logic my Fiance employs during an arguement.
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both of u need 2 realize that just because u have Ur differences does not make it wrong.here's what I mean,if its ingrained that u do something one way n hubby does it another both r OK,u do not have 2 agree on everything u just have 2 agree not 2 disagree about it.learning 2 overlook the small things and not make them into big things will help both of u keep Ur sanity.communication helps but if both of u see it differently its not going 2 change and if its the way u feel why should u either of u.its okay 2 be different just learn 2 love the things u do more n not sweat the stuff u dont.actually the stuff u dont love about ur spouse ends up being what u look back at with fondness lol sadistic isnt it.u 2 need 2 relax n stop sweating the small things n try banding 2gether against the bad things.different does not mean seperate,it just means compromise and the ability 2 overlook the small stuff.
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Will you have a little talk with MY husband for me?\nLOL\n\nSounds like your wife is a very lucky woman, with a wonderful husband!
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me and my partner each do
131386
Your spouse isn't paying you enough attention!
363554
i don't fight with my husband, i argue! lol. And he doesn't. grrrr. He's too agreeable. it's frustrating. When i argue with him, he waits till i cool down and sits me down to talk to me about my feelings. I have never gone to bed angry since we moved in together, (almost 3 years). So i think that you should not argue and wait till you're calm, then talk like you would if you were proposing an idea to your boss. (have points ready that you want to discuss, and stick to those) but just talk about your feelings, and what the other person could do to help the situation. (and maybe what you could do too!)
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Ask his wife if in doubt....K
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No! Explain your feelings to her, and leave it to her to decide! If she is angered, talk divorce. If she understands, why break a GREAT marriage?
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I would suggest a good marriage counselor- All marriages have their problems, but if it is to the point where it affects your everyday life and/or your children's lives, then yes, you should seek a counselor.  Many couples who fight daily about trivial things, have an underlying, much deeper problem (i.e. someone hasn't fogiven someone for something, etc.)  OFten times too, the problems lay in a communication breakdown- one member might think he/she is getting their point across, but the other member either might not be willing or truly might not be ABLE to REALLY HEAR what they are saying- Again, a good marraige counselor can give you the tools you need to get to the very root of the problem and begin to solve it