alot of guys like me and just dont want to andmit it and its making me feel unnatractive what do i do?
405546
You don't need to be on Y! Answers. You're too young. You need to pay more attention in Spelling class and stop obsessing about what boys think of you.
1167898
Don't worry about it,guys at this time have 1 thing on their mind anyway and trust me it ain't your feelings. That one person will come along and boom it hits you both like lightning.Oh, and everyone to some degree has a self esteem problem with their looks so don't go flipping and tripping on yourself.E-mail me back.
538258
Dont worry,! hang in there i feel what u feel. there is a thousand guys out there ,, dont go on any dating services, i tried it, i met some one fat. not that i dont like fat people, they r cool, but anyway, keep ur chin up and be tall and strong it takes a lot of time to get over guys i guarantee u. but dont date one of his friends ,, thats the wurst thing ta do, stick it to ur gut. dont let him get to u.u cant stay sad 4 evur. dont lose hope on findin another guy to be with.
53309
Your biggest problem is your self image. You need to learn that you have plenty of great qualities and boost your self esteem instead of reducing yourself to your own negative perception of your appearance. The guys you really want to know could care less that you are a little overweight. It's what's inside that counts. Smile ;0)
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I think the best thing to do is change your whole outlook on your life right away. Admitting that you have low self esteem is the first step. I quick got sick and tired of having low self esteem by 7th grade, I mean whats worse than the feeling that your not good enough, like life is living you, remember you are the one living life and you have the control to do or have whatever you want.  I wanted to be the funny girl in class, I wanted to be the loud kid, and I wanted to be the one people recognized. When you take control of how you approach life, the guys come to you and ask you out! Then you'll never fear rejection again, because the guys should want you not the other way around, your worth too much for that. In any case, get to know him, and if you do know him, ask him out, don't make it the life and death question, if he says no, and you change your self esteem, he'll see what he's missing out on.
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Just BE YOURSELF, and don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. Act naturally and they will come to you. We like men who are confident in what they do. So be confident. You are probably very attractive to some women, you just don't know it yet. Come out of your shell and show them who you are!
865625
i had the same problem (till i found my girlfriend).  The key is confidence in yourself, without acting arrogant.  You just have to not concentrate on the fact that you like the guy, and concentrate on what hes chattin about.  You could tell him that you get nervous around guys you like, then you have an excuse when you stumble your words, and he'll be flattered.\n\nGood Luck!
512200
really for me the guy just has to give me a really good compliment when he picks me up and then just give me alot of small complements during the date and id be sold. but be sure u watch what u say and DO NOT! look at ne other girls! i hate it when guys do tht to me expecialy after they tell me im pretty cuz that makes me feel like im not very nice looking. if u need more help email me at qtstegman@sbcglobal.net
551347
is the reason you haven't had a boyfriend because of them or you? i know lots of people in wheel chairs that have relationships. so is it you? maybe your so afraid of no one liking you that you give off the vibe to stay away. if your not confidant in your self or you dont like yourself...men can pick up on that. try cahnging your attitude about yourself and im sure things will change
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it is not true that no one likes you, as u say you feel more confident when your friends are around.  i quess that makes you like able because u have friends.  perhaps you feel uncomfortable on your own  i presume u are young because u go  to school.  just going to school can be distressful and your age is stressful because you are just learning about yourself.  being free and happy comes with a price, and the price is self confidence.  learn to like yourself, and understand your limitations, and that u are a important person.  learn also to accept some of the things u don't like about yourself, and if possible work on these things u don't like about yourself  being more content and self confident in yourself will make u feel more free and happy.  u may see a lot of things u don't like about yourself, and feel, that the guys are not interested in you, because they can see these negative things about you.  that might not be true, it sounds like your must feel negative about yourself, and it may show in your interactions.  don't be too hard on yourself, nobody is perfect.  if u feel more confident about yourself, and have a sense of humor, that may attract more boysl   \ngood luck, hope this helps, and take care of yourself, a new hairdo or a consultation with a beautician can go a long ways
638214
Sounds to me like you suffer from low self esteem.  You don't think you're good enough for other people to like you, so you are worried that they won't.  You are so obsessed with what they think of you, that you aren't even paying attention to them.  So, they probably won't like you...no one likes to be ignored when they are talking, which will only make your problem worse.\n\nIf you want to get comfortable with someone, you have to get to know them.  The best way to do this is to get them talking about themselves.   Listen to what they say.  Respond to them.\n\nNerves can be bad, but there is no magic pill that will fix what your problem is.  Only practice can help.  Don't worry about what the other person thinks about you. The worse that can happen is they won't be interested and you move on.  Try not to pressure yourself and try to relax and be yourself.  Girls aren't looking for un-nervous guys, we're looking for guys that pay attention to us.
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Just be yourself.  If he doesn't see how great you are, find someone who does -- believe me, there will be tons more crushes and tons more guys.  If he doesn't see you for what you're worth, it's not the end of the world or your last chance.  Get out there and find someone who sees it.
399684
Nothing's wrong with you, girlfriend. It's the men who have the problem, not you. I fthey don't like you for being you, they are definetly not worth it.  Stay true to yourself and you shall be fine. I think that men who aren't interested in a girl like you who seems very nice are just idiots, jerks, and stupid guys who aren't willing to look inside of you to get to know that person inside of you that makes you, you.
65449
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
271853
Dang I know how you feel.... I am so tired of Men also....All I cant advise you to do is stay focus and make you baby your main focal point. Cause you can try and try with Men and nothing changes they are all jerks.... All of them the old bald ones and the young dumb ones. Just take a break and focus on you...Take some time out and realize what it is you want out of a relationship... what you are and are not willing to except. And work on you too....Cause we women have our flaws also, but If you ask me... that's because of men too. lol ... but I hope you feel better.
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They don't dig you; trust me.  You need to stop being such a wuss first.  There is nothing more unattractive than someone without self-confidence.
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You need to focus on who you really are. You are not dumb.\nNeither are you crazy. What you have is lust. Lust will mess you up. It will have you looking like moron. And you\nknow that's not what you want. You can do better than that.\nYou are young, sweet, beautiful and kind. don't fall for the\nokee-dokee. Some guys these days are after one thing. What \nyou have in your pants. They don't care how you feel or what\nyou think. Trust me. I know what I'm talking about. Been\nthere, done that.