living with my boyfriend?
409929
start out as you mean to go on. Most guys end up letting you do all the cleaning, cooking etc. If that is fine with you then ok. If not then do not let them get away with it. It is no use letting him do what he wants now and then complain about it a few years down the line. Talk about who will do what around the house, who pays for what etc. \nThe last thing you will be thinking of right now is breaking up. But if it should ever happen who get's what? Talk it all through now and write down what was agreed upon. Believe me it will spare you alot of heart ache in the future. Keep lists of who paid for what.\nOh and make sure both your names are on the lease.  \nHope everything goes well for you both.
1056849
Going out with boyfriend....
1050799
i have a long distance boyfriend. and when i plan on going to see him. i plan on cooking for him. something like a 5 course meal, then just sitting at home and just spending some quality time together. rent some movies or something and just stay in each others arms for as long as possible. the night will just get  better from there
600836
Ok I am here to help you! First of all, I think you and your partner need some time away from each other.. I like the vacation idea but that is a temporary solution in my opinion. I don't know if you guys are living together or just see each other all the time, but my advice will work for both.\n  First of all I think your problem is that you are spending wayyyyy too much time together. Relationships are funny, because even though you love each other so much and you want to spend every waking minute together, the reality is that you can't. You need to think of who you were before you guys found each other. What were you doing before you met him? You need to do things without him girl. You need to find some hobbies to do on days that you don't see him. Go out with your friends, meet them for coffee, take a class, go to the gym...\n  Before you know it, your life will be very busy. The excitement will come back. Your boyfriend will definitely miss you and realize that what he has is a good thing. Don't be afraid to do romantic things for one another...Send him a card, plan a romantic night together by making a special dinner with candles...Just do little things that shows you care. I suggest you buy the Cosmo Kama Sutra book. Try a new position every week! \n  The truth is, things can get boring after two years. But you have to continue to do things to get it to work. Spending alllllllll your time together is a huge no no. You will do enough of that once you are married. Remember, you still have your own identity even though you are in a relationship.\n  Good luck!
245095
It depends on a lot of things and you didn't give any details. If you want to move to another state then go ahead and move. If you are only moving for your boyfriend then you have somethings to consider: Are you moving because this is the guy you want to marry or is this just a guy your not looking for that from? Will you have a job, be able to support yourself and get your own place? Does he want you to move with him? Do you have strong family and friends ties that you will be leaving? Are there children involved? Good luck with your decision.
705529
Do it. Just make sure you take care of yourself. Start a little savings account in case things don't work out and you find yourself suddenly without a roommate. Do you really want to get to know your man's living habits AFTER you've signed a legally binding document?
316563
i think that depends on which country you're in and from what culture you live in. \n\nin some cultures, especially those in the west, it is no big deal when two unmarried persons move in together and share the same bed (and bathroom and toothbrush and bills).\n\nin some cultures, this is a huge taboo. \n\nso you better weigh your choices carefully. while it's true that moving in together can mean some savings because you can both share the bills, doing so might be against your community or your culture. \n\nalso, on the practical side of things, better find out if you snore and if your girlfriend is bothered by it. believe me, some couples break up because of snoring.
673619
i would move out, or move in with your boyfriend !
430299
first of all how old are you? and how old is your boyfriend if he is 18 or over and you are like 14 15 ya i can see why he is to old but on the other hand if you are like 16 17 that is ok its not to old. but if you are still living in your dads house you need to do what he wants untill you are old enough to move out on your own and believe me the way this world is now you dont want to do that any time soon.
1006556
i'm living with my boyfriend right now.  I agree that it is a good experience.\n\nand don't believe in any of that "oh if you live together you'll have a higher chance of getting divorced" It's just NOT true!\n\nand that "Why buy the cow when you can have the Milk for free !!"" statement is SO OUTDATED and EXTREMELY sexist!\n\n\nCOMMUNiCATiON is KEY in any relationship!  That's all that matters really!  I say go for it!
907184
NO!!!! you should not move in with your boyfriend!!! you should not date the other boy. please listen to what i am saying! if you havent told your parents you are pregnant you need to. you also are going to need thier help later on in your pregnancy, so STAY AT HOME!!!!!!!! the best thing you can do for you and your baby is to finish school. FINISH SCHOOL!!!! you did an adult act and now you are in an adult situation. act like an adult. you are bringing a life into the world, and you are its mother. you dont have time right now for boyfriends. tell your parents, dont leave home right now, and please finish school!!!!!!
620237
If he'll be living close by, I'd suggest setting up a time once a week or something for you guys to spend time together, and don't let ANYTHING get in the way of it. Phone calls work too, but nothing beats actual physically being together.
445436
Having both is impossible,but you can do one thing,make a small test, give them both the oportunity to show how much you mean to each one, try unembaressing ways,the financial part maybe, or even how much one can sacrifice for you, this would be a test were you can pick the right person for you...after all you want someone To live with you happily didecating his life for your relationship,,i hope i was clear. best luck
60222
Does he love you? Are you compatible? Do you have some of the same interests? Do you agree on how to spend and save money? Is he kind to you? If you answered yes to these questions then you'll probably have a great live together.
1116096
Dont do anything till there's a ring on your finger baby. Your boyfriend is just that, a boy-friend. He may hook up with some cheerleader in six months for all you know. No one looks out for you but YOU. Finish school where you're at right now, once you have your degree, then you can think about moving. But you think about what's good for you first. \n\nThat's the problem you women have, you put your man first, thinking, "he wouldnt ask me to move there if it wasnt a good idea." Wrong! He's not thinking about what's good for you, he's thinking about what's good for him! He wants you there to take care of his needs, sexually, monetarily and general housekeeping. He could give a rat's azz about your degree, your friends or your family. Ask yourself, would you make him move? Didnt think so...
1001344
LEAVE HIM!!!!  I HAD ONE OF THOSE .. DIDNT LEAVE HIM WHEN I SHOULD OF AND NOW HAVE A KID WITH HIM...\n\n\nIT ONLY GETS WORSE.... TRUST ME..... AND YOU KNOW WE DISERVE BETTER.. THERE REALLY IS MEN OUT THERE WILLING TO SPENT THERE LAST PENNY ON YOU RATHER THEN ON THEM SELF...\n\nIF YOU CONSIDERE THIS A PROBLEM AND YOU ARE ONLY DATING HIM WAIT TILL REALITY HITS YOU WHEN YOU LIVE TOGETHER....\n\nYOU NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ...\nNOT A CHILD TO LOOK AFTER...
964008
omg can i live with you?\ni want to live with a white guy...