Why are women so upset with porn?
410495
a lot of women aren't,  some pretend to be cos they're embarrassed, some would rather their partners were more open about it instead of hiding it from them and watching it late at night or with their mates.
505182
the media Mongols are a bunch over sex-crazy bozos, if the world was really an equality for all sexes zone it would never be like that. women are put under a lot of pressure to look a certain way just so some man can have a wet dream.
638192
Well, mens basic nature is sex.  We like to look, we like to look at women and we are always wondering if they are going to do something new that we don't know or something that we would like to do.  It's the thrill of everyone throwing their inhibitions to the wind.  Porn stimulates and arouses some men to hear a woman being pleased and watching her being pleased.  We are always hoping that the women that we have would be more freer and willing to do these things.  Men are very visual where women are not.  From what I have been told by women is that many enjoy porn as much as the man.
876700
It's not an addiction, it's perfectly normal, and healthy for males young and old. It lowers blood pressure, eases stress, and is a natural way to relieve tension and pressure. The people who make porn are not the victim, they make there money. Who is the victim in this great crime of yours? At least you are not pent up, and sexually frustrated out raping people. Sex does sell, so what. If you are sick of porn, maybe you should get some new porn. Beyond that, it's just your mind messing with you. Who are you living for? You, or them? I am living for me.
1100177
women enjoy it more because many boys are told that masturbation is bad and then they get bad feelings about it. but as nobody tells this moral stuff to girls they can enjoy it every time :-D
614611
It's usually in Japanese and Korean porn that they do this.  It's because Japanese and Korean men like the macho image of 'hurting' their women with their, erm ... attentions.\n\nRemember, porn is nearly always designed for a particular target audience.  These women are often rather submissive and 'unknowingly in need', too.  This is all part of the average Japanese/Korean man's fantasy - at least in the eyes of the porn producers!
60511
In today's society, it takes a very strong man to cry. I think it is more sad to see a man cry because men today are usually ashamed of their emotions. I also know several women who can turn on the water works just to get their way. I never assume some injustice has been done just because a woman cries. I find out as much of the whole story as I can before I make any judgements. (I judge actions not people)
1018138
Being a guy, it pains me to see just how true it is: men have two heads and only enough blood to properly use one at a time.\nYour hard on must be so hard it hurts 'cause that barely made sense.\nI don't discourage the viewing of pornogrophy myself, but coming here of all places looking for it makes you look kinda moronic.
154511
Porn is a sin against God (Lusting after a woman is just the same as having sex with her hence the sin of adultery or fornication)  and it also provokes un realistic expectations in the people watching it.  Example if their wife is not like the porn queen then a man is not satisfied with her.  It is also a form of prostitucion, in that women are selling pictures of themselves.  It is degrading to the women in that it isn't important who or what they are, the person just wants to see them naked.  People who do this eventually get to the point that the whole focus of their lives is sex and they are never satisfied with what they have.  It also carries with it the danger of demonic spirits that will ruin your life.  And at the end of your life here on earth you can look forward to eternity without God.  If we were governed by the Bible in our sex lives then AIDS would just disappear on its own.  God means for us to be happy and his rules lead to health and happiness in our lives.
427464
Dear el ....\n\nPorn is powerful stuff.\n\nIt is often addictive, sometimes when we have neglected certain areas of our lives.\n\nWhat in your life might you be neglecting ?\n\nlearning to become comfortable with being a male ?\nlearning to be connected to others "\nletting go of "boy ways" and adopting "man ways"\naccepting that "porn beauty" is mostly not real\nbecoming "ok" with the beauty that people DO have\n\nThese are some possibilities.\n\nThey are all hard work.\n\nLife as a grown man requires hard work and is often difficult.
1037249
Because of the word "PORN".  It sounds disgusting and indecent for them.  Better use "Sexy", "Seductive" or "Pretty".
234811
Hey!  Women like porn too, ya know!  \n\nYes!  I am one of them!
731062
we jsut pretend to hide it so when you find we can be all " omg what are you doing looking through that stuff! my friend sent it to me" in reality we just dont care. want your man to stop looking at porn? then supply him with enough pics and videos of you wearing, doing, saying all kinds of kinky stuff. chances are we will still look at porn though.
809331
Woah this is a big one.  1st of all i'm female and don't agree with men treating women like meat. (I'm sure if a girl told her father she was a porn star he wouldn't be too proud.) Now, if this girl's bf cares about her the same way she cares about him, he would stop looking at porn out of respect for her reasons.  Maybe she needs to find someone a little more caring to her opinions.
885695
You will get 100 men answering this question saying that all men watch porn, let it go, yada, yada, yada--I hope these same men tell their daughters the same thing...Porn is complete disrespect to marriage and all women..I aint puttin up with it--period.\n\nI bet every man who writes to you is a so called "Christian"--but these same guys ignore Jesus and The Bible which says that "Any man who looketh at a woman in lust has already comiited adultery"...\nPORN IS A SIN.
982226
Porn appeals to men because they are very visual. Women are not so visual. Men also seem to be able to completely separate the physical act of sex from any kind of emotion. Most women arent able to do this. They do make porn for women that has more of a story line, and more developed relationships in the story. I dont know - I suppose that there are women who DO like porn, but I tend to think they are the exception to the rule. Who knows WHY men and women like different things - its probably a combination of different brains and different upbringings, socializations, expectations, etc . . .
340653
Porn is like shoplifting.  It's the something for nothing mentality.\n\nAll the adrenaline without any risk or vulnerability or even having to consider the wants and needs of another human being.  It's completely selfish.\n\nIt sets men up to have an unrealistic expectations of what women want and what we're like.  It makes them insensitive as lovers.\n\n“You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  Matthew 5:27-28\n\nSounds like cheating to me.