How do I talk to the girl of my dreams?
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First of all...  You never tell a girl a secret about her friend if you don't want them to find out.  They talk about everything.\n\nSecond...  ask her to lunch or something. If she says no, or blows you off, or says anything but "sure", forget it. She has no interest in you.  It's probably too late anyways, cuz if she's known for a month, and it's taking you a month to nut up, any interest she may have had in you will be long gone.  Girls don't like timid guys, pus***s if you will.  Seriously.  \n\nThirdly... there is no faster way to scare a girl off then by having a conversation with her, where it's your first convo, and you are telling her you like her.  Be a man.  Be confident.  You don't tell her you like her.  You can ask her out.  If she says no, say no biggie.  Then make sure she knows you're going out with other girls.  Then if there is any interest, she'll start liking you and coming after you.  Nothing turns on a girl more than not having what others are having.
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If you really want to begin a friendship with a girl you like, you have to muster the courge to talk to her. Only you can do this.Even the most casual of relationships begin with communications.Begin with small talk, like saying hello. Talk about school lessons, tv shows, or whatever you think she might be interested in talking about.Good luck.
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It really is not all that hard. Go up to her and try talking to her unless you already do. Then when you get to talk to her and know her better you might be ready to take the next step to writting her a not or in your case have a friend that you trust go up to her and ask her what she thinks of you and if it is an okay answer your friend would then say well that is a relief because he really likes you and was woundering if you would go out with him
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I think the first thing you should do is to introduce yourself and start a conversation with her.  Try to get a feel for who she is, what she likes, her type of personality.  You'll never know any of the basics unless you even talk to the girl.  Once you know the basics, then that will help you make a decision to ask her out.
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The best thing that you can do is to be yourself. Talk about things that you know a lot about (ie. music, movies, a sport/hobby). Also be sure to ask the girl about herself, her interests, who she hangs out with. This will show the girl you are interested in getting to know who she is inside and it will help you figure out what you have in common to talk about.\nGirls can tell when someone is being genuine and down-to-earth, and when they are not. Any girl worth being around is going to want someone genuine and will like you for who you really are not who you pretend to be.
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You def. only have an idea of this girl..like that other person posted...def. meet her and talk to her alot more in person...its a whole other character face to face....you'll have to suck that up and get comfortable in person..otherwise..you have no relationship...
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First of all, check out the girl--what is the mood at her moment.  If you can handle her mood, go and talk to her in the way that suits her.  There is no definite method as to how to talk to one; it all depends upon the person, the place and the time.
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Be a "Secret Admirer" girl's wonder who they are you sure to get some attention she will tell her girl friends and family and everyone will be waiting one day to meet you...\n\nDo this by sending a card with a special home made poem \nyour after her heart so you have to do thing's that they like.\n\nFlowers die cards last forever and you and her will if you approach her in the right ways. Good luck!
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To "make" her? What - is this like some performing poodle?\n\nYou haven't said if you want more than a one-off "make love".\nIf just one-off, just go out for an evening with her and get her much more drunk than you are. With luck she might not even remember, and then you can try the same trick again later.\n\nIf you want any kind of deeper relationship, you're gonna have to seriously loosen up in your whole approach.\nEm - as a first step, try getting to know her.\n(I mean, really know her rather than just her name.)
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Be bold and strike a conversation. When some familiarity is in place you may then let her know your interest and feelings towards her. It all depends if she will give you audience and not play hard to get
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If you want her to know that you like her, the best way is face-to-face: "Hey, let's go out together to ... " Surprisingly enough the straightforward approach works best. It's just too bad that guys are too scared of the opposite sex to act in a straightforward fashion.\n\nSo, if you're a confirmed romantic, and yet still too afraid to face the girl of your dreams, here are some suggestions to get noticed, in a romantic way:\n\nIf you know she listens to the radio at a certain time, request a song for her (you can even create a radio internet broadcast with her favorite songs and include ads that have special messages for her) \n\nIf you share a bus ride, have the driver hand her a small gift from you that has a note in it with your name and a short romantic poem in it \n\nWhen she's at work, send a group of singers to her with romantic songs. You can usually find such groups in the yellow pages \n\nWrite a poem about how you think your life together would be and mail it to her, one line at a time, two days apart (email works too) \n\nSend her a rose with a special message inscribed on it \n\nSend her a message in a bottle that has a description of your first date, time and place, in it \n\nKeep in mind, you can be anonymous or have your name associated with each of these suggestions. But if you go to all of this trouble and don't reveal yourself at the same time you can be certain that someone else will take the credit .... and the girl!
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Ask yourself is the possibility of getting this girl worth the effort of overcoming your insecurities and shyness? Is holding her, seeing her smile, laugh, waking up to see her face in the morning worth putting for effort to change?  You're the only one that can actually do that, though here is a little advice that may help you in talking to her:\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. Ask simple, friendly questions about the person. \n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nAs for the no being able to relate to others because you don't drink of dance... You're not the only one, a lot of people don't enjoy the bar and club scenes, you'll find others that feel the same way. If the people you want to hang out with do goto these places you can go with them everyonce in a while. You really don't need experience to be with friends at most of them.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful tod
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just ask ?s and tell her about the things u like and why and from there u should have a convo going on and just go with the flow
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♥Take a chance! Do more than just say Hi, try having a conversation and find out what she likes and more about her. If it's right for you two, things will go smoothly from there. Good luck!♥
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That depends on why you cannot get her.  Do you not know how to find her or is she taken by someone else?  If you know her name, and any other piece of distinguishing information, you could try looking her up online.  If you already know how to find her (but cannot get her due to circumstance) you could always just tell her how you feel (like: "Girl, your boyfriend sure is lucky; I should have spoken up when I had the chance") and maybe start a friendship, because new relationships do sometimes end and you could still have a shot if you're around.  If you still can't get her after all that though, maybe you should just hit a club and find a new girl to crush on; that'll usually help you forget the one you're already crushing on.
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first off... get some confidence.  walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.\n\nor.... \n\nyou can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
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Just meet her someplace where you have an ability to talk just between you and her (i.e. NOT between classes), communicate with her, make sure you have her attention, and ask her.  It would also be helpful if you looked as presentable as possible, to make as good of an impression as you possibly can.