im in love w/ this guy ( it is more like a chursh) what do i do???
406544
ask him out ... or get over it ... sorry but there really are only two options... unless you make it absolutly clear that you like him,,, he wont go out with you... get to know him... then ask... \n\ngood luck .. hope all goes well
1158485
tell him straight away how you feel about him.  if he reciprocates then good for you.  if not at least you will be in the clear.  If you do not hurry someone may beat you to it and then you will be left with nothing.  Take a chance.  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  don't think that love is a game of chance.  Don't ignore him.  instead shower all your attention on him.  this is your self created mess and only you can clear it up.  all the best.  God Bless.
590118
Love has a strange way of allowing things to work out sometimes. You can write him a letter or you can call him or you can confront him face to face. Either way is okay. If you can't do any of these things then you can have a relative or friend of yours or the both of you drop some subtle hints for you. My dear, love is not dumb or desperate. It's honest and true. Hurry up now and don't waste any time! Good Luck!
630234
you know, when you are ready you will know. i swear, you love for that guy deepens and you know that he is willing to wait for you.. it is a funny thing, but you will know. but the best thing is to give it time and when you know this guy really loves you, then go for it. just give time..\ngood luck
248859
Go out on a few more romantic dates with him and express your feelings.  He's probably toyed with this idea as well.  If sparks happen, then just follow your instinct.  But if they don't, be thankful to have him as a very good friend.  Good luck!
585515
IF U KNOW IN YOUR HEART THAT U TRULY LOVE HIM,THEN U MUST FIND HIM....AND EXPLAIN!IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT..U HAVE NOT LOST NOTHING....BUT IF U FEEL THIS WAY AND NEVER DO NOTHING ABOUT,U WILL WONDER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE,IF THERE WAS REALLY SOMETHING THERE,AND THAT WOULD BE TERRIBLE!ATLEAST THIS WAY,U DONE ALL U COULD! GOOD LUCK!
411667
Wait for another time.  It sould like it may end up being too stressful if you have to be misleading.  Think about how great it would be if everyone could be open.  If he doesn't know you like him then you're more likely to be disappointed that you didn't have quality time with him and it will be all your own fault.  If he's the right guy for you, you'll have a chance to be with him and enjoy the fact that not only you like him but that he likes you.  Wait for that to happen and you'll enjoy yourself more.  Even if it doesn't happen, you'll be glad you didn't push the situation.
227555
Either he IS in a relationship or he ISN'T in a relationship.\nThere is no such thing as 'kinda in'.\nYou are infatuated because he is unavailable to you. Stay out of it. Please try again.
1137505
stay with your guy\nLike you said don't ruin your current relationship for a little crush\nThe feelings will pass
953178
I'm in 1 too...ask him if he still feels the same way...if he does he will create a time 4 u 2 to b together!!  Tell him how YOU feel
1066477
Just say yes and go with the flow you might not love him like he loves you but as long as you get with him it will change in the long run and you two will be very happy with each other. Just take the chance and get him before its to late.
754692
Keep your cards close to your vest for now.  Why not make some flirtatious remarks that will likely endear you to him such as "I think I may have a bit of a crush on you...." but as to heavy duty "love", wait a bit.
313401
I'd say he feels the same way. If what your telling us is true sounds to me like he's into you. Why not throw it all out in the open? Tell him you want to jump his bones when he gets home... I'm sure he'll be happy!!!
720457
talk to him - i told my bf that i love him and see our futures as being together - try it :-)
859213
This is a tuff situation to be in, you want him around yet you dont want to hold him back from something great.  I think you need to be honest, tell him how you feel.. have no regrets at all.  If he is someone you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with then you do need to talk to him about a plan on keeping the romance alive or next steps.  I am a firm believer in destiny and fate and I think if its meant to be then things will mold into shape soon and you will see what your next steps will be.  Always be honest with your feelings and you will have no regrets.
914493
I would just let him know how you feel.  Go after what you want dont wait for him.  If you want it go get it.
518284
Go for it and ignore your friends who seem to be a lil shallow. This man is more capable of loving you more than any man can ever love you in more ways than one. For instance, he has to literally explore your body as he make love to you and it becomes like second nature to him he knows your body even better than you. He can sense your mood and he will love you always for who you are and not what you look like ,act like etc. Most important he will never judge you because his love is true