why do boys be on games if they know they want you but try to act like they dont wat to do move on or stay?
414878
video games are da bomb
969742
Because these guys are older than you, they think that you will automatically worship them. If a guy thinks he can get what he wants by asking, he will ask. Just say no, and mean it. Don't ever give in, like a child, once they know they can get what they want from you by pestering you, they will do that to get what they want. Don't ever let a guy pressure you into something you don't want to do because it is what girls his age do or whatever. Be careful! Hope this helps!
414489
no way - nothing wrong with you...boys are dumb and want what they can't have. It's the battle of who cares less. If you act like you don't care, they love that...let THEM do the chasing.
277799
OKAY GIRL, FIRST OFF, HE'S DOING BOTH! HE'S PLAYING DUMB SO THAT MAYBE YOU TALK TO HIM A LITTLE MORE...LET ME TELL YOU GUYS LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP...IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM. THERE ARE MANY POSSIBILITIES TO THIS SITUATION...FLIRT WITH HIM A LITTLE BIT...OBSERVE HIS REACTIONS TO THE COMMENTS YOU MAKE THAT ARE DIRECTED TOWARDS HIM...WHEN YOU ARE AROUND HIM JUST BE YOURSELF...IF NOT HE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL EXTREMELY AWKWARD...MAYBE EVEN MORE SO...PLUS IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU AND WANT TO BE AROUND YOU MORE AND MORE...JOKE WITH HIM...IF YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS WHILE KEEPING YOUR COOL, HE WILL DEFINATELY STOP PLAYING THE GAMES...HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY INTO HIM...AND TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THAT! HOPE I WAS OF SOME HELP...
158720
Because if you take the time to examine yourself, you'll see that you play games just as much.  The real game is that "like minds attract", you just each play games in your own way.  Stop being subversive, manipulative, controlling and you'll see different kinds of men come into your life.  If you're complaining about his games, it just means he's better at playing than you are and you got beat.
597556
You should just respect his decision instead of thinking that this is just a challenge for you.  Some people really do just want to be left alone!  It may be he that he came out of a bad relationship & is trying to get over it, or he may not be at all interested in you & is just trying to be polite.  If you harass him about it, he'll just get annoyed.  Leave it alone.
420356
They do it because they are dumb. I just got out of a realtionship like that and he wants me back. He is a big loser all they want is sex and if you don't give it to them, they WILL cheat. I cryed so much over him...hes a loser
522860
Maybe he's losing intrest in u or trying to give u a hint? that he wants to see other people. That's what my ex did, when she said i deserve some one better. Maybe he's trying to get more attention, who knows? tell him stop playing games and come out forward & say what's on his idiotic mind. Us guys can't express our feelings well, unlike u ladies.
633692
Some men and women have been hurt by someone else so they figure they will do into you before you do them . As adults games or and should be left behind. They will never change.......
1056796
Mind games .... Hmmmm.\n\nMind games come into play on a couple of occasions. 1. To test you and your commitment. 2. To act as if he doesn't really think your a major part of his life (usually peer driven - remember the movie Grease).\n\nI have done it myself "in high school!!" but when the girl got fed up with it, broke it off with me. I was devastated (but still cool LOL).\n\nNo seriously, if he's trying to impress its the wrong thing to do. Loving someone is always taken for granted until that person is gone. Mind games is childish and a huge waste of time. If you love someone, a smile will come to your face just thinking about that person.\n\nBacking off is a form of mind games and could have the same effect. A girl backing off from me would make me think she is disinterested in me. \n\nBe careful in both cases, be forward about mind games and catch him off guard. Get angry at them for doing it (its like backing off) and watch them come crawling back. If they don't call or come back ... then their game served its purpose... to drive a wedge in your relationship.
988205
playing hard to get can cost you sometimes. It might be giving the message that you are not interested. if you give him mix signals like you are interested sometimes and another time you are not. he will dump you and get another girl. Better come straight and get it over with once and for all .
446960
you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
187942
some guys like girls to play hard to get. try flirting, before telling them exactly how you feel.
825197
i think he is playing around, he doesnt want a relationship with u...hes just making a fool out of u. hes taking u for granted...he can see u, chat with u , flirt around,,,wat more a guy wants. i think u should be strong n confident in taking the decision. tell him straight away that u need space and its over!!!!!! :)\ngood luck
563524
To see if you really want them.  Guys like if you chase them.  But if you dont' they will come after you.
533747
You're third word in your question is the answer...because they are MEN!\n\nI know exactly what you're asking, and why you're so confused...they play because they can, but I also think its because they're less comfortable with commitment than we are.\n\nNot much to do about that except accept them as they truly are, and hope all goes well!
448831
one of the best ways to get a man to act like you really dont care,men say they dont play games,but they are all about the game and the chase they wont admit it but they love it and they need it to feel good about there sorry selves...no offense guys,i just have ya all figured out,years ago...good luck.