How can I help a fussy person?
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Get rid of her, such behavior is totally unacceptable!\n\nJoke aside: talk to her about it. Compulsive behavior usually stem from scars in the childhood. When the obsession of keeping the apartment clean manifests itself strongly, something is trying to surface in her consciousness that she does not want to think about. Do not talk to her at this moment, as she will likely react violently (defensively or offensively) to any attempts you make at bringing that past forward. Try talking to her when she feels safe, such as after sex or during a movie where there is just the two of you.\n\n[edit]: Despite what Sonia pessimistically wrote, it *is* possible to cure your GF. The most able person is one she cares about, not a psychologist, but you. Remember that she just needs to talk about it herself, not that someone else talks about it.
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See if there are any elderly neighbours.  Offer to rake leaves.  Help get groceries.  Any brothers or sisters in your family?  Offer to help with their homework.  Read a story to them.  \n\nHere's a tough one!  Any kid in your school that is not popular?  Make friends with that kid.  Sit with him/her at lunch.  Invite him/her over your house to do homework together.  \n\nSay your prayers...for one day...for one specific person whom you actually do not like.  \n\nDo errands and work around the house without or before being asked.  Make beds, do dishes, clean-up the living room, empty the trash, set the dinner table, etc...\n\nSpend one day in which you do not say ONE evil or bad thing about another human being.  Spend the entire day only speaking good and positive things about people and life.  It is really hard!\n\nHope this helps!  Good luck!
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try the naughty step my daughter was the same till i used it give him 2 warnings if that dosent work put him on the step it can be anywere (but when at home keep it in the same place!) for 2 mins if he is two and three mins if he is three and so on then after the time is up tell him why he was on the step and make him say sorry it works just takes time good luck
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Have them chew a clove before hand.  It will solve all of your problems.
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Contact your local community services.  There is a service offered for people with disabilities.  The will come in and clean your house, do laundry, and help with the cooking.  They will also have someone go buy your groceries for you.  Not a good idea to have them delivered to your door.  You just never know.  Try these local services.  I would trust them before I would truat a total stranger.  Good luck, let us know how you are doing.
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have them imagine that they need help/assistance and what having other help them feels like.  Then have them imagine the same scenario w/o anyone to help them.  Then tell them that they can fill those voids and be that person that's there to help.  Tell them that there are tons of different ways they can help.  They can be on the front line or behind the scenes. They can help out animals or humans.
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DR PHIL SUGGEST TIME OUT IN THE LAUNDRY ROOM OR A TOTALLY BORING AREA OF THE HOUSE AND IF SHE HATES CHORES LOAD HER UP OR TAKE SOMETHING SHE LOVES IE. TOYS,VIDEO GAMES,OVERNIGHT AT FRIENDS ETC. TRY TAKING HER TO CHURCH ALSO , HAVE HER INTERACT WITH OTHER CHILDREN THAT ARE GOOD INFLUENCES ON HER AND ARE CALMER IN NATURE. EVEN IF U R NOT RELIGIOUS IT HELPS
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More than happy to help if I can. But How?
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give them salmon with a little ketchup on it with apple sauce. i know it sounds weird but i swear to you it works. just give it to them for dinner and there is something in the ingrediants that will calm them down.\n\ngood luck
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help, him or her over the need ,\nbye positive feed back \nand lots of  care .
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try to explain to them that its hard. otherwise, make them hide the stuff. trust me, youll be happy in the end when they arent healthy and you are.\n\nyou have to ignore it!!! if they can get junk food, they can get real food 4 u. they munch on cookies? GET AN APPLE IN YOUR HAND, NOW!
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1. Talk to the person about the problem. Do they see what they area doing? Do they understand the consequences to others of their behavior?\n2. What is their response to this discussion? Do they acknowledge the problem and want to help solve it? OR is it a 'too bad, that's the way it is' answer? \n3. If they want to try and solve it, then you will need to come to a compromise about time, labor, money etc. \nIf they have a too bad so sad attitude, then the way to deal with it is to leave.
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treat he or she with patient.......a lots of patient..good luck!
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Be patient with him and help him out, either with verbal hints or a more physical kind.
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This problem may require intervention in the form of professional assistance. You may not like hearing that but it may prove essential in curbing this type of behaviour, especially if you are really serious about handling the situation.
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Buy yourself a nice, big bottle of a really good bubble bath/shower gel/soap/anitbacterial spray, whatever (the ones that smell like apple pie, or cinnamon rolls or chocolate work best) and then rant and rave about how amazing it is (I mean rant allll day, until he/she gets sick of it) and INSIST that they try it. \n\nIf that doesn't work, just tell them that they smell/are dirty.  If they're bold enough to walk around stinking all the time (because you KNOW they smell it too), then they're strong enough to take some constructive criticism.
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be patient and understanding, act real calm set a GOOD example and smile and praise them when they are good or work really hard but frown and get serious and firm when they misbehave or calmly count, keep them busy and help them. Feed them lots of love and support!