I'm going 2camp soon and idont no if i should tell myfriend im goingbecause shewill stealmy other frendcoming?
409445
tell her at the last moment when there is no time left and say you are really sorry that she cant cant come and she should stay in touch
1045882
YEA, If not you may miss out on a beautiful thing !!!\n\nI seriously doubt that your telling him that would cause any problems only good
248732
I'm assuming you are good friends since you've known each other for so long but I wouldn't want you to scare him off either.  I would just kinda drop hints and see how he takes it and when the time is right to tell him then you will know.
361913
if you are a TRUE friend  u would put it behind you..you may be doing something that they are against (i dont mean being straight either)
70660
I think you should confide in a diary or journal or something like some previous answer told you to do. It really lifts the weight off your shoulders once you've written your feelings down. I mean, unless you dont keep your memories written down, then you should tell your 2nd best friend/a close friend who doesnt have any idea who your best friend is, so that the person you tell doesnt tell your best friend and screw up your friendship. Just like what some other person said. Or, if you do have a trusting friendship that'll be sure to last for a kachillion years (again, an idea from another answer), then you might just be able to tell your friend. That's why they call them best friends forever right? Nothing'll come between them
1138563
Go for it. I think that other girls will come for your friends.\nPlus if your friends are really your friends they will support you
342479
Well if they are true friends and still be your friends, then nothing to worry about. Otherwise, it may be hard to tell them. It is always hard to tell a secret but if you really want to tell, then do it. And be proud of it. \nReally, I wish I can help you out. Still, good luck with telling your friends!! I am cheering you on! :D I support ya. Hope they will stay friends with ya. Good luck.
1081572
well you decide what you want to do. yur friends shouldnt pressure you into something you dont feel like yur ready. my suggestion is that you tell her that you like her because it's alwayz better to tell someone you like rather than hiding it inside, but on the other hand you can do that if you want to. dont regret it.
398041
You didnt do this while with this girl did you? If not I can say this much: Never hide anything. If you really love this girl then dont be afraid to tell her. I know from experience and I can say that we have the best relationship even when we were separated half the world apart
96100
Well, I would say don't tell.  It would only ease your guilty conscience and would really hurt her.  If she gets suspicious though, don't lie.  (And don't do it again!)
209641
Honestly, you would think that you should tell the person because it is the 'right thing to do' morally.  BUT think about it first  You are going to lose a friend.  You are going to hurt a lot of people and it still wont make it right.  If the person has no idea do not tell them because what you would be doing is another selfish act really.  You are hurting your friend so that you feel better.  So if they don't know just leave their happiness alone.  You already did one bad thing, don't do another to ease your conscience.
605813
Only if you're comfortable with everyone knowing because she will spill the 'secret' to someone eventually.  If you're already 'out', then just tell her.
377509
Tell only your true friend that you know wont get you in trouble by telling them. if you already dont trust them then you shouldnt tell those friends. if you plan on continueing the relationship with this boy then you are going to need there help in this situation but if you dont have a chance of breaking him up with his girlfriend then you need to keep it to yourself so no one finds out and you get a bad name.
684796
you made the right decision in telling some one. if you let it go no one would know except you and would feel guilty plus you would lose a friend. she may be made at you for it but overall it was for the best
1026118
if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
535539
you should go straight to your friend and tell her before it gets out of hand.
1097975
Assume it is true unless you have proof to the contrary. Your friend may need your support in the face of temptation or social pressure. I hope you get very tough with your friend if they even think of going near the stuff.