Why do kids like getting in trouble??
413009
They don't LIKE getting in trouble.  They are simply looking for attention, even if it is negative attention.\nChildren would prefer to get away with things that are wrong, but if the child is trying to get caught, then he/she is seeking attention.
769757
Honestly for your safety you should tell a trusted teacher , guidance counselor, or the principle.\n\nThey will talk to you and then him/her, and try and have the two of you talk and work things out. \n\nBullies are troubled kids, that are very insecure and need to make fun of others to make themselves feel better about themselves, and hit and push people around to try and feel powerful and in control.\n\nGood luck and stay safe
399575
First you need to find out why they will get mad. Is it money they can't afford to spend?  Is it that they are over protective and don't want to see you get hurt?  Sometimes parents "act" angry towards kids because they can't afford things that kids ask for but are too ashamed to admit it to a child. If it is neither then you need to find out the underlying reason and solve it.  Then there will be no reason to refuse.
360059
Because there are so many examples of parent's not asking and that leading to bad stuff.  Be thankful they care enough to ask.  Not all kids have that!
775836
It is sometimes difficult to figure out why a person gets bullied, but bullies are not brave - they look for people weaker than themselves.\n\nSometimes it is because you just happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time - this is often the main reason for bullyiing.\n\nYou may have a vulnerability the bully notices.  With kids, that can be something as simple as having the wrong color hair, having freckles, anything that might make you look different.  \n\nSometimes people are bullied because they look as if they will not stand up for themselves.  Sometimes there is no particular reason.\n\nThere are many reasons why people bully. Often because they are very insecure in themselves. Sometimes they are angry or upset or feel that they don't fit in. It may be a way of showing off to peers and looking tough and important and in charge. People who bully others in one setting may be getting bullied themselves in some other setting, such as at home or school. Bullies may be scared of getting picked on so they make sure to do it first. If they don't like themselves they may take it out on someone else. Sometimes they think it will make them more popular. Sometimes they do it to get attention. Others might be jealous of the person they are bullying. They may just want to make others afraid of them. It sometimes makes them feel braver or more important or better about themselves.\n\nThese links should help.   Take care.
353084
Sometimes it's forced on by parents. All of my friends are 16-17 and, depending on how they're parents treat them, they act either younger or older. For example, I have a friend whose mother died when she was little and this girl knows how to take care of herself since she's been taking care of her dad for a few years. Another friend, though, is a little spoiled brat because she asks for everything and gets it plus more. Or it could be the bad media that shows the blondes in the tight skirts that little kids are exposed to and that's how they think they should act. Well, probably a little bit of both factors and more.
355561
These problems will be here because the police are not allowed to punish children for doing wrong.\nThe children know they can do whatever they want and no-one can stop them.\nThe government is so into giving children freedom that they have forgotten we all need rules to become decent people.\nIn the past a policeman could give you a clip round the ear for being naughty but now the victim is to blame not the child
165761
Some of these people really don't have your best interests at heart, telling you to run away, yell, demand, cry. That doesn't get you what you want, and it doesn't help you learn how to deal with the real world, who don't really care if you're having a bad day or not. Not knowing you or your parents, I can only speak from my years of experience, raising my two kids to adulthood (with NO bloodshed!). When my teenaged daughter yelled at me, it did not make me want to give in or get all warm & fuzzy. It made me clamp down and cut her off, sending her to her room, often with a lot less than before (like being grounded for sassing). The best way to deal with parents who have clamped down on you is to find out why they are holding you back. Do they have a reason for not trusting you? Have you done something to make them clamp down on your freedom? If you're too young and you want to do things that only older kids are doing, they are trying to protect you from what could be a very bad situation. They have experience, that's what makes them know what to do. No, parents aren't perfect. We have screwed up lots of times. But, we remember what it was like to be your age, and all the feelings that go with it. That hasn't changed over the years. Feelings are still feelings, no matter how long ago we were kids. When you become a parent, you want to protect your kid from all the nasties that are out there, especially other kids who we have NO control over. We don't know what kind of morals other kids have been raised with, or even IF they have any morals. So, us parents have the tendancy to hold you kids just a little too much sometimes. Even though we know that we have to gradually give you your freedom, the process is sometimes painful for us to see, especially when we see you act in a way that brings too many memories back for us. It's like watching a train wreck. You know what's gonna happen if you don't warn someone to throw the switch on the track, but sometimes the wreck has to happen to fix a bigger problem. That's why some parents let their kids get thrown in jail, even though everything inside them wants to just hold them close and save them from harm. It's better that they learn some hard lessons before things get really bad. So, it really bites, being a parent sometimes. Try to think of what your parents have to put up with. Maybe changing places with them for a day will help you see what they have to put up with on a daily basis. It's not just off to work, then come home and put your feet up & yell at the kids for not getting their chores done. It's more than that. Many kids say they can't wait till they get to be 18 and free. Guess what? With freedom comes RESPONSIBILITY. You are then responsible for EVERYTHING you do & say. One person said it very well...enjoy being a kid for as long as you can. You're getting your eats, heats and everything else for nothing. Out in the real world, when you need a dentist, you have to pay boo-coo bucks just to pull your tooth out, let alone get a filling. Same thing for when you get sick. Just one antibiotic pill can cost over $10.00 and you'll need on the average of 10 pills to get better. And that doesn't even add in the cost of seeing the doctor, which is $60.00, where I live. What I would suggest, little one, is learn to listen a little more, learn to help a little more, and after a while they just might loosen their hold on you. When they can see that you're showing signs of growing up and taking responsibility, they'll give you more freedom. But, don't blow it by taking advantage of their trust. Once you have it, losing it would take you that much longer to get it back. Also, if you ask them how you can help a little more around the house, it would make a big impact on how they treat you in the future. When all you give them is attitude, that's all you'll get back, along with a very lim
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the people that is on here is for i think one reason like me to find answers,so i know that most people that is on here is for what i said earlier.so if there is kids as you say are on here,they do it for fun and to waste peoples time,so the best place for them to have fun is in arcades that play games,or on bandits to loose money.
637327
Yes!  The reason kids are acting this way is because no one is taking responsibility for them.  Parents would rather point fingers at school systems, the media, and society, instead of taking responsibility for what their kids learn.  If more parents did this, we'd be in a much better place!
520443
Teachers, funding, the govt! pressure, stress, home issues, trauma, depression, teasing from other kids, peer pressure, environment issues, ADD, ADHD, learning disabilities, no motives.... etc... there are a number of reasons for a child to do badly in school. the question is too general.
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It's a combination of things. Some who fail to preform in school are actually refusing to preform--because they refuse to conform--in which case someone needs to sell them on school and school needs to be differentiated for them.\nGet that these kids already have issues.  They are bored, delinquency looks fun.  \n\nOthers who struggle and fail may become delinquent due to self esteem. Traditionally, schools are set up to be so competative and even when kids like these make strides their success is diminished by their peers who do better.\nAgain, kids like this would do better if education was differentiated and we didn't force him to be compared to others but to his own milestones.
314405
Kids usually get away with stuff like that, unless they accused a teacher.  If it is proven that they falsely accuse a teacher, they will get all kinds of hell from the school, including at least a suspension.
863445
because then teachers will have do deal with the pathetic excuses of parents. In their eyes the child can do no wrong-they are the 'victim'.- of bullying, being singled out by the teacher, they are from a single family etc.\nWish these parents would get real, their kids are unruly, undisciplined yobs who cannot face up to any responsibility.
178287
They do this in part because they are not mature enough to deal with the real world.  I'm not being critical of them. I have too many problems of my own.  These "kids" were not taught a great deal of personal responsibility as children.  That rests squarely on their parents shoulders. Now they are having children and have less chance of teaching their own children responsibility.  It will likely get worse before it gets better.  Some day maybe parents will step up to the plate.
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it means kids can b a pain in the a** sometimes. \nseriously speaking, its happening more often because of the environment we live in. ppl hardly hav respect for the person sitting next to them. every1's busy and if a lil thing goes wrong they get cranky. students these days are less tolerant than ever. take the french student rebellion for example. and parents need to instill more ethics in their kids by spending more time with them. a person's raising results in the man he becomes.
1097973
it's not just Disney, look at almost any children's literature and you will find the same thing. for one, they want the kids to have something to struggle with, for another, the parents would get in the way of their adventures.