Should i make up-or break up?
407294
break up find someone else
57778
The relationship should not end\nThen again coz both of them are stubborn , no one wants to be the first to "make up", so the relationship remains strained.\nIt should not be so , but it is.\nMost of the time it is due to selfishness.
18037
Nope.. I would dump him. Using the reason, " I made a mistake" is like his 'get out of jail free card'.  Does that mean that you can " make a mistake", also?  I agree with the answer that there are probably things in the relationship that would make someone feel the need for something new and exciting.. maybe a little dangerous.  If you do decide to stay together, I would definitely work on communication skills between the both of you.  Don't look to us for answers... you have to find the answer in your heart and do what it tells you to do.  Will you trust him ever again? Will it cause stress down the line when you question his every move? Will you end up with ulcers?!?!  I hope things work out for you either way.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
1095976
You should probably cut it off. If you know you are the only one with serious feelings then you also know that you are going to be the only one hurt in the end. If you are hell bent on staying with him, then try to use him for something as well. Then you'll both be okay in the end, because you acknowledged early that it was meaningless.
274940
Well, I think you should ask for his opinion. Just carry on for a lil while, and if you both find that you cannot bear the circumstance any longer then maybe breaking up is good for both of you. At least you don't have to worry too much about meeting each other and the distance either.\nBut if you two (esp. him) feel that you can still carry on, and that the love is true and strong enough to help you overcome this obstacle, then just stand beside him and fight for it. Happiness just worths its name if it is gained from challenges and hardship. Nothing valuable is easy to get my dear : )\n\nStand firm, and if you two have the same idea, then just go with it, whatever it might be...
295559
Well you need to consider, is your love worth maybe having to clean up after him all the time.  Also, if he is not willing to change on small things, what happens when bigger issues come around.  You either have to decide to stick it out or cut your losses.
1096082
you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.
105727
find someone else. don't be affraid to break it up.
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
526306
break it off and find someone new
225776
cmon!\ncontinue your relationship,if you guys still meet each other, isee no reason for any kind of break up!\ngo ahead gurl!
209746
break up with him, if he did this before he can do it again. it's better to correct someone the first time.
418539
I don't believe you should break up with him if you both care about each other.  Sit down together and go over your schedules.  See what free time you both have availabe and make set plans to see each other at these times.  Also make sure the time you spend together is put to good use.  Go places together like the movies, dinner etc don't just waste it.\n\nBreaking up is not the answer, many married couples both have full time jobs or even two jobs plus children if the all split because they couldn't be bothered making the effort it would be a pretty sad state of affairs.\n\nA commited relationship is always requires a bit of hard work and some fine tuning until you get things running smoothly :)
1084285
If you are both now struggling which mean you have developed some form of romantic feelings between each other. then it would be wise to just break up now, unless you are ready to commit adultery.\n\nIts painful, but just try stoping seeing each other for a while. You both need to maintain your dignity.
631266
Hi\n\n   I would say it totally depends on the reasons you broke up with him in the first place.......
676859
if you can't resolve the issue you've got to both accept that it won't be resolved and talking about it will only make you feel frustrated. You'll have to have discipline to keep a long distance relationship going so use that discipline to avoid the issue for now. Be careful that one or both of you aren't using this as an excuse to get out of the relationship. Having a break suggests it's something you are thinking about. You need to get together soon and remember the reasons that you are together. The issue you mention is obviously standing in the way so are you sure you can't do something to make it a bit better at least. fighting can become a habit and if you or he have done it with previous partners it may be something that feels so familiar that you recreate it. you are in a circle that must be broken but hiding or running away by not talking won't heal or help or break the circle. Only you two can work this out but you must be clear about what you want and need and are you compromising yourself too much! Good luck to you both.