how do I win a girl's heart if i know she has a bf and is already just my friend?
405734
The best advice i can give you is just build on that friendship because the closer you are when she breaks up with him the better the chance you will have to start dating her
520228
Brickjacks, listen to yourself. You sound as if you're hoping for the impossible; holding onto dear life just because you are not sure how does she feels about you, whether or not she wants to be with you and if she's just toying around with your feelings. Have you already asked her what she thinks of you? Have you told her how you feel about her?\n\nI really can't tell you what she's trying to do or how you should handle this situation and neither can anyone out there who answers your question because quite frankly, we don't know her. She might be a social butterfly or maybe she's a saint after all.\n\nMy opinion, you should have already confronted her by now. The more you stall your feelings for her the more confused you'll get from her reactions and advances.\n\nTake this opportunity to get to know her better. Since you're going out with her, you'll get to see what she's like. Don't stress yourself with impossible questions (i.e. Does she wants to see what kind of person I am before she decides to dump her boyfriend and be with me?)\n\nYou're not some "thing" that could be analyzed and be taken for granted. You're not some low grade ketchup/sauce that needs to be compared with another to determine which of the two taste good. You're a human, you have feelings and you know yourself better.\n\nShow her who you really are TODAY/NOW and if she shows the slightest indication of her being the malicious girl everyone (well, almost everyone) in Y! Answers been telling you, leave her. Just be her friend. She's not worth your aggravation.
938417
Ask her one day while the both of you are hanging out if she's ever considered you as boyfriend material .. it's gets the conversation started ... and you can still play it off if she freaks out and says " oh heavens no .. you're such a good friend - I would never want to ruin our friendship " ... it's a little embarrassing to confess your love to a friend and have them say - sorry I don't think of you in that way ... I've been on either end of that situation and it's a little uncomfortable ... good luck ... hope you get some great advise ... !\n\nJust remember the only way to find out is by talking ... make sure it's just the two of you ... that way there's no distractions ... if she doesn't feel the same way - continue being a great friend - that will really show her how much you truly care ... I've had a few guy friends that would just up & disappear after I told them I just wanted to be friends ... it sucks ... thinking back you wonder what their motives were the whole time ... !
971093
don't tell him...get a friend too. just tell you friend to be like...." i know someone who likes you! " and when they ask who...they will be like..." (your name)"  that way...things can get rolling and in no time, you will have a new bf.  guys are pussies, and once they know a chick likes them, they will start to like yuo back and realize your awsome...which you are..cus everygirl is...\n\nsavvey?
30836
i'm trying to do the same thing but maybe you should flirt with him or hint at him and maybe ask a friend who knows him to hint too when you're not around. you know have her say stuff like " yeah she's single ya know. she's been looking for a bf but no guy is brave enough to ask i mean if anyone asked she would probably say yes easily."
73578
ASK HER IF SHE HAS A BF OR GET SOMEONE TO FIND OUT IF SHE DOES AND THEN IF SHE DONT THEN ASK HER OUT BUT IF SHE DOES THEN JUST ASK HER WHEN THEY BREAK UP.
645602
make friends with somebody who's close to her so you're like one big group of friends - you'll know how she feels from the mutual friend, and u'll get to spend more time around her so you can have more chances to understand the signals she's sending.\n\ngood luck
1065805
ok well me as being a girl if the same thing happened to me i would be a bit freaked out to.. you should probably try to write her a note and tell her that you understood she has a boyfriend and ask her on a date... if shes single then go for it... if that was me i would totally talk to you again
13080
I have the same problem budd :-(  \nTell her you like her but say that if she dosen't feel the same way you feel about her then just say you'd still like to be her friend.
794457
look only because u like her it so doesnot mean that even she has to like u ... so donot take things for granted first talk to her and make her ur frien be with her and find is she the one u were searching for and than after one week or maybe 12 to13 days tell her about ur feelings and say that u care and i'm sure ur prob will be solved maybe not a girlfriend but duh u will earn a friend for life only in case her answer is no....
408364
Yes, I would say that you are. I believe the only reason she talked to you was to transition and to fill a void that her BF left and then when her former BF changed it was a reason to give him another chance. I understand you think she likes you, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Leave them alone and if she gets hurt again you will know when to make your move.
305721
This is a hard one. Does she already like you, is she ok with her current boyfriend or does she flirt around all the time.   Its all a case of sussing out the situtation and seeing how interested she is in her current bf, if she loves him then stear clear.  If you think she might be interested then drop hints, try and meet her and have a chat, see how she feels about him and about you. Offer a sympathetic ear.  But dont push it if she's not interested, you'll only get hurt.
150233
just cuz ure friends got a BF doesnt mean u hafta. wait for the right person
653392
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
1042541
call her up & ask her if she would like to go out for a dance or a cuppa coffee .even if she has a boy friend you can still be good friends & maybe someday she might dump that cool guy for a shy guy like you.you can never know what's going on in a gals mind.\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
369969
just listen to ur heart or listen to me:\n1: tell her how you feel\n2: get her a bf b4 she gets u a gf
113498
as far as finding out if she likes you i would suggest that you talk to her and if all else fails ask her if she does like you. but personally i would let it go. if she's with her current bf simply because she doesn't want to be single then if you two actually did get together then she might be doing the same thing to you in the near future and that's just not fair to you.