My boyfriend and I only see each other 3 days a week, is this bad for the relationship>?
398332
NOpe. I don't think that could be an issue. Since you both also have separate personal lives. One thing I could advice though is to keep an open communication. Even if you don't see each other everyday, a call on the phone, a text message, a special delivery, an email could perk up the relationship. You could also think of other ways to keep it spicy. Sometimes being with each other every single day gets kinda boring and infact this will have a deeper negative impact in your relationship rather than giving each other enough personal space with the 3 days a week dates. :-) Hoep everything works well with you and your boyfriend. If you not having a car of your own repells him from you, then that means you don't deserve him. You are far more valuable than a car. If he loves you and you love him, you both will always find a way to see or even just communicate with each otehr everyday. Distance could also make you miss the person, and missing the person makes the times when your together sweeter coz you'll both cherish every moment. :_)
891210
Maybe the relationship is over. If he's always "busy" perhaps he's seeing someone else already. Perhaps you should just let it die.
985711
Well it's only been 3 weeks and he has made it quite clear that he wants to go slow, and he's explained why.  If this is not good enough for you then forget the relationship.  Otherwise just relax and let things take their course.
33602
I would be honest with him. The longer it goes ther harder it will be. Only seeing you 1 or 2 times a year is kind of odd for someone who claims they care so much for you. Just be honest, who knows, you both might feel the same way, but are scared of what the other will say.
261672
you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
245188
He may have a lot of issues or feelings unresolved that need dealing with on his end.  Some men find it hard to relate their emotional feelings to their partner especially when they feel overwhelmed.  If he doesn't want to communicate with you in a few days I would definately be thinking you need to have a long talk.
835063
Three is not so bad, depending on the other person.  My boyfriend and I live together and still end up calling each other on lunch and breaks.  \nSome guys like that...others would not...
686173
My g/f and I are madly in love with each other but due to the job market we only get to see each other on weekends.\nWe try to make the best of it and yes, at times its hard but the weekends we get together we are able to over look any problems that has come up over the week and spend every moment we can in each others arms.\nI truely believe that being apart has reenforced our love for each other.
664731
This is a very strange phenomenon, one week holiday feels like an afternoon and vice versa.\nMaybe it's time to change of job, and try to do something more interesting!\nKeep your boyfriend though, seems like he's the right one!;)
600836
Ok I am here to help you! First of all, I think you and your partner need some time away from each other.. I like the vacation idea but that is a temporary solution in my opinion. I don't know if you guys are living together or just see each other all the time, but my advice will work for both.\n  First of all I think your problem is that you are spending wayyyyy too much time together. Relationships are funny, because even though you love each other so much and you want to spend every waking minute together, the reality is that you can't. You need to think of who you were before you guys found each other. What were you doing before you met him? You need to do things without him girl. You need to find some hobbies to do on days that you don't see him. Go out with your friends, meet them for coffee, take a class, go to the gym...\n  Before you know it, your life will be very busy. The excitement will come back. Your boyfriend will definitely miss you and realize that what he has is a good thing. Don't be afraid to do romantic things for one another...Send him a card, plan a romantic night together by making a special dinner with candles...Just do little things that shows you care. I suggest you buy the Cosmo Kama Sutra book. Try a new position every week! \n  The truth is, things can get boring after two years. But you have to continue to do things to get it to work. Spending alllllllll your time together is a huge no no. You will do enough of that once you are married. Remember, you still have your own identity even though you are in a relationship.\n  Good luck!
785136
It sounds like both yours and his priorities are noncommittal. Seeing each other when convenient should be enough for now. If this was love you would not have to ask this question.
1145286
Well if you guys basically never talk or see each other its not a real relationship so you might as well put the brakes on your current relationship with him!!
1022242
It isn't wrong at all.  He's obviously very busy and you'd probably end up calling him when he's busy.  If he says that he'll call you it's perfectly ok for you to just go on with things until he calls.  If you notice there are time periods each week when he is free, you might want to keep those open so you can spend time together/call eachother.  My girlfriend and I are busy a lot so when one of us says that we'll call the other, there isn't any point for the other one to call.  Hope this makes sense/helps.\n\nPeace\nChris
651272
maybe the problem is that you live together..i mean you see each other all the time...theres no more anticapation of wondering when you'll see each other.  the other thing could be that he knows the things that you do that arent soo "ladylike" just be a lil more girly in the next little while...bend over and show him what he's missing.. and wait for him to throw to the bed!! hahaah
629986
If you live 3 states away, daily communication is unreasonable under the best of circumstances. This is probably wearing him down emotionally. I know that I get completely overwhelmed at times, especially by relationship issues, and just shut down. It doesn't mean I don't care; it just means I'm overwhelmed.
580838
I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
717399
okay let me tell you a story my girlfriend and i work different hours so if we are lucky to see each other once a week . but i don't have any other ladies or she don't have other men .because there has to be trust in a relationship trust and honesty are the 2 priority's in a relationship i talk to my girlfriend every day .if you love him confront him if he loves he will tell you the truth