why no erectile disfunction when masturbating but happens during actual intercourse?
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Just to correct a couple of of bits of misinformation...\n\nED can be physical, psychological or a mix of the two.\nAn erection is best described as a "psychohydraulic experience.."\nIn the case that you describe, if everything functions normally during masturbation, then the issue might be psychological, possibly performance anxiety or some kind of issue with the lady of the moment..\nPerhaps the timing's wrong, or you're trying to rush things...\n\nIt's worth bearing in mind that, during masturbation, it's all about you - your attention is focused solely on your own sensations and enjoyment.  Sex with a partner is a lot more complicated, and it's not just mutual masturbation.\n\nThe best thing to do is to talk frankly with your partner.. presumably she is aware there is a problem... and it's certainly in her interest to get it sorted out, as well as yours.\n\nIt might be that you're not getting the right amount/kind of attention from her that you give yourself...  not enough foreplay...  too fast, too slow, too hard, too soft...  there's a million variables.  \nTry letting her watch you masturbate, so she can see what works, then let her take over... \n\nMost importantly, relax, take your time, and don't let stress get to you... worrying about it is the worst thing you can do.  Relax and enjoy.\n\nHope that helps, and good luck
505488
It is possible to come to orgasm without an erection.  This is the norm for men after Prostate surgery, RRP.  It is one form of impotence and is correctable with a doctors aid.  Pills, Muse, injections, or VED are some of the ways to overcome the situation.
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Your question isn't very clear because you don't say some important factors.\nIs there excitement?\nIs there erection?\nIs the act lasting long until the end?\nIf you referred to the ejaculation only, it's called “aspermia” and is the absence of any ejaculate (semen) and is much rarer.\nIn fact, you know that The male orgasm is not just about ejaculation. It is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation. \n•  Pre adolescent boys can often experience an orgasm without ejaculation.\n•  Some men do not have an ejaculation until several seconds after orgasm.\n•  Other men who are incapable of ejaculation are still capable of orgasm.\n•  Adult males may experience several ejaculations and go on to have further orgasms without ejaculation.\nIt seems that the way men experience ejaculation and orgasm differs from person to person.\n\nAnyway, about possible causes (symptom) of "Lack of orgasm", I can write in general:\nImpotence - see erectile dysfunction \nFailure to maintain an erection \nSexual headache \nFailure to ejaculate.\nOKAY?
958227
Actually, the reverse is true.\n\nThe reason I know this is the personal experience of a 38 year-old male friend of mine a few years ago.  He has been without a partner for some time (8 years in fact) and relied on "self-service" during that time.\n\nWhen he did begin a relationship with a partner, he could no longer function properly and required medical treatment.\n\nThe doctor advised him that effectively the blood vessels had atrophied over the time primarily because masturbation does not sustain an erection for long enough to keep the blood vessels healthy.
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No, absolutely!\nOtherwise we all should have problem or be impotent even!\nOn the contrary, scientists says that a regular sexual life (mastu*bation too) helps the reproductive system to keep healthy and increase the performance (desire) too.\nSomebody even plays more time in a day and there’s no correlation with impotency or erection.\nSo, don’t worry for that, while you only ought to care to don’t become too much addicted.\nMastu*bation is a normal event, and with the age and stable relations, decreases till vanish.\nYour semen quantity is good and the average.
995110
What's the cause?  You could have broken it while having sex if she was on top and it bent more than it could naturally.  If that's the case then what happened is that, when it bent you broke/popped the blood vessels that keep your penis erect and thus, that side doesn't get erect anymore.  Usually you have to get it fixed within hours.
1029739
Yes, it is a form of ED. Some men can't get an erection at all and some men can't maintain one. A friend of mine told me once that her husband used a ring at the base of his penis that helped him maintain his erections. I don't know the nice term for it, but the rude one is a *ock ring
740623
STOP masturbating so much!!! Over masturbation, or masturbation addiction can cause erectile dis-function even in younger men. Keep your jack off sessions down to 2-3 times per week. It is true it causes changes in the brain chemistry. So lay off of the caffeine, smoking, and booze, AND STOP WHACKING IT 2-6 times a day. Oh by all means jack off, just don't over do it.
620847
Masturbation does not make you weaker during sex. If you masturbate right before sex, it might make you unable to reach orgasm during intercourse. If you masturbate regularly it can prolong your sexual encounters in general, learning "control" so to speak. This is only speaking from my experience, maybe everyone is not the same.
323247
This could be a number of things. Age could be a factor; boredom; stress; lack of exercise. First identify what has changed in your life from the time when you had no erectile problems to now. It's hard to say unless you give more information. I can only speculate. However, it could be one of the above reasons. Ask your self the following questions; "am I happy with my sex life?", "am I bored with the same old sex routine?", "do I still find my wife attractive?", "are there any health problems that may be causing an erectile problem?". You should get a physical done, any way, just to see if every thing is working optimally. If that checks out fine, then look into any psychological possibilities. Good luck!
826410
forget about them.\n\nAnd no I am not being funny here, it is true. The more you think about sex, your penis, or getting erect, the more it will happen. Even if you aren;pt gay, just thinking about a freind popping one can get yours to rise to an embarassing occasion.\n\nFirst off, erections are as normal as water. They happen at random times, they don't happen sometimes when you want them, they occur about every 45 minutes while you sleep, you usually wake up with one every morning, and they always seem to happen right when you are called upon in class to stand up.\n\nSo, the best remedy is to simply face the fact that yoru penis will do what it pleases and you might as well get used to people noticing and don't waste time getting embarassed, trying to hide them or otherwise willing them to go away. Simply carry on with your normal activities as if they never occur and they will reduce in both frequency and in duration.\n\nOh, and a daily masturbation sessions wouldn't hurt either to keep you happy and little things satisfied.
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The erection is exclusive to men... since no part of a woman's body needs to get quite that stiff in order to have intercourse.  An aroused woman does have increased blood flow to her genitals, which can change their colour and stiffen the clitoris, but even so, she doesn't have the right anatomy to get anything as rigid as a normal male erection.
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if you're really worried then the best thing would be to consult a doctor.  There's sexual health clinics if you don't want to go to your gp.  There's nothing much unusal about the difference in size between an erect penis and a flaccid one.  The size can vary quite dramatically, just as it can if you're cold.  Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it.  it just means the blood vessels have contracted.  When you're aroused the vessels dilate to fill and enlange the penis so it's ready for intercourse.  Too much masturbation can be a problem if your body then becomes accustomed to being arroused but that's only in excessive cases.  The blood vessels can become strained (a bit like an elastic band)so that might be why you can't get it to 'stand without a hand'.  Just take things easy and give yourself time to heal and maybe not masturbate quite so frequently.
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Even though there are no actual bones in a boner, it is possible to break one's penis. To understand how this incredibly rare and painful event can occur, we first need to review a little (or not so little) penile anatomy. The shaft of the penis is comprised of two chambers of spongy tissue, the corpora cavernosa, which run along the inside length of the penis. Erections occur when, in response to physical and/or mental triggers, the nerves of the penis signal the surrounding muscles to relax, allowing blood to pour into the corpora cavernosa. A thick membrane surrounding the corpora cavernosa, the tunica albuginea, keeps the blood that is being pumped into those spongy chambers from being able to escape. The result — a stiffer, larger, and more rigid rod. Although your erect penis may feel rock-hard, it is still flesh and blood.\n\nPenile fractures occur when an erect penis is thrust against a harder, less flexible object. This could happen if someone enthusiastically plunges and pumps his penis into a partner, or a pillow let's say, and misses or "over-runs" the intended opening and instead hits a pubic bone, headboard, or other hard surface. If the object is hard enough, and the erect penis is thrust with enough force, that thick membrane surrounding the corpora cavernosa can tear, causing an audible "cracking" sound, abrupt loss of erection, severe pain and bruising, and a penis that is typically "bent" to one side or the other.\n\nPenile fractures are a medical emergency and must be evaluated and treated immediately. In severe cases, it is possible to damage the urethra, interfering with urination. Treatment for penile fractures consists of immediate evaluation, and, most often, surgical intervention to repair the tunica albuginea and restore or preserve erectile function and the ability to pass urine. Similar to other fractures, the sooner the broken part is "set," the less likely permanent damage and misshapenness will result.\n\nEven though many penile fractures can be fixed, it's probably safer and more pleasurable to focus on finesse rather than force when working and playing with an erection.\n\nAgain, broken penises are really hard to come by, so try not to let stories about this highly unlikely occurrence stand in the way of the happiness that your erect penis might bring to you and others.
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During Sex the vascular system engorges with blood to create the erection.  Unfortunately also the Cranial vascular system also dilates and a migraine type head ache can occur in some people.  The headache syndrome occurs in men who use erectile dysfunction prescriptions also for the same reason. You have heard the old adage of 'taking a cold shower' that was done to accurately lower the blood pressure and the engorged vascular system.  The blood pressure prescription is what most doctors use. You also may be having too frequent sex  or masturbation and stressing your body.   Take it easy, your body isn't a wind up toy............Good luck to you...
722885
Obviously he is very aroused and it does take a little bit sometimes if he is really aroused for his penis to calm down and soften. I have seen it before. If the erection remains for a very long period of time like I think over a few hours it becomes a problem, if not no probs.
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It feels good to have sex with or without ejaculating. Most guys want to make the experience complete and ejaculate though...that's the REALLY good part where you get that wonderful, relaxing feeling all over your body. Some guys have problems ejaculating inside a woman, especially at first at especially if they are nervous. It usually goes away with time and they are able to ejaculate in her vagina (or hand or mouth) with no problem. Masturbation is a little different feeling that intercourse. More pressure on the penis may be involved for one thing and it may take a little time to get used to the "different" feeling of f---ing. Just be patient and see what happens...don't make an issue of it...that may just make the condition worse! It should take care of itself with a little time.