How to forget someone who doesnt love you?
397628
Find som1 else. It will help you forget. Be open and dont shut others from you. If you dont let any1 in, and cling to her memories, you will never be able to move on. If she does not love u, dont waste your time thinking of her, find somelse who recognises your worth. You will be a lot happier. Its not empty talks, its experience talking. I missed out 3 years of my life clinging to memories
1051670
Remember her. Best thing you can do.\n\nLosing anyone close to you is hard... Just remember them. They will live forever in your heart.\n\nIt will hurt a lot at first, when you think of her... but slowly, those hurts will subside, and the smiles will shine through... Remembering the good times you had together... Smile through it all.\n\nGood luck to you hun.\n\n~Becca
677951
Time heals all wounds, friend. Do what you have to in the meantime. If you need to cry, cry a little. If you need to drink, drink a little (a little is the key word; don't need a booze problem on top of this)\n\nEventually you will find that your life goes just fine without her. There is no easy answer that's gonna make you forget her tomorrow. Love is tough; I've been there..\n\n\n***EDIT\n\nThe above posters are right. You will NEVER forget her completely, but you will be able to avoid the pain; that's important..
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
1077283
getting over someone takes time.  All you can really do is surround yourself with friends, positive energy and anything that comforts you.\nGood luck! and be strong and true to yourself.
1048244
Well, unfortunately you can't erase the memories of past relationships. There is always going to be something that reminds you of that person. A good way to bypass the baggage is not to use it against the new love.  They don't deserve to be compared to or treated as if they are going to be the same way. Not everyone is the same way. Have a positive outlook on any new relationship and learn from the previous ones.
519015
How about instead of forgetting... remember the good times. Only time with help you with that sorry. However after awhile it wont hurt so much and you will be fine.
626024
You will never forget him.  Right now it hurts but everyday it will hurt less and less.  You won't think of him as often.  And one day you will meet a man that seems to have walked out of your dreams and when that happens you won't remember the name of the one that hurt.
111410
It's kinda hard to forget some one you loved but if you still care about her in to some extent then don't try to forget about her keep talking to her (as just a friend) and remember the good times but keep an open mind and start dating new people. If you just completly hate her all of a sudden and want to forget about her for good the best thing to do is not think about how much you dislike her and just don't think about any memories of her. Continue on with your own life. Date new people, go out for a few drinks with your buddies, just have a good time.
554919
Start pulling away gradually.  Start doing things with your other friends but don't completely desert this guy either.  If he thinks he's in love with you, it would hurt a lot for you to suddenly ignore him.  Just spend less time with him and have shorter phone conversations, etc.  He will begin to see something is happenng in a short time and will be ready for a break.  Be kind just as you would want someone to be kind if they were breaking it off with you.
371213
The answer to your question is forgiveness...You must learn to forgive the love of your life...There had to be a possible reason why that person ignored you...You get past the hurt and pain by giving em another chance...I think you don't love that person..if you did u would of not given up on love \n\nI know what you are going thru...The love of my life is far away from me...but I still love him...Nothing can make me stop loving him...not even distance or time...Love is not easy..Love is a battlefield..
69800
Be yourself, if you want cry- cry, if smile- smile. Remember that you need to forget person who broke you heart...)
151427
you may never be able to forget love( if it is real love) bt you can get over it, try things to get your focus of the matter ,like going to gym more, hanging out with girlfriends and so on.... and maybe try going out with someone else, you might find a new love to replace it.
719810
Do not listen to his voice. Do not call him. Do not answer or return his calls.  Throw away cards, letters and all things that remind you of him.  Make yourself busy and take meticulous care of yourself.  Give your time to your other friends and family members whom you may have been distant with.  Catch up on some hobbies and volunteer work.  Make appointments for yourself to do the things you enjoy every day in the week. Every night, have someone to talk to who understands what you may be going through. Whenever your thoughts stray toward him, think only about the way he disappointed you and hurt you and remind yourself that you deserve the best. The longer you were with him, the longer it may take for you to get over him.  Nevertheless, you WILL get over him.
965066
you can't make yourself forget someone. The best thing you can do is surround yourself with single girlfriends and just talk. If you want to think about him, do it, because the more you try not to think about something, the more you think about it. for example: try not to think about an elephant. \ni bet you just did.
566045
All I can say is that time heals wounds and you will think you are never going to get over him but time will do it. Try not to think of him if you start to think of him start thinking of something else. Stay busy all the time. Put away anything that has to do with him like stuff he gave you and don't listen to the same music that the two of you listened to. Put pictures of him away in the attic or somewhere its not easy to get to. Then one day you will be able to look back and it will be a lot better. All of a sudden you will not think of him as much and you will then be on your way. Good luck I know its hard. It is one of the hardest things but if you ever get hurt next time you will be stronger.
236533
1. Don't think about it. \n2. Hang out w/ friends.\n3. Try something you never done before.\n4. Occupy your time.\n5. Cry @ 1st and then get over it.\n6. Move on.\n7. You were too good for him anyway. \n8. Help others.\n9. Focus on you. \n\nJust to name a few...lol. Just try some of these. I hope u start feeling better and remember you will be fine in time. I promise in the future you will look back and say what the hell was I thinking for being w/ him in the first place!