We use to be best friends and we are now lovers can we have sex on our first date?
399564
Of course you can. But you have to be aware of the possible consequences (emotional ones specially) of it!
798993
well since your not dating him or anything, than let his best friend turn you on! you can like more than 1 person!
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
254500
It depends on you... what you would want to happen? \n\nThere are 2 options:\n\n1. If you really want to be have a love relationship with your best friend and he/she is still single then of course the best way is to let him/her knows about your feeling. But mind you, he/she might get scared by your sudden confession. Remember to give him/her some time to think about it and comes out with a good conclusion for both of you.\n\n2. But if he/she already have a partner in life, then I suggest that you shd keep the feelings to yourself in order not to hurt your relationship with your best friend.\n\nSo, good luck!
776669
Do you mean a sexual relationship?  Don't ask, act.  Have a romantic date and then go with the mood.
534269
Don't think you should meet him for the very first time wondering whether or not to have sex with him.\nSee each other....get to know each other...see what developes...but running into a bed...shouldn't be in the agenda..\nHave a wonderful time....hope he is Mr Right!
1095798
Yes! If it works out...you can spend the afternoon getting to know one another...if it doesn't...well, perhaps you have other plans. \n\nIt's a "safe" date. \n\nGrace to you and God bless!
106250
no way! that sounds totally romantic and i'll bet that you'll both have a blast making dinner and goofing off while doing so\nHave fun!
96059
Well, depends on how long/well you have been with your date.  If its a very new relationship, perhaps you just gotts say, no, sorry, we cant tonight, but perhaps the next date.  If he's a decent guy, he will understand.\n\nAlso, it is possible to go that far, with your period.  You CAN indulge in o ral, so long as you have made sure you are nice and clean, and freshly 'changed'.  It is true that s ex can be ok during 'that' time.  It certainly aids the lubrication aspect, and it can really help with period pain.  For guys, at that time, wear a condom, and put down an old towel before you begin!  Not the most romantic, but it IS practical!!   LOL....  Sorry, this is not meant to be rude, just giving options!
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This builds your relationship on sex and physical pleasure alone.  I don't want that.  I use a first date as a tool to get to know someone and to see if we have any chemistry.  Sex comes way after that.  When I'm ready for an emotional relationship (hey, guys, you give us what we want, we'll give you what you want).  But no, I don't have sex on the first date.  You have to do a lot more to get into my pants.
958255
Why not lay off the sexual stuff altogether?  Concentrate on becoming better friends.  Do activities together.  \n\nIf you're not ready to go forward, maybe you should go backwards.
915107
Well, neither of you truly knew where the relationship was going to end up.  If you start throwing sex into the mix then the feelings involve get very confusing.  I would say you are going to have to talk to him about it.  Let him know how you feel and don't let it carry on any longer.  The longer you go on with these feelings the more it is going to hurt him later.  Stop sleeping with him for sure.  He will decide if you are still going to be friends, if you were truly good friends he will probably come around and be friends with you again.  It might take some time though.  You might not want to date anyone else for awhile, especially don't introduce them if you do. Friends and sex usually don't end up with positives, but you might be lucky.
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go back if you guys remember and have what you had on your first date.. like my husband and i go back to Chili's and order a chocolate milshake and southwest egg rolls for lunch then we go out later that night and celebrate with a lil bit bigger dinner. :D  we always have fun doing that.  we usually after dinner go for a walk around a park and sit on the benches and just sit there and hold each other for alil bit.. :D  do whatever you want..  do a picnic at a park, go to an amusement park for the day, baseball game... the list could go on.. it is whatever you are both interested in and kinda make a theme and use it for the whole day.. or even a scavanger hunt adn then surprise him with a nice dinner in the end. :D
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Actually he's not my boyfriend anymore, he's now my husband. Our first date, ahhmm... When we first met, were just friends and he always fetch me after work. And when he said he love me, we date in a cozy pizza restaurant. And as I see all of our dates, even in a simple and cheap restaurant to an elegant one, they are all so good and romantic to remember. He's so sweet and I really love him!
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mine first time sex in life is 19th October 2005
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I think if you truly respect her and like her then you should probably keep the touching to a minimum or she will think you have other intentions.  If you have known her for a while or were maybe friends first, then the flirty touching should be fine, and at the end of the night you could kiss..but I think that'd only be appropriate if you were good friends first.  I suggest getting to know each other first and then a hug at the end of the night.  If things go well hopefully you will get a yes to a second date!  However, do what you feel best, just let all of your physical touching be mutual and recieved well by her and make sure that nobody's comfort zone is crossed! Have fun and good luck! :)
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well first decide within yourself ...if you were to start dating ...and you broke up...do you want to risk losing your best friend... if this is a risk your willing to take...then go for  it.\n\nif not...then dont ... my male best friend and i joked about this a long time ago ...what if...and such...then we thought of the past relationships we both had...most of which .. well...most dont get along with their ex's so we decided it would never happen..and mind you we were just joking around.  \n\nsometimes...being best friends for a very long time...years and years can lead to romance..but by then you have done it all ..and both of you know all that has happened to each other...but for now ..i strongly recommend you sit down and think..about the what ifs... i personally would never want to risk losing the one person i can talk to about anything...and we never pass judgment on each other...and we never believe hearsay..cuz we know better...etc.\n\nthis is all based on personal experience...i have 2 female friends in my life...the rest are men...\n\nask yourself this...are you going or just recently went thru something in your life where your best friend was there in everyway for you?  if so....could you just be thinking ..wow...how come i have never noticed how wonderful you really are?  \n\nhoping this gives you something to consider before making the leap...and hope that it all works out for you in whatever you choose....good luck