why is my boyfriend such a moany old git?
397384
because the person you have with you now is the real him...sorry but he faked you out... he's a wimp
147936
You may be compatible. But sounds to me he needs some working on. Older men tend to get set in there ways. At the\nbeginning all is going smooth, but things start changing when it gets late in the relationship. It's not you. It's them. At times they have to remind themselves they have a\nlady and they need to tend to her needs. Some have been\nby theirselves for so long til they forgot what it's like to\nbe in a relationship. I had a friend who did the same thing to me. Sit him down and talk to him. Tell him what's on your mind. Tell him how you are feeling about some things. \nthen go grom there.
1159993
maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.
334494
Come on!!!!, Can't your boyfriend invent anything better??? that an old excuse... He obviously has no interest in respecting you, let him go and then get rid of him.
860117
Sounds to me like he needs to check his homeboys. Sounds like homeboys are jealous. If your boyfriend is that insecure when it comes to your whereabouts then he needs to spend less time with the homeboys and more time with you and tell his so called homeboys to stay outta your business.
94497
He seems to be the moma's-boy type (no offence)\nAnd dont worry guys like that grow out of it if you dont get them too comfortable in it you see .Im not quite sure what you mean by needs  pampering and tenerness but im guessing he's the hold me close type and those types are bad the minut they see you improving your life doing different stuff the cling on even more so just get him to be more self reliant\n\noh and voice and eyes now those are things i still try to dicover with my gf cause you see she is very unique but i can read alot of her emotion thru them once in a while. \n\nGuy/Girl do that to you they throw you false personalities so you wont see there true ones so just keep any open eye\n\nGood luck\n\n Sincerly T®ûe Iñš†ïñc†š
316249
He sounds a bit like a whiner outside of the bedroom. Some people just like to be quiet during sex, so maybe that's his thing. Or maybe he's just not that into you.
1166740
Your ex-bf's problem has nothing to do with age. He wants to "have his cake and eat it too". (I hate that cliche). I agree with phattphatt. This guy is unstable and needs to be kicked to the curb. If he keeps this crap up she will do the same and he will have lost you both. I'm not so sure what the age problem is, she is only a year younger. Your first statement made it sound like he a was dating a child and he was in his thirtys. Give him the boot and find yourself a real man.
1146391
I believe this "boyfriend" is a looser and you should dump him.  He sounds quite selfish and immature.
1002091
Your best bet would be to talk to him and ask him if he is still happy in this relationship. If you are supicious of his behaviors there is some serious problems between the two of you. I understand how difficult it is to not have trust in your partner. However, as difficult as it is, life is too short to spend it unhappy, with somebody who you do not trust nor have respect for. It is difficult to leave somebody who you are use to, but after the difficult part is over, (leaving and healing) you will be much more likely to find a partner who you deserve, somebody who will treat you with the love and honor you deserve. Good luck.
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Your boyfriend is picky.\nHe's upset when you bother him with your problems.\nHe doesn't acknowledge your improvements\nHe makes excuses to leave.\nHe gets annoyed if you question him.\nHe does nothing to reassure you\nHe says you ask for too much.\n\nGo. This sounds like it's over to me.
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Looking at this and all the other questions you have about your boyfriend leads me to believe that he is not the one with the problem.\n\nYou say you are living with your boyfriend, which leads me to believe that you are at least eighteen years old, but your lack of self-esteem and your dependence makes you seem quite a bit younger than that.\n\nYou may be pushing him away with your insecurities.  Men like independent, self-assured women who are confident in their own looks and personality.  Women who constantly compare themselves to other girls around them, who worry about their boyfriends' every glance at someone else - these women make men want to run and hide.\n\nYou can't change the past.  Worrying about it and snooping around won't come to anything good.  Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about *your* problem (insecurity) and tell him that you want to fix it but that you will need his help, patience and understanding.  Then do some sincere work on just letting go of the past, and building up some confidence in yourself.\n\nIt's not easy but you'll be way better off in the long run.
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He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
230188
Either he's commitment-phobic or else he expects you to remember what he said about loving you a zillion lightyears ago. Either way, he needs to take responsibility and let you know where you both stand. It looks to me like he's taking the easy way out by having you around but not giving your relationship a name. I've been in something like this. It's not worth it. Unless he's younger than 17, tell him games are for little boys, not men wanting babies and their mama.\nGood luck!
452508
If you already see a flaw in his humor, you might be in trouble with a relationship.  It sounds like you are trying to change him even before you're in a relationship.  Guys have their own senses of humor.  Find a gent with one more closely to you.  You can't teach an old dog new tricks
799745
maybe your hubby's just have an immature behavior.. i guess he's a also a loner who has his own world.. many men are like that by the way.
367067
Whew! I pity your boyfriend if you are so needy and clingy that you can't deal with a single long weekend. You sound very high maintenance.