What is the deal with guys and boobs?
395695
i personaly love pretty legs and cute face
1150792
It's called Mother Nature. We are interested so much in butts and breasts because it is part of the female anatomy. \nHow else would we be interested in reproducing if not for attraction to specific parts of the body.\n\nOne more thing, \n"I like big butts and I cannot lie"...
1018889
Well, "lads" look at bums/legs/boobs becausethey find it sexualiy appealing. I myself prefer the boobs
993112
because boobs are sexy and they go crazy when they see boobs!!
899960
Don't get discouraged. Guys are pretty visually based beings. Hell it is hard for Humans not to be. I mean if your in a club and a guy comes up to you and has on some nerdy outfit and is dog butt ugly are you going to take the time to get to know his personality? I doubt it. Now you take a guy seeing a hotty Asian girl WITH big boobs? That is what we see that makes us want to talk to you. But relax eventually one of the those guys will take the time to look up and realize you have a head. I guessing that you are kinda young and the guys at that age (ok all ages) are full of hormones. I am not saying that is ok the view women as objects, but I did marry a big boobed Japanese girl and eventually I realized she had more than a chest.
1061935
There are many males who find small breasts more attractive than big ones..do not change..
239458
Men are cut from the same mold as females.  Men HAVE nipples in order for women, who need them, get them.\n\nYeah, yeah, but that is all I got!
731500
Because they want a guy to notice NOT OGLE!!!  If she is trying to talk to you and you miss answering cause you are concentrating on her boobs, then you are ogling.  If you cant tear your eyes away from the cleavage to keep appropriate eye contact when being introduced, or when introducing yourself, then you are ogling.  It is RUDE!!!  Subtle glances are ok, and if you sitting across a crowded room, she will barely be able to tell whether you are staring at her or just her boobs.  Personally, if I don't want a guy to notice my boobs then I wear a more demure shirt...I HATE it when a girl gets all outraged over a guy noticing her body when she dresses to show it off (yopu know what I mean), cause why in the H*** would she have worn that outfit otherwise?
875301
It's not that big of a deal, hun. Boobs are boobs, and that's all there is to it. Of course you're gonna have guys who love bigger boobs, and there are those who love smaller boobs, but would you date a guy who wants you not because of your personality but because of your boobs? I know it's cliche, but accept it. \n\nCheck out nenarmz's answer: her friend's got inverted nipples and her significant other thinks she's the hottest thing around! That's gotta say something. As far as the breakouts are concerned, you can always fix that. Do you change your bra daily? You'd be surprised how many girls don't! That could be a culprit. Purchase a loofah in order to cleanse that area well and buy an acne body scrub to go along with it. \n\nIt's all a matter of effort and if you've gotten to know the guy like you should have (meaning all shallowness aside), then he won't have a problem with your physical appearance.\n\nBesides, it's a little elementary if guy freaks out because of that, don'tcha think? There are TONS of women with inverted nipples, which just goes to show it's nothing to be worried about.
170906
Boys are testosterone-driven.  They are attracted to anything sexual or taboo.  Girls' butts are of a sexual nature, because they are first near where sex happens, and second, because the butt is considered a "private" area, where people are not allowed to touch.  Bottom line--guys are driven to like sex, and butts are sexy to them.  They say a guy thinks about sex every 7 seconds.  If so, then it is understandable why they look at the butt.  Also, the butt is safer than the breasts, because the person is facing the other way and can't see that you are looking.
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They are called "Hermaphrodytes", and they are BORN with both sex organs. They tend to have surgery to pick one or the other. They don't do surgery to give someone both sexes. \n\nLOL The "she/males" you speak of are men who want to be female, and have had breast implants, but have not yet had the "pole into a hole" surgery. So, they are a person with a penis and boobs.\n\nAre you cleared up on it now? :)
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To be honest...I MET a guy with a really big butt. He was hot. He was handsome and YES it was a complete turn off. I don't know what it was or how it got so disproportionately big-he was a hunk in every other sense.\nWomen for many years were checked out for the following reasons: Hips, lips, butt, breasts, legs, waist.\nFor men it is usually: Arms/pecs, calves, chest,neck and features that convey emotions are big sex appeals (lips, teeth, eyes, cheeks, dimples etc etc). \nHowever, There seems to be much much more options these days and people are not afraid of voicing their opinions in what they are looking for. Guys and Girls like it all-big butts,freckles, small butts,glasses, long nails, short nails, brunettes, blondes...Anything, basically goes.\nIf a guy is asking this question (seriously asking this question) it should be answered as you would answer a female friend. It is possible that someone, at some point made a comment about his butt and he is feeling self conscious (Remember, Guys in general do not open up about their emotions as freely as women do and because we don't often hear these statements does not mean that all guys are the same).When in doubt-be polite.
212261
Guys like anything that will please them sexually. Big boobs are one of them. But those are the guys who will not respect you.
1044260
Guys are funny about breast size.  Some guys drool for large breasts while others are like me, and like a good butt. (not that big breasts are bad, they are certainly good too).\n\nInsecurity is a tough thing.  Some people use this to put the other person under their thumb in a relationship.   If you care about your b/f and you are certain he cares about you, all you can do is trust him.  If you truly don't like his attitude and you think he's overstaring at other girls and maybe using the boob job as leverage, maybe you need to set him straight.\n\nDo you look at other guys?  We all look, it's whether or not we touch/talk etc. that damages a relationship.   If you've always wanted a boob job, why do you keep asking him about it, or telling him about it?\n\nGet comfortable with yourself.  Get confident.  Love yourself as you are.    Think of the boobs as an "extra".  They will never really be "you" anyway.     Good luck!
43063
If the augmentation was done to correct a defect or to enable you to lead a normal life, then I think it's a good thing. Personally, I'm not a boob-guy but I find fake tits, well, fake! Its not really a turn on for me. You should definately NOT get yr boobs done just cuz some guy (or yr guy) asks you to get them done. Cuz if he actually did that, well then you know that love isn't on his mind... just your boobs. You should use your own judgement. Hope you sort things out!
147677
I think to some degree you answered this question.  You need to find a guy who can look you in the eye when you talk to him.  There is nothing wrong with the guy liking your boobs but he needs to like you and who you are beyond those.  Unfortunately other than looking you in the eye, the only real test is time and you being able to judge where his real interest lies.
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Trust me u don't want big ones. Mine are huge and nothing but trouble. They're heavy which causes strain on my back and when guys talk to me they look at my boobs rather than my face. \n\nLet them grow as they will and leave them at that, cuz once you have 42DD like me you'll wish u were nominated president of the itty bitty titty club!!!  lol