This guy Im crazy about I want him to see me as more then a playbunny. I want more how do I get it ?
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".
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dont be naive! he wanted to tease you or play with you. a guy will show interest if he is persistent, not when he feels like it. trust me. i did couple.i just telling the guy side of story. worst case scenario, you lose him. so what! theres a lot of guys out there that are sincere. think about it.
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Be yourself..yeah, I know that's not the answer you wanted but it's the best I can give. You can act fake, dress yourself up in sexy ass clothes and make up but in the long run, when he sees the real you, do you think he'll stick around? Nah..you need a guy that will notice you no matter what you're wearing or how you're acting at the time.
962909
Just forget it. If you want be object of fun you can try to talk to him. Get real, get life.
520369
If he's still meeting up with you, he already does like you!\n\nYour real problem is that he probably won't take you seriously.  Tell him how you feel, but be prepared for him to not be ready to put his heart on the line right away.  You'll have to show him over time exactly how serious you are & see if he comes around.\n\nUnfortunately, having been 'trained' for so long to not expect more, he may have decided that the alternative was more fun for him, anyway...\n\nGood luck.
483015
dnt think bout him 2 much u'll drive yoself crazy.let him come 2 u cuz if u drool ova him u'll jus b playin his game dat he's tryin 2 pull. he will also make u feel like u need him so dnt get cought up.he's really jus tryin 2 make u chase him. dnt chase b the prey let him come 4 u. hope i helped.
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a guy thats prepared to put himself forward like that is rare, just check the  "do they fancy me" questions on this site and you'll see.\n\nnext time you see him.. give him a big smile grab him and plant one on him.  \n\nenjoy!
268672
Sweetheart, you want to be confident, but vulnerable.  compliment him and laugh at his jokes.  make eye contact for 3 consecutive seconds.  most importantly be yourself!!!
337251
Well, let me tell U all U need to do: U need to accept he's not taking U for serious, I guess he only wants U to make a few moves and that's it.\nThe guy who really takes care about U and really appreciates U is gonna call always, and it's gonna be available for U and he'll try to make U happy and to know that U're more than an object and U deserve the best things.\nSee, I don't want to judge U, but have U thought that maybe U have done some things to make him think he can play with U??
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you are sprung.  you wrote, " but i know he's not right for me. he lies alot. but i cant help it."  so he's hot?  so he's 'the ladies man? sure.  what the f ever.  i've seen this 1000 times.  i've been there 100 times.  and you have to get the f over this man.  he's a bad boy for life and you'll be another trophey on his shelf.  just another story to tell at the bar before he picks up his next one.  if you are smart enough to connect to the internet, you are smart enough to get over this man.   if you do him/it once, you'll no longer be his object to be desired.  you'll be his object conquered..  stay a mystery.  it's so much more fun to smile at him and make him wonder, than to blush and make him proud.
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Show a bit of interest, but don't over-do it. Men want what they can't have. Let him chase you a little. He'll like it. Plus he'll appreciate your affection more if it doesn't come easy.
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I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
596487
Let him know you want more of him, set time aside for one another you have to build a relationship.
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He is crazy about you.  He thinks you are the hottest chick he has ever seen and if you catch him checking you out he will go dive off the roof.  serious\n\nBe bold.  Stop him or something.  Dis him, "accidentally" touch him.  Ask him to change your lightbulb.  Maybe he just needs a little encouragement from you.
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Remind him of all the times you indulged his little fantasies. Let him know that it's only because you get a kick from it and that it's your little secret. It's not like you're asking him to parade around town in them are you?
33274
Yeah, what they said. Just give some more time to for-play to get more arroused. Your body will do the work for you.
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i think you should start looking into ur confidence and build it up.  \nTell him the way that suits ur personality.\nIf you want to tell him jovially, try that option.  There are various means of communicating.  It need not be oral...\nKeep the faith on yourself and you shall get what u want.