My bf wants to be a cheerleader, Is he gay?
414118
I have a boyfriend who likes to wear skirts and makeup.  It's called being a transvestite and it doesn't make a guy gay.  Some guys just like to wear women's clothes.  If I were you I would let him wear my things, but that's a matter of your comfort level.  Maybe you could go shopping together and buy some girl clothes for him to wear if you don't want him to wear yours.
313401
I'd say he feels the same way. If what your telling us is true sounds to me like he's into you. Why not throw it all out in the open? Tell him you want to jump his bones when he gets home... I'm sure he'll be happy!!!
1054087
well, if he wants walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, guess what he is???   A  duck!!  The only reason he wouldn't be bi, is if he's plain gay.....hiding behind you. Good luck!
999233
Yes, I can see you might be gay. Assuming it outright, might not be prudent here. I can appreciate as well how you feel about the guys with muscles popping, straining etc for top position. After all, fake or not, the idea of beating another down through, strength, skill and endurance can be seen as "HOT, HOT, HOT".!!
859093
he sounds like he is either bi curious, or bi. i would be careful, if he is bi curious that could mean he just wants to try things out with a guy, but he still wants to stay with his girlfriend. make it clear that he has to chose u if he wants any of u, or u'll end up used and hurt, or someone who makes ur bf cheat on u
821785
no, he is not. he is using his fancy footwork on the dancefloor instead of the field. and tell your guys that once they play for 15 yrs. in the nfl and run for 18,000+ yds, most rushing tds ever, mvps, and they turn down the offer because its gay, then i guess dancing is gay, untill then, no.
264591
Are you gay and looking to find out if he is too, or is he your boyfriend and your not sure. I need more details to work with... But my advice is not to worry about it. Just be supportive, and if he is gay he will tell you when the time is right.
434794
Yep, that's what it is. It's also a way to "degrade" the one you're doing it with, like doing them like a sl*t. Ask him whats the matter with your other part that he needs this, and if maybe he's a little gay, maybe you could wear a football uniform while he does it.\n\nI'm just not into that.
325475
r u a dude? is your friend a dude? just see if he does gay things like iggle or compliment a girls outfit and if he gets this offer from a very hot grl and doesnt accept it then man he must be gay. Most of the time ppl just find out on thier own.
926753
It sounds like he's interested in you and probably having the same problem you are having, not sure and afraid.  I think you should just come out an ask him.  If that's not possible for you, well, you could run your hands on his body and see how he reacts.  You could talk about openly gay things and people and see if he is responsive....by the way if you are both dancing in the same place and he's running his hands up/down your back, that seems like he's not shy and that you should have no problem simply asking....
1172624
I think that is a great thing for you to do, also you can plan it with coed or not, depending on his friends.  I think that is very thoughtful of you.  I bet he would love you just for thinking of the idea.
645902
maybe when he acts weird on men or to you... he prefers girlish acts, like talking loud and lots of hand gestures while talking to other people, and sometimes you would caught him glued to looking at some man... \n\nbut still, some don't know that the way they act is gayish, or that's really them... no one can be sure if he's gay or it's just the way he is...\n\nif he knows he's gay.. ask him... be kind in asking... and if he says yes, don't get to mad... try to understand.. after all, he is still a human...
1071049
Some gay guys can have sex with women and still be gay. There's no 'turning' either way. You are or you aren't or you're Bisexual. He may be confused, he may be bi, or he may be having a spell where he think's he's going to hell or something. I'm the gay guy magnet, I know, I'm the ultimate f@g-hag and I've seen just about every case. lol Maybe you should ask him if he could ever see himself spending the rest of his life with a woman. If he says yes, he's bi. If he says no then he's probably just a horny jerk. Guys are jerks sometimes, gay, straight, bi, or sluts. lol
434398
I can't believe that everybody is lying to you. Of course he's gay, he admitted it in an interview with Hustler. I also seen him once on an episode of Will and Grace, and what he was doing was pretty gay. He was sure loving him some boy bunny.
891153
Uhh...nope...but it depends if your into girly guys..evidently you are because your dating him. stop worrying about what other people think and just have fun. your not marrying him so don't fret.
870444
I would say with some certainty that your spouse is Gay.  He's probably not even bi if you're only having sex a couple of times a year.  He probably thought that finding a woman he loved well enough, and getting married would cure him.\n\nWhy anyone still thinks that is a mystery to me.\n\nIn any case, don't panic.  If you still love him, you have to reroute that love to platonic.  You can still function as a family, but you both have to be real with each other and with yourselves.\n\nMany couples get divorced in such a situation, but many also stay legally married, and/or at least roomates so that the kids' lives don't get overly disrupted.\n\nBecause he'll only be recently out of the closet though, there will be some things you'll need to be prepared for.\n\nGay guys who come out late have kind of missed their adolescence.  So you want to make it clear that you will not accept any kind of teenage level behavior from him.  He doesn't have to be a total fairy just because he likes men, so he should resist pressure to be more swishy than he truly wants to be.  Even if he turns out to be psychologically androgynous, to take on sterotyped pseudo-feminine behavior is not respectful to his true feminine side.\n\nIf it turns out that he is actually bi, then you have to let him know that while you accept his orientation, you still signed on for a monogamous relationship.  Cheating is still cheating, regardless of the gender.  If he wants to see other people, he needs to go out there and find someone else.\n\n...and even if he is bi, if he's bored with you or doesn't love you anymore, you have to deal with that for what it is.\n\nIf he is totally Gay and you want to stay living together, you both have to set some ground rules about your boyfriends.  Agree not to bring anyone into your lives too far, who isn't serious.  The kids if you have any, shouldn't be seeing all kinds of people coming in and out of the house.\n\nIf you don't have kids, it is worth considering that perhaps the reason he chose you is because you are the woman he wants to be the mother of his kids.  So you are important to him...just not in the way that you planned.\n\nOne things you should do promptly is get an std screening.  He may have been on the downlow for some time.  It is not uncommon for guys who are hiding their being Gay, to go out and have casual or anonymous sex with other men.  No matter what he tells you, get tested.\n\nAlso, get some counseling.  Many women have gone through what you have.  The biggest problem of all this is trust that has been lost.  It's hard to trust someone who has been lying to you and probably to himself and everyone else for years and years.  It will take some time to rebuild trust, and well...It may be impossible.\n\nI don't know your husband, so I can't say what exactly will happen.  Whatever happens though, don't take this too hard.  It has been happenning for a long time, and truly alot of guys have trouble knowing themselves until it's too late.  This definitely isn't your fault, and it might not be his either.\n\nWhen guys are young, they can get turned on by all kinds of things.  A guy who is 100% Gay can meet a woman, be attracted to, and have sex with her for some time.  Because he loves her, he thinks he's been cured.\n\nThen as he gets a little older, and his testosterone isn't so high, his desires start narrowing down to the bare minimum of things that turn him on.  Some guys, this happens to at 30ish, but some not until their 40's.  That's why so many people in kink groups are old.  They've been forced by their bodies and their situations to face facts about what they really want sexually.\n\nGuys in their 40's to 50's often no longer get as turned on by visual or voice stimulation.  They need touching for awhile, and there is also usually some emotional component that they have to have as well.  Younger guys
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That seems normal. Be happy you have a good friend who can be so honest with you, he knows he's not going to ever have a chance with your bf - who is obviously straight. That is why he told you - he is good friends with you and is comfortable telling you anything.