How do you get a guy to talk to you?
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Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.
514624
call him or get a friend that knows him well to call him and make sure he actually wants to talk to you.
832403
well from my point of view..i would like it if a girl would come up and say hi and then just start a convo.  try to find out what they guy you are interested in likes and se if you like the same things, if so then just start a convo about it. say you like nascar and he does too..show your interest in it..i know a few women who love nascar and we talk about it all the time.
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Yeah, the best thing, and the least performed action, is just talking to the dude.  How do you know him, however you do, just spark a conversation.  Dredge up some of that fake-ass confidence that every girl has, and use it!  Guys to like conversing and they LOVE IT when girls approach them at all.  By the way, every relationship starts off in a kind of friendship level, so be friendly and flirty
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The guy may be wanting to get to know you, however he may also be shy, only way to find out is to take the first step, get a good friend to talk to him for you/introduce you and after a while you may get a conversation going without realising it.\n\nThings often work out better than one imagines - believe in yourself.\n\nHacker
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if you see a guy you like, strike up a conversation. i've been able to at least get one date using this method. if you are as you describe, then you got two advantages over me, 1. you're attractive and 2. as a woman it's so unusual that you are sure to have a good conversation that could lead to something more.\n\ngood luck.
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
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As a girl if you want to get attention from a guy, there are many efficient and fundamental ways to do so. Let's assume that you do not know very well the guy but would like to know him better or to date him. The most common ways to get his attention: \n\nSmiling politely at him; make sure that he sees it.\nSay "HI" to him whenever you see him in the hallway; a little hand wave is great as well.\nTry to share common interests. If he loves sports, perhaps join him in the same activity.\nTalk to one of his friend to learn more about him or to send the message.\nSend him a card on Valentine's Day. \n\n\nCommunication is very important. You might want to take the first step to talk to him; this can be as simple as "Hey, what's up." in the hallway. Don't forget to include a nice smile.
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Ever heard of small talk...A guy who likes you will get in to small talk with you...some guys beat about the bush..Some guys ask you straight if you would consider having a cup of coffee or something...But yea, guys try to grab your attention!
701512
let him know ur interested.u better talk 1st b 4 some1 else gets ur man.holla.
685673
Simply by going up to him, and saying, you like him and would love to get to know him better.\nA little flirting, wouldn't hurt either. Sometimes it's the unspoken body language that speaks volumes. \nStand close to him, touch his arms, smile up at him. He'll get the message quick enough.
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Most women are too busy playing "hard-to-get", it's human nature.\n\nHere's three ideas to think about:\n\n1)  How about you get his attention by smiling when you catch him looking.\n\n2)  The best way to show confidence is to approach him.  (I think all ladies should use this advice).  The probably wouldn't be much use for dating sites if women approached men.\n\n3)  Or if your passive aggressive use your network of friends or co-workers and start a rumor that you like a particular guy.  Trust me he'll find out and seek your attention if he is attracted to you.
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Try flirting. Smile at him, laugh at his jokes (guys LOVE that) try to engage him in conversation (ask him about himself, guys also love to talk about themselves) It's a great way to let someone know you're interested without having to say so, which could scare some people off.
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...start with some eye contact and once u get his attention proceed 2 the next level...\nAsk him how he is and then find something 2 talk about...
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Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
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making friends with guys can be simple..\n\njust be urself..hang out wit some guy friends u can go along with..speak up more, especially when ur wit ur guy friends..have genuine interest in what they talk about..listen to them talk, even if u dun understand a s**t..\n\ntalk about what they like - soccer, football, cars, bikes..u dun need to understand what thing they are saying, but just have genuine interest in what u ask or listen..\n\nask them questions about themselves - guys like talking about themselves..ask them questions about what they are talking about - it shows u got interest in wad they are saying.. u can always say u dun understand even after they explain and they'll just understand that..but if u do understand, that mIgHt impress them and they wun mind u hanging out wit them..\n\ndo whatever is being urself, even if ur cracking lame (not too lame!) jokes but not infront of guys u barely know..
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Get his attention by talking to him or if your good at it flirt with him or play around with him.