Why does my girlfriend get so emotional?
402528
Girls tend to be emotional and sensitive. Just go with the flow, that is, if you love her.
1185496
If she's stressed and on emotional overload, she will cry more easily...most women are that way. If you want to be supportive, you need to let her cry, it's her way of letting out all the stress that she's feeling in the moment. Just be there for her, hold her while she cries, reassure her that you're there for her so that she doesn't feel so alone.
487204
think this is a psychological issue with her wanting both attention, and feeling self loathing for her condition of having to rely on another person...\nperhaps, she knows u are nice, and may want to drive you away to make her self loathing complete...i have a suggestion; try to do something really nice, then talk to her about i dunno, nice things, things that make her feel godd, until you break and strip her entire facade of being evil, until she cries her eyes out. tell her u will be there for her, etc. then once u 'break' her, or strip her facades, maybe you can see the tru pic, or she'll end up loving u till kingdom come...\nsomething like that...
842227
Two words for you. Be YOURSELF. I totally understand how you feel when you say you're frantic because you're trying to keep someone interested, and I had the same problem. But, I've learned that when you feel something, or you want to say something, just do it...Once you break that barrier, it's smooth sailing. People are comfortable when they can just be themselves and when they can see that the other person is also being themself. Getting to know someone is more fulfilling when you "Just do it". A good way to strike up an interesting conversation is by asking her about herself. When you ask questions and she answers them, you can spot out things you both have in common. This is when the conversation gets more interesting and easy going. People need feedback from the 2nd party in order to keep productive conversation. Smothering your significant other would only make her want to go outside for fresh air. In other words, she'd eventually get tired of being smothered and if she doesn't tell you so, she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She'll become distant and eventually, everything heads downhill. Tell her how you feel, and try not to overwhelm her physically with the smothering. She'll appreciate the fact that you can openly discuss your feelings with her because most guys are kinda personal about their emotions. Be open-minded.
410765
she is confusing the best thing i can say is she sounds like shes scared of commitment she seems like she doesnt want to get to close to u incase u hurt her mayb shes been hurt in the past. she likes u alot trust me but she doesnt want u to think she is to overkeen on u but then again she doesnt want u to leave her or to dislike her thats why she shows u a bit of affection. and thats why she has got a split personality. shes is embarrased when u tell her u love her i dont think she means to hurt u. i bet if u asked her why is she like that she would say i dont know i dont mean to. some girls are just like that mayb if u treat her the way she treats u then mayb she will change or walk away but somethings gotta b done about it cause it doesnt seem right hope i helped good look
532318
Talk to her and let her know how you feel.  It sounds like she's starting to weigh you down.  It's obvious you care about her but, this might not be the right person for you.  You have to ask yourself if you are getting anything positive out of this relationship and if they are the things you want in life.  If you're not, then it's time to move on.
807627
because she cares about you... u guy should really felt pround and appreciate that... only the girls that LOVEs you alot will have that kind of reaction.
607122
lol - its true, you could be getting on her nerves :)\nit could mean a few things, eg.\nit means that she needs time by herself to work out how she thinks/feels about things in her life including you. It also means that she doesnt feel like she can say something to you that you wont like and she is building up the courage and finding her way to say it best. It also means that you and her are becoming too big in her life and that she cant balance her relationship with you with everything else she has to do in her life and that may be her fault or yours.\ncould be a whole load of reasons.\n\nall you really need to know is it is time to show some respect and independance and give her her space, if you care and love her then back off and find something to keep you occupied while she is finding her space.\nIf she is messing you around then maybe move on, I have asked for a bit of space before - it didnt mean i was breaking up with my gf or messing her around, I really needed it and she respected that and not having her calling me every five minutes concerned about if i love her and such was very cool of her, give her her space :)
1100876
If she is going to behave like that then ...don't have her as a girlfriend.  It is up to you to be proud of your feelings and not feel humiliated.  If she humiliates you then you allow that feeling.   Telling someone how you feel should make your relationship stronger.  Make sure that she knows that she is your girlfriend though...then just tell her...
269692
This might have something to do with her depression. As her moods change, how she sees the world and feels about it change. Love does also evolve and change the longer your with someone. I have also found that when I'm mad at someone it can sometimes overshadow my love for them.
744386
Yes it's very normal and you shouldn't leave it at that. Talk to your girlfriend about this, tell her how you feel. She has to be more giving in this respect.
1013
Something seems to be missing in your story--or your girlfriend is schizoid.  But seriously, it isn't really normal to fight every week, so possibly she is still angry about whatever it is you guys have been fighting about.  I would think about the tone you may have had when you asked her to clean, I imagine you were upset because she wasn't helping, and that may have set her off.  If you want to save your relationship talk to her like an adult to an adult and try to figure out how to resolve your problems in a positive way.  Try to avoid accusatory and patronizing statements.  You two are probably just having trouble adjusting to living together.  Good Luck
132635
You probably care for your girlfriend very much and it hurts you when you argue with her. You should really try and prevent this aruging so your realtionship doesn't shatter and either one of you get hurt.
632260
YOu need to break up with your girldfriend dby explaining it to her there may be some screaming and slapping and she will be hella pissed but if she truly wants you and her to be happy then she will understand after a while
393464
Ask her how she feels about you.  Ask her what she wants out of your relationship.  If you are constantly giving her things, are you sure that she is not using you for what she can get?  Don't give her anything else until she tells you how she feels.  Good luck!
90856
Maybe she is shy. Ask her to write her feelings down for you. Some people do better with expressing how they feel on paper than face to face. Try it and see if it works. If not, then she is just playing games with your heart and emotions, and you don't need anyone putting you on an emotional roller coaster...been there..not fun!
1064054
Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC