do you think its rite for men to judge a woman cause of their diability speaking from experience?
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i dont think its right for anyone to judge anyone on their disability. but it happens, and its hard not to do.
897989
I'd think badly of anyone who couldn't come up with a more coherent and descriptive way of expressing their thoughts.  It's one thing to curse when something bad's happened.  I do it all the time when I injure myself.  But if someone has to resort to crudity to express opinion, belief or feeling, then I generally think the person is uncouth, doesn't think before speaking and probably doesn't have a very good vocabulary to draw from.  It's not about gender, it's about how you communicate yourself to other people.
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I know what you mean. When you mention a problem to a woman, they sympathize, but dont neccessarily jump into action. If you tell a man, they always have this need to act and make it better. They take it as a quest or challenge they need to accomplish. Its partly that through time, its been the mans job to act. To hunt, work, fight, find, get and protect their woman and children. Women on the otherhand have often been passive creatures. It is also partly the fact that many men are uncomfortable with or unaccustomed to dealing with emotional matters, to just talking about a problem in order to make it better and just being a shoulder to cry on rather than an arm to hold a sword. They have to act because to just listen or understand would be seen as unmanly. Its culture, its history, its instinct and sometimes its neccesity. As much as I loath giving each gender their own place, often a man needs to push a woman to act and a woman has to remind a man to slow down and think. Ying and yang. And thats all ok, as long as we can also accept those who dont fit this mold.
36515
Yes, agreed. I wouldn't read too much into it. I've had strangers who are women say this to me and I always warm right up when they say it. I've heard somewhere that suggests superiority but I just don't see it. The women who usually say this to me are usually older and kind.\n\nI also say this to my husband sometimes as many couples do to each other.
433368
Yes I agree with you.  Women should be treated as equals.  It's an old stigma thing that men maintained over women throughout history.  I personally do think some women, in fact many women, are better qualified and smarter in various areas than men.  I am pootie whipped and always give in to my girlfriend though so I may not be the best person to be answering this.\n\nMaybe your guy is just stubborn and maybe he's on the rag.
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Maybe instinct, some people can look at someone and know what they are like (or think they know), with me my instinct has always been right, but I don't just have a feeling someone is horrible and accept it, I like to find out why I instantly dislike someone, but some women may just go by their instinct and not try to get to know the person just in case they are wrong.
98738
Of course.  However, we, as women know why we are lonely and take steps to correct our loneliness.\n\nJudy
971629
men have always judge women by how they look instead of how they are as a person. No one should be judge by their looks, you can be the ugliest person in the world and be the nicest person going or be the most beautifulest person and be the biggest a**hole.
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I think that's true of SOME women, not all.\n\nI also thing it's true of SOME men.
459753
Men don’t get subtleties. If a woman has a problem she should tell the man. If she doesn’t say anything then he will assume nothing is wrong and therefore not realize he has something to apologize for. If he even does.
829066
I doubt it. I also doubt that it is possible for women to understand men. Our brains work way too differently. Although we all can be understandING...
402916
not if she is a woman worth knowing. I don't judge by money or cars. It is how he treats me, and others; how he makes me feel.
71946
That my friend is the question that men have been trying to answer since the beginning of time. There is no one answer. In my experence, I have learned to be considerate, thoughtful, funny, and to show respect. I would imagine it is the same traits that you would and should expect from her. Oh ! and a little advice to help you through life. "The Woman ALWAYS Picks".
490527
If you have a personality to go with it and know how to treat a woman, yes.
844726
Unfortunately, many decisions are made by one's first impression and often they are based on looks.  If a woman will not talk to a guy because she thinks he's "too good", it's because she lacks confidence in herself.  She is self conscious about her own looks and therefore chooses not to take a chance of being shunned by him.  Rejection is the worst possible hurt...especially for those of us who lack confidence in ourselves and take it to heart.  Believe me, if this same guy approached the woman instead, this lady would be on cloud 9!  But she won't take the initiative to put herself out there because the risk is too great and the consequences could be devastating.\n\nIt's a double standard, isn't it?  Guys are supposed to accept rejection without question and not be hurt by it.  Grown men don't cry and all they want to do by talking to us is to get into our pants.  God forbid they might actually want to have a conversation and get to know us...maybe forge even a friendship.  It just doesn't happen that way.  Besides, we're better than that!  We won't give them the chance.  Women can be quite cruel.
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I am so happy to hear that you haven't had the bad experiences that a lot of these women have had. But, just because you haven't been made to feel badly about yourself does not mean it didn't really happen to them.\nI think it really all comes down to self-esteem and confidence. If you think highly of yourself & love you just for being you, you probably won't even HEAR if someone says something nasty. But if you think negatively and get down on yourself all them time, you are more susceptible to hearing exactly what you tell yourself all the time. It seems mainly to be a matter of perspective. \nGood for you for believing in yourself, girl!
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Poeple always blame other people when they are at fault themselves or when they are in denial. \n\nDepending on their past and there own experiences-they might not have had a good expeirnece with either a man or woman (or both!) and so stereotype other men/women to be the same which is a shame.\n\nPeople are always wary of what they donot know so this is normal. If a man knew what it was like to a woman, and likewise then im sure we'd have far less conflicts! but obviousley this isnt going to happen :) We just need more communication, more honesty and more trust.\n\nxx