i was a vergin now i have raped by a boy what to do???
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The first thing you need to do is call the police. They will need to interview you and to take some evidence and they will make sure you get medical care.  Don't have a shower, or if you have, make sure you keep the clothes you were in.  The police should help you to get in contact with some victim support.  Is there someone close to you who you can tell, like a parent or a good friend?  If you are scared, it can help to have someone like them close by.\n\nNumber one thing to remember - this isn't your fault.  You are going to get through this and a lot of people will be praying for you and wishing you well.
50359
Get help.  If you are in an unsafe situation contact the police immediately.  \n\nPlease understand that you are not the only person that this is happening to.  \n\nYou should speak to someone you can trust.  I would start with your mom and then move on to your grandparents, teachers, pastor.\n\n\nPlease comment and let us know if you are okay.
38246
You should have already done something.  To act like a victim is a choice.  Go to the police about the phone call.  Find out what your options are now.
868236
Glad you aren't related to me! Yikes!  But, really though you do sound like you have some problems you need help with before you do something you will regret.  Call a mental help line or your doctor or if you really think you might hurt somebody just call the police & they will take you to a place where you can get help.  Please call them BEFORE you hurt or kill anybody ok?
627523
i seduce my babe & start raping him
389394
I'm really sorry to hear what happened to you but....\n\nCall the cops, let them give you a rape kit, and  (especially if they are conviced you were raped) PRESS CHARGES.\n\nWho cares if this was a friend, or a friend of a friend! PEOPLE LIKE THIS ARE NOT FRIENDS AND NEED TO BE STOPPED!!!
380523
I'm sorry this happened to you.  If he's been to your home, CALL THE POLICE.  Do not mess around with this.  If you live with your parents, TELL THEM RIGHT AWAY.  If you're on  your own, TELL THE POLICE.  \n\nThank you for the heads up, but please, protect yourself!
617678
Depending on where you live, go to the local police and report the abuser. Tell the office at your school and also depending on your age, child protective services will be called to help you. In any case, tell someone quickly.
90800
Rape is much too serious to tolerate but it is also much too serious to trivialise by making false claims.\n\nI would encourage your friends to go the police. If they are telling the truth they will be happy to bring the boy to justice. Two accusers are better than one, and with their families' support they could begin to put the past behind them.\n\nIf they don't want to go the police (despite having the support of their parents) you should suggest to them that you will initiate the process. I would be suspicious of their claims if they refuse to bring any charges whatsoever.
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Like previous answers said, either post it in the category you abused (!) or in the yahoo section. If you really are sincere in the wording of your apology and write it from the heart, I am sure that it will be accepted!\n\nGood luck and remember, try not to be naughty boy any more!! ;)
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You are absolutely not responsible for your rape.  Child molesters are methodical and manipulative.  Rape is about control and violence.  You could not have made it happen if you wanted to.\n\nI'm so glad snickelfritzcje could help you.  I'm glad you're feeling stronger and that this forum enables you to be brave enough to talk about it.  I hope that you grow in confidence so that you can seek counseling.\n\nI know many of us seem stuck on that idea, but I hope you gain the courage you need to work through this with a real live person with some background and training who can give you the help you deserve.\n\nI thank God for your help and healing thus far, and I beseech Him for your continued success and healing.
218005
tell him you will tell your perents next time and if he comes back call the police
27740
nooooooo! dont. well go if you u want to get raped. u shouldn trust anyone u meet on the internet enough to meet them. report it to the cops. they can deal with it. i mean u might get ur internet taken away but u cant trust this person. keep in mind imagine how easy it is to lye in person. just imagine how simple it is on the net.
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Really need a little more information. If looking is all he is doing, then that alone is not sexual abuse. Drinking at the age of 15 is a problem and can also be taken care of in the manner I am fixing to give you. But first lets go back to sexual abuse. If he is in fact sexually abuseing you, you may do one of two things. First tell your parents if you think they will help. Second, if they decide to help then all of you go to the agency I will give in a moment. If your parents don't help then you alone go to the agency or call, and explain your situation more fully and gave will give you the answer you need. The agency's name  is called DYS, Its real name is Department of youth services, listed in the phone book under state agencys. Should be one located right in the County where you live. Good luck and don't play around with this.
232694
You are a stalker and have deviant behavior.  If you truly don't want to rape someone, and I think it will happen if you get frustrated for too long, go to a psychiatrist..NOW!!!  Spare some women the pain that you will cause them.  You are a very dangerous person right now.
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Its very hard for people especially women when at very young ages, they are molested or secretively followed by men trying to rape them. That's the worst women and girls face these days. And its the same case with most girls exactly what happened with you while you were 10. That's very sad. I'm sorry about that. But, still I'd recommend that what I'm about to advice you will be of great importance to you right now. You need to visit a counselor or a psychologist to assist you in getting sleep and to get you out of sleeping whilst the television is on and that its hard for you to sleep without it. Try talking to your mother repeatedly about your problem and also try consulting a good psychologist or psychytrist to give you guidance. You will have to cooperate with them at the same time and also to get good help at this age. I understand your problem seriously but you at the same time need consultation for your sleep at this age as you have to fight back bravely and that you have the capability inside you to aid you in getting out of this situation. Goodluck in life and also just prey to God to help you in life.
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I'm sorry for what happened to you.  You should see a counselor.  I believe that everything happens for a reason.  Its a bad thing that happened to you.  But now you can find ways to have it not happen to you again and other people.  Please with the information and awareness you can provide you can save another from this sort of incident from happening.  Take some self defense classes and make this world better for you and me.  Report this crime to the authorities so that this does not happen again to an unsuspecting person like yourself....