I had sex with my other woman.  AFter an hour, I went home and had sex with my wife.I enjoyed it. Am I sinful?
405543
Technically and morally, you are a sinner and a criminal. Adultery is illegal all the way around.
407750
Is it a sin to be attracted to the same sex?  No.\nIs it a sin to act upon that attraction?  Yes.\n\nIs it a sin to be attracted to a woman that is not your wife?  No.\nIs it a sin to act upon that attraction?  Yes.
1060576
Sin yes, something wrong no. Your showing concern which shows that it means something to you, so I would not feel to guilty. As far as your future wife, it should probably be something that she knows, and if you tell her and express your concern, more likely than not she will be forgiving. Don't beat yourself up over it man, 4 girls, no less ones you actually knew is not to bad these days. And I know this has nothing to do with the question, but its nice to see that some people still have a conscience these days. Best of luck figuring it all out!
21348
If your husband kissed another woman what would you think.  You have already cheated yourself since you got to that point.  Now is the time to feel guilty.
492086
Keep watching more until it starts to feel natural.  No it is not sinful.
627315
Know the definition of lust according to the Bible .... if you know that in your heart you would have sex with the woman you are looking at, if she walked up and asked you for sex, would you do it?  Then you've already committed lust in your heart.\n\nJesus said that if you've committed it in your heart then you've already sinned.  So if you look at a woman and see enough material to go have a good time alone by yourself, but would never cheat on your wife, then you are okay.  If you look at a woman and yes, you'd have intercourse with her, then sorry guy, but you've ALREADY done wrong.\n\nMost folks don't understand that to admire someone's looks is okay, and to feel sexually aroused at someone's looks is okay as well .... what is NOT okay is to know in your heart that if the moment of cheating came, you'd do it.
986847
Ask yourself how you would feel if your wife was admiring the bulge in another mans pants while out with you.  It is not wrong to LOOK at another woman or admire another body part BUT damnit you dont do this while with your mate.  Its respectful.
1119728
It is a moral question.  How much is your soul worth?  If you didn't know it is a sin to "hook up" with a married woman, it's called adultery.  And to do wrong and know it is wrong is a sin.  Bless you and I hope you make the right decision.
793489
You are a moral corruptor and your wife doesn't deserve you. Stop talking to this friend of yours and focus on sex with your wife. How would you like it if you found that your wife was talking to her friend whom she really wants to have sex with?!
261287
We were created by God, and sex was created by God Who gave us rules to help us use it wisely. He said that sex is only correctly practiced between a husband and a wife. We have rules that govern the way we drive our cars. When they are not followed for whatever reason, they have serious consequences.\n\nSex is beautiful – not evil at all – the only harm comes in how you practice it. Let’s say you have sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend before you are married. When you marry, you want to believe that your husband or wife will not have sex with anyone else, but you’ll always know that they had sex with you when you weren’t married. So the relationship is tarnished in that sense.\n\nYou don’t sound like you believe the Bible, but I do and I’ll share with you what it says very briefly. It says that sexual sin has a different effect than all other sins.\n\nFlee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20\n\nJesus said that sex outside of marriage was so dangerous that we should be afraid of going to hell if we even contemplated doing it.\n\nYou have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. Matthew 5:27-29\n\nGod forgives everything if we ask Him to forgive us and make Him the Lord or boss of our life. If you’ve already made a mistake with sex, He will forgive you if you ask.\n\nIt is impossible to fully comprehend the love of God. All I know is that I’ve made tons of mistakes, and He has never turned His back on me and walked away. I don’t know how big God’s love is. I only know that it is bigger than all the mistakes that I’ve made.\n\nGod bless.
506129
First of all, a mistake does not justify another mistake, so there was no need for you to tell that story of how she was infidel to you some long time ago. Secondly, how can you say you hate her if you had agreed to marry her and made a vow to spend the rest of your lifetime with her. Thirdly, Yes if you have the intention to be with someone else other than your wife then you are cheating on her and that's very bad.
8924
Although I kind of agree with Tom up there, I have to say that the last statement was a bit harsh. Anyway, I'll say that "No!” you didn’t cheat but you’re skating mighty close. The fact that you didn't go into it with the exact intentions of doing anything wrong, you did stay into it after it became rather steamy. You should ask yourself that if your "live-in boyfriend" were to be in a similar incident what would you say and if you do something that you feel that you can't share with him ask yourself why. I'm sure you'll get the answer you’re looking for. So from now on leave the massages to little Korean women in small boutiques.
212373
I thank you for the quick reply, but you did read it cafefully, I never ever cheated on her! I lyed and stole from her, she says she still loves me and I'm truely hate myself for what i've done to her and our marriage. I love with so much love I would do anything to save this. But i'm here doin this myself lookin for alittle help. thank you!
253438
Don't feel bad. People jump to conclusions all of the time. I made the mistake of asking "Is masturbating a sin?" Not because I was doing it, but because I wanted a biblical answer to a question I was asked. I gave details, but some people acted like I was doing it. I just wanted an answer I still haven't gotten. So don't take it personally. Some people just aren't that smart (ato put it nicely).
291798
I will try to open my heart to your question.do I cheat now? No there is no one to cheat on,but if there was I wouldn't now.But I cheated onmy first 3 wives over a 15yr. period.Why? The thing I remember the most,she did nothing to cause it,and I always felt guilty afterwards.\n I guess as I look back on it now,it confirmed the idea that other women found me attractive or handsome.
1076092
If seduced, she would have "put out". You were played. Flirting is often fun for married people who know they have no intention of having sex.
1159376
The bible says LITERALLY that lust is a sin.  Your reasoning is very good...  It is ok to appreciate someone for their body, but not to follow up on it.