Could a married man stands for almost a year w/out sex? Is there any reason behind? or maybe he's a gay?
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The most honest answer i could gues at would be that maybe intimacy in other ways is far more important than the actual act itself.  Maybe he respects you enough not to either desire you or its the fact that for a medical reason he has lost the desire to want it.
1117418
Have you seen the man in my picture? He's mine and have been for the last 13 years. Everyone tells me my husband is hot. And he's a good provider and family man to boot. How lucky am I, he's what have been turning me on for the last decade plus. My hubby is a tiger in bed, a cheetah on the track and a gentleman at all times.
963759
Sounds like a no. You have been having sex with him, probably living with him - he has no need to get married; you are giving him all that he wants and he is totally comfortable. Talk to him again, and get married before the baby comes!
492842
Haha. Someone discovered something new. Hey man, your wife is misinformed. And you, obviously have not thoroughly explored your body...till now. We all have played with ourselves. Though, some slightly more than others. There are lots of ways for a guy to have intense orgasms. Anyway, the media and the gay community is always perpetrating that a man who dresses well, who's too good looking and goes to the gym is gay. And that such men should stop pretending and come out. This hype causes these type of men to question themselves with questions like "I like it when I/my gf/my wife plays with my anus so am I gay?" or "I do envy other males with better physique than mine so am I gay?"...etc. This is overblown. And it doubles as a strategy to confuse and turn the fashion conscious, good looking, gym going men, gay. Yes it works. There men who are "recruited" gays. Truth is there's always a reason a man becomes gay. No one is born gay. Anyway the percentage of hetero men is higher than our homo counterparts. Whatever it is, the numerous other reasons n questions that you have, can only be answered by yourself. Some men do experience this phase of self questioning. Some don't. If you like men, lust after men, wanna have sex with men, wanna develop relationships with men or marry or live together. Then you are gay. If you don't, then you're not. Having questions doesn't make you gay. Looking at other guys doesn't make you gay. The decisions and choices do. Simple.\n\nWell now that you've added the details, its certainly more complicated. ok so you've probably had a sort of a gay lifestyle back then. But think of the reality, which is now. Are you happy with your wife and marriage? What about children? do you have children? Do you love your wife? why did you marry her in the first place? think of all the moments that both of you shared. If its all good. Then ending the marriage would destroy her and your children (if you have any). Not ending the marriage, will mean that you're not being honest to your wife and yourself. Either way someone will get hut. It boils down to you. Yes, its really difficult. Think about it and weigh the situations. You could talk to your wife about the problem, maybe with a counsellor too. I wish you good luck.
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yeah, if he's married then it's probably because he values his wife and doesn't want to jeapardize the marriage.\n\nhe may be one of the good ones, but sorry hun - he's taken.
31916
It's different, couple to couple. A matter of body chemistry. married or no doesn't matter.
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Its unlikely that he is asexual.  I'm an asexual and I wouldn't have sex with someone before marriage.  Its just too convenient to just say that "I'm saving myself." After marriage may be different.  \n\nAsexual is a sexual orientation and you have it since birth so I don't think that's what he is.  However, In my case, I pretended to be hetero most of my life simply because I knew I wasn't gay and I didn't know about the third sexual orientation.  I did stuff that wasn't natural for me just because that was what I was supposed to do.  Its possible, but remote, that your husband is doing the same thing.\n\nI know that certain SSRI drugs like paxil, etc, will destroy the sex drive.  I suggest you make a trip to the doctor before you make a trip to the lawyer.  There could be many medical problems that can cause this.  Maybe he has ED and feels inadequate.\n\nNevertheless, there are still things he can do to satisfy you in bed without actually having sex.  I suggest that you see a doctor and go from there.
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although sex is pleasurable....continue to do what you wanna do! if you guys are comfortable without sex then so be it! just continue being happy in your marriage! don't let other people tell you about YOUR marriage! YOU and HIM are married not everyone else, so their comments on YOUR MARRIAGE shouldn't matter.
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Shouldn't. I lived with my husband for almost 2 yrs. before we got married. Only thing that's changed is I carriy his name. We just celebrated our 30th anniversary 6/4. The only thing different is a piece of paper! Why should that change a damn thing? However you do have to work at a marriage it's not easy and some people aren't willing to do the work. Other than that I don't know what else to tell you!
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there are very visible signs like does  stay out or work later than usual...constantly,is he secretive on the phone, has he lost interest in sex,is there money unexplained and missing,is there a strange scent on him like dial soap after 18hrs of working,or cologne that you don't wear,is he hangin with the guys alot.  ya'll really need to go to a counselor or your pastor and discuss this
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Maybe he knows it won't work with the age difference, or he could be already married.\n\nK
857612
If I would have to make a assumption I would say he is borderline gay. He's still in the closet and not sure if he wants to come out and make the full transition into the gay world. His brain is probably still racking on the norm of being straight but likes to keep his homosexual desires hushed. Its very common for this type of gayness to occur. My dad's brother my uncle still dose this and he is in his 40's. He even has lesbian friends he poses of as his wife or girlfriend whatever the case may call. Well hey if things don't work out I'm avavlible.
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I am gay, and I sadly have to agree this is true. I don't know why. Since we're just starting to get our marriage rights, Maybe it has to do with feeling left out of society. Some of us might feel that our lifestyle isn't taken seriously. When there is no marriage, there is no commitment. Just a theory... :-&#92;
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We know that Sex alone can´t make a married couple stay together. So in that way, a married couple with out sex has low chances of surviving. That does not mean it is doom. \nThe real question would be, Why are they not having sex anymore? Age? sickness? as long as there is love I think a marriage can survive. on the other hand if the reasons are: lack of love, lack of interest, it is not the lack of sex that will finish the marriage but the reasons that led to it.\n\nhope is useful to you.
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probably better to ask a marriage counselor : ) it could be lots of things, some which are "fixable", some which aren't.
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Hey i think i have heard this one before too... but I'm not sure where in the Bible, but the truth is that the Bible tells us that we should not have sex before marriage or outside the marriage so perhaps leaving with the Guy in the same room while you are not married means there's more temptation of you having sex so as to avoid the temptation, you should not be living together!x
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whats wrong with this picture? 1st of all, what is a "sex friend" relationship?? 2nd of all, you know he has "random sex" with a "few girls"and thats cool with u?...whats up with that?  3rd,  I wouldn't get my hopes up too much just because you spent a little QT around his parents. that doesn't mean as much to him as it means to you. 4th you are falling right into his game to keep you sprung! this dude is saying and doing all the right things to keep you around. lets see: free sex, no commitment (marriage), willing to accept me seeing other women, and pretty, what man wouldn't take you up on that offer?    \n\nto answer your question yes he has feelings for you.\nits impossible to have sex with someone over an extended period of time and not develop feelings for that person.\n\nsex is very powerful, it was designed to take place between husband and wife to make the marriage bond stronger. you are actually becoming one with that person when you are having sex. why do you think it hurts so much when you break up with someone after you have had sex with them?  it's not natural to try to have sex without getting emotionally attached...\n\ndoes he have feelings yes, now is he looking at you as a potential mate/wife? no, a man will let a freak be a freak but when he gets serious about a relationship he will look for a woman that has standards and some respect for herself.