how do we know if someone is cheating on us?
398092
they start acting different or suddenly dont have time or is always busy. or starts hiding things. the person is very paranoid.
1146778
if they start dressing different, listening to different music, going on "drives", things like that. then if you call him on it and ask if he is cheating on you. . .and he gets all defenssive and starts freaking out. most likely. . .hes cheating on you
145615
Call it a woman's intuition.  If you feel is cheating, it's probably because he is.
266588
you can ask. but just because you ask doesn't mean you are going to be told the truth. \n\nsigns of cheating:\nchange in dress habits\nchanges the way he looks\n(^^^although, he could want a new look, those 2 are tricky)\nhe's never around for you and when he is, he's looking at the clock for when he can leave\ntakes calls in another room so you don't hear them\nhe doesn't answer the phone for you when he normally would and when you do talk to him, he doesn't have a straight answer for why he didn't answer\nasks if your cheating on him\n\njust google 'signs of cheating' and a whole bunch of links show up. Read a few and compare it to your situation.\n\nGut feelings are nothing to ignore. If you truly believe he is cheating, maybe you should go with your heart and leave him.
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She's bored with you and everything else. \n\nShe's wearing new clothes, new makeup. \n\nShe's more independent. \n\nShe's giving excuses for why shes late. She's all of a sudden busy.\n\nYour sex life has changed. \n\nAll these are "indirect" signs that she's cheating on you. \nDon't be too alarmed if its only one or two of these.
1040042
What makes you think he is cheating?  If you can't trust him, how can you have a good relationship?  A relationship that lasts has a lot of trust and honesty between the two people.  You have to ask yourself why do you think that he would be cheating?  Though, past experiences could cause you to think that way.  You should always give them the benefit of the doubt.  Plus, an hour away isn't too far. =)
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Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
213857
The best sign is that THEY cannot seem to trust YOU for no reason at all. Cheaters have a hard time believing they aren't being cheated on too, sad but true. *sigh*
308440
Follow him or hire a private detective to follow him.  Check out his cell phone and wallet.  If he is cheating...dump the loser!  Women do have that intuition thing...if you think he is, he probably is!
408068
No offence, but don't their advice. You'll know when he doesn't show as much interest in you and when he starts acting different with you. If you think he's cheating, but he's acting the same, get advice from a friend or family member who know them a little.
558252
well there really is no way to really tell other than a lie detector...but women's intuition is usually right...at least that has been my experience...besides if you think he is lying to you about something serious you probably shouldnt be with him
127854
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
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Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend \nSome men who suspect their girlfriends are cheating may be in denial and refuse to believe it. Well, for all those other men who are willing to seek the truth, check out these signs of a cheating girlfriend: \n\nAfter dating for several years she tells you that she's overweight and has hired a personal trainer \nYou find a charge slip in the waste basket from a nearby motel by mistake. \nYou find a present she says was from her mother. You open the box and find a pair of sexy panties. \nYou come home one day and find a cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes. \nShe's uncharacteristically spending money on new clothes. \nThe phone rings several times within a week and when you pick it up they hang up. \nShe starts acting like a teenager who has a crush on the quarterback. \nYour girlfriend tells you that she's visiting a friend who is sick. This one is a classic, and it works all the time. \nShe says that she loves you, but doesn't act like it. Remember, a person is judged on what they do, not what they say. If your girlfriend exhibits any of these signs it may mean she is cheating on you.\n\nGl\nI hope she isn't it is the worst way for a relationship to die.
922519
You can't.  Just be alert and watch for the signs....unexplained purchases, loss of interest in intimacy, trouble maintaining eye contact, a sudden change in mood or behavior, mysterious phone calls, a confrontational attitude, making excuses to leave, unfamiliar scents, etc.  Most importantly, do not expect honesty.  If they have something to hide, you'll be the last to know.
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you can tell if he is cheating on you, if he is acting strange when you ask him questions, if he isnt spending as much time with you as  he use too spend. only you can tell if she has changed since you started your relationship. if you are questioning his honesty now, then maybe he is cheating on you.
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yes, let it go. if you really are sure he is, then ask him.  He may deny it, or he may not.  Hacking into his account would show you don't trust him!  And if he finds out he is going to be REALLY mad that you don't!
498116
It depends on your boyfriend.\nYou have to give us examples of the things he is doing that makes YOU think he is cheating and we can let you know from there.