My cousin was pinned by a younger girl in wrestling.  He cry and refuse to go back to school what should I do?
403580
Laugh your a** off. :-P\nEven the best fall down sometimes.\nCan't win them all.
257610
Well first thing I'd do is make sure the kid that pushed you stops messing with you. I would start by letting one of your parents know about the problem or you could go to the Principle of your school since it happened at the bus stop.  Which ever you decide I think the guy who caused the problem should have to pay the price not you. If nothing else works I'd open a can of whup-ass on the fool who pushed you. You might still have to pay for the torn pants but the guy might not mess with you after that.
125398
Ask him why he acts the way he does.  He might be acting this way because his fellow peers are encouraging him, or he likes the response he gets from others. Make a conscious effort to listen to his explanation. Allow him to express himself to you without interrupting him. This will allow him to feel as if he is really being heard out. Then respond by letting him know why he shouldn't carry out in that manner. Explain the trouble he is causing in the classroom. Explain the consequences and possible consequences of his actions. Explain that he should find a different time to joke around. A time in which his learning and the learning of others won't be impaired or disrupted. Give him some possible solutions as to when it would be better for him to joke. For example, possibly during lunch or after school.\n\nOn a side note, you might want to ask how he feels about his current living circumstances. Is he acting out for attention? Is he upset about something in the home or maybe something else going on at school or in his life that is causing him to lash out in a disruptive manner at school? \n\nWhen one is 15 there are hormonal, psychological, physical, and other changes going on. There is also all sorts of peer pressure. Not only from his peers, but from the faculty and the family. Again, so try to get to the root of his actions and work it out from there. Don't be on the offensive and don't be defensive he says he feels you are doing something wrong. Just nodd your head and listen to him. Then explain how you feel. Remember he is aware that you are his parent and that you are in charge. There's no need to beat him over the head with that point. Hopefully you will both come to a clarification as to what needs to be done. If you seem to still have problems then I suggest seeking a counselor who can possibly give you more insight. Good luck. :)
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you may want to respect her wishes and let her handle it. i know it has to be hard for a parent to do-- but consider your daughter's perspective. ( i was the kid who got eggs tossed at her, so i know how cruel kids can be...) 14 year olds....think they sprouted from the ground. any parental involvement is generally discouraged by them, and it really may cause her more embarassment. this is an age where kids want to show that they can hold their own.\n\nthe best thing you can do is let her handle it, but be reassuring that it's not her "fault"-- a lot of girls feel that if there were something that they could change about themselves, thigns would be better. let her know that some boys are jerks. chances are, she is not the only one he did something like that to, and he probably has a reputation for being a jerk. \n\nif your daughter is willing to let it go, let it be. however, if this is a part of a pattern of how she's been treated at school... you may want to consider options to intervene.
138110
You should report this person and make sure they're expelled...make a stand and show that you're not afraid...but try not to get into a fight if you can help it
597571
I'm old skool because I think you need to round up your male cousins and relatives, tell them what is going on and have them take the guy out to the woods and kick the crap out of him;  and when they are done, they just leave him out there to walk back...it should  be at least a mile from his home so he has to walk back and think about how he came to this state of ruination.  Now make sure you send one level-headed guy...you just want to teach him a lesson, not kill him.\n\nBelieve me, he will never call the cops and he will stay the heck away from her.
39518
Try talk to the guy and ask the guy at least write her a note or say sorry? because as a man/guy, this surely not a good thing to do to a girl...if the guy refused to do, then maybe it is time for you to talk to the girl how bad this guy is, and just forget about him :(
260706
You should go to a school councilor. When I was in school I had someone threaten me, and one day they slammed my arm in the locker (that wasn't fun) and I am now 25 and it still stays with me.  Don't let people bully you, at least tell a councilor.
184307
You sound like a kid, with the bus stop thing, so I would talk to your parents.  They can then talk to the girl's parents and explain the situation.  You could also look into talking to the bully's parents, and see if they won't make him pay for it
889397
1st of all, coaches have been doing this type of thing forever, he didnt hurt the kid, the kid nor his parents, nor anyone saw it as out of line that was involved. 2nd of all, you asked this question twice, and furthermore it has nothing to do with wrestling
1076094
Right now, just don't take sides. Trust your boyfriend and try to keep your cousin out of your relationship. It doesn't matter who did or didn't. If you can keep them apart then do so. Tell your boyfriend that with the current situation, you don't feel comfortable with them being together. Make sure to tell him that you trust him. Don't make him feel like it's his fault or you may lose him.\n\n~Pancake
198029
Dump the boyfriend,and straighten out your cousin. Remind\nher that blood is thicker than water,or at least it should be.
18188
It really depends on the school, he should be able to work with his wrestling coach.  I'm actually surprised you didn't try that first, did the coach say anything particular about it?
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RENT THE MOVIE"ODD GIRL OUT" NOW YOU SEE WHAT HUNDREDS OF GIRLS GO THROUGH. IM 31 AND BEEN THROUGH IT ALL. THIS GIRL IS ACTING OUT TO FIT IN. THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS IGNORE HER. IF THE DAY COMES THAT YOU GET THE CHANCE TO PUT HER IN HER PLACE IN FRONT OF A LOT OF PEOPLE THEN YOU DO IT AND TELL HER HOW SHE REALLY IS AND HOW SHE REALLY COMES OFF TO PEOPLE. WELL I HAD AN EXPERIENCE WHERE THOUGH MY SISTER KATY WATCHED ME GET BEAT UP BY A GIRL IN FIRST GRADE EVERYDAY. ONE DAY KATY BEAT THIS GIRL UP AND TOSSED HER DOWN A SMALL HILLY RAVINE AT THE SCHOOL. NOT NICE AT ALL BUT MADE THE POINT. I DO NOT PROMOTE VIOLENCE. BUT A LESSON BURNED IS A LESSON EARNED. SO YOU DO WHAT U MUST AND LET HER KNOW IN FRONT OF OTHERS HOW YOU FEEL.AN SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.
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OK...call your cousin back and tell her you don't appreciate her calling you names and if she does it again, you will hang up again.  Then ask if she wants to go to the mall or something....it's not that big of a deal, honey.  It's family that's important, but she also needs to respect you.  Also tell her that kind of talk makes her sound like trash.  So...forgive her and get back to being friends and family.  Good luck.
1050587
You should find some adult who is unconnected to your family, School counselor, head teacher, ....\n\nTell them exactly what is going on and ask them to help refer you to the proper agency in your area who can deal with this.\n\nTake action now, or you face being traumatised to the point of lifelong discontentment.  Take action now and take pride in the fact that you had the courage to stand up for your rights.  Take action now and recognise the depth of emotional resilience and strength you have.\n\nDo you see where I'm going with this?\n\nTAKE ACTION NOW - TALK TO SOMEONE
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Tell your parents.  No one deserves to be hurt like that.  Your parents will most likely talk to his parents.  And if his parents are little stupid babies about it, then they are probably the cause of their son's behavior.  Now, see, if this was a girl bothering you, it would probably be because she would like you.  But in this case, the bully is a rich snob that don't now squat that's a boy.  Ask him why the heck he does this to you, and I just bet he'll say " Cuz it's fun."  If he says that, tell him it's not for you and that you're seriously bothered.  He most likely won't listen, so tell people that will listen.  Weather it's the school counselor, or your parents, just anyone who will take charge of the situation.  The best of luck to ya!