Should I stay in uni or should I go?
411858
You are controlling your life.  Deciding to go with the flow is your own decision. Even doing nothing about a situation is making a decision (to do nothing).  Don't be so hard with yourself.  I was well over 30 before I decided what I wanted to do.  Stick it out if you can.  At least with that subject you will learn alot about yourself (and therefore others).  If you can't stick it out then leave, and when you do learn what it is that makes your heart sing - go for it, get the qualification then - like I did.\nGood luck
770763
maybe you should stay in school
515723
In the long run? Nope. \n\nI advise you to get a student loan and live without extraneous responsibilities like mortgages for a while - enjoy life, and educate yourself in your formative years in a way that only people without heavy responsibilities can do - what if you want to travel, or move in with a lover in that time? The essence of education is autonomy, travelling light and discovering the world, not being tied down to some place you bought two years ago. Move around the city in which you study. Meet new people, live with them, see how other people live. I won't labour the point - I think you get the idea.\n\nThen graduate with a great degree and eventually when you can put it off no longer get a mortgage at lower interest rates because you have a degree and therefore more earning potential than someone without one.... don't worry, once you have your degree you will be earning loads more and you will have had a great fancy-free time at university and stories to tell your future employers in interviews. It is important to be agile and be able to move around early in your career, sampling different experiences.\n\nI am from England by the way, so assuming you live in the USA it may be a bit different.
999073
Well that's what I'm going to do when I go to UNI and I've almost finished College.\n\nAnyhows the gov have, or they do in the UK, a lot of advisers for this. Talk to them, they are gold dust to us when we get to this stage. I spent two days and went to see two of them. Like we're talking the next 5 years at least so a few days asking for help is well worth it.
327407
Southampton is nice seaside area i lived there for 2 years i really liked it .. had to move to London because of work ..The University is better then Warwick one i am sure you will enjoy living in Southampton .. good-luck
908347
hmmm, thats difficult, it really depends on how good the Uni is for your subject. See it may be a good uni but it may be rubbish for your course.
978092
It really just depends on what makes you happier. If you have new friends here and you like it better then I'd stay. However if you went to the old school and you like it better I'd stay there. IT all comes down to if you're ready to face your past.
673180
I realise that you have a good job but maybe you need more exposure to life? My son went off to live and work in Germany when he was 18. He has been working as an au pair for a nice family. He teaches English at a local school and, in return, he gets university tuition. When he comes back to England, he will be going off to university. I do give him limited financial support (as does his dad) but he knows if he wants luxuries, it is up to him to get another job to be able to afford these. \n\nHe is due home for good in 8 weeks and working abroad (and taking care of himself) has been great for him, in terms of forcing him to grow up and think about things as an adult. I cannot believe how much he has changed! I know your job is good but think about how you might be able to get more life experience. If you live at home with your mom, try to find an apartment for yourself. Take care of your own laundry, shopping and cooking. Worry about your own bills. Even if it doesn't work out (do everything in your power to make it work!) you will gain valuable life experience through doing this and it can only benefit you in the long run.
1027052
Maybe you can sneak in if someone drops out? Lots of people drop out for various reasons but you should contact the uni and find out some more information ;-)
852756
Take a sabbatical from uni before they kick you out themselves. Much better if you take a temporary leave of absence of your own volition. Then go get your head together and come back to uni when you're up to it.
1039711
I'd say stay home set the example and save money. The life style change can make you or break you. Try it if not move out the second semester.
630096
I suggest that you stay home and stay in school.  With your level of English, I don't think you'll make it on your own.
215993
You have to decide which of the two is most important to you.  But if you are at uni you are already planning your future - are you not?  Family, husbands/wives will come when they are ready.  If you take care of your future the rest will slip into place.  Who cares who makes breakfast???
559786
Stick with it. But make sure that you get a place of yours & yours alone. (I hate myself for trying to live with roommates again.) You've come this far, and it will only be harder to go back to school. It's an accomplishment to be accepted to grad school and it's an accomplishment to make it through a year in an awful living situation. You know full well that "what" you major in doesn't neccessarily determine the work that you'll do. Try to change your study habits (even the type of notebook you take notes in can help change your attitude a little.) Finishing grad school will provide many more prosperous opportunities. Chances are you'll want the education just as much as you did before once the stress clears.
408245
if you are happy where you are..stay.  Change is always good as long as you are able to supoprt yourself and your child.  Give it a chance...plus there are more jobs in your related field where you are now.  New people, new job, this can be scary but not bad.  I admire you for having the strength to do it in the first place.  Stay where you are for at least 2 years and then decide if you think things where you are could work to your advantage.  Good Luck!
1109151
Do what's best for yourself.  People will come and go all your life, but you'll always have you.  If you think the relationship is stronger with the one who is leaving, that's who you should stay with.
455342
Well, if they are paying then you better listen to them.  If not then, do what you want.  Just realize that you run the risk of losing financial support from them, and that will be hard.  Speaking from experience.... a free ride is almost always a good thing.  If school is paid for and you don't have to work full time to pay bills then take it.  It's the smart thing to do.  You'll be better off financially and it's not for that long.  Maybe you can stay home for the first 2 years and then move out after that?