how do u deal with people saying you are a loudmouth when your not?
406831
My friend, it is all in a mind set.  Why not just smile to them and laugh inside because you have the ability to understand why they did it. They see something in you that they do not have and thus they are trying to bring you down to their level. DON'T LET THAT HAPPEN!\n\nIf you know such is not true, you know they are the ones with the problem and not you. Do rejoice in that and let that thought put you in the position that you really do feel sorry for them because they can not even see their failure. However you can see it clearly.\n\nLook to the simple things. An ant will always come if it finds food, but if no food is found it will stop coming. If you just smile and ignore these people, eventually they will first quit because you do not react. Next they may want to be your friend to learn your secret. Then at that time you will be in control because you will now be their teacher ha ha.\n\nSee my friend there is magic in patience and much can be gained in a little wisdom. So take care, smile a lot, even laugh but in good taste and enjoy life. You only have now to do it so enjoy it now. So have a great day OK.
381015
first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
1044751
Some of my best friends are people who, like you, tell it like it is and don't 'pull any punches.'  \nYou should absolutely stay true to yourself, but that doesn't mean you can't hold back comments sometimes when you feel they wouldn't be well received or if they might be hurtful.  You don't have to lie, but if you can spare someone's feelings by holding your tongue, then maybe that would be a good idea.\n\nRemember, not everyone wants to know the truth, they are happier in their delusions.  So, by pointing out what may be obvious to you, you will make then angry or sullen.\n\nThink of your wisdom and life experiences as having value and don't be giving them away free every time you open your mouth. Instead, let others learn from their own mistakes and strive for their own life experiences.
394484
When they don't listen to what I have to say and only talk about themselves.
762525
the best answer is keep your mouth closed and listen to what they have to say and when people come to help you watch out people will try to mislead you have a small note book and take down things you are suspossed to learn and never talk about another person you work with . or it's called back stabbing be polite and listen listen . just do your job to the best you can. good luck
1174449
Do you respond when questioned? If people say this to you just to get a response, don't play their game.\nIf you don't bite they will soon lose interest in trying to bait you.\nYou know what you are. The problem lies with others.
894920
I have the same problem.  People always say "think b4 u talk", but that's fricking hard!  There are only a few seconds to which there is time alloted for you to think of an answer.  Then the person leaves you in the dust.  It's like a reflex...you defend yourself before anyone else has a chance to inflict another blow.  Next time, just relax yourself b4 a conversation and remind yourself not to lash out, no matter what.  Of course, you will forget to remind yourself after a while, but the next lash-out will bring you crashing back down to earth.  But for now...just apologize to the girl and explain that you didnt know what you were saying.  She should understand.  It is hard to deal with this stuff, but you will get over it.  Dont dwell on anything.
1067609
Just ignore them.  The only reason they keep doing this is because you are reacting.  If you quit giving them any change in your facial expression and quit saying anything to them about it and maybe just give them a laugh and walk off, they will stop.
582797
Depending on the comment. If someone is trying to 'constructively' provide you with some information to help you - I'd listen. Also be careful of the source. If someone is just mouthing off because they fear you, or don't like you, I'd shrug it off. You have to be strong in your own spirit to accept comments of any kind from people. As a singer, I heard them all. Even the praises can be misleading and misdirectional. People will do what they can do get what they can out of you. You must be alert and aware of the deceptions that take place. Ex. If a teacher told you something that appeared negative - it is probabaly something to help you. Listen to the way people tell you things. Their tone of voice can indicate if they really have your best interest at heart, or if they want to hurt you. Listen up.
744743
Most people who act like that are using it defensively because they're jealous.  So don't feel bad.  They're ugly people, inside and most likely out.  Only go if you want to go to events/occassions.  Otherwise, don't waste your time and don't give them the pleasure of being able to make you feel like crap.  If they say something nasty to you just smile and nod and say "Thanks for letting me know...I had NO idea..."  and then walk away.  They want a reaction out of you and if you respond politely and sweetly they'll either stop or get really pissed off.  My mother always taught me "Kill 'em with kindness"...and it works almost every time!
1042405
Sounds like they like you, try to keep distance and be just a little bit rude so they can get the hint, or just not talk at all and say you have a sore throat.
196169
The best way to deal with such ppl is to hurt their ego....... a simple ignore will hurt their feeling of superiority....... make them feel as if their existence doesnt matter to u
1154983
Practice saying no.\nYou can't please everyone.
765199
Ignore them. If you show no offense or interest in what they're saying they will drop you as a topic in their conversations.
63002
you let them say what they want to say.. u show\nno emotion the entire time and u simply walk away. you will always be the bigger person if u walk away.\ndont ever lower yourself to their level. and if they attempt to hit you.. block, and then again walk away.
1168435
IF YOU GRUNT, NEVER USE GUM.\n\nAND BREATHING OUT BY MOUTH IS ALSO NOT A GOOD IDEA.\n\nLET THEM COMPLAINING.YOU PLAY AS YOU NOW.
837737
Ignore them and find something in life to take your attention from them. Like the saying of a vampire you have to invite them in so don't do that.