HELP!!  i want out marriage how do i get out?
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Just be honest with him and tell him. Maybe he isn't happy either. And cheating would only make it worse atleast you can say you want a divorce and not because of another man. Honesty is the best policy.
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You didn't say why you've asked ... \nSo, I'm assuming that you are wondering if you should stay in your marriage ...\nI think you'll probably find the help you need to weigh the pros & cons, in the following articles.  They've helped Lots of  folks (including myself), so I am confident in suggesting them to you:\n\nhttp://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2001/1/8/article_01.htm\nCan We Save Our Marriage?;\nhttp://www.watchtower.org/library/w/1999/7/15a/article_01.htm\nWholesome Communication - A Key to a Good Marriage;\nhttp://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2002/4/15/article_01.htm\nEmpathy--Key To Kindness and Compassion; \nhttp://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2005/6/1/article_01.htm\nWhen Marital Disagreements Arise;\nhttp://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2003/9/15/article_01.htm\nThe Bible Can Help You to Strengthen Your Marriage;\nhttp://www.watchtower.org/library/g/1999/4/22/article_01.htm\nWhen a Mate is Unfaithful :\n...Infidelity - Its Tragic Consequences \n...Is Reconciliation Possible? \n...The Option of Divorce \n...Why Some Stay Together \n...Who Is Responsible? \n...Children Do Not Deserve Divorce \n...Does God Hate All Divorce? ;\nhttp://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2004/5/8a/article_01.htm\nWhy View Marriage as Sacred? \n\nOf course you know that Every situation is different.\nNo one can decide for you, either way.  that's a very hard choice to have to make.  But I can say that everyone I know that have considered the Bible-based articles (above) & appleied what they learned, have been satisfied that they did their best ... whatever the outcome has been for them.  Even when they received no cooperation or support from their mate.\nhttps://watch002.securesites.net/contact/submit.htm\nTo Request More Information or a Free Home Bible Study.\nhttp://www.ebible.org/bible/ASV/index.htm\nThe American Standard Version of the Holy Bible
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You need a professional marriage counselor!!  You are dealing with mental abuse.  Jokes won't do it.  Neither will anything you can find out here.
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Err if you wanna tie yourself down from having all the fun .. then get married... \nIt's all in your head hunie.. whatever you think is OK..
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Here is what I did.\n\nI stopped dwelling on his faults and took a good, honest look at my own. \n\nWhen I began to concentrate on how I could be a good wife regardless of his behavior, that entitled me to place HIS behavior in God's hands.\n\nWhoa. You should have seen how the Heavenly Father worked with him!\n\n1. Ask God to show you your faults.\n2. Ask Him to forgive you for them.\n3. Choose to change.\n4. Sit back and watch what happens.\n\nLike you, I really wanted my marriage to survive for many different reasons. It's obvious you have a wonderful heart for wanting to do the right thing, or you wouldn't even be asking this question.\n\nI faced this situation in 1980 and we are still happily .....most of the time :).....married.
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Check with The Dept Of Social Services. But why are you not married? And why do you want to leave good O'l California? \nJust how fit to be a parent and how responsible, are you really?
97141
First question are you being phsyicaly abused? if so you should like you need to ask yourself is do you want to stay in this. If you do you only asking for what is being handed too you. If you want to get out of it what you should do is seek a lawyer. if you can't afford it then seek Legal aid they can help you for a small fee or no cost. Some states sence he if he is phsycaly abusive you might be able to seek a court order for him to be exparte from the resendence and also request that Tempory Spoucal support be paid till the divorce is over. You can also in some states seek what is called a bed and board divorce. This means you get the marrial resendence. I would HIGHLY reocmmend if he is physicaly abusive to you contact a lawyer ASAP! If this is a problem you can file it down at the court house. And seek consoling as no women or man should ever have to put up with phsycal abuse.
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find peace within yourself\nyou can be alone and not be lonely\nwhen you become happy with who you are, you lose the loneliness.go to your church or social events\nhang out with your friends ,if your marriage is over move on.
1070570
Be miserable, like I am. It wouldn't be so bad if the man I married loved and respected me. I guess that doesn't help you, but these things happen. Do what you need to do to make things right, if you can.
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1. Be completely divorced.\n\n2. Get married.
1160542
If you feel like you REALLY should leave, I say go. Unless you want to go through the hassle of counseling and such (which some men will not even consider). I dont know how I would just do whatever is in your best interest.
1187417
Get rid of him he is only asking you to marry him so that you will stay around. He is afraid of losing you but does not really want to marry you. Get rid of him and move on there is a man out there that will love you more than you have ever dreamed and guess what he will not think twice when it comes to marrying you.
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Ehh, I am going to go out on a limb here, and say that you shouldn't AUTOMATICALLY leave him, unless he is still activly particpating in his marriage, in which case you should.  I have to say that I was married, but not (we were separated), and I started a relationship with an amazing woman, but I was up front about my status.  Give him a chance to explain himself, if you don't like what he has to say then you can slap him and leave.  Don't act to hasty, get the lay of the land before you make a decision.  Good luck my dear, I hope it turns out ok.
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Am sorry for that, but all u need u to do is dat, u must not proud of yaself and u must be the person that can endure and u must also be tolerant, so that u will get the right man for yourself and u must also be vigilant so that u will not fall in love wit eat and run guys. Because Marriage is not temporary thing is permanent and it's a bad thing 2 move out of one marriage and move into another one as if u are changing cloth, It's very nefarious, so think and study the man u will fall in love wit before agree with him that u will marry him, I wish u best of luck.
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So, he doesn't agree...big surprise, right?  No way to get your message across, then you'll have to send the message by actions, not words.  While you've been talking and he's not listening, that's all it is...lip service.  What have you done to show him that this marriage was a mistake?  Nothing.  If you are going to end it, then end it.  Move out and leave a note.  Explain that you made a mistake by rushing into this marriage and upon this realization, you need to go.  File the papers and in 3 months or so, you'll be free to live as an independant woman again.  Until then, just lay low and don't listen to his crying and persuations.  Just cut the cord and make it short and sweet.  It'll be easier and less painless in over the long run.
1165308
Talk to that attorney of yours and have him get you out of the marraige but MORE IMPORTANTLY make sure you have him draw up papers regarding your children!
813755
Just remember that you always have control over your own situation.  If you are in a bad marriage don't be afraid to leave.  Get out of that comfort zone and don't let fear of the unknown stop you.