what can you do to convince a girl you are not in love, they don't believe me,?
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If you don't love her, end it. Let her go ahead and kill herself. You shouldn't force yourself to love someone.\nJust be gentle when you do it. If you don't break it, you wont be a happy man.
543552
Whatever you do, don't blackmail her into doing it. Don't say stuff like 'dont you love me then'. Assuming it's a 'her' were talking about here.
928207
Maybe you should flip the script on her.  Reverse the situation and YOU play hard to get.  As a matter of fact. A great way to put her to the test.  Conjure up an imaginary love interest and tell her that YOU have plans.  Then sit back, look at your watch and count the seconds until she comes running behind you like a little puppy.  Girls love what other women have.  Whether it's their, shoes, purse, or their man.  Then you will be able to tell if she's real.  She doesn't want anyone else to have you, but she doesn't wanna do what it takes to keep you!!
172441
Dont sneak out because if you break their trust once, it'll take years to get it back. Sit down with them and be willing to compromise. Maybe just go on dates with friends and agree to carry a cell phone or stuff like that. It helps if they trust you and if they still refuse, just hang out with the girl of your dreams at school. Its not tthat big of a deal if you cant see her outside of school but you can im her or call her if she doesnt mind.
533780
You dont want to be in love with someone who doesnt love you back,so if telling her that you love her scares her away,then find someone  who is going to love you back and dont waste your time on someone who doesnt,you deserve better than that.
962378
I don't ask for divorce from someone who loves me truly. But if she doesn't listen to you then she is totally not in love with you. If she doesn't take your advice and views in her consideration then she is totally not in love with you. May be she is just pretending to be in love with you. So, you don't have to consider if she pretends to get hurt. But don't let your decisions to be manipulated by the other girls, may be they are pretending too. If you can't get biased a girl in your home how can I believe that you can get some of the girls from out side?
795852
Just be yourself, don't try to be someone you are not.  If she loves you she will be with you.  You can't get her to change her mind you can just live your life and if she wants to live her life with you she will.
730327
Well, if she is your friend you should tell her its not true. She should believe you because friends wouldn't do  that to eachother. Tell her that if she doesn't believe you , fine, but she isn't a real friend either because you know she wouldn't do that to you if u had a boyfriend.
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Talk to her. Discuss what it is that makes you think she's fooling around. \n\nTry to be non-confrontational. Try to avoid "You always..." or "You never..." Say instead, "When you do (or don't do) this.... I feel this...." Or "When I see you do such-and-such, I wonder what it means."\n\nAsk her what it means. LISTEN to what she says. Repeat it back to her: "I think you're telling me....."\n\nIf you do not feel much better after this discussion, sorry, sweetie, time for a new girlfriend.\n\nI hope you're wrong, and I hope this helps.
860473
TELL HER THAT NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. AND THAT YOU CLEARLY DO NOT GOT ANY FEELINGS FOR HIM. AND HOPEFULLY SHE WILL UNDERSTAND .
1067380
Work on your self confidence. Think positive, if you think oh they will reject me, then they will, you will give off the wrong vibes. Just be yourself, try to relax. YOu deserved to be loved as much as anyone else, you have to believe that.
286176
let her go dude...\nthink about it you can not force her to love you ... and futher more would you want her to be unhappyly w/ you
489305
tell her indirectly that you are not up for commitment right now and that if you do get commmited these are the criterias you are looking for (obviously none of the criterias will match her!) dont just come out and tell her you dont feel for her directly because that hurts a lot. keep your space from her and ignore her calls or stop meeting her if you are, she will get the message in time.
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"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
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First step would be to learn that love has nothing to do with how you feel or how you can make a woman feel. Actions speak louder than words buddy.\n\nExtravagant gifts and etc., dont impress people as much as simple expressions of love like listening when a girl needs to talk and sharing her problems without wanting to hear you're advice on how to fix it. \n\nFind out the things she enjoys, for example when I was 18 I met a girl named Kim. I had her brother go into her room and find out what kind of perfume she used. I then got her some for her birthday and she absolutely loved it. You see, simple things like that!
1115198
Ohh that's so sweet but chance's are the only way you can convince her is just keep on loving her and telling her that she is beautiful she sounds like she has very low self esteem just tell her that she should have more faith in you because you would never do anything to hurt her
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*smacks you up side the head* You don't "convince" her. You ask her. If she agrees, then there ya go, If she says no, be a man and accept it.