if you go out wit someone and all they think about is sex do you tell them that our a virgin still or wat?
400455
that is the first thing you should have told that person.
454795
since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
1120741
Yes, actually it's called your Second Virginity. We learned about it in school actually. I went to a Catholic School in case you're wondering. If you're abstinent and haven't had sex in a long time and plan on waiting for the right one before resuming relations with somebody, then yes, it's valid to say you're a "born again virgin" if that's the term you like.
100216
A virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse.\n\nBut I consider any sexual act sex.  Who cares if your technically a virgin but you have given head to a hundred men.
1025440
No, I don't think it is the same thing. Though very unlikely that you would only have an oral encounter and not sex. I think there must be penetration in order to be counted as actual sex referring to intercourse. Now there are sexual acts that includes oral and such but it would not be correct to say you had "sex' with them. Virgins would not loose their virginity by fellatio or cunnilingus.\n\nThe key is the penetration being present or not to define actual sex.
176350
She is still a virgin.  Playing with oneself does not equate non-virginity.
1090992
N O... or do u mean if u put it in her @ss, is she still a virgin? if THAT's your real question then yes, she is... technically
303886
Only shallow people give this more than a second thought.  Who cares how many people you have/have not slept with.  Lets face it, you can never win anyway.  If you sleep with people you get called a whore/man whore and get a reputation of being untrustworthy, dirty and fickle.  If you do wait and are a virgin, you get called frigid, there is huge pressure on when will be your first time.  If you leave it long enough it can become a social stigma.  Just look at the film 40 year old virgin.  \n\nBasically your damned if you do and damned if you don't.  so just forget about it.
1186458
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.
355806
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
293629
Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
13718
First of all, if you're that worried about this you're probably not mature enough to have sex yet.  Secondly, if he tells you he's a virgin and insists on it and whatever just believe him.  I don't understand how someone can "look like a virgin."  We were all virgins at some point.  Lastly, it's really easy to find out about sexual things from movies, books, the internet, magazines, friends and so on and so on.  Knowing about sex doesn't mean you have it all the time.  Just don't worry so much and enjoy being a friggin teenager.
100977
No, I don't.\nI will wait till married.\n\nThey who think as your question, I think it's just sex for pleasure. They don't think about marry at the moment, even about love ( if they really love each other, they would thinking about marry).\n\nMy opinion, virgin will marry with virgin, and not virgin with not virgin.
501765
Why tell him? If sex comes up then tell him. He wont think yuck no guy most of never wanted her, but think wow she did not give into some idiot from high school. NOthing is wrong with being a virgin. And you are not the only 20 something virgin out there, and they are not all gross and ugly, they choose to wait just like you have, and they are better people for it. I have never know anyone who regreted waiting but I do know some who regret not waiting.
265553
Hey I'm a virgin too and had to go through the same thing as you. Just be open with him, tell him you're not ready. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do. Although in todays society people act like their virginity is nothing special, it really is. If you wait until you're married or truly in love sex will be a whole lot more meanigful. If he still pressures you to have sex, stop dating him. He isn't worth losing your virginity over.
909481
No, it doesn't mean that you are on the verge of doing anything. Virgin was a term used for as long as there has been civilization. Basically you haven't had any type of sexual encounter, and oral sex is still sex! You should wait til you are ready, and make sure you do it with the right person, my friends did that and they regret it to this day.
1122899
Depends on why.\n\nIf he is a slobbering drunk lazy loser who simply can't get a date, then probably noone would even be interested so it wouldn't matter.\n\nIf he is still a virgin because he actually respects women and wants to be sure he has developed feelings before sleeping with one, than it is a good thing.\n\nI suppose it also depends on the type of woman you are looking for.  More promiscuous women might see it as a sign that they could easily take advantage of the man.  More respectable women would probably see it as a good sign.