my boyfriend never say he love me.is this call love?
398369
its not how u say it.. but how to prove it.. its how u respect her..its now how u wrote it but how u give time to her.. most of the time guys are like this..
1089800
First, when you ask questions like this and you want some sincere advice or opinions, you need to be more specific. Like how long you've been together for instance. When you say boyfriend, you could have been together for a week or two when he said it, or it could have been years. That really helps when you're asking someone a question that you want help with.\n\nPutting the lecture aside, this is my opinion when it comes to saying "I Love You" to someone. First, never say I love you to anyone unless you really mean it. People seem to let this word come out of their mouths as if they were saying, gee, what a nice day. Other guys have hurt you? Hmm, well, don't feel like you're the only one that's been hurt. We've all gone through this, but we move on. Obviously, he hasn't made you feel comfortable enough for you to not worry about being hurt, as you have in the past, or you have not opened up enough to accept his love for you. You say you're falling for him, but you keep the walls up. That's never a good thing in a relationship. If you feel you need to protect yourself, then you're not ready for a serious relationship. When the time is right, you will know and feel comfortable about saying it. Until then, don't say it, unless you mean it. It does no one any good to hear those words when the heart isn't behind hit. Good luck and may you some day, find a way to break the walls down and enjoy a happy and healthy, loving relationship with someone who makes you feel loved.
1122585
Do you love him?  If you do, you shouldn't have a problem saying it back unless you're harbouring intimacy issues.  If you don't love him, you need to tell him that.  He deserves to be loved, or at the very least he deserves the truth!\n\nIf you do love him, perhaps you need to look within and discover why it is you have trouble expressing your feelings.  Has somebody hurt you?  What was your parents' relationship like?
747019
it sound like he does. my bf says the same thing to me and so far he's ment it. but, if your having a hard time believeing him, lay off the kisses or follow your gut instinct.\n If he ever does try to go farther than you want and he starts saying things like:\n i love you\nyour my everything\nwe can handle it....\n  I'm pretty sure thats the sign to leave him.\nBut from what ur saying, he hasn't tried anything like that. so i think u can trust him and u never know, he might really really mean it, just don't take any drastict measures until something really goes srong.\n\ngood luck!
747884
Am sorry to say so,but it seems he's not very much in love with you (even if he says that he is) if he loves you,he would create time for you ...no words such as "busy"when it comes to a loved one...consider breaking up with him,and see how does he react...if he freaked and changed his way with you,give him another chance ,if not...then you find yourself someone as sweet as you are...you deserve much more than phone chatting.BTW if caring didn't come from deep inside of him,you wouldn't be able to MAKE him care.
1024972
Always be true to your feelings.  If you never tell him, he will never know.  You never gave it a chance because you never told him.  He may love you and be holding back.  Wouldn't you want to know?  I know I would.  Tell him and go from there.  Good Luck!
1109122
little things can show it...like if a day pass by and u didn't call, he'll call and say i love u...want to be with you most of the time..hold your hand..such stuff. And when you need he's always there like a best Friend and a boyfriend at the same time..
216739
that depends. if he feels as if he is compelled to reply "i love you", and doesnt mean it---then yes.
615981
Ive always said love is an action word ..because when people love you they show it, with what they do, you wouldnt be wondering at all. You can sit down, and ask where do things stand btwn us?...How do you feel about me...If hes not callin you...returning calls ...dissapointing you constantly..you know..hes not..someone in love is consistent, in their positive behaviors..observe them and then have a "talk"..I wish you the best!!
565163
no, if you can't tell him to his face that you love him then you actually don't love him. Loving someone means you have to feel comfortable around him. If he can't take you seriously, then he don't have alot of trust in you. Just try it and see what happens. Whatever you do, please don't write it
202755
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
188495
Love isnt something that is expressed verbally, love is something that is shown. If he buys you flowers, sticks up for you infront of his friends, goes out of his way to do something just to make your day go a little bit smoother, then yes he loves you :) If he shows you things like this then you know, he could say he loves you a billion times but untill he shows you, you wont really know, keep in mind that all guys show love in a differnt way, some buy you flowers and give you money, others call you just to tell you that your beautiful and take you out on picnics at the park, so dont rate his love on what you expect from him but on how much he tries to show you :)
816644
Im not quite sure what your first question is asking\nbut we all say i love you when you mean it\nin my past expieriences in relationships when the man says i love you, you feel obligated to say it back, even if you dont relly love them\nand toher times you really do love the person
1037077
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
995967
I think that maybe you scared to say it. You don't want to let your guard down and get hurt. Whatever the case may be if you do love him you should tell him no matter how hard it is for you. Love is not something you want to let slip through your fingers because you couldn't tell him how you really feel. How badly would you be hurt if he left you? Not showing him the proper love he deserves may push him away or make him want more out of the relationship that you aren't will to give to him. I f you love him don't let him go, it will be way harder to let him go that to tell him how you really feel.
242363
perhaps you can say it without a single word. you can give him attention more than usually, take good care, always be there when he needs you, or some sort like that. love does not always came through words.
818349
It sounds like you both moved a bit too fast and now he's trying to back off a bit.  If you've only been together a bit over a month, it's a bit too soon for most people to be totally in love.  Just give him his space and if he does love you, your relationship will flourish.  If he doesn't love you and he doesn't "try" in your relationship, then you don't need him!\n(The further you get in a relationship, the less often you feel the need to say "I love you".)