My boyfriend saw me hugging on another guy and is mad at me.Is it write for him to be mad at me?
400096
If your boyfriend was mature, he would not have gotten jealous. What he has to understand is that everyone has a past: Past relationships, old friends, etc. It's all about maturity, not jealousy.\nMy boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We're both understanding about each others past. Maybe you need to seat down and talk to him about unresolved issues
624378
Stop worrying about it.  He is probably feeling a bit insecure that you were watching another man, blah blah blah.  Give him his confidence back, if you really feel you are in love with him.  Not encouraging anything.. I don twant to get into trouble for the advice.  But do whats right, and make him feel loved again.
649557
Look, if it hurts your feelings then it's disrespectful.  Guys can look all they like but they can do it DISCREETLY and be damn sure we don't catch them.  And they should NEVER comment on another girl's hotness.  It's not nice.  It's rather rude.  Let him know it bothers you and that if he cares that it bothers you he needs to cool it.  If he doesn't care that it bothers you then YOU will begin to lose your ability to trust that this relationship is very meaningful.  No girl needs to be with any guy who is rude to the point of hurting her feelings.  Remember:  No boy is worth crying over and the one who is won't make you cry.
484440
well if ur in love with 2 people then lemme tell u something honey, ur not in love. your looking for an outlet to get revenge on ur boyfriend who is treating u badly.
1056571
I would bet that something else is bothering him, and you triggered an emotion.  It doesn't mean that there is any deep seated issue, and it doesn't mean there isn't.  In situations like that, I ignore the instance and bring it up later in a neutral and non condemning manner.  Then I see how the individual reacts once removed from the situation emotionally.
308149
It is natural to be upset but its OK to have friends of the opposite sex only watch for any changes in your boyfriend. If he is young this is the way it is with men. They love being around girls. Try to be friends together and not let it get to you. Make him see you as the interesting one by never letting him know it bothers you and never make any bad remarks about his friends as it will only push him away because he will do what he wants and you cannot and should not try to change him.
725782
Wow, If I were you I would sit him down and express how I felt about that situation and tell him that it can't happen again. Don't be to aggressive with him though, you don't want to push him away.  Explain to him that when he does stuff like that then it makes you feel like he isn't proud that your his girlfriend. Just let him know how you feel, otherwise he might not know he's doing something wrong. Remember communication is the key to everything.
1133751
He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
124063
i recently found myself in the same situation, so i know what you're going through.  the guy gets mad because he's worried that (like the other dude said), you guys are talking about him behind his back.  he may also be worried because you two may find out that he was cheating on both of you with the other one...as in my case.  Regardless, if you two really are friends and have lots in common, then screw the guy and thank him for a really good friend.  It'll really piss him off...
470345
no not normal. Very inconsiderate towards you. try talking to him later and calmly ask him to look at it from your pov
570048
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl?  If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine.  Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though.  Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried.  Whats more important?
823340
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
741821
First, did he tell you he went? If so and youre still upset, then you might wanna explore WHY this bothers you so much. He came home to you, right? If it's something he enjoys, why not let him go? Either way, have a talk with him and let him know your feelings.\n\nIf he didnt tell you he was going (or went - sometimes this stuff happens on a whim), then I feel you on feeling disrespected since it would appear he was doing something shady.\n\nAt any rate, Id have a talk with him...non-accusatory, respectful, etc...dont get him defensive because youll get nowhere...\n\nGood luck :-)
450772
Haha, I too myself have had similiar relationships. First of all, you guys enjoy making each other mad because both of you have a lot of feelings for each other. It's not that you guys mean to harm one another, it's just another method of "flirting". The both of you can try talking things out and see if you two can get serious. If you really want to get into a relationship & he cares how you feel, then you guys may "soften up". If he doesn't want to, then just continue the way you both are, as long as it does not bring harm.
1133650
If it is bothering you then that means he hurt your feelings. You need to say something to him. It doesn't have to mean or hurtful in return just let him know that what he said to you really hurt your feelings. then find out why he needed to do that. If he can't answer you then maybe you should find a new best guyfriend. Who needs a friend to "cuss" them out and be little them. You are better than that. Any person is. Good luck.
322781
My dear girl, I could not follow your explanation, but as far as treating you wrong, does it feel wrong?  If the answer is yes, then you already know the answer.  Don't let him push you around.
855262
NO NO NO, YOUR NOT WRONG FOR BEING ANGRY, YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE ,WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU SHOULD SUPPORT AND UPLIFT ONE ANOTHER NOT TAKE PEOPLE FOR GRANTED. STOP TAKING CARE OF HIM SURPRISE HIM AND DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING