i am so scared to talk to a girl that i like. any body can help me with this?
408348
practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become. Girls look for confidence in a guy, one who can express them self. You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to her, dont worry though, shyness wears off, Good luck
337848
Yes, that would freak her out badly and you would completely blow it, she would never want to talk to you in her life. Look, you're in the same class, talk about homework, ok? Break her in easy. Tell her her outfit is nice. Ask her how her weekend went. Tell her about the family reunion you just went to or something like that. See if she smiles or if she seems irritated that you dare to talk to her. If you like her smile, tell her, "You have such a nice smile, you should smile more often." She will get the idea that you are interested, then you can confirm it. \n\nA word of warning: I hope she turns out to be the one, but sometimes really pretty girls haven't bothered to develop anything else; they depend on their beauty and don't have a pleasant voice or a nice personality or interesting hobbies, or anything. Show her what you have to offer and good luck!
405685
Why can't you talk to her? If it is because you did something stupid to her, then karma has come into play. If it is because you're afraid of saying something stupid, then just make small talk for a while then take the bigger step...it's like learning to walk.
229885
It really is not all that hard. Go up to her and try talking to her unless you already do. Then when you get to talk to her and know her better you might be ready to take the next step to writting her a not or in your case have a friend that you trust go up to her and ask her what she thinks of you and if it is an okay answer your friend would then say well that is a relief because he really likes you and was woundering if you would go out with him
970755
Just ask her out. The worst that can happen is she'll say "no". As a girl, I personally am tired of guys being too scared to make a move... so make a move!!! ;)
434858
You two must be very cute...\nI think you're far from ruining your relationship :)\nIf you really are scared of this, investigate a little bit more with your friends, to make sure that she really feels something more of friendhip for you, and then if she does, please come on!\n\nIt's going to be great, because you know her well in many ways so far, but you're going to discover each other in a very different other way...
888018
go on aa date with her so you are alone and not distracted. is she goes on the date with you she must be into you so no worries because she obiously has feelings for you too. just throw it into the conversation like normal. then you shouldnt feel scared. good luck!
631498
heyy buddy!\n\nyou need to have some confidence! Whatever your'e feeling let it loose.\nTell her you think shes an awesome girl and that you would love to hang out sometime. Dont be toooo straight forward cuz at 13 she might get a little scared but make her feel comfortable.
724836
oh lord. I know what you mean. been there done that. and let me tell you girl.. unfortunately.. it's always going to be awkward at first. there's no escaping it really. I mean you can make a list of things to talk about.. and though it is quite helpful.. it's not going to make that anxious feeling in your stomach go away. but that's the beauty of conversation. it's like writing an essay or a story.. once you get started it's easy as pie. keep in mind that the guy is prolly nervous himself, but you're never going to get to know anyone by avoiding them. just be chill.. try not to show you're a lil scared (I know yeah right huh? lol) and keep that list near by. \n\nhope I've been helpful!
48305
Well i know how you feel b/c i am a shy girl, but you have to think if you cant ever talk to her than how will she ever to get to know you. I know popular people can be very intimidating but just work up the courage to talk to her. Once you do you'll feel alot better n then it'll be alot easier to approach people.
955747
Talk to her or some other person you trust about it. It depends on the person for what you should do. If you think that the girl you like would talk about it with you, I'd recommend talking to her rather than to another person you trust.
291287
♥Take a chance! Do more than just say Hi, try having a conversation and find out what she likes and more about her. If it's right for you two, things will go smoothly from there. Good luck!♥
377185
JUST WHAT YOU SAID...CASUALLY AND CALMLY EXPRESS YOUR FEELING TO HER AND SEE HER RESPONSE. YOU NEVER KNOW, SHE MIGHT BE LIKING YOU TOO.........IF SHE GETS SCARED OFF, IT WASN'T MEANT TO BE AND YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWER.
1055988
Well the first thing you have to do is stop being afraid!  A date will never happen until you get the nerve up to talk to her and ask her out.  Even then she may reject you due to peer pressure since her friends don't like you but if she does then she isn't worth pursuing anyway.  Good luck!
1017750
Whatever you, do NOT tell this girl that you like her. Trust me, by doing that you will scare her almost everytime. By scareing her, not only will she not want to go out with you she may not want to be as close. \n\nInstead, you have to make her like you. The best thing to do is to start by flirting with her a little bit. Not a lot, but minor stuff to see where you're at. For example, start off by telling her that she has nice clothes today, or something like that. Joke around with her alittle bit, for example when she does something funny call her "you're a dork! haha", just don't be too mean. Also try getting in her personal space more, and try touching her more like if you hand her something try touching her hand a little bit. If she is receptive to the flirting increase the intensity, and see where that gets you.\n\nHaving confedence will also help you out greatly if yodon't display it already. Basically when you talk to her keep your head up, speak in a tone of voice that is hearable, and smile often. Also, stop being her boy-toy. What I mean is if she constantly ask you for favors resist because this wil prove to her that you're not confedent. Don't do girly stuff with her either like if she ask you if she can put make-up on her say "no way!"\n\nNow if you do these things, evetually you will be able totell if she is intrested. Here are some signs that she likes you: 1.) Smiles often, and makes good eye contact. 2.) Her eyes will dialte (get bigger) when sh talks to you (this will happn naturally in darklight). 3.) She trys to touch you often when speaking to you. 4.) Plays with her hair often. 5.) Gets pidgen toe'd (she bends one toe behind the other foot). 6.) Sinks her head into her shoulders like shes shrgging, but in a shy way. 7.) Tilts her head forward, and looks up at you with her eyes. 8.) Reveals her palms to yu somehow. 9.) Maintains uncomfortable amounts of eye contact. 10.) Matches rythmic tones of you body, for example if she matches the tone of your voice or subtle moements.\n\nIf she shows you a majority of these signs, this means she is attracted to you. If that is the case ask her to do something with you, then start asking her out on dates. If things work out, then ask her out. \n\nWhatever you do,stay out of the friends zone a best as possible.
493425
i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!
286456
you need to learn more about yourself first, before you can connect up with someone else.  if you are scared, there is a reason.  talk with someone, write your feelings out, see if you can figure out why you are scared.   you are valuable, don't allow yourself to be pressured into anything you don't wish to do.