I keep making my girlfriend agrevated at be bacause i dont knot what to say to her. any ideas?
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IT DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER...IF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING FOR OVER 6 MONTHS AND STILL DON'T KNOW HOW TO COMMUNICATE , THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG AND THE TWO OF YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT AND TRY TO OPEN UP TO EACH OTHER. IT MAY BE THAT YOU ARE SO IN LOVE WITH HER THAT YOU ARE SCARRED SAYING THE WRONG THING MIGHT END YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BUT IF YOU HAVE TO ASK THIS QUESTION IT MUST BE WEIGHING ON YOUR MIND. JUST TRY TO TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL AND HOPEFULLY SHE FEELS THE SAME AND YOU BOTH CAN START TALKING ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL WITHOUT BEING SCARRED.
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ummmm...relax yaar..i understand how u feel.. well some people will irritate u..but neva listen to it,u know how you are!!for few days she will continue the same,but if she finds no response from your side then she will leave you soon!do u wanna b smart??so just ignore it..if you behave as how she is,then there will not be any difference between u and her..so adjust it for few days she will leave you soon..dont worry be cool...
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Tell them whatever they are doing is hurting you emotionally. Be honest and don't overgeneralize. If you say "You always do this" then you will get nowhere. Also be specific, if you say they are a mean person then that will get you nowhere. Don't bring up past arguments, it will only make things worse. Stick to a specific problem you have and seek a compromise. Either you both are winners, or noone win's at all.
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okay, well she is your girlfriend and you care about her right? so what are you waiting for romeo, stand up for her! let the guy know he needs to step off...tell him to go pick on someone else...fighting is never the answer, and it definately won't make her like you more if you try to look tough and fight the guy...especially if it ends badly. be a good boyfriend and support your girlfriend! she doesn't deserve to be teased and you need to stand up for her! :)
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Look her in the eye, be interested in HER and her answers, respect that there are things you may not agree on. That is okay....differences are good and keep it friendly. Don't raise your voice unless it is in excitement. If you think you will yell, say you need to leave the room for a moment to gain control and come back when you are able to talk w/o anger...she will think you are the greatest boyfriend she ever had!
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Dont keep telling her, show her, actions speak louder than words
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Just be honest and explain to her exactly what you just said. Well maybe in modified girlfriend terms...if she doesn't like it or get mad at you for it, that's her problem because it's not like you're trying to be mean, and it's not like you don't want to talk to her. She'll get over it, she has to. Don't take any crap for it later either. Not saying that she does that, but if she does. Be the dominant one and don't let her control you!
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Go for a walk and just have time on your own.  Talk to yourself about what got you so pissed off, what you should have said, what you are going to say, but without screaming or yelling so they could know that you really mean it and that you are not just talking because you are mad.....  I think that is the best as it will prevent you from getting physical with the person who caused you to get the way that you are and you will avoid saying something that you will or may regret....
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~~Talk to her about it, and tell her how it made you feel.  Communication is important in building a solid relationship. Sometimes out of anger people do things to make the other person angry as well.  That isn't an excuse for it to happen, that is just a fact that it happens.  Tell her how it made you feel, be honest with her, in a non-accusing manner, assuring her that you love her and want to make things right.~~
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If you apologized and you were sincere, there is not much else you can do. Did she forgive you? Maybe you can just keep being nice and take her somewhere special to make it up to her. Most important, trust her. Possesive men are scary. Show her that you trust her and maybe not call her too much. Let her have some freedom. Good Luck.
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Cry then pray for her and pray for the words to come to you what to say to her because I really don't know what to say. Just reamber everyone makes mistakes and just let her know that even though you dont aprove you still love her but tell her she needs to respect herself more then that. And that you really hope she dosent do it again. Shes over 18 theres really nothing you can do. But just dont dis own her she is your daughter. And reamber All people makes mistakes.
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Stop messing up maybe.  Sometimes people won't take apology's if you keep repeating your bad actions. Show her your sorry instead of saying it.
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Ask her - if you don't mind spending the rest of the day being shouted at for absolutely no reason.  \nLook at it this way- if she's mad at you and you don't realise or understand what you've done then you've got no chance.  \nBuy her something shiny.
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Listen to Sassy.Also you can look on your own.\nIn the meantime try to control yourself,don't lash out at her when she makes one of her digs. It sounds like you are\nboth decent people stuck in a tough situation. Don't let\nwords be spoken that can't be taken back-suck it up,take a deep breath,leave the room if you have to.When you have your\nown place it'll be easier to get along and repair the damage.Good luck and remember you're both human.
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sorry to hear that.. I am going through the same issue..Your gf deserves to have ur trust, and u hers...Well, you should talk to her.. and explain your reasons.. That is wat I had to do too..I love him so much too and I really do not want to let him go..Talk to her and tell her the yelling thing doesn't work...teach her some other strategies to express herself..I wish everything works out for ya..
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prove to her u won't give her anymore problems.\nstop talking bout it, and be about it!
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I know where this girl is coming from. I think she is pushing you to see if you will take off at the first sight of trouble. Thats what I do. It's a way for her to protect herself from jerks. It's not fair to you but it sounds like she's been hurt before. Go to her and talk to her face to face, not on the phone. Tell her that she is pushing you away and that is why you are pushing back. Ask her flat out if she wants this relationship to continue. If she does then you have to make a personal decision, can you stick around through the ups and downs? If so then tell her you will wait it out. Let her get comfortable with you and trust you. If she pushes too much and you no longer feel wanted at all then tell her that, let her know that it can't continue, and that you need more than that.