How do I know if he is cheating?
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I think he is cheating. Those are sighns
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He may or may not be cheating.  But whatever he is doing, he is AT RISK for at least cheating EMOTIONALLY.  love2utam has it right.  If it's an affair of the heart (even without sex) it's still an affair.\n\nEven if he has lots of friends, and they are genuine friends with absolutely no romantic/emotional attachment, if he still spends a good deal of time with them, he has difficulty prioritizing his time.  He spreads himself too thin.\n\nYOU should be the FIRST person he comes to for fulfilling his needs.  ALL of his needs.
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I saw on some tv show or another that if you suspect your partner of cheating, then they probably are.\n\nBUT:         Don't accuse him without proof!!!\n\nIf he's "working late" then find an excuse to call him at work.\nIf he's going out with his buddies and staying out late then go to where he hangs out and see if he's really there, and who he's with.\nIf he's disappearing and you can't track him down, and don't believe him when he tells you where he was then don't go screeching that you don't believe him.  Next time he's disappearing, follow him.\n\nDon't go asking his friends though, that would put them in an awkward position, and what if you're wrong...
591262
I dont think so - but honestly, if you think your mate is cheating he/she probably is...
999430
Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
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Follow him or hire a private detective to follow him.  Check out his cell phone and wallet.  If he is cheating...dump the loser!  Women do have that intuition thing...if you think he is, he probably is!
31066
Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
1133824
He's probably cheating on you. Or he maybe gay. Or worse yet, both.
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if it's more than one person independently telling you then he is probably cheating.\n\nlook at the character of the people telling you and decide if they would want to hurt you; or keep you from hurt
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The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
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why do you think he's cheating?
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you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
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Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
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Two ways - covert and overt\nCovert you dont let him know you suspect anything.  In your relationship, make him feel the best and most loved of any man in the world.  This will likely make him show some emotional signs.  Meanwhile, snoop like a PI.  Check phone conversations, you can request a list of the numbers called from your phone company.  Check the bank statements, they will tell you where all the money was spent if by credit or debit.  Keep tabs on the times he leaves and comes home.  Check with work if he says he worked late, or with his friends if he said he is out with them.\n\nOvert - in addition to doing everything in the covert status (except treating him like a king) straight out ask him, get his email password, dont let him talk on the phone without you being there - just make it so hard on him that he breaks or it takes such a toll on his other relationship, he shows some emotional signs.  \n\nSigns he is cheating - a change in sexual appetite, he has some new things that you didnt get for him, money missing from the bank account without knowing where it went, a change in eating habits - if he has already eaten with her, he wont eat at home.\n\nI wish you luck!
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Here are some signs that your man is cheating:\n\n1. Wearing Cologne\n2. Buying new,or changing clothes more often\n3. Making excuses to go out\n4. Concealing his wallet, cell phone, ect..\n5. Looking at the clock a lot. \n6. Sometimes being even nicer to you, because he feels guilty\n7. Unexplained lapse in time when he is gone.\n\nThese are a few things to consider any major changes in routine can become questionable. Men aren't that smart and tend to get caught because they are preoccupied with there affair. Good Luck to ya.. If all else fails Call the reality show Cheaters and have him followed HAHA
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If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
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What makes you think he is cheating?  If you can't trust him, how can you have a good relationship?  A relationship that lasts has a lot of trust and honesty between the two people.  You have to ask yourself why do you think that he would be cheating?  Though, past experiences could cause you to think that way.  You should always give them the benefit of the doubt.  Plus, an hour away isn't too far. =)