What would you do if you don't have self confidence?
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Look for the nearest wallpapered wall and make like a fly.  I'd observe all the sociable people and try to mimic them.
218285
be yourself and have self-confidence...don't think in advance as you can be failed or become a loser...everyone fails and we must admit that. be responsible enough being a human and always think that whoever person is in authority, he also gets failure because no one is perfect in this world even you and me.
61699
Just try to make yourself stronger. don't think of poeple talkings much and improve your self confidence.\nI was like this when I was younger but I released being sensentive too much is not worth at all.
698062
It's not self-confidence really. Mine is really just frustration. I eat a lot but for some reason I really don't gain any weight. I also workoutevery other day and play hockey once a week, but still eat a lot and really never see results. Sometimes I feel that people think I'm weak because I have muscle, but you really can't tell that I have muscle because I'm so thin. It's a little self-confidence, but overall, it's probably 94% frustration and 6% self-confidence problems.
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You gain confidence by believing in your abilities.  By succeeding in things you do.  They don't have to be big things, little victories count too. What qualities do you possess that others admire? Make a list if you like.  \n\nIf you can see yourself succeeding, your confidence will grow. Put yourself in a position to succeed in whatever you do.  Good luck!
250497
BUY THE DR. PHIL BOOK OR ANY BOOK ON SELF-ESTEEM.  WHY DID YOU 'LOSE' YOUR CONFIDENCE?
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You have low confidence.
74157
You just ask him out.  If you do not like yourself you will have problems.  Self-confidence is attractive to anyone, be sure of yourself, walk up to him and ask him out. Then you will be done wondering.  Always ask.
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Start a physical program with a meditation component.  I would recommend yoga.  Breathe and do the yoga.  Do it several times a week.  This will change how you feel.  Knowing yourself through your body will increase your confidence.  Your body is what you take into the world with you.  Work on getting in touch with your body through movement practices.
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I have a few suggestions on overcoming your problems.\n\nYou need to love yourself for the person you are, tell yourself daily that you are strong and confident (preferably when you feel the least). Everyone is unique. Everyone is different. Good posture might help with your confidence, it sends a confident vibe.. \n\nTry acting confident for a day, you'll see you might actually like it.. and it's not as difficult to pick it up after a while as it sounds.\nSometimes you might feel a little cheesy but it will really help.\n\nAs for the concentration.. work on developing patience and listening skills. If you are genuinely interested in what a person has to say, it is easier to listen. Or you could try tapping one finger on your leg, I know someone who does this. (discreetly though) Don't make it look like you are impatient. \n\nI hope this helps
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Have you thought of counselling? That may be the 'easier' road you are looking for. Ultimately though, you will have to talk to others in social events to be able to learn to do it with confidence. Experiencing life like travelling, can be a good way to build your confidence, for the more you know about something, the more you can talk about it with passion.\nGaining a better view of ones self (self esteem) can also come when presented with challenges that one overcomes, so challenge yourself-give yourself tasks that you know are hard, but that you are able to overcome. Do you have a fear of spiders for example? Overcome that and you will certainly want to tell people about it! I did!!\n If you would like to chat more about it, feel free to email me from the link at my avatar and I'll try to help.\n\nbest of luck
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the way you see yourself and the way other people see you are always completely different for everyone. self esteem and confidence seem to be whats up with you and you can change how you feel about that,  with the right help, so go for it but remember its not what you look like but what you act like that really matters.
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Take karate or judo lessons, read a good self-help book on confidence and projecting a better image of yourself.  Eat well, bulk up a little bit, do situps and push ups every day, work out with weights.\n\nYou'll be ok.
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by increasing your self confidence
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a person with low self esteem, well since i used to have REALLY low self esteem.. heres how I acted..\n\nNever talk... Head down all the time... Never fights back to ANYTHING... just takes everything... basically it
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If you'd do anything, how about believing in yourself?\n\nChallenge your thinking. When you think about yourself negitively, think, is this true? Do other people really think this? If someone else was like that, how would you think about them? A lot of the time, it's not as bad as you really think. Do things that you enjoy. Meet up with friends, go shopping or simply sit in the sun and read. Whatever you do, make sure you enjoy yourself and reward yourself for being special!!
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Weakness is all in your head. Become more self confident, and you will be a stronger person.