Are all guys gay or is that something they choose to do?
415471
Being Gay is not a choice and science is finding more and more Biological connections to being gay all the time.  Do you think that someone would willing choose to lead a lifestyle that their friends and family would hate?  No, you are who you are and being gay is just one of those things.  Now not saying that someone can't choose to be gay, if fact right now there are no studies showing any biological connections with bisexuallity, and it is commonly thought that bisexuallity is a choice.
193036
at least 6 guys? he's gay, or maybe bi- if he really does like females too.  but 6 dude's is no longer curiousity.
1054883
I believe it is a choice.  Here is my reasoning.  Right here on the Answers site I have asked both of these questions: "Straight women, do you ever fantasize about sex with girls?" and "Straight men, do you ever fantasize about sex with men"  For the first question I literally got about 40 answers saying yes (and one no), but the secon question all answers were no, exept for answers from guys stating that they were gay, but were SURE that straight men MUST think about guys.\n\nSo... 99% of straight women will openly admit fantasies about women, but no straight men will admit fantasies about men.  This of course leads me to believe that ALL THE STRAIGHT MEN ARE LYING, and ALL straight people THINK about sex with the same sex, that then leaves ALL PEOPLE with the choice of who they WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH.\n\nThank you for listening!
114221
As a gay person I can honestly say that I don't know. It just is the way I feel naturaly. Like being streight is natural for you. We don't ask to be this way and life would be much easier for us if we had a choice but we don't it is just our nature
868596
First, do you think most people know that you are bi or gay?\nOf course not. So, the guys that you believe are straight, could very well be bi or gay. Keep your chin up!!!
1006956
This doesn't necessarily mean he is gay.  Some people are just open to trying new things.  Many men enjoy the feeling as do women.  I have a friend who is very straight but enjoys anal sex.  Dont read too much into it.
932676
With everything else you've told us, he seems more and more likely to be open to the idea, if not full out bi.  But if were just going to take the chest thing as the only evidence, I'd say 'nah'- I could see a straight guy acting similarly if he was secure in his sexuality and good friends- not every straight guy would freak out, you know?\n\nNow, a better litmus test would be to maybe brush his lips . . . nobody's going to take that as an accident.  Of course, that's probably too forward, but I wanna see the two of ya'll get together!  I feel like I'm involved in some suspenseful soap opera with all your questions!\n\nMy opinion, though, is that he's up for something, even if it's just curiousness or opennness about the idea.
37876
being gay is a choice.
1016243
the question is... are you gay? becoz if you are, you're up to it. and if you're not, then you're straight. it's either you go that way or this way
522359
being gay? no.  you are,or are not.\n\nacting on same sex attraction?  yes.\n\nnot acting on same sex attraction to please others, rather than living the way you're built to? also a choice, but a stupid one.
1022020
being gay is not a choose.  If it were a choose I would be straight, when I was growing up I prayed everyday for God to make me straight but now I;ve learned to be happy with myself and who I am.
1090321
Just as one cannot say what ALL women want in men, since tastes vary widely, (one would not make the general statement that all women want hairy men or all women want smooth men) you also cannot make the same sweeping statements about gay men.\n\nThere are gay men who like their men feminine. There are gay men who like their men masculine (or hairy, or smooth, or sensitive, or rough). \n\nStraight men may like their women skinny or hefty (or sensitive, or commanding, or domineering). Gay men also have a wide variety of preferences, so to pigeonhole all gay men as having one similar set of preferences is no more reasonable than pigeonholing any one else - male, female, gay, straight, or bi.
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Yes I had a guy friend that always kicked it with the girls we all figured he was gay little did we know he was just around to get all the gossip we would talk about and later tell all the guys we found out he wasn't gay when he asked one of the girls out than we figured he was Bi than is when we found out about everything! We all kicked his butt but later forgave him.
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It's cool that you're open minded, but you really have to find what you're compfortable with and not just do things for the hell of it. Being Bi or gay is not just something you just choose to do. It is a part of who you are. As far as what girls like, that is really something that varies from person to person. You would need to find out from your partner.
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That's the way gays naturally act if they are effeminate. Not all gays are that way. Many are people you would not suspect. They don't do it to draw attention. They do it because that's the way they are.
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I do not think that being gay is a choice. I think that one is born to sexually be whatever they will be. Have you ever seen them gay dudes that have more feminine traits then most women do? There is no way that anyone can pretend that.I just think that you are born what you are. And why would anyone "choose" to be gay? It isnt a lifestyle that is easily embraced by the majority of the population. You are discriminated against and there are people that redicule your choice.The person you choose as a partner, in more places then not, cannot be covered under your insurance.
190354
every guy or boy or man