Are there really men out there that just love you for being you and not what you look like?
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Honestly men are divided even amongst themselves on this matter. For example, many are out for the one night stand... they are very easy to spot by BOTH sexes. Then there are the "I'm not sure I want a relation" guy who teases and then when it comes to the moment of truth, they flake. Then there are the type that just loves YOU... the feeling that you give when you talk seriously, when you smile.... and this is a killer... being you and standing for what you believe... being a woman. Of course we men are programmed to go wherever the opportunity is... but trust me when I write that there is a small percentage of us who dream and wish for a real woman to come our way and be our life partner.
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Yes, I think so.\n\nPersonally, for me, short men are unattractive. (no pun intended). I am short myself, so I do not want to date someone who is smaller than me or just the same as my height. It looks really weird for me. But really do not get me wrong, I am not being shallow for setting physical standards, but hey, it's just me.
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Well, I guess that some men are not superficial and they appreciate having you instead of what material things that you can give them. And yeah women appreciate men in the kitcken especially if they are the ones doing the cooking for a change and not bothering in the kitcken to ask "What's for chow?" :-)
655883
i dont know but people tell me short men are atractive
1057484
You're taking the wrong approach.  You're trying to get a guy to love you by being something you're not.  You should be looking for a guy who loves you for who you are.
763133
Yes there are decent men out there....love us never having to say you're sorry, because if you love someone, you wouldn't hurt them in the first place....a women's worth is so high, they are the life bringer into this world.........treating a lady is easy... if you truly love them....IT comes so naturally...
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Very caring, respectful of women, nice looking, funny, never down, makes me laugh, loves to hug and kiss me, show me off to friends and public, honors me, adores me, makes a living (not a bumb), always says what he means and means what he says, never lies!  Hmmmm, wonder if there is someone out there like this?
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I am sure you are very pretty. This guy may genuinely like you. That is quite possible. Perhaps it is not only your looks but your inner beauty is also beckoning to him. I have seen women that I thought didn't look that great and as I got to know them they were transformed. Their inner beauty shined through. \n\nAlso honey don't let you low opinion of yourself sabotage your life.
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No, they do exist. Keep looking....they may not be the most flamboyant or even the best looking, but to find the nice guy, get passed the wrapper...
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no thats not true! not all people are for looks , some are for personality and how you treat them sometimes...... pick me best answer plz!
869443
You probably are...wouldn't know though......  the things I look for in a guy have nothing to do with what he looks like.....  good sense of humor, caring, generous, fun, honest......  someone i can relate to.  Good looks are just a bonus to a beautiful soul.
36549
Not all guys are... Just the ones you know...
113746
yes, there are guys out there who are honest and are seriously looking for a lasting relationship.
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Alot and not alot all are different but the thing I like most about guys is most are truly there when you really need them!
590958
not all guys are like that, the cool jerks are, but nice guys actually care about you
1039662
thts a misconception not all they love men
225091
I tend to choose a man for his character.  Do I like who I am when I am with him?  Am I comfortable around him?  Is he respected in the community?  Other things like that.  With that said, a nice face and fly size is a bonus.