Is he still talking to her?
407802
THERE IS NO REAL WAY TO NO THIS,BUT IF YOU LOVE HIM JUST ASSUME THAT IT IS AND DONT HARP ON IT BECAUSE IF THERE IS A CHANCE THAT IT IS OVER AND YOU HARP ON IT,IT WILL ALSO BE OVER BETWEEN YOU TWO TOO.HOPE FOR THE BEST AND BE HAPPY AS HARD AS IT MAY SEEM
767477
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
536689
Maybe he has a girlfriend?
408364
Yes, I would say that you are. I believe the only reason she talked to you was to transition and to fill a void that her BF left and then when her former BF changed it was a reason to give him another chance. I understand you think she likes you, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Leave them alone and if she gets hurt again you will know when to make your move.
576107
Has he got a crush on you or what girl
539184
There is a strong chance that he is NOT cheating!!!!\nBUT he is surely not attracted to here sexually.... BUT he might like something in her that he values more than sex.... that could be a reason that he is still around!
914428
She's the ex,no matter what she says or wants he's with you now and that says it all,if you trust him this shouldn't be a problem. Don't let this break you up, you have made the effort to be friends with her too by asking to meet her so if I were you I would just let it drop. Good luck x
2484
Personally, I would say no.  He sounds like he does not know what he wants, or worse, like he was waiting to see what would happen with her before he moved on to you.  And you should never accept being someone's second choice.
82691
Yeah, he's worth being friends with. Put yourself in his shoes - who would you pay more attention to, her or him? I'm assuming you're a guy here.
479545
I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
469076
Well, the flirting is a good start on your part, and a good sign on his. Try and move the conversation around to his girlfriend to see is he has moved on. If not, put your arm around him or on him etc SYMPATHETICALLY. If he likes this, you can do it more often. Ask pertinant questions. Some males are wimps and like the women to be in control. If he has already done stuff like this though, its time to let him take the driving seat. Remember though, go with your heart, but you may have a better relationship if you are just friends.
657685
Give her time to breath and decide the next course of action. Sometimes we woman are polite about things and need to figure out what to say to a guy. She might be busy too. That's a good sign because she has her own life. Don't rush it.
39846
Hes not into her like he was. She used to be fun. He might move on...
80804
Because he is still in love with her. I apologize, but if the man is spoiling his ex then maybe you need to just be friends for now until he learns his lesson the hard way and comes back to the one good thing that he turned away...
345310
Tell him how you feel about him talking to this chick.  If he still talks to her, then dump him.  You two were together before he knew her.  So after ya'll got back together he shouldn't be talking with her anymore.  That's lack of respect.
503590
Not neccesarily. How long has he known her? Do you know their exsisting relationship? If he just met her, or has only known her for a year or so - chances are, he is cheating. Or testing you. Either way, keep your eyes open.
514307
it seems like he actually is interested in her and she can sense that. And it probably makes her uncomfortable to be around him when she knows she doesnt feel the same. Ask her why, see what she says.  Thats the only wa you will really know