how do i turn a person from being gay to becoming straight?
415108
you have to stop feeding then fruit.\n\nThat's what I did and it worked
1157498
I doubt it. If you're truly homosexual then I don't think you can change your preference. I think some people aren't truly homosexual... so if you only have "tendancies" then I don't know... you'd have to figure that out.
236197
I believe ppl are born gay, like gay guys have to many female hormones, or their brains are just built differently then straight guys. There arent any cures to homosexuality, he can't supress teh feelings he has towards other men, hes got to work on excepting himself, this is his real cure, all the energy it will take out of him to " cure his homosexuality" is better used for him to go to a therapist and talk about how he feels
70953
Well, you can never "make" someone understand anything, that is what makes it the worst.  The best you can do is remind her that lesbians are normal, feeling, people just like everone else.  Just because they feel differently doesn't mean they are wrong.  Different taiste, and attractions, doesn't mean a person is going to hell, and it doesn't mean they need to be saved.  If your friend refuses to see things from an accepting point of view, then you could try asking her this; "What if your mom recently realised she was gay, do you think you would suddenly decide she wasn't worth your time too??"
1102938
If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!
565762
one of my cousins was the same way, and now he is straight, married, with kids and everything. I think he is too young so you can't tell, but if he happens to be gay or transgender he is going to need a lot of love and support.
1086887
First off normal is subjective.\n\nSecondly, you don't become gay, you are or you aren't (the exception tends to be gays who play straight because of the hatred and self-loathing heaped on them by the religious hypocrites of the world)\n\nThird, gay is NOT a disease so it needs no cure.\n\nFourth, if someone claims they changed through faith then good for you, disillusionment is a wonderful opiate.\n\nFive, spare me the "I'm really curious" bit, you already believe what you believe, so you really don't care what the truth is.  \n\nThis question is baiting so just go on your merry way and leave gays alone.
59881
Your question is a very difficult question to answer.  By reading your question it says that you went gay/bi because a girl hurt you really bad and you decided to stay away from females for awhile.  I can understand that.  Now you are saying that you do not want to be gay/bi and that you want to have a family and think that a persons sexual prefrence is a way to get into heaven.(If such a place exists).  From the look of your history I see that you must have liked the men because you have had more of them.  The way I see it you have lived the last six years of you live with a pattern: 1,3,1,3,and? I say continue on and adopt.  Don't put your self in turmoil and remeber the end is only the begining.
1096665
Certainly they do not want to be a gay neither lesbian. They just want to be straight. But the desire just come away. No one knows it, God only knows it. \n\nThere are many factors that affect it.\n\nYes, they can become straight and raise a family. Just go deeply into your own self and forgive your self & try not to blame your own self. Keep on praying, God will open the way.
916761
No one "becomes" gay. Sexual identity is determined by genetics, not personal preference. Being gay does not mean only sleeping with someone of the same sex, but loving them. Think about the way a man loves a woman, and why he doesn't love his best friend the same way. Being gay is the same thing, only with different genders. A person who is gay goes through puberty and realizes they have an attraction for the same sex, yet many gays state that they sensed they were "different" since they were children as young as five. Sometimes, people change their preference, but it is due to brain chemistry and not outside forces (this is why praying and porn do not work to change sexual identity.)\nMany straight men and women are afraid watching a gay film or hanging around gays will make them gay, but it's not true. Otherwise, a gay could become straight by hanging around straight people!
138374
Dude, you're just gay nothing to worry about. There are millions of gay people in this country. Accept who you are because you really can't change something as fundamental as your sexual orientation. Take pride in it and find some other gay people to be friends with and maybe more. good luck!!
880743
Go on and ask him. He's very open to the idea of being gay. You guys should help each other discover your sexual orientations and preferences. But don't rush into things that fast because you guys are still young. People switch teams all the time. Just take things a step at a time. Focus on discovering who you really are. G'luck!
972589
You should try everything once.  You might like it.  And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality.  Get over it, it won't make you gay.
1025711
I played with GI Joe when I was growing up but so did my best friend and He is as straight as an arrow . Nothing can make you gay you are born gay . Sexual orientation is determined before birth and no one  can choose to be gay or straight . Nothing can make them gay or straight .  A straight man can't decide he is gay and change his attraction for women and a gay man can't decide he is straight and  change his attraction for men .
1034097
If you are not gay...politely tell them you are not interested and tha you are not gay..."WHY NOT ASK DON" (the poster above) is gay and is in hiding till someone comes along and gives him what he wants!!! The gayness will come out, HE IS JUST HIDING IN THE GAY SECTION OF YAHOO ANSWERS
483038
Wait...he's not getting a sex change so that he can be gay, is he?  If so...don't worry about it.  I imagine sex change operations to be quite expensive, and I highly doubt someone would go through with the experience just to be with a girl that isn't attracted to males.
508139
Not all men who turn gay become obviously feminine. Some people keep their same personality, just change their orientation.\n\nOf course, there are certain types who do become more feminine. They may try talking with more of a lisp. Many tend to have a good sense of fashion, thus, dressing well. Others may enjoy doing things that are more female orientated: shopping, clothes, jewelry, stuffed animals, and the like.\n\nBut, you have to keep in mind, there are the types who you would never expect to be gay, because they never change their personality. I have a brother like this. He is still manly, but is more sensitive and understanding then most guys. His partner is very much the same way. They don't stand out in a crowd. \n\nSo... some signs are obvious, and some signs are very subtle. Good luck sorting them out!