Is it easier to let go?
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Men are not naturally jealous hypocrites.  That’s as bad as saying all woman are shallow senseless shop alcoholics.  You should be wary of people who are so easily given to generalization to explain away their troubles.\n\nHowever, if all your problems are due to such a simple misunderstanding then let go.  If you don’t you will endlessly have to walk on ice in a senselessly fragile relationship that is perpetually on the verge of rupturing. Find someone who is a little more mature and you will be a lot happier.
71111
It is always easier to say then do. People mean well. They are saying move on because they want to see you happy and going on with you life. Also I believe we say 'move on,' because we all have been there at one time or another. It never is easy though. You need to go through your pain and feel the loss. Cry about it, talk about it and work through it. Everybody's time table is different. People talk from experience and if you are in love with a man that is either married or has another girlfriend then eventually you need to realize that this type of situation is a 'no win' situation. You are deserving of having someone who can be available for you. We cannot change others. Cannot force others to stay with us. So take your time and when you are ready to move on...you will. However; if you are holding on to this person you are truly causing harm to your own self esteem. Moving on and holding on a two different situations.  Good luck! \nDr. Karen
582172
Because, deep within your heart, you still want to trust that person no-matter how your mind denies that desire.  Let-Go is always the most difficult task, take it slow and, be gentle with yourself.
1169274
no i wouldnt but its always easier said then done. I wouldnt wana stay with the guy but im an emotional person and fall in love easily so i would find it hard to let go despite evrything that is goin on
351774
well... its on the "easy side".... I wouldn't recommend anyone giving themselves up that easy..... But it can be hard in a situation of pure pressure, just learn from your mistake; and you'll be coming out ahead.
1082387
Honey, you already admitted that the relationship was hard to handle. It's time to let it go. Perhaps you're annoyed that it wasn't you who ended it; or more probably that you were so easily replaced. Let it go. It's time for it to end and both of you need to get on with your lives.
916866
It depends if the guy can let go.  As soon as I break up (or rather they break up with me) I am READY to start a new one with an open heart.\n\nSo, it really depends if the person has TRULY let go!
343524
honesty hurts, bad. but, it usually works out ofr the best. try withdrawing from her and the things you do together. its not going to be easy but it will be best for both of u
997986
been into that situation. i can relate. well. that was a long time ago. letting go of sumnbody is the craziest thing that i did, i regretted. But i also think it the only way to assess myself and know my true self.\n\nthere will always be trade offs.
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Of course!  People say that you can always find someone better...and you might, but what if your heart doesn't want or can't handle "better"?  \n\nUm, but there's that old saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours....".  I truly believe this is true.  \n\nI lost a really great guy almost a year ago.  Another great guy came into my life, but I didn't want him.  My heart cannot forget my ex.
249108
Yea. You have to let her go sometime though. Tell her how you feel.
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Sometimes you don't know when to give it up...sometimes it's better to let go, than to hang-on to something that will no longer serve you. You are also a little accident-prone---must begin to pay more attention to what is in front of you! You are a great organizer, except when it comes to yourself, then you prefer to go with the flow...Born under fixed-sign...29 degree Libra --- 1 degree Scorpio ... After October, your life seems to take on a little more momentum, and purpose! Keep on track, as the new year begins...
335666
I have had the same problem and no it isn't right it is more pain and agony on you especially if you even have the smallest of feelings for the person. I have hung on and tried and worked with it as a matter of fact this weekend I just called it quits myself. It hurts to much and it gives the other person multiple people at their becon call and your out in the cold.
261370
They absolutely do get better.  The hard part is believing you will feel better and not knowing exactly how long it will take.  It can be easier to move on, for some people, if they break all contact. Believe that better days are on the way for you.
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it really depends on you if you want to be with that new person then its better if you let go the one your in a relationship with before that person gets hurt and the las thing you wanna do is hurt someone cause it will make everything all worse
961033
was she hurt? if not she should let it go.
528295
Unfortunately its true... You have to let it go, you need to leave him and the children. Its for the best, not nice but it is for the best, and you will feel pain, but its better than them feeling 10 times more pain later on.