I don't want to hurt this girl, please help!!!?
407350
If you are her true friend then you will tell her exactly what you told us.  You are not going to go back with her but want to remain friends.  Just be open and honest.  It is the best policy.  And honestly she may get hurt if she has that deep of feelings for you but at least you will not have the guilt of "leading her on".
479662
don't do it if you don't wanna, it'll just seem a bit fake. I'm sure you do plenty for her anyway or she wouldn't be your girlfriend! just be yourself.
417006
Avoid her if at all possible but if that is not possible then I would try to not say anything to her.  Let her hit you first.  Your parents will totally understand if you are just defending yourself.  They would not want you to get beat up would they?
401574
Well, you might ( well probably) would offend her if say you did it in a non polite way. Try to ease into it, chewing some gum and then offering her some. If it is that big of a prob. then don't see her again. But yeah, on the first date, don't just blab it out, find a nice way to fix the prob.
575690
You can`t ... If you don`t want to be friends you should be honest. But you will hurt her feelings.. good luck..\nGod bless <><
170514
brake up with her man , its not that hard , you see whats happening here , you said so your self .\ndo you like looking like a fool over some girl that dosent even care for you ?\ncome on now ! you know what you need to do here !\nleave now and spare you pride .\nstay and be an idiot . its you call . witch will you do ?\ni think id leave if i where you !
352039
Tell her you didnt mean to make things weird, and that you would rather be her friend than not be in her lfe at all. But dont be all sissy and romantic about it. Trust me.
340739
hmm i dunno if this is possible but why dont you both invite them somewhere, cinema whatever as friends, bowling i dunno. See which one of you gets on naturally with him more. you never know there may be a speical bond between a certain two. talk to her afterwards about it and tell her how you feel but say you dont wanna hurt her. at the end of the day, its kinda up to him, it may just wanna be friends with you both!
859679
Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
957758
Let me start by saying 1. you should not be having sex with someone you are just talking to and 2. THANK YOU for using protection!!!! Most guys your age do not even think about all the consiquences that coem along with having unprotected sex.\n\nOk now to the real business.. your question.\n\nMost girls always experience some pain and discomfort when its there first time ( I know I did) soem will actualyl not enjoy it the first few times. It is up to you to get ehr to enjoy it. Here are a few things you can do that might help. ONE you must know that I am sure she is nervous, she peobably has no idea waht to do so this might make her even tighter and cause her to not get as wet.  Don't jump to the sex part right away. Have some foreplay kiss, rub, get her to the point where she tells you I she wants it. Then its all about patience!! Take your time, there is no rush. You need to be gentle and take it slow, let her knwo you wont hurt her tell her to tell you how she feels if it hurt slow down take it easy... also you can always use lubrication (that might help .. some KY jelly).  \n\nWell if you need any more help just email me.. I dont want to write a huge story here (because believe me if you let me I will..lol)
859934
if she's flirting to the point of making you uncomfortable then you have to say something.  if she's really your friend she'll respect that and keep it friendly.  another issue is do you trust your man?  if so then don't even trip because you know exactly who he's going home with at the end of the night.  it's all about trust but you shouldn't tolerate disrespect especially from your friends.
438907
just break it down to her.. tell her that you want to tell her something that you dont want her to get mad at.. tell her that you dont want to hurt her but you dont want to destroy ur friendship either by being together.. tell her you care about her as a friend..but nothing more.. you got to keep it funky.. feel me.. just be gentle but serious with her
58360
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
166982
follow her signals. some like it rough, some like it gentle. some like it fast, some like it slow etc. go with what ever your getting the most reaction to. Just remember its not all about you.
762319
dont force it.....you gotta be smooth, try and grab her hand...but make it look like an accident, not too obvious of an accident, but say it was accident if she pulls away, if she doesnt, hold her hand and look her in the eyes, only try this once......you dont want her to think your desperate
239561
Just say no. He'll respect you more, and poss. consider you more of a gfriend material later on, if thats your goal. girls who put out to easily aren't gfriend material, they're just somthin' on the side.
868705
Don't tell this girl anything, just keep your hands to yourself, she has made it clear, that she does not want to hug!!!