Ideas for wife's 30 birthday surprise - this weekend!!!?
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A nice dinner and a day at the spa.  Women love Spa's.  Take her to get a massage, a facial, the works and that is cheaper than 500.   Also take her to dinner or better yet, cook for her.  IF you do not know how to cook, get a simple cookbook and make something yourself.  Go to foodnetwork.com and see if you could find how to make her favorite food.  Clean the house for her while she is at the spa, that is free and roses, red ones  (they mean hot passion).  Write her a poem, that is also free or get her that spa with her best friend,  her best friend will love you for it too and will score points with the wife to have a night out with just the girls.  Hope that helps.
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Blow up a great picture of you ( and kids if u have them) and put them in a nice frame and he will love it.  Or last year I got my hubby a pocket watch with an engraving on it!  Make him some sex and romance candles with your own hands on Red construction paper- its ALWAYS my hubbys favorite present!  lol    One year I bought a basket and in it I put bubble bath scented candles and a bottle lf champagne and scented lotion.  When hubby opened it he was very confused until I told him WE would use it later TOGETHER!  Thats his 2nd favorite gift each year!!!!!
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What a kind thought! I'm very proud of you for considering it. Most people wouldn't...or I hope they would.....\nI would suggest a gift certificate to her favourite restaurant or shopping place. You might invite her out for a nice dinner also on the evening before you leave. She is being very kind and you, in turn, are kind to consider that.
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I'm the type of person that doesn't like to just give someone a simple old gift, I like to make it a little more exciting than that. Here is one idea. Hopefully you have some time before her birthday. This is what I would do if you have about a month or a little less time before her birthday. Each day, for 21 days, give her a small gift. This could be some makeup, a new purse, some cash, starbucks g/c, a day at the spa, cds, etc. Give her something for each day up until her birthday and then on her actual birthday give her something big, that she has wanted for a while, or something that she would like really like. You could give her a trip to Vegas or Atlantic City, or take her on a cruise, etc. This is where you would decide what to give her, what you think she would like the most.\n\nI think it would be especially neat if the little gifts added up to her final gift. You don't want it to be real obvious what it is going to be, but once she has everything you want her to be able to see the connection. Let's say you are going to give her a cruise. Okay, so you could give her some small (not travel size or it may be too obvious) lotions, shampoos, etc. you could buy her an MP3 player to listen to on the plane, some books, etc. Add things in that would be of interest to her, but also useful for her trip. You could even take her to the mall one day for a shopping trip and get her some pictures in one of those machines, then she could use the picture for her passport. Then on the day of her birthday you could take and wrap the cruise documents in a large box, like a sweeper box or something, then she will open it and it will just be the little envelope with the documents in it. You could also wrap her up a box and inside of it have a clue. You could create a map or use a real map that she has to use to find the next clue, give her hints where the clue is and then she has to hunt for it, it sounds  a little childish but because she will be going on a cruise I think it would still work. Plus, it will be a lot of fun for you and her.\n\nHope this helps!
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oh my goodness, I love this website. It has helped me out so many times! Check it out!\n\nhttp://www.lovingyou.com/\n\nOr, you could do something with the traditional sixth anniversary gifts... iron or candy. \n\nThere was once that I wanted to do something really special for my husband and I came up with all these ideas. First of all I hid a card in the car telling him that when he got home, it was going to be very special. \nI had the house decorated really cute with balloons and crate paper, my two year old loved helping me with them!\n\nI wrote him a love letter explaining why he was so important to me and wrote it on very pretty stationary paper.\nI bought some fake rose petals and put them in a hot bath, then shared the bath with him along with a nice bottle of wine.\nI made him his favorite dinner along with his favorite dessert and went on a picnic with him... (your kids would probably love this, especially if you go to a park, depending on their ages)\n\nThere are so many things you can do to show him how much you care for and love him without having to spend a lot of money!\n\nGood luck!
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as the concierge of the hotel they should be able to tell you some events going on in the area, just remember its his birthday so dont drag him to the opera or a play unless it is something he is really into, a nice dinner is always good but dont be surprised if he wants to drag you to some sports bar to watch the game (GO RED SOX!!!!) but im sure he will love the time you two share in the room much much better anyway \n\nhappy birthday to your man (my mans birthday is 05/15/06) im in same boat what to do hmmmmmmmmmm
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No wedding ring.... How about a 'Mother's Ring'? These are somewhat inexpensive, with only having one child right now. ;-)\n\nHow about a day off, next Saturday. He baby-sits, and you have a day out to have fun. No cost, but every mom likes a day off.\n\nA family portrait? If the frame costs too much, just buy the picture.\n\nYou could make that dinner & move a bit special... how about that special dessert you never order? \n\nWhen I was a newly wed, and we had our first.. funds were tight too. He bought me a nice little wooden jewelry box. Not expensive to most folks, but for us it was. Today that baby is now married with four of her own... and I still have my little jewelry box.\n\nJust remind him, it's the thought not the price.
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It depends on what she likes. \nThink deep when it comes to her. What was something she's said that she loved as a kid, or maybe last week? \nHas she dropped any hints as to what to get her? Most women do. I know I do, but unfortunately my hubby still can't pick up on them after 10 years! lol \nGet her a necklace (the tiny chains are usually cheaper, but still pretty and delicate-looking on a bare neck!) Maybe a bracelet, or some other kind of jewlery. After only 2 months, I wouldn't reccomend a ring though, unless its something she has mentioned, and it couldn't be misconstrewed as something else. \nIf she's a gamer, get her a game. Maybe a new one in whatever genere she's into. \nMaybe a naked pic of you. (joking!) \nTake her out to dinner, (or make a candle light dinner!) and treat her like a lady, not a "girlfriend" for a night. Get the door for her, help her with her jacket, pull out her chair for her, and for god's sake, open her car door first - most guys forget that nowadays, it sux! Who cares if being a gentleman is completely out of your character - She will enjoy the attention!!!\nLet her pick out the movie to go see or rent, and don't gripe when she picks a "chick-flick"! \nA mixed CD wouldn't be bad either. Put a bunch of her favorite songs on it, and maybe throw one or two of your favs on it too! Just keep in mind, that it will almost definately get destroyed if u2 split up! lol\n\nGood Luck Dude! Hope this helps!\n;o)
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Jewelry is always good.  It doesn't have to be elaborate (c'mon...it's Easter we're talking about here).  Or how about a nice Easter lilly w/a great card.  Romantic cards go a long way w/women.\n\nMaybe a flower pot, seeds, gardening gloves for her & the grand daughter to plant things together???\n\nBottle of wine & some nice wine glasses???\n\nFlowers w/a nice vase (& the card....don't foget the card...lol)\n\nScented candles & relaxation bubble bath???\n\nDVD set of her favorite TV show???\n\nHope some of this helps...good luck & Happy Easter.
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you can get her a purse, wallet, watch, earrings, necklace, or make a special dinner and surprise her. she will love it. good luck.
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I sent my husband a pillowcase once that I had slept on.  Shampoo, perfume, all of the familiar scents of home.\nLittle refrigerator magnets with cute sayings or that hold pictures.  Candles with promises of romantic dinners or baths by candlelight.  A book of poems with handwritten notes along some that remind you of him.  Coupons for backrubs, strip teases etc.  Use your imagination.\nHave fun!!
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give her a bracelet, a good one that she never has to take off.  Any gift is fine really, it's how you give it, what kind of love you put with it..and how much intuition you put into it that can decipher the quality and results of the gift.....but my only suggestion is a bracelet....i had to leave to kuwait, so i gave my fiance a bracelet, and told her to wear it around her ankle so she'll never lose it, (and it just looks sexy on her that way), and it only cost me bout 60 some odd dollars...It was something to remember me by while i'm gone...so....stuff like that.
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Try to find out what her favorite things to do are and then surprise her and plan a day or night filled with those things. I.e. hiking, ice skating, going to a museum, watching her favorite movie, cooking, ordering in, or taking out for her favorite meal...or make a little memory scrap book with pictures of the two of you and ticket stubs etc. from places you went together. Send her a letter or card as a surprise in the mail (snail mail). For my bf's b-day I made a treasure hunt....I wrote his first clue out & put it on his car window before he saw me. Then the next clue was to go to the local library and look in a particular section & open a particular book for the next clue/direction (pick a book that most people wouldn't be interested in to make sure it won't be checked out by the time she gets there). I taped another clue in a store window etc. I had like 8 clues in different public areas and then the last clue should lead her to her present. Or go out on a hike and take pictures together outdoors, make her something oringinal i.e. a cd, a meal, something artistic etc. Make her a care package with some of her favorite things in it. Pick up on little details, things that are important to her and do them.  Some of these things take planning but it's worth it to see the smile on her face....good luck.
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this is an outstanding idea.  Especilly the part about an escort (or other professional).  Your lady would really love this, it is something all women secretly yearn to do.  Since this is such an incredible dream come true for you lady, why not do it on her birthday, or an anneversary, you will get extra points for being romantic.  \n\nHere is what I suggest.  Get three gallons of some good cooking oil and some big plastic drop clothes.  Hire an escort to wrestle her for the evening.  Tell your lady you re planning a suprise for her birthday (or whatever).  Rent a motel room.  Go there set up the sheets, warm up the oil, and put lots of flowers and candles in there.  Have the escort waiting in some tight sexy clothes, candles lit, music playing.  \n\nTake your lady to the motel, cover her eyes, and take her in the room.  Suprise baby, happy b-day I love you.  She will be incredibly happy, have wrestling with the hooker, and love on you all night in thanks for what you have given her.
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The other ideas are good.\n\nBut here's another idea.  Since it's all in the same week, how about a weekend getaway to somewhere you haven't been before.  That would be some awesome time alone and away from friends and family.  Trust me, it worked well for me and my guy, and his birthday isn't anywhere close to any other holiday.  I still look back on that time with wonderful memories.  It was great.
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give her something really nice for her birthday/special day. something that a normal friend would not
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DEPENDING ON THE CITY .....SURPRISE HER WITH A NICE PIC-NIC IN THE PARK I MEAN FLOWERS(6)(ROSES) ONE FOR EACH MONTH AND TELL HER THIS IN YOUR CONVERSATION(1 ROSE FOR EVERY MONTH WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER)ADD TO IT A NICE SIMPLE MEAL (NO NOT SANDWICHES) MAYBE SOME STRAWBERRIES WITH WHIP CREAM OR CHOCOLATE...SOME NICELY CHILLED CHAMPAGNE (2) WINE GLASSES...AND SOME BALLOONS...WOMEN LIKE BALLOONS AND STUFFED ANIMALS!!!!!ANY WAY GOOD LUCK I HOPE SOME OF THIS COULD HAVE BEEN SOME HELP TO YOU