I need Help!I like two different guys and one is single and one is not! To get the rest of the story open this
401217
As you've described, the guy with the GF blows her off to talk to you, that should give you alarm bells.  It shows you an idea how he treats a lady.  Not so nice.... If he can do that to his present GF, he also can do that to you if he loses interest. Also, he doesn't talk to you at school? I wonder why...? Seems to me he might be hiding something from someone... Just the picture of how he is dealing with his GF and how he deals with you in public is a glimpse of who he really is........ be cautious.\n\nIf I were you, I would be wise to choose the single guy, at least he's single, you like him a lot, and you still hang out and all despite the lack of phone calls. PLUS no GF. :o)\n\n\nI wish you luck...
1110163
Of course he likes you, which is why he is going to such extremes to get the other guy out of the picture. IF you still like him, ask him out, and see for yourself. Good luck!! I miss high school issues sometimes. lol
613093
go for which ever one you feel most comfortable with and let the other one down gently. or you could tell them you dont want a steady bf and date them both alternitivly. but be careful. good luck
645457
Go for it, just be upfront with them both.Don't lie cause that will mess it all up.Be honest and I believe it would work out.Good luck.
312502
ask him anyway! gather all your courage...and just ask! as you said, u both told that u liked each other! LIFE IS ABOUT TAKING CHANCES!!!!!
538036
well, i think you should chose the one that would be best for you. if you like one guy, but your friends dont like him or he gets you in trouble, then you definatly shouldnt go with him unless you like that type. well, i would write more but i dont want to run out of room. i hope it works out with you and whoever you chose
536814
Well after working with many individuals like yourself I think I have the best answer for you. Yes you can have "crushes" for two "guys." Everything depends on which guy is greater. You say yourself that they are both great.. however what qualities and what personalities make them great. Start by writing out a Venn Diagram and fill in the circle for similarities and then differences. The harder one to fill in will be the one that is less greater than the first. After you do that..write another post and I'll be happy to respond.. God bless and good luck!
179664
Ask him out.  He'll either tell you that he's seeing this other girl, or he'll say that you're not his type but would still like to be your friend.  I hate being simplistic for such a difficult subject, but as the woman, you have the easier end of whatever young relationship you encounter.  If you say you like a guy, the guy is more than likely apt to jump out of his skull in amazement.
499454
Well, fess up first of all. Admit that you were talking to his friend.  But let him know if it was strictly just talking out of friendship or whatever it is. Be honest, if you were talking to his friend and you think that you're attracted to the friend, then try to date the friend if he's available. Don't keep leading the other guy on and letting him think that you're into him when really you're into the friend because you want them both or something like that. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm just saying you need to explain yourself. If he doesn't respond then let it go, as much as it will irritate you to leave something at that, you'll have the peace of mind to know that you did what you had to do and that you've apologized and offered some sort of explanation. It is his fault for burning any bridges. And remember to look at signs, this may be a sign that you're not compatible with him, if you can honestly see yourself saying that you wouldnt do this if the situation was reversed, then you know you're on different levels. Good luck with this situation.
535477
You have some tough decisions to make...you have to decide which of these 3 issues is most important because you cant have them both...If you are having these feelings, you should step back and tell your boyfriend you need some space for awhile...dont use that to go after the other guy though. Use it to figure out your next move. Is this new guy worth leaving your boyfriend for? Also remember if you are in highschool, you will meet many more boys and more than likely you will not end up marrying either of these two, sorry this is so long but I had alot to say...good luck
816453
never go against ur instincts.. if u feel as if u cant trust a person then dont!! and as for the other guy .. give him another chance.. see if he can work it out this time and u never know wut u will find!!
406135
just tell him the truth... if you liked a guy and he didnt like you wouldnt you want him to tell you straight up... and not beat around the bush and leaving the other person wondering?
94119
I would have to tell him, no at the moment I am dating someone else. Thank you so much for asking me, but I feel that it would be wrong to date you under the circumstance. NOW, if you are truly interested in this guy, take the high road, and break it off with the guy you are seeing.  Then perhaps pursue this other guy.  Show the guy you're with the respect he deserves. You can't have them both, so make a choice. I hope the choice is a wise one.
319106
of guy #1 wantd to go as friends in the first place, then as a friend, he would understand his situation and not have a problem with you going with guy#2 and you should tell him soon so he will have enough time to get anothr date.
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
280265
Normal. This is a normal situation. You have liked "this guy" for a very long time, and only thought about him. Once you were asked out from the "other guy" then you were "exposed" to another person, which just so happens to be attractive and caught your heart. So therefore, you got over the guy that you "did" like, and now your heart is set for someone else!
118830
Move on because this guy obviously doesn't feel the same way about you. Call him again just to make sure that he hasn't tried to call and you haven't been home. Then move on and take a chance with the other guy you have been crushing on.