how well can an internet relationship work...plzzz help....!!!!?
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how about askinbg this question again,but  this time write the details to your question in ENGLISH!!
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It's an online relationship.
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I don't have a problem finding love over the internet. After all, I met my husband on the net.\n\nWhat I have a problem with is people who actively go looking on the internet. It's like putting your name in the personals in the newspaper. A sign of desperation. And last I looked desperation isn't a good thing.\n\nThe internet is also dangerous because people don't think when they meet someone on the net. They rush into it talking about how they met only a month ago and have talked for only a week over the phone and want to get married to this person. For some reason, if it's over the net, they don't want to wait until they actually get to know someone.\n\nMy husband and I have known each other for almost 9 years. We knew each other for over three years as friends over the net. Then we spent 5 and a half years "dating" going back and forth between our countries and talking on the phone for hours and hours every night for YEARS. \n\nWe've been married since June.\n\nMost people aren't willing to take the time it takes. It's not like meeting someone face to face. It's alot more dangerous and you don't have the ability to look at each other so you can rely on your own personal perception. \n\nPeople also aren't willing to wait until they're over that "honeymoon" phase of the relationship and work at the communication part. It's why most internet relationships fail. They can't handle the distance and work on the communication.\n\nEven my family, the people who were so sceptical in the beginning and advising me against getting involved with my husband. Even they have admitted that this is probably the healthiest relationship they've ever seen due to the level of communication he and I have. We can even finish each others sentences and yet we will find each other absolutely fascinating. Even after all this time.\n\nIf people would learn to be patient and take it slowly, I wouldn't say anything. But most people seem convinced they want to marry this person after speak to them for only a month or so over the internet. It's ridiculous.
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Oh sure it's very possible it's depends on the person u want to share the relationship wit some are eat and run person and some ppl really mean it but those eat and run ppl has tanished the image of others. So ppl will be thinking that they are Birds of a feather. And sometimes it will depends on how best u are in expression. But online relationship is possible, cuz one of my frnds is in a deep relationship wit someone out of our country and they are now living 2gether as Husband and Wife.
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A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP CAN WORK IF BOTH PEOPLE REALLY WANT  IT TO WORK OUT.BUT YOU NEED\nTO TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW SHE FEEL. BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT TO PUT ALL YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET\nSO TALK TO HER ABOUT WHAT GOING ON. THEN GO FROM\nTHERE. BUT IT CAN WORK IT SELF OUT.
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Hi, i met a guy online and we got on really well, he lived in Sydney Australia, we had been chatting for 6 months then he got a chance to come here to Leeds in the UK and we had 2 days together and to my surprise we didn't get on all that well, we had fun but it was not the same in person as it was when we were chatting online, he then went back home and we never spoke again.\ni am sure people do find love on the internet and have happy lives together.\nyou don't really know someone untill you meet them.\nxx Jo
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I think friendships and relationships have as much chance of surving if started online as any other!  They will only last though, if both parties are actually honest, and true to themselves!  If you are being a different person online to who you really are, then expect to be found out.  It's legitimate if kept online, it's just different when you meet in person.
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I agree with pretty much every one on this page except the ones who say that long distance relationships DON'T work! C'mon.. be more positive!\n\nBTW, thank you for annswering my question and I am glad that I helped you :D.
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I happen to agree with cuteiepie. Keep it alive by phone, emails, snail mail...keep all communication channels open. If you have serious intentions for the future with that person, it is most important to physically spend time with each other at least once or twice a year. I think long distance relationships only work for so long. At one point or another you have to make it a "no distance" relationship. Good luck!!
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You can get really, really close to someone on the Internet very quickly. That is because both of you have your guard down and reveal things more quickly than you would in person. Also, there are no distractions, such as physical attributes. That is fine, you can fall in love with inner qualities rather than outer, but there is a problem. You do not know if the person you are talking to online is telling the truth or is just giving you the answers/information you want. Also, is it just that since you have to talk one at a time it makes that person a good listener. You do have to be careful, there are strange people out there. However, if you are careful then meet in public and have someone close by, money and a phone in case you need to exit.
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The only con I can see to it is you have the world's lamest "how did you meet" story.\n\n"Yeah, we were in this chat room one day and our ip addresses met and... I swear, my motherboard nearly melted."\n\n"Man, the first time we webcammed! Magic!"\n\nHonestly, for that reason and that reason alone, I'm staying away from internet dating. I met my current beau in New Orleans helping with the relief effort. We're going back this summer. That's a MUCH better story, as far as I'm concerned. But hey, if it works for you, it works for you.  \n\nI don't see anything wrong with it, really, but I would say you should be careful.  Much like in the real world, you never know who you're meeting, only a little more so, because you don't have physical cues to work with.
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I personally do think it works at the moment I'm in a relationship which started over the Internet, although i have not met him yet, we have such a connection and i really love him. we have been going out around 7months now and its been 7 of the best months of my life.
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A lot of people have had much success with meeting the love of their lives online. So I guess it really depends on the person and how hard they are willing to find that special person.
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i met the man of my dreams online via a adult site... we've been together for a year.  we started out just talking... it never hurts as long as your honest with your needs, wants, and desires from the start... there are many very good sites...\nbest of luck with your journey.
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No, cuz a lot of the time they live too far away. If you go to a chat room w/ peeps who are local, then they may make up excuses NOT to meet up or something. There seems to alwayz be a catch. Take me for example, I wanna meet my friend Mikey. Just to meet. But he wasn't able to meet me. That or he didn't want to :( Well actually, maybe it IS easier ... "to get a gf online" that is. Just that the rel (if there is one) won't be anything physical. Not til the 2 of you decide to meet. Mikey & my friend (who are going out :s) plan on meeting one day. They haven't yet. They broke up but got back together. I think that they're both desperate for a rel... shhhhhhh don't tell them I said dat :$ Also, he's had another online gf. But she lived reeeeeeeally far up north... Hrs away... She ended up cheating on him w/ her ex when she went to visit Mikey... :s How do you know if the person is who they say they are anywayz ? & if their feelings are real ?
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You cannot have a true meaningful relationship on the computer.\n\nYou HAVE to meet and date in person.  It's the only way to truly know who you are talking to on the other side of your monitor.\n\nThe "facts" you need to know, are the "facts" you need to know about any guy you date, computer relationship or not.\n\nAre they a good person?\nDo they lie?\nAre they religious or not?\nDo they make money and have a job or not?\nDo they have a decent place to live?\nAre they messy or neat?\nWhat are their political affiliations or beliefs?\nWhat is their education level?\nHow old are they?\nDo they want to eventually get married or not?\nDo they want to eventually have kids or not?\nWhat is their family like?\nDo they have the same values, morals and ethics that you do?\nAre you attracted to them or not?\nDoes your personality clash with theirs or is it complimentary?\n\nAnd about a million more "facts" to choose from...
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I think it´s very difficult, because you need to know the other person, and I think is very important the physical contact.\nI have tried this type of relationships because I´m a lonely girl too and this is a way to forget a little about this fact...even thoguh, I need to put my feet on firm floor; is not healthy enough to fullfill the emptyness. Think about it before doing it. The net is dangerous and can play with your feeling so hard....Be careful. I wish you luck no matter what you decide.