What about a guy that pours his heart out to you, but still is a frequent flyer on the dating sites?
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I can't understand either why guys do that, blow smoke up our @sses then you happen to go onto a site and there they are sucking up to any hot girl they see.\nthey must think we are stupid...lol\nnow i just assume right from the start that they're players, until they prove me wrong, might not be right in some people's eyes, but beter to protect than get burned i say :)
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Marc C spot on - I have tried it - met this nice guy spent time together - lots of it still do! he sends of body language that every-one picks up - he's met my kids and guess what he still chats on Personals. Don't get taken in you will get hurt!!!\nYou guys out there please explain why you do that!! why you give of false vibes!!!
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I think you are asking about a Cc: on an email.  I would have to say he is trying to include you in his life.  He is passing information on to you he feels you would want to know or be interested in.  It may not be the greatest of ways to show he cares,but it might be his way.
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its all in your heart and gut thats about the best i can say typicly a down to earth guy is a good one ulike the first comment MOST guys are pigs...yet there is a SMALL few that are actuley good if you find one keep him
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i know this might sound stupid . . . but i like a guy who sheds a tear every once in a while b/c that lets me know that he is sensitive. just b/c a guy cries, that does not mean that he is any less tough, or macho than he was before . . .
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Yes...  It's called compassion.  And it's a good thing, in moderation, of course.  A lot of people have a "who cares?" attitude and end up hurting people in their lives, whether important people or the random fellow shopper at the grocery store.\n\nThere's a thin line in the relationship of being brutal, mean, honest, compassionate, truthful, white-liar, etc..  The trick is to no when you're being TOO nice or when you're being TOO mean.\n\nPerhaps you can still be honest and sincere but not hurtful... like maybe respond with something like... "Yeah, I was thinking maybe next time, if we decide to go out again, we can do something like ----- fill in blank with ideas -----... what do you think?"  ... if he/she says a flat out "no"... hey... why bother making a 2nd date..  ya know?  And if he/she says it'd be fine with him/her... then you've got potential!
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yeh it depends on location and his commitment.  if he says ur calling too much, then ur calling too much. otherwise, dont listen to the pessimists
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He calls you every day, has a sparkle in his eye every time he kisses you or see you, is brake enough to speak out his undieing love for you even if theres a bunch of people around, he tries to spend as much time with you, and is brave enough to cry and tell his feelings to you.
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Yes.  You can fall in love with someone over the internet.  It is like meeting a guy from a bar.  You really don't know what their intentions are or if they are who they claim to be.  Love is a risk.  You have to be willing to take that chance.  Don't live the rest of your life what if.  If you get your heart brok- so what, move on with life.  I did.  I used to talk to someone that I never met.  I was falling hard.  We talked about everything.  Then...poof kramarillo_1 was no more.  He disappeared.  I did not even have closure.  But I got over it.  I dust myself off and gave it another shot.  I started talking to this other dude.  He sounded mean when we spoke on the phone.  It sounded like he had no emotion in his voice.  He came by plane to see me.  After that...game over.  Soon after that, I was selling all I owned and traveling with only what could fit in my car to start a new life with him.  I truly feel like Cinderella.  I have never been more in love.  I remember when we started talking.......we would have 5 hour conversations and talk periodically throughout the day.  We could not get enough of each other.  Even though we were different in many ways.......we completed each other.  I am so glad I took that chance.  Just imagine if I listened to my friends and family.  I would probably be single and lonely once again.  I found my other half.  But you do have to be careful.  There are many crazy people out there.  By talking to this person on a regular basis the true side will reveal itself sooner or later.  I have experienced the most mannerable person turning into a complete stalker.  You will feel it.  You know what's good.  Good Luck.
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It shouldn't matter to the guy if he cares about the person you are, not just the experience he hopes to have with you.
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yes, there are guys out there who are honest and are seriously looking for a lasting relationship.
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He will try to get to know you inside and out and make sure he keeps you happy. His effort would be clearly visible. Ask yourself honestly does this really know me? does he even listens to what you have to say? does he know the small things about you, what you like or dislike? or does he not care or is it usually just about him? is he loving, open, honest, and calm with you? I think these are some of the important things to notice because if they don't exist now then they will probably not exist in future also.
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Ding....ding....ding.....ding\n\nDid you hear that warning bell go off in your head?  Why do you seek to ignor it?\n\nThere is a very valuable saying that applies here:  "Talk is cheap".  So what; he says he loves you.  That means absolutely nothing.  What has he done to show you?\n\nDon't settle for less than you deserve!  If you think you only deserve one such as this, there are deeper issues than just wondering why a guy happnes to continue on a particular website.\n\nJim
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Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
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Yes he is into you, and obviously you are into him as well.  It's great to find someone that you can and want to stay on the phone with till 3 in the morning....
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what?! U crazy? Have u met him in person and gone on several dates? Anyone can play as someone they are not over the net.