i have a friend who got a relationship with a married guy and she give birth,now she wants to make her life?
396352
It could work.  The only problem I see that could occur, would be if the father of the child wants to be part of the child's life.  How would he handle that?  Only time is going to answer your question.
92085
She proved to you that she did not love you when you were away. Your best friend also proved that he could not be trusted. You know once you take her back and if you move in together that you are also responsible for the raising of the child. In my opinion you would be better off to find someone else for you. She has already screwed around on you once and by being with her you will feel that evry day when seeing their baby.
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It's been my experience that people will do what they want to, no matter what you tell them. They think they have all the answers they need and know what's best for them. Even if you had lots of experience in this area, they'll still do what they want. Many will actually get angry with you for trying to stop their "happiness". I would just let her know that you love her and only want what's best, but you will back off and let her choose her own path, even if it means pain & rejection of her boyfriend. Let her know that you'll always be there for her if she needs a shoulder or an ear to listen. Leave the door of friendship open, because she's gonna need it. This is a train wreck, waiting to happen. You know it. I know it. Been there, done that...it bites! Sounds like she wants to get pregnant. I know a few young gals like her. They think having a baby will solve all their problems and make their fella stay with them forever. It often drives them away, leaving the gal with a baby and more problems that she's not ready to handle yet. It's a long downward spiral. You are a good friend. You see what could happen and you're trying to save her from herself. You can't. If you push too much, she'll just cut you out of her life, slamming the door of friendship in your face, with no way out for her when her world falls apart. And actually, birth control & condoms aren't 100%, as I'm sure you know. I have a 22 year old girl because of failed birth control. Unfortunately, I think you're just going to have to allow her the opportunity for experience to be her teacher. Just be there for her. <*)))><
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yeah that would have alot of an effect on that baby done been there. if you two can just leave the feelings left behind and be close good friends that might be better . neither of you should have put your feelings on hold towards each other till on is bout to start a family a new life and get married ... there is 5 people to worry about here who would get hurt the most you need to be straight up front from now on before its too late again and life just passes on by before you know it ........but then ask him is he marrying her cuz she is pregnant cuz you dont have to get married just cuz your having a baby and so the kid can have his last name only get married if the love is truely there dont get married for all the wrong reasons tell him that that might change it all for ya right there if he can trust his mom or dad they really are perfect to talk to about these kind of things
1161564
THAT WAS HER PAST.. LET IT BE.. DON'T DIG IT.. THERE MUST BE A REASON Y SHE GOT ABORTION W/ HER PAST RELATIONSHIP..
1126868
sure, marriage is sacrifice and hard work, she needs to quit being a baby and let him have fun.
635643
She is ur flesh and blood, ave u ever tried to be a friend to her, try and understand why she has become like this... and u will have the answer to ur problem, No kid is born this way...a bit of love and acceptence can change everything
415789
No.\nAny man who has an ex girlfriend who is currently pregnant and has started dating again after only 3 short months is not exactly the most dependable person.\nI would leave NOW, before you become the next girl on his "My baby's mother" list
816728
Why do you want to do this?  I think that it has to come from her adopting you.  Your birth mother would have to relinquish parental rights.\n\nThis could create massive pain for your birth mother.  Just talk to you Godmother and let her know that in your heart you consider her your true mother,
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It sounds like she "knows" what he is up too but would rather pretend otherwise.  She may be wanting to have another child to "fix" things which wont work.  Or maybe just because she is maternal.  Either way - I would suggest you just sit her down and talk to her and let her know that you are there for her but that you are concerned for her because of all the stress she is under already and that she may want to consider how much more stress she would have in her life with 4 children should he decide to leave her for one of the "other women".\n\nKathy
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I think you should talk to your friend and ask him why he wants a baby and if he's ready for the commitment.\n\nGood Luck.
133168
Then hook up with his best friend!!  I was with a jerk I got pregnant with and I married his best friend..\n(Of course, they aren't friends anymore...but I am happy!)
793575
You need to take a look at what you are asking her to do:\n\nhttp://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html\n\nLike it or not, if she is pregnant, you are a father and need to take responsibility for your child.
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WTF are you thinking? She is married! Tell her to goto a marriage theropist. Talk to her husband. Seek Professional help. \n\nIt will only happen to you in the future. You need to be her friend and not her lover.\n\nThere are plenty of fish in the sea.
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she is not born fr u!wait n let ur self out u may get the ur one.i believe its hard 2 frget her, make ur self busy with ur friends go on fr cool chat this may refresh u some what.but if any one wants 2 enter ur life don't throw them away give them a chance after u understand them properly n same with them.
639245
this is so common i am sorry for what your going through i would hurry today guy and report her ! i dont know if she can get legal now it most likley if she still has your baby and she gives birth here
98238
Its time to respect her wishes,she might have decided to back out of the relationship and work on her marriage.Its best to walk away from the situation.Its never a good idea to get involved with a married person!for numerous reasons.