I met a dude on the net and I don't know what he looks like and should I stop loving him cause of it?
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OK YOU NEED A REALITY CHECK.. YOU LOVE A PERSON WHOM YOU MET ON THE NET AND YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE.. WELL GIRL THAT SHOULD BE THE LEAST OF YOUR WORRIES. DID ANYONE EVER TELL YOU HOW DANGEROUS IT IS TO MEET PEOPLE OFF THE INTERNET.. HE COULD TELL YOU ANYTHING AND HOW WOULD YOU KNOW..STAY OFF YAHOO CHAT ROOMS AND GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE FACE TO FACE IN YOUR AREA..THIS GUY COULD BE A CRAZY PSYCHO..HE MIGHT BE TELLING YOU ANYTHING YOU WANT TO HEAR.. MANY BAD STORIES OF NET MEETINGS.. GROW UP AND ACT RIGHT
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My guess is he doesn't think he's very attractive, so if he can get you to fall in love with him just by talking to him for awhile when you do finally meet it won't matter what he looks like. Unless you have seen pictures of him and then you have to watch out and make sure they are really of him. Sorry haven't had to much luck in the whole onine thing and just think people should be careful. You just have to always remember a man's way of thinking. He may very well be in love with you, but don't let it be under false pretenses...
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I think you should meet him, but not even entertain the thought of marriage yet.  All you really know is what he has chosen to tell you via his internet persona.  Who knows what really lurks underneath.
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Well did you boink the guy or what? I mean I need more details how can I live vicariously through others if your not more specific.\n\nI believe thats suffienct time. Your going to have to put out if you expect to keep some of the obviously rare online guys out their lol.\n\nHope this helps! If it doesn't work out their is also icecream remember that.
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i would say be very careful. even if you get a lot of details, or a picture or anything, it could all be fake. if youre going to meet this guy, suggest to meet in a big group, get a lot of your friends together at a public place, maybe go bowling or out to eat or something, just to make sure.
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Not on the net because you never know what you are getting until it's too late. Just seek someone with the same interest as you, someone down to earth,. And take your time getting to know this person, build your trust with this person, and most importantly, show your love to this person.  Don't rush things and if its meant to be you will indeed have found your partner for life someone you can be with and relate to.
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If you are comfortable in how you look.... That is all that matters.  Pardon me for saying this, but this guy sounds like a jerk.  How come you are staying with him if you feel that he does not find you attractive?  Perhaps you should move on to somebody that will love you for "you" and not need to turn to porn for sexual gratification.  \nHave you ever just confronted him and ask if he finds you appealing in a sexual way?  I still think it is time for you to start looking for a better relationship.\n\nI can't believe you offered to let him take pictures of you, and he declined..... Most guys would jump at the chance to take some hot pics.  \n\nIf he is making you feel stupid or ugly, you really don't need that in your life!  A good partner in a relationship should make you feel happy, and he should not be afraid to show you exactly how much you mean to him.... At least that is my opinion...  If you want to "vent" more about this situation, you can always email me.. I am a good listener.\n\nI wish you luck!  I hope things improve for you!  don't let this guy get you down!
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Wow, that's a difficult one.  Have you ever met the online person in person?  The danger with falling in love with someone online is that they may not be who you think they are.  It could be also, that the person you don't know intimately will always seem better because you don't know all their little annoying peculiarities.  On the other hand, you have this on and off again long term relationship.  The fact that it isn't a stable relationship tells me that there are issues that come up, you break up, issues get worked out (or not, maybe you guys just get lonely), you're back together, the sun is shining until...and back into that again.  Look into your own heart.  What is it that is so alluring in the online person?  It is real?  Is it sustainable?  Does he snore in their sleep?  Is he a morning person?  Does he take cream in his coffee?  Sugar?  What is his mother's middle name?  (lol, now I'm wracking my brain on that question).  You get my drift.  You may want to talk this out with a neutral person like a counsellor to help you with this.  Maybe the answer right now is no answer, leave it as is and the next time long time bf leaves, see about the online one.  Just a thought.
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I fell in love with my husband before I met him. \n\nEvery one has faults, though. Make sure you recognize this dude's before you get in too deep.\n\nFor the most part though, if he seems too good to be true, you're probably right. He can be whoever he wants to be online. If you meet in person, please be careful. (public place, bring a cell phone, have a way home that doesn't involve him, etc.)
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I'm guessing you were trying to say you proposed to this guy you've never met? I think if he feels you are obviously obsessed, you will give in to him if you meet and trust me...there's crazy people out there who prey on your type every single day. Be cautious of what you're doing and saying via the internet.
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If you haven't met this guy yet, you could just be in love with the fantasy of him. It's okay to let him know that you think about him. I would try to get a idea of what his feelings are for you first.
889687
Hi,\nIt is a very common problem as Internet widely used nowadays. the two persons meet and chat from Internet and finally one loves another or love each other.......\ndo you know why? because of distance makes perfect. all the characters they showed are the attractive. and we accustomed to picture him/her as our ideal partner.\nMaybe you can make a communion with him, if he consider for you enough , I think he will help you.if not he is not worthy your love.Do you think so?
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dont talk to guys online....... your too young and who knows what idiots youll meet .... your young and you have lots of time on your side .... many things will change ... so be patient because thoose things are not important right now ...... enjoy your youth because this is it!!!!
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It's easy to feel this way about someone that you are communicating to on the internet.  Probably many things in common, sense of humor, etc.  Be careful tho.  On the internet there is no commitment, no responsibility.  It's a whole new ball game when you're together.  Take things very very very slow, don't let your emotions take over, it's too dangerous.  Be cautious and if you meet do it in a public place not just once but every time for quite some time.
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You can get really, really close to someone on the Internet very quickly. That is because both of you have your guard down and reveal things more quickly than you would in person. Also, there are no distractions, such as physical attributes. That is fine, you can fall in love with inner qualities rather than outer, but there is a problem. You do not know if the person you are talking to online is telling the truth or is just giving you the answers/information you want. Also, is it just that since you have to talk one at a time it makes that person a good listener. You do have to be careful, there are strange people out there. However, if you are careful then meet in public and have someone close by, money and a phone in case you need to exit.
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First: Sure, it doesn't matter how two of you got introduced each other - through net or social program or at a shopping centre; just couple decades ago freely dating around was same as today's net relation and soon it will become normal exercise in society. So don't worry about how you began. but sure you should consider little longer time to meet him to check his interest keep rising or dimming without having some fun, not in a rush.\n\nSecound: to find out about him - at least try to know and meet his family, friends that he associate with soon you can in a usual manner, before get attached deeply, - well, rest you will know as time pass by. there is no masic pill to be confirmed about any one instantly - so be slow, have control on self,concentrate to figure out he is honest minded or not, and ofcourse, be careful in the beginning. people get hurt / been cheatted - no matter from where they find partner if dive into "Cool" just as swimming pool. Another thing i believe: who ever begin with too charm/ impression - often appears as bitter in later part.\n\nFinally: Just let you know that i found my girl friend through net two and half year ago - we have wonderful relationship that we both proud of, and very happy. this year we are going to marry. personaly i appreciate myself that i never allowed myself to  any cosmetics bundles or showing around * thing * ; feel lucky to get a real lovely girl. you are welcome to look at my yahoo profile " ravinecord " ( although i blur the picture a bit).\n\nSo be confident and in the beginning sure be careful.\n__ best of luck.
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I DONT C Y NOT I WONDER WHO THIS GUY IS?  DOES HE KNOW WHAT U LOOK LIKE HAVE U SENT HIM A PIC OF U YET?  TAKE YOUR TIME AND LET THINGS FALL WHERE THAY MAY.  U NEVER KNOW, U MIGHT HAVE YOUR NIGHT IN SHINNING ARMOUR.  AND IF NOT AT LEAST U HAVE MET A GOOD FRIEND.   SOMEONE U CAN TALK TO ANYWAY.