How do you feel about strippers?
407426
Well its not cheating but it does fuel lust.\nI'm not saying its right , but its what men do..LIKE TO LOOK. \nStrippers are usually about the money and an ACT. \nMost strippers and I'm not saying all are lesbian and talk really bad about the men backstage of course. Especially when they tip bad. \nNot all clubs are actually allowing touching it depends on the state and area laws.\nIt obviously makes you feel uncomfortable.\nAsk if you can go with him to see what the club(s) are aboutt hat he goes to.\nIt may ease your mind or you will know if this is going to be a potential problem.\nKeep in mind when the money runs out usually so does the interest.\nTry stripping for him. \nYou can get more personal than strippers can.
391925
My boyfriend & I along with another couple went out one Friday night to the local Comedy bar & club. The scene was dull so we left & rode around looking for an Adult Novelty store. Well, needless to say we ended up @ the strip club. This place gets completely nude. The other couple is married & we have been together for 6 years so we were not new to eachother. I had never been to one before. I had a blast. We were there for like 3 hours. This was about 2 months ago. I have not been since but look forwarding to going again. \n\nHe does not go without me.
206780
You are a stripper and you are asking US if it's normal???
530885
how do u feel about that
408648
Probably not. First of all, you'd have to deal with hundreds of other guys seeing YOUR girl without her clothes on. Also, you'll constantly be worrying that she's sneaking around behind your back with one or more of those guys. Not to mention the fact that most strippers are into the whole party scene, which will not only get old soon but will also make it hard to take her seriously.
989404
When I was young, to be a stripper of anykind was just a notch above a prostitute.  I don't know when it became 'cool' to be taking your clothes for money.  I still think it's trashy for men or women.  Disgusting actually.
52592
Yes, I would.\n\nIf he was serious about it, it's not my job as his partner to rule his life. It wouldn't make me notably uncomfortable. The only thing that would make me hesitate is if he didn't ever want me to come see him perform. I think it would be fun to watch him now and then and, as long as this new activity isn't shutting me out entirely, I'd be happy to let him take his gear off and get down.\n\nI'd want to know all the details, of course. A club for men? Women? Couples? Bachelorette parties?\n\nHe would also be expected to take me out to dinner once in a while, but that would be true even if he wasn't stripping.
1076806
idk...im a stripper and i find me sexy...does thst count!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
252421
sacramento will pay well, but look to reno in nevada for better rates. my sister worked at a strip joint in reno for a few months, even without stripping she would pull in a few hundred a night.\n\nshe told me once that the strippers made between $1000 and $5000 a night depending on the clients and the stage... she did also mention once that none of the strippers seemed happy though, something to consider....
1050020
I'm going to assume this is a sincere question.\n\nHaving a private stripper show is a terrible way to discover whether or not you're capable of feeling sexual urges. For some people, that sort of thing is highly arousing, and for some people, it's a huge turn-off; both reactions are within the range or normal. Everyone is different, and there's no one "test" that will work for all people.\n\nIf you're afraid that you're incapable of becoming sexually attracted to someone else, or incapable of feeling emotionally attached to someone else, you would do best to step back and pay attention to your own interactions with other poeple. Do you feel emotionally attached to your family and friends? Do you feel sexually attracted to someone you've just met, but who you find attractive and who flirts a little?\n\nIt sounds like you're old enough to get into a strip club, but you've never had a girlfriend. I'd recommend you avoid strip clubs and girlfriends for the moment, and concentrate on meeting new friends of both sexes, and all ages. Meet some new people, and allow yourself to feel emotionally attached to those you like, and sexually attracted to those you find attractive. \n\nDoing this will make your emotional life richer, and help you expand your capacity to feel. And hey, if you're lucky, you'll meet a girl whom you feel attracted to AND emotionally connected to, and she'll feel the same.
192622
I have seen obvious butch lesbians in gentlemen's clubs. I've seen many more average to very good looking young women, usually in small groups of two to five, in the clubs. I've even seen small groups of young women enough times to recognize them as apparent regulars. (I would tend to assume they are bi-sexual, but who am I to say?) I have seen a good number of couples. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman admiring other women and wanting to watch them strip. I feel safe in assuming that there has been more than one case of a female customer going home and trying out what she has seen on her husband or boyfriend, or both. I see young women buying lap dances nearly every weekend.\n\nIf you go to a club for whatever reason, just remember, the dancers are women not all that different from yourself. Ask questions, learn the rules, and above all else, treat the dancers with respect. They are not prostitutes. Well, maybe a few out of thousands are, but even they are human beings with feelings.\n\nDo not be like the young woman I observed a couple of weeks ago, who sat at the tip rail and didn't want to tip. When Calli spoke to her about it after her performance had ended, the woman gave Calli a bunch of lip about how she didn't know tipping at the rail was mandatory, even though the D.J. had been continually reminding the customers the whole time the woman was in the club, then threw a dollar bill at Calli's feet. Calli picked up the dollar, dropped it into the women's lap, and told her she didn't need her one dollar. What really amazed me was that several young men began to applaude Calli, as did I. (I was amazed because of the fact that so many immature, thoughtless young men think, "Oh, she's a stripper, so she has to be just a slutty whore! Therefore, we can treat her any crappy way we choose.) I spoke with Calli about the incident a bit later, and she told me that she had told the woman, "I don't need your money. I've already made plenty of money tonight. However, I should think that as a woman, you would have more respect for me. I'm working hard to entertain you as well as everybody else in the club."\n\nDuring one of Nicki Hunter's feature performances, this same thoughtless young woman leaned over the stage, picked up the two DVDs Nicki had laying there, kept one and gave one to her girlfriend. A minute later, Nicki turned around and asked, "Where are the movies?" Without any hesitation, I pointed at the woman and said, "Right there Nicki." Nicki retreived her DVDs and told the woman, "If you want one of my movies, come see me after the show, and I'll sell you one." Trust me, when Nicki tossed the DVDs to a couple of lucky customers, said customers were not either of those two women!\n\nDo not for one minute think that stripping is an easy job. If you do, try it sometime. For one thing, you will use muscles you didn't even know you had! For another thing, it is a tough job being nice to people who are looking down their noses at you, especially the ones who don't even have enough class to take a shower and change clothes before going to the club and expecting the ladies to sell them lap dances! Yes, it happens. I myself have had to change seats or walk away for some cretin who reeked of every sort of bad body odor known to mankind. I've even known of guys passing gas in the clubs without so much as an excuse me!
320448
You're dumb\n\nI wouldn't mind watching a stripper kick your as_s
1083718
I don't think stripper do anything for free. At least $200/hr
418640
NO! Dollar dances are tacky beyond words.\nA wedding guest should be able to attend a wedding reception without bringing a single dollar, not for the bar, not for a "wishing well", and certainly not to dance with the bride!\nA wedding reception is a celebration, not a charity benefit.\nThere is NO means of billing the guests that is at all socially correct.\nBesides which, a woman who accepts money to dance is usually found in a much racier environment and while I have nothing at all against strippers, I can't see why any sensible bride would want to emulate one at her reception.
693320
Hire a stripper for a one night stand.
209083
First of all, do you really want to be a stripper??? and second of all...if you are going to be a stripper, do you really just want to be AVERAGE?  My Dad always said, if you are going to do something, better plan on being the best at it!!
1004802
I am totally on the same page!  I'm so tired of jerks.  Met a guy the other day, hot, seemed real nice.  He got my number, seemed real attentive.  Then he disappeared.  A girl was dancing like a stripper and he was all up in that!  Jerk.  \nI think the nice ones are too shy or already taken.