for guys: is skinny hot or is "curvy hot"?
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you are not chubby! Trust me. I was that same weight but 2 inches shorter and was constantly being interrogated by my family and friends that I was too thin. Add 2 inches and you're much thinner than me!
253209
i am 5 one and a half, 25, and 128 lbs. i have always been the skinny one in the group. if you have a little more cushion in your hips, behind, and breasts, believe me you will appreciate this in about 6 years when your "skinny" friends are flat as a bored with no a $ $ !\n\nreal women have curves. boo yah!
337337
Personally I like either type of woman. I love a slender woman's flexibility. Curves are nice to look at and wonderful to feel. I guess I just like women. The most important thing to me - and I know this is cliche - is what is she like on the inside. If she is straight and narrow inside I can deal with that, but if her personality is full of curves (twists and turns) then I have to step back and consider if I want to deal with that.
605307
I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
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thanks for inviting me to answer your ? i think the best way for me to tell you why i like larger women is to tell you why i dont like skinny women\n\n1) skinny women are shaped like skinny men. straight up and down, no curves, nothing.\n2) skinny girls seem like they feel that they are above it all, that guys should be falling at their feet.3) skinny women seem to be VERY judgemental, especially of other women. seem to feel superior to them all.\n\nin my experience and observation, a woman that has some curves seems to be more content with life, friendlier and more genuine than the skinny people. add to this that they are shaplier, curvier and just in general, healthier looking than a beanpole, i feel its a no brainer to want a heavier women.
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I think that they are.  Guys who are fat is the norm for us (USA).  I mean I work with several HUGE men.  But I also work with a few HUGE women.  Who gets the most sh*t about being overweight?  The woman.  Most people think that a pretty girl is a skinny girl.  I'm overweight but not grossly so.  I hate feeling the ugly one when I happen to be standing next to a skinny girl and a guy checks her out and ignores me.  But hey I don't really hvae to worry about it.  I have a loving guy in my life who loves me for ME.
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It's really not often about the body, and especially not about wieght.  Most women feel that they need to be increadably skinny, and for most of them, that level of thinness is unrealistic.  It is more about the way she acts and her personality than about how she looks.\n\nA woman with a good body and a bad personality can get along fine for a while, but eventually any guy she is with will get tired of her attitude.  A woman who is not physically attractive to the man she is interested in and has a bad personality, has no chance of a happy relationship.\n\nIn general, women are more concerned about their bodies than men are.  Most men have no problem with their woman putting on some wieght, it can make a woman far more attractive, but most women begin to get worried when they think they are getting "fat."\n\nI've always prefered a woman with some shape and a fun personality, especially when she has a good outlook.  A woman with some good curves, a little fat to soften her midsection, wide hips, and a good amount of fat to soften her butt...hmmmm, nummy.  Sorry, got off on a tangent for a minute there.\n\nThe best girlfriend I ever had had a healthy amount of fat on her, and the most attractive woman I ever met was a 40 year old woman who had what you might call a naturally seductive personality.  It's not about the body, it's about the person.
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I like girls that can't kill me by rolling over on me in bed.  I like girls with firm butts - not blubber butts.  Its a lot easier to fatten up a girl that is too skinny than to get a fat girl to go on a diet.  I like thin girls, but not sickly ones.
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Well most guys would tell you that they like skinny girls!! but are they telling the truth no why i say most guys like a girl with meat on her bones.Me i love a bigger girl i like to be able to hold on to some thing more then bones and skin!!Skinny girls always look like there going to brake real easy its like when you were little and went with your mom in to a glass shop and she said don't touch it will brake !!!!!lol
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hedzzzindahouse is right to an extent, I'm almost underweight and healthy but I think (most of the time) fat or overweight girls are more nice than skinny so most of the time I look for overweight people to date, most really skinny people think there "all-that", so I go for the other people, not necessarily "fat" girls, but not really skinny either (im not talking bad about skinny people , since, i am one, but alot of them ARE stuck-up, that Ive seen) but, just for the record, im not one of the ones who stuck-up.
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That depends entirely on our respective sizes. I'm not a small girl, by any means, and I typically don't date really small, skinny guys, either.\nThat being said, I like D O G G Y S T Y L E. No one is crushing is the other.
57056
As with anything in life, everyone has their preferences. Initially most people will be attracted to someone else by looks but if they have any substance to themselves they will usually like people for their personality and interests. "Skinny" is not always an automatic guarantee that guys will like you. My husband prefers girls who have more on them than just their clothes. Most of the guys I've ever known prefer girls with some meat on them.
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I don't like skinny lanky men too much, I tend to date taller bigger guys.  Just personal preference is all.\n\nAnd no they don't intimidate me, hahaha!
298391
Neither. I want to be healthy. Right now I'm overly fat, but I DO NOT want to be scary skinny... they look horrible. Besides, why would I want to get rid ALL of my fabulous curves? My fiancee would be heartbroken. (grin)
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Well I thank that it depends on the guy because some like skinny girls and some like big girls so they can have something to hold on to, then some guys like us medium sized girls, but all the guy friends that I have like skinny girls, but like I said it depends on the guy, and if you get a guy that don't care about your looks that just cares about your personality and your insides like sweetness, kindness and other things like that it shouldn't matter.
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Hi! This ones for the guys! There's nothing sexier than a man in a black muscle shirt...and he doesn't need to be bulky...if you know what I mean! Too much muscle is unattractive in my opinion. I love average build...think john Stamos! Got it?
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Every guy cares about looks -- that's just the way we are wired.  But not every guy has the same thing that turns him on -- some guys are into skinny women, some are into normal-sized women, and some are into large women.  If a particular guy isn't into you, don't sweat it -- you can't change a guy's preferences, so just find a guy who is attracted to you.  In the meantime, having a cool personality and a good attitude helps too.