Do guys still go for classy ladies?
395895
Guys like that make me want to separate myself from the rest of the male gender. While I can see what they find attractive about her, it's purely physical. In the meantime girls that look just like her are walking the streets all around them.\nHer looks are nothing special.\nThe only time "slutty" is attractive to guys, is if it's directed towards us, and we think there's a chance (IE our girlfriends/wives acting slutty).
352897
it depends if the guy has a nice personality. =)
787559
if you are looking for a wholesome interior, then looks do not matter, but if all you care about is a soothing exterior, then I guess they do...\n\neither way, to me, they don't matter anymore. and yes, it can work if you don't find a person cute. I had a type before I found the man I am with, we were good friends, and I saw something in him that I never saw in the good looking guys I always went for, I mean he's not bad looking, but he wasn't my type then. we have been together for going on 7 years now and we have two beautiful children together...the tables have turned now, I went from being thin and fit to gaining alot of weight with my pregnancies, and he still looks about the same, and I was a very beautiful person then, and now, I have a nice face, but you wouldn't see that if you judged me by my weight......but he's still here, and he still loves me more each day!
343145
oh many. most men who are not goreous (and that is about 70% of them) tend  not to be arrogant and nasty. they can get with real women and not the barbies that the other fellas are gushing over. They are kind and real. don't sweat it sweetie. you're too hard on yourself. Only 2%  of people in the world are gorgeous and they are too busy trying to be perfect to bother with.
1169545
Not necessarily. I can't judge what men look like cause I'm a man myself, but the homies I've had that women were really digging didn't seem to go for the most gorgeous girl. They kind of went for the total package. Beautiful inside and outside. Not necessarily the most gorgeous on the outside.
35278
I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
1178467
Most women don't know what they want even at an older age. I think most of us go through a period of yes, we do want the type of guy listed above, cute, smart, funny, respectful, but when we get that there just not bad enough. Don't have enough edge, they seem sissy to us. As women mature and grow older then we realize that those bad boys are just well, bad boys and we actually want a commitment from a guy not some loser w/o a job or ambition for anything.   While it's hard on guys, you just have to be patient there's  girl out there that's wanting a nice guy and can't find them and get's stuck w/ losers...hell, i always did. I think sometimes it maybe not so much a sense of false hope just maybe afraid of oh, my gosh what are my friends going to think b/c he's just so nice and this might make them think he's too sissy. I wish you luck in you search. God bless.
294668
It honestly depends on the guy.  From my experience anyway.  Some guys are genuine and look for a gal with a good personality (which is what should be important), although looks are also important - but should not be a deciding factor in whether or not a guy is interested.  There are guys out there that are more concerned with looks, but hey - looks can be deceiving :P
177195
If you're a true lady you will not make the first move. Call me old fashioned, but he has to romance you. Think about it Miss. You are worth more than diamonds. Don't settle for nothing less.
383658
It's not just looks. How about charm? honesty? trust worthiness? You might say so but looks aren't all you look for in a woman, in the same way, that's not all women look for in a man.
956760
ABSOULTELY! Sometimes a guy will be more impressed with you if you make the first move. In 2007 the chicks should be able to do what the guys do.
458456
Guys still like girls like that.As long as they have something in common it doesnt matter what.Some guys like girls more if they arent very sporty.So it really depends on the guy
528631
I'm not totally following where you are going with this...  You sound like a nice enough guy.  Confident.  Sucessful.  Maybe you aren't meeting the right women?
394691
i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.
138334
im afraid to say some are! (as there are some guys looking for only trophy girls)...but there are ones out there looking for something more....honesty, able to communicate, similar interests...perhaps look in diff places...one just needs to be still and let love discover them...if yar interests are say celtic then go to a irish,scottish group..or renn fair...etc...try something new...be urself..good luck
612364
never loose your class. always smile, be polite and do your job. we all love complements,so a smile and a thank you should be enough. but as all us girls know men can be to assertive. unless hes  drop dead gorgous, you just tell them you have so much going on in your life that your just not interested. if they still persisted, then you call security. have fun your only young once!!!!
220606
Chivalry seems to be a thing of the past.  It went away with equal rights for women, but some men, myself included, still treat the "fairer sex" with the respect and dignity they deserve.