how can you ask and girl out a girl never seen before and also don't want her to say no ,we are already talkin
408215
guessing you are chatting on-line, while you are chatting try to find out her situation is she single, does she want a fella or a friend etc, see if she would like to meet up some time, make sure you find out if its a date or two mates meeting up so you know where you stand before you go. \n\nbe yourself, honest and polite (that's the best anyone can do ) and see what happens good luck :)
850497
If you don't ask her anytime soon, someone else is going to and she'll say yes. What's worse than being rejected? She waiting for you to ask her but thought you wouldn't and ended up with another date. Go up to her and ask her if anyone has asked her to the prom then ask her if she'll go with you. Worry too much about being rejected and you won't get the girl.
643907
Privacy is the key word... dont embarass urself or her.. use a laid back aproach... such has asking her to go for an old fashioned date, such as a movie or a pizza or both... keep it simple and private in case it doesnt work out for one of you...aproach her with the simple guestion of *Hey, would you like to go to ______________, (fill in the blank) with me friday/saturday nite ? if she says no dont take it personally or make a big deal of it.. most times it is what happens after the guestion that makes the impact of rather you will look like an idiot or not...... good luck.........
928535
just ask the girl out already. time... whatever. it depends upon the person & you just never know how long they will need. so, ask her out now rather than never or waiting forever. hey, maybe something else is bothering her, so take that into consideration. yes, she may also be responding to your behavior as well.
185453
she isnt gonna say much cuz shes shy. u need to just ask her. she'll get nervous around u and try to get away if u talk to her like that. when the guy i like talks to me like that it makes me feel like an idiot and i always leave really quick cuz its embarrassing. just ask her. when ur talking. instead of saying dont be shy if u already are friends then ask her if she wants to go out sometime.
253056
You look at it as a learning experience and move on!  Not every girl you ask out is going to go out with you.  Just be polite and keep your dignity, at least in front of her...
866707
dont invite other people, just go on this movie "date" with her. Talk to more and get to know eachother. Just relax and just go to the movies, you dont need to talk much seeing as yous will be interested in the movie, Just ask her if she wants anything to eat or drink and than get it for her, rather than that dont need to say much just watch the movie. At the end than yous can talk about the movie, the likes and dislikes about it. Tell her it was a lot of fun and would love to do it again sometime. Just try to get really close to her as a friend and dont push it into anything more yet. And if yous keep going out on these dates than maybe she will see how great you are and than start likeing you more than this other guy. Just be there for her to listen to and give advice. Just a guy who she can go out and have fun with. If there is any connection with yous than it will be noticable later on thats when you make the move.
886792
go up and talk to her see if shes free on the weekend and if she is then ask her out. Trust me you'll know what to say when u start talking to her.
104157
did you just read what you wrote. THE GIRL YOU LIKE is going to be alone and she says that sucks. what part of this do you not understand. ask her out
845078
Hey, don't sell yourself short!  Just the way you explained your situation was wonderful.  You knew what to say, your charm and energy comes through, you expressed your feelings very well, and it was as "convesational" as posted question can be.\n\nI know it can be scarier to talk to girls without your friends around, but you know what?  The girls aren't all that sure of themselves either!\n\nDon't necessarily approach someone for a conversation thinking of it as a "date conversation" - just be yourself and start talking about whatever, and as the conversation progresses you can always say you would really like to continue and would she like to go out sometime.  Be casual and don't sweat the small stuff.  Remember, she's probably as nervous as you are!  You already are the kind and funny guy who can speak up and talk to girls for dates.  Sometimes we keep ourselves from doing something simply because we're nervous about it.  Life's too short for that, and I can guarantee you that the girls are wondering what they can do to get you to ask them out!  Just relax, be yourself and you've got it made.
784300
Girls like a confident person. It's OK to be nervous when you ask her out. Just be bold, cool. Walk up to her and just ask her out. You know she's going to say yes. Even if she doesn't say yes, whats the worse that can happen. Nothing. She could just say no and you would be just like you are now, still going on with your life and looking for another pretty girl to ask out. Its in your favor by being bold and confident.
193795
Just be yourself and ask them "hey do you want to go get something to eat or maybe see a movie?" Okay if she says no thanks, thats okay because hello earth has many other girls so you have time to try each one and there is bound to be someone for everybody so if it is a no keep your head up high.
893766
You need to relax and wait for her to return the call, if and when she does ask her out.\n-NmD!
205658
OK listen up the first thing a girl does not like to be pressured and i no from experience OK you go up to her when not to many friends are around and just start out with some small talk and then move in tho the big thing like what are you doing this Friday night because i was wondering if you would like to go on a date with me and she what she says form there....need any more advise and you know where to find me
402178
you are just scared that she will say no still.  My friend tony once told me that for every 10 people you ask out 9 will say no, but the 1 that says yes makes the other 9 rejections worth it....  so just do it!!!
1020837
ask her if she's ever done it before. you'd be surprised how many girl's want to do it and never have cuz they're affraid to ask the guy if they can do it to them.
158802
Walk up to her, open mouth and ask her out for something casual. If she says no then its her loss and time for you to find someone worthy of what you have to offer.