what should i do? is we really ready foe sex?
410726
1st things 1st, learn english.  then go have your tubes tied.  spare us all your degenerate children.
1167112
Girl, if he is willing to wait, I'd wait. Apparently he must have some feelings for you and that counts for something. If you really want to have sex, let him do oral and get yourself a toy. No harm in that and it's safe. Let's just call it "protective fun"!
534269
Don't think you should meet him for the very first time wondering whether or not to have sex with him.\nSee each other....get to know each other...see what developes...but running into a bed...shouldn't be in the agenda..\nHave a wonderful time....hope he is Mr Right!
1131039
SWEETIE WHEN U START HAVING SEX THATS WHEN U SHOULD START---TAKE ADVICE FROM A NURSE--SO DONT START SEX AND U DONT HAVE WORRIES
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".
302473
The question tells me you're not ready.  The 'how & where' question is not as important as why? and with whom?  Are you ready to deal with issues of pregnancy/contraception, STD protection, and emotional effect that becoming sexually active.  \n\nTalk with a trusted relative or family friend befor eyou take this next step
168427
do you mean sex or 69?  if he means 69, you should be on top.  if he wants sex, you probably should wait until you are ready and comfortable with it.  don't rush anything.
199808
The thing to remember here is that you are NOT ready but to not kid yourself and think that you can control yourself. You can't. Once you have armed yourself with that knowledge, you will also need to face the fact that the other person might be ready and will be trying to pressure you (no matter how understanding he or she will still pounce if given the chance).\nNow, one of the ways to deal with not being in the face of temptation is to be extra paranoid and find out exactly where, when and with whom the two of you will be going out with. If it is just the two of you, then make sure it is to a crowded and well-lighted place. Another good diversion is to suggest sporty outings; go play tennis or bowling, make it a good workout and hopefully both of you will be too tired to think about sex. If you not sporty, then even a few competitive sessions of mini golf or a couple rounds of pool might help do the trick.\nRemember, ONLY when you are ready.\nHope that helps and good luck.
261642
If you have to question having sex with him, then you shouldn't have sex with him.  If you want a meaningful relationship with him, it would be in your best interest to wait.
249160
really i think that you should ask your sex partner. and  since ya'll are already haveing sex then you and your partner should be close enoght to decuss it without being embrassed about it. just talk about it ask each other questions see what you can do to emprove
981927
You not only want him to respect you, but you need to respect yourself. Don't do anything until you are ready. And don't think that just because you fool around that you have to have sex. Take it slow, and think about how you feel about him and how he feels about you. Also think about how you would feel if he didn't want to see you anymore. Think about it carefully and don't let yourself get caught up on how "cute" he is and such.
626803
Sex is great, when you are ready, if you have to think about it, then you shouldn't have it, remember life is precious and don't think you have to things, just live life and you will know when you are ready!
403450
Only you know if you are really ready, and the fact that you are asking this question leads me to believe that you aren't. Sex can be wondeful, but if you have to guess if he is going to stick around, makes me think that perhaps you are not ready for the emotional consequences that could result in this encounter. If he really wants to be with you he will wait. If he doesn't then you know your answer.
913760
well he is ready. sounds liek what my bf and i were liek not too long ago. (weve been sating for 2 years) always talked abotu having sex. i told him how i wasnt comfortable wih the idea yet and wasnt sure (we were both virgins) so i just told him that. he didnt bother me abotu to as much as he used to before. i knew he respected my decision. i eneded up waiting over 1 and a half years intot he realthionship till i felt liek i was comfortable wiht it and everything. you shoudl just tell him that you dont know if your ready yet and if he relaly loves you he will respect your decision and stick it out till you feel more ready. there are better ways to please a guy that just sex. you can always make him dinner or something =) good luck. just dont rush into things if you dont feel ready. i dont konw how old you are. but advise waiting till you are in a serious relationship to loose it or have sex.
537380
ARE YOU READY FOR IT??? thats the question u should ask urself. having sex is not just bout getting physical, its about being comfortable with each other. your first time may feel a bit awkward but you'll get the hang of it over time. Dont worry if u think you are gonna embarass urself as its your first time. she'll "take the lead" and you'll learn how she wants to be touched etc. \nsta cool. lots of luck.
181399
The best thing to do is talk it over.  But don't make the common mistake that many of us do by asking constantly, especially if you are eager to have sex.  You don't want to seem desperate or impatient.  After you've talked about it the first time, wait and see.  I am sure that eventually things will heat up between the sheets.  It could be that both of you are sending mixed signals that suggest that you are not ready even if you sleep in the same bed.  And what ever you do, don't get into an argument about it.  Sex is sex and will happen when it happens.
995912
yes you are to young and you should wait until you get married , how well do you know him or her ? do you plan to stay to gther after high school or have a future or are u just having sex for the heck of it if you love each other then sex can wait and make sure you want to be togther and can love and trust each other .