I saw 3 BF cd's in my g.friend hand bag.now i think that she has a bad character so may i leave her???
415106
Of coure you can, it is a free country, but you may want to ask her about it before you jump to conclusions.
250183
My question is . . . why do you care . . . you dump him for a reason.  Why do you care is she goes through the trash and take him home.\n\nI would be upset . . . I would just feel sorry for her . . . because she doesn't know what a jerk he is.
199913
Hopefully,  she realizes that you are a true friend ,  and she has a dirtbag for a spouse.  Reality check though,  she will probably find a way to blame you for trying to seduce her husband .  It would be a lot easier than admitting that the man she wishes to spend the rest of her cinderell story life with,  is a lying cheating Puss-Bag.  Sorry hone,being you would suck ,  I would hate to be in your shoes,  But if it's any comfort,  I applaud  your courage and honesty.
985016
The ONLY right thing for you to do is to report it to the police.  She's in a vile situation with a monster, and if she's too afraid of reporting it, then be the best boyfriend that you can be and report it for her.  You can do it anonymously if you want to.
1182514
i dont really understand what ur saying girl, but why was she stealing in the first place, ask her that before u decide to stay friends with her! or else shell just get u into trouble!
285139
If your boyfriend believes her over you, you should be happy to get rid of him!! For real send her a thank you card if she gets him to break up with you, just say it wasnt worth fighting for you could of just asked nicely and i would of handed him over along with his shot record from the dog shelter and his favorite collar.... if he picks her over you he wasnt worth it!
1178209
yes,and she wants to look perfect for him. He is my b/f and I haven't found (the stash he says she has), I don't have any,but if I find them or get some,I will post or put them up,only they WON'T be on the net, they will be ON MY WALL, BY MY BED. I won't share him or his pics...ladies, HE'S TAKEN, AND HUGH, he won't be needing your services or help..I'M the onebunny in his life..He's MINE!!!!
36540
Yes I would definately apologize, and I would do so by saying I'm very sorry, excuse me..let me help you gather your things back up.  And if any bags broke I'd go get new ones for her.  It would be a high concern if he didn't apologize..or if it was on purpose.  But if it were a true accident, or if he was truly sorry AND helped then it would be a low offense.  I'm just a nice person! :)
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
536244
I would say you need to stop calling her your girl and just consider her as a f@3$k buddy. Then what you need to do is take H.I.V. tests  and everybody double check.
187152
It sounds like she really loves the guy.  That's not something that you just get rid of over night.  It's there and it'll be there for a while.  All you can do is help introduce her to new guys, ones that will help keep her mind off of her old boyfriend.
683611
she is  in the wrong... so leave her... don't try to understand her, there is no understanding her, she thinks she is gods gift to the world.  (i am a girl too)  I bet you treat her like she is a goddess too, but she is not worth it if she did that to you.  just leave her.  Your not wrong she is.
47060
Sure she does! She tells you these things bc she feels safe with you. Now if that's all she does is tell you all the bad stuff about her life and takes no interest in yours, then you are a crutch to her. It is up to you if you want to hear about her other friends taking a crap on her or whatnot. If you want to be the crutch, I suggest selective hearing. It can be a downer to hear about her crap friends, and keep suggesting that she gets rid of them and the negativity they bring. Hang in there, it may be a phase and she'll realise what a friend you are and drop the losers and hang out with you... someone who cares...
227061
Sounds like she is trying to be you.  She definitely isn't worth being your friend, but I don't know about picking a physical fight---just seems like a bad idea, especially if she could press charges.
110084
I notice you don't mention how things are with your current beau. But as for your bud, maybe he should dump her; she doesn't sound like the most trusting sort. \n\nAnd if you and your friend are that close, maybe you do belong together.
335232
If you care enough to feel bad, maybe you are more friend than you realize.  30 years from now she will be the only one you have any contact with... I would worry less about image, and that posse and more about doing the right thing.  Maybe have her over for a makeover... or have your posse do a total makeover on her... shes probably just scared or doesnt know what to do.
1153241
In my opinion, this sounds strange to me. Maybe her boyfriend said something to her about you after you and your fiancee' left that night. Since you just met this couple awhile back, he may be using you as an excuse to break up with her. Or he may have found you very attractive and keeps telling her that. That would make any woman upset. Whatever the case, she is mad for something her boyfriend said, not what you had said. For the dirty looks, and she tells you to go find a hobby. The man had something to do with this. If it happened to me, I would go on with my life. I don't need friends like that to ruin things for me.