how do you feel about guys always wanting to go futher in the relationship?is sex always on their mind?
409118
its pretty natural for love to take on the physical form of sex. there are other ways too where you like all the little ways about a girl and do special things to show that you notice, but my love dont often culminate in the form of quantum theory. you cant hold hands forever. yes, the sexual bond deepens the love with the act. it means she loves you enough to do so. a girl might love you enough to have sex with you when you don't really love her, but you know not all guys lead the felines on. i at least dont encourage it. but yeah it does kind of manifest in the physical act. why is chaste better
616610
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
993988
Well have you asked him if that's all he wants with you?  I mean, yes, a lot of guys would really like sex... but a lot of guys also want a serious relationship... I'm thinking most people are into both... If he loves you, he might just think that it would be the natual progression to start having sex soon, because it IS a very intimate and personal experience that people want to share with someone they really care about...
713668
Id think, it just depends on who the guy is and what hes got on his mind. My experience is, being a guy, he may want you to just get to know him for real, and he do the same with you. However, sound like to me, really, he just wants to be friends and thats it. Most guys will do this when he wants to get to you, in a sexual way, then hes gone, its a conquest thing with some guys. I guess it all depends on him, and what hes really after. Id just ask him and find out what hes got on his mind. Good luck.
493979
is that the kind of woman you want to be with him or for him??? just someone to sleep around with??? if you've been watching him then you must really like him... do you really just want to be his fuk budy.
1157794
*Do guys really get attached in a simple and non outspoken girl?\n\nHmm, I'd have to say I would. But... I can't speak for all men. It's a matter of an individuals opinion.
561163
It really depends on if you guys do not depend on each other for financial need.  If you can leave the relationship and can rely on yourself to provide for yourself, then it is not rushing things.  But every decision you make is based on the long run.  If you are taking things step by step and you feel you aren't rushing things that is fine.  But normally, long successful relationships run slower than the pace you're at right now.  But what is normal nowadays?
157688
Nope.  A guy has to have some morals about himself. I don't see why a guy has to just think about sex all the time.  If he only likes you for your boobs, he's shallow.
518455
If the guy likes you he'll stay. Me and my girlfriend started having sex early too and she was having the same problem you're having now. She chose to tell me all her problems and she told me she thought that I lost respect for her giving it to me so easily. She also told me she wanted a real relationship; something more than sex. I love that girl and we've been together for a year a three months now and we're going strong. If he really wants a relationship, then he'll want the same thing. I know from experience.
128896
This is a curious topic really. Men ponder the same thing and feel the same way. Most would rather be with “someone” then the right person. I believe that the big issue is that people seem to forget that dating is when you should be getting to know that potential person better. Too many people seem to take on dating like it is a commitment. The only time it should become a commitment is when each person makes that conscience (and verbal) decision with one another.\n\nOne big pitfall that I have found though… everyone changes with time. Some change for the better, some for the worse. It takes a lot of work to keep any relationship working and requires the willingness of both parties. If one is “out to lunch” there is little hope.\n\nHope this isn’t too opinionated but if so, remember it's just mine ;)\n~CLO
263145
This happens with ANY relationship. And it happens with everyone. Not a single soul on this planet can say that this thought has not crossed their mind.\n\nHaving said that, do you see all those going their seperate ways? No, right?\n\nSo at times when we are hard pressed and pushed to wall in a relationship, our thoughts invariably go to eliminate that pressure and which is "Wish I was single and not in this relationship..." \n\nNow, what is freedom? To do what you want to do? Well then what is a relationship? Freedom and Relationship doesnt go in parallel. You cannot eat your cake and have it. Compromise and Sacrifice are two strong pillars of a solid worthy relationship...\n\nIts all upto you to be rational and debate that thought with good things that are happening in your life because of this relationship and move forward.\n\nIf you still think "More Freedom" is what you want, I guess you should stay single... \n\n.:Fishie:.
836903
Absolutely, Men do feel this same way for the ones they love. The damned thing about it all is that there is no way that we can read each other's minds, you know? \n\nI have spent thousands of minutes and hundreds of hours wondering if my girl was thinking of me and missing me when she was off on trips. Most guys don't like to talk about their feelings and if you badger them they close inward and will even put up a wall. \n\nI have found that this happens mostly when a guy is insecure about sharing his feelings because he believes that being open will be percieved as being weak or unmanly. Rest assured, if you have built up enough value in your relationship then YES! your man is missing you even when you go down the street to get coffee!
406995
I think about it 24 hrs of tha day, 365 days of tha year,ALL tha time!  Its important to certain woman. Some women are happy with once a week, once a month, but then you have tha other side who they want it all tha time. Right now I am seekin a man who will sex me more than just 5 times in a day! Not sayin tha sex is going to make or break my relationship, Im just sayin tha me personally wants to be in a relationship where we sex all tha time!
296376
I'm a guy, but I think that if someone does not want to make a commitment to you, it may be time to move on.  I would ask why he feels that way...is it indecision, fear, immaturity, wanting to play the field or does he not love you enough?
874556
You are entitled to withhold sex whenever you want.  I think, however that Love is not demonstrated just in sex.  Does he do other things that make you feel like he loves you, does he care about your well-being?  about your interest? does he treat you with respect and affection?  If he loves you he would not want to hurt you and confuse you.  If it was me, I would stop having sex, and would start simply dating.  I just want to say that you want a guy who is certain that he wants you and wants to work on the entire relationship not just sex.
109627
If the two of you have decided to have an "open relationship", it's not a problem, and you can "chase guys" if you want to, too. However, if what you are looking for is a committed relationship, then no, it's not all right, and why are you still with him?
857417
i think what you are trying to get at or say is that guys wont move on from their girlfriend whom they can get regular sex from until they find someone else or some other means of getting regular sex. this guy sounds like a tool. end it now, save yourself from the heart arche and from being used.