Was the chocking of this gay man merited? About 8 years ago one of our friends who?
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good lord...you've got a wierd crowd. what kind of guy would harrass another guy like, and then try to kill him.  that's absurd.
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If he was gay he would tell you. You can't make that judgement for yourself. I have a hairdresser that I thought was gay, no question. He had the mannerisms and everything. Then he started talking about his wife. That totally threw me. I also use to work with this totally beautiful girl at a cosmetic counter. She was totally feminine but I found out later she was lesbian. I never would have guesses. I never judge by appearance anymore.
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I find it strange that he has to defend himself so much. Personally, I've known a lot of gay people. Some were open about and some were not. The ones that were not usally had their reasons for not wanting people to know. If he is gay, (and it soinds to me like he is) He has his reason for not being honest about. And truethfully, It's really nobodys buisness if he is, except his.I hope I helped some with your question. You helped me A LOT with the one I had. Thanks again.
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no he is definitely not gay he went out with Kelly Osbourne and before that he had a long time girlfriend Kate who tragically had a drug overdose on the 4th of July in 2004 while pregnant with his baby. the whole thing with Gerald from mcr i think was just a publicity stunt but they have been long time friends.
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No he is no gay he has a gf but thay say he is bi for mor info go to Channing -Tatum.com  and go to he myspace pag
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How long has he been your friend? I'm sure that if he hasn't tried anything with you yet, he won't. And since he's your friend, he probably knows that you are straight and won't try to put moves on you. It's not like he JUST turned gay, he's still your friend (I hope), accept him for who he is.
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yes, but mine was more, I loved him for 15 years, only to find out after finding him again that he is gay. That hurts big time.
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There's really not much you can do, since you probably won't change your other friends' minds about this situation.  However, they might be hurting because they feel like they've been betrayed - maybe they think that this person they thought they knew isn't the person they thought he was at all.  Maybe calling him names is their way of venting this frustration.  If this is the case, maybe you could talk to them about how hard it is to admit one's sexual orientation, especially when family relationships are at stake, that there was a reason he had to keep it a secret.  Make sure you keep supporting your homosexual friend, because with all of the opposition (especially the family opposition), he really needs you right now.  If these people can't accept your decision to remain friends with this person, then they probably aren't friends worth keeping, if they were ever really friends at all.  In any case, I don't believe in homosexuality myself, but I hope that you and your friend are able to find peace in resolving this situation.
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He is straight.  He used to be the host of Talk Soup on The E! Channel.  Sure wish he was one of us though.  What a hottie.
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You should be there for him! He has been honest to you and you need to support his decision! Thats what friends are for.  Thats so cool actually because id like a guy friend that was gay.  They are so sweet and caring and make the best friend out of everyone.  Accept his decision and carry on with your friendship as normal.
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I have a friend who is gay.He grew up being my brothers' friend.We were always together,people thought we were a couple.This went on for years.Then one night he tried to commit suicide.Thank God he called someone to help him.He said he thought it would be best if he killed himself because he was afraid we would not accept him anymore.Boy was he wrong!We did not not shun him.He was & is still part of the family.We don't treat him any different now.We never will.I know that a lot of people say homosexuality is a sin.But it isn't my place or anyone else's to judge you or any other gay person.I know my friend is alot happier now that he is not secretive about his sexual prefferences.I have called my friend but he has not returned any of my calls,but i know he is fine because his mother has told me.Whatever his reason for not calling me,is his choice.Maybe i was just in his life for a season.Who knows?I still consider him my friend.I know he is Happy with his partner,so i am not worried about his well being.I would never turn my friends away,no matter what.Well unless they did harm to my family.That is a different thing.Anyway,this is just who i am.Be Blessed! Monica
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Hi there!\n\nWell I'm sure your friend did not "just discover he is gay" it's not like you look under this rock one day and Oh My God I just discovered this.\nIt just sounds cute the way you said it, but I'm sure he has known for quite a while because gay does not BING turn on all of a sudden.\nSo support him be his best friend more then ever right now, because it took him tremendous courage to even speak to you about it ...I would think.\nI don't know how old either one of you are but it is the same for heteros as homos we all need and all need at the different ages, so just be there for him and love him. It will all come in time, his courage will build and he will meet people just as everyone does, give it time. Maybe at school there are some support groups for gays, something like that could be helpful for him and help him feel more secure about himself plus he could meet people.
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Absolutely. I've had many gay friends, and I am happy to say they were all great people. More power to you for being open and honest. I realize that even in the 21st century there are risks.
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there are plenty of men that are gay and married. anyway\nI do not think he is gay or it would of been all over the place by now..
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Some people are just beant to lash out.  I really don't know that it means he is gay.  It could just mean that he was raised to have a belif that is counter to the life style.  Open alternative life styles are new (Yes its been there forever..b ut having it in the common has not been since the roman days).\n\nIts best to understand that what is normal today was not yesteday and be as understanding towards teh hate filled as you would prefer they were to you.  Those people will miss out on alot of life being so closed minded.   Let that be their punishment.\n\nTo not be able to enjoy the company (as a friend) of another man or women do to their sexual prefernce.. leads you to missout on some great friendship.
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no thats a gay person that hasnt come out and said that their gay.
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^  He's one of those GAYs   ^^\n|                          \n|