My girlfriend just called me and said our relationship is over?
415414
yeah its not the end of the world i went through the same stuff but at least she wasnt keeping you around to spend cash on her like my ex did...All you need to do is move on you didn't do anything wrong she did...
156221
I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
1114158
well i dont really now whats going on with this whole story but i know that feeling and my advice is that if its not completly over call her! but if it is go see one of your friends and make shure they feel like talking... good luck!!
1060128
It sounds like you guys need to talk. People show their affection in different ways, and maybe her style isn't your style. That doesn't necessarily mean she loves you any less.\n\nOn the other hand, maybe she is having second thoughts and is preparing to break up with you. Often, people distance themselves emotionally before dumping someone so that the pain is not as bad-- they've broken up mentally long before they say the words.\n\nMy suggestion is to sit down and tell her how you feel and be open to what she has to say. But don't stay in the relationship if the feelings aren't mutual. That would be a waste of time.
531789
wow-- u sould like a great guy, i wish i had a guy like you. I think she cant believe what she has. Maybe she is taking a break to find out what she has is true. Dont ignor her, just give her time. dont call her, dont do anything. wait for her to gather her thoughts. and she will come back, she will realize what she has. Did she say y she broke up with you? I know its hard, and we have all gone through it, just give her time... time heals. dont call her.
1072259
Seems she still seeing if you are the right one.  She probably needs a little more time away from you to sort things out.  You should be content with the fact that she still cares for now.
382728
Nope, breaking up means it's over.
603775
She's a bit insecure, and like the idea of having you on a leash.\n\nshe is playing emotional mind games with you and keeping you hanging on, pretending that you may have a chance.\n\nShe may also have broken up with you because she wanted to start another relationship with someone else, and then the other guy blew her off - she is stuck in a rut and has no-one to give her attention - and she knows that you still have feelings, so she calls you again, and makes a re-connection.\n\nshe is playing games with you - trust me, I have done this to a few guys, it's not nice but it's part of life.\n\nif you really wanna give it another go, try and get back with her, but give her conditions and ground rules, so she doesn't take advantage of your naivety and vulnerability, cos she knows that you are a bit soft and gullible, etc... sorry.\n\nanyway, if i was you, i'd GET RID!
700990
i think you should stop calling her. I realize it will be difficult as sounds as though you really care for her but she is playing with your feelings. Sounds like she is out for her and not ready to be in a relationship. A friend of mine just went through something similar. Each time he got hurt more and more.  Guess I would tell her how you feel about what she is doing then if it continues its time to find someone new or accept the fact that is how she is.
953360
No. it means u got upset and hung up. Immature yes, but its not breaking up.
176533
Wow. You sound really angry. I guess that if you are serious about ending this relationship, breaking up with a friend is a lot like breaking up with somone you are having a romantic relationship with.\n\nYou could tell her that you are done with feeling humiliated and done with her mean comments. That you consider a friend to, at least, be someone who respects you. And that you consider your friendship to be over.\n\nYou may want to do this in person so it is formal and final and done in an adult way.\n\nIf you feel it's appropriate, you could tell her that when she is ready to treat you with respect that she could contact you, but otherwise, it's over.\n\nGood luck. You DO deserve to be treated with respect and not humiliated. I support you in standing up for yourself.
458841
Just ignore it. She sounds like she's really not moved on. If she had she wouldn't be thinking about you and making silly calls.
535940
Sorry, the relationship is done.\n\nSilent is not the best way to finish a relation, but it works.
930861
IF SHE USUALLY CALLS U AND EVERYTHING AND SHE JUS SEDDENLY KINDA STOPPED DOING THAT THEN THERE MUST BE SOMETHING WRONG BUT I DONT THINK SHE STOPPED LIKING YOU. ITS HAPPENED TO ME AND I KNO WHAT U MEAN
236304
Wow, sounds insecure!  Definitely move on.  Aren't you glad she was the one moving out?!?!?!  It made the whole breaking up process a heck of alot easier on your part!
679922
I think you need to give more details on your situation because I don't know what you are asking. What do you mean by you are "seperated"? \n\nDid you two once go out as boyfriend and girlfriend and was living much closer to each, but now live far apart but now the relationship is long term?\n\nAnd what do you mean you have problems talking to her on the phone? Describe what the problem is.....\n\nMore details please...
865947
Ok you kinda screwed up but you have to let this go. She obviously cares for you and trusts you she is back with you. Don't take this wrong but maybe you should just talk to a professional about this. You need to let it go because it will eat at you and eventually becaome an obsatcle to you being together. Find someone you can trut to talk this out, forgive yourself and enjoy your time with your special lady! life is too short my friend to do anything else!