What do you do, when you love a boy and the boy  you love, doesn't know you love him back?
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What?\n\nDid you tell him you love him?  Have you expressed your love (bad emo poetry, gifts, erotic delights)?  \n\nOr is the problem he doesn't love you back?\n\nTry again when thigns are clearer.
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thats why its called love its tricky not so easy.be away from both of them few days and see their and your reactions if one of them misses you then you know he truly loves you.best of luck.
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Well I agree with "The King" \nYou should tell the person how you feel and then go from there and see what happens but remember just because someone loves you, doesn't mean that you have to love them back. So keep a strong heart and a smart mind but as always HAVE FUN!!
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Truly loves you?  I wonder if that really exists with out you truly loving the other first.  If you wait for someone to truly love you it may never happen.  All you can do and all you can control is you.  You and your own feelings.  I would think that if you are asking about this then you are probably in love with someone and unsure of the others feelings.  Well of course you could ask...but really try this...open your heart and show it.  If the other person loves you then this will only create a space that will allow the other person to respond with love.  For you there also needs to be thought of what you need in life.  Things like helping you with issues you need handled or doing something for someone you love...but all of that is the easy stuff. I was involved with someone for three years and he did everthing for me...but he neer loved me nor I him.  Now I am ivolved with a man that I do not lean on for anything but his heart is mine.  Only after I opened mine and took a chance.
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Ahh. Love. \nIts when you love so much it hurts. \nWhen you hear their voice for the first time in days and burst into tears. Its when you worry about him for every little thing. When he's slightly emotionally hurt, you cry with him. When you feel like you can fly and soar no matter where you are. When you would do anything for them, such as heal them, or stay up all night until they feel better. You can imagine all eternity with him, no matter what he does. And if you're not loved back, you feel like you're nothing. How every single word of theirs echoes in your bed room. How they have invaded your brain and thoughts and dreams. And if they die right now, you feel you might as die as well. Even 1000 miles cannot seperate you two. And you miss them every second you're apart. and how you'd never forgive yourself for hurting them, ever.  But most of all, you glow of the happiness when you're together. \nThey seem to be your everything.....\nso thats how it feels. \nxoxoJenny
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The question is... How would you react if you knew that a boy loves you?\n\n            I will tell you a secret... I am a boy (well, a man actually). And we always have this feeling of uneasiness everytime that we are     in-love. There are far too many questions like: Uh! What would I do if I see her by the school grounds??; How will I react if she glance my way??;  And the worst question is: What will I do if she won't care about my feelings?\n\n       Some of the girls I knew told me that they tend to pretend that they don't like a boy when the time comes that they knew that they like her. And that is a very grave mistake. The best thing that you can do is at first tell him that he is so sweet or kind telling you that... Then, be his friend.. And then observe...\n\nThe best way to know if a guy is in-love with you is when...\n1. He remembers the most peculiar thing about your conversation... It means that he is listening and very interested in you.\n2. He does not hesitate to do cheesy things for you in front of other people. Example: He gives you love letters publicly.\n3. He is not afraid to talk to your parents about you... It means that he has good intentions.\n4. He gives you a simple gifts that probably he made himself.\nExample: A compilation CD\n\nThere are a lot more things for me to say... But i guess this is enough for you to figure out if that boy loves you... If you still need more answers just email me... Have a nice day..\n\n                                                                 ayskyubx@yahoo.com
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Be grateful that they care for me and they like me and feel flattered, i would just wait and let them think, give them space before they start to say they love me because it takes quite a while in a relationship to learn how to love someone.
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NO BECAUSE LOVING SOMEONE WHO DONT LOVE YOU BACK IS AN AWFUL FEELING TO GO THROUGH SO YOU SHOULD TELL HIM AND LET HIM FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE AND APPRECIATE HIM...... tHERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE.
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not much you can do if the person doesn't love you back.  sorry
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If you truly love the one your with then stay away from Ben before something happens you will regret. When you find yourself over analyzing the bad bits of your relationship find at least one good bit to put beside each bad one you think of. I bet the good out way the bad. When you find yourself daydreaming of Ben put your boyfriend in his place. Reprogram your brain to think of your man and the good times you have. This other boy is only infatuation. It will pass once your boyfriend gets home.
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YOUR ACTIONS WILL REVEAL THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT A PERSON. BECASUE IT IS HARD TO HIDE IT IF YOU HAVE A FEELINGS FOR THE OTHER PERSON AND IF YOU DO WHY DON'T YOU LET HIM KNOW SO THINGS WILL BE IN PROPER PERSPECTIVE AND EACH OF YOU WOULD KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT RATHER THAN JUST KEEPING IT YOUR SELF...APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE AND LET HIM KNOW IT.. IT IS JUST FAIR THAT YOU LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND IF YOU ARE STARTING TO FEEL THAT YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH HIM , LET YOURSELF FALL IN LOVE IF YOU FEEL IT. BE OPEN WITH YOUR COMMUNICATIONS WITH HIM FROM THE BEGINING IT WILL BRING YOU A LONG LONG WAY..
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you know the answer, turn them both down. one doesnt love you, you don't love the other, find someone who loves you and that you love
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i don't know what to tell you...this is a touchy situation...i understand the situation you are in because i have experienced similiar things....it's hard when you love someone and they act like that...you know deep down in your heart that sometimes it's best to go on with your life without this person and never look back....but it's so much easier to say then do.. you have to just take one day at a time and look at things and ask yourself...Is this what I want to go through for the rest of my life?  Weigh your options...look at the advantages of your relationship with him compared to the disadvantages of it...this is something nobody can tell you what to do...you have to not only follow your heart on this one but you have to consider what your mind says too...
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well i don't know if it's possible but u can find out...just separate from both of them for a while and see whom u miss most...then if u miss both of them the same it means u love both of them or none of them
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first of all..... if it's Love of ur life... and that guy or girl (u never know) is happy with the other person then wait and watch if that person is really love of ur life he/she will come back to u...
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well unless you know for sure that he loves you then dont tell him because if your the only one with the feelings then you may scare him off by telling him you love him.  YOu may sound obsessive or somehting and he might find it creppy or wierd...so just wait it out and let him no when you feel comfortable telling him and when you know that he has the same feelings for you as well. <3 Have a good day.\n<3Laurissa
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honey you can't help who u fall n love with but if your not sure if he likes u sit him down and ask him how he feels about u don't tell him u love him after u find out and if he likes u ask him out and go from there i've been there i never thought that i would ever go out on a date with this guy and now i'm married 2 him