how can i believe that she still love me.how can i trust on her she migth be playing with feelings?
400254
As a general rule of thumb if you don't trust your mate you are a bigger problem to the relationship than the mate.
958786
There's no easy way.  You need to be really honest with her for a long time.  Make sure it doesn't seem like your hiding anything.  Make your life and your schedule an open book.  Make sure you can be contacted at any time, and tell her exactly what you're doing whenever she asks.  Don't delete the records on your caller id or cell phone.  Don't hide emails or IMs from  her.\n\nIf she didn't break up with you, then she's willing to try to trust you again.  You just have to be very open for a long time.
359452
you can't.  all in all, she'll love when she thinks she can.  The best you can do is continue to love her and be a friend.  One day she may see the gift she has in you and learn to love.  Whoever said it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all was obviously never really in love.  And obviously not with someone who didn't love him back.
616597
Ehhh...\n\nDo you trust her?  \n\nIf the answer to that is no, then you should tell her your feelings, and if she loves and respects you, then she would stop.\n\nGood luck!
335835
a relationship is based on trust. you shouldn't have to test her love for you if your relationship is based on trust.  If she hasn't given you any reason to distrust her then you shouldn't doubt her feelings for you.  Try talking to her about it.  If you try testing her feelings for you behind your back it'll only hurt her in the end.
485150
Tell her how you feel...if she loves you she will understand and give you your space. If she freaks out about it maybe she doesn't trust you...but make sure you have rules when this "space" happens so that no one gets hurt...
488526
Love and trust cannot be forced. I appears to me that she has trust issues in the first place if she can't let go of something that she knows to be false. Of course, there is also the chance that something else is affecting her decision. Ask her to tell you why she won't return your calls, if she says she doesn't want to talk to you, you best let go. You could also try dropping communication to zero for a couple of weeks. You might make her curious and she might even come to ask YOU what's going on. Then you two can talk it out and figure out what is best for each of you. Hope these ideas can help you. Good luck. \n\nTo everyone else, It isn't fair to automatically consider someone to be a "moron" or "stalker" without knowing all the details. I think this person deserves the benefit of the doubt. We have all seen much worse than this. Thanks.
984025
Trust just like respect is not something that is handed to you in a relationship it is earned.  This is your proving ground now, a second chance in a sense, you earn trust by being trust worthy.  Show her you can be trusted and won't lie again unless you want a nose like Pinocchio!  : ^ )
439183
I know for a fact you want to trust him bacause i've been in this situation and I'm going to tell you what I did.  Trust him but to a certain extent.  Let him know that you don't feel comfortable with the situation.  If he still talks to her, let him go.  If he doesn't, give him that second chance.  You'll be able to tell if he really does still love you, because if he respects your feelings he won't talk to this girl anymore.
348516
Love is about trust. If you have to ask this question then it is too late. Either she is already cheating or you are so insecure about youself that its not healthy for the relationship. You are having these thoughts for a reason. Exomine them.. from there fix the problem, but if you feel she is cheating then you know what to do.
653023
we cant really explain feelings,,, just do not force her feelings give her time to realize if she really loves you..maybe you just need to miss each other.and if it turns out that she doesnt love you then give her freedom but if you really love her do your very best to win her hearts back... show your love to her and prove her your worth loving
110156
For Godsake, honesty man! If she can't trust the things coming out of your mouth, she can never trust you with anything. Particularly her heart.
576948
She could be in love with you or really upset about something. Really, she might be thinking anything...you won't know until you either ask her or tell her that you love her (if you do) and if she says that she loves you back, then everything is great.
745806
Prove to her that you are loyal to her. Tell her that the past is past. Find a way to tell her how you feel and make her happy.
270871
Ask her! If she is worth marrying you should be able to trust her? Right?!
1072259
Seems she still seeing if you are the right one.  She probably needs a little more time away from you to sort things out.  You should be content with the fact that she still cares for now.
446909
how close are you guys? sit her down were you two are most comfortable and just speak your mind, or if you arent one to speak your mind find a way to show her and get her to think that way for you, kinda like minipulation but for a good cause. if she feels the same way you can kinda tell alot of times, be confident and just tell her, womenX i have been feeling this way for a long time, Or my style---there was a secret i have been hiding from you for a long time, and it kinda scares me *build up the suspense*...i have never mett anyone like you, or something.....bla bla bla u get the picture, Dont be afraid of rejection, it either works out or it doesnt bro.