Can any girls help me?... I need to know if I'm really THAT insensitive?
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Wow.  And you still have all your teeth?  Are you kidding me???  YES!  A thousand times over!  YES that was incredibly rude.  wow- you should be lucky she doesn't wear any big rings.
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yea man.  i can help you out.  pretend you dont care.  if you want a girl just pretend you dont like her, and she'll come crawling back.  never failed.  girls dont you dare get pissed at me either.  you know its true!
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girly girl to a certain extent...no attitude problems...thats for a guy...cute, sexy, long straight hair, tan, somewhat shy, not everybodys best friend...not to popular, mild sense of humor... not funny all the time but has to be able to have a conversation...needs to be able to cuddle and be cute at times...but not all the time...know when to have sex or make love...theres a huge difference...also general ambitions, girls that are extremely goal oriented seem to be more distracted and less available, although they need to have some idea of where there going in life, finally, proabably the most is important is not to be to attached to early...it can ruin a relationship quickly, be sure before you show it...hopefully that makes sense a girl that becomes to attached to fast is a huge trait that i cant deal with, it drives me farther away, usually ending the relationship abruptly so i dont make it any harder to break up...wow i gotta little carried away...lol...ya hope i helped! \n\n\nbanshee_370@yahoo.com
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it sounds like you asked in the most decent way that you could. If she turns you down, there will be other women who are willing to go out with you. im sure you're a nice guy, u didn't come at her in a rude manner. Good luck though.
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Sounds like you are willing to listen to her and be a good friend, but she isn't being nice to you at all. You don't need someone like that! I'm sure that there are lots of other people that would appreciate your friendship and treat you a lot better! Don't even bother with this girl if she's going to act like that cause she'll just pull you down.
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jesus...hard to say.  I mean, if I can't have an intelligent chat with a girl, personally, I think I find myself sort of pitying her...and that's never sexy.\nbut\nthen again\nif it doesn't stir me to look at her,\nthen...\nwhere's the passion?
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First of all dont let anyone tell you you're too picky. No matter how picky you are, love can happen accidentally...it just takes a lot longer. It sounds like you didnt ask emira out because of what you thought she'd think of you, not because of what you thought of her. That's more insecurity than pickiness...and honestly, it's always worth a shot, if she doesnt want to date a guy that's the same age as her, that's her problem, not yours...but you didnt ask her, so you dont even know if it'd be a problem...probably not.\n\nBut...there are girls that arent slutty, that dont smoke and dont drink, and are straight and funny. Especially under 19. The fact taht you can deal with emotional issues is a great thing, and if u can be supportive of your dream girl, when you find her, you shouldnt have any problems keeping her. \n\nJust to prove my point, I'm under 19, I've tried smoking and dont like it, I dont much like the taste of alcohol. I will drink but only on occasion and only if someone else brings it up, because I can have fun w/o liquor. I'm straight, for sure. I try to be funny, that doesnt necessarily mean i succeed, but i do have a good sense of humor in that I like to laugh. I enjoy sex, but i'm not slutty at all..and dont dress it either. And i've been told I'm attractive but that's based on personal opinion, as is the "great personality" requirement. \n\nStill proving a point here:\nThat all might sound like a good thing to you, but if you got to know me you'd realize I'm pretty insecure and need to be reassured constantly, I've got a lot of family issues, even though I have a pretty normal family, if I want attention, I dont want to wait for it, and if i want to be left alone, i better be left alone. I'm tempermental, i'm brutally honest, i can be a major bitch or a major sweetheart, and you might not even be able to tell what i'm trying to be. I cant control the volume of my voice so I dont know if i'm screaming and I mumble a lot. I cant stand it when people are angry with me so i obsessively try to fix the problem which generally makes it worse.  i could go on and on and on. \n\nSo. While I do say, be picky, it's better for you anyway, be careful about your pickiness. Decide if the gir'ls age is really all that important because at 19, people are glad to be away from home & out on their own and they're gonna do w/e they wanna do. Or maybe you'd rather not date a schizo, even if she does have a great personality. \n\n---and everyone is picky, everyone has their little quirks and things that just piss them off for no reason whatsoever, so be as picky as you want to be, but dont try to morph someone into the girl of your dreams, it just wont happen...you'll just have to keep looking til you find her.
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Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
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Obviously if she is nonresponsive, she is not that interested. Why would someone not respond to someone they had interest in? I've done that before...just tried to ignore a guy. Use a little common sense.
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So you have a sense that maybe she doesn't like you or are you just feeling insecure about yourself? Ask her to have a cup of coffee with you, that's non-threatening enough.  If she accepts then you can get you know her a little better and then ask her on a more formal "date".  Good luck!
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You don't have to call yourself pathetic. It's ok to be nervous when talking to the opposite sex. I used to get nervous talking to guys when I was younger, but somehow I learned to manage and now I have a boyfriend. I'm still a shy person and I guess that's part of my personality. I guess you have to give it some time. Think before you talk. What is it that makes you stammer? Think of interesting topics to talk about with girls. If it helps,write some of the stuff down that you think you'd discuss with a girl. Then rehearse it so it'll prepare you for next time. I know it may sound stupid but you can give it a try and no one has to know. The key is making yourself comfortable when talking to girls and talk to them like you casually talk to your friends. Once you get the hang of it, I'm sure you won't feel nervous anymore. It's just a phase and it'll go away with time. Don't worry, just relax. Good luck!
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baby, its me, the one whom you answered my question which was. what is the best way to ask a girl out? Remember? email me at onyaa2000@yahoo.com--send me a TRUE recent picture of you, not one of someone else you claim to be, either-lol:) Then I will get to know ya.
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HOW OLD ARE YOU??? HEHEHEHE YA MISS OUT SOMETHING GOOD..  AND YEAH.. HE DOES HAS A RIGHT TO ASK.. IT'S UP TO U IF U WANNA DO IT OR NOT..  AND ERR.. THOSE ARE NOT FOR BAD STREET GIRLS.. I'LL SMACK THE HECK OUTTA YOU IF U WERE HERE..
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Too Sensitive, How to Toughen Up?\nEnjoy your sensitivity, not everybody is sensitive. It can, however, be hurtful in a less sensitive world.\n\nThere is a way to tolerate this world: Not to take anything personally. \n\nWhat people throw out and at others is mainly an expression of their own problems. You may want to tell yourself, "This is this person's problem, I am not taking on his/her mood, nastiness etc., nor do I react to it the same way."\n\nYou may want to try to smile, forgive and turn away, and release those from your life who are too insensitive, if you can.\n\nSome people however, need some drastic feed back, after polite and gentle approaches have failed.\n\nExample 1: A male student would always make some nasty remarks to a female student, when standing in line at the cafeteria, which embarrassed her. She was not used to such language. She planned an answer. One day, she finally said very loud to him, "This can only come from a boy with a low IQ as yours is." He obviously felt embarrassed to hear this from a girl in front of all the other students waiting in line. Amazingly, this was the remedy for him, he never bothered her again.\n\nExample 2: Another boy would enter late in the lecture hall at the university. When he detected where a certain girl was sitting, he would walk up to her and in passing squeeze her cheek. She was too shy to protest aloud and interrupt the lecture, but she planned a response. One day she came in later then he used to be, and walked up to him and whole heartedly squeezed his cheek. He left the girl alone after this.\n\nIf you are too sensitive to noise, Hypericum Perforatum works wonders. That's how you may like to take it: Place 2-4 pills (on milk sugar base only) in 1 ounce of purified water. Take a drop under your tongue very often, until the sensitivity gats less. Then take it less and less often, but at least 5 times a day to keep up the effect in the daily wear and tear. Non-addictive, nontoxic. Make fresh every day, make less if less is needed.\n\nI feel that it is most important in life, not to take things personally. And to "love your neighbor as yourself"(Bible) that is, we should not harbor resentment, but should let go and be free. Be you!\n\nEnjoy your sensitivity, you may want to use it to tune into the finer worlds and experiences, may be through meditation. You may be able to learn to sense ahead, find lost items or help others long distance. That's what sensitive people can become good at. It is all energy, and energy travels fast and everywhere we send it! \nMay you enjoy your sensitivity!\n\nCordially, India.Magica
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no, im not saying she has to be desparate. lol no need to cuss im just gonna say she doesnt seem to be so interested in u. that is if ure trying to make her like u.....if not then just go with wat u feel like u should say.
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Why are you so sensitive.  My guess is you have some self-esteem issues.
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Do not change except to change how you feel about this silly girl. She doesn't seem to respect you much at all from the sounds of it.Learn how to really like who you are!!! Rejection can make people doubt themselves and who they are.that can be natural at first,but you have to let it go.You must like yourself better than anyone,and enjoy being who you are before you can know what woman will be right for you. The one who accepts you as you really are is the one worth the wait and your time. hang in there,and be good to yourself. Do what you love to do,and enjoy being free while it lasts!!! Best wishes to ya'!