what do i do when my best friend tats a guy ignores me and then the next day he doesnt?>....?
405732
guys r really complicated ppl. they dont all react the same to everything. it could be that he is preocupied on something eles. a lot of guys will get something stuck in their mind and it might be there for the rest of the day. now if you hang out with him everyday usually, and he will ignore you one day and then the other, hes got a gf. or soething along the lines of that, or maybe somethings going on at home that he dosent wont you to know about. and it could be that he just needs his space.. or he likes you.
658117
I have the same problem she thinks that I ignore her around my other firends and then she does the same thing. When I confront her about it, it always ends up to be a fight or she responds with " Your a slut" and I am not. If i were you i would confront her about it or ignore her untill she sees what good of a friend you are to her.
806113
I think you should just continue to talk to him as usual, until he responds, cause, if he feels the same way, he will go for it. If he doesn't feel the same, at least you took the brave step of talking to him like normal, y'know? And your friends were rude and inconsiderate to tell him about your feelings. They shouldn't have done something like that out of thrill and excitement, just to see what happens next. I bet they're watching you both reacting right now like a hawk, with popcorns in hand. Set it straight with them, and I hope they will apologize to you. Good luck!
722274
Wait...Umm im not tryin to cause no type of drama but does luann know him like we know him? No hes NOT a dog... thats only because ya'll make him into  that...right? i mean hes not a dog to me and lise! Just so luann knows because he hasnt hurt you you havent givin him a chance to hurt you... right?? I mean i just dont understand why u wont give him a chance... I know u dont wanna get hurt like u did before but u cant stop that from happening..Its gonna happen regardless of whether u like it or not...And deborah for real...You KNOW i would never wanna see u hurt...But dang...I mean dont complain if you dont wanna take the chance ya know...? thats it..Just wanted u to know...\n\n              *Nay*\n\nWell, this is the "FORMER BEST FRIEND" (since Luann is that now). All I wanna say is, STOP BEIN SO MEAN TO HIM. People will like you more if you are NICE and not soooooo negative.   Let's work on that and see how it goes. K?\n \n           *the artist Formerly known as the Best( well actually I still amd the best...OK)*
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
481235
It doesn't necessarily mean, he's mad at you. When did he start ignoring you? If it's just been a day or two, try to understand him, he might have a problem that he couldn't sort out himself yet and doesn't know how to talk about it. So please be patient until he opens up to you.\n But if it's been weeks since he didn't talk to you, you're perception that he's mad at you might be true especially when you tried to reach out many times. \n But for me, it's better to be alone and true to myself than to please anybody (in a sense that I would do illegal drugs, smoking, gambling etc.) just for them to accept me a "friend". Just be yourself all the time and true friends would come along as long as you open your heart and reach out too.\n Best of luck...
638632
try being friends with him/her for a while and if you guys still fight just break if off and dont start off trying to bestfriends right away
89137
I strongly recommend writing him a letter. Make sure that when you apologize, if that's what you want to do, to do it for all the things that you said, and none of the things that he might have said at that time. Do not bring his part of the conversation into it; it's about you and your self-defense mechanism of being hurtful, not about anything he may have said (it's important to keep that in mind). Let him know why you lashed out, and that it's something that you do from time to time, and how it's something you wish you could avoid but can't right now, and that you're working on it (then you can make yourself work on it, right?). Then tell him that you value his friendship and hope that you can be friends once again. But remember that when you apologize you must do it from what went wrong on your side, not his. You can't change him, only yourself. And give it time. Guys have a warped view of time; we can let months pass without realizing it. Be nice, be honest, and be yourself, and he'll be your friend again.
592460
i know exactly how you feel... well, at least i think i do.. i am in love with my best guy friend whom i have known for almost 11 years... we are reallyc lose and a week ago, he confessed that he believed that we were meant to be.. blahblah.. and then we kissed.. and it's been a week and i have a feeling that he's avoiding me.. he's always busy and within the last week, he called me ONCE... that's it. and it was for a brief conversatio. i don't know what is going on... its really hard to do anything.. because i know that we were friends first.. and i dont want to risk it..\n\nmy advice to you... confront him before you assume anything and talk with him... talk it through... conversation is the best option you have... dont do like what i did and talk it out. it will save YOUR HEART from a lot of pain....
526988
TOTALLY IGNORE HIM!  That will absolutely do it.  He will be pissed at first and bombard you with messages, but DON'T CAVE IN and do NOT respond to him no matter what.  This works, trust me.
1089304
dont worry tat perfect guy of urs will surely come.. its just the matter of time and patience!!! if u tink he doesnt like u anymore,easy get a life!!! as simple as tat!! he's not the only guy on earth... u just had crush on him and who knows when u see another guy u like him more... typical i wud say!!! lol... so be done with it.. if possible give him a clue or sumthg tat u like him very much... sum guys are so insensitive!!!
800954
Forget about it and move on.  Not everything that comes out of someones mouth is meant to come out.  You know, sometimes your mouth moves faster than your brain can censor.  He made a verbal slip-up.  If anyone brings it up again, say:  "OH, I'd forgotten all about that!  I'm sure he meant nothing by it." Then change the subject.\n\nYou don't want to be with him.\nHe doesn't really want to be with you. \nAnd your best friend wants to be with him.\n\nForgive, forget, and move on.  :-)
750713
This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
784852
*** he's your friend but he doesn't like u?  u weren't the one who stabbed him were ya?  either way, i think u should prob go see him...apologize if nothing else.
941700
If he was truly your friend, he would have already forgiven you.\n\nsend him a note telling him how you feel, and ask him to respond. If he doesn't...well perhaps you should move on.
820950
Give it a little more time. Maybe he needs time to adjust, or he's afraid you're attracted to him. If you're not, you need to tell him. If you are and he's distancing himself because of that, well that's too bad but it happens all the time with heterosexuals too. If the friendship is supposed to be platonic and he keeps ignoring you, I guess he is not the kind of person you want to have around.
399367
Just be sincere and honest. You are a good friend and a valuable ally, he knows that. He may be hurt or annoyed but he will read your apology, understand that you care, and accept your gesture of friendship. You don't need to beg.\nYou need to remember that he values you and trusts you. You may have irritated him but he is already over that. He has thought of you and laughed several times since the "event". He does appreciate you, even loves you for your loyalty and sincerity. You are rare in this world and he knows it.\n\nJust be yourself, be honest, don't beg. If you screwed up just tell him. It will be fine! If you get emotional let it flow. You have great passion and he loves that in you. Again, he values you very, very much and he wants this to be resolved as much as you!