I thought women want men who are good hearted and not assshoels?
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Woman, do want guys with a good heart, however sometimes those guys are too easy to obtain and women sometimes need to feel like we put some effort into the relationship in order to make it work. i've dated my share of jackasses,but what i really want is a niceguy.... you might as well ask the meaning of life.
379003
what men want is a woman who is open minded.  Don't get me wrong, looks are what will attract us at first, but its the same for you at first too, isn't it?
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You nailed it right on the head. The women you are referring to want their handsome boy toy to play around with, and they get used and abused for years and years, then towards mid life, they decided that they want someone decent and loving. I reiterate what you just said, why should the good guy not have to settle for damaged goods, which they are,and with certainty, they will have psychological at the very least.It is quite refreshing to see someone like you call it like it is.
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For some guys all it takes are large breasts, but those guys are worthles.\n\nIf you are looking for a good guy, they appreciate intelligenc, a sense of humor, a girl that is spotaaneous and adventurous.  Also it's nice when the woman takes charge.  Some women like the man to make all the decisions, but some men, like myself, hope that the woman will take the initiative once in a while.
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Their static programming drives them towards sex all the time.  Any man who tells you otherwise either isn't being honest or doesn't know himself.\n\nHaving said that, some men are jerks, some are indifferent, and lots of men are good people who really do want to find emotional and spiritual intimacy with the person who is also the object of their sexual desire.\n\nThe good hearted should not take any shame for being thus.  \n\nTruly, women are this way also, though perhaps in a different proportion.
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I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
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maybe you are too selective.\nSome ladies get too slective on looks; so they end up with a good looking guy who treats them like crap.\nYou need to look at the whole package.
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How unfortunate that women think that way, yes.  But I don't abide by that whatsoever.  I wanted a good guy from the very beginning.  The only thing that made me go for teh bad boy instead was the lame reasoning, "you're too good for me".  Of course, the same generalization can be said for men too.  "All they want are women that put out". \nBottom line, I think good guys are wonderful; and I'm sure many women would agree with me.  So they're not flashy like corvettes, and are more like honda Civics.  ^^ Get a beautiful honda, you'll be so glad you did.
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As a nice guy myself, I can assure you that women don't want nice guys.\n\nHowever, since you cook, clean and do laundry, I'll let you move in.  Just don't expect me to put out.
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If you have good looks and muscles and women are not interested in your character, YOU ARE SEEKING THE WRONG WOMEN.  You can't change them.  Just look in a different place. i.e. NOT THE BAR.
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There's a lot and depends on the person and not men in general. I like men that are strong, funny, smart, witty and someone that is easy going I don't have to worry about how i say something sometimes or someone that laughs at his own mistakes. Like I said there's alot..
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Because they were told long ago that if you get a good job and have financial stablity that you will be able to get any woman you want. It simply isn't true, but some guys seem to be convinced that it is. I would hope that personality and kindness were more important.
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As you can see it all depends on the man. Everyone is different and has different values and morals...some good some bad. Some are looking for sex partners, some for financial stability....real mature men are looking for women with a strong sense of values who love them and are committed to building a relationship together.
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Guys are attracted to women who take responsiblity for their own feelings and needs, they might need a parnter to help them to meet the needs, but they don't put all that on the other person.
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Most women will say that they want a man who will treat her kind and be good to her, but when they get get one they often take the kindness as a weakness, and women want a strong man. I was with a woman who was once in a very abusive relationship, I always tried to be nice and gentlemanly but after a while it got to the point to where she was always trying to be dominant in EVERYTHING, I would try to be diplomatic and compromising but she wouldn't have it like that, it was her way or no way. She was very spoiled, she was the youngest of 5 girls and her father always let her get her way. But I've found that most women are basically the same way, if you give in to them too many times then they will become belligerent and abusive (not necessarily physically, but certainly psychologically and emotionally). Many will cheat, she got with my stepbrother while I was out out town working (more than once). I jumped on him when I found out then ran him off and told him to never come back. she was glowing when I came back inside. (like I had fought over her, it takes two to tango, she wasn't innocent) But I myself used to be of the same abusive, (yet non-violent) nature when I was married and I had a real good wife (I NEVER cheated though [didn't need to]). But I basically treated her like the couch in the living room, when I need it, it was there, other than that I could care less and when we'd argue I'd get off topic and just start saying things to make her feel bad. When my life left me I swore that I would never treat a woman that way again. (I still miss her after 15+ years) But all I seem to meet now are just plain wrong. All I can really say is be nice, but be tough. Try to be manly without being overbearing. But I don't know, I guess if it ever gets to the point that you're arguing and it looks like she's going to do whatever she wants anyway just to defy you, DON'T "punch her in the freakin face" punch a hole in the wall if you have to or break something (something cheap and trivial) DO NOT break something that she values. (I hope you don't have to resort to this) but when you appologize for it all (as you should) don't be too submissive. no whiney "Oh baby, I'm so sorry, I didn't mean that, please forgive me". Be firm, more like, "Look, I'm sorry, but you just really upset me", then explain what and how she upset you. Make sure you appoligize within minutes of your rage, it may be one of the few times that you have her absolute attention and you'll need it. Be sensible and practical, but if the reason for you getting mad and not wanting her to do whatever it was she wanted was just because "you said so" then you probably should've just let her be in the first place; they want a "take control" man not a controlling one. They also like a smart man, not a smart *ss man. and don't be too smart every so often act like you don't know something that you do and ask them what it means or how it works.\nI guess as far as how to treat them try this, If you have sisters, think of the way you father was towards them, both in his kindness and in the way he got on to them (when he was mad). Treat a woman like that.(UNLESS you had an abusive father, then never mind. sorry for you [blocking out the bad part sometimes helps if you can do that]). But still, most women are looking for a father figure anyway (at least subconsciously). Oh, and if you didn't have sisters, treat them at least three times as good but only about a quarter as bad as your dad was to you. I say this because that was about the ratio of generosity and fury between my sisters and I that was gotten my our father.\n but don't listen to me if I knew anything about how to treat a woman I'm sure I'd still be married. (or at least have one)
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A man should have incompressible morals and ethics, devoted in religion,honest,hardworking who still finds time 2 spend with me, family oriented,generous,good looking,goal oriented, and affectionate!  It may sound like a tall order, but there is men out there like this..I know I found one, thankfully!  We plan to marry in mid June of this year.
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For some women, we think the perfect man is the answer to all our problems. Thats why we will never find him. He does not exsist. A perfect anything doesn't exsists. I'm not going to find a man that has EVERY single quality that I'm looking for in a man, he'll have maybe 2 out of 5, but if there is potential I need to run wit it.