When I try to have anal sex, my partner cant get all the way in, as it hurts me, is there a way to do it?
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Yea, while you are doing normal sex have him start fingering you there and work up to two or three fingers.  then when your horney you should be ready. \n\nUse lots of KY and go slow.  The first time I did it I wore my heels and stockings, cuz they turn us both on and it got my mind off it.  I was pulling so hard on my back garters it was in before I knew it and then I got the suprise of my life.  What a feling I think i orgasamed 3 times.
906111
The anus was designed to be an "exit", not an entrance. The tissues there are more delicate than the vagina. It's not uncommon for those engaging in receiving anal sex to lose muscle tone in that area - how fun is that going to be to not be able to maintain control of the bowels?? Imagine hearing a hugely funny joke, laughing hysterically, right up until realizing there's been an accident in your pants.\nThere are plenty of other enjoyable, cleaner and more hygenic, ways to have physical pleasure.\nProtect your health, girl! You're worth it!
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There's only one way to find out! Try it and use LOTS of lubricant. On you and him. Make sure you have him put it on the inside of your *** and rub around in there with his fingers. When he tries to go in you HAVE to be totally relaxed and he  has to keep going in & out slowly until it's all the way in. I guess you can choose which ever position is most comfortable for you. \nPersonally, I tried it and I did not like it at all! Not one bit. But I know some women who do. SO... with all that being said... Good Luck\nOh you should use K.Y. warming lubricant (it has an orange top)
650299
I love anal sex. I've been married for 10yrs. When my hubby first asked me to do it, I was scared to death. When I first did it i thought it was ok but hurt a little. As I tried it more often it became better and better. Now anal to me is just like having sex. Sometimes a*s*s. He loves that. I suggest you try to play with your wife's a*s*s while you're eating her out or during fore play. The more comfortable and turned on she is, the better she will like it. The first time she has an orgasm while being anal, she will love it forever. Good luck.
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If your man want's to have anal sex with you..You should stop and think about it ..ask yourself is he gay ? Come on ladies in anybodies world that is sick !!! Don't let him do it...I'm a hospice pastor I had a patient once that could'nt hold her stools in..They just slid out ..no control..she was 58 and dieing of cancer.... she told me her first husband did that to her and after awahile it tears the muscle s so bad that when you grow older the muscles don't work...ask a doctor.... you are letting these guy's ruin your body....
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Yes is impossible to get  pregnant by anal sex. How old are you?? you can use a PC and don't know that???\nThe second part obviously I can not answer.... but I know at least some of them like it.\nBEWARE: IT DOES NOT PREVENT AIDS (and other disseases)\n(where all this ppl that say you can get preg. came from???)
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May be you need to be stimulated more .Tell him what you need.Increase foreplay.Ask him to stimulate your clitoris ,opt for a diferent position like dogggggy style where in your G - spot will be stimulated .ALL THE BEST
846726
I think men believe that the anus is tighter than the vagina in addition to a form of submissiveness.  I wouldn't let a guy enter mine unless he let he enter him first.  So far no takers, lol.
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try changing position or rhythm or try to stop and do something to your partner.  i tried it several times and the next problem was my partner came first so try to come at the same time.
947019
Anal sex can be very stimulating.  I've often enjoyed reading gay erotica just for that... In reality, however, most men are bigger than a dildo and if he's not careful and you're not properly lubricated, it can be painful.  I did it once and found it painful.  But I'd never inserted anything there before and he was rather well endowed.  If you've practiced "solo", it should go a lot easier and should be very pleasurable.  Have him stimulate the clitoris, or do it yourself, while he's in there.  I've enjoyed manual stimulation of the anus, so I'd probably try it again sometime.\n\nps.\nThere usually isn't any fecal matter in the rectum until you have to poop, so that shouldn't be an issue... and yes, I too do enjoy a good poop.  There's something rather erotic about it.
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Use lubricant. Also, you're first few times having sex are going to hurt- however, it your guy is working with a large package- then it may take some getting use to. Best advice: lubricant!  You're vaginal area will adjust with time. So, keep having sex- but make sure you're partner knows it hurts and tell him to take it slow. Don't take the pain! A man who cares for you will make the experience enjoyable for you too!
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Be honest with your partner. You're only fooling yourself. Not every woman can have an orgasm through vaginal penetration. There are many other ways to help orgasm. If it's harder for you to reach orgasm, you and your partner should spend more time on you before penetration. And here's a thought, masturbate WITH him. Guarantee you'll have one that way. If not, you'll sure have fun trying.\n Betcha he won't mind either. Come clean now before it gets too deep.
658636
another thing that can cause that pain is not enough forplay you not getting turned on enough introduce some new activities try and get him arroused maybe you will get aroused to and that might help
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Okay first use lots of lube and have him finger you first with one finger than with two to get you use to it or you could use a butt plug put it while you are having s*x than switch to an*l have him go real slow and just try to be really relaxed if you do it right it feels great. Good Luck and P.S. always try to be opened minded when it comes to s*x you never know what you just may like.
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Yes, it can hurt. However, there are products out there that desensitize the nerves in the anus and sphincter muscles. You can usually find them in adult bookstores. Of course, if your sexual partner is gentle with you, and patient, the pain can be minimum without having to use such products.
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try gettin your man to lift you up so that you are sittin on him with your legs around his waist and him inside you then he can press you up against a wall to help him support you...works for me anyway
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Change posistions. Try you on top so you can control how deep he goes in. If he is thrusting to hard you need to talk to him. Men would rather you tell them if you need something different then for you to avoid sex becuase they are hurting you.