I am 33 and only one man has ever made me have a clitoral orgasm.?
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How often do you try with a toy?  Is it possible that you have decreased your sensitivity?  If so, he should do it manually.  If not, get a better lover.
303703
My girlfriend had the same problem,,,she finally had an orgasm after buying herself a vib***** and she was 25!  Poor thing!  She was sexually abused as a child and taught that sex was "dirty" and "bad"....If this sounds like you, buy a vib***** and consider going to counseling if you think you need it....And remember that trying to have an orgasm will make it harder to have one....relax, open your mind, and you will get there!  Good luck
644556
You can easily get it by tittilating your organs by various means. I hope you understand what I mean. After that you expect to get many more such orgasms.
1050628
I didn't have an orgasm through intercourse for about a year after I lost my virginity to my fiance.  I was anxious and nervous and I saw it all as a really big deal which stopped me coming even though oral and masturbation made me come.  When he asked me to marry him, it was like someone switched on a tap and I now orgasm every single time that we have intercourse.\n\nYou could try having your boyfriend stimulate you until you are almost at orgasm before stopping to have sex for a while, then continuing the manual stimulation etc until you orgasm whilst he is inside you.  Different positions might work, try missionary with your legs up over his shoulders or a cushion under your bum, doggy style with him reaching round to stimulate your clitoris, you on top stimulating yourself or having him stimulate you.\n\nGood luck!
1108364
It's the sex.\nIf you aren't having orgasms, the sex can be better.\n\nYou aren't doing anything wrong though. Most women don't have orgasms just through plain sex. \nTry getting your partner to stimulate your clitoris as well - you could try investing in a vibrator and trying a few different positions.
629625
I'm glad he knows from experience. Focus on your clit hun...shoving weird objects in you isn't the best...unless its a dildo and it moves and vibrates, but in the end it's my clit that has always been faithful.
452645
I had the same problem for a long while.You need to see your doctor.My problem was that my hymen was still intact.That's the piece of skin that makes you a virgin.Mine was still intact after having two children!!It was a simple in office procedure to take care of it.
824054
NOT MANY WOMEN HAVE VAGINAL ORGASMS.....I WOULD BE SECURE IN SAYING THAT 99 PERCENT OF WOMEN NEED CLITORAL STIMULATION TO HAVE AN ORGASM....IT DOESN'T MEAN YOUR A LESBIAN................
317835
Most women will not be able to achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. Generally a woman will require clitoral stimulation before they can orgasm. Try oral and have him focus on your clit, or go and buy yourself a vibrator.
809843
Start with fourplay and oral is a must since that is what gets you going.  Always let him try various positions at the time and go back down and lick your clit.  It is a process and try drinking some wine,  watch some porn or something that can stimulate the moment.  Doggy style is usually the best for you to have an orgasm, the motion is making his balls slap your clit while his moving.  \n\nGood luck!
312755
Well, if you can buy a "bullet" I would recommend it! They are at adult shops. It vibrates at different speeds. Just slightly rub it on your clit and you'll orgasm in a few minutes! An orgasm can be tricky to tell, but usually you start breathing heavy, maybe shake a lil and your body temp. rises a lil. It just feels like an "explosion" Trust me, you'll know it when you have one!
501793
I'm 30-something yrs. old....and I still mastubate from time to time.  It's not possible to ruin your sex life by mastubating all those.  You say no man can please you, I don't think that's possible.  You just haven't found the right man to hit that certain spot yet.
691156
Beleve me...you'll know.  And if you doubt whether you did, you probably didn't. Get in touch with yourself!  What it feels like is something that can only be experienced. Even more amazing when you really love and appreciate your partner. There are no words on this planet for it...in fact an orgasm almost takes you to a different one.
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I just asked this same question.  The only thing that gets me off is clitoral stimulation, not vaginal.  I have to have something on my clit, and not just anything but a clit vibrator.  What I got on feedback is that you have to be in the mood, you need a supportive partner, you need to be able to explore yourself to learn what you like, try different positions, that through clitoral you might have desensitized all the other areas and can only orgasm on that alone.  That is what I got so I thought I would share that with you...
148090
Is the  *****  self induced orgasm? If it is that can't be true...you have enough of that stuff to last a lifetime.
33695
You probably aren't able to have vaginal orgasms, so the best thing to do is have clitoral stimulation as you have intercourse. Other than that, you probably aren't comfortable with having sex with him, ask yourself...  does he force you? Do you really want to have sex? Maybe you're just not in the mood, or maybe he's too big for you.
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all men have different sex drives.I am now a married man, but when i was single it was sometimes up to 3 times.of course when you are a very young man and you first discover the orgasm,then you want it over and over again .when this first happened to me, i can remember i just kept on going untill i was so sore i had to stop.