How do you deal with people who try to ruin your date?
413901
first if they are such haters Do not invite them on your dates don't you know three is a crowd
559584
If u have tried n not sucessful in saying no.... next option is to avoid such people as they r not geninue in their relation they just using u and taking ur advantage... this is actually happen with me and i am telling u with my own experience... just have few friends rather have bulk who just take things for granted
669422
Do not rise to the bait, they want a reaction from you, don't give them it. Ignore them. I have to deal with three girls who try to intimidate me everyday but i have never risen to their antics so they have not been able to take it much further
902420
maybe the way you reject them is abit direct even though you might think you're being nice about it. I think the best way to reject someone is just say ur already involved with someone else. hope this was helpful.
648980
Rule #1: You don't plan a BLIND DATE for the whole day. Just a dinner, or a movie, or some drinks, or just a coffee.\n\nRule #2: You plan ahead. Ask somebody to call after half hour or an hour. If things are OK then you tell them is fine. On the other hand if things are not OK then you fake a family emergency or something like that. But be careful how you plan your excuse because your date may be willing to stay with you during the family emergency (may be a gentleman).\n\nRule #3: Don't do what you don't want people to do to you. UNLESS HE IS A COMPLETE JERK or abusive or something like that. If you committed to the BLIND DATE then you should stick to it. Just try to make the best of it, and show some respect for that person even if you don't like him. He is a person as well and don't deserve to be treated like that just because there are things you don't like from him. It takes two to tango and you are not the only person that matters.
468288
You stop it by being so incredibly NICE to her that she freaks out and goes away.\nObnoxious people do not understand it when someone is extremely nice to them. You blow their brain circuits when you respond to their annoying behaivior by being the nicest person in the world to them and they are so confused they go away.\n\nI got rid of a horrible little brat on here who would insult me every time I asked a question by giving her the ten points for best answer. Never heard from her again. I am sure she cannot figure it out.
925337
I'd tell the obnoxious one to seriously lay off. If he doesn't lay off and still gets too close, you can always tell a higher authority exactly what he's doing to you. They'll be able to scold him, and they may be able to do something a bit worse than a simple scolding, also.\n \nAnd to be attractive to anyone, you just have to be yourself. I believe "trying" to be attractive doesn't work out, because eventually you try to be someone who you're not. \n\nI advise you try to confront this shy guy and tell him how you feel in some way. If he really is shy, he won't make the first move if he likes you. Have courage, it'll be worth it.
839631
Just kinda do the whole sorry I don't like you that way speech.\n\nIt's better to break it to him then to avoid it.\n\nGood luck.\n\nAnd if he stalks you get a restraining order.
1065146
Ask yourself this Question.Who are you hurting by this behavior?You won't change "a##holes" this way,and in fact you are playing into their paws,"cause they see they're getting a reaction.Isn't it better to just ignore their s--t,and bide your time?
784543
find out  wuts up before the date...b/c when it comes close to the day of the date or the day of and you can't get in touch her,it means that she's trying to avoid you. Has she called you any?
562059
Be firm with them. Set clear boundaries and let them know that you do not wish those boundaries to be crossed.\n\nIf they cross those boundaries, then remove yourself from their presence. Terminate relationship with them if needed.\n\nCordially,\nJohn
1112434
Ahh yes, welcome to the game.\n\nHere it is, we act like we don't give a sh*t and it drives you women wild.  You get a little pissed that we would rather do almost anything other than beg you for some attention, so you come busting in and make us notice you.\n\nShow a little interest and then let them stew for awhile.\nNo more than 1 call a week.\nNever make set plans, but occasionally suggest that you meet up with us somewhere. (we might not be there)\nAlways seem too busy for you, but sometimes give in and change our 'plans' to accommodate you.\n\nSound familiar?  Then you are playing the game.
536273
The proper thing to do is to quietly say, "Oops, you've got something stuck in your teeth."  There's no shame in doing that.  If your date gets offended, well, you've gained some valuable information then, haven't you.
643907
Privacy is the key word... dont embarass urself or her.. use a laid back aproach... such has asking her to go for an old fashioned date, such as a movie or a pizza or both... keep it simple and private in case it doesnt work out for one of you...aproach her with the simple guestion of *Hey, would you like to go to ______________, (fill in the blank) with me friday/saturday nite ? if she says no dont take it personally or make a big deal of it.. most times it is what happens after the guestion that makes the impact of rather you will look like an idiot or not...... good luck.........
14852
Do something really rude to the guy(not to yourself)
461654
Never let on that you fancy them, it ruins it!  I have done it so many times!!!  Let them come to you, you may be pleasantly surprised.
516468
Tell them you don't appreciate their negative behavior, and if they continue, walk away.  Some people LIVE for nagging and carping, and they are often better known as "psychic vampires".  They can suck the energy right out of you.