why r guys so possesive..??
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Been there! Finish with him, may sound harsh but you will feel so much better! Not all men are like it. I now have the perfect bloke who I can trust and he trusts me. It is so nice to go out with him and not worry about who I may be talking to or looking at! \nAlso ask your friends opinion, they will tell you the truth about him and you should trust their opinion they only have your happiness in mind!
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It's an immature 'power' thing, they think it makes them more attractive if they can take him away from his girlfriend.  The truth is if one girl could get between them, then any girl could.  You learn that no-one can 'take away' a person you're with, because you can't own anyone, and that it needed the other person's 'cooperation' for the 'theft' to be successful
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He doesn't have a problem with it..Were you wanting him to get all jealous?? Sounds to me like you've got yourself a mature male...rather rare these days!
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I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
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Men do this for the thrill. It makes him feel powerful without taking any risks. If you were single, you might expect a commitment. If you are married, and you respond to his advances, he knows up front that you don't care about your commitments, so why would you care about his? \nAs for the stalker, Next time drive to the police station or call a cop from you cell and have the creep arrested. If he does this to you, he probably does it to other women too.\nIf this is a recurring problem at the gym, talk to the management or change gym's.\nIf this is a recurring problem for you personally, you might want to examine your own behavior and see if you are doing anything to encourage them. It is important to take responsibility for your own behavior too.  :)
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cuz guyz like u are assholes
250638
guys tend to be drawn toward something they can't have.  also they like to be territorial, or they could have always liked you but were too scared to say sumthin until you started liking some other guy.  it's a competition thing.
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he could just be forgetful or its a dominating thing , they like it when a chick sweats their balls. try letting him call you and then you'll see his true intentions.
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that sux, maybe its cause guys are itimidated by ur beauty and they think they could handle a woman like u
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No, you're not the only one. I don't understand people who are clingy and possessive in relationships--or once the relationship is over, can't cope with the breakup and start acting like stalkers. Jealousy is strictly for losers.
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the trick is to make them think they have control---you never really give it to them!!!!!\nif a man is unfaithful and wants control-good sign--red flag he is or will be an abuser---run for the hills now!!!
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They are probably jealous that you are not with him. Just over look him . Nothing really matters except for what you think of your self not what others think.
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Maybe they are territorial just like any guy would be.
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ALOT of guys, especially younger ones enjoy their time with their buddies.  They have to have their male bonding time ya know!  This doesnt mean he doesnt love you silly!  He just needs time to scratch, and fart with his friends!  But he will come back to his love- YOU when he's done playing with his friends!
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Nothing may be wrong.  Guys can be insecure and this can be manifested in withdrawal (sadly, I've done it).
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Because he is using u! He either wants some action wants to impress his friends, or make another girl jealous. He cant be comited therefor... he is so not worth it! He doesnt want you to ask him first because he doesnt seem to have a problem expressing himself.
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I have a guy that is obsessed with me and it completely scares me. I live alone and sometimes at night he will knock on my window and I have to be real quiet like I'm not there. He found a way to befriend one of my best friends and tries to get information from her about who I am dating and why won't I talk to him. He even called my dad!!!!! He freaked out and told him never to call again and he better not try and get in touch with me. He told all of my closest friends things I supposedly said behind their backs or that I was having sex with their boyfriends just so I'd loose my friends and have to depend on him. If you have someone you think is obsessed, then you have to go about it very smart. Don't make them angry, because there is no telling what they are capable of!!