for job security should i have to particpate in role playing if i'm not comfortable with it?
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"keep your thoughts positive...Your thoughts become your words.\n\nKeep your words positive...Your words become your actions.\n\nKeep your actions positive...Your actions become your destiny!"\n\n---Words to live by!\n\n\n\n\n\nBefore the class even starts pull the instructor aside and let then know that you are uncomfortable.  But, this shows you are unwilling to accept change.\n\nHave a positive attitude and TRY.  Some of these role plays are REALLY stupid and boring, but some of them really open up lines of communication with your co-workers that were closed before.  You may learn something new.\n\nNever be closed minded about things.  You should not feel demeaned.  that is not the intent of the role plays.  I have had to do ALOT of them over the years and have to lead a few.  Since you have been at your job for so long, you will be looked upon by your co-workers to set the tone of the room.  If you have a sour attitude, they will also and the role plays are no go for any of you.\n\nBut, if you let go of the hostility and say "Aw, what the hell, I'll give it a try" then others will follow you and you will have created a less tense situation.
689529
do what ever you feel comfortable doing don't do anything you don't want to
623238
Im a trade union rep so yes, i tell it like it is. Making managers uncomfortable is too much fun!
789995
No, if it has come about that your employer trusts you with that type of responsibility, then that means you have earned that trust and you should keep to that level of, not only his respect, but your own self respect. On the other hand, if you prefer the living conditions of your other cellmates and their company, by all means, follow your misguided temptations.
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Well now, it seems that you are going to have to do it whether you like it or not.\n\nIf you make it hard on yourself and do not keep an open mind about it it will be hard. If you keep an open mind and make the best of it it will be easier.\n\nIt is up to you.
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Nice pun in your question.....\n\n\nIf you have reason to maybe let them know I would otherwise I don't see a need to. It is up to you and according to your comfort level with your co-workers.\nMy wife is claustrophobic in certain situations so I know it can be tough.
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I think it depends who you do it to !\nI LOVE having my boyfriend in my mouth !I like to give him pleasure.\nMaybe it's a confidence thing for you? Ask your lover what feels good while you are at the job !\nBut if you truly don't like it, you should NEVER be pressured into it. NEVER.
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Everyone wants to jump in on this question, don't they? over 20 responses within 25 minutes, and who knows how many more by the time I finish typing this!!! \n\nMy answer:\nHell yea you should be afraid if someone is pressuring you to do something you are unsure of. It'll probably most likely hurt in more ways than one. \n\nSounds like you are a potential rape victim, either that or a cop trying to catch perverts.
480525
Did you make up that question? If you're serious, don't say anything to him. He'll wonder why you're there, in the first place. And he may already know about it but is embarrassed. It's never a good idea to embarrass your boss. Keep your lip zipped. Maybe it isn't even her.
303017
Going after someone in your chain of command could be devasting for your career. Imagine if you were to go out and you had an arguement. work would be very uncomfortable the next day wouldn't it?
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First of all, decide what you want and do it.  You're in a job you don't like.....keep it until you find one you do like.\n\n"The are sort of family"...no they're not.  They're users and abusers.\n\nUntil you take control of your own life you will feel helpless...and that is because you are.\n\nNow get up, dust off and decide what you want and then figure out how to get it.  No one can do this for you...but you.
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If you cannot trust your employees, then they should not be working for you to begin with. There is never an easy time to let go of control. You have to be able to enjoy your family, or you will regret it later. If your employees manage well enough in your presence, and they understand their duties and responsibilities, then they should be fine. You, are the only one who can judge your level of trust with regard to those who are in your employ. Ask yourself honestly, if you are being too controlling. As long as your can be contacted, is there any reason why they should not be able to handle things for a short time? You will be the best to answer this question.
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Physically i don't think you can avoid pain with being too cautious or in the end you will be a phobic who can't do anything without being scared. But socially if you are too careful you will miss out on some of the best things simply because of playing it safe which will ultimately bring you pain in the end.
197084
Most all people have some sort of mental illness. The key is are you being affected emotionally or physically by this person. If the answer to this is yes then take it from an middle aged person suffering daily from a boss and mother that are mentally ill. This has had a HUGE affect on my life and my children. So MY advice is to look for another job in an organized manner and make the move if you have any of the above issues.There are bosses that donot get off on power struggles.I have one now. BEST TO YOU.
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It's a fetish and it's not that uncommon. As long as you practice it with someone that you completely trust and have a word you can tell them for them to immediately stop (known as a safe word), it's your business what you like to do. It's OK to play as long as you play safely.
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Not at all, far from it. :) Just learn to play smart not hard. Most people are fearful of their security and fearful of this that and the other, always fearful. There is much good to come from creativity, being unorthodox, and always following universal laws of good. If you help people you will be helped, If you learn the rules of a game you will have more freedom to  know what to do and what not to do, what would make things easier and what would make them harder, life is a network it's not what you know it's who you know. If you're afraid obvious you're going to be fearful and make mistakes, being too afraid of losing the little you have, when you could let go and become a knowledgable risk taker, and have much more to gain from that, but the same amount to lose as the person fearful of security. Once you get your systems set up, everything should go as smooth as pie. Systems. As in automated. A person doesn't have to work to make a computer run. It's automated, once you push the button it runs itself with the electricity. I think if you put all this information I just gave together, somehow you will come across the proper equation right for you in this life. Good luck!
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No\nJust do what your comfortable with. Don't let other people pressure you into stuff. IT wont be long until holding hands turns into being pressured into other things.(worse things)\nI wont go into detail because i thing your about 12 years old and you don't need to be on this website because there are too many child molesters about.\n\nMay god bless you in all that you do.