Guys-- why is the idea of having sex with two girls pleasurable?
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Ok, I have to say that a lot of the answers that you have received so far are close, but none of them quite hit the mark or cover all the bases, so I am going to see what I can do here. \n First of all, I am fairly qualified here as my fiancé and I have done a threesome with both another woman and another guy, and our relationship has survived it unscathed. \n To answer the main question of why. . . There is no single answer that would apply to all men that have those desires. Yes, porn for a lot of us has glorified the threesome. Another common reason is that watching two women be intimate is quite erotic. Lets face it, they call you the "fairer sex" for a reason!!\n Could your BF feel pressure to please you? If so, a second person could be viewed as a helper.\n The most common reason, however, is simply the desire to have variety in ones sex life.\n Now, let's address how you should go forward. First of all, your BF shared a fantasy with you, and if you ever want him to ever do so again, you cannot react negatively to it. That does not mean that you have to do it, but you also want to avoid him feeling rejection from it.\n To help you decide if having a threesome with another woman is something you want to do, consider this:\n Are you physically attracted to women? I.E. Are you bi/bi-curious? If so, you could decide that you are will have a threesome with him with the stipulation that he and the other woman do not have sex. Set very specific boundaries, I.E. Is touching ok? Is kissing ok? Is manual stimulation ok? Etc. . . If you cannot trust him to abide by these boundaries during the heat of the moment, you do NOT want to do this!\n If you decide that you do not want to do this, explain it to him, but offer to incorporate it into your fantasy life. Say something to him like "The idea turns me on, but I would not be ok with the reality of it", and then bring it up in a sexy way during foreplay or lovemaking. Reiterate after you are done having sex that this is something that can only be a fantasy, never a reality. This is often the perfect compromise in these situations.\n In my experience, a man bringing this fantasy to his significant other is generally sign of developing trust, and not of impending doom. The act itself, however, has been the end of many strong relationships, so tread carefully!!
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I've had a lot of sex.  I mean a LOT of sex.  With a lot of people.  Some at the same time.  Some of them were girls, some were guys.  And as happy as I might be about them, I don't see a bisexual "I love sex" slate being very sucessful.
551628
im bi but ill answer... girls know wat girls want, like touchn n stuff.... it makes it easier... touch how u would want to be touched
535251
bring another girl and let him fuck her! guys are DICKS!!! Worry about what makes you happy!
110403
that would depend on wether you enjoyed more than you should, most females are curious to know what it's like to kiss another girl. if you feel like her or another female is who you want to b with than i would say yes. but if you were just curious and now you know it's not what you want than no.
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do you want an honest answer . . . \n\nThey want to hook up with girls . . . to physically hook up with them.  Not because they like them or love them.\n\nThey may be interesting . . . but only interesting for one thing . . . if it is good . . . they may take a second look . . . to see if they like you as a person.
185753
First of all what makes a man think he can satisfy 2 women at once anyways? Some women no i guess because they do it but for most women yes!! It makes a women feel as though she's not doing it for you. If most women asked to have 3somes with 2 men more often then they do I think most men would feel the same. Guys don't ever stop and think about how the outcome will mostly be even if it were to happen. One person will end up feeling hurt and what if you got the other person pregnant (There are NO birth control methods that are 100 percent effective)? I certainly wouldn't want to have some women in involved in the rest of my life because my husband couldn't keep it in his pants. I also wouldn't want to raise my children having a sibling that was concieved by another women from such a situation...that would be akward.
30758
why are the girls' bodies playing such a big part in this. if you really liked them, then this would have a tiny role in the decision making. you should be ashamed for even thinking this way.
606656
It adds fun. BUT, it's entirely dependent upon 'how' the girl wears the lingerie-- i.e., we can breathe life into the items. It's kind of like acting- if your girl plays the part of the sex kitten or the smoldering vixen, depending on what type of item it is- you're in for an INCREDIBLE night! If it sparks yours and her imaginations, then it's certainly more 'fun' than self esteem boosting-- it just happens that one USUALLY leads to the other.
1144510
being with another women or a threesome wit two chicks and a guy im bi-curious
125507
It's the idea of "fresh meat".  A girl who is young, innocent and doesn't have a clue.  Basically, really naive.  They like this idea a lot because when it comes to sex most girls have no idea what to do, etc so the guy likes the idea of being in control.  Basically, he can shape the girl in whatever way he wants.  Show her the ropes so to speak.
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I agree with you...  And it's also cool if a guy is um, having anal sex with a woman, but it's "gross" when it's 2 guys.  What is up with that bullsh*t?  Nonetheless, if it's love, then any kind of sex can be beautiful!  I myself, would LOVE to have a three some with two other men, it'd be super hot!
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I wouldn't immediately assume that.\n\nA threesome with two women is probably the single most common male fantasy.
1088069
My gf and I enjoy doing this.  Sometimes, when we are having a threeway, it is really hot to share with another guy or woman.
557081
fun?!?!? incredible, is more like it.\ndon't do it out of pressure or with the wrong guy though. love the first one, that makes it a lot more "fun". plus, you won't get a reputation for being a slut. love the guy first. less guys, but, better sex.
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Well, I son't think this applies to all girls- in fact, I bet quite a few have the fantasy of doing it, but maybe wouldnt' admit this to just anyone.\n\nI guess part of the reason they often aren't keen is that a girl wants to think that when you are with her, you are only thinking of her. Not someone else. And she will be comparing herslef to the other the girl- is my bum bigger than hers, is my tummy wobblier than hers, are my boobs droopier than hers!!\n\nI have had a threesome before, and my main issue with it was the fact that 3 can actually be a crowd- the girl that me and my boyfriend did it with at the time showed me far more attention than him and he got a bit pis*ed off.\n\nIt's just not girls- I have male friends who also aren't keen on the idea.
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I think most women would rather be alone than share.  I don't know if you've noticed, but one woman is enough to frazle a man.  What makes a man think he'll be better at multiples?