How can a gay man meet a guy that wants a relationship?
405359
Try on line personals. Only correspond with guys in your area and don't waste time with anyone who brings up sex immediately. Get to know the person and make sure that he wants a relationship instead just sex. Take things slow. A  gay man who will be patient and not press for sex is looking for the same thing you are. Good luck!!!
456843
hmmm...personally, i'd guess that he's not gay.  I'd say that he's either bisexual, or he's playing that angle to get you to be more relaxed, more comfortable around him, so the transition to a relationship would be easier and less awkward.  It might not work, but that would be my conclusion regarding the whole sitch.
331929
First off, assuming that you're both adults possibly just being adult about the subject would work best.\n\nIf there is any level of 'trust' established between the two of you simply ask the guy to meet you in a open public place (i.e., Starbucks for Double-Espressos or to a local eatery for lunch, brunch or dinner, etc.) and just ask him 'Sup' (a.k.a. 'What's Up'?) with his sexual orientation. If its a match then take it from there.  If more doesn't romantically develop at least the bond could be strengthen as friends.\n\nBest of luck to you.
321419
There are strange, dangerous people everywhere..   it's not any worse online.  If you want to find someone, you have to be willing to step out of your comfort shell and give them a chance.  Certainly a public place for the first meet, talking on the phone for a while before hand is a help to see if there's any chemistry worthy of a meet.\n\nIt takes a lot of courage for a guy to show interest enough to send even an email ..  and you ought to be extremely flattered someone found something they like in you.  Whether or not you're willing to trust is up to you , but most guys are just normal, ordinary and want the same as you - to find some to love and be loved.
860196
i assume this guy is gay too else i wouldnt waste yur time.\n\nif he is the same rules apply regarding attraction as in straight relationships. the main difference being that i would imagine is, at thirteen this guy may not want to be public in any kind of way.\n\nso firstly you need to establish if he would be prepared to consider a same sex relationship with anyone.  then if he is attracted to you in anyway.  this could be hard cos he may like you but have no desire to "come out" or whatev3r.\n\ni dont envy you
917867
My best advise is this... make your own choices and build your life. You can't plan for a man to come into your life, and when he does it will probably upset your apple cart a bit... that  is what love does. To meet a nice, good, and strong, man you should try looking in quieter places and not night spots. Bookstores, libraries, coffee houses... those are good places to just relax and attract a few fellas. Good luck!
980011
You can meet guys anywhere! but if you want to meet guys with the same interest and hobbies as you then that is what you should do. Volunteer at the marathons.\nbut you can meet guys at the coffee shops, grocery store, bookstore, clothing store, shoe store, clubs, sport events, bars, and the Internet.
701401
Just be yourself.  I've known hundreds of gays in my life.  Some are flaming beyond belief... the "gay guys" you refer to, I guess.  But most are regular people who have jobs, go out, date, and you'd never know they are gay.\n\nIt's a hard thing to balance, really... if you go to a city where there is a big gay population in which you can blend and find a life, you'll find a huge flaming population.  But if you stay in middle America or smaller towns, you'll find very few flaming people... but also very little life either.\n\nJust ignore the flamers... there are regular folks out there, more than you'd think.
732662
I cant really socialise with other gay men....And I am gay...I dont know why, but I feel so much safer and better among straight guys. Maybe it is because of my interests, but I havent found a single gay guy I can communicate with besides my very special boyfriend.\n I dont know, maybe I am prejudice, but gay guys in general have really mainstream interests....like mainstream music (pop), mainstream clothing (trendy) etc. etc. I really want to meet a person who is into cars, airplanes, videogames, comics etc. etc....I really have found the friends I made so boring....Are their life was about Madona, Aguilera, parties, going out and drinking...Nothing to actually spend time on or devote themselves..I really hope I can make more gay friends in the future..
424284
its a different kind of relationship...friendships are wonderful with gay men but it will never be the same as a boyfriend
512031
craigslist.com has personals for these kinds of things in every major city.  also your local independent paper will have ads for gay bars and clubs, and other things of interest to the gay community.
10468
The obvious place is the gay bars (yes, I'm gay), if you're not into the bar scene try internet dating sites...go to yahoo search and type in " gay personals " and see what you come up with\nor type in " free gay personals "  you can email me at kenp_30@yahoo.com  My name is Ken
295020
if you're hot, it's not that difficult. spend some time on the the street in any major city and you're sure to bump into one. i'm not even gay and i've been propositioned several times with offers to set me up in exchange for certain "favors".
1115292
I'm a guy but I am gay but what I tend to look for in a guy in 1. confidence 2. Smile 3. Generosity (not just with me but with everyone)
778946
If he is truly Bi and he likes to have a girl and a guy, then you might get somewhere.\n\nWhen women do the "how do I turn him straght" bit though I find it hard not to chuckle. Turning a gay man straight makes as much sense as trying to make blue paint red. It really isn't going to happen :)\n\nEnjoy the challenge, but you might want a backup plan - apart from anything else, if he IS bi and you get him, don't be too gutted as and when he wants to flip back to the "home team" :)\n\nBi guys are great, but not *usually* the best choice for a straight long term 1-2-1 relationship.
648888
You can try craigslist.com, but be warned that the people on there can be kind of strange.  If you're of the younger sort, definately look into xy.com.  There is also manhunt.net, and gay.com.  There are several others, but I have given you these sites because I have made some really good lasting friendships and a couple of good relationships from these sites.  Happy hunting!
189874
Take your time with dating, find who out who you are first so that you can find the right type of guy who will treat you with proper respect and love you for you and not who he wants you to be, and the reason why it is hard to find the good guy is because they are either married, gay or are looking for the right woman.