why cant i seem to find the right girl?
395651
don't try so hard...maybe then love will find you ;-)
528006
aww..don't give up, just stop trying so hard.  Be confident and outgoing and the right girl will come along, you will see.  Meanwhile spend more time out with friends and family so you aren't so lonely  Have a great day hun!\n\n:-)
1006396
Then you will probably need to change your outlook altogether. To start with, stop looking for the one. Men sense this and out of who-knows-what, try to resist. Even if you were the perfect girl/woman, they would still hold back knowing you are looking for the perfect one. But don't overdo it, or you may end up finding no one. Good luck!
271249
It's going to sound cheesy, but I don't look for anything specific in a girl. When I meet a girl I like, I'll know it. I'll enjoy spending time with her, I'll feel comfortable around her, and I'll think about her when she's not around. So I never really know what to look for in a girl. I think most guys are the same way deep down, but they'll only even start the relationship to begin with if the girl is pretty. Beauty makes a first impression, personality seals the deal.
800629
u r looking for the wrong girls...\nand just be yourself rather than trying to be someone else\nand remember that all girls are different, but that doesn't mean you change for them..\ni found this somewhere, i didnt write it but i can highly relate to it, and so can many of the girls you are looking for....\n\nTo the nice girls who are overlooked, who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating upon their looks and their personalities and their actions because it must be they that are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games, who provide a comforting hug and a supportive audience for a story they've heard a thousand times. This is for the girls who understand that they aren't perfect and that the guys they're interested in aren't either, for the girls who flirt and laugh and worry and obsess over the slightest glance, whisper, touch, because somehow they are able to keep alive that hope that maybe... maybe this time he'll have understood. This is homage to the girls who laugh loud and often, who are comfortable in skirts and sweats and combat boots, who care more than they should for guys who don't deserve their attention. This is for those girls who have been in the trenches, who have watched other girls time and time again fake up and make up and screw up the guys in their lives without saying a word. This is for the girls who have been there from the beginning and have heard the trite words of advice, from "there are plenty of fish in the sea," to "time heals all wounds." This is to honor those girls who know that guys are just as scared as they are, who know that they deserve better, who are seeking to find it.\n\nThis is for the girls who have never been in love, but know that it's an experience that they don't want to miss out on. For the girls who have sought a night with friends and been greeted by a night of catcalling, rude comments and explicit invitations that they'd rather not have experienced. This is for the girls who have spent their weekends sitting on the sidelines of a beer pong tournament or a case race, or playing Florence Nightingale for a vomiting guy friend or a comatose crush, who have received a drunk phone call just before dawn from someone who doesn't care enough to invite them over but is still willing to pass out in their bed. This is for the girls who have left sad song lyrics in their away messages, who have tried to make someone understand through a subliminally appealing profile, who have time and time again dropped their male friend hint after hint after hint only to watch him chase after the first blonde girl in a skirt. This is for the girls who have been told that they're too good or too smart or too pretty, who have been given compliments as a way of breaking off a relationship, who have ever been told they are only wanted as a friend.\n\nThis one's for the girls who you can take home to mom, but won't because it's easier to sleep with a whore than foster a relationship; this is for the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment, or never real to begin with. This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to discover that he's just not ready, he's just not over her, he's just not looking to be tied down; this is for the girls who believe the excuses because it's easier to believe that it's not that they don't want you, it's that they don't want anyone. This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too cavalier to have cared in the first place; this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech, for the nights when you've returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen from across th
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It's perfectly natural to want to find the right person. It's part of growing up and becoming a MAN. \n\n\nBoys treat women like playthings, but men treat their partners as equals.\n\nBut you'll have to be patient; you won't find the right person overnight. But one thing's for certain: if you don't put yourself out there and you don't walk up to a woman you find attractive and start the first conversation... who knows, she may have just been your future wife. Honestly, there aren't any real consequence of just being yourself; worse comes to worse, she'll just forget you. Oh well.
207480
You are not hopeless, but if you believe you are, no woman will be interested. Meet a wide variety of women, and when you find one you fall for, then you've won 50% of the battle. Next is to make her feel the same. That part is up to you!
429610
UR JUST NOT LOOKIG FOR THE RIGHT GIRLSSSS.... TRY HARDER..THAT ONE GIRL FOR U IS SOMEWHERE OUT THERE..AND IM SORRY THAT U HAVE TO MEET SL***!!!!
555374
look its very difficult to find frnds have same interests as urs...the only way is to remain patient and search for the right one ...joining a local club may not sort out the exact problem...so wait for the right one until then keep enjoying with the wrong ones...
110950
Typical guy!!! Seriously though maybe you just havent found the right girl yet. You need to find someone who can hold and keep your interest.
528631
I'm not totally following where you are going with this...  You sound like a nice enough guy.  Confident.  Sucessful.  Maybe you aren't meeting the right women?
987940
Because your trying to find a girl to "Love".  You need to take things a step at a time.  You need to find a girl you want as a friend.  Then maybe you want her as your gf.  Love is a patience process.  You cant just choose to love somebody.  It happens when you least expect it.
905229
If you continue to look and search desperatly to find a girl, you will find alot more heartache then you will if you try any other method.\nThe best method I can advise for you, is to relax, enjoy life, focus off of finding a girl and when the right girl comes, you'll see her for who she is. By using this method you won't find heaps of wrong girls in the way (you might find one or two wrong girls, but the number will drasticly lower)\nAnd as another tip, if you want to make sure when you do find a girl, it lasts, make sure not to focus on sex (even now while you have noone, if sex is a big thing on your mind it can really ruin it) just realise that it's an added bonus to it all :)
5448
I read your comments:\n\nI'm looking to date girls to get to know them and have fun, but I'm open to serious relationships, even to marriage.\n\nJulie, I have good manners, I'm good looking, I have good hygiene, and I'm a fun person but I have no success.\nWhat is that of trying too hard?\n\nI think that you need to display for self confidence and girls will notice you.
247400
because you set expectations...you had high standards...\nregarding to those you like, they are not just the right person for you...and you shouldnt be looking for the guy...love comes, never search for it.it will come in the most unexpected place and time...
493736
What do you like in a girl? Might want to try by defining the characteristics you like in a girl.  To find the right woman with the characteristics you classified, I suggest going to a club, bar, mall, restraunt, etc and find a woman and strike up a friendly conversation.  Get to become friends.
369534
maybe because you haven't yet found the right person...how about going somewhere else try to meet people in a descent way...i hope it could help you