Will it be beter if i tell my boss on every movement of me?
414298
No, then he would think that there is a reason you are doing so.  Just make it seem like it doest bother you and act natural.  That way if you seem true and not up to something he will be more at ease with you, it might take some time.
35223
I don't think I would make an official announcement. I think it's best, in a workplace, to just continue to act professionally, as you have been, and if someone asks if you're seeing anyone, then you can say, "Actually, yes, I've been seeing Roger for six months!" Or, if someone says, "Hey, is there something going on between you and Roger?" say "we've been dating for six months, actually." Then you won't need to spread the news -- trust me, it will spread itself.\n\nAfter you tell someone, the best thing to do might be to follow up with a "We're very happy, but it's important to both of us that we act professionally in the workplace! We want to make sure everyone's still comfortable." And then continue to act that way.\n\nThe reason I say not to make an official announcement is that that is the most surefire way to get everyone gossipping (even if you don't think they will!), and looking out for drama. Rather, if you just reveal quietly when asked, it'll seem like "no big deal," or, people will realize that you've been acting so professionally, that's why they're surprised! They will be less likely to gossip that way.\n\n(Of course, if it's your boss or your direct report, or if it's against company policy, I would advise you seek a different job.)
181646
Id ask about it.  Most new employee paperwork says something to the effect of: "And anything else we ask you to do..." on it.  So you may have to attend.  That said, I'd tell him you are busy with pre arranged commitments you can't get out of.  Don't give details, just stop there. Ask him/her if it's 'required' to keep your job.  Just come out and ask.  Sadly though, it all really depends on what kind of boss you have.
376339
tell your boss and ask for a transfer if that doesn't stop it.
529577
Without more details, it is hard to advise.\n\nBased on what I do know....I will say this.  Business is not like family...and it is not a democracy.  You need to focus on yourself, and the job you do.\n\nWhile I know it sucks...it is your boss' perogative to do as he/she wishes.  Even if that means playing favoritism.  \n\nKeep in mind this is just business, and don't take it personal.  If you really are that unhappy there, start looking for employment elsewhere, but stay where you are until you find it.  Never burn bridges in the business world.  You just may need a good recommendation, some day.
705772
if you told your boss then it should be OK. considering that you describe this woman as just a colleague that has no huge stake in your life, i don't think that you should feel obliged to tell her.\nIt's not like you had stuff planned together or something.\nif i know women as much as i think i do, there are two possible reasons for this.(1) she is just a really a bad joker trying to pull your leg, or (2) she is green with envy cause she was stuck there while you went off to the states, and sh wants you to pay....(really no need to understand this aspect of females).\nWait a minute, have you considered that she thinks of you as more than a passing acquaintance, and more like friends?
1068493
You just walk right up to your boss and tell him/her.  If you are forthright about it, it shows you have what it takes to come to the point and want to come up in the world.  That is what a boss wants from an employee.........ambition and guts.
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It's very common, and I don't think it's wrong, unless you act on it. It might be awkward if you are working with him, but I don't think that you should change your plans just because you're attracted to him, unless you find a better position. There will likely be more bosses and unavailable coworkers in the future that you will find attractive, so if you want to live your life, you might just have to grin and bear it.
830376
You're only spell can be changing your attitude. If your employer is egotistical, then buy into it. Tell him ow wonderful he is (not directly), but with statement like, "What a great idea!" or "You're so smart", or "I wish I'd thought of that". If he wants things done his way - even if it's wrong - do it his way, but show him what you think is the right way, too, as though it is his idea. Everyone loves an employee who makes him/her look good. Unfortunately there are a lot of bosses who let their positions go to their head and usually they will self destruct over time on their own. The only thing you can do is laugh internally at his idiocy and become the best you can be. I've learned a lot more from bosses I couldn't stand than the ones that I loved. Good luck!
176053
Depends on the circumstances. You have more flexibility with choosing your friends. They should be tough enough to take your honesty well. In work environment, such considerations are outside of your control. If you want to succeed and your boss likes flattery, what can you do?\nAt most to decide how important promotion is to you. If it's less significant than your principles, why should you care about some one else's ideas, when you can be loyal to yourself. If it's more important to get to a manager's position, and that seems to be the only way, than yes, by all means, use flattery, if you can. Eventually you can always choose how to respond in any given set of circumstances. If you choose to be always truthful, some good people you respect would appreciate it, and others don't matter anyway. It might make life harder, but not impossible, and in the long run you will be faithful to yourself. So either way, the choice is ultimately yours.
1017862
Give your boss a good smack in the mouth. You should see changes taking place shortly afterwards. Glad to be of help.
415512
Unfortunately, most bosses are like this....but I have learnt to face up to my boss (your boss) or anyone who is "in a way putting you down", and it works....I will turn the tables on them and ask them simply "what it is that they don't agree with" or what would they do differently, I will never allow anyone to just "put me down" without at least getting some kind of response back from them, I want to know the reason why.......especially and you must be honest, if your intentions were well meaning....and after a few times doing this to your boss, your friend, your family member, someone in a store/restaurant, believe me, you will leave them with an IMPRESSION of who you are and that will be, that you will want to get to the core of the matter........Good-Luck
237446
The only thing and the best thing u can do if u dont want to leave ur present job is that u have to ignore her(him).  I guess u dont have any other option other than this.. Just have a good professional relationship with her and nothing more.. Dont let her antiques bgo to ur head coz otherwise it will harm ur performance. If ur boss gossips abt u then u canm politely clear the things out with her and say her whats the truth. And for the sleeping part, u cant do much!\n\nBut if u r ready to leave this job(provided u have secured  some other job) then u can do loads of stuff...fun stuff.. U can mess up her papers :) get mad on her if she does something to u.. Tell people that ur boss is a deperate bimbo..etc..i m sure u can make such stuffs happen..\n   But again i know u wont leave ur job.. so..
540129
Yes, he's your supervisor in the four corners of your workplace, but saying what you feel in the right place at the right time (like After work hours and far from his office; a coffee shop a block away will do) would give you peace of mind. Just make sure that you can still maintain your Professionalism towards him no matter what his response, if not, it's better to keep it to yourself and hope it's just a CRUSH that fades away in a day or two. Well, it's just my opinion and I'm sure it's different from the others. Good luck!
697574
Can you afford to lose this job? Funny thing about some men in authority, they enjoy the effect they have on subordinates, especially pretty ones they know are attracted. If its real enough for him to risk inapropriate behaviour, he should make a move outside of work hours/envioronment, otherwise the only respect you'll earn is to keep your eyes on your work.
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Do not tell your boss that she makes mistakes if you want to keep your job and get decent raises.\n\nYou would do better to suggest a different solution when you see a correctable mistake.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
267349
you must tell you boss all about it.. give a good notice period and wait for the reaction.. no matter what it was you did what you had to do and he is the one who will feel bad if he reacted in a disrespectfull way