MEN, help ! What can I do to get aguy?I'ms serious, READ ON?
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I am glad you asked this question and I am sorry that you are dealing with this.  Being a male myself and dealing with pressures of life I know what he is going through.\n\nThis is men are:\nwe are defined by what we do for example I don't introduce myself as man who does nursing I say that I am a nurse.\n\nwe feel that we need to be the providers, go out and support ourselves and our family.\n\nwe want to feel loved and accepted.  Here is where we sometimes get confused.  We want your love, but sometimes don't know how to say it because we don't want to be vulnerable.\n\nI am afraid that the best answer for this is the very one you don't want to here.  You can try the ultimatum, but I am almost certain he will choose the alternative because he confused right now.  He has a lot to think about and maybe right at this time he really needs a friend.
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act desperate, i see so many women throwing themselves at men every weekend!\nquite amusing and weve all done it! men think of it as a challenge then they give up.
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So what have you got to offer a lady? Are you smart? If ot, try reading (and don't move your lips while you do it). Are you good looking? If not, see about getting a make-over and remember to make the most of what you have. Are you fun? \n\nWork on making yourself the kind of guy women crave and you'll have to beat them off with a stick.
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darrrrrrrrr lagta he, to chhod do use, its all abt confidence. be a man, buddy
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Talk to your man about it. Communicate, understand, accept.
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Hello, Im not a freak...yet I find it hard to find decent women. I dont look at appearances but the heart and soul...You can change that by being yourself ...sean. Ps. and when a quite guy like myself is afraid to approach you,maybe because im shy, maybe because im normal...go and talk to him....he may be the love of your life although he may not drink or dance like the other guys...
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Just be honest. And learn to let go if he doesnt respond. Being cool or being sexy doesnt help holding on to a man, you can just have one for some time. Honesty sure works.
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Well there are some guys out there with completely no hope. It sounds like to me that he's just a super friendly guy and somewhat of a flirt. If you really think that theres something there then talk to him about it and maybe you'll get a hook up. Good luck
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just be yourself, if he doesnt like you for who you are then that's his problem and he's probably missing out on someone great ^_^ if you wanna know how to talk to a serious person, then talk seriously, and act like you might be interested, but be casual about it at the same time.
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you can't force anyone to love you, you have to let that happen. You do have to go through life being yourself, and just allow the "head over heels" to happen. now what would help is actually speaking tto a guy to let him know you're interested. other than that let the rest happen.
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Listen more speak a bit establish idea first, then flirt if feel be serious
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THIS GUYS ARE THE GUYS YOU DONT RUSH...\nWONT YOU JUST LET HIM BE LIKE THAT AND STILL TALK TO HIM AND IN TIME HE'LL REALIZE YOU'RE THE CHICK HE WANTS TO BE SERIOUS WIH BECAUSE YOU'RE ALWAYS THERE NO MATTER WHAT...
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As soon as you find out, let the rest of us know. I think the key is to act like an @sshole. I've always been polite and had lousy luck with women.
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Get off your PC, get out the door and get into something you enjoy doing. Find something that men like doing as well. You'll meet him there.\n\nGood luck, now go get em'!!!\n:)
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girl, this is an easy one.  the best way to get over the one you are hooked on is to get another one!  don't you know men come a dime a dozen just as they say we do.  trust me baby move on to something bigger and better and you will soon forget about that jerk.
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Listen  that  happened to me.FIND a hobby  or something to keep  your self  busy.And  if  this  is meant  to  be  it will  happen.  YOU cant  make  a man  LOVE you.Further  more  a  man  that's  not  married  will  look. And  some  touch.  But  remember  this  do  not  sell  your self  short. If  he  flirts  with  another  you  can  too. DONT get  so  hung  up  over  him. THERE  are  thousands+  millions  of  fish in  the  sea. don't  look  4  chickens  of the  sea either.  good   luck.
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you got problems.  no gurl will want someone desperate unless they are desperate themselves.  just sit back and be patient.  true love will come to you soon enough.  and just be yourself.  not tryin to dogg ya either just tryin to help