What is feeling about interracial dating between a black man and a white woman?
413389
If it is genuine attraction or love then i say go for yours, but i can not stand the ones who do it show off or to prove  point.  Not all are doing this, but to the ones who are i say, "shame on you."  To all the people on this site who keep asking the same race filled black man white women questions (you know who you are and your purpose/motive for doing so)and that is something that you will have to deal with yourself. Someone trying to make someone feels bad or less human by making their-self more appealing.  Those who are comfortable in their IR relationships do not feel the need to stoop to your childish levels. It pains me to see so many people place all black women in the same category.  If half of the venom you spit was correct then how are all these black children being born of black women.  Maybe it is immaculate conception.   Well but to you(who asked the question\n) I say date who you choose to, but please do it for love and not for spite.
221973
Some black women have a hard time dealing with black men dating white women because they believe that there is a shortage of good black men and that the white women are stealing their men.  Being a white woman who has dated black men, I have experienced this.  But racism is certainly not limited to black women; I am Italian and my family is totally against interracial dating.  I believe that people should be free to date anyone they want; what matters is that they like each other and treat one another with respect.  Most people who oppose interracial dating do so because they fear that which they do not know.  The only way to improve the situation and stop the hatred is to just forge ahead and date whomever you want, no matter what people say.  Only love is real; the rest is superficial.
279921
I've been with my husband for over 22 years, we've been married for a bit over 18 years. We met our Sophomore year of high school. We have 3 lovely children and a great relationship. I am white, he is black.\n\nFortunately for us, we have no encountered a lot of problems. But I know that the problems are out there, they are just more masked now. We've gotten the disgusting looks, we've heard "under the breath" comments but they don't bother me much. We are content in our skins even if they aren't the same color.\n\nThe only thing that bothers me and it's not a racial thing, even if it may sound like one, is when women get involved with someone of a different race (and this applies to men too) simply because they feel it's a trend. I speak of this because I went to school with several girls who thought it was "neat to mess with a black guy". Right there, you know it's just not something serious. Why would you have to make the distinction of "black guy" (insert any other race in that phrase) you wouldn't say you think it's "neat to mess with a white guy", right? \n\nI feel that if you are interested in someone, go for it. Make the most of your relationship, despite the stares and comments. Keep your chin up and be proud of who you are, of what your relationship is and forget what others think. Good luck.
75280
my husband is black and im white and we have 2 kids....very loving family. weve been married for 3yrs almost 4 and havee not yet ran into a problem. we get loooks if were in a town thats not used to seeing it but when they see how loving we are towards one another they look away or smile. i make it known. i dont think its as bad as what it was when whites and blacks werent "supposed" to mix. i feel so what who cares its your life and if you love him, forget everyone else.
683756
Ive had sex with a person of a different race, a couple of times. I went with a black girl in college for a bit, had a thing with a Brazilian girl for a while.  Both were alot of fun, after gettin to know one another(in bed) things start to get better and better. I had a lot of fun. To me, being a white male, i dont care if your blue, brown, black, yellow, white, or pink, color doesnt bother me. If you have a great smile, im all yours!!!
431499
NO! I have been in an interracial relationship for several years and honestly do not even think about his race because I love him. This questions has been asked many many times and if you will notice, the only people that respond no to this question are white boys. Not all white guys feel this way, but the ones that respond no just feel threatened and I think that's really lame. I think you should love everyone and if you feel in your heart that a relationship is right, race should not matter.
428165
you should change your Yahoo ID to "I Like White Meat"\n\nBut seriously, folks - have we gotten THAT politically correct in our society that now DATING preferences can be construed as racist?  This makes no sense, especially since you haven't even mentioned a preference for white guys; just that your last three "crushes" and a bf have been white.  \n\nThis is like saying "the last three job applicants and the guy I ultimately hired were all white, so I must be a racist."  This makes no sense, either.\n\nHowever, perhaps you are expressing some guilt about dating guys outsiede your race.  You don't indicate your race in your question.  Your avatar is ambiguous with respect to race, so I won't assume you are of any particular race.  I can assume that you are not white, and if that's the case, i have to wonder why you are feeling as if you are racist.  Are you feeling pressure from family or friends to date your "kind" (man- what an obsolete word - "kind")?  Do you feel duty bound to follow some sort of government-mandated affirmative action program?  If so, then throw in a brutha every 4th crush and you should be just fine.
571446
Me being a strong black woman I would have to say yes and no. How would you know if it's what you want or don't want if you never tried, is your mother a beautiful woman of color and how does she feel. All of us (black) don't come with drama or negativity some of us have class and goals and morals and in all actuallity drama is in every race we're just more out-spoken and often may hit but other races seem to be catching up if not passing us with the drama. So ask yourself do you love this girl for her color or for whom she is becuse if you truly loved her you would'nt be questioning her race because love has no color or boundaries. GOOD LUCK!
715814
Love finds itself in strange and unusual ways for many. Interracial dating is fine for me, but it depends on the relationship. Some people are against it, others aren't. It depends on the relationship.
119976
It's a cultural thing still with a lot of people. I'm caucasian (White) and I've dated African-American women and I know that a lot of AA women are uncomfortable with dating someone of a caucasian part of the race. AA men dating caucasian women is a male "look at me, I'm dating a white girl, are'nt I a stud" kind of thing. It will take another generation before "black" and "white" are truly comfortable with one another. The sad part is that we are are all genetically the same, skin color is meaningless. Slavery did not help relations between human beings at all. But the genetic history of the human race is that we ALL came from Africa and that the caucasian skin color was a fairly recent  (about 3000 years ago) in the scale of human history.
182546
I'm guessing that you are asking if interracial dating/marriage is ok. I'm white and my wife is black...we've been married 4 years and have 2 beautiful daughters. We have the same problems that all married couples have....but we've never had issues because of our racial difference. \nI know some people might not approve but I couldn't care less. That being said there are some places that I wouldn't move to because of racial problems...but I probably wouldn't choose to live there if I was married to a white woman.
724454
There are groups out there you just have to look.  I'm sure Yahoo Groups has several.  Google black woman/white man interracial dating and see what pops up.
587447
I LOVE BLACK WOMEN...i cant see myself dating a white girl..after many failed attempts with white girls..i found what i needed ..a naturally sexy beautiful black female
279564
Yes. \nI am white.... caucasian.... pigment deficient... whatever you want to call it. I've dated (and married) women of other races throughout my life. The darker the skin, the more racism we experienced. I did not feel it from many outsiders, just mainly from my family... until I dated black women and eventually married two of them. Then I experienced it pretty much everywhere we went, to different degrees... both from blacks and from whites. \n\nMe and my second wife broke up in '94, and since then I haven't been in an interracial relationship... not by choice - just happened to fall in love with someone that was a little short of pigment.\n\nI don't know your reason for asking. I personally think that we should all love whoever we are meant to love and never make a choice based on color of skin. I will say however that in interracial relationships, there is a lot of additional pressure and outside resistance and negativity that doesn't exist in "same color" relationships.\n\nIt amazes me how in all other aspects of life, we LIKE contrast and are drwn to it. "Wow, I want that white car with the tan interior." "Those kaki pants look great with that red shirt." "I love the colors that you have picked for your house... they really compliment each other."\n\nExcept when it comes to the color of our skin.\n\nAren't we referred to as "THE human race" and "humanKIND?" \nNotice that neither word is plural.\n\nOZ
488084
Girl heck no... My dad is white and my mom is black... I dated a white guy for 2 years... You go wit yo bad self!!!
677633
I think interracial relationships are great I'm mixed black and white and my niece is mixed also.  You go for what you like color desn't really matter because at the end of the day every one is still the same on the inside and we all have the same problems only difference is the skin color and looks.
1005428
I don't see the big deal.  If white women are dating all the black men, why can't black women date white men, Mexicans, etc?  Plus I feel like a lot of the black women who are upset by seeing a white woman with a black man have issues with themselves.  Seriously, there are pleny of black men.  If you can't find one re-evaluate yourself.