I am in love with this boy he says he loves me but yet when i call and write him he doesnt answer .what to do?
410152
i know its hard but let him go.  hes just not that into you
70538
Assure him you love him. He will communicate if he believes in you.
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
482563
If he doesn't talk to you, may be you will write him an e-mail. Write him everything what you feel. If he loves you, he will understand or at least he will know your feelings
838443
Oh you poor thing - I remember stuff like that happening when I was a teen and it tore my brain to bits trying to figure it out. You just have to let it ride I think. Call him and say "Hey, got your message, what did you want" and play it cool. If he has been told that you like him just lay low and let him chase you if he wants you. You seem to have already been under the impression that you were not going to talk anymore anyway so if things don't work out then don't get upset. I used to hate it when my mum said this to me but is is true "In 6 months time you won't know what you saw in him." If he's still around in 6 months time then he is worth it, if not he's not worth it - get my point?\n\nTry writing a letter that you don't plan on givign to him so you can be free with your feelings and that might help you sort out your own head so it's not doing you in so much. If the letter ends up good - then give it to him.
993574
If you really love him, give him some time... he's probably confused, most guys are in relationships.  Don't date other guys cause it's going to contradict what you're trying to do, just kinda give him some space and wait to see what happens.  It's tough, I know, but if he doesn't respond... maybe you should accept it.
590118
Love has a strange way of allowing things to work out sometimes. You can write him a letter or you can call him or you can confront him face to face. Either way is okay. If you can't do any of these things then you can have a relative or friend of yours or the both of you drop some subtle hints for you. My dear, love is not dumb or desperate. It's honest and true. Hurry up now and don't waste any time! Good Luck!
1052734
honeeeey , are u sure he doesnt like u back , try being honest ,  im the kind who always confronts people i think u should do the same go try showing him or telling him how u feel about him dont tell him ( i love u ) send him indirect messages boyz always get them :P anyways if then also he does not respond forget about him coz he is not worth u . Rock on .
213488
Oh girl, I'm sorry, but he his playing you.  If he loved you then he would be with you and not her.  Quit wasting your precious love and time on him.  You deserve a guy who loves you and only you.
130020
Have you ever met this man? \nYou may be in love with the 'idea' of him, but I don't believe it's possible to be in love with someone you have not met.\nThere could be a number of reasons why he is no longer writing to you, maybe he hurt himself and is in the hospital, maybe he is dealing with a family issue that he is not ready to talk about, maybe he found someone else to chat with, maybe he is not in love with you the way you think he is. This list could go on and on.\nWhen is the last time you two chatted? In hindsight do you recall any differences in his responses to you?\nYour best bet is to ask him why he has stopped writing and then you will have your answer as to what to do. \nIf you have his phone number, give him a call.\nGood luck, I hope everything works out for you.
313934
I had that problem with my ex boyfriend. I love him more than he love me and he end up using me. I am not saying that your boyfriend is using you I just want you to be careful and don't put more in the relationship than him. When a boy see that you love him and know that you are willing to do whatever for him. They got you where they want you and then they will tend to use you. I promise you this being use by someone you love so much hurts like hell. I been there. Just slow down and don't call him as much as u was and let him do the calling. \n\nI wish you the best of Luck with your relationship!\nMs.T~baby:)
635786
It sounds like you need to talk to your man. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him where do I stand in this relationship? Then come right out and say Do you still love me?
672936
talk to him. you love him whatever the decision is. i think it is important you two make up your minds first. does he want to stay with his girlfriend and why is it that the two of you always end up together. easy answer i guess. but does it make sense to give in every time you meet? do you want to progress - or do you love him and want to know better..? last but not least.. just enjoy that there's someone special like this boy in your life. guess he will be there always whatever your decision. good luck.
423927
well unless you know for sure that he loves you then dont tell him because if your the only one with the feelings then you may scare him off by telling him you love him.  YOu may sound obsessive or somehting and he might find it creppy or wierd...so just wait it out and let him no when you feel comfortable telling him and when you know that he has the same feelings for you as well. <3 Have a good day.\n<3Laurissa
112351
u should give up with ur boy.\nforget him\nlife must go on..\nso be happy always..
621052
i get just one thing from ur qesn. ur boy friend is a totally confused person wen it comes to decieding wat he likes n he is confusing u too!\n\nthe only way out is that u ask thees quens to him.
1036289
gurl im telen you call that boy and if he says hes gonna call you bak rite wen you get on the phone then say no talk to me for a sec and then ask him if hes not interested in talking to you at all....wen he answers if he saids no he wants to talk then ask him what his problem is why has it ben so long since he hasnt called....but if he says that hes not interested then just say im sorry but y didnt you tell me ???? gurl you need to take a chance...you never kno what will happen...?