if you have a freind(so called) who just keeps letting you down should you just walk away from him?
407658
I would say talk to him about it first, let him know that his behavior is putting a strain on your friendship.\n\nWhere to go from there depends on your perspective. From mine(Christian) I have had many people who did not give up on me when I was a raging drug addict. I was probably the worst friend someone could have, but there were certain people that loved me throughout, and that is no small thing.
706643
Tell her that you won't let her do that to you anymore.  If she values your friendship, then you need to let her know that you will not allow her to continued to do this.  People will always walk all over you until they know that they can't.  YOu have to stick up for yourself.  Don't talk to her for a week or so.  Then call her up and say.....next time, it will be over.  Don't treat me like that anymore.
905279
may be he wanted u to get out from his life so he decited to be mean with u to make u go away from him \nif he is a mean person with him then why u still a friend to him?!
520943
Yes you should. Also, if your afraid by telling that you will lose his friendship, and just don't want to, then consider talking to you counselor and explaining the situation. They are trained to handle situations like this.
1004450
Thank yourself for being smart enough not to sleep with this LOSER.  Move on!  Move on! Move on! and find people who will truly love and cherish you.  You deserve it!  BTW, dump the "friend" too.
650808
stick up fro urfriend and let the "hitter" loose!!!!! If u don't do anything, u might regret it someday when u never see ur friend anymore...
387711
I had a friend that was doing bad stuff, and i just told him to either stop or we wouldn't be friends, and i know you still wanna be her friend, but the thing is that in most cases she will tell you that she will, and you guys will stay friends. If you won't do that then maybe you should start to say subtle things to her about her behavior, just slip them into your conversations, that way she doesn't feel bad. That's my advice.
170183
why can't you just be his friend and stop there...i don't know why people want to hurt a  friend in any way just because they like this frind x- its your friend x...find your own x
181594
You need to not be "best friends" with him. Time to move on.
664258
I think he is. Did you try to explain to him how much it hurts you when he withdraws from you? He needs to tell you when you do something to upset him so you can work it out and get it out in the open. He is holding things in which only makes it worse. Make sure he understands that he has to be open and honest with you in order for your friendship to last. That is part of what being a good friend is. I wish you luck and hope you two work things out. Good friends are hard to come by so that makes it worth trying to work things out.
1168153
sweetie if he dont want you move on to someone that does.
234368
First of all, if they are "bad friends" then they are not friends at all. If you have already tried telling them to quit bugging you and go their own separate way, but had no success, then just IGNORE them!! They will eventually get tired...
558409
She is not your friend if she keeps on getting mad at you for no reason at all. You should talk to her about that. Misery loves company and this is not something you should even have to put up with. Find new friends and don't sweat the small stuff.
508093
It's hard to take that step back in a relationship.  If he/she is really your friend, I would tell them you just don't want to do that anymore and see how they react.  If they aren't into it, maybe you have to stop messing around all together.
201581
Maybe you used that word "friend" to loosely... a friend wouldn't just close you out with no explanation If he's pulling that "passive agressive" '...I'm not gonna talk to you because I know you want me to but I want to make you suffer' routine... my guess is you really are fortunate that he has backed away from you. Hey, you know what is really great? When you just go on with your life in a joyful positive way and he eventually wants to talk with you again but then YOU have nothing to say and just go on with your business. \n\nI'm not saying to do this as revenge, just as a great way to protect yourself from having negative people in your life. Your "friend" may even learn how very immature his behavior is and actually learn to communicate his feelings.\n\nGood Luck and don't hurt.
797137
Ever heard yhe old saying that if you love someone and they want to leave you should let them go if it is meant to be they will comeback to you. Try this on your freind and see what happens\nGood luck
102574
don't take him away from her it makes you the bad guy.\n\nbest friend's friendships shattered over me