There is this guy I love and he loves me too.But his family wants him to marry his cousin.What can I do?
401583
If that is the case, there is absolutely nothing you can do.  It would really be up to your boyfriend to speak up and mention to his family that he is in love with you.  If he is not saying anything to his family about you, you might as well kiss your boyfriend good bye.
1143575
So, your love is ignoring you because of family? Well, that is not an excuse to stop a beautiful love like yours. Firstly, make sure you are not crossing the line of his personal boundaries. Secondly, somehow talk to the family (whether or not it is his or yours) and tell them what you wrote on this site. Tell them they have no right to tear you two apart, and that you love him so much you are willing to die for your love. \n\nTry to get a hold  of your man. Talk to him, and tell him your feelings. If your love is this strong, then don't give up! Love this wonderful is hardly ever achieved.\n\nIf things don't go your way, I am sorry. But remember that the only reason you are sad is because something very amazing happened to you, and you should be grateful you got to experience such a great love. Know that no matter what, there is someone who loves you. Never give up on happiness and appreciate everything you have, and everything you had.
1008264
you don't say how old the two of you are but here's my opinion.,\n\nright now- there's no reason for him to start up trouble in his family because even tho they will like you- they will certainly have issues because of their faith and that's ok. it is understandable\n\nfor now- just have fun and don't worry about all of that.
858173
Lots of people are attracted to their cousins when they are young.  But you are right--it can't go anywhere, so it'll just always be a bittersweet memory of what could have been.  Look elsewhere for a real boyfriend.
152846
Best suggestion\n\nWish them the best and move on in your life.\nMy cousin actually found out her hubby was. they had a amicable divorce and she is really happy now with a new man in her life. the second time she was wiser and really had some standards before she agreed to marry this man. \n\nRead His Needs, Her Needs, and "Smart Love" \nIt can really help you out.
413566
wow so um try talking to your cousin about both of you waiting to see if maybe there is someone else for one or both of you then tell her how you feel and what you want to do if she cares for you both she might refuse to come between the two of you. i hope all goes well and if it doesnt there is more then likely another girl out there
92701
erm. firstly.. did he care for his family and yours? if he did i believe that in the future he will do the same for you and your family. Is he loyal? and he rather spend time with you then his friends. Cares for your feeling.. willing listen to your point. not argue with you but listen to you. And the most important is your heart is only for him and he too. hope u can find your answer soon.
334182
if your family has a problem with him, you have to decide who your loyalty will go to. WHY does your family dislike him? Usually family disapproves of people they dont consider good enough for you..at least thats the case with my family.\nI would hesitate even if i loved someone. Giving up life as you know it, your family, everything for just one person is a huge step. I dont think i could do it without a committment of some sort.
596170
Keep your boyfriend and your cousin apart.  You can't keep someone from cheating and if he wants to, there is nothing you can do to stop him.  However, your cousin doesn't know where to draw the line by flirting with your boyfriend.  That's not cool at all.  You say you don't want to tell her anything cuz your related, but she doesn't mind hurting you even though you're related.  My advice, try not to be with your cousin and your bf at the same time-it's not worth the aggravation.  If you must be with both of them at the same, \ntry to be cool, don't let your jealousy show.  If you can handle it, make light of it and say something funny like,\n"We need to find you a bf, so you stop flirting with mine".  Don't let her know it bugs you.  Remember, if he's yours, he's not going anywhere.  If he's not really yours, you can't do anything to keep him.  Trust me, it's great advice!  Good luck.
242721
Your family wants you to get married or they just speak about it often? I am not really understanding what you mean. If you want to find a girl to marry than you have to get out to meet them....Lady
61230
ARE YOU SERIOUS?! YOUR COUSIN?! that is sick,might i add- illegal in most states! have you ever seen an inbred person? now why would you try to make a relationship with a relative work out. could you cause the pain, need i mention the embarrasment, to your families... this could tear the family apart as well as tear the two of you apart. i think it is a bad ideal but of course i am not the one in love with my cousin... dude i don't know what to tell you, it seems to me you think incest is the best... so put your cousin to the test. think about the day you will meet your maker!
719512
It depends,I dont really care if they do or not, because as long as he makes you happy and your family does'nt like him then it should be up to you,its what you want,you want to be happy with him and your family should'nt get in the way of that happiness.
1170654
love has no bounds... if your guy loves you so much so that he can go against this world.... go with your guy.... its very difficult to find a pure love.... if you think you have found one, do anything to save that love.... people are not always so lucky.....\nif you dont have any blood relation then i don't see why you both can't get married.....\nbut before telling your parents... talk to your guy... as to whether he will be there standing with you or not.....
328174
In my experience go with your heart.  I was always worrying about my family liking my boyfriends and everything but then I sat down and thought about how much I actually see my family and I hardly ever saw them and I was with my boyfriend...now my husband...all the time.  He was what made me happy not my family or my friends who didn't like him.  If this guy is unpredictable...why risk being hurt by someone like that when you can be with someone who does love you and  you know that for sure without a doubt.  Who cares what other people think of your sexuality.  They don't have to live out your life and they don't have to be with the girl...so do what you want and mroe importantly what your heart wants.
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have you told your boyfriend how you feel? maybe yu should and see what he says, or see if he will ask his parents and sister what they think of you. there has got to be  a reason, unles they are just really protective over their son?But i would go, dont let his family stop you from being with him.it is his family, they will always be a part of his life. good luck whatever you decide to do :)
793712
Follow your head. What girl really wants a boy who doesn't want her in return? Your cousin should move on and stop wasting her time on someone who doesn't reciprocate her affection.
756941
My cousin had a long time relationship with this girl, he's from Canada and she's from the States. They meet over the Internet and now their married and still in love. I had a long distance relationship and it wasn't that hard to deal with as long as you don't go crazy with a "what if" in the back of your mind and trust your heart that every word spoken is true. Now we live together and I still love him even more then before, and am excited for the years to come. I say if it feels good, and you both can handle the distance between the two of you, give it a try and see as the days go by.