how should i get the guy i likes attention?
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ok well i'm a girl, but this is what i do. guys wil prob find it boring...but it does work. no you don't need to dress sexier or provacatively...although that will get attention...it will be negative. flirting does help. make conversation. talk about what he likes, something about a class, the weather, how his weekend was, movies...anything. make sure he knows you're interested without bluntly saying "hey, i like you," do you get what i'm saying? well good luck :)
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wait until the right guy comes along and then you will get all the attention you need
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Don't try to hard. Next time you see him, pay him a short compliment:\n\n"Hey, cool shirt."\n"Thanks for helping me out the other day."\n\nGuys are shy too. But compliments (short and sincere) will get his attention. If he is interested in you, he'll make the next move.
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my dear you must let him know you exist first. be sure that he knows that. then show your interest in him just a little flirt not something flashy. laugh at his jokes, show interest in the things you are sure he likes, talk to him and listen everybody likes people that listen. dress sexy but make sure you don't look slutty. sorry for that but guys like girls that are sexy by nature, not fake.
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Be yourself, don't try and be someone you are not for anyone.  If he likes your personality it will come with time.  Remember no one likes someone that seems desperate, or to forward either, hanging around.  If you treat him with respect, and are always polite, & help him some way he will notice you for your efforts.  Find some common ground to strike up a conversation.  Something you have in common to maybe do to together, then ask him he would like to attend with you.  If it wasn't meant to be, then it isn't.  There are plenty of fish in the sea.
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You have to let it out, tell your friends you like him, I'm sure they have ideas to let him notice you, that way, your positive he likes you.\n\nP.S from what I've read from books, I suggest you be yourself.
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Hey Confused, this is 2006. It is okay to talk to the guy. Tell him that you are really mad at manipulative people. And that you noticed him and want to know more about him.\n\nYou say you really like him. Well, you must know something about him, what he likes, etc. Ask him to tell you more about himself. Guys are suckers for that. Really. Sit there and listen. If he plays an instrument, read up on it. Ask him what his favorite band is. You know things like that. Ask his opinion about movies, team sports.  Find common interests.\n\nIf you want him to ask you out, he has to know who you are and find you approachable. When he finds out you are easy to talk with, guess what? He will feel better about asking you out. Play it cool. \n\nAnd killing yourself? Hey, that is forever. Never going to get that good looking guy that way. Hang around. Be interesting and interested. Develop yourself and your own interests. Being not as eager is also a good thing. Remember this, dogs and men chase what runs away.
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Take it from an old fart who remembers (okay, so I'm not that old, but I do remember)....\n\nWhatever you do, do not give him too much attention. That scares boys away.  You have to act like you could care less about him.  But, every once in a while, give him a smile or say 'hi'.  Then go about your business as if you have a million other more important things to do.  For some odd reason, anyone of the male persuasion, likes someone who plays hard to get or who they think that they can't have.  But keep that line of communication open without going overboard. Hope this helps.
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find a common interest such as a band or show you know he would like, find out where they are playing and bring it up in conversation.  when he says he likes them tell him your going to a concert and if he'd like to come that would be cool.\n\ndont panic too much though even if you just ask him directly you'd be surprised how often you'll get a yes\n\ngood luck
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before asking a question type few words of your question in the search.....you will find more than 500 questions already asked on this issue....\n\nThe easiest way to approach a guy is to smile at him...and try to talk about general issues.....like abt wheather, baseball, football. If he is interested he will definetly join you in the conversation.or else he would give one word answers and ignore you......Belive me when a pretty girl tries a guys attention ....no guy can ignore that....
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compliment his style and the way that he looks. Always try to look pretty and cute by being yourself. Be confident, guys find that attractive. After having him establish that you exist, try and find some interest between you and him, but dont compromise youself in doing things that he only likes just because... Once you have found the common ground, you can ask him to join you or to join him.. Ask him out maybe if your up to it.. \nDont sell yourself to quickly tho.. he might get wierded out ... Just make sure that your around him long enough so that he has no other choice but to like you back....
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Simply by going up to him, and saying, you like him and would love to get to know him better.\nA little flirting, wouldn't hurt either. Sometimes it's the unspoken body language that speaks volumes. \nStand close to him, touch his arms, smile up at him. He'll get the message quick enough.
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Ask yourself the following questions and try to relax and answer them.  Your heart will not lead you wrong so go with your heart! Does she flirt with you?  Are you the ideal BF!\nHow you get a guy to like you! \n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones \n2. Smile a LOT \n3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him \n4. Be REALLY nice \n5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") \n6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) \n7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) \n8. Be yourself! \n9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) \n10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) \n12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? \n13. Say hi to him in the hallways \n14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! \n14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! \n15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) \n16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) \n17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* \n18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa \n19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \n-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------\nOK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ! \nLadies: this will make you tear up :)\nfellas: read it, all of it! :)\n1-touch their waist\n2-talk to her\n3-share secrets\n4-give her your jacket\n5-kiss them slowly\nare you remembering this?\n6-hug her\n7-hold her\n8-laugh with her\n9-invite her somewhere\n10-let her be with you when you're with your friends\nkeep reading\n11-smile with her\n12-take pictures with her\n13-pull her onto your lap\n14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back\n15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved\nare you thinking about someone?\n16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her\n17-kiss her unexpectedly\n18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST\n19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!\n20-tell her the way you feel about her!\n20 u need to show her you mean it too\n21-kiss her on the lips\n22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff\n23-tell her what feels good\n24-make her feel loved\n25-buy her stuff. small things can still help\nwe might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things\n26-don't lie to her\n27-dont cheat on her\n28-take her anywhere she wants\n29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her\n30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you\nare you still reading this u better be its important\n31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.\n32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.\n33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).\n34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.\n35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act
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Be yourslf 1st of all don't change just to get his attention, just make friendlly conversation at first talk about things that you both are interested in, then get e-mail screennames or cell phone numbers and get to know him.
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The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
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Here's How:\n\n* Keep an eye on how many times you catch him staring at you.\n\n* Take notice of whether he smiles at you a lot.\n\n* Look for whether he focuses on you in a crowd.\n\n* Observe if he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.\n\n* Pay attention to any significant changes in his behavior toward you recently.\n\n* Start showing him a bit more interest and see how he responds.\n\n* If you're having difficulty reading him, you should have a friend talk to him or one of his friends about you. \nNOTE: This should only be your last resort!***\n\nOnce you start getting the sense that he's into you, you should go a step further with something like this:\n\n* Try to start a conversation w/ him about some common interests, and then switch to a discussion about which is the best movie that's about to be released.  Then, simply ask him: "Hey, would you like to go see it together?" Then, give him your number and as you walk away, say "call me and let me know, or tell me next time I see you, ok?". \n\nBasically, don't let him give you an answer right there, let him think about it so he's not put on the spot. You're not pressuring him, so he'll feel more confident about approching you next time!!!\n\nGOOD LUCK and remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique!
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You should instant message him (it's a lot easier than saying it to his face, where you might blush) and say- Hi. Um... I noticed you were staring at me the other day in math class (Or what ever class it was). I was just wondering if you liked me... It might be a stupid idea, but it has worked for me in the past!