Divroced MEN--Help!!!!!!!!!!!?
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After being divorced for three years I now know it takes a lot of time for that wound to heal. He may be totally into you and not let his guard down, maybe ever. His child is probably tops on his list of things to protect, and that more than likely won't change either. Just be yourself and if you like him a lot, give him time and space and let nature take it's course. Good luck!
352542
This is going to solve ALL your problems! To put it straight forward, stop being a wuss and start livin life man! women tend to lean more to a dude who is a bad boy then some shy pushover. Its time to stop being unconfident and start being a trouble maker! it worked wonders for me!!
529615
This is a reality "WAKE UP CALL" : You do not need a man to validate whom you are, because if you do, then you really do not know whom you are at all. This is a trying and difficult situation, to feel lonely, but this too shall pass. First thing is to be selective about the guy you are interested in, don't just go for the hard body with the great face and bad boy attitude{ these guys are good in the sack and little else}, try to find a guy you have a bit in common with, this will make you happier in the long run. The kindest thing you can for yourself is to not be so desperate, it is like blood in the water, you do not want to cause a feeding frenzy among the sharks and you my dear are the bait.
453147
Some men are intimidated by a female who is very intelligent and/or beautiful.  They don't think they will add up.  Try not revealing everything about yourself all at once.  I know your proud of your degrees, but let these men know slowly about all of this.
717247
Try somewhere where the vast majority are men. A place that you can deal with.Or something you like to do.Get some guts and start talking to one your interested in.Your not likely to get yelled at or the cold sholder.
1131145
Finding a decent guy isn't that easy. I'm speaking from experience here. I'm 25 and in less than a year will finally be finished with my Ph.D., and have found that most guys are untrustworthy. But I do know that there are a very few decent ones out there. Maybe try looking in different places, like museums, church, the theater, etc. If you ever want to chat about this or anything else feel free to drop me a line
268623
Gentlemen love to help Danzels in distress. Just ask. 55% of men are single. That's one in two. Pretty good odds. Hardware stores is were i find most women in need.
1147196
find a man that's all they r good for anyway ...just use protection\nor find a woman if that is more up your alley
1076963
sorry the best men I know are in dallas tx, and orlando fla. Those are the only ones that I can vouch for. \n\nBest of luck
237057
you just said it your all the things these guys are not and so i guess they must feel that if they are with you they don't need to be cause you can deal with all of it....and maybe your looking in the wrong places where do you meet these kind of guys?  by the way you sound perfect so don't worry I'm sure you will find the right guy sooner rather than later
874315
girl, this is an easy one.  the best way to get over the one you are hooked on is to get another one!  don't you know men come a dime a dozen just as they say we do.  trust me baby move on to something bigger and better and you will soon forget about that jerk.
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Stroke his ego ALOT!  Men just love hearing how he's THE man!  Let him buy the toys that he wants.  Never question his manlyhood in any way.  Be there for him.  He needs to know that he is a good provider.  Don't be too clingy and don't question his whereabouts.  Don't act jealous all the time.  I'm sure you don't, but some wives do.  One of the best ways to make him happy is to show that your happy!
749198
It's not an uncommon problem but it would be best to seek  professional help. Check with your doctor or there are  men's health centres that specialise in these areas.
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Knowing the problem is 70% of the solution.  STOP BEING NEEDY!  Like yourself and depend on yourself so that you don't need to "need" a man....then you'll ENJOY a man's company.  They stick around longer if you do this!
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Don't put all men in the same class.  Not ALL of them are scum-sucking maggots.  Above all DON'T PLAY THEM!  Let you be you, the real you, and you'll and might just get lucky and catch that one-in-a-million guy.  Don't try to be dominant.  But then again, it is wise to guard up.
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talk to the man about it
553160
Yeah, just don't worry about it. Let people live and live yourself. You can burn up a lot of energy in this silly competition over a woman's affection. It isn't a contest. There are lots of women who will think you are the man. Let your buddy go through this experience and be confident in the man that you are.