She said I am the cool person then why she does not love me?
415246
One thing that I have learned about love is that you CANNOT help how you feel.  If you put your hand on a hot stove it hurts right?  Well the same thing with love.  You have two choices brother.....man up and tell her how you feel, regardless of the consequences or suffer in silence.  Good luck bro, hope you get the girl!!!!!
331020
IT DOESN'T MEAN SHE DOESN,T LOVE YOU. SOMETIME WOMEN JUST LOOSE INTEREST, IT COULD BE A  HORMONAL THING. WHICH HAPPENS WHEN WOMEN GO THROUGH MENOPAUSAL. I HAVE BEEN IN THOSE SHOES. SOMETIMES PEOPLE DON'T HAVE AN EXPIATION JUST A FAZE IN THERE LIFE. JUST HANG ON..  GOOD LUCK..
359629
It doesn't sound like she respects you or the relationship. I'd move on.
420869
It's so hard to believe you don't love her. This is because you don't love her and still don't want to hurt her feelings. You are a really nice guy and I mean it.\n\nBut since you are sure you don't love her, it's time you tell her this immediately rather than waste her time. Tell her it just wasn't meant to be. You two can be great friends after your breakup too. All the Best pal.
1118211
Probably cuz you ignored her.  I always say sometimes it is best to "back off" which is what you did and it worked out for you.  Try not to be TOO interested too fast though as that probably scared her a little.  You did right.
1003714
Yeah bro you're sprung\n\nI am sure you're a nice and u deserve better than that\n\nIf she don't want u move on I am sure there's a girl that feels the same about you.\n Forget her man life is too valuable.
292638
It's going to be tough if she doesn't like you to begin with.  In other words, whatever you do won't impress her much.  Just set your sights on someone else. I'm sure there's someone out there who would like you just the way you are even when you don't put your best foot forward.
1007188
If she said that she don't want to get involved with anyone for a while, then that's somewhat a good thing. She NEVER told you YES (NOR) did she tell you (NO)! That mean's there's still hope in the future. Maybe she is trying to she if your a patient guy, one who would be true to her, and willing to wait and prove it! Go out together (as friends) and get her to like and admire you more. Good Luck.
1129204
I think she's either not interested (like she said) or she's disappointed with you, the best thing right now is not try to explain or seem too eager, let the friendship develop and she'll know what kind of person you are and may start to like you
633439
at this point in the relationship it really does not matter. if she told you she was not feeling you then take it as she said it. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU....so in her world it doesn,t matter how much you love her,she doesn,t love you. sorry
1117967
You're NOT an idiot at all: your actions have shown both courage and devotion...two components of both true love and friendship. How she eventually responds will depend on your shared "chemistry" and where her life experience falls on the learning curve of love.\n\nI can tell you, however, I've been in her place and understand her perspective. A close friend revealed his feelings for me some months ago, and at first it was hard for me to see him as more than a friend (also, I feared losing his friendship!), but he responded similarly to your actions...proving over time he'd not pressure me, and truly cared for me in whatever capacity we could share our lives. Now, he's MUCH more than a friend AND we've found the strength of our friendship helped us overcome typical romantic spats, etc. The time spent in friendship made the love lasting. \n\nPlease do not feel foolish. You've been honest and patient. (Foolish would be never having the guts to tell her how you feel, or rejecting her when she didn't return your desires immediately.) Continue being yourself, and dedicate yourself to the friendship...give her TIME...possibly she'll see your strength and affection, understand the man you can be in her life, and return your feelings. \n\nEither way, here's a quote I like: \n"You are what you love, not what loves you."
432410
You relay like her that's what it means.because you dint want to say any thing stupid.just be your self.she will like you for you or not like you at all.you have nothing to loose.
667754
"I don't love her becuase she's beautiful, She's beautiful becuase I love her."
476159
She's a little intrigued now that you're not chasing her anymore... keep it up buddy, make her throw herself at you from now on - she will luv you for keeping it that way !
686237
My guess is that she is afraid, but afraid of what?  I don't know.  Keep in mind, she has a right to be afraid, for whatever reason, and she also has a right not to go out with you if she doesn't want to regardless of how much she may or may not love you.  Right now, you have left too many unknowns, therefore, it is hard to say why she may be afraid, but you mentioned she may be afraid of what people might think about you, so, is there something about yourself that you are not mentioning?  That could be the whole answer to your own question.
1103639
How about.\n\n''It's a shame that you really hate me as I really enjoy spending time with you and you are a really nice girl. i would like to get to know you better''\n\nThe fact that she is saying she hates could be lots of different reasons all meaning that she doesn't hate you:\n\nPerhaps your with someone, or so she thinks\nShe got it on with your bro\nYour bro has told her stories about you\nYou live too far away.\n\nAll silly things.
1119694
I don't think she loves you, and I praise her maturity in not saying it when she doesn't mean it. Maybe you should re-evaluate your feelings and see that maybe you are just infatuated with her.