why lovers die for one another?why don't for their parents?
407666
i know like my mom but,i love my bf
55778
There are many levels of suffering when loving. For instance, when parents loose a childe, when a spouse looses his or her partner to accident or decease. And while it's been said that you cannot experience love if you don't experience suffering, or experience the night without a day, etc., it's really just a matter of  embracing everything life throws at you. Problems are nothing but bumps on the road that tell you, "avoid me in the future". To me real suffering has nothing to do with love per say. It has to do with circumstances like poverty, decease, injustice and so on, and even then, there is always the possibility of getting out of that.
162102
love is not only between u and ur boyfriend. It exists between u and ur parents, u and ur friends, u and God. This simply answers ur question.
815457
It is better to have loved and lost.. then to have never loved at all.They say this because Love builds relationship after relationship..Love Never really Dies..hard to understand but its true ...cherish what u had..write it down and burn it..dont listen to sad songs..and just try to not think of him..I know its difficult.  you will cry alot.. Pray...I say one for u 2... keep your chin up..
968334
No, becuz when you have your relationship, they dont have anything to do with that.  You are happy with that person, this person loves you...they may even be your soulmate, you never let something great go, becuz of what your mother or father says.  \n\nYou live your life for you and no one else.  If you listen to what your parents say your whole entire life, you will never be happy.
665924
My father is 84 and my mother is 61.  What's the problem?  It was never a problem with my parents even though every one around them disagreed.  If you love the person the age difference shouldn't matter.  It didn't to my parents and they have five children.  Tell everyone else to mind their own business and you do what you think is best for you and your partner and not everyone else.
696197
yaar sonnadu, tamil parents will not like love marraiges....? v are all humans with normal egos in life, depending upon ur designation in the family,ok....when u bcom a parent u may like love marraiges, but othrs will find ur negatives in something else....it all depends upon the society v live in and this is vital role in this.....and its not only tamil parents hate luv marraiges, everwhere its there....can the developed countries' guys deny this....???!!!! no they can't....
154382
Main reason that they have is, if they express it to thier lover,  i.e. she / he may get hurt for their expression or their doing and the fear of breaking of their love may occur.  This is sure that they will express only after they get married or before their relationship breaks. cause they fear of loosing one another.
1185161
Like a lot of modern parents, I think they fail to see their kids' feelings as being real to them.  Thus, you go around forbidding who they can and can't talk to, arranging relationships, putting unreasonable restrictions on them etc.  If you operate on the assumption that kids only have "puppy" love and that somehow their emotional life is more diminutive and less important than that of adults, then Romeo and Juliet happens.
531956
Yes.\n\nWhy is that?\n\nI see parents all the time get bent out of shape because a couple is making love on TV but when it comes to the bloodiest violence, it's just fine to watch.\n\nWhat gives?
628935
It was both,\n\nHate; because of the hatred between the families,\nRomeo & Juliet had to keep their love a secret.\nKnowing that if their families found out the were\nmarried there would surley be more hatred and possibly\nblood shed.\n\n\nLove; because of the love they had for each other,they knew\nthe only way they could be together was in death,and because their love was so infinate they made the ultimate\nsacrfice and died for their love.
838805
My step father had left for work early one morning. My mom had gone back to bed when she heard a knocking on the front door. He had come back to tell her he wanted her to know how happy he had been with her and kissed her again, and that he loved her very much. He died in a car accident about 1 hour later. I honestly think if they have lived a good life, they will know when they are going to die.
957200
The relationship of ones parents has a lot to do with their adult relationships, whether or not the parents were divorced.  If you come from parents who fought all the time, you will unconsciously believe that fighting is the way to communicate in a relationship.  It's difficult to stand back and look at your parent's relationship and determine how to have a successful relationship.  You also need to look at the way the parent's relating to the children regarding the divorce.  It takes someone with a lot of insight to look at the whole picture and then form a loving relationship.  There are many books on successful marriages, communications and relationships.  Also, going for therapy can be very insightful and helpful that you won't repeat your parents mistakes.  Good Luck!
978640
Genetics...\n\nBlame your parents for having unprotected sex with each other.  \n\nMy lovely (Bottom of the gene pool)  father,  used to tell us kids to; "Always f*ck,  up... never down! \n\nOne parent is usually with the other because they couldn't do any better... That poor matching damages the gene pool and causes numerous problems such as teeth, weight, addiction, mental illness.  You are not alone darling.  We all have a thing or two we would rather not have been genetically predisposed to.\n\n It is actually the thing that Hitler was trying to do away with by genetics perfection and race cleansing and for a few years he actually did breed a perfect race... Right before he brainwashed them into killing machines,  baby machines,  and little blond haired blue eyed monsters!   In an insane and completely wacked out kind of way he was trying to illiminate imperfections.
176721
Everyone can't get along all the time. It's part of being alive, fighting. They actually say that fighting is healthy for you, it helps you vent. What's the point of having one of those relationships where you never get mad at the other person? It's not the way to live!! You fight with anyone.. you're mother, father, siblings, friends, even strangers. Of course lovers are going to fight.. doesn't mean that don't love each other though.
598971
When you have been married for a long time you go through every kind of joy and hardship, that any relationship can endure.\n\nCalling each other "Mother and Father", is a comfortable way of showing respect for your loved one. And it is very important to teach your children and grandchildren that you have love and respect for each other.
245418
Love has changed for the worst.  The Movie makers, songwriters, and many uneducated people (so they act) have shown love as sex.  Many people only get married because they think the sex is good or they do it for moral ideas so theyre family doesnt disown them.  Others dont seem to care.  People today seem to skip over the words "until death do us part"  i mean people may think its a good idea to start with but when you make that kind of commitment its entirely too late to change your mind.  Its also a good idea that when people get ingaged they should live together for at LEAST six months so they know how life with the person will be,  and make sure that you know this person is the absolute person for you.  Movies have corrupted people to think that if you get annoyed with your spouse that the easiest way to deal with it is a divorce, i say that its the most challenging.  I believe firmly that the only time a divorce is ABSLOULTELY needed is when life and body are in danger.  Parents need to start teaching theyre children morals, even if they were not planning on being a parent.