what would u do if u found out that ur boyfriend/girlfriend has AIDS??
406025
Get tested asap and not sleep with them without protection ever again.  How long has it taken them to mention it? It doesn't change them as a person, but you need to ask about their honesty from the beginning - the same with any relationship.  If there has been a lot of secrets/lies you need to ask yourself if you can trust them ever again.
394352
The person infected may only be a carrier and never get AIDS.  If you think you have HIV, go to your local clinic and get tested.  If you have HIV and believe it is in the stages of AIDS, again go to your local clinic/hospital and get tested.  Until then, don't have sex unless it is protected sex, cause you can pass the virus on to your partner.  If you don't tell them you are HIV infected and know you are, you can be charged with attempted murder, if it's unprotected sex, last time I heard.
431601
You should get tested for aids, std's, or vd's.
378885
Tell "some other" that the one you love has aids.
88117
use condoms until you know from a blood test.You can't tell by looking at someone if they have the aids virus. They could look totaly healthy and be hiv positive.
141912
i definitly think that you should see a doctor and stop sleeping with guys that you are unsure whether they have something or not.  Always make sure who you are sleeping with because some day you might come back with AIDS other than an STD.  Tell your doctor your problem and they would surely find a solution to your problem.  If you only slept with one guy i suggest that you confront him about this and make sure that you use protection next time.
901744
Get tested for STD's and kick him out...;
161300
feed him false information to:\ndestroy his/her trust with all of his freinds\ndistroy his/her self esteam\nmake him/her lose the trust of family and friends\n\nintroduce them to drugs\ninfect them with HIV\ncall the cops on them\nsend an anonimous email telling the most horrible lies about them making them lose their job\n\ndo you feel horrible, if not go ahead if yes then just dont do it, and forgive (God forgave us)
230487
I wish everyone was as scared of Aids as you are.  You are wise for getting checked.  I annually get checked.  Never have unprotected sex.  Even if you are in a long-term monogamous relationship, get checked 1x year.  Although I hate to say this, you never know if your partner is sleeping around.  Protect yourself under any circumstance.\n\nWishing you all the best.
730835
My defintion of Aids would be a Careless choice to have your partner tested to see what your dealing with in a relationship. Aids is sad but true and if you dont protect yourself it could be you.
730306
If you don't tell and pass it on you could be convicted. You have a moral obligation to tell everybody that you might have sex with your HIV+ status.
1115164
I would go out and get tested for aids and not have sex with my spouse. If it came back negative I'd say "Honey...I had to take a Aids test before I got my insurance. It came back positive. The question dear is why?" then let them argue or see what transpires in the next hour. have the divorce papers ready.\nbecause why would you want to live with someone playing Russian roulette with your life and your heart.\ndon't let them sweat too long. One or both may kill their self or each other in grief or anger. Better to remember it all as a last laugh on your spouse and lover.
447905
What is the big attraction is catching her gonna change anything? No... If you really want to get her good sit her down and tell her that the doctor told you that you have HIV and that you must have gotten it helping a guy at work that was cut badly on a broken glass... and then swear to God that you never cheated on her. Then tell her that she needs to get tested asap. Watch her freak and make every mistake in the book.
1027324
YES!!! I know a couple myself. Guys who do this are called "Down Low" guys. I would strongly urge you to warn your friends about  how rampant Aids and HiV are in this community. You guys may never know the full truth... but tell your friend to protect her heart and let him GO.
608813
chances are slim...but still there is a risk. If she had any abrasions, cuts, or open sores in her mouth those open wounds are an open door for HIV to pass to your manhood. Get checked to make sure and to clear your head.
438334
Well at this point the damage is already done. some one mention earlier about a support group you don't need a supprt group you need Jesus he will love you with or with out HIV just call on him ask him what to do.He'll tell you and guide you.
554113
Hell yes! How can you trust someone who deceives you willingly? If he's sorry, he's only sorry about getting caught and not about what he did or how he hurt you!\nAlso as Meth said on "Makeups2Breakups" "Not a candidate for HIV, I'd rather deal with monogamy; queen to be held, Black mahogany!"