Is it a good sign when you talked with a  guy on the phone for a long time? see more .....?
409666
I DONT C Y NOT I WONDER WHO THIS GUY IS?  DOES HE KNOW WHAT U LOOK LIKE HAVE U SENT HIM A PIC OF U YET?  TAKE YOUR TIME AND LET THINGS FALL WHERE THAY MAY.  U NEVER KNOW, U MIGHT HAVE YOUR NIGHT IN SHINNING ARMOUR.  AND IF NOT AT LEAST U HAVE MET A GOOD FRIEND.   SOMEONE U CAN TALK TO ANYWAY.
890417
I wouldn't call him.  It sounds like he's changed his mind.  Move on.  If he does call, ask for an explanation.
506340
If you have know him for such a long time then he might have already have known it and you just confirmed it. He might have just kept talking to you because it wasn't anything he did expect from you. Even if he's not looking for a GF I would ask him how he feels about you and go from there, who knows maybe he's playing hard to get?
651756
hmmm..the next time you guys are on the phone together, bring this topic up to him...just see what he thinks about it...from the sounds of it..you guys should let up on each other a lil bit..ya know give each other some air just to see what happens.....and if ya dont wanna do that...well maybe you guys arent ment tobe..it wouldnt hurt to try!!
501184
well, in my case...i will talk to you any chance i get. a sure sign is the infamous line when we call you, "well, i just called to say hi!" we might as well say, "dude, i'm in so love with you". a line we often use is the "we should hang out sometime," line. it puts it out there without putting a timeline on it.
291143
I agree with the person who said once every other day - but I think he should be calling you in between calls.  If it's only the girl that is doing the calling - that is a sign that he is probably not as interested as you are.
639403
well, if he's cold and distant on the phone and traveling for work, he probably had a bad day or really hates talking on the phone. i wouldn't worry until he's that way when you see him in person.
503634
That is crazy! Don't talk to him every again. No normal person should ever call anyone that many times and leave so many messages, especially if they HAVEN'T met you yet.\n\nIf he was nervous or unsure then he's TOO nervous and unsure. Ugh, what a freak.
436993
We wait 3 standard days before calling so as not to appear despirate and possibly lse your respect. Remember, this note was outside. Anyone could have picked it up. Including the wind. You obviously know he's interested. After the 3 days have passed, walk up to him and ask him what he thinks. Are you two on or not?
283536
I was in a relationship like that. HE only lived an hour away. BUt we were on the phone all the time, and every chance we had we were together.Now we are married. Sounds to me that your guy might not be ready for what you want. Tell him how you feel about him not calling or blowing plans off. Maybe he will take your feelings into consideration or he his just telling you what he thinks you want to hear.
1087093
If you guys talk on the phone than you should deffinantly call him and tell him how you feel. If this is to much fot you then just E-mail him, what are his friends going to do?
311046
Hopefully he will call but, I would give it about a week and then call him back and see whats up. He may be working or caught up in something at the moment. I think most worry about relationships when they are long distance because of the unknown.
534310
It sounds like you already are dating. I agree that it's a good sign that he called the next morning. Maybe you should mention a movie or a restaurant you've been wanting to go to or invite him somewhere if you feel comfortable doing that. Good luck!
1070956
luckily its only been 2 months....   but this sure is a glimpse into any future with this guy....I noticed  a couple in a restaurant   that were married.... the whole time they were there the guy was  talking on the cell phone.. with a break of only a few minutes in between calls .... I never even saw him speak to his wife!...  I felt so bad for her.... you might want to think about   if you really want to continue on .. personally  I would   get out NOW! lol..... good luck!
160286
I would say yes, if he is committing to you. That is a good sign he has some strong feelings for you. If you so unsure, ask him how he feels. Do you think the distance thing will ever change? Sooner or later it will have to or the emptiness yall feel when apart will tear you apart.
94760
there are very visible signs like does  stay out or work later than usual...constantly,is he secretive on the phone, has he lost interest in sex,is there money unexplained and missing,is there a strange scent on him like dial soap after 18hrs of working,or cologne that you don't wear,is he hangin with the guys alot.  ya'll really need to go to a counselor or your pastor and discuss this
434928
How long have you been talking to him??\n\nI think you need to meet before you can truely know what you feel.