How do I become independent in day to day life. I have always been dependent on someone or the other..?
408171
1st , if this some one your father or mother try to find your own place to live a lone , and better travel to another city and make a new life \n2nd always thing to make a good future for your self you need to be on your own and drive your life not others , and you control your life when you really feel this way you will start to be creative and make your own way of life , it is not easy but if you want you must fight to make it , life is not easy
366182
Super no! Right on with having your personal time! I myself am just learning to be independent.Its nice to know that other people are functional and happy enjoying their own company! Thank you for your question!
120609
Personal independence is only a state of mind. People will never be totally independent. I will always depend on a bus-driver whenever I have to travel, or on a doctor, when I'm ill. The point is what or who you want to be independent from, and work for that. When you're done, you've become independent from that thing or person, and you'll begin to fight for your independence from another thing or person. But it never ends.
1031107
LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME.\nenjoy the 24 hours of each day\nbe patient with yourself\nyou cannot solve your WHOLE LIFE issues today....you do it  ONE DAY AT A TIME.\ngood luck
1135367
I do that,i don't know why but i do! I think you just need to be happy with yourself and being alone.To make sure your not dependant on someone else for happiness,then you'll want to move in because you'll be brining happiness into the relationship!
564979
Separate the parts of your world completely.\n\nDo what you can for your brother, if you love him (and there is no requirement that you do -- that's a falsity)\n\nKeep your relationship with your g/f -- its none of your parents' business and never was.\n\nFinish your degree, and find a good job, so that you are financially independent.\n\nBe your own person completely once that is done.\n\nIf I were you I'd write down these goals on a piece of paper that I kept in a secret place, if I had to I'd write them in code.  But each morning I would do a calming exercise and then read them.\n\nYou can endure and you can survive this.  When it rains it pours, but it never pours forever.\n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org
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It's going to take some time. But, meanwhile spend lots of time with friends and family. Constantly remind yourself of how wonderful you are and spend time doing things for yourself. You know, pamper and spoil yourself. Keep your head up and be encouraged. Sometimes bad things happen to good people for no reason at all, but it's during those times that we've got to use those situations to make us stronger not weaker. Good Luck!
10119
Take responsibility for yourself instead of relying on others. \nGet an alarm clock.
705692
Make someone else's life better because of my existence.
739973
i think that everyone needs companionship so look for that relationship, as long as you are still being motivated to better yourself in all areas. You have to continue to look for that better job, more money, education, etc.  just remember everyone starts out the same way you have (unless parents are filthy rich) and grandma's saying "If you see a turtle on a stump you know it didnt get there by itself"everyone needs help at first
207020
same as every one else ,find a flat with your boyfriend and realy enjoy yourself.\n\nof course you must pay for a lot of things \nbut if the life you have becomes unbearabel\nthis is the only solution
405205
Just believe in your capacities and remember that God is always there to help you. Everything is possible when you believe in yourself!
1123522
I looked into it a few years ago and was told that the only way to claim independence is to be an orphan or a ward of the court.  I really hope the situation has changed.  Good luck!
261599
Your too dependent on others.
1119585
You just described why.\n\nBe yourself.  Don't try to live up to other peoples expectations of you, whoever they are.  Create expectations (goals) for yourself!  Live up to them, re-assessing as needed along the way.\n\nStrive to be a caring, purposeful, dedicated individual.  Develop your own likes, talents, gifts and character.  Like-minded individuals will be drawn to you.  Don't waste your time on the other riff-raff just to be with someone.\n\nTrying to live up to other peoples expectations ... be it in life, career, sex, relationship, friendship ... stifles and frustrates.  Living up to your own expectations of yourself, in behaviour, goals, life ... sets you free!\n\nGo for it!!
75201
Prioritize what really matters to you and pull back from the things that are low on that list (like things you might do because of someone else and not really for yourself).  For me that most important commodity is TIME, so I choose to spend it with my loved ones, rather than stressing about housework and what society thinks I could or should be doing.  \n\nDon't get wrapped up in other people's lives and drama -- learn how to stay detached.  You can love someone and still not try to take on all their issues for them.  In fact, it's usually better if they solve their problems themselves, and have a good friend that they can vent to when the going gets tough, or who can offer impartial advice when needed.
997678
I would suggest you take some part-time employment \n\neven some hourly jobs ... like mowing lawns, aiding shop keeping , domestic....\njust to keep u busy ... \n\nGET STARTED\n\njust 2 keep u'rself busy for awhile\nwill help u overcome depression ...\n\nDo it slowly , but do it\n.... guess slowly u will revert back to mainstream life\n\n--- very best of luck ,, and my prayers