Ladys what do you find most appealing and sexey in a man?
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women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
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A ideal guy is sexy when he has a great personality and strong sense of confidence about him self. He doesn't have to be cocky or arrogant, but he has to know that he is cool with being who he is, not trying to be fake. Keeping it real, no perps. If you aren't a player, don't try to be one. Not a thug, athlete, super nerd, haha, don't try to be one to impress me. Overall, my ideal guy would be the most sexiest to me when he makes me laugh. He would be sexy when I can observe him doing simple things like the way he smiles when he is happy or nervous, the way he chews on his lips, scratches his head. How he walks, sleeps, sings, eat, laughs or jumps at movies. Stuff like that. Just being real and not scared to be him self around me would be the sexiest.  As far as the lovemaking, I can't say because I don't have sex, but if I did, as long as he made me feel special, make me feel admired, when we were being intimate, that would be sexy to me. Talking to me and cuddling with me after, trying to fix me something to eat or holding me in his arms and watching tv together until we fell asleep. I know, fairy tale, but that would be sexy to me.
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I personally like a guy who's funny and just fun to be around.  It's awesome if I can have a conversation with him.  In terms of looks, I'm not superficial, but I admire a warm, friendly smile.
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OH MY GOD!!!!\n\nGARTH all the way baby!\nThere's something special about that man.\nI love him to death and thinks he's sexy, charismatic, charming, sweet, sensitive, smart....etc....etc...\nand those eyes and butt...wow.
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The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
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When a man tells me how badly he wants it. And also, when he whispers into my ear and his voice is sooooo kind and deep and ragged. Thats sexy.\n\nSometimes I like to just be taken by surprise..thats the best.
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has to be the arms and hands of a guy. i like a strong guy with slight muscle tone just that little curve in the arm and you can tell alot about a person by there hands.
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Nice haircut, good make up, skirt, heels.\n\nA very jolly personality.\n\nMust smell good.
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great personality\ngood hygiene\nopen with me\ngood looks
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sexiest man-me\nsexiest women-you
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Sense of humour, ability to laugh at himself, ability to converse with you as if you matter, expectation of a woman to be clever and to have ideas and wishes and needs.\n\nIf he's also good looking, that's a bonus.
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i dont know about other women but what attracts me to man is his personality... if he is a funny, down to earth guy he's okay in my book
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personality is sexiest. believe me, it's not a physical thing. trust in your inner beauty
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I like a man's back, hair, eyes, and lips!!!
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A woman who respects herself, who asks questions but knows when not to. I find any woman irresistible who has a delicious sense of humour.\n\nLooks are important to a degree, certainly, but if the good looks only cover an atrocious personality, that's -very- not hot.\n\nIn the physical world: plasma.
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I have my perfect man in my head...havent found him yet though.  The man I want is strong, not only physically but mentally, emotionally, and his respect and value for me are strong.  He's black, dresses really good....has a hustlin mentality with a businessy side to him.  Treats me real good but not too clingy.  Knows exacly what he want outta life and always has his money on his mind.....THat's what I want in a man.
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1st: looks, beauty, personality, kindness