I am highly motivated, but don't want a stessful job.  Is there still hope?
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Yes there is. Just make a list of your short term goals and long term goal and include the ways on how are you going to accomplish them. with this, you'll be more motivated and not consider what you're doing as a job because you're teaching yourself to love it.\n\nit would be best to find a job where you can use your talents to the highest level.
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Only if this job is what you really want for your future.\nThen, you have to "work hard" and be patient and tolerated in whatever current environment, take up all challenges.
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It sounds like your stuck. The clue is that you want more education when you haven't found anything. That's a stall tactic. The problem is that after your done with this additional education your still stuck with finding a job except now your in more debt. You want the perfect job or situtation. That's ok but the important thing is to jump in. When I was unemployed a couple of years ago I kept looking for a new job, nothing happened and my self esteem went down the tubes making it hard to even get out of bed. My wife said go to a temp agency, any agency. I got an $8.00/hr job making copies. I was used to making $30/hr but I took it because it was better than zero. I loved making $64 a day, I was finally making money, my self esteem went up and I did finally find a new job that was more appropriate for me. So get going, do anything, just do something.
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First of all keep your head up. You've got to believe in yourself. Get a basic low paying job to start. Find a true friend who can put you up temporarily and work your way up. Your drive and desire will pull you through. God bless you.
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First of all are you really ready for a change? And is money the only factor you look for in an employment opportunity.\n\nAlso, think about this: Would you truly be satisfied if you made more money?\n\nYou should really think long and hard about what you want to accomplish on a new job before you leave your present one.\n\nWhen you figure out the answers to these questions you are ready to make a change......
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Never give up. Since i was a teen i have had a million it seems jobs. Aim hight o what you like and do not get discouraged and never listen to negative people or judjing people.
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ok, take this from me because u no how hard i worked last year to complete my degree and 2 other qualifications!wen u lost motivation then think long term of what u are actually doing ur work for!u and me are always talkn about long term careers and what great career women we will be wen we get all r hard studying out of the way and we will get that wen we get motivated and successfully complete the work!have faith in urself that u can do it, cus u no u can and be positive that u are actually guna make sumat out of urself!also u have a very understanding friend in me, so wen u r less motivated than usual, call me and wel go for a short drive or sumat, cus short breaks help aswell!also i aint being funny, but wen u come on the comp2 do ur work, dont come on yahoo answers or msn cus there are distractionz for u that u dont need!before u sit down2 study do sumat that u enjoy first like viby(ha), watchn a bit of tv or cum for a drive wit me(2scream sum kick ass songs) and then disipline urself2work!cus at the end of the day, its all about a combination of positive motivation, disipline and pure dedicated ambition- which is what u most definately have! hope this helps! XX
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It sounds like you're in the wrong job. Honestly? I used to hate work as well. The trick is to find something you have fun doing and look forward to. I know it's hard to find that "dream job" but keep at it. A good start is to figure out what you are good at and love doing. Then find a job that utilizes that skill or love. Good luck!\n\n"Do what you love and the money will follow"
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You need Jesus Christ in your life in the worst way.  All of us go through hard times--- the Lord knows that I been through my share.  God allows adversity into a person's life in order for them to develop character and spiritual strength.  My suggestion to you is that you do not give up.  there is never success in giving up.  Suicide is never the answer---it is the ultimate expression of failure.  God loves you and he has a plan for you.  Pray----spend your spare time praying.  God answers all prayers in his time according to when he feels that you are ready.  Do not concentrate on the future, but live each day as it comes.  Go to your job every day and do your best for your employer.  Find the joy in the work that you use to have---you might be pleasantly surprised at what changes might come your way.  Ask for extra hours at work----volunteer to do anything that is available no matter how distasteful or demeaning it may seem.  Some of the best promotions that I have received we because I took jobs that nobody else wanted and did them better than anybody before me had done them.  And do not worry----worry is your biggest enemy because it distracts you from the love of God.  Have faith in God to see you through this.  Jesus said, ...."without me ye can do nothing."  Do not try to go it alone----you will never succeed by your own efforts.  Jesus loves you and he wants you to be successful in life.
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Go for fun. You should do what you like doing the best, then you will have more passion for your job.
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You won't get him to be career motivated if he isn't already. Ambition isn't a personal choice, it comes from need, and if he doesn't feel the need, he doesn't. What you CAN do, is act as a personal manager. Keep communication lines open, and an ear out for opportunities that he might not recognize. Point them out for him, but be careful not to nag. Pushing him in a direction he doesn't want to go is not the same as pointing out options. One upside to this is that you'll be talking to your man all the time (which many women don't do, and then complain about); the other is that between the two of you, you just might accomplish something great. Good luck!
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Life is too short, I know people say that a lot but it's true.  This isn't a dress-rehearsal, it's the real thing - do what makes you feel good about yourself.  Spending all day in a job you hate isn't much of a life in my opinion.  If you leave, something better will come along - have faith in yourself!
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If you want to do something interesting with your life, I think that you have three options:\n\n1) You can throw it all in, give up the job the money etc. and do what you want, if it makes you happy.\n2) You can stay in your job, be unhappy, but loaded.\n3) You can stay in your job and have a fun life outside of work. \n\nEveryone hates their work (well most people do) but we have to pay the morgage/rent etc. so the job is a nessessity. You don't do your job 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. You have time outside of work to socialise and have fun. You have to decide yourself what you really want. Because giving up everything could sound amazing now but it could get boring, and what are you going to do then? Personally, I'd ditch the job but you have to decide for yourself. \n\nHope this helped and good luck!!\n\nxxxxx
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I'm a manager and don't necessarily find "value" (of an applicant) in a sense of urgency.  But, I do like to see motivation, ambition, passion, and drive.  Worded incorrectly, those can appear "desperate".
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ask yourself what you are really good at and interested in. in this competitive society, you have to focus on and take advantage of what you good at. finding a job that you are not interested in won't do you good, as donald trump once said in this apprentice show that he has never seen anyone successful who doesn't like his job.
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I feel you.  I am the same way.  Most of the time its because I learn the position and get bored.  Then I move on to the next challenge.  In my mind, there is absolutely nothing wrong with doing this.  You are getting all you can out of an employer and building up your resume.  One thing that I know is that in the corporate world,your expendable.  You could be the best worker in the world, enjoy what you do everyday, and be canned tomorrow because the co. didn't make the profits they thought they would. Your best bet is to continue to move on until you really find your calling or open your onwn business so you are your own boss.
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I love my job, but at the same time if I could choose between working or just going to school and concentrating on my education, believe me I would pick being a kid again.  You should appreciate the fact that you dont have to work right now, because the day will come where you wont have a choice.  But if you really insist on doing something, why dont you try volunteer work, or maybe some sports activities, or maybe a library job.\nTry something you can do at your leisure with no worries and no stress.