I need some help.. I'm wanting to know what I could make oral more pleasurable for my girlfriend?
409123
Honestly, we would have to know what you are doing NOW in order to tell you what would make it BETTER...you know?  Good advice is always ask, ask, ask!  If she knows what she wants then you don't need to ask strangers.  If she doesn't know what she wants or is embarrassed to talk about it, here are some things to remember:  stimulate the clit, be gentle, be generous, use your hands on other parts of her body, make her feel sexy.  Talk to her about what she likes and pay attention to how she responds when you do something.
600849
First of all, ask!!  Then as you are doing your thing, pay attention to her, its usually pretty obviuos what she likes and doesnt like.  Try whatever she will allow, you will learn!!!  She knows whats good for her, tell her you just want to please her and you need to know what she likes.  Toys are a good addition.  All women are different, some have religious beliefs that keep them from some things so you just gotta explore it and watch the response.
598889
There is no best way. There is only a right way and a wrong way. Take your time and experiment. They will let you no what pleases them by the noises you'll hear. Each woman is different on the outcome. So your standard average oral sex might be great with one and bad for another. Like I said take your time to experiment with the person you are with.
660024
eat her out. A lot!  oral sex is a 2 way street.  go down on her as much as possible.  learn to love it, and eventually, she'll get into it too, and you'll be doing each other at teh same time!  69, baby!
128204
You could try to satisfie her oraly...ore use your fingers.Ore a little bit of both....just use your fantasy..there are loads of ways to play without actually having intercourse.Have fun!
478987
I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)
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RELAX. Don't worry. Out of the ladies I met, more than 50% of them have this problem. My solution is, have longer oral sex, say for example an hours oral sex. Ask ur b/f to suck your entire body especially ask him to spend more time licking ur private parts. ask him to penetrate his tongue deep into ur private part. I bet surely u will get orgsm.. there after have internal sex. again u will get orsm..
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dude do you even have to ask! Of course if she is okay with the oral sex thing go for it. Take the relationship in slow stages. You should never do anything that you are not comfortable with. If you try to force yourself to do anything that you aren't ready for, the pleasure of the experience will be lost!
528300
Always try to let her know that you find her attractive.  When you're getting intimate, make sure she's the center of your universe.  Then, find out what she likes and keep on doing it...  ask her what she wants, and if she's too shy to say it, listen/look for the little clues... the tiny moans, the little shudders, the grabbing on to you tighter.... \nEvery woman is different, and it's up to you to find out what your woman likes... and trust me, if she's satisfied, she's more likely to give back in return.
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lubricants will help, try to take your time and relax..... try using your fingers slowly to stretch her muscles or your tongue and again go slow.. then when you relax, it will go in alot easier... never try to take to much at one time or it could cause you alot more than pain,there are also medicine to numb you down there and   jells that make penetration easier and safer ! just relax and enjoy !!!
1065301
Talk more about that TOGETHER and try to get a solution TOGETHER.  A possible idea is trying to give as much possible pleasure to your partner before inserting it, and then proceed as usual.
590014
oral sex is very important. learn to use your tongue and lips better.
881538
You are a good man, knowing that you'd like to return the favor and to make her feel good...that is just awesome.  Now as far as what you can do for her...\n1) give her a massage (back, feet etc)\n2) have her lie down on the couch with her head on your lap (face up), while she is laying there gently rub her temples and scalp.\nDon't feel guilty about her showing you pleasure, if she didn't want to do it she wouldn't.  Don't worry your time will come to please her sexually...and when it does you guys will have all sorts of fun together.
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assure her you will be gentle and take it very slowly.  tell her you will stop the millisecond she says so if she says so.  and use plenty of LUBRICATION.  as long as you take it slow, she should trust you and if you do it right, she will enjoy it and beg for more, lol.  if you rush it and hurt her, you'll never get a second chance so don't blow it!
250267
if you are talking about oral, do a lot of tongue work.  always watch her reaction for good spots and work on it.  i like doing it very wet.  if you do it good, she will do anything for you.
1081111
what do find so disturbing about oral? ... wash him up  really good, and have fun with it... if you are still grossed out... you could try flavored condoms...there is nothing wrong with it... it is just another way to express you love for each other...
588410
I am sure she gets off on it.  (Speaking personally, of course!)  Not only do you enjoy it, but when she's doing it, let her know what it is that makes it better for you.  If you think about it, I am sure you have certain areas and certain techniques that you have preference for.  If she is doing it for her own pleasure as well, this will help make it more enjoyable for both.