i fear from boys and a boy says he loves me.what to do?
413466
what makes u fear boys?
346180
i know it hurts to get rejected but take a shot at it he may be going thru the same thing. he may like you and be afraid to say something. I am a guy and i have been afraid to talk to a couple of girls and i finally got up the courage to say something to one of them now that they have a boy friend and i  found out that at the time that i like them they like me but its to late i missed my chance don't miss yours
103679
I think the first thing is to tell him. Boys or men, we can really be funny and unexplainable. Sometimes we, as men need to know from you how you want to be loved. Is it holding hands while walking, is it flowers weekly, tell you how beautiful you are. \nFor some of us, we really do love you, we just don't know what loving you is to you.
82481
dont worry about boys now.TRUST ME!!!!!
1038907
Have you spoken to the teacher regarding your sons fear? Perhaps the teacher can sit and chat with him away from any other students.\nIt may be the yelling of instructions that he is scared of.\nYou need to discover what it is your boy is actually scared of before you can help him overcome the fear.\nYour son may not feel confident enough to participate within a group, maybe some one to one lessons will help.
1106395
Both, He loved me first, so I can love Him. The "fear" is meant to be "respect", not fear in the way you might be thinking.\nso, yes I "fear" Him too.
707507
The question is... How would you react if you knew that a boy loves you?\n\n            I will tell you a secret... I am a boy (well, a man actually). And we always have this feeling of uneasiness everytime that we are     in-love. There are far too many questions like: Uh! What would I do if I see her by the school grounds??; How will I react if she glance my way??;  And the worst question is: What will I do if she won't care about my feelings?\n\n       Some of the girls I knew told me that they tend to pretend that they don't like a boy when the time comes that they knew that they like her. And that is a very grave mistake. The best thing that you can do is at first tell him that he is so sweet or kind telling you that... Then, be his friend.. And then observe...\n\nThe best way to know if a guy is in-love with you is when...\n1. He remembers the most peculiar thing about your conversation... It means that he is listening and very interested in you.\n2. He does not hesitate to do cheesy things for you in front of other people. Example: He gives you love letters publicly.\n3. He is not afraid to talk to your parents about you... It means that he has good intentions.\n4. He gives you a simple gifts that probably he made himself.\nExample: A compilation CD\n\nThere are a lot more things for me to say... But i guess this is enough for you to figure out if that boy loves you... If you still need more answers just email me... Have a nice day..\n\n                                                                 ayskyubx@yahoo.com
1183682
numba one tell him how you feel . I am sure he will understand but probably not cause some boys are immature
109758
Are you scared, because he might harm you? If that is the case, you should bring someone with you, like an older brother, or a friend..You don't want someone, who is going to make you scared all the time..Best thing to do, is call him on the phone, and explain to him, that you are going to break up with him..If he is going to hurt you, tell your mom or dad, they will know how to handle it..Good Luck, to you, I hope everything works out for you..
540948
You are 13 and very manipulative. I hope that you do not get yourself in a lot of trouble in life. You don't really care if the guy likes you or not- this is your chance to meet new boys....
453944
well it is one of two things. one he is not over you, but he is afraid of how he feels. if that is the case, he is not doing a good job of hiding his feelings.the other thing could be that he cares for you as a friend, and feels a need to protect you from any one that could hurt you. since the latter sounds a little odd for this situation, i would say the former applies to you.if you still want this boy, talk to him. that could be another reason he doesn't tell you he wants to be with you.
427194
All I can say is don't be afraid. If you are, overcome it by spending more time with him directly (like studying with him) or indirectly (like hanging out with him and his friends) etc... get to know him better, let him get to know you better and move on from there.\n\nIf you aren't afraid, then what are you waiting for? Just invite him to a party or something. If he likes you and wants to take it a level higher, he'll make it clear.\n\nGood luck!
1011919
what is wrong with you? r u stupid?  of course the boy likes you.  and for someone to ask that, you must be pretty young.  are u a fourth grader or something? ur too young to be liking boys...i say do something better with your time then chase ur little playground buddy.  get a life.
597518
If he really loves you then he will understand your fears and be willing to wait until you are ready.  If he is not willing to wait until you are comfortable with this then you might want to question spending the rest of your life with him.
710680
maybe this boy likes you because youre, yourself! dont change a thing for anyone but yourself sweetie!\n\nP.S.  DONT EVER BE DESPERATE! ALL YOU EVER NEED IS YOURSELF< DONT FORGET THAT!!!!!!!!!!!
386575
Aye, honey I'm having the same issues as you (but in this case, I don't think he likes me.) Usually (from what my girl friends have told me), guys are very upfront with their feelings and they're obvious about it. He may pay more attention to you, be touchier with you, laugh more around you and look happy/act happy when you're around. Surprisingly, this boy might even tease you to an extreme point if he has feelings for you (it happened to me once) which is very 5th grade, but it still happens. You could, however, just go up and ask him if you want a direct answer :) because no matter what people tell you, there's usually no way to know unless he tells someone or you ask him yourself.
826948
LOL you just want me to say what u want to hear huh? WELL DUH! THEY THINK YOUR CUTE AND FUN. i know you knew this so why waste 5 points to hear an obvious answer. you know your not scared, you like the attention u get from the 2 boys. sorry sweety but really.............