the girl I love dosn't even look at me .....how could I make her like me???
408767
Leave her,better find a girl that likes you.
912659
you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
262660
BE OPEN AND HONEST WITH HER MAYBE SHE LIKES YOU BUT THINKS YOU DONT LIKE HER
545464
You can't make her go out with you,just start talking to her more...little by little.Give her sometime to see the real you! Good Luck!
1016042
Ok well I can definatly relate to you,  a shy, not the best looking person on the block, but interesting person in a not really talkative type way.  So I am NOT going to tell you to go for it right away.  I would say that you should probably start off real slow and not profess your love quite yet.  Well she's your friend right? So ask her if she would like to come over your house and watch a movie.  While you are watching, you could scoot a little closer to her but not say anything, or when you pass over popcorn or whatever you could let your hand brush across hers, and if she flinches when you touch her hand or moves farther away from you when you scoot nearer, then those are obvious signs that she is not into you.  Also, ask her other friends things about her like her favorite movie (for the occasion obviously) or her favorite foods and stuff like that.  If some of her other friends know that you like her, they could possibly help move your love along.  Also, like other people said in their answers before me, you should definatly become more confedent in youself. Girls like that in a guy, we don't like whiny guys who feel sorry for themselves. We want a guy that could beat some guy up if he molests us or somthing!!! hehe I'm not saying that you have to become Mr. Cool, just stop saying things like "i am rejected and disregarded by all". Because I am pretty sure thats not gonna work....Well thats all I have to say, I hope you take my advice. And if you don't....welll then...don't :) \n\ngood luck young grasshopper
485885
How about for now just let her have her space,you cannot force a girl to love you,but you could be kind to her,be there for her when she needs you and then she will slowly start to relize how she feels,also,don't just stick with her,there may be someone else for you,you never know,for now just keep in touch with her and tell her she will be in your mind while you are in London,hopefully she will feel the same way for you in the future,good luck.^^
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no, im not saying she has to be desparate. lol no need to cuss im just gonna say she doesnt seem to be so interested in u. that is if ure trying to make her like u.....if not then just go with wat u feel like u should say.
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u could keep her interested in u by letting her hear what she wants to hear, don't lie but make her feel comfortable around u, and whatever u do DO NOT dogg the other person she likes that would just make her less interested in u, also be her best friend even if she doesn't choose u buy her a rose everyday, or any flower ( her favorite flower...if u know)make her smile all the time dont upset her, let her be free u can't make someone like u they have to make that choice on their own, i hope this helps if u need anymore advice just IM me or email me syazell@yahoo.com good luck
656591
Show her what she's missing out on - go out, be sociable, let people flirt with you.  She'll soon remember she's missing.  Even if she doesn't see it, word will get back to her that you're out there are being fabulous!\n\nIf she ever grumbled about something to do with your mannerisms or personality, subtly prove her wrong.  For example: If you weren't out-going enough, then get out there; If you weren't caring enough, be there for all your mates; If you weren't sexy enough, go refresh your look!\n\nWhat can you lose?  If it doesn't work, at least you may inadvertently attract someone even cuter :)
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Whatever you, do NOT tell this girl that you like her. Trust me, by doing that you will scare her almost everytime. By scareing her, not only will she not want to go out with you she may not want to be as close. \n\nInstead, you have to make her like you. The best thing to do is to start by flirting with her a little bit. Not a lot, but minor stuff to see where you're at. For example, start off by telling her that she has nice clothes today, or something like that. Joke around with her alittle bit, for example when she does something funny call her "you're a dork! haha", just don't be too mean. Also try getting in her personal space more, and try touching her more like if you hand her something try touching her hand a little bit. If she is receptive to the flirting increase the intensity, and see where that gets you.\n\nHaving confedence will also help you out greatly if yodon't display it already. Basically when you talk to her keep your head up, speak in a tone of voice that is hearable, and smile often. Also, stop being her boy-toy. What I mean is if she constantly ask you for favors resist because this wil prove to her that you're not confedent. Don't do girly stuff with her either like if she ask you if she can put make-up on her say "no way!"\n\nNow if you do these things, evetually you will be able totell if she is intrested. Here are some signs that she likes you: 1.) Smiles often, and makes good eye contact. 2.) Her eyes will dialte (get bigger) when sh talks to you (this will happn naturally in darklight). 3.) She trys to touch you often when speaking to you. 4.) Plays with her hair often. 5.) Gets pidgen toe'd (she bends one toe behind the other foot). 6.) Sinks her head into her shoulders like shes shrgging, but in a shy way. 7.) Tilts her head forward, and looks up at you with her eyes. 8.) Reveals her palms to yu somehow. 9.) Maintains uncomfortable amounts of eye contact. 10.) Matches rythmic tones of you body, for example if she matches the tone of your voice or subtle moements.\n\nIf she shows you a majority of these signs, this means she is attracted to you. If that is the case ask her to do something with you, then start asking her out on dates. If things work out, then ask her out. \n\nWhatever you do,stay out of the friends zone a best as possible.
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try to hang out with her more.  and tell her or even better show her you like her.  do small things like go out for lunch, give her flowers, go for walks .  anything to spend time with her.  if she thinks you're attractive then you're off to a good start, now she just has to be attracted to the real you, inside.
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respect her. show her that you think of her as a person, not just some dummy you want to fool around with. I know a lot of guys that don't respect me, and that automatically puts them at the bottom of my list. Even saying somthing in the wrong tone. Also, compliment her a lot, like if she's really good at painting or has a cool hairstyle that day. Just make sure it's not always about her appearance, or she might get the wrong impression, but a girl does like to be complimented on beauty every once in a while.
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first, let her know how you feel...dont tell her straight up to her face, but show her a different side of u, be nicer, sweeter, and just how her that you can be a great bf to her or to anyone...make her like you without her knowing about you liking her (u get me?)well then make your move on her, and i hope it works...play a lil hard to get too, well idk some girls like that (mixed signals) well i hope it works 4 u.
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By just being your self and have fun. Be open and SMILE! if she still does not like you then you know she is not worth your time cause there is a lot of girls out there for you. GOOD LUCK!
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You can't "make" her but you can do things that will help develope a closer bond between the two of you.  Others will tell you  compliment her, bring her small gifts in general treat her like it's the first date.  These things will of course help but I believe the most important thing you can do is to try and make sure that all of the time you spend together is "Good time".  Try to do things she likes to do..If you like them or can develop a like for them so much the better.  Listen when she talks..I mean really listen and show her that you value her opinion. Women like that, heck EVERYOME likes that.  Now, heres a hard thing..let her help you..everyone likes to think that they can be of value to another person.  When she's helpful let her know how much it means to you.. Try these ideas and then go out and get her the biggest diamond in the store  Women love shiny things (-:
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You really can't make her like you.  And, if she thinks you're trying to, most girls will put you into the "wimp" category.  That's not good.  \n\nWhat works for me with most women is to just be myself, be polite, be a little "cocky" without seeming  arrogant, and be funny (but not silly.)  Don't make it obvious that you're really interested in her.  I'm not that good looking or muscular, but  my friends wonder why I have so many women around all the time.
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Why do you think she does not like you?  Is your self-esteem a bit low right now?  Why do you feel you do not deserve her love?  Whatever the cause, please start to believe in yourself.  Are you not a nice person?.  You have friends, don't you.? And you would do anything for any one. Yeah?  See, just believe that you are a good person and good things will come to you. Good luck.