How to forget a guy  that is always on yr. mind and you know you can't be with him due to family  issues?
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You have to distract yourself...HAVE TO. Or else you'll always think about him, always dream about him, always hope for him. Get out of the house, go out with your girlfriends, take a bubble bath, dance to music...do whatever you can to take him off your mind. \n\nPlace your studies first - they are important - and you'll end up regretting it later if you don't. You have to drown yourself in your studies if you want to forget him. I fell behind in my studies because I always though about this one guy and then my grades SEVERELY suffered because of it. Now looking back on it, it wasn't even worth it. \n\nRead until you're very tired before you go to bed so you won't toss and turn about him. I went through something similar as well, and I'm gradually letting it go piece by piece as I distract myself more and more. You have to keep telling yourself that you have more important things to worry about or else you'll keep on thinking about him.
108846
Don't try to think on how you can get rid of him just let go of him. and try to find another guy who's more deserving than him.
129309
Stop dating, and just be freinds. Just be glad you actualy found out that person was family.
1155751
Why would you want to keep your mind off of him?\nWhat I mean is, you are going to miss him that is normal, but if you don't want to sit around moping about him what you could do is go out and enjoy yourself, doing things you like to do.\nIt's the summer time so why not go swimming, or go for a work out at the gym, or if you like to read, go to poetry shops if there are any close to you.\nThere is one more thing you could do and if it is possible, If you can talk to your guy on a regular bases why not set-up a regular time when you are to talk to each other example:\nEvery Tuesday at 4:00 pm.\nThat way you don't think about him so much til Tuesday comes around, believe me two months is not a very long time it will breeze by so quickly, as long as you fill your days with so much that when night time comes you will fall asleep right away.\nIt will be okay. Best Wishes ( :
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well...just cut him out of your life...\nrecall your friends and start hangin out again specially if you haven't seen em for a while because you were too busy dealing with the jerk you're trying to ditch then.\nor better still...try your family...they might've missed you just the same.\nor be with yourself and try to see what you REALLY want and get it!\nDo some changes if you want, like, get a new hair do or update your wardrobe...just keep yourself busy and you'll eventually forget anything happened.\nGood Luck and Enjoy!\n\nohh...by the way...getting over him doesn't necessarily mean you need someone new...just yourself is enough and everyone else around you to share new moments with wont hurt.
858646
Sometimes you never forget someone who is really special.  You've got to just keep trying to be happy and move on but you may never forget.  Hang in there!
828823
the best thing for you to do now is to remain cool and forget about him. just dump him from your mind. he is too fickle minded and you should't feel bad about it. at least you know this before he does serious harm to your feelings.\n\ntake care.
1112147
contact him.\nresolving the thoughts is the best way.
863787
You can stop when you stop checking up on him. As long as you dig around to see if he is okay or listen to stories about him, you are feeding your fantasy/dreams/neurosis.\nStop all check/sightings/following. Then when you start to think of him, repeat the mantra "I distinctly remember forgetting about him." This will help reprogram your mind.
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he's already in a hell of a situation so dont involve urself in his sh*t..\n\nlet him get over his family matters 1st & then when it's done, u may continue hoping that a relation might arise b/w u 2..
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Well at times life puts you through a test and you need to make do with what you have and decide likewise.\n\nIf possible, you should decide on moving away from him.\n\nIf you are dependent on that person and / or tied with him for some reason which would not allow you to move away, then try to stress less on the darker side of your life. If it's just something that you can't really do anything about then at-least deviate your mind and attention away from that person as much as possible. Try occupying yourself with something that takes your mind away from him so you don't keep pondering on the fact and getting yourself more depressed.\n\nLast but not the least, I don't really know your relationship with this person or your history with him, though would still suggest to analyze your situation once again to see where the wrong lies. There may just be ways that you can salvage your relationship with this person. Depending on your situation, it may just be worth the try.\n\nHope you find a way out of your problem soon.\n\nAll the best.
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There is no way!  No matter how hard you try-actions and words.  The guy will constantly think of the one he loved and shared so much with.  You need to give him space.  Don't talk to him on the phone as much or kick it with him.  You have to look out for your feelings.  Just be there when he really needs someone to talk to.  He will come around, just enjoy life until then!
626024
You will never forget him.  Right now it hurts but everyday it will hurt less and less.  You won't think of him as often.  And one day you will meet a man that seems to have walked out of your dreams and when that happens you won't remember the name of the one that hurt.
862577
firstbe yourself if that doesnt work  then forget him
517491
I think you need a replacement or substitute for him...Be with your friends always and stay busy so that you won't think of him over and over again...Date someone in your office, neighborhood or church...Stay happy in the company of your relatives, family members, etc...maybe you still need to pray to God for on-going discernment on what is His will for you...I believe in destiny, that of billions and billions of people around the world, only one is menat for you...Just enjoy life, be productive, enjoy work and do community activities/services in your respective community...\n\nGod will give you something that you really deserve...Only God knows whats in your heart, mind and your soulmate..
319035
Forget being friends with him.  He is only out to have sex with you and he isn't going to settle for anything less.  You don't want to be in the middle of his family problems so just stay as far away from him as possible.
285024
If he wants to find you he will. It must be very difficult to deal with this right now! I can only imagine how awful you must feel. I recently lost contact with someone myself, and I just stay focused on work and family and try to let time pass. Each day gets better. Talking really helps too, so maybe counseling would help (I have not done this yet, but want to.)