Am I a bad person for havin a crush on a guy otha than my boyfriend??
408575
This is natural, but try to see how much you two [current beau] get along; are you very compatible?]  If you still have these feelings for boy number one, talk to him and see how he feels.  It may be easier to ask personal questions since he thinks you are taken.  He may just tell you how he felt and feels now [about you.]  If this works out, test the waters before you get in too deep with the current one.  If it's already too late, then I'd suggest you push #1 out of your head.  Look at him like he's a not-so-likable person or something.  If you want to leave a favorable impression, don't be disloyal to your man.  If you don't give a shi*, go for it.  A piece of shi* is still a piece of shi*.  Just hope you aren't one.  I'm sure you're not, so be true to yourself.  Check it out without doing the nasty.
1042672
Yes!!! that's the perfect boyfriend! with that u won't even need to worry about good looks (but they are nice). go for it girl!
590521
don't feel guilty just because your dating someone doesn't mean you can't like other people your probably like 18 years old trust me the guy your with now isn't going to be the guy your with in 5 years, so look around you may end up finding the guy you're truly meant to be with
343085
No!!! Do NOT be a boyfriend stealer!! No, no, no! Bad girl! Find your own guy. Be a true friend and just walk away from that right now!
992946
I think that you like what you like and there is nothing wrong with that.  I like tall skinny white boys and my friends don't get it either, but it doesn't matter.  My boyfriend is wonderful and that is what counts.  Just do what makes you happy with a whoever you like and the Heck with them.
3891
Well you did'nt really ask a question, but if you are meaning if thats ok or your asking people's view points on the topic then i'll share mine. I did the same thing. Its not nessciarly wrong (Sp?), but i guess it all depends on what specific reasons and if its against your morals or not. It does'nt really matter what other people think only you. Your the one thats dating him. If you liked your last ex alot and had fun then maybe your ex was your "type" of guy. And people tend to have a type. So just go with the flow and follow your heart.
419814
crush.. i believe nothing ever comes of it its just great thought you have of person whom you want to be with.. child hood love " teen " young and its the first love you have ever known.. everything is new and you learn a lot from each other like sex, and things you like and dis like in relationships... love.. hm mm well maybe by the time your 19 25 ish around that age you should have met someone that you truly loved even the bad things about them... you always have to take the good with the bad and when you truly love someone than the bad is OK to handle.. like my current boyfriend dips... "yuck" but i truly love him and so it do sent even bother me now... your fights are about real things when you truly love someone cuz the Little shit is obsolete...
196364
Ask yourself a question. Are you jealous of the crush she has on this guy?  Or is it that you are jealous of the relationship you have with her?  It's hard to share sometimes, isn't it?
699011
welcome to the club! i know how you feel it sucks. all i can say is be more open. just because the guy isn't prince charming on a horse doesn't mean he is the wrong guy. a guy might mess up and make you wonder why but you have to remember that he is human and that no body is perfect...it is in human nature to make mistakes..so take a deep breath and forgive it will make things a lot easier. I promise.
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Try to use your brain to make a logical decision.  Are you really, for instance just lusting over this someone else?  Do you have a long-term committed relationship that you'll ruin by following your heart?  Or are these both people you've had some kind of relationship with and you simply can't decide.\n\nIf it's the latter, who will be better over the long term.  Sometimes we make choices based on short-term goals (like having a great sexual relationship) rather than long-term goals (like finding a kind person who will be committed to you).\n\nThink before you leap!
1084701
You yourself could answer this question...You feel that you are living a lie....and you are feeling guilty for living a lie and not being yourself....someone other than your boyfriend is trying to convince you that you are living a lie while your boyfrind is trying to convince you to stay with him..Is he in the light? seems to me the tunnel is the darkness or wrongness you are feeling the voice in coming from within the darkness and your boyfriend is in the light...someone is trying ot convince you that your life is wrong but you feel that this voice is somehow coming from the darkness...although your boyfriend may seem needy he is in the light and you can see him and the voice you cannot see therefore less trustworthy..your are torn between two lovers the one you are with is clingy yet you feel this is what is right the one in the darkness you cannot see is less worthy of trust  but he is telling you that you are living a lie...have you cheated with another man? is the darkness guilt? is the other man teling you to leave your current boyfriend? Is the current boyfriend needy? is the other one less trust worthy or are you having a hard time giving your trust to the other man? have you lied to either or both of them? you have to make a decision based not only on what is best for you but what is right and wrong...and guilt is playing a big part of your dream....
89352
yes, I guess I like the thugish type of guys. I was going out with a real gentleman when I seen this sexy thug type of guy in the mall...Sadly I cheated on my boyfriend with this guy for a week(no sex)...broke up with my original boyfriend...went out with this guy...dated him for a year...found out he cheated on me and had a baby with another girl...completly wrong place...the sad thing is, is that I still have feelings for him and I'm finding it hard  saying "no" to him about getting back togather...man!!!!
216310
It sounds like you don't really like the guy that's been in jail enough to sit around and wait on him. That isn't necessarily a bad thing for you, though.Why is he an on and off again boyfriend? Is it because of jail? Is it because of the actual relationship? You need  someone that will be good to you. How do you feel about the other guy? Could be you have feelings for him or you might even be ready to move on and find someone completely new. Don't loose your self esteem during all this.You deserve someone that'll be good to you and be there for you. Don't take any crap from either one.I wish you the best of luck!
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8th grade, huh?  That makes you about 12 or 13.  Hmm, I can give you an answer from the standpoint of someone about 10 yrs older...but I don't think that's what you really want.  To be brief and to the point, find a guy you like and want to be with because of who he is and not because you want ppl to envy you and your boyfriend.  If you do like I say, ppl will envy you because you're with someone you want to be with because of who he is and what you'll have together.  If that doesn't make someone envy you then I'm as far removed from the human race as humans are to ants.  Btw, don't flaunt someone like you're talking about...you'll quickly find that you don't have that person for very long if he's really a nice guy.
10781
If you're thinking about other guys when you have a boyfriend, then you're obviously not that "into" him. When you're with a guy you really like, you'll know it.\nSo my advice would be to first figure out what you want in a boyfriend. If you only want to be with someone who you are absolutely crazy about, then keep looking and get to know this other guy. If you're just looking for someone to hang out with and whatever else, then maybe your boyfriend isn't so bad if you like being with him.\nGood luck.
386275
Well,I like 2 men that I had been talking to,but I still won't go there. You'll have so much trouble if you try to have them both,and No way could you be in love girl!!! This is called "Crushing"!!!
1103222
Should you feel guilty that you are thinking about another man while having sex with your boyfriend?  That would be a yes.  You dated this gorgeous successful man while you and your boyfriend took a break from one another, so why didn't that work?  For what ever reason it didn't happen between you and the other man, you really need to get over it and try to be in a respectful relationship with the guy you call your "boyfriend".