What's the likelyhood of a husband and wife from different services being stationed together?
397849
Practically nil, actually.  Spouse co location is only good for a couple of hundred miles, and they must be in the same service.  Only in rare cases are Army and Navy bases located remotely close toone another.
626849
Yes, I think it is, and could possibly get you kicked out, but you need to talk to your commander  and find out what the rules are, before deciding to marry them.
707189
Try to contact his FRG (family readiness group). They can keep you up-to-date with what is going on with the unit. However, some units have restrictions on who can receive information, and there may be certain things they can't/won't tell you (since you are not married yet). There should be some people who you can make friends with and talk to though. If moving is an option, move near his base so that you can really be near the FRG and also be there when he  gets back. However, you cannot live on the base until you are married, and the military will not pay you an allowance to live off-base, like they would if  you were married. \n\nWhen you think you can't take it anymore, remember why you love him. It sucks when he's gone, but it will be so worth it when he gets home, trust me.
360661
In my case I married a girl while stationed overseas.\nformor Marine as it were.\nAll we had to do was take the Lic to the embasy and they handed her both redisend visa and green card.\nhowever the new law requires to stay together for 7 years.\nI hear they do check with out warning
400651
Unfortunately..Needs of the Military take precedence over all else.  Spousal Co-Location is covered for up to 150 miles I believe, so if you are within that zone, than according to the Marines, you are already co located.  \n\nYour MOSs will also be a factor.  No sense in having one of you be in Aviation and the other Infantry.. not much chance of ever getting stationed together.  One of you may have to extend in order to coincide with the others PRD and then have each of your detailers workl together to hammer out a suitable arrangement.
705432
Being a military wife, yes, it's hard when my husband is deployed for long periods but I have gotten used to it.  I have my own job, activities and friends to bide my time with while he is away.  I knew what I was getting into when we got married and I'm sticking with it.
989389
You could always report them to INS (Immigration and Naturalization Services) if they are here illegally.  As far as your marriage goes, your HUSBAND broke up your marriage, not the other woman. Don't forget that.
355834
Off course. I personnaly know high ranking officers married to French or Belgium women. If the officer works on a sensitive field, both a Moroccan or a foreign girlfriend/boyfriend will be background checked.
156405
No, you will not be stationed together. The Marine Corps in federally obsevered and the NG is State observered. It is possible you can be stationed in the same town, but if your boyfriend gets orders to another base in another state, you will still be obligated to your post.
1032699
I know that sucks don't it.  When I was in the Marines we got our barracks rooms inspected two to three times a week, But the married guys even the ones in base housing never had to undergo any inspections.  It's bullsh*t But it's part of the game if U wanna be in the Military.  I know of some Marines who  got married just to move off base.
867922
It's only natural for a husband , or wife, to be feeling that way; especially since you two will be apart. It's sad to say, but since I live on a military base, you do see ALOT of that going on and maybe that's also why he feels the way he does. Alot of other soldiers may be putting "so-called" thoughts into his head, also. All you can do is be honest, sincere, faithful, and loving. Hopefully he will have enough faith in you to trust you completely. Being too jealous and suspicious can certainly pull people apart, also.
843499
worst case you could get busted down that would depend though on his wife,you can`t make him trouble.\nIf you are in the military you both could be busted down that would depend on again his wife or if you work togetherwife or not you both would be busted.\nif you are a military spouse you can loose your command sponsorship and be send home.\nif you are a civ you can be by request of his wifethrough his command be forbitten to go on post again.\nWhat are you doing sleeping with a married man and then get pregnant anyways?
848972
Hi, I'm an Air Force wife.  So far I have been very lucky not to have my husband overseas at all.  The longest he was ever away from me is 6 months.  Now most of the time it is just for a couple of weeks at a time.  Stay strong and I'm sure you can get through it, I'm sure he is worth it.  At least that is how I feel about my husband.
464565
I believe it is possible.  My son met his wife over the Internet and they are very happy and good for each other.  Like anything, you have to be careful because there are a lot of idiots out there.
152630
I would think so. Why your asking is beyond me is you married someone there.
958753
ask your husbands senior officer or someone at the base you fall under alot of differant categories not scolarships but grants.you don't want bad advice to make you miss free $$$.it's complicated\nwhen i did my son's research we almost got lost in the papers and we're civilians so work with a base counselor good luck, be encouraged, and GOD bless
453148
Of course they *can* have such a relationship.\n\nBut doing so would jeopardize them in terms of the Code of Military Justice, as there are Naval regulations against adultery and also against fraternization in the ranks.  Additionally, if one of the two is a sailor and the other is an officer, there would be a third legal problem of fraternization between officers and enlisted personnel.