how do u feel abt a girls having one night stands??
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If you are under 18.....you probably shouldn't be having one night stands.  Talk to your parents about your impending, potentially life draining nymphomania.  You may need to make an appointment with a therapist.\n\nHowever, if you are over 18, this is fine...if he is cool with it.  You are an adult.  As a guy, I'm thinking....."this is one of the best things that's ever happened to me.....no strings attached....good, semi regular sex....this rocks!.....wait until I tell my boy Brian"\n\nOnly things to worry about are his friends....do not get involved with them.  That is a bad move, because (hopefully) you respect yourself..and to some degree, the guy who you're having (obviously) brain cell reducing, fluid draining, Olympic quality sex with.  \n\nThe other thing is the guy.  He may or may not respect you at this point.  I mean, if you are willing to give up the kitty for basically nothing, he may think he can do or say anything to you........although he probably won't.  What wants to be cut off from dynamite sex?  Still...be somewhat careful...make sure he is single!......wierdos are officially out there.  \n\nAnd use condoms - herpes doesn't go away with a bowl of chicken noodle soup.
11115
be honest! dont cheat, but especially not with her friend! how would you like it if she slept with one of your friends, right?
581940
Most females don't like one night stands because they have the fear of being labeled. Society has made it that way because it's okay for men to do it without being called names but not a women..If she did she would be a ho and everything else.
1164811
were any of u drunk? did she give u a sign before that she has a thing for u? did u give her a sign before tht u have a thing for her? was she lonely at the party? maybe she got stood up and was angry? many guesses..
113045
Nay! its better to get to know someone (and get an STD test before sex) and then you dont have the worries of catching something from a one night stand. It means a whole lot more when you care about the person then just some random what the heck happened type of thing....
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You're not ready for sex. Nothing wrong with it, in your own time and space you will be. I think you feel fear because you're rushing into this cos your friends have done it and you don't want to seem left behind. Forget about everyone's need for a change and start focusing on your own. Say no and if they cannot accept it, they are not worth your energy.
318030
cute accent even in the writing.....well find a nicer looking girl that isnt sleeping with everyone.....you'll forget the other girl because if she is just going around in the circle do you really want your friends making fun of you....or you could just use her and sleep with her thats what american boys do alot of girls go around in the same group of friends....its quite funny thats why thank god i am out of that game...(i shouldn't say alot but alot of the ones that i know) It will eliminate the curiousity
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first I wanted to answer "then have sex, take the pleasure from him, and go forward someone new..." but i can see that you're interested in that person more than just for an one night satnd... so, you should decide for you, whether you take the risc that you'll have sex and then nothing, or that maybe he is interested in you too, and you'll get yourself involved in something beautiful... I think you should take that risk, and approach him... the only thing you loose is a little of your self confidence... but who doesn't risks, doesn't drink champaign... good luck!
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Well I would just continue to wait for the right person to do it with. The longer you wait trust me you will forget about it. On the other hand you could go and have a one nighter but make sure you wrap it up.
223707
Wow, a lot of slutty girls that have had a nal sex. I feel better about myself now.
684402
Ah, the ol' "Well, there was this one time in college..." lesbian episode. Hey, if you want to try it, go for it. But what do you mean you didn't know what "spend the night" means? She grabbed your breasts; doesn't that give you some idea? I'm guessing it won't be just "kissing and holding."\n\ndo it if you're that curious, but know that it's going to be a part of you forever. Not saying that's a good or bad thing, just that it is what it is.
588721
It depends.....how did I feel if I slept around on someone I didn't care about??? Well, honestly, not too bad. I don't sleep around if I'm in a commited relationship though.
697971
As long as any girl takes the extra time and doesn't make anyone wait on them, I see nothing wrong with doing all the above. Some of us don't have to get drunk to have a good time. Some of us can come home with the same glow that we left home with. I find that to be very sensual for the guy.
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if you stick with one partner, and use protection, then it's not bad, it's good. But if you do a whole bunch of one night stands in a row, then it'll be bad, morally, and bad things will happen, unwanted pregnancy, STD, etc.
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If you truly couldn't wait, you would have gone out and done it :)\nIn your heart of hearts, you obviously want to wait until there is someone special in your life, and that is a good thing!\nCelebrate the fact that when you make love, it will be that - making love.  And not some cheap one night of sex which would leave you feeling worse.\nI know it must be very frustrating, but I think you are craving having someone special to spend time with more than you are craving 'sex'.\nThere are many people, male and female, who make the desicion to wait until they meet someone special until they have sex.  I didn't wait, and I do regret it.  Meaningless sex leaves alot of people unfulfilled - it left me feeling worse than I felt before.  This might happen to you too - often you can feel worthless and you self confidence drops after a one night stand.\nDo you really want your first time to be with 'just some random girl'?  Would it not be more special to wait until you find someone you truly care for who cares for you?\nI hope its not coming across like I'm telling you that you have to wait - if you really want to just have sex then you can do that - I just want to let you know that some of who did that wish we had waited.\nI don't know if you would actually be able to change how you feel - you are 24 so you are a grown man who knows his own mind, and it is likely that deep down you know you would be happier waiting.  I hope you don't feel presuriesed in to having sex - I've known a lot of people who has presuriesed mates 'jokingly' only for it to come out later that they themselves hadn't had sex and weren't comfortable with that fact, and were just trying to shift attention.  Mates have a way of making us feel small for taking the sensible route sometimes.\nYou made a positive descion to wait, and I think it would be best for you to stick to that descision.\nIf you've yet to meet anyone special - get out and meet more people.  Make new friends - the more people you know, the more chance you have of meeting someone who you click with.\nGood luck, I hope you can make the right descision for YOU!\n\nEditted to add:\nThe only way you can 'control' yourself is to think things through and look deep inside yourself so you know what is the right descision to make.  Only you can decide wether or not to wait, so if you find yourself feeling like you might be tempted to just go out and get laid, take a step back for a couple of minutes, and ask yourself if that is what you really want.  Listen to your heart and your mind, and remember that purely physical urges will pass, but the negative feelings you may have if you have an unfulfuilling sexual encouter can last a lot longer.\nHope this helps.
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First off..let's not act like guys are the only ones out for a piece of @$$!! "MC Rob Base" Said is best.."It takes two" Now, to answer your question...it depends on the mood I'm in. If I want a committment..then I'm cool with waiting. If I'm just trying to have a fling..then sometime in the first few weeks is cool. As for a first night kinda girl..well I've NEVER met one. I'm not the kind of guy women fawn over and want to go home with. I'm a committment guy..plain and simple even if that committment is a month.
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I dont consider people who choose not to have a one night stand strange.  I think more people should respect themselves, and others by not sleeping around.