how do i get over this crush who is not perfect for me anyway?
402621
You are a glutton for punishment.  If you know why they aren't right for you why question it any longer?  Have more faith in yourself than that.  There is someone out there for you.  Pick your head up and let someone who thinks YOU are perfect find you.
108846
Don't try to think on how you can get rid of him just let go of him. and try to find another guy who's more deserving than him.
361550
No, as this is not fair on the other one and you wouldn,t want them to do this to you.Get over the so called one that you love and find someone who is better,because if they are not with you then there is someone better then them.
509719
this is what ya do.find someone that's better than that jacka**.don't you EVER go out with someone who tries you like that!the only reason you cant get over him is because you aren't lookin for the other fishies in the sea!now drop that loser and find a real man.
189426
forget him or her, u should niot regret. just tell urself once more that u r the best and the most porecious person ion the world and nobody should make suffer and go ur way.\n\neverything is in front of u and many people in ur life will be happy to accept u.
396474
Just be yourself.  If he doesn't see how great you are, find someone who does -- believe me, there will be tons more crushes and tons more guys.  If he doesn't see you for what you're worth, it's not the end of the world or your last chance.  Get out there and find someone who sees it.
7858
if you really like him than go for him but the best thing to do is just forget him and what happened and go for some body else it wil be hard at first but you will get over him.
907211
ok. I'm a few years older than you, but if there one thing i wish i could change about my life would be this.  I wish i had taken more chances.\n\nIf he likes you GREAT\n\nIf not you'll get over it.\n\nBut unless you try  you'll never know.\n\nGo get him girl!
65575
u should just move on u don't deserve a guy that treats u like sh** because i bet theres going to be somebody u like even better and is nicer to u and doesn't blame u for everything
263239
I know it hurts but there isn't anything you can do.  That is his choice and if you really care about him the best thing you can do is respect that choice and just be his friend.  I'm sure there is some wonderful guy out there that would feel more than lucky to me more than just your friend.
512958
The problem is that you're living with a fantasy, which is always going to be better than reality because you aren't dealing with the facts of the relationship.  Take a notebook and right down all the good things about this former beau at one end of it and turn it over and upside down and write all the bad things about the person.  When you can realistically look at the good and bad you can free yourself from your long standing issues and move on.
243295
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH YOU ARE A STALKER ! You soo remind me of all of my younger friands . Get over him. He is NOT cute. And the chances you are going to hook up with him is one out of like ... a zillion...no INFINITY ! Just find a normal dude instead of someone you'll never meet .Be realistic .
915167
Honestly, u can't make ne 1 like u it just happens but u could try hanging a round him but don't act like a stalker. lol:) b his friend someone he can talk 2 and he might just see that the one that is right for him was beside him all this time.
828823
the best thing for you to do now is to remain cool and forget about him. just dump him from your mind. he is too fickle minded and you should't feel bad about it. at least you know this before he does serious harm to your feelings.\n\ntake care.
404575
if you dont like him like that there isnt much u can do,\nive been in that situation and all you can do is wait for them to find someone else they like alot.\nits unfair to expect them to just deal with it
553250
Take a good hard look at that person  -- understand that if they have no other fault, they are not right for YOU if they don't feel the same way you do.  It's terribly difficult, but you deserve to be loved in return.\n\nRemember: you can't change how anyone else acts or feels, you can only change how you react to them.  Good luck!
1094390
Don't waste anyone's time here. Be upfront out of respect for himself and for you. Just let him know that the feelings just aren't there and it isn't him it's just the way you feel. This way you both stand a chance of meeting the right person.