I'm in a major love triangle right now and I don't know what to do. Help?
396009
Just wait it out and do what feels right. Wait for a little bit until you know them both better, and take it from there. Don't think that you need to make a decision right this very second. Give it a bit of time.
193260
Nope.  Never have, never will.  For a while maybe, but in time, jealousy will prevail.  Don't get hurt.  Save it for one special person.  And if you are asking because someone wants you to get involved in a lovers triangle, evaluate your relationship with that individual and act accordingly. You're playing with fire......
303430
I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
1046923
You are best off to remove your self from this triangle before everyone gets hurt. Stay friends with your friend and tell her guy that you will not have anything to do with him even if him and you friend split up as it will harm your frienship. And tell her how he is she deserves to know the truth about him so she can move on to someone who will respect her and love her for herself. You will find the right guy someday don't give up hope you will know when he is the one.
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This is really quite a difficult situation...I am kind of in the same one myself-except the reverse-I'm the guy and the love interest is a girl. She isn't leading me on though... My suggestion? This may sound harsh, but...just leave it for a while. Cut back on the contact. Go away for a week or something, without contacting him. Then, either one of two things will happen. 1) When you get back you will be over him, or 2) When you get back he will have realised just how hard it is to not talk to you for a week, and he will understand. \nI hope for your sake it is 2. I happen to be going on a cruise in a week, and am hoping for my sake it is 2 as well for me!\nGood luck with it. :)\nEmail me if you have any other queries... :D
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
465000
Your doing the right thing.  Your crush is in a relationship and ultimately is not going to be around any more.  For your sake and hers, you need to continue to just ignore her and your feelings for her.  Focus on your own life and relationships.  Ultimately time will make things easier.  Right now your just wasting your life away making it harder on yourself and your relationships by letting this be anything more than a crush.
859213
This is a tuff situation to be in, you want him around yet you dont want to hold him back from something great.  I think you need to be honest, tell him how you feel.. have no regrets at all.  If he is someone you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with then you do need to talk to him about a plan on keeping the romance alive or next steps.  I am a firm believer in destiny and fate and I think if its meant to be then things will mold into shape soon and you will see what your next steps will be.  Always be honest with your feelings and you will have no regrets.
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I'd like to wish you luck, no matter what you do.  However, Ryan being with another girl isn't the end of the world!  Don't push him into doing anything, rather let him choose.  Just because this guy is with someone else doesn't mean that you don't have a chance.  Be patient.  Love has an odd way with people, and either Ryan could fall in love with you through friendship, or you could fall out of love with him once you realize he's not going to be with you.  There are too many other variables to help you beyond that.  Take your time, be patient, don't do anything rash, and don't 'stop' them.  You can either be there for him, or let him go, regardless of who he's with.  That's love.\n\nI hope this helps.  Feel free to message me if this isn't sufficient.
533807
I was in a similar situation one day and let me assure you... It will end in a heartbreak, and the broken heart will probably be yours, and you will only blame yourself because you were the one who decided to get in between a married couple. So get out of it while you can.
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Cut your losses and walk away.  This person is obviously in a committed relationship already.  Walk away and don't look back, move on and find someone single.  Try your best not to think or talk about this person.  Only time will get him out of your head, but DO NOT PERSUE HIM!  HE's TAKEN.
742758
Well, if there isn't anything between them yet, there is no problem. Think about it and reverse the situation, if you were talking with someone in the manner you suggest, how would you feel if another attempted what you are contemplating?
268016
You are not alone! If any one has gamble in love, then, at one time or another they too, were in this situation.  A few weeks ago I seen a segment on TV about a woman who actually makes her living helping others that have broke up from their mates. This is how devastating a breakup can be.  The first thing she did was make sure the person did not become a couch or bed potato.  She said you have to get back into the world as soon as possible.  I realize that you are more concerned about the daily thing, and seeing him all the time.  Just, get up every morning, always fix yourself up and dress 'hot'.  Lean on your friends when you have to see him or be in the same class with him. Everyone has that one friend that makes you laugh alot, you need her now more than ever. Continue your life as close to normal as possible. Scope out someone else that you might be interested in dating and start conversations with him. You may not be ready, but get ready. Your X will see that your life has not stopped because he walked out. And by moving forward and keeping a good appearance and attitude, he will definitely take notice. I don't if you want him back or not, but moving on to another relation ship always makes the other one feel rejected and if someone else wants you, so does Mr X. You got the power..now, GO GIRL!!!
96924
You're playing with fire.\nBetter make a choice soon,before one or both find out(I can't believe either one of them would know and accept this situation as it is now)and make a decision for you.
360218
try to examine yourself.If you are really falling for this guy and yet you know that already he has a 6 years steady girlfriend, well, wake up to the real world girl!He can't be yours for he has another. Talk to him about your present situation and tell him that your confuse about your situation. Ask him what he really feels for you because you might be confused on love and friendship he is offering to you. Pray to God for guidance and understanding.There is still so many guys outthere, single and much appropriate for your love and sincerity. A guy you can call your OWN.
779624
Don't screw them both. Take a time and think all over. There are going to be consequences whatever you do. How you can handle is you.
499454
Well, fess up first of all. Admit that you were talking to his friend.  But let him know if it was strictly just talking out of friendship or whatever it is. Be honest, if you were talking to his friend and you think that you're attracted to the friend, then try to date the friend if he's available. Don't keep leading the other guy on and letting him think that you're into him when really you're into the friend because you want them both or something like that. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm just saying you need to explain yourself. If he doesn't respond then let it go, as much as it will irritate you to leave something at that, you'll have the peace of mind to know that you did what you had to do and that you've apologized and offered some sort of explanation. It is his fault for burning any bridges. And remember to look at signs, this may be a sign that you're not compatible with him, if you can honestly see yourself saying that you wouldnt do this if the situation was reversed, then you know you're on different levels. Good luck with this situation.