Are there guys out there that are willing to wait until marriage to have sex?
409031
I agree with that (with you that is).  Sex is the deepest kind of love that a man and a woman can experience together, and if you do it before marriage with one guy and you break up, who's to say you wont do it again with another guy.  That would take the love that sex with your life long partner is supposed to hold and ruin it.
462777
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.
1018205
I think it is a matter of personal preference. When you  are in love it is hard to wait until marriage. I do think though that when you marry virginity is one of the best gifts you can give your spouse.
599479
It's a good thing.  That is something special you can give your future husband.\n\nI waited way longer than you because it took me that long to find the right man to marry.  I don't regret waiting for him.\n\nDon't let anyone pressure you into going against your beliefs or try to make you feel less than you are because you're waiting.  Besides, it's no one's business but yours.
38504
I've always believed in waiting until marriage to have sex, so the honeymoon seem like the ideal occasion. It's supposed to be the time when the bride and groom lose all their inhibitions and relate to each other as a married unit...plus, the marriage must be consummated. The only reasons a couple may postpone sex on their honeymoon is if there is a religious reason to wait or if the bride is menstruating. In the end, the couple must decide together before hand. It will be quite a shock if one spouse suddenly announces to the other that although they just tied the knot, they don't want to have sex as yet! That can be just reason for annulment! So discuss it before the wedding.
47052
Fall in love, get married, then have sex. But once you're in love and waiting to get married, I can tell you it's HARD to not have sex, but since I'm a Christian I am waiting until I get married, but it's hard...
1024767
respect what they wanna do if they wanna have sex they wanna have sex if they wanna wait wait
527844
Sadly, a lot of women have been duped into thinking that you must experiment with sex with your partner prior to marriage.  Of course this is false--sex follows love, not the other way around.  They then end up giving up their bodies to dozens in hoopes of finding the "right" guy when all they do is cheapen their own value thus limiting the quality of guy that they will be able to ultimately marry.
157359
No I do not believe in sex before marriage. I got married when I was 24 (a little more than a year ago) and that's when I lost my virginity, and I am damn proud of it.. no regrets, extremely happy about :o) People should try it out, it's not like they're NEVER going to have sex... besides, it's more special.
163624
I have actually seen documentaries of people aged 14-20 where they ask the guys questions like: Do you want your future wife to be a virgin when you marry?, Or are you comfortable marrying a girl who has slept around?, etc. and the answer over and over again has been that they would like to marry a virgin.\n\nIt seems a lot of guys want to play around sexually before marriage, but will go looking for a "clean" girl when they are serious about settling down. \n\nA lot of very sexually active girls are in for a huge shocker when they want to marry.
1177408
Girl, whats the problem? You said you wanted to wait until your marriage, then wait. Why the fuss about feeling sad for your boyfriend, most guys don't want you to wait for your marriage day, or is he just saying that to still get in your pants, so he can get you to think that he's the "perfect" boyfriend in the world, you know boys pull those kinds of tricks. Be that special person and wait, and its gonna be worth while, when you do get married, it is a blessing to be a virgin.
580354
What!?!? Don't you KNOW?? I thought you said that you are going to marry!! Normally people wait until AFTER they've found a suitable mate before making that decision...!
144932
If you're asking this question then you definitley are NOT ready to have sex with him. When you are ready you will feel it in your heart and you won't think twice or have to ask someone's opinion, so probably after your married would be best.
540798
If you think that you should wait until you're married to have sex, then that's the ONLY opinion that matters here!  Have you not read some of the answers that people give in Answers?  You already sound smarter than most of them.
385840
True love waits means that true love can wait for marriage to have sex. It has nothing to do with waiting to date. If you have found a girl that you really like, go for it, and don't pressure her to have sex.
1147554
It's better to wait until you are married and there are several reasons.  Besides the obvious: 1) protected from STDs (can't get them unless you're sexually active - although bear in mind if you engage in oral or anal you still may get one). 2) can't get pregnant without sex or IVF.\n\nThe reason I am choosing to wait is not just because of my moral convictions, but also because I only want to share this part of me with one person.  I don't see the need to let everyone in on my goods.  \n\nI see marriage as a lifetime commitment... a relationship is SOOO much more than just sex.  You'll spend most of your time running errands.  Marry the one you can't live without - your best friend.\n\nAnd remember when you say your vows... you essentially are saying, "I do you, you do me, and we don't do anybody else" (quote from Lakita Garth).\n\n'Cause really that's all you need... \n\nBesides, God's math... \n\nYou have two ears and one mouth - you should listen twice as much as you talk.\n\nMale, you have one member.\nAnd if you're female - you have one hole.\nYou do the math.
107046
I didin't wait. Every now and then I think about what it would be like if I had chosen to wait and how special that would be to the girl I marry. I believe that most people don't wait cause of rebellion, or cause of the need for immediate pleasure (which is not as good as long term plesure for sure) or because someone forced them or made them feel guilty. I would imagine it would be better to wait, going on the fact that I fell guilty about the previous girls. You can never feel guilty about waiting if you are true to yourself and don't listen to anyone who tries to pressure you into it. It's got to be worth it to lose a friend/boyfriend/girlfriend because they are telling you they want you to have sex with them and you don't want to. It's YOUR life and no one else's. Don't give in against your own will!!!