When do u consider the adultery line to be crossed in a marriage?  A 5 second kiss with another - yes or no?
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No, as the dictionary says.  But why draw a line?  Fidelity is a moral issue. As I recall some part of one's marriage vow says something about forsaking all others.  Perhaps the following will provide relief from one's concscience. \n\nForsake (v) To renounce; to reject; to refuse. \n\nadultery (n.) Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse.
855381
only if adultery has been committed\n\nperhaps i am wrong though......
520963
I'm currently on my second marriage and I wish I would have waited until I met the man I'm with now. I was a virgin with my first husband but, we did it before we were married. I chose to have sex one month before our wedding because I didn't want our wedding night to be awkward. If your 100% positive you are getting hitched like I was then I say go for it. I just wish it had been with my second husband instead of my first.
1040851
yes, you may not be physically cheating but its no different to have an emotional affair, I would stop all contact with this other person that you have feelings for and start concentrating on your spouse and try and rekindle the feelings that you had in the beginning of your relationship before things get too far and you cant take it back.
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"Being kissed,hugged&carressed by another guy isn't cheating on your husband, ryt?(Penetration didn't happen)"\n\nAsked by Jenny D.\n\nI didn't answer because for some reason I never get picked for best answer when i tell them to "shut up-You're a wh0re..." :)~\nTruth hurts ;)~
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according to me no,its nice to have a kiss or hug or one touch the other and make him/her excited but no more. i feel sexual life should wait until the get married ,,, in this case they will miss each other so much and the feel that the other partner realy loves him for not doing that withaout any relation.
77949
I am so sorry God forgive me but sentimentals answer was hysterical. my husband is here and we are just tickled, of course he wasnt serious. i hope.\nyeah one wife is the biblical way to go.
1176824
Personally I think you should have sex before marriage and live with the person. Marriage is forever you need to know if you can stand that person and their ways, all their ways. Now my religion says another but I listen to my instinct first.
622384
NO dont tell your husband!!! It will only create an argument and make him even more irate and jealous!!! If you want to keep your marriage then i would recommend putting a halt to the steamy make out sessions with this co-worker. But if you are legally seperated and headed for divorce then what you do in your own time is your business.
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I see nothing wrong with knowing what you're getting into.  I know others would disagree, but sex is a part of marriage.  If it's not enjoyable because of who you're with, you won't want to be procreating with them (which is the whole biblical point of having sex in marriage).
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do you----take --- as your lawfully wedded wife/husband, now repeat after me .  I _____ do take ____ to love honor and cherish  for richer for poorer In sickness and in health, forsaking all others until death do us part.  Its been 10 years but I believe  I atleast got most of it right.
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You don't specify exactly what you mean but if you mean cheat on a marriage then here goes.\n\nIt's not a matter of "getting caught", it's a case of doing the right thing.  If a woman (or man come to that) is married she should respect that union and not mess it up by having an affair.  Finding out your spouse has played away is hurtful and unforgivable.  If a relationship is stale, then try and work it out first (with counselling if needs be) and if that doesn't work, walk away, get a divorce and THEN, and only then, mess about with another person.
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First of all, don't lower your standards to hers, don't cheat...I understand the love connection and you both have been together for a fair amount of time, but her being unfaithful now doesn't make for a good choice of a wife later...they always say they were going to stop, but allow to continue an affair until its discovered and not voluntarily revealed.  I find that important when it comes to determining if you should continue in such a relationship..I recommend ending it, but to answer your question, it would take a love that thru sorrow and regret for what she has done...that could convince you that this will never happen again...talk to her, find out why and how this happened , take all the information you can get and determine if your heart can forgive and forget in order to make such a shaky relationship last...good luck.
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Sharing intimacy with anyone other than your spouse is cheating. May it be physical or emotional. It's deception either way. You should leave if you are missing something at home.
843019
These people are all crazy.  We have become way too sesitive to kissing.  Its a custom in a lot of countries as a simple sign of friendship.  Kissing is NOT Cheating if its quick and no tongue action or ass grabbing is involved.  Totally OK!
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as far as I know it is not considered a sin to live together according to the Bible, but it is a sin to have sex before marriage and I don't know many people who live together that don't have sex, so it is up to you to draw the line to be able to stay away from sex before marriage
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Don't say anything to his wife. You do not need any drama. Just tell him "no", and that if he respected his wife, he would stop. If he continues to try to do anything, I think it's safe to tell his wife then. But one kiss shouldn't be something you tell her about. \n\nYou're other option is slapping him until he doesn't know one direction from the other.