me and my cousin fall in love with a girl when we went on a trip but now....(read more )?
413566
wow so um try talking to your cousin about both of you waiting to see if maybe there is someone else for one or both of you then tell her how you feel and what you want to do if she cares for you both she might refuse to come between the two of you. i hope all goes well and if it doesnt there is more then likely another girl out there
973921
i dont think there is a rule to this one.. sometimes it takes time and somtimes it doesnt.. my parents fell in love over time and my aunt and uncle was love at first sight..both couples have been together for over 50 years... hang in there girl..
864749
OK people get your head out of the gutters, she is his cousin!\n\nI think the best thing you can do is just be there with her, you are the old cousin who she looks up to and probably idolizes since you are all of 14 and can do some many things she can not. So definetly have some games that you can play together, but let her decide what she wants to do, and just be the loving cousin and she will adore you for it.\n\nAnd ignore the sickos here, it is not creepy it is cute and loving.
665370
Wait for the right girl.  Not worth it if you don't love the person.  You're normal.  Nothing wrong with desire.  How you act upon that desire will show your true character.  If you'd like to live in a world that's more free, move to a new country.  But I'd suggest, fall in love.  Being with the person you love will give you the right experience and the best memories to cherish.  At least, that's what most of my friends tell me.  Goodluck! =)
636333
let their relationship alone.  if you go after this guy, you might end up with no one.  if you and your cousin are best of friends, how can you even think about ruining that relationship. guys will come in and out of your life, but good friends are hard to find, especially if you are related to this person.  they will be there always. she will fell so hurt, betrayed.  think about what you have to lose in this decision.
702354
i came through this situation too.. i have a cousin and we like so close together even tell each other secrets... but now we are no longer talk to each other maybe just greet and say Hi!!..it is sad because we act like we didn't know each other... we fell apart because my father and her father had a fight a couple years ago... my father didn't allowed me to be close to her and their siblings.. but now after my father get over the problem with my uncle... we kind of afraid to talk to each other... sometimes i cry because when i came back to hometown and we had a gathering i have no one to talk to.. now i always try to be close back to them.. i think it will takes sometimes to refresh our relationship back..just be patient and you'll see the results..
238384
wowww that's soo cool!!! if she is comin to see u spend some wuality time with her... first take her sightseeing in London but in ur unique way... take her to nice places and ask if anywhere she wants to see in particular... treat her with nice meals (and after a couple of dining out cook for her if u can) but since u guys seem to be in love I'm sure things will lead on once u meet!!! good luck with everything.... :o)
754317
This is really quite a difficult situation...I am kind of in the same one myself-except the reverse-I'm the guy and the love interest is a girl. She isn't leading me on though... My suggestion? This may sound harsh, but...just leave it for a while. Cut back on the contact. Go away for a week or something, without contacting him. Then, either one of two things will happen. 1) When you get back you will be over him, or 2) When you get back he will have realised just how hard it is to not talk to you for a week, and he will understand. \nI hope for your sake it is 2. I happen to be going on a cruise in a week, and am hoping for my sake it is 2 as well for me!\nGood luck with it. :)\nEmail me if you have any other queries... :D
602160
how did you find out you were cousins? I'd say continue loving him, we are all related somehow or another down the line
866468
The question you need to ask yourself is, does he feel the same way about you? Answer it honestly, there is no reason to get hurt unnecessarily.\n\nIf he does feel the same way, there must be some other reason you don't want the rest of his family to know. In a nut shell, if he does like you as well, and you aren't first cousins, what's stopping you from exploring the possibility?\n\nBest wishes to you
801313
we meet new people everyday.and someone affects us in someway.we cant fight it.we are humans.not God.I guess, being in love with your current girl is not everything it is in the relationship.maybe you have longed for more and you never realised it.probably,this girl you just met made you to feel much better, someway.perhaps this is how you wanted to feel or to be treated.7 years of a relationship is very long.and it started when you were a teen.hats off to you, but now you are saying that this girl makes you to feel special.means that you are being appreciated.maybe this is what you expected from your gf. you never had it.there's no growth in your relationship.you guys have stopped explaoring each orther.maybe she thinks she knows in and out of you.but you know there's more.more about you. be frank about your feelings to your gf.she deserves to know on how you are feeling about the relationship.maybe she has an answer too.
658478
love does'nt c any age...try to tell ur cousin first if she is close to u
415592
i know how u feel me and my girl kissed when she left my house one time and my sister-in-law saw it....dont feel so bad if u love ur girl then just try to get a long w/ her mom even if she dont like u. if she loves her daughter then she will love her and her mate just the same. give it time it will get better. it did for me
182597
I believe that your girl shows some very promising signs of being able to love and commit. The very first love she had remains a special memory to her. Chances are that you will even be more memorable to her now.
314558
Dont do it! do you really want to lose your cousin over a guy? Does the guy even feel the same for you? She is your cousin you cant do it to her it would tear her apart. I know my sister has done that to me before. Just dont hurt your cousin like that he is just a guy there are so many guys out there for you dont ruin family over one guy. Good Luck!
235672
Sorry to hear about your pain, but there is absolutely nothing that you can do about now except for learn your lesson and move on.  Now, perhaps when you find a special girl that you fall in love with again, you won't wait to let her know!!\n\nPlease, do NOT tell her now - it would do no good and only stress her out.  That's not fair to either of you.
961021
maybe she has changed her mind about talking to you about your trip or maybe she is not sure how you are gonna react and not sure if she should or not, perhaps you could kindly jog her memory and ask her if she wanted to caht about it, that would air any worries she has and also put your minda at ease\nhave a good trip