im am a married 27 yrs.old 10 yerars married but no happy i dont know i like mature woman for sex why is that?
395763
maybe you fantasize older women to get you off? What is wrong with your wife you don't want to have sex with her?
117461
I dont think it has anything to do with maturity but i think that sex before marriage is good. If your mate cant please you in the bed it may cause problems in the marriage.so you should find out before
1084556
I am in my 30's and somehow I can say it true.  Being older I know better what works for me and I make my hubby do the things that will make me climax easily. Unlike when I was younger, I was still experimenting so to say.
333557
My dear, the way that I see it you seem like a "deprived" person in the area of self expression. SO you say, you have a great family and supportive friends. And that you are a social person. Have you ever behaved that way sexually when you were still in your teens?.. or even while you were in your early twenties?\n\nAs to the relationships that you had in the past,  Perhaps you have honestly loved at least one of them. I think that is not the issue. May be you're still in love with one, but something's pulling you back. Just a thought in your mind is quite different from actually doing it. You are not scared of the thought of commitment, but the actual practice of it, I am sorry to say that you still lack it. Who knows, you may have already found her but you just do not realize it?\n\nIt is hard to answer your questions outright because it needs details to be understood. But the way I see it, going for one-night stands is your way of dealing with your self expression. These women are strangers and you pay them for pleasure, so you get to "say" everything and that they will just have to follow. The way I see it, there are things that you want to be done your way and perhaps sometime in the past, things did not happen the way that you wanted them to happen that is why you vent your frustration on a "safe" avenue where you can easily get away with - your sexual activities with multiple women. So you say, it must feel really good. I am sure you are not scared of STDs and AIDS because you're just having fun, right? But what happens when pleasure is over? That, you have to deal with again, and the cycle continues. See, for as long as the root cause is not properly dealt with, this will go on and on and on with your life. This is not a normal guy thing. I suggest you seek professional help about it.\n\nYou've asked this question because you feel that something is not right somewhere. Congratulations, that is a good start.
959267
Yes, something is wrong.  It doesn't matter how often you actually have sex- every day, every week, every month- as long as both of you feel contented. You are unhappy enough about it to be asking this question, so something is going on that isn't quite right.\n\nI've been in a low sex marriage (sex less than once a month, sometimes no sex for six months + at a time) for years and years and believe me, it isn't going to get better over time.  You'll end up being the "pursuer" sexually and emotionally, as I am with my husband.  Seek outside assistance now, while your relationship is still fresh enough for you both to invest in addressing this issue.  Otherwise you'll end up like me- wondering if you chose the wrong mate, wondering if it's still possible to fix it, wondering if platonic friendship is going to be enough for the next 40 years.
109508
Funny, you should ask that. . .my husband and I are having this problem now.. . .it is not women don't want to have sex. . . being married adds alot of stress its self. .. there are alot factors that add stress such as ex's(jealous ones who are plotting);finances and etc.  These things had me so stress after getting married, all I wanted is a good night of sleep. .. If you are in a marriage and there are no problems, there is a bigger one simmering. .. .remember pratice makes perfect. . .eventually, things change and stress was lifted. .. my husband can have it when ever he wants it, and I appreciate him more for understanding. . .Ask her why and then you will know where to go from there. .
517796
I will be 51 this year,theres nothing wrong with sex in your fiftys,sixtys or seventys if your with the right man and you still enjoy it.go for it your never to old to try anything
1068825
Why do you sound so surprised that you are attracted to women in this age group? I dont think it tapers off, it may just become a little less intense. Remember when you were a "young man" and sex was like fireworks all the time, what does it feel like now that you're 44? It's the same for women
1073700
Does your husband watch porn or check out xxx web site?  Do you know if he masturbates?  If the answer is yes to any of the above, then it's not his sex drive that's the problem.  Most likely he's bored with and tired of you.  You've been married a long long time and most guys (whether they admit it or not) get tired of doing the same woman after too many years.  You were 26 when you guys married, and probably a nice young hot chick then.  You're now 50 and perhaps a bit baggy, saggy and old ladyish... you remind him that he too is also an old fart and not that hot young stud he was when he was in his 20s.  How does he feel about you otherwise?  Does he still love you and care about you?  Other than the sex thing how is he as a husband or as a father?  If the other things are positive then maybe his desire for sex or specifically sex with you has waned.  Maybe if he got some strange (not meaning to be crude, just honest) or some young chickie his attitude about sex may change and he may become a new man.
585185
well let me say sex is good at any age depending on the woman.....I am 56 and I think this is my prime life for sex as I can't get enough and my boyfriend thinks I am a sex starved but I just love sex......oh it feels so good
517636
Depends on how much you really like her.  If you do then I would maybe try holding off for awhile ( it's just sex - you can take care of it most of the time on your own if you had to )  If you aren't willing to give up sex for awhile then move on and find yourself another 40 year old that looks 25 .. or even better find yourself a real 25 year old .. they're in their Prime !
920474
you should be you don't try to lose yourself to make someone else happy do what you wnat for yourself it is nice to make other people happy but  you should wait it after your married to ever consider having sex at a young age hope you figure out what to do.
199870
its not 2 late im in my forties as well and very good on the eyes but as i get older i seem to want to be with someone who wants to live their life as the days go on.  i have been married 2x as well and i think that was 2x 2 many so i am just looking for someone to be with with no committment envolved.  i think that if i get that that would make me happy.  im not saying that when i find that person, that i wont be faithful, i will be that 4 sure.  but the thought of marriage again just turns my stomach.  i am getting older and i want to experience life with someone who wants to have fun and do things that we didnt do when we were younger.  so dont worry he is out there 4 u trust me.  he might b me haha holla back if you would like to know more.
1100069
I think a lot of it would have to do with the total situation of your life as it is now.  First of all, are you male or female?  If your male, your sex drive could have simply decreased.  Also, in the case of both genders, in your thirties you aren't nearly as carefree as you are in your teens, & you are under a lot of stress.  Such stress may hamper your enjoyment of sex, if you're allowing it to preoccupy your mind as you're going through the motions.  Are you married?  Do you have kids?  If so, life has probably become routine, whereas there's nothing routine about getting laid when you're a teenager.  Even if you aren't married, life in general can throw a lot of stress at you in your thirties, with house payments, car payments, piles of bills, situations at work, & more.  More than likely, if you have a steady girlfriend or a wife, you two need to get together & plan a weekend for just you, where you won't be bothered, & you can enjoy one another without worrying about life in general.  Go somewhere where only select people, like your parents, will be able to reach you in an emergency.  Take a break, get rid of some stress, & have sex simply for the joy of pleasing each other again.  Hope that helps.  You might try the link below for more ideas.
527025
Husbands do want sex after 10 years.  If one doesnt there might be several reasons, he could have lost interest due to falling out of love, weight gain, health problems, etc...  You first need to find out the real problem before you can start to fix this one.  The only reason he shouldnt want sex is if hes 90.
203237
Yep, get a marriage counselor.  I mean, getting into the relationship you knew ahead of time he was 17 years older and that there would come a time when your sex drives differed from each other.  This should have been taken into consideration from the start.  Just be sure to look inside yourself and find the true reason you are having issues.  Don't lie to yourself and say that you "are getting distant and there is no more sex" when part of the reason very well could be the fact that you want a man your age.
31130
Enjoyment of Sex is a personal thing. do you have unreasonable expectations of your partner?\nDo you expect sex all the time? or are you married with children. Each root cause has a different answer. \nThe Married issue is actually the easier to resolve. this one revolves around the fact that as a parent you have so wraped your life around your children that you have forgotten how to find personal time for your Mate. this takes just a bit of planning. Start by asking your partner out on a date for some quiet time together. then rekindle the romantic fires on a timly basis. weather it's weekly, Bi-weekly or what ever works best. \n\nIf your not married then you have a deeper issue, It's hard then to answer this question with so little information. after all each person is unique and the responce needs to be for you as a person and not as a lab rat.