What could this be? My son is having 9 good days and 9 bad days. It's going in a pattern.?
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It does sound like drugs.  Can't you get him to a better school?  Do something about the bullying : see the headmaster and if possible get a big man to kick some @rse.
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i wish that i could tell you exactly what it is but nausea can be associated with a number of things. I suggest that tomorrow you call his primary and get a appointment for him.  They may want to run test on him to get a proper dx.\n\nGood luck to you and your family
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Sounds an awful lot like an allergic reaction to something eaten or introduced into the immediate environment.  If Benadryl or a similar antihistimine relieves the problem, I think he's got some kind of allergy to trace down with a specialist.\n\nIf it happens at roughly the same 3 times each year, perhaps an investigation into what allergens he might be exposed to (something in bloom?) is in order.\n\nBest to you both.
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Babies are very irregular in this sense. However, if you're worried you should talk to your pediatrician.
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I doubt you are going to devine an answer to such a complicated issue on this or any forum.  First of all no one can predict the future.  Secondly the child apparently hasn't yet been diagnosed completely.  Instead of fishing around for answers that no one can possibly provide, offer your complete support to the family both the parents and children there in.\nThese questions serve no good purpose and as I mentioned aren't going to yield palpable answers.
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Yes I know about it because the person is me.It used to be that I would wash my hands so much, that the skin would crack . And forget about picking up anything that was even remotely gross or dirty, I'd freak out and run to the sink and scrub for minutes at a time. I was driving my Husband crazy, and myself . So I got help. I went to a therapist and he put me on medication to ease the symptoms, and I see him to get a handle on this sometimes debilitating condition . The med. that worked for me was Prozac , which will also help with panic disorder. Get your Boy into the therapist as soon as possible .I'm sorry to say that it is unlikely that He will grow out of it . These things only get worse over time.Good luck, hope it all works out for You and your Son.
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We have this problem also, our son is 8 and developmentally he is under 1. The diagnosis rate is about 70% right now, that is up from 50% 10 years ago. Our son has tested normal on every test they have given him.
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try sneaking the fruits and vegetables into food he likes...pizza, spaghetti, jello, even icecream, give him foods that have a lot of vitamins in them, such as cereal and whole grain breads, since you are so concerned about his diet.\nhe also needs professional help.  it sounds like he is already receiving this, but, if not, he needs to talk to a therapist, even if his problems are nutritional.  after four years, it has probably developed into a more serious problem, and simply feeding him fruit won't fix everything.  now, i'm not endorsing the use of drugs, especially in someone so young, but they may be helpful if other treatments, such as counseling, diet & exercise changes, and behavioral therapy don't seem to work.  has he been diagnosed by a professional, or do you just think that he has depression and anxiety? he may have a learning disability, OCD, and/or social development problems, as well as the depression/anxiety. before treatment begins, he needs a definite diagnosis.  also, if he was diagnosed years ago, his problems may have changed or he may have developed new issues (this is fairly common).  find a psychiatrist that he and his father feel comfortable with, and follow their suggestions.  talk with a nutritionist and the boy's doctor about his diet, maybe they could explain to him how important eating healthy is, and what will happen if he doesn't, then tell him (and you) how to change eating habits.  set a good example for him, and offer healthy snacks after school.  it sounds like he does have a psychological problem, as well as a nutritional one, and he needs treatment for both.  make sure the therapist (find one that specializes in children) knows of your concerns about his diet, this is important information, and may dictate the proper treatment.\noh, and the physical problems, such as stomach aches, may actually be caused by depression. i know it sounds odd, but it's true.  the prolonged stress and sadness can cause stomach problems, headaches, clumsiness, etc.\ngood luck to all of you!
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The meds are probly not the answer. Take a look at life style. Elimanate candy and juink food. Make sure he gets 3 balanced meals a day. Plenty of sleep, and of couse a little one on one parent time.
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I'll go out on a limb and presume that your son is already medicated.  He needs therapy NOW.  If you have health insurance, contact them to find out who they contract with to  handle mental health needs.  Then contact that organization and get your son scheduled with a child psychologist who specializes in Bi-polar kids and you'll need a psychiatrist as well to prescribe for him.  If he is currently medicated, he may need a change in dosage or even in medication.  In the meantime, if it's at all possible, designate one room in your home as the "safe" room.  Remove all objects that could injure or be picked up and thrown.  Your son obviously cannot have his way all the time.  So when this happens, get him into the "safe" room and use yourself as a human straight jacket -- come from behind him, get him down onto the carpet and grab his wrists and cross his arms with your own.  Use your legs to immobilize his, if you are able.  If there is a father in the house, this will be easier for him to do.  Keep your son immobilized.  He will scream, he will yell, he may even curse.  Ignore all this.  Keep up a steady stream of soothing words in a low voice.  Continue doing this and he will eventually refocus and be able to calm himself.  This is tiring for parents but it works.  Good luck.\n\nOkay, I'm seeing that your 7-yr-old also has a behavior problem, which prompts me to ask has your 11-yr-old actually been screened for and diagnosed with Bi-polar or did you decide this?  And there is no father in the house.  However, your kids, both of them, and you need family therapy ASAP.   I now believe this is a parenting and behavioral problem rather than a psychological/medical one.  It may be a result of the divorce.
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Trust you instincts.  If you don't think something is right, you need to have it checked out.  You have done a great job of noting what seems to be wrong.  If you don't get what you are looking for, keep a notebook with good notes on what he eats, his weight and other symptoms.  I am sorry to hear you are having these problems.  Good luck.
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I'd say he has something important to tell you. However, the good news is that he feels he can wait until Friday!\n\nWhen my sons pediatrician suspected something he sent us to the hospital emergency room. He than would not allow us to leave until he made phone calls. My son was than sent as an emergency patient to a major hospital. And, we still didn't know he had cancer definitely! It was one of the residents who admitted him into the children's hospital who finally said the word, "Cancer". Horrible time.\n\nAnyway, stay hopeful in the fact that he is allowing you a Thanksgiving holiday. If it was an emergency you would be in the hospital. \n\nI'll be sending you good vibes for good news!\nTake care, and stay hopeful. Don't worry about something that hasn't yet happened.
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I don't know the whole situation and you only say your little son.  Not to alarm you but you should have immediately consider a visit to the pediatrician.  They should be able to find out why the child is weak.  There are many reasons for that.
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it is nine days. i dont know why i know that, but i do. and im starting to get very freaked out. any way, it is nine days
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Has his school suggested there is any reason to be concerned?  If his school has not suggested there is anything wrong, maybe there is nothing to worry about.\n\nHOwever, I'm not trying to alarm you, but your grandson may need to see a doctor.  You are not clear about what you are describing, but your grandson may have a disorder that needs to be addressed.  I don't want to suggest any sort of diagnosis here, but if I were you I'd see a pediatrician.\n\n\nI wish you well in getting this sorted out.
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It could be that your son is afraid you are going to leave him too as he seems to be seeing you in a ghost-like state. Or he may want to talk to you about things that happened to him or how much he misses his father, even though Dad was bad, kids don't understand that,but he is afraid you won't listen to him or believe him.\n Keep the communication lines open and honest with your son and let him know that there is NOTHING he can say to you or tell you that will make you leave him or love him less.\nYour therapist may be able to decipher this better than a bunch of on-line psychiatrists though.\nGood Luck, my thoughts are with you.
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Get him to a Dr for blood tests etc to check there are no abnormalities.\n\nIt is NOT normal to sweat at night and it needs to be checked out. There are literally 100's of reasons for night sweats, usually very simple and easily fixed things, but there is also the flip side of serious diseases that cause night sweats.\nSo for your own peace of mind and your sons health, don't delay take him to be checked out.