should i ask my ex bf back out ?
415076
k, u sound like u r still in your teens, which tells me u don't really know yourself yet.  Give it time, let him go, and learn from whatever u had together.  U will find someone that will give u what he did and much more when u r older. Take it as experience and move on.  U can still love someone, just love them enuff to let them go.  If he truly loved u back he wouldn't be playing games like trying to make u jealous, he'd be trying to win u back by doing what he thought u would want him to do.  Let the games go, move on, and find your other half somewhere else.
299649
if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
669981
just see what happens on saturday. if you still feel like you want him back, take him back.. just don't jump into it real quick cuz you don't wanna get hurt again and he probably doesn't want to either. BUT if you go back out with him... PLEASE make sure he's the only one.. but anyways.. GOOD LUCK!!! ♥
254201
I think you should say that your relationship is not where you expected to go and give reasons why you don't want to be with him.  If he happens to let you go and break up, doesn't that leave you a way for you to get back together with your ex without seeming like that was the reason why you wanted to breakup?  Obviously there must be a reason why you'd much rather be with your ex than your current bf, just make sure you're not going to be getting yourself into a big mess and come out with no bf or friends at all.
656947
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
621088
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
274798
I would go for it if you dont have any ties to your ex.  If your completly over him, and your ex's bf understands what hes getting into, then go for it.\n\nYou shouldnt not be happy because your concerned about what your ex think.
1104635
If you think dating a guy after one week of being broke up then think of this, I broke up with my BF and I went back out with him that same day. Talk about pathetic! Then we broke up again and are going back out right now. So I think your relationship is going better than mine is, and by next week I`ll have probable broke up with him again. So do what you think is best for the future relationship you might have with this guy.
857301
Sounds like he wants you two to get back together again but is too shy or too ashamed to ask, may be that he is afraid you will turn him down.  Hang loose awhile and see what the outcome will be.  If he still likes you, you will hear from him before very long.  Good luck kid.
364602
It is normal to want to get back w/ your ex. However, you should only get back w/ him only if you want to.  Don't let him pressure you into it. There are a lot things you have to take into consideration...i.e. like why did you all separate, can u trust him, and is the relationship worth trying again? Whatever you do, don't rush to make decisions, take things slowly, and remember ur happiness is most important. Good Luck.
884723
This one is going to be difficult, so let's see if I can help.\n\nFirst, your ex.  Now, I take it he's your ex for a reason.  Ask yourself, is there a chance for a relationship with him?  And, if there is, would things end up differently if you two got back together?  If you answered "no" to either question, then rule him out.\n\nSecond, your guy friend.  This is even trickier because if you do chose to pursue a relationship with him, it could end up being either being the best thing you ever had, or ending your friendship.  Does he feel the same about you?  If he does, then you may lose him if you don't date him.\n\nI hope this helps a bit.  Sorry I could not be more of a help.
959323
It depends, do you love the ex? If you are unsure then take things slow. Maybe you and the ex could date, hang out etc and get to know each other again. Explore all the reasons you left to begin with, have any of those reasons (issues) been resolved? If not, nothing has changed and you will leave again when the "new, fun" is over.\nMake sure you don't go back just for comfort.
1071254
To spare him, dont go out with him. Since you are not into him fully... dont bother. You'll just want your ex.
1181256
Honey,....MOVE ON! Your ex does not deserve you! You have found a guy who treats you right, so stay with him!
36851
get a new boyfriend. then don't look back. there's a reason why he's an ex.
268060
hi! listen dont go making any harsh decisions str8 away!!!!!\nu only fell differently about each other becuase uv both had time to grow and now that u have u want each other back. but you have to think of the baby and whats right for him, im not saying dont pursue the relationship but were u and ur partner gr8 before ur ex came bak in2 the picture??? if so...sleep on it. it may just be a case of the "what if's"...and ur still in lust with him! think about it and try to put some excitement back in to your love life with your b/f...go out on a date with him again.pretend as if ur both new to the relationship..see how u get on on ur date...have wild fantastic sex with him...go the whole nine yards! if u still think about ur ex...think about ur next move to make...to leave ur b/f or stay. it seems silly i know but most of the time its boredom that leads people to have affairs and stray..dont entertain the thought and you might not feel the same about ur ex!!!!~tasha~
1052964
You were with your ex for so long that now you feel like no one else can compare. You are so young, now is the time for you to find yourself. To find out what you really want out of life, and a guy. No way you can no that if you have no experiences to base your decision on. I say you move on and focus on you for a while. If its meant to be with you and your ex... you'll get back together again.