is it ok not to talk to your boyfriend.?
402526
Of course, you don't have to talk to him about everything!
99385
It's not ok if he doesn't tell me.  My guy is not interested in that anyway.  I would feel most comfortable if I went with him.
1130937
ok, hang on for a second. think to yourself,"Why am i doing this? Is it because i am concerned? Or am i nosey?" Is your daughter's boyfriend reliable? Because if he is then if the situation is not broken, dont try to fix it.
240101
Some guys just don't like to talk on the phone.. If you cannot deal with it then find someone that likes to talk on the phone. It is an issue that I had with my BF, but i decided to deal with it because we talk when we are in person and have the best times when we are together. I figure that he needs his time and i need my time. Give him a chance to miss you.........
588470
thaghost84 above is full of **it. There is no point in staying with someone you can not talk to. If you stay in this relationship, it is going to get worse, so you might as well make a decision now as to whether or not you want to deal with a boyfriend who doesn't care about the same things you do. He is jealous and controlling and does not deserve you. You may not like hearing this but it is the truth. Dump this guy and date someone you can talk to. This is a good foundation that you can then build on. You start with the foundation, not the roof, if you want to build a solid, beautiful home. The same is true with relationships.\n\nBuh-bye now!
1022242
It isn't wrong at all.  He's obviously very busy and you'd probably end up calling him when he's busy.  If he says that he'll call you it's perfectly ok for you to just go on with things until he calls.  If you notice there are time periods each week when he is free, you might want to keep those open so you can spend time together/call eachother.  My girlfriend and I are busy a lot so when one of us says that we'll call the other, there isn't any point for the other one to call.  Hope this makes sense/helps.\n\nPeace\nChris
890225
Please do not start anything with him or anybody while in a relationship with another. What goes around comes around and you will be asking for the same in your relationship with that person.
358649
That doesnt sound like a healthy relationship.\nSome people think if they do not talk about their feelings that they will just go away. Truth is communication is one of the key parts of a relationship and that talking about your feelings makes things better not worse. \nThat if you ignore your feelings they just grow inside you and become stronger and worse feelings.\nYou two need to figure out a healthy way of communicating. You need to learn how to talk to each other about tough feelings in a positive way.\nIf not like you said you guys will just grow apart until one of you ends it completely. \nA relationship is nothing without communication
724860
yesssssssss talking too much is frustrating. Eventually you will ran out of things to say and you will become bored. That situation happened to me..I would see my bf during school after school and talk to him for 3-4 hours at night!!! It was a lot!!!!!! eventually we decided to give each other some space. Good luck!
1049222
no, its not ok!! you make it known you have a problem and ask him how he wud feel if u stayed up talking to guys on the phone!
58670
why should you have to?  Sounds like your bf has some issues. Do you expect him to prove to you that he isn't speaking with girls? Please drop this nut and find yourself a healthy relationship, and possibly some counseling so you can realise just how unhealthy your question is.
629986
If you live 3 states away, daily communication is unreasonable under the best of circumstances. This is probably wearing him down emotionally. I know that I get completely overwhelmed at times, especially by relationship issues, and just shut down. It doesn't mean I don't care; it just means I'm overwhelmed.
548583
I think you shouldnt even talk to your ex at all just ignore him, and you should tell your bf because he should know but just tell him andim sure it will be okay i mean you  you would want to know if his ex was emailing him right?
99673
i have a boyfriend, but i'm not shy to ask him anything. I think communication is important and so does he, so every time i have something to say, even if its awkward, he encourages me to say it and waits until i have the courage to spit it out!
905699
Don't do anything you don't want to do!!! But it is good. Your boyfriend is completely normal, but don't feel pressured.
324476
Without communication a relationship is nothing. If you can't talk to him then either the time is not right for you 2 to have a relationship or he's just not the right guy for you. I would reccommend being friends for now. This way you can become more comfortable with him and he with you. Start small and build up. You can't build a sturdy house without a good foundation.
199941
NO way. I would include my boyfriend and tell him what is going on to stress me out. If the relationship is a strong one then you should be able to lean on each other in the rough times. If the person is saying they want to leave someone because they are stressed at work I think that there is more going on, and they really aren't committed to the relationship if something as trivial as work is going to stress you out enough to leave. Maybe your better off, I mean would you want this person around if there was a tragedy or a sickness to deal with. Doesn't sound like a very strong person, and doesn't sound like someone that truly cares about you.