how do you get over a broken heart?
415484
No matter what anyone tries telling you.. its always going to be hard to get over someone after being with them for six years. But I think that your best bet is just to try and go out to do things that will get him off of your mind. Spend as much time with your friends as you can... keep busy! No matter what you do it will always hurt though. You just have to be strong and not give in to him if he does start to call.. because thats just letting him know that he can use you over and over. Dont let him know you're bothered by it. I wish you the best of luck and I hope that everything goes in your favor.
195745
if you had kids spend more and more time with them, go for outings and trips with them so that you can all have fun, go out with the "boyz" for late nights, join a club, group whatever will help you too keep yourself busy...........time is the only thing that will really help to heal broken hearts.
601717
well, first you have to forget about the idea of your 'one true love'. whether or not such a thing exists, she was obviously not it. for the other part - I'm sorry but I don;t know any shortcuts through a broken heart. give it time, try to get out and be around people who can distract you, try to find a job, hobby, or person to be excited about. One day you'll wake up and she wont be the first thing on your mind...I promise.
236533
1. Don't think about it. \n2. Hang out w/ friends.\n3. Try something you never done before.\n4. Occupy your time.\n5. Cry @ 1st and then get over it.\n6. Move on.\n7. You were too good for him anyway. \n8. Help others.\n9. Focus on you. \n\nJust to name a few...lol. Just try some of these. I hope u start feeling better and remember you will be fine in time. I promise in the future you will look back and say what the hell was I thinking for being w/ him in the first place!
36297
yes love hurts i do not care how in love you are it just really hurts . when you are dealen wth a broken heart you first need to find out if you ever have a second chance wth that person or not and if you have no chanch you just program your self to forget that person and you just tell yourself that you are beter off wthout him. its the hardest thang to do expecialy when you are still in love wth them but you have to realize that its not going to do you any good to sit around  feelen sorry for your self you get out there and act like you have every thang in the world going for you do not let yourself get depressed over it go out there and do somthing it will help you and the other party involved
129554
Do exactly that cry and get it out, talk about for a while. Only time heals a broken heart.
759583
Cry as much as you need too. Reach out to others. Believe you aren't going to die from a broken heart and when you are ready keep your heart open to receiving lots of love and good wishes from others.
315451
write down how u feel on a blank white paper..be clear of how you are feeling. when u do this, u'll know what's really bothering you.\nWrite down what makes you sad, and what makes you happy, and then focus on the one's that make u happy. most of the time, its the past that's holding one back. always remember its your present that will determine you're future, and you have to make sure being alone does not come as something that is bad...lots of things can be achieve even as you are alone, and trust me..as you write down what makes you happy, u'll realize life is worth the while\na heart can be broken, but not your dreams. rediscover it
173684
you can't i just lost my husband in oct. and it's been 5 months and you don't get over it. unless you throw yourself into something. and sometimes that doesn't even help. and of course friends mean well but they don't understand how you feel. it's up to you and you alone. you just live and take life day by day and that's all you can do....
878068
How to Get Over a Break Up\n\nWant to know how to get over a break up? Here are six secrets to help you get your life together and move on!\nDifficulty: Hard\nTime Required: Two Weeks to Three Months\n\nHere's How:\n\n1. Bond with other Singles.\n      At any given time, you probably have a mix of friends in loving relationships as well as those searching for love. Don't be afraid to look-up single friends you haven't seen or spoken to in awhile and make plans for Friday and Saturday night. You'll stay busy on the weekend and maybe even rekindle an old friendship.\n\n2. Start a Social Hobby.\n      If there is a hobby or activity you have been meaning to try for the first time, or take-up again, this is your chance. Focus on activities that allow you to meet new and interesting people. Examples might include a cooking class, sports league, or bridge club.\n\n3. Go Easy on the Next Person you Meet.\n      Beware of continuing unfinished business with the next person you meet. If you didn't have a chance to truly close the door on your last relationship, don't project your open issues on the next unsuspecting soul. See the new person as a clean slate and allow the relationship to unfold with no connections to your past.\n\n4. Don't Sling Shot your Ex.\n      It can be very tempting, particularly on lonely nights, to look up your ex or accept an invitation from your ex for a rekindle. The more you fall back on your old ways, the harder it will be to truly move on. Don't fall for the short term satisfaction of a night out or easy hook-up at the expense of stirring up all the hurt from the breakup.\n\n5. Apply What You've Learned.\n      Take out a journal and write down everything that went well versus what could have been better in your relationship. Be honest since you're the only one looking at the entry. What could you do better next time? What positive traits did your ex possess that you should look for in the next relationship, or maybe even incorporate into your own style?\n\n6. Talk About Something Else.\n      Everyone goes through a period of venting to their friends and family about what went wrong and how your ex deserves to go straight to prison. It's okay to do a little venting, but spare your inner circle from an endless tirade for months at a time. Commit to yourself that the next time you call a close friend, you'll focus exclusively on them. This will help you get out of your head
1024437
A broken heart is one of the worst pains to endure.\n\nI wish you well, and can tell you from experience, it gets much, much better. Be specific about what you want in a relationship, and I promise, you will find what you are looking for......or that person will find you. I'm not kidding. Happened to me, after the harshest broken heart that I thought I could ever undure.\n\nKeep on rollin'!
207526
My best remedy is a carton of chocolate/vanilla ice cream and a night out with the girls.  It usually takes a while to get over a guy, especially if you had really strong feelings for him.  Give yourself some time, things will work out.  You will find someone else better, just give it time.
1006946
The best way to get over one is find another. That's what my momma always told me & it's true. Lifes too short to pine away over someone who doesn't return your feelings. Move on sweety! You can do it! Have a positive attitude & find you another! Have a great day & God bless.
171487
You'll have to get over the heart break before you can move on. You have to be sure that you are emotionally prepared before you go out dating again.
406428
Just take things one day at a time, and remember that if you were meant to be with him, you will be eventually.  Take some time to mourn the loss of the relationship; give yourself an hour or two on days that you feel you need it, to turn on sad music, look at old pictures, and cry.  Then drop it, and do something for yourself.  I've had times when I thought the world was ending because of the end of a relationship.  I didn't know how I'd make it.  Eventually after going through this a few times, I realized that I can recover from anything.  So can you.
210634
If you're going to break a fellow's heart, you might as well try to cushion the blow a little. Be kind and supportive, remember you may well be on the other side of a break up someday, and imagine how you might feel. A little kindness never hurt anyone. Having said that, make sure you're firm, don't leave any hope in his heart for a second chance. You don't want him pining.
876874
in the long run, it makes you appreciate the good people that come into your life, although i am not going to lie...that heartbreak will always stay with you and you will find yourself reflecting back on the one who broke your heart...but you will move on and find someone else  =)