is it possible for a 38 year old guy to have no sex drive??
404489
wish i had that problem... heh heh heh.....
578360
Do NOT listen to this other drivel...Sometimes men, just like women lose some of the intensity of their sex drive for certain periods of time. He could be dealing with issues that you know nothing about...such as stress at work or with family, he could be having some problems with his libido... sit him down and talk to him, you won't find your answer by asking total strangers..only he can satisfy your curiosity. Peace.
953670
I'm sorry to hear that you are having this problem with your wife.......however it doesn't mean that this is the end of your relationship. Women begin experiencing many changes in their bodies in their 40's (for example, menopause doen't all happen at once, there are different phases, it may take years to fully get through it), and it could be very possible that these hormonal changes are causing her lack of sex drive.\n\nI would try to be as sensitive and supportive to your wife as possible, as she may be having a hard time dealing with this herself, and then to also feel that she's letting her husband down is also an emotional strain. Ask her questions about what and how she is feeling towards you, but not in a judgemental or  way, maybe phrase it like, "I've noticed that we haven't been intimate, I just wanted to talk about it and see if there's anything I can do because I miss our closeness." \n\nShe could also be feeling low self-esteem. Do you still let her know that she is the love of your life and you think she's the most beautiful woman you've ever seen? These sincere compliments can really lift a gal's spirits. Have you thought about surprising her with a date night, just out of the blue, something that she'd love to do. Remind her of the days you first started dating, relive some of your old memories together.  \n\nTell her as gently as you can that while she sees this as no big deal, you are feeling like something that the two of you once shared is missing, and it's important for you to understand why. We are all human beings and have needs, the fact that you so badly want to share this act of love with her and her only, but she's not interested is affecting you. \n\nIn conclusion, I think that in order to fix any of your problems, you'll have to open up the lines of communication. But I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that this is a sure sign of a failing relationship. Take into consideration all of the possible factors, and discuss them with your wife. Maybe a marriage counselor would help you both to express your feelings and concerns with each other. I wish you the best of luck, and remember to always tell your wife that you love her!
585771
Of course the man wouldnt be normally if he didnt get horny! thats natural for a man.Be happy!
468684
only when i see your online  ;)   lol  just kidding\n\nseriously most guys are aroused very often throughout the day and as you get older you can control yourself better although you dont think about sex less.
718352
Depends.  I am 44 and still resisting every hour.\nYou can tell if the following is true.\n\nIt gets in the way of normal living (compared to other people)\n\nThe pursute of sex harms your work,(missing work or office affairs) home ( affairs or sex without love) or social life (hitting on lady friends or buddies ladies)\n \nYou masterbate more than once a day or to a point of pain or beyond that.\n\nYou sleep with women well below what you think attractive and as soon as you get off, you want to run.\n\nSex releases a hormone in your brain as powerful as heroin, so other than living by a dumpster, you are likely living the life of a junkie.
585923
when you two do have sex...do you orgasm...\nif the answere is NO...that explaines the LOW drive...why do something if there is NO pleasure in it for you...\n\njust a thought....\n\nmaybe toys can help..\nthe thought of sex with NO toy is a turn off for me...means i go without and he gets pleasured...sucks big time...
541783
nope.  i use to think that after a certain age it was unhealthy and unnatural.  then i thought about people with no libido and self imposed celibacy.  these people are vital, functioning and just as sane/insane as the rest of the world.  sex isn't everything to everybody.
218527
There could be many reasons for lack of sex drive...both medical and physical. In your case, as you mention, "equipment works fine" (I have that problem with exercise..the equipment works, I don't want to do it..LOL)...but you could suffer from depression, have stress in your life (some of which you may not even realize) and medically, it could be hormonal, a side effect of an illness such as diabetes that you may not be aware of. There are lots of reasons and only your doctor could tell you exactly what it may or may not be. Good luck!
243038
Not all women have low sex drives. The mood swings and being tired sounds like she is going through menopause. Women start menopause early even though they don't know it. It starts in the mid 30s on some women. Just be there for her and maybe suggest marriage counseling or try to get her to suggest it herself.
1142293
Yes. I've heard from personal stories. Everybody's different. He may be one with low sex drive, or yours higher. Could even be psycological issues, though I don't think that is usually the case. Happy bed time!
196073
GOOD FOR YOU!!!!   Don't deny your sexuality.  There is NOTHING wrong with you.  There is something wrong with our society if we think it is wrong to have a sex drive when you aer old.  KEEP FEEDING THOSE DESIRES!!!
610657
could be true as I was always thin and had plenty of regular sex over my 25 years of marriage. I have put on weight after menopause and don't have sex as often as before.
604721
Girl don't fret it!!  I turned 24 in November...I had a very low if any sex drive! Now I'm a horn ball!!! ALSO....  Once I started to "expieriment" (for lack of better words) with my body, the most my sex drive went up...Girls don't hit their sexual prime until they're in there mid to late 20's...you've got time!!  For a right now solution....try watching a dirty movie, or reading a romance novel...it use to help me!!  GOOD LUCK HONEY!!!
680604
After hitting 40, I definitely felt more "awake" than I had previously. I seemed to develop a certain level of awareness that I didn't possess at 20. I think that after 40, one stops taking things for granted, and thus, learns to appreciate everything more. As for your chronic horniness, that can certainly happen. For some people, it's the opposite, though, and their libido decreases. Anyway, to me, the awareness I gained at 40 seemed to be more of a spiritual matter than a second teenage hormonal surge.
137448
YES ,it's normal every woman peaks differntly,i heard in thier 40's.I'm a 36old man and i prefer older women because of better sex and mostly they know what they want.hell feel good about .I think you feel good about your self .Being overly active does,nt mean your a sluty nympho .heck i wish i had a women with that problem..Rock on and have fun..
776203
hurray for living,  no age limit on the sex drive, maybe the volumn though, lol\nmost is psych. if you believe, go for it.