i recently started to feel i must have a 6 pack or girls won't like me.?
404793
You sound like a guy I know. He's determined to do the same thing and he's set his mind on not bothering with girls until he's 21. Don't ask why but he's one of those fellas who likes to be certain I guess. Don't worry about being amazingly good-looking underneath your clothes mate, if a girl likes you, she'll like you for who you are. You don't have to mess with the fact you could be different just for their sake. I'm sure you have your own requirements for a girl though, so you should take into consideration what you're aiming for aswell as how you're feeling. Good luck with those girls.
456903
I think it all depends on the guy, when I was heavy I did notice that my choice in girlfriends were based on character. But once I dropped a ton of weight and actually developed a good body my choices lately haven't been based on character but rather on looks and well lets just say the last few experiences haven't been all that great.
917252
i dont know why u have done that, (put your pics up) i think you seem to be very incecure it is your weight?? any girl who would fall in love with you is a question we cant answer or cant predict, she will come alone one day. u seem really sweet dont let her walk all over u when the time comes. good luck sweetie chin up hun xxxx
890331
You are attractive and will always be. That's not the real problem.\n\nYou're not horribly overweight yet, but at this rate, you will be soon. \nAddicted to food that makes you gain that much weight is something you need to talk to your doctor about. If it's not emotional, it could be medical.
1103159
Sounds like you have some major emotional issues.  Not all old people are fat and not all people your age are "skinny".
715575
They are probably just scared of you losing weight. Your obviously already a very pretty girl and they might just be jealous and worried. I would DEFINITELY cheer my friend on....heck I'd probably work out with her and we'd lost it together!! YOU GO GIRL!! YOUR AWESOME!!
161124
if you feel good about the way you look then to hell with "everybody"  if you think you really are thin...have a snack!  good luck
913237
If you have been discribed as "willowy" by others, it sounds like you have a very different self-image than what others see.  "Willowy" usually means exactly what it implies, tall, slender, long limbs.  I'm not sure how old you are but if you are in your early teens, chances are you haven't gotten used to your newly developed body.  I remember how painful it was for me, especially graduating from a training bra to a real one.  I was so self conscious of how I "stuck out" where I used to be flat.  Don't let yourself be led astray by diet and exercise plans that promise to change the way you look drastically.  If you are self conscious of your bust, there are minimizing bras that support without pushing everything up and out.  If you are like me, I can't find clothes long enough in the sleeves or pant lengths.  Todays styles are body clinging, form fitting, which, if you are self conscious, will make you feel worse.  Find a friend, or someone you trust completely, and go on a clothes trying on spree.  Find a style that you like and suits you.  Go into stores that are  normally not your style, or price range and HAVE FUN WITH IT.  It costs nothing to shop and try on clothes, the decision to buy is up to you.  This will give you a chance to check out new styles you may not have conisdered, and give you ideas for dfferent styles.  Tall Girl (here in Canada) is great for taller women, better proportioned all over.  Who knows, maybe you'll discover a love for sewing and make your own clothes.  I'm not suggesting you don't exercise, exercise is an important part of daily life.  Do it.  But please be gentle on yourself, we are always our own worst critics.  God made you beautiful just the way you are.  Look in the mirror every day and find one thing to complement yourself on.  Record those observations every day, and when you feel especially down, go back and read all those wonderful things about yourself.  You are more wonderful than you may know.  Believe that, OK?!
317092
It sounds like they want a response from you or maybe they want to make you feel bad about your weight. \nYou should try to talk to them about this and let them know how you feel. If they don't try to change, I'd work on finding some new friends. Friends should never upset you and hurt your feelings on purpose!
658575
i dont want to be rude, but the only thing that helps is maturity, if your weight is the only thing u think about, then u have a maturity problem....you are beautiful just the way u r, and u need to realize that.....every girl goes through this, so ur not alone....but u have accept yourself, good luck
307150
Not all men have the same likes as women. I was told to just be myself and love would come. Heck, I first had to find out who I was and by the time I finally found me, I weighed so much that there was nobodyhere to look at me. Figure that.\nThinking of it, I am so happy now. I have learned how to get the most out of life by myself and not have to share my food. Hahahha. Thanks for your responses. The answers are great.
654911
Maybe you should change your mindset first and accept your body the way it is.\nA lot of women envy you for that what nature has given to you!!\nBut I could imagine that doing certain type of exercises could help you. If I look at female body builders, it seems to have an impact.. Hopefully not only because of the hormones they might be taking...
460408
Ah, Shallow Hal? That movie cracked me up! It's kind of sad that you can't seem to see the person who may be inside of their fat bodies. Depending on how old you are it could be baby fat, sometimes girls do not shed their baby fat until jr. high or high school! Maybe you should look for slender women at the health clubs. Or at the local public pools, they will be the ones swimming the laps. Yes, I think fast food is one of the BIG problems with young people and their weight this time (this is not a gender specific problem either!)...\n\nGirls/Women have to deal with different hormones and things like periods and bloating once a month. Most girls have a curious love of chocolate, and if you find a woman who has PMS, chocolate may save your life one day!\n\nPerhaps it's a lack of motivation to lose the weight or it could be that it's genetic, maybe you could take one of these hefty hefty hefty gals and turn them into the wimpy wimpy wimpy of your dreams? \n\nGood luck, nobody is perfect. It could be that although you are slender, and in good shape...you may not have enough other qualities to be able to get the slender babes to want you. Quite often if a woman looks real hot, she KNOWS it!  But go for it, nothing beats a try but a failure. Summer is coming, so the pools and the beaches should be good hunting ground for the women who have the body to show off their bikinis.  Have fun!\nruthie~
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I think you should stop worrying about your size!  Chicks don't dig what's under the pants necessarily, they dig what's under the shirt. And I mean your personality. If you are so insecure that you actually have to ask this, I'm sorry but your size WILL NOT matter. It's confidence that needs to be just right.
340003
You sound pretty normal to me. Forget trying to be model thin. It really isn't worth it. You are a girl and girls are suppose to have curves. It's what separates you from the boys.Be proud of any curves you have.
921907
if u dont feel comforatable in ur body then change it...but thats not the right way...trust me...cut back on sugar and start running...maybe if u got to like 115 or something that might look ok but i dont know im a little younger than u...but remember when nicole richie lost all the weight she was 5''1 and weighed 90lbs and she looked horrible...ur 2 inches taller u would look even worse...guys will like u better if u have a body...plus ull have boobs...guys like that
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maybe you need to take a good hard look at your attitude!! you only like hot girls, mayb these so called hot girls are as superficial as you and only like hot boys\n\nlearn to get to know people and dont judge ppl by looks, and mybe they wont judge you