If I thought that this guy was my cousin and found out he isn't,.. should I try to date him?
413886
I understand why he does not want to cuddle and so on. You said that you thought you two were cousins "for the longest time", well just because you find out that you two are not does not make him feel different towards you.....you are still family.
858173
Lots of people are attracted to their cousins when they are young.  But you are right--it can't go anywhere, so it'll just always be a bittersweet memory of what could have been.  Look elsewhere for a real boyfriend.
1178492
I would think he likes his cousin and thinks you are being disrespectful (which you are) to be making fun of his girlfriend.  Grow up and stop acting like your 10.
358780
Trust me at 19 you are gonna wish you had dated more, i was in a similar situation.  They guy and I dated for 4 or  rs although he was a good guy there was no motivation or goals I found out on my own and ended up leaving him for someone else. You have to ask what is your future with that person and is your family going o ever accept him?
617558
no!!!! ur a minor. he could get arrested! unless he's ur cousin or something.
541232
WELL YOUR FRIEND MAY START THINKING THAT YOU ARE JSUT LIKE YOUR COUSIN AND JUST WANT TO SLEEP WITH EVERY GUY YOU DATE FOR A FEW DAYS \n\nALSO IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT THEN THEY MAY PUT YOU IN BETWEEN AND BLAME YOU AND MANY NAME CALLINGS WILL DONE \n\nYEAH REPUTATION IS ON THE LINE
523705
Well, this is tricky becuase she is your cousin... I would assume she knew you liked the guy...do you think you could forgive her? I'd say try, as long as its not something thats going to bother you every time you see her or something you may keep throwing in her face. I'd say if you can get past it and move on, try. \n\nBut remember: Always forgive, but never forget.\n\nIf she ever does it again, kick her to the curb. No one needs people like that in their lives, cousin or no cousin.\n\nNow does this guy know you like him? I'm guessing so if you say you guys were thinking about going out... you should rethink some stuff becuase if he knew and went and slept with your cousin, thats pretty low.\n\nGood luck! :)
1030341
first, why do you care? i doubt you could date him.\n\nno. he's not. \n\nas far as we know.
57765
if your cousin in a "player" then he would not be sprung over a girl .maybe after all he isn't a player
107757
If you are asking what I think you are you would be better off moving on to the next guy. go find one thats good for you and treats you right. you deserve it.
267893
thats not fair to your current dude, u should tell him how u feel. maybe he'll step his game up to keep your mind on him.     i would
718289
Oh, no! Don't let someone else find out! Just ask him to his face! Find him ALONE, so he is not put on the spot in front of friends, and You can say it like this..."if You had the lucky opportunity to date a girl as nice as I am, would you be interested?" This exercise has a risk! He could be low-down and negative and answer flippantly or meanly--which could hurt your feelings, if you are alone, then no one sees this behaviour--BUT! if he has a chance to see your sincerity, then he MIGHT say "Wow! That would be great! I WOULD be lucky!" and the rest could be HISTORY!!! Good Luck to you, honey, you have your whole life ahead of you and no matter what THIS one says, there are always going to be more nice fellas--hold out for a GOOD one!
739064
ok if hes 13 you must be the same age ? so you guys shouldnt be doing THAT THING how the hell do you know what to do lol i dunt know and nows he trying to get with your 11 year old cousin stay away from them both honestly
1164878
I would ask him out...take the chance and run with it...ya never know he could be your soulmate.....Good Luck
784562
You should definitely dodge the Christian you have gotten close to. He's already laying a guilt trip on you, what's next?\n\nFollow your desires as you see them and date the non-Christian if he seems like a decent guy.\n\n((((( r u randy? )))))\n.
1094430
ask ur cousin y he or she told u 2 stay away from him. if he or she has a good reason then u should probably stay away but if it is just because he or she doesn't like the guy then use ur good judgement.
546090
I would say out of respect for you, No.  Why would they want to date someone who you where close with and put you into that situation.  Its not selfish for you to think this.  my advice is to be honest.  You can't stop the relationship but you can be straight with them about this.