i need sum 1 who will love me till death.. i hav had 4 break ups....when will i find the guy of my life??
404251
Hi,\nIt all depends on A) the reason for the breakups and B) What you are after. My momma told me that life was like a box of chocolates.. But I don't think that's right, I think no square is perfectly matched to fit a corresponding hole, over time though the shapes can be worn down to match. In other words - It takes effort to stay or even fall in love and make it last, but it's worth it. The simplest way is to stop looking for love and make lots of friends one day that great fit might just happen..\n\nThat didn't make much sense but I know what I meant.
197569
this is tough. sometimes, when yuo see love around you, you seek to feel the way others do. to find that one special person and share your life with them. they say that there is a soulmate for every person in the world but sometimes they dont find each other in there lives. You can be patient and wait for your guy to come around for you, but he may be waiting for you.
69964
this is a very hard one and i av 2 be careful what i recommend. but in the final anlyses the decision rests with you.do u really really love him enough to risk jeorpardising your new life? is it not because you compare everyone unfairly with him that is why you av not found someone else? has he really changed or YOU really want him to have changed? If he has not changed do you forsee a future with him?make the choice, nobody can or will for you
1011655
I have the same problem its happened about 4 times to me. But i think that its meant to happen. i know its hard right now...and i know everyone says it will get better and i truly think it will. But you just have to remember there are a lot of good people with good hearts out there. And one of them is absolutly meant just for you. I hope that you find that someone soon.
1098229
have a break girl.. think of other stuff, you love life while sort itself out.......cupid will turn up when you least expect it .... your soul mate is out there be patient.... hope you find some one really nice soon
559049
NO sorry I can't you need to just give yourself time and one day your sole mate will come along and you will realize that the one who you thought broke your heart didn't even have it to break! You will look back down the road of your life and see that everyone in your life had some part they played to get you to your soul mate! All the girls or ladies in you past was just detours and and have to find you way back to the main road of your life to find your soul mate!
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
22857
There is always someone for someone.  Trust me.  I didn't think that i would have a serious relationship ever again after... well we won't go there, lol, but I found the man I want to be with for the rest of my life.  And we both love each other. Don't give up hope.  There is someone out there for you.. just keep looking.
538712
find you someone who will be compatible and in love with you\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
648644
Sometimes, if you just wait, you will be waiting for a long time.  You see, love is one thing that does not necessarily always come looking for you.  I am 18 and i have found love; i have found my one soulmate with whom i am destined to spend the rest of my life.  I almost did not find her, because i was just waiting for love to come into my life.  Only when i started looking and showing interest did she come into my life.  The key is not to look for love in the wrong places, rather, look for it where you'll meet someone who you could imagine spending the rest of your life might be.  Don't go being desperate for love, however.  This will cause you worse heartache than being lonely.  Patience: when it is time, love will come to you; you just might have to help it along a little.  I am sure things will work out for you.  Good luck in love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
732180
i think you havent found a true person at heart. if that perso lives you she will not have a problem in how long it took you to be in another relationship so dont go around looking for something you dont want but rather keep looking until that which you want also wants you in return regardless of your circumstances
268016
You are not alone! If any one has gamble in love, then, at one time or another they too, were in this situation.  A few weeks ago I seen a segment on TV about a woman who actually makes her living helping others that have broke up from their mates. This is how devastating a breakup can be.  The first thing she did was make sure the person did not become a couch or bed potato.  She said you have to get back into the world as soon as possible.  I realize that you are more concerned about the daily thing, and seeing him all the time.  Just, get up every morning, always fix yourself up and dress 'hot'.  Lean on your friends when you have to see him or be in the same class with him. Everyone has that one friend that makes you laugh alot, you need her now more than ever. Continue your life as close to normal as possible. Scope out someone else that you might be interested in dating and start conversations with him. You may not be ready, but get ready. Your X will see that your life has not stopped because he walked out. And by moving forward and keeping a good appearance and attitude, he will definitely take notice. I don't if you want him back or not, but moving on to another relation ship always makes the other one feel rejected and if someone else wants you, so does Mr X. You got the power..now, GO GIRL!!!
845151
LOVE WILL COME TO YOU IN DUE TIME..HAVE PATIENCE.  I KNOW IT SUCKS TO BE ALONE, BUT TO BE HONEST WITH YOU SOMETIMES ITS BETTER THAT WAY.
331991
You won't find them. They'll find you. It will happen eventually. It takes time though. Remember that good things happen to those who wait. If you're meant to find that one true love you will, other wise. It wasn't in the cards for you. But just keep waiting. Love is grand. and will come to you eventually. Hope you find what you're looking for someday. Best of luck to you in life and with your girl. Peace be with you my friend. \nJJJ
1071630
i had a boy friend that broke my heart and trust,but dont worry you will find another that may be for life be patient and the right 1 will come
633234
Aww honey don't be sad. I just broke up with my fiance last Tuesday and we lived together I know how much this hurts. However you have to remember that what is meant to be will be. If you and him are meant to be together nothing, and I mean nothing can keep you apart. You need to stay busy and dont think about it. I know how easy it is right now to overanalyze every little detail. Don't. Thats just going to bring you down more. Look into the future, always have hope and take care of yourself. Surround yourself with friends and family and remember "this too shall pass"
428043
Realize that for everytime you are hurt in life, it is helping you to become a stronger person. In the end, God will heal your heart and give you a new love, one of which will be so abundant you will not have enough room in your heart to receive it. It could even be the person that broke up with you, but maybe God has to work on that person and on you to make you perfect for each other. If not perfect for each other, He is making you and someone He will send to you perfect for each other. So just hold on, keep your head up, and have faith. Love will endureth in the end! You are in my prayers!