Is it normal for a married man to sleep on the couch?
395963
How wonderful that you and your wife have adopted a daughter! Congratulations! Perhaps you should tell you wife you're a light sleeper and you sleep better on the couch. And that your rest is very important to you as you don't want to suffer from lack of it and your goal is to get a bigger house so you can once again enjoy sleeping her.
414040
Honey, you are a normal military wife!!  My husband just returned from a 1 year tour in Iraq and I am still trying to catch up on sleep.  There will not be a minute that passes that you will not wonder what he is doing, what he is thinking, where he is, is he asleep, is he eating, has he had a shower?  All these things will run through your mind every day until he is home safe in your arms.\nYou need to stay as busy as possible, it really does help to pass the time.  I started going back to school and those 2 days a week taking classes and raising a teenager really helped me a lot.  Also I went to Hobby Lobby and bought a scrapbook (my husband is Army, they have all military branches) and started from boot camp, then to AIT and so on and every time he is deployed that is my project I work on his scrapbook.  He has no idea I have it, so when he retires that will be my gift to him!  \nAnd last always keep someone on close that you can call on day or night, because you never know when you will need a shoulder to cry on.  If you live on a military post you should have no trouble finding anyone who is in the same shoes you are in.  Last summer when all of our husbands where deployed there where 6 of us wives and we were always there for one another day or night.\nI hope this helps you.  And just hang in there, he will be home before you know it.\nGod bless you and your husband
575657
Hey girl....i went through about the same thing, My opinion is...if your relationship isn't working in the living room....it isn't going to work in the "bedroom"....i told my husband i wasn't sure if we were "in love"anymore...., It kick-started him, and we are getting along much better now.....i dont mind him touching me now....i dont feel "used" now.      Good luck!
103230
I'd try to answer your question, but this couch is sooooooooo comfortable and I'm a little sleepy.  Maybe tomorrow.
264240
I used to work the night shift...10 days on, 5 days off. It's hard going back & forth..sleeping during the day then sleeping at night. EVERY night that I was off I would wake up at 2am horny as hell. My hubby was laying there so I would just go to town. I think he would just pretend to be asleep sometimes.
525847
No... he is dreaming.  You have no more control over your own dreams as you do your spouses.  For all you know, he could be talking about his 80 year old neighbor that used to terrorize him as a kid, so now she haunts his nightmares.\n\nJust let it go.  It means absolutely nothing.
403250
As often as his wife will let him. Though men do slow down a bit by this age, many times their wives are hitting their sexual peak, so he doesn't really get to rest.
900734
can't blame you for getting frustrated...what you need is a break. meaning...go somewhere else with your husband, take a trip to a new place or a place where you've been to before and had a great time...\nsometimes it takes much more than "holding it" to ignite things... a change of environment once in a while is good for both of you.\ni think your husband feels stressed out, or something is really troubling him and doesnt want to tell you what...but that's another story...\n\nand about your question if its normal for him to not want to have sex, my answer would be yes. My husband is like that..sometimes...esp when he's tired, i realized my energy level is higher than his so i try my best to meet halfway...husbands are lazy when they are tired and sleepy even if as you put it...you are a hottie.\n\nGood luck to you and your hubby...
952684
I understand he might have fears about the baby, but other than that, I'm confused.  My husband actually requests more sex when he's stressed out.  It relaxes him.  I think he's being selfish personally.
350927
No, he's suffering from "inconsideration". He gets his and it's done for him. If you hadn't said "husband" i would have suggested you drop him like a bad habit. But since you're married, sit him down and in a non-accusatory tone tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him you'd like to enjoy sex too. Tell him Men are like ovens, they heat up quick. Women are like crock pots, the take some time to heat up. He needs to be attentive to your needs. He needs to give you a little foreplay. He needs to find out what you like and enjoy and then give it to you. Or you might want to consider not "giving it" to him until he gets a clue. Good luck.
57269
It is perfectly normal. I am not sure what you mean my loathe himself to sleep, but if it helps him sleep and the music helps him then I don't see any problems at all with it. Many adults do that as well.
552098
By yourself or as a couple?\nBy yourself, I don't know, I guess wherever you feel like it.\nBut as a couple, I read, that men tend to sleep closer to the door, or the women if they're the dominant ones in the relationship. Men sleeping closer to the door may have come from cavemen sleeping closer to the entry to protect women from attack...at least that's what i read
440120
Whatever is good for you. There is no "normal" for this. Some people have a higher desire and may have relations twice a day. Others may have a lower desire and have relations once a month. On average, the typical married couple has relations about three or four times a month. Often, they are too tired during the week and typically use Saturday evening for this activity. But again, it depends on you and your wife. If you have the desire for more or less often, then that is entirely up to you.\n\nAnd congratulations on having such an excellent relationship. I have friends from India who say their marriages were arranged between the families, and they get along wonderfully because everyone is involved in the success of the marriage.
1184886
It's normal.  My hubby is 61, we've been married 32 years.  He is ALWAYS horny.
336210
i guess its fine but unhealthy.. it means that u have an unconscious desire of sleeping w/ur colleague or somebody else..\n\nu need 2 ask urself what's missing in ur sex life. maybe u need 2 look 4 new sex adventures.. but w/ur wife ok.
377239
I feel your pain, my husband thinks of sleeping as the greatest hobby. But over the years, I have just come to accept that it is one of his qwirks, and even though it bugs me, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love me, it just means he likes to sleep.
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I haven't seen the TV ads, but most snoring requires more than throat rinses, nose strips, etc, although you can get him some of the rinse and see if it works - I'm dubious.\n\nSnoring can be a symptom of a very serious disorder called sleep apnea, which can, if untreated, lead to heart damage and even death. \n\nIf you snore softly once in a while, then this is probably not apnea, but if you shake the house, snore like a bear, and drive your spouse to the guest bedroom, then apnea is a distinct probability. Sounds like your husband is in the second group, so he needs medical help, not poking, smothering, or kicking!\n\nApnea is usually treated with the use of a device called a CPAP. He can't just buy one of these - they are sold only on prescription, as the pressure needs to be adjusted to his individual needs, with too high pressure being as dangerous as too low. CPAP stops snoring 100% and usually makes the patient feel generally more energetic and alert during the day as well.\n\nPlease get him to ask his doctor to refer him to a sleep clinic right away. They usually have a long waiting list, and it's important to get the process started ASAP.