How do you dance with  random girls @ a club?
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I love it when a guy comes up to me smiles, and ASKS.  Most of the time I dance with him. His skill as a dancer will lead to another dance.
919090
My idea for you is to have a nightclub themed party. You can name your nightclub "birthday" or "17". Send out invitation as if they were to visit the exclusive V.I.P room of this new club, but make sure people know it's for your birthday party. Decorate by exchanging your normal lights for blacklights, colored light bulbs, and soft lighting. Have each room or section of your house as a different section of the club. The techno room, the video games room, the hip-hop room, the hang-out room. \n\nSince I'm assuming you aren't going to drink, make some mocktails. A good site for recipes is http://www.healthunit.on.ca/mocktails/recipes.html. Pick about 5-10 of your favorites and make a menu to sit at your "bar". Have someone mixing drinks (an older sibling, a friend). Serve the drinks in cocktail glasses, tumblers and martini glasses. \n\nThe best place to get invitations are these sites http://www.birthdayinvitation.org/ http://www.classiccommunication.com/\nhttp://www.cardsshoppe.com/\nOR you can do your own invitation online at evite.com and e-mail it to everyone. That's what I would recommend. \n\nI think you sould serve pizza or something easy and fast. You can even go out a buy a bunch of frozen foods at your local warehouse store and cook them all up before the party. Don't pay for delivery, go out and buy frozen pizzas, or for even more fun, get all cheese frozen pizzas and have people garnish their own slices. Have peperoni, diced chicken, sausage, peppers, tomatoes, bacon ,and other things that you like on pizza. Make sure you have a cake, and have it iced bright white so it stands out under the lights. \n\nThe last thing you need is yourself. Don't let the party planning stress you out too much and just have a good time. It's all about you so make it really personalized. And have fun! You deserve it.
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guys wanna meet girls.  we dont really plan furhter than that usually.  however, a bar hook up almost never lasts.  a club hook up is likewise more physical than anything.  try cafes, starbucks, rallys, places where people are: a. sober b. paying attention and c. able to actually have a conversation.  this way if there is a hook up its about more than how you dance or the drunken flirting you both participated in.
890399
Wait til you are ready. But I hope you are going out with your friends. Sometimes a girls night out is what you need.
697067
Go clubbing. \nOr just hang out. Or go shopping. \nI would just hang out with each other talking n stuff.
94067
just move with a rythm. dont care about what people are saying, or how stupid they think you look. it'll be wierd, but try to have fun
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dress nice, make yourself look good and dont make it seem like your desperate! go out to the club or to a party! just have some fun and then out of nowhere someone will have their eye on you and you wouldnt even have known it!
34179
well start by  talking to people you know.. talk to your gurl friends and see if you have anything in common, if that dosnt work, go out to party and u will meet sumbody
29823
When together, try to flirt with other girls or make admirative comments about other girls. Watch her immediate reaction. Listen to her replies!
251712
Do you know how to dance? Ask her out to dance with you. Guys who dance are very attractive to gals. Remember to approach her like a gentleman and ask her for a dance. Then hold her hand gently and move smoothly. When you finish, give her a single gentle kiss on the hand while gazing in her eyes. If that doesn't make her realize how much you like her, she may just not be the one for you. Good luck with whatever you do. =>
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in a bar/club on a ladies night
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Just join the clubs you are interested in. You'll soon make friends.
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tell her to meet you at a bar.  tell her you'll be wearing a certain color.  wear a completely diff one.  If you see her and like her tell her you had to change because you spilled something on it.  If you don't like her you can fade away into the background and meet other people and just ignore her.  If she approaches you say you're not him and don't know who she's talking about.
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Go to the restaurant ahead of time and make sure to get the best table, tip if you have too. Doesn't hurt to get know someone there. That way if you have any table settings or special candles, you can serve it up before hand and surprise the girls. Then, After the dance, since you have already secured a room at a motel and stocked it with booze, you'll be all set to toss a few back, WITHOUT getting crocked, just get a nice warm glow for you and a drink, maybe two for the girl and set to chill. Ahh, memories.
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I was in the same situation not long ago.  I went out with friends or sometimes by myself to the local Lounge to listen to the band.  Men will usually buy you drinks and ask you to dance.  Don't try and look for someone, just go out to have fun.  Love will find you
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answer the Question.... if you like one of the clubs.... and if you go there. \nNot command some dumb stuff no one wants to know. You aint answered the Question so you are no help to this person.\nCome one People be serious people need help here not someone to joke around.
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If they're friendly and your age group...Mingle with some of them.  Hopefully in a class or two, or just meet up with them in the hall.  Ask if they're a closed club, or can you be a part of the group.  Otherwise, befriend one, and just kinda blend in.  My question to you is what's make this group one you'd like to belong to???