what's the diffrence Between Flirting and the real thing?
409527
flirting is fun but can lead to the real thing.  try flirting back.
658367
What your intentions were determines if it is flirting.\n\nIf you honestly were just being social no.\nIf you had a little bit of an adgenda (like getting him to notice you) even if the words were innocent it was flirting.  \n\nSome of the most successful flirting is done sincerely like a person just cares about another person almost like an antiflirt.
724773
When I am in the company of girls I know I give them lots of compliments and try to do nice things for them and make them laugh. I just like being nice but I don't think I am flirting as I am not making any suggestions to them such as 'we look good together' or 'I am free on Saturday's'. I prefer to think I am being gentlemanly.\n\nI think for it to be flirting you have to convey a clear message of wanting to take things further, either by body language or verbal. \n\nCare must be taken not to misinterpret by checking out with the suspected flirter if what you think they meant is what they meant. Clothes, however revealing, nor location, should never be taken as flirting and even when flirting does occur the person has a right to change their mind at any time.\n\nBeing self-aware is important so that you know how others take your normal behaviour. Honesty also is needed to admit when you have been flirting as we all feel the need to have our needs met and our qualities appreciated sometimes.\n\nDeliberate flirting does frequently occur of-course. It is perhaps best just acknowledged in a friendly manner and not acted on until the person flirting has made themselves absolutely clear through their words.\n\nYou can also use a mutual friend to assist the confirmation of the flirting but never take this as proof, as it hasn't come directly from the person in question.\n\nIt is true that we sometimes see flirting because we want to and that we sometimes are oblivious to others subtle messages to us.\n\nAnother help is to see how the flirter, even if it is you, is acting with others of the same gender as the person they have supposedly been flirting with, as it might just be their manner.\n\nBest advice? Never take flirting as a definitive sign of significant interest from a person.
690499
I suppose one can cross the line. As long as both parties seem to be agreeable, what is the harm. If two people find themselves comfortable with each other enough to flirt, so be it.
230516
love is deeper than flirting.. does this someone call you? does she miss you whenever shes not with you? or does she just like you when your around... Is your relationship based on physical things or on mental? all of these are questions you should ask yourself when you want to know if it is love... Good luck with this though..
299618
um\nboth equally.\nhe shouldnt be flirting with you\nand you shouldnt be provoking it\n\nmost likely if you quit flirting back, he'll get the hint and move on to someone else.
828840
whats the difference,..its still an affair!!!
178121
Hell No! Seduction is a bad word by itself. A little flirting is ok but SEDUCTION? no way!
1147481
My answer is don't do anything that seems like your flirting.  In other words, from my experience guys seem to read women wrong.  If You are totally flirting most guys think your not.  AND when YOU ARE NOT flirting guys think you are.
871039
it just pings off all the right hormones, it's (supposed to be) clever and funny conversation, that anyone can get into with anyone else because you chat about common things, and express common sentimentl. it's about paying people compliments and getting them back, enjoying someone's company and showing that you do! \n\nYou excercise your powers of observation, everything doesn't have to be true, flirting isn't supposed to make people feel bad, just happy, attractive and appreciated...\n\nanybody would love that! I just wish more people would go there.
215601
Umm...well...Eden has perhaps missed the question's point...flirting as in initial content or introducing yourself...not getting to the "I love you" portion of a relationship yet...what holds my attention is eye contact...hold me with your eyes...hold my attention with your stare as we are introduced...or your saying "hi..."....
34563
because sometimes flirting is just that...flirting. Flirting is just fun and doesnt necessarily mean anything.
510609
Flirtation crosses the line when it accompanies attraction.  My husband, for example, is a harmless flirt: he flirts with any woman who wouldn't really take him seriously (elderly ladies, for example), and if someone does act interested or attracted, he shuts down immediately.  I think that flirting crosses the line when the individual who is flirting says or does things that s/he wouldn't say or do if their significant other were standing within earshot.  It's hard, too, to define the term "flirting."  It's a subjective term, and "flirting" as in sexually suggestive movements or language is quite distinct from "flirting" as in playful and friendly behavior.
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To the flirting guy.. not always.\n\nTease can be either \n\n1.) a playfull flirting \nOR\n2.) a cruel harassment\n\nSomeone who is teased is made fun of, like by a bully.
195949
"Flirting is a form of human interaction, usually expressing a sexual or romantic interest in the other person. It can consist of conversation, body language, and/or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or mutual."
767216
i do both. right now my gal is going through a hard time so i make flirty jokes and goof around a bit while still being serious and helping her through her rough patch even though one minue she is all gushy and lovey-dovey and the next she wants me dead. i hope this helps you out.
1148155
That's a good question, I like that one. Well, I guess a lot of flirting is subtle.....but this week I was hit on two times, and both guys were kinda hunky....though I think ther intentions were dishonorable, I was flattered, because I am in my forties with two teenage children! I thought "Great! I haven't lost it yet!!"\n\nMy partner flirts with me all the time which helps keep our relationship alive.