Girls, how would u feel if a guy, that you don't like more than a friend, suddenly holds your hand?
400720
It totally depends on the circumstances.  Holding hands is common among friends in many cultures.  For me, a lot would depend on how he approached it and how he acted once he was holding my hand.  If he was trying to get romantic at the same time, it would probably bother me.  If he just held it and went on like nothing happened, I would probably assume it was just a friendly gesture.
407817
It really depends on you and him... If you guys are really good friends and you guys understand eachother then, why not just tell him how you feel about him?? You know him better than anyone else and if you feel that he's going to act differently towards you b/c you told him how you felt then I would suggest that you keep at a friendship level... You never know though he could poossibly be feeling the same way.. To be honest if he was really a good friend reguardless of whether he feels the same or not he will be able to continue being your friend afterwards.. I would take that chance, you'll never really know unless you try. But in the end that's just my opinion, the decision is really yours to make in the end.... Good Luck!!!!!
1107005
I know that feeling (the terribal feeling not very well)\nTry to be nice, if you are not feeling what he is... Just be honest, your friendship will change of course but he knows it will, he took the risk by saying he loves you...\nDo not be rude he is just been honest, but you do not share the feeling so be clear state it correctly... \nRelation will change so be prepare you will never look at him as it was before, but you can be mature enough to go over this bad feeling you have and time will put you back together again and you will someday laugh about, if you both are real friends OK... sooner or latter you will accept him as he is.
982364
Well, this seems to be a tricky situation. I have been in a similar, yet not so intimate situation, with another friend. Now let me tell you what I did to solve the situation. This answer may give you an idea as to what your next step should be. \nI didn't feel the same way because I thought it was forced. I love my friend in lots of ways but when it feels forced then it is hard to get past the idea that we are not friends. At that time I felt uncomfortable. He likes me still. But I told him that we could just be friends. Now we are still friends and we're glad for it. Sometimes the timing may not be right or she feels it is forced. At this moment cherish the fact that you guys are friends. When the time feels right she will automatically open up to you. At that time, it will not feel forced and you will not have lost a good friend. Remember people feel uncomfortable and forced in many different ways.\nSee, differences between individuals are evident in any relationship, but it is how one handles those differences within the relationship that matters. Are you willing to lose a good friend over your desire for it to be more than that? Decision is up to you.
256399
He could either:\n1)feel the same way about you\n2)just like you as a friend still\n3)not want to be your friend any more (unlikely)
334094
This is confusing were you guys dating or not?  \n\nIf yes, and he said i love you but you didn't feel that way...why were you dating him in the first place?\n\nIf no, just tell him straight out that you don't feel that way about him but he's an amazing friend and you hope you guys can remain friends because this friendship means a lot to you.
15022
ask yourself:\ndoes he look at you differently than your other guy friends?\ndoes he do things you ask him to do without the expectation of him actually doing it?\ndoes he find ways to always touch you? (i.e lots of hugs or "geez your hands are cold. here mine are warm")\nhow does he react when the subject of "who likes who" comes up?\ndo you know things about him that he doesn't like, but when you say or do them, he doesn't get mad at you?\nthings like that should be a clear sign of how he feels about you =)
773667
well, if u like d guy u should call him and tell him how u felt when he said that. if u only like d guy as a friend u should also say that it wont work out or that u arent ready. i dont think he got hurt cuz he probably was as nervous and surprised as u. and when u r talkin 2 him try 2 b ur self and not any1 else.
513917
Chances are he's felt the same way at one time or another.\nYour timing's off.  You can still be friends, but you need to try to keep your feelings in check, because you could lose him as a friend.  If its meant to be it will happen \nyou cant rush it, and you may change your mind. Just support him like a friend should it will all turn out the way it should.
849682
Honey let it go because there is nothing worse to me than a guy in and out of friends that's a well known sign that he is probably no good okay! And i personally would not want any man that i actually knew had been with one of my true friends.
452444
You should be careful, did this friend show any type of feelings towards you. Don't mess up a good friendship be careful.
790622
The truth is almost 9 times out of 10 a guy will sooner or later develop feelings for his "close" female friend.  It happens all the time even if the girl never finds out because he hides it because:\n1.he doesn't want to get rejected\nOR\n2.he doesn't want to mess up the friendship\nOR\n3.its weird to him to even like his friend\n\nOther than that chances are one way or another the guy will spill the beans.  if the response is awkward he will probably pretend it was a joke or that he didn't say anything.\n\nHe probably really likes you and for probably one of the above reasons never has said anything but wants to.  If you like him like that too, give him a hint of your feelings and it will reassure him.  He will probably be able to make the move if he feels its a "safe" one.
349732
u can make the first move. not sexually if u don't want to but jus walk up to him and tell him how u feel. but i do recommend that you prepare for the good and the bad. after you tell him how u feel wait for his reaction and if he says he likes you then it's good but if he says he only likes you as a friend don't get mad jus say "ok" and "well i guess i'll see you around" then leave.
1175023
WELL IF YOU REALLY LIKE HM THEM YOU BETTER LET HIM NOW HOW YOU FEEL CAUSE I MEAN HE ALREADY DID ENOUGH BY ASKING YOU HOW YOU FEEL. TELL HIM BEFORE YOU LOOSE HIM.
932245
i totally agree....i have this guy friend...that when i first met him...started flirting with me...we got a little closer....made out a couple times and i really like him...then he goes and says that he doesnt want a relationship and that he is just cuddly with his friends....it kind of pissed me off...especially because i liked him....we are still good friends tho.
653392
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
1181569
If I liked you I would let you hold my hand, but if I didn't like you I would pull away and say "What the hell are you doing?"