hello i'm from malaysia its quite hard to nice chicks for friennds what should do???
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u should stop looking...thats the easiest way to find something...
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do you like to read? go to borders...pick up a good book or magazine and sit around and read....you can meet nice girls like that
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Stay out of the bars when looking for quality women OR lower your expectations. There are surely good women in your area you just aren't meeting the right ones because you're looking in the wrong places or you just expect too much out of them. Good luck hunting!!
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first learn to love yourself you need to be able to feel good about you \ndress well and try tone up extra pounds look good if they are muscle but not too much muscle it looks bad \ngo to places where you will meet alot of people club , pub ect when a girl comes over to you be nice dont give tacky 1 liners and be your self good luck
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If you have a chronic problem finding girlfriends, try lowering your standards.  I also find when I'm at a bar, I do a little better if I'm a bit drunnk, but not too drunk
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Be respectful. Be charming. Be polite.\n\nAs long as you are good, you will eventually attract good women. (You will find some not-so-good ones, too, but the good ones will stick with you.)\n\nNot all women think guys are dogs. Women who have been burned by men, will think that. Remember, respect, charm, and polite.\n\nThose are very essential elements, and don't forget honest. \n\nIf people are rude, shrug it off. Someone who's ticked today, could be pleasant tomorrow. \n\nGood luck.
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You need to gain confidence in yourself, for one. Learn to be alone, and not lonely. If you can appreciate yourself as company, others will as well. Go places where you will meet people with similar interests, and you'll meet women who will be interested in you.
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tough one. try not to look desperate. if there are a group of women together try talking to all the women friendly and not just the one you want to meet. crack some jokes, relax and most of all don't give up.\n\nRejection is normal, do not take it personal.
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The best advice anyone ever gave me to find a girl was this... STOP LOOKING. Find something you're interested in, join in and you'll meet people, and then you'll meet guys. Or join a group and you'll meet people that way.\n\nSo take care of yourself first, build up your confidence. You apparently don't think you're pretty if you say your friends do? Take care of yourself first. You have to like yourself before others will like you.
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just be yourself, if they don't accept you for who you are then it's their problem. however, you should try to be nice and friendly, if your shy then for once, you'll have to speak up and be the first one to say "hi"
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Lol a good female well there are so many places you could meet a nice girl. Are you a student in college? Ask friends! Stay away from bars as much as possible although you might get lucky and find someone in there who is not a big time partying girls gone wild fling! There is a difference between what kind of women you want to bring home when you have a little girl because she needs you as her role model so you will have to be very careful about bringing home skanks ya know! Lol well good luck.
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hmmmm\ntry try try n try until u get the girl. the other day i was talking to my husband bout dubais night life so he told me that there is no concept of dating in dubai unless the girl gives u a chance so u better look good who know sumone will soon get in touch with u or mayb u have a secret admirer
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Try to relax.  The more you stress over it, the worse it may become.\n\nTreat them as potential friends, not potential girlfriends.  Women want to be treated as equals, individuals.  Not something to be conquered.\n\nDiscreetly, copy what you've seen your friends do to get themselves girlfiends, and modify that behaviour to suit you.\n\nDon't try to approach a group of women.  If you see one you like, make eye contact, smile then look away.  A few minutes later, look at her again, if she looks your way, holds your gaze, and smiles it means she's interested in you.  Approach, casually, if and when she's on her own and offer to buy her a drink.  \n\nShe might even approach you first!\n\nIntroduce yourself. Ask her a few casual questions: What does she think of the bar/pub/whatever you're both in? What is there to do in the local area? You fancy going to the cinema, can she recommend a good film? Has she ever been to Dubhai, cos you've heard it brilliant?  That kind of thing.  Just casual, non-threatening conversation.  Forget about using "chat up lines", they can come across as lame.\n\nDon't be too eager, maintain some mystery.  The biggest turn-on (for both men and women) is confidence.  The biggest turn-off is someone who won't take no (whether said verbally or by body language) for an answer.\n\nPlay it all by ear.  Listen to your intuition, it will guide you.\n\nYou have friends so you can't be that bad(!).  Your description of yourself sounds attractive, so nothing wrong there.\n\nAbove all, be yourself.  If your interest is not returned, hold your head high and move on.
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I can tell you where you won't find one.  Here.  \n\nGet out and be in an environment where you are comfortable and enjoy yourself.  It helps you with the opposite sex, unless, of course, you are confortable in places where women don't hang out.\n\nHowever, I do know you won't get a girlfriend here.
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Maybe you just need help with getting your foot in the door with women your attracted to, it sounds like your friend has a PHD on how to do this, get a few pointers from him, just you can beat him in the long run if you think you know how to keep a girl when you get a girl. Maybe you just need to brush up a little bit on how to start good conversations with girls and keep them wanting more, talk to your friend, just treat the girl right once you get her attention, it sounds like thats all he doesnt know how to do. And in the long run thats what women want the most.
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The problem isn't being nice, popular or helpful.  The problem is expecting a girl would drop by and become your girlfriend. \nYou have good qualities, just find the one girl and be extra nice to her and treat her special. Take the leap and get the girl of your dreams.
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You've just gotta be patient, the perfect lady for you will notice you :)\nForcing things will just make you seem desperate, which will put ladies off.  Spending time making new friends, meeting new people and trying new things out - hopefully this will lead you to a girlfriend :)\nThe more people you meet, the higher the chance of meeting one who likes you!