how to get ur best orgasm?
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let's see....ice or the slip of the tongue.  Reaching the G-spot. Tilt your pelvic forward.  Ladies, practice contracting your vaginal muscles while having intercourse.
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Put your touches in the right places with the right strokes and you can make a girl cum more than once : )
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Try different techniques. There's more than one way to masturbate, and the longer you tease yourself, the greater the orgasm is. That's why foreplay is so important. Slow things down, tease yourself, enjoy it for as long as possible, then finish off with an orgasm. It's not abnormal.\n\nThen again, as I said, you could try different ways of masturbating. See the link below.
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Jerk off before intercourse.\n\nLearn how to delay orgasm during your own masturbation. It takes some practice but you can 'retrain' your body. Most guys have originally trained themselves to get off as quickly as possible so they don't get caught or because they have no privacy or whatever. This can be reversed.
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We tend to climax from various stimuli - clitoral, vaginal stimulation.... clitoris and g-spot have a lot to do with it.  Reports have also concluded that rhythmic tapping on the cervix can do the trick.  HOWEVER.... it is MY opinion that clitoral stimulation is the best, fastest, most effective way to get a girl off, and that's why we like it.  Also less invasive, which just makes it FUN.
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Let her ride on top of you, but put some hand lotion all over your lap first so she slides around really easily.  The absence of friction will let her move freely and with small effort on her part, and the pleasure will be much more intense, which will enable easier and faster orgasms, and that is intimate!
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the best way to do it is to masterbate
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Ejaculation, lubrication and orgasm are the correct phases.\n\nAlso it is believed that if you can take advantage of the Gräfenberg spot, or G-spot, you can reach orgasm easier. But it is not scientifically proven.
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Every way you can make your partner orgasm is good...the more ways the better!!!
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Try going right to the point of no return, just before your going to cum, stop and relax for a bit, then try again. Each time you should be able to last a bit longer, as it becomes a little less sensitive, but when you do cum its amazing as its been building up :)
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Well, if you can buy a "bullet" I would recommend it! They are at adult shops. It vibrates at different speeds. Just slightly rub it on your clit and you'll orgasm in a few minutes! An orgasm can be tricky to tell, but usually you start breathing heavy, maybe shake a lil and your body temp. rises a lil. It just feels like an "explosion" Trust me, you'll know it when you have one!
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Finger the g spot furiously (or use a g spot viberator), masterbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a power viberator on your clit). Maybe have an object in your a-nus. You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed. G spot is inside top wall of vagina.
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well, that all depends... but here are a few that work well for me.\n\ngirl on top, lean up a little so your clit rubs against his skin and grind into him (just like manual stimulation!)\n\ndoggie style and have him rub your clit, or you rub it, or use a vibrator.\n\ngirl on top.. face his feet and squat. lean forward enough that your clit rubs against his balls.\n\nlay down on your stomach. have him come in from behind like doggie style, but laying on top of you. this way, you can grind your clit into the bed/pillow/a vibrator\n\ndon't be afraid to experiment with positions or ask him to rub your clit.. better yet.. just put his hand there.. don't be afraid to touch yourself.. and don't be afraid to use toys.  when you find things/positions that help you get off... make sure you let your man know!
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Try this.\n\nYa know that muscle at the base of your penis that can lift it up? Well seriously just practice that, while you're in the shower or whatever. \n\nAndn this one. While masterbating, when you're about to orgasm, that very first feeling, flex that muscle and stop soi you don't ejaculate, then repeat after a while you will be able to control it with that muscle, just try that.\n\n\nAlso, believe it or not a lot of it is mental, tell yourself you aren't gonna cum and you'll probably last longer.
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Like everything else, there is no “best” way, because every girl is different.\n\nHowever, there are some similarities, and some things that most girls prefer.\n\nYou will want to slip between her legs and spread them apart, take time kissing down her thighs, and over her mons.  Blow warm air over her vulva before pulling away and kissing her other leg or belly.  When you get back to her vulva, slip your tongue over her lips, and maybe between them.  Make a noise that indicates you are enjoying the experience.  Don’t underestimate the importance of the tease.\n\nOnce you get started, you can put her legs over your shoulders, or use your shoulders to keep them spread apart. Take a few moments to lick over, around and between both sets of lips.  You will want to use the fingers of one hand to spread her lips open to reveal her clitoris, and her vagina.  You can dip the fingers of your other hand lightly across her vagina and clitoris to check out how wet she is.  If you have done the tease right, she will be.  While you are still spreading her lips open, you will want to dip your tongue into her, and lick up towards her clitoris.  Be through.\n\nYou will want to focus your attention on her clitoris.  Start out by closing your lips over her clitoris and suck lightly, or hum softly on it.   You will want to use your tongue as much as possible, and keep a steady rhythm – nothing kills a girls orgasm faster than changing technique mid-stream.  If your tongue starts to cramp up, you can wiggle it in a different pattern (but keep the rate steady), or you can try a slightly different technique for a moment while you rest your tongue.  \n\nPay attention to your girl, she will let you know what she likes, and what she does not like.  Avoid the things she doesn’t like, and keep doing the things she does like.  Some girls don’t like direct clitoral stimulation, (though most do) so you will have to be less intense with these girls.  \n\nOnce the intensity has started to build – you can slip a finger, and then two or possibly more, inside of her.  Most girls like the feeling of something inside of them, but it is best to not go crazy and try to stick in your whole hand right away or without knowing that she is into that sort of thing.  Just don’t let up on the clitoris, and make sure that your hands are clean, and soft – no rough skin or calluses.\n\nOnce she has an orgasm, she will want you to let up pretty quickly, as the whole area becomes very sensitive and any further stimulation can be unpleasant, so get away from the clit, but you can leave your fingers inside of her if you want to, and if she is ok with it – that is sometimes very nice for a little bit.  Eventually – after a few moments to a few minutes you will want to slip your fingers out of her too.\n\nThat is a basic set of tips – but you will need to experiment with your girl, and develop your own style.\n\nSome additional things to keep in mind:\n\nGirls are pretty self conscious about their bodies and many girls for some irrational reason think that their vulva is dirty or bad, or smelly, and are very embarrassed about having you see it up close, or don’t want you to put your mouth on it – because that will make you dirty or something.  If your girl is uncomfortable with you going down on her, make sure that you reassure her that it is something you want to do, and not something that you are doing because you think you “have to.”\n\nGirls are also very insecure about their bodies and are sometimes uncomfortable being seen naked.  An easy way to get around this is to sit her in a chair while she is still fully dressed, and slip your head down under her skirt, slip her panties off – if she is wearing any, and go to town.  This is also great for a quickie. Or a semi-public place where you might get caught, because she remains fully clothed.
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depends if you are a girl or guy...\n For a girl...you first have to understand all our nerves for sexual arousal are inside....\n Think of a really sexy man touching you all over,starting at you lips...caress them and work your way down your neck...use a gentle touch... rub & gentlely pinch your nipples..make circles around them ... then slowly go down to your tummy and softly massage it....then go lower...when you get to your private area...slowly massage your inner thighs..thinking of him doing it to you...then use your fingers to massage your *lit,using the virgina lips to cover it.(them over it)..next "explore " the outer area of your virgina with your fingers...until you feel wet...use two fingers to spread your vigina lips open,slowly use the other ones to do a circuler motion on your *ilt,then to go inside the "lips" and run your fingers up & down it til your feel more wetness...go part way in with your finger(s)...and all the way out..deeper each time you go back in...then back to your **it..and now use a circular motion on it..then a light tapping...and run your fingers back down and in again...each time deeper & a bit faster...you'll figure out what you like the feel of by exploring different ways...\n By this time you should have a nice warm feeling..maybe your juices will flow way before this..depends on how much you do it...how excited you are about the guy who you're thinking of and what turns you on the most....works for me everytime.. \nFor a guy....start at the mouth...caress your lips...and work your way down the same way as a female...including the massage of the nipples,the thighes &  the groin...start at the testicles..and run your finger tips up & down the shaft..but not touching the tip....most guys get excited enough at this point to have pre*um...then slowly trace the tip with your finger..teasing it...then start to touch it more..and take it in hand and masage it all the way from the top to the bottom..slowly to start then faster...a good hand lotion helps..in the shower try hand conditioner or a water proof sunscreen...
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Sit in your computer chair with pants on and use vibrator, rock back and forth while looking at smut. mmm good. or open your drapes a hair and lay on your back and envision someone peeking through watching. Voyerism. Or use, a dildo and spread legs doggie style and put vibrator on floor and ride it up and down. Or use your imagination and i bet you can make yourself cum.