how do I let the girl that works next to me know I am interested without making it weird if she isnt?
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Ask her if she'd like to join you for a cup of coffee on your break, or after work.  If she says no, just say it's OK, maybe some other time.  If she says yes, you'll know she has some interest in you.
923015
"If you're not busy this weekend, maybe we could go to a movie" -\n\nIf you're uncomfortable asking, you'd probably feel better if you give her an out, like "if you're not busy". That way she can say, "oh, jeez, I'm sorry but I'm going to be busy this weekend." You could then say, "Okay, well, maybe some other time." How she responds will let you know if she's interested.
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You sound very excited, Al.  Take it easy.  \n\nFrom your descritpion, it sounds like she may like you, but not too much right now.  At my age I know that men imagination is NOT often correct about this. \n\nDo not crowd her too much.  Invite her out to lunch no more than once a week. Flirt with her, but subtly.  Do not grab at her but compliment her hair, smile or clothing etc.  \n\nThen stay away for a couple of days and do not call her on the phone.  I promise you she will begin to like you more.
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ok  this is what i would do if i were a man ... i would walk up to her and ask her hwo her day has been going and if its a monday then ask how her weekend was DONT GIVE HER A CHEEZY @SS pick up line ok?? please girls hate that they really do ... just be yourself and be chill there shouldnt be anything tense about the situation just relax walk up and ask her whats up?? lol i make it sound really simple your probably thinking but really hun it is that simple i promise! <3 lyss
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show her that you find her interesting. when you see her ask her how she is. but dont go on her nerves.\nif you are shy then put nice (dont overdo it)flowers on her footstep and a little card. write that these are of you, that you like her and would like to invite her for a drink or a dinner. you can also tell her that you are too shy to ask her directly. Women like when men show that there not always the ''hard ones''.After that give her time to come to you and start to talk. If she doesnt come it means she wont go out with you or she is also too shy to talk to you. just watch her reaction you will figure it out.  hope that helps you
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maybe you have a kind face, who knows?but you sure wont find out without talking to her. next time she says hi ,speak back to ask her if she wants to meet in thecoffe bar or library somewhere you will feel comfortable or simply if she would like to walk with you , that way maybe you will get to find out,
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Ok, you wait for that time when she is by herself, so you and her are not distracted or embarassed by others noticing the potential "hook-up", and you say to her: "Hey, I have been noticing you, Id like to get to know you better as a person, could we get together sometime and get to know eachother ? If you have a BF, than I would never disrespect that, but if you dont, I'd  like to meet, hang out and get to know you. I love a pretty face, and more importantly I always have room for a good friend". Makes you sound classy, not desperate, and that you VALUE her as a person before a potential love bunny ! Women like the man who is in to HER, not her jeans, although there is no doubt in my mind that you have already noticed that ! Dont be like all the other skanks if you really really want to know her, LEAD her to you, dont push her away by letting her think she is only bootie material. She is a young woman, she will know the difference, dont give her all the bullshit others have said to her. Be unique and catch her attention, by the way you speak, move, body language !
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I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
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i just act casually, eventhough inside i am already giggling to death LOL...\n\ni usually keep the conversation short and simple...if you're both working, then how's work, the weather is good blah blah...if still studying, talk about something in your school, sportsfests, school activities blah blah...\n\nso many things to talk about which doesn't involve personal feelings and will not show that you're really that interested...LOL\n\ngood luck!
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Hi Nil!\n\nTo be nervous when wanting to approach a women is normal but there are some things you can do, which will instantly tell you if she want's that you approach her.\n\nFirst, try smiling at her. Smile when she look at you. I know that it is hard to do at work, but try it. Then, if she smiles back, try saying her "Hi". If she say "Hi", too, she wants you to approach her. Approach now!\n\nYou will see that smiling is not hard thing to do, and when somebody smiles back, we feel more relaxed and after the "Hi" thing you will be ready to talk with her with no problem.\n\nLet me tell you one little secret. The "Hi" thing is the opening for approaching, so you are approaching her the most easiest and secured way.\n\nIf she doesn't smile back when you smile at her first time, smile again when you see her. Don't approach before you and she say "Hi" to each other, because it is not good. She maybe don't want to talk with you at work because it is not good for her position, or she is in some deep taughts and she doesn't saw you the first time when you smile. If you keep smiling at her when you saw her, she will or smile back or won't see you at all. If the other thing happens, don't feel sad. You will find somebody else. You can use the smile thing to any women you want to approach. With the smile test you are seeing right away which women wants you and which doesn't.\n\nWhy wasting your energy on girls who doesn't even give you a smile back?\n\n\nHappy approach!
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i would guess she is interested i wouldnt give out my # if i wasnt if its the right # she is definatly interested
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Don't show up at her job. Try to wait for her outside of the school, when he is out of her job. Don't forget the flowers. That wouldn't be creepy. I'd call it a nice surprise. If she says no I don't want to see you and you still show up again - yeah, that would be creepy.
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ok here ya go, ask her to hang out like maybe go grab a bite to eat beforwe work, ya know not like a date date but more of a friend. then start a conversation about how great she is. she will get the picture that you are interested. but hey girls get scared and they think the guy might not feel the same. so you might can just ask her if she likes you like that she will say yes, if not she will still be your friend because she is coming to your house anyway. I dunno I always called a girl and iasked, but the girl i got now my friend hooked us up.
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start showin interest...appreciate it...she may be giving hints...these are things she may want to do with you.
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Get your receptionist to "play" cupid!  Act like you know nothing.  This way you won't get targeted for being unethical, or unprofessional.\nPlay dumb, sometimes it is for the best!  Chances are if she is telling you her boyfriend status, she must be intrigued by you?!?!
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Dont hold your farts in for no one Mister, not gonna break a pipe just because.  If she really likes you she will accept you the way you are, beside there are dates that we have in which we feel we have known the person all our lives, besides if she saids anything ask her...Dont you fart, I bet you take a sh*t too.
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Maybe a little strong, but it seems like you did not scare her away.  Do you see her other than when she is working?  That would probably be the best time to approach her again.\n\nIf you have to approach her at work, try to find a time when the restraunt is not busy.  Also I would recommend something low-key as a get-to-know you rather than a date.  Also try to give her an easy out.  Something like stopping by one afternoon and asking if she would like to get coffee or something like that after work.