how do you talk a girl into having @nal sex?
404839
You let her strap one on first and do it to you then see how you like it. JERK
1144025
Don't flat out ask for sex and treat her like a sex object.  Girls hate that.  Sex should never be mentioned at all if you really like the girl.  Unless of course she brings it up.\n\nm
75134
Come up with codes. That way if things start going to far you will have ways of letting eachother know. She will respect you for respecting her. Before you guys start anything you can be like "I want to make sure our first time is really special and that we are both ready for it. If things become too much for you, just pinch my arm and I'll stop." Of course if you come up with something else that would be fine too. The physical "no" is much more likely to get your attention. Some guys have the misconception that no sometimes means yes. No is no and that is the bottom line. Be sure to have a way to tell her to slow down too. You seem to be saying you are not ready either. Maybe you could clasp her hands and then back of for a minute until you are ready to continue. You are only 16, there will be plenty of time. You don't want any regrets. \n\nAlso, "take care of yourself" ahead of time. That way the urge will be less. You wont feel such a great need.\n\nJust in case have some condoms handy. You don't want to take any chances. I'm sure you are not ready to be a dad yet.
592453
i would say to be the coolest and nicest person. always keep it real at all times. never tell any stupid jokes cause that a girls number one turn off. be constant to the communication. but dont overdue it. talk about each other and make jokes off it that way the girl feels good talking to you. but if you just want to take her to bed then you are not going to do it in 7 days. unless she is a hoe. sorry!
1007882
tell her your ready but i want to do the basics first and after your down and your ready tell her i think its time to try if your not good its OK that always happens don't worry about cant find it or is it OK for you just do it girls like guys for beaning them tell her straight out that you want it but need to learn
348351
I want a girl to be subtle enough to make me think, but blatant enough that I know for sure I am not hearing her wrong.. I.E. don't use the old "is that a sausage in your pocket" line, but if I am carrying a box and she says "nice package" that would be cool.. Just sexual enough without going overboard.
128204
You could try to satisfie her oraly...ore use your fingers.Ore a little bit of both....just use your fantasy..there are loads of ways to play without actually having intercourse.Have fun!
182622
you get her some birth control and seduce her. you shouldn't be scheduling sex. give her everything that she fantasizes about and she'll return the favor. don't just talk about it. talking about it ruins the mood. just go for it.
83777
If you are wanting her for just that what does it matter if she is a virgin or not? I think the question is how do you get her to have sex with you? Start slow by holding her hand and then go further, like a silent game of chicken. Always worked on me.
907382
First we need girth\n\nAlso either she's figured out you are a virgin, or she wonders why you haven't tried to sleep with her yet\n\nPlease make sure you you find a way to let her know before you have sex that you are a virgin - it really sucks (pardon the pun) to be getting down to it and figure out that he is scared to death - she needs to know that she needs to take the lead - and please please listen to what she is telling you  - you can learn a lot from a girl if you just do what she says - she's not going to ask you for something in bed if she doesn't really want it -  and don't forget the protection\n\nlet her know \nrelax\nlisten\nprotection\n\nAnd the other girls are right about don't believe the 9" stuff - not in the real world ans also smaller is better a lot of the time - I personally don't prefer pain
207407
No No No this ain't gon play.\n If you really care.  I mean if you really, really care, then acquaint yourself with some of the many many books on the subject and spend some time discovering tthe complexities of making love. Don;t just tke the easy way ou by asking somebody else who has not necessarily got the word on anything but their own possibly narrow experience.\nTake your time and learn the ways of love, Just like you need to with the one you are with. While making love to her,Slow loving attention and showing your appreciation for things that you find particularly attractive and unique about her asking her to let you know what you are doing that she especially likes or would like from you.--all these thing go a long way toward memorable,  mutually satisfying sexual relations.\n  Be attentive to her talk, her clothes, hair, perfume,  her style, her preferences, her needs OUTSIDE the bedroom and all the rest of the time. That's when she learns to regard you as a truly big man. and she develops a stronger longing to be close with you. Follow my advise, make those little efforts throughout the week,  and you wont be sorry when THAT TIME comes. Because love-making begins long before you lie together and if it doesn't, you won't be lying together long if at all.  Believe me .
1168995
Start kissing, kiss her more, a little french, place you hand on her hip and move up slowly to her breast and carress it, if she shrugs you off, don't try it for a while, but it sould like she'd be into that
1176735
You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
1052017
you can't talk a girl into having anal sex either they wanna do our they don't, and there are some that don't do it but if they are inlove with you and if you like it then they would might try it !!!!!!!!!
1006548
Well, start teasing her like a little sister, flirt with her, bust on her on stuff in a playful way. girls love that.
1082640
Maybe you should try dirty talking to her first so she can more or less catch on to what you like...talk to her the way you want to be talked too....
470961
To "make" her? What - is this like some performing poodle?\n\nYou haven't said if you want more than a one-off "make love".\nIf just one-off, just go out for an evening with her and get her much more drunk than you are. With luck she might not even remember, and then you can try the same trick again later.\n\nIf you want any kind of deeper relationship, you're gonna have to seriously loosen up in your whole approach.\nEm - as a first step, try getting to know her.\n(I mean, really know her rather than just her name.)