my friends think i am anerexic?
402249
It's hard to put together your statement that you are a little chubby with your friends claim that you are anorexic. If you are really the right weight for your body type and you are not losing weight, anorexia seems an unlikely diagnosis. However, I am troubled by your statement that "the minute I eat I feel bloated and fat." If you are eating healthy foods, you should not be feeling that way every time you eat. So your friends may be onto something. Many anorexics keep insisting they are overweight even when they are dying of starvation. Best solution is to go to a medical professional to verify that you are indeed at the right weight and that you are eating a reasonable diet for someone of your age and build.
216995
Sorry, can't help you. Tell me how much you weigh and what diet you're on, then I might be able to tell you whether your friends have reason to be worried or not....
881998
u need to find some real friends who rnt bitchin, look in places u normally woudnt thats where good friends r, try to work out ur anorexia problem, and if someone asks its not their f***in business
838254
Anorexia doesn't happen to normal well-rounded people.  It usually happens to girls between the ages of 16 and 18.  It stems from self-hatred and believe it or not, it's a control issue.  The person loathes themselves for being fat or unloved by others and they feel like they have no control over things in their lives.  I had anorexia when I was between 16 and 18.  I hardly ate anything for 2 years!  I hated myself because I had a terrible alcoholic father that resented having us kids because he couldn't take all his money and gamble with it.  He had to support us.  I think it was my way of getting back at him and being liked by my peers all at the same time.  Don't be afraid to diet.  If you have normal feelings about yourself and have some control in your life, you'll be fine.
490450
when i was 15 i had anorexia.  you eventually dont realize that you need to eat.  i wont say you lose the hunger feeling because it is replaced by other pains, but you just forget.
929999
It sounds like you already have anorexia.  You need to see a doctor and get this treated.  Being scared to death to gain weight is a sign of trouble.  See your doctor before something serious happens.  Without getting this treated there is a chance you could die from health complications.  Karen Carpenter a famous singer of the Carpenters died of complications from Anorexia so get some help.
12445
I've actually had a similar situation.  I used to weigh about 30 lbs. more than I do now.  And everyone who knew me then tells me I am so skinny now...too skinny.  I'm 5'5" & 135 lbs!  I'm perfectly healthy.  I guess some people just look better "thicker"  I also got a lot more attention from the opposite sex when I was heavier.  As long as you're healthy & happy, don't worry about what other people think!\n\np.s. your "friend" is a jerk for saying that!
837779
That sound like an excellent plan.....you ound like you are realy into losing weight healthy asnd not in a starvation diet.....ive had episodes of anerexia and i dont want that happeneing to you...just remember to always saty healthy and dont forget that exerecise.....god luck
107228
Ok so lets be realistic here NOONE is perfect and most people find it very difficult to admit when they are wrong. I had a friend tell me something once that I wont easily forget, he said "everyone has a weakness and you can use that for your benefit". After that I saw things differently. Not that Im taking advantage of them but knowing they are human too and being able to look for and find it helped my esteem cause suddenly we were all on the same playing field. now I dont need that to know im a good person and i dont take others as personally anymore either.\n\nThe best part was poking a little fun at my "perfectly skinny friend" who always had a better than me attitude about weight (not that im fat) But i realized she is quite flat chested and it does bother her a bit and that cut her down to size. we are better friends now than ever.\n\nI just thought of something else. If some one says something that bothers you sometimes it helps to repeat it back to them in thier own words. "so your saying....." this creates a little 'yes' in thier mind and builds rapport between you. It also lets him hear himself and think about what he has said.
715575
They are probably just scared of you losing weight. Your obviously already a very pretty girl and they might just be jealous and worried. I would DEFINITELY cheer my friend on....heck I'd probably work out with her and we'd lost it together!! YOU GO GIRL!! YOUR AWESOME!!
999754
Yes, you are anorexic. You are underweight as well. The ideal formula is "height in inches = weight in kgs."\nIn this age you are expected to exercise more and eat protinous food so that your muscles as well as bones grow properly. Your behaviour is in contrast. It will result in improper growth.
180021
yes i think you are overweight. im sorry for being upright. but, you can start by eating daily salads everyday and lots of fruit. most people actually feel hungry because they are thristy. thrist turns into hunger. also cut down on carbs, and meat. stay on a low fat diet and drink lots of water! good luck. :)
775418
You may have body dismorphic syndrome.  It's a form of annorexia.  I am not implying you have anorexia, but body dismorphic syndrome is when you look in to a mirror and see something that isn't there (I.e, fat).  You may want to seek professional help for this so it does not escalate in to something worse.
312772
I used to be anorexic, Im miss it to, but my parents put me in a rehab for 6 months. That sucked. Everyone says I look heathier now and that im still thin. I think we convince ourselves that thin is never thin enough and that we are fat. Its all about convincing your mind. I miss it but will never go back. I was sick, and still fight it. Stay strong! Heidi
317574
I can totally understand what you are saying.  All through high school i had really bad bulemia. Defintely go and see your doctor, no way they will laugh at you.  In fact if i hadnt gone to see my doctor when i did, I have no doubt in my mind i would not be here today. This is something i think you should discuss with your family, when you are going through something such as bulemia or anorexia its important to have your familys support to help you through it.  Good Luck
925221
it sounds like the early stages of anorexia (i battled anorexia and bulimia) it is a scary disorder.....u need to get help though.....dont think u can overcome it on your own.....i thought i could but it just made it worse.....confide in someone u trust!!! I am praying for you! Jesus loves you!
299495
well first you need to know how to spell it. anorexia.\nthen you need to see a doctor, and realize that the people who tell you to eat are telling you that bc they love and care about you.