I am 5'8 and i weigh about 165 but still i feel overweight and to me, I look it. my boyfriend says I am crazy
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I know women who are around that height/weight, distributed in the right places, who are beautiful.  But if you aren't satisfied with your body, go to the gym a couple times a week and be more active, or take up a sport.  Exercising is healthy, and it boosts self-confidence and even libido -- so it's worthwhile even if you don't lose a pound!
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You should not be upset about your size unless it is slowing you down in different activities that you particapate in. If your weight slows you down and affects your daily actions and routines then you should be upset. As long as you feel good about yourself and you know that your health is not in danger than continue to be the beautiful person that you say you are. Dont worry about what other people have to say about, because then you will never be able to except yourself for the way you are. People are always going to have something to say no matter if you weigh 300 pounds or 135pounds, thats why if your comfortable and your health is not at risk then keep on living!!!!!!!!!!!
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I am 5'4.5" and I weight 174.  I recently lost down from 280 pounds and am continuing my efforts.
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Tha is normal,you are not alone some of my friends and me are dishonest when it comes to heights and weights!Good for you,you hit your lies and now it is justified by your real weight!
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Find out from a doctor if that is a healthy weight for you.... the most important thing is your health... You may not have a body structure that can handle extra weight
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No, life is what you make it sweetie. I'm deformed, at least by society's standards. I'm overweight, and my clothes are above a size 16. I'm looked at as a piranha, but you know what, who cares? It's upsetting at times, but the way I look at it is, NO ONE IS PERFECT! Stay confident sweetie, and know that God loves you. Take care.
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Dear Darcee,\n\nYou are a very fat woman. You are also old. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You are acting like a hypochondriac and need serious help. I hope you can get the help you need. Your mental illness is getting in the way of you having a productive life. Change yourself. Lose your big belly and the poor attitude.\n\nLove Me
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Does your boyfriend care about your well being, or is this a joke.  Seriously, you need to stop gaining weight and try to lose some.  It won't do you any good if you die because of health issues and your boyfriend will move on.
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definetly NOT. I think it sounds like you weigh the absolute perfect amount for your age!! Now you need to be sure you stay healthy
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You are not fat sweetie.  You are fine.  \nLove yourself babygirl!  :)
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First don't worry about what others think.  If you try and define yourself in anothers terms then you never will be happy.  Some people might think you are heavy but I don't I think that's a great combination of height and weight.  You though should be happy with who you are first then find someone that is just as happy with you as you are.  If you aren't happy and barring doing anything unsafe then work toward making what changes you think you need.  The reason you never will be happy if you try and define yourself in anothers eyes or terms is that once you conform to their idea of perfect then they will always find something else wrong.  Also you are attempting to conform to what you THINK they are thinking or what you perceive they are thinking which is usually always wrong.  I think you look, sound, great .. I bet you are and hopefully you'll feel that way also.
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I don't think you are over wait.  Probably all the weight is coming from all the muscle you have.  Muscle weighs more then fat does.  So i don't think so. As long as you eat right and excercise then i think you are in great shape.
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I'm 5'5" and have weighed anywhere between 98-125 pounds during my adult life. (not including pregnancies)\n\nI would like to get back to about 112-115. Anything lower than this and I start to feel weak and tired,low energy,etc...\n\nRight now I am 120 and am not happy with that weight,working on it though!  :)\n\nFor the person that said women that ask this question and said their self esteem is usually low,etc...   I have very good self esteem and am just a very DETERMINED  person,thank you.\n\nEveryone has their own 'comfort weight'. The weight that you feel good about both mentally and physically.\n\nIf you base this on the body mass index chart, the normal weight for someone 5'5" is between 120-140 pounds. (Approx)\n\nFeel good,stay healthy and don't worry about what others think. It is more important that YOU are happy.
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By your user name you seem like a child of the 60's, 70's or perhaps a younger hippie?\n\nFlower power was and is about love and peace. You seem frustrated about being overweight but it should end there and not go the route of blame - God or otherwise.\n\nIf you want to be less heavy, focus inwardly to that end as accept who you are.  You are a child of God, beautiful in His eyes as you are and He loves you. God also wants you to love Him.\n\nIf you want to make a change in "man's" eyes, including your own, consider the many ways you can lose weight, focus on that goal and do it!  :-)\n\nHave a nice day.  :-)
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Sounds not bad to me, have you big bones or slight build cos that also determines what is considered overweight.\nYou must know what u look like  OK...long as you are healthy n happy then all's good.77kgs sounds just fine...
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i, too, am overweight and my husband tells me every day how beautiful i am and how much he loves me. don't doubt him or his love for you. embrace him and his love.
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Are you fishing for compliments?  I'll bet you know darn well that 5'6 and 134 lbs isn't fat.  If you FEEL fat, that's another thing but ask yourself realistically if you're just being hard on yourself or do you really truly believe you have a weight problem.