I like two boys but they are bestfriends, should I go for one or should I just leave them alone?
412058
Go for the one you like the best. But do not lead the other one on. You do not want to cause friction between the two friends.
273944
You need to get to know the both of them and see what they offer, and are they good for you, dont go out with them just cause there hot, thats taking advantage of them,but try and get to know them. You might just like the other better than one!
49485
You have to follow your heart. I can understand you not wanting to hurt a friend's feelings, but you have to make the decision for yourself. If you know which person you're more intersted in, go for that. If you're not sure, then you must first take steps towards deciding who is best for you. It can be hard with all of you being friends but, atleast you'll be up front with them. And lastly, don't lead either of them on. Oh and another thing, don't put yourself out there for a guy who is not interested in you. Make sure the feelings are mutual or you'll just end up looking dumb.
269330
Best friends, hmm, I am 34 yrs old and still have the same best friend since I was 12. We shared everything except the guys we dated or liked, til this day. No matter how handsome he was, or how much we were over them, etc. We just weren't into sharing 'sloppy seconds'. We just felt the same way about  dating or liking a guy the other use to date or like, we chose to not go there. At 12 yrs old we thought it was gross to like each others has beens, something we agreed we'd never do that to each other. We seen how that destroyed friendships, it almost always does. \n\nAnd even if your best friend encourages you and gives you the okay, until she sees you two together, things will more than likely be different. Remember what and who is important before you choose to like your best friends has been. \n\nThere is no guy worth jeopardizing my relationship with my best friend. Guys will come and go, you can only have 1 best friend. I am glad we chose hold our friendship above that issue.
994542
will what i would do is go out with the girl or in your case the guy you have more feelings for b/c but i would go out with iono thats a good question but i would talk to both and then figure out which one i would go and then maybe theyll make me happy and if they dont then thats a mistake i made and thats what i call chances just rember which one you know better the closest frined will long more then a boi you just meet follow your heart not your head iight anymore questions holla at me at babyboychris32@yahoo.com iight duces my frds call me babyboy so yuh holla
196320
Most of the time your best friend knows what's best for you.  If they are a true friend they are only looking out for your best intrests.  I would get rid of the guy.
770115
This is so wierd because I am in this same situation right now. I mean to the tee. What i have found is that if you value your best friends friendship, then you should just leave him alone. I mean you and him can still be friends but you need to discuss with him that there is a line there and in order to avoid any hurt feeling, that line should not and will not be crossed. it's tough but you can do it. Its just unfortunate that you didn't get to him first.
50902
wait until you know how you feel. there is a difference between dating and having a boyfriend. it is totally okay to casually date more than one person at a time as long as they understand you're not exclusive. if you decide that you have very strong feelings for one person, stop dating the others and go exclusive with that person. don't pick one guy and stick with him unless you're sure about it, because that's not fair to him. if your emotions are going back and forth, that probably won't change even if you become his girlfriend, and you could ruin a good friendship. right now i'm rebuilding a friendship for that very reason, and it's slow and sometimes pretty awkward.
81027
Well if you really think this boy you like is really cool and you can trust him I suggest you go for it, but still try and change your borhters opinion. Try and convince about you and his friend.
389243
go with the definite safe one, the friend.  this isn't a date, it's for a special cause, you can definitely have fun with the first girl but you may be too nervous to enjoy yourself with the second.  It's about the children not your date...just have fun and enjoy your friendship.
1074813
If you all like the same guy - there are going to be 2 people getting hurt.  Talk with your friends and try to come to a conclusion where either 2 of you back off and let one girl have a chance or you all decide to leave him alone and just stay friends.  This situation does have potential to cause problems between you and your friends, so be aware of what the consequences might be and if going out with a guy is worth it.
1013199
I think you should go with the guy who is closest to you because most likely the other guy is laid up with some chick and not thinking about you. Boys can manipulate you into wanting you and then drop you like a hot potatoe. Don't take my advice just follow your heart.
1169964
get over the other guy and go out with the next and the next.....have fun......the other guy missed out or maybe you did not put out....or maybe you did to quick......either way forget him....talk to the other guy to see what he is about....you might just like it
242804
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
819239
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
37282
Not much of a boy friend or a best friend. Next time be careful about choosing both.
1054965
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!