im so inlove with my boyfreind &want him for keeps.im afraid to loss him.what are the ways to make him stay.?
402247
Best way to keep your man is to beyourself, do not at like a bunnny boiler, let him do his own thing and don't act jealous,clingy, and do not tell him what he can and cannot do!
159538
Sweety- by being yourself. If that doesnt work, then he aint the one for you; he's just in the way of someone who is MEANT to be loved by you more and more each day
693613
Don't let him feel too tied to you or he might want to break free. Give him some space especially if it is for his own good. Try to overcome your insecurities by giving more trust and patience. Keep yourself busy.
573639
He will never stop loving you. There isn't anything you can say that will stop that. You just have to keep letting him know that nothing can or will ever happen between the two of you. You value his friendship too much to jeopardize that. Tell him that boyfriends come and boyfriends go. You don't want that to happen to him. Friends are forever.
947971
Let him know how you feel if things remain this way get out while you can. If he loves you he will change his ways. Things will only get worse if you done deal with them now.
671764
If you love him and he loves you then don't worry about it! Just be yourself, and if he doesn't love you for you then don't worry about loosing him!!
79067
First of all u should do what's best or comfortable for u. Do what I did. Set a date and if ur feelings toward him don't change and ur not ready to take the next step,then don't!!! If he truly cares for u and doesn't want to lose u, then he'll wait. If not, move on.
626454
Well I would normaly tell you that  if you love him, try and work it out, but you should under no surrcumstances, know matter how much you love someone, let someone treat you like shi*, you are worth so much more than that..... but if you love him let him go, and if it was ment to be him will come back    good luck and god bless
956009
What I think you need is to relax. You can't over push a relationship. If it is destined to fail it will no matter what you do. Stop trying to make everything so perfect and realize that it already is! Just remember this one thing. If you two stay together forever.... thats along time to try and stress over making things perfect! imagine how stressed you'd be then! Just hang loose and let him see the real you the relaxed you! He'll love it even more and then you can enjoy your time together instead of worrying all the time.
650127
respect.\nrespect is one of the most important relationship dynamics you can have, love is obviously #1, but without respect youve got nothing, even in spite of love sometimes.\n\nrespect his wishes and his bounderies. he may really need this time, its understandable that you want to do something other than sit back and watch him hurt, but you must remember, you have no control over this situation or him, just let him know youll be there.\ni think if it is meant to be between you both he will appreciate your respect and strength in the end and things will be fine.\ngood luck and God bless.
700182
Learn to accept and love him as he is, not try and bend him to be what you want.  Two choices, acceptance or risk losing him forever.
28830
wow that has to be hard well all i can say is just pray for him and yourself and try to stay in touch with him as much as possible i know a person can't help who they fall in love with i hope it all works out. good luck.
168180
No one said that your heart had to forget him.  Love always keeps a place in our hearts.  The key is for you to accept it for what it was and to move forward.  You can't make someone love you who doesn't and you deserve to go on and be happy and find someone who will love you as much as you love them.
883969
Sounds like you're on the right track but the only thing you can do is to keep it up. Just keep being wonderful and eventually he will have to see that you are different than the rest. I am in a similar position, though I've only been with mine a matter of months and he is still not willing to let down his guard as much as I'd hope. But I know that it will take time and patience for me and it will for you too. Most importantly, don't betray him in any way. Just show him you are infinitely consistent, honest, and trustworthy.
333806
i understand your situation, maybe he just wants to go away? let him go.You cant hold on to a person for too long.He's told u it hurts, and you say you love him.So why keep hurting him?If both of u'll think it should end or has ended ,let it be amicable.Healing will take time , but it will happen
193331
be honest with him . love him with actions not with words .give him time to trust you like he never did before  and make him feel you need him even if dont
1165397
im going thru the same situation..its like u love the person soo much that u dont wanna leave him..and its like u cant live with or without him ...how i wish the guys understood this! mayb give him some time..try to explain....take one more chance..cuz if ur in true love,u wont b able to leave him..but rather adjust his way cuz in a relationship,one has to submit to other's wishes.