Ok what would a girl think if a guy drove 3 hours just to see her?
400181
If I had been hinting about it, and then he drove out to see me it would make me really happy. go see her!!!!
1047403
i was asked to go to a concert once by a beautiful older girl. I thought how lucky. well, she comes and picks me up and she is with another guy who she claims to be a childhood friend. we go to the concert and I separate from them to go to the bathroom. when I come back they are holding hands and whispering to one another. I then, said there is obviously something more going on and he smiles and leans and kisses her. luckily, I had some friends who I knew were at the show so I  called them on their cell and sat with them. I had left my jacket in her car and asked her to wait after the show so I could get it and of course she was long gone when I got to where her car once was. hell, he is prob wearing my jacket right now. ironically i heard she killed herself like a month after that supposed date. needless to say, i got a lot more picky of who i went out with after that.
463642
Maybe she gave the guy a ride out of the goodness of her heart.  If you explained to her that it really bothers you and she ignores your request to stop it she is either being stubborn (he's not going to tell ME what to do) or she does not value your feelings on the matter.  When SHE said "let's take some time off" she could have been just trying to get back at you for making the suggestion in the first place.  At the very worst you've got yourself one of those girls who enjoys stirring things up to make the relationship a little more edgy and thrilling like it is in the very beginning when you're in the "does he/she like me or not stage????".  Have you ever seen the movie "Play Misty for Me?"  Extreme case.  They like to pull back to "show you what you might lose", then they panic and try to reel you back in very fast so you won't really try to get away.  Your idea af a break is a REAL GOOD one.  But set an actual time like a week or 10 days and agree NO CONTACT.  Tell her that you will not only NOT answer her calls and texts you will not even listen to or read them.  Assure her that you will not use this time to cruise for other girls.  That's not the idea.  The idea is to see how much you miss THIS one.  No cheating!  Good luck.
1097168
but, those 3 secs COULD make him crash. \n \nbut... his friend COULD have put it on speakerphone and let your b/f do the talking...\n\nguys don't think the way girls do...
160052
Well sure. You never know, you might really hit it off. Three hours isn't too far to go to find out.
35589
That 100+ miles is roughly only a 2-hour drive. It's not like you can't spend weekends together and chat regularly by phone, email, IM, etc. Of course, if you have conflicting schedules that keep you from getting together physically (and I'm not just talking about sex), then there may be a problem. You need time to be intimate, too, and to touch each other. One of you may need to move closer to the other.
957606
Ferrari for a day is by far the best idea, if he likes his cars as I do, let me tell you it was the best present I have ever had.\n\nIt wasn't a Ferrari though, it was a Porche but same thing. Absolutely fantastic idea.\n\nFlying lessons are ok as long as you like that sort of thing, men would probably prefer the car though.
773263
AS YOU EXPLAINED IT, I WOULD SEE YOU AS A STUCK UP JERK! WOULD NOT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY EITHER!!!BESIDES THAT, DO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE WITH A GIRL WHO WOULD GO OUT WITH YOU JUST CAUSE YOU HAVE MONEY????
75805
who cares?  Think of it as a race.  If she doesn't get off, she should speed up, you're a busy man.
412452
Free Ticket out of there...  woohoo!!!   lol\n\nIf you like each other, this is kind of a dumass question, of course it would raise some doubts and maybe cause hurtful feelings.\n\nIf you are a one night stand, not so much... But if you let him leave right away after the sex, you can bet the next time you hook up, he will be a sure thing...
1052052
I think this movie was just over 3 hours
733596
It depends on the girl. Most would not think this is too soon. Try and get clues from the girl herself. (she would know)
251800
i would be crushed, but i would give her the benefit of the doubt and wait and see, maybe she has big plans that you dont know about. just relax and give it time, if the day ends and you dont hear from her, then express the next day that it upset you and wait to see if she has a good reason.
80060
definetly monday....i agree with the other girls...monday is a bad day for everyone..and the dude that said dont do it or whatever...dont listen to him...im sure he dont even have a woman by the sounds of it...were not all gold diggers...and its a very nice thing that your trying to find a way to brighten her day...your a very nice guy....your woman should apreciate having you....deliver the flowers to her yourself (if possible) its very romantic to think of makeing her day better..
852167
I see a skid of a funnycar into a wall. The important thing is to let someone know off the bat if you date just one person exclusively. Its not impossible, but it could get ugly.
730244
He's probably right, especially if she was driving.
402916
not if she is a woman worth knowing. I don't judge by money or cars. It is how he treats me, and others; how he makes me feel.