Why do people hate on others when they know that they are just jealous?
396865
when people are jealous it is easier for them to push others down or make them feel small so that the jealous person can feel better about themselves. You will find that the jealous person is actually overwhelmed with events in their life and sees something in you they wish they have. To deal with a jealous person either remove yourself from them or try and help them feel better about themselves. Most importantly never give anyone the power to make you feel happy sad vunerable or small. Keep this power for yourself. Do not take anything personally.
494987
people feel jealous when they actually like the person of whom they r jealous and they want to become like them.
823505
They feel the need to take someones else's happiness since they are jealous that they can never really achieve that same kind of happiness. \n\nUsually they don't understand/know how to really love someone/or know what love is.
1025588
People secretly envy what they hate.
257672
I agree.  And if they ARE jealous for some reason?... it's called maturity.  You either choose to rise above the petty, or become just as bad as they are.
27027
Usually if a person is jealous it is because the other person isn't being truthful about, where they've been, who with, etc.  Talking is the reamdy for jealousy.\n\nJust relax let the person do what they are going to do and stop being jealous (controling) and you'll see who they really are.  If you don't like it, tell them, if they don't want to change.. move on.  Life is to short to try to control people and make them change drastically.
651914
Haters are torturing themselves with emotions that kills them ultimately. What little good it may do to others out weighs the harm it inflicts on the hater. Keeps a frown on face and wrinkles appears on the one who hates not the person who is being hated.
391605
I've had this happen to me, by my friends or family. It's usually because they're jealous or they feel like life isn't doing anything good for them.
58425
know that they fact that you are getting your life together is the best thing happening to you right now and those ppl are just the type that try to keep you down with their negativity...and the more they are hating on you most likely you are doing real good and they are just jealous they need to grow up.
99255
It doesn't bother me. If they are saying nasty things, and they can't even back it up, it's because they are jealous of you. You have things they don't. Maturity, intelligence, amongst others. Don't let it hurt you, they'll only do it more. You are better than them and can rise above them.
1058370
Reme 1 is right on - any time people belittle others it is out of a sense of their own insecurity.  I've seen it from people in low-paying jobs (who aren't educated enough to know what common courtesy it) and those in very high paying jobs who think they've earned the right to treat others like s***.  \n\nAs a wise instructor of mine once said, "Always take the high road - it's lonely up there."  Be the better person, and don't sink to their level.
422798
PPl are jealous that u have things? then that is their problem. dont let it bother u.  This is their problem
107456
I am jealous of those people who know what they want to do with their lives and they go out and do it.  I am not jealous of anyone in particular b/c I like who I am, can't change what God made and I have things about myself that I find fascinating.  Honestly, when people are jealous of others, sorry to be so cliche, but it really does say something about how one feels about themselves.  The reason I say that is that if you were happy with yourself & had come to appreciate yourself, (flaws and all, and we all have them), then you wouldn't care so much & put so much emphasis on others & what they have that you don't.  If there is something you want to change, then go change it.  But don't model who you are after other people b/c you'll only disappoint yourself.  You can't be someone else so why not enjoy who you are.  God doesn't make mistakes so don't think of yourself as one.
938985
There is jealousy everywhere.  I think everyone deals with it at one point or another.  It's pretty immature, and people who threaten or do harm of any sort have very low self esteem and have to bring others down so it will make them feel better.  It's very sad what someone will do to shift any attention to them.  Just stay away from those types of people.  Do not react at all, because thats what keeps them going.  Do not give them the satisfaction of seeing you scared or angry at what they are doing.  That is exactly the reaction they are screaming for because thats the only attention they can get.  LOSERS!!!!
952603
I cannot hate people, but I do hate some of things people do..especially to each other.  It is so much easier to love.  Hate burns a lot of energy.
981972
I don't know why, but it seems that there are many people who simply enjoy hurting others.  I suspect it stems from them feeling powerless and insecure, so they get a small charge to their own egos when they can make someone else feel bad. \n\n There are, also, others who simply take advantage of people - they see goodness and kindness as a kind of weakness they can exploit for their own means.\n\nDon't let this turn YOU bitter, though.  Remember to tell yourself that those people, in the end, will suffer for it when they find they lack solid, real and loving friendships in their lives.
646037
when someone with nothing sees someone with everything come up in life they get jealous. they spend so much time hating, they don't have time to accomplish anything else in life? keep doing what you do and don't let those haters get to you.