What do you do whan you have a crush on a guy that likes you but you are in love with someonelse?
413058
Well ... if you are really in love with your boyfriend then you just CAN'T have a "CRUSH" on someone else! And if you are sure that the feeling you have for this other guy is in fact "CRUSH" then I'm sorry to say I don't think you TRULY LOVE your boyfriend.
1131122
What's wrong with liking him if you do?  I think that once you really get to know someone, you can't help  but love them to some extent.  My best friend in the world is a guy, and I love him.  It's hard sometimes, but you can't ignore the feelings, and nothing's going to make them go away.  It might help if you tell him how you feel.  If he likes you, then maybe you can hook up, or if he doesn't then maybe that'll give you some closure on the subject.
599879
just confront him n tell him bout ur feelings that u have a crush on him... i think he would understand since he's a close friend n u should express ur feelings... just make sure it doesnt harm the friendship but do tell him bout what u're feeling for him...
1135744
Great I found you because I'm in similar position... So in love with a guy but didn't know what to do. So lonely and wish he knew how I feel but still fear what will happen if he does know\n\nIt really depends on what the girl believes in. She may be really straight forward and express her love to you. OR, she may be like me, who believes that the guy shall make the first move, and she'll drop hints hopefully you'll pick them up and start confessing your love to her like Romeo to Juliet\n\nAin't it a beautiful dream come true?\n\nReady to do anything, that's really sweet... Stick to it then... And decide what you should do, and fast! The love boat doesn't travel to your shore all the time, get it on before you miss it... good luck!
534982
find another crush..!
295939
love you feel funny inside its hard to talk to that person a crush is you dont know them and you think thier good looking
1137505
stay with your guy\nLike you said don't ruin your current relationship for a little crush\nThe feelings will pass
259054
to me a crush is something that is superficial. you may have seen or discovered something that you have admired or liked.\nlove is total acceptance. it has worked its way to the deepest part of our soul.\nis is ok to still have a crush when you are already in love? i do believe so.
511839
i can tell you how you know you're infatuated. you think about that person all the time and wanna be with them all the time. you feel like you'd do anything for them!\n\nafter the infatuation wears out in a few months, if you still wanna be with them, that's love. after your love has been tried (fight or something) and you work together to get through it and compromise, etc. AND you still wanna be together... that's love!
837814
well swearing off love altogether probably isn't the best solution, as for the crush, I would tell him how you feel espeacially if you think he may feel the same way but doesn't think you do
84868
No, wait until after Valentine's day to tell your crush that you like him. Valentine's day suggests love- it's too much for a guy to handle. Wait Wait Wait!~ Trust me.  Do it this weekend. Suggest going to a movie and afterwards get a drink/coffee/take a walk and inform your crush of your feelings then.\n\nI'm OLDER, I know what I'm talking about!!
140755
You might want him but he wants your friend.  If you are really into this guy, tell your friend, she should understand.  If it's just a simple crush, let your friend have him. He's not the last guy in the world.
214031
You are in love with that person,\nor you have an infatuation with that person.\n\nIt also depends on what that person is doing in your dream, or what you are doing to that person.
663446
if ur a tennager its not love ,its just a crush which would go away when u get goig thru other guy's.\nbut if its true love from ur side just ask that person to meet u personally. tell him ur feeling's,ur love for him it work's.99%
620041
Well, you have to remember you always take the risk of being rejected when you tell someone you like them. If he doesn't share your feelings, you should get over the rejection and look for someone else.
460015
There's no line between love and a crush. Different relationships between different people make it something that you could really decide. If you both feel like you want to go out with each other, just see how it goes. As long as you enjoy it, forget about if it's true love or a crush, because after all, what ARE they?
1093725
You need to realize that your not really falling in love with him but that you still have a crush on him and that your feelings are based upon the past and not on your current life.  He may be a wonderful guy but the reality of it is you really have no idea if you two could ever really be together and be happy together like you and your husband are.  The best way to deal with this is just to keep reminding yourself how lucky you are to have the life you do and stop focusing on what you can't/ don't have.