How do you tell your friend that u want to be in a relashonship with him after 5 months?
395721
just be like yo, i wanna be your friend cause i got my eye on some real hot guy.
970293
Tell him again and dont let him think there is a chance for something more. I can't promise you that your friendship is strong enough to be there when this is all done, but you HAVE to be straight with him.
407966
Six months is definetly too soon. If he really cares about you then all you need to do is tell him that you aren't ready for this because you think it's just to early in the relationship. Tell him that maybe after you've been together like a year and a half, you might move in with him. Don't be afraid to tell him the truth. If he's got a problem with it then he's not worth it. \nJust remember that you are still young and a committment like this is too much. Work on the relationship before taking it to the next level.
1059598
One way of doing it without being direct is to start talking about someone you like. Let it be known that you are interested in someone else. If his your true friend his going to continue been your friend. If he just wants you as a gf then he will end up backing away. I have the same realantionship with one of my friend. He is in love with me and i was honest and told him it could never be between us and that i'm in love with someone else. Till this day we continue to be close friends and he has accepted the fact that there isn't a chance between us.\n\nBest of luck.
637039
Just remember that you are fine and doing what you need to do at this time. Their reaction is about them. Any man that would speak to you in that way was never a friend. Some guys play the friend role while waiting for the opening to move into the next stage. All you need to do is make sure you are very clear about what you need and then they have all the facts to make an intelligent choice whether they wish to put time into the relationship or not. Don't try to push a friendship with a guy that you know wants more. Let him go and then he will decide on his own if he wants to be just friends or if he needs to move on. Just make sure you are doing what is best for you and then everything else will fall into place.\nLove & Light
1102767
go to him tell him"hi my name is ******** and wat`s your`s*********!!!!!!!! wanna be friend??????" when he had make friend with you be close to him near him and then after 1months propose goodluck.
205036
only kiss him when you want to not because he wants it! After 5 months you should know whether you want to have a physical relationship or not! If you don't want that then don't force yourself. Chemistery is one of the most aspects of a relationship.
72433
Don't do anything.  If nothing develops with your friend and the guy for a certain amount of time, let's say a month, then tell your friend you wish you could date him.  \n\nShe might be cool with it, if not, then you should really try to hook them up with each other, because it would be no fair to you, if she didn't do anything at all.
386682
Then tell him exactly that.  Tell him that you really love him as a friend, but you appreciate him as a friend so much that you wouldn't want things to become screwed up between you.
272491
If you feel you cant do it, then yeah you should tell him, But you really need to give it a try. If this is something He really want to do, You really shouldn't stand in his way.\n8 months really is not a long time, And think of how exciting it will be when he returns...
507955
I'm not sure just tell him you or sorry of want every you did to make him fell that way be you would real like to be friends again and see what he say good luck
375694
I usually give friends 3-6 months to start "coming back" once they begin a relationship. After 6 months, I think it's okay to start bugging them, but you will find that usually, they start wanting to explore the outside world again at this point. \nIt's hard not to feel left out when friends hook up with each other, but I guarantee you, they will eventually get enough time together and start being more independent. All that stuff they love about each other will simultaneously become the stuff that becomes annoying about each other, and they'll remember that they were once separate individuals with different tastes, personalities, etc. \nThis is when they get to discover you all over again! \nUntil then, if you can, try to schedule time with each friend separately, and say something like "I really like (other friend) and I like hanging out with both of you, but is it okay if I have you to myself today? I miss our time together." \nIf they are glued together at the hip, try to schedule quality time one-on-one at least every 2 weeks with each friend. Make concrete, scheduled plans and be clear about it being just the two of you. \nYou might have to settle for 1/2 hour lunches, or quick hang-out sessions, and for awhile, it might seem hard to connect, but love is a crazy thing, it does wacky things to people's brains, so try to be patient. They will have to have the same patience when you fall in love and have no time for them!
596487
Let him know you want more of him, set time aside for one another you have to build a relationship.
1165132
Well if you really like him then you just tell him.  Just say that I would like to take this friendship to the next level like a date and see where it goes.  Don't have sex right away just take it slow and let it blossom.  I have been married to my friend for 9 years and tat is how we started..
1063580
You can't, really, if they don't want to be with you. I'm going through the same thing too, and the best thing is to just say how you feel. I did, and things are okay, I guess, but we haven't talked since them but i see him tonite. But yea, don't make up cheesy bullsh*t, just tell 'em flat out how it is. Good luck!
788565
I wouldn't sleep with him yet. 1 month isn't long enough to be able to judge what his true motives are. Make him sweat a bit longer. If he likes you, he'll wait. If he waits, you know he's with you because he likes you, not just because he wants to get it on.
889736
I can't tell you what to do!!! But I do know this, it's always bliss of the first couple of months and if everytime that say "i am gonna call you back" you run to another guy,, you are gonna be running your whole life. everytime a guys gets use to you they don't show the same affection. Talk to him and if he won;t  change then maybe you should make a change to a new dude. But give a chance to change, because there is no telling how that other guy will act in 7 months.