how can i tell my best friend, that i and her husand are in love?
401624
make sure you do it person to person and kindly tell her that you have something to tell her and she's gonna be really upset with you.and tell her people make mistakes then apoligize see how it go from there.
475199
to be honest with you my best friend is a girl..... we live in one apt.... and we do most of the things that you do.... we even walk naked infront of each other but the thing is that everything is very clear with our relationship..... we love each other to death but we know that we cant be more than just friends.... however.. yours can be the same understanding as mine.... at times we tend to forget why we can be so comfortable with friends.... and that there is nothing more.... no malice..... in this instance .... your feeling towards her is that you want more to be friends.... however you are not certain if she does feel the same way however her actions doesnt speak for it... what you have to consider is that .... are you willing to take the risk of loosing a friend should it happen that its only a one way street???? hence.... if your feelings are really strong you need to do it as gently and as fast as possible..... ask her for a casual date and ask her these questions.....\n\n1. what is your ideal guy.....? with this you can decern if it is close to being someone like you...\n2. have you found him??\n3. what makes him different? this will solidify your search....\n4. if all of it fits you then...\n\ntell her that you are ending this friendship ... i want more out of our friendship.. i want to take you out as my date not as my friend......\n\n5. if you seem that there is a different one tell her that you are happy for her.... but then again you just have to be honest... tell her everything......but before that... make a pact before you reveal you intimate feelings you will still be her best friend....
203264
Tell her how you feel! Let her know it's bothering you. If she truly is your best friend,and truly cares about you(like you do her) she will understand!\n\n             -hope it helps-\n                  lots of luv!
476252
Hey buddy!  There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone... make sense?  Sounds like you love her, but may not be in love with her... or simply stated, may not have the romantic feelings that she has for you... it's a tough spot to be in - sorry!  \n\nThere is no easy way to break someone's heart or "let them down"... but you owe it to yourself and her to be honest... and ASAP!  The longer you "pretend" or carry on like you have stronger feelings than what you do, the harder it will be for her... after all, no one likes to live a lie.  Focus on the qualities you like about her and tell her how ya feel.\n\nDon't be surprised if this rocks your relationship as friends... it may even jeopardize any friendship you hope to have (especially if you wait to tell her ya feel).  Trust is a big thing!!!\n\nBest wishes!
136773
I think the best thing for you to do is just be honest with her.  Let her know how you feel in a nice quiet moment, you'll know the time.  Share your feelings.  At the very worst, the two of you will stay friends.  At least you won't have to worry about not knowing.
32027
Try to be a best friends of each other and at the right time tell her what are your feeling towards her.\nHope it'll work!!!
932793
make sure you do first. as its not right to tell someone that you love them just for the sake of it.\nThen just tell them how you feel
368947
Just try to be her best friend EVER and try to make her happy by completing all of her wishes. BEST OF LUCK DUDE!!!!!!!
1054521
Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to change the way his best friend feels - and the worst thing you could do is try to come between them.  \n\nI'm sure that she does have strong feelings for him because that's what happens when you are best friends with someone and you really care about him.  This doesn't mean that she's in love with him though.  Love requires giving and receiving and, if he is in a relationship with you, it's clear that he is not returning her feelings for him.  This has probably only magnified her "feelings" for him because we always want what we can't have.\n\nI would suggest continuing your relationship with him as normal.  It is probably quite painful for her to see the two of you together and she is probably scared that you will take his friendship away from her.  If you make her feel included and let them continue their friendship as they always have, she will realise you are not a threat and will respect your time with him in the same way.  \n\nJust keep in mind that he sees her as a friend and he always has.  Being in a relationship with you will not suddenly make him believe that he loves her.  If you trust him, don't get jealous and don't try to compete with her, he will appreciate you all the more and realise he would be silly to lose you.
254444
hi there. \nfirst you treat to her like friends and always thinking in your mine she is best\nsecond try to know what she want?, and what is her problem?. help her when her need, listenning what her say...\nand then. when you feel she be in love with you, you should say I LOVE YOU
172723
you know your in love when you and your "friend" feel sum thing special in side \n\np.s give it time yoo'll know
349327
You just have to really be yourself and show to her that you are the right guy for her. I would call and talk to her about it and ask her if you two could just go hang out some night and when you do eventually hang out, tell her about everything you feel! They always say that your soul mate should be your best friend so who knows. I wish you the best of luck!
116175
Girl, you HVE TO TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND! Friends will always be friends, it will offend her more if you keep it as a secret. Are you not aware of what they call "Girl's Instinct"? For sure, she feels something and is just not sure about it or is just waiting for you to tell, so go, tell her. You'll see how relieved you will be.
707650
hmm...SING A ROMANTIC SONG FOR HER..........TELL HER SHE'S sexy, mindblowing,my baby,best friend,rocking,life partner,blah blah....\nmy advice tell her love poems:\n*when i'm walking in front of u,i'm protecting u.\nwhen i'm beside u,im there for u,\nwhen im behind u,im watching over u.\n& when im alone,im thinking of u.\n\n*(buy her a ring & say)a ring is round and has no end....and thats how long i'll be with u.\n\n*meeting u was fate,becoming ur friend was choice,but falling in love with u was out of my control.\n\n*Everyone hears wat u say....friends listen wat u say...but lovers listen to wat u dont say.
993327
You are her best friend too right?, Well then some of the best marriages started out as best friends.....You will never know unless you ask. Don't let someone else beat you too it for fear of the unknown. I know you are nervous, but if your feelings are this strong, you should ask. She will listen... Best wishes to you both.
865489
Tell one of your best friend to talk to him about you and tell your best friend to ask him question about who he feels about you and if he says nothing but good things about you have ur friend tell him how you feel about him but, if he ain't feelin' u or just ain't lookin' for a g-friend right now tell ur friend not to tell him anything about the way u feel.
1033582
I am a newly wed- I had a best friend for ten years that I was so in love with but never had the courage to say anything. If you are too afraid to be up front and just ask -try something out of the ordinary to determine if it's love or just a innocent "like". Tell him/her a dramatic story something that involves getting hurt - then ask them what if something like that happened to you? What would he/she do? The answer or response will definitely let you know if they like or love you! Trust me.... :-)