Would you rather be the one that hurts the one you love or the one that is hurt by the one you love?
414935
Unfortunately we don't usually get the choice. If it's headed to a bad place you can try and salvage at least a descant departure. However, if it's from someone you really loved you can't help but be hurt regardless who ends it. Sometimes it's just not meant to be!
147927
stay with the one you love because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. Maybe he is saying that he loves you to win you over, but who knows. It is up to you. What feels right? Who treats you better? Who do you LOVE?
229949
It depends upon how deep the pain and how much you care about the person who your causing the pain.  If by being with the one you love you know that you could never truly be happy because of the other persons pain then you have to give them up.  If on the other hand you can accept their pain and know that over time they will get over it or that it won't affect your ability to be happy and love then don't give it up.
136370
Just decide which one you would take a bullet for if you had to, or in other words, die for?  Love is hoping only the best for that person!
602357
this is very difficult coz u hurt someone dear to you-your bestfriend. i don't think you'd choose this guy over your bestfriend.get away w/ that feeling before it gets worse.there are a lot of guys out there who are not committed.why not entertain them instead of entertaining your feelings for your bestfriend's guy.
627949
we hurt the most the people that we love.
1131650
falling for someone who was out to hurt me
928960
I would say, loving yourself first is important if you want to be loved. I believe loving another more than yourself is possible if you wouldn't mind dieing for that person. \nBut to love yourself more is better because you have to hold yourself at value and take care of yourself so that you CAN share your love with someone.
658439
That's a big question.\n\nIs it better to take the risk of pain and have the possibility of love/happiness with another person, or to avoid the possibility and the risk altogether?\n\n\nIt's all up to you, and it depends on what you think is important. \n\nIf it's more important to you to not get hurt, then avoid relationships-- or, at least, emotionally invested ones.\n\nIf it's more important to you to have a possibility of happiness with someone else, then take the risk.\n\nLots of people decide to stay distant to avoid pain, but I would argue that the risk and the pain and the love are what life is about. Life is about experience, and about being present for it. Take risks, get hurt, feel love, laugh, cry-- do it all, because without it what is the point of life?
150801
I wouldn't get confused and I wouldn't confuse them either. Simply put, I will choose the one who loves me the most. I will choose the one who doesn't love me for my money. Because money can bring you a million lovers.
504746
who do you like more? who do you think you would have more fun with? who do you think you'd get along w/better? who asked you first? \nhopefully that's enough questions to help you answer your own question. lol
807106
i wouldn' t leave them at all because if i love the person, i wouldn't leave them when they need of me the most. and if i did and the person is back to themselves, i would regret it with all my heart because it was a stupid thing to do in the first place and i lost the person i cared for and to the most.
612289
You have to decide which person means more to you the one your with or the one your not with. Your the ony one who can decide is it worth rising hurting the guy you love for womeone who your not sure that he even feels the same way.
1090083
be honest with yourself and both of them and make the best choice for you but you have to choose one . (please note: i've assume you are involved with at least one of them)
1023846
If you have to chose one,be with someone who loves YOU more...you chances of being hurt are less and you will be taken care of much better then by someone who does not love you as much...
621518
Both. Love does cause pain, and sometimes good pain is love.
1014754
with the one that you love..............