Do you consider your boyfriend a good helper.....for a job?
406625
No.  We have different abilities and attitudes about how things should be done and their result.  He goes about his business and I, mine..That way, we stay friends, too.
371429
I would say they dont usually because of work.  However, you could be that way anyway even in a relationship and that wouldnt be a bad thing.  I know for me personally, im a very hard worker but if i had someone in my life, that would be my first conceern, so it is possible to be a hard worker and a good companion.
359694
no !theres a lot more to it than taking care of someone.find out if he respects you and wants to listen to you.make sure he is;nt someone who needs to rescue people
1105317
put your boyfriends name on your to-do list
1162970
yeah, any job is good. if your looking for something else then it'll be fine for the mean while and if not then its better then nothing, besides every job is respectful for a man that provides. best of luck
215680
Yeah, I think he get to be up to something which is not good. Try to make it sure, I think he is just using you.
1165347
Hi, I met my husband at my place of employment. I only thought of him as a nice person, possibly a friend. He came in one day and asked me to go to a band job with him(he is a drummer). I said I wanted to go and he was a perfect gentleman in every way. When I got home he said goodnight and patted my hand. I really knew he was a good guy and I would date him many times after that. After two years of dating we had a beautiful wedding. I still love him so much I could not tell you.
853656
No, I don't think it's the guy's job at all. If you want to be with him, you should ask him out :)
1076441
Yeah! But only when i need help from him/her....
818158
not spouse, but yes, I make about 3 times what my live-in boyfriend does, after he pays his child support.  No, I am just glad he's a decent guy who WILLINGLY pays his child support, unlike that worthless piece of crap "daddy" of my daughter's!
620164
honestly!\n\nwhy are you bothering?\n\nYou'll end up the person who will be supporting his habit 'cause he needs to borrow $20 (and he promises to pay you back, and he never does!)\n\nHe'll sweet talk you, he's probably got a way with words... but you'll be wasting your time! What do you expect to get out of this relationship?\n\n...And to top this off, be weary he'll eventually be stealing from you too! (This will definitely happen if he's out of work, can't hold a job down!)
10463
yeah, i do! and she is wonderful.. now it's a parttime job you don't like? absolutely...why not? but it will make work a little odd-and good... be careful ,if the relationship goes bad it can mean drama at work... no peace...
1044727
I doubt his dad thinks poorly of you, his job as your bf's dad is to look out for his son and his sons future.  \n\nSounds like you/him have some co-dependency issues (not healthy) going on.  Your bf should take this job and you should let him go.
1066496
my husband, he's pretty handy;)\nI sure wouldn't want to be stranded without him!
682316
i screwed up my past. I'm lucky to have him now. he cares enough to make my life a better life. sometimes is really hard to do something i think it's true, but I'm glad that he is there to always give me the better alternative and guess what...I do much better .
401648
My husband once took his day off and cleaned the entire house.  I'm not talking just picking stuff up and moving clutter around.  He broke out the cleaning supplies and deep scrubbed the apartment.  It doesn't sound like a very romantic thing, but trust me it was an amazing thing from my husband and for me.
579040
only you know what to do. but i can try to give advice.  find a job even somewhere you don't want to work.  catch the bus, walk to work.  whwre is your boyfriend? does he have a car?  do any of your friends have cars?  why does your family act like that with you?  be truthful.  prove to the, that you are not lazy stop pointing the finger and take some initative.  don't break up with your boyfriend you may need some one to come through this mess with you.