I've broke up with my bf  when i found out he have another gf and showed him as if im not hurt. am i right???
411167
Take the high way out.  Look him in the eye and tell him exactly how you feel.  Because, if he really knows you then he knows you are playing games or acting out in anger.  My ex told me to my face and it bothered me.  Years later, it made me a better man.
1003212
Forget him...there was obviously a good reason why you broke up with eachother..and honey...he was cheating on his gf wit u ....what makes u think he won't cheat on u wit someone else??Find yourself a real man!<3
528983
I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
521573
It's normal.. we all go through the same thing.. (I mean unless we had a flamin' bad break up that is!) Does the current bf know about this? ..and deal w/it? He sounds like a kool dude if so. It'd be hard, but could ya like change where ya R hangin' out, so ya 2 don't meet up? I kow it's rough if ya got the same friends, right? If ya have a bad breakup ONE of the good things about it is you got a TON of bad info. to use mentally to get over the bad dudes. I mean if he beat ya up, dissed ya, you gotta make that memory a WHOLE lot better.. (helps ya get over the hurt.) How long it been since ya broke up? It'll get better, I promise! If it's too new a hurt, I think it's kool ya got wit another guy already too.. later-     melancholia
580842
If he is telling other women that your two are broke up, then he is trying to do something with them.  You have your own answer right there.  He is a cheater and he is willing to cheat with one of your friends.  Get someone who respects you and your feelings and leave the trash to the bitchesss.  good luck, you deserve better than that!!!
995553
I'm kind of confused.  Her boyfriend has been away right?  She still loves him.  But since he's been gone, she found another guy right?  But the second guy has a another girlfriend???  Ummm....that's real simple.  Dump the second guy since he's obviously got two gals on the string...and go back to the first guy if she still loves HIM.  There's nothing to tell HIM.  Even if she can't make up her mind between the two of them, obviously guy #2 hasn't made up his mind which gal he wants so.....if she isn't his OBVIOUS choice she needn't waste any more of her time.  Why hurt the first guy when it isn't even necessary????
612366
Why did you break-up?  Obviously, there was a reason it wasn't working out.  Did either of you cheat?  Or, did you break-up because you wanted to see other people (or because one of you wanted to see someone else)?  If it was cheatting, do you really think trust will be in the relationship, and suddenly faithful?  If someone wanted to see other people, do you think it won't happen again?  Some people always want something on the back burner.  (Well, if I break-up with her and things don't work out with so-n-so, I can always go back to her.)  Hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me!!!
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
670954
Because your boyfriend spent the day with another girl is not grounds for breaking up. Dont jump to conclusions before you have had an opportunity to talk to your boyfriend.  Communication is the key.  It may turn out that this girl is a friend and there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having friends who are girls, by the same token there is nothing wrong with you having friends that are boys.
940816
welp-i left my man of 3 yrs. & dated other people-i was split up w/him for 2 yrs.-i had 2 other serious relationships n this period & i still missed my ex-& snuck & called him & even saw him once or twice-but n ur situation u may not have 2 worry about that if he's not talkin 2 her--but her---well hunny-if u want 2 b n a serious relationship-it really don't sound like she's the one!!
977163
As hard as it is, you have to avoid getting jealous.  He's dating YOU not her.  He broke up with her and chose to date YOU.  If he really wanted to be with her, he could break up with you.  At the same time, it's probably not a bad idea to tell him that you're a little comfortable that they're still so close.  If he respects you, he'll understand and try to make you feel better.  Good luck!
749409
Maybe he does not want to hurt your feelings.  Do you still have feelings for him and does he know that?  If so, then he is just looking out for you.  \nThe other option could be that he thinks that he still has a chance with you and therefore does not want to tell you that he currently has a girlfriend, in case that relationship does not work out and he can come back to you??!!!
623184
oh hell ya...."my boyfriend asked another girl out while we were together" that is all i had to read, i think you should dump him because no guy needs another girl in their life if they are in a relationship no matter what the sitution is.  NEVER EVER let a guy do that to you because if he did that and you still stay with him then i am sure he will do something else and think "she'll still stay with me".  if it was me i would of dumped him without even thinking about it.  u deserve better, every girl in that position deserves better than that.
694163
Sounds like he likes you.  Maybe he is thinking to himself, why did I let her go ??  The only way to get rid of the feeling is to not see him all the time but now that your bf is friends with him that will be hard.
1179860
What do you mean break up ,,it sounds like you haven't been his girlfriend for some time now, and why in the hell are you worried about what your friends say or think,, they don't run your life or pay your bills,, be independent, tell him and all of them to kiss your a** ,,and go out and find some real friends !!!
561366
you have two gfs sounds like you are a non-commiting person, just decide, you are about to hurt one or both, you should have not gotten youself in this predicament.
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.