what should i do with my ex and this new boy?
406501
ur young, love hurts, leave him, a relationship with any type of violence or disrespect will never work, sure ur gonna cry and want him back, but b strong, date other ppl trust me you'll get over it, that what time is for, to heal the pain, dont let anything at all get in the way of ur school tough, cause when u turn 18 and wanna get out of home, ur education is the only thing u can depend on, not ur parents, not a guy who is gonna want to tell u what to do and how to do it cause he supports u, it feels good to earn your own money, and pretty much ur freedom.
614659
I honestly you and you're ex should sit down and talk about it.  I mean, obviously you have a past and if you are both reasonable people you should be able to come to some sort of cconclusion.  You're kids are smart, they will understand at  a later age, but now you have to treat them like kids and let the adults figure out what is best.
132566
i think its okay if you're okay with it. do you want to go back to your ex?  if so, talk to him about it first. commmunication is key.
1103268
Stick to your new b/f, as going back with your ex wont work as there must have been something which made yous fall out. stay with the new guy as you never know he could be your soul mate, if you leave your new b/f and go back to old one he could leave you again so do you want that. stay where you are and be happy there's no point looking back just look forward and be happy. good luck
72802
Most definitely bring him.  It will help your ex get over you.
941054
So let me get one thing straight does your ex think youre gonna be with the guy till the end with him or is it the new guy I think you mean the new guy  just tell him straight forward how u feel\ndont beat around the bush! be sraightforward with your feelings!
33518
Go for it. Your ex should not have any say over who you date. That's why it's called "ex."
571759
It's perfectly natural to compare what is known and familiar (Your ex) to what is still being learned and unfamiliar (Your boyfriend), and everyone does it consciously or not. Your ex is part of your past that became a familiar territory, you know what makes him tick. If it's the material things that matter to you in life, chances are you might still be with your ex, but there's more to it since you've got the children and you know your current boyfriend is loving. The best thing you can do is to forget about the past, and what your ex has or had (if possible) and concentrate on your new relationship and being happy together with him. It might even seem that though your ex has some of the things you'd love to have (the new audi and 2nd home), you have something that he wants also (your children, and for you to be miserable). Don't give him that power over you! As they say, kill him with kindness... If it's his intent to make you jealous of his new car and 2nd home, brush it off and attempt to be genuinely happy for him! (Remember, he's the one stuck paying all those bills). This should get easier in time.
533166
I'm presuming they are ex's for a reason... Think back on that reason and figure out why they are no good for you...\n\nFind someone else... Or tell them both that you have someone else, then see what happens...
320746
It sounds like you really already know in your heart what you want and what you need to do.So,do it.Life is to short to be unhappy.You truly are in love with your ex,so that is where you need to be.I know it would be hard to tell the other person in your life,but it needs to be done,and it can be done in a nice manner.Like you just are not ready for a relationship with him,and you would not be fibbing,because you are not ready when you have such strong feelings for your ex.Also,this isn't fair for them nor for you all,and in the long run,it would be much harder to end as the more time that goes by.I say go and follow your heart.Good Luck to you!
661561
I would say that you should talk to your ex about it and see what he has to say. Maybe he can talk to his his brother. If not then you should consider embarrassing the brother at least in-front of his Friends. But first you should talk to your ex.
113964
I think you should leave your boyfriend.  If you are not happy with him and he doesn't make you happy, then leave.  You think alot of your child, to want to stay, but your child will see that you are happy, once you leave and the child will be happy also.  As for the ex, you shouldn't get back with him, unless you are sure it was meant to be.  You have your child, who needs you more than any man.  You will know when the right one comes along.
1129018
Move out immediately. If she loves you, she will move with you. It isn't the ex that is the problem, it is your perception of him that is making a mess. It doesn't matter what she and her ex did, it is none of your business, just as your past is none of her business. Either take it or leave it. I live with my ex, and have a new love living with me...there are no problems in my household (that I am aware of, anyway).
489018
You broke up with this guy for a reason. Ask yourself if you really like your ex. Who do you want to be with? maybe you should just be single for a while and just date around. Maybe try to be friends with your ex and see how that works out for you, see if your feelings resurface, but also tell him to date as well. It'll all work out if you think things over.
1089342
The new girl isn't going to fill any voids - she might keep you preoccupied for a little while, but thats about it.  You need to let your feelings for your ex come out - and you need to deal with them in order to really move on.
492909
Tricky one. all i'm gonna say is he's your ex for a reason and I really think you shouldn't go there as things could turn very ugly!\nJust hold yuor head up high and move on.
923051
Pack up and run away.  Put 1500 miles distance between you and your soon to be ex.  It's better that way.