My boyfriend is currently married and he has the divorce paper but he will not fill them, what should I do????
408217
Sounds like he is stringing you along.  Leave him and quick.
693189
Be sure you have a copy of his Social Security number.  Then dump him and get a good family law attorney and sue for child support. And go back to school and learn some good solid job skills and become self supporting....in addition to the child support you deserve.
244874
first you need to find out if it is legal to run an add in a paper letting the person know youre divorcing him. cuz in some states you can get in touch with someone and they will run an add in the paper and your spouse will have a certain amount of time to answer,if he does not answer, your granted the divorce, so ask the court house or talk to a lawyer. good luck
259774
I filled a divorce form immediately. You can never change someone. Eventually get separated and let him have a therapy but do never let a man treat you like trash and pretends he loves you. If he would love, really love you, he would never dare to treat you so badly. You deserve much more than that!
373556
If he was still married when he "married" you, your marriage may be invalid and you won't need a divorce. See a lawyer- laws vary by state.
1119384
Divorce papers will not give the specifics, they will only give a general description. \nThey will state who gets what of the property and who has to pay and how much. Also tell when the divorce was final. If you can't trust him then you don't need to be thinking about marriage. Just remember that there is always two sides to every story. Talk to his EX. if you dare and must know the truth. Just remember that he might take offense to that and be very upset with you.
694376
just seperate, isnt a big deal, why file any paperwork, if you think you  are going to work it out,  most times it isnt worth it, just get a divorce
769509
go to the family clerks office in the town you were married in and request a pro se divorce (do it yourself) you do not need a lawyer AT ALL.  I did my divorce this way and it cost me $225 to file and $90 to have him served.  He didnt show to court and he didnt have to.  I was granted a divorce 90 days after the papers were filed.  Whooo hoo
783040
No, they cannot hold them, and those are some damned important documents!!  What would they do with all your info?  Call the cops about it, and if nothing else, get a lawyer pronto!\n \nBest of luck.
1101815
You won't convince him ,all you can do is file for divorce and let your lawyer know that he won't believe it's over ,once the divorce is in pipe line then aqnd only then mite he accept it really is over,i would suggest you keep contact to a minimum that way he will start to get the idea you ae not coming back,if you have been in contact on a regular basis he may feel he still stands a chance but you can't turn the clock back and if you don't love him you will only be even more unhappy if you return out of guilt because he is miserable without you,GOOD LUCK
454013
Well it seems you've made a mistake. Tsk. Just divorce him. And Hell no can he reapply for residency. Heck if all of them started thinking like that, then people would just be getting married just to obtain legal status.
903411
I think Prisons have free divorce help, he needs to ask. If not, the papers are free on line. With no children, and no assets, he should have no problem filing as a low income person in the state, or one of the counties he is incarcerated in. Just needs to check on the computer for prices in each county.
12995
at your local court office you can get a divorce packet,both of you take it to a parralegal have it filled out before you and stipolate a agreement,noterise it and enter it into court, as uncontested ("both") parties .you should receive a short wait for a court hearing, if both parties are still in agreement the judge can order it "so" there and then.just make shure that you are inagreement , whith all issues , such as children ,money or holdings, and dedts.
760078
Ex-husband or boyfriend? If he has no legal claim over the house call the cops. If he does then leaving with your kids sounds like the only reasonable option.
239940
If there was no written contract stating terms and conditions of the arrangement - you have no obligation on how long you have to keep his stuff.  However, before you toss them out, you probably should ("should" protecting you against the legal debate of he said / she said) give him written notice of removal with a reasonable deadline to protect yourself from any legal issues.  If you don't know how to reach him, post a notice in the local papers.  That way you have proof you made every effort.
691898
One (or both) of them may be leaving the door open for a future reconciliation. The person doing this may not even know that this is the case. When I left my first husband, he said he wasn't going to file since I left him, I was the one with the problem, and there were financial issues as well. This went on for several years. At one stage, I did go back to him, and he dumped his girlfriend like garbage. I am not proud of this, she was a nice girl, but I think I did her a favor since he went on to drugs & crime. After going back & finding out for sure he was wrong for me, I did file for divorce.\n\nThis is NOT to say that this is the case with you. But it could be possible. Maybe she thinks in the back of her mind that he will come back. Financial complications are easily resolved by lawyers, ask him to see one. A married man is a married man, whether he lives with her or not. Neither the law nor time is on your side. Good luck.
140862
He won't get a divorce because it's easy. THAT'S the excuse he gave you???? HAHAHAHA! Now I've heard everything and I will think about this one when I need a good laugh. Be smart and dump the loser.