how do you come back to something you really love?
404255
if you truly loved it to begin with ..it never really left you..so its not even really going back to it. It was there all along, ya just took a break
141126
Firstly, I personally believe you can never completely stop loving someone if you truely loved them once. So yes, in my opinion it is possible for you to get some of your old feelings back when you meet your ex again. I guess if that happens, then you have to weigh up your options and decide what is best for you and what direction to take.
26917
Yes, think of your favourite treat/sweet. Just imagine never tasting it at all and then that one time when it was so perfect and beutifull and everything just seem so much better because of it.\n\nNow, even if you never taste it again, you will still have those wonderfull memories to relive and maybe, just maybe it will inspire you to try and taste it again someday.
135018
if he still has feeling for you, he himself will have to decide to come back.  You can't make him.  try not to force him to do anything.  be yourself, and it he loves you as much as you do him, he will come back.\n\ngood luck.
909971
Don't be too hard on yourself, going back home is bound to bring back memories even at a subconscious level. Try to remain positive and drink lots of water, take a brisk walk for 1/2 an hour at least three times a week (but remember if you haven't exercised for a while you will need to build up to it start with whats comfortable then build up from there) eating right helps but without water and exercise it is a lot harder...good luck!
569720
Start by taking a 1 month vacation with at least 2 weeks spent doing nothing!  Then ease yourself into doing things that you used to love...run, plant flowers, shop, etc. (whatever)\n\nThen when you go back to work, make yourself slow down.
33441
Alow your heart to find another love\nif you stick with your present love you will loss the chance to find another true love\nLeave him\nGive your self a true chance for another true productive Love \nyou will find him but only if you give your self that chance\nGood Luck
92790
By taking it one day at a time. and working on the things you can control. \n\nWork on dating new people, and learning what you like in women. She has left you and is not comming back so you might as well move on also. \n\nIt's your choice you can pine over a lost love or work on making new memories with someone new. the choices are up to you. \n\nI would suggest reading the book\nWho moved my cheese it's small and oh so wonderful for helping you look at your life with a critical eye. \n\nThen I would suggest readong smart love. \n\nMay God Bless your life.
644432
Find something you really enjoy. A sport, a hobby, a really good book or TV show, music, religion, even politics. Find something that intices you and embrace it.
235539
Once it is gone, you can never get it back.  Consider, carefully what you do and why you are doing it.
106420
Find new things, groups, experiences etc... to occupy your time.  I love change.  I get very antsy and bored quickly.  I constantly change my activities and interests in order to compensate for this.  Constantly find new projects, groups for your kids, write a book.  Whatever interests you.  Only you can determine what will make you happy.  Maybe a new degree and a career change.  Explore your interests!
1049840
remember the first time all that really matters is the love you feel dont try to feel PLEASURE yet \n\nite all about the love you guy share
71478
there r ways 2 bring the romance back if that is what u want... u dont have 2 be gone... make ur decision as to what u want and go for it... there are all kinds of sources that help u think of ideas for romance... women love the little things tho... doenst have 2 be diamonds although those r nice 2... start by respecting her and go from there..compliment... do things with her that are yuck like housework... pat her butt when u walk by... cards... poems... notes anything... just do it if u want it back... good luck... i think ur already great for just asking the question... most guys not all never even get that far... they never see the romance has diminished hehe
350784
You don't get over it, you learn from it. You look at why it didn't work out, and hopefully change things so that the next time you are in love you will not make the same mistakes. Or you could try and get it back. You know the old saying, if its truely love and you let it go, it comes back to you. If it never returns it wasn't truely love to begin with. Or my personal favorite, find someone that looks exactly like your love, F**** him dump him, laugh with your friends about it later.(just kidding)I find a little laughter and joking sometimes eases the pain ya know what I mean!
355025
Believe it or not, the heart grows back stronger than it every was before.  If you trust in yourself and trust that there are wonderful things ahead of you, you'll find a love at the moment you least expect it that makes this one pale in comparison.
1081402
How?\n\nYou start picking up the pieces that you have dropped, but this time with more knowledge from the lessons you have learned since then and having a much stronger conviction of the value and importance of what you are going to accomplish this time around.\n\nWelcome back to the fold and Peace be with you!
694030
Relax. Remember how much fun it was. Then take your time to get used to them again.