How is it fair that I can't get married in my own country?
395731
Who knows why our country's doing anything it's doing. I agree with you completely. I'm sorry that you and your partner, as well as all other homosexuals, cannot show your love by marrying one another. Love is love. I don't think it matters if you're a man loving a man, a woman loving a woman, or a man loving a woman. If your heart is true you should be able to get married. Bottom line. I hope that you and your partner will one day have the same rights as the rest of us. And that this prejudice will end; to any degree it can.
786504
I think it's a particular American prejudice. People in the UK sometimes marry their cousins. It has never been seen as a problem here.\n\nPersonally I was surprised to see the furore among the American contingent!\n\nHere's a link to an American article which confirms that there are no real genetic grounds for forbidding cousins to marry.
388841
Well there are quotas so if the quota for your country is full TOO BAD.And it also takes forever.And it costs money.And why would they do it legally if it is so simple to come illegally.
262945
Boy are you inviting grief asking that in this forum...  However, my heartfelt answer is: Where-ever you find love, why not be allowed to make that committment?\n\nI don't see how the government letting you marry the person you love in any way threatens me and my marriage and my family - I would still choose a heterosexual relationship whether or not gay marriage is legal - so my family life does not need defending from your legal status.  I truly believe that you would not chose this lifestyle if you had a choice.  \n\nGood luck to you.
320046
can't unless you where born there. if you mean citizenship that's different.
610768
like wat??? here in england you seem to get more if you are a single mum than if you are married they penalise us for marriage here!!!
915791
Marrying for a greencard is illegal in our country.
985932
MARRIED PERSON HAS RIGHT TO MARRY.
608396
Marriage.  Sadly, even that isn't 100% secure for some.
87703
International rules aren't that strict. It's often determined by which country you are a citizen of, not where you are born. There are even some exceptions to that, however.
505207
what i feel is that it is not right for both men or women to marry again.a person with true love for his&#92;her better half will never think about it.in a country like mine,both are considered illegal.one should think hundred times before choosing his&#92;her better half and not after that.marriage is not a trial and error method.these are my thoughts and don't say that these alone are right
727053
Woah, you've asked a lot there.  Since you (a) are an alien in the UK, (b) your bride is not from the UK at all and (c) you want to get married on foreign soil, you've set up a very sophisticated, difficult immigration problem.  Consult a barrister in the U.K. first.
273488
what's wrong with the country you are in now ? why do you need to imagrate? you should only marry someone if you love them and are willing to commit to them for the rest of your life. a marriage without love is not a good choice. give it up ! live legally and make a happy place in your  own country !
224981
I you are illegal then you need to go back to your country and get legal to that country or have him marry you in your country.
611703
gay marriage is not legal in USA. Try getting married in Canada, Spain, Netherlands or Czech.
78905
If you felt that you can't get fair in your own county then nowhere. Instead drive yourself to strive your kiths, kins and society to get faired.\n\nIf you do so then you will fairer then fairest and happiness and satisfaction in your life.
720860
No, not valid, it's against the law, it's called "bigamy".  Be careful, different states have different laws.  You could end up in jail for a very long time.  If you want to live this kind of life, go overseas to a country where it is accepted and legal.