what are few points to forget emotional feelings for somone you love but unfortunately things are not working?
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Time, distance and self care
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I am going through the same deal, except I am no where close to the love part yet. It is difficult to lay yourself out on a line when your not certain they feel the same. I am beginning to understand you just have to take that plunge if you care enough that it worries you and your ready to express it. I need to take my own advice.
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The point is most of us don't know we are in love or we  understand it too late! The reason for getting heart-broken is that we get used to some one so much and for such a long time that it's so hard to imagine life without that person. I always relate this to losing some one because of death.I believe that both sutuations are the same. We feel lost without that beloved person and it's hard to accept you won't hear the voice, you won't see the face or you won't see that person any more. The duration depends totally on you. You will eventually forget it but it's easier if you find some hobby or meet new people and totally be willing to forget.
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Hate to say this but you are putting you through the emotional rollercoaster.  It's possible to stop.  Think about being open and honest with these two about your feelings, doubts, and fears.  You'll feel better.  And remember, the world won't end if this connection you feel goes away.  You'll still be worthwhile and valuable as a person.
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Hi there. I recommend you would get a pet. Sometimes it is hard for us to relate to fellow human beings, but easier to animals. Put all of your heart into the animal, and maybe, when the right person comes, you will be already familiar with the feeling of love and will be able to return it.\nIf you really want to change your emotional habits, by the way, and start loving, you need to check into your childhood. Most people who cannot love others or themselves, had been messed with, as children. They then need a special kind of therapy and yahoo answers is not the right place for it. Sorry I cannot help you more than that, unless you specify in additional details more about your problem. What kind of love do you have problems with? Just loving a woman? Or also loving your family? It might make a difference, and give indication to the cure. Good Luck.
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Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
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i am sorry you suffer i know how u feel cause i felt same when a guy broke up my heart long time ago you must move on cause she no love you it's hard but u will i advice you to go find other love spend time with new gf even u not feel in love with her but this is best way to forget about ur love best luck thank you
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Make sure you don't just miss being in love, so you think you are. Make sure that person isn't the rebound. Really think about what about that person you really love.
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mmm...ur feelings are ordinary...it will take some time to forget him...u have to do some important things to make it a small period :\n1-never try to contact him even if u felt that u would die to hear his voice or see him, never even think of that.\n\n2-when u find ur self starting to think of him, start to remember the bad things he did to you as much as u can.\n\n3- never think that u miss his days and never dream of being with him again.\n\n4- try to think of another one if u can (that's a quick cure but it's not a good one).\n\n5- finally and the most important try not to have alot of free time, try to engage ur self in doing anything...and try not to stay alone for a long time...be with ur friends,relatives,or any other people.
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Hi, \nThe last thing I would do would be to encourage you, only to see you get hurt. \n\nIf you have feelings that he still cares about you, then check it out further. You might want to try writing him a letter and let him know how you feel. You will be taking a chance, but if things work out, it will be worth it. \n\nAlso, revisit the reasons the two of you are not together now. We tend to forget the bad and only remember the good, so if you feel it is worth a try in your heart, then by all means, go for it. \n\nThere is a possibility he may feel the same way about you. \n\nGood luck, and I hope things work out for you. \n\nDarryl S.
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The best thing you can do is search your heart.   A test can't tell you what your true feelings are.  If you're not sure, don't worry about it for now, just try to focus your life on other things and let time work it out for you.
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You can't.  If you feel pressured to prove your love, then nothing will ever be enough for that person.  It's a reflection of their own insecurity or feelings of worth, of feeling "loveable" and you can't change that no matter how hard you try.
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I guess you are beginnning to have feelings again for that person. Wouldn't you like to contact him somehow ? just to know how that person is doing ?
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I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
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Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them.  They will always be there in your head.  Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them.  Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there.  \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God.  More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here.  Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience.  Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future.  Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad.  Best of luck in your hard times...
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You can't but if it isn't working out you have to. It would be worse to stay in an unhappy relationship. Eventually he or she will get over their hurt feelings and realize it was for the best also.
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Hi, I hope this helps.  I think that you should not try to forget him, but to change your perspective on how you view how things were with you and him. Look back on the times of love and joy you did share and realise that those moments were good, but new happier moments will come with someone who you feel you can open up with and trust and love totally. Let go of any guilt or anger you feel about not opening up, if indeed you do carry any.  Moving on emotionally is the best thing that you can do and I wish you well.  But do not forget him, just say a silent "thank you" now and then for all the lessons learnt and wish him well.  You are a much more beautiful and stronger person for this experience.