y do friends alwayz act like their ur best friends but they tlk bout u? Why do people talk alot?
399630
Unfortunately the only way to know if someone is a true genuine friend is time, be protective of yourself, and keep private things to you and the ones you KNOW you can trust, Those who are less genuine are masters at deception and is why many get hurt by trusting too soon. So by knowing this maybe you can keep your self safe from this more often.
171537
well it all depends on what a good person is..... what is a good person to you? and the whole thing about best friends is kind of played out.... i think a best friend can accumulate depending on the situation at hand.... they simply decide on a favorite person based on how they feel at that particular moment. I think that when people call eachother ''best friends'' they are basically longing for a special bond that they would have found anywhere, so it wouldnt have mattered who the person was that they were friends with because they would have created it with anyone depending on the circumstance.
626713
I think the main reason why "friends" talk about you behind your back is because they either don't like you or there's something about you that they don't like. There are other reasons as well why they talk about you behind your back. Those so-called people whom you called "friends" talk about you behind your back, they are not your friends. Friends do not bad mouth each other and they're there for one another. People talk about other people regardless, and it is up to us to not be so concerned of what they think. I learned in life to pick and choose your friends carefully. If they want to be a part of your life, be a positive influence, picks you up when you're down, and they're there for you, that is a friend. Don't worry about the fact that those people talk about you. Be who you are and stay that way. DO NOT change yourself for nobody.
503028
just wanted to let you now that if you clam this person is your best friend,  if he or she was truly your best friend then you would still be talking because a best friend never stops talking they get over any problem they might have. good luck because if your friend is truly a friend what ever happened should never stop a friendship.
116625
Nope.. real friends don't peer presure you into anything. Real friends respect you.
1004923
Why do you feel the need to test people? What is that saying about you? You don't know who you friends are?  If you have real friends you don't always have to say anything, my friends and I just start walking and talking together.  Come on now grow up and stop worrying about things that will not make any difference in the long run.
261085
Real friends arent like that so he/she isnt ur real friend. I may be wrong..but maybe even your great friends and he is just shy..talk to him Gurly Gurl! Lol, thank you.
702356
Some people are just weird, maybe he needed some time away from people. If he doesn't seem to be the reclusive type then I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Friends shouldn't be like that and if it happens again casually bring it up. Another thing is how close are you guys? New friends, old friends, etc...\nThe talking like normal might be a cover b/c ppl don't like fessing up to screwing up
1132506
To tell you the truth I have a bunch of friends, but I never tell them any of my secrets and I don't enjoy my self around them that much because I don't believe they are really true friends. I can just see it in their eyes that they are just taking me for granted. I also dont like them because they are so mean to others. I mean just because a person is different doesn't mean your better than them. I had one true friend of the opposite gender, but now they are gone. So a little tip from me: don't trust all your friends. Look deep inside them and see who they really are. And show them your true self to see if they like you or not. Once you've found a true friend then spend good times with them.
121603
Could it be that you are giving too much credcence to the actions of others.  Just be yourself.  Some will like you others won't.  You can't please everyone all the time.  The important thing to remember is you need to like yourself.  Learn to be comfortable with that and might be surprised at the number of friends you really do have.
873953
I think that every friend has the potential to be a best friend.  A best friend, in my opinion, knows the good and the bad about you and still loves you just the same.  A friend can be just an acquaintance that you shared a chance meeting with where you two discussed things that you have in common.  \nSometimes it takes awhile to get to know a person.  Best friends know you inside and out and you truly have a special bond.
199927
best friends for ever are friends you gained through your childhood.. others are just pretending and hiding behind thier masks of the happy fake sociaty..
655963
Maybe your friend just goes in and out of different moods, like most of us do.  As long as she's nice MOST of the time, and as long as her acting funny isn't being mean to you, then I'd still be her friend.
584498
hehe it's either that ur bestfriend is a blabber mouth and says everything u say to everyone.. or people can know that ur in love with this guy from ur reactions when he's around!
534602
I would ask her why her friends do that and have a talk about it. i think she may be jealous of you and this is her way of dealing with it! and if she gets worse after you talk to her then she does deserve you as a friend.
178718
of course... people find out who they really are from interaction with friends. No interaction, no feedback. We tend to act as what people say about us.
1072458
i have almost exactly the same problem. what i'm trying to do is to be more talkative and loud around my friends so that i get comfortable with it, then i hope i'll be more talkative in general, even with people who arent my really good friends.