How long , after separating, and  you know it will end in divorce, do you wait to start dating again?
410890
As soon as you are ready.  I started dating the same month that my Ex moved out.  I never regreted it and I found a wonderful man.  Go for it.
637179
Been there done that...whats up with the 23rd year...Its alot of years, you'll never forget the past, my marriage was great the first 20 years, but I could see the dis-interest building as the months after pasted by...and she too felt she was no longer in love with me, however I later found out her interests were directed toward another...suggestions..Seek marriage council advice, put forth a 100% effort to resolve such conflict, and if it doesn't turn out happily ever after, if there ever was an ideal time to be single , its with a good job, no mortgage and your child a grown adult...very simular to my situation...its was 2 yrs separated and 3 years since divorce and those conditions were blessings in disguise.
1052788
First of all your grammar is really hard to understand could you fix that next time when asking another question?\nSecond of all what do you mean by pursue? You mean date?  If that's the case dont you know its wrong to pursue anyone when you are still married? why don't you go ahead and file a separation first and just be friends and then wait till your divorce is final?  That way you can get to know each other better and start out as friends?\nIf she really likes you then she will wait.  GOOD LUCK
622887
I was in a similar marriage for 22 years.  My divorce was final in October of last year.  I am now dating a fabulous guy.  If you are interested in someone in particular, go out with him.  You have wasted enough of your life on your loser husband.  Now is your time girl!  Good luck!  Have fun!  Respect yourself enough to never accept that kind of treatment from anyone ever again!
946420
Like I said in your previous q's, it is pretty stupid.  If you were going to get a divorce anyway then why didn't you get a divorce first before going back into the dating scene?  The reason I said to divorce first is to avoid the very complication you are in now, which, as you stated, your wife wants to get back with you.  \n\nAlso, keep in mind that you are not being fair to the person you're seeing.  You are dragging her into your drama.   If you want to date other people you should start with a clean slate.  Divorce first.
849538
Follow your heart!  If once he's divorced, and recovered, and you guys get together, fine.  Until then, don't put your life on hold for a maybe!
1006022
Yes, after I got divorced. Don't be jealous!
726517
Oh course you have to wait. He's getting divorce and doens't matter how bad things were in his marriage, getting divorce is never easy. Let him feel free again. Let him enjoy himself. Give him time. I don't think he's ready for another relationship
975059
If you just got over the relationship, you may want to wait 2 or 3 months and it may pass, if it doesn't, then you can seek the help of a professional. Of course, "just got off" isn't a very accurate description so use your best judgment to decide whether or not you've gave it enough time.
132474
There's no specific time that one should wait after 6 years of being with the same person.  I would suggest you take time to focus on you for a little while.  Don't be in a big hurry to jump right back into dating.  Use your time now to get your life together and do things that you enjoy.  Mr or Ms Right will come along eventually.
495964
Just take it slow...When I got divorced I met a lot of women through the internet, and by going out to the bar and various events around town.  I learned early on that it was best to go slow and get to know a lot of different women rather than rush back into a relationship.  Remember, there is nothing wrong with dating around as long as everyone is clear about what your doing.  If you place an ad on one of the dating sites be honest and don't lie.  If there are things about you or that you really want in a relationship state them directly so that it is easy for people to decide quickly if you are a potential match for them or not.  And above all else, take a few chances along the way and don't let the possibility of getting turned down stop you from at least trying to meet someone your interested in.
729163
Let me think..... hmmmmmm   10 years ago I was "happily married" and planning to stay that way, so was not even considering dating ever again (other than date-night w/ hubby, and w/0 kids)\n\nNOW>....... separated a couple of years, been thru the .... "I'll never date, no-how, no-way,.... and am at the stage of thinking...........  maybe..... and starting to keep my eyes and ears open for possibilities.
46763
It depends on the two of you. I know a ex married couple that stayed friends after 24 years of being divorced. Thats a long time and a rare occassion. They are my parents lol. Now if you ended on bad terms and are trying to get along then probably not. Or maybe he is still into you and just wants to end it before he gets caught up into the feelings all over again knowing that you can never be together.
229311
your going out with a guy thats getting divorced? I would wanna take a break while thats happening also. there is no easy way to tell him especailly in his time of need. just be straight up.
1056925
do it when you feel ready, there is no set time limit as to when is a good time or not, it's up to you.  I split with my ex husband in the September of 2003 and was dating by Christmas as I met the love of my life, it was not ideal timing as I still had a lot to sort out but I was presented with the man of my dreams so could not really say no, if I could have met him 6 months later it would have been better timing.  However, everyone warned us it would not last and we are still together so how wrong were those people??  You do it when you are ready girl, and good luck to you!
1169549
What are you trying to do?\n\nIf you are filing for a divorce based on irreconcilable differences, there is a 1 year mandatory separation period.  (You have to be living apart for one year before you can file for divorce)\n\nYou if are filing for divorce based on adultery, abuse, or any other recognized reason, you do not have to wait.\n\nWhen you file for a court date, it will generally take about a month for you to get to see the judge.  If you have attorneys and discovery and are fighting over specifics, it can become a long and drawn out process even though you have already filed.  I have seen it take a year or more.\n\nThat is a VERY basic description.  All you asked about was length...
721137
time is the only thing that can heal u,i spent 12 years with a person and then i was forced to divorce the person i loved the most ,it hurt for 2 1/2 yearsand i have rarely dated or been with another person but just a few times in 16 years,,, im over it but the scars run deep. but some people get over it in fifteen minutes