I need some relationship advice. Anyone?
415154
a big smack from big john might work?
314683
I'm sorry as this is very immature of your girlfriend.  She should understand that you can't always be together.  Just explain to her why and she either accepts it or she doesn't.  If she doesn't, it might be time to find someone who is more understanding.
1106463
you never should stay w/ someone who hurts you..talk to someone..you shouldn't stay in that relationship...!
1166740
Your ex-bf's problem has nothing to do with age. He wants to "have his cake and eat it too". (I hate that cliche). I agree with phattphatt. This guy is unstable and needs to be kicked to the curb. If he keeps this crap up she will do the same and he will have lost you both. I'm not so sure what the age problem is, she is only a year younger. Your first statement made it sound like he a was dating a child and he was in his thirtys. Give him the boot and find yourself a real man.
662241
u need to talk things over. communication is one of the keys to a healthy relationship. You both need to listen to each other's opinions and thoughts. Why not try spendin time alone w/ yourself first.Collect your thoughts and asses yourself.Try to see things in an optimistic way.Do not let insecurities overcome you.I'm sure he likes you.Sometimes,there are just things that don't go the way we want them to.
1005258
You are very strong for asking this question. You are certainly not asking for too much. This is not a problem she has with you, but a problem she has with commitment. She, for some reason, is not prepared to be as selfless and giving in a relationship as you have been with her. Maybe something is going on with her that is , creating this distance between the two of you. All though you probably already have, I suggest that you confront her and ask if their is an outside issue. If there is an outside issue and you help her through it, then you're relationship will be sstronger than ever. Best of luck to you!
130057
My most dificult time is right now upon me ... since I don't know what to do ...\nI've been with my girlfried for a while but things don't go exactely as I think they should (and for some time I thought she and I shared the same conceptions about life and love). She spends more and more time with a friend of hers (also a girl) and she's beginning to borrow this other girl's habits and views, views which stain my (which I thought was our) ideal of love, turning into some daily cheap thing. Realizing this kinda hurts but I'm not sure if I am entitled to tell her what to do or just let her go on the path she seems to be choosing.
982448
Hi. Look this is a no win situation for you. I know as I've been there.The best thing to do is ask your man to join you no matter what the situation is. Your kids have to get use to the idea that your have a life and you are entitled to be able to get on with it just as they do. They don't ask your permission as to who they date and don't expect you to be in a mood because of it. My partner and i nearly ended up apart when we tried to please everyone. You have to think of you and your boyfriend as he will be there for you when you need him and they wont as they have there own life to get on with AS you have. Good Luck and Merry Christmas and a happy new year
245954
Be honest with her.  Just ask her if there is something going on. Don't be mad at her, but you as a boyfriend have a right to know if there is anything going on with her and another man.  Tell her that you love her and don't want anything to happen between you 2 but you just need to know because you are feeling uncomfortable with things without knowing.
303430
I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
474622
you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. it sounds like it is time to slow things down, alot. you both need to sit and talk about what the 2 of you want out of this relationship. when the 2 of you are on the same page it will be alot easier.
118233
your behavior seems very irresponsible.  look at yourself.  take responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your actions.  Learn from your mistakes in this relationship
364042
If you are arguing this badly, you need some help. Who is starting the arguments you or her? If its her maybe she is really insecure, or isn't happy. If its you, are you happy? If you really do love her, and want to make it work, i would get in touch with relate, and talk to someone. You can do this either on your own or together. If you do it on your own she may not be happy and see it as a betrayal. If you want to do it together, talk to her about it, cos she may feel uncomfortable about it. Good luck!
665694
Wow!  I'd sit him down and really talk things out with him.  Discuss the possibility of a romantic relationship and a friendship.  But really, build it all back up and do it without other friends interferring.  Just talk it out.  He's probably confused too.  Good luck and I hope everything works out well.
532318
Talk to her and let her know how you feel.  It sounds like she's starting to weigh you down.  It's obvious you care about her but, this might not be the right person for you.  You have to ask yourself if you are getting anything positive out of this relationship and if they are the things you want in life.  If you're not, then it's time to move on.
994504
ooooooo bad problem you got there. i would just forget the woman and pretend you arn't gay. nah sorry that isn't very good advice. but the thing is do not get into a relation ship with the woman or any woman. if you really are gay and you are not happy in your relationship with your partner then i would let him down gently that you do not love him any more and you might think that you are gay. you never know he might be able to help you. no.....actually he might take it the wrong way. i seriously do not know. i am only 15 so don't listen to me. maby if you have family around you you could maby get some advice of them. they should be supportive to you. i really hope you work things out in time. best wishes and good luck. x
547555
This guy is playing with your feelings. He's just keeping you on the line so that he's always got a soft place to fall. Make like a tree and leave. Two years is a long time to invest your feelings in someone who doesn't want a relationship. Tell him you don't have time to waste on waiting for him to make up his mind. I think he's already made up his mind and likes the way things are. You don't know how many other gals he's playing this sorry tune with either. He's got what he wants. I would suggest that you stop giving him what he wants and tell him you're not playing anymore. <*)))><