If people tell me I am hot and have everything going for me, why don't I get hit on???
402909
It's all about self-confidence, not what others tell you.  Don't think your hot because other people tell you, think it because you know it. (but not too much so, vanity is only good in small doses.)  work your way back into hitting on girls, go to a new bar and find girls that your not "really" interested in, and just try different approaches (don't go in looking for sex, but looking to find out how to be confident in your mannerisms), get comfortable talking to new girls, and then try on someone you actually like, and maybe good things will happen.  Eyes are the key, a woman's eyes will tell you everything.
108763
the reason why people do is on the level of acceptance, which is not right. people feel that if they are with someone good looking then it will help boost them in some way. my opinion you have to be true to yourself and not put up a front in order to feel accepted. if your not true to u, u are lying to yourself and that's not good.
632991
the key to this is that u shouldnt EVER try to impress anyone. its a turn off to girls when guys start bragging about stuff and all that. so in trying to impress others with your personality you're trying too hard. you would come off as searching for others' approval and thats not a very attractive trait to have. just be yourself and hopefully everything comes together. good luck
943454
If your really that hot then, us guys think your too good for them and want make a move, What I like is when really hot girls gives me hints to know that she is interested in me, try hints like saying "your hot too" or "thanks sexy" when they complement you. If they don't make a move then there either gay or in a relationship already. Us guys don't always know what a girl wants. And a lot a of girls don't make it easy for us. Good luck.
570484
Just be yourself. You sound like you are sensitive and a lot of females like that. Also, you mentioned in your profile that you are lucky to be in good health. A lot of women like guys who are optimistic and appreciative. You are actually a good catch and any lady you end up with will be very lucky. Good luck. :)
429666
You're probably just attractive and wanted. Why not ask them why they like you? Or go out with one if single!
610651
I think that it is completely silly to ever assume that someone is too hot for you.  \n\nI used to be really dorky looking.  I got self esteem, some low cut shirts and pants that fit properly, a better haircut, and BOOM all of a sudden I'm being hit on left and right by all these "pretty people" who never looked at me twice before I got contacts.  And most of those people do not interest me in the slightest.  \n\nMost of the women and men I've dated have been told that I'm prettier then they are.  Not to sound like a raving ego maniac, but I mostly agree.  That is because I like PEOPLE who are well rounded and interesting, not just people who are hot.  \n\nSo anyone who has an interest in anyone should go for it, reguarless of how hot or not they feel they are.  Not every hot person is looking at looks only and plenty of not hot people are amazing and wonderful.
193288
Maybe just be you. If you put on some big show for guys it makes it seem like you can't be you and you gotta put on a "mask" just so people can find you attractive. In the end, it might not even get you anywhere if you're not the real you.
96016
i guess shes probably jealous of u coz u look so hottt!!!hott!!! ...yea lol nice pic :)
299455
after reading some of your answers, I just wanted to say that how your body or style is has nothing to do with if you have a boyfriend or not! it's HOW you carry yourself and WHAT you do with yourself. Are you proud of what you do have and are confident that you are the awesome person that you are? That'll attract the guys - and any that look first and foremost for outward appearances are looking for one thing - just s**!
675397
"Hot" is as much a matter of your state of mind, bearing, and comportment as outward appearance.  In other words, how you feel about yourself and how you carry yourself goes a lot further toward making you attractive - or unattractive - as your physical appearance.  \n\nThat being said, I'd be a little leery of posting my picture on that site, as I'd probably be sensitive to any negative feedback . . .
851243
Look, maybe it's weird, or just unfortunate, but guys need some kind of excuse to talk to you. If you're just there with your friends, lookin' all hot and stuff, but they have no compelling reason to talk to you, they won't. Blame it partly on shyness, partly on fear of rejection, and partly on respect for the space of others. Just 'cause a girl's hot doesn't mean I'm automatically gonna cruise up and say hello. Are you sure you were making eye contact? Maybe you were looking at their eyes while they were checking out your stuff.\n\nIf you really wanna be approachable, then try saying something yourself. Do it when you're up getting a coffee and Mr. Cute is standing beside you. Make a remark about the coffee, or how busy the place is, or whatever. Just give him a reason to talk to you. Just strutting by is not a good enough reason. Most guys, if you're dressed all hot and looking confident, will assume you've already got a man and leave it at that. Sure, they'll tell their buddies at the same table that you were totally giving them the eye and just what they'd like to do with you, but most guys don't have the stones to do anything about it. The ones that do can be pretty scary. Do you really want to date a guy that has no problem  striking up a convo with any cute chick that saunters by? Hey, if he did it with you, then... \n\nLastly, and obviously I couldn't possibly know this, but is there any chance that your image of "trendy" might come off as a little sleazy? How much skin were you showing? Guys sure like to look at something like that, but in the backs of their heads, they're wondering what Momma would say if they brought 'em home to dinner.\n\nGood luck.
205732
Those things you've stated don't explain the type of person you are on the inside, your personilty, or how you treat others.  Take a moment and try to see yourself as others may see you.  Is there something intimidating about your character, the way you carry yourself, etc.?  I'm not sure what type of significant other you are trying to attract but it could have something to do with who you approach as well.  If you are drawn to people who have low self esteem and no motivation, you could naturally seem intimidating b/c of your status and success.  From the surface alone, you seem like a good catch.  Good Luck!
1114503
Why does he have the ability to send you messages?  I think you just want attention.  This is the 3rd posting about the same topic!  I think you just want someone to ask you/prove that you are hot!  get over yourself!  And the important question is, "What is wrong with you?"
772025
I don't think you're hot.\nI think you're beautiful. I'm a teenager boy in high school as well. Junior year. I would rather prefer someone who's good rather than bad. It's more about the personality so I would rather choose someone good. \n:)
431963
You probably come off as unapproachable. or even cold.\nIf guys are hitting on you, it would seem that you are attractive to men.\nCheck your body language, maybe you give the impression, that you don't care for them.\nSurely there is some guy, who has flirted with you, that you may like to see more. If it happens again, be more open, and perhaps suggest you both go for a coffee or something. Then just be yourself.\nAll it takes is practice, you won't hit a home run every time, but at least you will out there trying.
383845
I'm just quoting a wise woman...\n\n"Just enjoy the life that you have. I think that the key to getting guys to really notice you is to be happy with your life the way it is. Make sure that you are complete and happy with who you are without needing a guy in your life and you will have them lining up for you."\n\n,-)