Help me please??? bi/straight?
409521
maybe just a fear of the next step with your great guy. sometimes,women think of other women because they have a subliminal fear of hooking up with mr. right and having left a stone un-turned. take it easy and let yourself think everything thru. you'll know for sure. give it time.
62716
how to tell a guy that you like him hummm just start talking to him find out what his opinions are about bisexuals and if he says he is cool with it tell him that you like him... hey add me on yahoo messenger sugarwolf212008 or email me @ sugarwolf212008@yahoo.com and i will help some more i had to do the same thing but i am a girl and i am also bisexual.
1131295
I think you just know.  I'm heterosexual.  Your sexuality is a very personal part of yourself... only you can make that call.    Just take it slow to make sure if it's just a phase/trend or the real thing if you are not sure... so no one ends up hurt.   Good Luck and enjoy yourself.
998574
Im confused... you say "do you think your bi if you havent been with a woman in a long time?" Does that mean you are currently with a man?  Are you still sexually attracted to women?\n\nPlus your yahoo name has bimom in it... therefore I would assume you are bi... you even classify yourself as that, unless your two mom's?!?!?!.
492955
Yeah I know that one. I told my mum and she totally flipped. I was trying to tell her so she wouldn't be surprised if I told her I was seeing a guy. She didn't understand, a lot of people don't understand being bi as opposed to gay or straight. They can't understand it, feel it's some sort of sexual perversion, "wanting it all". You will prob even find that being bi it will be really hard to find a relationship because there is always the fear from your partner that they can't give you something that the opposite sex to them can.\n\nAll you can do is let them know. Maybe talk about a previous relationship and tell them after that you tried... and found that it was good too and that you want to let them know so they don't have to deal with a big shock should you end up in a relationship with someone they don't expect. Either way it can sometimes be harder than being gay.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
854037
Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude
1102938
If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!
809617
What you are - you are you - a unique individual - with feelings different from anyone else and experiences only you have had. \nYou need to do some thinking/soulsearching - You don't need to have sex with a guy to work out if you are bi/lesbian! Do 'straight' people have gay affairs to realise they are straight? No! \nFirstly - Are you attracted to men? Have you thought, imagined longed to be held by a man, for him to make love to you? How do feel about penises? Testicles, firm muscles and chest hair? Think about these and note your reactions inside, what you truly feel. \nRepulsed, intriguged, wanting etc. You say you have a girlfriend -  but don't rush to label yourself - I've seen people announce they are lesbians then later regret it a few years/months down the line because they are attracted to both sexes. \nI'm a lesbian I've never slept with a guy because a)it repulsed me the whole penis thing and b) I've never, ever been attracted to a man. I always preferred womens company, friendship and I was attracted to women before I knew what lesbian or gay even meant.\nIs it your friends that have more issues with this? I know we are in the 21st century but sadly some friends can never accept slight degrees of difference, you need to be one thing or the other - you don't - you have to be what you want to be. \nI advise doing an internet search on the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard finding the one local to you (they are everywhere Brighton, Lancaster, Birmingham, London, Isle of Mann etc) - emailing or telephoning them - perhaps getting some support from qualified staff and support group information. You stay strong and don't rush into anything - the most important question - What do you want? Who do you want to be?
975260
If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
849932
... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.
851388
You could be gay and you could be bisexual.\n\nIt's up to you to figure it out.
369282
I would stick to the guy that is straight.\n\nHERE'S WHY (MY OPINION ONLY): While the guy who bi may only make out with other boys now, what happens when he crosses the line? What if he likes them more? What if you get yourself caught in some wicked love triangle? What if you really end up liking him more & he doesn't? That's alot of 'what if's' girl and if you are woman enough to go through it.... you know but it sounds like a little much. Go for the one that is straight and see which the other one ends up swinging. I perfer, from dating experience, to stay away from all the 'what if's' & maybe that will change. I like for my relationships to be fun & enjoyable and it sounds like that COULD be trouble. Life is confusing & challege enough with us adding all the extra trouble that we could of avoided. Sad thing is we know it. We just all want our own way and life doesn't work that why. Some times you just gotta step back and say, "Now, really?!" How do you feel deep down, find the bottom line & don't let yourselfish ways override what is the striaght up fact. A lot more STDs are linked in gay relationships, but you take that chance anyway. Search heart & be true to you. It's your life. Save the drama! Good luck girly!
1140595
Just tell her how you feel.  If she's a friend she'll understand.  And if she's not BI, there are plenty of other girls that are BI, so finding another shouldn't be hard.  Also your friend might just not want to face the fact that she is BI.  Or she just doesn't want to wreck your friendship because as we all know, once friends start getting intimate, their friendship is at risk.  Hope this helped.
620309
You have the thought of being bi? Umm you are bi if you like both sexes! You have to be honest and up front with your girl! Just tell her your feelings. She might understand. But if you truly love her then you wouldn't do anything to hurt her.
726459
First off, never listen to anyone who tells you being Bi/ Gay is wrong.. its NOT If it was wrong why did "god" create them..huh?\n\nanyways, i think the best thing to do is maybe get to know him a little better invite him and his girlfriend to hang out somewhere and become better friends, that way you can learn to read him better and possibly more... just be sure not to pull any moves on him because 1) if he isn't Bi iot would freak the shit outta him and he would no longer be your friend and most likely spread shit about you and 2) even if he is bi, he still has a girlfriend\n\noh, and if you do hang out with the both of them... be sure he doesn't get any ideas about you goin after the girl
162186
If you havent found a 'lady friend' to talk to how the hell do you know your gay? I believe 'bi-curious' is the word you should be using, darling!!\nPeaceout!!!
497182
It sounds like you're bi curious. This curiosity will continue to grow until you decide to act on it. You may or may not like it. But, if you try it. At least your questions will be answered.