whats the best way to advance with a tempermental boyfriend?
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you want to advance with a shorter tempermental boyfriend?\n\nI confess - I am stumped.
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the best way to get even is to "ACT" psycho and obsessed.give him hell.make it your mission to find everything out about him his friends and family and his personal details and numbers and just give it to him.call him constantly,send him cards,be really sweet,sort of like the girl in how to loose a guy in 10 days.\n\nyes ive done this once and it satisfied me,i have REDEEMED MYSELF SISTA.he did change all his details and had to run and hide the torment worked well.THE ULTIMATE PAYBACK IS CLINGINESS THEY HATE IT.
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Sadly there is not much you can do to cool him down or even prevent an episode of rage in him.  If you want to cope so you don't end up terminating the relationship all you have to do is when you sense his temper tantrums coming, leave immediately if possible.  Simply refuse to be around him because you know that his negative attitude will affect you...I'm sure it always does.  And if his temper is as quick as you say, then you may just be running away from him more than you stay around him, but that is the only thing that can keep you safe from his poison.
428335
Be open, responsive, and willing to compromise. It isn't always easy, but if u can do this, your relationship will stay strong
528905
Be patient and supportive.  Nothing will take the wind out of  his sails like being nice when he is trying to be mean.  It'll make him feel like a jerk so he won't be able to stay angry if he really loves you.
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Talk to him just about anything on the phone. Me and my boyfriend play the questions game, he asks a question, then I ask a question. It may be something that he wants to know, like "what do you do when I'm not around" kind of thing. Guys like a lot of information, but it doesn't have to be perverted. The nickname I use is cutie pie. Ask him if you can call him anything that comes to mind, like baby cakes!! Sounds kinda cheesy, but it helps and it makes him feel connected to you. But don't say things like that in public because guys think that their friends would make fun of him. When your around him in public, hold is hand or give him a little kiss on the cheek. If he sees you as a warm person, then he will do the same thing back. I hope I helped. Let me know if my answer was the one that you were looking for!!!
804129
Go slow. Unravel his personality slowly.  Except for the important things like, are you married, etc.
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Ask him questions or ask for help with something he knows a lot about.  Act interested in him and what he says.\n\nDon't be pushy!  Don't flatter him.  Don't ask for a date.  Just be friendly, and if it should develop further it will.
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Well, it helps to be close to the person physically and mentally.  Don't rush.  Start out by kissing and caressing each other.  in other words foreplay.  Believe me, things will fall into place if you just relax, do not rush, a gently kiss and caress your partner.
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just tell him "you aint getting any of my cooking yet."  sounds like fun flirting anyways.  have fun with it.
434996
Lean into him close , and barely move your feet ...little steps shifting your weight from right to left. Make sure your where he isn't stepping on you either as he will be donig the same.
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The key is to keep him panting. Hold off on everything, especially sex. He will respect you more
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Let him do some talking! If he aint talking about nothing move on cuz you don't want nobody boring and lame in your life and that'll also be another way to make sure he likes you just as much. I know that now a days, women are being more aggressive with men but you've done your part now let him do his and if he don't, let it go and move on because there are plenty of fish in the sea and when you do, I bet he'll wanna holla at you then!
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Move from online personas to the phone... just tell him one night while you're chatting online that you'd like to hear his voice as he's cracking jokes - makes it more personal. Then from there, you two should be able to slowly move from the phone to in person without too much awkwardness.\n\nSome relationships don't survive the online to face-to-face move... but friendship will always remain if you keep at it. Best of luck!
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I had the same problem. You just have to wait for the perfect time and not rush things. My boyfriend use to be so shy but now I can't get him to shut up. J/K.
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Every time he's spent away from you (even if it's 22 seconds), accuse him of cheating.\n\nNag. Works every time.\n\nInsist on watching Chick Flicks\n\nCook him a disgusting 54 course dinner.\n\nSay in a seductive manner "oooo it's hot in here" then turn on a fan and say "that's better"
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the best person to ask for tips is your boyfriend. Talk to each other while you are at it.