how does a girl flirt to a guy.how would he know.?
412065
If she is working and just showing you around no that isn't flirting otherwise I think you can tell when someone is flirting...K
1120038
Smile, eye contact, being very friendly, some little touching... yeah thats all flirting.  Do it back and see if he responds postively.  If he does, you are in, he likes you too.
246037
1. He flirts with you, smiles, tends to be in a better mood when you are around.\n2. He goes out of his way to be around you, he calls you, texts you, or generally wants to know what you are up to.\n3. He mentions you around his friends, or your friends. \n4. He isn't afraid to be physical around you, even the brush of the hand on your shoulder, or anything where he touches you is a major indicator. No guy touches a girl he isn't physically attracted to.\n\n(if you don't know the guy, and are in a social setting)\n\n1. You catch him looking at you.\n2. Watch his friends, he will probably be talking about you. Watch where they look.\n3. He makes eye contact.\n4. He positions himself in a spot, where he is noticed, or where he can see you.\n5. Body language, body language, body language!\n\nAlways remember, some guys are shy. Don't be afraid to go talk to a guy, you see checking you out. At least if you are attracted to him also. Those guys out there who aren't shy, are either good or bad news. Some guys learn how to play the game well from an earlier age, those are the ones who might be players. Good Luck
959111
i would bet that he likes you. one way a guy flirts with a girl is by paying her extra attention. also doing anything to get close to you and talk to you. he is doin all of these things. you have to flirt back with him big time now. smile, giggle, play with your hair, gently touch him when talking, those kind of things. even let it be known to your friends you like him. hopefully word gets round to him and he asks you out. goodluck!
288024
Girls are silly, silly creatures and always are prone to have behavior that is confusing to guys.  To directly find out, yeah--just ask her or do the ol' ask-her-friend.  If she's acting silly, toying with you, playing hard-to-get, hanging around you, she seems to keep popping up, she touches you (like a pat on the back, playful punch in the arm, or "happens" to brush up against you if she's standing next to you)--if she makes ANY notion repeatedly that she acknowledges your presence, chances are you've caught her eye and kept it.  If this is the case and you kinda like her back, better do something about it!  :P
873853
It doesn't matter how you tell him. Now would he be flirting with you?.... Sometimes it just feels good to flirt. It may be that you are boosting his ego. Or maybe he's really into you. Age doesn't matter. Your old enough to know what you are getting into. Just keep in mind you are likely in different places in your lives. \n\n Ask him out casually and see what he says.
266858
Flirting is lightly touching the guy,playing with your hair,constant smiling,and being overly friendly,at least to me.The hardest part is knowing it's happening to you.
519546
be smart, funny, witty and caring and stuff..... do everything but flirt with her... thats when they are on their guard and resist more.... this way, she'll keep wondering why u dont make any advances and be interested in u.... and this is when u make ur move.....sometimes the best way to flirt is not to flirt at all..... and the best trick of all- tease her unmercifully as much as possible without turning her off and without being mean... then spring a small compliment somtimes in the middle of ur conversation. keep the compliments rare and the teasing high.... she'll beg for ur approval after sometime....
741322
touch is very important and can send the right message. Don't make it too personal, but touch his arm casually. Brush hands with him. If you know he is looking at you, smile, even if you aren't looking at him. It's like you are acknowledging his flirtation. Guys like girls who are bold. Work on your eye shy, because if you catch his eye just once, that may be all it takes.
1068657
Well its pretty simple just find out his intrests and try to get a little flirty if ya no what I am saying!
724773
When I am in the company of girls I know I give them lots of compliments and try to do nice things for them and make them laugh. I just like being nice but I don't think I am flirting as I am not making any suggestions to them such as 'we look good together' or 'I am free on Saturday's'. I prefer to think I am being gentlemanly.\n\nI think for it to be flirting you have to convey a clear message of wanting to take things further, either by body language or verbal. \n\nCare must be taken not to misinterpret by checking out with the suspected flirter if what you think they meant is what they meant. Clothes, however revealing, nor location, should never be taken as flirting and even when flirting does occur the person has a right to change their mind at any time.\n\nBeing self-aware is important so that you know how others take your normal behaviour. Honesty also is needed to admit when you have been flirting as we all feel the need to have our needs met and our qualities appreciated sometimes.\n\nDeliberate flirting does frequently occur of-course. It is perhaps best just acknowledged in a friendly manner and not acted on until the person flirting has made themselves absolutely clear through their words.\n\nYou can also use a mutual friend to assist the confirmation of the flirting but never take this as proof, as it hasn't come directly from the person in question.\n\nIt is true that we sometimes see flirting because we want to and that we sometimes are oblivious to others subtle messages to us.\n\nAnother help is to see how the flirter, even if it is you, is acting with others of the same gender as the person they have supposedly been flirting with, as it might just be their manner.\n\nBest advice? Never take flirting as a definitive sign of significant interest from a person.
590536
Trust me, you'll know. If he flirts with you a lot, most likely he likes you, unless he's just messing with your mind. If he plays around with you and all that, he might like you.
21264
I have ALWAYS been oblivious. I just don't notice.\n\nTry flirting in a more obvious way, some guys are afraid to make a move in response because they doubt themselves, or are afraid they may be misinterpreting. What if you are teasing and are waiting for them to take the bait so you can shoot them down? What if you hug all your friends when you say hi? What if you feel close to him... but not in a romantic way? We don't have any way of knowing.\n\nTry the normal stuff, if it doesn't work, try approaching him seriously, and telling him your feelings, or after something you thought was obvious, tell him something like "you know a girl doesn't usually do that unless she is really hoping a guy will ask her out" or something similar.\n\nThen again... there is always the chance that he genuinely isn't interested. Unless you use a direct approach and ask you won't know.
685797
Short answer:  Cause MOST guys don't talk to girls and smile unless they are attracted to them.  \n\nNow are you saying that flirting is bad, or that you're just smiling and not flirting?  I think most guys can tell the difference between flirting and just talking/smiling; flirting involves more playfulness, different kinds of eye contact, maybe a little touch occasionally, etc.  If a guy can't tell the difference between flirting and just talking and smiling, then he doesn't understand women.\n\nFlirting doesn't mean that you are attracted to the guy, but if a guy is cocky (which usually means he's not that bright), he'll just assume that flirting means you are attracted to him.  \n\nI like a girl that I work with, and she flirts with me like crazy...but has a boyfriend.  I know she likes hanging out with me, but I'm smart enough to know that she may just like me as a friend.  Thing is, her smiles are accompanied by that "I wanna ---- you" look.  Big difference from a normal smile.
526022
flirt ... and then flirt some more
410327
wow.. it depends on how well you know each other. if you just meet the guy and start.. he'll think you're easy. ..if you've been friends.. by flirting he might think you like him.. but at least he knows you're not easy. and.. if you ever need some practice..  ;)
481843
guys are basically stupid. my gf told me that I flirted with her all time  before we were together and I had no clue. I guess I  wasn't trying so I didn't think I was.