Should I leave my boyfriend?
412759
Some people are just that way.  I would say it is time to leave him and move on.  No one deserves th at kind of treatment.
1035500
Well..in my opinion, u should let him go coz if anything is to happen between them, be thankful that u are only at the beginning stage of your relationship..that shows that this chap is indecisive and if he can hurt you like this...what more?
643794
I have been in exactly the same sitation. I have a boyfriend of 3 years. He's the best and would do anything for me. What I feel for my boy friend is ever-lasting love. But.....I also fell in love with my collegue from work. I worked with him for 4 years, known him longer than my boyfriend. He felt the same way. \nI was faced with the dilema; should I leave my boyfriend for my co-worker. \n\nAfter much consideration, I decided to stay with my boyfriend.\n\nThere is a difference between being "in love" and love that will last for ever. The feeling of being "in love" will only last for a short time.   \n\nwhat you need to ask yourself is: Who will be there for my when I have problems, when I get old, when times are hard. It is only that person who really loves you. And that person will most probably be your boyfriend
790107
At the end of the day, you have to put yourself first. That can be easier said than done, but you do yourself no favours by staying in a relationship that causes you unhappiness. When you do eventually walk away, you will soon realise that it was a good decision, and you will feel better for it. In fact, you will wonder why you did not do it before. No good person wants to break a relationship, but no bad relationship is worth the suffering of a good person. It is your goodness that he is exploiting, but he probably does it unknowingly, because he is not well. I imagine that he needs help, but professional help, and that there is nothing that he will let you do for him. Maybe your departure will alert him to his defects. Let's hope so.
661006
If it has become more than you can handle, then the choice is made.  Yeah, I know everyone wants you to do the noble thing and suffer a lifetime of misery, plus if you leave, you'll be the bad guy.  Hey, it's your life.  Just be true about your feelings and do what you've got to do.  Life is short for us all, so find your way to happiness either in this relationship or out, but don't just keep on keep'n on for no purpose.
1001344
LEAVE HIM!!!!  I HAD ONE OF THOSE .. DIDNT LEAVE HIM WHEN I SHOULD OF AND NOW HAVE A KID WITH HIM...\n\n\nIT ONLY GETS WORSE.... TRUST ME..... AND YOU KNOW WE DISERVE BETTER.. THERE REALLY IS MEN OUT THERE WILLING TO SPENT THERE LAST PENNY ON YOU RATHER THEN ON THEM SELF...\n\nIF YOU CONSIDERE THIS A PROBLEM AND YOU ARE ONLY DATING HIM WAIT TILL REALITY HITS YOU WHEN YOU LIVE TOGETHER....\n\nYOU NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ...\nNOT A CHILD TO LOOK AFTER...
441703
It is easy to sit here looking in and say leave, but only you know what is right for you. If you are asking this question then you already have one foot out the door only you can decide if you want to walk all the way out. Look deep inside yourself and decide what you really want and what bothers you in the relationship. Tell him how you feel and if things don't change put that other foot out and start your new life.
117758
One aspect of a healthy relationship is happiness, and if you are always catering to his wants then you can't be happy. I'm sure that there is someone out there that will respect you choices and willing  to meet you half way when it comes to making sacrifices. My personal opinion is that you can do better, but you are the only one that cane make the final decision of whether or not you should leave.
273601
some things are better left unsaid so just break it off with you'll live in boyfriend and tell him that it's not working out anymore and tell the next guy you made a big mistake but now you know that you only want to be with him and him only
538404
OK first find out if the other guy likes you then good but if he do sent then just dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont love him because at the end hes going to be more hurt that if you had done it now because by the time hes going to get closer to you and he will love you more so i think that you should break up with him because at the end hes the one that's going to get hurt at the end.
1096082
you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.
418549
girl guaranteed he be out cattin just let him go and believe me from first hand experience it is very hard when you love them but in the long run it is better to cut the losses now.  You can do better without him anyway\nI know cuz I was with  one like that for 3 years and we have a daughter together and the boy was cheating lying drinking, druggin, etc... finally (don't wait like I did) I got tired of tricking myself and letting him control me into thinking nothing was going on and left.  Go with your instincts--that is your inner self talking saying kick him to the curb
553168
You deserve better.  Dump him and stay single for a while. You will see it's not that bad to be single. Well its better than having your heart broken even more. The right guy will come a long. If you don't leave him, you will never give "the one" a chance to make you happy. And you will be unhappy for the rest of your life. You deserve to be happy, everyone deserves to be happy. Now go out there and find true love!
553408
apparently you do not really love him if you feel like leaving him. why test him don't you think that is a childish game you are playing with him and he doesn't even know the plan. you do not toy with a mans affection in that way. would you like it done to you? of course not.
210109
It's your choice, keep the boyfriend or the pets, apparently you can't have both.  If you insist on living with animals, get a boyfriend that is happy with that.
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
278180
You CAN live without him girlfirend!!!- All he will do in the future is bring you down- stealing from you and lying- that is something most strangers would not do to you- you need a new man and there is one out there for you jsut don't rush it. You can not have a relationship without trust and you need to dump him ASAP. If you think there will be trouble breaking it off with him or you feel that you will be weak in staying away fromm him then get yourself a support group or a counselor before you make the move. \nYou say you can not live iwthout him, but I'm sure most of your answers will be that you can't live WITH him. Good luck- be strong- he does not deserve you.