me and my friend get in a fight every other day and im getting tired but she's still my bf wht shuld i do?
410930
Dear Dear such a scene and how is it possible. You all fight because you all still are individuals who have  opinions. But you all are still friends because you all have good qualities to be Compatible, Adjustable and someone fun to get along with.\nFighting and still being friends assures the Fact that you both enjoy each other's Company a lot. So continue fighting because that is what helps both of you all to keeep the energy in the Relationship(Fight,talk, Patchup and Fight - a good clean cycle where you all pickup grudges and still come clean by forgiving each other for what has been done).\nSo try to keep up the True Spirit of Friendship that you now have.\nTry Dreaming and think how it would be if you did not have her in your life as your Best Friend(so much would be missing in your life and maybe hers too)
361974
Talk to your friend and tell her he deserves better, he deserves you. But try not to cause too big of a fight.
1031272
Spend more time with her, and talk to her more, you should be talking a lot anyway because shes your girlfriend, she might be hiding the fact tht shes upset youguys dont talk much.
728493
congrads... \n\njust make sure that u act like ur self... we hate when guys act different around their friends and then us... don't worry about the kissing thing (who said you have to kiss if you have a girlfriend lol jk) just make sure that u are always ur self and try never ever to yell at her.. she will dump you w/out a doubt. :) remember if you want things to work you must build a relationship and that takes time. be ready to talk things out and BE HONEST! if you tell her a little lie you will be more likely to tell a bigger lie. don't rush into anything physical because that will hurts your changes of working things out by talking. so remember be yourself, talk, and be honest.
246779
as you said this fight was stupid so yes definetly be friends again, you known him since first grade dont loose a relationship over that, youve been friends for way to long its time to move on and start having fun with him. besides what if something happened you wouldnt want to miss out on the oppurtunity to be friends....
1007274
of course u have to keep talking to her...she is ur best friend !!!! she has the right to be mad,she was refused by a guy...be patient.plz to handle  it u have to be with her n good and bad...she is talking like this now bcs she is mad...be patient she will come to apologize !!! friendship means we have to support each other in ur bad and good times
875759
The answer to your question is, YES! My BF knows better than to bother me when I'm sick or tired or sick and tired :) Try this again tomorrow and see what happens. If this continues and she is healthly and well rested, you might wanna move on.
901690
i just went through the same exact thing it was heart breaking! i simply told my other friend that i didn't get along with her other friend and i would NEVER ask her to choose, but i would like it if we could spend our own time together. now she seperates the weekends and spends like ever-other one with me. and because i was so laid back about it and her other friend was kind of rude she is starting to see how it really is. she is spending more and more time with me and complaining about the other girl but i try and not complain with her that way she thinks i am just a listener\nall the while i am dancing inside lol
257688
look u just sort it out by keeping them away frm each other and tell both of them that u cannot break the friend ship with any one and devote equal time to both of them and dont mix up or mess it up live ur life
221993
Hey chicky,  I know how you feel.. me & my bf fight constantly too.  Sometimes I wonder if its normal or not.  I get really sick of it too sometimes .. occassionally to the point where I dont care if the relationship ends.  But we are still together.  Are you living together?  My bf & me only moved in together 6 months ago.. we used to fight before that but not as bad as when we moved in with each other.  I think maybe you guys need to do stuff apart every now & then just so you can have your own space.  Think about it .. if you had a sister who you saw every day forever you would get sick of her too & fight with her.  Its the same with your man.  Try not to fight over the little things that dont mean much,  think about what it is that you are fighting about & ask yourself.. is it even worth breaking up over this?  If you answer No then get over it.. be the one to end the fight first.  Even if he keeps going dont let yourself get worked up, its hard trust me but it will only make it worse if you are both going at it.  Tell him you dont want to fight & that your going for a walk or something & wait for him to cool down then you will talk to him about the issue.  Remember that anyone can fight, but its the people who's relationships that last through the fights that are the strongest.
659796
I recently had a promblem with my man last week,My man hit my friend's ass but she didn't tell me.Her girlfriend was the one who told me.My friend told everyone else but me.My man did not deny it, but he said it was not in a bad way.You see my man is a funny and very cool guy,and everyone gets along with him.He goes out of his way to please everyone and makes a joke out of everything.I've been with my man for 4 yrs.He's never even flirted with a girl since he's been with me.We go every where together and do everything together.He shows me nothing but alot of love and gives me so much attention.He will do anything for me and always helpsme out all the time.WE HAVE AMAZING SEX everynight and morning.He doesn't care who's around us,he will be hugging me and kissing me all the time.Now about my friend,I've only have known her for about 10 months,but i've known her girlfiend for 5 yrs.My friend has only been coming around and kicking it here at my house for about 4 months.She started getting to comfortable and start caring herself a little overboard with our guy friends.Suposely she's a lesbien,but she started acting like she wanted to jump in the sack with these guys.Later on when she started telling everone about my man hitting her ass, she stood out with one of my guy friends til 5am.She said that when my man did this to her ,she was traumatized.She still came around my house the next 2 days after this happend and i even left them alone in our bedroom together and she was joking around with him.Don't you think if she was so traumatized over this she wouldn't come to my house or she would have told me something what happend.Well the turn out to all this is,I forgave my man and I forgave my friend too. So both of them are in my life.I looked at both sides and did not side with either one but blamed them both.Did I do the right thing in staying with my man and keeping her friendship?I still feel disrespected from my man and hurt with my friend.I don't know if I should still allow my friend back to my house and if I should trust them both again cause at this point I can't trust know one at all!Should I just kick them both out of my life because once they hurt you or disrespct, they will in time do it again.WHAT SHOULD I DO!
800883
I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!
755862
You need to just let it go & don't let her have that much power over you. You are allowing this person to determine your happiness. Just move on & find another friend.
206979
you have tons of time, just stay friend with her and make a move when they break up!
474345
Yes, it should bother you.  Because she is your friend doesn't mean you should put complete trust in her.  People you feel you can trust are the ones that WILL STAB YOU IN THE BACK! Besides, friends are supposed to respect eachother.  Right now she is not and neither is your boyfriend.  Be careful, because it sounds like there maybe something going on or about to happen.  If you want to avoid problems and don't want anything to come between your friendship, then put a stop to it now...\n\nGood Luck!
576449
omg i have this problem too, i hate it also, wer're getting beter right now, cuz, i haven't seen her for a little bit. So see if you can say at a friends house for a night, or weekend, and chill w/ friends after school. Try to limit your time with her for about a week, that's what i did, and we're ok now  good luck
250488
Ignore her and talk really animated with other people.  That will make her miss you and want to forget about whatever trivial thing you are fighting over.