I am jealous because my friend is always hanging out with my boyfriend. What should I do?
399498
it sounds like they dont care how you feel, is ther someone that she really like so that you all can hang out together so they can see what they are doing to you is not fair.  How long have you been goin with him. tell them you dont like it and you mean when you say it and if they dont listen hit them where it hurts be even dirtier then they are date someone else becuase he is cheating on you with your best friend
768141
I have been in a similiar situation. The "pops" will not stay ur friend forever your best friends WILL! it is okay to hang out with them but not so much that ur best friends r jealous. Mayb try to balance ur time until u find out want u want. U could try having a party with both of them invited and c how it goes. It could work and b fun but b careful.
581177
If your friend doesn't know that you and your boyfriend are an item, then she is doing nothing wrong.  You need to tell her because if she thinks she has a chance with him and she doesn't she runs the risk of getting hurt.
418304
This always seems to happen. Best friends are best friends because they like the same things...including guys. She isn't doing it to hurt you, she can't help the way she feels. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. See if he has any friends that she may be interested in. If you have a strong, open relationship with your friend, maybe you could talk to her & find out her intentions, tell her how much he means to you & warn her what it could do to your friendship if she tries anything on with him. Don't be mean about it though, not unless she intends to steal him from you.
688717
You surely will not get together if you both keep hanging up on one another.  Why not stop the kiddie games and communicate honestly?  Trying to make him jealous by calling his friend is not going to help- unless you want to turn them both against you.  Just muster up your courage and talk to him.
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
149523
she will get over it. if she is not willing to let you be happy then she is not a very good friend. just tell her that you really like him and if she wont allow you to be happy then she will have to find a new friend. she might be jealous that you have someone in your life that is taking some of your time. just tell her that you are going to stay with him and that she does not have to like him what is important is that you like him. good luck!!!!! take care
628313
Well what I would do is first of all, tell my friend the truth.  Tell her that I only said it because I was jealous of the time she was spending with the other person.  If you don't really dislike the other person, go to them personally and apologize and try to make amends.  Let them know you were jealous of the attention they were getting and maybe you guys can work it out.
240958
talk to your friend about it maybe if she is a good friend and cares about you she will reconsider being jealous..
1182861
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
151217
Well, it all comes down to if you trust him or not. If you don't trust them, then that would be a problem. Since you say you think he would let one of his female friends kiss him then it sounds like there is some trust issues there. Have you told him about this and how it makes you feel? I am sure you have, but next time be a bit more firm about it. Tell him that if he wants to be with his friends more than you, then you are going to do the same thing and that you are tired of feeling like you are being placed behind them. Then, stick to it. Find some male only friends, or if you have them, hang out with them as much as you can..but whatever you do don't cheat. Just do what he is doing. A lot of times people can see things more clearly if the shoe is on the other foot. Good Luck.\n\nNo Decibel, it has nothing to do with making him jealous or mad. It has to do with this: If she has tried everything else (specifically addressing the problem to him) and he still fails to see what he is doing, which is making his own girlfriend uncomfortable, then maybe he can put it in better perspective if he had to deal with the same thing. Do you how hyper you got just from the thought of what I just wrote? This asker already goes through that daily with her boyfriend. It's ok for him to have friends that are girls but it is messed up for her to have guy friends? Oh please. Sometimes that is the only way guys can see how completely selfish they are being.
955813
i think you should just ask your friends about it first i mean ait`s not your boyfriend`s fault. tell them how you feel, and ask them what would they do if it`s happening to them. i mean they won`t get it until they`re in someone else`s shoes. if they`re your friend then they would respect you and your boyfriend and lay off him. good luck ! =]
537500
i think you answered your own question, anyone your friend has, you want! i think you are jealous of your friend and a little insecure with yourself and think that sexual attention is a way of validating yourself?  its your'friend' i feel sorry for not only does she have a boyfriend that she cant trust she also has you, someone who cant wait to betray her, grow up and go live somewhere that you cant mess with other peoples lives..
1007310
Oh, I know how that is...Non of my friends like my boyfriend and several have tried to break us up...that just pisses me off cause its my choice to be with this man...not my friends. One of my friends doesn't like him but told me she would be there for me even if she didn't like my choice in the man I was with...thats a real friend.
743097
You agreed to be his friend, but youre acting like a jealous girlfriend. If you cant handle it tell him now.
81195
Your best friend must be jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend.  Tell how much she means to you and that no one could ever take her place in your heart.  Help her get a boyfriend and things may get a little better between ya'll.
253373
you need to consider, how good of a friend she really is first of all. if shes a GOOD friend you tell her you dont like her bragging all the time and its getting hard for you to be around her, doing it all the time. she,ll understand. if shes just someone you hang out with and shes doing it to rub it in ,or make you feel bad, then shes NOT a friend and you dont need to be around her anyway!!!!