At the age of 30 is it normal to want to experiment with sex and toys?
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Ok, Ive been with my wife since 1997 she had never used sex toys until I got her into them. It is a great way for you or the both of you to increase your sex life and learn new things. Experiment as much as you want! go to Xandria.com they have a nice selection of toys lubes and oils.......\ntry something called the nubby I think it is. Im in the Army and in Iraq and my wife loves that sucker lol \n\nGet your parnter to use them on you. And dont feel ashamed if you just want to go to your room alone and get yourself off, there is nothing wrong with that.\n\nAnother thing you might want to look into if you havent already is Kegel exercises. This will make you able to squeeze in more. And increase your orgasims. Once you learn to do this and either you our your partner plays with your g-spot you can have a female ejaculation (squirt) Which is different feeling from normal orgasims. I had my wife learn this and she and I both love it. \n\nHave fun hope this helped
27138
18 is a great time to start.  You are lucky you didn't do it when you were younger and stupider, there could have been pregnancy or STDs and almost definitly there would have been bad feelings.  You are off to a good start, now you are mature and you can handle your sexuality, you will find a partner with mutual attraction and get it on.  Use protection!
391839
Yes you should. Wait a few years and be very careful. Help him mature as well by doing non-sexual adult things.
705450
you need to start trying toys and different things... go to the store and buy some fun things... open your mind... have fun
869288
Yep totally normal....\n\nIf you were my kid.... age 25 would be too soon. But then thats me just being a dad.
1132838
Good grief, doesn't anyone have a REAL answer for her?\n\nTo enjoy it more yourself start by finding out what touches you like best; develop fantasies that arouse you; if you're of age, check out some story sites like literotica.com and find things that make you hot & bothered, use those things when playing with yourself; find toys you like.  Vibrators are good.  There are all kinds.  If you're self-concious about going into an adult toy store, go to Wal Mart or some place and buy an electric personal massager.\n\nMost importantly, make sure you have time and privacy to do it.  Nothing is a mood killer like wondering if someone is going to walk in on you.
90436
Women in their 40's often to experience a drop off in their sexual drives. They are often concerned about getting pregnant at a time when they are moving on past the childbearing years and concerned that if they get pregnant there will be a high risk of genetic defects. They are also experiencing a decline in physical energy compared to their younger years. Considering these factors, the lack of interest is probably not related to the relationship so much as her own body's aging. However, intimacy is much more than what happens in the marriage bed. It is what happens through the day. Improve that, and you will inevitably improve both emotional and physical closeness.\n\nYou need to consider your wife's personality. If you are not sure, research love languages. There is a book by that title if you cannot find any onformation on the net. Basically, some people feel best loved when given things. Others feel loved best through words spoken. The third type feel most loved by spending time with them. The last type feels loved through gifts of service.\n\nFor my type of personality and age (I am 42), a racy sex toy would not be a turn on. I would feel like the gift was a shout saying let's skip real intimacy and get to the sex part. Intimacy to me is based on an emotional relationship as first place. My love language is time. One on one time doing activities that are out of the ordinary to everyday life would draw me closer. A hand in hand walk through the neighborhood, a surprise candle-lit dinner, being beside me in the work of the day around the house, etc.\n\nIf you speak the language your wife needs, I am sure intimacy will increase. As conversation allows a natural discussion of it, communicate what language you like best. It will make her feel good to be filling your emotional love needs too.
1138262
no there is nothing wrong with that ....  not sure how old u are.... but do not be pressured into something u do not want ...and be proud!!!!
707334
If your parents are okay with it, it shouldn't be a problem. Fair warning: older guys tend to be more experienced so if you're not willing to partake in things that are not of your liking, let them know first thing. Good luck...
1068825
Why do you sound so surprised that you are attracted to women in this age group? I dont think it tapers off, it may just become a little less intense. Remember when you were a "young man" and sex was like fireworks all the time, what does it feel like now that you're 44? It's the same for women
776203
hurray for living,  no age limit on the sex drive, maybe the volumn though, lol\nmost is psych. if you believe, go for it.
629481
I am not a big one for toys, buy my partner occasionally likes them.  I suggest going to a reputable sex shop WITHOUT the peep shows--like The Lions Den.  Then you can see what you are buying--on line you just can't be sure.  Adult sex toy parties are very popular in some places, a straight friend could even have one and you could feel the vibrating ones.  Go small to start, increase later if necessary.  And be careful when using them some can hurt if used improperly.
498489
You must be mad! Wait till you are fully "mature" sexually and then start thinking about such things! Trust me it will grow a lot bigger than it is now! I know, I am 30!
357152
I know how it feels I am 28 and feel the same way horney all the time. I am always ready for sex. Thats why I have to masturbate 5-6 times a day and some times 15 if i am all day free. It helps me a lot. I get real sex only occassionally from my GF. And she complain of Pain and tired ness because I do it for hours.
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I am a 44year old female, 14 years old the first time.\nI am hitting my prime, maybe have been since early 30s. It's been my experience that men hit their prime from 16 to maybe 25 - all downhill from there (sorry guys!!)  I am experiencing an increase in my sex drive & am very much more aware of my own sensuality & sexual self at this time in my life. I've never experienced any dysfunction but have been with several partners who have. (not fun)  I am a lot freer to experiment & enjoy - I'd love to take advantage of that but lack a steady partner at this point in my life. (gotta fix that, soon!) I've always been highly sexed, from my teen years & I don't see it slowing down any time soon. E-mail me if you want more details - I'd be delighted to provide you with information for your research.
53671
No way!!! Just look at the handle you chose, "sexy&hot". Do you really want that cold bucket of water at this point of life and carrer. I´m 41, married and father of a 4 1/2 yr old girl. For us, it had been an amazing experience. But by the time she was born, we were debtless homeowners, with established careers and education, and had pretty much traveled every place we wanted to. Believe me, at 28 you´ve really just barely made it out of your biochemical / emotional adolescence! Live a little, get your all your stuff together and, when the time is right, you will make a great parent.\nBut bear in mind, once you become a parent, even "dinner and a movie" might be impossible for quite a while (yrs maybe). You´ll miss out on a lot of things and might even resent the child or simply be a little neglectful (very common of child-parents). So, to sum it up, WAIT!
632291
In my experience, the older I have become, the stronger my libido has become. A woman's sexual desire usually peaks in her thirties.