I think I'm in love with 2 men..how do i choose??
408180
well, follow your heart, which one is better?
298410
First of all I would tell your boyfriend if you havent already. If you feel the same about 2 guys then you shouldnt be looking, buying, or accepting any ring. But the way you discribe it its just a crush. When you tell your boyfriend about your feelings if you havent and you feel better and not that you love the other guy then that should give you your answer. I have been in the same situation and I told my now husband and i felt better to get it off my chest. The guy ended up in prison and i havent seen him since. The more you hide it and keep it bottled up the worse youll feel or if someone else knows about it then he will soon find out and it can end very badly for you.
973328
I dont think that you should start a relationship with someone else if you are still in love with #1. You need to end the contact with #1 so you can move on with your life and find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve. No one deserves to be treated the way #1 treated you. I would try to explain to #2 how your feeling and maybe he can help you get through the feelings for #1. Guy #2 sounds like a very good guy and maybe he can understand what you are going through.
824700
You need to pick one. Its not fair for the guys. If you really love them you wouldnt want to hurt them like that.
468485
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody
229093
u really need 2 have a heart-to-heart talk. sit down with him, and both of you speak your minds. if u both say what u really want or feel, it will make decision making that much easier.
579239
make the choice that will make u happy sweety. why choose the one thats close to u if you dont like him enough to have a good, long-lasting relationship? and also, why choose the one thats far away if u wont be able to spend enough time with him to satisfy u both? there's no easy answer but just be sure to make a decision that will end in a happy result for you, AND whomever you choose..good luck
841439
To be honest with you.  It is not about the choice of the two ladies.  It is you.  What you see in both these women is your ideal partner.  You may not be able to make a choice because whichever one you choose will disappoint you a bit. But having a crush on someone for 6yrs is something to cherish.  Do you feel guilty liking the new lady because you are so familiar with your 6yr crush? To make a choice I would be thankful to know what I want in a partner through meeting these 2 ladies and move on and find her.  If I was to be with one of them I will have feelings for the other as you said, they are pretty close friends.  So they both would always be in my life.  And the same 'what if' would be running in my head.\nLove is something you can't explain in words.  It is a overwhelming feeling that will never die.  It is knowing that you would do anything for that person and that you can picture yourself with them till death.  Love is like sharing with someone happiness, pain, experiences.  Love has no judgment.  You can love many people at the same time but you only fall in love one at a time.
72275
Sorry.  I think you might be using the word Love here just a little too loosely.  Is the only difference between these guys is you are having sex with one and not the other?  Or that you have a sexual attraction toward one and not the other?\nYou would not be asking this question if you have had many very close relationships with members of the opposite sex.  If that was the case, then you would have already dealt with a situation like this before.\nIt should make no difference to either of these guys how much time you spend with the other, Unless you have told one or both that they have an exclusive relationship with you.  It is not wrong for you to spend most of your time with a male whom you have a close friendship, but are not dating or do not have any romantic attachment.
513464
life is short and if this is true love --if you feel it is..then just build up the courage and go with a 3rd person known to both of u and just tell him straight away!\ndont loose the chance...otherwise you will regret!
194141
i think you should choose the one u think you really got feelings for and see if he want to be in a relationship with you and respect you
406677
You should follow your heart. Date both for now... time will tell which one you are supposed to be with.
737818
Don't make a decision you'll regret. Date the one you love, but also plan for your future. Teach your best friend about Jesus Christ and tell them both that you need to think for a while. So meditate on this and pray to God and He will help you with your decision. Best of luck!
834053
Listen to their advice & opinions, but ultimately--the decision is yours to make.  Whatever your decision is though, know that you could be in for a world of hurt, or you might have found the love of a lifetime. Only time will tell, and only you can decide that.  Give it some time & see where it goes.\n\nGood luck!
415073
So just concentrate on one man at a time. Less confusing that way, plus you'll find out whether you really like him or not.
170006
there is only one tru love be hanest to your self and find your tru love then go for it.but if you have children stick to your marej and forget the other one.you will fall in love with your husband agen.then DONT EVER EVER let this hapen agen!!!
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more