My BF and I have been 2getha since Janurary, is it okay to go ahead and have sex with him 4 my 1st time?
403450
Only you know if you are really ready, and the fact that you are asking this question leads me to believe that you aren't. Sex can be wondeful, but if you have to guess if he is going to stick around, makes me think that perhaps you are not ready for the emotional consequences that could result in this encounter. If he really wants to be with you he will wait. If he doesn't then you know your answer.
1164608
i was 17 and no i have no regrets at all weve been dating for bout 1 year and a half b4 we had sex and we are still togeather to this day just as long as u feel ur with the right person then u should no it is time inside.
521178
If you have a sensible head on your shoulders and know how to handle yourself then why not? It may be illegal for him to have sex with you where you come from though and he'll be the one that could get a criminal record if it is! But generally speaking, four years age difference is nothing! Just be very careful, is all I can suggest. Many older men have desires for young girls that are not altogether healthy.\nJust use some good judgment and keep safe!
89305
You should wait until you're both ready. To sound stereotypical, sex is a big responsibilty. No matter how safe you are, there can always be the risk of pregnancy or getting an STD. Be sure you're ready for an consequences that may occur.\n\nBut if you decide to go for it....HAVE FUN!
934176
If you're both virgins, there's not a lot you can do to avoid the weirdness after.  That happens to everybody after their first time.  The best thing you can do is communicate beforehand and during.  It would be a shame if he was into it and didn't know he was hurting you and vice versa.  You have to feel your partner out and learn what s/he does and doesn't like before it will really start to be good.  The first time is always weird...
179368
You should do what you think is right. Not what people tell you on yahoo answers. There will only ever be one first time. If you want it to be with him then I guess that's what is the right thing to do.
609266
as long as ure bf is nice to you and love you so much, no harm for you to do the same thing to him. when u happy to do anything for him.. it doesnt matter what other ppl say abt u two..
137948
NO!!!!  I'd tell him you want to see how things go for awhile before you go on vacation with him.  Not having sex is going to be hard enough on both of you going on vacation just the 2 of you is way to tempting.
564039
be patient and dont go with sum1 just 2 loose virginity,its not a illnes :) the girl/boy who u will decide 2b with will appriciate that u waited with this for a special person! Good luck!!!
776371
If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now.  You shouldn't have to ask.  If you have any doubts, you're not ready.  Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me.  I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years.  Take care of yourself.  He can take care of himself if you say "no".
644972
If you feel comfortable with it and so does he then go for it. Just make sure that if you only want sex you both know that so there will be no complications later on.
1186946
If you've been together for 5 months, it hardly qualifies as a one-night stand.  If you're ready to have a sexual relationship with him, just be sure you've thought about all the possible consequences, such as pregnancy or STDs, and make sure you're protected.  You don't mention your age... and you haven't mentioned whether this will be your first time.  If it is, you should really think about whether you're ready to take that step.  Only you can decide, and don't let him pressure you into it if you decide you're not ready.
1107158
Its good that you have waited, sex between two people that really care about each other is amazing. \n\nBe carefull, make him wear protection, choose a time when your not going to get disturbed, your both relaxed and you feel ready, for any female, it is usual to hurt at first, make him take it steady.\n\nYou will always remember you first time, make it special, take precautions and have fun
642476
no dont think differently ask ur bf that u want sex at least once a day
567861
It would deffently be hard for awhile, yes. And exspecially if you had sex with her. and more so if it was either of yours first time.\n\nMy bf and I have been going out for 4 monthes as of next week, and if we broke up im sure id be very upset and really sad for awhile!  But eventually we'd have to get over it and move on.. right.
122515
If you're just "talking" to him and you've had sex with him, it's a little late.  2 months seems an awful short time to know someone before you have sex.  I doubt you're going to get a commitment from him.
272925
It depends on the person and their maturity level. If you feel that you are mature enough to have sex and deal with the consequences that may come about, then go for it. But you really need to think about it and how it will change you and your relationship with the other person. I had sex for the first time when I was 14 and completely regretted not waiting. You may think the person you are with is the one or whatever, but you may regret your decision later. It shouldn't be taken lightly.