my friend is making friends wit this other group & wont talk 2 me cause she thinks they r cooler wat do i do?
408614
this will hurt but to be honest she isnt any kind of genuine friend if this is how shes treating u. My advice(Coming from a 35 year old scottish chick whos been there b4 with an ex friend),id walk away from her and cut all ties. Do u realy want to be friends with someone that treats u like that? U deserve better babe.xx
600638
It sounds as if she is jealous of you and putting you down in front of others (esp. men) makes her feel better about her self. Talk to her about how this makes you feel, if this doesn't work trying giving her a taste of her own medicine..maybe then she will see for herself how it feels. It it still becomes a problem, find a new friend. Good luck.
653363
Invite whoever the hell you want to! Don't let one person decide who you can't hang out with because she doesn't like many people...You sound like a very nice person and I think you should party with whoever you want to....Hate to say it but the friend who doesn't like many people...really doesn't seem to be doing much but trying to bring u down with her!! Be yourself and invite everyone lol...The more the merrier..No matter where or when.
855931
If she thinks that you not understanding something and having to ask a friend for advice is laughable, then you don't need her!  That is really mean of her.  Your conversation between you and the other dude should have been private.
657141
First of all...she is NOT your Best Friend.  Second...she is probably jealous.  Ignore her comment.
190462
Give her time to cool off.I am sure that if she is a good friend she will think about it and know that you would never do that to her. If she want listen to you then send someone else to talk for you. Leave her a message on her voice-mail, write a letter, or email. She has to listen or read one of them.
636532
She is two-faced. Ask yourself why do she want to talk to you if you know (and she knows that you know) that she talks about you and your friends? Is she trying to find out "dirt" about you and your friends so that she can act friendly with you, then, for no reason, not talk to you and tell her friends and your friends what you've said about them. Whether it was taking out of context or not. This girl is up to something. The next time you see her, just ignore her. Hi and by. If she ask you for something or anything not related to homework or some type of social, you don't know. Walk away. You have things to do and really need to get going. Try everything not to make time for her. See if this works.
267683
she is your friend but aparently she cares tooo much about herself..so much that any little thing u say she takes it as an insult ffrom you to her...when she says somethin like that u shoud quickly tell her, " i wasnt talking bout you, your make up looks cool and ur my best friends if u looked bad i would tell you" and tell her u were just giving an opinion ...but dont let her bit*h at you...because if thats what she does you may consider getting a New BEst frieNd
687284
if she is close to you, you should try to let her know that she would be a better person if... (and you mention the things you think that she needs to change).\nbut if she is just a simple friend, ignore her and get a better friend. someone that doesnt give you anything possitive is useless.
473023
i had the same problem about 2 months ago.. i told her to change and be herself. she didnt listen and i told her i dont want to be her friend and she ignored my other friend and left the class.. the best thing is get it over with now and tell her that u dont want to be her friend unless u really care about her
47060
Sure she does! She tells you these things bc she feels safe with you. Now if that's all she does is tell you all the bad stuff about her life and takes no interest in yours, then you are a crutch to her. It is up to you if you want to hear about her other friends taking a crap on her or whatnot. If you want to be the crutch, I suggest selective hearing. It can be a downer to hear about her crap friends, and keep suggesting that she gets rid of them and the negativity they bring. Hang in there, it may be a phase and she'll realise what a friend you are and drop the losers and hang out with you... someone who cares...
467332
put them on the spot and ask them why they feel you are ignorant. maybe there is something you are missing. then again maybe by their answer they will show that they are the ones missing something! either way if their behavior continues find new friends. have enough respect for yourself to not allow others to treat you that way!
220700
well get all of your other friends together, talk about it, see how they feel, if they're all for not talking to her again then you ALL go and say something to her.  If your friends still wanna talk to her, just ask why in the hell they still wanna be friends with such an annoying person.  Or just tell your friends "hey, im not talking to her anymore, but she will try and turn you guys against me, so don't let that happen"
465189
because if your best friends and people talk about and your \nfriends  talkm about you and sometimes thoy want to be their friends and they stik with them them ....... i know how it fells but you have to deal with it try to tell them if your other friends do it then if you want me to be your friend then tell her to tell her oter friends to stop talkin about her or elsewe just cant be fruiends anymore if your goin to be that way and get away foom me
686400
Some friend she is. Trust me I went thru da same shit in middle school. This bitch ain't worth it. I use to be like you. A lil shy. I look back n it just pisses me off how I let ppl like her walk all over me. U gotta be cool and set her straight. Make some new friends n start ignoring her. When she confronts 2 u about it, u can just tell well u've been doin the same thing to me n u just ain't worth it if ur only gonna be my friend so that u can benefit from me then I ain't goona deal wit it no more cuz u know wat... I don't have to..(walk away)
293373
Just give her the cold shoulder for a while or don't talk to her because if she is doing this to you she is not really your friend she is just a backstabber.But I would just give her the cold shoulder for a lil bit and see what happens.
827768
She obviously already dissed you.  What you already know is enough to come to that conclusion.  From now on, do not regard her as close of a friend as you had thought or hoped.  Try talking and hanging with some other people, than just this group.  Also, look around for some other young hotties to set your eyes and energy on.  Give this friendship some space.  If it is a truly a good friendship it will still be there.  But, don't ask.  Let it be.  Do your own thing for a little bit.  I would not ask her anything because she knows your feelings for him.  If she needs to share with you something in regards with them then that is her job to come to you. She needs to be responsible for getting that out on the table with you.  Just be like whatever. If she cares about you and is close as you say, she will know to say something to you.