why we fall in love and why we get tensed we he doen't talk us?
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we know its a sweet posion,and we gonna have it,its make us to fly in the sky at the beginning,whatever we see we thinks its looks great and amazing,but when the time goes its looks pale,and when he/she betrayed us,we feel like to die.\n\n\nits a attraction,in start we never things that our love will be ends.\nEveryone thinks its will be a never ending story,but the damn luck always makes us sad.
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Thats a phylosophical question, and humanity have not been able to figure out a direct answer to that. And I think its the way its supposed to be. Otherwise humans would try to controll love!\n\nOfcourse we can talk of compartibility, physical, and psychological. We can talk about pheromones and sense of smell. But all of those are just mechanisms of falling in love. \n\nPersonally, for me, true love is caused by the hope of finding your soulmate. People who have found true love, are very fortunate, with out it, life is incomplete.
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Falling in love happens so smoothly, its when youre just getting to know each other and you love all those lil things she/he does for you,  The once you ahve been in love fo r along time, all that wears off, adn its about maintaining that love and keeping things fresh, which is hard.  You fall into ruts adn do the same things and its gets old.  Its hard work, but well worth teh reward, to know you have someone in your life who would do anything for you and wants to sepnd teh rest of their life with you.  (If you couldnt tell, im still in love!)
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Than that would be lust.. not love. To fall in love usually you at least need to speak with the person, unless they are a deaf-mute.
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Life isn't scripted, so anything can happen anytime.  There are some things we just have no control over and having someone fall in love with you isn't one of them.  He saw something in you that you are unable to see in yourself, so perhaps he is the light in your darkness.
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he could be falling in love- but to love you means to know you- he must know everything about you- what makes you tick- your good side and your bad side- because when he find out some things about you that he may not like, will he still love you- let him know that-\nBut he can still be falling in love
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Dear Downhelps:\n\nIt seems like you are feeling this way mainly because of a boyfriend who may be acting as if he is losing interest in you.  Is this correct?\n\nIn our human personalities we express many different things.  We are able to succeed sometimes, be smiley sometimes, win friends sometimes and so forth.  But we also can meet up with opposition, limitations and those who pull their friendship away from us.  The human personality goes thru many changes.  It is always shifting, changing, and altering.  It is never stable and on an even level.\n\nOur souls or spirit behind our human personality is the seat of higher thoughts, self-love and love of others.  It is unchangeable, never alters or shifts in it's position or outlook.  It is capable of withstanding the lack of love from outside of itself.  This means that inside of YOU is something CERTAIN about itself.  It loves, it thinks highly of itself (because it is God's Created Child) and it knows every brother in the universe has the same Self or soul within them, too !  If the human personality changes and thinks it no longer loves or it no longer likes another, the soul within that person still loves or likes the other.  Soul knows nothing but love and liking.  For it is like God in how it thinks.\n\nWhen the soul through the human turns itself over to love and suddenly finds itself lacking the loved one's interest, in it's wisdom it does not cling.  As the seat of wisdom and love, itself, it knows when to let go and release the other.  BUT, it knows that it can produce more love for itself simply because it desires it, and is open to having it and can produce more of it again.  The spirit within has self-esteem, because it is connected to God Who puts high value on it.  \n\nValue your ability to produce love over and over again in your lifetime.  Have the strength of wisdom to release those who need to be released and to know - their changing feelings are part of their personality.  We do not have to be hurt or harmed by those who go back and forth in their feelings.  Or those who we have cared about more than they cared for us.  Sometimes, our human minds like to punish us and tell us we weren't enough to hold onto love or friendship.  But it is telling us a lie.  And, we don't have to listen to it.\n\nYOU are an Eternal Being.  God made no losers.  He made us like Himself:  strong in love, willing to let go, when necessary, to honor the Free Will of his Children.  He is in a constant state of knowing that He produces love ceaselessly by Creating it.\n\nWe create it also!  We produce it over and over in our lifetimes too! There is someone else coming for you when you smile again and make more friends.  You brought this friend toward yourself, didn't you?  Well, why not bring another to yourself?  You have power.  You have ability to attract and bring to yourself what you desire and think about. Do not give up your power just because someone wants to move on. . ..  Cause another friendship, be part of another love.  We do learn lessons from our loves.  They are valuable if they do not knock you down!  Take the good out of those lessons and USE IT.  Take the rest of what is in those lessons and throw it away!\n\nYOU did not suddenly become unworthy, unlovable or unlikeable because someone else's personality did not show you consistent feelings.  You are still YOU.  You gave your boyfriend power over you.  Now take it back!  In time, you will stop missing him.  I promise you that.\n\nBest regards, Lana
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Basically, we're screwed up! WE're clingy, dependent and want the fairytale. We always think we can "help" someone and that they will change or what ever. By science, since we as women want to spend so much time with the guy we like, it is normal to eventually come to love that person.Just the act of being around someone, can cause you to fall in love. They actually did a study.
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wow, this is a complicated question, indeed! honestly, people fall in love for many reasons, sometimes simple (the way a person laughs or smells) or complicated, like they helped them survive a tough time. Most of the time it is chemistry between 2 people...a fire inside of you that makes you feel love towardes someone...but usually, after the initial attraction, something Deeper and more intense develops...often times ppl fall in love because they Trust someone, feel safe with someone, appreciate the things they do for them, or have had just the best time in their life with someone. Most ppl will enjoy certain qualities about someone, will think they are funny, smart, or charming...or even hot and sexy! you really can't put a finger on WHY ppl fall in love...it is truly a mystery! but, everyone say, "when it happens, you will know it!" hope this helps! ;) m
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we are fall in love because we want to keep our relationship a little longer.\nor we just want to get along . i mean the matter is does it make you happy or not>?
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If you are talking about real love then its not feeling and it not thought to. Real love come from heart which you cant control. If you love someone you think its feelin or that you think about it but it not that? Love is a secret which no one knows about and what is it. !!!
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Life is uncertain, u never know what is going to happen. Who knows somebody is there in ur self for lifetime or not but that doesn't make u stop loving the person. There are times that both love each other intensely then also they need to separate. But always keep in mind life never stops for anybody. Have confidence in u & u can go thru all the phases of life.
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its psychological. talk to him about it a bit...it could be just a phase. we guys are wierd...all sorts of stuff affects us in all different ways. I would say just talk to him about it.
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may be he dont know what he wants\nmay be he feel shy and concentrate on this word ( shy)\nso sometimes he get the encourage enough to he he loves u to ur sister then he feel shy again and say he dont love u \ni think from my mind he loves u \njust try to talk to him personally and u will know everything
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My guess would be the connection you make with a person with your mind. No other shows of affection, just communicating with them through speaking, letters, email, etc.
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Because it wasn't love to begin with,it was infatuation and infatuation dies..love never dies.When you love someone there's nothing to stop you from loving them...but when your infatuated,it's easy to get over at be infatuated with someone else..
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I am in the same boat. There is this guy who I am totally falling for, but we are taking things slow...as in just friends for now...slow. We talk, we laugh, we just have fun, we have so much in common, including our birthdays...LOL. I would take it as a definite sign that you are head over heels in love and that you just want to spend every waking moment with that person. Don't worry, you're not alone, I know exactly how you feel right now.