Why is it that when we as girls fall in love, it's hard for us to let go when it's over. But for boys its easy
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For you it's hard not for me but to answer it, most women as u have heard are emotional creatures n need something to be attached to so, hell may be it's guys are emotionless dark enigma's of nothingness but then they wouldn't be able to orgasm, chat with me if it bothers u that much. (Aim:SugarHiBunny) you'll get ova it sweetie. =D\n\ni didn't read the whole thing, the first time he cheated on u sweetie u should of cut his balls off n left...no man's worth the chase if they cheated on u remember that.
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This is a toughie for me.  In retrospect, I felt in my gut whenever a guy wasn't the best one for me--but I often stayed because I doubted my own instincts.  Things generally end or fade away because the universe no longer sees a need for us have them in our lives; we have learned our lesson and it is time to move on.  The pain of a breakup is FAR less damaging than the choice to stay and suffer holding on long after you should have let go.
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What I admire about girls is that they're able to get guys. I can't ever get guys... it sucks... but girls can, and don't even have to think about it. v.v' *sigh* \nAloha,\nDavid
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I think its just as hard for a man to end a relationship as it is for a girl. Depending on the reasons behind the break up. If it was that easy for him to move on, maybe it was something he already had planned. Look into it.
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Sometimes we aren't patient and allow love to grow.  Sometimes we're too scared to let someone really get to know us.  Sometimes we aren't really sure what we are looking for in a relationship.  And sometimes we want it to happen to fast.
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Well I guess it has already happened.  People I loved.  Either relationships ending or people I know who died very close to me.  For a while I felt destroyed but I am able to move on and live.. It is the test of life and our will to live and move on.  We are very connected to each other some times in not such a healthy way so disconnection is very difficult for us.. There is not education in schools about this type of survival and there should be I feel.  We don't get enough answers from family.  True survival when all seems impossible.  I am more of an open person and those who showed no weaknesses, fears, emotions are the ones closed off afraid to love and be loved.   IT takes a lot to be open you are the special person trying your hardest to learn..  But it is true there are time and places for showing your true self.  Not on the first date sister.  Once you love each other and you feel safe is good time.
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Not all boy does that. I think it's a misunderstanding because maybe the girl keep hiding their feelings and emotions away from their love one.
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Because he liked it when you were all gaga over him.  Even if he didn't share youre feelings, it's a big ego boost for a guy when a girl has a crush on him and it's hard to let go of.
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Best Answer! \n\nYou know you are in love when it hurts once its over!
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hmm.. falling in love.. what a great feeling.  However, ALLOWING yourself to fall in love when you know your heart will break, is not love at all.  But when you CHOOSE to love someone, there are no expectations.  You just do it because it makes you happy to do so.  And when that is given in return (not expected) well then that is the most wonderful thing on earth.  We are creatures of love.  We came into this world knowing only love.  We only learned from family, friends, and the world what is expected to "be in love".  And this is a lie.  When someone punishes you for loving them, then it isn't love at all.  So pay attention to your feelings and the ACTIONS of others as well as your own actions.  There is a book I want to find and read .. it will help you understand and it explains it better than I ever will.  Enjoy!!
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Love has a tragic end liberating the soul which is very painful.Atleast i've seen this happen with those who loved their beloveds dearly,the lady loves leaving them to cry in despair.Some of them have learnt to feel liberated from the curse of being dumped.
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Falling in love is easy. Staying in love takes the efforts of both partners. Then it can last forever. Keeping the romance alive, the big and little things we do for our beloved every day.
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He doesn't own you, you don't need his permission to move on if you yourself want to. What makes it hard to move on is ourselves. I am speaking from my own experience. I told him it's over between us but I still couldn't get over him because I still love him. If you don't love him anymore, it won't be hard to move on. Why should you care it will hurt him? If you care, it means you still have feelings for him. So the question is how we stop loving them because what and why they do things won't mean anything to us anymore if we can let go.
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Don't worry, every girl goes through that. you may think you are falling in love but you are probably falling in like with them because your friends have probably talked about their boyfriends in front of you so you may fell like you want to be with him from what your friends say but you may not know the real him.
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When you fall in love,you feel like nothing can go wrong when you're around him.You feel like you just want to hug him and such.
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Because it is natural. We all wanted to love when we were youngs.
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Its hard to describe, I guess its just a part of life, we cry when we are happy and sad. Love is just complicated nobody really knows what to do. Maybe it hurts to be happy because you are with someone you love and hope nothing will tear you two apart and in your mind you are wondering if you two will stay together.