I LIED TO MY G-FRIEND IN a little matter and she says that there is no room for us now.  what do i do??
412328
sorry to hear that.. I am going through the same issue..Your gf deserves to have ur trust, and u hers...Well, you should talk to her.. and explain your reasons.. That is wat I had to do too..I love him so much too and I really do not want to let him go..Talk to her and tell her the yelling thing doesn't work...teach her some other strategies to express herself..I wish everything works out for ya..
225741
Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
925586
You should be honest with her sweetie - you seem much older than 18, and hopefully she will understand why you lied.\nIt is much better to come clean sooner rather than later, as if it does end because of it, you will be less hurt.\nAnd no need to self concious, you are a lovely bloke, and I'm sure lots of girls are beating down your door!\nWe've got to try and stay positive about these things, who knows - maybe it'll work this time round!  If not, there are always other women (me lol)  :)
326365
Write or email her, explaining things like you have done here.\n\nGive her some time, as well.  Usually, that puts some perspective on things. Don't make any more promises that you can't keep, though -- "I'll do my best but I can't promise" is more honest.\n\nIn the meantime, try and get on with your own life, ok... no point in panicking, really.
439162
There is nothing you can do.  It was her decision and unless she changes her own mind she won't come back.  Sometimes you just have to accept that things are out of your control.  If you try to manipulate her into coming back it makes you seem immature and pathetic.
1160219
Then, simply why did you even invite her? Be honest with her....it will hurt her feelings... \nI know you were being kind to invite her, but remember sometimes people count on what you say. \nSee if you have another friend she can stay with for a few days, perhaps she can stay with you for a few days and with another friend for a few more..\nGood luck to you.
411452
You can forgive, but if an apology isn't necessary  don't.  Why lie?  If don't think she'll jump you again go to her and talk. Tell her that you are angry, but you don't hate her. Let her know that you can't live together. but you're interesting in repairing the relationship if that's possible. You never know how she's feeling.  She may feel just as guilty for starting it. At any rate you will have done as much as anyone could and you're obligation is fulfilled.
683800
would any of your friends lie to you or would they tell you the truth if the problem was switched around. what would you want the truth or a lie. \n\n\nyeah it may hurt you and them but it is better if its now and not later because if you hold you peace and she finds out later then she will never trues you again if she finds out that you knew about it. if you don't tell your risking your friendship, and if you tell the only thing will happen is that they may get upset, but in time they will thank you for being honest. i know that its not easy and it wont get any easier i wish i could tell you that it will but that will be lying.
493245
She lied, but that doesn't mean she doesn't care for you, my friend/girl hardly speaks to me in public,lol. But when it's just us she does, and that's what lets me know she cares.Good luck:)
674798
Just ask her if it was an accident, or what the deal was. You can read her face when she answers you. Remember accidents do happen. If you don't believe her just simply avoid her and move on you don't have to be rude or if you cherish her friend ship forgive her and don't believe everything she says that way you don't get hurt again. Just accept the fact she lies. It all depends  how valuable your friendship is. I had a friend like that once, she called 5 times a day, I mean I really didn't have time for all that, it got on my nerves so bad I unplugged my phone for 3 months. I finally got it out of my system and now we aren't that close, I avoid her most of the time cause I don't want to get her started again.
335366
depends on why you lied and what it was about talk to her about how you feel
697432
You're not a horrible person. You're simply a liar. Which is an indication of one or two things. 1. You care enough about her to spare her feelings and you like her enough to be what she wants you to be or..2. You're just trying to turn her out. If you lied because you really like her then she may be understanding and if not then she may be really hurt and disappointed. I was once in this situation and I forgave him because I understand that most guys don't feel the same way about sex that I do and at least he cared about what I thought. Believe it or not some women understand that some men lie because they care. As sick as that sounds. Its not rt but in your situation if that's what you did then it probably won't affect the relationship because I'm sure she wasn't expecting an angel.
115125
We need more details to help you out here.  The best I can do with what I know about your situation is a general appology.  Be sincere, and don't try to explain your side of it.  If you do, this may come accross as an excuse.  If you are truely sorry for what you did then say so and never say, "I'm sorry but...".  This will make the person think you don't really mean it.  Take full responsibility for your actions and admit what you did was wrong.  Ask them to look down deep in their heart and please forgive you.  Remind them of what your relationship means to you and how important they are to you.  Finish the letter by saying over again, "I really am sorry for hurting you.  I will do what ever it takes to earn your trust and restore our relationship."\n\nGood Luck!
899295
Well- you have honestly already messed things up for you and her to have any kind of serious relationship.  You have shown her how selfish you are by not listening to her when she was trying to vent to you about an ex.  The next thing you messed up with is not telling her that you liked her.  Do you really think she was happy about hearing that you really didn't like anyone?  You had the perfect oppurtunity to get on her "good" side and say "yeah- I really like you!"  So far you have shown her that you don't care about her feelings and that you lie.  Do ya think she might realize you are using her as a sex object instead of a person with feelings???  Good luck!
582578
It all depends what you did.  Maybe you should give her some time and a little space first.
955973
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
848308
You have to give her time...Back off. Tell her you love her and that you are very sorry, Tell her you'll spend the rest of your life making it up to her. I am going to assume you cheated, we are all human. Don't make that mistake again. Time will tell you all you need to know. Tell her how you feel then give her space. Even if you don't talk for a couple weeks. Send her a text message or leave a voice mail every once in awhile telling her you love her. Best of luck