I need help in dating ladies as I am always short of what to say when we meet?
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Saying...."this is awkward, isn't it...." but I had to say "hi."
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just say something normal to her, talk to her about anything at first and ease into it. you don't have to have the perfect line, if she is interested in you she isn't going to hold it against you if you're not exactly a poet the first time you open your mouth.
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How about being geniune first and foremost, cos girls well most can suss out phoney's who are after only one thing...\n\nStarting a conversation is a start without being crude, asking her questions whilst listening about herself and dislikes ,likes etc..\nThen some info about what you like to do etc is a start....
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Then only thing you can really do is just get to know her better, if you really are that nervous maybe you arent ready for dating. The best advice i could give you though is to just talk to her, remember this you have nothing to loose and everything to gain.
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Be respectful. Be charming. Be polite.\n\nAs long as you are good, you will eventually attract good women. (You will find some not-so-good ones, too, but the good ones will stick with you.)\n\nNot all women think guys are dogs. Women who have been burned by men, will think that. Remember, respect, charm, and polite.\n\nThose are very essential elements, and don't forget honest. \n\nIf people are rude, shrug it off. Someone who's ticked today, could be pleasant tomorrow. \n\nGood luck.
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Too much info doesn't lead to the build up excitement of meeting.  Two to three things about yourself is okay, but more than that is more info then needed.  \n\nAlso some girls think when guys mention that they're not just intrested in our bodies and looks <-- just mentioning this is definitely what we think you are interested in only.  As for being shy, this may be true but that sounds like you just want more girls to reply.  \n\nMost important thing to write and what girls love is;  A sense of humor and make a commit about something funny.
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You're right, Lisa P. Most guys don't have much to say about anything, unless they're talking with their buddies about sports and women. Then they know everything to say about women. Unfortunately they can't say one of those things to a real woman like you. So much for most men being able to deal with reality.\n\nAdd into the equation the requirement for cute and single, and you've almost scraped the bottom of the barrel. But I believe if you check out some places where the men don't have an alcoholic drink in their hand (the zoo, the college library, a church, the museum, etc.) you may just find him. If you think you have found your cute single guy, say, "Hi!" His first response should tell you whether to pursue the conversation.\n\nGood luck, Lisa P.
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Just be you.  There's no need for you to enhance your manliness in going there through whatever things you think you should wear .  The simple and natural you is more than enough to open a conversation with that woman.  Approach her (if she's alone) naturally with a friendly smile and ask her if you can join her.  If she agrees, keep the conversation going smoothly about any topic which may interest her.  There's nothing wrong if you will ask her about her status but that should come in at the latter part of your conversation.   Or even at another day.  Make her feel important through your ability to listen.  Make her like you even for just a friend at that moment.  Romance may come your way more likely if you will succeed  in making her your friend as your initial step and then gradually, in letting her know that you like her a lot.  Good luck..
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as a woman, i usually try to make conversation with guys that i am interested for future relationship, whatever it might be.\n\nso if the gurl that you are talking with is touchy with you; you know the touch in the arm or if you are in a club and she leans in really close to talk (lips ALMOST touching your ear) that means you have a shot with her. \n\nnow if she is just being polite and not interested in you. then the conversation that you are trying to have most likely going to be just one way, and that way is you. so if she is looking around the room instead of you. then move on. there are lots of women out there that will be interested in you.\n\nso dont waste your time on a woman, move on to another. good luck out there. hope i helped. =P
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got this in a daily email\n\nAs far as starting conversations with women,\nhere are a few ideas for you...\n\n   First of all, you must realize that your body\nlanguage is more important than the words you use.\nWherever you are, and whatever the situation, you\nMUST remember that your composure and body\nlanguage are the keys.\n\n   I've watched a lot of guys approach a LOT of\nwomen in my day. And I can usually tell within the\nfirst few SECONDS if the guy knows what he's doing\nwith women... and if he's going to be successful.\n\n   Most guys use submissive, apologetic body\nlanguage and voice tones... they almost look as if\nthey're pleading with a woman to give them\napproval and that they're nervous and self\nconscious about the whole event.\n\n   In other words, most guys come across as\nWUSSIES when they first approach women.\n\n   On the other hand, the guys I know who are the\nmost successful with women are the opposite.\n\n   They're totally cool, calm, and collected. They\noften approach a woman and begin the conversation\nlike they would with an old friend.\n\n   There is no apologetic body language, and there\nare no signs of insecurity.\n\n   They aren't there to find out if the woman is\ngoing to give them some approval... on the\ncontrary, they are trying to find out if the woman\nmeets THEIR standards.\n\n   Think about how you'd act if you were only\ninterested in finding out if she's the kind of\nexceptional woman that you're interested in\ngetting to know better, instead of being concerned\nabout whether or not she's going to like you...\nbig shift, isn't it?\n\n   Now, here's some homework for you:\n\n   Sit down and think carefully about the most\ncommon situations you find yourself in where you\nsee women that you'd like to meet and talk to.\n\n   Think about what's going on in their minds,\nwhere they're going, what they've just done... and\nwhat they're about to do. Think about how they're\nprobably feeling.\n\n   Now, come up with 10 different ways that you\ncould start a conversation in this situation.\nRemember that YOU'RE the one who is trying to\nfigure out if SHE is the kind of woman you'd like\nto get to know better.\n\n   Once you've come up with 10 good ones, pick\nyour favorite, and mentally rehearse it.\n\n   I realize that I'm asking you to do some work\nhere, but it's sooooo worth it.\n\n   I'm going to give you one more hint...\n\n   Most of the guys I know who are great with\nwomen use the simplest of simple conversation\nstarters.\n\n   "Hi."\n\n   "What are you drinking?"\n\n   "Hi, are you from around here?"\n\n   ...I realize that these sound simple, and they\nare. But they're so simple that they're DISARMING.\nThey don't come across as canned "pick up lines",\nand they help you figure out very quickly if the\nwoman you're talking to is friendly.\n\n   And remember, relaxed body language is Key!\nthe subject was how to apporach women
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Take a walk anywhere "nice" women are walking (e.g., sidewalk in a nice part of your city). When you see someone really interesting, say, "Hello," introduce yourself, and take her with you. If she is busy at that very moment, get her phone number and make sure you call her. If she is married (also a possibility), apologise and move on; she will be too flattered to hold a grudge. Do this until you get someone. By the way, if you don't see anything that you like at any time, wait until you do. You will see someone you like soon enough.\n\nAnother place to pick up nice girls is at a grocery store. However, keep in mind that others will be near you there, so you won't get as much privacy to ask for her number; and it is good for the two of you to bond from the beginning -- just the two of you, even for a moment. If she has only a couple of items, insist on paying for them at the register, then walk her to her car. It will not cost much, but you will already be getting her attention that she can rely on you. (No, it is not a money thing, it is a security thing.) Again, if she is married or attached, apologise and move on. Soon enough you will wind up with someone you are happy with.
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I think she loves your flamboyant personality and loves your honesty and the way your always there to listen and completely understands her. You are as real as they come and even though we havent met im sure we would get along. What do you mean you have a boyfriend?! I like you. I think you are sweet. Maybe your woman needs time to get to know you or meet you. Maybe you should send her a picture of you beautiful face.
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There is a saying, "Deep waters run still."\n\nWait until you meet a woman who is wise and knows that a quiet man can sometimes be the treasure. In the meantime, be yourself, pursue your passions in life, and she'll turn up eventually.
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Hey, don't sell yourself short!  Just the way you explained your situation was wonderful.  You knew what to say, your charm and energy comes through, you expressed your feelings very well, and it was as "convesational" as posted question can be.\n\nI know it can be scarier to talk to girls without your friends around, but you know what?  The girls aren't all that sure of themselves either!\n\nDon't necessarily approach someone for a conversation thinking of it as a "date conversation" - just be yourself and start talking about whatever, and as the conversation progresses you can always say you would really like to continue and would she like to go out sometime.  Be casual and don't sweat the small stuff.  Remember, she's probably as nervous as you are!  You already are the kind and funny guy who can speak up and talk to girls for dates.  Sometimes we keep ourselves from doing something simply because we're nervous about it.  Life's too short for that, and I can guarantee you that the girls are wondering what they can do to get you to ask them out!  Just relax, be yourself and you've got it made.
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Just be careful that you don't scare her away by coming on to strong. If you tell her everything you feel all at once she may get a little spooked. Take it slow and ask her out on a date first, then slowly give her hints of your affection. Women love attention but large doses all at once can be overwhelming. Alot of women like a man with a little bit of mystery! Good luck
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well you just kinda, walk up to her, comment on her. comment something such as you look so beautiful or such, girls love to be complemented. Just start carrying on a convresation that you would think she would be comfertable with, but don't act like someone you aren't trust me girls can tell if you are not acting like yourself even if we dont know you, but the main this, just be yourself, and start off with hi how you doing, once you think she is comfertable with you, ask if you all can meet again, or just ask her for her cell or such. but i hope this has helped you!
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Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation.\n\nYou need an opening line, small talk, and close with getting their number or a date.\n\nThe number one dating advice for women is "play hard to get".\n\nAlso, no one has ever seen the start of a relationship, and blobs that are 50% of the population have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women.