He has to choose between 2 girls: his baby moms or his High School Sweetheart. Who should he choose???
400354
His baby's mom will forever be in his life-or at least she should for their child. However, high school sweethearts come with some sentimental value as well. My best advice is for him to follow his heart. He owes himself that much. Only he can truly know the answer to this.
544360
Looks like the guy is a mommys boy?!! If hes from a single parent family especially, drop everything cut ur losses and run like the wind dudette!  on a serious note, I understand you must now be feeling like you cant ever go on with  out him and that your world will end. trust me it wont, you are best to put an ultematum (is tht how u spell it? oh who cares!) to him and say either u marry me or stay with the mom.  Also dont be a martyr and live with them, live separately even if its a yard from his moms home.  If he wont leave his mom, u have to leave him and look onwards, it may not appear so right now, but you will meet someone else who deserves all your love and will reciprocate unconditionally without a mom for free!
24654
YoU wIlL Get HIM  BAbE!!! WhY wouLd He DumP THe OtHeR 2 IF ThErE WaSnT SoMeONe BettEr???  You WeRe LasTTTTT!!!!!!
807726
yeah, there are too many to pick. The one's that are six run-on sentences long about some kind of stupid relationship dilemma involving mom, my best friend, my current boyfriend and my ex boyfriend. What should I do? He says this but she says that...\nthey really should have spell check on here though. I'm afrain youngsters don't know how to read or write properly anymore, and I could use it every once in a while.
833949
This: "What should I do if he again makes up with his ex?" question is tough one, though the fact is that you CAN compete with the mom, yes, because the've probably conserved the respect to each other, but the love is that is already gone and you have this advantage on your side.\n\nI have an advise for you concerning the kid. The children, especially if they are much younger have unfallable  ability to evaluate man's personality- they are pure and see the world with an objective eye. So if you want (and you should) to get along with the kid, be yourself, don't try to hard, no pretences, no sweet wordings just for the sake of it. \n\nJust enjoy what you have together and think of the potential problems when they actually turn into a real ones:)
266100
if you like him then respect his choose to be with the other girl but if you love him starting to be gain his best friend ( someone with talking about his deep problems) & then i wish you luck!
859537
Everyone has their choice for serching Mr.right .you mayn't know him unless you live with him .at that moment you should support  her feelings rether offer her any kind of  choice or opinion
625729
Best advice...STAY AWAY! Think about it..he has a child with another woman (or girl) and yet he's trying to get into your pants. Ya think that once he gets what he's looking for..that he'll stick around..or will he look for another conquest? For your own sanity and well being...STAY AWAY!
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Wow thats a tough one,  best might just to be totaly upfront and not beat around the bush (bad choice of words there) .   Just ask him.  makes me wonder how you are going to do it though,  like big stringe or what.......lot of emotional issues too.  any decent guy is going to have feelings about his child and that could be sticky.  Beings you have already picked him I'm sure he's a decent guy.  Best of luck to you.
905225
Wait until both of you finish school. You don't want him to end up just being your baby's daddy, do you?
530666
I know you love your fiance, but it's obvious his mother doesn't love you.  You're gonna have problems.  I'd tell you to beat her with an aluminum bat, but that wouldn't get you anywhere.  Tell your fiance exactly what you're telling us.  Don't try to avoid conflict, cuz it already exists, and will only get worse.  Have your fiance bring this up with his mother, and try to iron things out.  Is there a reason his mother chooses the other girl over you?  Does his mom even know the real you?  Who you are?  How much you love her son?  That bitch!
620325
Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?
667122
First off forget about hurting yourself. You and your then bf made this child out of love, it has a right to be born and raised. It sounds like he at least wants to be there to hlep you raise the child and that's more than what a lot of girls get most have the guy just run off. You do however have to inform your parents, but before you do, the two of you need to talk it outnad figure out the plan for this new little one. The first thing the parents will ask is what are your plans.\n\nYou two may not have been thinking when you made this child, but for it's sake now you must think about a plan. The guy may never come back to you, sounds like he wasn't ready for a commited relationship. Be fully preparred to raise this child as a single parent and if he plans to marry you later than that's fine, but if you expect it you are just going to get hurt.
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and now the entire internet knows. how far away from being 18 are they both? and how much do they like each other? because I think they should probably get married if they love each other that much, but if not, give the child up for adoption. Because if he leaves her, he will be regarded as an immature person who can't own up to his mistakes and runs away from them. So basically, marriage or adoption. Abortion is too horrible for both mother and child to think about.
276756
Hoopz, I also heard she broke up with him. Makes me wonder if he made the right choice after all........
438860
What if she is your one true love?\nI say go for it, because true love doesn't come around much these days and when it does, people are usually too distracted with whatever is going on in their lives to notice anyway.\nBUT if she did have the baby and kept it, be prepared to be a part of that kid's life. That is a major commitment. It adds a completely different dynamic to the relationship, it'll still be worth it if she really did satisfy you the way you say she did though.\nAs for this other guy, you say you USED TO call him so, you have no obligation to him. F*ck him. Just make 100% sure that she feels the same way about you after all this time before you make your move!\nGood Luck!!
191175
Definitely not right!!! different interests, different points of view, he's an adult and could manipulate her and push her to do things she's not ready to do yet!\nShe needs someone on her age.