why do i always attarct the wrong kind off men?or the older men?
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The way you act, the way you dress, the people you hang wit, your grades..........You never know the crowd that is wrong might have some good people in them
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Don't put all men in the same class.  Not ALL of them are scum-sucking maggots.  Above all DON'T PLAY THEM!  Let you be you, the real you, and you'll and might just get lucky and catch that one-in-a-million guy.  Don't try to be dominant.  But then again, it is wise to guard up.
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Embrace it.  These are life experiences.  Change your attitude toward the selection of men that you have dated to that of being greatful for the opportunity to date them.\n\nThings happen for a reason dear, every man you date and then dissappoint you, helps create the person you are to be for the right man that is still out there, and going thru the life experiences needed to be the right man for you.  Always bear this in mind when some man treats you badly.\n\nDoes this mean, that you should accept men to walk all over you, and treat you badly?  No, identify this behavior early, you should be getting very good at it, with your past experience.  No matter how hot he may be, and how bad you want him, if you notice a behavior that you remember in one of your bad relationships, be warned, and aware.  Eventually you will notice a difference in one man, the one man that is just right for you.
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if its natural.i would say that maybe u had some bad experience with a man before?or maybe u re just not interested,in low chacras stuffs.certain ppl are more into things of the mind or soul.then body level of doingness.if u know what i mean.so..its normal.just let it go, and i believe if.some day u find someone with who u get in "sync" with ,u will give ur mind,.and body to him.in harmony,i feel that u re a smart person,and u re looking for meanful things in ur l ife.keep it up.worry not.u will reach there.good luck
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In the army guys get exposed to a lot of other guys who don't necessarily have the best values.  Unfortunately sometimes the other fellas' behavior rubs off.  I'm sorry you're having a hard time with your friend.
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Trust me it happens with older women as well, and not surprisingly there are some men who experience settling for second best instead of being patient. The root of the problem is while we want to have a successful career, money in the bank, a big fine house, and the 2.0 children, we don't want to wait until the right person comes along who feels the same way about certain things in life as we do. Therefore, we settle for someone far less mature and serious about life than what we had intended because we don't want to be alone. We hate being alone, we hate spending time with ourselves, we can't stand the quiet. For some reason we believe that it is easier to be with anybody than with nobody.
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Because men have big ego problems, and believe that they r always right.  They r not.  It must be their upbringing.
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Because you aren't attracted to 'sensitive' guys - you look at them as 'nice guys' or 'friends' but not relationship material.\n\nYou are probably attracted to the dangerous, bad boy types who couldn't care less about women's feelings and this is why you keep getting hurt.\n\nWhat you need to find is a 'strong, sensitive' type man however I get the impression that these are hard to find. But I am one, of course.. :)
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well, whatcha gettin at? ya got a problem in that department? lookin' for advice from us brilliant people? well i am a sinner! a real naughty sinner and i wouldn't be the best person to turn to for advice unless you are trying to get 'permission' to be naughty too...then you came to the right person...(lmfao) so meet ya in the vault and we will discuss your plan of action to overtake the married guy? k? oh and to answer your question...i like unmarried guys...less complicated that way...
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some times you might have friends who told you man cannot be trusted but the reallt thing is you have try 1st before you jump to conclution.\n\naeeyo1314@yahoo.com
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I would say my weakness is always thinking the best of people, which can come back to bite me on the @ss, but I wouldn't change that about me cos most of the time it works out great, it 's just those times when I really let my guard down, God, people can be really nasty!!!
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Sounds like your standards are too low if you let the last few guys use you. You need some interesting, exciting hobbies to get rid of the stench of desperation.  Plus, you'll meet interesting, exciting men while you're at it.
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maybe because you are picking the wrong guys...they get with you, then see someone else they like, dump you and go after the other girl...
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well, as you get older, you'll find more guys that are mature. Unlike this jerk. You'll find someone better. Guys just love to flirt. same with girls. just try not to get emotionally attached everytime you spend a lot of time with guys.
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I bet you've given in to some of those jerks too and let them in.  You know not all guys are like that, you see them everyday.  You just avoid talking to good guys b/c you love the attention you get from the rest.
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it'a not good when you do that to men, because you come across the wrong way. You can't do that, all your doing it leading them one and that not right!!! Ask yourself if you would like that if a guy did that to you??
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Men don't like to admit they did something wrong or they don't know something. Have you ever heard of grown men saying "I'm sorry?" It just doesn't happen. They will always say "I couldn't help it." "It wasn't my fault." It just in genes.