Ladies, what is the best way to propose?
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Any way you do it will be remembered and cherished, it is the thought... bended knee is always best alot of women like the bended knee in front of people, don't know why but we do... also something passionate and just the two of you is absolutely wonderful as well, just remember we like to tell everyone so during making love may not be the best story to tell the kids later on ya know...
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Hello DavieT, here is how I proposed to my wife. I had her Mother call her (she didn't know I was going to propose) and keep her busy on the  phone while I sat out a table, two chairs with wine and two glasses on the roof top  of our apartment along with a cd player with our song ready to go. When she was off the phone I led her out to our roof, put on our song and we danced on the roof top. Once the song was over, I went to my knee and propsed! We spent the next two hours sitting there starting to make plans over a glass of wine!\nGood luck in which ever way you decide to go!
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Dear Asker!\nIt's a dilemna that every lover faces in life. How to propose to your beloved. Well my sincere advise to you is that first ask yourself if you truly love her or not. If the answer is yes, then go ahead and propose to her without any fear of failure, by looking straight into her eyes and saying those three magical words,I LOVE YOU and just see their magic.I am sure she will say yes to you if your love is true.But God forbid if she doesn't , then give your relationship as a friend,some time.Don't do anything stupid or jump onto a conclusion.I am sure you will get the girl of your dreams.ALL THE BEST!!!!\nYours sincerely\nVanchit
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My husband proposed after we were together for 3 months and we got married a month after that.  We have been together for almost 5 now and happy as ever.\nIf you love him and he loves you (do you guys say you love each other) than I say go for it.\nLove is love and if you know it and you are happy you will make it work, love has no time limit, when it is true and pure the possibilities are endless.\nGood luck!
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Hi,\n  nothing wrong in that, just go ahead an propose straight away.. u are not doing any thing that is not natural.. all the best do give a message after u both fall for each other..
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yeah.  what r u proposing?
341104
So long as you are speaking from your heart...she is right, it won't matter, where, when, or how you ask her...she will love it.  These are the words women wait their whole lives to hear, it doesn't need to be some over the top production, just an honest, heart felt proposal.  Good luck!!
682782
The better question is, do *you* think now is the right time to propose to your girlfriend!
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A ring. Not 900+ ones, you know, those 20+ engagement bands. Mm. Flowers. Perfume. Or maybe a kiss. Don't make her feel like you're a sugardaddy instead of a boyfriend, please.
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Well, she has obviously said yes to your proposal, so that is one good sign.  The ultimate way to know for sure is what I keep telling everyone in relationships.  Communicate, communicate, communicate!  You need to talk to your fiance openly about everything.  Discuss your concerns with them and have them tell you why they do want to marry you.  If you aren't sure after talking to the person openly, it may be that you shouldn't get married.  Communication is the most important issue in marriage or any relationship.  Without it, you will end up in a divorce and will fight quite a bit.  I hope you find the answer you are looking for.
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This one is a challenge. First I think you might be asking How do you get your boyfriend to propose to you.  The answer, Take a reasonable amount of time to get this answer and allow him the same. Its an excellent idea to find out where his heart is, in the matter. Perhaps without him even knowing  So here.\n\nStep one:\nStart journaling, write down things that he says about love and family try to find out when does he think its an ideal time in life for a man to get married. What you're after here is will he marry you. \n\nIf he does not have lots of money does he think he can get married before making a lot of money.\n\nDoes he love little children? See how he behaves around them does he play with them or avoid them.  This is an obstacle it reveals his level of comfort with getting married now.  My best friend avoided little children - he's still not married.\n\nWould he die for you? spend all his money on you. Sleep out in the rain if you say that how it ought to be - does he love you?\n\nStep two:\nThe journaling and questions that you ask should reveal the answer to will he marry you.  Be sure not to blast him with all these questions at once. its best to recall situations you have previously encountered and be alert to others that occure.\n\nStep Three: \nBe aware of obstacles Which could be,\na) he does not want to get married \nb) not at this time in his life\nc) he requires education\nd) he does not love you \ne) he does not know what he wants\nf) he requires adequate income\ng) he's scared\nh) Other (well, you did not expect I would think of all of them)\n\nStep four:\nDevelope a plan to overcome all the objections that might arise. If he requires education then let him or persuade him it will be ok to marry first however you must overcome his objections.\n\nOnce you know what his answer is on the question (what a place to be in a relatinship)  be sure no obstacle/objections remains. You can suggest that you both get married. At this point there is only one anwer and you already know it.\n\nyou can ofcourse skip all the above and just suggest that you both get married.  Good luck
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if u have a best frnd and u wanna propose her go ahead.\nu have 95% chances to succeed.\nreally, after coming that close , love is just a step ahead.\ni hope she says yes!\ngood luck!
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go for it.\nthats a great idea.\ninfact i respect your decision.\n\nokey. as said , its the tradition \nof a man to ask a lady to marry him.\nbut i guess culture is changing as we grow. \nas of this days, you wont be suprised to see a lady proposing to a man. that will depend on the love they \nshare both. infact i like it when a lady is the one to propose. \nwhen there is love, nothing will befall in between.\nthere is nothing wrong a woman proposing to a guy.\n\nbe inspired and go for it.
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Surprise....its the best, do it while you are doing something you are always doing....like if you two jog in the morning stop suddenly and act like you are tying your shoes, while she waits and chit chats, pull the ring out and propose.....its all about the surprise.
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Be polite.\nUse manners.\nStay sober.\nHave a little extra cash available.\nSmile a relaxed smile.\nDon't complain, talk politics/religion or act bored.\n\nThe best and easiest way to a woman's heart is.....\n\nACT INTERESTED in her.\n\nAsk simple but intelligent questions about what she likes and thinks.\n\nTry to find common areas of agreement and hopefully some common ground on activities/hobbies/foods, etc.\n\nBe polite. Show her a good time. Relax.\n\nHey...........they get nervous, too!
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it depends on the situation but hoping they both love each other to the fullest.my point of view: \n\nthe boy should propose first if he think that he is ready for commitment or if he think that their love is strong enough to validate his purpose.\n\nthe girl should propose first if she think that his love is for real but his self-confidence is not high enough or if she think that she is ready to accept the responsibility.\n\nbut the impact of proposing is highly recommendable for both parties if they are confident enough to say yes...\ngood luck..
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Tell it you want to get married.