how do i get my bf to realize his roomates are evil?
401907
i think u should be honest..tell him exactly wat u've told us..if u want even mail him this question..show him how much u care for him..that u want others help in order not to hurt him..don't accuse him just ask him if he's happy where he's staying..no one reacts well wen being accused or screamed at..try to remember that..hope he opens his eyes to wats happening..take care
634183
Yep. been there done that.  Try talking it out & setting house rules.  If you don't it could likely end up being a much worse situation.\nMake some areas of the house "general" areas.  = Front room - no personal stuff.  that way there is no Junk.\nIf all else fails & you don't mind "stooping to their level" start doing the same exact thing.  After they complain, explain that they have been doing the same thing & you are only trying to get a point across of how much it is bothering you.  Although - the fight resulting may not be worth it.  You will be better off getting a new roommate if the "house rules" do not work
316759
Ask him if it's you, or is there anything you can do to ease his troubled mind.  If he says no, then its best to leave him alone, go out with your girly pals until he gets over it.  trust me, once he's sulking all alone in a dark apartment for hours with his pathetic poor-me bullshit, and starts to imagine you playing 3-D naked twister with your girlfriends, he'll get over that imature I-Me-Mine game real quick!
622163
do it like this, you ass act crazy and let it be known who do bitch in this now over relationship. you better start stalkin him and waitin outside his door trust me it'll get rid of him.
1099272
Tell him your sick of his annoying antics and he needs to get a life.  Tell your bf that you dont want him hanging around you anymore and if he loves you he should respect that. =)
222661
A swift kick in his ass will let him know you're not even playing this shit with him. Oh yeah you can get him to leave you alone if you wanted too bad enough.
471747
Subtle messages like telling him you will make a drink and need to have a bite to eat but not inviting them to share, don't even make them a coffee.\nStart doing the hoovering/vaccuming shortly after they turn up.
740981
Just talk to them and be nice about it.  I am a slob and know it is kind of hard to just change all at once.  I had a roommate in college just leave me a nasty note one day and that ruined our friendship.  The following year I had a neat freak again for a roommate and she would just tell me "could you please pick that up today or your turn to do the dishes".  All I needed was a little reminder once in a while and that works.  You did move in with them however it is your place as well and they need to respect that.  Just say something even in a joking manner they will get it.  Good luck and don't just do it for them they will never learn.
453354
Try and talk to him. tell him that you don't like it when you guys fight and it really bugs you.Also, you can just avoid him or try and count to 10 and start being nice to him.
630098
thanx for the Advice, i always new there are "Evil" people out there, but we all have to be careful with who we really interact with them. if you get sespicous about something you must attack him/her with honesty. thanx again
352779
First, I think you need to look inside. Do you have a good reason for hating him or could you be jelous or something of the attention that your friend is giving to him or maybe of what it appears that they have? If you do have a good reason, talk to your friend about it. If she's really your friend, she will be open to listening to your concerns. Don't expect that she'll leave him, though, just because she's listening. Like it or not, you may just have to except him as part of the group. If you can't do that, you may have to find another friend. Good luck!
688877
Sounds like your boyfriend is using YOU as his excuse for anything and everything!!\n\nMy opinion and advice?  Get rid of the boyfriend, find someone else who will value you more, and treat you like you're a human being, and not someone to use and abuse as an excuse because they're no good!
771088
Get him out of the house and fast if his g/friends parents adore him so much he will have a bed to sleep in and tell him no coming back to live till he learns what respect is......organise  one night a week where he comes over for dinner,him only to start then eventually the girlfriend and if anything starts show him the door. He will eventually learn dont bite the hand that feeds you
544381
save your breath, interfering battle axe. just accept sis's new cling on. if you are employed, you can contribute to loser boy's maintenance. tell sis to get some overtime, since jo jo the dog boy probably can drink her under the table! or, if you can pick your drunken @ss off the floor, you can try REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. start hitting on hero boy, and tell sis to back off, he's yours. comment on his nice wallet and harley. make sis jealous by telling her that he wants you.  if all else fails, drug sis's drink. when she becomes unconscience, ask hero for help, because by that time, loser boy will be rifling through sis's purse and pockets! you can always take loser boy aside, and give him a twenty and tell him to leave town!
303808
FIRST: KICK HIS SISTER OUT!!\nSECOND: KICK HIS STUFF OUT!!\nTHIRD: BRING HOME A HOTTIE AND GIT IT ON WITH HIM!!\n\nand why do you love a loser who cheats on you. Instead go out, party, have fun and better yet keep his stuff and sell it on ebay and make extra money so you can go buy yourself designer apparell and maybe go on a vacation and meet hot new guys!! =P
739526
Tell him that your apartment is actually haunted.  Previous owner were killed and has since appeared, throwing things around the house etc..
929288
That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.