Why should'nt I get married?
404597
Who are these middle aged men are they married?  Maybe they didn't marry the right one.  Me and my husband have been married 15 years(not all easy). I love him more today than I did 17 years ago when I met him and our sex is greater than ever.  If you love each other, are committed to each other and can share your thoughts and emotions GO FOR IT!!!\n\nGood Luck:-)
1040844
of course you should be able to get married\n\ngay people have every right to be as miserable as the rest of us....lol
1085494
Not everyone is wired to get married.  Being married is a 24/7 job that requires self-sacrifice, understanding  and patience, especially if children are involved.  My brother decided at 25 he did not want children and had a vasectomy.  I was the only family member who applauded his decision.  He told me he was far to selfish to give children the time, patience and attention they need.  \n\nBeing single has it's advantages too.  No one to compromise with, get permission from, answer to, etc.  \n\nWhile you are single, enjoy your life.  Save money, but travel, get involved in things that interest you.  Have bunches of friends for companionship.  \n\nIf you meet someone who just lights up your world, go slowly, be best friends first.  Build your relationship on respect, understanding, selflessness and common interests.  Those are the things that help you weather the storm when you hit rough times, and you will.  \n\nBut please, don't marry because you think it is the right thing to do or for lustful reasons.
565587
i see that you want to have a more stable relationship and i don't blame u for that. \ni also wanted to marry when i was 17 and my bf 25. but we needed our parents' consent and they didn't agree. i have to tell you that now (when i'm 22) i realize that i'd have done a great mistake by marrying the guy then. i've met a lot of guys ever since and even though 'he' seemed to me the charming prince at that time, i realized that there were other guys much better than him.\nnow i don't even think about marriage, i want to enjoy life, cause all my life i'll be married. \nit's hard to be married i'm telling u. and you'll soon get bored of it and it's not like something you can give up like that. it concerns the rest of your life.
977788
You get married because you love that person and you want to spend the rest of your life with them. You want to really love that person and you know you are meant to be with them. There is not a time limit on love. You just choose.
1084764
Why get married now u have the rest of you life together. if ur meant to be no paper will prove it, only time. I think that you shouldn't do it. Good Luck.
987602
People get married because they're in love.  Also the laws are designed to protect a spouses interest should their significant other die.  If you aren't married you aren't protected, you have no inheritance rights.  You also have no rights to disposition of the body.  You have no right to stay in your house, unless it was in both of your names.  If you really love each other, you will want to get married so your love is protected.
525807
The best way I can answer is by asking you a question. If you weren't born married, is it really a necessity? And no one can put conditions on you unless you subscribe to them yourself. Let yourself be free. Live the way you want and determine your own value system. The concept of marriage in its purest form is a great idea, its those who complicate it with their poor decisions that make it seem to be unattractive. Me, I knew at the age of ten that I wasn't going to get married because I saw no point in it. And I am not a playboy either. I have many women friends that I enjoy platonic rewarding relationships with. Too many people are getting married for the wrong reasons. They make it seem harder than it really is.
17800
You shouldn't really look at it from its advantages or disadvantages. Advantages are plenty, but so are the disadvantages. I think you should really ask yourself if you REALLY WANT TO GET MARRIED or not.
572198
the best time for you and your mate to get married is when you both know that you cant be without the other.when you are ready to make that commitment than you will know when the time is right.
11901
A marriage can be very important if you want to be with them for life. Studies show that live-in relationships on average don't last as long as marriages do. However, do not jump into marraige just because you want to live with someone. Learn as much about the person before you make a serious commitment of marriage or moving in.
139571
Yes, you should wait until you are married.
580804
You need to consider your engagement. Maybe you are not quite ready to settle down with your fiance'. If you are questioning what you should do, my suggestion is that you should not get married just yet. You are obviously not ready to tie the knot. A lot easier to deal with before you get married than after. You need to do a lot of soul searching. Don't make a mistake that you will regret.
218204
You are not messed up in the head, some people are great contributers to sociaty and have never been married. You gan fufill a wonderful life by haveing the opertunity to do many great accoplishments by not haveing someone distracting you from the causes that you feel important.This is some of the reasons why Catholic Priests and Nuns don't get married.It is alright to wait and eventualy find a special person to help you out of your shell,in the meantime find a cause that you are passionate abought and embrace it with all the energy and Zest that you can muster.
1032167
marriage is very important to complete your half with your soulmate then after we have something called <<family>>\nthis is the beauty of life don't miss it.
441952
Yes you will marry because your are desperate enough to ask about it to total strangers. Yes you will because getting married is the most important thought in your mind right now. If you live in a place where marriage is arranged by family, that might very well happen to you. Try to avoid it by being as atonomous as possible.\n\nInitials? well lets see. TRP. \nYou're almost 25 now. Well look at that my birthsay in July 20! Don't rush. Finding someone stable is not easy. Men are usually slower to commit.
557625
If that is your on the picture, then no.\nNo, seriously why do you want to get married? You're ONLY 30 and you have at least 5-7 years to think about it and find a right woman for you.\nBesides, if you keep looking anxiously for Ms. Right, the chances are that you may not find what you looking for in the end. Enjoy your life, go out, travel, be happy with your life and love will find you when you're least expect it.