how do i write a letter to a judge that wants to send my wife to jail she cares for me iam disabled and a boy?
399913
The lawyer will hopefully contact you so you can testify, hopefully this will do some good, but she better pay her taxes next time
626358
That must be horrible!  What an evil ignorant woman!  Get a lawyer, and I'm serious because your sons have no right be being treated that way.  Go into the police station and demand a restraining order of some kind that prohibits her to speak to you and your children.  If she violates that she goes to jail.  Not to mention, get loads of family and friends, teachers and accaintences to testify that you would never do anything to hurt your boys.  You are being abused, not just your sons but your family is being abused.  You need to seek justice because it is people like you who have to fight for these things who make a difference in the world. Get a lawyer.  There has to be someone affordable.  Anyone. Also get witnesses that she is verbaly abusing your kids.Good luck
836440
Go to court and let a judge decide.
944733
As far as I know, you are arrested, held over for trial (preliminary hearing comes first), you then hear your charges & make your plea guilty or not guilty. You are then given a date for your trial to start & in between, you will have other hearings, called bail hearings, to find out how much it's gonna cost you to get out until you actually go to trial.  If you have no money for bail, then you stay there until the trial starts, which takes months.  I don't know why you, a relative, would not be permitted to enter the courtroom.  Are you a minor?  Perhaps she didn't want you to hear some of the things that were being said or she doesn't want you involved with her case because it could cost you your life.  Especially if she is or was associating with  people in the drug industry.  She should have a Public Defender & they should be able to answer your questions with her written permission.  Call them & ask.  Remember, the District Attorney is on the side of the People, which would be the Police who arrested her, so be careful what you say to them, because they could associate you with the wrong element & you could end up in as much trouble as she is in.  Chances are, she is being held for her own safety.  You can have her call you collect, or write her a letter if you cannot visit her.  You will need to call the jail & get her booking number to put on the letter.  Also, you will need to send it in a post office envelope that has the stamp pre-printed on it.  Most jails won't accept anything with a stick-on stamp on the envelope!
697096
Now yours is a typical Indian case. You are unable to decide if you want to give her divorce or not. As far kids are concerned you have to explain them what you are looking forward i.e. divorce from their mother. How good are your kids relation with their mother this is also important to see. after your divorce who will keep the  kids i.e their custody has also to be decided. After or even during the pend ency of the divorce/judicial separation petition you will have to provide your wife & kids with maintenance the amount as decided by the court. These are all the points which are related to the matrimonial disputes. Even though you are not having any physical relation since 8 years & you can take it as a ground of desertion along with cruelty but this will allow you with judicial separation under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 & you have to wait for 1year after getting the decree of judicial separation to apply for decree of divorce. All these procedures will take many years by the time you ultimately get divorce you will be crossing 50years of your life. Keep all these things in mind before you take any action.
144111
Talk to X and get written permission.  If she is unwilling, talk to attorney or Friend of Court.  Might try calling Court Clerk (something called pro per package you can fill out yourself).  If you move w/o X granting permission, could be in a heap of trouble, unless you are in Florida at present time.
166783
Write them a letter and explain the situation
871287
Actually, there are plenty of jurisdictions in which your letter would be admissible. We allow them all the time, they speak to the character of the defendant and are often an important consideration during sentencing. The bottom line is - if you can't provide reliable information, don't write the letter. However, if you CAN honestly say that hes a decent guy and made a mistake, heres what you need to say: \n-I've known X for Y years, our relationship is Z. \n-He has always proven to be a good friend, an honest person, and an upstanding member of the community.\n-He is a member of X organizations, contributes to Y charities, and goes to Z church/synagogue/mosque.\n-He has kids, a wife, a dog, whatever, that he cares for and that depend on him.\n-He has indicated to you that he is SORRY for what he did.\n-His actions were completely out of character. \n\nThe apology is the most important factor. Judges want to hear that a defendant regrets their actions, not just that they should be given extra consideration because they are decent people. Talk about his remorse and you'll be able to help him. Its a nice thing you're doing, good luck.
118931
Send her a certified letter about your intentions of picking up the kids. Actually show up at the designated time and have a witness.  Bring your written visitation decree along with you and notify the local sheriff's office of your intention to enforce the divorce decree.  Keep a written book of all of your attempts to visit your kids. If you find her new phone number, record all future calls.  Gather your child support receipts in a shoe box if you don't pay through the Court.  File contempt of court charges.  If you can't afford a lawyer, be willing to represent yourself in court.I spent $40,000 to get visitation for my husband.  I was the new wife and I kept good records and tape recordings and if I had to do it again, I would have represented him myself.  After 2 years he won visitation and it was very complicated...Don't stop paying child support and read the Book of Psalms in the Bible....
551863
If I knew the jurisidiction of your hearing, I could give you a better response.  What is the state in which the motion was filed and in what state does your ex-wife reside?\n\nWas the letter a cover letter to go with a "verified Petition to Modify Support?"  If so, it was the Petition that was allowed.  The letter is typically removed by the Clerk of the Court.  Letters directly to a judge, without notice and a copy to the other side, is ex parte communication and is not allowed.\n\nYou cannot "cite" her for contempt, however, you can file a Motion for Rule to Show Cause" why she should not be held in contempt for failing to serve documents.
8778
That depends on what jail they are in. Every place has different rules and the two best ways to find out are to ask the person you want to send something to or to call the administrative office of the jail and ask them what their mail policies are. Good luck, and if you're asking because you've chosen to stick by someone who is in a jam, Bless you!
467830
try legal aid or your county bar assn. may have a program available. Best Wishes with it.
333543
call the courthouse in your area.\nlaws differ from state to state.\nyour son might GIVE you custody if you ask.
1171768
you have to prove that she is an unstable mother. but even if you dont get custody you still have the right to visit your son as much as you want to, no matter how far he is from you. And if she doesnt let you visit your son then report the bitch, if your son is old enough to make his decision then go back to court and the judge can hear both the woman side your side and your son decision  But Good luck to you and your son!!!!!!!!!!!!!
369118
Hello, my name is Veronica and I wanted you to know that my spouse is incarcerated. He has been incarcarated for 6 months and has 6 more months. We have 2 children and are Methodists. I feel as though only God can judge. I will never judge him and I will never leave him. Especially when he needs me the most. I love him and always will, no matter what. If you would like to visit my 360 page, I type all the letters that he sends me.  I hope I helped a little. God Bless. Veronica
70738
You just need to have a county sherriff serve her.  You should be able to contact the court, and ask the judge to issue a court order mandating that she sign the papers.
512260
Definitely get yourself a good lawyer. I am sorry you and your wife can't work this out on friendly terms. Have you tried talking to her? I don't really see how she can take everything from you. Ask some of your friends and colleagues for some recommendations for a good lawyer. Good Luck.