If I admit a boy is handsome, am I gay?
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think in today's society many guys especially younger men do look at other guys and "judge" there attractiveness, this includes everything from physical to what they are wearing etc. This includes everything from a famous actor to the guy with his girlfriend waiting to be seated at the local restaurant. Why they want to see how they stack up against them. All most every young man has also checked out another guy in the shower or restroom to see how they stack up in that area as well, and I don't believe this makes one gay its just something that is done but no one would be willing to admit to. \n\nMen and women look at what the "ideal "  masculine features found to be universally attractive are on others — including a straight strong nose, strong chin, rugged brows, prominent cheekbones and full lips, Trends in fashion etc. \n\nSometimes a "jealous passion" can develop for other males. This is when we desire to actually become another guy. The obsession can then carry over into our sexual fantasy life. Lack of acceptance of ourselves is the issue here. \n\n\nTo better explain your own personal feelings, you should distinguish between "sexual preference" and "sexual orientation." Sexual preference considers desired sexual actions with a partner, while sexual orientation involves all your thoughts, feelings, fantasies, and emotions that cause us to become aroused.  No one can answer this for you, but I bebelieve admitting another man is handsome is just honest and what your idea of what features in this person you find attractive are and I have heard many happily married straight men say Tom Cruise is a good looking guy are they really Gay ?\n\nnot sure if this answers your question but i hope it helps
566095
Yes tell him he has something on the bottom of his shoe, if he lifts his foot up forward and looks at he's not gay if he lifts it up behind him and looks over his shoulder at it he is gay.
1083883
Sorry girl, but my gay boys LOVE to flirt w/women.  It doesn't confuse me or make me question their sexuality, its just who they are but they will always love men.  So he may flirt w/you, but its just for fun.
736357
Here's how guys think...\nIf you are beautiful, you have a bf already. \n\nThey are afraid to ask so you have to be forward to any guys that you may like.
721856
There will be no question. How do you act when you like a boy?
279904
Let me say this way. u r very sweet coz u r the way u r & u recognize that fact. ugly .. beautiful etc r all relative words ...if a guy is fancy u ... u r blessed ... its immaterial how he looks like .i m happy u hv faith in urself ...... God bless
256862
why would you ask if he is gay? he obviously is.
1102027
if he is attractive and cute
565281
You are gay, I presume.
542911
How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet.  \n\n \n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay.  \n\n \n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay.  \n\n \n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n \n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffe is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too.  \n\n \n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious!  \n\n \n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone.  \n\n \n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
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There's no need to declare yourself anything right now.  In a year or two, you will know if you are or not gay.  \n\nYour attraction may just be envy of guys who have matured physically ahead of you, or perhaps what you want to be  That doesn't make you gay, it makes you human.  \n\nRead up on it if it still nags at you.  Ask more questions.  Talk to someone you TRUST.
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Well if you are a boy you like the way boys look. If you are a girl you would like the way girls look.\n\nAs far as I can tell, you are young, what 10, 12?\n\nIf you are, accept it and don't worry about it. You shouldn't be worried about it till you are older.\n\nIf you are older, 14 15, well lad or lass, you know.\nNow just because you like someone, or think someone is cool, does not mean you are gay.\n\nA homosexual is someone who likes the way a person of the same sex looks. A boy would like the way another boy looks. A girl would like the way other girls look. Not in the same way you think flowers are pretty though, a different way.\n\nGay or not, you are a person, and dont ever let anyone tell you different.\n\nHang in there.\n\nPS, did any of you stupid SOBS even stop to consider this may be a child asking this? IF it is a child asking this, I hope the person who said "fag" feels really good about themselves.
52060
I'm not sure about "boys", but I think men are sexy ... well, the sexy ones anyway :)
414248
Depends on what is wrong with you. But if you don't have some kind of a big defect, you can be handsome only if you believe it. You must feel beautiful and then girls will see that in you. It's all about self confidence! And of course buying the right clothes. But I first look at the face and hair of the boys. So make sure you are clean! And smile a lot. That's all I can say, for starters.
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If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
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First, do you think most people know that you are bi or gay?\nOf course not. So, the guys that you believe are straight, could very well be bi or gay. Keep your chin up!!!
132053
I'd have to say when I knew (at a very young age, probably 7 or 8) that I was attracted to other boys. I'm not the type that goes into denial, and pretends to be something i'm not. So, I came out at a young age.