For the guys:  Where will you bring a girl on your first date?
408972
I'd want a funny date with a bunch of friends at a movie. With caramel popcorn and his hand over my shoulder. and a chick flick we BOTH enjoy. Go for pizza afterwards. Then we separate and he leads my hand and we go for a stroll on the beach. We talk and know more about each other. Then he walks me home. And he kisses me gently on the doorstep and leaves but not before making sure that I get into the house alright. =)
116342
Depends on the girl, honestly I wouldn't care. Most people do have cars. don't date a girl who doesnt have one either cause then you will be walking to your dates. Just ask her if you think she'll have a problem with her and she will be honest. Offer to pay and take her somewhere nice and she won't care at all.
1176586
Give her a call back man.  She'll be more than happy to hear back from you.  If she doesn't pick up the phone leave a brief message letting her know you got her call.  As for your first date...Don't lean towards her and instead lean back.  When you lean forwards you send her the 'needy' signal.  In general, you want to use your sense of humor and entertain her while flirting like hell.  During the course of the date do NOT touch her at all.  Let her be the first one to touch you.  When she does finally touch you that shows a sign of interest.  Another sign of interest to look out for...put your arms in an unordinary way on the table.  Watch her body language and if she responds by putting her arms in the exact same way that is an unconcious signal of interest.  She is showing you that she's in sync with you by doing so.  Another sign of interest is dialated pupils, unless of course, you're in a dark room because they'll be dialated anyway.  As for where to take her, do something simple.  Do NOT blow tons of cash on her or buy her roses or chocolates.  The best thing you can do is take her for a nature walk or out for a cup of coffee (depending on your age).  NEVER ask a woman where she would like to be taken.  Women hate to make these decisions and wil appreciate you being the "man with the plan."  Spend as little money as possible and use your personality to make her want you.  In general, the less you try the more success you have.  And finally, be chivalrous at all times.  Open every single door, help push in her chair, and at the end of the night, walk her to the door.  Women appreciate a man that is looking over them.  Despite what may seem lame to men, women absolutely love this.
616009
oooh so cute your first bf^^ you should do something natural that you usualy do with a friend... don't try to be too romentic the first time, go walk in a park and talk with him... take this first date to try to know him a litle bit more. Good luck :D
1087715
I think a good first date doesn't have to involve the typical "dinner and a movie". It's important that the date include time to get to know each other (that is, talking/conversation time) and a movie just doesn't lend that kind of time. Dinner is good but it can be a little formal. I think going for brunch and then doing something that you both enjoy (say, going to a museum or a carnival or going hiking). \n\nOR if i meet her online then I prefer for the first date to be just a meeting for a drink or something similar....just in case it doesn't go well and one of us wants out! :) (I'm sure that never happens to any of us, though!)  If all goes well you can always extend the date to include dinner, dancing, or whatever. I prefer something where we can talk the first time and really get to know one another like going to a museum or a carnival or going hiking.
618499
The first time I asked a guy out we went rollerblading in the park and then went out for a casual dinner. Keep it light and don't try to be all  romantic. Just see how you feel being alone with him the first time. If you keep your date filled with activities you will never run out of stuff to talk about and you won't have those awkward moments people get on first dates when they are all dressed up at some snooty restaurant. Have fun!
423923
Communication is a good start. Don't be too shy. Make her LAUGH! That's how guys get my attention. Be charming, give her compliments, ask her about herself; like what she likes to do, or her favorite restraunt. Then maybe if you think she's flirting with you, ask her on a date, to the movies, out to eat, anything romantic. It could even be a double date! Those sometimes seem to break the ice a little bit and make everything less akward for your first time!
1156849
ask her!!! she is totally flirting with you. take her somewhere fun, but not romantic, cause that would be just CREEPY for the first date. do something out of the ordinary. like boating. or rock climeing. don't just do the old dinner movie rutine.
413768
This time no drinking until after you and her get together. Get to the place where you are meeting her first then she will find you. You might want look real close when she gets there so you remember her for the next date. Remember there are allot of things besides a persons looks don't be to quick to end the evening.
746952
Don't give her a picture.  She is likely to find it either creepy or lame, or perhaps both.  \n\nHave the courage to ask her out directly.  Call her on the phone or talk to her in person.  You might as well get used to talking with her, because that's what you are going to do on the date.  It's hard, I know.  But girls are the same species as guys.  They have the same hopes, fears, and desires, and they are not different creatures.  They just happen to be female, which is *totally* cool.  :-)\n\nGood luck!!
333252
Take her somewhere fun.  Minature golfing, a zoo, an amusement park...some thing you can both enjoy and be yourselves at.  On the first date you want to get to know the person, not sleep with them right off the bat.  Well, okay, maybe you want to sleep with them right off the bat...but getting to know the person in a relaxing atmosphere is sometimes easier than some stuffy restaurant.
359920
It depends on her preferences. I hope you know her long enough to know her favorite places to go to.\n Having breakfast overlooking the white sand beach, walks along its shore and enjoying every moment seeing her laughter, marvel at everything you shares about... must be a perfect date.\n But as what I said, it depends on her likes and dislikes. If you're not sure, ask her best friend what does she thinks of your idea. You will learn a lot.\n Best of Luck...
958028
On a first date, I wouldn't wear anything sexy.  I would keep it conservative.  It depends upon where you are going...the movies, the mall, wear jeans, a colorful top, tasteful makeup.  Don't overdo on the first date in order to make a lasting impression.
136972
don't forget she is on a first date too. plane three diff thing for the date. and you can change to plane a b c as the mood changes thur the day.
160499
Absolutely, start at church and church functions,  the grocery store is always a good spot.  Laundrey Mats are OK (not great), avoid bars and that whole scene. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to join you for a meal or a walk. Keep it casual. The thing I see most often is a guy or a gal who are only interested if they see you as a potential mate.(and start planning their whole life on the first date)  Avoid that pitfall.  Look for a friend..a bunch of them..the more the better..and the rest will follow.
307779
well, I would pick you up five minutes prior to the date, just to let you know that i care, & then drive you to a fancy restaurant where the waiter gives you a menu choice of what wine you'd like to drink, particually a restaurnt with a romantic view, & then to a movie, it would have to be a good chick flick, & then bring you to a night life/market where I would find a cheap foreign street vendor who is taking pictures & pay him $5 for our picture together, & then find another cheap foreign street vendor who is selling roses & buy you one, & bring you home...safe & sound, then wait for you to call me back for another date...:D yes it would be like it is on Hitch, I would listen to everything you have to say to me...:)
907876
In Starbucks\n\nAt work\n\nIn the supermarket\n\nOn the train\n\nAt the gym\n\nTennis club\n\nReading magazines in WHSmith on station platforms\n\nLet me know when and where you found your lovely girl.