How old is normal/acceptable to lose your virginity?
408046
I dont know it's different for every woman. or girl. When you feel ready and comfortable and safe enough to explore sex. I had my first real kiss when i was 11. I lost my virginity at 14. I feel that i was ready. And today I am 20 and tottally comfortable with my body and with sex. But make sure your safe! I got pregnant when i was 17. I dont regret it now. but i was pretty floored when i fist found out. So please be safe!
947375
Kudos for you still being a virgin, I hope that my daught will say that many, many, many years from now.  And the right guy will be comming along.  Just dont stress.  you will be noticed when you least expect it.
35393
17.  At the time it seemed right but it did not last. Typical in youth relationships.\n\nYou want to be mature enough to handle the consequences of having sex. Liek STD, pregnancy, etc. Even if you protect yourself you have risks. Do not feel pressured into it and know that yu have your life ahead of you, Choose wisely it only gets better.
926916
I lost my virginity at age 15? As you can tell, it didn't mean much to me. I wanted the guy to love me, so I did it. No, I definitely did not have an orgrasm during sex the first time. Almost all women don't their first time, and I know alot of girls who have never had one during penetration. They might've faked it .....  I definitely regret it. I wasn't with the right guy, and I knew it. I would consider waiting, I know I wish I did.  By the time my true love came around (he was a virgin), I had already had sex with someone else. =(  It's not that it's bad to have sex. You just want to make sure that it's the right person, and that you wont regret it later on. I know I was so eager to lose my virginity, and I was like oh, I wont regret it, and yet I do. If you decide to, make sure he's gentle and cares about you enough to stop if you ask him to. I have a friend who told me that the guy she did it with, just went at it, without caring that it hurt her "like hell." Best of luck, sweetie.
254334
Yes it does. Let me congratulate you for still being a virgin! You hardly ever find any more these days.  Don't be in a hurry to lose your virginity. Might I suggests that you wait until marraige.  I was a virgin unti I was 18. I am married to my first and only lover, but I truly wished that I had waited until I was married. The sex is just so much better, and it is pleasing in the sight of GOD.
1015435
i am 21 also and i am a virgin.  I just broke up with my boyfriend who thought he could change my mind about sex, when i made it clear to him that i wasnt looking for a sexual relationship.  i am a strong independant woman, that is my personality
1186458
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.
792500
It's normal and healthy to be a virgin at the age of 11. Kids on school buses always tease younger kids, and this is apparently the best they can do - obviously there's nothing else about you that they can tease you with.\n\nAnd yes it's normal to start thinking about sex at your age and to have sexual thoughts and feelings. It doesn't mean you act on those feelings. \n\nWhat if someone asks you for sex? You say NO, I am only 11! \n\nHolding hands or getting a kiss on the cheek should be a big deal at your age. There is no way that you can be ready for sex at 11.
640764
nothing wrong with still being a virgin...as far as what to do your first time my suggestion would be this...if possible let hope it occurs with some one who truly cares for you...as far as what to do believe it or not it will sort of come natural...the basics anyway....your partner can help allot too...just don't sweat the small stuff...and let things flow as they will
1107856
It is completely up to you because if you think  you are mature enoughto take responsibility to use poretection and be safe then go for it. Be careful the person you chose to give your virginity to because it is sacred and it can never be given away again. If you want to let your parents opinions be a factor in your decision then its up to you.
385129
No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.
78368
No there is nothing wrong to being a virgin at 18 and you shouldn't be concerned about what guys think be secure with yourself in being a virgin.Losing your virginity is not a race.I lost my virginity at seventeen and I wish I had waited because I lost it to the WRONG guy and truely regret it.But it is just my opinion that guys like virgins.You are fresh and un-touched.You have got something going on that alot of girls don't.Guys like the idea of having something that nobody else had.My guy knows I am not a virgin but just the thought of another guy that has been up in there causes him to cringe he doesn't want to think about it.Be proud you are not a hoochie that gives it up to every body that gives you a second look or shows interest and be very selective to whom you give your virginity to.
576950
You are never to old! Virginity is SUCH A SPECIAL THING!!!! DOn't let it go to just anyone! Wait till your married to that special someone and give yourself to them, and them only!!!
277483
no no no. you SHOULD be a virgin at the age of 17. i'm 16 and i'm still a virgin, planning on saving myself for until after i get married. sex is a symbol of love between a husband and a wife. it's not something you give to just anyone. be proud of such a thing and try to keep it until AFTER you're married. i think that when you do finally get with that right person, it'll make it much more of a special moment than if you do it before.
721709
No, you are still a virgin. Now some people think that you lose your virginity if your hymen is broken.. but if that was the case then I lost my virginity when I was twelve thanks to my first period(tampon)! So I personally do not see how using a toy would make it to where you are no longer a virgin. It's just a form of masturbation... Guys don't lose their virginity when they play with themselves, do they?! :)\n\nSorry I was a little personal... And in some peoples eyes graphic... But it's just my opinion and experience speaking! :)
630535
There is no magic age (except 18) :) It is okay to wait. Despite the message of the "new virgin" crowd you really only do get one first time. Once you are in a relationship with someone that you care about (beyond just a physical attraction), then consider it. You will be in a very vulnerable emotional and physical position, and you have to absolutely trust your partner. Has he/she been honest about his/her past or disease status? Is he/she really committed to you or is he/she just trying to get in your pants? Once you can pose these (and other) questions, and know in your heart that you have gotten and honest answers, then it is too soon for you no matter what your age.
260217
I lost my virginity when I was 16, that was 20 yrs ago.  \nHowever, I wish I would have waited for "someone special".  At the time, I thought I was in love, and that he loved me.  The truth was, he just wanted to get laid, and today, I can't even remember his name.  That is not so special.\n\nI would say it is not unusual to lose your virginity at 15, but I would also say it is worth waiting for.\n\nSave yourself and your heart alot of aching (literally).