im always acting strange around girls, what should i do?
401430
just be yourself.  dont worry about what they might think.  if you feel nervous dont worry, every person has been nervous, and people cant always tell.   Girls like guys who are themselves.
637360
I think you should just believe in your self. Believe that you are comfindent and you will be. Your the only one who says you have no self confidence. I belive you do. So just believe in yourself and this girl thing will be no problem. You never know she may like you to. And this shaking stuff is just nervous. Just say something random. Just say anything to her and you'll get over the whole nerve thing. Well Good luck even if you dont take my advice.
908377
No not really, u girls act weird... one minute you act all nice and show interest and when a guy does approach you, you girls give the cold shoulder! orrr sometimes we just think does she really like me or what? so thats why we tend to not make a move cause wre not sure, or scared of rejection!
103421
whats wrong with my body language?
501402
You don't have to call yourself pathetic. It's ok to be nervous when talking to the opposite sex. I used to get nervous talking to guys when I was younger, but somehow I learned to manage and now I have a boyfriend. I'm still a shy person and I guess that's part of my personality. I guess you have to give it some time. Think before you talk. What is it that makes you stammer? Think of interesting topics to talk about with girls. If it helps,write some of the stuff down that you think you'd discuss with a girl. Then rehearse it so it'll prepare you for next time. I know it may sound stupid but you can give it a try and no one has to know. The key is making yourself comfortable when talking to girls and talk to them like you casually talk to your friends. Once you get the hang of it, I'm sure you won't feel nervous anymore. It's just a phase and it'll go away with time. Don't worry, just relax. Good luck!
88200
what can i say im wierd i do
427988
Play it safe. If girls keep doing that to you, why not ask a few of them what they're up to? That will either get them to blurt out the truth right then and there, or turn around in alarm and walk right away...probably never planning to bother you again. Depending on the girls, these ladies may either be after some guy to throw themselves on, or you might just be really popular. You just need to know how to deal with it...and maybe keep your eyes open for the one girl that might look like she is truly interested in you and not just going all flirty and crazy. Do you already have a girlfriend? If you do, tell the girls! They're bound to back-off if they realize you're already taken. You may get tired of saying this after a while, but if you say it for long enough, you might just start to notice that the swarm of girls has decreased to just a few random, hopeful wanderers. \n\nTruthfully, in all other respects I would just say run for the hills whenever they're coming toward you, and hide yourself whenver they're chasing you...but I'm betting you think that probably wouldn't work just as much I do. You have to deal with them. Stand up and ask them what they're doing, or tell them straight out that you're not interested. Or maybe you are? It all depends on what you want, and what they're really after. Think it over, and watch them carefully. Maybe you'll be able to pick up on why they're chasing you just from getting to know some of them a little bit better...\n\nI wish you luck. <:)
1030418
best thing to do is to start going to group things. i suggest church outings b/c the girls aren't going to be incredibly rude or judgemental. start with girls you DON'T want to date. sounds weird? maybe...but it works. if you start out with someone whom you're just wanting to know as a friend...perhaps you can learn a few things about women in general...then when you DO find someone to date it'll be a lot easier! IM or email for more info. take care and God bless!
1064282
Your being a player, and you know this. You should attempt to grow up, and leave the girls alone until you do. People who act like you are, make all men and guys look bad.
825550
You defenetly have the same problem as me... Just keep trying new girls that what im doin
676484
As they say practice makes perfect. Just try casually talking to different girls and see what happens. You could also try joining a club or something that alot of girls are in so you can be more socialized and to face you fear of shyness.
555585
Grow up.  You'll never know this-- because you'll never be with a girl.\n\nGet a life, loser!
288024
Girls are silly, silly creatures and always are prone to have behavior that is confusing to guys.  To directly find out, yeah--just ask her or do the ol' ask-her-friend.  If she's acting silly, toying with you, playing hard-to-get, hanging around you, she seems to keep popping up, she touches you (like a pat on the back, playful punch in the arm, or "happens" to brush up against you if she's standing next to you)--if she makes ANY notion repeatedly that she acknowledges your presence, chances are you've caught her eye and kept it.  If this is the case and you kinda like her back, better do something about it!  :P
493425
i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!
36811
be aggressive, B-E aggressive. Don't flirt with everyone, or else they will think you are a whore. And for gods sakes, buy a guy a drink every once in a while. Why are we afraid to talk to girls?  Maybe it's because we know we are going to pay $10 for your drink, and then get a fake phone number.
645489
you're not ready to have a gf now. of course it's normal but try to communicate with girls and u'll talk to the girl u like..be sure that she will be ur gf if u communicate with girls well.
1145067
Be verry confident in yourself, if you have to ( think like your crap dont stink) works every time. One other thing DO NOT aproach a girl you like when shes with her friends. They will eat you alive like a pack a wolfs. The girls know what im talk'in about.