I am female and I have a huge sex drive, does that turn guys off?
402427
No, it's not a turn off. Every person has different needs. I sound a bit traditional here but every man should make sure he satisfies his girl. You must not hide your feelings and should communicate with your man...no matter how demanding you think you are. There's nothing wrong.\n\nPlease make sure, it's not good to repress your feelings from your man out of the fear of hurting him. It's a man's job to satisfy his girl.
611453
no i find that "unmanly"\nor in other words a turn off\nhope i helped\n: )
356106
I have not had one but I have heard a guy friend talk about his girlfriends sex drive is like zero and that may differ from girl to girl some may not notice any change
279876
maybe u re premenopausal?i would surely consult a doctor first not an Internet. it also can be a tumor in brains which is developing in the area responsible for the sex drive. please hurry to a doctor, it's not a joke
921307
There's nothing wrong with you at all. Lots of women complain about less sex drive after having kids and being settled.\n\nI suggest that you make your husband horny for you. I'm guessing that sex has become somewhat of a routine for both of you. I think it will turn you on when you see that he's hot for you and can't wait till he's with you. Write him a dirty message. Rent some porn. You have to make sure that you really, really want to have sex, then it'll be easier getting an orgasm. I don't know what kind of stuff you're up for. Dirty talk is always good. Have your husband tell you how bad he wants you. \n\nBy the way, your clitoris can NOT be overstimulized by a vibrator. The nerve endings there will be intact unless you have some disease or accident that affects your nervous system.
853281
Trust me, when we have way too much on our plates, we can get stressed out pretty easily.  It can decrease our sex drives.\n\nSociety has this image of us guys always wanting sex, no matter what.  But let me tell you, there are times when you just want to go to sleep because you are so tired and exhausted.\n\nThis is more true as you get older.
430125
Most guys want sex and only sex. I've met one of these. Don't worry, I have several male friends, and female friends who varify, that there ARE guys out there who care about you being satisfied. Some of them make sure you are before they are themselves. It may take some...a lot...of looking around, but they are out there.
633120
I don't think 'every couple of days' is a low sex drive. Men who think about sex constantly should not operate heavy machinery! \n\nI have almost always had a high sex drive, sometimes I think it approaches an addiction. And in that case, maybe I'm using sex to try to satisfy some unmet need in my life. The only times I have felt that I didn't need sex all the time are when I was getting a lot of exercise and reading the Bible daily. At those times I felt generally more fulfilled and didn't need sex (or alcohol) as much. \n\nMaybe your finance is just better balanced than a lot of guys. How's the rest of his life? Is he committed to family, friends, career, without being a mommy's boy, needing to go out with the guys every night, or a workaholic? Look for commitment with balance, and you'll be okay.
142939
Female anatomy and hormones work very differently from male anatomy and hormones...I'm sure you've probably figured this out by now.  It's really more of an evolutionary force than anything else.  To put it bluntly, men need to spread their seed and the male brain is programmed to desire sex as often as possible to procreate.  If a man does not have sex or does not msturbate after a few days...we ejaculate in our sleep.  That's how strong our programming is.  So yes, having the ability to be turned on quickly is normal for a man.\n\nNow for a women, their sexual appetite is more closely tied to their emotional state above all else.  You've obviously clued onto this since you know what you have to say and do to get to and past foreplay.  Again, a women's programming is directly related to evolution as well.  They can't just strip off their close and have sex like men.  Most need to know that a relationship may be possible.  They need to hear kind words and things that make them feel secure according to their emotional state. They're looking for a nurturing man than could suitably care for their offspring.  And they need to be emotionally free of their minds to function well sexually.  That's why most women don't enjoy sex after a certain age...then tend to worry too much about everything, whereas men....anytime...anyplace...anywhere will do.\n\nAlso, a lot of women are really out of shape these days and that definitely affects their sex drive among other things.\n\nMy best advice to you is to not deceive them.  If you can't be honest, you'll never build a strong foundation for a relationship.  Enjoy yourself when your young, but as you age the "wine-dine-bang-run" technique should be quickly abolished for success in your relationships\n\nHere's a great link for more info.\nhttp://preventdisease.com/yourhealth/sexualhealth/sexualhealth.html
389175
You might be thinking bout sex alot coz your not doing it enough and also coz you have a male hormone that increases sexdrive. Women actually have it too but not as much!
296601
yes maybe asexual. if not then you need to find the right one. if you want to be horny then go to the doctor. i don't think there is anything wrong with not being horny. pick me as your favorite answer please.
389525
Sometimes. If I see a guy that is really hot I find it hard to control myself. But then I realize if I come on too strong, it may be a turn-off--so I have learned to control it. Instead I'll just flirt some and see what it goes.
578360
Do NOT listen to this other drivel...Sometimes men, just like women lose some of the intensity of their sex drive for certain periods of time. He could be dealing with issues that you know nothing about...such as stress at work or with family, he could be having some problems with his libido... sit him down and talk to him, you won't find your answer by asking total strangers..only he can satisfy your curiosity. Peace.
1123306
yes.....First, take a look at potential libido-killers in your life. These can take a bite out of your sex drive. Anti-depressants, alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs can do the same. \n\nNext, take a closer look at the emotional stuff. Is it possible that a relationship problem is expressing itself this way? Maybe you're not aware of some issue that's affecting you nonetheless. \n\nLastly, people do have different sex drives, and it's possible that yours isn't a strong one (beyond the initial excitement of being with a new partner). But it sounds like you want to be having sex, so maybe repetition is lulling your libido to sleep. Try exploring new sexual adventures: read sexy books, watch sexy movies, and see if you get inspired!
345176
No that is not a turn off.  That just means she is preserving herself. shes not all used up and she cares about her body and who touches. a woman should never think about what a guy thinks about her. she should always think she is the sh*t no matter what.
98057
There's no cure.  Oh, and if it hasn't happened yet, you'll lose your sex drive, too.  I tried every kind of hormone birth control...no matter how low the dose, it eventually made me snap at people all the time.  Even while I was blowing up on somebody I would think "this isn't something that would make me mad!  what am I DOING???"  Unfortunately, the only solution is to get off the hormones.  Try condoms or spermicide...I'm personally playing roulette here.  lol
954457
Seems you have a high sex drive and this is not a bad thing. Remember...wetter is better.