why do weman go after men that have a partner they live with and know about it when there are lots of single?
396781
They can get a man of their own and probably do. If the man is interested then why not.It takes two. You can't blame the woman. The men are willing.
684385
i thik men cheat because the are insecure and have to prove that to themselve sthat they are real men when in all actuallity it would have taken more of a man to stay loyal but i think you can expect him to cheat again but as a male i find that most are probably cheaters unfortunately and i think its very common and accepted among men of men to have multiple women even when commited to one
623796
The same reasons women do.  \n\nthe "game"...is all about having your cake and eating it too.\n\nAlot of people play mind games, such as leading someone on when they know they are not going to be faithful or to get something out of the relationship they would not have initially gotten.\n\nNo one really wants to be alone and men in general are more commitment-phobic then women so they are more likely to have a couple girls stung along until they find "something better."
766819
It means that he wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you two are supposed to be in a monogamous relationship, then you need to confront him about it immediately. He is clearly going outside your relationship and looking to date other women.  I'm sorry you found out the way you did, but that happened to me too. Drop him as fast as you can and don't look back if you want a 1x1 relationship. If you want to see other people too, then insist he be honest with you and just keep it casual with him. Good luck!
606041
I cant answer this question because Im trying to understand that also.To many times women will stay with the guy that doesnt treat them right or make them feel cared for etc. and they dont want to find that guy that is waiting to be given a chance to treat someone with everything thier heart can put out.They would rather sit at home and complain than do anything about it,just so you know,that wonderful charming guy is trying to find you but cant because you are still in a relationship..... best wishes
405444
Honestly men are divided even amongst themselves on this matter. For example, many are out for the one night stand... they are very easy to spot by BOTH sexes. Then there are the "I'm not sure I want a relation" guy who teases and then when it comes to the moment of truth, they flake. Then there are the type that just loves YOU... the feeling that you give when you talk seriously, when you smile.... and this is a killer... being you and standing for what you believe... being a woman. Of course we men are programmed to go wherever the opportunity is... but trust me when I write that there is a small percentage of us who dream and wish for a real woman to come our way and be our life partner.
517846
Most of the time it has to do with the fact that they had a poor male role model growing up. Often going after the same type of man they know well in their life.  It is sad, but breakable, woman just have to want it to be different and realize when it is happening. They need to recognize the triggers and check themselves so they don't repeat poor choices in men.
360049
That is because the majority of them are out for one thing and if they don't get what they want, they move on.  Now I said majority!!  There are a number of men out there that are predictable and will be the man of your dreams!!
9898
Because after getting a man or woman to provide them with all these thing, especially when they get all this without helping out in building up a relationship , they believe they can find some other fool to give them better. And alot of the time they are right. But check back with these pathetic souls a little later in life and you will find them lonely and alone. But they still end of with a substantial amount of money and security from the previous marriages. Not a bad gamble on they're part. I really think they plan it before they ever go on a date and smarten up guys, they DO. Just like when you were a teenager thinking about one day settlling down with someone and giving them everything, these leeches were planning on their first divorce and how much they're gonna get. The secret is to never give a girl or guy every thing they want unless they are truly giving you every thing YOU want and please guys (and girls) want more than to spoil a full grown eventually blown partner into telling you those faithful words.... I'm not happy. Make them WORK for your love to. Watch out
1032102
They do it because they can. They get a thrill out of physical domination. They think they know better than you do about what you want and what you don't want. \n\nI don't know who this person is to you, if you have a choice to be in their presence or not, but if this behavior occurs more than you can bear, you need to avoid the person, or if you can't avoid him, get help from someone that you trust and has some influence with the perpetrator. \n\nHave courage. These types of men will respect a person demanding their feelings be know and respected or if he is not so caring, he will avoid you because you are too high maintence in his opinion. Either way your courage will get the result you desire.
394134
As you can see it all depends on the man. Everyone is different and has different values and morals...some good some bad. Some are looking for sex partners, some for financial stability....real mature men are looking for women with a strong sense of values who love them and are committed to building a relationship together.
434901
Men and women cheat for various reason, which are too many to list. I will go over a few of them that are normally common.  They are not getting sufficient amount of sex from their current sex mate.  They want variety and can't get it from the person they are with.  They find another person more closer to what they like to do sexually. Some find it a little sexual exciting to have another sexual partner on the side, even if they are sexually compatible with their sex partner. Some find persons of another race sexually exciting and want to find out about the myths, but since in their social status other commitments might be a taboo they have sexual affairs to find out about the other race they are interested in.\n\nNow the reason these people continue in the relationship is because society has deemed you unsuccessful if you can not maintain a good relationship. Another reason is they are comfortable with the person they are with in all things except the sex part. Some just want a fling and nothing more. Some were cheated on and want to get back at the person so they cheat also.\n\nNow that Ihave given you a few reason men and women cheat. I think that if you have to cheat you have the wrong sexual partner. You should find someone else that is more on you level sexually. \n\nIf you want to experiment sexually, check with your sexmate first they might also want to experiment and would be willing to try certain sexual things with others, watch porn with you or what ever, but you must discuss it with your sexmate first.\nI hope this has helped you in some way. Good luck.
636512
I think there a lot fewer men than people think.  Men talk big around friends, that they get it everyday.  That just isn't the case most of the time.  I think if your partner is getting it 4 times a week, he should consider himself very lucky.
673520
Isn't this why a lot of married men have mistresses nowadays?  There's a shortage of single available men. It's just a matter of whether or not society accepts this arrangement or not if the numbers of men continue to dwindle.
436961
Yes it is, but why does what they're doing pertain to your life. Oh, you must be Maria's new guy! That's a good instinct to make sure she's single before you go in for the kill!
563524
To see if you really want them.  Guys like if you chase them.  But if you dont' they will come after you.
235156
Women are drawn to married men , the joke of it is they are drawn to them because they see them as a man who is stable and can make a commitment because he is married. They hope to get him for themselves, yet how committed is he if he is cheating, and if he does end up with the other woman , how long before he is cheating on them.