What should gay people do with themselves?
401502
I guess we just keep living and loving like we've been doing.  My only reason for some type of legalization for my 25 year relationship is so I could put my partner on my health insurance.  She has some serious issues that will become worse with aging and because medicines and everything health related is so abominably high costing, we are forced to use free county health clinics, which could better serve other families--if they'd only let me put her on my job plan I'd pay gladly!!
540848
Strike up a conversation about someone who is gay and see what their stance is. Then tell them if it isn't too terrible.
458994
My advice play it safe, and just become friends with him at first. Then once hes comfortable with having you around start talking about a gay issue and watch his responce, try and do it when there is no one else around. That will be a dead give away to his orientation.  I dont have a lot of experiance with this, but its the advice i ALWAYS get.
236197
I believe ppl are born gay, like gay guys have to many female hormones, or their brains are just built differently then straight guys. There arent any cures to homosexuality, he can't supress teh feelings he has towards other men, hes got to work on excepting himself, this is his real cure, all the energy it will take out of him to " cure his homosexuality" is better used for him to go to a therapist and talk about how he feels
605517
man they're gays! leave them alone
399786
yeah God can give you hope, change your life correct yourself and go away the gay lifestyle start your new whole life, go to church, make friends spread the word of gGod and you will be loved by someone ESPECIALLY GOD. GOOD LUCK DUDE.
132300
You will find if you dig a bit deeper in history than the current right-wing religious norm, homosexuality has existed as a natural state since the dawn of time and has often been a celebrated and more "enlightened" state of existance.  Whether this is true or not is up to you personally to decide, not your neighbors or family.  You could easily find a way to suppress your "gayness" through religious or philosophical means, but deep down it won't make you any less gay and the dichotomy of living a lie will have severe consequences on your long-term mental health.\n\nStart reading everything you can get your hands on, both the "religious viewpoints" and the secular (don't make any decisions without exploring both points of view).  Its ok to be gay, don't be a cliche...
371766
You need a baby feeder.\nA baby nappies.\n\nA lot of gays who can take your buts many times a day
287453
i would say that you do the same thing people did before there was an internet.  go to clubs, join support groups, visit your local gay & lesbian center or use your gaydar in the grocery store, park, or other everyday kind of place.\n\ngood luck!
825364
If you love God. and being Gay doesn't come between you and the spirit of God then you may go to heaven.I allow it. If you get there and they say no. no admittance, then you tell them to talk with me about it I will have a long talk with them OK?ands that reminds me.who came up with this Jumbo shrimp thing, that's like saying  military intelligence in one sentence, they don't go together. and if your gay and molest very  young children like a man did to me. then you should get a death sentence.as a straight person should also.Peace
887990
Listen more than you talk. Be of good moral character. Don't cheat on your wife with your gay lover.
830350
It's bullshxt. I totally agree. Who are straight people to say what gays can and cannot do? Are we not people? This country is TOO fxcked up.
182314
None at all is your answer.  As a hetero male, I can say with all sincerity that only homophobes and individuals insecure with their OWN sexuality object to equal rights for gays.  Love is love.....end of story.
503608
Well I don't care what people do as long as they aren't in your face about it and leave me alone.\n\nYou'd probably get hanged or put in prison for being gay years ago, at least now people can be open about it.
779853
put God first, then love your self lastly, care for others\n\npeace out
394736
Depends on where you are. In the US, especially in larger metropolitan areas out of the South, it's fairly easy to be gay and not get grief from others.\n\nIf you're in a society that's dominated by fundamentalist religions, like the US South or Iran or somewhere, then being out and gay isn't necessarily the easiest thing to do. In both places, it can potentially get you killed.\n\nNotice that it's never the gay people killing the fundamentalists...yet somehow, the gays are supposed to be in the wrong?
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i dont think a person should be judged on weather they r gay or not personally i could never do it but i have gay friends and they r like ne other human being except they get critized for something they cant control just be there for ur frind and dont let ne thing ne body else says influnance u