What do you do after the "honeymoon" is over?
407207
since he is your boyfriend, and not your husband... do you think it will get any better? Sounds like your togheter more for convinence then for love. Your obviousley missing something, else you wouldnt ask the question. \n\nAlso the is a part in a relationship where you are "in love" that phase is useually the first two years. After that you have to work harder on your relationship for it to last. Seems like you just past that stage. Now you will see how much true love there is between the two of you...
1031269
I just celebrated my 1st anniversary and the first weeks after the wedding were anticlimactic and I too was unhappy.  The reason:  The wedding and preparations were over.   And I thought "is this it?"  Reality set in with a quickness.\n\nAs time has progressed and problems have occurred, I think back to why I married this man and everything gets better.  Through this year I have threatened to leave he has threatened to leave, we have discussed counseling but we have done none of the above.  \n\nNow we have settled into a routine where we once again love and respect each other and we look forward to the years to come.\n\nYes we lost that spark but there was still an ember and we have fanned it into a blazing flame.\n\nGood luck
724302
FIRST !  -Talk to hubby-if you value that relationship \nSecondly -  make arrangments for hubby to bowout during the course of the evening and check into a hotel. Don't make reservations , be spontaneous
39811
Dating is a "mating dance" and we show each other our "best". Once marriage is achieved, it's too easy to fall into "routine". You need time for yourselves to keep the romance alive. Have someone babysit and go out for dinner & a movie once a month or so. Go dancing, if that's what you used to do. Couples will stop doing some of the fun things they did before they got married. They need to keep doing the fun things together.
351808
I suggest a half/half compromise. Spend half the day out, eat at a nice cafe for lunch and enjoy the sun somewhere quiet. Later in the evening, stay home, order in and ------ (you fill in the blank).\n\nHappy Anniversary =D.
984361
I would say let your husband and his ex take care of that,and focus on what you need to do.
35552
Help those who could not help themselves. Give back to everyone I have received from. Lighten loved ones debts and medical expenses so they can free their spirits from worry and stress. Postpone working, seek knowledge to enrich and satisfy my own interests. Renew my wedding vows some place beautiful, have a big celebration with my friends that I never have time to see. Move from my current surroundings to keep my identity as a person that can do without everyone telling me what I should do.
1140323
How about a gift for both of you,loke maybe a cruise.Nice honeymoon!
1123456
greet your husband at the door after his long day of work.\nslowing undressing the both fo you and kissing your partner while leading your partner to the bathroom\nIn the bathroom you will have lit candles relaxing music warm tub ready for your partner, wash and lightly rub their back.\nwhen your partner is done relaxing in the tub\nlead your partner to the bedroom where you had some lotion or oil warming up\nhave your partner lie on the bed and give your partner a rub down or massage\nmake love\ncuddle \ntalk or not either way will be comforting\ngo to sleep.
17133
soke,think about what great fun that yall had and then relize that its not the end of the world. Listen to your favorite funky song to get your spirits right and move on.   enjoy the rest of life!
722371
Honestly when I got married three yrs ago I went and bought a very expensive night gown from a local lingerie shop and I didn't get to use it until 3 days after the wedding. My husband was more excited with helping me out of the gown then letting me out of his site to slip into it. So my best advise to you would be just by regular lingerie for the honeymoon and let him help you get out of your gown and take it from there.
622889
marriage counsellor?\naccept that your marriage is over?\ndo somethinga about making your lover happy - get romantic working again?
134674
If this is way before you get married do these Go out and do what you want, travel where you want, buy what you want, visit old friends. If you are getting married with in the year say good bye to your freedom and enjoy his and yours together.
857769
A honeymoon: somewhere beautiful, a nice BIG blue ocean, flowers, the sun, a place where the woman knows u spent good money on and makes her realize she's worth it, somewhere quiet (of course), a place that smells good, just romantic things! :).....i'm guessing ur planning a honeymoon. have fun!
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Here's a suggestion: For the honeymoon, go out and buy something sexy, something he'd never think you'd wear( get the shoes, stockings, etc)> Go to the bathroom at the hotel your staying at for the honeymoon and tell him to sit and wait! Get into the outfit, do your makeup and hair, then call out to him to maybe light a few candles and turn on some music(I suggest a cd with a pre-practiced song) and then come out dancing for him, tease him...Men love that stuuf, talk about spicy!!\n\nWorked for me!!
287502
Romance is sweet,wonderful,and exciting!\nOn our anniversary,I always get a babysitter to take the kids overnight. I make a very romantic dinner including candlelight and our china place settings from our wedding. I have it down to a science! I have the bubbles ready for the tub,the massage oil ready by the bed,and also pick up a few little things that we can enjoy together! Top that off with some whipped cream and a cherry and you're all set to go!\n\nThe other thing we do that is soooo romantic and special just for the 2 of us is to rent a room,we have our own special one!  It's a honeymoon suite,complete with a whirlpool and a fireplace. Use your imagination here,but the possibilities are endless!  And you don't have to clean a thing in the morning!\nYou 2 have fun and enjoy your anniversary!  ZOYA.\n\nThank you for your note!  You are welcome. ZOYA.
1054145
Our honeymoon was all that we expected and more! I am telling you when you tell people you are on your honeymoon, they upgrade rooms, they go out of their way to make sure things are special for you! At least that's what they did for us in Oahu, Hawaii and on the island of Kauai. It was awesome!!! I think back then, we both needed the time away as a couple, we were so tired from all the planning, paying, etc. It was a precious time that nobody could take from us,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,for me as a newlywed, and a real homebody though, it was hard at times being that far away from my family! However, we were then beginning our own family.................