If my ex slept wiv my friend(a couple of times), should i even consider gettin back wiv her?
411218
She realized she made a mistake and told you, but she only slept with this person after you separated on good terms.  If you still care about her and she still wants to be with you, go to marriage counseling together or just talk it out and see what you both want to do.  Trust your heart, and if you both want it enough, get back together.  Sometimes the second time works even though the first didn't, because you've both learned from your mistakes the first time.  \n\nJust remember, everyone is human and makes mistakes.
19905
No, you shouldn't especially if you had strong feelings for her.  I recently broke up with a guy I've been dating for almost 3 months.  He wants to continue the friendship but I told him no, not this time.  I said maybe later when I'm completely over him, and it will all sort of happen by itself if we're meant to be friends.  Good luck.
753557
She's just feeling uncomfortable,same as you. It will take awhile for you two to get back to the friendship you had-so take it slow and just let her know that you value her friendship,and will always be there for her.
840618
you deserve everything you get.  You should have never slept with her.  Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.....
181252
First i think it was sweet of you to ask her to a sleep over and second I think it was very rude of her if she sked someone else without inviting you also. Maybe you should consult her on her actions. and tell her that your feeling were hurt and see what she says to you . Then you can find out if you think you want her for a true friend. Honey there are alot of other friends out there have your own sleep over with out her and see how she would react to that. .God Bless you.
638727
If your ex girl friend was not in love with you then you treat her just a normal friend but if ther have been love between you both then getting back being friends is difficult. Give the best to your present girl friend because she is your present. Don't loose her because then you will have problems so keep your life hassel free
579708
Your EX-bestfriend's EX-boyfriend?  um... you should ask him out on a date, and then go for it with him.  Because... well if she isn't your bestfriend anymore you owe her... nothing, and even if she still was your friend, as long as you didn't sleep with him to break them up... (which i am sure you didn't do) then you still owe her.... nothing.  How long have they been broken up? if it has been say over 6 months (which it sounds like it has if you have listed to his other girl problems) then I would say you have satisfied ALL of the waiting before moving in criteria.  Life is short sweetie, take a chance, and good luck.
1152560
Leave that friend just as it is a friend. Your charting uncharted territory. Plus it will hurt your exes feelings and cause confusion between her and her friend. Move onward if that's what you want but move opposite directions other than her close friends. It's not a little world anymore. You have options,
11115
be honest! dont cheat, but especially not with her friend! how would you like it if she slept with one of your friends, right?
865063
NO definately not, like the saying goes she made her bed so let her lie in it. She is the past, let it go you don't know what is going on in this relationship of hers and you don't need to find out. You might open up a whole lot of trouble and will be sorry for it later. If you want to help someone...........help yourself.......you sound like a caring person and some people will take advantage of that.
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
835166
I personally feel like if it happens once shame on them if it happens a second time shame on you for letting it happen. Trust is a hard thing to build once its lost you can take that friend with a grain of salt because even if you do give her a second chance this incident will always be in your mind
217044
Love and honor her and do everything you can to show her you can be trusted. It still might not be enough, but at least you will have tried. \n\nMy ex husband cheated on our third anniversary with my best friend. We might have had a chance, if he hadn't said to me three days later "If I can't sleep with you, I might as well go sleep with her." After that cruel knife stick, I just could not think of any reason to have him in my life anymore. \n\nThese days, I wish him well and hope his life works out. I now know what love is like. I have it for myself and for the man I'm with now. \n\nGood Luck.
661824
Dont says its your fault unless it really was. Lets-just-be friends.. um.. ok, if you seriously think thats going to workout. Oy.. third option is so out of the question. Girl, the past is the past. What happens,happens. You gotta move on, there are plenty of more fish in the sea. Believe me.
583921
well is she worth fighting for what cause the break up, are you willing to take your blame as well, if not lick your wonds and dust your self off and get back to living, because life isnt going to wait on you it is going to keep going. with or with out you.
1178801
if you two broke up for only her reason of 'being too comfortable', I would not phone her. It would set you back a bit I think- it does for me anyway. She obviously didn't treasure and revere you or the friendship/relationship you offered. I think your line of thinking is best for you right now, she did in a sense throw you away and you need to be surrounded by people who treat you better than that. Maybe some day you two could be friends, but it might seriously take you years to get over her. Don't waste anymore time and let her keep reeling you back in- go on with your life!\n\nGod bless
1095919
ask yourself what went wrong the first time. what can you change that made her wanna ******** you before? tell her that you can change, unless she dumped you cuz you slept with one of her friends or something. it'll never work.