if u really miss the one u loved befor(u've had broken up befor),would u call?
403056
No dont, its better to stop thinking about a closed case
616801
who cares we are no longer together and he is my EX but as for my friend I would rethink our relationship because she may have wanted him long time ago--leave the past in the past and do what you have to do for you and take care of you let that go
968090
I actually just brought up that idea with my ex when I talked to him tonight (we broke up two weeks ago) and he said he isn't in love with me anymore. I think it's best to not go back and just move on. Healthier that way.
177110
I remember all my ex-girlfriends and do regret some of the things I did while I was with them, and I'm a man, so "Yes" I guess. Whether your Ex will is probably all down to the kind of guy he is though, I wouldn't call myself a typical Man...
1129969
it is if you met my ex
641392
IF you love him, call and say so.  Tell him you miss him.  Next time you see him , bj.
537486
Move on. if your ex has already moved on then you should too!
448515
Well u went a yr,,, some people can't even go that long without wondering if they should call the ex, \n\nBut if u want to call just 2 say hi it's cool, if ur calling because ur hoping may be u can get back together with him  be prepared, it's been more then a yr he could have a girlfriend by now. And if u find that out it could hurt all 3 of u, hurt u because u were hoping u could get back with him, u her because his ex is calling after more then a yr and she'll know why your calling, hurt him because  he will having some explaining to do.\n\nSo think about it first.
803331
Yes--it's perfectly normal to still miss the person who dumped you and/or the relationship.  Just b/c you miss him doesn't mean that you can't control your behavior or that you have to act on your feelings.  In time, you'll meet other guys, have new experiences, and will enjoy yourself again.  It's impt. to be kind to yourself during this period and take whatever steps are necessary to heal.  I realize it must be tough dealing with the feelings you have, but you will be okay.  It's a real test of your strength and I think you'll be proud of how you dealt with your feelings.  Good Luck
1038905
It takes time to get over someone that you have loved and trusted so deeply. I know that's probably not what you want to hear but it is true. The last thing that you need to do right now is to jump into another relationship. Take your time and let love happen to you again in its own time. In the mean time try to occupy your time with other things and don't dwell on missing him so much. I know its easier said than done but trust me in time it will get better.
687788
I'm not sure if you really can. I had a bf 5 yrs ago and we loved each other very much but his parents made him move 6 states away from me. It hurt so bad and I still miss him to this day. He probably doesn't even remember who I am anymore but oh well. No I am like totally in love with one of my bestest friends in the world and he knows it but I guess he just doesn't feel the same way about me. He is leaving in July to join the army and I will probably cry my eyes out everynight until he returns in December because I'll miss him so much but he might not give me two thoughts when he is gone. I don't know but there is no real way to ever stop missing someone. I guess one day you'll just wake up and never think of them again.
325967
why don't you just call her and ask her if she's missin' you?  Skip the other stuff--she just might be trying to repair the damage you 've done by pretending to be attracted to someone else-
675349
Maybe now - he appreciates you more that you are not together. He misses you dearly. If I were you - follow your heart!
116892
Yeah it can. I broke up with my ex a couple of years ago - it was a mutual break-up but we remained as best friends. Sometimes when I hang out with her, I feel that same old feeling again - like a spark in my life that I felt when I first dated her... but I'm not taking that step though.\n\nYou can regain that feeling, but to get back together - that's another question...
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
740771
i would say no. cause i was with someone before he went home from college and maybe two months after he was down there and calls me up and tells me that he found someone new. after all the things that i had done and all the time we spent together it seemed like it was for nothing.
1178801
if you two broke up for only her reason of 'being too comfortable', I would not phone her. It would set you back a bit I think- it does for me anyway. She obviously didn't treasure and revere you or the friendship/relationship you offered. I think your line of thinking is best for you right now, she did in a sense throw you away and you need to be surrounded by people who treat you better than that. Maybe some day you two could be friends, but it might seriously take you years to get over her. Don't waste anymore time and let her keep reeling you back in- go on with your life!\n\nGod bless