Sex from both perspectives - which is better?
403224
I am a 44year old female, 14 years old the first time.\nI am hitting my prime, maybe have been since early 30s. It's been my experience that men hit their prime from 16 to maybe 25 - all downhill from there (sorry guys!!)  I am experiencing an increase in my sex drive & am very much more aware of my own sensuality & sexual self at this time in my life. I've never experienced any dysfunction but have been with several partners who have. (not fun)  I am a lot freer to experiment & enjoy - I'd love to take advantage of that but lack a steady partner at this point in my life. (gotta fix that, soon!) I've always been highly sexed, from my teen years & I don't see it slowing down any time soon. E-mail me if you want more details - I'd be delighted to provide you with information for your research.
210643
It is because both sides are bored and perverted. What is sex to begin with? Depends how you define it as well, you can't physically have sex with the other person if you are in totally different places. Having someone talk in that certain manner to them brings sexual pleasure to possibly do other things. Its all about the pleasure not the purpose...if that makes any sense ha.
127683
Trying not to be prejudice...... but a great movie sex.... they cant be the same, a movie affects you in a little way possible while sex is more of an intimate thing that you share with your partner are whoever you are with. So to compare movies and sex....i think thats a big nono....\n\n\n\nXoXo\nme
500445
better for what?  a women may get more clitoral stimulation from the cowboy position.  In doggy, deeper penetration occurs which could be a plus for both partners.  Also, men get a great visual as well in doggy style.  personally, I like big butts and I can not lie...
94493
sex, sex, and more sex
594783
I'd say sexier. No, that does not make me gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that!
493028
Between the two solutions, sexing and abstinence, having sex is the best choice unless you haven’t decided to get a chastity vow. It’s medically demonstrated that sexual activity is healthy for whole body and for sexual system mainly in both sexes.  \nDr. R. W. Bernard in his essay entitled "Science discovers the physiological value of continence" states:\n"[I]t is clear that there is an important internal physiological relation between the secretions of the sex glands and the central nervous system, that the loss of these secretions, voluntarily or involuntarily, exercises a detrimental effect on the nutrition and vitality of the nerves and brain..... \nOne study suggests that frequent ejaculation may lead to a lower risk of prostate cancer. Indeed, there have been numerous studies indicating that excessive repression of the sexual instinct leads to an increase in the overall level of aggression in a given society.\nIt is necessary the balance. An absolute license is bad; an absolute abstinence —even though some by nature or circumstances are urgently called to adopt i t— is also bad. They are both alike away from the gracious equilibrium of Nature. And the force, we see, which naturally holds this balance even is the biological fact that the act of sexual union is the satisfaction of the erotic needs of any person.\nOKAY??
636016
i cant speak for other men but myself i find what you say to be true-i find sex to be more physical less mental and expect to have already had talk it all out-wouldnt want to start with any confusion as everyone has different kicks so try to have everthing straight before starting-just me-lots of love-old hippie
970476
sex isnt just the only thing, holding hands, intimate hugs, and flirting chat is better than sex sometimes. and it can show different meanings other than date
202725
Sex is an adventure....exiting with pleasure and lust. The main player is the brain....the body is only a small part of it. There is the pleasure of giving....and the pleasure of taking. As a bi-sexual the pleasure of giving is much stronger to someone with the same sex. Then there is a very strong reference....yourself ! At that point both can understand the pleasure it gives. With the opposite sex the only reference is experience, or what you've been told.
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i expect u know reproductive organs for the two sex,having sex is some thing very special especially to women no taste i can compare with but it should be done with in the agreement between the two the more u relax in the action and bringing ur feeling to the action the more u enjoy sex.\nactually is very enjoyable especially if u sex with the one u love and believe to one another.\nAh! ah! ah! .......swe..... swee..... sweet baby
1034174
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer!
186272
Try both and then decide for yourself!!
532160
depends on the woman and her mood. a bit of both is better than one or the other.
387161
I believe in both but, when we analyze our lives in relationship with the universe there is still MUCH we don't know and understand. So, looking at in from a non-religious and non-scholarly point-of-view; trying to make sense of it which you believe...doesn't much make sense. So pick one, both, or neither and you'll be RIGHT!!!
1172302
I don't know lol. well sex can be great in a bad relationship. but bad sex in a good relationship can be better. so i guess bad sex in a good relationship.
469484
I agree skin to skin is best sex just remember that AIDS is \na factor in this world