is it proper (ok) for a female to propose to the male?
411371
hi ,yes its fine to ask a guy to marry you ,but its not very nice what he said to you ,its not his turn ?? how many times does he want to get engaged ?? this could all to do with the MALE EGO thing !! he asked someone and probably got hurt ,and doesnt want to get hurt again ,marriage when it comes down to it is a bit of paper and a ring ,what you have this now is him and you and a future together,enjoy that and things will work out and anyway you never know he could be the one to ask you  good luck have a greeat life together XX
970236
At this point, my perfect proposal would be, "Hey honey, lets go to Reno this weekend and get married!!"\n\nWe have been together 10.5 years and it is like come on, lets just do it! We know we will and we aren't offically engaged, but it is just a matter of time.\n\nI of course would love like a romantic dinner out and he propose that way!
405039
Well are you ready to have a girlfriend? Do you know the responsibilities if you have a girlfriend? If yes, start with being friendly to the girl you're interested then propose to her.
156441
why don't you ask her? Or maybe you could start with a small chat, then a gift n so on. By this tme you would get enough indications on whether to proceed or not. But don't forget to propose to her at any cost.All the best dude!!
374820
You would propose to her like any other woman. Take her to a nice restaurant or walk in the park/beach. Then when you feel that the time is right, tell her how much you love her and wouldn't change one thing about her. You could then tell her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her and so on, use feeling that come from the heart. Then ask, will you marry me? Whether in English or Spanish, it doesn't matter because it came from within and that's a language we all speak. Hope she says, yes!
110887
Maybe you should express courage by telling her how you feel and asking her how she feels.  Try this before you propose to her.
1067435
bring here to a fancy restaurant but before that, ask the personel of that restaurant to help you make that night such an unforgetable experience to both of you especially to the girl. when youre about to propose, the lights should be turn off, and only the candle on your table will remain lighting, then the staff will then roll down the big white banner with different lights with big letterings asking the girl. "HONEY, WILL YOU MARRY ME?" beleive me, it will work.
1050485
What ur daugther says seems logical.The reason behind her asking this may be her insecurity once u enter into another relationship.And as far as the person who has given u the proposal may not want to jeopardise this relationship with u for this reason . As the old saying goes the greater the distance more the love.But also make it a point to discuss this issue with his youngest son in order to avoid trouble on a later date . GoodLuck.
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
341104
So long as you are speaking from your heart...she is right, it won't matter, where, when, or how you ask her...she will love it.  These are the words women wait their whole lives to hear, it doesn't need to be some over the top production, just an honest, heart felt proposal.  Good luck!!
197782
if you are talking about a marrige propsal just ask her when the time is right, she can no more than say no, also try to know that you are not the first to make a proposal of marrige, that is how most marriges get done,,
1099160
SHOULD?????\nDo u think there is any should for proposing even if u are together for 2 yrs?!?!?!?!\nI have another idea if u are ready for proposing why u dont propose him?????\nAnd always know there is no should for marriage ...and if he is not ready for that never want him to do that .....people get married by a mistake and rouine their both lives ..\njust do it when both are ready for
640550
I think its perfectly fine for a girl to ask a guy to marry her. In fact its exactly what I did and its good to know other ladies are considering it. \n\nI have been going out with my boyfriend for a long time and on our 5 year anniversary I asked him to marry me. It was probably the most nerve racked time of my life. I bought him a nice manly ring and set out our living room in candles and poured some wine. He was quite surprised and actually said he was supposed to do it. But he said yes - and like you I was so worried he wouldn't.\n\nThe biggest thing is to recall conversations you have had about marriage in the past and see if he had a positive outlook. What I found is they just need a little prodding and thats the best way. Now we have ordered my ring and he wants to have his chance to ask me too - even though we are technically already engaged. But I definitely don't mind a little extra romance in my life.\n\nI say take the chance I found it well worth the effort.
368873
Honestly...I wouldn't do it. Proposing to guy is like having him walk down the aisle while you wait at the alter. I know many people throw out traditions in today's "modern" world but I still wouldn't do it. If you've changed your mind about getting married, talk to him about it first or drop a hint that you wouldn't mind have something sparkly to wear on your ring finger. Proposing to my wife was and still is one of the greatest moments of my life and I would hate to have that moment taken away.\n\nAlso...his buddies will NEVER let him live it down ;o)
358319
Let her know that the promise you gave will be continued and then propose. Shocking a girl with a proposal is always the best part. Just check to make sure she isnt shy if you plan everything in front of a crowd. Good luck!
852251
Ok not a guy here but i can answer that for you, Yes my husband actually did propose to me on christmas day infront of the family, how he did this was he has his family come over and open presents and he had my family come over and open presents and than after all the presents had been opened he said kinda loud waite theres one more present he got out the ring he looked at my dad and asked if he could marry me of course my dad said yes its about time LOL and than he turned to me and asked me if i would marry him infront of everyone and of course i said yes but it was really cool and one thing just remember to get down on one knee he forgot LOL
23775
I think it depends on her... remember, this moment is about her, not you.  I would have preferred a romantic evening, just the two of us, wine & dine, etc... but that is not my wife, who is more sociable.\n\nWhat I did was get one of her best friends to talk about proposals with her- she was great at it, made it sound like she was just making conversation- and then I had the inside info about how she really wanted it done (which was in front of all of her friends).