Why do Gays draw attention to themselves by talking in high voices and waving their hands around like girls?
415429
That's the way gays naturally act if they are effeminate. Not all gays are that way. Many are people you would not suspect. They don't do it to draw attention. They do it because that's the way they are.
244966
I'm sorry you are on the receiving end of such hate.  This is what I have learned in life:\n\n1- The people calling you names are insecure about themselves.  In other words, maybe they are really gay and don't know how to come out of the closet :)\n\n2- What goes around, comes around.  If they continue to be mean, only mean things will happen to them.\n\n3- Smile... all the time.  It makes people wonder what the heck is going on.\n\n4- Ask the question "Why" while tilting your head, and people freeze like deer in headlights.  --- for example, say someone calls you a b*tch.  Ask them "Specifically, what is prompting you to call me that."
772958
It's usually caused by a lack of affirmation in early childhood. It's ironic because the thing gay men seem to crave the most is masculinity.\n\nSame thing for butch women. Lack of affirmation as females in early childhood.
395889
Because we ARE gay? Why do people hate us, is it the fact that they can't stop poking their big fat noses into other people's sexual business? Pathetic...
16982
Men do have a sensitive feminine side and because of this feminine side they like to keep it hidden.  It's an ego thing they think that if they reveal it they are going to look gay or weak.
503039
They can insult each other's manhood in the same way straight men do. Just as there are plenty of effeminate straight men there are a lot of masculine gay men. Insulting one's manhood is even more prevalent in the gay community since your sexual orientation has already knocked you down a point on that. So they make it up by being even better than the other boys. It is an insult for a gay man to be compared to a woman just as it would be for a straight man.
477728
the reason being men are so insecure to be around you\nwith their girl coudl be the fact u play the dominate role and you could easily replace em because you offere a better calling, althought you might not see it that way but fact is guys might \nguys are not all there and are not as resonabl eand understanding and when they feel not in control things\ngo to hell from there and they will do anything nasty\nto regain this control which results of confidence security etc.\ni dont believe there is anything u can do to avoid this\nalthough you migh tmean well it will never be viewed that way. its like how gay people are looked upon unforunately thats how the world evolves \nmy best advice to you is to just talk about it with them\nand make a reasoning to secure their control\nor again just learn to brush it off, there is no way \nout of it unless the people that make comments to you\nlearn or change.\nsorry to hear that, its a cruel world\njust think of it what makes u fall only makes us tronger\nbest of luck to you
348506
Because you're talking to the wrong people. People who find that kind of behavior acceptable would naturally applaud its accomplishment. People who don't, male or female, won't. It really is as simple as that.
1089215
Some do! While I myself am not gay, there are many men out there that overdo or unnecessarily act hostile to people in the homosexual community. This is because they secretly have the same desires - or at least curiosity. However, as with all things, this is not absolute. You will find some general straight males, (and females) who are deeply against homosexuality for other reasons than just being gay or lesbian themselves. This could be from a variety of things: religion, tradition, community, personal beliefs, etc.\n\nSo yes, while there are some incidents when men or women are acting out against gays as a way to conceal their own homosexuality - not all do. Most are just unnecessarily homophobic.
780908
I think it's just that now it's so much easier for people to actually come out and say to people "Hey.. I'm gay!" but the problem with that is that it also makes it easier for people to decide to be gay because it's so widely accpeted. I'm not saying it's a bad thing at all.. all it means is that there are alot more gay people these days than before.\nHowever, there is a side to it where some people think it's 'cool' or 'in' to pretend to be bi.. such as Britney Spears kissing Madonna and hinting that she may be bi.. or whatever.. people like that annoy me and there are alot more people like that in society because they think it's 'hot.' \n\nI hope this answers your question <3
198025
They are not; it is simply that when a man exhibits the feminine traits, they draw more attention to themselves.  The masculine gay blends with the rest by and large, so few are pointed out, outside of their domain, but a feminine gay can not get out of his house without being noticed, so their presence is amplified a hundred times.
294955
because they are gay!!!
11715
Becuase that is insulting, and rude, Thats like walking up to a person of another race and using "hate" words to them, like racial slurs etc. its the same concept. It offends them. And maybe they aren't completely out of the closet, and have only told a few people, and you calling them gay is sending a signal, to them that they can nont trust you.
459383
It would have to be for attention.  I have always wanted to know why gay men have their own accent.
286865
Because they want to get in everyone's faces about their gayness.  Just look at the St. Patrick's Day Parade in New York.  You do not see banners saying "Irish-American Animal Lovers" or Irish-American Headbangers" or "Irish-Americans Who Watch Cartoons" or anything else like that, because the parade is not about any of those things.  But the gays think they should have their own banner, so the attention will be focused on them.
985139
Because they are gay!
694577
ITS THE OPPOSITE OF HOW THE GAY BASHERS ACT.  THEY ACT IMMATURE.  IT MEANS BEING RESPONSIBLE AND ACTING LIKE AN ADULT NOT A LITTLE KID.