How can I know if my best friend wants to date me?
413603
You can watch for signs of attention past a friendship. If that person acts shy or uncomfortable around you all of the sudden it could mean they are self-concience and is wondering what you think...or you just did something wrong.
605227
If this person is your best friend, then chances are he already knows, and maybe feels a little of the same. it's natural between the sexes.\nDo you want to tell him because you need to nkow if he feels the same? What do you do if he doesn't, and if he does feel something, where do you go from there?? Downhill usually.\nIf there was a strong enough chemistry and bond between you to sustain a lasting relationship, then you both would have had it from the beginning, and gone way past "best friend" status.\nGood luck
26643
It depends on several factors.\n1. Age\nIn grade school if he likes you he is likely to ask your friend to ask you if you like him.\nIn Jr. High if he likes you he is likely to make fun of you.\nIn High School if he likes you he is likely to avoid you entirely.\nAs men get older we begin to either become more open about it, or we go completely undercover and become your frustrated best friend.\n\nAnother factor is how attractive you are.\nIf you are hot, trust me he likes you.\nIf you are not hot, are you nice? funny? interesting?  If the guy is talking to you he likes you.  Does this mean he wants to have a deeper relationship with you?\n\nHOW SHOULD I KNOW?  ASK HIM!!!!!
821434
My best friend since high school (25 years) is a man and I wouldn't have it any other way.  We share everything, when we were dating (other people not each other) it was always nice to have someone of the opposite sex to ask all those why and what if questions to.  \n\nMany people thought we should date but we didn't want to change anything about our relationship it wasn't worth the unknown.  We have been through each others marriages, boyfriends and girlfriends that are now over but the two of us are still together as GREAT friends.\n\nStick to your guns and don't let anyone tell you who to date, sometimes dinner with a friend is way better then with a date (you can pick off a friends plate - haha)
558767
Talk with your best friend. Perhaps, neither of you should date him. Never let a guy come between your friendship. Maybe one will give way, perhaps you both give him first dates and let him choose, but make sure the other one of you won't be jealous.
497440
if you guys are best friends then there might be a chance that he might be thinkin the same way as you. build the courage and just tell him your feelins. if he's really your best friend then he wont hate you, or avoid you.
291219
i used to ask myself the same question about some chick....but yeah as much as you would like to think you're dating you're not dating unless you call it a date....but it seems you're close enough to the girl...so start making some moves man, i'm sure she wont mind...you know little things and stuff, try to make it offical and just talk to her about...i know my other friend was worried he might ruin it friendship by asking his best friend out...but i believe you got nothing to lose and all to gain
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i don't think it will work out in the end because bestfriends don't really make a good girlfriend/or boyfriend\ncause when your seperate it's hard to look at that person without all those feelings you share for a person getting in the way.\nso no it doesn't work out to date your best friend
175021
well if he's your friend you should be able to talk to him, but if you are worried about hurting the friendship you could just look for the signs. If he likes you, he'll give you some type of hint.
363158
alright hun obviously there is something going on within your present relationship that has you wanting this other man. But even if there is a man's best friend is a subject YOU BETTER BE PREPARED TO TACKLE IF YOU PERSUE. Because like the saying goes, girlfriends and boyfriends come and go, but a best friend last forever. They've known each other longer than you and trust me from experience they will turn on you. I lost a good man at that time because i persued his best friend. Hun, unless you can deal with the consequences, back off and let him come to you if he feels the same way. If he doesn't then you have your answer and accept it. But if u feel u need to know go for it, but be prepared for what comes down the road
377165
most guys would prefer to have their best friend for life.\nand falling in love is the best way for that.\ntry suggesting it casually. and i hope he has not told u already abt his engagements. if yes also u still have a chance. after all. hes ur best friend. and he knows it. and guys dont usually let go their best friends.\nand dont be too late.\nBest of luck.
516920
Very very subtley......tell him that you would go out with him if her were interested in going out with you.\nSet parameters also.....hey, if this doesnt work out, lets make sure that we are still friends....you know what I mean.\nJust try to drop a subtle hint at it, and see if anything happens.  Or, just go for it and tell him that you have feelings for him.\nSometimes the BEST relationships are the ones where you start as "friends first"  :)\nGood luck darlin!
144416
Honesty is best.  Tell him that you are confused.  Ask what his intentions are for his keeping in touch.  Does he still have feelings for you?  Does he want to date you again?  Or is he keeping you close because he wants to be your friend?  Ask him straight up.  Then take it from there.
600861
You wouldn't have to ask him if you get one of your friends to ask for you. Let's put it this way, If a guy likes you he will let you know buy asking you out or he will show signs that he does. You don't ever ask them.
613912
Hi! That happened to me before, my male bestfriend was falling in love with me, everyone in our group knows about it and advising me that it would be better to have a boyfriend from the bestfriend level as it always works. But I kind of aloof everytime I know he might ask me a question, or something as I only want to remain friends. Because what I believe before, if we became boyfriends/girlfriends and split up, we might never be friends again, and I like having him as my best friend. I was a teenager back then. Now i'm 30 and he's now married. And I'm still single.\n\nLet her know how you feel when she's no longer in a relationship. Or if you can't wait that long, let her know now, who knows. She might be open minded about it and let you know how she feels for you.\n\nCheers!\n\nMitch
259639
If he is your best friend, this question wouldn't be necessary. Best friends know each other deeply. I suspect he doesn't feel the same way you do, but you would like it to be that way. Ask him straight out and expect the truth. A best friend will not lie to you.
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It depends on you... what you would want to happen? \n\nThere are 2 options:\n\n1. If you really want to be have a love relationship with your best friend and he/she is still single then of course the best way is to let him/her knows about your feeling. But mind you, he/she might get scared by your sudden confession. Remember to give him/her some time to think about it and comes out with a good conclusion for both of you.\n\n2. But if he/she already have a partner in life, then I suggest that you shd keep the feelings to yourself in order not to hurt your relationship with your best friend.\n\nSo, good luck!