Why wont guys ask me out?
402398
Guys are all about looks.  Some like breasts, bottoms, legs, etc.  If you don't have the feature the guy finds appealing, you have no chance.\n\nGuys generally do not have conversations with women they are interested in.  Guys see women they communicate with as friends.  The women they like they either try to impress or pretend they are listening to them.  That is the unfortunate truth about men.
984146
maybe he is shy \nor \nmaybe he doesn't know if you like him, so he doesn't want to ask in case you say no. boys are scared of rejection.\ntell him you like him or try asking him out, if you are brave enough that is.\ngood luck\n\nluv kby xx\n\n.
1048349
Well me being a nice boy am very nervous when asking girls out us nice boys often afraid of rejection. If you show us that you like us we will ask you out. Plus the not nice guys dont truly care but the nice ones do.
963690
"Then why don't you ask me out?"
552857
Maybe go out of your way to meet some new people and dont freak them out too much by coming on too strong. I know lots of girls that say they can't get a guy. And lots of guys say that they can't get a girl. It makes no sense.\n\nGood Luck ;)
1099929
Some of us guys just aren't confident enough around girls, especially if the girls are "intimidating" (really smart, really beautiful, really popular, etc).  They're afraid of the answer "no" because of our pride.  Then again there's also usually guys that don't care, and go around asking every girl they like out, so I'm sure there's plenty of those at ur school as well.  Personally if I like a girl, i let her know.  But maybe if the girls let the guys know they're interested in them.....maybe they'd start asking girls out at ur school
19148
Good-looking women get asked out by a lot of guys, those who are superficial and those who are nice.  So I guess a smaller percentage of the total guys who ask you out are the nice ones, so you have to work harder to sort them out of the crowd.
518560
Why wait?  Why don't you ask him out?\n\nGood luck!!
878675
That all depends how you have been expressing yourself to him. A lot of guys can not pick up signals or they misinterperted signals from girls.\n\nMost people (espically guys) are afriad of rejection. If you know that he has feelings for you and you feel the same way for him and he's too chicken to ask you out, then you should make the first move or you both would be waiting for nothing to happen.....
1101731
This is the 21st Century ... should be Equal Opportunities time. There really isn't any reason why a girl shouldn't ask a guy out :)
80510
You should get to know dis guy first then get him intrested maybe he will relize you aren't so bad then maybe he will ask u out.
114240
It could be he is too shy about it or he has a gf that he never told you about. I know it sounds cruel but a lot of people have done it. You should sit down and talk with him and just ask him why he doesn't ask you out.
114591
This guy probably really does like you but he most likely is afraid of being turned down. You can use the suttle approach and ask him out. Say something to him (privately) like: "If I say yes to a date, would you ask me out? If he says yes but doesn't follow through, respond by saying "well, go ahead! ask me out." It would of worked for me if I was given the chance.
937263
nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
942705
You really have to be an extrovert around shy guys and bring us out of our shells. We may have the major hots for you but unable to articulate that emotion into anything less than senseless jibbering when you are around. Ask the guy out- be bold, go do something together that puts you in close proximity without feeling like there is alot of pressue. Some guys will respond and there is room to grow and some guys might not. Believe me, if he likes you you should start to see him melt-but keep at it if the feeling is returned!\n\nGood luck!
635316
just do it most guys r to shy to ask girls out.....but do it wen hes alone so his friends wont mess it up for u
433111
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(