I was playing with my body but can't get an orgasm.. wat should i do?
400135
Relax take a bath. Try to find things that work for you.\n\nBuy a vibr_ator if nothing else helps.
453137
You need to establish an orgasm road-map in your brain. If you can get there through m_asturbation, then you are already half-way there.\n\nYou need to have him get you as close as possible, then finish up with m_asturbation. Next time, he'll get a little closer. Keep it up, and before you know it he'll get you there without your needing to m_asturbate at all!
1177191
Ask him for more play time.  Perhaps he could perform oral on you and use a vibrator on you to help you reach orgasm.  The once he has helped you out, you can make love.
511199
If you can do it yourself, then you can have someone do it for you. The problem IS NOT YOU. It is him learning more about your body. So, relax! Next time you are together, tell him what you like, how your body responds. It won't work the first time...but eventually it will. Remember, everyone's bodies are different...he needs to learn about YOURS.
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I just asked this same question.  The only thing that gets me off is clitoral stimulation, not vaginal.  I have to have something on my clit, and not just anything but a clit vibrator.  What I got on feedback is that you have to be in the mood, you need a supportive partner, you need to be able to explore yourself to learn what you like, try different positions, that through clitoral you might have desensitized all the other areas and can only orgasm on that alone.  That is what I got so I thought I would share that with you...
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I didn't have an orgasm through intercourse for about a year after I lost my virginity to my fiance.  I was anxious and nervous and I saw it all as a really big deal which stopped me coming even though oral and masturbation made me come.  When he asked me to marry him, it was like someone switched on a tap and I now orgasm every single time that we have intercourse.\n\nYou could try having your boyfriend stimulate you until you are almost at orgasm before stopping to have sex for a while, then continuing the manual stimulation etc until you orgasm whilst he is inside you.  Different positions might work, try missionary with your legs up over his shoulders or a cushion under your bum, doggy style with him reaching round to stimulate your clitoris, you on top stimulating yourself or having him stimulate you.\n\nGood luck!
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Please don't bother, that is something that girls aren't really good at because unless you know how it feels you can't know how to do it correctly, you'll never be able to do it as good as we can to ourselves.  Just go with a BJ.
647028
Did you get a euphoric feeling after you were done? Did your body shake or quiver? You may have experienced an orgasm or maybe just climaxed- but didn't have a mind blowing orgasm. I masterbate and it doesn't always feel the same way everytime.
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try changing position or rhythm or try to stop and do something to your partner.  i tried it several times and the next problem was my partner came first so try to come at the same time.
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Dude - just relax when having sex, and don't get caught up in how good your c.o.c.k. feels during it.  Concentrate on pleasing your partner!  Try spankin it until just before you c.u.m. and then stop -- don't allow yourself to shoot. It may be difficult at first, but with practice you will learn to control you orgasm. Happy f...ing!
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Why can;t you have an orgasm by yourself?\n\nI would actually experiment and investigate yourself to see what you are capable of
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try to masturbate if u ae comfortable with it.. it helps..
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The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.
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No.  Mostly, it's a matter of finding what stimulation gives you an orgasm.  Explore yourself, and then let your partner know what pleases you.  If you have a caring partner, he will do whatever it takes to make you have an orgasm.  If not, get a new partner girlfriend!!  My partner makes sure I have mulitple orgasms before he ever lets himself have one.  Also, if you are young, don't worry; the older you get the better you know yourself and the more orgasms you will have.  I think that I was too self-conscious when I was younger to let myself go and have an orgasm.
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It depends.  Was there sex involved?  If so, there's a condition called orgasm retardation.  It can be caused both physically and psychologically.  Have him see a "bone" doctor.  If that doc doesn't solve the problem, then have him see a head doctor.
100602
try showing your partner how to touch you, how you like! Sharing how to turn each other on even more makes the experience better AND the orgasms more regular!
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Use a little lube (KY, vaseline or similar) and diddle your clit with the finger/s of one hand while carressing your body with the other. You may want to insert fingers or suitable objects into you vagina or anus for additional stimulation. Some people like to suck their fingers or listen to hypnotic music.