How to make a relationship stronger?
398684
do things that interest you both.........in that way, you'll always be near each other, be  friend not just a lover, have a constant communication, make discussions but don't heat up in an argument...... always be loving and sweet..........
446020
no matter what if you love her it will hurt and will hurt badly. Perhaps if you exaimine the reason why the relationship is drawing to close there might be something that you can do to prevent it. \nIf you really want to become more independant then do more things either: alone or with friends(excluding her). Jusr dont spend as much time with her. If I were you I would brace myself for the end, but at the same time try to fix it. \nI know that sounds hard to do and I would most likely fail at it, but I do think it would be the thing to do.
650524
Try to sit him down and discuss your concerns with him. Try to make each other aware of your concerns without trying to make the other person guilty for them, and try to improve your communication dynamic. If you love each other, you will be able to work things out: try counseling, if you think you need some tips you can't develop on your own. Good luck, and best wishes.
315089
Well the more you love someone the more there is to argue about. You want to make sure the other person is safe and not doing something bad so you argue. What I think you should do is go out on more dates. And recendle that fire you guys seem to have lost. Do something that you have never done and never tough you would do. Good luck
265417
be patient and dont attack him when telling him\nlet him ease into the relationship at his own speed\nyou would want the same
1022620
If your partner pushes you past your comfort zone, then the relationship is one sided.  The other person is acting selfishly and it's not true love. You can never undo something once you've gone so far.  The next time you are with that person, they will continue to push the limits.  \n\nAs you mature, you will become stronger and wiser.  Set your boundaries and live by your rules.  You will gain respect with this.
627692
Real gives good advice.  Pushing him won't help anything, but if it doesn't happen naturally, in a reasonable amount of time, obviously he's not serious enough about you.  You don't want him to do it just because you forced him to.  You want HIM to want to do it.  Same goes for engagement/marriage.\nI would say that it could take up to six months before he is sure he wants to take it to the next level.  Depending on your age and how often you see each other.
873584
there are lots of ways to do it.\n1.) act flirtatiously but make sure you don't look cheap\n2.)be a good listener,this is one part of the relationship that most couples are taken for granted especially when they live together for a long period of time \n3.)be sensitive to your partners feelings,or needs\n4.)both partners has to learn to give and take \nand show each other some respect \n5.)both of you should learn how to be honest and\n    truthfull to each other\nfollow those steps and you'll be okay
428335
Be open, responsive, and willing to compromise. It isn't always easy, but if u can do this, your relationship will stay strong
24971
Well, personally, I think you can build a stronger marriage if you work on the issues that caused him to cheat and he works on the issues that cause you to no longer trust him.\n\nWhy make a decision right away.  Wait and see if he really means it and is willing to take his vows seriously, to actually love you and not just do a bunch of things to try to make you feel better for the short term.\n\nI believe you have a golden opportunity, an opportunity to build the marriage you really want with a husband who might be motivated to do the right thing.\n\nTime will tell if he's just trying to make up for it, or he really sees the light and wants to build a marriage that is mutually satisfying.\n\nYou don't have to decide today, you can sit back and watch to see if he is real or not.\n\nThen decide, he just might suprise you.\n\nPersonally, I'd set one boundary, another bout of cheating on his part and he's out on his backside...
331191
arguments are arguments. I've had many in my 6 years. The bigger person (stronger) needs to step up and patch things up...FAST! the last thing you want is a argument to carry on for too long. That will cause a ripple effect and cause serious damage to a relationship. After things are patched up be sure to 'talk' about it, that way that situation can be avoided. As long as the argument is not about cheating than you and him will be A-OK!!
255400
Talk about sex in your email and what you want to do to one another . Just be true to her and don't let your hormones ruin your relationship .\n\nAngel
622284
Say so up front...set the boundaries...\nSpend time doing things outside of being together\nfriendly - keep things single...and if you go out regularly go with lots of friends
1164885
A strong love relationship cannot be destroyed by anything or anyone, remember that.  Even if all odds are against you, your true love for each other will make your love prevail and thrive despite the test of time and space.  Just follow what your hearts dictate.  Live your lives the way both of you want to.  You are not accountable to anybody for what you do in your life, only to God and with that philosophy, you will never allow any circumstance or anybody to control your lives.\n\nDon't give up hope because for as long as you respect your own decisions, and believe in your hearts that you will happy with each other, you should continue loving each other for as long as it takes.  Your happiness depends on your strength to show the world that you alone have to decide for your own self and that they only have the right to advise or reprimand you but still the decision is yours to give no matter what it takes.
449847
Make sure his relationship is actually over.  Give yourself time to heal, and don't push yourself.  Some days will be harder than others.  Just do your best not to keep throwing it in his face.  It will be tempting, but counterproductive.  Good luck.
1014236
~~Talk to her about it, and tell her how it made you feel.  Communication is important in building a solid relationship. Sometimes out of anger people do things to make the other person angry as well.  That isn't an excuse for it to happen, that is just a fact that it happens.  Tell her how it made you feel, be honest with her, in a non-accusing manner, assuring her that you love her and want to make things right.~~
39670
Well, the only thing you can do is be yourself. you guys need to have some common ground and you both need to want to be in the relationship. please dont hold on to something that has already fled the coup. good luck!!