what should i do to forget the past 7 years?:(?
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suggestions:\n*wait 7 years more\n*amnesia\n*psychologist + hypnotism\n*priest\n*or just find love
120948
Realistically, you can't completely forget someone you used to love. At least, I can't. Everyone I've ever loved will always be a part of who I am. They are part of the influences in my life who have made me a better person. Even if they were horrible people, I've become better by the lessons learned. Don't try to forget...just open your heart to yourself and your own strength...and allow your life to "absorb" the hurt. Then the moving on will happen naturally, without the effort...and you will be a finer person for your experiences. (if you choose to be)
715883
Set your goals to only work one year if you do.  Jobs can suck you in and before you know it you've been there 5 years. From experience stay in school.  Your brain is still in that mode. When you get out you lose that school thought process. Apply for the school, the worst good happen is that you don't get accepted and you take another class to bring up your average and you apply again. Good luck
262299
First you have to spare time for studying and make sure  you understand everything before you skip into another chapter.Try to write what you remembered after you read without looking at your notes
129338
While it is to easy to succumb to the emotional anguish that is consuming you at this early stage you must put a few bricks up to get through it. Do not drive yourself insane with analizing the last five years. Enlist a support group, best friends, family etc. Go out to the movies, nothing romantic, just a good comedy, horror, action you get the point. Invite some friends over for a dinner party or skip the dinner and just party. Ask each of them to bring a new friend, someone you've never met. Meeting new people is a stimulant. Involve yourself in your favorite activities or hobbies to keep your mind occupied. Submerse yourself in some great books. Pamper yourself a little go on a shopping trip, but something fun and frivolous. Keeping busy is the best thing. Of course the nights will be the roughest. Go ahead and allow yourself to think about her if she comes to mind while you are trying to drift off to sleep. It is part of the healing process. Cry if need be, tears are the cleansing of our soul. Eventually the sorrow will subside. While I think it is important to surround yourself with good friends and meet new people just don't hook up with anyone. Five years is a long time to be with someone, you'll need to take a good year being single to rediscover who you are before enerting the dating game. Have fun, and remember it's ok to have your ups and downs. You'll be fine and who knows in the near future you may come to think the break up was a good thing, usually when one door closes it's because another is getting ready to open. Old cliche I know but it is so true.
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depends how fresh is your memory on the things you've learned. Chances are that you may need a refresher, so your best option would be to start all over. Otherwise if you can revise the material that's been taught to you sofar, you can resume your studies from the mid.
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stay busy. pick up a hobby or renew an old one. go to the gym. spend time with family and friends. watch movies. read books. but do not keep thinking about him. the only true way to forget is to let time pass by. you can only let time pass by if you spend time doing something else. \n\nand last but not least, learn to accept your loss. talk with a good friend about it. dont be afraid to reach out to a friend to talk. and if you dont have one to go to, find a therapist to help you. you cannot forget an ex all on your own.\n\nafter a while you will slowly forget him. but it takes time. good luck.
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Yes, come on! It's been 7 months! You said so yourself!\nInstead of thinking about a useless crap, why not hang out with your friends or something? Go to a bar, shop, party etc!\nYou'll see, you will forget him in no time and maybe find another one.
687321
well see the doctor but let me tell you the best thing you can do before hand and keep your memory in good shape buy a small notebook and keep an organizer in your purse and every time you have something in mind write it down, that way you wont forget and you keep your brain focused at all time, I already know that if you go to the doc they are going to give you pills and junk to make you think its going to work think about it, your 21 and your to young to have a problem I think you are not focusing on things, the notebook will refresh your brain and memory and after some time you will train your self to remember just give it time and don't forget to write your what to do list everyday, and little things like what people have said to you for your personal reference........ belive me Ive tried it and it works ............Dont stress out to much .........
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Do a little study every day and don't leave everything til the night before your tests.  Eat well and drink plenty of water.  It has been proved that memory gets better if you drink lots of pure water but don't drink sugary drinks or drinks with caffeine.  They might make you feel more awake but you will remember less.  Get into good habits now then it won't be hard when you are older.  Limit your time on the computer, game stations and TV and try to read at least one book a week.
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Remember there is a means to an end and remind yourself why you started school and what you have been working and studying so hard for.  If you've been in for several years, just realizing you're on the way "out" should help you refresh yourself for the end of this road.  Good luck and hang in there!
458653
The only thing i have to say is don't forget,move on, you can do hobbies and stuff. That could help you!
627104
I forget alot of things...no biggie...I will remember eventually...hopefully it won't be too late!)
676024
Make a scrapbook of all the things that you guys have been through over the past year. I did that for my boyfriend and he really loved it. It was great remembering all the stuff that we had done and now we have something to look at whenever we want to remember our first year together.
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We all change and develop over time.....you are not exactly the same person you were 5 years ago.  So don't expect to be.  It seems what you have is a little lack of confidence.....happens to all of us.  Just get back on the horse so to speak.....but do it in small doses......Do some of the things you used to do and build little successes.....get your rythm back.... in the process you will make new friends and you'll forget all about this period....
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It was like reading my own history. I completely bombed my credit in college and even now am still feeling the heat from it. This is what you need to do:\n\n1. Get  a copy of your credit report and take note of all the negative marks. You can usually get companies to take out negative marks on your credit report if you pay in full or set up some sort of payment plan.\n\n2. Consolidate your debt into a single payment. Do this by looking around for "debt consolidation loans" from your local banks or financial institutions. This way you can pay off all those debts and get your credit back on track.\n\n3. Prepare for a long haul. It takes 7 years for bad credit to come off your report. So be prepared to face the consequences of what's already happened. Don't cancel your credit cards that have no annual fees. Hold on to those because you may not be able to get new cards for a while.\n\n4. Pay your bills and rent on a timely basis for the rest of your life!\n\nI'm at the end of my 7 years and have seen my credit score go from 540 back up to 682 now and hopefully when this last black mark is off, I'll be back over 700!! yay! Good luck and remember there is always a light at the end of the tunnel!
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Keep using your mind, play memory games.\n\nAssociate between names, faces, objects, smell, feelings.\nTie-in your senses with the memory.\n\nYou can also try mnemonics, debeloping visual or verbal stories about waht your memorizing