Why does to-be-married guys think that it is okay to go to a strip joint for a bachelor party?
414873
b/c to them it's there last night of freedom with the "guys"
1066687
YEAH I'd go to the stripclub with my man. I don't see the big deal. He knows i can dance and naked is not a big deal but if he likes those chicks more than me i'm outta there!
708860
He l l no !!!!! They enjoy a little show and have some drinks and party it up - no sex - anyway Ithink most of those male strippers are gay.
755182
Vegas, baby! That is- 'Sin City' and marrying capital of the U.S.! You and your girlfriend will have a great time cruising the Strip and having hot and heavy sessions in the hotel. Something about Vegas makes people go wild. Not to mention- a TOP CHOICE place for having a bachelor party before the wedding. They have some of the best strippers in the nation working there. "What happens in Vegas... "
316117
you got it. Its a cultural thing. Its a sin to indulge in pre marital sex. for 18 or more years they are told its wrong to have sex before marriage. You cannot convince them over a few months to change such an instilled value. Unless they agree on their own. And don't you dare go on forcing yourself on them because its not your right to do so.
200863
Because they want to try to picture themselves with the man that proposed in about 20 yrs. because they want to make sure they dont marry the wrong man. Not to mention that marriage is a big commitment and you cant get out of it as easy as dumping someone.
9898
Because after getting a man or woman to provide them with all these thing, especially when they get all this without helping out in building up a relationship , they believe they can find some other fool to give them better. And alot of the time they are right. But check back with these pathetic souls a little later in life and you will find them lonely and alone. But they still end of with a substantial amount of money and security from the previous marriages. Not a bad gamble on they're part. I really think they plan it before they ever go on a date and smarten up guys, they DO. Just like when you were a teenager thinking about one day settlling down with someone and giving them everything, these leeches were planning on their first divorce and how much they're gonna get. The secret is to never give a girl or guy every thing they want unless they are truly giving you every thing YOU want and please guys (and girls) want more than to spoil a full grown eventually blown partner into telling you those faithful words.... I'm not happy. Make them WORK for your love to. Watch out
483201
Think of it this way.  There are good things you can enjoy only when your single.  On the other hand, there are some great things that you can only get when your married
500538
I dont mind at all. If a man has it in his mind to cheat, he will do it at the strip bar, sports bar, salad bar, potato bar, mini, bar, where ever he can. Now will he be more likely to do it in a strip bar, I think not, because a stripper is NOT gonna give you ANYTHING unless you come out of pocket and most men with a steady girlfriend, knows she has her eye on the funds lol.\n\nI like it when my man goes to the strip club. He gets himself all worked up and then comes home to me and we have mind blowing sex. And i didnt have to do much work lol.
1044076
I would as long as we both have fun then why not go just to hang out without any requirements to have sex.  People these days can't go and have a good time without wanting to get laid.
26890
Girl i agree with you. I've watched t.v and seen so many celebrity divorces and breakups like for example Brittany Spears and her first wedding lasted for like a day. You don't play with marriage like that you're telling god that you wanna spend the rest of your life with this person and then you see someone just say oops or i don't wanna be with him or her anymore we just did it because we were drunk or fun.(Las Vegas) I know that i am in love and i am engaged and getting married to my soulmate and he is my first. Now that's something you don't hear everyday. Slutty girls are makin it hard for the good girls because they make it so easy for guys cause they are so quick to spread their legs guys don't respect the good girls.
809033
I think you are slightly leading him on.  Why else would you go to a motel (or resort as you called it) except to have sex at some point?   He's going to go on this trip with you thinking you want to take it to the next level.  If you don't want to, then don't go and keep dating and doing date type stuff.
1028075
People should live their lives in a manner that they are comfortable with.  If someone chooses not to be married, that's fine.  Better to be alone than wish you were!
984804
because those guys pretend to be sensitive, have you seen the movie wedding crashers...thats a good way of putting it... they just wanna get laies and they will do about anything to get ther. but at weddings people get emotionly upset, cuz 1 of their friends is happy  and getting what they want..so they will look for someone to be happy with just for the night....ya c.\nsorry if that dnt help...haha
84702
Most people are just not content. Pain and simple. If a married guy looks your way and you catch him , he will someday cheat on you.
1145603
funny your asking this question i just had guest over for dinner and we were talking about the same thing,,if gay men would stop letting this stuff happen guys would have on other choice but to treat each other better. why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. so many gay men are lonely so they will do this stuff just to be with someone and get treated like garbage. all you have to do is just not give it up the minute you meet them. they will have no other choice but to chase you and work for the nana and maybe stick around abit.most guys want what they can't have
346491
Look, you knew he was going.  He married you didn't he?  That bachelor party was only one night.  He is going to spend the rest of his life with you.  I'm sure he loves you and you need to get that party out of your head, if not it will hurt your relationship.\nGood Luck!