GUY TROUBLE>>>PLEASE HELP ME..Wont cha?
403933
The only reason to take any kind of drug, stimulant or porentialy harmful substance is because you fully understand the risks and want to enjoy the sensation.  \nAs an alcoholic I feel qualified to say DON'T START DRINKING JUST TO IMPRESS SOMEONE.  To put it this way would you put on 200 pounds in weight IN CASE he likes fat chicks?  Of course not!  This is the same kind of things.\nI took up self harm (cutting my body with razor blades) just to get someone to notice me - it didn't work!  If he likes you then he likes you.  \nSmile, wear something nice, put on your best perfume and tell him ypu like him.  This is the bet way to do things.  It may seem a really scarey thing to do - I know it would scare the living @&*%! out of me to do it - but it is the best way.  \nGood luck!  I really hope he likes you - you seem to be a great person so DON'T CHANGE YOURSELF as he should like you for you and not for getting drunk!\nHope this makes sense to you - please think about what I have said!
254640
girl get with it ask him out write a note or ask in person contact me so i can give you more advice lost of luck
642616
It sounds like a tough situation.  If I were you I'd keep trying.  Just be prepared if he gives you an answer you don't want.  Have you given any thought to what you will do if he says he isn't into you like that?
721287
You said he talks to you when he has a problem - does that go both ways?  If it does, it should be okay to ask him for his number, in case you need to talk.  Then see where it goes.
643992
dont fight over a guy it doesnt worth it... wait and see which one of u got a chance. dont lose a friendship because of a guy!!!!
1140909
Well, the advice I would give to myself if I had this problem(which i have had before) is to go for it! Tell him in person that you likr him and you hope he likes you to. I have alot of guy friends and they all come to me for advice on girls. They all say they hate to get notes from someones best friend asking them out. They love girls who are brave enough to ask them themselves! And if he says no then at least you know and you can try to move on!! Keep in touch and tell me hoe it goes. sammie_robison@yahoo.com
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dont pay any mind 2 him....u should NEVER wairy bout a guy if they act like that. let him take a little time...if he TRUELY like u /or your friend he'll talk 2 u sooner then u think. good luck
1021561
ask him about his feelings UPFRONT...all he can say is yes or no and then you can stay or move on....good luck
844129
Approach him!  You are a woman, prove it and be the assertive one!  Who says a guy has to make the first move??  ;)
490133
Just be honest. And learn to let go if he doesnt respond. Being cool or being sexy doesnt help holding on to a man, you can just have one for some time. Honesty sure works.
351538
try to ignore him but not too much. dont show him that you badly need him coz this makes guys take u for granted.
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
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talk to him!!\nlet it all out
94106
Yeah, if he told your friend no, then he's going to say it again. But be persistent. Be nice to him and at least be friends. That way later, he can trust you and maybe go out with you. (Lol, I wish a girl would do that with me). So yeah, just hoping that helped.
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Don't say you're an idiot...I don't know you but I'm sure you are a nice girl...no one really is an expert or born knowing how to deal with relationship matters...for what is worth it sounds like you wish to have a REAL relationship...you mentioned that you guys had agreed on not having a relationship but see now you have feelings for him...and the longer you wait the more damaging you are doing to yourself(if he's not interested). Tell him how you feel about the situation.if he runs away then YOU'LL KNOW that he is not the right one..BUT DONT FOOL YOURSELF and hide your feelings...BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.
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Tell him not to rush into any kind of relationship with a guy, to give himself time to work and think things out.  Then just don't treat him any differently, keep being his friend and tell him that won't change.  It sounds like you are a good friend already, just keep at it.
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Drop him like a bad habit (which he is). Move on.  Move on.  Move on!