why r guys so shy can't they just ask u out?
397359
Because they're afraid to be judged infront of their "guy friends." \n\nGood luck!\n\nMichelle
354913
it makes us look to vulnerable, if we did ask a guy out; he can either take advantage of you; because he already knows you like him, or we have to face humiliation/rejection...i have gone up to a guy once, and made a fool out of myself, but hey, i have guts, and its no big deal...but i will give all guys props going up to girls! how can you take the pressure!!!
135133
shy guys are sexy...sometimes well if u had a gf it would be hard for u too talk to eachother or even go out so do not be shy
992706
some guys that are shy are the best guys to date. personally i would love it for a shy guy to ask me out
833793
why dont you try calling him? or when you do see him, take him aside and ask him whats up? he just may be too nervous to ask you out again and maybe thats whats holding him back..maybe you should be the one to ask him out...sometimes guys need a little pushing...or worse case, he likes you but not in a date kind of way..you need to be the forward one, take control of the situation,..good luck..
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I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think 15 to 16 is the average age most people start getting asked out, so it could be right around the corner for you! Just to be sure, take a quick once over inventory of yourself. Are you clean? Do you smell good? Are your clothes clean and your hair brushed and your teeth brushed? If those answers are yes then more than likely it not you, it's the guys being too shy. You could probably help them along by talking to a lot of people. This shows you are approachable and friendly and will make it easier for a guy not to worry about rejection. Have fun...the most exciting times of your life are about to happen!
730873
Shy guys won't make the move. Guys don't pick up on hints either. You could walk up, give him a kiss and he would still ask "What was that for"
711548
Heck no.  In this day and age women DO ask out men they are interested in. Also, if you don't let a man know that you are interested he may be too shy to ask you out.  Let him know how you feel - ask him out. But you have to understand that in asking a man out you may face disappointment if he says no.  If that happens just accept it and move on.
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haha yes, there's another guy out there like me! Yeah, he shows that he's interested. The thing with shy types are that a lot of the time, they won't start the conversation as readily, so you'll have to start it, but once they get more comfortable with you, it will get easier :)
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maybe he is shy \nor \nmaybe he doesn't know if you like him, so he doesn't want to ask in case you say no. boys are scared of rejection.\ntell him you like him or try asking him out, if you are brave enough that is.\ngood luck\n\nluv kby xx\n\n.
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He may be nervous or trying something different to get your attention! I am not a dude but I always hear that it takes alot for some guys to ask a girl out. Take it as a compliment.. he may think you've had every "come on" line in the book and he wants to stand out. Give the boy a chance!
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That all depends how you have been expressing yourself to him. A lot of guys can not pick up signals or they misinterperted signals from girls.\n\nMost people (espically guys) are afriad of rejection. If you know that he has feelings for you and you feel the same way for him and he's too chicken to ask you out, then you should make the first move or you both would be waiting for nothing to happen.....
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maybe they feel intimidated. go up and talk to them show them you are interested.believe me if you are so cool as you say you are, that shy pretty girl would melt in her shoes if you would only show interest
635316
just do it most guys r to shy to ask girls out.....but do it wen hes alone so his friends wont mess it up for u
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This guy probably really does like you but he most likely is afraid of being turned down. You can use the suttle approach and ask him out. Say something to him (privately) like: "If I say yes to a date, would you ask me out? If he says yes but doesn't follow through, respond by saying "well, go ahead! ask me out." It would of worked for me if I was given the chance.
428685
you guys dated so she knows you...just ask her if she wants to go out...why be shy?
909116
that could mean a million different things. i really liked this guy and he was so shy he wouldn't even talk to me. everytime i said something to him he would say a one word answer and then turn away, and he never looked at me. well, i never gave up, or took it as rejection - without annoying him - i jsut continued to talk to him every day, and finally about 3 weeks later he asked me out :]  shy guys rock :]\n\nso basically - since you dont know what it means, dont jump to conclusions. dont assume he likes you incase he doesnt.. but dont give up, keep being nice to him, and talking to him, maybe he'll finally come out of his shell