Is there such a thing as not being showy in a guy?  How do you know if he cares about you?
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Yes there is such a thing. Some people including women don't show there feelings. That doesn't mean that they aren't there, they just don't show them . You know if he cares by the way he treats you. If he is honest and you feel like you can trust him then that's a good sign. Also if he does little things for you without being told that means he thinks about you. That means he cares. If he blows you off or ignores you when you are around, then that probaly means he doesn't care. When people care about you they treat you with respect. Most guys just aren't in to telling you how they feel. If you still aren't sure, then just ask him. You will know by his response how he feels. Good Luck
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If you're in a trusting relationship, it all depends on expectations.  Obviously, he should respect you enough not to cheat, but if you let him know that you are uncomfortable with his actions, he should care enough about you to at least tone it down.  It's natural to admire people of the opposite (or same, if you swing that way) gender, but it's not okay to be overly gawking if you are in a commited relationship.  I always try to join in on the action by agreeing with him.  Is it enough to know at the end of the day that he's going home with you?
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You cannot...trust me.\nHowever,you can tell when he has put some or alot of dedication aside for you-if he chats/emails alot...if he responds on time/most of the time...and if he always checks to see if there are messages from you in his box.Those are some signs that means he cares for you somewhat-if he cares you will notice by the kind words in his message concerning you...words like-I love you,I miss you,I want to be with you so much,I want to make love to you,I think of you all day,I can't stop thinking of you...and the list goes on.True love comes with real experiences & time...you're in a virtual relationship(are you not?)...this does not count as true love...but may be the start of a beautiful relationship...which can lead to love.
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Im a guy, you know what i really dont know you that well and i really cant see you.. soo I really dont have that much option dont I? if the guy likes you, it doesnt matter what you wear what matters the most is whats in the guys heart.  If he's into looks trust me you dont need to wear flashy dresses, what matters the most is does he care for you?
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Just be yourself and if he doesn't pay attention to you, then it's his loss. Being someone that you're not to get a guy's attention is not a wise thing to do, because then he really doesn't like YOU.
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The problem with some guys is, they don't like to acknowledge the fact that they are in love and are in every way normal. Some of them prefer to be "discreet" about it - afraid that they might be the butt of jokes with their other guy friends and because of that, sometimes it's hard to read their feelings...\n\nBut sincerely, I can tell you that he likes you. But he just doesn't know how to show it. You can dump him, that's easier said than done. But if you choose to have a relationship with him, you have to ask yourself this question: will he change and perhaps show his love for you? Or will he remain the same, and mask his love behind his "cool-ness"? If you can answer that, you're done.
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As a guy, I can tell you that he may never notice!  Some guys just aren't good at reading that kind of thing, even if you think its blatently obvious.\n\nWait if you think you must, but you are better off telling him straight out how you feel.
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Has he been pursuing you regularly for sex? Does he spend most of his time at home with you or doing activities with you when he isn't at work? Has he started going to the gym more often and doesn't want you joining him? Does he get strange phone calls at odd times? Is he secretive? When you ask questions does he bite your head off in an attempt to thwart your conversation? Is he going out to clubs with the guys routinely?\nHave there been drastic changes in his demeanor and appearance?
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It's not that easy to tell since it varies from guy to guy, but generally if he's the cool, confident type, he'll be the one to tell u eventually. But if not then, u should be able to tell by the little things he does around you. (nervousness etc.) or how he'd make excuses just to spend some time w/ u (e.g. offer to carry your books, or walk u to ur classes etc.) But the surest way to know would definitely be in his eyes, just the simple way he looks at you, or how he turns away when you try and look at him. (usually when ur crushing heavily on somebody it's really hard to look them in the eye) But hey, even if this dsnt wrk, relax. Let him make the first move, enjoy life! No use worrying abt it. If he likes you, then he'll definitely make a move.
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for you to know whether a guy is interest in you or not, you can ask about the features he will like to see in his future wife or what he lookout for in ladies or women.\n\nAnd in answering this question if the qualities or features match yours know that he is interesting in you.  Because he might be trying to communicate that to you for a long time so given this chance he will not waste.\n\nI wish you the best in your love life.
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There are a lot of ways - you can tell him, sometimes it can be seen in the way you look at him. It is shown in how you listen when he talks to you, how you treat him when you are together...it can be seen in just about anything that you do.
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There is probably no clear way, as all people are different. some become shy, others flirty, some even become almost mean so that they dont blow their cover.\nIf you really think he has a little thing for you, try being really nice to him, encourage him (if you like him obviously) and see how he reacts. pretend you're picking off a piece of grass from his shirt, or tuck his shirt tag in and see what he does..the sense of touch is powerful. does he laugh at your jokes? does he pay attention when you speak? does he respond to your questions. \none way is also to ask friends.. but it all depends, some people might not like that. if you're brave, ask him, but you might feel bad if he says no. or maybe he will be too shy to admit it. but you should just try to get closer to him.. does he get nervous?\ni dont know how old you are but age also makes a difference to what you can do. see if he is eager to go out with you or your friends. become friends with his friends, and see what they tell you. guys don't talk about these things as much as girls do, but the friends usually know. and who knows maybe your guy is talkative. maybe he made a comment to your friends about your looks or how nice you are.\n\nin the end there is no surefire way, but there are always little hidden signs. but if you're interested in him, then remember that guys are shy too and you have to be nice to him and encourage him to come out with it. or be brave and do it yourself!!! Good luck!
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You don't, not really.  You have to go on feeling.  How does he act?  Do you ever wonder if he's telling you the truth?  Does he show signs of keeping things from you?  Do you always feel frustrated with him?  These are all signs of disloyalty.\n\nBut does he hold your hand for no reason?  Does he have a sweet smile on his face when you catch him looking at you?  Does he do cute little things for you just because?  These are signs of romance.  It's your call.  If you are having some problems but it still feels right then you might have the real thing.\n\nGood luck!!!
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you can tell from body language mainly, like if his body is facing u even tho ur not talkin, side glances at u, alot smiling. normally theres alot of suggestive body language that tells u. he might try to impress u, by subconiously posing in a mascline way, by either strutin or making out there strong, or possiably showin off to get ur attention, be it play fightin with a mate or summit.
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A good guys will show he is interested, first of all, by smiling at you.  If you don't normally talk to him, and suddenly he contacts you one day, and keeps at it, then you can be pretty sure that he is interested in you, especially if you notice that you are the only one who gets this treatment from him.  He will compliment you, likely often.\n  \nRemember, good guys are frequently shy, so if you think you might be interested back, don't be afriad to help him along a bit.  And if you are not interested, try to make it clear in friendly conversation that your not intersted.
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I agree with the cute ghosty. Guys need you to be obvious. They don't do subtle. Sometimes you have to be obvious many times before they get it.
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you can't you have to listen to your heart\n\nbut a good way to tell is by his reactions whether he seems truly interested with the things you do and if he has changed on the inside.\n\nit sounds like he's avoiding you but he really could just be fishing maybe he feels like you're not really interested guys can be sentimental