my sisters boyfriend is a problem?
401643
Is he teasing you or calling you profane names? It really makes a difference. If he's calling you profane or horribly degrading names, tell a family member and ask for advice. If he's only teasing, talk to your sister and him about it. Get him to stop or completely ignore and avoid him.
821881
You are definitely not wrong. Sounds like your sister has some major issues and you have every right not to like her actions and attitude.
656451
I can understand your situation. The first thing to do is relax. What I would suggest is this:\n\nC.H. more than likely did something that he is not proud of.  That is probably why he is reluctant to tell you what he did.  You say that you want to drag it out of him but I think that is not the thing to do.  This is not something for you to get out of him...it is something that is his to give.  If you force him, he will only feel negatively toward you.  \nBasically, I would say to just give him some time and if he wants to, he will tell you.  If not, just remember that it is between him, his sister and his parents. \n\nHope this helps, \n\nNiels
157154
I'm not sure I understand...\nIs it the fact that he uses you as a sounding board about his sister that bugs you, or is it the fact that she can get away with things that you cant and he'll still love her?\nRealize that for a lot of people are trained as kids to put family first, and the fact that he cares so much about his sister (regardless of her behavior) says a lot about his character. He sounds like a good guy, and he's probably confused about why you are so upset.\nIf you want to not hear about her anymore, then ask him not to talk about her when you are together, or change the subject when he brings her up. \nYou may also want to figure out why you hate her so much...she doesnt seem to have done anything directly to you, has she?
830016
It appears you are madly in love with your bf, but try sitting down with your sister and listen to the pros and cons of her dissatisfaction. Your sister is family and whatever she says maybe for your own good and not for the benefit of your boyfriend. So don't jump to conclusions as you will end up in none-speaking terms with your sister.
1045756
well my sister is married to a man i hate...he is a no good drunken ************* ************ ************** ************ ***************** **************, but i just keep my mouth shut because she wants to make it work.......so i would say just be there for her always and keep your opinions to yourself...that is what she and i do for eachother.....she don't tell me sh*t and i don't tell her sh*t...seems to work out just better this way!
363922
you are 16 and he is 13...you are still both babies but your sister and friends are jealous.  why can't they be happy for you?  you know your boyfriend's boys are high fiving him every time they see you with him...ignore what other people say and get used to it, it doesn't stop when you get older, believe me.
989798
I don't particularly like my sister's husband and to begin with I really couldn't stand him and I hated the way he behaved and treated my sister. But I just try to tolerate him as much as I can. I don't want to hurt my sister by avoiding him or making my opinion of him too obvious. I love her and if this is what she chose for a husband I'll just have to accept that and try to get used to him.
128092
it would have been easier if she was a friend or something you could have ignored her completely\nbut as your own lil' sister has a crush on your boyfriend it can get a lil' complicated\nfirst ask her(nicely) if she likes your guy\nit could be she jus likes him as a guy whom you going around with not the kind who she wants to go around with (you getting it)\nif she like likes him then sit and explain it to her (again nicely) that he is your guy and you like him a lot and you like her too and over a guy you don wanna loose a sister \nhave a talk explain it to her that he is your territory and she should find some one else for herself
99431
just be there for her and make sure she knows she is not alone she needs to see good in herself and a good friend usually can help i used to be that way untill i found a few really good friends that showed me i belong and i was important i fit in and from then on there was no stopping me of course i still see alot i don't like about myself but i see alot i do like now too your boyfriend should apriciate the fact that you want to help his sis besides if things get real serious in your relatinship it is good to be friends with his family just talk to your boyfriend and don't blow him off but he should understand somtimes a girls night out is what is needed be honest and open all of this could bring you closer together
939668
Stop listening to your sister and start trusting your own judgement.  If your man is true to you, you'll know it by his own actions.  If you have too many opportunities to be unsure of what he says, that gut feeling is probably right, and if you get to that point, you don't need proof, you just move on.  Someone who makes you wonder repeatedly, isn't giving you what a relationship is supposed to be about. If you have no reason to doubt him, you'll feel that too.  Stay in touch with your sister, but if she's an instigator and frequently negative, tell her you don't want to hear that stuff and if she continues with it, hang up.  You only get one family.  Don't shut your sister out but just don't buy into gossip or games, and learn to trust in your own judgement.  It's usually the best guide.
894820
This guy sounds like a typical control freak. However, your sister is getting something she needs out of this relationship. If she wasn't...she would have left. The bad news is she sounds like she likes to be controlled...even just a little. It must be hard for your family to sit on the sidelines, and watch your sister go on this crazy roller coaster ride. The decision is hers to make. The only thing you and your family can do is wait for the outcome. \n\n*Do you want me to send Vinny over and take care of him?
1147488
In your heart of hearts, you know whether or not he is trouble.  If he is trouble, then try to be strong and walk away.  But if sis is being a jealous rival and you know for a fact he is a good guy, go for it!
1050422
Wow what a whore! Unfortunately sweetie when your that much of a whore  (Which she clearly is) you don't care what people say or do to you. She's a low life, and a loser. I feel bad for your sister but her man doesn't deserve her. She's way too good for him. My idea is this, just gather all the ladies who's man cheated on them because of the whore and just tell them who's at fault once they find out one person is the cause of there problem then all hell will break loose.
1014352
Your sister husband needs to step up to the plate and not leave this to her,  he playing it safe , the dad needs to grow up but if that does not happen maybe you could help, don't sit back and wait for it to get bad as it will, trust me already been there is there another male figure that he will look up too? dad would really set him straight but try another male or church youth minister
625118
Let her make a fool out of herself and then tease her about the foolish stunt relentlessly.  For years.\n\nLet your boyfriend in on the joke right away.\n\nDon't be afraid this will backfire on you.  If your boyfriend is turned on by your sister and YOU wind up alone, you are the luckiest girl in the world.  Really.
446382
I think you need to stay away from him and also be a bit careful around your sister too...