well wat if my guy friend does have feelins for this other gurl?
414528
Let him know your interested if you haven't, so he knows his options.  Don't try to be better then this girl. You are who you are, if he likes you for you, then great. If he likes the other girl, thats something you can't help.  But if he doesn't like you, he's not the right guy, move on cuz theres so many guys out there. he's not the only one.
479659
Does the guy know how your best friend feels about him? If he does, he's made his choice.\n\nTry to put yourself in your friend's shoes, and give her some time to cool off. If the roles were reversed, you might be upset for a while too, even if she'd checked with you first. Meanwhile, do you know another guy you can introduce her to?
238260
Don't go there, honey. She may THINK she feels that you two should be together, but I guarantee you, it's not going to end up that way. Stay friends, and leave it at that, at least if you value your friendship. Now, if they were only together briefly and she had no real feelings for him, maybe you should go there. Otherwise, steer clear. Trust your gut on this one.
121172
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
262650
then how about asking your friend to help you out....? you could ask her to try to jokingly ask him about being with you or how he feels about you? its better if you get a guy to ask about it because usually guys then to answer more honestly to the same sex....
900455
well i think you should pull her over and just tell her how you feel.say that you really lyk this guy and you would really appreciate it if she would give u a chance too
302651
Well my answer is simply this and that is if she thinks that you are just friends hanging out then that is all it is to her but if you let her know how you feel then that changes.Then she will either think about it and let you know if she feels the same or not but you have to let her know. True love might be passing you both by.
603971
Because typically guy-girl relationships, whether friends or more than friends, tend to include some sort of relevant or irrelevant attraction. Since you know they were together at some point before, its natural to question whether there are still any elements of attraction there and that in itself threatens your relationship. If their relationship is strictly on a friends level, then they should both be open and willing to include you in conversations, nights out, etc... He should introduce you to her and make you feel comfortable around her if he really cares about your feelings.
266100
if you like him then respect his choose to be with the other girl but if you love him starting to be gain his best friend ( someone with talking about his deep problems) & then i wish you luck!
792071
If she likes the other guy, then yes give it a try. If she is only considering him because the other one is going away, then maybe not
719781
You need to decide who's more important--your friend or his ex. I realize that you're friends with both of them, but I'm assuming you've known your guy friend longer. \n\nIn that case, he's more important, I'd say. Tell him what's going on with this girl. Forget about her feelings; clearly she has no regard for anyone else's feelings, so why should give a sh*t about her's?
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
516520
Girl ive been there before. Its sucks. I know exactly how you must be feeling. This friend of yours is not a true friend. She knows you like this guy and if they get together seeing them together could hurt.\nIf you dump her, you'll look bad - like you let a guy come between you, but keeping her - you'll find yourselve questioning her loyalty to you often.\nBrave it out to keep your rep intact, but watch your back while she's still your friend because friends like her - definately dont remain friends.\n\nSorry about it. Look on the bright side though - another guy will come along one day and who knows? You might like him better than this guy and he might kiss the ground you walk on!! :))\n\nJust think positive always.\n\nGOODLUCK.
651416
be a friend and respect her feelings
82691
Yeah, he's worth being friends with. Put yourself in his shoes - who would you pay more attention to, her or him? I'm assuming you're a guy here.
1063941
Unfortunately for the two best friends that girl can not be forced into liking either one of them if she doesn't, you're gonna have to let them move on. As for helping the girl hook up with the other guy, if you dont have a problem helping her than go for it.....i hope everything works out
196364
Ask yourself a question. Are you jealous of the crush she has on this guy?  Or is it that you are jealous of the relationship you have with her?  It's hard to share sometimes, isn't it?