If u feel ignored by some people despite being a nice person, what do you do?
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i suffer from the same problem. racism and narrowmindedness is an uncivilized behavior but you cant generalize it. for example in my work i meet doezens of americans, all of them are nice, but i met a couple of stupid blowhards who were in a mission in egypt, the guy would wave to egyptians and say "hi johnny", and his mate would laugh loudly and disgustingly snort while laughing. in addition, sometimes at work i say good morning to an american lady and she wouldnt say good morning back, and i say it loud enough not to assumme that she didnt hear me. \nyou know what, what matters is what you do. treat people the way you think is right, not the way they treat you.
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If you feel depressed, talk to someone that you like and trust.  Don't hold it in and feel that you are alone and no one cares.  There are people that care and that person might just be looking to help someone like you.
328543
Be yourself, but even nicer.  Smile at people you pass by, be pleasant, don't gossip or talk behind other people's backs, and help people when they need it.  You'll be okay, your question makes you sound very sweet.
154324
I once heard that if you think someone doesn't like you, they probably won't, anyway they aren't worth your time and energy.  You sound like a very special and intelligent person which deserves better.  Having one close friend, family member or mentor is as important or even more important than being "popular" or "accepted" in a large group.  Love yourself, you are the last person you need to fear since you know yourself better than anyone else.  Reasearch "mentoring agencies" in your area or "warm lines" to connect with people that will appreciate you for your valuable contributions to our society.  OUR SOCIETY NEEDS YOU a whole lot more than the "cliques" you feel you are being "ostracized" from.  Thank you and keep your chin up, literally, since confidence in yourself is the only acceptence you really need.
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Yes. What goes around comes around. When I was a cashier if people were unpleasant to me I would be unpleasent back. But if they were nice I was always nice to them. I always try to be positive and usually people respond by being nice to me.
654560
There could be any number of reasons why your "friends" are ignoring you. But I'll try one answer that is obvious and that is they may not be true friends. Be open to the idea that you may need to accept new aquaintances into your life and that they could become newer and perhaps better friends than what you have now. As we get older, our needs change, maybe it's just a case of you becoming a better and more mature person.
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Yea..unfortunately i know exactly how you feel. I think most people feel this way at one point or another. It's a terribly easy slump to get into, but now that you are fed up with it start making some changes. Start practicing saying no to people sometimes and giving yourself a littlle time for yourself. It's hard to be a good friend or partner to anyone if your all used up. Unfortunately though it's easy to get into a pattern of just saying ok and going with everyone else's flow! Think of things you enjoy doing and set aside some time to do them... it will go a long way in helping you get back some energy and re-centering yourself. Good Luck and lotsa luv!
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You've gotta psyche yourself out...don't give a damn about what anyone else around you is thinking.Learn how to accept rejection...invite it if you have to.Sometimes it pays to be an arrogant,conceited prick(only once in a great while to boost up your ego).No fear man!
625954
There's not much you can do, you either have it, or you don't.  Don't try to be something you're not, just be yourself and you will be cool to those who care about you.
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People do this, judge people ya know, but all you can do is be yourself and I know it's hard feeling like no one likes you but remember you are special just like everyone else and if they don't like you for who you are then there just missing out on a good friend..speak up and try talking with them about stuff if that doesn't work then just keep being yourself and be strong..pray about it
1035160
Yes I feel like evryone always ignores me
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By being yourself! Try random acts of kindness...
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Just be yourself and eventually someone will appreciate that and talk back.  If not screw em.
1038866
Be more considerate of others. When people care about others it spreads and affects everything around them.
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because they are shallow i bet you are a fun an nice person but some people are raised to think they are better than every one else. i know how you feel i am alone my self its not a good feeling not to have any friends you can talk too.
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If someone doesn't like you, there isn't much you can do. There are plenty of other people, dont waste your time on one that doesnt like you.
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be the best person you can be if they don't like well they don't know you, wait till then