how to tell him that i want to know if he is seriouse about me and if he will marry me?
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I would watch what he does- not what he says. Does he have a steady job?\nSave $$$\nTalk about the future...(with you)?\nDoes he like his mother???\nGood signs\n\nDoes he work (steady)?\nDoes he spend all his $$ on big ticket items (for himself)?\nHave you been going out 3 + years with no mention of the future??\n\nBad signs
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Don't start dropping hints all the time. If you do that he'll prob. just get annoyed or freaked out. Instead, why don't you tell him you need to talk about something and explain how you feel to him. See what he has to say, and take it from there.\nIf you want to marry this man you should be able to have conversations like this, and he will respect you more for being straight forward with him instead of playing games and dropping poorly veiled hints all of the time.\nAfter you talk about it, do not hound him all of the time about it either.
337958
Time will come until he/she realize that you really care for him/her. Like being respectable and honest. Show that he/she's really impotant and meaningful to your life.
548527
Just wait, dont rush.. He will tell you when he's ready and sure about his feelings..
774641
if he talks about you non stop and always together and when your not hes driving his friends crazy about you.I doubt theres anyone else.If friends say hes going to ask u to marry him maybe his actions u are talking about because maybe hes nervous to ask you or maybe he thinks you will say no.Thats probaly the change you are referring to.If you have questions talk to him about his actions and ur concerns
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There is no way to MAKE him propose to you. If he is not ready, then you should not make him ask you because it will end in heartbreak, no doubt about it. You can let him know you are ready by telling him, so he can think about it on his own terms. When, and if, he is ready, he will ask. Do NOT do anything that makes him feel guilty or make him think he has to or else (unless you honestly consider it worth the risk to lose him, then you can give him that ultimatum). \n\nRemember, this is not just about you. He is also apart of this. He needs to be comfortable and happy with asking you, and this is something he will so when and if he is ready. Have you two already talked about getting married? If so, then its a matter of time. Maybe he is saving up to buy the ring, or waiting for a special time. If you have not discussed it already, bring it up. Ask him if he wants to marry you someday (don't put a time limit on it just yet) or if he can picture a future with you. If he says yes, maybe over time discuss it more. If he is not sure, give him time. Let him know you love him and would love to spend your life with him, but you understand he needs his time. Never rush him, since he may do it to make you happy, but later call off the whole wedding because he is terrified and not really ready. What would you prefer, waiting to get engaged later and him being completely ready for the commitment or asking now and calling it off months later, ruining your whole relationship just because he felt rushed?
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I think there are several ways:\n1) by how often he calls you\n2) if his friends know about you (as his gf)\n3) if he has introduced you to his parents\n4) if you have met his friends\n5) if when you ask for things, he doesn't think too hard about helping you out (unless it's something crazy)\n\nI think those are some easy ways to tell if a guy is serious about you or if he is just messing around.
960553
You should treat everyone with respect. \n\nYou may not be ready for marriage yet, but he may be.  Have you considered whether he might be the right husband for you?\n\nIf you decide he is, don't let him get away.
1107896
You just need to straight up ask him where the relationship's going.  If he has no intention of getting married why waste your time trying to wear him down?
12941
take him out to some place that he love's and ask him first does he have any idea what it is (if not explain )after you have asked him. if he say's yes then tell him in a way that is calm and understanding to him and wait for his respond
113905
tell him up front and honest about it
134959
the fact... Time will tell (surely, its sad that this is true)\n\nWomen, are believed to have 6th sense. you go with it, you will find out if he is serious or not.\n\nUsualy: A man, who is serious to himself (I mean his career/life), sure will not let her love/life drag his life down.
337251
Well, let me tell U all U need to do: U need to accept he's not taking U for serious, I guess he only wants U to make a few moves and that's it.\nThe guy who really takes care about U and really appreciates U is gonna call always, and it's gonna be available for U and he'll try to make U happy and to know that U're more than an object and U deserve the best things.\nSee, I don't want to judge U, but have U thought that maybe U have done some things to make him think he can play with U??
428859
Trust the guy himself.  He can tell you & more importantly, show you he truly cares for you by his daily actions of respect, attentiveness, etc.
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whether my boyfriend will ask me to marry him..?
461966
Maybe this would be a good time for one of those "Where are we going with this relationship talks." Obviously you have plans for a future with this guy. Take some time to have a one-on-one with your fella about his plans for the future. Maybe he wants to be in a certain place in life before he makes the commitment to you, or perhaps his plans aren't quite the same as yours, OR he could just not know that you want to marry him. \n\nWhen you do talk to him, remember that it could be a bit of a touchy subject with him... don't make a big deal about it, but make sure that you two have some time alone that sufficient to have this conversation. Also, try your best to avoid sentences that start with "You..." these can be interpretted as accusations. Another thing you should try to avoid are the words "always" and "never".\n\nGood luck, and I wish best for you and your boyfriend.
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Please be very careful, what you may read in or hear, isn't what you may get. Online words, are just words. How do you know you can trust this person, they already know what you desire, or what you want just from chatting with you, the person could be saying all things that you want to see and hear but it may not be real. Just don't jump to fast, marriage is a big step, a commitment. Please slow down and have him slow, for both parties to make sure this is what you really want. I wish you luck and happiness.