my hubby has been to strip clubs. would my learning how to do that turn him on or just be a comparasion?
405677
i say f**k strippers...
394454
Well if I am dancing with him then obviosuly there is some interest there,and it happens from time to time, and with the right guy it can be an extreme turn on and a form of foreplay :)
106541
i would probably find a way to work through it.  watch a flick with him so that he could probably get some tips on how to do it right, or just show him what you like, or the two of you could have an open discussion on getting more fire in the bedroom...
496839
Might be for just the guys but here's an idea that my b/f at the time liked....Take him to a nudie bar and tell all the gals there that it is his birthday and to treat him right...Give him a personal lap dance and wear NO panties and a short skirt...Then ask the manager beforehand if you can dance on stage for your b/f and really give him a show...The manager at the place I went said sure and weven let me select from the costumes backstage...Don't forget to get your money from the reat of the customers but be nice and give it to the girl who's place you just took.  Be sure to have plenty of dollar bills for your guy top pass out...\n     Or if you are too shy for that...Take him to a xxx store and tell him to pick out any xxx rated video and that you will do anything that is done in the video...Mine REALLY liked that...\n     Sexy things to say?   U wanna see me dance with one of the girls?\n     I've never tried that but if it's in the video...SURE !!!
500538
I dont mind at all. If a man has it in his mind to cheat, he will do it at the strip bar, sports bar, salad bar, potato bar, mini, bar, where ever he can. Now will he be more likely to do it in a strip bar, I think not, because a stripper is NOT gonna give you ANYTHING unless you come out of pocket and most men with a steady girlfriend, knows she has her eye on the funds lol.\n\nI like it when my man goes to the strip club. He gets himself all worked up and then comes home to me and we have mind blowing sex. And i didnt have to do much work lol.
555366
For both of them....if it turns him on more, don't you benefit. Put it on for your man and quit worrying!!
762666
can u teach my hubby????????
1139649
Prepare him for it let him know you want to try something new. We like new things. Don't go crazy at first and take it as far as you want. Truth is he'll probably like it that you can get dirty.
341610
I was a bartender in a strip club. Be careful, that lifestyle can get crazy real fast. I have seen good girls go bad bc of that world. Will there be drugs? Yes. Will men offer you the world to sleep with you or do other things with you? Yes. Will people try to take advantage of you if you are not a strong person?? Yes. Will you wake up one morning and regret something you did the night before? Yes> Will you get addicted to the money?? Yes Will the owners and mangers act and swear that they care about you?? Yes Do they really NO!!!!\n\nIf you think you can handle this world..then go for it. But would I recommend this world NO!!! I use to think it wasn't bad but it is. Girls who dance have some deep inner issue. And the men are pigs. They are married with kids and they will be the first ones to buy a lap dance from you and offer you $$$ to give them a hand job or a BJ.   Don't think the security guards will protect you. A lot of girls were man-hanlded in the lap room. \n\nThat world is dark. it's tempting, but it's a dark place.
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I used to be a stripper and bar manager, so I understand where your feelings are coming from, I had to deal with a lot of insecure wives and gf's in that place. But if it is a clean and decent club. Then I assure you, you have nothing to worry about. Strippers are just working people too, some people do it with their clothes on others with no clothes. Most adult entertainers are there to work to raise kids, go to college or just to pay bills. I agree there are some out there who do other things to make money and that's what give's strippers a bad name in general. I used to host couples nights on Saturday nights just so the wives and gf's could come in and see what goes on there. So what if a man get's a lap dance. It's just a dance and most laws state that dancers have to have a certain amount of space between them and the customer. It's all in fun that's why it is called Adult Entertainment. If you want to message me and ask me more about it I will do my best to answer all of your questions about it. But I am sure that you have nothing to worry about by your man going to the strip club. Hope this answer helps from someone in the profession.
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Look at it as entertainment, not a duty. Spice it up some. Be creative. Buy some sexy lingerie (and spring it on him unannounced). Buy something he'll like, not something you would like. If you didn't know it, men are visual where sex is concerned, and a long penoir will not take the place of a see thru baby doll or some such. Toy with the idea of the outfit and the surprise aspect and it might notch up that warm and tickley feeling to where you want it to be. Think about sex - a lot - and the adventures you could have. If you love the man, that oughta do it.
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Yes, I would.\n\nIf he was serious about it, it's not my job as his partner to rule his life. It wouldn't make me notably uncomfortable. The only thing that would make me hesitate is if he didn't ever want me to come see him perform. I think it would be fun to watch him now and then and, as long as this new activity isn't shutting me out entirely, I'd be happy to let him take his gear off and get down.\n\nI'd want to know all the details, of course. A club for men? Women? Couples? Bachelorette parties?\n\nHe would also be expected to take me out to dinner once in a while, but that would be true even if he wasn't stripping.
262551
strip. show him the goods. touch him.
1026269
Oh hell no dude you are so misinformed guys give lap dances all the time and I;'m not talking about at strip clubs (gross) my friend got 4 dances at her graduation party half were just silly the other half were hella hott.  I was in Miami at a club and there was this really hot guy there and I asked him for a lap dance and oh wow he totally turned me on I had never gotten so turned on before in my life I swear I almost came on myself.
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TALK TO HIM!!!!\n\nthe only person who can help you with that is your husband.  COMMUNICATION is the key to a relationship.\n\nDo not cheat on him, it's not worth it.\n\nIf all else fails, put on some lingerie...and do a little strip tease for him, he'll come around.
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I went with my husband several times to strip clubs in an effort to try and fix some of our intimacy problems.  I even bought him a lap dance one time.  However, afterwards, it doesn't make me feel good or cool or sexy, even thought it might make him feel that way about  me.  How you feel about you is more important.  After a strip club, part of me really hates him for not wanting to just explore with me.  I keep trying to tell myself that I should just go with the flow.  That men look at women like women look at shoes...but it never seems to make me feel any better.  Before you go, remember that you can never erase that memory once it's there.  On the other hand, at least you know who your husband really is and what he really wants.  Yes, you'll be the coolest wife in the world (like me), but then soon his affection towards you over it becomes empty.  My girlfriend is so jealous that my husband is so affectionate with me...but his affection doesn't make me feel cared about by him anymore.
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where to start - first of all we need to have one on one time, no phones, no tv, no kids.  I'de dress up in kinky clothes and greet him (garter, stockings, high heels, lacy bra) serve him like i'm a waitress, conduct a lap dance.  Next i would take that mars bar off the counter and play withmyself with it. Eventually letting me taste it on his penis after he has *ucked me - so now you know what I was doing when i was playing iwth myself!\nhmmm i think this weekend ill turn that fantasy into reality, well may not the whole weekend, but a few hours of fun