Why cant I have an orgasm during sex?
413843
Be honest with your partner. You're only fooling yourself. Not every woman can have an orgasm through vaginal penetration. There are many other ways to help orgasm. If it's harder for you to reach orgasm, you and your partner should spend more time on you before penetration. And here's a thought, masturbate WITH him. Guarantee you'll have one that way. If not, you'll sure have fun trying.\n Betcha he won't mind either. Come clean now before it gets too deep.
962393
probably because of the sudden rush of blood flow due to orgasm in your body\n\nBut may also be due to improper methods of cleansing..
694186
Sounds like it has been stretched out from over use. Slow down. Try less partners. Use pelvic exercises to strengthen the muscles. Most of the time the female orgasm is reached from the exterior stimulation anyway. Focus more on this and less on the actual intercourse.  F1sTing is always an option! Let me know if I can help!
844949
I don't think its because you had a baby two yrs ago, but I don't know I'm not a doctor. maybe you should ask your doctor. but before doing that lets ask you this. when your having sex do you get on top most women that do have orgasms by riding him? or when hes on top most men do it the 'norm" in and out what most guys don't do is side to side moving there hips to the right to the left they just go back in forth in and out. tell him to move his hips side to side to right then to the left when a man does it like that it gives most women the best orgasms. and if that don't work try playing with yourself and buy some k-y jelly you can buy that at targets, Wall-marts its usually were they sell KO-TeX to let papers,powders etc...if still nothing ask your doctor it could be Hermon's
142866
I aswered this one already, but we do have orgasms just not like men. When you have one you will know it.
813051
Why can't you have an orgasm with him?  Is it something he is doing or not doing?  In that case tell him.  If not, maybe it is in your head.
279607
My understanding is that, yes, homosexuals have orgasms when they have sex with each other.  If they're doing it right, anyway.  If they aren't very good at sex, then they might not have orgasms.
405214
It's not bad, it's natural. Your orgasm depends largely on your state of mind and the feelings in your heart. Of course, with practice, it becomes easier to climax, but if your heart isn't in it, or if you are stressing, it's not likely to happen. So relax, enjoy the sex, and try not to worry about whether or not you're climaxing - that way you're much more likely to reach orgasm!\n\np.s. a good technique is to be on top, and to have you or your partner rub your clitoris as you have sex. have fun!
520753
Well sometimes, when you and your lover are getting really hot and nasty, it just feels like the right time to do it!! When you've got baby-oiled up or whatever!! LOL!! \n\nOf course, you have to be totally relaxed and I found that rubbing my clit or getting him to do it (whilst he's in there)makes the whole thing much more pleasurable!\n\nIt's not something I want to do all the time, but now and again, hell why not!! When it comes to what makes a women come, we are all different. And not only that, but what may make me orgasm one week, might not work for me the next!!
331518
The more intercourse you have the better you get at things. If there comes a time where you are about to orgasm, pull it out and place your thumb over the head. It sometimes works. Have you tried foreplay first? Give that a go as well. Sometimes that makes you orgasm sooner than expected as well but if all fails there is always viagra.  It could come down to yourself being too eager as well. Take things slow and in time you will get better at it. All the best and hope you find the right solution to your problem.
691634
Some find it easier than others, but beats me why..... some cases it could be the partner isn't stimulating the right bit... other cases it could be the woman is too tensed up wanting it to c*m, in which case try relax.... forget about trying to c*m, enjoy & lose yourself in the sensations of being stimulated, and just let it c*m when it's ready (though trying to hold it back longer just as it feels like it's gonna blow can be a pretty good trick to make it feel bigger when it does).\nOther cases it could just be weak muscles down there, in which case give this a whirl: http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/Spa/4502/vagex.html 0:-)
83440
well it could be because you are nervous, some women may have the sooner than others some only require physical touch others require mental stimulation.\nif you are with your partner experiment or don't be afraid to tell him or her (if that's your case) what to do what feels good  or where to go. there are many reasons, if you cant with your partner try exploring with your self first then make suggestions  based on the things you tried while alone.\n\nthe main thing is be comfortable and relaxed.\nI dont want to go to deep into it here, if you like to hear more e-mail me \nmy e-mail addres is \n\ndj-roland808@hotmail.com\n\nif you have messenger aol msn or yahooo also let me know can add you and speak live
1118458
I've done a bit of reading on this subject because I was with a girl who had the exact opposite problem.  The thing is this:  normally, it's the other way around.  Most women have difficulty having orgasms through intercourse alone without clitoral stimulation.  All the previous answers are good ones.  Vibrators can help because they don't get tired and fumbly like fingers do.  Another thing you can do is to try some lube so that the area isn't getting painful stimulation when you try it.  Finally, I will agree with a previous answer and say that the most important thing you can do is explore yourself and see what feels the best to you and what seems to work the best.  If clitoral stimulation isn't working, try vaginal stimulation, especially around the outermost parts, as they have the most nerve endings.  For most people, if you can orgasm at all you can orgasm during masturbation.  Just remember to relax and not concentrate TOO hard on "i have to get there, i have to get there".  Just lay back and relax and enjoy the sensations and it should happen eventually.
1001312
your lover should engage in lots of foreplay so that your vagina is fully aroused and wet.  If it takes you a long time to orgasm, ask your lover to go slowly.  If he does something that feels good, tell him.  \nUsing your own fingers can help too
494752
Those are two different things that have nothing to do with each other. Your body will naturally menstruate(period) when it's ready. Orgasms happen during sex, but they're not definitely going to happen for a woman. You have to learn about your body and your partner needs to know about your body as well.
691156
Beleve me...you'll know.  And if you doubt whether you did, you probably didn't. Get in touch with yourself!  What it feels like is something that can only be experienced. Even more amazing when you really love and appreciate your partner. There are no words on this planet for it...in fact an orgasm almost takes you to a different one.
740781
You being able to orgasm and pregnancy have nothing to do with each other.  \n\nYou can orgasm, you just haven't yet.  Sex isn't just pumping away, sex is the entire act.  Before, During, After.  An orgasm can happen at anytime in any of these stages.