Is it okay to have sex with more than one person even though your not married?
411042
Sure. Particullary at the same time.
582704
I believe in sex before marriage. I don't believe people should just sleep around though. If you've been with a person for awhile and truly loves them, I think it's ok to have sex.
75426
No way should you do this.  You two are a family with a child.  There is no reason to bring a 3rd person into your sex life.
261209
There is not a specific number that you would say that above it you had too many partners. In life we are all looking for the partner that we will share our life with and until we find that partner we get to know other people and create relationships. If what you mean though is the scenario of having more than one partner at the same time then i am saying that more than one partner is too many.
295098
Married or not if you have a commitment with someone you should not cheat. You should ask yourself if you are wanting to cheat on someone, why not just leave that person and let them move on to someone who cares for them. I consider cheating when you do anything intimately with another person other than your significant other. That could be holding hands, intercourse, kissing, and even sharing and in depth meaningful conversation. It is wrong because you are taking something sacred from your partner. People, I think cheat because they need some kinda of reassurance that they can attract someone other than they're partner. This is caused by low self esteem. If you are contemplating this don't hurt your partner for your own self gratification. ITS WRONG
51329
I think no one should be having a 3 some with anyone married unless it is okay with both the married partners. I dont think you should be friends anymore because your not a friend and you just broke that trust and bond that you had.
88322
No, it is definitely not ok to have sex if you are not married.  It can lead to all kinds of problem, not to mention diseases.  Oral sex is too far to go before marriage.
416371
No. \n\nIt is my belief that God wants us to be with one person only.  Besides, its hard enough to give of yourself to one person and still retain your own identity, let alone trying to give of yourself to multiple partners.  Someone is bound to lose out, and it will probably be your own identity that gets fractured.
367110
It was ok; I have done a few. Mostly with people I met online, couples. And I was mostly single; meeting other couples. Keeps the emotions out that way. It is a pretty shallow experience, really. Sex one on one or even alone is better, alot of distractions with more than two people and pressure to perform. I think allowing other people into your bedroom is avoiding the real underlying issue within the couple.I had a boyfriend once that was always pressuring me to do that it got to be a real turnoff and we are not together anymore. If you are a sex a holic and can handle it emotionally go for it. It just wasn't my thing.
132554
i think theres no wrong with that! sex only depends on the two people involve.
457800
I absolutely agree that waiting is the best!  I waited for my wedding night to have sex and my wife will never have to worry about me comparing her to another woman in my past or present.  \n\nI think someone that makes a commitment to waiting will ease the anxiety of their partner whether they made that decision as a virgin or after making the mistake of sleeping around.  IMO, the only healthy sexual relationship is a monogamous relationship in a marriage for life!  \n\nAnd the idea that sex with multiple people is "practice" for the "right one" is CRAP!  The connections you make with one person will be completely different that the connections you make with someone else, and to think that the same things that one person liked are the same as another person, is ludicrous and will probably just complicate the situation even more.  Why not get married and practice making love to the ONE person that you will get to know better than anyone else so you can enjoy each other for the rest of your lives without worrying about whether you were practicing the right things on your last lover!
672327
don't do that to a friend. There are plenty of ther people in the world for you to have sex with.
473621
People could be with multiple partners who are not infected with HIV.  You can't just get AIDS from having sex with more than one person.  It's all about knowing if you have HIV and getting tested if you are having sexual relations with more than one person (or even if you are just with one person, getting an HIV test wouldn't hurt).
1013995
OMG! You need to be married of right now! \n\nor\n\nIt's natural, everyone does it, if they don't they are lying or in denial. Not to mention it makes you feel better, and it's safer than having sex at this day and age, with all the STDs and pregnancies.
1124790
Sure.  It is pretty rare to do this now, but many years ago, most women and men dated several different people, until you decided that one was better than all the others.  If you watch old movies, you will often see a couple talk about whether to "go steady."  So there is lots of history for what you are doing.  All you owe your boyfriends is honesty, and you say they all know about each other.\n\nThe only warning I would give is with respect to STD's.  You don't say whether you are having sex with the various guys, but in these days of AIDS and less serious but still incurable diseases (like genital herpes), multiple partners is not all right, or at least it should not be all right.  If you are sleeping with different guys, presumably they are sleeping with different women.  That's just too dangerous to you and to them.  \n\nBut if you are just talking about hanging out, going to the movies, having dinner together and as the evening progresses engaging in a little lip lock (or a whole lot of lip lock) I say it is okay if they know about it.  Anything that does not involve the exchange of fluids other than saliva.
516253
Of course it's ok!\nas long as you are comfortable with it and take protection.\nIf you both are consenting adults, why not?\n\nBe careful though... sometimes those one night stands can develop feelings for one of the participants.  \nThat can make things ackward.
1182173
"Talking" to multiple people does not make one trashy.  SCREWING multiple people,  regardless if one is male or female,  makes them less than desireable.