im cool, sophisticated, laidback&good looking, why havent i eva had a girlfriend? im 26?
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Maybe you're like me - we just haven't reached what the girls called "maturity" yet. Or maybe you haven't got what you call "relationship material". I think the girls want these two points very importantly since they mean a lot to how their man acts for them.\n\nDon't worry about it - you're 26 - some don't even date until 30. Wait and see what the future brings for you. I'm only 20 but I'm taking it one step at a time.\n\nOne more thing: not having a girlfriend at 26 doesn't mean you're a LOSER. People who call you losers are losers themselves.
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Well HELLO Mister P! "Dated beneath you" maybe you are more conceited than you think, or just a lazy typer.  Assuming that you are honest to the best of your ability, any woman who gives you a chance will see the real you.
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you are insecure with who you are and validate it by hooking up.  or you don't like dating a lot...\n\nhave you tried being alone and figuring out what you like in yourself and others?  try it...
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I read your comments:\n\nI'm looking to date girls to get to know them and have fun, but I'm open to serious relationships, even to marriage.\n\nJulie, I have good manners, I'm good looking, I have good hygiene, and I'm a fun person but I have no success.\nWhat is that of trying too hard?\n\nI think that you need to display for self confidence and girls will notice you.
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why dont u find yourself first.  i mean, dont u just sit there and expect that a girl from heaven will fall in front of u.  give yourself a time to have fun.  most professionals are too busy to collect money.  that's not how it is.  yeah u are right...being alone is boring.  why dont u go out once in awhile.  but hey, 29 is not old.  dont rush buddy.  dont expect that love will find u if u are hiding.
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I think she loves your flamboyant personality and loves your honesty and the way your always there to listen and completely understands her. You are as real as they come and even though we havent met im sure we would get along. What do you mean you have a boyfriend?! I like you. I think you are sweet. Maybe your woman needs time to get to know you or meet you. Maybe you should send her a picture of you beautiful face.
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Unfortunately, it just is that way sometimes.  You have had some bad luck with women, but I don't think it's anything you do, per se.  Maybe it's the type of women you tend to fall for.  Are you attracted to women who are super-confident and assertive, almost to the point of bitchiness?  Do the women you date expect you to do whatever they tell you to?  I think it's nice that you are a sensitive, kind, poetry-writing kind of guy, but if asserting yourself in a relationship isn't your strong suit, you'll probably keep getting your heart broken over and over again.  Try dating outside our usual "type," and maybe you'll find a woman who will really love you for who you are and be faithful to you.  Good luck!
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First of all there is more to a women then her body. If you want a girlfriend you have to get up some nerve. By what you wrote, with you moving and all, I don't think now is a good time for you. Why don't you get moved, work on your self-esteem, and find someone in your new home town! There are beautiful women everywhere!
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being 27 and no date? Nothing to rave about\nbeing 27 and no MAN? Ask yourself why. Is it the type of man you want, or the type of girl you are. \n\nThink into that one. :)
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Your question worries me because I think you have some serious psycological issues.There is clearly something missing in your life and any girl will not make it better, even if one does, it would mean that you are forever dependent on her. You need to start accessind what makes you lonely and is it peer pressure that makes you want a girlfriend or what? Come on you are better than that! I have faith in you!
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Hey i'm 26, and dont have a g/f, but then no one advances towards me, and if they did as long as I find them attractive, I would make a move.  He does have an AA, so he did something.  He is just alittle lazy, but he can find a job with an AA degree.
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You sound like an intelligent person and fun to be with... but it would be wise if you get to know someone in person first BEFORE you open up an invitation to have a date with you, don't you agree??\n\nGuess it just goes to show that I'm from the 'old' school... Good luck in your search though!
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what do you not do? are you shy? do you get nervous around girls? are you looking in the right place?\n\nit can be so many things. first off, just chill. not every person is looking for a significant other. think about that too. you could be asking a person who had a bad experience with an ex, they are too busy to be dating other people, or something else.\n\nyou can't always find them and we all go through a sort of slump. try doing this. use your looks to your advantage. be cocky in a funny way.\nex:\nthem- wow! you are ruggedly handsome!\nu- nice try. too many people have tried to use that line on me and it doesn't work.\n\nto hit my main point, learn how to project your self-confidence to other people. that will help you on your quest to get dates. personality counts more than looks. you have looks to reinforce an attractive personality. good luck with finding a date.
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Don't know why that seems to be the case, but it is.  There are more immature, insecure young women in this world with self-esteem problems than those who are not.  But you probably have much higher standards than that anyway and you may have been saved from a fate worse than death.\n\nMany desirable women are looking for someone just like you to come along -- trust me on this.  Just keep livinig!
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It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.
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Maybe you're just a little more mature than others your age.  There's nothing wrong with being nice, but that's not enough.  You need to add some flare, like humor, or be like Napolean Dynamite and use a skill. haha.  But you get the idea, nice is just nice, you need to express more than that in your personality because the nicest guy in the world could be very boring or very exciting, it just depends on what else there is besides being nice.
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yes u are a gud looking man. pls dont be hurry. why dont u try me, i want also a serious relationship...email-me ok... shel