Is dancing with another guy inappropriate if you have a serious boyfriend?
396300
You know what it should not matter but it does. He doesn't like it and you guys need to talk about it. I personally like to dance with guys when i go out too. but if my boyfriend doesn't like i would stop it. it's not worth it.
409679
I love it when a guy comes up to me smiles, and ASKS.  Most of the time I dance with him. His skill as a dancer will lead to another dance.
830527
just because you are dating does not mean that you have to stop flirting. as long as your boyfriend knows that you are flirting and doesnt have a problem with it, then it is ok. If he doesnt, its not that its not okay, but maybe yo ushould tone it down when hes around. Dont stop being yourself because your friend wants you to.
54826
That's a great question.  It honestly depends on the commitment level.  If your upfront with both guys and saying I don't want to be tied down, we are in an open relationship thats ok.  But I f both guys are being committed to you that could hurt both of they, which will cause embarrasement and cause you to have no boyfriends.  Honestly, you should really decide which one you like better to spare feelings.  Because you wouldn't like it if someone where doing that to you.
948752
Okay; I'm gonna put this plain and simple.\n\nBreak up with your boyfriend, but not to go out with the other guy. Don't go out with either one of them. If you're having thoughts or feelings of attraction for someone other than your companion, you're not ready for a committed relationship. Sure; it's fine to go on dates with both of them occasionally, but don't steady-date either of them for now. Wait until your feelings remain constant for one individual; then if you think it's the right time, see if you can progress that relationship further. That's my opinion. Hope it helped.
58443
There's nothing wrong with that just don't get into anything serious (exspecialy if you have a boyfriend). Thanks for your answer to me!!!!!!!!
1036814
You don't have a problem, trust me, my boyfriend LOVES my feet, he wants to kiss them and see them... it's weird but cute.. and I like it. So dont think you have a problem.
910589
Young and Vibrant, only last so long. Do your thing, that keeps you alive. There's nothing wrong with going out dancing with family and friends. When two people get together, it shouldn't be where you dictate to one another. The age difference maybe, one of your issues. He has been there done that, 23 it's your stage to go through. LOVE does not trainee you, it sustains you,  when no one else will.  All we can do is truly LIVE for ourselves. Share Great Times with the ones who really LOVE You being You!
938407
Really hard to say. A lot depends on what's up with his girlfriend. Was she at the Dance? Did they break up? Did they show up with separate dates? Did they Dance together? it really depends on all that. You probably missed a great opportunity, you should have asked him for a dance that nite.  You should ask him what is going on with his girlfriend and go from there.
52592
Yes, I would.\n\nIf he was serious about it, it's not my job as his partner to rule his life. It wouldn't make me notably uncomfortable. The only thing that would make me hesitate is if he didn't ever want me to come see him perform. I think it would be fun to watch him now and then and, as long as this new activity isn't shutting me out entirely, I'd be happy to let him take his gear off and get down.\n\nI'd want to know all the details, of course. A club for men? Women? Couples? Bachelorette parties?\n\nHe would also be expected to take me out to dinner once in a while, but that would be true even if he wasn't stripping.
608478
You've already got a good head on your shoulders! You know what's right and wrong. There's no problem at all with you sharing a dance with a guy (As long as you remain vertical). I would answer in the exact way you already suggested - "Sure, but I am married". Let's him know up front that you're committed, and still allows you both to share the dance he asked for. Good luck!
1081773
Depends on if  you already have a bf.\n\nIf not, then spend whatever time amuses you.\n\nIf you already have a bf then just keep it to school, work... group get togethers etc.\n\nNo one on one "fun".  That is just disrespectful to your bf.\n\nSame as it would be if your bf wanted to go  out in private all the time with some other girl.
64854
if you really love your boyfriend that much, it shouldn't be an issue...do you want to ruin your relationship with him for this other guy who may not even want a relationship with you? He may just want something else, so you gotta really think if it's worth it. My boyfriend has been gone for 9 months and I'm still very much in love with him, and very faithful. I can't imagine losing him for some "crush"...I alwayz say if you want to cheat, you obviously don't want to be with the person you're with...cuz if you do, you wouldn't even think about cheating. Just tell that guy you have a boyfriend and you're not interested. if he keeps bothering you, don't hang around him anymore.
961407
I would tease him as much a possible. This may sound sleazy, but give him a lap dance in the privacy of the bedroom. My boyfriend went to a strip club and it upset me so much that I decided I would show him that I was better than any of those girls. Turns out, he will never go back. The best part is, it does drive him crazy because it's not something guys will expect their girlfriends to do. The best thing to do while giving him a lap dance is not to allow him to touch you. The fact that they can only look and not touch, will drive them wild.
1012482
ive done it (2 girls and a guy) and it was fun, but I would never do it with someone that I cared for. jealousy would get 2 much. I think uve got to have an incredibly strong relationship before you start throwing other people into the mix.
94220
Oh well, a compatability test.  Well, you should definately date him then...no wait, that doesn't make sense.\n\nLook, you are in a relationship.  You have to deal with that first, long distance or not...you have to respect yourself enough to honor that.  If you want to stay committed there can be no question of dating other people.  That should end the questions right there.  If you aren't sure about the long distance relationship, end it or stipulate that you are going to see other people.  Once you are there you can make a decision.  \n\nGoing on a date with your friend to see what happens does not commit you to him forever, but it can be cruel and encourage him.  It could also endyour friendship (wow, I just broke the guy-code and encouraged you to use the "I like you, but as a friend line".  I'll probably burn in guy-hell (which is probably a lot like ballet performed by drag queens) \n\nIf you don't feel like you are romantically interested in him you should tell him.  By the way, it is okay not to be in a relationship at all, if it comes to that.
741198
Right in what sense?\n\nIf you both are okay with having a physical/sexual relationship then what's the problem?  If he is currently dating someone, then you need to accept that you are going to be the 'other woman' and most people would consider that pretty slutty and unacceptable.  If you can live with that, then go for it.  If not, then don't.