What do you do when you're in love with someone you can't have?!?
397510
Leave it alone, you will find that same electricity from someone who is not married. The punishment for adultery's is inescapable. You will pay for it emotionally, spiritually, and maybe even physically.
1124902
Love is worth your life!! i would ask for a phone # or e-mail them but if they havent moved away yet tell him/her how you feel and if they are grossed out nor mad then you wont have to see them but if they love you back.....they'll try their hardest to make it work.
64320
Well first off, why do you need to forget them? If they are just an impossible goal, let them go by KNOWING that it wasn't meant to be, and that you WILL find that special someone for you. Destiny....that's what it'll be, and you'll know it when it happens.
230037
When you love that person so much it hurts and it drives you crazy that you think of them all the time. Remember: dont settle for the one you can live with but wait for the one you can't live without.
359452
you can't.  all in all, she'll love when she thinks she can.  The best you can do is continue to love her and be a friend.  One day she may see the gift she has in you and learn to love.  Whoever said it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all was obviously never really in love.  And obviously not with someone who didn't love him back.
1152658
i don't know what to tell you...this is a touchy situation...i understand the situation you are in because i have experienced similiar things....it's hard when you love someone and they act like that...you know deep down in your heart that sometimes it's best to go on with your life without this person and never look back....but it's so much easier to say then do.. you have to just take one day at a time and look at things and ask yourself...Is this what I want to go through for the rest of my life?  Weigh your options...look at the advantages of your relationship with him compared to the disadvantages of it...this is something nobody can tell you what to do...you have to not only follow your heart on this one but you have to consider what your mind says too...
577364
If you are still in love with him and there is no hope of patching things up. Give yourself time. It may take a while, but eventually things will get better. It's ok to still be in love with someone, but don't obsess about it. Live your life, and when you do find someone else, admire the different wonderful things they have to offer you and vice versa. Good luck!
98805
Ignore her friend and just focus on the one you love. You control your life. And whoever loves you can't do anything about it if you don't love them so just ignore them and focus on the one you really love. However, you can't also do anything about it if she also doesn't love you.
419685
I dont believe that you can fall in and out of love with someone, I feel that if you are really inlove with someone, your never going to want to leave them. your not going to love them today, and not tomorrow. so I say dont say anything to her, move on. Its not fair to put her though it over, and over again.
483152
I would suspect that if he doesn't know that you exist, then what you have is not love but affection, or perhaps infatuation.  that is okay, there is nothing wrong, but it is important to recognize the difference.  Regardless, there is but one thing you can do.  talk to him.  You must put the question in the light and let the dialogue lead you.  If you cannot do this, then you must recognize the crush for what it is, and regrettably move on.  Likely, there will be many more to consider and further oppurtunities to embrace.
1133710
just chill out and get some kind of life outside of him.... \n\ntrust me if you prfess your "undying love, and how head over heels you are" your just gonna scare him....\n\nget with your friends and dont see him a couple nights a week.... the more availible you make yourself for him, the more desperate and whipped he's gonna have you
652699
Why aren't you over this lover? I wouldn't waste my time thinking of anyone that left me high and dry for another person. You need to work on your self esteem because you are missing a person who obviously didn't care and respect your feelings. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will stay with you and not abandon you. Pray for someone to love you as much as you love them,  go out with your friends more, talk to someone you trust about your feelings, date people(you don't have to sleep with them) and go out and socialize
144295
Move on we all deserve equal oppourtunity in love.. someone who is out there will love you as much as you need. \nOR have tyou not be honest with this person. Tell them that you love them and give them the choice leave that person  alone or come and recieve all of your good loving!!
660109
wow...I'm in the EXACT same position. I could've asked this question because I'm going through the same thing. I've been absolutely infatuated with this guy and don't know what I will do once he leaves. It's so difficult but the best way to get through it is to find another guy. It sounds much easier than it really is because no one compares to "him."
122481
unrequited love sucks ass!!!!\ni too am in your boat all you can do honestly is try and stay friends and if something happens which it could quite possibly  could let it happen but remember dont throw yourself out there untill you know she has fallen for you.\nbe yourself and lets hope it wotks out for both of us.\nhope is a great thing my friend and anything is possible
56532
Ask yourself, "is there anything I wouldn't do or give up for this person?"  \n\nImagine your life without him/her.  Then, imagine spending the rest of your life with him/her.  Listen to your gut!
264568
if you love him and if 100% sure,then go for it, in this life people make mistakes sometimes by choosing a wrong person and forgetting the right person, if you feel his emptiness in your and you cant stop thinking about him then try to get his heart back but be quick before it gets too late!