My girlfriend wanted time off.  So I left that moment she told me about it.  Is that wrong?
406953
Some people say hurtful things in the heat of an argument and then because of pride follow through with it, you need to set your pride aside and talk to your girlfriend , you also need to remember that you said it first but you have a double standard because you did not like it when she said it.
947814
Nothing serious, unless she was into barely seeing you. Im a really busy person too and I think that a full time boyfriend just wouldn't work for me. \n\nKeep in mind that you need a day of rest too, sometimes its nice to just relax and do nothing for a change one your one day of freedom from your hectic schedual.
1127482
Either she's done with you and can't tell you, or she needs to breathe and prefers a complete break for now!!\nI don't know but in either case, it's quite alarming.\nTry to set the communication back.
343506
Did she say 'we need time apart' or 'we need to be apart'?  If the former, it could mean that she needs some time to herself.  Everyone needs some alone time, or just space to relax with your friends, get your head together, etc.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder.\n\nIf she said the latter, well, she dumpped you man.  Pick up the pieces and move on.
756001
I think you really need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your "significant other" on this issue. This may be the time to sort things out before it is too late. She is used to visiting any time she likes and as you know, old habits die hard. You have to be patient and accommodating.
935877
I think it's a little weird that she was pissed when you needed to leave the next morning.  It's almost insecure.  When she cut you off on the phone it does sound like a game.  I bet she is waiting to see if you call her, not IM.  If you really like her, get over the issue of calling her place and give her a buzz. Otherwise sooner or later I'm sure she'll call you. Be careful....it seems too soon for her to be so over the top about you not staying longer.
130057
My most dificult time is right now upon me ... since I don't know what to do ...\nI've been with my girlfried for a while but things don't go exactely as I think they should (and for some time I thought she and I shared the same conceptions about life and love). She spends more and more time with a friend of hers (also a girl) and she's beginning to borrow this other girl's habits and views, views which stain my (which I thought was our) ideal of love, turning into some daily cheap thing. Realizing this kinda hurts but I'm not sure if I am entitled to tell her what to do or just let her go on the path she seems to be choosing.
837898
WELL IF SHE SAID SHE NEEDSTIME AND SPACE GIVE IT TO HER IF U REALISESHE IS TAKING TO LONG LIKE THREE OR FOUR MONTHS THEN SHE IS HOPING U WILL FORGET OR SHE IS TRYING TO TELL U WITHOUT TELLING U SHE IS NOT INTERESTED ANYMORE.IF U CANT WAIT THEN MAYBE U DONT REALY WANT HER U JUS THINK U DO,MAYBE U R LOOKING FOR A WAY OUT BY WAITING COULD IT BE U DONT REALLY WANT HERE TO COME BACK
1007909
I didn't see your first question, but based on this I'd say that you both need to see a counselor.  You obviously feel unappreciated and she'd probably say the same.  Also, when was the last time you two took a vacation alone, for more than a weekend?
854994
As long as you are in control, than nothing is wrong. 19 is the exact age you should be doing this stuff at, nothing wrong with it. But if she is forcing you to do stuff, or you feel uncomfortable, than stop and/or move out.
518787
Sounds like she wanted some time alone.  also, some people don't like you showing up where they are, like work or school.
1122872
I would let her know where you are coming from. It also depends on what level you are with this person. Are you married? Girlfriend? Dating? In any case, you should let her know where you are coming from and that you want to come to some kind of understanding on how you are going to resolve the issue. \n\nP.S.\n\n2 wrongs do not make a right. Communication is key here. Talk it out.\n\nAdditional Details\n\n1 second ago\nOur relationship is very good because we communicate and everything its just sometimes she says the wrong things and I let her know . . . . eventually\n\n\nMy response: It appears as though she is not to sure how to communicate her feelings and in turn says things that hurt you. She also could be saying these things because she is unsure of how you feel so she is trying to get a REACTION out of you. SHE NEEDS REASSURANCE. Communication is still key.
937461
In my oppionion, there's something she's not, or doesn't want to tell you. She may be avioding you because when that awful "thing/event" occures, it won't hurt you as much as it would if you were together. She might have to leave that town someday something worse. She may not know she's hurting you thins much. Another possibility is that she might want a break up, but is hurting you so you could be the one to break the realtionship, but the only way to fin out is to tell her how you feel other than simply asking, "What's wrong"
591907
Well,I now understand your second question you asked,but I'll answer this one instead. Any time that someone needs a break from a relationship,there is an underlying cause to why this person NEEDS time away. Even if it's just to think through where their life is going,if their on the right track. Most of the time though I truly believe that if the relationship is a stable one that the 2 people involved should be able to communicate their thoughts,feelings and hopes,dreams,wishes,whatever...to each other.\nI don't know your age,but I am assuming that you're younger,because this tends to happen a lot more in young love. I'm older so this answer may not suit you.\nMy advise would be to let her go,obviously she was the one who wanted out of the relationship in the first place. Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Get out and do things that you enjoy and live life to the fullest. There is so much more of the world to see than what is right outside your own back door.\nHope this helps if even just a little. You are a real person with real feelings and you need to take care of YOU first and foremost. Good luck.
545731
the last place i left, i wrote a letter that stated my real reasons for leaving. my boss cut my hours because i took vacation when it was "inconvienent for her" i had seniority over everyone including my boss. i felt i should have been able to take vacation when i wanted to. you should write the letter with the exact reasons for your leaving. maybe they don't know what's going on or why they can't keep help and maybe they'll realize the error of their ways if you let them know exactly why u are leaving.
954328
i think you should tell her the truth that she did something that hurt your feelings and you just need a break from her or that you guys are growing apart and you need a break.
72260
I think you need to let her down easy.  Tell her you appreciate the time you've had together, but this is just not what you want right now.  You have things on your mind and need to be alone.  Once you break it off, stick to it and don't give her any false hope.  Once you break it off, YOU CANNOT SLEEP WITH HER...if she's crazy, you'll regret it big time.