My best friend need a quick cure for a broken heart, any ideas?
402263
try to deviate  ur buddy from the painful topic. don't leave the person alone,which might set him/her thinking about the past.watch comical movies.lend buks-trillers, adventure, philosophical, mythology,horror,(romantic 1s r abig no no).try to comfort the person by telling him/ her how special the person  is to you. go for shopping together..remember romantic things shouldn't  brought into the picture. try talking  to parents . drag the person into bright sunlight and talk about various stuff which interests that person.make him/ her forget that they even had  a problem. just make them feel special and happy .good luck  !
800731
I have had plenty of male friends who have been through this before. Before the two of you call it quits you should have a nice dinner (preferably at home becuase it might get emotional) to just talk...tell her that you just want to start over. Pretend this dinner is your first date, use it as a way to rekindle what you had and find out why you guys decided to get married. Also explain the way you feel and encourage her to do the same.
225741
Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
763607
There really is no cure.\nSorry to say. \nI felt the depression thing many times when i came out of a few serious relationships and thought that this whole love thing was a pile of 'poop'. I though that I would never find love and i hated the depressed feeling that i  experienced everytime i thought i had found love. So i gave up. literally\nOne night  i cursed love and said, "Dam you love , obviously i am just not meant to be with anyone, so i give up!" [i really did say this out loud by the way!]\nThat night i went out to the local pub with a few of my friends to live my life as a now free, loveless, uncursed woman.\nAs i walked into the pub it was like in the movies. [ and trust me i'm a sceptic of this whole movie, slow motion, angels singing, light shining from above rubbish] I saw the most beautiful man i have ever seen. He looked at me , i looked at him. We gazed, we stared. I am now married to that man.\nYes true story.\nI know ,I never would have believed it myself.\nSo my advice is give up. Love is like a rainbow. The more you try to catch it the farther away it tends to get. So just walk away and it will come to you.\nIts hard I know. Hang in there.
69406
Ask her how she feels about talking about him.  Tell her that she is your best friend and care about her feelings.  Ask for her support and that you need her advise on the relationship.
999457
Allow time to heal it. Nothing and no one can fix a broken heart and there will always be a scar from it. It's a lesson learned baby, and you'll be a better person from it. Don't mope around, get out and have some fuuunn!!!! That's the only way you'll get over him and you may even meet someone new who can help with the healing process. It seems like love  can fix anything doesn't it? Good luck baby girl
210634
If you're going to break a fellow's heart, you might as well try to cushion the blow a little. Be kind and supportive, remember you may well be on the other side of a break up someday, and imagine how you might feel. A little kindness never hurt anyone. Having said that, make sure you're firm, don't leave any hope in his heart for a second chance. You don't want him pining.
205508
stop thinking this ............you will loos eyour best friend as well as the girl friend .........keep your emotion for time being withing and wenever they broke off ......propose her
305275
I am feeling for you today - I lost two people, unrelated back to back last Wed and Thursday..its been brutal its been one of the worse weeks of my entire life and I too am feeling..have I done enough?? And yes..I have...\n\nAll you can do is be there for him. Talk to him, or dont talk when he doesn't want to. You can call him and ask how he is doing, you can take him to dinner and take his mind off of it and give him a sense of normalcy and a few minutes of a reprieve from the sadness, you can bake a lasagna and bring it to his house so he doesn't have to worry about cooking..\n\nBut believe me - your friendship is enough. that you are caring and going through it with him..\n\nMy friend who lost his in utero baby at 5 months said to me..We are on the first rung of the grieving ladder - at the very top..and you are right behind us on the second..\n\ndamn straight I am..I'm holding their legs and keeping them steady on the first rung and will catch them if they go to fall...as will you with your friend.\n\nJust be there..its enough. take care and hang in there.
1044340
Tell her how you feel and what you want. If she feels the same, great. If she doesn't, though it may hurt, move on. It is not worth it to hold on for weeks, months, years for something that isn't going to happen. You may end up missing out on the real good stuff by standing in as your best friend's back up boy.\n\nYou said it yourself, she is your best friend. That may be all she will ever be.
535748
Send her a "thinking of you" card and let her know she's in your thoughts and prayers. Let her know if she needs anything, do not hesitate to call you. Just to know someone cares about her will touch her deeply and let her know not all people in the world are bad.
167252
Fozzie is right time is the best cure. Music and movies have been known to help the healing process, distractions like hobbies and reading a good book can also help. Don't be afraid to be self indulgent at this time. Take good care of yourself and remember it's his loss. Maybe you can take this time to go to the salon, reinvent yourself. Put away any old sentimental items, rearranging furniture or accessories can help you get into a positive mood.
930836
more then anything she needs you to be there for her.  Maybe get her a journal so she can write down her feelings, it's better for people to get them out then to keep them bottled up.  My best friend loves Torrid too and I'm just getting her a gift card for there.  But again just be there for her, let her cry, vent whatever she needs to do.
200157
At least you`ll be more relieve to try solving your brokenheart. Altough your hart still aching, your mind will opened wider to find the answer. If not now, maybe time will heal you.
1047250
How to do not break my heart?
1146823
By focusing on your education, you'll help yourself get over your broken heart.  You just need to let your brain take over for now, and give your heart a rest for a little while.
548029
Well, her boyfriend is a loser if he's breaking up through a freaking note! That should give her a lot of comfort knowing he's lame.  Just letting her know you're there for her and if she needs to talk or just needs someone's shoulder to cry on you're there.  Sometimes people need someone to listen to them or just be in the same room without anyone talking.  Also, Ben & Jerry's icecream is the BEST cure ever.  Have a girs' night out when she's ready.  Let her know life isn't over and that her boyfriend is the one who is at loss! Who writes notes to end an important relationship?? Like I said, his loss.