Does he love me or is it just for the snogs?
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Do you love him?  If you love him, why worry about whether he loves you?  Why not just enjoy being together and don't fret over one another's motives. Your boyfriend is not there to reward you for breaking two other relationships. You can't work to earn love. Either it will come in time, or it won't. Meanwhile, go as far as you want with him (and no further) and enjoy it. \n\nLove, Beth
176173
You either mean:\n\n"Does my b.f r-e-a-l-l-y love me?"\nor\n"Is my b.f r-e-a-l-l-y in love with me?"\n\nWell; if he loves illiterate semi-educated girls, he might. But; if he loves girls who can speak and write intelligently then he is already looking for another.
93682
Since I don't know your boyfriend personally, it's hard to offer good advice.  I think that some of the following guidelines would show whether or not he loves you:\n\n1)  Does he respect your wishes and morals, or does he try to pressure you into activities and ideas that he knows that you are not in favor of?  A guy who loves you will respect your wishes, even if his wishes are different than yours.  He will not try to pressure you into doing something that you have already said "no" to.\n2)  Does he ever say, "If you loved me, you'd... (fill in the blank)" or something similar?  If he has, he's using you.\n3)  A guy that loves and cares for you will encourage you to be your best self, and look out for your best interests.\n\nHope that helps.
603222
If he really loves you, yes.\nJust tell him.\nHonesty is the best policy.\n:-)
1021990
even though it is not considered basketball he might be cheating.  if he likes u alot he should at least say i love u .  but maybe he dosen't b/c he has stuff to do.  so the thing is he is cheating or the least thing is no time for u but either way it means breakup.
191673
He probably feels like he does. The question is do u love him?
1109403
happyhere,\n\nThe fact he is going to a website doesn't mean he doesn't love you.  Speaking bluntly, he masturbates, he looks at other women, he picks his toenails, etc.  In short, he does all the normal "guy" stuff.\n\nI know it might be difficult to reconcile how he can be "so in love" with you and be involved in these "distractions" but it is very possible.  He might be curious, he might have decided that he wants a certain kind of relationship with you and he will get other devious needs fulfilled outside of your relationship.  It might also mean he secretly wants you to do some of that stuff, but he doesn't have the guts to ask.\n\nLong story short, if this bothers you, and it obvioulsy does to the point that you threatened to end the relationship over it, consider talking to him about this.  You don't have to tell him you caught him a second time, but you should ask him if he is really fulfilled - both emotionally and physically...or ask him on a scale of 1-10, or some other way that might get him to open up without feeling threatened - it won't be easy because this is a delicate subject.\n\nAnyway, good luck.\nC
1133796
If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you
407398
What?\n\nDid you tell him you love him?  Have you expressed your love (bad emo poetry, gifts, erotic delights)?  \n\nOr is the problem he doesn't love you back?\n\nTry again when thigns are clearer.
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What kind of love does he have for you if he can't understand you and be patient? I mean even if he really does love you, do you need that kind of love? He needs to understand your situation, your needs and your requests if he can't understand any of those then who cares what he thinks. Don't blame yourself and think about what you're about to do not about what you've done because it definitely wasn't wrong. \nGood luck! :)
693302
I would not count on it.  Unless he tells you he loves you and you feel that it's genuine, then he really does love you.
580816
Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
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Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.
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Yes, I have been in love.  What I did to tell him was to sew shirts for him, play chef's assistant when he wanted to cook, and cook when he did not want to, wash his clothes . . . but you get the idea.  When you love someone, actions speak way louder than words.  Anyone can say "I love you" and not mean it, maybe not even know what love is.  But doing nice things for him, things HE considers nice, will show him.  I used to read to Steve, books he had chosen for me to read, one chapter at a time.  Certainly he could read for himself, but he liked this little "ritual" of togetherness.  The important thing is to do what he wants you to do, not those things you want to do which force your tastes on him or try to change him.  If he wants you to do something you find immoral or distasteful, you can tell him that.  But if you can do it, and you know how to do it, love means you will want to do it.  And no, I'm not particularly talking about sex, although that is undoubtedly included in what he wants you to do!
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silver fox is right tou can't find that sort of information anywhere.It depends on the age we're talking about and how well you know him.A gut feeling,listening to your gut about a situation like that is usually the way to go.If he really loves you it won't be in the things he says it will be in the things he does.Are you the number one priority?Does he listen to your feelings?Do you feel like he is your best friend?This is what real love is,knowing your best friend is there for yoiu no matter what.
349874
he might love u... or he might just have a problem with showinggg love..or he doesnt know how.. ask him about it.. be like.. im just curius.. u clm u love me, but u dont show it to me.. see what he says.. then u can catch him that way if hes lieing or not as well..
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i dont know either maybe he isnt ready to really say it to you.he might also have things to worry about,but i know for sure that he doesnt want to lose you,because he is not saying it.u are proably right he does love you,might be to nervous to say it.im sorry that he is not saying it to you.maybe you should talk to him.dont rush him on talking to you,though.good luck!