What  will you do if by accident you meet ur ex-bf in the office?
400401
I would treat him just like I would anyone else. It's professional and it's mature.
104377
if you want to have him back...ACT to change yourself...u will watch the magic...i bet..!!\nNow wat and how to do, is ur job..
583264
You should worry.  You are now an accessory.  Your coworker has just pulled you down with him.  He is not your friend.
847533
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
482819
After he has gone home and hopefully your last day is on a Friday, from his office, phone the speaking clock in either London or New York, depending on what side of the pond you live on, and leave the phone off the hook, your revenge wont be known for weeks, hopefully. It works and it really f**ks them off, it also works on ex's phones as well, if they cheat on you. REVENGE IS A DISH BEST SERVED COLD.
322973
Meet him at a public place, like the food-court at a mall. Bring one or two friends with you. And tell him face-to-face. Thats the mature way to do it. You owe it to him to give him this chance to ask you, directly, what went wrong and why you are breaking up with him. Doing it with notes or email doesnt let both you and he say what needs to be said.
911585
ROMANCE AT THE OFFICE NEVER WORKS. IF I WERE YOU AND I'M NOT, I WOULD NOT TRUST ANYONE AT THE OFFICE. AND I WOULD NOT WORRY ABOUT HIM TAKING IT TO THE HR, HOW WOULD THEY  FIRED YOU WITHOUT FIRING HIM. JUST APOLOGIZE TO HIM AND SAY NOTHING MORE TO HIM AND NOTHING MORE TO ANYONE AT THE OFFICE AND YOU WILL BE OKAY. LET IT GO AND DON'T WORRY OKAY.
1050061
a soon -to -be  ex relationship
842810
It's sad, but you didn't kill her.  So go for it.  Make the office your own.  rearrange it so it is all bout you and not your predecessor.  Have fun, you deserve it.
846700
Tell him how you feel. Be direct, tell him that you think he is avoiding you, and if he has someone else than just break up. Concentrate on your new job and things will turn to better...
445092
You are going to be fine if you and your ex are on good terms.  Don't lose any sleep about it.  Dress nicely and bring a book and a snack because there will be a looooong wait.  But don't be afraid to say something if you feel something isn't quite right or fair.
473475
wait till your official office hours are over- then if you leave and he calls, its his fault- not yours
807530
undo a couple of buttons on your top and lean close in front of him
485938
Get someone to take a photo of you being done from behind by a big stud.Send your ex the photo and write on the back that you are with a real man now.
915433
If you like each other go for it.  Get together outside of the office.  you can't be scared of what will happen if it doesn't work out.  If everyone was like that then no one would ever get together.  If there is an office policy that coworkers can not date then you need to be sneaky.  You never know, you might have found your soul mate.
406418
Just say no. She'll take you for granted in the sense that because you're still around, you're available should she ever want to get back together. In the meantime, while she has you as a backup, she'll go on with her life, getting you to do all the boyfriend "work" (e.g. listening to her whine about work, traffic, her new jeans) but not giving you the boyfriend "fun" (although maybe once or twice she'll cave and fool around with you). You'll think she's just on the cusp of getting back together with you. And then she'll tell you that she's met someone else. With work, be as civil as you'd be toward any girl in whom you had absolutely no interest. But flirt with all the other girls at work so the ex gets a reminder of what she's missing.
33239
After you've ended your relationship with your boyfriend, and ONLY THEN, approach this young man, start up  a conversayion, and see where this leads you both.