My husband has the nerve to tell me that he has another woman.  He openly admires her as she is very rich.?
397117
So he aint in love with her, just her money he admires.your better off without him if its the material things he likes money dont always bring happiness. Give it a few years he maybe sad and lonely
190575
yes, my husband looks at other women, sometimes when I'm there with him. I think it's disrespectful but he doesn't see it that way. I can't be bothered with this all the time so I just look the other way. If he wants to cheat with someone else, I'll give him his laundry and tell him to have her do it and tell him to $@%# off.
76242
she is Attractive.\nshe never really listens to what he says rather she mostly feels how he says.\nshe will try here best to break him down till he confess who he really is. \nshe is whom he cannot live without and can not stop complain about and perhaps many a times can not stop complaining to too.\n:-)hope that makes since I think it does :-)
583272
Will you have a little talk with MY husband for me?\nLOL\n\nSounds like your wife is a very lucky woman, with a wonderful husband!
60472
I think it is possible to have friends of opposite sex, but what concernes me about your story is that he  is not open with you about this friendship. He should have no problem with you being present during his conversations with her. Another thing is after you get married, friends fade away a little and your spouse becomes a focus of your life, so it is unnatural to spend that much time even with your closest friend. If you have concerns about her, tell him about it, and if I was in this situation, I would insist that he only talks to her when I am around at least for a while so you could see for yourself that there is nothing more to the story. If she is just a friend as he claims she is, he won't have a problem with you being around while he is talking to her. But make sure you keep track of all the conversations you are aware of and see if those are the only ones that appear on the phone bill, but do it without him knowing that you are keeping track for two reasons: you won't come across as insecure and controlling and if he is doing something wrong it will be easier to catch him. I hope I'm making sense. Try not to accuse him of anything right away, just tell him that his relationship with that woman makes you unconfortable and you want to work out a situation that will work for both of you.
39025
This is absolutely wrong. He for one should respect his wife and her feelings, so he should either find a nice way to tell her of his friendship with other ladies and introduce them to his wife and try to find a way to convince her to accept him having female friends or just love her and respect her wishes and not have friends she does not approve of.
1084182
I feel it is wrong to keep your husband out of the loop.  I am truly in love with my husband, and anything I do includes him, and vice versa.  We do not keep secrets from each other and we can talk about anything.  We both have chat friends.  We talk to each other about them and about our conversations.  It's one thing to have secrets one shares with a friend; it's something completely different to have a secret friend.  Keeping that type of secret can lead to problems even if that was not the initial intent.  If he found out about the chat friend through means other than hearing it from you, it could be a problem.  The partner who has been left out of the loop feels he/she cannot trust the other, and the partner with the secret can easily be led astray.  The intrigue can be exciting and too much to ignore.  If you are experiencing guilt, then you may have other intentions in mind, even if you haven't acted on them...yet.  And so might your chat buddy.  Your husband should be included in your friendship with the person you are chatting with, or at least made aware of the friend.  If you cannot tell him about your chat friend, and/or if he could not accept it, perhaps you should take a real good look at your relationship.  I feel you are putting your relationship with your husband second, and this can only create problems.  I believe honesty and fidelity are the most important elements of a successful, marital relationship.
588154
The problem isn't this other woman, the problem is your boyfriend.  A guy can only be manipulated by a woman if that is what he really wants.  If your boyfriend really loved you then he would end all contact with this other girl.  I think he is using her the same way you think she is using him.  Maybe they both deserve each other because you certainly deserve a man who can only be manipulated by you.
322475
Sounds kinda fishy, i'd think he already did something with this chick and even more so if you said he said she was a slut and all this crap and now all of a sudden he is friends with her and hasn't told you when they went out ??  They go to lunch once in a while and he claimed she used to wear slutty outfits ?  Sounds like they have the flirting down and maybe something more.  Do some investigating, you can never be too sure, these women know how to get what they want and they.  If I were you I would talk to my husband about your insecurities and tell her he would not like it if it was the other way around and to pls quit the friendship with her, because believe me if it hasn't happened yet it is well on its way.
587877
well looks like you have found your husbands true colours...  you know what to do!!He's scared you will find out more i think.. he using the money thing as a blackmail to stop you from digging deeper!!
106529
Depends on what you want to tell him. What part of your past? I read in a advise column in the newspaper about this husband who after many years of a wonderful and loving marriage found out from someone else his wife had an affair with a married man before marrying him. He went nuts and now thinks of her as dirty, not good enough for him. Watch what you want to share with him. If you have had previous lovers or such, I 'd say no.
188843
You are so right if he cannot tell her he is with you than something is very wrong here. A man should be proud of the woman he is with you and him sure have a problem but look this does not mean leave him just get him to be honest with her if he is not honest with her what lies has he said to you sorry i did not mean nothing bad from that its just nobody deseves this i wish you both the best this can be simple just sit and talk and than call her and put this issue aside and you two be happy. Good Luck.
642041
I don't get mad. I kid him about it but, I don't actually get angry about it. She sounds a little jealous. Are you paying enough attention to her? Are you telling her how beautiful she is?
267452
At the risk of putting myself out there?.. Tell her.. she should know.. I have a man in my life who has a child with someone else.. SHE and I don't talk..I wish we could, but its complicated as it is.. Tell her..she should know the truth.. and leave the door open for her to talk with you.. I regretably closed that door at the request of the man, and now I wish I didn't.. and I would love for the other woman to contact me.. so I could know what the hell is going on and have the full story.. but I didn't.. so I have more questions then answers.. I am sure she feels the same way and wants to know the full story,a nd what is really going on.. so tell her..
363647
YOU KNOW I HAVE HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME ALOT. ITS JUST JEALOUSY. THEY ARENT HAPPY WITH THEIR LIVES AND THE RELATIONSHIP THEY ARE IN. THEY SEE THAT YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT THEY WANT SO THEY MAKE UP THINGS ABOUT YOU SO THAT YOU FEEL INSECURE ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP. MAYBE YOU AND YOUR HUBBY SHOULD CONFRONT THEM TOGETHER AND SEE WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY THEN. USUALLY THEY ARE DUMB FOUNDED AND CANT SAY ANYTHING. BUT DONT WORRY ABOUT THEM. AS LONG AS YOU KNOW THAT THEY ARE RUMORS AND NOT TRUE YOU SHOULDNT WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING.
443496
Oh silly virgo, no worries, you are not weird. We all have our own sexual fantasies, you are brave enough to admit them in an open forum. It's good to be in touch with yourself. I would tell your man, but be very careful before you act on anything. Once the door is open on that sort of fantasy, it is very hard to shut. Jealousy is a hard thing to deal with, even if you were never to see her again.
1004914
give one good reason why she would confront you... \nshe's obviously at fault here, so why should she show her face? right? i think it's even worse if the other woman came up to you and claimed your husband -- that's a little too "thick-faced" of her.