how do i get a good and committed man?
406908
well, make friends, know them, understand them. There is never a guarantee that the person u are seeking as partner will turn out to be like the partner you want. But you always must try.
284994
The reason that you aren't finding a good man is because you are looking in the wrong places and it is not your time to be with a man. Give up looking, let go and let God. It is not in your time, but when God wants you to be with someone special.
464758
Open you´re eyes ands ears, first what kind of man you want.\nIf you want a spiritual hard working men it more easy to find in a group who help kids or work for free in non-profit organization, instead of a bar. Be part of a group for goods things in this environment you can meet nice people and be better person, or be part of people who share you´res hobbies or sports.
1146667
You can catch a man quite easily.  But a good one, that's harder!  I don't know how, or I'd have me one by now!  I guess you need to hang out where the good men are, but I'm not sure where that would be.  Maybe in your mosque, or at an Islamic cultural center, or something like that.
201799
Nothing's the matter with you. Don't rush it and don't lower your standards! He will come along, just be patient and don't give up looking. Have some fun in the meantime so you don't get bored, but never settle for second best.
474924
There are a few decent and honest guys out there, but you got to look in the right place! Bars, clubs are meat markets, stay away from that kind of environment. It also helps when you stop looking so hard, just relax, when the time is right it will happen. That's how I met my hubby.
622565
Don't put all men in the same class.  Not ALL of them are scum-sucking maggots.  Above all DON'T PLAY THEM!  Let you be you, the real you, and you'll and might just get lucky and catch that one-in-a-million guy.  Don't try to be dominant.  But then again, it is wise to guard up.
868611
These are some that I look for in a man, and he better have all of these or it will not work for me, he can have more, but up want these up front:\n\nFaithful, this is the number one thing!!!\nsense of humor\naffectionate\nwants to work and be a good provider to me and the family\nhonesty, he has got to be honest\nwill communicate with me about everything,\nwilling to listen to me when I want to talk or have a problem,\ntalk to me about his feelings\nrespect, he has to have respect for him self and me\npatient, I am a slow learner so he has to have patients with me\nromantic, I want him to be romantic toward me, giving me             flowers and taking me out to eat from time to time\n\nI know this is not 10 but don't want to try for the impossible. I don't think there is a man out there that fits this any way.
1049607
Respect, trust and honesty are the MAIN qualities, but intelligent, funny,handsome,wise,loving,caring, sharing, good listener etc. are ALL good qualities. Yet, every person is different; and some characteristics may stand out more than others in most people. Therefore, YOU have to know what U want in UR mate; as well as what turns u on and arouses u. What makes ur heart go pitter patter when u see ur guy, when u think of him, or what makes u go crazy just to hear his voice or his name. U have to know what u want in order to find it. Overall though, make SURE u have communication; in fact that's the #1 key to anything successful.
848971
royalty and honesty is the first but not last...i want a real man to know that he can protect me and take care of me,to be responsible,dependable,reliable,tender and passionate,gentle and firm with me...i wouldnt want someone bully if you know what i mean \ni have found tha man but unfortunately lives so far~
267081
just be yourself if you try to push things it rarely works. the right guy is out there somewhere
437006
Yes there good men out there!! Just keep being yourself and Mr. Rigth will find u. Enjoy yourself but be safe finding him!!!
394341
depends on what your intentions are... if you're looking for long-term, he has to be someone you can and want to trust and has a personality you can find attractive.  it goes much much deeper, but everything else falls into place around that\n\nif you're looking for a short-term relationship, don't keep high standards; just enjoy it while it lasts.
798714
well if u remember this, it will help u figure out who's a "good guy" and who's not (hopefully) :)\n\nmen use love to get sex\nwomen use sex to get love\n\nas u can see, men and women differ GREATLY in what they want.... we play these games, we dance around each other trying to find a good girl or guy, someone who's worth hanging around.  so, if u know that a man will SAY "i love you" or do things to make u happy, and u give him sex too early, it is quite possible that he won't stick around.  so, how exactly can u "make sure" he will stick around? well, the way i see it is, if u don't give them sex right away, until ur ready at least, and he still waits for you and takes care of u no matter what, he is a good guy.  and a woman who gives sex up right way is seen as too "needy" or too "easy"... not very positive things. So, a guy might want to "hook up" with those types of girls, they don't exaclty wanna marry them!  \n\nmy advice to u is to make sure u grow into a Confident, Smart, Beautiful, Independent, and Happy Woman..... someone who has a LOT to offer to any relationship.  have some expectations from urself, and from ur partner.... the one who accepts and respects you and Works with you will be the one to Stick with.... sex should Enhance a relationship, not BE the reason why you got together.\n\ngood luck, and stick to what you think is right. i am 26 yrs old, w/ a boyfriend for almost a year now, and we both decided to wait until marriage.  so sex isn't the problem.. it's finding someone who respects you, and who u respect. take care~
71651
men are generally interested in a hobbie.  decide what interest you and visit a store selling related items....ask that good looking guy an intelligent question and allow the conversation to carry you into coffee,lunch, dinner and if your lucky, breakfast.  good luck...
343008
Yes, of course there are good men left in the world! If you are having problems finding good men, then you might want to reconsider where you are going to find them. Try to decide what characteristics would make a "good man" for you, and then try and decide where you would need to go to find him. Since I don't know what your definition of a "good man" is, I can't really give you any ideas as to where he could be found. Be patient, the right man is out there for you! Just don't waste your time trying to make a man be the kind of man you want. If he isn't right and you think you need to change him, just move on and keep looking. Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
538110
My Dear Friend,\n\nThe best places are Schools, workplaces and Churches. If there is a handsome guy, concentrated as hell on his job or completely absorved in what he is doing, that means he is responsible.\n\nWatch him how he treats girls or how he treats his mother or sisters. If he treats them well, then he is not a male chauvinist and will treat you well.\n\nAfter that, go invent a circumstance, a reason for a chat and be charming. Watch his reactions. If you like them, go ahead, if you don't, anyway it was a casual chat.\n\nTry to be interested in what he is doing, the more difficult he is doing, the more enthusiastical he will be in explaining. If it is something that REALLY interests you, then it will be much better.\n\nThere, you have your door.\n\nThen, try to be conspicuous in some sort of way (common! you women know to do that perfectly!), see if he responds the friendship.\n\nThen, let the circumstances take charge, time will tell.\n\nIf not, there is always another chance...