Should I just get over it and accept that everything is "back to normal"?
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I think a lot of people feel safe and anonymous on websites like those to explore thoughts or curiousities without feeling like they are "really" doing anything wrong...since it is a computer screen...but the mental side of it...can destroy a relationship..yes you should forgive..but NOT forget..you know what he is truly like ..his thoughts...when you have your back turned..so be smart...but don't become obsessed over what he "might" be thinking or doing....then YOU could be the one to destroy the relationship and actually Create what you Fear most
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Forgive yourself for the mistakes of yesterday and take control of yourself for today.  Learning to live well and be happy is easy.  Just do it.\n\n{}{}{} r u randy? {}{}{}\n.
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You should both get over it or move on.\n\nThe past is gone, to argue about it is a waste of time and energy.
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i had the same problem,a few years ago,you have got to take your time,it took me about 2 years to really feel well again,so do not rush things,,,,,,,,,,be happy
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Relax, and try not to worry about it!!  It will happen, probably at the most unexpected moment :)
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accept the fact and get on with life
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Take a Deep Breath! Relax...Remember "Everything happens for a reason" Don't let your problems get the best of you...God NEVER gives you an obstacle you cant jump over...Hang on!
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Yes this is normal. What you feel is just a normal reaction to hurt and frustration. The real job is staying together in spite of those feelings and toughing it out.Sounds like ya'll are on the right tract. Just always be open to listening to each other...and compromising.
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I don't think one day is going ruin anything, just get back on track.
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u just need time. some ppl get over it faster then others. i get over stuff fast theres no need to keep being up set. if it was ment to be she will come back!
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Take a small break, and try to focus your mind. Relax and think...things could've been worse. You decide what's on your mind and not the other way round :-)
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you're fine...don't get hung up over it. Sometimes we do things because it just feels right...it doesn't matter if you wait one day or one year, it's what you are feeling that matters. Live for the intensity of the moment.
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That sounds like 'giving up' period.  No, I don't think it's ok.  I think it sounds to you like it's an easy way out of whatever problems you have.  \n\nAnd - no computer - no more questions to Yahoo! Answers.
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maybe he feels bad about how it all went down. Accept the apology and move on
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baby girl, it happens to most of us @ one time or another. don't let it bother you. otherwise, you'll take home the problem too. say this "what ever" it'll make you feel better.
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In my case everything went really good:D of course at the beginning you may feel emabarrassed but I think that if you focus on things that are happening, on the fact that you're going to experience something incredible with your beloved you forget about everything else. It's just You and the person. Just close your eyes and let it flow... this is how it went for me:) undescribable experience when you forget about everything that surrounds you but The Person and what's happening with your body:)
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Yes, you should. It's your right.\nJust make sure your ready for the stress again. If you had some mental problems, talk to your doctor to see if you should stress yourself.