when im chating with any one no one should not see me?
397110
HA'??? WUT R U TALKING 'BOUT??
1047996
If they are not there for you and they talk behind your back---sweetie---they are not your friend.  You can be nice and sociable without considering them a friend.  And just so you know if they are talking about you behind your back--they are probably jealous of you   :)Good Luck!
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make sure, u dont ignore everyone, open ur main window in Yahoo messenger, click messenger-preference-ignore list- choose only ignore the people below. Then if u cant see ur Yahoo chat, open in messenger again-click connection-choose no proxies. apply-ok.
304993
Set certian things up so that unless this happens, this wont happen.  An example is have someone send you a message and just don't read it.  When it is read then you know someone has been there.
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That is the very purpose of being invisible in the first place.  The only way you could possibly find out is if you message the person who appears offline and they respond immediately.
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Be careful if you have your web cam on  people CAN see you even if you cant see them    I didn't know that some one was using my computer and they left the web cam on and i was wondering why people kept saying I can see you.   So make sure you know the person you are talking to before you go on   To many people have been hurt from thinking that they are a friend and then well you decide
152419
No, it's because no one is inviting you into chats since you have no friends.
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There's a setting that you can change.. Go to Edit preferences, and click the privacy.  There there's a list of things you can check or not, one of them being whether friends see me go idle. that should do it
227068
The only possible way has been answered. You have to appear invisible to all. \n\nBut then again, if the person who's trying to track you down wants to really track you, he can use "Buddy finders" which tells any one if any buddy is online EVEN IF THEY ARE INVISIBLE. !\n\nso, there is actually no way.\n\nif you don't wish to receive IM's from people who are not on your list, then you can change your preferences to receive im's only from buddies on the buddy list. !
625112
You can change the settings so that only people in your buddy list can IM you. It is in prefrences somewhere.
1057920
you on my space with this dude it don't matter he could be a pervert people lie all the time on chat rooms my advice don't go with anybody on chat rooms in case you already know him personally
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you could delete them or just block them so they dont know that you are online.
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there are some chat services that offer this service such as www.icq.com.u may check out the ignore private message option in yahoo,msn services..
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If you are using chat from Messenger, you can go to preferences in Messenger and select "Ignore List" and select the radio button that says "Ignore anyone who is not on my Messenger List".  After that, only people who you have added will be able to IM you.  If you are working in Yahoo web chat, I don't know if you can do that.  I don't use it.
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ummm just go to yahoo chat and talk to some random person there.  u will have like 80 ppl on ur list that u never talk to in no time!  now go find those freaks!
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Do a right click on the person's name, then go to delete. I'm not sure this deletes them from your account however. I think they might still be able to see you. Try right clicking on them and going to the stealth settings. Tell it to have you appear as permanently invisible.
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Don't give your IM to people