Should I be jealous of his ex-girlfriend?
397481
NO there's no need to be. He's with you right now isn't he? Then that's all that matters you have him. Just forget about her and put all your attention on him and your relationship. There's no need to stress over the past.
315500
Charlie heres the deal.....dont be jealous it is one of the deadly sins..thats a start.  2nd..there is no one in the world worth being jealous of...jealousy just means you want what that person has and if you want it that bad..then go for it, and ask...dont pussyfoot around, beat around the bush whatever ya'll say..JUST DO IT!!!!!
268336
I'm in the same situation as you so I understand your feelings very well. \nI think if his ex knows about you, if she knows that he is in a serious relationship with you, then I think you don't have to worry so much about them keeping in touch. But if you are feeling uncomfortable with it, you should tell him that you're concerned about what's going on between him and her. You shouldn't stay quiet as if you don't mind whatever he does. He seems to be very serious about you though you never know what his true feelings are. He must be in love with you, but he still could have feelings toward his ex, and his ex still could have feelings toward him. It happens. \nSo....just open up ur mind and talk to him honestly.
448335
NO! If my bf would think about his ex I would have to break up with him. When your in a relationship you have to give you love and care and respect to that other person. Otherwise you might as well break up with her and get back with your ex. That is if you care about this new girl and you don't want to hurt her.
674094
I personally would tell him that it's not the best idea to lament over the old gf with the new one too much.  It would make me feel as if he was measuring me against her to qualify me.  BUT, you can offer to talk about her with him in context if he just needs to express stuff.
1126788
I think you're too smart to be that naive. It's a matter of you making up your mind to offer him the choice of life with you and without his ex's in any way at any time or not. Personally, I think you should skip this step and just move on. If he disrespects you that much and honestly thinks you're that naive then you're in for a lot more heartache in the future.
821720
Girl, that's a rough situation. Its all good to help for a little while, but her ex seems to getting a little bit to dependent on your girlfriend. The bottom line is that her ex needs to grow up and be a women, it doesn't take that long to get get your stuff together. Tell your girlfriend to give her a couple of pointers and move on. Keep your head up!
429758
Your ex is an ex for a reason...& I'm sure you remember those reasons, don't you?..So why would you look back!!...Give you new friend a chance at least, if not, move on...There's always bigger & better fish out in the sea..
440064
Not sure about her,but I can tell you any guy who tries to make me jealous ends up losing me immediately lol\n\nI figure if he wants her he can have her I will move on to a man who knows what he has :)\n\nSo only do if you are ready to lose any chance with her.
819111
It depends on the circumstances for their breakup, and how he is thinking of her. I wouldn't mind if he was thinking in terms of getting over their relationship to find closure. I would mind If he is still thinking of her in terms of getting her back.
1054581
He has an insecurity complex. He's hoping if he focuses all his attention on her that she will never leave him. Most of the time this behavior 'smothers' the other person & it backfires on them. It has nothing to do with you personally. It is his own insecurity. Just let it run it's course & when he comes to you bummed after she dumps him, tell him how it made you feel & how it needy he looked to all his friends. He'll agree, but prob continue the pattern the rest of his life. Sorry
914428
She's the ex,no matter what she says or wants he's with you now and that says it all,if you trust him this shouldn't be a problem. Don't let this break you up, you have made the effort to be friends with her too by asking to meet her so if I were you I would just let it drop. Good luck x
547198
I say if he is hangin out with her like best of buddies, then something is going on.I talk to my ex but I don't hang out with him.TEll him how you feel, if he defends her then you don't need him because she will always be in the way.The only reason they should be atleast talking is if there is kids involved, otherwise there should not be any reason for them to be hanging around eachother.Good luck !!
234671
Put yourself in this situation. Would you get jealous? Yeah, and besides getting jealous you would probably be ticked off that since they got a girlfriend I'm nothing now not even a friend. If she meant the world to her then why could you drop her so easily??? Maybe you should care more about other peoples feeling instead of just your own. Good Luck:) Sorry, if this offends anybody.
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
478078
even if you want to tell him how you feel, i dont think its really gonna help. cause you said he already misses his ex and everything. so he must still have feelings for her.
717202
Go out w/ him! Who cares who his ex is as long as she isn't a good friend of yours then it really doesn't matter. If he makes you happy then go for him. If you just want to get revenge on the girl (his ex) just b/c you don't like her then just go out on one date w/ him, and at least see what he is like. Who knows you may end up really liking him in the end. Just remember who cares what she thinks, if you don't like her and they are broken up then he is fair game, and you shouldn't feel bad in the slightest.