I have never been on a good date, is there somthing wrong with me?
414489
no way - nothing wrong with you...boys are dumb and want what they can't have. It's the battle of who cares less. If you act like you don't care, they love that...let THEM do the chasing.
609024
Absolutely!\n\nTake the time to nurture yourself, and pursue your own interests, which may end up being a great way to not only meet potential dating material, but also make some new friends.  Remember, you are whole and complete just by yourself - dating someone may be nice, but it's not neccessary.\n\nThe main thing that I can think of as far as the dating in today's world is to be safe!  If you meet someone through the internet, be sure your first meetings are in public places.  And if anything progresses very far, be sure to practice safe sex!\n\nMost of all, enjoy this new phase of your life and have fun!\n\nP.S. Dr Phil always comes off like a pompous a** to me :-)
84185
nothings wrong with you. That right person hasnt walked into your life yet. It takes time to find love, it doesnt just happen over night.
94596
Naw, dont worry about it. I am almost the same way. I have been kissed, but it meant nothing. I turned 17 last June, and I went on my first date a few months ago. I guess I'm just waiting for the right girl.
231669
Lower your superficial expectations.   Obviously, there is someone out there compatible for everyone.  It is just a game of statistics, lots of people, limited personalities/traits.\n\nAnyway, something you are holding as a prerequisite for dating is getting in the way of you finding your love.   Re-evaluate what you are looking for, and drop a few of your ideals.  I bet you will be suprised at who you find.
912621
WELL THEY MIGHT NOT BE THE RIGHT WOMEN FOR YOU TO ASK FOR A DATE. I THINK YOU'RE  A NICE GUY, PROBABLY YOU ARE TOO NICE FOR THEM...DON'T WORRY JUST BE YOURSELF AND YOU COULD GET ATTENTION FROM A SPECIAL ONE!!!
742122
I think a nose is not a reason why someone wouldn't find a couple, unless you were some Cyrano de Bergerac, and about your personality, you don't sound repellent either. Since you can't move right now, maybe it would be time to relax a bit, I mean it seems like you've put yourself out there in many ways. Doesn't sound like there's much more to do... But why saying that you'll just give up? Just take it a bit slower, at your age you have chances to meet someone, unless you can prove me you've met every single woman who lives in your town.\n\nTake away of your mind those ideas of being repellent! You sound like a nice guy.
689965
Maybe it's true that you haven't met the right guy yet.. but i always look for where i went wrong..is it the guys or me? if they were bad, u wouldn't have stayed that long with them.. so it's not entirely them.. U have to understand that there are steps to finding the right man for you...that's by knowing who u really are and what your looking for in a relationship.....most of us don't know it, but we want someone who's just like us in many aspects.\nNow lets go to the happy part.....huns i don't believe that anyone can make you happy if you're not happy yourself.. i always say that men are a source of happiness, but the main source should be me....if i didn't make my self happy, no one else will be able to make me happy.
469477
it's hard to give advice on that subject, really.  i mean, i guess i could just say that you just have to keep trying.  every guy i've ever met has turned out to be obsessive.  but that won't stop me from going out with others.  i think you need to look at the type of girls you're attracted to.  there could be a pattern there and that's the reason you find they are all fake.  maybe you should try going out with someone you wouldn't normally. you may be pleasantly surprised.  other than that, i'm sorry i can't be of any more help.
293381
what do you not do? are you shy? do you get nervous around girls? are you looking in the right place?\n\nit can be so many things. first off, just chill. not every person is looking for a significant other. think about that too. you could be asking a person who had a bad experience with an ex, they are too busy to be dating other people, or something else.\n\nyou can't always find them and we all go through a sort of slump. try doing this. use your looks to your advantage. be cocky in a funny way.\nex:\nthem- wow! you are ruggedly handsome!\nu- nice try. too many people have tried to use that line on me and it doesn't work.\n\nto hit my main point, learn how to project your self-confidence to other people. that will help you on your quest to get dates. personality counts more than looks. you have looks to reinforce an attractive personality. good luck with finding a date.
313967
Hmm.. i'm good looking, smart and well mannered as well. Trust have always been a problem for me, since my gf broke up with me for another guy (LD) and then my next gf slept with one of my best friend. \n\ni'm now focusing on my career and promised my self not to force myself in to a relationship just for the sake of a relationship.. \n\nI sometimes feels lonely but then again, it's more sexual than emotional.. i don't think anything is missing since i try to write what is my goals and match it with my current situations. \n\nTry to identify, where are you now and where do you want to be. sometimes putting something in writting is good since it helps you see clear of things you didn' know exist. I hope this helps, but if it doesnt Dog's do help...
1101910
Well it seems to me that you are an insecure person and you suround yourself with people who are equally insecure as yourself.  Because to you it's easy that way.  It's easy to live unchallenged and it's easier for you to just take what is offered.  When you don't like a situation that you are in you have to figure out how your gonna change it.  The first step is too stop taking advantage of other ppl especially if they let you because they are just as lost as you are and you will surely never find your way.  The next step is to work on being comfortable with yourself.  You have to be by yourself to do that. I would suggest that you stop dating or having any type of romantic relationship because nobody will ever be able to appreciate you if you don't even appreciate yourself. And then , after all that is worked out, you find a good secure, honest, independent woman, that isn't gonna let you fall back into your usual routine.  After that i can't say it will all be wonderful, but at least you know its something that you want instead of something that's just there. Godd luck!
160499
Absolutely, start at church and church functions,  the grocery store is always a good spot.  Laundrey Mats are OK (not great), avoid bars and that whole scene. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to join you for a meal or a walk. Keep it casual. The thing I see most often is a guy or a gal who are only interested if they see you as a potential mate.(and start planning their whole life on the first date)  Avoid that pitfall.  Look for a friend..a bunch of them..the more the better..and the rest will follow.
238033
There is probably nothing wrong with you. How old are you anyway??? Maybe you need to be a little more open, but just being yourself and trying to be nice and friendly to people, might help...
888983
There is nothing wrong with having standards.  However try dating a variety of people...even those not necessarily your "type"...You never know THE ONE for you may turn out to be someone who you never expected to click with.
69145
Maybe you should consider NOT making out.  But that's not a probable answer.  \n\nI take it you have absolutely no free time on your hands, thus you don't have time to go on a date either...so perhaps you shouldn't have a girlfriend!
729577
its not rare to meet a person at random places like that, but listen to your gut. I once met a guy at starbucks, and i went out with him a few times, but something just didnt feel right about the guy, my gut was telling me that something was just off. So i stopped seeing him. If you do decided to go out on a date with this guy make sure you go somewhere public where there will be alot of people. Also make sure your friends and parents know where you are. You should have someone call you to check up about mid way through the date, and casually mention that you told your parents where you were going, this way he knows someone knows where you are and is waiting for you to come home. Better safe then sorry, he might end up being a super nice guy, but you can never be too carefull.