I really like this guy and he really hurt me ...soo why do I still like him?
408952
don't kid your self love\nand forget he as he dose not like you if he's going to hurt you.\npick your self up and dust your self off and keep looking for an other bloke who likes you for who you are and not for who you try and be\nstay true to your self and\ngood luck
211788
you cant make someone love you. if he really likes someone else, maybe you should give up the heart ache. think of what you putting yourself though, i hope the guy isn't stringing you along. i had that happen, my friend and i both liked the same guy he knew it used it against us, we stopped being friends and he'd hang out with us separately rat bastard. i had nice guys that liked me, but i only wanted that stupid jerk.(those were my teenage years) don't let that happen to you!!!
180766
YOU WASTE ALL YOUR TIME OBSSESSING ABOUT HIM BE-CUZ YOU REALLY LIKE HIM AND CAN'T LET HIM GO. I GUESS HE LEFT YOU WITH SOMETHING THAT NO OTHER GUY HAS LEFT YOU WITH AND THAT WHAT MAKES HIM SO SPECIAL TO YOU. JUST TELL HIM AND IF HE PUTS YOU DOWN THEN JUST LEAVE HIM. HE'LL COME BACK AROUND AND REALIZE YOU WERE BRAVE ENOUGH TO TELL HIM. THAT'S JUST MY GUESS THOUGH.
426879
To me it sounds like he is falling for you as well. He probably makes fun of the other guys you like because he is jealous. If you really like him as much as you say, then he probably feels the same for you since he treats you so well. You should just tell him how you feel. And if his feelings are not the same then just remain friends. But honestly it sounds like he digs you!!
1115742
speak with him n convince, tell him abt ur past also,\ngo ahead only if he likes u\ncoz already u r in pain\nu shouldn't be hurted again
974952
Any guy that cusses at you isnt worth your time. On the other hand, if you still like the fellow you cannot make him tell you that he likes you, but you can tell him that you like him. However, in doing so you run a risk of him swearing at you which brings me back to the original point that i first stated. In the end however, balls in your court. good luck. :)
207167
Bsically, this guy is completley abusing your feelings for him. He wants a no strings attached relationship because this means he can do whatever he wants, whenever he wants and he does not have to make any real effort with you or show you any commitment. He just wants a bit of fun. Now if you're ok with this, theres nothing worng with it but as you have taken time to come on here and ask this question, I'm guessing your feelings for this guy are pretty strong and that you wouldn't be ok with that kind of situation. If you really like him, this will end in tears. You must respect yourself and realise that you deserve much more than his.
318380
I am so sry, for what happened to u. Trust me the guy is so stupid, and u should be glad this happened b4 u guys did nything intimate. I noe it's hard to forget, but u should go on with life. Many times u will find urself in a drepressing position. Many times. Get over it. There are many guiys in the world. U never mentioned that this one was the perfect one so i'm guessing he wasn't. and even though u were going out it seems like u considered him as a friend. U must have been close, it hurts , i noe. U 'll find ur perfect one someday and u'll forget about this guy. Someday u'll be able to look back at this memory and laugh about it. I would suggest looking forward to that day. Enjoy urself, have fun, study, date, life is too short to have many regrets.
624968
give it more time, that is probably because you still like him, try to get hi out of your mind by going out with your friends or doing something, yea it won't be easy, trust me, when yu see him tell him what you feel so you can get it off your chest, talk to himthen after that see what happens.
356452
Be thankful!!!\n\nYou don't want a guy like that.  Don't you want a guy who's into YOU and only YOU???  You escaped with very little heart damage ... run play ... and find another guy someday.
622059
It sounds like he may like you too, so let him know you like him and go for it! He was probably more angry as a natural reaction to being in pain.
757546
first of all figure out if he is even worth your time and energy,, make sure you really like him... also you haven't even started off right... you lost a friend for this guy and you don't even know if he likes you... what would be the right thing to do is apologize with your friend and try to get back together and even if your friend says anything about yeah u better cause its all your fault or he's mine deal.. shruggle it off because its not worth another fight... also if your friend stopped being your friend because you guys like the same guy then maybe you should think about if your friend was really ever your friend... but if you really like this guy then i say go for it... but dont do anything you will regret
332468
LOL@gomez_leovinus! Anyway, only time will help you get over him. Enjoy fun activities in the meanwhile. Go out with your family, female friends and enjoy life. He is not your everything. Forget about him. Trust me, you are NOT the only person that had to get over someone they really liked, it's a part of life, it's natural...deal with it. We all had to get over it as well and have to live and learn. You can't force him to like you. That will never happen therefore, the best thing to do for yourself is forget about him. He'sa waste of brain space lol. You'll find someone else that actually likes you back and appreciates your company. Time will heal your saddened heart :) You need to try though. Good luck!
1000599
How can he be a nice guy? He hit you and didn't trust you. I would distance myself as far away from him as possible. With time you probably won't even think about him anymore. There are so many nice guys out there and you're not noticing them because you are thinking about this loser 24/7. Hope I helped you out and hang in there.
268966
tell him you like him. what can it hurt? it definitely sounds like he likes you. so you should tell him and see what happens.
953420
Feelings are going to be hurt no matter what.  You know him better than any of us.  You have to be honest, He will respect you more for that even though he will be hurt. Tell him you have enjoyed your relationship but feel you must move on and would love to remain friends if he would like to.  Tell him what you feel about him.  Start off with the positives you find in him, but get to the point.  If it isn't meant to be, it isn't meant to be at this time.  Tell him you really like him and you really didn't want to hurt his feelings and you are saddened to.  You don't want to hurt him further by being in this relationship that you have no more boyfriend/girlfriend feelings for him, just true friendship feelings.  Good luck to you.
152282
I know how u feel...i'm having hte same problems. but i had to cut it off with the guy that i dind't like as much... u need to do that now, better to hurt now than hurt much more later...