How can I get my husband to be more creative about sex?
402626
whoooo.... these guys obviously have no concept!  listen to them telling you that if you lead he will follow.  Pleeeeeeeeease... I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt sister.  I'll bet you try and try to do new and exciting things for him and he just soaks it all up like a sponge and keeps doing the same old crap 'cuz he's at a place where he's totally selfish and routine about sex and just wants to get off.  It's the porn age.  Men complain about women "false advertising" with make up, weaves, and push up bras, but men are totally frauds when it comes to the bedroom.  When you first get with them they're so attentive and eager to please.. but then once they've hooked you you realize we're living in a porn obsessed age where men's concept of sex is that women exist to service men.  Men don't have to do anything, they just lie there and get serviced.  I wish I had the answer for you..  I wish you all the best and if you find out... pleeeeeeeeeease let me know!!!
440122
you have to talk and you have to hope he is mature about it and you have to be patient however i will tell you this a great time for a guy is at best a good time for a women he needs to pay more attention to what rocks your world and be willing to go further and it may still take adding sex toys \nhope you can get it to be better ..
1057103
Candles and Hip Hop help me.\n15 yrs of marraige (Awesome sex still)\nLay on your back eagle spr and let him arouse you for 10 min.\nDo not let your wrists or ankles come off that bed no matter what (close your eyes during ), There is something about not seeing it but feeling it .Than let him do it fast & hard Not Slow and Easy!\nOnly when he is playing with you.\nGood Luck!
118720
You probably need to find some sex books and try new things....BE VERY OPEN MINDED!!!!!!
1065301
Talk more about that TOGETHER and try to get a solution TOGETHER.  A possible idea is trying to give as much possible pleasure to your partner before inserting it, and then proceed as usual.
496702
Just give him lots of attention and spend time with him doing what he likes once in a while... Trust me he will start paying more attention to you then! Just dont nag him and bug him alot.... Also if this does not work seek marriage counseling!
385871
After Marriage if you dont have sex it wont last, being innovative and active in the bedroom is a very good way to keep me around and happy. I want to make my lady happy in the same manner. Communications is the key, the best sex organ is the mind. Good Luck Happy Easter
726776
You are in a tough situation. Its hard to change peoples ways who are sat in them. But if he loves you he would be open for new ideas. Try to get him to do a little kinky stuff each time you all make love or show him what you would like to have done to you do it to him. Make it feel good to him and then he will know when he try it on you that it will feel good to you also. TURN HIM OUT GIRL MAKE HIM YOUR PERSONAL FREAK (only in the bed and behind close doors.) There is nothing wrong with a couple experimenting with each other it keeps the fire burning that way nothing will get old and you all will look forward to having sex because it will be something different each time.
889300
Just do it....Your husband is one of the maucho guys that wants to be the pursuer and is turned off by the female that is the aggressor in the equation of marital bliss.  \n\nIf I were you----I would do the tease thing---the sexy lingerie flaunt it in his face routine and then give him the turn down treatment when he WANTS what he WANTS!-----  Let him see how it feels to be rejected for advancements.  \n\nYou should really communicate what you want in your marriage relationship----Open up to your spouse and tell him of your sexual frustrations---"IT LIKE HELLO---MCFLY are you home"\n\nPleasuring yourself is healthy don't feel guilty about it....It's a great stress release ----Maybe you should watch an X rated movie when he's not home and just get the feel of yourself.  Sometimes those kinds of movies are necessary to stimulate the brain!
53484
Make him sexual coupons that he can exchange for sexual treats.  Get creative.  Remember, he is freakier than you know.
101140
Well, do things like he did,\n\nsometimes it's the little things that keep it fresh \n\ndo things like leave little notes to him leave it in his car,  his pocket, on the mirror \n\nsend him flowers just because, leave messages on his cellphone  voicemail saying u were thinking about him& u love him\n\nwhen u look at him blow a kiss at him wink at him.\n\n have a picnic N the middle of ur livingroom floor, give him a pet name, tell him he so cute even if he just woke up and looking a mess, rub his neck. Come up behind him and hug him.When ur out together act as if ur on a first date( role play)if u role play stay in charater until ur get home\n\nJust anything that will make him & YOU happy to be together and look  4ward to being hubby& wife =-)\n\nGood Luck sweetie\n\nAnd Congaulations =-)
808887
Try some bondage or some role-playing.  Keeping it fresh is the hardest thing for me too (in a relationship for 7 years now).  When the feelings of passion wear off, we have to get creative.  Even if you are sexually active, it gets old for both parties.  Try going to an adult store for ideas or look at some adult couple websites.  I think most long-time couples would say that this is the hardest area to overcome and new ideas are always welcome.
277892
Just keep practicing and remember that you're stimulating him and his imagination via what he hears from you.  So describe what you'd like to do to him, give him feedback when he's describing what he's doing to you and make lots and lots of satisfied sounds!
906589
Talk to each other. Since you’re the one who is aware of the problem then I would recommend that you initiate a discussion with your husband about your sexual concerns. If you’re afraid to, then the problem that you just mentioned is not confined to the bedroom. Sex is communication and more often than not good sexual communication is reflective of good overall communication between partners. If you’re afraid to create conflict, than you will most likely shy away from one another in all areas of your life.\n\nIf your husband responds positively to discussing your sexual relationship, then you’re on your way to solving your problems. Not knowing your sexual history, I can’t comment on your experience and knowledge about sexuality. One thing you should know is that very few couples intuitively know how to pleasure each other. To create a mutually satisfying and loving sexual relationship takes awareness and knowledge. The two of you need to spend time reading about sexual techniques. By doing so, you can learn the "what and how" of sexual pleasure. If you go to our Bookstore, you can find a number of excellent books on sexuality.\n\nLike with the above couple, I would recommend that you spend time exploring each other’s bodies. Ask each other what it is that is sexual stimulating. Demonstrate by taking your partner’s hand and placing it on the exact pleasure spot. This is the best way to improve your sexual connection.
923103
You could try a few things, some of which you might find awful, but I'll list a few.  Others can add to the list:\n\nMake sure he finds YOU to be good in bed.\n\nGet sex ed books, tapes, DVDs.  Read & watch with him.\n\nTry using porn.  Show him what you like on the movie.\n\nGo to sex therapy.\n\nGo to regular old marriage counseling.\n\nI wish you all the best.  I'm sorry if some of my answers sound crude, but sometimes, crude works.
1115836
well you can try to mix it up alittle. try role playing or throwing some toys into the mix that usually makes it interesting. if you are seeing her lose intrest as well you could change your outlook on see how many times you could get her off or even tease her till she gets crazy. diffrent things you can do go to some websites and look up fun weekends or games to play will add alittle spark here and there to peak your intrest and im sure your wife will greatly appreciate it as well.
1002375
First, you need to explain to him what he does and how it makes you feel.Honesty and communication are the most important part of any realtionship.Next, the bedroom.Spontaneity and variety.Always mix things up.Never plan it.Try different things and if your open to it, toys.Life is short and a marriage is very important.I think keeping it fun will keep you both interested and actually enhance your sex life.BUT, you need to communicate there too.Talk to him and see what he likes, what he dosent, and where he draws a line.Maybe find out what his fantasies are(doable ones).This will definitely keep your sex life interesting.For toys, try online ordering(very discreet) or if you want to go look, try Spencers or Priscillas.There are many adult stores  that have womens interests in mind too.Have fun and congrats on your preganancy.