For guys: why do you think a guy would ignore a girl he likes after the girl knew that he likes her?
413889
cos he's shy. its a difficult situation for a guy, peer pressure, nerves etc.\nsome guys find it akward to make the next move, so resort to the ignoring thing and hope the girl will make the next move. Or he just thinks he's playing cool.\nJust go up a talk to him, not about this, just chat. he should ease up
499727
you see, i dont understand why guys always go for the dumb chicks who can't even spell right. but hey, if that many guys like you for your stupidity, that's their problem. thanks for the two points.
163891
When a girl is unattractive or otherwise undesirable, a guy will act funny and dis her around his friends.  He's trying to give the perception that it's "nothing serious, I'm just using her" so that his friends won't annoy him about you.\n\nDon't worry, he's just protecting himself and you from ridicule.
771533
If she slep with him the first night at the bar , he might be thinking she's (easy) and he can get it any time he wants.If he seem's interested one minute and not the next, that's just the way guy's are!It's like there trying to make (Themselv's)beleave they don't need anyone.If she likes this guy she should keep seeing him,but dont make herself  look too available.Dont sleep with him for a wile,have fun doing other things together.Alot of guys are dogs, but the goodguys want a respectable girl.Show him she is!
797574
If a girl takes the time to say she likes a guy...TO the guy, then us guys assume that it is something more than just as a friend. \n\nThen again, there is usually only one thing coming to mind when a girl does this...lol
674681
well if they dont like you for you, it probably wont come out in your favor. If they are attracted to this other girl for some shallow reason, then they will need something mor satisfying than that emotionally.
50917
Either they don't notice, or feel insulted at the way your appreciation is being expressed, and thus ignoring you.  Girls get a lot of attention they don't want.  They wouldn't be insulted that you appreciate, just the way you do it.  Try nodding, saying hello, if you have the chance to talk to them ask them how their day is going, etc.  Girls like that sort of attention.
514965
he's probably ignoring you a. he doesn't think he has a chance b. he likes you c. he knows your secret
20562
Tiger: Don't listen to any of them, they are all wrong.\n\nThe real reason is because guys get rejected so much by the girls they ask out, that they can no longer tell if the girl they like isn't worth their time; i.e., if she'll just end up turning him down like all the rest of 'em, or if she'll actually say yes and give him a chance, unlike all those pipsqueak snobs.\n\nWhich is why, if you like him, you had better tell him now or he might get the impression that you think you are too good for him.
644375
that one girl is stupid.\nthe guy likes you.\nshe`s just jealous that you and the guy are chilling all the time. and wishes she could be chilling with him instead.
884499
Unfortunately for us girls guys can be real sleazy and if he wasnt interested in you after the sex then dont bother. Any guy who is worth it doesnt need any chasing if he likes you then he should come to you. If  hes gone cold then he must have been just in it for the thrill of baggin you so dont worry about his opinion and enjoy whatever you had no matter how brief it was. If he really wants to get to know you you'd be hearing from him regularly
314342
For some reason, now or days, guys normally wait for the girl to ask. I guess so they don't feel guilty either way for the fact that if the girl doesn't really want to then he'll obviously know and not look like a fool in front of his friends. Guys are competitive therefore feel that they can't put themselves out there on the line to be smacked back into place. You should ask him even though we both know that he should be asking you. Understand and he'll think that you are a wonderful girl for that. Hope I shed some light.
275280
I don't know if this will help but it's what I do before when I like someone but I don't want him to notice.  First, know his interest and then if you can strike up a conversation be genuinely interested then  if he appear to  be interested in you too, try to appear busy and not so interested anymore.  Be a little distant then let him do the move.  Some guys like mystery in a girl and they want to  be challenged.  Actually, I noticed that they get bored easily in girls who try hard to be noticed.
724701
I think this works both ways.\n\nSome guys will always think a girl being nice to them is flirting with them.  They will try to pursue it and only get shot down.\n\nSome other guys (like me) always think girls are just being nice to them even when they are flirting or hitting on them.  We never try to pursue it and have to wait on the girl to come after us.\n\nI know guys that fall into the middle of course but most guys I know are one type or the other.  We really can not tell what you girls are doing most of the time, so we go to one extreme.
515987
Well, the fact that the guy hasn't responded can be either good or bad. It could mean he's trying to figure it all out and decide when he should make his move or it could mean he's ignoring your friend. Your friend should give it time and if the guy seems to be doing nothing, well, then he isn't worth the time and effort and quite frankly doesn't deserve any girl.
484311
yeah, extremely true...  i usually do that with girls that i really like. For example the other day, this girl i like and I were making fun of each other, and i said to her 'do you know theres a point where you stop talking? yeah? well youve reached your point. so shut up" i know its just plain cheesy stuff, but it just happens because its just manly nature.. i think its cause we dont want the girl to know we're all over them, so we add a little twist to the whole 'procedure'.. but sometimes some guys go way too far, and it hurts the girl, and guys should know where their limits are..
588708
I'm a guy, I have a girlfriend, most guys (in general, at least those like me) have a tendency to REALLY like a girl if he's looking at her a lot.. I mean, I may find a girl attractive and my eyes may look in that direction as a reaction, but if its something more than that, a guy might try to hide the fact that he likes looking in her direction out of respect for the fact that she might not want to be stared at... so it can be hard to tell if the guy wants you as more than a friend without asking quite clearly and in private.. not in front of too many other people, something like "what do you think of me, do you want to go out with me?" etc.. some guys are too shy to ask the girl they want to be with out without knowing that they'd approve of them in the first place, a lot of guys end up staying single because of this, and I have only asked one girl out and I've had about 6 relationships ... each one a major impact on my life, I hope this helps.