Why is it that love is so hard?why dose it hurt so much when it over?
408940
it hurts so much because the heart is involved, but it will eventually end and you can move on with your life and find someone that will love you just as much as you love them
724488
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about her just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
50388
ummmmmm, actually it's really hard. i think we are in the same situation the only difference is mine is a girl. i think u should move on. it's really normal to think of him and love him because u just do. but u don't have to suffer because of him. think that there are still many guys out there willing to have a realtionship. and how can u know? maybe u'll find better guy to love and he'll do the same without leaving u. haha! life is just like that. sometimes loving others could be so painful and difficult but amazing to know that no matter how hard it is, loving someone is still the simplest reasonwhy u always find urself smiling though it hurts. so just try and try. Move on! there are lots of things to discover.
113849
becoz if we showed to you and told you that it`s hard then you will think that is too harder than you think right now so people tell you that its ok you will get over it oon and you will 4 get....it`s true but it needs time .... we will be hurt coz it`s normal to be like that but you will not feel hurt to the rest of your life ...so try to forget and think about so thing els ...do things make you 4 get...that`s what I can tell you ...so Good luck with it....
208923
Chances are love will hurt.  But love is also a lot of other things.  Good Things.  Things that can't be brought into words because it wouldnt do the feeling justice.  You might hurt while in love but you will be suprised about how much you learned in the end.  It's worth it ;)
367843
Love is a tricky thing.  Some times it seems like it is never  around and as soon as it finds you then there is suddenly sometimes more than you can handle.  Have faith and stay true to who you are and don't give up.
286057
Love hurts and you will get over her. Time heals all wounds. Everyone who has loved has felt what you are feeling, you are not alone. It is just how it is. It sucks, but just remember:  It is better to have loved, than to have not loved at all!
1117288
because it is easy to love... but hard to hold on... \n\nif u truly love.. u can hold on :)
1096268
Because love = Insanity. Love is the one emotion that a person can have that can make you go crazy.  It can make you do some strange things. Its just as bad as Drugs. When Love is over you cant eat, you cant sleep, you cant think. And the sad part about it is there is nothing you can do to stop the hurt.  They say time heals all wounds. But one thing they dont tell you is it cant remove the scars.
1087094
Maybe because you are in so much pain that you can not see His love for you through the warm tears. Maybe because you do not feel like you are worthy of His love for you? \n\nAm I close to what you are seeking? I was once like that... just wondering.
311235
love hurts for sure wen it's broken..but to actually feel being loved..it's the greatest feeling in the world..it means that no matter wat happens the person who u love and who loves u is always there for u
443725
Because it wasn't love to begin with,it was infatuation and infatuation dies..love never dies.When you love someone there's nothing to stop you from loving them...but when your infatuated,it's easy to get over at be infatuated with someone else..
968028
Love has a tragic end liberating the soul which is very painful.Atleast i've seen this happen with those who loved their beloveds dearly,the lady loves leaving them to cry in despair.Some of them have learnt to feel liberated from the curse of being dumped.
1107991
Love is different to EVERYONE.  So it's kind of a hard one, but I've always gone with this one \nLove is giving someone the power to destroy you completely, but trusting them not to.  Good luck
149448
you'll know it aitn that hard cuase its completely noticeable n stuff but dont always be a sucker for love cuase then ur gonna get hurt...
152478
omg i hate this ? it upsets me cause for most people this ? is true love and have n everthing u ever could of asked for and then to lose the love and have lost everything u ever worked hardd for i know how it feels to be hurt real bad because of love and it falling apart but one day u will find that person who will love u for all ur life time but i think that even tho going through so much and love n it and then losing it and the feeling of death cause of the feeling of the broken hart it all gets better it just takes sometime and the right person will show up for u so i would love and end with a broken hart cause for every end there is a new start for somthing else
51108
Love is very real.  It is also very hard.  I think too often we imagine it's going to be like the fairy tales and once it happens we will live happily ever after.  Well, we can, but it takes work.  Often, after a bad relationship, we give up hope.  All that hard work down the drain.  It takes time to heal from that, even when we are the ones who end it.  \n\nI know I love my girlfriend and I have gone through moments of doubts, but now she is very far away (studying abroad) and there's an emptiness in my life.  We've had to do long distance before( over 700 miles), but there was something different about this.  It's love.  I could not imagine not having her in my life.  It just took me some time to figure that out.