How comfortable you are during first time  intercourse .,  guys & girls tell me ur experience?
412437
Dont kiss and tell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
926916
I lost my virginity at age 15? As you can tell, it didn't mean much to me. I wanted the guy to love me, so I did it. No, I definitely did not have an orgrasm during sex the first time. Almost all women don't their first time, and I know alot of girls who have never had one during penetration. They might've faked it .....  I definitely regret it. I wasn't with the right guy, and I knew it. I would consider waiting, I know I wish I did.  By the time my true love came around (he was a virgin), I had already had sex with someone else. =(  It's not that it's bad to have sex. You just want to make sure that it's the right person, and that you wont regret it later on. I know I was so eager to lose my virginity, and I was like oh, I wont regret it, and yet I do. If you decide to, make sure he's gentle and cares about you enough to stop if you ask him to. I have a friend who told me that the guy she did it with, just went at it, without caring that it hurt her "like hell." Best of luck, sweetie.
61912
I Made Love for the first time on my wedding night. I was 28 years old at the time and it did hurt a little bit but, not much. It did feel good & hubby did a lot of forplay before hand. I did bleed a little bit. Afterwards I felt tired but, about a half hour later I was ready to make love again!  We got to the hotel at about 12:00 AM that night and didn't get to sleep until about 4:00 AM! We made love 3 times that night and once more before we got up at about 9:00 AM!
807196
I will tell you this much, make sure you know for sure you are ready.  If it's your first time, there is a LOT to think about in terms of consequences.  For example, are you ready to handle a kid?  Does your bf have STDs you don't know about?  Would you spend the rest of your life with this guy?  Have you talked about having sex with him?  Is he ready for the consequences?  What would happen if you DID get pregnant?  BC and condoms are somewhat trustworthy, however, I'd hate to be in that like 2% of cases where they don't work without knowing what would happen to my relationship.\n\nAnd yes, relationships CAN survive without sex.  My husband and I were virgins the day we were married, and it was so worth it.  To know that he was the only guy and I was his only girl makes it 10X more special.  There are other things you can do without actually having sex, and really, if you are close enough as a couple you don't have to have sex to have a "next level"
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It is perfectly safe for both parties, if you use a condom!! It can be very uncomfortable for a woman if you dont take it easy. If it is painful, stop! Im my opinion, it can be a very pleasurable experience, if you are relaxed enough.
434215
first if your' male you will want to take it very slow i guarenty you will blow very quick a tip befor sex if your a male masterbate at least an hour befor it so that you have more stamina ok make sure to use a condom. if your' female make sure he uses a condom i suggest durex plesure pack. make sure hee puts it on right too same for you males. go slow and you will like it. if you wear tampons it wont hurt as much when you have your' first but if you dont the first time will hurt for both sides but keep doing it and it will feel realy good plz dont have sex too young but i shouldnt be talking you should try to stay a virgin for as long as possible until you met that perfect one. have a good night.
42227
i know the obvious answer that many are probably thinking, if he loves you then you will be fine. in fact the is not at true as most people would like to think. Your not just talking about sex you're talking about intamcy as well. WHen you do have sex for the first time i won't lie it hurts. The reason it will hurt for the most part is because oyu will be so nervous about be nakeed and having sex that all of your muscles will be conctracting. Which will then in turn make it that more difficult for your finance to enter. just remeber that when  you have sex with him that he loves oyu he won't be juding you in anyway he will be overwhelmed with the fact that he is with you for the rest of his life that he will just be in awe. also keep in mind that the first time is going to be a little bumpy because you two don't know each others movements yets. so yees it will be awkward. having sex for the first time is different for eeveryone. but it may be easier, since it seems to me that he has had sex before, if he were to get on top. so that way you won't feeel that yopu have to do everything. Something that might make it easier is buy some kind of lubercation it makes it easier to get sttarted. with the lubercation you put it on him to make it more arousing for him and this will give you and oppurtunity to see, and feel what your husband feels like. make it fun for yourself. while you are doing that for him he could be doing something for you. either kissing your neck messaging your inner thighs. if you have a little for play it might take away some of the tension. It is most definetly going to be hard for you to be doing all of this. but just remeber that it will get easier. don't forget that he's not the only one that is there for fun. soemthing that might also arouse him and you as well is take is hands and put them on various parts of you and then you return the favor while he carressing you you do the same. moving on to the sex part of it. pull him towaards you so that he knows to get on top. then opoen your legs so that it is comfortable to you and he can get his whole body in. if you don't feel comfortable adjust and then proceed. when he starts to insert in to you MAKE SURE HE GOES SLOWLY. if anything starts to hurt tell him adn he should either stop or pull out. the key is to communicate. IT will be uncomfortable the first couple of times that you do it. but the lubercation should help out to some degree. After he has entered all the way, now is the time when you should be more relaxed. Now the hardest paart is over. While haveing sex make suree at all times that you are comfortable if your not then sex just won't be the same later. if your lower back hurts put a pillow under neith your back and continue. if you don't know how to move your body then have him move your body so that you both will enjoy it. and if you feel comfortable enough you amy want to get on top. If you do get on to, then just bend your knees so that they are by his hips, and sit directly over top of his penis. oncew he is back inside then move back towards is knees slightly and begin to move. if you don't know how take is haveds and put them on your hips and let him know that he needs to help. once he gets you going you can do it on your own. Of course this is all just a suggestion and you should do what feels right to you, i hope that i could help you CONGRADULATIONS and good luck. just remember RELAX.
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Listen....I'll be honest with you.\n\nYour first time might not be such a pleasurable experience. You may actually wonder what the fuss is all about.\n\nBut don't worry. NO ONE really knows what to do their first time around. They're just going through the motions, and doing what they THINK is expected.\n\nSex will get better for you eventually.....\n\nMy advise to you would be:\n\n1) Don't have high expectations of it being a great, wonderful experience the first time.\n2) Relax, and do what FEELS NATURAL to you.\n3) If you can, HAVE FUN with it the first time. This will help in easing the nerves.\n4) Make absolutely sure that you want to do this. Do NOT feel preasured or forced into it by your boyfriend. Otherwise, wait.\n\nAgain.....no expectations for the first time, ok!
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CONDOM!! lots of lubricant, very very slowly...and bottle of hard liquer!\n\nas a follow up, I'm a girl and I love it...but it does take some getting used to (and alcohol eases the pain the first few times) Oh, and don't get carried away...remember that it DOES hurt-badly and if you mess up and get too into it it may be your first and last time.
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u just feel it!\nAt least that happened to me...let me tell u something about my first time:\nonce I was dating this guy and nothing u know I just couldn't, something was odd, don't really know, but then I met this incredible guy and I don't know what exactly happened but it felt like fireworks being with him, at all times ,and the I just knew that he was the one .\nI never regret the time I waited to do it.\nIt was worth it all the way.
956894
How often have you had sex before?  Somtimes I am sore for a day or two - depending on how long he lasted. Girl - honestly, be thankful for a man who may be too excited or rough.
824985
To be honest I was not satisfied, I had this built up image of sex in my head, I thought it was going to be great and enjoyable. But it wasn't, It's not the same as pleasuring yourself lol, because your starting off with that person you have to learn what each others likes and dislikes are, but that was just me, I dont know about other people, I talked to some people and they felt the same way but I guess thas something that changes with time or from person to person well hope your first time is a blast! have fun.
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Its good that you have waited, sex between two people that really care about each other is amazing. \n\nBe carefull, make him wear protection, choose a time when your not going to get disturbed, your both relaxed and you feel ready, for any female, it is usual to hurt at first, make him take it steady.\n\nYou will always remember you first time, make it special, take precautions and have fun
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lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
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For me it feels more comfortable, but it won't feel comfortable if you are a virgin.
71667
If your with someone who's gentle and is willing to slowly and gently put it in and your genuinly in love than it stings the first couple of minutes then your vagina adjusts and it feels good but if he just slams it in it's gonna hurt like hell so be careful and use a condom because despite what you may have heard you can get pregnant your first time.
61425
Sex hurts when is the first time, but after that feels gooooddd, and it depends on the positions too but still good!!