How do you get over someone that you were never with in the first place?
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The best advice ever comes from the book and TV show "Sex and the City", the quote says "He's just not that into you." If you keep this in mind, you will avoid a lot of heartache. Realize that you cannot make anyone fall for you. If he says he just wants to be friends with you, he is already feeling pressured. Just imagine, if after 6 months of trying to get this guy's attention, how much time and energy you would waste trying to get this man to fall in love with you. Do yourself a favor, find someone else. And let the man come to you, don't ever chase a man.
907294
I think you need to get over this dude and fast\nForget his number ( its a figur of speach cause if you trully loved him samthings you just cant forget ).....Stay away from the friends that will ask you about him....Just go cold Tercky if you know what i mean.......Its hard to do and even harded to maintain nut keep telling yourself its for the best\n\nThe fact that you not showing intrest in him anymore will creat a feeling of curiosity on his part.....If the dosnt chace you he wasnt worth it if he does you in\nRemember the man thats worth your tears wont man you cry
696751
find another guy! cut him off completely.. thats the best way to get over someone. and also finding other guys to keep your mind off him. but dont talk to him. or feelings will just come back. CUT HIM OFF!
334000
Get him out of your life and take time to get over him. Don't talk to him at all! That's what worked for me!
83186
just give your self things to do to let time go by so that you want half to think about this person. after you do that you should be able to look at other people and know that there is someone else out there for you..\n\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
690401
Not Instantly, but it helps! Do things to get ur mind OFF of him/her. At first, you'll spend the whole date comparing them. And then eventually you'll have a whole hour without thinking about them, then a day, then two. It gets better. Do stuff you like. Remember your life before you met them. Good luck darlin, You will get over it, It just took me some time.
608931
U have got to give urself time to get over him....u will soon..time is a great healer.
218875
by seeing other people...make new friend... you'll forget about that person
7858
if you really like him than go for him but the best thing to do is just forget him and what happened and go for some body else it wil be hard at first but you will get over him.
467754
Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over someone else, I've slept with another woman to forget someone that I had broken up with before and I can tell you, it doesn't work. You feel like dirt the next day and you'll find yourself eventually wanting to get rid of the new person your with because (s)he's is the one you hooked up with to forget the prior person you were with. Also, heavy drinking doesn't help either. Trust me.\n\nGive yourself a few weeks or months to figure out what you saw in him that attracted you to him and then figure out whether they were valid reasons to become romantically involved. Did he have a cute bod and a crappy personality? Always remember, looks fade but stupid is forever. Or as recall, John Lennon once said: there's no way you can hide when your cripple inside.
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the best way to get over a guy is get under another
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1.Send them letters and instant messages\n2.Forget about them if you miss them wicked bad\n3.Spend more time with your friends in your new place\n4.Visit them often if they don't live too far away\nI hope you get over it!
858646
Sometimes you never forget someone who is really special.  You've got to just keep trying to be happy and move on but you may never forget.  Hang in there!
719810
Do not listen to his voice. Do not call him. Do not answer or return his calls.  Throw away cards, letters and all things that remind you of him.  Make yourself busy and take meticulous care of yourself.  Give your time to your other friends and family members whom you may have been distant with.  Catch up on some hobbies and volunteer work.  Make appointments for yourself to do the things you enjoy every day in the week. Every night, have someone to talk to who understands what you may be going through. Whenever your thoughts stray toward him, think only about the way he disappointed you and hurt you and remind yourself that you deserve the best. The longer you were with him, the longer it may take for you to get over him.  Nevertheless, you WILL get over him.
373547
It is a every day process,really you get over that person with time and begin around good friends and family that keep you motivated and active. Keep your head !!!!
1077283
getting over someone takes time.  All you can really do is surround yourself with friends, positive energy and anything that comforts you.\nGood luck! and be strong and true to yourself.
162810
Lean on friends and family.  Do not use drugs or alcohol (it makes it worse).  Keep yourself as busy as possible and don't be alone if you don't have to.  If you do this, you will eventually get over him.  It will take a long time, but it will work.