Would you tell a friend that you like them more than a friend and risk losing their friendship?
408746
just listen to your heart. think, if a relationship could be better just friendship. and if he or she could say that you dont like him or her.
613087
Sounds like he does! Listen if you really like him you need to let him know before he gets to the point that he feels that anything more would mess up the friendship. If he doesn't feel for you the way you hope Hell you still got one totally awesome friend!
1026118
if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
1122862
better that then a "what if" the rest of your life........and if your friendship is good now and it doesn't work out, you might become better friends. think of the positive not the negative, what you dwell on, you will follow; what you follow, you will  dwell on
707643
If he really likes her instead of you and you are his friend first then you should be supportive and do anything you can to help them out after all that's what friends are for right.
491162
you should definately tell him . it happened to me too. its great if he's your friend because you already know a lot about eachother and your comfortable with eachother already so definately go for it! dont worry about it.
152697
I wouldn't, because of the chance of messing up your friendship. Because when friends date and it doesn't work out, they normally lose their friendship. And it's the reason why alot of people don't take the chance.\n Good Luck
522020
Sorry, there's no way to do it without hurting their feelings.  Plus, you don't like them enough to continue the friendship, so why are you worried about their feelings?  I mean, I know that sounds harsh, but it's true, isn't it?  This person must have done or said something you don't like or that you found offensive.  Bottom line:  If that person has hurt your feelings in the past, why spare theirs?  Good luck.
305141
Not at all. It's never a waste when a great friendship has flourished. \nAfter investing 8 months of your lives, I'm sure you have both found that you are great friends. Am I right? It's possible that rather than lose you due to romantic involvement, he would rather keep you as his friend... It's rather common....\n\nAdvice,\nAlways beware. It's very easy to fall into the "friend zone". Be upfront about what you want and expect without being scary and demanding...
427041
of course!! its not worth it to lose friends over a guy.i like a guy and so do all my friends. i actually dream about him all the time too. my friends know that, but were still friends. i was kind of mad when my friends first told me they liked him too because i told them i did first, but i am over it. you should do the same
906781
yes and think it can be a great extension to the friendship as long as good boundaries are set before hand, this can work out really good and has for me a couple times over... do you hear these close minded people...( It can be a very good thing if both people are mature enough to handle it.)
494643
If he's really a friend that you don't want to lose then just sit back and let him go through this phase with his new friend.  It will probably get old after a while and he'll be missing the time he used to spend with you.  True friends never lose touch, but there are times when they might drift just a little.
439683
Tell her how your feeling and that you don't want to harm your excellent friendship, but tell her
458644
Be honest and tell him you guys are better friends.
66121
if you have a mutual friend, have them tell him you are interested.  He can react with less embarrassment.
1007031
friendship is all about sharing all happy, sad , things in life... and well ofcourse sharing little secrets... u should definitely tell ur friend about that... and he/she will be there for u to share ur feelings and to help u...\nso go ahead....
535539
you should go straight to your friend and tell her before it gets out of hand.