Why wont he just let me look through his cell phone? what does this mean?
414930
First off, you are allowing him to look through your stuff, big mistake!  Obviously he was gifted with the jealousy gene and you with the "let him do whatever he wants" gene.  So my first piece of advice, stop letting him do whatever he wants.  Trust is a two way street.  If he wants to see what you have in your junk, then he should be showing you what's in his.  However, it's very common for an unfaithful person to try and hide their guilt by trying to find something to blame it on with their signif.  So what should you do?  I'd dump him and get someone who's got self confidence, maybe it will help you get some too.
800234
Simple.  He is intimidated by you.\nIn an email, he can check over what he is going to say before he says it.\nThere is no chance of accidentally letting something slip.\nGuys feel safer emailing because all they have to do is type and click...no actual interaction with the person.\nOn the phone, they actually have to interact, therefore there is more chance of something going wrong.\n\nIf he spent a lot of time on the email, I would say he likes you, but is intimidated by you, so he wants to make sure he says everything just right.\n\nSome guys aren't as tough as they look.\n\nAnd if you really think the chemistry is there, why don't you just ask him?  On the phone, of course.\n\n<3
210718
Hmmm personal experience here... \n-if he turns his phone off because he didn't get "reception"\n-if you find pictures of he and another female 69'n\n-he hangs out with another female more than 3 nights a week AND ALONE with her\n-90% of his friends are females, and he only hangs out with them 1 on 1\n-he seems to loose interest in wanting to chill with you\n-doesn't want to talk on the phone \n\nI know the feeling... got cheated on for a loong time and he wouldn't admit to it even when I found the pictures, so sometimes you have to go on instinct, and if you suspect, question him immediately... if he doesn't admit look for further signs and changes in personality... good luck...
54973
Maybe he was afraid. Possibly he could have shown you pictures of someone who is not him, and would be ashamed if you found out. Or, he was just afraid. Possibly something came up, or he's a cheating jerk.\n\nI suggest you IM or eMAIL him today or tomorrow about the situation, and if he doesn't respond within a week, drop him. He does? Decide if he's worth it, and be sure to tell him you want nothing to be kept secret (other gfs, etc.) and that he should not be ashamed of any of his qualities with you.\n\nGood luck!
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
913868
if you think something is going on then you have every right to spy. however, getting caught if he isn't cheating or doing anything wrong can have some bad consequences. there is no reason that he shouldn't be able to have a phone conversation in front of you or be lying about how often he talks to her. something is going on. check it out.
763625
Because he's not creative enough to find ways to actually convince you that he's a great catch with his actions. He may be trying to appeal to your sense of pity, and I'm sure this approach has worked for him in the past.\n\nGood for you for not falling for it. You might want to even go so far as to tell him to stop texting you or else you will block his number. Don't let him disrespect you by not heeding your wishes.
1125919
Maybe he was just being sarcastic or funny? Or he thought you'd be flattered?\n\nI'm a guy and I'll tell you: either A) He didn't mean it or B) He lost his phone with your number and the text message was never received (this didn't happen - I'm just trying to save your feelings here. See A)
654676
from experience i would say he is probably hiding something. when i was hiding something from my hubby i didn't care where he went, and actually he didn't leave house enough. or may be if y'all go to church then maybe he has grown up and realized GOD SAYS HE NEEDS TO TRUST YOU. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!!!!
494992
We don't have cell phones, but I check his mail. It is not to be nosy, I just take care of all things financial. Now.... once there was this letter in a chick's handwriting when we were first married, no return address... Oh yeah I opened it, I was so angry. Turned out to be a thank you card from his friend's wife for being the best man in their wedding, he never got that card. I didn't want him to know that I snooped that much. That being said personal should be just that, personal and private, but sometimes you just can't resist the urge.
731727
Because he is a snoop and is nosy or he doesn't trust you and is trying to find incriminating evidence.
1054316
That sounds like two separate issues.  Prior to knowing a woman had texted his phone.....you had already looked at it.  Is there a reason that you are checking the texts?  Did you already suspect something was up?  Commonly if you suspect something is going on...it is.  Secondly, are you positive that the text was meant for your husbands phone?  I have had texted from people that were meant to go to someone else.  No matter if you were already suspecting something or not.....approach the subject easily with your husband.  You do not want to open a can of worms that never existed.  \n\nIsn't marriage supposed to be about trust?  You have no trust in your husband so you two have more problems than a woman texting your husband.  You need to get things out in the open to have a good marriage.
395156
he should be doing whatever it takes to get a hold of you...let him walk his ass to a pay phone. Just relax
1132746
He must be insecure and he obviously doesn't trust you. Without trust, no relationship will work.  If you've asked him to stop invading your privacy, and he hasn't, it's time to cut him lose. You shouldn't settle just because you're afraid he'll be angry. You deserve much better.
631289
if he asks u 2 open his emails, it means he's not hiding anything.\njust ask him casually wat that pic is doing in his inbox \nim sure there's no big deal!\n\nits just that there r so many flirty bitches who like 2 mess up somebody else's relationships
1129200
k it can be two things...either one he was just seeing if you were gay or hes gay!  But honestly why would he go through all that trouble...iwould say hes gay!
40327
NOT a good idea...if you are wanting to check his email...then there has been some doubts about something...your instincts about whatever it is may be right,although if you really want to find out just ask him...cause after you look at his emails, how are you going to ask him about what you found???....then comes there becomes a trust issue w/you and your boyfriend...you might want to keep your eye on him