I believe I let "the One" get away a couple of years ago.. now shes back, but she wants casual dating canwork?
398161
This is your second chance. Not very many people can get second chances. So bite your tongue and work with it. If it is mean to be, it will happen.  If it isn't at least you had the second chance.  Just be patient and don't push.  She obviously likes you still. Give it a whirl and see how it goes.
828707
Try re-dating her.  You two need to learn what drew you together again.  \n\nAlso, thank you for trying, especially with a child involved.  Most would just give up and say next.....
1116536
if you really think that in her heart she really wants you back, maybe going on a few dates may send a different message to her - that you really don't care about her as much as you said. She seems as if she is taking her time to think about what happened with your relationship and if its a good idea to reconcile. The important thing is that you've been sincere and you let her know how much you love her and would like a second chance, give her as much time as you think to make her decesion, but waiting too long will prevent you from moving on with your life
859834
No don;'t take her back she is keeping you at arms length and then when something better comes along you will be gone again. Why put yourself thru the hurt!!!! She is now worrying that she will be alone so you get to play 2nd fiddle tell her to go away!!
365055
she sounds like she likes you more than just friends... i think she had second thoughts after her first refusal of a relationship, if you still want to, you can make your offer again, i think now is a good time and she seems ready.. Good Luck
536498
It's out of your hands, she is no longer with you.\n\nDon't dwell on the past as it only sets limitations for your future.
513201
Maybe she has been doing exercises called "Kegles", or maybe you just imagined it. Whatever the reason, if you are back together don't worry about it, just move on with your life and be happy!
173315
It might be that she really cares about you,\nbut chances are that she is on the rebound...\nand since you have been "caring" for her for a long time she might use that to have 'someone' in her life until she and x gets back or until something new comes along...\n\nI had a boyfriend for two years, we broke up and in a matter of days i started dateing on of my best guy friends... it didnt last very long coz i realized i was just using him to get over my x
926483
I don't think it's a case of her swallowing her pride, if you were the one who wanted to play the field. She's being cautious. If it were me I'd probably do the same thing. Actions speak louder than words. If she were eager to jump back into a relationship with you, she'd be there. I'd go on with my life if I were you. Going through "everything" together does form a bond, but that isn't a basis for a lasting romantic relationship. If it's meant to be you WILL end up together. If it happens, forget the past and start fresh. Good luck to you both!
338034
She could be, or she may be just looking for someone to exercise with. You may have to wait and see on this one.
640072
I think she has answered your question about her coming back, sounds like she is gently trying to tell you its over.  Have you tried marriage counselling??? You also might want to ask yourself what you did to make her want to leave, did you appreciate her?  Its so hard to advise you when all the details are not known.
584899
she doesnt sound like a honest person, i think you better move on before you really get hurt...sometimes loving someone means letting go.....
104104
Sorry dude, if she's made up her mind to be gone for good, she's gone.  I would move on....who knows, down the road if you're still available, she might come back??!!  Good luck.
39846
Hes not into her like he was. She used to be fun. He might move on...
971318
Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
263068
Whether it had been 1yr. or 10yrs. it's hard to let go of someone you have gotten used to being around and doing things with and now it seems like everything around you make you think of this person. I and millions of other people can relate but you are simply dealing with something called CHANGE and it is hard for you to move from one comfort zone to another because you are not allowing yourself to. Let go of the past, that is all it is now, and find new people to be around, do things with other people, family members, and friends, learn to be comfortable with being single for now, get a life. And when you get involved with another continue to still live a life of your own.
212180
If you want her back, apologize and promise to be good, and keep that promise. Otherwise, get out in the world and start dating again. You'll find someone new to care for.