How long should I date a guy before I have sex with him?
404942
When you have his last name and his ring \nthen is when you do the wild thing\ntell him no commitment your not beinging fussy\nbut if your not his wife he gets no pussie.
1032214
Don't have sex with him right away. Make him respect you for you. Not just to have sex. Sometimes you have to play hard to make him realize your the one and different.
168427
do you mean sex or 69?  if he means 69, you should be on top.  if he wants sex, you probably should wait until you are ready and comfortable with it.  don't rush anything.
315422
The tricks to relationship is leaving the other person wanting more.  That is to say that you do not give in to sudden urges while dating, not revealing too much, etc.  You pace yourself and preferrably after 3 months, you take it to the next level.  By then, a guy would either like you or show his true face; you'd simply saved yourself the hassle of trying to be intimate with someone who just wanted to show you around his bed, or yours.\n\nThe thing about relationships is that when you give him everything he wants from you in the beginning, you have a higher chance of ruining any interest that you have stirred within him to know you better.  Again, pace yourself out.  Let him get to know you better.  If he remains interested, he'll see you for who you are and your hook ups won't be merely hook ups anymore after those 3 months.  You'll be able to enjoy your beds a lot more because it's not meaningless anymore.  It would be more like an act of sharing each other and trying to please each other.\n\nBest wishes...
788978
whack off before your date.... then you'll last longer.\n\nwear a condom...
792727
I suggest a 12hr sex session... or 24hr, even better! You guys should be gagging for it if you've been apart for the past 6 weeks.\nMy 19yr old flatmate got a dr who figure and a haircut for her man for their aniversary this weekend. \nI think you really have to work this one out for yerself tho, you should know him really well by now, probably better than anyone, and you'll be able to find something i'm sure. \n\nI'd still go with the sex tho!
904347
Tell him flat out, I like you but I am not going to have sex with you. Or hypothetically ask him what's the longest he's ever talked to a girl b4 sex, then drop the bomb on him. All the best. Don't give it up, you said you stopped talking once b4 because he was going to fast, so don't let him rush you this time. For some reason guys feel that they earn the privilege of having sex with a girl because they put in "time on the phone" Don't be a sucker for a quick witted man with a smooth tongue. All the best.
991646
Sometime in the next day or 2 when you think you can devote enough time to this, just walk up to him and start kissing him all over while stripping down and pretty much jump his bones. If he feels like it's going too fast, he should tell you. If he goes along with it, your problem, is solved. If he does tell you that it is too fast, you may need to consider whether this guy is the right guy for you.
72146
Stop Pressuring him. \n\nWait until you get married to have sex...\n\nMake sure this is the right guy before you have sex. \n\nMight be the wrong guy.
1060988
If the guy is big and not gentle.  Any good guy would give you plenty of time to relax and enough foreplay to get you ready and it doesn't hurt as much.
116357
he could be a really nice guy and like you for who you are. I didn't have  sex with mt girlfriend or pressure her for 2 months. some guys think sex is a more serious thing and want to wait for the right moment.
296664
1) Wait until you are married before you have sex!  How stupid is it to have sex with someone the first time you meet them?!  Aren't you aware that there are diseases that can KILL you that are transmitted via sexual intercourse.  And don't say that condoms were used!  People still get HIV when condoms are used - condoms aren't failsafe!  Or you could get pregnant!\n\n2)  Why not get to know this guy a little better before you decide you are in love?\n\n3)  Have some dignity and respect for yourself.  Take time, get to know the guy, REALLY find out who he is - and not that he's just great in the sack.
335685
Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
492892
I presume you mean sex??Well I've dated guys who don't expect that so perhaps you're dating the wrong guys!If you want to see a guy again I wouldn't recommend sex on the first date but take things slower and at a pace you're comfortable with.Have fun!
31479
I'd have to get to know him better, he might be a sex freak, for all I know. I would tell him I want to know him more before going out and if i don't like anything about him, dump him.
163070
A a guy, I can tell you all men at first think they just want to have sex with you. But if you allow enough time to pass before this occurs, you and he will know if there can be more to the relationship than that. I would give it several months at least to be more sure he enjoys seeing and knowning more about you, and not just want sex, before you allow things to get physical. In otherwords, time will tell in ways your heart at first can not.
454824
You didn't mention if this was your first sexual relationship with a guy. I would have to say let nature take it's course. If the two of you have spent a lot of time together; cuddle time, petting time, even sleeping together with out having sex and your comfortable together; I would say if you feel your ready just make sure you take the proper preventative measures to protect the two of you from any form of STD or unwanted pregnancies and well go for it. *smile*\n If this is your first time; I would suggest if this is something you both want, work your way up to full intercourse. Explore one another's bodies, take a shower together ( that's always fun!! ), foreplay, foreplay, foreplay *laugh* Above all else, once it's time and it is your first time, RELAX and let your body take your mind into ultimate enjoyment. Granted no matter what unless you have really done heavy foreplay and are totally relaxed your going to feel some pain but just as fast as you have it, it's gone.\n\nSo either way as others say, use the proper protection, set the mood, and if both of you are ready, have fun!!