what do u do when u find out your boyfriend cheated on u twice?
395757
hey this happened to me....i dumped him as fast as i could say listen i cant be played like that....then he hung up on me and we havent realli talked since....you juss have to realize there will be someone else....get over the fact that you love him it doesnt matter....he cheated on YOU....dont let him get away with it especially twice...and before you do anything make sure you are positive he cheated on you and dont go by what friends say go by what you see with your own eyes....be strong cuz it does take a lot and it hurts so0o much when you find out something like that you just have to do what you think is best for yourself dont let urslef get hurt......YOUR supposed to be happy not just him....
229837
sweetheart, it hurts alot. i've been there. you are right in not being able to trust him. it's not always the case that there always a cheater, but it's almost foolproof. if he's done it before, why won't he do it again when he finds someone else that's more attractive to him? all you can do is wait out the pain. it hurts and it sucks, but try and move on. go out, have fun, meet new guys. you don't have to get married or anything, just go out and have fun. i hope this helps you sweetie, at least a little. if you'd like to talk to someone that's been there, you can email me. poetic_disturbulance@yahoo.com
306204
Sorry but you don't cheap on anyone that you supposedly love.  Spare him the heartache again if he knows that you cheated.  Put yourself in his shoes, cuz I know you wouldn't like it if he cheated on you.  Move on.....
446669
Ummmmmm wait a sec - do I have this straight?\n\nHe cheated on you - you forgave him and gave him a 2nd chance?  \n\nYou later cheated and he won't give YOU a 2nd chance?\n\nWell that about says it all if I have that straight.. he doesn't want to give you that 2nd chance because this is HIS way of getting out and 'blaming you for it'.  I bet he has another 'side'.... I'm so sorry, and realize that you have already punished yourself enough, and that you TRIED to be honorable and tell him the truth, and if you could forgive him and he won't you, he's being a JERK!  I'm sorry /comf!
289700
He loves you, yet he still cheated on you? I would hate to think what he would do if he hated you. WAKE UP!!! if he did it to you once he is going to do it to you again. You need to leave now and find someone who will respect you, before you get hurt again.
841047
well u shouldnt worry about something that happened 2 mon. ago just leave it alone. Just because he lied once doenst mean he'll do it again.and if he does leave him
206089
first be sure. if it's true find a new best friend and a girl friend. if she's cheated on you she'll cheat on him and he'll know how you felt. but don't give either one another chance.
717224
I've just found out through the devious resorcefulness of my best friend that my boyfriend is cheating on me and it worries the hell out of me how to handle it. :-(
427754
Don't marry him.  Intamacy problems should only begin once you are married, not before.  This does not bode well for your relationship.  Plus, don't ever take a guy back who has cheated on you twice, let alone twice with the same person.  Move on before it gets messy.
357900
You can't when ever you try to be intimate you will think he is thinking of someone else and you will never be able to trust him. You could look on the bright side that you aren't married to him. You have to think more of yourself and tell yourself that you deserve someone who will be faithful.The first time he cheats and hurts you it's not your fault. The fault comes when you let him have a chance to cheat again. And im sorry to say once a cheat always a cheat. If he loved you so much he could betray you once he will betray you again. Good luck
577027
If I was you if he messed up one more time i would just leave him cause you want a guy that will always loves you not just off and on.. And if he really did cheat on you either he doesnt care or he was just rebounding from something else.. hope that answers your question
527787
Its simple, just BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND before you really hurt him.  As you can probably tell, something like this happened to me.  My ex cheated on me then broke up with me(on the same day that one of my friends died) and I felt like shit for a really long time.  So if you care about your boyfriend you'll let him go and just dont tell him about the other guy.
1079914
Go on Cheaters or Talk to him urself and find out whats going on. If he doesnt tell u the truth. Go with ur gut instincts and leave his sorry butt.
653925
If you strongly believe he won't cheat on you again, then take him back. But, I hate it when girls cheat on me, and both of the girls who have cheated are no longer with me. I broke up with them as soon as I found out. If there is no trust in a relationship, then it won't work out.
1152321
I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
744003
she cheated, it doesnt matter who it was with. you have to decide if you're willing to forgive her and trust her that she won't  do it again.
141608
If you really love him and you are sure in your heart he won't cheat again there is no reason not to give him another chance.  We are all human and make mistakes.  The key though is has he really changed, and can you truely forgive him.  If either of these isn't possible then move on.  If they are, then give it a try and be careful with your heart.