Somtimes I give people dirty looks without knowing and they don't talk to me because of it. Any suggestions?
404654
I know what you mean.\n\nI do that too.\n\nBut I don't mean to.  Sometimes people go around with a mad look on their face and they dont even know it.\n\nso  smile more often when you talk to peep.\n\nThats a start. more smiley face
877687
well, those things i dont think you can really control without offending someone. i think the most you can do is try to encourage everyone to dress nicely. and remind them that how they look reflects how much they care about their job and the business they work for.
17773
just do like the rest of us that have that problem, keep it inside.\nbottel it up then one day just go up to a stranger and start yelling at them.\nif u pick the right kind of person they`ll just look at you.
785189
Don't let them get you down in the first place. \n\nIt's none of your business what people think of you.
624347
There are a lot of rude people out there.  I don't know if it is just distraction, everyone so busy and rushing and not paying attention.  Or is it just simply lack of being brought up with manners?  I would just ignore it and take the high road by being polite.  If everyone does this, the world will be a better place and maybe it will catch on.  In the end, they are the one that looks bad to anyone observing and you can feel good that you aren't them.
1025324
I don't think there is anything YOU can do to make THEM stop.  You can remove yourself from every situation when they start gossiping.  Or you could also state that you are not comfortable discussing people who are not here  to defend themselves. \n\nWish there were more people in this world like you.  You are setting a great example for others.
977164
Be seductive?\nI found out that being needy turns people off.
791481
Try listening to your subconscious mind right before you react negatively.  If you can do that then you will find out what it is that is offending you.Example....  When someone trips most people get embarrassed and some people laugh at you cause it was funny.  You seem like the person that would trip, get embarrassed, then immediately following that feeling you would get mad.Am I right?  If so, you have an insecurity problem.  Just work on your self esteem and you will not be the way that you describe yourself.  Good Luck!!!
562719
I know what you mean and it makes me nervous to talk to someone and they do not make contact(eye). I attribute it almost exclusively to a) timidity, b) nervousness, c) they are not telling the truth, and/or d) They do not think much of you and so do not waste their time looking at you.
280799
I think most people think other people look at them in a "funny" way. Mostly in your head. You should really concentrate on how they act toward you, then you'll truely know if they think you're weird or whatever.
761794
You are making yourself sick.  Stop letting other people get to you.  I had to develop an "I don't give a f***" attitude and I felt the weight of the world lifted off my shoulders.  Stop explaining yourself to people too.
694774
try helping them....get you off...tell them what you like, don't like....because if you don't tell them they won't know..so they will do it how they like it which may be not what you like.
96545
if people are alienating you for some reason, forget them, make up your own click.people are shallow these days.just ignore all of it.
292573
I always think that if for some reason, someone you don't know is going out of his or her way to spread vicious rumors about you, you must either be quite popular, or pretty, or clever. Or, someone that person secretly or publicly likes, made a nice comment about you. Or it could be someone you inadvertently snubbed.\n\nPeople who do this usually have low self-esteem already, they are constantly criticising themselves in the back of their head, and many of them don't even know it. So, when they meet up with someone who is loads better than themselves, sometimes it is only apparent to them, or has someone see through their pretensions, their self-loathing is exposed and the only way they can avoid having to deal with their own self-hate, is to throw mud onto someobody else. That way, they can point at the 'mud' on the other person and hope that their 'mud' will go un-noticed.\n\nIf the rumors are particularly vicious, then a confrontation may not help, as you will be dealing with a lot of hatred, and this means a higher chance of it blowing up in your face. Explain to your friends that these are just rumors, have them help you to spread the facts about you. Be friendlier, nicer, show others that the real you is different. Show courage in weathering this, and you may gain more respect, and perhaps get more friends, at the end of it.\n\nChin up, you will be alright.
1118258
there's a small book out called taming the tongue...look it up and buy it...also read scripture on the tongue...what or who are you benefiting by speaking against people...love them and help them with there awkward ways or looks...we all do it and it's a hard thing to get out of sometimes because we all talk about things..but try not to involve yourself with idle talk..don't say anything when others start in that conversation..and it's hard because that's what you are used to but with time you'll begin to gain control over it...you need a different perspective on what you are doing..understanding the harm in it may help you overcome this obstacle.
1158062
there are two options that i would recommend-\n1. just let it go and ignore them, but maybe smile a little when they insult you and you walk away.  it makes them wonder what was funny.\n2. learn some really good comebacks.  not necessarily stock ones like "oh yeah?  well you're ugly!" but something more creative.  have fun with it.  be insulting.  what are they gonna do, report you?\ndon't fight them.  there's no reason to.
1067609
Just ignore them.  The only reason they keep doing this is because you are reacting.  If you quit giving them any change in your facial expression and quit saying anything to them about it and maybe just give them a laugh and walk off, they will stop.