should i tell him myself?
399872
Don't you ever think! Just like a woman to not have the nuts (so they cant get caught in a zipper) to do things herself. You need to step up and speak your mind. Woman do not say what they feel they just beat around the bush! They just accuse men of not sharing there feeling! Treat the man with respect and tell him yourself!
768921
Yes you need to tell your mother as soon as possible or someone you are comfortable talking to.  A best friends mother, counselor, you doctor.\n\nIt was not your fault and you did not deserve to have this happen to you.  It is important that you report this so this man cannot hurt others like yourself.\n\nYou can then start the healing process and have a better chance to have a happy healthy future.\n\nI pray you find the courage to go forward....
82180
go for it. tell him. what's the pro? be wiser and be brave. nothing is as good in our world as expression of feelings.\n\ngood luck
1004835
If he's a REAL boyfriend, you should be able to tell him anything, anytime, anywhere, for any reason.\n\nIf you have any doubts about telling him about something as important as your feelings, I think you need a new boyfriend!
459736
Now what do you think ? Why would you ever tell him if there is no way for him to know, Put it behind you ask GOD to forgive you and move on. If you tell him it is over.Believe me men never let it go,they may say they can but it is something about their ego it just eats them up. Do not tell him
640377
Tell him the truth.\n\nThe voices in your head told you to do it.
110210
If he tells you when you are alone take it as fact and be happy with it. He may feel shy to talk openly about it with his friends are around. Respect that.
481760
just come out and tell him
734170
no u need to tell him this
889272
i say tell him. take a risk.!!
1045882
YEA, If not you may miss out on a beautiful thing !!!\n\nI seriously doubt that your telling him that would cause any problems only good
243870
If you truly love this guy and you think that you and he could work out for real, I would tell him how you feel. Telling him will make you feel better, and leave him to make the decision. \n\nPlus, you don't want to look back 5 years from now, see him married to this girl, and regret never telling him, do you?
1127634
No...you shouldn't tell him, nor should you be involved or get involved with him. So long as he is married there is that chance no matter how slim that he could reconcile with his wife, and you shouldn't be there to make that impossible or harder for him to do. You are also only opening yourself up to hurt by being involved...best to stay away.
650380
Tell him it important to you. he may not realize it.
332671
If he hasn't approached you, then you should not tell him. He probably doesn't want to know...why rain on his parade? \n\nIf he has approached you, however, it is only right to tell him the truth. He's a big boy now; I think he can handle it.\n\nOf course, you always run the risk of him finding out some other way. He might be angry with you in this case. You have to decide if it's likely that he will find out from someone else.
28093
I think you should think about it and tell him if you are relly sure you want to. Does it seem like he feels something for you? If you break up or are rejected there is a possibility that your frienship will change. But it is not good to keep it to yourself because you might have a chance and if you dont tell him you might regret not taking the risk later on in your life.
1084853
Tell him straight up, just do what you gotta do.  You have the option!