my 18 year old friend is treating me like a BABY!!!!!!!!!!?
405244
So what? My boyfriend treats me like a new born but I don't care. I like all the attention!
371989
Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!
340942
He sounds like he's acting like a spoiled brat to me! He needs a good butt whipping! He needs to act his age, not his IQ!! So what if you got a call from an old pal? So what?!? Its not like you were talking dirty or something. Sounds really controlling and jealous, so you better put an end to his mess now before it gets too bad. Put your foot down and MAKE him listen to you!! GL;)_
593382
Of course you have the right to be pissed off!  Hey you're 18 you're considered an adult!  Just sit down with your parents and tell them how you feel about the whole situation.
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I dont believe that your 17. If you were 12 also... then I guess it isnt so bad, cuz you would both be naive. But at 17 you should know the difference! And people like you is why our future is going to be short-lived.\n\nAt 17 you are almost an ADULT (according to society's standards) and you should be mature enough to know the difference. You shouldnt be helping your friend get a date. You should be telling her That dating OVER THE INTERNET is a BAD IDEA!!!! for your young friend and even for you!! (for anyone as a matter of fact)\n\nAt 17 you shouldnt be hangin around with 12 year olds unless its a family member. You have to be psychologically stunted, or be very immature, or maybe the truth is plain and simple... you cant get any friends your own age to hang out with. After your next birthday you could get in SOOO much trouble for hanging out with a bunch of pre-teens - just by sayin the wrong thing in front of the wrong people.\n\nAnd if you are both so desperate as to flaunt yourself across the internet - inviting men to chat with promise of possibly dating - then you both must be a*ssss uggggly or your blatantly stupid ... Im guessing both. \n\nAlso, as I said on your other question. There must be a reason your 12 yr old "friend" cant get on the internet herself to ask for her rape and possible murder. \n\nAt 17, I know you think you have all the answers, you know everything, and everyone else is wrong. But in a few years you'll look back and realize how utterly stupid your being. You should feel absolutely ashamed for condoning her need for self exploitation. You are helping solicit a 12 yr old CHILD and you are a VERY irresponsible person, and hope that you get charged for being an accessory to the crime if anything ever happened to your friend. And I hope they try you as an adult!!!\n\nAnd as I said before I think that you are LYING when you say you're 17. You most certainly arent 17 mentally. GROW UP... YOU ARE GOING TO BE AN ADULT SOON. BUT YOU WILL NEVER GROW UP WITH REASONING LIKE YOURS!
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sounds to me like he's a messed up guy but there probably isn't much you can do about it other than stop being his friend so that you don't have to worry about his drama. if family services hasn't taken care of things i'm sure they will eventually or someone will be sure they do.
743406
You were young and immature when this happened. Sounds like she is still young and immature. How about getting a new friend?
399221
You are hurt, and feel betrayed by a person that said she was your friend. To you, when she said she was your friend, it meant for the rest of your life, through thick and thin. Her interests have changed, along with her address. She now lives an hour away. Unfortunately, people, and circumstances change. Life goes on, and my advice is, find other young mothers like yourself, near where you live, and develop friendships with them. You will always care about your friend, but you must find new ones. Good luck. I wish the best for you.
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Confront her.  ask her why she would betray your trust, and if the rumors you are hearing about her calling you a b!@#h are true.  As you get older, you will see that friendships thrive on openness and honesty.\nMaybe your friend felt left out.  I was the last of my friends to get my period, and was green with envy when they all talked about it.  I felt left out, and even mad at them, even though it wasn't there fault.\nAlso, think back: have you been nasty to your friend?  Hormones can make woman impossible sometimes.  maybe you may have been b!@#hy to her.  \nif she's really your friend, she'll apologize if you confront her.  If not, start looking for new friends.  Your period is only the first of many things you will go through during adolecence, and you need someone you can trust and depend on.\nas for the whole school knowing, let them talk.  In a few days, they will find something new to talk about.\nI hope everything works out for you.
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Your "boyfried" has other, much more serious, things to be doing and taking responsibility for right now.  At 18 he's an adult with a family of his own - why would you even consider dating him?!  Is this what you want for your own life - a guy who has a baby to you then is off to the next 15 year old?  I doubt this will remain a friendship - if it does encourage him to support the baby and it's mother as he should.  Get YOUR priorities in order!!  You deserve much better!  Figure out what you want from life, work hard in school to get it, and stay focused.  Boys at this stage will mess up your goals much more than help them!  Good luck to you and God bless you.
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Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
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i may not no u in person but i know u must be a great [person with feelings! Her friendship  meant aslot to u and thast is what lead  u to crying! She doesn't deserve u the older u'll get the more peopole u'll meat and the better they willl appriciate u .
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Let me ask you this and it is coming from a loving place.  Do you have a life outside of your friendship with Sue?  Do you have a man?  Are there feelings of jealousy?  \n\nI ask this because based on your questions you appear upset because Sue is spending more time with her man and not the girls.  You are prepared to cut someone you call a friend out of your life because you are not getting what you want i.e.  "I don't get to talk to Sue as much as I want to. My other friend and I don't like it that's she is treating us like a spare tire"\n\nWhile friendship is important and can sometimes be the spice of life, intimacy is also very important to life.  New relationships take time to develop.  \n\nNot only that, but if she allows you to dictate the terms of her relationship now when will it stop.  Where does she draw the line?  Why do you get to dictate how much is too much time to spend with her boyfriend?\n\nIf you love your friend, don't be so selfish and stop actiling like a spoiled little child.  Is it wise or mature on your part to get mad when you don't get what you want.  If you start cutting your friends loose now because you can't have your way, when will you stop.  Hopefully it won't be when you are alone and have no friends to talk to.  \n\nAre you really a friend or someone trying to fulfill your wants and desires through someone else.\n\nFrom my personal experience, going one day without talking has never killed any of my friendships.  Heck, I have life long friends that I have not talked to in months, but that is not enough to destroy our friendship.  We all have too many other things going on in our lives than to worry about who is doing what and why has't she called me today.  \n\nThe best advice I could give you is to grow up and get a life of your own.  I can guarantee if you were out participating in just a fraction of what life has to offer you won't have the time to wonder why Sue has not called you.  In fact, you may find you are enjoying life so much that weeks have gone by and you have not called Sue.
290999
That is rough. I have been there myself. If she continues to push herself on you even after you have told her no then she doesn't respect you or your feelings. She is being self centered. You make it very clear to her how it makes you feel.Tell her that if she keeps it up you will no longer be friends and you will be forced into pressing charges against her with the police for harassment.Your best bet after that is to avoid her best you can.Keep busy with other things.
174883
Yes sweetie. You are to young. Your time will come I promise you. Just give it time. It is ok to be friends and talk on the phone but nothing to serious, ok.
179235
he's making u think ur his g-friend but in reality he's just using u for what ur giving him or for what ur going to give him. and he is prolly doing this because he figures u are young, nieve, vulnerable, and gullable. he's thrown u hints already - by him not labeling u as his g-friend and by avoiding a commitment with u. so u cant be completely mad at him since he's being slightly honest.
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When she behaves like that ask her how she would feel if you treated her the way she treats you.  \n\nYou are not her mother so there is very little you can do.  You have to let things go because she is not your child.  Unfortunately, her mother is raising a child that will turn into an uphappy adult.