i like a girl but she is too good for me and i know thatif i ask her out it will ruin my rep. what should i do
399562
never think somebody is too good for you !!\nEVERYBODY has their strenghts and weaknesses..What do you mean : too good-looking for you or something ?\n\nIf you knew how many women are considered "too good" and are just ordinary like the rest.........\n\nMen too.........\n\nTry !! You do not know her do you ? so how do you know if she is "that" good in whatever field you think of : looks, personality, job ???\n\nEverybody is human..\n\nAmd if she behaves like a "snotty type" : ignore and move on..men are the same..
275737
ok one, movies, not a good place. you dont even get to know her that well then. Go to a resturaunt. Much better. NOW, best thing to do is have the guts, because girls really do respect guys that are WILLING and CONFIDENT in their selves. BUT, where there is a will there is a way. Go to one of your buddies, and if he is friends with her have him go up to her and say "hey, i think my friend here likes you, but im not sure, would you want me to hook you up with em?" somthing like that, that way he isnt saying you DO like her. but he isnt asking FOR you. he is just helping HER out kuz he wants to be "matchmaker" ect. so you are excluded from the shame of rejection. but having the guts is recomended. somtimes you just have to take risks for love. good luck dude.
525400
just develope the relationship naturally, if you push too hard then you might ruin things. If you really like her then try to spend more time with her and see how she reacts to being with you more. If she does like you then things will happen but be patient
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
175885
Don't worry about what kind of sign she is giving you. If you like her then go for it and ask her out. Quit worrying about getting rejected because it's going to happen. Get use to it. The more you ask the more you'll date. Remember, don't be a jerk or play games with them. That's just uncool. \n\nGo up to her and just start talking. Talk about anything. If she's interested the conversation will go -- and don't walk away without asking if you can all her.
107849
well there can be two thing. 1) she doesnt like you anymore or 2) shes to scared to make the first move so she is trying to make you jealous so youll ask her out and if you really like her dont push her aside ask her out give it a shot. =)
584244
I think she is testing you to see what you will do. Sometimes girls play hard to get and thats sometimes their way of doing it. Ask her again. Tell her you can't stop thinking about her and that you really like her and you would like to your friendship to a new level like dating.
937409
maybe she just likes you coz of who you are and how you treat her. you should know that in life there's no one better than you, ur just different.\nif she likes you, then she saw something in you that she longed for which the jocks and athletes dont have.\nmaybe you know how to speak to her heart and u are a peerson that can be trusted.dont put yourself off ur equally smart and fun to be with thats why she's going out with u.\nhow do you fel when you are with her? can you talk about anything and can she be herself when she is with u and the same for u when ur with her?\nif she finds you attractive,then there's something in you that makes her want to go out with u.she trusts u with her heart and herself and she knows that u dnt expect alot from her.you are different from other guys so dont blow your chance with her& dont ask her why she's with you ask her when your r/ship has grown into something more than just occasional dates then you'll know why it was worthwhile and why she chose you.when u go out dnt try to impress her maybe your cool ways is what drew her to u play your cards right and she'll wanna hang out with u more often
479796
yeah i think u should inf she turns you down it will just mean that shes not good for you
706512
You should just move on there are a lot of other girls out there who would not turn down your offer. Also it depends on weather she is interested in you if not. Back off, find someone who cares.
928023
Don't chase her. If she likes you then she needs to step up. If not, look at it as Her loss, not yours.
662754
ASk her out for a drink, get to know her better and take it from there! If you still like her once you know her better then you have made a good choice, if youfind you have conflicting interests then look elswhere!
797026
I would say you are stressed about the situation - something similar happened to me many years ago. Try to start thinking about your own needs, rather than the situation with the girl you like.
940772
You have it bad for her.  If she liked you, she would have went out with her when you asked her!  Seems like you need to get her out of your system!  It she wanted to go out with her and you asked her, she would no doubt let you know that she was willing to go out with you now!  It seems like you need to get real and forget her!
722728
You have to have a bit more self confidence. Just ask her out. then she'll obviously know you like her. Don't try to impress her, just be yourself and if she doesn't like you then get over it and find someone new.
45655
you first find a girl that you are attracted to. Then you see what she is into. while you are asking her questions you should tell her about you. If you see that she doesn't care or is not interested then you should stop. If she seems interested keep going. After that you should see if ya'll have anything in common. if you do! it is safe to ask her out. or you can just ask her out without doing all that but, if you want 2 make sure she likes you then follow the steps.
288656
Take a deep breath and do it.\n\nThe longer you wait, the worse your chances. There was a girl I liked, and I waited too long to ask her out. Now she has another boyfriend, and I feel so stupid, especially when I found out that she had been interested in me as well. Don't make my mistake.\n\nYou may want to get friendly with him first, if that makes you more comfortable. But no matter what, you have to do it somehow, so seize the day.