Need Advice! Please help!?
411611
Go up to him and talk to him.  Just start a casual conversation..you can tell if a guy likes you by the way he smiles at you.  If he flirts, flirt right back!
887335
she doesn't know what she wants.  Be the bigger person and walk away.  you don't deserve to be yanked around like this.
971686
That is so terrible!! I would say just continue to do what you are already doing...be there for her! You are an awesome friend...good job...not too many of those left in the world.
547504
Ask someone who is rough and tough to approach him to tell him not to make this sort of remarks in future. Let that guy tell him you are no longer his and tell him to stay out of your life. In the meantime, get closer to your new boyfriend for as long as it is neccessary. Use whatever means to avoid him.
953988
Ask for goodness sakes!  How are you going to be able to find out if things are going to get better if you don't take the next step.  Are you going to wait and depend on him?  He is probably totally oblivious.  You might have a long wait.  SOMEBODY needs to make a decision.  Good luck!
790117
Stop being foolish (no offense).  You will never have anyone if you keep acting stupidly!   You will just end up settleing!  Don't be that stupid chick that falls for guys that ignore her and play games.  If you've got something right in front of you go for it...  If it doesn't work out then push him away!
229939
NOBODY DESERVES TO BE IN THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP WITH TRUST ISSUES. IF YOU GUYS REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER THEN YOU TWO HAVE TO STAY STRONG AND DON'T GIVE UP ON EACH OTHER. TELL HIM EVERYTHING THAT IS ON YOUR MIND AND JUST LET HIM KNOW THAT IT WILL BE OVER IF YOU HAVE TO ACCUSE HIM FOR DOING SOMETHING. TELL HIM TO BE HONEST AND IF HE WANTS TO LEAVE GIRL YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO BE STRONG AND LET GO . YOU DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM IF HE IS GOING TO TREAT YOU LIKE 2ND'S YOU NEED TO BE FIRST . SO GOOD LUCK AND STAY A STRONG WOMAN
253629
I would say tell them and tell him soon, you don't want to keep leading him on. I would also say honesty is the policy in this situation, just be honest with him let him know how you are truly feeling and why. More than likely your going to hurt him a little but as long as your honest and gentle with his feelings, I think you will both be okay.
168306
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)
967251
Ignore them...see what happens. Be too busy with your life to call them all the time. If they really love you, they will chase you. Put yourself in places they will have to see you...by accident of course ;-)  And act like you didn't know they were there. If you catch them staring...look at them, smile and wink, and walk on. I actually pinched a guy on the butt and kept walking once. (yeah, he called) lol But back to your original question, Everyone is different. Some people show love, some people don't know how. People won't always believe what you say, but they will always believe what you do. What do they do? They can tell you all day long they love you, but do they show it? Do they give you the last cookie? It's little things. I didn't know a guy loved me like he did, until it was too late.  He didn't show it, I assumed he didn't. Hopefully we learn from our mistakes. Life goes on. I am happier, He is happier. That's life.
47150
Talk up a storm. Start sharing so much about you with them. They realize you trust them and perhaps they will realize perhaps they should trust you equally so. Don't be disturbed when it takes a while. Let your friend find his/her comfort zone. Rest assured if he/she does.......you might have the best friendship you've ever had. :)
97988
This guy is toying around with you.  He's hot, then he's cold.  Sounds like you'd be better off without all the mind games and drama.  Looks will only get you so far.  Have to have the personality to match!  Don't call.  If he calls, and you still want to be with him, make it conditional.  Ask him to be honest re: what he feels and to stop acting like such a "drama queen."  If he blows up or acts immature again, then leave the relationship alone.  At least you gave him one final chance to prove himself.  You are much better off looking elsewhere.
489240
the best thing to do is talk to someone you love and trust. Maybe your parents/gaurdian. Youve been through something terrible and you need some support around you and go tell someone immediately. Go to the police and have him charged. Its the best thing to do because you can prevent him from hurting someone else. Its scary but its the right thing to do
834053
Listen to their advice & opinions, but ultimately--the decision is yours to make.  Whatever your decision is though, know that you could be in for a world of hurt, or you might have found the love of a lifetime. Only time will tell, and only you can decide that.  Give it some time & see where it goes.\n\nGood luck!
540961
Been there and done that...not fun!  I feel for you but you have to be strong enough to GET OUT!  I had family and friends to help me out behind his back.  I planned carefully because he was smart and inquisitive, very controlling.  Get mad and smart too!  Figure out his work schedule and get it all done in a short amount of time.  Get a restraining order against him before you go so that you are somewhat protected when you leave.  Go somewhere safe where someone is with you all the time and has speed dial.  Get a plan B so that if this is not an option you have somewhere else to go.  Don't make him mad.  Above all don't let him see you are nervous.  Keep him calm and level headed until you pull it off.  Don't change your routine or compromise yourself.  Be sure to delete all "help" calls off the phone and alert the police of what you are about to do and the day and time.  You can also have the police escort you out once they know the situation if you need to do it that way.  My prayers go out with you!
321205
just tell her. talk to her about it. it works the best!
940819
A real man and friend would tell his friend the truth.  Don't be stupid and do his wife.  Just because she hot doesn't make her not act like a ho.  She's desperate right now and trying to get out a situation because she got caught.  Thinks of this, if you do her, she could be a real b**** and flip it around and tell her husband that you came on to her.  Not only will she get out of her situation with him but she'll get out of her situation with you with a bonus from you to boot.  Tell him and whether he believes you is his problem.  Let him know that you have no reason to lie.  If he ends your friendship over this, trust me, she'll be stupid enough to screw up again and get caught then he'll feel like a fool.