(mostly guys and some girls)HOW  DO  I GOT THROUGH HAVING A BOYFRIEND I LOVE DEARLY AND LIKE SOMEONE ELSE?
396220
you have 2 consider your feelings and also your boyfriends. would u rather be wit that other guy or your boyfriend? would the boyfriend be hurt if u left him? who would u be happier with?
41785
well first off you have to ask yourself if that is the type of person that you want as a boyfriend. if you can deal with him flirting with other girls then hey i guess that it is fine. but if you cant then maybe you need to find someone else because that can only lead to a troubled relationship. you may find your self having trust issues with this young man and that can only lead to fustration and heart break because what exactly is a relationship without trust. you honestly have to ask yourself could you put uo with having a boyfriend that is a big flirt. if you talk to him about it he may think that you are jealous and stuff. but if you cant put up with it then the best thing for you to do is move around. but all in all you have to do what is best for you and him.
1085801
Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
400766
I feel the same way. My boyfriend broke up me last week and I just can get over it. They don't have an effect on it because they probably didn't love us like we love them and we gave them to much of our love. U love him and that's why u can't get over him. Try 2 be friends with him and I know that might be a hard to do.Just pray on it God will bring someone in your life that will appreciate you like u want 2 be appreciate.
559818
this is going to do you some good. i was in the same situation about a year ago i always leaned on my gf and it was a good experince i had to learn to depend on myself cause your signifiacnt other might not always be there. and you need to be happy with yourself and depend on yourself. and be independent and do things for yourself.  then you will truely be happy and find the right guy for you. not one you need to be happy. you should be happy if you have a guy or not
271951
First off, good for you. Don't let other people pressure you into finding a boyfriend, that will only trap you in a pointless relationship. They pressure you because they feel like they're helping, it's hard to tell them all their interference makes the situation worse. Tell them, 'I will have a boyfriend when I find one I like.' If that doesn't stop them, tell them you're thinking about becoming a lesbian.
2196
Hey, I think I can appreciate your answer but try following what I have been doing and I guess most of the people are happy with me.\n1. Remember you can not make every one happy all the times, Moral: Make some people happy some times, just prioritize your selves and your time.\n2. Put all focus to the people with whom you are: dont think about ur BF when u r with friend and vice versa.
500396
dont break up with him, but ask him for some time off for a week or so. if you think about the other boy more, break up with your boyfriend because you don't like him anymore. but if you think about your boyfriend more, stay with him. if you dont think about either, well, just see where it goes.
50902
wait until you know how you feel. there is a difference between dating and having a boyfriend. it is totally okay to casually date more than one person at a time as long as they understand you're not exclusive. if you decide that you have very strong feelings for one person, stop dating the others and go exclusive with that person. don't pick one guy and stick with him unless you're sure about it, because that's not fair to him. if your emotions are going back and forth, that probably won't change even if you become his girlfriend, and you could ruin a good friendship. right now i'm rebuilding a friendship for that very reason, and it's slow and sometimes pretty awkward.
157048
Well, first off, you can't *make* someone like you.  \n\nSecond, tell him EXACTLY how you feel.  If he doesn't feel the same, and all he wants is a piece from you while you want more, kick him aside and find someone else who respects you for YOU and not your genitals.\n\nIn other words... communicate.  If you can't communicate now, you'll never be able to in a relationship, and before you know it?  You're on an episode of COPS, getting beaten up by your meth-addicted boyfriend who only wants you for sex.
938827
A lot of us have been in a situation similar to this..dont interfere in your friends relationship..they are happy you just have to accept it..you need a boyfriend of your own and then you will be ok.
180032
The most important part of a boyfriend is the FRIEND part. Hang around people you like.  Hang around guys who have qualities you like.  Learn to talk.  Learn how to open up a little.  How to joke, tease, and maybe even flirt a little.... just dont overdo it or you will seem desperate.
278848
If you are even considering other boys while you have a boyfriend, you're definitely not ready for a boyfriend.  If you need all the attention, break up with your boyfriend and date them all.
1127283
If you get the person you want, and that person likes you, then you have won half the battle ( and thats only half the battle )\nYou have to be the way, that person likes you to be.\n\nTake a hint from 'Hitch'\nLearn how to be a nice person, and your partner will adore you for that!!
1054965
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
761230
treat a boyfriend just like you'd treat a friend\nthere really is no difference until you get to the point with all the kissing and mushy stuff\nbe urself like you r with ur friends
1041582
You need someone to love.  \n\nYou have a very giving nurturing spirit, but feel there is no one who needs it or deserves it.\n.\nYour boyfriend may also be acting indifferent or too independent for you and you feel somewhat lonely.