will my g/f break up with me?
396609
Go in with an open mind. \n\nSure, when women want to talk, it's always seems to be about the relationship, but go in with an open mind.\n\nShe wants to talk to you about it, whatever "it' is. You may be surprised.
105980
well I have good news and bad news. If she is angry chances are she still loves you. YOu dont really get upset with people you have no feelings for. The bad news is that nothing can make the pain go away, and if you really love her you always will. But as time passes so will the pain. The two of you can never have a healthy relationship because you have too much history now. So chalk this as a learning experience because maybe thats what it was meant to be.
631252
I highly suggest that you break up with her already since you sound serious about cheating on her. You should not heart her if in your mind it's already over just let her go without hurting her any more than you have to. If you ever really cared about her don't do something that you know is gonna cause her more pain even if the relationship is in a bad place.
614342
Well, first of all she's not your girl anymore. You've both had people in your lives after the break up which is fine. You weren't together and you both had someone else. She has no right to be mad at you if she is.\n\nIf she says that it doesn't matter whether or not you want to be with her then that's probably the truth. You need to both tell her and show her how you feel and than see what she has to say.\n\nI'm sorry to be harsh. I am a very blunt person. I wish you the best of luck.
466225
She may be ruined...If you can trust her, you two will be alright. If you have any doubt you relationship will tarnish faster than that ring.
877610
If its that important to you that you should be able to be yourselves in public then it MAY not work... however, if your love for each other outweighs this need/want to go public, then you just have agree with her. Its tough for you AND for her as well. She took a RISK for you, by being your girlfriend, even if it harms attaining her dreams...try to look at it from her side, if you still think that being "together outside" is important to you then maybe its time to rethink the relationship.
516293
It's not fair to your girlfriend if you don't think it's going to work out. You THINK you love her? You do or you don't. You need to figure out what is going on w/your girlfriend before you start planning for this other girl. Not wanting to hurt someone is not a good enough reason to stay w/them-that sounds harsh, but you'll just end up resenting her.
607122
lol - its true, you could be getting on her nerves :)\nit could mean a few things, eg.\nit means that she needs time by herself to work out how she thinks/feels about things in her life including you. It also means that she doesnt feel like she can say something to you that you wont like and she is building up the courage and finding her way to say it best. It also means that you and her are becoming too big in her life and that she cant balance her relationship with you with everything else she has to do in her life and that may be her fault or yours.\ncould be a whole load of reasons.\n\nall you really need to know is it is time to show some respect and independance and give her her space, if you care and love her then back off and find something to keep you occupied while she is finding her space.\nIf she is messing you around then maybe move on, I have asked for a bit of space before - it didnt mean i was breaking up with my gf or messing her around, I really needed it and she respected that and not having her calling me every five minutes concerned about if i love her and such was very cool of her, give her her space :)
526157
I can understand why your g/f is mad. Why wouldn't you want to blow off another chick if you already have a girl friend? Just politely tell the other girl that you're taken and that nothing can happen between you both. If she doesn't get the hint, then stop talking to her and tell her to leave you alone. Make sure your gf knows that you love her and no one else. Do something special for her that you would never do for anyone else. Ur gf feels threatened. Girls are almost always insecure and think that their man will be taken away buy someone else, so just let her know that you don't want or need any one other than her.
373737
why would you break up at all??  If you both love eachother, then what's getting in the way?  If it's something simple-work thru it and carry on the relationship.  If it's serious like cheating or something like that then that's how you can break up with someone you love...and it's never easy.
867328
if she's local enough that you can see her on a weekly basis or more than yes both of you two need to break up with who you are with as best as you can and be together. if you can hardly see this girl I would continue talking to her but still both of you should break up with whomever you're with 4 the mere fact that you're not in love with them.
81614
Probably ... if she broke up with you before, she just may break up with you again ... What did you do that she broke up with you before?
966868
Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she's trying to tell you something in a different way. Honesty is the best answer  so sit down with her tell you how you feel about what she's doing and ask her why she's doing it. Maybe she does want a break up or maybe she just wants your attention and some special time together. You won't know till you try but I'd see whats up before permanent damage is done to your relationship.
464978
Depends on how long the relationship has been going on and where you both are at in your lives. If you are single, I would say probably not. :)
418762
There is no way around this if this girl loves you then she is going to have her heart broke. you can not expect her not to be affected emotionally...the time is now to end this, do not prolong this relationship it will only make it more difficult for her. It's almost sweet that you care enough to not want her to be hurt but it's time to realize that there is nothing you can do except tell her it's over and give her time to heal...we've all been there!
1033069
If you've been dating for 2 years, it's easy to get into a routine. It's time to stop and really think about your relationship and whether it is holding you back or acting as a positive in your life. \n\nIt sounds like you guys have been through some rough spots, but before you break up with her, I think you need to ask yourself whether you think the good outweighs the bad. \n\nAsk yourself...\n1. What are the good and bad things about your relationship? Make a list.\n2. For each of the bad things, what are you currently doing to resolve the issue? Is there something you could try? Do you think that she would work together with you to resolve it? If you do not think there is a solution for the issue, are you ok with that being a permanent part of your life?\n3. Are both of you guys heading in the same life direction? Do you have the same goals? Is she "The One" ?\n\nI think once you think through these things, you will be in a better place to decide what the next step is. Relationships take up a lot of energy and time that you could be devoting to other, more positive things - friends, family, etc. etc. Make sure that this girl is a positive in your life. \n\nIf you think that it's just not possible to fix the rough spots, you should tell her that you guys have grown apart and that you need to go your own way. It's going to be tough, but you will be a happier, stronger person in the end. You should be with someone who respects you and loves you. Don't settle for less.
651767
It probably wouldn't happen. If I break up with someone, it's for a good reason, and that reason isn't so she can keep popping up on my doorstep again and again. Generally, a breakup means all of the following: Do not call. Do not write. Do not e-mail. Get a life, back off, and stay the hell away from me.