what wold you do if you truly loved some one who is a friend and is dating someone who isnt right for her?
407524
Tell her... politely.. and tell her that he or she isn't right for them... at all cost.... you must make sure yourself that its in the best interest of her and not for you....
291864
if you really liked her and respected her you would A) want the best for her, wich is not messing around, and B) not come between them if they are happy together.  don't think of just yourself
612289
You have to decide which person means more to you the one your with or the one your not with. Your the ony one who can decide is it worth rising hurting the guy you love for womeone who your not sure that he even feels the same way.
365993
I suggest that you two should just be friends. If you really loved her you wouldn't have dumped her
543666
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
223734
Whats wrong with you. Of course not.If you even think about leaving the one you love for someone who you like, then you probubly dont really love that person to begin with.
1046923
You are best off to remove your self from this triangle before everyone gets hurt. Stay friends with your friend and tell her guy that you will not have anything to do with him even if him and you friend split up as it will harm your frienship. And tell her how he is she deserves to know the truth about him so she can move on to someone who will respect her and love her for herself. You will find the right guy someday don't give up hope you will know when he is the one.
304499
Absolutely not, If she is a good friend don't even consider dating her X. He is an X for a reason. \nIf you want to loose her friendship go right head?
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
726715
If you guys didnt really have anything in common and you were super happy with her, then you did the right thing. You should never settle for someone, or continue being with someone in fear of hurting their feelings. Its a hard thing to do, I know, because I am the same way, but you have to think, do I really want to spend the rest of my life being moderately happy instead of really happy? And its better to do it now then wait til later when you cant take it anymore and youre much older than you are now and starting over is that much harder.
994981
if you both have the same feelings for each other then go for the next step cause in some cases its better to date someone that you are friends with first.
30802
It's not proper to be in such situation and its not easy for her too, she was in love at first then you came, you got closer and now you are both in love but at the same time she is with her boyfriend, may she likes something in you and another in her boyfriend, but soon one of you will win, so to be honest with yourself and to avoid doubting that she might do it with another person if she left her boyfreind for you, give her enough time to decide but you have to be away from her she must choose only one person in order not to be hurt or to hurt her boyfriend if he discovered that she is cheating on him
40252
You have to follow your heart.  if you don't have feeling for the person you're with, it's time to move on.  It's near impossible to not hurt who your with now, but in the long run you're going to feel better for it.  Plus, it'll spare the person your with of even more grief in the future.
117273
Wait for them to break up, and in the mean time look around, because you might find someone you like better. What ever you do though don't try to break them up.
458302
It's an almost impossible choice. Does the one you love, love you back? If you don't love the one who loves you, then she is not the right one, if you truly know you will never love her, let her go, it isn't fair to keep her hanging on. Take a chance on the one you love and if it doesn't work out, at least you've done the right thing by the other girl.
889934
Whatever you do dont break the unspoken rule which is dont date your friends exboyfriends. Let it go if its a really good friend if not then wait til they break up. What I mean is dont worry so much about it, if it happens then it does if not then oh well. Date whom ever you'd like for now and if it were to work out that you were single at the same time only then pursue it if it wasnt a good friend.
925515
Get rid of the one that went out with your friend, because it will only get worse.  Stay with the one you realy love, because he may give love back to you, which will make you feel good outside and in.