What should I do about an ex-boyfriend who will not finish school?
409776
Some people who didnt finish school can have success (money, power) in life. Maybe he wants to return later, maybe he will learn many things outside the classroom.\n\n  I dont see it as a real problem if he has another activity, a job or something productive. If he is your ex-bf, you care about him, maybe this will be an opportunity for you to re-join with him or at least talk things as friends.
791297
You can't move forward if you don't face your past.  Be brave enough to follow your dream, go to the university you want, and disregard your ex-girlfiend.  It's your life after all...don't let someone else control it, even if indirectly.
1181303
If he has problems in school because of his behavior.....I believe a school councilor can talk to child w/out permission because my son is ADHD and school councilor talked to him w/out permission....as far as your ex goes......He is BLIND if he doesn't see a problem....unless your ex acts like him...I would ask family DR what to do...or get a good lawyer...that's scary of him drawing those terrible pictures...look at all the school killings...Show the picture to the school....they should be able to do something about it...like, again, a school councilor  GOOD LUCK!!
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
271928
He can get into most colleges and universities with a GED, but that's not the only issue of concern for him (and you). What does he intend to do in lieu of attending classes? Does he have a job? Is he interested in going to college later on? How is his social development? Will he be completely cut off from his peer group when he drops out of high school or does he have a wide circle of friends outside of school? These are some questions you should both consider carefully, but it's your life (and his) and your decision to make. I hope it works out for both of you.
130680
YES, and stay your course.Work hard to finish school and don't let that piece of s%#t make you feel guilty for anything you have done. Don't let someone like him drag you down. Its gonna be rough for a while, but you definitely don't need anybody to make things harder. Hang in there, it will be worth it.
193175
Make it very clear you are not together. Although I don't think that will work. I was in a similar situation, my ex was delusional. \nDo not answer his questions... ignore them.
279570
he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
187550
Take him aside,and tell him."I don't want to brake up w/ you,but since you're moving........."Talk to you at school,love ya like a sis.
129383
Yes I think you should..... but you don't need to rush into anything.... why not finish your degree then marry him.... Then, you will be able to contribute financially to the marriage. Also, if you give up your studies for him you may always wonder what could have been had you not dropped out of school.
1043263
Hon, one thing I have learned, is no matter how hurtful it feels...sometimes you got to make choices that will benefit you and not your significant other. After all, you got to focus on what is best for you, because no one else will!! \n\nLet him go now, before it is too late. I quit school for a month and got bored because all of my friends were in school so there was nothing for me to do. So, I went back to school. I am so glad I did. STAY IN SCHOOL!! \n\nDon't make a decision you could regret. And do what is best for your FUTURE, not today.
530538
I know its difficult but isn't the time factor a motivation for you? I think that you should just do it, just talk to him. Time is running out and at least tell him now. The great thing about the situation is that you can tell him and if the whole thing goes wrong then at least you're out of school and don't have to deal with this problem. The way I see it, is that this is the best time to tell him. It's now or never.
1522
you said that you still like him but you didn't mention if he still likes you and i think he would not get involve with someone else if he is still interested in you.i can suggest that you focus on other things, instead of constantly thinking of him in class why not focus more on your studies, enroll in music or art classes. keep yourself busy until you heal and ready to get into another relationship. good luck:)
438640
Move on with your life. Put him in your past and keep him there.
590704
You need closure. Tell him how you feel and explain that if you did not tell him, you'd explode. Then tell him that that's just it, that you're willing to give him the freedom he wants and for your part, you are doing your share of getting over him soon. This transition "rite" would formalize your breakup and should clarify things for both of you that you don't have to play the waiting game anymore. Afterwards, forget about him and move on.
130080
All you can do is encourage him, he has to want to do it.  You can't force someone into action, the most you can do is to try to show him the ways in which going back to school will benefit him in the long run.  Ambition and drive is something that a person has to have within and if he fails to see the importance of an education, then there isn't much that you can do.
1035470
Well, I went back & read your other questions. You got a lot of answers telling you to just move on. This is just my opinion but YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART.\n\nI don't think that you need to find someone else right now, that would just be a rebound relationship. I imagine your ex-bf is in jail in Toledo. I think you need to sit back & wait, if you stay in contact with him & then after court he is going to look to you to help pay his fine. Did he mention why he was arrested?? Because if he is still in jail how did he text you? He may be telling you everything that he knows you want to hear but on the other hand he might have had a rude awakening when he got arrested and realized what he has lost and now he wants you back. Just please don't go out & do the revenge thing & have a one night stand with someone>>& you don't have to have s3x for it to be a one night stand<<. You need to give yourself time, but if he asks you for money then he is trying to play you for a fool. Go to the library & check newspapers for the past few weeks to see who has been arrested. You may find out that your boyfriend is still close by, that could be a reason why he deleted his families numbers because he knew you would call & they would tell you that they haven't heard from him. Men can be very tricky when it comes to getting what they want. Take heed & you will be the one planting the seed.