what I must say with someone who I don't know before in cocktail party..please help me?
395994
Smile and make eye contact, in a social situation most people (who are nice anyway) will automatically say hi back! keep smiling and keep conversation light, comment on the food- have you tried....., or the drinks-be polite, never negative and ask questions about them, people love to talk about themselves!!! Talking about how they know the host of the party is good sometimes, "who are you here with?" do you know such and such"? never take yorself too seriously, introduce yourself, ask how they are and remember to breath!! or you will talk so fast they will not understand you! Maybe just smile alot until you have had a glass of wine and loosened up a bit!(never drink too much, esp if you dont know anyone). Remember, they are probably feeling like you are, and people always radiate towards friendly looking people! You will be fine!
224252
I have been a bartender for ten years and trust me, as stupid as it sounds, just walk up with confidance say hello and introduce yourself. tell her you saw her she looked beautiful and you wanted to buy her a drink. simple as that. don't ever feel stupid about rejection either, there are plenty of beautiful girls who would be more than willing to share a drink with you
82889
Go have some drinks with them, the alcohol will allow you to break the news at the right time during a conversation. \n\nDon't get too drunk now! You don't want to go confessing your love to your friend and ruining the relationship by trying to lick their ear or something stupid like that.\n\nThat should work. And besides, if it goes badly and you get rejected, THEN you can proceed getting drunk to ease the pain since your already at the bar.
431476
You are so funny. Relax, people are people....\n \nTry reminding yourself to BREATHE a nice deep breath.\n\nI hope this person's exterior is a reflection of his interior..... that he is kind, honest and polite.\n\nAt least you waved.  And if he said HI, that's half the battle already really.  \n\nRemember to breathe.
139015
Firstly be very careful who you try to speak with, second try speaking with your mouth closed, it might not help your shyness but it sure as hell will be a fun turn at a party!
1127757
If you can, have a party. Invite the people you know and like to bring friends. If you have people over on a fairly regular basis they will start to bring more friends over. Plus you can use your duties as host to get over some of your shyness...asking if people want another drink, etc. is a good excuse to strike up a conversation with someone you don't know very well. \n\nIf you don't have enough space to have people over you might consider picking a bar or restaurant that you like and try going once a week for a while. Eventually you will become recognizable and you might be able to strike it up with some of the bartenders/waiters or other regulars. If it's a bar the alcohol is a great social lubricant and helps everyone overcome shyness. Just don't over do it. If your into sports that is always a topic strangers can talk about.
1127662
It's a colleague, not a friend, so I would just keep it very simple.......\n\n"Congratulations on your new beginning"
338850
ask them to come, offer good food and great drinks and maybe tell them alittle about what kind of party it is good luck
616267
duh! she wants your man and thinks she can get him. dont let her think that. act like you dont give a sh$#. if she compliments his shirt tell her you got it. start asking if she like your shirt. if she gets him a drink say oh you almost forgot my drink i would like a coke too. make her work......tell her you want butter and new knife, some jam, if she wants to be at your table so much then let her, but she has to work for it. remind her of her place a barmaide.lol dont let her get to you. have a conversation when she is coming and keep the conversation going until she leaves. that will get to her.
1120290
Say "Happy Birthday, Steve."\n\nThis will take a bit of explaining.  In San Francisco in 1985, an acquaintance of mine (friend of a friend) asked my friend and I to go down to her house and help her prepare for a party she was giving a couple of days later.  She had a house-guest at the time and his name was Steve Holzman.  He was 27 years old, but because he had just shaved his beard and mustache off, he looked about 17.  Anyway, it was his birthday, so when Marie introduced us, she said, "Barbara, this is Steve.  It's his birthday today.  Steve, this is Barbara.  She's your birthday present."  And I did NOT say, "how rude!  You can't give me as a gift!  I'm not an object!"  I said . . . but I told you what I said.\n\nFor the next twenty years, I blessed the day I said, "Happy Birthday, Steve!"  Because being a gentleman, he would not refuse or throw away a gift.
473669
If is your first meeting, try not to talk, first Learn from others what to say and what not to say, otherwise is going to be bad, if you are directing the meeting, start to read the meeting purpose, if somebody is new introduce to everybody and then let the ones that have something to say that say it, if you have a different point of view, keep it for your self until you are really sure that it will make any difference, and think twice before saying anything.\n\nor you can joke around all the meeting either you can be accepted or make a big mess.
253495
Get together with a special friend/s and have a good time. But be sure that this/these person/people are special. Since you want to have a good time and something to remember. And PLEASE, if you drink, don't drive. This way you be here to enjoy your 21st.
936632
Continue to say hi and be nice that's all you can do ...Unless you buy a rose and give it to her and say hey I saw this rose and I thought  of you the rose is so pretty just like you ..Don't stumble on your words when you say it be natural practice in front of a mirror ...Good luck!
592040
i wouldnt say 'hey.'  What i think you should do, is walk up to him, plant a wet one on him without saying a word, and then whisper in his ear, "i want you."  \n\nThat should make for an interesting evening
347775
Compromise, go for a little while, then leave.....That way you made an appearance for her, but didn't end up staying all night.\n\nAlso, just tell her the truth, that you also have other commitments/appearances to make at other parties you were invited to, and you don't want to be mean to anyone....If she's your friend, she should understand....GL;)
472246
set up an unknown meeting place\ncall/meet the unknown person\ntalk about unknown things/topic's\nhave an unknown dinner, and an unknown walk \nafterwords.... enjoy the time together\n\nand for some unknown reason say "good Night"
27804
First you need to get some self esteme man picking up women in a bar tells me that you are just looking for an easy drunk mark have a little more respect for yourself and women and i have a feeling you come off like you are trying to hard so just take it easy and make them want you