Why do a men play games with a women's mind and what they really wont from us?
404559
it's called 'control' sweetie.My X Husband did this to me for the longest time after we split up, and i told him that I was done....he played with my head so much I thought I was gonna go nuts, finally one day I woke up....I told him I didn't belive his BS lies...and after I showed him I wouldn't let him play head games with me anymore he quit.
1129949
Women have this thing of wanting to believe the man will change and they can work things out because they want it to work so badly whereas men have the right thing in mind...They know that they would never be able to trust the woman and that it would bother them forever and it's an ego thing for men so they are able to walk away.\nWomen won't let things be over until they say it's over.
1056371
Depending on what you want out of a relationship. Women mature intellectually faster than men. Most, not all, younger men like to play head games. They are still trying to find out who they are. To be fair more and more women these days are playing these games as well. Just be with the person before you decide to committ to a relationship. If he is right for you, you will know...
623247
I hate it when people play games, if she is angry then she should just tell you so you can do something about it, when will girls ever learn that men (or anyone else for that matter) cannot read your mind so you have to TALK TO THEM!!!!!  If you want them to make it up to you then tell them what they have done wrong!
338265
becoz they are boys..not a men as yet\nthey can do anything to get what they want, and will just leave you once they get bored (for those flirters)\nthey are just enjoying thier time without realising that they are hurting other people
1077131
Poor thing. Have you been burned recently? I feel your pain. Ok. Mind games. Men have egos, huge egos. When a woman he thinks is his (and 'only' his) is seen with another man, even a friend or anything similar, ego says "Hey, if other egos sees my lady with someone else, I am less of a man. This is unallowable. I should make her jealous to make her focus on me." \nThis is a broad generalization of course, but it seems that this is the case a lot of the times, and guys hate to admit that they are not in control of the situation. Everyone judges us by the kind of mate we can find. If you have a chunky girlfriend, you are a chubby chaser and cant hack a fine chick. If you have a fine chick, guys envy you but also try to ruin what you got. Its a bit of a juggling act, and mind games are just one way to juggle so many balls in the air at once. On behalf of the thinking man, sorry for the mind games, its a defense mechanism.
1041498
I think people play mind games out of boredom - to entertain themselves by playing with other people's lives.  Immaturity plays a big role in these games and people usually outgrow the need to have excessive attention paid to them when they are in their 30's.  Then they are sure of themselves and don't need to experiment on other people.
112653
They think the same about us...there is a major communication barrier.  Men and women communicate in totally different ways and therefore messages get misread.
789099
You are right, I see some of my old friends play guys and it makes me sick. When they start in a relationship she thinks she wants him and him only, and 2 weeks later, she wants his best friend too. then both guys get hurt (heart break) and she moves on to the next guy, who falls for her... and it goes on and on... Just sickening...  Some men do women the same way though, not as many men as women though. Don't stop being the nice guy, there are some good women left that appreciate a great guy, and that sounds like what you are. Good Luck with the next one.
718391
I dont know and I wish I did b/c I'm so sick of men doing this, like its a game.  What, are you trying to destroy peoples lives? Stop playing with girls emotions and be a real man and say what the he** is on your mind.  \n\nBut from what I've gathered from others is that its one of two things....either they're bored with you or its b/c its a game to them to see how long they can go before they get caught!!
33990
It's all about games! They want to use the girl for what ever they can get from her (money,clothes, jewelry, ect.), and know they won't get it from most girls that know they have a g/f!
344779
i think its bcz women dont really often show their feelings, they dont say what they feel, they can play with themselves e.g. to get someone else's attention, could be a man, but what they really feel is hidden deeply in their mind or soul.\nmen arent like that. it is easy to 'read' most of the men, i guess. \nmen tend to think or say things the way there are or the way they think. that makes it easy to understand them.\nwomen wont talk about things straight.\n\nmy math's teacher told us one day: when a woman says yes - that means no, when she says no - that means yes.\n\ni believe its true, though not always.\nthats why it might be difficult to understand women, what they need, what they think off.\n\nthough there are men who can do that...\n\nbut, on the other hand, i believe, and only if u want to, u can try to learn understand woman.\nits gonna take time & effort but it is possible.
322860
Ive known more guys that babble and dont care if its a secret thats connected in any way to reality then women. Most guys if they keep secrets do it out of cowardness anyway.
602510
Bcuz they are afraid that if woman know the truth and its not what they want to hear, then the girl will leave them and thats not what they want so its easier to tell her what she wants to hear then what hes really thinking bcuz he doesn't want to offend.
67703
Because they enjoy being seduced. I think girls also play the same game.
460128
My guess is that you are a man & that is why.\nNot that women aren't but we don't fill every ounce of free space in our minds with those thoughts.
1056796
Mind games .... Hmmmm.\n\nMind games come into play on a couple of occasions. 1. To test you and your commitment. 2. To act as if he doesn't really think your a major part of his life (usually peer driven - remember the movie Grease).\n\nI have done it myself "in high school!!" but when the girl got fed up with it, broke it off with me. I was devastated (but still cool LOL).\n\nNo seriously, if he's trying to impress its the wrong thing to do. Loving someone is always taken for granted until that person is gone. Mind games is childish and a huge waste of time. If you love someone, a smile will come to your face just thinking about that person.\n\nBacking off is a form of mind games and could have the same effect. A girl backing off from me would make me think she is disinterested in me. \n\nBe careful in both cases, be forward about mind games and catch him off guard. Get angry at them for doing it (its like backing off) and watch them come crawling back. If they don't call or come back ... then their game served its purpose... to drive a wedge in your relationship.