If a man and a women are having problems, should the women throw herself at him? (guys only)?
409705
Sit down with him and tell him what is bothering you. Don't do everything for him or fall into the trap of purposely ignoring him in order to get his attention. Put your cards on the table and be upfront. If he still doesn't understand then there is a problem.
1042259
Have you lost your mind?! Do you know any part of the story? Whetther it be true or via media? He used to like puching his women, to show off his ego, well story goes that She knocked him out for beating up on her too much and that's why they are no longer together. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Even the most beautiful, have their quirks.
850968
My honest opinion is i would let anyone help me out male or female because most won't admit it but us men NEED help a lot \nwhy be arrogant and pretend you know what your doing when everyone around you knows that you are wrong.It did take me a few years tho to accept the help as a typical bloke i thought i knew everything how wrong i was.\nPS thanks for your polite answer to my question..Wink ..
121235
You're just on a male bashing binge tonight, huh?\n\n  But I agree - it takes two to tango.  Prevention is as much the responsibility of the man as it is the woman.
991611
I don't know why some of us are like that, I know sometimes I get mad, but we all do. I don't believe that women are not supposed to deal with guys getting mad, they should be able to voice their opinion, but truthfully, sometimes that doesn't solve anything, it makes it worse, and really it depends on the situation. Men are supposed to be the head of the family, the bible says that, but it also says that the husband is suppose to love his wife like he loves himself, and not to be harsh with them. So, sometimes when we lose our cool, we are just blowing off steam, and that is a time where we want to be left alone, but not all men are like that. I know it helps me when a woman tries to help and be encouraging, but we all are different.
937593
i would talk to him and explain your feelings. My husband and I used to play fight and when things gor out of hand I think he thought I was able to handle the come back, because I was willing to play. Men often forget how strong they are. Once I explained to my husband he was hurting me everything changed.
1125415
No never. There is a lot of fuss made if a man hits a woman but it seems to be acceptable if a woman hits a man. Physical violence is totally unacceptable whether it be a man or woman on the receiving end.
796508
Never argue with a woman... you're only going to lose in the long run. And if you do win; then you'd best have a good apology for winning to give to her by sundown!
599259
if a woman wants to hit a man like a man...should she get hit back? my first husband pulled plenty of cheap shots..then i fought back..my daddy didnt raise no sissies..i stabbed that mofo..broke a glass coke bottle over his head and hit him in the back with one of those heavy metal chairs like my gram used to have...then i had him jailed!! he tried another time and got stabbed multiple times...that was like 20 yrs ago and he still has scars!! power to us women!!  hes a coward and a loser
758110
I would say by your question that a woman has just burnt you pretty bad. There are men out there the same way. I hate it when a woman or man takes another person that loves them so much for grant and then burns them. Like the old saying goes...one bad apple spoils it for the whole bunch......not all people treat other people badly. If they really did love that person they would NEVER treat them bad. If two people really do love each other there is no reason what so ever to manipulate the other for power, or anything else for that part. It should be 50/50 no  matter what.
718627
Some friends and I have a hobby of teaching guys like him a lesson-Tell her to get out! go to a battered womans shelter a couple of counties away-and file charges-or contact me and if we are close or if I have any associates close, the situation may well take care of itself.
1071827
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions).  i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it.  At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
598518
That's called 'victim blaming' and is appalling.  Yes, some women put themselves into compromising situations, but it goes both ways.  Men should be able to control themselves.
492096
ahm...nothing really...but there was this situation about a man who loves his wife that he did everything to keep his wife fit....but to no avail...she was as sloppy as ever..\n\nhe asked for an advice...i think it's really cool for a guy to be concern about his mate, that he'll take an extra step to help her or improve their relationship..
1137961
Personality clashes are one thing, disrespect is another. If he cannot properly handle a woman who disagrees with him, then he is not going to treat you right, either.
628027
Let the idiots fight it out. No place for a girl to get in the middle.  As nice as it may seem. Leave, fighting doesn't prove anything. Now if one of them stops to come after you because he notices that you left. Then he is obviously the winner.
651095
Yes, I agree with the fact that it's his responsiblity to tell her himself, that is was inappropriate, late at night, and disrespectful to you. He needs to confront her, tell her these things, and also, he should actually agree with how you feel about it, because it should just be you that's upset. He should feel discusted with her, as well. That chick needs her own damn boyfriend or husband, and needs to stop messing with yours!