how to get a boyfriend??
399016
well for one be yourself...you dont want to give him the impression you are someone you not because than the relationship will be based on lies...alsoi would say stop looking for one just go out be yourself be you do what you got to do...if you go searching you will look desperate and needy and sometimes if not most times if freaks a guy out to be with someone who is or seems needy because than they will feel like they are being tied down because if you that needy they will think you like one of them girls who calls 30 times a day...
137229
having a boyfriend has its ups and downs and it is nice to have one, but you're still an adolescent. patience is a virtue. someone will eventually find you.
949840
first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!
494132
You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
874845
Well first of all do you like  him?\nIf so try these things to get him:\nHow you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nand make sure you have expectations like these(my personal ones)\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nGood luck to you!~Alison~
344658
Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
426835
Tell all your friends that you would like to find a good man to date. Every woman in the world knows at least a dozen good, single men that would "be perfect for you!" Of course, I'm exaggerating a bit, but the principle is "to let people know that you're available, should you get asked out." Tell your family(you know they want the best for you).Be observant when you go to the grocery store.....I'll bet you know at least one guy right now that really "trips your trigger"....find out if he's single. If so, then, start up a conversation,  about, preferably manly things, like, "my car sounds funny", or, "I have a cabinet door that sticks".......see where it goes from there! You MIGHT be surprised!! Good Luck...........there's a lot of decent, lonely men out there, just waiting on a nice lady like you.
821156
The best place to meet your potential BF(in fact the number 1 place) is through your friends. If you have good friends they will know that you are single and eligable and they will know what your looking for and start shopping you around. If you have good friends why not ask them if they know some nice guys. Bars are the worst place to meet nice guys.
513317
you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
208289
First get to know yourself and realize that you are a great catch for any man. The reason you do this first is, if you don't you will only find Mr. Wrong.\n\nAfter this step is completed it is time for the hunt. This might sound crazy, but it's the best way to find a good man. When you go hunting do not hunt for a boyfriend, but instead hunt for friends. Again same motto anybody would be lucky to be my friend. After you have some really good friends the rest will just happen. Whether it be with one of your new friends or one of thier friends.\n\nThere is actually other ways I can tell you, but my time is running short, so you can find other of my answers by looking at my answers to previous questions exactly like this one.
1076892
Dont rush to have a boyfriend you'll have a million especially if your intelligent enough to ask this question. Have fun and don't worry so much they will come to you, thats what guys do: is come to YOU.
1127224
you don't go out and look for a boyfriend...when the right guy comes in your life, it'll happen....but take your time so you get a Good boyfriend...
42885
Just go slow.  You have lots of time to grow up and figure things out.  Don't give into pressure to have a boyfriend.  The right time will come.  Concentrate on school work and doing the right things.
272446
Just totally be yourself and let them come to you ;)\n\nDon't be someone else just to get the guy... And don't do anything stupid either... you WILL regret it\n\nJust remember... you want a healthy relationship
786159
A lot of boys will only be interested in you if they think they can control you.  You don't want one like that. Being your own person is more important than having a boyfriend. Good luck !!!!!!!!!
499339
Don't panic. You are not going to die if you do not have a boyfriend. Trust that there are guys out there that are attracked to you and that when they get the courage to ask you out, they will do it. Don't second guess anything about yourself, and don't try to change yourself. Be yourself, and you will ultimatly be happier with yourself and with the guy that you are with when it happens.
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I am 13.How old are you?I want a boyfriend.