My Friend and her b/f can you help?
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I think her boyfriend needs to grow up a little.  People dance at weddings. My boyfriend and I have been to weddings where one of us was in the bridal party and the other wasn't. Which at most weddings it means you have to dance with another man or women for at least one dance (when the bride and groom are asked out on the dance floor, then, the bridal party is asked to join them).\n\nUnless, the guy was doing something really inappropriate like grabbing her butt, then, it is no big deal.  He needs to get a grip on his jealousy. You have to deal with your significant other interacting with people of the opposite sex sometimes. It is a fact of life and one that he needs to learn to accept if he wants any type of meaningful relationship.\n\nTruthfully, if he is going to get angry about something so stupid, then, she is better off without him.  Next thing you know he'll be angry because she talked to another guy.  It will never end.  A little bit of maturity and self-confidence goes a long way.
422097
hmmm... this is tough.. when my guy told me this.. i believed him because he treats me right..\ni know you've been a good b/f to her! because only someone who is really in love would ask for other ppl's help because they want to know what's best for their girl... i think you should take her somewhere nice.. then tell her :)\nbut take it slow, so she knows that you truly care\nhope this helps
835658
Be careful.  You're playing with fire here.  Either continue talking to her, and realize that you'll have to confront the issue with both her and your friend, or resolve to stop the extra contact and keep it to a minimum (only when you're all out together).  Otherwise if you keep up the communications, you risk losing both his friendship and hers. And if you really think that their relationship is in trouble, give it time to either resolve or end, and then you'll either be in a better position to see about what future you could have with her, or you'll see that she really does love your friend and there's nothing you can do about it.\n\nIf she is conflicted now, and you try to make a move, then she might feel like you're taking advantage of her emotional vulnerability, and you ruin any chances of anything in the future.  So give it time, be patient, and try to be supportive to them both as a couple.
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Dont ever loose someone for someone else.  If both parties are that close to you - you can come to some agreement between them.  See your friend  - then see your girl.  Let them both know how you feel.  Whichever one is willing to work out the situation is really there for you.  Hopefully they will both understand - you dont all have to hang out together at the same time.  True friends are hard to come by.  They are there for you to the end...But when a relationship goes bad - who do you turn to?  If it is her asking you to give up your friend....tell her no way.  If it is him asking you to give her up - find out why
715340
I highly suggest you and her other friend try VERY HARD to work it out so that there isnt any animosity. Good luck
1172988
Probably best if you message me on this one. Your friend has some possible options depending on the circumstances.
53446
Heres what you can do.  Hook her up with one of your guy friends she does not know. Tell your friend to put it in her a** during intercourse. That should keep her away from guys for a while.
689093
talk to your friend about this    she should understand if shes a real friend.
940091
You're sweet to want to help your friend.\n\nMaybe the two of you could make an exercise routine together. For example, three days a week the two of you could go on a walk for an hour.  She can bring the baby in a stroller.  You can enjoy chatting with your friend and being active together!
1110925
get away from him and tell your friend so she can see what kind of bf she has
1163102
Maybe ur jealous of her. If ur b/f  ares about u and wants to be with u, then I don't think he would leave u, I guess u got a try and trust ur b/f. If u call her then its just gonna make u look bad. Probably sound better if ur b/f ask her him self to stop flirting with him. But don't start forcing ur b/f to tell her to leave him alone. I dunno how u stop being jealous of people.
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bf = best friend\n\nb/f = boyfriend
437874
You people are horrible and your friend is a hoe. She should break up w/him and you should suggest it. She better stick to they guy that impregnated her! They just need to break up and if I were you (luckily am no) I would not get w/that guy because if he cheats on your friend, he'll cheat on you!
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Hi Tiera,   well it sounds like this guy is a real jerk. Not trying to be mean or anything just going by everything you said.  Now, as far as your friend goes I believe that you should stick to your guns and be there for her.  If you havent done so already,  I think you should tell her all about this guy and just prepare her for what you might think will happen. Don't try to make her break up with him per say,  but just let her know that you are telling her these things because she is your friend and you dont want to see her hurt.  Thats really all you can do at this point.  Sometimes in life in order for someone realize what they get themselves into they have to learn the hard way.  The only thing you can do is just assure her that you will be there for her no matter what.  She will appreciate you more down the road when she realizes she was wrong and you were right.  Stick to you guns hun, and dont abandon your friend because this is when she is gonna need you the most.  Good luck with everything...........
997241
If you've been friends with her, then just talk to her, and if she's unhappy or having a problem in her couple, she'll talk it out or give you signs to it by herself. Believe only what she tells you. Just tell her you'll be here if she needs you. she might want to solve her own problems, and knowing yuo'll be right here will help her morally if she really has probs in her couple.\nAll the best!
735354
If you bhave already asked someone...and she is looking forward to it you should take your friend from home.  Explain the situation to your girlfriend, Im sure if you are open and honest about it she will understand.
28539
ask your friend for it