Is it wrong for me to like affairs?
415072
I am going to disagree with most of your posters.  Is it wrong for you to like affairs....absolutely not.  You can't control the emotion, excitement, or feeling of the secretively in the whole idea of an affair.  Yet, while you asked if it was okay to like them the answer it is NO?  It is important to know that it is wrong to act on them morally.  Just like I may love robbing banks and the excitement of it but it doesn't mean that I should run out and do it.  Maybe you should find ways to suppress the excitement in sleeping around.  While bank robbery is illegal it can seldom be seen as illegal to have an affair too.  I wish you the best in your struggle with this.
934737
in the end ... who cares what others think.\n\nIf you and your fiance are secure in your relationship and view the extra sex as just 'fun,' then you guys are, in my humble opinion, fine. \n\nIf, however, you or your furture spouse are in the slightest bit 'wierded out' by your bedroom fun, then it MIGHT be bad for you future together.\n\nall in all, if you are secure about what you do then let those haters hate while you are feeling loved by your man and having great sex with your woman.
1183573
no. your not wrong. what would be wrong is you hiding and lying about it. if thats what makes you smile ,laugh and feel great then dont let ignorant people with nasty stares and glares bother you. go on fall in love with who ever you want.
103052
sexual preferences are as individual as the people involved.  If you are unsure if you would like it and care a great deal about your boyfriend then you may want to give it a go with the understanding that if you do not like it you will not do it again.  If, however, you already know that this is not for you there is nothing wrong with saying "no thanx, nothing personal, it is just not for me"  \nNot everyone likes the same things in the bedroom and being open and honest about what you do and do not like is the key to ultimate sexual delight.  Enjoy!
792372
A lot of us are so happy to feel validated by the acceptance of another that we go through with a marriage, even though we haven't discovered who we really are or what makes us truly happy.  Now that there is water under the bridge and life becomes more complicated, you realize that maybe you've missed out on what your life could have been otherwise.  All this is normal, which can also make us unhappy.  You are still a person with the freedom to choose.  If it isn't working and need to experience your independence, then that is what you need to do.  If you're unsure, then some view an affair or a 3-way to be a good compromise, but to just sit and stew probably isn't going to bring you anything new or wonderful.
840382
you are attracted to him cos he maybe shows you feeling your boyfriend doesn't. plus it's the thrill of chasing something you know ultimately you can't have, do you really think he's gonna leave his wife, he's got the best of both worlds, quickie sex with you, then loving sex in a relationship with his wife.\n\nyou are being taken for a ride aswell as taking your boyfriend for one, i'm not going to condone what your doing or criticise it either, it takes two to tango.\n\nmy advice dump your lover it will never work, concentrate on your boyfriend, if you feel he isn't the one then dump him too, but don't tell him about your affair.\n\nspend some time alone and discover what you want from a relationship.\n\ngood luck.
518986
If that's your preference, then there is nothing wrong with it.  It's your life, do what and who you like.
92254
love with friend or having an affair is good only if u r faithful and honest to each other. \none should love at least once in life, as pure love makes a person a good human being and a loving soul
971102
no ... there is nothing wrong with that at all.... opposites attract.... \neven when your married you can still find people attractive. \nAs long as you don't act upon it then you shouldn't feel guilty.
847224
It's not a sin.  Enjoy yourself.  Just don't get too obsessed with it.  All things in balance.
1093276
Everyone has different likes and different moods.  Sometimes I like intimate and romantic other times I like wild and kinky.  Just have to learn what your partner enjoys and hopefully you like the same thing.
418078
there's nothing wrong with that .you just don't like any of them. take your time, when you find the one you like, it will be diffirent and worth it.
1143249
No not a Personal Affair., but it is very Flirty. Wear you flirting at that time. Some people are very hands on and don't mean to flirt.\nSince you are Interested, try flirting more and see what happens. Be more observant, and see if she is really into you. Does she look into your eyes when talking to you. Do you think or sense anything more than Friends. Ask this person out if you think she really likes you.
92179
Yes, if not a physical affair, then an emotional one.  When a married man is sharing his time w/a single woman, he is sharing intimacies with her that should be reserved for his wife.
829481
As long as you are comfortable with the notion that you will most likely find something you won't like to see/know, even if it's harmless to your relationship, and then can't even share what you feel with them.  \nIf you are looking to 'catch' him and to use what you find (infidelity etc..) to end the relationship, then go for it... otherwise it will just make you feel guilty and helpless.  If you are in a happy & trusting relationship, don't do it!
1090797
Unfortunatly I have been having an affair. I know its wrong and I shouldn't be doing it but my husband just doesn't satisfy me in the bedroom. I've talked to him about it and he is just unwilling to change how things are done in the bedroom.
144100
You like what you like...and there is nothing wrong with that. Don't make it out to be a bad thing, as long as your happy who cares what other ppl think...best of luck