As a guy, would you tell the GIRL  YOU FINALLY LOVE, that you had slept with 39 girls,, isn't it dangerus move
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You didnt do this while with this girl did you? If not I can say this much: Never hide anything. If you really love this girl then dont be afraid to tell her. I know from experience and I can say that we have the best relationship even when we were separated half the world apart
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I would answer this, but it's pointless.  In 10 years, our culture will be calling men sluts for even looking at another girl, and women will boast about the number of men they've slept with like a badge of honor.\n\nYou Go GIRL.
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It depends on how you look at things. \nSome people feel like they should tell their mate what they did wrong just to get it out in the open and work thru it, but in actuality, it's really to clear their own conscience. Some people feel like if you really love her, you would tell her, others feel like if you really lover her, you won't tell her.\nI feel like if you really love her this wouldn't have happened in the first place.\nI don't think you are giving enough info on your feelings for your girl for me to really comment on what you should do.
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Are your feelings for her in your dick? No, The best way is to tell her.
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As a guy, I guess I would want you to tell me how you really feel about me and then if he reciprocates your feelings, then tell him how you feel about the other girls slobbering after him.  Meanwhile, I would question who my 'friends' really are.
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My boyfriend is 23 and I am his 4th partner. We've been together for 2 years and he slept with the other 3 girls before me. The man I lost my virginity to had slept with more than 20 women at the age of 21. So it really depends on what you personally consider 'too many' If you're uncomfortable then that's all that counts. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks because at the end of the day it's only you that's dating her.\n\n-Elise
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It was in you all along - but the second time around - you happened to meet the right girl to get you off.\n\n\nI wish all the guys were bi & would swing both ways.   Oh how that would be cool.   I would love it.
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It would depend on the circumstances.  If he kissed another girl when we first started dating, that's one thing.  If he was banging his secretary last week, that's a totally different ball park.
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just tell him, im quite sure it will be fine with him.Im sure your a fine girl so i dont mean nothing by this other than it just being a fact, but if you fell in love with everyone you slept with, then\nfalling in love wouldnt be nothing special would it.\nlove and sex are 2 different animals.
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Relationships? No. Sex? Yes. We give so much detail about sex, hell we'll throw in lies if we need to. Trust me every guy you've slept with has talked about you in great detail at least twice each.
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yes you should tell her. are you sure she ain't f**** other guys? o jsut bad hygiene..
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Do NOT bring up the topic about how many people you've been with.  It's all in your past, and is irrelevant in your current relationship.  \n\nIf I found out my girlfriend had been with 40 guys, she would be my ex-girlfriend pretty soon.  \n\nSex and intimacy is something that is shared between 2 people, and it is special.  When it's been shared with 40 people, it's not special anymore, it's like a piece of meat on public display.\n\nBe monogamous with this guy.  Good luck.
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True love is something i think stays in words only. If you are such a guy who will not care for and go for the next..Then i think you better do not use the word love. it is Sex all the way through.But as you have narrated the girl,its ok
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lol, you probably should have done it, then youd have a story to tell your friends.  i do think its funny that most guys that answered were all for it and most of the girls that answered were against it
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no. do you really think he is going to tell you the truth about how many women he's slept with? as long as two people are committed , the past should'nt matter . as far as honesty goes you should be honest in your relationship with each other. but the relationships before you two got together has nothing to do with now.and if you tell him the truth , he may think that's too many and it may make him think twice about you.
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go for it! make sure nobody will know about it tho, not even close friends. destroy all evidence and wear a rubber, wouldn't be too nice to catch some nasty std and then give it to your main girl. as long as your gf won't find out, i don't see anything wrong with it. men need sex and when we f*ck around, it doesn't mean sh*t and has no influence on our true feelings for our actual girlfriends. women will never understand that, coz when they do it, there's almost always some feelings attached. anyway, just make sure she will never find out about it. if she does, say goodbye to your relationship
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i am a hopeless romantic so i say if you want it chase it and make it happen.  all other gfs to the side.  but remember also that he may be telling you and 5 other girls he loves you all!  follow your heart, but use your brain!