how does a man or woman can overcome lust or hunger for sex?
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yoou cant get ove it so dont even try
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Good.u got started on the road to self control. just remember, the main difference between a human and an animals is self control. Lust is caused by a wayward mind. Control it and u have nothing else leftto achieve. Dont be led by the illusion that the feeling will pass away.It may, but only after it has devoured 95 percent of ur life. Dont hallucinate that the desire will go away if u indulge in it. As u may have found by now, the more u act upon it , the more it grows into an obsession. It is like feeding the fire with fuel in the hope that it will eventually die away.\nthere is only one way-control ur mind. dont try to cover ur desires cause they will blow up some other time. Instead destroy them permanently. Take every day individually and try to be good.You will not suceed the first, second , third.... time.But you will suceed finally.the more ur effort, the faster will be ur sucess. THIS IS THE WAY TO COMPLETE FREEDOM. YES. THIS IS THE WAY TO GOD. good luck
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I'm in the same boat. First, make sure you really love the lover. If you're not married, and it's a serious problem in your relationship, you still have an out. If you are married, it's just something you're going to have to work through. \nAbout the resisting though, it takes discipline. But really, the best way is to just avoid the situation that tempts you, no matter how much you want to pursue it. If you never pursue it, then it's not too hard to resist. If you make the mistake of falling to temptation once, then it's a habit and you have to fight harder. \nIf you see a hottie at work, don't hang out with him/her outside of work. Don't think about him/her in inapproriate ways. It's hard, but keep your thoughts pure. Stay faithful.\nI know how it feels, and I know how much it sucks sometimes, but if you really, truly love your partner remember that if you wander, it's going to be the most painful tihng you could ever do to them, and I know that's not what you want. A few pleasures aren't worth the bigger pain. \nBut also, breaking up with someone because they're not a "sex goddess" isn't right either. Try talking to him/her about it. Let her/him know your needs and that it is important to you.\nIf you're really in love, you won't want to go anywhere else.\n\nGood luck.
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Start of by asking your significant other to go out to dinner with you. Wear something that you know they find sexy on you. At dinner keep things positive and sexy! Talk about the things you did with each other when you first got together. After dinner, at each stop light or stop sign, kiss and touch each other, once home, remove each others clothes then start doing some of those things you talked about at dinner!\nOther things you could do is fantasy role playing, doctor and nurse, cop and hooker, naughty school girl and the principal.\nUse your imagination and think sexy thoughts about each other.\nSend each other dirty e-mails!\nI'm sure this will help you get that lust back.    Good luck
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You've only hit the tip of the iceberg.  Try playing strip checkers and chess.  Write out a wonderful sexual fantasy on a slip of paper and have your lover do the same.  Fold the papers, and keep them under wraps for now.  Play the game, and whoever wins gets his or her fantasy played out first.  Whoever loses, gets his or her fantasy played out second.  It's a win-win love making experience.  \n\nAlso try putting whipped cream underwear on each other and licking it off.\n\nStart with A of the alphabet, and kiss a body part of your lover that begins with A.  Then have your lover kiss a body part of yours that begins with B, and continue down the alphabet.  See if you get all the way through.  If you can't think of anything starting with the letter, make something silly up!  It's a new kind of spelling bee to do with your honey!\n\nAlso, use blindfolds and make love without looking at each other--just touch.  Use roses and feathers, and other sensual items to enhance the experience.]\n\nWhen you make love, focus your orgasmic energy on a specific goal you both share, or a dream you would like to come true.  Then you are practicing sex magic!  It's a lot hotter than regular sex.\n\nJust keep the fun, silliness, love, and creativity in whatever you do!
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A craving, especially sexual.
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Try exercise and a healthy diet.  Just being in shape can do wonders for one's stamina and often provide the little boost in sexual urge that you need.
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find a cure for human desire
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This is a good question.  My husband would love to know the same thing.  Currently my sex drive is low because of menapause.  I'm going through it very early.  Usually a bottle of wine and somd actual romance will help.  You do know what I mean when I say romance.  Dinner without the kids, rose pettels on the bed,going out on a date with eachother, slow dancing in the livingroom.  These little things open opportunity for flirting.  Thus increasing the want for sex.  b4 menopause I worked sooo much.  My joib made us do a mandatory 15 hrs overtime per week and it took me 2 hours each way to get there.  Then once home still had to check homework cook dinner make sure the house was in order.  I was constantly going and you have the nerve to want what?  Switch roles for a day. see how you feel..  or. start helping around the house if that is the ccase.  but remember  flirting.
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Exercise, eat better (less fat and processed foods), and see your doctor to have your testosterone levels checked if that doesn't seem to be helping.  \n\nAlso, don't let yourself get too stresed out about it, stress can just knock your sex drive down to nothing, and you can get stuck in a vicious circle where worrying about your low sex drive keeps it low.  If that is the case, try meditation or talk to a therapist.  \n\nSome people have a low libido because of internalized issues or stereotypes they have about sex.  If you think that is you, talk to a therapist about it.  Our culture feeds people some weird and inaccurate information about sex and what is "normal" and that sometimes causes people to freak if they don't live up to that unattainable norm.
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Try to find things other than sex to work on...put your mind off sex. While you're obviously still going to have a high sex drive, it will help if you don't constantly think about it.
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Two steps:\n\n1. Believe in yourself\n2. Resort to more of foreplay
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You shouldn't.  Sex is a natural process.  Abstaining is unnatural.  The human sex-drive is second only to the hunger-drive.  Just use protection and don't knock her up!
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Less complications in your relationships. You'll be more centered and focused if you will be able to conquer your base desires.  Sex is only one appetite. You'll have to conquer your other appetites too if you want to shoot for bliss.
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lust get over it.\nfind someone your age
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stop thinking about sex. find something or do something that can make you busy.
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SPENDING  MORE TIME CARESSING AND KISSING HELPS MANY WOMEN BECOME FULLY AROUSED.\nDONT DRINK ALCOHOL, IT CAN DELAY ORGASM IN WOMEN.\nDO KEGAL EXERCISES TO STRENGTHEN YOUR VAGINAL MUSCLES AND AID IN STIMULATION.\nHEART AND BLOOD PRESSURE MEDS CAN AFFECT SEXUAL DESIRE.\nTAKE A HERBAL BLACK COHOSH, CHASTE TREE BERRY OR GINSENG SUPPLEMENTS, IT CAN PUT SOME SPICE INTO YOUR LOVE LIFE.\nIF PMS SYMPTOMS SQUASH YOUR LOVE LIFE TRY A LOW DOSE ORAL CONTRACEPTIVE, IT MAY SOLVE THE PROBLEM.\n33% OF WOMEN SUFFER FROM LOW SEXUAL DESIRE.\nDURING MENOPAUSE, HALF OF ALL WOMEN EXPERIENCE SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION.