what do you do when the guy u really like is not making a move but a guy u are not so keen on is all over u?
397096
Maybe the guy you like is staying away cuz you accept the advances (flirt, friendship, etc...) of the other guy, so you do not appear to be available. I would not want to "take a number" either.
713297
my advice is be your self and if he doesnt notice you or shows no interest his not worth it you want someone to like you out of teir own free will not make them want you do  not flirt it gets you no where
283325
If you're friends, he's already noticed you.  If he hasn't asked you out, he's just not that into you.  Let it go.
406135
just tell him the truth... if you liked a guy and he didnt like you wouldnt you want him to tell you straight up... and not beat around the bush and leaving the other person wondering?
367410
Well if he likes someone else, then forget him. He's busy. Go find someone who is crazy about you.
622571
Give up on that person. Who cares. They don't like you for some reason but they don't know you or appear to know you or see you and know that you are there. It has happened to me before, I gave up cuz to him i appeared to be invisable. So yea he doesn't know what he is missin out on.
178665
It's simple...You want what you can't have. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you can't have that guy from the past. I'm saying that you know he's no good for you and in a sense, that's what attracts you to him. You want him to want you. Meanwhile you have someone who adores you. So you feel like he's not going anywhere and this other guy is a challenge.
1067998
Well if you like him to maybe you should give it a whirl. Don't reject him though. If your not interested tell him.
27406
remain friendly but find someone else to 'like'\n\nif he doesn't like you back, accept it.
348218
i've had my share of moments like this.  Just pretend it never happened and see how he acts.  if he is intrested, he WILL make a move.  If he is NOT, then he won't.  but if it was me, i would just pretend like nothing happened, and see how he acts.
82098
If he doesn't like you, nothing you can do will change his mind. \nWHY! would you waste your time when there are hundreds of other guys out there who would jump through fire to be with you? I know you think you love this guy, but what is really attracting you? the fact that he doesn't want you?
58200
if you put yourself out there and made the first move and he didnt grab at it, i wouldnt do it again with this guy. If he is interested, leave it up to him to make the next move. if you do it, it will just make you seem like you cant take no for an answer and he may be uncomfortable. Keep spending time with him, let him know that your interest hasnt changed, and if he's interested hopefully he will sum up the courage to act on it!
244018
Just sit him down and be truthfull say you do like him but arent ready to go to that step.  Let the pieces fall where they may.  At least he will respect your honest and truthfull approach.
118830
Move on because this guy obviously doesn't feel the same way about you. Call him again just to make sure that he hasn't tried to call and you haven't been home. Then move on and take a chance with the other guy you have been crushing on.
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
194925
Depends on whether I like the guy or not.  YES- Maybe I like the guy and didn't want to seem too eager...  NO- Maybe I don't like the guy but didn't want to hurt his feelings.  It's the lady's choice.  Why don't you call her back again and ask her?  If she says she's not into you, move on and find another to date.  Good luck!
919488
you don't have to make a big move... just start talking to him more and see if he maybe wants to hang out some time... if you never take the next step you will never know what could happen