How can I catch a guy's interest?
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Just be yourself, a guy that's really worth it in the long run will take the time to get to know and love the real you.  I understand that it can be a hard thing to meet people when you have an anxiety disorder. A few suggestions, Please realize that you must be out there and available in order to meet someone, go to church events,sports or social gatherings or whatever you are interested in. Second, if the anxiety is severe and limiting your social interaction consider seeing a doctor that can prescribe medication or support to help you relax and over come your fear.  In any case I wish you the best of luck. Don't despair and remember there is a special someone out ther just for you, give it time you'll find them one day.
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walk up and say this "hello, my name is ____. What is your name. I find you interesting." \n\nThat ought to be a good start. guys are sometimes too shy to make the first move too...
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talk with ur eyes they can say a lot.like let him catch u looking at him then look away with a grin on ur face to let him know ur interested
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Hmm... well, definitely appear to be interested by giving him lots of eye contact and smiling at him. For awhile, only do that. He will most likely make a move at that point. If he doesn't get the point, be friendly in his presence and find ways to talk to him about work and your social lives. But, the most important thing to remember is to not look desperate (don't go out of your way to talk to him) and if he doesn't pursue it after you know you've made an effort to show him your affection, than he's just not that into you. GOOD LUCK!
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The first thing to do is to get to know a guy to begin with.\n\nAnd just let nature takes it's course
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Ask him out for coffee or something like that so that he gets the message that you're interested.
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That's not the question, but the answer is sometimes a look is just that. Do you dig him or not,make the move say hello! Then state that you wouldn't mind sharing conversation. To get to know someone is how you tell if there is a friendship or more. Live a little he's just a guy. Know that you are likable sometimes lovable, go find out which one he thinks.
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Just go talk to him..if he shows interest talking to you..ask him straight for to go out for a coffee or meal if he is freetime..
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hold on to that glance.  Keep eye contact with him and then walk over and say what's up.  Or wink at him when he looks at you and see what he does.
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oh...get him to teach you.  If he is the kind of guy who likes that...has the patience for it..lol.  He will love that you are taking an interest in something that he loves, AND that you are looking to him, not to a book for help.  It really isn't that complicated of a sport.  If anything, just sit and watch...have a book or a magazine handy...and ask as you see things you don't understand...or wait...better..ask on the ads.
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Here's How:\n\n* Keep an eye on how many times you catch him staring at you.\n\n* Take notice of whether he smiles at you a lot.\n\n* Look for whether he focuses on you in a crowd.\n\n* Observe if he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.\n\n* Pay attention to any significant changes in his behavior toward you recently.\n\n* Start showing him a bit more interest and see how he responds.\n\n* If you're having difficulty reading him, you should have a friend talk to him or one of his friends about you. \nNOTE: This should only be your last resort!***\n\nOnce you start getting the sense that he's into you, you should go a step further with something like this:\n\n* Try to start a conversation w/ him about some common interests, and then switch to a discussion about which is the best movie that's about to be released.  Then, simply ask him: "Hey, would you like to go see it together?" Then, give him your number and as you walk away, say "call me and let me know, or tell me next time I see you, ok?". \n\nBasically, don't let him give you an answer right there, let him think about it so he's not put on the spot. You're not pressuring him, so he'll feel more confident about approching you next time!!!\n\nGOOD LUCK and remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique!
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Your choices will always interest him. Learn to know whether his interest is a matter of not losing you or whether its real. You can learn this through checking his attention throughout whenever you go out on a date.
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ok i hav the same prob too, except, ive been crushing on a guy for alot longer, the thing iz DONT IGNORE HIM!!!!! If it seems lik hes tryin to get your attention, then give him your ATTENTION!!! If u really want to show that your interested then invite him to a party or something, or if your to nervous to talk to him then write what u wanna say on a note.
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are you friends? if not, thats probably the easiest way to start out.\n\nfirst of all, whenever you see him say something as simple as hi. after doing this for a bit, your hellos can start to be accompanied by hugs. then once you two start hanging out, poke him in the stomach every once in a while, if he pokes back, thats a good sign =P\njus try talking to him and hanging out with him more, try and see what he is interested and have a good time befriending him. \n\nspending more time togethr will aloow him to find out who you truly are. if he starts showing signs of interest, then you are gettin somewhere =P\n\nalso, when you think the time is right, never be afraid to make the first move.\n\nremember that and good luck!\n\n =)
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If there's an interest or hobby he has that you know of  try asking him to do something that he likes. If that happens he may be more open to you. And could be a fun date
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Just talk to him and ask what his interests are or whatnot. Try to see if your interested in those same things or if he's really nice. I dunno.
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys \noften don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - \nsomething about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!