why people fell out of love?
398970
Because they just saying it or they never was in love, i have seen alot of people hurt in the work i do. Sometimes the most prettest woman can be treated so bad i ask myself why but i do not get involved because the words they say they really never mean it but after a while the hurt gets so many scars of verbal abuse or any other abuse that people leave each other only to find out. That messed up and than no matter if the other person loves them they say they dont love anymore but if you really and i mean really love someone you never fall out of love. The ones who never loved in the first place they the people that fell out of love because they where in lust not love.*
857422
They confuse lust with love.  Lust only lasts a year or two.  Sex can still be awesome (VERY), but it's not the same chemical rush that you have in a new relationship.\n\nSeems like most of the time someone says they "fell out of love", they fell into someone else's bed first.
1018202
these days it's harder 4 2 find a good person, good people r out there but not like in the olds days when people wanted 2 get married and b loyal, these days everyone thinks it's cool 2 cheat and not settle down. so da good ones that r out there feel hopeless.
765609
if a girl  asked this question, i will answer it the same way,  u cant force love on someone  and yet u can wake up ur loved one by showing her that u are not scared to move on without her.  i think when someone falls out of love, the worst that u can do is to tug on her sleeves to stop her from leaving you.  be strong and show her that u are.strong....don't sacrifice ur dignity and self respect for love...if u think she is making a mistake...i think she might be...then that's her loss, not yours.
1101502
FIRST OFF, PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE BECAUSE OF MUTUAL ATTRACTION, SOME OF THE SAME WAYS AND ALSO DIFFERENCES.  SECOND, NO AFFAIR IS JUSTIFIED.  IT'S AWFUL AND IT WRECKS LIVES.
183072
you loose everyone eventually even yourself over time. they have issues because they feel like these love marriages are destroying their cultural purity.
148483
How do you know you don't love them anymore?  Because there's no "tingly" feeling?  You'd be surprised how much you'd miss them if they were gone.\n\nUnfortunately we live in a day of disposable relationships.  We traffick in souls like commodities.  Our emotions and feelings are good servants but poor masters.
540240
when you no longer love one another
178863
Sometimes when people think they 'really love' someone whose actions hurt them (his breaking up with her, his distance and his silence) they are actually desperate to love and be loved, but the person they are focusing on is not "the one".  Instead, the one being hurt doesn't feel like they can survive alone, and they don't trust that they will find the true "one" in time to not die of a broken heart.  It's hard to make the decision to be alone when you feel this way, but it's the only way to open the door to true love, and it extends your misery until the day you decide to take the leap and risk being sad for a while.
716221
Some folks get to feeling really sorry for themselves and think that the world has ended because they had a disagreement with their partners.  Fact of life is thought that we are going to have arguments with mates, friends etc. throughout our lives.  A lot of people believe that this form of self abuse will prove their love and devotion to the other and that they will accept them back after this.  Majority of time if partner does return to relationship it is because of guilt of some other foolish believe that only they can act as Savior to this person. Live is not meant to go as we want all the time and the sooner people realize this the less of this type of behaviour will be occurring.
1098347
Nope. Once someone states that the love is gone..Well that's just it.\nMove on, and get someone who deserves you :)\n\nBest of luck
562321
I think people have lost hope or faith that there is that one person out there.  Alot of bad things have happened in the world so alot of people no longer believe in love.  But I on the other hand, do.  I have been hurt in the past and have major trust issues, but when it comes down to it I still hold on to the idea that there is that special someone for me.  Never lose hope!!
77262
I have been asking this question for years and no one has given me a good answer yet. To me it seems that if you fall in love with someone you do accept them for everything that they are weather it be good or bad but the minuet you try to change them your saying you no longer love them for who they are. Too many do manage to change them only to discover that they don't like what they changed to and then wonder where the person was you met and fell in love with. People just don't know when they have a good thing. I'd dying to read other peoples views on this. GREAT QUESTION
125267
Some times because they weren't in 'love' when they married. \n  But 'most' of the time I think, they both let the closeness slip away, and though they still love the person they married, there's no excitement there. So they meet someone else that's exciting and fun, and ruin what they could've saved, if they'd BOTH tried.
407420
I have had this happen. It is a disastrous feeling when you do all you can and the imposible to get to a person's heart and get the dissapointing mention of "just friends". Sometimes that friendship is lost sometimes it is made better. The final point is that people shouldn't do that and stop being so shallow. Everybody diserves a chance.
283964
something must of happened if you have lost feelings for someone you deeply loved once. sometimes we go into denial of it all but to move on you need to find out when it started to happen and why. you dont want this to happen again the next time you fall in love.
165217
Any human with the capacity to love gets attached pretty easily. There's nothing wrong with that either. Yes, we do have to separate ourselves sometimes and try not to get too attached to some things or people (like puppies you're going to sell or give away) and it can be tough sometimes, but ya know what? Thank God that you are able to love because those that cannot love lose so much. I'm sure you've heard the "tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" quote, (may not be exact, but you get it), well, never was a truer word spoken. When you love, love with your whole heart, never half-way. God bless. =)