Whats goin on.. guys please!!?
395969
Sounds like a little bit of a player. Maybe he wants to go out with you but would like to see other people at the same time. Not a serious relationship.
1031455
All this dancin' around. Good grief. You'll drive yourself nuts going through all this...and for what? Forget about all this tricky stuff Just let it happen...trust yourself...but not necessarily him. If you find yourself wondering about his wandering eyes...bail.
417599
comment some guy when ur with him.\ntrust me, ull know
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!
836401
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
637949
Um...this is WAY too long and I'm tired. Good night.\n...\nFine! Don't TRY. Let it flow naturally. Otherwise, it just makes you seem desparate. I don't think guys like that...
284281
I can totally understand how you must be feeling. Like you, i would definetly drop a few hints here and there.. but it seems he isnt responding, so that leaves to no choice but to leave it alone. Early April, i would present it to him again,in the most straightforward of ways and we would HAVE to at the very least, talk about why he isnt talking about any of it.\nBest wishes for you.
583577
The girl could have just been a friend.. Im a girl and have more guy friends then girl friends.  But who knows.   Have you talked to him since then?  Has he mentioned anything? Or have you brought it up?  Try atleast talking to him to find out what's going on.  After you find out wat's up, then decide!  o and if he keeps bringing her up in convos id be well aware... that's not realyl a good sign.
214870
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
862349
I think that he is probably under a lot of stress and pressure right now and that you should back off....give him the space he needs and if it is meant to be, he will be contacting you when things settle down.....good luck
280404
Well, something people gets the callling and texting all messed up. He may call you and whatever but that doesn't means that he haves feelings for you. Maybe he's trying to...get in your pants or something. You should really talk to him and ask him if he wants something serious with you, or just hook up with you and nothing more. So, I really think you should get things straight with him and make him tell you what he feels or what he wants.
1102227
It's a sign of your boredom, but not a sign for you to ship out... A guy gives you attention and you think you're attracted to him? hey, just because you're having a rough patch in your relationship, doesn't mean it's going downhill. Think twice. And if you have some love and respect for your boyfriend, don't hurt him that fast... afterall, he's gonna be hurt by two people he cares about, his girl and his friend... Ouch.
626481
Please talk to him about how you feel!! From experience men are not mindreaders and they would truly be clueless if no one clues them in! After the talk if he continues to do the same thing then dump him.
715277
Whatever is going on. Your not being fair to yourself. You deserve better than some guy who may be into you.
81818
unfortunatly I have to say i reckon men are like that it has happened to me. We do not do it on purpose though. It is just that things seem to get into a routine. Do something dramatic and unexpected. Add a little spice to the relationship. Tell him to chill out, shut up, and have some dang fun or else. LOL    another thing is he could be going through some things in his life. Try talking to him and find out what is wrong.
249161
He's still carrying a lot of baggage from the relationship with him. Some guys just need to vent it out. If it goes on for longer than, say, 2 weeks, then it is time to tell him to get over it and talk about something else.
45379
dont interfeer if he is still interested hell let you know in some way!good luck