Are there many gay men out there who rarely befriend other gay doods?
398108
Actually, I think that there should be more gay guys like you. Keeping to ones self doesn't help to diffuse myths about homosexuality. Many gay guys, and I won't say most, travel in gaggles, like geese. Not sure why, but from what I've seen its for the casual sex LOL...
199572
It's not really unique, lots of people are "homo"
819882
From my experience, gay guys are a-hell-of-a-lot-more fun then a regular jock! With my regular jocks friends, if you a girl, you're just an extra body around! I notice that some things you can't be included while "the boys talk!" So I would just whether hang out with my gay friends who doesn't give a rat a** about what they talk about or do! Plus there's never a dull moment with them!
366516
No, there are gay men and lesbians in every country and culture in the world.  Lots of places, however, because of the political and/or social status these people are very extremely closeted.  However, the truth remains, we're everywhere.\n\nFR
456632
Im right there with you. You kinda feel that you dont really fall into any minority or group/click... just you on your island. I think we're unique enough to just be... us. Its lonely, isn't it. I often have trouble finding good friends i can count on, but have an abundance of mutual friends that i can hang out with... but it seems like you can never find anyone who can relate to you.
785492
I have met quite a few from online - most are good friends now -- some --- well let's just keep those skeletons in the closet - ACK!
852215
Most men are. But there are a few good men out there-somewhere.....
834039
I do have gay Friends and bi sexual. No they are not much diffrent in my oppion i this gay and bisexuals are just like everyone else. I also believe they they are great and considerate people and I love my gay friends even though i am straight.
834575
your mixing with the wrong gay men babe ...expand your horizon there are lots of nice blokes out there
414953
I have alot of friends that are guys and there's no tension between us.
705235
Not always. I think the reason alot of gay guys hang around women because they are generally more accepted by women. Men tend to be more homophobic.
783159
No there isn't a "gay" community...\nthere are those who band together for one reason or another...say for political reason...who use the words "gay community" to show or express a sense of unity...\nIf we based Community on what we do in bed with our genitalia...then would there be a fisters/rimmers/missionary/BJ community??...I think not
878446
Some gay men can be very melodramatic!  I worked with one and although I did not care that he was gay, he was the biggest back stabbing, gossipy person I had ever met.  However, my gay friend is nothing like the guy I worked with.  He is loving, smart and funny.  I have yet to meet a lesbian I didn't like.  They tend to be less stressed about things like looks and relationships unlike heterosexual females.
511701
i agree with you.sometimes male friend are much easier to find and to be with.
636512
I think there a lot fewer men than people think.  Men talk big around friends, that they get it everyday.  That just isn't the case most of the time.  I think if your partner is getting it 4 times a week, he should consider himself very lucky.
250149
Yes, but gay people feel that way about men.  Gay men form about 10% of the male population.  It is part nature and nuture.  \n\nLet the gays be gays and you can keep all the gorgeous women to yourself.
497700
Absolutely. I've had many gay friends, and I am happy to say they were all great people. More power to you for being open and honest. I realize that even in the 21st century there are risks.