i still haven't gotten an orgasm help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
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9 out of 10 women will never experience an Orgasm..those are the Facts...and if you are a Guy...you're up Sheets Creek without a Paddle
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I can tell you that alot of woman DO NOT have orgasims from intercourse.. some woman can only climax from  forplay or ORAL stimulation! but you also might try a c.o.c.k ring with a marble on it.. it rubs your clit. while you have sex! I think it would help!
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There are actually quite a few women who are not physically capable of having an orgasm.  A physician is the only way to correct the problem.  Outside of that, if you are on certain medications, it CAN cause some of the problem.
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There are literally HUNDREDS of books about female orgasms and how to get one.\n\nThere is no way I could type long enough to help illuminate you to your own potential.\n\nIt does have to do with the guy(s), however. \n\nIt's probably your relationship with them and their ability to be both patient and SHARING with you.\n\n\nWhen you feel safe and you feel love..........and guys stop treating you like their own hand or a science project.....you'll begin to FEEL the differences......\n\n\nNow you are worried, up-tight, pushing, searching.....\n\n\nThat's not love, surrender, bliss, celebration.......\n\n\nRelax...........really.........breathe.........
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Not all women have orgasms easily, I only get one about 3/6 times.  Ususally the best way to have one is by oral, before penetration.
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For me, I don't get an orgasm from self pleasure.  I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I almost always have an orgasm.  The deeper the better, for me at least.  That's why I like top.  I've also heard of putting your hands on her lower abdomen and pushing all the way up her body.  Hmm, sounds good off I go! LOL J/K
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There is a cream which reduces the sensations and retards the male orgasm.  If that is your problem, go visit a drug store.
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Just like everyone has a different favorite color, everyone has their own technique that works for them.\n\nYou will have to keep experimenting until you find the thing that works best for you.\n\nSome basic pointers – a vibrator usually helps a LOT – and not thinking about having an orgasm is essential – you can’t force it – keep thinking about whatever your fantasy is and it will happen.
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I have already readed it, it's very usefull.\n"\nA Bigger Better Orgasm \n\nBoth men and woman can use the following techniques to make orgasms longer, stronger, more intense and, ultimately, more healthful. \n\n1. GAIN PELVIC MUSCLE CONTROL The pubococcygeal (PC) muscle group, which supports the pelvic floor, is the one that spasms when you have an orgasm. If it's in good shape, more blood will flow to the pelvic area during arousal and the PC will contract more strongly, making orgasms last longer and feel more intense. To paraphrase a statement about scientific discovery, "Orgasm favors the prepared body." Kegel exercises are a simple way to strengthen PC muscles. To do them, squeeze the muscle you use to voluntarily hold back your urine. Hold for two seconds and then release. Repeat 20 times, three times a day. \n\n2. CONTROL VOLUNTARY MOVEMENTS IN SEX You may already realize that some of the phenomena happening to your body during sex are under your control. While you cannot voluntarily increase and decrease your heart rate, you can take charge of various voluntary activities and thereby improve your sexual sensations. \n\nAs you approach orgasm, try speeding up your breathing and alternately tensing and relaxing your arm or leg muscles. During another session of lovemaking, practice squeezing or fluttering your PC muscle. The main behavioral principle is to choose one physical aspect of orgasm that you can control and overpractice it. Soon you will have trained your body so that all of these responses will work together effortlessly and occur spontaneously during future orgasms. \n\n3. MONITOR YOUR AROUSAL LEVELS As you make love, note your arousal levels on a scale from 1 to 10, with 10 being orgasm. As you reach each level, briefly stop and allow your arousal to subside so that rather than shooting straight for the moon, your arousal rises in a wave-like pattern. This technique, known as peaking, results in intense orgasms, possibly because it optimizes endorphin release. \n\nIn a related exercise, plateauing, squeeze your PC muscle, change your breathing, change your focus or change your speed in order to stay at high arousal levels for a long time prior to orgasm. Learning peaking and plateauing with a partner helps you develop a shared language of arousal and orgasm. "
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Have an Orgasm...seriously, it works.
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all your energies are focused tooo!!!!!! much on da orgasm... creating too much anxeity...and too much expectation... which creates a block... Next time you have sexs dont be in a hurry...and dont search for orgasm somewhere in your brain or any other part... just realx and have sexes as if orgasm never existed...just wait and watch...it will come as surprise guest!!! all da best...
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the best way is to have her start off giving you oral sex until you cum  then start on her spend a lot of time kissing, fondling, just making her feel good  you'll be back up in no time and it will take longer for you to cum.  if she's not up to the oral sex, masterbate first   it gets the first one out of the way and you won't be as sensitive
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Sounds like it has been stretched out from over use. Slow down. Try less partners. Use pelvic exercises to strengthen the muscles. Most of the time the female orgasm is reached from the exterior stimulation anyway. Focus more on this and less on the actual intercourse.  F1sTing is always an option! Let me know if I can help!
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Try to do workouts and more kegals..... Also talk with your doctor and see what they suggest. He also needs to make sure you are really lubed up and ready for him. He should try oral on you and let you climax and then use ky jelly and be gentle and slow and take his time so he does not hurt you. Have you tried being on top so that you can control things? Try buying a couples toy so that during intercourse you both are stimulated.... I hope this helps you some and i wish you the best.
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if your haveing multiple orgasms tell him to finger you till you cant cum then get on top of him and reward him! Thumb's up, The more a woman cum's the better sex partner she is beleive me when she mounts up then roll over and take it babe
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I didn't have an orgasm through intercourse for about a year after I lost my virginity to my fiance.  I was anxious and nervous and I saw it all as a really big deal which stopped me coming even though oral and masturbation made me come.  When he asked me to marry him, it was like someone switched on a tap and I now orgasm every single time that we have intercourse.\n\nYou could try having your boyfriend stimulate you until you are almost at orgasm before stopping to have sex for a while, then continuing the manual stimulation etc until you orgasm whilst he is inside you.  Different positions might work, try missionary with your legs up over his shoulders or a cushion under your bum, doggy style with him reaching round to stimulate your clitoris, you on top stimulating yourself or having him stimulate you.\n\nGood luck!
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May be you need to be stimulated more .Tell him what you need.Increase foreplay.Ask him to stimulate your clitoris ,opt for a diferent position like dogggggy style where in your G - spot will be stimulated .ALL THE BEST