Do guy feel Confuse and lost when they r in relationship or heartbroken?
402374
That will all depend on how the relationship was before it all happened. At times they feel lost if they are madly in love you and do not know what to do to keep you. when they dump someone they would actually feel relieved but for them being dumped is like being stabbed in the back.
457372
you were right. you shouldnt lead him on if you dont feel the same way. the same thing happened to me with my boyfriend and he respected that those feelings hadnt developed for me. eventually i knew for sure that i love him, so when i told him he knew it was real and not a cop out. honesty and trust are the most important things in a realtionship, so never lie.
774948
seriously i think that both of u are really messed up and confused at the moment. give each other some time to calm down and think properly. wait for him to initiatiate, but if he doesnt then u need to learn to let go. it is much easier to let things go than to hang on regardless the mental and emotional pain.
413483
My guess is you have already won his heart and that is why you are in a relationship with him already.  I'm sure he is feeling just as bad about the misunderstanding as you are.  Take the initiative and make the first contact to resolve the issue and talk it out, you'll both feel better.  Misunderstandings in relationships are for learning about each other.  Remember the best part, you get to kiss and make up later!  Good luck!
1181310
Well I know how you feel because a went threw the same thing with my ex that is currently my boyfriend. Well the only acdive I can give to you is to be true to you. Honestly if he is actting up then is he really worth having. Men can be real pains...  Shoot cramps aint got nothing on a man who breaks your heart.
980548
Yes of course, but not if you have one of those stereotypical relationships where he/she is a bunch of boring words. He/she would have to feel like your friend, your favorite confidante. The person who is all loving and in whose presence you no longer suddenly feel lonely and where you are safe and at peace.  Than should be 'done' those things that you share, with your lover, communing.  If you do not 'feel' like this than maybe you need to delve deeper into the Source of your belief or look to a place where you can find it better.
168412
I am sorry that you are going through this, but everyone has at one time or other.  I know it feels like the end of the world, but it isn't.  If you were haveing numerous misunderstandings then it wasn't meant to be.  You may go through several more of these before you find the right one.I am a firm believer that there is someone for everyone out there.  Just got to  weed out the bad ones.  Hope this makes you feel some better.  Good Luck to you!
1028354
Yes, but you are aware of a different communication going on.  The one from him to you. Plus, this relationship is different from your others, so it's going to feel different.  The chemistry is there, you just have to learn to understand this new form of communication.  It's different with everyone.  Good luck!!!
508836
Dont feel lost broken or confused.  These things have a way of working themselves out.  If he sees you for who you are and her as the cheater, then hopefully he will make the right choice.  You can always remind him of your loyalty.
861002
you two have been developed a mutual understanding which more likely you both feels the feeling of a couple or bf&gf. becuase you've been start as a very good friend and probably a best friend but you didn't realise that you have developed a relationship already through mutual understanding. but you both will feel awkward of your real feelings as you still thought that you are just friend and nothing else but behind there's already a special feeling that been developed. There's a possibility as well that one of you scared to feel this special feeling otherwise your relation as a friend will be broken, but i'm pretty sure there's a LOVE hanging in the air already between the 2 of you. sometimes denying of the real feeling make things confused and weird..wish you luck!
295785
this is normal, good thing that you know you do still love each other because you will not always feel all lovey dovey with anyone no matter what. when i start feeling like this i try to remember all the times in the relationship when i did feel in love, think of all the great stuff that you have done together, think of all the times he's been there for you, and hey you guys are still dating, so there is more.  i don't know but someday you might want to get married and have a family eventually.  because you have been together that long, try to still go out together like you did when you were first dating.  it makes a huge difference.  talk about your early relationship with him so you can remember some of the hot stuff together.  relationships are alot more than sex.  focus on really being really good friends, too.  that's what worked for me.  hope it helps for you!!!!!  (:
783464
sounds normal?  relationships that adapt to what's going on in your life are pretty healthy i would think.  is there something else that's bothering you making you feel like something's wrong? x
809120
it probably means that hes not happy, depressed, or just feels bad about the whole breaking up thing.... or he might just be shy around you now that you guys are broken up he might feel weird talking to you
213875
It happens.  Don't worry it will come back.\n\nOr....\n\nSomething is wrong in the relationship.  How do you feel about him?  Has something changed in him to  make you question what you are doing with him?
427603
Ummm u need to talk to her.  Tell her how u feel and get her to tell u how she feels.  Its all about communication!  Hell half the time we dont even know what we want so how can guys possibly know??????  We change our wants and needs on a daily basis so of course u r confused!  Thats the beauty- we dont understand u guys either!  So take the time to get to know each other better and u might learn alot more than u think!  Good luck!
293580
Don't say you're an idiot...I don't know you but I'm sure you are a nice girl...no one really is an expert or born knowing how to deal with relationship matters...for what is worth it sounds like you wish to have a REAL relationship...you mentioned that you guys had agreed on not having a relationship but see now you have feelings for him...and the longer you wait the more damaging you are doing to yourself(if he's not interested). Tell him how you feel about the situation.if he runs away then YOU'LL KNOW that he is not the right one..BUT DONT FOOL YOURSELF and hide your feelings...BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.
471020
how does it feel to be heartbroken? Well, it depends on how deeply you tresured something with the person who broke your heart. for me, it felt like HELL. But i got over it after about 1 and 1/2 year. when a broken heart will be healed depends on your own pace. Frankly speaking, i don't believe the guy said. it's too unspecific and invalid. that's like telling who you can be with and you can't be with. if i were in your place, i wouldn't think that he's doing me a great favor. But nevertheless it shows he doesn't like you. Learn to move on.= )