Is it ok to love your neighbour, or should you stop when his wife comes home?
405567
Like the Bible says ' love thy neighbour as thyself ' .
313329
Yes, because my husband has shown me true love. He has been there through good and bad and always protects me and our children.  I've ran from his protection at times because I have felt sophicated, that's until I realized how blessed I am to have someone who cares about me so much.  He has every reason to be the way he is because our world isn't safe at all.
576514
no its not okay. she is already taken and if she is unhappy or if she wants to be with you let her come to you on her own, it is not your place to break up a marriage. how would you feel if you were married and some guy was trying to steal your wife away? its a matter of respect. think about your pride and your character.
282155
do you----take --- as your lawfully wedded wife/husband, now repeat after me .  I _____ do take ____ to love honor and cherish  for richer for poorer In sickness and in health, forsaking all others until death do us part.  Its been 10 years but I believe  I atleast got most of it right.
1163406
Agree with machelle. This is true love, from the wife -- unconditional, but probably also for the financial security, social acceptance, for the kids etc. All very good reasons to stick together. Plus probably a deep understanding of who he is. He won't leave her because that depth of guilt generates such a huge debt of gratitude. As long as he treats her with reasonable respect and dignity, she will stay, and as long as she is reasonably tolerant, he will stay.
1067822
Just like your husband, I work in another city. My wife does that too. In the matter of fact, I would ask her occassionally if she did it. It brings no harm and it's healthy. Better that than having her with another man releasing her sexual urge on another.
1104303
Wow your question is deep. I agree that you must daily make the choice to stay and make things work with your loved one, but also if you really love them, the "loving" part shouldn't be that much work. Unfortunately, many people give up on their relationships these days because "the grass is always greener" and you never know until afterwards if you made the right choice.
361335
i guess you better let go that person, even though you love him/her because he/she is already married and from that fact, you can't do anything about it. i guess that person is already happy with his/her married life life and i think it's just right not to spoil such relationship. Love really hurts, especially in your case (or in your question) but the best thing to do is be happy for that person and wish him/her the best. Move on and after a while you also find the one that is really meant for you or the one that will give back your love. That would be nicer than being "the-would-be-third-party" right?
560981
yes yes yes....loving thy neighbour should not stop at borders. for such a god-fearing, bible thumping nation you guys dont live by the good book
401392
no...a marriage with a relationship is loving not just living together..
60106
it is not possible to love them the same way. You will love them equally, but in different ways and there is NOTHING wrong with you and your hubby getting involved with the same woman. As long as she is ok with the fact that he married you why would it be wrong?
104040
respect the person you love. listen to them and respect their view on issues you discuss,even if you don't agree. Don't talk mean to them or treat them bad. do special things for them that you know they like. ask them how their day went. Make them a special dinner or dessert. Help them work to make your home a place that you both are proud of. respect their family even if you don't like them. one of the worst things to do is talk bad about your mates family, it will eventually come back to haunt you. show them love and compassion. a hug,loving touch or kiss. take the time every day to show them in any way that you care through bad and good times. these are the things i do because i know that i have a wonderful man and thank god everyday for him.
199618
That is not right. Not right at all. You don't give up God\njust to please your man. He's married. He'll never leave his wife. And if he marries you without divorcing his wife that is bigamy. He can go to jail for that. If you are a \ntrue christian then you know God is not pleased with you right now. Do you want the wrath of God to come down on you?\nIt will come if you don't quit messing with a married man. \nTime is short and we don't have time playing around and doing all this foolish stuff. We need to get our house in order before Jesus come. Why have you forsaken God? After all He has done for you and you want to leave him. God said put no other gods before him.
554613
You are exactly right.And that is what the bible teaches.Man is to be the leader of the household and his decisions should stand firm.The wife should be silent in the home and in the church.Of course this view will reap criticism from the new world order,but society changes and not the words of the bible
479799
turn the question around, is is ok for a married man to keep an old girlfriend as a platonic friend.  answer honestly.  If it is not a problem for you or your loved one then more power to you.
620772
Yes. A man should honor and love his wife and children first.
1175606
I am not naive, however, I would attempt to help my husband.  He is my heart, if you love someone you do not walk away if they make a bad choice or mistake.