I'm really scared to insert tampons and towels are such a pain. Any tips on how to insert one?
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Right, lock urslef in the bathroom with no interuptions and plenty of time. Not a time to be rushing. Now, use one of the applicator tampons as it's easier. Put on foot up on the side of the bath and one foot on the floor. Reach down and put the tampon applicator in the vagina about one inch. Then use the applicator to push it in. \n\nBest to start with the smallest ones and keep it in for a shorter time. If at first u don't succeed try try again. No'one is judging u and they wont know if u get it forst tiem or not.
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The trick with tampons is getting them in straight.  If you use an applicator it will be much easier for you to get it in right.  \n\nRead the directions and get it in as far as you can - if you can still hold onto the applicator, you can't get it in too far.  An applicator that is rounded at the top is better than not and don't go for scented.  If you get lightheaded or very uncomfortable after you put it in, take it out.\n\nUse the smallest size to start.  If you are only using them during your lessons, you are very unlikely to contract TSS - and there is full information included in every box of tampons about what TSS is and how to avoid it.  It is in the Tampon Maker's best interest that you continue to live and use tampons correctly.\n\nThat should do it.
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Only one rule: Wear a tampon and change it when necessary.  Otherwise, you can do what you want and don't be embarrassed if you are a little bloated because you are menstral and its all only natural and out of our control
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try using the slender or the lite ones sometimes they have ones for teens.  make sure you use ones that have a plastic applicator.  I find that only tampax compacts work for me but the problem with those are that you can't buy the lites separately they only come in the multipak.\ntampax pearls are okay too, they too have the plastic applicator. look at the package insert for instructions, they also have diagrams too, that would be the most help\ndefinitely do NOT keep trying and trying... just make sure you get it in far enough or else you'll still feel it\nif you keep trying it will begin to get dry in there and feel really painful\nif you've done it wrong, take it out and put a pad on and try again later.\ndon't try it when you're not on your period, it really helps if you try it when your flow is heavier\nif you're having difficulties, make sure you're relaxed and you can even put a bit of lubricant on the tampon if necessary \nI'd get the tampax compact multi-pak and start out by using the lites and then try the regular, discard the supers though (that's what I do all the time, well not throw them out, just give it to a friend or something).  I've had a lot of discomfort trying out different tampons too.  You just have to find the right one for you.
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Inside a tampon holder
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If you put the tampon in the correct way (there should be instructions in every tampon box), and it shouldn't be uncomfortable.  if it is uncomfortable to you, then that tells you that you inserted it in wrong...so try again with a new tampon.\n   To answer the second question, the tampon is doing its job of absorbing the menstrual blood, so it is supposed to be wet. :) You shouldn't have to worry about that. :)
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I tried going to the beach when I was on my period. I did not use tampons at the time and really wanted to get into the water. It was extremely embaressing. My pad got too wet from absorbing the water and somehow floated right out of my swimsuit. It was just floating in the water for everyone to see. So my advice would be: \n\n1. maybe try to find some kind of way to secure the pad so it can't float out and ware swim pants. they make swim pants for girls to put over their swim suits.\n\n2. if it is a friendly outing try to bring a girl friend who won't mind staing out of the water with you and make the most of your time.\n\n3. just stay home and find something better to do\n\n4. try using a tampon - it really isn't that hard. it took me almost 8 hours the first time i tried and i was a virgin (very tiny) so it hurt a lot. it is kind of tricky to get it the first time but if you have had sex before it should be no problem.... if not, well it really isn't that difficult. I just was tired of not being to go anywhere and hated the feeling of having all that mess between my legs. tampons are much cleaner and it as if you aren't having a period at all (if you get rid of the cramps :p) \n\nsorry if that was too much detail. hope i helped :D! good luck...
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I use the product "Instead" which is used instead of tampons or pads.  I like it very much because it is comfortable, easily inserted, and I can keep it in longer during heavier times of the cycle.  Last, but not least, I can have sex with it in and remain clean.\n\nHere is additional data about it here:\n\nhttp://www.softcup.com/\n\nThe last time I went on the site, it had an option of getting free samples of it.\n\nIt IS awkward at first to get used to, even tampons take a little to get used to at first (my first use of a tampon is a horror story that no 13 year old would want to live through ever).  But keep practicing and use light pads at first just to be sure placement is good, and you will be fine.\n___________________________________________\n\nTake a look at this link.  It is inserted back and fits up under your cervix (which is like a classic donut with a hole in the middle) like a bowl.\n\nhttp://www.softcup.com/images/image_how.gif \n\nThe cup is a ring with a clear plastic (or soft clear flexible membrane)that is a flexible cup. \nSee pic here: http://www.softcup.com/images/image_home.gif
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hey. okay. i was 16 when i first tried a tampon and it didnt hurt just because i really really didnt want it to. i have to say that i wasnt a virgin when i used it for the first time. if you are a virgin, then putting in the tampon will rip your tissue ( cherry) so it might hurt a little bit. i really recommend the pearl in the Jr. or light size. they are very thin so it will be easier to get in. heres an easy position for you to try. put one leg on top of the toilet seat and then spread your legs ( bend your knees) this will open up that area so it wont be too tight and might help the tampon go in easier. good luck, its not an easy thing to do at first, so bring a few tampons in the bathroom with you, in case you dont get it on the first or second try.
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Don't be scared everyone (women) has to get one. Normal you go into the room and the nurse will tell you to take off all clothes and put the apron on. then the doc will come in and she will tell you to laid down on your back and put your feets in the stirups. Then she will insert a tube like in the vagina area. there is a lot of pressure in that area, but relax. Then she will put a stick up there to swap in the insides. Only take a few mintues. Then once she is done. She will then want to check out your breast for lumps. \n\nYou might bleed a little if you haven't gotten this done before...\nHope everything goes well for you.
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get a small washcloth , dampen it with water, put it in the microwave for a couple of seconds, dont make it to hott just enough to be steamy, put it on the bump, remember not to hot where you cant take it. seriously the next day it will be way smaller
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I'm twelve, and I have some advice for ya.\n\n1. GET A GRIP. Periods are a pain in the butt. A few people have just gotten theirs in my 6th grade class, and they hate wearing pads all the time. And if you don't have discharge, you don't have anything to worry about. Stop worrying, because you don't want to have to wear embarrassing "period pants" to school. [That's the underwear you wear so your regular underwear doesn't get screwed up because of blood.]\n\n2. TALK TO YOUR MOM. LIKE NOW. If you're worrying about puberty and crud like that, talk to your mom. She knows best. And if you can't talk to her, talk to a school nurse, guidance counselor, or teacher.\n\n3. WEAR A BRA. If you are embarrassed to wear a training bra, wear a sports bra. They are just like tank tops and give you support, but aren't embarrassing like a regular bra. And if you want to wear a training bra, don't worry about changing... Either change in a bathroom stall, or change with your friends and stop worrying about them seeing. Because chances are, they wear training bras, too.\n\n4. DON'T BITE YOUR NAILS! They will look crappy, and if you bite them too much, they'll bleed. I know because I used to bite my nails. Here's a tip to stop biting them: dip them in vinegar or nail polish remover every morning before school. The taste is bad and will sting the open cuts, which is good. You can play with a small toy, like a ball or a Slinky, to distract you [at home!]. Or you can get a manicure that looks really good. Wouldn't want to ruin your nails!\n\n5. IF YOU NEED MORE HELP... You can email me! I'm, like, two years older than you, and I'm in 6th [like I said.] I just stopped worrying about all those things you are worrying about, so I can help ya, if ya want. Email me at frootloop99@sbcglobal.net.
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Take some midol, wear a pad because tampons make cramps worse and get one of those heating pads to put on your back or stomach whichever hurts more.
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. Lubricating the rounded end of the tampon applicator with a water-based gel such as K-Y jelly, for the first few tries, can also be helpful. And by the way, don't use a petroleum-based jelly. It can cause an infection as ALL "OIL BASED" lubricants can. \n. Stand or sit in a comfortable position. Try sitting on the toilet with legs apart and lean slightly forward, or try crouching down with knees far apart. Standing with one foot up on the tub also works for some girls. Hold the tampon applicator in whatever hand you write with. Use the thumb and middle finger to hold the ridged rings (the finger grip) at the bottom of the larger (outer) tube.\n \n\n \n\nThe tip of the applicator's larger (outer) tube should be pointed into the body, toward the lower back. The end of the smaller (inner) tube, with the removal cord showing, should be pointed away from the body. \n\n2. With the other hand, spread the folds of skin around the vaginal opening. Place the tip of the outer tube of the tampon applicator in the opening of the vagina.\n \n \n \n\n \n \n\n \n\n \n\n\n \n \n \n\n  \n \n\n 3. As the picture shows, the vagina slants upward and toward the back. So, aim the tampon toward a point low on the small of the back (the curved area of your lower back). Gently push in the tampon applicator. For flushable (cardboard) applicator tampons, ease in the applicator by slightly twisting or rotating it from side to side. (Avoid twisting a plastic applicator, which slides in best when pushed at the proper angle.) Stop when the outer tube is inside the vagina and the two fingers holding the applicator tube touch the body at your vaginal opening.\n \n\n \n\n \n\n4. Then place your index finger (or a finger of the other hand) on the end of the inner tube (where the cord comes out). Push the inner tube until it is completely inside the outer tube. This pushes the tampon out of the applicator and into your vagina. Take your finger off the end of the inner tube so that the removal cord hangs free. Keep your thumb and middle finger on the outer tube rings.\n \n \n \n\n  \n \n\n \n \n\n \n\n \n\n\n \n \n \n\n  \n \n\n 5. Hold tightly onto the two tubes that are now one inside the other. Gently take out both applicator tubes together. (The cardboard tubes can be flushed away.) If the tampon is in correctly, you shouldn't feel it at all. (There are very few nerve endings in the vagina where the tampon is placed.) If it feels uncomfortable, it is probably not placed far enough into your vagina. The uncomfortable feeling comes from the tampon rubbing against the muscle at the opening of the vagina. If this happens, remove the tampon and try again with a fresh one.\n \n\n \n\n6. To remove a tampon, pull the withdrawal cord gently downward and forward. The tampon can be flushed down the toilet. \n\nTampons are a comfortable, effective way to handle menstrual flow. Girls and women should follow a few simple guidelines for proper use of tampons: \n\nWash hands before and after changing a tampon. \n·         Tampons should only be used during menstruation, not for absorbing vaginal discharge. \n\n·         Tampons should be changed regularly, every four to eight hours. A used tampon should be removed before a new one is inserted. \n\n·         Tampons do not need to be changed every time a woman urinates. Simply move the removal cord out of the way to keep it clean. \n\n·         Always remember to remove the last tampon at the end of a period.\n\n·         Young Women aged 13 or younger should refrain from using a Tampon due to potential harm this may cause to the hymen and their periods are unpredictable usually.
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use lots of lubricant like baby oil and dont ever 4get 2 wear condom. If its very tight use rubber dildos small size 4 some time . Pain occurs 4 newcomers.enjoy!
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Hey.  I have a friend that's the EXACT same way.  She wants to, but she's scared it's going to hurt, and when she tries she says it hurts.  Well, I was the same way, and I was extremely scared.  But all you have to do is dont rush it; just take your time.  And if it starts to hurt, don't freak out and just pull it out or you'll have to start all over again, and that doesn't sound very cool, does it?  So anyway, just sit there and insert it a little and if it hurts, just take a few deep breaths and push it in a little further and before you know it, SURPRISE, you've inserted a tampon =).\nHope I helped,\nKatie
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Here's How:\n1.   Relax! Try not to worry about inserting the tampon right the first time. If you are tense it will make insertion harder.\n\n2.   The best time to practice inserting a tampon is during the heavy part of your period. The tampon should glide inside your vagina easily without any discomfort.\n\n3.   Decide if you prefer to insert the tampon standing or sitting. If sitting is your preference, sit on the toilet. If you want to try standing, putting one foot on the bathtub helps.\n\n4.   Hold the tampon applicator in your right hand if you are right-handed, or left if left-handed.\n\n5.   Use your thumb and middle finger to hold the bottom of the larger, outer tube.\n\n6.   Point the tip of the applicator toward your vagina, facing slightly towards the back. The smaller tube should be pointed away from your body.\n\n7.   Use your other hand to open your vagina.\n\n8.   Place the tip of the applicator at the opening of your vagina.\n\n9.   Gently push the smaller end of the applicator in until it is completely inside the larger outer tube. This pushes the tampon into your vagina and out of the tube.\n\n10.   With your thumb and middle finger still on the outer tube, release the smaller tube and let the strings dangle freely.\n\n11.   Gently pull the two tubes out together.\n\n12.   Dispose of the applicator according to the manufacturer's instructions.\n\n13.   When you are ready to remove the tampon, gently pull the withdrawl strings down and forward. The used tampon may be flushed down the toilet.\n\nTips:\nLubricating the rounded end of the tampon with a water-based lubricant such as K-Y Jelly can make insertion easier the first few times. Don't use petroleum jelly.\nAlways read the manufactuer's instructions throughly before using any type of tampon.\nIf the tampon feels uncomfortable it is probably not inserted far enough into your vagina. Try again with a new tampon.