divorced, almost ready for dating.  what attracts older men in 2006?
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Easy really, just take care of yourself and take pride in your appearance.  The single guys in that age range are also likely to be back on the scene following a divorce.
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Love your spelling. When you say older, what do you mean? If a younger woman approached me, I would be skeptical of her motives. She would have to be an intellectual equal for me to consider her more than a booty call. What kind of dates would you both feel comfortable on? If he is seen out with you, what are others going to say? Is he married? Will people tell? There's some pressure here.
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I was 46 when I divorced.  The first woman I dated was just being grateful for my helping her get a job.  She was 30.  I found a vast cultural gulf between us and we were unable to bridge it.  For example, the most significant even in my life was the U.S. war in Vietnam.  She was nearly as far removed from Vietnam as I was from WWII.   The war, and the war protests, were significant in forming many of my lasting attitudes about all sorts of subjects but that influence was foreign to her.  So, it is not the age difference, but the cultural difference that killed our relationship.  Little things like whether a man would wear a ball cap while sitting at a restaurant table.  Many men of my age find that incredibly rude while younger men do not.  Some feel those type of things can be overcome.  Perhaps so.  Good luck
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I was in a similar marriage for 22 years.  My divorce was final in October of last year.  I am now dating a fabulous guy.  If you are interested in someone in particular, go out with him.  You have wasted enough of your life on your loser husband.  Now is your time girl!  Good luck!  Have fun!  Respect yourself enough to never accept that kind of treatment from anyone ever again!
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As long as you don't act like an old fuddy duddy and have similar interests, why not.  I've been known to date older men and we got along fine.  As long as both of you know what is expected of each other then it should work out.
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That is easy, because you are not ready!! You have been through a lot with the divorce, even though it is not final. You need to focus on yourself for a while and don't make it harder by adding another person to think about right now. Do things that you like and can do alone, go out with the guys, play cards, things with the kids. When the divorce is final and you have found out who you really are again, then you will feel more comfortable dating. You may also subconsciously think that it is not a good thing for the kids to see right now either, at least something to think about. Best of luck to you and time and prayer heal all things.
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The "neck up" is what attracts me.  As you get older what you look for changes.  \n\nI got advice from someone that is VERY true.  Looks should be 2ndary to conversation/personality.  Sure in your 20s 30s your partner will be hot and the type to show off, but what happens when you are both in your 60s??  If you want the "old fashioned" marriage til death ... then a good conversationalist is KEY.
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I'm 31 - but just wanted to say that if I was single and in your age bracket, I would date you - I love the outdoors, travelling, adventure and exploring, camping, fishing, other cultures, etc.\n\nSO, what I mean to say is that there intelligent and adventurous ladies out there just looking for a gentleman friend with the same interest.  \n\nGood luck in your quest
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Congrats! I too am 40 and single again and almost from the gitgo found the perfect man.....he was thoughtful , he brought flowers, he held my hand, was every bit the gentleman, and we fell for each other at hyper speed,two days later he said i hope this is not to fast for you, but i love you,  i asked him if he would like to get married in 2007 three days after i met him and he said yes. That was june 2005.....3 days after my divorce became final.The wedding is may of "o7 and if you just treat her like you want to be treated and be considerate you will have no troubles. Good Luck!
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I'm very impressed by your input on the situation! Why? Because I'm a divorced father as well, and yes - after a divorce you are somewhat at the mercy of the ex, and at least for me - it's much better to take things slow. I'm a lot more cautious now than I ever was before when it comes to dating!\n\nI don't think he blew you off at all! And for you to suggest fishing? Where can I find someone like you? Got any sisters? (Kidding)\n\nSeriously, be patient, maybe you could even do something as simple as enjoying lunch together somewhere? Take it slow - if he's anything like me, it just takes time.\n\nTry to suggest planning far enough in advance, and see if he can get his ex to be agreeable on the date you've chosen. Sometimes a planned schedule far enough out is the best way to make certain it will work.\n\nGood luck with your situation!
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First of all, Kenny - grow up. \nAny dating site will have people of all ages on it, and you can narrow your criteria to the age of the people you want to date. Match.com has lots of people over 50. So does Yahoo personals. \nPersonally, I don't think  there is any "Good" dating site. There are lots of weirdos out there, and a lot of players (including people over the age of 50). So try them out, but be aware that you probably won't find a long lasting relationship on them. Then again, maybe that's not what you;re looking for.
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I don't think it would be hard unless there is something missing - like personality, money, availability.  Have you spent time improving your personality in a way to attract another adult?  Or do you do nothing but talk about your child?  Do you have interests such as sports, movies, travel, community? Do you have a career that will offer something to a future mate? Do you have any hobbies that you could introduce a date to?  \n\nIt isn't about being a single dad - it's the other things that will help you win or lose a woman.  Be interesting and interested in life, yourself, and other people, and you'll attract someone looking for a happy future together.
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I'm 44 and tend to date men in their late 20's to early 30's.\n\nI find that the energy of a younger man makes me feel younger and more energetic. We can also learn a lot from each other.\n\nI have encountered some narrow minds in the gay community....but that's the only issue.\n\n\nDate whomever you like. Be honest and sincere and demand the same from those around you.
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How long has it been since you divorced?  You just might need more time.  You'll know  when you're ready for a serious relationship again.  Take time to find yourself again and reassess what you want out of life and in a mate.  If you don't feel you're doing ok on your own, seek some counseling.  It really does help to talk things out and put them on the table.
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I find that most people in our age group are looking for mister goodlooking, I am over 40 and I met the most wonderful man, without really expecting it at 39, at first he was a friend, then it became more, He was a neighbor and we took our time.\n Physically, he was someone I thought I would never consider\nbut after I took the the time to look at his heart, I realized I,d never been loved, or felt love, so much.\n   My friends that are looking for the goodlooking guy, thats going to sweep them off thier feet, are still single.\n  take the time to notice the positive attitudes and the interest in you and you'll know when that person is right for you.
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Hi,\nI'm here to tell you from obeservation that there are guys out there who will fit the bill. There are some great looking "young" 50 year old men; but why not look for younger men!! Try match.com, true, yahoo personals. I am married, but my best friend is not, and she has met some terrific men on Match.  Good luck and keep us posted.
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Relax, it isn't all that hard.  Those of us that have been divorced have all had to go through this whole getting back into the dating scene thing.  In some ways it is like going to a brand new mall.  You have lots of options and are over whelmed at first but then over time you figure out what you are looking for and how to avoid the bad stores and get the best deals.  Your already online so that will make it easier for you to look into a variety of options ranging from chat rooms to dating sites such as yahoo.  The key is to remember, nothing has really changed in the dating world.  You still have to wade through a lot of toads to find your prince.  As for your kids, always remember you are the grownup and don't let them get away with thinking they have the right to control your life.  This is about you being happy and your life beyond them.  Hopefully you will eventually find the right guy and he will win them over.