My boyfriend acts like he doesn't care anymore and hes always talking about these other girls is he cheating?
406801
Sorry dear...but it seems you've already lost him...it sounds as if he has moved on with out you and he's waiting for you to just hit the road...\nDon't fall into the category of "girls that stick to *ssholes"...I'm sure you deserve alot better...if that is true then move on and get yourself another hottie!
189177
Do you talk to other guys? Just because he talks to another woman doesn't mean he's cheating on you. Just ask him who she was if your that worried.
674490
maybe he just got tired of waiting on you, so now he thinks that you may be playing games since you all have been hanging out for 5 months and now all of a sudden you want to be serious with him.  Find out if maybe he just found another girl and if he hasn't then just let him know how you feel about him
108970
If he is constantly flirting with other girls, then it's understandable to be jealous. If you told him you don't like him flirting all the time and he does it anyway, then you should break up with him. He won't stop doing it, and his behavior is making you unhappy.\n\nBUT (and this is a big but) if he is just talking to other girls, you are in the wrong and should try to control your feelings. Boys don't put up with girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or be friends with. You are going to drive him (and many other boys) away. You should try to reevaluate your feelings.
310375
Sounds like he's a loser.. I would seriously think about getting rid of him. \n\ntalk to him and tell him that it hurts you to see him talking to other girls.. if he's not willing to talk to you about it and how he feels about you with other boys.. then well he obviously dosn't love you as much as you love him. and why waiste your time and life with someone who doesn't love you, eh?
348633
girl dump him there will be other ones. If you are worried that is a reason to dump him. Just be patient, or make him jelous.
151217
Well, it all comes down to if you trust him or not. If you don't trust them, then that would be a problem. Since you say you think he would let one of his female friends kiss him then it sounds like there is some trust issues there. Have you told him about this and how it makes you feel? I am sure you have, but next time be a bit more firm about it. Tell him that if he wants to be with his friends more than you, then you are going to do the same thing and that you are tired of feeling like you are being placed behind them. Then, stick to it. Find some male only friends, or if you have them, hang out with them as much as you can..but whatever you do don't cheat. Just do what he is doing. A lot of times people can see things more clearly if the shoe is on the other foot. Good Luck.\n\nNo Decibel, it has nothing to do with making him jealous or mad. It has to do with this: If she has tried everything else (specifically addressing the problem to him) and he still fails to see what he is doing, which is making his own girlfriend uncomfortable, then maybe he can put it in better perspective if he had to deal with the same thing. Do you how hyper you got just from the thought of what I just wrote? This asker already goes through that daily with her boyfriend. It's ok for him to have friends that are girls but it is messed up for her to have guy friends? Oh please. Sometimes that is the only way guys can see how completely selfish they are being.
764975
I've been guilty of doing this same thing in the past.  He probably loves his girlfriend and wouldn't trade her for the world.  However, he wants to know that he can still get attention from other females.  So, he's flirty with you to satisfy the attention craving.  It's an ego thing. \n\nWhat I would do, if you are interested, is break his ego.  Tell him that he only flirts with you because he needs to know if he can get other girls.  If he really likes you and wants to be with you then he should break up with his girlfriend first before making a pass at you.\n\nI wouldn't tell his girlfriend about the situation.  You may cause problems in their relationship and trust me you won't get the rebound if they break up.  He will resent you.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
822681
Talk to him honestly. Tell him that your friend told you that there is another girl in his life and if he lies or says there is another girl then you will break up with him. If he says that there is no other girl then he is lieing. If he is honest and says there is another girl then still break up with him. No matter what this is a bad situation. Anytime that you date a guy far away from you, you never know what they will do, even if you trust him with your life. Guys are like that, no offence. Good luck and make the right choice.
327982
Yes, it is cheating.  Why does he need to look for other girls when he has you?  What would he do if a girl did respond?  You should get a friend who he doesn't know to respond to him and see what happens.
280407
Yes, he is cheating.\nIf he carries condoms everywhere then he is ready for sex everytime with every girl he meet.
563061
In my opinion, No... he should not be talking w/another woman about her's, his, or anybody elses relationships. whether you know them or not.  Things like this lead to emotional cheating.  Stop him now....
803320
Well I dont quite know what to think either?\n\nJudging by the question, you seem to have troubles with the boyfriend? I am probably wrong here because you question is a little hard to understand. However, I shall answer it like this anyway.\n\n\nFirstly, you should NEVER jumped to conclusions that he's cheating \nbecause you dont get to talk to him, etc.\n\nHowever, I would get a little suspisious of something in your position. I think you need to re-consider his intentions? What exactly does he want in your relasionship?\n\nAt the end of the day, your question isnt really detailed enough to come up with some useful answers (if any lol). I mean, how long have the two of you been dating?\n\nIf you havent been dating long enough.... then dont take this guy seriously. I wouldnt take a girl seriously if she acts the way your guy does. Oh well.... what do I know?\n\nGoing by your question, he doesnt take you seriously and the best way to solve this issue is by talking to him. I hope it all goes well for you, but be prepared to leave him if he contiues the same ways. I would certainly prepare myself for this, etc.\n\nGood luck!!
943290
Good grief girl, run from this loser!!!!  He doesn't care for you!!!  I'm sorry honey, but you have to get some self respect, not allow anyone to treat you like this and get on with life!  This creep doesn't care for you no matter what he says.  His actions do all the talking!!   If he cared for you he would act like it, not just talk about it.  Doesn't matter if he's still cheating.  He did cheat and will again.  But he doesn't care for you.   Get far away from him.  The hurt will heal and someone who really does care for you will come along and treat you the way you were meant to be treated.  Good luck, honey.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
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if it's more than one person independently telling you then he is probably cheating.\n\nlook at the character of the people telling you and decide if they would want to hurt you; or keep you from hurt