why am i sucha loser?:?
405040
You are not a loser!  Be proud of who you are and hold your head up.  Everyone has their issues, don't let thm kid you.  You are a great person.
218309
Hello! Can understand what you mean. Have not got too much self-esteem neither... but I have come to accept that it is not okay for me to feel that way somehow. I want to change it. Think one really needs to decide deep within to change it. There are many beautiful suggestions here. A counsellour I saw some time ago told me that I should say out loud "I am a wrothwhile person and I deserve to be happy." ... and it worked. Just that I became kind of lazy :o) . What might help you as well is the link below. It might seem childish but it really does help. Enjoy it and good luck to feeling better toward yourself :-) !
511413
I think you're a loser and NO ONE would be jelouse of you. Good luck with that.
242949
possibly low self esteem?
160230
You are not a loser.\nyou just didn't find your true love.\nyou will find soon.
1018674
:) not bad attempt ma dear\nkeep it up u will improve ! \n\ngood luck !
114107
Why do you hate yourself? You really have to ask yourself that very question. Is it because you have low self esteem or is it because your body isnt the way you wanted it? I have never felt hate for myself so I cant really put myself in your shoes, but what I do know is that you really need to tell someone, weather it be a counsler or clergyman. Please, whatever you do, dont hurt yourself. Things WILL get better. Trust me!
893913
You are not a loser, you need a hug though. I am 24 myself and trust me you are not the only 24 yr. old who is going thru things. I am currently living back at home and I didn't want to but it's a roof over my head and I'm still alive. If you are really against the situation then you should be doing everything you can to get out of that situation, or else it's pointless to complain. As for the friend you lost, you never lose a real friend, there may be some seperation needed to sort out feelings and to clear your head but if it's a real friend they will come around, if not, what else can you do put pick up the pieces and keep on moving, life goes on you know. You seem to have just hit a rough patch in your life where everything is just going wrong, but it will get better. I don't know if you are religious but God has a way of working things out.  Maybe you should try having a different outlook on life and yourself. A young lady or woman doesn't typically go for the guy who is always down on himself and who THINKS he's a LOSER. If you think that why should anybody else think any different? You have to get some confidence in yourself, have a life self-pride. Be proud of who you are and what you have, alot of people have far less or nothing. When life gives you lemons make lemonade. By that I mean make the best of and try to see the silverlining in every situation, whether it's good or bad. Don't sit around being envious of what others are doing or what they have, because I'm sure it took time and effort on their part to get whatever they have, but go out and get your own, your way. You can only be yourself, definitely not your sisters, they found their way, so you have to find yours. You still young, remember everyone does things differently and in their own time, so stop being your own worst critic. All the best.
991205
It depends on what I lose at. Normally I'm not a sore loser but sometimes I might snap just a little bit after I lose.
512751
U seem to be the common factor. Improve urself!
820435
I have a few suggestions, maybe your not getting enough excersise, the more you get the better. Another thing is maybe your depressed. Good luck!!
911924
You are no loser! \nThose words are written in complete sentences.\nThat means you are a clear thinker.\nWe all make mistakes, so what! \n\nWe are born to learn and experience life. If you were perfect you wouldn't be human. would you! \n\nWe are lucky if we don't carry a lot sad memories and regret with us because it will weight us down and keep us from achieving our true goals.  You have only so much energy - do you want to waste it thinking about things that are done? There done and finished. Let them be.\n\nIf I was you my top priorities would be to 1st remember what is most important LOVE. \n\nIf you are a kind person you will get kindness in return. \n\nYou don't have to be smart to be wise.\n\nYou don't need to go to college to be well educated in this country.  Libraries are free.\n\nDecide what your passion is in life and go to the library and ask the reference librarian how to do research.  I learned to do research at the university and I realized that was All needed to be well educated. \n\nMy father was an inventor he never went to college. Most people 50 years ago got the best educations by just following their passion and reading. Be happy have and be a good friend and enjoy your life. \n\nBeing well off gets you nothing but worrying about how to protect a lot of stuff.  Be free, travel and get to know the world you live in.  So you are not ruled by fear and believe the lies of people that want to mislead you, be wise.  \n\nKaren
453241
There is nothing wrong with you, you just need to try harder and study harder in the subjects that you are'nt as good at. A lot of people are like that, infact most people are. Just keep trying as hard as you can.
761129
You have been dominated and controlled and you need to take control for, and also of, yourself.  You are not mental, or a failure!\nGet some self assertion classes and think about what you want from life.  Then make some decisions and carry them through.  i promise you, you will feel much better when you are doing what you want to be doing...good luck...;
916265
Why are you even calling yourself a weak character.. \n\nDon't put your own self there.. \n\nRegaurdless race or whatever.. There are going to be someone out there that don't like you or your ways.. \nBe happy with yourelf and F the rest..
75204
I guess the real question is, "Who am I?" If you have confidence in yourself, it doesn't matter what other people think about you. If you are happy being you, then you've got it made. But if you feel like your life is worthless, find out what you think will make you feel useful and then go and do it. For example, I feel useful when I help others in their lives from my personal experiences. If you feel no one understands you, it's either because you don't understand where other people are coming from or sometimes that's a form of self-pity... and it doesn't mean you're a bad person, it just means that you don't have confidence in yourself. Be proud and happy to be the person you are, because there is someone out there who will understand you. I promise. I have no idea if that helps... but hopefully it helps a little...
938900
You must be very lonely to be posting like this on here...go make some friends.  Or go find a place to post where there are other bored losers just like you!