Why guys makes us suffer?
400766
I feel the same way. My boyfriend broke up me last week and I just can get over it. They don't have an effect on it because they probably didn't love us like we love them and we gave them to much of our love. U love him and that's why u can't get over him. Try 2 be friends with him and I know that might be a hard to do.Just pray on it God will bring someone in your life that will appreciate you like u want 2 be appreciate.
673665
Since neither men nor women can endure the other's pain, I am not sure why this debate always comes up.  To women I can say this - it is a pain unlike any other that other body parts feel.  So you can't imagine it.  To men I say we don't have the necessary equipment, so we can't imagine it.  Let's just agree that the pain from both sucks real bad.  \nAnother way to look at it - sure childbirthing definitely takes more out of you in terms of the length of time.  But at least there is something beautiful and miraculous about childbirth.  You can't say that about a kick in the nuts.
607296
I know.\nWhy?\nThey feel bad about themselves and make themselves feel better by going to someone nice.\nThey are just embarressed of themselves.\nThey know that they cant get someone so they go to a guy they can get and then they end up hurting you.
1165364
Some men need to feel like they have control over EVERYTHING.  Believe me-been there done that.  I dated a guy who was extremely controlling, manipulative, and verbally abusive.  Took a year before I gave him the boot.  He needed to be in control of everyone and everything around him.  I think it's a sickness.
446864
We release feelings, emotions-verbally discuss with other women etc.and also find ways to lower stress-also cry when upset which also releases stress, negatives .In general men tend to bottle things up inside for required to act "manly'. Keeping things bottled up  esp. negative emotions, feelings increases stress levels which  can lead to Hyper tensions, heart disease, heart attacks, strokes etc.
744169
men seem better at moving forward than us girls, someone once told me that women love from the heart and men with their ******, that when we fall in love its with all our emotions and self being that we give our selves(girls) to a guy and fall in love fully and more deeply I guess that's why we tend to hurt longer.\nbut guys can just switch off, but maybe there are guys out there that do also love deeply one women.
41098
if men could handle stress more than women, they would be the ones giving birth. just think about it, what is more stressful than weight gain, mood swings, aching feet and backs, etc.? nothing. men get off easy and try to say women can't handle stress because we are emotional. btw that is our way of handling stres.
31797
Because females sex organ is internal, so it's easier for us to absorb bacteria and other yucky stuff and harder for us to get rid of it. Women in general internalize more then men, maybe that's why we cry so much Lol.
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
725788
I was very interested in your question and the answers you recieved. I have been with "bad boys", you could say i have a lil bit of an addiction...lol It's not that i am stupid or because i ws abused as a child. It's not that i am still so immature that i do not see the pitfalls of being w' one. This said, I will tell you that Brad is right! Women want men who are confident, strong and well....act like MEN! It's in our nature as women. How many guys do you know that think it would be soooo cool if only their girlfriend acted more like one of the guys? It is great in theory..she would love sports and all the same stuff you do right? Then think about it....... do you REALLY want a girl who acts like a guy? It's not that we want the bad boy all the time (although some of us genuinely do like that...diff. reasons and i'm sure you know a few) It's that we want the guy who takes his place in the relationship as the GUY..so that we can feel like a woman. It's not that you have to BE the bad guy, you just have to pick up the traits that we are attracted to in them! Be a man, be confident, upfront, and yea...I've told a few other guys this, don't take too much of our crap because we will lose respect for you and start seeing you as a wuss! Do you know how many times i have seen girls w' nice guys and they are soo bored and not attracted to him anymore..they start checking out the bad boys... they don't understand why..i mean their guy falls all over himself for them. Our backwards screwed up society is partially to blame but all these lil girls need to stop brow beating all of our men into p***y whooped lil sissy boys and then turning around and whining that he just doesn't do it for them anymore! Romance is not dead! It's that we as women, and i know i am going to get so hated for this..lol, have put you men in a position of not knowing just how to be men anymore..... you can be both... you can be well mannered, polite, considerate, very caring and also assertive, confident and strong! Then....just stand back and hold on to your socks! Because the woman you get then will be a real woman..who recognized in you what it really takes for a good balanced realtionship! Not one of these crazy lil girls running around crying that they want this and that and basically the equivalant of being with another chick..and then dumping you when they realize that for some reason they just don't understand..you just don't do rock their world..lol \n  Just be you...be some of what she wants and needs, the same as you would want from her, and be a man. Good Luck!
995957
It's because women are so much more emotional than men and for some reason we sometimes like to know if our man is thinking something good (or bad) about us. I know it probably gets annoying to men, but just have patience. Women are just wired differently than men, emotionally. And we feel the need to do things sometimes that feel perfectly normal to us but seem silly to men.
1171893
Because Men have their very own wonderful version of PMS, even a cute booty is powerless to it's devices. Did he have a bad day at work? Get into it with a friend or family member? Money Problems? Lack of Sex? All of these can trigger Male PMS it's not like female PMS (being that ours is understandable and predictable) Men's can come at anytime during the month or even last the whole month long. Basically guys can be grouches for no apparent reason.
147226
Because they can if you allow them.   Not all guys are like that, but the ones who are deserve the self-absorbed a**holes they attract!
221133
cuz the universe has to balance. guyz have their stupidness and girls have their pain.
278817
Laughing makes everything better, even deep pain.  Guys do that all the time, or they force themselves to shrug it off.  It's simply a coping mechanism.  Guys do not give as much credence to their emotions as do girls.  That is what makes most of us tough and able to deal with bad things better.  One more of the many differences between the sexes.
415118
Women are more emotional than men are...for the most part.  Plus alot of it is hormonal. Our cycles change several times in the matter of a month. And what do you mean I am moody?!!!  lmto! :op~~
424228
ok not all guys are like that and the ones that are are probably just angry cause they cant get in a good relationship or they are just in it to get laid.... my gf's ex was like that and when i started going out with her she started realizing it. like some guys are diks and u need to be able to kno who they are and spot it before u get too attached. but to be fair a lot of girls mess with our minds too so its not only guys