my boyfriend and i are together...but he is too shy...what do i do?
401573
DO NOT COME ON STRONG OR TRY ANYTHING LIKE THAT!!!!!!!! HE WILL RUN HOME CRYING!!!! First you have to start doing small little things like going to the mall or to the movies. Then if you think he is starting to feel more comforable with you then let him do all the stuff. Dont try to be in control.
1048556
Maybe he likes you but is shy to tell you or make a move. Maybe you need to tell him how you feel.  Or just talk about each others feelings.
212559
It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.
441667
too shy if u ask me. why dont u talk to him about it? he is the only 1 who can answer this question 4 u
111875
well it would help if you figured out why you are shy around him and than work on that. So if you are shy because for example you are scared what he might think of you than think well if he didnt want to be with you he wouldn't be so there isnt anything to worry. You are who you are and thats the way you find the one for you is by being true to yourself. Also let ssay you want to say something to him.. dont stay thinking about how you should say it or if you should as soon as it comes to mind say it so  you dont hae time to wonder if you should or should and your nerves would be there to torture you because you did it quick and got it out of the way.
1026615
i think you are definataly in love but i do think you should stop acting so shy around him cuz you need to be yourself around him so that he will learn to love you as much as you love him
884884
Omgoodness you totally just described me. Haha Im exactly the same [[somewhat in between shy and outgoin]] Soo I really wouldnt give you such great advice. Haha except be yourself. Laugh. Smile & Keep Awesome eye contact..and phisically Hug. Play with his hand..joke around..push him..you know all that crazy fun loving stuff =] But either way i think he noticed ur a little shy already but hes still talkin to you. That jsut proves he likes you ...
781523
I presume your boyfriend is about your age. Well, if he just sit there and doesnt communicate with you after you tell him what he wants to know, although some of it could be none of his business, then I guess he is just nosey or just wants to be in control but really doesnt have the character to talk to you like a human being. Maybe he just doesnt know how to communicate. Good luck.
909947
He is shy,  he  probably likes you too. Why don't you start talking to him and see what happens.. good luck
1130121
YOU can make the move, maybe he is just shy\n\ndo it anywhere
86634
I feel ya on this one, this goes back to my question I just posted about letting your guard down. I would def. talk to him b/c if he feels something different and is to afraid to say something or maybe its the opposite, things need to be worked out. Communication is the key
608713
well it kinda depends on you because im like that sometimes, im very shy but the thing is when i IM him.. im myself cause ur not actually infront of him. but when u talk to him or call him, ders a difference cause u'd actually hear him and ull get really nervous. so yea its up to u. but if i were u, id start IMing him then once u get to know him more and more. i suggest ud talk to him later on since u know him more...
835553
Maybe he's just shy.  Just approach him next time and you'll see if he really likes you by how he reacts.
1044495
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
320375
At 2 months, relationships are generally at their best. You have just spent more time than usually together, and there seems to have been no problems... I think that your boyfriend is just shy: he feels comfortable around his friends, who he knows, but does not feel inclined to be loving and public in front of your friends, who he is not so familiar with. \nThink about it: if he were not proud of you and your relationship, he wouldn't have wanted to spend that much time with you, and he would not be so evident about your relationship in front of his friends. \nTalk to him: let him know you have noticed that behavior (maybe he hasn't), and ask them if there is a reason for it. It seems that the problem is not you, but his shyness. Good luck.
518969
You are to shy to talk to him about it and ask him why he did what he did; but you are not to shy to ask the question here?  Come on dear, go ask your boyfriend, as someone said in the other answer if you are to shy to talk to him about it, then maybe you aren't ready for that...
187852
well it sounds like to me you are stuck in a hard place and a rock, you should do nothing. If he likes you then he will tell you or on the flip side he is shy and does not know how to approach you. So just give him time to think and build the courage.