For married women - Are there any women out there who do not enjoy sex with their husbands but do it anyway?
404755
It is not that It is my husbands fault I just don't really like to have sex as much as he does so yes I preform to make him happy because I rather it be me than someone else however I could go a month with no sex but I know he can't so I do my duty.
1052622
your doin it because you can  and you want someone to give you the attention your husband isn't giving you but having sex with them if find that very wrong why don't you have one of them buy you a vibrator.so what im sayin is if you really loved your husband you wouldn't be sleepin with other men. commitment is what you lack that or you have no self control.
989622
Yes I am a woman who pretends to not enjoy sex, I also am obedient and obey my husbands every command.  My  place is in the kitchen.
971675
I don't agree.  I know men who are not really that much into sex.  Me, being a woman, however, I  need it often.\n\nI don't mean with different people
109508
Funny, you should ask that. . .my husband and I are having this problem now.. . .it is not women don't want to have sex. . . being married adds alot of stress its self. .. there are alot factors that add stress such as ex's(jealous ones who are plotting);finances and etc.  These things had me so stress after getting married, all I wanted is a good night of sleep. .. If you are in a marriage and there are no problems, there is a bigger one simmering. .. .remember pratice makes perfect. . .eventually, things change and stress was lifted. .. my husband can have it when ever he wants it, and I appreciate him more for understanding. . .Ask her why and then you will know where to go from there. .
989709
I see nothing wrong with knowing what you're getting into.  I know others would disagree, but sex is a part of marriage.  If it's not enjoyable because of who you're with, you won't want to be procreating with them (which is the whole biblical point of having sex in marriage).
430209
I've been there, so yeah. The problem I found wasn't that I enjoyed masterbation over sex, it was that I preferd masterbation to HER! The problem went away after she did.
52168
I'd have to first question the motives of my wife.  Why exactly does she want me to sleep with another person?  If it's for some sort of sexual gratification on her part, then I would perhaps consider it.  I seriously doubt that I would actually proceed with it though.
527844
Sadly, a lot of women have been duped into thinking that you must experiment with sex with your partner prior to marriage.  Of course this is false--sex follows love, not the other way around.  They then end up giving up their bodies to dozens in hoopes of finding the "right" guy when all they do is cheapen their own value thus limiting the quality of guy that they will be able to ultimately marry.
47892
No...enjoy it with your spouse...or at least be upfront. dont hide it like you are ashamed.  that is when it would feel like adultry
374663
The men I have spoken to feel alienated and rejected both mentally and physically from their wives.  Apparently sex once or twice a year is considered normal for this stage/age of marriage.  Loneliness would probably be the best way to explain it.  They feel that they can fulfill their needs while still maintaining the quid pro quo of the marriage and family.\n\nWrong as it sounds that is what they tell me.  They actually feel like they are sacrificing their own happiness to maintain the responsibilities they have for family.  They see an affair or usually casual sex as a necessary evil.  Most have no intention of ever leaving their wives and they make that perfectly clear.  To them  a marriage that is tolerable is better than divorce.
1021049
I go out at least once a month in a micro mini and 5" stilettos to dinner with my hubby! I do it for him and don't care what others may think or if they are looking. Afterwards, we have some incredible sex with me still in my outfit!\nI'm glad to hear that you have a lady who does that for you.\nHopefully there are others like us!
42098
I'm married and have not had sex in a year! (Idiot for a husband) Actually, it varies from person to person due to psychology and hormones.
174725
never done that, but i would feel guilty too. Sex is supposed to be between one man and one woman (in the context of marriage, by my belief) not a couple of each. She feels guilty because she doesnt feel right about what you did.
481580
I wouldn't like it to be honest. I'm not against porn, but I would be very upset if my husband was turned on by other chicks, especially if he went to a strip joint. I only agree to porn and stuff if they just look, but don't get turned on by that person. I am happy to look at porn together. Your wife needs to show you some respect! I would never do that to my husband. I wouldn't even get the urge to do something like that. Not if I'm in love.
261415
Definitely. I do it, and I'm very happily married!! lol Yeah I still have a partner, and I'm very happy sexually, but I still it's very important to still know how your body works, and what turns you on. Things are always changing, so it's almost necessary to keep in tune with your own body.
1156527
I like getting or giving oral sex. All my females friends do not like doing it, but I love it. I think its a control issue.