Should I stay and be celibate or move on?
399976
I am 71... and I have loved one person througout my married life for 48 years... (now through death, am single again) and I can tell you that over those 48 years, sex had started out as the "seed" of the loving relationship, but it developed into the "fruit" of the relationship... and the blending of our two personalities and souls into a working relationship became more important than just the sex.  The first 7 years of a relationship are sexually based... Called the "Limerick Stage of Love" (spelling may be wrong...) then that starts to evolve into a deeper more lasting relationship, and this is what builds over the years into a solid foundation that carries you both through the bad, difficult and trying times together.  You each have to decide what is important to you and based upon your decisions, you will then know what is best for you both... and can work things out for each partner's growth and benefit. Hope this helps... Blessings!  \nPS... With the waning of this strong bond of sexual love in those first 7 years... people usually make the mistake that they are "falling out of love" and it is time for a divorce.  They do not follow thru and endure... and have faith that something more wonderful will develop... most loving relationships today are totally sexually based... and as the loss of interest in sex wanes... so goes the relationship... Not the best bases for a 50 year lasting relationship... don't you think???
1068349
Seek and ye shall find. If you don't find, move on. \n\nIf the different churches you visit have different doctrines AND one week you believe X and another week Y, then yes you are being spiritually promiscuous. If you're just looking for a "home," then keep on visiting.
422809
It helps to have other hobbies and passions, and be full of life so that you don't feel like you're missing out on what you're choosing to hold off on.  It is hard to wait otherwise.  Plus, 19 out of 20 guys will try to push the envelop even when you're very clear with them, so you have to be willing to push back when the respect isn't there.  That's the hardest part.  But really, it all should work out if you take a chance and stand up for yourself until you finally end up with the right guy (the one who puts on the brakes instead of making you do it!).  Let me stress the ONLY reason I abstain is that God told us to and I want to do it the right way.  I think it is the hardest thing in the world though.
1183790
Stay a virgin.  Leave the porn alone.  Wait for Mrs. Right.  You'll be glad you did.
899441
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1165377
I think each person should make that decision based on their beliefs.  Personally I didn't wait till I was married and I don't regret that decision.  But I did wait till I was with someone I loved and trusted, which made it special all the same.  I also thought about the pro's and con's and made a considered decision, not just jump straight into bed with the first guy that asked.\n\nI realise that it must be hard for you sometimes when everyone around you is doing it, but if this is your belief then I think that is very important, and your future wife will love and respect you even more for that decision.\n\nPlease don't just marry a girlfriend because you want to have sex sooner.  My sister has a group of friends of the same belief as you and a lot of them got married soon after they met, and are now breaking up.  Take plenty of time to get to know the girl and go through some tough things together first to be sure that you really can spend the rest of your lives together.  \n\nMaybe you should keep quiet about being a virgin so that people around you don't try to pressure you.\n\nGOOD LUCK
63784
Celibacy is an awesome thing, especially if you aren't married. It is certainly not a waste of time! If you're saving your virginity, that is one of the best things you can do. It's more than just a religious thing (there are good religious reasons, but I'm talking aside from that) I think of it this way. You will only be able to give your virginity to one person in your life. Who deserves that gift more than the person you love enough to share the rest of your life with? My husband and I waited and were both virgins when we first had sex. Many years later it is still great and it just keeps getting better. But I often think of and take alot of pleasure in the fact that I was (am) his one and only (and he was and is still mine). It's something you don't forget and in my case is an awesome thing. In fact it's a pleasure that goes beyond all of the physical things. It makes me feel special and loved, and it lasts and grows. So I would definately recommend waiting. It is more than worth it. Even if you have had sex before and then you stop and wait for that special someone, that is also valuable in the same way. So to answer your question, celibacy may not be popular, but there is certainly nothing wrong with it. On the contrary, it is something that is (though not easy to do) more than worth it and it will reap great, undescribable benefits!
834103
Leave him. I'm sure you are a beautiful person who could do much better and find a more loyal man for you. And as for him and the whore, they'll get there's.
535197
Okay here is the bottom line....you need to move on because he is obviously not interested in being involved in a committed relationship with you.  To him it's probably just sex every once in awhile because he knows you will be okay with that.  To him it is nothing more, do yourself a favor and leave hima lone.  As hard as that may sound you will eventually have to move on with your life without him.  Believe me you will find someone else once you are able to emotionally detach yourself from him.
437717
Celibacy and abstinance.
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
1129972
hmm... easy answer... nope.  I think you should stay as you are.  It's obvious Christ worked in your life in an awesome way.  God's blessings to you:)
308311
Go with the flow. If there is a possibility that you can get together on a permanent basis than great. If he/she is not going to leave there mate then you need to break it off and move on. Life's too short to cause yourself so much grief.
405565
Why would you stay if it is that bad? This doesn't make any sense to me. If the marriage is bad then take yourself out and live your life in peace...Lady
810454
I would move on.  I was cheated on by my childrens father again and again.  They never change and you will always wonder.  Its a lot to handle.  I would say find someone that cares about you and takes your feelings into consideration.  After I got rid of the childrens father I met my husband and I know that he would never cheat on me.  I trust him because I do not have the same feelings that I had in the past about worrying everytime he leaves as I did the other jerk.  Good luck and find a good woman who will love you and only you.
921165
Well, you made the move so you will need to end it with the man you love. Why the move though? Why leave the man you love behind? I'm sure it was a real good reason to leave him. You can try to continue your love but there will be difficult times ahead. Prepare yourself. It's is time to move forward. Good luck.....SAM
1085480
You should move on; and if she does not follow (leave the other man), then it wasn't meant to be.  You are currently missing opportunities to find someone who is into you!