I want my "hard n long" in my gf Hipps bet she don't agree on it what should i do ?
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gi her away, she'll scream she'll love it hahaha
228565
first of all, you both sound too young to "know" this is the love of your life. but if that's how it feels right now, then you have a responsibility to yourself to fight for it.\nhere's my advice. sit down with her and have a heart to heart. tell her, you love her and want to marry her. tell her you understand she has issues with physical contact, and with her own body, as well as presumably she might with yours, and you will try very hard to not push her beyond her limits. and then ask her if she is willing to meet you half way. this is the critical point.\nbe gentle and make sure she enjoys her walks on the wild side, when she feel bold enough to take them, but be patient when she isn't up to it. you can get over reluctance, and work to resolve issues if she works with you - maybe even professional therapy might help. if she is not willing to try for you, then if you marry her, you will be sorry. that's the one thing you don't want to do to yourself or to her. stick around if you feel you must and maybe she will change her mind. but don't marry her unless she's willing to work with you to solve her issues.
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assure her you will be gentle and take it very slowly.  tell her you will stop the millisecond she says so if she says so.  and use plenty of LUBRICATION.  as long as you take it slow, she should trust you and if you do it right, she will enjoy it and beg for more, lol.  if you rush it and hurt her, you'll never get a second chance so don't blow it!
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First of all, you must learn to compromise.\nWhen you argue, and you will argue, try to see things from your partner's point of view. Try not to be completely stubborn and unbending. Sometimes you both have to give up a little for the sake of your relationship. \n\nHonesty is also very important. With honesty, comes another crucial ingredient for a healthy relationship: communication. You have to learn to communicate. Talk through your problems and always be honest. If something she does upsets you, tell her. And if she has things she needs to discuss with you, listen to her. But, at the same time, don't forget to talk about the good things too. \nWhich brings me to my last point.\n\nNever take her for granted. Appreciate her. Always remind her that you love her. I don't think anyone ever gets tired of hearing that. Show her that she means everything to you and that you would do anything for her. Always respect her and stay loyal to her.\n\nUnfortunately, sometimes even when you follow all of these guidelines, things just don't work out. You have to remember that there really is no surefire way of holding on to a relationship. If there was, then no one would ever break up. Sometimes, things just aren't meant to be and we just have to learn to accept it. Believe me when i say that i know it can be very difficult. but we have all experienced heartache and we survive. Life goes on and we eventually meet new people.\nyou just have to hang in there and keep trying!
552812
appoligize!  ihad that happen!  give her her space for a while, then appoligize.  it worked for me!
102708
wait, are you trying to marry her, or date and have a sexual relationship with her. If it is the first point, don't do it man. Marriages are expensive and will always end in divorce or unhappiness. Save yo money and buy an old school cadillac with 24's instead. If its the part about sexual relationship, tell her she gives you action in the pants, and that she needs to stop selling drugs to kids. That is not cool, man!
1087408
try to talk to her about this, if she doesnt understand what you mean or not willing to try to change this, then just move on and find someone more compatible with you.
15133
Don't try to force anything. If it's meant to be it won't be so hard.  Go with the flow of the relationship and listen to her when she says no. Lots of us men don't realize that when a woman says no she means it. Don't be posessive, be kind to her and see how it goes.
275382
Dont rush, give her time to think. If you keep houndin her then she'll feel trapped and may break it off. I love you are powerful words. And no, its not wrong at all.
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Well what age are we talking here? \nIf you two are too young then I totally agree with her - but if not then perhaps you must decide what is most important to you. Do you love her enough to stay by her side despite the absences of sex, or do you weigh heavily on sex in a relationship. Now, I am assuming this is what you are talking about, (the sex I mean) because if she does not let you touch her at all - then you definitely need to talk/help her or probably best to leave. She must have some serious personal issues.
192990
you sound perfect.  I want it like that too, but gf says no a lot.
356515
If you guys are making out.. or whatever, try putting the heavier moves on her. If she goes with it, she wants it. If she pushes you off, then she must not be ready. Go with your instincts.
695311
If I say No you will not listen. And you know why... First off, 2 months, too fast. how well do you know her. How well does she know you. 4 times a week to visit or for sex... I recommend thinking this one through.  Are you willing to spend the rest of your life for this person. I don't think so. How much do you trust her. Relationships are built on trust. Shacking up saves gas... Great. Now what. You say that you are more mature than your past relationship. Read your question. you sound like a infatuated 19 year old. Trust me man... Think it through.
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try not having sex with her for a month, then tie a bow around yourself and stand there naked, but don't initiate anything, just stand there and tell her "I'm here if you want me" and if she doesn't initiate it then i think you should sit down with her and discuss it.  Women often initiate less than men, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you.  Maybe she could make suggestions to you that will help her enjoy it more.  Listen, don't preach or judge, just listen.
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Hey man, relax.\nFirst thing you can do is to trust her words: She said she wants to marry you. Then accept it.\n\nDon't worry too much. There is still time to talk about her attitude (accusing, do things that make you mad). Both of you should agree to change your attitudes to a level that is acceptable and comfortable with both of you. Otherwise, your relationship will always be on the rocks.\n\nTry to meet in the middle. and try to compromise for the good of you both.\n\nTrue love understands and cares. It is gentle, not rude, it does not boast, it keeps no record of wrongs.\n\nAll the best.
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here's a weird idea:  TALK TO HER!\n\nTell her how you feel.  Maybe there is something she wants YOU to do and then you can both compromise.
636454
hell ya! especially if ur talking about sex, get all dirty with her. like call her ur sexy bich, or say, your azz feels awesome. but the all timer is like, i love ur titz! then as soon as u say that, give her boobs a BIIIIIIIIIG squeeze!