Is marijuana good/bad? My boyfriend...?
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Let's see... hmmmmm BAD, BAD, BAD!
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Amazing. Boys! Can't live with them, can't live without them. What he did to you is not only emotionally and physically draining to you, it's just plain wrong. Deep down, I think you know what you need to do. You have a lot of what I call "but" statements. "I dont like it, but....," "I left him behind, but....,"  "I really love him, but...." For every good, I would venture to guess that you can count 10 bad. He smokes pot, so that tells you he is killing his brain cells, and doesn't respect himself as well as you. He engaged in sexual intercourse with another woman. Therefore, not only is he a pothead, loser, deadbeat, and moron, but he is also unfaithful. Because he is willing to engage in risky sexual behaviors, if you continue to be with this loser, you too could possibly contract a nasty std. \nNow, it's easy for me to play armchair quarterback. When you love someone it's difficult to let go. Here is a man that you spent 2 years of your life with. However, you stated yourself that it was "off and on" for the last two years, which is an indication of an unstable relationship. He lives in Florida, you live in Georgia. Not to say that long distance relationships do not work, but this one cannot work for the fact that this loser is too immature to be in a relationship, nor deserving of your love, time and attention. Take a moment to write a list of all the qualities that you desire in a boyfriend and stick to it. Have stringent requirements. Why? Because you're worth it. When you end the relationship with your boyfriend, state to him the reasons listed, and inform him that "NO" you two cannot be "just friends." Once you end the relationship, do not take his calls, do not reply to his emails, and do not see him in person. It's time to begin the healing process and move on........ Best of wishes to you.
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some people cannot be helped, unless they help themselves first. there's only so much you can do. and there's only so much you can put up with it.\n\ntrust his friends. if they say he's getting high, then he is. they have nothing to gain from lying to you. if he says he isn't, he does have something to gain from it- he gets to keep you. but let him know that he can't have both. he can't do drugs and keep you.\n\nyou should dump him. tell him that you've tried, but the relationship isn't going anywhere. it is one way. you are giving and giving to him with nothing in return, because he is lying to you. that's not how a relationship works, no matter how much you are in love with the other person.\n\ndon't let pity for him keep you attached to him. think about yourself a little bit. it is taxing on you and stressful for you. you don't need the extra stress. if he's not giving to the relationship, then it's not a relationship. break up.\n\nhonesty, trust, respect, communicating feelings and emotions... it seems you are doing all these things, but he is not returning them. so no matter how much it hurts you to break up, you will only get hurt more by staying in the relationship.
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i have smoked pot daily for years as well as my on/off boyfriend of three years and i have never noticed his boobs growing! we are both in good shape and quite slender naturally so pot hasn't even made us gain weight from munchies. side effects i guess are the typical lowered sex drive, lowered sperm count and amotivational syndrome in some people although it's typically associated with an already lowered motivation/depressed mood and is not causally linked to pot. incidentally, munchies might just be a learned behavior but there is some evidence that it stimulates parts of the hypothalamus that stimulate appetite. as for boobs hurting, i have never felt that and neither has my guy! if they are, maybe you should get checked, guys can get breast cancer too, in fact it is more common than most realize.
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just ask him..if he cares about you he'll tell you and if its yea..then tell him he needds to stop or you guys wont be toghter..you dont want to be with a stoner
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OMG!! SMOKING MAKES YOU UGLY NOT GLAMOROUS!! DON'T MAKE HIM START ---  ITS A TERRIBLE HEALTH HABIT THAT MAY KILL HIM LATER IN LIFE!!!!  BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND AND DON'T KILL HIM!
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I had to have a few months "off" of my friend, which wasn't hard to do considering all he hung out with were his pot smoking friends.\n\nWhenever pot came up I would, rather harshly, make fun of him for being a pot head.  I would make fun of his pot-head friends, and make him feel guilty for ditching me for them, his "best" friend.  And we drifted apart for a while.\n\nNothing rude.  No harsh words or ultimatums.  Silence.  If you can try it for a month.  We eventually drifted back, and while he still occasionally smokes weed, he recognizes how the constant influence of the drug had changed him, and hurt our friendship.
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I would never date a guy that smokes.  His clothes always smell bad, as does his house, car, skin, breath, everything.  Not to mention that most like to smoke when out to eat and I absolutely can NOT eat with someone smoking beside me.  I don't allow smoking in my house or car either so that would cause a big problem.  I dated one once and believe me we did NOT last long.
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that is not good for you tinfoil has cemical in it...weed is really bad fo ryou too...you will have long term affects for doing both
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Wow..looky looky another pothead loser that feels held down by the man. I guess you never thought about the fact that alot of violent crimes are linked with drugs.......but you never would have thought about that because you probably have 1/2 a brain cell left. So go ahead and keep smoking your marijuana no one really cares about you anyways. You and Pete have fun........queers
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My boyfriend smoked, and i swore i would never date anyone who did but we have now been together for 2 1/2 years and at first its hard to get use to...I didnt kiss him at first untill he brushed his teeth.  It doenst taste great, but thats life.  If you dont like smokers then dont date one and dont kiss one.  If you can look past that and see the person themself and not just what they do you can get past kissing a smoker. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and he hasn't smoked for about 5 months now, just stoped one day and hasn't started since, he knew i didnt like it and even though it took him 2 years to stop he did and he did it because he loved me enough to stop doing it.  I myself never smoked in my life and i never will.  So not all people who are married or dating smokes are or once were smokers themselves.
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i think it is bad because the scientist guy is absolutly correct.\nI smoke pot fo remotional reasons. i f I dont smoke i will have an anxiety attack, and marijuan mellows me out. I smoke from the second I wake up, to the secnd I go to bed. I am succesful, but at work I have to write everything down or i will forget! i know its from the pot
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[Edit: When I started answering, there were no other answers so PLEASE DON'T ACT ON THE NEGATIVE ANSWERS; they're all pessimistic & negative & don't really care about your problem! Be optimistic & the sun will shine eventually! [I'd hoped that you'd read my answer first]]\n\nI've been in the same situation recently (I'm a guy) and I realized that if I wanted to keep my fiancée, I had to give up the weed, it was as simple as that. She had the same line of thought as you did and I think that she had every right to think like that.\nFrom a personal point of view, I didn't find it that hard at all BUT everyone is different.\nIf you feel that he really cares for you & that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, you could probably ask him to check into rehab or something. I don't know the laws in your country but he could possibly get some sort of concession from the government - pls DO NOT quote me on that, I'm in Aus & I don't even have a clue about the drug rehab government concessions in here! - and I'm sure he could find an anonymous one...\nThe bottom line I guess is that, personally speaking, drugs are not good!\n\nP.S. Don't alienate him (point fingers) as it can make matters worse. Instead, try to understand where his addiction comes from. In many cases when the root of the problem is found, the solutions start to spring up almost by themselves!\nAll the best & wish you well with your love; if you want it, you gotta fight for it!
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What kinds of drugs bud? If shes just smoking pot, I wouldnt worry about it at all. Its harmless. If shes on crack or meth, yeah tell someone. It depends also, why is she doing drugs? Also, does she know what shes doing? Also, how old is she? These are all important questions, even if you think they sound irrelevant, they arent. Contact me if you need me to tell you about the effects of drugs and what to do about it. Without bragging, I'm a walking drug encyclopedia, and I will tell you the truth about whatever you ask.\n\nPeace
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Talk to him. A couple of ciggaretts shouldnt ruin a relationship. just tell him to quit smoking or quit you. he will make the right choice.
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I will tell you this. I do not believe that marijuana is as bad as "they" say it is but, when I smoked it took away my ambitions in life.  I wanted to have a degree in Paramedic medicine but I chose to smoke.  Do I love the feeling,yes.  Do I regret starting, not really but there wil always be someone to complain no matter what the topic is.  It is in their nature.  The common feeling is the feeling you want to sleep and you eat everything in sight.  If you decide to try it then I suggest you make a very serious decision as to what you will do with the rest of your life, because I know there are celebs that smoke but with money comes power and leniency.  As for us common folk we dont get the same breaks and we are the ones that face the consequences for what they can buy their way out of.  I still smoke by the way and I would do that before I would ever take a drink of booze.
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Well, Ma'am, ask yourself a question....Do you trust your boyfriend to be sane and sober all the time?First off, a practise is certainly not always acceptable to a guy, even if his peers are also doing it...in that case, we guys would all be doing doope, smoking,drinking and in short being entirely antisocial.But we aren't,are we?Do not worry,Ma'am....even if boys drink, they do stupid things, yes...embarrasing thing,yes...but hurtful things, no.