my boyfriend is mangali is their any solution for it?
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Mangali means barber in Indian, is this what you mean? \n\nThe institution of barber is a very old one in India. Usually barbers belong to a hereditary caste or clan, variously called Mangali, Vostaad, Hajjam, Nayee, or Nayi-brahmin.  They point out, since they take part in "Purifying and cleaning" for everybody, they can jolly well call themselves Brahmin.\n\nThey shave their heads for ceremonies and rather not intermarry
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Ask yourself if what you're struggling over is worth it. Is it worth your happiness/relationship?\n\nIf it's not submit to him on that matter, if it doesn't greatly negatively impact your life or morals. If it is talk to him and tell him why this matter is so important to you.\n\nOr talk to him in a calm and rational matter (no screaming) and come upon a decision and understanding that both of you are comfortable with. If no decision or understanding can be reached, seriously consider leaving the relationship.
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If you don't have any problem, let him hug you. Else analyse your problem yourself and keep a distance. I don't know which country you are from. That will be helpful giving you the solution.
838709
Oh dear, u guys must have been together for a while now. Listen, there is no permanent cure for this problem, love does not fade away but passion sure does.\n\nTry looking good, lose weight if u r over weight\nbuy some new sexy lingerie\nSHAVE, SHAVE & SHAVE\nTry and get him out of the house, go out more often to get rid of the daily routine, a weekend getaway would be great
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hahahaaaa!  from the perspective of the video gaming boyfriend, rip ur clothes off and jump between him and the screen. or, have him choose betwixt the gaming and you, or go out places once in a while where their aint games, or, buy some games that BOTH of you can play and annoy him by being on his computer all the time so he wants to game less wen ur around : P
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hmmm.......... i have been giving suggestion in this regard to a lot of people and i guess they liked it also...\nthe problem here is there is a monotonous life schedule which is going on..... you have a routine life and people do get bored out of their routine life.....\none thing i would suggest is stop bitching about each other.... this is the worst thing to do in a relationship.... ater all this, you two are together for 5 years means that there is something which is still there which is binding you two.... it can love, it can be lust......\ndo these to spice up your life.....\n1. give him a surprise party..... without any occasion\n2. always be a pleasant surprise for him.... keep him guessing what will be your next move... that will interest him...\n3. Perform a striptease in front of him... totally unexpected...\n4. for once, dont bitch back..... arguments leads to arguments......\neven though he does, you have to keep your calm, and try to love him, even though he might be busy bitching..... put your arm around him and kiss him on his lips.... the words come out.....\n5. don't hear whatever he says, when he is bitching.......\n6. give your love to him...... it can bind/heal/patch almost any kind of relationship.... it can cure the bitterness between you two......\ntake care and good luck girl
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i guess you can if you donnt believe in horoscope matching that much. i have heard that  being mangali does not matter after certain age (28 or 30 , i am not sure )  . sometimes horoscpes match despite it . why donnt you consult a pandit.
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Try to sit him down and discuss your concerns with him. Try to make each other aware of your concerns without trying to make the other person guilty for them, and try to improve your communication dynamic. If you love each other, you will be able to work things out: try counseling, if you think you need some tips you can't develop on your own. Good luck, and best wishes.
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Did you ever talk to him about it?\n\nCommucation is the key.
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get help with counseling you need it if he hasn't given you no reason do doughs him then fix your problem i am not saying this to be mean but i have the same iusu
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My grandmother was diabetic....she passed a few years ago.\n\nI just told a friend about your post he said tell her "dump him and get a new boyfriend". But of course it is more complicated than that.\nIn my opinion coming from a female mind you...\nHe (your boyfriend) most likely hates the fact that he has this condition. He is a man...and a man does not take "weakness" well. You can ask, cry, kick and scream but...it's up to him to take care of himself right. Just like people that need AA or in your case people that need Al lanon or therapy.\n\nSo the bottom line is ...\nyou can choose to stay and try to help\nor\nyou can say i'm leaving because i don't want to see you die.
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People who are born round do not die square.  You can't change him.  You can only change yourself.  Care about yourself enough to realize this relationship isn't working out.  Break up with your boyfriend and find someone you're more compatible with.
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Oh my...how complicated indeed. Love story like in the books, but I guess yours is reality. Stop and think for a moment here...what is your intention? The only person in this triangle relationship who really seems to be in a mess is you.\nDo you really deserve to feel this way? What did you do wrong? The answer is nothing....this whole situation is not your fault....and now you add to your misery, the need to explain your every move to someone who hasn't really done everything he could to be with you...Oh, believe me if he really wanted you ...no matter which culture...he wouldn't have just married the girl his parents wished for him to marry. Even in India nowadays ( I heard) young people go against their parents wish and marry who they want to marry. Wake up and face reality. You don't owe him anything...no justifications...nothing! You lost him when he married that woman...and he lost you....now don't lose yourself, too. Take care and start loving yourself for a change.
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sorry girl they are annoying no matter what ya do!!!  sounds like he feels insecure about the relationship, is there anything you can do to make him feel more secure?  Are you providing him with his love language?  ( what ever makes him feel most loved, etc., gifts, words of affirmation, or acts of service?)  if not try something, anything that will help him know you are still in love with him.
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Don't worry about the cause, just get out of the situation. If you're just dating and you fight, then it probably wont get better as the relationship continues. Sorry, but at this point in your lives, he's not the one for you.
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just leave him\nu deserve sumone better\nhes not worth the trouble u r taking
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You can't.  Period.  Sorry, but if you went into the relationship thinking you could, don't ever do that again.  Let him know that you won't tolerate being controlled, and if he can't live with that, than walk away as soon as you can.  He could turn violent.