Should I stay or should I leave him?
402361
Sorry, I believe you don't really feel love from him now. its time to move on. You may have loved him once but its no more, you're just hanging on to the past that will be the burden of your future.\n\ngood luck\n\nGirl with confidence shine.\n\nLove is omnipresence, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
227257
I think you are doing the right thing and just to let you know it will end soon. If you were to back off now that would defeat your whole purpose and have wasted yours and his time. I know you did not want to hear this but, there is always a but isnt there? But If you cant see him changing or being flexible enough on this subject then you may have to let him go, if you fold and let the relationship go back to what is was it will be worse than it was before. I would hang in there, but not for too long.
1067341
you leave him and move on. if you continue he will destroy your self esteem and it will be harder for you to leave him in the future.
473799
leave him.  That would freak me out
6720
it depends on how long you have been with this guy and  ask yourself if he's worth it. the ? is would he change something about himself. what he's doing exc.. if he says yes then go ahead and switch.just make sure he knows he owes you one
650990
It will go on for as long as you allow it.  He obviously has intimacy issues and since it's unlikely that he'll change, it's up to you to decide if you want to put up with it.  Tell him that if he leaves again not to bother coming back.
486750
Just tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings or lie to him by staying with him when you just don't feel the same way for him so it is better to break up. Honesty is always the best answer. It may hurt still, but its better than a lie.
998473
Leave him. You can do better.
403429
you have told him you are going to leave and you haven't?! what is your MAJOR malfunction?  leave or stay with the poor guy.  you staying and hating him only puts both of you in a bad place.\n\nTHE DIRECT ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS NO COMMUNICATION IS WORSE IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE trying TO SALVAGE.  if you aren't trying to salvage the relationship than yelling is very annoying.
16091
I say leave. A year is not a lifetime, but I think enough time to figure out what you want. He wants to date around and not commit. It seems like you might want more.\n\nIf you stick around, you'll just be a convienance\nand you'll wind up getting more hurt.
192773
You both need to decide whether you want to stay together or break up once in for all.
288441
leave him- you deserve better
371167
a relationship which is weak cannot last. Move ahead in life if he has already decided to breakup
144374
By all means tell him now. He will either run or stay. You need to know which way he will go. It's important for the both of you.
176747
i had the same. Just dump him. It relieves alot of your shoulders believe me. I wouldn't stay with him if you both believe that you are not good together other wise it will be worse when you spend ages together.
2554
Dump him, and see what his reaction is. If he crys and begs to stay then no, if he is cool and leaves then he was a cheating on you. Let me know how it goes.
921165
Well, you made the move so you will need to end it with the man you love. Why the move though? Why leave the man you love behind? I'm sure it was a real good reason to leave him. You can try to continue your love but there will be difficult times ahead. Prepare yourself. It's is time to move forward. Good luck.....SAM