Why don't men listen more and talk less?
413806
because they like to hear the sound of their own voices and can't see past their own selfish existence!!!
752761
What is stopping u from giving her what she wants from u?  Communication isn't just about talking.  It's about active listening as well and maybe u haven't been a good listener and disregard her whenever she needs u to listen to her.  It makes us women feel as though we are not important enough for u when men do this.  Start giving her what she wants.
806399
well men just don't quite function like women.  It's hard for them to understand our emotional needs.  They're like little kids.  Full of energy, jumping from exciting activity to another sometimes they just forget that we exist.  Emotional stuff is just not really in their train of thought unless we sit them down and tell them exactly how we feel and tell them what we want and need.  After he knows exactly what we want then he has no excuse for ignoring our needs.  We fullfill their physical needs they should do so for our emotional ones.
540643
Men are ot emotional as women are. After an argument, a few minutes later, a man usually has forgotten it and want to be close to you. But women hold it in and be emotional and want to talk about it. The best way is to approach him and tell him you want to talk about what you all argued about. If you aproach him with anger, you will get anger in return. Its all about the tone you use. If he is not a good listener, write it in a letter and let him read it.
40072
To answer from a guy's perspective: Absolutely! Men and women communicate very differently. This is one of the reasons couples so often have communication problems; they fail to recognize that their partner relies on different types of communication then they do. Men generally understand verbal and visual cues, where women are more apt to pick up on more subtle messages like body language, voice tone, etc. Because of this, men often get frustrated when women do not say what is on their mind and instead expect the man to pick up the subtle "hints". I am not saying that us guys are any better; both sexes need to recognize these differences in communication styles and consider them when interacting with each other.
758543
Guys mature more slowly than girls do.  It is possible for an irresponsible man to become responsible.  The only way to lead him is by example.  If you say too much to him, you'll be frustrated and he'll be resentful.
562097
yes ...well most of the time. The only problem with guys are...they NEVER listen. haha
101495
Some women they are talkative.Man can't stand that.
566125
If you are a guy your emotions are more intense, they wear them out and the effect lasts longer i.e. they don't recover as fast as women. That is why some men stay away from potentially emotional situations. I think we, the women should have respect for that, and sometimes just back off.
409591
That's because most men are oblivious to these things.\n\nI appreciate the effort that women put into making themselves look good.  As a man you should compliment the women if possible (but of course in a non-degrading or provocative fashion).\n\nI am sure you probably get "looks" or get some "head-turning" action but most men don't vocalize.
704572
because women are more emotional and we have to talk about every little thing that goes on in our life as for men they like to say something and they are done talking about it
213652
Men CAN listen and women CAN read maps.  You're mistaken.  often times men choose not to listen.  as far as women and maps....it's just NOT an issue!!
253473
Guys tend to do that , they don't like to talk about their day specially if they are facing problems in their job or something, because they feel that if they tell you the problem they might sound like they are asking for help and they don't like that, read "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" it explains it all.
190596
To answer this question in a correct manner is impossible, by this I mean to each his own.  but in my eyes, I like the more talkative and outgoing...but I also want them to listen when I talk.  Looks aren't that important.
368533
Less talk and more action. She needs to initiate half the time and if thers no physical contact going on she needs to be mentally alert and intelligent preferabally at a higher level than her man.
844112
Women do they are just more quiet
468531
Yes and No.\nWhy Yes:-\nDepend on the guys, some guys are very talkative and want their girls to answer them back. And like Women they love to hear nice compliments.\nWhy no:-\nSome guys are not that talkative, and only want short sentences answer. And does want to talk to their girls everytime, they have other time passes.\nIn modern world, guys are like women, they are gossipi, like style and fashion, like to hear compliments\nThere are only few % of non talkative guys.