i think that my bf is cheating on me but i cant leave him. how can i leave him?
396118
Try exercising some self control. If he's cheating on you, he obviously doesn't deserve you. Break up with him, and maybe take a break from dating. There are more important things than guys you know.
53110
Every time he's spent away from you (even if it's 22 seconds), accuse him of cheating.\n\nNag. Works every time.\n\nInsist on watching Chick Flicks\n\nCook him a disgusting 54 course dinner.\n\nSay in a seductive manner "oooo it's hot in here" then turn on a fan and say "that's better"
617423
Dump him and get on with your life, he is a total looser to cheat on you
749057
It's never OK to cheat. \nIf you aren't as serious about the relationship as your boyfriend, then dump him and find someone new. Or have a long talk with him about possibly having an open relationship where you both can see other people. He'll get the hint that you aren't satisfied with the way things are. He'll either work with you to fix them, or give you your freedom to enjoy others. \nBut no matter what, honesty is always better than deceit. You would be betraying him if you cheated, and it would hurt him worse in the long run than if you just dumped him. In addition, it would be hard on you to keep your lies straight, and keep him from finding out. It's actually a lot of work to have an affair behind someones back, so it's not worth it.
684346
it defenitely sounds like he's cheating, just move on, you'll be happier you ended it.
196490
i hope you are able to just confrunt him and tell him that it bothers you and that you do not trust him anymore. i wish i would have done the same with my bfriend. he was txtmessiging with his two exs and two other women he met at work and all that while we were living together- actually he also brought one of his ex home and slept with her in our bed.\nbut well, i did not have the courage and we finally broke up. he did...\nso go for it! you deserve more than a cheating bfriend\ngood luck!
297196
i think that guys cheat because either they are bored with their current relationship or they only think of themselves. if your boyfriend thinks your cheating it's because you aren't showing him enough affection and he doesn't trust you. i suggest you either set him straight or get out of the relationship because it'll only be a waste of time for you.
1016985
If you disagree on what constitutes cheating, you should leave him.  The more you love him the more his cheating is going to hurt.  Take the big hurt now, rather than taking it in medium sized doses frequently over a long period of time.  Walk away.
197843
If you think it, usually your right.  You could try to prove it but you might be wasting your precious time.  Just back off and leave him alone and go your own way......one day he will wake up and say,  what happened to that great thing I had?  Where did she go?  And he will miss you and come looking for you.  But you have to act like you don't care.  If he's cheating on you, he's not treating you nice.
1163355
He's cheating on you and you find it's hard to tell your bf that it's over? Get some spine, dear, and tell him straight up and get on with your life. Why be with this loser longer than you need to?
1133565
don't always believe guys who are telling you that your bf fooled around cause true friends don't tell sometimes guys say that cause they want you but if you truly feel he cheated then there is a 99% chance he did. look for little signs like he tries kissing different, and see how they act around each other people always tell on themselves that way. and if they act strange then leave men are replace able
165592
Obviously if he is cheating you and your baby aren't that important.  If you really can't leave him...tell him that "you can't live without him but you'll have to if cheats again." because by cheating he shows he can live without you...\ndon't subject your child to a unfaithful man...
1125922
break up with him then you dont have to be a cheater
563835
he cheated on you and now he's accusing you of cheating on him because you won't sleep with him?!! no offense to you, but somethings really wrong with him. you have to talk to him.
590569
Mandy,\n If you have reason to believe that he even thought about cheating on you, then hit the road. Leave this idiot in the dirt, and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.\nGood Luck.
264425
drop him once a cheat always a cheat..unless your ok with him cheating on you.
972141
you dont deserve a liar he cant be trusted and if he does it now he will always do it you need to let it go and find something better honest and trust are very important to a relationship