How do you solve a case of utter unrequited love?
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yuh bro, her feelings changed means that there was some1 shes been waitin for picked her up, and wen he uses her n dumps her she'll come running back\n\n\n-one-love-\nLusTlesS
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Just do it. He probably never really loved you anyway. He moved on so you need to move on. There is no easy way to do it. If there was then nobody would be asking the question.>
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There really is no cure.\nSorry to say. \nI felt the depression thing many times when i came out of a few serious relationships and thought that this whole love thing was a pile of 'poop'. I though that I would never find love and i hated the depressed feeling that i  experienced everytime i thought i had found love. So i gave up. literally\nOne night  i cursed love and said, "Dam you love , obviously i am just not meant to be with anyone, so i give up!" [i really did say this out loud by the way!]\nThat night i went out to the local pub with a few of my friends to live my life as a now free, loveless, uncursed woman.\nAs i walked into the pub it was like in the movies. [ and trust me i'm a sceptic of this whole movie, slow motion, angels singing, light shining from above rubbish] I saw the most beautiful man i have ever seen. He looked at me , i looked at him. We gazed, we stared. I am now married to that man.\nYes true story.\nI know ,I never would have believed it myself.\nSo my advice is give up. Love is like a rainbow. The more you try to catch it the farther away it tends to get. So just walk away and it will come to you.\nIts hard I know. Hang in there.
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How can I say this...um....GO GET YOUR MAN!  You need to track him down, tell him why you screwed up and hope for the best.\nRemember...you weren't ready then and you have to accept the fact that he might not be ready now. Rejection cuts deep.  Another point is you need to work out your own issues about why you wouldn't except that kind of love.  I mean if it's the kind that spells true committment, are you ready for that now?  And if you are not, leave that man alone. Don't drag him into a dead end situation. I mean let's face it...it takes two to make it work not one giving it all and the other hardly giving.
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sweety, I have no answer to this...no experienced answer, but isn't LOVE always-the-answer?  maybe taking the time to explain???  you don't say what their response is either, but if its positive try talking to them, maybe write them a letter telling them how you feel.  YOU DON'T HAVE TO SEND THE LETTER YA KNOW\n\nMy prayers and thoughts are with you, I really hope this helps,  :) :) :) :) \n\nroxann
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Apologize...if that's truly how you feel & then understand an old saying and stick by it:  If you Love something set it free; if it comes back then it was always yours to begin with.  If it was meant to be and you're lucky enough to get another chance...Don't make the same "mistake" again.  EVER.  It goes right along with another old saying:  It isn't always greener on the other side of the fence...GOOD LUCK.\n\nSincerely,\n\nBS from Canada
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mean carleen is right.  There is nothing you can do.  Clearly if there was any interest on his part something would have happened.\n\nWhat you are describing is not really a love issue it is infatuation.  You are infatuated with this guy and in your mind are creating fantasy scenarios about how things would be if you were together.  You need to get over it and find a guy who likes you back.
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I am going through the same deal, except I am no where close to the love part yet. It is difficult to lay yourself out on a line when your not certain they feel the same. I am beginning to understand you just have to take that plunge if you care enough that it worries you and your ready to express it. I need to take my own advice.
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Nope. Once someone states that the love is gone..Well that's just it.\nMove on, and get someone who deserves you :)\n\nBest of luck
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Sure, Email me at MyOddThoughtss@yahoo.com\n\nOh, and.. take it slow. Love will come and don't be at the ready with the "I love you" from the start. Take your time.
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you know the answer, turn them both down. one doesnt love you, you don't love the other, find someone who loves you and that you love
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when you have to ask, you are out of love....
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Wow...I am so sorry about this. How horrible for you. You must know in your heart that she simply has been lied to or misled about you, right? (deep down?) Listen to your heart...you probably know she would love you if she knew you, and she may already love you even without knowing you. I think the only thing you can do is pray sincerely. (I'm serious) Ask God to somehow make a way for you to get to know her...and maybe write her a letter, explaining how much you love her. You will probably need to be on the giving end at this point, and maybe for a long, long time until she is able to see and respond to your love. Don't give up. Love always wins. Be patient, and love her in as many ways as you can...my heart is so touched by your story. I wish there was something more I could say or do to help you...Good luck.
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Firstly, you can learn why they are unlovable, what has life thrown at them to make them the way they are. You can imagine what they use to be like before this. \nIf you cant learn to love them, then you can at least start with empathy.
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Absolutely anything, as long as my love was being reciprocated. Nothing stings quite like unrequited love. Can't remember where I heard that one.
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Hi, Number one thing to do is stop looking. Number two thing to do is don't rely on an entity to sort out your love life. Rely on your own abilities. But recognising 'non-action' is a key.
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The answer to your question is forgiveness...You must learn to forgive the love of your life...There had to be a possible reason why that person ignored you...You get past the hurt and pain by giving em another chance...I think you don't love that person..if you did u would of not given up on love \n\nI know what you are going thru...The love of my life is far away from me...but I still love him...Nothing can make me stop loving him...not even distance or time...Love is not easy..Love is a battlefield..