Why people fall in love and is it sex attraction or some thing else?
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IT STARTS WITH AN ATTRACTION, THEN CHEMISTRY THEN A NEED THEN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP THAT IN COMBINATION OF THE ATTRACTION AND CHEMISTRY WE SAY IS LOVED, BUT SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING IN FALLING IN LOVE CAUSE I LOVED SOMEONE THAT I NEVED HAD SEX WITH HIM
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No one can MAKE anyone be interested in them or fall in love with them.  That's the beauty of choice.  When you do find someone perfect for you, they get to CHOOSE you and you get to CHOOSE them.  Then you get to live in this great dynamic where you know everyday that you had a choice but chose this person, the same for them.
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Attraction deals with desire and sex only where as love is more profound as you'll think of this person not only in your bed but in your life too. The one you love is the one you think of spending your life with oppositely to an infatuation.
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cause there is no school that teaches how to fall in love with the right person. so like everything else we need to learn from our own experience. we try to find the right person, and in the process we end up falling in love with no so right people.\nit is important to make one more point here. many times people fall in love with you but you don't find them attractive and move on, and they end up suffering, then when you like someone and fall in love, you see the same thing happens to you, this process continues until finally, you find someone to love and in return the other person loves you back and that would be the perfect match. unfortunatly, most people don't have that much patience to go through their experiences and end up making wrong choices just because they are "tired of trying" and end up in the wrong relationship. so the point, you will be fine just have patience and enjoy the experience
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falling in love can happen to all of us, mostly when you least expect it or when your not looking for it. its out there for everyone. sometimes it takes longer to find then for others but when you find it, you will be glad you waited.
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you both share some thing in common thats why you have attracted each other but one should remember lust and desire.One cannot help who they fall for because it depends on the frequency you are vibrating on because we attract the people we are on the same frequency with so we can teach each other and hopfully comfort each other.
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I think sometimes that we meet people who just seem so right for us.  I believe that we can fall in love quite quickly\nThis may or may not last but just enjoy the wonderful feeling it brings.
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If you really fall in love with someone, it means that a conscious link is/has been created between your hearts. Love works as a force of attraction, but ultimately it also sets free. Through a loving relationship, we get to heal and buff ourselves.\n\nSo falling in love also signifies, that "your system" really thinks it could become enriched and ultimately rounded out by being in relationship with this person.
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You're probably clinging because people do that when they're stressed (I can certainly relate).  Also, you can feel in love with someone -- even in the romantic sense -- without being sexually attracted to them.  If you've never met this woman before, you can't know whether the two of you would have any sexual chemistry together -- you can't know that until you meet in person.
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I do believe in attraction at first sight that may lead to love.  But "real" love means something more than just attraction.  It means that something happens and if something happes, it means that two people are willing to take some risks and ultimately live some experiences together.  Love may be there from the start, but you only realize it is love when you have some road behind you.
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hey in fact love is not there for anyone its just attraction . u think u r in love eith she or he but when u gett better than the one u have then u will realise that i love next so its only the attraction not a love and acc to me love = attraction
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1) Its a distraction from everything else in their lives. It allows them to forget everything and just feel good for that moment.\n\n2) To feel close to someone else. Technology has made it hard for people to truely connect, and sex allows you to do that.\n\n3)To solidate a relationship. Even though it usually ends up complicating things, it shows you care about that person, making love is a sensual experience you can share with someone you love.\n\n4)Its human instinct. So when your parents catch you, blame your ancestors ;)
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Simple. It is sex, always sex, always will be sex. If you are lonely you can join a club, take classes do thousands of things where you are interacting with people. Most people here with "Am I in love" questions etc. Are not doing so to get rich. A girl will want be boned down by a pretty boy, or thuggish clod, even if he is as broke as the flea that rode in on the church mouse. People desire and crave falling in love because they are delusional and don't want to seem solely in it for the sex. But what do they do when the sex is bad? Flee the relationship. They don't desire physical contact in the form of wrestling or boxing. they want copulation. If there were no sex between men and women, 82% of the male/female couples you would never see.
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Sex is what brings a couple closer.  Its what we share with our partner that we dont share with others.  The emotional effects on the relationship are great. you feel loved and needed, happy, (high as a kite too!) we as humans need contact from others, this being one of the ways we need contact.  It only enhances the relationship when we give ourselves to our partner.
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A person can fall in love with a person. But she must be open minded and willing to explore beyond the boundaries of what society has defined as "normal". If she does not have an adventurous spirit, a curious psyche, a strong free libido and an open mind, then she will hide within her definition of "socially acceptable" and never come out to play. But if she has courage and strength and self-confidence, then she will open up to your spirit and give herself a chance to fully experience life.
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well love is a denying of yourself to please another or putting yourself aside to please another or self sacrificing.its a action not a feeling and a decision.its being a servant to the one you love.its not sex.sex is \n"a way"to express your feelings to that person.just because someone turns you on at the sight or because of what they are doing to turn you on,your just visually attracted to them.then when the sexual pleasure is over then what do you have to keep you together.love is the foundation of a relationship,not sex,and not feelings.i also believe that when you decide to marry that tests  and shows what type of love you have for one another.
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Basically, we're screwed up! WE're clingy, dependent and want the fairytale. We always think we can "help" someone and that they will change or what ever. By science, since we as women want to spend so much time with the guy we like, it is normal to eventually come to love that person.Just the act of being around someone, can cause you to fall in love. They actually did a study.