how can you get your girlfriends mom to like you!!?
406255
do u know if she had a relationship before u? cause since she treats u well when ur face 2 face with her, im thinkin that she must be one of the conservative moms who doesnt want her daughter 2 have a boyfri at all. if this's the case u dont have much 2 do but u can talk to ur girl 2 have a chat with her mom 2 convince her that she has the right 2 meet her boyfri. the only other situation i can think of is that she could have heard some bad thing about u. wish u luck bro
1076687
Realize that your boyfriend's baby's mama is part of the package. His mom knows that this is the mother of her grandchild and she is wise to stay close to her so she can stay close to her grandchild. Don't get swept up in competing with this other woman, but try to establish your own relationship with bf's mom, giving her a reason to appreciate you, too. This is just something you have to deal with if you get in a relationship with someone who as as much of a past as your boyfriend does.
141009
Tell her calmly after some good news, so she'll be so happy with the other thing that she wont really pay attention to that. Tell her how great he is and introduce them sometime, but tell him to act like a gentleman and not to try to act up, cause I don't think your mom will like that.
335798
well hon I'd say mom is just a bit leery of her little boy dating someone. Most moms are not gonna be overly excited about the prospects of their baby dating seriously.  Try a couple of different things, find out what she is really interested in and try to conversate with her about these things, show an interest in her and not just her son and maybe she will take to you on that point. And finally dress conservatively, if she gets the wrong impression of you by the way you dress then she's not likely to accept you at all.  You could also try talking to her about it, see what her comfort levels are, my MIL is really quiet by nature so it's not me necessarily it's just she isn't comfy talking period.
504984
Just show her you love/like/want her. Either she'll reciprocate that feeling or you'll have to try harder. But you can't force your feelings on other people; either they feel the same way or they don't.
419547
You can't. Even when you do get out of the house. She's still mom and she's going to always tell you how she feels about things and 9 times out of 10, she's right. She's only looking out for your best interest. I understand what you are going through. I'm grown and my mom still be in my relationship.
274523
love trumps the parents ! its necessary for her to love you not her parents,  sure it would be nice ... but its not always possible !,  marry her treat her well, treat the parents with respect, and they may come around one day , especially when you have children, if not ,  they  might miss out on  spending as much time with their grandchildren as they would like...you don't have to live near them, or see them very often  if they never come around...its not an ideal relationship   if they never  like you , but would you be happier with her  or without her ??? also  you could try to find out why they don't like you thru your girlfriend and try to resolve the   problem / reasons, best wishes ! PS  don't  let them ruin your  love and your life !
733802
Sit down and tell her how much she means to you and how important it is to have a relationship with her. Then, show her the printout of this and your question and all the other answers here.  This could be the start of an open communication between the two of you.\n\nBest to you and your mom.
85650
Take yourself out and do someting that you dont do often for yourself, massage, tan, manicure whatever will make you feel GREAT, splurge on a new outfit that screams "I'M A ANIMAL, BABY!".  I also suggest if your Mom's really a special lady, take her out or do someting wonderful for her.   Valentines Day doenst have to be just for couples..It's a day for love.
475357
You can't "make" her but you can do things that will help develope a closer bond between the two of you.  Others will tell you  compliment her, bring her small gifts in general treat her like it's the first date.  These things will of course help but I believe the most important thing you can do is to try and make sure that all of the time you spend together is "Good time".  Try to do things she likes to do..If you like them or can develop a like for them so much the better.  Listen when she talks..I mean really listen and show her that you value her opinion. Women like that, heck EVERYOME likes that.  Now, heres a hard thing..let her help you..everyone likes to think that they can be of value to another person.  When she's helpful let her know how much it means to you.. Try these ideas and then go out and get her the biggest diamond in the store  Women love shiny things (-:
223956
Be yourself-- buy a flower for her! Look into her eyes! Open a door! Pull out a chair for her! Dont say bad words! Sing her a song!!! Hold her hand!!! Dont lie, cheat or steal!!! Bye babe
817992
Be yourself! If you meet her dressed in clothes you normally don't wear and behave in ways you don't normally behave there will come the day that you will grow tired of the false you. So be yourself. Be kind and polite.Offer to help with the cooking "if you are invited to a meal" and be sure to help with the clean up.Those are two things a mom will look at more than what you are wearing!
165735
Start by not making an assumption about your boyfriends mom.  She may just simply not be the type to get close to anyone that isn't yet family.  She is also going to be naturally worried that you might eventually hurt her little boy.  Just relax and be yourself, over time you will prove to her that you are worthy of her boys heart.  In the mean time try to talk to her and find out her interests.  If you show an interest in her as a person and not just his mom it will help.  Sometimes it just takes a comment about how you hope that some day you can get to know her better to get her to open up.
136922
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   Or do your best to get him to like you, just to be a bitch to her.
29605
Be your self, if your fake & then get into a relationship you will not be able to continue the charade indefinitely. Use the manner’s your mom thought you, like limited use of vulgar language, not burping or farting when your with her; being on your best behavior but be yourself.
380201
send her a bouquet of her fav flowers.. order it online & dont tell her anything..\n\nlet her think that u 4got her on mothers day
243116
I've been in this situation a few times. No matter what you do or don't do your BF's mom will think you're not right for him...at first. Give her time to get to know you better. Once she realizes how much he likes you and that your not out to break his heart she'll back off. Try asking you BF to talk to him mom.