Ho do i ask a co-worker to go out with me?
406936
Errr....\n\nWill you go out with me???\n\nHow's that?
637405
Ask her to go with you and see what her response is
533070
well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.
47784
i just go ahead and ask him out
669894
Not a good call!  She's your supervisor and could get canned if she fools around with you.  Shitting where you eat is never a good idea.  \n\nIf you feel the need to have an office hook-up, bang one your co-workers.
925085
Just talk casually and ask her where she's going at the weekend! Then say "do you fancy going out sometime"? If she sounds interested then just say "give me your number and i'll call you"! Good luck you sound like a nice guy.
584749
ask the guy politely and state the reason why you want to let him go out.
700932
Dating and working. Working & playing. Sounds contradictory, right? \n\nWrong.\n\nYou can no more control your heart than you can stop breathing. \nBut ask yourself if what you are feeling is LOVE or LUST.\n\nDating a co-worker (to your EMPLOYER) means you have been slacking off on his time-clock; something that may cause problems between you and the co-worker in the future. By merely posing the question, you indicate your fear of on-the-job-involvement. You are attracted to him/her, but you are afraid to commit.\n\nThink about what that means. You are not SURE about this co-worker, are not prepared for a failed relationship among your peers, and are reluctant to completely give of yourself before you know answers.\n\nI have learned that "when in doubt, DON'T." \n\nYou have made a valid point. If things don't work out between you, more than likely, EVERYONE at the job will know about it. \n\nBesides being "awkward," you risk losing your job, your reputation and your appeal to perhaps, a more suitable partner.\n\nBUT - on the other hand...\n\nLove (true love, that is) has NO Address. This means it is entirely possible for you to meet your soulmate while dating a co-worker. \n\nTherefore, my advice is for you to: \n1. GO SLOW (don't rush into anything)\n2. GO PUBLIC (get to know him/her initally in the company of other co-workers at a restaurant, snack bar, etc.)\n3. GO AWARE (learn about his/her past relationships. You just may be another conquest or victim #___ on their playa's list)\n\nEnjoy the attention but always be aware of the RISKS. And if true love prevails, welcome it. \n\nI wish you well, my friend. Thanks for posting your question.
1106649
Just come right out & ask...say, "what are you doing Saturday night?"  And if she doesn't have anything planned, say, "how about going with me to dinner?"  Or whatever or wherever you want to do.  Just don't wait until the last minute, nobody likes to think they're you're last choice (ie, bettter than nothing).
777822
Well ask him if he needs help or something with work or what ever. Then flirt with him sit at a linch table with him and then ask him questions to get to know him. Then flirt with him some more that is all u can do the when u get to be great friends that is when u can ask him out or he might ask u out!
923015
"If you're not busy this weekend, maybe we could go to a movie" -\n\nIf you're uncomfortable asking, you'd probably feel better if you give her an out, like "if you're not busy". That way she can say, "oh, jeez, I'm sorry but I'm going to be busy this weekend." You could then say, "Okay, well, maybe some other time." How she responds will let you know if she's interested.
878362
Just ask her out, plain and simple, but have a plan, when you do it, have a place you would like to take her, don't walk up to her and say hey do you wanna go out? you will feel awkward, walk up to her, and say, hey would you like to go out this Friday night night and see a movie, ******* is playing at 7:30? have a plan.
519268
its simple, just ask her out... or pass her a note... thats how i got asked out
1088178
Try going out for a friendly lunch or after hours meeting and discuss your feelings or simply to get away from the prying eyes of your co-workers. See if there is an attraction or if nothing can come of it, for whatever reason, accept that and move on. Agree to remain friends without the unnecessary tension.
392069
Dont be shy just call her and say you wanna hang out, then ask her what shes in the mood for like a bigger group party thing or a smaller group meet at the pub or if shes in the mood to just go grab a movie or something. Its not like shes going to come out and ask you well why do you want to hang out with me and what are your intentions??? lol if you know her pretty well shes probably just going to say well i was planning on doing this do you want to join me or shes going to say i dont have anything planned what sounds good to you?.... eather way you dont really lose :)
1093504
How about just approaching him and mentioning to him an event or activity you would like to go to and ask him if he would take you there?  For instance, ask him to take you out for ice cream, to a fireworks show (just the two of you), to eat, or something else you would both like to do.\n\nFrom there see where things lead.  If you feel you both had a good time then ask him if he would like to take you out again.  He will catch on.
708382
I`d like to go out with you baby!