why is it ok for guys to sleep with alot of girls but its not alright for girls to sleep with alot of guys?
410753
its bcoz the society has accepted girls as the weaker sex and men have been given a superior and advantageous position since 1000s of yrs,men really dont think women as weak,women only pull other women down naming it some bloody 'duty'.i being a guy really believe in equal rights 4 both the sides,i belive we should not take the advantage of gals by cheating them.women give rise to men,its a true hardship of 9 whole months,i dont think we guys have that much strength or patience!so in no way women r a weaker sex,they have the right to sleep with multiple partners,and we only needa change the social traditions and beliefs into modern thoughts!!all the best gals!
423056
Because guys are generally commitment phobes. If they hook up with a girl who's taken then they know nothing further is expected of them. They can have their fun, and continue on their merry way. It's no strings attached fun.
527172
This is one of those questions that is an opinion and does not have much scientific research to validate accuracy.  It is in my opinion that most women enjoy sex as much or more than men and consequently have a tendency to explore the more erotic and forbidden avenues of sexual relationships.  The downside to this opinion is that most girls are taught to use this event as leverage to control men to their liking or performance.  An atrocity, most women could have far more from men if they would loosen up and not use the leverage as sexual relationships could be made in heaven without criticism but unfortunately some still believe that it is more important to uphold the beliefs of others (society) instead of what they want or like.  Sad but true.
111497
It depends on who the girl is that is the potential partner.  Some girls who are holding out for marriage may want a guy who's a virgin himself to know that he doesn't take sex lightly, and some who are holding out will be lenient and understand that "mistakes" do happen, so sleeping with one or two girls before ending up with her was condonable, especially if they weren't one night stands and were actually relationships.\n\nSome girls who are "easy" or enjoy messing around themselves might be much more lenient and not worry, but lets' just say that from my experience, a red flag goes up if you start counting toes, and especially if you have to switch back from toes to fingers to get to the rest of your "score card."\n\nMy husband was with his two high school girlfriends and had two one night stands with girls he'd known for a while.  No he didn't talk to them anymore, but c'mon...it's hard to NOT do the nasty in high school.  It's like your whole life is going to change and you never know when that person is goign to see if you again if you're going to college.  Furthermore, because you share so many important events those last few years of high school, it's hard to not think of that person as your entire world.  \n\nJust be careful with who you're with, and only sleep with asfew as possible.  Make sure after sleeping with the girls, you can sleep alone by yourself at night, peacefully, knowing that you're a good person inside who's still a great potential partner.
43521
It's the media and the guys who make them look as if it was a moral thing to do. It wouldn't surprise me if they start teaching that at schools. And, it's not only bi girls who do it. It's also girls who are straight, but since a lot of guys think it's cool and a lot of girl's self-esteem is low, then they do it to attract guys. My bf hates girls kissing on each other. It's just ...not normal, specially if you are not "naturally" straight. Being gay isn't bad, but distortioning the concept IS
487061
This is an individual situation.  You can not lump all females in one group.  Some females enjoy sex more than their partners.  Some do not.
1055806
For girls it is - more boys more problem.\n\nWe all are designed to live our life as 1 boy with 1 girl.\nWhenever any one is more its a problem.
276619
I think, as a general rule, the less people u sleep with over the course of your life the easier it is to stay faithful to one.  If you sleep with lots of peopel you get used to teh idea that you can swap partners frequently and sex loses its power as a special bond between two people.  So to stay with the first girl would be possible and best..
793042
it's ok. but you have to know the limits. men like to dominate the relationship most of the time. and they can be turned-off by girls that are too aggressive
48642
I would answer this, but it's pointless.  In 10 years, our culture will be calling men sluts for even looking at another girl, and women will boast about the number of men they've slept with like a badge of honor.\n\nYou Go GIRL.
14624
Becaue even in the 2000's the double standard still exists.  If a man has sex with lots of women, he's a stud; if  woman does, she's a whore.  Also, men are very territorial, they don't want to think about 'their woman' being with another man.  They are very old-fashioned where females and sex are concerned (except when it comes down to 2 females being together) so women feel they have to lie to save their man's pride.
195675
Are You Asking Why Do Boys Always Think About Girls? Som e Peeps Would Say Because That's The Way It's Supposed To Be. But Not All Boys Think About Girls All The Time. There's Nothing Wrong With You If You Do, As Long As You Can Still Do What You're Supposed To Be Doing While You're Thinking About Them..LOL
447000
It's usually called girls night and they do this to even out the female to male ratio.  So I don't think the guys mind too much.
233196
Definitely! The only reason girls don't sleep around as much as guys do (or at least as easily!) is because they have different priorities.
720917
This is not a nice answer but it is the truth as I know it from my own exprnce with living in diff areas.\n\nBlack females bounce off each other easier because black men sleep around more thus the females are more wheary of what is happening with their guy and who he is sleeping with and who they should be jealous of, who they ought to be, or could be, or would be etc.\n\nBut in the end, guys get to sleep around because silly girls let them. So no fingers should be pointed at the men only.
758013
Guys dont mess with thier friends girls, or girls they are interested in. Girls, in my experence will cut thier friends off at the pass to get what they want.
1089866
Because you are more muture than them. you may have been in and out of relationships and now relise you are ready to settle down with one person. Another could be that your mates have been hurt by females and just want to have some fun with them, this way they can assure they wont get hurt.