I have extremely rough hands for a female. and i feel dumb when my boyfriend hold hands with me.?
401381
Y shld u feel ashamed of ur hands? Ur guy should luv u as u r. Ur physical attributes cannot change. If he is demanding dat, ask him to go fly a kite. Love should make u feel gud, not dumb. As for treating rough skin, use pure almond oil on ur hands before u go to sleep at night. It's gud for the skin. U can use it all over ur body during winters.
132635
You probably care for your girlfriend very much and it hurts you when you argue with her. You should really try and prevent this aruging so your realtionship doesn't shatter and either one of you get hurt.
127514
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
280988
It sounds like you are being pressured into sex. No guy who really cares for you would make you feel this way. Save yourself for someone you have been with a long time and you know cares for you.
1097595
Should tell him that it hurts you and voice your concerns. Let him comfort you. If he truly loves you then he'll try not being so"nice" to other chicks....I want you to have more confidence and don't worry as much...just live for the moment and enjoy all the time you have together.If you are confident and not focused on negative then hunny that gives him even more reason to be your hunny for life...Just talk to him about it...Good Luck!!!
390800
Your well being is more important than anything! Don't let anyone make you feel this way, specially for a girl she isn't worth it. Life goes on and you deserve much more.\nPS:I've read your past questions and you should stop being with her, this is the reason of your swollen neck problem also it seems that is been piling up so now it got to a point to your physical being. Take good care of yourself ONLY from now on.
1013695
i gues people just fear the things they don't know or understand. One of my best friends is a girl and we haven't done anything other than a hug.  I guess if you are ever in a relationship then make sure your boyfriend understands the situation. It could also be the people that are around you, cause I really haven't had that problem.
877437
go help your mom. there is nothing wrong with your hands lol
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
1179989
You might find the underlying problem may not be his weight but perhaps why he is alittle heavy...I am heavier than I ever thought I would become, but that doesn't prevent me from letting my gf touch every inch of my body...so I believe its more than a weight issue, something abusive connected to such a lack of physical contact, talk to him, suggest counseling, help him through this.
1105836
my boyfriend slapped me back because hes not a little bitch....she wants to act like a man treat her like one, you cant just hit people cuz ur a woman.
891177
Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luck
270053
The fact that you are even WORRIED about this indicates you are insecure and not ready for a serious relationship.\n\nLove does not possess, neither can it BE possessed.\nGrow up, or get hurt young lady...
668883
You obviously have more than a few issues…..Are you that desperate for attention?  You seem pretty young, so here is some advice for you:  No, you should not sleep with your best friend’s boyfriend.  She’s your BEST friend right?  I doubt the guy is your soul mate or anything; he’s just a guy who is paying you some attention.  That may make you feel good now, maybe even good enough to make you do it, but afterwards, you will (or should) feel dirty, and he will most likely treat you like you’re dirty too.  He will never respect you.  Do you really want to be involved with a guy who you have to share?  He won’t be your boyfriend. (You will be alone on Valentine’s Day, Christmas, your birthday, etc.)  You will only have him when your friend is too busy for him. Your friend may or may not find out, but you will know what you did, and that will always weigh on you.  The guy is obviously a cheater, and has probably been around the block a few times.  What if he gives you a disease, like Herpes?  You will have it for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.   If you think that you like sex now, wait a few years.  It gets a whole lot better.  You don’t want something dumb that you do right now ruining it for you for the rest of your life.  Have some respect for yourself.  Save sex for someone that you love and trust, someone who is concerned with your best interests. I promise you that you will never regret in the long run.  However, if you choose to sleep with him you will regret it, at some point.  Be a good person, stay away from the guy, and tell your friend that she is with a loser, before she gets hurt or catches something from him that ruins her life.  Since you don’t seen to have a whole lot of confidence, you should just concentrate on you for a while.  Stay in school; find out what makes you happy (not what you think makes other people like you), and just try to be a good person.  If you do, you will eventually be truly confident, comfortable, and happy with the person that you are.  You won’t want a loser like this guy anywhere near you, and you will most likely be pursued by some really great guys, because confidence is the most attractive quality that a person can have.
808692
Well, I get bored reading your case, but I'm also having a very bad emotional day, I just want to get out from my apartment and find a girl that really loves me, because my girlfriend doen't appreciate me. \nWell, try to have a nice day, I just want to tell somebody what I was feeling at this moments. See you
619098
oh you're not in an abusive relationship at all are you? he was you wrapped around his lil finger and you don't even realize it. wanna know where this is gonna go if you don't grow a back bone and leave him? you'll be dead in a ditch somewhere and it'll be his fault. if he loved you back he'd trust you enough to let you do your own s.hit without havin to make you call ever 5 f.uckin mins. you need to stop and pay attention to what your gut is tellin you bout this guy. i wouldn't be surprised if it's tellin you to leave and not look back
775281
Sounds like you are having anxiety issues.  Talk to your doctor about it. I know you may think its not that big of a deal but the disorder can get worse with time if its not treated.  I knew a girl that started out that way and did not get treated.  She ended up chewing on her hand it got so bad.  She had to have it bandaged and is permanently scarred from it.  She also started picking her face all the time and that left scars too.