Who has a harder time breaking up, the girl or the guy?
404016
probably the girl... b/c they are girls
956967
I spend i year w/ a guy and we mustve broke up and got back together at least 10 times. i was young and stupid. there was no future and i was blind to that. i just liked the guy and funny thing was about 2 wks before we 1st started dating i hated him, couldnt stand him. funny thing how that all works out. now i dont see him a whole lot, we're just diff ppl. but hes a good guy, makes poor choices in girls tho. guess i just gave him too much and didnt take away enough.
466728
just tell him flat out he can't have both if he wants to be with you he has to break up with this other girl and if he really truely don't want to loose you he will leave her.  if he doesn't or begs for time to pick one then just leave him alone dont answer his calls and dont talk to him if you see him somewhere.  some people just have a hard time letting go of the past, goodluck to you.
715544
well.....in the video theres this girl that is throwing herself at a guy, but all he does is ignore her, and she turns a bit psycho, so i think that he's saying that even though he was ignoring her, it hurts him to see her cry because he still loves her
534456
its hard but if you just cant do it then your probably not over her and still want to be with her. was it her or you who broke up
424696
there has to be a reason for a couple to break up
941715
just do what you normally do and be yourself\nif you break up, it wasn't meant to be\nany guy can tell you what to do and what not to do but in the end you have to really be yourself untill you find a guy that loves you for who you are.
79071
Daniel, I think it should be up to the girl you like to break it to her boyfriend.  That's not your responsibility.  She should just be up front with him and let him know her heart belongs to you.  Don't just let him find out from someone else.  That's cruel.  Give her support and encouragement to get it over and done with...the sooner the better!
734150
Friend - It depends on the reason for the break up.  Does he know it bothers you?  Have you discussed that he may still have feelings for her?  Not all break ups are the same or follow any rules.  GBU
1095041
breaking up is never easy..... however.... if you think that ur bf is a jerk then you can be mean about it and tell him that you don't like the way he's treating you and that you deserve better but if he's a nice guy just say that you don't feel the same way as you did in the beginning of your relationship tell him that you see you too better as frnds and you no longer see him as a boyfriend....
1169274
no i wouldnt but its always easier said then done. I wouldnt wana stay with the guy but im an emotional person and fall in love easily so i would find it hard to let go despite evrything that is goin on
681576
Is she happy in this relationship?  If she is, then you have to forget it.  You can't ruin her happiness so she can be with you.  You may like her, but she might love this guy, and you shouldn't try to tear them apart by 'making your move'.  She's taken, sorry.
534873
Sorry. There is no easy answer for this one. Breaking up is hard. No matter what age you are,it hurts. There is very seldom a time that a break-up happens and both people want the relationship to end. Someone almost always gets hurt. This time that someone is you. \nIt will take time to heal your broken heart,but I'm sure that you will be a stronger person after you make it through this. Good luck to you. Dry your eyes and go have fun tonight and forget about him for a little while.
717193
Well when in the situation of having a girl choose between two guys, you would have better luck if you made yourself hard to get, if she calls, be busy most of the time, don't make time for her. If things don't work with her new guy then you might have a shot if you don't just come ouw with 'i love you', make her work for it
835216
hmm.. wad cause the broke up in the first place? is the problem still around? and way to solve it?\n\nthis is the few questions u gotta ask yerself... if there isn't any problems at the moment.. will there be any coming up? will u guys be able to handle it togther or u  guys gonna break up again?? \n\nif u can answer this question, more or less u know whether to stay and wait (cos she's worth the wait) or move on (cos a break up will happen anyway)...\n\ngood luck to yer dude,,, u need it,,,
7626
Because it's easier for a girl to get a new guy than for a guy to get a new girl.  Do what you gotta do to keep what you have!
664687
You tell your gf to choose.....and its obvious she isnt a good gf if she wants him back.