What do I do now that he's ignoring the fact I want a baby!?
412155
Its very possible that your boyfriend doesn't want another child at this time and is happy with the current situation.  Truth be told, unless you want to leave your boyfriend and form a relationship with another man, I don't think pursuing a baby with him is a good idea now.  If he is avoiding the baby discussion, then I think you know how he probably feels about it.  If he WANTED another child, I think he would be initiating the dialogue with you.  I would not give any weight to the fact that your cousins have more kids than you do or that you daughter is an only child.  Having a baby to give your first child a friend is a poor reason to get pregnant.  You have to do what is right for your family unit and your situation.  So are your feelings based on envy or the biological clock?  Its very likely that they are, but this is one decision that SHOULDN'T be made on emotion.  The question you may have to ask yourself is whether ahaving nother child is worth losing your boyfriend over.
405780
first of all..you must think what would happen next after you got pregnant..think about your baby if how will he/she will live?and if ur boyfriend will still be your boyfriend after the pleasure besides he can broke up with u because ur not married right? and make sure you're ready to face challenges..because having a family is not a joke...its really hard..think about it..ok? yes i know you love him also but never get to the point that you'lll give all of yourself to him..remember you must not give yourself to a person without leaving something for yourself because someday somehow, you'll realized that you gave everything for the wrong person without leaving something for the right one...if u need advices.... email or im me OK?\n\nmy yahoo id: bugs_41099@yahoo.com\n\nhave a nice day!
289533
HAVE YOU TRIED TELLING HIM HOW YOU FEEL!? LETTING GO IS NEVER EASY ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR AROUND ONE ANOTHER ALL THE TIME!! BUT, AS A WISE PERSON ONCE SAID, "WHAT DOESN'T KILL US WILL MAKE US STRONGER" AN I BELIEVE THIS TO BE TRUE! I THINK YOU OUGHT TO STOP SEEING EACH OTHER ALL TOGETHER UNTIL THE BABY IS BORN(SURE LET HIM COME TO DR. APPT. AN STUFF) BUT AS FAR AS SEEING ONE ANOTHER DON'T DO IT! THIS WAY IT WILL GIVE YOU THE TIME YOU NEED TO GET OVER HIM AN HE CAN STILL BE INVOLVED IN THE BABIES LIFE!!! AN THEN AFTER THE BABY IS BORN AN IF YOU STILL FEEL THE NEED TO BE AWAY FROM HIM THEN TELL HIM! THERE ARE MANY WAYS OF PARENTS RAISING THEIR CHILDREN WITHOUT HAVING TO BE AROUND ONE ANOTHER! I KNOW THIS CAN'T BE EASY FOR YOU(BEING PREGNANT) AN ALL!! BUT, I WISH YA THE BEST AN HOPE THAT MY ADVICE CAN BE SOME HELP TO YOU! IF YA WANT YOU CAN EMAIL ME AN I'LL TRY TO HELP ANYWAY I CAN!!!\n\n\nBEST OF LUCK!!!
587446
Oh, honey! This man means you no good at all. You need to ask yourself, do I want my child to be raised up by this man who I know in my heart wishes that this child of mine was never born? You baby needs to be brought up in a Loving stable, and supporting environment. Always do what is best for your child, because they depend on you, and they are the ones that need you the most!! cut him loose. For the marriage thing, he could have had all of that taken care of by now if he really wanted to! Please believe me I went through something very similar! keep your head up, and raise your baby the right way with lots of Love! It will take a minute to get over him. It took me awhile, so I do know! Have him court ordered to pay support, that will help you out with medical bills, and all other things that your child needs! I wish you, and your child the very best!! You can do it!! I did!!
157043
The best thing to do is go to a fertility doctor and have them conduct tests. If you are unable to concieve, then they have other options for you if you are wanting children. You might want to bring your mate with so they can test also. Sometimes it's the guy, not always the girl. They would have solutions for that too. Good luck!
165180
"I want a baby, and I want it NOW!!" Ha! Ha!  My husband is the opposite, he wants a child now but I would like to wait , I am only 20.  We decided to compromise and wait a year or so,(I wanted to wait 5 years).  I don't know what to tell you to tell him!  Maybe you should ask him what his reasons for waiting are??
411852
I think you both need to have a long talk and find out where you both stand.  Maybe a counselor will help you talk out your problems so you can find out what he means.  In the meantime, I wouldn't consider getting pregnant until you both feel the timing is right.  It sounds like your husband has some issues and adding another baby to the family before you have worked through his issues isn't fair to you or  the future child.\n\nGood luck!
922407
You are just hungry for that "perfect family".  Unfortunately, you didn't choose the perfect man.  He left you when you were pregnant.  That's not a real man.\n\nFocus on your baby and yourself, leave the man out of the picture.  And don't jump into any relationships with anyone.  Make your child your priority.  It's had doing it on your own, but you can do it if you just remember what's important.
510066
You are breaking my heart.  I don't know whether to believe you or not.  If you are being honest, then you have some real issue to deal with.  The main issue is your pregnancy.  The minute you became pregnant, it stopped being about you.  Go to an adult, figure out what you are going to do, and do it.  You no longer have the luxury of being young and stupid.
374144
Wow..that was harsh!! He obviously wasn't ready for the long haul with you..(sorry if that sounds too terribly blunt) A lot of people have issues dating or marrying someone who they think cannot have kids. Everyone will deal with things in their own way but he couldn't have been the one for you if this has happened. Be glad you knew the outcome before you two got married. You see, what the doc said is only a possibility..not a fact. God gives miracles..keep your head up honey..everything will be fine.
356599
If you have childern think about them, and about your husband. If he is blowing you off, and then you should say it is over. Guys like them, will call when they need someone to screw with. Or may be i am wrong. But guy who is keep ignoring you meaning that he just want to stay away from you. Just talk to him and tell him the suitation in which we are is just not working, say everything openly. If he does not still give you solid answer, say good bye to him and go back to your husband. If you have childern, then you have to just stop thinking about him\nBest of luck
623586
Sounds like he just isn't ready to be where you want him to be.  You ever heard of the BabyBoy syndrome, I think he has that.  He's selfish and childish and you need to stop wasting your time.  He's going to get you pregnant and then he will have no interest in you anymore.  Get out of the rut, leave him and do something positive with your life.  He isn't ready for what you have to give him.  If he is doing this now he will NEVER put into the relationship what you do.  And this gets really old really quick... trust me.
362468
Well being open and honest is the best, if you really want to have a child  then talk to him about it, just let him know that this is what you want, and ask him his oppion on it, it is better to be open about these things,
498606
Sounds like if he doesn't want the baby he will leave anyhow. I would kinda get ready for that. He might surprise you afterwards the first time he lays eyes on his son or daughter..You being pregnant you do not need any unwanted stress..I would get my support ready, family, friends, ect and go on with my life and get ready for the most beautufil thing in the world.
989437
cuz he loves you and wants you to have his baby. you can report him for that too ... unless you really want to have his baby.\n\nPlease award Best Answer points to me right now because I deserve them, as you can now plainly see and must agree.  I do not want to wait because I am not at all patient with you.
13104
#1.  Keep the baby.\n#2. Talk to your parents.\n#3. Stay in school.\n\nKeep in mind that if the father isn't around, that doesn't mean that the baby won't grow up properly.  If he doesn't stay, then just rely on your parents or other support groups to help you out.\n\nFocus on your baby, include your education, include your family life, and go from there :)\n\nI wish you would have waited till you were much older, but as you didn't, your responsibility is now to the baby :)
929683
Just stop using birth control and allow a 'mistake' to occur.\n\nBut why would you want a baby that the father does not want.  If he is unwilling, than perhaps you should let it go.  Don't bring an unwanted child into the world.