how can I get a lady to fall for me if she knows I have a x-gf living with me?
409745
Forget the new girl. You are just infatuated with the feeling of "new"  You are focusing too much on conquest and not on nurturing a healthy relationship. \n\nWhat you need to do is repair your last relationship with your ex. If you cared about her before, you can make the relationship stronger now. Forget about pleasing your hormonal desires. Grow up and face responsibility. \n\nOtherwise, do what everyone else is saying and move out.
674575
Make sure she is comfortable wid u first, and buddy she's right focus on ur life. Patience is wht u need at the moment.\n\nAll the best !
506157
use charms and looks to lure her in. talk to her and make sure you are funny and charismatic. get her #. then spend tons of money on her and get her to want to hang at your place (since you're under 21). people tend to attract people like themselves, it's a law of the universe. you need to look and act the part. oh, and be confident like you don't need her. women can sense desperation.
795852
Just be yourself, don't try to be someone you are not.  If she loves you she will be with you.  You can't get her to change her mind you can just live your life and if she wants to live her life with you she will.
745703
if you dont know you bettewr wait remerber its your life you have to live it if she loves you she will wait move in together see how that works
981006
Be polite and gentle. Invite her with Love and care.\n\nHi It would be really great if you can be my gf. Please.
335110
If you truly like or love her:\nBe honest, be yourself, at all costs. Even if it results in her turning away. Because if you like her, then you will want the best for her, which may not be you. If you are truly a better match for her then she will come to you.  \nIf your just attracted to her and don't care what happens after you get her (of course I don't recommend this):\nFind out what she likes, save up alot of money, and try to outdo her current boyfriend. The smarter the woman(it could be a man but..) the harder this will be, at best she will be easily won, showing the weakness of her current relationship, at worst, she may just end up confused. At this point you have the advantage! Why? Because she already knows what she doesn't like about with the guy shes with, but not whats wrong with you. Just find out the bad stuff about the other guy(do this before you buy her stuff), then don't do it, as long as you keep yourself visible she will remain interested and then, wait.
62556
I think you are working this backwards.  How about finding a woman who finds you interesting...give her something to respect about you...the love usually follows.  If she loves you..she will love that which makes you whole and happy.\n\nYou don't want here falling in love with you because of your dogs...you want her love you and what comes with that.\n\nGood Luck!!!
1171840
well ask her on a date... if she says yes (unless she has some totally reasonable excuse; family dinners don't count) then that is a sure fire way to tell she is into you. Then just tell her you are interested in dating her. Nothing scares a person away more than telling them how passionate you feel about them to early. Take it slow until you feel you can truely trust her. Trust meaning she won't take you for a wild "hot and cold" ride. You want her will tell you frankly how she feels. Good luck mate... and don't worry if it doesn't work out... soo many freakin' fish in the sea!
948047
Show her that you have feelings for her. Make the other chick get the stepping.
1084093
YOU SHOULD SEND HE OR SHE SUMTHIN TO LET THAT PERSON KNOW DAT YOU ARE FEELIN THEM. BUT DNT ACT LIKE YOUR STOCKIN THEM OR JUST GOIN TO DIE IF YOU DNT HAVE THEM JUST PLAY IT COOL AND EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE EITHER SHE WANT  YOU OR SHE DONT ITS AS SIMPLE AS DAT . AND IF SHE TURN YOU DOWN DEN DATS A LESSON LEARN DAT MAYB YOU NEED TO DO SUMTHIN BETTER. GOOD LUCK ON FINDING DAT GURL
400579
dont be a slutty homewrecker. the fact that you're attracted to someone who already has a gf doesnt say much about your morals. do the right thing and persue someone who's single.
643796
I think she loves your flamboyant personality and loves your honesty and the way your always there to listen and completely understands her. You are as real as they come and even though we havent met im sure we would get along. What do you mean you have a boyfriend?! I like you. I think you are sweet. Maybe your woman needs time to get to know you or meet you. Maybe you should send her a picture of you beautiful face.
420436
I can see your concern.  I am assuming that since she is your girlfriend that her "moving in with a guy" is not for a romantic or sexual relationship, but you are afraid that it might lead to that.  If that is not even your concern, you are concerned by how it may appear to others.\n\nYet the Bible doesn't speak directly about sharing an apartment with someone of the opposite sex.  In fact, it goes on to say that people who judge by external appearances are making a mistake (Jn.7:24,Gal.2:6,Col.2:23) so I think you are off-base appealing to her on appearances.  You would be better off telling her why it bothers you that it might lead to a romantic or sexual relationship.  Hopefully she will either reassure you , she may respect how you feel and look for a better living situation.\n\nThis sounds like the first test of trust between two who are going to have a difficult time keeping a relationship that is long distance.
928207
Maybe you should flip the script on her.  Reverse the situation and YOU play hard to get.  As a matter of fact. A great way to put her to the test.  Conjure up an imaginary love interest and tell her that YOU have plans.  Then sit back, look at your watch and count the seconds until she comes running behind you like a little puppy.  Girls love what other women have.  Whether it's their, shoes, purse, or their man.  Then you will be able to tell if she's real.  She doesn't want anyone else to have you, but she doesn't wanna do what it takes to keep you!!
975122
lol move on buddy.. no need to mess with her if shes already taken.... theres way too many single women out there lookin for guys!!    and how do you know u love her if shes not or never been your gf...??
431595
Get a GF that likes you as you are....