I'm in love witha girl, but she has a boyfriend, what should I do?
396055
Tell her how you feel but dont cross that boundry it will only lead to disaster.  she will need to decide what she wants to do after you make your feelings known.  If she wont leave the other guy then shes not worth it because you will not have her full attention.
686614
she has a boyfriend and you best stay out of that. if it is ment to be in the future perhaps you will hook up
462985
If u r afraid that means u dont need her........if she has a boyfriend he wont du nuttin to u .......tell her....the time is ticking......u dont know what can happen in the next second or minute,,,,,,,time wont wait 4 u aii.....dont b afraid......go 4 wat u need in ur life.
1180147
I would let her know how you feel about her, then leave it alone. She might choose you over the other guy, but you don't want her to feel pressured and you don't want to steal her away. (Well, ok, you probably do, but it could cause problems in the long run, and you don't want that.) If she feels the same way about you, but doesn't know how you feel, you could both lose out on a good relationship. However, if her current boyfriend is it, and she just didn't want to do the long-distance thing, then you need to respect their relationship.\n\nJust approach it by saying that you don't want to pressure her because you respect her relationship with her boyfriend, but want to let her know that you like her as more than a friend.  You don't want to date a woman that would cheat on her current boyfriend to be with you, because that's a sign she'll do it TO you, and you don't want a broken heart out of the deal.\n\nJust my 2¢.
81365
talk to your girlfriend about this new girl and ask her what you should do. I know that this sounds crazy, but it pays off. then really question your self. Y do you like these people? is the reason you like this other girl better than your gf that you never see her or is it because you don't have chemistry? Don't just blindly make a decision. That doesn't help.
549857
Ask her or have one of your friends find out who she likes... if she really likes YOu then she'll dump her current bf to be with you...
733033
This is tough. Everyone is in a difficult situation when a guy likes a girl in a relationship, no matter the status of the relationship. I'd say be a friend to her. Hang out with her in moderation so as to not arouse suspicion from the current boyfriend. Give her moral support if she needs it during a possibly impending breakup, but do NOT encourage her to break up with him for you, in any way/shape/form. This could cause gossip, this could cause her to see you as a housebreaker, this could cause boyfriend of the day to kick your ass. And right after she breaks up with him, if this happens, it is not the right time to ask her out. You don't want to be the rebound. And you don't want her when she's just getting over that. It's not the right start to a healthy relationship. Be that good friend for a week, two, as long as you can wait after the breakup, and if you're sure she likes you, ask her out... or maybe sparks will fly before then... anyways... good luck in this hella conundrum
734275
well if you really like this girl and thinks she is worth the wait then do it. when a girl has had a rough time with relationships she tends to want to be left alone and it sounds like this girl might not be able to trust any one anymore so just console her make her feel better and be there for her....wait a lil while and see wat happens and if after you just get sick of waiting if she still hasnt decided she wants to be in a relationship then move on
713130
hi,\n\nwell...i totaly think that u should not tell about ur feelings right now...because she already has a boy friend,y not u wait for and be just her friend and later tell ur deep feelings about her.You should keep ur feelings in silence for now...and remember true lovers always wins...\n\n:)good luck!!!
1164751
All is fair in love and war, my friend. If you realllllly like this girl, you need to tell her. Let her decide what she wants because there is nothing worse than chasing after someone who does not want to be caught or is happy with her current boyfriend. Chances are she likes you, too. \nWhat's more important? Your friendship with her or with him?
617180
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
817413
Don't make it complicated and obsess about it. She hasn't mentioned the boyfriend (if he still exists) because she's interested in you. Ask her if she's available. Her yes or no ought to answer the question. If she says she's "sort of" seeing someone, you can figure out if you want to "sort of" see her along with another guy or not.  Have fun, take a chance. Life's too short.
18931
Wow, tough problem. I think what I'd do is have a heart to heart with the girlfriend. Maybe she really does want him to be happy with you and maybe it's him that's holding out hope for a renewed relationship with her. If that's the case, she'll need to back off, but you need to find out if that's really the way it is or not first. Good luck. I feel for you.
422097
hmmm... this is tough.. when my guy told me this.. i believed him because he treats me right..\ni know you've been a good b/f to her! because only someone who is really in love would ask for other ppl's help because they want to know what's best for their girl... i think you should take her somewhere nice.. then tell her :)\nbut take it slow, so she knows that you truly care\nhope this helps
1065805
ok well me as being a girl if the same thing happened to me i would be a bit freaked out to.. you should probably try to write her a note and tell her that you understood she has a boyfriend and ask her on a date... if shes single then go for it... if that was me i would totally talk to you again
1154438
I think first of all you should wait until she officially breaks up with her boyfriend.  Because you're always going to be second best whether you think so or not, and if she's doing this behind her boyfriend's back then, she could do the same thing to you.  You should also be honest with your girlfriend and tell her that you think you two should see other people, because you're just going to make matters worse if you continue this "non-sexual" relationship.  If you both like each other, you'll both do the right or moral thing
1135145
Forget her. She's just playing you, and if she does it now with you, she will do it with another when she'll be your girlfriend.\n\nMove on, and find someone you will always be able to count on.