Do you feel that people who judge others on personal appearances are uncomfortable within themselves?
409496
It is because they are too full of themselves that they judge others. I have also noted at times that they fear those who are different in appearance and thinking. I judge people by how they treat others and not how they look.
651841
of course we judge people by their avatar!  When we walk downtown people judge us by our appearance, our demeanor, our smell...etc.\nso what?\nwe get judged by our finger-prints,our grades,OUR ACTIONS!\nThat's Right\n"WAY TO GO, WORLD."!!!!!:)\nget used to it and Enjoy it:)
227476
Yes, it makes you sound shallow if you judge people by how they dress or how much money they have.
147636
I think its so rude that you are judgeing looks instead of talent
261007
Some people make judgements against others based on the color of their skin, the clothes they wear and the way they speak.  I have people watch me quite often, and I have fun with it, stare back, make comments about the stares, stuff like that.  I am a hispanic female, with tattoos, peircings and such.  No one even realizes that I am a college educated person in a management position. I get more stares when I am with my black fiance and my three white kids, but it is all because people are ignorant.  I have met some really cool people, hard workers and loving family men that looked like they came out of that movie stand and deliver.
917097
People tend to ridicule what they do not understand or feel comfortable with.
1002099
This is a problem that I have been battling with all my life. I believe you have to feel confident in who you are. You need to believe in yourself. It is hard I know but you need to start looking people in the eye. People will look away. Most people are like you, so I would say that you are normal. I know you feel bad, but believe me other people are just as timid as you are. You will get more respect when you look others in the eye.
968107
No, it wouldn't offend me.  I'd listen to what they said & then I'd hold up my own mirror to check myself.  If I agreed with what they said, then I'd work at changing myself.  If not, then I'd move on because everyone is allowed to have their own opinions.
156937
People gossip about others when they are feeling insecure about themselves and feel that they have to "belong" and to acheive that, they need to make up things about people who they think are perfect. As soon as you become one person's target, those others who are also insecure would also use you as a target, though not realising how stupid they all aare. Don't be upset because of what people say, because as long as you know that in you heart you didn't do it, then you are innocent.
1118755
most people are so easy to judge others because of their own hidden insecurites or inferiorities that they're trying to cover up.\n\nit's easier to 'feel better' about yourself if you elevate yourself to a particular level (i.e. making others look worse).\n\nhence, to judge others could be just another defense mechanism fostered by a particular environment/upbringing.\n\nnevertheless, there is never a good enough reason to be judgmental.\n\n:-)
580955
Realizing that no one has the right to judge you, when they criticize you, its nothing personal, they're just acting from their own "reality" and being happy with yourself no matter what.
332390
I don't think it is right to judge other ppl least I want to be judged. We can make general observations but we do not know what has happened in a persons life to make them the way they are. WE have not walked in their shoes.
499248
I used to get that a lot. They'd always make fun of something. Sad thing was they were things I had no control over. Chest size, buck teeth, then braces, my speech inpediment, anything really. I just accepted that I wasn't that great looking and anyone who didn't accept me like that wasn't my friend. Just be yourself. Even if it's stuff you can change. Only change if you want to change... never ever change for any other reason. You have to be comfortable with who you are and love yourself. Hopefully soon, others will come to accept you are who you are.
23071
In theory no, but in practice, yes.   Your appearance makes an impression on people before you even speak.
246767
1. do you some times feel as if you are wrongfully being judged?\n\nyes i do and i am because I'm in a wheel chair people atomically assume i am either retarded or cant do any thing at all I'm treated like a child\n\n2.do you judge others?\ni try not to but I'm only human\n\n3. how do you think it affects us when we place judgment on our fellow man / woman? \n\nwhat goes around comes around you get judged to the same degree as you judge some one else.
351724
some people do not go after looks.  I never did, it just all depends on how you feel about the way the person is treating you.  if you treat others with respect, chances are some of these people will respect you.
608006
A lot of times yes. Or insecurity. They are not sure of themselves, so they have to create a big scene or just act an azz so that they feel better about themselves, or so that they will appear a certain way in other people's eyes.  And its a shame cuz usually people can see right through them.