Do men that cheat learn from their mistakes?
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^\n\nDepending on their nature.  \n\nSome cheated due to an instance lust, being seduced, being lonely somewhere away from home, etc. Expressing this view in the criminal analogy - committing something like manslaughter, circumstantial.\n\nOthers cheat because it is just them, their core nature.\n\nThen they will never change.  They will plan how they would cheat, hence expressing this view in the criminal analogy - something like murder!\n\nMurderers are usually unrepentant, so are this type of cheats!  Let murderers out of the prison, they murder again and again.  Let unfaithful partners out of their homes, they cheat again and again.\n\nSuch people need psychological help - reprogramming their brains is neccessary because they are sick in some ways.
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Let me clarify . . . guys do not always cheat on their partners . . . and by asking this question . . . we know you are a sexist male basher like the heffers from the View.\n\nLook at them and look at you . . . no wonder men cheat on them and you.\n\nResearch has been done about this . . . I know I've answered similar questions . . . . \n\nLooks like everyone is going through another sexist trip . . . I've answered this question before . . . and as usual women ignore the facts . . . . so here it again.\n\nKinsey Report, published more than 50 years ago, approximately 60 per cent of men, compared to 30 per cent of women, were unfaithful to their spouses before the age of 40. \n\nAccording to Maggie Scarf, author of "Intimate Partners," first published in 1987 by Random House, "Most experts do consider the 'educated guess' that at the present time some 50 to 65 percent of husbands and 45 to 55 percent of wives become extramaritally involved by the age of 40 to be a relatively sound and reasonable one." \n\nNote that the above adultry statistics of the prevalence of affairs were made more than a decade ago; so based on changes in society during the intervening years, the current percentage of the population who have had affairs is probably somewhat HIGHER. For instance, the continuing increase of women in the workplace means that the numbers for women having affairs is probably similar to those for men—about 60%.\n\nCosmo recently conducted an online poll in 2004 of 1,000 men and 1,000 women, and 55 percent of guys and a shocking 59 percent of ladies said they have cheated on a partner. \n\nYes . . . guys cheat . . . but so do women . . . do not ignore the facts.  The question really should be . . . why do women cheat more than men . . . because the last information I've found proved . . . and it was a women's magazine poll.  You proved it yourself.
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Hey sweetie, Well, to answer ur question, I believe some people can change and I also believe dat if u give this person a chance and he prove that he made a mistake then he have learned his lesson, but if he still doing it after u gave him that second chance Leave him!!!
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I always jokingly say that "all men are pigs" but there are some that can be faithful. People only do to you what you LET them do. My husband has cheated on me several times because I LET him get away with it, and did nothing. Whereas, my sister has been married for 30 yrs, and I can swear on a bible her husband has never cheated.
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trust him, has he done you wrong before?
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Maybe you taught him a lesson so he won't let the next one go by learning from his mistake.  Or....maybe just like you right now...she doesn't know if he is cheating on her...at least not yet.
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Not all men are unfaithful, it's an equally viable point that BOTH parties of sex, male and female at some point have tendencies to CHEAT...yet are ALL people....not just men...not just women..do all PEOPLE cheat? NO.  I sure as hell don't cheat...never have and never will.  My grandparents never cheated on each other, my best friend never cheated on his woman...my mother never cheated on my father...so far i know a lot of people who haven't cheated on each other.  So NO....not all freakin PEOPLE are unfaitfhul. Unfortunately you just got caught up with one of the weak losers that just can't keep it in one spot.  You know you should thank the fact that some people even TRY to be faithful...if you lived as different animal, say monkey, mouse,  bird, you would've been cheated on  right in your face and it would've been ACCEPTED as a natural order of things.... we are all a 'species' here...apparently animal instincts aren't too far from our own.  \nBUT thankfully we don't live by such a promiscuous code...least not all of us.....so fortunately for you, there ARE people who believe in one and only one for life.  Now your problem is just getting involved with those people, but then that becomes a problem when most women are attracted to scum, cheaters, and assholes....and all the decent men are either considered gay, weak, not their type, or  a woman more sensible or more inteligent then the majority of women got him first....survival of the fittest eh?
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No there are some real Men/ boys. I have never cheated on my girlfriends . I would be broken up with the one I dated then I would start dating someone  after that.I had A girlfriend cheat on me and I didn't like it so I would never want any woman to go thought what I had to it is not fair to the person I'm with
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Some people will do whatever they can to get what they want, but other people might try to do the right thing.  Stick to the type of people that you yourself are.  Not all men are lying cheaters.
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Depends on the man.  I would say if the right opportunity arose, most men would consider "cheating" (there are, of course, many forms of "cheating").
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No, they never cheated.\nGet some spy stuff and have fun with it.
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well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women. \n\nIf I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
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First of all its NOT YOUR FAULT!!! Men might play stupid sometimes but they arent. He could have told you no and been a man ...you would have gotten over it. Of coarse he didnt cause most men have this ego thing. And no hun hes not gonna admit cheating because that lets you know hes weak....a real man will take responsibility for his decisions. You are also not goin to know if he is cheatin unless you catch him...play it right and you will see if he is....give him enough rope to hang himself   :)\n\nPlus he would not have told you no about the marriage cause he needs something stable to fall back on..He knows as long as he has his safety net he wont fall. You told him right women shouldnt waste their valuable time on a man thats not gonna commit... either take the dive or get off the board....you did right.
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Depends on how "good" you are and how "alert" the people dealing with it are, but all in all it's wrong thing to do.  Sooner or later, you will get caught, and the consequences are not worth the cheating.
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I did not, so my answer would be no, not all men do.Remember, there have been a lot of women cheating to, whether they are at home, or abroad.
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In reference to your reply to the question I posted,  it doesn't surprise me at all that a guy would cheat on you based on your attitude alone.  As you said in another one of your posts, "Be polite..."  Why don't you try exercising that advice.
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We perpetuate the myth that men cheat more than women but this is obviously untrue; who are they cheating with? If by "better" you mean more successful at getting away with it then women I suppose. I'm not sure being more readily deceitful is something to be proud of though. Lying may involve some skill but so does stealing a car.