i have this friend....?
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OCD..lol..there are so many people on this site with that.\nYou can tell who they are because they complain constantly about spelling, they report people for using ALL CAPS.\n\nSeriously, people who constantly wash their hands have OCD, or if they have a habit of arranging things in order just for fun this is OCD. I dont know of any meds though
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i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
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I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend like you.  You cared enough about her to let her go and be happy.  I wish there were more ppl like you out in this world.  take care...
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trust her, you have known each  other yalls whole life. and if i ever needed a friend that is the kind of friend i would want to confide in. some one who knows me inside out and yet still very different, someone who know everything about me, but yet didn't tell anybody when we went our separate ways...
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talk to your friend about this    she should understand if shes a real friend.
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Hi Tiera,   well it sounds like this guy is a real jerk. Not trying to be mean or anything just going by everything you said.  Now, as far as your friend goes I believe that you should stick to your guns and be there for her.  If you havent done so already,  I think you should tell her all about this guy and just prepare her for what you might think will happen. Don't try to make her break up with him per say,  but just let her know that you are telling her these things because she is your friend and you dont want to see her hurt.  Thats really all you can do at this point.  Sometimes in life in order for someone realize what they get themselves into they have to learn the hard way.  The only thing you can do is just assure her that you will be there for her no matter what.  She will appreciate you more down the road when she realizes she was wrong and you were right.  Stick to you guns hun, and dont abandon your friend because this is when she is gonna need you the most.  Good luck with everything...........
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Just keep being her friend.  Keep trying to encourage her.  Do the best you can.  You might not be able to change her, but in the future she will look back and realize how kind and helpful you were.  Stay with her.  And good job!  It's wonderful that you are concerned about her!
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Talk to your friend first, then if she is okay with it, then go ahead
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ask your friend if it would be ok.. that way it will be easier on both of you
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Helll Yeah girl, I went through that before and look if he is a true friend then he would not put a fu** before a friend. You will still be there when their relationship goes bad and it will cuz she sounds like a biatch! Beat that ho down!
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YEA RIGHT!!!! tell her how you feel and how much you like him and if shes a real friend shell be understanding especially if she doesnt even like him!! Good Luck ♥
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ok this seems to be a particular case of jealousy !! so id say talk to your friend and say how much he means to you .. tell her that she has been a friend all your life and that u dont want to lose her .. now if she understands this she wont interfere further .. now if she doesn't understand let him talk to her .. she will be angry and it may cause some friction between u and her but things will work out fine !!
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Respect your friend's wishes to make these changes for a while.  \nMaybe she is moving on and maturing in a new relationship.  \nYou are still her friend unless you choose not to be. Be there and show your true friendship and support, and let HER know you are waiting for her on "The other side".  All you can do is be a friend.  You cannot live your friend's live.  Good luck and find some new 'cool' friends if you are bored.  Don't let yourself be too closed in in your thinking; and broaden your friendship base, so that when one moves on, you have others to enjoy.\n\nYou can still like this person for who they are, not what they do or don't do.
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Sounds like he's playing with both of you. let your friend have this guy and you find someone else. She'll get kicked to the kerb sooner or later...might be what she deserves!
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You need to sit your friend down and tell her how much you care about your friendship with her. Then after that tell her that you like him alot and you like to talk on the phone with him personaly. And if she cant understand that then you two need to start haging out with other friends. Tell her how you feel about it. Good Luck.
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Sounds like this is a one-sided friendship. Is your friend jealous of your other friends? Maybe he/she is insecure or envious of you because you have other friends. There must be something you like about this person since you have remained friends for over 10 years. Has he/she always been this way? Or is it something that is recent?  If it is more recent your friend may have a valid point. We all go through changes and unfortunately we cannot always go in the same direction as our friends. We can only hope that our friends can take a back seat while we are growing. And if the friendship is meant to be it will be there when we return to earth. If your friend has always been like this, I would say it is time to reevaluate your friendship with her. Sounds like she is not the kind of friend you want to keep.\n\nI have 3 friends that I have known for over 35 years and there were times that we didn't speak or see each other, but we are still the best of friends today.
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Keep him as your friend. He's smart, you may pick up some pointers from him.