is it okay to be over confident in a good way or does that turn plp of?
398545
I think not being confident turn people off so be confident and friendly and social too.
1154333
Confidence is attractive, cockiness is not. Just be humble!
61699
Just try to make yourself stronger. don't think of poeple talkings much and improve your self confidence.\nI was like this when I was younger but I released being sensentive too much is not worth at all.
979340
I believe it is. A wise man once said "it is better to be happy than to be right." When we get defensive, we have some inner need to be right. If we're confident in what we believe, it doesn't matter to us whether or not others see things our way.
212112
Confidence is key! Women love men who have confidence in themselves, it makes us think that you hold the world in your hands. Also play hard to get, don't over-do it though.
52552
I don't think so, not if you have to ask. Sounds like you're not confident at all. Get it together little woman, where's your self-confidence?
610135
I used to be like that.  I learned to pretend that I was more confident and outgoing than I really was - I mean these people didn't know I was shy etc, so they would not find it strange.  Eventually I just became more confident and outgoing.
558999
How do you mean? Sounds like you've had some experience of this. Not all guys change dramatically. Take me for example, my best qualities have only improved gradually over time while my weaker ones have faded. Its a gradually change into become more confident in myself.
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I think "faith" does weaken self-confidence.  And also responsibility.  I feel MUCH better about myself and my abilities now that I'm not a christian anymore.\n\nI was giving all the glory to God when something went right,.... and blaming myself, or attributing it to learning a needed lesson when something didn't go right.\n\nSo anything that was good was never because of me, and anything that was bad was always my fault.  Does that sound healthy to you?
977144
I don't like that I am always so unsure of myself.  I need more confidence.
61370
Trial & error. A lot of the time your intuition will steer you in the right direction. But you will never learn to trust 'til you give people a chance. You have to let your guard down some time or another.
290640
to over thinking p*ssers
529528
why do you care?  if its working for you, then keep doing it! your buddy will just have to keep on being a looser and nothing you can do about it.  confidence comes from within and if you have it great.  if he doesn't, not your problem!
424959
you will get rejected alot, but keep at, keep your head up, the more you try the better you will get. practise makes perfect. there is no substitute for confidence.
891180
there is no problem with you honey,, but there is a secret in terms of friendship which you should know, self confidence is very important in any relationship, u should believe in urself first then others will believe in you and lean on you as a friend ,, do not take much attention on what other people think or what they do, ,just do whatever your heart says and be a good leader,its really successful way , u should try \nbest wishes
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You know being a little insecure in the bedroom can be ALOT better than being over confident.  If you don't become paranoid that is.  Pace yourself and awlays imagine what you might be able to do better on, that way you are always wanting to please her, instead of sitting back brimming with arrogence.   However... don't become paranoid... as you will ultimately stress yourself out and risk decreasing stamina and sexual performance.  With your partner telling you that you are the best... take it as a compliment, but dont take it to heart, because god forbid you guys one day spilt, you run the risk of having that one retracted, lol
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You should psych yourself by relaxing, giving yourself a "confidence boosting talk", you know, you can do this, you KNOW this, etc. and just walk into it with assurance. Good luck!