is it wrong to love a man that is 28 years older than you are?
400475
Yes. Years of life experience are why it is wrong. No matter how old you are, anyone that much older will usually treat you differently than someone their own age. They may not even realize they're doing it. You know they are old enough to be your parent. How could they ever treat you like an equal when you don't have life experiences equal to theirs?\nGood luck.
995549
Well...I suppose it's relative to how mature he is.  \n\nWomen mature faster than men so I'm not sure it's wise to date a younger man. \n\nIf you were 40's I would say there's not a huge gap, but early 20's people are still figuring out life and who they are. \n\nI don't think there's anything 'wrong' with it as long as he's legal. I just don't think it's wise...(I make these remarks based on the facts as I'm given them).\n\nIf you must, date him years and years before you ever marry.
402807
i would marry an older man, but im only 24, and the thought of marrying someone who is 50 is a little weird. that might be a little too old. although the EXPERIENCE is intriguing....
102529
I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika
470270
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
200125
lol, I am a 34 year old woman deeply in love with a 46 year old man!  No kidding.  It is working for us so far!  And I have never been happier. Not sure what kind of advice you need.  Our ages never seem to cause a problem.  Good luck to you both.
328370
Yes it is ok! As long as your in love! You can love him and he can love you! Age does not notice age, it does not hate, it is not jealous! Love is pure love! Love is all that matters!
385349
First of all, I don't see what the big deal is.  What is the difference between 30 and 37 really?  Does it matter to you?  If it is the fact that he lied that is bothering you tell him that, just confront him about it.  If the age thing doesn't bother you and you still love, or at least like, him then just let him know that and tell him you just don't appreciate being lied to and not to let it happen again.  If the age difference bothers you even still after being in a relationship with him...it's probably time to just move on.
932454
There's nothing wrong with that! One of my friends is going out with a guy two years older than her-has been for 4 years now.\nGood luck :)
694540
i'm 20 and with a 29 year old man. i think its ok to date who ever u want as long as its legal.
876899
If you're 30 and she is 10, stay away from her.  However, if you are 70 and she is 50 - go for it, if the feeling is mutual.\n\nIt IS wrong if she is a minor or of immature character.  It is NOT wrong if you are both legal, competent adults in love.   If this is the case, and you love her - I hope she loves you too.\n\nLoves involves a shared life, shared values, mutual respect, and regular communication.
1142726
These girls dont know what there talking about. Ive been exactly where you are. I was 18 and I fell inlove with some 42. It sounds so bad. I know its not "normal" but its not wrong either. I dont feel like you should cheat on your husband even if you've asked for a divorce. I feel that you should wait until its completely over. If the older man trully has feelings for you then he will wait. I wish you the very best!
164085
wow, 28 and 63, what an age difference.  What country are you in, i don't think i can advise you on anything being that you are in an entirely different culture and i don't know anything about it.  If you were in America, I would say that he is too old for you, you seem to be in love with him though, i think the only thing you can do is wait and see.  Does he ever come see you?  If not, that is not dating, it is cyberdating, which is not the same thing, if you don't see each other often, unless he is taking care of you and is extremely rivch, iwould find a new man.
942186
I was atrracted 2 a man 33 yrs. older than me. I luv older men.
296708
Age is relative...there is no such thing as "wrong" or "right". It's only what society dictates that determines labels such as right as wrong. you need to look into your heart. Does being with him feel right? Does he feel comfortable with you? if yes, then it is not wrong, it is right.Do not let societal perceptions dictate your life...if you two are happy then that's all that matters.
360675
Sometimes it's true that women's maturity level progresses faster than younger men's. In your case you might be feeling a bit uncertain because that statement does not apply to you. \nRemember: Age is only a number. So is salary.\n\nIf you can love him no matter what and want to work things out with him, no matter what, then he is the one for you.\n\nEveryone has differences in taste, his is 80's music and an early bed time.. so what? At least he isn't a drug addict and abuser. Take it for what it's worth... if he treats you well, is financially stable and willing to work on your relationship, you've got a winner!\n\nGood luck, and look out for yourself--
2707
Every human being has the capacities to love. No matter what the age, the boy can truly love you. However, just as we mature as we get older, so does our love and our sense of love, so you can be more sure with an older man.\n\nThen again, you just never know...