Girls, would most of you give a guy a chance if he came to talk to you out of the blu? Any advice for the men?
415306
Yes i would. He obviously wants to tell u sometrhing very important to tell the gurl. And she needs to give him a chance and let him get off his chest what he needs
1182406
I think it is not that difficult to read. Guys are generally very open when they are interested, especially if you show interest too. If this particular person is really shy you need to be a little more forward and let him know your interested. Then I think he will make his move. Encourage
547022
Well I would definitely be nice and sweet to her and look at her with that look of love and make any excuse to talk to her.  A lot of guys get really shy though, so if he doesn't talk to you, then don't think it is because he is not interested, he might just be shy!
713420
I will take the first step to be social towards a man but I don't know about 'making a move'. I guess, if you call being the first to talk to him etc making a move then definately. My fella is very shy and he thinks I'm way above his league so he would never have made the first move to talk to me, thinking that I would straight out reject him. I could definately tell that he was interested so I made it easier for him. If I hadn't done that, we wouldn't be together so I'm glad I did.
1016605
coming from a guy's point of view....I think you should tell him
67867
but when she approaches like that most of the us guys will be too stupid/shocked/confused to give the proper answer.\nso i suggest you start a conversation and see how it goes.don't forget about the body language \nhehehhee
129540
DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
425755
I'd say thats an easy question to give an answer to, its simple dont answer every call he gives you, dont be rude and ignore him. And remember being honest is the best way to get to the man u like.
422029
guys are simple, most of them liken unto animals so the simplest approach would be the best. Simply say "I,ve notice you and was wondering ,totaly open and give him a way out, cause we feel at ease like that, if there was something you found about me you would care to know more about. Then even toss in there that you would like to know whats up with him, that would let him feel accepted and eased and let you have a moment not on the spot. Simply bring up the ? of the matter is basicly the best way to approach a guy cause we are simple carbin units waiting for an oppurtunity
292673
Yes, I feel for a girl I brought home from the bar. The only problem, she just wants to be friends w/benefits.\nIf a girl says anything to a guy, especially in a bar, you immediately got him hooked, unless you are huge or hideous. Just say Hi my name is .... whats yours...? you will know imediatly if he is interested. If you pick a winner, hang out get to know him, and if he tries to take you home, have a good excuse on hand as to why you have to go,if you like him make plans to meet again somewhere, or exchange #, & get to know him more through the phone.If you want to weed out the horn balls, make him wait 3-5 dates before you get sexual. or explain to him on date 2 or 3 your intent of not screwing around untill you know your right for one another.\nI might not know much about dateing, considering I am single. but thats how I think things should be.
850203
Go for it. Sounds like he might be interested. Good luck.....SAM
343576
Maybe he didn't want to get shot down and while he obviously was into you, the people you were with I would think had something to do with it and by that I mean, I'm sure if you had been alone or right next to him, he might have interacted with you! If you thought he was worth checking out, you should have went over and talked to him! You look pretty cute and I'm sure he would have talked with you!
812306
Well... If he was happy to hear from u, and u guys talked for an hour... then maybe he wasn't avoiding you. When u finally talked to him, did you says anything about trying to reach him before? It is kinda weird that he finally answered when u called from a different phone. This is brutally honest, but maybe he was caught off guard when he answered his phone and u were on the other line, so he just decided to talk to u because that would've been obvious if he just hung up when he knew it was u? Did that make sense? lol. I think you should just forget about the dude. If you guys have been flirting for 6 months, and nothing has happened, then he probably isn't as interested as u r! Who knows... just trying to help ya out!\n\n-Eli
169074
Given the choice I always say be flattered, it makes life so much more enjoyable.  If you want to find out for sure then take time to make sure he knows your name and give him an oportunity to talk to you a little bit.  It never hurts to give it a chance and find out if there is potential, especially if your atracted to the guy.
144346
Ouch... I'm guessing you probably wouldn't be willing to talk to him about it? Definitely not the smartest or most honest thing to do... but maybe he was just using it to meet new friends? Probably easier to find people willing to talk to you if you're not already taken. If you've already decided to move on though, then I don't think it matters either way.  I'd just hate for something to become hurt and distrustful over a misunderstanding <=^)
311211
all your friend sthat are surprised because you probably a really coo and hot chick. i know from experience that it is very hard to approach a girl that i might not have a chance wit. the only advice i have is to take the ropes in your hands and talk to him first or make the first move.
624489
yeah,. why can't a girl just return a call? just be honest, don't ignore the guy.