is it normal for good looking men to feel ugly too?
403122
yes of course...we all have dull days...
740515
hello.\nall i can tell you, is own those darn stretch marks! they're part of you and that makes them beautiful in their own special way.\nand yes, most men are too unsensitive to understand that women usually have their ups and downs and feel self-concious about their body from time to time. and you wonder why? look at all of the pressure coming from the media, all of those celebrities and models pushing themselves and dying to be thin to achieve those stereotypical standards. for some reason, the men are brainwashed into thinking that those flawless girls they see on television and in the magazines are the idea image of beauty. therefore, they assume that every woman should look just like those photographs and tv shows. well guess what, gentlemen? it just dont fly like that. guys should understand that women cant always be perfect and they should accept us for who we are and how we look, not the way the media wants us to look.\nhope i helped out.\njasmine
615182
The simple answer is "yes".\nAlmost any balanced combination of features is attractive to some segment of the male population, and everyone has their own preferences.  In general, go with what you like, creating a look that feels good to you.  If you feel attractive, it will be more attractive to others than any specific features.
964222
Maybe u just dated the wrong types of guys and couldnt see their true selves.  If u are as "hot" as u say u are then u will mostly attract the types of men tht want to use u.  I am sry u feel tht way about most men cause in all honesty most of us arent tht bad.
235465
Maybe you seem to come off as too perinoid. Maybe if you stop being so concerned with the way you look then you might be able to get a guy alittle faster. Hell, be yourself.
1108185
i am telling u now >>NO<< it is not fair that u feel UGLY but taking it out on sum1else that is not fair..........with all of the ugly that cums ur way there cums the beautiful..... i hope that u get the beautiful that u deserve because it must have taken real guts to put this question up on this website for every1 to c.....but i hope that everything works out for u and that ur future is a beautiful 1 God bless
1159375
Please allow me to say this.  Whats even more important to a decent man then looks is confidence.  If you want to be happy, start with yourself, with your life.  Find your own goals, work towards achieving them.  Find out what you can do well, and work to excell at that.  Most men would really like to sleep with someone that looks like a runway model, but few would stay with them if thats all they are, a bit of fluff with no interests, or if they aren't happy with themselfs or their life.  If you can find happiness just being you, everything else will fall into place.  Besides, your 17, give it time.  It took me longer then 17 years to figure out who I was and what I wanted from life.  Good Luck.
1187710
looks are important but not as much as you think. a woman places much less importance to how a man looks compared to how he can make her feel. so a keeping good attitude wold be recommended
1025287
It has always been the case that your looks and appearance is crucial in attracting potential partners and if everyone is honest looks and appearance are still highly important in what you look for in a potential partner. I think more pressure has been put on guys to look good and it is a sign of modern society that male grooming products such as the Nivea range have become popular. The pressure for a man to look good is still hardly anything compared to the pressure of a women to look good.\n\nI would say celebritries such as David Beckham, Gavin Henson, other sports stars, film stars and rock stars have sparked a trend for men making more effort on thier appearance e.g going to expensive hairdressers for trendy haircuts . Using sun beds/ going to the gym / cosmetic surgery/ spending more time grooming. The constant Media footage of fashionable and successful guys adds pressure for men in general.\n\nSociety has been the greatest factor in guys feeling more pressure.  Peer groups looking better by using grooming products and paying more attention to thier appearance puts more pressure on you looking good also.\n\nIn todays society i believe personality, being a good person, wealth, social status,brilliant abilities in a certain field, are other important factors and even ugly guys can be highly attractive with these factors.\n\nIn Summary, guys, especially single guys do feel  more pressured in terms of looks and appearance. This is due to peer and group pressure , the pressure from the media and celebrities\nand also society as a whole.
615056
Never settle.  It is not shallow in the least to expect an attravtive mate.  I feel the same as you, I won't become involved with someone I do not find attractive.  A good looking body is a sign that a person respects themselve and is  mature enough to maintain themselves.  These are good quaities in a mate that the outside look is a clue too, and I expect no less.  Just remember to find someone who is attractive in the inside too!
604440
alot of men are intimidated by good-looking women. they feel that they don't have a chance. they end up losing in the end to a total jack-ass. jack-asses will do anything to get a woman so they can fuck-them-and-dump-them. they, in turn, ruin it for the guys that would probably be the best thing that ever happened to that woman. it does happen the opposite way sometimes as well. if a guy looks clean-cut and is very polite, give him a chance. remember, arrogance is generally a bad thing. confidence is another...
12214
Just have confidence in yourself. If everyone says you are good looking then you are probably good looking. :) It is no fun to look down on yourself all the time so you just have to think good thoughts about yourself for a change instead. :)
414248
Depends on what is wrong with you. But if you don't have some kind of a big defect, you can be handsome only if you believe it. You must feel beautiful and then girls will see that in you. It's all about self confidence! And of course buying the right clothes. But I first look at the face and hair of the boys. So make sure you are clean! And smile a lot. That's all I can say, for starters.
608729
For the most part I agree with you but I think that being ugly or feeling ugly can not be easily catorgrized by simply saying that an ugly person can cope with life better. It depends on your defintion of coping and in what area. Some people who feel ugly are walking around broken and damamged and it affects other area's of their life. It affects their confidence, their ability to do things, and pursue certain avenues of life and if that means that they are coping with being ugly then it is not very healthy. I think that society squezzes beauty in to such a small box that many people suffer needlessly and become victims of society and the media at a very young age. But since you speak of reality, in reality anyone who sees themselves as ugly has deeper issues in life other than their apperance. And any man or woman who wants to be with a person based more so on beauty that character has issues as well. But personally when I was young I thought that I was dreadfully ugly I would walk past a mirror in a mall and cry. It was horrible and my expectations of how I should be treated was low because an ugly person should just be happy that someone wants to be with them. But I can not not compare this experience to what it is like to beautiful and have everyone think that same to me that sounds like a nightmare to.
291118
It is how one perceives you. You may be good for someone and ugly for another one. I guess what is more important is to be beautiful mentally :-)
155856
Well maybe you shouldn't worry about the looks.  You need to find a guy with a good heart and keep him  They are hard to come by.  But, when you find a good man try not to push him away.  You are so young you have a lot of life a head of you.  Take your time and have fun.  Life is to short to worry about the small things.
829067
doesn't sound like you have a very high opinion of yourself so that's going to be your first problem in finding true love.\nbeyond that, i don't think very many handsome guys are looking for ugly guys but i am sure there are some...keeping hoping