A strikingly attractive partner who was disappointing in bed or a plain-looking partner who was fantastic?
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most definitely the latter. When someone is good in bed, I think they start looking more attractive to you (and vice versa). Because what is attractive (for me at least) is not a static image, it's the way someone moves, how they express themselves in words and gestures... and sex is a big part of that self-expression
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Excellent question, and very interesting, but I simply am not familiar enough with celebrities to pick good examples.\n\nI guess I'd pick a clean, intelligent, amusing, courteous female over a filthy, stupid, obnoxious, inconsiderate male, if I had to, OK?
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they would make a nice couple.
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my firm personal belief is that when we find that special someone, we find them attractive and pretty, no matter what anyone else thinks of them. therefore, I say physical may not matter all that much, it is about the chemistry of two people, there views, and whether it will last or not.
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I'd prefer sophisticated gentlemen. Physical appearance can only last so long but fine attitude and personality will definitely last much longer.
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gorgeous people tend to have high standards
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I like a man who is attractive.... not perfect looking though.....that is a turn off!  Imperfection is sexy!
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both look good depending on the beholder's mood
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I would choose brains, I could never be with someone who can't carry on an intelligent conversation.  As the saying goes you can be with the most beautiful person in the world but when they open their mouth and there is nothing upstairs they get uglier by the minute.
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I would rather have both.\n\nNo, just kidding. Obviously physical attraction is what initially attracts you to someone. But if a guy has an amazing personality, then he immediately becomes more attractive to me. If I am compatible with someone in other areas, I couldn't care less about the superficial qualities.
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Girl they both fine\nboth got good bodies\nboth have good looking faces\nnelly...............FINE\nusher.......he look good too
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i prefer ok looking/good personality because looks eventually fade but personality is for life.and i'd want to be with someone who makes me happy when i'm around them.also lust only lasts for so long but love is forever.
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1. A well-built sexually attractive man\n2. A large piece of something without definite shape\n   "a hunk of bread"
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not quite sure what your looking for here partner.  please elaborate.
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It depends upon the mood of the partners!
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I have an older bf with money.  He doesn't top the list for looks, but is attractive to me.  I went for his looks first and then found out he had money.  It may not be that the woman is going for his money; she may be attracted to him and another person would not find him attractive.   Beauty is on the inside and what one finds attractive will not necessarily be attractive to another.
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I prefer someone cheerful.  I've met physically attractive women that had a lousy attitude and know that I'd rather be with someone pleasant any day over that crap!\n\nAssuming they have a pleasant attitude, I would prefer someone that is intelligent.  I don't mind if someone is able to be critical, but what I am really looking for is someone that can brainstorm more solutions with me than just grumble.  Again, I have met physically attractive women  that even had positive attitudes that really just ended up being a bore.  Or, spun the other direction, I have also dated a woman that was quite brilliant, but rarely had much else than negative things to say about her life and others.  Can you imagine how much fun that was?  I really did a lot of self inquiry after that as to why I bothered with her at all.  Maybe I thought I could save her or some other foolish macho notion.\n\nAnyhow, physique is important as it tends to indicate on a superficial level that the woman cares about herself.  On the other hand, she could be a negative-minded bore.\n\nSo I suppose you could say I am looking for "the total package," but I have been sorry to learn that it is in short supply and expect that if I were to need to marry in a hurry that I would have to "settle" for something less than what I want.  But I am a balding short hairy guy, so what do you expect?  There isn't much mercy out there for guys like us, so I either lose or spend more energy into being financially successful than would make me available for dating...\n\nLately, I have simply lost interest.  Nothing is attractive to me because I have always been asked to sell myself short of what I want.  That repeated experience really put a damper on my motivation to work out and compete.  It's like I've been relegated to the communist version of dating economics - where everybody gets the same boring angry hairlipped babushka.  I'd rather stay single and read books.