i want a questionaire about bully problem. How can i get it?
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if you got something to say post it in community
230439
Honestly, there's not much you can do. You can try to talk to a guidance counselor or teacher, and that might help. The only thing that worked for me when I was in school was ignoring the crap that was said. There was this one girl who bullied me for years and we would consequently bad-mouth each other. Finally, I just quit saying anything about her and let her talk all the trash she wanted to. Our mutual friends realized after a while that she was the one causing all the drama and so even though she was still talking trash about me, our friends just tuned her out when she would do that. And it made me look like the better person. (which, of course, I am... ;) )
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1. My approach is to immediately put it into the hands of professionals who are hired to deal with bullies.  Tell your manager.  Call Human Resources.  If necessary, call the Police.  \n\n2. I've learned this: Don't play with them and don't tolerate the bullying.  \n\n3. No.  It's not best to bullyl back.  Bullying back changes YOU.  It turns you into the exaxt type of person you don't like.   Instead, take positive, constructive steps and insist on helping to make this world a better place.\n\n4. Being a nice person doesn't automatically make you a door mat any more than being a bully protects you from being bullied.  Where possible, ALWAYS be nice, first.  But realize that you are on planet Earth.  So, you have to be prepared to protect yourself.  And the best way to do that is NOT by bullying but, rather, by turning to the professionals who are payed to protect you.\n\n5. Again, as mentioned in my reply above, you don't have to be mean back.   Why would you want to be like the people who've caused you so much stress that you've had to take time out of your life to write about it.  Any of us can be mean.   That's nothing.   You don't want to be like that.  Be something much, much, much, much better, ok?\n\nKeep strong.  Don't fear.  And keep positive.\n\nLinkedin Recruiter
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How long has your friend been jealous of you?  You're entitled to be hurt and annoyed, but if a straight forward request of your friend to please stop doesn't work, then perhaps this friends should seek other company.  Do not respond in a like manner - how do two wrongs make a right?  Do not expect your teachers to get involved unless you're in actual physical jeapardy from this "bully".  Sounds to me more like jealousy, not bullying.  I'd feel sorry for this "friend".  And probably distance myself from him as well.
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Bully no more!  Yes I had a lot of bullys out to get me in anyway they could.  Try to embarrass me, for just being THERE!  Polinting at my body, saying things.  Saying how their families did this or that, and my parents were looser.  Which they were, but why take it out on me?  I couldn't wear the right thing, I wasn't allowed to wear makeup until I was 17!  My parents were well known in the neighborhood for their fighting and screaming, leaving my sister and I to go walk away from the house.  We were really young.  Bully's poke fun at people like us because "THEY CAN", what are we going to do about it?  Not much, going to adults - well, they don't seem to understand that this is SERIOUS!!!   You can't sleep, you can't look forward to going to school, even if you are going on a cool field trip, the bully's make it a horror, when you wanted to have fun and enjoy the trip-if it weren't for THEM!   Yep, know them well!  \nBully me now but I'll be the successful one in 25 years and eat my dust!  Stand strong but don't look weak.  It may hurt but act like you don't even see them near you?  Walk around them when they block your way, politely move to the side, or turn completely turn around and go the other way.  You can find another path in that direction once they give you up.  They will, if you don't look scared, or hurt, or look down at the ground you are giving THEM the power over you.  Take your power back!  Don't say anything, that's what they want.  They want a reaction.  When I stopped showing any reaction they got bored with me and found some else they could teast and poke at.  Keep your lips firm tight, look relaxed and a bit bored with them when they come up to you.  They ARE to be felt sorry for.  You have a life, they don't...obviously!   But stand firm in your own shoes, these types of people are all around us as Adults too!   Sometimes I'd like to really ask "don't you have a LIFE?  Am I all you DO in life".  Everyone else around you are seeing their bad behavior as well, and feel right there with you and are always thankful they are not you!  So you are not the only one being embarrassed by these bully's, everyone around them and you, see how sad the bully's life must be that they resort to such a stupid way to act.  I look back and am thankful I didn't turn out like them.  They are the ones in prison, or on drugs, probation, cigarette smokers mostly, alcoholics, theft records, loud, useless to society.  Build up a fortress around you in attitude, and pride!  They'll soon find some other fish to fry!!   You're much better than them even though they seem hurtful and want to make you cry.  And always.... THANK GOD YOU ARE NOT THEM!!!
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Well... just ignore it is good advice although hard to follow considering how long you have to spend at school. Everyone who gets picked on gets worn down by it sooner or later - ignoring is hard work! \n\nDo those who you have told include teachers? There have been some interesting cases lately in which schools have got into trouble for not taking action on bullying, they ought to have an anti-bullying policy in place which should be implemented. Unfortunately it can make it worse, at least temporarily, if you tell on the people who pick on you, but if you are brave enough it is the best way to get it sorted in the end. Tried ringing childline? I never did but it would've been a good plan in hindsight.\n\nYou need to find others who are going through similar stuff so that you can support each other. When you realise there are other cool people who get picked on you feel a hell of a lot better about yourself. Go find some people with similar interests to you.\n\nI got picked on at school, and at the end of the day it might make you weaker in the short term, but stronger in the long term, and you will reach a point in the future when you really don't give a shit any more. It's not your fault and it shouldn't happen. Hang on in there and fight for your right to be yourself and not be given any hassle about it.
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Unfortunately, having to interact with persons that you do not like is good training for the "real world".  We all have to work, at some time, with someone that we do not want to work with.  The best way to deal with such a person is to treat them with kindness.  If he's looking at you in a threatening way, then smile, and say "How's it going, Man!" and then go on about your business.  If he insults you, then say something like "Hmmm.  I see where you're coming from!" then go on about your business.  In other words, don't feed the fire, and by being "cooperative" you will confuse him when he does not get the reaction that he expected.  On the other hand, if he is threatening you with physical harm, then do not walk away but look him dead in the eye and tell him to "lay off".  Hold your ground, and your eye contact.  Most bullies will run when confronted with determined opposition.  And do alert your teacher or principal if you feel that you are in real danger.
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There should be link somewhere in myspace.com like "Report Abuse" and you can explain your concern. Also you can use "Contact US" link to contact them.
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My nefew gets tesed real bad. He won't even talk to anyone he don't have no friends cuz once one starts they all start. He is all depressed he don't care about school anymore and he blames himself. He thinks its something wrong with him when in reality its problems the bully has with himself. Kids can be so mean.  I'm not saying it's right but bullies is the reason Colinbin  sp?? school shooting happened.
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Bullies need to be identified and isolated from the rest of the school population for an extended period of time.  If after a set period of time there is no improvement in attitude or behaviour of the bully, then he/she should be transfered to a learning facility that offers counseling and education at a deeper level than what is offered at public schools.  Bullying is not acceptable behaviour.
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I looked up the definition of bullying again and it refers to a bully as "a person who makes himself or herself a terror to the weak or defenceless"... interesting with the present fixation with terrorists - are they just bullies all grown up?\n\nIt was many years ago (about 40) when I was at school and yes, I was bullied, physically, verbally and emotionally - though it wasn't recognised then and came from both some teachers and other pupils - presumably because I was 'different' (there was no recognition of gifted and talented pupils in my day!).\n\nWhen I was around 35 years I was hospitalised after an attempted suicide and because I had a history of depression (from about the age of 15). During therapy it came out about the bullying (as well as my mother's attitude) and, based on that, I worked through the issues, went to university at last (I'd been bullied into believing it was not for me) and have now been depression free for 18 glorious years! \n\n(In all honesty though I have to add that my early experience seems to have turned me into something of a victim too. I ended up in an abusive marriage - yes, men can be abused too! - perhaps unable at some level to know who I was unless I was being bullied?)
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why is there somebody bulling u
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If someone says something rude, all you have to do is click on the "Report Abuse" link next to their answer. If someone asks you a question on the other hand, the only possible way, so far, to answer their question is to click on their username and see if they have a link on their profile that says "Contact *username*"
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What is the reason for asking ?  Just be safe and protect your assests :) Reputations are not easy to overcome good or bad
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I taught at a school in Ca.  It is true that the schools are limited in what they do to protect other kids from being bullied.  Several of the answers were very appropriate.  Most important thing would be to document each and every incident.   I would then (as someone said) write a letter to the school with pictures of marks, along with any statement of your child.  Send it registered or certified mail to the school, the teacher, and the superintendent.  If there are marks on your child, I would immediately file a police report and send that in the certified letter.  Request a response to the letter and a meeting with all parties involved to find a way to solve the issue.  What many people do is complain and try to resolve it on their own, but nothing will happen until someone gets really hurt.  You need to demand that a  plan be put in place to protect your child.  If this does not happen, you will file suit.  Make sure everything is in writing.  Have your child seek counseling (not through the school).  if you do not have the money to pay for it, then find a place that charges on a sliding scale or will give free services.  Bring the counselor to your school to represent your child.  Do not wait for the school to take any action.  It could take forever or not happen at all.
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By using their own teachings in response. Judge not lest you be judged.  And be self assured of your own beliefs and remind them, to set a good example if they want people to follow or listen. No one ever changes their beliefs by being bullied.
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So you're playing Bully eh? In certain countries also known as Canis Canem Edit. It isn't that hard you know. Some of the later ones are much harder. What are you going to do then? Come back and ask another question? It's an important part of the game. Character development my friend. Character development.