ok, sorry yall i meant how is the best way to flirt withOUT looking like all i want is sex?
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wow.. it depends on how well you know each other. if you just meet the guy and start.. he'll think you're easy. ..if you've been friends.. by flirting he might think you like him.. but at least he knows you're not easy. and.. if you ever need some practice..  ;)
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Make sure you're going to the right places.  Singles bars are a trap.  While they're a good place to flirt, they're basically a public forum for wham, bam, thankyou ma'am-ism.  Just keep talking to guys one on one and wait to flirt until you've talked to them a few times.  That'll make the statement.
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When a guy smiles at you, smile back. When he asks for your number, if you want to, give it to him. If he asks to buy you a drink, let him. We guys know when you're flirty, and when you're not. Just relax! It's like riding a bike, you NEVER forget how.....and flirting is a whole lot more fun than riding a bike!!
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lmbo - great question!  Flirting is very subtle - there is definitely an art to it & some folks just never get it, no matter what. Gushing is over the top & tends to come across as cheezy, a lot insincere. Flirting will draw you in, make you wanna go down that path, fill your senses with the possibilites of what if & make you quite certain you are the only person in the universe who fills the bill. Gushing tends to run all over the place, making too much noise & will repel someone you wish to draw closer. I prefer to flirt but knowing when the time is right is important, too!
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good for you! .. i think some quiet girls in class like me wants a good relationship and not sex\nif the girl you are with thinks that you want sex, them many you should please them more, with little simple things like noticing anything new like a haircut or an eyebrow trim, give little gifts for every holiday, invite her more to dinners or movies and take her home with a good bye kiss on the cheeck or forehead, etc.. \n\nand this doesn't mean that you are sentitive, it just that you dont like people looking at you the wrong way.\ntry to act more like a GENTLEMAN, and stop flirting with other girls
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Don't ask at first. Hint it. Be more flirty than you usually are. If he feels uncormfortable about, then you'll have to settle with just friends. If he flirts back, then congrats.
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I know what you mean. It's fun to flirt and joke around, even when you're not serious. He might not even be serious either. I'm friends with a lot of guys that act all flirty and say a lot of suggestive things, but we both know that they don't mean it.\n\nAnd no one's saying you have to do whatever it is he's saying.  You can just be a flirt, and if he asks you out, just say yes or no, but if you say yes, simply say, "Alright, I'll go out with you, but keep your hands to yourself for a while, ok?"
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Make & keep eye contact.  \nSmile.  \nTouch his/ her arm while you talk.\nWink at them with a smile if you see them looking at you from across the room.  \nIgnore your cell phone ring & hit silence or send to voice mail while you are talking to the person you are interested in (makes them feel important).\nDance with them.  \nReapply your lip gloss.  \nLook for humor in what the person you're flirting with is saying, and let yourself laugh at his or her jokes if you find them funny.     \nAsk questions about THEM.\nCompliment them.\nUse their name. example:  "Hi Michael!  Then a little later "I like your shirt, Michael."\nPlay with a piece of clothing (i.e. dangling your shoe, playing with an earring, stirring a drink, adjusting your hair, etc.)\nWhisper\nCreate and use nicknames. \nDon't cling.\nDon't fidget.\nDon't gossip.\nBe a good listener.\n\nGosh, it's a whole art & there is so much more & SO MUcH FUN!
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Be interested and involved.\n\nYou can wear all the flirty outfits you want, get a boob job so you have twin zepplins of love and give everyone naked pictures of yourself.\n\nWhen you are involved and interested in whomsoever you want, that counts for a great deal. Confidence is sexy.
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Some woman are obvious, some arn't. I can only say how I flirt because it's not often I have woman hit on me :) \nUsually when I like a man and I want to flirt: My voice will change and become a little more gentle, I will make eye contact with him, sometimes touch his arm or hand, smile alot, giggle (although I hate to giggle but I get "the giggles" when I am nervous), Ask him questions about things he likes, Stand straighter and pull my shoulders back as if to show my chest more (I don't know why, but have caught myself doing that), Touch my own hair alot,  ect...\nHope that helps at least a little.
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be smart, funny, witty and caring and stuff..... do everything but flirt with her... thats when they are on their guard and resist more.... this way, she'll keep wondering why u dont make any advances and be interested in u.... and this is when u make ur move.....sometimes the best way to flirt is not to flirt at all..... and the best trick of all- tease her unmercifully as much as possible without turning her off and without being mean... then spring a small compliment somtimes in the middle of ur conversation. keep the compliments rare and the teasing high.... she'll beg for ur approval after sometime....
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well, to me a good flirt is when i'm hanging out with a friend and you both know it's more, but don't do anything about yet...the more i wait the better it will feel when i finally become an item with the guy.\nAlso:play hard-to get... and make her laugh a lot...be a friend to her, so she'll know you're not going only into her pants...(unless you are)
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Pretending like your not interested.\n     I don't know why, but it works!!!\n             \n                  TRUST ME TRY IT.
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Anything mildly amusing, but vaguely sexual is great for flirting.  A past experience that fits the bill is perfect.\n\nIf you want small-talk instead of flirting, leave  out the sexual part.
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play hard to get, but in a flirtatious way. like say something to make them smile, and keep them guessing your motives. it works because they stay up at night talking to their girlfriends,and playing with the thought of a possible hook up.
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I'm assuming you mean "spice up sexually." The best way I know of is to figure out what the other person's fantasies are and then do your best to make at least some of them become reality.
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Tell U What..dim the lights in ur room,or simply use lots of candles around to create a soft glow in the room. u will get to show what u wanna show without gettin embarrased ! Or if this is still too bold for u, use a sheer curatin, put on seductive music and do a sexy slow dance behind it ! Totally HOT ! all the best girl...